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Speaker 1: What a two points happen? It's time for Ryan's roses. Okay,

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Speaker 1: this is from Carla and Bellflower the email that we got. Carla,

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Speaker 1: thanks for coming on. This is pretty clear to us.

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Speaker 1: Your ex husband called you out of the blue and

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Speaker 1: was your response? Uh, Well, my ex usband and I

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Speaker 1: we've been divorced for five years. Um, so uh in

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Speaker 1: you know, it was well, we have two boys together,

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Speaker 1: we were married for almost ten years. Um, and he

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Speaker 1: met someone else. Uh, and we split up and it

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Speaker 1: was awful when we talked as little as possible right now,

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Speaker 1: but it is cordial and uh, you know, I don't

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Speaker 1: know it. I really needed to see what was going

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Speaker 1: on because, um, he wants the best for my children

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Speaker 1: and for me. So how does he know this information?

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Speaker 1: How does he know your current husband is cheating on you? Basically? Um,

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Speaker 1: some woman he works with was excited her her sister

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Speaker 1: found a guy, uh that she's really excited about and

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Speaker 1: showed all her coworkers. And my ex husband said that

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Speaker 1: the picture was of my current husband. So but he

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Speaker 1: doesn't have the picture to show me, so for all

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Speaker 1: I know, you know, he might just be mad that

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Speaker 1: I got remarried and he hasn't. So Carla, I need

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Speaker 1: you to say Ryan, you my permission to call, and

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Speaker 1: then your husband's name on Kiss FM. Go ahead, you

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Speaker 1: have my permission to call on be very quiet until

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Speaker 1: we tell me he's on the air. Let's see we

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Speaker 1: can find out and good luck, Carla. Here we go. Hello.

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Speaker 1: Hi's this Jerry? Yeah, Hi Jerry. My name is Cindy.

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Speaker 1: I'm calling from the Secret Garden. We're actually offering local

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Speaker 1: residents of promotion today of free roses. Is that something

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Speaker 1: that you'd be interested in? I'm sorry, hang on, can

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Speaker 1: you slow down? Who's this? My name is Cyndy Am

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Speaker 1: calling from the Secret Garden. We service um the Bellflower

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Speaker 1: area and surrounding areas for local residents, and we're doing

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Speaker 1: a promotion today of an arrangement of free flowers. It's

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Speaker 1: actually roses that you can send to anybody that you'd like.

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Speaker 1: I won free flowers. Yeah, they're free. I don't need

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Speaker 1: anything from you. I don't need your credit card info,

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Speaker 1: I don't need cash, I don't need anything. I just

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Speaker 1: need the name of the person you want to send

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Speaker 1: them to, and we can put a note on the

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Speaker 1: arrangements and send them out by lunchtime today. And then,

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Speaker 1: of course we asked that if you do like our arrangements,

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Speaker 1: maybe leave us a nice help review um or return

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Speaker 1: as a paying customer one day. Okay, yeah, yeah sure,

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Speaker 1: um yeah, I'll take the flowers. Sure. Who would you

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Speaker 1: like to send them to? Um? Send them to Charlie.

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Speaker 1: And there's no E at the end of that, so

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Speaker 1: it's just C H A R L I. Okay cool?

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Speaker 1: And uh, what would you like to put on the card? Uh?

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Speaker 1: Just put um hear? Are those free flowers for you? Well?

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Speaker 1: Well is this? Uh we have we do have like

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Speaker 1: they say like I love you across the border and

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Speaker 1: things like that. Would you like anything like that on this? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: I put that on that. That sounds nice. Okay, so

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Speaker 1: the note against it here's free flowers. Yeah, yeah, something

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Speaker 1: like that. Jerry your voice, Darry your voice broadcasting the radio.

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Speaker 1: I need to know that. I've got your wife Carla

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Speaker 1: on the line. Why are you sending Charlie flowers? Uh?

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry, what's going on? That's exactly right? What is

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Speaker 1: going on? You just sent Charlie red roses. These flowers

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Speaker 1: are for you. Your wife is Carla? Who is Charlie?

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Speaker 1: I don't know who this is or what you're talking about?

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Speaker 1: But you don't know who Charlie is? Your business? You

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Speaker 1: don't know who Charlie is. Well, I know who Charlie is,

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Speaker 1: But who are you? Why? Why are you interfering? Now? Well,

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Speaker 1: that's exactly right, that's exactly right. So who is Charlie?

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Speaker 1: Charlie's my girlfriend, and who is Carla? That's none of

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Speaker 1: your business. Carla, do you know who Charlie is? No?

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Speaker 1: I don't. I don't know who Charlie is. Damn it, Jerry,

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Speaker 1: how could you do this to me? You left the

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Speaker 1: hold on? Okay, so absolutely not. What what is there

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Speaker 1: to explain? You're in someone else's bed. You just sent

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Speaker 1: you're right, you're right. This looks bad, but look, let's

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Speaker 1: just can we just talk about this, Okay? I can

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Speaker 1: come home, don't call me, leave me alone. So, Jerry,

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Speaker 1: while we're here, you're married to Carla and you're dating Charlie. Jerry,

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Speaker 1: he's hung up. Wow. So that was your husband, correct, Carla,

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Speaker 1: your current husband. Yeah, so your ex husband was right

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Speaker 1: that he is clearly having an affair with Charlie. Even

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Speaker 1: what's going on. And yeah, yeah, thank you so much. Okay, Carla,

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Speaker 1: good luck it, I mean one a kind good on

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Speaker 1: her ex husband. Her ex husband is the one that

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Speaker 1: cheating on you. I mean, good on her hus because

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Speaker 1: they both have kissed, right, the ex husband trying to

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Speaker 1: protect the kids home. Yet, let's go back to Ryan's roses.

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Speaker 1: This is really clear Carla's ex husband. I guess it

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Speaker 1: sounds like he cheated on her. Didn't so he cheated

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Speaker 1: He calls her out of the blue years later and

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Speaker 1: your current husband is cheating on you. And she's wondering, well, wait,

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Speaker 1: he I mean, if he cheated on her and he

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Speaker 1: say this is going on. So he calls her up

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Speaker 1: and he says, Carla, your current husband is cheating on you.

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Speaker 1: So we get Jerry, her current husband, on after the

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Speaker 1: Charlie woman, and then he we asked him, who's Charlie,

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Speaker 1: it's my girlfriend? Who's Carla? My wife? What? Very nonchalant.

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Speaker 1: So Carla, I guess thed the right thing because now

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Speaker 1: she knows the truth her current husband, Jerry is cheating

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Speaker 1: on her with a woman named Charlie. But that feeling

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Speaker 1: you must get when someone that you know close to

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Speaker 1: I don't want to tell you. It hurts it tell

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Speaker 1: you but the person you're with is cheating on you.

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Speaker 1: That feeling in your stomach. We've all felt something that's

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Speaker 1: that feeling right. You don't want to believe it, absolutely not. No,

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Speaker 1: can't be me, So Brooke and see me, Valley, you

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Speaker 1: heard this? What's going through your mind? Oh? Man, I

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Speaker 1: feel for her. You Um, it's it. Um. The thing

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Speaker 1: being at work, he's living a double life. Well that's right, right,

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Speaker 1: Like you don't go to someone's house at five am

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Speaker 1: if you're just casually cheating on them. But that sociopath

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Speaker 1: stuff when you're living a double life. Pulling up and

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Speaker 1: he says, says, oh, Charlie's my girlfriend. Well we've got

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Speaker 1: your wife on the line, so he's clearly trying to

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Speaker 1: have two relationships at once. Yeah, it's it's rough. I

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Speaker 1: really think Carla needs to figure out why she keeps

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Speaker 1: attracting these kind of men that keep cheating on her, Like,

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Speaker 1: come on, honey, you need to figure this out and

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Speaker 1: therapy will help. Let me just tell ye, therapy will help.

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Speaker 1: That's interesting pattern, repeating your mistakes exactly our brook, Thanks

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Speaker 1: for calling, Yeah, thanks for having me. Bye. We've had

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Speaker 1: a handful of double life people in Ryan's roses over

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