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Speaker 1: It is time to ask the CLO. That is great news.

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Speaker 1: We're going to Beth and Athens CLO. Beth writes, I'm

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Speaker 1: a registered nurse, So my husband wants his mother to

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Speaker 1: come live with us because she has heart issues. I'm

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Speaker 1: not a caretaker and she needs more of a home

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Speaker 1: health type nurse, type of nurse, home health type of nurse.

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Speaker 1: I don't want her living with us. And how do

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Speaker 1: I tell him his mom and his mom this? How

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Speaker 1: do I tell them both this that she doesn't want

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Speaker 1: his mother to live with them?

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Speaker 2: Well, that's a very tough situation. The man don't want

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Speaker 2: to put his mom in a home. That's really I

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Speaker 2: understand that that's a tough one. I understand you a nurse,

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Speaker 2: and you are probably correct in that she needs more care.

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Speaker 2: And I know that they're thinking that since you are

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Speaker 2: a nurse, that would be enough. But it's going to

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Speaker 2: be hard. You come off work to go to work. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: you know, you finally get off work and then you

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Speaker 2: come home and you got to do all this.

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Speaker 3: I think.

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Speaker 2: I think you're gonna have to sit your husband down

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Speaker 2: and talk with him.

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Speaker 3: Now.

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Speaker 2: She ready to come over there because she get her boy,

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Speaker 2: and you know, she get to be around people she know.

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Speaker 2: But you know, I've seen some people take their parents

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Speaker 2: and put them in a home. Yeah, I've seen them

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Speaker 2: do that. I'm at that age where I know a

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Speaker 2: lot of those people. Listen, I don't like to play

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Speaker 2: right with nobody's mama. So I really I can't help you.

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Speaker 3: I don't. I don't know what to tell you. I can't.

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Speaker 1: If they can afford it, should they get home health care?

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Speaker 2: Do you think, well, she don't want the mama stay

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Speaker 2: in there. That ain't who who watching her? Ain't the

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Speaker 2: wishing the letter? She don't want them mama staying there?

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Speaker 1: Well I thought it was because she didn't want to

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Speaker 1: take care of the mom.

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Speaker 2: Okay, well that's true too, But she also don't want

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Speaker 2: her dad.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you know that's a tough one.

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Speaker 2: That is a tough one, and I don't want to

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Speaker 2: do no jokes on it, which I have, but I'm

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Speaker 2: not I.

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Speaker 3: Don't want to do that. Let's go on.

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Speaker 1: How about we just move on? How about that? Uh?

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Speaker 1: This one's from Dedra and Bethesda.

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Speaker 2: What I really want to say is, Mama gonna have

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Speaker 2: to go down here and meet some new friends.

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Speaker 1: But you can't say that okay.

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Speaker 3: I know.

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Speaker 2: That's why I wanted to stop, you know, because I

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Speaker 2: didn't want to you.

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Speaker 1: Know, I have moved on, sir.

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Speaker 2: I didn't want to start telling her about old people

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Speaker 2: water aerobics and you know bingo night and you.

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Speaker 3: Know water aerobics, golf time and all this here. You know.

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Speaker 2: All old people, old women learned how to task off

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Speaker 2: run they different ways.

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Speaker 1: Hm hmm. We've moved on again. I'll say that to Deirdre.

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Speaker 3: And you know teenagers they wait. He knows, he knows.

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Speaker 1: Deirdre in Bethesday writes, it was raining really hard, so

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Speaker 1: I stopped at my best friend's house till it stopped.

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Speaker 1: My husband kept calling me and he tried to FaceTime me.

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Speaker 1: I ignored his calls and treated him like he treats me

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Speaker 1: when he's out he's mad. Was that wrong for being petty?

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Speaker 2: Who is your best friend?

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Speaker 1: Exactly? But she picked a crazy time and it was

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Speaker 1: raining heavy and all that to not ignore him, I mean.

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Speaker 3: To ignore him.

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Speaker 2: Tell you right now, your best frien him couldn't have

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Speaker 2: been Tommy, because you're not getting a hit house.

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Speaker 3: Because and enlightening.

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Speaker 2: He locked up somewhere, he got a time, he got

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Speaker 2: a bunk at his house.

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Speaker 1: He does not like thunderstorm.

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Speaker 2: Thought about it, but you know you was you know,

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Speaker 2: you know you was out of line for that because

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Speaker 2: you know, bad weather. You think in trying to check

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Speaker 2: on you and then you you this ain't the time

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Speaker 2: to play tick for tag game.

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Speaker 1: He was probably checking on her to make sure she

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Speaker 1: was okay. Wow, all right. Moving on to Christine and Oaklawn,

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Speaker 1: Christine writes, my husband went to hear a band play

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Speaker 1: on Saturday. He was tagged in a picture that said, quote,

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Speaker 1: thanks for the bottle.

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Speaker 3: He said.

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Speaker 1: It was a girl's thirtieth birthday, so he bought a

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Speaker 1: bottle of champagne. Why was my fifty two year old

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Speaker 1: husband being so nice?

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Speaker 3: Because that's what That's what.

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Speaker 2: First of all, I knew he was old when you

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Speaker 2: said he went to see a band, because young people

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Speaker 2: don't go see bands because they don't have nothing. He

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Speaker 2: down there, he had the Holiday Inn Express because the

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Speaker 2: Imperial Wonders was down there. What's the name of the

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Speaker 2: They're Imperial Wonders.

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Speaker 1: We're back in the seventies now, man.

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Speaker 3: They cover all their hits all around the world.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, they know all the jail And he does send

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Speaker 2: a bottle over there, yeah, over the now over that

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Speaker 2: jam and all of them got on the two of

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Speaker 2: them wearing that uh the Larry Blackman jockey on the

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Speaker 2: outside of their playing harder to see it.

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Speaker 3: So their stomachs is comedy, okay, all right? So why

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Speaker 3: did he send her the bottle? Because you know he's

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Speaker 3: he saw that in the movie. See, we're not we're

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Speaker 3: not really.

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Speaker 2: From the era of sending bottles. We send you a drink,

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Speaker 2: but we're from that era. I ain't never bought no

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Speaker 2: wol in a bottle. My whole life a bottle.

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Speaker 3: He saw that in a movie.

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Speaker 2: You know, he was watching Netflix and saw one of

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Speaker 2: them specials or something, sent a bottle over there and

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Speaker 2: got tagged in the picture.

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Speaker 3: All right, all right?

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Speaker 1: Moving on to Quentin and Jacksonville, Quentin writes, my son

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Speaker 1: plays basketball and one of the other moms has been

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Speaker 1: d ming me. I saw her at the game and

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Speaker 1: we went to her car. Her skill set was trash.

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Speaker 1: It wasn't what I thought it would be. I'm never

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Speaker 1: doing that again, so can I tell her it was bad?

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Speaker 3: Her car?

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Speaker 1: To her car.

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Speaker 3: Was what was his name? That wrote the.

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Speaker 1: Letter Quentin in Jacksonville.

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Speaker 2: Scared me for a minute, I thought you said wintery nobody.

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Speaker 2: Come on, boy, you don't write your day show.

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Speaker 3: Right in the car.

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Speaker 2: Her skill sort was trash, Yeah probably. Why don't you

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Speaker 2: just quit asking d M S tho. Yeah yeah, all right,

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Speaker 2: you got to tell her nothing.

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Speaker 1: You're listening hard morning show