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Speaker 1: First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys

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Speaker 2: Chris Anne is on the phone today for our first

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Speaker 2: Day follow up. She's getting ghosted by a guy named

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Speaker 2: Jake that she really likes. So in a few minutes

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Speaker 2: we're gonna call him see if you'll tell us why

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Speaker 2: he's ghosting her and maybe get her another date. But first,

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Speaker 2: chris Ane, how long has it been since you heard

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Speaker 2: from Jake.

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Speaker 3: It's been a week since we since he texted me back,

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Speaker 3: since the first date, or like the day after the date, I.

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Speaker 4: Texted him and it's been a week since he responded

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Speaker 4: to me.

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Speaker 1: So what did you say? What did you text him

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Speaker 1: after the date?

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Speaker 3: I just said, like I thanked him for the date,

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Speaker 3: that I had a great time and wanted to set

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Speaker 3: up another date and asked if he wanted to do

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Speaker 3: it again. Then he responded he had fun and that

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Speaker 3: he would let me know, and that was it. He

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Speaker 3: didn't say anything after that, I mean, not a peep.

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Speaker 3: And it was just I mean, it's I know, it's

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Speaker 3: weird because when we had our date, like the week

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Speaker 3: before we had our date, we were talking every day

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Speaker 3: and like you know, it's actually having some kind of

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Speaker 3: communication every day, and so for him to just go

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Speaker 3: completely silent, like it feels really.

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Speaker 4: Off and I feel like there's something wrong.

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Speaker 1: Okay, let's go back to the date. What did you

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Speaker 1: guys do?

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Speaker 4: We went to a Mexican spot. He took me to

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Speaker 4: Mexicans spot and we caught up.

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Speaker 3: We had Margarita's and eight tacos, and I saw it

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Speaker 3: went amazingly.

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Speaker 4: Our spark was there instantly, And.

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Speaker 3: I've always had a thing for Jake and then like

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Speaker 3: running into made me feel like this whole thing was

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Speaker 3: meant to be, and like the date went super well.

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Speaker 3: We were laughing the whole time and like talking about

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Speaker 3: all these new restaurants that we wanted to go and

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Speaker 3: try together, and I mean he seemed very genuinely interested

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Speaker 3: in like he felt the same way.

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Speaker 5: Well, I think we have to bag up a second.

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Speaker 5: How did you guys meet then? If you've always had

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Speaker 5: a thing for him?

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Speaker 3: Oh, we met probably about five years ago at a

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Speaker 3: at air a friend's birthday party.

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Speaker 4: But at the time, yeah, we we were both.

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Speaker 3: In relationships at that time, so obviously, like nothing came

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Speaker 3: for it. We kind of just have been friends on

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Speaker 3: and off for the past five years, and then a

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Speaker 3: few weeks ago, I ran into him at and we

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Speaker 3: just kind of got to talking as we're walking around,

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Speaker 3: and we both realized that we weren't in a relationship anymore, so.

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Speaker 6: We were both single.

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Speaker 3: We decided that we should go on a date, and

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Speaker 3: he asked if I wanted to go out sometime, and

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Speaker 3: I said, yeah, I'd be interested, and kind of just

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Speaker 5: Wow, I know, I love that. I love that, except

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Speaker 5: for the fact that he might be ghosting me.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm nervous that I did something wrong or.

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Speaker 4: Like said something wrong.

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Speaker 3: But I don't know why you wouldn't say anything to me,

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Speaker 3: or like, at least tell me why he's not responding

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Speaker 3: or if he's not interested, just like telling me what happened.

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Speaker 5: So is there anything on the date that may have

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Speaker 5: happened that you think could be why?

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Speaker 4: The only thing I could think of is I called

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Speaker 4: him bro at one point. It's just like slaying that

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Speaker 4: I use.

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Speaker 3: I didn't mean it to be like, you know, friend

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Speaker 3: zoning him or anything, but I don't know. I kept

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Speaker 3: like WHOA, Like no way, I didn't I can't believe they.

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Speaker 4: Said that, Like, yeah, that's the only thing I can

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Speaker 3: Might have been a little bit off putting and maybe

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Speaker 1: Would that make you feel weird? If calling you bro

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Speaker 1: actually think I would be cool? I don't know.

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Speaker 2: It's kind of attractive to me, just kind of like

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Speaker 2: laid back, like you wouldn't feel friend zoned. No, I would,

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Speaker 2: But you're also insanely confident, So yeah, that's true too.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, yeah.

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Speaker 3: Maybe that is like I was just trying to think

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Speaker 3: it's the only thing I could think of maybe that

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Speaker 4: I just I want to know.

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Speaker 6: I want to know what I did.

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Speaker 2: All right, Yeah, we'll see, we'll play a song, come

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Speaker 2: back and then call him and see if you'll tell

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Speaker 2: us why is ghosting you? And maybe get to another date.

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Speaker 1: Okay, okay, okay, we'll be here first.

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Speaker 2: Follow up next, right, in the middle of your first date,

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Speaker 2: follow up and if you're just joining us. Christanne is

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Speaker 2: on the phone and she's getting ghosted by a guy

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Speaker 2: named Jake. So in a second, we're going to call

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Speaker 2: him and see if you'll tell us why he's ghosting

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Speaker 2: her and maybe get her another date. But first, Chrissane,

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Speaker 2: why don't you catch everybody up on your situation?

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Speaker 6: Uh?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, So I went on a date with guy Jake,

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Speaker 3: who I've known for five years that we were in

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Speaker 3: relationships recently, so we recently ran into each other and

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Speaker 3: found out we were single.

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Speaker 4: Now and decided to go on a date.

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Speaker 3: We had a great date at a Mexican restaurant, a

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Speaker 3: lot of laughing tacos, margarita, had a great time. And

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Speaker 3: then when I followed up with him the next day

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Speaker 3: and I wanted to sit up the second date, he

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Speaker 3: didn't really, He said, let me know, the only thing

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Speaker 3: I can possibly think of that might have gone wrong

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Speaker 3: is that I said bro a lot.

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Speaker 4: I called him bro, and maybe you thought he was

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Speaker 4: friend zoned or off put by that.

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Speaker 1: We'll see. Okay, are you ready for us to call him? Yeah? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: all right, here we go. Hi, I'm asking to Jake. Please.

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Speaker 6: This is Jake.

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Speaker 1: Hey, Jake, what's up?

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Speaker 2: Man?

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Speaker 1: How are you?

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Speaker 2: My name is Jubel and I'm calling from a radio show.

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Speaker 2: It's called The Jewbel Show.

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Speaker 1: Shows here Jake. I'm Nina. Hi, I'm Victoria. How are you.

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Speaker 6: I'm doing good. You have a good voice for radio.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, this is my radio voice. My other voice is weird.

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Speaker 2: You should hear it right clear? Yeah. Have you ever

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Speaker 2: listened to the show before.

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Speaker 6: I'm pretty sure I have. I reckon, I think I

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Speaker 2: Well, we do a segment on the show, so it's

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Speaker 2: called the first Day follow Up. That's where if you

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Speaker 2: go on a date with somebody and you end up

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Speaker 2: ghosting them, they can email us to get you on

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Speaker 2: the phone and ask why you're ghosting them. So we

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Speaker 2: got an email about you from somebody.

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Speaker 6: I think I have an idea who that would be.

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Speaker 6: I didn't involve christ Hanne.

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Speaker 1: Yes, So are you intentionally ghosting her?

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Speaker 6: Well, I mean all cards on the table. It's not

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Speaker 6: like bad or anything like that. I'm not gonna, you know,

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Speaker 6: we I guess she told you we went on a

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Speaker 6: on the date. But Christanne lives with her ex. Oh

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Speaker 6: though he's her ex, which is also a REDI flag

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Speaker 6: like I'm I'm legit looking to connect with somebody. I'm

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Speaker 6: looking for something serious, you know, And now there's an

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Speaker 5: If you knew that before the date. Let's just say

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Speaker 5: you knew ahead of time, would you have still gone.

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Speaker 6: No, because you're living with somebody you dated. And I

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Speaker 6: It's just like there's like a lot of stuff, stuff

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Speaker 1: How is she hiding stuff?

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Speaker 6: Like he didn't want me to drop her off? Did she?

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Speaker 6: She literally like tried to sneak in, like why doing

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Speaker 5: I get where Jake is coming from though, because you

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Speaker 5: So maybe maybe we just got to find out like

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Speaker 5: if this is long term, like if she moved out tomorrow?

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Speaker 1: Would you still would you want to see her?

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Speaker 6: That was the issue, Like the issue is that she

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Speaker 6: about like another guy who gets jealous, and it's just

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Speaker 6: like I don't want to deal with any of that.

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Speaker 1: I get that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah that makes sense, Jake. Why don't you just talk

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Speaker 2: to her about it? She's on the phone listing and

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Speaker 2: wants to talk to you.

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Speaker 3: Yes?

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Speaker 4: She is? All right?

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Speaker 6: Did she hear everything?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yep.

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Speaker 6: Well yeah that was the issue, and it was kind

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Speaker 6: of and I don't think it's like a small issue, honestly.

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Speaker 6: It just was like a lot for me to you know,

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Speaker 3: Well, I wish he'd just said something rather than just

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Speaker 1: I mean, like I get that it's.

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Speaker 3: A weird living with him, but it's totally just out

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Speaker 3: of a need to save money, Like we're friends, we're

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Speaker 4: But yeah, if it's got the deal.

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Speaker 3: You to keep us from moving forward, know that it's

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Speaker 6: What is forever?

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Speaker 5: Men?

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Speaker 6: Like how like months? Years?

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Speaker 5: You know?

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Speaker 4: I mean maybe a couple of months until we can.

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Speaker 3: Both figure out like where our next living situation is

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Speaker 6: I mean, so two things, Like one, I really think

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Speaker 6: I just don't want to deal with an ex boyfriend

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Speaker 6: because we're like we're we're not being our throughselves, you

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Speaker 6: know what I mean we're geting stuff and like you know,

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, I don't know. I'm interested in you.

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Speaker 3: I feel like we have a really great time, and

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Speaker 4: It's not necessary.

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Speaker 3: It's like he's not part of my life's in that

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Speaker 4: So if that's like the.

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Speaker 3: Biggest deal at something that can be worked around, I mean, a.

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Speaker 6: Couple of months, isn't that bad because now there's like

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Speaker 6: like who We're not going to be complete until like this.

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Speaker 6: You know, for me, at least in my end, I'm

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Speaker 6: there's the point where we can actually just be ourselves independently.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, no, I get that. I mean, I'll move my.

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Speaker 3: Parents' house, honestly, if that's that big of a deal.

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Speaker 3: I just I really really had a great time with

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Speaker 1: Wow.

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Speaker 2: Willing to move for you? Yeah, would you like to

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Speaker 2: go on another day with Chrisanne. We'll pay for it.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, Christiana, I'm kind of blown away that you would

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Speaker 6: even like do that says a lot and it makes

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Speaker 6: me think that, you know, maybe I should fight a

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'd love to like fight her boyfriend or expert.

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Speaker 6: Friends avoid that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, definitely. Well, congratulations Chris Hane, you got another date.

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Speaker 4: Thank you.

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Speaker 1: You do have to live with your parents now, but

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Speaker 1: you did get another date. Hey man, you're saying money

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Speaker 1: that way.

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Speaker 4: My parents are great. It's fine.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I'll take them over your eyes

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Speaker 1: Would first day follow up