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Speaker 1: The nick A Gliser Podcast.

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Speaker 2: Glaser, here's Nikki.

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Speaker 3: Hello here, I am welcome to the show. It's Nicky

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Speaker 3: Gleizer Podcast. I'm in a pretty good mood today. I

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Speaker 3: just went to Pilate's early morning, got it done with.

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Speaker 3: I don't think there's any better feeling than being done

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Speaker 3: with a workout. Oh yeah, Oh it's the best. Can

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Speaker 3: you beat it?

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Speaker 4: Can anyone beat that feeling? The worst time to die

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Speaker 4: would be right after you leave the gym.

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Speaker 3: Interesting, okay, yeah, because you just worked out, you put

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Speaker 3: in the time, and you're about to have like a

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Speaker 3: really good hour, and you don't.

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Speaker 4: You don't get to experience the benefits.

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Speaker 3: I always think that it's like, well, you can look

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Speaker 3: hot during your autopsy. But I always think about the

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Speaker 3: worst time to die would be at the end. You like,

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Speaker 3: you take a plane somewhere and you you take like

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Speaker 3: a seventeen hour flight and it it it crashes upon landing.

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah, I'd rather just like.

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Speaker 3: Let's get it over with at the top of it.

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Speaker 3: So you just and you're in a middle seat the

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Speaker 3: whole time on like a China Eastern Air, which was

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Speaker 3: the worst flight I've ever taken in my life. That

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Speaker 3: was the it was hell on Earth jet Blue Mint.

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Speaker 3: I would like to die at the end of that

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Speaker 3: because I'm laying horizontal. I'm sleeping the whole time. That

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Speaker 3: was the greatest experience of my life. Of the year.

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Speaker 3: My best moment of the past three hundred and sixty

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Speaker 3: five days was a flight from Los Angeles to West

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Speaker 3: Palm Beach two weeks ago Jet Blue Mint Horizon. I

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Speaker 3: lay down the whole time. No one can get me

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Speaker 3: in the air, there's no responsibilities, there's no there could

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Speaker 3: be no wife. I no one knows I am safe

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Speaker 3: in a cubby. There's someone next to me. I don't

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Speaker 3: like even I like someone laying next to me too.

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Speaker 3: I just like to be like some I like that

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Speaker 3: everyone's like awake doing things, and I get to sleep

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Speaker 3: peacefully like a little squirrel, like hollow it out.

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Speaker 4: Long in your bed at night and then hearing your

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Speaker 4: parents talking and like the other room. That's like from childhood.

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Speaker 3: It's the greatest. When there's activity, someone is, someone's awake

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Speaker 3: to get intruders monsters if they come. But yeah, okay,

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Speaker 3: so jet Blue it's like you walk in or this

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Speaker 3: is like it's it's just a first class experience so

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Speaker 3: and not a lot of planes have it so you

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Speaker 3: can lay down. Those are always like flights, you know,

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Speaker 3: like longer.

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Speaker 2: But usually domestic.

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Speaker 3: What was that?

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Speaker 2: Especially domestic flights.

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Speaker 3: Usually it's got to be like Los Angeles to New York.

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Speaker 3: But this Los Angeles to West Palm Beach was like

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Speaker 3: a five hour flight, so I slept the entire time.

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Speaker 3: But yeah, it lays all you get totally.

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Speaker 4: Flat, and just think about the people flying from LA

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Speaker 4: to West Palm Beach. Those are some pretty special people

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Speaker 4: that are like the West Beach is filled with boomers

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Speaker 4: who are retired, and LA people are all mostly in

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Speaker 4: the industry, so it's probably yeah, like.

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Speaker 3: I don't want to know how much that flight costs.

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Speaker 4: They're probably like producers from the Seven Doors storry about.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that's my new thing to spend money on. I'm

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Speaker 3: just doing this shit. Flying first class when you can

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Speaker 3: lay down is my favorite thing in the world. There's

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Speaker 3: not there's not a moment I spent with my niece

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Speaker 3: where she was giggling and saying I love you. That

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Speaker 3: is better than that feeling. There's not me completing, you know,

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Speaker 3: months long of preparing for a special and it finally

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Speaker 3: being done. There's no there's no better feeling than sleeping

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Speaker 3: in the air.

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Speaker 4: Would you rather do that than fly private?

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, one hundred percent. I liked. I like being

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Speaker 3: around people. I don't I don't want to fly private

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Speaker 3: because I also feel like you'll die private, Like you

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Speaker 3: have a better chance of dying when it's a smaller plane. Sure,

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Speaker 3: so I get a little bit worried about that. But no,

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Speaker 3: I would and no, I wouldn't want to fly private.

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Speaker 3: I feel like I would feel lonely.

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Speaker 4: You wouldn't drop twenty k to go private to West

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Speaker 4: I like airports.

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Speaker 3: I like Hudson Newses. I like paying four dollars and

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Speaker 3: nine cents for a diet coke. I like setting my

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Speaker 3: bags down and going to the bathroom. I just I like,

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Speaker 3: I don't like the TSA, but like it's not so

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Speaker 3: bad once you get in there. Once you pass the TSA,

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Speaker 3: it feels you just feel like no one can get

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Speaker 3: you in there. There's just nothing you can do. I

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Speaker 5: Where are they get in that?

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Speaker 3: Like if you wrote to me and were like, I

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Speaker 3: need you to write back to this email or I

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Speaker 3: need you to review this video. To send us notes

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Speaker 3: on it. The WiFi is really bad here, like an airport,

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Speaker 3: there's nowhere to listen to things. There's no where to

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Speaker 3: like actually work.

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Speaker 5: That's where I do all my listening and working.

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Speaker 3: Yes, I guess people do.

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Speaker 5: Definitely have WiFi, and everyone knows.

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Speaker 3: It's not like these buingo hotspots anymore. It's like it's

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Speaker 3: free strong. You have to watch an ad for AT

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Speaker 3: and T for fifty seconds and then you're in the

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Speaker 3: plane is different.

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Speaker 6: I think it's so funny in airports, like in the

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Speaker 6: waiting areas when there's like a crowd of people where

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Speaker 6: you can plug in your charger block for the phone.

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Speaker 6: It's just people huddled around.

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Speaker 3: In like this. It's like a fire in a old

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Speaker 3: you know barrel. Yeah, like homeless people.

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Speaker 4: The remember that were you there for the blackout of

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Speaker 4: twenty there for the black fourteen something? Oh those were

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Speaker 4: wild to fourteen.

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Speaker 3: I think there was one only two thousand and eight.

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Speaker 2: Two thousand and eight, I think it was.

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Speaker 5: How long was it blacked?

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Speaker 4: Well, it's pretty wild. I think it was like a

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Speaker 4: week or something. For there were some parts of it

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Speaker 4: that were way longer.

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Speaker 3: I was there in twenty fourteen. But I don't remember.

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Speaker 4: I don't remember exactly. It wasn't two thousand and eight,

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Speaker 4: because yeah, I wouldn't have.

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Speaker 3: Been really was it was before the tens.

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Speaker 4: The big blackout, Well that was Hurricane Sandy and then

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Speaker 4: there maybe that was. Yeah, the blackout was twelve twenty twelve.

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Speaker 3: Oh, two thousand and three was the blackout that I read?

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Speaker 4: Oh, well that was that was me growing up. Blackout

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Speaker 4: That was like the whole Eastern Seaboard blackout and where

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Speaker 4: I went looting as a young boy.

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Speaker 3: Do you remember that?

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Speaker 4: Yeah? No, I remember the blackout of two thousand and

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Speaker 4: three and men I went looting, Yes, I.

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Speaker 3: Did know you did.

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Speaker 5: It's like your neighbors under I went and I stole.

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Speaker 4: Me and my friends we went and I went to

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Speaker 4: the summer camp that I used to go to, and

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Speaker 4: we stole like a basketball or something like that. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: because there was nothing. Everything was off and it was dark.

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Speaker 4: You really couldn't see anything. And me and my friends,

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Speaker 4: me and my little rapscallion friends there, we were real

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Speaker 4: little rascals. We went through the town and we stole

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Speaker 4: mostly sporting goods from places that wouldn't have missed them.

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Speaker 3: Okay, like a plate against sports or like, like, how

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Speaker 3: did you get into these sporting good stores that.

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Speaker 4: The camp was just wedn go to stores? I did,

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Speaker 4: like throw a brick through a window and loot like

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Speaker 4: it's San Francisco in twenty twenty? Am I right? No?

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Speaker 4: I went a climb defense or unhooked defense or just

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Speaker 3: It was like the worst thing you ever did in

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Speaker 3: your life? Was like, was that the most breaking laws?

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Speaker 3: Like you ever did? Hold on, I have a booger.

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Speaker 3: I can't handle this. There's a face, an old face

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Speaker 3: mask down here.

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Speaker 5: I'm gonna.

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Speaker 3: I hate when like there's just like a like a

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Speaker 3: wet booger you like like sniffle your nose and it

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Speaker 3: like transfers into chic. No, is this too gross for you?

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Speaker 5: Wait?

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Speaker 3: Does this not happen to you?

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Speaker 5: I don't like what ones?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, they're horrible because at least a dry one you

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Speaker 3: can feel and you can like fall off, you can

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Speaker 3: like flick it off. Noah's gone, she blashed, has said.

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Speaker 5: No, I'm gonna go loot something and it's clean.

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Speaker 3: Is that the worst thing you ever did? Brian?

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Speaker 4: The worst thing I ever did? Crime wise? I can't

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Speaker 4: think of something worse than looting.

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Speaker 3: Stealing from a summer camp.

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Speaker 4: I mean, I mean I did beat the ship out

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Speaker 4: of that. I did beat the ship out of that

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Speaker 4: eleven year old.

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Speaker 5: Last year.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, last year, and he and he died.

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Speaker 3: But when did you beat the ship out of eleven

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Speaker 3: year old? You were eleven?

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Speaker 2: I'm guessing no.

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Speaker 4: I was thirty and I just killed an eleven. I

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Speaker 4: don't know what like this joke?

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Speaker 3: Wait, when did you beat the ship out of an eleven

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Speaker 4: I never? But one time I was that was just

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Speaker 4: a joke. I was exaggerating something that I definitely didn't do.

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Speaker 4: One time I did kidnap a bunch of uh women

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Speaker 4: from a from.

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Speaker 3: I don't like them. All it keeps coming.

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Speaker 4: It looks podcast. Is this this whole thing?

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Speaker 3: Even I can't Yeah, it's all I felt like.

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Speaker 4: I was vamping with my random crime. This is all

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Speaker 4: going in. People are going to listen to this, then

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Speaker 4: we're gonna.

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Speaker 3: Have does anyone?

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Speaker 5: Why not? It's the truer.

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Speaker 3: It's not like I'm like doing I'm molesting someone on camera,

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Speaker 3: you know, like it's it's it's not a crime to have.

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Speaker 4: Well, you have a dust in your nose. No, it's

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Speaker 4: not a crime. But you have a very special relationship

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Speaker 4: with like germs and things like that, Like you don't

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Speaker 4: care at all, Like you're your your level of germ

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Speaker 4: caring is like beyond the spectrum. It's like so low.

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Speaker 3: No, it's I'm not disgusting, Like there are things that

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Speaker 3: I disgusting.

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Speaker 4: You don't care.

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Speaker 3: Boogers are not germs. Well yeah, boogers are gross, there's

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Speaker 3: no doubt about it.

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Speaker 5: A wetness. You can take the we Sorry.

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Speaker 3: I probably wouldn't want to hear someone talking about that

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Speaker 3: if I was listening to a podcast, but my own.

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Speaker 3: Do not discuss me.

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Speaker 4: Of course, but do you know what I'm talking?

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Speaker 3: Wipe your nose and it will like get on your

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Speaker 3: hand somewhere and every stream. I slowly moved, Oh there is,

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Speaker 3: there's one.

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Speaker 4: On my hands, like.

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Speaker 3: A part of it gets on there. It's fine, everyone

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Speaker 3: calm down. Let's go back to looting.

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Speaker 5: Chill.

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Speaker 3: The biggest thing you've ever stolen cop car? Remember, Oh

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Speaker 3: my god, will you tell us again, because I forget

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Speaker 3: I stole a cop car.

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Speaker 5: It was the Jimmy Buffett parking lot which me and

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Speaker 5: my friend used to go to the parking lot for

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Speaker 5: shows and not actually go into the shows. And we

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Speaker 5: went to the parking lots so we could steal. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: What I thought you were going to say? Fourteen? Why

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Speaker 4: God, and he stole a cop car and a badge. Yes,

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Speaker 4: And now you're implicating yourself on a podcast that thousands

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Speaker 5: It could be just a story that I like to

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Speaker 5: I think it's all fiction?

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Speaker 4: Would you do? Now?

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Speaker 5: No, because I don't take things from people just.

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Speaker 3: Like stores or cops, cars or the state. Well you

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Speaker 5: And then that's funny because I have pictured we have

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Speaker 5: like why are we gonna jump? We should be having fun.

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Speaker 3: Unbeknown to have totally done something like that when I'm drunk.

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Speaker 4: It's a violation of people's privacy and people aren't gonna

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Speaker 5: Her dad like and cardinals outfits. I said, I was

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Speaker 3: But they saw they were coming back just as you

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Speaker 5: Yeah, And I don't know how. They must have been

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Speaker 3: I watched this documentary series on Netflix called American Nightmare,

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Speaker 3: You saw the whole thing.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, isn't it wild?

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Speaker 5: She said, I was already raped before.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, he did it.

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Speaker 3: He would always almost rape them and then they would go,

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Speaker 5: And he's like, okay, I won't like I said, I

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Speaker 3: I was watching this last night. I was like, if

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Speaker 5: Every man is out there trying to do that.

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Speaker 3: This is like every man every woman is susceptible to it. Yeah,

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Speaker 5: to get undo it. But an example is if a

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Speaker 5: person like steals from work or something, then they will

447
00:20:12,160 --> 00:20:14,800
Speaker 5: feel bad, but it's kind of like repressed. They're feeling bad,

448
00:20:14,880 --> 00:20:17,280
Speaker 5: so you will give a homeless person a dollar and

449
00:20:17,320 --> 00:20:19,240
Speaker 5: the like, See, I'm a good person. I'm taking, but

450
00:20:19,280 --> 00:20:23,280
Speaker 5: I'm also giving. So you undo the bad thing giving

451
00:20:23,800 --> 00:20:25,960
Speaker 5: giving advice. That's why I do that.

452
00:20:26,920 --> 00:20:32,080
Speaker 4: In this instance, the bad thing was not her yeah, you.

453
00:20:34,160 --> 00:20:35,320
Speaker 3: And telling her to get a dog.

454
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Speaker 5: We traumatized her by coming and breaking in her house,

455
00:20:38,320 --> 00:20:40,159
Speaker 5: and then he undid it by giving her advice.

456
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Speaker 3: I know you're going to be traumatized. I know this

457
00:20:42,640 --> 00:20:44,000
Speaker 3: is going to fuck you up for a while, and

458
00:20:44,040 --> 00:20:47,320
Speaker 3: I'm really sorry. Like and he's got this guy. If

459
00:20:47,400 --> 00:20:49,840
Speaker 3: you guys have got to watch American Nightmare. It's so

460
00:20:50,119 --> 00:20:52,520
Speaker 3: good because there's so many twists and turns. It's only

461
00:20:52,560 --> 00:20:54,840
Speaker 3: three forty five minute episodes. It's not too much. They

462
00:20:54,880 --> 00:20:57,119
Speaker 3: fly by. I really recommend it. We'll be back up

463
00:20:57,119 --> 00:21:03,359
Speaker 3: for this. Speaking of Netflix, I'm finished with Love on

464
00:21:03,359 --> 00:21:08,240
Speaker 3: the Spectrum season two and it's incredible. Connor is my

465
00:21:08,240 --> 00:21:13,520
Speaker 3: favorite character no spoilers. James is another one. He's the

466
00:21:13,560 --> 00:21:18,560
Speaker 3: one that talks like das and well, I do think

467
00:21:18,600 --> 00:21:21,680
Speaker 3: that maybe we would be a good match. But she's

468
00:21:21,720 --> 00:21:25,440
Speaker 3: a vegetarian. In the scheme of things, it isn't that bad.

469
00:21:25,520 --> 00:21:31,719
Speaker 3: But and then Connor talks like this, and it's he

470
00:21:31,760 --> 00:21:33,680
Speaker 3: talks like he's in a movie all the time.

471
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Speaker 6: We have a question cute about and then Danny I

472
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Speaker 6: think episode seven of season two from Bestie Amanda, can

473
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Speaker 6: I read it to you?

474
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Speaker 3: Yeah?

475
00:21:43,280 --> 00:21:45,679
Speaker 6: Okay, Well, I guess it's not really a question, it's

476
00:21:45,720 --> 00:21:48,760
Speaker 6: a statement. I need Nikki to talk about the cupcake

477
00:21:48,840 --> 00:21:51,639
Speaker 6: scene with Danny and Adan from Love on the Spectrum.

478
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Speaker 3: Yeah, Danny is Anya is a great impression of Danny.

479
00:21:57,000 --> 00:22:00,600
Speaker 3: But she's talks like a cartoon care her because she

480
00:22:00,680 --> 00:22:03,959
Speaker 3: is obsessed with animation. And she goes out with guys

481
00:22:04,000 --> 00:22:06,919
Speaker 3: and she rejected this one guy because she was like,

482
00:22:06,960 --> 00:22:09,760
Speaker 3: and what do you do for income? And does that

483
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Speaker 3: make you income? She was.

484
00:22:12,440 --> 00:22:13,359
Speaker 5: In the last season.

485
00:22:13,680 --> 00:22:14,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, she was on last season too.

486
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Speaker 1: Yeah.

487
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Speaker 4: I haven't seen the new season, but I saw the

488
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Speaker 4: last season, so I saw the clip. Is this couple

489
00:22:20,960 --> 00:22:22,479
Speaker 4: weren't it a couple last season?

490
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Speaker 3: Or they went out on a date last season? Workout?

491
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Speaker 4: Yes?

492
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Speaker 3: And so now there she's like, I have been thinking

493
00:22:30,680 --> 00:22:33,560
Speaker 3: about Adam or what I think it's Adam, but they

494
00:22:33,600 --> 00:22:36,960
Speaker 3: say it's weird. I have been thinking a lot about him,

495
00:22:37,000 --> 00:22:38,720
Speaker 3: and I think I want to give him another chance.

496
00:22:39,040 --> 00:22:41,760
Speaker 3: And so they go out on another date and he

497
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Speaker 3: and then they kind of collick and the things are

498
00:22:45,240 --> 00:22:50,680
Speaker 3: going well, and they share a kiss, and she's commenting

499
00:22:50,720 --> 00:22:54,080
Speaker 3: to her aunt who she lives with, that maybe his

500
00:22:54,200 --> 00:22:57,360
Speaker 3: kissing wasn't the best, but it's something that he can

501
00:22:57,400 --> 00:22:59,600
Speaker 3: work on and can grow from. And she goes to

502
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Speaker 3: the library gets all these books about sex and like

503
00:23:02,160 --> 00:23:04,919
Speaker 3: TNTRA and like hell yeah, and she's like should I

504
00:23:05,160 --> 00:23:08,440
Speaker 3: Sandy loves her aunt Sandy. She's like, Sandy, should I

505
00:23:08,480 --> 00:23:10,360
Speaker 3: bring my books on my date? Because it's like, this

506
00:23:10,400 --> 00:23:11,919
Speaker 3: is the next date where she's going to talk to

507
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Speaker 3: him about premarital sex because he is Catholic and she's

508
00:23:15,320 --> 00:23:17,840
Speaker 3: worried that he won't have sex before marriage. And she's like,

509
00:23:18,400 --> 00:23:21,000
Speaker 3: that's just non negotiable for me, even though I don't

510
00:23:21,040 --> 00:23:24,040
Speaker 3: think she's had sex before. But so she goes to

511
00:23:24,080 --> 00:23:27,040
Speaker 3: the date and the kiss, the kiss they shared. They're

512
00:23:27,040 --> 00:23:30,400
Speaker 3: always sharing kisses on the show. The kiss they shared

513
00:23:31,080 --> 00:23:34,040
Speaker 3: wasn't ideal for her, and so she goes on the

514
00:23:34,119 --> 00:23:37,400
Speaker 3: date and she she asked him about premi dal sex.

515
00:23:37,480 --> 00:23:40,800
Speaker 3: He is so flummixed by it and like nervous. But

516
00:23:40,880 --> 00:23:43,080
Speaker 3: at first he's like, and I don't believe in premiarital sex.

517
00:23:43,359 --> 00:23:45,720
Speaker 3: And then he realizes like he's gonna lose her, and

518
00:23:45,760 --> 00:23:47,480
Speaker 3: he's like, I could be open to the idea, and

519
00:23:47,520 --> 00:23:49,960
Speaker 3: she's like, that's all I think that's a great idea,

520
00:23:50,040 --> 00:23:53,680
Speaker 3: and so then and so then she's satisfied. And then

521
00:23:54,040 --> 00:23:56,920
Speaker 3: she's like, I brought some cupcakes. And I was kind

522
00:23:56,920 --> 00:23:58,960
Speaker 3: of half paying attended, so I don't remember if we

523
00:23:59,040 --> 00:24:01,639
Speaker 3: knew about what the cup cake plan was, but she

524
00:24:01,760 --> 00:24:03,600
Speaker 3: was like, I brought some cupcakes. And he's very excited

525
00:24:03,600 --> 00:24:06,399
Speaker 3: about the cupcakes. Can I just say before this, like

526
00:24:06,480 --> 00:24:11,280
Speaker 3: a date, before this? She Oh God, he's walking up

527
00:24:11,280 --> 00:24:13,080
Speaker 3: to her like they're greeting for the first time. She

528
00:24:13,160 --> 00:24:15,400
Speaker 3: runs to him. It's so cute. She's excited to see

529
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Speaker 3: him again. And he has this ring on, this big,

530
00:24:18,080 --> 00:24:21,280
Speaker 3: like silver square ring, and she was like, I like

531
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Speaker 3: your ring and he's like, oh you do not take

532
00:24:24,160 --> 00:24:27,000
Speaker 3: a look. Well please, here you go, and he pulls

533
00:24:27,000 --> 00:24:28,960
Speaker 3: it off to like hand it George. She goes, thank you,

534
00:24:29,000 --> 00:24:31,600
Speaker 3: so much, and he's like, well, I'm not giving.

535
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Speaker 2: It to you.

536
00:24:32,280 --> 00:24:34,920
Speaker 3: It's like reiterating that he's not. I don't think there's

537
00:24:34,960 --> 00:24:36,880
Speaker 3: any worse feeling in the world than when you think

538
00:24:36,920 --> 00:24:39,040
Speaker 3: someone's giving you something and they're like, well, you can't

539
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Speaker 3: have it.

540
00:24:39,760 --> 00:24:41,560
Speaker 5: No, I just say that.

541
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Speaker 3: That's the worst is I don't don't.

542
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Speaker 5: What I meant. Yes, Oh god, I've done it so

543
00:24:47,000 --> 00:24:49,240
Speaker 5: many times. I'm like, oh, I look cute, and you're like, really,

544
00:24:49,280 --> 00:24:51,040
Speaker 5: thank you. I'm like, no, I just meant you could

545
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Speaker 5: look at it.

546
00:24:53,160 --> 00:24:55,800
Speaker 3: And so he's like, well, I'm not. Uh, it's not yours.

547
00:24:55,840 --> 00:24:58,040
Speaker 3: I'm not parting ways. And then he's like, but I

548
00:24:58,080 --> 00:25:00,320
Speaker 3: did make you this and it's like an identical but

549
00:25:00,359 --> 00:25:03,120
Speaker 3: I guess it's a little bit uglier, and she goes, oh,

550
00:25:03,160 --> 00:25:06,600
Speaker 3: thank you. Well it does remind me of you, because

551
00:25:07,080 --> 00:25:13,760
Speaker 3: not everything's perfect. He's not even offended. He's like thank you.

552
00:25:14,400 --> 00:25:16,280
Speaker 3: And then they go on these goddamn swan boats and

553
00:25:16,320 --> 00:25:18,560
Speaker 3: they're having fun and then they have they share a

554
00:25:18,640 --> 00:25:20,320
Speaker 3: kiss and it's not ideal. So the next day she

555
00:25:20,359 --> 00:25:22,879
Speaker 3: brings up these cupcakes and she tells him, you know,

556
00:25:25,200 --> 00:25:28,320
Speaker 3: a really good way to practice kissing is to use

557
00:25:28,320 --> 00:25:30,640
Speaker 3: a cupcake because you have to use your tongue and

558
00:25:31,480 --> 00:25:34,919
Speaker 3: you lick it and then you like she's just telling

559
00:25:35,000 --> 00:25:38,840
Speaker 3: him like, let's she's pretty much sing like that's practice kissing,

560
00:25:38,880 --> 00:25:41,320
Speaker 3: Like let me teach you how to kiss by making

561
00:25:41,359 --> 00:25:44,360
Speaker 3: this like a fun thing I heard about that people do.

562
00:25:44,880 --> 00:25:46,560
Speaker 3: And so he just wants to eat the cupcake and

563
00:25:46,600 --> 00:25:51,000
Speaker 3: she's like, well, biting's not ideal, and she's so he

564
00:25:51,280 --> 00:25:54,399
Speaker 3: they are on this part in public and she is

565
00:25:54,520 --> 00:25:58,080
Speaker 3: full on making out with this cupcake and trying to

566
00:25:58,119 --> 00:26:00,239
Speaker 3: show him and explain it to him. And it's so

567
00:26:00,520 --> 00:26:04,600
Speaker 3: funny because he he's awkward at first, like he does

568
00:26:04,720 --> 00:26:05,879
Speaker 3: you can tell he doesn't want to do it, but

569
00:26:05,920 --> 00:26:08,439
Speaker 3: he just likes her so much that then he buys

570
00:26:08,480 --> 00:26:11,480
Speaker 3: into it. And then he calls her teach at one point, which.

571
00:26:11,320 --> 00:26:15,880
Speaker 5: Is so funny because teach, Yeah, hot.

572
00:26:16,160 --> 00:26:18,840
Speaker 3: It's so hot because he acknowledged that, like she's kind

573
00:26:18,880 --> 00:26:21,040
Speaker 3: of being a little bit bossy and he's a little

574
00:26:21,320 --> 00:26:23,879
Speaker 3: not loving it, but it's just was a way to

575
00:26:23,920 --> 00:26:26,560
Speaker 3: acknowledge it. It was just so cute. But I just love,

576
00:26:27,240 --> 00:26:29,199
Speaker 3: like what would I do if I was dating a

577
00:26:29,200 --> 00:26:31,480
Speaker 3: guy and I hated the way he kissed I don't

578
00:26:31,480 --> 00:26:34,360
Speaker 3: think i'd have the ball, just that it even takes ball.

579
00:26:34,400 --> 00:26:38,880
Speaker 5: Just forcibly like push their tongue around, stop seeing them.

580
00:26:39,160 --> 00:26:42,760
Speaker 3: Yeah you just like then you let all this connection

581
00:26:42,920 --> 00:26:44,240
Speaker 3: go because you don't have.

582
00:26:44,200 --> 00:26:47,640
Speaker 5: The courage to tell someone if we could have a cupcake.

583
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Speaker 3: The good thing about people with autism is that and

584
00:26:51,080 --> 00:26:52,959
Speaker 3: I don't think this is a blanket statement, but I

585
00:26:53,040 --> 00:26:56,600
Speaker 3: think that they aren't. Not only are they not scared

586
00:26:56,640 --> 00:27:00,000
Speaker 3: to tell the truth when they receive the truth about themselves,

587
00:27:00,040 --> 00:27:03,960
Speaker 3: they're not as horrified as Yeah, it doesn't not as

588
00:27:04,040 --> 00:27:07,040
Speaker 3: much divergent people. Yeah, they don't like attach that much

589
00:27:07,119 --> 00:27:09,199
Speaker 3: meaning to it. They're like, this is one thing and

590
00:27:09,280 --> 00:27:11,120
Speaker 3: there's other things going on in my life. They don't

591
00:27:11,160 --> 00:27:13,680
Speaker 3: like focus all of their energy on it like we do.

592
00:27:13,840 --> 00:27:15,680
Speaker 3: They don't. They're not like this means I'm a really

593
00:27:15,760 --> 00:27:18,919
Speaker 3: stand person yea, and then I'm horrible. And so they

594
00:27:18,920 --> 00:27:21,679
Speaker 3: can suffer a little bit of embarrassment. Like for instance,

595
00:27:21,720 --> 00:27:26,480
Speaker 3: Connor is at this speed dating thing and each you know,

596
00:27:26,600 --> 00:27:32,440
Speaker 3: he'll go like, well, how do you feel about nature?

597
00:27:32,920 --> 00:27:34,439
Speaker 3: And the girl will be like, well, I'm kind of

598
00:27:34,480 --> 00:27:37,119
Speaker 3: more of a city goal and he just like clicks

599
00:27:37,160 --> 00:27:39,960
Speaker 3: and writes an X while she's sitting there under no

600
00:27:40,600 --> 00:27:43,040
Speaker 3: and and you see whether it's edited that way. You

601
00:27:43,080 --> 00:27:45,159
Speaker 3: see her look at it, and I've told this before.

602
00:27:45,200 --> 00:27:47,800
Speaker 3: But but the guy steps it in and goes, hey,

603
00:27:47,920 --> 00:27:49,879
Speaker 3: you might want to wait till they're gone before this.

604
00:27:50,200 --> 00:27:53,240
Speaker 3: And he is horrified when that happened, and he's like, oh, no,

605
00:27:53,760 --> 00:27:55,760
Speaker 3: I knew i'd screw it up, but he doesn't like

606
00:27:55,840 --> 00:27:58,600
Speaker 3: it doesn't totally ruin his life. Like for me, if

607
00:27:58,640 --> 00:28:02,000
Speaker 3: someone called out something that you've done this thing wrong

608
00:28:02,160 --> 00:28:04,000
Speaker 3: twice in a row to two different people and might

609
00:28:04,040 --> 00:28:06,960
Speaker 3: have hurt their feelings, I wouldn't feel so bad about it.

610
00:28:07,000 --> 00:28:09,159
Speaker 3: I'd have to like leave, and they seem to just

611
00:28:09,200 --> 00:28:11,000
Speaker 3: be able to roll with it.

612
00:28:11,040 --> 00:28:14,119
Speaker 5: I'd have to like apologize or something too.

613
00:28:15,400 --> 00:28:18,760
Speaker 3: Yeah, so much, Yes, and they apologize, but I think

614
00:28:18,800 --> 00:28:23,680
Speaker 3: a lot of their it's just so fascinating because they

615
00:28:24,359 --> 00:28:26,840
Speaker 3: like I was telling an example to a friend last night,

616
00:28:26,880 --> 00:28:28,119
Speaker 3: trying to sell them on the show, and I'm like,

617
00:28:28,160 --> 00:28:31,119
Speaker 3: it's just the honesty is so refreshing, Like like if

618
00:28:31,119 --> 00:28:32,639
Speaker 3: they're if they are on a date with someone and

619
00:28:32,720 --> 00:28:35,080
Speaker 3: then they were to the person was to smell bad.

620
00:28:35,600 --> 00:28:39,640
Speaker 3: They've learned enough from going to therapies and different teachers

621
00:28:39,640 --> 00:28:42,560
Speaker 3: that like, it is rude to tell someone they smell bad,

622
00:28:42,600 --> 00:28:45,000
Speaker 3: like they've learned that. They don't just like they know

623
00:28:45,080 --> 00:28:46,640
Speaker 3: it from a rule that they rather.

624
00:28:46,640 --> 00:28:49,280
Speaker 5: Their parents are like, don't say that again. They're like, okay, guys,

625
00:28:49,280 --> 00:28:49,959
Speaker 5: how change.

626
00:28:50,760 --> 00:28:53,320
Speaker 3: That's how we all learn it. Maybe, but for some reason,

627
00:28:53,360 --> 00:28:56,200
Speaker 3: it seems like they're adhering to some kind of code

628
00:28:56,960 --> 00:29:01,120
Speaker 3: that it's not like it's not just natural for them

629
00:29:01,160 --> 00:29:02,280
Speaker 3: to keep things inside.

630
00:29:02,320 --> 00:29:04,560
Speaker 4: Well, we take that. We have social cues and we

631
00:29:04,560 --> 00:29:07,280
Speaker 4: we are able to acknowledge like the unspoken. I feel

632
00:29:07,280 --> 00:29:08,800
Speaker 4: like they need to be told the rules and then

633
00:29:08,800 --> 00:29:10,160
Speaker 4: they follow the rules that they want.

634
00:29:10,920 --> 00:29:13,680
Speaker 5: Yeah, they don't have like natural pragmatism.

635
00:29:13,760 --> 00:29:15,640
Speaker 3: They have to be like but they might like make

636
00:29:15,640 --> 00:29:17,600
Speaker 3: a face, like if something small enough, they might be like,

637
00:29:19,160 --> 00:29:19,440
Speaker 3: or they.

638
00:29:19,440 --> 00:29:22,560
Speaker 5: Be like, I try this really deodorant. Maybe you could.

639
00:29:22,640 --> 00:29:23,720
Speaker 5: I'll bring it to you. Yeah.

640
00:29:23,760 --> 00:29:28,280
Speaker 3: They're like passive, yeah, but not aggressive. It's sweet. It's

641
00:29:28,320 --> 00:29:32,600
Speaker 3: like it's just there's So this show is amazing because

642
00:29:32,600 --> 00:29:35,240
Speaker 3: it just highlights so many of the awkward things that

643
00:29:35,280 --> 00:29:38,800
Speaker 3: happen in dating anyway, and they just kind of sit

644
00:29:38,880 --> 00:29:40,440
Speaker 3: in it and and it just.

645
00:29:42,760 --> 00:29:46,239
Speaker 5: Don't just address it immediately instead of you you, we

646
00:29:46,280 --> 00:29:48,320
Speaker 5: would have to In a normal dating show would be like, oh,

647
00:29:48,360 --> 00:29:51,160
Speaker 5: he seemed defended, but they would never admit it, and

648
00:29:51,200 --> 00:29:53,360
Speaker 5: we'd have to like be trying really hard to figure

649
00:29:53,360 --> 00:29:54,080
Speaker 5: out what's going on.

650
00:29:54,200 --> 00:29:54,880
Speaker 3: Wait, what do you mean.

651
00:29:55,080 --> 00:29:57,920
Speaker 5: In a regular dating show, if somebody is offended, we're like, oh,

652
00:29:57,960 --> 00:30:00,000
Speaker 5: she said something, he looked offended. Did you see him

653
00:30:00,040 --> 00:30:03,080
Speaker 5: wins or whatever. But in this show, it's like, we knows,

654
00:30:03,280 --> 00:30:08,000
Speaker 5: I'm quite offended by that comment. Yes, makes everything so clear.

655
00:30:08,200 --> 00:30:11,000
Speaker 3: Another thing I realized, which I think is not just

656
00:30:11,160 --> 00:30:13,600
Speaker 3: people with autism, but they if you watch these shows,

657
00:30:13,600 --> 00:30:16,360
Speaker 3: they don't seem to care. I want to be delicate

658
00:30:16,360 --> 00:30:18,040
Speaker 3: when I say this because I don't want to make

659
00:30:19,400 --> 00:30:23,080
Speaker 3: they I think this is about human nature. I think

660
00:30:23,080 --> 00:30:26,600
Speaker 3: you can get a better idea of how humans really

661
00:30:26,640 --> 00:30:28,280
Speaker 3: want to be and how we are in our natural

662
00:30:28,320 --> 00:30:32,120
Speaker 3: state from studying people who are neurodivergent, because they're not

663
00:30:32,160 --> 00:30:34,680
Speaker 3: subscribing to all these social norms that are like keeping

664
00:30:34,760 --> 00:30:37,920
Speaker 3: us in the cages of like being normal or whatever,

665
00:30:38,000 --> 00:30:40,120
Speaker 3: so and adhering to like this is the way I

666
00:30:40,120 --> 00:30:41,400
Speaker 3: have to sit, this is the way I have to act,

667
00:30:41,600 --> 00:30:44,600
Speaker 3: and so they're just human. They're very human, and so

668
00:30:45,280 --> 00:30:48,719
Speaker 3: I found that on these dates. I don't know if

669
00:30:48,760 --> 00:30:50,680
Speaker 3: you could give me an example of a single date,

670
00:30:50,760 --> 00:30:53,800
Speaker 3: either on Love on the Spectrum or down for Love,

671
00:30:54,240 --> 00:30:57,280
Speaker 3: where they actually care about what the other person is saying.

672
00:30:57,680 --> 00:31:00,000
Speaker 5: I didn't even know that sounds under people. Oh my god.

673
00:31:00,360 --> 00:31:03,720
Speaker 3: They ask questions because they know it's polite, but they

674
00:31:03,800 --> 00:31:08,040
Speaker 3: don't ever really don't care, and they sometimes follow up

675
00:31:08,080 --> 00:31:09,920
Speaker 3: because they've learned to go, tell me more about that.

676
00:31:10,240 --> 00:31:12,600
Speaker 3: But I don't think they actually care what the other

677
00:31:12,640 --> 00:31:15,840
Speaker 3: person is saying, and like they'll go like, that's interesting,

678
00:31:15,880 --> 00:31:17,920
Speaker 3: but I and maybe they do. I don't want.

679
00:31:17,800 --> 00:31:22,000
Speaker 7: To be genuine, but don't there they I don't think

680
00:31:22,080 --> 00:31:24,719
Speaker 7: autistic people don't care about what other people because that's

681
00:31:24,760 --> 00:31:26,240
Speaker 7: what you could maybe glean from this, because you go,

682
00:31:26,320 --> 00:31:27,920
Speaker 7: it's almost like they just want to talk about how

683
00:31:27,920 --> 00:31:28,800
Speaker 7: many dinosaurs they know.

684
00:31:28,800 --> 00:31:31,239
Speaker 3: They don't really care about your favorite dinosaur, right, But

685
00:31:31,280 --> 00:31:34,640
Speaker 3: the truth is, I think no one cares what other

686
00:31:34,680 --> 00:31:41,640
Speaker 3: people think, and any sincere interest is it's kind of phony.

687
00:31:41,800 --> 00:31:44,520
Speaker 5: It's just like social inhibitions that we have that they

688
00:31:44,960 --> 00:31:45,320
Speaker 5: don't have.

689
00:31:45,560 --> 00:31:47,720
Speaker 3: And I'm like, I'm interested in people. I do ask

690
00:31:47,760 --> 00:31:49,560
Speaker 3: about people and be like, oh my god. Like my

691
00:31:49,640 --> 00:31:52,920
Speaker 3: friend that I've been working with this week, I found

692
00:31:52,960 --> 00:31:55,320
Speaker 3: out his parents have both died and I was just like,

693
00:31:56,080 --> 00:31:59,320
Speaker 3: tell me about like what is that like? And I

694
00:31:59,400 --> 00:32:01,440
Speaker 3: was fascinating then what he went through and everything? And

695
00:32:01,440 --> 00:32:03,239
Speaker 3: I'm like, was that phony of me to ask that?

696
00:32:03,640 --> 00:32:06,800
Speaker 3: But what did I really care what he went through?

697
00:32:06,920 --> 00:32:09,760
Speaker 3: Or am I asking for myself because I'm scared what's

698
00:32:09,760 --> 00:32:12,920
Speaker 3: going to happen? Is everything self motivated? Is everything trying

699
00:32:12,920 --> 00:32:14,880
Speaker 3: to get like is about me?

700
00:32:15,520 --> 00:32:15,760
Speaker 5: Yes?

701
00:32:16,120 --> 00:32:18,840
Speaker 4: I think it depends. It depends on the person. It

702
00:32:18,840 --> 00:32:21,160
Speaker 4: depends on the relationship you have with the person, Like

703
00:32:21,240 --> 00:32:24,320
Speaker 4: some people are like, imagine you're in love. I mean,

704
00:32:24,320 --> 00:32:26,040
Speaker 4: I guess it is still self motivated. Like if you're

705
00:32:26,040 --> 00:32:28,120
Speaker 4: infatuated with someone, you have a crush on someone and

706
00:32:28,160 --> 00:32:30,000
Speaker 4: then you want to know everything about them at all

707
00:32:30,080 --> 00:32:33,200
Speaker 4: all times. Maybe that's self motivated because you're like using

708
00:32:33,200 --> 00:32:35,400
Speaker 4: that information too, yeah, or you want to like.

709
00:32:35,680 --> 00:32:38,200
Speaker 5: But you look up to people and you want to

710
00:32:38,240 --> 00:32:40,040
Speaker 5: know how you can be more like them. I mean,

711
00:32:40,080 --> 00:32:41,440
Speaker 5: I think that's what.

712
00:32:41,560 --> 00:32:44,880
Speaker 4: But I think the motivation versus are you interested in

713
00:32:44,920 --> 00:32:47,320
Speaker 4: what they have to say? Is two different things. Like

714
00:32:47,440 --> 00:32:49,560
Speaker 4: you could be. And also we just don't know what

715
00:32:49,600 --> 00:32:52,480
Speaker 4: these what these kids are thinking on the inside, Like

716
00:32:52,920 --> 00:32:56,200
Speaker 4: they could be seem they could seem like they don't care,

717
00:32:56,320 --> 00:33:00,680
Speaker 4: but actually they're like registering this one. That's I want

718
00:33:00,680 --> 00:33:03,600
Speaker 4: to point out that you do learn a lot from

719
00:33:03,800 --> 00:33:06,840
Speaker 4: about autism from watching shows like this, but this is

720
00:33:06,880 --> 00:33:11,520
Speaker 4: also like, uh, the cast they were cast it like

721
00:33:11,600 --> 00:33:14,400
Speaker 4: there is I want to see. There's probably like dozens

722
00:33:14,400 --> 00:33:17,400
Speaker 4: and dozens of people who interviewed for this show who

723
00:33:17,400 --> 00:33:21,480
Speaker 4: got rejected because for various reasons. It's like, I don't

724
00:33:21,480 --> 00:33:25,520
Speaker 4: think all autistic people act like the people on this show.

725
00:33:25,560 --> 00:33:27,440
Speaker 4: These are like the best of the best. These are like, oh,

726
00:33:27,520 --> 00:33:30,920
Speaker 4: this is kind so sweetest. There's probably like Jeremy, who's

727
00:33:30,920 --> 00:33:33,960
Speaker 4: an autistic asshole who didn't get on the show because

728
00:33:34,040 --> 00:33:37,040
Speaker 4: he kept, you know, cursing at the people who are

729
00:33:37,120 --> 00:33:38,280
Speaker 4: interviewing him and stuff.

730
00:33:38,360 --> 00:33:45,640
Speaker 3: Yeah, they're not all these gentle everything smine, yes are yes, but.

731
00:33:45,640 --> 00:33:47,680
Speaker 4: The one I've worked with astic There's got to be

732
00:33:47,800 --> 00:33:49,239
Speaker 4: some autistic assholes out there.

733
00:33:49,280 --> 00:33:55,000
Speaker 3: I got to say people down syndrome. I got some

734
00:33:55,120 --> 00:33:57,280
Speaker 3: d MS from when I would because I said this before,

735
00:33:57,280 --> 00:34:00,000
Speaker 3: Like I'm sure there's some really mean, people down syndrome

736
00:34:00,120 --> 00:34:02,360
Speaker 3: and people that know a lot about it are like,

737
00:34:02,560 --> 00:34:05,000
Speaker 3: not really, there's not it's not a thing.

738
00:34:05,280 --> 00:34:09,040
Speaker 5: It's not like they don't have the ability to be assholes,

739
00:34:09,320 --> 00:34:13,960
Speaker 5: because what makes us assholes but they don't developmental stuff, Yeah,

740
00:34:14,000 --> 00:34:18,640
Speaker 5: like trauma that is being processed and making us like

741
00:34:19,400 --> 00:34:23,120
Speaker 5: bitter and stuff they don't like they're developed both autism

742
00:34:23,160 --> 00:34:26,319
Speaker 5: and on cinder MR developmental disorders. So something got kind

743
00:34:26,360 --> 00:34:28,840
Speaker 5: of stuck. Wait, don't it.

744
00:34:28,840 --> 00:34:31,640
Speaker 2: Isn't down syndrome more like genetic.

745
00:34:31,800 --> 00:34:34,719
Speaker 5: Yeah, chromosomal, but it allows it makes it so that,

746
00:34:34,800 --> 00:34:39,520
Speaker 5: you know, cannot progress past certain levels developmentally.

747
00:34:40,080 --> 00:34:43,000
Speaker 3: One of my favorite moments of this season of Love

748
00:34:43,000 --> 00:34:46,040
Speaker 3: on the Spectrum is there's this guy, I forget his name.

749
00:34:46,440 --> 00:34:48,600
Speaker 3: He's the one that has a really big mouth and

750
00:34:48,640 --> 00:34:51,399
Speaker 3: he talks like this and he's excited all the time.

751
00:34:51,440 --> 00:34:53,520
Speaker 3: He gives people high fives, he's like in that great,

752
00:34:53,640 --> 00:34:55,960
Speaker 3: that's gonna be great, and he's like so excited all

753
00:34:56,000 --> 00:34:59,640
Speaker 3: the time. And he's Southern. He lives in Clemson, South Carolina,

754
00:34:59,760 --> 00:35:02,360
Speaker 3: and his whole thing is like I bring joy to

755
00:35:02,400 --> 00:35:05,480
Speaker 3: the world. And that's kind of like I was wondering

756
00:35:05,560 --> 00:35:07,799
Speaker 3: at first when he starts saying that like, is this

757
00:35:07,880 --> 00:35:10,400
Speaker 3: a thing you like to do or is this a

758
00:35:10,440 --> 00:35:12,440
Speaker 3: thing people have told you that you are you know,

759
00:35:12,480 --> 00:35:14,640
Speaker 3: like I think some people when they have a disability,

760
00:35:15,160 --> 00:35:17,680
Speaker 3: their parents in the community can be like, all you

761
00:35:17,760 --> 00:35:20,640
Speaker 3: do is spread joy, and that can kind of become

762
00:35:20,800 --> 00:35:23,919
Speaker 3: what they are about, even though they have so much

763
00:35:23,960 --> 00:35:26,279
Speaker 3: more going on than that. But then I'm like, no,

764
00:35:26,360 --> 00:35:29,160
Speaker 3: this guy seems to be really jazzed all the time,

765
00:35:29,480 --> 00:35:32,880
Speaker 3: high fiving everyone, so excited to see everyone, remembers everyone's name, like,

766
00:35:33,000 --> 00:35:36,720
Speaker 3: loves his life. It's just happy for everyone, so so sweet.

767
00:35:36,920 --> 00:35:40,560
Speaker 3: But then he has this moment with the woman that

768
00:35:40,600 --> 00:35:42,920
Speaker 3: it's like helping these people learn how to date, and

769
00:35:43,000 --> 00:35:45,120
Speaker 3: is talking to them about, now, where would you stand

770
00:35:45,200 --> 00:35:46,960
Speaker 3: if you were walking at the zoo with someone that

771
00:35:47,000 --> 00:35:48,719
Speaker 3: you were dating. He's like, oh, I'd stand in front.

772
00:35:48,760 --> 00:35:50,680
Speaker 3: I'd stand in front, and she goes, okay, let's see

773
00:35:50,680 --> 00:35:52,160
Speaker 3: what that would look like. And then he walks in

774
00:35:52,160 --> 00:35:54,839
Speaker 3: front and she goes, now, what's wrong with this? Is there?

775
00:35:54,960 --> 00:35:55,160
Speaker 5: Is it?

776
00:35:55,200 --> 00:35:56,640
Speaker 3: Can I see you right now? And he goes, no,

777
00:35:56,680 --> 00:35:58,520
Speaker 3: you can't see me, ma'am, you can't see me, and

778
00:35:58,520 --> 00:36:00,400
Speaker 3: she's like, well, maybe it would be better if we

779
00:36:00,440 --> 00:36:02,560
Speaker 3: stood next to each other, Now, how does this feel?

780
00:36:02,760 --> 00:36:06,240
Speaker 3: And so she's she's coaching him and then she gets

781
00:36:06,280 --> 00:36:09,359
Speaker 3: on the phone with him and she's talking about he's

782
00:36:09,840 --> 00:36:11,680
Speaker 3: he has this moment where his face kind of like

783
00:36:11,680 --> 00:36:13,400
Speaker 3: looks a little worried, and she goes, what's going on?

784
00:36:13,520 --> 00:36:16,440
Speaker 3: Or do you seem or are you seem nervous or

785
00:36:16,520 --> 00:36:18,600
Speaker 3: you seem like you're thinking about something. He's like, I'm

786
00:36:18,640 --> 00:36:21,839
Speaker 3: just scared. I'm just scared that I might not have

787
00:36:22,080 --> 00:36:24,759
Speaker 3: anything to say that. And that's a big fear with

788
00:36:24,880 --> 00:36:27,120
Speaker 3: all these people, is that they're gonna run out of

789
00:36:27,120 --> 00:36:28,920
Speaker 3: things to say, which is so normal because that is

790
00:36:29,320 --> 00:36:32,640
Speaker 3: I really relate do you love on the spectrum? Because

791
00:36:32,719 --> 00:36:35,480
Speaker 3: I am someone who if you listen to my podcast

792
00:36:35,560 --> 00:36:38,799
Speaker 3: during the COVID and the Not Say podcast, I was

793
00:36:38,880 --> 00:36:41,560
Speaker 3: really worried about going on dates because I'm like, what

794
00:36:41,640 --> 00:36:44,240
Speaker 3: if I have to, like I have to like marry

795
00:36:44,239 --> 00:36:45,719
Speaker 3: them if I go on on a date, Like I

796
00:36:46,239 --> 00:36:48,320
Speaker 3: was like Connor. Connor has this thing where if he

797
00:36:48,719 --> 00:36:51,719
Speaker 3: says yes on a scorecard for speed dating, He's like,

798
00:36:51,960 --> 00:36:55,920
Speaker 3: now I must be married to her for life and

799
00:36:55,960 --> 00:36:58,440
Speaker 3: we will be buried next to each other. He's jumping

800
00:36:58,480 --> 00:37:01,000
Speaker 3: so far ahead, but that's I totally relate to that, like,

801
00:37:01,239 --> 00:37:03,719
Speaker 3: and his family's all like, Connor, dude, this is just

802
00:37:03,760 --> 00:37:06,560
Speaker 3: about meeting someone. You meeting someone you don't need to

803
00:37:06,800 --> 00:37:08,640
Speaker 3: This isn't gonna be the girl you married, doesn't have

804
00:37:08,680 --> 00:37:10,719
Speaker 3: to be that. But I'm like, I used to jump

805
00:37:10,760 --> 00:37:12,600
Speaker 3: to that too, so I really related to that. But

806
00:37:13,400 --> 00:37:17,040
Speaker 3: she says to him, he's like, I'm really worried. I'm

807
00:37:17,080 --> 00:37:19,080
Speaker 3: not gonna have anything to say. And she's like, well,

808
00:37:19,880 --> 00:37:23,319
Speaker 3: that's okay. You can be quiet, you know, like just

809
00:37:23,360 --> 00:37:25,400
Speaker 3: because you're not talking doesn't mean you're not having a

810
00:37:25,440 --> 00:37:28,440
Speaker 3: good time. You guys can sit in silence together. And

811
00:37:28,480 --> 00:37:32,040
Speaker 3: he's like, okay, okay, and she goes, is there a

812
00:37:32,080 --> 00:37:34,759
Speaker 3: part of you that feels like you always have to

813
00:37:34,800 --> 00:37:39,000
Speaker 3: be happy and smiling. He's like, yes, ma'am, Yes there is, Yes,

814
00:37:39,000 --> 00:37:40,440
Speaker 3: there is. And it's just like all of a sudden,

815
00:37:40,480 --> 00:37:43,439
Speaker 3: this like this, they peeled back this layer of him,

816
00:37:43,800 --> 00:37:47,040
Speaker 3: and she was like, I'm sensing that is it true

817
00:37:47,040 --> 00:37:51,080
Speaker 3: that if if you don't he might even have said

818
00:37:51,080 --> 00:37:53,359
Speaker 3: it that if he's not smiling all the time, people

819
00:37:53,440 --> 00:37:56,520
Speaker 3: will think he's mad, and like, for some reason, that

820
00:37:56,680 --> 00:37:59,040
Speaker 3: to him is so scary that someone could think he

821
00:37:59,080 --> 00:38:01,680
Speaker 3: was mad, And boy, I think everyone can relate to

822
00:38:01,719 --> 00:38:04,960
Speaker 3: that of like if you if I'm not participating in

823
00:38:05,000 --> 00:38:08,160
Speaker 3: the conversation lively and I'm not smiling and like laughing,

824
00:38:09,160 --> 00:38:12,160
Speaker 3: people might get people everyone might assume I'm mad, And

825
00:38:12,160 --> 00:38:14,520
Speaker 3: it's like I sometimes have to like fake it just

826
00:38:14,560 --> 00:38:17,000
Speaker 3: so people don't just wait, don't become a focus of

827
00:38:17,040 --> 00:38:20,320
Speaker 3: attention like Nicky's mad, because I do think people sometimes

828
00:38:20,920 --> 00:38:24,280
Speaker 3: don't smile and don't laugh and don't participate in conversation

829
00:38:24,320 --> 00:38:27,200
Speaker 3: because they want everyone to know that they're mad, yes,

830
00:38:27,320 --> 00:38:29,200
Speaker 3: And I don't want that. Sometimes I just don't have

831
00:38:29,239 --> 00:38:33,000
Speaker 3: the energy. Yes, So sometimes you have to like get

832
00:38:33,040 --> 00:38:34,680
Speaker 3: it up because you're like, I just don't want to

833
00:38:34,680 --> 00:38:37,960
Speaker 3: be someone who looks like that. So it's all these

834
00:38:38,000 --> 00:38:41,000
Speaker 3: like struggles that they have are so relatable and like

835
00:38:42,320 --> 00:38:44,000
Speaker 3: I love on the dates when they just talk about

836
00:38:44,000 --> 00:38:46,800
Speaker 3: like what are you looking for and a partner and

837
00:38:46,800 --> 00:38:48,399
Speaker 3: and they're just like, do you want a handsome boy?

838
00:38:48,760 --> 00:38:51,200
Speaker 3: And she's like yes, She's like do you wanna do

839
00:38:51,200 --> 00:38:53,440
Speaker 3: you want a partner that talks a lot? Yes? Do

840
00:38:53,480 --> 00:38:55,719
Speaker 3: you want someone who likes cupcakes? Yes? And like they

841
00:38:55,920 --> 00:38:58,560
Speaker 3: just like they just fire off these questions, but they're

842
00:38:58,600 --> 00:39:01,520
Speaker 3: like asking for validation that they are liked in this moment,

843
00:39:01,560 --> 00:39:04,840
Speaker 3: and it's just like it's just so honest and so sweet,

844
00:39:04,920 --> 00:39:08,040
Speaker 3: and it really does make you think, like, man, if

845
00:39:08,080 --> 00:39:09,680
Speaker 3: I had like a big family, I'd want one of

846
00:39:09,680 --> 00:39:13,520
Speaker 3: my kids to be autistic because it makes everyone so empathetic. Like,

847
00:39:13,920 --> 00:39:16,359
Speaker 3: and this isn't every family, And you're right, they'd hand

848
00:39:16,440 --> 00:39:20,799
Speaker 3: selected like these families to be really examples of amazing

849
00:39:20,880 --> 00:39:23,640
Speaker 3: families that these people grew up with. Yeah, but Connor's family,

850
00:39:23,640 --> 00:39:27,560
Speaker 3: for instance, like the cool daughter who's like nineteen and hot,

851
00:39:27,640 --> 00:39:29,680
Speaker 3: and then the son who's like twenty two and just

852
00:39:29,680 --> 00:39:34,200
Speaker 3: like a total like Georgia hot, a college guy. They're

853
00:39:34,239 --> 00:39:36,759
Speaker 3: both like you would think that they would be like

854
00:39:36,880 --> 00:39:42,520
Speaker 3: so TikTok checked out, but they're both so emotionally involved

855
00:39:42,600 --> 00:39:45,920
Speaker 3: in like and touched by their older brother who's autistic,

856
00:39:45,920 --> 00:39:48,680
Speaker 3: and they're just so there's so much more down to

857
00:39:48,760 --> 00:39:51,000
Speaker 3: earth and mature than I think they would be if

858
00:39:51,000 --> 00:39:52,799
Speaker 3: they didn't have that. I think it's good for a

859
00:39:52,840 --> 00:39:59,120
Speaker 3: family fact that's about people down to the drum in

860
00:39:59,200 --> 00:40:03,200
Speaker 3: NASA and they're it's a new reality show.

861
00:40:03,480 --> 00:40:04,000
Speaker 2: Well just to.

862
00:40:05,600 --> 00:40:05,960
Speaker 3: Burst.

863
00:40:06,640 --> 00:40:08,360
Speaker 6: Like I feel like sometimes I come in and I

864
00:40:08,480 --> 00:40:11,680
Speaker 6: take a pin and I just pop burst it a bubble,

865
00:40:11,800 --> 00:40:15,160
Speaker 6: come on in. So, uh, you know the thing with

866
00:40:15,320 --> 00:40:19,200
Speaker 6: families and autistic kids. I have a friend and he

867
00:40:19,280 --> 00:40:23,799
Speaker 6: has two sons with like really severe autism, and the

868
00:40:24,120 --> 00:40:26,520
Speaker 6: you know, like the difficult side of that is that

869
00:40:26,640 --> 00:40:28,760
Speaker 6: he and his wife have to live in two separate

870
00:40:28,760 --> 00:40:31,960
Speaker 6: homes with each son. And the sons, you know, they

871
00:40:31,960 --> 00:40:34,759
Speaker 6: have like, well, at least the one that I met,

872
00:40:34,920 --> 00:40:40,879
Speaker 6: hash verbal difficulties and in schools and stuff with teachers.

873
00:40:40,920 --> 00:40:43,319
Speaker 6: Only now and he's I think he's a senior in

874
00:40:43,360 --> 00:40:45,399
Speaker 6: high school. He can be with a teacher alone because

875
00:40:45,400 --> 00:40:48,880
Speaker 6: he would have violent outbursts and like the dad has

876
00:40:48,920 --> 00:40:51,759
Speaker 6: shown me the bruising and everything, and it's not like malicious,

877
00:40:51,800 --> 00:40:55,960
Speaker 6: it's just you know, how this kid copes and stuff.

878
00:40:56,080 --> 00:41:00,200
Speaker 3: So yeah, I'm not saying, yeah, it's a specter.

879
00:41:01,640 --> 00:41:05,680
Speaker 5: That are high up on the spectrum on the show.

880
00:41:06,800 --> 00:41:09,000
Speaker 4: When I was growing up on Long Island and my

881
00:41:09,080 --> 00:41:12,200
Speaker 4: neighbor lived in a little house, uh, he was autistic

882
00:41:12,400 --> 00:41:16,200
Speaker 4: and he had a wife and he would every few

883
00:41:16,280 --> 00:41:20,080
Speaker 4: years he would beat his wife. And we knew that

884
00:41:20,120 --> 00:41:21,680
Speaker 4: he beat his wife because he had a pattern where

885
00:41:21,719 --> 00:41:23,800
Speaker 4: he would beat his wife and then he would strip

886
00:41:23,880 --> 00:41:26,239
Speaker 4: down naked, and then he would walk around town. And

887
00:41:26,280 --> 00:41:29,200
Speaker 4: whenever this guy was walking around town naked, we knew

888
00:41:29,200 --> 00:41:31,800
Speaker 4: he'd just beat his wife because then he could go

889
00:41:32,200 --> 00:41:33,799
Speaker 4: back to his house and his wife would be there.

890
00:41:34,080 --> 00:41:36,520
Speaker 4: And then just one time and he would He used

891
00:41:36,560 --> 00:41:40,400
Speaker 4: to throw potatoes over the fence into my yard to

892
00:41:40,400 --> 00:41:43,239
Speaker 4: try to get my dog to eat the potatoes, and

893
00:41:43,280 --> 00:41:45,520
Speaker 4: we asked him to stop, and then he did stop,

894
00:41:45,520 --> 00:41:47,440
Speaker 4: and then he started throwing peanut butter and jelly sandwiches

895
00:41:47,480 --> 00:41:49,640
Speaker 4: over the fence, and we said, no, it applies to

896
00:41:49,680 --> 00:41:53,959
Speaker 4: all foods, please don't. But then one day he beat

897
00:41:54,000 --> 00:41:56,920
Speaker 4: his wife. His wife called the police. He was stripping

898
00:41:56,960 --> 00:41:59,920
Speaker 4: down naked, and then the cops came to his house

899
00:42:00,160 --> 00:42:03,279
Speaker 4: and he tried to take one of the cops guns. Yeah,

900
00:42:03,320 --> 00:42:07,120
Speaker 4: and so then he went to jail after that, and

901
00:42:07,160 --> 00:42:08,880
Speaker 4: they had to move out of the house and then

902
00:42:08,880 --> 00:42:13,120
Speaker 4: the house was knocked down. But uh, that guy then

903
00:42:13,160 --> 00:42:15,000
Speaker 4: he looted it. That guy, yeah, and then I took

904
00:42:15,000 --> 00:42:17,120
Speaker 4: his bath. But that guy's not going to be on

905
00:42:17,160 --> 00:42:18,920
Speaker 4: love on the spectrum any times, dude.

906
00:42:18,960 --> 00:42:19,680
Speaker 3: No, he's not.

907
00:42:20,520 --> 00:42:21,800
Speaker 2: There's like a there's that.

908
00:42:22,440 --> 00:42:25,080
Speaker 3: It's just it's a heartwarming show, and it makes me

909
00:42:25,360 --> 00:42:30,400
Speaker 3: really like love, love, the idea of family and and

910
00:42:30,600 --> 00:42:35,239
Speaker 3: just yeah, it's just and and love and also it

911
00:42:35,360 --> 00:42:37,560
Speaker 3: just is it's just study in human nature. And then

912
00:42:37,560 --> 00:42:39,640
Speaker 3: I turned on American Nightmare, and I'm like, what the

913
00:42:39,719 --> 00:42:43,080
Speaker 3: fuck is this shit? I mean, that's just like God,

914
00:42:43,640 --> 00:42:45,480
Speaker 3: I thought, you know what, I was almost glad about it,

915
00:42:45,480 --> 00:42:47,680
Speaker 3: because I think we've gotten away from this like believe

916
00:42:47,800 --> 00:42:50,279
Speaker 3: all women thing, Like I think in recent years, I

917
00:42:50,280 --> 00:42:53,640
Speaker 3: think there was an influx of like, if a woman

918
00:42:53,680 --> 00:42:56,000
Speaker 3: says she's raped, let's just trust her by default, and

919
00:42:56,000 --> 00:42:58,879
Speaker 3: then there was like a backlash to that again. And

920
00:42:58,960 --> 00:43:01,799
Speaker 3: now I think this show is like showing again like

921
00:43:01,840 --> 00:43:05,480
Speaker 3: can we just just start believing women because in the city,

922
00:43:05,600 --> 00:43:10,319
Speaker 3: say that this girl is not believed about being ready,

923
00:43:10,360 --> 00:43:12,799
Speaker 3: Like there's trigger warnings all over this thing if you

924
00:43:13,480 --> 00:43:14,480
Speaker 3: are assault victims.

925
00:43:14,480 --> 00:43:17,640
Speaker 5: That's why I allegedly steal cop cars to get back.

926
00:43:18,120 --> 00:43:21,200
Speaker 3: But then but then there's there's there's there's a happy ending,

927
00:43:21,239 --> 00:43:22,279
Speaker 3: there's good things about this.

928
00:43:22,360 --> 00:43:24,360
Speaker 4: It's pretty wild how quickly that came and went. I

929
00:43:24,360 --> 00:43:26,560
Speaker 4: feel like we believed women for like two and a

930
00:43:26,600 --> 00:43:27,760
Speaker 4: half years.

931
00:43:28,360 --> 00:43:31,240
Speaker 3: Do you feel like that too. It really went away.

932
00:43:31,480 --> 00:43:34,600
Speaker 5: There's another thing on Netflix about that. I can't remember

933
00:43:34,600 --> 00:43:38,160
Speaker 5: what it's called, but it's about a girl. And then

934
00:43:38,160 --> 00:43:40,400
Speaker 5: it goes into lots of different stories about women that

935
00:43:40,440 --> 00:43:44,759
Speaker 5: aren't believed and prosecuted for lying about rapes that were

936
00:43:44,760 --> 00:43:47,920
Speaker 5: actually committed on them, so they get in trouble for

937
00:43:48,160 --> 00:43:50,799
Speaker 5: admitting it. Oh, which I'm not. I don't think I

938
00:43:50,800 --> 00:43:52,000
Speaker 5: can watch it because I'll get too.

939
00:43:52,120 --> 00:43:55,359
Speaker 3: No, I can get too. Can you imagine if we're

940
00:43:55,400 --> 00:43:57,719
Speaker 3: not even like assault victims, like we don't have that

941
00:43:58,120 --> 00:43:59,719
Speaker 3: we can speak for myself. I don't have that. That

942
00:43:59,800 --> 00:44:03,960
Speaker 3: his street and even I was just like enraged watching this,

943
00:44:04,040 --> 00:44:06,280
Speaker 3: and I was just like, it's just like you being

944
00:44:06,320 --> 00:44:06,880
Speaker 3: at k.

945
00:44:07,080 --> 00:44:10,960
Speaker 5: You remember, Curson had a boyfriend who's whose email dress

946
00:44:11,000 --> 00:44:15,800
Speaker 5: was enraged at ku dot com. So whenever heard the

947
00:44:15,840 --> 00:44:17,720
Speaker 5: word enraged, I think enraged at Ku.

948
00:44:20,239 --> 00:44:24,200
Speaker 3: God. I wonder if my old college email addresses what's going.

949
00:44:24,040 --> 00:44:26,560
Speaker 5: Crypt keeper is hot at hotmail dot com. I hope

950
00:44:26,600 --> 00:44:27,480
Speaker 5: it's not taken.

951
00:44:28,760 --> 00:44:29,480
Speaker 3: That was yours.

952
00:44:29,520 --> 00:44:31,360
Speaker 5: For a while, I was wait email dress till I

953
00:44:31,400 --> 00:44:33,880
Speaker 5: was like twenty six, and then I was like, I

954
00:44:33,920 --> 00:44:35,120
Speaker 5: guess I should change it.

955
00:44:35,440 --> 00:44:37,719
Speaker 3: Mine was Dave Matthews is hot, but it looks like

956
00:44:37,840 --> 00:44:38,600
Speaker 3: Dave Matthews.

957
00:44:38,600 --> 00:44:40,680
Speaker 5: I shot, No, my friends thought it was crypt keeper.

958
00:44:40,840 --> 00:44:43,640
Speaker 3: I shot, yeah, yeah, that's what it does look like.

959
00:44:44,080 --> 00:44:45,120
Speaker 3: But I had that for hours.

960
00:44:45,160 --> 00:44:50,880
Speaker 5: Were another Mickey Rooney in three two one that was

961
00:44:50,920 --> 00:44:52,640
Speaker 5: like our joint account.

962
00:44:53,920 --> 00:44:55,279
Speaker 4: Mine was it's got a break.

963
00:44:55,400 --> 00:45:01,040
Speaker 3: Okay, no wait, okay, well we'll find it when we

964
00:45:01,080 --> 00:45:05,520
Speaker 3: get back from the break. We'll find out. All right,

965
00:45:05,800 --> 00:45:08,279
Speaker 3: we're back, Brian, what was your first what was your

966
00:45:08,360 --> 00:45:09,480
Speaker 3: weirdest email address?

967
00:45:09,680 --> 00:45:13,520
Speaker 4: Wasn't weird? It was Goldenslumbers thirty one at aol dot com,

968
00:45:13,560 --> 00:45:15,400
Speaker 4: which because of the song, because of the song my

969
00:45:15,400 --> 00:45:18,440
Speaker 4: favorite Beatles song, and I just an embarrassing moment. There

970
00:45:18,520 --> 00:45:22,360
Speaker 4: was probably the most popular girl in my high school.

971
00:45:23,640 --> 00:45:27,839
Speaker 4: We were on AIM and there's another I'm Brian, and

972
00:45:27,880 --> 00:45:30,400
Speaker 4: there's another kid in my high school class also named Brian,

973
00:45:30,440 --> 00:45:33,000
Speaker 4: and his last name was Golden, so his name was

974
00:45:33,040 --> 00:45:36,800
Speaker 4: Brian Golden, and my address was my aame name was

975
00:45:36,800 --> 00:45:39,560
Speaker 4: Golden Slumbers thirty one, which is confusing to people in

976
00:45:39,640 --> 00:45:42,200
Speaker 4: my high school. But then one day I just worked

977
00:45:42,280 --> 00:45:45,520
Speaker 4: up the courage to aim instant message the most popular

978
00:45:45,560 --> 00:45:51,120
Speaker 4: girl in my school, and I said hey, and Brian,

979
00:45:51,480 --> 00:45:53,919
Speaker 4: and she's got Golden Brian and she was like, who

980
00:45:53,960 --> 00:45:56,839
Speaker 4: is this? And I said, this is Brian and she

981
00:45:56,960 --> 00:45:58,960
Speaker 4: and then she talked to me thinking I was Brian

982
00:45:59,000 --> 00:46:01,960
Speaker 4: Golden the whole time, and I actually think that they

983
00:46:02,040 --> 00:46:05,960
Speaker 4: started dating. But because of you, I did that thing,

984
00:46:06,040 --> 00:46:08,280
Speaker 4: like do you. I did that stupid thing that people

985
00:46:08,320 --> 00:46:11,400
Speaker 4: do when they're in high school and they're losers and

986
00:46:11,440 --> 00:46:16,359
Speaker 4: they go, guess who this is? They go, hey, what's up? Hey,

987
00:46:16,400 --> 00:46:20,000
Speaker 4: what's up? Hey? Dot dot dot? Who is this?

988
00:46:20,040 --> 00:46:22,799
Speaker 3: And I was like, guess, oh, you still remember, dott,

989
00:46:23,000 --> 00:46:25,960
Speaker 3: I remember every part of that. And then she was

990
00:46:26,000 --> 00:46:26,960
Speaker 3: there anyone.

991
00:46:26,719 --> 00:46:30,120
Speaker 4: Brian Golden And I was like no, because I said money,

992
00:46:30,239 --> 00:46:31,960
Speaker 4: I said it's Brian. She said Brian Golden. I was

993
00:46:32,000 --> 00:46:36,360
Speaker 4: like no eventually, but then I then it made me

994
00:46:36,400 --> 00:46:39,360
Speaker 4: realize that, oh wait, I am that this is confusing.

995
00:46:40,000 --> 00:46:42,799
Speaker 4: It would be like thirty one, right, It would be

996
00:46:42,800 --> 00:46:45,600
Speaker 4: like if someone named Nikki in your high school had

997
00:46:45,600 --> 00:46:49,239
Speaker 4: an aim name that was like Glazer Ross three oh

998
00:46:49,360 --> 00:46:50,160
Speaker 4: one or something.

999
00:46:50,680 --> 00:46:54,440
Speaker 3: Yes, so, but did you have any like when you

1000
00:46:54,480 --> 00:46:56,640
Speaker 3: would go through that and you have this aim conversation

1001
00:46:56,719 --> 00:46:58,560
Speaker 3: and you're like thinking so much about it and you

1002
00:46:58,600 --> 00:47:01,960
Speaker 3: remember exactly the Hey dot the and like, did you

1003
00:47:02,040 --> 00:47:04,080
Speaker 3: have guy friends that you would like call and be like, man,

1004
00:47:04,120 --> 00:47:06,719
Speaker 3: I just I am you know, I just a I

1005
00:47:06,760 --> 00:47:10,280
Speaker 3: am No. I think that was just a process. It alone.

1006
00:47:11,320 --> 00:47:16,400
Speaker 3: Embarrassment sad for people who don't have never share about it. Like,

1007
00:47:16,480 --> 00:47:18,759
Speaker 3: there's rarely something embarrassing that happens to me that I

1008
00:47:18,800 --> 00:47:20,520
Speaker 3: can't share with someone.

1009
00:47:20,600 --> 00:47:25,239
Speaker 5: Immediately, my pants immediately.

1010
00:47:24,800 --> 00:47:29,200
Speaker 3: Immediately, there's a place to go where everybody knows name.

1011
00:47:30,120 --> 00:47:34,000
Speaker 4: I took my live with the consequences until today and

1012
00:47:34,040 --> 00:47:35,000
Speaker 4: where I shared it with you.

1013
00:47:35,160 --> 00:47:37,640
Speaker 2: Well, so how did you realize that she thought you

1014
00:47:37,680 --> 00:47:38,040
Speaker 2: were the.

1015
00:47:38,000 --> 00:47:42,520
Speaker 4: Other Brian because she said Brian Golden and I said.

1016
00:47:42,680 --> 00:47:45,280
Speaker 3: Hopefully exactly.

1017
00:47:45,480 --> 00:47:47,960
Speaker 4: He was more popular than me at the time. I

1018
00:47:48,040 --> 00:47:50,439
Speaker 4: think we kind of evened out eventually. He was much

1019
00:47:50,480 --> 00:47:54,120
Speaker 4: more popular than me. He like surfed, he like skateboarded.

1020
00:47:54,200 --> 00:47:56,600
Speaker 4: I think he was on the football team, and I

1021
00:47:56,640 --> 00:47:58,200
Speaker 4: was just like, I like, uh.

1022
00:47:59,320 --> 00:48:06,280
Speaker 3: Was Frandre, don't Yeah?

1023
00:48:06,280 --> 00:48:08,920
Speaker 4: That year, that was the year I got rejected from

1024
00:48:09,000 --> 00:48:12,879
Speaker 4: the high school improv team, which was dissolved, and then

1025
00:48:13,000 --> 00:48:16,120
Speaker 4: I was also rejected from the volleyball team. The men's

1026
00:48:16,200 --> 00:48:19,239
Speaker 4: volleyball I tried out for the men's volleyball team. The

1027
00:48:19,280 --> 00:48:22,000
Speaker 4: first year and the first year I tried out, it

1028
00:48:22,120 --> 00:48:24,480
Speaker 4: was a walk on team, like you could just join

1029
00:48:24,560 --> 00:48:26,520
Speaker 4: the team, because no men wanted to be on the team.

1030
00:48:26,520 --> 00:48:29,840
Speaker 4: This isn't California, this is New York. There's not men's volleyball.

1031
00:48:30,400 --> 00:48:32,960
Speaker 4: So they were just like, if you want to play

1032
00:48:33,000 --> 00:48:38,440
Speaker 4: men's volleyball, go ahead, I guess. And so it's a coach,

1033
00:48:38,560 --> 00:48:39,040
Speaker 4: there's no.

1034
00:48:40,080 --> 00:48:42,160
Speaker 5: Guess, go ahead, wear shorts.

1035
00:48:42,680 --> 00:48:44,840
Speaker 4: So I went and I and I went to the open.

1036
00:48:45,120 --> 00:48:48,480
Speaker 4: Uh just walk on. And they decided that year, for

1037
00:48:48,520 --> 00:48:50,840
Speaker 4: the first year, they were going to do cuts, and

1038
00:48:50,880 --> 00:48:54,880
Speaker 4: they cut two people, Me and this other guy, Seth Levy,

1039
00:48:55,080 --> 00:49:00,840
Speaker 4: who is uh is you know? Seth Levy looks like

1040
00:49:00,920 --> 00:49:03,680
Speaker 4: what you would imagine a nerdy guy who wouldn't get

1041
00:49:03,680 --> 00:49:05,880
Speaker 4: cut from the that would get cut from the volleyball

1042
00:49:05,880 --> 00:49:08,719
Speaker 4: team would look like, yeah, and you're a tall guy.

1043
00:49:09,440 --> 00:49:10,840
Speaker 4: I was pretty tall. And then the next year, I

1044
00:49:10,880 --> 00:49:13,960
Speaker 4: think Seth Levey made the team, I'm pretty sure, and

1045
00:49:14,000 --> 00:49:16,520
Speaker 4: I was the only one that got cut got out

1046
00:49:16,600 --> 00:49:19,719
Speaker 4: of God, they were I don't know. And then well

1047
00:49:19,760 --> 00:49:23,400
Speaker 4: that's why I survived it by doing this the musicals,

1048
00:49:23,440 --> 00:49:26,360
Speaker 4: I moved on I said sports. I can't make the

1049
00:49:26,400 --> 00:49:29,320
Speaker 4: basketball team, I can't make the volleyball team. I guess

1050
00:49:29,360 --> 00:49:30,839
Speaker 4: I'm gonna be in musicals.

1051
00:49:32,160 --> 00:49:35,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's kind of I wasn't good at sports, but

1052
00:49:35,040 --> 00:49:37,239
Speaker 3: I wanted to do sports because my friends did it,

1053
00:49:37,280 --> 00:49:39,120
Speaker 3: and I wanted to just hang out with my friends.

1054
00:49:39,719 --> 00:49:42,560
Speaker 3: That's why I did field hockey. And then all my

1055
00:49:42,600 --> 00:49:45,360
Speaker 3: friends made varsity and I was still JV. I just

1056
00:49:45,400 --> 00:49:46,920
Speaker 3: didn't want to do it anymore. I had a horrible

1057
00:49:46,920 --> 00:49:49,319
Speaker 3: stints once too. I couldn't walk, And then that's when

1058
00:49:49,360 --> 00:49:52,120
Speaker 3: I auditioned for plays and I wasn't even getting Yeah,

1059
00:49:52,120 --> 00:49:54,120
Speaker 3: you carried me when I had horrible I couldn't walk

1060
00:49:54,160 --> 00:49:56,879
Speaker 3: with my It was you were like screaming.

1061
00:49:56,920 --> 00:49:58,240
Speaker 5: I was like, I couldn't even.

1062
00:49:58,320 --> 00:49:59,400
Speaker 3: It was wild.

1063
00:49:59,560 --> 00:50:03,240
Speaker 5: What happened into me with my shinsplins like your bone

1064
00:50:03,280 --> 00:50:04,880
Speaker 5: have a little like there's.

1065
00:50:04,680 --> 00:50:08,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, the it gets when you slap your foot down.

1066
00:50:08,520 --> 00:50:10,520
Speaker 3: I had like anterior shin splints. So when you were

1067
00:50:10,520 --> 00:50:13,319
Speaker 3: your foot slaps down when you're running, that muscle gets

1068
00:50:13,320 --> 00:50:15,400
Speaker 3: like stretched too much and it's, oh, you know, it

1069
00:50:15,480 --> 00:50:16,640
Speaker 3: just gets overstretched.

1070
00:50:16,719 --> 00:50:18,680
Speaker 5: And I thought it was like the bone.

1071
00:50:19,040 --> 00:50:22,600
Speaker 3: Oh it's not the Yeah, it's like tendon ninis on

1072
00:50:22,640 --> 00:50:24,880
Speaker 3: your shins, and it was I had been both and

1073
00:50:24,880 --> 00:50:27,359
Speaker 3: it was horrible. But I loved it because you could

1074
00:50:27,400 --> 00:50:29,320
Speaker 3: push on it and like hurt it, and it felt

1075
00:50:29,400 --> 00:50:31,560
Speaker 3: so it hurt to walk, but when you push on it,

1076
00:50:31,600 --> 00:50:34,840
Speaker 3: but if you ran with shion splints didn't hurt walking horrible,

1077
00:50:34,920 --> 00:50:37,680
Speaker 3: it would go away. It's almost like my foot pint pain.

1078
00:50:37,719 --> 00:50:39,839
Speaker 3: When I'm wearing high heels on stage, I don't feel

1079
00:50:39,840 --> 00:50:41,640
Speaker 3: it at all, and then the second I saw off

1080
00:50:41,680 --> 00:50:46,400
Speaker 3: the stage, it starts hurting. It's so strange. But I

1081
00:50:46,400 --> 00:50:49,480
Speaker 3: I remember I auditioned for the Diary of Anne Frank

1082
00:50:49,560 --> 00:50:51,239
Speaker 3: and I really thought I was going to get it.

1083
00:50:51,760 --> 00:50:52,200
Speaker 5: I thought I was.

1084
00:50:52,200 --> 00:50:55,840
Speaker 3: Gonna get the lead. Yeah, I could wear a wig. Yes,

1085
00:50:56,080 --> 00:50:58,640
Speaker 3: I knew I was going to get it. And not

1086
00:50:58,680 --> 00:51:01,080
Speaker 3: only did I not get it, I got Jewish townsperson.

1087
00:51:02,280 --> 00:51:03,600
Speaker 4: Oh my god be.

1088
00:51:04,480 --> 00:51:06,279
Speaker 3: And that's I think. Actually, that's when I went back

1089
00:51:06,320 --> 00:51:09,000
Speaker 3: to field hockey. I was going to leave field hockey.

1090
00:51:09,239 --> 00:51:13,080
Speaker 3: Then I went to Jewish experience is me and my Yeah,

1091
00:51:13,160 --> 00:51:16,200
Speaker 3: my joke was that the position I played for a

1092
00:51:16,239 --> 00:51:19,719
Speaker 3: field hockey was a Jewish townsperson. B That's how it

1093
00:51:19,760 --> 00:51:21,919
Speaker 3: felt like I was always just like, I just wanted

1094
00:51:21,920 --> 00:51:23,399
Speaker 3: to be bench the whole time. I just wanted to

1095
00:51:23,520 --> 00:51:27,520
Speaker 3: wear the skirts, have fun. That little you know, that

1096
00:51:27,600 --> 00:51:30,839
Speaker 3: tape that they foam like foam rap that they wrap

1097
00:51:30,840 --> 00:51:33,359
Speaker 3: over injuries. We used to take that and tie it

1098
00:51:33,400 --> 00:51:34,480
Speaker 3: and make it a hair band.

1099
00:51:34,840 --> 00:51:35,160
Speaker 5: That was.

1100
00:51:37,160 --> 00:51:41,080
Speaker 4: So on brand for Nicki Glazer. Like Nicki Glazers riding

1101
00:51:41,160 --> 00:51:43,759
Speaker 4: the bench, That's that's what she wants to do. You

1102
00:51:43,760 --> 00:51:45,480
Speaker 4: don't want to play in the game, but you love

1103
00:51:45,560 --> 00:51:46,960
Speaker 4: sitting there.

1104
00:51:47,360 --> 00:51:49,440
Speaker 3: I don't want balls coming at me where I have

1105
00:51:49,520 --> 00:51:51,319
Speaker 3: to do something with it and all the attentions on me.

1106
00:51:51,360 --> 00:51:53,160
Speaker 3: And I'm going to let on a whole team now

1107
00:51:53,160 --> 00:51:55,560
Speaker 3: if it's me and the ball alone, yeah, let me

1108
00:51:55,600 --> 00:51:58,520
Speaker 3: figure out how to do this. It's all me. You

1109
00:51:58,560 --> 00:52:01,840
Speaker 3: can't compare me to anything actively. I like solo sports,

1110
00:52:01,880 --> 00:52:04,960
Speaker 3: I like swimming, I like running. I want to be alone.

1111
00:52:05,080 --> 00:52:06,759
Speaker 3: I don't want other people to depend on me, and

1112
00:52:06,800 --> 00:52:09,000
Speaker 3: I don't. And I would like to depend on others,

1113
00:52:09,000 --> 00:52:10,680
Speaker 3: but I don't. I don't want them to have to

1114
00:52:10,680 --> 00:52:11,200
Speaker 3: depend on me.

1115
00:52:11,280 --> 00:52:13,359
Speaker 4: You get to go to the pasta party before the game,

1116
00:52:13,440 --> 00:52:15,480
Speaker 4: you go to Pizza Hut after the game. You get

1117
00:52:15,520 --> 00:52:17,520
Speaker 4: to ride the bus together, and then you get to

1118
00:52:17,600 --> 00:52:19,480
Speaker 4: the game. You don't have to do anything.

1119
00:52:19,560 --> 00:52:20,759
Speaker 3: And you get to be done.

1120
00:52:21,040 --> 00:52:21,560
Speaker 4: At some point.

1121
00:52:21,600 --> 00:52:30,840
Speaker 3: You the bus sea swim practice, going into people's lockers,

1122
00:52:33,000 --> 00:52:35,480
Speaker 3: stealing things, not even steeling things, just stealing photographs.

1123
00:52:36,920 --> 00:52:39,359
Speaker 5: Had we stole cowboy hats one time? We did?

1124
00:52:39,680 --> 00:52:41,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, we we wore them all around. And you were

1125
00:52:41,600 --> 00:52:42,760
Speaker 3: a really bad influence.

1126
00:52:42,880 --> 00:52:44,919
Speaker 4: He would the locker and be like, but you left

1127
00:52:44,920 --> 00:52:46,720
Speaker 4: your flashlight on. That's why I want.

1128
00:52:46,560 --> 00:52:53,160
Speaker 3: Into injection, the constant fucking rejection of being bad at

1129
00:52:53,200 --> 00:52:54,280
Speaker 3: everything you try.

1130
00:52:54,600 --> 00:52:58,359
Speaker 4: You got to be told where's your name? But it

1131
00:52:58,400 --> 00:53:02,440
Speaker 4: also forges great. I mean, you need to be slammed

1132
00:53:02,440 --> 00:53:05,759
Speaker 4: down again and again, and most of those people will

1133
00:53:05,920 --> 00:53:07,640
Speaker 4: just dwindle and languish.

1134
00:53:07,719 --> 00:53:09,560
Speaker 3: If I wouldn't have fallen to stand up, what would

1135
00:53:09,600 --> 00:53:12,360
Speaker 3: I have I could have? I was just throw I

1136
00:53:12,360 --> 00:53:14,759
Speaker 3: couldn't do any there was nothing else for me to do.

1137
00:53:15,360 --> 00:53:17,560
Speaker 3: I was not good at anything. I was not exceptional.

1138
00:53:17,560 --> 00:53:20,200
Speaker 5: And you're very smart. You could do lots of smart things.

1139
00:53:19,880 --> 00:53:22,480
Speaker 3: But I didn't. I didn't None of them were impressive

1140
00:53:22,520 --> 00:53:25,240
Speaker 3: to people, and I wasn't that smart. I were really

1141
00:53:25,280 --> 00:53:27,600
Speaker 3: I was. I got a's and b's, I wasn't I

1142
00:53:27,680 --> 00:53:28,520
Speaker 3: couldn't get straight in.

1143
00:53:31,920 --> 00:53:34,680
Speaker 6: Oh, just imagine all the TV and movies you could

1144
00:53:34,680 --> 00:53:36,040
Speaker 6: have done in the background.

1145
00:53:35,600 --> 00:53:39,040
Speaker 3: Saying all the townspeople bees. I could have been and

1146
00:53:39,080 --> 00:53:41,040
Speaker 3: I just would have I don't know what I would

1147
00:53:41,080 --> 00:53:45,080
Speaker 3: have done, but it's just that that like just feeling

1148
00:53:45,200 --> 00:53:48,080
Speaker 3: like you're you're like yesterday, I cried in my voice

1149
00:53:48,120 --> 00:53:49,080
Speaker 3: lesson because I'm like.

1150
00:53:49,480 --> 00:53:53,000
Speaker 1: I am so tired of being average in here, Like

1151
00:53:53,120 --> 00:53:57,920
Speaker 1: I'm so tired of not being exceptional in any part

1152
00:53:58,040 --> 00:53:59,200
Speaker 1: of this process.

1153
00:53:59,520 --> 00:54:01,920
Speaker 3: There's not even one part of singing that I'm good

1154
00:54:01,960 --> 00:54:04,040
Speaker 3: at that I'm just a natural at, Like, well, you

1155
00:54:04,239 --> 00:54:07,799
Speaker 3: get that under control. But I try so hard and

1156
00:54:07,840 --> 00:54:10,040
Speaker 3: that's the problem. It's like it's just not clicking for me.

1157
00:54:10,080 --> 00:54:13,680
Speaker 3: And I cried and and he was really nice about it,

1158
00:54:13,719 --> 00:54:16,440
Speaker 3: and he always lets me cry in there because it

1159
00:54:16,680 --> 00:54:19,719
Speaker 3: often comes out in there. And he and because I

1160
00:54:19,760 --> 00:54:22,560
Speaker 3: was going into final thought, I was, I have to

1161
00:54:24,320 --> 00:54:26,840
Speaker 3: I'm writing a song and performing a song for my

1162
00:54:26,920 --> 00:54:29,320
Speaker 3: special that's gonna go with the end of my special,

1163
00:54:29,520 --> 00:54:32,360
Speaker 3: because yeah, you didn't know that's what happened. So I

1164
00:54:32,360 --> 00:54:36,160
Speaker 3: was gonna like pick a song, but to even so,

1165
00:54:36,239 --> 00:54:39,000
Speaker 3: there's no budget left like we've used all the money

1166
00:54:39,120 --> 00:54:41,000
Speaker 3: and so there's no money left, so anything would come

1167
00:54:41,000 --> 00:54:43,839
Speaker 3: out of my pocket to even check on how much

1168
00:54:43,880 --> 00:54:46,360
Speaker 3: a song is going to be. It's eight hundred dollars,

1169
00:54:46,440 --> 00:54:48,200
Speaker 3: so that's out of my pocket to even go like,

1170
00:54:48,320 --> 00:54:50,080
Speaker 3: why can I use this song.

1171
00:54:50,200 --> 00:54:53,000
Speaker 5: Sang for what part of that costs eight hundred Just

1172
00:54:53,680 --> 00:54:54,240
Speaker 5: no idea.

1173
00:54:55,080 --> 00:54:57,520
Speaker 3: It's just a charge so they can make more money.

1174
00:54:57,560 --> 00:54:59,520
Speaker 3: And then you find out it's gonna be thirty thousand dollars,

1175
00:54:59,520 --> 00:55:01,160
Speaker 3: So it's eight o dollars to find out it's gonna

1176
00:55:01,160 --> 00:55:03,040
Speaker 3: be thirty thousand dollars, which I'm not spending thirty thousand

1177
00:55:03,080 --> 00:55:04,759
Speaker 3: dollars on a song. I'm just not gonna do it.

1178
00:55:05,440 --> 00:55:07,160
Speaker 3: So then I was like, Okay, well, maybe I can

1179
00:55:07,239 --> 00:55:09,600
Speaker 3: use one of Anya's songs, one of Matt pond songs,

1180
00:55:09,840 --> 00:55:12,040
Speaker 3: but if they cut me a deal, it's gonna be

1181
00:55:12,080 --> 00:55:14,280
Speaker 3: ten thousand, you know, Like I'm sorry, I just don't

1182
00:55:14,280 --> 00:55:16,239
Speaker 3: have that money to toss around. And it's at the

1183
00:55:16,320 --> 00:55:18,280
Speaker 3: end of the thing, it's not as you know, important

1184
00:55:18,280 --> 00:55:20,680
Speaker 3: as like the first song. So I was like, oh,

1185
00:55:20,760 --> 00:55:22,239
Speaker 3: I said to Chris, like what if I like write

1186
00:55:22,280 --> 00:55:24,520
Speaker 3: a song and like record it, that'll only cost me

1187
00:55:24,560 --> 00:55:26,680
Speaker 3: a couple thousand to produce it, and if I write

1188
00:55:26,680 --> 00:55:28,360
Speaker 3: it myself, I don't to pay myself to do that.

1189
00:55:28,920 --> 00:55:31,839
Speaker 3: And he was like, yeah, I mean if you want

1190
00:55:31,840 --> 00:55:33,600
Speaker 3: to do that, but I could. And then we just

1191
00:55:33,600 --> 00:55:37,040
Speaker 3: put the pieces into motion and called his brother Tim,

1192
00:55:37,080 --> 00:55:39,520
Speaker 3: who is uh, you know, in the band Ludo and

1193
00:55:40,200 --> 00:55:43,359
Speaker 3: knows a ton of music people and he knows this,

1194
00:55:43,719 --> 00:55:45,800
Speaker 3: you know, pop produce because I wanted to be like

1195
00:55:45,840 --> 00:55:48,960
Speaker 3: a pop song. So he knows this pop producer and

1196
00:55:49,000 --> 00:55:52,799
Speaker 3: from Chicago named uh Dan Monahan. He's in a band

1197
00:55:52,840 --> 00:55:55,319
Speaker 3: called the Dog and Everything. Dog and Everything and they're

1198
00:55:55,400 --> 00:55:57,080
Speaker 3: kind of popular. But do you remember that.

1199
00:55:57,040 --> 00:55:58,640
Speaker 5: Band kind that sounds really familiar?

1200
00:55:58,760 --> 00:55:58,960
Speaker 6: Yeah?

1201
00:55:59,080 --> 00:55:59,840
Speaker 5: Was it nineties?

1202
00:56:00,080 --> 00:56:05,279
Speaker 3: It's like a midots early two thousands into like later

1203
00:56:05,360 --> 00:56:08,839
Speaker 3: two thousands, so and they're still together. So anyway, he

1204
00:56:08,960 --> 00:56:11,360
Speaker 3: flies down to Saint Louis. We're in the recording studio

1205
00:56:11,440 --> 00:56:15,400
Speaker 3: all week. I They're like, it's gonna be easy, just

1206
00:56:15,760 --> 00:56:17,960
Speaker 3: come in, we'll write a song. And I'm like, what,

1207
00:56:18,280 --> 00:56:21,080
Speaker 3: I don't I have no idea here. I can't just

1208
00:56:21,120 --> 00:56:23,319
Speaker 3: like show up. And this is like, you know, I'm

1209
00:56:23,320 --> 00:56:25,239
Speaker 3: paying someone for their time, so I'm not gonna waste

1210
00:56:25,280 --> 00:56:27,560
Speaker 3: someone's time of being like, so I just wanted to

1211
00:56:27,560 --> 00:56:29,279
Speaker 3: need to write a song, like what do you guys have?

1212
00:56:29,360 --> 00:56:30,719
Speaker 3: And I and I want to control it. So I

1213
00:56:30,760 --> 00:56:32,680
Speaker 3: kind of like came up with something to bring in anyway,

1214
00:56:33,160 --> 00:56:38,960
Speaker 3: we write this song, and and yesterday we were getting

1215
00:56:39,000 --> 00:56:40,120
Speaker 3: into more of it, and so I went to a

1216
00:56:40,200 --> 00:56:43,520
Speaker 3: voice lesson to like prepare to sing it, and and

1217
00:56:43,560 --> 00:56:45,720
Speaker 3: this voicelessen. I'm just like, I just don't even deserve

1218
00:56:45,800 --> 00:56:48,799
Speaker 3: to be making this song. And he's like, you need

1219
00:56:48,840 --> 00:56:51,719
Speaker 3: to stop this. And I was like, it's like it's

1220
00:56:51,840 --> 00:56:54,480
Speaker 3: really interesting advice because it's just like it's not like

1221
00:56:54,920 --> 00:56:58,040
Speaker 3: where do you think this fear is coming from? What

1222
00:56:58,040 --> 00:57:00,799
Speaker 3: what does this fear represent? He was just like, shut up,

1223
00:57:01,000 --> 00:57:04,520
Speaker 3: you need to flip a switch and stop it. Like

1224
00:57:04,680 --> 00:57:07,239
Speaker 3: it's just he goes, you just need to. You just

1225
00:57:07,320 --> 00:57:10,440
Speaker 3: have to. There's no other choice, Like you don't have to.

1226
00:57:10,600 --> 00:57:13,640
Speaker 3: You have to choose to stop feeling that way. You

1227
00:57:13,640 --> 00:57:16,960
Speaker 3: have to choose to believe that you deserve this and

1228
00:57:17,000 --> 00:57:18,840
Speaker 3: that this is what you need to do. And it's

1229
00:57:18,880 --> 00:57:22,840
Speaker 3: not really that, it's not really that complicated. You just

1230
00:57:22,960 --> 00:57:24,920
Speaker 3: gotta do it, like you gotta do anything, like you

1231
00:57:24,920 --> 00:57:27,040
Speaker 3: got to show up for work, like you gotta make

1232
00:57:27,080 --> 00:57:29,200
Speaker 3: your plane even though you're tired, Like you just have

1233
00:57:29,280 --> 00:57:30,760
Speaker 3: to do it. And so it was just like this.

1234
00:57:31,520 --> 00:57:33,120
Speaker 3: I don't know how he really got to me, but

1235
00:57:33,160 --> 00:57:35,680
Speaker 3: for some reason a thing flipped where it was just

1236
00:57:35,680 --> 00:57:38,960
Speaker 3: like it's not And then I was watching all these

1237
00:57:39,040 --> 00:57:43,680
Speaker 3: tiktoks and there's been an influx of reels about I guess.

1238
00:57:43,760 --> 00:57:47,040
Speaker 3: Tony Robbins was on the THEOVONN podcast and he was like,

1239
00:57:47,240 --> 00:57:49,240
Speaker 3: did you see that clip of like look around the room?

1240
00:57:49,840 --> 00:57:52,160
Speaker 3: He tells him to look around the room and look

1241
00:57:52,160 --> 00:57:54,600
Speaker 3: at everything yellow. Make it, make a document of everything

1242
00:57:54,680 --> 00:57:57,920
Speaker 3: yellow in this room. Okay, all right, now close your eyes. Now,

1243
00:57:57,920 --> 00:57:59,640
Speaker 3: if I told you to tell me everything that's red

1244
00:57:59,680 --> 00:58:00,600
Speaker 3: in this could you.

1245
00:58:00,520 --> 00:58:02,400
Speaker 5: Tell me No, I can't think of even one thing.

1246
00:58:02,440 --> 00:58:05,600
Speaker 3: Okay, So now look around, look at all the red things. Okay,

1247
00:58:05,680 --> 00:58:09,080
Speaker 3: there's there's hints of red. Now what that proves is

1248
00:58:09,120 --> 00:58:11,960
Speaker 3: if you're looking for it, you'll find it. If you're

1249
00:58:12,040 --> 00:58:16,400
Speaker 3: if your story you're telling you're about yourself is I'm shit,

1250
00:58:16,520 --> 00:58:18,440
Speaker 3: You're gonna find evidence of that all the time. Now,

1251
00:58:18,440 --> 00:58:20,280
Speaker 3: if you're looking for evidence that I'm great, you're gonna

1252
00:58:20,280 --> 00:58:23,560
Speaker 3: find that everywhere, and when you're looking at red, how

1253
00:58:23,600 --> 00:58:26,040
Speaker 3: many things are you kind of like, well, that's maroon,

1254
00:58:26,120 --> 00:58:27,680
Speaker 3: but I'm gonna say it's red just so I have

1255
00:58:27,680 --> 00:58:30,880
Speaker 3: another red thing. So you're gonna not only take, but

1256
00:58:30,920 --> 00:58:33,200
Speaker 3: it's kind of a shade of red. So what you'll

1257
00:58:33,200 --> 00:58:35,000
Speaker 3: do if you like look at the world of like,

1258
00:58:35,080 --> 00:58:37,320
Speaker 3: let me find evidence I'm great, You'll think you'll you'll

1259
00:58:37,360 --> 00:58:39,880
Speaker 3: take even things that aren't that great, and you'll amplify

1260
00:58:39,960 --> 00:58:42,160
Speaker 3: them just to find evidence. So it's like it was

1261
00:58:42,240 --> 00:58:45,240
Speaker 3: just a good little reminder of like just act as if.

1262
00:58:45,280 --> 00:58:49,760
Speaker 3: But then it's like you feel so stupid, uh like pretending,

1263
00:58:50,240 --> 00:58:54,280
Speaker 3: and then you start to like compare and you can't compare.

1264
00:58:54,360 --> 00:58:57,360
Speaker 3: But why can't you compare? Of course you can compare.

1265
00:58:57,480 --> 00:59:00,720
Speaker 3: There are people that are better. But then go, well,

1266
00:59:00,760 --> 00:59:03,120
Speaker 3: some people don't even some people don't want to hear

1267
00:59:03,120 --> 00:59:05,160
Speaker 3: a perfect voice. Sometimes people want to hear a fucked

1268
00:59:05,200 --> 00:59:07,400
Speaker 3: up voice. And it's like I know that, but like

1269
00:59:07,560 --> 00:59:09,160
Speaker 3: most people want to hear a good.

1270
00:59:09,080 --> 00:59:12,920
Speaker 4: Voice, right, Yeah, it's the smart person's you're too smart.

1271
00:59:13,080 --> 00:59:16,840
Speaker 4: You're too smart to to accept things like that that'll

1272
00:59:16,840 --> 00:59:19,760
Speaker 4: make you happy. You really need to learn the art

1273
00:59:20,080 --> 00:59:23,240
Speaker 4: of pretending. To be stupid. You have to just be

1274
00:59:23,320 --> 00:59:27,240
Speaker 4: stupid and then you will stop questioning that Tony Robbins

1275
00:59:27,240 --> 00:59:32,120
Speaker 4: thing and you will just be happier. Smart people need

1276
00:59:32,120 --> 00:59:33,840
Speaker 4: to pretend to be That's all it is. It's just

1277
00:59:33,920 --> 00:59:36,919
Speaker 4: learn to be stupid and stop questioning everything and stop

1278
00:59:36,960 --> 00:59:40,400
Speaker 4: figuring out reasons why the things are the way they are.

1279
00:59:40,880 --> 00:59:46,320
Speaker 3: And yeah, because I I appreciate your my problem that

1280
00:59:46,360 --> 00:59:48,080
Speaker 3: you're saying, my problem is I'm too smart, But like

1281
00:59:48,360 --> 00:59:50,920
Speaker 3: I have been doing this thing recently where I call

1282
00:59:50,960 --> 00:59:54,480
Speaker 3: it robot mode, where if I'm so overwhelmed by a

1283
00:59:54,560 --> 00:59:57,840
Speaker 3: feeling or like feeling this despair or feeling bad about

1284
00:59:57,840 --> 01:00:02,160
Speaker 3: myself or hating myself, I'm like turn into a robot

1285
01:00:02,560 --> 01:00:04,840
Speaker 3: and protend just do what a robot would do. I

1286
01:00:04,920 --> 01:00:07,680
Speaker 3: need feel, I need to sleep, I need to sit

1287
01:00:07,920 --> 01:00:09,800
Speaker 3: like oh, like I was on a plane and I

1288
01:00:09,840 --> 01:00:13,160
Speaker 3: was about to like I was in a really cramped seat,

1289
01:00:13,200 --> 01:00:14,920
Speaker 3: and I was about to fire off an email being

1290
01:00:14,920 --> 01:00:17,000
Speaker 3: like why am I in boarding group seeing all these things?

1291
01:00:17,560 --> 01:00:20,400
Speaker 3: And then I was just like a robot wouldn't care

1292
01:00:20,480 --> 01:00:23,080
Speaker 3: about their seat. They would just like be They're just

1293
01:00:23,280 --> 01:00:26,439
Speaker 3: a room, my room, but doesn't go like I can't

1294
01:00:26,480 --> 01:00:28,760
Speaker 3: believe I have to fucking do this today. You know,

1295
01:00:28,800 --> 01:00:31,000
Speaker 3: it just is like I'm a robot, so.

1296
01:00:33,160 --> 01:00:35,720
Speaker 4: You're getting to that point pick up your cereal once.

1297
01:00:36,520 --> 01:00:39,520
Speaker 3: I think the next model got a little in about

1298
01:00:40,680 --> 01:00:42,720
Speaker 3: But yeah, like I think there's something to that of

1299
01:00:42,720 --> 01:00:46,360
Speaker 3: like just make your robots obviously are there's an intelligence

1300
01:00:46,360 --> 01:00:48,640
Speaker 3: to them, but there's not like an emotionality, so like

1301
01:00:48,840 --> 01:00:52,800
Speaker 3: turn it off, be more robotic, don't feel everything. But

1302
01:00:52,840 --> 01:00:55,440
Speaker 3: then some would argue that feeling is gonna go somewhere

1303
01:00:55,440 --> 01:00:57,600
Speaker 3: and it's gonna fucking You're gonna have to deal with

1304
01:00:57,600 --> 01:01:00,400
Speaker 3: the creative. But that's creativity also, so you don't want

1305
01:01:00,400 --> 01:01:04,600
Speaker 3: to deprive yourself of your your feelings because that's ye.

1306
01:01:07,280 --> 01:01:09,400
Speaker 4: Red eye and fly eight hours to.

1307
01:01:09,360 --> 01:01:12,640
Speaker 2: Get we're talking about the songwriting process.

1308
01:01:12,680 --> 01:01:14,800
Speaker 3: Yeah, the song thing though, like the robot thing is

1309
01:01:14,840 --> 01:01:18,320
Speaker 3: like I'll turn into a songwriting robot. Like songwriting robots

1310
01:01:18,400 --> 01:01:21,560
Speaker 3: do not feel. They do not have self awareness of

1311
01:01:21,600 --> 01:01:23,880
Speaker 3: like you've never done this before. They're not like focused

1312
01:01:23,880 --> 01:01:25,600
Speaker 3: on like this is the first time you've done this.

1313
01:01:26,040 --> 01:01:28,959
Speaker 3: So even like three out of four of your best

1314
01:01:28,960 --> 01:01:33,480
Speaker 3: friends sing better than you do, uh, like you uh,

1315
01:01:33,960 --> 01:01:36,040
Speaker 3: you have to pay people to even want to do

1316
01:01:36,120 --> 01:01:38,960
Speaker 3: this with you because you're such a joke. You're your

1317
01:01:38,960 --> 01:01:40,760
Speaker 3: Bob Saggetts. Song got made fun of so much. This

1318
01:01:40,800 --> 01:01:42,040
Speaker 3: is gonna get made fun of too, Like I have

1319
01:01:42,080 --> 01:01:44,600
Speaker 3: to turn off all of the robot would not take

1320
01:01:44,800 --> 01:01:48,720
Speaker 3: that data and make robot just make song. I make

1321
01:01:48,840 --> 01:01:53,600
Speaker 3: I'm song robot, and you just do it. And and

1322
01:01:53,640 --> 01:01:58,160
Speaker 3: it's so tough. And writing songs is cool because it's

1323
01:01:58,160 --> 01:02:01,760
Speaker 3: better than writing jokes. It's it's harder. I think we've

1324
01:02:01,760 --> 01:02:06,240
Speaker 3: talked about this before, but now there's a song that exists,

1325
01:02:06,280 --> 01:02:09,600
Speaker 3: a full song that didn't exist two days ago, and

1326
01:02:09,640 --> 01:02:12,439
Speaker 3: I will know it forever because you don't forget joke.

1327
01:02:12,840 --> 01:02:14,920
Speaker 3: You don't forget songs like you forget jokes like I

1328
01:02:14,920 --> 01:02:18,320
Speaker 3: forget jokes I told on a special ago. I'm like,

1329
01:02:18,400 --> 01:02:20,720
Speaker 3: oh I don't. I watch myself sometimes and be like,

1330
01:02:20,760 --> 01:02:23,000
Speaker 3: how's this one gonna end? And I have no fucking clue.

1331
01:02:23,400 --> 01:02:25,800
Speaker 3: But I'll never ever forget the song. It's like this

1332
01:02:25,880 --> 01:02:28,320
Speaker 3: thing just came out of nowhere. It's like I'm an

1333
01:02:28,320 --> 01:02:32,720
Speaker 3: engineer that developed built a computer. Like it just feels

1334
01:02:32,760 --> 01:02:35,200
Speaker 3: like that's a really cool thing.

1335
01:02:35,200 --> 01:02:37,280
Speaker 4: I don't know if you were making like hundreds and

1336
01:02:37,360 --> 01:02:39,400
Speaker 4: hundreds of songs though, like, do you remember the song

1337
01:02:39,440 --> 01:02:43,240
Speaker 4: you sung on F Boy, No, that's a song.

1338
01:02:43,480 --> 01:02:47,080
Speaker 3: If you started singing it, I would probably be able

1339
01:02:47,120 --> 01:02:47,640
Speaker 3: to pick it up.

1340
01:02:47,640 --> 01:02:50,120
Speaker 4: But yeah, I also think perform I mean, if you

1341
01:02:50,200 --> 01:02:53,000
Speaker 4: have the musical talent to play an instrument, I think

1342
01:02:53,280 --> 01:02:59,560
Speaker 4: performing music is easier than performing comedy because you're not

1343
01:02:59,600 --> 01:03:04,040
Speaker 4: relying on the audience's reaction. For I mean, people could

1344
01:03:04,040 --> 01:03:06,360
Speaker 4: be talking over your musical set and it's like kind

1345
01:03:06,400 --> 01:03:09,800
Speaker 4: of normal. But comedy you have to like engage with

1346
01:03:09,840 --> 01:03:12,000
Speaker 4: the audience and get and get it, and you're trying

1347
01:03:12,000 --> 01:03:16,120
Speaker 4: to elicit a specific response from them, and that's scary.

1348
01:03:16,160 --> 01:03:18,560
Speaker 3: It's so when I go to my dad's gigs, people

1349
01:03:18,600 --> 01:03:21,600
Speaker 3: talk the whole time. No one's paying attention. It literally

1350
01:03:21,680 --> 01:03:24,080
Speaker 3: is like just music playing in an elevator, like no

1351
01:03:24,120 --> 01:03:27,080
Speaker 3: one gives it and it's this guy singing, and it's like,

1352
01:03:27,200 --> 01:03:30,560
Speaker 3: people don't just sit and listen to music unless it's

1353
01:03:30,560 --> 01:03:33,120
Speaker 3: like background noise. But if you were performing in the

1354
01:03:33,160 --> 01:03:34,840
Speaker 3: same places that my dad is, and you were a

1355
01:03:34,880 --> 01:03:37,000
Speaker 3: comedian and people were talking over it, it would be

1356
01:03:37,120 --> 01:03:39,400
Speaker 3: you would look and singing yeah, and it would be

1357
01:03:39,560 --> 01:03:42,080
Speaker 3: so embarrassing. It's and my dad definitely feels it. And

1358
01:03:42,120 --> 01:03:44,000
Speaker 3: it's just like, ah, they were talking a lot, like

1359
01:03:44,360 --> 01:03:46,360
Speaker 3: and it bums them out a little bit. But it's

1360
01:03:46,360 --> 01:03:49,200
Speaker 3: not like I had the worst show ever. Whereas if

1361
01:03:49,200 --> 01:03:51,400
Speaker 3: people were talking that much during the comedy show, you

1362
01:03:52,480 --> 01:03:54,720
Speaker 3: there is not If people don't listen to you, there's nothing.

1363
01:03:54,840 --> 01:03:57,440
Speaker 4: You would start yelling at them. That's what you try.

1364
01:03:57,560 --> 01:04:01,480
Speaker 4: Imagine if your dad started he was playing the shut

1365
01:04:01,040 --> 01:04:02,520
Speaker 4: of dates.

1366
01:04:02,640 --> 01:04:05,240
Speaker 3: You know, But I'm really excited about the song is

1367
01:04:05,280 --> 01:04:09,920
Speaker 3: a fucking bop. It's so fun. It's like uplifting, but

1368
01:04:10,000 --> 01:04:12,400
Speaker 3: it's depressing and it's like it's everything that I wanted

1369
01:04:12,400 --> 01:04:15,160
Speaker 3: to be. It might be the exact now that you're

1370
01:04:15,200 --> 01:04:17,080
Speaker 3: thinking thinking about it, I'm like, I think I maybe

1371
01:04:17,520 --> 01:04:21,080
Speaker 3: used the same melody as the not but I mean

1372
01:04:21,120 --> 01:04:23,320
Speaker 3: I wrote that. I don't think I did. But like

1373
01:04:23,520 --> 01:04:25,960
Speaker 3: that's the problem with writing songs, is like you were like,

1374
01:04:26,320 --> 01:04:29,120
Speaker 3: this is another song, like this sounds too catchy, that

1375
01:04:29,160 --> 01:04:31,080
Speaker 3: this can't be something that I stole from?

1376
01:04:31,360 --> 01:04:33,680
Speaker 5: Are they not all taken like every melody? How has

1377
01:04:33,720 --> 01:04:34,960
Speaker 5: it not already been done? I know?

1378
01:04:35,080 --> 01:04:37,480
Speaker 3: And I sent them like three different tailors songs where

1379
01:04:37,480 --> 01:04:39,160
Speaker 3: I'm like I think this is what I think I

1380
01:04:39,200 --> 01:04:41,480
Speaker 3: stole this from her and they're like, no, it's just

1381
01:04:41,560 --> 01:04:44,960
Speaker 3: like you're inspired by her. But this isn't this isn't.

1382
01:04:44,760 --> 01:04:50,360
Speaker 4: This like Three Blind Mice. That's just hot cross Buns and.

1383
01:04:50,320 --> 01:04:52,640
Speaker 3: Twinkle tink a Little Star is happy Birthday or something?

1384
01:04:52,720 --> 01:04:52,919
Speaker 5: Right?

1385
01:04:53,040 --> 01:04:54,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's all like the same chord.

1386
01:04:54,520 --> 01:04:56,880
Speaker 3: No, no, no, no no, it's tingle tinkle little Star. It's oh

1387
01:04:56,960 --> 01:04:57,840
Speaker 3: A B C D E F G.

1388
01:04:58,000 --> 01:05:00,480
Speaker 4: Yeah, isn't that crazy?

1389
01:05:01,600 --> 01:05:04,320
Speaker 5: Anything else is the birthday song? Because that song's a hell.

1390
01:05:04,560 --> 01:05:05,200
Speaker 2: The birthday song?

1391
01:05:05,240 --> 01:05:08,360
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, the birth happened? Yeah, that is hell.

1392
01:05:09,120 --> 01:05:11,920
Speaker 4: Hell. You can't sing that? Actually? Is that not allowed

1393
01:05:11,960 --> 01:05:13,360
Speaker 4: now that you can sing happy birthday?

1394
01:05:13,440 --> 01:05:13,680
Speaker 1: It is?

1395
01:05:13,800 --> 01:05:16,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's I think it's like with Mickey Mouse. It's

1396
01:05:16,680 --> 01:05:17,320
Speaker 3: public domain.

1397
01:05:17,320 --> 01:05:21,720
Speaker 5: Now. For years, you couldn't say it on TV or something,

1398
01:05:22,240 --> 01:05:23,720
Speaker 5: no birthday on TVs that you're.

1399
01:05:23,560 --> 01:05:30,400
Speaker 3: Saying, yeah, for until like a couple of it became yeah, yeah,

1400
01:05:30,400 --> 01:05:33,280
Speaker 3: the birthdays, the birthday family losers.

1401
01:05:33,680 --> 01:05:36,640
Speaker 5: Yeah they're dead now because I can say they're losers.

1402
01:05:37,160 --> 01:05:38,320
Speaker 5: But public domain.

1403
01:05:38,360 --> 01:05:41,200
Speaker 3: I was thinking this is maybe one of the this

1404
01:05:41,240 --> 01:05:44,040
Speaker 3: is a controversial thing, but I was thinking when we

1405
01:05:44,040 --> 01:05:47,360
Speaker 3: were talking about buying music to do for my special.

1406
01:05:47,400 --> 01:05:51,200
Speaker 3: I was like, you know what I could do? Probably, No,

1407
01:05:51,360 --> 01:05:53,800
Speaker 3: this is nuts and Swifties, don't get mad at me.

1408
01:05:53,840 --> 01:05:55,960
Speaker 3: I'm just saying if I were an evil person, this

1409
01:05:56,000 --> 01:05:59,600
Speaker 3: is what I would do. I could probably buy an

1410
01:05:59,600 --> 01:06:02,920
Speaker 3: Oridge an old Taylor Swift song from Scooter Braun for

1411
01:06:03,160 --> 01:06:07,640
Speaker 3: very cheap, because no one's listening to those, the original versions,

1412
01:06:07,960 --> 01:06:11,760
Speaker 3: the Taylor's version. It's sacrilegious to even because she reades

1413
01:06:12,040 --> 01:06:15,400
Speaker 3: Sitter listening to the originals because she doesn't own them

1414
01:06:15,800 --> 01:06:18,200
Speaker 3: and she redid them all and we don't need those anymore,

1415
01:06:18,280 --> 01:06:21,800
Speaker 3: like they're done, like and but I could probably buy

1416
01:06:21,840 --> 01:06:25,720
Speaker 3: them for nothing. And I could have a Taylor Swift

1417
01:06:26,160 --> 01:06:29,720
Speaker 3: original song in my special for very cheap if I

1418
01:06:29,800 --> 01:06:30,240
Speaker 3: was but.

1419
01:06:30,440 --> 01:06:31,760
Speaker 5: I would be be boycotted.

1420
01:06:31,840 --> 01:06:33,320
Speaker 3: Well yeah that's what I'm saying. But it's just it's

1421
01:06:33,320 --> 01:06:35,600
Speaker 3: just funny that I could, and it would be the

1422
01:06:35,800 --> 01:06:40,040
Speaker 3: most the greatest artist of all time I could have.

1423
01:06:40,640 --> 01:06:42,680
Speaker 3: I can't even afford us a song from an artist

1424
01:06:42,720 --> 01:06:44,360
Speaker 3: you've never even heard of, because they're thirty thousand dollars.

1425
01:06:44,400 --> 01:06:46,240
Speaker 3: But I could probably get a Taylor Swift song for

1426
01:06:46,320 --> 01:06:50,320
Speaker 3: a couple grand from Scooter bron because no one's using them,

1427
01:06:50,600 --> 01:06:53,160
Speaker 3: no one, and he would probably sell it to me.

1428
01:06:53,160 --> 01:06:55,040
Speaker 5: Just to spike her scooter for one.

1429
01:06:55,360 --> 01:06:57,240
Speaker 3: But that's just like I find it to be very

1430
01:06:57,280 --> 01:06:58,960
Speaker 3: interesting that that could be the case that you could

1431
01:06:58,960 --> 01:07:02,720
Speaker 3: have the most famous singer songwriter on the planet. I

1432
01:07:02,840 --> 01:07:05,000
Speaker 3: have one of their songs for very cheap. If you

1433
01:07:05,000 --> 01:07:07,120
Speaker 3: go about if you pretty much, if you have no

1434
01:07:07,160 --> 01:07:09,600
Speaker 3: screws you want to if you yeah, But I would

1435
01:07:09,840 --> 01:07:12,560
Speaker 3: never even do that, But it's just funny that you could.

1436
01:07:13,360 --> 01:07:16,959
Speaker 3: The opportunity is there. It would be legal, that's wild.

1437
01:07:17,400 --> 01:07:18,800
Speaker 4: I don't know which one I would use if it's

1438
01:07:18,800 --> 01:07:20,840
Speaker 4: for sale and we don't know how much it's gonna cost,

1439
01:07:20,840 --> 01:07:21,200
Speaker 4: I mean.

1440
01:07:21,280 --> 01:07:22,640
Speaker 5: Or they would charge a lot.

1441
01:07:22,760 --> 01:07:24,960
Speaker 4: You would think they would show up in like commercials

1442
01:07:25,000 --> 01:07:27,840
Speaker 4: and stuff like there. There's there's evil people out there

1443
01:07:27,840 --> 01:07:30,440
Speaker 4: who would love to let the Taylor Swift song. I

1444
01:07:30,440 --> 01:07:31,680
Speaker 4: think they could get away with it.

1445
01:07:31,800 --> 01:07:34,800
Speaker 3: If a single, no they the Swifties. No, if it's

1446
01:07:34,800 --> 01:07:38,120
Speaker 3: spread around that at and t was using you know,

1447
01:07:39,840 --> 01:07:43,120
Speaker 3: blank space from the original nineteen eighty nine, it would

1448
01:07:43,120 --> 01:07:46,680
Speaker 3: be it. I mean, Taylor, it would be over like

1449
01:07:46,720 --> 01:07:49,400
Speaker 3: they their stock would drop like it would be horrible.

1450
01:07:49,480 --> 01:07:51,840
Speaker 5: But what about the radio. Don't they play the old ones?

1451
01:07:53,120 --> 01:07:54,600
Speaker 3: They shouldn't anything the radio.

1452
01:07:56,160 --> 01:07:56,880
Speaker 5: When it comes on.

1453
01:07:57,240 --> 01:08:00,000
Speaker 3: Well, they also new ones. New ones sound the same.

1454
01:08:00,080 --> 01:08:02,560
Speaker 3: They sound exactly the same. Her voice is more mature

1455
01:08:02,560 --> 01:08:06,600
Speaker 3: and are arguably a lot better. But she really she

1456
01:08:06,640 --> 01:08:09,640
Speaker 3: got all the same musicians, did everything exactly the same,

1457
01:08:09,760 --> 01:08:11,400
Speaker 3: which is the amazing part about it.

1458
01:08:11,680 --> 01:08:13,440
Speaker 4: Yeah, all right, that's.

1459
01:08:13,320 --> 01:08:15,000
Speaker 3: All I have to say. We gotta go. We gotta

1460
01:08:15,040 --> 01:08:18,760
Speaker 3: go record this song. But I'm excited for people to

1461
01:08:18,800 --> 01:08:20,559
Speaker 3: hear and I hope I get to play it at

1462
01:08:20,600 --> 01:08:23,439
Speaker 3: shows and stuff. It'll be so fun. Thank you for

1463
01:08:23,479 --> 01:08:25,200
Speaker 3: listening to the podcast. We're going to be at the

1464
01:08:25,240 --> 01:08:26,920
Speaker 3: super Bowl next week. I'm excited about that, but we

1465
01:08:26,960 --> 01:08:29,200
Speaker 3: have some shows for you before then. Don't worry about it.

1466
01:08:29,960 --> 01:08:32,320
Speaker 3: I am going to be on tour again in March.

1467
01:08:32,400 --> 01:08:35,840
Speaker 3: I'm taking February off. I'm also going to the Grammys

1468
01:08:35,920 --> 01:08:41,360
Speaker 3: last wing. Wow, I'm not going to I could go

1469
01:08:41,400 --> 01:08:43,879
Speaker 3: to the Grammys, but I got invited to Stephen Tyler's

1470
01:08:44,800 --> 01:08:47,439
Speaker 3: Grammy party, and that I've.

1471
01:08:47,280 --> 01:08:50,240
Speaker 5: Heard is funny. Really have to take my pictures, get

1472
01:08:50,280 --> 01:08:51,600
Speaker 5: into his closet.

1473
01:08:51,479 --> 01:08:53,559
Speaker 3: And there's gonna be like I don't think it's at

1474
01:08:53,560 --> 01:08:56,400
Speaker 3: his house, but I could be wrong. He's hosting anyway,

1475
01:08:57,560 --> 01:09:02,800
Speaker 3: the same vocal cord Surgeon. I'm just flying to la

1476
01:09:03,240 --> 01:09:06,200
Speaker 3: just for that party, but I think I might if

1477
01:09:06,200 --> 01:09:07,920
Speaker 3: Dealers With is performing at the Grammys. I'm going to

1478
01:09:07,960 --> 01:09:09,040
Speaker 3: try to go to the Grammys and then go to

1479
01:09:09,080 --> 01:09:10,840
Speaker 3: the party afterwards. But I think I just want to

1480
01:09:10,840 --> 01:09:14,000
Speaker 3: go to the party instead of the Grammys because the

1481
01:09:14,040 --> 01:09:16,400
Speaker 3: party is I think the Black Keys are playing at

1482
01:09:16,400 --> 01:09:17,880
Speaker 3: the party like they have.

1483
01:09:17,920 --> 01:09:23,200
Speaker 4: Like huge performers. Yes, you might be able to get

1484
01:09:23,200 --> 01:09:25,439
Speaker 4: a picture on the red carpet at the Grammys, and that's,

1485
01:09:25,640 --> 01:09:28,800
Speaker 4: as you know, is worth more than maybe just go

1486
01:09:28,800 --> 01:09:29,960
Speaker 4: to the red carpet then leave.

1487
01:09:30,680 --> 01:09:31,920
Speaker 3: I don't even think I can get on the red

1488
01:09:31,920 --> 01:09:34,040
Speaker 3: carpet the Grammys. I feel like they won't let me on.

1489
01:09:34,560 --> 01:09:36,720
Speaker 3: You have to have like a publicist get you on.

1490
01:09:37,120 --> 01:09:38,560
Speaker 3: I mean, I don't know, And I feel at a

1491
01:09:38,600 --> 01:09:40,200
Speaker 3: place with the Grammys because I'm not as like I

1492
01:09:40,320 --> 01:09:41,800
Speaker 3: just people be like, what are you doing here?

1493
01:09:41,840 --> 01:09:45,439
Speaker 4: So Trevor was hosting the Grammys this year, Like, don't

1494
01:09:45,479 --> 01:09:47,120
Speaker 4: you feel like you're on the same level as Trevor. No,

1495
01:09:47,320 --> 01:09:47,960
Speaker 4: he's the host.

1496
01:09:48,120 --> 01:09:56,160
Speaker 3: No, No, someday, but no, Someday I'll be able to

1497
01:09:56,760 --> 01:09:59,439
Speaker 3: host these shows. Someday I'll be as big as Joe Koy.

1498
01:09:59,600 --> 01:10:02,479
Speaker 3: All right, thank you so much for listening. We'll see

1499
01:10:02,479 --> 01:10:06,120
Speaker 3: you next week. Andy.

1500
01:10:06,520 --> 01:10:11,360
Speaker 5: How about Joe Kerr? What no oh?

1501
01:10:12,080 --> 01:10:12,679
Speaker 3: Still now