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You know, I don't know why they 0:02:50.000 --> 0:02:52.920 dropped the Hollywood part of it, but Access, Yeah, just 0:02:53.000 --> 0:02:55.760 Access now. I because I was on Access a couple 0:02:55.760 --> 0:02:58.400 of weeks ago doing a Bachelor recap and I said 0:02:58.400 --> 0:03:01.480 Access Hollywood and they shun. You know, I said it 0:03:01.520 --> 0:03:05.079 to my fiance Ashley. She's like, it's Access and I 0:03:05.120 --> 0:03:06.639 was like, oh, I I guess I never noticed the 0:03:06.680 --> 0:03:10.359 Hollywood drop off. I've actually ran into actually quite a 0:03:10.360 --> 0:03:12.640 few times there. Okay, we we we talked in the 0:03:12.680 --> 0:03:14.680 green room. We talked all about you, behind your bad 0:03:15.400 --> 0:03:17.799 all bad things. I just don't believe a word she 0:03:17.880 --> 0:03:20.760 has to say about me. So, Dax, tell us a 0:03:20.760 --> 0:03:23.560 little bit about yourself. I know, I you know, gave 0:03:23.600 --> 0:03:25.679 a little intro, but give us a little bit more 0:03:25.720 --> 0:03:28.919 in detail about you and and your background. Yes, so 0:03:29.080 --> 0:03:31.560 you know. Obviously I was at TMZ for twelve years 0:03:31.639 --> 0:03:33.360 and then I decided I just needed to change in 0:03:33.400 --> 0:03:35.120 my life. I had been there. It had been a 0:03:35.200 --> 0:03:38.520 great ride. I was there from like literally day one 0:03:38.680 --> 0:03:41.600 before anyone even knew what the hell TMZ was too, 0:03:42.200 --> 0:03:44.680 the rise of TMZ and breaking some of the biggest 0:03:44.680 --> 0:03:47.119 stories in Hollywood, and then I just like, I need 0:03:47.120 --> 0:03:49.800 to change in my life, and so left there. Then 0:03:49.800 --> 0:03:53.240 I did the Live with Kelly competition, Remember that. Yeah, 0:03:53.320 --> 0:03:55.840 that was it was fun. It was just so different 0:03:56.000 --> 0:03:58.560 from the TMZ world to then go, you know, to 0:03:58.720 --> 0:04:02.160 this huge ABC show and they have got an audience, 0:04:02.200 --> 0:04:04.800 and so that was really fun. Came in second place there, 0:04:05.280 --> 0:04:08.600 and then some unknown guy named Ryan Seacrest got the gig. 0:04:08.720 --> 0:04:13.240 Who is that guy, How did he beat you out? Uh? No, 0:04:13.440 --> 0:04:16.280 I I love Ryan, So I'm very very happy for Ryan. 0:04:16.360 --> 0:04:20.359 Is is really good at his job, so good. I 0:04:20.440 --> 0:04:22.480 was just thinking about him before coming on. How does 0:04:22.520 --> 0:04:25.360 he have time to record all this stuff? And then 0:04:25.360 --> 0:04:28.279 he also has like a segmentment of Montreal and on 0:04:28.400 --> 0:04:30.800 Virgin Radio. How does he have time in the day? 0:04:31.080 --> 0:04:34.919 Is he in a relationship? Yes? Here's the thing that 0:04:34.960 --> 0:04:38.560 I don't think people realize how like how much this 0:04:38.640 --> 0:04:42.440 guy works. Is he's literally filming the Live with Kelly show, 0:04:42.520 --> 0:04:44.560 Live with Ryan and Kelly, and then he'll get on 0:04:44.600 --> 0:04:47.520 a plane and fly back and do American Idol, then 0:04:47.560 --> 0:04:51.599 fly back over there. It's it's unbelievable. He's the hardest 0:04:51.640 --> 0:04:54.440 working person in entertainment. And he does radio with Tanya 0:04:54.480 --> 0:04:56.080 in the morning, I mean Mark and he seen you 0:04:56.120 --> 0:04:58.440 guys are here for that. So he does morning radio, 0:04:58.520 --> 0:05:00.600 He does Live with Kelly, He flies to American Issle, 0:05:00.680 --> 0:05:02.920 he does all these different events. I would say, so 0:05:03.600 --> 0:05:07.080 long story short, you finishing second to him? That's pretty 0:05:09.040 --> 0:05:12.440 I'm okay with that. I'm sorry. So it's so continued anyway, 0:05:12.520 --> 0:05:14.760 So then uh, I decided that I wanted to start 0:05:14.800 --> 0:05:16.440 up my own thing. Really, it came down to I 0:05:16.800 --> 0:05:19.360 have a lot of experience and breaking news over many, 0:05:19.360 --> 0:05:22.120 many years, and I had a lot of contacts still 0:05:22.160 --> 0:05:25.480 hitting me up with information and stories and all this, 0:05:25.560 --> 0:05:29.040 and so I created the Hollywood Pipeline. It's Hollywood Pipeline 0:05:29.080 --> 0:05:32.480 dot Com, along with a podcast. And I explained it 0:05:32.520 --> 0:05:35.600 to people is I'm not trying to beat TMZ. That's 0:05:35.640 --> 0:05:37.600 not what I'm trying to do. I I see it 0:05:37.680 --> 0:05:41.520 as TMZ and Instagram had a little baby, and that 0:05:41.680 --> 0:05:44.800 is what the tipe is. So it's all visual content. 0:05:44.960 --> 0:05:48.520 It's photos, it's videos. We've actually covered you guys quite 0:05:48.520 --> 0:05:51.800 a few times. Well I appreciate that, thank you. Um 0:05:51.920 --> 0:05:54.200 and and it's just a place for people to go 0:05:54.320 --> 0:05:57.200 to get lost and and look through paparazzi photos or 0:05:57.240 --> 0:05:59.760 red carpets or whatever. I mean. Like the other day 0:05:59.800 --> 0:06:02.400 I put up an exclusive set of Selena Gomez on 0:06:02.440 --> 0:06:07.240 the beach down in Mexico, and people look, exactly are 0:06:07.960 --> 0:06:10.960 we had this exclusive? And then um, yeah, I do 0:06:11.000 --> 0:06:13.560 a lot of set photos. So like a big, you know, 0:06:13.800 --> 0:06:16.640 Marvel movie is coming out, I'll normally release photos of 0:06:16.680 --> 0:06:19.680 them shooting the movie, which people go insane about. I 0:06:19.720 --> 0:06:22.600 am one of those people that go insane for set photos. 0:06:22.640 --> 0:06:27.240 I've googled Avengers Endgames set photos to just see and 0:06:27.279 --> 0:06:30.640 I've seen some with Captain America and Robert down to Jr. 0:06:31.320 --> 0:06:32.840 Making it look like they were going back to the 0:06:32.839 --> 0:06:35.920 two dozen twelve Avengers possible time travel. Anyway, I'm one 0:06:35.920 --> 0:06:39.160 of those people. So you're I'm your speaking to you exactly. 0:06:39.200 --> 0:06:41.120 And then like we got a lot of traffic off 0:06:41.160 --> 0:06:44.479 the Joker film set we were filming, Like when Joaquin 0:06:44.520 --> 0:06:46.480 Phoenix was out there filming all this stuff in New York, 0:06:46.480 --> 0:06:49.240 people were going nuts over it. Just like millions of 0:06:49.320 --> 0:06:51.839 views on YouTube to watch him running through the streets. 0:06:51.960 --> 0:06:54.760 I've watched that video numerous times. Was was it the one? 0:06:54.800 --> 0:06:57.480 Who are he trips over himself? I had like nineteen videos, 0:06:57.520 --> 0:07:01.120 I mean, but they're the tripping one in the Crane station. Yeah, 0:07:01.320 --> 0:07:02.600 if you want to see him, if you haven't seen 0:07:02.680 --> 0:07:04.960 him yet, it's on the Hollywood Pipelines YouTube page. Well, 0:07:04.960 --> 0:07:07.719 the Joker is such a fascinating character, which is why 0:07:07.760 --> 0:07:10.400 we'll keep doing what you're doing because you're killing the game. 0:07:10.800 --> 0:07:13.240 So how did you get involved in TMZ in the 0:07:13.240 --> 0:07:15.360 first place? Did you go to school for journalism and 0:07:15.400 --> 0:07:18.000 then so I, yeah, I went to school for radio 0:07:18.040 --> 0:07:20.960 TV Film down at cal State Fullerton, and then I 0:07:21.040 --> 0:07:23.120 just I had to do an internship. So I ended 0:07:23.160 --> 0:07:28.120 up working with Extra the other entertainment show and TMZ 0:07:28.240 --> 0:07:31.520 and Extra sister companies. And Harvey was working upstairs and 0:07:31.520 --> 0:07:34.840 it was he was creating this unknown website at the time, 0:07:35.240 --> 0:07:37.600 and walked in, put out my hands, said hey, I 0:07:38.240 --> 0:07:41.080 hear that you're looking for for people or you need 0:07:41.360 --> 0:07:43.840 interns or whatever, and is there anything I can do 0:07:43.880 --> 0:07:45.120 for you? And he sent me out on the red 0:07:45.160 --> 0:07:50.160 carpet literally that weekend. I do remember what red carpet 0:07:50.240 --> 0:07:52.320 it was. It was a peta event. It was a 0:07:52.360 --> 0:07:55.560 pet event. Um where was that at? I think it 0:07:55.600 --> 0:07:59.240 was at Paramount Studios. And I went and I was 0:07:59.320 --> 0:08:02.679 on crutches at the time because I had busted both 0:08:02.680 --> 0:08:05.960 of my ankles doing a gymnastics trick and literally popped 0:08:05.960 --> 0:08:08.400 out both of them. So I was double like cast 0:08:08.440 --> 0:08:12.080 it up on crutches, gimp down to this red carpet 0:08:12.600 --> 0:08:15.200 and and everyone started to come up and talk to me. 0:08:15.200 --> 0:08:16.880 I don't know if they felt bad for me or 0:08:16.920 --> 0:08:19.160 what the case was, but Pam Anderson talked to me, 0:08:19.200 --> 0:08:21.440 and I was at the very very end, and you 0:08:21.440 --> 0:08:24.080 guys know doing like red carpets want, you get halfway down, 0:08:24.120 --> 0:08:25.880 you kind of get over right and you kind of like, 0:08:26.280 --> 0:08:27.920 I don't really care about these people, and you move 0:08:27.960 --> 0:08:30.280 on a lot of it's the same questions. It's it's 0:08:30.360 --> 0:08:32.400 more of the same. So these poor people that are 0:08:32.600 --> 0:08:34.040 at the end of the carpet, they get no one, 0:08:34.080 --> 0:08:36.880 they get no love. I am at the very end, 0:08:37.360 --> 0:08:41.200 and it's literally like Pink comes over to me. Kristin Cavalarry, 0:08:41.200 --> 0:08:43.880 who was the biggest deal at that time, because I 0:08:43.920 --> 0:08:47.240 was right when like Laguna Beach was massive. She comes over, 0:08:47.320 --> 0:08:50.679 Dennis Rodman and I just sat there and everyone started 0:08:50.679 --> 0:08:52.880 talking to me. And I come back and Harvey's like, well, 0:08:52.960 --> 0:08:54.480 I think I need you a part of my team. 0:08:55.120 --> 0:08:57.160 And I literally handed in my resume that day and 0:08:57.160 --> 0:08:58.320 you ripped it up and throw it in the trash. 0:08:58.320 --> 0:09:00.800 You didn't even look at it, and you on the spot. 0:09:01.600 --> 0:09:03.640 I feel like that's such a testament to people who 0:09:04.280 --> 0:09:08.040 wanna People are so afraid of being rejected. But you 0:09:08.120 --> 0:09:09.600 just went in there, You shook his hand and you 0:09:09.600 --> 0:09:12.600 asked him, you know, like do you need someone period. 0:09:12.640 --> 0:09:14.480 You're even offering to do it for free to be 0:09:14.520 --> 0:09:16.280 an intern. So I think that's just a testament, like 0:09:16.360 --> 0:09:19.280 just be afraid of failure because you never know where 0:09:19.280 --> 0:09:20.640 how you'll get ahead. And I feel like you have 0:09:20.679 --> 0:09:24.120 such a great or about you. You're always smiling, um, 0:09:24.160 --> 0:09:26.520 so like you attract I guess that's what people were 0:09:26.559 --> 0:09:28.560 attracted to. You have such a great energy about you. 0:09:28.760 --> 0:09:31.560 But since you so, since you worked on TMZ, you 0:09:31.600 --> 0:09:34.679 have Hollywood pipeline now, um, and you know, I know 0:09:34.720 --> 0:09:37.240 how Jared wants to talk about the oscars and stuff. 0:09:37.440 --> 0:09:40.000 So I was actually thinking Julia Roberts a huge fan 0:09:40.080 --> 0:09:44.560 of hers. I'm obsessed. She's beautiful and you never ever 0:09:44.600 --> 0:09:47.440 see her being photographed with her husband because sometimes I 0:09:47.480 --> 0:09:49.880 forget that she's actually married to someone. And so I 0:09:49.960 --> 0:09:53.480 was thinking of since this is a relationship podcast, and 0:09:53.559 --> 0:09:55.400 a lot of our followers do have Instagram, and they 0:09:55.440 --> 0:09:58.600 do follow us on Instagram, and they look up to 0:09:59.520 --> 0:10:02.920 couple who are out in the media or in the spotlight, 0:10:03.160 --> 0:10:06.080 So hashtag couple girls, people like Christy Teagan and John 0:10:06.160 --> 0:10:10.480 Legend who are like fully out there um exposing their relationship. 0:10:10.559 --> 0:10:14.079 Blake Lively Reynolds, uh Ryan Reynolds. But any have people 0:10:14.080 --> 0:10:16.840 like Julia Robinson and her husband, You never hear any 0:10:16.920 --> 0:10:19.760 of their stories that are happening, uh in their personal 0:10:20.880 --> 0:10:25.400 uh marriage. What would you give? What kind of advice 0:10:25.440 --> 0:10:28.680 would you give to our listeners who are in a 0:10:28.720 --> 0:10:32.920 committed relationship, um and want to expose a relationship on 0:10:33.040 --> 0:10:37.680 social media? Well, my advice to that, yeah, like you know, 0:10:37.720 --> 0:10:43.280 like what to share it? Yeah, just click the share 0:10:43.320 --> 0:10:46.360 button and it's past. You're fine. I think you know 0:10:46.440 --> 0:10:49.760 what Julia Roberts, She's just been a very private person 0:10:49.840 --> 0:10:52.520 her you know, she's been such a big star that 0:10:52.960 --> 0:10:56.319 I think that she guards her relationship and her children's 0:10:56.320 --> 0:10:58.960 privacy and all of that. So that's why, you know, 0:10:59.000 --> 0:11:00.920 you can be a big star in Hollywood and never 0:11:00.960 --> 0:11:04.040 get photographed. And that's you just you don't go to 0:11:04.120 --> 0:11:06.880 the Craigs restaurants of l A. And you don't go 0:11:06.960 --> 0:11:08.640 to these places. But I mean, Craigs is so good. 0:11:08.720 --> 0:11:11.120 Have you ever tried their chuffle pizza? I haven't been there, 0:11:11.160 --> 0:11:15.120 but I've heard it's amazing. But it's it's she avoids 0:11:15.320 --> 0:11:17.440 going out where she knows paparazzi you're gonna take her 0:11:17.440 --> 0:11:20.200 photo and she doesn't have social media, and she so 0:11:20.240 --> 0:11:22.880 there's she's picked a different life. For people that actually 0:11:23.080 --> 0:11:25.920 want that attention or want to express that they are 0:11:25.960 --> 0:11:29.199 with someone and that they they like saying I'm with 0:11:29.400 --> 0:11:31.559 so and so, I say, share as much as you want, 0:11:31.920 --> 0:11:33.800 you know, to put it out there for the people. 0:11:33.840 --> 0:11:35.880 And at the end of the day, what's the worst 0:11:35.880 --> 0:11:38.800 gonna happen? You break up and you got to delete 0:11:38.800 --> 0:11:41.080 the photos. But at least during that moment, people saw 0:11:41.120 --> 0:11:43.520 how happy you were. Right, yeah, Well, I think it's 0:11:43.559 --> 0:11:46.480 people just put their best self forward on social media. 0:11:47.559 --> 0:11:50.560 And so for me, I want to make sure I'm 0:11:50.559 --> 0:11:52.959 in a relationship now, and I'm trying. I'm like, I'll 0:11:53.000 --> 0:11:55.480 post a picture now and here and there, but I'm 0:11:55.520 --> 0:11:58.160 not over the top posting pictures of our relationship because 0:11:58.160 --> 0:12:00.920 I feel like it's so import tend to have to 0:12:01.040 --> 0:12:05.600 preserve that part of your relationship signific Another. You also 0:12:05.640 --> 0:12:08.560 went from a very high profile relationship where you had 0:12:08.600 --> 0:12:11.560 that you didn't have to post anything because everyone knew 0:12:11.600 --> 0:12:14.559 your relationship. So I think maybe you're looking at it 0:12:14.600 --> 0:12:17.080 now is like I've gone through a super high profile 0:12:17.080 --> 0:12:19.679 relationship and how do I change that and do something 0:12:19.720 --> 0:12:22.880 A little different because maybe this would work better for me. Yeah. Well, 0:12:22.880 --> 0:12:25.080 I think it's also the expectation that we put out 0:12:25.120 --> 0:12:28.520 there on social media. All these amazing vacations that we 0:12:28.559 --> 0:12:31.760 do with our significant other, all these amazing dates that 0:12:31.800 --> 0:12:34.079 we go on with our significant other, And that's what 0:12:34.200 --> 0:12:37.400 people now have expectations. Things like even The Bachelor, like 0:12:37.440 --> 0:12:40.440 all these elaborate dates and stuff that we went on, Jared, 0:12:40.480 --> 0:12:42.440 you went on. Like, I feel like there's there's a 0:12:42.480 --> 0:12:44.960 little bit of an unrealistic expectation when it comes to 0:12:44.960 --> 0:12:48.520 the dating world with social media. You're absolutely right, but 0:12:48.559 --> 0:12:52.440 people have to take accountability for that on themselves in 0:12:52.520 --> 0:12:54.760 terms of the expectations they have from relationships, because no 0:12:54.800 --> 0:12:57.640 one's going to post a bad picture of themselves or 0:12:58.400 --> 0:13:00.800 a bad time in their relationship on Stagram. Everything is 0:13:00.800 --> 0:13:04.800 gonna be uh fluffed, Everything is gonna be seventh Heaven 0:13:04.960 --> 0:13:07.880 cloud nine. Same thing with The Bachelor, you know. So, 0:13:07.920 --> 0:13:11.080 I think people with social media or even television shows 0:13:11.080 --> 0:13:12.680 about dating, you have to take it with a little 0:13:12.679 --> 0:13:14.640 bit of a grain of salt, because of course it's 0:13:14.679 --> 0:13:16.160 not always going to be that good. Just like I 0:13:16.200 --> 0:13:18.720 feel like everybody who posts on Facebook, who's who's not 0:13:18.760 --> 0:13:21.040 a celebrity. They're not going to post a picture of 0:13:21.040 --> 0:13:23.880 them their significant other in them in a fight. Yeah, 0:13:23.880 --> 0:13:26.079 you don't see people updating their Facebook posts like oh 0:13:26.120 --> 0:13:28.160 so and so just cheated on me, so we broke up, Like, 0:13:28.160 --> 0:13:30.680 you don't see that post other than it's the Kardashian 0:13:30.720 --> 0:13:33.800 I mean the Kardashians. I kind of I respect that though, 0:13:33.920 --> 0:13:39.520 respect how open all their entire life is. I respect 0:13:39.520 --> 0:13:41.640 the hell out of the Kardashians. I listen, they are 0:13:41.679 --> 0:13:44.640 the smartest people out there. And I I've said this 0:13:44.679 --> 0:13:49.440 for so many years, like Kim Kardashian, Chris Jenner, Jenner 0:13:49.760 --> 0:13:53.280 is a smart genius to be able to work the 0:13:53.320 --> 0:13:56.320 media and work the fan base, all of that in 0:13:56.320 --> 0:13:59.800 your favor all the time. It's unbelievable. And the idea 0:13:59.840 --> 0:14:02.920 that they've been able to overcome so much because they've 0:14:02.920 --> 0:14:07.120 gotten so much flak for people saying, well, what, what's 0:14:07.120 --> 0:14:09.640 there even talent? What are they famous for? And they 0:14:09.679 --> 0:14:12.880 just keep overcoming it, overcoming it and overcoming it. Famous 0:14:12.920 --> 0:14:16.360 for being famous for a long period of time. Absolutely, 0:14:16.440 --> 0:14:18.439 it's the hardest thing because usually it's just fifteen minutes 0:14:18.440 --> 0:14:20.840 of fame. Yeah, and what other family out there has 0:14:20.880 --> 0:14:25.080 had so many like pivotal moments like for you know, 0:14:25.640 --> 0:14:28.800 Bruce's transition into Caitlin. You couldn't have scripted that out, 0:14:28.960 --> 0:14:33.800 or lamar Odom's storyline, Ristin Thompson and Tristan and Jordan, 0:14:33.920 --> 0:14:36.800 like all these things that I can't imagine having so 0:14:36.880 --> 0:14:39.880 much drama in my close knit family. And they've had 0:14:39.920 --> 0:14:42.440 it all, they really have had it all. Well, good 0:14:42.440 --> 0:14:46.400 for them, but we're not just here to talk about 0:14:46.400 --> 0:14:50.920 the credit Issuan Sax. You also talk about taking vacations 0:14:51.200 --> 0:14:54.120 with significant others because as said, we are dating podcast, 0:14:54.200 --> 0:14:58.960 so you have something called baya bacaca well as what 0:14:59.040 --> 0:15:02.600 a bacation? Yeah, so you know, uh, I think that Listen, 0:15:02.600 --> 0:15:04.200 this is kind of why I wanted to come onto 0:15:04.200 --> 0:15:06.480 this podcast because I think it's important for a lot 0:15:06.520 --> 0:15:08.760 of couples out there that don't really know where they're 0:15:08.760 --> 0:15:11.560 going with the relationship. They're they're interested in someone, but 0:15:11.560 --> 0:15:13.080 they're like, is this going to be for the long haul? 0:15:13.400 --> 0:15:15.920 And I've actually I teamed up with Visit Anaheim and 0:15:16.160 --> 0:15:20.120 because I'm from Anaheim, and basically we started talking about 0:15:20.160 --> 0:15:22.880 it and they did this big study where they pulled 0:15:22.920 --> 0:15:25.800 two thousand people just to find out, like that first 0:15:25.840 --> 0:15:29.280 trip that you go on with your significant other, is it? 0:15:29.360 --> 0:15:31.040 Is it a positive thing, is a nig thing? What 0:15:31.280 --> 0:15:33.680 is it? And come to find out like it really 0:15:33.680 --> 0:15:35.880 tells a lot about your relationship. I don't know if 0:15:35.920 --> 0:15:38.120 you remember the first trip that well, I guess you're 0:15:38.120 --> 0:15:40.400 gonnaps are a little different when they're being filmed in 0:15:40.440 --> 0:15:43.880 front of a national audience. But like someone off the show, 0:15:44.240 --> 0:15:46.920 you go on a trip, and the results of the 0:15:46.920 --> 0:15:50.080 study were actually predicting significant like most people were saying, 0:15:50.280 --> 0:15:52.240 I knew that I was with the right person when 0:15:52.280 --> 0:15:55.280 we were halfway through that trip and we were away 0:15:55.280 --> 0:15:57.880 from everyone and it was just us too in a 0:15:57.920 --> 0:15:59.960 different environment, and it was like that was the moment 0:16:00.000 --> 0:16:01.680 and I knew I was supposed to be with that person. 0:16:02.240 --> 0:16:06.000 And you know, I keep telling people, you know, Anaheim 0:16:06.080 --> 0:16:08.000 offers a lot that's I go back to it because 0:16:08.000 --> 0:16:10.440 it's there. But you've got so much like Disneyland and 0:16:10.800 --> 0:16:13.000 you've got the Great Wolf Lodge down there, not very 0:16:13.000 --> 0:16:14.960 farm And I try to tell people, like, do a 0:16:15.000 --> 0:16:18.000 trip with your significant other, get away, go hang out 0:16:18.040 --> 0:16:20.280 at an amusement park for today a day, because it's 0:16:20.320 --> 0:16:22.720 not you're not cramped up in a movie theater, kind 0:16:22.720 --> 0:16:26.040 of not talking in the darkness. You're actually standing in line, 0:16:26.080 --> 0:16:29.240 you're talking to each other, you're communicating, you're going through 0:16:29.240 --> 0:16:31.240 a hotel, you're going through flights, and you're really seeing 0:16:31.280 --> 0:16:33.720 what it's like to be with that person. An amusement 0:16:33.800 --> 0:16:36.880 park trip could really make or break earlier. Absolutely hits. 0:16:37.320 --> 0:16:40.760 I've been to Universal State Is in Disneyland, uh with 0:16:40.840 --> 0:16:44.800 significant others, and it's it's because there's its tension filled 0:16:45.000 --> 0:16:48.400 you're waiting in line. It's not there are crowds, you 0:16:48.440 --> 0:16:52.240 have anxiety. Uh, it's just it's so interesting to think 0:16:52.280 --> 0:16:55.120 about one day to the amusement park, and in my 0:16:55.160 --> 0:16:58.360 mind it is one of those moments where you do 0:16:58.560 --> 0:17:01.160 learn a lot about their your your significant other. But 0:17:01.240 --> 0:17:03.760 I also agree, I think that's one thing about The 0:17:03.840 --> 0:17:06.640 Bachelor and Bachelor I and Pachelor in Paradise in particular, 0:17:06.720 --> 0:17:11.840 that does legitimize relationship moving faster because it does feel 0:17:11.880 --> 0:17:14.720 like you're traveling with somebody when you go on those shows. 0:17:14.760 --> 0:17:17.400 It does if you're traveling with them and they're fourteen 0:17:17.440 --> 0:17:21.040 other boyfriend. True, Yes, I don't think you're traveling with 0:17:21.160 --> 0:17:24.399 your the lead at all. Oh so you're steping. You're 0:17:24.400 --> 0:17:27.439 skipping all the fun stuffs. You're skipping waiting in line 0:17:27.560 --> 0:17:30.320 at security, at at the airport, you're skipping, sitting next 0:17:30.320 --> 0:17:33.440 to each other on an airplane. You're skipping, like splitting 0:17:33.440 --> 0:17:35.400 a meal and who's gonna pay? You know, like you're 0:17:35.400 --> 0:17:37.520 skipping all the fun steps to really get to know 0:17:37.560 --> 0:17:40.960 a person. Let me rephrase, then Bachelor in Paradise is 0:17:41.000 --> 0:17:43.560 like that because then you're actually leaving the compound with 0:17:43.600 --> 0:17:46.240 the person, you're traveling out and then you're coming back 0:17:46.280 --> 0:17:48.560 to the island. But it is very secluded, and it 0:17:48.680 --> 0:17:51.199 is it does. It has this bonding to it that 0:17:51.320 --> 0:17:54.959 is is very different than anything I've experienced outside of 0:17:55.480 --> 0:17:58.520 the Bachelor bubble. I've never I never went to camp 0:17:58.520 --> 0:18:00.200 as a kid. I didn't do any of that at 0:18:00.240 --> 0:18:03.200 so I can only really relate it to people who 0:18:03.200 --> 0:18:05.400 have done those kinds of things, go to camp, because 0:18:05.400 --> 0:18:08.000 it is like this little get away that only you 0:18:08.000 --> 0:18:10.639 guys really know what that experience was like. And I 0:18:10.640 --> 0:18:12.960 think that's what vacation is all about. I mean, listen, 0:18:13.400 --> 0:18:15.480 they termed to vacation, but you know, I like it 0:18:15.680 --> 0:18:19.080 essentially just a vacation, and I'm always I'm always a 0:18:19.080 --> 0:18:21.959 guy for a good punch, and I gotta tell you 0:18:22.080 --> 0:18:24.840 out of the results, people said they fell in love 0:18:24.960 --> 0:18:29.399 after their first vacation. We're like, it didn't work because, 0:18:29.440 --> 0:18:31.360 like you said, it is the sitting in line. It's 0:18:31.400 --> 0:18:33.560 the stuff that's going to his you off and realize 0:18:33.600 --> 0:18:38.119 you don't want to be with that person because they're annoying. Yeah. Right, 0:18:38.920 --> 0:18:41.399 It's like the stuff that you find so cute at 0:18:41.440 --> 0:18:43.600 the beginning when you go on vacation with them and 0:18:43.600 --> 0:18:46.480 you're spending like three complete or four complete full days 0:18:46.480 --> 0:18:48.960 a day and they're like, oh, this is not as 0:18:49.000 --> 0:18:50.560 cute as I once thought it was. I remember the 0:18:50.600 --> 0:18:53.040 first trip I went with my now boyfriend. We went 0:18:53.080 --> 0:18:55.760 to New York City, and my biggest thing is budget, 0:18:56.800 --> 0:19:00.000 Like I don't like spending money. Um, I don't care 0:19:00.040 --> 0:19:02.000 or where I am. I can be hanging out in 0:19:02.080 --> 0:19:03.960 a hole in the wall, but I'm with people. If 0:19:04.000 --> 0:19:05.760 I'm with people I love, then it's going to be 0:19:05.800 --> 0:19:08.440 an amazing trip. And he was exactly like that too, 0:19:08.480 --> 0:19:12.679 so I'm like perfect. We ended up like splitting the airbnb. 0:19:13.240 --> 0:19:15.440 Taylor ended up coming with the guy that she was dating, 0:19:15.480 --> 0:19:17.919 so we all split it up. In four and then 0:19:18.240 --> 0:19:21.240 he's someone I need to be with, someone that takes 0:19:21.280 --> 0:19:25.760 the lead in booking a reservation for a restaurant, and 0:19:25.840 --> 0:19:28.040 I suck at that, Like, I'm not good at that 0:19:28.080 --> 0:19:33.440 at all, So I need help boervations. I'm not good 0:19:33.480 --> 0:19:35.480 at that. I'm like great at other things, but that's 0:19:35.480 --> 0:19:37.240 one thing. I'm like, if you're good at knowing which 0:19:37.320 --> 0:19:40.280 restaurants to go to and what places we should go visit, 0:19:40.720 --> 0:19:43.200 book that and I'll just go along with the ride. 0:19:43.320 --> 0:19:45.600