1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:02,679 Speaker 1: Welcome to How the Money. I'm Joel and I'm Matt, 2 00:00:02,759 --> 00:00:06,720 Speaker 1: and today we're discussing savings to the Moon, dodging debt collectors, 3 00:00:06,800 --> 00:00:28,520 Speaker 1: and Stingy Shack. And when you say Stingy Shock, you 4 00:00:28,560 --> 00:00:32,519 Speaker 1: mean sin Stingy Shaquille O'Neil, that's the actual individual. Uh. 5 00:00:32,600 --> 00:00:35,360 Speaker 1: We're gonna talk about twenty one shoes and all that. 6 00:00:35,520 --> 00:00:38,120 Speaker 1: Fella Shaq is he's like our patron saint. We've talked 7 00:00:38,120 --> 00:00:39,800 Speaker 1: about him on the show a few times and we're 8 00:00:39,800 --> 00:00:41,680 Speaker 1: gonna get to a story later on about him. We've 9 00:00:41,720 --> 00:00:43,879 Speaker 1: got several headlines that we're gonna get to during this episode, 10 00:00:43,880 --> 00:00:46,280 Speaker 1: and we're gonna talk about how they apply to you 11 00:00:46,360 --> 00:00:49,440 Speaker 1: and your money. But first we are having a beer 12 00:00:49,479 --> 00:00:52,040 Speaker 1: hang to nights. Uh. If you're listening to this the 13 00:00:52,120 --> 00:00:54,640 Speaker 1: day we released it, which is Friday, November five, we 14 00:00:54,760 --> 00:00:58,040 Speaker 1: are hanging out at Monday Night Garage at p M. 15 00:00:58,320 --> 00:01:01,280 Speaker 1: Two nights, and we hope to see you there. I 16 00:01:01,320 --> 00:01:03,920 Speaker 1: know a lot of y'all are across the country and 17 00:01:04,080 --> 00:01:05,960 Speaker 1: you listen to us, but we know some listeners are 18 00:01:05,959 --> 00:01:07,679 Speaker 1: here in Atlanta, and so we hope to meet some 19 00:01:07,720 --> 00:01:11,040 Speaker 1: of you in person in real life. I'm not expecting 20 00:01:11,040 --> 00:01:13,320 Speaker 1: our Canadian and Australian listeners to hop on a plane 21 00:01:14,000 --> 00:01:16,600 Speaker 1: and get here by this evening, but hopefully looking forward 22 00:01:16,600 --> 00:01:18,840 Speaker 1: to meeting some of you listeners tonight and Monday night 23 00:01:18,880 --> 00:01:23,280 Speaker 1: garage and that'll be Yeah. Like Matt said at seven, Uh, Matt, 24 00:01:23,319 --> 00:01:25,200 Speaker 1: I just want to mention to last week we talked 25 00:01:25,240 --> 00:01:29,639 Speaker 1: about my potentially ridiculous decision to buy a World Series ticket, 26 00:01:30,040 --> 00:01:33,120 Speaker 1: and now the Braves have won the World Series, my friend, 27 00:01:33,200 --> 00:01:35,720 Speaker 1: and you can say that you were there. I think 28 00:01:35,800 --> 00:01:38,720 Speaker 1: I really think my presence did it for us. But well, 29 00:01:38,840 --> 00:01:41,679 Speaker 1: and we finished up actually in Houston in six games, 30 00:01:41,760 --> 00:01:45,160 Speaker 1: a dominant win. And I will say it was worth it. 31 00:01:45,160 --> 00:01:46,800 Speaker 1: It was worth the money, worth every penny to get 32 00:01:46,800 --> 00:01:48,160 Speaker 1: to be at that World Series game. It was a 33 00:01:48,160 --> 00:01:50,320 Speaker 1: lot of fun, great vibes going on. Yeah, I mean 34 00:01:50,400 --> 00:01:52,440 Speaker 1: the place where the Braves play, it's kind of out 35 00:01:52,480 --> 00:01:54,400 Speaker 1: in the Bourbs. Now, we kind of we haven't really 36 00:01:54,440 --> 00:01:56,080 Speaker 1: talked about this on the show, but I used to 37 00:01:56,120 --> 00:01:57,880 Speaker 1: bike to a whole lot of games and I just 38 00:01:57,880 --> 00:02:00,120 Speaker 1: don't really go to as many, nearly as many as 39 00:02:00,120 --> 00:02:02,240 Speaker 1: I used to. We I mean we would go together 40 00:02:02,320 --> 00:02:03,800 Speaker 1: like we did a lot, like Kate and I would 41 00:02:03,800 --> 00:02:06,280 Speaker 1: even bike to go see the Braves play because you 42 00:02:06,280 --> 00:02:08,200 Speaker 1: could pick up tickets for like five bucks. Oh, it 43 00:02:08,280 --> 00:02:09,880 Speaker 1: was so much cheaper to go to a game back then, 44 00:02:09,960 --> 00:02:12,560 Speaker 1: for sure, But now literally we have not been to 45 00:02:12,680 --> 00:02:15,640 Speaker 1: a single game up at the Battery. Yeah, and I 46 00:02:15,639 --> 00:02:18,480 Speaker 1: think I might like my girls to the parade today 47 00:02:18,480 --> 00:02:22,200 Speaker 1: in downtown Atlanta. But yeah, that's enough about the Braves. 48 00:02:22,200 --> 00:02:24,040 Speaker 1: When I just wanted to say it was worth it, 49 00:02:24,160 --> 00:02:27,480 Speaker 1: and I wanted to also quickly mentioned order some housekeeping 50 00:02:27,480 --> 00:02:30,240 Speaker 1: here that Matt and I are wrong sometimes and we 51 00:02:30,320 --> 00:02:33,040 Speaker 1: are not infallible. No, that's true. And by the way, 52 00:02:33,080 --> 00:02:35,280 Speaker 1: if you ever have any anything that you want to 53 00:02:35,280 --> 00:02:37,280 Speaker 1: share with us something we've gotten wrong, a way we 54 00:02:37,320 --> 00:02:39,400 Speaker 1: can improve. We have a place where you can do 55 00:02:39,440 --> 00:02:41,720 Speaker 1: that at how the Money dot com slash do better. 56 00:02:42,240 --> 00:02:43,920 Speaker 1: We we love to hear your suggestions. But we were 57 00:02:43,919 --> 00:02:46,760 Speaker 1: wrong earlier this week when we mentioned that a Chase 58 00:02:46,760 --> 00:02:49,280 Speaker 1: credit card bonus sign up bonus was one thousand, two 59 00:02:49,320 --> 00:02:52,000 Speaker 1: hundred and fifty dollars. That had recently changed and now 60 00:02:52,440 --> 00:02:55,200 Speaker 1: now the point sign up bonuses is sixty instead of 61 00:02:55,400 --> 00:02:58,200 Speaker 1: a hundred thousand, sixty thousand points, but with the additional 62 00:02:58,200 --> 00:03:01,200 Speaker 1: bonus you're looking at US seven and fifty dollar bonus. 63 00:03:01,200 --> 00:03:03,880 Speaker 1: It's a it's a far cry from twelve fifty. But 64 00:03:03,960 --> 00:03:06,680 Speaker 1: that being said, it is still a fantastic bonus. Yeah, 65 00:03:06,720 --> 00:03:08,760 Speaker 1: it is, it is, but we're wrong. It's not as 66 00:03:08,919 --> 00:03:11,960 Speaker 1: rich as it used to be. Sadly, Yeah, that that 67 00:03:12,200 --> 00:03:15,519 Speaker 1: honeymoon phases is over right right, still a great card 68 00:03:15,800 --> 00:03:17,560 Speaker 1: and also one of the thing we were wrong about 69 00:03:17,680 --> 00:03:21,000 Speaker 1: last week, Matt, we mentioned the timing for the Public 70 00:03:21,080 --> 00:03:24,239 Speaker 1: Service Loan Forgiveness Waiver s LF. We made it sound 71 00:03:24,240 --> 00:03:26,519 Speaker 1: like you only had a few days until Halloween. Could 72 00:03:26,520 --> 00:03:29,840 Speaker 1: you ever tell Halloween next year? October one was correct? 73 00:03:29,919 --> 00:03:33,440 Speaker 1: We had that date right, Uh not this year though, two? 74 00:03:33,560 --> 00:03:35,840 Speaker 1: And so Yeah, if any folks out there were stressed 75 00:03:35,840 --> 00:03:37,920 Speaker 1: out and rushed to make sure that they filled that 76 00:03:37,960 --> 00:03:40,280 Speaker 1: thing out, well, congratulations, you don't have to worry about 77 00:03:40,280 --> 00:03:43,880 Speaker 1: it anymore. Yeah. But for everyone else who just thought, 78 00:03:43,960 --> 00:03:46,000 Speaker 1: you know what, I'm just not gonna get around to 79 00:03:46,080 --> 00:03:48,440 Speaker 1: doing that, well you have another year, Yes, you've got 80 00:03:48,480 --> 00:03:52,440 Speaker 1: twelve months. And sorry about lighting a fire under you needlessly. 81 00:03:52,520 --> 00:03:54,280 Speaker 1: All right, but Matt, let's let's do move on and 82 00:03:54,280 --> 00:03:56,680 Speaker 1: get to the Friday flight and mentioned the other stories 83 00:03:56,720 --> 00:04:00,480 Speaker 1: the stories we found interesting this week, and start off 84 00:04:00,520 --> 00:04:04,040 Speaker 1: by talking about cash money, the theme of everything. It 85 00:04:04,040 --> 00:04:06,280 Speaker 1: seems like for the past year or so, maybe maybe 86 00:04:06,280 --> 00:04:10,160 Speaker 1: a little bit longer, has been to the moon, crypto stocks, 87 00:04:10,280 --> 00:04:13,720 Speaker 1: real estate stocks, and yeah, everything has been like going 88 00:04:13,920 --> 00:04:15,680 Speaker 1: on the oup and up, up into the right. But 89 00:04:15,800 --> 00:04:18,880 Speaker 1: a new survey from Bank of America finds that savings 90 00:04:19,000 --> 00:04:21,520 Speaker 1: rates are through the roof too. And it turns out 91 00:04:21,560 --> 00:04:25,440 Speaker 1: that seventy of gen z ears specifically padded their savings 92 00:04:25,440 --> 00:04:28,360 Speaker 1: account over the past year. And although I would say 93 00:04:28,360 --> 00:04:30,760 Speaker 1: it was hard not to be saving more for a 94 00:04:30,760 --> 00:04:33,239 Speaker 1: lot of people because of the massive amount of stimulus 95 00:04:33,279 --> 00:04:36,280 Speaker 1: dollars that they've been flowing directly into those accounts, the 96 00:04:36,320 --> 00:04:39,680 Speaker 1: inability to spend any money when things were locked down exactly, Yeah, 97 00:04:39,720 --> 00:04:42,080 Speaker 1: your money flowing into your account and you're not going out, 98 00:04:42,120 --> 00:04:45,040 Speaker 1: and so just by default your savings grow. This this 99 00:04:45,120 --> 00:04:48,640 Speaker 1: is great news for individuals, right, but the personal balance sheets, 100 00:04:48,640 --> 00:04:51,080 Speaker 1: I would say, of most Americans, they're just better off 101 00:04:51,120 --> 00:04:53,080 Speaker 1: than they've been in a long time. And this new 102 00:04:53,120 --> 00:04:56,760 Speaker 1: survey just reflects how strong of a position, of a 103 00:04:56,920 --> 00:05:00,280 Speaker 1: savings position that so many Americans are in. That true, 104 00:05:00,279 --> 00:05:02,520 Speaker 1: But you know, here is an important question, which is 105 00:05:02,520 --> 00:05:05,520 Speaker 1: is it possible to have too much money in savings? 106 00:05:06,080 --> 00:05:09,479 Speaker 1: There is nearly ten trillion dollars in savings accounts that 107 00:05:09,520 --> 00:05:12,599 Speaker 1: are earning close to nothing right now. Ten trillion. That 108 00:05:12,760 --> 00:05:14,800 Speaker 1: is a crazy amount of money. And in fact, with 109 00:05:14,839 --> 00:05:18,760 Speaker 1: inflation continuing, it's death march, that money is earning less 110 00:05:18,839 --> 00:05:22,120 Speaker 1: than nothing in those accounts. It's actually doing the opposite. 111 00:05:22,120 --> 00:05:25,159 Speaker 1: It is slowly deteriorating. And so while we are fans 112 00:05:25,200 --> 00:05:28,160 Speaker 1: of saving money, it is possible to be too focused 113 00:05:28,160 --> 00:05:32,160 Speaker 1: on saving and not focused enough on investing. And in fact, 114 00:05:32,200 --> 00:05:34,200 Speaker 1: that same Bank of American survey, they found that only 115 00:05:34,279 --> 00:05:37,760 Speaker 1: twenty six percent of those same gen's ears had contributed 116 00:05:37,800 --> 00:05:40,120 Speaker 1: to the retirement accounts. With that extra money that fell 117 00:05:40,160 --> 00:05:42,080 Speaker 1: into their laps, that is not a good use of 118 00:05:42,120 --> 00:05:43,880 Speaker 1: that money. We want to see more of that money, 119 00:05:43,880 --> 00:05:46,120 Speaker 1: assuming they've got their emergency fund set up, We want 120 00:05:46,160 --> 00:05:48,840 Speaker 1: to see more of that money, uh put to use 121 00:05:48,960 --> 00:05:51,440 Speaker 1: in a in a more active way. Exactly. Yeah, what 122 00:05:51,520 --> 00:05:54,400 Speaker 1: while keeping savings on hand for a rainy day is crucial, right, 123 00:05:54,440 --> 00:05:56,520 Speaker 1: We're not We're not saying savings is for the birds, 124 00:05:56,560 --> 00:05:59,719 Speaker 1: that it's stupid. Investing is what's going to grow your 125 00:05:59,720 --> 00:06:02,440 Speaker 1: well then, so yeah, don't neglect to have some liquid 126 00:06:02,440 --> 00:06:04,760 Speaker 1: cash on hand, but don't overdo it either. And if 127 00:06:04,800 --> 00:06:06,839 Speaker 1: you're looking for a better place to stash maybe some 128 00:06:06,880 --> 00:06:09,919 Speaker 1: of your medium term savings money that you're not investing 129 00:06:10,000 --> 00:06:11,640 Speaker 1: for thirty years down the road, but money you might 130 00:06:11,680 --> 00:06:14,280 Speaker 1: need in the next two or three. I bonds are 131 00:06:14,320 --> 00:06:16,560 Speaker 1: looking better and better these days. We've been talking more 132 00:06:16,600 --> 00:06:19,040 Speaker 1: and more about I bons as inflation has become a 133 00:06:19,040 --> 00:06:21,240 Speaker 1: bigger risk here money. And it turns out, you know, 134 00:06:21,279 --> 00:06:23,720 Speaker 1: new rates as of November first, or just a hair 135 00:06:23,800 --> 00:06:27,800 Speaker 1: over seven percent now on the ipond. So yeah, if 136 00:06:27,839 --> 00:06:30,359 Speaker 1: you're looking for risk free returns, this is a great 137 00:06:30,360 --> 00:06:32,720 Speaker 1: place to stash some of that money you don't feel 138 00:06:32,720 --> 00:06:36,920 Speaker 1: comfortable investing at the moment. Maybe you have overpadded your 139 00:06:37,440 --> 00:06:39,400 Speaker 1: your savings account and you're like, I gotta, I gotta 140 00:06:39,440 --> 00:06:41,880 Speaker 1: find a way to make more than half a percent. Well, 141 00:06:42,000 --> 00:06:45,360 Speaker 1: you can electronically purchase those I bonds on Treasury Direct 142 00:06:45,400 --> 00:06:47,000 Speaker 1: dot gov. We will put a link in the show notes. 143 00:06:47,200 --> 00:06:49,920 Speaker 1: You can purchase up to ten thousand dollars per person 144 00:06:50,000 --> 00:06:52,840 Speaker 1: per year, and then you can purchase an additional five 145 00:06:52,880 --> 00:06:55,560 Speaker 1: thousand dollars up to an additional five grand with your 146 00:06:55,640 --> 00:06:58,159 Speaker 1: tax return money next year. And so yeah, if you're 147 00:06:58,200 --> 00:07:00,560 Speaker 1: kind of in that in between, SPOT bonds are just 148 00:07:00,600 --> 00:07:03,359 Speaker 1: an awesome vehicle for to place your money in right 149 00:07:03,400 --> 00:07:06,120 Speaker 1: now totally. And I actually did that this morning. Yeah, 150 00:07:06,160 --> 00:07:08,200 Speaker 1: I I opened it in accounts. I had not done 151 00:07:08,200 --> 00:07:10,520 Speaker 1: that before, and it did not take very long at all. 152 00:07:10,640 --> 00:07:12,880 Speaker 1: I will say the website it's pretty clunky. I felt 153 00:07:12,880 --> 00:07:15,480 Speaker 1: like it was built twenty years ago. It probably was. 154 00:07:15,800 --> 00:07:18,560 Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, literally running on Microsofts exactly, and so 155 00:07:18,600 --> 00:07:20,320 Speaker 1: I felt a little odd, you know, punching in all 156 00:07:20,360 --> 00:07:22,920 Speaker 1: of that sensitive information. But literally, you can open account 157 00:07:22,920 --> 00:07:24,880 Speaker 1: today and you can fund it and make a purchase. 158 00:07:25,000 --> 00:07:27,320 Speaker 1: I maxed that out, actually, and I bought ten thousand 159 00:07:27,320 --> 00:07:29,800 Speaker 1: dollars worth of I bonds because I had some savings. 160 00:07:29,880 --> 00:07:32,640 Speaker 1: Like you said that I was thinking about investing. I 161 00:07:32,640 --> 00:07:34,760 Speaker 1: thought about putting that directly in the market, but instead 162 00:07:34,840 --> 00:07:36,800 Speaker 1: this is another way to earn on that money and 163 00:07:36,840 --> 00:07:39,560 Speaker 1: to diversify what I am doing with that money. And 164 00:07:39,600 --> 00:07:41,560 Speaker 1: it's worth mentioning that. Keep in mind, this is money 165 00:07:41,600 --> 00:07:44,080 Speaker 1: that you can't touch for twelve at least twelve months, 166 00:07:44,080 --> 00:07:46,240 Speaker 1: and so beyond that you can take the money out, 167 00:07:46,240 --> 00:07:48,040 Speaker 1: but you're going to have to pay back three months 168 00:07:48,080 --> 00:07:51,280 Speaker 1: worth of interest. But even still, and even if rates adjust, 169 00:07:51,320 --> 00:07:53,360 Speaker 1: it is still probably the best place for you to 170 00:07:53,400 --> 00:07:55,920 Speaker 1: get that guaranteed rate of return on your money. Yeah, 171 00:07:55,960 --> 00:07:58,120 Speaker 1: not a great place for the emergency fund, but it 172 00:07:58,200 --> 00:08:01,160 Speaker 1: is a good place for savings term saving, that's right. Yeah. 173 00:08:01,160 --> 00:08:03,000 Speaker 1: And since we're we're talking about some of these fundamental 174 00:08:03,280 --> 00:08:06,360 Speaker 1: aspects of personal finance, let's quickly talk about credit card debt, 175 00:08:06,720 --> 00:08:10,040 Speaker 1: because that is down as well. The average credit card 176 00:08:10,040 --> 00:08:15,080 Speaker 1: balance was about back in twenty nineteen it is now, 177 00:08:15,480 --> 00:08:18,280 Speaker 1: and so this is great news on multiple levels. Obviously 178 00:08:18,320 --> 00:08:21,400 Speaker 1: it's great for your finances. But a new study from 179 00:08:21,400 --> 00:08:24,360 Speaker 1: the University of Missouri, they found that people who carried 180 00:08:24,520 --> 00:08:27,600 Speaker 1: consistently high levels of unsecured debts so credit card debt 181 00:08:27,880 --> 00:08:31,080 Speaker 1: where and this is straight from the report, were more 182 00:08:31,120 --> 00:08:33,680 Speaker 1: likely to have pain that interfered with her daily life 183 00:08:33,800 --> 00:08:37,280 Speaker 1: than people with no one secured debt snaw. That's crazy. 184 00:08:37,559 --> 00:08:39,880 Speaker 1: It really is a remarkable study. And you know, we've 185 00:08:39,920 --> 00:08:42,720 Speaker 1: discussed the i Q drop that debt can cause, but 186 00:08:42,880 --> 00:08:46,120 Speaker 1: this just striking correlation between higher levels of debt worst 187 00:08:46,120 --> 00:08:49,240 Speaker 1: physical health. This is one worth keeping an eye on 188 00:08:49,600 --> 00:08:53,120 Speaker 1: because using debt vehicles like credit cards to enhance your lifestyle. 189 00:08:53,240 --> 00:08:56,960 Speaker 1: That's a dangerous game to play how you handle money. 190 00:08:57,000 --> 00:08:59,880 Speaker 1: It truly does have direct implications on every area of 191 00:09:00,000 --> 00:09:02,880 Speaker 1: a life, including your mental and your physical health. Yeah, 192 00:09:02,920 --> 00:09:05,720 Speaker 1: that was shocking to read. I did not know that. 193 00:09:05,840 --> 00:09:08,520 Speaker 1: I I obviously we knew the mental health aspect, but 194 00:09:08,840 --> 00:09:11,360 Speaker 1: the physical health, like that debt deteriorates too. It makes sense. 195 00:09:11,360 --> 00:09:14,000 Speaker 1: Man has the mind controls the body. That's right, That's right. 196 00:09:14,080 --> 00:09:16,600 Speaker 1: But it's just kind of interesting to see the numbers. 197 00:09:17,000 --> 00:09:19,480 Speaker 1: And yeah, it just makes me think that we should 198 00:09:19,640 --> 00:09:23,040 Speaker 1: be telling our listeners more and more the perils of debt, because, yeah, 199 00:09:23,280 --> 00:09:26,840 Speaker 1: it influences every part of your life. It's it reaches 200 00:09:26,880 --> 00:09:30,800 Speaker 1: its tentacles in everywhere, that's for sure, and causes misery. 201 00:09:30,840 --> 00:09:33,000 Speaker 1: But here's another thing. Did you know that you don't 202 00:09:33,040 --> 00:09:36,280 Speaker 1: necessarily have to pay every debt that you owe. No, 203 00:09:36,400 --> 00:09:38,719 Speaker 1: I'm not joking, and I'm not trying to sell you anything, right, 204 00:09:39,000 --> 00:09:42,000 Speaker 1: not all debt. As it turns out, it's collectible. And 205 00:09:42,200 --> 00:09:44,040 Speaker 1: we haven't really talked about this before on the show, Matt. 206 00:09:44,080 --> 00:09:46,800 Speaker 1: We haven't talked about the statute of limitations laws. But 207 00:09:47,160 --> 00:09:49,040 Speaker 1: David Lazarus from The l A Times had a piece 208 00:09:49,080 --> 00:09:52,840 Speaker 1: this week detailing how the statute of limitations works when 209 00:09:52,880 --> 00:09:54,600 Speaker 1: it comes to debts that you owe. And this is 210 00:09:54,640 --> 00:09:57,040 Speaker 1: something that like we haven't really talked about and most 211 00:09:57,040 --> 00:09:59,600 Speaker 1: folks don't really have a clue about. They don't realize 212 00:09:59,800 --> 00:10:02,280 Speaker 1: that that there is a clock ticking when it comes 213 00:10:02,280 --> 00:10:05,520 Speaker 1: to debts that they haven't paid yet. And we'll put 214 00:10:05,600 --> 00:10:07,120 Speaker 1: up a link actually so you can see what the 215 00:10:07,120 --> 00:10:09,800 Speaker 1: statute of limitation is in your state, because it varies 216 00:10:09,800 --> 00:10:12,520 Speaker 1: from state to state. It's four years on unpaid debt 217 00:10:12,559 --> 00:10:15,240 Speaker 1: in California, it's six where we live in Georgia. And 218 00:10:15,280 --> 00:10:17,680 Speaker 1: so that means that legally a debt collector will not 219 00:10:17,720 --> 00:10:19,880 Speaker 1: be able to sue you for any payments that you 220 00:10:19,960 --> 00:10:23,920 Speaker 1: might owe after that time is up. And here's the thing, though, 221 00:10:23,920 --> 00:10:26,960 Speaker 1: this is an ethically gray area because you still owe 222 00:10:27,000 --> 00:10:29,080 Speaker 1: the debt, and we would say it doesn't mean you 223 00:10:29,120 --> 00:10:32,240 Speaker 1: no longer owe the debt, right, It's it's not forgiven, right. 224 00:10:32,920 --> 00:10:34,839 Speaker 1: It just means that they cannot sue you in a 225 00:10:34,920 --> 00:10:37,040 Speaker 1: court of law in order to make you pay. And 226 00:10:37,080 --> 00:10:38,760 Speaker 1: so we would say that you should still pay the 227 00:10:38,800 --> 00:10:41,280 Speaker 1: debt if you're able to. But here's the thing. If 228 00:10:41,320 --> 00:10:43,240 Speaker 1: you're not able to, we want you to know that 229 00:10:43,240 --> 00:10:46,600 Speaker 1: the Statute of Limitations has your back. It's something actually 230 00:10:46,600 --> 00:10:49,040 Speaker 1: a listener just this week emailed and said, really you 231 00:10:49,080 --> 00:10:51,439 Speaker 1: should tell how the money listeners about Statute of Limitations. 232 00:10:51,640 --> 00:10:53,400 Speaker 1: I saw this article by David Lazar sn I was like, 233 00:10:53,480 --> 00:10:55,720 Speaker 1: this is the perfect time just to mention it, because 234 00:10:55,920 --> 00:10:57,720 Speaker 1: it is one of those things where if you do 235 00:10:57,800 --> 00:11:00,680 Speaker 1: not have the financial resources to pay a debt um, 236 00:11:00,720 --> 00:11:03,760 Speaker 1: there is a time limit on a debt collector's ability 237 00:11:03,880 --> 00:11:06,280 Speaker 1: to to try to get that money out of your hands. 238 00:11:06,360 --> 00:11:08,719 Speaker 1: Yeah and so yeah, ethically or morally there it's you know, 239 00:11:08,760 --> 00:11:10,960 Speaker 1: there's a gray area when it comes to your ability 240 00:11:11,000 --> 00:11:14,079 Speaker 1: to get sued though. It's it's black or white. Uh. 241 00:11:14,160 --> 00:11:16,280 Speaker 1: And when it comes to your credit score, it's black 242 00:11:16,360 --> 00:11:19,040 Speaker 1: and white as well, because the Statute of Limitations this 243 00:11:19,040 --> 00:11:20,920 Speaker 1: this has nothing to do with your credit score. Even 244 00:11:20,920 --> 00:11:22,680 Speaker 1: though they can no longer sue you for that money, 245 00:11:22,679 --> 00:11:25,760 Speaker 1: it can still completely wreck your credit score. And David 246 00:11:25,760 --> 00:11:29,319 Speaker 1: he also wrote about how some more unscrupulous collectors will 247 00:11:29,360 --> 00:11:31,600 Speaker 1: try and kind of pull a fast one on you, uh, 248 00:11:31,679 --> 00:11:34,600 Speaker 1: in order to do what's called reviving an old debt 249 00:11:35,280 --> 00:11:37,840 Speaker 1: basically then it's honestly, it's it's a lot like what 250 00:11:37,880 --> 00:11:40,720 Speaker 1: it sounds. They try and get you to pay like 251 00:11:40,760 --> 00:11:43,480 Speaker 1: this tiny amounts almost as tiny of of an amount 252 00:11:43,520 --> 00:11:46,560 Speaker 1: as you can towards that debt, which revives it, meaning 253 00:11:46,600 --> 00:11:48,679 Speaker 1: that the you know, the clock starts ticking again, you 254 00:11:48,720 --> 00:11:51,400 Speaker 1: basically hit the reset button and then that collector can 255 00:11:51,400 --> 00:11:53,160 Speaker 1: hound you to pay up and if you don't, then 256 00:11:53,160 --> 00:11:55,199 Speaker 1: they can legally take you to court. Again. They might 257 00:11:55,200 --> 00:11:57,679 Speaker 1: sound real sweet and you're like, just pay ten bucks today, 258 00:11:57,760 --> 00:12:00,040 Speaker 1: if you just pay ten bucks today, just do me 259 00:12:00,120 --> 00:12:03,000 Speaker 1: a favorite, alright, like yeah, and they're like, okay, I 260 00:12:03,000 --> 00:12:04,920 Speaker 1: guess I can pay ten bucks. But then that resource 261 00:12:05,000 --> 00:12:07,960 Speaker 1: the clock and so that puts you over the barrel 262 00:12:08,000 --> 00:12:10,600 Speaker 1: again if you owe a lot of debt collector. And 263 00:12:10,600 --> 00:12:12,800 Speaker 1: it's not just about paying a small amount too, but 264 00:12:12,920 --> 00:12:15,520 Speaker 1: even agreeing to enter into a new debt payment plan, 265 00:12:16,000 --> 00:12:19,079 Speaker 1: even acknowledging that this debt exists. These are all things 266 00:12:19,120 --> 00:12:21,320 Speaker 1: that can trigger the reset and so be sure to 267 00:12:21,360 --> 00:12:24,880 Speaker 1: be incredibly careful and how you communicate and what you 268 00:12:24,920 --> 00:12:28,080 Speaker 1: communicate if you are in touch with a debt collector. 269 00:12:28,440 --> 00:12:30,200 Speaker 1: All right, yeah, so word to the wise there if 270 00:12:30,240 --> 00:12:32,760 Speaker 1: you owe debt, just watch out for these tricks. You 271 00:12:32,760 --> 00:12:34,920 Speaker 1: you know. It's like we said, it's a good thing 272 00:12:34,920 --> 00:12:36,720 Speaker 1: to pay your debts. If you have taken on a 273 00:12:36,720 --> 00:12:38,920 Speaker 1: loan and you've said I will pay this, we think 274 00:12:38,960 --> 00:12:41,439 Speaker 1: it's the right thing to do. It's your moral obligation 275 00:12:41,559 --> 00:12:43,320 Speaker 1: to pay any sort of debt that you've taken out. 276 00:12:43,520 --> 00:12:46,640 Speaker 1: But just know your legal rights too. And yeah, yeah, Matt, 277 00:12:46,679 --> 00:12:49,199 Speaker 1: let's quickly talk about gig work for a second. The 278 00:12:49,200 --> 00:12:52,360 Speaker 1: the FTC, the Federal Trade Commission, just sent notices to 279 00:12:52,440 --> 00:12:55,360 Speaker 1: some of the major gig companies telling them to stop 280 00:12:55,360 --> 00:12:57,880 Speaker 1: making promises that they can't deliver on when it comes 281 00:12:57,920 --> 00:13:00,920 Speaker 1: to work or pay. Companies like Uber, Lift, instat cart 282 00:13:01,200 --> 00:13:04,200 Speaker 1: Door Dash, they're all under increased scrutiny when it comes 283 00:13:04,200 --> 00:13:06,480 Speaker 1: to how much their gig work army is actually making 284 00:13:06,600 --> 00:13:08,840 Speaker 1: versus what they're being told they're going to make. And 285 00:13:08,880 --> 00:13:12,439 Speaker 1: so I guess a little embellishment is happening here with 286 00:13:12,480 --> 00:13:14,319 Speaker 1: some of these companies. And we actually, you know, we 287 00:13:14,400 --> 00:13:17,480 Speaker 1: talked about the insidious nature of gig work just last 288 00:13:17,520 --> 00:13:19,720 Speaker 1: month on the show. Maybe some of the folks over 289 00:13:19,760 --> 00:13:21,600 Speaker 1: there at the FDC listen to how the money that 290 00:13:21,640 --> 00:13:23,440 Speaker 1: could be that could be and we should do an 291 00:13:23,520 --> 00:13:27,920 Speaker 1: HTMC collab. That'd be nice, that'd be fun. I'm for it. 292 00:13:27,920 --> 00:13:31,480 Speaker 1: Sounds like it wouldn't be fun. Let's be dry a bone. 293 00:13:32,160 --> 00:13:34,520 Speaker 1: And you know, I think while gig work can be 294 00:13:34,520 --> 00:13:37,120 Speaker 1: beneficial for some folks, we we tried to highlight some 295 00:13:37,240 --> 00:13:40,440 Speaker 1: of the pros of gig work in that episode, a 296 00:13:40,440 --> 00:13:43,120 Speaker 1: lot of gig workers are left in the lurch on 297 00:13:43,320 --> 00:13:47,480 Speaker 1: the payfront. They're being overpromised, under delivered, and ultimately, I 298 00:13:47,520 --> 00:13:49,400 Speaker 1: think we're all likely going to be paying more for 299 00:13:49,440 --> 00:13:52,400 Speaker 1: gig services as these companies beef up what they pay 300 00:13:52,440 --> 00:13:56,000 Speaker 1: workers in the future, especially under like the increase scrutiny 301 00:13:56,040 --> 00:13:58,719 Speaker 1: of the federal government. But guess what we said it then, 302 00:13:58,760 --> 00:14:00,800 Speaker 1: and we'll say now we're okay with that. If the 303 00:14:00,840 --> 00:14:03,680 Speaker 1: gig economy is going to continue to grow, those pay 304 00:14:03,720 --> 00:14:06,040 Speaker 1: promises are going to have to be kept and gig 305 00:14:06,040 --> 00:14:07,760 Speaker 1: workers are gonna have to be able to make a 306 00:14:07,840 --> 00:14:11,000 Speaker 1: legitimate income. Um. I think if it's going to be sustainable, 307 00:14:11,080 --> 00:14:13,040 Speaker 1: that's right, Joel. And just like you said, higher prices, 308 00:14:13,080 --> 00:14:15,040 Speaker 1: that's something that we can start to get used to, 309 00:14:15,080 --> 00:14:17,319 Speaker 1: get used to the idea of paying more. If these 310 00:14:17,320 --> 00:14:20,480 Speaker 1: are services. If these are apps that you use now 311 00:14:20,520 --> 00:14:23,280 Speaker 1: that you plan to continue to use. We've got several 312 00:14:23,320 --> 00:14:25,000 Speaker 1: other stories that we're gonna get to here in a minute. 313 00:14:25,040 --> 00:14:27,520 Speaker 1: We're gonna talk about Lady Investors, We're gonna talk about 314 00:14:27,520 --> 00:14:39,720 Speaker 1: Shack being stingy. But first a quick break. All right, 315 00:14:39,760 --> 00:14:42,640 Speaker 1: we're back and we've got more money stories to share 316 00:14:42,640 --> 00:14:47,040 Speaker 1: with you, more stuff happening this week that affects your money, 317 00:14:47,160 --> 00:14:50,440 Speaker 1: your finances and Matt. The first thing we do in 318 00:14:50,440 --> 00:14:53,080 Speaker 1: the second half of every Friday show is the ludicrous 319 00:14:53,080 --> 00:14:55,760 Speaker 1: headline of the week of the week, and this one 320 00:14:56,080 --> 00:14:59,720 Speaker 1: comes from Business Insider, and here is the headline. It's 321 00:14:59,760 --> 00:15:05,320 Speaker 1: w streets new sustainable investing fad is a scam. What 322 00:15:05,480 --> 00:15:07,520 Speaker 1: do you think about that headline? Those are harsh words. 323 00:15:07,720 --> 00:15:10,920 Speaker 1: They are it's like fighting words, man, And uh, let's 324 00:15:10,960 --> 00:15:14,760 Speaker 1: give an update maybe on socially responsible investing. While e 325 00:15:14,960 --> 00:15:18,560 Speaker 1: s G funds which stands for Environmental Social Governance, they're 326 00:15:18,560 --> 00:15:22,000 Speaker 1: not our favorites. Calling them a scam was a bit 327 00:15:22,040 --> 00:15:24,880 Speaker 1: of an overreach, I would say on the reach, yeah, 328 00:15:24,880 --> 00:15:27,480 Speaker 1: and overreach on on this Business Insider article. It was 329 00:15:27,800 --> 00:15:30,640 Speaker 1: intended to get clicks. Maybe that's what the internet does. 330 00:15:30,920 --> 00:15:35,040 Speaker 1: But this article, along with the one from Vox that 331 00:15:35,120 --> 00:15:38,200 Speaker 1: both were published this week, shed some light on what's 332 00:15:38,200 --> 00:15:41,800 Speaker 1: happening in this space. Both pieces articulated some of the 333 00:15:41,840 --> 00:15:46,560 Speaker 1: real problems with these funds. Basically, because socially responsible and 334 00:15:46,600 --> 00:15:49,280 Speaker 1: I put that in quotes, and e s G they're 335 00:15:49,400 --> 00:15:52,640 Speaker 1: such buzzwords right now in the investing space. Companies are 336 00:15:52,720 --> 00:15:55,800 Speaker 1: launching and promoting these e s G funds more readily, 337 00:15:55,880 --> 00:15:58,880 Speaker 1: and investors are taking the bait. They're putting more and 338 00:15:58,920 --> 00:16:02,880 Speaker 1: more of their investment dollars into these supposedly green funds, 339 00:16:03,280 --> 00:16:05,440 Speaker 1: and at the same time they're paying higher fees to 340 00:16:05,480 --> 00:16:08,120 Speaker 1: do so. We would say it's not all rainbows and 341 00:16:08,200 --> 00:16:10,600 Speaker 1: kale salad on the E s G front, though there 342 00:16:10,600 --> 00:16:13,920 Speaker 1: there are some problems with these funds. They're not a scam, 343 00:16:14,000 --> 00:16:17,360 Speaker 1: we would disagree with that characterization from Business insider um, 344 00:16:17,360 --> 00:16:19,360 Speaker 1: but there are some issues that we definitely need to 345 00:16:19,360 --> 00:16:21,640 Speaker 1: consider before we start to put our money in them. Yeah. 346 00:16:21,800 --> 00:16:23,680 Speaker 1: S G funds right now they're hotter than fat free 347 00:16:23,720 --> 00:16:26,960 Speaker 1: in the nineties, which was incredibly hot. But like you said, 348 00:16:26,800 --> 00:16:30,080 Speaker 1: d with without like the proper definitions, people are just 349 00:16:30,120 --> 00:16:32,560 Speaker 1: putting money into these e s G funds without fully 350 00:16:32,560 --> 00:16:36,160 Speaker 1: realizing what they are and what they aren't getting one 351 00:16:36,160 --> 00:16:38,160 Speaker 1: person's E s G trash is going to be another 352 00:16:38,200 --> 00:16:42,040 Speaker 1: person's treasure. So, for instance, companies with maybe they've got 353 00:16:42,080 --> 00:16:44,680 Speaker 1: a severe digital privacy problem, they might be lurking in 354 00:16:44,720 --> 00:16:46,720 Speaker 1: that E s G fund um Or there might be 355 00:16:46,800 --> 00:16:49,640 Speaker 1: a company that that has publicly committed, you know, to 356 00:16:49,760 --> 00:16:52,840 Speaker 1: taking green action through their company, but they haven't listed 357 00:16:52,840 --> 00:16:55,920 Speaker 1: any steps to actually accomplish that goal. They might also 358 00:16:56,080 --> 00:16:57,800 Speaker 1: be inside of funds like that as well, and they 359 00:16:57,840 --> 00:16:59,720 Speaker 1: might be singing a pretty tune. They might be like 360 00:17:00,080 --> 00:17:03,080 Speaker 1: I'll talk and no action exactly. And so when you've 361 00:17:03,120 --> 00:17:05,320 Speaker 1: got just a lack of clear definitions like this, that 362 00:17:05,400 --> 00:17:08,520 Speaker 1: means that the E s G space is still very 363 00:17:08,600 --> 00:17:11,080 Speaker 1: much the wild West. And so you might be wondering, 364 00:17:11,119 --> 00:17:12,840 Speaker 1: like should you be investing your money in one of 365 00:17:12,880 --> 00:17:15,800 Speaker 1: these funds, and that the answer here is that it 366 00:17:15,840 --> 00:17:18,560 Speaker 1: really comes down to your personal values, and it comes 367 00:17:18,560 --> 00:17:20,840 Speaker 1: down to you doing the research. If you believe that 368 00:17:20,880 --> 00:17:23,000 Speaker 1: this is something that you should be putting your money towards, 369 00:17:23,400 --> 00:17:26,240 Speaker 1: don't start just regularly putting your money into a fund 370 00:17:26,320 --> 00:17:28,720 Speaker 1: that you haven't taken the time to vet properly. Because 371 00:17:29,160 --> 00:17:32,439 Speaker 1: you might find yourself investing in companies that don't align 372 00:17:32,440 --> 00:17:35,800 Speaker 1: with your values, despite the promises that the fund is making, 373 00:17:35,880 --> 00:17:38,359 Speaker 1: or despite just what the fund is called, or the 374 00:17:38,400 --> 00:17:40,440 Speaker 1: fact that it has E s G in the name. 375 00:17:40,800 --> 00:17:43,080 Speaker 1: Uh And another downside of investing in E s G 376 00:17:43,160 --> 00:17:46,600 Speaker 1: funds can be a lack of diversification. For us, that's 377 00:17:46,640 --> 00:17:48,520 Speaker 1: not really a problem because we that That's why we're 378 00:17:48,600 --> 00:17:51,720 Speaker 1: huge proponents of investing in the entire stock market. It's 379 00:17:51,720 --> 00:17:53,679 Speaker 1: why I'm such a big fan of investing in the 380 00:17:53,840 --> 00:17:58,080 Speaker 1: SMP five hundred. You get plenty of diversification, and we're also, 381 00:17:58,560 --> 00:18:00,520 Speaker 1: you know, okay with the fact that there are going 382 00:18:00,560 --> 00:18:03,840 Speaker 1: to be some companies within those indexes that may not 383 00:18:03,960 --> 00:18:07,159 Speaker 1: perfectly align with our values. That's one area where I'll 384 00:18:07,200 --> 00:18:09,560 Speaker 1: let my investments just be investments, and if I wanted 385 00:18:09,600 --> 00:18:12,400 Speaker 1: to do something where I can make a more impactful 386 00:18:12,480 --> 00:18:15,080 Speaker 1: change in my life, I do that proactively with additional 387 00:18:15,080 --> 00:18:17,440 Speaker 1: money outside of my investments. Yeah, I think that's a 388 00:18:17,440 --> 00:18:18,800 Speaker 1: good way to think about it, Matt, and I think 389 00:18:19,080 --> 00:18:21,480 Speaker 1: good people are gonna come down on different sides of 390 00:18:21,520 --> 00:18:23,600 Speaker 1: the E s G debate. But it's just important to 391 00:18:23,640 --> 00:18:27,879 Speaker 1: note that not every E s G fund is created alike, 392 00:18:28,119 --> 00:18:29,760 Speaker 1: and so yeah, you've got to do your due diligence 393 00:18:29,760 --> 00:18:32,440 Speaker 1: before you start sticking your money inside of those funds. 394 00:18:32,440 --> 00:18:34,040 Speaker 1: And you have to look at the expense ray shows 395 00:18:34,040 --> 00:18:36,320 Speaker 1: because they're certainly going to be higher than most of 396 00:18:36,359 --> 00:18:39,760 Speaker 1: the the traditional index SMP five hundred type funds that 397 00:18:39,800 --> 00:18:42,000 Speaker 1: you just mentioned, a total stock market fund, the kind 398 00:18:42,000 --> 00:18:44,840 Speaker 1: of funds that we typically push people towards or we 399 00:18:44,880 --> 00:18:47,520 Speaker 1: like to see our listeners invest in. You know, you're 400 00:18:47,520 --> 00:18:50,840 Speaker 1: definitely gonna be paying higher fees than what those funds 401 00:18:50,840 --> 00:18:53,440 Speaker 1: have to offer. But since we're talking about investing, let's 402 00:18:53,480 --> 00:18:55,880 Speaker 1: talk about an article that friend of the show, Ron 403 00:18:55,960 --> 00:18:58,760 Speaker 1: Lieber from the New York Times wrote this week, and 404 00:18:58,880 --> 00:19:03,280 Speaker 1: it's about why female investors are better than their male counterparts. 405 00:19:03,680 --> 00:19:06,760 Speaker 1: And we will say, first off, good job, ladies, fantastic. 406 00:19:07,280 --> 00:19:09,960 Speaker 1: Ron made some really good points in this article, many 407 00:19:10,040 --> 00:19:13,000 Speaker 1: of which were based around a Fidelity survey. And what 408 00:19:13,119 --> 00:19:16,479 Speaker 1: Ron actually said is that the way the women trade 409 00:19:16,720 --> 00:19:20,199 Speaker 1: is the key to their success. Basically, women aren't trading 410 00:19:20,200 --> 00:19:23,439 Speaker 1: stocks as frequently as their male counterparts, and man, we 411 00:19:23,480 --> 00:19:25,960 Speaker 1: know this to be true. The more that you trade, 412 00:19:26,320 --> 00:19:30,000 Speaker 1: the worst your results will typically be. And women are 413 00:19:30,040 --> 00:19:32,640 Speaker 1: just better at staying the boring horse to build wealth 414 00:19:32,680 --> 00:19:34,760 Speaker 1: over time, which then is the way to go. Yeah, 415 00:19:34,800 --> 00:19:36,919 Speaker 1: at least for on a statistical basis, And so the 416 00:19:36,960 --> 00:19:39,240 Speaker 1: lessons we can learn from these results are are really 417 00:19:39,280 --> 00:19:42,960 Speaker 1: applicable for men and women. But it's good to see that, hey, 418 00:19:43,000 --> 00:19:46,120 Speaker 1: there's something that the women are excelling at and we 419 00:19:46,160 --> 00:19:48,479 Speaker 1: should take a page from their book. There's something that 420 00:19:48,600 --> 00:19:50,800 Speaker 1: us men have a lot to learn. And the stats 421 00:19:50,800 --> 00:19:53,680 Speaker 1: they actually tend to reflect a general lack of confidence 422 00:19:53,680 --> 00:19:56,000 Speaker 1: for women, like when it comes to investing at all, 423 00:19:56,359 --> 00:19:58,680 Speaker 1: but then the ones that do get started, they tend 424 00:19:58,720 --> 00:20:01,600 Speaker 1: to see superior results. And on the flip side of 425 00:20:01,600 --> 00:20:04,960 Speaker 1: the coin, like, that's because men. Many men are overconfident, 426 00:20:04,960 --> 00:20:08,440 Speaker 1: believing that they can outperform the market, which ends up 427 00:20:08,480 --> 00:20:12,119 Speaker 1: harming their long term returns. And so obviously these are 428 00:20:12,119 --> 00:20:14,760 Speaker 1: generalizations like there's gonna be some dudes that are more 429 00:20:14,760 --> 00:20:18,400 Speaker 1: than happy to passively invest in a total stock market fund, 430 00:20:18,600 --> 00:20:20,119 Speaker 1: while they're gonna be some women out there who are 431 00:20:20,119 --> 00:20:22,760 Speaker 1: prousing the Wall Street Bets subreddit. And so it's our 432 00:20:22,800 --> 00:20:24,960 Speaker 1: goal to see all how the money listeners reach a 433 00:20:25,000 --> 00:20:27,840 Speaker 1: confidence sweet spot when it comes to their investments. We 434 00:20:27,880 --> 00:20:30,200 Speaker 1: want you to be confident enough to invest week in 435 00:20:30,280 --> 00:20:32,679 Speaker 1: and week out more and more of your paycheck, but 436 00:20:32,760 --> 00:20:35,879 Speaker 1: not so confident that you're gonna tink her with your portfolio, 437 00:20:35,960 --> 00:20:38,000 Speaker 1: or maybe you're gonna take on too much risk by 438 00:20:38,480 --> 00:20:41,320 Speaker 1: investing in you know, the next meme stock of the moment, 439 00:20:41,720 --> 00:20:44,119 Speaker 1: or maybe you know, just to begin trading stocks like 440 00:20:44,119 --> 00:20:46,680 Speaker 1: baseball cards. This is another reason too, why we're feeling 441 00:20:46,680 --> 00:20:49,439 Speaker 1: people trade baseball cards anymore, though, do the baseball card swap. 442 00:20:49,440 --> 00:20:52,119 Speaker 1: It makes me sad they're doing virtual ones, man, n 443 00:20:52,160 --> 00:20:54,040 Speaker 1: f t s. Come on, really, now there's kids are 444 00:20:54,040 --> 00:20:56,760 Speaker 1: still sitting down and trading baseball cards, especially after this 445 00:20:56,800 --> 00:20:59,679 Speaker 1: World Series win, babe. But I feel that this is 446 00:20:59,800 --> 00:21:01,920 Speaker 1: an other great reason why it's so important to have 447 00:21:02,080 --> 00:21:05,000 Speaker 1: both partners in a relationship involved in their finances. I 448 00:21:05,000 --> 00:21:08,080 Speaker 1: mean specifically with with hetero relationships, because you can both 449 00:21:08,080 --> 00:21:10,320 Speaker 1: come to the table with that balance. I know that 450 00:21:10,359 --> 00:21:12,760 Speaker 1: anytime I start thinking, Okay, I'm wanna do something a 451 00:21:12,800 --> 00:21:15,040 Speaker 1: little bit different with our money, I can take that 452 00:21:15,080 --> 00:21:16,840 Speaker 1: to Kay and we talk about it, and she's able 453 00:21:16,880 --> 00:21:19,280 Speaker 1: to provide that balance. She's able to be a ballast 454 00:21:19,560 --> 00:21:21,720 Speaker 1: to me when it comes to the different risks that 455 00:21:21,720 --> 00:21:23,560 Speaker 1: we take with our money, and when you're able to 456 00:21:23,600 --> 00:21:26,000 Speaker 1: incorporate multiple viewpoints, I think that is going to be 457 00:21:26,080 --> 00:21:28,560 Speaker 1: the key to doing the most positive things that you 458 00:21:28,600 --> 00:21:30,280 Speaker 1: can do with your money with your wealth. Yeah, I 459 00:21:30,320 --> 00:21:32,040 Speaker 1: don't know why, Mad, I'm getting the picture of like 460 00:21:32,200 --> 00:21:34,040 Speaker 1: a bully on a playground. Of the kid that's getting 461 00:21:34,080 --> 00:21:36,480 Speaker 1: picked on, it probably has very little confidence in the 462 00:21:36,560 --> 00:21:40,080 Speaker 1: kid that is doing doing the picking on is probably 463 00:21:40,080 --> 00:21:41,960 Speaker 1: too confident. And you want to be I don't know 464 00:21:41,960 --> 00:21:43,359 Speaker 1: if the kid mc corner doing his own thing. You 465 00:21:43,359 --> 00:21:46,200 Speaker 1: don't want to be either of those. Uh, you want 466 00:21:46,200 --> 00:21:48,160 Speaker 1: to be the kid, uh, you know, swinging on the swing, 467 00:21:48,200 --> 00:21:52,000 Speaker 1: having fun exactly exactly. And so yeah, you wanna find 468 00:21:52,080 --> 00:21:55,440 Speaker 1: the confidence sweet spot and make sure that you are investing. 469 00:21:55,640 --> 00:21:58,320 Speaker 1: But lest you're not getting so cocky that you start 470 00:21:58,359 --> 00:22:00,680 Speaker 1: to do crazy stuff, because you're gonna end up with 471 00:22:00,760 --> 00:22:03,199 Speaker 1: less money over time. And yeah, let's let's get to 472 00:22:03,200 --> 00:22:05,560 Speaker 1: that Shack story, Matt. Let's talk about one of our 473 00:22:05,600 --> 00:22:08,280 Speaker 1: favorite a t aliens that we've never had the pleasure 474 00:22:08,320 --> 00:22:10,040 Speaker 1: of meeting. But maybe Shack will come on the show 475 00:22:10,080 --> 00:22:11,600 Speaker 1: one of these days. What do you think I would 476 00:22:11,640 --> 00:22:14,240 Speaker 1: love that? All Right, Shack open invite anytime, but the 477 00:22:14,480 --> 00:22:17,920 Speaker 1: title of this episode called him stinchy, so he might 478 00:22:17,960 --> 00:22:21,240 Speaker 1: actually decline. Sorry about that, Shack, it was just a joke. 479 00:22:21,560 --> 00:22:24,160 Speaker 1: It turns out that Shack told friends of the show, 480 00:22:24,200 --> 00:22:27,280 Speaker 1: Troy and Rashad from the podcast Earn Your Leisure they 481 00:22:27,320 --> 00:22:29,159 Speaker 1: came on a while back, that he's not going to 482 00:22:29,200 --> 00:22:32,240 Speaker 1: be giving any of his money to his son's in 483 00:22:32,280 --> 00:22:35,040 Speaker 1: the future, and it's not because he doesn't love them. 484 00:22:35,240 --> 00:22:38,800 Speaker 1: He specifically tells his kids, we ain't rich, I'm rich, 485 00:22:40,280 --> 00:22:44,160 Speaker 1: and he went so good, I love it. It's classic Shack, 486 00:22:44,440 --> 00:22:45,920 Speaker 1: and he went on to say that if they want 487 00:22:45,960 --> 00:22:47,639 Speaker 1: money from him, they've got to come up with like 488 00:22:47,640 --> 00:22:49,600 Speaker 1: a business plan that's worth investing in, and they've got 489 00:22:49,600 --> 00:22:52,520 Speaker 1: to sell him on it. Shock is a businessman. Yeah, 490 00:22:52,520 --> 00:22:55,280 Speaker 1: he said, you gotta earn it. And you know what, 491 00:22:55,320 --> 00:22:57,679 Speaker 1: we're with Shack on this one. Shack wasn't just a 492 00:22:57,720 --> 00:23:01,199 Speaker 1: successful basketball player. He's been success in so many areas 493 00:23:01,240 --> 00:23:04,560 Speaker 1: of his life, including parenthood apparently. And I love that 494 00:23:04,640 --> 00:23:07,000 Speaker 1: he's teaching his kids work ethic and that his own 495 00:23:07,040 --> 00:23:10,040 Speaker 1: good fortune and hard work don't translate to his kids 496 00:23:10,200 --> 00:23:13,520 Speaker 1: riding his coattails and just automatically, like get moving on 497 00:23:13,560 --> 00:23:15,520 Speaker 1: to third base. He's saying no, no no, no, no, you 498 00:23:15,600 --> 00:23:18,280 Speaker 1: gotta hit that triple yourself. And a lot of baseball 499 00:23:18,320 --> 00:23:21,879 Speaker 1: references in this episode. But uh, I think it's just 500 00:23:21,960 --> 00:23:24,679 Speaker 1: so good to see where Shacks coming from on this, 501 00:23:24,720 --> 00:23:26,440 Speaker 1: And I think you're gonna make heart of your kids 502 00:23:26,480 --> 00:23:28,960 Speaker 1: as a result when even if you have the resources, 503 00:23:29,080 --> 00:23:31,439 Speaker 1: you don't just hand them over to your kids automatically. 504 00:23:31,480 --> 00:23:33,280 Speaker 1: That's right. I mean, this is a huge reason why 505 00:23:33,680 --> 00:23:36,800 Speaker 1: none of our kids are on an allowance. If they 506 00:23:36,840 --> 00:23:38,679 Speaker 1: want to earn money, they actually have to earn it. 507 00:23:38,720 --> 00:23:41,639 Speaker 1: There are jobs they have to accomplish. And yes, like 508 00:23:41,680 --> 00:23:43,160 Speaker 1: they are a part of our family and there's things 509 00:23:43,160 --> 00:23:45,720 Speaker 1: that they do because they're just our kids, but that's 510 00:23:45,760 --> 00:23:47,280 Speaker 1: not tied to money at all. That's just tied to 511 00:23:47,760 --> 00:23:50,280 Speaker 1: roles in our family and responsibility and what it means 512 00:23:50,280 --> 00:23:52,360 Speaker 1: to be, you know, a part of our household. Yes, 513 00:23:52,440 --> 00:23:54,480 Speaker 1: we want them to know how to handle money and 514 00:23:54,480 --> 00:23:56,480 Speaker 1: how to you know, invest it and spend it things 515 00:23:56,520 --> 00:23:57,960 Speaker 1: like that, But the first thing that we have to 516 00:23:58,040 --> 00:24:00,280 Speaker 1: learn how to do here is earn that money. That's 517 00:24:00,280 --> 00:24:02,199 Speaker 1: why I think putting kids on commission is actually a 518 00:24:02,240 --> 00:24:04,760 Speaker 1: great thing. A great thing to do. But we, like 519 00:24:04,800 --> 00:24:06,199 Speaker 1: you said, we we have to find a way to 520 00:24:06,240 --> 00:24:08,680 Speaker 1: communicate to them that we love them, uh, and that 521 00:24:09,359 --> 00:24:12,440 Speaker 1: love equals money Like that is this way of thinking 522 00:24:12,440 --> 00:24:14,320 Speaker 1: that we need to make sure that we push back against. 523 00:24:14,640 --> 00:24:17,880 Speaker 1: No doubt, it's tough to raise resilient kids, resilient kids 524 00:24:17,880 --> 00:24:22,560 Speaker 1: who know how to handle money decently well. And so yeah, 525 00:24:22,640 --> 00:24:24,800 Speaker 1: and if you're wondering, well, how do I how do 526 00:24:24,840 --> 00:24:25,920 Speaker 1: I do that? What are some of the things I 527 00:24:25,920 --> 00:24:28,399 Speaker 1: need to implement? What we just had Liz Frasier on 528 00:24:28,440 --> 00:24:30,959 Speaker 1: the show. She talked all about how to teach your 529 00:24:31,040 --> 00:24:34,320 Speaker 1: kids about money, and she talked about allowances and that 530 00:24:34,359 --> 00:24:36,360 Speaker 1: was that was a really good episode and encouraged you 531 00:24:36,400 --> 00:24:38,320 Speaker 1: back and listen to that one if you missed it. 532 00:24:38,560 --> 00:24:41,320 Speaker 1: But that's gonna do it for today's episode. For listeners 533 00:24:41,359 --> 00:24:43,639 Speaker 1: who want the show notes for today's episode, to see 534 00:24:43,880 --> 00:24:46,600 Speaker 1: the links to the articles that we discussed, you can 535 00:24:46,640 --> 00:24:48,680 Speaker 1: go to our website at how to money dot com. 536 00:24:48,720 --> 00:24:51,360 Speaker 1: That's right, and it's Friday, which means you've got all 537 00:24:51,359 --> 00:24:54,280 Speaker 1: weekend to head over to Apple Podcasts or wherever you 538 00:24:54,359 --> 00:24:57,120 Speaker 1: listen to your shows and leave us a solid review. 539 00:24:57,160 --> 00:24:58,879 Speaker 1: If you have not yet done that. It's spent a 540 00:24:58,880 --> 00:25:01,480 Speaker 1: minute since we've asked were reviews, and we would really 541 00:25:01,480 --> 00:25:03,760 Speaker 1: appreciate it helps others to find the show and helps 542 00:25:03,840 --> 00:25:06,320 Speaker 1: us to continue to spread the word to ensure that 543 00:25:06,400 --> 00:25:09,320 Speaker 1: other folks are out there doing smart things with their money, 544 00:25:09,400 --> 00:25:10,720 Speaker 1: no doubt, and we hope to see you if you're 545 00:25:10,720 --> 00:25:14,399 Speaker 1: in Atlantic. Monday Night Garage five tonight is going to 546 00:25:14,440 --> 00:25:16,520 Speaker 1: be a lot of fun, all right. That's gonna do it, though, Matt. 547 00:25:16,680 --> 00:25:19,480 Speaker 1: Until next time, Best Friends Out, Best Friends Out,