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Speaker 1: Hello, Hello, what's up? What's your name? Oh?

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Speaker 2: My god, it is bro. This is sick. I'm going

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Speaker 2: by Coraly.

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Speaker 1: Coraly. That's like that movie.

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Speaker 2: Oh that's Coraline.

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Speaker 1: I said it was like that movie.

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Speaker 2: Sure, this is based on a character in a show

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Speaker 2: with Debbie Ryan.

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Speaker 1: Oh, so this is what your name is? Your name

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Speaker 1: is based on a fictional character. Your fake name?

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Speaker 2: Correct? Correct?

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Speaker 1: What's what tell me about this character?

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Speaker 2: Oh?

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Speaker 3: God, she's like a mom who.

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Speaker 2: Is like this southern woman who grew up in a

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Speaker 2: trailer park and she like has a threeesome of her

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Speaker 2: husband and her husband's like rival and it's like it's

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Speaker 2: a crazy show. It's called a Insatiable You should watch it.

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Speaker 1: Do you? Did you pick that name because you like

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Speaker 1: the character or because you feel like you have something

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Speaker 2: Because I like the character. She was a good actress.

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Speaker 2: She's just funny.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Corally Chorally? Uh is there a reason you called today, Coraly?

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Speaker 3: Yes?

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Speaker 2: I want to talk about my recent move to New York.

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Speaker 1: Oh cool? Where where from.

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Speaker 2: From Vermont?

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Speaker 1: And how has it been going?

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Speaker 2: It is okay, it doesn't feel realized. I feel like

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Speaker 2: I'm like on vacation.

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Speaker 4: Still move to New York.

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Speaker 3: I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I was having like a coral life crisis and I

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Speaker 2: was kind of like in a dead end, like working

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Speaker 2: at a diner, and I don't know, I just want

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Speaker 2: to change a pace. Before I was like forty or

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Speaker 2: live in the city and live it up a little bit.

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Speaker 1: And Okay, you called in to want to talk about

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Speaker 1: your move, anything specifically about it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I guess, Well, I know you're talking about stuff

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Speaker 2: whole time, but I just.

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Speaker 3: I don't have a job. I moved here without a job.

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Speaker 2: I have like no friends. I have like two friends

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Speaker 2: who live here, and I'm just trying to navigate that.

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Speaker 2: It's it's kind of hard to find a job. I'm

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Speaker 2: like just trying to get a serving job. But I

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Speaker 2: guess I'm being late. It's kind of lot to work.

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Speaker 2: You have to print out your resume and go around

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Speaker 2: and introduce yourself everywhere.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, well you meet in New York City, correct?

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Speaker 2: Correct? Yeah, Brooklyn?

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Speaker 1: How long have you been in Brooklyn?

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Speaker 2: Like three weeks?

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Speaker 1: You've been here even if it's three weeks. Where you

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Speaker 1: are you living with people?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: I have one roommate.

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Speaker 1: How do you pay the rent.

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Speaker 2: Well I have, I'm living off with savings right now.

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Speaker 1: Oh okay, all right, how long how long do you

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Speaker 1: have until those savings run out?

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Speaker 3: Oh?

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Speaker 2: Jeez, uh a couple months. I'm a little bit of

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Speaker 2: a safety in that.

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Speaker 1: Okay. Here's the thing about New York City, and this

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Speaker 1: is here's the thing about New York City. And this

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Speaker 1: is New York City is filled with rich people and

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Speaker 1: moves to New York City because just existing in New York,

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Speaker 1: like because it's so fucking expensive and crazy, and everyone

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Speaker 1: It's a weird thing, but like the point of being

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Speaker 1: and you're getting fucked by it. I feel for you,

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Speaker 1: But if you move to New York City, you kind

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Speaker 2: Know, to make totally I'm not accepting any pity. I

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Speaker 2: knew what I was going into, but it's definitely lonelier

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Speaker 2: I gotta like find my community.

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Speaker 1: You know, you've been there for three weeks.

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Speaker 2: I know. It's not what am I doing?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, well, what have you been doing for those three weeks?

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Speaker 2: Oh god, I'm like wandering around shopping. I did hnd

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Speaker 2: out some resumes. I was becoming a regular diner around here,

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Speaker 2: climbing the fire skates to watch the sunrise on my roof.

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Speaker 1: You're doing great, I see you. You're that's a great

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Speaker 1: first three weeks in New.

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Speaker 2: York, right, that's like, this is like New York City thing.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I asked you a random question.

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Speaker 1: You can ask me a random question.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, have you ever had a threeesome? I?

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Speaker 1: I am what makes you want to ask me this?

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Speaker 2: Because because I met my neighbor the other day and

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Speaker 2: been thinking about it, like I didn't say yes, but

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Speaker 2: I didn't say no. But I'm like, oh god, I

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Speaker 2: don't know if I can do that, like with a

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Speaker 1: Wait, the fact that you didn't immediately, because this doesn't

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Speaker 1: sound like a story of like a creepy thing. The

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Speaker 2: Like kind of like I kind of just want to

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Speaker 2: do it for the plot. I was like on porn Hub,

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Speaker 2: Like I'm not I'm like straight, I don't even know

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Speaker 2: if I would enjoy that.

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Speaker 1: But what did you find in your research?

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Speaker 2: Uh? I was just like, I mean, I guess that's

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Speaker 2: all staged. Most of porn Hub is staged, but it's

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Speaker 2: I've never really thought about it too deeply.

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Speaker 4: Hmm.

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Speaker 2: Answered my question, would you would.

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Speaker 3: You want to?

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Speaker 1: Would I would I want to? Yeah, Well it depends

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Speaker 1: on this scenario. I don't think if that guy I asked.

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Speaker 1: I you know, I'm actually you know what's funny is

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Speaker 1: I'm really thinking about this. Like if a guy okay,

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Speaker 1: do you want to have a threesome with me? I

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Speaker 1: would I feel where you're at because I would genuinely

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Speaker 2: Like it's kind of exciting, like should I like, I'm like.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I'm if they were like okay, if they

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Speaker 1: like I also want my husband to like, uh you know,

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Speaker 1: like you know, I okay, I'm going to take this

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Speaker 1: uh you know what I mean. Like, if there's like

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Speaker 1: I would still be like apprehensive about it. I'd be

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Speaker 1: and it would be interesting for the plot.

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Speaker 3: I agree, right, Like it'd be a cool story, but like, yeah, I'm.

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Speaker 2: In my neighbor, like, I don't know, that'd be kind

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Speaker 1: Would probably do it for the plot myself.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, mm hmm, thanks for your opinion.

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Speaker 1: Was are you attracted to this couple? So I don't

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Speaker 4: Here, But.

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Speaker 3: I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I don't I met the girlfriend, so like not really,

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Speaker 2: I feel I shouldn't do it. I feel like I'm

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Speaker 1: The only objectively right reason to have sex is to reproduce.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's true, right, even that, I don't even.

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Speaker 1: Know if I don't even know, if I don't even

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Speaker 1: You've only been here for three you should stop. See

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Speaker 1: that's the thing. You've been here for three weeks and

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Speaker 1: You're doing good. You're gonna You're gonna have There is

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Speaker 4: You're right as.

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Speaker 1: Life goes on, so don't freak out. Maybe you make

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Speaker 5: Maybe if you be I'm definitely becoming friends with this guy.

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Speaker 5: So yeah, thanks, I knew that reassurance. Have you ever

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Speaker 4: Thought, that's okay.

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Speaker 2: Have you ever thought about what it'd be like to

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Speaker 1: I think about food and hiding, I think.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I guess people do that too.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, no, I've thought. I've thought about what it's like

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Speaker 3: Yeah, critter.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, horrible life. I like being horrible life.

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Speaker 2: They don't know any different. So I like being human too.

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Speaker 1: Hey, get this, you might be in the same position

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Speaker 1: as the rat rat you know, okay, because you could

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Speaker 1: be there could be a thing that's more conscious than

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Speaker 1: you are, that's so much better to be than what

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Speaker 1: which is what a mouse?

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Speaker 2: God like alien and of things high power.

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Speaker 1: There could be like, yeah, you wouldn't know. There could

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Speaker 1: And honestly, that being could exist, and that being could

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Speaker 1: Uh, Caroline, Caroline, Corally, Coraally. We were getting quarterly coral.

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Speaker 1: If you if you text your friends with an update

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Speaker 3: Good.

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Speaker 2: I won't say yourself. And life's not that serious, and yeah,

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Speaker 1: Thank you, Coral. Good rest of your entire life. I'll

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Speaker 2: Be on the fliplow.

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Speaker 1: Can you remember your name one more time? And I

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Speaker 1: So it's really nice of this person to remember all

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Speaker 1: your life, like here's what people like, uh, you know,

442
00:25:31,760 --> 00:25:36,359
Speaker 1: the whole thing of like someone walking around being like,

443
00:25:36,400 --> 00:25:38,520
Speaker 1: I don't care what people think of me. I don't

444
00:25:38,560 --> 00:25:42,199
Speaker 1: care about pissing people off. I don't care about what

445
00:25:42,720 --> 00:25:45,720
Speaker 1: like that. I don't I don't think that's not that's

446
00:25:45,760 --> 00:25:49,560
Speaker 1: not a good idea to apply to everyone and everything,

447
00:25:50,320 --> 00:25:53,479
Speaker 1: but it's a great idea to apply to kind of

448
00:25:53,640 --> 00:25:57,960
Speaker 1: most things and most people. You should totally you should

449
00:25:58,000 --> 00:25:59,720
Speaker 1: totally have people, you know what I mean, Like you

450
00:25:59,720 --> 00:26:02,560
Speaker 1: should totally have a lot. You should totally have people.

451
00:26:03,040 --> 00:26:05,280
Speaker 1: Doesn't have to be a lot of people, certainly should

452
00:26:05,280 --> 00:26:08,399
Speaker 1: not be most people, but you should have certain people

453
00:26:08,440 --> 00:26:11,760
Speaker 1: in certain relationships where you really don't want to piss

454
00:26:11,800 --> 00:26:14,040
Speaker 1: them off, and you really want to make them happy

455
00:26:14,080 --> 00:26:17,880
Speaker 1: and you really want to invest yourself in the relationship,

456
00:26:17,880 --> 00:26:19,359
Speaker 1: and like, you should have people in your life who

457
00:26:19,440 --> 00:26:25,040
Speaker 1: you actually care about whether or not they feel like

458
00:26:25,160 --> 00:26:29,119
Speaker 1: you care about them. But that should not be most people,

459
00:26:29,320 --> 00:26:34,520
Speaker 1: and that list should be a hand crafted list. You

460
00:26:34,520 --> 00:26:35,200
Speaker 1: get what I'm saying.

461
00:26:36,440 --> 00:26:39,720
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, that makes sense, and I feel like I

462
00:26:39,760 --> 00:26:41,960
Speaker 3: definitely do agree with it, Like, yeah, you can't be

463
00:26:42,000 --> 00:26:45,120
Speaker 3: friends with all whatever eight billion people in the world

464
00:26:45,240 --> 00:26:48,360
Speaker 3: or whatever. But I just feel bad because like we

465
00:26:48,359 --> 00:26:52,080
Speaker 3: were such close friends for years, you know, and it

466
00:26:52,119 --> 00:26:54,840
Speaker 3: wasn't like something crazy. It's not like you know, oh

467
00:26:54,880 --> 00:26:57,760
Speaker 3: she like fucked my boyfriend or something, you know, nothing

468
00:26:57,840 --> 00:27:01,359
Speaker 3: crazy happened. It was just like this weird like I

469
00:27:01,400 --> 00:27:04,439
Speaker 3: can't I kind of can put my finger on it,

470
00:27:04,480 --> 00:27:06,240
Speaker 3: but I can't quite put my finger in it. But

471
00:27:06,280 --> 00:27:09,480
Speaker 3: like I just didn't enjoy spending as much time with her,

472
00:27:09,640 --> 00:27:14,359
Speaker 3: And and now I'm like, should I reach back out

473
00:27:14,440 --> 00:27:14,800
Speaker 3: to her?

474
00:27:16,240 --> 00:27:17,560
Speaker 4: I don't know, do you want?

475
00:27:17,920 --> 00:27:18,600
Speaker 1: Do you want to?

476
00:27:25,880 --> 00:27:30,600
Speaker 3: I feel I feel kind of guilty about saying this,

477
00:27:30,760 --> 00:27:35,360
Speaker 3: But like in the two or so months that we

478
00:27:35,520 --> 00:27:39,359
Speaker 3: haven't been, you know, spending time with each other, I

479
00:27:39,400 --> 00:27:41,680
Speaker 3: feel pretty all right right now, Like.

480
00:27:43,200 --> 00:27:47,960
Speaker 1: I no, no, no, no, I I don't think it's

481
00:27:48,000 --> 00:27:53,360
Speaker 1: mean it is I constantly I don't think I constantly

482
00:27:53,400 --> 00:27:56,280
Speaker 1: look at the people in my life and the things

483
00:27:56,359 --> 00:27:59,800
Speaker 1: I constantly am looking at people in my life and going,

484
00:28:01,680 --> 00:28:04,960
Speaker 1: would I care if I never ever saw this person again,

485
00:28:06,040 --> 00:28:09,119
Speaker 1: and I think about that something, I'll think about a

486
00:28:09,119 --> 00:28:11,160
Speaker 1: person or I'll have a interaction or something, and I'll

487
00:28:11,160 --> 00:28:13,919
Speaker 1: be like, if I never saw this person ever again,

488
00:28:14,040 --> 00:28:17,320
Speaker 1: it would I would be fine. I don't think that's mean.

489
00:28:17,480 --> 00:28:20,840
Speaker 1: I don't. I will take this hard stance that I

490
00:28:20,840 --> 00:28:24,080
Speaker 1: don't think that's mean because I have people in my life,

491
00:28:24,119 --> 00:28:26,520
Speaker 1: like if I like, I have best friends, and I

492
00:28:26,560 --> 00:28:30,679
Speaker 1: have family that I deeply care about seeing, you know,

493
00:28:31,440 --> 00:28:35,920
Speaker 1: and I have people who i'd uh love to see

494
00:28:35,960 --> 00:28:37,960
Speaker 1: again and who I'd be happy. But then this just

495
00:28:38,200 --> 00:28:41,000
Speaker 1: there's is certain people where I just my gut is

496
00:28:41,120 --> 00:28:43,000
Speaker 1: like I would not care if I ever saw that,

497
00:28:43,040 --> 00:28:44,920
Speaker 1: if I never saw that person ever again. I think

498
00:28:44,920 --> 00:28:47,480
Speaker 1: that's fine. I think it's okay. I think it leaves

499
00:28:47,640 --> 00:28:52,560
Speaker 1: more mental energy for you to like actually like live

500
00:28:52,600 --> 00:28:55,040
Speaker 1: your fucking life. And also, by the way, we live

501
00:28:55,200 --> 00:28:58,120
Speaker 1: in a world that's not meant for us in any way,

502
00:28:58,160 --> 00:29:00,640
Speaker 1: shape or far. Do you you know what I mean?

503
00:29:00,800 --> 00:29:03,280
Speaker 1: Like we like this is the first time ever we're

504
00:29:03,320 --> 00:29:09,280
Speaker 1: expected to be available to everyone all the time, Like, uh,

505
00:29:09,920 --> 00:29:13,000
Speaker 1: I mean it's a meme of like how it feels

506
00:29:13,040 --> 00:29:16,200
Speaker 1: to unfollow that person you've been following on Instagram that

507
00:29:16,240 --> 00:29:22,280
Speaker 1: you met at a party once. Yeah, Like I don't

508
00:29:22,280 --> 00:29:24,360
Speaker 1: think it's I don't think it's mean. It feels it

509
00:29:24,440 --> 00:29:27,840
Speaker 1: kind of feels uncomfortable because it's like against the societal

510
00:29:27,880 --> 00:29:31,960
Speaker 1: expectation that you should always respond to everyone all the

511
00:29:32,000 --> 00:29:36,280
Speaker 1: time and always uh be on your whatever. But like

512
00:29:37,200 --> 00:29:41,560
Speaker 1: it's it's okay the people like the folks that you

513
00:29:41,680 --> 00:29:46,600
Speaker 1: leave on uh scene, right, but also you'll get back

514
00:29:46,640 --> 00:29:52,880
Speaker 1: to them eventually. In this is like dude, I really

515
00:29:52,880 --> 00:29:54,680
Speaker 1: I don't want to bring gender into this, but I

516
00:29:54,760 --> 00:29:57,560
Speaker 1: feel like I feel like this is a guy thing,

517
00:29:57,880 --> 00:29:59,280
Speaker 1: is it? Do you agree with that?

518
00:29:59,400 --> 00:29:59,520
Speaker 4: Like?

519
00:29:59,720 --> 00:30:05,440
Speaker 1: I have people who I like fucking love, Like I

520
00:30:05,720 --> 00:30:07,800
Speaker 1: just she's like I just fucking like I think they're

521
00:30:07,880 --> 00:30:11,760
Speaker 1: great people. Our lives just go in different whatever or

522
00:30:11,760 --> 00:30:13,880
Speaker 1: maybe we haven't picked up the phone, right and I'll

523
00:30:13,880 --> 00:30:16,000
Speaker 1: call them after like a year of not talking to

524
00:30:16,040 --> 00:30:18,280
Speaker 1: them or not or not even anything like that, like

525
00:30:18,520 --> 00:30:23,080
Speaker 1: five months whatever, and it's like nothing, you know, yeah,

526
00:30:23,520 --> 00:30:29,840
Speaker 1: like people understand that. Yeah good, I'm not good.

527
00:30:29,960 --> 00:30:33,680
Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, No, I feel like I also have some

528
00:30:33,760 --> 00:30:35,479
Speaker 3: friends that I see like once a year, but like

529
00:30:35,600 --> 00:30:38,000
Speaker 3: the one time a year I see them, we have

530
00:30:38,080 --> 00:30:39,360
Speaker 3: like a fucking blast.

531
00:30:39,160 --> 00:30:39,360
Speaker 4: You know.

532
00:30:39,520 --> 00:30:42,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I agree.

533
00:30:42,640 --> 00:30:44,400
Speaker 2: I feel like it's really hot this christial.

534
00:30:44,200 --> 00:30:46,160
Speaker 3: With social media. Like I'm thinking about this person, like

535
00:30:46,520 --> 00:30:49,480
Speaker 3: you know, we're still like following each other on like Instagram,

536
00:30:49,560 --> 00:30:51,960
Speaker 3: and it's like, you know, I'm not gonna like not

537
00:30:52,200 --> 00:30:57,640
Speaker 3: follow you know what I mean? Yeah, like these people that, Yeah,

538
00:30:57,680 --> 00:30:59,360
Speaker 3: that's true. I think I think she has me on

539
00:30:59,440 --> 00:31:05,520
Speaker 3: you actually, so she did the work for me. But yeah,

540
00:31:05,560 --> 00:31:07,960
Speaker 3: I agree. I feel like it would be nice if

541
00:31:08,120 --> 00:31:11,040
Speaker 3: I don't know, we return to Monk a little bit more,

542
00:31:11,800 --> 00:31:14,440
Speaker 3: and you know, I don't need to know about like

543
00:31:15,640 --> 00:31:19,320
Speaker 3: the coffee that all of my you know, hundreds of

544
00:31:19,320 --> 00:31:21,760
Speaker 3: people that I'm falling on Instagram like drink every day,

545
00:31:21,760 --> 00:31:23,880
Speaker 3: but like, you know, the one time a year where

546
00:31:23,880 --> 00:31:26,760
Speaker 3: I do hang out with like a couple I would

547
00:31:26,800 --> 00:31:32,320
Speaker 3: say considered like close emotionally, but like not close, you know,

548
00:31:32,400 --> 00:31:35,000
Speaker 3: in terms of how often we hang out, but like, yeah,

549
00:31:35,000 --> 00:31:36,480
Speaker 3: like it's always a blast because if you have so

550
00:31:36,560 --> 00:31:38,360
Speaker 3: much to catch up on, and like I know, I

551
00:31:38,360 --> 00:31:42,280
Speaker 3: feel like it's because you only see each other once

552
00:31:42,280 --> 00:31:45,720
Speaker 3: a year or whatever. It makes it that much more special,

553
00:31:47,680 --> 00:31:49,640
Speaker 3: not that I only want to see my friends once

554
00:31:49,640 --> 00:31:52,720
Speaker 3: a year. I don't know what I'm saying.

555
00:31:53,120 --> 00:31:55,080
Speaker 1: No, I get well, I mean I get what you're mean.

556
00:31:55,200 --> 00:31:56,880
Speaker 1: I mean, do you have do you have a best friend?

557
00:31:56,920 --> 00:31:57,120
Speaker 2: Do you have?

558
00:31:57,160 --> 00:31:59,960
Speaker 1: Okay, so I only really know about, uh, this friend

559
00:32:00,080 --> 00:32:01,560
Speaker 1: that you don't like. Do you have friends that you

560
00:32:01,600 --> 00:32:02,000
Speaker 1: do like?

561
00:32:03,520 --> 00:32:06,240
Speaker 3: I do have friends that I do like. They're pretty

562
00:32:06,240 --> 00:32:06,760
Speaker 3: cool people.

563
00:32:06,800 --> 00:32:09,240
Speaker 1: I think you talk Do you talk to them often?

564
00:32:11,280 --> 00:32:14,360
Speaker 3: Yeah, let's see. Okay, So it's really interesting because like, yeah,

565
00:32:14,400 --> 00:32:16,400
Speaker 3: some of my friends, I mean, people just have like

566
00:32:16,440 --> 00:32:20,880
Speaker 3: different communication preferences. I guess, like one of my closest friends,

567
00:32:21,040 --> 00:32:25,400
Speaker 3: we live pretty close together, and we tix relatively offens,

568
00:32:25,440 --> 00:32:29,080
Speaker 3: but not necessarily every day, maybe every like two days,

569
00:32:29,120 --> 00:32:34,080
Speaker 3: three days. I have some friends that I would consider,

570
00:32:34,280 --> 00:32:37,880
Speaker 3: you know, my closest friends, but you know, we might

571
00:32:37,920 --> 00:32:42,760
Speaker 3: only tix like once a week or two. Oh my god.

572
00:32:42,800 --> 00:32:44,760
Speaker 3: This okay, this is like a complete tangent. But this

573
00:32:44,840 --> 00:32:49,120
Speaker 3: is a super cute thing that a friend started doing

574
00:32:49,160 --> 00:32:52,480
Speaker 3: with me, and I would recommend everyone do this because

575
00:32:52,520 --> 00:32:55,920
Speaker 3: it's super cute and very intentional, but because we're both

576
00:32:56,040 --> 00:33:00,200
Speaker 3: like calendar people, and we both consider each other like

577
00:33:00,360 --> 00:33:03,840
Speaker 3: very close friends. She just see, that's like a recurring

578
00:33:04,160 --> 00:33:08,560
Speaker 3: monthly hike with me, which is like the cutest thing event.

579
00:33:08,680 --> 00:33:11,320
Speaker 3: Every time I see it in my calendar, I'm like, oh,

580
00:33:11,480 --> 00:33:13,320
Speaker 3: you know, I'll hike is coming up in two weeks

581
00:33:13,400 --> 00:33:13,800
Speaker 3: or something.

582
00:33:17,800 --> 00:33:20,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, that is really cute. I like that.

583
00:33:21,440 --> 00:33:21,600
Speaker 4: See.

584
00:33:21,680 --> 00:33:23,640
Speaker 1: Okay, so you have there we go. You have friends

585
00:33:23,640 --> 00:33:26,880
Speaker 1: that you like, this person who you hike with you

586
00:33:26,880 --> 00:33:30,080
Speaker 1: you're intentionally making an effort to invest in your relationship

587
00:33:30,080 --> 00:33:33,240
Speaker 1: with this person because you like being with them.

588
00:33:33,320 --> 00:33:33,880
Speaker 3: Yeah.

589
00:33:34,040 --> 00:33:40,920
Speaker 1: So that's so that means you are not whatever uh

590
00:33:40,160 --> 00:33:45,360
Speaker 1: uh anti social psychopathic monster you you're making yourself out

591
00:33:45,960 --> 00:33:49,880
Speaker 1: to believe you are by not wanting to be in

592
00:33:49,880 --> 00:33:52,960
Speaker 1: constant communication with this other person, you have the capability

593
00:33:53,000 --> 00:33:59,960
Speaker 1: of to feel and connect with other people. But yeah,

594
00:34:00,080 --> 00:34:02,480
Speaker 1: I think there's something. I really think there's something to

595
00:34:02,880 --> 00:34:09,239
Speaker 1: uh directing your focus and directing your energy, you know,

596
00:34:09,360 --> 00:34:12,120
Speaker 1: out of out of a genuine desire to do ship.

597
00:34:12,600 --> 00:34:15,080
Speaker 1: I mean, I mean life is life, and there's a

598
00:34:15,200 --> 00:34:20,239
Speaker 1: lot of situations where we we do shit out of obligation.

599
00:34:24,120 --> 00:34:26,879
Speaker 1: But you know, in the in the ways in which

600
00:34:26,920 --> 00:34:30,279
Speaker 1: you can do less out of obligation. I think, uh,

601
00:34:30,800 --> 00:34:33,560
Speaker 1: you should, and friend relationships are one of them, and

602
00:34:33,600 --> 00:34:36,239
Speaker 1: he's surrendered to it. That's how I feel.

603
00:34:37,960 --> 00:34:43,480
Speaker 3: Yeah, so I I shouldn't talk to her unless I really, like,

604
00:34:43,719 --> 00:34:48,040
Speaker 3: genuinely feel like I really would like enjoying talking to her.

605
00:34:48,719 --> 00:34:50,720
Speaker 1: What do you think about the answer to that question?

606
00:34:52,440 --> 00:34:54,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean I guess I get basically everything that

607
00:34:54,600 --> 00:34:57,000
Speaker 3: you just said. You would say, yes.

608
00:34:58,400 --> 00:35:00,040
Speaker 1: Uh, well, I I'm not asking. Well, I'm not I

609
00:35:00,080 --> 00:35:02,120
Speaker 1: see what would say? I mean, what would I'm being

610
00:35:02,120 --> 00:35:10,960
Speaker 1: a fucking armchair therapist asshole? But uh, well, I do

611
00:35:10,960 --> 00:35:12,800
Speaker 1: do you agree with that sentiment?

612
00:35:17,480 --> 00:35:19,640
Speaker 3: I think other than we do have a couple, like

613
00:35:19,760 --> 00:35:24,880
Speaker 3: literally just like two mutual friends, two or three mutual friends. Obviously,

614
00:35:24,920 --> 00:35:27,400
Speaker 3: if you know, we get together to do this mutual

615
00:35:27,440 --> 00:35:30,839
Speaker 3: friend that's a different thing. But yeah, yeah, I think

616
00:35:31,000 --> 00:35:34,960
Speaker 3: I agree with you overall. Like right now, I just

617
00:35:35,040 --> 00:35:39,799
Speaker 3: feel compelled to reach out to her because some of

618
00:35:39,840 --> 00:35:43,680
Speaker 3: my mutual friends recently talked to me about it, and like,

619
00:35:43,760 --> 00:35:46,600
Speaker 3: I feel like I feel like there's pressure for me

620
00:35:46,640 --> 00:35:48,680
Speaker 3: to reach out to her because we were friends and

621
00:35:48,719 --> 00:35:52,560
Speaker 3: we still have mutual friends. But like, yeah, I just

622
00:35:52,600 --> 00:35:56,279
Speaker 3: feel pressured to reach out to her.

623
00:35:57,320 --> 00:35:59,319
Speaker 1: I mean, you could just reach out to her and

624
00:35:59,360 --> 00:36:01,799
Speaker 1: lay it on the Well, I don't know, I don't

625
00:36:01,800 --> 00:36:03,880
Speaker 1: know how much. I don't know if I don't know

626
00:36:03,920 --> 00:36:06,359
Speaker 1: about the radical honesty type of thing.

627
00:36:06,520 --> 00:36:07,080
Speaker 4: But uh.

628
00:36:10,760 --> 00:36:14,759
Speaker 1: Ah, fuck yeah, do whatever you want. Sorry, I know

629
00:36:14,840 --> 00:36:21,680
Speaker 1: that this is all Well, it matters if you decide

630
00:36:21,719 --> 00:36:24,120
Speaker 1: it matters, That's what I'm getting at. And if you

631
00:36:24,280 --> 00:36:26,960
Speaker 1: decide that your relationship with this person matters, if you

632
00:36:27,000 --> 00:36:30,800
Speaker 1: decide your relationship with this person matters in the context

633
00:36:31,040 --> 00:36:36,799
Speaker 1: of keeping the peace amongst the mutual friends, that's a

634
00:36:36,920 --> 00:36:41,560
Speaker 1: legitimate a thing. You get what I'm You get what

635
00:36:41,560 --> 00:36:44,840
Speaker 1: I'm saying. Like, you can decide, like you can decide

636
00:36:44,880 --> 00:36:49,120
Speaker 1: it matters again what I said. You can decide it

637
00:36:49,120 --> 00:36:51,120
Speaker 1: matters in the con because you want to keep the

638
00:36:51,160 --> 00:36:53,799
Speaker 1: peace among the mutual friends. You can decide that a

639
00:36:53,840 --> 00:36:57,560
Speaker 1: relationship matters. You can decide that a relationship matters for

640
00:36:57,719 --> 00:37:02,280
Speaker 1: reasons other than other than just you like the person.

641
00:37:04,719 --> 00:37:09,239
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's true. Yeah, yeah, And I guess a lot

642
00:37:09,239 --> 00:37:11,640
Speaker 3: of people do that with you know, like families and

643
00:37:11,640 --> 00:37:12,399
Speaker 3: stuff as well.

644
00:37:12,480 --> 00:37:17,240
Speaker 1: Like I was a crazy yeah yeah, while I was talking,

645
00:37:17,280 --> 00:37:20,080
Speaker 1: I was thinking about that the family thing, Like sometimes

646
00:37:20,120 --> 00:37:23,359
Speaker 1: you go to like like, uh, you go you visit

647
00:37:23,400 --> 00:37:25,719
Speaker 1: your family because it's a mitzvah, you know what I mean?

648
00:37:26,040 --> 00:37:29,239
Speaker 1: You just like you do it because it's a good

649
00:37:29,239 --> 00:37:32,520
Speaker 1: thing to visit my family. Even if you're not having

650
00:37:32,560 --> 00:37:35,960
Speaker 1: the best time, you just do it. But that's because

651
00:37:36,320 --> 00:37:38,840
Speaker 1: family is important to you, because you've decided it's important

652
00:37:38,840 --> 00:37:42,760
Speaker 1: to you. But why you shouldn't have that same energy

653
00:37:43,360 --> 00:37:47,640
Speaker 1: towards everyone and everything that is in your orbit. But

654
00:37:47,680 --> 00:37:49,719
Speaker 1: if you decide to keeping the peak, that that you

655
00:37:49,719 --> 00:37:52,360
Speaker 1: have to maintain this relationship to keep the peace and

656
00:37:52,560 --> 00:37:55,759
Speaker 1: and keeping the piece is important to you, then then

657
00:37:55,800 --> 00:37:57,000
Speaker 1: it works.

658
00:37:58,200 --> 00:37:59,880
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, that's true.

659
00:38:00,400 --> 00:38:02,040
Speaker 1: I know I said I wasn't going to forget your name,

660
00:38:02,239 --> 00:38:03,439
Speaker 1: but I.

661
00:38:03,400 --> 00:38:08,040
Speaker 3: Did, And so oh no, you want to give.

662
00:38:09,440 --> 00:38:12,759
Speaker 1: M carry.

663
00:38:14,239 --> 00:38:17,320
Speaker 3: Stella pretty close, Stella.

664
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Speaker 1: Is there anything else you want to say to the

665
00:38:18,719 --> 00:38:20,200
Speaker 1: people of the computer before we go?

666
00:38:24,480 --> 00:38:26,799
Speaker 3: If you really want to dye your hair and you're

667
00:38:26,840 --> 00:38:29,880
Speaker 3: too scared to you should just do it. Ble you

668
00:38:29,880 --> 00:38:30,879
Speaker 3: shouldn't dye your hair.

669
00:38:32,320 --> 00:38:34,880
Speaker 1: Thank you, Stella, have a good rest of your entire life.

670
00:38:36,600 --> 00:38:40,239
Speaker 3: Thanks Lyle, Bye bye Stella.

671
00:38:41,440 --> 00:38:44,800
Speaker 1: So, in case anyone was unclear about how to interpret

672
00:38:44,880 --> 00:38:47,760
Speaker 1: anything I said on that phone call. What I'm meaning

673
00:38:47,840 --> 00:38:52,799
Speaker 1: to say is that you should cut off all your

674
00:38:52,800 --> 00:38:55,880
Speaker 1: friends and family. You should not talk to anyone. You

675
00:38:55,920 --> 00:39:02,359
Speaker 1: should you should stay at home alone in your room.

676
00:39:02,440 --> 00:39:04,480
Speaker 1: If your friends reach out to you, you should. You

677
00:39:04,480 --> 00:39:08,319
Speaker 1: should break your phone in half, and you should just

678
00:39:08,480 --> 00:39:11,560
Speaker 1: you should never talk to anyone ever, and you should

679
00:39:11,600 --> 00:39:15,160
Speaker 1: die alone. That's what I just to clarify what I

680
00:39:15,280 --> 00:39:23,160
Speaker 1: meant by everything I said. No, I don't know. I think, yeah,

681
00:39:23,160 --> 00:39:27,200
Speaker 1: it's important to have relationships, stay connected. But that's why

682
00:39:28,200 --> 00:39:30,719
Speaker 1: there's a billion think pieces about this. But and I've

683
00:39:30,719 --> 00:39:33,799
Speaker 1: probably talked about this a bunch, But uh, that's why

684
00:39:33,920 --> 00:39:37,280
Speaker 1: community is good, because it's like just having a place

685
00:39:37,360 --> 00:39:41,400
Speaker 1: that you should like. The best relationship the best not

686
00:39:41,520 --> 00:39:46,680
Speaker 1: the best. But a lot of good relationships come from

687
00:39:46,800 --> 00:39:50,480
Speaker 1: just the fact that if it comes from situations where

688
00:39:50,680 --> 00:39:54,120
Speaker 1: you can just be living your adult life, and by

689
00:39:54,200 --> 00:39:56,160
Speaker 1: nature of you living your adult life, there are people

690
00:39:56,200 --> 00:40:00,600
Speaker 1: passing through, you know, like work or showing up to

691
00:40:00,640 --> 00:40:03,439
Speaker 1: a club or some shit. But but that doesn't matter

692
00:40:03,440 --> 00:40:05,160
Speaker 1: because you shouldn't do any of that. You should just

693
00:40:05,200 --> 00:40:09,520
Speaker 1: be alone forever and not not do anything. This is

694
00:40:09,560 --> 00:40:17,439
Speaker 1: what I think. Hello, what's up, brother, what's your name.

695
00:40:17,760 --> 00:40:19,680
Speaker 4: My name's culture Culture.

696
00:40:20,400 --> 00:40:24,840
Speaker 1: Culture. I called you because you said, please call me Lyle.

697
00:40:24,920 --> 00:40:26,400
Speaker 1: I have a secret to share.

698
00:40:28,320 --> 00:40:30,680
Speaker 4: Yeah, I have a big secret to share.

699
00:40:32,360 --> 00:40:37,239
Speaker 1: Okay, now, just because I don't, this is making i'm

700
00:40:37,400 --> 00:40:40,920
Speaker 1: I feel like you're gonna this is gonna be like

701
00:40:40,960 --> 00:40:44,040
Speaker 1: a jokey thing. And it's okay if it is, but

702
00:40:44,120 --> 00:40:46,120
Speaker 1: I'm i'm I feel like I'll be a little disappointed

703
00:40:46,120 --> 00:40:48,000
Speaker 1: if it is. I'm like, I'm I you've low key

704
00:40:48,080 --> 00:40:50,560
Speaker 1: primed me like an actual secret.

705
00:40:51,440 --> 00:40:54,239
Speaker 4: It depends on if you want it to be a

706
00:40:54,280 --> 00:40:54,920
Speaker 4: secret or not.

707
00:40:56,360 --> 00:40:58,080
Speaker 1: If I if I, if I want it to be

708
00:40:58,160 --> 00:40:58,719
Speaker 1: secret or not?

709
00:40:59,200 --> 00:41:00,560
Speaker 4: Yeah? Yeah?

710
00:41:00,600 --> 00:41:08,120
Speaker 1: Why why why would I? What do you mean? It's yours,

711
00:41:08,239 --> 00:41:12,000
Speaker 1: it's your secret. Why would I? What does my desire

712
00:41:12,440 --> 00:41:15,320
Speaker 1: of its secret hood have to do with it?

713
00:41:17,280 --> 00:41:19,600
Speaker 4: No, I I I actually didn't have a secret at all.

714
00:41:19,640 --> 00:41:21,360
Speaker 1: I just you didn't have a secret at all. You

715
00:41:21,400 --> 00:41:21,840
Speaker 1: didn't have a.

716
00:41:21,880 --> 00:41:27,279
Speaker 4: Joke secret, not even a joke secret. I'm trying so

717
00:41:27,320 --> 00:41:31,440
Speaker 4: hard to think of a joke so you I'm too

718
00:41:31,480 --> 00:41:32,600
Speaker 4: high to do that right now.

719
00:41:33,160 --> 00:41:35,759
Speaker 1: God fucking damn it. You didn't even have a joke.

720
00:41:36,000 --> 00:41:38,279
Speaker 1: You didn't even have a joke secret. I thought you

721
00:41:38,280 --> 00:41:42,640
Speaker 1: were gonna like say something cutesy like, uh, I think

722
00:41:42,719 --> 00:41:45,879
Speaker 1: my cat is gay? Right, I don't know. I thought

723
00:41:45,920 --> 00:41:49,200
Speaker 1: you're gonna say something like you don't even have any

724
00:41:49,280 --> 00:41:51,759
Speaker 1: you don't even literally what what were you? Okay? And

725
00:41:51,760 --> 00:41:53,920
Speaker 1: by the way I took you, by the way, I

726
00:41:53,960 --> 00:41:58,640
Speaker 1: saved you just now because I diverted the conversation away

727
00:41:59,160 --> 00:42:03,040
Speaker 1: from what would you have said? If I had just said, Okay,

728
00:42:03,040 --> 00:42:05,720
Speaker 1: what's the secret?

729
00:42:06,760 --> 00:42:08,759
Speaker 4: I probably would have said, I think my cat's kay.

730
00:42:10,680 --> 00:42:13,520
Speaker 1: You don't have any You don't have a secret. You

731
00:42:13,560 --> 00:42:16,000
Speaker 1: texted me. You texted me that because you texted me that,

732
00:42:16,040 --> 00:42:17,799
Speaker 1: because you knew that.

733
00:42:17,960 --> 00:42:20,879
Speaker 4: I Oh, I knew, dude. I listened to you every

734
00:42:20,880 --> 00:42:22,480
Speaker 4: single day on my way to work and on my

735
00:42:22,520 --> 00:42:25,120
Speaker 4: way home from work. Like, I know you, bro, I

736
00:42:25,160 --> 00:42:26,840
Speaker 4: know you?

737
00:42:26,880 --> 00:42:32,239
Speaker 1: Do you know you? And you know that? I? Oh,

738
00:42:32,360 --> 00:42:33,080
Speaker 1: my fucking gut.

739
00:42:33,400 --> 00:42:35,279
Speaker 4: Where are I know you?

740
00:42:35,280 --> 00:42:35,520
Speaker 3: You know?

741
00:42:35,880 --> 00:42:39,560
Speaker 4: I'm in I'm in Florida, I'm I'm in Tampa.

742
00:42:39,719 --> 00:42:41,399
Speaker 1: What are you doing in Tampa?

743
00:42:43,080 --> 00:42:47,680
Speaker 4: I went to school at USF. I have my psychology degree,

744
00:42:49,719 --> 00:42:52,160
Speaker 4: So maybe that's why I can I know you, Lyle.

745
00:42:53,520 --> 00:42:56,000
Speaker 1: What are you using your psychology degree to do?

746
00:42:57,480 --> 00:43:01,640
Speaker 4: That is undetermined at this point, I just graduated like

747
00:43:03,040 --> 00:43:07,400
Speaker 4: four months ago, so I'm still figuring it out. But

748
00:43:07,440 --> 00:43:10,799
Speaker 4: I'm a photographer right now. What do I want to do?

749
00:43:15,000 --> 00:43:18,760
Speaker 4: I mean, I've always been interested in uh, Down syndrome,

750
00:43:19,520 --> 00:43:23,280
Speaker 4: Like I think it's super Yeah yeah, no, like actually

751
00:43:25,200 --> 00:43:27,400
Speaker 4: I just think I don't know. I think they're on

752
00:43:27,480 --> 00:43:30,560
Speaker 4: a different wavelength and I think there like can be

753
00:43:30,719 --> 00:43:32,960
Speaker 4: they can be so much more genuine and happy than

754
00:43:33,239 --> 00:43:37,680
Speaker 4: any other person can, and I just find that so interesting.

755
00:43:38,400 --> 00:43:41,799
Speaker 1: But are you trying to so you wanna like do

756
00:43:42,080 --> 00:43:45,200
Speaker 1: do a program or something like that where you can

757
00:43:45,239 --> 00:43:47,040
Speaker 1: work with with people with Down syndrome.

758
00:43:47,960 --> 00:43:50,239
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, no, that'd be that'd be awesome. I'm still,

759
00:43:50,239 --> 00:43:53,080
Speaker 4: you know, figuring it out. Yeah yeah, I think that'd

760
00:43:53,120 --> 00:43:56,600
Speaker 4: be pretty cool. I've worked with kids with special needs before.

761
00:43:56,680 --> 00:44:01,759
Speaker 4: So yeah, I can't believe I'm talking to you if.

762
00:44:01,719 --> 00:44:04,040
Speaker 1: You're joking about that. If you're joking, are you that

763
00:44:04,080 --> 00:44:04,840
Speaker 1: you're being serious?

764
00:44:05,520 --> 00:44:05,800
Speaker 4: No?

765
00:44:05,800 --> 00:44:07,520
Speaker 1: No, I can't trust you.

766
00:44:09,480 --> 00:44:13,320
Speaker 4: I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm sorry, Lyle. I'm sorry.

767
00:44:13,680 --> 00:44:16,640
Speaker 1: I may one day find the strength to forgive you,

768
00:44:16,680 --> 00:44:23,600
Speaker 1: but that's not today. Okay, Uh alright, so you're so

769
00:44:24,000 --> 00:44:26,400
Speaker 1: you So what are you doing now? He's chilling. Are

770
00:44:26,440 --> 00:44:28,120
Speaker 1: you like working, are you?

771
00:44:28,200 --> 00:44:31,520
Speaker 4: Yeah? Bro, I'm I'm a photographer. I just got off

772
00:44:31,520 --> 00:44:35,000
Speaker 4: work a little bit ago. But yeah, I'm just chilling.

773
00:44:35,040 --> 00:44:38,799
Speaker 4: I'm playing Fortnite. I live in an awesome place with

774
00:44:38,800 --> 00:44:43,319
Speaker 4: my girlfriend. Uh. My life's my life's going pretty well

775
00:44:43,640 --> 00:44:48,600
Speaker 4: right now. But yeah, what are you doing right now?

776
00:44:48,719 --> 00:44:49,759
Speaker 4: He's sitting in your chair.

777
00:44:50,239 --> 00:44:53,000
Speaker 1: I'm sitting in a windowless room talking to you.

778
00:44:53,880 --> 00:44:59,719
Speaker 4: Wow, dude, you go ahead, go ahead. No, no, I

779
00:45:00,000 --> 00:45:03,080
Speaker 4: I know I said. I listened to you every day.

780
00:45:03,080 --> 00:45:05,279
Speaker 4: I've been listening to you since like twenty twenty one,

781
00:45:05,320 --> 00:45:08,279
Speaker 4: when I was still in high school. Uh and when

782
00:45:08,320 --> 00:45:10,480
Speaker 4: I was in I went to Germany for this internship,

783
00:45:10,480 --> 00:45:13,759
Speaker 4: and I listened to you every single day. Uh. So

784
00:45:13,840 --> 00:45:15,600
Speaker 4: I feel like I kind of know you in a way,

785
00:45:16,560 --> 00:45:19,279
Speaker 4: and I didn't know what you look like for the

786
00:45:19,360 --> 00:45:21,920
Speaker 4: longest time because I feel like you can be like

787
00:45:22,040 --> 00:45:24,840
Speaker 4: self deprecating at times, and I was like, this guy's

788
00:45:24,880 --> 00:45:27,759
Speaker 4: got to be like ugly or something. But dude, you're

789
00:45:27,760 --> 00:45:33,040
Speaker 4: a guy. Like you're cute. Bro, you got to you

790
00:45:33,080 --> 00:45:35,759
Speaker 4: gotta hit the streets. You gotta get the girls. Bro.

791
00:45:38,280 --> 00:45:42,239
Speaker 1: You know what, Carlton, I had you all wrong? You're

792
00:45:42,280 --> 00:45:46,719
Speaker 1: actually a great guy. I forgive you for for tricking me.

793
00:45:48,600 --> 00:45:55,640
Speaker 1: Your flattery is has uh been tremendously effective, banks Man. No,

794
00:45:55,800 --> 00:45:58,359
Speaker 1: I I appreciate that. I don't know. I feel I

795
00:45:58,440 --> 00:46:04,520
Speaker 1: just I don't feel like I'm at my I don't

796
00:46:04,560 --> 00:46:07,560
Speaker 1: look how I want to right now. I don't feel

797
00:46:07,600 --> 00:46:10,719
Speaker 1: like I look opt I don't look optimally the way

798
00:46:10,760 --> 00:46:12,880
Speaker 1: that I would like that.

799
00:46:13,840 --> 00:46:14,439
Speaker 4: But that's okay.

800
00:46:14,480 --> 00:46:20,200
Speaker 1: I think it's okay. It's it's it's not you know,

801
00:46:20,280 --> 00:46:25,160
Speaker 1: it is what it just is what it is. But no,

802
00:46:25,640 --> 00:46:27,000
Speaker 1: what do you did you think I was gonna look

803
00:46:27,080 --> 00:46:34,000
Speaker 1: like the fucking uh fat bastard from Austin Powers.

804
00:46:34,560 --> 00:46:36,520
Speaker 4: I I don't know. I just thought you were gonna

805
00:46:36,560 --> 00:46:40,520
Speaker 4: look like uh how the portray like Reddit mods? You know, Like,

806
00:46:40,600 --> 00:46:41,320
Speaker 4: I don't know.

807
00:46:41,239 --> 00:46:44,960
Speaker 1: But you're like, I mean, I I appreciate you saying that.

808
00:46:45,000 --> 00:46:49,840
Speaker 1: I mean, I I'm I could I like there's a

809
00:46:49,920 --> 00:46:52,000
Speaker 1: universe where I could look more like that.

810
00:46:52,600 --> 00:46:56,560
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, I mean I don't think I look like

811
00:46:56,600 --> 00:46:58,880
Speaker 4: how i'd love to look, you know, like I'm overweight,

812
00:46:59,120 --> 00:47:01,240
Speaker 4: but I I had you know, I have a girl,

813
00:47:01,239 --> 00:47:03,200
Speaker 4: and I have a plate, like I'm living my life

814
00:47:03,239 --> 00:47:04,759
Speaker 4: the best I can but dude.

815
00:47:04,680 --> 00:47:08,319
Speaker 1: Like, did I'm literally imagining you as like like a

816
00:47:08,440 --> 00:47:13,240
Speaker 1: high school football quarterback, like wearing like a leatherman jacket.

817
00:47:13,280 --> 00:47:16,080
Speaker 1: That's genuinely like, I'm not like before you even brought

818
00:47:16,160 --> 00:47:19,040
Speaker 1: up like what each other might look like, I was

819
00:47:19,120 --> 00:47:21,880
Speaker 1: picturing you as that with like a Justin Bieber flow.

820
00:47:23,320 --> 00:47:26,040
Speaker 4: Yeah, Bro, that that's not That's not it. What do you?

821
00:47:26,120 --> 00:47:28,480
Speaker 1: How do you? What do you look like? Describe yourself?

822
00:47:28,520 --> 00:47:33,880
Speaker 4: I'm like, I'm like, I'm taller, which is an advantage.

823
00:47:34,080 --> 00:47:34,960
Speaker 4: I'm like six.

824
00:47:35,000 --> 00:47:38,680
Speaker 1: Three okay, yeah, yeah, I'm.

825
00:47:38,480 --> 00:47:42,040
Speaker 4: Like two and fifty pounds, so I'm like a bigger guy.

826
00:47:42,400 --> 00:47:45,839
Speaker 4: But the height kind of accounts for it in a way.

827
00:47:47,520 --> 00:47:49,840
Speaker 4: But bro, I'm like, I'm like a nerd, like I

828
00:47:50,200 --> 00:47:55,960
Speaker 4: I was in band and uh like I I graduated

829
00:47:55,960 --> 00:47:59,560
Speaker 4: from high school with my college degree. I'm just I'm

830
00:47:59,560 --> 00:48:02,719
Speaker 4: a nerd harder. But I don't know. Maybe it's the

831
00:48:02,800 --> 00:48:08,240
Speaker 4: Florida effect. How I sound?

832
00:48:08,600 --> 00:48:13,400
Speaker 1: Mmm? How close do you think Florida is too seceding

833
00:48:13,440 --> 00:48:14,120
Speaker 1: from the Union?

834
00:48:17,480 --> 00:48:21,040
Speaker 4: Dude? Like, how is Florida portrayed? I know you you

835
00:48:21,120 --> 00:48:23,120
Speaker 4: live in New York, right, I do?

836
00:48:23,600 --> 00:48:30,279
Speaker 1: How's Florida portrayed? I mean, I think you know the

837
00:48:30,360 --> 00:48:30,880
Speaker 1: answer to that.

838
00:48:32,000 --> 00:48:34,919
Speaker 4: Yeah, I think I do too. It's just like Florida, man,

839
00:48:35,040 --> 00:48:37,719
Speaker 4: like alligators and shit, right, Disney World.

840
00:48:38,080 --> 00:48:42,399
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah. And then also I like just having its

841
00:48:42,400 --> 00:48:44,399
Speaker 1: own thing going on down there, you.

842
00:48:44,400 --> 00:48:48,640
Speaker 4: Know, Yeah, yeah it does. I mean it's full of

843
00:48:48,800 --> 00:48:51,640
Speaker 4: people from all over the world. Like I work at

844
00:48:51,640 --> 00:48:54,040
Speaker 4: this restaurant and I'm a photographer there, and I meet

845
00:48:54,040 --> 00:48:58,880
Speaker 4: people from like everywhere, like South Africa and I don't know,

846
00:48:59,560 --> 00:49:02,440
Speaker 4: just every and it's like everyone just comes to Florida,

847
00:49:02,960 --> 00:49:03,160
Speaker 4: you know.

848
00:49:04,840 --> 00:49:04,960
Speaker 2: Hm.

849
00:49:06,000 --> 00:49:07,640
Speaker 4: I mean, I'm sure it's the same way with New York.

850
00:49:07,680 --> 00:49:12,680
Speaker 4: Like New York City, everyone fucking got his their But.

851
00:49:11,360 --> 00:49:15,200
Speaker 1: Do you and you live in Tampa? I do you

852
00:49:15,239 --> 00:49:16,440
Speaker 1: know what I love about Tampa?

853
00:49:18,000 --> 00:49:19,240
Speaker 4: What do you love about Tampa?

854
00:49:19,520 --> 00:49:24,480
Speaker 1: I love the big flamingo in the airport.

855
00:49:25,000 --> 00:49:30,479
Speaker 4: Uh what a what a niche little uh niche little thing.

856
00:49:31,120 --> 00:49:34,160
Speaker 1: And there's also a am I going to Tampa this year?

857
00:49:34,320 --> 00:49:37,840
Speaker 1: I don't know, But there's also I did the Tampa

858
00:49:37,920 --> 00:49:42,280
Speaker 1: Improv twice and that's located in a place called Wyber,

859
00:49:43,280 --> 00:49:47,400
Speaker 1: which is a shopping center that just has chickens running

860
00:49:47,400 --> 00:49:55,720
Speaker 1: around in Tampa. Yeah, you know Wiber right, Oh, ebor

861
00:49:56,400 --> 00:49:59,440
Speaker 1: ebor yeah, ebor yeah, bro yeah yeah yeah, and they

862
00:49:59,480 --> 00:49:59,920
Speaker 1: have chicken.

863
00:50:00,120 --> 00:50:04,319
Speaker 4: That's yeah, yeah yeah yeah, that's where I met my

864
00:50:04,360 --> 00:50:06,080
Speaker 4: girlfriend actually in e Wars.

865
00:50:06,120 --> 00:50:07,880
Speaker 1: Really is your girlfriend a chicken?

866
00:50:09,040 --> 00:50:16,520
Speaker 4: Yeah? She actually is a chicken? Yeah?

867
00:50:16,600 --> 00:50:18,400
Speaker 1: What is it? What's it like? What's it like to

868
00:50:18,440 --> 00:50:19,760
Speaker 1: have sex with a chicken?

869
00:50:21,120 --> 00:50:24,480
Speaker 4: Dude, It's it's something else. Let me tell you. If

870
00:50:24,480 --> 00:50:26,680
Speaker 4: you're if you're looking for love, all you need to go.

871
00:50:27,040 --> 00:50:29,000
Speaker 4: All you need to do is go to the grocery store.

872
00:50:29,600 --> 00:50:31,239
Speaker 4: The skin ones are better.

873
00:50:31,320 --> 00:50:35,479
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, I feel like I have I feel

874
00:50:35,520 --> 00:50:37,879
Speaker 1: like having sex with a chicken that's alive is better

875
00:50:37,960 --> 00:50:39,480
Speaker 1: than one.

876
00:50:39,320 --> 00:50:42,120
Speaker 4: That's yeah yeah, wackage.

877
00:50:43,320 --> 00:50:45,680
Speaker 1: But you know what's weird? I actually wonder would you

878
00:50:45,680 --> 00:50:50,279
Speaker 1: get more diseases? Would you get more diseases from like

879
00:50:50,400 --> 00:50:55,560
Speaker 1: having sex with a live chicken or like rubbing like

880
00:50:55,800 --> 00:50:59,840
Speaker 1: raw chicken all over your your dick and ass. I

881
00:50:59,840 --> 00:51:03,120
Speaker 1: think I think you'd probably get more diseases from you'd

882
00:51:03,120 --> 00:51:06,000
Speaker 1: probably I actually don't know what do you think? Which

883
00:51:06,040 --> 00:51:07,560
Speaker 1: one do you think is one diseases?

884
00:51:08,800 --> 00:51:12,839
Speaker 4: Probably the live one only because it's getting like run

885
00:51:12,880 --> 00:51:16,400
Speaker 4: through already, you know, so it's like triple the amount

886
00:51:16,440 --> 00:51:17,080
Speaker 4: of disease.

887
00:51:17,640 --> 00:51:22,320
Speaker 1: I guess maybe how's how is it getting ran through already?

888
00:51:22,920 --> 00:51:25,120
Speaker 4: I mean, I mean, if it's a female chicken and

889
00:51:25,200 --> 00:51:28,680
Speaker 4: it's like laying eggs and shit, and you know, like

890
00:51:30,280 --> 00:51:32,640
Speaker 4: you know, and it's out in the wild, and like

891
00:51:32,719 --> 00:51:33,879
Speaker 4: who knows what's out there?

892
00:51:34,040 --> 00:51:39,240
Speaker 1: So I guess I don't are how does that work?

893
00:51:39,280 --> 00:51:41,719
Speaker 1: How do you know? How do they make chickens? Because

894
00:51:41,800 --> 00:51:43,800
Speaker 1: chickens lay eggs, they make a bunch of babies. But

895
00:51:43,880 --> 00:51:50,400
Speaker 1: then does the male chicken the rooster? Uh hold on,

896
00:51:50,440 --> 00:51:54,239
Speaker 1: I'm gonna okay, wait, culture.

897
00:51:54,840 --> 00:51:56,640
Speaker 4: Culture yeah, culture, yeah, yeah.

898
00:51:57,120 --> 00:51:58,560
Speaker 1: Stay stay right there for a second.

899
00:51:58,719 --> 00:52:00,000
Speaker 4: Okay, I got you.

900
00:52:00,360 --> 00:52:01,600
Speaker 1: We'll just stay there. Don't move.

901
00:52:02,000 --> 00:52:04,440
Speaker 4: I'm staying right here. I'm actually on the toilet right now.

902
00:52:04,560 --> 00:52:05,720
Speaker 4: You caught me on the toilet.

903
00:52:05,760 --> 00:52:13,000
Speaker 1: Bro um, okay, chicken's mate through a quick Chickens have

904
00:52:13,040 --> 00:52:22,120
Speaker 1: sex through a quick, non penetrative act called the colloaqal kiss,

905
00:52:22,640 --> 00:52:27,040
Speaker 1: where the rooster mounts the hend, balances on her back,

906
00:52:27,400 --> 00:52:33,800
Speaker 1: and briefly presses his kloaka a single opening for waste

907
00:52:33,880 --> 00:52:44,840
Speaker 1: and reproduction against hers to transfer egg sperm. Wait hold on, okay, okay.

908
00:52:44,960 --> 00:52:49,560
Speaker 1: The rooster performs courtship displays like dancing and offering food

909
00:52:50,120 --> 00:52:55,240
Speaker 1: before a mounting, grabbing the hen's comb or neck feathers

910
00:52:55,280 --> 00:52:58,759
Speaker 1: for balance, and trending his feet. Okay, his video of

911
00:52:58,800 --> 00:53:06,359
Speaker 1: this hold on? Ooh, I like how this YouTube. I

912
00:53:06,440 --> 00:53:09,920
Speaker 1: like how YouTube YouTube does this thing where like I

913
00:53:10,000 --> 00:53:13,080
Speaker 1: click on the video and it it actually starts at

914
00:53:13,080 --> 00:53:16,920
Speaker 1: the time code where the chickens are having sex. YouTube

915
00:53:17,080 --> 00:53:19,319
Speaker 1: kind of like, we'll cut the best part of it

916
00:53:19,400 --> 00:53:19,719
Speaker 1: for you.

917
00:53:20,880 --> 00:53:22,280
Speaker 4: Don't you just love the world?

918
00:53:23,280 --> 00:53:23,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, I do.

919
00:53:23,800 --> 00:53:25,399
Speaker 4: I don't love technology.

920
00:53:25,600 --> 00:53:30,719
Speaker 1: Oh wait is it? It's not showing it, but basically

921
00:53:31,280 --> 00:53:34,840
Speaker 1: the I don't think it's a non penetrative it's a

922
00:53:34,960 --> 00:53:38,200
Speaker 1: non penetrative act. I think he's I think he just like.

923
00:53:38,440 --> 00:53:41,840
Speaker 1: I think he just like yeah, yeah, okay, he presses

924
00:53:41,880 --> 00:53:43,840
Speaker 1: her clothes. I think it's like a spraying.

925
00:53:44,640 --> 00:53:44,799
Speaker 4: Right.

926
00:53:45,120 --> 00:53:46,880
Speaker 1: So if you did have sex with the chicken, I

927
00:53:46,880 --> 00:53:50,120
Speaker 1: think you would. I believe. I think it's probably possible

928
00:53:50,640 --> 00:53:53,160
Speaker 1: to have penetrative sex with the chicken, and if you

929
00:53:53,360 --> 00:53:56,879
Speaker 1: did it, you'd likely be the first person to have

930
00:53:56,920 --> 00:54:01,760
Speaker 1: sex with that particular Yeah, now.

931
00:54:01,640 --> 00:54:09,360
Speaker 4: That you say that, you're so right lyle have you

932
00:54:09,360 --> 00:54:11,719
Speaker 4: seen the duck penis before? No?

933
00:54:11,920 --> 00:54:13,360
Speaker 1: And you know what? Hold on? I'm gonna do that

934
00:54:13,480 --> 00:54:13,879
Speaker 1: right now.

935
00:54:14,480 --> 00:54:16,120
Speaker 4: No, now, this will blow your mind.

936
00:54:16,800 --> 00:54:25,400
Speaker 1: All right, Um, I'm looking at it. Wait, let's see gallipore.

937
00:54:25,680 --> 00:54:31,319
Speaker 1: Uh duck penis, they're really tiny.

938
00:54:31,400 --> 00:54:33,880
Speaker 4: They're like, no, they're like you see like the cork

939
00:54:34,040 --> 00:54:35,080
Speaker 4: like it's they're huge.

940
00:54:36,040 --> 00:54:40,560
Speaker 1: They're like, oh, they're not duck screws to compete with

941
00:54:40,600 --> 00:54:44,600
Speaker 1: other males. Oh shit, oh ship yeah. This ducks penis

942
00:54:44,640 --> 00:54:49,520
Speaker 1: is a full nine centimeters long. This one's, this one's

943
00:54:49,719 --> 00:54:54,439
Speaker 1: this one's three centimeters. Wow, holy shit.

944
00:54:56,400 --> 00:55:01,320
Speaker 4: I thought they get like massive, like like feet.

945
00:55:01,880 --> 00:55:04,160
Speaker 1: No, it's not bad. Know, their duck penises are not

946
00:55:04,200 --> 00:55:04,640
Speaker 1: that big.

947
00:55:05,440 --> 00:55:10,080
Speaker 4: No, I'm mistaken. Maybe that's a Mandela effect.

948
00:55:10,239 --> 00:55:11,720
Speaker 1: That's a that's a Mandela effect.

949
00:55:12,320 --> 00:55:14,480
Speaker 4: A low key might be, yeah, because I remember, like

950
00:55:14,480 --> 00:55:17,600
Speaker 4: as a kid, like like looking up duck penis and

951
00:55:17,640 --> 00:55:18,719
Speaker 4: it was like huge.

952
00:55:18,440 --> 00:55:23,160
Speaker 1: Men Mandela effect. Mandela effect is like people not knowing

953
00:55:23,160 --> 00:55:24,480
Speaker 1: if he's alive or dead.

954
00:55:24,320 --> 00:55:30,319
Speaker 4: Right, yeah. Yeah, it's like Baron skin Bears, beren Steinber's

955
00:55:30,560 --> 00:55:34,600
Speaker 4: he's dead right yeah, Oh oh he's got to be

956
00:55:34,719 --> 00:55:36,560
Speaker 4: now or I think he was Like at the time,

957
00:55:36,880 --> 00:55:38,040
Speaker 4: when was this, like.

958
00:55:39,560 --> 00:55:45,520
Speaker 1: I don't know, like he died, he died a while ago. Yeah, dude,

959
00:55:45,560 --> 00:55:48,960
Speaker 1: what a cool life Nelson Mandela. I mean he really

960
00:55:49,160 --> 00:55:51,959
Speaker 1: damn he died, Dude. He was ninety five years old

961
00:55:52,000 --> 00:55:57,719
Speaker 1: when he died. That's such a huge that's such a like, dude,

962
00:55:57,760 --> 00:55:59,759
Speaker 1: for a man to do that like this meant like

963
00:56:00,080 --> 00:56:05,319
Speaker 1: dismantling the apartheid of an entire fucking nation and then

964
00:56:05,640 --> 00:56:08,200
Speaker 1: like doing a bunch of other cool shit, and then

965
00:56:08,400 --> 00:56:10,320
Speaker 1: you know what, he probably has a bunch of probably

966
00:56:10,360 --> 00:56:13,840
Speaker 1: a wife and kids and stuff like that. A six kids.

967
00:56:13,880 --> 00:56:20,279
Speaker 1: Holy shit, he had six kids, three wives, dismantled in

968
00:56:20,280 --> 00:56:25,040
Speaker 1: apartheid state, pissed off a bunch of people on the

969
00:56:25,160 --> 00:56:29,400
Speaker 1: right and the left. Uh. He received over two hundred

970
00:56:29,440 --> 00:56:34,280
Speaker 1: and fifty honors. Mandela is an On his Wikipedia page,

971
00:56:34,280 --> 00:56:36,040
Speaker 1: it says it literally says he's one of the best

972
00:56:36,040 --> 00:56:39,440
Speaker 1: people of all time. Mandela is widely considered one of

973
00:56:39,480 --> 00:56:43,799
Speaker 1: the greatest figures of the twentieth century. Literally on his

974
00:56:44,040 --> 00:56:46,799
Speaker 1: imagine on your Wikipedia page, it just says he's one

975
00:56:46,800 --> 00:56:48,920
Speaker 1: of the greatest guys that's ever lived.

976
00:56:50,280 --> 00:56:53,200
Speaker 4: Yeah, people don't know if he lived or died.

977
00:56:53,760 --> 00:57:00,759
Speaker 1: Yeah, well lived, well lived or died. Is he's dead,

978
00:57:00,840 --> 00:57:03,520
Speaker 1: lived or died? Is like you've heard ninety five. You

979
00:57:03,560 --> 00:57:05,080
Speaker 1: know what I mean, like lived or died is like

980
00:57:05,200 --> 00:57:09,200
Speaker 1: what you say about somebody who like, uh is like

981
00:57:09,280 --> 00:57:13,360
Speaker 1: at war or something like it's kind of pending, you

982
00:57:13,440 --> 00:57:17,800
Speaker 1: know what I mean. But like true, he's not he

983
00:57:17,800 --> 00:57:20,120
Speaker 1: he went as far as you could. No one lives,

984
00:57:20,480 --> 00:57:22,680
Speaker 1: No one lives period.

985
00:57:23,120 --> 00:57:25,320
Speaker 4: Yeah you know what I mean. Yeah, Well, I have

986
00:57:25,360 --> 00:57:28,920
Speaker 4: a question. What if you could be in any history

987
00:57:28,920 --> 00:57:31,440
Speaker 4: and time, like point in time, when would it be

988
00:57:32,120 --> 00:57:36,960
Speaker 4: this passfors this one right now? Oh yeah really with

989
00:57:37,040 --> 00:57:38,160
Speaker 4: all your knowledge as well?

990
00:57:39,080 --> 00:57:40,400
Speaker 1: Yeah? Yeah, definitely.

991
00:57:40,840 --> 00:57:42,560
Speaker 4: Wow, Wow do I have to wait? Wait?

992
00:57:42,560 --> 00:57:44,320
Speaker 1: Wait, can I come? Can I just like take a peek?

993
00:57:47,520 --> 00:57:50,320
Speaker 4: You have to live. Let's let's let's say a year.

994
00:57:50,640 --> 00:57:53,840
Speaker 1: Oh fuck that, No, I'm staying here. Well a year,

995
00:57:54,160 --> 00:57:57,480
Speaker 1: a year? Nah fuck no fuck that, I'm staying here.

996
00:57:57,520 --> 00:58:00,640
Speaker 1: I'll stay here. Interesting, I mean you could, I mean

997
00:58:00,840 --> 00:58:03,960
Speaker 1: you could go back in time and like use the

998
00:58:04,000 --> 00:58:11,160
Speaker 1: information that you have to like no, no, no, no, no, no, no,

999
00:58:11,240 --> 00:58:14,000
Speaker 1: I'm staying here. No. Yeah, absolutely, because I was gonna

1000
00:58:14,040 --> 00:58:17,600
Speaker 1: say you could, like because if you went back in time,

1001
00:58:18,960 --> 00:58:20,840
Speaker 1: what like there's the easy one of people being like,

1002
00:58:20,880 --> 00:58:22,680
Speaker 1: oh you can go back in time, like use knowledge

1003
00:58:22,720 --> 00:58:25,680
Speaker 1: you have about world events to like make money or whatever.

1004
00:58:25,840 --> 00:58:27,480
Speaker 1: But it's like, well, you can use the knowledge you

1005
00:58:27,520 --> 00:58:31,760
Speaker 1: have about world events to like actually, there's no world

1006
00:58:31,800 --> 00:58:36,400
Speaker 1: events that I have knowledge of that I that was

1007
00:58:36,480 --> 00:58:43,160
Speaker 1: negative that I could like stop. Yeah, yeah, yeah, there's

1008
00:58:43,160 --> 00:58:45,520
Speaker 1: no there's nothing that I I I personally could stop,

1009
00:58:45,680 --> 00:58:50,000
Speaker 1: Like I can't stop any like election. I mean there's

1010
00:58:50,120 --> 00:58:52,880
Speaker 1: like assassinations I can stop. Like like me personally, I

1011
00:58:52,880 --> 00:58:53,440
Speaker 1: don't have the.

1012
00:58:53,480 --> 00:58:57,040
Speaker 4: Dude, you could stop all of the Holocaust, Bro, you could.

1013
00:58:57,160 --> 00:58:58,960
Speaker 1: I don't think I could have stopped the Holocaust.

1014
00:58:59,800 --> 00:59:01,840
Speaker 4: It's you went back. I feel like if you went

1015
00:59:01,880 --> 00:59:04,920
Speaker 4: back to like when Hitler was like a kid or

1016
00:59:04,960 --> 00:59:06,600
Speaker 4: not a kid, but like a teenager or whatever, and

1017
00:59:06,640 --> 00:59:08,800
Speaker 4: he's trying to get an art school and you got

1018
00:59:08,880 --> 00:59:12,000
Speaker 4: him in the art school, Like I don't know, that

1019
00:59:12,120 --> 00:59:13,080
Speaker 4: might change everything.

1020
00:59:13,600 --> 00:59:16,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, but I don't think how how am I how

1021
00:59:16,760 --> 00:59:20,560
Speaker 1: Like I'm a random guy. I don't have any I

1022
00:59:20,600 --> 00:59:23,400
Speaker 1: don't know anyone in the ninth.

1023
00:59:23,480 --> 00:59:25,600
Speaker 4: If you went there were ge Goo suit, I think

1024
00:59:25,640 --> 00:59:27,240
Speaker 4: that earns you instant respect.

1025
00:59:27,680 --> 00:59:29,640
Speaker 1: It could that's I think.

1026
00:59:29,440 --> 00:59:34,240
Speaker 4: He would follow you into into anywhere you want to go.

1027
00:59:35,200 --> 00:59:39,200
Speaker 1: Also, I can't talk to Hitler. I don't speak uh Jorman,

1028
00:59:39,440 --> 00:59:44,080
Speaker 1: and I don't have uh Google translate at the time.

1029
00:59:44,200 --> 00:59:46,400
Speaker 1: Like there's just I like, I don't think I could,

1030
00:59:46,680 --> 00:59:49,080
Speaker 1: and then that's I want to kill him. It's like how,

1031
00:59:49,120 --> 00:59:51,280
Speaker 1: I don't How am I going to get a gun?

1032
00:59:51,440 --> 00:59:56,000
Speaker 1: Am I really gonna do that? Am I? Like the

1033
00:59:56,080 --> 01:00:00,920
Speaker 1: legist the logistics of even if like a baby, like

1034
01:00:01,000 --> 01:00:03,080
Speaker 1: I don't have it in me to like kill a baby.

1035
01:00:03,600 --> 01:00:05,040
Speaker 1: I don't even think. I don't think it's right to

1036
01:00:05,120 --> 01:00:07,600
Speaker 1: kill a baby, even if even if you know, like

1037
01:00:07,640 --> 01:00:09,400
Speaker 1: if I could go back to time, like if I

1038
01:00:09,400 --> 01:00:12,840
Speaker 1: I think that that's a moral quandary to me, because

1039
01:00:14,160 --> 01:00:17,080
Speaker 1: like if I go back in time and I just

1040
01:00:17,320 --> 01:00:22,240
Speaker 1: killed like contextually, I'm not killing baby Hitler, I'm just

1041
01:00:22,320 --> 01:00:25,680
Speaker 1: kept killing a baby. I think it's I think I

1042
01:00:25,680 --> 01:00:28,720
Speaker 1: think it's so fucked up to be like, well, he's

1043
01:00:28,720 --> 01:00:30,560
Speaker 1: gonna do all this stuff, but yeah, but he did,

1044
01:00:30,800 --> 01:00:32,320
Speaker 1: you know he didn't.

1045
01:00:33,440 --> 01:00:38,600
Speaker 4: Yeah, I think we all didn't do anything, you know, Yeah, no, exactly, Yeah,

1046
01:00:39,400 --> 01:00:41,280
Speaker 4: I mean yeah, when I just said, we all have

1047
01:00:41,360 --> 01:00:44,720
Speaker 4: the same potential like when we're little babies, like anyone

1048
01:00:44,800 --> 01:00:45,880
Speaker 4: could be anyone, you know.

1049
01:00:46,440 --> 01:00:47,880
Speaker 1: I don't know if that's true that we all have

1050
01:00:47,920 --> 01:00:52,280
Speaker 1: the same potential. I I don't know. I mean, there's

1051
01:00:52,280 --> 01:00:56,440
Speaker 1: so much of how your life plays out not so

1052
01:00:56,960 --> 01:01:00,320
Speaker 1: not I don't know, I'm being needlessly deterministic. But a

1053
01:01:00,400 --> 01:01:02,440
Speaker 1: lot of how your life plays out is based on

1054
01:01:06,760 --> 01:01:09,440
Speaker 1: I think it's fair to say that a lot of

1055
01:01:10,200 --> 01:01:14,440
Speaker 1: how your life plays out is based on like who

1056
01:01:14,480 --> 01:01:18,760
Speaker 1: you're like, like where you're born, and who your friends

1057
01:01:18,800 --> 01:01:20,560
Speaker 1: are and stuff like that. I think it's fair.

1058
01:01:20,800 --> 01:01:24,800
Speaker 4: Yeah, no, that's true. Like you said, you say, this's

1059
01:01:24,800 --> 01:01:27,800
Speaker 4: a lot that you you see your dad, you see

1060
01:01:27,840 --> 01:01:30,560
Speaker 4: yourself and your dad, And I've heard you say that before. Yeah,

1061
01:01:30,840 --> 01:01:33,720
Speaker 4: and when you say that, like I I I also do,

1062
01:01:33,800 --> 01:01:36,320
Speaker 4: like I see my dad and myself and it's super weird,

1063
01:01:36,720 --> 01:01:39,040
Speaker 4: Like I'm just and I wonder, like was because I

1064
01:01:39,080 --> 01:01:41,360
Speaker 4: never met my grandpa, But I'm like, was he like

1065
01:01:41,520 --> 01:01:44,800
Speaker 4: this too? Like is it just really was? Since? But

1066
01:01:44,960 --> 01:01:46,920
Speaker 4: like since when? Like is it just like go on

1067
01:01:47,000 --> 01:01:49,520
Speaker 4: forever and we're all just like copies of each other

1068
01:01:49,560 --> 01:01:53,400
Speaker 4: in a way. It's weird. But I also like the

1069
01:01:53,440 --> 01:01:56,880
Speaker 4: whole nurture versus nature thing. It's like I think it's

1070
01:01:57,000 --> 01:02:00,680
Speaker 4: nurture and nature because you, like, I see people as

1071
01:02:00,720 --> 01:02:04,960
Speaker 4: like a computer, and you're like the motherboard when you're born,

1072
01:02:05,080 --> 01:02:08,000
Speaker 4: and then you get software like as you grow, like

1073
01:02:08,120 --> 01:02:11,560
Speaker 4: based on your environment and like your parents and stuff.

1074
01:02:13,080 --> 01:02:16,600
Speaker 4: But yeah, I don't what do you what do you?

1075
01:02:16,640 --> 01:02:17,680
Speaker 4: What do you think about that?

1076
01:02:19,680 --> 01:02:24,400
Speaker 1: Sorry, I'm I'm looking through Nelson Mandel's Wikipedia page right now.

1077
01:02:25,680 --> 01:02:29,680
Speaker 1: He he literally was like, like, dude, he just fucking

1078
01:02:31,880 --> 01:02:36,680
Speaker 1: he like dismantled. He just he like he dismantles apartheid.

1079
01:02:37,840 --> 01:02:45,640
Speaker 1: Then he fucking uh because he becomes an elder statesman,

1080
01:02:46,920 --> 01:02:52,640
Speaker 1: he declines a presidential term. He literally voluntarily gave someone

1081
01:02:52,720 --> 01:02:56,400
Speaker 1: else power, like that's unheard of. And then and then

1082
01:02:56,400 --> 01:02:58,320
Speaker 1: you know what he did after that? He gets because

1083
01:02:58,320 --> 01:03:01,120
Speaker 1: he was bored. You don't know elseon Mandela does when

1084
01:03:01,120 --> 01:03:03,920
Speaker 1: he's bored. Was it Colton? Know what Nelson Mandela does

1085
01:03:03,920 --> 01:03:04,479
Speaker 1: when he's bored.

1086
01:03:04,760 --> 01:03:08,200
Speaker 4: It's culture with an art culter culture.

1087
01:03:08,280 --> 01:03:10,200
Speaker 1: You know what Nelson Mandela does when he's bored.

1088
01:03:10,880 --> 01:03:12,080
Speaker 4: What does he do when he's bored.

1089
01:03:12,360 --> 01:03:17,760
Speaker 1: He focuses on combating not only poverty, but also aids

1090
01:03:18,080 --> 01:03:24,200
Speaker 1: through the charitable Nelson Mandela Foundation, founded in nineteen ninety nine.

1091
01:03:24,320 --> 01:03:28,240
Speaker 1: When he was Yeah, when he finished being the president,

1092
01:03:28,320 --> 01:03:32,360
Speaker 1: he just quit being the president to eradicate poverty and

1093
01:03:32,400 --> 01:03:34,880
Speaker 1: AIDS because he was bored.

1094
01:03:35,840 --> 01:03:37,440
Speaker 4: Dude, he got the Bible.

1095
01:03:38,040 --> 01:03:43,000
Speaker 1: He got the Nobel Peace Prize. What else did he do?

1096
01:03:43,080 --> 01:03:44,800
Speaker 4: Dude? You should you should get one of his six

1097
01:03:45,200 --> 01:03:46,080
Speaker 4: kids on the show.

1098
01:03:46,440 --> 01:03:49,040
Speaker 1: That would be fucking awesome. That would be really good.

1099
01:03:49,040 --> 01:03:52,160
Speaker 1: O the way, Okay, okay, all of his children? No, okay,

1100
01:03:52,160 --> 01:03:54,640
Speaker 1: all right, he actually okay, So he has it says

1101
01:03:54,640 --> 01:03:59,760
Speaker 1: here he has six children, and it says six children

1102
01:03:59,800 --> 01:04:06,840
Speaker 1: in including mcgatho, Macki, Zenani, and Zin.

1103
01:04:07,960 --> 01:04:08,520
Speaker 4: De z Wa.

1104
01:04:09,520 --> 01:04:12,120
Speaker 1: So only four and and all of their names are

1105
01:04:12,200 --> 01:04:14,920
Speaker 1: are highlighted blue, which means they lead to links they

1106
01:04:15,000 --> 01:04:17,640
Speaker 1: like each of like four of four of his six

1107
01:04:17,720 --> 01:04:23,360
Speaker 1: children also have Wikipedia pages, which means two of his

1108
01:04:23,480 --> 01:04:26,360
Speaker 1: children are just chilling.

1109
01:04:26,160 --> 01:04:26,880
Speaker 4: Are relevant?

1110
01:04:27,520 --> 01:04:31,280
Speaker 1: Are are? For lack of a better word, yes, around

1111
01:04:31,320 --> 01:04:35,360
Speaker 1: two of Nelson's men. Two of Nelson Mandel's children are,

1112
01:04:35,440 --> 01:04:39,360
Speaker 1: for lack of a better word, not relevant enough. They're

1113
01:04:39,400 --> 01:04:42,720
Speaker 1: they're not relevant enough to have a Wikipedia page.

1114
01:04:43,800 --> 01:04:45,840
Speaker 4: Maybe that'll make it easier to get them on the show.

1115
01:04:45,840 --> 01:04:49,360
Speaker 1: Then, yeah, that's true, that's true. Maybe, Yeah, they're probably

1116
01:04:49,400 --> 01:04:55,600
Speaker 1: not as busy, Okay, mcgaetho mcgatho unfortunately passed away.

1117
01:04:57,080 --> 01:05:00,760
Speaker 4: Okay in the heart.

1118
01:05:00,640 --> 01:05:04,240
Speaker 1: Bro Maguet, Well, but he passed away. But he was

1119
01:05:04,360 --> 01:05:06,320
Speaker 1: he wasn't like a little kid. He was fifty four.

1120
01:05:08,080 --> 01:05:08,960
Speaker 1: He's a bummer, but.

1121
01:05:10,040 --> 01:05:12,960
Speaker 4: Yeah, he's like he's still kind of a little kid.

1122
01:05:15,000 --> 01:05:21,640
Speaker 1: Uh okay, maccauz z way macca ze way is she's seven.

1123
01:05:21,680 --> 01:05:25,440
Speaker 1: Hold she's seventy one, go girl.

1124
01:05:25,920 --> 01:05:26,720
Speaker 4: She is?

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01:05:28,040 --> 01:05:29,680
Speaker 1: Dude, how old was Nelson Mandela when he had these

1126
01:05:29,720 --> 01:05:32,360
Speaker 1: fucking kids? Fifty?

1127
01:05:32,560 --> 01:05:33,200
Speaker 4: What he is?

1128
01:05:34,440 --> 01:05:39,560
Speaker 1: How old is nels? How old is Nelson Mandela? Nineteen eighty? Okay? Alright?

1129
01:05:39,560 --> 01:05:44,280
Speaker 1: He had them at like a normal age?

1130
01:05:44,720 --> 01:05:47,400
Speaker 4: What's a what's a normal age to have kids?

1131
01:05:47,640 --> 01:05:48,760
Speaker 1: I don't know. I didn't know if he had like

1132
01:05:48,760 --> 01:05:53,080
Speaker 1: a like like you know, late twenties on. I didn't

1133
01:05:53,080 --> 01:05:54,120
Speaker 1: know if he had I don't know if he had

1134
01:05:54,120 --> 01:05:56,480
Speaker 1: them at like when he was like, you know, like

1135
01:05:56,720 --> 01:05:59,640
Speaker 1: eighteen or something like that. All right, So all right,

1136
01:05:59,680 --> 01:06:04,680
Speaker 1: so what still alive? Okay? And then Zanani is a

1137
01:06:04,720 --> 01:06:08,360
Speaker 1: South African diplomat.

1138
01:06:08,560 --> 01:06:11,360
Speaker 4: Oh one of his kids, yeah.

1139
01:06:11,200 --> 01:06:15,200
Speaker 1: Okay, that's and then okay, then the other one I

1140
01:06:15,280 --> 01:06:22,320
Speaker 1: was also, uh Zinzi has passed away. She passed damn

1141
01:06:22,320 --> 01:06:23,440
Speaker 1: she passed away kind of recently.

1142
01:06:25,440 --> 01:06:25,800
Speaker 4: L r P.

1143
01:06:29,920 --> 01:06:33,200
Speaker 1: Oh fuck, she passed away from COVID.

1144
01:06:34,200 --> 01:06:39,840
Speaker 4: Oh damn. That is that's like a it's like a

1145
01:06:39,880 --> 01:06:47,040
Speaker 4: sign of the times. Well, yeah, damn, that's tough.

1146
01:06:47,600 --> 01:06:51,960
Speaker 1: Who's his? Oh ship is fucking damn damn dude. Wait

1147
01:06:53,160 --> 01:06:55,240
Speaker 1: uh oh okay, his wife is his?

1148
01:06:55,240 --> 01:06:55,400
Speaker 4: His?

1149
01:06:55,720 --> 01:06:59,840
Speaker 1: The woman he was married to at the time. Uh

1150
01:07:01,440 --> 01:07:02,240
Speaker 1: is still alive?

1151
01:07:03,840 --> 01:07:07,040
Speaker 4: Oh wow? Shit? How old is she?

1152
01:07:07,040 --> 01:07:09,080
Speaker 1: She's eight eighty so, yeah, she's eighty.

1153
01:07:09,920 --> 01:07:13,320
Speaker 4: Oh. So she was kind of young. Huh she was, she.

1154
01:07:13,320 --> 01:07:18,160
Speaker 1: Seemed she was. Okay, he was born in nineteen eighteen.

1155
01:07:20,680 --> 01:07:23,400
Speaker 1: What what's forty five minus eighteen? That's one of those

1156
01:07:23,600 --> 01:07:28,760
Speaker 1: really tricky man, Right, Yeah, what's forty five? What's forty

1157
01:07:28,760 --> 01:07:32,720
Speaker 1: five minus eighteen? Twenty seven? Okay, so she was twenty

1158
01:07:32,720 --> 01:07:35,240
Speaker 1: seven years younger than he was.

1159
01:07:35,520 --> 01:07:36,680
Speaker 4: Damn all right.

1160
01:07:36,840 --> 01:07:39,439
Speaker 1: So if we're if we're talking, you know, age gap

1161
01:07:39,480 --> 01:07:44,800
Speaker 1: relationships are are definitely you know, they're they're a touchy

1162
01:07:44,840 --> 01:07:51,680
Speaker 1: subject in modern society. But she was sixty eight years old, okay,

1163
01:07:53,320 --> 01:07:56,960
Speaker 1: and he was ninety when he died. I think by

1164
01:07:56,960 --> 01:07:59,520
Speaker 1: the time you're sixty eight, you can go for it.

1165
01:07:59,560 --> 01:08:05,400
Speaker 1: I think it's sixty yeah, at sixty eight you can date. Like,

1166
01:08:05,440 --> 01:08:08,240
Speaker 1: there's certain ages where I think it's completely appropriate to date.

1167
01:08:08,360 --> 01:08:11,440
Speaker 1: However older you can, and so at sixty eight, I

1168
01:08:11,440 --> 01:08:14,960
Speaker 1: think it's okay to be dating a guy in his nineties.

1169
01:08:15,920 --> 01:08:19,240
Speaker 4: Yeah, no, for sure, for sure. Yeah. Hold, I think

1170
01:08:19,240 --> 01:08:22,360
Speaker 4: it's I think it's weird when you're like fifty and

1171
01:08:22,400 --> 01:08:25,160
Speaker 4: you're dating like a nineteen year old, Like that's that's

1172
01:08:25,200 --> 01:08:26,600
Speaker 4: the that's the line for me.

1173
01:08:27,479 --> 01:08:32,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, fifty fifty and fifty and nineteen is controversial. Fifty

1174
01:08:32,040 --> 01:08:34,800
Speaker 1: and ninety one not as controversial.

1175
01:08:34,920 --> 01:08:38,800
Speaker 4: Yeah, No, you're right, you're right. You're right because you're

1176
01:08:38,920 --> 01:08:41,920
Speaker 4: I mean, you're mature at that point. Yeah, like night, Yeah,

1177
01:08:42,000 --> 01:08:42,439
Speaker 4: I'm sure.

1178
01:08:43,080 --> 01:08:44,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think I think if you're I think if

1179
01:08:44,840 --> 01:08:47,360
Speaker 1: you're fifty, you should be able to date any age

1180
01:08:48,760 --> 01:08:49,040
Speaker 1: for sure.

1181
01:08:49,080 --> 01:08:52,080
Speaker 4: Yeah, agreed.

1182
01:08:52,160 --> 01:08:58,280
Speaker 1: Wait what do you think about I was gonna say,

1183
01:08:58,320 --> 01:09:01,160
Speaker 1: like I was never mind, that's it doesn't make any sense.

1184
01:09:01,840 --> 01:09:05,040
Speaker 1: I was gonna say, but about being like nineteen dating

1185
01:09:05,920 --> 01:09:07,000
Speaker 1: one hundred year old.

1186
01:09:07,680 --> 01:09:11,879
Speaker 4: Oh wow, that's that's at that point, that's.

1187
01:09:11,720 --> 01:09:14,439
Speaker 1: Just who's taking advantage of who in that situation.

1188
01:09:14,800 --> 01:09:17,120
Speaker 4: Yeah, no, exactly. I was just literally just about to

1189
01:09:17,120 --> 01:09:17,599
Speaker 4: say that.

1190
01:09:18,320 --> 01:09:20,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, who's taking advantage of who in that situation. One,

1191
01:09:20,840 --> 01:09:23,040
Speaker 1: if you're like, like I'm talking like one hundred, one

1192
01:09:23,120 --> 01:09:24,040
Speaker 1: hundred years.

1193
01:09:23,800 --> 01:09:27,719
Speaker 4: Old, Yeah, no, I think if you're one hundred years old,

1194
01:09:28,360 --> 01:09:31,280
Speaker 4: you're getting the benefit of like having a younger spouse,

1195
01:09:31,720 --> 01:09:34,639
Speaker 4: but as the nineteen year old, you're getting like all

1196
01:09:34,640 --> 01:09:37,519
Speaker 4: the inheritance hopefully or whatever they have. Like, so it's

1197
01:09:37,720 --> 01:09:39,240
Speaker 4: it's kind of a win win in.

1198
01:09:39,200 --> 01:09:41,599
Speaker 1: A way, because when you're a hundred that you can't

1199
01:09:41,600 --> 01:09:47,200
Speaker 1: even be Actually, you know what, how old is Dick

1200
01:09:47,320 --> 01:09:51,280
Speaker 1: Van Dyke? He's okay, never mind, Okay, I was gonna

1201
01:09:51,280 --> 01:09:54,479
Speaker 1: say at one hundred years old, you're not even there.

1202
01:09:54,520 --> 01:09:56,479
Speaker 1: But Dick van Dyke is pretty sharp.

1203
01:09:58,040 --> 01:09:59,320
Speaker 4: How old is Dick van Dyke?

1204
01:09:59,479 --> 01:10:01,479
Speaker 1: One hundred is g'z one hundred?

1205
01:10:02,439 --> 01:10:04,000
Speaker 4: Wow? Wow?

1206
01:10:04,000 --> 01:10:05,799
Speaker 1: How is he? How is he still fucking alive?

1207
01:10:08,400 --> 01:10:13,439
Speaker 4: Yeah? How old do you expect yourself to live? Or

1208
01:10:13,479 --> 01:10:15,120
Speaker 4: how old do you want yourself to live?

1209
01:10:15,760 --> 01:10:18,240
Speaker 1: I'd like to do eighty.

1210
01:10:19,439 --> 01:10:20,960
Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm right there with you.

1211
01:10:21,560 --> 01:10:26,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think eighty is pretty good. Wait, check this out,

1212
01:10:27,000 --> 01:10:30,240
Speaker 1: Dick van Dyke. Now we're just hanging out of my Wikipedia.

1213
01:10:30,320 --> 01:10:36,280
Speaker 1: Who gives a shit Dick Van Dyke? Okay, in nineteen. Okay,

1214
01:10:36,280 --> 01:10:40,920
Speaker 1: so get this, okay. Dick Van Dyke was born in

1215
01:10:41,040 --> 01:10:46,800
Speaker 1: nineteen twenty five. Okay, in nineteen seventy two. So when

1216
01:10:46,800 --> 01:10:53,479
Speaker 1: he was forty seven years old, he had he'd been

1217
01:10:53,520 --> 01:10:59,120
Speaker 1: struggling with alcoholism for his entire life, checked into a

1218
01:10:59,160 --> 01:11:03,439
Speaker 1: hospital for we for three weeks to be treated for

1219
01:11:03,479 --> 01:11:06,479
Speaker 1: his alcohol addiction. And now he's sober. So he quit.

1220
01:11:06,840 --> 01:11:12,000
Speaker 1: So he quit drinking when he was forty eight, and

1221
01:11:12,000 --> 01:11:15,240
Speaker 1: now he's like, we'll live into one hundred. Okay, look

1222
01:11:15,240 --> 01:11:18,840
Speaker 1: at he was a heavy smoker for most of his life.

1223
01:11:20,200 --> 01:11:27,479
Speaker 1: And in January twenty thirteen, so when he was damn

1224
01:11:27,720 --> 01:11:31,960
Speaker 1: damned in his late eighties, he claimed to have been

1225
01:11:32,040 --> 01:11:40,400
Speaker 1: using nicorette for the past decade. So he figures, he

1226
01:11:40,439 --> 01:11:42,240
Speaker 1: figures out how to do it. Man, I don't know,

1227
01:11:42,280 --> 01:11:44,840
Speaker 1: he's just I don't know. I don't know.

1228
01:11:46,000 --> 01:11:47,360
Speaker 4: Not got those year jeans.

1229
01:11:48,360 --> 01:11:53,280
Speaker 1: Who's he got married? Okay? His wife is dead. His

1230
01:11:53,360 --> 01:11:56,840
Speaker 1: wife died a long time ago. I don't like the

1231
01:11:56,880 --> 01:12:01,160
Speaker 1: way I said that. That felt that feels weird. Wait, No,

1232
01:12:01,200 --> 01:12:03,640
Speaker 1: that's ald on. Wait okay, his wife hold on the

1233
01:12:03,640 --> 01:12:06,719
Speaker 1: wayst it was just was No, his wife's alive. That's wrong.

1234
01:12:07,000 --> 01:12:09,960
Speaker 1: I'm wrong. One of his one of his ex wives

1235
01:12:10,000 --> 01:12:13,840
Speaker 1: is dead. But wait, wait, wait, okay, this kind of

1236
01:12:13,840 --> 01:12:15,640
Speaker 1: this plays this plays into it, this plays into what

1237
01:12:15,640 --> 01:12:18,960
Speaker 1: we were talking about. Okay, Dick van Dyke one hundred

1238
01:12:19,040 --> 01:12:23,800
Speaker 1: years old. Guess how old his wife is?

1239
01:12:26,240 --> 01:12:30,840
Speaker 4: Ooh, mid sixties. Let's go like sixty.

1240
01:12:30,439 --> 01:12:38,960
Speaker 1: Four, fifty four years old. Damn damn so he So he's.

1241
01:12:39,960 --> 01:12:41,639
Speaker 4: Mayried to a woman right there.

1242
01:12:41,760 --> 01:12:46,760
Speaker 1: He's married to a woman half his age. Yeah, more

1243
01:12:46,880 --> 01:12:51,559
Speaker 1: or less. Yeah, but she's fifty four. You know, most

1244
01:12:51,600 --> 01:12:53,320
Speaker 1: of the time, if you're married a woman half your age,

1245
01:12:53,320 --> 01:12:57,040
Speaker 1: people like it's a little whatever. But he's fifty four, Yeah,

1246
01:12:57,120 --> 01:12:59,720
Speaker 1: fifty four years old. It's funny if you look at it,

1247
01:13:01,520 --> 01:13:04,720
Speaker 1: if you look at a picture of them together, it

1248
01:13:04,760 --> 01:13:08,280
Speaker 1: looks a little it's interesting. But he's I don't know,

1249
01:13:08,320 --> 01:13:11,559
Speaker 1: he's just full of he's full of life. He's doing

1250
01:13:11,600 --> 01:13:13,520
Speaker 1: pretty good. One hundred years old. Goddamn.

1251
01:13:14,000 --> 01:13:19,200
Speaker 4: Yeah, I wonder what the secret is. I don't I

1252
01:13:19,240 --> 01:13:23,200
Speaker 4: don't know. I'd be like, I don't know, I'm I'm

1253
01:13:23,400 --> 01:13:25,439
Speaker 4: I'm not ready to die. Of course I'm still young,

1254
01:13:25,520 --> 01:13:28,519
Speaker 4: but like when the time comes, I won't be or

1255
01:13:28,600 --> 01:13:32,639
Speaker 4: I don't know, I don't know. I don't know. Maybe

1256
01:13:32,680 --> 01:13:33,880
Speaker 4: I'll be scared, maybe not.

1257
01:13:33,960 --> 01:13:37,000
Speaker 1: But yeah, I wonder if he's scared to die, Like no,

1258
01:13:37,080 --> 01:13:37,800
Speaker 1: he's breaking out.

1259
01:13:38,479 --> 01:13:41,200
Speaker 4: I'll be sad. I think by that time I'll probably

1260
01:13:41,240 --> 01:13:44,080
Speaker 4: have kids and stuff and it'll just be like, damn,

1261
01:13:45,000 --> 01:13:46,200
Speaker 4: you know, bro.

1262
01:13:46,320 --> 01:13:49,719
Speaker 1: Imagine having a Imagine having a imagine having a seventy

1263
01:13:49,800 --> 01:13:55,160
Speaker 1: four year old son. His son is seventy four, dude,

1264
01:13:55,920 --> 01:14:00,840
Speaker 1: Damn wow, imagine you have a imagine your son isn't old? Man?

1265
01:14:01,840 --> 01:14:06,639
Speaker 4: Yeah, no, I I can't even imagine that, honestly. Okay,

1266
01:14:07,120 --> 01:14:09,280
Speaker 4: imagine my son is like a you know, thirty year

1267
01:14:09,320 --> 01:14:12,200
Speaker 4: old dude. Yeah, when I'm dying here, I don't know.

1268
01:14:19,200 --> 01:14:22,839
Speaker 1: Oh wait, okay, do you know the movie Don't Worry Darling?

1269
01:14:24,080 --> 01:14:24,439
Speaker 1: I do.

1270
01:14:24,560 --> 01:14:26,240
Speaker 4: Yeah, Yeah, it's pretty It's.

1271
01:14:26,080 --> 01:14:28,200
Speaker 1: Popular for all these on for the for the on

1272
01:14:28,320 --> 01:14:32,200
Speaker 1: set drama. It was written by Dick Van Dyke's kids.

1273
01:14:33,240 --> 01:14:36,320
Speaker 4: Really do you know that? I did not know that?

1274
01:14:36,640 --> 01:14:38,880
Speaker 1: Dude? Who is this Dick Van Dyke guy? He's just

1275
01:14:38,960 --> 01:14:39,400
Speaker 1: doing it.

1276
01:14:42,160 --> 01:14:45,160
Speaker 4: He's just Wow, who's your favorite person in history? You're

1277
01:14:45,200 --> 01:14:47,759
Speaker 4: talking so much about Dick Van Dyke and then Nelson

1278
01:14:47,800 --> 01:14:50,920
Speaker 4: and Della. It's like history's on your mind right now?

1279
01:14:51,800 --> 01:14:54,040
Speaker 1: Who's my favorite person in history?

1280
01:14:54,960 --> 01:14:55,280
Speaker 4: Yeah?

1281
01:14:56,040 --> 01:15:01,479
Speaker 1: Uh, I don't, I don't, I am I don't know

1282
01:15:01,479 --> 01:15:02,840
Speaker 1: if I have one, do you?

1283
01:15:04,600 --> 01:15:10,559
Speaker 4: Mm hmmm, I don't know. I really like I like

1284
01:15:11,320 --> 01:15:15,799
Speaker 4: Bill Nye. I think he's pretty cool. I like uh,

1285
01:15:16,200 --> 01:15:20,519
Speaker 4: I like Neil de grasse Tyson. He's also Oh no,

1286
01:15:20,680 --> 01:15:23,439
Speaker 4: you know what number one answer favorite person that I

1287
01:15:23,439 --> 01:15:25,960
Speaker 4: can name off the top of my head, just like,

1288
01:15:26,280 --> 01:15:29,680
Speaker 4: I guess this is just celebrities because I'm like, this

1289
01:15:29,720 --> 01:15:32,120
Speaker 4: is the time I'm living in. But I think John

1290
01:15:32,200 --> 01:15:36,000
Speaker 4: Cena is a genuinely good dude. Like I don't even

1291
01:15:36,000 --> 01:15:41,519
Speaker 4: watch wrestling or anything. He seems like a good ass dude. Yeah,

1292
01:15:41,880 --> 01:15:49,320
Speaker 4: I like his vibe. Mhm. Do you have a like

1293
01:15:49,360 --> 01:15:52,400
Speaker 4: a favorite celebrity or something like an idol or anything?

1294
01:15:56,680 --> 01:16:01,440
Speaker 1: I like? Uh, I don't know. I like Norm m. MacDonald.

1295
01:16:01,520 --> 01:16:08,320
Speaker 1: He's funny, he's he passed away. Uh maybe Ben's Stiller. No,

1296
01:16:08,360 --> 01:16:10,840
Speaker 1: I don't. I just wanted to say, no, no, I don't.

1297
01:16:10,880 --> 01:16:11,160
Speaker 4: I don't.

1298
01:16:11,200 --> 01:16:13,639
Speaker 1: Actually I don't have I don't have for Ben Stiller.

1299
01:16:13,680 --> 01:16:16,360
Speaker 1: I just I just he's alive. I just felt I

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Speaker 1: just felt the need to say something.

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Speaker 4: Coulter could, yeah, Culter.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm I'm so fucking mad that you told me you.

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Speaker 4: Had a dude. I didn't know how hard it would

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Speaker 4: be to get on the show, and I'm.

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Speaker 1: Like, apparently it's not that hard. Apparently it's easy, dude.

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Speaker 4: I'm sorry, I'm sorry. I'm not I'm not a liar.

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Speaker 4: I just it's all right. I've wanted to talk to

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Speaker 4: you for.

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Speaker 1: By the way, by the way you are you, by

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Speaker 1: the way you I don't believe in hardcore labels like liar.

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Speaker 4: Mm hmm, but you did lie I did. Yeah. Yeah,

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01:16:57,280 --> 01:17:00,840
Speaker 4: it was just a little white lie, you know, to you.

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Speaker 4: To me, it was it was detrimental.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, if I really actually know, it's well to me.

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Speaker 1: To me, it took what I thought was going to

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Speaker 1: be like a juicy phone call into thirty eight minutes

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01:17:17,360 --> 01:17:23,040
Speaker 1: of me browsing Wikipedia with you, basically an entire podcast

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Speaker 1: of me browsing Wikipedia with you. And I don't mind

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Speaker 1: that at all.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, No, that's okay. Yeah, I'm just glad to be

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Speaker 4: talking to you right now. It's like, it's it's wild,

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Speaker 4: it's wild hearing you when I listen to you every day.

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Speaker 4: It's weird. But uh, yeah, I think you're really I

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Speaker 4: see myself a lot in you in a way. It's weird,

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Speaker 4: but I think I think if we we knew each other,

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Speaker 4: we'd be friends. I think that to myself.

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Speaker 1: Hey, Culture, Yeah, we can be friends right now.

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Speaker 4: Dude. That's that's amazing.

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Speaker 1: I love that is there? Is there anything else you

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Speaker 1: want to say to the people of the computer before

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Speaker 1: we go?

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Speaker 4: Live your life to the fullest, guys, and just remember

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Speaker 4: that love is everything.

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Speaker 1: Hey, gek, bless your Culture.

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Speaker 4: Gek, bless you, Lyle. I love you. Talk to you later,

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Speaker 4: all right.

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Speaker 1: See you, man, love you too, Love you too, Culture,

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01:18:33,840 --> 01:18:36,360
Speaker 1: love you. Love you so fucking much. Culture.

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Speaker 4: Oh my god, I love you.

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01:18:38,360 --> 01:18:39,360
Speaker 1: So fucking much.

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01:18:40,600 --> 01:18:40,880
Speaker 4: Dude.

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Speaker 1: I love you more than any I love you more

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Speaker 1: than any chicken or civil rights leader on the planet Earth. Culture.

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Speaker 4: That's so sweet. You need to make a You need

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01:18:53,200 --> 01:18:56,840
Speaker 4: to make a show, Lyle, like a TV show. You

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01:18:56,840 --> 01:19:03,720
Speaker 4: need to get on that else. Uh yeah, no, that's it.

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Speaker 4: Oh are you coming to Tampa this year?

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know. I can't tell you.

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Speaker 4: You should I might for me? Okay, all right, Lyle, Well,

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Speaker 4: I love you again, and I'll uh, I'll listen to you,

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01:19:19,520 --> 01:19:21,719
Speaker 4: and tomorrow morning, when I'm on my way to work.

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Speaker 1: Sweet, I'll look forward to being there vicariously through my

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Speaker 1: digital self.

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Speaker 4: Thanks Lyle. It's great talking man.

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Speaker 1: Good talking man. You take care. That was culture. I

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Speaker 1: hope you guys enjoyed listening to that. I got lost

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Speaker 1: in it. I enjoyed me. I enjoy I got lost

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01:19:41,439 --> 01:19:45,200
Speaker 1: in it. That was fun for me. I like looking

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01:19:45,240 --> 01:19:47,200
Speaker 1: at Wikipedia. I like looking at it stuff. I like

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Speaker 1: the culture. I hope you enjoyed it. But if you didn't,

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Speaker 1: at least one person did. And that person is men.

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Speaker 4: Shun is Id. You's teaching you to housing your life,

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Speaker 4: but he's not really an expert.