1 00:00:00,480 --> 00:00:03,400 Speaker 1: Ridiculous Crime is a production of iHeartRadio. 2 00:00:03,560 --> 00:00:07,280 Speaker 2: And I want to know if, oh, hey, why do 3 00:00:07,320 --> 00:00:08,440 Speaker 2: you keep sneaking up on. 4 00:00:08,920 --> 00:00:10,800 Speaker 3: Under the table? I live under the table. 5 00:00:10,840 --> 00:00:13,320 Speaker 2: Now, I wasn't singing. I was just I was doing poetry. 6 00:00:13,360 --> 00:00:15,880 Speaker 2: So I don't want you to think you just keep going. 7 00:00:16,280 --> 00:00:16,919 Speaker 3: I'll just wait. 8 00:00:17,120 --> 00:00:19,280 Speaker 4: Please don't sneak up on me like this or it's 9 00:00:19,280 --> 00:00:20,880 Speaker 4: just so embarrassing. 10 00:00:20,440 --> 00:00:22,560 Speaker 3: You know what, you're not you gloss over the fact 11 00:00:22,560 --> 00:00:24,120 Speaker 3: that I live under the table. 12 00:00:25,079 --> 00:00:29,400 Speaker 4: But whatever, She's taken her naps and I'm like, you 13 00:00:29,560 --> 00:00:30,600 Speaker 4: take naps a lot. 14 00:00:31,040 --> 00:00:34,040 Speaker 2: So uh, while you're down there and getting in your chair, 15 00:00:34,080 --> 00:00:36,720 Speaker 2: I got a question for you. Yeah, besides my singing, 16 00:00:36,720 --> 00:00:37,960 Speaker 2: do you know what's ridiculous? 17 00:00:40,040 --> 00:00:47,600 Speaker 3: No, I'll tell you. Crumble Cookies is like some I 18 00:00:47,600 --> 00:00:49,080 Speaker 3: don't know. It's like a cookie chain. 19 00:00:49,159 --> 00:00:52,159 Speaker 4: Yeah, I hear about it. Underwhelming, Yeah, I don't know. 20 00:00:52,320 --> 00:00:55,920 Speaker 3: Whatever some people tell me I may find cookies. 21 00:00:55,960 --> 00:00:58,640 Speaker 4: We talk about this one Crumble like the yeah yeah. 22 00:00:58,480 --> 00:01:00,680 Speaker 3: But it's like me, it's it's it's a chain, and 23 00:01:00,760 --> 00:01:03,840 Speaker 3: so it's it's not going to be you know, phenomenal anyway, 24 00:01:04,040 --> 00:01:09,080 Speaker 3: no expectation. They teamed up with Dove and they're soap company. Yeah, 25 00:01:09,120 --> 00:01:12,520 Speaker 3: they're making like body wash so you can sell like 26 00:01:12,680 --> 00:01:13,760 Speaker 3: you have diabetes. 27 00:01:16,560 --> 00:01:18,000 Speaker 4: I got the ketosis. 28 00:01:18,520 --> 00:01:20,959 Speaker 3: That's ridiculous that you. 29 00:01:20,920 --> 00:01:24,160 Speaker 4: Know what I was ridiculous, Elizabeth. I was telling you 30 00:01:24,200 --> 00:01:26,680 Speaker 4: earlier being the son of a ridiculous criminal. 31 00:01:26,959 --> 00:01:29,959 Speaker 2: Oh wait, I'm so excited to hear that for part two. 32 00:01:30,440 --> 00:01:32,280 Speaker 2: And we did the first half of this story last time. 33 00:01:32,319 --> 00:01:33,920 Speaker 2: But I have so much more to share with you, 34 00:01:34,319 --> 00:01:36,520 Speaker 2: So let's dive back into the tale of two men 35 00:01:36,600 --> 00:01:39,479 Speaker 2: named Pietroca aka Peter the Greek. 36 00:01:59,480 --> 00:02:03,440 Speaker 4: This This is Ridiculous Crime, a podcast about absurd and 37 00:02:03,640 --> 00:02:07,000 Speaker 4: outrageous capers. Hece and comes. 38 00:02:07,320 --> 00:02:09,959 Speaker 2: It's always ninety nine percent murder free and one hundred 39 00:02:10,040 --> 00:02:14,760 Speaker 2: percent ridiculous, Elizabeth. Is the last episode I told you 40 00:02:14,800 --> 00:02:18,480 Speaker 2: about Pietro Locreca Senior and his son, Pietro Locreca Junior 41 00:02:19,000 --> 00:02:20,960 Speaker 2: and Pietro look Ata Junior. He wrote a book about 42 00:02:20,960 --> 00:02:23,480 Speaker 2: his father. It's called Pesos, The Rise and Fall of 43 00:02:23,480 --> 00:02:25,919 Speaker 2: a Border Family. Now there is a podcast about his 44 00:02:25,960 --> 00:02:28,520 Speaker 2: outrageously criminal family from Audible. It's called The King of 45 00:02:28,520 --> 00:02:31,560 Speaker 2: the Peso. And we've covered much of the family story 46 00:02:31,680 --> 00:02:33,919 Speaker 2: so far, but there is so much more to tell yeah, 47 00:02:33,919 --> 00:02:37,400 Speaker 2: which is why this is the rare ridiculous crime two 48 00:02:37,440 --> 00:02:39,560 Speaker 2: parter ah, So you ready to get. 49 00:02:39,520 --> 00:02:42,200 Speaker 3: Rare always, let's jump back in medium rare. 50 00:02:42,200 --> 00:02:43,760 Speaker 2: To get to the heart of this tale. I asked 51 00:02:43,760 --> 00:02:46,560 Speaker 2: Pietro Lo Greca Junior what his bond was like with 52 00:02:46,680 --> 00:02:49,079 Speaker 2: his dad, just in general, and he told me. 53 00:02:49,600 --> 00:02:51,720 Speaker 5: And I found out later even more and I can 54 00:02:51,720 --> 00:02:54,240 Speaker 5: tell that story in the second. But there was an 55 00:02:54,240 --> 00:02:58,320 Speaker 5: ego behind what he got away with and that we 56 00:02:58,320 --> 00:03:01,440 Speaker 5: were kind of untouchable, right, So there was a bit 57 00:03:01,480 --> 00:03:05,559 Speaker 5: of a pride with that, But then came they absolutely 58 00:03:05,639 --> 00:03:08,280 Speaker 5: hatred for him, the way he treated my mom, the 59 00:03:08,320 --> 00:03:11,639 Speaker 5: way he treated me, right, So there was no kind 60 00:03:11,639 --> 00:03:15,400 Speaker 5: of like middle kind of chill family ground. I treated 61 00:03:15,440 --> 00:03:18,600 Speaker 5: him like he was my boss. I couldn't have any honest, 62 00:03:18,639 --> 00:03:22,040 Speaker 5: transparent conversations that I have with my daughter to this day. 63 00:03:22,520 --> 00:03:24,960 Speaker 5: I mean, I don't think my dad apologized once to me. 64 00:03:25,520 --> 00:03:27,360 Speaker 5: I went off the handle on my daughter for not 65 00:03:27,400 --> 00:03:29,800 Speaker 5: studying for a test the other day, and I'm sorry 66 00:03:29,840 --> 00:03:32,160 Speaker 5: it was bs on my part. And I went up 67 00:03:32,160 --> 00:03:34,800 Speaker 5: to her and I said, hey, honey, that was I'm sorry, 68 00:03:35,040 --> 00:03:37,480 Speaker 5: Dad was out of line, right. I never heard that 69 00:03:37,520 --> 00:03:41,840 Speaker 5: from my dad. So I continued by the mantra that, yeah, 70 00:03:42,120 --> 00:03:44,920 Speaker 5: I was proud of certain things he did, but I'm 71 00:03:44,920 --> 00:03:46,040 Speaker 5: not going to be the man he was. 72 00:03:46,600 --> 00:03:49,560 Speaker 2: Fathers are difficult, and especially you know, being a father, 73 00:03:49,720 --> 00:03:52,320 Speaker 2: that's difficult. A lot of us who aren't fathers don't 74 00:03:52,360 --> 00:03:54,320 Speaker 2: think about that, yeah, because we don't experience that. 75 00:03:54,600 --> 00:03:55,240 Speaker 4: You're not a father. 76 00:03:55,360 --> 00:03:57,240 Speaker 2: I'm not a father, so we don't really know what 77 00:03:57,280 --> 00:03:59,720 Speaker 2: it's like he's not. I'm not aware that I'll father. 78 00:04:01,320 --> 00:04:03,880 Speaker 2: Just let's be real fingers. So we have so many 79 00:04:03,880 --> 00:04:06,440 Speaker 2: expectations for fathers though, right, mostly we expect them to 80 00:04:06,440 --> 00:04:09,160 Speaker 2: make us feel safe. That's that's the big deal, right, 81 00:04:09,520 --> 00:04:12,000 Speaker 2: But that's too much for some dads, even if they 82 00:04:12,000 --> 00:04:14,680 Speaker 2: think everything they're doing is meant to make their family 83 00:04:14,720 --> 00:04:16,960 Speaker 2: be safe, which I think Pietr look Greca Senior would 84 00:04:16,960 --> 00:04:18,040 Speaker 2: say that's what he's doing. 85 00:04:18,200 --> 00:04:18,599 Speaker 3: Yeah. 86 00:04:18,680 --> 00:04:20,760 Speaker 2: Now those are the last episode we talked about what 87 00:04:20,880 --> 00:04:23,760 Speaker 2: San Diego is like today and back in the late seventies, 88 00:04:23,760 --> 00:04:24,520 Speaker 2: in the early eighties. 89 00:04:24,880 --> 00:04:25,680 Speaker 4: But now, based on what. 90 00:04:25,600 --> 00:04:28,400 Speaker 2: I've told you about Pietro Loreca Junior and what he's 91 00:04:28,400 --> 00:04:31,560 Speaker 2: told us about Pietro Loca Sor, can you imagine his 92 00:04:31,680 --> 00:04:35,760 Speaker 2: father cruising around this Simon and Simon version of San Diego. 93 00:04:35,440 --> 00:04:40,760 Speaker 3: Very much can very much in like a Mercedes four fifty. 94 00:04:42,200 --> 00:04:44,320 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, yeah, I can see it. 95 00:04:44,480 --> 00:04:44,680 Speaker 4: Well. 96 00:04:44,720 --> 00:04:47,680 Speaker 2: This what helped him was he had a very savvy wife, 97 00:04:47,920 --> 00:04:51,760 Speaker 2: so she helped smooth over some of the peculiarities of 98 00:04:51,800 --> 00:04:52,360 Speaker 2: her husband. 99 00:04:52,560 --> 00:04:55,000 Speaker 3: Was she a good hearted woman, love and love with 100 00:04:55,040 --> 00:04:55,400 Speaker 3: a good. 101 00:04:55,320 --> 00:04:57,880 Speaker 2: Good time, and man, you better believe it, as one's 102 00:04:57,920 --> 00:05:01,800 Speaker 2: a walking country song. She was country lyrics on two legs. So, 103 00:05:02,200 --> 00:05:03,960 Speaker 2: as Pietro Legreca tells. 104 00:05:03,760 --> 00:05:07,880 Speaker 5: It, So he navigated, and I'm going to give myself credit, 105 00:05:07,960 --> 00:05:10,360 Speaker 5: my mom credit for this. He started navigating La Joya 106 00:05:10,960 --> 00:05:13,479 Speaker 5: in Coronado and the elitea San Diego because of my 107 00:05:13,480 --> 00:05:17,480 Speaker 5: mom and me, all right, because my mom did go 108 00:05:17,520 --> 00:05:19,200 Speaker 5: to school here in San Diego. She went to our 109 00:05:19,279 --> 00:05:22,720 Speaker 5: lady a piece ollp. She was fluent in both language, 110 00:05:22,839 --> 00:05:26,479 Speaker 5: and she was when you think of a debutante, you know, 111 00:05:27,200 --> 00:05:30,760 Speaker 5: a woman of society. Man, My mom was right there. 112 00:05:30,800 --> 00:05:31,920 Speaker 5: Smack dad, picture her. 113 00:05:32,360 --> 00:05:34,520 Speaker 2: This is a key part of the Pietro Logreca story 114 00:05:34,560 --> 00:05:37,160 Speaker 2: for both Senior and Junior. They are both changed by 115 00:05:37,160 --> 00:05:38,200 Speaker 2: this amazing woman. 116 00:05:38,920 --> 00:05:43,600 Speaker 5: She was engaged to marry someone else. She was nineteen 117 00:05:43,680 --> 00:05:46,120 Speaker 5: years old. She was not allowed to go to Stanford 118 00:05:46,120 --> 00:05:48,159 Speaker 5: because she got accepted to Stanford. She was made to 119 00:05:48,240 --> 00:05:51,080 Speaker 5: stay in Tijuana be the debutante. She was going to 120 00:05:51,080 --> 00:05:53,440 Speaker 5: be in marry into another wealthy family of Tijuana. 121 00:05:54,400 --> 00:05:58,080 Speaker 2: And meanwhile, there's his dad, el hethan the og Pietro 122 00:05:58,600 --> 00:06:02,160 Speaker 2: and at this point former Tigelow, he's got his high 123 00:06:02,200 --> 00:06:06,960 Speaker 2: fashioned store and he won the Unicorn. She's a debutante. 124 00:06:07,000 --> 00:06:09,760 Speaker 2: So she goes in. This is obviously before the insurance fire. 125 00:06:10,000 --> 00:06:13,120 Speaker 5: Yeah, my dad had just opened Porto Fino the store, 126 00:06:13,920 --> 00:06:18,400 Speaker 5: eighteen slash nineteen years older than her, smoking a cigarette outside. 127 00:06:18,560 --> 00:06:22,000 Speaker 5: My mom looks at my dad and falls madly in love. 128 00:06:22,320 --> 00:06:24,880 Speaker 4: That's it, that's all it takes. Elizabeth. One look at 129 00:06:24,880 --> 00:06:27,279 Speaker 4: Piatro and she's willing to risk it all. 130 00:06:28,160 --> 00:06:30,080 Speaker 3: Wow for an older man. 131 00:06:30,279 --> 00:06:32,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, eighteen and nineteen years older. She's like, oh, give 132 00:06:32,760 --> 00:06:34,719 Speaker 2: me some of that. He's almost as old as my dad. 133 00:06:35,160 --> 00:06:37,599 Speaker 3: That looks like a man who's gonna burn down a store. 134 00:06:38,720 --> 00:06:42,240 Speaker 5: And how I tell the story is they get married 135 00:06:42,240 --> 00:06:47,400 Speaker 5: and seven months later on board, so my dad impregnated 136 00:06:47,440 --> 00:06:52,520 Speaker 5: my mom had to marry her. My grandfather was livid, 137 00:06:52,800 --> 00:06:57,320 Speaker 5: and that's why there's so much just hatred between my 138 00:06:57,400 --> 00:07:00,560 Speaker 5: father and grandfather that they hated each other. So for 139 00:07:00,600 --> 00:07:03,920 Speaker 5: them to work with each other during the devaluation part 140 00:07:04,400 --> 00:07:07,960 Speaker 5: of my life, that meant my grandfather's business wasn't doing 141 00:07:08,000 --> 00:07:11,200 Speaker 5: that well because of the devaluation and he had to 142 00:07:11,280 --> 00:07:12,920 Speaker 5: cross over into my dad's lifestyle. 143 00:07:15,000 --> 00:07:17,720 Speaker 2: Then a crazy paragraph of just thought like yeah, he's like, 144 00:07:18,080 --> 00:07:22,640 Speaker 2: so my grandfather raises my mother to be this you know, debutante. 145 00:07:22,640 --> 00:07:26,400 Speaker 2: She's highly prized in a patriarchal society. She's gonna be protected. 146 00:07:26,440 --> 00:07:27,760 Speaker 2: She's not allowed to go off to Stanford. 147 00:07:27,760 --> 00:07:29,560 Speaker 4: They try to marry her to some you know, other 148 00:07:29,800 --> 00:07:33,680 Speaker 4: pscion of wealth, and instead this former jiggolo cruises into town, 149 00:07:33,800 --> 00:07:36,720 Speaker 4: opens up of the store, she sees him. He's smoking 150 00:07:36,720 --> 00:07:38,520 Speaker 4: out front. She's like, I gotta have some of him. 151 00:07:38,720 --> 00:07:40,920 Speaker 2: She gets pregnant and then comes back to Dad goes, 152 00:07:41,000 --> 00:07:42,640 Speaker 2: by the way, we're gonna get married. 153 00:07:42,760 --> 00:07:45,640 Speaker 4: He's like, what I mean, Like he invested so much 154 00:07:45,720 --> 00:07:49,440 Speaker 4: into da you know, he hated this man, hated him, 155 00:07:49,520 --> 00:07:49,760 Speaker 4: And I. 156 00:07:49,920 --> 00:07:52,200 Speaker 3: Kind I love that she did this because this notion 157 00:07:52,320 --> 00:07:55,160 Speaker 3: that he invested so much in her, he raised her 158 00:07:55,200 --> 00:07:55,880 Speaker 3: to be prized. 159 00:07:55,920 --> 00:07:57,400 Speaker 4: They were both trying to own her. 160 00:07:57,640 --> 00:08:01,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, so is he a Pietro Logrecca tells me 161 00:08:01,720 --> 00:08:03,640 Speaker 2: when when he keeps saying the devaluation, he means the 162 00:08:03,640 --> 00:08:06,480 Speaker 2: devaluation of the peso in nineteen eighty three, the Mexican 163 00:08:06,480 --> 00:08:09,440 Speaker 2: payso relative to the currencies of you know another, like 164 00:08:09,480 --> 00:08:11,880 Speaker 2: the dollar and other currencies, it just falls off right, 165 00:08:12,080 --> 00:08:14,120 Speaker 2: So for a good while in the early eighties, this 166 00:08:14,280 --> 00:08:17,160 Speaker 2: was a devastating development for the Mexican economy, and it 167 00:08:17,280 --> 00:08:20,760 Speaker 2: leads to his father pulling the whole family into his crime. 168 00:08:21,560 --> 00:08:23,120 Speaker 2: As Pietro Legreca told me. 169 00:08:23,640 --> 00:08:27,480 Speaker 5: So, my dad forced this way into our family. And 170 00:08:27,760 --> 00:08:29,560 Speaker 5: I call it our family because I know I'm a 171 00:08:29,600 --> 00:08:33,400 Speaker 5: look Greca, But the Gutra side of my family, I 172 00:08:33,400 --> 00:08:36,880 Speaker 5: think I hold more. I hold a bigger piece in 173 00:08:36,920 --> 00:08:38,920 Speaker 5: my heart from my mom's side of the family than 174 00:08:38,920 --> 00:08:40,160 Speaker 5: I ever did for my dad. 175 00:08:40,320 --> 00:08:43,000 Speaker 2: No, my man, Pietro Junior, he's mad partial to the 176 00:08:43,040 --> 00:08:44,960 Speaker 2: women in his family, and you can see why. 177 00:08:45,000 --> 00:08:45,520 Speaker 4: They're loyal. 178 00:08:45,559 --> 00:08:48,440 Speaker 2: They're honest, they're caring, they're smart, they're like savvy, they're 179 00:08:48,679 --> 00:08:51,040 Speaker 2: women of the world. People he can look up to 180 00:08:51,040 --> 00:08:52,280 Speaker 2: whose values are consistent. 181 00:08:52,520 --> 00:08:52,679 Speaker 6: Right. 182 00:08:53,080 --> 00:08:55,160 Speaker 2: That's true on both sides because He also liked his 183 00:08:55,760 --> 00:08:59,080 Speaker 2: father's sisters. Remember he has all the sisters. He meets 184 00:08:59,080 --> 00:09:02,800 Speaker 2: some of them exactly as he told me. 185 00:09:03,200 --> 00:09:06,079 Speaker 5: I got to meet three of my aunts, lovely women. 186 00:09:06,559 --> 00:09:09,959 Speaker 5: Still to this day, they they would curse him for 187 00:09:10,000 --> 00:09:12,600 Speaker 5: the stuff he would do to them, you know. Just 188 00:09:13,160 --> 00:09:15,440 Speaker 5: he's like, he tried to kill himself if we didn't 189 00:09:15,440 --> 00:09:19,920 Speaker 5: get him a ferrari, And I'm like, what, how did 190 00:09:19,960 --> 00:09:23,680 Speaker 5: He's like he was standing on the edge of our 191 00:09:23,720 --> 00:09:25,720 Speaker 5: house and he's like, I'm going to jump off if 192 00:09:25,760 --> 00:09:29,960 Speaker 5: I don't get a ferrari. So you know, I got 193 00:09:29,960 --> 00:09:32,880 Speaker 5: to meet my aunt's lovely people obviously, like good Italian 194 00:09:32,920 --> 00:09:35,800 Speaker 5: family when I got there, and two of my friends 195 00:09:35,880 --> 00:09:37,600 Speaker 5: came with me, were with me when I when I 196 00:09:37,640 --> 00:09:40,520 Speaker 5: met them the first time, and they had a spread, 197 00:09:40,559 --> 00:09:43,240 Speaker 5: and I think I ate for a good seven hours 198 00:09:43,240 --> 00:09:44,440 Speaker 5: straight in. 199 00:09:44,520 --> 00:09:48,719 Speaker 4: That amazing seven hour meal. Now he's not done because I. 200 00:09:48,679 --> 00:09:51,880 Speaker 5: Was almost forest fed on it. Right. So everything you 201 00:09:51,920 --> 00:09:56,120 Speaker 5: see in movies about those big spreads Italian meals, oh god, 202 00:09:56,160 --> 00:09:59,800 Speaker 5: it was, Oh my god, and from a family that 203 00:10:00,160 --> 00:10:04,920 Speaker 5: apasta factory, right. So needless to say, Okay, we ate 204 00:10:04,960 --> 00:10:06,959 Speaker 5: a lot that day. But now I got to hang 205 00:10:07,000 --> 00:10:09,480 Speaker 5: out with him at least five, six, five or six 206 00:10:09,520 --> 00:10:11,959 Speaker 5: times in Italy because when he did start making a 207 00:10:12,000 --> 00:10:14,440 Speaker 5: lot of money, he did like going back to Italy 208 00:10:14,520 --> 00:10:16,559 Speaker 5: and spending time in the summers at least for two 209 00:10:16,600 --> 00:10:18,440 Speaker 5: three weeks with him. So I think that's when my 210 00:10:18,520 --> 00:10:23,480 Speaker 5: mom really started gaining more and more resentment towards my dad. Right. 211 00:10:24,240 --> 00:10:28,000 Speaker 5: She understood that this predicament was because of him, that 212 00:10:28,160 --> 00:10:31,200 Speaker 5: her father wouldn't be in this because of him. It 213 00:10:31,280 --> 00:10:33,319 Speaker 5: wouldn't have been in this unless it were for my father. 214 00:10:33,840 --> 00:10:35,680 Speaker 5: But also knew the only person that can get her 215 00:10:35,760 --> 00:10:39,800 Speaker 5: dad out was my dad, right. The only way to 216 00:10:39,800 --> 00:10:41,840 Speaker 5: get my grandfather at prison was to stick with my 217 00:10:41,920 --> 00:10:47,120 Speaker 5: dad and my mom. Also, he loved a man, right, 218 00:10:47,440 --> 00:10:50,480 Speaker 5: and she was a devout Catholic, right, And you know 219 00:10:50,679 --> 00:10:54,000 Speaker 5: it's till death to you part regardless, And I think 220 00:10:54,080 --> 00:10:57,480 Speaker 5: that you know, that's what kept her with him. There 221 00:10:57,559 --> 00:11:00,280 Speaker 5: was always a love. But much like me, it got 222 00:11:00,280 --> 00:11:02,160 Speaker 5: to the point we just didn't like him. We didn't 223 00:11:02,200 --> 00:11:06,040 Speaker 5: like being around him. It was just cumbersome and just 224 00:11:06,240 --> 00:11:09,200 Speaker 5: always how do we manage my dad and him not 225 00:11:09,240 --> 00:11:12,320 Speaker 5: getting angry at people today or not saying a racial 226 00:11:12,440 --> 00:11:13,600 Speaker 5: slur to someone? Right? 227 00:11:14,160 --> 00:11:17,800 Speaker 2: Wait, what wait, hello, he's going around San Diego dropping 228 00:11:17,880 --> 00:11:20,679 Speaker 2: racial slurs. I can kind of guess at what population 229 00:11:20,760 --> 00:11:21,040 Speaker 2: they're in. 230 00:11:21,679 --> 00:11:24,560 Speaker 3: But I mean, I think too this notion of managing 231 00:11:24,679 --> 00:11:29,040 Speaker 3: a person in order to maintain some level of I 232 00:11:29,080 --> 00:11:30,400 Speaker 3: won't even say peace in. 233 00:11:30,360 --> 00:11:32,800 Speaker 4: The household, but like successful life, to. 234 00:11:32,800 --> 00:11:36,720 Speaker 3: Keep the tension is exhausted absoutely every moment. 235 00:11:36,720 --> 00:11:38,000 Speaker 2: You don't know what's gonna set them off. You have 236 00:11:38,000 --> 00:11:41,640 Speaker 2: to constantly twist yourself into contorted positions to help to 237 00:11:41,679 --> 00:11:42,760 Speaker 2: satisfize their ego. 238 00:11:43,640 --> 00:11:44,720 Speaker 4: So he's that guy. 239 00:11:44,760 --> 00:11:48,680 Speaker 2: His father's this racist, provincial Italian, small minded kind of 240 00:11:48,800 --> 00:11:50,040 Speaker 2: international money launderer. 241 00:11:50,120 --> 00:11:51,800 Speaker 4: Right, what do you even do with that? 242 00:11:53,160 --> 00:11:55,120 Speaker 5: It was hard to deal with him, and I think 243 00:11:55,160 --> 00:11:59,679 Speaker 5: the resentment started building right when my grandfather went to 244 00:11:59,760 --> 00:12:02,599 Speaker 5: jail and again in Mexico, you're guilty, tol proven in 245 00:12:02,600 --> 00:12:05,840 Speaker 5: his sence. So he was never official guilty of any crimes. 246 00:12:05,880 --> 00:12:08,760 Speaker 5: But that's because my dad brought the judges and got 247 00:12:08,800 --> 00:12:12,559 Speaker 5: them out. So but that's when the resentment started. I 248 00:12:12,559 --> 00:12:19,040 Speaker 5: think the resentment definitely just became uncontrollable from my mom 249 00:12:19,280 --> 00:12:20,240 Speaker 5: when she got cancer. 250 00:12:21,400 --> 00:12:22,559 Speaker 3: Oh god, oh yeah. 251 00:12:22,600 --> 00:12:24,400 Speaker 2: So there's a little bit of a bleak turn where 252 00:12:24,440 --> 00:12:27,120 Speaker 2: his mother gets cancer, and that that causes all this 253 00:12:27,240 --> 00:12:29,920 Speaker 2: gentle balance to fall apart. And now she can't do 254 00:12:29,960 --> 00:12:33,800 Speaker 2: the contortions anymore, right, she cannot. She her own health 255 00:12:34,120 --> 00:12:37,000 Speaker 2: denies her the ability to succumb to his ego. She's 256 00:12:37,000 --> 00:12:39,040 Speaker 2: got to look out for herself. Now, for anyone who 257 00:12:39,080 --> 00:12:41,360 Speaker 2: might be bothered of a discussion or a prolonged focus 258 00:12:41,400 --> 00:12:44,079 Speaker 2: on the sad and tragic nature of a cancer diagnosis, 259 00:12:44,400 --> 00:12:46,240 Speaker 2: you may want to skip past this next part because 260 00:12:46,280 --> 00:12:49,440 Speaker 2: Pietro Junior recounted to me his mother's fight against cancer, 261 00:12:49,600 --> 00:12:51,240 Speaker 2: and it was hard to hear, but it was also 262 00:12:51,240 --> 00:12:53,280 Speaker 2: filled with a lot of life and a lot of defiance. 263 00:12:53,400 --> 00:12:53,959 Speaker 3: Yeah. 264 00:12:54,400 --> 00:12:58,720 Speaker 5: So in nineteen ninety she battled her first out of 265 00:12:58,840 --> 00:13:02,280 Speaker 5: cancer breast can her and she had a lump deck toman. 266 00:13:02,640 --> 00:13:05,480 Speaker 5: Then I went to another breast and then she had 267 00:13:05,520 --> 00:13:09,240 Speaker 5: another lump dectamine radiation, and she battled cancer for sixteen 268 00:13:09,320 --> 00:13:11,920 Speaker 5: years until she died at the age of fifty seven 269 00:13:12,120 --> 00:13:16,400 Speaker 5: in two thousand and six. And when my mom got stick, 270 00:13:17,360 --> 00:13:22,000 Speaker 5: that's when I couldn't. I held him accountable and culpable 271 00:13:22,440 --> 00:13:25,320 Speaker 5: for my mom getting cancer, for all the that we 272 00:13:25,360 --> 00:13:30,400 Speaker 5: went through. And so I think my resentment in hers 273 00:13:30,800 --> 00:13:36,280 Speaker 5: grew to an unrepairable level because of her illness. 274 00:13:36,800 --> 00:13:38,320 Speaker 2: So at this point the truth has come to the 275 00:13:38,360 --> 00:13:41,120 Speaker 2: surface and that's bad news for his father. Yeah, but 276 00:13:41,200 --> 00:13:43,120 Speaker 2: more on that in a moment, and don't worry. Things 277 00:13:43,160 --> 00:13:46,079 Speaker 2: do get back to being ridiculous. Let's take a little break, Elizabeth, 278 00:13:46,080 --> 00:14:04,600 Speaker 2: clear the air, and we'll be back in a second. Okay, 279 00:14:08,120 --> 00:14:11,040 Speaker 2: and rebac Elizabeth. At this point we've moved into the 280 00:14:11,120 --> 00:14:13,960 Speaker 2: meaningful and not just the ridiculous. And as you heard, 281 00:14:14,000 --> 00:14:16,640 Speaker 2: his father is both kinds of criminal. He is both 282 00:14:16,840 --> 00:14:19,800 Speaker 2: morally criminal and then just like you know, ethically criminal. 283 00:14:20,320 --> 00:14:22,240 Speaker 2: So but for now, let's get into some of the 284 00:14:22,280 --> 00:14:25,560 Speaker 2: details of his life amongst the Mexican cartels, which we 285 00:14:25,600 --> 00:14:27,760 Speaker 2: have not really covered a lot. We haven't dived into 286 00:14:27,800 --> 00:14:30,000 Speaker 2: all the craziness of his life as a money launderer 287 00:14:30,000 --> 00:14:32,560 Speaker 2: for the most illegal billions in the world at that time. 288 00:14:32,680 --> 00:14:35,120 Speaker 3: I just like, we know he's a money launderer. 289 00:14:34,680 --> 00:14:37,960 Speaker 4: But I keep saying it, right, but I promise that 290 00:14:38,480 --> 00:14:42,240 Speaker 4: some narcos Mexico buckle up. Buttercut. 291 00:14:42,760 --> 00:14:46,880 Speaker 5: Everyone wanted their money laundered. So when a reporter wants 292 00:14:46,880 --> 00:14:50,360 Speaker 5: their money laundered, guess who's in your pocket, that reporter, 293 00:14:51,080 --> 00:14:57,760 Speaker 5: that politician, so that actor, actors and actresses laundered buddy 294 00:14:57,760 --> 00:15:00,440 Speaker 5: with my dad. So and this one kind of a 295 00:15:00,480 --> 00:15:03,120 Speaker 5: weird calling in favor story because it was really for 296 00:15:03,240 --> 00:15:03,720 Speaker 5: my mom. 297 00:15:04,200 --> 00:15:07,480 Speaker 2: Remember he's doing this in his mind for his family. Yeah, 298 00:15:07,560 --> 00:15:10,360 Speaker 2: he's still that guy. He's still a patriarchal, like I 299 00:15:10,400 --> 00:15:11,880 Speaker 2: do this for my family, even though he's like, I'm 300 00:15:11,880 --> 00:15:13,400 Speaker 2: going to jump off the roof of my family home, 301 00:15:13,440 --> 00:15:14,600 Speaker 2: but don't get a ferrari. 302 00:15:14,360 --> 00:15:19,240 Speaker 3: Which I would have just been all jumped, because that's 303 00:15:19,280 --> 00:15:22,240 Speaker 3: not that's not serious. He's not a serious person. 304 00:15:22,360 --> 00:15:24,880 Speaker 2: So his father at this point, he's costplaying as Tony 305 00:15:24,920 --> 00:15:29,120 Speaker 2: Montanda's accountant from Scarface, right. And his mother, though, is 306 00:15:29,160 --> 00:15:31,440 Speaker 2: fighting breast cancer, so she has to take matters into 307 00:15:31,480 --> 00:15:32,920 Speaker 2: her own hands to find a cure. 308 00:15:33,000 --> 00:15:35,400 Speaker 3: At a time too, when it was very little, they 309 00:15:35,440 --> 00:15:38,880 Speaker 3: weren't doing like all the crazy merchandising, which it drives 310 00:15:38,920 --> 00:15:40,520 Speaker 3: me nuts, but it's just you know, and like the 311 00:15:40,600 --> 00:15:41,400 Speaker 3: kind of crack. 312 00:15:41,240 --> 00:15:43,360 Speaker 4: And even also the options just like what where breast 313 00:15:43,360 --> 00:15:45,480 Speaker 4: cancer the technology is being brought to bear. 314 00:15:45,320 --> 00:15:50,120 Speaker 3: With medicine is basically chemo exactly exactly. So she's in 315 00:15:50,160 --> 00:15:51,480 Speaker 3: this rough oh man. 316 00:15:51,600 --> 00:15:53,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, but she's a woman of faith, so she goes 317 00:15:53,960 --> 00:15:56,840 Speaker 2: and looks beyond medicine and looks to other areas. As 318 00:15:56,880 --> 00:15:58,000 Speaker 2: Pietro Greca told me. 319 00:15:58,480 --> 00:16:02,200 Speaker 5: My mom had found out that there was a special 320 00:16:02,240 --> 00:16:06,520 Speaker 5: water in Mexico that could maybe cure her cancer, right, 321 00:16:07,040 --> 00:16:09,400 Speaker 5: and she wanted to get her hands on it. And 322 00:16:09,440 --> 00:16:11,960 Speaker 5: my dad didn't know who else to go to but 323 00:16:12,360 --> 00:16:15,000 Speaker 5: the Arian Cartel and said hey, guys, can you get 324 00:16:15,000 --> 00:16:17,600 Speaker 5: a hold of this water for my wife? And they're 325 00:16:17,640 --> 00:16:21,240 Speaker 5: like yeah. Three days later it was on our doorstep. 326 00:16:21,920 --> 00:16:23,760 Speaker 5: So that's a weird favor, right. 327 00:16:24,800 --> 00:16:29,680 Speaker 3: See. No, this is the benefit of being in with like. 328 00:16:30,440 --> 00:16:31,840 Speaker 4: Cartel Ny Cartel. 329 00:16:32,160 --> 00:16:35,560 Speaker 3: That's something sort of like I always I mean, I've 330 00:16:35,560 --> 00:16:38,080 Speaker 3: talked about this where I have this like dream that 331 00:16:38,680 --> 00:16:42,040 Speaker 3: I am somehow friends with the Hell's Angels. Yes, you've 332 00:16:42,040 --> 00:16:44,800 Speaker 3: always wanted even though our you know, morals and our 333 00:16:44,840 --> 00:16:48,600 Speaker 3: mission statements collide and do not align. But it'd be 334 00:16:48,680 --> 00:16:51,640 Speaker 3: so great if you just wanted like something done, you 335 00:16:51,640 --> 00:16:54,080 Speaker 3: could just like have them knocking on someone's door. 336 00:16:54,880 --> 00:16:55,040 Speaker 6: Tell you. 337 00:16:55,120 --> 00:16:56,960 Speaker 2: There are times in my life when I've known some 338 00:16:57,360 --> 00:17:00,840 Speaker 2: not like Cartel criminals, but Cartel A Jason and related 339 00:17:00,920 --> 00:17:02,880 Speaker 2: criminals and just being able to call on a bad 340 00:17:02,920 --> 00:17:05,160 Speaker 2: man to get a thing done is a great feeling. 341 00:17:05,440 --> 00:17:06,160 Speaker 4: I won't even lie. 342 00:17:06,200 --> 00:17:08,679 Speaker 3: But then also this like to have the access so 343 00:17:08,720 --> 00:17:10,240 Speaker 3: that it's not even just like I need you to 344 00:17:10,280 --> 00:17:11,199 Speaker 3: go rough someone up. 345 00:17:11,280 --> 00:17:12,679 Speaker 4: No, I don't even I don't mean that part. I 346 00:17:12,680 --> 00:17:14,879 Speaker 4: mean I just I just felt like, hey, can I 347 00:17:14,920 --> 00:17:16,840 Speaker 4: borrow a car? You just don't ask where the car 348 00:17:16,880 --> 00:17:17,720 Speaker 4: came from. 349 00:17:18,280 --> 00:17:21,520 Speaker 3: This notion of I want something that's completely not criminally 350 00:17:21,960 --> 00:17:26,439 Speaker 3: like connected, I want this water or I want you know, 351 00:17:27,080 --> 00:17:29,400 Speaker 3: a favorite to see Holts, it's that uh. 352 00:17:29,800 --> 00:17:32,440 Speaker 2: In Italy and in Mexico you have the dawn culture. 353 00:17:32,560 --> 00:17:34,920 Speaker 2: You know, you have like the great landlord, like, oh, 354 00:17:35,200 --> 00:17:37,320 Speaker 2: let me go talk to the don right, So he's 355 00:17:37,400 --> 00:17:39,720 Speaker 2: very much alive in Mexico, and he's Italian so he 356 00:17:39,760 --> 00:17:40,080 Speaker 2: gets it. 357 00:17:40,119 --> 00:17:41,080 Speaker 4: He just fits right in. 358 00:17:41,200 --> 00:17:43,400 Speaker 3: But you do you get those favors. 359 00:17:43,000 --> 00:17:44,520 Speaker 4: Yes, exactly, But they come with the price. 360 00:17:44,560 --> 00:17:45,600 Speaker 3: They come with a huge price. 361 00:17:45,720 --> 00:17:48,400 Speaker 2: So, Elizabeth, we've talked about narcos. We've mentioned a few 362 00:17:48,400 --> 00:17:51,080 Speaker 2: times Narcos Mexico. Now narcos, their first one is about 363 00:17:51,160 --> 00:17:54,040 Speaker 2: Pablo Escobar and the cocaine trade in Colombia. Yea, And 364 00:17:54,080 --> 00:17:56,879 Speaker 2: the follow up series Narcos Mexico is about miguel On 365 00:17:57,040 --> 00:18:00,000 Speaker 2: Hell Felix Gallardo and how he basically flipped the cocaine 366 00:18:00,160 --> 00:18:01,720 Speaker 2: business on its head and became one of the most 367 00:18:01,760 --> 00:18:04,840 Speaker 2: powerful drug dealers of all time. It's fantastic series. I recommended, 368 00:18:05,280 --> 00:18:07,480 Speaker 2: and I don't know if I've seen this. I like 369 00:18:07,520 --> 00:18:10,120 Speaker 2: it better than the first one anyway. In Narcos Mexico, 370 00:18:10,359 --> 00:18:12,840 Speaker 2: you see how all the Mexican cartels, where they come from, 371 00:18:12,880 --> 00:18:15,399 Speaker 2: and how they become the power that they are in 372 00:18:15,400 --> 00:18:17,680 Speaker 2: the world. And one of the key of the cartels 373 00:18:17,760 --> 00:18:20,640 Speaker 2: was the Ariano Felix brothers who ran the Felix Ariano 374 00:18:20,720 --> 00:18:23,920 Speaker 2: cartel that owned Tijuana. Yeah, now the story goes Ariana 375 00:18:23,920 --> 00:18:27,360 Speaker 2: Felix brothers were they were graduated to cartel bosses when 376 00:18:27,400 --> 00:18:30,720 Speaker 2: their uncle, miguel On Hell Felix Gallardo saw how well 377 00:18:30,720 --> 00:18:33,080 Speaker 2: they were doing it smuggling goods over the US Mexico 378 00:18:33,160 --> 00:18:35,600 Speaker 2: border in Tijuana and he's like, hey, how would you 379 00:18:35,640 --> 00:18:37,879 Speaker 2: all like to run bales of the sticky icky And 380 00:18:37,880 --> 00:18:39,560 Speaker 2: they're like what? And so that was the other thing 381 00:18:39,640 --> 00:18:42,040 Speaker 2: is that he was miguel On Hell Felix Gallardo was 382 00:18:42,040 --> 00:18:44,679 Speaker 2: the one that put Mexican pot on the map in 383 00:18:44,760 --> 00:18:48,720 Speaker 2: the seventies with his sen Sama aka seedless pot. Yeah, 384 00:18:48,800 --> 00:18:52,040 Speaker 2: up until then, hippies, college kids, revolutionaries, radicals. 385 00:18:52,040 --> 00:18:53,720 Speaker 4: They had to filter out the seeds of their pot 386 00:18:53,760 --> 00:18:54,760 Speaker 4: like on a record cover. 387 00:18:55,040 --> 00:18:55,920 Speaker 3: Yeah. 388 00:18:55,400 --> 00:18:57,159 Speaker 4: Yeah, it was a whole process. 389 00:18:57,280 --> 00:19:00,399 Speaker 2: And then along comes Miguel on Hell Felix Gollaro and 390 00:19:00,440 --> 00:19:04,359 Speaker 2: specifically his partner Rafael Caro Qinteriro ek Rafa. He was 391 00:19:04,400 --> 00:19:08,600 Speaker 2: the one who invented sansamia aka the seedless pot. Boom, 392 00:19:08,640 --> 00:19:11,159 Speaker 2: pot changes. Now it's the pot we think of. It 393 00:19:11,280 --> 00:19:13,800 Speaker 2: is the pot that you would recognize, and that nade 394 00:19:13,840 --> 00:19:16,840 Speaker 2: Galardo a major player in Mexico. Then he went and 395 00:19:16,880 --> 00:19:20,320 Speaker 2: he partnered with the cartels in Colombia, namely Pablo Escobar, 396 00:19:20,359 --> 00:19:23,240 Speaker 2: and he created the smuggling routes that brought Colombian coke 397 00:19:23,359 --> 00:19:23,800 Speaker 2: into the. 398 00:19:23,840 --> 00:19:26,240 Speaker 4: US and boom the eighties happened. Right. 399 00:19:26,320 --> 00:19:29,960 Speaker 2: So then he selects his nephews to run the Tijuana Porter, 400 00:19:30,119 --> 00:19:31,960 Speaker 2: which they did for thirteen years. 401 00:19:32,320 --> 00:19:32,520 Speaker 6: Now. 402 00:19:32,520 --> 00:19:35,199 Speaker 2: You've seen examples of them in the movie Traffic. They 403 00:19:35,240 --> 00:19:39,000 Speaker 2: inspired the cartel brothers, the Opuregon brothers in Narcos Mexico. 404 00:19:39,040 --> 00:19:40,880 Speaker 2: They just had their real names. They're like Oh, that's 405 00:19:40,880 --> 00:19:43,439 Speaker 2: who they are. Yeah, so these are the folks that 406 00:19:43,480 --> 00:19:46,560 Speaker 2: Pietro le Grecessinior is in business with. He's laundering their 407 00:19:46,640 --> 00:19:50,000 Speaker 2: drug money. The Ridanos were supplying one third of the 408 00:19:50,000 --> 00:19:51,560 Speaker 2: coke that was entering the US. 409 00:19:51,960 --> 00:19:52,720 Speaker 3: Oh God. 410 00:19:53,040 --> 00:19:55,080 Speaker 5: He could call in favors to anyone he wanted. If 411 00:19:55,080 --> 00:20:00,000 Speaker 5: he wanted someone decimated in Mexican politics or in Mexico 412 00:20:00,040 --> 00:20:02,320 Speaker 5: in society, he would call a couple of reporters and 413 00:20:02,359 --> 00:20:05,000 Speaker 5: take him down. And he did that with one of 414 00:20:05,040 --> 00:20:09,080 Speaker 5: the most important men in Mexico. Guy's still alive. And 415 00:20:09,119 --> 00:20:10,880 Speaker 5: this guy had to change the name of the book 416 00:20:10,920 --> 00:20:13,439 Speaker 5: for So that's an interesting one. 417 00:20:13,720 --> 00:20:14,440 Speaker 4: Yeah, oh wow. 418 00:20:14,480 --> 00:20:16,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, his dad was taking down people, like he got 419 00:20:16,320 --> 00:20:18,640 Speaker 2: a little crazy with it. It's like, hey, I need 420 00:20:18,760 --> 00:20:19,439 Speaker 2: another favor. 421 00:20:20,080 --> 00:20:23,560 Speaker 3: It's taking them down, not killing them, taking them down. 422 00:20:23,680 --> 00:20:25,520 Speaker 3: But yeah, but I'm like there's a part of me 423 00:20:25,600 --> 00:20:28,679 Speaker 3: that things it's almost worse because it's like they had power, 424 00:20:28,840 --> 00:20:29,919 Speaker 3: they had Now they. 425 00:20:29,960 --> 00:20:32,600 Speaker 2: Live as a cautionary tale and embarrassment and they have 426 00:20:32,680 --> 00:20:34,080 Speaker 2: to eat cro or whatever. 427 00:20:34,400 --> 00:20:34,600 Speaker 3: Yeah. 428 00:20:35,119 --> 00:20:37,200 Speaker 2: Well, well right, Elizabeth, I got one for you. It's 429 00:20:37,200 --> 00:20:40,040 Speaker 2: a ridiculous crime. Fun fact side quest that I found 430 00:20:40,040 --> 00:20:41,040 Speaker 2: in my research is. 431 00:20:41,440 --> 00:20:44,080 Speaker 3: This like pop up video or kind of yeah. 432 00:20:44,200 --> 00:20:46,400 Speaker 2: One of the Ariana brothers. He went on the lamb right, 433 00:20:46,440 --> 00:20:49,000 Speaker 2: and he was hiding out in the US, specifically in 434 00:20:49,200 --> 00:20:52,479 Speaker 2: LA and there he is up on Hollywood Boulevard wandering around. 435 00:20:52,520 --> 00:20:54,560 Speaker 2: He ends up getting on TV as part of a 436 00:20:54,600 --> 00:20:57,679 Speaker 2: Man on the Street prank four wait for it, David 437 00:20:57,760 --> 00:21:01,920 Speaker 2: Letterman's show what right There outside the Man's Chinese Theater. 438 00:21:02,080 --> 00:21:04,520 Speaker 2: One of the world's most wanted outlaws, one of the 439 00:21:04,520 --> 00:21:08,119 Speaker 2: most prolific drug dealers in cartel underbosses, winds up on 440 00:21:08,359 --> 00:21:12,040 Speaker 2: Letterman what Yes, And he doesn't get recognized, It doesn't 441 00:21:12,080 --> 00:21:15,040 Speaker 2: lead to his capture, just some stupid human tricks or whatever. 442 00:21:15,119 --> 00:21:18,159 Speaker 4: And then yeah, so anyway back. 443 00:21:18,040 --> 00:21:21,880 Speaker 3: To Jimmy Kimmel, like saying he doesn't know his daughter's names, 444 00:21:21,920 --> 00:21:25,200 Speaker 3: but what his daughter's names are, where countries are located. 445 00:21:25,119 --> 00:21:30,199 Speaker 2: Exactly when his wife's birthday is. Those are horrendous. They 446 00:21:30,240 --> 00:21:32,800 Speaker 2: make all men look bad. I hate them every time 447 00:21:32,840 --> 00:21:35,719 Speaker 2: I watch them, Like God, were the worst, just because like, 448 00:21:35,760 --> 00:21:40,360 Speaker 2: what's your daughter's teacher's name? I don't know, what's your 449 00:21:40,440 --> 00:21:41,520 Speaker 2: son's girlfriend's name? 450 00:21:41,560 --> 00:21:41,960 Speaker 4: I don't know. 451 00:21:42,119 --> 00:21:44,280 Speaker 3: I don't know the names of schools. 452 00:21:44,359 --> 00:21:45,679 Speaker 4: One is your wife. I don't know. 453 00:21:45,840 --> 00:21:47,840 Speaker 3: But they also it's not just the men. They have 454 00:21:47,920 --> 00:21:50,080 Speaker 3: the ones where they hold up maps and they're like. 455 00:21:50,000 --> 00:21:53,240 Speaker 4: What oh, yeah, yeah, our general education is terrible. Who yeah, 456 00:21:53,440 --> 00:21:56,400 Speaker 4: it's just so anyway, back to. 457 00:21:57,240 --> 00:22:00,119 Speaker 2: Greca Junior and his dealings with the Aureano brothers and 458 00:22:00,119 --> 00:22:02,560 Speaker 2: Felix Calardo and the Mexican cocaine cowboys. 459 00:22:03,000 --> 00:22:05,960 Speaker 5: So what happened with that is my dad had concluded 460 00:22:06,000 --> 00:22:11,679 Speaker 5: his foreign exchange right and he threw three irons at 461 00:22:11,680 --> 00:22:13,600 Speaker 5: the coals. Ones was trying to get a concession for 462 00:22:13,640 --> 00:22:16,720 Speaker 5: a sports book, one was the real estate development project. 463 00:22:17,000 --> 00:22:19,040 Speaker 5: The other one was doing tax scams with the head 464 00:22:19,080 --> 00:22:21,480 Speaker 5: of the Mexican Irs, which that was the most looking 465 00:22:21,520 --> 00:22:24,600 Speaker 5: for him at the time. But that crosses over with 466 00:22:24,680 --> 00:22:30,159 Speaker 5: the Adanos, right, you have to understand the Adayano relationship. 467 00:22:31,480 --> 00:22:35,280 Speaker 5: Bighamien freediks Adiano met his wife at my dad's foreign exchange. 468 00:22:35,440 --> 00:22:38,000 Speaker 5: She was one of the tellers. She was robbed at 469 00:22:38,040 --> 00:22:42,639 Speaker 5: gorgeous ends up getting married to her. Then during the 470 00:22:42,680 --> 00:22:47,439 Speaker 5: foreign exchange days he lauded money for After the foreign 471 00:22:47,480 --> 00:22:51,480 Speaker 5: exchange days, the Ariano cartel came to my father and 472 00:22:51,520 --> 00:22:57,240 Speaker 5: specifically his former teller, his wife and said, so, we 473 00:22:57,320 --> 00:23:00,280 Speaker 5: have a big tax situation and we hear that you 474 00:23:00,359 --> 00:23:03,280 Speaker 5: have a friend at the highest levels. Can you fix it? 475 00:23:04,200 --> 00:23:09,080 Speaker 5: And my dad reluctantly said, look, I'll ask, but if 476 00:23:09,119 --> 00:23:12,520 Speaker 5: they say no, please, it's them saying no, not me 477 00:23:12,560 --> 00:23:16,680 Speaker 5: saying no. Because he didn't want any problems. Well, he 478 00:23:16,800 --> 00:23:18,720 Speaker 5: ended up going to the head of the Mexican irs. 479 00:23:19,560 --> 00:23:22,560 Speaker 5: They talked and for a price tag about seven and 480 00:23:22,560 --> 00:23:26,679 Speaker 5: a half million dollars, Aos no longer had taxishes. So 481 00:23:26,800 --> 00:23:30,760 Speaker 5: he had developed a very strong relationship. I'm not going 482 00:23:30,800 --> 00:23:33,359 Speaker 5: to say friendship, but it was a mutual relationship with 483 00:23:33,400 --> 00:23:35,760 Speaker 5: Gadiano's that they respected each other a lot. 484 00:23:36,240 --> 00:23:38,399 Speaker 4: Yeah, you saved me seven million dollars. I'm gonna respect 485 00:23:38,400 --> 00:23:38,680 Speaker 4: you too. 486 00:23:38,840 --> 00:23:39,560 Speaker 3: Yeah. Yeah. 487 00:23:39,600 --> 00:23:40,879 Speaker 2: But I don't know if that's like a friendship. I 488 00:23:40,880 --> 00:23:43,280 Speaker 2: think he's right to make draw a lot. Is it 489 00:23:43,400 --> 00:23:45,199 Speaker 2: just like, oh man, he's good people, he's good for me. 490 00:23:45,320 --> 00:23:45,560 Speaker 6: Yeah. 491 00:23:45,800 --> 00:23:47,600 Speaker 4: It's like if you got like a favorite gas station. 492 00:23:47,960 --> 00:23:50,399 Speaker 2: Right, That's what I think this is. So what do 493 00:23:50,440 --> 00:23:52,239 Speaker 2: you even do with all this information? Your father has 494 00:23:52,240 --> 00:23:54,359 Speaker 2: a mutual respect with some of the most infamous drug 495 00:23:54,359 --> 00:23:57,679 Speaker 2: smugglers of all time, like they like him. People responsible 496 00:23:57,720 --> 00:24:00,800 Speaker 2: for countless deaths, degraded live he can't even put the 497 00:24:00,880 --> 00:24:02,800 Speaker 2: stilp in framing of a human mind. 498 00:24:02,920 --> 00:24:05,320 Speaker 4: Yeah, but for his father, these are the best times. 499 00:24:05,400 --> 00:24:07,560 Speaker 4: This is the good life, right, and he brings his 500 00:24:07,600 --> 00:24:10,040 Speaker 4: family further and further into this criminal life. 501 00:24:10,760 --> 00:24:11,000 Speaker 5: Yeah. 502 00:24:11,200 --> 00:24:12,880 Speaker 4: So, as Petr the Greca tells me. 503 00:24:13,520 --> 00:24:17,320 Speaker 5: So with the power my dad had from the money exchange, 504 00:24:17,320 --> 00:24:20,480 Speaker 5: the horn exchange days, my uncle came to him and says, hey, Pat, 505 00:24:20,600 --> 00:24:23,480 Speaker 5: can you help me get alone because my dad, my grandfather, 506 00:24:23,680 --> 00:24:27,200 Speaker 5: his father won't help me and my dad's life. Let 507 00:24:27,200 --> 00:24:28,960 Speaker 5: me call my iMX and see if we can pull 508 00:24:28,960 --> 00:24:31,800 Speaker 5: something off. With one call, my dad was able to 509 00:24:31,800 --> 00:24:35,439 Speaker 5: secure thirty million dollars round for my uncle. Well, they 510 00:24:35,480 --> 00:24:39,720 Speaker 5: started working on the shopping center and the development project, 511 00:24:39,960 --> 00:24:43,280 Speaker 5: and my uncle was spending all the money on the fund, 512 00:24:43,800 --> 00:24:48,760 Speaker 5: the horses, the women, the drugs, the parties, everything. So 513 00:24:48,880 --> 00:24:54,359 Speaker 5: the construction was not getting completed and my father basically 514 00:24:54,440 --> 00:24:57,160 Speaker 5: in his way because he was very I mean when 515 00:24:57,160 --> 00:25:00,000 Speaker 5: he was mean, he was me and basically told me 516 00:25:00,080 --> 00:25:01,800 Speaker 5: uncle he was being stupid dumb ass. 517 00:25:02,359 --> 00:25:04,480 Speaker 2: What does it mean to be a stupid dumbass in 518 00:25:04,520 --> 00:25:06,359 Speaker 2: this context? Great question? 519 00:25:07,040 --> 00:25:08,080 Speaker 3: I think I have an idea. 520 00:25:08,240 --> 00:25:10,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm glad you're sticking with me. Pietro Legreca, he 521 00:25:11,080 --> 00:25:11,800 Speaker 2: qualifies it. 522 00:25:12,400 --> 00:25:16,240 Speaker 5: When my uncle started spending their money, my dad got 523 00:25:16,280 --> 00:25:18,399 Speaker 5: a call from the Ironic Cartown and said, hey, your 524 00:25:18,400 --> 00:25:21,000 Speaker 5: brother in law, Yeah, what are you going to do 525 00:25:21,040 --> 00:25:24,400 Speaker 5: about it? And so my dad stepped in started fixing 526 00:25:24,600 --> 00:25:28,120 Speaker 5: everything right and was heading down the right path right 527 00:25:28,880 --> 00:25:31,960 Speaker 5: until my uncle booted him out of the project again. 528 00:25:33,400 --> 00:25:38,400 Speaker 5: And then the Ideanos called my dad and said, hey, 529 00:25:38,800 --> 00:25:41,239 Speaker 5: what's happening with your brother in law. He's not in 530 00:25:41,280 --> 00:25:43,960 Speaker 5: line anymore. It's like I can't do anything more for 531 00:25:44,000 --> 00:25:47,360 Speaker 5: you for him, I have to remove my software. So 532 00:25:47,680 --> 00:25:50,840 Speaker 5: when people asked me did my dad put the hit 533 00:25:50,920 --> 00:25:53,879 Speaker 5: on my uncle? I say no, he didn't, but he 534 00:25:53,920 --> 00:25:57,600 Speaker 5: didn't do him any favors with that phone, right. 535 00:25:58,480 --> 00:26:01,520 Speaker 2: Oh wow, calling it h's to the Ariano's on your 536 00:26:01,560 --> 00:26:03,360 Speaker 2: brother because like, what's going on? 537 00:26:03,640 --> 00:26:06,919 Speaker 3: Well, because he's putting everybody at risk, you know. 538 00:26:07,040 --> 00:26:09,520 Speaker 2: And this is the uncle that Pietro Lagrecor Junior likes 539 00:26:09,520 --> 00:26:11,080 Speaker 2: a lot. Remember, he's the fun one, he's the one 540 00:26:11,080 --> 00:26:13,120 Speaker 2: he played polo with, but he's also too much fun. 541 00:26:13,359 --> 00:26:15,000 Speaker 2: Now he's putting the family more at risk than the 542 00:26:15,040 --> 00:26:15,680 Speaker 2: dad they're. 543 00:26:15,520 --> 00:26:18,960 Speaker 3: Not giving him thirty million, is walking around money they want. 544 00:26:20,119 --> 00:26:23,760 Speaker 3: He's basically they it's an investment. It's an investment their 545 00:26:23,800 --> 00:26:24,920 Speaker 3: money for them. 546 00:26:24,800 --> 00:26:27,160 Speaker 4: And want they want it and more coming back to them. 547 00:26:27,200 --> 00:26:30,399 Speaker 3: But is you know, but as the dad senior like, 548 00:26:30,800 --> 00:26:33,720 Speaker 3: he's got to protect the rest of the family because 549 00:26:33,720 --> 00:26:35,600 Speaker 3: if you cross the cartel, as they. 550 00:26:35,520 --> 00:26:38,680 Speaker 4: Would know, blow up the whole house. 551 00:26:39,520 --> 00:26:41,679 Speaker 3: But he didn't literally put a hit out, so we 552 00:26:41,800 --> 00:26:43,200 Speaker 3: can't call that a one percent. 553 00:26:43,560 --> 00:26:46,680 Speaker 2: We avoid the one percent there. Now, since you haven't 554 00:26:46,680 --> 00:26:49,520 Speaker 2: had any dealings with the Mexican cartel bosses like I have, 555 00:26:50,160 --> 00:26:51,920 Speaker 2: let me tell you this is not what you want 556 00:26:51,960 --> 00:26:54,439 Speaker 2: to have happen. You want as much distance between you 557 00:26:54,560 --> 00:26:57,280 Speaker 2: and anyone in a drug cartel, especially someone who's mad 558 00:26:57,320 --> 00:26:58,960 Speaker 2: that their money is being wasted. 559 00:26:59,119 --> 00:27:01,679 Speaker 3: I I know that, Yeah, something you. 560 00:27:01,680 --> 00:27:03,120 Speaker 4: Need to get close to know that. I think you're 561 00:27:03,119 --> 00:27:06,920 Speaker 4: just smart figure out. Yeah. So, as Pietro Logreca tells me. 562 00:27:07,440 --> 00:27:09,959 Speaker 5: And to be very candid, one of the things we 563 00:27:10,000 --> 00:27:13,320 Speaker 5: did before we even wrote the book, we sent an 564 00:27:13,320 --> 00:27:17,560 Speaker 5: investigative reporter into Mexico to interview the Ideano cartel and 565 00:27:17,640 --> 00:27:25,320 Speaker 5: the president's families and the Adiano Cartel's response was unbelievable. Instead, 566 00:27:25,840 --> 00:27:29,199 Speaker 5: Pietro Logreca was the most honorable criminal we ever worked with? 567 00:27:30,000 --> 00:27:31,640 Speaker 3: Was that journalist Sean Penn. 568 00:27:34,119 --> 00:27:34,760 Speaker 4: That's awesome. 569 00:27:35,240 --> 00:27:37,439 Speaker 2: Now this raised the question for me because I'm over here, like, 570 00:27:37,840 --> 00:27:41,120 Speaker 2: but was he though? Was he the most honorable criminal 571 00:27:41,119 --> 00:27:43,200 Speaker 2: you ever worked with? The reason for that is because 572 00:27:43,280 --> 00:27:45,760 Speaker 2: later on in our interview, Pietro Logreca Junior tells me 573 00:27:45,760 --> 00:27:48,760 Speaker 2: how Pietro Lureca Senior told him if he didn't get 574 00:27:48,760 --> 00:27:50,800 Speaker 2: his mind right and do what his father ordered him 575 00:27:50,840 --> 00:27:53,240 Speaker 2: to do, he would have his son killed and buried 576 00:27:53,280 --> 00:27:55,399 Speaker 2: in a nameless place in the Mexican desert. 577 00:27:56,720 --> 00:28:00,320 Speaker 4: Son. Remember, he's doing all this for his family. Yeah, 578 00:28:00,400 --> 00:28:02,040 Speaker 4: so honor and then until he's like, you're not doing 579 00:28:02,119 --> 00:28:04,199 Speaker 4: what I wanted. I know, a nameless place in the 580 00:28:04,240 --> 00:28:05,840 Speaker 4: Mexican desert with your name on it. 581 00:28:05,920 --> 00:28:10,080 Speaker 3: Now, in that mindset cease in. You cannot power clive 582 00:28:10,359 --> 00:28:13,040 Speaker 3: and operate within that mindset that. 583 00:28:13,600 --> 00:28:14,800 Speaker 4: You can get away with anything. 584 00:28:14,920 --> 00:28:17,840 Speaker 3: Anyone killed at any time, and life is really worthless 585 00:28:17,840 --> 00:28:20,320 Speaker 3: in that of course. Yeah. 586 00:28:20,400 --> 00:28:22,360 Speaker 4: Yeah, that's why I was like, is your dad really 587 00:28:22,400 --> 00:28:23,320 Speaker 4: an honorable criminal? 588 00:28:23,560 --> 00:28:23,760 Speaker 6: Yeah? 589 00:28:23,800 --> 00:28:26,080 Speaker 4: It sounds more like a megalomania, I got bond villain. 590 00:28:26,119 --> 00:28:27,040 Speaker 4: That sounds like to me. 591 00:28:27,160 --> 00:28:27,400 Speaker 3: Yeah. 592 00:28:27,480 --> 00:28:29,080 Speaker 4: But Pietro Greca, he said, I. 593 00:28:29,040 --> 00:28:32,760 Speaker 5: Think you're You're onto the right words here, right, because 594 00:28:33,320 --> 00:28:36,600 Speaker 5: I find out that my dad took a spill, and 595 00:28:36,680 --> 00:28:39,720 Speaker 5: this was you have to understand. I revoked my dad's 596 00:28:39,720 --> 00:28:42,720 Speaker 5: power attorney of the properties my mom gifted to me 597 00:28:42,800 --> 00:28:46,240 Speaker 5: in Mexico that he was managing for me, because again 598 00:28:47,040 --> 00:28:49,720 Speaker 5: he was ruthless. Right, I'm not going to go up 599 00:28:49,760 --> 00:28:52,320 Speaker 5: against the man. I didn't have the ponies too yet 600 00:28:52,440 --> 00:28:56,600 Speaker 5: until I did, right, and when I revoked my dad's 601 00:28:56,640 --> 00:28:59,560 Speaker 5: power of attorney, took control of what was rightfully in mind, 602 00:28:59,680 --> 00:29:03,400 Speaker 5: we went up. We were at war with each other, okay, 603 00:29:03,640 --> 00:29:06,400 Speaker 5: and I knew every one of his moves, so I 604 00:29:06,480 --> 00:29:07,640 Speaker 5: anticipated everything. 605 00:29:08,240 --> 00:29:10,040 Speaker 2: This man wants to go at war with his father 606 00:29:10,080 --> 00:29:12,080 Speaker 2: while he's in a diminished state. Basically his father like, 607 00:29:12,160 --> 00:29:14,360 Speaker 2: he gets older, he falls, he gets injured, he hurts 608 00:29:14,400 --> 00:29:16,320 Speaker 2: his neck, he's in the hospital, and his son's like, 609 00:29:16,480 --> 00:29:17,920 Speaker 2: I'm taking power of attorney Dad. 610 00:29:18,160 --> 00:29:21,360 Speaker 4: I'm like, the man's not dead yet, he can get you. 611 00:29:22,520 --> 00:29:25,080 Speaker 3: I you know it's he mentioned you mentioned that he 612 00:29:25,120 --> 00:29:29,120 Speaker 3: said earlier about how complicated it is every relationship of 613 00:29:29,320 --> 00:29:30,560 Speaker 3: a parent is complicated. 614 00:29:31,080 --> 00:29:32,760 Speaker 4: We can all say that, yes, but then you. 615 00:29:32,720 --> 00:29:36,280 Speaker 3: Know this guy, My goodness, you've got this this dad 616 00:29:36,360 --> 00:29:39,440 Speaker 3: who will kill? Have you killed? But it's your dad 617 00:29:40,240 --> 00:29:43,520 Speaker 3: and you're tired. It's your name, and it's not even 618 00:29:43,680 --> 00:29:46,560 Speaker 3: like well it's he's like, he's my dad, and I 619 00:29:46,640 --> 00:29:50,760 Speaker 3: just have gone no contact. I just consider him the 620 00:29:50,800 --> 00:29:55,600 Speaker 3: sperm donor No. He you have business dealings, everything, you're. 621 00:29:55,440 --> 00:29:58,160 Speaker 2: All tied together, and he's not saying I'm gonna I'm 622 00:29:58,200 --> 00:29:58,840 Speaker 2: gonna murk you. 623 00:29:59,560 --> 00:29:59,800 Speaker 6: Yeah. 624 00:30:00,320 --> 00:30:02,320 Speaker 2: Meanwhile, can we get back to the when your father 625 00:30:02,440 --> 00:30:04,080 Speaker 2: threatened like I had to ask him this something. Can 626 00:30:04,120 --> 00:30:05,680 Speaker 2: we get back to when your father threatened to injury 627 00:30:05,680 --> 00:30:07,960 Speaker 2: in the most gangster cartel way possible. He was like 628 00:30:07,960 --> 00:30:10,080 Speaker 2: skipping past it, like he was like, oh yeah, this happened. 629 00:30:10,080 --> 00:30:11,800 Speaker 2: Like so much of this stuff has occurred to him. 630 00:30:11,960 --> 00:30:15,520 Speaker 2: He doesn't even sometimes won't pause on something that's crazy 631 00:30:15,560 --> 00:30:16,560 Speaker 2: to me the listener. 632 00:30:16,880 --> 00:30:19,720 Speaker 3: But do you mean I think I in no way 633 00:30:19,840 --> 00:30:22,720 Speaker 3: is this of the magnitude. But you know, we every 634 00:30:22,800 --> 00:30:25,440 Speaker 3: single person has stuff that you think is normal in 635 00:30:25,480 --> 00:30:27,760 Speaker 3: your family growing up, and then you mention it to 636 00:30:27,800 --> 00:30:29,479 Speaker 3: someone else, someone else, and they look at you and 637 00:30:29,560 --> 00:30:29,880 Speaker 3: just shock. 638 00:30:29,960 --> 00:30:31,720 Speaker 4: It gave me that face and you're like, oh, my. 639 00:30:31,960 --> 00:30:35,480 Speaker 3: Grandmother used to play a game with me called bonesy Wonesy, 640 00:30:35,760 --> 00:30:39,240 Speaker 3: and I don't know if it exists other places. You 641 00:30:39,280 --> 00:30:42,040 Speaker 3: make fists and you punch each other's fists and you 642 00:30:42,120 --> 00:30:45,080 Speaker 3: go harder and harder until someone can't take it anymore. 643 00:30:45,200 --> 00:30:47,720 Speaker 4: Yeah, we as teenage boys used to do like. 644 00:30:47,640 --> 00:30:48,720 Speaker 3: An eight year old. 645 00:30:49,040 --> 00:30:54,480 Speaker 4: We didn't do that rings Oh god, she's cheating very thin. 646 00:30:55,200 --> 00:30:58,120 Speaker 3: Yeah, bonesy wones And I loved it, and I would 647 00:30:58,160 --> 00:31:00,200 Speaker 3: just try and keep going as long as I could. 648 00:31:00,280 --> 00:31:02,040 Speaker 4: Are you just in the glutton for punishing? 649 00:31:02,080 --> 00:31:04,240 Speaker 3: I think so? But I thought that was like, yeah, 650 00:31:04,280 --> 00:31:06,040 Speaker 3: that's just what grandmother. 651 00:31:06,200 --> 00:31:07,240 Speaker 4: They don't put you in your place. 652 00:31:07,480 --> 00:31:11,640 Speaker 3: You're five years old, punch it at your grandma's and yeah, 653 00:31:11,640 --> 00:31:14,360 Speaker 3: it's not normals. We found out. I found out that's 654 00:31:14,400 --> 00:31:22,600 Speaker 3: not a classic grandma game. Well that's my version of like, yeah, 655 00:31:22,600 --> 00:31:23,840 Speaker 3: then my dad said he was going to have you 656 00:31:23,920 --> 00:31:26,400 Speaker 3: killed and put into the desert, Like yeah, don't get it. 657 00:31:26,480 --> 00:31:28,640 Speaker 3: I get it, Petron well as I asked. 658 00:31:28,480 --> 00:31:30,000 Speaker 2: Him, because I was like, you know, like, my dad's 659 00:31:30,000 --> 00:31:32,560 Speaker 2: never technically threatened to kill me, so I want to 660 00:31:32,560 --> 00:31:33,640 Speaker 2: know what's it like, right? 661 00:31:33,640 --> 00:31:34,720 Speaker 4: And he told me I. 662 00:31:34,680 --> 00:31:36,920 Speaker 5: Have a recording of it, and I could even send 663 00:31:36,960 --> 00:31:38,000 Speaker 5: that to you if you want it. 664 00:31:38,120 --> 00:31:40,320 Speaker 4: I wanted it, Elizabeth. He sent me the recording. 665 00:31:40,360 --> 00:31:48,160 Speaker 5: You're kidding and it does in Spanish. He says, if 666 00:31:48,200 --> 00:31:51,120 Speaker 5: you cross the border, I will put you in your tomb. 667 00:31:51,600 --> 00:31:53,520 Speaker 4: Elizabeth. He did. He sent me the recording. You want 668 00:31:53,560 --> 00:31:53,840 Speaker 4: to hear it? 669 00:31:53,960 --> 00:31:55,400 Speaker 3: Yes, produce? 670 00:31:55,640 --> 00:31:56,520 Speaker 4: Can we play. 671 00:31:59,360 --> 00:32:03,280 Speaker 6: Wonder you're not seeing? If they're going? Said? No, what's tonight? 672 00:32:03,320 --> 00:32:14,760 Speaker 6: They're going too say worse? Say so you think you 673 00:32:14,880 --> 00:32:20,000 Speaker 6: let me? Stops won and the less say cruises. I 674 00:32:20,040 --> 00:32:21,280 Speaker 6: always said that's tools. 675 00:32:23,480 --> 00:32:26,600 Speaker 2: So there it is, right, So I you know Pietro 676 00:32:26,680 --> 00:32:27,960 Speaker 2: the rerecord, he wasn't done, and I asked him a 677 00:32:27,960 --> 00:32:28,400 Speaker 2: little bit more. 678 00:32:28,480 --> 00:32:29,000 Speaker 4: He told me. 679 00:32:29,160 --> 00:32:33,080 Speaker 5: And so at that point, every little tiny bit of 680 00:32:33,080 --> 00:32:36,200 Speaker 5: love I may have had for him gone. And then 681 00:32:36,400 --> 00:32:40,200 Speaker 5: when he goes to continuing care, he contracts pneumonia and 682 00:32:40,240 --> 00:32:41,760 Speaker 5: I got a call and say he's not going to 683 00:32:41,800 --> 00:32:44,920 Speaker 5: make it. So I went to sit by his betside 684 00:32:45,800 --> 00:32:49,200 Speaker 5: and I said, Dad, I hope you can forgive me 685 00:32:49,240 --> 00:32:52,880 Speaker 5: for what I've done to you, and I forgive you 686 00:32:53,000 --> 00:32:58,160 Speaker 5: for what you've done to me, But to be perfectly candid, 687 00:32:58,960 --> 00:32:59,720 Speaker 5: I never forgave. 688 00:33:00,320 --> 00:33:02,960 Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't believe it heavy though, right, Wow, Yeah, 689 00:33:03,000 --> 00:33:04,800 Speaker 4: this is where the rubber really meets the road, where 690 00:33:04,840 --> 00:33:08,600 Speaker 4: the ridiculous meets the real. He and he Pietro Lagrec 691 00:33:08,640 --> 00:33:09,200 Speaker 4: had told me. 692 00:33:09,360 --> 00:33:12,200 Speaker 5: I may have gone through the motions of it because 693 00:33:12,800 --> 00:33:15,959 Speaker 5: maybe I need to make the appearance of it. But 694 00:33:16,040 --> 00:33:19,720 Speaker 5: in reflecting to that moment, I didn't. And I still 695 00:33:19,720 --> 00:33:22,480 Speaker 5: hold resentment and I still haven't let go of it, 696 00:33:22,720 --> 00:33:25,360 Speaker 5: and it's part of my process, I guess. But I'm 697 00:33:25,400 --> 00:33:28,040 Speaker 5: still holding onto a lot of things that he did 698 00:33:28,040 --> 00:33:31,560 Speaker 5: to me. Then I had to fight everything he did wrong. 699 00:33:31,640 --> 00:33:35,000 Speaker 5: When I took over my properties and pay tax bills. 700 00:33:35,040 --> 00:33:37,560 Speaker 5: He didn't paid to a quarter million dollars worth right 701 00:33:37,920 --> 00:33:41,320 Speaker 5: like I had to. And financially, look, I'll be straight 702 00:33:41,360 --> 00:33:44,640 Speaker 5: with you. I'm strapped right now because of the lawsuit, 703 00:33:44,800 --> 00:33:47,560 Speaker 5: because of everything that's gone on and all this shit 704 00:33:47,600 --> 00:33:51,720 Speaker 5: my dad put me in. Yeah it's not I have 705 00:33:51,760 --> 00:33:54,240 Speaker 5: a nice property in Mexico, but it's leveraged to the 706 00:33:54,320 --> 00:33:59,000 Speaker 5: hill because oh contract my dad put together, so you know, 707 00:33:59,800 --> 00:34:01,440 Speaker 5: and then you just try to get through it. So 708 00:34:01,680 --> 00:34:03,959 Speaker 5: hopefully now I can. I can look in the rearview 709 00:34:04,000 --> 00:34:05,800 Speaker 5: mirror and hopefully my dad's not in it. 710 00:34:06,240 --> 00:34:09,920 Speaker 4: Wow, yeah, right that image, hopefully my dad's note. I 711 00:34:10,040 --> 00:34:11,120 Speaker 4: love that, so poetic. 712 00:34:11,360 --> 00:34:13,359 Speaker 2: Now, Luckily for him and for his family, his life 713 00:34:13,360 --> 00:34:15,600 Speaker 2: in La Joya was made more tolerable and fun due 714 00:34:15,640 --> 00:34:17,560 Speaker 2: to the presence of his uncle, the one who was 715 00:34:17,560 --> 00:34:20,799 Speaker 2: wasting the cartoon's money, who was his mother's brother's son 716 00:34:20,840 --> 00:34:23,640 Speaker 2: of his mother's father obviously, so his grandfather's boy. 717 00:34:24,239 --> 00:34:27,719 Speaker 5: Now, my uncle and I got really close, right, But 718 00:34:27,760 --> 00:34:31,120 Speaker 5: then I found out that my uncle was a party animal. 719 00:34:32,120 --> 00:34:39,200 Speaker 5: He had one mission in life and it was women, drugs, fun, wine, Paulo, 720 00:34:39,560 --> 00:34:40,160 Speaker 5: you name it. 721 00:34:41,000 --> 00:34:41,400 Speaker 4: Yeah. 722 00:34:41,440 --> 00:34:44,239 Speaker 2: So, Elizabeth, this uncle, who nearly put the family at risk, 723 00:34:44,360 --> 00:34:46,960 Speaker 2: was also his savings grace. Nothing is ever easy for 724 00:34:47,000 --> 00:34:49,040 Speaker 2: this kid. I think it's fair to say, you know 725 00:34:49,080 --> 00:34:51,360 Speaker 2: what that's like, shout out Uncle Frank when you have 726 00:34:51,400 --> 00:34:55,360 Speaker 2: an uncle steps Yes, he had an Uncle Frank of 727 00:34:55,400 --> 00:34:57,360 Speaker 2: his own, a man who was there for him and 728 00:34:57,360 --> 00:34:59,800 Speaker 2: when he really needed a man to step up. Plus, 729 00:34:59,800 --> 00:35:02,359 Speaker 2: like a Uncle Frank, he was fun. But unlike Uncle 730 00:35:02,400 --> 00:35:04,720 Speaker 2: Frankie was a little too much fun with cartel's money. 731 00:35:04,800 --> 00:35:07,200 Speaker 4: So there's a line. Uncle Frank is not crossed. I 732 00:35:07,280 --> 00:35:09,880 Speaker 4: think he was like, know the line right, stay in 733 00:35:09,880 --> 00:35:14,120 Speaker 4: your lane. Fun uncle, anyway, Pietro or he tells me. 734 00:35:14,120 --> 00:35:15,719 Speaker 5: The dude was the most fun guy I ever hung 735 00:35:15,719 --> 00:35:18,319 Speaker 5: out with my entire life. So I played golf with 736 00:35:18,360 --> 00:35:21,880 Speaker 5: my uncle. I played tennis with my uncle, and it 737 00:35:22,000 --> 00:35:24,960 Speaker 5: was kind of at my age. It was a little 738 00:35:24,960 --> 00:35:28,279 Speaker 5: bit of a vacation. But at the same time knew 739 00:35:28,320 --> 00:35:34,200 Speaker 5: there was like darkness looming over right, and you could 740 00:35:34,239 --> 00:35:38,680 Speaker 5: feel the tension. We would have called when my grandfather 741 00:35:39,840 --> 00:35:42,560 Speaker 5: after we bribed the right people, he was put in 742 00:35:42,600 --> 00:35:45,399 Speaker 5: the warden's office instead of a jail celle, so that 743 00:35:45,440 --> 00:35:48,279 Speaker 5: warden's office became his office for his work. There was 744 00:35:48,320 --> 00:35:53,000 Speaker 5: a treadmill there, we had food delivered to him, so 745 00:35:53,200 --> 00:35:56,200 Speaker 5: he was he was fully functioning, right, But at the 746 00:35:56,200 --> 00:36:00,160 Speaker 5: same time, we couldn't see him, but we had phone 747 00:36:00,200 --> 00:36:03,399 Speaker 5: calls with him, probably once a week. And that's when 748 00:36:03,440 --> 00:36:05,920 Speaker 5: it got very real because I got to hear those 749 00:36:06,000 --> 00:36:06,600 Speaker 5: phone calls. 750 00:36:06,800 --> 00:36:09,160 Speaker 2: Now, the thing about his grandfather and the phone call, 751 00:36:09,239 --> 00:36:11,920 Speaker 2: so he's like basically trying to he's now looking out 752 00:36:11,960 --> 00:36:14,680 Speaker 2: for his uncle, his mother and trying to protect everyone 753 00:36:14,680 --> 00:36:18,160 Speaker 2: from his father and contact his grandfather who's really been 754 00:36:18,200 --> 00:36:20,840 Speaker 2: the only true protector. 755 00:36:20,680 --> 00:36:21,719 Speaker 4: In his life. Right. 756 00:36:21,800 --> 00:36:23,760 Speaker 2: So this is where the life of the ridiculous criminal 757 00:36:24,200 --> 00:36:27,120 Speaker 2: and ridiculous crime really really gets real, especially when it's 758 00:36:27,120 --> 00:36:29,239 Speaker 2: your criminally ridiculous father who's in charge of your life 759 00:36:29,239 --> 00:36:31,719 Speaker 2: and the only one is locked up in a Mexican jail, 760 00:36:31,840 --> 00:36:34,040 Speaker 2: right and you want to talk with your grandfather on 761 00:36:34,080 --> 00:36:36,839 Speaker 2: the phone, but again behind bars, and because your dad 762 00:36:36,880 --> 00:36:39,920 Speaker 2: messed up so bad, and Pietro Junior he could hear 763 00:36:39,960 --> 00:36:42,680 Speaker 2: it in his grandfather's voice when the family patriarch was 764 00:36:42,680 --> 00:36:45,160 Speaker 2: in prison, and it's like just painting him, right, because 765 00:36:45,400 --> 00:36:46,520 Speaker 2: he said. 766 00:36:46,280 --> 00:36:49,200 Speaker 5: That was super tough, because ultimately I was the last 767 00:36:49,200 --> 00:36:51,800 Speaker 5: person on the call, and I was the last person 768 00:36:51,840 --> 00:36:54,399 Speaker 5: on the call because he wanted to hear my joy 769 00:36:54,400 --> 00:36:56,520 Speaker 5: and my spirit, what I was doing with his son, 770 00:36:56,600 --> 00:36:59,200 Speaker 5: with my uncle, what we were doing playing golf tennis. 771 00:36:59,200 --> 00:37:00,880 Speaker 5: He just wanted to know that his son and his 772 00:37:00,920 --> 00:37:04,600 Speaker 5: grandson they're okay. They were at least trying to make 773 00:37:04,640 --> 00:37:08,439 Speaker 5: the best out of it. And those phone calls I'll 774 00:37:08,480 --> 00:37:12,279 Speaker 5: never forget that. I mean, I remember how scary they 775 00:37:12,320 --> 00:37:15,040 Speaker 5: were because he'd asked, when is this going to happen? 776 00:37:15,040 --> 00:37:17,160 Speaker 5: When am I going to get released. What's going on too? 777 00:37:17,920 --> 00:37:20,400 Speaker 5: How are you Petito? How are you for Landito? Are 778 00:37:20,400 --> 00:37:22,839 Speaker 5: you guys doing okay? So yeah, I know those those 779 00:37:22,920 --> 00:37:25,000 Speaker 5: tychnamics were weird, Yeah, weird. 780 00:37:25,120 --> 00:37:26,200 Speaker 4: Yeah right, it's understatement. 781 00:37:26,280 --> 00:37:28,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, you seel like it's framing of things, Like it's like, 782 00:37:29,040 --> 00:37:32,239 Speaker 2: I don't know how you can relatively wait these things. Yeah, 783 00:37:32,239 --> 00:37:35,160 Speaker 2: he's got so many crazinesses and a child telling yourself 784 00:37:35,160 --> 00:37:38,080 Speaker 2: the story of like what's happening. So then also there's 785 00:37:38,120 --> 00:37:40,680 Speaker 2: his dad was still influencing his life at this point. 786 00:37:40,719 --> 00:37:42,759 Speaker 2: We're kind of skipping around in time because he like 787 00:37:42,880 --> 00:37:44,919 Speaker 2: bounces around a little bit when he was telling me things. 788 00:37:44,920 --> 00:37:47,239 Speaker 4: So when they were on the. 789 00:37:47,239 --> 00:37:49,160 Speaker 2: Lamb, when his dad was still in his life and 790 00:37:49,200 --> 00:37:52,799 Speaker 2: his grandfather was in prison at this point, yeah, they were. 791 00:37:53,000 --> 00:37:55,920 Speaker 2: They were staying you know, they're saying in the best hotels. 792 00:37:55,960 --> 00:37:58,839 Speaker 2: They're leading a very good life so to speak. Right, 793 00:37:59,400 --> 00:38:01,879 Speaker 2: But that was enough because the family is so worried 794 00:38:01,920 --> 00:38:05,600 Speaker 2: about the real patriarch. So, as Pietro Greca tells me. 795 00:38:05,880 --> 00:38:08,080 Speaker 5: If he got enough pressure from my mom and grandma, 796 00:38:08,120 --> 00:38:09,840 Speaker 5: we weren't going to stay at a motel six. We 797 00:38:09,840 --> 00:38:11,799 Speaker 5: were going to stay at a nicer place. But then 798 00:38:11,920 --> 00:38:14,879 Speaker 5: a couple times he got super freaked out and thought 799 00:38:14,880 --> 00:38:18,160 Speaker 5: people were tailing us and would make like three right turns, 800 00:38:18,200 --> 00:38:20,520 Speaker 5: three left turns, and that says, screwed, we're going in 801 00:38:20,600 --> 00:38:22,799 Speaker 5: this motel and staying the night. We'd stay the night 802 00:38:22,840 --> 00:38:25,880 Speaker 5: in a random hotel because he thought we needed to 803 00:38:25,920 --> 00:38:28,520 Speaker 5: find security somewhere like that. And I said, oh, this 804 00:38:28,560 --> 00:38:30,879 Speaker 5: is so weird. We're actually probably better off at more 805 00:38:30,920 --> 00:38:34,080 Speaker 5: expensive hotels than at the cheaper ones. I mean, but 806 00:38:34,120 --> 00:38:36,000 Speaker 5: he was, he was all over the place. He was 807 00:38:36,200 --> 00:38:37,040 Speaker 5: so paranoid. 808 00:38:37,840 --> 00:38:38,319 Speaker 4: Poor kid. 809 00:38:38,400 --> 00:38:42,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, Like I said, the father supposed to be your 810 00:38:42,440 --> 00:38:43,960 Speaker 2: like source of safety. 811 00:38:44,160 --> 00:38:48,200 Speaker 4: Sure, he's the exact opposite. And also he's causing him 812 00:38:48,200 --> 00:38:51,680 Speaker 4: to question even what safety is exactly. No, it's just 813 00:38:51,719 --> 00:38:53,759 Speaker 4: kind of crazy to me. But Elizabeth, have you seen 814 00:38:53,800 --> 00:38:56,279 Speaker 4: Good Fellows? Do you remember the scene when Henry Hill 815 00:38:56,360 --> 00:38:58,799 Speaker 4: aka Ray Liota is staring up at the helicopters in 816 00:38:58,800 --> 00:39:00,560 Speaker 4: the sky and he's driving the car towards the end 817 00:39:00,600 --> 00:39:03,680 Speaker 4: of the movie. Pietro he used that, right, he told 818 00:39:03,840 --> 00:39:06,040 Speaker 4: as an example so I can understand what his life 819 00:39:06,160 --> 00:39:06,480 Speaker 4: was like. 820 00:39:08,000 --> 00:39:10,799 Speaker 5: Do you remember the scene of Goodfellas when the helicopter 821 00:39:10,960 --> 00:39:14,200 Speaker 5: is kind of chasing the guy. Yeah, and he's always 822 00:39:14,280 --> 00:39:17,399 Speaker 5: like freaking out the whole time. That's how my dad 823 00:39:17,480 --> 00:39:19,800 Speaker 5: was acting, right, because I think I saw that movie 824 00:39:19,960 --> 00:39:23,200 Speaker 5: after that, I'm like, man, that's exactly how sketchy my 825 00:39:23,280 --> 00:39:27,719 Speaker 5: dad was, so totally I saw the movie and I 826 00:39:27,719 --> 00:39:30,720 Speaker 5: had exactly what he's just the flashbacks, like, that's exactly 827 00:39:30,719 --> 00:39:34,680 Speaker 5: how he felt. So that was kind of the dynamic, right, 828 00:39:34,840 --> 00:39:38,080 Speaker 5: and not until and that was glad that you know. 829 00:39:38,120 --> 00:39:41,120 Speaker 5: That was six months, right, No, I'm sorry, it was 830 00:39:41,160 --> 00:39:42,680 Speaker 5: three and a half months. It was just over the 831 00:39:42,719 --> 00:39:46,640 Speaker 5: summer because by my freshman year, I was playing football, 832 00:39:47,000 --> 00:39:49,520 Speaker 5: I was back at school. Everything was cool. 833 00:39:49,760 --> 00:39:51,759 Speaker 4: So it see, it goes a little quick. 834 00:39:51,800 --> 00:39:54,440 Speaker 2: He's on the lamb for basically the summer between junior 835 00:39:54,520 --> 00:39:57,120 Speaker 2: high and high school time for a young boy, very 836 00:39:57,200 --> 00:39:59,240 Speaker 2: much so. So I rarely get to ask this question, 837 00:39:59,400 --> 00:40:01,520 Speaker 2: but Elizabeth, I got to ask the question I always 838 00:40:01,600 --> 00:40:04,319 Speaker 2: want to ask, Yeah, which is this what's it like 839 00:40:04,400 --> 00:40:06,480 Speaker 2: when the FBI comes up and asked to talk to 840 00:40:06,520 --> 00:40:07,480 Speaker 2: you about your family? 841 00:40:08,480 --> 00:40:10,320 Speaker 3: That's a great question. 842 00:40:11,400 --> 00:40:13,800 Speaker 5: By that time, I was working with my grandfather is 843 00:40:13,800 --> 00:40:16,920 Speaker 5: about twenty two to twenty three, and I was running 844 00:40:17,000 --> 00:40:19,879 Speaker 5: learning how to run the customs house business, which had 845 00:40:19,920 --> 00:40:23,279 Speaker 5: three hundred employees. And so when he dies, I take 846 00:40:23,320 --> 00:40:27,120 Speaker 5: over because my uncle has to deal with he has 847 00:40:27,280 --> 00:40:30,279 Speaker 5: with the Ideano cartel, right and the project he has 848 00:40:30,360 --> 00:40:34,879 Speaker 5: to do. So I'm running three hundred person organization doing 849 00:40:34,880 --> 00:40:37,399 Speaker 5: a kick ass job of it. And to this day, 850 00:40:37,800 --> 00:40:42,600 Speaker 5: very bummed out that we don't have that business. Very 851 00:40:42,600 --> 00:40:45,319 Speaker 5: bummed out because I walked down on it there, and 852 00:40:45,360 --> 00:40:47,359 Speaker 5: I walked down on it, all right, And I walked 853 00:40:47,400 --> 00:40:50,640 Speaker 5: down on it because the FBI showed up and they 854 00:40:50,680 --> 00:40:54,120 Speaker 5: asked me. Well, they showed up and asked me. They said, 855 00:40:54,360 --> 00:40:58,160 Speaker 5: are you Fernando Gucerris. I'm like, no, that's my uncle. 856 00:40:59,200 --> 00:41:01,879 Speaker 5: And then I asked, question, is it important? And they 857 00:41:01,920 --> 00:41:04,000 Speaker 5: respond with it's a matter of life or. 858 00:41:03,960 --> 00:41:08,960 Speaker 4: Death, a matter of life and death. The FBI has 859 00:41:08,960 --> 00:41:10,520 Speaker 4: come to you and says it's a matter of life 860 00:41:10,520 --> 00:41:12,720 Speaker 4: and death. You just know your life is about to change. 861 00:41:12,840 --> 00:41:15,240 Speaker 3: So he did, They're not messing around. 862 00:41:15,280 --> 00:41:17,840 Speaker 4: There's no doubt about it, all right. So what do 863 00:41:17,880 --> 00:41:19,960 Speaker 4: you do when the FBI? You can't lie to when 864 00:41:19,960 --> 00:41:22,200 Speaker 4: we cover that, do not lie to the FBI. It's 865 00:41:22,200 --> 00:41:24,120 Speaker 4: a balany. But you also don't have to say everything 866 00:41:24,120 --> 00:41:26,160 Speaker 4: you know, so you can lie by whole mission. That 867 00:41:26,239 --> 00:41:28,000 Speaker 4: is the one area you can still lie. 868 00:41:28,239 --> 00:41:30,440 Speaker 2: So he doesn't tell the FBI everything he knows, but 869 00:41:30,520 --> 00:41:32,520 Speaker 2: he then has to now tell his family what the 870 00:41:32,600 --> 00:41:35,319 Speaker 2: FBI has told him. Oh yeah, but I don't know 871 00:41:35,360 --> 00:41:37,200 Speaker 2: why he does this. He does it on the phone. 872 00:41:38,160 --> 00:41:40,560 Speaker 5: So I get on the phone. I call my uncle, 873 00:41:40,719 --> 00:41:43,040 Speaker 5: my unk, you got to show up. And one thing 874 00:41:43,080 --> 00:41:45,719 Speaker 5: I did know from movies and things that I had 875 00:41:45,800 --> 00:41:48,040 Speaker 5: seen in my life before that if the FBI shows 876 00:41:48,120 --> 00:41:49,759 Speaker 5: up and says it's a matter of life or death, 877 00:41:50,080 --> 00:41:53,799 Speaker 5: they're warning you that you're going to get killed, all right, 878 00:41:54,120 --> 00:41:58,520 Speaker 5: It's basically. And so that day I walked out of 879 00:41:58,560 --> 00:42:01,600 Speaker 5: that building, tears in my eyes, knowing I was never 880 00:42:01,640 --> 00:42:04,479 Speaker 5: going to come back and probably never going to see 881 00:42:04,480 --> 00:42:07,799 Speaker 5: my uncle again. And so I walk out, and I 882 00:42:07,840 --> 00:42:11,560 Speaker 5: go back to school, go to j C, go to USD, 883 00:42:11,800 --> 00:42:15,160 Speaker 5: get my undergrad graduate degree. That all happens, right, But 884 00:42:16,040 --> 00:42:18,160 Speaker 5: there was one more day I saw my uncle alive, 885 00:42:18,160 --> 00:42:20,200 Speaker 5: and it was at a concert for the Gypsy Kings. 886 00:42:20,320 --> 00:42:22,359 Speaker 5: We saw each other, we hugged, we were sitting next 887 00:42:22,400 --> 00:42:26,239 Speaker 5: to each other. And then next time was I saw 888 00:42:26,280 --> 00:42:29,160 Speaker 5: him on TV with the sheet dripped over his head, 889 00:42:29,239 --> 00:42:31,680 Speaker 5: curly hair and blood on the news. 890 00:42:31,880 --> 00:42:34,880 Speaker 2: So there you go. There is our one percentage. O. Man, 891 00:42:35,080 --> 00:42:37,360 Speaker 2: he did Actually the uncle met a gruesome man. 892 00:42:37,600 --> 00:42:37,799 Speaker 6: Yeah. 893 00:42:37,880 --> 00:42:40,520 Speaker 4: Oh god, but Elizabeth, you'll never expect this. Yeah, this 894 00:42:40,600 --> 00:42:45,040 Speaker 4: is where Sylvester Stallone enters the picture. Oh no, no, 895 00:42:45,120 --> 00:42:48,399 Speaker 4: it's not the right reaction to live still, it's not. 896 00:42:48,800 --> 00:42:49,439 Speaker 3: Oh no. 897 00:42:49,800 --> 00:42:54,279 Speaker 5: July fourth, nineteen ninety four, and it was after a 898 00:42:54,320 --> 00:42:56,920 Speaker 5: celebrity polo match and I got that's when I got 899 00:42:56,960 --> 00:43:00,080 Speaker 5: to play with Sylvester Stallone and William Devay, and so 900 00:43:00,640 --> 00:43:03,280 Speaker 5: I left that. I went to party with my friends. 901 00:43:03,480 --> 00:43:05,799 Speaker 5: He went to another party. On his way back, he 902 00:43:05,840 --> 00:43:09,200 Speaker 5: had his massive cornery so because his driver told him 903 00:43:09,200 --> 00:43:12,239 Speaker 5: on the drive there. So that was that was That's 904 00:43:12,239 --> 00:43:14,040 Speaker 5: when I knew the family was kind of done, to 905 00:43:14,040 --> 00:43:18,000 Speaker 5: be honest with you, Once we lost my grams, everything 906 00:43:18,040 --> 00:43:19,680 Speaker 5: was going to go sideways, and it did. 907 00:43:20,080 --> 00:43:20,479 Speaker 4: So yeah. 908 00:43:20,480 --> 00:43:22,600 Speaker 2: So now he's lost his uncle and his grandfather and 909 00:43:22,640 --> 00:43:24,400 Speaker 2: he's stuck with just his father. 910 00:43:24,239 --> 00:43:26,160 Speaker 4: And Sylvester Stillone and Sylvester Stallone. 911 00:43:26,840 --> 00:43:28,800 Speaker 2: Sit, take a little break, and after these messages, I 912 00:43:28,840 --> 00:43:31,200 Speaker 2: will conclude this wild and crazy story. 913 00:43:31,280 --> 00:43:31,919 Speaker 3: I love it. 914 00:43:52,280 --> 00:43:54,879 Speaker 4: All right, Elizabeth, We're back hello. Now. 915 00:43:55,080 --> 00:43:57,960 Speaker 2: As the sign that your man Kendrick held up in 916 00:43:58,000 --> 00:44:01,440 Speaker 2: the music video for his track Squabble Up Up, it says, 917 00:44:01,480 --> 00:44:06,560 Speaker 2: and I quote Jesus saves gangsters too. But is that true? 918 00:44:06,680 --> 00:44:11,720 Speaker 2: K do Is it true Elizabeth? Because what about gangsters 919 00:44:11,760 --> 00:44:12,240 Speaker 2: like Pietro? 920 00:44:13,600 --> 00:44:16,480 Speaker 4: Yeah? Sure, I haven't asked you to really invest yourself 921 00:44:16,640 --> 00:44:18,560 Speaker 4: in this life. 922 00:44:19,080 --> 00:44:20,880 Speaker 3: You have to want to be safe. 923 00:44:21,400 --> 00:44:23,239 Speaker 2: Let me correct the fact that I haven't asked you 924 00:44:23,280 --> 00:44:26,400 Speaker 2: to really invest in this life yet in this episode. 925 00:44:26,480 --> 00:44:28,320 Speaker 2: So to put you there, let me ask you a question. 926 00:44:28,600 --> 00:44:30,640 Speaker 2: Can you imagine being a kid and having a bodyguard 927 00:44:30,640 --> 00:44:32,680 Speaker 2: who is a former Special Forces soldier? 928 00:44:32,840 --> 00:44:33,879 Speaker 3: I think it'd be pretty cool. 929 00:44:33,960 --> 00:44:35,719 Speaker 4: I thought you'd like that. 930 00:44:36,080 --> 00:44:38,279 Speaker 2: So Pietr the gretly Junior told me about how he 931 00:44:38,360 --> 00:44:41,240 Speaker 2: had one of these US Special Forces as his personal 932 00:44:41,280 --> 00:44:43,839 Speaker 2: bodyguard because since his dad was in business with heavy 933 00:44:43,880 --> 00:44:45,680 Speaker 2: duty Mexican cartels, that's what you. 934 00:44:45,680 --> 00:44:47,919 Speaker 3: Do and it must feel comforting, but at the same 935 00:44:47,960 --> 00:44:50,640 Speaker 3: time to know that you have to have one in general, because. 936 00:44:50,400 --> 00:44:53,040 Speaker 2: The threats against you are such that every day somebody 937 00:44:53,120 --> 00:44:54,480 Speaker 2: might want to kill you just to get back at 938 00:44:54,480 --> 00:44:58,239 Speaker 2: your dad. So it was funny for him how he 939 00:44:58,360 --> 00:45:00,880 Speaker 2: humanized his former bodyguard. He did it the way a 940 00:45:00,960 --> 00:45:03,000 Speaker 2: kid would do it. He was like, he was telling 941 00:45:03,000 --> 00:45:05,200 Speaker 2: me about this one bodyguard who'd loved to like pop 942 00:45:05,280 --> 00:45:07,080 Speaker 2: up out of hiding spots, like he was still in 943 00:45:07,120 --> 00:45:12,360 Speaker 2: the bush, and like, so oh, here's Patroll mcgreca to 944 00:45:12,360 --> 00:45:12,680 Speaker 2: say it. 945 00:45:13,480 --> 00:45:17,200 Speaker 5: One of the special forces guy that took care of 946 00:45:17,280 --> 00:45:21,080 Speaker 5: us really kind of wanted to happen all right, Like 947 00:45:21,160 --> 00:45:24,359 Speaker 5: he was looking, he was hoping something would go down right, 948 00:45:25,000 --> 00:45:28,480 Speaker 5: But he would hide in weird ass places, like he 949 00:45:28,520 --> 00:45:31,120 Speaker 5: would hide in the trees and then come down right 950 00:45:31,680 --> 00:45:33,879 Speaker 5: and they're like, hey, mister le greca, how are you? 951 00:45:34,280 --> 00:45:37,000 Speaker 5: What the But I'll never forget the story with our 952 00:45:37,160 --> 00:45:40,840 Speaker 5: maid was always told to take coffee out to the 953 00:45:40,880 --> 00:45:46,839 Speaker 5: guys taking care of the house, right, and Gon went 954 00:45:46,880 --> 00:45:48,120 Speaker 5: out to go take coffee. 955 00:45:48,200 --> 00:45:52,040 Speaker 2: But Elizabeth, rather than have Petre Lecgreca tell you this story, Elizabeth, 956 00:45:52,080 --> 00:45:54,799 Speaker 2: I'd like you to close your eyes. I'd like you 957 00:45:55,160 --> 00:45:58,279 Speaker 2: to picture it. Elizabeth. It's a work day and you 958 00:45:58,440 --> 00:46:00,799 Speaker 2: are working as a maid for one of Mexico's most 959 00:46:00,840 --> 00:46:03,959 Speaker 2: powerful money launderers, for the cartels. But you never see 960 00:46:03,960 --> 00:46:07,120 Speaker 2: the crime side of things. Only the family and the 961 00:46:07,200 --> 00:46:11,040 Speaker 2: former military officers hired to protect the family. Today, you're 962 00:46:11,040 --> 00:46:13,479 Speaker 2: doing a kindness in bringing a pot of fresh hot 963 00:46:13,520 --> 00:46:16,680 Speaker 2: coffee out to the security. You cross the back patio, 964 00:46:16,960 --> 00:46:18,600 Speaker 2: walking across Spanish tile. 965 00:46:19,400 --> 00:46:20,600 Speaker 4: But there's one of the. 966 00:46:20,560 --> 00:46:25,480 Speaker 2: Security, former US Special Forces, who always loves to surprise you. However, 967 00:46:25,520 --> 00:46:29,120 Speaker 2: you know this, so you're on guard, walking carefully, tentively 968 00:46:29,280 --> 00:46:32,359 Speaker 2: with the fresh hot pot of coffee, although you do 969 00:46:32,600 --> 00:46:35,320 Speaker 2: hum a bit of a tune to yourself. When you 970 00:46:35,360 --> 00:46:38,040 Speaker 2: get to the area where there's a circular glass table. 971 00:46:38,080 --> 00:46:41,920 Speaker 2: You look around, expecting him to pop out, but the 972 00:46:42,239 --> 00:46:45,120 Speaker 2: expected security is not there, not waiting for you. 973 00:46:45,360 --> 00:46:45,839 Speaker 4: He's gone. 974 00:46:46,320 --> 00:46:48,680 Speaker 2: Perhaps the family called him away. Perhaps there's a business, 975 00:46:48,800 --> 00:46:52,200 Speaker 2: urgent business. You look around again. Oh well, you decide 976 00:46:52,200 --> 00:46:54,799 Speaker 2: to set down the pot of fresh hot coffee, and 977 00:46:54,920 --> 00:46:57,680 Speaker 2: that's when you hear it. The US Special Forces guy 978 00:46:57,719 --> 00:46:59,480 Speaker 2: pops up out of a trash can, one of those 979 00:46:59,480 --> 00:47:03,720 Speaker 2: big green ones for yard way. You were more than startled, 980 00:47:03,719 --> 00:47:07,000 Speaker 2: You were absolutely scared of the soldier popping up into view. 981 00:47:07,120 --> 00:47:10,080 Speaker 2: You dropped the pot of fresh coffee. You run back 982 00:47:10,120 --> 00:47:12,520 Speaker 2: into the house. You don't get paid nearly enough for 983 00:47:12,560 --> 00:47:15,200 Speaker 2: these sort of high jinks and this near heart attacks 984 00:47:15,280 --> 00:47:15,760 Speaker 2: like that. 985 00:47:16,480 --> 00:47:18,200 Speaker 4: So there you go, Elizabeth, what. 986 00:47:19,960 --> 00:47:20,960 Speaker 3: Is wrong with this man? 987 00:47:21,400 --> 00:47:21,560 Speaker 5: You know? 988 00:47:21,760 --> 00:47:27,839 Speaker 2: Right, he's just so boring exact leaping off the roof, 989 00:47:28,480 --> 00:47:32,440 Speaker 2: coming out of a great So I got to admit, 990 00:47:32,480 --> 00:47:34,279 Speaker 2: Pietr the Greca is right, that is kind of fun 991 00:47:34,280 --> 00:47:37,799 Speaker 2: to imagine, like not for you, not for Porkinsula, but 992 00:47:37,840 --> 00:47:40,720 Speaker 2: for the rest of us. Comedy gold now as Petr 993 00:47:40,800 --> 00:47:41,640 Speaker 2: the Greca told. 994 00:47:41,480 --> 00:47:44,160 Speaker 5: It, and that story lives in my mind forever because 995 00:47:44,160 --> 00:47:46,080 Speaker 5: she never went out to give him coffee up for 996 00:47:46,160 --> 00:47:49,080 Speaker 5: a kid because she was so freaked out. But some 997 00:47:49,160 --> 00:47:53,279 Speaker 5: of them more crazy man like crazy crazy, looking for 998 00:47:53,320 --> 00:47:57,399 Speaker 5: a fight, trigger happy, all that stuff for real, right, 999 00:47:57,960 --> 00:48:01,320 Speaker 5: So I would say these guys are also really good guys. 1000 00:48:01,640 --> 00:48:04,480 Speaker 3: Were they though, Well, you think, who's going to take 1001 00:48:04,560 --> 00:48:05,120 Speaker 3: this gig? 1002 00:48:05,320 --> 00:48:09,720 Speaker 2: Yes, yea, you you're working for a dirty money launderer, 1003 00:48:09,920 --> 00:48:11,799 Speaker 2: you know it. And you're just like, I don't care, 1004 00:48:11,840 --> 00:48:14,360 Speaker 2: I don't mind getting shot for this. I'm getting paid, 1005 00:48:14,400 --> 00:48:18,560 Speaker 2: you know, You're like, anyway, I'm sure they are good 1006 00:48:18,560 --> 00:48:20,400 Speaker 2: guys in a certain sense. 1007 00:48:20,680 --> 00:48:25,719 Speaker 4: I'm not trying to like morally judge them exactly, but 1008 00:48:25,840 --> 00:48:27,719 Speaker 4: that is side those same good guys are also how 1009 00:48:27,719 --> 00:48:31,200 Speaker 4: the FBI comes back into this story. 1010 00:48:31,600 --> 00:48:34,040 Speaker 5: One of them introduced my dad to the FBI because 1011 00:48:34,280 --> 00:48:36,560 Speaker 5: he had used to work with the FBI, and the 1012 00:48:36,600 --> 00:48:39,960 Speaker 5: FBI wanted to do a sting operation at my dad's 1013 00:48:39,960 --> 00:48:43,239 Speaker 5: foreign exchange. So when I tell you my dad was 1014 00:48:43,920 --> 00:48:47,360 Speaker 5: in the good graces that the FBI and he was, 1015 00:48:47,840 --> 00:48:50,799 Speaker 5: he was, and it's because he always wanted to be 1016 00:48:50,960 --> 00:48:54,360 Speaker 5: pro American. Again back to when I started the story 1017 00:48:54,520 --> 00:48:58,000 Speaker 5: the tanks rolling in, right, he was still very prideful 1018 00:48:58,040 --> 00:48:59,640 Speaker 5: that America saved his. 1019 00:48:59,640 --> 00:49:03,520 Speaker 2: Country too, Elizabeth, did you notice that not only did 1020 00:49:03,560 --> 00:49:06,520 Speaker 2: like the security he hired eventually snitch him out to 1021 00:49:06,600 --> 00:49:10,120 Speaker 2: the FBI and connect him, did you also notice how 1022 00:49:10,200 --> 00:49:12,839 Speaker 2: he made snitching to the FBI, or at least cooperating 1023 00:49:12,840 --> 00:49:15,799 Speaker 2: with the FBI, into a heroic and patriotic effort, Like, oh, 1024 00:49:15,880 --> 00:49:17,560 Speaker 2: he loved it with the tanks and all that he's 1025 00:49:17,560 --> 00:49:21,040 Speaker 2: snitching on cartel people doing it Like I'm sorry whatever. 1026 00:49:21,040 --> 00:49:23,959 Speaker 3: I thought it was kind of funny. 1027 00:49:22,960 --> 00:49:25,640 Speaker 2: Like Jayeger Hoover would definitely approve of this junior g man. 1028 00:49:25,680 --> 00:49:28,279 Speaker 2: But I was I tease, all right, I digress. It 1029 00:49:28,360 --> 00:49:30,080 Speaker 2: was just like all right, I mean, eat your dad. 1030 00:49:30,280 --> 00:49:33,319 Speaker 2: We all understand he's morally conflicted, but it's not like, Oh, 1031 00:49:33,320 --> 00:49:33,960 Speaker 2: the FBI. 1032 00:49:33,800 --> 00:49:34,439 Speaker 4: Thought he was a hero. 1033 00:49:34,680 --> 00:49:37,400 Speaker 2: Right anyway, this last is the last thing that Pietro 1034 00:49:37,400 --> 00:49:40,160 Speaker 2: that Goreca Junior told me about his mother, his grandmother 1035 00:49:40,239 --> 00:49:42,800 Speaker 2: and the consistent touchdoones in his wild young life. 1036 00:49:43,239 --> 00:49:44,000 Speaker 4: And I was really. 1037 00:49:43,840 --> 00:49:46,680 Speaker 2: Surprised by how he was able to make a bucket 1038 00:49:46,719 --> 00:49:49,560 Speaker 2: of Kentucky fried chicken into one of the most loving 1039 00:49:49,560 --> 00:49:51,520 Speaker 2: things I've heard in a long minute, which also just 1040 00:49:51,600 --> 00:49:53,799 Speaker 2: goes to show you never really know the value of 1041 00:49:53,800 --> 00:49:54,720 Speaker 2: a bucket of fried. 1042 00:49:54,600 --> 00:49:57,440 Speaker 4: Chicken, right, I mean, it's so true, is it me? 1043 00:49:58,239 --> 00:49:58,680 Speaker 4: It's true? 1044 00:49:58,719 --> 00:49:58,919 Speaker 2: Right? 1045 00:49:59,000 --> 00:49:59,200 Speaker 6: Yeah? 1046 00:50:00,000 --> 00:50:01,200 Speaker 3: Hey, God bless fried chicken. 1047 00:50:01,200 --> 00:50:02,200 Speaker 4: Fried chicken is a loveling. 1048 00:50:02,400 --> 00:50:02,839 Speaker 3: It's the best. 1049 00:50:02,880 --> 00:50:06,040 Speaker 4: It's me right in the field. Anyway, Pietro Loreca hit it. 1050 00:50:06,480 --> 00:50:10,160 Speaker 5: There was a moment I went to Tijuana to go 1051 00:50:10,320 --> 00:50:14,080 Speaker 5: get my share of my inheritance from my grandma because 1052 00:50:14,080 --> 00:50:17,320 Speaker 5: she was diving it up. But since my mom was dying, 1053 00:50:17,960 --> 00:50:20,759 Speaker 5: I was getting it, not her. So it was a 1054 00:50:20,800 --> 00:50:24,280 Speaker 5: tough day. My grandma and mom weren't talking. My grandma 1055 00:50:24,320 --> 00:50:27,160 Speaker 5: didn't really realize that my mom was dying dying. She 1056 00:50:27,239 --> 00:50:29,840 Speaker 5: thought she was sick. And so when I talked to 1057 00:50:29,840 --> 00:50:32,080 Speaker 5: my grandma and she was handing me over the property 1058 00:50:32,160 --> 00:50:35,280 Speaker 5: because she was fearful my dad more than anything. Right, 1059 00:50:35,960 --> 00:50:43,440 Speaker 5: And I come back and my mom basically has a 1060 00:50:43,520 --> 00:50:46,239 Speaker 5: thing of Kentucky fried chicken waiting for me, but she 1061 00:50:46,280 --> 00:50:48,600 Speaker 5: hear cancer had spread to her brain, so she wasn't 1062 00:50:48,640 --> 00:50:53,480 Speaker 5: really too clear, right, and she was just prideful that 1063 00:50:53,560 --> 00:50:55,719 Speaker 5: she was feeding me because that's what she did. That 1064 00:50:55,800 --> 00:50:57,600 Speaker 5: was her love lang which she would make me food. 1065 00:50:58,160 --> 00:51:01,240 Speaker 5: So for her, putting just at that point the chicken 1066 00:51:01,400 --> 00:51:05,239 Speaker 5: on the plate and giving it to me was her 1067 00:51:05,320 --> 00:51:07,120 Speaker 5: way of being a mom before she died. 1068 00:51:08,120 --> 00:51:08,759 Speaker 3: Oh my god. 1069 00:51:09,200 --> 00:51:11,800 Speaker 4: Right, but it's kind of sad. It was really beautiful, 1070 00:51:11,840 --> 00:51:12,120 Speaker 4: thank you. 1071 00:51:12,239 --> 00:51:12,359 Speaker 3: Right. 1072 00:51:13,440 --> 00:51:16,040 Speaker 2: Unfortunately, this is the exact moment when his father decides 1073 00:51:16,080 --> 00:51:20,520 Speaker 2: to go full Pietro and he ruins this moment between 1074 00:51:20,520 --> 00:51:21,560 Speaker 2: mother and son. 1075 00:51:22,160 --> 00:51:27,200 Speaker 5: And for some odd reason, my dad loses it on me, right, 1076 00:51:28,080 --> 00:51:31,920 Speaker 5: and my mom has a moment of clarity and absolutely 1077 00:51:33,040 --> 00:51:37,480 Speaker 5: goes off on my dad, tells him how much she 1078 00:51:37,600 --> 00:51:41,600 Speaker 5: hated him, what an evil person he was, that he 1079 00:51:41,680 --> 00:51:47,160 Speaker 5: caused her cancer, all of it. She unleashed on it 1080 00:51:47,840 --> 00:51:50,680 Speaker 5: and let it all out on the table. And I 1081 00:51:50,719 --> 00:51:53,120 Speaker 5: think it was her way of just saying, I gotta 1082 00:51:53,200 --> 00:51:56,560 Speaker 5: let it out before I die, and she did because 1083 00:51:56,600 --> 00:51:59,280 Speaker 5: two days later I thought that was like a moment 1084 00:51:59,320 --> 00:52:02,840 Speaker 5: of clarity for her and maybe she was coming back, 1085 00:52:03,320 --> 00:52:05,759 Speaker 5: but it was the moment of clarity she needed to 1086 00:52:05,760 --> 00:52:08,480 Speaker 5: give her a peace before she died. 1087 00:52:08,640 --> 00:52:10,759 Speaker 2: Two days before she dies, she did. She just that's 1088 00:52:10,800 --> 00:52:12,680 Speaker 2: the bucket of chicken moment and that's when she goes. 1089 00:52:12,480 --> 00:52:13,759 Speaker 3: Off of Yeah, good for her. 1090 00:52:13,840 --> 00:52:15,760 Speaker 4: Yeah, they can call it terminal lucidity. 1091 00:52:15,840 --> 00:52:16,759 Speaker 3: Yes, the experience. 1092 00:52:17,080 --> 00:52:18,760 Speaker 4: So back to Petro Logreca. 1093 00:52:19,120 --> 00:52:23,200 Speaker 5: And that's what he had to live with and he 1094 00:52:23,280 --> 00:52:27,840 Speaker 5: couldn't handle it broke him. From that point on, he 1095 00:52:27,960 --> 00:52:30,480 Speaker 5: thought that his wife and his and his son to 1096 00:52:30,520 --> 00:52:34,840 Speaker 5: a certain extent, loved him, and in that moment he 1097 00:52:35,000 --> 00:52:39,759 Speaker 5: knew that our love for him was all BS and 1098 00:52:39,800 --> 00:52:41,879 Speaker 5: that we were just playing kind of a shell game. 1099 00:52:43,480 --> 00:52:47,920 Speaker 5: And so that moment, that was his reckoning and it 1100 00:52:48,000 --> 00:52:54,960 Speaker 5: was my mom's way to go to heaven wherever without 1101 00:52:55,000 --> 00:53:05,239 Speaker 5: that honor conscious loved. I was cheering behind her. I 1102 00:53:05,280 --> 00:53:10,600 Speaker 5: was like, yes, I was so happy she had that opportunity, 1103 00:53:13,520 --> 00:53:15,719 Speaker 5: as happy as as happy as a son could be, 1104 00:53:16,480 --> 00:53:19,400 Speaker 5: as happy as a son could be. I mean that 1105 00:53:19,560 --> 00:53:20,400 Speaker 5: was everything for me. 1106 00:53:21,719 --> 00:53:23,560 Speaker 2: You do have to love when a long suffering woman 1107 00:53:23,600 --> 00:53:25,960 Speaker 2: gets to have her moment like that and speak her heart, 1108 00:53:26,000 --> 00:53:27,759 Speaker 2: her mind and just say what's in her soul? 1109 00:53:27,880 --> 00:53:31,440 Speaker 3: Yeah, no, it's a it's he he needed that, he 1110 00:53:31,520 --> 00:53:34,879 Speaker 3: needed to be brought low by that because like it's 1111 00:53:34,960 --> 00:53:37,520 Speaker 3: just like when he was taking people down without killing 1112 00:53:37,520 --> 00:53:42,640 Speaker 3: them like pain, like and in that that you know. 1113 00:53:42,560 --> 00:53:45,200 Speaker 2: There are worse things than death. Yeah, it's like the 1114 00:53:45,280 --> 00:53:47,279 Speaker 2: cinematic moment, right, because in this case it's one hundred 1115 00:53:47,280 --> 00:53:50,040 Speaker 2: percent real. And Pietro Junior he gets to fully savor 1116 00:53:50,080 --> 00:53:52,640 Speaker 2: the moment for his mother, so it's like, yeah, it's 1117 00:53:52,680 --> 00:53:54,319 Speaker 2: just a really nice moment. And as he told me, 1118 00:53:54,400 --> 00:53:56,520 Speaker 2: her legacy inspires him to this day to be the 1119 00:53:56,600 --> 00:53:58,560 Speaker 2: parent he is, to be as loving as president he 1120 00:53:58,680 --> 00:54:01,200 Speaker 2: is with his daughter, which is so obviously the polar 1121 00:54:01,200 --> 00:54:02,440 Speaker 2: opposite of his father. 1122 00:54:03,600 --> 00:54:08,120 Speaker 5: Well, I have one kid. My daughters is ten years old. 1123 00:54:08,600 --> 00:54:11,960 Speaker 5: Her name is Gabriela Mariaca Maria because of her grandma, 1124 00:54:13,000 --> 00:54:16,680 Speaker 5: and she never got to meet her, neither did my wife. Right, 1125 00:54:17,880 --> 00:54:22,120 Speaker 5: But I tell her that her granddad was a bad guy, 1126 00:54:23,600 --> 00:54:27,000 Speaker 5: that I loved him, but I didn't like him. I 1127 00:54:27,040 --> 00:54:29,960 Speaker 5: didn't like what he stood for. I didn't like certain 1128 00:54:30,000 --> 00:54:33,040 Speaker 5: things about his life, but that he did provide for 1129 00:54:33,160 --> 00:54:38,239 Speaker 5: me the things that I needed, and that ultimately we 1130 00:54:38,280 --> 00:54:40,560 Speaker 5: didn't see eye and I. And that's one thing I 1131 00:54:40,680 --> 00:54:42,719 Speaker 5: tell her this, I'd never want that between you and me. 1132 00:54:43,520 --> 00:54:45,880 Speaker 5: I want you and I to have open lines of communication. 1133 00:54:46,000 --> 00:54:48,080 Speaker 5: I want you to be able to tell your dad 1134 00:54:48,080 --> 00:54:50,440 Speaker 5: that you're mad at him and me not fly off 1135 00:54:50,480 --> 00:54:52,799 Speaker 5: the handle or me be mad at you and not 1136 00:54:52,920 --> 00:54:56,440 Speaker 5: have to break out a belt or have to hit you. 1137 00:54:56,840 --> 00:54:59,000 Speaker 5: And I don't. I won't touch my daughter like that. 1138 00:54:59,000 --> 00:55:03,640 Speaker 5: That's that's just doesn't happen, right. I gave her a 1139 00:55:03,680 --> 00:55:06,160 Speaker 5: slap on the booty one time, I cried for a 1140 00:55:06,280 --> 00:55:12,120 Speaker 5: night and never did it again. So I'm very candid 1141 00:55:12,200 --> 00:55:15,560 Speaker 5: with her on who her grandfather was. But I'm also 1142 00:55:15,680 --> 00:55:18,440 Speaker 5: very candid on who her grandmother was. And if I 1143 00:55:18,440 --> 00:55:21,080 Speaker 5: could show you a picture right now, they're identical. 1144 00:55:21,880 --> 00:55:22,479 Speaker 4: Isn't that nice? 1145 00:55:22,600 --> 00:55:23,640 Speaker 3: Wow? Yeah? 1146 00:55:23,760 --> 00:55:26,000 Speaker 2: For a final word on who he is, whose father was, 1147 00:55:26,040 --> 00:55:28,239 Speaker 2: how his family lived through all this, and how it 1148 00:55:28,280 --> 00:55:30,200 Speaker 2: inspired him to become a better man. 1149 00:55:30,440 --> 00:55:33,040 Speaker 4: Pietro Legrecor. He tells me, I don't have a job 1150 00:55:33,120 --> 00:55:33,600 Speaker 4: right now. 1151 00:55:34,040 --> 00:55:36,040 Speaker 5: If anything that I want to do in this world 1152 00:55:36,120 --> 00:55:41,000 Speaker 5: is to spell that I am very much not my 1153 00:55:41,120 --> 00:55:44,640 Speaker 5: father and really tell that story and say, hey, I'm 1154 00:55:44,680 --> 00:55:48,200 Speaker 5: nothing like this man, like, let's see what happens. Let me, 1155 00:55:48,280 --> 00:55:51,799 Speaker 5: let's go for it. And we went for it, and 1156 00:55:51,800 --> 00:55:54,239 Speaker 5: that's how it came about. I don't want to say 1157 00:55:54,280 --> 00:55:57,560 Speaker 5: like I had a monumental epiphany to do it, but. 1158 00:55:57,560 --> 00:55:59,520 Speaker 4: He did in my opinion, right, I mean you can 1159 00:55:59,640 --> 00:56:02,800 Speaker 4: hear it. Oh yeah, there's the story of the Pietro 1160 00:56:04,520 --> 00:56:07,560 Speaker 4: and his mother Maria, the family, the uncle, the grandfather, 1161 00:56:07,719 --> 00:56:11,279 Speaker 4: the whole bit. Elizabeth, what is our ridiculous takeaway here? 1162 00:56:11,640 --> 00:56:15,640 Speaker 3: I think it's it should always be understood that the 1163 00:56:15,840 --> 00:56:21,560 Speaker 3: stories that we tell here are in general of characters 1164 00:56:22,400 --> 00:56:25,040 Speaker 3: and so and I've said this before. I think I 1165 00:56:25,080 --> 00:56:30,000 Speaker 3: said it on the air Rage one, that we're capturing 1166 00:56:30,680 --> 00:56:33,960 Speaker 3: like people's stupidest decisions. 1167 00:56:33,920 --> 00:56:35,720 Speaker 4: Some of their worst moments, and sometimes they. 1168 00:56:35,600 --> 00:56:38,440 Speaker 3: Do these these bad decisions over and over and over 1169 00:56:38,400 --> 00:56:42,160 Speaker 3: again and their life. But what we're talking about is 1170 00:56:42,200 --> 00:56:46,080 Speaker 3: the character like this like caricature of a person. And 1171 00:56:46,160 --> 00:56:49,000 Speaker 3: I think it's good for us to remind ourselves but 1172 00:56:49,080 --> 00:56:53,560 Speaker 3: also know that we always have to understand that there 1173 00:56:53,600 --> 00:56:58,040 Speaker 3: are far more complex human beings behind the silly stories. 1174 00:56:58,080 --> 00:57:01,759 Speaker 3: That we tell. And so here I think about had 1175 00:57:01,800 --> 00:57:04,480 Speaker 3: you not interviewed him, and had we just told his 1176 00:57:04,600 --> 00:57:08,120 Speaker 3: father's story straight up, how different that would be exactly. 1177 00:57:08,239 --> 00:57:11,640 Speaker 3: But it's the same story exactly, And so we had, 1178 00:57:11,880 --> 00:57:15,520 Speaker 3: you know. Every now and then we get communications from 1179 00:57:15,560 --> 00:57:19,240 Speaker 3: listeners who maybe have a knowledge of our relationship to 1180 00:57:20,000 --> 00:57:22,800 Speaker 3: who we're taught, who we have talked about, and they 1181 00:57:22,800 --> 00:57:25,720 Speaker 3: get upset and it's like, I get that, But at 1182 00:57:25,760 --> 00:57:29,120 Speaker 3: the same time, A, this is entertainment. B. We are 1183 00:57:29,240 --> 00:57:32,520 Speaker 3: telling a caricature of that. And I think that we 1184 00:57:32,640 --> 00:57:35,000 Speaker 3: all need to we all understand it, but we need 1185 00:57:35,040 --> 00:57:37,320 Speaker 3: to kind of reaffirm it. And this does it. This 1186 00:57:37,400 --> 00:57:40,840 Speaker 3: interview does it where you see the complexity behind the scenes. 1187 00:57:41,000 --> 00:57:44,080 Speaker 3: Every human being is complex, as Walt Whitman said, I 1188 00:57:44,160 --> 00:57:47,920 Speaker 3: contain multitudes totally, And so you know, it's it's a 1189 00:57:47,920 --> 00:57:51,000 Speaker 3: good reminder, but then also to have it done so 1190 00:57:51,240 --> 00:57:56,880 Speaker 3: beautifully like Pietro Junior an incredible storyteller and a resilient, 1191 00:57:57,240 --> 00:58:01,200 Speaker 3: wonderful human being. And I I want him to have 1192 00:58:01,280 --> 00:58:03,400 Speaker 3: all the good things, you know what I mean, And 1193 00:58:03,520 --> 00:58:08,160 Speaker 3: he's tasted the good things from ill gotten gains, but 1194 00:58:08,280 --> 00:58:11,080 Speaker 3: he's also tasted the good things from purity of heart 1195 00:58:11,200 --> 00:58:14,400 Speaker 3: of you know, having that love for his daughter. So yeah, 1196 00:58:14,400 --> 00:58:18,400 Speaker 3: I thank you is my takeaway to you for for 1197 00:58:18,480 --> 00:58:18,880 Speaker 3: hooking this. 1198 00:58:19,640 --> 00:58:25,360 Speaker 2: Thank you this amazing. Go check his podcast, Go buy 1199 00:58:25,360 --> 00:58:26,920 Speaker 2: his book. I mean go check it all out. It's 1200 00:58:26,920 --> 00:58:28,840 Speaker 2: a fantastic story. He's a great storyteller. 1201 00:58:28,880 --> 00:58:30,440 Speaker 4: And uh, I like that. 1202 00:58:30,840 --> 00:58:33,840 Speaker 2: He reminded me that we use ridiculous as a modifier 1203 00:58:33,840 --> 00:58:35,600 Speaker 2: for crime, but we're telling crime stories. 1204 00:58:35,720 --> 00:58:40,160 Speaker 3: Yes, we're not ridiculous people like they're ridiculous crimes. The 1205 00:58:40,200 --> 00:58:40,800 Speaker 3: crimes are. 1206 00:58:40,880 --> 00:58:43,640 Speaker 4: Yeah, so without a side, thank you for asking my 1207 00:58:43,680 --> 00:58:44,920 Speaker 4: ridiculous takeaway is Elizabeth? 1208 00:58:45,920 --> 00:58:46,800 Speaker 3: All right, what is it? 1209 00:58:46,840 --> 00:58:48,520 Speaker 4: I'll tell you this. Do you want to hear a talkback? 1210 00:58:49,040 --> 00:58:49,240 Speaker 6: Yeah? 1211 00:58:49,520 --> 00:58:56,560 Speaker 4: Okay, can you favor us with a talkbag? Oh? 1212 00:59:01,120 --> 00:59:09,200 Speaker 3: I get hey, Elizabeth Zaren, producer Dean Interns. So I 1213 00:59:09,240 --> 00:59:11,959 Speaker 3: do pole sport and dance, but recently suffered a knee 1214 00:59:11,960 --> 00:59:13,919 Speaker 3: injury that's taking me out of the game for a bit. 1215 00:59:14,520 --> 00:59:16,680 Speaker 3: But I think y'all might like to know that the 1216 00:59:16,720 --> 00:59:19,040 Speaker 3: first thing I did after hurting myself was getting me 1217 00:59:19,080 --> 00:59:22,040 Speaker 3: to meet me at sloth Shirt still got to represent 1218 00:59:23,000 --> 00:59:25,440 Speaker 3: Oh my god, you know, there's always a place for 1219 00:59:25,520 --> 00:59:26,880 Speaker 3: you slots yes. 1220 00:59:27,000 --> 00:59:29,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, you can actually be like a trainer if you'd 1221 00:59:29,880 --> 00:59:32,640 Speaker 2: like to slats to teach the other girls how to 1222 00:59:32,720 --> 00:59:34,000 Speaker 2: lay down better to. 1223 00:59:34,960 --> 00:59:38,640 Speaker 3: Stay stiller exactly, how to how to establish a full 1224 00:59:38,720 --> 00:59:41,919 Speaker 3: cozy zone. I love a good cozy zone. 1225 00:59:42,040 --> 00:59:45,240 Speaker 4: Lord knows it well as always. 1226 00:59:45,240 --> 00:59:46,960 Speaker 2: You can find us online a Ridiculous Crime on the 1227 00:59:46,960 --> 00:59:50,040 Speaker 2: social media's and we have our website, ridiculous Crime dot com. 1228 00:59:50,080 --> 00:59:52,600 Speaker 2: It has been recently I think a nominated for a 1229 00:59:53,280 --> 00:59:55,680 Speaker 2: Golden Globe and a Golden Globe excellent. 1230 00:59:55,680 --> 00:59:57,360 Speaker 4: I'm very excited. I hope we beat Timothy Shallama. 1231 00:59:57,560 --> 00:59:59,800 Speaker 3: Yes with a golden Globe. 1232 01:00:01,400 --> 01:00:04,160 Speaker 4: In the park. Because obviously we love your talkback. So 1233 01:00:04,200 --> 01:00:06,400 Speaker 4: please go to the iHeart app, download it record one. 1234 01:00:06,600 --> 01:00:09,560 Speaker 4: Maybe you'll et your voice and he can also email 1235 01:00:09,600 --> 01:00:11,400 Speaker 4: us if you like Ridiculous Crime at gmail dot com. 1236 01:00:11,440 --> 01:00:13,760 Speaker 4: If you do, please start the email dear producer Dee, 1237 01:00:14,720 --> 01:00:18,240 Speaker 4: and thank you for listening. We will catch you next crime. 1238 01:00:24,560 --> 01:00:27,360 Speaker 2: Ridiculous Crime is hosted by Elizabeth Dutton and Zaren Burnette, 1239 01:00:27,520 --> 01:00:31,280 Speaker 2: produced and edited by Mexico's most notorious money tailor, a 1240 01:00:31,360 --> 01:00:34,400 Speaker 2: man who can sew back together ripped money, Dave Coustin. 1241 01:00:34,720 --> 01:00:36,800 Speaker 4: He's Starry an Alice Rutger as Judith. 1242 01:00:36,920 --> 01:00:39,960 Speaker 2: Research is by the inventor of the money washing laundry machine, 1243 01:00:40,040 --> 01:00:43,400 Speaker 2: Marissa Brown. Our theme song is by San Diego's favorite son, 1244 01:00:43,480 --> 01:00:46,600 Speaker 2: Thomas Lee and Oakland's Man of the Year Travis Dutton. 1245 01:00:46,800 --> 01:00:49,920 Speaker 2: The host wardrobe provided by Body five Under, guest hair 1246 01:00:50,000 --> 01:00:53,920 Speaker 2: and makeup by Sparkle Shock and Mister Under. Executive producers 1247 01:00:53,960 --> 01:00:57,760 Speaker 2: are two time Mexican Cartel Bowling champs Ben Bowling and. 1248 01:00:57,760 --> 01:01:10,680 Speaker 3: No Bra Ridicous Crime Say It One More Time Ridiquious Crime. 1249 01:01:11,720 --> 01:01:15,080 Speaker 1: Ridiculous Crime is a production of iHeartRadio. Four more podcasts 1250 01:01:15,080 --> 01:01:18,240 Speaker 1: from my heart Radio. Visit the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, 1251 01:01:18,320 --> 01:01:20,160 Speaker 1: or wherever you listen to your favorite shows.