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Speaker 1: It is time to ask the clo. Our chief love Officer,

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Speaker 1: Steve Harvey, Ready, clo, Yes, here we go.

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Speaker 2: I like that.

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Speaker 1: Here we go. This is from Laverne in Philly. Laverne writes,

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Speaker 1: I loaned my boyfriend some money instead of trying to

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Speaker 1: get a job. He's been trying to repay me with sex.

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Speaker 1: I'd rather have my money. He said he won't work

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Speaker 1: on a regular nine to five? Is that pride or foolishness?

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Speaker 1: Do I take the l and break up with this guy?

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Speaker 3: He ain't gonna work a nine to five?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, he said he can't work a regular.

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Speaker 3: Okay, well what what's what?

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Speaker 2: What?

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Speaker 3: What are he gonna do?

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Speaker 2: Well, he's repaying her with sex?

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Speaker 3: So this is his name, Sisco.

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Speaker 2: She didn't say his name. Her name. Her name is Lavern.

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Speaker 3: Her name is Laverne.

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Speaker 2: Her name is Laverne.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Laverne. How hold it? Harold Vern?

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Speaker 2: That goes together better?

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Speaker 4: You loaned him some money. He wants to pay you

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Speaker 4: back in sex? Was that the agreement?

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Speaker 3: See?

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Speaker 4: And then he don't want to get a job, he

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Speaker 4: can't working on nine to five? Well what's the plan though?

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Speaker 2: There?

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Speaker 4: Ish you need to borrow money, but you don't want

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Speaker 4: to work a job. You didn't take the money to

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Speaker 4: start a business. So when you need money next time,

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Speaker 4: what's it for? He setting you up, sister, You need

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Speaker 4: to walk away. He's setting you up. Break up with

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Speaker 4: because he gonna need money again, because he didn't take

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Speaker 4: this money and like buy t shirts and gonna resell

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Speaker 4: them and nothing like that. Or buy a bunch of

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Speaker 4: oranges and got out there and trying to sell them

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Speaker 4: for double He ain't even get a grocery card.

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Speaker 3: He ain't doing nothing.

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Speaker 1: All right, We're gonna move on. Break up with them,

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Speaker 1: Laverne Colo says, uh. Moving on to Darnell and Tampa.

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Speaker 1: Darnell says, my child's mother got into a fight at

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Speaker 1: the club and I walked on by with my girlfriend

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Speaker 1: when we got.

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Speaker 2: Into the car. Wait, check this out though.

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Speaker 1: When we got into the car, my girl was upset

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Speaker 1: because I didn't help my child's mom. I thought I

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Speaker 1: was doing right by my girlfriend. Was I supposed to

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Speaker 1: break up the fight?

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Speaker 5: Well, it's interesting, right, Yeah, that's a hard one. Yeah,

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Speaker 5: because if you do your if you don't, if she

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Speaker 5: was in a fight with another girl breaking it up

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Speaker 5: or another dude, you gotta break that up.

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Speaker 3: If dude hit me, you gotta stop that.

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Speaker 4: But if it's two girls fighting, yeah, breaking it up

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Speaker 4: would have been a smart thing to do. But yes,

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Speaker 4: you know it could have went the wrong way too.

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Speaker 4: Oh so oh so you must still be in love

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Speaker 4: you over there, old exus, you captain save You know

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Speaker 4: you're gonna hear all that. So when you just started,

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Speaker 4: what way you got a cape in your bag or

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Speaker 4: something I ain't seen yet.

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Speaker 2: You know she wants she wants his girlfriend.

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Speaker 4: She didn't say that till he got in the car.

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Speaker 4: She could they would She walked by, she saw the fight.

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Speaker 4: Help up, yeah, dimitrious, help up? Break up that, and

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Speaker 4: then he would have known to do it. He said,

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Speaker 4: My baby's mama got in a fight in the club.

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Speaker 4: I was with my girlfriend. I walked on by.

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Speaker 3: Yeah you was. He was trying to stay in the cliff.

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Speaker 2: M all right.

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Speaker 3: So that's the mother of your child. Yeah, yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 3: i'd have broke up to fight myself.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly, all right.

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Speaker 1: Moving on to Benita and Denver, Benita writes, an old

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Speaker 1: boyfriend called me and I answered my phone on feaker

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Speaker 1: like I normally do. My husband was sitting right there,

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Speaker 1: and it was a totally innocent call. But my husband

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Speaker 1: can't stop asking about the guy. How do I assure

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Speaker 1: him that I don't want my ex?

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Speaker 4: Why was you sitting up having a conversation with him in.

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Speaker 3: Front of your husb? Who does that? Why take that?

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Speaker 4: You should have ignored that phone call? He needed to

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Speaker 4: be blocked. Why he got your number? Your husband got

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Speaker 4: every right to ask questions because all you gotta do

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Speaker 4: is reverse it. Y'all sitting up on the couch watching TV.

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Speaker 4: His ex calls him. He started talking to her. You

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Speaker 4: ain't gonna have no problem with that. I think you are?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, correct?

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Speaker 2: So how does she assure him that she doesn't want you?

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Speaker 2: Stop talking to him?

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Speaker 4: You need to relate, block him, apologize to your husband, Hey, hey,

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Speaker 4: or let your husband watch you call him and say, hey,

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Speaker 4: you cannot call me anymore, lose my number and I'm

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Speaker 4: gonna block you.

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Speaker 3: You can try that, okay? All right? And Benita too

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Speaker 3: old for that? Her name Benita, she too old for that.

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Speaker 2: We've had a Laverne this morning of Darnell and Harowl.

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Speaker 3: Carolyn was the one who called.

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Speaker 1: All right, last one, Steve, last one, Celo. This one's

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Speaker 1: from Roland in Minneapolis, Roland writes, I'm dating a woman

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Speaker 1: that loves church so much that she prays before sex

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Speaker 1: and thanks God afterwards. All right, much, I feel uneasy

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Speaker 1: about it because we're fornicating. How can this woman be

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Speaker 1: so saved and sanctified while being so nasty in the bedroom.

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Speaker 4: I'll lead why she prayed? I'll lead over and say, hey,

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Speaker 4: listen to me, just this wee to go down. This

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Speaker 4: ain't got nothing to do with to Lord, she stopped

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Speaker 4: talking to him. Stop talking to him. This ain't got

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Speaker 4: nothing to do ready.

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Speaker 3: What's so prayer? Dog? What she's saying to them? Well, Lord,

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Speaker 3: please less union as we lie here and commit this

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Speaker 3: atrocity of sin. Forgive them for they not they not.

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Speaker 4: Know, but if you will, But what, let it be

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Speaker 4: great Father, Let it be something. I can't even play

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Speaker 4: like this. This, this is going wrong right here. I

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Speaker 4: can't even play that that.

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Speaker 2: But hey, hold up.

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Speaker 3: Lord, forgive me that stay out that joke.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, she does think him afterwards too, mm hmm.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, Well that's a sign of home Yeah, that's a

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Speaker 4: sign that homeboy was in there.

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Speaker 2: Helly been bringing it like you would say.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's crazy. Yeah, wow, But Steve, Okay, I want

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Speaker 1: to go back to the to the child's mother and

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Speaker 1: the and the fight and the club. You said you

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Speaker 1: would have stopped and broken up the fight, But this

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Speaker 1: guy thought he was doing the right thing by just

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Speaker 1: moving on.

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Speaker 2: You know, he didn't want to deal with it.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I know, because he was trying to show his

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Speaker 4: loyalty to his girlfriend.

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Speaker 3: That you mattered to me most.

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Speaker 4: But the girlfriend happened to be a decent girl, going,

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Speaker 4: that's your baby's mama. You should have helped her. She's

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Speaker 4: being decent. So what he discovered is that this girl

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Speaker 4: he's dating is really a good person. Yeah, and would

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Speaker 4: not have minded him stopping.

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Speaker 3: But why she ain't saying nothing doing the butter coo?

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Speaker 3: Why she ain't saying nothing? Why she wait till she

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Speaker 3: got to the car? He said, why she would because she.

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Speaker 4: Wanted to get in that because somebody was getting whooped.

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Speaker 4: She saw that and let me just go get in

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Speaker 4: this car, because you know, a woman jump just ain't

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Speaker 4: got nothing to do with you have fa you know.

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Speaker 1: And the next thing you know, she all right, Thank

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