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Speaker 1: Live from the Winter Trust STUDIOSUM Chicago and I Heart

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Speaker 1: Radio Station. Here's Fredd and Angie. I guess our segment

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Speaker 1: from yesterday about the girl, uh I went on a

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Speaker 1: vacation date with yeah, who sent the colorful photos? Yes,

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Speaker 1: that must have re aired this morning because there's some

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Speaker 1: people in my DMS on on the dating app going, oh,

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Speaker 1: I see how it is. You'll go out with the

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Speaker 1: girl who sends you pictures, but you won't go out

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Speaker 1: with me, YadA, YadA, YadA. I'm like, like, they're they're

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Speaker 1: coming in right now, like one two, are they pictures

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Speaker 1: or they're just DM thaying No, it's it's people. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it's people on the app going, oh, so you mett

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Speaker 1: with me, won't go out with me now because these

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Speaker 1: people I haven't met, They're like, oh, you won't go

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Speaker 1: out with me because I guess I haven't sent you

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Speaker 1: any pictures? Then you right back now you know what

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Speaker 1: it takes to get in right right right? Hey, this

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Speaker 1: is the price of admission, man Um. That was a

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Speaker 1: vacation date, by the way, And so no, I haven't

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Speaker 1: been going on dates. Well no, well no, it was

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Speaker 1: a different thing though, I guess it was. I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I was. I don't know. I haven't been going on

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Speaker 1: dates in Chicago, so that was a vacation date that

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Speaker 1: I went on. So no, no one's been getting dates

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Speaker 1: if you're really that concerned about it. But morning, everybody. Hi,

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Speaker 1: Angie Taylor, how are you. I'm good. It's funny because

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Speaker 1: I've shown out. You know, vacations are weird because when

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Speaker 1: we're gone, you know, Rufio selects the stuff that gets played,

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Speaker 1: and I don't we don't necessarily know what it is,

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Speaker 1: um because you know, we're putting shows together to fill

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Speaker 1: the time that we're gone. And so I'll wake up

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Speaker 1: on vacation. I'm sure the same is true for you, Angie,

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Speaker 1: and there'll be a bunch of tweets about stuff. I

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Speaker 1: don't know what. I don't know what we said. You know,

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Speaker 1: I don't remember, I have to like decode what we

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Speaker 1: might have said, right, I mean, because we've done the

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Speaker 1: show for almost ten years or ten years whatever it is,

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Speaker 1: and that and you know, anything's fair game and best

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Speaker 1: definitely don't remember what I said five years ago. And so,

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Speaker 1: And it's amazing how that can cause problems in your

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Speaker 1: personal life too. You know when you're dating somebody and

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Speaker 1: then their friend, their friend calls you and goes, he

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Speaker 1: just said he was single and screwing ten girls or whatever,

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Speaker 1: and then it's like, no, no, it's recorded. It never no.

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Speaker 1: So now that our show is longer and we're like

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Speaker 1: re airing stuff from days prior earlier, really early in

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Speaker 1: the morning before we go live, then it's the same

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Speaker 1: thing is happening, right, So it's like, I don't know

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Speaker 1: what I don't I don't know what I said? What

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Speaker 1: did I say? What are people talking about? M Calin,

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Speaker 1: Pauline and Roofy, everybody's here. The Entertainment Report in about

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Speaker 1: fifteen minutes was coming up the most expensive celebrity on

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Speaker 1: cameo now for a thousand dollars a pop. I'll tell

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Speaker 1: you who it is. I was wondering how much he

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Speaker 1: was going to be and why he even bothered, Like,

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Speaker 1: why what is a thousand dollars to this guy? Because

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Speaker 1: he's so rich, That's what I'm saying. No, exactly right,

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Speaker 1: this is why we're gonna win the Marconi one of

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Speaker 1: these years. We have did we ever win the Dome?

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Speaker 1: By the way, do we know if we won the dome?

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Speaker 1: They still haven't done the if They were supposed to

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Speaker 1: set up a virtual um celebration like award ceremony, but

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Speaker 1: it hasn't happened yet. So I check back every every

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Speaker 1: time Rufio wants himself a dome. Yeah, you know, I don't.

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Speaker 1: I don't blame him. Yeah, um, you don't get a

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Speaker 1: ring or a banner or anything if you win the

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Speaker 1: Illinois Broadcaster Association whatever it is. What is the morning

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Speaker 1: show of the year or what were we nominating for? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: local morning show, like local morning show. Yeah, large market

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Speaker 1: morning show. It's kind of embarrassing how to do the

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Speaker 1: categories too, because it's only for Illinois, and then they

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Speaker 1: it's like basically, there're only like four other shows that

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Speaker 1: I was gonna say, exactly. Yeah, I was hoping we

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Speaker 1: Like next year, it's been a w do a leaf,

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Speaker 1: A good morning, I've always been goods another one of

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Speaker 1: those songs, not that I do a lot of singing aloud.

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Speaker 1: I'm talking about Quarantine songs this year. This song and

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Speaker 1: that song. It's like, there are a lot of songs

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Speaker 1: to me. But the songs where you're you know the words,

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Speaker 1: Beta twelve, good morning Fred, Nancy one or three? Five

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Speaker 1: Kiss FM, Chicago number one hit music station, one thousand

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Speaker 1: bucks after nine another chance to win. Here's this. I

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Speaker 1: have a disparateise. I discovered something while I was at

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Speaker 1: home on vacation that I thought it was going to

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Speaker 1: be absolute magic for a show magic. I tell you.

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Speaker 1: It was a large stack of the gift that I

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Speaker 1: and I'll tell you in blogs what it was. But

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Speaker 1: through it all last night. I'm like, oh, you guys,

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Speaker 1: We're gonna have a segment, news segment for a year. Man.

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Speaker 1: I I was so disappointed. Terrible. We'll get to it

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Speaker 1: a highly invasive demand that she received from her boyfriend's mom.

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Speaker 1: The eighteen year old girl explained her dilemma in Reddit's

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Speaker 1: probably were the a hole. Just I'll sell you in there.

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Speaker 1: She described how her first ever time meeting her boyfriend's

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Speaker 1: can't even Oh my god, Yeah, it's been commented on

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Speaker 1: probably an adult. I mean that's sort of something I

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Speaker 1: guess that. Don't you address that with your son? You know,

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Speaker 1: I would say to you, No, you don't have it.

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Speaker 1: jurisdiction over over this thing. But then Kaylin did something

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Speaker 1: you know, as as it pertained. I've had this conversation

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Speaker 1: and it's like, well, I don't mean for it too.

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Speaker 1: It doesn't have to, but unfortunately there are methods that

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Speaker 1: that's the choice that we make together and an adult relationship,

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Speaker 1: that that's what we're gonna do, then yeah, the onus

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Speaker 1: falls on you because there is no pill for me. Um.

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Speaker 1: So I do feel bad about that, but until they

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Speaker 1: But then you have to ask yourself, do you trust

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Speaker 1: to take a pill over you being responsible for taking

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Speaker 1: background check on her and then go with her and

423
00:21:40,520 --> 00:21:43,480
Speaker 1: be like, guess what I did yesterday? You got it? Yeah,

424
00:21:44,280 --> 00:21:46,440
Speaker 1: back to and let you know what I thought. Please,

425
00:21:46,840 --> 00:21:49,879
Speaker 1: I'm so you don't wait for you to this wedding.

426
00:21:49,920 --> 00:21:56,840
Speaker 1: I want to meet this this wedding, I will invite you.

427
00:21:56,920 --> 00:21:59,560
Speaker 1: Better believe it. I'll tell you what. Yeah, our wedding,

428
00:21:59,560 --> 00:22:02,080
Speaker 1: our wedding gift for you will be the background and check.

429
00:22:02,160 --> 00:22:07,640
Speaker 1: We'll show up arms. Yeah, good luck, have a great day.

430
00:22:07,640 --> 00:22:12,000
Speaker 1: I'm glad you called. Oh she's the best. I'm going

431
00:22:12,040 --> 00:22:14,160
Speaker 1: to be thinking about that all day, but saying I'm

432
00:22:14,160 --> 00:22:17,800
Speaker 1: really concerned. We need to roll in and keep that

433
00:22:17,840 --> 00:22:21,080
Speaker 1: mom away. I don't think it's any secret. My parents

434
00:22:21,080 --> 00:22:23,760
Speaker 1: did a background check on unbannounced to my sister on

435
00:22:23,840 --> 00:22:30,560
Speaker 1: her now husband, No question about it. Oh yeah, why man,

436
00:22:31,680 --> 00:22:34,880
Speaker 1: your sister to make that decision. I think they were

437
00:22:35,480 --> 00:22:39,639
Speaker 1: well no, no, I don't I think they were. I

438
00:22:39,680 --> 00:22:41,960
Speaker 1: don't know. I think does he know that they did that?

439
00:22:42,560 --> 00:22:44,800
Speaker 1: I think they know that now, and if they do so,

440
00:22:45,280 --> 00:22:47,600
Speaker 1: they push more for that. Which one of your parents.

441
00:22:48,200 --> 00:22:51,120
Speaker 1: I think that they were pretty united on that um

442
00:22:51,440 --> 00:22:54,280
Speaker 1: And I don't know that it was him because he

443
00:22:54,320 --> 00:22:56,040
Speaker 1: and I were together over the fourth of July and

444
00:22:56,080 --> 00:22:58,200
Speaker 1: we talked about a lot of this stuff, and I've

445
00:22:58,240 --> 00:23:00,080
Speaker 1: grown to love the guy. I think he's great. I

446
00:23:00,080 --> 00:23:06,639
Speaker 1: should have wait, my sister is a difficult and he's incredible.

447
00:23:06,920 --> 00:23:09,399
Speaker 1: He's so good, He's so good to her. And but

448
00:23:09,440 --> 00:23:11,119
Speaker 1: we talked about it and I said to him, you know,

449
00:23:11,720 --> 00:23:13,760
Speaker 1: I know we put you through the ringer, I said,

450
00:23:13,760 --> 00:23:15,760
Speaker 1: but it really isn't you like I think it would

451
00:23:15,760 --> 00:23:17,760
Speaker 1: have been anybody. I know that it would have been

452
00:23:17,800 --> 00:23:20,760
Speaker 1: anybody who she wanted to marry. I mean, I think

453
00:23:20,760 --> 00:23:22,680
Speaker 1: we're all just so protective of each other and of

454
00:23:22,800 --> 00:23:25,680
Speaker 1: her and really of our unit that welcome makes somebody

455
00:23:25,680 --> 00:23:28,280
Speaker 1: else in was a really hard adjustment. And he actually said,

456
00:23:28,320 --> 00:23:30,080
Speaker 1: he was like, you know, if you had been a pushover,

457
00:23:30,240 --> 00:23:33,399
Speaker 1: especially you, I would have had less respect. He's like

458
00:23:33,440 --> 00:23:35,800
Speaker 1: the fact that you were, you know, so protective of

459
00:23:35,800 --> 00:23:38,720
Speaker 1: her and her well being and all of that. He goes,

460
00:23:38,760 --> 00:23:40,360
Speaker 1: I like you more because of that, And I don't

461
00:23:40,359 --> 00:23:42,040
Speaker 1: know if that's what he really means, but that was

462
00:23:42,080 --> 00:23:44,000
Speaker 1: the right answer, that was the right thing to say.

463
00:23:44,280 --> 00:23:46,600
Speaker 1: I like him more now this guy's this guy's good.

464
00:23:48,880 --> 00:23:51,840
Speaker 1: But I don't know. I mean, I feel like it's true.

465
00:23:51,000 --> 00:23:55,200
Speaker 1: And obviously the death metal boyfriend thing and whatever else,

466
00:23:55,240 --> 00:23:56,159
Speaker 1: you know, we had a lot of it. There was

467
00:23:56,160 --> 00:23:58,520
Speaker 1: a lot of uncertainty. But yeah, I don't think it

468
00:23:58,520 --> 00:24:00,480
Speaker 1: would have mattered who it was. I think my parents

469
00:24:00,480 --> 00:24:02,960
Speaker 1: would have would have done their due diligence, which is overbearing.

470
00:24:03,000 --> 00:24:06,080
Speaker 1: But I also can tell you they wouldn't have short

471
00:24:06,080 --> 00:24:08,680
Speaker 1: of like murder or rape or some god awful thing

472
00:24:08,720 --> 00:24:10,879
Speaker 1: in the guy's history that she didn't know about, they

473
00:24:10,880 --> 00:24:12,800
Speaker 1: wouldn't have stood in her way. I think they would

474
00:24:12,800 --> 00:24:15,240
Speaker 1: have just made sure she was armed with the information. Wow.

475
00:24:15,320 --> 00:24:17,200
Speaker 1: So yeah, I don't know if that makes it right,

476
00:24:17,600 --> 00:24:19,640
Speaker 1: but my parents would have ultimately, you know, she would

477
00:24:19,640 --> 00:24:21,119
Speaker 1: have made her decision and they would have supported it

478
00:24:21,160 --> 00:24:23,040
Speaker 1: because that's the kind of people they are. But but yeah,

479
00:24:23,040 --> 00:24:24,840
Speaker 1: oh yeah, there was a background check and I'm aware

480
00:24:24,840 --> 00:24:27,679
Speaker 1: of that. Wow. You should ask your mom if she

481
00:24:27,760 --> 00:24:29,800
Speaker 1: still has that report and then frame it and then

482
00:24:29,800 --> 00:24:33,440
Speaker 1: gave it to him as a birthday gift. I don't

483
00:24:33,440 --> 00:24:35,800
Speaker 1: think there was anything really a note on there. I

484
00:24:35,800 --> 00:24:38,320
Speaker 1: don't think. I don't think there was anything significant either,

485
00:24:38,480 --> 00:24:40,960
Speaker 1: like it was you know, he's I don't know. He

486
00:24:41,000 --> 00:24:42,639
Speaker 1: had a good credit score too. Don't ask me how

487
00:24:42,680 --> 00:24:46,760
Speaker 1: that got that. Um, oh my gosh, that's that's a joke.

488
00:24:46,840 --> 00:24:49,560
Speaker 1: I think. Hey, jo Anne, I don't know that, but

489
00:24:49,600 --> 00:24:53,439
Speaker 1: maybe hey joe Anne, good morning, Hey, good morning guys.

490
00:24:53,720 --> 00:24:55,879
Speaker 1: Love you, Joanne, Hey, love you too. So just to

491
00:24:55,960 --> 00:24:59,280
Speaker 1: recap here, um, there's a story that's gone virals from reddit.

492
00:25:00,760 --> 00:25:02,920
Speaker 1: Am I the a hole thing, which is great to read,

493
00:25:02,960 --> 00:25:04,480
Speaker 1: by the way, most of the time, if you're writing,

494
00:25:04,520 --> 00:25:06,200
Speaker 1: if you're asking, if you're the ahole, you're the ahole.

495
00:25:06,240 --> 00:25:08,720
Speaker 1: But anyway, they're good to read on Redditum. This is

496
00:25:08,720 --> 00:25:12,359
Speaker 1: a girl eighteen years old who was confronted by her

497
00:25:12,400 --> 00:25:16,080
Speaker 1: boyfriend's mother about whether or not she was on birth

498
00:25:16,080 --> 00:25:18,040
Speaker 1: control and if she's not, she better get on it

499
00:25:18,280 --> 00:25:21,040
Speaker 1: before she sees her again. Obviously very inappropriate. What happened

500
00:25:21,080 --> 00:25:24,560
Speaker 1: to you, Joanne, or was this you having to talk? Well?

501
00:25:24,600 --> 00:25:27,840
Speaker 1: I had the talk, but my son and his girlfriend

502
00:25:28,040 --> 00:25:32,600
Speaker 1: were sixteen years old, so I sat them down after

503
00:25:32,640 --> 00:25:36,560
Speaker 1: about three months after they started dating, And I said,

504
00:25:36,880 --> 00:25:38,640
Speaker 1: you know, at the kitchen table, I said, you see

505
00:25:38,680 --> 00:25:41,560
Speaker 1: the screen of salt right here. How small it is?

506
00:25:42,200 --> 00:25:45,680
Speaker 1: I said, well, that's how small a spam is. I'll

507
00:25:45,720 --> 00:25:49,560
Speaker 1: protect yourself with all kinds. Take one, and I do

508
00:25:49,680 --> 00:25:53,159
Speaker 1: not want to put diapers on my girl. She list. Now,

509
00:25:53,520 --> 00:25:55,919
Speaker 1: let me ask you this. Do you do you think

510
00:25:56,040 --> 00:26:00,000
Speaker 1: that that conversation wasn't being had on the other side,

511
00:26:00,000 --> 00:26:02,639
Speaker 1: I like, or her parents, or her parents inattentive or

512
00:26:02,960 --> 00:26:05,560
Speaker 1: I mean, I guess why. Why did you think it

513
00:26:05,560 --> 00:26:07,920
Speaker 1: was appropriate for you to have that conversation with her

514
00:26:08,080 --> 00:26:11,760
Speaker 1: as well and not just with your son. Well, I

515
00:26:11,840 --> 00:26:16,680
Speaker 1: think because they both it was their first time they

516
00:26:16,680 --> 00:26:21,080
Speaker 1: ever dated anybody. And I thought, okay, I just want

517
00:26:21,080 --> 00:26:23,439
Speaker 1: to throw it out there, whether or not they use

518
00:26:23,560 --> 00:26:27,520
Speaker 1: my advice on them. But you know, I just thought,

519
00:26:27,720 --> 00:26:30,800
Speaker 1: here's my opportunity. And I felt close enough to my

520
00:26:30,880 --> 00:26:33,760
Speaker 1: son and his girlfriend that I could have these kind

521
00:26:33,800 --> 00:26:37,720
Speaker 1: of conversations. And you weren't mandating something. You weren't saying

522
00:26:37,840 --> 00:26:40,160
Speaker 1: this is what you have to do. You were saying, look,

523
00:26:40,200 --> 00:26:43,280
Speaker 1: as a caring adult in this dynamic, like this is

524
00:26:43,320 --> 00:26:47,760
Speaker 1: something you guys should consider. Now go about your way. Absolutely,

525
00:26:47,880 --> 00:26:52,320
Speaker 1: you know. I didn't you know. I didn't say you know,

526
00:26:53,119 --> 00:26:55,080
Speaker 1: and I'm going to tell your parents or you know

527
00:26:55,119 --> 00:26:57,479
Speaker 1: anything like that. That wasn't my business. It was like,

528
00:26:57,680 --> 00:27:02,080
Speaker 1: I'm not stupid, I was six ten before. If you're

529
00:27:02,080 --> 00:27:04,840
Speaker 1: gonna do this, just I just want to throw this out.

530
00:27:05,320 --> 00:27:07,560
Speaker 1: I think that's I think it's very different actually than

531
00:27:07,640 --> 00:27:09,600
Speaker 1: than the situation that we were talking about. I would

532
00:27:09,600 --> 00:27:14,400
Speaker 1: feel really uncomfortable though, as the girl. Honestly, yeah, yeah wow,

533
00:27:14,600 --> 00:27:16,679
Speaker 1: I looked at it this way. Do you want to

534
00:27:16,680 --> 00:27:20,439
Speaker 1: be uncomfortable having that chant or uncomfortable like my girlfriend

535
00:27:20,560 --> 00:27:23,320
Speaker 1: was who had to tell her parents in front of

536
00:27:23,359 --> 00:27:27,720
Speaker 1: me that she was PREGNANTY, yeah, I wouldn't want either one.

537
00:27:26,560 --> 00:27:29,760
Speaker 1: I would. Yeah, I would just kind of keep into

538
00:27:29,880 --> 00:27:32,119
Speaker 1: my family, I guess I would. Yeah, I don't know,

539
00:27:32,280 --> 00:27:34,560
Speaker 1: that's just me. Yeah, yeah, I don't know. But again,

540
00:27:34,920 --> 00:27:37,080
Speaker 1: I think that the major difference here was that this

541
00:27:37,119 --> 00:27:38,800
Speaker 1: other woman was saying, no, no, no, this is how

542
00:27:38,840 --> 00:27:41,919
Speaker 1: you're gonna use your body's gonna operate, this is what

543
00:27:41,960 --> 00:27:44,679
Speaker 1: you're gonna do in order to be around here. And

544
00:27:44,720 --> 00:27:48,520
Speaker 1: I think that's very different than saying, hey, just heads up,

545
00:27:49,040 --> 00:27:51,960
Speaker 1: have you considered this because it's sixteen. I don't I

546
00:27:51,960 --> 00:27:54,159
Speaker 1: don't know if I was considering that or if I

547
00:27:54,480 --> 00:27:56,600
Speaker 1: don't know if there was there were enough reminders about

548
00:27:56,600 --> 00:28:00,119
Speaker 1: the potential consequences of my actions now you know, for

549
00:28:00,520 --> 00:28:02,800
Speaker 1: years to come or whatever. But thank you Joe, and

550
00:28:02,920 --> 00:28:06,720
Speaker 1: have a good day. Yeah, thank you. Glad you called.

551
00:28:06,720 --> 00:28:08,760
Speaker 1: We'll come back. We'll do the entertainment report after post

552
00:28:08,840 --> 00:28:12,160
Speaker 1: alone trending stories after that bullet points to touch your Wednesday,

553
00:28:12,200 --> 00:28:15,080
Speaker 1: and then it's uh, I mean, it's gonna be highly anticlimactic.

554
00:28:16,720 --> 00:28:19,600
Speaker 1: I'll tell you what I found or what was discovered,

555
00:28:20,840 --> 00:28:22,520
Speaker 1: but it's gonna be a big letdown, and I'll tell

556
00:28:22,560 --> 00:28:27,840
Speaker 1: you how freaking boring they are. Um yeah, A little

557
00:28:27,880 --> 00:28:30,640
Speaker 1: bit later in blogs, about fifteen minutes away, then waiting

558
00:28:30,680 --> 00:28:32,840
Speaker 1: by the phone and a thousand bucks up Fred Nagie

559
00:28:32,840 --> 00:28:38,320
Speaker 1: one h three five. I'm gonna use hard our little

560
00:28:38,440 --> 00:28:44,200
Speaker 1: UH code hanger transmission system here to UH to transmit

561
00:28:44,240 --> 00:28:46,280
Speaker 1: back to Caitlin, the girl who called with the amazing

562
00:28:46,280 --> 00:28:48,160
Speaker 1: call a minute ago. Call us back so we can

563
00:28:48,200 --> 00:28:50,840
Speaker 1: have your phone number, because we're actually gonna hold you too.

564
00:28:51,280 --> 00:28:53,200
Speaker 1: Not coming to your wedding. You don't have to invite us.

565
00:28:53,320 --> 00:28:55,360
Speaker 1: In fact, we'll pair own way, do you want to

566
00:28:55,360 --> 00:28:58,560
Speaker 1: invite us? But yeah, everybody is on twitternew logan, all

567
00:28:58,560 --> 00:29:01,000
Speaker 1: these people hitting me up going hey, can we please

568
00:29:01,360 --> 00:29:03,720
Speaker 1: get an update? Yeah? Can we please keep in touch

569
00:29:03,760 --> 00:29:05,040
Speaker 1: with her? And we have a whole long list of

570
00:29:05,080 --> 00:29:06,600
Speaker 1: people that we like to keep in touch with. So

571
00:29:06,920 --> 00:29:10,120
Speaker 1: call us back please if you're willing, and we'll be

572
00:29:10,160 --> 00:29:16,560
Speaker 1: less invasive than your mother in law slightly with Fred

573
00:29:16,560 --> 00:29:22,120
Speaker 1: and Ange. It's brought to you by Commed Keeping You Informed.

574
00:29:22,560 --> 00:29:27,440
Speaker 1: Floyd Mayweather is chilling personalized birthday greetings on cameo for

575
00:29:27,560 --> 00:29:30,880
Speaker 1: a thousand dollars. What Yeah, this is what I'm saying. Like,

576
00:29:31,160 --> 00:29:33,720
Speaker 1: the guy's worth a billion dollars or multiple billion dollars,

577
00:29:33,760 --> 00:29:35,960
Speaker 1: whatever it is. Why would he even bother? It's not

578
00:29:35,960 --> 00:29:39,600
Speaker 1: worth his time? Smart though, keep that money coming. He

579
00:29:39,680 --> 00:29:42,480
Speaker 1: keeps getting money. That money some thousand dollars. The guy's

580
00:29:42,520 --> 00:29:45,000
Speaker 1: making like millions of dollars a minute in interest or

581
00:29:45,040 --> 00:29:47,120
Speaker 1: whatever on invent What does he have time to make

582
00:29:47,320 --> 00:29:51,120
Speaker 1: a thousand dollars videos for? He's constantly making videos anyway,

583
00:29:51,320 --> 00:29:54,400
Speaker 1: Like he's always making videos on his social so he's

584
00:29:54,440 --> 00:29:57,880
Speaker 1: probably like probably get paid for or whatever. His profile

585
00:29:57,920 --> 00:29:59,520
Speaker 1: on the site tells Mayweather is one of the most

586
00:29:59,680 --> 00:30:02,240
Speaker 1: iconic athletes of all time, promises that he'll respond to

587
00:30:02,320 --> 00:30:05,840
Speaker 1: requests within five days. In a video announcing his arrival

588
00:30:05,880 --> 00:30:08,440
Speaker 1: on the site, Mayweather claimed to be the most expensive

589
00:30:08,480 --> 00:30:11,920
Speaker 1: celebrity on cameo. Um, it appears he's taped at least

590
00:30:11,920 --> 00:30:15,160
Speaker 1: one message already, since there's a one review from a

591
00:30:15,200 --> 00:30:18,080
Speaker 1: satisfied customer who gave him five stars. I would love

592
00:30:18,240 --> 00:30:20,720
Speaker 1: I would I would love to see it just because

593
00:30:20,760 --> 00:30:22,560
Speaker 1: you know, everyone makes fun of him because of the

594
00:30:22,600 --> 00:30:30,680
Speaker 1: reading thing. Yeah, oh true? So bad? Oh no, because

595
00:30:30,720 --> 00:30:46,400
Speaker 1: like um ok, you guys. Johnny Depp's lawyer so repeating

596
00:30:46,400 --> 00:30:49,080
Speaker 1: claims it is ex amber heard cheated on the Pirates

597
00:30:49,080 --> 00:30:52,920
Speaker 1: of the Caribbean Star with Tesla chief Elon Musk and

598
00:30:53,640 --> 00:30:57,000
Speaker 1: James Franco So. Johnny depps lawyer called the alleged hookups

599
00:30:57,000 --> 00:31:02,240
Speaker 1: extramarital affairs or relationship affairs extra relationship affairs. The claims

600
00:31:02,240 --> 00:31:05,920
Speaker 1: surfaced on opening day of Johnny Depp's livel suit against

601
00:31:05,960 --> 00:31:10,200
Speaker 1: the Son the Britain Tabloid, in which he's battling against

602
00:31:10,200 --> 00:31:13,080
Speaker 1: the newspapers description of him as a wife beater. In

603
00:31:13,080 --> 00:31:16,960
Speaker 1: the twenty eighteen article, Depp denied he ever hit Amber

604
00:31:17,080 --> 00:31:19,880
Speaker 1: or any other woman, claiming it was inconceivable to him

605
00:31:20,120 --> 00:31:23,600
Speaker 1: because of his Southern upbringing okay, and added that the

606
00:31:24,080 --> 00:31:29,400
Speaker 1: sociopathic actress was the abusive one. He said that she's sociopathic.

607
00:31:29,520 --> 00:31:32,120
Speaker 1: So Elon Musk and James Franco have already been dragged

608
00:31:32,160 --> 00:31:35,959
Speaker 1: into his depth separate fifty million dollar lawsuit against Amber.

609
00:31:36,040 --> 00:31:39,479
Speaker 1: Both Musk and Franco have denied being romantically involved at

610
00:31:39,480 --> 00:31:43,240
Speaker 1: Amber while she was with Johnny Depp. Maybe after, but

611
00:31:43,360 --> 00:31:46,520
Speaker 1: not while. Um but Franco's got quite the hit list

612
00:31:47,000 --> 00:31:48,840
Speaker 1: under his belt. I gotta say, there's a couple of

613
00:31:48,840 --> 00:31:52,680
Speaker 1: these guys that you gotta really respect, that there, man Franco,

614
00:31:55,760 --> 00:31:58,080
Speaker 1: but too. I mean, I'm talking about like when you

615
00:31:58,080 --> 00:32:03,560
Speaker 1: look at some away Val du Um, Elon Musk, I mean,

616
00:32:05,240 --> 00:32:09,360
Speaker 1: but David Spade, John Mayer, you know, say what you want,

617
00:32:09,480 --> 00:32:12,160
Speaker 1: John Mayer back in the day. Even that one really

618
00:32:12,160 --> 00:32:15,200
Speaker 1: bad comedian what's his name? Uh, you know, the guy,

619
00:32:15,440 --> 00:32:18,840
Speaker 1: the guy that was popular for about fifteen seconds. Dane Cook.

620
00:32:19,080 --> 00:32:23,320
Speaker 1: Dane Cook friends like so much younger than him. It

621
00:32:23,400 --> 00:32:28,400
Speaker 1: makes me very uncomfy. Cardie being shared herself having some

622
00:32:28,400 --> 00:32:32,640
Speaker 1: pretty intimate treatments done Monday on Instagram, she said, I'm

623
00:32:32,640 --> 00:32:38,000
Speaker 1: bleaching my effing cootie cat. Yeah, my girl got me right.

624
00:32:38,040 --> 00:32:40,760
Speaker 1: I'm in my crib getting my cootie and my underarm bleached.

625
00:32:41,160 --> 00:32:43,920
Speaker 1: She even revealed she doesn't believe in body bleaching, but

626
00:32:43,960 --> 00:32:46,880
Speaker 1: she does believe in under arm and who jam bleaching.

627
00:32:47,040 --> 00:32:50,320
Speaker 1: She said, maybe your booty too, um so, yeah, she

628
00:32:50,440 --> 00:32:53,120
Speaker 1: has a I didn't even know that people were getting

629
00:32:53,160 --> 00:32:55,080
Speaker 1: their cootie fleach. I don't know if I think that's

630
00:32:55,080 --> 00:32:58,160
Speaker 1: a good idea. Where's doctor Lena. I'm sure she'll tell

631
00:32:58,160 --> 00:33:02,280
Speaker 1: you not to chemicals that right. I can tell you

632
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Speaker 1: he's not good. You're not supposed to be supposed to

633
00:33:05,280 --> 00:33:08,480
Speaker 1: be all natural in that area, isn't it? Yeah? I

634
00:33:08,520 --> 00:33:11,360
Speaker 1: mean what is breaking the armpits? What does that do?

635
00:33:11,440 --> 00:33:14,000
Speaker 1: Because you know you're under arms, even if you shave,

636
00:33:14,280 --> 00:33:19,120
Speaker 1: can look dark, Okay, you know sometimes like like pigmentations

637
00:33:19,160 --> 00:33:22,200
Speaker 1: like different. So she just wants to glow from from

638
00:33:22,280 --> 00:33:24,640
Speaker 1: every orifice more to check out online today you can

639
00:33:24,640 --> 00:33:28,120
Speaker 1: see her posts about that fred angie dot com. Wow,

640
00:33:29,560 --> 00:33:32,360
Speaker 1: what's trending in Chicago? What's bred? And Angie on one

641
00:33:32,360 --> 00:33:34,640
Speaker 1: of three five kiss you know there's some days at

642
00:33:34,640 --> 00:33:36,360
Speaker 1: work or I feel like we're really just packing in

643
00:33:36,360 --> 00:33:38,760
Speaker 1: the content, and today's one of those days. Man. We've really,

644
00:33:38,760 --> 00:33:42,800
Speaker 1: we've really hit a lot of areas today. So I'm excited.

645
00:33:42,840 --> 00:33:46,640
Speaker 1: I'm proud of it. From every orifice. We are. We are,

646
00:33:47,120 --> 00:33:51,800
Speaker 1: Um bullet points to start your Wednesday. In Chicago, President

647
00:33:51,800 --> 00:33:54,440
Speaker 1: Trump waiting on rapper Kanye west announcement that he has

648
00:33:54,480 --> 00:33:57,720
Speaker 1: plans to run for president this fall, saying Kanye launched

649
00:33:57,760 --> 00:34:01,040
Speaker 1: his campaign too late. He told Real Clear Politics in

650
00:34:01,040 --> 00:34:03,000
Speaker 1: an interview that he's not sure if West is serious,

651
00:34:03,040 --> 00:34:06,080
Speaker 1: but that he won't appear on many state ballots. Trump

652
00:34:06,120 --> 00:34:09,080
Speaker 1: said he may. It's very interesting. I'd have to it'd

653
00:34:09,080 --> 00:34:11,279
Speaker 1: have to be limited to certain states because in some

654
00:34:11,320 --> 00:34:14,239
Speaker 1: states the deadline has been missed. He said, if he

655
00:34:14,320 --> 00:34:15,960
Speaker 1: did it, he would have to view this as a

656
00:34:16,040 --> 00:34:19,080
Speaker 1: trial run for what's going to happen in four years.

657
00:34:19,120 --> 00:34:21,920
Speaker 1: On July fourth, West tweeted that he will run for president.

658
00:34:22,000 --> 00:34:26,839
Speaker 1: The musician has not clarified his political plans. Like most things,

659
00:34:26,840 --> 00:34:31,040
Speaker 1: I'm sure this was just publicity, but um, I see

660
00:34:31,200 --> 00:34:35,080
Speaker 1: he's so like narcissistic. I think he might actually believe

661
00:34:35,120 --> 00:34:37,600
Speaker 1: that he could be president. I think it's pretty late

662
00:34:37,640 --> 00:34:40,239
Speaker 1: in the game. But whatever. I mean, you know, it's

663
00:34:40,280 --> 00:34:42,239
Speaker 1: not like Kanye and needs to get himself out there.

664
00:34:44,280 --> 00:34:47,640
Speaker 1: Everybody knows who Kanye is. Um, so the Washington Redskins

665
00:34:48,520 --> 00:34:50,640
Speaker 1: and look, I'm not trying to get I don't I'm

666
00:34:50,640 --> 00:34:52,880
Speaker 1: not getting in on this debate about Redskins or whatever.

667
00:34:53,120 --> 00:34:55,240
Speaker 1: However you feel about this is fine, but this doesn't

668
00:34:55,280 --> 00:34:58,040
Speaker 1: This doesn't pack the plunch for me. The Redskins might

669
00:34:58,080 --> 00:35:01,320
Speaker 1: shoot soon be changing their names to to Washington Warriors.

670
00:35:02,040 --> 00:35:04,360
Speaker 1: I think that's kind of cool. Yeah, I like the

671
00:35:04,400 --> 00:35:09,400
Speaker 1: Washington Warriors. Warriors like military veterans, like like military warriors,

672
00:35:09,400 --> 00:35:15,000
Speaker 1: like DC. Yeah, I mean, well that's fine, but I don't.

673
00:35:15,040 --> 00:35:17,239
Speaker 1: I don't know. Plus, there are the Warriors, you know

674
00:35:17,280 --> 00:35:19,719
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, Like, there's already an NBA franchise called

675
00:35:19,719 --> 00:35:20,880
Speaker 1: the Warriors. I mean, I don't know. I guess I

676
00:35:20,880 --> 00:35:24,160
Speaker 1: was hoping for something unique. There's other names that are

677
00:35:24,280 --> 00:35:29,040
Speaker 1: like aren't cross, um, you know, like, aren't there. I mean,

678
00:35:29,080 --> 00:35:31,400
Speaker 1: there's got to be more than one. Oh, the Rangers

679
00:35:31,480 --> 00:35:36,279
Speaker 1: hockey and baseball, But I mean, I don't, I don't know,

680
00:35:36,440 --> 00:35:38,359
Speaker 1: I don't know. I guess I don't know, great, they're

681
00:35:38,360 --> 00:35:40,160
Speaker 1: gonna change the name. They're currently in the process of

682
00:35:40,280 --> 00:35:43,080
Speaker 1: reviewing the team's name. It sounds like Warriors is leading

683
00:35:43,080 --> 00:35:45,719
Speaker 1: the pack. This is not confirmed, by the way, but

684
00:35:46,040 --> 00:35:48,760
Speaker 1: some reporters are saying that big money on the Warriors

685
00:35:48,840 --> 00:35:52,799
Speaker 1: being the new name for the football team. Anyway, name change, Um,

686
00:35:52,840 --> 00:35:55,280
Speaker 1: you know, for a long time that was never gonna happen,

687
00:35:55,600 --> 00:35:57,080
Speaker 1: and now a lot of teams are looking at a

688
00:35:57,080 --> 00:35:59,200
Speaker 1: lot of things that they're doing, as are many other

689
00:35:59,200 --> 00:36:02,799
Speaker 1: aspects of society. So that's good news. Um. Whatever her

690
00:36:02,880 --> 00:36:06,960
Speaker 1: name is, GEELM. Maxwell, her every move will be monitored

691
00:36:07,000 --> 00:36:08,560
Speaker 1: behind bars. If you don't know who this woman is,

692
00:36:08,560 --> 00:36:11,479
Speaker 1: you haven't watched the Epstein documentary yet, which is which

693
00:36:11,560 --> 00:36:14,160
Speaker 1: is really well done but very sickening. The Attorney General

694
00:36:14,520 --> 00:36:17,200
Speaker 1: doesn't want anything to happen to her, especially after her

695
00:36:17,200 --> 00:36:21,480
Speaker 1: former lover, Jeffrey Epstein's jail cell death. Um. She's accused

696
00:36:21,480 --> 00:36:23,760
Speaker 1: of enticing girls, some as young as fourteen, to engage

697
00:36:23,760 --> 00:36:26,080
Speaker 1: in sex x with Epstein. Now, the fifty eight year

698
00:36:26,080 --> 00:36:29,839
Speaker 1: old will be guarded by the highest security available well

699
00:36:29,880 --> 00:36:32,960
Speaker 1: behind bars. She'll be shadowed by prison officers when she

700
00:36:33,040 --> 00:36:35,400
Speaker 1: moves around the jail and a surveillance camera will be

701
00:36:35,440 --> 00:36:42,759
Speaker 1: trained on her cell. Apparently, there's no way they can

702
00:36:42,840 --> 00:36:45,320
Speaker 1: let anything happen to her after what happened to Epstein.

703
00:36:45,400 --> 00:36:50,560
Speaker 1: There's no way there is. Yeah, that's already problem number one.

704
00:36:51,000 --> 00:36:54,759
Speaker 1: There's no way this woman. They're not gonna let her.

705
00:36:54,800 --> 00:36:56,640
Speaker 1: They're going to attach her to a prison guard. There's

706
00:36:56,680 --> 00:36:59,319
Speaker 1: no way you pay those guards off and you make

707
00:36:59,360 --> 00:37:01,759
Speaker 1: the guards go away, and you like, there's way, I

708
00:37:01,760 --> 00:37:05,399
Speaker 1: mean with the royal family involved in the political people here,

709
00:37:05,600 --> 00:37:08,240
Speaker 1: she's got secrets on a lot of folks. But yeah,

710
00:37:08,600 --> 00:37:11,000
Speaker 1: she's been arrested by the FBI on suspicion of being

711
00:37:11,040 --> 00:37:15,239
Speaker 1: part of Epstein's sex trafficking ring. And yes, you've got politicians,

712
00:37:15,239 --> 00:37:18,400
Speaker 1: you've got royalty, you've got famous people who she supposedly

713
00:37:18,440 --> 00:37:22,440
Speaker 1: allegedly has stories on. So we'll see what happened. This

714
00:37:22,600 --> 00:37:25,160
Speaker 1: is a name that you know if you're kid of

715
00:37:25,239 --> 00:37:26,960
Speaker 1: the nineties. I think it's a big story in the nineties,

716
00:37:26,960 --> 00:37:31,000
Speaker 1: even into the two thousands. But Mary Kay Laturno remember her, Yeah,

717
00:37:31,360 --> 00:37:33,799
Speaker 1: the former Seattle area school teacher who was at the

718
00:37:33,800 --> 00:37:36,040
Speaker 1: center of a national scandal in the nineties when she

719
00:37:36,040 --> 00:37:39,080
Speaker 1: admitted to having an affair with her sixth grade student.

720
00:37:39,160 --> 00:37:42,839
Speaker 1: She passed away. She's fifty eight years old. Passed away

721
00:37:42,840 --> 00:37:45,759
Speaker 1: after a month's long battle with stage four cancer. So

722
00:37:46,160 --> 00:37:47,960
Speaker 1: to catch you up on this story, she was a

723
00:37:47,960 --> 00:37:51,040
Speaker 1: thirty four year old teacher in nineteen ninety six when

724
00:37:51,040 --> 00:37:52,960
Speaker 1: she was discovered to be having sexual relations with her

725
00:37:53,000 --> 00:37:56,760
Speaker 1: twelve year old student. She served seven years in prison

726
00:37:57,239 --> 00:38:00,279
Speaker 1: on rape charges, gave birth to her second child though

727
00:38:00,520 --> 00:38:04,440
Speaker 1: with this guy while in prison. Long story short, he

728
00:38:04,480 --> 00:38:06,600
Speaker 1: was forbidden from ever seeing her, but he didn't care.

729
00:38:06,640 --> 00:38:09,040
Speaker 1: He actually went to court, got that overturned, and they've

730
00:38:09,080 --> 00:38:12,359
Speaker 1: been together ever since. They tied the knight in two

731
00:38:12,400 --> 00:38:15,279
Speaker 1: thousand and five. I guess they filed for divorce in

732
00:38:15,280 --> 00:38:19,120
Speaker 1: twenty seventeen. But then, nonetheless, they had two kids together

733
00:38:19,160 --> 00:38:21,640
Speaker 1: in a very long relationship. It all started when he

734
00:38:21,680 --> 00:38:23,800
Speaker 1: was twelve years old and she was thirty before or whatever.

735
00:38:24,440 --> 00:38:30,719
Speaker 1: I remembering that Lifetime movie. Yeah yeah, Black Friday is

736
00:38:30,760 --> 00:38:34,320
Speaker 1: trending today. A retail strategist is saying, I can't envision

737
00:38:34,520 --> 00:38:37,160
Speaker 1: that happening at all this year. With everything that's going on,

738
00:38:37,440 --> 00:38:39,680
Speaker 1: there may be no Black Friday at all. I feel

739
00:38:39,680 --> 00:38:41,640
Speaker 1: like a lot of the Black Friday stuff is gone online,

740
00:38:41,680 --> 00:38:44,719
Speaker 1: but people still tackle each other for a flatscreen TV

741
00:38:44,880 --> 00:38:49,080
Speaker 1: every you know, every year, but summer saying now it

742
00:38:49,200 --> 00:38:52,280
Speaker 1: may never come back, there may never be Black Friday again,

743
00:38:53,400 --> 00:38:57,319
Speaker 1: and the same point that is losing relevance with shoppers anyway. Yeah,

744
00:38:57,360 --> 00:39:01,280
Speaker 1: I can't see like a stampede at a basketball in November,

745
00:39:01,600 --> 00:39:04,960
Speaker 1: you know for a forty nine dollars fifty in TV. Yeah,

746
00:39:05,120 --> 00:39:07,520
Speaker 1: I guess not. Um so, yeah, maybe that's one of

747
00:39:07,520 --> 00:39:10,360
Speaker 1: the many things going by the wayside. It's National Chocolate

748
00:39:10,400 --> 00:39:14,279
Speaker 1: with Almon's Day and National Freezer Pop Day today. So

749
00:39:15,080 --> 00:39:17,360
Speaker 1: we'll come back. We'll do blogs a thousand bucks waiting

750
00:39:17,400 --> 00:39:20,759
Speaker 1: by the phone all next ye. Yeah, they talk better

751
00:39:20,760 --> 00:39:23,520
Speaker 1: than they type. These are the radio blogs with Freddy

752
00:39:23,520 --> 00:39:27,200
Speaker 1: and Angie's like writing in our diaries. We say them

753
00:39:27,200 --> 00:39:29,040
Speaker 1: a lout of course six fifteen eight fifty. We call

754
00:39:29,080 --> 00:39:32,920
Speaker 1: them blogs and dear blogs. So my blog today is

755
00:39:32,960 --> 00:39:34,520
Speaker 1: about the mask and I'm so sick of like the

756
00:39:34,560 --> 00:39:37,080
Speaker 1: mask debate and all this. And then I just got

757
00:39:37,120 --> 00:39:39,880
Speaker 1: on Twitter and saw that stopped getting tested is trending.

758
00:39:40,880 --> 00:39:45,040
Speaker 1: But yet this morning I was coming into work, going

759
00:39:45,080 --> 00:39:49,200
Speaker 1: up the escalator, there's a dude like, you know, six

760
00:39:49,200 --> 00:39:52,000
Speaker 1: steps in front of me on the escalator, and I

761
00:39:52,080 --> 00:39:55,120
Speaker 1: watched him literally pull down his mask and sneeze like

762
00:39:55,239 --> 00:39:58,240
Speaker 1: three times. I'm out of the mask. Yeah, he pulled

763
00:39:58,239 --> 00:40:03,080
Speaker 1: it down to sneeze. I don't like, dude, that you

764
00:40:03,080 --> 00:40:11,480
Speaker 1: gotta sneeze sneeze. I was like backing up, but I

765
00:40:11,480 --> 00:40:14,239
Speaker 1: had my mask on, but like, still, you should have

766
00:40:14,280 --> 00:40:18,279
Speaker 1: seen any stop dropping roll. But I just I could

767
00:40:18,280 --> 00:40:20,399
Speaker 1: not believe it. I'm like, did you really just pull

768
00:40:20,440 --> 00:40:22,640
Speaker 1: down your mask to sneeze, Like that's the whole point

769
00:40:22,640 --> 00:40:25,720
Speaker 1: of the mask is to keep your droplets inside. Huh,

770
00:40:25,760 --> 00:40:29,080
Speaker 1: I've done it, and it's uncomfortable to sneeze into the mask,

771
00:40:29,160 --> 00:40:30,960
Speaker 1: but yeah, I mean that's the least you can do, right,

772
00:40:31,000 --> 00:40:33,120
Speaker 1: Like you get to breathe in your own sneezing funk.

773
00:40:33,280 --> 00:40:35,239
Speaker 1: That's the point. I was in shock. It's like the

774
00:40:35,280 --> 00:40:38,080
Speaker 1: people that wear it on their chin, but yeah, it's

775
00:40:38,120 --> 00:40:40,439
Speaker 1: like more than or they don't cover their nose as

776
00:40:40,480 --> 00:40:43,120
Speaker 1: part of the mask. It's like when you cover everything

777
00:40:43,160 --> 00:40:46,120
Speaker 1: where stuff comes out of your face. It just like

778
00:40:46,200 --> 00:40:49,560
Speaker 1: blew me away. I was like, wow, he just did that.

779
00:40:49,760 --> 00:40:52,799
Speaker 1: So yeah, if you're gonna sneeze or cough, please keep

780
00:40:52,840 --> 00:40:55,920
Speaker 1: your mask up, thank you. No one likes the mask,

781
00:40:56,000 --> 00:40:58,000
Speaker 1: we get it. No one likes to wear, and no

782
00:40:58,040 --> 00:41:01,200
Speaker 1: one's enjoying it. But it's he'd wear the damn mask

783
00:41:01,400 --> 00:41:04,759
Speaker 1: right exactly. Tired ahead and washed my mask because I

784
00:41:04,760 --> 00:41:08,239
Speaker 1: get makeup on the inside of him. Fred Nangie. The

785
00:41:08,280 --> 00:41:12,000
Speaker 1: more you know, doo doo doo doo wear the damn mask,

786
00:41:13,000 --> 00:41:18,640
Speaker 1: dear blog. So over vacation, I was home and I

787
00:41:18,800 --> 00:41:21,040
Speaker 1: was with my family. My sister was there, and we

788
00:41:21,120 --> 00:41:23,920
Speaker 1: went into storage units. It hadn't been opened in uh,

789
00:41:25,000 --> 00:41:27,399
Speaker 1: I don't know, twenty five years. Maybe there's a bunch

790
00:41:27,440 --> 00:41:30,960
Speaker 1: of like a furniture from grandparents and great grandparents and

791
00:41:31,040 --> 00:41:33,080
Speaker 1: whatever there, and my sister wanted to take some of

792
00:41:33,160 --> 00:41:35,080
Speaker 1: this stuff back for her new house. So we're in

793
00:41:35,160 --> 00:41:38,600
Speaker 1: there and we're digging all this crap out and a

794
00:41:38,719 --> 00:41:41,799
Speaker 1: box comes out and whatever. My mom takes the box

795
00:41:41,880 --> 00:41:43,600
Speaker 1: and goes for the box. And then last night I

796
00:41:43,680 --> 00:41:46,920
Speaker 1: go in. I go in and there's this stack, this

797
00:41:47,160 --> 00:41:52,799
Speaker 1: gigantic stack of letters like in envelopes that have been

798
00:41:52,840 --> 00:41:56,480
Speaker 1: opened and they're old. I'm like, what is this and

799
00:41:56,800 --> 00:42:01,040
Speaker 1: my aunt says, those are love letters. I'm your mother's

800
00:42:01,200 --> 00:42:05,480
Speaker 1: first boyfriend, first everything I think that he wrote from

801
00:42:05,560 --> 00:42:08,160
Speaker 1: college when she was in high school back to her.

802
00:42:08,480 --> 00:42:11,240
Speaker 1: They were probably a hundred of them. Wow, oh god,

803
00:42:11,440 --> 00:42:17,120
Speaker 1: so excited. I'm like, here we go, new segment on

804
00:42:17,320 --> 00:42:20,359
Speaker 1: the program. Every day we're gonna rip open a new

805
00:42:20,480 --> 00:42:25,560
Speaker 1: letter and read the nastiness that my mom's boyfriend was

806
00:42:25,719 --> 00:42:28,560
Speaker 1: writing from college. Did you really want to know about that? Though?

807
00:42:29,719 --> 00:42:31,440
Speaker 1: What if it was like stuff you didn't want to know?

808
00:42:32,840 --> 00:42:34,759
Speaker 1: I was afraid of that. But I mean this was

809
00:42:34,800 --> 00:42:36,759
Speaker 1: the mid seventies, so there was no email, or when

810
00:42:36,920 --> 00:42:39,280
Speaker 1: phone calls were expensive long distance, so it was all written,

811
00:42:39,640 --> 00:42:41,800
Speaker 1: and no, I didn't want to know. But think of

812
00:42:41,920 --> 00:42:45,239
Speaker 1: the magic all that kind of segment right where people

813
00:42:45,280 --> 00:42:47,160
Speaker 1: will tune in every day to hear the nasty things

814
00:42:47,160 --> 00:42:50,680
Speaker 1: that my mother's first boyfriend was writing to her. I

815
00:42:50,719 --> 00:42:52,239
Speaker 1: thought you were going to say they were letters that

816
00:42:52,320 --> 00:42:56,600
Speaker 1: girls wrote to you. Now. I was hoping it was

817
00:42:56,640 --> 00:42:59,800
Speaker 1: going to be a letter from camp or the camp letters.

818
00:43:01,960 --> 00:43:06,520
Speaker 1: Get those, well, I know where they are, Uncle, get him. Anyway,

819
00:43:06,560 --> 00:43:09,200
Speaker 1: I was very disappointed. They were boring letters. I mean

820
00:43:09,360 --> 00:43:11,440
Speaker 1: very very boring. I mean he'd write about the stupidest

821
00:43:11,480 --> 00:43:13,359
Speaker 1: crap and then at the end you go, I love

822
00:43:13,440 --> 00:43:15,000
Speaker 1: you very much, and that was ian. It's like all

823
00:43:15,080 --> 00:43:19,279
Speaker 1: very proper, and I was so disappointed. You know, I

824
00:43:19,400 --> 00:43:23,719
Speaker 1: was hoping. I really had big dreams, big ambitions for this,

825
00:43:23,880 --> 00:43:25,560
Speaker 1: and it just really let me down. I had to

826
00:43:25,640 --> 00:43:28,719
Speaker 1: let her know, you let her like I wouldn't want

827
00:43:28,719 --> 00:43:31,759
Speaker 1: to read now, Yeah, me either. I mean I don't

828
00:43:31,840 --> 00:43:34,239
Speaker 1: really want to, but come on, like, come on my mom.

829
00:43:34,400 --> 00:43:37,840
Speaker 1: I I mean, let's be real. It would be for

830
00:43:37,920 --> 00:43:42,239
Speaker 1: the entertainment of everybody with me and miss my mom.

831
00:43:42,400 --> 00:43:44,040
Speaker 1: You know, she's got a couple of kids. I'm aware

832
00:43:44,120 --> 00:43:47,040
Speaker 1: she's not a virgin. Um, you know, she's She's a

833
00:43:47,239 --> 00:43:53,160
Speaker 1: lovely lady, very uh, very eloquent, very majestic. I mean

834
00:43:53,960 --> 00:43:56,000
Speaker 1: that our parents are not virgins. But I don't know

835
00:43:56,080 --> 00:43:57,960
Speaker 1: that any of us want details, you know what I mean.

836
00:43:58,160 --> 00:44:00,520
Speaker 1: I've seen that I don't want to see. I have to.

837
00:44:01,200 --> 00:44:03,120
Speaker 1: I have too. We know Angie has asked her about

838
00:44:03,160 --> 00:44:05,600
Speaker 1: the workout bench next time you see her, but that

839
00:44:06,200 --> 00:44:08,360
Speaker 1: I mean like text messages and stuff, and even that

840
00:44:08,680 --> 00:44:11,759
Speaker 1: screwed me up. So I don't know. Yeah, I don't

841
00:44:12,000 --> 00:44:13,920
Speaker 1: see any of that, but I mean I didn't. I

842
00:44:13,920 --> 00:44:15,960
Speaker 1: didn't expect them to be like X rated. I don't

843
00:44:15,960 --> 00:44:17,560
Speaker 1: want to see that. But I guess I thought they

844
00:44:17,560 --> 00:44:21,920
Speaker 1: would be a little more lovey, drippy. I don't know,

845
00:44:22,120 --> 00:44:25,239
Speaker 1: something boring the guys, and I don't know what. I'm

846
00:44:25,280 --> 00:44:27,520
Speaker 1: more disappointed about the fact that the letters are boring

847
00:44:27,600 --> 00:44:31,160
Speaker 1: or that she was dating a boring guy. Yeah, that's good.

848
00:44:31,400 --> 00:44:35,359
Speaker 1: I know. It could have been my father. He talks

849
00:44:35,360 --> 00:44:38,960
Speaker 1: about this guy talks about playing bridge and playing bridge. Yes,

850
00:44:39,600 --> 00:44:42,280
Speaker 1: what college dude talks about playing bridge with her girlfriend?

851
00:44:42,760 --> 00:44:46,000
Speaker 1: Thank you. Now you understand my outrage. It was very disappointed.

852
00:44:46,920 --> 00:44:49,240
Speaker 1: Anytime I said she this big stack there were probably

853
00:44:49,280 --> 00:44:52,440
Speaker 1: one hundred letters, I'm like, boy, that's this is content

854
00:44:52,600 --> 00:44:55,719
Speaker 1: gold Man, this is something that will last forever. Well,

855
00:44:55,800 --> 00:44:57,480
Speaker 1: she didn't know she had him. I guess they were

856
00:44:57,520 --> 00:45:01,000
Speaker 1: in this box that had been you know, prehistoric box

857
00:45:01,080 --> 00:45:04,359
Speaker 1: from nineteen seventy five or something. I don't know. There

858
00:45:04,440 --> 00:45:06,520
Speaker 1: was all kinds of stuff in this box. It was

859
00:45:06,600 --> 00:45:10,919
Speaker 1: a like a like a time capsule. This storage unit

860
00:45:11,120 --> 00:45:13,320
Speaker 1: was disgusting. You ever you ever done that? Do you

861
00:45:13,360 --> 00:45:14,719
Speaker 1: have a storage unit? I don't have it. I'm not

862
00:45:14,760 --> 00:45:16,279
Speaker 1: old enough I guess to have a storage unit. But

863
00:45:16,719 --> 00:45:19,120
Speaker 1: they pushed stuff in there thirty years ago, literally locked

864
00:45:19,160 --> 00:45:20,680
Speaker 1: the door. They had no place to put it, locked

865
00:45:20,719 --> 00:45:22,719
Speaker 1: the door, and that was the last time anybody even

866
00:45:22,760 --> 00:45:24,520
Speaker 1: thought about. They paid this for this thing every month.

867
00:45:24,680 --> 00:45:26,279
Speaker 1: And finally my mom's like, you know, there's a bunch

868
00:45:26,280 --> 00:45:28,759
Speaker 1: of stuff in there that's nice. You know from back

869
00:45:28,800 --> 00:45:30,680
Speaker 1: in the day that our great grandparents, some of them

870
00:45:30,719 --> 00:45:33,600
Speaker 1: stuff they made. You know. My mom's like, cool, you

871
00:45:33,680 --> 00:45:35,560
Speaker 1: know I put this. My sister's like, cool, I put

872
00:45:35,560 --> 00:45:37,480
Speaker 1: the stuff in my house because she has a you

873
00:45:37,560 --> 00:45:39,440
Speaker 1: know a bunch of rooms in her house that are empty.

874
00:45:39,480 --> 00:45:40,640
Speaker 1: And so we went out there and looked at it,

875
00:45:40,680 --> 00:45:43,000
Speaker 1: and that's what we found. Wow, I got a storage

876
00:45:43,080 --> 00:45:51,600
Speaker 1: unit my parents' basement. So it's mine, which is weird.

877
00:45:52,200 --> 00:45:58,600
Speaker 1: So tell your parents. Thanks from the Winters STUDIOSM Chicago

878
00:46:00,880 --> 00:46:04,080
Speaker 1: and I Heart Radio Station. Here's Fredd and Angie Morning.

879
00:46:04,120 --> 00:46:08,080
Speaker 1: Everybody a thousand bucks paying some bills. Got that money

880
00:46:08,120 --> 00:46:10,320
Speaker 1: for you In three minutes, we'll do waiting by the

881
00:46:10,320 --> 00:46:12,640
Speaker 1: phone after that line of a second date for this couple,

882
00:46:12,719 --> 00:46:14,880
Speaker 1: and then the entertainment report, what do you have? And

883
00:46:15,160 --> 00:46:17,960
Speaker 1: I'll tell you wish celebrity's parents almost put her in

884
00:46:18,120 --> 00:46:21,759
Speaker 1: therapy for her bieber fever. She was so obsessed with

885
00:46:21,880 --> 00:46:26,839
Speaker 1: Justin Bieber. Wow, okay, that's about fifteen minutes away. One

886
00:46:26,960 --> 00:46:32,000
Speaker 1: or three? Five? Why did they get blown off? We'll

887
00:46:32,040 --> 00:46:34,479
Speaker 1: find out now in Waiting by the Phone with Fredd

888
00:46:34,520 --> 00:46:38,880
Speaker 1: and Angie. We gotta welcome Josh. So how you doing? Hey,

889
00:46:39,000 --> 00:46:41,160
Speaker 1: how are you guys doing? I'm good, I'm good. Welcome

890
00:46:41,200 --> 00:46:43,120
Speaker 1: to the show. We call this Waiting by the Phone.

891
00:46:43,200 --> 00:46:46,279
Speaker 1: We're gonna look into a bit of a situation. You're

892
00:46:46,320 --> 00:46:49,400
Speaker 1: in with a date. How did you meet Sarah? How

893
00:46:49,480 --> 00:46:51,239
Speaker 1: many dates have you been on? Where do you guys

894
00:46:51,280 --> 00:46:54,319
Speaker 1: stand now? Tell us all the backstory? Yeah? So, um,

895
00:46:54,840 --> 00:46:58,439
Speaker 1: I'm a little confused. We met at a friend's place

896
00:46:58,520 --> 00:47:00,880
Speaker 1: where it was just a house party. Um. And so

897
00:47:00,960 --> 00:47:02,800
Speaker 1: it was a friend of a friend, but we we

898
00:47:02,920 --> 00:47:05,960
Speaker 1: connected like immediately and we were just hanging out all

899
00:47:06,040 --> 00:47:09,000
Speaker 1: night and I knew something was there, and so before

900
00:47:09,200 --> 00:47:10,759
Speaker 1: the night was over, I was like, Hey, I just

901
00:47:10,880 --> 00:47:12,839
Speaker 1: want to know if you wanted to grab drinks at

902
00:47:12,880 --> 00:47:15,520
Speaker 1: some point, I think we could, you know, have some fun,

903
00:47:15,600 --> 00:47:19,320
Speaker 1: and she was like absolutely, and so we planned for it.

904
00:47:19,480 --> 00:47:22,359
Speaker 1: I guess it was like what like the next weekend. Yeah,

905
00:47:22,440 --> 00:47:25,319
Speaker 1: it was like seven days afterwards. Um, and we went

906
00:47:25,320 --> 00:47:28,000
Speaker 1: out and just grabbed some drinks and it was just

907
00:47:28,360 --> 00:47:30,680
Speaker 1: it was it was instant chemistry. Now, like you know

908
00:47:30,800 --> 00:47:35,120
Speaker 1: when that happened, you were obviously excited about this. It

909
00:47:35,280 --> 00:47:37,880
Speaker 1: was all. It was the best. Um. In fact, we

910
00:47:38,280 --> 00:47:42,200
Speaker 1: we didn't even um. I didn't go home that night.

911
00:47:42,360 --> 00:47:48,440
Speaker 1: Uh yeah, we ended up at her place and uh,

912
00:47:49,120 --> 00:47:51,200
Speaker 1: you know anyway, we we you know, we had fun

913
00:47:52,800 --> 00:47:56,840
Speaker 1: and yeah the next morning was it was great. And

914
00:47:57,320 --> 00:48:01,400
Speaker 1: you know, I actually had been off to um and

915
00:48:01,760 --> 00:48:03,879
Speaker 1: that's that I would give her, you know, a ring.

916
00:48:04,520 --> 00:48:06,120
Speaker 1: I guess I could give her ring later that night,

917
00:48:06,640 --> 00:48:11,040
Speaker 1: and I didn't. She didn't answer, um, which whatever. Uh,

918
00:48:11,200 --> 00:48:13,480
Speaker 1: And so I shout our attacks. And then now it's

919
00:48:13,520 --> 00:48:16,840
Speaker 1: been two weeks and I've I've not tried to be like,

920
00:48:16,960 --> 00:48:18,719
Speaker 1: you know, respectful, but I think I've shot her like

921
00:48:18,760 --> 00:48:23,600
Speaker 1: three texts over those those two weeks and literally nothing. Okay,

922
00:48:23,880 --> 00:48:25,880
Speaker 1: all right, well lesson. So you go from having this

923
00:48:26,000 --> 00:48:28,399
Speaker 1: you know, this connection you thought, and this great eyed

924
00:48:28,440 --> 00:48:30,879
Speaker 1: and you spent the eye and stuff happened, and yet

925
00:48:31,000 --> 00:48:32,800
Speaker 1: for whatever reason, she's not responding to you, and you

926
00:48:32,880 --> 00:48:35,239
Speaker 1: want to know why. Yeah, yeah, okay, that's it. Well

927
00:48:35,280 --> 00:48:36,640
Speaker 1: that's where we come in. We're gonna try and help

928
00:48:36,680 --> 00:48:39,080
Speaker 1: out here. We'll call Sarah, will ask some questions. You'll

929
00:48:39,120 --> 00:48:41,440
Speaker 1: be on the phone the whole time. Hopefully we can

930
00:48:41,880 --> 00:48:45,400
Speaker 1: get some some answers for you and help solve this mystery.

931
00:48:45,640 --> 00:48:47,080
Speaker 1: I want you to jump in at some point, but

932
00:48:47,200 --> 00:48:49,440
Speaker 1: not at first, because you know, hopefully she'll tell us

933
00:48:49,440 --> 00:48:52,120
Speaker 1: a few things and you can listen. And I, you know,

934
00:48:52,520 --> 00:48:54,080
Speaker 1: I wish you had best I hope this works out.

935
00:48:54,120 --> 00:48:56,239
Speaker 1: I hope there's some explanation as to why. Maybe she's

936
00:48:56,280 --> 00:48:58,960
Speaker 1: been busy, or something happened in her family, or who knows,

937
00:48:59,040 --> 00:49:01,600
Speaker 1: she's been sidetracked. And yeah, maybe we can get you

938
00:49:01,640 --> 00:49:04,239
Speaker 1: guys set up on another day. Okay, awesome, appreciate you guys.

939
00:49:04,320 --> 00:49:06,919
Speaker 1: Than can you hang on for a second. I guess

940
00:49:06,960 --> 00:49:09,360
Speaker 1: that's a guess. You got to hear what happens next

941
00:49:09,560 --> 00:49:12,600
Speaker 1: after the weekend in two minutes on one O three five.

942
00:49:13,320 --> 00:49:16,279
Speaker 1: It's the weekend one three five Kiss FM, Chicago's number

943
00:49:16,320 --> 00:49:19,520
Speaker 1: one hit music station. Fred Nancy are here, Hey, Josh,

944
00:49:20,080 --> 00:49:22,239
Speaker 1: all right, welcome back. Let's call Sarah. You guys met

945
00:49:22,400 --> 00:49:26,160
Speaker 1: at a mutual friends party at a blast hooked up,

946
00:49:26,239 --> 00:49:29,240
Speaker 1: spent the night, you felt this connection, except you've reached

947
00:49:29,280 --> 00:49:31,839
Speaker 1: out for a couple of weeks now since that night,

948
00:49:31,920 --> 00:49:33,640
Speaker 1: and you haven't heard a word you want to know why?

949
00:49:34,040 --> 00:49:36,239
Speaker 1: That's it? Okay, we'll call her right now. Good luck?

950
00:49:36,239 --> 00:49:47,120
Speaker 1: All right? Thanks? Hello, Hi, Sarah, Hi, Hi. It's Fred

951
00:49:47,200 --> 00:49:50,200
Speaker 1: and Antie calling from the morning radio show on Kiss FM.

952
00:49:50,280 --> 00:49:51,719
Speaker 1: And I'm sorry to bother, but I have to tell

953
00:49:51,760 --> 00:49:53,279
Speaker 1: you before we go any further with the call, that

954
00:49:53,360 --> 00:49:55,319
Speaker 1: we are on the radio and I would need your

955
00:49:55,320 --> 00:49:57,239
Speaker 1: permission to continue. Is it okay if we keep going?

956
00:49:57,640 --> 00:50:01,120
Speaker 1: Oh my god? Um? Sure? Hi? Hi, Well, thank you

957
00:50:01,200 --> 00:50:03,520
Speaker 1: so much. We appreciate that this hopefully won't take long

958
00:50:03,560 --> 00:50:06,400
Speaker 1: and I'll get right to it. We're calling about um.

959
00:50:06,600 --> 00:50:09,640
Speaker 1: A guy named Josh who reached out to us says

960
00:50:09,680 --> 00:50:12,080
Speaker 1: that you guys met at a friend's party and uh,

961
00:50:12,239 --> 00:50:15,040
Speaker 1: you may have there may have been a connection there.

962
00:50:16,480 --> 00:50:22,359
Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, there was a connection. Okay, Well what's um,

963
00:50:22,520 --> 00:50:25,320
Speaker 1: what's going on? Because he says he reached out to

964
00:50:25,400 --> 00:50:28,600
Speaker 1: you after the first night and you haven't responded, is

965
00:50:28,680 --> 00:50:30,200
Speaker 1: responded to him at all and all that time, and

966
00:50:30,239 --> 00:50:33,880
Speaker 1: he kind of wants to know why. Um, I'm honestly

967
00:50:33,920 --> 00:50:39,319
Speaker 1: and surprised. I don't know why, but um, it got

968
00:50:39,440 --> 00:50:43,400
Speaker 1: really weird. We went we we did go back to

969
00:50:43,520 --> 00:50:46,840
Speaker 1: my place to up, but I think that he was

970
00:50:46,920 --> 00:50:53,640
Speaker 1: trying to be Christian Gray, like fifty shades of gray. Yeah, yeah, yeah, wow,

971
00:50:53,880 --> 00:50:55,640
Speaker 1: Like how is he how is he trying to be

972
00:50:55,840 --> 00:50:58,799
Speaker 1: Christian Gray? Well, it was like it was I mean

973
00:50:58,920 --> 00:51:00,800
Speaker 1: like it wasn't even the things he said. He was

974
00:51:00,840 --> 00:51:04,719
Speaker 1: like acting like it and please describe you have a

975
00:51:04,800 --> 00:51:07,719
Speaker 1: red room of pain. No, but he said he didn't

976
00:51:07,760 --> 00:51:09,520
Speaker 1: like to be touched, which is a really weird thing

977
00:51:09,520 --> 00:51:12,040
Speaker 1: because We've been like warning all night and I've been

978
00:51:12,719 --> 00:51:14,560
Speaker 1: touched him and suddenly we get back to my place

979
00:51:14,600 --> 00:51:16,320
Speaker 1: and he's like, I don't like to be touched and

980
00:51:16,480 --> 00:51:20,200
Speaker 1: I was like why and he said, because I'm fifty

981
00:51:20,280 --> 00:51:28,480
Speaker 1: shades of up antaesthesia lines from the book God. Okay,

982
00:51:28,480 --> 00:51:31,320
Speaker 1: well he really embraced the character. Okay, so continue, So

983
00:51:31,480 --> 00:51:34,239
Speaker 1: is that an he No, he goes, he goes further, like,

984
00:51:34,320 --> 00:51:36,520
Speaker 1: first of all, Antastasia obviously not my name, but yes,

985
00:51:36,560 --> 00:51:39,640
Speaker 1: he's just quoting straight from the book, and he goes

986
00:51:40,120 --> 00:51:43,520
Speaker 1: desire pools dark and deadly and like groin. And then

987
00:51:43,600 --> 00:51:47,040
Speaker 1: he actually started getting controlling. No, literally, he's like he

988
00:51:47,400 --> 00:51:49,279
Speaker 1: grabs his frist and he goes tomorrow. I want you

989
00:51:49,320 --> 00:51:53,960
Speaker 1: to remember that only I have been here. You are mine? Wow? Wow?

990
00:51:54,239 --> 00:51:56,040
Speaker 1: And are you like all I dude, step out of it,

991
00:51:56,160 --> 00:51:59,239
Speaker 1: like your name's Josh, and uh, you're acting weird. I

992
00:51:59,440 --> 00:52:02,160
Speaker 1: tried to, but like he just kept getting controlling about it,

993
00:52:02,239 --> 00:52:05,040
Speaker 1: and like I just didn't know what to do. So

994
00:52:05,440 --> 00:52:09,840
Speaker 1: I I'm not I'm not gonna I'm not gonna respond

995
00:52:09,920 --> 00:52:12,200
Speaker 1: to that. I mean, but you did it. According to him,

996
00:52:12,520 --> 00:52:15,399
Speaker 1: you know, there was some physicality like it. I guess

997
00:52:15,440 --> 00:52:18,520
Speaker 1: you went with it for that night, right, yeah, but

998
00:52:18,800 --> 00:52:20,839
Speaker 1: like I don't know, how do you have a relationship

999
00:52:20,880 --> 00:52:22,440
Speaker 1: with that? Like I just had fun for one night,

1000
00:52:22,480 --> 00:52:24,719
Speaker 1: and I'm just like, okay, I'm good. Let me bring Josh.

1001
00:52:24,719 --> 00:52:26,600
Speaker 1: And I forgot to mention that he's here. Josh. Really,

1002
00:52:26,760 --> 00:52:30,719
Speaker 1: so you're you're Christian Gray? No, No, I was. It

1003
00:52:30,840 --> 00:52:32,319
Speaker 1: was a thing. It was a thing I was doing.

1004
00:52:34,400 --> 00:52:37,480
Speaker 1: I look, okay, Sarah, your friends said you were really

1005
00:52:37,520 --> 00:52:39,920
Speaker 1: into that book. Uh, and so I thought, you know,

1006
00:52:40,000 --> 00:52:43,879
Speaker 1: I thought it would be hot. And so I'm really

1007
00:52:43,880 --> 00:52:45,919
Speaker 1: into CBS Sunday Morning and I want to bang Jane

1008
00:52:46,000 --> 00:52:53,279
Speaker 1: Polly and talk about give me were really good? Oh

1009
00:52:53,360 --> 00:52:54,880
Speaker 1: my god, that doesn't mean that I want you to

1010
00:52:54,960 --> 00:52:59,000
Speaker 1: beat Christian Gray. Yeah, oh my god, So that's the

1011
00:52:59,200 --> 00:53:01,439
Speaker 1: fantasy that you had. You enjoy the books or whatever,

1012
00:53:01,520 --> 00:53:02,880
Speaker 1: but it doesn't mean that's what you don't want to

1013
00:53:02,880 --> 00:53:05,200
Speaker 1: live that way, you don't actually want him to like. Plus,

1014
00:53:05,280 --> 00:53:08,680
Speaker 1: it's a little corny that you're quoting Mary, actual Christian

1015
00:53:08,719 --> 00:53:11,360
Speaker 1: Gray lines. Mary Corny. Well, you know it worked in

1016
00:53:11,440 --> 00:53:13,800
Speaker 1: the moment. It did work, but it's not going to

1017
00:53:13,840 --> 00:53:15,400
Speaker 1: work long term. It sounds like, I mean, is there

1018
00:53:15,400 --> 00:53:18,560
Speaker 1: any way if he asks like Josh and not Christian,

1019
00:53:18,640 --> 00:53:20,640
Speaker 1: that you'd consider another day with him? Because it sounds

1020
00:53:20,640 --> 00:53:22,960
Speaker 1: like you had fun. I mean, I guess I had

1021
00:53:23,040 --> 00:53:25,600
Speaker 1: fun with Christian Gray, Like I don't even know if Josh,

1022
00:53:26,040 --> 00:53:29,799
Speaker 1: I don't know. I think I'm good. I think I'm good, Josh.

1023
00:53:29,840 --> 00:53:33,640
Speaker 1: I appreciate the like the research, like you did some homework.

1024
00:53:33,680 --> 00:53:38,120
Speaker 1: I mean, I read all the books, all of the

1025
00:53:38,160 --> 00:53:41,320
Speaker 1: books did anticipation of meeting this girl. Because desire pools

1026
00:53:41,400 --> 00:53:45,000
Speaker 1: dark and deadly and you're growing apparently. Well yeah, hey,

1027
00:53:45,040 --> 00:53:46,520
Speaker 1: when you when you read a good line, you read

1028
00:53:46,520 --> 00:53:49,520
Speaker 1: a good line. It's not really Shakespeare or anything, but whatever. Um,

1029
00:53:49,960 --> 00:53:52,080
Speaker 1: all right, Well, I'm sorry that the desire is going

1030
00:53:52,120 --> 00:53:55,080
Speaker 1: to continue to pool in your growing area. Yeah, I

1031
00:53:55,080 --> 00:53:59,879
Speaker 1: do something about that pool. Yeah, control. Okay, well, best

1032
00:54:00,080 --> 00:54:02,080
Speaker 1: loved to both of you. I appreciate your time. Okay,

1033
00:54:02,400 --> 00:54:06,000
Speaker 1: all right, thank you. Well, really embrace the character until

1034
00:54:06,040 --> 00:54:08,360
Speaker 1: blows on. Now the Entertainer Report Angie has up to

1035
00:54:08,440 --> 00:54:11,360
Speaker 1: the second Hollywood News and Gossip. Next on one h

1036
00:54:11,440 --> 00:54:20,680
Speaker 1: three five Angie's Entertainment Reports with Fred and Angie, and

1037
00:54:20,680 --> 00:54:22,960
Speaker 1: it's brought to you by Commed Keeping You in Form.

1038
00:54:23,040 --> 00:54:25,640
Speaker 1: So when she was around ten years old, Billie Eilish

1039
00:54:26,239 --> 00:54:30,640
Speaker 1: fought a very very brave battle against a really serious illness,

1040
00:54:32,640 --> 00:54:36,080
Speaker 1: biber fever. It was so bad that just listening to

1041
00:54:36,200 --> 00:54:40,160
Speaker 1: Justin's music could send her into uncontrollable crying fits. Million

1042
00:54:40,239 --> 00:54:42,160
Speaker 1: her dad have a podcast, I guess called Me and

1043
00:54:42,280 --> 00:54:48,319
Speaker 1: Dad Radio. It's not radio, it's a podcast and don't

1044
00:54:48,320 --> 00:54:52,800
Speaker 1: you insult those of us uh radio personality state And

1045
00:54:53,000 --> 00:54:55,600
Speaker 1: on a recent episode, Billy and her mom discussed this

1046
00:54:55,800 --> 00:54:58,120
Speaker 1: dark time in her life. The disease hit its peak

1047
00:54:58,160 --> 00:54:59,920
Speaker 1: when Justin released the video for as Long as You

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Speaker 1: Love Me in twenty twelve. Yeah I love that song

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Speaker 1: so much. Yeah, and so Billy's mom said I remember

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Speaker 1: this one really well and the video and Billy talking

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Speaker 1: about it and being excited it was coming out, and

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Speaker 1: just crying and crying. Billy said, I watched the music

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Speaker 1: video for this song and just sob Her mom said,

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Speaker 1: I just wanted to say, we did consider taking you

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Speaker 1: to therapy because you were in so much pain over

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Speaker 1: Justin Bieber. I also knew a teenager that I almost

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Speaker 1: sent to therapy over her Shawn Mendes infatuation who would

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Speaker 1: cry all the time Mendez. So, Kanye West got official

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Speaker 1: approval to start building a new monster of a house

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Speaker 1: on his ranch and Cody, Wyoming. According to his plans,

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Speaker 1: Kanye's gonna be building a ten bedroom manton and it's

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Speaker 1: going to be the primary one he'll use for him

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Speaker 1: and his wife, Kim and the kids. He estimates the

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Speaker 1: house will be fifty two thousand square feet. Holy crap.

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Speaker 1: He also filed documents seeking permission to build two underground

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Speaker 1: garages at ten thousand square feet pop. He got the

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Speaker 1: okay on that. On top of it, he plans to

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Speaker 1: construct two new lakehouses on top of the ones that

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Speaker 1: are there right now. He's for the entire state of Wyoming.

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Speaker 1: This is the smartest thing I've ever heard Kanye do. Like,

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Speaker 1: I'm way into this. I love the idea of a

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Speaker 1: huge compound in Montana. I'm in towns are probably mad

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Speaker 1: in Wyoming's Wyoming, But you want to go to Montana?

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Speaker 1: I thought Mexico. Yeah, well no, I don't want to

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Speaker 1: go to New Mexico. I want to buy New Mexico.

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Speaker 1: He's practically buying Wyoming. I feel like Wyoming Montana either one.

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Speaker 1: I'm down for either one of those things. A big compound,

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Speaker 1: you know. Let me have my stuff there and look

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Speaker 1: at the beautiful you know whatever, and then I'll do

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Speaker 1: everything from there and everyone can come visit me. I

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Speaker 1: feel bad for the people that live there. No, it's

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00:56:48,239 --> 00:56:50,239
Speaker 1: like it's gonna be like a tour spot. Now. It's

1083
00:56:50,239 --> 00:56:53,759
Speaker 1: gonna be like it's like Calabasa's two point zero now yeah, yeah,

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00:56:54,040 --> 00:56:57,280
Speaker 1: except that place is so spread out. They probably won't

1085
00:56:57,280 --> 00:57:01,120
Speaker 1: even see him, you know, they won't even mean ahead.

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00:57:01,600 --> 00:57:03,480
Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm sure he's making it so it's in

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00:57:03,560 --> 00:57:06,840
Speaker 1: such a remote area, you know that nobody's gonna he

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00:57:06,920 --> 00:57:08,960
Speaker 1: doesn't want neighbors. Who wants to see Kim at the

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00:57:09,040 --> 00:57:12,040
Speaker 1: general store like buying you know, barrel. I don't think

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Speaker 1: she's going to get repellent, do so normal? Yeah? Everybody? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: she rides in on her horse and there's rins up

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Speaker 1: the horse of Poe, the horses and her cowboys's got

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Speaker 1: a golden lass. Who did this become eighteen? It's like

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Speaker 1: it's reverse Beverly Hillbilly. Yeah. Um, here's here's your Disney

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Speaker 1: and the studio's live action Peter Pan film Peter Pan

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Speaker 1: and Wendy Okay. If the deal closes, Jude will follow

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Speaker 1: Plus streaming route. Jude is coming off HBO's The New Pope,

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Speaker 1: b oversharing once again about what she's bleaching on her

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Speaker 1: body and you got to see this video of this dog.

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Speaker 1: I could see your mom doing this. Fred. They have

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Speaker 1: like not a labordoodle, but one of those doodle mixes,

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Speaker 1: and they have this soundboard and it's got like these

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Speaker 1: buttons on it, and so the dog will hit play

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Speaker 1: and then hit outside and it means he wants to

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Speaker 1: go play outside, or the mom will come home and

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Speaker 1: he'll hit mom and then home and I love you.

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Speaker 1: It's crazy. They trained him with all these different buttons,

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Speaker 1: these big buttons, and he hits his paw to communicate.

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Speaker 1: It's pretty amazing. I know. I hope my mom is

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Speaker 1: that listening to this, because that sounds like such an

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Speaker 1: undertaking trying to teach a dog, you know, how to

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Speaker 1: use a soundboard. It's hard enough how to teach kids

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Speaker 1: how to talk alone a dog. But you can see

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Speaker 1: this probably deserves um more more time than we have.

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Speaker 1: But this is from the New York Post today, people,

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00:59:43,800 --> 00:59:47,880
Speaker 1: And this isn't really new, the idea of co parenting, UM.

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00:59:48,280 --> 00:59:51,640
Speaker 1: But in this case, it's a new trend that people

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00:59:51,680 --> 00:59:54,160
Speaker 1: are seeing in There are websites devoted to it. UM.

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00:59:54,440 --> 00:59:59,400
Speaker 1: It is two strangers co parenting, yeah, which I think

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00:59:59,560 --> 01:00:01,840
Speaker 1: is sort of of like people just getting together have

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Speaker 1: a baby and that's it. What But but that's not

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01:00:04,480 --> 01:00:06,960
Speaker 1: even like and this is I'm not even being funny.

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01:00:07,000 --> 01:00:09,440
Speaker 1: Now twice, at least twice I can think of it.

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01:00:09,480 --> 01:00:12,240
Speaker 1: I'm honored by the way I've had single women at

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01:00:12,320 --> 01:00:15,160
Speaker 1: certain points in their lives asked me if I would

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01:00:15,160 --> 01:00:19,480
Speaker 1: be interested in giving sperm, and I in both cases

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Speaker 1: decline because I, I don't know, I think that's a

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01:00:22,560 --> 01:00:25,080
Speaker 1: lot and I and not that I don't think that's

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01:00:25,120 --> 01:00:27,720
Speaker 1: a wonderful thing that people do, but for various reasons

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01:00:27,880 --> 01:00:30,600
Speaker 1: when these when I was asked, I said no. But

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Speaker 1: in this case, it's at least that's someone that I know,

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01:00:35,000 --> 01:00:37,880
Speaker 1: somebody with whom I you know, I have some background,

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Speaker 1: I know what they're about. I could potentially be involved

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01:00:40,840 --> 01:00:43,560
Speaker 1: this is strangers, you would have a kid together, and

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Speaker 1: then you would you would share responsibility for the kid

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01:00:46,160 --> 01:00:48,520
Speaker 1: in parenting, but you don't know the person. I mean,

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Speaker 1: I think that's that's pretty out there. Um that mod

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Speaker 1: of family cooparents, dot Com, pollen Tree, Pride Angel, all

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Speaker 1: websites to do it this, even that TV show on

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Speaker 1: Fox Labor of Love in which suitors compete to be

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Speaker 1: the co parent of a former bachelor contestant. I mean,

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Speaker 1: there's you know, I can kind of see the reasoning

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01:01:08,360 --> 01:01:11,120
Speaker 1: because if you think about people that just you know,

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01:01:11,240 --> 01:01:13,720
Speaker 1: go to a sperm bank, right and they get their

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Speaker 1: sperm and they have a baby and they're single parents.

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Speaker 1: Basically here you're kind of getting a sperm donor that

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01:01:20,520 --> 01:01:23,520
Speaker 1: also gets to help help you out a little. But

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01:01:23,600 --> 01:01:25,920
Speaker 1: on the flip side, that person's also involved in your

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01:01:25,960 --> 01:01:27,960
Speaker 1: life now, whether you want it or not. And all

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01:01:28,000 --> 01:01:31,800
Speaker 1: you know is you know what they tell you in

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01:01:32,160 --> 01:01:35,280
Speaker 1: a relative just like a relatively short courtship, if you

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Speaker 1: want to call it that. And then I mean, because

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Speaker 1: at least with the sperm donor, that person has signed

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Speaker 1: off responsibility and you have also agreed that they don't

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Speaker 1: have to have any responsibility so eventually you get you know,

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01:01:46,680 --> 01:01:49,080
Speaker 1: the product or whatever, you get the d N, you

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01:01:49,200 --> 01:01:50,800
Speaker 1: create the baby, and then you go off on your

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Speaker 1: life and you set the terms. But now, I guess

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Speaker 1: theoretically you would, you know, co parent, right, But how

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Speaker 1: well are these people being vetted? You know what I'm saying, Like,

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Speaker 1: you have a baby with somebody, and if you're co parenting,

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Speaker 1: they could have complete opposite parenting ideologies that you have,

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Speaker 1: or they could be weirdos or whatever. So how are

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Speaker 1: they being vetted? Like how do you know what sort

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Speaker 1: of parents somebody's going to be before? That's what I'm saying. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: And I don't know a lot about this, so I'm

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Speaker 1: not I'm not pooh pooing it because I don't you know,

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01:02:24,200 --> 01:02:26,280
Speaker 1: maybe this is great or whatever. I don't. I don't know,

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Speaker 1: but I guess my initial thoughts are that at least

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01:02:30,400 --> 01:02:33,480
Speaker 1: when you date someone for a little while, you sort

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01:02:33,520 --> 01:02:35,760
Speaker 1: of you know, you go through the honeymoon period and

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01:02:35,880 --> 01:02:38,320
Speaker 1: then you uncover or whatever is, you know, then you

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01:02:38,360 --> 01:02:39,880
Speaker 1: start to see who the person really is and what

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01:02:39,960 --> 01:02:42,720
Speaker 1: their mannerisms are and their beliefs and stuff. In this case,

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01:02:44,400 --> 01:02:46,720
Speaker 1: people are going to present themselves in the best possible

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01:02:46,760 --> 01:02:49,720
Speaker 1: way in order to make this happen in their lives.

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Speaker 1: There's a personal matchmaking service you can pay between twenty

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Speaker 1: five hundred and ten thousand dollars to do this. I mean,

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Speaker 1: I think it's a great idea because there are a

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Speaker 1: lot of folks out there who want to have a family,

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01:02:58,800 --> 01:03:01,320
Speaker 1: who no longer feel the pressure to be in a relationship.

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01:03:01,400 --> 01:03:05,160
Speaker 1: I completely support and advocate for that. If that's what

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Speaker 1: you want, and you could provide a great life for

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Speaker 1: a child, and you have the resources and the and

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Speaker 1: the love to give, so be it. But I guess

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Speaker 1: what I wonder is adding that extra element, because what

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01:03:15,080 --> 01:03:17,120
Speaker 1: if that adds more complication to your life? You know,

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01:03:17,200 --> 01:03:19,200
Speaker 1: maybe I would just rather have the kid on my own,

1204
01:03:19,600 --> 01:03:22,720
Speaker 1: you know, hire a surrogate or whatever, your control of

1205
01:03:22,800 --> 01:03:26,160
Speaker 1: how everything goes. And exactly because if I'm trying to

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Speaker 1: have a kid and I'm putting my best foot forward

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01:03:29,000 --> 01:03:30,920
Speaker 1: and you're putting your best foot forward, even if you

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01:03:31,000 --> 01:03:33,640
Speaker 1: test me medically and psychologically and whatever, how do I

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01:03:33,760 --> 01:03:35,720
Speaker 1: know that in a year? You know, we don't wind

1210
01:03:35,800 --> 01:03:38,640
Speaker 1: up having, as you mentioned to your point, fundamental differences

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01:03:38,680 --> 01:03:41,360
Speaker 1: in how we're going to do this, right, Yeah, it's scary.

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01:03:41,560 --> 01:03:44,040
Speaker 1: I guess I didn't consider that part of it, Like

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01:03:44,560 --> 01:03:47,080
Speaker 1: this person could be weirdo. You know, I don't know

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Speaker 1: if they're going to like do weird things to my kid,

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01:03:50,120 --> 01:03:53,160
Speaker 1: or you know, fill their brain with things that I

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01:03:53,240 --> 01:03:55,480
Speaker 1: don't agree with, or kidnaped my you know what I mean.

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Speaker 1: It's just that's kind of scary. Well, and I guess

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Speaker 1: even more, maybe more importantly, it's it's sort of just

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Speaker 1: a matter of I don't know what I don't know. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I mean there are people who were at one point

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01:04:09,200 --> 01:04:12,560
Speaker 1: married who try and co parent and can't pull it off,

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01:04:12,640 --> 01:04:15,720
Speaker 1: and they know each other really really well. So I

1223
01:04:15,760 --> 01:04:18,000
Speaker 1: guess I could see this going both ways. But it's

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Speaker 1: interesting we're talking about pregnancy because my therapist the other day,

1225
01:04:21,400 --> 01:04:24,880
Speaker 1: you know, we're doing we're doing virtual therapy or whatever

1226
01:04:24,960 --> 01:04:28,160
Speaker 1: you like, video therapy, and we have since February, since

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01:04:28,200 --> 01:04:31,640
Speaker 1: this whole COVID thing began, and so I haven't seen

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01:04:31,720 --> 01:04:34,520
Speaker 1: her from the waist up, or she hasn't seen me

1229
01:04:34,760 --> 01:04:36,880
Speaker 1: or from the waist down. Rather, you know, it's just whatever,

1230
01:04:37,000 --> 01:04:39,800
Speaker 1: like a FaceTime goal. She hasn't see me from the

1231
01:04:39,800 --> 01:04:42,160
Speaker 1: waist down in four months, and she has deprived man.

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Speaker 1: She was telling the other day, I just gotta see you.

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Speaker 1: I gotta see it from the waist down, fred, um

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Speaker 1: and so and so she says to me, she says,

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Speaker 1: why I have to tell you, um, I'll be gone

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Speaker 1: at the end of the year from maternity leave. Well,

1237
01:04:55,080 --> 01:04:57,800
Speaker 1: I had no ideas she was pregnant, no idea whatsoever.

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01:04:58,800 --> 01:05:01,480
Speaker 1: And so she's talking about, you know, a backup plan

1239
01:05:01,640 --> 01:05:04,680
Speaker 1: and you know, how do you feel about me being gone?

1240
01:05:04,800 --> 01:05:07,960
Speaker 1: And can you go there long and got But here's

1241
01:05:08,080 --> 01:05:09,480
Speaker 1: here's the part of this that kind of blew me

1242
01:05:09,560 --> 01:05:14,160
Speaker 1: away at that very moment. And it doesn't matter at all,

1243
01:05:14,280 --> 01:05:16,720
Speaker 1: But at that very moment, I came to realize, I

1244
01:05:16,880 --> 01:05:20,000
Speaker 1: know absolutely nothing about this woman. You're not supposed to

1245
01:05:20,240 --> 01:05:22,400
Speaker 1: anything about her. I know, I know, I know. But

1246
01:05:22,520 --> 01:05:24,280
Speaker 1: think about this for a second, like it blew me

1247
01:05:24,320 --> 01:05:27,240
Speaker 1: away that for four years I've been telling her everything.

1248
01:05:27,680 --> 01:05:29,920
Speaker 1: She knows, everything there is to know. I mean, I

1249
01:05:30,000 --> 01:05:32,640
Speaker 1: have been really probably as raw and honest about the

1250
01:05:32,720 --> 01:05:34,640
Speaker 1: good and the bad as I have with anybody in

1251
01:05:34,720 --> 01:05:36,960
Speaker 1: my life. And when she tells me she's pregnant, I

1252
01:05:37,080 --> 01:05:39,080
Speaker 1: come to realize, at that very moment, I don't know

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01:05:39,160 --> 01:05:41,600
Speaker 1: if she's married, I don't know if she has other kids.

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Speaker 1: I have no idea. So my reaction to that, and

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01:05:45,040 --> 01:05:46,680
Speaker 1: I told her this, I was like, you know what's

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01:05:46,680 --> 01:05:49,479
Speaker 1: funny is I'm I'm so happy for you. I feel

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01:05:49,520 --> 01:05:51,720
Speaker 1: like we're friends. We're not, and I know that we're

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01:05:51,760 --> 01:05:53,880
Speaker 1: not friends, but we know each other at leaves. You

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01:05:54,000 --> 01:05:57,360
Speaker 1: know me so well. But I don't know, and it's

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01:05:57,400 --> 01:05:59,800
Speaker 1: none of my business. But I don't I don't know

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01:06:00,040 --> 01:06:03,479
Speaker 1: what the sort of scenario is here, Like anybody would

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01:06:03,480 --> 01:06:06,200
Speaker 1: be happy for somebody who tells you that they're having

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01:06:06,240 --> 01:06:08,640
Speaker 1: a child, right, but maybe your reaction would be even

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01:06:08,760 --> 01:06:11,840
Speaker 1: more happy or more supportive if you knew the circumstances.

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01:06:12,200 --> 01:06:14,800
Speaker 1: I don't think she's married because she doesn't wear a ring.

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01:06:15,200 --> 01:06:17,360
Speaker 1: So does that mean that either she got knocked up?

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01:06:17,680 --> 01:06:20,200
Speaker 1: Does that mean that she has a boyfriend that I

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01:06:20,280 --> 01:06:22,800
Speaker 1: don't know about? Does that mean that she was planning it?

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01:06:22,960 --> 01:06:25,240
Speaker 1: Was she not planning it? Or even more importantly, did

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01:06:25,280 --> 01:06:27,920
Speaker 1: she decide to take this on herself in the situation

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01:06:28,000 --> 01:06:30,200
Speaker 1: like we were talking about. No, But I don't matter

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01:06:32,480 --> 01:06:36,640
Speaker 1: why because because because wouldn't that matter to you if

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01:06:36,880 --> 01:06:39,120
Speaker 1: someone that you knew really well? I don't know, but

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01:06:39,280 --> 01:06:43,920
Speaker 1: I don't know. I love my therapist, love love love her.

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Speaker 1: I wouldn't expect to know those personal things about her.

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01:06:49,280 --> 01:06:52,000
Speaker 1: And if she were to tell me that she was pregnant, well,

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01:06:52,040 --> 01:06:54,520
Speaker 1: first of all, I'd be shocked because she's much older

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01:06:54,560 --> 01:06:58,280
Speaker 1: than me. But second of all, I would just be happy, miracle.

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01:06:58,360 --> 01:07:00,880
Speaker 1: I would, Yeah, I would. I would just be like congratulate.

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01:07:01,000 --> 01:07:04,640
Speaker 1: I mean, I'm not to know about her. And I

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01:07:05,120 --> 01:07:08,840
Speaker 1: understand all of that, Like you're talking sort of therapeutic boundaries.

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01:07:08,880 --> 01:07:11,120
Speaker 1: I understand that. But I guess what I'm saying is,

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01:07:11,120 --> 01:07:13,280
Speaker 1: when I really think about it, this is a person

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01:07:13,360 --> 01:07:15,840
Speaker 1: who I've seen every I've seen every week for four years,

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01:07:16,280 --> 01:07:18,800
Speaker 1: and I've come to realize that I don't know anything

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01:07:18,880 --> 01:07:21,400
Speaker 1: about this, and I think that that it's weird for

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01:07:21,480 --> 01:07:23,200
Speaker 1: me to wrap my brain around it. I'm not saying

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01:07:23,240 --> 01:07:25,640
Speaker 1: that it's wrong. I'm not saying that she's not. You know,

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01:07:25,720 --> 01:07:28,840
Speaker 1: clearly she's She's respected the boundaries and that's the way

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01:07:28,880 --> 01:07:32,560
Speaker 1: that it's supposed to be. But I just think differently

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01:07:32,600 --> 01:07:34,680
Speaker 1: if you do any circumstances the thing, and I think

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01:07:34,720 --> 01:07:37,360
Speaker 1: that she's that's why the boundaries exist, because let's say

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01:07:37,520 --> 01:07:40,920
Speaker 1: she is a lesbian. Let's say she I don't know.

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01:07:40,960 --> 01:07:44,600
Speaker 1: There are a million different parameters, and I guess the

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01:07:44,640 --> 01:07:47,640
Speaker 1: boundaries exist because some people might think of her differently

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01:07:47,680 --> 01:07:50,360
Speaker 1: based on their personal values. I can't think of one

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01:07:50,480 --> 01:07:53,440
Speaker 1: scenario that she could present to me that would make

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01:07:53,480 --> 01:07:56,160
Speaker 1: me feel any less about her or any less supportive.

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01:07:56,520 --> 01:07:59,280
Speaker 1: I just think like, Wow, maybe she took on this

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01:07:59,440 --> 01:08:02,480
Speaker 1: endeavor all by herself. That's awesome. I'd love to be like,

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01:08:02,640 --> 01:08:04,840
Speaker 1: that's awesome. Yeah, But I can't. I guess what I'm

1302
01:08:04,840 --> 01:08:06,800
Speaker 1: saying is I can't. I can show support, and I

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01:08:06,880 --> 01:08:10,640
Speaker 1: can show enthusiasm and happiness for her, but I don't

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01:08:10,680 --> 01:08:14,120
Speaker 1: exactly know what I'm happy about. Fully, the baby does years.

1305
01:08:14,160 --> 01:08:16,760
Speaker 1: She's gonna be a mama, like she clearly somewhere along

1306
01:08:16,760 --> 01:08:18,679
Speaker 1: the line made the decision to have a kid, whether

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01:08:18,920 --> 01:08:21,400
Speaker 1: you know however it happened. The baby is a blessing,

1308
01:08:22,479 --> 01:08:24,800
Speaker 1: of course it is. I guess what I'm saying is

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01:08:25,000 --> 01:08:27,000
Speaker 1: it's it's hard for me to wrap my brain around

1310
01:08:27,160 --> 01:08:29,840
Speaker 1: It's it's in moments like this that I realize that

1311
01:08:31,600 --> 01:08:34,120
Speaker 1: I talk to somebody almost as much as I talk

1312
01:08:34,200 --> 01:08:36,760
Speaker 1: to anybody, and yet I don't know about her life

1313
01:08:36,920 --> 01:08:38,479
Speaker 1: and I know that's the way it's supposed to be,

1314
01:08:38,800 --> 01:08:42,040
Speaker 1: but I also I don't know. It's weird, it's curious, weird,

1315
01:08:42,200 --> 01:08:46,679
Speaker 1: it's curious. Yeah, it felt weird. And again, I don't

1316
01:08:46,720 --> 01:08:48,439
Speaker 1: have a design, I don't have a I don't have

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01:08:48,479 --> 01:08:51,400
Speaker 1: any business in knowing. I'm not going to ask for specifics.

1318
01:08:51,680 --> 01:08:53,880
Speaker 1: But I think that's why she was asking that question,

1319
01:08:53,960 --> 01:08:55,639
Speaker 1: because I was talking to my sister about it too,

1320
01:08:55,880 --> 01:08:58,320
Speaker 1: And I think that's a pretty normal reaction for a

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01:08:58,400 --> 01:09:01,000
Speaker 1: lot of people. Is wow, that some major life events

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01:09:01,000 --> 01:09:03,320
Speaker 1: that you're going through, Like if she were sick, for example,

1323
01:09:03,400 --> 01:09:06,880
Speaker 1: let's say, god forbid, my therapist were sick and going

1324
01:09:06,920 --> 01:09:10,439
Speaker 1: through some terrible thing. I'm a compassionate guy. I would

1325
01:09:10,479 --> 01:09:12,120
Speaker 1: want to be able to I see this woman every week.

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01:09:12,160 --> 01:09:14,320
Speaker 1: I care about her as a human. I'd want to

1327
01:09:14,320 --> 01:09:16,880
Speaker 1: be like, hey, I'm sorry you're going through that. But

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01:09:16,960 --> 01:09:19,439
Speaker 1: she probably wouldn't tell me. Do you ask her questions

1329
01:09:19,680 --> 01:09:21,719
Speaker 1: like I asked mine questions and she tells me about

1330
01:09:21,720 --> 01:09:27,240
Speaker 1: her life? Well, I don't think they're supposed to whatever

1331
01:09:27,320 --> 01:09:30,320
Speaker 1: they you know, it's it's whatever they want to reveal. Sometimes,

1332
01:09:30,360 --> 01:09:33,120
Speaker 1: like my therapist will talk about like if I'm having problems,

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01:09:33,800 --> 01:09:38,040
Speaker 1: and like with my child a relationsh'll empathize by sharing

1334
01:09:38,080 --> 01:09:40,200
Speaker 1: the things that she went through as a mother as well,

1335
01:09:40,640 --> 01:09:43,879
Speaker 1: so she'll go there, you know, not not super detailed,

1336
01:09:43,960 --> 01:09:45,920
Speaker 1: but in a way to sort of empathize. And this

1337
01:09:46,120 --> 01:09:48,280
Speaker 1: is what I did, this is what worked for me

1338
01:09:48,400 --> 01:09:50,680
Speaker 1: as a mother. Blah blah blah blah blah. Yeah, I

1339
01:09:50,760 --> 01:09:53,200
Speaker 1: think you guys are kind of annunciating like that. The

1340
01:09:53,320 --> 01:09:56,000
Speaker 1: weirdness that is like this place where I don't have

1341
01:09:56,080 --> 01:09:59,719
Speaker 1: any it's not my business, Like she has no obligation

1342
01:09:59,800 --> 01:10:01,080
Speaker 1: to tell me, and I don't want to ask her

1343
01:10:01,120 --> 01:10:03,320
Speaker 1: questions that she's not going to answer. But at the

1344
01:10:03,400 --> 01:10:06,080
Speaker 1: same time, it was just I don't know, it was

1345
01:10:06,160 --> 01:10:07,800
Speaker 1: kind of like whoa. I don't know why I was

1346
01:10:07,840 --> 01:10:09,800
Speaker 1: so taken aback by it, but anyway, good for her

1347
01:10:09,840 --> 01:10:12,160
Speaker 1: should ask like I asked, I know mine sign, I

1348
01:10:12,240 --> 01:10:17,040
Speaker 1: know where she's vacationing next week. I know kid. Yeah,

1349
01:10:17,080 --> 01:10:19,800
Speaker 1: I'm getting the impression that that my therapist is not

1350
01:10:19,920 --> 01:10:23,280
Speaker 1: interested in sharing those things, okay, and and because she

1351
01:10:23,720 --> 01:10:26,720
Speaker 1: because she sees some sort of boundary issue there, and

1352
01:10:26,880 --> 01:10:30,240
Speaker 1: again that's fine, that's fine, I guess that's again it's

1353
01:10:30,280 --> 01:10:33,840
Speaker 1: just like wow, that's pretty wild, because I do you

1354
01:10:33,920 --> 01:10:38,560
Speaker 1: wish that she shared more with you. No, maybe she

1355
01:10:38,680 --> 01:10:40,960
Speaker 1: thinks it'll take away because you know, time is money

1356
01:10:41,040 --> 01:10:44,200
Speaker 1: in that profession, and you're there for an hour however long,

1357
01:10:44,479 --> 01:10:46,160
Speaker 1: and you're paying a lot of money to sit and

1358
01:10:46,200 --> 01:10:48,800
Speaker 1: speak to her. Maybe she feels like, you know, every

1359
01:10:48,920 --> 01:10:53,120
Speaker 1: minute that I talk about myself, I'm taking money. I

1360
01:10:53,200 --> 01:10:54,800
Speaker 1: don't know what I think, nor do I think she's

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01:10:54,840 --> 01:10:57,599
Speaker 1: doing anything wrong. Again, It's just one of these things

1362
01:10:57,680 --> 01:11:01,640
Speaker 1: where it hit me that, yeah, that this therapeutic relationship

1363
01:11:02,240 --> 01:11:05,160
Speaker 1: on the other side of that is someone living their

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01:11:05,200 --> 01:11:08,160
Speaker 1: own life, with their own issues and their own struggles

1365
01:11:08,160 --> 01:11:11,599
Speaker 1: and their own successes. And while she celebrates mine because

1366
01:11:11,640 --> 01:11:14,920
Speaker 1: that's her job, and she commisserates with my failures or

1367
01:11:15,000 --> 01:11:17,519
Speaker 1: my issues. I don't know a damn thing about this lady.

1368
01:11:17,680 --> 01:11:19,880
Speaker 1: So you're feeling kind of bad, like you want kind

1369
01:11:19,920 --> 01:11:22,720
Speaker 1: of feel like it's like I'm not doing my end

1370
01:11:22,760 --> 01:11:24,840
Speaker 1: of the friendship. But it's not a friendship, and I

1371
01:11:24,960 --> 01:11:27,519
Speaker 1: know that, right. I only pay my friends sometimes to

1372
01:11:27,640 --> 01:11:30,519
Speaker 1: be my friends. Yeah, always trust me, I pay all

1373
01:11:30,560 --> 01:11:36,439
Speaker 1: of mine. So it's just a normal thing I'm used to. Yeah,

1374
01:11:37,040 --> 01:11:39,960
Speaker 1: it feels good with Fred and Angie on one or

1375
01:11:40,000 --> 01:11:41,800
Speaker 1: three five kiss up them all right. We'd love to

1376
01:11:41,840 --> 01:11:44,760
Speaker 1: share good news, positive stories happening in the city and

1377
01:11:44,960 --> 01:11:48,360
Speaker 1: the world, and we do it about this time every weekday.

1378
01:11:48,360 --> 01:11:50,760
Speaker 1: And what do you find. BRIT's Across America. I've talked

1379
01:11:50,760 --> 01:11:53,360
Speaker 1: about them before is known for giving away wedding dresses

1380
01:11:53,400 --> 01:11:56,800
Speaker 1: to military women and first responders, but this year they're

1381
01:11:56,840 --> 01:12:00,200
Speaker 1: switching things up a bit. The Massachusetts based nonprofit has

1382
01:12:00,360 --> 01:12:04,240
Speaker 1: expanded the group it serves to include healthcare heroes working

1383
01:12:04,280 --> 01:12:06,400
Speaker 1: on the front lines to save the lives of COVID

1384
01:12:06,520 --> 01:12:10,240
Speaker 1: nineteen patients. The group's flagship store is in Andover, and

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01:12:10,320 --> 01:12:14,000
Speaker 1: they also shop dresses out of state, other boutiques and

1386
01:12:14,160 --> 01:12:17,000
Speaker 1: events where local organizers can have a showing for brides

1387
01:12:17,040 --> 01:12:20,599
Speaker 1: to qualify. Heidi Jansen founded Brides Across America in two

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01:12:20,640 --> 01:12:22,720
Speaker 1: thousand and eight and says they're a small group of

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01:12:22,760 --> 01:12:24,760
Speaker 1: the big mission. We just wanted to do something to

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01:12:24,840 --> 01:12:28,160
Speaker 1: give back, she said about healthcare workers. They're putting their

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01:12:28,240 --> 01:12:31,280
Speaker 1: lives on the line, just like the military or first responders,

1392
01:12:31,479 --> 01:12:33,880
Speaker 1: So this is our way to give back to them.

1393
01:12:34,080 --> 01:12:38,760
Speaker 1: Such a great great organizations. Yeah, yeah, shout out to

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01:12:38,800 --> 01:12:42,360
Speaker 1: Paulina for Cinemas Jefferson Park. Almost every morning, Hailey or

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01:12:42,479 --> 01:12:46,480
Speaker 1: Lynskey wakes up early to begin making bracelets, lots of bracelets.

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01:12:46,520 --> 01:12:49,880
Speaker 1: As of Monday, the seven year old in Jefferson Park

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01:12:49,920 --> 01:12:52,799
Speaker 1: has raised more than fourteen thousand dollars for Laurie Children's

1398
01:12:52,880 --> 01:12:55,800
Speaker 1: Hospital by selling these bracelets, and her mom said she's

1399
01:12:55,840 --> 01:12:58,600
Speaker 1: not slowing down seven years old doing this. She was

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01:12:58,680 --> 01:13:01,599
Speaker 1: inspired to start the fundraise when she learned that hospitals

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01:13:01,640 --> 01:13:05,160
Speaker 1: were facing mask and ventilator shortaguice during the pandemic. She

1402
01:13:05,400 --> 01:13:08,400
Speaker 1: chose Lurry because she was born there and spent her

1403
01:13:08,439 --> 01:13:11,040
Speaker 1: first few days in the neonatal intensive care unit. My

1404
01:13:11,120 --> 01:13:13,639
Speaker 1: mom watches the news, she says, I overheard that they're

1405
01:13:13,680 --> 01:13:16,080
Speaker 1: running out of masks for the doctors and nurses that

1406
01:13:16,280 --> 01:13:18,920
Speaker 1: are treating people with coronavirus, and I wanted to do

1407
01:13:19,080 --> 01:13:23,680
Speaker 1: something that could help them. So she has three activities

1408
01:13:23,720 --> 01:13:27,000
Speaker 1: that she cycles through during quarantine, eat, sweep, and make bracelets,

1409
01:13:27,280 --> 01:13:30,160
Speaker 1: about one hundred a day. They sell for three dollars

1410
01:13:30,240 --> 01:13:33,719
Speaker 1: a piece or two for five. It's a little workshop

1411
01:13:34,240 --> 01:13:37,120
Speaker 1: and the mayor even has one. Mayor Lyfefoot is wearing one.

1412
01:13:37,160 --> 01:13:40,760
Speaker 1: I guess Governor Prisker has one two some of the

1413
01:13:40,840 --> 01:13:42,840
Speaker 1: caz of Hamilton as well. So we have the link

1414
01:13:42,920 --> 01:13:45,920
Speaker 1: going up on the website at fred Angie dot com

1415
01:13:46,000 --> 01:13:48,880
Speaker 1: where you can buy yours. I'm gonna get one in

1416
01:13:49,040 --> 01:13:51,639
Speaker 1: just a second. Yeah, this is very cool, So shout

1417
01:13:51,680 --> 01:13:54,680
Speaker 1: out to seven year old Hayley or Lynskey and go

1418
01:13:54,760 --> 01:13:56,760
Speaker 1: to fred Antie dot com. I'll get this up on

1419
01:13:56,880 --> 01:14:01,160
Speaker 1: my on the Twitter as well. Read on air everybody

1420
01:14:01,240 --> 01:14:04,479
Speaker 1: buy one of these bracelets to support Hailey seven years

1421
01:14:04,520 --> 01:14:06,800
Speaker 1: old came up with this very cool a thousand bucks

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01:14:06,880 --> 01:14:09,920
Speaker 1: and trending stories. Next on fred Nangie one oh three five,

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Speaker 1: Josiah Kad fred Nancie one O three five Kiss FM,

1424
01:14:13,360 --> 01:14:15,960
Speaker 1: Chicago's number one hit music station, fred Nangie. We were

1425
01:14:16,000 --> 01:14:18,120
Speaker 1: talking off the air, Ruffie and I were last night.

1426
01:14:18,160 --> 01:14:22,240
Speaker 1: I posted on my story. Netflix has I don't think

1427
01:14:22,240 --> 01:14:24,360
Speaker 1: it's all of them, but they have a bunch of

1428
01:14:24,479 --> 01:14:28,320
Speaker 1: the old school supermarket sweep episodes that game show from

1429
01:14:28,360 --> 01:14:31,559
Speaker 1: the late eighties and nineties. They got him up on there.

1430
01:14:31,600 --> 01:14:33,479
Speaker 1: You can watch and it's so funny. They look so

1431
01:14:33,840 --> 01:14:39,680
Speaker 1: old school that show back then. David Ruperek is his name.

1432
01:14:40,920 --> 01:14:42,559
Speaker 1: By the way, I looked him. I looked him up

1433
01:14:42,640 --> 01:14:44,080
Speaker 1: last night to see if he was still alive. David

1434
01:14:44,160 --> 01:14:47,360
Speaker 1: Ruprek divorced twice, and I think he's married again now,

1435
01:14:47,400 --> 01:14:50,280
Speaker 1: so good for him. He is hosting I guess the

1436
01:14:50,439 --> 01:14:53,560
Speaker 1: Prices Right road show or that they have like a

1437
01:14:53,840 --> 01:14:56,639
Speaker 1: Vegas version at Valleys in Las Vegas, and I guess

1438
01:14:56,680 --> 01:15:01,160
Speaker 1: he hosts that now. But the game is hard to

1439
01:15:01,320 --> 01:15:04,800
Speaker 1: play because a lot of the brands are gone, Like

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01:15:04,920 --> 01:15:07,320
Speaker 1: I don't even I don't know a lot of the

1441
01:15:07,439 --> 01:15:13,280
Speaker 1: brands to play, you know how cans of folders, crystals, well,

1442
01:15:13,320 --> 01:15:15,240
Speaker 1: I mean, but some of this stuff is like I

1443
01:15:15,520 --> 01:15:17,479
Speaker 1: haven't I haven't heard of it. And you ever heard

1444
01:15:17,479 --> 01:15:19,080
Speaker 1: of maybe maybe I'm the only one. Have you ever

1445
01:15:19,120 --> 01:15:23,000
Speaker 1: heard of Chicago Brothers Pizza? Chicago Brothers Pizza that was

1446
01:15:23,040 --> 01:15:25,120
Speaker 1: a brand in nineteen eighty nine, I guess because I don't.

1447
01:15:25,240 --> 01:15:26,680
Speaker 1: Last night it was one of the clues, and I'm like,

1448
01:15:26,800 --> 01:15:28,640
Speaker 1: why I live in Chicago, what? I no idea what

1449
01:15:28,720 --> 01:15:32,839
Speaker 1: that is. It's the brands that was everywhere probably except Chicago.

1450
01:15:33,720 --> 01:15:36,200
Speaker 1: Brothers don't live in Chicago. I don't know them. Um

1451
01:15:36,600 --> 01:15:39,360
Speaker 1: and the hair and the outfits and and and the

1452
01:15:39,520 --> 01:15:42,080
Speaker 1: prizes too, like it'll be you just want an extra

1453
01:15:42,160 --> 01:15:45,120
Speaker 1: two hundred dollars and everyone's freaking out because in nineteen

1454
01:15:45,160 --> 01:15:48,080
Speaker 1: eighty nine two hundred bucks was a little more. Yeah,

1455
01:15:48,720 --> 01:15:51,280
Speaker 1: the grand prize winnings will be like eleven hundred dollars

1456
01:15:51,320 --> 01:15:53,519
Speaker 1: and people will freak out. Um. But if you love

1457
01:15:53,600 --> 01:15:55,960
Speaker 1: that show, what I can't believe? And I guess there

1458
01:15:56,080 --> 01:16:00,040
Speaker 1: is a like a reboot of it, um potentially. I

1459
01:16:00,080 --> 01:16:02,479
Speaker 1: don't know why no one has brought that show back.

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Speaker 1: What's your Name? From? Leslie? Uh? Yeah, yeah, wow, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: But it's so cheesy and so great and it's on Netflix,

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Speaker 1: and go watch it and enjoy yourself. Beaver is on

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Speaker 1: one h three five Good Break Julia one three five KIM,

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Speaker 1: Chicago's number one hit music station, fred Nanjie if you

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Speaker 1: want baseball? I saw a video last night from uh

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Speaker 1: what is this girl's name? She works from Marquee Network,

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Speaker 1: the New Cubs Network. I want to credit her? Where

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Speaker 1: credit is? Zal uh It's It was a video from

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Speaker 1: an empty Wrigley field and they were testing crowd noise

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Speaker 1: in an empty field, like when they to simulate what

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Speaker 1: it's going to sound like? What did it sound like?

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Speaker 1: Did it sound good? Sound sound like sound like fake

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Speaker 1: audience applause, you know, fake game show or something. Well,

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Speaker 1: I mean it's real crowd noise. But how ridiculous you're

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Speaker 1: gonna feel when there's nobody in there there's this noise

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Speaker 1: or it's like watching I know what. You can suck

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Speaker 1: it hard? How about that from the back, boy, that

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Speaker 1: is awesome. You can suck it from the south side.

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Speaker 1: Taylor McGregor is the one who posted this. It's on

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Speaker 1: my It's on my Twitter. Cubs testing out crowd noise. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it's it's it's just it's weird. But if you want

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Speaker 1: real baseball that you can attend. That is real baseball.

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Speaker 1: But if you want to attend the game. The Chicago

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Speaker 1: Dogs returned to Impact Field last night. Uh, and they're

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Speaker 1: following COVID nineteen safety percause. Is also I think kind

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Speaker 1: of as weird is that they can only fill twenty

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Speaker 1: percent of the place and there's you know, space between

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Speaker 1: everybody and all the precautions. Where are they like taking temperatures?

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Speaker 1: It looks like and uh, it's gone like old sitcoms

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Speaker 1: from the eighties where every laugh like it's the same

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Speaker 1: laugh for every joke. Yeah, or like that episode of

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Speaker 1: Wheel of Fortune that I went see when I was

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Speaker 1: seven years old, and uh, and the two were bust

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Speaker 1: full of people from China, didn't It broke down and

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Speaker 1: they couldn't come, So we were the only people in

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Speaker 1: the audience. But yet when we when we watched the

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Speaker 1: episode on TV instead of like rocket supplots. Uh. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: So Chicago Dogs, if you want to go to see

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Speaker 1: an actual game in Chicago, you can do it in person.

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Speaker 1: One h three five Black Bear