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Speaker 1: G g McGuire and it's a celebration. Its lip service,

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Speaker 1: congratulations for step Michelle's here with us and today's historic day.

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Speaker 1: You know why wow, because you just finish your albums, gratulation.

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Speaker 1: Thank you, like literally came from the studio, finished the

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Speaker 1: album and came to do lip service. Yeah, that's we're

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Speaker 1: why because we don't ask you the wrong thing. Okay,

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Speaker 1: so we'll start. I'm very shy and you are I am.

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Speaker 1: But if I don't feel comfortable, I just you know,

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Speaker 1: G Stephanie would take stepinitely left with the selfies. Were

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Speaker 1: on the shine? Are you doing? She hyped? Now I'm

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Speaker 1: ships now you know we always start with the tip

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Speaker 1: of the day. Now, today's tip is how to have

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Speaker 1: that first night sex and make sure that the sex

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Speaker 1: is good enough so they want to do it again

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Speaker 1: and they think it was popping, but not too good

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Speaker 1: so they don't think they share a freak. She just

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Speaker 1: do this with everybody. She just did too much. Damn

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Speaker 1: all right, we'll start with you gi a start with

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Speaker 1: Stephanie because only always starts, And then she had to

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Speaker 1: we we know I'm kind of like confident when it

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Speaker 1: put it all out there. Um, I'll hope back on

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Speaker 1: giving him too good of a blow job, So you

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Speaker 1: give him like a I wouldn't give him like a job.

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Speaker 1: I'm not gonna give a mediocre one, but I'm giving

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Speaker 1: him one enough that he completes it? Um? Well, if

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Speaker 1: I have to, But but that's a pretty damn good

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Speaker 1: But you said you would do it, but he would

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Speaker 1: definitely go back all the way in alright, what else? Um,

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Speaker 1: And then sometimes the first night is just like awkward

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Speaker 1: or because we don't know each other, like yeah, but

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Speaker 1: the chemistry you have with the person, that's true, especially

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Speaker 1: if you've been like face timing and stuff like that,

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Speaker 1: and then anticipation is built up. What about you, Stephanie.

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Speaker 1: For me, the first time, it has to be good.

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Speaker 1: What if not, I'm not going back to the guy.

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Speaker 1: I swear you get one shot with me. Man, one shot,

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Speaker 1: you mess it all, that's it. You're not gonna see

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Speaker 1: And listen. If he's a side piece, he's okay with it. Yeah, No,

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Speaker 1: But I wasn't specific, but like just diamonds all over

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Speaker 1: You know, y'all didn't speak for like seven years years

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Speaker 1: could say, oh, I don't want to get married now

423
00:20:41,600 --> 00:20:45,440
Speaker 1: because I'm single, you know, but I want to get married.

424
00:20:45,480 --> 00:20:48,280
Speaker 1: Of course, I thought about getting every time out wedding

425
00:20:48,280 --> 00:20:50,320
Speaker 1: before we know who we're gonna married. No, but every

426
00:20:50,400 --> 00:20:53,879
Speaker 1: time I fall in love, I think about Ohna, We're

427
00:20:53,880 --> 00:20:56,280
Speaker 1: gonna have such beautiful babies and such a nice wedding.

428
00:20:56,320 --> 00:20:59,360
Speaker 1: We're definitely gonna get married. Every time I fall in love.

429
00:20:59,840 --> 00:21:00,960
Speaker 1: I don't know. I think it was kind of the

430
00:21:00,960 --> 00:21:03,679
Speaker 1: opposite for me. I think when I was younger, I

431
00:21:03,720 --> 00:21:06,400
Speaker 1: never wanted to get married, and I think that once

432
00:21:06,400 --> 00:21:09,479
Speaker 1: I've got older and more mature, I feel like I

433
00:21:09,480 --> 00:21:12,040
Speaker 1: would get married now because I know that I feel

434
00:21:12,040 --> 00:21:13,440
Speaker 1: deep down in my heart that I'm already with the

435
00:21:13,440 --> 00:21:15,520
Speaker 1: person I'm for the rest of my life. So why

436
00:21:15,560 --> 00:21:17,479
Speaker 1: not make it official at this point after everything we've

437
00:21:17,480 --> 00:21:19,280
Speaker 1: been through. I mean, we're going on six six and

438
00:21:19,280 --> 00:21:22,800
Speaker 1: a half almost seven years with the breakup and all,

439
00:21:23,080 --> 00:21:26,000
Speaker 1: so I just feel like at this point it would

440
00:21:26,040 --> 00:21:29,399
Speaker 1: have to be something crazy, crazy, insane for us to

441
00:21:29,440 --> 00:21:33,760
Speaker 1: go through another breakup. Right. I wasn't a girly type,

442
00:21:34,160 --> 00:21:36,080
Speaker 1: so you weren't planning your wedding when you were younger,

443
00:21:38,080 --> 00:21:40,600
Speaker 1: but you said you prayed for this. I did once

444
00:21:40,640 --> 00:21:43,200
Speaker 1: I realized I needed it, because I'm out of old.

445
00:21:43,200 --> 00:21:44,840
Speaker 1: I'm you know, I'm a lot. I need some money

446
00:21:44,840 --> 00:21:48,520
Speaker 1: to be like no ya, because I don't really you know,

447
00:21:48,920 --> 00:21:51,159
Speaker 1: I don't have a lot of rules when and I

448
00:21:51,480 --> 00:21:54,679
Speaker 1: kind of run my on kind of stuff sometimes, you know,

449
00:21:54,720 --> 00:21:57,240
Speaker 1: as girls like that are independent. We just got that

450
00:21:57,320 --> 00:22:02,320
Speaker 1: independent nature. And are you controlling? Um? I'm a micromanager? Okay?

451
00:22:02,560 --> 00:22:05,679
Speaker 1: You know? So you know, just I knew that it

452
00:22:05,720 --> 00:22:08,600
Speaker 1: was time for me to become a woman, and part

453
00:22:08,680 --> 00:22:10,800
Speaker 1: for me, part of becoming a woman was realizing that

454
00:22:10,840 --> 00:22:14,160
Speaker 1: I can't do everything. But that just happened just recently,

455
00:22:14,840 --> 00:22:19,760
Speaker 1: so the time. Yeah, all right, Now, what's on your

456
00:22:19,800 --> 00:22:24,080
Speaker 1: sex playlist? What are some songs that you think are guaranteed?

457
00:22:24,200 --> 00:22:26,840
Speaker 1: This is my go to when it's time to have sex.

458
00:22:27,119 --> 00:22:28,680
Speaker 1: Do you all listen to music when you have sex.

459
00:22:28,880 --> 00:22:32,919
Speaker 1: I don't turn on music to have sex, but if

460
00:22:32,920 --> 00:22:35,920
Speaker 1: the music is already on, then you know, I'm gonna

461
00:22:35,920 --> 00:22:38,280
Speaker 1: go with the flow. But I don't be like, I

462
00:22:38,280 --> 00:22:41,959
Speaker 1: don't be like let me be that particular song. Uh,

463
00:22:42,760 --> 00:22:49,120
Speaker 1: what rock you back to Sleep? That's a good sex

464
00:22:49,119 --> 00:22:53,080
Speaker 1: playlist song. I think Miguel Kaleidoscope Dream is the spars

465
00:22:53,760 --> 00:23:00,920
Speaker 1: albums have sex, so it's bombs yeah, the whole that

466
00:23:01,000 --> 00:23:03,000
Speaker 1: was a great album. That's a good one. It's a

467
00:23:03,040 --> 00:23:05,760
Speaker 1: really good one. I've always associate music with times of

468
00:23:05,800 --> 00:23:09,120
Speaker 1: my life for people that I've been with, So, um,

469
00:23:09,160 --> 00:23:13,520
Speaker 1: if if if I was with somebody then in our song,

470
00:23:14,040 --> 00:23:15,840
Speaker 1: you know, I would want to play that, I guess,

471
00:23:16,560 --> 00:23:18,119
Speaker 1: but I don't really have like a set list, and

472
00:23:18,119 --> 00:23:19,399
Speaker 1: I'm like, yeah, I gonna put this one week by

473
00:23:19,440 --> 00:23:22,159
Speaker 1: thinking too it now. But listen, you know there's certain

474
00:23:22,200 --> 00:23:26,680
Speaker 1: things that I like to go back, like Jody see A, R,

475
00:23:26,880 --> 00:23:29,240
Speaker 1: R and B. From the nineties. It was all love songs.

476
00:23:29,480 --> 00:23:31,600
Speaker 1: So all of that is great sex music. All of

477
00:23:31,640 --> 00:23:35,840
Speaker 1: that is get you in the mood music. Jody see

478
00:23:35,880 --> 00:23:43,879
Speaker 1: freak you Oh my god. I like stuff with a boom. Jeez,

479
00:23:43,880 --> 00:23:49,760
Speaker 1: I can't even come. How many times you'd be like,

480
00:23:50,240 --> 00:23:52,160
Speaker 1: I can't even come? How many times I've had sex

481
00:23:52,240 --> 00:23:56,760
Speaker 1: to eight always and heartbreaks? When I'm drunk, I'll come

482
00:23:56,800 --> 00:23:59,119
Speaker 1: home and put that on and hopefully use the right

483
00:23:59,200 --> 00:24:02,920
Speaker 1: name album right, don't don't call out. But I never

484
00:24:03,080 --> 00:24:05,159
Speaker 1: I never messed up on any of my boyfriends. It

485
00:24:05,240 --> 00:24:10,520
Speaker 1: was me. Yeah, And when he was playing, he came

486
00:24:10,640 --> 00:24:18,440
Speaker 1: up and was like, really, she's now I see from

487
00:24:18,480 --> 00:24:20,399
Speaker 1: what I heard. I heard the song steady, it's a

488
00:24:20,440 --> 00:24:24,199
Speaker 1: little different from your previous music, you know. So do

489
00:24:24,240 --> 00:24:26,600
Speaker 1: you think we were having a discussion about this earlier today?

490
00:24:26,640 --> 00:24:29,520
Speaker 1: I see, Um, I saw mac Wild's earlier today, and

491
00:24:29,560 --> 00:24:32,639
Speaker 1: you know, he's doing all this like um nineties, right,

492
00:24:32,920 --> 00:24:34,159
Speaker 1: R and B from the nineties type of thing, And

493
00:24:34,160 --> 00:24:36,199
Speaker 1: he was saying it was just a different feel for

494
00:24:36,280 --> 00:24:38,000
Speaker 1: the music back then. What do you think about music

495
00:24:38,040 --> 00:24:40,680
Speaker 1: now is compared to music in the nineties. I thought

496
00:24:40,680 --> 00:24:42,600
Speaker 1: that was really cool though, by the way, just how

497
00:24:42,640 --> 00:24:45,800
Speaker 1: excited he is about bringing that soundback. And now he's young,

498
00:24:45,880 --> 00:24:47,479
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, and young people really look

499
00:24:47,560 --> 00:24:49,520
Speaker 1: up to him because he was like one. And I agree,

500
00:24:49,680 --> 00:24:53,960
Speaker 1: and he's singing he was he was born in eighty nine.

501
00:24:54,119 --> 00:24:56,720
Speaker 1: It was one he was on. But I agree with

502
00:24:56,720 --> 00:24:58,760
Speaker 1: with you. I think that's so dope that he's doing it,

503
00:24:58,840 --> 00:25:00,600
Speaker 1: and the fact that he is so young and really

504
00:25:00,640 --> 00:25:03,119
Speaker 1: didn't experience but he's so invested in it, and you

505
00:25:03,160 --> 00:25:06,480
Speaker 1: can tell that he's um like genuinely, he really likes

506
00:25:06,520 --> 00:25:10,080
Speaker 1: that era and he projects it so well. I like

507
00:25:10,200 --> 00:25:12,199
Speaker 1: the music that's happening now. I know that R and

508
00:25:12,200 --> 00:25:16,640
Speaker 1: B singers are supposed to say they hate it, don't

509
00:25:16,720 --> 00:25:18,760
Speaker 1: I really do. I like to have fun because that

510
00:25:18,840 --> 00:25:21,040
Speaker 1: was interesting. When I asked you what song you like,

511
00:25:21,160 --> 00:25:23,040
Speaker 1: like what's on your sex playlist, and you said Chris

512
00:25:23,040 --> 00:25:24,920
Speaker 1: Brown and you said this new song. I thought you

513
00:25:25,000 --> 00:25:28,240
Speaker 1: was gonna like go back, because you have a soul.

514
00:25:29,000 --> 00:25:30,880
Speaker 1: I know people always think I'm like burning and sense

515
00:25:30,880 --> 00:25:34,439
Speaker 1: and reading poetry. Well I don't know about but I

516
00:25:34,480 --> 00:25:36,240
Speaker 1: thought you were gonna say something like, you know, like

517
00:25:36,240 --> 00:25:38,480
Speaker 1: a throwback, you know what I mean, Like I feel

518
00:25:38,560 --> 00:25:42,560
Speaker 1: like you take from that m no. No. When I

519
00:25:42,600 --> 00:25:44,439
Speaker 1: got signed up to him, I remember them taking me

520
00:25:44,480 --> 00:25:46,080
Speaker 1: to the record store and buying me your whole bunch

521
00:25:46,119 --> 00:25:48,159
Speaker 1: of old school music, old school R and B. I

522
00:25:48,200 --> 00:25:50,000
Speaker 1: had like a lot of hip hop stuff, but they

523
00:25:50,240 --> 00:25:52,199
Speaker 1: took me for me a bunch of like so you

524
00:25:52,240 --> 00:25:54,919
Speaker 1: were never really into old school R and B. Remember

525
00:25:54,960 --> 00:25:57,479
Speaker 1: one time I was at a concert with Jay and

526
00:25:57,600 --> 00:25:59,840
Speaker 1: it was a line on what your concert and like

527
00:26:00,840 --> 00:26:03,639
Speaker 1: he's dancing like he's going and I'm looking up at

528
00:26:03,720 --> 00:26:05,480
Speaker 1: him like okay, and he looked at me he said,

529
00:26:05,520 --> 00:26:07,720
Speaker 1: you don't know none of the words. You're weird now.

530
00:26:07,760 --> 00:26:10,200
Speaker 1: I was just like okay, Wow, I'm gonna jump in

531
00:26:10,240 --> 00:26:13,000
Speaker 1: the lake now. I think. My mom to see Smokey

532
00:26:13,080 --> 00:26:15,760
Speaker 1: Robinson and I was mad, hype was I was, I'm

533
00:26:16,080 --> 00:26:19,160
Speaker 1: so beautiful and so are you. It's crazy. He's my favorite,

534
00:26:19,280 --> 00:26:23,520
Speaker 1: so beautiful. My mom was type. But my friend I

535
00:26:23,600 --> 00:26:26,040
Speaker 1: was like, da, I know all these songs, Oh my goodness,

536
00:26:26,080 --> 00:26:29,080
Speaker 1: but this is my parent. I would cry at Smoky

537
00:26:29,160 --> 00:26:31,360
Speaker 1: watching Smokey I'm Gonna bring you next time and he'd

538
00:26:31,359 --> 00:26:35,679
Speaker 1: been riding and stuff. Girlsen is my favorite song of

539
00:26:35,760 --> 00:26:39,600
Speaker 1: all time. I love that song. That's my favorite all right. Now.

540
00:26:39,640 --> 00:26:41,520
Speaker 1: Earlier that you were saying that you don't think that

541
00:26:41,600 --> 00:26:45,200
Speaker 1: guys should have Snapchat, and I had to think about

542
00:26:45,200 --> 00:26:48,840
Speaker 1: that because I never thought about that. Why because like

543
00:26:49,160 --> 00:26:51,919
Speaker 1: Charlottegne's always on the snapchat and the klip, but they

544
00:26:51,960 --> 00:26:54,919
Speaker 1: are celebrities, so they always get their little followers up

545
00:26:54,960 --> 00:26:57,920
Speaker 1: and stuff like that. But the average guy on snapchat?

546
00:26:58,720 --> 00:27:00,960
Speaker 1: Is it weird because it's girl? It is kind of girly.

547
00:27:01,480 --> 00:27:03,840
Speaker 1: I think it is, Well, okay, I guess the fact

548
00:27:03,840 --> 00:27:06,280
Speaker 1: of the matter is I'm really interacted with like fans

549
00:27:06,320 --> 00:27:08,520
Speaker 1: and stuff. That's a big deal to me. But if

550
00:27:08,560 --> 00:27:11,199
Speaker 1: I see a guy snapchat at me, I'm hesitant to

551
00:27:11,240 --> 00:27:13,679
Speaker 1: open it because I'm not sure exactly what might pop up.

552
00:27:13,760 --> 00:27:18,800
Speaker 1: There might be some penis and yet that Yeah, so

553
00:27:18,920 --> 00:27:20,960
Speaker 1: maybe that's why I feel that. But those are like messy.

554
00:27:21,000 --> 00:27:23,159
Speaker 1: I'm not that great at Snapchat, but those are like

555
00:27:23,200 --> 00:27:25,919
Speaker 1: private messages that somebody. Yeah, and so you know what

556
00:27:25,920 --> 00:27:28,120
Speaker 1: I'm saying, Like, and I've seen a lot of things

557
00:27:28,119 --> 00:27:29,560
Speaker 1: and that you don't have to open it because guess what,

558
00:27:29,600 --> 00:27:31,800
Speaker 1: it's going to delete anyway, It's gonna delete. But even

559
00:27:31,800 --> 00:27:35,560
Speaker 1: on Instagram, like I'm hesitant to I look at it anyway.

560
00:27:35,600 --> 00:27:37,439
Speaker 1: I mean, if it's a penis is a penis, I know,

561
00:27:37,480 --> 00:27:42,800
Speaker 1: but I just don't like that. I don't do that.

562
00:27:43,119 --> 00:27:49,119
Speaker 1: Penis today knows right now. No, he was like, you

563
00:27:49,160 --> 00:27:51,240
Speaker 1: know what and what am I supposed to respond to it?

564
00:27:51,320 --> 00:27:53,240
Speaker 1: Hold on, let me find it. I want to show

565
00:27:53,240 --> 00:27:55,000
Speaker 1: you guys. Yeah, what are you supposed to read? What

566
00:27:55,040 --> 00:27:57,919
Speaker 1: do guys expect you to respond when they send you

567
00:27:58,000 --> 00:28:01,680
Speaker 1: their dick via the air? I'm gonna be in your city,

568
00:28:02,240 --> 00:28:06,080
Speaker 1: what do you okay? I really, because that's what some

569
00:28:06,119 --> 00:28:09,159
Speaker 1: people use they meet people. I'm gonna send you my

570
00:28:09,200 --> 00:28:11,080
Speaker 1: dick from Tennessee. Let me know when you're gonna be here.

571
00:28:11,359 --> 00:28:18,040
Speaker 1: Oh my god, this is not romantic ship. If nobody

572
00:28:18,040 --> 00:28:21,760
Speaker 1: wants you, I do that. Nothing is nice how everybody

573
00:28:21,840 --> 00:28:25,879
Speaker 1: wants if nobody went you like? Who? How how would

574
00:28:25,880 --> 00:28:29,560
Speaker 1: nobody want me? Like? Well, they think just because you're single,

575
00:28:29,680 --> 00:28:34,399
Speaker 1: that you're unwanted. That's clearly that's not true. That I

576
00:28:34,440 --> 00:28:37,160
Speaker 1: got in my d for being single. You should all

577
00:28:37,160 --> 00:28:39,200
Speaker 1: shot one person. I thought you want to stop damning

578
00:28:39,320 --> 00:28:42,320
Speaker 1: us right now? Yea, all get penises in your damn yes,

579
00:28:42,400 --> 00:28:44,560
Speaker 1: I'm about to pull it up. And you know what,

580
00:28:44,600 --> 00:28:47,080
Speaker 1: And because y'all said that, I name my vagina lingling.

581
00:28:47,200 --> 00:28:56,000
Speaker 1: People keep calling me lingan. Chris, you have a name

582
00:28:56,040 --> 00:28:59,920
Speaker 1: for your badge? Oh okay, here it is. This guy said,

583
00:28:59,920 --> 00:29:02,840
Speaker 1: I don't do other Instagram, but he sent his dick

584
00:29:02,880 --> 00:29:07,520
Speaker 1: and balls. I don't want to see even nice. No, no,

585
00:29:07,560 --> 00:29:13,520
Speaker 1: I don't want to an. It looks really about it's white.

586
00:29:13,600 --> 00:29:16,800
Speaker 1: Head is smaller than the shaft. It's like a little

587
00:29:16,800 --> 00:29:19,720
Speaker 1: and then it gets bigger. Let me see it's white. No,

588
00:29:19,920 --> 00:29:22,280
Speaker 1: it's just a flash on and it looks like on

589
00:29:22,280 --> 00:29:24,160
Speaker 1: the side it's like, um, I don't know, that's a

590
00:29:24,240 --> 00:29:32,080
Speaker 1: shadow or sometimes one penis you seen them all. I

591
00:29:32,280 --> 00:29:37,160
Speaker 1: was it's awful, it's it's awful, it's not it ain't me.

592
00:29:42,160 --> 00:29:43,959
Speaker 1: So would you not day somebody based on what you

593
00:29:44,000 --> 00:29:46,680
Speaker 1: think their penis might look like. No, I don't think

594
00:29:46,720 --> 00:29:48,880
Speaker 1: what a pen looks like. I never think of what

595
00:29:48,920 --> 00:29:51,280
Speaker 1: a guy's penis looks like. I think of how big

596
00:29:51,320 --> 00:29:53,000
Speaker 1: it might be, because some guys just look like they

597
00:29:53,080 --> 00:29:57,440
Speaker 1: got a huge Some guys walk like they just like

598
00:29:57,560 --> 00:30:00,280
Speaker 1: it's just something, but they're so heavy and just could

599
00:30:01,040 --> 00:30:04,600
Speaker 1: my penis and big bass that's cold be balanced. One

600
00:30:04,600 --> 00:30:07,200
Speaker 1: of the main reasons I don't like dating white guys

601
00:30:07,440 --> 00:30:10,680
Speaker 1: because I don't like the way white penis looks. Yeah,

602
00:30:10,840 --> 00:30:13,120
Speaker 1: for the very same way, like you know, I know

603
00:30:13,200 --> 00:30:16,800
Speaker 1: white and they don't all have little pieces faces. Some

604
00:30:16,800 --> 00:30:19,560
Speaker 1: of them gonna have really big penises. But I just

605
00:30:19,960 --> 00:30:23,360
Speaker 1: rather a darker, you know, a black or a Latino,

606
00:30:24,600 --> 00:30:29,920
Speaker 1: even a really white Latino guy. I'm not like, yeah,

607
00:30:30,000 --> 00:30:31,960
Speaker 1: what if he has been a lego or something? What's

608
00:30:32,040 --> 00:30:34,480
Speaker 1: what is that? That's the skin disease at Michael Jackson

609
00:30:36,640 --> 00:30:39,840
Speaker 1: and it happens is sick, it happen to any well.

610
00:30:39,920 --> 00:30:41,920
Speaker 1: According to the reports, they said he has like a

611
00:30:41,960 --> 00:30:44,720
Speaker 1: slatchy penis or something. I don't know. That's kind of

612
00:30:44,920 --> 00:30:52,680
Speaker 1: a past. It's clic. No, I'm I'm gonna right now.

613
00:30:55,360 --> 00:30:56,880
Speaker 1: I can't believe you don't like white people. I don't

614
00:30:56,880 --> 00:31:01,280
Speaker 1: know what. I've never liked paint. But what about if

615
00:31:01,280 --> 00:31:05,160
Speaker 1: it's not all white people are like super pale. Yeah,

616
00:31:05,200 --> 00:31:10,640
Speaker 1: but all their penises are that white whises are. Yeah,

617
00:31:10,800 --> 00:31:14,640
Speaker 1: like even like myself, I'm not very I have olive skin.

618
00:31:15,000 --> 00:31:16,680
Speaker 1: You know what I mean? You don't have a penis

619
00:31:16,680 --> 00:31:20,760
Speaker 1: overtone is nice? Yeah, but even um like my ex boyfriend,

620
00:31:20,760 --> 00:31:22,480
Speaker 1: he had olive skin, like he might have been a

621
00:31:22,520 --> 00:31:25,240
Speaker 1: little whiter than me, and his penis was dark. It

622
00:31:25,320 --> 00:31:32,240
Speaker 1: was brown. He wasn't white. Oh my god, it's pain.

623
00:31:32,760 --> 00:31:35,520
Speaker 1: It's pale. It's not that. I just google white penis

624
00:31:35,920 --> 00:31:38,560
Speaker 1: and I guess like when people google it, it's normally

625
00:31:38,560 --> 00:31:41,040
Speaker 1: like because there's a problem, and it's like, oh no,

626
00:31:42,600 --> 00:31:48,320
Speaker 1: oh nothing, this is some schmegma or something sma. You

627
00:31:48,480 --> 00:31:51,640
Speaker 1: see that. I don't want to see. All that google

628
00:31:51,720 --> 00:31:54,600
Speaker 1: was white penis images. Okay, I don't want to call

629
00:31:55,440 --> 00:31:57,320
Speaker 1: I don't want to see that. I just want to

630
00:31:57,320 --> 00:32:00,560
Speaker 1: do white penis. You want to callagian penis? How come

631
00:32:00,560 --> 00:32:03,600
Speaker 1: you don't mess with Asians. Nobody here. No, I think

632
00:32:03,600 --> 00:32:07,600
Speaker 1: I've never been my dad's Asians, so I've never read.

633
00:32:08,440 --> 00:32:11,360
Speaker 1: I could see my brother dates Asian girls. He does, yes,

634
00:32:11,440 --> 00:32:13,160
Speaker 1: he goes. He goes to school in San Francisco, and

635
00:32:13,480 --> 00:32:17,240
Speaker 1: there's a lot of Asian women. Oh my god, this

636
00:32:17,280 --> 00:32:22,560
Speaker 1: is even worse. This one is bleeting. Show me why

637
00:32:23,280 --> 00:32:27,440
Speaker 1: is even worse? Why did you show me this? Oh

638
00:32:27,480 --> 00:32:31,840
Speaker 1: my god, this is disgusting. Holds on, you gotta see this. No,

639
00:32:32,040 --> 00:32:38,080
Speaker 1: I'm not like blisters, all right, it's blisters on it.

640
00:32:38,080 --> 00:32:41,280
Speaker 1: It's just, oh my god, I want to have I'm

641
00:32:41,280 --> 00:32:44,160
Speaker 1: gonna have nightmares. God, I might not want the white

642
00:32:44,200 --> 00:32:49,680
Speaker 1: penis ever either. Now I think they just they just

643
00:32:49,720 --> 00:32:52,920
Speaker 1: look look what happens so bad. It's so bad. I

644
00:32:53,000 --> 00:32:55,000
Speaker 1: never want to see something like that. I've ever again.

645
00:32:56,640 --> 00:32:59,440
Speaker 1: Oh my god, what is God so funny to me,

646
00:33:00,160 --> 00:33:04,440
Speaker 1: was like, I just want too that all white penises

647
00:33:04,480 --> 00:33:09,080
Speaker 1: aren't pink. They are they are there penis. But now

648
00:33:09,120 --> 00:33:15,840
Speaker 1: all I see is like Collie flower dick. Oh my god,

649
00:33:17,840 --> 00:33:22,880
Speaker 1: it's not my thoughts. It's disgusting, all right, but white penises,

650
00:33:23,000 --> 00:33:27,000
Speaker 1: I mean, just the imagination probably because is the same. Yeah,

651
00:33:27,080 --> 00:33:29,000
Speaker 1: and I like, um, you know, I like guys with

652
00:33:29,160 --> 00:33:32,040
Speaker 1: darker skin, like I like, I like yellow guys too.

653
00:33:32,120 --> 00:33:36,000
Speaker 1: I like, you know what everybody knows, I prefer black men,

654
00:33:36,520 --> 00:33:39,680
Speaker 1: and I like light skinned black guys, of course, but

655
00:33:40,160 --> 00:33:43,840
Speaker 1: my ideal is a dark chocolate. I'll tell the secret.

656
00:33:44,360 --> 00:33:47,440
Speaker 1: So I'm my like, I'm a therapy type, right, like

657
00:33:47,480 --> 00:33:50,640
Speaker 1: i'd be going to that stuff. And I was theating

658
00:33:50,680 --> 00:33:52,880
Speaker 1: this guy who I loved with my whole heart, and

659
00:33:52,920 --> 00:33:55,840
Speaker 1: he was white. He was so gorgeous blue, I just

660
00:33:56,280 --> 00:34:00,440
Speaker 1: so beautiful. And I remember we were in the midst of,

661
00:34:00,560 --> 00:34:03,320
Speaker 1: you know, kissing on each other and just experiencing each

662
00:34:03,320 --> 00:34:06,240
Speaker 1: other in that way. And I panicked because that's how

663
00:34:06,280 --> 00:34:08,320
Speaker 1: badly I didn't want anything else to happen because I

664
00:34:08,320 --> 00:34:10,759
Speaker 1: didn't want to see what I didn't want to see. Yeah,

665
00:34:10,760 --> 00:34:12,440
Speaker 1: And so I remember going to my therapist and I

666
00:34:12,480 --> 00:34:14,400
Speaker 1: was like, am I racist? Like there's something wrong with me?

667
00:34:15,920 --> 00:34:18,759
Speaker 1: Like you're over you know, you're over exaggerating. This is

668
00:34:18,800 --> 00:34:22,200
Speaker 1: just a personal preference. But I felt really awful because

669
00:34:22,280 --> 00:34:23,879
Speaker 1: when I tell you, this was a really good friend,

670
00:34:24,160 --> 00:34:26,040
Speaker 1: you know still to this day, but I've never told

671
00:34:26,120 --> 00:34:28,279
Speaker 1: him that I couldn't stay with it because he was.

672
00:34:28,480 --> 00:34:30,760
Speaker 1: I was afraid of what would happen. He was white.

673
00:34:31,040 --> 00:34:33,200
Speaker 1: It was just too much for me. Man. Now, imagine

674
00:34:33,200 --> 00:34:37,799
Speaker 1: if white women said that black men. Yeah, like were

675
00:34:37,880 --> 00:34:42,239
Speaker 1: like he was beautiful to me though you know, it

676
00:34:42,280 --> 00:34:44,080
Speaker 1: wasn't like I wasn't attracted to him. I just know

677
00:34:44,200 --> 00:34:47,160
Speaker 1: I think white men are gorgeous. Like what's his name?

678
00:34:47,600 --> 00:34:52,040
Speaker 1: The one who what's his name? Um? The one what's

679
00:34:52,080 --> 00:34:55,200
Speaker 1: his name? That he always takes off his shirt. He's

680
00:34:55,280 --> 00:35:00,359
Speaker 1: getting old? He always I bet you're mad knew who

681
00:35:00,400 --> 00:35:03,960
Speaker 1: it was like. I think he's a lot, but he

682
00:35:04,160 --> 00:35:06,120
Speaker 1: is always taken up. He's always taken off his shirt.

683
00:35:07,280 --> 00:35:11,360
Speaker 1: But I don't think I would be it is. What

684
00:35:11,520 --> 00:35:13,520
Speaker 1: do you say about getting old? You? Who do you get? Better?

685
00:35:13,560 --> 00:35:17,520
Speaker 1: And bad? Younger guys and older guys. Um, the best

686
00:35:17,560 --> 00:35:19,680
Speaker 1: sex I've ever had with a three year old man.

687
00:35:19,960 --> 00:35:23,040
Speaker 1: So it's forty four now, So older man, you say,

688
00:35:24,320 --> 00:35:28,439
Speaker 1: because he's experienced, he's so seasoned. And although sometimes there's

689
00:35:28,480 --> 00:35:31,040
Speaker 1: alder men that have been having wax sex for so

690
00:35:31,080 --> 00:35:33,680
Speaker 1: long they think that's just it. I feel sorry for

691
00:35:34,080 --> 00:35:37,080
Speaker 1: young guys. Got some energy. Yeah, that's what I think.

692
00:35:37,160 --> 00:35:40,240
Speaker 1: The young ones can go longer and have the stamina,

693
00:35:40,400 --> 00:35:44,719
Speaker 1: especially the young athletes. But um, older men are more

694
00:35:44,800 --> 00:35:50,440
Speaker 1: experienced and know what they're doing so and they don't mind,

695
00:35:50,480 --> 00:35:55,040
Speaker 1: probably the more freaky older men that it's you a

696
00:35:55,160 --> 00:35:58,360
Speaker 1: young guy and has experiments. You guys, you got to

697
00:35:58,360 --> 00:36:00,560
Speaker 1: open them up to things. You gotta co werce them

698
00:36:00,600 --> 00:36:02,920
Speaker 1: something like, it's okay, let me put my finger in.

699
00:36:03,520 --> 00:36:09,080
Speaker 1: It's okay. Now, oh, you say that's the older guy. Guy,

700
00:36:09,920 --> 00:36:12,520
Speaker 1: they're not with that. You're dating a guy who's forty plus.

701
00:36:12,719 --> 00:36:17,840
Speaker 1: He knows if he wants fingers in his decision. You

702
00:36:18,560 --> 00:36:23,480
Speaker 1: open him out to anything. Year old, five year old.

703
00:36:23,520 --> 00:36:26,880
Speaker 1: He may like, he may like that or he may not,

704
00:36:27,120 --> 00:36:28,880
Speaker 1: but he don't want to do it because him and

705
00:36:28,920 --> 00:36:31,200
Speaker 1: his friends make fun of that, right and you he's

706
00:36:31,239 --> 00:36:33,440
Speaker 1: never done it before. So you want to be the

707
00:36:33,520 --> 00:36:37,799
Speaker 1: girl who gives him the best rants exactly of his life.

708
00:36:38,200 --> 00:36:40,400
Speaker 1: But then you don't want to like kind of pressure

709
00:36:40,440 --> 00:36:42,000
Speaker 1: him because then he's gonna be like, she's a freak

710
00:36:42,600 --> 00:36:46,080
Speaker 1: fingers of my ask. It's like he should enjoy it

711
00:36:46,320 --> 00:36:48,800
Speaker 1: being a freak young guy. You gotta train them a

712
00:36:48,880 --> 00:36:51,120
Speaker 1: little bit. I always think that guys like to do

713
00:36:51,480 --> 00:36:54,839
Speaker 1: like freaky things and chin new things. But I think

714
00:36:54,880 --> 00:36:57,600
Speaker 1: you can ask the girls. I think so too, Definitely.

715
00:36:58,080 --> 00:37:00,120
Speaker 1: I think they wanted to do things that they like.

716
00:37:00,880 --> 00:37:02,719
Speaker 1: They want to go to masturbate in front of them.

717
00:37:03,280 --> 00:37:05,360
Speaker 1: What are they gonna masurbate in front of you? I

718
00:37:05,360 --> 00:37:07,680
Speaker 1: don't know. I don't want to see. I hate it.

719
00:37:07,880 --> 00:37:11,279
Speaker 1: One guy. When a guy master front of me, let's

720
00:37:11,280 --> 00:37:18,120
Speaker 1: see that, all right, just exactly right, let me help you,

721
00:37:18,920 --> 00:37:21,680
Speaker 1: let me look at or something. But he wants you

722
00:37:21,719 --> 00:37:23,600
Speaker 1: to masturbate in front of him. But I like to

723
00:37:23,719 --> 00:37:26,959
Speaker 1: be feeling. I'd like to feel exotic. I think that's

724
00:37:27,040 --> 00:37:30,560
Speaker 1: fun for a girl to just feel exotic and make

725
00:37:30,640 --> 00:37:33,759
Speaker 1: him feel like he's watching something fun. You're like putting

726
00:37:33,800 --> 00:37:36,600
Speaker 1: on a show. Yeah, but when he's doing it, it's like,

727
00:37:36,680 --> 00:37:45,400
Speaker 1: don't perverted, like you're disgusting, sir, You're an animal. All right, Now,

728
00:37:45,440 --> 00:37:48,439
Speaker 1: here's an answer you question. Somebody emailed him. He said

729
00:37:48,480 --> 00:37:50,520
Speaker 1: he's dating a girl who's his best girlfriend so far.

730
00:37:51,080 --> 00:37:52,839
Speaker 1: She has a daughter. He said, I love his daughter,

731
00:37:53,120 --> 00:37:55,440
Speaker 1: her daughter like my own. The sex is great, and

732
00:37:55,560 --> 00:37:58,520
Speaker 1: she's really attractive, and she's my type. But she cheated

733
00:37:58,560 --> 00:38:01,400
Speaker 1: on me early in the relationship. Your text and she

734
00:38:01,560 --> 00:38:04,279
Speaker 1: has a body count of twelve guys at twenty two?

735
00:38:04,760 --> 00:38:06,719
Speaker 1: Do I continue dating her or should I let it go?

736
00:38:07,640 --> 00:38:12,480
Speaker 1: Let it go? It's a tough one. Twelve guys at two.

737
00:38:14,200 --> 00:38:17,000
Speaker 1: I don't think twelve guys got bad. I don't either,

738
00:38:18,280 --> 00:38:24,239
Speaker 1: especially if she went to college. Yeah, I feel like

739
00:38:24,360 --> 00:38:26,799
Speaker 1: twelve guys, she's got it out her system and she's

740
00:38:26,840 --> 00:38:29,239
Speaker 1: ready if she's if she's ready to be committed, I

741
00:38:29,360 --> 00:38:31,640
Speaker 1: feel like she's got enough out of her system that

742
00:38:31,800 --> 00:38:37,360
Speaker 1: she can be. But that's twenty two, and she has

743
00:38:37,400 --> 00:38:41,320
Speaker 1: a daughter already, she has a daughter. I got this

744
00:38:41,400 --> 00:38:45,279
Speaker 1: thing about women who have a lot of partners. I

745
00:38:45,360 --> 00:38:48,120
Speaker 1: think that a lot of times we judge them as

746
00:38:48,239 --> 00:38:51,200
Speaker 1: if they just like getting around. But a lot of

747
00:38:51,280 --> 00:38:53,160
Speaker 1: times I feel like they just have a lot of

748
00:38:53,239 --> 00:38:55,120
Speaker 1: love in the heart and he just really, really, really

749
00:38:55,239 --> 00:38:58,680
Speaker 1: seriously just express it faster than most people. And I

750
00:38:58,719 --> 00:39:00,439
Speaker 1: think it's when they meet the right guy who's able

751
00:39:00,440 --> 00:39:03,640
Speaker 1: to reciprocate that kind of love that they just searching

752
00:39:03,920 --> 00:39:06,359
Speaker 1: and And I think girls get worse to wrap than guys.

753
00:39:06,680 --> 00:39:09,239
Speaker 1: We definitely did. But I don't always look, you know,

754
00:39:09,360 --> 00:39:11,279
Speaker 1: like at a girl like, oh, you have this many

755
00:39:11,480 --> 00:39:13,760
Speaker 1: Sometimes I feel like because some of my closest friends

756
00:39:14,000 --> 00:39:15,600
Speaker 1: have a lot of have had a lot of partners

757
00:39:15,640 --> 00:39:18,160
Speaker 1: and some of the most loving people and just very

758
00:39:18,239 --> 00:39:20,320
Speaker 1: intimate in nature. But you think you should tell a

759
00:39:20,360 --> 00:39:24,520
Speaker 1: guy how many partners you have? Not guy, But I

760
00:39:24,680 --> 00:39:26,920
Speaker 1: was with twelve guys when I was twenty two. But

761
00:39:27,040 --> 00:39:29,440
Speaker 1: you guy didn't want to hit though. But I mean,

762
00:39:29,480 --> 00:39:31,480
Speaker 1: I've been having sex as I was fourteen. I don't

763
00:39:31,480 --> 00:39:36,200
Speaker 1: think that's that bad from fourteen or twenty two. It's

764
00:39:36,200 --> 00:39:38,400
Speaker 1: almost ten years. Listen, this is how I love at it.

765
00:39:38,719 --> 00:39:41,160
Speaker 1: As long as you're safe, as long as you're not sucking,

766
00:39:41,560 --> 00:39:44,279
Speaker 1: nobody's hus been right. You should be able to do

767
00:39:44,320 --> 00:39:45,800
Speaker 1: whatever you want to do. And as long as you

768
00:39:45,840 --> 00:39:48,080
Speaker 1: ain't got no man are meeting a lot of different times.

769
00:39:48,200 --> 00:39:54,200
Speaker 1: Full people just got their own ideas. You can't blame

770
00:39:54,239 --> 00:39:58,120
Speaker 1: a girl for having sex too many? What? Too many? What?

771
00:39:58,280 --> 00:40:01,160
Speaker 1: Too many bodies for a woman? Let's say a thirty

772
00:40:01,200 --> 00:40:04,400
Speaker 1: y roald woman. How many? It's too many? There's this

773
00:40:04,480 --> 00:40:10,759
Speaker 1: this thing it's too many because I know, I know,

774
00:40:10,960 --> 00:40:13,399
Speaker 1: I know twenty four year old girls who have sex

775
00:40:13,480 --> 00:40:17,480
Speaker 1: with more than twelve guys in a year. For me, yeah,

776
00:40:17,480 --> 00:40:19,520
Speaker 1: there's a lot of holes of relationships with like that.

777
00:40:20,160 --> 00:40:23,080
Speaker 1: I get attached to. So I suck at being with

778
00:40:23,920 --> 00:40:26,359
Speaker 1: too many guys because I'm still like how I said,

779
00:40:26,400 --> 00:40:28,160
Speaker 1: but I have to text dudes and let them like

780
00:40:28,320 --> 00:40:32,000
Speaker 1: I'm that much like involved emotionally with every dude I'm with,

781
00:40:32,440 --> 00:40:33,839
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. So for me, a lot

782
00:40:33,880 --> 00:40:35,440
Speaker 1: of dudes is not an easy thing for me to

783
00:40:35,480 --> 00:40:38,080
Speaker 1: sew to hail from when it's time. So even getting

784
00:40:38,120 --> 00:40:39,880
Speaker 1: engagers like oh my goodness, that have a lot of

785
00:40:40,160 --> 00:40:42,080
Speaker 1: closure to do, you know what I'm saying, This stuff

786
00:40:42,080 --> 00:40:44,279
Speaker 1: that I wasn't even I didn't deal with. You know

787
00:40:44,320 --> 00:40:48,439
Speaker 1: what's anybody happy for you? Everybody said there's something that's

788
00:40:48,480 --> 00:40:50,360
Speaker 1: not you know, and that stuff you just gotta just

789
00:40:50,480 --> 00:40:54,839
Speaker 1: let go. But you know, I'm I just attached. That's

790
00:40:54,920 --> 00:40:57,960
Speaker 1: I'm I'm I'm a type of person who attaches. And

791
00:40:58,120 --> 00:41:01,080
Speaker 1: so women are like and so if you had sex

792
00:41:01,160 --> 00:41:04,239
Speaker 1: with twelve guys that maybe you had twelve boyfriends, you

793
00:41:04,320 --> 00:41:06,480
Speaker 1: were in twelve relationship. I don't I don't get just

794
00:41:06,560 --> 00:41:09,360
Speaker 1: didn't work up. I feel like I've always had your relationship.

795
00:41:10,320 --> 00:41:12,160
Speaker 1: I mean, like I'm official, but it might be a

796
00:41:12,239 --> 00:41:17,800
Speaker 1: little mini you know, series to a little docuseries. I

797
00:41:17,840 --> 00:41:21,360
Speaker 1: don't get, um, I don't really get emotionally attached to anyone,

798
00:41:21,640 --> 00:41:23,600
Speaker 1: like you have to really make an effect in my

799
00:41:23,760 --> 00:41:26,520
Speaker 1: life for me to be emotionally attached to you. And

800
00:41:26,680 --> 00:41:29,920
Speaker 1: even then, I still want to get in a relationship.

801
00:41:30,160 --> 00:41:32,800
Speaker 1: I still gotta like hit niggers up, like hey, I

802
00:41:32,880 --> 00:41:34,640
Speaker 1: told hit me up anymore because I have a boyfriend,

803
00:41:34,680 --> 00:41:37,520
Speaker 1: so you can't hit me at the quality I wish

804
00:41:37,640 --> 00:41:41,600
Speaker 1: like I did. It wasn't so attached. I still airplane mode.

805
00:41:41,800 --> 00:41:45,800
Speaker 1: I just a girl when I was when I was

806
00:41:45,880 --> 00:41:48,800
Speaker 1: with my last birdfriend, man, I had that do not

807
00:41:49,040 --> 00:41:54,040
Speaker 1: to serve, do not this reason you should have to

808
00:41:54,120 --> 00:41:56,640
Speaker 1: worry about somebody hitting it. I don't even gotta tell

809
00:41:56,640 --> 00:41:58,520
Speaker 1: you don't hit me at three. But when I'm made

810
00:41:58,560 --> 00:42:01,080
Speaker 1: a relationship, I'll reach out to guys, I'll reach out

811
00:42:01,080 --> 00:42:02,720
Speaker 1: to everybody like hey, you know, I'm kind of serious

812
00:42:02,760 --> 00:42:04,800
Speaker 1: with this person. I don't ever do that. I just

813
00:42:04,880 --> 00:42:08,799
Speaker 1: fade out. Yeah, me too, just fade out. You fade out.

814
00:42:09,120 --> 00:42:12,400
Speaker 1: But if I don't got a concert and come and

815
00:42:12,440 --> 00:42:19,520
Speaker 1: kick your your boyfriend's worked about. But let me not.

816
00:42:20,160 --> 00:42:22,399
Speaker 1: I don't reach out to anyone when they reach out

817
00:42:22,440 --> 00:42:24,640
Speaker 1: to me, like hey, stuff, what's up. It's like oh

818
00:42:24,800 --> 00:42:27,960
Speaker 1: I got a boyfriend now, so sorry, I don't want

819
00:42:28,000 --> 00:42:29,600
Speaker 1: to not be your friend, but we can't hang out,

820
00:42:30,200 --> 00:42:31,880
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. So you think you need

821
00:42:31,920 --> 00:42:33,359
Speaker 1: to do that because you know what I do when

822
00:42:33,560 --> 00:42:35,160
Speaker 1: somebody hits me up that I used to say and

823
00:42:35,200 --> 00:42:38,759
Speaker 1: I have a boyfriend, I just don't respond. Yeah, that's

824
00:42:38,760 --> 00:42:40,920
Speaker 1: how you got that. Know, it's dope that you can

825
00:42:41,000 --> 00:42:43,640
Speaker 1: do that. Like I'm working on I'm just not being

826
00:42:43,680 --> 00:42:45,800
Speaker 1: so affected by people. You know what I'm saying, Like,

827
00:42:45,920 --> 00:42:47,840
Speaker 1: just but I think that's kind of whacking me. I

828
00:42:47,920 --> 00:42:50,680
Speaker 1: don't think so. I don't think it's like you got

829
00:42:50,960 --> 00:42:53,320
Speaker 1: because I could at least respond. It is very like

830
00:42:54,000 --> 00:42:57,719
Speaker 1: I avoid it. I'm not confrontationous because not saying you

831
00:42:58,120 --> 00:43:00,359
Speaker 1: need to be stuck on my mind. So you're gonna

832
00:43:00,400 --> 00:43:03,399
Speaker 1: run into that person? Oh I text you back? Oh well,

833
00:43:03,440 --> 00:43:06,160
Speaker 1: you know what, Like maybe it's better to just happens

834
00:43:06,200 --> 00:43:08,239
Speaker 1: to me all the time, people like, oh I text you,

835
00:43:08,320 --> 00:43:11,759
Speaker 1: I'm like did you yeah? Really? Wait? Did you tell

836
00:43:11,800 --> 00:43:17,439
Speaker 1: your number? You do? But you're the type of person

837
00:43:17,680 --> 00:43:20,080
Speaker 1: response to all your text I am, which is watching.

838
00:43:20,880 --> 00:43:25,160
Speaker 1: I don't have to. I'm like, my baby nice. He's like,

839
00:43:25,280 --> 00:43:28,040
Speaker 1: maybe you're too nice. Yeah. Everyone tells me I'm too

840
00:43:28,120 --> 00:43:29,440
Speaker 1: nice to do because I don't be want to hear

841
00:43:29,440 --> 00:43:31,880
Speaker 1: nobody's feelings every No, but you're good for not responding

842
00:43:31,920 --> 00:43:34,320
Speaker 1: to a text, so am I How you know you

843
00:43:34,480 --> 00:43:36,120
Speaker 1: respond to my tex Yeah? I was fond to your

844
00:43:36,200 --> 00:43:39,880
Speaker 1: text because but I'm just like very nice person. Why not?

845
00:43:39,960 --> 00:43:44,120
Speaker 1: I probably have red text messages. I opened every single text.

846
00:43:44,280 --> 00:43:46,840
Speaker 1: I don't open a fine or not. It's different. But

847
00:43:47,160 --> 00:43:49,279
Speaker 1: but it depends like on and when you're in a

848
00:43:49,320 --> 00:43:53,960
Speaker 1: relationship on my phone, it just at I'll be forgetting,

849
00:43:54,040 --> 00:43:55,719
Speaker 1: Like I look at a text message and then I

850
00:43:55,880 --> 00:43:58,560
Speaker 1: forget all about it and just keep it moving. I

851
00:43:58,680 --> 00:44:04,120
Speaker 1: respond in my head all the time, okay, love you back.

852
00:44:04,400 --> 00:44:07,760
Speaker 1: I'll be in the middle of something or doing something

853
00:44:07,880 --> 00:44:10,719
Speaker 1: and I'll just forget. I'm parties for them. You know

854
00:44:10,840 --> 00:44:16,480
Speaker 1: you're throwing evan somebodybody coming through like everybody right now?

855
00:44:16,560 --> 00:44:19,200
Speaker 1: What do you think about sex thing? Are you big on?

856
00:44:19,280 --> 00:44:21,480
Speaker 1: I'm so afraid that it'll get caught and like the

857
00:44:22,080 --> 00:44:25,399
Speaker 1: what's that thing called the network? But it's just sex thing.

858
00:44:25,480 --> 00:44:28,960
Speaker 1: It's just you saying little dirty things with that not

859
00:44:29,280 --> 00:44:32,520
Speaker 1: necessarily pictures. Yeah, No, definitely sex thing. I think it's

860
00:44:32,520 --> 00:44:34,800
Speaker 1: a wonderful thing. Can you sex with somebody before you

861
00:44:34,880 --> 00:44:38,239
Speaker 1: have sex with them? Definitely, it's a little weird. I

862
00:44:38,280 --> 00:44:39,800
Speaker 1: could feel like you can't do that until you know

863
00:44:39,920 --> 00:44:43,480
Speaker 1: what you're talking about. I'm not really a big sex there,

864
00:44:43,920 --> 00:44:47,240
Speaker 1: You're not. I'll say some freaky ship in the text

865
00:44:47,280 --> 00:44:58,880
Speaker 1: message for sure. Let me see if after you want crazy. No. No,

866
00:44:59,160 --> 00:45:03,440
Speaker 1: but it like you said, please, I'm totally cold before sucks.

867
00:45:03,520 --> 00:45:06,320
Speaker 1: But once after sex, it's like, oh, I miss you.

868
00:45:06,560 --> 00:45:10,040
Speaker 1: I missed that chick you said I missed that day? Yes,

869
00:45:10,400 --> 00:45:12,719
Speaker 1: a lie, if I miss it, I'm gonna say that.

870
00:45:13,320 --> 00:45:15,040
Speaker 1: Do you be like? I want to second next time

871
00:45:15,080 --> 00:45:20,120
Speaker 1: I see you? And so yeah, they keep them like

872
00:45:20,320 --> 00:45:24,239
Speaker 1: missing and that kind of a way you saying pictures. No,

873
00:45:24,360 --> 00:45:27,040
Speaker 1: I wouldn't just because I would be afraid, because I'd

874
00:45:27,040 --> 00:45:29,560
Speaker 1: be afraid. You can snapchat, you can snapstat it. Yeah,

875
00:45:29,880 --> 00:45:31,960
Speaker 1: I don't know how snapchat works. Okay, so if you

876
00:45:32,040 --> 00:45:35,640
Speaker 1: snapchat somebody right, even though it disappears later on, can't

877
00:45:35,680 --> 00:45:37,880
Speaker 1: they take a screenshot of it? They can't, but it

878
00:45:37,960 --> 00:45:42,360
Speaker 1: tells but so away, it's already done. It's like, okay, great,

879
00:45:42,960 --> 00:45:45,719
Speaker 1: I has a friend, somebody gonna hack something you know

880
00:45:45,760 --> 00:45:48,400
Speaker 1: what put your face in it? No face, okay, I

881
00:45:48,400 --> 00:45:50,360
Speaker 1: don't know, but like it's my but I got always

882
00:45:50,400 --> 00:45:52,320
Speaker 1: tattoo literally, but like you do have a letter you

883
00:45:52,440 --> 00:46:00,680
Speaker 1: want recognized that tattoo stuff. But sometimes don't you want to, Yeah,

884
00:46:01,680 --> 00:46:04,200
Speaker 1: because it is something that you'd be like. She's like,

885
00:46:04,520 --> 00:46:06,360
Speaker 1: I'd be sending him pick. I know, Stephanie Sender. She

886
00:46:06,400 --> 00:46:08,439
Speaker 1: said she said this a picture her vagina. Every Yeah,

887
00:46:09,320 --> 00:46:11,640
Speaker 1: that that's another thing. I'm like, I'll be drunk and

888
00:46:12,280 --> 00:46:15,000
Speaker 1: then I'll like start taking pussy picks and send them

889
00:46:15,040 --> 00:46:20,120
Speaker 1: to my boyfriends. When I was when I was long distance,

890
00:46:20,160 --> 00:46:23,120
Speaker 1: I sent him a lot of stuff. And when I

891
00:46:23,200 --> 00:46:24,839
Speaker 1: was a stripper and I was naked all the time,

892
00:46:24,880 --> 00:46:27,040
Speaker 1: I sent him a lot of stuff. Yeah, but I

893
00:46:27,120 --> 00:46:29,640
Speaker 1: can't even remember the last time I sent him anything

894
00:46:30,120 --> 00:46:32,960
Speaker 1: like picture you lived there? Oh no. But when I'm

895
00:46:32,960 --> 00:46:35,120
Speaker 1: in a serious relationship, as soon as the guy leaves

896
00:46:35,200 --> 00:46:38,840
Speaker 1: the house, I'm sending him pictures. Babe. He's like, I

897
00:46:38,960 --> 00:46:41,359
Speaker 1: just see you look at me bent over over here. Look,

898
00:46:41,680 --> 00:46:43,000
Speaker 1: But what if you said to take a picture and

899
00:46:43,040 --> 00:46:48,400
Speaker 1: he doesn't respond. I got so mad. I'll call it, like, hello,

900
00:46:48,520 --> 00:46:51,160
Speaker 1: you didn't get my picture. I don't see not one

901
00:46:51,280 --> 00:46:55,640
Speaker 1: heart high emoji said, what do you think about another

902
00:46:55,719 --> 00:46:58,840
Speaker 1: woman bringing another woman home? Once you get married? And

903
00:46:59,080 --> 00:47:01,880
Speaker 1: thank you negative? Although some of my close friend I

904
00:47:01,960 --> 00:47:04,880
Speaker 1: got very cool friends. I do too, But I couldn't.

905
00:47:05,000 --> 00:47:11,799
Speaker 1: I couldn't. I couldn't if but when you're in love,

906
00:47:11,840 --> 00:47:14,239
Speaker 1: when your man, you don't want to see him with

907
00:47:14,320 --> 00:47:16,560
Speaker 1: another woman on. But some people do it with with

908
00:47:16,719 --> 00:47:19,000
Speaker 1: women that they'll never see again. Right, gee isn't at

909
00:47:19,000 --> 00:47:21,680
Speaker 1: the room? Yeah, when you never see again. I mean

910
00:47:21,760 --> 00:47:25,480
Speaker 1: people get in trouble. You know that stuff makes attachments. Man,

911
00:47:28,640 --> 00:47:32,400
Speaker 1: I think I think I'm more than enough pussy. My

912
00:47:32,480 --> 00:47:35,480
Speaker 1: pussy is enough. I got plenty. I do wonder what

913
00:47:35,600 --> 00:47:37,000
Speaker 1: it must be like to be in the like an

914
00:47:37,080 --> 00:47:39,440
Speaker 1: open relationship though, like I know people who are like

915
00:47:39,480 --> 00:47:42,759
Speaker 1: come on dates, right, Like Monique said she she has

916
00:47:42,760 --> 00:47:45,279
Speaker 1: an open relationship with her husband. And then she also

917
00:47:45,640 --> 00:47:48,520
Speaker 1: said allegedly that Will and Jada aren one and bred.

918
00:47:48,640 --> 00:47:51,319
Speaker 1: And I've heard that before. She says, you know, people

919
00:47:51,320 --> 00:47:56,240
Speaker 1: always speculated that's how that works. Yeah, you believe in monogamy,

920
00:47:56,320 --> 00:47:58,400
Speaker 1: like it could be just the two of you forever,

921
00:47:58,680 --> 00:48:00,960
Speaker 1: nobody only because I think mostly because I've seen my

922
00:48:01,040 --> 00:48:03,000
Speaker 1: parents and my grandparents went on, and I goes they

923
00:48:03,120 --> 00:48:04,680
Speaker 1: all been together for a long time. I don't know

924
00:48:04,719 --> 00:48:07,680
Speaker 1: what they do them, but you know, sometimes when you

925
00:48:07,719 --> 00:48:10,880
Speaker 1: get to see it like strikes a chord, right, and

926
00:48:11,000 --> 00:48:13,600
Speaker 1: that's you think, that's how it's supposed to be. Because

927
00:48:13,640 --> 00:48:15,919
Speaker 1: some people don't think that. Some people think like guys

928
00:48:15,960 --> 00:48:18,120
Speaker 1: who always used to the excuse that they're not made

929
00:48:18,160 --> 00:48:21,279
Speaker 1: to be with all the time one woman, and that's

930
00:48:21,360 --> 00:48:23,279
Speaker 1: not what a man is supposed to do, but they

931
00:48:23,320 --> 00:48:26,000
Speaker 1: act like that's what women are supposed to do exactly

932
00:48:26,440 --> 00:48:29,640
Speaker 1: because we have we probably have a lot more temptation

933
00:48:29,719 --> 00:48:31,800
Speaker 1: than men do. Honestly, I feel like because you know

934
00:48:31,840 --> 00:48:33,239
Speaker 1: how easy it is for us to get some thick

935
00:48:34,040 --> 00:48:36,319
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, we don't even have the exploit right around

936
00:48:36,320 --> 00:48:41,560
Speaker 1: the corner. We don't gotta smell good, weren't to shower?

937
00:48:42,000 --> 00:48:46,920
Speaker 1: You don't matter? Well, I mean like and um um,

938
00:48:47,760 --> 00:48:50,440
Speaker 1: they have they have more than they're allowed more than

939
00:48:50,480 --> 00:48:54,759
Speaker 1: one wife. But you're supposed to treat them all the same. Now,

940
00:48:55,080 --> 00:48:57,319
Speaker 1: what if women were allowed more than one husband? Would

941
00:48:57,360 --> 00:49:00,560
Speaker 1: you be okay with that? Guys would go crazy. I

942
00:49:00,960 --> 00:49:04,880
Speaker 1: can't kind having more than one husband because I can

943
00:49:04,960 --> 00:49:09,160
Speaker 1: have one that's like really, you know, he's really athletic

944
00:49:09,480 --> 00:49:11,800
Speaker 1: and really good looking. And that's the one we'll have

945
00:49:11,960 --> 00:49:16,839
Speaker 1: babies with that. Have another one, you know, the one

946
00:49:17,280 --> 00:49:19,600
Speaker 1: the earner, No, the one you know he could fix.

947
00:49:19,680 --> 00:49:23,320
Speaker 1: He's like handy around the house. He can hammer things

948
00:49:23,800 --> 00:49:29,560
Speaker 1: and you can hear anything. You can hammerings. But you

949
00:49:29,640 --> 00:49:33,000
Speaker 1: can have like another one that he's like he's small

950
00:49:33,080 --> 00:49:40,800
Speaker 1: and fast, small and fast. It's attractive. Put together, go together,

951
00:49:41,400 --> 00:49:45,040
Speaker 1: starting five. If you could have had more than with you,

952
00:49:46,440 --> 00:49:47,960
Speaker 1: I don't think I would want to get sucked by

953
00:49:48,000 --> 00:49:50,239
Speaker 1: all my husband. He would have to. You just want

954
00:49:50,280 --> 00:49:54,640
Speaker 1: some extra help, mind, yeah, like basically of service. And

955
00:49:54,719 --> 00:49:57,680
Speaker 1: then I'm beginning to like this from you in all

956
00:49:57,760 --> 00:50:01,000
Speaker 1: way male servants around the house. I'm not too man

957
00:50:02,719 --> 00:50:08,680
Speaker 1: and and there are allowed extra wives. Now you've built

958
00:50:08,680 --> 00:50:13,120
Speaker 1: the whole community, right, I was kind of enjoying servants

959
00:50:13,440 --> 00:50:19,719
Speaker 1: like a polygamous coult person one person, one person is

960
00:50:19,800 --> 00:50:25,960
Speaker 1: small and fat. One person hammers and good for mating

961
00:50:28,520 --> 00:50:34,600
Speaker 1: you when when it's a chef, because so what's going

962
00:50:34,640 --> 00:50:36,879
Speaker 1: to all day? So you send you send a little

963
00:50:36,880 --> 00:50:41,439
Speaker 1: bit past one to the grocery store, like the seven

964
00:50:44,400 --> 00:50:49,160
Speaker 1: where's the breeder? The breeder is in gym, lifting weights,

965
00:50:53,520 --> 00:50:56,120
Speaker 1: you know, eating healthy and taking care of himself so

966
00:50:56,239 --> 00:50:59,960
Speaker 1: we can have children. And you know, everybody's happy. Everybody's

967
00:51:00,000 --> 00:51:02,120
Speaker 1: know they're not you know what's gonna happen. There's gonna

968
00:51:02,120 --> 00:51:04,920
Speaker 1: be some gay sex going on between because you're not

969
00:51:05,040 --> 00:51:07,120
Speaker 1: having sex with all of them. They're gonna have to

970
00:51:07,160 --> 00:51:09,479
Speaker 1: have sex with each other. Exactly what I was thinking.

971
00:51:09,640 --> 00:51:13,160
Speaker 1: You're surprised. As long as the fine, you know, it's

972
00:51:13,160 --> 00:51:23,839
Speaker 1: gonna be the bitch, a little fact stules. He's gonna

973
00:51:23,880 --> 00:51:29,000
Speaker 1: be the way kind of sounded like fun coming out

974
00:51:29,000 --> 00:51:32,200
Speaker 1: with your house. Yeah, but there's no sex going on

975
00:51:32,320 --> 00:51:35,840
Speaker 1: except with the breeder. It's gonna be good, good sex.

976
00:51:36,120 --> 00:51:39,040
Speaker 1: The rest of them are just like maybe i'll get

977
00:51:39,120 --> 00:51:41,000
Speaker 1: like another one that I'll have sex. But from time

978
00:51:41,040 --> 00:51:43,160
Speaker 1: to time, he's a dog, you know, he's, oh, you

979
00:51:43,280 --> 00:51:45,200
Speaker 1: gotta have the Doug in the house. Yeah, he's the

980
00:51:45,239 --> 00:51:50,600
Speaker 1: one that's bad. He's kicking him out of the house.

981
00:51:50,719 --> 00:51:53,799
Speaker 1: Like you sit there when you're you're a sexy, fine one,

982
00:51:53,880 --> 00:51:55,600
Speaker 1: like you see I had to kick him out again.

983
00:51:56,920 --> 00:51:58,640
Speaker 1: It's like, it's all right, baby, you have me. You

984
00:51:58,719 --> 00:52:02,000
Speaker 1: know I'm the best. Sounds like a movie right, it's

985
00:52:02,080 --> 00:52:07,520
Speaker 1: a great imagination, definitely. Well, you know what we're actually

986
00:52:07,560 --> 00:52:08,960
Speaker 1: we're going to try to set this up for you.

987
00:52:09,560 --> 00:52:11,480
Speaker 1: You think so, you think you can make a nice

988
00:52:11,520 --> 00:52:15,400
Speaker 1: reality show, right, we see it all the time, right,

989
00:52:15,680 --> 00:52:17,919
Speaker 1: And no, there's a word for this. I forget the word.

990
00:52:18,000 --> 00:52:21,040
Speaker 1: They've been talking about it at me. No, it's called

991
00:52:21,120 --> 00:52:25,160
Speaker 1: something now. Amorous. Yes, exactly. I knew you would know.

992
00:52:25,960 --> 00:52:31,680
Speaker 1: I'm an English major. But what did you say? Polyamor polyamorous?

993
00:52:32,160 --> 00:52:37,160
Speaker 1: She's polyamorous. That's my girl polyamorous. You know, I think

994
00:52:37,200 --> 00:52:39,000
Speaker 1: it would be a good I think it would be dope.

995
00:52:39,120 --> 00:52:42,160
Speaker 1: It would be a perfect life. Now, have you ever

996
00:52:42,200 --> 00:52:46,120
Speaker 1: had a funky spunk situation where you tasted the guys coming?

997
00:52:46,160 --> 00:52:53,040
Speaker 1: It was gross and disgusting. I mean we all saw

998
00:52:53,040 --> 00:52:55,000
Speaker 1: it on Sex in the City when it happened, right,

999
00:52:55,080 --> 00:52:57,399
Speaker 1: But I'm showing in real life we've experienced the type

1000
00:52:57,440 --> 00:53:02,960
Speaker 1: of biggest tasty tastes like ear wax or ear wax.

1001
00:53:04,600 --> 00:53:06,640
Speaker 1: One time it has like st One time we were

1002
00:53:06,719 --> 00:53:10,279
Speaker 1: out drinking having burgers. Next morning, I get on a

1003
00:53:10,320 --> 00:53:12,800
Speaker 1: blow job and it tasted so bad. It tasted like

1004
00:53:13,440 --> 00:53:18,520
Speaker 1: burger grease. It was disgusting, exactly, like grease because it

1005
00:53:18,640 --> 00:53:20,759
Speaker 1: is too whatever you eat comes out. Yeah, it was

1006
00:53:20,840 --> 00:53:23,279
Speaker 1: just bad. It tasted so bad. I was like, oh,

1007
00:53:23,360 --> 00:53:28,080
Speaker 1: that's disgusting. I told him about himself to like go

1008
00:53:28,280 --> 00:53:31,600
Speaker 1: eat something home. You normally tasted smoothie. Yeah, let me

1009
00:53:31,640 --> 00:53:36,839
Speaker 1: make yourself pineapple and pair smooth so bad, so bad?

1010
00:53:37,440 --> 00:53:43,799
Speaker 1: You had experience ggged you did? Oh that was disgusting.

1011
00:53:43,840 --> 00:53:47,440
Speaker 1: I don't think I've ever tasted bad. Oh, you're so lucky.

1012
00:53:48,960 --> 00:53:51,200
Speaker 1: She's really lucky. She hasn't had a lot of bad

1013
00:53:51,239 --> 00:53:53,800
Speaker 1: experiences when it comes to the bedroom. You know what,

1014
00:53:53,920 --> 00:53:56,680
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie. I really haven't had terrible experiences

1015
00:53:56,719 --> 00:53:58,839
Speaker 1: in the bedroom you're looking, except for that one time

1016
00:53:58,920 --> 00:54:01,399
Speaker 1: the guy came on his own face. That wasn't bad

1017
00:54:01,480 --> 00:54:08,440
Speaker 1: for me in anyway. We didn't even have sex. We

1018
00:54:08,600 --> 00:54:12,000
Speaker 1: can't hit his chin, we didn't have sexy and it

1019
00:54:12,120 --> 00:54:13,920
Speaker 1: was like the four play part and he like came

1020
00:54:13,960 --> 00:54:17,640
Speaker 1: and busting on his chin. Okay, well he was the shooter.

1021
00:54:20,920 --> 00:54:22,600
Speaker 1: I was trying to think if I had any really

1022
00:54:22,680 --> 00:54:27,320
Speaker 1: really bad experiences. I don't think so. I've never been injured.

1023
00:54:28,719 --> 00:54:33,440
Speaker 1: Um no, I'm sorry. I had an experience with a

1024
00:54:33,480 --> 00:54:35,160
Speaker 1: guy who had a small penis, but I didn't have

1025
00:54:35,200 --> 00:54:37,680
Speaker 1: sex with him because it was too small. I slid

1026
00:54:37,719 --> 00:54:42,880
Speaker 1: out of that one, thank you. I was like, you

1027
00:54:42,960 --> 00:54:44,560
Speaker 1: know what, it was our first time, and I was like,

1028
00:54:44,920 --> 00:54:46,680
Speaker 1: I don't really think I should do this. You know

1029
00:54:46,880 --> 00:54:49,279
Speaker 1: did that and then I never ever got myself in

1030
00:54:49,320 --> 00:54:53,120
Speaker 1: that situation. It was like a deformity. I'm not gonna

1031
00:54:54,440 --> 00:54:57,160
Speaker 1: it was small, like something was wrong with the se

1032
00:54:57,280 --> 00:54:58,960
Speaker 1: with somebody, and then wish like, damn, I wish I

1033
00:54:59,040 --> 00:55:02,880
Speaker 1: could take my guchi bad. Yeah, like immediately after or

1034
00:55:03,040 --> 00:55:06,279
Speaker 1: later it later later got like right after but like

1035
00:55:06,680 --> 00:55:10,120
Speaker 1: later considerable time frame. Yeah, like I wish I could

1036
00:55:10,160 --> 00:55:12,200
Speaker 1: just snatch that ship back. You ever had pity sex?

1037
00:55:13,680 --> 00:55:15,359
Speaker 1: Just like I feel like him, let me give him

1038
00:55:15,400 --> 00:55:17,520
Speaker 1: something like I feel bad that he didn't went through others.

1039
00:55:17,520 --> 00:55:19,279
Speaker 1: I don't really want to, but fucking I'm just do

1040
00:55:19,400 --> 00:55:21,080
Speaker 1: it and get it overware so he can leave me alone.

1041
00:55:21,320 --> 00:55:27,440
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I think that. I don't think I've ever

1042
00:55:27,560 --> 00:55:31,279
Speaker 1: had pitty sucks. You haven't. You know what I've done

1043
00:55:31,280 --> 00:55:32,960
Speaker 1: it where I didn't really want to have sex to somebody,

1044
00:55:32,960 --> 00:55:34,480
Speaker 1: but I've already done it before, And then I didn't

1045
00:55:34,520 --> 00:55:36,279
Speaker 1: want to hurt their feelings that's picture secks. You have

1046
00:55:36,400 --> 00:55:38,560
Speaker 1: got stuff in only pitty sucks. I've never had that.

1047
00:55:39,960 --> 00:55:44,200
Speaker 1: I you know, there's a couple of guys. I think

1048
00:55:44,239 --> 00:55:47,360
Speaker 1: I'm a nice person. I just um, I feel I

1049
00:55:47,520 --> 00:55:50,360
Speaker 1: love to like curve a guy. It feels good, especially

1050
00:55:50,400 --> 00:55:52,200
Speaker 1: when I've been with him before and now he's thirsty,

1051
00:55:52,239 --> 00:55:55,480
Speaker 1: he wants it again. It's like feels good. No you

1052
00:55:55,520 --> 00:56:01,480
Speaker 1: feel But if a guy tells, you know, my son's father,

1053
00:56:01,560 --> 00:56:03,520
Speaker 1: I sold me know a few times and let's break up.

1054
00:56:04,239 --> 00:56:06,320
Speaker 1: And the three years we've were broken off, but you

1055
00:56:06,360 --> 00:56:09,080
Speaker 1: guys are broken up? What the fuck I mean? And

1056
00:56:09,160 --> 00:56:11,800
Speaker 1: he has a girlfriend right right, He has told me

1057
00:56:12,640 --> 00:56:14,759
Speaker 1: once or twice she gotta I don't know. I wh

1058
00:56:14,880 --> 00:56:20,080
Speaker 1: she's okay. I hope she's okay. Have you CHRISTI Have

1059
00:56:20,160 --> 00:56:24,480
Speaker 1: you ever had a guy tell you know for sex? Hm? Really,

1060
00:56:24,680 --> 00:56:26,560
Speaker 1: I can't think of that. I remember I always did

1061
00:56:26,640 --> 00:56:29,520
Speaker 1: maybe somebody I love And it was just that one

1062
00:56:29,560 --> 00:56:33,680
Speaker 1: particular night because I remember I dated this guy and

1063
00:56:33,800 --> 00:56:35,880
Speaker 1: he was like trying to buy a car. So he

1064
00:56:36,000 --> 00:56:38,320
Speaker 1: was working like double shifts every day, and he was

1065
00:56:38,360 --> 00:56:40,480
Speaker 1: working like eighteen hour days, and he never felt like

1066
00:56:40,520 --> 00:56:43,000
Speaker 1: having sex because he was so tired. By the time

1067
00:56:43,040 --> 00:56:44,960
Speaker 1: he got home, and I'll be like, I wasn't really

1068
00:56:45,000 --> 00:56:46,719
Speaker 1: working that much. I was just, you know, working my

1069
00:56:46,760 --> 00:56:48,600
Speaker 1: little nine to five chilling way for him to come

1070
00:56:48,640 --> 00:56:50,600
Speaker 1: home so we can have sex. And he would come

1071
00:56:50,640 --> 00:56:54,680
Speaker 1: home and be like, Okay, So years later, let me

1072
00:56:54,719 --> 00:56:56,239
Speaker 1: suck it till it hard, and I'm gonna ride it

1073
00:56:56,280 --> 00:56:58,600
Speaker 1: until that I'll be like, buck, you, I'm going home.

1074
00:57:00,320 --> 00:57:03,719
Speaker 1: I realized how excited we are to just be in

1075
00:57:03,800 --> 00:57:06,120
Speaker 1: that space with them. I don't know if they, I know,

1076
00:57:06,239 --> 00:57:08,880
Speaker 1: guys know that they you know. I think men sometimes

1077
00:57:08,920 --> 00:57:10,719
Speaker 1: for like they're the ones who have to get it.

1078
00:57:10,840 --> 00:57:13,279
Speaker 1: But I don't know if sometimes they realize we want

1079
00:57:13,320 --> 00:57:15,000
Speaker 1: to share that experience with them just as much as

1080
00:57:15,040 --> 00:57:20,640
Speaker 1: they preparing. Guys, how often do you, guys initiate sex?

1081
00:57:20,840 --> 00:57:23,040
Speaker 1: Is it something that you're doing the regular I probably

1082
00:57:23,120 --> 00:57:26,600
Speaker 1: do not now that I'm single. When I'm in a relationship,

1083
00:57:26,760 --> 00:57:30,120
Speaker 1: I'm always initiating sex. It's like, oh baby, look it's

1084
00:57:30,120 --> 00:57:33,480
Speaker 1: soclock that suck sex. I think I initiate I just

1085
00:57:33,560 --> 00:57:36,440
Speaker 1: bought a PEPSI let's say, maybe like even half the

1086
00:57:36,520 --> 00:57:39,800
Speaker 1: time I initiate it. Yeah, That's what I'm saying. When

1087
00:57:39,800 --> 00:57:42,520
Speaker 1: you're in a relationship, but I mean being single, it's

1088
00:57:42,600 --> 00:57:44,840
Speaker 1: like just oh, do I want sex or do I

1089
00:57:44,880 --> 00:57:47,600
Speaker 1: not want sex? It's all here right available for me

1090
00:57:47,680 --> 00:57:51,120
Speaker 1: at any time. It's just one sex away. So do

1091
00:57:51,240 --> 00:57:53,280
Speaker 1: I want to make that call? Oh? I got the text,

1092
00:57:53,320 --> 00:57:55,480
Speaker 1: so I want to respond? You know, you know it's

1093
00:57:55,480 --> 00:57:57,800
Speaker 1: sex though. Sometimes that you can't make out with a

1094
00:57:57,880 --> 00:58:00,240
Speaker 1: guy without him wanting to have sex. It feels like

1095
00:58:00,800 --> 00:58:02,800
Speaker 1: you can't even do that. I don't know if that's

1096
00:58:02,800 --> 00:58:05,040
Speaker 1: always know the signals that we give when we want

1097
00:58:05,120 --> 00:58:07,920
Speaker 1: that's when you said initiate, Like sometimes you just want

1098
00:58:07,920 --> 00:58:09,880
Speaker 1: to make out, right, so that doesn't mean you initiate.

1099
00:58:10,880 --> 00:58:12,720
Speaker 1: And then sometimes you just have on pretty panties and

1100
00:58:12,760 --> 00:58:13,880
Speaker 1: that means you win the house sex and he just

1101
00:58:13,920 --> 00:58:17,120
Speaker 1: thinks you're having pretty Like when the signals get crossed,

1102
00:58:18,560 --> 00:58:20,360
Speaker 1: because sometimes I'd be like I just want to kiss

1103
00:58:20,400 --> 00:58:22,560
Speaker 1: and cut up. And then you can't just do that

1104
00:58:22,600 --> 00:58:25,880
Speaker 1: because when you say kids, and then you feel bad

1105
00:58:26,080 --> 00:58:28,400
Speaker 1: when your boyfriends dick is hright and he doesn't come

1106
00:58:28,840 --> 00:58:31,800
Speaker 1: and you're like, now I gotta I gotta bus it. Yeah,

1107
00:58:31,880 --> 00:58:34,120
Speaker 1: now I gotta go the fucking whole way because I

1108
00:58:34,160 --> 00:58:36,520
Speaker 1: haven't made him party. It's my fault. It's my fault.

1109
00:58:36,880 --> 00:58:42,200
Speaker 1: I don't want to I just wanted a little warm.

1110
00:58:42,520 --> 00:58:47,480
Speaker 1: I'm so appreciatively honest that you have no idea. I mean,

1111
00:58:48,080 --> 00:58:50,160
Speaker 1: guys are, but I feel like guys aren't built like that.

1112
00:58:50,240 --> 00:58:53,640
Speaker 1: They're not built it. Just want to just chill, lay up, kids,

1113
00:58:53,960 --> 00:59:00,720
Speaker 1: kiss kids, cuttle spoon. Rob has to have an ending

1114
00:59:00,800 --> 00:59:04,280
Speaker 1: yet for them, it sucks because sometimes you feel like, Okay,

1115
00:59:04,280 --> 00:59:05,760
Speaker 1: if I suck your jack now, I gotta suck it

1116
00:59:05,840 --> 00:59:10,320
Speaker 1: the whole way, right. I can't just like do a

1117
00:59:10,360 --> 00:59:11,960
Speaker 1: couple of sucks and then be like, all right, baby,

1118
00:59:12,280 --> 00:59:17,240
Speaker 1: you okay, But is it okay? Do that? Can that

1119
00:59:17,280 --> 00:59:19,720
Speaker 1: happen to a girl? No, you're not about to lick

1120
00:59:19,800 --> 00:59:21,400
Speaker 1: the thing. You're not about to give me, That's what

1121
00:59:21,400 --> 00:59:24,280
Speaker 1: I'm saying. It's not you know that once you roll,

1122
00:59:24,400 --> 00:59:29,880
Speaker 1: har that's it. Even for women, you're not. You're not.

1123
00:59:33,160 --> 00:59:35,920
Speaker 1: You're not. You're gonna have to go the whole way

1124
00:59:36,960 --> 00:59:38,560
Speaker 1: and the worst you're not get up early. Like I

1125
00:59:38,640 --> 00:59:41,520
Speaker 1: don't want to have sex for like an hour at

1126
00:59:41,640 --> 00:59:43,800
Speaker 1: night sometimes because I know I'll be thinking like that,

1127
00:59:43,840 --> 00:59:47,840
Speaker 1: I gotta get up soon, right, And I think it

1128
00:59:47,920 --> 00:59:50,120
Speaker 1: takes a lot more energy than than you know you're

1129
00:59:50,160 --> 00:59:53,200
Speaker 1: thinking about at the time. Yeah, you gotta sleep all day.

1130
00:59:55,160 --> 00:59:57,600
Speaker 1: You said you gotta sleep all the day. You get

1131
00:59:57,680 --> 01:00:01,680
Speaker 1: tired after sex, because sometimes I get more energetic, Chris said,

1132
01:00:01,800 --> 01:00:04,760
Speaker 1: I go right to sleep, You right to sleep after

1133
01:00:04,960 --> 01:00:08,000
Speaker 1: all different times of just any type of intimacy, like

1134
01:00:08,200 --> 01:00:13,240
Speaker 1: any because it's just like you're just working. It's a release.

1135
01:00:14,080 --> 01:00:18,480
Speaker 1: You get that release. You're just like, oh, You're like,

1136
01:00:18,560 --> 01:00:20,200
Speaker 1: I just want to smoke, but I don't want to

1137
01:00:20,200 --> 01:00:22,479
Speaker 1: wake up the next day either. You would have stayed

1138
01:00:22,520 --> 01:00:25,440
Speaker 1: back for the whole next day to have been nice

1139
01:00:25,440 --> 01:00:27,280
Speaker 1: to see. I know, I'm always gonna go, go, go,

1140
01:00:27,480 --> 01:00:29,800
Speaker 1: gotta go, gotta be here when I have sex. Sometimes

1141
01:00:29,840 --> 01:00:31,960
Speaker 1: after sex, I get up. I've been like the clean

1142
01:00:32,000 --> 01:00:33,160
Speaker 1: the house and do this and do that. I have

1143
01:00:33,280 --> 01:00:37,320
Speaker 1: more energy. Sometimes I'll be tired going to bed and

1144
01:00:37,400 --> 01:00:40,360
Speaker 1: then have sex and he's knocked out and I'm like

1145
01:00:40,960 --> 01:00:43,320
Speaker 1: sitting there looking around, like can I know? Isn't that

1146
01:00:43,400 --> 01:00:45,560
Speaker 1: the worst? All the worst? If he's cuddling and you're

1147
01:00:45,680 --> 01:00:48,400
Speaker 1: under him and you don't want to move, Yeah, because

1148
01:00:48,400 --> 01:00:55,600
Speaker 1: she's like I don't want to He's like that. Girls

1149
01:00:55,640 --> 01:00:57,600
Speaker 1: have the same problem, and that's when you go and

1150
01:00:57,640 --> 01:00:59,840
Speaker 1: get your phone and you'll be looking on Instagram exactly

1151
01:01:00,600 --> 01:01:04,800
Speaker 1: like real Sword doesn't like, let me play World Warp

1152
01:01:04,920 --> 01:01:10,680
Speaker 1: or something on my phone. Here, you're laying there, I

1153
01:01:10,800 --> 01:01:12,680
Speaker 1: can't breathe, but I don't want to move because he's

1154
01:01:12,680 --> 01:01:15,120
Speaker 1: so comfortable. That's how you know you lest somebody, though.

1155
01:01:15,400 --> 01:01:17,680
Speaker 1: That's true if they're cuddling with you and you don't

1156
01:01:17,720 --> 01:01:19,240
Speaker 1: want to move and then get their arm over you

1157
01:01:19,360 --> 01:01:20,960
Speaker 1: and you can't breathe, and you're like, all right, I'm

1158
01:01:20,960 --> 01:01:23,680
Speaker 1: gonna just lay here quietly and try to fall asleep too,

1159
01:01:23,720 --> 01:01:25,600
Speaker 1: even though I'm way to Wait. What about that position

1160
01:01:25,640 --> 01:01:27,840
Speaker 1: when your faces is close and he's breathing into your

1161
01:01:27,880 --> 01:01:29,760
Speaker 1: nose and you just still don't want to move. Does

1162
01:01:29,800 --> 01:01:33,680
Speaker 1: that happen? Yeah, as long as not in the morning

1163
01:01:34,080 --> 01:01:37,000
Speaker 1: and his breath, Like if he has that morning breath

1164
01:01:37,040 --> 01:01:39,320
Speaker 1: and he's breathing into my nose, I gotta slide over,

1165
01:01:41,080 --> 01:01:46,800
Speaker 1: I gotta, I gotta. But I think when you're in

1166
01:01:46,920 --> 01:01:48,960
Speaker 1: love with somebody, you like the way they're birth smells

1167
01:01:49,560 --> 01:01:53,840
Speaker 1: all the time. No, that's what starts for. It depends

1168
01:01:53,880 --> 01:01:56,080
Speaker 1: on what they got going on in the morning, that's

1169
01:01:56,080 --> 01:01:59,800
Speaker 1: what That's what spooning is for morning sex. Yeah, that's

1170
01:01:59,840 --> 01:02:02,560
Speaker 1: wanting sex. Is that sex on the side, on the side.

1171
01:02:03,320 --> 01:02:04,760
Speaker 1: He turned to the side because you know what him

1172
01:02:04,800 --> 01:02:08,760
Speaker 1: breathing on you. You don't like your mind if you're

1173
01:02:08,800 --> 01:02:10,320
Speaker 1: really ready to do what you can but do I

1174
01:02:10,360 --> 01:02:12,360
Speaker 1: don't think you mind a little bad breath in the morning.

1175
01:02:12,560 --> 01:02:16,240
Speaker 1: I don't like it, but I think it's a perfect

1176
01:02:16,280 --> 01:02:19,400
Speaker 1: opportunity to do that at the position. That's all stuff. Yeah,

1177
01:02:19,520 --> 01:02:21,560
Speaker 1: breathe all loud behind me and I don't have to

1178
01:02:21,640 --> 01:02:24,600
Speaker 1: smell it. Yeah, you know I'm thinking about it. Um.

1179
01:02:24,680 --> 01:02:26,360
Speaker 1: If a guy has ever said no to me to

1180
01:02:26,440 --> 01:02:29,680
Speaker 1: have sex, I get no when I want mad sex

1181
01:02:29,760 --> 01:02:32,520
Speaker 1: when it's too much like that again, you know what

1182
01:02:32,560 --> 01:02:34,400
Speaker 1: I like to do after a guy cans be like, okay,

1183
01:02:34,400 --> 01:02:36,479
Speaker 1: you're ready to go again? Just to be funny, Yeah,

1184
01:02:37,000 --> 01:02:39,720
Speaker 1: I think you look at you like kiss you guys

1185
01:02:39,800 --> 01:02:41,760
Speaker 1: do guys said that morning girls will do. Girls at

1186
01:02:41,760 --> 01:02:44,400
Speaker 1: the girl saying more than guys, I'd be ready to go,

1187
01:02:44,840 --> 01:02:49,840
Speaker 1: Like why did you come right minute? Yeah? If you

1188
01:02:50,040 --> 01:02:53,000
Speaker 1: didn't come the first time, didn't you ready to go again?

1189
01:02:53,080 --> 01:02:55,080
Speaker 1: Even I could come five times, I still want to yea,

1190
01:02:55,480 --> 01:02:57,520
Speaker 1: even if we can, we still have sex again. Yeah.

1191
01:02:57,520 --> 01:03:01,240
Speaker 1: I want to have mad sex, especially want especially when

1192
01:03:01,280 --> 01:03:03,920
Speaker 1: it's good, like like it's over. I like, all right, bait,

1193
01:03:04,000 --> 01:03:06,880
Speaker 1: let's give it like fifteen minutes. I'm where's your first on?

1194
01:03:06,960 --> 01:03:12,280
Speaker 1: Its gonna break? Yeah? What's gonna break? Vagina? It's not breaking.

1195
01:03:12,320 --> 01:03:16,000
Speaker 1: It is in perfect condition after being you know, in

1196
01:03:16,080 --> 01:03:18,440
Speaker 1: the situation I'm in now, I called my mom a

1197
01:03:18,480 --> 01:03:21,080
Speaker 1: lot you do to him, like, mom, is this normal?

1198
01:03:21,120 --> 01:03:24,720
Speaker 1: Like are you supposed to like you? I can never

1199
01:03:24,960 --> 01:03:28,320
Speaker 1: say that to me. Well, now that's like legal, you

1200
01:03:28,360 --> 01:03:30,280
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. I feel comfortable talking. Did you

1201
01:03:30,320 --> 01:03:32,320
Speaker 1: have a problem with you before? Like, oh, my goodness,

1202
01:03:32,360 --> 01:03:36,200
Speaker 1: of course. I grew up a Christian CHRISTI Chris Christian. Wow,

1203
01:03:37,000 --> 01:03:39,480
Speaker 1: so it was kind of taboo. And now she's like

1204
01:03:40,280 --> 01:03:42,920
Speaker 1: she's excited. Yeah, she's excited to talk and tell me

1205
01:03:42,960 --> 01:03:44,760
Speaker 1: how to have grandause. So I said, Mommy, I got

1206
01:03:44,840 --> 01:03:46,720
Speaker 1: a new app on my phone. You know it shows

1207
01:03:46,760 --> 01:03:48,760
Speaker 1: me when I'm overlating. It's kind of something like that's

1208
01:03:48,760 --> 01:03:51,920
Speaker 1: the period tracker. She's like, yo, need no, just have

1209
01:03:52,080 --> 01:03:54,480
Speaker 1: a lot of sex. I'm like, oh my god. Actually,

1210
01:03:54,520 --> 01:03:56,760
Speaker 1: now this is interesting because the other day I went

1211
01:03:56,800 --> 01:04:00,840
Speaker 1: from my gynecological checkup, and she was talking about the

1212
01:04:00,880 --> 01:04:03,720
Speaker 1: period tracker app and she was saying that if you

1213
01:04:03,840 --> 01:04:06,280
Speaker 1: really wanted to have a baby, you shouldn't. You should

1214
01:04:06,320 --> 01:04:08,280
Speaker 1: have sex like the two days before and the two

1215
01:04:08,320 --> 01:04:11,959
Speaker 1: days after and the day that you're ovulating, but trying

1216
01:04:12,000 --> 01:04:13,600
Speaker 1: not to have too much sex the rest of the

1217
01:04:13,640 --> 01:04:14,800
Speaker 1: month because you want to make sure it's like the

1218
01:04:14,840 --> 01:04:18,840
Speaker 1: tip top sperm. Oh yeah, because you're wasting it on

1219
01:04:19,000 --> 01:04:21,480
Speaker 1: his end, right, because then it gets weaker and weaker.

1220
01:04:21,520 --> 01:04:24,480
Speaker 1: I guess more you don't want. So she's like, you know,

1221
01:04:24,600 --> 01:04:27,920
Speaker 1: maybe every other day, every couple of days, but a

1222
01:04:28,000 --> 01:04:29,720
Speaker 1: couple of days before the day of and a couple

1223
01:04:29,760 --> 01:04:31,919
Speaker 1: of days after that you're ovulating. That's when you really

1224
01:04:31,960 --> 01:04:34,320
Speaker 1: should be. You know, when you're fertile is when you

1225
01:04:34,360 --> 01:04:37,480
Speaker 1: should he should be going, right, So when and it

1226
01:04:37,560 --> 01:04:41,560
Speaker 1: makes sense and those three days before though, that four

1227
01:04:41,680 --> 01:04:44,560
Speaker 1: or five days, don't have sus keep it from him

1228
01:04:44,880 --> 01:04:47,720
Speaker 1: if you want to have a baby coming in your eye,

1229
01:04:48,240 --> 01:04:56,800
Speaker 1: no coming in no, no getting my high partner, Chris said,

1230
01:04:56,840 --> 01:05:00,160
Speaker 1: what makes you nervous about getting married? Anything? Oh um

1231
01:05:02,960 --> 01:05:06,520
Speaker 1: m hmm. You feel great. There's nothing You're like, Oh

1232
01:05:06,560 --> 01:05:09,280
Speaker 1: my god, I'm so scared about. Well, I do want

1233
01:05:09,320 --> 01:05:12,640
Speaker 1: to be the like a great sex partner. It's a

1234
01:05:12,680 --> 01:05:14,880
Speaker 1: big deal to me, a very big deal. A man

1235
01:05:14,920 --> 01:05:16,440
Speaker 1: probably wouldn't Mary if he didn't think you were a

1236
01:05:16,480 --> 01:05:18,640
Speaker 1: great sex partner. Though, don't you think I asked? I

1237
01:05:18,800 --> 01:05:21,800
Speaker 1: asked that the other day. We had that discussion, and um,

1238
01:05:22,200 --> 01:05:24,160
Speaker 1: you know, we have different opinions on that because of

1239
01:05:24,200 --> 01:05:27,360
Speaker 1: what I said about attachment, Like, I'm not trying to

1240
01:05:27,480 --> 01:05:29,640
Speaker 1: do whatever you God did. I I'm with because I

1241
01:05:29,800 --> 01:05:31,560
Speaker 1: know that I'm gonna be attached. But men are a

1242
01:05:31,640 --> 01:05:35,200
Speaker 1: little bit different. So maybe you think a man would

1243
01:05:35,200 --> 01:05:38,120
Speaker 1: marry somebody if sex wasn't great him. I don't know.

1244
01:05:38,240 --> 01:05:41,040
Speaker 1: My my parents got married and they but they could

1245
01:05:41,040 --> 01:05:44,400
Speaker 1: be lying on what they say. They never asked they

1246
01:05:44,480 --> 01:05:47,360
Speaker 1: got married. Okay, I mean, all right, that's possible because

1247
01:05:47,400 --> 01:05:50,640
Speaker 1: I do know. I know one person. He wasn't a vision,

1248
01:05:50,680 --> 01:05:52,360
Speaker 1: but his wife was a virgin, and they didn't have

1249
01:05:52,400 --> 01:05:54,240
Speaker 1: sex after they got married. My mother to she was

1250
01:05:54,280 --> 01:05:57,840
Speaker 1: petrified on the on the other night. That's probably so exciting, though,

1251
01:05:58,280 --> 01:06:02,320
Speaker 1: could you imagine I couldn't imagine getting married to someone

1252
01:06:02,360 --> 01:06:04,240
Speaker 1: I didn't have sex with. A lot of people say that,

1253
01:06:04,320 --> 01:06:08,640
Speaker 1: but they were versions what my mom was. Yeah, I'm

1254
01:06:08,720 --> 01:06:12,720
Speaker 1: standing right. There was a different times because when they're

1255
01:06:12,760 --> 01:06:15,560
Speaker 1: not as women, do y'all want to guide us a virgin? No,

1256
01:06:17,000 --> 01:06:24,040
Speaker 1: you do, I wouldn't mind. I ain't breaking that dickens.

1257
01:06:25,360 --> 01:06:26,960
Speaker 1: I'll take them as a version, but I gotta at

1258
01:06:27,000 --> 01:06:29,080
Speaker 1: least see it first if you can't, if I can't

1259
01:06:29,120 --> 01:06:30,720
Speaker 1: feel it, I need at least see it. At least

1260
01:06:30,760 --> 01:06:32,600
Speaker 1: I can see what I'm working with, and then when

1261
01:06:32,640 --> 01:06:33,920
Speaker 1: it's time for us to get to it, I'll have

1262
01:06:34,000 --> 01:06:36,760
Speaker 1: no problem showing them what to do. But I got

1263
01:06:37,120 --> 01:06:40,320
Speaker 1: if I've never seen that. The thing is getting married

1264
01:06:40,360 --> 01:06:42,720
Speaker 1: when you're a virgin, and for a woman, you don't

1265
01:06:42,800 --> 01:06:46,800
Speaker 1: know anything else, So it's okay, that's that's your sex life.

1266
01:06:47,000 --> 01:06:50,040
Speaker 1: You know, a woman like me, I've been having sex

1267
01:06:50,120 --> 01:06:52,640
Speaker 1: again since I was a teenager. Like, I need to

1268
01:06:52,760 --> 01:06:54,720
Speaker 1: know that that's gonna be good. Sucks. If not, I'm

1269
01:06:54,720 --> 01:06:57,280
Speaker 1: going to cheat on you. Yeah, I think this is

1270
01:06:57,360 --> 01:07:00,200
Speaker 1: like that I don't want to get married. I'm like,

1271
01:07:01,000 --> 01:07:05,320
Speaker 1: like I want to say, being a good like girlfriend.

1272
01:07:05,360 --> 01:07:06,920
Speaker 1: I guess it was a word. Like I've always thought

1273
01:07:06,960 --> 01:07:10,320
Speaker 1: I was just not a good girlfriend. Why because like

1274
01:07:11,200 --> 01:07:13,720
Speaker 1: I was just like a kind of Ah, I guess

1275
01:07:13,760 --> 01:07:15,960
Speaker 1: a dude about it all. You know, our relationships, I

1276
01:07:16,120 --> 01:07:18,040
Speaker 1: just I don't have I don't care about know what

1277
01:07:18,160 --> 01:07:22,360
Speaker 1: he's feelings. You weren't, I just yeah I wasn't so

1278
01:07:22,560 --> 01:07:25,760
Speaker 1: this time around, Like it's just different. But that's okay.

1279
01:07:26,480 --> 01:07:28,400
Speaker 1: I think it's okay if you're just dating and you're

1280
01:07:28,440 --> 01:07:30,880
Speaker 1: not in love. It is what it is. You guys do.

1281
01:07:31,120 --> 01:07:33,560
Speaker 1: Guys do do it all the time, and you know what,

1282
01:07:33,680 --> 01:07:35,400
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna like it makes guys like you even

1283
01:07:35,440 --> 01:07:38,000
Speaker 1: more and it's a it's a problem because you're still

1284
01:07:38,040 --> 01:07:43,320
Speaker 1: gonna not be more and you're still damn it, why

1285
01:07:43,360 --> 01:07:48,840
Speaker 1: don't you have no damn feelings wrong? When it came

1286
01:07:48,920 --> 01:07:51,280
Speaker 1: time for this for like a yeah he's been in maths,

1287
01:07:51,360 --> 01:07:54,120
Speaker 1: I was like like it was like I don't know

1288
01:07:54,240 --> 01:07:56,960
Speaker 1: what's coming over me. That's what you're feeling that you

1289
01:07:57,000 --> 01:07:59,240
Speaker 1: gotta let yourself go. Yeah, I really have to and

1290
01:07:59,320 --> 01:08:02,520
Speaker 1: chest you gotta be vulnerable. I was, yeah, deal for me,

1291
01:08:03,080 --> 01:08:05,840
Speaker 1: I get it though, like a hundred and fifty, Like

1292
01:08:07,280 --> 01:08:09,560
Speaker 1: I think I was an awful girlfriend up until my

1293
01:08:09,720 --> 01:08:12,840
Speaker 1: last boyfriend, and it just made me realize, like why

1294
01:08:13,000 --> 01:08:15,520
Speaker 1: I should be an awful girlfriend. Then he went to

1295
01:08:15,640 --> 01:08:19,360
Speaker 1: jail and you left him. Yeah, don't let me. You

1296
01:08:19,520 --> 01:08:21,439
Speaker 1: broke up with me when he went to jail. But

1297
01:08:21,520 --> 01:08:23,000
Speaker 1: I think I was a good girlfriend to him. I

1298
01:08:23,080 --> 01:08:25,040
Speaker 1: think I was all right to him. But besides that,

1299
01:08:25,120 --> 01:08:27,920
Speaker 1: I don't think I ever been a good girl. No,

1300
01:08:28,000 --> 01:08:33,400
Speaker 1: but I was there for him. I was there, and

1301
01:08:33,479 --> 01:08:35,439
Speaker 1: then I've been traveling a little for ten years. Right,

1302
01:08:35,640 --> 01:08:38,439
Speaker 1: So it's difficult because you gotta put you first in

1303
01:08:38,520 --> 01:08:40,760
Speaker 1: that situation and not just be saying sorry a lot,

1304
01:08:40,960 --> 01:08:44,240
Speaker 1: your career first. Yeah, you first, don't have time. You

1305
01:08:44,280 --> 01:08:47,040
Speaker 1: don't understand that. This is frustrating for me. Yeah, and

1306
01:08:47,120 --> 01:08:49,760
Speaker 1: even if it's an industry dude, then they putting themselves first.

1307
01:08:49,800 --> 01:08:51,880
Speaker 1: So it's just like who cares who's first? Like, let's

1308
01:08:51,920 --> 01:08:55,439
Speaker 1: just both be second, you know, and just last. So

1309
01:08:56,040 --> 01:08:59,160
Speaker 1: what congratulations you learned a it's a milestone for you

1310
01:08:59,520 --> 01:09:02,479
Speaker 1: showing another mouth down. Well, we're looking forward to it

1311
01:09:02,479 --> 01:09:04,080
Speaker 1: when it is, say I'm coming out now that it's done,

1312
01:09:04,439 --> 01:09:06,840
Speaker 1: and now that you have your own label and putting

1313
01:09:06,880 --> 01:09:08,599
Speaker 1: it out on your own coming out of May. It's

1314
01:09:08,640 --> 01:09:12,000
Speaker 1: a distributed by Capital and Caroline Records, So it's kind

1315
01:09:12,040 --> 01:09:16,120
Speaker 1: of fun. Um so we're working on May May. What

1316
01:09:16,200 --> 01:09:17,960
Speaker 1: we're looking forward to it. You know, anything we could

1317
01:09:18,000 --> 01:09:21,040
Speaker 1: do over here, appreciate it. We got maybe always let

1318
01:09:21,080 --> 01:09:23,160
Speaker 1: use some of my love songs, like my love making music.

1319
01:09:23,920 --> 01:09:26,800
Speaker 1: I love love making music, but it's also like powerful

1320
01:09:27,000 --> 01:09:29,160
Speaker 1: that I have to dross. I also like the trap

1321
01:09:29,240 --> 01:09:31,800
Speaker 1: soul too. So now you do okay, you're just just

1322
01:09:31,880 --> 01:09:33,880
Speaker 1: handing the hound feeling, you know what I'm saying. Just

1323
01:09:34,040 --> 01:09:38,400
Speaker 1: once like that, after you everything you needed to do

1324
01:09:38,600 --> 01:09:42,560
Speaker 1: and you just feel strong and great. I think you

1325
01:09:42,600 --> 01:09:44,920
Speaker 1: guys are like, all right, well Chris at Michelle, thank

1326
01:09:44,920 --> 01:09:47,360
Speaker 1: you so much for coming through. I'm Angela Ye, I'm

1327
01:09:47,360 --> 01:09:50,360
Speaker 1: Stepan Santiago, I'm G. G McGuire and this is let's

1328
01:09:50,400 --> 01:09:56,519
Speaker 1: service great times. That's what's happens lip service at Angela Yee.

1329
01:09:56,680 --> 01:09:59,639
Speaker 1: I'm step Near Santiago, I'm G. G McGuire, I'm Heyy

1330
01:09:59,720 --> 01:10:04,759
Speaker 1: Quinn and I'm Genevieve Legion. Say something, guess Stephanie. I'm Stephanie.

1331
01:10:04,840 --> 01:10:06,840
Speaker 1: Say there we go. Put it in your mouth, you

1332
01:10:06,920 --> 01:10:09,600
Speaker 1: know how to do it. Company in Santiago with the

1333
01:10:09,720 --> 01:10:12,160
Speaker 1: mic all upon my mouth. All right, So today we

1334
01:10:12,240 --> 01:10:15,000
Speaker 1: have Haley Quinn. We have a Genevieve Lesion is how

1335
01:10:15,000 --> 01:10:17,599
Speaker 1: you say your name the racist? Is it it right? Yes?

1336
01:10:17,680 --> 01:10:21,280
Speaker 1: You did? Perfect. So let's talk a little bit about

1337
01:10:21,320 --> 01:10:24,960
Speaker 1: what you ladies do. You're the best friends or something? Yeah,

1338
01:10:25,400 --> 01:10:29,919
Speaker 1: from London to New York. Okay, Haley is a relationship expert,

1339
01:10:30,360 --> 01:10:32,360
Speaker 1: I am, although I would say that my whole thing

1340
01:10:32,439 --> 01:10:35,040
Speaker 1: is I'm not about to finding yourself by relationships, so

1341
01:10:35,760 --> 01:10:39,160
Speaker 1: I am the most single relationship expert in the world. Perfect,

1342
01:10:39,880 --> 01:10:41,720
Speaker 1: all right, And Jennevie of you are coming here to

1343
01:10:41,800 --> 01:10:44,799
Speaker 1: start the Skirt Club. That's right. We're launching on Thursday

1344
01:10:44,880 --> 01:10:48,439
Speaker 1: evening on Blaker Street, dusk Bark or Madame Jane. Now,

1345
01:10:48,520 --> 01:10:50,320
Speaker 1: let's talk about what the skirt Club is, because this

1346
01:10:50,400 --> 01:10:53,360
Speaker 1: is something you guys already have in the UK. We have, Yeah,

1347
01:10:53,400 --> 01:10:56,679
Speaker 1: the last two years we've been hosting parties monthly in London.

1348
01:10:57,600 --> 01:11:00,200
Speaker 1: It's a ladies club that's a private member's club else

1349
01:11:00,280 --> 01:11:03,240
Speaker 1: only strictly um and it's for the curious kind, those

1350
01:11:03,240 --> 01:11:07,360
Speaker 1: who wanted to explore, experiment um their bisexual and curiosity.

1351
01:11:07,800 --> 01:11:10,320
Speaker 1: All right, So Norman allowed period and it's in by only.

1352
01:11:10,360 --> 01:11:14,679
Speaker 1: How do you decide who to invite in New York? Yeah?

1353
01:11:14,680 --> 01:11:16,720
Speaker 1: In New York in general, Like, how do you get

1354
01:11:16,800 --> 01:11:19,040
Speaker 1: invited to the Skirt Club? So first you have to

1355
01:11:19,080 --> 01:11:20,960
Speaker 1: register as a member on the website and you need

1356
01:11:21,000 --> 01:11:23,840
Speaker 1: to upload two photos and preferably be referred by a

1357
01:11:23,920 --> 01:11:27,559
Speaker 1: current member. Since we only have four members in New

1358
01:11:27,600 --> 01:11:30,160
Speaker 1: York right now, that's quite hard to meet one of those.

1359
01:11:30,320 --> 01:11:33,160
Speaker 1: So this week we're inviting if you want to register

1360
01:11:33,880 --> 01:11:36,200
Speaker 1: from then I will be referral only. So what goes

1361
01:11:36,240 --> 01:11:39,320
Speaker 1: on at the Skirt Club? Because Stephanie is eusy need

1362
01:11:39,400 --> 01:11:43,840
Speaker 1: to know? Yeah, I want to know. Would you like

1363
01:11:43,920 --> 01:11:48,040
Speaker 1: to find out firsthand? Are you bi curious? I've by

1364
01:11:48,160 --> 01:11:53,200
Speaker 1: been there? But so what happens? Well, we host two

1365
01:11:53,320 --> 01:11:56,920
Speaker 1: kinds of parties. The party launch party on Thursday night

1366
01:11:57,560 --> 01:12:01,599
Speaker 1: is our miniskirt format and it's simply a cops, worry ladies,

1367
01:12:01,680 --> 01:12:11,200
Speaker 1: mingle and meat, cattails and no cats. Yeah, we usually

1368
01:12:11,240 --> 01:12:13,599
Speaker 1: have a talk on this occasion. Henry will be speaking

1369
01:12:14,360 --> 01:12:16,920
Speaker 1: on her flirt tips and I basically just do whatever

1370
01:12:17,000 --> 01:12:19,320
Speaker 1: Genevieve wants me to do to make it as exciting

1371
01:12:19,360 --> 01:12:21,880
Speaker 1: as possible. So I'm waiting on my briefing at present.

1372
01:12:22,160 --> 01:12:24,400
Speaker 1: What is flirtips? Because we we always have to show

1373
01:12:24,439 --> 01:12:26,760
Speaker 1: off with some tips, right, so we will. You can

1374
01:12:26,760 --> 01:12:29,720
Speaker 1: give us some floating tips today, Okay, I can do that.

1375
01:12:30,120 --> 01:12:32,280
Speaker 1: The thing is with with the Scout Club, particularly in

1376
01:12:32,280 --> 01:12:35,320
Speaker 1: the women women flirting between two women where neither of

1377
01:12:35,400 --> 01:12:38,479
Speaker 1: them identify as gay. That is an interesting thing because

1378
01:12:38,520 --> 01:12:40,519
Speaker 1: you're used to in any other context, either a man

1379
01:12:40,680 --> 01:12:43,160
Speaker 1: or a woman actively hitting on you. So to suddenly

1380
01:12:43,200 --> 01:12:45,080
Speaker 1: take that initiative to go, oh my god, yeah, I'm

1381
01:12:45,080 --> 01:12:47,599
Speaker 1: attracted to her. I never kissed a girl before kind

1382
01:12:47,640 --> 01:12:49,600
Speaker 1: of going to do it now. That usually takes the

1383
01:12:49,640 --> 01:12:52,160
Speaker 1: women that are involved, well apart from a cocktail something else,

1384
01:12:52,240 --> 01:12:54,160
Speaker 1: to get into the zone. So I teach them a

1385
01:12:54,200 --> 01:12:57,000
Speaker 1: couple of particular touches and ways that they can look

1386
01:12:57,040 --> 01:12:59,600
Speaker 1: with their eyes that create that flirtation and create that

1387
01:12:59,600 --> 01:13:02,240
Speaker 1: attract So, like, what you give me an example, like

1388
01:13:02,320 --> 01:13:04,479
Speaker 1: what kind of touches do you do? Okay? Well, I

1389
01:13:04,520 --> 01:13:06,519
Speaker 1: would say, like, we're not men, so we don't have

1390
01:13:06,600 --> 01:13:08,880
Speaker 1: to go in for like the caveman thing and show

1391
01:13:09,560 --> 01:13:13,120
Speaker 1: and explain what you're doing. So what I would say

1392
01:13:13,160 --> 01:13:14,720
Speaker 1: to do is a couple of things. First of all,

1393
01:13:14,720 --> 01:13:18,800
Speaker 1: I'd stay actually with the eye contact, can'tact okay, okay,

1394
01:13:18,840 --> 01:13:21,040
Speaker 1: so we do something you do. There's two gazes you

1395
01:13:21,080 --> 01:13:23,439
Speaker 1: can do. One is the triangular gaze, where you look

1396
01:13:23,600 --> 01:13:30,719
Speaker 1: left eye, right eye, lips, and then back to both eyes. Okay,

1397
01:13:30,920 --> 01:13:33,680
Speaker 1: you got to look triangular. Yeah, you gotta look at

1398
01:13:33,720 --> 01:13:35,840
Speaker 1: what you want, and that like sends a signal to

1399
01:13:36,240 --> 01:13:38,360
Speaker 1: that you want to kiss the person without being without

1400
01:13:38,439 --> 01:13:40,519
Speaker 1: lunging in or saying can I kiss you? Or how

1401
01:13:40,600 --> 01:13:41,960
Speaker 1: good a kiss? Or are you on a scale of

1402
01:13:42,000 --> 01:13:45,679
Speaker 1: one to ten? Or can you make their triangle longer

1403
01:13:45,800 --> 01:13:50,160
Speaker 1: and do the left eye red eye triangle so I

1404
01:13:50,240 --> 01:13:53,360
Speaker 1: can navigator. The other one actually is called the coital gaze.

1405
01:13:53,520 --> 01:13:56,560
Speaker 1: I didn't name these things. Do and just say. What

1406
01:13:56,640 --> 01:13:58,439
Speaker 1: you do is you look, you look at them directly,

1407
01:13:58,840 --> 01:14:00,719
Speaker 1: then you look down in a way being a cute

1408
01:14:00,760 --> 01:14:03,120
Speaker 1: and coy, and then you flick your eyes back up again.

1409
01:14:03,400 --> 01:14:07,040
Speaker 1: And that is like the big come get me tiger. Okay, single,

1410
01:14:07,200 --> 01:14:08,880
Speaker 1: So somebody looks at you like that they want it?

1411
01:14:09,120 --> 01:14:14,479
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, definitely, definitely. Do you do these gazes? Oh?

1412
01:14:14,760 --> 01:14:17,760
Speaker 1: I mean I'm a pretty forward person. What do you do?

1413
01:14:18,200 --> 01:14:22,479
Speaker 1: I'm like, hey, there's no flirting. I'm gonna tell you

1414
01:14:24,080 --> 01:14:26,960
Speaker 1: it's good. But these things, um, these these things work

1415
01:14:27,040 --> 01:14:29,559
Speaker 1: for boys who right right. I think it's I think

1416
01:14:29,560 --> 01:14:32,560
Speaker 1: it's really fun when thinks about like boys. When I

1417
01:14:32,920 --> 01:14:35,479
Speaker 1: can look at boys, I could do the triangle, He's

1418
01:14:35,640 --> 01:14:38,760
Speaker 1: what a boy? Yeah? Yeah, you can look at the

1419
01:14:38,800 --> 01:14:45,439
Speaker 1: back of a guy's head and he'll still be okay.

1420
01:14:45,520 --> 01:14:48,559
Speaker 1: So what about the touching? Right with the touching, Well,

1421
01:14:48,640 --> 01:14:50,040
Speaker 1: you know what I always think, like, when I'm with

1422
01:14:50,120 --> 01:14:52,599
Speaker 1: a guy, it's always a bit cavemannish. It's like he's

1423
01:14:52,640 --> 01:14:55,400
Speaker 1: pulling the hair, he's grabbing your butt, he's driking you

1424
01:14:55,479 --> 01:14:57,960
Speaker 1: towards him, And I think, well, that's a lot. Okay,

1425
01:14:59,640 --> 01:15:01,680
Speaker 1: it's just a boys I hang out with. I don't know.

1426
01:15:03,040 --> 01:15:05,479
Speaker 1: And one of the amazing things I think is about

1427
01:15:05,560 --> 01:15:08,080
Speaker 1: being a woman to woman, you can actually explode much

1428
01:15:08,080 --> 01:15:10,519
Speaker 1: more sensual and delicate touches. And I think sometimes the

1429
01:15:11,040 --> 01:15:13,519
Speaker 1: hottest and sexiest thing is that when no one else

1430
01:15:13,600 --> 01:15:15,600
Speaker 1: in the room knows that you two are having a

1431
01:15:15,640 --> 01:15:18,639
Speaker 1: flirtation together. So that could just be that you're sitting

1432
01:15:18,720 --> 01:15:21,000
Speaker 1: side by side and like your knees start to touch,

1433
01:15:21,200 --> 01:15:24,040
Speaker 1: or it could be that you're managing to touch them

1434
01:15:24,080 --> 01:15:26,640
Speaker 1: just on the inside of their arm, very delicately, on

1435
01:15:26,720 --> 01:15:28,760
Speaker 1: that soft bit of skin that runs from the wrist

1436
01:15:28,880 --> 01:15:32,559
Speaker 1: down to the elbow and anything that's more subtle and softer.

1437
01:15:33,080 --> 01:15:35,760
Speaker 1: I think the hotness isn't actually in the physical touches said,

1438
01:15:35,760 --> 01:15:37,920
Speaker 1: it's that everybody else is in the room and you

1439
01:15:38,040 --> 01:15:40,040
Speaker 1: are two women, and no one else in the room

1440
01:15:40,120 --> 01:15:41,920
Speaker 1: knows that you are well into each other, and you're

1441
01:15:41,960 --> 01:15:45,880
Speaker 1: not looking at anybody else. And I think that secretive, clandestine,

1442
01:15:46,120 --> 01:15:49,120
Speaker 1: feminine form of touch and sensuality. How can you tell

1443
01:15:49,160 --> 01:15:51,280
Speaker 1: when another woman wants it? Though? How can you tell

1444
01:15:51,640 --> 01:15:54,040
Speaker 1: if you don't know her, that she'll be interested in

1445
01:15:54,200 --> 01:15:56,760
Speaker 1: you as a female. It's something in the way she

1446
01:15:56,880 --> 01:15:59,800
Speaker 1: looks at you. And he he's just defined it, right.

1447
01:16:00,040 --> 01:16:02,599
Speaker 1: So what I would say is if if I think

1448
01:16:02,680 --> 01:16:04,439
Speaker 1: that people are intuitive, I think you know, you can

1449
01:16:04,479 --> 01:16:06,519
Speaker 1: sense it in your guard right, if somebody's interested in you,

1450
01:16:06,600 --> 01:16:09,439
Speaker 1: and sometimes it's just about crossing the mental hurdle of

1451
01:16:09,520 --> 01:16:11,880
Speaker 1: going right. It's a woman that's interested in me, then

1452
01:16:11,960 --> 01:16:13,679
Speaker 1: what I would do normally is I try and create

1453
01:16:13,680 --> 01:16:16,439
Speaker 1: an environment where she feels comfortable to step forward on that.

1454
01:16:16,600 --> 01:16:18,600
Speaker 1: So I would probably, But if it was me I

1455
01:16:18,760 --> 01:16:20,800
Speaker 1: begin with to stay a story or tell a little

1456
01:16:20,800 --> 01:16:23,479
Speaker 1: anecdote about my interest in women, I said, Oh, you know,

1457
01:16:23,840 --> 01:16:25,320
Speaker 1: she was really sexy, or I had this s ex

1458
01:16:25,400 --> 01:16:27,519
Speaker 1: girlfriend or went out on a day, so I just

1459
01:16:27,640 --> 01:16:30,720
Speaker 1: drop drop it and drop a bombshell him in there.

1460
01:16:31,080 --> 01:16:33,320
Speaker 1: And I don't remember the first m a pussy and

1461
01:16:33,400 --> 01:16:36,280
Speaker 1: and yeah, yeah, yeah, it was just it's really good.

1462
01:16:37,479 --> 01:16:39,120
Speaker 1: And then I would say something to her, And you know,

1463
01:16:39,240 --> 01:16:41,400
Speaker 1: I think women we can do great compliments as well,

1464
01:16:41,479 --> 01:16:42,960
Speaker 1: you know, because you know I love you her. It's

1465
01:16:43,000 --> 01:16:45,280
Speaker 1: my favorite color. I like your skin it's luminescent, or

1466
01:16:45,720 --> 01:16:47,920
Speaker 1: you look great in that dress. I'm not gonna like.

1467
01:16:47,960 --> 01:16:49,800
Speaker 1: I had a woman combined to me one time. As

1468
01:16:49,840 --> 01:16:52,719
Speaker 1: a matter of fact, it was at another my boy's

1469
01:16:52,720 --> 01:16:54,439
Speaker 1: guddy who owns the studio here in your room. He

1470
01:16:54,479 --> 01:16:56,719
Speaker 1: used to work at another studio and I was sitting

1471
01:16:56,760 --> 01:16:58,360
Speaker 1: in the labby and this woman came over to me

1472
01:16:58,439 --> 01:17:01,599
Speaker 1: and she's instead of playing with of buttons on my jacket, like, oh,

1473
01:17:02,040 --> 01:17:13,040
Speaker 1: what kind of Benson battery? Sister? My sister is nuggy.

1474
01:17:14,680 --> 01:17:17,679
Speaker 1: But I did feel like, okay, she's trying to commind

1475
01:17:17,680 --> 01:17:20,280
Speaker 1: to me. It was the weirdest thing. It was awkward, though,

1476
01:17:20,400 --> 01:17:22,200
Speaker 1: you know, it was weird. I remember, like the first

1477
01:17:22,240 --> 01:17:24,599
Speaker 1: time I asked a woman out and then met her

1478
01:17:24,600 --> 01:17:26,040
Speaker 1: for coffee. I was like, what am I doing? First

1479
01:17:26,160 --> 01:17:27,720
Speaker 1: was like, I don't know what I'm doing? Does she

1480
01:17:27,840 --> 01:17:30,519
Speaker 1: know why she's here? This is really weird? And then

1481
01:17:30,600 --> 01:17:32,320
Speaker 1: that moment I remember the first time I made out

1482
01:17:32,360 --> 01:17:34,000
Speaker 1: with her, and it was like on Oxford Street, which

1483
01:17:34,040 --> 01:17:35,840
Speaker 1: is your like our version of like, I don't know

1484
01:17:35,960 --> 01:17:39,280
Speaker 1: Broadway or really really busy street in New York, broad

1485
01:17:39,400 --> 01:17:42,920
Speaker 1: daylight taxis are going past. I'm like, this is the weirdest,

1486
01:17:43,000 --> 01:17:45,840
Speaker 1: weirdest thing I've ever done, but it's so exciting. So

1487
01:17:45,960 --> 01:17:49,599
Speaker 1: do you consider are you bisexual or are you gay? Bisexual? Yeah,

1488
01:17:50,920 --> 01:17:53,000
Speaker 1: I'm you know, I don't even like to define myself.

1489
01:17:53,080 --> 01:17:54,760
Speaker 1: I just like who I like when you like them.

1490
01:17:54,920 --> 01:17:57,320
Speaker 1: So sometimes you like men, sometimes you like women. Oh yeah,

1491
01:17:57,400 --> 01:18:00,640
Speaker 1: you should see me. I'm absolutely terrible, Like literally Genevieve

1492
01:18:00,720 --> 01:18:02,560
Speaker 1: knows in the card Jenally on the way over, be

1493
01:18:02,600 --> 01:18:05,160
Speaker 1: getting messages from little videos from guys and I'll be

1494
01:18:05,280 --> 01:18:08,040
Speaker 1: squealing and like running around the place like an idiot.

1495
01:18:09,080 --> 01:18:10,600
Speaker 1: After I finished this, I'm going to go back to

1496
01:18:10,760 --> 01:18:12,519
Speaker 1: l A to see a guy that I met there.

1497
01:18:13,000 --> 01:18:15,320
Speaker 1: And we're saying in an apartment that a guy that

1498
01:18:15,400 --> 01:18:17,800
Speaker 1: I know in London, lent Us. I'm constantly hitting on

1499
01:18:17,880 --> 01:18:20,840
Speaker 1: Genevieve in real life and on Twitter. So are you

1500
01:18:20,920 --> 01:18:23,640
Speaker 1: with Genevieve. I'm very confused by the whole thing. But

1501
01:18:23,760 --> 01:18:26,839
Speaker 1: it's un dancing to her dance right now. So now

1502
01:18:26,920 --> 01:18:29,120
Speaker 1: being there, you are the host of the SCOREL Club,

1503
01:18:29,360 --> 01:18:31,360
Speaker 1: and there's I founded the club and ft yes, and

1504
01:18:31,479 --> 01:18:34,120
Speaker 1: you you founded the club. So are you bad curious?

1505
01:18:34,160 --> 01:18:36,360
Speaker 1: Because that's really what it's about, inviting women who are

1506
01:18:36,400 --> 01:18:39,040
Speaker 1: back curious, who are Yeah. An interesting way to measure

1507
01:18:39,120 --> 01:18:41,880
Speaker 1: this is called the kidsey s Girl. It's he. He's

1508
01:18:41,880 --> 01:18:44,080
Speaker 1: a scientist from Befoties is actually a movie out about

1509
01:18:44,160 --> 01:18:46,960
Speaker 1: him and he he asked men and women to rate

1510
01:18:47,040 --> 01:18:48,960
Speaker 1: themselves on the scale of not to six about her

1511
01:18:49,160 --> 01:18:52,519
Speaker 1: how bisexual they were. I guess not being straight six

1512
01:18:52,600 --> 01:18:55,719
Speaker 1: being gay. So when you apply for membership at scut Club,

1513
01:18:55,800 --> 01:18:58,320
Speaker 1: you rate yourself on that scale and we can measure

1514
01:18:58,800 --> 01:19:01,920
Speaker 1: I guess where the majority lie, and it's mostly sort

1515
01:19:01,960 --> 01:19:04,640
Speaker 1: of around the mark two one or two, which is

1516
01:19:04,720 --> 01:19:08,400
Speaker 1: more straight than than even halfway bisexual. So I would

1517
01:19:08,439 --> 01:19:11,160
Speaker 1: class those people as bi curious. Have explored maybe once

1518
01:19:11,280 --> 01:19:14,400
Speaker 1: or twice, Okay, And how do you classify yourself. I'd

1519
01:19:14,439 --> 01:19:17,559
Speaker 1: like to say as bisexual. Um, and obviously i'm because

1520
01:19:17,600 --> 01:19:19,800
Speaker 1: I own a club that is full bisexual women. But

1521
01:19:21,280 --> 01:19:23,560
Speaker 1: I have never had a relationship with a woman, and

1522
01:19:23,640 --> 01:19:25,960
Speaker 1: I'm being with many women, but I've only ever dated

1523
01:19:26,000 --> 01:19:27,960
Speaker 1: a man. So why don't you want to have a

1524
01:19:28,000 --> 01:19:30,760
Speaker 1: relationship with a woman? I just I don't think it's

1525
01:19:30,760 --> 01:19:32,880
Speaker 1: that I don't want to. I just haven't met that person.

1526
01:19:32,920 --> 01:19:38,160
Speaker 1: You ever met that woman? Hello? Hey, you just a

1527
01:19:38,200 --> 01:19:47,880
Speaker 1: little job offside pieces? I see you. How do you

1528
01:19:47,960 --> 01:19:50,439
Speaker 1: rate yourself according to that skill? Then? On a skill

1529
01:19:50,520 --> 01:19:56,920
Speaker 1: of one to six, um, six being demosexual, six being gay? Oh?

1530
01:19:57,000 --> 01:19:59,320
Speaker 1: Six being gay? And what do you say? Was a boat?

1531
01:19:59,360 --> 01:20:02,680
Speaker 1: Areas like two three years in the middle, so two

1532
01:20:02,680 --> 01:20:06,040
Speaker 1: would be two one or two? By curious, I would

1533
01:20:06,080 --> 01:20:08,400
Speaker 1: say I'm like three point five. Yeah, I can say

1534
01:20:08,439 --> 01:20:12,920
Speaker 1: that about three five. She's been there, she's done that.

1535
01:20:15,640 --> 01:20:19,680
Speaker 1: I don't see myself a girl who ever want in

1536
01:20:19,720 --> 01:20:23,400
Speaker 1: the bee and a girl and girl real relationship. But

1537
01:20:23,880 --> 01:20:26,040
Speaker 1: I like to have fun when it's you know, when

1538
01:20:26,120 --> 01:20:28,400
Speaker 1: it comes about what about you is Jephanie wi? You

1539
01:20:28,560 --> 01:20:34,439
Speaker 1: know what? I pick one? I really like both a lot,

1540
01:20:34,520 --> 01:20:35,920
Speaker 1: but I would give you I would give you a

1541
01:20:36,000 --> 01:20:38,840
Speaker 1: two because you've been with a girl before, or you

1542
01:20:39,040 --> 01:20:42,000
Speaker 1: let a girl. Yeah, I've never eaten a pussy. Now

1543
01:20:42,160 --> 01:20:43,840
Speaker 1: is that fair? She lets girls eat a pussy, but

1544
01:20:43,880 --> 01:20:46,280
Speaker 1: she won't eat pussy. You know what? I used the

1545
01:20:46,320 --> 01:20:48,560
Speaker 1: Bill Clinton defense all the time when it comes to

1546
01:20:48,640 --> 01:20:52,720
Speaker 1: that stuff. Right, And I mean it's not like I'm

1547
01:20:52,800 --> 01:20:55,880
Speaker 1: I'm I haven't had I haven't been with a woman

1548
01:20:56,560 --> 01:21:02,639
Speaker 1: in years, at least three. So I'll give you a too. Yeah,

1549
01:21:02,640 --> 01:21:04,000
Speaker 1: I would give you because the one is like, I

1550
01:21:04,120 --> 01:21:06,280
Speaker 1: haven't really done this, right, then I'll take it too.

1551
01:21:06,520 --> 01:21:08,479
Speaker 1: I'll take it too. And would you and would you

1552
01:21:08,520 --> 01:21:11,840
Speaker 1: do it again? Would you go to the Skirt Club? Yeah,

1553
01:21:11,840 --> 01:21:13,680
Speaker 1: I would go check it out. I'm not gonna, you know,

1554
01:21:13,800 --> 01:21:16,959
Speaker 1: play with a woman's emotions and pretend I'm like curious

1555
01:21:17,080 --> 01:21:19,639
Speaker 1: or bisexual, you know, but I will go hang out.

1556
01:21:19,760 --> 01:21:22,320
Speaker 1: I like hanging out with girls. So that the one

1557
01:21:22,360 --> 01:21:24,280
Speaker 1: thing about the Skirt Club I would say is it's

1558
01:21:24,320 --> 01:21:25,760
Speaker 1: not it's not really a place that you're going to

1559
01:21:25,840 --> 01:21:29,559
Speaker 1: meet someone for a relationship. It's very much a playpen. Yeah,

1560
01:21:29,920 --> 01:21:33,200
Speaker 1: so everybody's having fun. Yeah, I'd say most of our

1561
01:21:33,280 --> 01:21:35,800
Speaker 1: members have a husband or a boyfriend. You said that,

1562
01:21:36,439 --> 01:21:38,519
Speaker 1: And I was reading an art and you said that

1563
01:21:38,640 --> 01:21:41,360
Speaker 1: you feel like men are kind of selfish used to

1564
01:21:41,439 --> 01:21:46,519
Speaker 1: go to these clubs with your your ex right, Oh yeah, him, yeah, okay,

1565
01:21:46,560 --> 01:21:49,639
Speaker 1: so this is my own personal driver from from many

1566
01:21:49,720 --> 01:21:51,840
Speaker 1: years ago. But he would he would always pick out

1567
01:21:51,880 --> 01:21:53,519
Speaker 1: the girl that he quite liked most in the room

1568
01:21:53,600 --> 01:21:57,000
Speaker 1: and then un just send me into accost her or

1569
01:21:57,160 --> 01:22:00,120
Speaker 1: secretly whisper in her ear that I was interested, even

1570
01:22:00,120 --> 01:22:02,080
Speaker 1: though I had said nothing, in an attempt to get

1571
01:22:02,080 --> 01:22:03,640
Speaker 1: a three son out of us. And I think it

1572
01:22:03,760 --> 01:22:05,960
Speaker 1: just drove me mad. I thought women were supposed to

1573
01:22:06,000 --> 01:22:10,360
Speaker 1: pick the other woman. Definitely, that was one of the

1574
01:22:10,479 --> 01:22:12,840
Speaker 1: rules of how it works. Right, kick the woman and

1575
01:22:12,920 --> 01:22:15,120
Speaker 1: the guys with it, right, But give a dog a burn,

1576
01:22:15,360 --> 01:22:22,920
Speaker 1: right he beats anyway, He that relationship is over. But

1577
01:22:23,040 --> 01:22:25,320
Speaker 1: he gave me the inspiration to start a scut club.

1578
01:22:25,400 --> 01:22:27,160
Speaker 1: I felt like women should have more control and take

1579
01:22:27,240 --> 01:22:29,920
Speaker 1: charge of the decisions, and especially in the bedroom, right,

1580
01:22:29,960 --> 01:22:32,080
Speaker 1: because if you have that much confidence in the bedroom,

1581
01:22:32,120 --> 01:22:34,479
Speaker 1: surely it leads into the rest of your life. And

1582
01:22:34,720 --> 01:22:36,759
Speaker 1: we have this saying it's skirt club. Would be confident

1583
01:22:36,800 --> 01:22:40,200
Speaker 1: in the bedroom, be confident in the boardroom, okay, well

1584
01:22:40,280 --> 01:22:42,120
Speaker 1: that makes it. Now what goes on in there? Are

1585
01:22:42,160 --> 01:22:45,000
Speaker 1: women actually like? Is it just like a cuttil our

1586
01:22:45,160 --> 01:22:48,439
Speaker 1: meeting up or do things really go down in the room? Absolutely? Okay,

1587
01:22:48,439 --> 01:22:50,320
Speaker 1: So the sort of saying earlier, the launch party is

1588
01:22:50,439 --> 01:22:53,160
Speaker 1: very much a cocktail event and nothing's going to go

1589
01:22:53,280 --> 01:22:55,280
Speaker 1: down in the room other than this one game that

1590
01:22:55,360 --> 01:22:58,240
Speaker 1: we might play. What's the game? It's cool Body Tequila.

1591
01:22:58,880 --> 01:23:01,720
Speaker 1: Ladies are invited to lie on the table. They can

1592
01:23:01,840 --> 01:23:07,280
Speaker 1: be I just started, I started to get naked and weady.

1593
01:23:07,720 --> 01:23:09,280
Speaker 1: I'd try to point out that I know I seem

1594
01:23:09,360 --> 01:23:11,080
Speaker 1: like the party animal, but it will be Genevieve that

1595
01:23:11,080 --> 01:23:13,000
Speaker 1: will be lying on the table to begin with both

1596
01:23:13,040 --> 01:23:16,880
Speaker 1: Body Tequila. We'll put your nipple down for a lit um.

1597
01:23:17,760 --> 01:23:19,920
Speaker 1: So don't even have explained the game to us. So

1598
01:23:20,080 --> 01:23:23,360
Speaker 1: Body Tequila. We invite everybody at the party to take turns.

1599
01:23:23,800 --> 01:23:26,360
Speaker 1: A young lady will lie on the table, prefer being

1600
01:23:26,360 --> 01:23:30,800
Speaker 1: her laundry, and we invite two contestants to race. They

1601
01:23:30,840 --> 01:23:32,680
Speaker 1: take a leg each line. It was salt up to

1602
01:23:32,720 --> 01:23:35,280
Speaker 1: the lips. They licked the way to the top down

1603
01:23:35,400 --> 01:23:37,479
Speaker 1: shot Kia the first want to buy the line as

1604
01:23:37,520 --> 01:23:40,080
Speaker 1: the winner, and we have a scool board. Where is

1605
01:23:40,120 --> 01:23:44,720
Speaker 1: the line in her mouth? You may kiss her on

1606
01:23:44,840 --> 01:23:48,840
Speaker 1: extracting the line? Cool gets to be on the table?

1607
01:23:48,880 --> 01:23:52,920
Speaker 1: How do you pick dead? And how do you usually volunteering? So, so, Jez,

1608
01:23:53,000 --> 01:23:55,040
Speaker 1: you're lay on the table. I was definitely on the

1609
01:23:55,080 --> 01:23:59,040
Speaker 1: table before joining the race. Okay, sequilling really my thing.

1610
01:24:00,360 --> 01:24:02,479
Speaker 1: I would lay on the table too, even though tequila

1611
01:24:02,520 --> 01:24:08,479
Speaker 1: is my thing, but I don't mind getting worked and stuff. Yeah, right,

1612
01:24:08,640 --> 01:24:10,959
Speaker 1: so you would be the perfect person. I think Stephanie's

1613
01:24:11,040 --> 01:24:13,320
Speaker 1: kind of a selfish person. You think she should be licked.

1614
01:24:13,720 --> 01:24:17,479
Speaker 1: It should be the liquors. Ha ha. That would be fun.

1615
01:24:17,640 --> 01:24:21,599
Speaker 1: You cannot take it in turns. So for people who

1616
01:24:21,640 --> 01:24:26,120
Speaker 1: are by curious, right, how how can you like? Because

1617
01:24:26,120 --> 01:24:28,759
Speaker 1: I know it's it's difficult for some people to actually

1618
01:24:28,800 --> 01:24:30,960
Speaker 1: try to act on those things, to try to act

1619
01:24:31,040 --> 01:24:33,200
Speaker 1: on that and try to actually go out and pursue

1620
01:24:33,400 --> 01:24:34,960
Speaker 1: How would you say, where can you go to find

1621
01:24:35,000 --> 01:24:36,680
Speaker 1: that besides the skirt club? Like, if you're out in

1622
01:24:36,720 --> 01:24:39,280
Speaker 1: your everyday life, what are some things that you can do?

1623
01:24:39,400 --> 01:24:41,600
Speaker 1: And so, actually I hadn't described the second kind of

1624
01:24:41,640 --> 01:24:45,599
Speaker 1: party that we heard, and this is the full effect

1625
01:24:45,600 --> 01:24:48,479
Speaker 1: to play party in every sense it's it's the lesbian

1626
01:24:48,600 --> 01:24:51,400
Speaker 1: orgy that all the newspapers write about, although it's not

1627
01:24:51,439 --> 01:24:54,200
Speaker 1: actually a lesbian orgy. That's the choice of words. But

1628
01:24:55,160 --> 01:24:58,960
Speaker 1: essentially it's a private house. Um. It's decorated luxuriously for

1629
01:24:59,200 --> 01:25:02,920
Speaker 1: for female type. We serve cocktails all night, and we

1630
01:25:03,000 --> 01:25:06,360
Speaker 1: play games also, and we also have talks. But it's

1631
01:25:06,439 --> 01:25:08,720
Speaker 1: it's all for all the tents and purposes, a play

1632
01:25:08,800 --> 01:25:16,080
Speaker 1: party for women to experience the first it's interesting. No, No,

1633
01:25:16,320 --> 01:25:18,599
Speaker 1: I've never been with a woman with our penis being

1634
01:25:18,680 --> 01:25:22,240
Speaker 1: in the room. Different. You know, guys are allowed guys

1635
01:25:23,160 --> 01:25:27,760
Speaker 1: what so what about if you're a transgender? Um, I

1636
01:25:27,800 --> 01:25:30,080
Speaker 1: don't think that's going to work on this occasion because

1637
01:25:30,120 --> 01:25:33,160
Speaker 1: it's very much female only and we could go into

1638
01:25:33,160 --> 01:25:37,640
Speaker 1: the depths of this. But so what if they have

1639
01:25:37,720 --> 01:25:42,840
Speaker 1: their penis removed? Well, would you like to invite them?

1640
01:25:43,160 --> 01:25:46,040
Speaker 1: I'm just asking if they like listen, I'm a transgender.

1641
01:25:46,160 --> 01:25:49,439
Speaker 1: I've had the surgery. Yeah, I want to be able

1642
01:25:49,520 --> 01:25:52,160
Speaker 1: to come. Is that okay? Well, in the terms of conditions,

1643
01:25:52,240 --> 01:25:55,080
Speaker 1: we say cis gender only, which is your gender designated

1644
01:25:55,120 --> 01:25:59,760
Speaker 1: by birth, and so this is what we do. But

1645
01:26:00,000 --> 01:26:04,679
Speaker 1: by all means, I'm open to anything that I'm hoping

1646
01:26:04,720 --> 01:26:07,880
Speaker 1: to anything. All right, So now, Haley, do you consider

1647
01:26:07,960 --> 01:26:12,639
Speaker 1: yourself do you still like men? Do you tell guys

1648
01:26:12,720 --> 01:26:15,280
Speaker 1: like after Thatt like just say you know, no, especially

1649
01:26:15,320 --> 01:26:16,760
Speaker 1: not now, because you know what, I'm in a real

1650
01:26:16,880 --> 01:26:18,560
Speaker 1: zone at the moment where I want to like, I like,

1651
01:26:18,600 --> 01:26:20,040
Speaker 1: I want to get married to have babies, but I

1652
01:26:20,080 --> 01:26:22,479
Speaker 1: do want to have babies. And so right now, if

1653
01:26:22,520 --> 01:26:24,480
Speaker 1: you just say to a guy that this is unfortunately,

1654
01:26:24,520 --> 01:26:28,160
Speaker 1: tell them that you're bisexual or by curious immediately yeah,

1655
01:26:28,160 --> 01:26:30,560
Speaker 1: they will have a threesome or there's all these connotations

1656
01:26:30,600 --> 01:26:33,479
Speaker 1: of promisecurity, and you know what, Actually, you know, I

1657
01:26:33,560 --> 01:26:35,320
Speaker 1: will do things on my own terms when I want

1658
01:26:35,320 --> 01:26:36,600
Speaker 1: to do them and when I see fit. And I

1659
01:26:36,720 --> 01:26:39,440
Speaker 1: just don't want, especially at the beginning of a relationship,

1660
01:26:39,520 --> 01:26:42,040
Speaker 1: a burden of expectation held over. I'd rather that we

1661
01:26:42,120 --> 01:26:44,599
Speaker 1: got to know one another as individuals. Do you think

1662
01:26:44,640 --> 01:26:46,360
Speaker 1: if you get married you wouldn't want to have a

1663
01:26:46,760 --> 01:26:50,479
Speaker 1: female involved in the marriage too. You know, I've had

1664
01:26:50,479 --> 01:26:51,760
Speaker 1: a lot of time to think about this. I am

1665
01:26:51,800 --> 01:26:54,280
Speaker 1: actually whether I end up marrying a guy or a girl,

1666
01:26:54,320 --> 01:26:59,839
Speaker 1: I'm actually one of life's natural monogamous I've decided obviously

1667
01:26:59,840 --> 01:27:02,600
Speaker 1: I me in him. And yeah, and that's because I

1668
01:27:02,760 --> 01:27:05,240
Speaker 1: you know what I've I've literally I've done polyamory. I've

1669
01:27:05,320 --> 01:27:08,040
Speaker 1: dated boys, I've dated girls. I've dated many of them

1670
01:27:08,080 --> 01:27:10,920
Speaker 1: at the same time. I've tried all other possible combinations,

1671
01:27:11,000 --> 01:27:12,439
Speaker 1: and I've come to the conclusion that you know what

1672
01:27:12,560 --> 01:27:17,479
Speaker 1: actually right now? Trust, security, respect most important and for me,

1673
01:27:18,080 --> 01:27:20,439
Speaker 1: just me personally, this isn't everybody else. I find that

1674
01:27:20,520 --> 01:27:22,680
Speaker 1: easier to achieve. And I'm a kind of person I

1675
01:27:22,800 --> 01:27:24,600
Speaker 1: like to focus on one person at a time, but

1676
01:27:24,920 --> 01:27:26,280
Speaker 1: I don't know whether that person is going to be

1677
01:27:26,320 --> 01:27:28,120
Speaker 1: a man or a woman. Do you think that Americans

1678
01:27:28,160 --> 01:27:31,800
Speaker 1: just deftly or about sex? I think the little old fashioned. Yeah,

1679
01:27:31,880 --> 01:27:34,639
Speaker 1: Europeans are way more wild. At least it's not an issue,

1680
01:27:34,800 --> 01:27:39,720
Speaker 1: it's not questioned, whereas here everyone's identifying themselves continuously. I

1681
01:27:39,880 --> 01:27:42,559
Speaker 1: remember when I went to a school exchange in America

1682
01:27:42,600 --> 01:27:45,280
Speaker 1: when I was sixteen years old, and on the trip

1683
01:27:45,360 --> 01:27:47,840
Speaker 1: to New York, all the girls in my year group

1684
01:27:47,920 --> 01:27:49,880
Speaker 1: we all kissed one another in the hotel room, just

1685
01:27:49,920 --> 01:27:53,880
Speaker 1: for like a laugh. Yeah, we would about what I

1686
01:27:53,960 --> 01:28:00,120
Speaker 1: just said, fifteen sixteens of the other and I'm we

1687
01:28:00,200 --> 01:28:02,040
Speaker 1: went back to the American High School, which is in

1688
01:28:02,200 --> 01:28:05,599
Speaker 1: um Mechanicsburg in Pennsylvania, and like the rumor got out,

1689
01:28:05,720 --> 01:28:08,400
Speaker 1: like the British girls had kissed each other in New

1690
01:28:08,439 --> 01:28:10,320
Speaker 1: York and to us it was like, you know, we

1691
01:28:10,680 --> 01:28:12,640
Speaker 1: were quite it was quite normal for us to do

1692
01:28:12,760 --> 01:28:14,240
Speaker 1: that and for us to experiment in that way, and

1693
01:28:14,320 --> 01:28:18,080
Speaker 1: for them it was really really not normal. H. I

1694
01:28:18,160 --> 01:28:22,479
Speaker 1: definitely agreed. It's more old fish. And when it comes

1695
01:28:22,560 --> 01:28:25,760
Speaker 1: to sex and sexuality, I do feel like people feel like, like, look,

1696
01:28:25,800 --> 01:28:28,759
Speaker 1: Stepanie's single right now, right she can date several different

1697
01:28:28,800 --> 01:28:30,720
Speaker 1: people at once. But some people might look at you

1698
01:28:30,840 --> 01:28:33,519
Speaker 1: and be like, oh, she's doing too there, she's dating

1699
01:28:33,520 --> 01:28:35,720
Speaker 1: all these guys and da da da da da. But

1700
01:28:35,920 --> 01:28:38,280
Speaker 1: why not if you're single, why can't I do whatever

1701
01:28:38,320 --> 01:28:39,960
Speaker 1: I want to do? Yeah? I think the only bad

1702
01:28:40,040 --> 01:28:41,320
Speaker 1: thing that you could do when it comes to dating

1703
01:28:41,400 --> 01:28:43,840
Speaker 1: multiple people if you're doing it as a distraction, like

1704
01:28:44,120 --> 01:28:46,240
Speaker 1: literally you can't bear to spend the night in with

1705
01:28:46,320 --> 01:28:48,360
Speaker 1: your own company because you're not comfortable with yourself, so

1706
01:28:48,400 --> 01:28:50,240
Speaker 1: you have to go out, or you're worried that the

1707
01:28:50,320 --> 01:28:52,599
Speaker 1: person you're dating is dating other people, so then date

1708
01:28:52,640 --> 01:28:56,040
Speaker 1: other people to like cancel it. Out, like you've just

1709
01:28:56,200 --> 01:28:59,240
Speaker 1: revenge yeah yeah, revenge day, or like your heartbroken over

1710
01:28:59,360 --> 01:29:01,200
Speaker 1: someone's so you have sex with someone just to like

1711
01:29:01,320 --> 01:29:03,880
Speaker 1: forget about them. For my people do that all the time.

1712
01:29:04,280 --> 01:29:05,760
Speaker 1: But I think I think that you've got to like

1713
01:29:05,840 --> 01:29:08,320
Speaker 1: I think, if it's done with the right motivations, fantastic,

1714
01:29:08,400 --> 01:29:11,080
Speaker 1: if you're running away from yourself or something not so good.

1715
01:29:12,200 --> 01:29:14,400
Speaker 1: You know, I feel like, um, if one of my

1716
01:29:14,680 --> 01:29:20,360
Speaker 1: favorite boyfriends wanted to be serious, I wouldn't boyfriend that.

1717
01:29:22,240 --> 01:29:24,679
Speaker 1: You said one of your favorite, but you your favorites

1718
01:29:24,760 --> 01:29:27,520
Speaker 1: wanted to be serious. I feel like one of my favorites,

1719
01:29:27,680 --> 01:29:30,639
Speaker 1: you know, if we got to be serious, I would

1720
01:29:30,680 --> 01:29:34,120
Speaker 1: cut off everybody else. Do you have one favorite in particular?

1721
01:29:35,680 --> 01:29:39,080
Speaker 1: I have to favorite. So if you had to choose

1722
01:29:39,160 --> 01:29:40,920
Speaker 1: between the two and them, do you think you could

1723
01:29:40,960 --> 01:29:44,479
Speaker 1: be in love with two people? I love them all,

1724
01:29:44,760 --> 01:29:49,400
Speaker 1: I love every moment now, but I mean right now, like,

1725
01:29:49,760 --> 01:29:51,519
Speaker 1: could you be in love with two people? Do you

1726
01:29:51,560 --> 01:29:53,200
Speaker 1: think that's possible? Or do you or do you feel

1727
01:29:53,200 --> 01:29:56,080
Speaker 1: like you love one more than the other? I mean right?

1728
01:29:56,200 --> 01:29:58,400
Speaker 1: You know, I say that just as joke. I gotta

1729
01:29:58,439 --> 01:30:00,840
Speaker 1: get like Peter guns with them. Mina, Tara and loving

1730
01:30:00,920 --> 01:30:03,439
Speaker 1: hip hop, and he has people women, even love himself

1731
01:30:03,479 --> 01:30:07,360
Speaker 1: to be lest Yeah two times? Could you love two

1732
01:30:07,439 --> 01:30:10,599
Speaker 1: men equally? Like? I love both of them, and why

1733
01:30:10,680 --> 01:30:12,920
Speaker 1: can't I just be with both of them? I wish

1734
01:30:13,000 --> 01:30:18,200
Speaker 1: the sounds good and sounds real good, but not. Um,

1735
01:30:18,640 --> 01:30:21,040
Speaker 1: I'm not in love with anybody right now. I'm really

1736
01:30:21,120 --> 01:30:26,880
Speaker 1: in love with myself well respect so like I mean,

1737
01:30:26,960 --> 01:30:28,840
Speaker 1: I feel like if I fell in love even if

1738
01:30:29,000 --> 01:30:31,360
Speaker 1: the other, even if one or the other, if you know,

1739
01:30:31,520 --> 01:30:33,720
Speaker 1: if whoever I fall in love with, even if they

1740
01:30:33,760 --> 01:30:36,160
Speaker 1: don't want to get serious with me, one t I'm

1741
01:30:36,200 --> 01:30:39,920
Speaker 1: in love. Everybody just gets caught off naturally, you know.

1742
01:30:40,120 --> 01:30:42,760
Speaker 1: Like love, it's the best natural guarantee of monogamy, isn't it.

1743
01:30:42,880 --> 01:30:44,560
Speaker 1: That's it. If you're passionately in love with someone, you

1744
01:30:44,640 --> 01:30:47,120
Speaker 1: don't go looking elsewhere exactly. What if you were in

1745
01:30:47,200 --> 01:30:48,920
Speaker 1: love with somebody but they said they didn't want to

1746
01:30:48,960 --> 01:30:52,160
Speaker 1: be in a monogamous relationship and they needed to sometimes

1747
01:30:52,720 --> 01:30:54,479
Speaker 1: did that? Would you be okay with that? No? I

1748
01:30:54,520 --> 01:30:56,080
Speaker 1: think you have to be true to yourself, you know,

1749
01:30:56,120 --> 01:30:57,800
Speaker 1: in your own boundaries. I think if you agree to

1750
01:30:57,840 --> 01:31:00,439
Speaker 1: stuff that's not on your terms, then it's it's always

1751
01:31:00,479 --> 01:31:04,800
Speaker 1: going to fall down and create anxiety later on. All right, yeah,

1752
01:31:05,200 --> 01:31:12,639
Speaker 1: what about you, Genevieve without yea, Honestly, he's done over

1753
01:31:12,880 --> 01:31:15,400
Speaker 1: at his life too. She was telling me about some

1754
01:31:15,439 --> 01:31:17,680
Speaker 1: stuff that she's done some to some ex boyfriends. Was

1755
01:31:17,720 --> 01:31:20,320
Speaker 1: all the way over. It was scary, Haley. That was

1756
01:31:20,760 --> 01:31:24,840
Speaker 1: between us. One are some crazy things that you've done

1757
01:31:24,880 --> 01:31:28,840
Speaker 1: the ex boyfriends. Okay, every girl here has done something crazy,

1758
01:31:28,880 --> 01:31:31,800
Speaker 1: so you know there's going to be everything else. So

1759
01:31:31,920 --> 01:31:36,719
Speaker 1: that when I was very young, care context is important. Anyway,

1760
01:31:36,760 --> 01:31:38,479
Speaker 1: he made me very angry. He came over. I've been

1761
01:31:38,479 --> 01:31:40,360
Speaker 1: away for a month and I came back from my

1762
01:31:40,439 --> 01:31:43,400
Speaker 1: holiday and he tried to have sex with me. But

1763
01:31:43,640 --> 01:31:46,679
Speaker 1: I discovered in the process that he had genital warts.

1764
01:31:47,720 --> 01:31:49,760
Speaker 1: How did you discovered her? You saw it or I

1765
01:31:49,880 --> 01:31:52,839
Speaker 1: saw it? I mean, like I'm talking like fifteen cauliflower size,

1766
01:31:53,000 --> 01:31:58,080
Speaker 1: Like wow, Now that is just disrespectful. It's disgusting. At

1767
01:31:58,160 --> 01:32:00,880
Speaker 1: least don't come over here, which is warts. My god,

1768
01:32:01,439 --> 01:32:05,560
Speaker 1: avoid me, right, thank you? That just just a so

1769
01:32:06,360 --> 01:32:08,720
Speaker 1: so I'm like horrified. He tries to tell me that

1770
01:32:08,800 --> 01:32:12,160
Speaker 1: it's my fault. Now I gave it to him, yes,

1771
01:32:12,360 --> 01:32:14,559
Speaker 1: And because I'm like I'm so young. I don't understand

1772
01:32:14,600 --> 01:32:16,519
Speaker 1: what's going on here. All I know is that I

1773
01:32:16,600 --> 01:32:19,120
Speaker 1: don't have this and he does. Therefore it's not me.

1774
01:32:19,840 --> 01:32:22,240
Speaker 1: So I get very angry. I try to get him

1775
01:32:22,240 --> 01:32:24,719
Speaker 1: to leave. He won't. He's rude. He's like, we're having

1776
01:32:24,760 --> 01:32:29,040
Speaker 1: his words on you. Try, my god, and just cuts disgusting.

1777
01:32:29,200 --> 01:32:32,320
Speaker 1: So anyway, eventually he leaves. The next day, I called

1778
01:32:32,360 --> 01:32:34,519
Speaker 1: a friend for a little favor and had him go

1779
01:32:34,680 --> 01:32:39,960
Speaker 1: over and fill his car with cement. Oh my car.

1780
01:32:40,880 --> 01:32:42,880
Speaker 1: At the age of seventeen, you know somebody they could

1781
01:32:42,880 --> 01:32:45,519
Speaker 1: fill someone's car with cement. Yeah, well, from where I am,

1782
01:32:45,640 --> 01:32:50,360
Speaker 1: that's possible. Oh my god, jeez, what's the worst revenge

1783
01:32:50,400 --> 01:32:54,360
Speaker 1: you've ever got on somebody. I'm not really a revenge

1784
01:32:54,439 --> 01:32:57,840
Speaker 1: type of person. I believe in karma. You know it's

1785
01:32:57,840 --> 01:32:59,519
Speaker 1: going to come back around. I don't really have the

1786
01:32:59,600 --> 01:33:01,559
Speaker 1: forceful do anything. I just got to put the energy

1787
01:33:01,600 --> 01:33:04,200
Speaker 1: out and let the universe handle it. I do notice

1788
01:33:04,240 --> 01:33:05,840
Speaker 1: that about you, because you know what I feel like.

1789
01:33:05,920 --> 01:33:08,439
Speaker 1: I feel like you've uh found out all kinds of

1790
01:33:08,479 --> 01:33:11,080
Speaker 1: things about different females and so on and so forth,

1791
01:33:11,160 --> 01:33:14,160
Speaker 1: but you've never tried to do anything like You've never

1792
01:33:14,640 --> 01:33:18,040
Speaker 1: maliciously went out and you might not funk with those girls,

1793
01:33:18,160 --> 01:33:22,280
Speaker 1: but you ain't never really trying to get revenge. I mean,

1794
01:33:22,840 --> 01:33:25,120
Speaker 1: losing me as a friend is enough revenge right there,

1795
01:33:25,160 --> 01:33:27,120
Speaker 1: and and and me moving on and doing bigger and

1796
01:33:27,200 --> 01:33:31,320
Speaker 1: better things while they are going through. Prime example, I've

1797
01:33:31,400 --> 01:33:34,439
Speaker 1: recently found out that somebody that did something to me

1798
01:33:34,680 --> 01:33:37,600
Speaker 1: is having a really hard time right now, like that

1799
01:33:37,680 --> 01:33:41,519
Speaker 1: sakarma exactly. And I don't feel bad. I don't. I

1800
01:33:41,560 --> 01:33:43,439
Speaker 1: don't feel bad at all. It's a sad situation that

1801
01:33:43,479 --> 01:33:45,600
Speaker 1: they're going to going through. And at one point me

1802
01:33:45,640 --> 01:33:48,000
Speaker 1: and this person we're friends. But this person also took

1803
01:33:48,000 --> 01:33:49,400
Speaker 1: a knife and put it right in the middle of

1804
01:33:49,439 --> 01:33:52,600
Speaker 1: my back. So sorry that you're going through that, But

1805
01:33:52,600 --> 01:33:54,760
Speaker 1: I don't feel bad for you. It is what it is.

1806
01:33:54,800 --> 01:33:56,360
Speaker 1: I had nothing to do with it. But at the

1807
01:33:56,479 --> 01:33:58,439
Speaker 1: same time, what you're going on in your person who

1808
01:33:58,600 --> 01:34:00,840
Speaker 1: had life. But that's what you get for that being

1809
01:34:00,880 --> 01:34:02,400
Speaker 1: a good person. When you're a good person and you

1810
01:34:02,479 --> 01:34:05,080
Speaker 1: do things from the heart, and you do things genuinely

1811
01:34:05,160 --> 01:34:07,000
Speaker 1: because you know it's the right thing to do, then

1812
01:34:07,160 --> 01:34:09,320
Speaker 1: good things happen to in you in life. Definitely, you

1813
01:34:09,400 --> 01:34:12,360
Speaker 1: ever got revenge on somebody, Now, I do things out

1814
01:34:12,400 --> 01:34:15,679
Speaker 1: of spite, I wouldn't say, um, I've like I try

1815
01:34:15,720 --> 01:34:21,240
Speaker 1: to get revenge. But being spiteful never conquers anything. It's

1816
01:34:21,280 --> 01:34:26,160
Speaker 1: a losing game. You Yeah, I think if you emotionally

1817
01:34:26,200 --> 01:34:29,080
Speaker 1: won't maturity, you grow up. You go, oh, actually, I'm

1818
01:34:29,080 --> 01:34:31,479
Speaker 1: gonna waste more of my own personal time and energy

1819
01:34:31,560 --> 01:34:34,479
Speaker 1: and resources then, or even gonna be that bothered about it,

1820
01:34:34,560 --> 01:34:36,639
Speaker 1: and I'm gonna stress myself out more in the process.

1821
01:34:36,640 --> 01:34:39,880
Speaker 1: So I think you get more detached, Like I've gotten

1822
01:34:40,000 --> 01:34:45,519
Speaker 1: tattoos out of spite. Tattoos, What do you mean? I

1823
01:34:45,680 --> 01:34:49,479
Speaker 1: got a tattoo to spite one of my exes of

1824
01:34:49,680 --> 01:34:51,920
Speaker 1: one of my new boyfriends. You got a tattoo of

1825
01:34:51,920 --> 01:34:55,400
Speaker 1: your new boyfriend and spice your ex? Absolutely, I definitely

1826
01:34:55,520 --> 01:35:03,360
Speaker 1: did that for sure, and you just have Yes, I

1827
01:35:03,439 --> 01:35:07,320
Speaker 1: still had it. Yes, it was stupid. Are you gonna

1828
01:35:07,360 --> 01:35:10,080
Speaker 1: get rid of it? Yeah? It's a it's a little one.

1829
01:35:10,280 --> 01:35:12,840
Speaker 1: It's a little one. It's on my finger. M hmm.

1830
01:35:14,840 --> 01:35:17,880
Speaker 1: I hope none of my boyfriends are listening to this.

1831
01:35:20,240 --> 01:35:22,680
Speaker 1: Let me say your hand, let me say it right

1832
01:35:22,720 --> 01:35:26,479
Speaker 1: back there. Finger for that mistake, go buy a big break.

1833
01:35:26,680 --> 01:35:29,200
Speaker 1: But yeah, I did that to spite because my eyes.

1834
01:35:30,040 --> 01:35:31,599
Speaker 1: We have broken up, and we were in a long

1835
01:35:31,680 --> 01:35:35,320
Speaker 1: term relationship and he we broke up it two months later.

1836
01:35:35,439 --> 01:35:38,160
Speaker 1: He was in a serious relationship with somebody else. That

1837
01:35:38,240 --> 01:35:39,599
Speaker 1: makes you feel like he was with her the whole

1838
01:35:39,640 --> 01:35:42,000
Speaker 1: time for quite a while while you all was again

1839
01:35:42,080 --> 01:35:44,240
Speaker 1: let me. He caught me cheating on him. He caught

1840
01:35:44,240 --> 01:35:46,560
Speaker 1: me cheating on him with one guy. And then I

1841
01:35:46,720 --> 01:35:54,479
Speaker 1: keep doing his handclap because it gets me so upset

1842
01:35:54,720 --> 01:35:57,320
Speaker 1: thinking about this. He caught you cheating. No, he caught

1843
01:35:57,320 --> 01:35:59,559
Speaker 1: me cheating, and that's all right, cool, so I love

1844
01:36:00,040 --> 01:36:03,400
Speaker 1: you know. I left with Grace. I didn't fight it,

1845
01:36:03,800 --> 01:36:06,960
Speaker 1: you know, all right, I'm caught. It's fine. Then he

1846
01:36:07,040 --> 01:36:10,400
Speaker 1: caught me with Um, but we still lived together for

1847
01:36:10,640 --> 01:36:13,759
Speaker 1: like eight two months. We lived together for like two months,

1848
01:36:14,080 --> 01:36:17,120
Speaker 1: and then he caught me with the other one that

1849
01:36:17,400 --> 01:36:20,559
Speaker 1: I ended up getting tattooed. You know, he was mad

1850
01:36:20,600 --> 01:36:23,320
Speaker 1: because he got you cheating twice. Yeah, he and UM,

1851
01:36:24,040 --> 01:36:25,479
Speaker 1: you know, and the other he and and me and

1852
01:36:25,600 --> 01:36:28,040
Speaker 1: this one we were you know, like acting like we

1853
01:36:28,120 --> 01:36:29,920
Speaker 1: were in love. We were telling each other I love

1854
01:36:29,960 --> 01:36:31,960
Speaker 1: you all the time. And he saw that and all

1855
01:36:32,040 --> 01:36:34,439
Speaker 1: of that. Yeah, and he saw that, which was really

1856
01:36:34,600 --> 01:36:37,719
Speaker 1: I felt really bad about that. But okay, like I said,

1857
01:36:37,880 --> 01:36:42,320
Speaker 1: a month later, and you know, I left. I didn't

1858
01:36:42,360 --> 01:36:44,880
Speaker 1: fight it. I didn't, I didn't you know, ask him

1859
01:36:44,920 --> 01:36:48,200
Speaker 1: many questions. I just moved on. And then two months

1860
01:36:48,280 --> 01:36:51,000
Speaker 1: later he's in a serious relationship. Stephanie, you did cheat

1861
01:36:51,040 --> 01:36:54,519
Speaker 1: and get caught twice what he probably just like women do,

1862
01:36:54,600 --> 01:36:56,360
Speaker 1: because you know, before we back up with somebody, we

1863
01:36:56,439 --> 01:36:59,519
Speaker 1: prepare ourselves for it. Like before we bake up with you,

1864
01:36:59,680 --> 01:37:01,680
Speaker 1: we are broken up too in our head for a

1865
01:37:01,760 --> 01:37:04,800
Speaker 1: few months. We don't already wan the lookout. Yeah, we're

1866
01:37:04,840 --> 01:37:07,160
Speaker 1: on the lookout. We've already kind of detached ourselves. We're

1867
01:37:07,160 --> 01:37:10,080
Speaker 1: already getting comfortable with the idea that this might not

1868
01:37:10,240 --> 01:37:13,680
Speaker 1: work out, and so we're mentally, I think, prepared. A

1869
01:37:13,720 --> 01:37:14,880
Speaker 1: lot of times you break up with a guy and

1870
01:37:14,920 --> 01:37:18,240
Speaker 1: he has no ideas about to happen, you know. And

1871
01:37:18,280 --> 01:37:20,240
Speaker 1: they always say that when women break up with the guy,

1872
01:37:20,600 --> 01:37:22,519
Speaker 1: we deal with their head on right away. When guys

1873
01:37:22,600 --> 01:37:24,920
Speaker 1: break up, they don't deal with it for a few months,

1874
01:37:24,960 --> 01:37:27,280
Speaker 1: you know, or they do lots of behaviors to push

1875
01:37:27,360 --> 01:37:29,479
Speaker 1: you to break up with them, and their behavior just

1876
01:37:29,560 --> 01:37:32,559
Speaker 1: gradually gets worse and worse and worse and worse until

1877
01:37:32,560 --> 01:37:34,400
Speaker 1: you're forced like, do you want to be with me?

1878
01:37:34,400 --> 01:37:35,800
Speaker 1: Why don't you just tell me that you don't want

1879
01:37:35,800 --> 01:37:37,120
Speaker 1: to be with me anymore because you keep on doing

1880
01:37:37,240 --> 01:37:40,560
Speaker 1: dumb shit they're lets me know, a lot of the

1881
01:37:40,640 --> 01:37:42,960
Speaker 1: time people feel guilty, you know, they feel too guilty

1882
01:37:43,040 --> 01:37:45,240
Speaker 1: to actually take the action. And whilst it's more adult

1883
01:37:45,280 --> 01:37:48,040
Speaker 1: and more mature and definitely the right thing to do

1884
01:37:48,200 --> 01:37:50,040
Speaker 1: to be straight with a person just say hey, look,

1885
01:37:50,120 --> 01:37:51,960
Speaker 1: you know I've enjoyed our times about I just I

1886
01:37:52,000 --> 01:37:54,560
Speaker 1: don't feel like connection anymore and to move on. Not

1887
01:37:54,760 --> 01:37:57,200
Speaker 1: many people have the guts and the strength to do that.

1888
01:37:57,320 --> 01:37:59,919
Speaker 1: Most people feel guilt. Most people doubt their own decisions,

1889
01:38:00,000 --> 01:38:02,599
Speaker 1: They change their mind, they still want to somehow control

1890
01:38:02,680 --> 01:38:04,759
Speaker 1: you will have your interest in them, and so instead

1891
01:38:04,840 --> 01:38:07,360
Speaker 1: what they do, it's just you'll notice that the behaviors

1892
01:38:07,439 --> 01:38:10,120
Speaker 1: they do day to day demonstrate that there checking out

1893
01:38:10,160 --> 01:38:12,519
Speaker 1: of the relationship instead. Could you be with somebody who

1894
01:38:12,640 --> 01:38:17,320
Speaker 1: is terrible in bead? No? No, no, no, unanimous? No,

1895
01:38:19,960 --> 01:38:23,000
Speaker 1: not so great? Yeah, teach them, Yeah it's terrible in

1896
01:38:23,080 --> 01:38:27,240
Speaker 1: bad I could be with somebody okay in bed, I

1897
01:38:27,400 --> 01:38:31,200
Speaker 1: have it with guys who are just okay in bad

1898
01:38:31,400 --> 01:38:34,960
Speaker 1: but he has to be okay? But what about if

1899
01:38:35,000 --> 01:38:39,320
Speaker 1: everything else is so perfect? Relationship except sex? Is that

1900
01:38:41,120 --> 01:38:47,920
Speaker 1: the relationship is if you actually when the sex is

1901
01:38:47,960 --> 01:38:53,559
Speaker 1: good sometimes you know, if it's bad going in, I'm

1902
01:38:53,680 --> 01:38:57,479
Speaker 1: definitely going to cheat if it's bad. Sure, what about

1903
01:38:57,520 --> 01:39:00,439
Speaker 1: it like if a guy let's say he can't get

1904
01:39:00,560 --> 01:39:04,040
Speaker 1: hard or get all the way hard, he's just semi shit?

1905
01:39:04,360 --> 01:39:07,320
Speaker 1: What about the try that first? Maybe yeah, maybe it's

1906
01:39:07,320 --> 01:39:10,040
Speaker 1: a lot of time psychological problem though, right, it's about

1907
01:39:10,040 --> 01:39:12,040
Speaker 1: an emotional problem and he's not feeling it, or he

1908
01:39:12,080 --> 01:39:14,320
Speaker 1: feels trust or anxious, or he's got something going on

1909
01:39:14,360 --> 01:39:18,840
Speaker 1: to work or something here or there. It's okay, but

1910
01:39:19,120 --> 01:39:21,479
Speaker 1: all the time. What about a guy who's really fat

1911
01:39:21,520 --> 01:39:23,200
Speaker 1: and can only have sex with his shirt on. I'm

1912
01:39:23,240 --> 01:39:28,200
Speaker 1: not even get it's not even gonna start starting right,

1913
01:39:29,040 --> 01:39:32,000
Speaker 1: because let's be clear everybody in here, and looks aren't

1914
01:39:32,040 --> 01:39:33,960
Speaker 1: the most important thing. If you really love a guy

1915
01:39:34,040 --> 01:39:37,160
Speaker 1: and he's overweight but he's self conscious about how he looks,

1916
01:39:38,000 --> 01:39:40,800
Speaker 1: looks are so important to me in the bedroom. Let's

1917
01:39:40,800 --> 01:39:42,400
Speaker 1: say he gained some weight and he's not taking his

1918
01:39:42,439 --> 01:39:44,880
Speaker 1: shirt off while he's having sex. Oh no, wait, it's

1919
01:39:44,880 --> 01:39:47,479
Speaker 1: a different issue. But I think Europeans very much prefer

1920
01:39:47,640 --> 01:39:49,439
Speaker 1: the mind over the body. You know, they'll always pick

1921
01:39:49,479 --> 01:39:52,280
Speaker 1: a man's mind over his physical appearance. Right, Yeah, I've

1922
01:39:52,280 --> 01:39:54,800
Speaker 1: seen some Europeans on the beaten speedos some guys and

1923
01:39:54,960 --> 01:40:02,840
Speaker 1: definitely apologize, feel like he has no shame. They are

1924
01:40:02,920 --> 01:40:06,639
Speaker 1: French or German, by the way, the British, the lobster ones.

1925
01:40:06,720 --> 01:40:09,080
Speaker 1: You know, they're white pasty but with really red roses

1926
01:40:09,160 --> 01:40:14,200
Speaker 1: and a beer belly. Some hair, he said, some hair.

1927
01:40:14,680 --> 01:40:19,800
Speaker 1: You think guys should um shave their hair. I mean

1928
01:40:19,920 --> 01:40:23,479
Speaker 1: if they're like super hairy back hair, chest hair. The

1929
01:40:23,520 --> 01:40:25,720
Speaker 1: Black Harris is a friendly show, isn't it. So it's

1930
01:40:25,760 --> 01:40:29,479
Speaker 1: like a like a fur rug and then also like

1931
01:40:29,640 --> 01:40:32,960
Speaker 1: man escaping there, you know, I like a bit of manscaping. Yeah,

1932
01:40:33,000 --> 01:40:34,840
Speaker 1: I think a man sshion man escape. I think if

1933
01:40:34,880 --> 01:40:37,519
Speaker 1: a guy is like super hairy rug whatever, he should

1934
01:40:37,560 --> 01:40:40,320
Speaker 1: shave that off. Yeah, I think, so get clipping down

1935
01:40:41,280 --> 01:40:45,080
Speaker 1: you like that. I've never actually taated him. Man. This

1936
01:40:45,160 --> 01:40:48,040
Speaker 1: Harry and I went to school in Hong Kong, right,

1937
01:40:48,120 --> 01:40:51,400
Speaker 1: so they definitely have any hair, no that hell us? Yeah,

1938
01:40:52,840 --> 01:40:56,040
Speaker 1: show and the guys let me ask you. And they

1939
01:40:56,040 --> 01:40:58,479
Speaker 1: don't have no air, he said, they don't have no

1940
01:40:58,600 --> 01:41:02,920
Speaker 1: hair on their face. Now, Asian guys, is it their

1941
01:41:02,960 --> 01:41:04,680
Speaker 1: penis size? You know, they always have the rumors that

1942
01:41:04,760 --> 01:41:07,800
Speaker 1: they have smaller pis. Not my exs No, they were

1943
01:41:07,840 --> 01:41:10,720
Speaker 1: all very well and down nice, see good. You know

1944
01:41:10,800 --> 01:41:14,280
Speaker 1: there goes that rumor, not speaking for the whole country.

1945
01:41:18,280 --> 01:41:20,040
Speaker 1: So do you have a preference for like Asian men?

1946
01:41:20,240 --> 01:41:24,639
Speaker 1: I actually, do you know? That's my dad's Asian? You know, yeah,

1947
01:41:24,640 --> 01:41:27,040
Speaker 1: he's Chinese. I don't know what his penis looks like

1948
01:41:27,080 --> 01:41:33,200
Speaker 1: at all, but I was just wondering because I know

1949
01:41:33,240 --> 01:41:35,519
Speaker 1: they always say that Asian men, that's the rumor. And

1950
01:41:35,520 --> 01:41:41,200
Speaker 1: then we saw we also a hangover. Ah, you know

1951
01:41:41,240 --> 01:41:43,400
Speaker 1: what I'm talking about. Right when he jumped out of

1952
01:41:43,439 --> 01:41:48,000
Speaker 1: the trunk and he or the when he had the

1953
01:41:48,040 --> 01:41:51,240
Speaker 1: monkey with the penis, and the penis was very small. Okay,

1954
01:41:51,600 --> 01:41:55,600
Speaker 1: does size matter to you? No? Actually, but not for

1955
01:41:55,680 --> 01:41:59,760
Speaker 1: me personally, Hayley, size doesn't matter scale if they're on

1956
01:41:59,840 --> 01:42:04,880
Speaker 1: this a love normal and they've got good sex to say,

1957
01:42:05,040 --> 01:42:06,920
Speaker 1: I have to say, as I love as love coach,

1958
01:42:07,040 --> 01:42:09,040
Speaker 1: you have no idea In the beginning of my career,

1959
01:42:09,160 --> 01:42:12,599
Speaker 1: how many penis pictures I received on my Facebook account

1960
01:42:12,960 --> 01:42:15,439
Speaker 1: all you know, ask me to is my penis normal?

1961
01:42:15,840 --> 01:42:17,760
Speaker 1: Is it? And also the worst ones of them all

1962
01:42:18,120 --> 01:42:20,280
Speaker 1: were guys that had really really big dicks and then

1963
01:42:20,320 --> 01:42:23,479
Speaker 1: they're posing next to a right girl canister asking like, hey,

1964
01:42:23,960 --> 01:42:25,960
Speaker 1: is my penis small? You know it's looking for that

1965
01:42:26,120 --> 01:42:29,840
Speaker 1: crist be like, no, it's fucking huge. Yeah, yeah, is

1966
01:42:29,920 --> 01:42:31,600
Speaker 1: this such a thing as a pretty penis? T you like?

1967
01:42:31,960 --> 01:42:34,160
Speaker 1: But they don't think they're photogenic. I don't think they

1968
01:42:34,240 --> 01:42:40,920
Speaker 1: photographed well, like geez man, i'ctually some gorgeous dicks and

1969
01:42:41,120 --> 01:42:46,439
Speaker 1: pictures that it makes my mouth water, Oh my god,

1970
01:42:46,960 --> 01:42:55,320
Speaker 1: mouth in my eyes. A gorgeous dick you should see

1971
01:42:55,360 --> 01:42:58,519
Speaker 1: like the veins, you know, and they should be like

1972
01:42:58,680 --> 01:43:01,400
Speaker 1: that's pretty to see the ving. Yeah, rains are great,

1973
01:43:01,880 --> 01:43:06,200
Speaker 1: Oh my god, you don't think so. Shaft ahead ratio

1974
01:43:06,400 --> 01:43:09,759
Speaker 1: should be and then and they should be like, well, lotion,

1975
01:43:10,240 --> 01:43:14,200
Speaker 1: it shouldn't be ashy, and then the ball should be

1976
01:43:14,240 --> 01:43:19,559
Speaker 1: like nicely proportioned and everything everything has to look perfect. Maybe,

1977
01:43:19,840 --> 01:43:23,040
Speaker 1: And I like, I like dick straight, and I like

1978
01:43:23,200 --> 01:43:27,400
Speaker 1: no ca girl, Yeah, are you going up the lesbians? Galin?

1979
01:43:29,520 --> 01:43:32,000
Speaker 1: You're not a fan of dicks, but I'm not. I'm

1980
01:43:32,000 --> 01:43:39,800
Speaker 1: not a fan of he looks like vaginas. You think

1981
01:43:41,479 --> 01:43:44,479
Speaker 1: vaginas are pretty, dicks are weird. I wouldn't think. I

1982
01:43:44,520 --> 01:43:47,439
Speaker 1: don't think anybody else's vagina is pretty. Mine think minds

1983
01:43:47,520 --> 01:43:51,360
Speaker 1: is pretty. I think is pretty too pretty. In my day,

1984
01:43:51,360 --> 01:43:53,120
Speaker 1: I've seen a few ugly ones in my day too,

1985
01:43:53,280 --> 01:43:57,920
Speaker 1: I feel un I'm sorry you two ladies don't know

1986
01:43:58,160 --> 01:44:01,759
Speaker 1: that I was a stripper. I was an excited entertainer

1987
01:44:01,800 --> 01:44:05,840
Speaker 1: for many years. Um quite popular, if I might to

1988
01:44:06,080 --> 01:44:09,120
Speaker 1: my own, But um so, I've seen a lot of

1989
01:44:09,200 --> 01:44:11,559
Speaker 1: vaginas in my day, and there are something that are

1990
01:44:11,640 --> 01:44:14,760
Speaker 1: just really ugly. Like, girl, you shouldn't even show that

1991
01:44:14,960 --> 01:44:19,080
Speaker 1: to people. How do you like? I'm not being a dick.

1992
01:44:19,200 --> 01:44:23,120
Speaker 1: I like the way they look vagina. I like the

1993
01:44:23,160 --> 01:44:25,680
Speaker 1: way I like. I like the way dicks look at

1994
01:44:25,720 --> 01:44:29,439
Speaker 1: my mouth like I like tap, and I like to

1995
01:44:29,520 --> 01:44:33,519
Speaker 1: see like tears coming down my eyes, sweat like nose running.

1996
01:44:33,680 --> 01:44:37,960
Speaker 1: I can't breathe cry and have no running noses during

1997
01:44:38,160 --> 01:44:41,559
Speaker 1: dick sucking. Okay, Hayley, Jennevieve, have y'all ever had I've

1998
01:44:41,600 --> 01:44:47,000
Speaker 1: never cried sucking somebody's dick. You never something tears running

1999
01:44:47,040 --> 01:44:50,280
Speaker 1: down your eyes. Maybe I don't want I don't remember.

2000
01:44:51,000 --> 01:44:54,240
Speaker 1: I definitely have never cried sucking somebody dick. It's like

2001
01:44:54,320 --> 01:44:57,800
Speaker 1: when you're I don't know if it's me exactly, when

2002
01:44:59,520 --> 01:45:05,240
Speaker 1: this is so beautiful when you get and then you

2003
01:45:05,400 --> 01:45:13,200
Speaker 1: keep going up? Is that in my abnormal? I don't know,

2004
01:45:13,400 --> 01:45:15,600
Speaker 1: no one's ab normal or normal, but that is I

2005
01:45:15,680 --> 01:45:17,400
Speaker 1: get what you're talking about. You know, when you get

2006
01:45:17,439 --> 01:45:20,640
Speaker 1: to the guy reflex point and see your eyes get walltree, like,

2007
01:45:20,880 --> 01:45:23,040
Speaker 1: just don't wing up you start crying. I just say,

2008
01:45:23,080 --> 01:45:24,680
Speaker 1: I just saw it going hard, like you're just going

2009
01:45:24,760 --> 01:45:26,320
Speaker 1: in when you get to that point, Like that's a

2010
01:45:26,400 --> 01:45:30,880
Speaker 1: good situation. Yeah, you probably drunk most likely. Yeah, you know,

2011
01:45:30,960 --> 01:45:35,320
Speaker 1: probably threw up a little on it back. Have you

2012
01:45:35,360 --> 01:45:40,200
Speaker 1: ever done that? You know, like you you just swallowing

2013
01:45:40,240 --> 01:45:46,559
Speaker 1: back his dedication and the guys love it. They're like, oh, potesta,

2014
01:45:46,600 --> 01:45:49,599
Speaker 1: could have been some vimin on it. No. One time

2015
01:45:49,680 --> 01:45:52,280
Speaker 1: my home girl she threw up as she didn't catch

2016
01:45:52,360 --> 01:45:54,760
Speaker 1: it to swallow it, and there was like chunks on

2017
01:45:54,880 --> 01:45:59,640
Speaker 1: the guys and he was totally turned off. You never

2018
01:45:59,680 --> 01:46:03,000
Speaker 1: spoke so well, that is doing we're having a good relationship.

2019
01:46:03,360 --> 01:46:05,320
Speaker 1: If a guy threw up in your pussy, you probably

2020
01:46:05,479 --> 01:46:08,120
Speaker 1: might not talk to him again anyway, would never Yet

2021
01:46:08,120 --> 01:46:13,120
Speaker 1: pussy's not making him gig. He was drinking your throat.

2022
01:46:13,960 --> 01:46:16,000
Speaker 1: But if he was drinking and he's down there and

2023
01:46:16,320 --> 01:46:19,240
Speaker 1: and then he throws out a different type of throw up.

2024
01:46:19,320 --> 01:46:21,439
Speaker 1: You're throwing up because you're drunk and wasted. That it

2025
01:46:21,600 --> 01:46:25,800
Speaker 1: was get so disgusting. But then she was sucking a dick,

2026
01:46:25,880 --> 01:46:28,799
Speaker 1: like right after they eight and I saw my friends

2027
01:46:28,840 --> 01:46:31,439
Speaker 1: all the time. The best time to suck dick is

2028
01:46:31,520 --> 01:46:34,280
Speaker 1: on an empty stomach. I saw my friend back for

2029
01:46:35,040 --> 01:46:37,840
Speaker 1: the time. Because you don't want to throw out, you

2030
01:46:37,960 --> 01:46:44,760
Speaker 1: could put the dick goes way learning something. Today she

2031
01:46:44,840 --> 01:46:46,960
Speaker 1: just goes off on the Kensey s guyale. She's just like,

2032
01:46:47,560 --> 01:46:49,240
Speaker 1: she's like, you know what, I'm gonna just stick to

2033
01:46:49,400 --> 01:46:51,439
Speaker 1: pussy's from now on. I don't want in the row up.

2034
01:46:51,479 --> 01:46:53,680
Speaker 1: And I mean they thought giving a blowjob makes you

2035
01:46:53,720 --> 01:46:56,840
Speaker 1: want to vomit anyway. Yeah, you guys can keep that

2036
01:46:58,040 --> 01:47:00,560
Speaker 1: you don't like giving blow jobs. I'm one and that

2037
01:47:00,680 --> 01:47:09,760
Speaker 1: was enough once. Correct. No, you're lesbian girl? Yea, all right, yeah,

2038
01:47:09,880 --> 01:47:14,000
Speaker 1: easily like fifty Yeah, yeah, so you don't like man

2039
01:47:15,240 --> 01:47:18,760
Speaker 1: don't like the man. I love men, okay, Dick, and

2040
01:47:18,840 --> 01:47:21,519
Speaker 1: he's married to you. He doesn't want he doesn't like it.

2041
01:47:24,439 --> 01:47:28,559
Speaker 1: It's a perfect match. He probably doesn't like it because

2042
01:47:28,560 --> 01:47:31,719
Speaker 1: you don't like it. I don't know, because like girlfriend,

2043
01:47:31,800 --> 01:47:35,240
Speaker 1: she didn't like it either. Damn. Yeah, you guys are

2044
01:47:35,280 --> 01:47:39,960
Speaker 1: the perfect match. They are the perfect man. All right, Well,

2045
01:47:40,280 --> 01:47:42,920
Speaker 1: thank you so much, Hayley Quinn for joining us. We

2046
01:47:43,000 --> 01:47:47,200
Speaker 1: had a great time with you. Genevieve does journey Okay,

2047
01:47:47,240 --> 01:47:50,439
Speaker 1: I can't say it right, let's journe Is that right? No?

2048
01:47:50,640 --> 01:47:54,479
Speaker 1: But say it again means the young one in French?

2049
01:47:54,880 --> 01:47:57,960
Speaker 1: Okay is that your real last name? Yeah, Genevieve Lejon.

2050
01:47:58,400 --> 01:48:00,639
Speaker 1: I love this girl club like it's it. So people

2051
01:48:00,680 --> 01:48:02,000
Speaker 1: can go where can they go if they want to

2052
01:48:02,040 --> 01:48:04,120
Speaker 1: try to register and see how this happened? So it's

2053
01:48:04,200 --> 01:48:07,719
Speaker 1: cut club dot co dot uk, which is a British domain,

2054
01:48:07,840 --> 01:48:10,559
Speaker 1: right um. And there's an application form on there where

2055
01:48:10,600 --> 01:48:12,240
Speaker 1: you can apply and you can say that you heard

2056
01:48:12,320 --> 01:48:14,680
Speaker 1: me on lip service and you have to upload two

2057
01:48:14,680 --> 01:48:16,599
Speaker 1: pictures of yourself and then you have to reach yourself

2058
01:48:16,640 --> 01:48:19,840
Speaker 1: on the skill of one to six not to sex,

2059
01:48:20,040 --> 01:48:23,000
Speaker 1: not to strength. Okay, okay, and is it okay for

2060
01:48:23,120 --> 01:48:26,160
Speaker 1: straight people to can? Absolutely no, I'm more so because

2061
01:48:26,439 --> 01:48:28,799
Speaker 1: it's opening their eyes and it's a whole new environment.

2062
01:48:28,880 --> 01:48:30,840
Speaker 1: Helps you feel alive. You know, sometimes you get buried

2063
01:48:30,840 --> 01:48:32,920
Speaker 1: in the rat race. So come do something different on

2064
01:48:33,000 --> 01:48:35,160
Speaker 1: the Thursday night. Doesn't mean you have to join in,

2065
01:48:35,439 --> 01:48:37,760
Speaker 1: just you can just go and enjoy yourself with a

2066
01:48:37,880 --> 01:48:39,600
Speaker 1: group of women, with a group of women who are

2067
01:48:39,680 --> 01:48:43,640
Speaker 1: very open minded. Lip service is very open minded, very

2068
01:48:43,720 --> 01:48:50,600
Speaker 1: open minded and open mouth, open mouth, open market. Well,

2069
01:48:50,680 --> 01:48:52,880
Speaker 1: thank you so much for joining us. It's been lift service.

2070
01:48:53,160 --> 01:48:56,920
Speaker 1: I'm Stephanie Santiago, I'm g g McGuire, I'm Hayley Quinn

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Speaker 1: and Genevieve Lision Nois