1 00:00:00,520 --> 00:00:02,480 Speaker 1: I love a cruise and I've only been on one 2 00:00:02,600 --> 00:00:04,840 Speaker 1: and the kids shit in the pool the first like 3 00:00:05,080 --> 00:00:08,280 Speaker 1: before the boat even left the dock, and they had 4 00:00:08,280 --> 00:00:09,200 Speaker 1: to kill you her at the. 5 00:00:09,119 --> 00:00:10,280 Speaker 2: Pool and like announce it. 6 00:00:10,280 --> 00:00:12,639 Speaker 1: Please please get out of the pool, and they had 7 00:00:12,680 --> 00:00:13,720 Speaker 1: to sterilize in the whole thing. 8 00:00:13,880 --> 00:00:16,040 Speaker 3: Ladies and gentlemen, we'd like you to get out of 9 00:00:16,040 --> 00:00:16,520 Speaker 3: the pool. 10 00:00:17,880 --> 00:00:28,080 Speaker 2: Calm down with Erin and Carissa is a production of iHeartRadio. 11 00:00:26,840 --> 00:00:28,320 Speaker 1: And Action. Hi. 12 00:00:28,400 --> 00:00:29,040 Speaker 2: I know, look at this. 13 00:00:29,080 --> 00:00:31,960 Speaker 1: We got an early coffee date. We take the podcast 14 00:00:32,120 --> 00:00:35,000 Speaker 1: in the afternoon. We're taping it this week early. I 15 00:00:35,080 --> 00:00:37,280 Speaker 1: just came running in from a facial because let me 16 00:00:37,360 --> 00:00:39,919 Speaker 1: just tell you, I'm so go you get done. So 17 00:00:40,000 --> 00:00:42,400 Speaker 1: my girl Donna, who I just love. I've been with 18 00:00:42,440 --> 00:00:45,000 Speaker 1: her for a long time and it's so funny. When 19 00:00:45,000 --> 00:00:47,680 Speaker 1: I haven't seen her for a while, she'll be like, WHOA, 20 00:00:47,840 --> 00:00:49,680 Speaker 1: I can tell you guys have been traveling. I can 21 00:00:49,680 --> 00:00:52,640 Speaker 1: tell you've been doing things because the extractions. 22 00:00:52,000 --> 00:00:53,360 Speaker 2: Take a minute. 23 00:00:53,479 --> 00:00:57,600 Speaker 1: But I feel like I've lost thirty pounds when I 24 00:00:57,800 --> 00:01:00,520 Speaker 1: get a facial from Donna because all of the oh, 25 00:01:00,560 --> 00:01:02,279 Speaker 1: it's like and then the last thing, I don't don't 26 00:01:02,280 --> 00:01:03,920 Speaker 1: have any makeup on right now, because the last thing 27 00:01:03,960 --> 00:01:06,080 Speaker 1: you want to do is put any makeup on your. 28 00:01:05,959 --> 00:01:07,360 Speaker 2: Face after you get facial. 29 00:01:07,400 --> 00:01:10,000 Speaker 1: I don't even want to like take a shower, no 30 00:01:10,160 --> 00:01:12,959 Speaker 1: a week after because it's always so clean and hydrated 31 00:01:13,000 --> 00:01:14,800 Speaker 1: and I just love it so much. Anyways, but we're 32 00:01:14,800 --> 00:01:18,399 Speaker 1: both enjoying our coffee. We're in our comfy, cozy sweatshirts. 33 00:01:18,480 --> 00:01:21,320 Speaker 1: You just finish a pick a ball, lesson, tell me everything, go. 34 00:01:21,240 --> 00:01:23,480 Speaker 2: Well, hold on back to the facial. What are you 35 00:01:23,520 --> 00:01:26,479 Speaker 2: getting done? And also do you find yourself breaking out 36 00:01:26,640 --> 00:01:28,720 Speaker 2: when you get a facial? How's that working out? 37 00:01:29,280 --> 00:01:31,200 Speaker 1: So sometimes people say that right where it's like, oh 38 00:01:31,240 --> 00:01:33,399 Speaker 1: if you get a face, like stop getting facials and 39 00:01:33,400 --> 00:01:35,440 Speaker 1: your face breaks out, well, because I think that they're 40 00:01:35,480 --> 00:01:38,040 Speaker 1: getting the things out that need to come out. I 41 00:01:38,200 --> 00:01:41,760 Speaker 1: just have for me. I'm because I love her so 42 00:01:41,920 --> 00:01:44,200 Speaker 1: much too. I just I want to at least go 43 00:01:44,319 --> 00:01:47,120 Speaker 1: like every other week. I'm really in on my facials 44 00:01:47,120 --> 00:01:49,480 Speaker 1: for the hydration thing too, and also. 45 00:01:49,440 --> 00:01:51,960 Speaker 2: Also your money, Like I mean, I'm sorry, but it 46 00:01:52,040 --> 00:01:54,560 Speaker 2: is it's like an athlete training, like we have to 47 00:01:54,560 --> 00:01:57,640 Speaker 2: stay for there. You just do has good? Okay? Good? 48 00:01:57,720 --> 00:01:58,280 Speaker 1: Is that right on? 49 00:01:58,760 --> 00:02:00,040 Speaker 2: Let me get my baccown it. 50 00:02:01,320 --> 00:02:05,320 Speaker 1: I just like feeling like there's not all this congestion 51 00:02:05,520 --> 00:02:07,720 Speaker 1: on the four or five and in my t zone. 52 00:02:07,760 --> 00:02:09,120 Speaker 2: So I love a facial. 53 00:02:09,720 --> 00:02:13,720 Speaker 1: And I also, as I've gotten older, hence the tattooed 54 00:02:13,720 --> 00:02:16,280 Speaker 1: lips and eyebrows, I don't want to wear a lot 55 00:02:16,280 --> 00:02:18,519 Speaker 1: of makeup. So once I get a facial, then I 56 00:02:18,520 --> 00:02:23,560 Speaker 1: feel like there's just like a glowiness to it. I 57 00:02:23,600 --> 00:02:26,440 Speaker 1: also feel like I need to do it just because 58 00:02:26,560 --> 00:02:28,760 Speaker 1: I don't want to pick my own sits. I've gotten 59 00:02:28,760 --> 00:02:30,959 Speaker 1: a lot better about that. And you can't pick sits 60 00:02:31,000 --> 00:02:33,040 Speaker 1: when you have these nails. These nails I have right now. 61 00:02:33,040 --> 00:02:35,160 Speaker 1: I had one the other day right here, and I 62 00:02:35,200 --> 00:02:36,440 Speaker 1: wanted to get in there, and I was like, I 63 00:02:36,480 --> 00:02:39,800 Speaker 1: am going to require stitches if I try to get 64 00:02:39,800 --> 00:02:43,280 Speaker 1: this ZiT with these nails. So I have gotten better 65 00:02:43,280 --> 00:02:46,600 Speaker 1: about picking my face by just letting the professional do it. 66 00:02:47,200 --> 00:02:52,040 Speaker 2: Have you invested in the lancet portion of the show. 67 00:02:53,240 --> 00:02:58,040 Speaker 2: I don't mind my amazon They are little, tiny like lancets, 68 00:02:58,160 --> 00:03:00,680 Speaker 2: And I talked to my face us about it. She 69 00:03:00,720 --> 00:03:03,320 Speaker 2: does not encourage me to do it, but if I 70 00:03:03,440 --> 00:03:06,640 Speaker 2: need to get in there, it's a little versus what 71 00:03:06,680 --> 00:03:10,720 Speaker 2: does it look like it's like a little mine are 72 00:03:10,760 --> 00:03:13,240 Speaker 2: bright blue? I got him on Amazon. It just looks 73 00:03:13,240 --> 00:03:15,560 Speaker 2: like a little not even a needle, but a little 74 00:03:15,560 --> 00:03:18,280 Speaker 2: tiny like little yeah, I guess, like a like a 75 00:03:18,360 --> 00:03:21,120 Speaker 2: quarter of a needle on like a plastic thing and 76 00:03:21,160 --> 00:03:23,200 Speaker 2: you just pook it where you have something and then 77 00:03:23,240 --> 00:03:26,280 Speaker 2: you can get to it better, versus get just trying 78 00:03:26,320 --> 00:03:29,160 Speaker 2: to pop more. This is discussing what I'm talking talking about. 79 00:03:29,160 --> 00:03:32,239 Speaker 2: It's not, but I've noticed it helps me a lot more. 80 00:03:32,360 --> 00:03:35,840 Speaker 2: If I'm on my own and need to do an extraction, 81 00:03:36,960 --> 00:03:37,440 Speaker 2: I get that. 82 00:03:37,600 --> 00:03:39,560 Speaker 1: I'm just the person that's going to find the dirty 83 00:03:39,560 --> 00:03:41,400 Speaker 1: safety pin in the bottom of one of the what 84 00:03:41,440 --> 00:03:44,160 Speaker 1: I've done now or dob kits you heard me, dob 85 00:03:44,240 --> 00:03:47,040 Speaker 1: kits that we have, and I'm like scrounging around knowing 86 00:03:47,040 --> 00:03:48,840 Speaker 1: there's that safety pin that I'm also then going to 87 00:03:48,960 --> 00:03:51,880 Speaker 1: use on my shirt that I'm wearing. I did that 88 00:03:51,880 --> 00:03:53,600 Speaker 1: the other day. I was going to do a Patrick's 89 00:03:53,640 --> 00:03:55,840 Speaker 1: artan interview, which, by the way, how did Gus see it? 90 00:03:56,400 --> 00:03:56,480 Speaker 2: He? 91 00:03:57,640 --> 00:04:00,600 Speaker 1: Anyone that doesn't know Patrick Sutan It plays for the Broncos. 92 00:04:00,640 --> 00:04:03,880 Speaker 1: He's headed into his fifth year his cornerback for the 93 00:04:03,880 --> 00:04:06,000 Speaker 1: Broncos out of Alabama. 94 00:04:06,080 --> 00:04:07,360 Speaker 2: Like, this kid is a stud. 95 00:04:07,520 --> 00:04:11,200 Speaker 1: Just one defensive player of the Year last year twenty 96 00:04:11,200 --> 00:04:14,840 Speaker 1: twenty four, one of only seven cornerbacks people in his position. 97 00:04:14,880 --> 00:04:18,000 Speaker 1: I mean, we're talking like Lawrence Taylor, Reggie White, like 98 00:04:18,160 --> 00:04:20,359 Speaker 1: JJ Watt, these defensive players of the year, Like go 99 00:04:20,440 --> 00:04:22,839 Speaker 1: to the big guys up front, And how tall is 100 00:04:22,880 --> 00:04:25,400 Speaker 1: he on the back end? He's got to be like 101 00:04:25,560 --> 00:04:29,479 Speaker 1: six three. I don't quote me on that, but he's tall. 102 00:04:29,600 --> 00:04:33,640 Speaker 1: He's tall, especially like for his position. But what a 103 00:04:33,760 --> 00:04:36,160 Speaker 1: nice young man he is. I haven't had a chance 104 00:04:36,200 --> 00:04:38,280 Speaker 1: to sit down with him before, and I just really 105 00:04:38,480 --> 00:04:41,240 Speaker 1: enjoyed talking to him. He's huge in the community. He 106 00:04:41,279 --> 00:04:44,080 Speaker 1: has a foundation, Like he's just easy to roof for. 107 00:04:44,160 --> 00:04:47,599 Speaker 1: He's got this like great smile, this great energy, and 108 00:04:47,640 --> 00:04:50,000 Speaker 1: I felt, guy, we're like we're going into like an 109 00:04:50,040 --> 00:04:54,240 Speaker 1: hour of the interview. Yeah, he's very attractive, gorgeous, cute. 110 00:04:54,600 --> 00:04:57,440 Speaker 1: I could be your mother. He was born in two thousand. 111 00:04:56,720 --> 00:05:00,920 Speaker 1: I could do his mom. Yeah, all of these guys. Now, 112 00:05:01,160 --> 00:05:03,240 Speaker 1: I no longer feel bad being like he's hot, because 113 00:05:03,240 --> 00:05:06,720 Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm his mother's age, so his mother's probably 114 00:05:06,760 --> 00:05:10,680 Speaker 1: younger than me. Anyways, So he's adorable and sweet and 115 00:05:10,720 --> 00:05:13,159 Speaker 1: the whole thing. But I'm sitting there and I'm wearing 116 00:05:13,200 --> 00:05:15,120 Speaker 1: it's like one of those outfits that like you throw 117 00:05:15,160 --> 00:05:17,400 Speaker 1: in the in the suitcase because you're like, oh, there's 118 00:05:17,400 --> 00:05:17,800 Speaker 1: will work. 119 00:05:17,880 --> 00:05:19,640 Speaker 2: This is whatever I haven't worn in a while, but 120 00:05:19,680 --> 00:05:21,240 Speaker 2: I know it works. I've got one of those. I'm 121 00:05:21,279 --> 00:05:24,480 Speaker 2: about to do it on zero claim. 122 00:05:24,279 --> 00:05:26,720 Speaker 1: Of course not, of course not. But it works when 123 00:05:26,760 --> 00:05:29,360 Speaker 1: you're standing up. So I sit down. And now the 124 00:05:29,400 --> 00:05:30,239 Speaker 1: best thing. 125 00:05:30,200 --> 00:05:33,520 Speaker 2: Is people don't get this charis about our job. People 126 00:05:33,560 --> 00:05:36,080 Speaker 2: don't understand we got to look good standing up when 127 00:05:36,120 --> 00:05:38,440 Speaker 2: we do these sit downs and sitting down. And that's 128 00:05:38,480 --> 00:05:42,240 Speaker 2: a whole situation, as stupid as it sounds, not because 129 00:05:42,279 --> 00:05:45,040 Speaker 2: it's a visual we have to have. It's not stupid. 130 00:05:45,040 --> 00:05:46,640 Speaker 1: And then it's like, hey, you're in the director's share, 131 00:05:46,680 --> 00:05:49,560 Speaker 1: so glad I didn't wear a short skirt. Situation in 132 00:05:49,600 --> 00:05:52,280 Speaker 1: that whatever. So the best thing is like opened up 133 00:05:52,320 --> 00:05:55,400 Speaker 1: and I'm like, now I'm scrounging around in the bag. 134 00:05:55,480 --> 00:05:58,839 Speaker 1: I'm looking for this said safety pin that I also 135 00:05:58,960 --> 00:06:02,920 Speaker 1: used to my Zit's gross. I can't find the safety pin. 136 00:06:03,320 --> 00:06:05,400 Speaker 1: So now I'm going straight to the audio guy. I'm like, hey, 137 00:06:05,400 --> 00:06:07,839 Speaker 1: we need some gaff tape. We need we need some 138 00:06:07,960 --> 00:06:10,000 Speaker 1: give me the electrical tape because it was navy. 139 00:06:10,000 --> 00:06:11,800 Speaker 2: I'm like, oh, the black will work. No, that doesn't work. 140 00:06:12,000 --> 00:06:15,239 Speaker 1: Hey, you know what I figured out, no longer asked 141 00:06:15,240 --> 00:06:17,200 Speaker 1: for like the gaff tape or any of that other stuff. 142 00:06:17,800 --> 00:06:21,520 Speaker 1: The double stick tape they use for our microphones. Yes, 143 00:06:21,960 --> 00:06:24,200 Speaker 1: that's the tape that we need for the clothes. 144 00:06:24,200 --> 00:06:25,640 Speaker 2: So I was like, oh, perfect. 145 00:06:25,920 --> 00:06:28,080 Speaker 1: I was like, I don't know why, twenty years into 146 00:06:28,120 --> 00:06:31,280 Speaker 1: this job, I'm like using the other electrical tape when 147 00:06:31,279 --> 00:06:34,080 Speaker 1: we should just ask him for that. Anyways, crisis averted 148 00:06:35,160 --> 00:06:37,320 Speaker 1: did that, but I was thinking to myself, I was like, 149 00:06:37,400 --> 00:06:40,839 Speaker 1: that's solo safety pin that's been traveling around with me, 150 00:06:41,240 --> 00:06:44,240 Speaker 1: has multiple uses and is so disgusting, and someone needs 151 00:06:44,279 --> 00:06:46,240 Speaker 1: to give me a lighter to like clean the end 152 00:06:46,240 --> 00:06:48,320 Speaker 1: of it off of waw gross, I. 153 00:06:48,320 --> 00:06:52,760 Speaker 2: Got it now, and we're old enough to be as mother. 154 00:06:54,120 --> 00:06:57,960 Speaker 2: I gotta get I gotta clean my brushes. It's it's 155 00:06:58,040 --> 00:07:01,160 Speaker 2: time those it's probably Yeah, I don't know how long 156 00:07:01,200 --> 00:07:03,479 Speaker 2: it's been. Here's what we're going to do. How do 157 00:07:03,520 --> 00:07:04,600 Speaker 2: you feel about this move? 158 00:07:04,800 --> 00:07:07,560 Speaker 1: I think that you and I right before the season starts, 159 00:07:07,800 --> 00:07:08,680 Speaker 1: we're going to have a date. 160 00:07:08,760 --> 00:07:10,160 Speaker 2: We're gonna go, We're gonna be together. 161 00:07:10,240 --> 00:07:12,600 Speaker 1: We're gonna because you and I have admitted these makeup 162 00:07:12,600 --> 00:07:15,840 Speaker 1: eggs are mica up bigs, makeup bags are disgusting. We're 163 00:07:15,840 --> 00:07:19,240 Speaker 1: going to be honest with each other walking out, We're 164 00:07:19,240 --> 00:07:21,640 Speaker 1: going to throw stuff out. Then we're going to go 165 00:07:21,680 --> 00:07:24,160 Speaker 1: to Sephora or whatever place we want to go to, 166 00:07:24,520 --> 00:07:27,120 Speaker 1: and we're going to just buy the new brushes that 167 00:07:27,160 --> 00:07:29,400 Speaker 1: we need, clean the old ones that we like, and 168 00:07:29,520 --> 00:07:31,240 Speaker 1: let's just get organized like that. 169 00:07:31,640 --> 00:07:33,280 Speaker 2: Oh you know, we should when we could do that. 170 00:07:34,280 --> 00:07:38,280 Speaker 3: So we're doing puppy yoga. 171 00:07:38,800 --> 00:07:43,040 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, but after poppy yoga, are we sure that 172 00:07:43,080 --> 00:07:44,360 Speaker 1: there's going to be puppies there? 173 00:07:44,880 --> 00:07:48,400 Speaker 2: There's no way because anywhere had our done puppy You 174 00:07:48,400 --> 00:07:50,920 Speaker 2: need to go do pickleball with Chris Myers, my new 175 00:07:51,080 --> 00:07:52,920 Speaker 2: uh my new Bobby Kate. 176 00:07:53,000 --> 00:07:55,440 Speaker 1: Talk about that because now we're all invested in your 177 00:07:55,440 --> 00:07:56,600 Speaker 1: pickleball acumen? 178 00:07:56,720 --> 00:07:59,720 Speaker 2: Are you getting better? Is it something you'reself enjoying? I 179 00:07:59,800 --> 00:08:03,400 Speaker 2: mean joying. I need because it's a beginner situation. I 180 00:08:03,440 --> 00:08:06,000 Speaker 2: need a little bit more cardio. We're working on our danking, 181 00:08:06,120 --> 00:08:09,200 Speaker 2: dunking volleying and serving today. But I like how you 182 00:08:09,240 --> 00:08:11,000 Speaker 2: have to start in a squad, so I was really 183 00:08:11,040 --> 00:08:14,360 Speaker 2: trying to like work the quads onyas with that. This 184 00:08:14,440 --> 00:08:18,160 Speaker 2: is what I've realized about myself with pickleball. It is, 185 00:08:18,960 --> 00:08:22,360 Speaker 2: I think, a real mirror of who you are as 186 00:08:22,360 --> 00:08:27,080 Speaker 2: a person. Every time I mess up, I'm sorry, I'm sorry, 187 00:08:27,280 --> 00:08:30,200 Speaker 2: I'm sorry. I'm the only one in the lesson saying sorry. 188 00:08:30,440 --> 00:08:34,040 Speaker 2: There's five other participants. They're not saying sorry. Why am 189 00:08:34,080 --> 00:08:37,120 Speaker 2: I doing that? We're gonna say sorry down for Yeah, 190 00:08:37,200 --> 00:08:39,480 Speaker 2: we're gonna write that down for the therapist. What's that? 191 00:08:39,640 --> 00:08:39,880 Speaker 2: What do you? 192 00:08:40,120 --> 00:08:44,320 Speaker 1: What's that about? What's that about? What am I sorry about? 193 00:08:45,360 --> 00:08:47,800 Speaker 1: Not the We're going to write that down for the therapist. 194 00:08:47,840 --> 00:08:49,719 Speaker 1: We are, we got we had some things to work 195 00:08:49,720 --> 00:08:52,160 Speaker 1: on this week. So it's not gonna make this week's fall, but. 196 00:08:52,120 --> 00:08:56,680 Speaker 2: It may it may make you know, Hey, wait. 197 00:08:57,400 --> 00:09:01,960 Speaker 1: I understand that there's you know, patient client confidentiality with 198 00:09:02,000 --> 00:09:03,760 Speaker 1: some hippo laws, so you don't feel like you have 199 00:09:03,800 --> 00:09:06,359 Speaker 1: to share it, But did you have your therapist call? 200 00:09:06,640 --> 00:09:12,400 Speaker 2: Oh? Yeah, okay, just in time? Do you? I mean, look, 201 00:09:12,440 --> 00:09:15,360 Speaker 2: this is a safe space. Do you want to give me? 202 00:09:15,720 --> 00:09:19,160 Speaker 2: I haven't and the listeners any like it was. It 203 00:09:19,240 --> 00:09:23,319 Speaker 2: was a great introductory call. Thank god I did it 204 00:09:23,320 --> 00:09:25,640 Speaker 2: because we got a whole other backup problems, as Vincen 205 00:09:25,679 --> 00:09:28,280 Speaker 2: would say, that are going to be discussed this week. 206 00:09:29,160 --> 00:09:33,520 Speaker 2: But it was good emotional man, and I was really yeah. 207 00:09:33,520 --> 00:09:35,200 Speaker 2: And you know what I liked, I said, she did. 208 00:09:35,320 --> 00:09:37,560 Speaker 2: I did yeah, because you know, we were talking about 209 00:09:37,559 --> 00:09:42,720 Speaker 2: certain things that hit hit home. I liked where she 210 00:09:42,720 --> 00:09:46,840 Speaker 2: she said, let's stop for a minute. What are you feeling? 211 00:09:47,400 --> 00:09:49,360 Speaker 2: And I was like, my jaw is killing me. I 212 00:09:49,360 --> 00:09:51,040 Speaker 2: feel it all right here, right. 213 00:09:50,840 --> 00:09:57,760 Speaker 1: Here, tension are yeah, yeah, okay, but you found it 214 00:09:57,800 --> 00:09:59,479 Speaker 1: to be constructive. 215 00:10:00,480 --> 00:10:04,000 Speaker 2: I found it to be great and right on time. Okay, good, 216 00:10:04,760 --> 00:10:08,079 Speaker 2: it's great. I'm excited, easy, breezy. You know what I 217 00:10:08,160 --> 00:10:11,080 Speaker 2: enjoyed where she was like, the times are look at 218 00:10:11,080 --> 00:10:14,000 Speaker 2: the time, I'm like, oh my, I said, you're good. 219 00:10:14,400 --> 00:10:17,599 Speaker 2: Thank god, I feel it. 220 00:10:17,760 --> 00:10:21,600 Speaker 1: But yeah, I thought, oh no, that times flying by, 221 00:10:21,679 --> 00:10:23,720 Speaker 1: especially if Steve's in the room. Like I said last week, 222 00:10:23,880 --> 00:10:26,959 Speaker 1: I didn't even get to ask any questions. The thing 223 00:10:27,000 --> 00:10:29,000 Speaker 1: that I love about it is that when it's over, 224 00:10:29,080 --> 00:10:31,880 Speaker 1: I'm always like, oh, like, I feel so much lighter 225 00:10:31,960 --> 00:10:34,439 Speaker 1: it's just like a way to urge what you're talking about. 226 00:10:34,480 --> 00:10:37,079 Speaker 1: And then I feel like, oh god, why like or 227 00:10:37,120 --> 00:10:39,040 Speaker 1: why did I make such a big deal of certain things, 228 00:10:39,080 --> 00:10:40,800 Speaker 1: Like they're not that big of a deal once you 229 00:10:40,840 --> 00:10:43,360 Speaker 1: get them out, which we've talked about. You and I 230 00:10:43,400 --> 00:10:46,320 Speaker 1: have a lot how important it is, even with your 231 00:10:46,360 --> 00:10:49,280 Speaker 1: girlfriends or whoever. You can fight in to just say it. 232 00:10:49,360 --> 00:10:51,520 Speaker 1: Sometimes you know people like say like, oh, I journal 233 00:10:51,960 --> 00:10:54,120 Speaker 1: I don't. I wish, I wish I was a journaler. 234 00:10:54,240 --> 00:10:56,640 Speaker 1: I wish that was like a thing, because I don't. 235 00:10:56,720 --> 00:10:58,560 Speaker 1: I'm so afraid that if I write it down and 236 00:10:58,559 --> 00:11:00,280 Speaker 1: then someone finds it and they read it, I'm like, 237 00:11:00,320 --> 00:11:01,920 Speaker 1: ad like, I don't want to do that, but I 238 00:11:01,960 --> 00:11:05,200 Speaker 1: think just getting it out and talking about it. Poor 239 00:11:05,240 --> 00:11:06,920 Speaker 1: Willis Willis has heard me say a lot of things 240 00:11:06,960 --> 00:11:09,319 Speaker 1: around my life. I'm like, well, please sit down, like. 241 00:11:09,280 --> 00:11:16,880 Speaker 2: The journal writing their ear or their nose. Ie. 242 00:11:17,480 --> 00:11:20,880 Speaker 1: I know yesterday we were you and I were facetiming 243 00:11:20,960 --> 00:11:23,160 Speaker 1: and like my two babies like were sitting with me, 244 00:11:23,200 --> 00:11:25,040 Speaker 1: and I was just like, I don't know, I could 245 00:11:25,040 --> 00:11:25,400 Speaker 1: go on and on. 246 00:11:25,520 --> 00:11:28,280 Speaker 2: We don't deserve them. So therapy was good. 247 00:11:28,320 --> 00:11:32,160 Speaker 1: Pickleball is coming along, face go stop saying sorry. 248 00:11:32,600 --> 00:11:34,960 Speaker 2: I say sorry so much on the court. Here's the 249 00:11:35,000 --> 00:11:38,360 Speaker 2: other thing, And this isn't because I think I'm bad. 250 00:11:38,800 --> 00:11:41,600 Speaker 2: This is because I expect more out of myself. I 251 00:11:41,679 --> 00:11:44,559 Speaker 2: know I'm not an athlete. I dance my entire life. No, listen, 252 00:11:44,760 --> 00:11:49,640 Speaker 2: I believe dancers are athletes. I wasn't a jam at dancing. 253 00:11:50,040 --> 00:11:53,040 Speaker 2: So I here's the thing, but I don't know what 254 00:11:53,080 --> 00:11:56,040 Speaker 2: I'm trying to say there. I also when sweet Nancy, 255 00:11:56,520 --> 00:11:59,520 Speaker 2: our instructor today, was like that was good, but I 256 00:11:59,600 --> 00:12:01,360 Speaker 2: know it was isn't good? I said no, it wasn't. 257 00:12:02,120 --> 00:12:04,920 Speaker 2: Shut up? Why am I fighting with Nancy? So a 258 00:12:04,960 --> 00:12:08,000 Speaker 2: lot of stories and a lot of that was good. No, 259 00:12:08,120 --> 00:12:13,080 Speaker 2: it wasn't. What's what's going on here? What are you doing? What? 260 00:12:13,320 --> 00:12:14,760 Speaker 2: Where is that coming from? 261 00:12:15,000 --> 00:12:16,640 Speaker 1: I think it also goes back to you and I 262 00:12:16,720 --> 00:12:19,360 Speaker 1: accepting compliments too. Remember how we're trying to get better 263 00:12:19,400 --> 00:12:21,040 Speaker 1: about that. Where if I'm like, oh, I like I 264 00:12:21,080 --> 00:12:22,679 Speaker 1: like your hair and you're like, no, the roots need 265 00:12:22,720 --> 00:12:23,439 Speaker 1: to be done, it's. 266 00:12:23,480 --> 00:12:24,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's so bad. 267 00:12:24,800 --> 00:12:28,080 Speaker 1: I think you We have a few people in our 268 00:12:28,120 --> 00:12:30,520 Speaker 1: life that keep stressing this to us, where it's like, hey, 269 00:12:30,960 --> 00:12:34,520 Speaker 1: self deprecation is cool and all, but like every time 270 00:12:34,640 --> 00:12:36,920 Speaker 1: someone gives you a compliment now it just gets annoying. 271 00:12:37,480 --> 00:12:40,480 Speaker 1: We can't do it like saying thank you or accepting 272 00:12:40,520 --> 00:12:42,520 Speaker 1: the compliment. I think that's something you and I can 273 00:12:42,559 --> 00:12:45,360 Speaker 1: both work on, because I don't we both do that. 274 00:12:45,400 --> 00:12:47,719 Speaker 2: I don't know why. I think it's our defense mechanism 275 00:12:47,840 --> 00:12:48,320 Speaker 2: of like. 276 00:12:48,880 --> 00:12:52,000 Speaker 1: We we're the hardest on ourselves, and so if somebody 277 00:12:52,040 --> 00:12:54,040 Speaker 1: wants to give a compliment, it's like no, no, no, no, no, 278 00:12:54,080 --> 00:12:54,520 Speaker 1: don't do that. 279 00:12:54,600 --> 00:12:55,040 Speaker 2: Don't do that. 280 00:12:55,240 --> 00:12:57,920 Speaker 1: So yeah, maybe I could just go the other way 281 00:12:57,920 --> 00:13:01,040 Speaker 1: with it. Thank you. I'm gorgeous. 282 00:13:01,120 --> 00:13:05,120 Speaker 2: I know, even if I hit the ball out of 283 00:13:05,200 --> 00:13:09,600 Speaker 2: the line, great job. Of course it was I Donna 284 00:13:09,640 --> 00:13:13,080 Speaker 2: a Saturday Night Live skit like where you go totally 285 00:13:13,080 --> 00:13:15,079 Speaker 2: the opposite way. I'm fantastic. 286 00:13:15,840 --> 00:13:17,720 Speaker 1: I know, I'm not kidding. I told you even on 287 00:13:17,840 --> 00:13:21,080 Speaker 1: like the Instagram post. Instead of giving some inspirational quote, 288 00:13:21,120 --> 00:13:23,040 Speaker 1: it should just be like I look fucking great here 289 00:13:24,200 --> 00:13:26,280 Speaker 1: where I do. 290 00:13:26,440 --> 00:13:29,440 Speaker 2: Think every time though I'm in these lessons, I think 291 00:13:29,440 --> 00:13:32,480 Speaker 2: of that scene from Bridesmaids, and it was like, get 292 00:13:32,520 --> 00:13:39,160 Speaker 2: it together, Carol. So that movie is so fantastic. It's great. 293 00:13:39,360 --> 00:13:55,240 Speaker 2: That movie. 294 00:13:48,920 --> 00:13:52,480 Speaker 1: So we have a few more weeks here before football, 295 00:13:53,000 --> 00:13:53,240 Speaker 1: a lot. 296 00:13:53,200 --> 00:13:56,079 Speaker 2: Of guys reporting for camp today. This is where I 297 00:13:56,160 --> 00:13:58,960 Speaker 2: get so excited. It is now the time we're supposed 298 00:13:58,960 --> 00:14:01,000 Speaker 2: to be watching it NFL net Work for the NonStop 299 00:14:01,040 --> 00:14:03,600 Speaker 2: coverage because I love that time. I was confused if 300 00:14:03,600 --> 00:14:04,840 Speaker 2: it was today or tomorrow. 301 00:14:06,559 --> 00:14:10,640 Speaker 1: It depends on the team, but definitely camp is starting, 302 00:14:10,840 --> 00:14:13,800 Speaker 1: and this is where you and I start locking in 303 00:14:13,880 --> 00:14:16,880 Speaker 1: because we do have the luxury of our jobs football wise, 304 00:14:16,920 --> 00:14:20,680 Speaker 1: like is you know, all full on in the fall, 305 00:14:20,760 --> 00:14:24,040 Speaker 1: but we are end of July. That means football is 306 00:14:24,080 --> 00:14:26,440 Speaker 1: right around the corner. I got a preseason game on 307 00:14:26,560 --> 00:14:30,960 Speaker 1: August twenty first, New York, so yeah, you got one too, 308 00:14:31,040 --> 00:14:35,040 Speaker 1: So we're we're we're off and running, although not before. 309 00:14:35,080 --> 00:14:37,800 Speaker 1: We talked about a few things here, so Aaron I 310 00:14:38,000 --> 00:14:39,880 Speaker 1: teased it on the on the pregame. 311 00:14:39,560 --> 00:14:40,880 Speaker 2: Teased it on the pregame show. 312 00:14:41,360 --> 00:14:44,840 Speaker 1: There's in our podcast chat of subjects that we want 313 00:14:44,880 --> 00:14:49,040 Speaker 1: to talk about, the Ritz Carlton Cruise, State make your 314 00:14:49,080 --> 00:14:50,840 Speaker 1: case for why you want to be on the Ritz 315 00:14:50,840 --> 00:14:54,120 Speaker 1: Carlton Cruise and Ritz Carlton if anyone's listening, we'd love 316 00:14:54,200 --> 00:14:56,720 Speaker 1: to go. We've got four weeks Are you guys still 317 00:14:56,760 --> 00:14:58,040 Speaker 1: taking off from any port? 318 00:14:58,800 --> 00:15:01,880 Speaker 2: Why? Maybe not this summer, but I'd definitely be interested. 319 00:15:02,320 --> 00:15:05,920 Speaker 2: I don't know if this is the first summer this is. 320 00:15:05,920 --> 00:15:08,040 Speaker 2: Is this the debut of the Ritz Carlton Cruse? I 321 00:15:08,040 --> 00:15:11,320 Speaker 2: think so. Yeah. Well I'm offended because no I'm not. 322 00:15:11,600 --> 00:15:13,880 Speaker 2: We've been on the Disney Cruise growing up. I've been 323 00:15:13,880 --> 00:15:15,960 Speaker 2: on the Carnival Cruise. Let me tell you what I'd 324 00:15:16,000 --> 00:15:18,640 Speaker 2: like to do with the old four top. Here, the 325 00:15:18,720 --> 00:15:25,000 Speaker 2: cod Thompson Stole Andrews Mafia is going to Ritz Carlton Cruise. Now, 326 00:15:25,680 --> 00:15:28,840 Speaker 2: thank you, You're welcome. We've been listening to a lot 327 00:15:28,880 --> 00:15:32,880 Speaker 2: of mawana lately. Uh do we care who's on the boat? 328 00:15:32,960 --> 00:15:35,080 Speaker 2: Are we picky? Do we just want to go? What's 329 00:15:35,120 --> 00:15:38,680 Speaker 2: our vibe? I want to go on the Ritz Carlton Cruise. Okay, 330 00:15:38,920 --> 00:15:41,600 Speaker 2: let's just start with the invite. So, dear Ritz Carlton, 331 00:15:41,880 --> 00:15:45,920 Speaker 2: we would love to loyal members on the cruise. I 332 00:15:45,960 --> 00:15:49,400 Speaker 2: love a cruise. I know people, are you at first 333 00:15:49,440 --> 00:15:50,840 Speaker 2: where it's like, well, I. 334 00:15:50,720 --> 00:15:52,680 Speaker 1: Love a cruise and I've only been on one and 335 00:15:52,720 --> 00:15:55,400 Speaker 1: the kids shit in the pool the first like before 336 00:15:55,440 --> 00:15:58,320 Speaker 1: the boat even left the dock and they had to 337 00:15:58,440 --> 00:16:01,160 Speaker 1: kill you about the pool and like to please please 338 00:16:01,160 --> 00:16:03,240 Speaker 1: get out of the pool, and they had to sterilize 339 00:16:03,280 --> 00:16:03,960 Speaker 1: in the whole thing. 340 00:16:05,720 --> 00:16:08,480 Speaker 3: Like you to get out of the pool exactly. 341 00:16:09,200 --> 00:16:12,440 Speaker 1: I love a cruise because you can there's always something 342 00:16:12,480 --> 00:16:14,880 Speaker 1: to do, and you know there's casinos on those things, 343 00:16:14,960 --> 00:16:16,440 Speaker 1: and you know your gal loves the casino. 344 00:16:16,840 --> 00:16:17,920 Speaker 2: So boy, you've got. 345 00:16:17,800 --> 00:16:22,360 Speaker 1: There's the risk Carlton cruise. Oh, I'm sure some kind 346 00:16:22,360 --> 00:16:23,240 Speaker 1: of like high end. 347 00:16:23,560 --> 00:16:25,760 Speaker 2: Look it up. I'm going to look up to see 348 00:16:25,760 --> 00:16:27,080 Speaker 2: what we would like. Keep talking. 349 00:16:27,920 --> 00:16:32,200 Speaker 1: I just think that there's any any vacation where there's 350 00:16:32,280 --> 00:16:33,880 Speaker 1: endless options of things to do. 351 00:16:34,040 --> 00:16:36,520 Speaker 2: I'm in for it. And you're kind of all. 352 00:16:36,400 --> 00:16:38,040 Speaker 1: Forced to be together, like you know, don't You're not 353 00:16:38,120 --> 00:16:39,960 Speaker 1: like you know, people going over here, people going in 354 00:16:40,000 --> 00:16:40,440 Speaker 1: over here. 355 00:16:40,680 --> 00:16:42,240 Speaker 2: You're on a boat, so you're kind of stuck with 356 00:16:42,280 --> 00:16:43,720 Speaker 2: each other. I'm into it. 357 00:16:44,160 --> 00:16:47,520 Speaker 1: I love a cruise and Ritz Carlton. We would love 358 00:16:47,560 --> 00:16:50,120 Speaker 1: to attend your next outing. Thank you so much. 359 00:16:50,280 --> 00:16:52,520 Speaker 2: We got to ask Tom more about it, We got 360 00:16:52,560 --> 00:16:54,920 Speaker 2: to ask who, We got to know how he gets 361 00:16:54,960 --> 00:16:59,480 Speaker 2: us on. I'm reading right now the website All Inclusive 362 00:16:59,560 --> 00:17:04,280 Speaker 2: Experience SPA Experience. You guys, you and I would crush that. Sure, 363 00:17:04,560 --> 00:17:10,760 Speaker 2: excursions amenities abound. Hold on, I'm gonna explore more. Amenities abound. God, 364 00:17:10,920 --> 00:17:16,720 Speaker 2: what could we do so much? But put it this way, 365 00:17:16,760 --> 00:17:17,800 Speaker 2: I'll download the app. 366 00:17:18,240 --> 00:17:20,280 Speaker 1: I will get the Ritz Carlton app if it means 367 00:17:20,280 --> 00:17:23,680 Speaker 1: we have an invite on the next cruise ship around 368 00:17:23,720 --> 00:17:24,119 Speaker 1: the world. 369 00:17:24,440 --> 00:17:28,560 Speaker 2: So that's our PSA for that situation. Please can we come? 370 00:17:30,280 --> 00:17:33,760 Speaker 1: So also a few things that were in our chat 371 00:17:33,880 --> 00:17:37,840 Speaker 1: as well. I heard, you know, the certain expressions that 372 00:17:37,920 --> 00:17:40,200 Speaker 1: your parents had when you were growing up, and you like. 373 00:17:40,200 --> 00:17:41,000 Speaker 2: Hated them for it. 374 00:17:41,440 --> 00:17:45,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, I heard the other day, I'm in line at 375 00:17:45,800 --> 00:17:48,040 Speaker 1: the old Barnes and Noble, which, by the way, there's 376 00:17:48,080 --> 00:17:50,080 Speaker 1: not a lot of those anymore, and it makes me sad. 377 00:17:50,520 --> 00:17:52,679 Speaker 1: But I was picking up a couple of books, you 378 00:17:52,760 --> 00:17:54,600 Speaker 1: heard me. I was putting together a gift basket for 379 00:17:54,720 --> 00:17:58,199 Speaker 1: Kathy Thompson, and there was this kid in mine and 380 00:17:58,200 --> 00:18:00,560 Speaker 1: you know, like when you're in the ill and they 381 00:18:00,560 --> 00:18:02,399 Speaker 1: have like all the little things and they do this 382 00:18:02,440 --> 00:18:04,879 Speaker 1: on purpose where it's like you can grab on your 383 00:18:04,920 --> 00:18:07,320 Speaker 1: way up to the checkout thing. In this particular case, 384 00:18:07,320 --> 00:18:09,760 Speaker 1: it was like, you know, the games. There's like games 385 00:18:09,760 --> 00:18:12,440 Speaker 1: there was bookmarkers. There's all these different things and the 386 00:18:12,520 --> 00:18:14,240 Speaker 1: kids grab and shit off the shelf and he's like, 387 00:18:14,359 --> 00:18:16,159 Speaker 1: I want this, I want this, and the mom goes, no, 388 00:18:16,280 --> 00:18:18,080 Speaker 1: you're not having that. No, you're not having that. And 389 00:18:18,119 --> 00:18:21,240 Speaker 1: all I'm thinking about is my childhood, where like when 390 00:18:21,280 --> 00:18:23,359 Speaker 1: you're out at a store with your parents growing up 391 00:18:23,400 --> 00:18:25,560 Speaker 1: and you want something and they're like, we're not getting anything. 392 00:18:25,560 --> 00:18:28,520 Speaker 1: Stop touching that, don't touch that, put it down, just 393 00:18:28,640 --> 00:18:31,840 Speaker 1: all of these things, and finally the kid goes, I 394 00:18:32,000 --> 00:18:34,920 Speaker 1: hate you, and the mom goes, oh you do. Yeah, 395 00:18:34,920 --> 00:18:37,679 Speaker 1: it was one of those and she goes, oh you do, 396 00:18:37,760 --> 00:18:40,840 Speaker 1: and he goes, yeah, you're not fair, and she goes, 397 00:18:40,920 --> 00:18:43,680 Speaker 1: Life's not fair. And all I could think my mom 398 00:18:44,359 --> 00:18:46,440 Speaker 1: was my father growing up, where it was like that 399 00:18:46,560 --> 00:18:48,440 Speaker 1: thing of like, well, why can't I have it because 400 00:18:48,480 --> 00:18:50,800 Speaker 1: I'm the parent and I'm telling you you can't have it, 401 00:18:50,880 --> 00:18:52,000 Speaker 1: and when you're old enough. 402 00:18:51,880 --> 00:18:52,680 Speaker 2: You can in it. Whatever. 403 00:18:52,880 --> 00:18:55,560 Speaker 1: But the whole life is fair thing got me thinking 404 00:18:56,040 --> 00:18:58,600 Speaker 1: because in today's society, not to get deep, but this 405 00:18:58,640 --> 00:19:00,920 Speaker 1: is where I'm at. Like this small moment in the 406 00:19:01,040 --> 00:19:03,640 Speaker 1: checkout line at Barnes and Noble got me thinking about life. 407 00:19:03,880 --> 00:19:06,200 Speaker 2: Everyone in life. Not everyone. 408 00:19:06,320 --> 00:19:09,240 Speaker 1: Let me retract that a lot of people in life 409 00:19:09,720 --> 00:19:11,760 Speaker 1: love to be the victim, love. 410 00:19:11,560 --> 00:19:12,280 Speaker 2: To be the victim. 411 00:19:12,320 --> 00:19:14,880 Speaker 1: And it's like when you get out there and you're like, 412 00:19:15,200 --> 00:19:18,560 Speaker 1: life isn't fair, kid, and these lessons that you learn 413 00:19:18,680 --> 00:19:20,919 Speaker 1: early on, and if you're told by your parent, and 414 00:19:20,960 --> 00:19:23,639 Speaker 1: I know I'm not a parent, but like, I know 415 00:19:23,680 --> 00:19:25,360 Speaker 1: you're this way with Mac where it's like, no, you're 416 00:19:25,359 --> 00:19:27,239 Speaker 1: not just going to get whatever you want. Because if 417 00:19:27,240 --> 00:19:29,119 Speaker 1: you tell your kid and give your kid all this 418 00:19:29,119 --> 00:19:31,359 Speaker 1: shit when they're like little, and then they get into 419 00:19:31,400 --> 00:19:34,120 Speaker 1: the real world and they just expect the same thing. 420 00:19:34,160 --> 00:19:36,600 Speaker 1: And I just thought to myself how grateful I was, 421 00:19:36,680 --> 00:19:38,400 Speaker 1: even if I didn't like my dad or mom when 422 00:19:38,440 --> 00:19:40,800 Speaker 1: I was growing up or being like well you can't. 423 00:19:40,640 --> 00:19:41,840 Speaker 2: Get that or life isn't fair. 424 00:19:41,880 --> 00:19:44,960 Speaker 1: It's like thank you, because now as we're out here 425 00:19:44,960 --> 00:19:47,639 Speaker 1: in the real world, like not everything is an equal 426 00:19:47,680 --> 00:19:50,000 Speaker 1: playing ground, like there is it. There's going to be 427 00:19:50,000 --> 00:19:51,600 Speaker 1: a first place, there's going to be a loser. Not 428 00:19:51,640 --> 00:19:55,479 Speaker 1: everyone gets a participation ribbon. And I just thought about that. 429 00:19:55,520 --> 00:19:58,239 Speaker 1: I was like, this mom is setting her kid up 430 00:19:58,240 --> 00:20:01,480 Speaker 1: for success. And I appreciate that because I look around 431 00:20:01,480 --> 00:20:04,240 Speaker 1: in social media or all of these like different things 432 00:20:04,240 --> 00:20:08,919 Speaker 1: and everyone's always the victim and you're like, dude, life 433 00:20:09,200 --> 00:20:12,440 Speaker 1: isn't fair, so fucking get over it and like keep 434 00:20:12,480 --> 00:20:15,560 Speaker 1: it moving. So that was my little like anecdotal thing 435 00:20:15,560 --> 00:20:17,680 Speaker 1: that I saw, and I just was appreciating my parents 436 00:20:17,760 --> 00:20:19,800 Speaker 1: for like the way that I was raised, where it's like, okay, 437 00:20:20,520 --> 00:20:23,560 Speaker 1: you lose, guess what next? Play mentality like go back 438 00:20:23,600 --> 00:20:26,240 Speaker 1: out there, figure it out. Like I don't care whether 439 00:20:26,280 --> 00:20:29,200 Speaker 1: it's a job, whether it's a relationship, whatever it is, 440 00:20:29,240 --> 00:20:33,720 Speaker 1: like keep it moving and like stop playing victim. Everybody 441 00:20:33,760 --> 00:20:35,960 Speaker 1: loves to be the victim, and woe is me. 442 00:20:36,200 --> 00:20:38,639 Speaker 2: So that is all I have to say about that. 443 00:20:38,760 --> 00:20:42,199 Speaker 1: But like kudos to the mother that told her kid, Johnny, 444 00:20:42,240 --> 00:20:44,720 Speaker 1: you're not fucking getting that because life isn't fair and 445 00:20:44,800 --> 00:20:45,480 Speaker 1: I'm the parent. 446 00:20:45,640 --> 00:20:49,399 Speaker 2: Okay. Two things about Barnes and Noble. One is incredible 447 00:20:49,480 --> 00:20:52,040 Speaker 2: kids section. If you ever need to waste a couple 448 00:20:52,080 --> 00:20:55,119 Speaker 2: of minutes hour like an hour, they have a great 449 00:20:55,240 --> 00:20:57,960 Speaker 2: kids area. It's kind of like a hidden gem I 450 00:20:58,040 --> 00:21:02,560 Speaker 2: learned from our nannies. We actually got stuck somewhere and 451 00:21:02,600 --> 00:21:05,680 Speaker 2: we were like Barnes and Noble and we know you 452 00:21:06,080 --> 00:21:08,919 Speaker 2: coffee for the adults and a little player we have 453 00:21:09,160 --> 00:21:14,560 Speaker 2: for the kids, which is great. So there's that. I 454 00:21:14,760 --> 00:21:17,040 Speaker 2: what was I going to say about this? I love that. 455 00:21:17,400 --> 00:21:21,720 Speaker 2: I am trying very very hard at two years old, 456 00:21:21,920 --> 00:21:23,800 Speaker 2: a mom of a two year old, to try to 457 00:21:23,840 --> 00:21:26,840 Speaker 2: figure out how to handle not the terrible choos. But 458 00:21:27,080 --> 00:21:30,040 Speaker 2: my kid is vocal. Wonder where he learned it. My 459 00:21:30,160 --> 00:21:33,520 Speaker 2: kid is opinionated, wonder where he learned it. My kid 460 00:21:33,640 --> 00:21:36,080 Speaker 2: is out in the streets like he is letting everyone 461 00:21:36,160 --> 00:21:39,639 Speaker 2: know his vibe, what he's feeling. And we are going 462 00:21:39,720 --> 00:21:42,840 Speaker 2: through a little bit of a screaming stage. And this 463 00:21:42,920 --> 00:21:46,720 Speaker 2: scream is a high pitched ringing in my ears. I'm 464 00:21:46,800 --> 00:21:51,520 Speaker 2: literally I am worried about my hearing because I will 465 00:21:51,560 --> 00:21:53,639 Speaker 2: be holding him and it's like I can feel it, 466 00:21:53,680 --> 00:21:56,120 Speaker 2: and I'm like, Jared, I just lost my hearing. It's bad. 467 00:21:56,359 --> 00:22:00,240 Speaker 2: I'm legitimately worried about it. So we are trying to 468 00:22:00,480 --> 00:22:04,359 Speaker 2: navigate and learn as parents a two year old. I 469 00:22:04,400 --> 00:22:06,680 Speaker 2: know my kid is smart. I know he knows what's 470 00:22:06,720 --> 00:22:09,800 Speaker 2: going on. I also know he doesn't understand how to 471 00:22:10,880 --> 00:22:14,560 Speaker 2: what's the word express himself or communicate. Right now he's 472 00:22:14,560 --> 00:22:19,520 Speaker 2: saying some words. But we went on. We were with 473 00:22:19,920 --> 00:22:25,720 Speaker 2: a very sweet, smart, successful couple who has older kids 474 00:22:25,760 --> 00:22:29,480 Speaker 2: now who seem to have followed right in their parents' footsteps, 475 00:22:29,680 --> 00:22:31,639 Speaker 2: and I just like to ask, what kind of advice 476 00:22:31,640 --> 00:22:34,440 Speaker 2: would you give parents that are just starting out when 477 00:22:34,440 --> 00:22:37,920 Speaker 2: you're raising kids, And they recommended, you know, we're very 478 00:22:37,920 --> 00:22:40,639 Speaker 2: big on mac Mac. We are not going to scream 479 00:22:40,960 --> 00:22:44,520 Speaker 2: right now that hurts mom's ears. And also it's just 480 00:22:44,640 --> 00:22:46,159 Speaker 2: we're not going to do that. We're not going to 481 00:22:46,240 --> 00:22:48,600 Speaker 2: behave like that. But they also were saying, you know, 482 00:22:48,720 --> 00:22:50,760 Speaker 2: I'm big on if you do this, We're not going 483 00:22:50,840 --> 00:22:53,359 Speaker 2: to do TV. We're not going to listen to Disney 484 00:22:53,600 --> 00:22:56,919 Speaker 2: take Away, We're not going to Cubs camp. So my 485 00:22:57,040 --> 00:23:00,320 Speaker 2: whole thing is you have to tell them why liked 486 00:23:00,359 --> 00:23:02,520 Speaker 2: this from Bob and Sarah. They said, tell them not 487 00:23:02,560 --> 00:23:04,199 Speaker 2: that we're just going to take things away from you. 488 00:23:04,600 --> 00:23:07,280 Speaker 2: Why are we not allowing you to behave this way? 489 00:23:07,840 --> 00:23:09,479 Speaker 2: And I kind of like that, not that a two 490 00:23:09,560 --> 00:23:13,199 Speaker 2: year old understands, but just sitting down and having a conversation. 491 00:23:13,640 --> 00:23:15,920 Speaker 2: But man, we are in it. It is so hard 492 00:23:15,960 --> 00:23:20,600 Speaker 2: to navigate how much he can comprehend how much we take. 493 00:23:21,400 --> 00:23:23,920 Speaker 2: It's hard because you don't in public want your kids 494 00:23:23,960 --> 00:23:26,480 Speaker 2: to have an absolute mouthdown, but you also don't want 495 00:23:26,520 --> 00:23:30,159 Speaker 2: to reward bad behavior. I'm not interested in doing that because, 496 00:23:30,240 --> 00:23:33,080 Speaker 2: like you just said, I've seen people who play victim. 497 00:23:33,200 --> 00:23:36,000 Speaker 2: I see people who don't work hard. I see people 498 00:23:36,000 --> 00:23:39,280 Speaker 2: who parents gave them everything not doing it. For my kid, yes, 499 00:23:39,400 --> 00:23:41,680 Speaker 2: he's going to have a different lifestyle because his parents 500 00:23:41,720 --> 00:23:43,480 Speaker 2: work their ass off and we can give them that. 501 00:23:43,760 --> 00:23:48,720 Speaker 2: But this kid is going to learn a lot about responsibility, teamwork, discipline, 502 00:23:49,280 --> 00:23:51,239 Speaker 2: being a good kid because I've been around a lot 503 00:23:51,280 --> 00:23:54,040 Speaker 2: of assholes adults and kids, and I'm not doing it. 504 00:23:54,600 --> 00:24:01,640 Speaker 1: You know, you're not vacation, no, but you're not gonna 505 00:24:01,680 --> 00:24:03,520 Speaker 1: let your kid be an asshole. But the other thing too, 506 00:24:03,720 --> 00:24:06,320 Speaker 1: is that when you see the kid like screaming and 507 00:24:06,359 --> 00:24:08,639 Speaker 1: wanting the thing, the parents also just don't want to 508 00:24:08,640 --> 00:24:11,199 Speaker 1: deal with it. So it's like, here, just give him 509 00:24:11,200 --> 00:24:12,520 Speaker 1: the thing and just shut them up kind of a 510 00:24:12,520 --> 00:24:15,320 Speaker 1: deal because you're exhausted and you know whatever. But I 511 00:24:15,359 --> 00:24:18,359 Speaker 1: think the consistency on that is probably like the number 512 00:24:18,400 --> 00:24:20,359 Speaker 1: one like, because then what if you give in to 513 00:24:20,440 --> 00:24:22,800 Speaker 1: your kid, then the kid's like, yeah, I wore her down, 514 00:24:22,880 --> 00:24:26,119 Speaker 1: I'm gonna keep whatever he knows it. I know there's 515 00:24:26,200 --> 00:24:28,480 Speaker 1: I mean, he's only two, but yeah, he knows more 516 00:24:28,520 --> 00:24:31,680 Speaker 1: than you'd probably think. But yeah, anyways, I'm just proud 517 00:24:31,680 --> 00:24:34,679 Speaker 1: of the I was proud to see that parents today 518 00:24:34,720 --> 00:24:37,880 Speaker 1: still say that life isn't fair. That like old school 519 00:24:38,440 --> 00:24:42,080 Speaker 1: mentality of like okay, well yeah, but Johnny Johnny get 520 00:24:42,119 --> 00:24:44,400 Speaker 1: you get one, you know, and like Timmy gets one. 521 00:24:44,440 --> 00:24:46,639 Speaker 2: No, Johnny and Timmy are not the same. If you 522 00:24:46,680 --> 00:24:47,800 Speaker 2: earn it, then you get it. 523 00:24:47,880 --> 00:24:50,560 Speaker 1: If not not today, kid, or save up your allowance 524 00:24:50,600 --> 00:24:51,680 Speaker 1: and you can buy it yourself. 525 00:24:51,720 --> 00:24:54,960 Speaker 2: But yeah, I don't know. I also had a moment. 526 00:24:55,160 --> 00:24:58,199 Speaker 1: My other sort of takeaway from this week that I 527 00:24:58,240 --> 00:25:01,960 Speaker 1: wanted to highlight was gratitu when things are going well 528 00:25:02,200 --> 00:25:03,160 Speaker 1: because I feel like so. 529 00:25:03,280 --> 00:25:05,680 Speaker 2: Often, you know, we want to like and we do. 530 00:25:05,720 --> 00:25:08,520 Speaker 1: This is actually like to bitch about stuff where you're like, oh, 531 00:25:08,600 --> 00:25:10,000 Speaker 1: this didn't happen, and then there was like you know, 532 00:25:10,200 --> 00:25:10,639 Speaker 1: I got you. 533 00:25:10,720 --> 00:25:12,359 Speaker 2: It was in traffic, I was in this, I was 534 00:25:12,400 --> 00:25:14,720 Speaker 2: doing this or whatever. It's like I want to take 535 00:25:14,960 --> 00:25:18,320 Speaker 2: time when think when for example, like my flights, like 536 00:25:18,359 --> 00:25:20,760 Speaker 2: my I was traveling this week and all my flights 537 00:25:20,760 --> 00:25:23,920 Speaker 2: were on time, and I was like, well, let's show 538 00:25:23,960 --> 00:25:27,399 Speaker 2: appreciation for like there wasn't delay, there wasn't whatever, because 539 00:25:27,440 --> 00:25:30,040 Speaker 2: like we're always quick to like highlight when things go wrong. 540 00:25:30,400 --> 00:25:32,760 Speaker 2: I just want to be more mindful when things. 541 00:25:32,520 --> 00:25:34,800 Speaker 1: Go right and to like take that moment to be like, oh, 542 00:25:34,800 --> 00:25:37,119 Speaker 1: look at this, this was just a great day and 543 00:25:37,160 --> 00:25:41,800 Speaker 1: be poly positive because I do believe that psychologically, if 544 00:25:41,800 --> 00:25:45,040 Speaker 1: you're always talking about negative things, it's easy to be 545 00:25:45,280 --> 00:25:48,720 Speaker 1: negative in general and just feel this like weight of negativity. 546 00:25:48,840 --> 00:25:52,399 Speaker 1: So I'm going to for example, like I got to 547 00:25:52,760 --> 00:25:55,040 Speaker 1: my facial today, I still had time to get back 548 00:25:55,080 --> 00:25:56,160 Speaker 1: to make my coffee. 549 00:25:56,440 --> 00:25:58,520 Speaker 2: There wasn't like an accident. 550 00:25:58,080 --> 00:26:00,560 Speaker 1: On the road, but there was just all yeah, I 551 00:26:00,640 --> 00:26:03,920 Speaker 1: just want to take time to recognize and appreciate when 552 00:26:03,960 --> 00:26:06,159 Speaker 1: things go right, because we're always quick to point out 553 00:26:06,200 --> 00:26:09,320 Speaker 1: when they go wrong. So I'm in my gratitude era. 554 00:26:09,560 --> 00:26:12,399 Speaker 1: I'm also in my honesty era. Over the weekend, when 555 00:26:12,400 --> 00:26:14,840 Speaker 1: I was with some friends, I was like just being 556 00:26:14,880 --> 00:26:17,840 Speaker 1: like my whole thing lately is also like I'm not 557 00:26:17,880 --> 00:26:19,280 Speaker 1: going to talk behind your back if I'm going to 558 00:26:19,320 --> 00:26:21,320 Speaker 1: say it to your face, if I really care about you, 559 00:26:21,359 --> 00:26:24,760 Speaker 1: I'm going straight to the source and was I also 560 00:26:24,840 --> 00:26:27,359 Speaker 1: had some tough conversations with some people over the weekend, 561 00:26:27,359 --> 00:26:29,360 Speaker 1: and I'm sure they were probably like, shut up he did, 562 00:26:30,119 --> 00:26:32,760 Speaker 1: but I just yeah, like some couple people that I 563 00:26:32,800 --> 00:26:34,560 Speaker 1: hadn't seen in a while were going through some stuff 564 00:26:34,600 --> 00:26:37,040 Speaker 1: and I just wanted to like be hey, what's happening, 565 00:26:37,080 --> 00:26:39,439 Speaker 1: Like how can I help? Like let's whatever. But then 566 00:26:39,480 --> 00:26:42,640 Speaker 1: I also just went I said some things that other 567 00:26:42,720 --> 00:26:46,120 Speaker 1: people weren't going to say to them, and the other 568 00:26:46,119 --> 00:26:47,639 Speaker 1: people like kind of looked at me like WHOA, I 569 00:26:47,640 --> 00:26:49,880 Speaker 1: can't believe you just said that. But I'm like, I 570 00:26:49,960 --> 00:26:52,800 Speaker 1: don't want to talk behind your back if I'm not 571 00:26:52,800 --> 00:26:54,280 Speaker 1: going to say it to your face. If I really 572 00:26:54,320 --> 00:26:56,480 Speaker 1: do care about you, then you can hate me for 573 00:26:56,560 --> 00:26:58,760 Speaker 1: it in the moment, but hopefully you'll respect me for 574 00:26:58,800 --> 00:27:00,919 Speaker 1: it later, for having the ball to just say it, 575 00:27:00,920 --> 00:27:04,640 Speaker 1: because that's where I'm at. I want people I can 576 00:27:04,720 --> 00:27:07,359 Speaker 1: handle criticism. I mean, we live and work in a 577 00:27:07,440 --> 00:27:09,560 Speaker 1: job for the last twenty years where people criticize us 578 00:27:09,640 --> 00:27:12,040 Speaker 1: all the time, and it's like I can handle that, 579 00:27:12,160 --> 00:27:14,680 Speaker 1: no problem. But as long as the criticism is coming 580 00:27:14,680 --> 00:27:16,439 Speaker 1: from people that I care about, If it's Jimmy and 581 00:27:16,480 --> 00:27:18,479 Speaker 1: his basement, I don't really care about Jimmy and his basement, 582 00:27:18,880 --> 00:27:23,840 Speaker 1: but being open to criticism, working on myself and things 583 00:27:23,840 --> 00:27:25,719 Speaker 1: that I can get better at. But yeah, I just 584 00:27:25,760 --> 00:27:29,240 Speaker 1: believe that going straight to the sources really where I'm at. 585 00:27:29,240 --> 00:27:31,440 Speaker 1: Whether they want to hear it or not, maybe they'll 586 00:27:31,440 --> 00:27:34,960 Speaker 1: appreciate it later. So yeah, gratitude and my honesty era 587 00:27:35,080 --> 00:27:37,560 Speaker 1: is really at the forefront of my life right now. 588 00:27:37,920 --> 00:27:43,000 Speaker 2: I love this. I love this era. Yeah, mine is 589 00:27:43,000 --> 00:27:46,040 Speaker 2: taken deep brath arat not to try to hold it. 590 00:27:46,000 --> 00:27:57,800 Speaker 1: All right here and my good good I love that. Hey, 591 00:27:57,920 --> 00:27:59,360 Speaker 1: before we get out of here, we've got a couple 592 00:27:59,359 --> 00:28:01,840 Speaker 1: of years to do. I would love to do something. 593 00:28:01,960 --> 00:28:08,639 Speaker 2: Yeah, let's go. Okay, dude, we have PSA regarding scammers. 594 00:28:08,640 --> 00:28:12,479 Speaker 2: Remember you talked about scammers. Oh, okay, we have somebody 595 00:28:12,520 --> 00:28:15,480 Speaker 2: that wrote in scams follow up. This is from Jonathan. 596 00:28:15,560 --> 00:28:17,160 Speaker 2: You want to read it. This is long. You're better 597 00:28:17,200 --> 00:28:18,400 Speaker 2: at that. Okay. 598 00:28:18,440 --> 00:28:22,200 Speaker 1: So last week I talked about these scammers are getting 599 00:28:22,240 --> 00:28:24,080 Speaker 1: really good. I got a letter in the mail from Geico. 600 00:28:24,160 --> 00:28:26,000 Speaker 1: I don't even use in Geico insurance, but it looks 601 00:28:26,000 --> 00:28:30,080 Speaker 1: so real. And so Jonathan wrote in here PSA regarding scammers. 602 00:28:30,080 --> 00:28:32,680 Speaker 1: My father in law passed away unexpectedly back in September 603 00:28:32,680 --> 00:28:33,560 Speaker 1: of twenty twenty three. 604 00:28:33,600 --> 00:28:34,400 Speaker 2: I'm so sorry. 605 00:28:34,720 --> 00:28:36,639 Speaker 1: A few days after he passed, someone reached out and 606 00:28:36,680 --> 00:28:39,040 Speaker 1: called my mother in law from the funeral home looking 607 00:28:39,080 --> 00:28:42,040 Speaker 1: to collect payment for his funeral and cremation costs. She 608 00:28:42,160 --> 00:28:44,520 Speaker 1: ended up sending them twenty five hundred dollars via Apple 609 00:28:44,560 --> 00:28:47,920 Speaker 1: pay before talking to anyone in the family first. Come 610 00:28:47,960 --> 00:28:50,720 Speaker 1: to find out it was a scumbag scammer from an 611 00:28:50,720 --> 00:28:52,800 Speaker 1: owner phone that we had no way of tracking, and 612 00:28:52,840 --> 00:28:55,520 Speaker 1: she never got the money back. Pso PSA. If there 613 00:28:55,600 --> 00:28:58,640 Speaker 1: is apparently a common thing where people awful people's scour 614 00:28:58,720 --> 00:29:02,400 Speaker 1: obituaries and try to take advantage of grieving significant others, 615 00:29:02,440 --> 00:29:05,320 Speaker 1: always avoid paying when someone calls you hang up and 616 00:29:05,360 --> 00:29:09,000 Speaker 1: call the business directly. Oh my god. Well, first of all, Johnathan, 617 00:29:09,120 --> 00:29:12,480 Speaker 1: thanks so because we talked about this. We're like, they'll, 618 00:29:12,760 --> 00:29:17,480 Speaker 1: you know, older generations that like don't understand that this 619 00:29:17,520 --> 00:29:19,800 Speaker 1: could actually be real, like the letter that you get 620 00:29:19,800 --> 00:29:21,480 Speaker 1: in the mail or the phone call, and you're like, oh, 621 00:29:21,520 --> 00:29:23,680 Speaker 1: I don't want to have an outstanding bound, but how 622 00:29:23,760 --> 00:29:26,440 Speaker 1: awful is that? Like you're dealing with the loss of 623 00:29:26,480 --> 00:29:28,400 Speaker 1: someone and so obviously you're not your head's not in 624 00:29:28,440 --> 00:29:31,200 Speaker 1: the right place, and you're just like, so, yeah, that's 625 00:29:31,280 --> 00:29:33,560 Speaker 1: just kind of something I've been noticing a lot late, 626 00:29:33,600 --> 00:29:36,200 Speaker 1: and these scammers and with AI and everything else, it's 627 00:29:36,240 --> 00:29:39,080 Speaker 1: getting so real, and I feel bad because if you 628 00:29:39,160 --> 00:29:41,520 Speaker 1: do have an outstanding balance on something, you don't want 629 00:29:41,520 --> 00:29:43,640 Speaker 1: to be delinquent in it. But then you're also like, 630 00:29:43,680 --> 00:29:46,560 Speaker 1: in my is this actually going to the real thing? 631 00:29:46,640 --> 00:29:49,080 Speaker 1: So that's a good piece of advice. Don't obviously ever 632 00:29:49,120 --> 00:29:52,400 Speaker 1: pay over the phone and then just call the business directly. 633 00:29:52,440 --> 00:29:54,680 Speaker 1: But even in that Geico thing that I got it, 634 00:29:54,680 --> 00:29:57,200 Speaker 1: it had a line that you could call directly, and 635 00:29:57,240 --> 00:29:58,320 Speaker 1: I knew that wasn't real. 636 00:29:58,680 --> 00:29:59,360 Speaker 2: So just ask. 637 00:29:59,480 --> 00:30:02,400 Speaker 1: Don't be so quick to just like, you know, pay something, 638 00:30:02,560 --> 00:30:04,560 Speaker 1: ask the follow up questions or like in my case, 639 00:30:04,560 --> 00:30:06,280 Speaker 1: I have an insurance guy and I'm like, hey, do 640 00:30:06,360 --> 00:30:09,840 Speaker 1: we what's going on here? So asking questions before you 641 00:30:09,960 --> 00:30:13,680 Speaker 1: just fork over the money. But thank you Jonathan for that. PSA, Oh, 642 00:30:13,760 --> 00:30:17,280 Speaker 1: I am on a real mersade to help mitigate these scammers, 643 00:30:17,320 --> 00:30:20,000 Speaker 1: because yeah, not on my watch, not today. 644 00:30:20,040 --> 00:30:22,520 Speaker 2: Folks feel so bad for these people. 645 00:30:23,200 --> 00:30:25,720 Speaker 1: I know, Okay some of the headlines, which one do 646 00:30:25,720 --> 00:30:27,760 Speaker 1: you want to get into girl let's do the Korean 647 00:30:27,840 --> 00:30:32,000 Speaker 1: botox because everybody knows it. Around about this time last year, 648 00:30:32,480 --> 00:30:35,400 Speaker 1: I decided to take it upon myself to watch these 649 00:30:35,440 --> 00:30:39,920 Speaker 1: TikTok videos try this Korean skincare. Apparently my mix wasn't 650 00:30:39,920 --> 00:30:40,800 Speaker 1: great with my skin. 651 00:30:41,000 --> 00:30:43,880 Speaker 2: I ended up having to get on three antibiotics because 652 00:30:43,960 --> 00:30:48,960 Speaker 2: I had massive acne, which wasn't cute. Okay, so what's 653 00:30:49,560 --> 00:30:51,720 Speaker 2: what do we think? This is called? Inno talks in 654 00:30:51,800 --> 00:30:54,880 Speaker 2: a talx? Sure? What is in a talx? People on 655 00:30:54,920 --> 00:30:59,640 Speaker 2: social media are self injecting Korean botox at home. Sounds 656 00:30:59,680 --> 00:31:02,040 Speaker 2: like some Chris and I would try, and sounds like 657 00:31:02,080 --> 00:31:05,280 Speaker 2: something we shouldn't try. Surprise, I haven't. It's a trend 658 00:31:05,320 --> 00:31:09,200 Speaker 2: of people purchasing inotos made by a Korean company and 659 00:31:09,320 --> 00:31:12,720 Speaker 2: also referred to as Korean botox or k botox from 660 00:31:12,800 --> 00:31:16,360 Speaker 2: third party retailers, which is never good online, in an 661 00:31:16,400 --> 00:31:20,280 Speaker 2: effort to smooth crows feet and brow lines on a budget. 662 00:31:20,800 --> 00:31:22,920 Speaker 2: I got to tell you this sounds like such a 663 00:31:22,920 --> 00:31:23,560 Speaker 2: bad idea. 664 00:31:23,720 --> 00:31:27,840 Speaker 1: I ew, okay, yeah, but I'm shocked that I haven't 665 00:31:27,880 --> 00:31:29,440 Speaker 1: done it, So we need to be careful about that. 666 00:31:29,680 --> 00:31:32,880 Speaker 2: Would you dare? No, let's not. Let's not be. 667 00:31:32,920 --> 00:31:34,719 Speaker 1: I don't think we should be doing anything with like 668 00:31:35,120 --> 00:31:38,280 Speaker 1: injecting needles. I mean, look, I know you've had to 669 00:31:38,280 --> 00:31:41,560 Speaker 1: do it for infertility before, but that's also scary when 670 00:31:41,600 --> 00:31:44,480 Speaker 1: you're like given needles at home and like, oh good luck, 671 00:31:44,520 --> 00:31:46,120 Speaker 1: go do this, but in. 672 00:31:46,080 --> 00:31:49,160 Speaker 2: Your face and stuff. I know. Okay, So Molly O. Rourke, 673 00:31:49,240 --> 00:31:53,680 Speaker 2: a registered nurse and nurse injector, told today dot Com 674 00:31:53,920 --> 00:31:56,960 Speaker 2: it's just really not something that you could learn comprehensively 675 00:31:57,000 --> 00:32:01,080 Speaker 2: yourself online as a lay person. They're showing injection points. 676 00:32:01,080 --> 00:32:04,600 Speaker 2: This is I'm assuming on TikTok over your thyroid and 677 00:32:04,640 --> 00:32:08,120 Speaker 2: over muscles that help you breathe. If you go too deep, 678 00:32:08,200 --> 00:32:10,960 Speaker 2: you're going to affect your breathing. That sort of thing 679 00:32:11,200 --> 00:32:13,760 Speaker 2: really freaks me out. Yeah, let's not do that. 680 00:32:14,000 --> 00:32:16,479 Speaker 1: I'm just worried about a bad brow. I've had an 681 00:32:16,480 --> 00:32:19,400 Speaker 1: injector before, which like I had last year too, and 682 00:32:19,480 --> 00:32:21,760 Speaker 1: it was like one was going up this direction and 683 00:32:21,800 --> 00:32:23,479 Speaker 1: then the other one. I'm like, okay, let's just keep 684 00:32:23,560 --> 00:32:26,200 Speaker 1: these bad boys on an even playing field here, because 685 00:32:26,240 --> 00:32:28,040 Speaker 1: there are think about all the muscles in your face. 686 00:32:28,080 --> 00:32:29,960 Speaker 1: I know this when I got Bell's palsy from the 687 00:32:29,960 --> 00:32:32,960 Speaker 1: stress in my life. There are so many muscles in 688 00:32:33,000 --> 00:32:35,800 Speaker 1: your face, and if you hit the wrong muscle, I 689 00:32:35,840 --> 00:32:37,560 Speaker 1: mean you even say like sometimes that people start to 690 00:32:37,600 --> 00:32:40,240 Speaker 1: talking sideways and shit goes wrong. So just keep the 691 00:32:40,320 --> 00:32:42,920 Speaker 1: needles away from your face, unless it's administered by a 692 00:32:42,920 --> 00:32:47,800 Speaker 1: professional that you've actually vetted. Next headline, Oh God, here's 693 00:32:47,840 --> 00:32:50,520 Speaker 1: the nasty reason why you should never trust the plastic 694 00:32:50,640 --> 00:32:53,640 Speaker 1: hygiene liners on bathing suits. When it comes to swimwhere shopping, 695 00:32:53,680 --> 00:32:55,600 Speaker 1: one of the worst things you can do is try on. 696 00:32:55,600 --> 00:33:02,040 Speaker 2: A suit fully nude. Who's doing that? No tiny underwear? 697 00:33:02,280 --> 00:33:05,400 Speaker 1: Like come on, well, I know, although bathing suit bottoms 698 00:33:05,480 --> 00:33:09,080 Speaker 1: usually have a plastic hygiene liner, which again has been 699 00:33:09,120 --> 00:33:12,680 Speaker 1: trying if someone's trying this on naked, it's that that 700 00:33:12,960 --> 00:33:15,960 Speaker 1: said liner's also been touched by other people that are naked. 701 00:33:16,080 --> 00:33:16,440 Speaker 2: Gross. 702 00:33:16,680 --> 00:33:19,880 Speaker 1: Nicholas I Chair a scientist from Chicago. He took it 703 00:33:19,920 --> 00:33:23,000 Speaker 1: upon himself to swab the plastic seal two different bathing 704 00:33:23,000 --> 00:33:25,440 Speaker 1: suit bottoms that hung in a retail store and place 705 00:33:25,480 --> 00:33:27,280 Speaker 1: them into a peatrie dish and see what kind of 706 00:33:27,280 --> 00:33:29,040 Speaker 1: bacteria lives on them. The moral of the story is 707 00:33:29,040 --> 00:33:31,960 Speaker 1: always try on bathing suits with some sort of barrier. Yeah, 708 00:33:32,040 --> 00:33:34,719 Speaker 1: I hope everyone knew that. But if not, let's not 709 00:33:34,800 --> 00:33:37,520 Speaker 1: be trying on bathing suits without underwear on. 710 00:33:37,640 --> 00:33:39,400 Speaker 2: I feel like this is something I learned at a 711 00:33:39,520 --> 00:33:40,320 Speaker 2: very young age. 712 00:33:40,440 --> 00:33:42,920 Speaker 1: No, I know, I know, but you know what, Look, 713 00:33:42,960 --> 00:33:47,160 Speaker 1: we're out here to help people with scammers and banial liners. 714 00:33:47,480 --> 00:33:50,960 Speaker 2: Hey here's another thing. You know what I hate? And yes, 715 00:33:51,120 --> 00:33:53,440 Speaker 2: like I use a piece of tissue. I hate taking 716 00:33:53,480 --> 00:33:55,440 Speaker 2: it off. Then you got to roll it up and 717 00:33:55,480 --> 00:33:57,800 Speaker 2: it's sticky and thrown it out. I want that thing 718 00:33:57,920 --> 00:34:00,200 Speaker 2: out of my life. You gotta take it all off. 719 00:34:00,240 --> 00:34:03,440 Speaker 2: The bathing seal. I hadn't thought about that. Oh, I guess. 720 00:34:03,480 --> 00:34:07,720 Speaker 2: I guess they make the disposal very difficult. And then 721 00:34:07,840 --> 00:34:10,560 Speaker 2: like sometimes you think you hit the can and you didn't, 722 00:34:10,600 --> 00:34:13,680 Speaker 2: and now it's on the floor and you're grabbing another 723 00:34:13,719 --> 00:34:16,399 Speaker 2: piece and sometimes it hits you. It's just a whole thing. 724 00:34:16,920 --> 00:34:19,799 Speaker 1: Oh no, this is okay, all right? So yeah, I 725 00:34:19,800 --> 00:34:22,080 Speaker 1: hadn't thought about the disposal part. But yeah, there we go, 726 00:34:22,200 --> 00:34:23,560 Speaker 1: last but not least hit it. 727 00:34:23,560 --> 00:34:26,879 Speaker 2: Girl, God, this kid's close to home. Five year old 728 00:34:26,960 --> 00:34:31,319 Speaker 2: goes on a three thousand dollars online shopping spree while 729 00:34:31,400 --> 00:34:35,800 Speaker 2: parents are asleep. Currently on the phone, crying to Amazon. 730 00:34:36,239 --> 00:34:38,080 Speaker 2: Parents of a little five year old boy learned the 731 00:34:38,160 --> 00:34:41,600 Speaker 2: hard way to never leave their child unattended with their phone. 732 00:34:41,680 --> 00:34:45,240 Speaker 2: After waking up to an over three thousand dollars Amazon 733 00:34:45,320 --> 00:34:49,360 Speaker 2: bill Jeff that they didn't make the little mom's The 734 00:34:49,400 --> 00:34:52,640 Speaker 2: little shopper's mom captioned her video and casually had another 735 00:34:52,719 --> 00:34:55,680 Speaker 2: seven hundred dollars of items in the cart ready to 736 00:34:55,800 --> 00:34:58,719 Speaker 2: check out before we caught him. I'm currently on the 737 00:34:58,760 --> 00:35:00,880 Speaker 2: phone and crying to Amazon. My husband is on the 738 00:35:00,880 --> 00:35:04,920 Speaker 2: phone crying with our bank. Oh God, this is something 739 00:35:04,960 --> 00:35:08,160 Speaker 2: I'm gonna say. My two year old, he does not 740 00:35:08,440 --> 00:35:11,880 Speaker 2: he we do not allow him to have a phone. 741 00:35:11,960 --> 00:35:14,799 Speaker 2: If there's times of need, like on a plane, in 742 00:35:14,840 --> 00:35:17,480 Speaker 2: a restaurant, when he's about to lose it, we'll shove 743 00:35:17,520 --> 00:35:21,560 Speaker 2: on some sort of like Disney Show, Miss Rachel Elmo 744 00:35:21,800 --> 00:35:26,160 Speaker 2: for him to watch. The problem is this kid, it's amazing. 745 00:35:26,320 --> 00:35:29,640 Speaker 2: It's amazing what they're able to do. He sees me 746 00:35:30,280 --> 00:35:33,240 Speaker 2: using my phone, which is a lot. Unfortunately, he sees 747 00:35:33,280 --> 00:35:35,680 Speaker 2: me using the iPad. My kid loves music. I just 748 00:35:35,719 --> 00:35:39,359 Speaker 2: spin everywhere. My kid loves music. We do, you know, 749 00:35:39,560 --> 00:35:42,200 Speaker 2: Disney In the morning, we'll do some of our jams 750 00:35:43,680 --> 00:35:46,720 Speaker 2: to let him have fun. He sees us hit jams. 751 00:35:47,000 --> 00:35:51,839 Speaker 2: He sees us hit Spotify. This kid knows Spotify. Our 752 00:35:51,960 --> 00:35:55,799 Speaker 2: nanny has an Apple Watch. Last night at dinner, he 753 00:35:56,000 --> 00:35:58,239 Speaker 2: was playing around with it. She goes, he knew Spotify. 754 00:35:58,600 --> 00:36:02,280 Speaker 2: This kid, no, it's insane. He knows how to flip, 755 00:36:02,320 --> 00:36:03,920 Speaker 2: he knows how to get out of it. Of course 756 00:36:04,000 --> 00:36:07,120 Speaker 2: she doesn't have a phone. Yeah, so I could see 757 00:36:07,120 --> 00:36:10,240 Speaker 2: this happening. Absolutely, do not leave her phone with your child. 758 00:36:10,600 --> 00:36:15,040 Speaker 2: We have a friend in California and she was around 759 00:36:15,080 --> 00:36:17,680 Speaker 2: my kid at a farmer's market. She gave her phone 760 00:36:17,920 --> 00:36:19,640 Speaker 2: to my kid. He locked her out of it. 761 00:36:20,160 --> 00:36:22,440 Speaker 1: Oh right, because he's trying to get in and doesn't 762 00:36:22,440 --> 00:36:24,560 Speaker 1: know the pass code. So it's like, yeah, i'll give 763 00:36:24,560 --> 00:36:26,840 Speaker 1: it ten minutes. Now we're waiting four hours. 764 00:36:26,920 --> 00:36:31,920 Speaker 2: Disney Channel on Chinese yesterday, Like, it's just a lot happening. 765 00:36:32,160 --> 00:36:33,120 Speaker 2: His bad lingual. 766 00:36:34,000 --> 00:36:37,000 Speaker 1: I easily could see how that could happen, especially with 767 00:36:37,040 --> 00:36:39,280 Speaker 1: an Apple Pay where it's a double click situation. 768 00:36:39,480 --> 00:36:40,759 Speaker 2: Although the face, I. 769 00:36:42,680 --> 00:36:44,520 Speaker 1: Don't know what the issue or how do we get 770 00:36:44,560 --> 00:36:47,160 Speaker 1: around that, But yeah, these little fuckers are so hard 771 00:36:47,239 --> 00:36:49,319 Speaker 1: they'll figure out how to do it. I feel for 772 00:36:49,360 --> 00:36:53,560 Speaker 1: these parents though exactly, let's go back to that, Scott Thompson. 773 00:36:53,719 --> 00:36:57,880 Speaker 1: But yeah, and then of course you're calling Amazon or 774 00:36:57,920 --> 00:36:59,800 Speaker 1: your comment and they're like, oh, sure the kid did it, 775 00:36:59,840 --> 00:37:01,920 Speaker 1: but you're like, look at what they're buying. 776 00:37:02,280 --> 00:37:05,000 Speaker 2: Go I did it. It was me. I was wasted. 777 00:37:07,160 --> 00:37:07,800 Speaker 2: That's funny. 778 00:37:08,719 --> 00:37:10,840 Speaker 1: All right, kids, Well, we love you, thank you for 779 00:37:10,920 --> 00:37:14,279 Speaker 1: listening more. All of the story is we need to 780 00:37:14,280 --> 00:37:16,840 Speaker 1: get on the ritz, Carlton cruise. We're very grateful for 781 00:37:16,880 --> 00:37:20,480 Speaker 1: our lives. Life is not fair. Aaron's taking on pickleball 782 00:37:20,719 --> 00:37:21,800 Speaker 1: like a champ. 783 00:37:21,560 --> 00:37:26,239 Speaker 2: And therapy is going well, and my skin's never been clear. 784 00:37:26,680 --> 00:37:33,600 Speaker 2: Love you look great, so quoe. One more Hour Calm 785 00:37:33,640 --> 00:37:36,720 Speaker 2: Down with Aaron and Carissa is a production of iHeartRadio. 786 00:37:36,920 --> 00:37:40,160 Speaker 1: For more podcasts from iHeart Radio, visit the iHeartRadio app, 787 00:37:40,320 --> 00:37:45,400 Speaker 1: Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.