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Speaker 1: It's awkward Tuesday. It's awkward Tuesday phone call, Brooke.

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Speaker 2: I want you to think back to when you got engaged,

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Speaker 2: and you need to think about it before pulling out

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Speaker 2: the old black and white home video that she took cousin.

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Speaker 1: It was a long, long time ago.

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Speaker 3: Okay, listen. It was on an iPhone, Thank you very much.

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Speaker 1: The original. Wow. Oh my god.

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Speaker 2: What I need to know is how quickly did the

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Speaker 2: initial excitement of the engagement wear off?

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Speaker 3: Oh? God, it did. I was excited the entire time.

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Speaker 1: Excited.

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Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, I know that's what you say. But really,

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Speaker 2: when did it start to be like, oh, I don't know.

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Speaker 3: No, there was never an I don't know. I was

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Speaker 3: so excited.

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Speaker 1: She's all right, she's not going to tell the truth here.

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Speaker 2: I only asked because for our guest today, the excitement

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Speaker 2: wore off almost instantly, and that's why she needs our

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Speaker 2: help today. Let's welcome Andrea to the show. Andrea, how

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Speaker 2: you doing?

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Speaker 1: Hey?

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Speaker 4: All right?

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Speaker 5: Oh girl, that was an interest. Jeffrey, did you say yes?

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Speaker 5: Are you still engaged?

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Speaker 3: Yes?

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Speaker 1: Okay, well congratulations.

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Speaker 3: I think that's what we say right now. Yeah, I

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Speaker 3: don't know.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I wasn't expecting this first and foremost.

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Speaker 3: Okay, you weren't expecting the proposal.

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Speaker 1: I was not.

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Speaker 3: I was not, okay, okay, okay, out of the blue.

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Speaker 4: So yeah, and it just happened. Just got proposed to

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Speaker 4: by my boyfriend this two years.

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Speaker 6: Yeah.

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Speaker 5: I mean, that's it's a good timeline to get engaged.

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Speaker 2: I feel like a lot of people tend to get

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Speaker 2: engaged around that period.

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Speaker 3: It sounds like you two weren't talking that way.

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Speaker 4: No, because the way we have been talking, he was

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Speaker 4: giving me the impression that he wanted to wait just

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Speaker 4: like a little.

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Speaker 7: Bit longer, you know.

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Speaker 4: Interesting, Okay, the way that it happened, and just the

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Speaker 4: whole moment of it all. And I'm so happy in spite,

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Speaker 4: I said, yes, of course, And okay.

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Speaker 3: You were so happy. Why are we using past tense.

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Speaker 8: You said it like that, yes of course.

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Speaker 4: No, no, no, no, no, let me be clear, like I'm thrilled,

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Speaker 4: like I'm absolutely stoked about it. It's just there's a

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Speaker 4: slight problem. So he wants us to get married within

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Speaker 4: six months.

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Speaker 3: Who I mean, that's not it's not crazy crazy, but no, no, no,

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Speaker 3: it's quick.

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Speaker 4: It's not the timeline that's the problem.

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Speaker 6: Let me be clear for the little that it's.

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Speaker 4: Oh, it's because I'm actually kind of already married.

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Speaker 3: What You're already married? What?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I'm kind of already just kind of kind.

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Speaker 1: Of already who is already? What the heck?

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Speaker 3: I thought you were gonna say pregnant or something. I'm

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Speaker 3: letting you handle that handled What do you mean you're married?

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Speaker 4: So a few years ago, pretty beating my boyfriend Darren,

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Speaker 4: I was on a friend's bachelor trip. I went to

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Speaker 4: the Atlantic City. Yeah, we're doing the casinos, the nightclubs,

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Speaker 4: we did the booze cruises, the whole should bang, just

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Speaker 6: On the booth cruise.

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Speaker 3: We met this group of guys.

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Speaker 6: They were really cute and fun and they hung.

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Speaker 4: Out with us all night. So, like, I ended up.

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Speaker 6: Really hitting it off with one of those guys.

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Speaker 5: I did not see this coming, and he went straight

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Speaker 4: I'm not quite sure why, other than the alcohol.

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Speaker 6: We just was a good idea.

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Speaker 4: But we came across like this little place that basically

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Speaker 4: did like Jersey Shore themed wedding.

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Speaker 7: He thought it'd be hilarious, obviously, so we go.

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Speaker 4: And they put this poly d hair on, the guy who's.

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Speaker 6: Like I feel like the pastor the fish theater.

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Speaker 4: And they had me rub a bunch of stakes, pray tan.

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Speaker 1: On with I see, keeping with the Jersey shore theme.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, detailed Jim tan laundry, Jeff, get with it.

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Speaker 4: They married us and apparently it was official and it's real.

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Speaker 4: And the next day I was so embarrassed, obviously so

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Speaker 1: Oh wait, you didn't even get to do a honeymoon

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Speaker 4: No, no, no, oh my god. Listen. And as as

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Speaker 4: I planned, I always planned to get annulled or I

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Speaker 4: don't know what you what do you do?

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I've never been married.

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Speaker 3: Will you handle it right away? You don't wait four

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Speaker 3: years to deal with it? Are you saying that you're

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Speaker 3: legally married to the kid guy?

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Speaker 5: You don't even probably know, well, you know his name

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Speaker 5: because you had de signed legal documents together, but you have.

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Speaker 1: To look on that document to remember his name. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: she lost that document.

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Speaker 2: So now we're now we're back to where we are

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Speaker 2: today with your fiance that you just agreed to married.

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Speaker 1: He does not know any of that stuff.

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Speaker 4: No, no, no, no, wow, Okay, this is so hard. And

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Speaker 4: the thing is is like, because I asked him, you know, look,

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Speaker 4: can we pulled off on the six months?

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Speaker 6: He thinks that I'm having second thoughts, I'm not well.

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Speaker 5: So that will be good news to him that you're

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Speaker 5: not having second thoughts.

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Speaker 1: You're just already married. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: If anything, he'll be relieved because you've already done this before,

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Speaker 2: so that you have to take no money.

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Speaker 1: It's not wet feet. I am enveloped, freezing.

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Speaker 9: Is she?

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Speaker 5: Are you asking for our help in calling your fiance

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Speaker 5: and dropping this bomb?

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Speaker 6: Yes? Please?

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Speaker 4: I need to figure out how do I say this

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Speaker 4: without ruining the relation.

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Speaker 1: Are we trying to spin this into a positive here?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: I feel we're trying to spend this into whatever she wants.

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Speaker 3: What do you want, dude? It's pretty wild. It's been

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Speaker 3: two years and with this guy.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: Never I want to marry.

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Speaker 2: I know, I know, I still feel for your ex

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Speaker 1: But in the meantime, we're gonna call.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, in the meantime, let's focus on your current fiance.

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Speaker 2: We'll come back, give you some advice and let you

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Speaker 2: tell him that you're already technically kind of married.

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Speaker 3: I do understand the kind of marriage. Yeah, like it is.

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Speaker 3: I don't like the theme. I think you should keep

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Speaker 2: We'll deliver to the news lightly when we come back

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Speaker 2: with your awkward Tuesday phone call right after this.

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Speaker 1: It's awkward.

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Speaker 3: It's Tuesday.

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Speaker 1: It's awkward Tuesday phone call.

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Speaker 2: It's the dreaded conversation everybody has to have, at least once,

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Speaker 2: really telling your significant other you drunkenly got married in

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Speaker 2: Atlantic City to a total stranger years ago and meant

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Speaker 2: to annull it but just never found the time.

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Speaker 1: Whoop.

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Speaker 2: See gosh, we've all been there, right, Alexis.

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Speaker 4: I can't wait for my time to come.

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Speaker 1: Actually happened for you soon.

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Speaker 2: But it is urgent for our listener Andrea, though, because

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Speaker 2: her boyfriend just proposed and she said yes.

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Speaker 1: He still has no idea that.

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Speaker 2: She can't marry him because she already technically is married,

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Speaker 2: at least for the moment, and that's the difficult task

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Speaker 2: that she's given us today. Help her figure out the

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Speaker 2: best way to drop that bomb on her now fiance

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Speaker 2: and still be in the relationship with him after the conversation.

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Speaker 1: It's a tough one, but luckily we.

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Speaker 2: Have our expert love guru Jose to give us some

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Speaker 2: genius advice.

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Speaker 1: Jose, what do you think marriage?

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Speaker 8: Yeah, well, look the way you told us at first

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Speaker 8: that you're kinda already married, and then the story, Yeah

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Speaker 8: you remember that.

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Speaker 1: Do the exact opposite.

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Speaker 3: Of that, right, Okay, I'm with you on that line.

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Speaker 8: I would calmly tell him the weird situation, the fun weekend,

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Speaker 8: got married.

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Speaker 1: Okay, understand.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, because when you first heard that M word dropped,

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Speaker 5: you're like, excuse.

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Speaker 1: Me, Well, yeah, that makes sense. Brooke. What do you think?

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Speaker 5: Well, I mean you've got to remember your fiance is

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Speaker 3: You love him so much.

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Speaker 5: You can't wait to get married, and just ask him

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Speaker 3: I do need some legal help though, to make that happen.

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Speaker 5: More like a legal document that you accidentally signed.

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Speaker 6: You know.

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Speaker 1: That's actually pretty decent advice. Yeah, you're just a marriage girly.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, well how does that sound?

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Speaker 1: Andrew?

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Speaker 2: Can you pull maybe both those things off, weave it

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Speaker 4: I can attend to do both, but I think the

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Speaker 4: legal tidbit will help. Yeah, segway to where I can

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Speaker 1: I feel good about this.

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Speaker 6: All right.

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Speaker 2: We've got some tools that we've given you to use.

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Speaker 2: We're going to step away and make the call, and

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Speaker 2: we'll be here ready to jump in case you need help.

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Speaker 2: I doubt you're gonna need that. This call is going

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Speaker 1: I bet it always does. It certainly does. Here we go,

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Speaker 6: Okay, okay, thanks, Hello, Hey, s it's me, Oh Susan

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Speaker 6: your number?

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Speaker 7: No, I know, you know.

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Speaker 6: I'm just doing my surprise calls.

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Speaker 4: How are you doing?

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Speaker 7: So far? So good? No complaint?

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Speaker 3: Good, good good.

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Speaker 4: You know, I just daren I first fault. I'm still

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Speaker 4: on cloud nine thinking about the proposal.

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Speaker 6: Bet down on my knee. And you did that Mickey

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Speaker 6: Mouse forice, and you know, because the.

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Speaker 4: Ur a Disney World trip and it's just also sweet,

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Speaker 4: like I'm just but's so sweet.

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Speaker 6: Oh oh man?

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Speaker 7: Okay, and so what's going on? You sound nervous? Is

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Speaker 4: Yeah, everything's fine, I just you know, I want to

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Speaker 4: clarify that. I know I've been asking for you to

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Speaker 4: it's not cold syat Okay, Like I need you to understand,

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Speaker 4: like we're getting married.

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Speaker 6: I want to marry.

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Speaker 4: You, all right.

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Speaker 6: I've never been more excited about anything. Okay.

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Speaker 7: I was worried for a second. I thought maybe I

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Speaker 4: But no, no, Darren, No not too perfect.

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Speaker 4: You're like at you know, star trek speed with me,

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Speaker 4: and that's great.

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Speaker 6: We're right there.

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Speaker 9: It's not bad.

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Speaker 4: It's just before we get to the actual planning of

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Speaker 6: I just need to get some legal advice.

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Speaker 7: Legal advice. Are you talking about a prenup?

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Speaker 4: No, Derek, I'm not talking about a prenup because.

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Speaker 7: I know I know your dad. He doesn't really like

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Speaker 7: me all that much. Nothing to do with my dad

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Speaker 7: doesn't think I'm serious. You know, I'm not after your

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Speaker 7: family's money, right, Like, that's I love you. That's why

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Speaker 7: I want to marry I know that.

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Speaker 6: See, I know that. I just don't even know how

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Speaker 4: This to you.

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Speaker 6: Okay, I can just kill me.

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Speaker 4: Well I'm trying to, but long story short if you will.

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Speaker 4: It was a batthreat party Atlantic City and Polly d

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Speaker 7: And d, Yes, you hooked up with poly D.

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Speaker 4: No, no, I got married by poly d.

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Speaker 7: I'm sorry.

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Speaker 4: Well no, not by poly d actually, so it was.

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Speaker 7: No, so.

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Speaker 4: There was a guy who was dressed as poly D.

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Speaker 4: It was a jersey short scened chapel if you will.

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Speaker 4: In short, darn, I am technically already married.

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Speaker 1: I'm joke. That was so that went off the rails there?

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Speaker 7: What is going on here?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Darren, So what's happening is you're on a radio

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Speaker 2: show right now called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: welcome to our show. This is something we do called

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Speaker 2: an awkward Tuesday phone call.

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Speaker 1: And you're good.

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Speaker 7: Yeah that checks out.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Well, we.

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Speaker 2: Figured this would be kind of a strange conversation because

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Speaker 2: Andrew wasn't sure the right way to tell you what

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Speaker 7: I'm still confused.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I would imagine that was a lot of information

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Speaker 5: for you.

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Speaker 3: Do you spell it out?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? Maybe I'm gonna try and explain it as quickly

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Speaker 2: as possible. Basically on a bachelorette trip before she ever

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Speaker 2: met you. She ended up drunkenly meeting this guy and

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Speaker 2: marrying him on a beach.

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Speaker 3: No, it was a chapel.

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Speaker 1: Whatever it was in the Atlantic City.

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Speaker 2: I really romanticized the.

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Speaker 9: I was like, you made it sound like something like

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Speaker 3: I mean, it was a real wedding, but it kind of,

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Speaker 3: you know, was a joke. It was a joke that

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Speaker 2: Long story short, she is still technically married, but needs

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Speaker 3: So that's where the legal advice came in.

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Speaker 7: Oh, is this real? Like you're not messing with me? Right,

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Speaker 7: You're actual.

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Speaker 4: I'm married and I'm serious and gets to you. But

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Speaker 4: to be clear, you know, it meant nothing, Like my

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Speaker 4: family wasn't there, my friends weren't there, nobody knew. We

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Speaker 4: stuck off to this like dirty short thing as a joke.

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Speaker 4: Like it meant nothing. I have no recollection of it.

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Speaker 1: Well, it meant something to the guy addressed as poly

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Speaker 1: d I'm sure.

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Speaker 3: But the officiant, yeah, no, he did it.

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Speaker 1: That's his job.

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Speaker 3: I mean, Darren, she hasn't even seen her now hust.

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Speaker 5: Trying to be funny, Darren. I should have she she

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Speaker 6: So that's why I need legal advice.

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Speaker 4: You knows I can get this taken care of and

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Speaker 4: so that we can get married because I love you, darn.

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Speaker 7: It's very sweet. But that is a big secret to keep.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, no, I know, And I was honestly a little

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Speaker 4: I thought you were going to wait at least another

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Speaker 1: So in a way, it's kind of your fault.

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Speaker 7: That I guess. It's good to know that's why you're hesitant.

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Speaker 7: I thought you weren't sure. I thought something had gone wrong.

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Speaker 7: I thought I overstepped. Yeah, that I went.

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Speaker 6: Wrong was like four years ago.

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Speaker 2: She is so sure that she wants to marry you

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Speaker 2: that I will marry the two of you as a

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Speaker 3: You're a terrible officient.

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Speaker 2: Just because the two weddings I officiated both ended divorce

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Speaker 1: About my.

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Speaker 7: I appreciate the thought. I'm gonna take a path on that.

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Speaker 4: Though, really I have to get divorced first, you know,

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Speaker 4: I mean, I don't want to come at a crime

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Speaker 3: You know what, though, you.

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Speaker 5: Could just yeah, you can just put that into the

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Speaker 3: Divorce the first husband.

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Speaker 2: I'm sure that pauly d guy would like to do

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Speaker 5: My guess he has a pretty open schedule, not a

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Speaker 1: Now, Darren, are you okay?

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Speaker 2: Like do you do you understand that just a few

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Speaker 7: I've got some clarity now, at least I know what's

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Speaker 7: going on, and I think you and I can move

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Speaker 3: Oh that's.

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Speaker 6: Oh my god, darn you.

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Speaker 7: I have no idea how happy that makes me. I'm

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Speaker 7: just I'm glad I get to marry you.

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Speaker 1: I'm glad I get to marry you. Guys. That's why by.

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Speaker 2: The power vested in, Jeffrey Stott steals my thunder once

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Speaker 2: again

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Speaker 3: Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning