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Speaker 3: My boyfriend has been throwing away the lunches I cooked

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Speaker 3: for him.

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Speaker 1: Are they stanky?

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Speaker 3: Pre the vid? My boyfriend, twenty four male, worked about

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Speaker 3: an hour away from home. I twenty one female, always

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Speaker 3: woke up at five thirty am so I could pack

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Speaker 3: him fresh lunch before he left at six ten am.

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Speaker 3: By the way, this comes from it throw away cook

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Speaker 3: to the r slash. Okay, sorry, time separate it.

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Speaker 1: And I'm Angie, I'm Dakota, I'm Keon.

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Speaker 4: Oh wow, that's really my.

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Speaker 1: I didn't do it.

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Speaker 3: I didn't do it.

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Speaker 4: Oh I hear I hear this.

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Speaker 3: I saw myself. I'm sorry.

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Speaker 4: No, I think I stopped you from saying it.

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Speaker 1: Kean is a cool sha most has no name.

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Speaker 5: I apologize, No, it's okay, this is only the second

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Speaker 5: time you've done it two weeks, you're two for two.

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Speaker 3: It's always like right after I come from I don't

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Speaker 3: think downstairs.

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Speaker 4: No, I don't think you do this with Riley. That's fine,

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Speaker 4: you know what, That's okay.

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Speaker 3: Riley's I don't think ever produce on. But I'm sorry Kean.

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Speaker 3: I forgot about you.

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Speaker 4: Now I feel worse.

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Speaker 1: And they forgot about Keon.

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Speaker 4: I don't know how to feel about to make myself

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Speaker 4: more memorable.

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Speaker 3: Way to say that, I'm gonna stop taking myself out

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Speaker 3: of the hole. Wait, I don't know. I'm just gonna continue.

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Speaker 1: I'm going to live in the hole.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but we're here to give good advice, goofily and

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Speaker 3: pay tribute to our lovely producer Keon It.

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Speaker 4: I'm sad.

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Speaker 3: Unfortunately we don't have all the answers. We just know

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Speaker 3: what we were do in these situations. Let us know

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Speaker 3: what you do in the comments.

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Speaker 4: I don't believe she knows.

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Speaker 3: I hopefully you guys in the comments wouldn't forget kan

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Speaker 3: my bad so Opie says. I packed for him because

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Speaker 3: he was having some rough time at work and I

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Speaker 3: a year and a half.

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Speaker 2: Now I have a question, why don't we pack the lunch.

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Speaker 1: The day before?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I know the good idea.

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Speaker 2: I know you said fresh lunch, but like twelve hours,

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Speaker 2: six hours same lunch.

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Speaker 3: I mean, he's probably gonna go put it in a fridge.

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Speaker 3: So if it's something that can be reheated, or it

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Speaker 2: Why don't we stop waking Avid five in the morning

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Speaker 2: to make lunch where we can just make lunch the

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Speaker 3: Problem solving now near the VID. He got promoted and

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Speaker 3: a monthish after that, work went online, so I didn't

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Speaker 3: have to pack for him. Recently, I've become friends with

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Speaker 3: one of the galas at the office and we call

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Speaker 3: each other now and then. During our conversation our Christmas

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Speaker 3: call yesterday, I found out something shocking. My boyfriend had

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Speaker 3: been eating work lunch lunch that the job provide instead

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Speaker 1: When I think of work lunch, I just think of

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Speaker 1: like a big ladle of just goop, just slop.

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Speaker 3: They have a lunch like.

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Speaker 1: The food, the food they ate in the matrix.

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Speaker 5: It's the no, no, no, it's the it's like the

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Speaker 1: A SpongeBob close up shot.

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Speaker 3: Yes, I was thinking of that, but I didn't realize

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Speaker 3: it was SpongeBob. Thank you for that.

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Speaker 3: I asked her how long he had been eating in

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Speaker 3: logs that he's been eating there every day for a

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Speaker 3: and when he got lunch, it would notify her machine,

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Speaker 3: and there has been notifications every day for the entire time.

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Speaker 3: I've packed for him. That's insane.

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Speaker 2: Why hasn't he just been like, I eat lunch at work.

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Speaker 2: You don't have to pack my lunch. I appreciate it though.

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Speaker 2: You're so sweet.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's so easy to do that.

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Speaker 1: You've wasted a year and a half worth of food

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Speaker 3: Why there isn't little edit FYI. I didn't ask for

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Speaker 3: her to snoop on the logs. I didn't even know

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Speaker 3: for a while. When I said for me, I meant

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Speaker 3: And she said, I looked it up so you can know,

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Speaker 1: So ohp.

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Speaker 2: He's just trying to be like, yeah, I wasn't being like,

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Speaker 2: give me all the data, tell me exactly when and where,

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Speaker 2: right how many time?

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Speaker 1: It was just like it was just part of a conversation.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I got off the call fuing. I cooked at

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Speaker 3: he threw it away. Then my rage turned into humiliation.

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Speaker 3: I don't know. I felt so embarrassed that he hated

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Speaker 3: Now I feel betrayed because he could have been honest,

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Speaker 3: but he wasn't. He would always bring his empty lunch

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Speaker 3: never eaten my food before, so he's just doubling down

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Speaker 3: on all the lies.

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Speaker 2: Maybe he's like giving your lunches to someone else that

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Speaker 2: he works with and they're.

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Speaker 1: Like, yeah, no, the meat loaf was good today, So.

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Speaker 3: He's not relaying the message.

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Speaker 2: He's like just like says it under his breath, Like

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Speaker 2: from what I've heard, Yeah, the meat loaf was pretty

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know.

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Speaker 2: This is a weird lie. This would make me feel

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I'd feel very weird for sure. My friend said

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Speaker 3: I prided myself and being a good girlfriend and cooking

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Speaker 3: What do I do? And there are some comments, what

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Speaker 3: would you do, Dakota? Uh, talk to your boyfriend about it?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean it could be you know, maybe your

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Speaker 2: boyfriend does like you enough to where he's like, I

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Speaker 2: can't tell my girlfriend her cooking is head.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, that's a hard thing to tell someone

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Speaker 2: Or it's like, yeah, hey, that's toxic waste, right, I

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Speaker 1: I'd rather eat the goop slop.

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Speaker 3: For a year and a half. It's tough, though, Yeah,

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Speaker 3: a year half, you can figure.

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Speaker 2: It out that point. I'm just like, so have you

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Speaker 2: been lying to me? What else have you been lying

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Speaker 2: to me about for a year and a half. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: you know what else have you been keeping to yourself?

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Speaker 1: Right?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, conversation is definitely in need here. Noah forty seven says,

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Speaker 3: what the f so he couldn't tell you he doesn't

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Speaker 3: want your lunch? No freak is wrong with him? Absolutely

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Speaker 3: right to be angry, op, he says. I know my

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Speaker 3: anger isn't from not liking my lunches, which you know

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Speaker 3: you can totally just tell me, but from not telling

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Speaker 3: me anything. I'm wondering if there's something wrong with me

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Speaker 3: which made him not want to tell me, I Ache

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Speaker 3: says from his card logs, So you got her to

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Speaker 3: go look up this info during your Christmas call, or

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Speaker 3: she just already knew that info, which seems weird for

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Speaker 3: a human to just know. Just wondering how this came

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Speaker 3: to be. I would ask him whether he really has

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Speaker 3: been eating them? Maybe there are factors you don't know about,

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Speaker 3: or yes, maybe he was afraid to tell you. That sucks,

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Speaker 3: especially with all of the work that you did. Sometimes

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Speaker 3: thinking that they're doing a nice thing. I think talking

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Speaker 3: is the best course here. Opie says she's the secretary

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Speaker 3: going to be slightly paranoid. I'll update his response. Another

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Speaker 3: That's true. It's not like a hippo violation. Yeah, I

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Speaker 1: You've exposed the eating habits of your fellow co workers,

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Speaker 1: and for that, we sentence you to five thousand years

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Speaker 3: In the pitch, not prison anything else. The pitch.

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Speaker 1: We send you into the hole in the ground that

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Speaker 1: we dig every day. Yep, gets a little deeper.

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Speaker 3: They have to shovel and throw it five thousand feet

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Speaker 2: It's teared, so there's one person with his shovel at

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Speaker 3: Got it. It's just train to catch it in there,

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Speaker 3: in there, in there.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's how you're graded based on how many points. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: got it? Got it?

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Speaker 3: I like it. I like this idea. Also, did he

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Speaker 3: ever ask you to make his lunch for him every day?

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Speaker 3: Or did you just do it? It seems like he

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Speaker 3: was afraid to tell you the truth about a fairly

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Speaker 3: simple thing, and based on your reaction, I'm understanding that

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Speaker 3: a bit. Even though he is three years older than

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Speaker 3: you and should have been mature about confronting you, if

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Speaker 3: he never even asked you to do it to begin with,

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Speaker 3: I could see why that's a little awkward. Also, that

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Speaker 3: you're so close to his colleagues that you're video chatting

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Speaker 3: is a bit more than I'd be comfortable with. But

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Speaker 3: that's just me. Hope. He says he complained a lot

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Speaker 3: about having to eat with people he hated, so I

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Speaker 3: started making food for him. But I chose to make

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Speaker 3: she knew, and she chose to tell me the logs

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Speaker 3: bring down some gifts that they would give me. But

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Speaker 3: who knows. Another commenter says, maybe he's eating two lunches. Ope,

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Speaker 2: I had never heard mad boozled before me neither. It's

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Speaker 3: Mad bad boozled, my boozle. Yes abouty interesting. And there's

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Speaker 2: And nobody breaks that rule. No, of course, not, no

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Speaker 3: A little bit of spoilers there if you read it.

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Speaker 3: But what are our thoughts so far on this man?

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Speaker 1: I didn't see whatever that was.

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Speaker 2: Wait, I really hope that he's not Yeah, given his

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Speaker 1: That would be craz Really hope he's not doing that.

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Speaker 3: Oh my gosh. The only like a good way that

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Speaker 2: I think if he if he's given it to a

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Speaker 2: And then guys like, dude, the freaking those green beans.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I love me a green bean baby.

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Speaker 2: And he's like, yeah, the green beans are good today.

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Speaker 3: We're laying the message, but we do have an update.

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Speaker 3: He did throw away his lunch, yes, the entire time.

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Speaker 3: Oh dang it, come on, and he did it because

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Speaker 3: he got to smooch his way to a promotion.

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Speaker 2: What wait, I'm sorry, did you mean schmooze? Was he

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Speaker 1: Smooth? Do I get promoted today? We'll talk about it tomorrow, Jenkins.

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Speaker 3: They're all eating the like very garlicy pasta and then

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Speaker 4: You don't you pass the test, you get promoted?

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Speaker 3: Yeah. If you don't get it, if you don't smell

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Speaker 3: know that you have failed me and that you're not

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Speaker 2: My work culture is highly competitive and very unique. I

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Speaker 3: I just just gotta let me do this. That's insane.

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Speaker 2: You just need to cook with more garlic op so

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Speaker 3: Yeah. He said that the office environment was pretty clicky

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Speaker 3: He didn't tell me because he thought at first that

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Speaker 3: so he just kept pushing it back until I found out.

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Speaker 3: He said he would have told me sooner or later,

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Speaker 3: but I'm pissed. He did sometimes eat my lunch coming

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Speaker 3: back from work, but oftentimes he would throw it away

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Speaker 3: or give it to stray animals near the park outside

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Speaker 2: I wouldn't eat this sl but I'll give it to

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Speaker 3: Yeah. This the the geese in the park need the

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Speaker 3: taste of my wife soup.

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Speaker 1: I must feed geese soup.

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Speaker 3: And being a good samaritantan and now he.

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Speaker 1: A goose, Samaritan goose smeratan yep.

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Speaker 3: I now picture him being like snow white when he

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Speaker 3: He scoops the soup into his hands.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, holds it, he takes.

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Speaker 2: He takes a little flute out of his jacket pocket

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Speaker 2: and he goes. And then all the animals started coming over,

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Speaker 2: and the sun comes out, and they eat from his

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Speaker 1: They eat his runny, drippy soup from his hands. So

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Speaker 1: what a mess. Oh, but every day my husband comes back.

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Speaker 1: Oh man, his hands smell like soup.

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Speaker 3: Hands smell like soup. I thought that meant he was

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Speaker 2: But I just thought my husband ate soup in his hands.

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Speaker 2: I was gonna leave it alone.

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Speaker 3: There's also like a like a weird squirrels stench about him.

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Speaker 3: I can't place it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, he keeps on having to go to the hospital

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Speaker 2: know what's sad about. There's a squirrel that keeps biting

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Speaker 2: For the ninth time.

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Speaker 3: I don't think a squirrel would have enough money to

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Speaker 1: Yeah, what does a squirrel gotta do on the subway?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but I hope he continues. But I feel like

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Speaker 3: because he said it after he told me that he

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Speaker 3: never ate my lunches. He's like, but babe, you understand

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Speaker 3: I'm feeding the forest.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm feeding the forest.

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Speaker 2: And also I was gonna tell you eventually, just not ever,

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Speaker 2: right now, right now that you know, I'm telling you,

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Speaker 2: which is improof in the pudding which I don't eat.

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Speaker 4: No, maybe he does eat the pudding with his bare hands, too.

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Speaker 1: Bare hands eats the pudding.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, like, no, never mind, I'll let that one's gone.

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Speaker 3: And we do have a second update. Yeah, I say,

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Speaker 3: we jump right in.

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Speaker 1: I'm jumping with joy.

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Speaker 3: Jumping with joy.

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Speaker 1: Update number two. Y'all.

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Speaker 3: I was ready to make my decision, and I told

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Speaker 3: I mean, this is a man who couldn't tell me

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Speaker 3: that he didn't like my food. So a huge debt

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Speaker 3: was too big to talk about Lol. I mean we

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Speaker 3: other issues and I'm not dealing with that. He can

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Speaker 3: has if he wants to. It's better for him anyway.

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Speaker 3: So when win to everyone in the comments, people who

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Speaker 3: told me that he was a no no win breakup,

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Speaker 3: people who told me that I was Craiger a win breakup. Also,

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Speaker 3: I mean this little colagh.

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Speaker 2: There's a note that describes the colagh.

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Speaker 3: The collage is made up of horrible comments being oh

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Speaker 3: Pie's fault, a bad cook or a bad girl friend.

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Speaker 4: Maybe I shouldn't bring that up.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, a collage of people being like, actually, your bad

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Speaker 4: Do you guys want to see the colagh?

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Speaker 2: No?

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Speaker 5: Okay, because I'm thinking it's like one of those word

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Speaker 3: Yeah, oh yeah, like the more process.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, the more common it is, it, the bigger it is.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, this guy's in debt.

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Speaker 2: I'm imagining it's a stinky little liar, because even his

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Speaker 2: like if I came in with my own lunch, I

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Speaker 1: It's like I wouldn't have got a promotion. It's like

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Speaker 1: where are you working?

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Speaker 3: Like wouldn't you be proud that your girlfriend is making

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Speaker 3: you food? You could still eat with them and you

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Speaker 3: could just be like, yeah, my girlfriend made me feel

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Speaker 4: Colage really a collage.

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Speaker 1: It's just like, all right, show it it show.

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Speaker 4: I like the bottom image. Hold on, let me.

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Speaker 1: Get show it, you little teaser.

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Speaker 2: Of course you like the bottom image because you've got

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Speaker 3: I'm imagining like a bunch of videos that are like

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Speaker 3: like this is me on it or something or.

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Speaker 1: Me what is that?

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Speaker 3: It's like this is me whoa? Or it's something about

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Speaker 1: Wait, that's not a collage. I know it's not a collage.

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Speaker 3: Don't get me started on my DMS and the four

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Speaker 5: It literally said I have a lot of time on

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Speaker 5: my hands, which I think you can compile this literally

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Speaker 5: in ten minutes.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, power of AI is sure.

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Speaker 2: La la la, just people being like you're a bad

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's like, well you should be cooking anyway because

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Speaker 3: Sasprig blogs in the in the freaking kitchen.

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Speaker 2: Uh yeah, actually as a professional guy who knows all

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Speaker 2: the things. Ever, uh, you stink at cooking. And also

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Speaker 2: your boyfriend is way hotter than you and he should

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Speaker 2: be mine. And yeah, so uh you suck.

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Speaker 3: You're sucking. You make stinky soup. Yeah, no one would

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: From Reddit user fart Blaster eighty nine eighty nine, eighty

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Speaker 2: nine eighty nine. Yeah, I plasted farts all day long,

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Speaker 2: and you stink.

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Speaker 3: You're a sticky person and that's coming from some of

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Speaker 3: that farts all day.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, get owned, get wrecked.

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Speaker 3: Wrecked, dude, get wreck.

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Speaker 4: What do you guys have for breakfast today? Y'all?

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Speaker 2: Are I'm just saying, man, I'm just saying, this is

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Speaker 2: just how we be.

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Speaker 1: Dude.

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Speaker 2: Someone had a cap of silly geese. Did someone just

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Speaker 2: say silly sausage in the chator?

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Speaker 1: Was that a Was that a Smile of Friends reference?

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Speaker 1: Is that?

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Speaker 6: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Which episode is that?

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Speaker 1: From from Silly Samuel.

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Speaker 3: The first episode, Oh oh yes, I'm remember now. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: that was making silly sausage on the Who did My Shipbox? Corolla?

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Speaker 1: No one takes me.

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Speaker 3: I came around on smiling Friends. I hated it with

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Speaker 5: Your brain grew ten times times that size.

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Speaker 1: You got brain, You got brain.

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00:21:04,040 --> 00:21:07,880
Speaker 3: It might have shrunk, and that's why I was like, I.

446
00:21:07,880 --> 00:21:11,719
Speaker 2: Think maybe the brain expanded, but then like the space

447
00:21:11,760 --> 00:21:15,520
Speaker 2: between the neurons got wider, you know. Yeah, It's like

448
00:21:15,760 --> 00:21:18,760
Speaker 2: it didn't get bigger, it just got less dense, right.

449
00:21:18,640 --> 00:21:19,480
Speaker 3: And in between.

450
00:21:19,520 --> 00:21:25,600
Speaker 5: It's just like that's pretty good.

451
00:21:25,880 --> 00:21:29,199
Speaker 3: Thank you, thank you. I've been practicing.

452
00:21:30,440 --> 00:21:33,720
Speaker 1: I've been practicing my whole for this bit.

453
00:21:34,040 --> 00:21:38,280
Speaker 2: While you were out partying, I was studying the blade.

454
00:21:40,119 --> 00:21:42,040
Speaker 4: Alright, we're getting the next episode ready.

455
00:21:42,280 --> 00:21:45,040
Speaker 1: My boyfriend's spicy role place turned me.

456
00:21:45,200 --> 00:21:47,840
Speaker 3: Off not matching each other's free right now.

457
00:21:48,359 --> 00:21:53,920
Speaker 2: Hi, I'm Kaylei, twenty five female, and my boyfriend is

458
00:21:54,040 --> 00:21:57,439
Speaker 2: Sam twenty nine male. We met through a mutual friend

459
00:21:57,480 --> 00:22:00,200
Speaker 2: on a night out five years ago. I really liked

460
00:22:00,240 --> 00:22:02,080
Speaker 2: him as soon as I met him, and he really

461
00:22:02,160 --> 00:22:05,479
Speaker 2: liked me back. We became a couple pretty quickly, and

462
00:22:05,600 --> 00:22:07,320
Speaker 2: for the first year things were great.

463
00:22:07,720 --> 00:22:09,800
Speaker 1: By the way, this comes from.

464
00:22:09,840 --> 00:22:13,240
Speaker 2: User cheating RP And if you want to submit your

465
00:22:13,240 --> 00:22:15,680
Speaker 2: own stories, go to the r slash Showkay Storytime, stubbred It.

466
00:22:15,760 --> 00:22:18,360
Speaker 4: I'm Dakota, I'm Angie, I'm Keon.

467
00:22:18,400 --> 00:22:21,520
Speaker 1: And we're here to give good advice goofuley to you.

468
00:22:21,800 --> 00:22:25,120
Speaker 2: But we also don't know everything, so you know, think

469
00:22:25,160 --> 00:22:28,680
Speaker 2: about that, and also if you know things, tell us

470
00:22:28,800 --> 00:22:33,440
Speaker 2: them in the comments. Tell us your story, hope, he says.

471
00:22:34,000 --> 00:22:37,479
Speaker 2: We moved in together after seven months. To be honest,

472
00:22:37,560 --> 00:22:40,000
Speaker 2: we haven't had many problems in our five years of

473
00:22:40,080 --> 00:22:42,879
Speaker 2: being together. Only one major fight we had when I

474
00:22:42,960 --> 00:22:45,080
Speaker 2: was twenty three and we broke up for about a month.

475
00:22:45,400 --> 00:22:48,040
Speaker 2: Nobody slept with anyone else or flirted or anything like that.

476
00:22:48,560 --> 00:22:51,239
Speaker 2: We both just became pretty depressed without each other. At

477
00:22:51,240 --> 00:22:55,000
Speaker 2: the two year mark, he bought the game World of Warcraft.

478
00:22:55,600 --> 00:22:58,280
Speaker 2: A lot of my friends play it, so I wasn't worried,

479
00:22:58,400 --> 00:23:00,560
Speaker 2: even though I did know how it is I it is.

480
00:23:00,920 --> 00:23:04,520
Speaker 2: He started playing all the time, literally all the time.

481
00:23:04,960 --> 00:23:06,960
Speaker 2: If he was busy rating and I made dinner, he

482
00:23:07,000 --> 00:23:09,960
Speaker 2: would refuse to stop playing and eat. If I wanted

483
00:23:09,960 --> 00:23:12,479
Speaker 2: to watch our favorite show, he wouldn't come to watch it.

484
00:23:12,840 --> 00:23:14,679
Speaker 2: He preferred playing then.

485
00:23:14,680 --> 00:23:15,760
Speaker 1: Having spicy sleep.

486
00:23:16,240 --> 00:23:18,800
Speaker 2: He would stay up until all hours of the morning

487
00:23:18,840 --> 00:23:21,879
Speaker 2: to play and skip work too. I had to voice

488
00:23:21,880 --> 00:23:24,240
Speaker 2: my opinion on it eventually and told him I hated

489
00:23:24,280 --> 00:23:27,399
Speaker 2: how he was constantly ignoring me for the game. I

490
00:23:27,440 --> 00:23:30,520
Speaker 2: thought this was a really exaggerated way of playing. He

491
00:23:30,560 --> 00:23:33,120
Speaker 2: told me he didn't really care, and he was having

492
00:23:33,160 --> 00:23:35,480
Speaker 2: a really fun time with his guild friends and told

493
00:23:35,520 --> 00:23:37,959
Speaker 2: me to butt out of his gaming life. Dang, I'll

494
00:23:37,960 --> 00:23:39,199
Speaker 2: butt out of your whole life.

495
00:23:39,640 --> 00:23:43,879
Speaker 3: I have a feeling where this is going. Is the

496
00:23:43,960 --> 00:23:50,560
Speaker 3: role play gonna be one of the World of Warcraft characters. Ah,

497
00:23:51,080 --> 00:23:54,040
Speaker 3: imagine he wants to do nothing but play a World

498
00:23:54,040 --> 00:23:58,840
Speaker 3: of Warcraft. Yeah, and if he starts like initiating or

499
00:23:59,000 --> 00:24:02,080
Speaker 3: asking for some sort of role it's like, how about

500
00:24:02,119 --> 00:24:07,720
Speaker 3: we bring my World of Warcraft problem into our bedroom.

501
00:24:07,560 --> 00:24:09,119
Speaker 4: More like a world of our craft?

502
00:24:09,400 --> 00:24:11,600
Speaker 1: That would be That would be a pretty hard sell,

503
00:24:12,280 --> 00:24:13,359
Speaker 1: would be great, babe.

504
00:24:13,440 --> 00:24:14,960
Speaker 5: The only way you're to get me away from that

505
00:24:15,000 --> 00:24:17,119
Speaker 5: video game is if you're the video game and I

506
00:24:17,160 --> 00:24:17,640
Speaker 5: play you.

507
00:24:18,240 --> 00:24:19,919
Speaker 1: Yes, I'll be score blocked.

508
00:24:19,920 --> 00:24:25,400
Speaker 2: The Destroyer and you will be in Delina, the vegas

509
00:24:25,680 --> 00:24:27,160
Speaker 2: of Bindleshire.

510
00:24:27,840 --> 00:24:29,600
Speaker 1: Sure were you like?

511
00:24:30,119 --> 00:24:30,159
Speaker 3: No?

512
00:24:30,880 --> 00:24:32,280
Speaker 4: Heavily into no.

513
00:24:33,119 --> 00:24:33,320
Speaker 1: Wow?

514
00:24:33,520 --> 00:24:37,879
Speaker 2: Yeah, as a child, you're still a child. I actually

515
00:24:38,000 --> 00:24:40,879
Speaker 2: was thinking about that the other day that that's definitely

516
00:24:40,960 --> 00:24:43,160
Speaker 2: a big reason why my brain is wired the way

517
00:24:43,160 --> 00:24:47,520
Speaker 2: it was. I discovered World of Warcraft at nine years old,

518
00:24:47,680 --> 00:24:50,960
Speaker 2: which is basically like giving a nine year old like,

519
00:24:53,200 --> 00:24:54,679
Speaker 2: you know, like I am.

520
00:24:54,920 --> 00:24:57,120
Speaker 1: I was. I was not. That was unfair.

521
00:24:57,600 --> 00:25:02,520
Speaker 3: I have nothing to add, I have no personal Yeah, at.

522
00:25:01,960 --> 00:25:05,200
Speaker 1: I played the dickens out of that game.

523
00:25:05,600 --> 00:25:09,159
Speaker 2: Yeah, I was furious, but I let it slide for

524
00:25:09,240 --> 00:25:12,399
Speaker 2: some strange reason. After about two months, I told him

525
00:25:12,440 --> 00:25:14,240
Speaker 2: this was going to stop or I was going to

526
00:25:14,320 --> 00:25:18,840
Speaker 2: leave him. Hooray for me. He canceled his account. It

527
00:25:18,920 --> 00:25:22,040
Speaker 2: came from him, so I was over the moon. Things

528
00:25:22,040 --> 00:25:25,040
Speaker 2: got much much better. He didn't play again for a

529
00:25:25,080 --> 00:25:29,399
Speaker 2: long time. In fact, he just reactivated his account at

530
00:25:29,400 --> 00:25:31,760
Speaker 2: the beginning of the year. His friend bought him a

531
00:25:31,800 --> 00:25:34,159
Speaker 2: game card so that they could play together again, and

532
00:25:34,240 --> 00:25:36,520
Speaker 2: because he seemed so excited to see how different the

533
00:25:36,560 --> 00:25:39,480
Speaker 2: game was, I didn't comment on it. Things weren't as

534
00:25:39,520 --> 00:25:42,560
Speaker 2: bad as they used to be. He plays now quite

535
00:25:42,560 --> 00:25:45,560
Speaker 2: a lot, but definitely less than he used to. He

536
00:25:45,640 --> 00:25:50,959
Speaker 2: prioritizes a lot of things before the game now, like me, work, dinner,

537
00:25:51,320 --> 00:25:54,560
Speaker 2: and TV shows. I was pretty content with the way

538
00:25:54,600 --> 00:25:57,439
Speaker 2: things were. He only played three hours a day max,

539
00:25:57,480 --> 00:25:59,960
Speaker 2: and I had my own things to do in the meantime.

540
00:26:00,440 --> 00:26:02,000
Speaker 1: That was until yesterday.

541
00:26:02,480 --> 00:26:05,200
Speaker 2: This was when I found out some seriously f uff

542
00:26:05,440 --> 00:26:07,920
Speaker 2: stuff was going on. I was sitting next to him

543
00:26:07,960 --> 00:26:09,960
Speaker 2: on my own computer while he was playing, and I

544
00:26:10,040 --> 00:26:12,119
Speaker 2: decided why not watch him play?

545
00:26:13,160 --> 00:26:15,280
Speaker 4: Uh oh, Hoorde or Alliance Dakota?

546
00:26:15,359 --> 00:26:17,320
Speaker 1: Am I a Gryffindor or a Slytherin?

547
00:26:17,440 --> 00:26:18,919
Speaker 4: My guy, you're a hufflepuff?

548
00:26:19,480 --> 00:26:22,159
Speaker 1: What for the Horde?

549
00:26:24,640 --> 00:26:26,720
Speaker 2: Perhaps get to know the game better and try to

550
00:26:26,800 --> 00:26:28,639
Speaker 2: understand why it's so addictive.

551
00:26:28,960 --> 00:26:31,919
Speaker 1: Boy, what a bad idea that was. Boy, he was

552
00:26:32,200 --> 00:26:33,240
Speaker 1: role playing.

553
00:26:34,040 --> 00:26:36,840
Speaker 2: I'd heard about role play before, but I never thought

554
00:26:36,920 --> 00:26:38,959
Speaker 2: he'd be the kind of guy to do it. I

555
00:26:39,040 --> 00:26:41,680
Speaker 2: actually find it rather odd, but I'm a very supportive

556
00:26:41,760 --> 00:26:45,120
Speaker 2: person of the phrase to each their own, so fair enough.

557
00:26:45,520 --> 00:26:47,760
Speaker 2: I asked him what kind of roleplay it was, and

558
00:26:47,840 --> 00:26:50,040
Speaker 2: he told me he was just in a market in

559
00:26:50,119 --> 00:26:52,480
Speaker 2: a city called Silver something I don't know.

560
00:26:52,560 --> 00:26:53,320
Speaker 1: I've forgotten.

561
00:26:53,520 --> 00:26:54,159
Speaker 4: Do you know it?

562
00:26:54,440 --> 00:26:57,760
Speaker 2: No, he takes it very seriously. He was buying apples

563
00:26:57,840 --> 00:26:59,720
Speaker 2: or something because his character was hungry.

564
00:27:00,200 --> 00:27:00,600
Speaker 1: Okay.

565
00:27:01,160 --> 00:27:04,359
Speaker 2: He then got very into detail and started explaining every

566
00:27:04,440 --> 00:27:06,800
Speaker 2: kind of role play he does. He must have thought

567
00:27:06,840 --> 00:27:09,560
Speaker 2: I found it interesting or something. Then he told me

568
00:27:09,600 --> 00:27:14,159
Speaker 2: he also likes something he calls ERP, which is spicy

569
00:27:14,359 --> 00:27:14,960
Speaker 2: role playing.

570
00:27:15,040 --> 00:27:17,120
Speaker 1: I believe so explicit role play.

571
00:27:17,560 --> 00:27:20,560
Speaker 5: This This is yeah, I was gonna say say that,

572
00:27:20,680 --> 00:27:23,159
Speaker 5: but this is when you know when a girlfriend or

573
00:27:23,200 --> 00:27:25,880
Speaker 5: a partner asked their boyfriend or their partner and they

574
00:27:25,920 --> 00:27:28,399
Speaker 5: just get really locked in of like, I'm gonna be

575
00:27:28,480 --> 00:27:30,640
Speaker 5: very vulnerable right now. I'm gonna tell you everything about

576
00:27:30,640 --> 00:27:32,439
Speaker 5: the thing I really love right now, and I'm going

577
00:27:32,480 --> 00:27:34,879
Speaker 5: to always beak five hours, maybe five days.

578
00:27:35,080 --> 00:27:37,720
Speaker 1: I did that with an x Ones, with Dark Soul's Combat.

579
00:27:37,840 --> 00:27:40,000
Speaker 5: I did this with Halo the other day with Carly

580
00:27:40,400 --> 00:27:42,480
Speaker 5: because she asked me because I did like one of

581
00:27:42,520 --> 00:27:45,200
Speaker 5: those one minute video things of like this is Halo,

582
00:27:45,800 --> 00:27:49,480
Speaker 5: and she's like, wait, so explain, like what tattoo you have?

583
00:27:49,720 --> 00:27:51,359
Speaker 4: Who does Keith David voice?

584
00:27:51,359 --> 00:27:53,840
Speaker 5: And I went on like a twenty minute rant without

585
00:27:53,880 --> 00:27:56,600
Speaker 5: even like skipping a beat, and I went Okay, hold on,

586
00:27:56,640 --> 00:27:58,960
Speaker 5: I gotta stop. I'm gonna outdoor key right now. And

587
00:27:59,000 --> 00:28:00,680
Speaker 5: she's like, nah, it's been done and you're done.

588
00:28:01,520 --> 00:28:02,240
Speaker 3: It's too late for that.

589
00:28:02,320 --> 00:28:05,679
Speaker 4: But to you with like at least like basketball or something.

590
00:28:05,840 --> 00:28:09,320
Speaker 3: He actually recently we watched a lot of YouTube videos

591
00:28:09,359 --> 00:28:13,920
Speaker 3: about Fallout, like the details of all the different vaults,

592
00:28:14,040 --> 00:28:14,800
Speaker 3: vaults and stuff.

593
00:28:15,160 --> 00:28:18,120
Speaker 4: See yeah, shout out, shout out some of those crazy vaults.

594
00:28:18,400 --> 00:28:21,399
Speaker 3: They're actually pretty cool. Went in some other video and

595
00:28:21,440 --> 00:28:24,440
Speaker 3: I wasn't that interested in that game. I don't remember

596
00:28:24,480 --> 00:28:25,320
Speaker 3: what it was though, but.

597
00:28:25,280 --> 00:28:28,000
Speaker 1: I was like, what have a whatever?

598
00:28:28,400 --> 00:28:31,520
Speaker 3: And then I accidentally said that I wasn't interested in Fallout.

599
00:28:31,880 --> 00:28:34,240
Speaker 3: Got him mixed up and his feelings were a little hurt.

600
00:28:34,440 --> 00:28:36,119
Speaker 3: But then we watched more videos off all, and then

601
00:28:36,119 --> 00:28:37,119
Speaker 3: I was like, yeah, pretty cool.

602
00:28:37,160 --> 00:28:38,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's pretty.

603
00:28:38,000 --> 00:28:40,720
Speaker 4: It's the thing where it's like he's gonna come like,

604
00:28:40,840 --> 00:28:43,880
Speaker 4: this is my boyfriend. He's gonna show you his collection

605
00:28:44,440 --> 00:28:46,960
Speaker 4: and you better like it. Better hype him up.

606
00:28:47,320 --> 00:28:48,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, better be noised.

607
00:28:48,920 --> 00:28:49,760
Speaker 1: You wipe that man.

608
00:28:50,320 --> 00:28:50,960
Speaker 3: Okay.

609
00:28:51,920 --> 00:28:54,840
Speaker 2: I sort of just stared at him in confusion, like

610
00:28:55,000 --> 00:28:58,480
Speaker 2: your role playing Spicy Sleep in World of Warcraft.

611
00:28:58,880 --> 00:29:01,920
Speaker 1: He admitted he's into that and his character is actually

612
00:29:02,080 --> 00:29:05,160
Speaker 1: quite a ladies man, I froze.

613
00:29:05,760 --> 00:29:09,240
Speaker 2: I asked specifically what he emoted, et cetera, and he

614
00:29:09,320 --> 00:29:13,640
Speaker 2: showed me some screenshot examples. I can't tell if this

615
00:29:13,800 --> 00:29:16,560
Speaker 2: bothers me. I can't tell if I think it's cheating

616
00:29:16,840 --> 00:29:19,120
Speaker 2: or not. But it's up to me to set boundaries

617
00:29:19,120 --> 00:29:22,280
Speaker 2: for myself. So I'm confused. I didn't like the fact

618
00:29:22,320 --> 00:29:25,440
Speaker 2: that he was emoting all these spicy things and even

619
00:29:25,480 --> 00:29:26,880
Speaker 2: going into detail about his.

620
00:29:27,320 --> 00:29:28,280
Speaker 1: Rusting, etc.

621
00:29:29,160 --> 00:29:30,240
Speaker 3: A thrust of the sword.

622
00:29:31,160 --> 00:29:38,560
Speaker 2: Yes, my character is quite the ladies man, and I no,

623
00:29:38,640 --> 00:29:42,480
Speaker 2: never mind, I'm not gonna say that.

624
00:29:42,960 --> 00:29:44,880
Speaker 3: I have a lot of questions before I can form

625
00:29:44,920 --> 00:29:45,960
Speaker 3: a full opinion on this.

626
00:29:46,360 --> 00:29:50,160
Speaker 1: Ah. But I also feel like a fool because there

627
00:29:50,160 --> 00:29:51,160
Speaker 1: are cartoons.

628
00:29:51,760 --> 00:29:54,960
Speaker 2: They're not actually cartoons, they're computer graphics that are generated

629
00:29:55,040 --> 00:29:55,720
Speaker 2: by a guy.

630
00:29:56,240 --> 00:29:56,920
Speaker 1: No, I'm just kidding.

631
00:29:56,920 --> 00:29:57,520
Speaker 2: I don't even know.

632
00:29:57,600 --> 00:29:58,560
Speaker 1: I don't even know if that's right.

633
00:29:58,640 --> 00:30:01,880
Speaker 3: Dakota is admitting something to us. He's being very vulnerable today.

634
00:30:02,240 --> 00:30:05,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, the girl on the other side of the

635
00:30:05,720 --> 00:30:09,920
Speaker 2: screen might be a fat, ugly man, So should I

636
00:30:10,000 --> 00:30:12,880
Speaker 2: really be mad? I do consider it in some form

637
00:30:13,000 --> 00:30:17,080
Speaker 2: cheating because he is getting a little spicy and imagining

638
00:30:17,320 --> 00:30:20,440
Speaker 2: doing spassy things with another woman.

639
00:30:20,880 --> 00:30:22,440
Speaker 1: He told me he has.

640
00:30:22,720 --> 00:30:25,920
Speaker 2: Jorped it over these events a couple of times.

641
00:30:28,040 --> 00:30:29,720
Speaker 4: I like to self pleasured.

642
00:30:29,760 --> 00:30:32,440
Speaker 3: My god, I think that you're censoring a word that

643
00:30:32,880 --> 00:30:36,720
Speaker 3: probably would be censored anyway. I don't know if if

644
00:30:36,760 --> 00:30:39,240
Speaker 3: the algorithm can catch up on he.

645
00:30:39,160 --> 00:30:39,800
Speaker 1: Was he was?

646
00:30:40,760 --> 00:30:43,640
Speaker 4: He told me he's uh self pleasuring.

647
00:30:43,800 --> 00:30:45,560
Speaker 1: He told me he was jerking the gurkin.

648
00:30:45,960 --> 00:30:49,160
Speaker 4: No, why worse?

649
00:30:49,760 --> 00:30:52,840
Speaker 1: He told me that he has done the bad touch.

650
00:30:53,680 --> 00:30:56,680
Speaker 4: No, you're getting worse and worse. Can't give you a

651
00:30:56,720 --> 00:30:59,200
Speaker 4: proven out self stimulating, my guy.

652
00:30:59,200 --> 00:31:02,240
Speaker 2: He told me he is choking the chicken over the it.

653
00:31:02,960 --> 00:31:04,280
Speaker 2: He told me, we need to move on.

654
00:31:04,560 --> 00:31:06,640
Speaker 4: We need you to say the right thing.

655
00:31:07,120 --> 00:31:08,479
Speaker 1: I think is fine.

656
00:31:08,960 --> 00:31:10,440
Speaker 4: It's jorpent time whatever.

657
00:31:12,040 --> 00:31:14,440
Speaker 2: He told me that he did some mighty jorp and

658
00:31:14,520 --> 00:31:17,720
Speaker 2: power rangers over these events.

659
00:31:18,040 --> 00:31:18,840
Speaker 4: He told now.

660
00:31:21,080 --> 00:31:26,160
Speaker 3: You can move on. We get it. It's okay.

661
00:31:26,760 --> 00:31:27,720
Speaker 1: What did he say?

662
00:31:28,880 --> 00:31:29,960
Speaker 4: It's pertinent information?

663
00:31:31,680 --> 00:31:33,920
Speaker 1: I don't think we do.

664
00:31:34,400 --> 00:31:38,360
Speaker 2: Apparently some girls who told him he's great and that

665
00:31:38,440 --> 00:31:40,320
Speaker 2: they've been great.

666
00:31:40,400 --> 00:31:43,240
Speaker 4: Now you've congratulations pleasuring?

667
00:31:43,680 --> 00:31:43,840
Speaker 7: Uh?

668
00:31:44,160 --> 00:31:46,040
Speaker 4: Are we gonna have ten more tries here.

669
00:31:47,960 --> 00:31:51,080
Speaker 2: That they've been just can you put just a beep

670
00:31:51,480 --> 00:31:56,160
Speaker 2: over me, right, and just that they have been noodling

671
00:31:56,240 --> 00:31:59,600
Speaker 2: themselves over my boyfriend's keyboard skills.

672
00:32:01,360 --> 00:32:02,479
Speaker 1: I'm pretty torn.

673
00:32:03,200 --> 00:32:05,880
Speaker 2: I walked away from my boyfriend after telling him I

674
00:32:05,920 --> 00:32:07,480
Speaker 2: thought it was pretty weird and.

675
00:32:07,480 --> 00:32:09,080
Speaker 1: Considered it a form of cheating.

676
00:32:09,600 --> 00:32:12,280
Speaker 2: He yelled after me that I was being silly and

677
00:32:12,320 --> 00:32:15,360
Speaker 2: that it was in no way cheating, just really weird.

678
00:32:16,280 --> 00:32:18,200
Speaker 2: H What would you guys do? And how do I

679
00:32:18,200 --> 00:32:20,760
Speaker 2: tell him to stop? Is this really weird? Or am

680
00:32:20,800 --> 00:32:25,240
Speaker 2: I overreacting? And there are some comments here? But do

681
00:32:25,320 --> 00:32:26,640
Speaker 2: we have some thoughts?

682
00:32:27,080 --> 00:32:30,840
Speaker 3: I do quite a lot. At first, I was thinking, like, okay, well,

683
00:32:30,880 --> 00:32:33,760
Speaker 3: if he's just playing, pretend playing to go buy some apples,

684
00:32:34,520 --> 00:32:36,080
Speaker 3: just let it. You know, that's just part of the

685
00:32:36,120 --> 00:32:36,560
Speaker 3: video game.

686
00:32:37,040 --> 00:32:40,760
Speaker 5: He literally started like, yeah, I get really into it,

687
00:32:40,800 --> 00:32:42,560
Speaker 5: like my character eats an apple.

688
00:32:42,680 --> 00:32:42,880
Speaker 2: Yeah.

689
00:32:42,880 --> 00:32:45,200
Speaker 3: I was like, okay, this is innocent.

690
00:32:45,760 --> 00:32:49,080
Speaker 1: He's like, I'm just buying apples. You have no idea

691
00:32:49,120 --> 00:32:50,680
Speaker 1: what I'm gonna do with these apples.

692
00:32:52,600 --> 00:32:55,240
Speaker 5: Oh you're listening, Let's open Pandora's box right now now

693
00:32:55,280 --> 00:32:55,640
Speaker 5: that this.

694
00:32:55,680 --> 00:32:58,280
Speaker 3: Is totally cheating. This is just straight up like cyber

695
00:32:58,360 --> 00:32:59,200
Speaker 3: or spicy sleep.

696
00:32:59,320 --> 00:33:00,479
Speaker 1: Yeah, doing right?

697
00:33:00,520 --> 00:33:08,040
Speaker 3: Now with random people. Oh boy, you're being silly. You're

698
00:33:08,040 --> 00:33:10,600
Speaker 3: being silly. My my girlfriend.

699
00:33:10,680 --> 00:33:13,680
Speaker 4: It's not the same in the world they're like my girlfriends,

700
00:33:13,680 --> 00:33:16,680
Speaker 4: but like in the real world, you're my girlfriend, So like, yeah, exactly.

701
00:33:16,720 --> 00:33:19,120
Speaker 2: I wonder if in his head he was like, when

702
00:33:19,160 --> 00:33:22,880
Speaker 2: she sees this, she's gonna start playing with me. Yeah,

703
00:33:23,120 --> 00:33:25,240
Speaker 2: she's I'm gonna get her into a world of Warcraft

704
00:33:25,280 --> 00:33:29,000
Speaker 2: with my join in with my crazy apple talk.

705
00:33:29,680 --> 00:33:34,160
Speaker 1: Anyways, this is terrible. We've got some comments from arc

706
00:33:34,680 --> 00:33:35,000
Speaker 1: x I.

707
00:33:35,200 --> 00:33:38,760
Speaker 2: I if it makes you uncomfortable, he needs to stop

708
00:33:39,040 --> 00:33:42,720
Speaker 2: anything spicy done with another person online or in real life.

709
00:33:42,800 --> 00:33:46,000
Speaker 2: I would consider cheating, especially since he's not just role

710
00:33:46,000 --> 00:33:52,560
Speaker 2: playing but actually touching himself. Zen Little Platypus says, fairly sure.

711
00:33:52,600 --> 00:33:55,240
Speaker 2: It doesn't matter how he feels about it. You feel

712
00:33:55,280 --> 00:33:57,880
Speaker 2: like it's cheating, and that's a boundary for you. If

713
00:33:57,880 --> 00:34:00,280
Speaker 2: you don't like the behavior, he either needs to reed

714
00:34:00,360 --> 00:34:04,000
Speaker 2: to change it or you need to walk Double Moral says,

715
00:34:04,240 --> 00:34:07,640
Speaker 2: I would consider it as cheating. Replace the interface of

716
00:34:07,680 --> 00:34:10,719
Speaker 2: World of Warcraft with something else like Facebook Messenger, and

717
00:34:10,760 --> 00:34:14,880
Speaker 2: it would be spicy texting. He is obviously getting some

718
00:34:15,200 --> 00:34:18,720
Speaker 2: level of spicy satisfaction from this and is taking part

719
00:34:18,840 --> 00:34:22,960
Speaker 2: in spicy activities with others. Having a layer between you

720
00:34:23,040 --> 00:34:26,120
Speaker 2: in the form of wow characters doesn't make it innocent

721
00:34:26,239 --> 00:34:29,600
Speaker 2: or okay. And there's an update from a month later.

722
00:34:30,040 --> 00:34:31,840
Speaker 1: Hey, it's Sam. We're gonna get back to these stories.

723
00:34:31,880 --> 00:34:33,880
Speaker 2: But here's three bits of ads from our sponsors that

724
00:34:33,960 --> 00:34:34,680
Speaker 2: keep the show alive.

725
00:34:35,440 --> 00:34:37,080
Speaker 1: Did they break up because of.

726
00:34:37,000 --> 00:34:40,560
Speaker 2: His wow wing activities?

727
00:34:41,280 --> 00:34:41,560
Speaker 4: Wow?

728
00:34:41,600 --> 00:34:45,680
Speaker 1: Sorry, babe, I can't. I'm wowing right now. Oh I'm wowing.

729
00:34:46,239 --> 00:34:48,320
Speaker 3: And then you just hear me the other room, like, I'm.

730
00:34:50,640 --> 00:34:54,439
Speaker 5: Right now wow wow wowe wowie wowie Babe, IY wowed.

731
00:34:55,719 --> 00:34:57,680
Speaker 1: Standing in the doorway in the middle of the night.

732
00:34:58,200 --> 00:35:06,120
Speaker 3: My wowed? Wow? I just well, can I can I

733
00:35:06,320 --> 00:35:07,080
Speaker 3: sleep in your bed?

734
00:35:10,920 --> 00:35:11,920
Speaker 1: Okay?

735
00:35:12,440 --> 00:35:12,680
Speaker 6: Yeah?

736
00:35:12,760 --> 00:35:15,600
Speaker 3: I would hope that they break up. This is cheating.

737
00:35:15,640 --> 00:35:22,160
Speaker 3: This one cheating. I can't have a hobby. It's like, bab,

738
00:35:22,239 --> 00:35:27,360
Speaker 3: it's not me, it's actually Darth Smith, the Great and Powerful.

739
00:35:28,080 --> 00:35:28,319
Speaker 1: Babe.

740
00:35:28,360 --> 00:35:29,399
Speaker 3: I'm doing this for us.

741
00:35:29,880 --> 00:35:32,040
Speaker 2: You know how much I could sell all these apples

742
00:35:32,040 --> 00:35:35,839
Speaker 2: for in real life? Someone's gonna buy my account because

743
00:35:35,880 --> 00:35:38,640
Speaker 2: I got so many apples and so many girlfriends.

744
00:35:39,040 --> 00:35:41,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, okay.

745
00:35:41,880 --> 00:35:45,319
Speaker 5: I'm saying Op got into Wow and just got better

746
00:35:45,360 --> 00:35:47,360
Speaker 5: than him at it, and you know, yeah.

747
00:35:47,320 --> 00:35:51,120
Speaker 1: There you go. Yeah, and there's an update. Let's read it.

748
00:35:51,120 --> 00:35:53,840
Speaker 2: It's a month later. Hey, not sure if you remember me,

749
00:35:53,920 --> 00:35:54,880
Speaker 2: but here I am again.

750
00:35:55,360 --> 00:35:57,040
Speaker 4: Remember we remember, we remember.

751
00:35:57,600 --> 00:35:59,880
Speaker 1: You can read my previous post if you want so.

752
00:36:00,040 --> 00:36:02,719
Speaker 2: I appreciate all your comments very much and it sincerely

753
00:36:02,800 --> 00:36:03,640
Speaker 2: helped me a lot.

754
00:36:03,680 --> 00:36:06,839
Speaker 1: When it came down to confrontation. We spoke about it.

755
00:36:07,239 --> 00:36:09,080
Speaker 2: He explained to me that he didn't think he was

756
00:36:09,160 --> 00:36:12,280
Speaker 2: cheating because he isn't feeling for the women in the game.

757
00:36:12,360 --> 00:36:16,919
Speaker 1: He erpeas with just his character does. Yeah, but you're

758
00:36:17,000 --> 00:36:19,000
Speaker 1: your character, you dumb idiot.

759
00:36:19,400 --> 00:36:20,680
Speaker 3: It's not me, it's my character.

760
00:36:21,160 --> 00:36:25,799
Speaker 1: I am angry at you for being so stupid.

761
00:36:26,360 --> 00:36:31,200
Speaker 2: It's not me, it's Gorlock the Warrior Priest. Yeah, doing

762
00:36:31,239 --> 00:36:34,239
Speaker 2: all this stuff. I am just simply a vessel for

763
00:36:34,360 --> 00:36:35,040
Speaker 2: his spirit.

764
00:36:35,360 --> 00:36:37,400
Speaker 3: Wow, you're gonna be mad in a video game character.

765
00:36:38,120 --> 00:36:41,320
Speaker 3: That's very silly of you. Girlfriend. Wow.

766
00:36:41,760 --> 00:36:45,239
Speaker 2: Now at this point, I'm pretty fed up with all

767
00:36:45,280 --> 00:36:46,440
Speaker 2: this role playing crap.

768
00:36:46,880 --> 00:36:50,120
Speaker 1: I told him his character isn't effing real. He shouldn't

769
00:36:50,120 --> 00:36:53,040
Speaker 1: be feeling anything for anyone because it's effing cartoon.

770
00:36:53,640 --> 00:36:56,080
Speaker 2: I told him he was basically having spicy sleep chat

771
00:36:56,160 --> 00:36:59,799
Speaker 2: with someone else, and that is definitely infidelity. He was

772
00:37:00,160 --> 00:37:02,319
Speaker 2: more shocked at the fact that I insulted his role

773
00:37:02,360 --> 00:37:05,160
Speaker 2: play than the fact that I was accusing him of cheating.

774
00:37:05,440 --> 00:37:07,640
Speaker 2: He wasn't having it, and he kept insisting that it

775
00:37:07,719 --> 00:37:12,560
Speaker 2: wasn't cheating. It's his character's spicy sleep life and not his. Honestly,

776
00:37:12,640 --> 00:37:16,440
Speaker 2: like removing all of the infidelity aspects. I'm just breaking

777
00:37:16,520 --> 00:37:20,760
Speaker 2: up purely because of that perspective that you've You've given

778
00:37:21,239 --> 00:37:24,600
Speaker 2: your spicy World of Warcraft roleplay character a life of

779
00:37:24,640 --> 00:37:28,320
Speaker 2: its own in your mind. I'm like, I'm never physically

780
00:37:28,360 --> 00:37:29,160
Speaker 2: touching you again.

781
00:37:29,440 --> 00:37:32,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, and now I also have an issue with the

782
00:37:32,840 --> 00:37:37,880
Speaker 3: fact that you're peeking in on your character's privacy. That's

783
00:37:38,200 --> 00:37:39,600
Speaker 3: did he give you consent to do that?

784
00:37:39,840 --> 00:37:40,040
Speaker 1: Yeah?

785
00:37:40,200 --> 00:37:46,320
Speaker 2: Did Gorlop the Warrior Man? Did Gorlop the Warlord Conqueror?

786
00:37:47,160 --> 00:37:50,400
Speaker 1: Is he the one? Does he knows? Is he the one?

787
00:37:50,680 --> 00:37:53,200
Speaker 1: Does he inhabit your body while you do the jor

788
00:37:53,280 --> 00:37:54,640
Speaker 1: peer the time?

789
00:37:54,800 --> 00:37:56,920
Speaker 3: Does he know that you're watching him?

790
00:37:57,040 --> 00:37:57,200
Speaker 1: Now?

791
00:37:57,239 --> 00:38:07,439
Speaker 3: You're just a creep watching whatever it is intimate relations women?

792
00:38:07,760 --> 00:38:09,280
Speaker 1: Gorgop the magnificent.

793
00:38:10,600 --> 00:38:14,440
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, yeah, yea, yay, okay, I explained if he

794
00:38:14,560 --> 00:38:17,360
Speaker 2: was acting this same way with someone over text, it

795
00:38:17,400 --> 00:38:19,720
Speaker 2: would definitely be cheating, so why should it be different

796
00:38:19,760 --> 00:38:20,720
Speaker 2: just because it's in a game.

797
00:38:21,200 --> 00:38:23,719
Speaker 1: That question led up to him explaining.

798
00:38:23,400 --> 00:38:28,120
Speaker 2: For over two hours the concept of role play. Now,

799
00:38:28,360 --> 00:38:30,879
Speaker 2: I respect anyone who role plays to each their own,

800
00:38:31,040 --> 00:38:31,719
Speaker 2: but come on.

801
00:38:32,280 --> 00:38:34,680
Speaker 1: He was basically giving me bs excuses at.

802
00:38:34,520 --> 00:38:37,720
Speaker 2: This point, telling me that he only wanks it because

803
00:38:37,719 --> 00:38:40,359
Speaker 2: he thinks these blood elves or whatever are better looking

804
00:38:40,400 --> 00:38:41,320
Speaker 2: than anything he has.

805
00:38:41,200 --> 00:38:41,800
Speaker 1: In real life.

806
00:38:42,400 --> 00:38:46,240
Speaker 2: Rude, Wow, dude, Wild Warcraft graphics are that good.

807
00:38:46,880 --> 00:38:48,400
Speaker 1: I haven't played it in a long time, but it

808
00:38:48,440 --> 00:38:49,160
Speaker 1: can't be that good.

809
00:38:49,239 --> 00:38:53,200
Speaker 3: Man, Like, I don't I'm not into smooths people. I'm

810
00:38:53,200 --> 00:38:54,239
Speaker 3: into pixels.

811
00:38:54,440 --> 00:38:58,919
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, I don't know. Man, this is so bad

812
00:38:58,960 --> 00:38:59,520
Speaker 1: for this guy.

813
00:38:59,600 --> 00:39:03,960
Speaker 2: Man, Okay, I see, how can I ever compete with

814
00:39:04,000 --> 00:39:05,160
Speaker 2: a bunch of pixels?

815
00:39:05,360 --> 00:39:07,880
Speaker 3: Right? Yeah?

816
00:39:07,960 --> 00:39:10,760
Speaker 1: So I decided to go undercover.

817
00:39:11,600 --> 00:39:13,359
Speaker 3: What's why are we still gonna take?

818
00:39:13,600 --> 00:39:19,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, she's gonna get in there and was I right? Golop,

819
00:39:19,560 --> 00:39:23,799
Speaker 2: your sword is weak. He's gonna be like what, She's

820
00:39:23,800 --> 00:39:24,759
Speaker 2: gonna reject him?

821
00:39:24,840 --> 00:39:27,200
Speaker 1: In World of Warcraft, yeah, there you go.

822
00:39:27,520 --> 00:39:29,520
Speaker 2: I wanted to see if he would go along with

823
00:39:29,560 --> 00:39:31,680
Speaker 2: it if a girl were to start talking out of

824
00:39:31,719 --> 00:39:35,480
Speaker 2: her character and hit on him, not the character. At

825
00:39:35,480 --> 00:39:38,319
Speaker 2: this point, I was still very determined to save our relationship,

826
00:39:38,440 --> 00:39:42,080
Speaker 2: but after the following events, it wasn't gonna happen. We

827
00:39:42,120 --> 00:39:45,759
Speaker 2: did ERP without him knowing it was me. I ran

828
00:39:45,840 --> 00:39:48,319
Speaker 2: to my best friend's house, who knew the situation and

829
00:39:48,320 --> 00:39:51,080
Speaker 2: borrowed her World of Warcraft account. I have to admit

830
00:39:51,160 --> 00:39:53,200
Speaker 2: I think she was a little confused, but she understood

831
00:39:53,239 --> 00:39:56,000
Speaker 2: how I didn't want to just let him go. No,

832
00:39:56,719 --> 00:39:58,799
Speaker 2: she was being in a good friend, but she was like.

833
00:39:59,160 --> 00:40:02,640
Speaker 1: Bab you got it. What are you doing this? It's

834
00:40:02,719 --> 00:40:04,440
Speaker 1: already time to leave, dude.

835
00:40:05,000 --> 00:40:08,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, He's like Gorlop is a fully grown man who has.

836
00:40:08,880 --> 00:40:10,680
Speaker 4: Rights and it urges.

837
00:40:11,160 --> 00:40:15,600
Speaker 3: Gorlop is real to me, and his needs are real

838
00:40:15,719 --> 00:40:18,480
Speaker 3: to me. I feel like this friend just really just

839
00:40:18,880 --> 00:40:21,360
Speaker 3: wanted to see the tea. I probably would do that'd

840
00:40:21,400 --> 00:40:24,319
Speaker 3: be like, this is crazy, you should definitely break up

841
00:40:24,320 --> 00:40:27,479
Speaker 3: with him, but like, why not, Let's let's just let's

842
00:40:27,520 --> 00:40:29,680
Speaker 3: have this happen. Yeah.

843
00:40:29,840 --> 00:40:33,279
Speaker 2: After the ERP, where I've never felt more dumb or

844
00:40:33,280 --> 00:40:36,879
Speaker 2: idiotic in my entire life. I tried asking more in

845
00:40:36,920 --> 00:40:40,640
Speaker 2: person and out of character questions. He told me he

846
00:40:40,760 --> 00:40:43,840
Speaker 2: was single. He didn't break up, though. He told me

847
00:40:44,000 --> 00:40:46,200
Speaker 2: he was fit and goes to the gym regularly, and

848
00:40:46,239 --> 00:40:49,640
Speaker 2: he's actually a pretty big guy and never ever goes

849
00:40:49,680 --> 00:40:52,759
Speaker 2: to the gym or does any exercise. He told me

850
00:40:52,800 --> 00:40:54,480
Speaker 2: he would love to get my number in perhaps we

851
00:40:54,480 --> 00:40:56,000
Speaker 2: could meet up at some point.

852
00:40:56,239 --> 00:40:58,640
Speaker 1: Mm hmmmm. I was shocked.

853
00:41:00,160 --> 00:41:03,160
Speaker 2: I've never felt more stupid in my life. I thought

854
00:41:03,280 --> 00:41:05,879
Speaker 2: maybe this was just a phase, maybe he really liked

855
00:41:06,200 --> 00:41:09,560
Speaker 2: World of Warcraft, but no, he was legitimately out of

856
00:41:09,640 --> 00:41:10,880
Speaker 2: character cheating on me.

857
00:41:11,239 --> 00:41:13,640
Speaker 3: You can keep going with this, then you can make

858
00:41:13,680 --> 00:41:17,160
Speaker 3: plans to meet up and then Op shows up and

859
00:41:17,200 --> 00:41:18,279
Speaker 3: then just lets him have it.

860
00:41:18,400 --> 00:41:21,439
Speaker 1: Yeah, you should make plans to meet up in some like.

861
00:41:21,640 --> 00:41:24,839
Speaker 2: Far away place and he'll give you the issues like, oh,

862
00:41:24,920 --> 00:41:27,840
Speaker 2: I got like a trip with the my bodies that

863
00:41:27,960 --> 00:41:30,160
Speaker 2: we're gonna take blah blah.

864
00:41:29,920 --> 00:41:32,759
Speaker 1: Blah, and then after he goes on a trip to freaking.

865
00:41:33,960 --> 00:41:38,560
Speaker 2: Nebraska to meet this non existent person, you just move

866
00:41:38,600 --> 00:41:41,120
Speaker 2: your entire life out of wherever you are.

867
00:41:41,280 --> 00:41:44,360
Speaker 3: There you go, and you're gone, and you're gone.

868
00:41:44,760 --> 00:41:46,120
Speaker 1: There you go, were gone.

869
00:41:46,239 --> 00:41:48,239
Speaker 2: Sorry, I was just role playing as your girlfriend that

870
00:41:48,280 --> 00:41:53,719
Speaker 2: whole time, and then I stopped right after a few

871
00:41:53,760 --> 00:41:57,799
Speaker 2: more questions and answers in detective mode, which I'm not

872
00:41:57,880 --> 00:42:00,400
Speaker 2: gonna mention because it makes me feel sick. Ugged off

873
00:42:00,480 --> 00:42:04,000
Speaker 2: quickly and walked home after thanking my friend and of

874
00:42:04,080 --> 00:42:07,680
Speaker 2: course updating her with my new information. Once I got home,

875
00:42:07,760 --> 00:42:10,680
Speaker 2: he was still on his PCT. I was too upset

876
00:42:10,719 --> 00:42:13,480
Speaker 2: to speak. I really loved this guy and he's so

877
00:42:13,640 --> 00:42:17,000
Speaker 2: easily just thrown away what we had over a game.

878
00:42:17,440 --> 00:42:18,600
Speaker 1: I can't even deal with it.

879
00:42:18,800 --> 00:42:21,000
Speaker 2: This whole month has been horrible, and honestly, like, I

880
00:42:21,040 --> 00:42:22,799
Speaker 2: don't think he's throwing it away over the game.

881
00:42:22,880 --> 00:42:24,279
Speaker 1: I think he's just cheating on you.

882
00:42:24,640 --> 00:42:27,680
Speaker 2: Like it's not he would be cheating on you in

883
00:42:27,800 --> 00:42:29,920
Speaker 2: real life if he could, but he can't.

884
00:42:29,920 --> 00:42:32,120
Speaker 1: He can only do it as a Gorlop the Warrior Man.

885
00:42:32,280 --> 00:42:35,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, and there's just the added factor that he has

886
00:42:35,680 --> 00:42:39,680
Speaker 3: some sort of like detachment from the real world and

887
00:42:40,080 --> 00:42:43,399
Speaker 3: can only cope by pretending that there's this fake world

888
00:42:43,520 --> 00:42:43,839
Speaker 3: is real.

889
00:42:43,960 --> 00:42:47,799
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's just like watching a twenty eight car pile up.

890
00:42:48,560 --> 00:42:50,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, this is bad. It's just bad.

891
00:42:51,000 --> 00:42:52,919
Speaker 2: I miss him so much, But at the same time,

892
00:42:53,000 --> 00:42:55,680
Speaker 2: I hate him and I hate World of Warcraft, even

893
00:42:55,680 --> 00:42:57,680
Speaker 2: though it's definitely not the game's fault. He did what

894
00:42:57,760 --> 00:42:59,520
Speaker 2: he did and became who he became.

895
00:43:00,040 --> 00:43:02,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, we've got a little more story here. This is

896
00:43:02,200 --> 00:43:04,759
Speaker 1: good news. This doesn't feel like good news, but this

897
00:43:04,800 --> 00:43:05,880
Speaker 1: is good news.

898
00:43:05,880 --> 00:43:09,560
Speaker 2: Good news because yeah, like yeah, you know, if he

899
00:43:09,600 --> 00:43:12,000
Speaker 2: would have ever found himself and he was just he's

900
00:43:12,040 --> 00:43:14,319
Speaker 2: just he was, He's just gonna cheat on you. Yeah,

901
00:43:14,360 --> 00:43:16,120
Speaker 2: he was gonna cheat on you. He can only cheat

902
00:43:16,120 --> 00:43:18,640
Speaker 2: on you in this uh, in a in a game.

903
00:43:19,160 --> 00:43:22,040
Speaker 2: He's cheating on you in the game, right, and if

904
00:43:22,120 --> 00:43:24,480
Speaker 2: an opportunity ever presented itself to cheat on you in

905
00:43:24,520 --> 00:43:25,880
Speaker 2: real life, he'd do it totally.

906
00:43:26,000 --> 00:43:28,279
Speaker 5: Yeah, Opie, I would say, this is the one time

907
00:43:28,280 --> 00:43:31,680
Speaker 5: where you can say, don't hate the game, hate the player.

908
00:43:32,840 --> 00:43:35,120
Speaker 1: You gotta hate the player. We gotta hate the player.

909
00:43:35,160 --> 00:43:37,320
Speaker 3: Here, we gotta hate the player, Opie says.

910
00:43:37,680 --> 00:43:40,000
Speaker 2: All I can say is that he changed a lot

911
00:43:40,080 --> 00:43:42,759
Speaker 2: over a few months, and it's sickening to think about it.

912
00:43:43,080 --> 00:43:45,320
Speaker 2: I broke up with him the morning after and didn't

913
00:43:45,320 --> 00:43:47,400
Speaker 2: really give a reason, even though he could tell something

914
00:43:47,480 --> 00:43:49,440
Speaker 2: was up with me. I just said I didn't want

915
00:43:49,440 --> 00:43:51,640
Speaker 2: to be in this relationship so much, and he said

916
00:43:51,680 --> 00:43:53,879
Speaker 2: he saw it coming. I took my things and left

917
00:43:53,920 --> 00:43:56,160
Speaker 2: as soon as I could. All my stuff is back

918
00:43:56,239 --> 00:43:56,840
Speaker 2: and my parents.

919
00:43:56,840 --> 00:43:57,040
Speaker 3: Now.

920
00:43:57,360 --> 00:43:57,799
Speaker 1: I love that.

921
00:43:57,880 --> 00:44:00,840
Speaker 2: He's like, yeah, I saw I come and something about

922
00:44:00,920 --> 00:44:03,319
Speaker 2: you telling me that you considered what I was doing

923
00:44:03,400 --> 00:44:06,240
Speaker 2: cheating on you and would telling me that you probably

924
00:44:06,239 --> 00:44:07,880
Speaker 2: cann break up with me because I said I would

925
00:44:07,880 --> 00:44:08,440
Speaker 2: not stop.

926
00:44:08,680 --> 00:44:12,839
Speaker 3: I had an inkling. Gorlop knew because he's like really

927
00:44:12,880 --> 00:44:15,480
Speaker 3: good at like discovering these things. We were having a

928
00:44:15,520 --> 00:44:17,440
Speaker 3: really in depth conversation about our relationship.

929
00:44:17,480 --> 00:44:21,120
Speaker 2: Golop has a really high intelligence level and he actually

930
00:44:21,160 --> 00:44:24,240
Speaker 2: had a message from the Great Beyond to the Eighth Plane,

931
00:44:24,440 --> 00:44:27,120
Speaker 2: and he told me that you were gonna break up

932
00:44:27,160 --> 00:44:31,480
Speaker 2: with me and that you were smelling Thanks Radditt. Yeah,

933
00:44:31,480 --> 00:44:33,720
Speaker 2: it did help a lot. I think I'll be taking

934
00:44:33,719 --> 00:44:35,919
Speaker 2: a break from dating for now. And we have some

935
00:44:36,080 --> 00:44:39,799
Speaker 2: final comments here. It's pretty common for er peers to

936
00:44:39,880 --> 00:44:43,200
Speaker 2: let their characters' feelings flood over into real life. When

937
00:44:43,239 --> 00:44:45,040
Speaker 2: I was a role player on World of Warcraft, I

938
00:44:45,120 --> 00:44:47,560
Speaker 2: encountered a lot of people who would use their character

939
00:44:47,600 --> 00:44:50,200
Speaker 2: as an excuse to have naughty chats with other people,

940
00:44:50,640 --> 00:44:53,479
Speaker 2: even if they had a s O or spouse, and boy,

941
00:44:53,560 --> 00:44:56,279
Speaker 2: do I have some stories from my RP days. Some

942
00:44:56,400 --> 00:44:59,440
Speaker 2: crazy crap goes on in those worlds, and ERP just

943
00:44:59,440 --> 00:45:03,320
Speaker 2: makes it work. Another comment says, as a WOW player

944
00:45:03,360 --> 00:45:07,440
Speaker 2: who also RPGs in the game who happens to be female,

945
00:45:07,600 --> 00:45:10,160
Speaker 2: this happens to me a lot. I can't tell you

946
00:45:10,200 --> 00:45:12,680
Speaker 2: how many times someone has found out I have front

947
00:45:12,719 --> 00:45:14,799
Speaker 2: air bags and all of a sudden they want to

948
00:45:14,840 --> 00:45:18,240
Speaker 2: have my number. I've actually had to contact Blizzard support

949
00:45:18,320 --> 00:45:19,320
Speaker 2: to get some of them.

950
00:45:19,120 --> 00:45:20,200
Speaker 1: To stop pestering me.

951
00:45:20,320 --> 00:45:21,239
Speaker 4: Good luck with that.

952
00:45:21,719 --> 00:45:24,200
Speaker 2: All the while, I'm sitting there in my sweats and

953
00:45:24,280 --> 00:45:27,120
Speaker 2: PJ tank top without a brawl on, just staring at

954
00:45:27,120 --> 00:45:29,160
Speaker 2: my screen like I could be a dude with a

955
00:45:29,160 --> 00:45:31,319
Speaker 2: Wiener tattooed on my forehead for all you know?

956
00:45:31,840 --> 00:45:34,279
Speaker 1: What that are you doing? And there's an edit. Hey

957
00:45:34,280 --> 00:45:35,800
Speaker 1: it's John here. We're gonna get back to the stories.

958
00:45:35,800 --> 00:45:37,760
Speaker 2: Put a quick three minute ad break from our sponsors

959
00:45:37,800 --> 00:45:38,680
Speaker 2: that keep the show going.

960
00:45:39,360 --> 00:45:41,120
Speaker 1: I think you did the right thing. I've never been

961
00:45:41,160 --> 00:45:42,200
Speaker 1: that addicted to the game.

962
00:45:42,280 --> 00:45:44,520
Speaker 2: I enjoy it for what it is, but dang man,

963
00:45:45,000 --> 00:45:47,400
Speaker 2: enjoy a good real life relationship while you have it.

964
00:45:47,760 --> 00:45:50,719
Speaker 1: A third commenter says, my ex girlfriend did a similar thing.

965
00:45:51,200 --> 00:45:54,480
Speaker 1: She was cybering with the whole guild and while I

966
00:45:54,520 --> 00:45:56,480
Speaker 1: was at work. She had no job.

967
00:45:56,840 --> 00:45:59,319
Speaker 2: She would talk to these guys all day long. The

968
00:45:59,320 --> 00:46:02,680
Speaker 2: final straw. One day, a package arrived for her. It

969
00:46:02,719 --> 00:46:06,880
Speaker 2: was a Valentine's Day gift from the guild leader. We fought,

970
00:46:06,920 --> 00:46:10,880
Speaker 2: and that's when I was made aware of her e activities.

971
00:46:11,640 --> 00:46:14,680
Speaker 2: So that's when I cut the internet. We broke up

972
00:46:14,719 --> 00:46:17,200
Speaker 2: not much longer after that. I was naive and thought

973
00:46:17,200 --> 00:46:19,319
Speaker 2: we could work it out. This game has ruined many

974
00:46:19,320 --> 00:46:22,399
Speaker 2: a relationship and while I'm very sorry this happened to you, OP,

975
00:46:22,680 --> 00:46:24,920
Speaker 2: don't let it soury or view on dating gamers in

976
00:46:24,920 --> 00:46:28,040
Speaker 2: the future. Ice is Cold says you missed a great

977
00:46:28,120 --> 00:46:30,120
Speaker 2: chance to f with him. You could have given him

978
00:46:30,160 --> 00:46:33,160
Speaker 2: your number in game, and OP says, my best friend

979
00:46:33,239 --> 00:46:35,239
Speaker 2: said the same thing. I was thinking about it, but

980
00:46:35,280 --> 00:46:37,880
Speaker 2: honestly I was in no mood to play around. It

981
00:46:37,920 --> 00:46:41,280
Speaker 2: wouldn't have been fun, and I've heard enough BS excuses

982
00:46:41,280 --> 00:46:43,160
Speaker 2: for one day and didn't want to hear how he

983
00:46:43,239 --> 00:46:45,640
Speaker 2: was only going along with the erp because he knew

984
00:46:45,680 --> 00:46:48,360
Speaker 2: it was me good idea though, when someone said this

985
00:46:48,480 --> 00:46:50,840
Speaker 2: is fake, how did you find your ex in the game?

986
00:46:51,239 --> 00:46:53,400
Speaker 1: Opie says, whether you believe this story is.

987
00:46:53,400 --> 00:46:55,640
Speaker 2: Real or not makes no difference whatsoever to me, But

988
00:46:55,719 --> 00:46:58,360
Speaker 2: I figure I should explain how anyway. I know his

989
00:46:58,440 --> 00:47:02,040
Speaker 2: character name gorlab O Man. He uses it as a

990
00:47:02,160 --> 00:47:06,400
Speaker 2: username for basically everything I know. He's always in silver

991
00:47:06,520 --> 00:47:09,680
Speaker 2: Moon City, and after we added his character name to

992
00:47:09,719 --> 00:47:12,560
Speaker 2: her friend's list this was confirmed. We added his character

993
00:47:12,600 --> 00:47:14,239
Speaker 2: to her friends list on her main just to see

994
00:47:14,239 --> 00:47:15,000
Speaker 2: his whereabouts.

995
00:47:15,040 --> 00:47:15,239
Speaker 1: Now.

996
00:47:15,280 --> 00:47:17,279
Speaker 2: I know nothing about Silver Moon, but my best friend

997
00:47:17,280 --> 00:47:19,680
Speaker 2: Sophie does. I've watched him play while I've been doing

998
00:47:19,680 --> 00:47:21,759
Speaker 2: my own hobbies on my own laptop next to him,

999
00:47:21,760 --> 00:47:23,880
Speaker 2: so I know he hangs out in a certain place

1000
00:47:23,920 --> 00:47:24,440
Speaker 2: in the city.

1001
00:47:24,680 --> 00:47:27,960
Speaker 1: He's got a corner he hangs out on that.

1002
00:47:28,040 --> 00:47:30,319
Speaker 2: Yeah, if you want to get jiggy with Gorlop the

1003
00:47:30,360 --> 00:47:33,520
Speaker 2: Warriors schlonger you can. You head on down to the

1004
00:47:33,600 --> 00:47:37,520
Speaker 2: corner of Eighth Street and Pixie Lane.

1005
00:47:38,640 --> 00:47:41,160
Speaker 3: All the best babes are at Silver Moon Babe.

1006
00:47:41,200 --> 00:47:44,960
Speaker 2: All the hot babes come to Gorlop's corner and Silver

1007
00:47:45,040 --> 00:47:45,960
Speaker 2: Moon City.

1008
00:47:46,360 --> 00:47:49,239
Speaker 3: It's like working in the corner. It's like the Red

1009
00:47:49,320 --> 00:47:49,880
Speaker 3: Light District.

1010
00:47:50,239 --> 00:47:50,479
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1011
00:47:50,520 --> 00:47:54,000
Speaker 2: In World of Warcraft, he's got like his character is

1012
00:47:54,040 --> 00:47:56,560
Speaker 2: wearing like like a big fur co, just a like

1013
00:47:56,640 --> 00:47:59,600
Speaker 2: a the clothing of a lady of the night. Yes,

1014
00:48:00,680 --> 00:48:02,759
Speaker 2: he's a big buff warrior dude in like a g

1015
00:48:02,960 --> 00:48:04,920
Speaker 2: stringan fishnets.

1016
00:48:05,160 --> 00:48:05,680
Speaker 3: Yeah.

1017
00:48:05,800 --> 00:48:08,080
Speaker 2: I was worried about how to find him and which

1018
00:48:08,160 --> 00:48:10,360
Speaker 2: character to use. When Sophie told me it was possible

1019
00:48:10,400 --> 00:48:13,120
Speaker 2: to make a level one Elf and run to the city,

1020
00:48:13,440 --> 00:48:14,840
Speaker 2: only taking about ten minutes.

1021
00:48:15,200 --> 00:48:17,640
Speaker 1: She did that for me. It was hard finding him.

1022
00:48:17,719 --> 00:48:19,480
Speaker 2: I never stated how long it took in the post,

1023
00:48:19,520 --> 00:48:22,120
Speaker 2: but we did, and he was in the inn, which

1024
00:48:22,200 --> 00:48:25,080
Speaker 2: is a place I've seen him in before. We approached him,

1025
00:48:25,120 --> 00:48:28,480
Speaker 2: and the roleplay commenced. Simple, guys, if you don't believe

1026
00:48:28,480 --> 00:48:30,840
Speaker 2: this post, just ignore it. It's hard enough without idiots

1027
00:48:30,920 --> 00:48:32,960
Speaker 2: trying to catch me for being a liar. Thanks for

1028
00:48:33,000 --> 00:48:36,759
Speaker 2: your comment anyway, though, And I know he only has

1029
00:48:36,840 --> 00:48:40,040
Speaker 2: characters in the realm Moonglade, And no, they don't have

1030
00:48:40,080 --> 00:48:42,719
Speaker 2: each other as friends. They've always disliked each other. And

1031
00:48:42,760 --> 00:48:44,640
Speaker 2: that's the end of the story. And just a little

1032
00:48:44,680 --> 00:48:47,640
Speaker 2: tutorial for how to stalk someone in World of Warcraft.

1033
00:48:47,800 --> 00:48:49,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, now you know.

1034
00:48:49,360 --> 00:48:51,759
Speaker 2: If you look good for gore Lap and on down

1035
00:48:51,800 --> 00:48:56,000
Speaker 2: to the Moonglade server on the corner of big Boy

1036
00:48:56,200 --> 00:48:59,120
Speaker 2: Lane and silver Moon City.

1037
00:48:59,200 --> 00:49:01,479
Speaker 3: Kean. Can you see when this post was made? Because

1038
00:49:01,520 --> 00:49:03,759
Speaker 3: I wonder if someone could log into a World of

1039
00:49:03,760 --> 00:49:06,759
Speaker 3: Warcraft and find him. Yeah, still playing.

1040
00:49:06,480 --> 00:49:07,920
Speaker 1: It, we probably could.

1041
00:49:08,200 --> 00:49:09,440
Speaker 3: I feel like it's possible.

1042
00:49:09,480 --> 00:49:11,960
Speaker 1: Anyone playing World of Warcraft go find this guy.

1043
00:49:12,080 --> 00:49:13,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, go find it right now.

1044
00:49:13,480 --> 00:49:16,759
Speaker 1: But be nice to him. Yeah, don't be mean to

1045
00:49:16,920 --> 00:49:18,400
Speaker 1: Gorlop the Warrior.

1046
00:49:18,080 --> 00:49:19,239
Speaker 4: Man six years ago.

1047
00:49:19,800 --> 00:49:22,040
Speaker 1: Ah, he might not be in silver Moon.

1048
00:49:22,120 --> 00:49:24,480
Speaker 3: He might have up were the shot.

1049
00:49:24,680 --> 00:49:25,720
Speaker 1: He might be enough.

1050
00:49:26,600 --> 00:49:28,840
Speaker 2: I only played the Horde. I don't remember any of that.

1051
00:49:28,920 --> 00:49:31,600
Speaker 2: I think silver Moon Cities on the Alliance side.

1052
00:49:32,440 --> 00:49:34,920
Speaker 4: Sorry storm Wind, No, no, sorry, it was deleted. This

1053
00:49:35,000 --> 00:49:36,560
Speaker 4: was about eleven years ago.

1054
00:49:36,760 --> 00:49:40,439
Speaker 2: Ah, World the Warcraft was so much, so much fun.

1055
00:49:40,880 --> 00:49:41,879
Speaker 1: It was so much fun.

1056
00:49:42,440 --> 00:49:45,120
Speaker 2: I had no business playing that game the way I

1057
00:49:45,120 --> 00:49:47,680
Speaker 2: played it at the age I was playing it. A Yeah,

1058
00:49:47,760 --> 00:49:51,160
Speaker 2: I was on like before Discord existed. There was like

1059
00:49:51,880 --> 00:49:53,800
Speaker 2: I can't even remember. It was like a voice chat

1060
00:49:53,920 --> 00:49:58,160
Speaker 2: app for like World of Warcraft or like any games. Yeah,

1061
00:49:58,200 --> 00:50:01,080
Speaker 2: but I'm like eleven or ten years old and like

1062
00:50:01,120 --> 00:50:04,600
Speaker 2: a thirty person like chat because it's like there's these

1063
00:50:05,040 --> 00:50:06,919
Speaker 2: places you go or you need like a bit like

1064
00:50:06,920 --> 00:50:09,240
Speaker 2: like they're like done, like you know, boss levels.

1065
00:50:09,320 --> 00:50:11,120
Speaker 1: Essentially, it's like you go in somewhere.

1066
00:50:10,840 --> 00:50:12,239
Speaker 2: And you have to like get to the end, and

1067
00:50:12,360 --> 00:50:14,440
Speaker 2: all the enemies are way harder, so you have to

1068
00:50:14,440 --> 00:50:16,520
Speaker 2: go in with a big giant group of people. Oh,

1069
00:50:16,600 --> 00:50:18,399
Speaker 2: I see, and that's what like a guild is for.

1070
00:50:18,840 --> 00:50:21,520
Speaker 2: And like I'm in the chat like I'm my my,

1071
00:50:22,320 --> 00:50:28,000
Speaker 2: I'm I I'm refreshing my icy blast and wait up, guys,

1072
00:50:28,640 --> 00:50:30,440
Speaker 2: just with like I just look like a bunch of

1073
00:50:30,520 --> 00:50:32,400
Speaker 2: just grown adults.

1074
00:50:32,840 --> 00:50:33,440
Speaker 3: That's great.

1075
00:50:34,239 --> 00:50:36,319
Speaker 1: Great, yeah, and you know what I don't.

1076
00:50:36,400 --> 00:50:40,040
Speaker 2: I never got like harangued or anything that's good, Like

1077
00:50:40,400 --> 00:50:42,320
Speaker 2: I definitely got way more harangue playing.

1078
00:50:42,120 --> 00:50:44,840
Speaker 1: Like Xbox Like, oh my god, call it duty lobbies.

1079
00:50:44,880 --> 00:50:46,360
Speaker 1: The call of duty lobbies.

1080
00:50:45,960 --> 00:50:48,400
Speaker 3: Were all the anger was let out? I mean, or

1081
00:50:48,480 --> 00:50:49,319
Speaker 3: was it inappropriate?

1082
00:50:49,400 --> 00:50:51,480
Speaker 4: We will never see her like again, No, that's never

1083
00:50:51,520 --> 00:50:52,000
Speaker 4: gonna happen.

1084
00:50:52,080 --> 00:50:53,240
Speaker 1: They literally made it illegal.

1085
00:50:53,600 --> 00:50:57,920
Speaker 3: Wow, my ex's family thinks they should control my son's birthday,

1086
00:50:58,080 --> 00:50:59,560
Speaker 3: so I retaliated.

1087
00:51:00,200 --> 00:51:04,560
Speaker 2: It's our birthday to control as we wish.

1088
00:51:04,640 --> 00:51:07,680
Speaker 3: And this comes directly from the r slash Okay Storytime.

1089
00:51:07,800 --> 00:51:11,239
Speaker 3: Superate it bit of context and backstory here. I have

1090
00:51:11,320 --> 00:51:15,439
Speaker 3: three kids, one female, two male, female six male four

1091
00:51:15,600 --> 00:51:18,080
Speaker 3: and male one. Two of my kids are from a

1092
00:51:18,080 --> 00:51:20,680
Speaker 3: previous relationship, and while things didn't work out between us

1093
00:51:20,719 --> 00:51:23,000
Speaker 3: for many reasons I'd rather not hash out here, I

1094
00:51:23,080 --> 00:51:25,560
Speaker 3: tried to co parent peacefully for my kids. Sick by

1095
00:51:25,600 --> 00:51:28,440
Speaker 3: the way, this comes from just too tired for it.

1096
00:51:28,800 --> 00:51:30,560
Speaker 3: And if you want to submit your own stories, go

1097
00:51:30,640 --> 00:51:33,560
Speaker 3: to the r slash okay storytime. Separate it and we

1098
00:51:33,640 --> 00:51:36,600
Speaker 3: just might read it just like this one. I'm Angie,

1099
00:51:36,840 --> 00:51:39,879
Speaker 3: I'm Dakota, I'm Keon, and we're here to give good

1100
00:51:39,960 --> 00:51:42,440
Speaker 3: advice goofily, but we don't have all the answers. We

1101
00:51:42,520 --> 00:51:44,279
Speaker 3: just know what we would do in these situations, So

1102
00:51:44,840 --> 00:51:47,600
Speaker 3: let us know what she would do in the comments

1103
00:51:47,880 --> 00:51:50,319
Speaker 3: and op says. For the most part, my kids, father

1104
00:51:50,360 --> 00:51:52,520
Speaker 3: and I do get along pretty well and make decisions

1105
00:51:52,560 --> 00:51:55,879
Speaker 3: regarding our kids after consulting with one another. However, when

1106
00:51:55,880 --> 00:51:58,799
Speaker 3: he gets around certain people, all of a sudden, he

1107
00:51:58,920 --> 00:52:02,880
Speaker 3: has issues with everything, the main one being his brother

1108
00:52:02,920 --> 00:52:05,200
Speaker 3: in law, who sadly just has a poor view of

1109
00:52:05,239 --> 00:52:07,879
Speaker 3: what he thinks should happen in the world. I'm coming

1110
00:52:08,000 --> 00:52:08,720
Speaker 3: up on us.

1111
00:52:09,200 --> 00:52:11,400
Speaker 1: That's such a nice way to put that.

1112
00:52:12,719 --> 00:52:15,920
Speaker 3: Yeah, poor view of what he thinks should happen in

1113
00:52:15,960 --> 00:52:16,320
Speaker 3: the world.

1114
00:52:16,440 --> 00:52:20,520
Speaker 1: Yes, fortunately, all his thoughts are bad and wrong.

1115
00:52:21,200 --> 00:52:25,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm coming up on my son's sixth birthday, and

1116
00:52:25,280 --> 00:52:27,600
Speaker 3: I know people say the kids aren't going to remember

1117
00:52:27,640 --> 00:52:30,440
Speaker 3: the parties, et cetera. I get it just for me

1118
00:52:30,880 --> 00:52:33,640
Speaker 3: just as much as it is for them. I love

1119
00:52:33,880 --> 00:52:37,600
Speaker 3: to throw big parties to celebrate my children's milestones, especially birthdays.

1120
00:52:37,719 --> 00:52:40,040
Speaker 3: The smile I see on their face is my reward,

1121
00:52:40,400 --> 00:52:43,680
Speaker 3: my thank you, my whole world. Now onto our issue

1122
00:52:43,680 --> 00:52:45,879
Speaker 3: at hand. I'm trying to plan this party and I'm

1123
00:52:45,920 --> 00:52:47,719
Speaker 3: so excited for it, but I got a call this

1124
00:52:47,760 --> 00:52:49,920
Speaker 3: morning that my ex'es brother in law doesn't want to

1125
00:52:50,000 --> 00:52:53,000
Speaker 3: drive past where they live. My ex doesn't have a car.

1126
00:52:53,480 --> 00:52:55,720
Speaker 3: I've never minded giving him riots to our kids events

1127
00:52:55,760 --> 00:52:58,880
Speaker 3: or anything else for that matter. We've been friends since childhood.

1128
00:52:59,120 --> 00:53:01,480
Speaker 3: The issue is is that he thinks I'm going to

1129
00:53:01,560 --> 00:53:04,200
Speaker 3: change the party plan or what I'm paying for our

1130
00:53:04,239 --> 00:53:06,600
Speaker 3: son so that his brother in law and his four

1131
00:53:06,680 --> 00:53:09,319
Speaker 3: kids can be happy. Ah, while getting upset with me

1132
00:53:09,600 --> 00:53:13,000
Speaker 3: for saying Hey, my fiance suggested this and says that

1133
00:53:13,040 --> 00:53:14,759
Speaker 3: we can afford our part if he'd like to do

1134
00:53:14,800 --> 00:53:17,040
Speaker 3: it with us. Now, he says that I'm letting my

1135
00:53:17,080 --> 00:53:20,840
Speaker 3: fiance run things. Basically, in his eyes, I'm being pushy

1136
00:53:21,080 --> 00:53:23,319
Speaker 3: or in a hole. Though he didn't want to say

1137
00:53:23,360 --> 00:53:26,000
Speaker 3: it that way, I simply explained that he just threw

1138
00:53:26,040 --> 00:53:27,920
Speaker 3: in ideas that we're along the lines of what I

1139
00:53:28,000 --> 00:53:30,799
Speaker 3: was already thinking of doing. I do work, but I

1140
00:53:30,880 --> 00:53:32,759
Speaker 3: have a chronic illness that keeps me from having a

1141
00:53:32,760 --> 00:53:35,239
Speaker 3: full time job. So I console with my fiance since

1142
00:53:35,280 --> 00:53:38,760
Speaker 3: he's helping me pay part of my things. He also

1143
00:53:38,840 --> 00:53:41,120
Speaker 3: helps me daily to raise these kids while my ex

1144
00:53:41,360 --> 00:53:43,560
Speaker 3: spends the weekends that he can with them. I don't

1145
00:53:43,640 --> 00:53:45,640
Speaker 3: judge him on what he can and cannot do with

1146
00:53:45,719 --> 00:53:48,440
Speaker 3: the time. He may have extra work or just may

1147
00:53:48,480 --> 00:53:50,719
Speaker 3: not have the funds to take them a weekend. I'm

1148
00:53:50,800 --> 00:53:53,120
Speaker 3: fine with this. I'm their mom and they are just

1149
00:53:53,160 --> 00:53:55,759
Speaker 3: fine with me. We will find fun things to do.

1150
00:53:56,040 --> 00:53:58,279
Speaker 3: But he doesn't like my fiance giving input all of

1151
00:53:58,320 --> 00:54:00,879
Speaker 3: a sudden because he's around his brother in law, yet

1152
00:54:01,040 --> 00:54:03,720
Speaker 3: expects me to move the party to accommodate his sister,

1153
00:54:03,880 --> 00:54:06,600
Speaker 3: her kids, and his brother in law not wanting to drive.

1154
00:54:06,960 --> 00:54:09,440
Speaker 3: They live in BFE, Texas.

1155
00:54:09,560 --> 00:54:10,960
Speaker 1: Beefy, Texas.

1156
00:54:11,320 --> 00:54:12,160
Speaker 3: Is that what it is?

1157
00:54:12,360 --> 00:54:12,600
Speaker 4: No?

1158
00:54:13,160 --> 00:54:14,520
Speaker 3: What does that stand for?

1159
00:54:14,760 --> 00:54:20,920
Speaker 2: I'm gonna say big front oh and big front end

1160
00:54:21,120 --> 00:54:24,240
Speaker 2: Texas cool beaufort Ford.

1161
00:54:24,719 --> 00:54:29,440
Speaker 5: There's two common meetings. Oh, first one is base flood

1162
00:54:29,480 --> 00:54:34,200
Speaker 5: elevation or the second one is back forty elsewhere or

1163
00:54:34,360 --> 00:54:35,280
Speaker 5: middle of nowhere.

1164
00:54:35,600 --> 00:54:36,560
Speaker 3: Okay, got it?

1165
00:54:36,680 --> 00:54:39,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, middle of nowhere Texas.

1166
00:54:39,400 --> 00:54:42,240
Speaker 3: If you've ever been, you know, anything fun or interesting

1167
00:54:42,320 --> 00:54:45,120
Speaker 3: is at least an hour to two hours away. I

1168
00:54:45,160 --> 00:54:47,319
Speaker 3: currently live over an hour from them, and I don't

1169
00:54:47,360 --> 00:54:49,840
Speaker 3: mind driving this extra time so my kid can enjoy

1170
00:54:49,880 --> 00:54:52,279
Speaker 3: his day. But he really thought that I was going

1171
00:54:52,320 --> 00:54:54,359
Speaker 3: to change it all up so they didn't have to drive.

1172
00:54:54,880 --> 00:54:56,680
Speaker 3: So instead I told them that they could throw their

1173
00:54:56,719 --> 00:54:59,680
Speaker 3: own party, and now he's upset about that as well.

1174
00:55:00,160 --> 00:55:02,120
Speaker 3: I just feel like there's no winning here with this.

1175
00:55:02,560 --> 00:55:05,120
Speaker 3: So a smallest of things I do that isn't required

1176
00:55:05,160 --> 00:55:07,520
Speaker 3: of me at all. I send snacks and clothes with

1177
00:55:07,560 --> 00:55:09,319
Speaker 3: my kids to take to their aunt's house with them

1178
00:55:09,320 --> 00:55:12,640
Speaker 3: when they stay. I've gotten their kids clothes because they

1179
00:55:12,680 --> 00:55:16,120
Speaker 3: were taking my kids clothes. Oh my gosh. I've offered

1180
00:55:16,120 --> 00:55:18,520
Speaker 3: to help them clean their house, which I do for

1181
00:55:18,560 --> 00:55:21,040
Speaker 3: a living. I pick him up from where he lives

1182
00:55:21,080 --> 00:55:23,040
Speaker 3: and drop him off so he can spend his weekend

1183
00:55:23,120 --> 00:55:25,480
Speaker 3: with his kids. And when I pick up kids, I

1184
00:55:25,560 --> 00:55:27,920
Speaker 3: usually give him a ride home as well. I deliver

1185
00:55:28,040 --> 00:55:30,160
Speaker 3: medicine in the middle of the night, because even though

1186
00:55:30,239 --> 00:55:32,600
Speaker 3: she has kids in her house, they keep no medicine

1187
00:55:32,640 --> 00:55:35,160
Speaker 3: or antibacterial items for cuts and scrapes.

1188
00:55:35,520 --> 00:55:39,240
Speaker 1: That's insane. Do you have a medicine cabinet?

1189
00:55:39,560 --> 00:55:42,320
Speaker 2: I feel like that's important, Like you have to drive

1190
00:55:42,440 --> 00:55:44,120
Speaker 2: two hours, right?

1191
00:55:44,239 --> 00:55:45,560
Speaker 1: We need neosporin.

1192
00:55:46,160 --> 00:55:49,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, for our children that constantly get.

1193
00:55:49,280 --> 00:55:53,759
Speaker 1: Hurt, and we will not be buying any no after this.

1194
00:55:54,400 --> 00:55:55,640
Speaker 3: No, of course not.

1195
00:55:55,719 --> 00:55:58,879
Speaker 1: Why would you you already have it? You've got all

1196
00:55:58,880 --> 00:56:00,360
Speaker 1: the new sport in the world.

1197
00:56:00,880 --> 00:56:03,000
Speaker 3: I also have to remind him that our children can't

1198
00:56:03,040 --> 00:56:06,120
Speaker 3: drink sodas without it physically hurting them. I have to

1199
00:56:06,160 --> 00:56:09,160
Speaker 3: ask them not to allow my older two kids, since

1200
00:56:09,280 --> 00:56:12,520
Speaker 3: those are the ones that we share, ages six and four,

1201
00:56:12,960 --> 00:56:14,759
Speaker 3: to be in the street where cars drive, and they

1202
00:56:14,800 --> 00:56:17,799
Speaker 3: clearly don't care that kids may be present because I've

1203
00:56:17,840 --> 00:56:20,400
Speaker 3: got them playing in the street alone with no supervision.

1204
00:56:20,560 --> 00:56:26,640
Speaker 2: That's where kids are designed to play in the street unsupervised.

1205
00:56:26,760 --> 00:56:28,719
Speaker 1: Yeah, the strong survive.

1206
00:56:31,080 --> 00:56:33,840
Speaker 2: I gotta say though, I was tickled at the thought

1207
00:56:34,040 --> 00:56:36,239
Speaker 2: of those kids drinking a soda and they're like.

1208
00:56:36,680 --> 00:56:46,600
Speaker 3: Ah, so good. Yeah, they might like drink it too

1209
00:56:46,680 --> 00:56:49,880
Speaker 3: fast and then they're so bloated with other carbonation and

1210
00:56:49,880 --> 00:56:51,839
Speaker 3: they're like, ah like that my.

1211
00:56:51,960 --> 00:56:55,680
Speaker 2: Body like what was the girl who got it? Turns

1212
00:56:55,680 --> 00:56:57,799
Speaker 2: into a blueberry and Charlie and the Chocolate fair.

1213
00:56:58,239 --> 00:57:01,759
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, big do a big old blueber. You know.

1214
00:57:01,880 --> 00:57:04,359
Speaker 2: Our kids can't drink soda. They turn into big old

1215
00:57:04,400 --> 00:57:08,440
Speaker 2: blueberry people. Yeah, come on, we gotta roll them out

1216
00:57:08,480 --> 00:57:09,560
Speaker 2: and they get all flat.

1217
00:57:09,760 --> 00:57:13,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, or like the drink that Charlie drink where he

1218
00:57:13,160 --> 00:57:15,360
Speaker 3: starts floating with all the carbonation and he has to

1219
00:57:15,400 --> 00:57:16,800
Speaker 3: burb to get himself down.

1220
00:57:16,680 --> 00:57:20,080
Speaker 1: And make our kids sick with floating disease.

1221
00:57:20,720 --> 00:57:22,720
Speaker 3: When they're out in the middle of the street, I

1222
00:57:22,760 --> 00:57:24,960
Speaker 3: can't catch them. There's no ceiling out there.

1223
00:57:25,480 --> 00:57:28,560
Speaker 1: To just go up and up. It's really hard. It's

1224
00:57:28,600 --> 00:57:31,240
Speaker 1: hard to be a parent this day and age.

1225
00:57:32,360 --> 00:57:35,360
Speaker 3: My mom has given him rights, paid for his hotel,

1226
00:57:35,480 --> 00:57:38,720
Speaker 3: et cetera. Before I do all the party planning, buy

1227
00:57:38,760 --> 00:57:41,880
Speaker 3: all the food, make the cake, and frosting myself. I

1228
00:57:41,960 --> 00:57:44,400
Speaker 3: buy extra gifts every year just in case he ends

1229
00:57:44,480 --> 00:57:47,120
Speaker 3: up with a small check and he can claim that

1230
00:57:47,120 --> 00:57:49,320
Speaker 3: they're from him. I'm happy to do this so our

1231
00:57:49,400 --> 00:57:52,600
Speaker 3: kids just see happy parents and a happy child. That's

1232
00:57:52,760 --> 00:57:55,400
Speaker 3: all I really want. There is a little bit more

1233
00:57:55,440 --> 00:57:57,800
Speaker 3: to the story, but yeah, you're doing a lot for

1234
00:57:57,920 --> 00:57:58,520
Speaker 3: your child.

1235
00:57:59,080 --> 00:58:00,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think.

1236
00:58:00,400 --> 00:58:03,000
Speaker 2: I mean you literally offered the proposal of like, okay,

1237
00:58:03,040 --> 00:58:05,280
Speaker 2: well you can have a party there too, and he's like,

1238
00:58:05,800 --> 00:58:10,040
Speaker 2: oh God, was that also your fiance's idea. It's like, no,

1239
00:58:10,160 --> 00:58:12,960
Speaker 2: you're just you've you've got problems and I'm come trying

1240
00:58:13,000 --> 00:58:14,320
Speaker 2: to give you a solution.

1241
00:58:14,520 --> 00:58:16,439
Speaker 3: Right, because he probably doesn't want to do that because

1242
00:58:16,480 --> 00:58:19,080
Speaker 3: he doesn't want to plan a party too. So he's

1243
00:58:19,200 --> 00:58:22,320
Speaker 3: just like too lazy to plan a party, too lazy

1244
00:58:22,360 --> 00:58:23,080
Speaker 3: to drive to.

1245
00:58:23,040 --> 00:58:25,040
Speaker 2: A party, too lazy to drive out of the middle

1246
00:58:25,080 --> 00:58:27,200
Speaker 2: of nowhere, too lazy to plan a party in the.

1247
00:58:27,120 --> 00:58:27,880
Speaker 1: Middle of nowhere.

1248
00:58:28,080 --> 00:58:31,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, probably because it would require driving out of the

1249
00:58:31,080 --> 00:58:32,920
Speaker 2: middle of nowhere to get the things you need for

1250
00:58:32,960 --> 00:58:34,160
Speaker 2: the party in the first place.

1251
00:58:34,200 --> 00:58:36,560
Speaker 3: Which is crazy too, because if you're if you live

1252
00:58:36,600 --> 00:58:38,520
Speaker 3: in the middle of nowhere and you're used to driving

1253
00:58:38,520 --> 00:58:42,160
Speaker 3: so far for like everything. Then why is this a

1254
00:58:42,200 --> 00:58:45,040
Speaker 3: problem now all of a sudden for your son's sixth birthday?

1255
00:58:45,280 --> 00:58:49,000
Speaker 1: I think it's because they just got beef with fiance.

1256
00:58:49,720 --> 00:58:53,000
Speaker 2: Probably you let your fiance think for you. Why you

1257
00:58:53,000 --> 00:58:55,160
Speaker 2: even have a birthday for the kids? You're too young

1258
00:58:55,240 --> 00:58:56,800
Speaker 2: and stupid to remember them.

1259
00:58:57,080 --> 00:59:02,040
Speaker 3: You found a guy that like treats you right Bosting

1260
00:59:02,760 --> 00:59:06,280
Speaker 3: falling There is a little bit more of a story, though,

1261
00:59:06,360 --> 00:59:09,280
Speaker 3: op continues on the list of things she does. I

1262
00:59:09,360 --> 00:59:13,600
Speaker 3: stuff party favor bags, and buy and stuff a giant pinada.

1263
00:59:13,640 --> 00:59:16,080
Speaker 3: These kids will have fun at anything that I put

1264
00:59:16,120 --> 00:59:16,760
Speaker 3: together for them.

1265
00:59:17,000 --> 00:59:19,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, I will say pinata is top tier fun for

1266
00:59:20,080 --> 00:59:20,640
Speaker 2: the children.

1267
00:59:20,760 --> 00:59:21,760
Speaker 3: Gotta have a pinata?

1268
00:59:22,520 --> 00:59:26,720
Speaker 2: Remember Pinata was always like it's go time, It's go time.

1269
00:59:26,800 --> 00:59:29,880
Speaker 3: There's always that a plan like, Oh, We're gonna go

1270
00:59:29,960 --> 00:59:33,960
Speaker 3: to this party this year. I'm gonna get this pinata.

1271
00:59:35,280 --> 00:59:36,120
Speaker 1: Out party.

1272
00:59:36,760 --> 00:59:40,040
Speaker 3: Yeah there you go? So really, am I the a

1273
00:59:40,160 --> 00:59:42,560
Speaker 3: holefer saying that they can just pay for it and

1274
00:59:42,680 --> 00:59:45,520
Speaker 3: do all the work themselves instead of worrying about what

1275
00:59:45,560 --> 00:59:48,400
Speaker 3: they want to do, because it's either get on the

1276
00:59:48,400 --> 00:59:51,240
Speaker 3: boat or swim for me. At this point, I also

1277
00:59:51,440 --> 00:59:54,360
Speaker 3: acknowledge that I'm a giant pushover and do way too

1278
00:59:54,440 --> 00:59:56,880
Speaker 3: much for others. I'm working on this, hence the reason

1279
00:59:56,920 --> 00:59:58,680
Speaker 3: for this post and the reason that there is so

1280
00:59:58,760 --> 01:00:01,120
Speaker 3: much here. Sorry if it doesn't all makes sense. I'm

1281
01:00:01,120 --> 01:00:03,560
Speaker 3: just so flustered right now and don't understand why they

1282
01:00:03,600 --> 01:00:06,360
Speaker 3: think they should get to control my son's birthday when

1283
01:00:06,400 --> 01:00:09,680
Speaker 3: they aren't his parents but are simply manipulating his father

1284
01:00:09,760 --> 01:00:13,480
Speaker 3: into what they want. And that's the end of that story. Yeah, yeah,

1285
01:00:13,520 --> 01:00:15,720
Speaker 3: I guess so. I was really thinking that the father

1286
01:00:16,080 --> 01:00:19,479
Speaker 3: was carrying these opinions too, But I guess that makes

1287
01:00:19,480 --> 01:00:22,600
Speaker 3: sense if like the aunts and uncles are also like,

1288
01:00:23,080 --> 01:00:23,600
Speaker 3: we don't.

1289
01:00:23,400 --> 01:00:26,320
Speaker 1: Want to drive, Oh god, we go, we have to drive.

1290
01:00:26,400 --> 01:00:29,320
Speaker 2: Why don't they have to drive? That's so unfair. Let

1291
01:00:29,320 --> 01:00:32,320
Speaker 2: the baby drive. They had a whole movie about that.

1292
01:00:32,360 --> 01:00:35,440
Speaker 2: It's called Baby Driving Loo and Lo.

1293
01:00:35,760 --> 01:00:37,840
Speaker 3: I didn't see it, but not see.

1294
01:00:39,520 --> 01:00:40,560
Speaker 1: I know what it's about.

1295
01:00:41,920 --> 01:00:45,800
Speaker 3: Torria Bumgunner said something about uh oh heg no, she's

1296
01:00:45,920 --> 01:00:47,920
Speaker 3: enabling him. I think it was up a little bit,

1297
01:00:48,320 --> 01:00:51,120
Speaker 3: but I mean, honestly, it is nice that she's admitting

1298
01:00:51,160 --> 01:00:53,640
Speaker 3: that she is like a people pleaser, because yeah, does

1299
01:00:53,680 --> 01:00:56,439
Speaker 3: definitely seem like she's doing a lot of unnecessary things.

1300
01:00:56,520 --> 01:00:57,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's good.

1301
01:00:57,400 --> 01:01:01,880
Speaker 2: Oh, PE's got the awareness of the chronic people pleasing

1302
01:01:01,960 --> 01:01:03,440
Speaker 2: the CPP.

1303
01:01:03,280 --> 01:01:05,640
Speaker 3: The CPP. She's finally seeing the PP.

1304
01:01:06,760 --> 01:01:08,000
Speaker 1: She sees the CPP.

1305
01:01:08,520 --> 01:01:11,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, first up is awareness. But that's the end of

1306
01:01:11,440 --> 01:01:14,600
Speaker 3: that story. We've got some comments here, Yes, we.

1307
01:01:14,480 --> 01:01:18,760
Speaker 1: Do comments from the video. My wife is getting too

1308
01:01:18,960 --> 01:01:21,440
Speaker 1: close to her male friend.

1309
01:01:22,200 --> 01:01:23,880
Speaker 3: Uh oh And this was posted.

1310
01:01:23,640 --> 01:01:27,040
Speaker 2: On July twenty third, twenty twenty five TLDR. For the

1311
01:01:27,080 --> 01:01:31,360
Speaker 2: first story, OP notices another man in their pickleball group

1312
01:01:31,440 --> 01:01:35,400
Speaker 2: getting way too comfortable with his wife, especially when OP

1313
01:01:35,640 --> 01:01:38,920
Speaker 2: isn't around. Over time, the guy flirts and touches her

1314
01:01:38,960 --> 01:01:43,040
Speaker 2: clothes and compliments her looks and openly admits his attraction,

1315
01:01:43,440 --> 01:01:47,160
Speaker 2: while others in the group notice it too. OP trusts

1316
01:01:47,200 --> 01:01:50,320
Speaker 2: his wife but feels the behavior is crossing lines, but

1317
01:01:50,400 --> 01:01:53,000
Speaker 2: she brushes it off as harmless and says if the

1318
01:01:53,000 --> 01:01:56,640
Speaker 2: guy wanted something, he would have tried already. Now Op

1319
01:01:56,880 --> 01:01:59,919
Speaker 2: is worried this slow burn is becoming something more, even

1320
01:02:00,160 --> 01:02:03,000
Speaker 2: if his wife doesn't want to see it. And if

1321
01:02:03,040 --> 01:02:05,400
Speaker 2: you're curious to know the full story, you can go

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Speaker 2: watch the full video.

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Speaker 4: Yes, it seems to me, I remember that story.

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Speaker 3: That he has tried it already, yeah, saying I'm attracted

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Speaker 3: to you.

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Speaker 1: That's the whole thing is. It's like, yeah, he's been trying.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, And Failey, you really hope that this wife isn't

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Speaker 3: thinking Well, if he really wanted me, then he would

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Speaker 3: do something. Without my concentify.

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Speaker 2: He wanted me, he would abduct me. He would if

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Speaker 2: he would, Yeah, if he wanted to, he would.

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Speaker 5: And we do have some comments from that video, starting

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Speaker 5: off with Abigail able guy Abigail Oberhauser fourteen twenty, Sorry

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Speaker 5: about that, Abigail.

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Speaker 1: Dude, that's a nice name. Overouser.

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Speaker 5: Abigail says, I feel like with the first story, she

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Speaker 5: just wanted her husband to defend her and tell the

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Speaker 5: guy off.

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Speaker 4: At first. I don't remember that much, but.

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Speaker 3: Well that sounds it sure does.

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Speaker 2: That's like the same energy as like the girlfriend who

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Speaker 2: just like goes and starts fights when you go out

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Speaker 2: right for you to win. Yeah, and it's like, oh,

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Speaker 2: I just you know, I just figured you'd want to

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Speaker 2: defend my honor.

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Speaker 1: It's like, stop making your honor fight people.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, stop it. I don't want to get into these fights,

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Speaker 3: all right, no, no more?

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Speaker 5: And another comment here by lex for fifty four. The

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Speaker 5: group putting pressure on the weird guy to stop flirting

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Speaker 5: with the married women is a good idea. Some men

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Speaker 5: are misogynist, and we'll listen when a woman alone ask

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Speaker 5: them to leave them alone. So yeah, I mean I

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Speaker 5: think it was a group thing. I do remember the

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Speaker 5: group was like, dude, this is all really weird.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it'd probably be good to like make sure she's

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Speaker 3: safe first.

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Speaker 1: What a creepy guy.

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Speaker 4: And then she played it off like nah, guys, it's cool,

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Speaker 4: he's fine.

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Speaker 1: You just got to show up.

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Speaker 2: And destroy him at pick a ball, make him lose

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Speaker 2: his will to play?

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Speaker 4: What's that one movie?

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Speaker 3: Challengers?

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Speaker 1: Thank you, but this one's Picklers?

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Speaker 5: And another comment here by mis seventy seven saying I'm

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Speaker 5: curious if the wife in the pickleball story actually feels

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Speaker 5: safe with the guy from the team who keeps flirting.

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Speaker 5: There's a big difference between telling someone off if there

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Speaker 5: is any concern for safety versus if there isn't. For women,

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Speaker 5: it can be a lose lose situation. We're trying to

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Speaker 5: be polite and gentle about things, doesn't get the point

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Speaker 5: across or encourages the guy to keep trying but being

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Speaker 5: assertive slash aggressive in rejecting a man can get a

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Speaker 5: woman physically hurt. I definitely don't think we have enough

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Speaker 5: information from the story to tell, but I do think

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Speaker 5: it is fair to keep in mind that in our society,

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Speaker 5: it's no secret that many women have gotten hurt for

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Speaker 5: rejecting men.

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Speaker 1: Certainly no secret.

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Speaker 6: That's why we should all have self defense objects, whether

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Speaker 6: they're these or something something else. Can of spicy juice,

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Speaker 6: can of spicy juice to empty into someone's eye sockets.

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Speaker 3: You just give them soda and they're like, ah, like

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Speaker 3: those kids in the last.

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Speaker 2: Year, with them of soda and make them float away

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Speaker 2: the stratosphere.

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Speaker 1: You are the jet streams problem.

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Speaker 4: Now, yep, Well that is the end of those comments,

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Speaker 4: all right, Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, make sure she's say first, I think that's a

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Speaker 3: big issue. But you could always have in the back

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Speaker 3: of your mind like, is this is she being for

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Speaker 3: real skies? Maybe she is safe and just lying to

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Speaker 3: me right now, but.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, maybe she Maybe maybe she's just incredibly naive.

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Speaker 7: Maybe maybe maybe the guy's just really good at pickleball

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Speaker 7: and she doesn't want to have to find a new

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Speaker 7: partner who who dominates on the pickleball.

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Speaker 3: Maybe she just doesn't want to mess with it.

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Speaker 1: Maybe that guy's pickleballing out every day.

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Speaker 3: Sounds like it. But that's the end of that story

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Speaker 3: and the end of the episode. So if you love us,

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