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Speaker 1: It is time to ask the CLO or Chief Love Officer,

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Speaker 1: Steve Harvey. This is from Teresa and Piscataway. Teresa writes,

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Speaker 1: I'm friends with a woman that dated my husband ten

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Speaker 1: years ago. I don't have a problem with her, but

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Speaker 1: he had a problem with me going to dinner with her.

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Speaker 1: We had an argument over this woman. Is this an

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Speaker 1: indication that he's hiding something?

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Speaker 2: No, it's an indication. And why you all off with

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Speaker 2: somebody he used to date? That can't lead to no good.

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Speaker 2: You ain't got nobody else you could be friends with.

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Speaker 2: And why does she Why is she so interested in

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Speaker 2: being your friend? It's what you need to ask yourself.

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Speaker 2: What's help motive? Let's go to if you don't think

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Speaker 2: he fit to come up as one of the subjects.

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Speaker 2: You that lost your mind because she.

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Speaker 1: Tricky ten years ago? Though this is still going on.

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Speaker 3: I don't care if it was nineteen sixty nine.

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Speaker 1: Right, being your friend going and eat with you?

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Speaker 3: Man girl by all right?

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Speaker 1: So it doesn't mean he's hiding something though that's what

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Speaker 1: she's asking.

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Speaker 2: It don't mean what he look They broke up for

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Speaker 2: a reason. M m okay, And you gotta wonder why

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Speaker 2: is lady so interested in being your friend. She know

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Speaker 2: who your husband is. Yeah, okay, snake move Trump.

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Speaker 1: Just let stuff go, okay. Moving on to Donovan in Jacksonville,

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Speaker 1: Donovan writes, I'm married to an activist and we live

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Speaker 1: in a mixed community with Republicans. My wife won't even

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Speaker 1: speak to our neighbors that had Trump signs in their

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Speaker 1: yards during the election. She calls me a sellout. How

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Speaker 1: do I get her to be more late neighborly?

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Speaker 3: Hmmmm, Well she needs to relax. Trump.

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Speaker 2: He is the president. He's number forty six. You can

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Speaker 2: get unmad right now and just sit there and just

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Speaker 2: and and just let them deal with the ramifications.

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Speaker 3: Because it's gonna be some ramifications to deal with.

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Speaker 2: You ain't got to be mad at them. I told

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Speaker 2: you so forty seven. Yeah, yeah, I say this what

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Speaker 2: everybody that voted for Trump is not a bad person.

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Speaker 2: It's a lot of misguided people out here. It's a

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Speaker 2: lot of people that that of that fail for the

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Speaker 2: okie dope. It's a lot of people got bamboozle. It's

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Speaker 2: a it's a lot of people drank the kool aid.

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Speaker 2: It's some people out there really thought they was doing

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Speaker 2: what was best for the country. The problem we had

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Speaker 2: was we didn't give them alternative with Biden, and then

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Speaker 2: Kamala got in the race too late. He had that

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Speaker 2: stick in his hand. He was three quarters away round

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Speaker 2: the track.

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Speaker 1: Okay, right, race huh, well I want it. Yeah, So

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Speaker 1: you're saying the wife just needs to chill and be

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Speaker 1: a little more neighborly. Let it go, man, he's in

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Speaker 1: the White House now, Yeah, all right. Moving on to

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Speaker 1: Karen and Charlotte, Karen writes, I have a ten year

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Speaker 1: old son, and so does my husband, both by previous marriages.

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Speaker 1: We're going on a trip this summer, and my husband's

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Speaker 1: ex wife wants us to take her eight year old

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Speaker 1: son too. My husband doesn't want to. Should we invite him?

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Speaker 3: Well, I mean, you know it would be the cool

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Speaker 3: thing to do.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, you know, it would be cool.

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Speaker 3: He just an eight year old boy.

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Speaker 2: You know, they all gonna get along and play, you know,

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Speaker 2: the two ten year old sons. I got that ancient son,

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Speaker 2: I got that.

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Speaker 1: He ate Why doesn't he want to take him though?

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Speaker 3: Because it ain't his son?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, he probably like let his daddy take him on.

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Speaker 2: The Hello not a mother facial dilemma Yeah, that's his ex.

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Speaker 2: And you don't know if they was married or not.

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Speaker 2: They just have both have ten year old sons, some previous.

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Speaker 1: Relationships, previous marriage, so yeah they were married.

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Speaker 2: Sureley, you your job is clo I know my job,

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Speaker 2: Thank you, ma'am.

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Speaker 3: It's supposed to read the questions to me and then.

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Speaker 1: I ask answer.

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Speaker 3: You could do that.

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Speaker 2: Well, that's what we do every day. Your segment is

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Speaker 2: your strawberry letter, is it? Is it?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that's your segment, and we let you say whatever

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Speaker 3: you want to say. Here the problem.

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Speaker 1: I was just trying to clarify something. Don't make this

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Speaker 1: about me.

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Speaker 3: If you stay out of it. We could have.

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Speaker 1: Moved to stay out of it.

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Speaker 3: But move on? Can I move on?

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Speaker 1: Can I move on? I can be great?

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Speaker 3: So here's the deal.

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Speaker 2: Yes, the woman who has the two boys, the eight

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Speaker 2: year old and the ten, she wants him to consider

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Speaker 2: taking an eight year old because the ten year old

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Speaker 2: is leaving the house and he going, I want to

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Speaker 2: go with my brother. Yes, And then what she's gonna

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Speaker 2: be faced with is now he don't want you?

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Speaker 3: Yes? Why because that ain't your daddy. See, it's a

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Speaker 3: lot to.

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Speaker 1: Come with it, that's all you wanted to get to.

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Speaker 2: Well, this is what the problem is, is shit he

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Speaker 2: take the boy or not?

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Speaker 1: Right?

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Speaker 3: Right?

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Speaker 1: The issue?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but the dilemma is he don't want to take

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Speaker 2: him because that's not his son and he's younger. You

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Speaker 2: don't know if this is the boy that came out

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Speaker 2: of the relationship that she cheated on him with, which

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Speaker 2: is why they ain't jump what a go?

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Speaker 1: And I don't need to be involved.

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Speaker 3: That's how you don't need to be because you just

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Speaker 3: because you don't.

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Speaker 1: Know make all stuff.

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Speaker 2: I make him stuff, won't She got a ten year

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Speaker 2: old boy to eight year old boy. It takes nine

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Speaker 2: monst have a baby, so after a ten year old

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Speaker 2: was born, it wasn't long for she she was pregnant again.

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Speaker 1: Whoa, whoa? What they got to do with him taking

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Speaker 1: this baby on the.

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Speaker 3: Make because it ain't my baby?

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Speaker 1: Last wall, it is the last one. We're moving on

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Speaker 1: Haley and Oxford says, I'm twenty nine and my husband

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Speaker 1: is forty. He thinks he's he can cook better than

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Speaker 1: me because it takes him longer. I use an air fryer,

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Speaker 1: and he loves the cast iron skillet. He loves my cooking,

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Speaker 1: So why is it such a big deal. How I

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Speaker 1: prepare it? Is it because he's a lot older? You

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Speaker 1: know I'm going to be involved in this.

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Speaker 3: It's twenty nine and forty. That's only eleven.

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Speaker 1: Years stand on his shirt.

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Speaker 3: I don't understand how.

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Speaker 1: I mean what y'all. She's twenty nine and uses an

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Speaker 1: air fryer. He's forty and uses the cast iron skill it.

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Speaker 2: Let me explain something to you that not taste as

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Speaker 2: good as that cast iron skilly.

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Speaker 3: I can tell you that right now.

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Speaker 1: She says he loves her cooking.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, he love you cook.

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Speaker 2: What she wants is the title as the best cook

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Speaker 2: in the family. He say he cooked better, and he

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Speaker 2: do because he don't use that air fry.

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Speaker 3: That's what it is.

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Speaker 2: Air fry, fried chicken. Different, y'all. It's different. I'm just

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Speaker 2: telling you.

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Speaker 3: It ain't just say

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Speaker 1: Well, all right, let's collect you're listening Steve Hardy Morning

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