1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:02,320 Speaker 1: Today show is pre recorded. 2 00:00:04,200 --> 00:00:10,600 Speaker 2: Y'all know what time y'all don't know y'all at all, So. 3 00:00:12,720 --> 00:00:15,960 Speaker 1: Don't given them black a. 4 00:00:15,920 --> 00:00:26,560 Speaker 3: Million bus buss boozy listening to me to. 5 00:00:39,159 --> 00:00:59,600 Speaker 4: Joy, Yeah, Joy, you know you. 6 00:01:06,440 --> 00:01:13,880 Speaker 1: Love turn. 7 00:01:24,640 --> 00:01:28,920 Speaker 4: You gotta turn. 8 00:01:27,160 --> 00:01:42,199 Speaker 1: Well I can't. I got to turn the mouth. 9 00:01:42,720 --> 00:01:42,959 Speaker 5: Turn. 10 00:01:43,120 --> 00:01:46,920 Speaker 3: You probably got to turn the mouth turn, turn the 11 00:01:47,000 --> 00:01:50,080 Speaker 3: water of the morning up looking me. 12 00:01:55,760 --> 00:01:59,680 Speaker 6: Come come on, you're think. 13 00:02:02,200 --> 00:02:02,880 Speaker 1: I sure will? 14 00:02:03,440 --> 00:02:04,560 Speaker 6: Good morning everybody. 15 00:02:05,040 --> 00:02:08,240 Speaker 7: Y're listening to the voice, Come on, dig me now, 16 00:02:08,520 --> 00:02:12,040 Speaker 7: one and only Steve Harvey, I got a radio show, 17 00:02:13,240 --> 00:02:14,560 Speaker 7: just trying to give God. 18 00:02:15,919 --> 00:02:19,600 Speaker 6: Some back, just some back of what he even gave me, 19 00:02:20,440 --> 00:02:21,400 Speaker 6: just a portion, you know. 20 00:02:21,720 --> 00:02:26,520 Speaker 7: Just I'm just trying, man to to show some type 21 00:02:26,560 --> 00:02:32,399 Speaker 7: of gratitude for all his blessings. I'm just trying to, man, 22 00:02:32,680 --> 00:02:36,600 Speaker 7: just just get it right sometimes, you know what I mean. 23 00:02:36,680 --> 00:02:38,639 Speaker 7: I mean, man, you just can't do what you want 24 00:02:38,680 --> 00:02:40,960 Speaker 7: to do and just live wrong all the time. Man, 25 00:02:41,000 --> 00:02:43,919 Speaker 7: you got it at one point in time, Steve, come home. Man, 26 00:02:44,800 --> 00:02:46,040 Speaker 7: come on, man, you could do better. 27 00:02:46,040 --> 00:02:46,760 Speaker 8: I know you can. 28 00:02:47,960 --> 00:02:50,040 Speaker 7: You know say, and you know what I had to do. 29 00:02:50,160 --> 00:02:52,920 Speaker 7: I had to stop saying I'm gonna try to do better. 30 00:02:53,480 --> 00:02:55,400 Speaker 7: And I just had to say, hey, man, I'm going 31 00:02:55,560 --> 00:02:59,200 Speaker 7: to do better. You know, trying is just to put 32 00:02:59,280 --> 00:03:02,320 Speaker 7: forth in effing If it don't work, well okay. But 33 00:03:02,440 --> 00:03:03,960 Speaker 7: if you make up in your mind that I'm going 34 00:03:04,080 --> 00:03:08,120 Speaker 7: to do something, then trying isn't enough. It's getting it 35 00:03:08,240 --> 00:03:10,519 Speaker 7: done is the only thing that matters. See, it's the 36 00:03:10,560 --> 00:03:14,000 Speaker 7: difference between doing and trying. We're gonna try to win 37 00:03:14,080 --> 00:03:16,000 Speaker 7: the game, or we're gonna go out here to win 38 00:03:16,080 --> 00:03:18,679 Speaker 7: the game. Now, trying to win the game means that 39 00:03:18,840 --> 00:03:21,680 Speaker 7: you could lose. But when you got in your mind 40 00:03:21,760 --> 00:03:24,600 Speaker 7: made up, most athletes will tell you that they go 41 00:03:24,720 --> 00:03:27,400 Speaker 7: out there with the full intent and purpose of winning 42 00:03:27,560 --> 00:03:31,200 Speaker 7: and winning only see they don't put the second place 43 00:03:31,280 --> 00:03:33,200 Speaker 7: finish on the cover of Sports Illustrated. 44 00:03:33,520 --> 00:03:34,800 Speaker 6: Second place don't get you there. 45 00:03:35,640 --> 00:03:36,480 Speaker 1: You you got to win. 46 00:03:37,320 --> 00:03:39,640 Speaker 7: And now take it out of the scope of athletics, 47 00:03:39,680 --> 00:03:43,440 Speaker 7: but keep it in that type of analogy in life. Man, 48 00:03:43,480 --> 00:03:45,400 Speaker 7: you just want to you want to win in life, 49 00:03:45,440 --> 00:03:47,680 Speaker 7: don't you. I mean, at the end of the day, 50 00:03:47,760 --> 00:03:49,360 Speaker 7: don't you want to be on the cover of Sports 51 00:03:49,360 --> 00:03:52,680 Speaker 7: Illustrated of life? Don't you want to be recognized for 52 00:03:52,800 --> 00:03:56,040 Speaker 7: your hard work? Don't you want, you know, to be 53 00:03:56,200 --> 00:03:59,320 Speaker 7: recognized within the bonus structure down at your job. Don't 54 00:03:59,360 --> 00:04:01,840 Speaker 7: you want to have your plaque up on the wall 55 00:04:01,960 --> 00:04:04,080 Speaker 7: down at your job? I mean most people do. Some 56 00:04:04,200 --> 00:04:06,960 Speaker 7: people could care less. Some people don't care about looking 57 00:04:07,000 --> 00:04:08,080 Speaker 7: good or being their best. 58 00:04:08,160 --> 00:04:08,680 Speaker 6: And that's cool. 59 00:04:08,720 --> 00:04:11,040 Speaker 7: But I ain't talking to them though. I'm talking to you. 60 00:04:11,520 --> 00:04:14,240 Speaker 7: I'm talking to those of you who want to be 61 00:04:14,360 --> 00:04:16,840 Speaker 7: the best you can be. You know, people kill me 62 00:04:16,839 --> 00:04:20,599 Speaker 7: when they getting mad at people. And he Brown knows 63 00:04:20,680 --> 00:04:22,760 Speaker 7: and he all up on the employee of the month man, 64 00:04:22,839 --> 00:04:25,080 Speaker 7: the dude doing his job to the best of his ability, 65 00:04:25,120 --> 00:04:26,440 Speaker 7: and he getting recognized for it? 66 00:04:26,680 --> 00:04:28,560 Speaker 6: What they got to do with all that you talking about? 67 00:04:28,560 --> 00:04:29,720 Speaker 6: Because you ain't up there there. 68 00:04:29,720 --> 00:04:33,560 Speaker 7: It's amazing, man, how people describe other people's success. He's 69 00:04:33,600 --> 00:04:37,000 Speaker 7: so lucky, lucky? Hey man, do they kind of get 70 00:04:37,040 --> 00:04:39,640 Speaker 7: you a little bit when people call you lucky? Well, 71 00:04:39,760 --> 00:04:42,119 Speaker 7: let me tell you what luck really is, y'all. Lucky 72 00:04:42,200 --> 00:04:46,480 Speaker 7: is when hard work bumps up into opportunity. Some people 73 00:04:46,600 --> 00:04:47,280 Speaker 7: call that luck. 74 00:04:47,520 --> 00:04:49,640 Speaker 6: But hold on, let's think about this. 75 00:04:50,040 --> 00:04:53,960 Speaker 7: If you wasn't working hard, an opportunity presented itself, what 76 00:04:54,040 --> 00:04:56,839 Speaker 7: would you call that? But see, when you've been working 77 00:04:56,960 --> 00:04:59,560 Speaker 7: hard and opportunity presents itself and it bumps up in 78 00:04:59,680 --> 00:05:02,200 Speaker 7: each other. Now people want to call that luck, but 79 00:05:02,360 --> 00:05:04,039 Speaker 7: hold up here, go to park though to day, ain't 80 00:05:04,040 --> 00:05:06,800 Speaker 7: paying no attention to Yeah, that opportunity came by, But 81 00:05:06,880 --> 00:05:09,719 Speaker 7: if you had not been working hard, and the hard work. 82 00:05:09,560 --> 00:05:12,640 Speaker 6: Had not ran up in the opportunity, what would you have? No, sir, 83 00:05:12,800 --> 00:05:14,320 Speaker 6: it's not luck, it's work. 84 00:05:14,800 --> 00:05:17,679 Speaker 7: It is work, because there's a scripture that says faith 85 00:05:18,279 --> 00:05:22,239 Speaker 7: without works is dead. But my mama was a Sunday 86 00:05:22,279 --> 00:05:25,160 Speaker 7: school teacher. She taught me enough. Though Now I know 87 00:05:25,240 --> 00:05:28,320 Speaker 7: different between right and wrong, just like you do. You 88 00:05:28,360 --> 00:05:30,120 Speaker 7: ain't got to you know. It kills me when people 89 00:05:30,160 --> 00:05:31,159 Speaker 7: write a strawberry letter? 90 00:05:31,440 --> 00:05:32,320 Speaker 6: Am I wrong for this? 91 00:05:32,480 --> 00:05:32,840 Speaker 9: You know? Good? 92 00:05:32,920 --> 00:05:34,360 Speaker 1: Well, look at listen read your letter? 93 00:05:35,360 --> 00:05:36,200 Speaker 6: Are you wrong for this? 94 00:05:36,400 --> 00:05:37,040 Speaker 1: You know you're wrong? 95 00:05:37,160 --> 00:05:38,840 Speaker 7: What you don't need else to be telling you know? 96 00:05:39,000 --> 00:05:41,240 Speaker 7: But I'm gonna do this anyway. Well else, hee, Go ahead, though, 97 00:05:42,000 --> 00:05:44,800 Speaker 7: do what you want to do. But you know what, y'all, 98 00:05:45,120 --> 00:05:46,720 Speaker 7: here's the best advice I can give you. And this 99 00:05:46,839 --> 00:05:49,800 Speaker 7: is what I really came to talk about this morning, 100 00:05:49,880 --> 00:05:53,880 Speaker 7: but I got sidetracked because I listened. Get out of 101 00:05:54,040 --> 00:05:57,520 Speaker 7: your own way. So many of us are blocking our home. 102 00:05:57,600 --> 00:06:02,120 Speaker 7: Blessings were just in our own We are in our 103 00:06:02,279 --> 00:06:05,720 Speaker 7: own way. And one of the most dangerous ways you 104 00:06:05,760 --> 00:06:08,880 Speaker 7: can get in your way is to do it your way, 105 00:06:09,880 --> 00:06:12,640 Speaker 7: to get it figured your way, and to lock in 106 00:06:12,839 --> 00:06:14,960 Speaker 7: on your way. And this the way it's got to go. 107 00:06:15,400 --> 00:06:18,080 Speaker 7: Do you know how many people are blocking their blessing? 108 00:06:18,240 --> 00:06:20,840 Speaker 7: Do you know how long I block mind with that 109 00:06:21,320 --> 00:06:25,200 Speaker 7: mindset right there? Look, because this the way you do it, 110 00:06:25,320 --> 00:06:28,400 Speaker 7: You think that makes it the right way? You think jazz, 111 00:06:28,520 --> 00:06:30,240 Speaker 7: cause you the thought on it long and hard, and 112 00:06:30,320 --> 00:06:32,880 Speaker 7: that's what you really want. Do you really think that 113 00:06:33,040 --> 00:06:34,840 Speaker 7: your way is the right way or could that be 114 00:06:34,960 --> 00:06:35,520 Speaker 7: a better way? 115 00:06:36,480 --> 00:06:36,680 Speaker 6: See? 116 00:06:36,760 --> 00:06:39,920 Speaker 7: Until I started listening to God and started paying attention 117 00:06:40,040 --> 00:06:43,080 Speaker 7: to his way, man, I was spinning my wheels. Man, 118 00:06:43,839 --> 00:06:45,960 Speaker 7: I was out here so determined this how I was 119 00:06:46,000 --> 00:06:48,159 Speaker 7: gonna do it. But you know I had to learn 120 00:06:48,200 --> 00:06:50,600 Speaker 7: how to get out of my own way because just 121 00:06:50,640 --> 00:06:53,080 Speaker 7: because I could do it my way didn't mean it 122 00:06:53,240 --> 00:06:56,200 Speaker 7: was the right way. I had to get out of 123 00:06:56,480 --> 00:07:01,560 Speaker 7: my own way. Just get out your way, man, Now, 124 00:07:02,080 --> 00:07:07,400 Speaker 7: what what does that mean? That means, See, set your goals, 125 00:07:08,880 --> 00:07:14,080 Speaker 7: That means have your dreams. I'm saying, set your goals. Man, 126 00:07:14,400 --> 00:07:15,600 Speaker 7: I ain't saying don't set goals. 127 00:07:15,640 --> 00:07:16,080 Speaker 1: Listen to me. 128 00:07:16,400 --> 00:07:18,720 Speaker 7: Set your goals. What is it you want to happen? 129 00:07:18,960 --> 00:07:20,840 Speaker 7: What is it you like to have, What is it 130 00:07:20,960 --> 00:07:24,040 Speaker 7: you like to be? What do you aspire to? Set 131 00:07:24,120 --> 00:07:28,760 Speaker 7: your goals and set your dreams. Now, take your goals 132 00:07:28,840 --> 00:07:33,280 Speaker 7: and your dreams to God and ask God to show 133 00:07:33,360 --> 00:07:37,040 Speaker 7: you how. Man, you can save yourself a lot of pain. 134 00:07:38,040 --> 00:07:41,760 Speaker 7: Listen to somebody who did it his way for so long. 135 00:07:42,160 --> 00:07:44,720 Speaker 7: And when I finally got out of my way, out 136 00:07:44,760 --> 00:07:47,840 Speaker 7: of my own way. When you've heard old people say, 137 00:07:48,000 --> 00:07:50,680 Speaker 7: let go and let God, you've heard them say that 138 00:07:51,360 --> 00:07:53,720 Speaker 7: I didn't. I didn't get it, but I got it. 139 00:07:53,840 --> 00:07:58,240 Speaker 7: Now let go and let God. And it's amazing little saying. 140 00:07:58,280 --> 00:08:00,280 Speaker 7: Though now you know you may not get it now. 141 00:08:00,520 --> 00:08:02,080 Speaker 7: It took me a bunch of years to get it too. 142 00:08:02,640 --> 00:08:05,840 Speaker 7: But when I took my goals and my dreams and 143 00:08:05,960 --> 00:08:08,840 Speaker 7: my vision to God and I said, God, this is 144 00:08:08,920 --> 00:08:11,160 Speaker 7: what I hope for, this is what I aspired to, 145 00:08:11,320 --> 00:08:12,800 Speaker 7: this is what I want to be, this is why 146 00:08:12,840 --> 00:08:16,320 Speaker 7: I would love to get to. Then I said, help 147 00:08:16,400 --> 00:08:20,160 Speaker 7: me show me how. Point me in the right direction. 148 00:08:20,640 --> 00:08:24,240 Speaker 7: Let me follow your footsteps. Guide me and give me 149 00:08:24,440 --> 00:08:27,040 Speaker 7: a spirit of discernment. Show me who wrong because I 150 00:08:27,120 --> 00:08:29,160 Speaker 7: meet people every day. Ain't up to no good with 151 00:08:29,280 --> 00:08:34,160 Speaker 7: me every single day. Oh man, Man, I can't believe 152 00:08:34,200 --> 00:08:36,160 Speaker 7: I wanna be in you. Man, the Lord told me 153 00:08:36,520 --> 00:08:39,000 Speaker 7: something was gonna happen to me today. Well, see, I 154 00:08:39,120 --> 00:08:41,679 Speaker 7: talk to him every day. He did not mention you 155 00:08:41,880 --> 00:08:44,680 Speaker 7: to me. He ain't said nothing to me. He didn't 156 00:08:44,679 --> 00:08:46,040 Speaker 7: tell me what was gonna happen in mine. Now I 157 00:08:46,120 --> 00:08:48,760 Speaker 7: don't mean it can't happen because I'm open to it. 158 00:08:49,480 --> 00:08:53,320 Speaker 7: So really, man, I'm p and please know I'm listening 159 00:08:53,440 --> 00:08:57,760 Speaker 7: as well as I've ever listened before. But get yourself together, though, 160 00:08:58,520 --> 00:09:00,640 Speaker 7: see know your goals and your dream and then let 161 00:09:00,720 --> 00:09:01,679 Speaker 7: God show you how to do it. 162 00:09:02,000 --> 00:09:03,719 Speaker 6: He'll do it. You know. 163 00:09:03,840 --> 00:09:07,439 Speaker 7: It's so important everybody, that you get focused, that you 164 00:09:07,679 --> 00:09:10,760 Speaker 7: aim for something, that you dream of, something, that you 165 00:09:10,960 --> 00:09:12,080 Speaker 7: aspire to something. 166 00:09:12,480 --> 00:09:14,199 Speaker 6: But it's the most the best thing you can do. 167 00:09:14,320 --> 00:09:17,960 Speaker 6: After you do all that, Man, get God involved in it. Man, 168 00:09:18,760 --> 00:09:20,160 Speaker 6: talk to him. I mean, why would you not what 169 00:09:20,280 --> 00:09:22,439 Speaker 6: you got to lose. You ain't got to go down 170 00:09:22,480 --> 00:09:23,360 Speaker 6: there and make no big. 171 00:09:23,320 --> 00:09:26,240 Speaker 7: Scene and run laps around the church and run up 172 00:09:26,280 --> 00:09:29,079 Speaker 7: there and throw yourself on the altar and scream and 173 00:09:29,160 --> 00:09:31,040 Speaker 7: flip over and throw money in the ad. You ain't 174 00:09:31,040 --> 00:09:33,480 Speaker 7: got to do that. This you and God, man, This 175 00:09:33,679 --> 00:09:36,079 Speaker 7: you and God. You know you got to serve and 176 00:09:36,200 --> 00:09:38,360 Speaker 7: praise Him the way you do it. You gotta let 177 00:09:38,400 --> 00:09:41,559 Speaker 7: nobody else tell you how it's done. It's a personal relationship. 178 00:09:41,840 --> 00:09:43,559 Speaker 7: People kill me if you don't do it this way. 179 00:09:43,600 --> 00:09:45,079 Speaker 7: If you don't come here to this church and you 180 00:09:45,120 --> 00:09:46,920 Speaker 7: don't run around in this circle and you don't get 181 00:09:46,960 --> 00:09:49,440 Speaker 7: flipped in the an, you don't. Hey, man, you better 182 00:09:49,520 --> 00:09:51,520 Speaker 7: go have a relationship with God. See what that's about, 183 00:09:51,720 --> 00:09:53,760 Speaker 7: you understand, or nobody throw you off with all that? 184 00:09:53,920 --> 00:09:55,840 Speaker 7: All right, all right, y'all talk to him. He love 185 00:09:55,880 --> 00:09:56,360 Speaker 7: to hear from you. 186 00:09:56,440 --> 00:10:00,160 Speaker 1: Today. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 187 00:10:04,360 --> 00:10:05,200 Speaker 6: Ladies and gentlemen. 188 00:10:05,360 --> 00:10:08,920 Speaker 7: You know what, it's another day, and I just got 189 00:10:09,080 --> 00:10:12,880 Speaker 7: to tell you this, man, I'm more and more impressed. 190 00:10:13,840 --> 00:10:17,040 Speaker 7: It seems the older I get on. Really just how 191 00:10:17,160 --> 00:10:21,040 Speaker 7: good God is? I guess because I've seen improve it 192 00:10:21,120 --> 00:10:23,880 Speaker 7: to me over and over and over so many times. 193 00:10:24,280 --> 00:10:26,679 Speaker 7: I think that's a part of it. But I think 194 00:10:26,720 --> 00:10:29,000 Speaker 7: it's also a part of it that I've come to 195 00:10:29,160 --> 00:10:30,600 Speaker 7: a realization. 196 00:10:31,880 --> 00:10:32,800 Speaker 10: More and more. 197 00:10:34,280 --> 00:10:37,440 Speaker 7: That it really is just him. It just really ain't 198 00:10:37,480 --> 00:10:40,640 Speaker 7: nobody else. Now, he'll send you some people every now 199 00:10:40,640 --> 00:10:43,920 Speaker 7: and then. That's pretty cool, you understanding you'll have them 200 00:10:44,679 --> 00:10:48,439 Speaker 7: for a long long time. I found that the majority 201 00:10:48,440 --> 00:10:51,160 Speaker 7: of people in my life, the vast majority, have been 202 00:10:51,240 --> 00:10:54,319 Speaker 7: in for just short spells, periods and times. And I 203 00:10:54,440 --> 00:10:57,240 Speaker 7: do appreciate the ones he's given me that has lasted. 204 00:10:57,480 --> 00:11:00,040 Speaker 7: But the only one that I can truly say it 205 00:11:00,120 --> 00:11:02,719 Speaker 7: has been that every single step of the way, know 206 00:11:02,960 --> 00:11:07,480 Speaker 7: all the moves, the shakedowns, the secrets, that's him and 207 00:11:07,800 --> 00:11:10,920 Speaker 7: the fact that he keep waking me up anyway, after 208 00:11:11,040 --> 00:11:15,120 Speaker 7: all he know about me. Boy, Bye, ladies and gentlemen, 209 00:11:15,280 --> 00:11:19,160 Speaker 7: the greatest of all time, our heavenly father, you are 210 00:11:19,240 --> 00:11:21,400 Speaker 7: to thank you for that. Steve Harlan Mornay Show Show, 211 00:11:21,480 --> 00:11:23,920 Speaker 7: the Strawberry callin forre on Mississippi, Monica Jr. 212 00:11:24,120 --> 00:11:25,840 Speaker 6: And the legend that is Nephew Thomas. 213 00:11:26,080 --> 00:11:28,839 Speaker 2: Yes, Junior, let me go ahead just say this for 214 00:11:28,920 --> 00:11:30,800 Speaker 2: the people out there so they know this, this is 215 00:11:30,880 --> 00:11:33,640 Speaker 2: Steve Hart Morning Show and it comprised them. Shirley Carl 216 00:11:33,679 --> 00:11:37,560 Speaker 2: of Monica, Tommy and myself and of course uncle Steve 217 00:11:38,320 --> 00:11:40,280 Speaker 2: were not We're not out here to ask me to 218 00:11:40,360 --> 00:11:43,559 Speaker 2: ask Steve for you. Okay, we're not doing that because 219 00:11:43,559 --> 00:11:46,120 Speaker 2: if you don't have the answers, we ain't got time 220 00:11:46,160 --> 00:11:48,400 Speaker 2: for your question. All we have time for me and 221 00:11:48,440 --> 00:11:50,679 Speaker 2: Tommy's questions. We don't have time for the publics because 222 00:11:50,679 --> 00:11:51,079 Speaker 2: they want to know. 223 00:11:51,200 --> 00:11:52,120 Speaker 1: Ask Steve this for me. 224 00:11:52,360 --> 00:11:54,439 Speaker 2: He don't know you, and we're not doing that on 225 00:11:54,559 --> 00:11:57,800 Speaker 2: this show. Okay, No, only me and Tommy asked Steve question. 226 00:11:57,840 --> 00:11:59,880 Speaker 2: Do't quot asking me when you see me, ask Steve this. 227 00:12:00,480 --> 00:12:02,520 Speaker 2: Ask Steve what he thinks. He don't have time to think. 228 00:12:02,559 --> 00:12:04,839 Speaker 2: He got too many jobs and we're not gonna overwhelm him. 229 00:12:05,080 --> 00:12:06,720 Speaker 2: And this is my blessing that the Lord has put 230 00:12:06,800 --> 00:12:09,640 Speaker 2: in my life. Therefore it ain't for you, can't you? 231 00:12:10,120 --> 00:12:13,400 Speaker 2: You need to ask your uncle Steve, the one you know. 232 00:12:13,960 --> 00:12:16,199 Speaker 2: And by the way, his name is mister Harvey. He's 233 00:12:16,240 --> 00:12:21,559 Speaker 2: not your friend, is mister Harvey. He is not your friend. 234 00:12:22,440 --> 00:12:25,280 Speaker 6: Speech in front of the Senate got him tight by. 235 00:12:26,640 --> 00:12:29,520 Speaker 2: Sit up here for somebody asked mister mister Steve what 236 00:12:29,760 --> 00:12:32,120 Speaker 2: it's mister Harvey, And we're not asking questions. 237 00:12:33,559 --> 00:12:35,360 Speaker 1: I'm sorry they be trying to use me to get 238 00:12:35,400 --> 00:12:36,440 Speaker 1: to you. I'm not gonna let it happen. 239 00:12:36,520 --> 00:12:39,719 Speaker 11: I'm walk they're using you, or they're just asking you 240 00:12:39,880 --> 00:12:43,800 Speaker 11: to do a favor. I'm not doing If the show 241 00:12:44,040 --> 00:12:46,920 Speaker 11: and fans of Steve asked Steve if he got five 242 00:12:46,960 --> 00:12:48,400 Speaker 11: thousand laying around, of course he do. 243 00:12:49,360 --> 00:12:51,560 Speaker 6: Oh oh, they're asking you that. Of course he got 244 00:12:51,640 --> 00:12:52,480 Speaker 6: five laying around? 245 00:12:52,559 --> 00:12:55,199 Speaker 1: Of course. Oh that's different. 246 00:12:55,400 --> 00:13:00,600 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, not asking him. Sorry, this this is really 247 00:13:00,760 --> 00:13:04,000 Speaker 2: getting on my Nerve asked Steve. Well, you know about 248 00:13:04,080 --> 00:13:12,240 Speaker 2: insurance a lot? Yes, is Steve's claiming adults probably sold? 249 00:13:12,280 --> 00:13:12,920 Speaker 1: But he got enough? 250 00:13:14,880 --> 00:13:18,160 Speaker 6: Yes, lord, yes, Lord, father got doing this. 251 00:13:19,280 --> 00:13:21,880 Speaker 1: I'm sorry people getting to I would. 252 00:13:21,720 --> 00:13:24,640 Speaker 7: Like to say, Junior, I do have five thousand dollars, 253 00:13:24,720 --> 00:13:27,160 Speaker 7: but it ain't just laying round. I know where every. 254 00:13:27,360 --> 00:13:31,400 Speaker 6: Single dollar as you should. Just want to be clear 255 00:13:31,400 --> 00:13:31,800 Speaker 6: about that. 256 00:13:32,360 --> 00:13:35,160 Speaker 12: You won't stop bothering Junior. Okay, coming up at thirty 257 00:13:35,200 --> 00:13:36,200 Speaker 12: two minutes after the. 258 00:13:36,280 --> 00:13:39,040 Speaker 6: Hour inside on top of the Hood and the cock to. 259 00:13:39,120 --> 00:13:39,360 Speaker 9: You that. 260 00:13:41,960 --> 00:13:44,439 Speaker 12: We'll run that break back with the nephew right after this. 261 00:13:46,240 --> 00:13:54,000 Speaker 12: You're listening Steve Hardy Morning Show. You've heard us talk 262 00:13:54,040 --> 00:13:57,240 Speaker 12: about the benefits of Globe Life Insurance. Globe Life has 263 00:13:57,320 --> 00:14:01,520 Speaker 12: been protecting families for generations. Life is easy to buy 264 00:14:01,760 --> 00:14:04,880 Speaker 12: with rates starting as low as three dollars and forty 265 00:14:04,960 --> 00:14:07,959 Speaker 12: nine cents a month. 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Yeah, it's lean 276 00:14:42,440 --> 00:14:45,040 Speaker 9: suck Hey Sean? How you doing this? Money? Is Brian? 277 00:14:45,800 --> 00:14:48,640 Speaker 9: I got you on schedule. You you ordered an Uber 278 00:14:48,720 --> 00:14:53,840 Speaker 9: for tomorrow morning. I think you're okay? Are you? Are 279 00:14:53,880 --> 00:14:55,360 Speaker 9: you scared to go to airport? Correct? 280 00:14:56,200 --> 00:14:56,680 Speaker 13: Absolutely? 281 00:14:56,760 --> 00:14:56,960 Speaker 5: Yeah? 282 00:14:57,600 --> 00:14:59,840 Speaker 9: Okay, all right? And I want to make sure you 283 00:15:00,240 --> 00:15:04,840 Speaker 9: you wanted an suv? Yeah, I wanted the suv okay? 284 00:15:05,000 --> 00:15:12,120 Speaker 9: And that's ninety two eleven West. What is that? Holman 285 00:15:13,280 --> 00:15:17,960 Speaker 9: eleven West Drive that's correct. Okay, all right, all right, 286 00:15:18,040 --> 00:15:21,200 Speaker 9: so I'll be outside tomorrow morning. You were talking about 287 00:15:21,600 --> 00:15:24,840 Speaker 9: seven seven am pickup. Correct, that's it. 288 00:15:25,040 --> 00:15:26,880 Speaker 8: I got you got it. Everything's on point. 289 00:15:27,520 --> 00:15:29,200 Speaker 9: Okay, all right, So listen, I wanted to let you 290 00:15:29,280 --> 00:15:33,120 Speaker 9: know this man you ordered the suv. I'll be there tomorrow. 291 00:15:34,360 --> 00:15:36,360 Speaker 9: I'll be there probably a little bit before seven am. 292 00:15:36,480 --> 00:15:39,840 Speaker 9: You know, when you guys order uber way in advance, 293 00:15:39,880 --> 00:15:41,480 Speaker 9: you know, we try to get there almost like a 294 00:15:41,560 --> 00:15:43,600 Speaker 9: car service and make sure we get you where you 295 00:15:43,640 --> 00:15:45,320 Speaker 9: got to go. And I know the traffic is gonna 296 00:15:45,320 --> 00:15:47,880 Speaker 9: be a little crazy, so you know i'll be there 297 00:15:47,920 --> 00:15:49,320 Speaker 9: on time. I'll be downstairs waiting on you. 298 00:15:49,360 --> 00:15:51,320 Speaker 13: All right, I'd appreciate it. 299 00:15:51,560 --> 00:15:55,880 Speaker 9: Okay, Now listen, I'm I'm I'm an suv. But it's 300 00:15:55,920 --> 00:15:57,760 Speaker 9: a kind of a little different. So that's why I 301 00:15:57,880 --> 00:15:59,120 Speaker 9: kind of the reason for what a call. I wanted 302 00:15:59,160 --> 00:16:02,200 Speaker 9: to kind of give your head up that I am 303 00:16:02,280 --> 00:16:04,800 Speaker 9: an suv. So I just want you to look for 304 00:16:05,680 --> 00:16:10,960 Speaker 9: the U the Blackhurst that will be outside hers. Yeah, 305 00:16:11,760 --> 00:16:18,080 Speaker 9: I'll be in a Blackhurst tomorrow morning at seven as uh. Okay, okay, 306 00:16:19,600 --> 00:16:22,240 Speaker 9: it's a suv or a heart No, no, it's a hurts. 307 00:16:22,440 --> 00:16:25,360 Speaker 9: It's a heart. Actually, what's happening is is I I 308 00:16:25,480 --> 00:16:29,040 Speaker 9: have another drop off at the airport as well. You 309 00:16:29,080 --> 00:16:31,080 Speaker 9: know there's a I mean, it's it's it won't affect 310 00:16:31,080 --> 00:16:32,480 Speaker 9: you at all, but they'll they'll be a body in 311 00:16:32,560 --> 00:16:34,760 Speaker 9: the back. But that has to we're trying to get 312 00:16:34,800 --> 00:16:37,480 Speaker 9: that to the airport too. But you know, like I said, 313 00:16:37,600 --> 00:16:38,440 Speaker 9: as matter of fact. 314 00:16:38,280 --> 00:16:45,480 Speaker 13: It's like, wait a minute, holda yeah, man, I ain't dy. 315 00:16:45,920 --> 00:16:47,720 Speaker 9: Well there's a I mean, there will be a body, 316 00:16:47,760 --> 00:16:49,720 Speaker 9: but actually this is costing you less. You know what 317 00:16:49,760 --> 00:16:50,200 Speaker 9: I'm saying. 318 00:16:50,600 --> 00:16:52,440 Speaker 13: So you don't have to man, Well I'm supposed to 319 00:16:52,480 --> 00:16:54,920 Speaker 13: lay down. So what what's you doing about? 320 00:16:54,960 --> 00:16:55,120 Speaker 14: Man? 321 00:16:55,480 --> 00:17:01,840 Speaker 9: Dude? It'll hang on. Man, listen, you wanted an MV. 322 00:17:02,400 --> 00:17:04,200 Speaker 13: I'm not ride with the body. 323 00:17:04,320 --> 00:17:04,560 Speaker 9: Dude? 324 00:17:04,880 --> 00:17:07,840 Speaker 13: Are you tripping cancel this trip? I'll get another over. 325 00:17:08,000 --> 00:17:09,560 Speaker 8: So I'm not riding with a body. 326 00:17:09,640 --> 00:17:13,040 Speaker 9: Dude. Okay, if you cancel, that's gonna cost you fifty dollars. 327 00:17:13,560 --> 00:17:16,440 Speaker 13: Fifty dollars, my man, you got like Ali had just 328 00:17:16,560 --> 00:17:17,480 Speaker 13: downloaded the market. 329 00:17:18,000 --> 00:17:18,840 Speaker 9: App here's the deal. 330 00:17:19,240 --> 00:17:21,600 Speaker 13: I know for a fact, when you cancel over just 331 00:17:22,000 --> 00:17:24,920 Speaker 13: fight hours. I'm canceling. And that's gonna be fight Houurs' 332 00:17:24,960 --> 00:17:25,880 Speaker 13: gonna be no fifty dollars. 333 00:17:26,080 --> 00:17:29,159 Speaker 9: It's gonna be fifty dollars, sir. It's different when you 334 00:17:29,320 --> 00:17:30,520 Speaker 9: have Well, my man, you can. 335 00:17:30,400 --> 00:17:31,400 Speaker 14: Pay me a thousand dollars. 336 00:17:31,440 --> 00:17:33,720 Speaker 13: I'm not riding with a body, you feel me? 337 00:17:33,920 --> 00:17:36,600 Speaker 9: No, I understand you, understand you now. But do you 338 00:17:36,640 --> 00:17:37,960 Speaker 9: want to get to the airport or nine? 339 00:17:38,280 --> 00:17:40,240 Speaker 13: Look, why don't you lay down next to the body 340 00:17:40,359 --> 00:17:42,560 Speaker 13: and you drive yourself there and there with the body 341 00:17:42,760 --> 00:17:44,440 Speaker 13: like in the pass of the sea. I'm not doing that. 342 00:17:45,040 --> 00:17:46,080 Speaker 9: Tell me what the problem is. 343 00:17:46,320 --> 00:17:49,480 Speaker 13: I mean, obviously you used to driving around with bodies, 344 00:17:49,520 --> 00:17:50,800 Speaker 13: and that's not my thing. 345 00:17:50,880 --> 00:17:52,879 Speaker 9: You know what I'm saying. What's the problem. I mean, 346 00:17:52,880 --> 00:17:54,480 Speaker 9: you're gonna be in the front of the hers. You're 347 00:17:54,520 --> 00:17:56,439 Speaker 9: not gonna be in the back. We'll put the bodies 348 00:17:56,480 --> 00:17:58,320 Speaker 9: in the back with your luggage in the back. I mean, 349 00:17:58,400 --> 00:18:00,720 Speaker 9: that'll be fine. Right, you're my man. You're tripping, man, 350 00:18:01,000 --> 00:18:01,680 Speaker 9: this is crazy. 351 00:18:02,440 --> 00:18:04,800 Speaker 13: You're calling the wrong with this crazy book. 352 00:18:05,080 --> 00:18:06,600 Speaker 9: Dude. I'm not doing none of that. 353 00:18:07,040 --> 00:18:08,760 Speaker 13: What part of that don't you understand? 354 00:18:09,119 --> 00:18:11,680 Speaker 9: I'm going to get you there on time, sir, but 355 00:18:11,880 --> 00:18:14,240 Speaker 9: it's going to be in a hearse that's all the 356 00:18:14,280 --> 00:18:15,879 Speaker 9: difference is, man, So you'll be. 357 00:18:15,960 --> 00:18:18,480 Speaker 13: Riding the hurst when I'm supposed to be laid out 358 00:18:18,480 --> 00:18:19,200 Speaker 13: in it. You know what I'm saying. 359 00:18:19,680 --> 00:18:20,080 Speaker 14: Right now? 360 00:18:20,520 --> 00:18:21,639 Speaker 9: You got me fixed up? 361 00:18:21,880 --> 00:18:23,480 Speaker 13: What kind of phone call is this? 362 00:18:23,680 --> 00:18:23,720 Speaker 5: We? 363 00:18:23,760 --> 00:18:25,359 Speaker 9: I mean, what's the problem. 364 00:18:25,560 --> 00:18:28,359 Speaker 13: Obviously you're used to rolling with dead bodies and hearses 365 00:18:28,400 --> 00:18:33,000 Speaker 13: and all that. Since winning over, start rolling with hearses 366 00:18:33,240 --> 00:18:36,600 Speaker 13: to pick up regular lives to get them from place 367 00:18:36,640 --> 00:18:37,040 Speaker 13: to place. 368 00:18:37,480 --> 00:18:40,000 Speaker 14: This is some crazy I want you to think. 369 00:18:40,720 --> 00:18:43,639 Speaker 13: When when did you think that it would just be 370 00:18:43,760 --> 00:18:46,399 Speaker 13: cool as a regular picking up a body and just 371 00:18:46,520 --> 00:18:47,639 Speaker 13: driving around in the street. 372 00:18:48,400 --> 00:18:50,159 Speaker 9: I don't know, man, I mean, you know, I got 373 00:18:50,200 --> 00:18:52,400 Speaker 9: two jobs, you know what I'm saying. I do uber, 374 00:18:52,720 --> 00:18:55,520 Speaker 9: you know, and I also, you know, work for a mortuary. 375 00:18:55,760 --> 00:18:57,359 Speaker 9: You know what I'm saying. So you know, but my 376 00:18:57,520 --> 00:19:02,160 Speaker 9: vehicle IS is certified and who approved it so I'm 377 00:19:02,160 --> 00:19:03,600 Speaker 9: able to use it as an su vida. 378 00:19:04,040 --> 00:19:06,600 Speaker 14: So you you call them is and you gave it 379 00:19:06,800 --> 00:19:09,960 Speaker 14: rides a lot more and they don't have no reaction, 380 00:19:10,920 --> 00:19:14,960 Speaker 14: no reaction to riding around with a body in the back. 381 00:19:15,480 --> 00:19:18,280 Speaker 9: Well, you know, uh, sometimes there's a few people acting 382 00:19:18,320 --> 00:19:20,320 Speaker 9: a little you know little it's a little different for him. 383 00:19:20,359 --> 00:19:22,800 Speaker 9: I get it, you know, But like I said, the 384 00:19:22,840 --> 00:19:24,080 Speaker 9: only reason why I'm calling you. 385 00:19:24,320 --> 00:19:26,879 Speaker 13: Obviously you don't get that because you're trying to hit 386 00:19:26,960 --> 00:19:30,040 Speaker 13: me with a fifty dollars month in charge that I'm 387 00:19:30,080 --> 00:19:32,679 Speaker 13: not I'm not going for and you trying to get 388 00:19:32,720 --> 00:19:35,480 Speaker 13: me to ride with the dead body. Dude, I'm not 389 00:19:35,600 --> 00:19:35,879 Speaker 13: doing that. 390 00:19:35,960 --> 00:19:37,919 Speaker 9: Sh So, I tell you what, bro, I'm gonna tell 391 00:19:37,960 --> 00:19:39,200 Speaker 9: you this right here. I'm gonna get off the phone. 392 00:19:39,880 --> 00:19:42,359 Speaker 9: Tomorrow is seven in the morning. Me and Tommy gonna 393 00:19:42,359 --> 00:19:43,800 Speaker 9: be there, So be looking forward here. 394 00:19:44,400 --> 00:19:46,119 Speaker 13: Who's timing the body? 395 00:19:46,440 --> 00:19:46,480 Speaker 3: No? 396 00:19:46,880 --> 00:19:49,800 Speaker 9: No, Me and Tommy gonna be there tomorrow morning at 397 00:19:49,840 --> 00:19:51,879 Speaker 9: seven am. You understand. Just be ready for that. 398 00:19:52,000 --> 00:19:54,360 Speaker 8: Then you're Timy gonna have a problem. 399 00:19:54,520 --> 00:19:57,480 Speaker 9: Okay, okay, all tell let the Tommy don't because see 400 00:19:57,520 --> 00:19:59,959 Speaker 9: Tommy don't. Tommy don't take this too kindly, So tell 401 00:20:00,119 --> 00:20:04,280 Speaker 9: it to him in the morning. Who's Tommy? Now? Okay, 402 00:20:04,520 --> 00:20:04,919 Speaker 9: you don't know. 403 00:20:04,920 --> 00:20:05,600 Speaker 14: Who Tommy is? 404 00:20:06,080 --> 00:20:06,600 Speaker 9: No, I don't. 405 00:20:06,680 --> 00:20:07,879 Speaker 8: What is Tommy? 406 00:20:08,000 --> 00:20:08,240 Speaker 13: Okay? 407 00:20:08,359 --> 00:20:11,080 Speaker 9: Do you know Tommy from the Steve Harvey Morning Show? 408 00:20:11,200 --> 00:20:12,560 Speaker 9: Do you know nephew Tommy? 409 00:20:14,240 --> 00:20:14,400 Speaker 13: Oh? 410 00:20:14,560 --> 00:20:21,560 Speaker 14: Come on, man, hey, oh man. 411 00:20:23,040 --> 00:20:23,840 Speaker 13: Oh man. That's a. 412 00:20:28,800 --> 00:20:30,600 Speaker 8: Hey hey man, come in and hurt. 413 00:20:31,200 --> 00:20:33,920 Speaker 9: No, man, your boy. You got a boy named Chase 414 00:20:34,000 --> 00:20:36,040 Speaker 9: that you work with. Chase gave me your number, told 415 00:20:36,080 --> 00:20:36,880 Speaker 9: me to get your call. 416 00:20:37,440 --> 00:20:41,520 Speaker 8: Oh man, yo, I'm gonna put that in the hearst. 417 00:20:41,640 --> 00:20:50,560 Speaker 9: Man. Oh hey man, you gotta give me one more thing. Man, 418 00:20:50,640 --> 00:20:53,359 Speaker 9: what is the baddest I'm talking about the baddest radio 419 00:20:53,560 --> 00:20:54,199 Speaker 9: show in the. 420 00:20:54,320 --> 00:20:57,160 Speaker 8: Land, The Steve Harvey Morning Show. 421 00:20:57,920 --> 00:20:59,439 Speaker 9: Hey man, I pick you up a seping a right, 422 00:20:59,560 --> 00:21:01,200 Speaker 9: be there, all right? 423 00:21:03,119 --> 00:21:06,000 Speaker 5: And that is the kind of stupidity that's gonna be 424 00:21:06,080 --> 00:21:08,840 Speaker 5: in Jacksonville this weekend, you understand me, at the Florida Theater. 425 00:21:09,160 --> 00:21:11,760 Speaker 6: Yah City. It's stupid is on the way. 426 00:21:11,960 --> 00:21:13,440 Speaker 8: It is how it is. 427 00:21:15,119 --> 00:21:17,399 Speaker 6: They really need sea bills and need seas this weekend. 428 00:21:17,520 --> 00:21:20,920 Speaker 1: That's what they need me. Seat Bill Scarin. People gonna 429 00:21:20,960 --> 00:21:25,800 Speaker 1: fall and hurt, they say, this weekend. Duval, nephew, duvall. 430 00:21:25,960 --> 00:21:29,240 Speaker 1: Thank you Steve and Jacksonville coming. 431 00:21:29,119 --> 00:21:31,640 Speaker 12: Up next, it is ask the COLO or Chief Love 432 00:21:31,680 --> 00:21:35,280 Speaker 12: Officer Steve Harvey in the building. Right after this, you're 433 00:21:35,359 --> 00:21:39,640 Speaker 12: listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 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We'll 448 00:22:27,960 --> 00:22:29,960 Speaker 12: talk about all of these stories at the top of 449 00:22:30,000 --> 00:22:32,879 Speaker 12: the hour, but right now it is time to ask 450 00:22:33,240 --> 00:22:36,040 Speaker 12: the CLO our chief Love Officer, Steve Harvey. 451 00:22:36,320 --> 00:22:36,720 Speaker 1: Here we go. 452 00:22:36,920 --> 00:22:40,400 Speaker 12: This is from Tyrrell and Birmingham. Tyrell writes, my wife 453 00:22:40,480 --> 00:22:42,280 Speaker 12: and I ran into a girl I had sex with 454 00:22:42,440 --> 00:22:45,840 Speaker 12: recently and she did not know I'm married. She called 455 00:22:45,920 --> 00:22:49,240 Speaker 12: me crying uncontrollably. Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, she. 456 00:22:49,240 --> 00:22:49,680 Speaker 1: Didn't know it. 457 00:22:50,080 --> 00:22:54,040 Speaker 12: Yeah, she called me crying uncontrollably. I don't like hurting 458 00:22:54,119 --> 00:22:59,639 Speaker 12: women like that, but I do love an occasional hookup. Okay, 459 00:23:00,200 --> 00:23:02,320 Speaker 12: is it best to tell the women that I'm married? 460 00:23:06,359 --> 00:23:10,800 Speaker 1: Listen to me. I want you all to see the 461 00:23:10,880 --> 00:23:11,840 Speaker 1: world that we live in. 462 00:23:13,000 --> 00:23:13,200 Speaker 9: Do you? 463 00:23:13,640 --> 00:23:18,119 Speaker 7: He repeatedly the same thing. I'm here these letters and 464 00:23:18,320 --> 00:23:23,480 Speaker 7: texts that we get, calls that are more and more bizarre, 465 00:23:24,480 --> 00:23:30,240 Speaker 7: but they are sounding more and more normalized. It's like, hey, man, 466 00:23:30,520 --> 00:23:32,359 Speaker 7: I had such to this girl and I ran up 467 00:23:32,400 --> 00:23:36,000 Speaker 7: into it and yes with my wife, and then she 468 00:23:36,200 --> 00:23:39,520 Speaker 7: called me crying uncontrollably. I don't like to hurt women 469 00:23:41,040 --> 00:23:46,920 Speaker 7: right there? Y, yeah, I don't like to hurt women soul, 470 00:23:47,640 --> 00:23:51,800 Speaker 7: But you know, how do I like? Should I start? 471 00:23:52,119 --> 00:23:55,600 Speaker 7: But while like an occasional hook up though, telling these 472 00:23:55,680 --> 00:23:56,520 Speaker 7: women I'm married? 473 00:23:57,920 --> 00:23:57,960 Speaker 9: What? 474 00:24:00,320 --> 00:24:03,200 Speaker 1: No, brot. 475 00:24:03,560 --> 00:24:08,520 Speaker 7: It's not like I haven't heard of cheating before, nothing new. 476 00:24:08,720 --> 00:24:12,200 Speaker 7: Think that I'm trying to be hind mighty, I'm not 477 00:24:13,760 --> 00:24:18,400 Speaker 7: you now, listen, I'm gonna say something very rare, very rare. 478 00:24:18,880 --> 00:24:19,600 Speaker 7: So recording. 479 00:24:20,520 --> 00:24:21,280 Speaker 1: What're you about to say? 480 00:24:22,320 --> 00:24:29,159 Speaker 6: You have to start telling these women you are married? 481 00:24:30,880 --> 00:24:34,119 Speaker 1: Yeah? Give him the option, Please give him the option. 482 00:24:34,560 --> 00:24:38,200 Speaker 6: I love it yet, and it is the same truth 483 00:24:38,480 --> 00:24:40,040 Speaker 6: that you are telling your wife. 484 00:24:41,520 --> 00:24:41,879 Speaker 5: What is he? 485 00:24:42,000 --> 00:24:42,720 Speaker 1: What's that truth? 486 00:24:44,200 --> 00:24:45,600 Speaker 6: If I am married? 487 00:24:47,760 --> 00:24:52,640 Speaker 1: I am married. That's the truth, that's the truth. Yeah, 488 00:24:53,280 --> 00:24:56,359 Speaker 1: the option? Yeah yeah, all right. 489 00:24:56,880 --> 00:24:58,680 Speaker 6: No, this is not giving them the option. 490 00:25:00,000 --> 00:25:00,240 Speaker 9: This is. 491 00:25:02,880 --> 00:25:07,960 Speaker 7: The one of the rare moments that I recommend your truth. 492 00:25:10,200 --> 00:25:12,639 Speaker 7: But I also would like to tell you this right here, 493 00:25:13,880 --> 00:25:21,440 Speaker 7: that your end is very near. All right. I don't 494 00:25:21,440 --> 00:25:23,760 Speaker 7: know what circle you rolling in, but you running up 495 00:25:23,800 --> 00:25:28,560 Speaker 7: into him with your wife. Boy, boy, the end is 496 00:25:28,680 --> 00:25:29,280 Speaker 7: coming near. 497 00:25:31,080 --> 00:25:34,720 Speaker 12: No judgment though, no judgment, all right. Moving on to 498 00:25:34,960 --> 00:25:38,240 Speaker 12: essence and Queens essence rights. I have a ring camera 499 00:25:38,359 --> 00:25:40,760 Speaker 12: with all of the videos of a woman coming to 500 00:25:40,840 --> 00:25:44,119 Speaker 12: see my neighbor while his wife is at work. His 501 00:25:44,240 --> 00:25:46,480 Speaker 12: wife told me that she thinks he's cheating, and she 502 00:25:46,880 --> 00:25:50,960 Speaker 12: asked if I'd seen anything. Am I obligated to tell 503 00:25:51,040 --> 00:25:52,680 Speaker 12: this woman what I've seen? 504 00:25:53,240 --> 00:25:53,480 Speaker 11: Wow? 505 00:25:53,720 --> 00:25:55,600 Speaker 6: Now is this a man that wrote this letter? 506 00:25:55,760 --> 00:25:59,119 Speaker 1: No, this is essence out of Queens, straight out of Okay. 507 00:26:00,080 --> 00:26:03,960 Speaker 6: She's got a phone, a ring camera on the thing 508 00:26:04,240 --> 00:26:04,800 Speaker 6: on her door. 509 00:26:05,680 --> 00:26:09,119 Speaker 1: The man is coming to see her. No, no, no, 510 00:26:09,240 --> 00:26:10,879 Speaker 1: he's coming to know the woman. 511 00:26:11,320 --> 00:26:14,679 Speaker 12: A woman is coming to see her next door neighbor, 512 00:26:14,760 --> 00:26:19,960 Speaker 12: which is a man right, a marriage right. 513 00:26:20,200 --> 00:26:23,400 Speaker 1: So how does this woman have the footage? 514 00:26:25,440 --> 00:26:27,840 Speaker 7: Because she's got a ring camera, you can see all 515 00:26:28,840 --> 00:26:31,480 Speaker 7: she can see across the street or something like that. 516 00:26:31,800 --> 00:26:39,320 Speaker 1: Across a security gate. He doesn't have a ring camera, guy, don't. 517 00:26:39,520 --> 00:26:41,560 Speaker 7: Matter of fact, I don't even have a dope. Bill 518 00:26:43,200 --> 00:26:46,280 Speaker 7: you got people? You have a security guard. 519 00:26:47,160 --> 00:26:50,679 Speaker 1: This is no way, It is no way. You at 520 00:26:50,760 --> 00:26:57,480 Speaker 1: the door. Do you know how much security we have 521 00:26:57,640 --> 00:27:00,480 Speaker 1: to go through to get to your house? That ain't 522 00:27:00,480 --> 00:27:02,000 Speaker 1: nobody say I dropped by. 523 00:27:02,320 --> 00:27:06,119 Speaker 9: I'll do. 524 00:27:06,720 --> 00:27:08,440 Speaker 1: I'm at the dope. Yeah. 525 00:27:08,840 --> 00:27:11,520 Speaker 12: So to put it in perspective, Steve her Ring camera 526 00:27:11,720 --> 00:27:15,359 Speaker 12: shows everything around you know, that's coming toward her. 527 00:27:15,320 --> 00:27:16,119 Speaker 1: So she can see all. 528 00:27:16,240 --> 00:27:17,879 Speaker 6: Well, did the lady asked her? 529 00:27:19,040 --> 00:27:22,080 Speaker 1: The lady did? The lady said she thinks her husband 530 00:27:22,160 --> 00:27:25,000 Speaker 1: is cheating, and she asked her point blank, has she 531 00:27:25,200 --> 00:27:29,000 Speaker 1: seen anything? So that's why the woman is asking you, Celo. 532 00:27:29,480 --> 00:27:31,159 Speaker 1: Is she obligated to tell her? 533 00:27:31,359 --> 00:27:36,320 Speaker 6: I think you should tell her the truth. I haven't. No, listen, 534 00:27:36,440 --> 00:27:39,760 Speaker 6: listen to me, I haven't seen anything. 535 00:27:40,480 --> 00:27:44,359 Speaker 1: Oh oh oh that's true. That's your truth. 536 00:27:44,520 --> 00:27:46,760 Speaker 6: She didn't ask you what your camera saw. 537 00:27:47,320 --> 00:27:52,800 Speaker 1: Oh, but leaving details omitting. 538 00:27:54,720 --> 00:27:57,680 Speaker 7: Because you're going to get in some business and you're 539 00:27:57,680 --> 00:27:58,680 Speaker 7: gonna get drugg in it. 540 00:27:59,280 --> 00:27:59,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, so. 541 00:28:01,320 --> 00:28:03,480 Speaker 6: You're gonna be in court. I'm just telling you right now. 542 00:28:06,000 --> 00:28:07,240 Speaker 1: As a character witness. 543 00:28:08,000 --> 00:28:09,800 Speaker 6: All right, Yeah, we got movie. 544 00:28:09,600 --> 00:28:12,120 Speaker 1: Got two stupid husbands so far. What's yeah? 545 00:28:12,200 --> 00:28:15,159 Speaker 12: Yeah yeah, moving on to Bobby. Come on now, Bobby 546 00:28:15,200 --> 00:28:19,080 Speaker 12: and Fort Lauderdale. He says, I own a car wash, 547 00:28:19,240 --> 00:28:22,320 Speaker 12: and without knowing, I hired my sister's baby daddy to 548 00:28:22,440 --> 00:28:24,800 Speaker 12: work for me. My sisters thinks she should get his 549 00:28:24,920 --> 00:28:27,920 Speaker 12: paychecks because he owes her child support. But I can't 550 00:28:28,000 --> 00:28:31,520 Speaker 12: legally do that. She stops speaking to me. My mom said, 551 00:28:31,560 --> 00:28:34,320 Speaker 12: I need to fire him, but he's my best employee. 552 00:28:34,760 --> 00:28:35,520 Speaker 1: What should I do? 553 00:28:37,160 --> 00:28:41,880 Speaker 7: Ladies, ladies, ladies, that don't make no sense. This man 554 00:28:42,080 --> 00:28:44,880 Speaker 7: legally cannot take this man's money and send it to you. 555 00:28:45,360 --> 00:28:49,440 Speaker 7: He'll get in trouble. Yeah, if you fire him, he 556 00:28:49,640 --> 00:28:53,000 Speaker 7: won't have no money. Y'all got to stop letting this 557 00:28:53,160 --> 00:28:56,520 Speaker 7: emotion get in the wait. Why don't you now go 558 00:28:56,680 --> 00:28:59,880 Speaker 7: to child support and say I got a child to 559 00:29:00,120 --> 00:29:01,200 Speaker 7: you he's working. 560 00:29:01,680 --> 00:29:05,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, file y file, Yeah you can't. 561 00:29:05,800 --> 00:29:08,920 Speaker 12: But Bobby and Fort Lauderdale is upset because his sister 562 00:29:09,200 --> 00:29:10,600 Speaker 12: is not speaking to him. 563 00:29:11,160 --> 00:29:13,760 Speaker 6: That's because his sister got the emotion and listen to me. 564 00:29:14,560 --> 00:29:18,720 Speaker 7: You know all your sister, no child, suppose, but you 565 00:29:18,800 --> 00:29:20,880 Speaker 7: can't find your best worker, right. 566 00:29:21,720 --> 00:29:24,200 Speaker 1: Yeah. But the mom is in it too, saying he 567 00:29:24,240 --> 00:29:32,560 Speaker 1: should fire him. The baby dad is because it's too young. Yeah, emotional, 568 00:29:32,880 --> 00:29:35,360 Speaker 1: double emotion, he's too young. 569 00:29:35,800 --> 00:29:39,280 Speaker 7: Yeah, all right, now the logic kids, I got a 570 00:29:39,360 --> 00:29:40,480 Speaker 7: great employee here. 571 00:29:41,120 --> 00:29:44,160 Speaker 12: Yeah, we're making money, all right. Last one, Steve, This 572 00:29:44,280 --> 00:29:47,360 Speaker 12: is from Monique in Germantown. Monique says, my daughter is 573 00:29:47,480 --> 00:29:50,080 Speaker 12: dating one of my late husband's friends, and he treats 574 00:29:50,120 --> 00:29:52,959 Speaker 12: her well, but he's too old for her. She stopped 575 00:29:53,000 --> 00:29:55,440 Speaker 12: hanging with her friends. She goes on double dates with 576 00:29:55,520 --> 00:29:57,040 Speaker 12: her old man and ladies. 577 00:29:57,120 --> 00:30:00,719 Speaker 1: My age. Now the spunkiness being z out of her. 578 00:30:01,160 --> 00:30:03,800 Speaker 1: She's only thirty two years old. Is it out of 579 00:30:04,040 --> 00:30:04,640 Speaker 1: my hand? 580 00:30:05,720 --> 00:30:05,920 Speaker 6: Yeah? 581 00:30:05,960 --> 00:30:08,480 Speaker 7: But you can talk to her about it at Bengoe 582 00:30:08,560 --> 00:30:15,240 Speaker 7: night all catch it down at the tavern. 583 00:30:15,480 --> 00:30:18,360 Speaker 12: All right, at the tavern, all right, thank you. Colo 584 00:30:18,560 --> 00:30:20,240 Speaker 12: coming up at the top of the hour. We'll have 585 00:30:20,400 --> 00:30:26,280 Speaker 12: some entertainment news for you right after this. You're listening, Steve. 586 00:30:26,120 --> 00:30:27,040 Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. 587 00:30:31,240 --> 00:30:34,760 Speaker 12: CBS Morning's co host Gail King returned safely to Earth 588 00:30:34,840 --> 00:30:38,160 Speaker 12: on Monday after a ten minute journey to the edge 589 00:30:38,280 --> 00:30:41,400 Speaker 12: of space with an all woman crew aboard Blue Origins 590 00:30:41,480 --> 00:30:44,920 Speaker 12: New Shepherd spacecraft. Gail said, I'm so proud of me 591 00:30:45,080 --> 00:30:48,880 Speaker 12: right now. She said this shortly after landing and kissing 592 00:30:48,920 --> 00:30:52,360 Speaker 12: the ground. According to CBS News, the spacecraft reached an 593 00:30:52,480 --> 00:30:56,640 Speaker 12: altitude of close to three hundred and forty seven thousand feet, 594 00:30:56,960 --> 00:30:59,760 Speaker 12: with the mission lasting ten minutes and twenty one seconds. 595 00:31:00,160 --> 00:31:04,040 Speaker 12: Launched the landing, the crew experienced weightlessness and viewed Earth 596 00:31:04,080 --> 00:31:06,880 Speaker 12: from a unique perspective. We have all seen the memes 597 00:31:06,920 --> 00:31:09,960 Speaker 12: about Gail because she looked so afraid when she rang 598 00:31:10,040 --> 00:31:13,840 Speaker 12: the bell before boarding the spacecraft, and yes she did. 599 00:31:13,960 --> 00:31:14,640 Speaker 9: Yes she did. 600 00:31:14,880 --> 00:31:20,760 Speaker 12: However, However, Gail faced her fears and stepped out from 601 00:31:20,800 --> 00:31:24,280 Speaker 12: her comfort zone and said she would consider doing it again. 602 00:31:24,600 --> 00:31:29,360 Speaker 1: What she's going again? Maybe you just going to space? 603 00:31:29,560 --> 00:31:30,840 Speaker 6: Nasteve when you going? 604 00:31:30,960 --> 00:31:31,120 Speaker 9: Man? 605 00:31:31,360 --> 00:31:32,680 Speaker 1: Michael Strahan did it too? 606 00:31:35,760 --> 00:31:42,520 Speaker 7: Yes, both of these people single. What you say, but 607 00:31:42,800 --> 00:31:46,320 Speaker 7: I said, both them people sinkle. Gail did it, Michael 608 00:31:46,360 --> 00:31:47,200 Speaker 7: Strahand did it? 609 00:31:47,600 --> 00:31:49,800 Speaker 1: Ain't going? Then they have children? 610 00:31:52,040 --> 00:31:56,160 Speaker 7: They they single? You ain't got that person telling you 611 00:31:56,280 --> 00:31:57,440 Speaker 7: you ain't going nowhere? 612 00:31:57,640 --> 00:32:03,880 Speaker 1: Oh they got to run it by somebody. Bezos. Fiance 613 00:32:04,080 --> 00:32:08,560 Speaker 1: went up Lauren Sanchez, she's single, Yeah, but he was 614 00:32:08,720 --> 00:32:13,520 Speaker 1: right there. What what what are you gonna do? Ain't 615 00:32:13,560 --> 00:32:14,480 Speaker 1: she younger than him? 616 00:32:14,920 --> 00:32:15,120 Speaker 6: Yeah? 617 00:32:15,120 --> 00:32:18,120 Speaker 1: It's his spaceship. Uh yeah, he owns it and and 618 00:32:18,880 --> 00:32:19,360 Speaker 1: did all that. 619 00:32:20,280 --> 00:32:22,880 Speaker 6: Yeah, okay you went up. 620 00:32:22,960 --> 00:32:24,360 Speaker 1: Now you thinking about doing it again? 621 00:32:24,440 --> 00:32:26,600 Speaker 6: Okay? Why is why is we why is we still 622 00:32:26,640 --> 00:32:27,040 Speaker 6: talking about? 623 00:32:27,120 --> 00:32:27,360 Speaker 1: Okay? 624 00:32:27,440 --> 00:32:28,000 Speaker 8: Have you done? 625 00:32:28,160 --> 00:32:30,840 Speaker 1: Have you ever just stepped out of your comfort zone 626 00:32:30,880 --> 00:32:31,520 Speaker 1: to do anything? 627 00:32:31,920 --> 00:32:32,080 Speaker 5: You know? 628 00:32:32,120 --> 00:32:35,080 Speaker 1: Because that's the point here that Gil faced her feet. 629 00:32:35,160 --> 00:32:36,200 Speaker 6: Yes, okay, what have you? 630 00:32:36,320 --> 00:32:39,280 Speaker 7: Yes, sir, I did when I was young and I 631 00:32:39,360 --> 00:32:41,600 Speaker 7: used to walk past Larry Singleton's house and he had 632 00:32:41,640 --> 00:32:42,960 Speaker 7: that German shepherd ninty ten. 633 00:32:43,320 --> 00:32:44,760 Speaker 1: I went right by that house. Man. 634 00:32:45,560 --> 00:32:46,840 Speaker 6: You don't know what that was for me? 635 00:32:47,400 --> 00:32:47,719 Speaker 5: You fa? 636 00:32:49,000 --> 00:32:49,560 Speaker 9: So how did you? 637 00:32:49,920 --> 00:32:52,440 Speaker 1: Because I have missed the whole because of that dog 638 00:32:52,560 --> 00:32:55,240 Speaker 1: down the street, because you couldn't go past the house. 639 00:32:55,800 --> 00:32:58,280 Speaker 7: Yeah, I'll just go I'm just gonna go up street 640 00:32:58,280 --> 00:33:01,680 Speaker 7: and play ball to school, let out. But I wasn't 641 00:33:01,720 --> 00:33:04,480 Speaker 7: going down there. And then I went down there. 642 00:33:05,040 --> 00:33:08,480 Speaker 1: Uh, huh, and what happened you? Pat King became King 643 00:33:08,640 --> 00:33:10,680 Speaker 1: the dog King? 644 00:33:10,840 --> 00:33:12,680 Speaker 6: King did what he supposed to do. He chased me. 645 00:33:13,880 --> 00:33:17,560 Speaker 11: Oh, so, how did you get out your comfort zone? 646 00:33:17,560 --> 00:33:19,600 Speaker 11: You went by there every day an. 647 00:33:19,560 --> 00:33:21,840 Speaker 6: Trying to understand. No, I didn't. 648 00:33:22,040 --> 00:33:23,800 Speaker 1: I never got out of my comfort zone. I just 649 00:33:23,920 --> 00:33:24,640 Speaker 1: kept conking it. 650 00:33:26,360 --> 00:33:29,200 Speaker 6: Chase you. You don't. You don't ever forget that. I 651 00:33:29,360 --> 00:33:30,800 Speaker 6: just kept going down there. 652 00:33:33,360 --> 00:33:37,880 Speaker 1: Wants to go back again? Okay maybe yeah, no, But she. 653 00:33:38,080 --> 00:33:41,640 Speaker 7: Was an upside for me. I discovered my true speed. 654 00:33:42,440 --> 00:33:46,800 Speaker 7: I had never went at top speed before King pushed 655 00:33:46,920 --> 00:33:51,560 Speaker 7: me to my maximum. That's when I first learned that 656 00:33:51,760 --> 00:33:54,640 Speaker 7: trials and tribulation will bring out the best in you. 657 00:33:55,280 --> 00:33:57,200 Speaker 1: Oh and you were how old? 658 00:33:59,320 --> 00:33:59,480 Speaker 9: Oh? 659 00:34:00,040 --> 00:34:02,440 Speaker 11: And by. 660 00:34:04,480 --> 00:34:06,200 Speaker 1: Moving seeing? 661 00:34:06,240 --> 00:34:09,120 Speaker 6: How did Gail come off that ship and say anything 662 00:34:09,360 --> 00:34:09,560 Speaker 6: like that? 663 00:34:10,000 --> 00:34:14,239 Speaker 7: That was heart moving, heartfelt, and then the hood could 664 00:34:14,280 --> 00:34:16,240 Speaker 7: relate to Then she said anything. 665 00:34:16,320 --> 00:34:17,960 Speaker 6: She came out there and kissed the ground. No, I'm 666 00:34:17,960 --> 00:34:19,040 Speaker 6: not care what gay y'all do no. 667 00:34:19,120 --> 00:34:22,279 Speaker 12: More, she said, I'm so proud of me right now. 668 00:34:22,520 --> 00:34:24,440 Speaker 12: That's what she said, because she faced. 669 00:34:24,160 --> 00:34:27,360 Speaker 6: Her She not more proud of herself than I was 670 00:34:27,880 --> 00:34:32,520 Speaker 6: when I got past King kiss to me? 671 00:34:33,360 --> 00:34:38,279 Speaker 7: Why the only problem we don't have with this great 672 00:34:38,360 --> 00:34:40,600 Speaker 7: moment I had. It wasn't no social media. 673 00:34:40,960 --> 00:34:46,040 Speaker 6: If y'all had a scene running past King fleeing God, 674 00:34:46,280 --> 00:34:49,320 Speaker 6: that boy, you was moving. 675 00:34:51,719 --> 00:34:54,319 Speaker 7: You you hear the other part of it, y'all ain't 676 00:34:54,360 --> 00:35:01,720 Speaker 7: see what I was running top speed to King while 677 00:35:01,840 --> 00:35:02,720 Speaker 7: I was studying. 678 00:35:03,440 --> 00:35:06,120 Speaker 1: You don't know what that wok accomplishments. 679 00:35:07,320 --> 00:35:10,160 Speaker 12: You faced your fears, You came out of your comfort zone. 680 00:35:10,640 --> 00:35:14,719 Speaker 12: Still the moral of this story, that's it doesn't change. 681 00:35:15,040 --> 00:35:16,040 Speaker 6: What else gaylall do? 682 00:35:17,760 --> 00:35:19,600 Speaker 1: It's the ground. Did you ever kiss the ground? 683 00:35:19,760 --> 00:35:19,800 Speaker 5: No? 684 00:35:20,560 --> 00:35:21,359 Speaker 1: We don't hate dirt. 685 00:35:28,360 --> 00:35:33,799 Speaker 6: Fail my face in the dirt? All right? 686 00:35:33,920 --> 00:35:34,279 Speaker 4: Moving on? 687 00:35:34,520 --> 00:35:34,880 Speaker 7: Moving on? 688 00:35:35,640 --> 00:35:40,239 Speaker 12: Uh, speaking of amazing women. Okay, we talked about Gail King. 689 00:35:40,320 --> 00:35:43,200 Speaker 12: Our home station in Philly, one o five point three 690 00:35:43,400 --> 00:35:47,800 Speaker 12: w DAS recently held their ninth annual Women of Excellence luncheon. 691 00:35:48,320 --> 00:35:51,360 Speaker 12: Leila Hathaway, this great singer that she is, and Sherry 692 00:35:51,440 --> 00:35:55,680 Speaker 12: Shepherd were among Theanna reeves and received their flowers. Shout 693 00:35:55,719 --> 00:35:58,239 Speaker 12: out to R and B singer Sunshine Anderson. She killed 694 00:35:58,280 --> 00:36:01,800 Speaker 12: it on stage and congrats relations to all the Philly areas. 695 00:36:01,880 --> 00:36:04,040 Speaker 1: She rose and the staff of one oh five point 696 00:36:04,080 --> 00:36:09,320 Speaker 1: three w d a s we love you ladies. Yeah, k, 697 00:36:09,920 --> 00:36:11,640 Speaker 1: good morning break you guys fail. 698 00:36:13,400 --> 00:36:17,440 Speaker 12: And finally, in entertainment news, uh raj A and his 699 00:36:17,680 --> 00:36:20,600 Speaker 12: estranged wife princes Love. We haven't talked about them in 700 00:36:20,640 --> 00:36:25,600 Speaker 12: a moment. Well, everybody, you're talking we talk about Neo 701 00:36:25,680 --> 00:36:28,840 Speaker 12: too much. Yeah, you're right, You're right, Tommy. Well, anyway, 702 00:36:28,880 --> 00:36:31,880 Speaker 12: everybody's been talking about the fact that they shared this intimate, 703 00:36:32,040 --> 00:36:35,480 Speaker 12: I mean really intimate kiss during the Millennium tour stop 704 00:36:35,640 --> 00:36:36,320 Speaker 12: in Miami. 705 00:36:36,800 --> 00:36:39,680 Speaker 1: Fans were thinking the couple might get back together. 706 00:36:40,120 --> 00:36:43,319 Speaker 12: However, your boy ray J Steve said, the Prince's love 707 00:36:43,920 --> 00:36:47,239 Speaker 12: is his everything and he is nothing to her, so 708 00:36:48,400 --> 00:36:51,480 Speaker 12: he loves her right now, but but he doesn't like her. 709 00:36:52,000 --> 00:36:54,960 Speaker 12: He doesn't like her. So that's where they are, okay, 710 00:36:55,560 --> 00:36:57,800 Speaker 12: and all they're still getting that divorce. 711 00:36:57,880 --> 00:37:03,040 Speaker 6: I stop kissing me, right, I think? 712 00:37:03,200 --> 00:37:03,520 Speaker 8: All right? 713 00:37:03,880 --> 00:37:07,440 Speaker 12: Here with me on Neil coming up in twenty minutes 714 00:37:07,480 --> 00:37:10,200 Speaker 12: after the hour tomorrow is Good Friday. 715 00:37:10,560 --> 00:37:13,200 Speaker 1: We'll talk about what we need to have a perfect 716 00:37:13,280 --> 00:37:16,799 Speaker 1: fish fry. Right after this. You're listening to this Dave 717 00:37:16,960 --> 00:37:17,919 Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. 718 00:37:22,560 --> 00:37:25,520 Speaker 12: There's a recent ZIP recruiter survey that says seventy six 719 00:37:25,600 --> 00:37:29,120 Speaker 12: percent of all employers plan to hire for twenty twenty 720 00:37:29,200 --> 00:37:32,560 Speaker 12: five this year, and if you're hiring at zip Recruiter's 721 00:37:32,640 --> 00:37:35,319 Speaker 12: latest feature, zip Intro to your plan. 722 00:37:35,800 --> 00:37:36,400 Speaker 1: It's easy. 723 00:37:36,800 --> 00:37:39,440 Speaker 12: You just pick a time and zip intro finds and 724 00:37:39,560 --> 00:37:43,799 Speaker 12: schedules qualified candidates for you. Try it for free at 725 00:37:43,880 --> 00:37:48,799 Speaker 12: ZipRecruiter dot com. Slash strawberry at ZipRecruiter dot com slash strawberry. 726 00:37:50,040 --> 00:37:52,400 Speaker 12: We all know that tomorrow is Good Friday. Most of 727 00:37:52,480 --> 00:37:56,399 Speaker 12: us are eating fried fish on Good Friday. So here's 728 00:37:56,400 --> 00:37:59,040 Speaker 12: a question for you, guys. What kind of fish makes 729 00:37:59,080 --> 00:38:01,319 Speaker 12: for a perfect fish fry? What else do you want 730 00:38:01,640 --> 00:38:02,720 Speaker 12: as your side items? 731 00:38:02,800 --> 00:38:07,240 Speaker 1: All of that? Tommy what, I'm still catfi. 732 00:38:07,560 --> 00:38:10,880 Speaker 6: I still a little cat Yeah yeah, best best in 733 00:38:11,000 --> 00:38:11,359 Speaker 6: the world. 734 00:38:13,600 --> 00:38:15,360 Speaker 5: I eat some red snapper here and there, but I 735 00:38:15,560 --> 00:38:19,879 Speaker 5: love some cat fish and got to be good part 736 00:38:20,800 --> 00:38:23,760 Speaker 5: gotta okay a fish. 737 00:38:24,960 --> 00:38:30,319 Speaker 7: Oh yes it is now. Oh yes. If you can 738 00:38:30,360 --> 00:38:40,759 Speaker 7: get some some crap, some crapping that yeah, y'all buy 739 00:38:40,880 --> 00:38:43,759 Speaker 7: no crapping. You got to catch the crap. You gotta 740 00:38:43,760 --> 00:38:44,960 Speaker 7: come down to the lake with me. 741 00:38:45,800 --> 00:38:49,200 Speaker 1: I come down for everyone else listening. 742 00:38:51,880 --> 00:38:57,279 Speaker 7: My uncle hands In case you already know, one of 743 00:38:57,360 --> 00:38:59,080 Speaker 7: them is a croppy catfish lake. 744 00:39:06,640 --> 00:39:11,879 Speaker 1: Temmy said no, I said, potato salutad. Potato salad. Yes, 745 00:39:12,200 --> 00:39:13,920 Speaker 1: I'm thinking cold slat for myself. 746 00:39:15,040 --> 00:39:20,360 Speaker 7: Okay, I go to Way's with mine baked beans, cold slaw, 747 00:39:21,239 --> 00:39:24,560 Speaker 7: all all spaghetti, spaghetti. 748 00:39:24,760 --> 00:39:27,680 Speaker 1: I was waiting for somebody to I've learned that in 749 00:39:27,800 --> 00:39:30,279 Speaker 1: Chicago they do that. Yes, spaghetti and coast la. 750 00:39:31,440 --> 00:39:35,279 Speaker 6: Growing up, see, y'all, y'all was west of the Mississippi time. 751 00:39:36,040 --> 00:39:38,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, the Texas. Yeah, y'all don't really know. Y'all don't 752 00:39:38,600 --> 00:39:40,440 Speaker 1: really know what y'all doing over there. When it comes down, 753 00:39:42,840 --> 00:39:47,359 Speaker 1: you're just saying crazy stuff. It's pretty much bad. 754 00:39:47,800 --> 00:39:52,520 Speaker 7: Well, but you you gotta understand something. The authenticity of 755 00:39:52,880 --> 00:39:55,919 Speaker 7: our culture is east of the Mississippi. 756 00:39:56,640 --> 00:40:01,200 Speaker 1: Mm hmm, Okay, explain that. Explain tell me break that up. 757 00:40:01,320 --> 00:40:06,359 Speaker 1: I mean, I mean June teenth, Look look at that. Yeah. Yeah, 758 00:40:07,200 --> 00:40:08,560 Speaker 1: we ain't free, y'all are. 759 00:40:08,600 --> 00:40:10,920 Speaker 6: Two years later we left y'all out. That's all right, 760 00:40:10,960 --> 00:40:12,000 Speaker 6: you're gonna celebrate it. 761 00:40:14,040 --> 00:40:14,200 Speaker 8: Day. 762 00:40:15,680 --> 00:40:19,440 Speaker 6: Get this. I'm gonna eat catfish on that day. 763 00:40:23,160 --> 00:40:25,440 Speaker 7: Now, I will tell you this, The best catfish I 764 00:40:25,480 --> 00:40:30,359 Speaker 7: ever had in my life was in Mississippi. Yes, cock 765 00:40:30,400 --> 00:40:35,480 Speaker 7: could a walk, I could have walked catfish steaks. Uh oh, 766 00:40:38,760 --> 00:40:42,200 Speaker 7: she say they racing, She say they're racist. I ain't 767 00:40:42,239 --> 00:40:45,960 Speaker 7: know nothing about that. Everybody I saw treated me real good. Now, 768 00:40:46,200 --> 00:40:48,200 Speaker 7: if they was racist in the kitchen and all like that, 769 00:40:48,280 --> 00:40:52,520 Speaker 7: they probably was. You have a president that ain't doing 770 00:40:52,600 --> 00:40:54,480 Speaker 7: that well. I'm god, just want to remind you. 771 00:40:56,120 --> 00:40:57,279 Speaker 1: All right, seven things. 772 00:40:58,400 --> 00:41:01,400 Speaker 7: If y'all gonna stop associating with racist we gonna head 773 00:41:01,400 --> 00:41:02,120 Speaker 7: to get about here. 774 00:41:02,600 --> 00:41:05,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, go all the way back to Africa. 775 00:41:06,200 --> 00:41:09,160 Speaker 12: All right, coming up in thirty four minutes after the hour, Steve, 776 00:41:09,200 --> 00:41:13,080 Speaker 12: We're gonna check your voicemail at eight seven seven twenty nine. 777 00:41:13,120 --> 00:41:16,920 Speaker 1: Stick you right after this. You're gonna hello, you're listening 778 00:41:17,640 --> 00:41:19,040 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show. 779 00:41:23,120 --> 00:41:25,279 Speaker 12: It is time now to check your voicemail Steve at 780 00:41:25,280 --> 00:41:28,000 Speaker 12: eight seven seven twenty nine. Steve, you can call and 781 00:41:28,080 --> 00:41:29,960 Speaker 12: leave a message. You just might hear you call on 782 00:41:30,160 --> 00:41:32,600 Speaker 12: the air. Are you ready, mister Harvey, sir? 783 00:41:33,000 --> 00:41:34,640 Speaker 1: Yes, I am all right. Let's go. 784 00:41:35,200 --> 00:41:35,799 Speaker 6: All right, Steve. 785 00:41:35,920 --> 00:41:38,680 Speaker 12: This caller left a message about your viral TikTok line 786 00:41:38,800 --> 00:41:40,200 Speaker 12: day and we love. 787 00:41:42,000 --> 00:41:42,280 Speaker 1: Listen. 788 00:41:42,400 --> 00:41:47,240 Speaker 15: I love Shirley, Paul, Mississippi, Monica, Junior, Tommy. 789 00:41:47,880 --> 00:41:50,040 Speaker 1: Let me tell you somebody gonna hit you, get in 790 00:41:50,120 --> 00:41:52,279 Speaker 1: your head one day if Steve ain't gonna be. 791 00:41:52,280 --> 00:41:52,800 Speaker 8: In help you. 792 00:41:53,320 --> 00:41:55,680 Speaker 1: But the only thing I got to say, Steve, you know, 793 00:41:55,840 --> 00:41:58,480 Speaker 1: here's what's trended with him fans that. 794 00:42:00,200 --> 00:42:02,440 Speaker 13: Fans that, oh. 795 00:42:05,000 --> 00:42:06,200 Speaker 8: Okay, but this is Steve. 796 00:42:06,239 --> 00:42:08,319 Speaker 13: You had on a light blue suit and the way 797 00:42:08,360 --> 00:42:11,360 Speaker 13: you were dancing it was cool, insided with everything. 798 00:42:12,080 --> 00:42:13,240 Speaker 1: Listen, I love y'all. 799 00:42:13,120 --> 00:42:17,280 Speaker 6: Man with them fans that with them, my horny show. 800 00:42:17,239 --> 00:42:23,280 Speaker 1: At whoa, oh god, my Boots on the ground. 801 00:42:24,000 --> 00:42:29,400 Speaker 7: Bye bye, Thank you for the call of your age 802 00:42:29,680 --> 00:42:35,759 Speaker 7: was coming through on that entire call. Hey, what is 803 00:42:35,840 --> 00:42:36,280 Speaker 7: the video? 804 00:42:36,440 --> 00:42:38,840 Speaker 6: Though you haven't seen it, Steve. 805 00:42:38,719 --> 00:42:41,040 Speaker 1: We told you about it. You're in a blue suit, 806 00:42:41,120 --> 00:42:41,960 Speaker 1: you're on stage. 807 00:42:42,640 --> 00:42:45,200 Speaker 6: That's Kings. 808 00:42:46,640 --> 00:42:52,400 Speaker 1: But let me Boots on the Ground. Abody put it together. 809 00:42:53,200 --> 00:42:54,360 Speaker 1: They call it a mash up. 810 00:42:54,480 --> 00:42:55,200 Speaker 6: They mashed the. 811 00:42:55,800 --> 00:42:58,319 Speaker 11: Current song Boots on the Ground with what you did 812 00:42:58,480 --> 00:43:01,440 Speaker 11: back in the Kings, and you were on beat the 813 00:43:01,520 --> 00:43:06,080 Speaker 11: way you would say, and you was talking about Yeah, 814 00:43:06,800 --> 00:43:10,880 Speaker 11: Steve harm on the GRAMD on Instagram, all the backup 815 00:43:11,480 --> 00:43:12,399 Speaker 11: one microphone. 816 00:43:13,440 --> 00:43:18,120 Speaker 1: Yes, yes he comes back. That's the joke, right, Yeah, 817 00:43:18,120 --> 00:43:18,520 Speaker 1: you got. 818 00:43:18,880 --> 00:43:21,560 Speaker 7: Send it to me so I can see because I didn't. 819 00:43:21,600 --> 00:43:26,920 Speaker 7: I didn't need no music or nothing. Oh okay, it 820 00:43:27,000 --> 00:43:29,600 Speaker 7: looks like bots on the ground. 821 00:43:29,840 --> 00:43:31,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, it looks like all right. 822 00:43:32,360 --> 00:43:36,000 Speaker 12: Moving on to well, Steve, this caller disagrees with your 823 00:43:36,040 --> 00:43:37,200 Speaker 12: statement about haters. 824 00:43:38,440 --> 00:43:39,520 Speaker 6: Good morning cruise, Steve. 825 00:43:39,640 --> 00:43:40,000 Speaker 1: What's up? 826 00:43:40,200 --> 00:43:40,359 Speaker 11: Man? 827 00:43:41,080 --> 00:43:42,280 Speaker 10: Usually make this statement? 828 00:43:42,840 --> 00:43:44,320 Speaker 13: You made it quite a few times. 829 00:43:44,440 --> 00:43:46,360 Speaker 8: You say, have you ever had a hater that was 830 00:43:46,440 --> 00:43:47,120 Speaker 8: doing better than you? 831 00:43:47,239 --> 00:43:48,680 Speaker 10: Haters are never doing better than you? 832 00:43:49,000 --> 00:43:50,520 Speaker 8: Yeah, they are, some of them are. 833 00:43:51,080 --> 00:43:53,640 Speaker 10: And right now we got one inside the White House. Uh, 834 00:43:54,080 --> 00:43:56,640 Speaker 10: he's one of the biggest haters. We got another one, 835 00:43:56,800 --> 00:43:58,839 Speaker 10: Uh that is always. 836 00:43:58,520 --> 00:43:59,799 Speaker 8: Beside the White House with him. 837 00:44:00,000 --> 00:44:00,840 Speaker 13: Want to miss any. 838 00:44:00,760 --> 00:44:05,080 Speaker 10: Names here, but uh, either a billionaire hater, very wealthy, 839 00:44:05,160 --> 00:44:09,480 Speaker 10: wealthy haterre So yeah, that thinks that kind of speaks 840 00:44:09,520 --> 00:44:11,040 Speaker 10: the purpose. I don't know whether you want to keep 841 00:44:11,120 --> 00:44:13,840 Speaker 10: on using it or no. I don't know whether this 842 00:44:14,120 --> 00:44:17,680 Speaker 10: brings it to another level or reality. But yeah, sometimes 843 00:44:17,719 --> 00:44:19,439 Speaker 10: they wake up and not the haters are doing better 844 00:44:19,440 --> 00:44:22,799 Speaker 10: than I don't like that, but uh, you guys haveing 845 00:44:22,880 --> 00:44:24,440 Speaker 10: kill Yeah. 846 00:44:24,320 --> 00:44:27,680 Speaker 7: Yeah, I appreciate what you're saying. But Trump and Elon 847 00:44:27,800 --> 00:44:33,120 Speaker 7: Musk are not haters. What it is they're narcissist control freaks. 848 00:44:34,280 --> 00:44:38,320 Speaker 7: They are power brokers. They just wielding their power. It 849 00:44:38,360 --> 00:44:41,279 Speaker 7: ain't got to them. It ain't hate. And they not 850 00:44:41,440 --> 00:44:45,920 Speaker 7: hating on you. They're doing a whole class of people 851 00:44:46,239 --> 00:44:52,000 Speaker 7: for themselves. Those are called narcissists. Yeah, that that a hater, 852 00:44:53,320 --> 00:44:56,200 Speaker 7: you know, going on the blog talking about you, talking 853 00:44:56,200 --> 00:44:59,359 Speaker 7: about you behind your back, They in your face, They 854 00:44:59,480 --> 00:45:03,719 Speaker 7: passing policy in your faith. They told you before they 855 00:45:03,800 --> 00:45:06,800 Speaker 7: got elected what they was gonna do. This country voted 856 00:45:06,840 --> 00:45:09,719 Speaker 7: for them. I understand what you're saying, but no, that's 857 00:45:09,840 --> 00:45:12,840 Speaker 7: different for me. Now that's your definition of a hater, okay, 858 00:45:12,880 --> 00:45:14,520 Speaker 7: but it's not my definition of a hater. 859 00:45:15,520 --> 00:45:18,560 Speaker 12: A particular issue with you saying that the haters are 860 00:45:18,680 --> 00:45:20,120 Speaker 12: usually not doing better than you. 861 00:45:21,520 --> 00:45:23,759 Speaker 6: But Elon Musk and Donald Trump is not a hater. 862 00:45:24,480 --> 00:45:25,640 Speaker 1: Well, it says a hater. 863 00:45:25,800 --> 00:45:30,320 Speaker 11: The definition says a person who greatly dislikes a specific 864 00:45:30,520 --> 00:45:31,719 Speaker 11: person or thing. 865 00:45:32,080 --> 00:45:33,279 Speaker 1: See now that line. 866 00:45:33,719 --> 00:45:38,239 Speaker 7: They not going after a person or a thing, They 867 00:45:38,400 --> 00:45:42,160 Speaker 7: going after a movement, a whole class of people. 868 00:45:43,719 --> 00:45:46,759 Speaker 1: That's a big that's a big hater. No, No, that's 869 00:45:46,960 --> 00:45:49,479 Speaker 1: very different a person or a thing. 870 00:45:50,360 --> 00:45:54,480 Speaker 7: You know, A hater comes after a person you know, 871 00:45:55,560 --> 00:45:59,800 Speaker 7: blank blank is a hater because the attack was a done. 872 00:45:59,719 --> 00:46:02,120 Speaker 1: On you specific personally. 873 00:46:02,280 --> 00:46:04,440 Speaker 7: Yeah, that's what I'm saying. I understand what he said. 874 00:46:05,320 --> 00:46:09,080 Speaker 7: What they are way bigger than haterus man, Yeah, they are. Wait, 875 00:46:09,160 --> 00:46:10,520 Speaker 7: I wish they were just hate us. 876 00:46:11,320 --> 00:46:11,879 Speaker 1: Thanks, guys. 877 00:46:11,960 --> 00:46:13,839 Speaker 12: Coming up next to is the nephew and the prank 878 00:46:13,920 --> 00:46:16,920 Speaker 12: phone call for today. Right after this, you're listening to 879 00:46:17,040 --> 00:46:23,919 Speaker 12: the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Coming up at the top 880 00:46:24,000 --> 00:46:26,480 Speaker 12: of the hour, right about four minutes after. It's my 881 00:46:26,600 --> 00:46:30,080 Speaker 12: strawberry letter for today. And the subject is he said 882 00:46:30,120 --> 00:46:33,279 Speaker 12: it was a break not a breakup. We'll get into 883 00:46:33,320 --> 00:46:35,400 Speaker 12: that and find out what that's all about. It so 884 00:46:35,760 --> 00:46:39,799 Speaker 12: kind of stuff explanatory. Yeah, we'll get inje for right now. 885 00:46:39,880 --> 00:46:42,799 Speaker 12: The nephew is here with today's prank phone call. 886 00:46:42,960 --> 00:46:44,040 Speaker 1: Net. What you got for us? 887 00:46:44,600 --> 00:46:50,000 Speaker 5: So this right here is called WCS w CS. 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W CS. 909 00:47:52,360 --> 00:47:53,680 Speaker 5: What it is is we take your wives for a 910 00:47:53,719 --> 00:47:56,359 Speaker 5: couple of weeks and we reprogram them so that it's 911 00:47:57,120 --> 00:47:58,920 Speaker 5: of course you have to sign a waiver contract, but 912 00:47:59,000 --> 00:48:01,600 Speaker 5: we take your wife and we reprogram them so that 913 00:48:01,719 --> 00:48:04,160 Speaker 5: they will act in a fashion of what you want. 914 00:48:04,120 --> 00:48:04,680 Speaker 1: Them to act. 915 00:48:05,280 --> 00:48:07,640 Speaker 8: Oh, okay, okay, whatever. 916 00:48:08,280 --> 00:48:08,440 Speaker 1: See. 917 00:48:08,480 --> 00:48:10,239 Speaker 5: So what it is that we've gotten some We've gotten 918 00:48:10,320 --> 00:48:13,799 Speaker 5: some reports that you've been having some problems with with your. 919 00:48:13,760 --> 00:48:18,560 Speaker 6: Particular wife and where you located at We're here in 920 00:48:18,600 --> 00:48:19,279 Speaker 6: Saint Louis, sir. 921 00:48:19,719 --> 00:48:23,400 Speaker 5: Okay, and don't worry, we're totally confidential. This is not 922 00:48:23,480 --> 00:48:26,640 Speaker 5: anything that's going to get out and and your your 923 00:48:26,719 --> 00:48:29,399 Speaker 5: names are never submitted. First of all, here's here's something 924 00:48:29,440 --> 00:48:31,560 Speaker 5: we can do. I can ask you questions because we've 925 00:48:31,600 --> 00:48:33,600 Speaker 5: been notified that this is probably a service that you 926 00:48:33,640 --> 00:48:34,480 Speaker 5: would probably want. 927 00:48:34,600 --> 00:48:39,840 Speaker 6: Now, has your wife ever snapped on you in public and. 928 00:48:40,239 --> 00:48:42,759 Speaker 8: Snapped on me? I mean what I mean? She My 929 00:48:42,840 --> 00:48:45,400 Speaker 8: wife ain't crazy. She don't just snap on me. She might, 930 00:48:45,880 --> 00:48:48,200 Speaker 8: you know, try to check me, say something. You know 931 00:48:48,239 --> 00:48:50,240 Speaker 8: what I'm saying. She's just gonna snap on me in public. 932 00:48:50,320 --> 00:48:52,480 Speaker 5: So your wife your So your wife has tried to 933 00:48:52,560 --> 00:48:54,520 Speaker 5: check you, is what You're saying, and not check me 934 00:48:54,680 --> 00:48:55,120 Speaker 5: per se. 935 00:48:55,280 --> 00:48:57,440 Speaker 8: I mean she might she might not like something I'm 936 00:48:57,520 --> 00:48:59,040 Speaker 8: doing and might say something about. 937 00:48:58,880 --> 00:48:59,480 Speaker 1: It, but we don't. 938 00:48:59,520 --> 00:49:02,799 Speaker 6: Just so basically, your wife is not in her place 939 00:49:02,880 --> 00:49:03,720 Speaker 6: where she needs. 940 00:49:03,600 --> 00:49:04,640 Speaker 15: To be old. 941 00:49:04,800 --> 00:49:06,120 Speaker 8: I mean what you mean in that play, I mean 942 00:49:06,200 --> 00:49:08,680 Speaker 8: she might say something, you know. I mean, I might 943 00:49:08,760 --> 00:49:10,960 Speaker 8: be doing something or you know, might be with my 944 00:49:11,080 --> 00:49:12,840 Speaker 8: boys and might get out of control a little bit. 945 00:49:12,960 --> 00:49:14,600 Speaker 8: She might just say something at the time, but she 946 00:49:14,680 --> 00:49:16,880 Speaker 8: don't just try to all out check nobody. You know 947 00:49:16,920 --> 00:49:17,359 Speaker 8: what I'm saying. 948 00:49:17,520 --> 00:49:19,080 Speaker 1: Okay, okay, okay, I'll tell you what. 949 00:49:19,200 --> 00:49:19,920 Speaker 6: Let me ask you this one. 950 00:49:20,239 --> 00:49:21,959 Speaker 5: Have you ever just had some plans with your guys, 951 00:49:22,239 --> 00:49:24,200 Speaker 5: were gonna go out, and had to change your plans 952 00:49:24,239 --> 00:49:26,120 Speaker 5: because your wife? 953 00:49:26,760 --> 00:49:30,080 Speaker 8: Well, I mean, if like I'm just talking about hanging 954 00:49:30,080 --> 00:49:31,680 Speaker 8: out and I ain't let her know or something, she 955 00:49:31,800 --> 00:49:34,240 Speaker 8: might you know, be like, well, baby already had plays, 956 00:49:34,360 --> 00:49:36,479 Speaker 8: you know, can't you stay home with the boys or something? 957 00:49:36,760 --> 00:49:39,120 Speaker 8: But I mean nothing on the regular, you know, I 958 00:49:39,280 --> 00:49:40,239 Speaker 8: usually do what I want to do. 959 00:49:40,920 --> 00:49:44,560 Speaker 5: It seems like denial. Okay, here's another one, sir, Well, no, 960 00:49:44,840 --> 00:49:46,840 Speaker 5: just listen, hear me out. Now, let me ask you 961 00:49:46,920 --> 00:49:50,839 Speaker 5: this has your wife. Let's say, back when Michael Jordan 962 00:49:50,920 --> 00:49:53,560 Speaker 5: was playing basketball, did you ever miss a playoff game 963 00:49:53,680 --> 00:49:56,439 Speaker 5: on television because your wife wanted to watch something else? 964 00:49:56,920 --> 00:49:57,040 Speaker 9: Nah? 965 00:49:57,120 --> 00:49:59,080 Speaker 8: Man, we got two TVs in my house. Man, I 966 00:49:59,120 --> 00:50:01,279 Speaker 8: wish Now, I don't even get down. I mean I 967 00:50:01,360 --> 00:50:03,600 Speaker 8: might have to watch the little TV okay, but I 968 00:50:03,719 --> 00:50:05,319 Speaker 8: mean I usually watch it on. 969 00:50:05,320 --> 00:50:05,759 Speaker 6: The big show. 970 00:50:06,520 --> 00:50:06,680 Speaker 1: Yeah. 971 00:50:06,719 --> 00:50:10,320 Speaker 5: But but you doing You've been pushed to watching the 972 00:50:10,400 --> 00:50:11,280 Speaker 5: smaller television. 973 00:50:11,320 --> 00:50:13,040 Speaker 8: No, I wouldn't push to do nothing. Man. What I'm 974 00:50:13,040 --> 00:50:15,080 Speaker 8: trying to tell you is, I mean we compromised. We 975 00:50:15,160 --> 00:50:17,120 Speaker 8: do fifty fifty in my house. I mean, she might 976 00:50:17,160 --> 00:50:19,279 Speaker 8: get the big TV to watch her stories or something, 977 00:50:19,440 --> 00:50:21,280 Speaker 8: and I just had to go watch the little TV. 978 00:50:21,520 --> 00:50:22,120 Speaker 9: And little TV. 979 00:50:22,280 --> 00:50:23,520 Speaker 8: Dude go out of every once and. 980 00:50:23,719 --> 00:50:24,400 Speaker 6: See there we go. 981 00:50:24,680 --> 00:50:26,960 Speaker 8: So cool with that. I'm cool with that. 982 00:50:27,040 --> 00:50:27,640 Speaker 1: You're with that. 983 00:50:28,040 --> 00:50:30,880 Speaker 6: So you're with that. You're actually the one that's programmed. 984 00:50:30,960 --> 00:50:33,440 Speaker 8: And you ain't nothing wrong with my wife. Ain't nothing 985 00:50:33,480 --> 00:50:34,720 Speaker 8: wrong with my family. 986 00:50:34,800 --> 00:50:35,880 Speaker 6: You know what I'm understand. 987 00:50:35,880 --> 00:50:38,040 Speaker 5: Well, let me the reason why I'm asking you these 988 00:50:38,080 --> 00:50:42,239 Speaker 5: particular questions is because someone has actually let me know 989 00:50:42,400 --> 00:50:44,600 Speaker 5: the problems that are at hand in your household. 990 00:50:44,680 --> 00:50:45,080 Speaker 6: Let me ask you. 991 00:50:45,120 --> 00:50:46,799 Speaker 5: I got one question for you. Here's what I want 992 00:50:46,800 --> 00:50:49,480 Speaker 5: to ask you. Has your wife ever cussed you out 993 00:50:49,560 --> 00:50:50,720 Speaker 5: at a family cookout? 994 00:50:51,080 --> 00:50:51,200 Speaker 13: Hey? 995 00:50:51,239 --> 00:50:53,239 Speaker 8: Man, hold on, man, you know what you're getting a 996 00:50:53,239 --> 00:50:53,840 Speaker 8: little personal. 997 00:50:53,960 --> 00:50:54,080 Speaker 1: Man. 998 00:50:55,680 --> 00:50:59,480 Speaker 6: Man, I'm here, I'm here. 999 00:51:00,200 --> 00:51:01,040 Speaker 8: Heard of this company? 1000 00:51:01,080 --> 00:51:01,960 Speaker 1: Man, I have not. 1001 00:51:02,160 --> 00:51:03,040 Speaker 8: I've never heard of you. 1002 00:51:03,160 --> 00:51:05,600 Speaker 6: This is something new, is definitely. 1003 00:51:05,280 --> 00:51:07,360 Speaker 8: Said, something new. I mean, don't make me be your 1004 00:51:07,440 --> 00:51:10,080 Speaker 8: guinea pig. Don't don't start. I'll calling me trying to 1005 00:51:10,120 --> 00:51:13,160 Speaker 8: get you know, referrals or clientele or whatever it is 1006 00:51:13,239 --> 00:51:15,800 Speaker 8: you're trying to do. Man, don't call me with this nonsense. 1007 00:51:15,880 --> 00:51:19,160 Speaker 5: Partner, and I completely understand that w C S Sir 1008 00:51:19,400 --> 00:51:22,759 Speaker 5: is here to benefit you, no benefit to me. 1009 00:51:22,840 --> 00:51:25,040 Speaker 8: Man, getting I'll look at my personal business wandering what's 1010 00:51:25,120 --> 00:51:26,240 Speaker 8: going on in my household? 1011 00:51:26,560 --> 00:51:29,080 Speaker 6: Okay, well, last thing I want to ask you, and 1012 00:51:29,200 --> 00:51:30,080 Speaker 6: this is the last question I. 1013 00:51:30,160 --> 00:51:30,440 Speaker 5: Have for you. 1014 00:51:31,520 --> 00:51:33,480 Speaker 8: Make this the last one straight up? 1015 00:51:33,920 --> 00:51:37,240 Speaker 6: Okay, have you do you? Do you buy your own clothes? 1016 00:51:37,360 --> 00:51:39,120 Speaker 6: Or does she buy the tol You know what, man, 1017 00:51:39,239 --> 00:51:40,160 Speaker 6: this meant you? 1018 00:51:40,800 --> 00:51:44,000 Speaker 8: Whatever company this is, don't call now no more? 1019 00:51:44,120 --> 00:51:45,680 Speaker 14: And whatever put you up to this. 1020 00:51:45,920 --> 00:51:48,920 Speaker 8: Whoever give you my number? Talking about my wife? Checked me, 1021 00:51:49,719 --> 00:51:52,279 Speaker 8: got me under control? Me on lock man? You telling 1022 00:51:52,680 --> 00:51:54,359 Speaker 8: him too? Don't call me no more? 1023 00:51:54,400 --> 00:51:55,600 Speaker 9: What you are? You? 1024 00:51:56,080 --> 00:51:57,200 Speaker 6: Are you in denying? 1025 00:51:58,200 --> 00:51:58,359 Speaker 11: Now? 1026 00:51:58,480 --> 00:52:01,600 Speaker 8: Dog, don't call him. I'm gonna tell you what, George 1027 00:52:01,680 --> 00:52:09,120 Speaker 8: Foreman or whatever Marcus for whoever you are, George Foreman, Marcus, Hey, 1028 00:52:09,320 --> 00:52:10,920 Speaker 8: I'm gonna tell you right now. I'm gonna find out 1029 00:52:10,960 --> 00:52:11,960 Speaker 8: what I'm located. 1030 00:52:12,040 --> 00:52:12,200 Speaker 14: Dog. 1031 00:52:12,200 --> 00:52:14,359 Speaker 8: I'm coming down there and I'm gonna bush him as 1032 00:52:14,400 --> 00:52:15,600 Speaker 8: you're in my personal. 1033 00:52:15,560 --> 00:52:19,200 Speaker 5: So you're you're ready to retaliate on me, but you 1034 00:52:19,239 --> 00:52:21,520 Speaker 5: don't want to retaliate on the problems you have with 1035 00:52:21,600 --> 00:52:22,040 Speaker 5: your wife. 1036 00:52:22,400 --> 00:52:25,920 Speaker 8: Retaliation. Man, what I'm saying you're calling my house. I'm 1037 00:52:25,960 --> 00:52:28,640 Speaker 8: minding my home and you worrying about who are watching 1038 00:52:28,680 --> 00:52:31,080 Speaker 8: what TV in my house? And my wife taking me 1039 00:52:31,120 --> 00:52:34,080 Speaker 8: in public? I want this man, Hey, don look, I'm telling. 1040 00:52:33,920 --> 00:52:34,200 Speaker 7: You, sir. 1041 00:52:34,640 --> 00:52:36,640 Speaker 6: Don't you want to watch the big television? 1042 00:52:37,400 --> 00:52:37,879 Speaker 13: Big TV? 1043 00:52:38,080 --> 00:52:40,080 Speaker 8: Man? I'm comfortable with the TV I got. You know 1044 00:52:40,120 --> 00:52:42,400 Speaker 8: what I'm saying. It's in my room. I come across 1045 00:52:42,440 --> 00:52:44,879 Speaker 8: the bed, watch whatever I want to whenever I want 1046 00:52:44,880 --> 00:52:50,200 Speaker 8: to with my partners dog. Not it fact, you don't 1047 00:52:50,200 --> 00:52:52,759 Speaker 8: even get you call him? Ask me? 1048 00:52:52,920 --> 00:52:55,200 Speaker 1: You know, dumb what you want to do to me? 1049 00:52:55,440 --> 00:52:57,160 Speaker 6: Your wife is already done to you. 1050 00:52:57,640 --> 00:52:59,440 Speaker 8: I say you got to the number block? What's your 1051 00:52:59,480 --> 00:52:59,800 Speaker 8: phone on? 1052 00:53:00,160 --> 00:53:00,319 Speaker 9: Man? 1053 00:53:00,600 --> 00:53:02,480 Speaker 8: Give me something, tell me where to find you. 1054 00:53:02,680 --> 00:53:04,160 Speaker 6: Why are you in denial? 1055 00:53:04,640 --> 00:53:07,160 Speaker 8: Denial? I'm gonna tell you what you need. 1056 00:53:07,120 --> 00:53:10,560 Speaker 5: To get your wife checked in the White Correctional Services 1057 00:53:10,680 --> 00:53:12,320 Speaker 5: so that you can live a better life. 1058 00:53:13,239 --> 00:53:15,879 Speaker 8: Whoever may I need to get a life? 1059 00:53:15,960 --> 00:53:16,120 Speaker 5: Man? 1060 00:53:16,200 --> 00:53:18,600 Speaker 8: Can I get a life? Man? Stop calling me? 1061 00:53:18,680 --> 00:53:19,279 Speaker 9: Don for real? 1062 00:53:19,560 --> 00:53:21,719 Speaker 6: I understand it. Can I say one more thing that you. 1063 00:53:21,760 --> 00:53:23,320 Speaker 8: Say you can't say to me? 1064 00:53:23,480 --> 00:53:23,600 Speaker 5: Man? 1065 00:53:23,680 --> 00:53:24,960 Speaker 6: Straight up? Listen to me, sir. 1066 00:53:25,120 --> 00:53:28,280 Speaker 5: Yeah, what what what's his nephew Timmy from the Steve 1067 00:53:28,400 --> 00:53:29,560 Speaker 5: Harvey Morning Show. 1068 00:53:30,000 --> 00:53:32,440 Speaker 6: You just got prank by your boy. 1069 00:53:32,600 --> 00:53:35,840 Speaker 5: Justin you know what. 1070 00:53:38,719 --> 00:53:39,239 Speaker 1: I don't know? 1071 00:53:40,040 --> 00:53:44,920 Speaker 8: Hey, hey, hey, okay, y'all got me? Man? 1072 00:53:45,239 --> 00:53:48,560 Speaker 6: What is the baddest radio show in the land. 1073 00:53:48,880 --> 00:53:49,520 Speaker 14: You already know? 1074 00:53:49,840 --> 00:53:52,160 Speaker 8: Is you my boy Steve Harvey doing in the morning 1075 00:53:52,200 --> 00:53:54,160 Speaker 8: on the Steve Harvey Morning Your partner. 1076 00:53:54,320 --> 00:54:01,240 Speaker 6: Come on, come on here, ip, wife ain't listening this morning. 1077 00:54:01,280 --> 00:54:01,879 Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. 1078 00:54:02,280 --> 00:54:05,200 Speaker 5: Let just hope my wife can you listen? But it's 1079 00:54:05,239 --> 00:54:09,160 Speaker 5: all right, wife, Correctional services. That's the nephew. Y'all already know. 1080 00:54:09,239 --> 00:54:12,520 Speaker 5: This weekend it is Jacksonville, Florida, at the Florida Theater, nephew, 1081 00:54:12,560 --> 00:54:14,200 Speaker 5: tell me and friends, it is in the evening with 1082 00:54:14,360 --> 00:54:15,080 Speaker 5: Nephew Tommy. 1083 00:54:15,440 --> 00:54:17,600 Speaker 6: Tickets are doing very very well. We on our way 1084 00:54:17,680 --> 00:54:18,640 Speaker 6: to those two words. 1085 00:54:18,640 --> 00:54:19,960 Speaker 1: And I can't wait to get there. 1086 00:54:20,360 --> 00:54:22,719 Speaker 6: I can't wait to get this so loud. We wait 1087 00:54:23,440 --> 00:54:24,239 Speaker 6: all right, laying in. 1088 00:54:24,280 --> 00:54:28,439 Speaker 5: The cut Louisville, Kentucky, Louisville, Kentucky, the Litisville Comedy Club, 1089 00:54:28,840 --> 00:54:33,800 Speaker 5: Nephew Tommy week will be the Memorial Weekend. Memorial Weekend, 1090 00:54:34,560 --> 00:54:38,520 Speaker 5: all weekend long that's Friday, Saturday, and Sunday, and praise God, 1091 00:54:38,600 --> 00:54:41,000 Speaker 5: we are off on that Monday Memorial Day, so it 1092 00:54:41,080 --> 00:54:43,000 Speaker 5: will not be a situation where I would be late. 1093 00:54:43,040 --> 00:54:44,480 Speaker 6: You know what I'm stand. I'm saying, thank you so 1094 00:54:44,680 --> 00:54:46,560 Speaker 6: Candy anything? 1095 00:54:46,680 --> 00:54:51,080 Speaker 1: Oh, Tom, I got a voicemail for you. Well let 1096 00:54:51,080 --> 00:54:51,400 Speaker 1: me hear it. 1097 00:54:51,440 --> 00:54:52,200 Speaker 6: Can I hear today? 1098 00:54:52,640 --> 00:54:55,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, you can't hear today. Situation for nephew. 1099 00:54:55,880 --> 00:54:56,120 Speaker 6: Tom. 1100 00:54:57,160 --> 00:55:00,640 Speaker 15: Just want to let you know you get an outstanding job. Charlotte, 1101 00:55:00,680 --> 00:55:05,080 Speaker 15: North Carolina. What the image that you brought was phenomenal. 1102 00:55:05,920 --> 00:55:08,800 Speaker 15: Made a person a real appreciative of spending their money 1103 00:55:09,320 --> 00:55:12,320 Speaker 15: to come out and see you. This big D sitting 1104 00:55:12,360 --> 00:55:14,799 Speaker 15: on the front road, which I was all into, which 1105 00:55:14,840 --> 00:55:15,520 Speaker 15: one hundred percent. 1106 00:55:16,120 --> 00:55:17,239 Speaker 1: You keep doing what you're doing. 1107 00:55:17,920 --> 00:55:21,040 Speaker 15: Appreciated help keeping this world balance with your laughter there 1108 00:55:21,080 --> 00:55:22,600 Speaker 15: that you provide it. 1109 00:55:23,560 --> 00:55:24,320 Speaker 1: Thank you, Big D. 1110 00:55:24,560 --> 00:55:24,920 Speaker 6: All right? 1111 00:55:25,880 --> 00:55:31,719 Speaker 1: What what weird D? His voice? I want the Big 1112 00:55:31,800 --> 00:55:35,320 Speaker 1: dred We gotta go. 1113 00:55:37,120 --> 00:55:40,080 Speaker 12: Coming up next, it's my Strawberry letter. The subject is 1114 00:55:40,239 --> 00:55:42,640 Speaker 12: he said it was a break not a break up. 1115 00:55:42,719 --> 00:55:45,800 Speaker 12: We'll get into it right after this. There was a 1116 00:55:45,880 --> 00:55:49,120 Speaker 12: recent ZIP recruiter survey that says seventy six percent of 1117 00:55:49,239 --> 00:55:53,239 Speaker 12: all employers plan to hire for twenty twenty five this year, 1118 00:55:53,560 --> 00:55:57,720 Speaker 12: and if you're hiring, add zip Recruiter's latest feature, zip Intro, 1119 00:55:57,960 --> 00:55:58,640 Speaker 12: to your plan. 1120 00:55:59,120 --> 00:55:59,720 Speaker 1: It's easy. 1121 00:56:00,160 --> 00:56:02,840 Speaker 12: You just pick a time and zip Intro finds and 1122 00:56:03,000 --> 00:56:07,319 Speaker 12: schedules qualified candidates for you. Try it for free at 1123 00:56:07,440 --> 00:56:12,480 Speaker 12: ZipRecruiter dot com. Slash strawberry at ZipRecruiter dot com slash strawberry. 1124 00:56:13,120 --> 00:56:20,920 Speaker 12: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. It is time now 1125 00:56:21,160 --> 00:56:26,360 Speaker 12: for today's Strawberry Letter. And if you need advice on relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting, 1126 00:56:26,440 --> 00:56:29,400 Speaker 12: and more, please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve BARBFM 1127 00:56:29,440 --> 00:56:32,400 Speaker 12: dot com and click submit Strawberry Letter. We could be 1128 00:56:32,520 --> 00:56:35,239 Speaker 12: reading your letter live on the air, just like we're 1129 00:56:35,239 --> 00:56:37,279 Speaker 12: going to read this one right here, right now, and 1130 00:56:37,400 --> 00:56:39,000 Speaker 12: you never know, it could be yours. 1131 00:56:39,719 --> 00:56:41,719 Speaker 6: It could be yours. Buckle up it hold on time. 1132 00:56:41,760 --> 00:56:42,400 Speaker 6: We got it for you. 1133 00:56:42,560 --> 00:56:42,680 Speaker 1: Here. 1134 00:56:42,719 --> 00:56:44,720 Speaker 6: It is Strawberry Letters. 1135 00:56:44,880 --> 00:56:47,719 Speaker 12: All right, nephew, thank you. Subject he said it was 1136 00:56:47,800 --> 00:56:51,560 Speaker 12: a break not a breakup. Dear Stephen Shirley. I was 1137 00:56:51,640 --> 00:56:53,960 Speaker 12: in a relationship for seven years with a man that 1138 00:56:54,120 --> 00:56:57,640 Speaker 12: sent mixed signals. I chose to leave a relationship, and 1139 00:56:57,719 --> 00:57:00,400 Speaker 12: I don't think that he cares. He told him mutual 1140 00:57:00,480 --> 00:57:03,320 Speaker 12: friend that we broke up a lot and got back together. 1141 00:57:03,920 --> 00:57:06,800 Speaker 12: I thought we were taking breaks, not breaking up. He 1142 00:57:06,880 --> 00:57:09,280 Speaker 12: would tell me that he needed some time to himself, 1143 00:57:09,360 --> 00:57:10,840 Speaker 12: and I would give him a week or two to 1144 00:57:10,960 --> 00:57:13,120 Speaker 12: go back to his own home and take care of 1145 00:57:13,200 --> 00:57:16,479 Speaker 12: his personal affairs without me. He told our mutual friend 1146 00:57:16,520 --> 00:57:19,040 Speaker 12: about the times he went on vacation without me and 1147 00:57:19,160 --> 00:57:22,600 Speaker 12: he met lots of beautiful ladies overseas. He told our 1148 00:57:22,640 --> 00:57:25,040 Speaker 12: friend that he considered marrying one of the ladies he 1149 00:57:25,120 --> 00:57:27,520 Speaker 12: met in Columbia, but she didn't want to move to 1150 00:57:27,640 --> 00:57:30,640 Speaker 12: the US. When I asked my boyfriend about everything I 1151 00:57:30,720 --> 00:57:33,200 Speaker 12: had heard, he did not deny any of it and 1152 00:57:33,400 --> 00:57:36,240 Speaker 12: said he was relieved that everything was out in the open. 1153 00:57:36,600 --> 00:57:38,800 Speaker 12: He gave me a pep talk about being a sweet 1154 00:57:38,840 --> 00:57:41,840 Speaker 12: and caring woman and how I deserved someone better than him. 1155 00:57:42,160 --> 00:57:45,240 Speaker 12: He apologized for wasting my time, and he said he 1156 00:57:45,280 --> 00:57:47,640 Speaker 12: would do better if I decided to stay with him, 1157 00:57:48,080 --> 00:57:50,520 Speaker 12: or I could choose myself and leave him for good. 1158 00:57:51,000 --> 00:57:53,439 Speaker 12: I was stunned by his quote take it or leave 1159 00:57:53,480 --> 00:57:57,479 Speaker 12: it attitude about our relationship. I gave the best years 1160 00:57:57,520 --> 00:57:59,280 Speaker 12: of my life to him and now, I'm past the 1161 00:57:59,360 --> 00:58:02,040 Speaker 12: age of having babies, so if I start over with 1162 00:58:02,160 --> 00:58:04,680 Speaker 12: someone new, the man would have to accept the fact 1163 00:58:04,720 --> 00:58:07,760 Speaker 12: that I cannot have children. Part of me wants to 1164 00:58:07,840 --> 00:58:10,320 Speaker 12: make lemonade out of lemons and stay with this man, 1165 00:58:10,920 --> 00:58:14,000 Speaker 12: and another part of me is saying I can do better. 1166 00:58:14,720 --> 00:58:18,000 Speaker 12: But can I, really, my single friend, say that dating 1167 00:58:18,120 --> 00:58:21,760 Speaker 12: is harder than it's ever been. This man actually considered 1168 00:58:21,840 --> 00:58:24,920 Speaker 12: marrying another woman while we were on a break, So 1169 00:58:25,360 --> 00:58:27,760 Speaker 12: can he be trusted to straighten up and be the 1170 00:58:27,840 --> 00:58:28,560 Speaker 12: man that I need? 1171 00:58:28,760 --> 00:58:31,360 Speaker 1: What should I do here? Well? 1172 00:58:31,480 --> 00:58:32,920 Speaker 12: I got to tell you that this is one of 1173 00:58:32,960 --> 00:58:35,680 Speaker 12: the first letters that I can say right from the start, 1174 00:58:36,080 --> 00:58:39,560 Speaker 12: leave him, leave him all very first. 1175 00:58:39,400 --> 00:58:42,040 Speaker 6: Time you've said that Newslash just wanted to say that. 1176 00:58:42,240 --> 00:58:45,560 Speaker 12: First time I've said it this early. Okay, everything you 1177 00:58:45,640 --> 00:58:48,160 Speaker 12: said is true, and everything you said is real in 1178 00:58:48,240 --> 00:58:49,960 Speaker 12: this letter. You got to stop trying to make it 1179 00:58:50,080 --> 00:58:51,160 Speaker 12: into something else. 1180 00:58:51,280 --> 00:58:51,600 Speaker 1: It's not. 1181 00:58:52,080 --> 00:58:54,680 Speaker 12: He's never been for you, and he was only with 1182 00:58:54,960 --> 00:58:58,240 Speaker 12: you when it was convenient for him. Seven years in 1183 00:58:58,320 --> 00:59:02,720 Speaker 12: this relationship, you left and he didn't even care. Those 1184 00:59:02,800 --> 00:59:04,760 Speaker 12: weren't mixed signals he was sending you. 1185 00:59:04,920 --> 00:59:07,560 Speaker 1: It was the truth. You just chose to ignore all 1186 00:59:07,640 --> 00:59:08,440 Speaker 1: the red flags. 1187 00:59:08,480 --> 00:59:11,520 Speaker 12: He never once denied anything you accused him of of, 1188 00:59:11,960 --> 00:59:14,560 Speaker 12: and he expressed relief that everything is out in the 1189 00:59:14,640 --> 00:59:17,080 Speaker 12: open now, so it should be crystal clear to you, 1190 00:59:17,320 --> 00:59:21,040 Speaker 12: no more mixed signals now that he definitely doesn't give 1191 00:59:21,040 --> 00:59:21,439 Speaker 12: a darn. 1192 00:59:21,520 --> 00:59:22,000 Speaker 1: He doesn't. 1193 00:59:22,040 --> 00:59:25,080 Speaker 12: He apologized for wasting your time and basically said that 1194 00:59:25,200 --> 00:59:27,480 Speaker 12: you should choose yourself and not him. 1195 00:59:27,920 --> 00:59:28,919 Speaker 1: So stop right there. 1196 00:59:29,360 --> 00:59:32,919 Speaker 12: You cannot make lemons out of this lemonade mess he's 1197 00:59:33,000 --> 00:59:36,560 Speaker 12: given you. You gave him seven years. That is enough 1198 00:59:37,000 --> 00:59:39,680 Speaker 12: now that you know the real Please don't think that 1199 00:59:39,800 --> 00:59:42,040 Speaker 12: you can. You know that you can't do better. You 1200 00:59:42,200 --> 00:59:45,840 Speaker 12: can do better, and all of this. Just leave his 1201 00:59:46,120 --> 00:59:47,000 Speaker 12: trifling button. 1202 00:59:47,120 --> 00:59:53,120 Speaker 7: Steve Well, this letter right here is actually mistitled because 1203 00:59:53,160 --> 00:59:55,360 Speaker 7: the title of the letter is he said it was 1204 00:59:55,440 --> 01:00:02,200 Speaker 7: a break, not a breakup. No, you said it was 1205 01:00:02,280 --> 01:00:07,240 Speaker 7: a break he broke up. Yeah, because it says this 1206 01:00:07,480 --> 01:00:10,720 Speaker 7: all the way through the letter. Now, I want to 1207 01:00:10,800 --> 01:00:16,000 Speaker 7: point out something. You were in this relationship for seven years, 1208 01:00:16,400 --> 01:00:20,040 Speaker 7: that with a man that sent mixed signals for seven years. 1209 01:00:21,800 --> 01:00:25,960 Speaker 7: How did it take you seven years of mixed signals 1210 01:00:26,440 --> 01:00:33,000 Speaker 7: before you got the signal? I don't understand, ma'am, Ladies, 1211 01:00:33,080 --> 01:00:37,360 Speaker 7: if you're getting constantly mixed signals from a guy, what should. 1212 01:00:37,120 --> 01:00:37,720 Speaker 6: That tell you? 1213 01:00:39,840 --> 01:00:41,680 Speaker 1: I mean, he told a mutual. 1214 01:00:41,400 --> 01:00:43,800 Speaker 7: Friend that we broke up a lot and got back together. 1215 01:00:44,200 --> 01:00:45,640 Speaker 7: I thought we were taking breaks. 1216 01:00:45,880 --> 01:00:48,800 Speaker 6: How many times have I said on this show that 1217 01:00:49,040 --> 01:00:52,280 Speaker 6: men don't do on and off again relationships? 1218 01:00:52,560 --> 01:00:54,280 Speaker 1: A million times, ladies. 1219 01:00:54,880 --> 01:00:58,439 Speaker 7: We do not do on again off again. You can, 1220 01:00:58,680 --> 01:01:03,080 Speaker 7: but we don't. When you go off and we and 1221 01:01:03,200 --> 01:01:07,360 Speaker 7: you say we off again, we go get owned with 1222 01:01:07,560 --> 01:01:15,120 Speaker 7: somebody else. Men don't need breaks from sex. We need 1223 01:01:15,280 --> 01:01:19,960 Speaker 7: break from drama. And when we get to break from drama, 1224 01:01:20,440 --> 01:01:25,640 Speaker 7: we go fix the drama with some sex. I don't 1225 01:01:25,680 --> 01:01:28,880 Speaker 7: know how sex is the healer. 1226 01:01:31,600 --> 01:01:33,200 Speaker 1: You've said it a million times. 1227 01:01:33,000 --> 01:01:35,320 Speaker 6: You have, it's it's whatever you need. 1228 01:01:35,480 --> 01:01:38,800 Speaker 7: It's it's the advil, it's the time and all listen 1229 01:01:39,080 --> 01:01:42,520 Speaker 7: day quill and not quill. It's it's suit of fed, 1230 01:01:42,680 --> 01:01:46,160 Speaker 7: it's it's it's it's it's it's iboop hopra, and it's 1231 01:01:46,720 --> 01:01:48,280 Speaker 7: it's just it's. 1232 01:01:48,280 --> 01:01:52,240 Speaker 1: Every favorite than a ceiling. It's your fan, it's penal cyling. 1233 01:01:52,240 --> 01:01:56,720 Speaker 1: And they don't even have that. No more. No, it's 1234 01:01:56,880 --> 01:01:57,360 Speaker 1: all of that. 1235 01:01:57,560 --> 01:01:58,320 Speaker 6: That's what it is. 1236 01:01:58,760 --> 01:02:01,760 Speaker 7: So when you're doing talking about we own again, off again. 1237 01:02:02,120 --> 01:02:05,520 Speaker 7: He off with you so he could be owned somewhere else. 1238 01:02:06,560 --> 01:02:09,000 Speaker 7: He would tell me that he needed some time to himself, 1239 01:02:09,200 --> 01:02:10,800 Speaker 7: and I would give him a week or two go 1240 01:02:10,960 --> 01:02:13,520 Speaker 7: back to his own to his own home and take 1241 01:02:13,560 --> 01:02:15,240 Speaker 7: care of some personal fans without me. 1242 01:02:15,720 --> 01:02:17,200 Speaker 6: What are you talking about? 1243 01:02:18,320 --> 01:02:20,040 Speaker 1: He needed to leave you at home, go down there 1244 01:02:20,080 --> 01:02:21,360 Speaker 1: and sign his shoes papers. 1245 01:02:22,120 --> 01:02:24,040 Speaker 6: He need to lead on, Go down there and meet 1246 01:02:24,080 --> 01:02:25,160 Speaker 6: to tax consultant. 1247 01:02:25,840 --> 01:02:28,320 Speaker 7: He told a mutual friend about the times he went 1248 01:02:28,400 --> 01:02:30,560 Speaker 7: on vacation without me, and he met lots of beautiful 1249 01:02:30,600 --> 01:02:33,120 Speaker 7: women overseas. He told our friend that he considered married 1250 01:02:33,200 --> 01:02:35,040 Speaker 7: one of these ladies he met in Columbia, but she 1251 01:02:35,080 --> 01:02:37,160 Speaker 7: ain't want to move to the US. And then I 1252 01:02:37,280 --> 01:02:40,080 Speaker 7: asked him about everything I heard. He didn't deny any 1253 01:02:40,120 --> 01:02:42,360 Speaker 7: of it and said he was relieved that everything was 1254 01:02:42,480 --> 01:02:43,240 Speaker 7: out in the open. 1255 01:02:43,600 --> 01:02:44,040 Speaker 6: You know why. 1256 01:02:44,120 --> 01:02:46,480 Speaker 7: He was relieved that everything was in the open so 1257 01:02:46,680 --> 01:02:51,240 Speaker 7: you could finally read the mixed signals that he was 1258 01:02:51,440 --> 01:02:54,720 Speaker 7: sending you. He was sending you the mixed signals, and 1259 01:02:54,840 --> 01:02:56,360 Speaker 7: you wasn't getting the message. 1260 01:02:56,840 --> 01:03:00,200 Speaker 1: You thought it was Morris coldng On. 1261 01:03:00,560 --> 01:03:02,960 Speaker 12: We'll have part two of your response coming up at 1262 01:03:03,040 --> 01:03:06,480 Speaker 12: twenty three minutes after the hour, Steve the Today's Strawberry 1263 01:03:06,560 --> 01:03:09,720 Speaker 12: Letter subject. He said, it was a break, not a breakup. 1264 01:03:09,840 --> 01:03:12,960 Speaker 12: We'll get back into it right after this. You're listening 1265 01:03:13,280 --> 01:03:15,080 Speaker 12: Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1266 01:03:19,600 --> 01:03:22,280 Speaker 7: You can't let the urge to sing your favorite songs 1267 01:03:22,320 --> 01:03:25,680 Speaker 7: while you're driving distract you from that truck drifting toward 1268 01:03:25,840 --> 01:03:28,200 Speaker 7: your lane or that lane splitting. 1269 01:03:27,880 --> 01:03:28,840 Speaker 6: Biker creeping up. 1270 01:03:28,880 --> 01:03:32,960 Speaker 7: Besides, fortunately, every Hunday offers advanced safety features that can 1271 01:03:33,040 --> 01:03:35,480 Speaker 7: alert you to potential dangers around. 1272 01:03:35,360 --> 01:03:38,640 Speaker 5: And Hondai has over one hundred and thirty IIHS Top 1273 01:03:38,680 --> 01:03:42,160 Speaker 5: Safety awards since two thousand and six. IIHS Stop Safety 1274 01:03:42,200 --> 01:03:45,720 Speaker 5: awards include Top Safety Pick and Top Safety Pick plus 1275 01:03:45,880 --> 01:03:49,040 Speaker 5: awards to Hondai vehicles from two thousand and six to 1276 01:03:49,120 --> 01:03:50,240 Speaker 5: twenty twenty five. 1277 01:03:51,000 --> 01:03:53,680 Speaker 12: All right, come on, Steve, let's recap today's Strawberry letter. 1278 01:03:54,040 --> 01:03:56,920 Speaker 12: The subject he said it was a break, not a breakup. 1279 01:03:57,520 --> 01:03:59,680 Speaker 1: He said it was a break and not a breakup. 1280 01:03:59,800 --> 01:04:03,120 Speaker 7: Is the wrong title of this letter, because he told 1281 01:04:03,360 --> 01:04:08,640 Speaker 7: you you you thought it was a break, but for 1282 01:04:08,800 --> 01:04:10,600 Speaker 7: him it was on again, off again. 1283 01:04:10,920 --> 01:04:13,600 Speaker 6: And I've told y'all men don't do on again, off again. 1284 01:04:14,720 --> 01:04:16,760 Speaker 7: We off with you, but we go, we get off 1285 01:04:16,800 --> 01:04:19,280 Speaker 7: with you and go on with somebody else because we 1286 01:04:19,440 --> 01:04:24,080 Speaker 7: needed somebody else to heal us. The healing power of 1287 01:04:24,440 --> 01:04:29,360 Speaker 7: eyebuu pos, the healing power of night quill, day quill, 1288 01:04:30,720 --> 01:04:36,160 Speaker 7: ad VILPM, suit of fed and like Shirley said, my 1289 01:04:36,320 --> 01:04:37,280 Speaker 7: favorite penicilla. 1290 01:04:37,480 --> 01:04:38,000 Speaker 6: Nothing like it. 1291 01:04:39,640 --> 01:04:42,200 Speaker 7: Because when I was growing up, pensilic can fix anything 1292 01:04:42,280 --> 01:04:47,040 Speaker 7: and don't do nothing, no more nothing. They got stuff. 1293 01:04:47,080 --> 01:04:48,960 Speaker 7: Now you can't even do it. You ain't hear everybody 1294 01:04:49,720 --> 01:04:52,240 Speaker 7: the whole COVID thing. Nobody said nothing about no penicilla. 1295 01:04:52,280 --> 01:04:57,840 Speaker 1: I was looking for it. Break out the penicilla because 1296 01:04:57,880 --> 01:05:00,360 Speaker 1: it works for everything everything else. 1297 01:05:01,240 --> 01:05:02,280 Speaker 6: Yeah, we got covid. 1298 01:05:02,280 --> 01:05:04,760 Speaker 1: Why ain't nobody drinking cast or what the hell going on? 1299 01:05:06,120 --> 01:05:07,440 Speaker 6: Because it didn't elevated. 1300 01:05:08,360 --> 01:05:10,440 Speaker 7: Now he'd have told your mutual friends while he was 1301 01:05:10,480 --> 01:05:12,520 Speaker 7: off and you thought he needed time to go back 1302 01:05:12,520 --> 01:05:15,160 Speaker 7: to his hometown and get some business taken care of. 1303 01:05:15,240 --> 01:05:17,040 Speaker 6: HI, don't need no time to go take care. 1304 01:05:16,960 --> 01:05:17,600 Speaker 1: Of no business. 1305 01:05:17,880 --> 01:05:20,200 Speaker 7: We got emails. You can do everything over the phone. 1306 01:05:20,240 --> 01:05:22,919 Speaker 7: Now you a DOCU signed and all this help. Then 1307 01:05:23,000 --> 01:05:25,240 Speaker 7: he told about the time he went on vacation without 1308 01:05:25,320 --> 01:05:27,040 Speaker 7: me and met lots of beautiful women. 1309 01:05:27,120 --> 01:05:27,560 Speaker 1: Overseas. 1310 01:05:27,640 --> 01:05:30,080 Speaker 7: He told our friends he considered mad one of the 1311 01:05:30,160 --> 01:05:32,480 Speaker 7: ladies he met in Columbia, but she didn't want to 1312 01:05:32,520 --> 01:05:35,080 Speaker 7: move to the US. Columbia got some beautiful women, but 1313 01:05:35,200 --> 01:05:37,200 Speaker 7: let me highly recommend that you don't. 1314 01:05:37,000 --> 01:05:38,240 Speaker 6: Get no woman from Columbia. 1315 01:05:38,440 --> 01:05:40,880 Speaker 7: I can't go to Columbia because I never set foot 1316 01:05:40,920 --> 01:05:43,680 Speaker 7: in Columbia again because after I said the wrong name, 1317 01:05:44,080 --> 01:05:47,160 Speaker 7: they've been looking for me ever since. So clearly, I 1318 01:05:47,240 --> 01:05:49,600 Speaker 7: don't care how beautiful, ay, ay, We're not gonna be 1319 01:05:49,680 --> 01:05:53,200 Speaker 7: in Columbia. Let's just stop this right here. Don't let 1320 01:05:53,240 --> 01:05:56,440 Speaker 7: that beauty fool you down there. It's extravagant beauty, but 1321 01:05:56,560 --> 01:05:58,160 Speaker 7: don't go down there. 1322 01:05:59,600 --> 01:06:02,200 Speaker 1: And please, if you go down there, don't mention my name. 1323 01:06:04,000 --> 01:06:08,040 Speaker 7: That When I asked my boyfriend about everything I heard, 1324 01:06:08,280 --> 01:06:10,120 Speaker 7: he didn't deny any of it, and he said he 1325 01:06:10,240 --> 01:06:12,520 Speaker 7: was relieved that everything was in the open. You know 1326 01:06:12,720 --> 01:06:16,440 Speaker 7: why he was relieved, because you are finally getting the 1327 01:06:16,600 --> 01:06:21,240 Speaker 7: message he was sending to you with the mixed signals, Ladies, 1328 01:06:21,680 --> 01:06:26,080 Speaker 7: Mixed signals are what we give to you as hints. 1329 01:06:28,040 --> 01:06:33,400 Speaker 7: Mixed signals is what we give to you as hints. 1330 01:06:34,160 --> 01:06:38,919 Speaker 7: That part, because one day we'll be able to say 1331 01:06:39,720 --> 01:06:46,280 Speaker 7: I told you yeah, or I never told. If he's 1332 01:06:46,400 --> 01:06:49,440 Speaker 7: never told you he wants to get married to you. 1333 01:06:50,360 --> 01:06:52,720 Speaker 7: If he said to you, I'd like to one day 1334 01:06:52,760 --> 01:06:56,240 Speaker 7: get married, but he don't say to you, that's a 1335 01:06:56,360 --> 01:06:57,000 Speaker 7: mixed sickness. 1336 01:06:57,960 --> 01:06:58,840 Speaker 1: Okay, got it. 1337 01:07:00,640 --> 01:07:02,720 Speaker 7: If he said to you, I want to fall in 1338 01:07:02,920 --> 01:07:04,240 Speaker 7: love with someone, but. 1339 01:07:04,320 --> 01:07:06,600 Speaker 1: He ain't never told you he in love with you, 1340 01:07:07,640 --> 01:07:08,320 Speaker 1: that's a hint. 1341 01:07:09,720 --> 01:07:12,040 Speaker 6: So all through this thing, he been dropping my hit. 1342 01:07:13,160 --> 01:07:14,480 Speaker 6: Then he apologized. 1343 01:07:14,520 --> 01:07:17,000 Speaker 7: Then he said he gave me a pep talk about 1344 01:07:17,040 --> 01:07:19,840 Speaker 7: being a sweetened kin woman and how I deserved somebody 1345 01:07:19,920 --> 01:07:22,680 Speaker 7: better than him, and he apologized for wasting my time. 1346 01:07:23,520 --> 01:07:25,640 Speaker 7: He said he would do better if I decided to 1347 01:07:25,840 --> 01:07:28,360 Speaker 7: stay with him, or I could choose myself and leave 1348 01:07:28,440 --> 01:07:28,919 Speaker 7: him for good. 1349 01:07:29,160 --> 01:07:31,959 Speaker 6: Another mixed signal line. Guess what he said? 1350 01:07:32,440 --> 01:07:37,959 Speaker 7: He said that he would do better, but see better, 1351 01:07:38,240 --> 01:07:41,360 Speaker 7: better than what see when the man said I do 1352 01:07:41,480 --> 01:07:42,040 Speaker 7: better better? 1353 01:07:42,120 --> 01:07:42,160 Speaker 9: What? 1354 01:07:43,720 --> 01:07:46,439 Speaker 1: No, You either gonna straighten up and do right? Don't 1355 01:07:46,480 --> 01:07:46,800 Speaker 1: give me this. 1356 01:07:46,920 --> 01:07:47,680 Speaker 6: I'm gonna do better. 1357 01:07:49,680 --> 01:07:52,480 Speaker 1: You gonna change how You don't need to do better? 1358 01:07:52,560 --> 01:07:55,600 Speaker 6: You need a change. He never gave you that. 1359 01:07:56,120 --> 01:07:58,920 Speaker 7: He said, if you decided to stay with him or 1360 01:07:59,040 --> 01:08:01,920 Speaker 7: choose myself and leave him for good. Another mixed signal, 1361 01:08:02,040 --> 01:08:03,720 Speaker 7: I can do what you areout you do. I was 1362 01:08:03,760 --> 01:08:06,760 Speaker 7: stunned by his taking or leave of attitude about our relationship. 1363 01:08:07,000 --> 01:08:09,200 Speaker 7: I gave him the best years of my life to him, 1364 01:08:09,240 --> 01:08:11,400 Speaker 7: and now I'm past the age of having babies. So 1365 01:08:11,480 --> 01:08:13,480 Speaker 7: if I started with somebody knew, the man would have 1366 01:08:13,560 --> 01:08:15,600 Speaker 7: to accept that I cannot have children. 1367 01:08:16,160 --> 01:08:21,880 Speaker 1: Okay, Oh okay, what Steve? Okay, So. 1368 01:08:23,840 --> 01:08:26,519 Speaker 6: That can't be your problem. See now you can't. 1369 01:08:26,760 --> 01:08:29,920 Speaker 7: Now you're creating a scenario in your head to justify 1370 01:08:30,080 --> 01:08:32,559 Speaker 7: staying with him, because if I give with somebody else 1371 01:08:32,640 --> 01:08:34,599 Speaker 7: and I'm with you, you can't have kids with him? 1372 01:08:36,479 --> 01:08:37,560 Speaker 1: So what difference do with me? 1373 01:08:39,320 --> 01:08:42,240 Speaker 7: You're not going to have no more kids. Part of 1374 01:08:42,320 --> 01:08:48,120 Speaker 7: me wants to make lemonade out of lemons? How Charlie 1375 01:08:48,120 --> 01:08:52,240 Speaker 7: said it best? How and stay with this man? And 1376 01:08:52,360 --> 01:08:55,920 Speaker 7: another part of me is saying I could do better? Okay, 1377 01:08:56,520 --> 01:08:57,519 Speaker 7: but can I really? 1378 01:08:58,840 --> 01:08:59,040 Speaker 5: Yep? 1379 01:08:59,080 --> 01:09:02,320 Speaker 6: Well, let me ask you question, Can I really what? 1380 01:09:03,040 --> 01:09:03,599 Speaker 6: You don't think? 1381 01:09:03,680 --> 01:09:09,679 Speaker 1: This is worse? For seven years? Can I do better 1382 01:09:09,840 --> 01:09:10,639 Speaker 1: than this? Worse? 1383 01:09:11,160 --> 01:09:15,840 Speaker 7: Mixed signal, go nowhere relationship I'm in? Can I do better? 1384 01:09:16,200 --> 01:09:18,400 Speaker 7: But can I really my single friends say that the 1385 01:09:18,479 --> 01:09:20,760 Speaker 7: dating is harder than it's ever been. Yeah, it might 1386 01:09:20,840 --> 01:09:25,120 Speaker 7: be that's true. This man actually considered marrying another woman 1387 01:09:25,520 --> 01:09:28,040 Speaker 7: while we won't break. So can he be trusted to 1388 01:09:28,080 --> 01:09:29,840 Speaker 7: straighten up and be the man that I need? What 1389 01:09:29,920 --> 01:09:32,439 Speaker 7: should I do here? He gonna find somebody else too, 1390 01:09:34,120 --> 01:09:36,160 Speaker 7: because when he says I'm gonna do better, you know 1391 01:09:36,280 --> 01:09:38,479 Speaker 7: what he might be telling you I'm gonna do. 1392 01:09:38,720 --> 01:09:40,080 Speaker 6: I'm gonna do better at cheat? 1393 01:09:42,160 --> 01:09:44,200 Speaker 7: All right, next time I cheat, I'm not gonna tell 1394 01:09:44,240 --> 01:09:46,280 Speaker 7: them mutual friends, and then they'll never tell you, and 1395 01:09:46,360 --> 01:09:48,040 Speaker 7: then we'll keep these mixed signals going. 1396 01:09:48,520 --> 01:09:50,040 Speaker 6: Girl, leave him. 1397 01:09:50,960 --> 01:09:54,840 Speaker 12: You Post your comments on today's Strawberry Letter at Steve 1398 01:09:54,880 --> 01:09:57,880 Speaker 12: barb FM on Instagram and Facebook, and check out the 1399 01:09:57,920 --> 01:10:01,040 Speaker 12: Strawberry Letter podcast on the free I Heart radio app. 1400 01:10:01,360 --> 01:10:04,439 Speaker 1: Bring Never Sounded So Good? You can download it today. 1401 01:10:04,600 --> 01:10:06,800 Speaker 12: Coming up in forty six minutes after the hour, we'll 1402 01:10:06,840 --> 01:10:09,200 Speaker 12: have Junior and Sports Talk right after this. 1403 01:10:09,640 --> 01:10:12,120 Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1404 01:10:16,479 --> 01:10:19,120 Speaker 7: You can't let the urge to sing your favorite songs 1405 01:10:19,160 --> 01:10:22,599 Speaker 7: while you drive abstract you from that trump drifting towards 1406 01:10:22,680 --> 01:10:26,880 Speaker 7: your room, all that lane splitting biker creeping up. Besides, fortunately, 1407 01:10:27,000 --> 01:10:30,360 Speaker 7: every Hunday offers advanced safety features that can alert you 1408 01:10:30,479 --> 01:10:32,320 Speaker 7: to potential dangers around. 1409 01:10:32,200 --> 01:10:35,479 Speaker 5: And Hondai has over one hundred and thirty IIHS Top 1410 01:10:35,560 --> 01:10:39,000 Speaker 5: Safety awards since two thousand and six. IIHS Top Safety 1411 01:10:39,040 --> 01:10:42,559 Speaker 5: awards include Top Safety Pick and Top Safety Pick plus 1412 01:10:42,760 --> 01:10:45,880 Speaker 5: awards to Hondai vehicles from two thousand and six to 1413 01:10:46,000 --> 01:10:47,120 Speaker 5: twenty twenty five. 1414 01:10:48,080 --> 01:10:50,800 Speaker 1: It is time now for junior and sports talk. Which 1415 01:10:50,840 --> 01:10:51,479 Speaker 1: you got junior? 1416 01:10:51,720 --> 01:10:52,320 Speaker 6: Okay, Shirley. 1417 01:10:52,400 --> 01:10:55,080 Speaker 2: We are one week away, one week away from the 1418 01:10:55,240 --> 01:10:59,000 Speaker 2: NFL Draft. At your boy, Travis Hunter said he quit 1419 01:10:59,160 --> 01:11:02,200 Speaker 2: football if he was not able to play wide receiver 1420 01:11:02,360 --> 01:11:03,879 Speaker 2: and cornerback in the NFL. 1421 01:11:04,800 --> 01:11:08,439 Speaker 1: Why he quit? He wants to quick and go where 1422 01:11:09,000 --> 01:11:09,439 Speaker 1: and do what? 1423 01:11:11,240 --> 01:11:11,519 Speaker 9: Do what? 1424 01:11:12,600 --> 01:11:12,840 Speaker 5: I mean? 1425 01:11:13,400 --> 01:11:14,320 Speaker 1: Nobody said he's not. 1426 01:11:14,680 --> 01:11:16,640 Speaker 2: Some of the teams have not said that, but they 1427 01:11:16,720 --> 01:11:19,560 Speaker 2: really want him to just play wide receiver or just 1428 01:11:19,600 --> 01:11:20,400 Speaker 2: play cornerback. 1429 01:11:20,760 --> 01:11:22,120 Speaker 6: They don't really want him to go both ways. 1430 01:11:22,160 --> 01:11:24,880 Speaker 2: But in college last year he played seven hundred and 1431 01:11:24,880 --> 01:11:28,879 Speaker 2: thirteen offensive snaps seven hundred and forty eight defensive snaps. 1432 01:11:29,439 --> 01:11:30,479 Speaker 1: That's capable. 1433 01:11:31,680 --> 01:11:36,880 Speaker 7: No, he's not, that's junior. The NFL is very different, though, 1434 01:11:38,200 --> 01:11:40,720 Speaker 7: what what who was playing against in college and who 1435 01:11:40,760 --> 01:11:41,599 Speaker 7: gonna be in the pros? 1436 01:11:42,120 --> 01:11:42,160 Speaker 9: What? 1437 01:11:42,479 --> 01:11:44,240 Speaker 2: Okay, So so you don't think it's a good idea 1438 01:11:44,240 --> 01:11:46,920 Speaker 2: of him to play both way? No, I think it's 1439 01:11:46,960 --> 01:11:51,200 Speaker 2: a good idea for pick the position that's the highest paid. Now, 1440 01:11:51,320 --> 01:11:53,480 Speaker 2: receivers make more money than cornerbacks. 1441 01:11:53,840 --> 01:11:56,840 Speaker 6: Okay, so we should just go and go with that. 1442 01:11:57,479 --> 01:11:59,680 Speaker 1: But he's a great corner or. 1443 01:12:00,640 --> 01:12:04,599 Speaker 7: Or he can go to Canada if somebody will pay 1444 01:12:04,680 --> 01:12:08,160 Speaker 7: him some outlandish amount of money. He can play both 1445 01:12:08,200 --> 01:12:10,720 Speaker 7: sides of the ball. But ain't nobody gonna know him though, 1446 01:12:11,320 --> 01:12:13,439 Speaker 7: So we gotta play, and we will not be on TV. 1447 01:12:13,600 --> 01:12:15,920 Speaker 7: You'll be playing with the organote. 1448 01:12:15,880 --> 01:12:17,400 Speaker 2: What they got there up there? They ain't got the 1449 01:12:17,400 --> 01:12:20,599 Speaker 2: super Bowl. They got the Great Cousin. Yeah, you're getting 1450 01:12:20,600 --> 01:12:24,120 Speaker 2: a great Cup. And Travis, it's so cold in Canada, 1451 01:12:24,280 --> 01:12:26,639 Speaker 2: in Winnipeg when you go play the Jets, you ain't 1452 01:12:26,680 --> 01:12:31,080 Speaker 2: gonna believe it. That fother great Cup game fifty six below, 1453 01:12:31,680 --> 01:12:32,400 Speaker 2: I was there. 1454 01:12:33,840 --> 01:12:35,519 Speaker 1: Just just go pick a position. 1455 01:12:36,280 --> 01:12:42,120 Speaker 7: They stadiums look like high school football players. So in Canada, man, 1456 01:12:42,200 --> 01:12:44,559 Speaker 7: some of them stadiums ain't that Ain't that dope? 1457 01:12:46,360 --> 01:12:47,160 Speaker 1: No, you don't even know them. 1458 01:12:47,160 --> 01:12:50,000 Speaker 7: People when they go up there and they don't like 1459 01:12:50,080 --> 01:12:53,320 Speaker 7: those right now, Kim, Yeah, because of the terrify. 1460 01:12:54,120 --> 01:12:58,600 Speaker 6: Yeah, in the USFL ain't got no money for Travis. 1461 01:12:59,760 --> 01:13:02,200 Speaker 7: Us if a whole football team don't make what the 1462 01:13:02,360 --> 01:13:07,240 Speaker 7: NFL player, No, No, you can get you thirty dollars 1463 01:13:07,280 --> 01:13:08,240 Speaker 7: a week or something like that. 1464 01:13:09,280 --> 01:13:13,160 Speaker 1: What let's get you might will have paper own. 1465 01:13:16,160 --> 01:13:16,640 Speaker 13: Get to that. 1466 01:13:16,880 --> 01:13:18,599 Speaker 2: Here we go, man, we got some of the games. Uh, 1467 01:13:18,640 --> 01:13:21,160 Speaker 2: you know the NBA Playoffs starts this Saturday. Or we 1468 01:13:21,240 --> 01:13:24,000 Speaker 2: got the Nuggets and the Clippers there in the West, 1469 01:13:24,520 --> 01:13:26,640 Speaker 2: and the Warriors beat the Grizzlies. 1470 01:13:27,640 --> 01:13:30,160 Speaker 6: Huh did the Warriors beat you Grizzlies? 1471 01:13:30,200 --> 01:13:30,320 Speaker 9: Oh? 1472 01:13:30,360 --> 01:13:31,479 Speaker 6: Yeah, they beat them. 1473 01:13:31,640 --> 01:13:33,880 Speaker 2: You're gonna play the Rockets on Saturday. Man, they gonna 1474 01:13:33,880 --> 01:13:36,679 Speaker 2: play the Rockets in the first round. Lord Hamby, don't 1475 01:13:36,720 --> 01:13:38,960 Speaker 2: let this boy Steph go off. Just just keep Steph 1476 01:13:39,040 --> 01:13:40,080 Speaker 2: at twenty five if we. 1477 01:13:40,120 --> 01:13:41,760 Speaker 7: Can now the Rockets and they had a hell of 1478 01:13:41,800 --> 01:13:45,760 Speaker 7: a season. But here comes Steph and Jimmy Butler. 1479 01:13:48,240 --> 01:13:48,439 Speaker 9: Fight. 1480 01:13:49,800 --> 01:13:51,200 Speaker 1: Thank you, Junior, Thank you guys. 1481 01:13:51,320 --> 01:13:53,360 Speaker 12: Coming up at the top of the hour, a young 1482 01:13:53,439 --> 01:13:55,840 Speaker 12: man on social media needs some advice Steve. He says 1483 01:13:55,920 --> 01:13:58,880 Speaker 12: his parents won't let us share a bed. Her parents 1484 01:13:58,920 --> 01:14:01,000 Speaker 12: won't let us share a bed. We'll talk about it 1485 01:14:01,160 --> 01:14:01,720 Speaker 12: right after this. 1486 01:14:02,320 --> 01:14:04,760 Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1487 01:14:09,000 --> 01:14:12,880 Speaker 12: All right, So Chris Steve on Steve Harvey FM says, 1488 01:14:13,040 --> 01:14:17,280 Speaker 12: this weekend, my girlfriend's parents have invited us to spend 1489 01:14:17,400 --> 01:14:20,640 Speaker 12: Easter weekend at their place. We've been dating for a 1490 01:14:20,680 --> 01:14:23,479 Speaker 12: round a year and we're all quite familiar with each other, 1491 01:14:23,680 --> 01:14:27,920 Speaker 12: so it should be fun. There's an issue, though, they're 1492 01:14:27,960 --> 01:14:31,800 Speaker 12: relatively old fashioned and don't want us sleeping together in 1493 01:14:31,920 --> 01:14:35,479 Speaker 12: the same room, even though they know we live together. 1494 01:14:35,880 --> 01:14:38,560 Speaker 12: My girlfriend is really pushing back on this, but I 1495 01:14:38,600 --> 01:14:41,160 Speaker 12: don't think it's that big of a deal, seeing as 1496 01:14:41,280 --> 01:14:44,639 Speaker 12: how it's their place and their rules. What's the best 1497 01:14:44,720 --> 01:14:47,280 Speaker 12: way to stay out of the drama when we get there? 1498 01:14:48,479 --> 01:14:52,479 Speaker 7: Tell your girl we're gonna obey your father and mother's 1499 01:14:52,600 --> 01:14:55,839 Speaker 7: rules at they house and were gonna get a hotel 1500 01:14:56,040 --> 01:14:58,680 Speaker 7: room or you stay with your mom Neil and I'm 1501 01:14:58,680 --> 01:15:02,040 Speaker 7: gonna get a rule. Won't be because bruh, you're doing 1502 01:15:02,080 --> 01:15:06,200 Speaker 7: the right thing by being respectful of their rules. And 1503 01:15:06,360 --> 01:15:08,920 Speaker 7: I don't care how hard she pushing back, even if 1504 01:15:08,960 --> 01:15:12,240 Speaker 7: she win the argument. You know how uncomfortable you gonna 1505 01:15:12,280 --> 01:15:13,439 Speaker 7: be Yeah. 1506 01:15:14,560 --> 01:15:15,720 Speaker 6: You sleep in these people house? 1507 01:15:15,760 --> 01:15:15,880 Speaker 9: Now? 1508 01:15:16,000 --> 01:15:16,920 Speaker 6: Want you sleep in now? 1509 01:15:19,680 --> 01:15:21,280 Speaker 1: All right? Yeah, all right? 1510 01:15:22,640 --> 01:15:26,360 Speaker 12: Moving on to Tracy on Steve Harvey FM. Tracy says, 1511 01:15:26,439 --> 01:15:29,160 Speaker 12: my thirteen year old daughter has started hanging out with 1512 01:15:29,280 --> 01:15:31,920 Speaker 12: a new group of kids at school, and everything about 1513 01:15:32,000 --> 01:15:35,599 Speaker 12: her has changed. Her attitude, has changed, her clothes, even 1514 01:15:35,640 --> 01:15:38,000 Speaker 12: the way she talks to us. I don't want to 1515 01:15:38,040 --> 01:15:41,519 Speaker 12: be the overbearing mom who controls her every move, but 1516 01:15:41,640 --> 01:15:44,240 Speaker 12: I also can't ignore the feeling that these new friends 1517 01:15:44,320 --> 01:15:46,880 Speaker 12: are bringing out the worst in her. I feel like 1518 01:15:46,960 --> 01:15:48,559 Speaker 12: I have to walk a narrow line here. 1519 01:15:48,880 --> 01:15:49,600 Speaker 1: What should I do? 1520 01:15:50,080 --> 01:15:53,360 Speaker 12: How can I get back to her, get her back 1521 01:15:53,400 --> 01:15:55,639 Speaker 12: to her old self without pushing her away? 1522 01:15:57,160 --> 01:15:58,960 Speaker 6: Have you tried backhand in her? 1523 01:16:01,080 --> 01:16:04,080 Speaker 1: Why is violence you're always as your first go to? 1524 01:16:05,520 --> 01:16:09,360 Speaker 6: I'm just I'm asking has that been put out? Have 1525 01:16:09,560 --> 01:16:10,680 Speaker 6: you backhanded her? 1526 01:16:10,800 --> 01:16:13,520 Speaker 12: Yet? She said she doesn't want to be the overbearing 1527 01:16:13,640 --> 01:16:15,479 Speaker 12: mom who controls her every move. 1528 01:16:16,600 --> 01:16:19,880 Speaker 6: Well, or you can be the or you can be the. 1529 01:16:21,720 --> 01:16:25,200 Speaker 7: Underbearing parent and then let her control all her own 1530 01:16:25,320 --> 01:16:28,519 Speaker 7: moves and make all her decisions with that thirteen year 1531 01:16:28,560 --> 01:16:33,320 Speaker 7: old mindset and wind up pregnant somewhere or on drugs 1532 01:16:33,560 --> 01:16:38,000 Speaker 7: or run away with an older boy, limo options. See, 1533 01:16:38,600 --> 01:16:44,160 Speaker 7: as parents, our first obligation is to parent, and in parenting, 1534 01:16:44,320 --> 01:16:47,200 Speaker 7: your children will not always like the decisions you make. 1535 01:16:47,760 --> 01:16:49,960 Speaker 7: But see y'all also busy with this new stuff, trying 1536 01:16:50,000 --> 01:16:52,160 Speaker 7: to be their friend and all this here. Try to 1537 01:16:52,240 --> 01:16:54,439 Speaker 7: stay out the way and get to decide. They're too 1538 01:16:54,720 --> 01:17:03,360 Speaker 7: stupid to decide. Your child is stupid like the rest 1539 01:17:03,520 --> 01:17:09,599 Speaker 7: of the kids. Come to terms with that. Everybody say 1540 01:17:09,680 --> 01:17:17,160 Speaker 7: this under your breath. My child is stupid like the 1541 01:17:17,320 --> 01:17:20,360 Speaker 7: rest of them. And the reason you should say this 1542 01:17:21,040 --> 01:17:24,920 Speaker 7: is because I promise you they are. They don't let 1543 01:17:25,000 --> 01:17:29,400 Speaker 7: you see it, but now she done got so comfortable 1544 01:17:29,720 --> 01:17:33,160 Speaker 7: she letting you see it. You don't want to be 1545 01:17:33,200 --> 01:17:36,920 Speaker 7: the overbearing parent, then fine, if you okay with visitations 1546 01:17:36,960 --> 01:17:43,439 Speaker 7: and all of that. No, y'all, you gotta look at 1547 01:17:43,479 --> 01:17:46,679 Speaker 7: it this way. Your job is to parent, and in parenting, 1548 01:17:47,080 --> 01:17:49,840 Speaker 7: they will not like all of your decisions, but you 1549 01:17:49,960 --> 01:17:51,519 Speaker 7: have to do something that's best for them. 1550 01:17:51,760 --> 01:17:55,439 Speaker 6: Later on they'll go, man, I see what you were saying. 1551 01:17:55,479 --> 01:17:56,360 Speaker 6: They don't get it now. 1552 01:17:57,200 --> 01:18:00,360 Speaker 12: Yeah, but she doesn't want to push her daughter away. 1553 01:18:00,400 --> 01:18:01,799 Speaker 12: If she starts that, that's. 1554 01:18:01,680 --> 01:18:03,479 Speaker 6: What she's already away. 1555 01:18:03,840 --> 01:18:06,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, she's with that. That's what y'all see. 1556 01:18:06,479 --> 01:18:11,479 Speaker 7: She's already away, gotcha. Yeah, she doing stuff you don't 1557 01:18:11,560 --> 01:18:14,000 Speaker 7: want her to do, and you're scared to say something. 1558 01:18:14,840 --> 01:18:16,080 Speaker 1: Okay, I can't be afraid. 1559 01:18:16,200 --> 01:18:19,840 Speaker 7: Then visitations is coming soon. All you're gonna be taking 1560 01:18:19,880 --> 01:18:21,960 Speaker 7: her down to the tennant. What you want to do 1561 01:18:22,640 --> 01:18:24,479 Speaker 7: this because this can go bad. 1562 01:18:24,880 --> 01:18:25,960 Speaker 6: This is a girl, man. 1563 01:18:26,520 --> 01:18:28,960 Speaker 7: It goes bad for girls and it can go bad 1564 01:18:29,040 --> 01:18:32,360 Speaker 7: for boys. And you got to protect your child with 1565 01:18:32,479 --> 01:18:34,880 Speaker 7: the knowledge that you have based on what you know. 1566 01:18:36,640 --> 01:18:38,640 Speaker 7: Now feel how you want to feel about me. 1567 01:18:38,720 --> 01:18:41,599 Speaker 1: And she's only thirteen. Yeah, she's only thirteen. 1568 01:18:41,720 --> 01:18:43,639 Speaker 6: Buying all the club where you getting the money from? 1569 01:18:44,720 --> 01:18:47,000 Speaker 1: All right? Thank you, great advice. Steve. 1570 01:18:47,120 --> 01:18:49,080 Speaker 12: Coming up at twenty minutes after the hour, we'll have 1571 01:18:49,200 --> 01:18:51,840 Speaker 12: more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show right after this. 1572 01:18:52,880 --> 01:18:59,680 Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show, all right. 1573 01:19:00,000 --> 01:19:02,200 Speaker 12: As more and more people are making the decision not 1574 01:19:02,360 --> 01:19:04,960 Speaker 12: to have kids these days, according to a recent study 1575 01:19:05,000 --> 01:19:08,400 Speaker 12: by Michigan State University, the percentage of adults who don't 1576 01:19:08,439 --> 01:19:12,160 Speaker 12: want kids today has nearly doubled. It was fourteen percent 1577 01:19:12,280 --> 01:19:16,040 Speaker 12: back in two thousand and two. Now it's twenty nine percent. 1578 01:19:16,160 --> 01:19:21,759 Speaker 12: That's the latest from twenty twenty three statistics in the nineties, 1579 01:19:22,640 --> 01:19:26,000 Speaker 12: the trend is still growing. The research didn't pinpoint the 1580 01:19:26,080 --> 01:19:30,040 Speaker 12: exact reasons why Americans are opting out of parenthood, but 1581 01:19:30,160 --> 01:19:33,080 Speaker 12: they're they're saying things like, you know, the state of 1582 01:19:33,120 --> 01:19:36,479 Speaker 12: the world right now, economic worries, the allure of having 1583 01:19:36,560 --> 01:19:38,599 Speaker 12: more freedom. You know, they don't have to worry about 1584 01:19:38,640 --> 01:19:41,120 Speaker 12: their children, your parent see, yes. 1585 01:19:41,600 --> 01:19:46,080 Speaker 1: I say it, all those things, I see it all. Yeah, 1586 01:19:46,280 --> 01:19:46,839 Speaker 1: the reasons. 1587 01:19:47,760 --> 01:19:51,120 Speaker 6: Yes, But we didn't have planned parenthood. 1588 01:19:52,000 --> 01:19:53,840 Speaker 1: Yes we did, we did. 1589 01:19:54,320 --> 01:19:54,760 Speaker 9: We did. 1590 01:19:55,439 --> 01:19:58,720 Speaker 12: What do you guys love about being parents and grandparents? 1591 01:19:58,760 --> 01:20:01,000 Speaker 12: In your case your and Steve and. 1592 01:20:01,720 --> 01:20:04,720 Speaker 7: Well this ain't a good That ain't a good say anyway, Well, 1593 01:20:05,200 --> 01:20:07,080 Speaker 7: it ain't the story about we don't want the kids. 1594 01:20:07,200 --> 01:20:07,879 Speaker 1: Now you want. 1595 01:20:10,760 --> 01:20:10,960 Speaker 9: Them? 1596 01:20:11,240 --> 01:20:14,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, convince the people that don't want them that they want. 1597 01:20:14,360 --> 01:20:16,920 Speaker 7: Well, I think we should start with Junior because Junior 1598 01:20:17,080 --> 01:20:18,520 Speaker 7: is the newest grandfather. 1599 01:20:18,880 --> 01:20:20,519 Speaker 6: Oh my, well the pictures. 1600 01:20:20,640 --> 01:20:24,439 Speaker 1: I love seeing the pictures. Yeah, Tommy is. 1601 01:20:26,880 --> 01:20:31,160 Speaker 6: Yeah, Yeah, that would be Papa t You're gonna get 1602 01:20:31,160 --> 01:20:31,880 Speaker 6: that straight right. 1603 01:20:31,920 --> 01:20:37,759 Speaker 1: All right, Papa Tea. Thank you guys. 1604 01:20:37,840 --> 01:20:40,000 Speaker 12: Coming up At thirty three minutes after the hour, we'll 1605 01:20:40,000 --> 01:20:43,200 Speaker 12: play another round. Would you rather right after this you're 1606 01:20:43,280 --> 01:20:45,479 Speaker 12: listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1607 01:20:49,439 --> 01:20:52,120 Speaker 7: You can't let the urge to sing your favorite songs 1608 01:20:52,160 --> 01:20:55,519 Speaker 7: while you're driving distract you from that truck drifting toward 1609 01:20:55,680 --> 01:20:57,440 Speaker 7: your lane or that lane. 1610 01:20:57,160 --> 01:20:59,160 Speaker 1: Splitting biker creeping up beside you. 1611 01:20:59,320 --> 01:21:03,200 Speaker 7: Fortunately, every nday offers advanced safety features that can alert 1612 01:21:03,280 --> 01:21:05,280 Speaker 7: you to potential dangers around. 1613 01:21:05,200 --> 01:21:08,439 Speaker 5: And Hondai has over one hundred and thirty IIHS Top 1614 01:21:08,520 --> 01:21:11,599 Speaker 5: Safety awards since two thousand and six. Ii HS Top 1615 01:21:11,640 --> 01:21:15,160 Speaker 5: Safety awards include Top Safety Pick and Top Safety Pick 1616 01:21:15,240 --> 01:21:18,559 Speaker 5: Plus awards to Hondai vehicles from two thousand and six 1617 01:21:18,760 --> 01:21:20,040 Speaker 5: to twenty twenty five. 1618 01:21:20,680 --> 01:21:22,439 Speaker 12: It is done now for a round of would you? 1619 01:21:23,040 --> 01:21:26,280 Speaker 12: Would you rather have the wisdom of your age now 1620 01:21:26,520 --> 01:21:28,800 Speaker 12: or the energy of your youth? Would you rather have 1621 01:21:28,880 --> 01:21:31,880 Speaker 12: the wisdom of your age or the energy of your youth? 1622 01:21:32,720 --> 01:21:35,040 Speaker 1: Your wisdom wisdom of my age? 1623 01:21:36,040 --> 01:21:38,840 Speaker 5: Okay, I ain't got to be wise, but if I 1624 01:21:38,840 --> 01:21:40,880 Speaker 5: can get that energy of being, what I would you. 1625 01:21:41,280 --> 01:21:48,600 Speaker 1: Of your not? I'm worried about it? Why? But I 1626 01:21:48,640 --> 01:21:49,240 Speaker 1: don't know why? 1627 01:21:49,360 --> 01:21:52,960 Speaker 7: You would want more energy attached to your current state 1628 01:21:53,040 --> 01:21:58,479 Speaker 7: of mind? Fixed it to slow you down? 1629 01:22:01,080 --> 01:22:07,000 Speaker 1: What about you wisdom? Energy? I would love to. 1630 01:22:07,040 --> 01:22:09,280 Speaker 6: Have the energy, but I can't. I can't give up this, this, 1631 01:22:09,520 --> 01:22:11,120 Speaker 6: this wisdom, it keeps. 1632 01:22:11,240 --> 01:22:12,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I was. 1633 01:22:13,960 --> 01:22:18,400 Speaker 7: See, energy makes you react so fast that you don't 1634 01:22:18,479 --> 01:22:22,880 Speaker 7: think sometimes. Yeah yeah, yeah, well you know how much 1635 01:22:22,920 --> 01:22:24,360 Speaker 7: stuff I have done too fast? 1636 01:22:24,760 --> 01:22:24,920 Speaker 13: Yes? 1637 01:22:27,000 --> 01:22:27,360 Speaker 1: All right? 1638 01:22:27,960 --> 01:22:29,800 Speaker 12: Moving on to would you rather be in a room 1639 01:22:29,880 --> 01:22:32,240 Speaker 12: with ten bunnies or would you rather be in a 1640 01:22:32,360 --> 01:22:33,720 Speaker 12: room with ten chickens? 1641 01:22:34,560 --> 01:22:40,960 Speaker 1: Ten bunnies? Chick? Do them chicken? Chicken? Chicken? Yeah? Why 1642 01:22:42,080 --> 01:22:48,759 Speaker 1: for one? I hope they got some eggs, steve, bunnies 1643 01:22:48,800 --> 01:22:52,240 Speaker 1: or chickens. Well, I'm country boys, so I'm taking chickens. 1644 01:22:52,320 --> 01:22:57,599 Speaker 1: But okay, we're gonna have against bunnies. Wow, sorry, well. 1645 01:23:00,120 --> 01:23:01,960 Speaker 6: Friul bunnies and fried chicken. 1646 01:23:03,760 --> 01:23:07,679 Speaker 1: You're thinking about a meal? I cannot. It's a huge difference. 1647 01:23:08,240 --> 01:23:11,080 Speaker 1: And of course the nephew is thinking of playboy bunnies. 1648 01:23:11,200 --> 01:23:16,360 Speaker 6: Okay, and bunny you need jack rabbit. What you don't 1649 01:23:16,400 --> 01:23:17,280 Speaker 6: want is bunny. 1650 01:23:19,400 --> 01:23:22,599 Speaker 12: They multiply, all right? Would you rather wear powder blue 1651 01:23:22,760 --> 01:23:25,639 Speaker 12: or lime green when you wear your suit? That's Easter 1652 01:23:25,800 --> 01:23:26,559 Speaker 12: Sunday service? 1653 01:23:26,680 --> 01:23:31,960 Speaker 1: Which one powder not lime green? 1654 01:23:32,840 --> 01:23:33,080 Speaker 9: Come on? 1655 01:23:33,280 --> 01:23:38,840 Speaker 1: Past stale color. Come on, Detroit, Cleveland, Chicago. 1656 01:23:39,280 --> 01:23:40,720 Speaker 6: Which one you're gonna put out your closet on? 1657 01:23:40,800 --> 01:23:41,080 Speaker 9: Powder? 1658 01:23:41,840 --> 01:23:50,760 Speaker 1: Lime green? I'm wearing ice blue. You wouldn't be different ice, 1659 01:23:54,320 --> 01:23:54,680 Speaker 1: all right? 1660 01:23:55,680 --> 01:23:59,519 Speaker 12: Would you rather chew gum that you're the person you 1661 01:23:59,600 --> 01:24:02,439 Speaker 12: have as on chewed? Or would you rather share the 1662 01:24:02,479 --> 01:24:07,160 Speaker 12: same washcloth with the person you have a crush on? Yeah, 1663 01:24:07,240 --> 01:24:09,960 Speaker 12: you didn't hear me here, crush halle Berry. Would you 1664 01:24:10,080 --> 01:24:12,240 Speaker 12: rather chew her gum or would you rather use her 1665 01:24:12,439 --> 01:24:13,120 Speaker 12: washed cloth? 1666 01:24:13,600 --> 01:24:17,080 Speaker 1: Oh, it don't matter which one would have? Let's see. 1667 01:24:20,200 --> 01:24:21,240 Speaker 1: Tell me, I'll help you out. 1668 01:24:21,800 --> 01:24:24,840 Speaker 6: You'll go with the washcloth, because didn't that mean he was. 1669 01:24:24,920 --> 01:24:31,200 Speaker 1: Over there that today we have to wash. 1670 01:24:34,640 --> 01:24:37,000 Speaker 12: Coming up in forty nine minutes after it's our last 1671 01:24:37,040 --> 01:24:38,960 Speaker 12: break of the day, and we'll close out the show 1672 01:24:39,080 --> 01:24:40,759 Speaker 12: with the one and only Steve Harvey. 1673 01:24:41,120 --> 01:24:44,679 Speaker 1: Right after this, you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1674 01:24:48,920 --> 01:24:51,559 Speaker 7: You can't let the urge to sing your favorite songs 1675 01:24:51,600 --> 01:24:55,000 Speaker 7: while you're driving distract you from that truck drifting toward 1676 01:24:55,120 --> 01:24:59,320 Speaker 7: your lamp, or that lanees flinting biker creeping up. Besides, fortunately, 1677 01:24:59,439 --> 01:25:02,800 Speaker 7: every hunt office advanced safety features that can alert you 1678 01:25:02,920 --> 01:25:04,840 Speaker 7: to potential dangers around. 1679 01:25:04,680 --> 01:25:07,920 Speaker 5: And Honday has over one hundred and thirty IIHS Top 1680 01:25:08,000 --> 01:25:11,479 Speaker 5: Safety awards since two thousand and six. IIHS Top Safety 1681 01:25:11,479 --> 01:25:15,000 Speaker 5: awards include Top Safety Pick and Top Safety Pick plus 1682 01:25:15,200 --> 01:25:18,320 Speaker 5: awards to Hondai vehicles from two thousand and six to 1683 01:25:18,439 --> 01:25:19,519 Speaker 5: twenty twenty five. 1684 01:25:20,479 --> 01:25:23,160 Speaker 1: All right, guys, here we are last break of the day. 1685 01:25:23,400 --> 01:25:29,799 Speaker 1: This is Easter Week, concluding on Sunday, with Resurrection Day tomorrow, 1686 01:25:30,000 --> 01:25:36,080 Speaker 1: Christian Day. Good Friday. It's good Friday, the same as 1687 01:25:36,200 --> 01:25:40,439 Speaker 1: Palm Sunday. No, that was last Sunday. Jesus rode in 1688 01:25:41,479 --> 01:25:45,439 Speaker 1: on the donkey. That was Palm Sunday, So. 1689 01:25:45,560 --> 01:25:53,400 Speaker 6: That was tomorrow. Never quite knew that story. What never 1690 01:25:53,640 --> 01:25:57,680 Speaker 6: really knew that that was your day? He rode in. 1691 01:25:58,000 --> 01:26:03,760 Speaker 1: I was, yeah, yes, I just wanted a real nice palm. 1692 01:26:03,840 --> 01:26:07,400 Speaker 1: I went around twice one time, little. 1693 01:26:10,320 --> 01:26:10,519 Speaker 4: Good. 1694 01:26:14,400 --> 01:26:14,599 Speaker 6: Hey. 1695 01:26:15,720 --> 01:26:18,960 Speaker 1: Let me say this for closing remarks. You know, earlier. 1696 01:26:20,439 --> 01:26:23,240 Speaker 7: A guy called in and was saying that, Steve, you've 1697 01:26:23,240 --> 01:26:27,040 Speaker 7: been saying often that you've never had a if you notice, 1698 01:26:27,080 --> 01:26:29,519 Speaker 7: you've never had a hater doing better than you. And 1699 01:26:29,720 --> 01:26:31,800 Speaker 7: he said, I want to disagree, and you might want 1700 01:26:31,840 --> 01:26:35,200 Speaker 7: to consider to stop saying that. Because of the two 1701 01:26:35,280 --> 01:26:37,519 Speaker 7: people in the White House. He was referring to Donald 1702 01:26:37,560 --> 01:26:40,960 Speaker 7: Trump and Elon Musk. He said, they're haters and they're 1703 01:26:41,040 --> 01:26:45,960 Speaker 7: doing better than us. Uh. Just for clarification, You're free 1704 01:26:46,040 --> 01:26:48,519 Speaker 7: to think and feel however you want to feel if 1705 01:26:48,560 --> 01:26:52,519 Speaker 7: you think they're haters. But what my statement was really 1706 01:26:52,720 --> 01:26:58,120 Speaker 7: telling people is on a personal level, you you will 1707 01:26:58,240 --> 01:27:04,080 Speaker 7: never have a hater that's doing better than you. You 1708 01:27:04,200 --> 01:27:07,280 Speaker 7: see what I mean, And it's all the hate that 1709 01:27:07,320 --> 01:27:09,439 Speaker 7: I'm talking about is on a personal level. When you 1710 01:27:09,560 --> 01:27:12,240 Speaker 7: go up to that level right there, you're talking about 1711 01:27:12,240 --> 01:27:16,360 Speaker 7: people who can pass policy, who can pass laws, who 1712 01:27:16,439 --> 01:27:22,120 Speaker 7: can implement policy that changes a sweeping change across many 1713 01:27:22,200 --> 01:27:27,120 Speaker 7: different platforms, and it would include you heard them, they everybody. 1714 01:27:28,280 --> 01:27:35,479 Speaker 7: So you don't really have a personal relationship with either 1715 01:27:35,560 --> 01:27:38,280 Speaker 7: one of those people in the White House. So I 1716 01:27:38,320 --> 01:27:41,880 Speaker 7: don't consider them haters. They are a whole nother level. 1717 01:27:41,960 --> 01:27:42,160 Speaker 9: Man. 1718 01:27:43,280 --> 01:27:46,439 Speaker 7: But what I try to guard people against is the 1719 01:27:46,479 --> 01:27:48,560 Speaker 7: people who can say or do something to you that 1720 01:27:48,680 --> 01:27:52,439 Speaker 7: affects your mood, your position, and the way you go 1721 01:27:52,560 --> 01:27:59,800 Speaker 7: about your day. Because people allow people allow some people 1722 01:27:59,880 --> 01:28:04,000 Speaker 7: in their life to have an effect on their attitude, 1723 01:28:04,439 --> 01:28:06,120 Speaker 7: their direction, and their decisions. 1724 01:28:06,520 --> 01:28:07,400 Speaker 6: And you shouldn't. 1725 01:28:08,000 --> 01:28:12,080 Speaker 7: Here's the one thing I've learned about. I stop taking 1726 01:28:12,280 --> 01:28:17,920 Speaker 7: criticism from people I wouldn't take advice from. I stopped 1727 01:28:18,000 --> 01:28:22,400 Speaker 7: that because, man, it's think about it. When you get 1728 01:28:22,479 --> 01:28:25,640 Speaker 7: hated on on your job, when you get hated on 1729 01:28:25,840 --> 01:28:28,960 Speaker 7: in your family, when you got what you thought was 1730 01:28:29,040 --> 01:28:32,400 Speaker 7: a friend who's turning around hating on you. When you 1731 01:28:32,640 --> 01:28:38,519 Speaker 7: think about this, it can be so nonproductive if you 1732 01:28:38,760 --> 01:28:42,400 Speaker 7: give credence to it. If you allow a person to 1733 01:28:42,520 --> 01:28:44,800 Speaker 7: make a statement about you and then it affects how 1734 01:28:44,880 --> 01:28:48,479 Speaker 7: you feel that day, and they're saying something negative about you, 1735 01:28:49,400 --> 01:28:50,200 Speaker 7: that's a hater. 1736 01:28:50,960 --> 01:28:52,200 Speaker 6: Well, you can control that. 1737 01:28:52,640 --> 01:28:56,760 Speaker 7: You have control of that, and I'm employing everybody to 1738 01:28:56,880 --> 01:28:58,519 Speaker 7: get control of your life. 1739 01:28:59,320 --> 01:28:59,840 Speaker 1: Listen to me. 1740 01:29:00,520 --> 01:29:05,720 Speaker 7: I have decided I have given no one cause permission. 1741 01:29:06,560 --> 01:29:10,880 Speaker 7: I have given no one permission to control me, to 1742 01:29:11,080 --> 01:29:15,240 Speaker 7: disgust me, and to affect me that I don't know. 1743 01:29:15,520 --> 01:29:18,320 Speaker 7: You have no you have no permission. So when you 1744 01:29:18,479 --> 01:29:22,760 Speaker 7: online and people commenting on your picture, your likes, or 1745 01:29:22,840 --> 01:29:25,880 Speaker 7: are making comments and your comment section on your social media, 1746 01:29:26,360 --> 01:29:28,760 Speaker 7: do you understand that there's people sitting around all day 1747 01:29:28,800 --> 01:29:30,920 Speaker 7: and all they do is troll the internet to find 1748 01:29:31,000 --> 01:29:33,720 Speaker 7: something to say something negative about it's negative people that 1749 01:29:33,800 --> 01:29:37,519 Speaker 7: wake up and you allowing this person who you don't 1750 01:29:37,600 --> 01:29:41,400 Speaker 7: even know affect you. I have several policies like number one. 1751 01:29:41,439 --> 01:29:44,160 Speaker 7: I just told y'all, I said, I do not take 1752 01:29:44,280 --> 01:29:48,080 Speaker 7: criticism from people I would not take advice from. I 1753 01:29:48,360 --> 01:29:53,040 Speaker 7: also don't allow people's opinion of me who don't have 1754 01:29:53,240 --> 01:29:57,920 Speaker 7: my cell number to affect me. I also have a 1755 01:29:58,040 --> 01:30:02,080 Speaker 7: policy if I don't know I know you, that's probably 1756 01:30:02,160 --> 01:30:07,600 Speaker 7: a reason why. So why would I give you permission 1757 01:30:08,200 --> 01:30:10,760 Speaker 7: to have a level of importance in my life that 1758 01:30:10,840 --> 01:30:13,240 Speaker 7: would affect anything in my day to day when you 1759 01:30:13,280 --> 01:30:18,200 Speaker 7: don't even know me. Y'all, take control of your life 1760 01:30:18,520 --> 01:30:23,280 Speaker 7: by not giving people permission. You don't have to give 1761 01:30:23,320 --> 01:30:24,360 Speaker 7: a person permission. 1762 01:30:25,439 --> 01:30:26,080 Speaker 1: You don't have to. 1763 01:30:27,640 --> 01:30:29,240 Speaker 6: Man, you could just do this to people. 1764 01:30:29,479 --> 01:30:32,439 Speaker 1: You could just give them deuces. Bye. 1765 01:30:33,320 --> 01:30:37,640 Speaker 7: Look, man, it is such a freeing thing to be 1766 01:30:37,720 --> 01:30:39,960 Speaker 7: able to control your life because all you got to 1767 01:30:40,000 --> 01:30:45,400 Speaker 7: do is control the way you respond. Stop responding to 1768 01:30:45,600 --> 01:30:49,880 Speaker 7: people who don't know you, stop responding to people who 1769 01:30:49,960 --> 01:30:53,599 Speaker 7: don't have your cell number, and stop taking criticism from 1770 01:30:53,680 --> 01:30:56,400 Speaker 7: people you wouldn't take advice from. If you could do 1771 01:30:56,560 --> 01:30:59,679 Speaker 7: those things right now, you have taken back the control. 1772 01:31:00,439 --> 01:31:01,640 Speaker 6: You know, I use this as not. 1773 01:31:02,360 --> 01:31:05,040 Speaker 7: I've used this example all the time about Martin Luther King. 1774 01:31:05,439 --> 01:31:08,040 Speaker 7: Martin Luther King said, a person can't ride your back 1775 01:31:08,160 --> 01:31:12,280 Speaker 7: unless you bend over. I don't bend over. You're not 1776 01:31:12,400 --> 01:31:17,360 Speaker 7: climbing on my back because I'm not bending over. I 1777 01:31:17,560 --> 01:31:23,160 Speaker 7: don't give you permission. God Almighty is the architect and 1778 01:31:23,520 --> 01:31:28,200 Speaker 7: author of my destiny and my future, where I'm headed 1779 01:31:28,280 --> 01:31:31,400 Speaker 7: and where I'm going. I have given him total permission 1780 01:31:31,680 --> 01:31:35,240 Speaker 7: to guide me as you will. And you ain't in that. 1781 01:31:35,479 --> 01:31:38,479 Speaker 7: You ain't in the scriptures. You ain't in none of 1782 01:31:38,560 --> 01:31:41,559 Speaker 7: his promises. You ain't in none of my. 1783 01:31:41,640 --> 01:31:42,559 Speaker 1: Hopes and dreams. 1784 01:31:43,400 --> 01:31:45,600 Speaker 7: Thank you for whatever you want to feel about me, 1785 01:31:45,760 --> 01:31:49,920 Speaker 7: but as it has no effect on it. Ladies and Jay, 1786 01:31:50,520 --> 01:31:55,360 Speaker 7: have yourself a great thing. Talk to God because he 1787 01:31:55,400 --> 01:31:56,519 Speaker 7: would love to hear from you. 1788 01:31:56,680 --> 01:31:59,919 Speaker 12: For all Steve Harvey contacts. No purchase necessary, void We're prohibited. 1789 01:32:00,080 --> 01:32:03,559 Speaker 12: Participants must be legal US residents at least eighteen years old, 1790 01:32:03,720 --> 01:32:08,559 Speaker 12: unless otherwise stated. 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