WEBVTT - “SHOULD I HAVE A THREESOME WITH MY NEIGHBORS?”

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<v Speaker 1>Hello, Hello, what's up? What's your name? Oh?

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<v Speaker 2>My god, it is bro. This is sick. I'm going

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<v Speaker 2>by Coraly.

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<v Speaker 1>Coraly. That's like that movie.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh that's Coraline.

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<v Speaker 1>I said it was like that movie.

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<v Speaker 2>Sure, this is based on a character in a show

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<v Speaker 2>with Debbie Ryan.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, so this is what your name is? Your name

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<v Speaker 1>is based on a fictional character. Your fake name?

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<v Speaker 2>Correct? Correct?

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<v Speaker 1>What's what tell me about this character?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh?

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<v Speaker 3>God, she's like a mom who.

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<v Speaker 2>Is like this southern woman who grew up in a

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<v Speaker 2>trailer park and she like has a threeesome of her

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<v Speaker 2>husband and her husband's like rival and it's like it's

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<v Speaker 2>a crazy show. It's called a Insatiable You should watch it.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you? Did you pick that name because you like

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<v Speaker 1>the character or because you feel like you have something

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<v Speaker 1>in common with them?

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<v Speaker 2>Because I like the character. She was a good actress.

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<v Speaker 2>She's just funny.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, Corally Chorally? Uh is there a reason you called today, Coraly?

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<v Speaker 3>Yes?

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<v Speaker 2>I want to talk about my recent move to New York.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh cool? Where where from.

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<v Speaker 2>From Vermont?

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<v Speaker 1>And how has it been going?

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<v Speaker 2>It is okay, it doesn't feel realized. I feel like

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like on vacation.

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<v Speaker 4>Still move to New York.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>I was having like a coral life crisis and I

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<v Speaker 2>was kind of like in a dead end, like working

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<v Speaker 2>at a diner, and I don't know, I just want

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<v Speaker 2>to change a pace. Before I was like forty or

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<v Speaker 2>four kids, you know, I was like, I want to

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<v Speaker 2>live in the city and live it up a little bit.

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<v Speaker 1>And Okay, you called in to want to talk about

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<v Speaker 1>your move, anything specifically about it.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I guess, Well, I know you're talking about stuff

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<v Speaker 2>whole time, but I just.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't have a job. I moved here without a job.

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<v Speaker 2>I have like no friends. I have like two friends

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<v Speaker 2>who live here, and I'm just trying to navigate that.

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<v Speaker 2>It's it's kind of hard to find a job. I'm

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<v Speaker 2>like just trying to get a serving job. But I

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<v Speaker 2>guess I'm being late. It's kind of lot to work.

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<v Speaker 2>You have to print out your resume and go around

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<v Speaker 2>and introduce yourself everywhere.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, well you meet in New York City, correct?

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<v Speaker 2>Correct? Yeah, Brooklyn?

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<v Speaker 1>How long have you been in Brooklyn?

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<v Speaker 2>Like three weeks?

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<v Speaker 1>You've been here even if it's three weeks. Where you

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<v Speaker 1>are you living with people?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>I have one roommate.

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<v Speaker 1>How do you pay the rent.

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<v Speaker 2>Well I have, I'm living off with savings right now.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh okay, all right, how long how long do you

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<v Speaker 1>have until those savings run out?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh?

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<v Speaker 2>Jeez, uh a couple months. I'm a little bit of

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<v Speaker 2>a safety in that.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay. Here's the thing about New York City, and this

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<v Speaker 1>is here's the thing about New York City. And this

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<v Speaker 1>is I think why a lot of people live there

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<v Speaker 1>is New York City is filled with rich people and

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<v Speaker 1>poor people, and neither of them have enough money. It

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<v Speaker 1>is a city that forever tells you that you don't

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<v Speaker 1>have enough money, and so that encourages you to It's

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<v Speaker 1>a place you like it. Like nobody retires and then

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<v Speaker 1>moves to New York City because just existing in New York,

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<v Speaker 1>like because it's so fucking expensive and crazy, and everyone

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<v Speaker 1>like moves there to like chase their dreams and stuff

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<v Speaker 1>like it. It's the kind of the point of being there. Weird.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a weird thing, but like the point of being

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<v Speaker 1>there is to like feel the fire under your ass,

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<v Speaker 1>like and this is this is this is mainly for

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<v Speaker 1>people who move. This is not really if you if

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<v Speaker 1>you just happen to be berthed into New York City

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<v Speaker 1>and you're getting fucked by it. I feel for you,

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<v Speaker 1>But if you move to New York City, you kind

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<v Speaker 1>of move in there to like have the uh, the

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<v Speaker 1>fire under your ass, you.

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<v Speaker 2>Know, to make totally I'm not accepting any pity. I

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<v Speaker 2>knew what I was going into, but it's definitely lonelier

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<v Speaker 2>than I thought. But but that will come a time.

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<v Speaker 2>I gotta like find my community.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, you've been there for three weeks.

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<v Speaker 2>I know. It's not what am I doing?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, well, what have you been doing for those three weeks?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh god, I'm like wandering around shopping. I did hnd

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<v Speaker 2>out some resumes. I was becoming a regular diner around here,

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<v Speaker 2>climbing the fire skates to watch the sunrise on my roof.

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<v Speaker 1>You're doing great, I see you. You're that's a great

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<v Speaker 1>first three weeks in New.

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<v Speaker 2>York, right, that's like, this is like New York City thing.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I asked you a random question.

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<v Speaker 1>You can ask me a random question.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, have you ever had a threeesome? I?

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<v Speaker 1>I am what makes you want to ask me this?

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<v Speaker 2>Because because I met my neighbor the other day and

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<v Speaker 2>he asked me out the blue if I would have

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<v Speaker 2>a three sim at him and his girlfriend. I've just

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<v Speaker 2>been thinking about it, like I didn't say yes, but

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't say no. But I'm like, oh god, I

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<v Speaker 2>don't know if I can do that, like with a

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<v Speaker 2>close intimate couple, Like I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>Wait, the fact that you didn't immediately, because this doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>sound like a story of like a creepy thing. The

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<v Speaker 1>way you're responding to it, it seems like you have

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<v Speaker 1>some form of interest.

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<v Speaker 2>Like kind of like I kind of just want to

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<v Speaker 2>do it for the plot. I was like on porn Hub,

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<v Speaker 2>like researching last night. I don't even know what to do,

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<v Speaker 2>Like I'm not I'm like straight, I don't even know

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<v Speaker 2>if I would enjoy that.

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<v Speaker 1>But what did you find in your research?

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<v Speaker 2>Uh? I was just like, I mean, I guess that's

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<v Speaker 2>all staged. Most of porn Hub is staged, but it's

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<v Speaker 2>not really authentic. But just like the different positions like

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<v Speaker 2>who's where, who's make out who? Like, I don't know,

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<v Speaker 2>I've never really thought about it too deeply.

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<v Speaker 4>Hmm.

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<v Speaker 2>Answered my question, would you would.

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<v Speaker 3>You want to?

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<v Speaker 1>Would I would I want to? Yeah, Well it depends

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<v Speaker 1>on this scenario. I don't think if that guy I asked.

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<v Speaker 1>If that guy asked me if I wanted to have

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<v Speaker 1>a threesome with him and his wife, I'd probably m

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<v Speaker 1>I was gonna say, I'd probably say no, but shit, wait,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what actually you know what well, I'm well,

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<v Speaker 1>I you know, I'm actually you know what's funny is

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<v Speaker 1>I'm really thinking about this. Like if a guy okay,

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<v Speaker 1>if like some guy down the hall from me I

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<v Speaker 1>had like a hot wife and they were both like

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<v Speaker 1>do you want to have a threesome with me? I

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<v Speaker 1>would I feel where you're at because I would genuinely

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<v Speaker 1>probably feel the same ways you do.

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<v Speaker 2>Like it's kind of exciting, like should I like, I'm like.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I'm if they were like okay, if they

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<v Speaker 1>were like do you want to have a threesome? But

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<v Speaker 1>you also you have to like like like my husband,

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<v Speaker 1>like I also want my husband to like, uh you know,

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<v Speaker 1>like be like be involved with you. I I don't

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<v Speaker 1>think i'd be into it. But if it was just

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<v Speaker 1>like if it was like okay, we'll just do it,

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<v Speaker 1>and like it'll be like a porn thing where it's

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<v Speaker 1>like you know, I okay, I'm going to take this

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<v Speaker 1>position over here. Okay, you go over there and we'll

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<v Speaker 1>uh you know what I mean. Like, if there's like

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<v Speaker 1>something like that, I think I could be something like that.

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<v Speaker 1>I would still be like apprehensive about it. I'd be

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<v Speaker 1>like you, I'd be like, well, it's not like my

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<v Speaker 1>preferred thing and I'm straight, but but it would be

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<v Speaker 1>and it would be interesting for the plot.

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<v Speaker 3>I agree, right, Like it'd be a cool story, but like, yeah, I'm.

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<v Speaker 2>In my neighbor, like, I don't know, that'd be kind

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<v Speaker 2>of fun. I guess yeah, I would before, but I.

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<v Speaker 1>Would probably do it for the plot myself.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, okay, mm hmm, thanks for your opinion.

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<v Speaker 1>Was are you attracted to this couple? So I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know if there's anything more to mine.

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<v Speaker 4>Here, But.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't I met the girlfriend, so like not really,

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<v Speaker 2>I feel I shouldn't do it. I feel like I'm

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<v Speaker 2>just doing it for the wrong reasons.

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<v Speaker 1>The only objectively right reason to have sex is to reproduce.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that's true, right, even that, I don't even.

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<v Speaker 1>Know if I don't even know, if I don't even

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<v Speaker 1>agree with what I just said. I don't think they're

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<v Speaker 1>really no, Yeah, well I don't I don't know if

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<v Speaker 1>object I don't know if Okay, it's the only biologically

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<v Speaker 1>for a biological lens, if you want to view life

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<v Speaker 1>through a biological lens, there's no real reason to have

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<v Speaker 1>sex other than reproduction. But we live life far beyond

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<v Speaker 1>the biological lens into more humanistic So I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>is should do what you want? That could be fun.

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<v Speaker 1>You've only been here for three you should stop. See

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<v Speaker 1>that's the thing. You've been here for three weeks and

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<v Speaker 1>you've watched the sunset, You've been propositioned for a threesome,

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<v Speaker 1>and you've handed out your resume a couple of times.

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<v Speaker 1>You're doing good. You're gonna You're gonna have There is

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<v Speaker 1>gonna be so many more things that happened to you.

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<v Speaker 4>You're right as.

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<v Speaker 1>Life goes on, so don't freak out. Maybe you make

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<v Speaker 1>friends with them.

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<v Speaker 5>Maybe if you be I'm definitely becoming friends with this guy.

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<v Speaker 5>So yeah, thanks, I knew that reassurance. Have you ever

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<v Speaker 5>thought about so I was lastly like random high.

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<v Speaker 4>Thought, that's okay.

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<v Speaker 2>Have you ever thought about what it'd be like to

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<v Speaker 2>be like pray, Like if you're like a small mouse

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<v Speaker 2>living in the world, like your life would be so

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<v Speaker 2>scary you just be like thinking about food and hiding

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<v Speaker 2>and thking care of your family all time.

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<v Speaker 1>I think about food and hiding, I think.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I guess people do that too.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, no, I've thought. I've thought about what it's like

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<v Speaker 1>to be like a critter.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, critter.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, horrible life. I like being horrible life.

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<v Speaker 2>They don't know any different. So I like being human too.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, get this, you might be in the same position

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<v Speaker 1>as the rat rat you know, okay, because you could

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<v Speaker 1>be there could be a thing that's more conscious than

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<v Speaker 1>you are, that's so much better to be than what

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<v Speaker 1>you are, which is what like a mouse is, right,

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<v Speaker 1>which is what a mouse?

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<v Speaker 2>God like alien and of things high power.

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<v Speaker 1>There could be like, yeah, you wouldn't know. There could

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<v Speaker 1>be like a like an immortal being of of greater

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<v Speaker 1>pleasure and intelligence and whatever, but you don't don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>And honestly, that being could exist, and that being could

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<v Speaker 1>sit around being like, Oh, I wish I was a

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<v Speaker 1>dumb human and then I wouldn't be so tortured by

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<v Speaker 1>my hyper awareness and intellect of the mechanisms of the

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<v Speaker 1>greater universe. I wish I could just get high and

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<v Speaker 1>play video games like the humans do.

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<v Speaker 2>Wow, I actually didn't really think about that, and I'll

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<v Speaker 2>be thinking about that all night.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you have any other questions?

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<v Speaker 2>I'm sorry. Everyone says like they get nervous, like it's true,

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<v Speaker 2>like I don't really like this more questions.

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<v Speaker 1>It's okay, you don't have to I don't.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't.

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<v Speaker 2>Honestly, I don't know. I can't think of any other spot.

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<v Speaker 1>Uh, Caroline, Caroline, Corally, Coraally. We were getting quarterly coral.

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<v Speaker 1>If you if you text your friends with an update

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<v Speaker 1>four times a year, you'd be giving quarterly corally updates.

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<v Speaker 2>That's good.

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<v Speaker 3>I like that.

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<v Speaker 1>Is there anything else you want to say to the

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<v Speaker 1>people of the computer before we go.

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<v Speaker 2>We're just gonna make in the podcast, you.

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<v Speaker 1>Know, Yeah, probably.

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<v Speaker 3>Good.

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<v Speaker 2>I won't say yourself. And life's not that serious, and yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>live it up, swag.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you, Coral. Good rest of your entire life. I'll

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<v Speaker 1>see you on the streets.

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<v Speaker 2>Be on the fliplow.

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<v Speaker 4>All.

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<v Speaker 1>But that was Coraly, who not to be confused with Coraline,

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<v Speaker 1>which is a different thing. Hello.

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<v Speaker 3>Hello, can you hear me?

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<v Speaker 4>No?

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<v Speaker 1>I can. What's your name?

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<v Speaker 3>Stella? Oh my gosh, I didn't think i'd actually get through. Sorry,

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<v Speaker 3>I know it literally everyone sees this when they when

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<v Speaker 3>they call in. But oh my gosh.

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<v Speaker 1>That's the thing, man, That's what's weird about life is

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<v Speaker 1>you never think it'll happen to you, but then it does.

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<v Speaker 1>Sometimes it's something good, Sometimes it's something good. I assume

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<v Speaker 1>this is good. I assume you want it, you want

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<v Speaker 1>to be here. Sometimes it's something good. Sometimes it's something bad.

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<v Speaker 1>You get you know, in a car crash or stuck

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<v Speaker 1>by struck by lightning, and you're like, oh, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>think that would happen to me, but it does. And

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<v Speaker 1>that was a really depressing way to start this phone call,

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<v Speaker 1>which I would prefer if it wasn't depressing, or I actually,

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<v Speaker 1>I guess I don't have a preference. I want this

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<v Speaker 1>phone call to be whatever it is. I'm gonna shut up.

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<v Speaker 1>Can you remember your name one more time? And I

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<v Speaker 1>will never forget it ever again, so long as I live.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, you'll definitely never forget it, right, Stella, Stella, Stella?

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<v Speaker 1>Was there a particular reason why you called me to then?

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<v Speaker 3>I was just trying to think about that while the

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<v Speaker 3>phone was ringing again. I didn't think i'd actually get through.

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<v Speaker 3>I know, I have lots of good things and bad

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<v Speaker 3>things in my life. I don't know. Should we talk

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<v Speaker 3>about something?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, well I have a question. Okay, So you have

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<v Speaker 1>an American phone number, but you sound Australian.

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<v Speaker 3>No, I'm not Australian. Again.

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<v Speaker 1>You're in New Zealand.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah yeah, yeah, good? Guess why?

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<v Speaker 1>How what are you doing in America?

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<v Speaker 3>I came here for college and now I just like

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<v Speaker 3>live here. Yeah. I've been here for about like eight

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<v Speaker 3>years or so something like that.

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<v Speaker 1>Eight years?

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<v Speaker 4>Wow?

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<v Speaker 1>Holy shit? How old are you?

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<v Speaker 2>Uh?

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<v Speaker 3>How old? I twenty six?

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<v Speaker 1>Cool? And do you like America better than New Zealand

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<v Speaker 1>or does it suck? What do you think?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, so I think about this a lot, Like there's

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<v Speaker 3>pros and cons to both. I mean, there's a lot

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<v Speaker 3>of amazing things about America, Like it's so big, there's

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<v Speaker 3>so many things to do, there's so many people, and

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<v Speaker 3>there's also like so many different like cultures and like

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<v Speaker 3>vibes and everything, you know, built into one country. And

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<v Speaker 3>New Zealand is a bit sleep yer, but that also

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<v Speaker 3>is nice, right, Like if you want to be more

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<v Speaker 3>relaxed and show I guess it just depends on what

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<v Speaker 3>vibe you want to call on one other thing as well,

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<v Speaker 3>is most of my memory of New Zealand was from

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<v Speaker 3>you know, before I was an adult. So like, other

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<v Speaker 3>than going back for like you know, a week or

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<v Speaker 3>a couple of weeks or something at a time, I

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<v Speaker 3>haven't really like fully experienced New Zealand as an adults

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<v Speaker 3>for longer than like two weeks.

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<v Speaker 4>Mmmm.

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<v Speaker 1>Anyway, that's interesting. Yeah, you have more conscious experience with

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<v Speaker 1>America than you do with where you grew up.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah. Yeah, No, it's crazy. Like my literally my entire

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<v Speaker 3>adult life has been in New Zealand, which is kind

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<v Speaker 3>of crazy to think about. Like, yeah, like I feel

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<v Speaker 3>like I still feel very Kiwi and I still have

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<v Speaker 3>a very strong like Kiwi identity, but I also feel

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<v Speaker 3>very American in a lot of ways, and my Kiwi

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<v Speaker 3>friends definitely think that I'm very American.

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<v Speaker 1>What I think, Ways, do you feel American?

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<v Speaker 3>That's like a Christian. I don't know how to answer that question.

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<v Speaker 3>Why do I feel American? I think it's just because

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<v Speaker 3>I live in America and I've spent my whole, like

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<v Speaker 3>adult life here and integrating the community. Yeah, I don't know, Actually,

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<v Speaker 3>maybe I don't. Maybe I feel fifty fifty American and Jewing.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel very American. I feel I feel it in

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<v Speaker 1>my bones, like I don't. I don't like other people

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<v Speaker 1>telling me what to do. Uh. I eat a lot.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm a little gross, but uh I I have strong

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<v Speaker 1>geopolitical ambitions for myself as an individual. I feel very American.

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<v Speaker 3>Do you wish you felt something else?

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<v Speaker 1>No? No, I'm okay with myself as I am in

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<v Speaker 1>some regards. Let's talk about your life. You have life,

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<v Speaker 1>things that you wanted to get into. What would some

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<v Speaker 1>of those things be?

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<v Speaker 5>You know?

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<v Speaker 3>One thing that I don't know how I feel about

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<v Speaker 3>is a friend and I recently, ish like a month

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<v Speaker 3>or two ago, had like a mini half breakup slash

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<v Speaker 3>break And I've been thinking about it like off and

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<v Speaker 3>on here and there, and I feel like I understand

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<v Speaker 3>how I feel right now at this very moment, but

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<v Speaker 3>like I feel guilty about how I feel.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, how do you feel about it?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, so what happens. I'm pretty sure she doesn't listen

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<v Speaker 3>to this podcast. But what happened was, Yeah, it's someone

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<v Speaker 3>that I've known for like a few years, but like

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<v Speaker 3>very well, like we were super close friends here and

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<v Speaker 3>we would hang out all the time and everything but

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<v Speaker 3>for whatever reason, like you know, over the past like

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<v Speaker 3>year ish, I just haven't been feeling as connected with her,

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<v Speaker 3>and I kind of honestly like it sounds really mean,

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<v Speaker 3>and I feel really bad about saying it, but I

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<v Speaker 3>didn't really enjoy spending time as much time with her

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<v Speaker 3>as I used to enjoy spending with So basically we

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<v Speaker 3>chatted a couple of months ago and I asked her

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<v Speaker 3>if we could just like take take a break or

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<v Speaker 3>like you know, spend less time with each other, which

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<v Speaker 3>I feel very mean about. Yeah, which it sounds like

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<v Speaker 3>we're dating, right.

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<v Speaker 1>Sounds like you're dating. Yeah, it does sound like you did.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like it's I don't know, I mean, I've

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not as expressive with friend breakups. Maybe that's just me.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe that's like maybe it's a guy thing, but like no,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just like I'll just stop responding as much. There's

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<v Speaker 1>not really much of a conversation to be had.

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<v Speaker 3>Really, Yeah, Okay, so the thing is usually that's what

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<v Speaker 3>I do, and I think that's totally fine. Like I

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<v Speaker 3>have had a lot of friendships where not necessarily like

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<v Speaker 3>one of us, you know, hates the other person or whatever.

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<v Speaker 3>But like I feel like most relationships and friendships naturally

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<v Speaker 3>like EBB and blow right, Like you'll hang out with

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<v Speaker 3>someone like all the time and then you're busy or

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<v Speaker 3>they're busy and you hang out less or whatever. But

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<v Speaker 3>the special exception to this person is she is like

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<v Speaker 3>really really really really on top of the shit, so

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<v Speaker 3>like she will always chicken with you, She will never

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<v Speaker 3>forget about you. She will remember the tiny details in

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<v Speaker 3>your life. And because of that, like I felt like

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<v Speaker 3>it wasn't possible for me to just do the whole

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<v Speaker 3>like message less.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, there's a thing I know. I know, I know,

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<v Speaker 1>I know exactly what you're talking about. I know exactly

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<v Speaker 1>what we're talking about. And this is this is the

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<v Speaker 1>unfortunate truth that I think that those kinds of people

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<v Speaker 1>actually have to accept from their side. She can do

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<v Speaker 1>all that stuff for you, you don't. You don't have

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<v Speaker 1>to do any You don't have to do any of

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<v Speaker 1>that bag if you don't want to. Her doing all

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<v Speaker 1>that stuff for you is not inherently obligate you to

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<v Speaker 1>do all of those things back for her. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>you're obligated to no one and nothing in any direction.

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<v Speaker 1>And your obligation and your time and your attention will

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<v Speaker 1>naturally intuitively gravitate towards the kinds of people or the

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<v Speaker 1>specific people that you want it to gravitate towards. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>you don't have to feel just because someone remembers your

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<v Speaker 1>birthday and you don't remember theirs. You don't have to

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<v Speaker 1>feel bad. I mean, I guess you should remember the

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<v Speaker 1>birthdays of the people you really care about, but you cannot.

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<v Speaker 1>But as an adult, this is the thing. This is

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<v Speaker 1>a fucking just reality. I believe in it. It's not

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<v Speaker 1>a bad thing, it's not a sad thing. It just

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<v Speaker 1>is what it is. And I think the more you

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<v Speaker 1>recognize it, the actually greater your life will be. Is

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<v Speaker 1>that you have just a finite amount of time and energy,

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<v Speaker 1>as it a twenty six year old adults, you know

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<v Speaker 1>you have a finite amount You literally have a finite

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<v Speaker 1>amount of time and energy, and you can't just spread

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<v Speaker 1>it around willy nilly, you know what I mean. You

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<v Speaker 1>got to pick the people or the things that take

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<v Speaker 1>your energy. If you just let your if you just

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<v Speaker 1>if you just let your energy flow in the direction

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<v Speaker 1>that you feel obligated for it to flow, then you're

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<v Speaker 1>living in a life you don't even create for yourself.

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<v Speaker 1>So it's really nice of this person to remember all

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<v Speaker 1>these little things about you and remember your birthday and

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<v Speaker 1>do all that. But isn't that doesn't obligate you anywhere.

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<v Speaker 1>So I don't even think you have to feel bad

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<v Speaker 1>about it. So I know this is not but this

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<v Speaker 1>might not be a popular point of view, But that's okay.

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<v Speaker 1>That's that's like, that's the whole woo woo thing of

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<v Speaker 1>like that. You know, you're meant for the people that

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<v Speaker 1>you're meant for. That's what that means. It's like you're gonna, naturally,

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<v Speaker 1>you're gonna really like spending time with some people, and

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<v Speaker 1>you're gonna not care that much about spending time with

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<v Speaker 1>other people. And that's okay. And you have a again,

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<v Speaker 1>you have a finite amount of energy and a finite

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<v Speaker 1>amout of relationships. I've mentally identified in my brain in

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<v Speaker 1>all sectors of my life, you know, uh, in a

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<v Speaker 1>in a in a kind of business see way, in

0:24:51.760 --> 0:24:54.720
<v Speaker 1>a in a in an interpersonal way, in a familial way.

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<v Speaker 1>I've identified the people and the relationships that I have

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<v Speaker 1>that I really care about, and I make time and

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<v Speaker 1>energy for those and then everything outside of that circle

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<v Speaker 1>I is I just surrender. It just has to. And

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<v Speaker 1>the and and the cost is that that person, this

0:25:13.560 --> 0:25:17.680
<v Speaker 1>friend of yours might be upset with you, and they

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<v Speaker 1>might uh be Yeah, they might be upset that you

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<v Speaker 1>didn't remember their birthday. But you have you have to

0:25:25.359 --> 0:25:29.040
<v Speaker 1>be okay with upsetting people. You should have people in

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<v Speaker 1>your life, like here's what people like, uh, you know,

0:25:31.760 --> 0:25:36.359
<v Speaker 1>the whole thing of like someone walking around being like,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't care what people think of me. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>care about pissing people off. I don't care about what

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<v Speaker 1>like that. I don't I don't think that's not that's

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<v Speaker 1>not a good idea to apply to everyone and everything,

0:25:50.320 --> 0:25:53.479
<v Speaker 1>but it's a great idea to apply to kind of

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<v Speaker 1>most things and most people. You should totally you should

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<v Speaker 1>totally have people, you know what I mean, Like you

0:25:59.720 --> 0:26:02.560
<v Speaker 1>should totally have a lot. You should totally have people.

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<v Speaker 1>Doesn't have to be a lot of people, certainly should

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<v Speaker 1>not be most people, but you should have certain people

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<v Speaker 1>in certain relationships where you really don't want to piss

0:26:11.800 --> 0:26:14.040
<v Speaker 1>them off, and you really want to make them happy

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<v Speaker 1>and you really want to invest yourself in the relationship,

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<v Speaker 1>and like, you should have people in your life who

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<v Speaker 1>you actually care about whether or not they feel like

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<v Speaker 1>you care about them. But that should not be most people,

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<v Speaker 1>and that list should be a hand crafted list. You

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<v Speaker 1>get what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah, that makes sense, and I feel like I

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<v Speaker 3>definitely do agree with it, Like, yeah, you can't be

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<v Speaker 3>friends with all whatever eight billion people in the world

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<v Speaker 3>or whatever. But I just feel bad because like we

0:26:48.359 --> 0:26:52.080
<v Speaker 3>were such close friends for years, you know, and it

0:26:52.119 --> 0:26:54.840
<v Speaker 3>wasn't like something crazy. It's not like you know, oh

0:26:54.880 --> 0:26:57.760
<v Speaker 3>she like fucked my boyfriend or something, you know, nothing

0:26:57.840 --> 0:27:01.359
<v Speaker 3>crazy happened. It was just like this weird like I

0:27:01.400 --> 0:27:04.439
<v Speaker 3>can't I kind of can put my finger on it,

0:27:04.480 --> 0:27:06.240
<v Speaker 3>but I can't quite put my finger in it. But

0:27:06.280 --> 0:27:09.480
<v Speaker 3>like I just didn't enjoy spending as much time with her,

0:27:09.640 --> 0:27:14.359
<v Speaker 3>And and now I'm like, should I reach back out

0:27:14.440 --> 0:27:14.800
<v Speaker 3>to her?

0:27:16.240 --> 0:27:17.560
<v Speaker 4>I don't know, do you want?

0:27:17.920 --> 0:27:18.600
<v Speaker 1>Do you want to?

0:27:25.880 --> 0:27:30.600
<v Speaker 3>I feel I feel kind of guilty about saying this,

0:27:30.760 --> 0:27:35.360
<v Speaker 3>But like in the two or so months that we

0:27:35.520 --> 0:27:39.359
<v Speaker 3>haven't been, you know, spending time with each other, I

0:27:39.400 --> 0:27:41.680
<v Speaker 3>feel pretty all right right now, Like.

0:27:43.200 --> 0:27:47.960
<v Speaker 1>I no, no, no, no, I I don't think it's

0:27:48.000 --> 0:27:53.360
<v Speaker 1>mean it is I constantly I don't think I constantly

0:27:53.400 --> 0:27:56.280
<v Speaker 1>look at the people in my life and the things

0:27:56.359 --> 0:27:59.800
<v Speaker 1>I constantly am looking at people in my life and going,

0:28:01.680 --> 0:28:04.960
<v Speaker 1>would I care if I never ever saw this person again,

0:28:06.040 --> 0:28:09.119
<v Speaker 1>and I think about that something, I'll think about a

0:28:09.119 --> 0:28:11.160
<v Speaker 1>person or I'll have a interaction or something, and I'll

0:28:11.160 --> 0:28:13.919
<v Speaker 1>be like, if I never saw this person ever again,

0:28:14.040 --> 0:28:17.320
<v Speaker 1>it would I would be fine. I don't think that's mean.

0:28:17.480 --> 0:28:20.840
<v Speaker 1>I don't. I will take this hard stance that I

0:28:20.840 --> 0:28:24.080
<v Speaker 1>don't think that's mean because I have people in my life,

0:28:24.119 --> 0:28:26.520
<v Speaker 1>like if I like, I have best friends, and I

0:28:26.560 --> 0:28:30.679
<v Speaker 1>have family that I deeply care about seeing, you know,

0:28:31.440 --> 0:28:35.920
<v Speaker 1>and I have people who i'd uh love to see

0:28:35.960 --> 0:28:37.960
<v Speaker 1>again and who I'd be happy. But then this just

0:28:38.200 --> 0:28:41.000
<v Speaker 1>there's is certain people where I just my gut is

0:28:41.120 --> 0:28:43.000
<v Speaker 1>like I would not care if I ever saw that,

0:28:43.040 --> 0:28:44.920
<v Speaker 1>if I never saw that person ever again. I think

0:28:44.920 --> 0:28:47.480
<v Speaker 1>that's fine. I think it's okay. I think it leaves

0:28:47.640 --> 0:28:52.560
<v Speaker 1>more mental energy for you to like actually like live

0:28:52.600 --> 0:28:55.040
<v Speaker 1>your fucking life. And also, by the way, we live

0:28:55.200 --> 0:28:58.120
<v Speaker 1>in a world that's not meant for us in any way,

0:28:58.160 --> 0:29:00.640
<v Speaker 1>shape or far. Do you you know what I mean?

0:29:00.800 --> 0:29:03.280
<v Speaker 1>Like we like this is the first time ever we're

0:29:03.320 --> 0:29:09.280
<v Speaker 1>expected to be available to everyone all the time, Like, uh,

0:29:09.920 --> 0:29:13.000
<v Speaker 1>I mean it's a meme of like how it feels

0:29:13.040 --> 0:29:16.200
<v Speaker 1>to unfollow that person you've been following on Instagram that

0:29:16.240 --> 0:29:22.280
<v Speaker 1>you met at a party once. Yeah, Like I don't

0:29:22.280 --> 0:29:24.360
<v Speaker 1>think it's I don't think it's mean. It feels it

0:29:24.440 --> 0:29:27.840
<v Speaker 1>kind of feels uncomfortable because it's like against the societal

0:29:27.880 --> 0:29:31.960
<v Speaker 1>expectation that you should always respond to everyone all the

0:29:32.000 --> 0:29:36.280
<v Speaker 1>time and always uh be on your whatever. But like

0:29:37.200 --> 0:29:41.560
<v Speaker 1>it's it's okay the people like the folks that you

0:29:41.680 --> 0:29:46.600
<v Speaker 1>leave on uh scene, right, but also you'll get back

0:29:46.640 --> 0:29:52.880
<v Speaker 1>to them eventually. In this is like dude, I really

0:29:52.880 --> 0:29:54.680
<v Speaker 1>I don't want to bring gender into this, but I

0:29:54.760 --> 0:29:57.560
<v Speaker 1>feel like I feel like this is a guy thing,

0:29:57.880 --> 0:29:59.280
<v Speaker 1>is it? Do you agree with that?

0:29:59.400 --> 0:29:59.520
<v Speaker 4>Like?

0:29:59.720 --> 0:30:05.440
<v Speaker 1>I have people who I like fucking love, Like I

0:30:05.720 --> 0:30:07.800
<v Speaker 1>just she's like I just fucking like I think they're

0:30:07.880 --> 0:30:11.760
<v Speaker 1>great people. Our lives just go in different whatever or

0:30:11.760 --> 0:30:13.880
<v Speaker 1>maybe we haven't picked up the phone, right and I'll

0:30:13.880 --> 0:30:16.000
<v Speaker 1>call them after like a year of not talking to

0:30:16.040 --> 0:30:18.280
<v Speaker 1>them or not or not even anything like that, like

0:30:18.520 --> 0:30:23.080
<v Speaker 1>five months whatever, and it's like nothing, you know, yeah,

0:30:23.520 --> 0:30:29.840
<v Speaker 1>like people understand that. Yeah good, I'm not good.

0:30:29.960 --> 0:30:33.680
<v Speaker 3>Yeah yeah, No, I feel like I also have some

0:30:33.760 --> 0:30:35.479
<v Speaker 3>friends that I see like once a year, but like

0:30:35.600 --> 0:30:38.000
<v Speaker 3>the one time a year I see them, we have

0:30:38.080 --> 0:30:39.360
<v Speaker 3>like a fucking blast.

0:30:39.160 --> 0:30:39.360
<v Speaker 4>You know.

0:30:39.520 --> 0:30:42.600
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah, I agree.

0:30:42.640 --> 0:30:44.400
<v Speaker 2>I feel like it's really hot this christial.

0:30:44.200 --> 0:30:46.160
<v Speaker 3>With social media. Like I'm thinking about this person, like

0:30:46.520 --> 0:30:49.480
<v Speaker 3>you know, we're still like following each other on like Instagram,

0:30:49.560 --> 0:30:51.960
<v Speaker 3>and it's like, you know, I'm not gonna like not

0:30:52.200 --> 0:30:57.640
<v Speaker 3>follow you know what I mean? Yeah, like these people that, Yeah,

0:30:57.680 --> 0:30:59.360
<v Speaker 3>that's true. I think I think she has me on

0:30:59.440 --> 0:31:05.520
<v Speaker 3>you actually, so she did the work for me. But yeah,

0:31:05.560 --> 0:31:07.960
<v Speaker 3>I agree. I feel like it would be nice if

0:31:08.120 --> 0:31:11.040
<v Speaker 3>I don't know, we return to Monk a little bit more,

0:31:11.800 --> 0:31:14.440
<v Speaker 3>and you know, I don't need to know about like

0:31:15.640 --> 0:31:19.320
<v Speaker 3>the coffee that all of my you know, hundreds of

0:31:19.320 --> 0:31:21.760
<v Speaker 3>people that I'm falling on Instagram like drink every day,

0:31:21.760 --> 0:31:23.880
<v Speaker 3>but like, you know, the one time a year where

0:31:23.880 --> 0:31:26.760
<v Speaker 3>I do hang out with like a couple I would

0:31:26.800 --> 0:31:32.320
<v Speaker 3>say considered like close emotionally, but like not close, you know,

0:31:32.400 --> 0:31:35.000
<v Speaker 3>in terms of how often we hang out, but like, yeah,

0:31:35.000 --> 0:31:36.480
<v Speaker 3>like it's always a blast because if you have so

0:31:36.560 --> 0:31:38.360
<v Speaker 3>much to catch up on, and like I know, I

0:31:38.360 --> 0:31:42.280
<v Speaker 3>feel like it's because you only see each other once

0:31:42.280 --> 0:31:45.720
<v Speaker 3>a year or whatever. It makes it that much more special,

0:31:47.680 --> 0:31:49.640
<v Speaker 3>not that I only want to see my friends once

0:31:49.640 --> 0:31:52.720
<v Speaker 3>a year. I don't know what I'm saying.

0:31:53.120 --> 0:31:55.080
<v Speaker 1>No, I get well, I mean I get what you're mean.

0:31:55.200 --> 0:31:56.880
<v Speaker 1>I mean, do you have do you have a best friend?

0:31:56.920 --> 0:31:57.120
<v Speaker 2>Do you have?

0:31:57.160 --> 0:31:59.960
<v Speaker 1>Okay, so I only really know about, uh, this friend

0:32:00.080 --> 0:32:01.560
<v Speaker 1>that you don't like. Do you have friends that you

0:32:01.600 --> 0:32:02.000
<v Speaker 1>do like?

0:32:03.520 --> 0:32:06.240
<v Speaker 3>I do have friends that I do like. They're pretty

0:32:06.240 --> 0:32:06.760
<v Speaker 3>cool people.

0:32:06.800 --> 0:32:09.240
<v Speaker 1>I think you talk Do you talk to them often?

0:32:11.280 --> 0:32:14.360
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, let's see. Okay, So it's really interesting because like, yeah,

0:32:14.400 --> 0:32:16.400
<v Speaker 3>some of my friends, I mean, people just have like

0:32:16.440 --> 0:32:20.880
<v Speaker 3>different communication preferences. I guess, like one of my closest friends,

0:32:21.040 --> 0:32:25.400
<v Speaker 3>we live pretty close together, and we tix relatively offens,

0:32:25.440 --> 0:32:29.080
<v Speaker 3>but not necessarily every day, maybe every like two days,

0:32:29.120 --> 0:32:34.080
<v Speaker 3>three days. I have some friends that I would consider,

0:32:34.280 --> 0:32:37.880
<v Speaker 3>you know, my closest friends, but you know, we might

0:32:37.920 --> 0:32:42.760
<v Speaker 3>only tix like once a week or two. Oh my god.

0:32:42.800 --> 0:32:44.760
<v Speaker 3>This okay, this is like a complete tangent. But this

0:32:44.840 --> 0:32:49.120
<v Speaker 3>is a super cute thing that a friend started doing

0:32:49.160 --> 0:32:52.480
<v Speaker 3>with me, and I would recommend everyone do this because

0:32:52.520 --> 0:32:55.920
<v Speaker 3>it's super cute and very intentional, but because we're both

0:32:56.040 --> 0:33:00.200
<v Speaker 3>like calendar people, and we both consider each other like

0:33:00.360 --> 0:33:03.840
<v Speaker 3>very close friends. She just see, that's like a recurring

0:33:04.160 --> 0:33:08.560
<v Speaker 3>monthly hike with me, which is like the cutest thing event.

0:33:08.680 --> 0:33:11.320
<v Speaker 3>Every time I see it in my calendar, I'm like, oh,

0:33:11.480 --> 0:33:13.320
<v Speaker 3>you know, I'll hike is coming up in two weeks

0:33:13.400 --> 0:33:13.800
<v Speaker 3>or something.

0:33:17.800 --> 0:33:20.640
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that is really cute. I like that.

0:33:21.440 --> 0:33:21.600
<v Speaker 4>See.

0:33:21.680 --> 0:33:23.640
<v Speaker 1>Okay, so you have there we go. You have friends

0:33:23.640 --> 0:33:26.880
<v Speaker 1>that you like, this person who you hike with you

0:33:26.880 --> 0:33:30.080
<v Speaker 1>you're intentionally making an effort to invest in your relationship

0:33:30.080 --> 0:33:33.240
<v Speaker 1>with this person because you like being with them.

0:33:33.320 --> 0:33:33.880
<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

0:33:34.040 --> 0:33:40.920
<v Speaker 1>So that's so that means you are not whatever uh

0:33:40.160 --> 0:33:45.360
<v Speaker 1>uh anti social psychopathic monster you you're making yourself out

0:33:45.960 --> 0:33:49.880
<v Speaker 1>to believe you are by not wanting to be in

0:33:49.880 --> 0:33:52.960
<v Speaker 1>constant communication with this other person, you have the capability

0:33:53.000 --> 0:33:59.960
<v Speaker 1>of to feel and connect with other people. But yeah,

0:34:00.080 --> 0:34:02.480
<v Speaker 1>I think there's something. I really think there's something to

0:34:02.880 --> 0:34:09.239
<v Speaker 1>uh directing your focus and directing your energy, you know,

0:34:09.360 --> 0:34:12.120
<v Speaker 1>out of out of a genuine desire to do ship.

0:34:12.600 --> 0:34:15.080
<v Speaker 1>I mean, I mean life is life, and there's a

0:34:15.200 --> 0:34:20.239
<v Speaker 1>lot of situations where we we do shit out of obligation.

0:34:24.120 --> 0:34:26.879
<v Speaker 1>But you know, in the in the ways in which

0:34:26.920 --> 0:34:30.279
<v Speaker 1>you can do less out of obligation. I think, uh,

0:34:30.800 --> 0:34:33.560
<v Speaker 1>you should, and friend relationships are one of them, and

0:34:33.600 --> 0:34:36.239
<v Speaker 1>he's surrendered to it. That's how I feel.

0:34:37.960 --> 0:34:43.480
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, so I I shouldn't talk to her unless I really, like,

0:34:43.719 --> 0:34:48.040
<v Speaker 3>genuinely feel like I really would like enjoying talking to her.

0:34:48.719 --> 0:34:50.720
<v Speaker 1>What do you think about the answer to that question?

0:34:52.440 --> 0:34:54.560
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I mean I guess I get basically everything that

0:34:54.600 --> 0:34:57.000
<v Speaker 3>you just said. You would say, yes.

0:34:58.400 --> 0:35:00.040
<v Speaker 1>Uh, well, I I'm not asking. Well, I'm not I

0:35:00.080 --> 0:35:02.120
<v Speaker 1>see what would say? I mean, what would I'm being

0:35:02.120 --> 0:35:10.960
<v Speaker 1>a fucking armchair therapist asshole? But uh, well, I do

0:35:10.960 --> 0:35:12.800
<v Speaker 1>do you agree with that sentiment?

0:35:17.480 --> 0:35:19.640
<v Speaker 3>I think other than we do have a couple, like

0:35:19.760 --> 0:35:24.880
<v Speaker 3>literally just like two mutual friends, two or three mutual friends. Obviously,

0:35:24.920 --> 0:35:27.400
<v Speaker 3>if you know, we get together to do this mutual

0:35:27.440 --> 0:35:30.839
<v Speaker 3>friend that's a different thing. But yeah, yeah, I think

0:35:31.000 --> 0:35:34.960
<v Speaker 3>I agree with you overall. Like right now, I just

0:35:35.040 --> 0:35:39.799
<v Speaker 3>feel compelled to reach out to her because some of

0:35:39.840 --> 0:35:43.680
<v Speaker 3>my mutual friends recently talked to me about it, and like,

0:35:43.760 --> 0:35:46.600
<v Speaker 3>I feel like I feel like there's pressure for me

0:35:46.640 --> 0:35:48.680
<v Speaker 3>to reach out to her because we were friends and

0:35:48.719 --> 0:35:52.560
<v Speaker 3>we still have mutual friends. But like, yeah, I just

0:35:52.600 --> 0:35:56.279
<v Speaker 3>feel pressured to reach out to her.

0:35:57.320 --> 0:35:59.319
<v Speaker 1>I mean, you could just reach out to her and

0:35:59.360 --> 0:36:01.799
<v Speaker 1>lay it on the Well, I don't know, I don't

0:36:01.800 --> 0:36:03.880
<v Speaker 1>know how much. I don't know if I don't know

0:36:03.920 --> 0:36:06.359
<v Speaker 1>about the radical honesty type of thing.

0:36:06.520 --> 0:36:07.080
<v Speaker 4>But uh.

0:36:10.760 --> 0:36:14.759
<v Speaker 1>Ah, fuck yeah, do whatever you want. Sorry, I know

0:36:14.840 --> 0:36:21.680
<v Speaker 1>that this is all Well, it matters if you decide

0:36:21.719 --> 0:36:24.120
<v Speaker 1>it matters, That's what I'm getting at. And if you

0:36:24.280 --> 0:36:26.960
<v Speaker 1>decide that your relationship with this person matters, if you

0:36:27.000 --> 0:36:30.800
<v Speaker 1>decide your relationship with this person matters in the context

0:36:31.040 --> 0:36:36.799
<v Speaker 1>of keeping the peace amongst the mutual friends, that's a

0:36:36.920 --> 0:36:41.560
<v Speaker 1>legitimate a thing. You get what I'm You get what

0:36:41.560 --> 0:36:44.840
<v Speaker 1>I'm saying. Like, you can decide, like you can decide

0:36:44.880 --> 0:36:49.120
<v Speaker 1>it matters again what I said. You can decide it

0:36:49.120 --> 0:36:51.120
<v Speaker 1>matters in the con because you want to keep the

0:36:51.160 --> 0:36:53.799
<v Speaker 1>peace among the mutual friends. You can decide that a

0:36:53.840 --> 0:36:57.560
<v Speaker 1>relationship matters. You can decide that a relationship matters for

0:36:57.719 --> 0:37:02.280
<v Speaker 1>reasons other than other than just you like the person.

0:37:04.719 --> 0:37:09.239
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, that's true. Yeah, yeah, And I guess a lot

0:37:09.239 --> 0:37:11.640
<v Speaker 3>of people do that with you know, like families and

0:37:11.640 --> 0:37:12.399
<v Speaker 3>stuff as well.

0:37:12.480 --> 0:37:17.240
<v Speaker 1>Like I was a crazy yeah yeah, while I was talking,

0:37:17.280 --> 0:37:20.080
<v Speaker 1>I was thinking about that the family thing, Like sometimes

0:37:20.120 --> 0:37:23.359
<v Speaker 1>you go to like like, uh, you go you visit

0:37:23.400 --> 0:37:25.719
<v Speaker 1>your family because it's a mitzvah, you know what I mean?

0:37:26.040 --> 0:37:29.239
<v Speaker 1>You just like you do it because it's a good

0:37:29.239 --> 0:37:32.520
<v Speaker 1>thing to visit my family. Even if you're not having

0:37:32.560 --> 0:37:35.960
<v Speaker 1>the best time, you just do it. But that's because

0:37:36.320 --> 0:37:38.840
<v Speaker 1>family is important to you, because you've decided it's important

0:37:38.840 --> 0:37:42.760
<v Speaker 1>to you. But why you shouldn't have that same energy

0:37:43.360 --> 0:37:47.640
<v Speaker 1>towards everyone and everything that is in your orbit. But

0:37:47.680 --> 0:37:49.719
<v Speaker 1>if you decide to keeping the peak, that that you

0:37:49.719 --> 0:37:52.360
<v Speaker 1>have to maintain this relationship to keep the peace and

0:37:52.560 --> 0:37:55.759
<v Speaker 1>and keeping the piece is important to you, then then

0:37:55.800 --> 0:37:57.000
<v Speaker 1>it works.

0:37:58.200 --> 0:37:59.880
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah, that's true.

0:38:00.400 --> 0:38:02.040
<v Speaker 1>I know I said I wasn't going to forget your name,

0:38:02.239 --> 0:38:03.439
<v Speaker 1>but I.

0:38:03.400 --> 0:38:08.040
<v Speaker 3>Did, And so oh no, you want to give.

0:38:09.440 --> 0:38:12.759
<v Speaker 1>M carry.

0:38:14.239 --> 0:38:17.320
<v Speaker 3>Stella pretty close, Stella.

0:38:17.360 --> 0:38:18.680
<v Speaker 1>Is there anything else you want to say to the

0:38:18.719 --> 0:38:20.200
<v Speaker 1>people of the computer before we go?

0:38:24.480 --> 0:38:26.799
<v Speaker 3>If you really want to dye your hair and you're

0:38:26.840 --> 0:38:29.880
<v Speaker 3>too scared to you should just do it. Ble you

0:38:29.880 --> 0:38:30.879
<v Speaker 3>shouldn't dye your hair.

0:38:32.320 --> 0:38:34.880
<v Speaker 1>Thank you, Stella, have a good rest of your entire life.

0:38:36.600 --> 0:38:40.239
<v Speaker 3>Thanks Lyle, Bye bye Stella.

0:38:41.440 --> 0:38:44.800
<v Speaker 1>So, in case anyone was unclear about how to interpret

0:38:44.880 --> 0:38:47.760
<v Speaker 1>anything I said on that phone call. What I'm meaning

0:38:47.840 --> 0:38:52.799
<v Speaker 1>to say is that you should cut off all your

0:38:52.800 --> 0:38:55.880
<v Speaker 1>friends and family. You should not talk to anyone. You

0:38:55.920 --> 0:39:02.359
<v Speaker 1>should you should stay at home alone in your room.

0:39:02.440 --> 0:39:04.480
<v Speaker 1>If your friends reach out to you, you should. You

0:39:04.480 --> 0:39:08.319
<v Speaker 1>should break your phone in half, and you should just

0:39:08.480 --> 0:39:11.560
<v Speaker 1>you should never talk to anyone ever, and you should

0:39:11.600 --> 0:39:15.160
<v Speaker 1>die alone. That's what I just to clarify what I

0:39:15.280 --> 0:39:23.160
<v Speaker 1>meant by everything I said. No, I don't know. I think, yeah,

0:39:23.160 --> 0:39:27.200
<v Speaker 1>it's important to have relationships, stay connected. But that's why

0:39:28.200 --> 0:39:30.719
<v Speaker 1>there's a billion think pieces about this. But and I've

0:39:30.719 --> 0:39:33.799
<v Speaker 1>probably talked about this a bunch, But uh, that's why

0:39:33.920 --> 0:39:37.280
<v Speaker 1>community is good, because it's like just having a place

0:39:37.360 --> 0:39:41.400
<v Speaker 1>that you should like. The best relationship the best not

0:39:41.520 --> 0:39:46.680
<v Speaker 1>the best. But a lot of good relationships come from

0:39:46.800 --> 0:39:50.480
<v Speaker 1>just the fact that if it comes from situations where

0:39:50.680 --> 0:39:54.120
<v Speaker 1>you can just be living your adult life, and by

0:39:54.200 --> 0:39:56.160
<v Speaker 1>nature of you living your adult life, there are people

0:39:56.200 --> 0:40:00.600
<v Speaker 1>passing through, you know, like work or showing up to

0:40:00.640 --> 0:40:03.439
<v Speaker 1>a club or some shit. But but that doesn't matter

0:40:03.440 --> 0:40:05.160
<v Speaker 1>because you shouldn't do any of that. You should just

0:40:05.200 --> 0:40:09.520
<v Speaker 1>be alone forever and not not do anything. This is

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<v Speaker 1>what I think. Hello, what's up, brother, what's your name.

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<v Speaker 4>My name's culture Culture.

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<v Speaker 1>Culture. I called you because you said, please call me Lyle.

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<v Speaker 1>I have a secret to share.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I have a big secret to share.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, now, just because I don't, this is making i'm

0:40:37.400 --> 0:40:40.920
<v Speaker 1>I feel like you're gonna this is gonna be like

0:40:40.960 --> 0:40:44.040
<v Speaker 1>a jokey thing. And it's okay if it is, but

0:40:44.120 --> 0:40:46.120
<v Speaker 1>I'm i'm I feel like I'll be a little disappointed

0:40:46.120 --> 0:40:48.000
<v Speaker 1>if it is. I'm like, I'm I you've low key

0:40:48.080 --> 0:40:50.560
<v Speaker 1>primed me like an actual secret.

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<v Speaker 4>It depends on if you want it to be a

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<v Speaker 4>secret or not.

0:40:56.360 --> 0:40:58.080
<v Speaker 1>If I if I, if I want it to be

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<v Speaker 1>secret or not?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Why why why would I? What do you mean? It's yours,

0:41:08.239 --> 0:41:12.000
<v Speaker 1>it's your secret. Why would I? What does my desire

0:41:12.440 --> 0:41:15.320
<v Speaker 1>of its secret hood have to do with it?

0:41:17.280 --> 0:41:19.600
<v Speaker 4>No, I I I actually didn't have a secret at all.

0:41:19.640 --> 0:41:21.360
<v Speaker 1>I just you didn't have a secret at all. You

0:41:21.400 --> 0:41:21.840
<v Speaker 1>didn't have a.

0:41:21.880 --> 0:41:27.279
<v Speaker 4>Joke secret, not even a joke secret. I'm trying so

0:41:27.320 --> 0:41:31.440
<v Speaker 4>hard to think of a joke so you I'm too

0:41:31.480 --> 0:41:32.600
<v Speaker 4>high to do that right now.

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<v Speaker 1>God fucking damn it. You didn't even have a joke.

0:41:36.000 --> 0:41:38.279
<v Speaker 1>You didn't even have a joke secret. I thought you

0:41:38.280 --> 0:41:42.640
<v Speaker 1>were gonna like say something cutesy like, uh, I think

0:41:42.719 --> 0:41:45.879
<v Speaker 1>my cat is gay? Right, I don't know. I thought

0:41:45.920 --> 0:41:49.200
<v Speaker 1>you're gonna say something like you don't even have any

0:41:49.280 --> 0:41:51.759
<v Speaker 1>you don't even literally what what were you? Okay? And

0:41:51.760 --> 0:41:53.920
<v Speaker 1>by the way I took you, by the way, I

0:41:53.960 --> 0:41:58.640
<v Speaker 1>saved you just now because I diverted the conversation away

0:41:59.160 --> 0:42:03.040
<v Speaker 1>from what would you have said? If I had just said, Okay,

0:42:03.040 --> 0:42:05.720
<v Speaker 1>what's the secret?

0:42:06.760 --> 0:42:08.759
<v Speaker 4>I probably would have said, I think my cat's kay.

0:42:10.680 --> 0:42:13.520
<v Speaker 1>You don't have any You don't have a secret. You

0:42:13.560 --> 0:42:16.000
<v Speaker 1>texted me. You texted me that because you texted me that,

0:42:16.040 --> 0:42:17.799
<v Speaker 1>because you knew that.

0:42:17.960 --> 0:42:20.879
<v Speaker 4>I Oh, I knew, dude. I listened to you every

0:42:20.880 --> 0:42:22.480
<v Speaker 4>single day on my way to work and on my

0:42:22.520 --> 0:42:25.120
<v Speaker 4>way home from work. Like, I know you, bro, I

0:42:25.160 --> 0:42:26.840
<v Speaker 4>know you?

0:42:26.880 --> 0:42:32.239
<v Speaker 1>Do you know you? And you know that? I? Oh,

0:42:32.360 --> 0:42:33.080
<v Speaker 1>my fucking gut.

0:42:33.400 --> 0:42:35.279
<v Speaker 4>Where are I know you?

0:42:35.280 --> 0:42:35.520
<v Speaker 3>You know?

0:42:35.880 --> 0:42:39.560
<v Speaker 4>I'm in I'm in Florida, I'm I'm in Tampa.

0:42:39.719 --> 0:42:41.399
<v Speaker 1>What are you doing in Tampa?

0:42:43.080 --> 0:42:47.680
<v Speaker 4>I went to school at USF. I have my psychology degree,

0:42:49.719 --> 0:42:52.160
<v Speaker 4>So maybe that's why I can I know you, Lyle.

0:42:53.520 --> 0:42:56.000
<v Speaker 1>What are you using your psychology degree to do?

0:42:57.480 --> 0:43:01.640
<v Speaker 4>That is undetermined at this point, I just graduated like

0:43:03.040 --> 0:43:07.400
<v Speaker 4>four months ago, so I'm still figuring it out. But

0:43:07.440 --> 0:43:10.799
<v Speaker 4>I'm a photographer right now. What do I want to do?

0:43:15.000 --> 0:43:18.760
<v Speaker 4>I mean, I've always been interested in uh, Down syndrome,

0:43:19.520 --> 0:43:23.280
<v Speaker 4>Like I think it's super Yeah yeah, no, like actually

0:43:25.200 --> 0:43:27.400
<v Speaker 4>I just think I don't know. I think they're on

0:43:27.480 --> 0:43:30.560
<v Speaker 4>a different wavelength and I think there like can be

0:43:30.719 --> 0:43:32.960
<v Speaker 4>they can be so much more genuine and happy than

0:43:33.239 --> 0:43:37.680
<v Speaker 4>any other person can, and I just find that so interesting.

0:43:38.400 --> 0:43:41.799
<v Speaker 1>But are you trying to so you wanna like do

0:43:42.080 --> 0:43:45.200
<v Speaker 1>do a program or something like that where you can

0:43:45.239 --> 0:43:47.040
<v Speaker 1>work with with people with Down syndrome.

0:43:47.960 --> 0:43:50.239
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, yeah, no, that'd be that'd be awesome. I'm still,

0:43:50.239 --> 0:43:53.080
<v Speaker 4>you know, figuring it out. Yeah yeah, I think that'd

0:43:53.120 --> 0:43:56.600
<v Speaker 4>be pretty cool. I've worked with kids with special needs before.

0:43:56.680 --> 0:44:01.759
<v Speaker 4>So yeah, I can't believe I'm talking to you if.

0:44:01.719 --> 0:44:04.040
<v Speaker 1>You're joking about that. If you're joking, are you that

0:44:04.080 --> 0:44:04.840
<v Speaker 1>you're being serious?

0:44:05.520 --> 0:44:05.800
<v Speaker 4>No?

0:44:05.800 --> 0:44:07.520
<v Speaker 1>No, I can't trust you.

0:44:09.480 --> 0:44:13.320
<v Speaker 4>I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm sorry, Lyle. I'm sorry.

0:44:13.680 --> 0:44:16.640
<v Speaker 1>I may one day find the strength to forgive you,

0:44:16.680 --> 0:44:23.600
<v Speaker 1>but that's not today. Okay, Uh alright, so you're so

0:44:24.000 --> 0:44:26.400
<v Speaker 1>you So what are you doing now? He's chilling. Are

0:44:26.440 --> 0:44:28.120
<v Speaker 1>you like working, are you?

0:44:28.200 --> 0:44:31.520
<v Speaker 4>Yeah? Bro, I'm I'm a photographer. I just got off

0:44:31.520 --> 0:44:35.000
<v Speaker 4>work a little bit ago. But yeah, I'm just chilling.

0:44:35.040 --> 0:44:38.799
<v Speaker 4>I'm playing Fortnite. I live in an awesome place with

0:44:38.800 --> 0:44:43.319
<v Speaker 4>my girlfriend. Uh. My life's my life's going pretty well

0:44:43.640 --> 0:44:48.600
<v Speaker 4>right now. But yeah, what are you doing right now?

0:44:48.719 --> 0:44:49.759
<v Speaker 4>He's sitting in your chair.

0:44:50.239 --> 0:44:53.000
<v Speaker 1>I'm sitting in a windowless room talking to you.

0:44:53.880 --> 0:44:59.719
<v Speaker 4>Wow, dude, you go ahead, go ahead. No, no, I

0:45:00.000 --> 0:45:03.080
<v Speaker 4>I know I said. I listened to you every day.

0:45:03.080 --> 0:45:05.279
<v Speaker 4>I've been listening to you since like twenty twenty one,

0:45:05.320 --> 0:45:08.279
<v Speaker 4>when I was still in high school. Uh and when

0:45:08.320 --> 0:45:10.480
<v Speaker 4>I was in I went to Germany for this internship,

0:45:10.480 --> 0:45:13.759
<v Speaker 4>and I listened to you every single day. Uh. So

0:45:13.840 --> 0:45:15.600
<v Speaker 4>I feel like I kind of know you in a way,

0:45:16.560 --> 0:45:19.279
<v Speaker 4>and I didn't know what you look like for the

0:45:19.360 --> 0:45:21.920
<v Speaker 4>longest time because I feel like you can be like

0:45:22.040 --> 0:45:24.840
<v Speaker 4>self deprecating at times, and I was like, this guy's

0:45:24.880 --> 0:45:27.759
<v Speaker 4>got to be like ugly or something. But dude, you're

0:45:27.760 --> 0:45:33.040
<v Speaker 4>a guy. Like you're cute. Bro, you got to you

0:45:33.080 --> 0:45:35.759
<v Speaker 4>gotta hit the streets. You gotta get the girls. Bro.

0:45:38.280 --> 0:45:42.239
<v Speaker 1>You know what, Carlton, I had you all wrong? You're

0:45:42.280 --> 0:45:46.719
<v Speaker 1>actually a great guy. I forgive you for for tricking me.

0:45:48.600 --> 0:45:55.640
<v Speaker 1>Your flattery is has uh been tremendously effective, banks Man. No,

0:45:55.800 --> 0:45:58.359
<v Speaker 1>I I appreciate that. I don't know. I feel I

0:45:58.440 --> 0:46:04.520
<v Speaker 1>just I don't feel like I'm at my I don't

0:46:04.560 --> 0:46:07.560
<v Speaker 1>look how I want to right now. I don't feel

0:46:07.600 --> 0:46:10.719
<v Speaker 1>like I look opt I don't look optimally the way

0:46:10.760 --> 0:46:12.880
<v Speaker 1>that I would like that.

0:46:13.840 --> 0:46:14.439
<v Speaker 4>But that's okay.

0:46:14.480 --> 0:46:20.200
<v Speaker 1>I think it's okay. It's it's it's not you know,

0:46:20.280 --> 0:46:25.160
<v Speaker 1>it is what it just is what it is. But no,

0:46:25.640 --> 0:46:27.000
<v Speaker 1>what do you did you think I was gonna look

0:46:27.080 --> 0:46:34.000
<v Speaker 1>like the fucking uh fat bastard from Austin Powers.

0:46:34.560 --> 0:46:36.520
<v Speaker 4>I I don't know. I just thought you were gonna

0:46:36.560 --> 0:46:40.520
<v Speaker 4>look like uh how the portray like Reddit mods? You know, Like,

0:46:40.600 --> 0:46:41.320
<v Speaker 4>I don't know.

0:46:41.239 --> 0:46:44.960
<v Speaker 1>But you're like, I mean, I I appreciate you saying that.

0:46:45.000 --> 0:46:49.840
<v Speaker 1>I mean, I I'm I could I like there's a

0:46:49.920 --> 0:46:52.000
<v Speaker 1>universe where I could look more like that.

0:46:52.600 --> 0:46:56.560
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, yeah, I mean I don't think I look like

0:46:56.600 --> 0:46:58.880
<v Speaker 4>how i'd love to look, you know, like I'm overweight,

0:46:59.120 --> 0:47:01.240
<v Speaker 4>but I I had you know, I have a girl,

0:47:01.239 --> 0:47:03.200
<v Speaker 4>and I have a plate, like I'm living my life

0:47:03.239 --> 0:47:04.759
<v Speaker 4>the best I can but dude.

0:47:04.680 --> 0:47:08.319
<v Speaker 1>Like, did I'm literally imagining you as like like a

0:47:08.440 --> 0:47:13.240
<v Speaker 1>high school football quarterback, like wearing like a leatherman jacket.

0:47:13.280 --> 0:47:16.080
<v Speaker 1>That's genuinely like, I'm not like before you even brought

0:47:16.160 --> 0:47:19.040
<v Speaker 1>up like what each other might look like, I was

0:47:19.120 --> 0:47:21.880
<v Speaker 1>picturing you as that with like a Justin Bieber flow.

0:47:23.320 --> 0:47:26.040
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, Bro, that that's not That's not it. What do you?

0:47:26.120 --> 0:47:28.480
<v Speaker 1>How do you? What do you look like? Describe yourself?

0:47:28.520 --> 0:47:33.880
<v Speaker 4>I'm like, I'm like, I'm taller, which is an advantage.

0:47:34.080 --> 0:47:34.960
<v Speaker 4>I'm like six.

0:47:35.000 --> 0:47:38.680
<v Speaker 1>Three okay, yeah, yeah, I'm.

0:47:38.480 --> 0:47:42.040
<v Speaker 4>Like two and fifty pounds, so I'm like a bigger guy.

0:47:42.400 --> 0:47:45.839
<v Speaker 4>But the height kind of accounts for it in a way.

0:47:47.520 --> 0:47:49.840
<v Speaker 4>But bro, I'm like, I'm like a nerd, like I

0:47:50.200 --> 0:47:55.960
<v Speaker 4>I was in band and uh like I I graduated

0:47:55.960 --> 0:47:59.560
<v Speaker 4>from high school with my college degree. I'm just I'm

0:47:59.560 --> 0:48:02.719
<v Speaker 4>a nerd harder. But I don't know. Maybe it's the

0:48:02.800 --> 0:48:08.240
<v Speaker 4>Florida effect. How I sound?

0:48:08.600 --> 0:48:13.400
<v Speaker 1>Mmm? How close do you think Florida is too seceding

0:48:13.440 --> 0:48:14.120
<v Speaker 1>from the Union?

0:48:17.480 --> 0:48:21.040
<v Speaker 4>Dude? Like, how is Florida portrayed? I know you you

0:48:21.120 --> 0:48:23.120
<v Speaker 4>live in New York, right, I do?

0:48:23.600 --> 0:48:30.279
<v Speaker 1>How's Florida portrayed? I mean, I think you know the

0:48:30.360 --> 0:48:30.880
<v Speaker 1>answer to that.

0:48:32.000 --> 0:48:34.919
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I think I do too. It's just like Florida, man,

0:48:35.040 --> 0:48:37.719
<v Speaker 4>like alligators and shit, right, Disney World.

0:48:38.080 --> 0:48:42.399
<v Speaker 1>Yeah yeah. And then also I like just having its

0:48:42.400 --> 0:48:44.399
<v Speaker 1>own thing going on down there, you.

0:48:44.400 --> 0:48:48.640
<v Speaker 4>Know, Yeah, yeah it does. I mean it's full of

0:48:48.800 --> 0:48:51.640
<v Speaker 4>people from all over the world. Like I work at

0:48:51.640 --> 0:48:54.040
<v Speaker 4>this restaurant and I'm a photographer there, and I meet

0:48:54.040 --> 0:48:58.880
<v Speaker 4>people from like everywhere, like South Africa and I don't know,

0:48:59.560 --> 0:49:02.440
<v Speaker 4>just every and it's like everyone just comes to Florida,

0:49:02.960 --> 0:49:03.160
<v Speaker 4>you know.

0:49:04.840 --> 0:49:04.960
<v Speaker 2>Hm.

0:49:06.000 --> 0:49:07.640
<v Speaker 4>I mean, I'm sure it's the same way with New York.

0:49:07.680 --> 0:49:12.680
<v Speaker 4>Like New York City, everyone fucking got his their But.

0:49:11.360 --> 0:49:15.200
<v Speaker 1>Do you and you live in Tampa? I do you

0:49:15.239 --> 0:49:16.440
<v Speaker 1>know what I love about Tampa?

0:49:18.000 --> 0:49:19.240
<v Speaker 4>What do you love about Tampa?

0:49:19.520 --> 0:49:24.480
<v Speaker 1>I love the big flamingo in the airport.

0:49:25.000 --> 0:49:30.479
<v Speaker 4>Uh what a what a niche little uh niche little thing.

0:49:31.120 --> 0:49:34.160
<v Speaker 1>And there's also a am I going to Tampa this year?

0:49:34.320 --> 0:49:37.840
<v Speaker 1>I don't know, But there's also I did the Tampa

0:49:37.920 --> 0:49:42.280
<v Speaker 1>Improv twice and that's located in a place called Wyber,

0:49:43.280 --> 0:49:47.400
<v Speaker 1>which is a shopping center that just has chickens running

0:49:47.400 --> 0:49:55.720
<v Speaker 1>around in Tampa. Yeah, you know Wiber right, Oh, ebor

0:49:56.400 --> 0:49:59.440
<v Speaker 1>ebor yeah, ebor yeah, bro yeah yeah yeah, and they

0:49:59.480 --> 0:49:59.920
<v Speaker 1>have chicken.

0:50:00.120 --> 0:50:04.319
<v Speaker 4>That's yeah, yeah yeah yeah, that's where I met my

0:50:04.360 --> 0:50:06.080
<v Speaker 4>girlfriend actually in e Wars.

0:50:06.120 --> 0:50:07.880
<v Speaker 1>Really is your girlfriend a chicken?

0:50:09.040 --> 0:50:16.520
<v Speaker 4>Yeah? She actually is a chicken? Yeah?

0:50:16.600 --> 0:50:18.400
<v Speaker 1>What is it? What's it like? What's it like to

0:50:18.440 --> 0:50:19.760
<v Speaker 1>have sex with a chicken?

0:50:21.120 --> 0:50:24.480
<v Speaker 4>Dude, It's it's something else. Let me tell you. If

0:50:24.480 --> 0:50:26.680
<v Speaker 4>you're if you're looking for love, all you need to go.

0:50:27.040 --> 0:50:29.000
<v Speaker 4>All you need to do is go to the grocery store.

0:50:29.600 --> 0:50:31.239
<v Speaker 4>The skin ones are better.

0:50:31.320 --> 0:50:35.479
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, yeah, I feel like I have I feel

0:50:35.520 --> 0:50:37.879
<v Speaker 1>like having sex with a chicken that's alive is better

0:50:37.960 --> 0:50:39.480
<v Speaker 1>than one.

0:50:39.320 --> 0:50:42.120
<v Speaker 4>That's yeah yeah, wackage.

0:50:43.320 --> 0:50:45.680
<v Speaker 1>But you know what's weird? I actually wonder would you

0:50:45.680 --> 0:50:50.279
<v Speaker 1>get more diseases? Would you get more diseases from like

0:50:50.400 --> 0:50:55.560
<v Speaker 1>having sex with a live chicken or like rubbing like

0:50:55.800 --> 0:50:59.840
<v Speaker 1>raw chicken all over your your dick and ass. I

0:50:59.840 --> 0:51:03.120
<v Speaker 1>think I think you'd probably get more diseases from you'd

0:51:03.120 --> 0:51:06.000
<v Speaker 1>probably I actually don't know what do you think? Which

0:51:06.040 --> 0:51:07.560
<v Speaker 1>one do you think is one diseases?

0:51:08.800 --> 0:51:12.839
<v Speaker 4>Probably the live one only because it's getting like run

0:51:12.880 --> 0:51:16.400
<v Speaker 4>through already, you know, so it's like triple the amount

0:51:16.440 --> 0:51:17.080
<v Speaker 4>of disease.

0:51:17.640 --> 0:51:22.320
<v Speaker 1>I guess maybe how's how is it getting ran through already?

0:51:22.920 --> 0:51:25.120
<v Speaker 4>I mean, I mean, if it's a female chicken and

0:51:25.200 --> 0:51:28.680
<v Speaker 4>it's like laying eggs and shit, and you know, like

0:51:30.280 --> 0:51:32.640
<v Speaker 4>you know, and it's out in the wild, and like

0:51:32.719 --> 0:51:33.879
<v Speaker 4>who knows what's out there?

0:51:34.040 --> 0:51:39.240
<v Speaker 1>So I guess I don't are how does that work?

0:51:39.280 --> 0:51:41.719
<v Speaker 1>How do you know? How do they make chickens? Because

0:51:41.800 --> 0:51:43.800
<v Speaker 1>chickens lay eggs, they make a bunch of babies. But

0:51:43.880 --> 0:51:50.400
<v Speaker 1>then does the male chicken the rooster? Uh hold on,

0:51:50.440 --> 0:51:54.239
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna okay, wait, culture.

0:51:54.840 --> 0:51:56.640
<v Speaker 4>Culture yeah, culture, yeah, yeah.

0:51:57.120 --> 0:51:58.560
<v Speaker 1>Stay stay right there for a second.

0:51:58.719 --> 0:52:00.000
<v Speaker 4>Okay, I got you.

0:52:00.360 --> 0:52:01.600
<v Speaker 1>We'll just stay there. Don't move.

0:52:02.000 --> 0:52:04.440
<v Speaker 4>I'm staying right here. I'm actually on the toilet right now.

0:52:04.560 --> 0:52:05.720
<v Speaker 4>You caught me on the toilet.

0:52:05.760 --> 0:52:13.000
<v Speaker 1>Bro um, okay, chicken's mate through a quick Chickens have

0:52:13.040 --> 0:52:22.120
<v Speaker 1>sex through a quick, non penetrative act called the colloaqal kiss,

0:52:22.640 --> 0:52:27.040
<v Speaker 1>where the rooster mounts the hend, balances on her back,

0:52:27.400 --> 0:52:33.800
<v Speaker 1>and briefly presses his kloaka a single opening for waste

0:52:33.880 --> 0:52:44.840
<v Speaker 1>and reproduction against hers to transfer egg sperm. Wait hold on, okay, okay.

0:52:44.960 --> 0:52:49.560
<v Speaker 1>The rooster performs courtship displays like dancing and offering food

0:52:50.120 --> 0:52:55.240
<v Speaker 1>before a mounting, grabbing the hen's comb or neck feathers

0:52:55.280 --> 0:52:58.759
<v Speaker 1>for balance, and trending his feet. Okay, his video of

0:52:58.800 --> 0:53:06.359
<v Speaker 1>this hold on? Ooh, I like how this YouTube. I

0:53:06.440 --> 0:53:09.920
<v Speaker 1>like how YouTube YouTube does this thing where like I

0:53:10.000 --> 0:53:13.080
<v Speaker 1>click on the video and it it actually starts at

0:53:13.080 --> 0:53:16.920
<v Speaker 1>the time code where the chickens are having sex. YouTube

0:53:17.080 --> 0:53:19.319
<v Speaker 1>kind of like, we'll cut the best part of it

0:53:19.400 --> 0:53:19.719
<v Speaker 1>for you.

0:53:20.880 --> 0:53:22.280
<v Speaker 4>Don't you just love the world?

0:53:23.280 --> 0:53:23.680
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I do.

0:53:23.800 --> 0:53:25.399
<v Speaker 4>I don't love technology.

0:53:25.600 --> 0:53:30.719
<v Speaker 1>Oh wait is it? It's not showing it, but basically

0:53:31.280 --> 0:53:34.840
<v Speaker 1>the I don't think it's a non penetrative it's a

0:53:34.960 --> 0:53:38.200
<v Speaker 1>non penetrative act. I think he's I think he just like.

0:53:38.440 --> 0:53:41.840
<v Speaker 1>I think he just like yeah, yeah, okay, he presses

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<v Speaker 1>her clothes. I think it's like a spraying.

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<v Speaker 4>Right.

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<v Speaker 1>So if you did have sex with the chicken, I

0:53:46.880 --> 0:53:50.120
<v Speaker 1>think you would. I believe. I think it's probably possible

0:53:50.640 --> 0:53:53.160
<v Speaker 1>to have penetrative sex with the chicken, and if you

0:53:53.360 --> 0:53:56.879
<v Speaker 1>did it, you'd likely be the first person to have

0:53:56.920 --> 0:54:01.760
<v Speaker 1>sex with that particular Yeah, now.

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<v Speaker 4>That you say that, you're so right lyle have you

0:54:09.360 --> 0:54:11.719
<v Speaker 4>seen the duck penis before? No?

0:54:11.920 --> 0:54:13.360
<v Speaker 1>And you know what? Hold on? I'm gonna do that

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<v Speaker 1>right now.

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<v Speaker 4>No, now, this will blow your mind.

0:54:16.800 --> 0:54:25.400
<v Speaker 1>All right, Um, I'm looking at it. Wait, let's see gallipore.

0:54:25.680 --> 0:54:31.319
<v Speaker 1>Uh duck penis, they're really tiny.

0:54:31.400 --> 0:54:33.880
<v Speaker 4>They're like, no, they're like you see like the cork

0:54:34.040 --> 0:54:35.080
<v Speaker 4>like it's they're huge.

0:54:36.040 --> 0:54:40.560
<v Speaker 1>They're like, oh, they're not duck screws to compete with

0:54:40.600 --> 0:54:44.600
<v Speaker 1>other males. Oh shit, oh ship yeah. This ducks penis

0:54:44.640 --> 0:54:49.520
<v Speaker 1>is a full nine centimeters long. This one's, this one's

0:54:49.719 --> 0:54:54.439
<v Speaker 1>this one's three centimeters. Wow, holy shit.

0:54:56.400 --> 0:55:01.320
<v Speaker 4>I thought they get like massive, like like feet.

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<v Speaker 1>No, it's not bad. Know, their duck penises are not

0:55:04.200 --> 0:55:04.640
<v Speaker 1>that big.

0:55:05.440 --> 0:55:10.080
<v Speaker 4>No, I'm mistaken. Maybe that's a Mandela effect.

0:55:10.239 --> 0:55:11.720
<v Speaker 1>That's a that's a Mandela effect.

0:55:12.320 --> 0:55:14.480
<v Speaker 4>A low key might be, yeah, because I remember, like

0:55:14.480 --> 0:55:17.600
<v Speaker 4>as a kid, like like looking up duck penis and

0:55:17.640 --> 0:55:18.719
<v Speaker 4>it was like huge.

0:55:18.440 --> 0:55:23.160
<v Speaker 1>Men Mandela effect. Mandela effect is like people not knowing

0:55:23.160 --> 0:55:24.480
<v Speaker 1>if he's alive or dead.

0:55:24.320 --> 0:55:30.319
<v Speaker 4>Right, yeah. Yeah, it's like Baron skin Bears, beren Steinber's

0:55:30.560 --> 0:55:34.600
<v Speaker 4>he's dead right yeah, Oh oh he's got to be

0:55:34.719 --> 0:55:36.560
<v Speaker 4>now or I think he was Like at the time,

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<v Speaker 4>when was this, like.

0:55:39.560 --> 0:55:45.520
<v Speaker 1>I don't know, like he died, he died a while ago. Yeah, dude,

0:55:45.560 --> 0:55:48.960
<v Speaker 1>what a cool life Nelson Mandela. I mean he really

0:55:49.160 --> 0:55:51.959
<v Speaker 1>damn he died, Dude. He was ninety five years old

0:55:52.000 --> 0:55:57.719
<v Speaker 1>when he died. That's such a huge that's such a like, dude,

0:55:57.760 --> 0:55:59.759
<v Speaker 1>for a man to do that like this meant like

0:56:00.080 --> 0:56:05.319
<v Speaker 1>dismantling the apartheid of an entire fucking nation and then

0:56:05.640 --> 0:56:08.200
<v Speaker 1>like doing a bunch of other cool shit, and then

0:56:08.400 --> 0:56:10.320
<v Speaker 1>you know what, he probably has a bunch of probably

0:56:10.360 --> 0:56:13.840
<v Speaker 1>a wife and kids and stuff like that. A six kids.

0:56:13.880 --> 0:56:20.279
<v Speaker 1>Holy shit, he had six kids, three wives, dismantled in

0:56:20.280 --> 0:56:25.040
<v Speaker 1>apartheid state, pissed off a bunch of people on the

0:56:25.160 --> 0:56:29.400
<v Speaker 1>right and the left. Uh. He received over two hundred

0:56:29.440 --> 0:56:34.280
<v Speaker 1>and fifty honors. Mandela is an On his Wikipedia page,

0:56:34.280 --> 0:56:36.040
<v Speaker 1>it says it literally says he's one of the best

0:56:36.040 --> 0:56:39.440
<v Speaker 1>people of all time. Mandela is widely considered one of

0:56:39.480 --> 0:56:43.799
<v Speaker 1>the greatest figures of the twentieth century. Literally on his

0:56:44.040 --> 0:56:46.799
<v Speaker 1>imagine on your Wikipedia page, it just says he's one

0:56:46.800 --> 0:56:48.920
<v Speaker 1>of the greatest guys that's ever lived.

0:56:50.280 --> 0:56:53.200
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, people don't know if he lived or died.

0:56:53.760 --> 0:57:00.759
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, well lived, well lived or died. Is he's dead,

0:57:00.840 --> 0:57:03.520
<v Speaker 1>lived or died? Is like you've heard ninety five. You

0:57:03.560 --> 0:57:05.080
<v Speaker 1>know what I mean, like lived or died is like

0:57:05.200 --> 0:57:09.200
<v Speaker 1>what you say about somebody who like, uh is like

0:57:09.280 --> 0:57:13.360
<v Speaker 1>at war or something like it's kind of pending, you

0:57:13.440 --> 0:57:17.800
<v Speaker 1>know what I mean. But like true, he's not he

0:57:17.800 --> 0:57:20.120
<v Speaker 1>he went as far as you could. No one lives,

0:57:20.480 --> 0:57:22.680
<v Speaker 1>No one lives period.

0:57:23.120 --> 0:57:25.320
<v Speaker 4>Yeah you know what I mean. Yeah, Well, I have

0:57:25.360 --> 0:57:28.920
<v Speaker 4>a question. What if you could be in any history

0:57:28.920 --> 0:57:31.440
<v Speaker 4>and time, like point in time, when would it be

0:57:32.120 --> 0:57:36.960
<v Speaker 4>this passfors this one right now? Oh yeah really with

0:57:37.040 --> 0:57:38.160
<v Speaker 4>all your knowledge as well?

0:57:39.080 --> 0:57:40.400
<v Speaker 1>Yeah? Yeah, definitely.

0:57:40.840 --> 0:57:42.560
<v Speaker 4>Wow, Wow do I have to wait? Wait?

0:57:42.560 --> 0:57:44.320
<v Speaker 1>Wait, can I come? Can I just like take a peek?

0:57:47.520 --> 0:57:50.320
<v Speaker 4>You have to live. Let's let's let's say a year.

0:57:50.640 --> 0:57:53.840
<v Speaker 1>Oh fuck that, No, I'm staying here. Well a year,

0:57:54.160 --> 0:57:57.480
<v Speaker 1>a year? Nah fuck no fuck that, I'm staying here.

0:57:57.520 --> 0:58:00.640
<v Speaker 1>I'll stay here. Interesting, I mean you could, I mean

0:58:00.840 --> 0:58:03.960
<v Speaker 1>you could go back in time and like use the

0:58:04.000 --> 0:58:11.160
<v Speaker 1>information that you have to like no, no, no, no, no, no, no,

0:58:11.240 --> 0:58:14.000
<v Speaker 1>I'm staying here. No. Yeah, absolutely, because I was gonna

0:58:14.040 --> 0:58:17.600
<v Speaker 1>say you could, like because if you went back in time,

0:58:18.960 --> 0:58:20.840
<v Speaker 1>what like there's the easy one of people being like,

0:58:20.880 --> 0:58:22.680
<v Speaker 1>oh you can go back in time, like use knowledge

0:58:22.720 --> 0:58:25.680
<v Speaker 1>you have about world events to like make money or whatever.

0:58:25.840 --> 0:58:27.480
<v Speaker 1>But it's like, well, you can use the knowledge you

0:58:27.520 --> 0:58:31.760
<v Speaker 1>have about world events to like actually, there's no world

0:58:31.800 --> 0:58:36.400
<v Speaker 1>events that I have knowledge of that I that was

0:58:36.480 --> 0:58:43.160
<v Speaker 1>negative that I could like stop. Yeah, yeah, yeah, there's

0:58:43.160 --> 0:58:45.520
<v Speaker 1>no there's nothing that I I I personally could stop,

0:58:45.680 --> 0:58:50.000
<v Speaker 1>Like I can't stop any like election. I mean there's

0:58:50.120 --> 0:58:52.880
<v Speaker 1>like assassinations I can stop. Like like me personally, I

0:58:52.880 --> 0:58:53.440
<v Speaker 1>don't have the.

0:58:53.480 --> 0:58:57.040
<v Speaker 4>Dude, you could stop all of the Holocaust, Bro, you could.

0:58:57.160 --> 0:58:58.960
<v Speaker 1>I don't think I could have stopped the Holocaust.

0:58:59.800 --> 0:59:01.840
<v Speaker 4>It's you went back. I feel like if you went

0:59:01.880 --> 0:59:04.920
<v Speaker 4>back to like when Hitler was like a kid or

0:59:04.960 --> 0:59:06.600
<v Speaker 4>not a kid, but like a teenager or whatever, and

0:59:06.640 --> 0:59:08.800
<v Speaker 4>he's trying to get an art school and you got

0:59:08.880 --> 0:59:12.000
<v Speaker 4>him in the art school, Like I don't know, that

0:59:12.120 --> 0:59:13.080
<v Speaker 4>might change everything.

0:59:13.600 --> 0:59:16.160
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but I don't think how how am I how

0:59:16.760 --> 0:59:20.560
<v Speaker 1>Like I'm a random guy. I don't have any I

0:59:20.600 --> 0:59:23.400
<v Speaker 1>don't know anyone in the ninth.

0:59:23.480 --> 0:59:25.600
<v Speaker 4>If you went there were ge Goo suit, I think

0:59:25.640 --> 0:59:27.240
<v Speaker 4>that earns you instant respect.

0:59:27.680 --> 0:59:29.640
<v Speaker 1>It could that's I think.

0:59:29.440 --> 0:59:34.240
<v Speaker 4>He would follow you into into anywhere you want to go.

0:59:35.200 --> 0:59:39.200
<v Speaker 1>Also, I can't talk to Hitler. I don't speak uh Jorman,

0:59:39.440 --> 0:59:44.080
<v Speaker 1>and I don't have uh Google translate at the time.

0:59:44.200 --> 0:59:46.400
<v Speaker 1>Like there's just I like, I don't think I could,

0:59:46.680 --> 0:59:49.080
<v Speaker 1>and then that's I want to kill him. It's like how,

0:59:49.120 --> 0:59:51.280
<v Speaker 1>I don't How am I going to get a gun?

0:59:51.440 --> 0:59:56.000
<v Speaker 1>Am I really gonna do that? Am I? Like the

0:59:56.080 --> 1:00:00.920
<v Speaker 1>legist the logistics of even if like a baby, like

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<v Speaker 1>I don't have it in me to like kill a baby.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't even think. I don't think it's right to

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<v Speaker 1>kill a baby, even if even if you know, like

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<v Speaker 1>if I could go back to time, like if I

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<v Speaker 1>I think that that's a moral quandary to me, because

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<v Speaker 1>like if I go back in time and I just

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<v Speaker 1>killed like contextually, I'm not killing baby Hitler, I'm just

1:00:22.320 --> 1:00:25.680
<v Speaker 1>kept killing a baby. I think it's I think I

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<v Speaker 1>think it's so fucked up to be like, well, he's

1:00:28.720 --> 1:00:30.560
<v Speaker 1>gonna do all this stuff, but yeah, but he did,

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<v Speaker 1>you know he didn't.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I think we all didn't do anything, you know, Yeah, no, exactly, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>I mean yeah, when I just said, we all have

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<v Speaker 4>the same potential like when we're little babies, like anyone

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<v Speaker 4>could be anyone, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if that's true that we all have

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<v Speaker 1>the same potential. I I don't know. I mean, there's

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<v Speaker 1>so much of how your life plays out not so

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<v Speaker 1>not I don't know, I'm being needlessly deterministic. But a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of how your life plays out is based on

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's fair to say that a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>how your life plays out is based on like who

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<v Speaker 1>you're like, like where you're born, and who your friends

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<v Speaker 1>are and stuff like that. I think it's fair.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, no, that's true. Like you said, you say, this's

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<v Speaker 4>a lot that you you see your dad, you see

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<v Speaker 4>yourself and your dad, And I've heard you say that before. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>and when you say that, like I I I also do,

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<v Speaker 4>like I see my dad and myself and it's super weird,

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<v Speaker 4>Like I'm just and I wonder, like was because I

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<v Speaker 4>never met my grandpa, But I'm like, was he like

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<v Speaker 4>this too? Like is it just really was? Since? But

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<v Speaker 4>like since when? Like is it just like go on

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<v Speaker 4>forever and we're all just like copies of each other

1:01:49.560 --> 1:01:53.400
<v Speaker 4>in a way. It's weird. But I also like the

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<v Speaker 4>whole nurture versus nature thing. It's like I think it's

1:01:57.000 --> 1:02:00.680
<v Speaker 4>nurture and nature because you, like, I see people as

1:02:00.720 --> 1:02:04.960
<v Speaker 4>like a computer, and you're like the motherboard when you're born,

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<v Speaker 4>and then you get software like as you grow, like

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<v Speaker 4>based on your environment and like your parents and stuff.

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<v Speaker 4>But yeah, I don't what do you what do you?

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<v Speaker 4>What do you think about that?

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<v Speaker 1>Sorry, I'm I'm looking through Nelson Mandel's Wikipedia page right now.

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<v Speaker 1>He he literally was like, like, dude, he just fucking

1:02:31.880 --> 1:02:36.680
<v Speaker 1>he like dismantled. He just he like he dismantles apartheid.

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<v Speaker 1>Then he fucking uh because he becomes an elder statesman,

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<v Speaker 1>he declines a presidential term. He literally voluntarily gave someone

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<v Speaker 1>else power, like that's unheard of. And then and then

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<v Speaker 1>you know what he did after that? He gets because

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<v Speaker 1>he was bored. You don't know elseon Mandela does when

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<v Speaker 1>he's bored. Was it Colton? Know what Nelson Mandela does

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<v Speaker 1>when he's bored.

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<v Speaker 4>It's culture with an art culter culture.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what Nelson Mandela does when he's bored.

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<v Speaker 4>What does he do when he's bored.

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<v Speaker 1>He focuses on combating not only poverty, but also aids

1:03:18.080 --> 1:03:24.200
<v Speaker 1>through the charitable Nelson Mandela Foundation, founded in nineteen ninety nine.

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<v Speaker 1>When he was Yeah, when he finished being the president,

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<v Speaker 1>he just quit being the president to eradicate poverty and

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<v Speaker 1>AIDS because he was bored.

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<v Speaker 4>Dude, he got the Bible.

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<v Speaker 1>He got the Nobel Peace Prize. What else did he do?

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<v Speaker 4>Dude? You should you should get one of his six

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<v Speaker 4>kids on the show.

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<v Speaker 1>That would be fucking awesome. That would be really good.

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<v Speaker 1>O the way, Okay, okay, all of his children? No, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, he actually okay, So he has it says

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<v Speaker 1>here he has six children, and it says six children

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<v Speaker 1>in including mcgatho, Macki, Zenani, and Zin.

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<v Speaker 4>De z Wa.

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<v Speaker 1>So only four and and all of their names are

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<v Speaker 1>are highlighted blue, which means they lead to links they

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<v Speaker 1>like each of like four of four of his six

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<v Speaker 1>children also have Wikipedia pages, which means two of his

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<v Speaker 1>children are just chilling.

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<v Speaker 4>Are relevant?

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<v Speaker 1>Are are? For lack of a better word, yes, around

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<v Speaker 1>two of Nelson's men. Two of Nelson Mandel's children are,

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<v Speaker 1>for lack of a better word, not relevant enough. They're

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<v Speaker 1>they're not relevant enough to have a Wikipedia page.

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<v Speaker 4>Maybe that'll make it easier to get them on the show.

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<v Speaker 1>Then, yeah, that's true, that's true. Maybe, Yeah, they're probably

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<v Speaker 1>not as busy, Okay, mcgaetho mcgatho unfortunately passed away.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay in the heart.

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<v Speaker 1>Bro Maguet, Well, but he passed away. But he was

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<v Speaker 1>he wasn't like a little kid. He was fifty four.

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<v Speaker 1>He's a bummer, but.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, he's like he's still kind of a little kid.

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<v Speaker 1>Uh okay, maccauz z way macca ze way is she's seven.

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<v Speaker 1>Hold she's seventy one, go girl.

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<v Speaker 4>She is?

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<v Speaker 1>Dude, how old was Nelson Mandela when he had these

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<v Speaker 1>fucking kids? Fifty?

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<v Speaker 4>What he is?

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<v Speaker 1>How old is nels? How old is Nelson Mandela? Nineteen eighty? Okay? Alright?

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<v Speaker 1>He had them at like a normal age?

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<v Speaker 4>What's a what's a normal age to have kids?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. I didn't know if he had like

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<v Speaker 1>a like like you know, late twenties on. I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>know if he had I don't know if he had

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<v Speaker 1>them at like when he was like, you know, like

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<v Speaker 1>eighteen or something like that. All right, So all right,

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<v Speaker 1>so what still alive? Okay? And then Zanani is a

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<v Speaker 1>South African diplomat.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh one of his kids, yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, that's and then okay, then the other one I

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<v Speaker 1>was also, uh Zinzi has passed away. She passed damn

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<v Speaker 1>she passed away kind of recently.

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<v Speaker 4>L r P.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh fuck, she passed away from COVID.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh damn. That is that's like a it's like a

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<v Speaker 4>sign of the times. Well, yeah, damn, that's tough.

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<v Speaker 1>Who's his? Oh ship is fucking damn damn dude. Wait

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<v Speaker 1>uh oh okay, his wife is his?

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<v Speaker 4>His?

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<v Speaker 1>The woman he was married to at the time. Uh

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<v Speaker 1>is still alive?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh wow? Shit? How old is she?

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<v Speaker 1>She's eight eighty so, yeah, she's eighty.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh. So she was kind of young. Huh she was, she.

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<v Speaker 1>Seemed she was. Okay, he was born in nineteen eighteen.

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<v Speaker 1>What what's forty five minus eighteen? That's one of those

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<v Speaker 1>really tricky man, Right, Yeah, what's forty five? What's forty

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<v Speaker 1>five minus eighteen? Twenty seven? Okay, so she was twenty

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<v Speaker 1>seven years younger than he was.

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<v Speaker 4>Damn all right.

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<v Speaker 1>So if we're if we're talking, you know, age gap

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<v Speaker 1>relationships are are definitely you know, they're they're a touchy

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<v Speaker 1>subject in modern society. But she was sixty eight years old, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>and he was ninety when he died. I think by

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<v Speaker 1>the time you're sixty eight, you can go for it.

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's sixty yeah, at sixty eight you can date. Like,

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<v Speaker 1>there's certain ages where I think it's completely appropriate to date.

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<v Speaker 1>However older you can, and so at sixty eight, I

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<v Speaker 1>think it's okay to be dating a guy in his nineties.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, no, for sure, for sure. Yeah. Hold, I think

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<v Speaker 4>it's I think it's weird when you're like fifty and

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<v Speaker 4>you're dating like a nineteen year old, Like that's that's

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<v Speaker 4>the that's the line for me.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, fifty fifty and fifty and nineteen is controversial. Fifty

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<v Speaker 1>and ninety one not as controversial.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, No, you're right, you're right. You're right because you're

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, you're mature at that point. Yeah, like night, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>I'm sure.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I think I think if you're I think if

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<v Speaker 1>you're fifty, you should be able to date any age

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<v Speaker 1>for sure.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, agreed.

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<v Speaker 1>Wait what do you think about I was gonna say,

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<v Speaker 1>like I was never mind, that's it doesn't make any sense.

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<v Speaker 1>I was gonna say, but about being like nineteen dating

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<v Speaker 1>one hundred year old.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh wow, that's that's at that point, that's.

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<v Speaker 1>Just who's taking advantage of who in that situation.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, no, exactly. I was just literally just about to

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<v Speaker 4>say that.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, who's taking advantage of who in that situation. One,

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<v Speaker 1>if you're like, like I'm talking like one hundred, one

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<v Speaker 1>hundred years.

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<v Speaker 4>Old, Yeah, no, I think if you're one hundred years old,

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<v Speaker 4>you're getting the benefit of like having a younger spouse,

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<v Speaker 4>but as the nineteen year old, you're getting like all

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<v Speaker 4>the inheritance hopefully or whatever they have. Like, so it's

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<v Speaker 4>it's kind of a win win in.

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<v Speaker 1>A way, because when you're a hundred that you can't

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<v Speaker 1>even be Actually, you know what, how old is Dick

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<v Speaker 1>Van Dyke? He's okay, never mind, Okay, I was gonna

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<v Speaker 1>say at one hundred years old, you're not even there.

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<v Speaker 1>But Dick van Dyke is pretty sharp.

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<v Speaker 4>How old is Dick van Dyke?

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<v Speaker 1>One hundred is g'z one hundred?

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<v Speaker 4>Wow? Wow?

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<v Speaker 1>How is he? How is he still fucking alive?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah? How old do you expect yourself to live? Or

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<v Speaker 4>how old do you want yourself to live?

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<v Speaker 1>I'd like to do eighty.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I'm right there with you.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I think eighty is pretty good. Wait, check this out,

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<v Speaker 1>Dick van Dyke. Now we're just hanging out of my Wikipedia.

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<v Speaker 1>Who gives a shit Dick Van Dyke? Okay, in nineteen. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so get this, okay. Dick Van Dyke was born in

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<v Speaker 1>nineteen twenty five. Okay, in nineteen seventy two. So when

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<v Speaker 1>he was forty seven years old, he had he'd been

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<v Speaker 1>struggling with alcoholism for his entire life, checked into a

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<v Speaker 1>hospital for we for three weeks to be treated for

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<v Speaker 1>his alcohol addiction. And now he's sober. So he quit.

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<v Speaker 1>So he quit drinking when he was forty eight, and

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<v Speaker 1>now he's like, we'll live into one hundred. Okay, look

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<v Speaker 1>at he was a heavy smoker for most of his life.

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<v Speaker 1>And in January twenty thirteen, so when he was damn

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<v Speaker 1>damned in his late eighties, he claimed to have been

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<v Speaker 1>using nicorette for the past decade. So he figures, he

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<v Speaker 1>figures out how to do it. Man, I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>he's just I don't know. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 4>Not got those year jeans.

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<v Speaker 1>Who's he got married? Okay? His wife is dead. His

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<v Speaker 1>wife died a long time ago. I don't like the

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<v Speaker 1>way I said that. That felt that feels weird. Wait, No,

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<v Speaker 1>that's ald on. Wait okay, his wife hold on the

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<v Speaker 1>wayst it was just was No, his wife's alive. That's wrong.

1:12:07.000 --> 1:12:09.960
<v Speaker 1>I'm wrong. One of his one of his ex wives

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<v Speaker 1>is dead. But wait, wait, wait, okay, this kind of

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<v Speaker 1>this plays this plays into it, this plays into what

1:12:15.640 --> 1:12:18.960
<v Speaker 1>we were talking about. Okay, Dick van Dyke one hundred

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<v Speaker 1>years old. Guess how old his wife is?

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<v Speaker 4>Ooh, mid sixties. Let's go like sixty.

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<v Speaker 1>Four, fifty four years old. Damn damn so he So he's.

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<v Speaker 4>Mayried to a woman right there.

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<v Speaker 1>He's married to a woman half his age. Yeah, more

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<v Speaker 1>or less. Yeah, but she's fifty four. You know, most

1:12:51.600 --> 1:12:53.320
<v Speaker 1>of the time, if you're married a woman half your age,

1:12:53.320 --> 1:12:57.040
<v Speaker 1>people like it's a little whatever. But he's fifty four, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>fifty four years old. It's funny if you look at it,

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<v Speaker 1>if you look at a picture of them together, it

1:13:04.760 --> 1:13:08.280
<v Speaker 1>looks a little it's interesting. But he's I don't know,

1:13:08.320 --> 1:13:11.559
<v Speaker 1>he's just full of he's full of life. He's doing

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<v Speaker 1>pretty good. One hundred years old. Goddamn.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I wonder what the secret is. I don't I

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<v Speaker 4>don't know. I'd be like, I don't know, I'm I'm

1:13:23.400 --> 1:13:25.439
<v Speaker 4>I'm not ready to die. Of course I'm still young,

1:13:25.520 --> 1:13:28.519
<v Speaker 4>but like when the time comes, I won't be or

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know, I don't know. I don't know. Maybe

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<v Speaker 4>I'll be scared, maybe not.

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<v Speaker 1>But yeah, I wonder if he's scared to die, Like no,

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<v Speaker 1>he's breaking out.

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<v Speaker 4>I'll be sad. I think by that time I'll probably

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<v Speaker 4>have kids and stuff and it'll just be like, damn,

1:13:45.000 --> 1:13:46.200
<v Speaker 4>you know, bro.

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<v Speaker 1>Imagine having a Imagine having a imagine having a seventy

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<v Speaker 1>four year old son. His son is seventy four, dude,

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<v Speaker 1>Damn wow, imagine you have a imagine your son isn't old? Man?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, no, I I can't even imagine that, honestly. Okay,

1:14:07.120 --> 1:14:09.280
<v Speaker 4>imagine my son is like a you know, thirty year

1:14:09.320 --> 1:14:12.200
<v Speaker 4>old dude. Yeah, when I'm dying here, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh wait, okay, do you know the movie Don't Worry Darling?

1:14:24.080 --> 1:14:24.439
<v Speaker 1>I do.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, Yeah, it's pretty It's.

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<v Speaker 1>Popular for all these on for the for the on

1:14:28.320 --> 1:14:32.200
<v Speaker 1>set drama. It was written by Dick Van Dyke's kids.

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<v Speaker 4>Really do you know that? I did not know that?

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<v Speaker 1>Dude? Who is this Dick Van Dyke guy? He's just

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<v Speaker 1>doing it.

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<v Speaker 4>He's just Wow, who's your favorite person in history? You're

1:14:45.200 --> 1:14:47.759
<v Speaker 4>talking so much about Dick Van Dyke and then Nelson

1:14:47.800 --> 1:14:50.920
<v Speaker 4>and Della. It's like history's on your mind right now?

1:14:51.800 --> 1:14:54.040
<v Speaker 1>Who's my favorite person in history?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Uh, I don't, I don't, I am I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>if I have one, do you?

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<v Speaker 4>Mm hmmm, I don't know. I really like I like

1:15:11.320 --> 1:15:15.799
<v Speaker 4>Bill Nye. I think he's pretty cool. I like uh,

1:15:16.200 --> 1:15:20.519
<v Speaker 4>I like Neil de grasse Tyson. He's also Oh no,

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<v Speaker 4>you know what number one answer favorite person that I

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<v Speaker 4>can name off the top of my head, just like,

1:15:26.280 --> 1:15:29.680
<v Speaker 4>I guess this is just celebrities because I'm like, this

1:15:29.720 --> 1:15:32.120
<v Speaker 4>is the time I'm living in. But I think John

1:15:32.200 --> 1:15:36.000
<v Speaker 4>Cena is a genuinely good dude. Like I don't even

1:15:36.000 --> 1:15:41.519
<v Speaker 4>watch wrestling or anything. He seems like a good ass dude. Yeah,

1:15:41.880 --> 1:15:49.320
<v Speaker 4>I like his vibe. Mhm. Do you have a like

1:15:49.360 --> 1:15:52.400
<v Speaker 4>a favorite celebrity or something like an idol or anything?

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<v Speaker 1>I like? Uh, I don't know. I like Norm m. MacDonald.

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<v Speaker 1>He's funny, he's he passed away. Uh maybe Ben's Stiller. No,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't. I just wanted to say, no, no, I don't.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't.

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<v Speaker 1>Actually I don't have I don't have for Ben Stiller.

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<v Speaker 1>I just I just he's alive. I just felt I

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<v Speaker 1>just felt the need to say something.

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<v Speaker 4>Coulter could, yeah, Culter.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I'm I'm so fucking mad that you told me you.

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<v Speaker 4>Had a dude. I didn't know how hard it would

1:16:30.080 --> 1:16:31.839
<v Speaker 4>be to get on the show, and I'm.

1:16:31.640 --> 1:16:37.320
<v Speaker 1>Like, apparently it's not that hard. Apparently it's easy, dude.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm sorry, I'm sorry. I'm not I'm not a liar.

1:16:39.439 --> 1:16:42.080
<v Speaker 4>I just it's all right. I've wanted to talk to

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<v Speaker 4>you for.

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<v Speaker 1>By the way, by the way you are you, by

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<v Speaker 1>the way you I don't believe in hardcore labels like liar.

1:16:51.640 --> 1:16:57.080
<v Speaker 4>Mm hmm, but you did lie I did. Yeah. Yeah,

1:16:57.280 --> 1:17:00.840
<v Speaker 4>it was just a little white lie, you know, to you.

1:17:01.000 --> 1:17:04.320
<v Speaker 4>To me, it was it was detrimental.

1:17:05.280 --> 1:17:07.960
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, if I really actually know, it's well to me.

1:17:08.840 --> 1:17:12.360
<v Speaker 1>To me, it took what I thought was going to

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<v Speaker 1>be like a juicy phone call into thirty eight minutes

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<v Speaker 1>of me browsing Wikipedia with you, basically an entire podcast

1:17:23.080 --> 1:17:25.320
<v Speaker 1>of me browsing Wikipedia with you. And I don't mind

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<v Speaker 1>that at all.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, No, that's okay. Yeah, I'm just glad to be

1:17:30.240 --> 1:17:34.000
<v Speaker 4>talking to you right now. It's like, it's it's wild,

1:17:34.360 --> 1:17:37.280
<v Speaker 4>it's wild hearing you when I listen to you every day.

1:17:37.320 --> 1:17:42.720
<v Speaker 4>It's weird. But uh, yeah, I think you're really I

1:17:44.040 --> 1:17:47.000
<v Speaker 4>see myself a lot in you in a way. It's weird,

1:17:47.040 --> 1:17:51.080
<v Speaker 4>but I think I think if we we knew each other,

1:17:51.160 --> 1:17:54.400
<v Speaker 4>we'd be friends. I think that to myself.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, Culture, Yeah, we can be friends right now.

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<v Speaker 4>Dude. That's that's amazing.

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<v Speaker 1>I love that is there? Is there anything else you

1:18:08.520 --> 1:18:10.120
<v Speaker 1>want to say to the people of the computer before

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<v Speaker 1>we go?

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<v Speaker 4>Live your life to the fullest, guys, and just remember

1:18:18.720 --> 1:18:20.240
<v Speaker 4>that love is everything.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, gek, bless your Culture.

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<v Speaker 4>Gek, bless you, Lyle. I love you. Talk to you later,

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<v Speaker 4>all right.

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<v Speaker 1>See you, man, love you too, Love you too, Culture,

1:18:33.840 --> 1:18:36.360
<v Speaker 1>love you. Love you so fucking much. Culture.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh my god, I love you.

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<v Speaker 1>So fucking much.

1:18:40.600 --> 1:18:40.880
<v Speaker 4>Dude.

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<v Speaker 1>I love you more than any I love you more

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<v Speaker 1>than any chicken or civil rights leader on the planet Earth. Culture.

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<v Speaker 4>That's so sweet. You need to make a You need

1:18:53.200 --> 1:18:56.840
<v Speaker 4>to make a show, Lyle, like a TV show. You

1:18:56.840 --> 1:19:03.720
<v Speaker 4>need to get on that else. Uh yeah, no, that's it.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh are you coming to Tampa this year?

1:19:07.080 --> 1:19:09.920
<v Speaker 1>I don't know. I don't know. I can't tell you.

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<v Speaker 4>You should I might for me? Okay, all right, Lyle, Well,

1:19:17.040 --> 1:19:19.479
<v Speaker 4>I love you again, and I'll uh, I'll listen to you,

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<v Speaker 4>and tomorrow morning, when I'm on my way to work.

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<v Speaker 1>Sweet, I'll look forward to being there vicariously through my

1:19:25.760 --> 1:19:26.519
<v Speaker 1>digital self.

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<v Speaker 4>Thanks Lyle. It's great talking man.

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<v Speaker 1>Good talking man. You take care. That was culture. I

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<v Speaker 1>hope you guys enjoyed listening to that. I got lost

1:19:39.120 --> 1:19:41.439
<v Speaker 1>in it. I enjoyed me. I enjoy I got lost

1:19:41.439 --> 1:19:45.200
<v Speaker 1>in it. That was fun for me. I like looking

1:19:45.240 --> 1:19:47.200
<v Speaker 1>at Wikipedia. I like looking at it stuff. I like

1:19:47.240 --> 1:19:51.760
<v Speaker 1>the culture. I hope you enjoyed it. But if you didn't,

1:19:51.760 --> 1:19:59.000
<v Speaker 1>at least one person did. And that person is men.

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<v Speaker 4>Shun is Id. You's teaching you to housing your life,

1:20:03.520 --> 1:20:05.760
<v Speaker 4>but he's not really an expert.