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Speaker 1: It is time to ask the CLO Chief Love Officer,

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Speaker 1: Steve Harvey. All Right, Alana in DC says, I went

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Speaker 1: to a woman's empowerment brunch and I introduced myself to

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Speaker 1: the group. One of the ladies at the table said,

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Speaker 1: that's her to the lady beside her, I had a

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Speaker 1: messy affair years ago, and my social circle won't let

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Speaker 1: it go. I've moved on and I'm married.

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Speaker 2: Now.

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Speaker 1: Should I keep defending myself or stop going out to events?

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Speaker 2: No? No, you keep living your life.

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Speaker 1: Yes, she's got to live her life.

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Speaker 3: All them women in that group is a that's her. Hello,

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Speaker 3: keep living your life. You ain't got to explain yourself

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Speaker 3: to nobody. We all make mistakes. Long as God forgives you,

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Speaker 3: it is your opportunity to get up and move on.

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Speaker 3: People not going to forgive you. People not going to forget.

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Speaker 3: God washes the slates, splint wash it, the slate clean.

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Speaker 3: I'm gonna go with the God part of mine now.

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Speaker 3: And then brought up on me and you remind me

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Speaker 3: of something that I did, then I'm gonna remind you

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Speaker 3: of who you're talking to, and then we'll go from there.

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Speaker 3: I bet the next time you see me, you won't go.

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Speaker 3: That's him, That's just me. But really, for the most part,

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Speaker 3: in all honesty, man, I don't address nothing out there

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Speaker 3: about me.

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Speaker 2: I just keep on living my best life. Yeap, and

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Speaker 2: you do it is life.

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Speaker 3: I'm not stutying nobody, haters, trolls, none of that.

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Speaker 2: Do your thing, do your thing, all right.

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Speaker 1: Moving on to Mika and Colombia, Mika says, my husband

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Speaker 1: and I have a blended family of five children. His

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Speaker 1: five year old got her tonsils out and it was

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Speaker 1: our weekend to keep her. His ex wife came to

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Speaker 1: see her and ended up getting into bed with her

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Speaker 1: to watch a movie. I didn't want to upset the kid,

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Speaker 1: but I raised hell with my husband. What does he

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Speaker 1: What does he think that was?

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Speaker 2: Okay? Who begs? She got in I don't know many.

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Speaker 1: Her house, yes, because it was their weekend.

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Speaker 2: Y'all. Thank y'all, the Smith family. We're not fitting the

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Speaker 2: co parent that close. Now. I'm all for co parenting.

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Speaker 3: I think it's great for the child, but come on, now,

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Speaker 3: I think what has to happen is I think that

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Speaker 3: the the mother should you know, be respectful of the

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Speaker 3: current wife's house. That is, and it's with her. Now,

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Speaker 3: it's her baby, that's for the show, and that don't

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Speaker 3: nothing supersede that that's her baby. She made that one.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, you know.

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Speaker 3: But but yeah, that's your house, right, and so everybody

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Speaker 3: has to respect each other in this case.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, there's certain boundaries.

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Speaker 3: So you gotta understand the baby hurting mind, Oh that's

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Speaker 3: my baby. But were you going to get into bed though?

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Speaker 3: Now that's where we draw the line.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's what I think they should have.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, let her be with her baby. Yeah, yeah, you're

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Speaker 2: gonna take the baby this weekend house in beds.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm not gonna be able to sleep good at all.

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Speaker 3: I'm not I'm not gonna stay til the bed. Just

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Speaker 3: twiddling my thumb.

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Speaker 1: But she wants to know. Why does he think it

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Speaker 1: was okay for for his ex to do that?

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Speaker 2: He don't know what to do. It's the first for him. Well,

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Speaker 2: he understands that it's her baby and she loves the baby.

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Speaker 2: We got on that.

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Speaker 3: He might not really think it's okay, But what was

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Speaker 3: he gonna say? No, don't comfort her.

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Speaker 2: She five.

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Speaker 3: Been spending more time than with that baby that you

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Speaker 3: have from birth. Yeah, here we go, all right?

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Speaker 2: Stayed at the hospital. They should have just stayed at

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Speaker 2: the hospital.

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Speaker 3: Y'all should have just picked up from tonsil appointment take

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Speaker 3: her to her mama house, because you ain't gonna lay

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Speaker 3: up in here.

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Speaker 2: All right.

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Speaker 1: Moving on to CC and High Point, C. C writes,

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Speaker 1: My boyfriend stayed overnight at his baby mama's house. So

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Speaker 1: I threw a dozen eggs at his car. He apologized,

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Speaker 1: and we called the girl on the three way so

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Speaker 1: she could so he could tell her that he is

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Speaker 1: in love with me, not her. I feel bad about

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Speaker 1: what I did to his car, and I planned to

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Speaker 1: get detail for him. What else can I do to

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Speaker 1: keep him?

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Speaker 2: We're done? Well?

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Speaker 3: Well, them eggs and the car is just a prelum.

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Speaker 3: What's really gonna happen to your car? Via via callar

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Speaker 3: for Real? See we have a we have a car

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Speaker 3: criminal on our.

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Speaker 2: Shirt allegedly, what you're not gonna do?

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Speaker 3: I'm talking about car sliding, sugar in the gas tank,

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Speaker 3: with the busting, seat splitting, you know, staying, wheel locking,

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Speaker 3: you know all that, You know the problems. Allegedly Calor

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Speaker 3: for Real has slid up on the car and removed

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Speaker 3: the all filter.

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Speaker 2: You know how low down that is just all filter.

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Speaker 2: Just watch you.

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Speaker 3: You ain't even got to you ain't even need a tool.

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Speaker 3: You just slide up under there and reached that all

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Speaker 3: filter and turn it off and walk off.

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Speaker 2: Lord have mercy on.

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Speaker 1: Him.

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Speaker 3: This is just a prelamb as to what's going to

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Speaker 3: happen to you to this man now who wrote the

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Speaker 3: letter to lady yes lady, yeah, see you trip it

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Speaker 3: And so I don't know what to tell you. But

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Speaker 3: if I was the man, I get out, yeah and

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Speaker 3: all improve stuff to you and all that. I'm not

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Speaker 3: doing none of that. Oh okay, No, I'm not getting

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Speaker 3: nobody on the three way because I don't know how

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Speaker 3: that's gonna go. Fellas, don't never put yourself in a

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Speaker 3: situations where you ain't in control of a soul. You

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Speaker 3: can't have two women on the phone talking about.

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Speaker 1: All right, let's move on to Lakeisha in Indianapolis.

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Speaker 2: Your phone in the tub, last one.

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Speaker 1: For the past two years, for the past two years,

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Speaker 1: I've been dealing with the man that is a boy yeer.

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Speaker 1: He loves attending English parties just to watch others have sex.

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Speaker 1: Our sex life is normal, one on one sex now,

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Speaker 1: But is this a sign that he is going to

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Speaker 1: want us to swing.

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Speaker 2: Hell yeah, you're down there watching for Do you know

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Speaker 2: what's coming?

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Speaker 3: Y'all going down there though, And he told you that's

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Speaker 3: all he want to do.

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Speaker 2: Well, what is you down there learning for.

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Speaker 1: Class?

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Speaker 3: Somebody gonna be down now, I'm telling you, somebody gonna

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Speaker 3: be down there at the swing a club that you

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Speaker 3: gonna want to swing with?

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Speaker 1: All right, thank you. Clow coming up right up to