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Speaker 1: gonna open up to you guys real quick. Appropriate to

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Speaker 1: talk about on a first date politics, yes or no? No.

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Speaker 1: I wouldn't want to talk politics on a first date either.

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Speaker 1: But the guy for the second date update today Marshall

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Speaker 1: What's up, Marshall, how are you doing? I'm good. I'd

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Speaker 1: a good. So you actually had the nerve to talk

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Speaker 1: voting caucus or what. Yeah. Now you know, like economy

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Speaker 1: is pretty much something that everyone talking about, sequestering. It's

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Speaker 1: really hot on a first date. Yeah, tell us about

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Speaker 1: the date. First of all, the girl that you went

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Speaker 1: I actually not her had a sports bar. We're both

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Speaker 1: Kind of hit it off a little bit, okay, and

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Speaker 1: you asked her out to dinner. Yeah I did. She's

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Speaker 1: funny women. So, uh, your email said that your date

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Speaker 1: was better than normal? What does that mean? Normally a

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Speaker 1: first date can be a little awkward, right, I mean

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Speaker 1: I've never actually had as much fun, you know, on

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Speaker 1: So how did the date end? It actually kind of

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Speaker 1: So I just kind of ended like that the headache,

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Speaker 1: didn't I have to go home? Excuse? Didn't? I believe her?

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Speaker 1: Not really? I mean it was it's the first date,

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Speaker 1: But I didn't necessarily have any proofs. So it's like, um,

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Speaker 1: Did you no, I'm not that smooth, marshall? Can I

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Speaker 1: Because I feel like bringing up politics. It could lead

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Speaker 1: into a debate or people's feelings get hurt. Not that

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Speaker 1: I remember, I don't. I didn't feel like anything was awkward.

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Speaker 1: I I really liked it. So I decided to send

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Speaker 1: her some flowers to her to her job after the date,

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Speaker 1: just to kind of say, hey, you know, I had

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Speaker 1: a good time. It's what kind of flowers would you say?

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Speaker 1: On the note? I sent some lilies and I just said, hey,

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Speaker 1: I had a great time and I'd love to take

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Speaker 1: even a thank you text or anything. Nothing. I got

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Speaker 1: nothing back from that. I would be so excited to

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Speaker 1: get flowers after a first date. How long has it

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Speaker 1: been since you've seen her? Maybe a couple of weeks.

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Speaker 1: All right, we're gonna play a song, come right back,

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Speaker 1: and then call her and get your second day up date. Okay, okay,

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Speaker 1: all right, bring the action frooking jubil in the morning. Update.

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Speaker 1: All right, Marshall, people weren't listening to the first part

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Speaker 1: of your second date update. You went out with a

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Speaker 1: girl named Alison, You had a great time, You talked

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Speaker 1: your first date and never got a response from her. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: think that it could have been. I don't know. You

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Speaker 1: you that, right, You didn't just like stalk her down somewhere. No, No,

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Speaker 1: I didn't know. I didn't stalk her. I guys, like

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Speaker 1: that information came out. Okay, yeah, like she told you.

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Speaker 1: That's important. All right, We're gonna call her right now.

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Speaker 1: all right, hang on. Hello, Hey is Alison there? This

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Speaker 1: is Allison Alison. How are you. This is Jewel from

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Speaker 1: Brook and Jewel in the morning. I'm moving ninety two

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Speaker 1: the name of Marshall. Yes, the reason that I made

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Speaker 1: on our show we do a seven called the second

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Speaker 1: Date Update. This is where someone goes on a date

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Speaker 1: email us to ask that person why Marshall emailed us

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Speaker 1: about you. He's wondering why he can't get a response

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Speaker 1: this is kind of weird. I don't know. Like when

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Speaker 1: hostess said, oh, he's not working tonight, and his eyes

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Speaker 1: where you work to like get a discount on your date, Well,

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Speaker 1: he's paying for it, right, he gets like a discount

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Speaker 1: there he works there. I think that's not fair. Hold

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Speaker 1: on a second, that's that's really the reason why he

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Speaker 1: me back because I'm a waiter. Well, I just don't

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Speaker 1: Do you understand what you're saying now? Some people can

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Speaker 1: be career service people though, Alison, Yeah, I'm working my

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Speaker 1: like that's my career. Yeah, but you weren't like forthcoming

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Speaker 1: how that's negative. Well, it just seems cheap to take

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Speaker 1: me to that place where you work. Marshall, real quick

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Speaker 1: I mean I asked him, like what he did for

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Speaker 1: that restaurant. So you guys hit it off. But you

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Speaker 1: comes to like money. Do you expect a man to

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Speaker 1: like clever and dating to at least be like on

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Speaker 1: the same level as me. I don't want to have

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Speaker 1: to be like constantly taking care of stuff. That's not fair.

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Speaker 1: You didn't have to take care of me on the date.

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Speaker 1: You don't even know how much I mean, I guess

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Speaker 1: is a very nice, expensive restaurant. Yeah, but I also

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Speaker 1: don't know how much discount you got so you can

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Speaker 1: afford the flowers at least. Come on. There's some waiters like,

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Speaker 1: if you're a waiter at canass you're making six figures. Yeah, absolutely, Well,

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Speaker 1: what guy wants a data girl that is only cares

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Speaker 1: mind that though. Really. Yeah, at the end of these

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Speaker 1: we always offer a second date. We will pay for it.

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Speaker 1: M M. Marshall, Alison, the radio station makes enough money

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Speaker 1: to afford your taste. We will send you out with

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Speaker 1: Marshall again. If you go on a second date with him,

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Speaker 1: do you want to? You know, I mean, he's a

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Speaker 1: nice guy. Probably don't think we should waste her time

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Speaker 1: on each other? Though. Wow, all right, Wow, that's cool.

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Speaker 1: That's cool. My restaurant will have one less customers. Alison,

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Speaker 1: you better open open up your options here and stop

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Speaker 1: judging people so much about what they make right now,

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Speaker 1: not really that. I just want somebody has their life together,

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Speaker 1: a gold digger in the morning. There was a time

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Speaker 1: I used to look into my father's side