1 00:00:00,480 --> 00:00:05,400 Speaker 1: Wake that answer up in the morning. The Breakfast Club Morning. 2 00:00:05,400 --> 00:00:09,520 Speaker 2: Everybody is DJ Envy Jess Hilarious, Charlamagne the guy. We 3 00:00:09,560 --> 00:00:11,840 Speaker 2: are the Breakfast Club. He got some special guest joining 4 00:00:11,880 --> 00:00:12,520 Speaker 2: us this morning. 5 00:00:12,600 --> 00:00:13,160 Speaker 3: That's right. 6 00:00:13,240 --> 00:00:16,120 Speaker 4: We have Kerrie Washington and Delroy Lindo. 7 00:00:16,280 --> 00:00:20,040 Speaker 3: Welcome, Thank you, Good morning to you both. 8 00:00:20,440 --> 00:00:22,920 Speaker 5: Carrie, first and foremost, How are you you still catching 9 00:00:22,960 --> 00:00:24,680 Speaker 5: COVID like a twenty twenty right? 10 00:00:27,000 --> 00:00:29,600 Speaker 6: I am, I'm back in the twenty twenty era. God 11 00:00:29,680 --> 00:00:33,400 Speaker 6: help us. I'm doing okay. I'm getting better one day 12 00:00:33,400 --> 00:00:36,440 Speaker 6: at a time. But thank you for being able to 13 00:00:36,479 --> 00:00:38,559 Speaker 6: do this virtually because I love our show and I 14 00:00:38,560 --> 00:00:40,400 Speaker 6: want to be able to talk about our show and 15 00:00:40,440 --> 00:00:41,680 Speaker 6: not get anybody else sick. 16 00:00:43,360 --> 00:00:44,040 Speaker 3: That's Delroy. 17 00:00:44,040 --> 00:00:46,200 Speaker 1: How you doing, brother, I'm doing well. I'm doing very well. 18 00:00:46,240 --> 00:00:48,600 Speaker 5: Thank you, go well man s Luthor You Delroy the 19 00:00:48,680 --> 00:00:51,519 Speaker 5: legend you've been. You've been acting for almost fifty years. 20 00:00:51,720 --> 00:00:52,600 Speaker 5: I haven't been fifty. 21 00:00:53,120 --> 00:00:56,160 Speaker 1: Uh I lose track, but somewhere around there. Yeah, what 22 00:00:56,640 --> 00:00:58,720 Speaker 1: does that mean to you? What does it mean to me? 23 00:00:59,200 --> 00:01:01,959 Speaker 1: You know what I'm really I feel fortunate that I'm 24 00:01:01,960 --> 00:01:05,040 Speaker 1: still working to be honest man knock on wood and 25 00:01:05,520 --> 00:01:09,160 Speaker 1: still doing work that people seem interested in that feels 26 00:01:09,200 --> 00:01:12,319 Speaker 1: real good, and this feels good being involved with a 27 00:01:12,360 --> 00:01:15,240 Speaker 1: project like this, isn't that right? 28 00:01:15,280 --> 00:01:20,200 Speaker 6: In his Washington I was just thinking, we're the lucky ones, 29 00:01:20,360 --> 00:01:24,120 Speaker 6: you know that he's still working because he is. To me, 30 00:01:24,280 --> 00:01:27,600 Speaker 6: Delwar is one of our national treasures. He's like, he's 31 00:01:27,600 --> 00:01:30,720 Speaker 6: an og He's on my mount rushmore of acting. So 32 00:01:31,240 --> 00:01:35,199 Speaker 6: that he's still doing it is so generous really, because 33 00:01:35,240 --> 00:01:38,080 Speaker 6: he could be like, I'm good, I've brought my a game. 34 00:01:38,120 --> 00:01:41,080 Speaker 6: Everybody knows how good I am. But he's still like 35 00:01:41,240 --> 00:01:44,600 Speaker 6: invested in everything he does. He makes better because he's 36 00:01:44,640 --> 00:01:46,760 Speaker 6: in it. So we're blessed that he's. 37 00:01:46,560 --> 00:01:49,080 Speaker 5: Still working and he just brings us joy, not because 38 00:01:49,080 --> 00:01:51,200 Speaker 5: of his you know craft. You know, whenever we get 39 00:01:51,240 --> 00:01:53,200 Speaker 5: a glimpse of that meme where he's dancing in the 40 00:01:53,200 --> 00:01:57,240 Speaker 5: club in Five Bloods, that didn't look like acting to 41 00:01:57,280 --> 00:01:59,040 Speaker 5: me though, like he was just having a good time. 42 00:01:59,120 --> 00:02:02,040 Speaker 1: I like the energy, So you know what, that's that's 43 00:02:02,080 --> 00:02:06,440 Speaker 1: a that's a good example of something having caught on. 44 00:02:06,800 --> 00:02:09,280 Speaker 1: I had that I had no idea about, you know, 45 00:02:09,320 --> 00:02:12,639 Speaker 1: but it's it's it's a terrific kind of example of 46 00:02:13,240 --> 00:02:17,440 Speaker 1: the work kind of reaching a broader audience. The fact 47 00:02:17,480 --> 00:02:19,800 Speaker 1: that it gets on to social media like that becomes 48 00:02:19,840 --> 00:02:23,520 Speaker 1: like a thing in itself, which is which is an 49 00:02:23,520 --> 00:02:27,280 Speaker 1: added an added bonus to UH to being an actor 50 00:02:27,320 --> 00:02:29,519 Speaker 1: and working because you know, when we're doing that scene, 51 00:02:29,560 --> 00:02:31,359 Speaker 1: I didn't think about that. I didn't think that it 52 00:02:31,440 --> 00:02:33,360 Speaker 1: was going to be on social media like that. So 53 00:02:33,800 --> 00:02:34,440 Speaker 1: it's it's good. 54 00:02:34,880 --> 00:02:36,000 Speaker 3: How many times you had to do that take? 55 00:02:36,919 --> 00:02:44,120 Speaker 1: You know what? We did it maybe twice because Spike 56 00:02:44,240 --> 00:02:47,480 Speaker 1: thought about it in the moment. It was literally, we're 57 00:02:47,480 --> 00:02:49,720 Speaker 1: going to do no no, no. Yeah, that was not 58 00:02:49,840 --> 00:02:53,760 Speaker 1: that was not scripted, right. Wow, we were in the club. 59 00:02:53,760 --> 00:02:55,440 Speaker 1: We were doing another scene in the club. He said, 60 00:02:55,480 --> 00:02:58,400 Speaker 1: let's just do this, and I think we did it twice. Wow. 61 00:02:58,720 --> 00:03:00,920 Speaker 5: Yeah, who before we will get in the un prison 62 00:03:00,960 --> 00:03:02,840 Speaker 5: but before who, lets you know that that was going 63 00:03:02,880 --> 00:03:04,360 Speaker 5: so viral and still goes viral. 64 00:03:04,440 --> 00:03:08,040 Speaker 1: My son okay, my son and I started getting you know, 65 00:03:08,240 --> 00:03:09,920 Speaker 1: look at this, look at this, look at this, but 66 00:03:10,120 --> 00:03:13,440 Speaker 1: I I had no idea. 67 00:03:13,800 --> 00:03:14,000 Speaker 3: Now. 68 00:03:14,000 --> 00:03:16,560 Speaker 2: Season two of Unprisoned is out now on Hulu. For 69 00:03:16,560 --> 00:03:19,840 Speaker 2: people who've never seen, break down what Unprisoned is about. 70 00:03:19,960 --> 00:03:20,880 Speaker 4: Start from season one. 71 00:03:22,440 --> 00:03:24,960 Speaker 1: Carrie, you want to take that. I mean, I'm I'm 72 00:03:25,280 --> 00:03:28,120 Speaker 1: not only because I'm happy to talk about it, but 73 00:03:28,160 --> 00:03:31,360 Speaker 1: I want Carry to talk about it just because my 74 00:03:31,520 --> 00:03:35,000 Speaker 1: involvement with this. The reason I want Carry to talk 75 00:03:35,040 --> 00:03:38,160 Speaker 1: about it is because Carrie is the one who who 76 00:03:38,200 --> 00:03:42,880 Speaker 1: brought me into this project. And as I said last night, 77 00:03:44,120 --> 00:03:51,800 Speaker 1: I don't know if you heard this Carrie, but her leadership, 78 00:03:51,920 --> 00:03:57,640 Speaker 1: her relationship to this project, and because she has a 79 00:03:57,640 --> 00:04:01,000 Speaker 1: particular relationship to the project, she has a relationship to 80 00:04:01,080 --> 00:04:05,000 Speaker 1: everybody involved in the project. And she was the one 81 00:04:05,040 --> 00:04:08,000 Speaker 1: who reached out to me initially to say will you 82 00:04:08,120 --> 00:04:10,800 Speaker 1: come do this? So you know, it sits in her 83 00:04:10,920 --> 00:04:14,680 Speaker 1: heart in a way that I mean, I want her 84 00:04:14,720 --> 00:04:18,720 Speaker 1: to talk about it because she's partially responsible for getting 85 00:04:18,800 --> 00:04:23,120 Speaker 1: the thing off the ground. So you take it, Miss Washington, sir. 86 00:04:23,320 --> 00:04:25,320 Speaker 6: I mean, one of the things I love about being 87 00:04:25,360 --> 00:04:28,640 Speaker 6: a producer is that I get to be a part 88 00:04:28,720 --> 00:04:31,040 Speaker 6: of work like this with people that I so admire 89 00:04:31,120 --> 00:04:35,480 Speaker 6: and telling stories that I think matter. So this show 90 00:04:35,760 --> 00:04:39,719 Speaker 6: is inspired by the life of a woman named Tracy 91 00:04:39,800 --> 00:04:42,400 Speaker 6: McMillan whose dad was in and out of prison her 92 00:04:42,440 --> 00:04:47,400 Speaker 6: whole life, and it's really about this kind of intergenerational 93 00:04:47,480 --> 00:04:52,960 Speaker 6: relationship between a dad, his daughter, and his grandson, and 94 00:04:53,480 --> 00:04:56,000 Speaker 6: when the dad comes out of prison, he comes to 95 00:04:56,040 --> 00:04:58,320 Speaker 6: live with them and kind of how the three of 96 00:04:58,440 --> 00:05:03,000 Speaker 6: them figure out how to coexist. So it's about what 97 00:05:03,040 --> 00:05:05,400 Speaker 6: it's like to be a returning citizen, you know, when 98 00:05:05,400 --> 00:05:08,120 Speaker 6: you're leaving the system and trying to re enter into 99 00:05:08,120 --> 00:05:10,120 Speaker 6: the world. But it's also about what it means to 100 00:05:10,200 --> 00:05:13,839 Speaker 6: love a returning citizen and be in a family that's 101 00:05:13,960 --> 00:05:17,880 Speaker 6: grappling with how we are impacted by this so called 102 00:05:18,040 --> 00:05:23,400 Speaker 6: justice system. And it's so meaningful to me because there's 103 00:05:23,440 --> 00:05:26,400 Speaker 6: so many of us who have been impacted by the system, 104 00:05:26,440 --> 00:05:30,599 Speaker 6: who have family members who've been incarcerated or been incarcerated ourselves. 105 00:05:32,640 --> 00:05:34,760 Speaker 6: I mean, we did. We were at a film festival 106 00:05:34,839 --> 00:05:36,800 Speaker 6: last year when the show first aired, and we did 107 00:05:36,880 --> 00:05:40,039 Speaker 6: four sit down interviews, and three out of four of 108 00:05:40,080 --> 00:05:43,000 Speaker 6: the journalists had a parent who had been incarcerated, and 109 00:05:43,000 --> 00:05:45,559 Speaker 6: they were all different races too. I mean, this story, 110 00:05:45,600 --> 00:05:47,719 Speaker 6: I'm very proud. The story is very much the story 111 00:05:47,760 --> 00:05:51,880 Speaker 6: of a black family and the particular challenges and joy 112 00:05:51,960 --> 00:05:55,480 Speaker 6: that we experience, but this is also an American story, 113 00:05:55,520 --> 00:05:59,200 Speaker 6: like we are all dealing with the tragedy that is 114 00:05:59,240 --> 00:06:02,279 Speaker 6: the justice system in this country and how it impacts 115 00:06:02,360 --> 00:06:06,480 Speaker 6: us and for generations. But what I love. One thing 116 00:06:06,520 --> 00:06:08,640 Speaker 6: I would say is that you wouldn't think, having said 117 00:06:08,680 --> 00:06:10,599 Speaker 6: all that, you would think it's like like a very 118 00:06:10,760 --> 00:06:13,240 Speaker 6: heavy show. But part of what made me fall in 119 00:06:13,279 --> 00:06:15,200 Speaker 6: love with this show is that it's a comedy. I mean, 120 00:06:15,240 --> 00:06:19,080 Speaker 6: it's a dramedy, but there's a lot of joy and 121 00:06:19,240 --> 00:06:23,040 Speaker 6: love and laughter because that's also who we are as 122 00:06:23,040 --> 00:06:26,040 Speaker 6: a people, Like we are resilient, we are survivors, and 123 00:06:26,040 --> 00:06:31,920 Speaker 6: and this character that Delaware plays, Edwin, is like such 124 00:06:31,920 --> 00:06:38,360 Speaker 6: a beautiful example of how we may have stereotypes about 125 00:06:38,400 --> 00:06:39,960 Speaker 6: who's in the system. 126 00:06:39,880 --> 00:06:42,280 Speaker 1: Or think we have stereotypes. We think we know who 127 00:06:42,360 --> 00:06:44,760 Speaker 1: those people are, and we do not. I gotta I 128 00:06:44,760 --> 00:06:48,920 Speaker 1: gotta jump in really quickly because at least Carrie, yes, 129 00:06:49,000 --> 00:06:51,480 Speaker 1: we are a black family. But one of the strengths 130 00:06:51,520 --> 00:06:57,200 Speaker 1: of this work is that we are dealing with our humanity, 131 00:06:57,640 --> 00:07:05,200 Speaker 1: and humanity transcends race, right, And I've been thinking since 132 00:07:05,240 --> 00:07:09,080 Speaker 1: Five Bloods. Actually I started articulating this in a lot 133 00:07:09,080 --> 00:07:12,160 Speaker 1: of the interviews that I was doing around Five Bloods. 134 00:07:14,560 --> 00:07:18,440 Speaker 1: If you think you guys know this one of the 135 00:07:18,480 --> 00:07:24,240 Speaker 1: main problems that African descended people have had since time immemorial. 136 00:07:24,600 --> 00:07:28,480 Speaker 1: Is the rejection of our humanity. That's that's that's the 137 00:07:28,560 --> 00:07:30,720 Speaker 1: that's the beginning, the middle, and the end of the 138 00:07:30,760 --> 00:07:33,200 Speaker 1: thing right there, that we are not considered to be 139 00:07:33,360 --> 00:07:35,960 Speaker 1: human now with a show like this, with work like this, 140 00:07:36,760 --> 00:07:39,200 Speaker 1: Yes it's a black family, but I believe that one 141 00:07:39,280 --> 00:07:42,240 Speaker 1: of the strengths of this work has to do with 142 00:07:42,320 --> 00:07:45,800 Speaker 1: the fact that we're first and foremost presenting human beings 143 00:07:45,960 --> 00:07:49,120 Speaker 1: who happen to be black, and because we're investigating the 144 00:07:49,200 --> 00:07:52,600 Speaker 1: foibles of that, of the of those dynamics. I think, 145 00:07:52,840 --> 00:07:55,800 Speaker 1: on what you think, Carrie, but I think it's resonated, 146 00:07:56,360 --> 00:08:00,640 Speaker 1: transcended itself beyond this is an example domination of a 147 00:08:00,640 --> 00:08:03,520 Speaker 1: black family, right and that's one of the strengths of 148 00:08:04,040 --> 00:08:07,240 Speaker 1: this work. I will tell you that last night, Carrie 149 00:08:07,720 --> 00:08:12,840 Speaker 1: at the SOD he had the premiere screening last night, 150 00:08:13,920 --> 00:08:17,200 Speaker 1: And this has happened to me a lot in the 151 00:08:17,280 --> 00:08:20,800 Speaker 1: in the two years we've been doing this. Sister came 152 00:08:20,880 --> 00:08:24,360 Speaker 1: up to me and said, mister Linnoy, I just want 153 00:08:24,360 --> 00:08:27,960 Speaker 1: to thank you for the work. My daddy was incarcerated 154 00:08:27,960 --> 00:08:30,640 Speaker 1: for ten years when I was a little girl, and 155 00:08:30,760 --> 00:08:33,560 Speaker 1: the notes that you all are hitting in this work 156 00:08:33,800 --> 00:08:36,719 Speaker 1: really resonate for me personally, and that's another one of 157 00:08:36,760 --> 00:08:39,280 Speaker 1: the strengths of this work. As far as I'm concerned 158 00:08:39,280 --> 00:08:42,880 Speaker 1: that it has, you know, peggybacking on what Carrie said, 159 00:08:43,720 --> 00:08:48,559 Speaker 1: it touches people in personal ways, and I'm not necessarily 160 00:08:48,720 --> 00:08:52,800 Speaker 1: surprised about that, but it's every time it happens, it's 161 00:08:52,840 --> 00:08:56,520 Speaker 1: an affirmation of the strength and the value of what 162 00:08:56,559 --> 00:08:57,120 Speaker 1: we're doing. 163 00:08:57,480 --> 00:08:59,199 Speaker 2: You know, well, you talk about you know, I was 164 00:08:59,240 --> 00:09:03,000 Speaker 2: watching you talk about breaking generational curses, right, that seems 165 00:09:03,000 --> 00:09:04,560 Speaker 2: one of the things that was most important because you 166 00:09:04,600 --> 00:09:06,960 Speaker 2: touch things of family members going to jail and how 167 00:09:07,000 --> 00:09:09,160 Speaker 2: a lot of times when they come out people feel ashamed. 168 00:09:09,160 --> 00:09:12,520 Speaker 2: You talk about biracial relationships, fathers trying to get back 169 00:09:12,520 --> 00:09:14,520 Speaker 2: into their daughter and do those things. So why was 170 00:09:14,600 --> 00:09:17,200 Speaker 2: that all important? Because those are all topics in our community. 171 00:09:17,440 --> 00:09:20,959 Speaker 2: Sometimes we don't necessarily talk about outside the house a man. 172 00:09:21,440 --> 00:09:27,000 Speaker 1: So as Carrie was speaking, she talked about the process 173 00:09:27,120 --> 00:09:31,480 Speaker 1: that is that's a live in this work of these 174 00:09:31,520 --> 00:09:36,199 Speaker 1: three individuals, myself, my daughter, and my grand my grandson 175 00:09:36,600 --> 00:09:43,079 Speaker 1: Carrie's son played by Folly. We're also and I hadn't 176 00:09:43,080 --> 00:09:46,160 Speaker 1: thought about this in these terms until you said it, Carrie, 177 00:09:46,280 --> 00:09:50,280 Speaker 1: we're also unpacking what it means to love, what does 178 00:09:50,360 --> 00:09:55,120 Speaker 1: love look like? Right? And when you talk about the 179 00:09:55,240 --> 00:10:01,960 Speaker 1: intergenerational blockages to that and how well, for instance black 180 00:10:02,040 --> 00:10:07,840 Speaker 1: Men as an example, how we are socialized to believe 181 00:10:08,240 --> 00:10:11,160 Speaker 1: we are supposed to be a certain way and our 182 00:10:11,240 --> 00:10:16,480 Speaker 1: general your generation, my gen we're all trying to interrupt that. 183 00:10:17,160 --> 00:10:18,920 Speaker 1: And this show is at the heart of that because 184 00:10:18,920 --> 00:10:21,360 Speaker 1: we're trying to figure out and you say it, Carrie 185 00:10:21,679 --> 00:10:26,040 Speaker 1: in the in the first episode of season two, that 186 00:10:26,080 --> 00:10:29,920 Speaker 1: we need to break this chain, we need to break 187 00:10:30,400 --> 00:10:36,320 Speaker 1: this process of this into generational pathology. We're repeating itself 188 00:10:36,480 --> 00:10:39,000 Speaker 1: over and over and over again. So there are all 189 00:10:39,120 --> 00:10:44,600 Speaker 1: kinds of aspects to this work that, yeah, speak to 190 00:10:46,000 --> 00:10:48,959 Speaker 1: the condition of being an African descented person and what 191 00:10:49,040 --> 00:10:52,640 Speaker 1: we deal with as families, as individuals. But it's human, man, 192 00:10:52,960 --> 00:10:54,719 Speaker 1: it's human love. 193 00:10:55,160 --> 00:10:59,160 Speaker 6: But I loved about your question was that you said 194 00:10:59,520 --> 00:11:02,680 Speaker 6: these are that we don't necessarily talk about outside the home, 195 00:11:03,679 --> 00:11:06,960 Speaker 6: and the reason we don't is because we think we're 196 00:11:06,960 --> 00:11:10,240 Speaker 6: the only ones. And so we have this shame, right, 197 00:11:10,280 --> 00:11:13,520 Speaker 6: we have shame that causes us to keep our secrets 198 00:11:13,600 --> 00:11:17,760 Speaker 6: and not air our dirty laundry. The power of a 199 00:11:17,800 --> 00:11:20,520 Speaker 6: show like this is that we get to we get 200 00:11:20,520 --> 00:11:24,439 Speaker 6: to provide people with an opportunity to see themselves reflected 201 00:11:24,520 --> 00:11:27,600 Speaker 6: on a larger scale. Right, So people get to be 202 00:11:27,720 --> 00:11:30,760 Speaker 6: in their homes, but they know that they're not alone 203 00:11:31,040 --> 00:11:33,600 Speaker 6: because we're all dealing with trauma of some sort. We're 204 00:11:33,640 --> 00:11:35,320 Speaker 6: all trying to figure out how to love our kids. 205 00:11:35,320 --> 00:11:37,199 Speaker 6: We're all trying to figure out how to love our parents. 206 00:11:37,480 --> 00:11:39,600 Speaker 6: We're all trying to figure out how to free ourselves, 207 00:11:39,640 --> 00:11:42,520 Speaker 6: whether it's free ourselves from prison bars or free ourselves 208 00:11:42,559 --> 00:11:45,000 Speaker 6: from the limitations that other people have placed on us. 209 00:11:45,200 --> 00:11:52,360 Speaker 6: We're all on these journeys ourselves. Yes, yes, So we 210 00:11:52,400 --> 00:11:55,319 Speaker 6: get to with joy and humor. We get to kind 211 00:11:55,360 --> 00:11:58,240 Speaker 6: of say to somebody, like, here's the dirty laundry. Every 212 00:11:58,440 --> 00:12:02,360 Speaker 6: every family has it. We're all navigating it. If we 213 00:12:02,440 --> 00:12:05,640 Speaker 6: can put it out there and talk about it more freely, 214 00:12:06,120 --> 00:12:09,360 Speaker 6: we can actually free ourselves. That's the joy of the show. 215 00:12:09,440 --> 00:12:12,800 Speaker 6: It's like this family is drama is out for you 216 00:12:12,880 --> 00:12:17,040 Speaker 6: all to consume and take in feel less alone, and 217 00:12:17,080 --> 00:12:18,600 Speaker 6: then we all move forward together. 218 00:12:18,679 --> 00:12:20,160 Speaker 4: And it plays that in therapy too. I was going 219 00:12:20,200 --> 00:12:21,360 Speaker 4: to say it plays that in therapy. 220 00:12:21,440 --> 00:12:23,760 Speaker 2: Like you know, we've been talking about in the last 221 00:12:23,760 --> 00:12:25,680 Speaker 2: couple of years more and more about going to therapy, 222 00:12:25,720 --> 00:12:28,120 Speaker 2: but it plays out in therapy, and one time that 223 00:12:28,240 --> 00:12:31,079 Speaker 2: was something that nobody ever talked about going therapy getting help. 224 00:12:31,160 --> 00:12:33,280 Speaker 2: So the fact that as a family I'll go together 225 00:12:33,720 --> 00:12:35,200 Speaker 2: is I thinks big as well. 226 00:12:35,240 --> 00:12:37,080 Speaker 5: Before we get to the therapy aspect, I want to 227 00:12:37,080 --> 00:12:39,520 Speaker 5: go back to the intergenerational thing because you know, carries 228 00:12:39,559 --> 00:12:41,600 Speaker 5: that something just now we don't talk about it outside 229 00:12:41,600 --> 00:12:43,680 Speaker 5: of the house because we don't talk about it inside 230 00:12:43,679 --> 00:12:44,080 Speaker 5: of the house. 231 00:12:44,120 --> 00:12:46,320 Speaker 3: And that's what I love that y'all doing the show. 232 00:12:46,360 --> 00:12:49,480 Speaker 5: Y'all are having those intergenerational conversations within the house. So 233 00:12:49,920 --> 00:12:52,240 Speaker 5: just talk to people about how important it is to 234 00:12:52,360 --> 00:12:55,880 Speaker 5: have intergenerational conversations, to not be so segregated in the home. 235 00:12:57,240 --> 00:13:01,920 Speaker 1: Oh man, we're we're all talking this morning, and I'm 236 00:13:01,960 --> 00:13:03,720 Speaker 1: listening to carry and I'm listening to the questions you 237 00:13:03,720 --> 00:13:08,319 Speaker 1: guys are coming up with. What's occurring to me as 238 00:13:08,320 --> 00:13:10,360 Speaker 1: it relates to your question and as it relates to 239 00:13:10,640 --> 00:13:15,080 Speaker 1: just my own life. There's a safety We get to 240 00:13:15,559 --> 00:13:22,920 Speaker 1: examine these dynamics within the construct of this television show, 241 00:13:23,280 --> 00:13:33,439 Speaker 1: right frankly, and partially my answer to that question is 242 00:13:33,800 --> 00:13:37,439 Speaker 1: that I get to investigate for myself, as a human 243 00:13:37,480 --> 00:13:42,680 Speaker 1: being on the planet, how these things, how intergenerational trauma 244 00:13:43,120 --> 00:13:47,280 Speaker 1: pathology has impacted me. And I get to use the 245 00:13:47,440 --> 00:13:51,520 Speaker 1: conduit of Edwin, the character that I'm playing, to investigate 246 00:13:51,520 --> 00:13:55,720 Speaker 1: some things that are very personal to me. As a 247 00:13:55,760 --> 00:13:58,240 Speaker 1: result of that, I come on a show like this 248 00:13:58,600 --> 00:14:02,440 Speaker 1: and we in this case, as black man, as black woman, 249 00:14:02,679 --> 00:14:08,360 Speaker 1: get to discuss these things, right, And honestly, sometimes I 250 00:14:08,400 --> 00:14:11,240 Speaker 1: feel I can, and I've said this before, sometimes I 251 00:14:11,280 --> 00:14:14,640 Speaker 1: feel I can be more articulate in my work addressing 252 00:14:14,679 --> 00:14:22,120 Speaker 1: certain issues than I can as a regular human being. 253 00:14:21,560 --> 00:14:26,280 Speaker 1: That's trippy, frankly, because because when I take a half 254 00:14:26,280 --> 00:14:30,560 Speaker 1: a step back and recognize that, acknowledge that, then I'm 255 00:14:30,680 --> 00:14:37,440 Speaker 1: faced with the challenge of Okay, man, you did this 256 00:14:37,600 --> 00:14:41,360 Speaker 1: in an acting job. Now address it for yourself outside 257 00:14:41,400 --> 00:14:42,560 Speaker 1: of the process of acting. 258 00:14:43,440 --> 00:14:46,280 Speaker 3: Right, You open up the conversation. You open up the conversation. 259 00:14:47,160 --> 00:14:48,720 Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean, I think one of the things that's 260 00:14:48,800 --> 00:14:53,520 Speaker 6: powerful is that for me, when you watch the show, 261 00:14:53,800 --> 00:14:57,240 Speaker 6: if you watch it with loved ones, you have in 262 00:14:57,280 --> 00:14:59,280 Speaker 6: the same way that dol is saying, like he can 263 00:14:59,320 --> 00:15:03,520 Speaker 6: explore his is shoes through Edwin. You also, somebody watching 264 00:15:03,560 --> 00:15:06,920 Speaker 6: the show can explore their issues through Page my character, right, 265 00:15:06,960 --> 00:15:11,640 Speaker 6: Like you can have a conversation with your husband about 266 00:15:11,720 --> 00:15:14,240 Speaker 6: something that Page is going through, and it gives you 267 00:15:14,280 --> 00:15:18,480 Speaker 6: like space to kind of hide behind pages crazy because 268 00:15:18,480 --> 00:15:22,600 Speaker 6: she's a little bit neurotic and crazy, and that way 269 00:15:22,640 --> 00:15:25,520 Speaker 6: it makes it easier. I think when our store, when 270 00:15:25,520 --> 00:15:29,040 Speaker 6: the storytelling that we're exposed to is telling the truths 271 00:15:29,120 --> 00:15:31,720 Speaker 6: about all of us, then it makes everything easier to 272 00:15:31,760 --> 00:15:33,920 Speaker 6: talk about, whether it's in our home or outside our home. 273 00:15:33,960 --> 00:15:36,800 Speaker 1: So hold on, go ahead, carry, go ahead, go ahead, 274 00:15:37,160 --> 00:15:42,160 Speaker 1: go ahead. Okay. So another personal kind an anecdotal affirmation. 275 00:15:42,840 --> 00:15:46,520 Speaker 1: I'm in the Apple Store about I don't know, five 276 00:15:46,560 --> 00:15:50,040 Speaker 1: months ago getting a new phone. Sister comes up to 277 00:15:50,080 --> 00:15:52,760 Speaker 1: me in the Apple Store and says, thank you for unprisoned, 278 00:15:53,360 --> 00:15:55,480 Speaker 1: and she goes on to talk about the fact that 279 00:15:55,600 --> 00:16:00,360 Speaker 1: her daddy was was incarcerated. But then she said, I 280 00:16:00,400 --> 00:16:03,520 Speaker 1: think I told you this carry. I'm not sure my 281 00:16:03,600 --> 00:16:07,400 Speaker 1: Auntie is exactly what Kerry Washington is doing. That's my 282 00:16:07,480 --> 00:16:13,200 Speaker 1: aunt right there. Again, these personal, these personal anecdotal affirmations 283 00:16:13,440 --> 00:16:19,280 Speaker 1: that we're doing what we're doing has a particular kind 284 00:16:19,280 --> 00:16:22,800 Speaker 1: of value, you know, And going back to your your 285 00:16:22,800 --> 00:16:27,400 Speaker 1: original question, what I call you man, I call you Charlemagne, 286 00:16:27,800 --> 00:16:28,760 Speaker 1: call you Charlemage the God. 287 00:16:28,800 --> 00:16:33,160 Speaker 5: What do people call you Charlemagne? That's fine, charm. 288 00:16:36,000 --> 00:16:42,880 Speaker 1: Going back to your original question, I don't know that 289 00:16:42,920 --> 00:16:46,400 Speaker 1: we saw all of the potential, Carrie, when you and 290 00:16:46,440 --> 00:16:50,560 Speaker 1: I had that very first zoom call, when you first 291 00:16:50,640 --> 00:16:53,080 Speaker 1: kind of pitched this to me, I don't know. 292 00:16:53,280 --> 00:16:55,680 Speaker 6: I begged you to come beyond the show. 293 00:16:56,840 --> 00:17:00,560 Speaker 1: I wasn't gonna put you out there like that when 294 00:17:00,600 --> 00:17:03,600 Speaker 1: we first had the conversation, we didn't necessarily know it 295 00:17:03,640 --> 00:17:07,480 Speaker 1: would have this kind of resonance and impact. But there 296 00:17:07,560 --> 00:17:09,600 Speaker 1: was one critical and I do need to We need 297 00:17:09,640 --> 00:17:14,720 Speaker 1: to include Tracy in this, right, Tracy McMillan, whose life 298 00:17:15,280 --> 00:17:20,639 Speaker 1: journey has been the inspiration for this work. They said 299 00:17:20,680 --> 00:17:25,080 Speaker 1: to me, little Tracy, and Carry said to me, they 300 00:17:25,160 --> 00:17:31,199 Speaker 1: wanted to break the stereotypical image that people have of 301 00:17:31,240 --> 00:17:35,520 Speaker 1: a formally incarcerated cat. Right. You think, oh, this cat's 302 00:17:35,560 --> 00:17:37,840 Speaker 1: been InCAR This cat's been in and out of prison 303 00:17:38,160 --> 00:17:42,320 Speaker 1: since his daughter was a little girl. His last bid 304 00:17:42,400 --> 00:17:45,600 Speaker 1: was seventeen year. He did a seventeen year bid But 305 00:17:45,720 --> 00:17:48,520 Speaker 1: then Tracy said to me, but if you might if 306 00:17:48,560 --> 00:17:51,680 Speaker 1: my father walked into this into a restaurant right now 307 00:17:51,800 --> 00:17:53,919 Speaker 1: and just sat down and started to have a conversation, 308 00:17:54,240 --> 00:17:57,280 Speaker 1: you would not necessarily know that he had been that 309 00:17:57,320 --> 00:18:00,480 Speaker 1: he's a formerly incarcerated. That piqued my interest, right because 310 00:18:00,520 --> 00:18:02,040 Speaker 1: then I said, well, what kind of what kind of 311 00:18:02,080 --> 00:18:05,120 Speaker 1: a cat is this? What's his personality? The charm when 312 00:18:05,119 --> 00:18:10,000 Speaker 1: I met him? Absolutely? So to to what I'm getting 313 00:18:10,000 --> 00:18:13,040 Speaker 1: at is the fact that from the very beginning we 314 00:18:13,040 --> 00:18:18,400 Speaker 1: were about the business of attempting to break stereotypes. 315 00:18:18,480 --> 00:18:21,480 Speaker 4: Let me ask you a question. Sure, you're in your seventies. 316 00:18:22,320 --> 00:18:24,320 Speaker 4: I talk about that part. Man, I'm sorry, my back. 317 00:18:24,240 --> 00:18:27,240 Speaker 3: Look good, look very good. I'm looking at you like inspiration. 318 00:18:27,400 --> 00:18:29,719 Speaker 2: But the reason I say that is my father is 319 00:18:29,760 --> 00:18:31,679 Speaker 2: he just turned eighty. My mother's in her seventies. God 320 00:18:31,720 --> 00:18:34,600 Speaker 2: bless thank Yeah. Absolutely so when I when I look 321 00:18:34,600 --> 00:18:37,080 Speaker 2: at them, their way of thinking and their way of 322 00:18:37,119 --> 00:18:40,080 Speaker 2: doing things is totally different from us. Right, So how 323 00:18:40,200 --> 00:18:42,480 Speaker 2: was that what you acting? Because things evolved? So you know, 324 00:18:42,520 --> 00:18:44,680 Speaker 2: when my mom and dad it was like. 325 00:18:44,800 --> 00:18:46,080 Speaker 1: A kid's place is a kid's place. 326 00:18:46,119 --> 00:18:47,919 Speaker 4: They didn't talk about things. But my kids is a 327 00:18:47,920 --> 00:18:48,439 Speaker 4: lot different. 328 00:18:48,720 --> 00:18:51,280 Speaker 2: And how was it for you evolving to a different 329 00:18:51,280 --> 00:18:53,879 Speaker 2: way of thinking, a different way of learning and seeing 330 00:18:53,920 --> 00:18:54,359 Speaker 2: the world. 331 00:18:54,480 --> 00:18:59,200 Speaker 1: Okay, so I have a I have a son. He's 332 00:18:59,280 --> 00:19:03,880 Speaker 1: just turned twenty three. And the joke that I tell 333 00:19:05,000 --> 00:19:07,600 Speaker 1: and Karen and I as parents have had these kinds 334 00:19:07,640 --> 00:19:12,000 Speaker 1: of conversations as parents, our relationship to our kids. Right, 335 00:19:14,240 --> 00:19:17,959 Speaker 1: what I always say about, for instance, my father who 336 00:19:18,040 --> 00:19:23,680 Speaker 1: did not raise me. What I took from the way 337 00:19:23,720 --> 00:19:27,119 Speaker 1: that my dad did not raise me. He gave me 338 00:19:27,160 --> 00:19:30,719 Speaker 1: a really good lesson in what not to do in 339 00:19:30,800 --> 00:19:35,040 Speaker 1: terms of raising my son. And that's valuable. That's really 340 00:19:35,119 --> 00:19:40,880 Speaker 1: valuable for me. I would say that because my son 341 00:19:40,960 --> 00:19:43,159 Speaker 1: is twenty three and I've been raising him for you know, 342 00:19:43,200 --> 00:19:49,600 Speaker 1: twenty plus years. My ethos, my philosophy, my way of 343 00:19:49,680 --> 00:19:53,440 Speaker 1: being with my son has evolved and developed way before 344 00:19:53,440 --> 00:20:00,960 Speaker 1: I started doing on prison however, had is for you all. 345 00:20:01,040 --> 00:20:04,320 Speaker 1: But likewise, I came up in a time when little 346 00:20:04,400 --> 00:20:07,760 Speaker 1: kids should be seen and not heard. Right. One of 347 00:20:07,800 --> 00:20:12,320 Speaker 1: the first components of and I don't want to tell 348 00:20:12,359 --> 00:20:16,480 Speaker 1: anybody how to raise their kids, but community, but communication 349 00:20:16,600 --> 00:20:20,760 Speaker 1: is everything everything everything you got we have to talk 350 00:20:20,800 --> 00:20:23,119 Speaker 1: to each other. We got to talk to our kids 351 00:20:23,480 --> 00:20:26,680 Speaker 1: because frankly, as you all know, those of us who 352 00:20:26,680 --> 00:20:32,840 Speaker 1: are parents, kids see everything, whether whether they articulate it 353 00:20:32,880 --> 00:20:35,359 Speaker 1: to you or not. They are watching and they see 354 00:20:35,400 --> 00:20:42,359 Speaker 1: everything and they know bullshit, right, So I guess lesson 355 00:20:42,480 --> 00:20:45,320 Speaker 1: number one. Challenge Number one for me as a parent 356 00:20:45,480 --> 00:20:49,359 Speaker 1: is how can I be as And I'm not always successful, 357 00:20:49,400 --> 00:20:53,359 Speaker 1: but how can one be as authentic as one can be? 358 00:20:54,000 --> 00:20:58,399 Speaker 1: And I know that's a very hackneyed and overused term, 359 00:20:58,520 --> 00:21:02,760 Speaker 1: but to try to be as genuine and open with 360 00:21:03,800 --> 00:21:06,240 Speaker 1: my child as I can be. And that's one of 361 00:21:06,240 --> 00:21:11,479 Speaker 1: the challenges. And by extension, by extension, how do we 362 00:21:11,520 --> 00:21:13,439 Speaker 1: do that with our friends? How do we do that 363 00:21:13,440 --> 00:21:15,400 Speaker 1: with our loved ones? Man? How do we do that? 364 00:21:15,800 --> 00:21:20,000 Speaker 1: And it's an ongoing process, but I got to say something. 365 00:21:20,040 --> 00:21:25,080 Speaker 1: I gotta say something. I'm really thankful for this conversation 366 00:21:25,320 --> 00:21:29,720 Speaker 1: right now, right that this whether it be the fact 367 00:21:29,760 --> 00:21:32,639 Speaker 1: that this work has helped to engender this kind of 368 00:21:32,680 --> 00:21:34,800 Speaker 1: a conversation, but the fact of the matter is we're 369 00:21:34,840 --> 00:21:38,000 Speaker 1: having the conversation, and we're having the conversation. Yes, we're 370 00:21:38,040 --> 00:21:41,439 Speaker 1: having the conversation around the work, but we're having a 371 00:21:41,480 --> 00:21:46,640 Speaker 1: conversation around the ideas the dynamics that this work has 372 00:21:46,720 --> 00:21:49,960 Speaker 1: produced and what we as human beings who happen to 373 00:21:50,040 --> 00:21:55,640 Speaker 1: be black, are challenged to negotiate, right And I come 374 00:21:55,680 --> 00:22:01,000 Speaker 1: back again, care that's sister who the young lady in 375 00:22:01,040 --> 00:22:03,240 Speaker 1: the in the Apple store who said, that's my auntie 376 00:22:03,320 --> 00:22:07,960 Speaker 1: right there and looking at you, guys have not seen 377 00:22:07,960 --> 00:22:10,359 Speaker 1: the second season, I'm assuming right now. Okay, So I 378 00:22:10,400 --> 00:22:13,360 Speaker 1: looked at the episodes from the second season a few 379 00:22:13,359 --> 00:22:17,359 Speaker 1: weeks ago, and I gotta tip my hat to the fact, 380 00:22:17,680 --> 00:22:23,680 Speaker 1: Carrie that you do not shy away from Page's neuro seas. 381 00:22:23,760 --> 00:22:26,800 Speaker 1: You don't shy away from that. You jump in both feet, 382 00:22:26,880 --> 00:22:29,560 Speaker 1: now you do you do? You jump in both. 383 00:22:29,400 --> 00:22:32,160 Speaker 6: Finally found a character that's as crazy as I am. 384 00:22:32,440 --> 00:22:36,200 Speaker 1: Oh check that out, check that out. But you go there, 385 00:22:36,480 --> 00:22:38,959 Speaker 1: you go there, you do it. And as as an 386 00:22:39,000 --> 00:22:44,639 Speaker 1: actor working with that, working opposite that, as an actor, 387 00:22:44,680 --> 00:22:49,320 Speaker 1: as a human being playing against that, it's admirable. It's admirable, 388 00:22:49,480 --> 00:22:50,880 Speaker 1: and it all. Can you know what's. 389 00:22:50,760 --> 00:22:53,840 Speaker 6: Interesting, Delry, I want to tell you what's interesting for 390 00:22:53,880 --> 00:22:57,440 Speaker 6: me is there's something I think there's a little bit 391 00:22:57,520 --> 00:22:59,800 Speaker 6: more of that for me in this season. And I 392 00:22:59,800 --> 00:23:02,120 Speaker 6: don't I don't think it's unrelated to Actually the last 393 00:23:02,119 --> 00:23:03,840 Speaker 6: time that I was here at the breakfast club. I 394 00:23:03,840 --> 00:23:08,080 Speaker 6: don't think it's unrelated to my memoir because there was 395 00:23:08,160 --> 00:23:12,560 Speaker 6: something about me writing my book and being like as 396 00:23:12,840 --> 00:23:17,640 Speaker 6: fully vulnerable in the world that could possibly be that 397 00:23:17,720 --> 00:23:22,639 Speaker 6: allowed me to understand that Page also was ready to 398 00:23:22,720 --> 00:23:27,840 Speaker 6: be vulnerable at a different level. Like this season, she's 399 00:23:28,119 --> 00:23:32,879 Speaker 6: ready to be like more raw and because she really 400 00:23:32,920 --> 00:23:35,639 Speaker 6: wants to heal, Like so much of what this season 401 00:23:35,680 --> 00:23:40,120 Speaker 6: about is about, guys, is that my son is struggling. 402 00:23:40,800 --> 00:23:43,800 Speaker 6: And so even though my dad and I have been 403 00:23:43,840 --> 00:23:47,959 Speaker 6: like dancing around each other trying to coexist, when his grandson, 404 00:23:48,280 --> 00:23:52,280 Speaker 6: my son starts to struggle. That's the thing that gets 405 00:23:52,359 --> 00:23:57,000 Speaker 6: us in family therapy because we're like, whatever stuff we're 406 00:23:57,080 --> 00:24:02,240 Speaker 6: working out, whatever issues we have, it should stop with us. 407 00:24:02,520 --> 00:24:05,480 Speaker 6: We should not be passing this on to the next generation. 408 00:24:05,960 --> 00:24:08,119 Speaker 6: And the only way to do that is if we 409 00:24:08,200 --> 00:24:11,760 Speaker 6: show up and like unpack it. If we wrestle with 410 00:24:11,880 --> 00:24:16,560 Speaker 6: the stuff that is limiting us, that is preventing us 411 00:24:16,560 --> 00:24:19,200 Speaker 6: from being who we want to be. If we can 412 00:24:19,359 --> 00:24:22,640 Speaker 6: unpack that stuff, then we can prevent ourselves from passing 413 00:24:22,640 --> 00:24:25,439 Speaker 6: it on to him. So, you know, I think a 414 00:24:25,440 --> 00:24:27,680 Speaker 6: lot of it is like I was doing that work 415 00:24:27,760 --> 00:24:30,280 Speaker 6: in between season one and season two in my own 416 00:24:30,359 --> 00:24:35,119 Speaker 6: life so much that I really understand this like need 417 00:24:35,320 --> 00:24:39,159 Speaker 6: that Page has to do the work to really figure 418 00:24:39,160 --> 00:24:43,080 Speaker 6: out who she is so that she doesn't irresponsibly just 419 00:24:43,160 --> 00:24:45,200 Speaker 6: pass her issues on to the next generation. 420 00:24:45,440 --> 00:24:47,119 Speaker 5: I want to ask about that, Kara, because you know 421 00:24:47,760 --> 00:24:49,320 Speaker 5: Page is a therapist on the show. 422 00:24:49,880 --> 00:24:52,439 Speaker 3: Clearly she's a therapist who needs a therapist. So I 423 00:24:52,480 --> 00:24:53,720 Speaker 3: want to ask every. 424 00:24:53,359 --> 00:24:54,840 Speaker 6: All of them, do let me tell you that your 425 00:24:54,840 --> 00:24:56,919 Speaker 6: therapist doesn't have a therapist, get a new therapist. 426 00:24:56,920 --> 00:24:58,879 Speaker 5: Now that I'm going to ask, how do you believe 427 00:24:58,920 --> 00:25:00,800 Speaker 5: therapy is going to help pay? But in real life 428 00:25:00,960 --> 00:25:03,080 Speaker 5: we go to a therapist who didn't have a therapist. 429 00:25:04,440 --> 00:25:06,560 Speaker 6: I think one of the things I love about this 430 00:25:06,560 --> 00:25:11,760 Speaker 6: season is like some of the funniest episodes this season. 431 00:25:11,760 --> 00:25:13,439 Speaker 6: I don't know if you agree, Delaware, but I think 432 00:25:13,480 --> 00:25:17,359 Speaker 6: our therapy scenes are some of the funniest episodes this season. 433 00:25:17,920 --> 00:25:19,440 Speaker 6: Like last season, we. 434 00:25:19,359 --> 00:25:20,240 Speaker 1: Had a big. 435 00:25:21,680 --> 00:25:25,400 Speaker 6: Right last season, we had a big dance battle scene. 436 00:25:25,840 --> 00:25:28,960 Speaker 6: This season we have an episode where we're in family 437 00:25:29,000 --> 00:25:31,960 Speaker 6: therapy and it actually turns into a wrestling match like 438 00:25:32,000 --> 00:25:37,199 Speaker 6: a WWF wrestling match. It's so much fun, and it 439 00:25:37,240 --> 00:25:40,560 Speaker 6: really is this idea of like we have to wrestle 440 00:25:40,600 --> 00:25:42,680 Speaker 6: with it. We have to wrestle with this stuff. And 441 00:25:43,080 --> 00:25:46,960 Speaker 6: I think a therapist, nobody's perfect, So to me, I 442 00:25:46,960 --> 00:25:48,760 Speaker 6: always want to make sure that my therapist is in 443 00:25:48,840 --> 00:25:53,800 Speaker 6: therapy because nobody is perfect everybody. Therapy is not about 444 00:25:53,800 --> 00:25:58,680 Speaker 6: being wrong or bad or broken. It's about perspective and growth, 445 00:25:59,119 --> 00:26:04,240 Speaker 6: so everybody should be to me, if you're a therapist, 446 00:26:04,760 --> 00:26:07,600 Speaker 6: you should also be bouncing your ideas off of somebody 447 00:26:07,640 --> 00:26:10,400 Speaker 6: so that you are fully responsible for the time you're 448 00:26:10,440 --> 00:26:13,439 Speaker 6: with your clients and you're not projecting your stuff onto 449 00:26:13,480 --> 00:26:14,080 Speaker 6: your patients. 450 00:26:16,359 --> 00:26:18,239 Speaker 2: One thing I did see that it's going to be, 451 00:26:18,320 --> 00:26:20,720 Speaker 2: it's gonna a lot of people are gonna really take 452 00:26:20,760 --> 00:26:22,879 Speaker 2: to it is when I guess there's a scene where 453 00:26:23,280 --> 00:26:25,240 Speaker 2: your son wants to talk to his dad. 454 00:26:25,440 --> 00:26:27,080 Speaker 4: And you're like, no, it's not going to happen. I 455 00:26:27,119 --> 00:26:28,360 Speaker 4: don't like him, it's not going to happen. 456 00:26:28,480 --> 00:26:30,560 Speaker 2: And I know that happens in a lot of relationships 457 00:26:30,600 --> 00:26:32,840 Speaker 2: where women might not mess with their baby. 458 00:26:32,880 --> 00:26:37,040 Speaker 3: That's not right, thought carry. But but you're like father. 459 00:26:36,800 --> 00:26:38,719 Speaker 2: And he's like, I want to tax my dad and 460 00:26:38,720 --> 00:26:40,919 Speaker 2: that's the rest of the mass that I've seen, so 461 00:26:41,280 --> 00:26:42,360 Speaker 2: talk about that a little. 462 00:26:42,119 --> 00:26:44,200 Speaker 4: Bit and how that scene came about. 463 00:26:45,720 --> 00:26:49,440 Speaker 6: It's so so again this is like inspired by Tracey 464 00:26:49,560 --> 00:26:53,280 Speaker 6: McMillan's life, but also we have this incredible room of writers, 465 00:26:53,400 --> 00:26:56,960 Speaker 6: also led by Ivette Lee Bowser, who is like a 466 00:26:57,000 --> 00:27:01,119 Speaker 6: comedic goddess, like she was behind and living single. Like 467 00:27:01,160 --> 00:27:03,080 Speaker 6: all the shows in the nineties that we love the most, 468 00:27:03,240 --> 00:27:06,520 Speaker 6: Yvette Bowser had her fingerprint on them, and so she's 469 00:27:06,680 --> 00:27:10,600 Speaker 6: part of why we're able to have this incredible comedic 470 00:27:11,080 --> 00:27:14,000 Speaker 6: tone in what we do. Also, Tracy's just hilarious too. 471 00:27:14,040 --> 00:27:19,919 Speaker 6: But this issue of like you know, Page has issues 472 00:27:19,960 --> 00:27:24,399 Speaker 6: around control and she feels like her baby daddy hasn't 473 00:27:24,440 --> 00:27:26,720 Speaker 6: been present in the way that she's wanted him to be, 474 00:27:26,800 --> 00:27:30,000 Speaker 6: and so she has a block on their relationship, which 475 00:27:30,040 --> 00:27:33,280 Speaker 6: is so ironic, right because she knows the issues that 476 00:27:33,359 --> 00:27:35,560 Speaker 6: she deals with from her own dad being in and 477 00:27:35,600 --> 00:27:38,600 Speaker 6: out of her life, and yet she's repeating that pattern 478 00:27:38,680 --> 00:27:42,800 Speaker 6: with her son by preventing his dad. So I will 479 00:27:42,880 --> 00:27:45,199 Speaker 6: let you know that they work through it, and we 480 00:27:45,280 --> 00:27:47,879 Speaker 6: do get to meet his dad this season, which is 481 00:27:47,920 --> 00:27:51,639 Speaker 6: amazing and it's very humbling for Paige to have to, 482 00:27:52,280 --> 00:27:55,040 Speaker 6: you know, be open to that. And one of the 483 00:27:55,080 --> 00:27:59,199 Speaker 6: things I want to talk to you, Delroy, because this 484 00:27:59,320 --> 00:28:02,640 Speaker 6: is one of the ways you see where the intergenerational 485 00:28:02,840 --> 00:28:06,399 Speaker 6: village is so important, because there are ways in which 486 00:28:06,520 --> 00:28:11,560 Speaker 6: Page doesn't know how to walk her son through this journey, 487 00:28:11,880 --> 00:28:16,520 Speaker 6: but her father, as another man, can walk her son 488 00:28:16,560 --> 00:28:19,280 Speaker 6: through this journey with a different kind of wisdom and 489 00:28:19,320 --> 00:28:21,760 Speaker 6: a different kind of presence. And so you realize why 490 00:28:21,800 --> 00:28:24,560 Speaker 6: it's so important for us to be able to work 491 00:28:24,600 --> 00:28:27,720 Speaker 6: on our family connections and heal our family wounds, because 492 00:28:28,160 --> 00:28:30,399 Speaker 6: the more that we're able to be in community with 493 00:28:30,480 --> 00:28:33,000 Speaker 6: our family, the more growth we can have. 494 00:28:34,840 --> 00:28:45,200 Speaker 1: He is my grandson. Finn is an extraordinary bridge between 495 00:28:45,240 --> 00:28:47,400 Speaker 1: you and I on this journey. 496 00:28:48,120 --> 00:28:48,840 Speaker 3: Yeah, and the. 497 00:28:48,840 --> 00:28:55,560 Speaker 1: Young act of Folly who's grown like exponentially in this work. 498 00:28:55,600 --> 00:28:57,840 Speaker 1: And I met his parents last night and I told 499 00:28:57,920 --> 00:29:04,440 Speaker 1: him and his mom started, I'm gonna start crying. But 500 00:29:04,480 --> 00:29:10,960 Speaker 1: it's it's brilliant that he is there functioning as this bridge. 501 00:29:11,280 --> 00:29:14,000 Speaker 1: And you know, we're sitting here and we're having this 502 00:29:14,120 --> 00:29:19,160 Speaker 1: conversation and I didn't know it would be all this. 503 00:29:19,800 --> 00:29:21,800 Speaker 1: I mean, Carrie, I mean, you know, We didn't know 504 00:29:21,840 --> 00:29:24,400 Speaker 1: it would it would resonate like this. We didn't know 505 00:29:24,440 --> 00:29:25,040 Speaker 1: that it would. 506 00:29:25,920 --> 00:29:29,320 Speaker 5: It's telling a story that that that needed to be 507 00:29:29,360 --> 00:29:33,200 Speaker 5: told in our communities. It's actually a new story for 508 00:29:33,240 --> 00:29:35,440 Speaker 5: our community. Over the last few years, we've been having 509 00:29:35,480 --> 00:29:38,080 Speaker 5: these conversations. So to see it in artists like Wow. 510 00:29:38,440 --> 00:29:42,400 Speaker 1: And and and we Hm, we didn't know would have this. 511 00:29:42,520 --> 00:29:45,000 Speaker 1: I did not know it would have this impact necessarily. 512 00:29:45,240 --> 00:29:47,680 Speaker 1: But what I did know, and this is what I 513 00:29:47,720 --> 00:29:51,760 Speaker 1: tried to speak to last night, Carrie, was that there 514 00:29:51,800 --> 00:29:53,760 Speaker 1: was a real commit There seemed to be a real 515 00:29:53,840 --> 00:29:58,800 Speaker 1: commitment to we want to. We want to we want 516 00:29:58,800 --> 00:30:00,760 Speaker 1: to try to climb up the this mountain, we want 517 00:30:00,760 --> 00:30:02,840 Speaker 1: to try to traverse this mountain, and we want to 518 00:30:02,840 --> 00:30:07,840 Speaker 1: try to do this thing. And that was the and 519 00:30:07,880 --> 00:30:10,280 Speaker 1: we want to try to do it like this, And 520 00:30:10,320 --> 00:30:13,160 Speaker 1: I don't mean that it was kind of prepackaged, but 521 00:30:13,480 --> 00:30:16,720 Speaker 1: our objectives were we want to we want to flip 522 00:30:16,760 --> 00:30:19,200 Speaker 1: the script on this thing if we can. And that 523 00:30:19,400 --> 00:30:22,920 Speaker 1: was one of the things that uh got my attention 524 00:30:24,280 --> 00:30:27,640 Speaker 1: and made me feel, Okay, yeah, I want I'd like 525 00:30:27,680 --> 00:30:29,400 Speaker 1: to be a part of this journey, you know. 526 00:30:29,520 --> 00:30:32,440 Speaker 5: So I think the irony of miss Washington having COVID 527 00:30:32,520 --> 00:30:36,520 Speaker 5: right now, is that during COVID so many of us 528 00:30:36,560 --> 00:30:40,240 Speaker 5: were forced to sit down and be still. Yeah, for 529 00:30:40,320 --> 00:30:41,760 Speaker 5: the first time in a long time. 530 00:30:41,880 --> 00:30:42,200 Speaker 1: Yeah. 531 00:30:42,240 --> 00:30:43,240 Speaker 3: So a lot of people. 532 00:30:43,080 --> 00:30:45,040 Speaker 5: Had to look in that mirror, and that made a 533 00:30:45,040 --> 00:30:47,520 Speaker 5: lot of people start realizing, I don't really necessarily like 534 00:30:47,560 --> 00:30:48,040 Speaker 5: what I see. 535 00:30:48,200 --> 00:30:52,720 Speaker 1: I need to go do some work on myself. Yes, 536 00:30:53,360 --> 00:30:55,080 Speaker 1: but I'll tell you a little secret. If you would 537 00:30:55,120 --> 00:30:58,600 Speaker 1: have asked me what did and I was like everybody else. 538 00:30:58,720 --> 00:31:01,200 Speaker 1: First of all, I got the first round of COVID 539 00:31:01,320 --> 00:31:04,160 Speaker 1: and it kicked me in my in my behind. I mean, 540 00:31:04,360 --> 00:31:07,200 Speaker 1: it did a number on me. But if you would 541 00:31:07,320 --> 00:31:11,240 Speaker 1: say to me in that in that eight months that 542 00:31:11,280 --> 00:31:14,240 Speaker 1: you were in the house with your family, how has it? 543 00:31:14,560 --> 00:31:17,960 Speaker 1: How did it change you? I know it did change me, 544 00:31:18,360 --> 00:31:23,320 Speaker 1: but I'd be hard pressed to articulate it. HM. One 545 00:31:23,360 --> 00:31:26,880 Speaker 1: of the things that was, and this is gonna sound 546 00:31:27,000 --> 00:31:31,760 Speaker 1: so weird, but one of the things that was, I 547 00:31:31,760 --> 00:31:32,840 Speaker 1: didn't mind being in the house. 548 00:31:34,240 --> 00:31:37,280 Speaker 3: I loved it. 549 00:31:37,480 --> 00:31:37,920 Speaker 1: I loved it. 550 00:31:38,000 --> 00:31:41,280 Speaker 5: The anxiety, parental paranoia was gone. I know everybody, yet 551 00:31:41,440 --> 00:31:42,360 Speaker 5: I loved it. 552 00:31:42,440 --> 00:31:45,200 Speaker 1: I did too, And I was not aware of that. 553 00:31:45,440 --> 00:31:47,720 Speaker 1: I was just in it, just doing it, and and 554 00:31:47,880 --> 00:31:50,520 Speaker 1: and turning TV on, and and and watching things that 555 00:31:50,560 --> 00:31:56,680 Speaker 1: you wouldn't ordinarily watch that part. I dug that part. 556 00:31:56,920 --> 00:31:58,240 Speaker 1: So what does that say about me? 557 00:31:58,640 --> 00:32:00,880 Speaker 5: But when you're doing work with full cold because I 558 00:32:00,920 --> 00:32:02,760 Speaker 5: was in therapy full cold, oh you. 559 00:32:02,720 --> 00:32:06,720 Speaker 1: Were oh yeah, yeah, no, no, now see this, Well, you've. 560 00:32:06,560 --> 00:32:09,000 Speaker 6: Always been doing work on yourself, Joie, right. I think 561 00:32:09,000 --> 00:32:13,240 Speaker 6: through your through your craft, you are a very self 562 00:32:13,320 --> 00:32:17,080 Speaker 6: self aware person. I think you use the work to 563 00:32:17,160 --> 00:32:20,240 Speaker 6: do a lot of the kinds of self reflection that 564 00:32:20,280 --> 00:32:21,560 Speaker 6: other people do in therapy. 565 00:32:22,800 --> 00:32:25,120 Speaker 1: I want to believe that. No, that is true. It 566 00:32:25,240 --> 00:32:29,440 Speaker 1: is true because I have not had Yes, I've had 567 00:32:29,520 --> 00:32:34,320 Speaker 1: therapists over the years, but my journey. The journalist asked 568 00:32:34,360 --> 00:32:38,840 Speaker 1: me last night, She said, uh, something like, you know 569 00:32:38,880 --> 00:32:41,600 Speaker 1: what your what's your personal relationship to therapy? You know, 570 00:32:41,680 --> 00:32:43,800 Speaker 1: have you have you been in therapy? How has therapy 571 00:32:43,840 --> 00:32:50,240 Speaker 1: helped you? And I looked at her and I said, uh, 572 00:32:50,480 --> 00:33:00,720 Speaker 1: next question please, Because what that question did was it 573 00:33:00,880 --> 00:33:04,959 Speaker 1: challenged me to investigate my own relationship to therapy. Now 574 00:33:05,000 --> 00:33:07,280 Speaker 1: I was not about to do that with this journalist 575 00:33:07,320 --> 00:33:15,440 Speaker 1: right right. But to your question, was I doing work before? 576 00:33:17,040 --> 00:33:22,239 Speaker 1: And to what Carrie said again, It sounds like a 577 00:33:22,280 --> 00:33:26,160 Speaker 1: real hackneyed cliche, but but my work has saved my life. 578 00:33:26,200 --> 00:33:30,480 Speaker 1: It's saved my life, has saved my sanity. My work, 579 00:33:30,640 --> 00:33:34,960 Speaker 1: my work, my work, and my work has become has 580 00:33:35,400 --> 00:33:39,080 Speaker 1: has become even more important to me because I haven't 581 00:33:39,120 --> 00:33:44,920 Speaker 1: had a journey, a consistent journey with a therapist. I 582 00:33:45,000 --> 00:33:47,600 Speaker 1: didn't come out of the school it said, black man, 583 00:33:47,640 --> 00:33:50,240 Speaker 1: I don't know therapy. I didn't come out of that school. 584 00:33:50,480 --> 00:33:52,400 Speaker 1: But I had this thing, and I still have this 585 00:33:52,400 --> 00:33:54,840 Speaker 1: thing in my head. I wanted a black mail therapist. 586 00:33:56,000 --> 00:33:59,400 Speaker 1: I felt I wanted a black male therapist, and they're 587 00:33:59,440 --> 00:34:02,640 Speaker 1: hard to find. I mean, it may not be as 588 00:34:02,680 --> 00:34:08,799 Speaker 1: difficult now, but historically for myself, knowing years ago that 589 00:34:08,880 --> 00:34:11,760 Speaker 1: I needed to be in therapy. When I started looking 590 00:34:11,840 --> 00:34:13,520 Speaker 1: and I was right here in New York City, living 591 00:34:13,560 --> 00:34:16,400 Speaker 1: in New York, I wanted a black therapist, and I 592 00:34:16,440 --> 00:34:20,480 Speaker 1: found one eventually who retired. Had he not retired, I 593 00:34:20,480 --> 00:34:23,520 Speaker 1: would have stayed with him. But it's hard. It's hard 594 00:34:23,560 --> 00:34:27,279 Speaker 1: to find a therapist that one really vibes with, who 595 00:34:27,360 --> 00:34:30,839 Speaker 1: kind of gets it. And I felt that with all 596 00:34:30,840 --> 00:34:36,080 Speaker 1: of the other dynamics, I needed a black man. 597 00:34:36,200 --> 00:34:38,839 Speaker 5: I felt like I needed a black somebody's culturally competent. Yes, 598 00:34:39,000 --> 00:34:40,680 Speaker 5: you don't got to explain things. 599 00:34:40,280 --> 00:34:42,640 Speaker 1: Certain things too. Absolutely absolutely. 600 00:34:42,920 --> 00:34:44,719 Speaker 3: You know another theme in this show. 601 00:34:44,880 --> 00:34:47,360 Speaker 5: I love any conversation about dealing with your in a child, 602 00:34:48,000 --> 00:34:50,359 Speaker 5: So so Kerry talk about the significance. 603 00:34:49,800 --> 00:34:52,920 Speaker 3: Of the interactions Page has with her in a child. 604 00:34:53,360 --> 00:34:55,000 Speaker 1: That little girl is brilliant. 605 00:34:55,320 --> 00:35:00,400 Speaker 6: She's Jordan McIntosh, She's phenomenal. And you know, if you 606 00:35:00,520 --> 00:35:03,600 Speaker 6: haven't seen the show yet, for anybody who's listening, go 607 00:35:03,680 --> 00:35:06,239 Speaker 6: back and watch the first season also because we get 608 00:35:06,239 --> 00:35:09,800 Speaker 6: to meet Edwin's in Her Child as well, and it's 609 00:35:09,840 --> 00:35:13,520 Speaker 6: one of my favorite episodes of the series. But I 610 00:35:14,040 --> 00:35:18,200 Speaker 6: working with Jordan is so joyous for me. You know, 611 00:35:18,239 --> 00:35:22,560 Speaker 6: when we were casting this character of Little Page, there 612 00:35:22,560 --> 00:35:24,520 Speaker 6: were actually two actresses. It came down to these two 613 00:35:24,600 --> 00:35:29,239 Speaker 6: young actresses, and one of them looked more like me 614 00:35:29,520 --> 00:35:33,279 Speaker 6: than Jordan, Like she really looked like me, And we 615 00:35:33,280 --> 00:35:35,399 Speaker 6: were going back and forth between like is it her 616 00:35:36,040 --> 00:35:39,759 Speaker 6: is a Jordan and the difference between what they brought 617 00:35:39,840 --> 00:35:43,440 Speaker 6: to the roles both extraordinary young actresses. But the other 618 00:35:43,480 --> 00:35:46,600 Speaker 6: girl who looked more like me was had this kind 619 00:35:46,640 --> 00:35:52,000 Speaker 6: of sweet innocence of a child, and Jordan comes out 620 00:35:52,040 --> 00:35:57,120 Speaker 6: the box swinging right. She's like bold and she's so 621 00:35:57,840 --> 00:36:03,359 Speaker 6: spunky and bold and exciting, adventurous. And what we realized 622 00:36:03,480 --> 00:36:06,319 Speaker 6: in that process of casting, we had to ask ourselves, like, 623 00:36:06,360 --> 00:36:09,440 Speaker 6: what is the point of Little Page on the show? 624 00:36:10,000 --> 00:36:12,239 Speaker 6: And what we wanted Little Page to be was we 625 00:36:12,280 --> 00:36:15,080 Speaker 6: wanted her to be you know, that part of you 626 00:36:15,239 --> 00:36:18,640 Speaker 6: that exists before society tells you that you're not enough, 627 00:36:19,800 --> 00:36:23,560 Speaker 6: that part of you that is brave and bold and fearless. 628 00:36:23,719 --> 00:36:26,960 Speaker 6: And it's before a teacher tells you you move too slow, 629 00:36:27,160 --> 00:36:29,520 Speaker 6: or you're too loud, or you're not pretty enough, or 630 00:36:29,520 --> 00:36:31,920 Speaker 6: you're not like all the ways that society gets in 631 00:36:31,960 --> 00:36:35,520 Speaker 6: your head. And that's what Jordan was. Jordan was that 632 00:36:35,760 --> 00:36:40,080 Speaker 6: fierceness of Page, of me before the world told me 633 00:36:40,160 --> 00:36:43,680 Speaker 6: a lie that I was not enough. And so when 634 00:36:43,719 --> 00:36:46,239 Speaker 6: we hired her, it was such a gift to the 635 00:36:46,360 --> 00:36:49,440 Speaker 6: show because that's what the inner child work is, you know, 636 00:36:49,760 --> 00:36:52,160 Speaker 6: and if you've never heard of it from anybody who's listening, 637 00:36:52,200 --> 00:36:56,319 Speaker 6: sometimes in therapy, you'll you'll build a relationship with your 638 00:36:56,360 --> 00:37:00,080 Speaker 6: younger self, with your inner child, because you want to 639 00:37:00,120 --> 00:37:04,000 Speaker 6: go back and do the work to heal the spaces 640 00:37:04,080 --> 00:37:06,600 Speaker 6: in you that adults weren't able to take care of 641 00:37:06,640 --> 00:37:08,680 Speaker 6: because listen, the adults in our life are not perfect. 642 00:37:09,600 --> 00:37:11,560 Speaker 6: I know as a mom, I'm not perfect, right, Like, 643 00:37:11,600 --> 00:37:13,839 Speaker 6: we do the best we can. But part of being 644 00:37:13,840 --> 00:37:16,640 Speaker 6: an adult is saying like, Okay, maybe I didn't get 645 00:37:16,640 --> 00:37:18,600 Speaker 6: everything I needed as a child, but now it's my 646 00:37:18,760 --> 00:37:21,719 Speaker 6: job to go back and heal myself so that I 647 00:37:21,760 --> 00:37:23,880 Speaker 6: can move forward. I can't just sit around blaming my 648 00:37:23,960 --> 00:37:26,920 Speaker 6: mom and dad and whoever whatever teacher in third grade 649 00:37:27,200 --> 00:37:29,200 Speaker 6: for who I am today, Like who I am today 650 00:37:29,640 --> 00:37:32,200 Speaker 6: is somebody who can take responsibility and heal myself and 651 00:37:32,239 --> 00:37:35,600 Speaker 6: move forward. So the relationship with the little Page with 652 00:37:35,680 --> 00:37:38,400 Speaker 6: my inner child on the show is so important because 653 00:37:38,719 --> 00:37:40,840 Speaker 6: it's part of how Page is doing the work to 654 00:37:40,960 --> 00:37:42,160 Speaker 6: grow and move forward. 655 00:37:42,239 --> 00:37:56,000 Speaker 1: What about you, Linda Well said Carrie Well said, Well said, Okay, 656 00:37:56,760 --> 00:38:02,320 Speaker 1: something that everything the carriage just said, everything that Carriages 657 00:38:02,520 --> 00:38:13,120 Speaker 1: articulated makes me think about something that I actually suffer from, 658 00:38:13,320 --> 00:38:20,799 Speaker 1: and that is hiding behind my work. Everything that much 659 00:38:20,840 --> 00:38:24,120 Speaker 1: of what you just said, you're articulating how you try 660 00:38:24,160 --> 00:38:28,440 Speaker 1: to fuse who you are, where you are in your 661 00:38:28,480 --> 00:38:31,520 Speaker 1: process as a human being, and how you apply all 662 00:38:31,560 --> 00:38:39,120 Speaker 1: of that into your work and specifically on prison. Yeah, 663 00:38:39,360 --> 00:38:41,719 Speaker 1: but I would say more broadly, just who you are 664 00:38:41,760 --> 00:38:46,279 Speaker 1: on the planet, and that unprisoned is informing that it's 665 00:38:46,320 --> 00:38:48,560 Speaker 1: not the other way around, if that makes sense. 666 00:38:50,040 --> 00:38:50,480 Speaker 3: For me. 667 00:38:52,280 --> 00:38:56,960 Speaker 1: And you mentioned that little boy one episode we had him, 668 00:38:57,400 --> 00:39:00,839 Speaker 1: that young man as my and a child in one 669 00:39:00,880 --> 00:39:09,120 Speaker 1: episode last in season one, that scene Carrie where he 670 00:39:09,239 --> 00:39:11,799 Speaker 1: came and held my hand. 671 00:39:12,280 --> 00:39:12,800 Speaker 3: Mm hmmm. 672 00:39:14,440 --> 00:39:18,680 Speaker 1: And the beautiful thing about kids so often they're just 673 00:39:18,719 --> 00:39:21,320 Speaker 1: they're just being just being kids. They're just being kids, 674 00:39:21,400 --> 00:39:24,840 Speaker 1: they're just being human beings. And there was this profound 675 00:39:27,640 --> 00:39:30,359 Speaker 1: Oh god, there was this profound he came in here, 676 00:39:31,520 --> 00:39:37,319 Speaker 1: openness and just thereness, and that connected me with who 677 00:39:37,400 --> 00:39:43,839 Speaker 1: I might have been as a child. And it was, 678 00:39:44,000 --> 00:39:45,840 Speaker 1: it was, it was, it was if you, it was. 679 00:39:46,200 --> 00:39:49,359 Speaker 1: It was a really strong scene for all of us. 680 00:39:51,440 --> 00:40:01,960 Speaker 1: To your question. My response to your question is, I 681 00:40:02,000 --> 00:40:07,960 Speaker 1: am not sure. Honestly, I'm really not sure what my 682 00:40:08,120 --> 00:40:23,279 Speaker 1: relationship is to In the work, one does one's job. 683 00:40:27,320 --> 00:40:31,520 Speaker 1: The result of one doings one doing one's job, you 684 00:40:31,640 --> 00:40:35,560 Speaker 1: then share that with audiences and it lands, however, it 685 00:40:35,719 --> 00:40:41,160 Speaker 1: lands in a job like this and various other jobs 686 00:40:41,160 --> 00:40:43,479 Speaker 1: that I've done that have that have that have meant 687 00:40:43,520 --> 00:40:48,920 Speaker 1: something to people. I don't. Necessarily I do not unless 688 00:40:48,920 --> 00:40:51,480 Speaker 1: I'm asked by a journalist tell me about X, tell 689 00:40:51,480 --> 00:40:57,279 Speaker 1: me about one. I don't deconstruct how or why. But 690 00:40:57,320 --> 00:40:59,960 Speaker 1: I'm kind of compelled to deconstruct when I'm asked for 691 00:41:00,080 --> 00:41:03,640 Speaker 1: and questions when I'm engaging in certain conversations. So when 692 00:41:03,640 --> 00:41:06,000 Speaker 1: you say to me, what about you, mister Lindo, my 693 00:41:06,120 --> 00:41:07,200 Speaker 1: first response is. 694 00:41:09,880 --> 00:41:12,520 Speaker 3: I don't know. 695 00:41:16,400 --> 00:41:18,840 Speaker 1: And on some level that's a that's a that's that's 696 00:41:18,880 --> 00:41:25,480 Speaker 1: that's a scary place to be. But it affirms that 697 00:41:25,680 --> 00:41:29,200 Speaker 1: throughout all of my foibles, all of my insecurities, all 698 00:41:29,200 --> 00:41:33,080 Speaker 1: of my neuroses as a as a human being, something 699 00:41:33,280 --> 00:41:38,840 Speaker 1: in the work centrally has some value to my fellow 700 00:41:38,920 --> 00:41:41,480 Speaker 1: human beings. And that's why one wants to be an 701 00:41:41,480 --> 00:41:42,520 Speaker 1: actor in the first place. 702 00:41:42,680 --> 00:41:46,800 Speaker 5: Is it because the character Edwin is forcing Delroy lindo 703 00:41:46,880 --> 00:41:48,359 Speaker 5: to have to deal with some things that del Roy 704 00:41:48,400 --> 00:41:50,080 Speaker 5: Lindo's never dealt with. Because I was gonna ask, like, 705 00:41:50,120 --> 00:41:52,200 Speaker 5: even with the inner child thing, you know, you being 706 00:41:52,239 --> 00:41:55,720 Speaker 5: an elder, does your inner child. 707 00:41:55,600 --> 00:41:57,240 Speaker 3: Ever get the healing they deserve? 708 00:41:58,360 --> 00:42:00,319 Speaker 5: And because they say when you're eat questions, when you 709 00:42:00,320 --> 00:42:02,160 Speaker 5: get to your age now. It's like you go back 710 00:42:02,160 --> 00:42:07,440 Speaker 5: to great question. Great question. And I would say that 711 00:42:09,719 --> 00:42:14,120 Speaker 5: I'm navigating that. I don't know if it's my inner child. 712 00:42:14,800 --> 00:42:18,560 Speaker 5: I guess it is my inner child. I'm navigating that as. 713 00:42:18,320 --> 00:42:21,360 Speaker 1: We speak, partially through the work, but I'm also running 714 00:42:21,360 --> 00:42:25,640 Speaker 1: a memoir right now, and in and in and and 715 00:42:25,680 --> 00:42:29,319 Speaker 1: Carrie and I have talked about this somewhat, but then 716 00:42:29,600 --> 00:42:34,560 Speaker 1: and in engaging in that process and engaging in stuff 717 00:42:34,560 --> 00:42:37,239 Speaker 1: that happened to me when I was four or five, six, seven, 718 00:42:37,280 --> 00:42:40,600 Speaker 1: eight years old? Right right? 719 00:42:40,880 --> 00:42:45,360 Speaker 6: Yeah, right, yeah, yeah. 720 00:42:44,960 --> 00:42:47,680 Speaker 1: How does one understand that? How does one get to 721 00:42:47,719 --> 00:42:53,480 Speaker 1: a place of understanding with that stuff? And I'm I'm 722 00:42:53,560 --> 00:42:56,480 Speaker 1: I'm unpacking all of that right now. So I would 723 00:42:56,560 --> 00:43:01,160 Speaker 1: say I would say that this I know more now 724 00:43:01,920 --> 00:43:07,279 Speaker 1: than I knew four five years ago. I know more 725 00:43:07,360 --> 00:43:14,560 Speaker 1: now than I did ten years ago. For sure, your question, 726 00:43:14,640 --> 00:43:18,080 Speaker 1: how is that for you, mister Lindo, It's it's it's 727 00:43:18,120 --> 00:43:22,120 Speaker 1: it's an unfolding and evolving process as we speak. 728 00:43:22,560 --> 00:43:25,640 Speaker 6: Because but even that, I'm sorry, I don't want to 729 00:43:25,640 --> 00:43:30,879 Speaker 6: interrupt you. Go ahead carry even that as I sit 730 00:43:30,960 --> 00:43:34,160 Speaker 6: here watching you as one of our greatest, as one 731 00:43:34,200 --> 00:43:38,239 Speaker 6: of our wisest as one of our best. It's for 732 00:43:38,360 --> 00:43:40,600 Speaker 6: you to have the courage to sit at a table 733 00:43:40,640 --> 00:43:43,719 Speaker 6: and say, I don't know, I'm in process, I'm unpacking, 734 00:43:43,840 --> 00:43:48,680 Speaker 6: I'm unfolding. That gives so many of us permission to 735 00:43:48,760 --> 00:43:52,040 Speaker 6: be in process. And to me, that's so much of 736 00:43:52,600 --> 00:43:56,160 Speaker 6: what we need is just the permission to not have 737 00:43:56,200 --> 00:43:58,719 Speaker 6: to like walk out the door and be perfect and 738 00:43:58,760 --> 00:44:01,440 Speaker 6: have all the answers, but to say, like, it's okay 739 00:44:01,480 --> 00:44:03,360 Speaker 6: that I have days where I'm not sure. It's okay 740 00:44:03,360 --> 00:44:06,120 Speaker 6: that I have days when I need help. And I 741 00:44:06,160 --> 00:44:08,080 Speaker 6: think I think that's one of the things that I 742 00:44:08,120 --> 00:44:12,360 Speaker 6: love about our show is that we're so in process. 743 00:44:12,480 --> 00:44:15,080 Speaker 6: We are a family that is so in processed, but 744 00:44:15,120 --> 00:44:19,480 Speaker 6: there's so much joy. Like we're not pulling our guts 745 00:44:19,480 --> 00:44:23,960 Speaker 6: out to suffer. We're doing the work because you get 746 00:44:24,000 --> 00:44:26,719 Speaker 6: to see all through the season every time we do 747 00:44:26,800 --> 00:44:30,080 Speaker 6: the work. On the other side is more love, is 748 00:44:30,160 --> 00:44:34,800 Speaker 6: more joy, is more acceptance, more belonging, even. 749 00:44:34,600 --> 00:44:37,920 Speaker 1: When the love is flawed, Even when the love is flawed. 750 00:44:37,680 --> 00:44:39,080 Speaker 3: Right, yeah, it. 751 00:44:39,040 --> 00:44:43,160 Speaker 1: Is flawed all day long. Right, And we're we're what's this, 752 00:44:43,320 --> 00:44:45,839 Speaker 1: We're in the We're in the mud man and we're 753 00:44:45,880 --> 00:44:49,000 Speaker 1: trying to see it and and mold it and fit 754 00:44:49,840 --> 00:44:54,120 Speaker 1: all that. And that's profoundly human. You said something, it's 755 00:44:54,160 --> 00:44:58,880 Speaker 1: profoundly human. You said something that's connected to what we're 756 00:44:59,160 --> 00:45:02,360 Speaker 1: discussing right now. You said, I'm going on Stephen Colbert tonight. 757 00:45:02,440 --> 00:45:12,000 Speaker 1: Did you say that given the events of the last 758 00:45:15,120 --> 00:45:16,440 Speaker 1: what day is this Tuesday? 759 00:45:16,480 --> 00:45:18,680 Speaker 3: Wednesday? 760 00:45:18,719 --> 00:45:21,319 Speaker 1: Thursday? When it is okay? All right? So given the 761 00:45:21,360 --> 00:45:25,440 Speaker 1: events of uh since last Friday and Saturday and Sunday, 762 00:45:25,680 --> 00:45:30,400 Speaker 1: and you're going onto a You're going into a a 763 00:45:30,520 --> 00:45:36,120 Speaker 1: sphere where I don't know if you're going to talk 764 00:45:36,120 --> 00:45:36,800 Speaker 1: about that. 765 00:45:37,880 --> 00:45:40,080 Speaker 3: But we are because it's live after the convention to. 766 00:45:40,120 --> 00:45:43,920 Speaker 1: Night, okay, And I'm wondering, and this is too, This 767 00:45:43,960 --> 00:45:48,200 Speaker 1: is this speaks to how how we connect with ourselves 768 00:45:48,239 --> 00:45:52,520 Speaker 1: and how we communicate in the world. How much realness 769 00:45:52,560 --> 00:45:53,600 Speaker 1: do you bring to that. 770 00:45:54,000 --> 00:45:57,640 Speaker 3: All of it? Because this is a moment that's way 771 00:45:57,680 --> 00:45:58,600 Speaker 3: bigger than us right now. 772 00:45:58,640 --> 00:46:01,120 Speaker 1: It's way bigger than that in us, And I'm scared 773 00:46:01,200 --> 00:46:01,640 Speaker 1: right now. 774 00:46:01,800 --> 00:46:05,120 Speaker 3: We're at a very pivotal point in our society. 775 00:46:04,719 --> 00:46:07,080 Speaker 1: Right now, but it's more pivotal than the pivotal than 776 00:46:07,080 --> 00:46:08,520 Speaker 1: how pivotal it was last week. 777 00:46:08,680 --> 00:46:10,600 Speaker 4: Yes, of course, yes, of course, Sharper. 778 00:46:10,680 --> 00:46:13,520 Speaker 1: Now because the way this has come down in the 779 00:46:13,600 --> 00:46:17,480 Speaker 1: last four or five days absolutely scary. Oh, it's terrified 780 00:46:17,520 --> 00:46:17,840 Speaker 1: about what. 781 00:46:17,840 --> 00:46:20,200 Speaker 5: The Supreme Court is doing, what I don't even think 782 00:46:20,280 --> 00:46:21,640 Speaker 5: is in a legitimate court anymore. 783 00:46:21,880 --> 00:46:25,560 Speaker 3: On top of on the way there's a yeah. 784 00:46:25,760 --> 00:46:28,319 Speaker 1: It's a lot, it's a lot, and and and what 785 00:46:28,360 --> 00:46:31,200 Speaker 1: we're what we've been talking about in this, in this, 786 00:46:31,320 --> 00:46:34,799 Speaker 1: in this, in this conversation has to do with a 787 00:46:34,840 --> 00:46:39,360 Speaker 1: certain kind of truth that we as actors are trying 788 00:46:39,360 --> 00:46:44,520 Speaker 1: to get to. Truth for ourselves as human beings, truth 789 00:46:44,520 --> 00:46:49,120 Speaker 1: for ourselves as as as creative workers. And we're trying 790 00:46:49,160 --> 00:46:51,719 Speaker 1: to bring all of that together, and we're and we're 791 00:46:51,840 --> 00:46:57,520 Speaker 1: we're putting it out there and now we the next 792 00:46:57,920 --> 00:47:02,440 Speaker 1: another dimension of having messed around with that truth is 793 00:47:02,480 --> 00:47:06,240 Speaker 1: now dealing with how that truth has impacted our actors, 794 00:47:06,440 --> 00:47:08,800 Speaker 1: I'm sorry, our audiences. 795 00:47:08,280 --> 00:47:11,399 Speaker 2: Which is crazy as is. You know, Carrie, A lot 796 00:47:11,440 --> 00:47:15,760 Speaker 2: of this seems like scandal. A lot of it seems 797 00:47:15,800 --> 00:47:18,680 Speaker 2: like we've seen it before on your show. Can you 798 00:47:18,719 --> 00:47:20,640 Speaker 2: talk about that, how this seems like it's like it's 799 00:47:20,680 --> 00:47:21,759 Speaker 2: reliving again and. 800 00:47:21,840 --> 00:47:26,400 Speaker 5: It was a whole episode of Scandal that this happened, yes, life, Yes, 801 00:47:26,520 --> 00:47:28,920 Speaker 5: because people were saying people were saying, it's stage, but 802 00:47:29,320 --> 00:47:30,240 Speaker 5: we know it's not stage. 803 00:47:30,239 --> 00:47:32,000 Speaker 3: But the episode of Scandal when he did stage it. 804 00:47:32,920 --> 00:47:38,040 Speaker 6: Yeah, I think you know. One of the things that 805 00:47:38,040 --> 00:47:41,799 Speaker 6: that I want us to be talking about more is 806 00:47:41,840 --> 00:47:47,400 Speaker 6: that too many of us are not participating in the process. 807 00:47:47,600 --> 00:47:50,680 Speaker 6: Are not are thinking that it's okay to not vote, 808 00:47:51,280 --> 00:47:54,360 Speaker 6: our feeling like there's no point in participating. 809 00:47:54,480 --> 00:47:57,319 Speaker 1: They set up like that, Carrie, the process is set 810 00:47:57,400 --> 00:47:57,960 Speaker 1: up like that. 811 00:47:58,160 --> 00:48:00,160 Speaker 6: I know, I know, but let me let me just say. 812 00:48:00,920 --> 00:48:05,160 Speaker 6: What concerns me is that so much of it stems 813 00:48:05,320 --> 00:48:09,640 Speaker 6: from this belief that we have internalized that we don't matter. 814 00:48:10,560 --> 00:48:14,239 Speaker 6: And that's part of why this work that we do 815 00:48:14,400 --> 00:48:17,000 Speaker 6: matters to me, is because we tell these stories so 816 00:48:17,040 --> 00:48:20,240 Speaker 6: that people see themselves, so that they know that they matter. 817 00:48:20,920 --> 00:48:24,280 Speaker 6: And I want people to participate in our democratic process 818 00:48:24,360 --> 00:48:26,920 Speaker 6: because I want you to know that you matter. Like 819 00:48:27,080 --> 00:48:30,560 Speaker 6: this word democracy is getting thrown around, what I want 820 00:48:30,600 --> 00:48:33,080 Speaker 6: to remind people is that what it means is a 821 00:48:33,120 --> 00:48:38,040 Speaker 6: government for the people. By now, we don't do that 822 00:48:38,160 --> 00:48:41,040 Speaker 6: perfectly in this country. I know that we all know that, 823 00:48:41,520 --> 00:48:46,920 Speaker 6: but we don't fix it by stepping out of the process. 824 00:48:47,200 --> 00:48:50,840 Speaker 6: And I know that that's hard, because life is very 825 00:48:50,880 --> 00:48:54,400 Speaker 6: hard for a lot of us, and we feel like 826 00:48:54,480 --> 00:48:57,400 Speaker 6: we want to step out of the process because the 827 00:48:57,480 --> 00:49:00,600 Speaker 6: process isn't made for us, and the process isn't isn't 828 00:49:00,640 --> 00:49:04,120 Speaker 6: working for us, and the process doesn't include us. We 829 00:49:04,280 --> 00:49:08,360 Speaker 6: have to force ourselves into the process because the alternative 830 00:49:09,239 --> 00:49:11,800 Speaker 6: is not a government by the people for the people, 831 00:49:12,239 --> 00:49:16,520 Speaker 6: but an autocrat, which means like a president who does 832 00:49:16,880 --> 00:49:22,320 Speaker 6: whatever he wants, he wants however he wants, and accountability. 833 00:49:22,880 --> 00:49:25,319 Speaker 6: They're not being coy about it, like they have a 834 00:49:25,480 --> 00:49:29,520 Speaker 6: very clear point by point this project twenty five it 835 00:49:29,560 --> 00:49:34,080 Speaker 6: will have a catastrophic impact on education, on healthcare, on 836 00:49:34,120 --> 00:49:38,279 Speaker 6: the economy, and they're not being shy about it. They 837 00:49:38,320 --> 00:49:43,080 Speaker 6: are telling us that they want to change the government 838 00:49:43,200 --> 00:49:46,480 Speaker 6: so that it is no longer a government by the 839 00:49:46,560 --> 00:49:49,680 Speaker 6: people for the people, that it doesn't even have that 840 00:49:50,160 --> 00:49:53,160 Speaker 6: dream that it's going to be a government for the 841 00:49:53,200 --> 00:49:56,760 Speaker 6: president and his friends, and we are not his friends. 842 00:49:56,800 --> 00:49:59,080 Speaker 5: I'm wondering, if you know, the way the Supreme Court 843 00:49:59,080 --> 00:50:01,560 Speaker 5: is set up beca not even a legitimate institution anymore. 844 00:50:01,600 --> 00:50:03,800 Speaker 5: I'm wondering, right now, are we do we even have 845 00:50:03,840 --> 00:50:05,919 Speaker 5: a healthy enough democracy to have a free and fair 846 00:50:05,920 --> 00:50:06,840 Speaker 5: election in November. 847 00:50:07,520 --> 00:50:16,560 Speaker 1: Okay, totally legitimate question. One thing carry for all of 848 00:50:16,640 --> 00:50:22,280 Speaker 1: us because this is this is this is it's beyond 849 00:50:22,440 --> 00:50:27,719 Speaker 1: critically important. It's existential. It's existential. I don't think that 850 00:50:27,760 --> 00:50:32,279 Speaker 1: the people who are not participating are necessarily doing it 851 00:50:32,400 --> 00:50:39,080 Speaker 1: consciously internalized. They've internalized this narrative that says, as you said, 852 00:50:39,280 --> 00:50:41,840 Speaker 1: you don't matter, it doesn't matter, you don't count, it 853 00:50:41,880 --> 00:50:45,280 Speaker 1: doesn't matter, and you internalize that and then it becomes 854 00:50:46,120 --> 00:50:50,360 Speaker 1: w t F. That's right, that's what we have. 855 00:50:51,320 --> 00:50:55,520 Speaker 6: That's what we have to address when sorry. 856 00:50:55,600 --> 00:50:59,319 Speaker 1: No, no, that's what has to be addressed. That's that's 857 00:50:59,360 --> 00:51:03,560 Speaker 1: what has to be on some level, the process in 858 00:51:03,640 --> 00:51:09,120 Speaker 1: which folk have internalized just what you said, it doesn't matter. 859 00:51:09,280 --> 00:51:11,640 Speaker 1: How do we unpack that, How do we deconstruct that 860 00:51:11,719 --> 00:51:14,400 Speaker 1: and say, yeah, it matters, And how do we articulate 861 00:51:14,480 --> 00:51:18,719 Speaker 1: that in a way that turns them on, flips the 862 00:51:18,760 --> 00:51:19,439 Speaker 1: switch for them. 863 00:51:20,600 --> 00:51:21,040 Speaker 3: I don't know. 864 00:51:21,480 --> 00:51:22,120 Speaker 1: I don't know when. 865 00:51:22,120 --> 00:51:26,000 Speaker 6: I don't know, but I do, But I do know 866 00:51:27,040 --> 00:51:31,680 Speaker 6: that all the concerns we have will not be fixed 867 00:51:31,760 --> 00:51:35,680 Speaker 6: by stepping out of the process, by deciding that there's 868 00:51:35,800 --> 00:51:39,520 Speaker 6: nothing we can do that will not for sure be 869 00:51:39,760 --> 00:51:42,359 Speaker 6: that will not move us toward a solution. So don't don't. 870 00:51:42,880 --> 00:51:45,600 Speaker 6: I don't know what each person wants to do, but 871 00:51:45,640 --> 00:51:48,239 Speaker 6: there's so much that we can do right now. We 872 00:51:48,280 --> 00:51:51,080 Speaker 6: can check our own voter registration. We can reach out 873 00:51:51,080 --> 00:51:53,719 Speaker 6: to five friends who we know aren't planning to vote 874 00:51:53,760 --> 00:51:56,560 Speaker 6: and beg them, try to help them to understand. Because 875 00:51:56,880 --> 00:51:59,680 Speaker 6: the best person to communicate somebody to the importance of 876 00:51:59,719 --> 00:52:02,160 Speaker 6: voting as somebody's friend or family member, not a celebrity, 877 00:52:02,239 --> 00:52:07,680 Speaker 6: not a politician, not anything. We can all support grassroots organizations. 878 00:52:07,680 --> 00:52:10,520 Speaker 6: There are grassroots organizations all over the country who are 879 00:52:10,600 --> 00:52:14,000 Speaker 6: doing the heavy work of democracy building. We can support 880 00:52:14,080 --> 00:52:18,520 Speaker 6: those organizations. We can focus on local races. We can volunteer, 881 00:52:18,680 --> 00:52:20,920 Speaker 6: we can make phone calls. We can if we have 882 00:52:21,040 --> 00:52:23,439 Speaker 6: the money to donate, we can do it. There's there 883 00:52:23,560 --> 00:52:27,080 Speaker 6: is so much that we can do. And I find 884 00:52:27,600 --> 00:52:31,279 Speaker 6: that when I am feeling hopeless and afraid, the more 885 00:52:31,280 --> 00:52:35,000 Speaker 6: that I click into community and try to do something, 886 00:52:35,520 --> 00:52:38,000 Speaker 6: the better I feel. So, even if it's just like 887 00:52:38,200 --> 00:52:41,360 Speaker 6: a part of your own mental health strategy, because I 888 00:52:41,480 --> 00:52:44,680 Speaker 6: believe that that participating in politics is part of how 889 00:52:44,719 --> 00:52:49,280 Speaker 6: I exercise self care and self love like I express 890 00:52:49,360 --> 00:52:52,319 Speaker 6: my love for my community by showing up in my 891 00:52:52,360 --> 00:52:55,239 Speaker 6: democratic process because I know that it matters. 892 00:52:57,120 --> 00:52:59,160 Speaker 3: This is the Black Dinner table. You think about all 893 00:52:59,200 --> 00:52:59,839 Speaker 3: the issues we. 894 00:52:59,800 --> 00:53:03,600 Speaker 4: Come biracial, coming from jail. 895 00:53:04,040 --> 00:53:04,560 Speaker 1: Everything. 896 00:53:05,000 --> 00:53:07,520 Speaker 4: God, I mean, we appreciate you guys for joining us 897 00:53:07,520 --> 00:53:07,799 Speaker 4: so much. 898 00:53:07,880 --> 00:53:08,480 Speaker 1: We need you guys. 899 00:53:08,880 --> 00:53:12,360 Speaker 2: We need you guys back and especially uh, you know, individually, 900 00:53:12,400 --> 00:53:15,680 Speaker 2: so we can talk about your both of your careers anniversary. 901 00:53:16,960 --> 00:53:19,600 Speaker 3: We got to discuss almost die. Oh, I know, I got, 902 00:53:19,840 --> 00:53:21,560 Speaker 3: I know, y'all got to go. 903 00:53:21,600 --> 00:53:23,080 Speaker 5: I do have to ask the Romeo on the die 904 00:53:23,120 --> 00:53:26,640 Speaker 5: question because mister Lindo, you worked with a Lea, you 905 00:53:26,719 --> 00:53:30,520 Speaker 5: played a Leah's father. Does it make you appreciate life 906 00:53:30,640 --> 00:53:33,520 Speaker 5: more because you're still here at seventy one and those 907 00:53:33,520 --> 00:53:35,480 Speaker 5: two beautiful individuals have. 908 00:53:35,560 --> 00:53:39,160 Speaker 1: Yes, Yes, yes, a thousand times yes. And that I 909 00:53:39,160 --> 00:53:43,080 Speaker 1: didn't know DMX as well, uh because we didn't work together. 910 00:53:43,640 --> 00:53:46,400 Speaker 1: But that young lady was such a beautiful spirit man 911 00:53:46,560 --> 00:53:50,360 Speaker 1: and I don't know she had this, I didn't know 912 00:53:50,360 --> 00:53:59,120 Speaker 1: who she was before we did the film. Extraordinarily beautiful spirit. 913 00:53:59,160 --> 00:54:02,240 Speaker 1: She was like a spune. She just wanted she wanted 914 00:54:02,239 --> 00:54:05,080 Speaker 1: to learn. She wanted to she wanted to move herself 915 00:54:05,120 --> 00:54:11,279 Speaker 1: forward in terms of whatever her public, what, what her 916 00:54:11,480 --> 00:54:15,720 Speaker 1: image was. The young lady that I knew, that I 917 00:54:15,760 --> 00:54:21,560 Speaker 1: interacted with was a profoundly beautiful spirit. You know, it 918 00:54:21,600 --> 00:54:23,239 Speaker 1: broke my heart when we lost her. 919 00:54:23,320 --> 00:54:24,600 Speaker 3: Man, you remember where you were. 920 00:54:25,600 --> 00:54:27,840 Speaker 1: I know exactly where I was. I was in the 921 00:54:27,880 --> 00:54:30,719 Speaker 1: e r with my son. I was in the room 922 00:54:30,719 --> 00:54:33,520 Speaker 1: with my son. My son had developed this breathing thing, 923 00:54:34,600 --> 00:54:38,520 Speaker 1: and we took him to the hospital. It is being 924 00:54:38,600 --> 00:54:42,040 Speaker 1: seen by a doctor. And I stepped outside. I stepped 925 00:54:42,040 --> 00:54:45,200 Speaker 1: outside to the parking lot and I started getting all 926 00:54:45,200 --> 00:54:48,160 Speaker 1: these texts, so sorry to hear, so sorry to hear. 927 00:54:48,200 --> 00:54:51,200 Speaker 1: And I said what what what? What? And I and 928 00:54:51,239 --> 00:54:53,160 Speaker 1: then a friend of mine said, oh my god, we 929 00:54:53,280 --> 00:54:57,719 Speaker 1: lost a Leah. And I screamed out and I didn't know. 930 00:54:57,760 --> 00:54:59,680 Speaker 1: I screamed that there were two sisters in the parking 931 00:54:59,680 --> 00:55:02,279 Speaker 1: lot and they said, sir, are you all right? And 932 00:55:03,360 --> 00:55:04,960 Speaker 1: that's where I was. I was in the I was 933 00:55:05,000 --> 00:55:09,120 Speaker 1: in the Oakland Children's Hospital in the parking lot when 934 00:55:09,120 --> 00:55:15,800 Speaker 1: I found out about a Leah. Wow. So to your question, man, 935 00:55:16,880 --> 00:55:19,359 Speaker 1: and one doesn't always think about these things in these 936 00:55:19,440 --> 00:55:22,480 Speaker 1: kinds of terms. I'm so I'm so fortunate to still 937 00:55:22,520 --> 00:55:30,839 Speaker 1: be here. But man, yeah, and then DMX, we didn't 938 00:55:30,880 --> 00:55:33,360 Speaker 1: have any scenes together. I was walking down Canal Street. 939 00:55:33,680 --> 00:55:36,560 Speaker 1: I was walking on Canal and Houston Street and this 940 00:55:36,680 --> 00:55:39,720 Speaker 1: car pulls up, a big black SUV and the window 941 00:55:39,760 --> 00:55:45,439 Speaker 1: rolls down. It's d MX. Yo yo yo yo yo. Man, 942 00:55:45,560 --> 00:55:48,040 Speaker 1: keep doing what you're doing now, bet that that that 943 00:55:48,200 --> 00:55:51,400 Speaker 1: was it. But the respect, the connection, you know what 944 00:55:51,440 --> 00:55:56,400 Speaker 1: I mean. So the fact that they are no longer 945 00:55:56,440 --> 00:56:02,680 Speaker 1: here and I am I'm I'm being a parent, I'm working, 946 00:56:03,080 --> 00:56:08,040 Speaker 1: I'm doing im important, I'm having important communications with important people. 947 00:56:08,400 --> 00:56:12,000 Speaker 1: And when I say important, I'm talking about people who 948 00:56:12,040 --> 00:56:18,280 Speaker 1: are culturally plugged in and committed to moving our culture forward. 949 00:56:19,360 --> 00:56:23,080 Speaker 1: But it's not just it's not just this cultural thing. 950 00:56:23,480 --> 00:56:28,040 Speaker 1: It's the fact that we happen to be human beings, 951 00:56:29,320 --> 00:56:32,160 Speaker 1: African descented human beings, and we're trying to move this 952 00:56:32,200 --> 00:56:35,239 Speaker 1: thing forward for all of us. And I got to 953 00:56:35,280 --> 00:56:38,120 Speaker 1: say this, it ain't just about black people. It's about 954 00:56:38,120 --> 00:56:40,640 Speaker 1: the condition of being a human being on the planet, 955 00:56:40,760 --> 00:56:43,799 Speaker 1: of what we contribute, what we continue to contribute, what 956 00:56:43,880 --> 00:56:48,880 Speaker 1: we contributed historically, and the fact that all the stuff 957 00:56:48,920 --> 00:56:52,960 Speaker 1: we bring to the table right in this process of 958 00:56:53,040 --> 00:57:00,600 Speaker 1: living that constantly gets downplayed and undervalued. And it's our jobs, 959 00:57:00,600 --> 00:57:02,960 Speaker 1: going back to what we talked about originally in the 960 00:57:03,040 --> 00:57:07,160 Speaker 1: beginning of this conversation, to interrupt that process and say, uh, 961 00:57:07,719 --> 00:57:10,200 Speaker 1: we're here, we're important, this is what we do, and 962 00:57:10,280 --> 00:57:13,200 Speaker 1: y'all have to listen to us. And it's critical to 963 00:57:13,280 --> 00:57:15,680 Speaker 1: tell those met to tell those stories to our children 964 00:57:15,840 --> 00:57:19,320 Speaker 1: because they will then take it that step further. 965 00:57:19,640 --> 00:57:21,439 Speaker 4: All right, well, there you have it Season two. 966 00:57:21,560 --> 00:57:24,560 Speaker 3: Thank you, God, bless y'all. 967 00:57:24,520 --> 00:57:27,520 Speaker 4: We thank you for joining us. Kerry Washington, Delroy Lindo, 968 00:57:27,880 --> 00:57:28,640 Speaker 4: thank you so much. 969 00:57:29,000 --> 00:57:33,200 Speaker 1: Feel better, feel better, Wake that ass up in the morning. 970 00:57:33,520 --> 00:57:34,360 Speaker 1: Breakfast Club.