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Speaker 1: It's awkward.

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Speaker 2: It's Tuesday.

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Speaker 1: It's awkward Tuesday phone call. How long should it take

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Speaker 1: when you feel like you finally found your true love?

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Speaker 1: How far into that relationship should you wait to propose?

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Speaker 3: WHOA?

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Speaker 1: That's crazy.

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Speaker 3: I thought you're going to go with like Elbom or

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Speaker 3: like whoa.

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Speaker 1: I'm just asking it in general, like it should you

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Speaker 1: wait ninety months? Ninety days? That's ninety seconds?

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Speaker 3: No, okay, ninety seconds.

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Speaker 1: I mean at subway just the other day, I felt

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Speaker 1: like I was in love with the way that my

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Speaker 1: sandwich artist built me that cold cut combo. And they're

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Speaker 1: lucky it only took them eighty seven seconds to make it,

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Speaker 1: because I almost got down on one knee right there.

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Speaker 1: Three more seconds, you would have had me. You would

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Speaker 1: have had me forever. I would have been changed. Man.

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Speaker 1: But the reason that I bring it up is because

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Speaker 1: one of our listeners says he knew pretty quickly when

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Speaker 1: he met the right woman. Tim, welcome to the show.

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Speaker 2: Hey, thanks for having me.

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Speaker 3: My gosh, Jim, what a setup? Do you feel like

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Speaker 3: more nervous? Are better after hearing all of that from.

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Speaker 2: Jeffrey, I'll be honest, I feel a little bit better.

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Speaker 2: So The situation is, I'm currently engaged. My fiance's name

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Speaker 2: is Jessica.

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Speaker 1: Already engaged. Okay, you've already asked her the question.

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Speaker 4: Well, I thought you're going to do it on our show.

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Speaker 1: Thanks a lot, all.

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Speaker 3: Right, fine, what do you want from us?

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Speaker 1: All the magic has gone. I think what Brook meant

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Speaker 1: to say is congratulations on engagement, and it's really exciting.

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Speaker 3: How long have you guys been engaged.

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Speaker 2: We've been engaged a few weeks.

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Speaker 3: Oh, it's so brand new. Wow, god, is it fun

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Speaker 3: to start saying fiance?

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Speaker 1: You are literally calling us from cloud nine? Right, Oh

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Speaker 1: my god, your reception is great, my friend, So clearly

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Speaker 1: there's some sort of issue you're dealing with. Kind of

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Speaker 1: walk us through what's going on?

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Speaker 2: All right? So the bad story is we got engaged.

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Speaker 2: What it's felt like a good amount of time for us,

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Speaker 2: but other people think it's quick. Okay, I proposed when

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Speaker 2: we were only together for four months?

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Speaker 3: Four months?

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Speaker 1: Okay, oh the question.

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Speaker 3: You know, some people are just ready in their life,

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Speaker 3: you know, and and like it's a lot about timing.

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Speaker 3: And she obviously said yes, so she was ready.

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Speaker 1: Is she pregnant or something? Or you really love Jeffrey.

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Speaker 3: And it doesn't matter, No, it's just asking.

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Speaker 1: You're doing it for love.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, literally since our first date. It feels like we've

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Speaker 2: known each other for years, but our first date lasted

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Speaker 2: like twelve hours. Like we went out for to grab

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Speaker 2: a cup of coffee, we had lunch, we had dinner,

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Speaker 2: and you know, like it feels strange when we say

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Speaker 2: it out loud if we've only noticed other, you know,

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Speaker 2: like just over five months at this point. If that, like,

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Speaker 2: we have friends who will outright say we're crazy. Our

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Speaker 2: family is not at all shy saying that we're rushing this.

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Speaker 3: Okay, so they're like not fully on board, they're kind

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Speaker 3: of criticizing you a little bit.

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Speaker 1: Is that the issue we're dealing with?

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Speaker 2: Not quite. So here's my main issue. We were just

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Speaker 2: sitting around having dinner the other night, and completely unprompted,

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Speaker 2: Jessica mentions, Hey, I read an article and apparently more

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Speaker 2: and more young couples are doing prenups now.

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Speaker 1: Interesting.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, well, especially because people are getting married later. So

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Speaker 3: you know, men and women are going into a relationship

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Speaker 1: And they're like, you know, responsibility. It's interesting that she

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Speaker 3: How else are you bringing it up? I mean, who

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Speaker 3: else does it come up? It's not like it's definitely

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but she didn't go on with that line of thoughts.

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Speaker 2: She didn't say should we get a prenup? How do

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Speaker 2: I'm like, I think she brought it up because she

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Speaker 1: Oh, that you're going to ask her for a prenup.

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Speaker 2: I don't want to sound gross about this, but financially,

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Speaker 2: to be the breadwinner. But you know, I just think

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Speaker 2: would look good for our families to show it's like, yes,

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Speaker 2: we're doing this quickly, but we're not reckless about it.

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Speaker 3: So were you already thinking of asking her to sign

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Speaker 2: I mean, It's something that I assumed we would talk about.

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Speaker 2: But you know, our wedding isn't for another year almost.

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Speaker 3: I mean, that's a wild thing about getting engaged so quickly,

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Speaker 3: Like you don't even have time to have those type

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Speaker 1: Or judge, Yeah we're wanting to Yeah, you're just you

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Speaker 3: So wait, you think that she doesn't want one.

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Speaker 2: I'm ninety five percent sure she'd be okay with it.

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Speaker 2: She's really progressive and open minded. But that five percent

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Speaker 2: that's why you're here.

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Speaker 1: Okay, what made you email us for help?

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Speaker 3: Like?

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Speaker 1: What are you looking to get out of this phone call? Well?

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Speaker 2: I just know that prenups can sometimes create a lot

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Speaker 2: of tension in a relationship if you don't do it

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Speaker 2: in a tactful way. And I don't think we would

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Speaker 1: But you're good, thank you. What's not tactful about asking

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Speaker 1: you asked me romantic, how did you ask your husband

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Speaker 3: We don't have a prenup. I never signed a prenup.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, okay, that's not what he wants to heart

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, my only girlfriend signed a prenup is

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Speaker 1: I'm sure just pretend that you didn't hear that, but

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Speaker 2: I don't know. You guys are ready to be feeling

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Speaker 1: Well yeah, and also, Book and her friends come from

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Speaker 1: We'll come back give you a little bit of advice

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Speaker 1: unless you ask your girl for a prenups on the

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Speaker 2: It's Tuesday.

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Speaker 1: It's awkward Tuesday phone call. I am really curious to

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Speaker 1: know what advice my co hosts have for today's awkward

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Speaker 1: Tuesday caller. Oh too, because anytime I've seen this scenario

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Speaker 1: Bugs Bunny brought it up to Babs. It has always

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Speaker 1: been very awkward that happened.

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Speaker 3: Yeah it did. That's why Bugs never got married.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Babs went storming out of the after that. All

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Speaker 1: they feel shocked, little feelings of betrayal, like oh, so

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Speaker 1: you're planning to leave me. I'm just thankful that we

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Speaker 1: have two experts here, Jose and Brooke, who can help

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Speaker 1: our listener Tim today to broach the subject of a

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Speaker 1: prenup because he's already engaged to Jessica after they've been

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Speaker 3: I like he got that done. But it's more nerve

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Speaker 1: Well, it's so seeds of doubt in relation, for sure.

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Speaker 1: I agree. But Brooke, you recently had to cut your

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Speaker 1: how you have that conversation with him. Maybe you'll have

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Speaker 1: great advice for Tim here.

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Speaker 3: What do you think hire a great attorney?

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Speaker 2: I'm gidding.

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Speaker 3: I think the thing is here is it's the approach

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Speaker 3: Tim okay, And the great news is is that she's

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Speaker 1: She broke the ice.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, so then it like lowers her defenses. Right, It's

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Speaker 1: I'm thinking of this because you brought it up, accused

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Speaker 1: her of it being her id. Yes, what do you

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Speaker 2: I mean that sounds like a natural approach. I guess

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Speaker 2: I demand this.

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Speaker 1: think Regardless of what you do or what you say,

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Speaker 1: We're never gonna use this. This is literally a legal

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Speaker 3: Doth protest too much? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: I think it's smart. It's like every building has an

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Speaker 1: Then I feel extra safe whenever I step into this building, Tim,

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Speaker 1: do you feel extra safe with us during this call?

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Speaker 1: Where your emergency exit plan?

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Speaker 2: I mean I feel as ray as I'm gonna be.

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Speaker 2: But you guys, do me a favor if she just

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Speaker 2: says yes that it's all cool to you, Please not

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Speaker 2: play the awkward sound effect.

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Speaker 1: Oh okay, we want to play the awkward noise. We'll

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Speaker 1: play a bunch of crickets. Sounds rich crickets, though all

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Speaker 1: these crickets have pre nuts. So here we go. I'm

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Speaker 1: gonna dial your fiance, Jessica. We're gonna step away and

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Speaker 4: Hello, Hey, babe, Hey, wait.

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Speaker 3: A foot number.

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Speaker 4: I recognize this number.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, you know I'm at work right now. I

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Speaker 2: can't find my cell phone, so I just called you

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Speaker 2: from one of the office phones. Did they doing so far?

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Speaker 4: It's fine. Did you call the pharmacy and make sure

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I haven't done that yet, but i'll do

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Speaker 2: it since I'm off the fun with you. So I

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Speaker 2: hope I'm not bothering you or interrupting or anything. But

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Speaker 2: I was just thinking about something and I wondered if

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Speaker 4: Yeah, no, you know you got You're good go ahead,

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Speaker 4: what's up?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's just I wanted to say first of all,

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Speaker 4: Should should I feel safe? I think I should?

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Speaker 3: Right?

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Speaker 4: Like I feel safe?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? No, I mean of course, that's literally my only

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Speaker 2: goal in life is to make sure you feel safe

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Speaker 2: and happy.

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Speaker 4: And yeah, no, I definitely feel safe. Like this is

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Speaker 4: a weird call. What's going on?

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Speaker 2: Well? On that topic of safety, I remember the other

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Speaker 2: night you were talking about that article you read and

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Speaker 2: how troubles our age are getting prenups before their wedding. Yeah, well,

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Speaker 2: I've been thinking a lot about that since you said it,

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Speaker 2: and not that we would ever need it, but just

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Speaker 2: in case, I think it might make us safe if

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Speaker 2: maybe we got one. Are you serious? I yeah, I

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Speaker 2: mean you know, you mentioned it and I thought it

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Speaker 2: was a pretty good idea. Like, I just I'll just

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Speaker 2: say it. Do you want to get a prenup?

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Speaker 4: Uh? Okay, I guess so?

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Speaker 2: Oh really?

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Speaker 4: I yeah, yeah, I'm actually glad glad you brought it

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Speaker 4: up because, like my dad was asking me to bring

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Speaker 4: it up with you.

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Speaker 2: What wait, why was why was he Why was he

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Speaker 2: asking you to bring it up to me.

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Speaker 4: I mean, we've been dating for four months and we're engaged,

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Speaker 4: so we haven't really crossed all of the boundaries and information. So, uh,

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Speaker 4: there's my great grandfather was like an early investor in

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Speaker 4: oil trades. It's to my families like tilsa rich, so

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Speaker 4: this could be great. Oh what's going on?

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Speaker 3: Oh, a couple of financial advisors on the phone.

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Speaker 1: Jessica, welcome to our show. You're on with Broken Jeffrey

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Speaker 1: in the morning.

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Speaker 5: No, no, my name.

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Speaker 2: Sorry, Sorry, I tricked you. I needed to ask you

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Speaker 2: this question. I've just been stressing out about how to

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Speaker 2: do it.

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Speaker 1: Bro, you're the one that got tricked itself.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, tricking.

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Speaker 1: Just so you know, Jessica, this is called an awkward

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Speaker 1: Tuesday phone call. We were really expecting a lot more

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Speaker 1: pushback on the pre map question.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, this is awkward.

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Speaker 3: We're so good.

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Speaker 2: I mean, Babe, why is this the first time I'm

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Speaker 2: hearing about this?

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, because you've only been together four months?

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Speaker 1: The first thing you say, hi, we're billionaires. Oh my god.

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Speaker 4: I really didn't know when the right time to bring

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Speaker 4: this up, but my dad was definitely pressuring me yeah, Oh.

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Speaker 3: My gosh, well, I mean it's great news Jessica because

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Speaker 3: he's so on.

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Speaker 1: Board where he was. Does that mean that I wouldn't

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Speaker 1: be any more? Don't change your mind? What bro, she's rich?

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Speaker 2: What now?

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Speaker 3: Because she's rich? So the prenup is only to protect

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Speaker 3: you if you're rich.

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Speaker 1: Well, it sounds like Jessica's father isn't one hundred percent

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Speaker 1: certain that this relationship is going to work out. Oh,

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Speaker 1: tue of doubt.

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Speaker 4: He's never ever like any of my four months.

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Speaker 1: Okay, you're joking.

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Speaker 3: I don't think she is.

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Speaker 1: Are you kidding? Have you been engaged before, Jessica?

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Speaker 3: Which is fine, I mean never married, but yeah, I'm

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Speaker 3: engaged and Tim.

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Speaker 1: You knew about that, right or is this the first

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Speaker 1: time you're finding out that too?

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Speaker 2: I'm you might need to hit that awkward button again.

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Speaker 1: Talking to do.

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Speaker 2: There's a lot we obviously need to talk about. Maybe

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Speaker 2: we didn't like hash this all that one. Get home tonight,

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Speaker 2: and maybe maybe you could pay for dinner for a change.

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Speaker 3: Oh, my tables, you know that's totally fair, my treat.

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Speaker 2: Let's talk about it.

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Speaker 4: There's a lot of ground to cover.

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Speaker 3: It sounds like more than one ex fiance.

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Speaker 1: Okay, well, yeah, we we aimed to get her to

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Speaker 1: agree to a prenup and we did it, aggressively agreed

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Speaker 1: to it. And not only did she agree, she forced

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Speaker 1: him to agree back to another person double prenups today.

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Speaker 2: Okay, hey, babe, just to be clear, we're never gonna

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Speaker 2: need this. I will love you forever. So if you

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Speaker 2: don't want to get a prenups after all and go

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Speaker 2: through all of it, I'm cool with that.

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Speaker 5: Oh what a sweet thing to say to love Israel.

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Speaker 3: It's brooking Jeffrey in the morning.