WEBVTT - Second Date Update PODCAST: Stood Up In Seattle

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<v Speaker 1>Second dat Day. The girl that's on the phone to

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<v Speaker 1>do a second date update today actually got stood up

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<v Speaker 1>completely for her first date, but she feels like it

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<v Speaker 1>might be her fault. Really yeah. Normally when somebody get

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<v Speaker 1>stood up, there angry at the other person, like I

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<v Speaker 1>just want to get him on the phone so I

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<v Speaker 1>can yell at them. But she feels like she might

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<v Speaker 1>have actually screwed up and maybe understands why this guy

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<v Speaker 1>didn't show up for her date. Amy, how are you hi? Guys?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm okay. First of all, did he just stand you

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<v Speaker 1>up completely? Yeah? I mean that's pretty much it. I

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<v Speaker 1>waited at the bar and waited and waited, and I

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<v Speaker 1>never saw anyone. I didn't hear from him. That's like

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<v Speaker 1>the worst feeling. Ever, how long did you wait? Well?

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<v Speaker 1>I was there for like thirty minutes when I started

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<v Speaker 1>to wonder if I should maybe like text or call,

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<v Speaker 1>and then right around forty five five minutes. I'm kind

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<v Speaker 1>of patient, I guess yea, and I checked him and

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<v Speaker 1>didn't hear anything back, and then I called him and

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<v Speaker 1>no answer to that either. Yeah, so I probably waited

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<v Speaker 1>about an hour total. Okay. And how did you meet

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<v Speaker 1>this guy? I met him online? Okay? And how long

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<v Speaker 1>had you been talking before you decided to meet up.

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<v Speaker 1>We were trying to like two weeks, and we had

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<v Speaker 1>pretty lengthy conversations, and I really felt like I knew

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<v Speaker 1>this guy, and you know, knew a lot about him.

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<v Speaker 1>And I mean, I don't know if any of you

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<v Speaker 1>have done online dating, but it's pretty clear. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>the guys that are just looking for one thing, and

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<v Speaker 1>they pretty much get to the point really quick. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>most guys aren't going to spend two weeks figuring out

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<v Speaker 1>who you are and what you like unless they're good

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<v Speaker 1>at it idea that that's all they want. So you

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<v Speaker 1>just made plans to meet at this bar and then

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<v Speaker 1>you're waiting there for like forty five minutes, And what's

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<v Speaker 1>going through your mind while you're waiting for him? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of things. I know that he lives like

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<v Speaker 1>twenty five minutes away, so that was one of the

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<v Speaker 1>things I thought, Well, you know, maybe he's stuck in traffic, okay, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>a little while, because if he lived right down the street,

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<v Speaker 1>he was forty five minutes late, you'd be like, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>he's definitely standing me up. So you thought maybe it

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<v Speaker 1>was a traffic issue. Yeah, And so I taxed him

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<v Speaker 1>initially and just was like, you know, everything okay, And

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't hear anything back, and so then I thought, well,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe he's in an accident or something. And that's the

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<v Speaker 1>kind of the point where you like start to not

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<v Speaker 1>necessarily hope that he's in an accident, not like a

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<v Speaker 1>bad accident where he's injured, but you know, I hope

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<v Speaker 1>maybe he got like a little bit of an accident

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<v Speaker 1>so that he's not standing me up. Right. So your

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<v Speaker 1>email did say though that you feel like it might

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<v Speaker 1>be your fault that he stood you up. And why

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<v Speaker 1>is that you never really actually explained it. Yeah, So

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<v Speaker 1>I told it's like a tiny, tiny white lie on

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<v Speaker 1>the dating profile, okay, And what was your white lie?

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<v Speaker 1>And thirty two and I said that I was twenty

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<v Speaker 1>five had lied about your age seven years That is

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<v Speaker 1>a big age different and Samy, I mean, you know

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<v Speaker 1>how it is guys want younger women and at the time,

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<v Speaker 1>it seems like the right thing to do. And did

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<v Speaker 1>you ever come clean about this? No? I had not

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<v Speaker 1>come clean. That's my thought is that maybe he googled

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<v Speaker 1>me or you know, facebooks to me or so what

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, you've been online dating a lot. You said,

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<v Speaker 1>what do you do when guys show up they think

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<v Speaker 1>you're twenty five and you're actually thirty two? How do

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<v Speaker 1>you break that to him? I mean, I don't think

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<v Speaker 1>that I looked that much different than I did, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I was using a picture from a few

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<v Speaker 1>years ago, But I really don't think that, Gami, you

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<v Speaker 1>were cat fishing him. Here's the deal. Once you hit

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<v Speaker 1>the thirty mark, you get less messages from people. People

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<v Speaker 1>are just not as interested. And so you know, putting

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<v Speaker 1>that I'm twenty five, I simply get more messages and

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<v Speaker 1>more people are willing to look at me, and then

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<v Speaker 1>potentially Amy, I know where you're coming from. Look, if

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<v Speaker 1>I were to do online dating, all right, I never have.

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<v Speaker 1>But if I were my profile picture and would have

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<v Speaker 1>been Mario Lopez, so I can understand where you're coming from.

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<v Speaker 1>You want to make yourself seem a little more attractive,

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<v Speaker 1>and this is the only thing that you can think

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<v Speaker 1>of is that maybe he found out your real age exactly.

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<v Speaker 1>So are you wanting to call and apologize and see

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<v Speaker 1>if you can make good with that? Well, I honestly

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<v Speaker 1>just want to find out what it is, you know

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<v Speaker 1>by sitting up. All right, we'll play a song, come back,

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<v Speaker 1>call him and get your second date update. Okay, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, hang on brooking jubil. In the morning, Amy

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<v Speaker 1>is on the phone with us and she wants to

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<v Speaker 1>call a guy named Craig today because Craig stood her

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<v Speaker 1>up for her date. But Amy feels like it might

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<v Speaker 1>be her fault because they met online and Amy lied

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<v Speaker 1>about her age by seven years. She's thirty two years old,

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<v Speaker 1>said that she was twenty five. She thinks maybe that

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<v Speaker 1>he googled her or maybe showed up and saw her

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<v Speaker 1>and realize that she wasn't twenty five and then just

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<v Speaker 1>decided to split. She hasn't heard anything from him after

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<v Speaker 1>waiting for like forty five minutes, so we're gonna call,

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<v Speaker 1>try to get him on the phone and see if

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<v Speaker 1>we can find out if that's the reason. Amy. I

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<v Speaker 1>was thinking about it, and I don't think that he

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<v Speaker 1>stood you up because you lied about your age. You know, No,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't, because if I showed up and you said

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<v Speaker 1>you were twenty five, and then I saw that you

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<v Speaker 1>were like in your thirties, I would have definitely stayed

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<v Speaker 1>and came and talked to you, because it's probably a

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<v Speaker 1>sure thing because you're older and you're running out of

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<v Speaker 1>time and you gotta get it in while you can.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what I mean. I know that it's probably

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<v Speaker 1>gonna happen with you. Yeah right, nice. Okay, Well, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>gonna dial the phone um right now, see if we

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<v Speaker 1>get him on the phone and find out why he

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<v Speaker 1>stood you up. Okay, all right, all right, here we go. Hello,

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<v Speaker 1>I speak to Craig. Please, Hey, Craig, how are you.

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<v Speaker 1>This is Jewel from Brook and jew in the Morning too, Sorry,

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<v Speaker 1>Jebil from brook and Jewil in the Morning the radio show. Hi. Hi,

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<v Speaker 1>how are you fine? Sorry? Why are you calling? I'm

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<v Speaker 1>calling because you recently sort of went out on a

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<v Speaker 1>date with a listener of ours and they wanted us

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<v Speaker 1>to get a hold of you. Oh wow, And I

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<v Speaker 1>say sort of went out on a date because you

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<v Speaker 1>never actually showed up to the date. You're talking about, Amy, Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>I am talking about Amy. She emailed us and told

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<v Speaker 1>us that you guys have been talking online and made

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<v Speaker 1>plans to meet up at a bar and then you know,

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<v Speaker 1>showed I'm sorry. So she called you and wanted you

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<v Speaker 1>to call me yep or yeah, because apparently you haven't

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<v Speaker 1>answered any of her phone calls or texts or anything

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<v Speaker 1>like that. Oh um, Okay, so she's upset about it.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what, Well, we talked to her, and she's

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<v Speaker 1>not really as upset as you think you would be

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<v Speaker 1>if somebody made you wait at a bar for forty

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<v Speaker 1>five minutes and didn't answer any text messages or phone

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<v Speaker 1>calls from them. She just kind of wants to know why.

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<v Speaker 1>It's really complicated and it's not her fault. That's important

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<v Speaker 1>for her. No I should have texted her. Okay, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>if it's not her fault, can you tell us what

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<v Speaker 1>it is so that we can let her know, Because

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, you can imagine if you're in her shoes

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<v Speaker 1>and you make plans to meet with somebody that you

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<v Speaker 1>think is cool and then they don't show up, it

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<v Speaker 1>upset you a little bit, even if you're not like

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<v Speaker 1>outwardly upset at that person. Yeah, I can I could

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<v Speaker 1>see how yeah, so could you do her that favor

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<v Speaker 1>and let us know why you would stand her up?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I had every intention of meeting her and

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<v Speaker 1>going on data, so we planned, but I live in

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<v Speaker 1>too while then I just couldn't go through with it.

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<v Speaker 1>What because you live in pu Allap? Well, I mean

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<v Speaker 1>kind of it's it's a long story, but basically the

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<v Speaker 1>situation that just makes it very difficult. Are you You're

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<v Speaker 1>embarrassed because you live in pu Allap I'm more confused.

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<v Speaker 1>You say you have a situation. I'd like to find

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<v Speaker 1>out what that means. But I'm confused why you just

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<v Speaker 1>mentioned the cities. Basically I live in Pulp and I

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<v Speaker 1>don't go into Seattle very much ever, Okay, I mean

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<v Speaker 1>the last time I was there was probably two years ago,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, and it's it's not that far away by distance,

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<v Speaker 1>but for me, going into the city tends to stress

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<v Speaker 1>me out. And I the culture I got the Seattle,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, kind of my seers were building and kind

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<v Speaker 1>of started to overwhelm me. Is it the traffic, It's traffic,

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<v Speaker 1>it's people. There's a lot of tall buildings and that's

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<v Speaker 1>basically a lot of movements. And I honestly don't know

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<v Speaker 1>how you guys do it. Like you walk down just

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<v Speaker 1>a regular street in a city and there's so many

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<v Speaker 1>sounds you don't know where they're coming from. Like there's

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<v Speaker 1>people everywhere, cars, traffic alone is enough to just like

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<v Speaker 1>freak me out. You know, there's people changing lanes not

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<v Speaker 1>even signaling. So many bad drivers. How do you guys

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<v Speaker 1>even operate? So correct me if I'm wrong, Craig, it

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<v Speaker 1>sounds like you were scared of the city. I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>scared of itarly, but it's it's just really really frightened

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<v Speaker 1>of it. It just breaks out into gold. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>have nightmares about it or anything. I'm you know, like

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<v Speaker 1>it's not like a horror movie for me. But it's

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<v Speaker 1>just a lot I understand. And that's something that's hard

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<v Speaker 1>to tell somebody before you've even had your first day. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, like what am I supposed to do? Text

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<v Speaker 1>her and say sorry, I'm scared of the big city.

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<v Speaker 1>Just I'm a little country boy and I can't possibly

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<v Speaker 1>drive in with all those cars and people. You know what, Craig,

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<v Speaker 1>I made a lot of people like you after my

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<v Speaker 1>comedy shows when I do them, like in pop and

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<v Speaker 1>stuff like that. They talk about the city of Seattle

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<v Speaker 1>like it's foreign, like they've never gone there, and they're

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<v Speaker 1>just like, I can't even drive in there because the

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<v Speaker 1>traffic scares me, and I hate going there. Anytime I

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<v Speaker 1>inte friends from Tacoma, they're always like, oh, I hate

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<v Speaker 1>coming to Seattle traffic. I'm sorry, but he is playing

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<v Speaker 1>such a victim role here when he's the one that

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<v Speaker 1>stood this girl up and you never even sent her

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<v Speaker 1>a text, like you could have made up any other

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<v Speaker 1>excuse in the world. You didn't even have to tell

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<v Speaker 1>her the truth. I'm not a liar. I didn't want

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<v Speaker 1>to lie to her and also get into something else where,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, she didn't know the real truth, so I

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<v Speaker 1>just figured it was easier to not you know, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>But I do have to let you know that Amy

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<v Speaker 1>is actually on the other line and heard everything that

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<v Speaker 1>you just said. Hi, Craig, Oh my god, Oh my gosh.

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<v Speaker 1>So I um, I really wasn't sure why you stood

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<v Speaker 1>me up that I really never would have guessed that

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<v Speaker 1>it's because you're scared of and yeah, I mean, why

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<v Speaker 1>would you go to that, I know, And mean, why

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<v Speaker 1>didn't you just tell me? You know? What I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I just I waited there, and then I spent this

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<v Speaker 1>whole time wondering what did I do make you? Because

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<v Speaker 1>I really liked you, and all you had to do is,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, answer my text message or answer I know,

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<v Speaker 1>I just didn't know how to tell you. And yeah, Craig,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean listen, Craig Amy is a thirty two year

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<v Speaker 1>old woman. Okay, she can she can handle the news

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<v Speaker 1>that you have trouble going to the city. Maybe twenty five?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh did I did I make a mistake there? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>She's twenty five? Yeah, I mean, actually she's thirty two?

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<v Speaker 1>Really talking about so, I guess you both have something

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<v Speaker 1>that you kind of didn't tell each other, right, say,

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<v Speaker 1>that's messed up. That is messed up. I figured now

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<v Speaker 1>you both can come clean about everything. Are you really

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<v Speaker 1>thirty two? Kind of kind of sad? Really? I just

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<v Speaker 1>didn't even you were kind of be attracted to me

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<v Speaker 1>if I was thirty two, or you wouldn't have messaged

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<v Speaker 1>me or honestly, I thought you were really mature twenty

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<v Speaker 1>five year old, but I'm not. I have no problem

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<v Speaker 1>with you being thirty two. It's a little weird that

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<v Speaker 1>you lied to me, but I guess I kind of

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<v Speaker 1>hit things from you too. Yeah, and you made her

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<v Speaker 1>way to a bar for forty five minutes, Craig, So

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<v Speaker 1>maybe give her a break on the age thing? All right? Okay? Yeah, Craig,

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<v Speaker 1>would you like a second date with Amy? I will

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<v Speaker 1>pay for it. I don't know how it would work

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<v Speaker 1>because I don't like to go to Seattle and she

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<v Speaker 1>probably doesn't want to come to me, and you know,

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<v Speaker 1>it's kind of one or the other. I mean, at

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<v Speaker 1>least we could meet in the middle, maybe, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>so I'm not always traveling, and maybe you could ride

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<v Speaker 1>back with me sometimes and you'll be with me and

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<v Speaker 1>we'll you'll be safe, you won't get robbed, Craig. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>So what do you think? Can you guys find a

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<v Speaker 1>way to make this crazy long distance relationship of yours work? Craig?

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<v Speaker 1>Have you ever been to the metropolis called Written? Yes?

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<v Speaker 1>Yes you have. Okay, so you know where that is?

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<v Speaker 1>What if we have you guys meet there? Um, that

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<v Speaker 1>should be fine? Okay with that? Yeah, Craig. It's a

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<v Speaker 1>city that Craig can handle. And Amy you know where

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<v Speaker 1>that is? You don't mind traveling at all, not at all? Okay? Perfect?

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<v Speaker 1>And congratulations you guys you got your second date Amy, well,

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<v Speaker 1>first date, I guess, because he never showed up on

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<v Speaker 1>the first one. But whatever, I'm super excited. Yeah. I

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<v Speaker 1>promise I will be there and if I'm not there

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<v Speaker 1>then I will call. Okay, I promise I will be

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<v Speaker 1>there unless the parking lot is full. Too many a

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<v Speaker 1>broken jupil in the morning. Nice to meet you.