WEBVTT - Ep. 440: Grits & Legs (ft. Deante Kyle) 0:00:00.280 --> 0:00:02.760 Welcome to Decisions Decisions. I don't think you should say 0:00:02.800 --> 0:00:06.040 decision decisions. It sounded like you was talking to Kirsten. 0:00:06.440 --> 0:00:09.400 You definitely say to welcome, welcome to the new podcast. 0:00:10.720 --> 0:00:13.560 You want to say together Decisions Decisions. 0:00:14.040 --> 0:00:20.920 Hey guys, welcome to another episode of Decisions Decisions. Now, y'all, 0:00:21.120 --> 0:00:23.239 if you are in the South, this is gonna be 0:00:23.239 --> 0:00:25.760 a litle Southern episode. But just so you know, let 0:00:25.760 --> 0:00:27.520 me go ahead and get it started because I have 0:00:27.640 --> 0:00:35.480 been missed. What's it called geographicize? Okay, giographicize? Okay, it's 0:00:35.520 --> 0:00:38.319 your girl man d v A ka dat bitch from 0:00:38.320 --> 0:00:40.520 the Fall seven Chappa City Block. 0:00:40.680 --> 0:00:41.480 I don't get a book. 0:00:41.520 --> 0:00:48.600 This is normal intros, really embarrassing, gyuess it is. 0:00:49.360 --> 0:00:55.720 Anybody's only going one way. 0:00:56.560 --> 0:00:58.640 Okay, by the way, let me tell you actually I 0:00:58.680 --> 0:01:00.440 brought up where I was from, but my my real 0:01:00.520 --> 0:01:03.360 introduction is that it's your girl Mandy b a k 0:01:03.520 --> 0:01:06.959 A Peg the Stallion aka Pagan Marcle aka Peggy Bundy. 0:01:07.120 --> 0:01:08.160 Okay that. 0:01:11.880 --> 0:01:14.479 You hear another voice today. It's gonna be loud, it's 0:01:14.480 --> 0:01:16.840 gonna be disruptive. Just remember when you're in the comments 0:01:16.840 --> 0:01:18.840 saying where are supposed to it from him. We have 0:01:18.920 --> 0:01:22.679 conversational pots. Okay, my name is Weezy, your background decision decisions. 0:01:22.720 --> 0:01:26.560 And since we do bios, now, holy. 0:01:26.360 --> 0:01:27.240 Weezy does that bile. 0:01:27.319 --> 0:01:29.399 So I'm gonna let the way I do a ka's 0:01:29.400 --> 0:01:31.600 Wheezy gives like these thoughtful bios. 0:01:32.000 --> 0:01:33.959 So you don't have a thoughtful bio's real quick. 0:01:34.720 --> 0:01:38.440 So we have Dehontae Kyle, host creator of the Grits 0:01:38.440 --> 0:01:41.800 and Eggs podcast Not the Restaurant, a platform committed to 0:01:41.840 --> 0:01:44.720 addressing the mess we like to sweep under the rug 0:01:44.760 --> 0:01:48.720 in the black community and providing raw without a condom 0:01:49.040 --> 0:01:52.400 and nuance to our plight and experiences in the country, 0:01:52.480 --> 0:01:54.160 both socially and politically. 0:01:55.320 --> 0:01:57.360 AKA Pagan Marc Nigga. 0:01:57.960 --> 0:02:01.120 Time ship is crazy? Are you a no? 0:02:01.440 --> 0:02:02.360 Stop using that? 0:02:03.320 --> 0:02:04.520 Are you a y am? 0:02:04.720 --> 0:02:05.600 Can you say nigga? 0:02:05.960 --> 0:02:06.160 Yeah? 0:02:07.600 --> 0:02:13.920 But young niggas wyan Yeah absolutely because because because the 0:02:14.000 --> 0:02:16.800 ten years, if we just abbreviated, then niggas that can't 0:02:16.800 --> 0:02:19.560 say nigga will say why that's like you call me 0:02:19.560 --> 0:02:21.440 a nigga without calling this was like. 0:02:21.480 --> 0:02:23.359 Don't diminish I'm not gonna lie it. 0:02:23.280 --> 0:02:26.840 Is it's still don't diminish them because you know, use 0:02:26.880 --> 0:02:29.800 the y ship like a super PREDI right now. 0:02:30.600 --> 0:02:34.079 People, I don't like That's why I didn't know that, 0:02:34.320 --> 0:02:36.760 But I don't know why people like I didn't know why. 0:02:36.680 --> 0:02:37.480 People like that neither. 0:02:37.520 --> 0:02:40.200 But I'm telling you on TikTok and like Instagram and 0:02:40.240 --> 0:02:41.720 like social media, how. 0:02:41.639 --> 0:02:42.320 They got down. 0:02:42.600 --> 0:02:45.959 I don't like that in some of the titles of 0:02:46.040 --> 0:02:48.440 the rappers names no no, like. 0:02:49.919 --> 0:02:52.040 Yeah, that's that's. 0:02:51.320 --> 0:02:53.480 Something that's like gangs ship. 0:02:53.960 --> 0:02:56.280 The whole ship comes from. Like you know, they will 0:02:56.320 --> 0:02:59.400 take anything down. So like when you we used to 0:02:59.480 --> 0:03:03.079 use the nin and now when you use that take 0:03:03.240 --> 0:03:06.560 comment down to start saying no, I. 0:03:06.480 --> 0:03:08.760 Can't be corrected sammarized in the chat. 0:03:09.240 --> 0:03:12.160 So like now if some went to start saying why 0:03:12.240 --> 0:03:14.880 instead of saying young nigga, and then you know, white 0:03:14.880 --> 0:03:16.359 folk just takes it around. 0:03:16.040 --> 0:03:20.440 With yes the same way we gotta say great now 0:03:20.720 --> 0:03:23.960 all from TikTok. 0:03:24.080 --> 0:03:30.079 You know what I can't say un all that it's 0:03:30.160 --> 0:03:32.000 not fun. You know what I'm like, I'm gonna kill myself. 0:03:32.000 --> 0:03:34.000 I'm gonnay alive. I want to have the drum. 0:03:34.760 --> 0:03:36.280 Ye, the drama got a state. 0:03:36.080 --> 0:03:38.520 Of well, I ain't gonna hold you. I wish TikTok 0:03:38.720 --> 0:03:40.160 would stop allowing people. 0:03:40.200 --> 0:03:43.240 I know that like the resists, the women like get 0:03:43.280 --> 0:03:45.880 their ship off. They be embarrassing themselves so much like 0:03:45.960 --> 0:03:48.000 I don't found myself down the rabbit hole of like. 0:03:48.200 --> 0:03:52.240 Women admitting to the bullshit men that they like along time. 0:03:55.200 --> 0:03:59.360 It makes the hot girls go down one thousand points. 0:04:00.080 --> 0:04:03.720 To understand too, like we need people to it's those 0:04:03.800 --> 0:04:05.760 stupidity so we know what not to do. 0:04:06.000 --> 0:04:09.680 Okay, So then you're all you're all down for the tapp. 0:04:09.400 --> 0:04:11.600 Yeah, hell you're no. I don't know nothing about it. 0:04:12.080 --> 0:04:12.960 I'll be hearing about it. 0:04:13.000 --> 0:04:14.120 But see what it looks like. 0:04:14.160 --> 0:04:16.160 Listen, Yeah, wait, can. 0:04:16.000 --> 0:04:16.840 We see if he's on there? 0:04:16.960 --> 0:04:19.800 Okay, you don't know that clean? 0:04:20.800 --> 0:04:24.120 Hold no, look him up. I we we got we 0:04:24.200 --> 0:04:25.560 got your government name too. 0:04:27.920 --> 0:04:32.160 You say what I'm we have your name? 0:04:32.760 --> 0:04:33.760 Wait, we got to start doing this. 0:04:33.880 --> 0:04:36.280 All the men that come on the pot, we gotta 0:04:36.279 --> 0:04:40.160 see if they get Oh he fine, bitch, I would 0:04:40.200 --> 0:04:40.880 want to talk to him. 0:04:41.080 --> 0:04:45.440 Hold on, wait skip see that? How how women you got? You? 0:04:46.000 --> 0:04:48.200 Wait? Type his last name? You got his full name? 0:04:48.320 --> 0:04:50.080 No bit, because the niggas didn't putting the last name. 0:04:50.320 --> 0:04:53.080 Hold on, but see this is a young girl's game. 0:04:53.160 --> 0:04:54.920 How old are you? 0:04:54.920 --> 0:04:57.640 No, you would be on here sixty nine red flags 0:04:57.640 --> 0:05:01.000 for another deonta lord. I say, as a red flag name, 0:05:01.160 --> 0:05:05.839 I ain't gonna hold you it is you got the. 0:05:07.680 --> 0:05:07.880 Shot. 0:05:07.960 --> 0:05:10.800 It is by me. Man. I'm very honest, so I 0:05:10.880 --> 0:05:12.279 won't get caught up and ship like that. 0:05:12.360 --> 0:05:13.479 But you being honest. 0:05:13.800 --> 0:05:15.280 And I say that all the time, like people have 0:05:15.320 --> 0:05:18.279 been trying to correct me, like I actually now. I 0:05:18.320 --> 0:05:20.160 went out with my my good friend the other night 0:05:20.600 --> 0:05:23.680 and I let him know, like I'm just gonna let 0:05:23.920 --> 0:05:26.599 niggas know when everyone's in the room, like whether I 0:05:26.640 --> 0:05:28.960 talk to them or not, and he actually let me know. 0:05:29.000 --> 0:05:31.159 He was like, oh no, you gotta stop doing that. 0:05:31.240 --> 0:05:32.760 And I was like, well, why I'm being honest with 0:05:32.800 --> 0:05:34.000 everyone and he was like. 0:05:33.880 --> 0:05:35.440 Well, they's timing a place for that ship. 0:05:35.560 --> 0:05:40.200 So so that's what you got ship. No, No, no, no, wait, wait, 0:05:40.320 --> 0:05:40.720 let me finish. 0:05:40.800 --> 0:05:44.240 Let me so I invite them like like when I 0:05:44.279 --> 0:05:45.960 was in l A, I booked. 0:05:45.720 --> 0:05:49.919 A combatting man. Niggas you done in the same spot. 0:05:49.800 --> 0:05:51.400 Because I'm a bottle. 0:05:51.480 --> 0:05:53.720 If a bottle nigga, y'all want a bottle, y'all want 0:05:53.720 --> 0:06:03.560 to eat, It's all meant no because all my friends 0:06:03.560 --> 0:06:05.600 are there, so it's just like to me though, I 0:06:05.720 --> 0:06:07.919 like hanging out also with my niggas, but my friends 0:06:07.920 --> 0:06:09.720 are all there, so you're meeting my friends. That's why 0:06:09.720 --> 0:06:12.039 I don't think meeting friends means anything. So anyways, I 0:06:12.040 --> 0:06:14.000 had a cabana. Whenever I go to l A, I 0:06:14.040 --> 0:06:16.920 have to do breakfast, lunch, dinner in between recordings with people. 0:06:17.200 --> 0:06:19.719 It's too much. So last time I was there, I 0:06:19.720 --> 0:06:22.880 booked a cabana at Bob. I told everyone, show up, 0:06:22.920 --> 0:06:26.800 it's on me, food, drinks, whatever, and I ended up 0:06:26.880 --> 0:06:28.200 inviting three of the niggas. 0:06:28.279 --> 0:06:29.280 Two of them showed up. 0:06:29.400 --> 0:06:31.760 Didn't expect I thought only one of the three cause 0:06:31.800 --> 0:06:33.120 nigga thought really be showing up. 0:06:34.240 --> 0:06:36.279 Two or the three showed up and then they just 0:06:36.320 --> 0:06:37.120 played it out. 0:06:37.480 --> 0:06:38.040 Play it, you know. 0:06:40.960 --> 0:06:41.080 No. 0:06:41.560 --> 0:06:43.560 I told my friend that I did this and he 0:06:43.760 --> 0:06:47.279 actually was like not so what men don't do is 0:06:47.320 --> 0:06:49.760 express their ego. And he said, if you invite a 0:06:49.839 --> 0:06:53.080 nigga that really likes you, And this is where I was. 0:06:53.040 --> 0:06:56.800 Like, maybe I do it real lame niggas because he said, nah, 0:06:56.960 --> 0:07:00.000 now niggas catch the face and might go pop up 0:07:00.279 --> 0:07:06.280 like he was making it seem like ship ghetto. 0:07:04.600 --> 0:07:04.839 It was. 0:07:07.200 --> 0:07:10.720 Like, I'm not doing that. It's like, but let's have the. 0:07:10.720 --> 0:07:11.560 Girl up a lifetime. 0:07:11.680 --> 0:07:13.400 What you were just saying though when she said the 0:07:13.440 --> 0:07:16.000 first comment about you, were like, don't tell me. Now, 0:07:16.080 --> 0:07:19.840 let's just say we dated, not like maybe we're not 0:07:19.920 --> 0:07:22.280 boyfriend girlfriend yet, but we fucking now we. 0:07:22.320 --> 0:07:25.000 Had the rock point, right, so now we at the 0:07:25.040 --> 0:07:29.440 wrong point. You get buried. Don't have it roten. 0:07:29.480 --> 0:07:33.440 I'm just fucking well, you get to a point, not. 0:07:34.400 --> 0:07:40.520 A god, you're going real. You gotta did you just 0:07:40.560 --> 0:07:41.640 say condom stop? 0:07:41.840 --> 0:07:43.000 Yeah? Like ship. 0:07:45.080 --> 0:07:47.680 You y'all don't think it's fucking for real with a condom. 0:07:48.120 --> 0:07:50.280 It is fucking I'm talking about fucking with someone like 0:07:50.440 --> 0:07:51.040 y'all vacation. 0:07:52.560 --> 0:07:54.760 Okay, So like just some little quick like hitt and 0:07:54.880 --> 0:07:57.320 quit or like our first links and ship like that. 0:07:57.320 --> 0:07:59.160 I understand when do you take the condom off when 0:07:59.160 --> 0:08:01.600 you fucking somebody? 0:08:01.680 --> 0:08:05.120 When I started considering cutting other holes, that's. 0:08:04.920 --> 0:08:06.400 A good rule. I'm not mad at that. 0:08:06.560 --> 0:08:10.280 Yeah, okay, considering like, okay, we're locked in tight ship. 0:08:10.240 --> 0:08:12.720 So we're at that point the cons off sixty days 0:08:12.720 --> 0:08:14.360 then maybe I met your mam, maybe you been mind 0:08:14.520 --> 0:08:15.920 going to face sixty. 0:08:15.720 --> 0:08:19.720 Me, My mama is crazy. That's crazy. 0:08:19.960 --> 0:08:21.720 The process you might mean. 0:08:23.440 --> 0:08:23.800 Changes. 0:08:23.920 --> 0:08:25.080 Okay, so we get to. 0:08:25.040 --> 0:08:26.680 A spot I sucked the nigga there. 0:08:27.400 --> 0:08:30.680 You don't want to know, not, Okay, I'm gonna I'm 0:08:30.680 --> 0:08:32.240 gonna tell you. I'm gonna tell you how these gotta go. 0:08:33.360 --> 0:08:35.720 Is you gonna be acting weird while the nigga. 0:08:35.400 --> 0:08:37.160 In the spot, I'm not talking about acting weird? 0:08:37.240 --> 0:08:38.600 No, no, no, answer that question. 0:08:38.800 --> 0:08:41.240 He asking a question if if you're gonna act weird 0:08:41.240 --> 0:08:44.360 when you're gonna keep it playing, you tell me after, 0:08:44.840 --> 0:08:47.559 because if you tell me while I'm in there, I'm 0:08:47.559 --> 0:08:49.800 gonna be I'm gonna be too hyper focused on that. 0:08:49.880 --> 0:08:51.679 But what if we're cause I'm ana tend that nigga 0:08:51.720 --> 0:09:02.440 like you might change spik the nigga drink. No, But 0:09:02.480 --> 0:09:05.160 I'm just saying like, because because you're putting my fuckus 0:09:05.160 --> 0:09:07.000 on some ship, were supposed to be hanging out having 0:09:07.000 --> 0:09:09.040 a good night. Even if you interact with the nigga 0:09:09.040 --> 0:09:12.160 on some wood wood wool, as long as the nigga 0:09:12.160 --> 0:09:14.000 player and he don't do the most, like try to 0:09:14.040 --> 0:09:15.680 do the most, cause niggas will try to do the most. 0:09:15.679 --> 0:09:17.760 When they see you out with another nigga, he'll try 0:09:17.760 --> 0:09:19.000 to make it like now. 0:09:18.920 --> 0:09:22.240 What's he at a networking event with the podcast networking event? 0:09:22.720 --> 0:09:25.320 Boom? I fuck this nigga? You like, hey, you know, 0:09:25.400 --> 0:09:26.200 oh yeah, I know you brother. 0:09:26.320 --> 0:09:27.360 I don't care nothing about that. 0:09:27.480 --> 0:09:29.360 You won't take my body on the show. 0:09:30.040 --> 0:09:33.280 What like you, I'm saying the nigga head y'all just 0:09:33.280 --> 0:09:35.600 about to network Like you don't want me to tell you. 0:09:35.960 --> 0:09:40.320 I don't give a fuck anything like, but follow me 0:09:40.400 --> 0:09:42.640 really don't fuck it matter. My thing is is if 0:09:42.640 --> 0:09:44.440 you put it to my attention, that's where my attention 0:09:44.559 --> 0:09:46.520 gonna be at you feel me, so like, don't fuck 0:09:46.600 --> 0:09:47.240 up the vibe. 0:09:47.480 --> 0:09:49.319 Let me know, like, y'all, I fuck that nigga like. 0:09:50.640 --> 0:09:54.640 Really crazy life just got just know afterwards, so like 0:09:54.720 --> 0:09:56.520 my attention stay focused on why we there? 0:09:56.640 --> 0:09:59.400 You did all right? Because then cause because not because 0:09:59.440 --> 0:09:59.720 like this. 0:09:59.800 --> 0:10:01.800 Is I ain't too When you make somebody all wear 0:10:01.800 --> 0:10:03.960 a ship like that, they might over read into ship. 0:10:04.360 --> 0:10:06.120 So like let me like, let's say we're going to 0:10:06.160 --> 0:10:08.480 a spot whatever and I tell you like, oh yeah, 0:10:08.480 --> 0:10:10.600 I hit shot it right. Oh We're like I'm just 0:10:10.679 --> 0:10:12.520 letting you know because we are here together, and then 0:10:12.559 --> 0:10:14.320 you see us like interact with each other. You can 0:10:14.520 --> 0:10:15.360 damn what you gonna take. 0:10:16.000 --> 0:10:18.520 You're gonna take it more than what I ain't gonna read. 0:10:19.520 --> 0:10:22.480 Only because I'm gonna talk to everybody, and I might 0:10:22.480 --> 0:10:27.760 get a little too close talking about saying though what 0:10:27.800 --> 0:10:30.320 I'm saying is I may take it too far to 0:10:30.320 --> 0:10:32.240 now the bitch think I'm being funny. I've been in 0:10:32.280 --> 0:10:34.120 a lot of predicaments where niggas that are fuck the 0:10:34.120 --> 0:10:35.400 bitch and I ain't know you. 0:10:35.400 --> 0:10:36.080 Another bad bach. 0:10:36.120 --> 0:10:38.600 Oh my god, ship come through my gym, come to here, 0:10:38.679 --> 0:10:40.960 and I have no idea. I do need to know 0:10:41.160 --> 0:10:43.920 because I'm a motherfucking billboard. I have a book, I 0:10:43.960 --> 0:10:45.880 got a podcast, I got a gym podcast studio. 0:10:45.960 --> 0:10:47.199 I'm gonna tell you everything, bitch. 0:10:47.559 --> 0:10:50.200 If you cute, if you funny, I'm gonna be in it. 0:10:50.240 --> 0:10:52.320 I'm gonna be passing shots. And now they're holding a 0:10:52.320 --> 0:10:54.320 look at me and be like, go get your bitch. 0:10:55.200 --> 0:10:57.679 Hell no, tell me. I don't give a fuck. I 0:10:57.840 --> 0:10:58.079 got that. 0:10:58.200 --> 0:11:00.360 I don't know. See, there may be some it may 0:11:00.400 --> 0:11:01.560 be it's just a difference. 0:11:01.559 --> 0:11:03.120 I mean, it's also very different. 0:11:03.600 --> 0:11:07.199 We are non monogamous people who are fine with cuffing whole. 0:11:06.960 --> 0:11:09.280 Ass niggas that we know our whole ass niggas. 0:11:09.280 --> 0:11:11.400 So I think when we talk about how we would react, 0:11:11.440 --> 0:11:12.440 it's going to be a little different. 0:11:12.520 --> 0:11:14.640 Like that's just what it. 0:11:14.320 --> 0:11:16.400 Face made up here on your feet, that was on 0:11:16.480 --> 0:11:18.800 purpose a studio. 0:11:19.200 --> 0:11:24.280 We were at a studio everything. 0:11:24.360 --> 0:11:27.280 You know, it's crazy. People would pay for that, Yeah, people, 0:11:27.520 --> 0:11:29.600 people pay for that. The dirty feet. 0:11:29.679 --> 0:11:30.840 Niggas just freaked out out here. 0:11:31.200 --> 0:11:36.160 There's a little dirt we're talking about that were This 0:11:36.360 --> 0:11:39.400 was the this was the third look of a shoot 0:11:39.920 --> 0:11:42.520 and literally just the studio weing, we. 0:11:42.440 --> 0:11:43.080 Were in the warehouse. 0:11:43.080 --> 0:11:46.520 It's a nice picture. Though. I've been doing this for. 0:11:46.520 --> 0:11:49.480 A grip right the part, almost a decade, so yeah, 0:11:49.720 --> 0:11:50.400 that's what I'm doing. 0:11:51.320 --> 0:11:54.320 How has that like affected your relationships stuff? 0:11:54.360 --> 0:11:56.880 You know, this is our podcast, not yours. 0:11:57.120 --> 0:11:59.040 If you want to ask those types of questions, niggas, 0:11:59.080 --> 0:12:00.920 we will go on God damn grits and nes. 0:12:01.040 --> 0:12:03.480 Now, we can't just stame information. 0:12:03.320 --> 0:12:05.440 So I would say in the beginning of it, right, 0:12:06.880 --> 0:12:13.600 question the mockster, I never I can't slip back again. 0:12:13.679 --> 0:12:17.439 You come on my show, Okay, okay, I will say 0:12:17.520 --> 0:12:19.800 the only time I took it as a compliment. I 0:12:19.880 --> 0:12:22.040 ended up meeting Doja Cat and when I tell you, 0:12:22.080 --> 0:12:24.199 oh my god, love her dearly, she was like, oh 0:12:24.200 --> 0:12:25.240 my god, I just have to stop you. 0:12:25.280 --> 0:12:27.440 She was like, I love your hair. It's getting Sharon 0:12:27.559 --> 0:12:30.240 Stone and that's a white woman. And I didn't even 0:12:30.320 --> 0:12:35.800 argue her down. I said, it is Jesu like like 0:12:35.840 --> 0:12:36.439 my hair. 0:12:37.520 --> 0:12:40.920 I look good, Just like, yeah, I ain't see you 0:12:41.000 --> 0:12:43.920 going SPA. When we pushed up, I ain't know that 0:12:43.960 --> 0:12:49.319 how you're gonna call. You might go piks, okay, So I. 0:12:49.280 --> 0:12:51.160 Was actually gonna ask you dating questions to so this 0:12:51.200 --> 0:12:53.400 works out all right, So you want to answer the 0:12:53.440 --> 0:12:54.880 question like are we gonna answer a question? 0:12:55.040 --> 0:12:57.160 Frankly, been going on so many podcasts and doing the 0:12:57.200 --> 0:12:59.000 same thing you just did, it's hard for a podcast 0:12:59.080 --> 0:13:01.720 to see, you know, to see Yeah, no, I would 0:13:01.720 --> 0:13:04.000 say in the first five years, it was rough until 0:13:04.000 --> 0:13:06.880 we was making bread for real. And I actually recently 0:13:06.880 --> 0:13:10.079 said a few days ago, I don't think until our 0:13:10.120 --> 0:13:13.120 podcast became a business outside of the podcast, that's when 0:13:13.120 --> 0:13:14.920 I stopped giving a fuck. When I was, you know, 0:13:14.960 --> 0:13:17.000 first six months and you talk about sucking dick and 0:13:17.000 --> 0:13:18.360 they like, but you still got a job. 0:13:18.600 --> 0:13:19.959 They did it, don't really, you. 0:13:19.920 --> 0:13:23.800 Know, it's not this respectable thing. Once you have accolades 0:13:23.880 --> 0:13:25.840 under your shit, then it feels different. And this is 0:13:25.880 --> 0:13:28.920 why they treat certain porn stars our only fans girls different. 0:13:29.240 --> 0:13:31.959 Lend of the Plug, for example, started an empire. Right 0:13:32.280 --> 0:13:34.840 when she's having conversations with certain people, they're talking about 0:13:34.840 --> 0:13:36.679 giving her a ted X, talking shit like that. It's 0:13:36.720 --> 0:13:38.960 because you really have to surpass a certain level of hope. 0:13:39.080 --> 0:13:41.200 They call her daddy bitch. You know what I'm saying, 0:13:41.200 --> 0:13:43.480 This bitch on Vogue talking about blowjobs. 0:13:43.000 --> 0:13:43.480 In four K. 0:13:43.600 --> 0:13:45.400 But that's the same reason Mandy and I can maybe 0:13:45.480 --> 0:13:48.080 not do a daytime news show. So you really have 0:13:48.160 --> 0:13:53.880 to catapult a certain Yeah sounds good, they keep telling us. Now, 0:13:54.720 --> 0:13:57.320 for me, dating is tricky. 0:13:58.040 --> 0:14:00.520 I just got out of a relationship with a guy, 0:14:00.840 --> 0:14:03.640 so I think I realized I want a regular Joe 0:14:03.640 --> 0:14:07.280 Schmo that nobody knows. But that's lit low key because 0:14:07.840 --> 0:14:10.880 my last relationship impacted how I could do content, Like 0:14:11.120 --> 0:14:12.520 a lot of people were trying to figure out who 0:14:12.559 --> 0:14:15.720 he was because he was an actor, and there's no 0:14:15.800 --> 0:14:17.720 way that I would want to share certain things that 0:14:17.720 --> 0:14:21.240 would impact his career or be attached to him. So 0:14:21.400 --> 0:14:24.560 for me, like even like I got another little slot, 0:14:24.560 --> 0:14:26.240 like he's not going nowhere, he's been on the roster 0:14:26.280 --> 0:14:27.160 for like five years. 0:14:27.440 --> 0:14:30.880 He I really don't really talk about him because that 0:14:31.000 --> 0:14:32.120 nigga I ain't fucking up. 0:14:32.280 --> 0:14:35.440 Y'all won't know no details about him nothing, because I'm like, 0:14:35.560 --> 0:14:37.160 holy shit, I don't want anyone. 0:14:36.880 --> 0:14:38.280 To even guess who this nigga was. 0:14:38.440 --> 0:14:40.720 Because early on in the pod, when I dealt with 0:14:40.720 --> 0:14:44.400 certain people, people like literally made it like fucking finding 0:14:44.440 --> 0:14:46.360 Waldo and was like, Okay, we got this clue, this clue, 0:14:46.360 --> 0:14:49.000 this clue, this clue, this is Waldough. And so for 0:14:49.080 --> 0:14:53.440 me now dating is like I ask for permission before 0:14:53.480 --> 0:14:56.240 I share things on the pod, And so it's just 0:14:56.240 --> 0:14:56.600 making me. 0:14:56.600 --> 0:14:58.440 More accountable to actually care about. 0:14:58.280 --> 0:15:00.640 The niggas that I'm talking look out the floor? 0:15:00.680 --> 0:15:02.280 Is it just like you got to be you have 0:15:02.360 --> 0:15:04.680 to know, Like I've had niggas now that like if 0:15:04.680 --> 0:15:06.400 they know me from the pot, I probably won't funk 0:15:06.440 --> 0:15:08.600 with Like I had this rapper that was just like. 0:15:08.680 --> 0:15:10.200 I want to see if you really like what you 0:15:10.200 --> 0:15:11.680 talk about. 0:15:11.720 --> 0:15:13.560 It's not a costco simpler. 0:15:13.840 --> 0:15:19.520 Niggas tripping because like why would you even. 0:15:19.120 --> 0:15:23.880 Doesn't happen to you, like you have you have the 0:15:23.920 --> 0:15:26.440 pie groupy girls yet like you have groupies. 0:15:26.680 --> 0:15:27.760 Yeah that's a real thing. 0:15:28.200 --> 0:15:29.200 How do they approach you? 0:15:29.360 --> 0:15:31.880 Because I've been seeing the girls, especially with the streamers, 0:15:32.120 --> 0:15:33.520 walking right up like I want to. 0:15:33.520 --> 0:15:36.520 Suck your dick, but you get you know what I'm saying. 0:15:36.560 --> 0:15:38.200 But they'd be like, let me take you out, poppy. 0:15:38.720 --> 0:15:40.440 Yeah, I don't even be that, you know what I'm saying. 0:15:40.840 --> 0:15:43.360 You know. So it's been it's been known that like 0:15:43.760 --> 0:15:46.520 I was in a long time relationship before and like 0:15:46.560 --> 0:15:49.520 we just we've been going through a separation over the 0:15:49.640 --> 0:15:51.680 last like year and a half two years. 0:15:51.840 --> 0:15:54.640 Y'all were married. Yeah yeah, okay, so like yeah them 0:15:54.680 --> 0:15:56.160 separations be taking a long time. 0:15:56.280 --> 0:16:00.160 Yeah, it's a separated in good Again, it's a complicated situation. 0:16:00.280 --> 0:16:02.360 But it's also like, you know, i'd be smooth, like 0:16:03.000 --> 0:16:06.440 my right before we kind of went. 0:16:06.360 --> 0:16:09.640 Into the situation where we decided to kind of go 0:16:09.840 --> 0:16:12.640 separate ways was right before I really started taking the 0:16:12.680 --> 0:16:16.280 podcast seriously, Like when we're going through that instead of 0:16:16.320 --> 0:16:18.840 like just sitting in the crib dealing with feelings about 0:16:18.840 --> 0:16:20.520 the shit. I just like, all right, we're finn lock 0:16:20.600 --> 0:16:22.880 in on this beating and shit. So that's when me 0:16:22.920 --> 0:16:26.480 and bro like linked up. So shit through the process 0:16:26.480 --> 0:16:29.040 of me dealing with that, I'm dealing with the podcast too, 0:16:29.040 --> 0:16:30.440 So that really wasn't even about now. 0:16:30.440 --> 0:16:31.960 That would even make it harder for me. 0:16:32.040 --> 0:16:35.040 I feel like to get back together because a lot 0:16:35.080 --> 0:16:37.840 of my friends that became popular over time and were 0:16:37.880 --> 0:16:40.840 already in long term relationships. Your woman kind of doesn't 0:16:40.840 --> 0:16:42.320 know how to deal with it all the time. 0:16:42.440 --> 0:16:45.240 Yeah, now we're walking outside names you feel me so 0:16:45.400 --> 0:16:48.040 like also too, it's like we haven't been you know, 0:16:48.080 --> 0:16:50.080 it's not like a public thing. I don't really like 0:16:50.200 --> 0:16:52.200 putting my business out there like that because people are 0:16:52.200 --> 0:16:52.840 you're not like us. 0:16:52.880 --> 0:16:54.680 Okay, so you're not actively dating. 0:16:55.920 --> 0:16:58.440 I do be dating, but like, man, that shit be 0:16:58.480 --> 0:17:01.120 annoying a little kid like i'd be busy as fun 0:17:01.200 --> 0:17:04.960 and then too, like coming from committed relationship, you know 0:17:05.000 --> 0:17:06.960 what people want out of commitments and ship So like, 0:17:07.040 --> 0:17:08.600 even if I tell them, mother fucking straight up, like, 0:17:08.640 --> 0:17:11.399 this ain't going nowhere, We're gonna have fun, We're gonna vite, 0:17:11.400 --> 0:17:13.479 We're gonna fuck, Like we might go out eat whatever, 0:17:13.920 --> 0:17:16.880 but it ain't never gonna be no exclusive ship. After 0:17:16.920 --> 0:17:19.840 the first few whatever, it's like they be really trying 0:17:19.840 --> 0:17:23.280 to clamp down, like you ain't comedy that. Yeah, it's 0:17:23.320 --> 0:17:24.760 like I'm gonna have to just gone hand and let 0:17:24.800 --> 0:17:27.640 you be. So I'd be like it'd be dating ship, 0:17:27.720 --> 0:17:29.760 but it'd really be like more so, like I'm more 0:17:29.800 --> 0:17:31.920 so focused on this ship, like what going on? 0:17:32.040 --> 0:17:35.040 What is normally the feedback with that? And I asked 0:17:35.040 --> 0:17:36.840 that because I'm in the place where I feel like 0:17:37.359 --> 0:17:40.240 care until they care, and so how do you? But 0:17:41.320 --> 0:17:42.480 you know they will eventually. 0:17:42.640 --> 0:17:44.439 I don't care until they get what they want. Then 0:17:44.440 --> 0:17:46.520 when they get they want, they can ten how. 0:17:46.359 --> 0:17:48.960 Many women get actually handled just fucking and hanging out? 0:17:51.720 --> 0:17:56.040 Nah, not even like three three hundred ten Okay, the. 0:17:56.640 --> 0:17:58.679 Rest of it be like it'd be like, you know, 0:17:58.720 --> 0:18:01.200 it's fine, like I'm focused on ship, I'm doing my thing, 0:18:01.600 --> 0:18:03.280 and then we start cracking. 0:18:02.960 --> 0:18:10.320 And yeah, don't fuck me too good now. 0:18:07.760 --> 0:18:11.000 Hey hey hey, yeah, we start cracking and then like 0:18:11.119 --> 0:18:12.960 the town changed a little bit, and I like, I 0:18:12.960 --> 0:18:14.840 ain't no ego nigga, like, oh I just got the 0:18:14.840 --> 0:18:17.360 type of dick like it ain't that, but it's just like, yeah, the. 0:18:17.280 --> 0:18:19.760 Ship do be a thing like motherfuckers. 0:18:19.800 --> 0:18:22.159 It's not even but it's not even dick, it's even attention. 0:18:22.200 --> 0:18:24.879 That's why the women they conversation. 0:18:25.040 --> 0:18:28.520 I think that one nigga at a time, right, we 0:18:28.640 --> 0:18:30.480 fucked one nigga into wuld jump to the next one. 0:18:30.560 --> 0:18:32.240 Men like a few girls at the time. 0:18:32.520 --> 0:18:35.480 Maybe they have their favorite, but we generally, I would 0:18:35.520 --> 0:18:38.159 say probably seventy percent of my friends, my friends a 0:18:38.160 --> 0:18:40.520 in general then I mean. 0:18:41.040 --> 0:18:44.440 My friend everybody different when it comes to that, Like, yeah, 0:18:44.680 --> 0:18:46.720 just like staying attached to one guy, maybe one guy 0:18:46.760 --> 0:18:47.200 is the one. 0:18:47.040 --> 0:18:49.119 They think a conversation is really what it's gonna take 0:18:49.119 --> 0:18:50.680 it over the top. Like I don't really think it's 0:18:50.680 --> 0:18:52.240 the six. I think the six might be like the 0:18:52.240 --> 0:18:55.640 iceing Kate tight ship. I think a connection for real, 0:18:55.640 --> 0:18:58.000 because like I'm pretty like I don't be judging. I'm 0:18:58.040 --> 0:18:59.960 pretty like I'm grown man, I ain't got time to 0:19:00.160 --> 0:19:03.560 judging nor give him the fuck Like, for real, whatever 0:19:03.560 --> 0:19:05.199 you're gonna did in your path, let's talk about it, 0:19:05.240 --> 0:19:06.880 because I'm gona figure out who the fuck you is 0:19:07.160 --> 0:19:09.000 for I deal with you. And then also two out 0:19:09.000 --> 0:19:10.200 of that line, that shit that's. 0:19:11.320 --> 0:19:13.000 To ask you, have you ever heard a woman? 0:19:13.359 --> 0:19:15.800 Only because I talk about this in the book, there's 0:19:15.840 --> 0:19:17.439 a chapter why Do I Need You to Need Me? 0:19:17.880 --> 0:19:20.679 And I was in a relationship and the person he 0:19:20.760 --> 0:19:23.560 met was completely not the person that I was dealing 0:19:23.560 --> 0:19:26.359 with in therapy. I was dealing with getting over some 0:19:26.440 --> 0:19:28.880 things I did in my twenties. Right, He never met 0:19:28.880 --> 0:19:31.080 that person because he met me when I was twenty 0:19:31.160 --> 0:19:33.359 nine thirty. He never met the twenty four year old, 0:19:33.400 --> 0:19:34.840 the twenty five year old, the twenty six year old 0:19:34.840 --> 0:19:38.080 that was out here, Wilin, And at the very end 0:19:38.080 --> 0:19:40.800 of our relationship, he threw something out to me that 0:19:40.840 --> 0:19:43.080 I had just shared with him. Has there ever been 0:19:43.520 --> 0:19:46.520 a moment where a woman has told you she did 0:19:46.560 --> 0:19:48.920 something in the past. Say she let two niggas fuck. 0:19:49.160 --> 0:19:51.879 Say she did a game bang. Say she sold drugs. 0:19:51.880 --> 0:19:53.280 I don't know. Let me take it away from sex. 0:19:53.520 --> 0:19:56.239 Say she did ten abortions, I don't know. 0:19:56.400 --> 0:19:59.720 Whatever that would make you think secondly about the woman, 0:19:59.760 --> 0:20:01.679 as the ever been anything that a woman has shared 0:20:02.240 --> 0:20:05.080 that has kept you from literally being like, this is 0:20:05.080 --> 0:20:08.200 a woman. I'll probably never look serious because I can't 0:20:08.200 --> 0:20:09.000 get that out of my mind. 0:20:09.720 --> 0:20:12.159 Yeah, it's gonna be I mean, of course, but I 0:20:12.200 --> 0:20:16.240 think also too is just I be I'm real observed 0:20:16.240 --> 0:20:19.399 and i'd be paying attention. Like exploring things sexually, I 0:20:19.400 --> 0:20:20.679 ain't a real big deal to me. 0:20:20.880 --> 0:20:24.720 Okay, game ban is crazy, Like that's crazy. You know 0:20:24.760 --> 0:20:29.600 what I'm saying. It's it's not crazy sexually. It's not 0:20:29.640 --> 0:20:31.040 like taboo. It's just like. 0:20:32.400 --> 0:20:34.680 Three two dates in the room. And now I'm just 0:20:34.680 --> 0:20:36.080 supposed to carry you across the fence. 0:20:37.680 --> 0:20:40.240 You can't be like exploring sexually is crazy now. 0:20:40.280 --> 0:20:44.760 But I'm saying, I'm I'm all and I respect it. 0:20:44.800 --> 0:20:47.840 That's see the nigga for you. 0:20:48.359 --> 0:20:51.119 That's what I mean. But really it's actually being a 0:20:51.119 --> 0:20:51.520 bad day. 0:20:51.560 --> 0:20:54.200 The thing is is like I'm gonna be honest about that, like, hey, 0:20:54.280 --> 0:20:55.240 I'm gonna hold you. 0:20:56.840 --> 0:20:59.760 That just shifty things for me. But I'm a still fun. 0:21:00.160 --> 0:21:01.880 But you want her to be honest. It's crazy because 0:21:01.880 --> 0:21:02.400 you said. 0:21:02.240 --> 0:21:04.680 I'm an honest I need honesty to know what type 0:21:04.680 --> 0:21:05.960 of decision I'm gonna make, just like. 0:21:06.240 --> 0:21:08.440 What she would never do it again. She just did 0:21:08.480 --> 0:21:09.880 it in college one time. 0:21:12.200 --> 0:21:13.200 Can you be honest here? 0:21:13.200 --> 0:21:13.400 Though? 0:21:14.280 --> 0:21:17.240 It's it's a problem. We gotta let niggas have that. 0:21:17.320 --> 0:21:23.080 Yeah, like that you gotta because I'm gonna tell you. 0:21:21.720 --> 0:21:24.880 Thinking as a sexually liberated girl, if you don't, don't 0:21:24.920 --> 0:21:26.000 find so here. 0:21:26.160 --> 0:21:28.480 It's things's your, it's things you like. 0:21:28.920 --> 0:21:31.520 We can let we can let quote unquote niggas have it. 0:21:31.600 --> 0:21:31.879 Sure. 0:21:32.160 --> 0:21:35.159 However, take someone one moment if no one sets across 0:21:35.160 --> 0:21:37.280 from me and it's like, I'm an honest nigga, I'm 0:21:37.280 --> 0:21:41.320 gonna accept, and you want an honest woman to me, 0:21:41.560 --> 0:21:44.280 I'm confused with where if this woman is being honest 0:21:45.040 --> 0:21:47.600 of things that she did before she even met you, 0:21:47.920 --> 0:21:49.800 and now that's being to. 0:21:48.920 --> 0:21:51.000 Get honestly, I ain't going for that. 0:21:54.040 --> 0:21:55.240 Everyone don't be holdenough. 0:21:58.119 --> 0:21:59.160 The thing is like. 0:22:00.280 --> 0:22:03.440 It's a weaponizing It may not be like a judgment 0:22:03.480 --> 0:22:04.840 it's not a judgmental thing. 0:22:04.960 --> 0:22:06.399 It's just like, Okay, I'm gonna tell you what it 0:22:06.440 --> 0:22:09.040 really is. And I'm trying to tell you niggas is 0:22:09.080 --> 0:22:12.040 so physical and it's so visual that like niggas done 0:22:12.040 --> 0:22:14.520 seeing porn where niggas is too tag team and a 0:22:14.560 --> 0:22:16.800 girl and it's like, damn, nigga gonna put that girl 0:22:16.880 --> 0:22:19.480 in that situation like that nigga had my girl and 0:22:19.560 --> 0:22:20.600 her been all. 0:22:20.480 --> 0:22:22.880 Side, and you know what it is for me that 0:22:22.560 --> 0:22:28.200 I experience sugirl. 0:22:28.720 --> 0:22:30.480 I'm trying. We had a lot of times but going, 0:22:30.520 --> 0:22:31.760 but I'm trying to ride this. 0:22:32.119 --> 0:22:35.600 I'm one hundred percent okay with men having a choice 0:22:35.600 --> 0:22:36.359 to not fuck with me. 0:22:36.880 --> 0:22:38.080 I'm thirty four years old. 0:22:38.240 --> 0:22:40.920 I finally in my life mess somebody that really doesn't 0:22:40.960 --> 0:22:42.879 give a fuck about all of these things that I 0:22:42.880 --> 0:22:45.760 could have put in there Right now, five years ago, 0:22:46.080 --> 0:22:48.359 I'm crying in the fucking vedroom, like, oh my. 0:22:48.240 --> 0:22:50.119 God, I should have never told that story, did it? 0:22:50.119 --> 0:22:50.880 What do I give a fuck? 0:22:50.920 --> 0:22:53.160 You gotta be honest though, like the thing is too. 0:22:53.240 --> 0:22:55.399 It's actually better for you if I tell you like 0:22:55.520 --> 0:22:58.000 I'm not going, because you could weed me out too 0:22:58.200 --> 0:23:00.080 and then also to it ain't right a nigga do 0:23:00.280 --> 0:23:01.840 not want to fuck or not want to kick it 0:23:01.840 --> 0:23:02.240 a vite? 0:23:02.320 --> 0:23:06.400 No, I'm waiting a nigga out. You not getting this pussy, 0:23:06.480 --> 0:23:08.080 you know, hanging with me if I'm not. 0:23:09.480 --> 0:23:11.240 You can't assume a nigga not read your books. 0:23:11.560 --> 0:23:13.359 You're not even reading my book. First off, I have 0:23:13.480 --> 0:23:15.600 my podcast. It is what it is. I have the book. 0:23:15.720 --> 0:23:17.240 Here's all my stories right here too. 0:23:17.560 --> 0:23:20.520 And for me, I've been very adamant and like betting 0:23:20.560 --> 0:23:21.240 and kind of talking. 0:23:22.600 --> 0:23:23.960 I mean, it's not even that I have to tell them. 0:23:23.960 --> 0:23:27.800 I literally have to be called horrible decisions any woman. 0:23:27.600 --> 0:23:29.760 That first off, you ain't on a mic, sir, so 0:23:29.840 --> 0:23:31.800 you can't just be out here asking questions. 0:23:34.000 --> 0:23:35.440 But I'll be like you, mic up was something we 0:23:35.440 --> 0:23:37.000 would have we would have put the goddamn mic on 0:23:37.240 --> 0:23:37.480 to me. 0:23:38.040 --> 0:23:41.920 To me, though, there's there's an element of self proclamation 0:23:42.000 --> 0:23:45.359 as a whole self proclamation as a free spirit, a 0:23:45.400 --> 0:23:49.320 woman who's open or sexually liberated, who when she goes 0:23:49.359 --> 0:23:52.600 into dating, there's I'm sorry, I don't want a man 0:23:52.680 --> 0:23:56.720 that's going to be judging about any kinks, fetishes or 0:23:56.760 --> 0:23:58.560 things I've done in my past. And to me, it's 0:23:58.680 --> 0:24:01.560 very easy out the gate to pick those type of 0:24:01.640 --> 0:24:05.440 niggas that's or those type of partners. The same way 0:24:05.800 --> 0:24:08.280 my friends will be like, damn, bitch, how you be 0:24:08.320 --> 0:24:11.880 finding all these freaky ass, kiky ass niggas, And I'm like, bro, 0:24:12.520 --> 0:24:15.359 these aren't any different than the men you're meeting. You're 0:24:15.400 --> 0:24:17.600 just not creating a safe space for them to really 0:24:17.640 --> 0:24:19.160 tell you the shit that they really be doing. 0:24:19.240 --> 0:24:21.000 Or the shit they've done in the past. 0:24:20.880 --> 0:24:23.960 Right, And so to me, I'm not opening my legs 0:24:24.000 --> 0:24:28.520 laying with a nigga, fucking anybody, or like like growing 0:24:28.600 --> 0:24:30.840 a relationship with someone that I know either in the 0:24:30.840 --> 0:24:34.159 back of their mind is judging me or has a 0:24:34.160 --> 0:24:35.919 way about how I've lived my life, Like I have 0:24:35.960 --> 0:24:38.200 niggas right now, I wouldn't. 0:24:37.920 --> 0:24:39.640 Do that, And I see this is the thing too, 0:24:39.720 --> 0:24:43.000 I'm still like I still deal with my ego and 0:24:43.160 --> 0:24:47.080 like some sensitivity around like what the bro's gonna think 0:24:47.080 --> 0:24:49.000 and shit too, even though like I don't want to 0:24:49.040 --> 0:24:51.280 think about that and for the most part it's not 0:24:51.359 --> 0:24:54.159 really I don't really give a fuck, but these is 0:24:54.200 --> 0:24:56.320 my niggas, Like if you go away, I'm still gonna 0:24:56.359 --> 0:24:57.480 be friends with these niggas. 0:24:57.520 --> 0:24:59.680 So, like, I think a lot of that play into it. 0:24:59.640 --> 0:25:04.120 It's like the perception all the time. Ask you about 0:25:04.160 --> 0:25:04.480 that too. 0:25:04.720 --> 0:25:07.399 So because the other thing is this too, Like it 0:25:07.960 --> 0:25:09.920 it's a two way street. I was seeing her trying 0:25:09.920 --> 0:25:13.360 to think of an example for like how what's what's 0:25:13.359 --> 0:25:16.080 comparable to that and like imagine, like you know, girls 0:25:16.160 --> 0:25:17.200 are cut off a nigga if they. 0:25:17.160 --> 0:25:18.800 Find out he buy sex or something like. 0:25:18.760 --> 0:25:22.800 That, Yeah, that'd be a thing. Experimids things like that. 0:25:22.840 --> 0:25:25.480 So everybody got their cutofs. It ain't really about judgment. 0:25:25.800 --> 0:25:28.399 It's more so like a self awareness like I just 0:25:28.520 --> 0:25:31.040 know I can't deal with that ship and if me 0:25:31.200 --> 0:25:33.120 personally like what if we vibe and I know about 0:25:33.160 --> 0:25:34.879 your pass and everything like that, but I fucked with 0:25:34.920 --> 0:25:36.480 you and it's like that ship doesn't matter to me, 0:25:36.760 --> 0:25:38.960 but people in your ear do matter, and that ship 0:25:39.040 --> 0:25:39.240 do have. 0:25:40.040 --> 0:25:42.359 I talk about that in the book to Yeah, it 0:25:42.359 --> 0:25:42.840 may not. 0:25:42.760 --> 0:25:45.199 Be even a personal thing, like just like you in 0:25:45.240 --> 0:25:47.320 a relationship and you got like you know, niggas be 0:25:47.359 --> 0:25:49.879 having like moms that be low key a little to 0:25:49.960 --> 0:25:52.199 attest them and ship they be fucking their relationships up 0:25:52.240 --> 0:25:54.199 to so it's a lot of fact that they play in. 0:25:54.280 --> 0:25:57.679 So like of course, initially at the top, what was 0:25:57.720 --> 0:25:59.480 my first reaction like, oh no, keep it real? 0:25:59.760 --> 0:26:03.160 Then sing here like bro, that's what I'm saying, Oh 0:26:03.320 --> 0:26:04.560 you you change your mind. 0:26:04.920 --> 0:26:07.600 That's conversation is important because it's real. I was a 0:26:07.600 --> 0:26:09.280 girl and out a gang bang and you don't fuck 0:26:09.320 --> 0:26:09.520 with it. 0:26:09.600 --> 0:26:13.000 Let me go because I'm also cool cut off though 0:26:13.080 --> 0:26:15.440 that's another thing I don't get attached to that ship, 0:26:15.560 --> 0:26:18.959 like at this point, I didn't been in. When you're 0:26:18.960 --> 0:26:21.280 in a long term relationship, you know everything that you know, 0:26:21.359 --> 0:26:23.760 the ins and outs and everything, like mother figgers, things 0:26:23.800 --> 0:26:26.239 that niggas don't account for, Like you you going to 0:26:26.440 --> 0:26:29.119 like you're dealing with periods, you're dealing with you smelled 0:26:29.119 --> 0:26:31.400 that ship before all type of ship, like we ain't 0:26:31.400 --> 0:26:33.560 even closing the door to use the bathroom, nob type ship. 0:26:33.640 --> 0:26:36.159 So it's like, you get so vulnerable with a person 0:26:36.600 --> 0:26:39.440 at this point, And I'm thirty five, grown, I got motion, 0:26:39.560 --> 0:26:41.760 I got ship going on. I don't give a fuck, 0:26:41.840 --> 0:26:44.479 like it's we gonna work out or not. If we're not, 0:26:44.840 --> 0:26:47.320 Let's go in and go about ourselves place before niggas 0:26:47.359 --> 0:26:49.879 lie theyself into attachment and then they make it more 0:26:49.880 --> 0:26:51.520 difficult to say lie themselves into it. 0:26:51.800 --> 0:26:53.800 Let's that's your social capital. 0:27:02.040 --> 0:27:05.440 So if anybody has watched your clips, for the most part, 0:27:05.440 --> 0:27:07.080 I don't even feel like you talk about dating at all. 0:27:07.320 --> 0:27:09.640 I don't, which is why it's enough people doing that. 0:27:09.800 --> 0:27:13.240 Let's see which would be worse for your social capital, 0:27:13.520 --> 0:27:16.000 dating a white woman or dating candas owners. 0:27:16.240 --> 0:27:17.399 Dating a white woman. 0:27:17.280 --> 0:27:18.880 Will be worse than dating Candas Man. 0:27:19.680 --> 0:27:21.600 Canda owners woke it. Fuck you mean. 0:27:23.240 --> 0:27:25.879 I t up Candas was to be outside with the 0:27:26.000 --> 0:27:31.280 natural next week. You know, hope, now watch. 0:27:31.080 --> 0:27:39.119 This having people find out you don't think so you 0:27:39.200 --> 0:27:43.080 think Candace gives me lame Candas as smart as fun, 0:27:43.200 --> 0:27:46.600 that would be sexy, Like don't let's not get it twisted. 0:27:46.680 --> 0:27:49.840 Her opinions are terrible, but the bitch is smart. I 0:27:49.880 --> 0:27:51.120 think that's the part I was thinking. 0:27:51.280 --> 0:27:54.000 Well read niggas. I don't think she got bodied though, 0:27:54.800 --> 0:27:55.240 I mean. 0:27:55.480 --> 0:27:58.240 Like, get you crazy con. 0:27:58.520 --> 0:28:01.679 You've seen her friends a bitch, a black friend, okay, 0:28:01.720 --> 0:28:06.080 yeah yeah, but then the white girls as being like accurately. 0:28:05.600 --> 0:28:08.680 Good for a white woman. 0:28:09.040 --> 0:28:11.160 You guys want to the tone, but we'll let her. 0:28:11.080 --> 0:28:12.400 Now, don't even try to compete. 0:28:12.840 --> 0:28:14.960 I would, I mean I was okay her for sure, 0:28:15.000 --> 0:28:17.160 that people find out you registered to be a Republican 0:28:17.200 --> 0:28:20.639 when you were eighteenth, or having your recent history be 0:28:20.760 --> 0:28:23.320 leaked and it's all maga content, which would. 0:28:23.160 --> 0:28:25.760 Be worse for you recent history for sure? 0:28:26.200 --> 0:28:27.200 Okay, wait for sure? 0:28:27.760 --> 0:28:30.000 Yeah, I mean I've I would have been like, oh 0:28:30.040 --> 0:28:31.080 I was just looking it up. 0:28:31.400 --> 0:28:35.760 No, no way, worse this lead, I know, like exactly what. 0:28:36.080 --> 0:28:39.080 Right now, you think those thoughts what you registered as 0:28:39.080 --> 0:28:43.000 when you were eighteen, Obama was a person the same 0:28:43.200 --> 0:28:43.520 you did. 0:28:44.360 --> 0:28:47.520 That was my first It was my first boat to say. 0:28:47.640 --> 0:28:50.479 I feel like I was selling. I was selling drugs 0:28:50.480 --> 0:28:52.120 and a type of ship. But I went and voted 0:28:52.120 --> 0:28:55.600 for that. Nigga family. 0:28:57.600 --> 0:28:58.640 Did that together. 0:28:58.880 --> 0:28:59.320 Yeah. 0:28:59.360 --> 0:29:01.680 God, November of two thousand. 0:29:01.360 --> 0:29:04.320 And eight, I have bought me a goddamn turned eighteen 0:29:04.400 --> 0:29:05.840 a month before tens. 0:29:05.640 --> 0:29:06.560 Come on Highway five. 0:29:07.520 --> 0:29:09.680 There was they were seventy big ass got damn a 0:29:09.720 --> 0:29:10.680 whole pictures. 0:29:10.720 --> 0:29:12.400 Of and I brought that ship her. 0:29:12.440 --> 0:29:16.320 Mamma was like, oh my god, I did have a 0:29:16.320 --> 0:29:17.040 cut out of my house. 0:29:17.480 --> 0:29:18.680 Yeah cutout. 0:29:18.880 --> 0:29:21.400 Yeah, that's the biggest to me. That's gonna be the 0:29:21.400 --> 0:29:22.360 biggest vote of our lives. 0:29:22.440 --> 0:29:23.680 Oh god, yeah that's real. 0:29:23.760 --> 0:29:27.840 Okay, smash your pass. She's a ten, but she videotapes 0:29:27.880 --> 0:29:29.880 all the day, y'all going and the meals for content. 0:29:29.920 --> 0:29:33.960 That's over with, Okay, she's a ten. She got three 0:29:34.000 --> 0:29:34.920 kids at thirty five. 0:29:35.040 --> 0:29:37.560 Niggas don't even know like a ten is overrated. I 0:29:37.680 --> 0:29:39.520 like the cool ass of my eight, Like. 0:29:40.040 --> 0:29:42.200 What's the cool what's a cool six? Sale? Mate? 0:29:42.400 --> 0:29:43.720 I ain't say nothing about six. 0:29:43.880 --> 0:29:48.160 Okay, you said six, you said six, okay, but you. 0:29:48.120 --> 0:29:49.520 Said so cool seven eight? 0:29:49.640 --> 0:29:50.680 What's a cool seven? Eight? 0:29:51.520 --> 0:29:52.520 I mean, which is the ten? 0:29:53.240 --> 0:29:54.440 Wells objected. 0:29:54.480 --> 0:29:56.800 It is saying perfect. It is subjective ten. 0:29:56.800 --> 0:29:59.160 It's perfect. Anybody perfect. But I get what you're saying, right, 0:29:59.440 --> 0:29:59.880 I agree? 0:30:00.320 --> 0:30:02.440 Three kids at thirty five? Can she still be a 0:30:02.480 --> 0:30:03.280 ten for you? 0:30:03.360 --> 0:30:03.560 Yeah? 0:30:03.720 --> 0:30:05.880 For sure she's a ten. But she's a bit of 0:30:05.920 --> 0:30:07.480 a podcast host groupie. 0:30:08.800 --> 0:30:09.760 That's a little strange. 0:30:09.800 --> 0:30:13.160 But we could talk about it, like what do you 0:30:13.160 --> 0:30:14.520 mean you can turn on on your mind? 0:30:14.600 --> 0:30:17.240 Like why why are you so I'm literally dead it? 0:30:17.400 --> 0:30:18.160 Like what you mean? 0:30:18.240 --> 0:30:20.320 Like like like what I'm. 0:30:20.160 --> 0:30:20.800 Going on a date? 0:30:20.840 --> 0:30:23.280 And a nigga has been like, oh my god, so 0:30:23.320 --> 0:30:27.840 like what's Rory really like? 0:30:28.560 --> 0:30:31.000 Now we be knowing some of them to like I 0:30:31.000 --> 0:30:33.160 ain't on husband, like I've been talking to somebody. And 0:30:33.160 --> 0:30:35.040 then they started bringing up ship front of podcast. I 0:30:35.080 --> 0:30:38.800 was like all this, like you know too much about it? 0:30:39.200 --> 0:30:42.120 I ask you this, two situations that I could talk 0:30:42.120 --> 0:30:43.840 about where I'm like, maybe it's because I'm not a weirdo. 0:30:43.840 --> 0:30:46.080 Maybe because they ain't wear those the way. 0:30:46.160 --> 0:30:48.200 The reason I wanted to start a podcast was because 0:30:48.200 --> 0:30:50.760 I love Bodega boys ended up being friends with Jesus 0:30:50.800 --> 0:30:52.880 year later and I'll be talking about ship from the 0:30:52.880 --> 0:30:54.960 podcast and the nigga be like, Bro, that's crazy. I 0:30:54.960 --> 0:30:57.480 don't remember that now one of my clubs friends was 0:30:57.520 --> 0:30:59.840 a fan of Like no, no, no, no, no. 0:31:01.040 --> 0:31:03.640 What I'm saying that could be weird, right. 0:31:03.840 --> 0:31:06.800 Yeah, because because it's almost like you know shit about me. 0:31:06.840 --> 0:31:09.040 I don't even remember by myself. Bro, that's crazy. 0:31:09.080 --> 0:31:09.600 That's crazy. 0:31:09.800 --> 0:31:13.120 But it's not crazy in the sense like I was 0:31:13.160 --> 0:31:15.680 with Marrow and then the other like on some hommy ship. 0:31:15.760 --> 0:31:17.560 Like I'm bringing up Ship from the podcast. He might 0:31:17.560 --> 0:31:19.280 not remember that ship, but it's like I'm a fan, 0:31:19.600 --> 0:31:23.360 but it's like that's cool for the hommy Is it. 0:31:23.280 --> 0:31:26.440 Not cool for But that's what I'm saying, We're not weirdo. 0:31:26.760 --> 0:31:29.080 Well, because the thing is is if we're gonna talk, 0:31:29.120 --> 0:31:31.560 we need like an honest representation of each other, and 0:31:31.560 --> 0:31:34.080 like you have an idea about me, yeah, like and 0:31:34.200 --> 0:31:36.400 you may have pedestal at me too, So it's like 0:31:36.760 --> 0:31:37.480 it's too much. 0:31:37.520 --> 0:31:39.200 So what do we do when you're really famous? 0:31:39.440 --> 0:31:41.800 What do you do when you're the most famous actor 0:31:41.920 --> 0:31:42.960 meeting women? 0:31:43.520 --> 0:31:46.760 Pretend that this when I go to West Africa and 0:31:46.880 --> 0:31:47.480 i'm your wife. 0:31:51.280 --> 0:31:55.200 Well, I you said you're about to turn into a 0:31:55.200 --> 0:31:56.520 passport bro. It's also crazy. 0:31:56.520 --> 0:32:00.520 I never said that your wife. I'm I'm I'm glad 0:32:00.640 --> 0:32:02.840 I'm not going out there. The like six to her 0:32:02.880 --> 0:32:03.800 and said, I. 0:32:03.800 --> 0:32:06.800 Sit, Wait, you think passport bros aren't doing sex tourism. 0:32:06.840 --> 0:32:09.400 They're going out to find wives in other countries. Wait, 0:32:09.440 --> 0:32:10.560 I thought that. 0:32:11.040 --> 0:32:14.480 No, no, of course, no, no, no, no, passport bros are 0:32:14.520 --> 0:32:15.640 going out of the country. 0:32:17.000 --> 0:32:19.640 We just had this saying that's not what a passport 0:32:19.640 --> 0:32:20.120 bro is. 0:32:20.840 --> 0:32:24.080 The colloquial term for passport bros is sex tourism. 0:32:23.880 --> 0:32:26.320 And they're the only ones that can fuck out the country. No, 0:32:26.480 --> 0:32:31.120 it's not you were saying, what is it when they. 0:32:31.120 --> 0:32:33.800 You turn out Mirriam Webster versus the street. I'm not 0:32:34.440 --> 0:32:35.200 passport bros. 0:32:35.640 --> 0:32:39.920 Look more for you. She's a ten. But she's saving 0:32:40.000 --> 0:32:41.240 sucking dick for Mary. 0:32:41.440 --> 0:32:45.040 Oh that ain't happening, you not. But I don't give 0:32:45.080 --> 0:32:47.720 a fucking queen. You're Alian. 0:32:47.880 --> 0:32:50.080 I'm not gonna spend my marriage teaching you how to 0:32:50.080 --> 0:32:55.920 suck practice, because if you. 0:32:55.320 --> 0:32:57.320 Learned a bunch of digs sucking did you take it right? 0:32:57.600 --> 0:33:01.000 What well, I don't know. Why would you just shoot 0:33:01.000 --> 0:33:03.120 the ball the half court? We got two to three 0:33:03.120 --> 0:33:04.840 seconds up on the car. You shot for half court. 0:33:04.880 --> 0:33:06.520 Why you want to talk about that was for a 0:33:06.600 --> 0:33:08.480 dang bak So she can't slept, bitch, You can't suck 0:33:08.520 --> 0:33:09.720 too much dick niggas. 0:33:09.720 --> 0:33:11.680 By the way, body, I want to I want to 0:33:11.720 --> 0:33:13.320 just real quick, because we did just talk about this. 0:33:13.440 --> 0:33:16.800 A passport bro, it's a slang term for a man, 0:33:17.200 --> 0:33:20.640 often from the US, Canada, or Western countries, who travels abroad, 0:33:20.720 --> 0:33:24.640 sometimes permanently, to date or marry women from other countries, 0:33:24.960 --> 0:33:30.120 usually places like Southeast Asia, Latin America, or Eastern Europe. Y'all, 0:33:30.160 --> 0:33:32.200 we're talking about also the niggas that might go for 0:33:32.240 --> 0:33:33.920 a man trip and just want to pay twenty four 0:33:33.960 --> 0:33:34.800 dollars for couch. 0:33:36.080 --> 0:33:37.040 Panama sport. 0:33:39.280 --> 0:33:41.680 When you say passport bro, that's what niggas. 0:33:42.520 --> 0:33:46.000 Those are. The men that are low hanging fruit here. 0:33:46.680 --> 0:33:49.240 Can't get a goddamn bitch here because they make thirty 0:33:49.600 --> 0:33:53.040 thousand and our lame like that. Nobody here wants them, 0:33:53.280 --> 0:33:56.120 so they go to find a submissive woman, a woman 0:33:56.160 --> 0:33:59.040 who sees them as a king from another country and 0:33:59.120 --> 0:34:00.280 that's who they end up being. 0:34:00.320 --> 0:34:03.040 With nothing to do with paying bitches for money. It 0:34:03.080 --> 0:34:05.840 has nothing to do with sex or sex, none of that. 0:34:05.960 --> 0:34:07.960 I never looked at the definition of that. I know 0:34:08.160 --> 0:34:10.560 the streets. I know what the streets. 0:34:10.680 --> 0:34:13.040 What they talk about are these American men, these lame, 0:34:13.480 --> 0:34:16.960 crockass niggas that go overseas and try to end up 0:34:17.000 --> 0:34:19.080 with an Asian woman or someone who's going to make 0:34:19.120 --> 0:34:21.560 them feel like a king because they feel like American 0:34:21.600 --> 0:34:23.200 women want too much here. 0:34:23.320 --> 0:34:24.040 Oh that's crazy. 0:34:24.120 --> 0:34:24.279 Yeah. 0:34:24.280 --> 0:34:26.440 See that's another thing too, Like I can't be considered 0:34:26.480 --> 0:34:29.600 that if I'm first of all attractive, second of all, 0:34:29.920 --> 0:34:33.319 if I'm stupid, stupid, famous, I'm caring Like if I'm 0:34:33.440 --> 0:34:36.279 up monetarily, you can't want No. 0:34:36.200 --> 0:34:38.399 I get that for me. Even saying the passport wrod 0:34:38.400 --> 0:34:40.560 thing was that you were going to go but no, 0:34:40.680 --> 0:34:42.560 but it was just but it was it was a 0:34:42.640 --> 0:34:45.759 jas podca it was it was a joke at the 0:34:45.760 --> 0:34:47.880 time that I was just like, you were going to 0:34:48.040 --> 0:34:49.600 another country to get a. 0:34:49.520 --> 0:34:51.120 Woman, Like, yeah, I was. 0:34:51.200 --> 0:34:53.279 I'm jokingly saying that because she said, what if you 0:34:53.280 --> 0:34:55.040 get too famous? But at the same time, it's like 0:34:55.320 --> 0:34:57.440 I never feel like love is off the table no 0:34:57.440 --> 0:35:01.040 matter how visible you are. It's just about like somebody 0:35:01.080 --> 0:35:03.200 has somebody gonna have to understand what the ship come 0:35:03.280 --> 0:35:06.520 with either way, even even if if with the verse, 0:35:06.800 --> 0:35:09.000 I gotta understand, Like if you was dating another famous woman, 0:35:09.000 --> 0:35:11.160 you gotta understand she'd be busy if fuck soon and 0:35:11.200 --> 0:35:12.959 she's gonna be places shes gonna be city city. 0:35:12.960 --> 0:35:13.799 I might not see each. 0:35:13.719 --> 0:35:17.680 Other all the time, but like I think the strongest 0:35:17.680 --> 0:35:19.920 bond in the relationship is like cracking a safety for 0:35:20.040 --> 0:35:22.080 each other. So like you somewhere that I know I 0:35:22.080 --> 0:35:25.400 can go and express myself and talk to without judgment 0:35:25.520 --> 0:35:29.480 or without like without like yes man shit either like if. 0:35:29.320 --> 0:35:31.040 I'm wrong, let me know I'm wrong type shit. 0:35:31.200 --> 0:35:34.479 So like the connection gonna come from the conversation for sure, 0:35:34.800 --> 0:35:38.480 But I don't think you can you can like like 0:35:40.000 --> 0:35:41.800 move your way out of that. Do the fame and 0:35:41.840 --> 0:35:42.279 shit like that. 0:35:42.800 --> 0:35:44.520 It really matters if you're famous or not. There's so 0:35:44.600 --> 0:35:45.759 much googling we could do. 0:35:46.000 --> 0:35:48.160 Like and it's mad people in the world, Like I'm. 0:35:48.000 --> 0:35:50.239 Gonna figure out who who the other person was. 0:35:50.280 --> 0:35:52.040 There's like some way to look something up, Like we're 0:35:52.040 --> 0:35:53.439 always gonna have a preconceived notion. 0:35:53.480 --> 0:35:54.359 Is that's really true? 0:35:54.640 --> 0:35:55.000 Saw too? 0:35:55.040 --> 0:35:57.000 It's like somebody out here with like ten million followers 0:35:57.040 --> 0:35:57.759 I ain't never heard of. 0:35:58.280 --> 0:36:00.560 Yeah, there's a lot of like like we exist in 0:36:00.640 --> 0:36:03.520 like podcasts anyway we do so like it's always gonna 0:36:03.520 --> 0:36:06.000 be somebody out there that don't know or won't know, 0:36:06.160 --> 0:36:07.719 or it's always gonna be people out there that you 0:36:07.719 --> 0:36:09.480 would at least suspect you might make a connection. 0:36:09.520 --> 0:36:10.640 Would you date another podcaster? 0:36:11.760 --> 0:36:12.719 I don't know. That's a lot of. 0:36:14.360 --> 0:36:15.680 What are your thoughts of podcasts? 0:36:15.719 --> 0:36:16.360 A lot of talking. 0:36:17.640 --> 0:36:20.120 No, I mean, I just depend I don't really I 0:36:20.120 --> 0:36:22.680 can't get down to judging somebody for what they do, period. 0:36:22.960 --> 0:36:24.560 But I just think it's about what our connection. 0:36:24.960 --> 0:36:25.040 You know. 0:36:25.120 --> 0:36:26.879 What walks me up is like I think I get. 0:36:27.880 --> 0:36:30.600 I don't know, maybe because we've been podcasting a long time, 0:36:30.600 --> 0:36:32.120 maybe because I make. 0:36:31.960 --> 0:36:33.280 A lot of podcasts with people. 0:36:33.400 --> 0:36:37.399 But I really didn't want to be and maybe it's 0:36:37.480 --> 0:36:40.520 unbelievable to people watching. My brain wasn't thinking about like 0:36:40.640 --> 0:36:41.080 I'm going to. 0:36:41.080 --> 0:36:42.200 Be famous type shit. 0:36:42.520 --> 0:36:43.520 I just was really. 0:36:43.320 --> 0:36:47.360 Having fun doing this shit. It felt like salacious but funny, 0:36:47.520 --> 0:36:48.560 and like I liked it. 0:36:48.480 --> 0:36:50.080 Back and forth with the community thing. 0:36:50.600 --> 0:36:52.720 But I really do believe because of how much money's 0:36:52.719 --> 0:36:54.440 in podcasting, I really don't want to date somebody that 0:36:54.520 --> 0:36:56.960 want to be famous. I don't enjoy having conversations with 0:36:57.000 --> 0:37:00.480 people that like really want fame from what they do, 0:37:00.520 --> 0:37:03.439 because then there's a difference to there is and that's 0:37:03.520 --> 0:37:07.080 truly what like the new era of podcasting is like people. 0:37:06.800 --> 0:37:07.800 That want to be famous. 0:37:07.880 --> 0:37:11.960 Yeah, yeah, we was really also too, Like I started 0:37:11.960 --> 0:37:14.719 all this shiit off TikTok. I wasn't never thinking about that. 0:37:15.160 --> 0:37:17.400 I knew it was possible because I seen what the 0:37:17.400 --> 0:37:20.040 competition was and that ship wasn't about now, So it 0:37:20.120 --> 0:37:24.560 was like I was like shit, I was like okay, 0:37:24.880 --> 0:37:27.040 and I'm driving trucks at the time too, so I'm like, well, 0:37:27.239 --> 0:37:29.680 people make money off this by just giving their opinions. 0:37:29.960 --> 0:37:31.799 I know, I got better opinions than ninety percent of 0:37:31.800 --> 0:37:33.279 these motherfuckers. Are Like, if I can get a little 0:37:33.280 --> 0:37:35.719 supplemental income help my family, I'm. 0:37:35.480 --> 0:37:36.040 Cool with that. 0:37:36.360 --> 0:37:38.959 But a lot of people was requesting like more long 0:37:39.000 --> 0:37:43.239 form podcasts and ship like that. The twenty twenty, like 0:37:43.320 --> 0:37:46.080 the Covid Bubbalo podcast kind of turned me off from 0:37:46.120 --> 0:37:47.400 the ship, so I didn't really want to. 0:37:47.360 --> 0:37:49.680 Be able to turn your own. That's when it was like. 0:37:49.880 --> 0:37:53.120 I don't be caring about about money though, like that 0:37:53.200 --> 0:37:55.560 the money I'm gonna be, I'm gonna be good either way. 0:37:55.560 --> 0:37:56.560 Why do you do what you're doing? 0:37:56.920 --> 0:37:57.680 Because Ship? 0:37:57.960 --> 0:38:02.160 It said, I said into it like it was something 0:38:02.200 --> 0:38:04.479 that was in demand for me, you know what I'm saying. 0:38:04.480 --> 0:38:06.359 It wasn't like now I'm gonna start the podcast, I'm 0:38:06.360 --> 0:38:08.960 gonna do this. People kept requesting that ship. I feel 0:38:08.960 --> 0:38:10.799 like what I got to say is important, but I 0:38:10.840 --> 0:38:12.680 also know I'm providing a different perspective. 0:38:13.000 --> 0:38:16.879 So money isn't always directly tied to fame either. When 0:38:16.880 --> 0:38:18.879 we started doing our show in the beginning and we're 0:38:18.880 --> 0:38:21.080 making money, that's what kept me. 0:38:21.120 --> 0:38:22.160 Being able to do it. 0:38:22.239 --> 0:38:25.759 There is gratification I get from fans, But now I 0:38:25.800 --> 0:38:28.320 feel like there's a point where, like if I go 0:38:28.400 --> 0:38:32.120 to everyday people, probably when I'm in the bathroom, the 0:38:32.120 --> 0:38:32.719 girls know me. 0:38:33.040 --> 0:38:35.640 Like I can't necessarily be talking shit. I can't really 0:38:35.680 --> 0:38:36.320 do too much. 0:38:36.560 --> 0:38:38.560 Like if I meet a nigga, one of his friends 0:38:38.560 --> 0:38:40.680 knows me if he don't, like, that's not really what 0:38:40.719 --> 0:38:41.280 I wanted. 0:38:42.360 --> 0:38:46.600 That I can't even talk out in public about anything. 0:38:46.800 --> 0:38:51.000 Anybody somebody list Literally, the waiter knows me, the bartender 0:38:51.120 --> 0:38:51.400 know me. 0:38:51.520 --> 0:38:54.240 Somebody knows me. I can't do it out here. Literally. 0:38:54.280 --> 0:38:56.360 I was hopping in the uber to get here on 0:38:56.480 --> 0:39:00.359 my block. Someone's like, you have a podcast. 0:39:00.360 --> 0:39:01.840 Right, I'm getting in the car in front of my 0:39:01.880 --> 0:39:06.120 fucking spot, and I'm like shit, Like, I think that 0:39:06.200 --> 0:39:08.319 part of things like to know, like not to bring 0:39:08.360 --> 0:39:10.400 into Beyonce because we're not on her level. But Beyonce 0:39:10.560 --> 0:39:12.799 said like she wishes sometimes that she could just watch 0:39:12.880 --> 0:39:15.759 walk Central Park. There's certain elements of just life she's 0:39:15.760 --> 0:39:18.160 not able to do. And I think sometimes people say 0:39:18.160 --> 0:39:20.040 they want the fame and this shit shit kind of. 0:39:21.320 --> 0:39:23.279 I think there's a thing of like chasing fame, and 0:39:23.320 --> 0:39:26.880 those people are always like very noticeable. It's not you 0:39:26.920 --> 0:39:30.080 can notice people who chasing fun. I think they're type. 0:39:30.600 --> 0:39:35.279 So I think for me, it's like the idea of 0:39:35.320 --> 0:39:38.400 it turning into something where I'm super visible and famous. 0:39:38.800 --> 0:39:41.640 It lingered because I understand that other people in space 0:39:41.840 --> 0:39:44.040 do have it, but for me it was more important 0:39:44.080 --> 0:39:46.360 like Okay, I get to have a space where I 0:39:46.360 --> 0:39:48.360 can speak and people are receptive to what I'm. 0:39:48.239 --> 0:39:51.520 Saying, and like, I like that. I enjoyed it. I 0:39:51.600 --> 0:39:52.280 enjoy speaking. 0:39:52.360 --> 0:39:54.600 So it's like the attention is a good part of 0:39:54.640 --> 0:39:56.880 it too, because like people paying attention mean that my 0:39:56.960 --> 0:39:59.480 message and what I got to say is impacting and folks. 0:40:00.200 --> 0:40:02.560 At this point now it's like okay, damn, Like my 0:40:02.600 --> 0:40:04.880 neighbor know who I am from the podcast and I 0:40:04.880 --> 0:40:07.080 don't ever talk to my neighbor. But that motherfucker was 0:40:07.120 --> 0:40:09.120 taking the trash out one day. He's like, man, I'm 0:40:09.120 --> 0:40:11.640 fucking with the podcast. Man, I love that ship. What 0:40:11.680 --> 0:40:12.040 the fuck? 0:40:13.239 --> 0:40:13.799 Because you just. 0:40:13.800 --> 0:40:15.960 Don't know who's watching you all the time I was 0:40:16.000 --> 0:40:17.480 eating at this restaurant. I want to shout them out 0:40:17.480 --> 0:40:20.120 to the black on Lele. I'm having a really deep 0:40:20.120 --> 0:40:23.520 conversation with my man about like fertility and like you know, 0:40:23.920 --> 0:40:28.040 family planning. Lady next to me not just do I 0:40:28.040 --> 0:40:30.160 don't know the podcast. She's like, don't want to make 0:40:30.160 --> 0:40:31.680 a wad of getting the check. She was like, I 0:40:31.800 --> 0:40:35.799 just finished the books, like I'm so happy for y'all. 0:40:37.080 --> 0:40:38.880 In the car home, he's like, Nigga, what you were 0:40:38.920 --> 0:40:42.680 talking ship? Because I be talking shit, I got talking 0:40:42.680 --> 0:40:43.440 ship publicly? 0:40:43.560 --> 0:40:45.880 What the Fuck'm talking. You know what, I'm tables in 0:40:45.880 --> 0:40:48.799 New York like this together? Did you want to saying 0:40:48.800 --> 0:40:51.000 nothing that you don't want? I'm to have a baby. 0:40:51.120 --> 0:40:53.160 It's also too it's I think it's what type of 0:40:53.160 --> 0:40:55.520 fame you got to? Like, people don't approach me. I 0:40:55.560 --> 0:41:00.920 think what what my messaging is? No, I wasn't say that, nigga. 0:41:02.520 --> 0:41:04.680 You know, people don't approach me with the like super 0:41:04.760 --> 0:41:07.239 duper famous ship, like they approached me like an every 0:41:07.320 --> 0:41:09.879 day person, because I think my messaging is like every 0:41:09.920 --> 0:41:13.120 day you feel me so like I don't really get 0:41:13.160 --> 0:41:15.759 like people that get fanned out type ship, but it 0:41:15.800 --> 0:41:18.880 has happened a few times and I'm like, relaxed, bro, 0:41:19.000 --> 0:41:26.800 really wedes uh, it'd be niggas. 0:41:26.800 --> 0:41:29.520 Bro would be cool, you know what I'm saying. 0:41:29.760 --> 0:41:32.799 Niggas be groopies out here like. 0:41:32.719 --> 0:41:35.440 A nigga like literally like running from across the street 0:41:35.600 --> 0:41:38.160 like yo, I'm like, what's up? 0:41:38.160 --> 0:41:40.960 I'm thinking it's cool whatever? Like whoa what up? Bro? 0:41:41.400 --> 0:41:43.480 I'm focused ten tons a head this nigga is on 0:41:43.520 --> 0:41:46.360 the sidewalk. I was like, damn, what's up? Really cool? 0:41:46.440 --> 0:41:47.960 Like you ain't have to like. 0:41:49.600 --> 0:41:53.719 You know what I'm saying, we through and it was 0:41:53.800 --> 0:41:56.480 love like I appreciate the love to love be real, 0:41:56.520 --> 0:42:01.120 but it's also like damn, like I'm I'm not famous 0:42:01.200 --> 0:42:04.040 type ship, like I'm not super duper famous for like, 0:42:04.160 --> 0:42:05.680 so then how does this escalate? 0:42:05.719 --> 0:42:05.960 That's the. 0:42:07.800 --> 0:42:08.239 Niggas do? 0:42:08.440 --> 0:42:09.279 Yeah, like what what? 0:42:09.480 --> 0:42:09.560 Like? 0:42:09.640 --> 0:42:12.440 How do they move maneuver and operate because like, I 0:42:12.480 --> 0:42:14.520 think a big part that I enjoy is like going 0:42:14.520 --> 0:42:17.400 out and niggas know me, but I could still parlay 0:42:17.400 --> 0:42:18.640 in one two like but. 0:42:18.719 --> 0:42:19.319 I'm not gonna lie. 0:42:19.320 --> 0:42:22.560 I feel super famous out They sat me half court 0:42:23.120 --> 0:42:25.200 at Dykeman Basketball and I was like. 0:42:25.160 --> 0:42:27.480 Oh my god, bitch, I have made it. 0:42:27.840 --> 0:42:31.120 I went to nigga they taking their little uh they 0:42:31.160 --> 0:42:34.120 little what is it time out and then on the 0:42:34.120 --> 0:42:37.920 mics like yeah shut up many being about yo yo 0:42:37.960 --> 0:42:38.920 yo that podcast. 0:42:39.000 --> 0:42:40.279 Well, I'm gonna get on the couch. So and I 0:42:40.320 --> 0:42:43.080 was like, are the Dykman Basketball. 0:42:42.920 --> 0:42:43.840 Having moments like that? 0:42:45.000 --> 0:42:48.839 I used to It's like I used to I used 0:42:48.840 --> 0:42:50.759 to go to Dykeman is like and this is back 0:42:50.760 --> 0:42:52.480 when like all the bitches was going. 0:42:52.520 --> 0:42:54.120 You could see all the bitches with the BBL da 0:42:54.200 --> 0:42:55.799 da da. I was in there seeing all the. 0:42:55.840 --> 0:42:58.080 Niggas who played overseas, all the celebrities like used to 0:42:58.080 --> 0:42:59.840 be in Dykeman. So when I first moved to New 0:42:59.920 --> 0:43:02.480 Yor York, I'm going diakmon basketball? 0:43:02.600 --> 0:43:06.200 Is it so mind you? I'm it was just in 0:43:06.239 --> 0:43:08.360 New York. I go during the playoffs. It is a Monday. 0:43:08.360 --> 0:43:09.960 It's not like a Friday. 0:43:09.920 --> 0:43:12.399 But it's literally the week digg Yeah, it was all 0:43:12.520 --> 0:43:13.840 off day, but it don't. 0:43:14.080 --> 0:43:15.080 It was a Monday. 0:43:17.520 --> 0:43:17.640 Here. 0:43:17.719 --> 0:43:19.680 My girl Rosie walk up to the gate and she 0:43:19.840 --> 0:43:21.840 know one of the coaches from Dominican Power. 0:43:22.160 --> 0:43:25.000 So she's like, we here a Dominican Power. So we 0:43:25.040 --> 0:43:25.879 go up to the gate. 0:43:25.880 --> 0:43:28.080 They're like gates closed and me and her look like 0:43:28.360 --> 0:43:30.439 now we're supposed to be in here. So we get 0:43:30.440 --> 0:43:34.560 in and we walk over and say ah, He's like, 0:43:35.239 --> 0:43:36.520 he looks like I'm looking familiar. 0:43:36.600 --> 0:43:38.160 He remembers I had curly hair. I used to be 0:43:38.200 --> 0:43:39.760 all soot. This way I used to back my niggas 0:43:39.760 --> 0:43:40.759 was dyke Way basketball. 0:43:41.160 --> 0:43:43.719 So I go to fucking we go there like you 0:43:43.840 --> 0:43:46.920 need chairs, No, we get seated half court. 0:43:47.040 --> 0:43:48.080 Nobody move us. 0:43:48.239 --> 0:43:51.200 We half court by the way, about folding niggas that 0:43:51.280 --> 0:43:53.400 was playing and it'll slotting in my dms because this 0:43:53.560 --> 0:43:56.440 is I'm a celebrity here, I'm on Celebrity Road and 0:43:56.520 --> 0:43:57.400 Dykeman basketball. 0:43:57.600 --> 0:44:02.040 And I was just like, damn, that's to say what 0:44:02.080 --> 0:44:02.279 to have? 0:44:02.400 --> 0:44:04.640 No listen when I girl, when I tell you I 0:44:04.640 --> 0:44:07.560 don't care about do you know what the court is before? 0:44:07.680 --> 0:44:11.600 I'm half court side? No, but I'm half court outside. Oh, 0:44:11.960 --> 0:44:13.759 you're sitting in the middle, baby, in the middle, in 0:44:13.800 --> 0:44:16.520 the middle. What hold on? 0:44:16.640 --> 0:44:18.799 When I say best set in the house and I 0:44:18.840 --> 0:44:21.480 and I was thinking about my little bird ass. This 0:44:21.520 --> 0:44:24.480 is internally I'm like, but you don't party with all 0:44:24.480 --> 0:44:25.279 these celebrities. 0:44:25.280 --> 0:44:27.319 You know, all this ship is. You be on the phone, 0:44:27.360 --> 0:44:29.080 you be in the clubs. When I tell you, A 0:44:29.120 --> 0:44:32.560 part of me was like, but you made it half courted, Damon. 0:44:32.440 --> 0:44:32.960 That's hard. 0:44:36.719 --> 0:44:39.520 When I was in Chicago, Chicago, I got some love 0:44:39.560 --> 0:44:42.279 in Chicago, but like we was at there, this be 0:44:42.440 --> 0:44:43.600 easy and I come out. 0:44:43.480 --> 0:44:48.520 That bitch, little lit bro walk cars street or smoke. 0:44:49.920 --> 0:44:50.840 It's just tell you. 0:44:50.920 --> 0:44:53.160 It's this car full of older women like they are 0:44:53.280 --> 0:44:54.160 forty five feet. 0:44:54.800 --> 0:44:58.279 It's like, hey, Deonta. Ho was like, what's yeah? 0:44:58.440 --> 0:45:01.400 Like because niggas mama's be fucking me tight ship niggas 0:45:01.760 --> 0:45:03.600 not even that, but like people could. 0:45:03.400 --> 0:45:05.800 Tell me like, bro, my mama put me on your podcast, 0:45:05.880 --> 0:45:06.480 like oh wow. 0:45:07.160 --> 0:45:12.439 So like but these I'm like, you know what I'm saying. 0:45:12.640 --> 0:45:14.319 We're are the things that actually touch you and make 0:45:14.360 --> 0:45:14.720 you feeling. 0:45:15.280 --> 0:45:18.200 Got out of the car, had the weird rolled up 0:45:18.239 --> 0:45:20.640 to it like let me hit the Oh you made 0:45:20.680 --> 0:45:21.040 them nice? 0:45:21.080 --> 0:45:23.279 They had got damn one of the mamas like sign 0:45:23.360 --> 0:45:24.960 my titty, I had signed their children. 0:45:26.120 --> 0:45:27.520 I was like, y'all got a sharp. 0:45:32.920 --> 0:45:35.919 You ma, you made their whole week. Celebrity ever gave 0:45:36.040 --> 0:45:36.640 me that. 0:45:37.120 --> 0:45:38.440 But so what I was going to say. 0:45:38.440 --> 0:45:40.319 We went to Sohold the next night and like I'm 0:45:40.360 --> 0:45:44.120 big Isaiah Man so like me too. So I'm like 0:45:44.200 --> 0:45:47.800 I'm hearing Breton, I'm let me get to the stage 0:45:47.840 --> 0:45:51.000 type ship. And then she had breasting me. I seeing her, 0:45:51.040 --> 0:45:53.239 he was like, that's do y'all take host of the 0:45:53.280 --> 0:45:54.320 Good Names podcast? 0:45:54.400 --> 0:45:57.359 If y'all that nigga podcast, y'all nigga speak shout out. 0:45:59.120 --> 0:46:01.719 I was in that beat yeeking. Do you hear me? 0:46:02.239 --> 0:46:07.560 I was like, somebody put. 0:46:07.440 --> 0:46:14.600 Me on a fucking dumpchy. I love music, let's speak 0:46:14.840 --> 0:46:16.640 the music. Oh you better get this too. 0:46:17.000 --> 0:46:20.840 So I've been provoking black cars and g cars and 0:46:21.040 --> 0:46:21.640 other cards. 0:46:21.680 --> 0:46:23.840 It's been bad. So this is our ho tree segment. 0:46:25.120 --> 0:46:28.560 Car Why why Sicilian is crazy? 0:46:30.080 --> 0:46:33.359 My Sicilian shutin. 0:46:34.080 --> 0:46:38.520 If you go pinstrip power suit you you you might 0:46:38.560 --> 0:46:40.239 have a whole family like ready to. 0:46:40.360 --> 0:46:44.440 Ride for you at any Oh my god, I'm and 0:46:44.480 --> 0:46:46.400 I'm you know it's crazy. 0:46:46.400 --> 0:46:49.640 When I was going through, like my backstory of my caucasianist, 0:46:50.120 --> 0:46:52.640 I wanted my mama to be something cool, like not 0:46:52.800 --> 0:46:56.520 just British. 0:46:56.760 --> 0:46:58.640 She's like, there's some Cherokee in there. But it was 0:46:58.680 --> 0:46:59.160 nothing cool. 0:46:59.200 --> 0:47:07.600 I said on this way to can't make pasta Okay, 0:47:10.920 --> 0:47:13.440 this is our segment where we take rap lyrics and 0:47:13.480 --> 0:47:15.879 we turn them into poetry and you have to guess 0:47:15.880 --> 0:47:17.959 the song. Put me off when you know the song? 0:47:18.160 --> 0:47:22.719 All right, now give me my dub back, Go and 0:47:22.760 --> 0:47:27.920 get your friend. Stupid bitch standing there while I'm drinking 0:47:28.000 --> 0:47:34.000 my hand steady looking at me, still asking questions. Times up, 0:47:34.840 --> 0:47:39.600 Nigga passed me another contestant, Ho move to the left. 0:47:39.960 --> 0:47:45.000 If you ain't about fifty done, talk through three or 0:47:45.040 --> 0:47:48.480 four songs already. I don't know, No you will. 0:47:49.040 --> 0:47:51.719 I'm gonna keep going looking at a nigga with your 0:47:51.800 --> 0:47:55.439 palm out, Bitch, I ain't even seen you dance work 0:47:55.560 --> 0:47:59.920 some baby work something baby pop and pussy on the poll, 0:48:00.480 --> 0:48:04.040 do your thing. Slide down that bitch a little bit, 0:48:04.120 --> 0:48:08.280 then stop, get back on the floor, catch your balance, 0:48:08.360 --> 0:48:09.560 then drop is. 0:48:09.560 --> 0:48:17.399 This bring it back up? I just want to see 0:48:17.440 --> 0:48:18.799 yo ass dirty day. 0:48:22.160 --> 0:48:25.480 Yeah, them boys performing sea World? 0:48:25.640 --> 0:48:27.400 Did you see them at SeaWorld? Like them? 0:48:28.320 --> 0:48:28.879 I would like. 0:48:28.920 --> 0:48:32.960 Them niggas the least SeaWorld line, bro, like animals. The 0:48:33.040 --> 0:48:35.959 animals is suffering. Bro y'at are. 0:48:35.840 --> 0:48:38.600 You serious right now that I wanted to fly to 0:48:38.640 --> 0:48:39.920 San Diego just to be a part of. 0:48:39.920 --> 0:48:41.000 Spring blinging SeaWorld? 0:48:41.040 --> 0:48:44.799 Part of the problem always, would you do the same 0:48:44.840 --> 0:48:47.240 thing these niggas was performing. 0:48:47.320 --> 0:48:50.280 Do you not care about black You don't care about 0:48:50.280 --> 0:48:52.640 black entrepreneurs and artists. 0:48:52.120 --> 0:48:54.080 Making a bad Do you not care about the workers? 0:48:54.920 --> 0:48:57.200 They're not swooping, They're not doing anything for the workers. 0:48:57.239 --> 0:48:59.839 That's why niggas die. This, Why this, why this, why 0:48:59.880 --> 0:49:01.400 my fuckers be trained niggas. 0:49:01.120 --> 0:49:01.680 Make some money. 0:49:01.800 --> 0:49:05.600 What's there was tough and I ain't gonna lie. 0:49:07.880 --> 0:49:11.760 Come on, when abda the sea World there? It doesn't 0:49:11.840 --> 0:49:15.520 have doing it, but they don't have the orca here though. 0:49:16.239 --> 0:49:18.960 Do you see where president is you're doing anything? 0:49:19.040 --> 0:49:23.240 Sorry, you know what's crazy about. 0:49:23.560 --> 0:49:26.120 Because like they and they unked out like they age 0:49:26.200 --> 0:49:27.360 and like the agent. 0:49:28.360 --> 0:49:29.000 You'n't gonna tell you. 0:49:29.080 --> 0:49:32.840 I read for a wedding performances ying Yan Twins, Kate Trenada. 0:49:32.920 --> 0:49:33.600 It did shot it. 0:49:33.840 --> 0:49:36.799 Maybe I just want to be this is gonna be 0:49:36.800 --> 0:49:38.520 problematic how they feel if the. 0:49:38.560 --> 0:49:40.719 Niggas was whispering in your air in two thousand and three, 0:49:41.080 --> 0:49:42.640 it depends which one you would have followed. 0:49:42.760 --> 0:49:44.359 No, No, it depends what you are. 0:49:44.440 --> 0:49:46.080 I was about to say the one with which arm, 0:49:46.200 --> 0:49:47.040 because I was gonna. 0:49:46.840 --> 0:49:48.400 Say we could have said the short one at the 0:49:48.400 --> 0:49:50.720 time and we did not have to start. 0:49:50.480 --> 0:49:54.360 You gonna say it wasn't even c g I that 0:49:54.560 --> 0:49:56.560 arm very well, nigga. 0:49:56.680 --> 0:49:59.360 You couldn't even tell them niggas ain't got he is 0:49:59.400 --> 0:50:00.840 a whole d that global. 0:50:00.920 --> 0:50:01.840 That nigga got one. 0:50:01.680 --> 0:50:06.319 To your Yeah again, which one you with a crack? 0:50:06.760 --> 0:50:06.960 Wait? 0:50:07.000 --> 0:50:09.200 At this point, there's three people famous with the army 0:50:09.360 --> 0:50:11.880 with the arm right, yeah, I with the tall nigga 0:50:11.920 --> 0:50:15.440 with no with both arms. The tall one has she 0:50:15.480 --> 0:50:16.239 has both arms. 0:50:16.719 --> 0:50:19.080 No, no, no, got the missing army. 0:50:19.239 --> 0:50:23.399 The short one? No, Google, she wants to be right 0:50:23.440 --> 0:50:26.040 to that. No, because your. 0:50:27.280 --> 0:50:29.520 Yeah, he got I'm looking. 0:50:29.320 --> 0:50:31.680 Up little little arm. 0:50:31.800 --> 0:50:36.320 I think there's a d trait, you know the park bro. Okay, 0:50:36.520 --> 0:50:38.840 so we got this segment called me waiting and bite. 0:50:38.920 --> 0:50:41.399 They both got long arms in these pictures. Now seeing 0:50:41.400 --> 0:50:44.319 the little nigga be hot in his arm. Look, the 0:50:44.360 --> 0:50:46.319 tall one has both arms very long. 0:50:46.560 --> 0:50:48.560 Is the tower one? Where's the tower one arm position 0:50:48.640 --> 0:50:49.239 behind the other? 0:50:49.480 --> 0:50:52.319 No, no, both of his arms are right here, the 0:50:52.400 --> 0:50:54.200 little one arm behind. 0:50:54.800 --> 0:50:59.200 Where are you from? Where are you from? Which one 0:50:59.280 --> 0:51:01.120 of the twins got the short arm? 0:51:03.080 --> 0:51:05.240 How thirty? 0:51:07.120 --> 0:51:11.480 Let's come up with the arm got pyramids? So we 0:51:11.520 --> 0:51:13.360 gotta we listen and we judge. 0:51:13.719 --> 0:51:16.480 I should be like an our hour. Okay, I would 0:51:16.520 --> 0:51:17.160 fuck the time. 0:51:17.200 --> 0:51:17.960 With the little arm. 0:51:18.239 --> 0:51:24.799 So oh look at like come on we were talking 0:51:24.800 --> 0:51:27.839 about so you can you could judge me ugly. 0:51:27.880 --> 0:51:32.560 Niggas can take if you do a game bat the 0:51:32.640 --> 0:51:34.120 niggas gonna be a lead game. 0:51:35.040 --> 0:51:35.279 Ugly. 0:51:35.360 --> 0:51:38.719 I don't want to save a big because there's a 0:51:38.880 --> 0:51:39.600 charity at. 0:51:39.440 --> 0:51:44.120 That pointil likely. 0:51:46.400 --> 0:51:48.919 Money really takes over all. Okay, were listening, Ea, judge, 0:51:48.960 --> 0:51:51.360 let's get to this. So it's one of our favorite 0:51:51.360 --> 0:51:54.399 segments because when you share a piece of gossip your 0:51:54.440 --> 0:51:58.000 friend group and we're gonna listen and judge. So any 0:51:58.000 --> 0:52:00.319 of your niggas called you, lady all home girl told 0:52:00.320 --> 0:52:02.360 you some bullshit and you would like to bring it 0:52:02.360 --> 0:52:03.560 to the table to judge. 0:52:03.280 --> 0:52:06.560 Today, No, nigga's not comed with Now if. 0:52:06.400 --> 0:52:08.839 You don't have any we have three celebrities you could 0:52:08.920 --> 0:52:10.080 choose to judge today, all. 0:52:10.080 --> 0:52:11.359 Right, been I'm down for that. 0:52:11.480 --> 0:52:15.319 She was from off set, Cardi B or Halle Berry. 0:52:15.400 --> 0:52:17.319 I feel like two of them were part of going 0:52:17.440 --> 0:52:18.000 Halley Bearry. 0:52:18.760 --> 0:52:22.040 Okay, you really judging her because she ain't clean clean? 0:52:22.080 --> 0:52:24.879 What way are we not up to date? You would 0:52:24.880 --> 0:52:25.640 TikTok niggas. 0:52:25.880 --> 0:52:27.520 So that's Carston girl. 0:52:27.840 --> 0:52:28.160 Okay. 0:52:28.200 --> 0:52:31.360 So halle Berry's ex husband, the MLB player, the one Dustin. 0:52:31.719 --> 0:52:34.080 This came out like a month and a half, like 0:52:34.120 --> 0:52:34.800 two months ago. 0:52:35.280 --> 0:52:38.160 So basically he said that halle Berry wasn't cleaning and cooking. 0:52:38.320 --> 0:52:41.239 So she halle Berry by the time she was seeing 0:52:41.239 --> 0:52:43.640 her titties and swartfish niggas she want to have to do ship. 0:52:43.840 --> 0:52:46.720 I felt the same, right, nigga? 0:52:46.960 --> 0:52:48.280 You talking about what's allie? 0:52:48.320 --> 0:52:50.479 So we're judging Halle because she wasn't cleaning the cookie. 0:52:50.520 --> 0:52:52.759 What you're judging Halle for talking about her pussy on 0:52:52.760 --> 0:52:53.120 the internet? 0:52:53.440 --> 0:52:56.040 Probably? Uh running dish Run. 0:52:59.200 --> 0:53:01.960 Was Kaitlyn Jenner. I'm judging Halley. 0:53:02.200 --> 0:53:07.960 His three I think Halley Caitlin and I'm judging. 0:53:08.200 --> 0:53:10.120 I'm judging Halle because. 0:53:09.960 --> 0:53:12.640 I'm judging Halle for fucking here Billy Bob Thorton. 0:53:13.040 --> 0:53:19.160 That's crazy. She was okay crazy, really didn't even want orbitch. 0:53:19.800 --> 0:53:23.239 I would know he's white. Yeah, you better him for 0:53:23.239 --> 0:53:25.799 one of the white woman candle clothes over white woman. 0:53:25.840 --> 0:53:26.440 And now you want to. 0:53:27.040 --> 0:53:31.880 Over imagine you Ryan Billibo and you got kissing in 0:53:31.880 --> 0:53:34.239 the mouth and the mouth for the deal you talking about? 0:53:34.320 --> 0:53:35.200 Yeah, you're gonna be married. 0:53:36.520 --> 0:53:38.640 Whose mouth is worse? So if we're talking about them 0:53:38.640 --> 0:53:40.520 two niggas, that is a fair. 0:53:40.640 --> 0:53:46.160 Who Bill the nigga from you? 0:53:46.239 --> 0:53:46.359 Na? 0:53:46.480 --> 0:53:50.759 That's both ill mouth right there? 0:53:51.320 --> 0:53:52.400 Yeah nasty. 0:53:53.360 --> 0:53:56.640 I am judging Halle Berry for something that was just 0:53:56.640 --> 0:53:58.960 brought to my attention, and I feel like it is 0:53:59.000 --> 0:54:03.600 completely wrong. So when first off, I'm judging her for 0:54:03.640 --> 0:54:06.560 two things. The first thing is she was dating this 0:54:06.560 --> 0:54:09.200 this nigga who was an MLB player. Five months into 0:54:09.239 --> 0:54:11.759 the relationship, she told him to propose to her. So 0:54:11.800 --> 0:54:14.920 I'm judging her for that telling a nigga five months 0:54:14.920 --> 0:54:18.120 and you gotta marry me and this nigga like a dummy. 0:54:19.719 --> 0:54:21.799 I'm judging he was worth how much back there? 0:54:22.160 --> 0:54:24.759 Yeah, he was worth a lot. 0:54:26.680 --> 0:54:26.919 Judge. 0:54:29.040 --> 0:54:31.720 If I'm in the mL I'm gonna have my lawyers 0:54:31.760 --> 0:54:33.760 like make sure we good and I'm married. 0:54:34.120 --> 0:54:34.520 I think. 0:54:37.360 --> 0:54:38.440 You're her for saying that. 0:54:38.480 --> 0:54:40.760 I'm judging her for five months in telling the nigga 0:54:40.800 --> 0:54:43.000 to marry you because have some fuck Cooper. 0:54:42.800 --> 0:54:43.879 Didn't you Jo? 0:54:44.200 --> 0:54:46.720 He did? 0:54:47.280 --> 0:54:48.400 So they do cancel judgment. 0:54:48.840 --> 0:54:49.759 Okay, she said. 0:54:51.960 --> 0:54:54.200 The second thing I'm judging her for is very problematic, 0:54:55.239 --> 0:54:57.560 and you bitch just gotta get better with this ship. 0:54:57.760 --> 0:55:01.520 So in the same interview, he let it be known 0:55:01.880 --> 0:55:06.120 that she went on a press run after they broke up. 0:55:06.239 --> 0:55:10.279 Mind you, they divorced, they got separated. She went on 0:55:10.320 --> 0:55:14.680 a whole run talking about being abused in a previous relationship, 0:55:15.400 --> 0:55:17.600 and she allowed the narrative to be pushed that it 0:55:17.640 --> 0:55:20.200 was him, when in fact, it was a whole nother Echola, 0:55:23.080 --> 0:55:25.600 she did not clear it up that it wasn't him 0:55:26.040 --> 0:55:28.600 that she was talking about, and he's like, did we 0:55:28.640 --> 0:55:32.439 ever find out that it wasn't him? But he said 0:55:32.480 --> 0:55:34.839 in this interview, he was like, she had a whole 0:55:34.840 --> 0:55:35.960 machine behind him. 0:55:36.280 --> 0:55:38.560 And what sucks about it is what was I supposed 0:55:38.560 --> 0:55:42.120 to do? Say it ate me? When literally the narrative is. 0:55:42.120 --> 0:55:44.360 That she was talking about a previous relationship, but this 0:55:44.480 --> 0:55:47.040 was literally right on the heels of them. 0:55:46.960 --> 0:55:48.680 Ending their relationship, real ship. How do we know it 0:55:48.719 --> 0:55:49.120 wasn't him? 0:55:49.239 --> 0:55:51.680 It wasn't him, like literally it was because he said 0:55:51.680 --> 0:55:53.040 it was confirmed it was a whole other actor? 0:55:53.280 --> 0:55:55.080 Was it was another actor? 0:55:55.480 --> 0:55:58.640 Because she said she considered she considered suicide because of 0:55:58.640 --> 0:55:59.839 this abusive relationship. 0:56:00.040 --> 0:56:02.560 Okay, but look a whole person. 0:56:02.640 --> 0:56:04.200 And I don't know if it's like the right way 0:56:04.239 --> 0:56:07.160 to approach the conversation. Let's do but like, if you're 0:56:07.200 --> 0:56:09.200 gonna call somebody off of being abusive, you need to 0:56:09.200 --> 0:56:09.440 put a. 0:56:09.440 --> 0:56:10.880 Nice put a name on the bullet. 0:56:10.920 --> 0:56:13.440 Which is why I'm judging her because she allowed the 0:56:13.520 --> 0:56:14.719 narrative to carry on. 0:56:14.760 --> 0:56:17.160 There is this guy the apprehension that come with because 0:56:17.239 --> 0:56:19.799 I mean, if motherfucker was abusive kind of But if 0:56:19.840 --> 0:56:21.239 you're going out there, behave you kind of. 0:56:21.200 --> 0:56:22.160 Out there, I'm not gonna lie. 0:56:22.160 --> 0:56:24.399 I'll bring it here because it's a couple of years old. Now. 0:56:24.800 --> 0:56:27.759 I got in trouble quote unquote a little bit. 0:56:28.760 --> 0:56:31.000 Oh, and I've onably believed the name only because I 0:56:31.000 --> 0:56:33.600 still be around people and stuff that know her. But 0:56:34.280 --> 0:56:38.680 when Lato was promoting her seven seven seven album, she 0:56:38.800 --> 0:56:41.719 went on almost a press front talking about how she 0:56:42.120 --> 0:56:46.080 didn't almost get a Verse cleared because there was a 0:56:46.080 --> 0:56:48.720 certain nigga on the album that was trying to advance. 0:56:49.000 --> 0:56:50.719 When she was saying it was Kodak, she. 0:56:50.719 --> 0:56:55.200 Didn't say anything. The narrative was that it was Kodak 0:56:56.760 --> 0:56:59.839 from my back end and my knowledge, I heard through 0:56:59.880 --> 0:57:00.800 the grape vine. 0:57:00.560 --> 0:57:02.319 That it was Wayne and Boy. 0:57:02.360 --> 0:57:04.040 When I said that on my podcast, the one that 0:57:04.040 --> 0:57:07.560 no longer exists, it was like I got all these 0:57:07.600 --> 0:57:10.359 messages and so that was my problem. I was like, 0:57:10.480 --> 0:57:13.080 as much as I support Lotto, I love her, I'm 0:57:13.080 --> 0:57:15.120 a lot of stand love her music. Thinks she's fucking 0:57:15.120 --> 0:57:17.360 bad as fuck, love everything she's doing as an artist. 0:57:17.640 --> 0:57:19.720 I felt like, as a woman, you shouldn't be in 0:57:19.720 --> 0:57:22.080 a place to allow a narrative to go around about 0:57:22.080 --> 0:57:26.600 a man that isn't the perpetrator of this crime mine. 0:57:26.800 --> 0:57:29.280 Then Kodak reposted saying that I was like, I told 0:57:29.360 --> 0:57:31.840 y'all it wasn't me, And I was just like, as women, 0:57:32.240 --> 0:57:34.960 we had to be in a place where we understand 0:57:34.960 --> 0:57:38.440 that niggas's monsters out here and that niggas do bullshit, right, 0:57:38.480 --> 0:57:43.560 But if we're gonna speak about the bullshit that happens anywhere, that's. 0:57:43.360 --> 0:57:43.880 A little thing. 0:57:44.040 --> 0:57:46.800 Even if we're saying that I talk about a brutal 0:57:46.840 --> 0:57:49.440 and violent crape in the book from an Atlanta rapper, 0:57:49.560 --> 0:57:50.520 should I put his. 0:57:50.600 --> 0:57:51.080 Name on it? 0:57:51.600 --> 0:57:54.000 I mean to me, you had the conversation with Charlemagne 0:57:54.000 --> 0:57:55.480 where you were like, you were like. 0:57:55.560 --> 0:58:00.600 Do I say, okay, this is where I can find 0:58:00.600 --> 0:58:03.400 some middle ground in it. If you don't want to 0:58:03.400 --> 0:58:06.400 expouse y'all user name out of like fear that, okay, 0:58:06.600 --> 0:58:09.080 you shouldn't. You know what I'm saying. I think speaking 0:58:09.080 --> 0:58:12.280 to your experience kind of freeze other people to be 0:58:12.320 --> 0:58:14.640 able to speak about their experience. I think if a 0:58:14.760 --> 0:58:16.960 name get attached to it, who it ain't, it's your 0:58:17.080 --> 0:58:18.640 responsibility to agree with that. 0:58:18.680 --> 0:58:20.960 I think if yeah, I agree with you, like if 0:58:21.000 --> 0:58:24.760 you should have the man. 0:58:25.160 --> 0:58:30.280 Said, I've got to say six crimes is like Scarlett Letter, Yeah, 0:58:30.440 --> 0:58:32.520 I can't get around it. So, like I would say, 0:58:32.840 --> 0:58:35.400 if you don't want to expoil the person name, but 0:58:35.480 --> 0:58:36.840 another name to get attached. 0:58:36.560 --> 0:58:39.080 To it, who you can't the person? You think that 0:58:39.120 --> 0:58:41.440 women have to be able to talk about something that happened, 0:58:41.480 --> 0:58:44.680 but also say not only women ment to period. 0:58:45.600 --> 0:58:47.880 Really well, I'm only saying that because there's a lot 0:58:47.920 --> 0:58:50.200 of things being attached right now to Tyler Perry and 0:58:50.240 --> 0:58:52.160 people are like, but it's not Tyler Perry someone else. 0:58:52.400 --> 0:58:54.680 Like the same too with men. If there's a sexual 0:58:54.680 --> 0:58:56.480 assault that's gonna come out and you're. 0:58:56.280 --> 0:58:58.080 Going to give enough details to where it could be 0:58:58.080 --> 0:59:02.760 attached to anybody, and public perception connects it to someone 0:59:02.840 --> 0:59:04.760 that it's not, you have to be able to absolve 0:59:04.840 --> 0:59:05.240 that person. 0:59:05.280 --> 0:59:07.120 That is not if you're talking about somebody else. 0:59:07.160 --> 0:59:08.760 You don't even have to and you don't have to 0:59:08.760 --> 0:59:11.160 do that. You don't have to like say it wasn't 0:59:11.160 --> 0:59:13.600 this person, it was that person. You would be like, hey, respectfully, 0:59:13.680 --> 0:59:14.400 that person. 0:59:14.160 --> 0:59:14.920 Had nothing to do with me. 0:59:15.040 --> 0:59:18.000 Yeah, and that's it, Because like I spoke about being 0:59:18.040 --> 0:59:20.640 molested when I was younger about a woman that was 0:59:20.960 --> 0:59:23.960 close to my family. And if somebody would have put 0:59:23.960 --> 0:59:25.880 a name on somebody in my family and it wasn't, 0:59:25.880 --> 0:59:26.680 then I'd have been. 0:59:26.560 --> 0:59:28.439 Like, respectfully that person. 0:59:28.520 --> 0:59:29.960 I don't mean I got to expose to it is 0:59:30.000 --> 0:59:34.000 because the thing is too like to speak about an experience. 0:59:34.600 --> 0:59:35.560 It free you up. 0:59:35.480 --> 0:59:37.479 Too, because that shit just ain't sitting in your head 0:59:37.480 --> 0:59:40.120 out on my fucking day, or like dictating your actions 0:59:40.120 --> 0:59:42.840 and emotions, and step one is acknowledging shit so you 0:59:42.840 --> 0:59:43.680 can get past it. 0:59:43.760 --> 0:59:45.240 And also with a public player. 0:59:45.160 --> 0:59:47.840 I can't say like you got to put a name 0:59:47.880 --> 0:59:48.400 on the only thing. 0:59:48.520 --> 0:59:50.680 And the reason I wanted to bring up Rappers is 0:59:50.720 --> 0:59:53.520 because I think it happen when I was nineteen, That's 0:59:53.520 --> 0:59:56.200 when he was famous. So in my head, I'm like, oh, 0:59:56.240 --> 0:59:59.120 this is totally connected to like why the person I 0:59:59.200 --> 1:00:00.680 ran down in the hotel, I'm an ask for help 1:00:00.680 --> 1:00:03.000 and they didn't do anything. It's all connected to this, 1:00:03.120 --> 1:00:05.680 same to money to maybe me not saying anything. 1:00:05.680 --> 1:00:08.160 That power is what we see what the did, and. 1:00:08.120 --> 1:00:10.720 So like my things like to that point, I don't 1:00:10.720 --> 1:00:12.240 think you got to put a name on the bullet 1:00:12.280 --> 1:00:14.640 I just think you can't allow somebody name to be 1:00:14.720 --> 1:00:17.040 put on that bitch if they ain't happen to do it. 1:00:17.320 --> 1:00:19.360 I mean, how you doing that? That was her being 1:00:19.400 --> 1:00:21.280 petty if he didn't, If it wasn't him, you probably 1:00:21.280 --> 1:00:22.040 would on. 1:00:22.080 --> 1:00:24.160 Some ship like the nigga played me or whatever the 1:00:24.160 --> 1:00:26.200 case may be. He got down like I got to 1:00:26.200 --> 1:00:28.160 get down with halle Berry married like my. 1:00:30.480 --> 1:00:32.240 We don't have much so but I do want to 1:00:32.240 --> 1:00:34.280 get a little deep, do you no? 1:00:34.840 --> 1:00:36.840 We we know we can. 1:00:36.880 --> 1:00:39.440 I ask you a question, as a man who has 1:00:39.480 --> 1:00:43.200 had that experience of sexual assault, did you ever tell 1:00:43.240 --> 1:00:45.880 anyone the woman like did you ever feel like you 1:00:45.960 --> 1:00:46.880 are out there? 1:00:47.320 --> 1:00:49.760 I told my dad and then I told my aunt. 1:00:49.880 --> 1:00:51.880 You know what was the response did she? 1:00:52.080 --> 1:00:54.240 I mean they was distraught about the ship. But it's 1:00:54.360 --> 1:00:59.919 like that person, that person the place where I came. 1:01:00.040 --> 1:01:02.520 So it was like I kind of did some digging 1:01:02.560 --> 1:01:04.880 and asking around and I found out that shit had. 1:01:04.720 --> 1:01:06.800 Happened to her previously. 1:01:07.160 --> 1:01:09.240 Yeah, but it happened to r Kelly too, and we 1:01:09.280 --> 1:01:09.520 don't know. 1:01:10.080 --> 1:01:10.920 I'm not absolving her. 1:01:10.960 --> 1:01:12.560 I'm just saying, like I had, I got to a 1:01:12.560 --> 1:01:14.360 place where I had empathy for the situation. 1:01:14.520 --> 1:01:16.800 Okay, and it's like we're both kids. You feel me, so, like, 1:01:17.080 --> 1:01:20.520 how old were you? I was eight? She was twelve 1:01:20.640 --> 1:01:21.040 or thirteen? 1:01:21.120 --> 1:01:22.800 And when did you tell your parents shit? 1:01:22.880 --> 1:01:27.320 When I was grown? Oh yeah, my mama passed. My 1:01:27.360 --> 1:01:29.160 MoMA ain't never know, but my dad. 1:01:29.200 --> 1:01:30.920 I told my parts you know what I'm saying, and 1:01:30.960 --> 1:01:33.720 then I told my auntsie, and then of course I 1:01:33.720 --> 1:01:35.520 talked about it on the podcast, and that's when my 1:01:35.520 --> 1:01:37.280 auntie caught me, like, bro, what happened? 1:01:37.320 --> 1:01:37.760 Type shit? 1:01:37.960 --> 1:01:39.680 I'm not thinking about it, but I'm freed up because 1:01:39.680 --> 1:01:41.880 I didn't tell my daddy. So like, that's the person 1:01:41.880 --> 1:01:44.200 who really mattered the most. It's my family. He know 1:01:44.280 --> 1:01:47.320 the person. So it's like for me, it's not important 1:01:47.360 --> 1:01:49.080 to put a name because I also know what that 1:01:49.160 --> 1:01:51.280 person life looks like right now they're going through. 1:01:51.360 --> 1:01:52.600 Do you know? That's what I put at the end 1:01:52.600 --> 1:01:54.600 of my chappin what I was like. 1:01:55.080 --> 1:01:57.400 At first, I was feeling bad, ohah blah blah blah, 1:01:57.400 --> 1:01:58.440 but at the end of the day, only one of 1:01:58.480 --> 1:01:58.880 us on top. 1:01:59.000 --> 1:02:01.240 Right now, it's something about out and I hate that. 1:02:01.320 --> 1:02:06.040 I felt vindicated, validated through it, but it's not ingranted 1:02:06.080 --> 1:02:07.000 even if he wasn't. 1:02:07.080 --> 1:02:09.240 I don't think their personal Oh no, low. 1:02:09.160 --> 1:02:12.240 So they're like, this ain't that man, but he definitely, 1:02:12.880 --> 1:02:13.960 you know, he ain't that. 1:02:14.640 --> 1:02:17.400 Now what I did feel because I was thinking, if 1:02:17.400 --> 1:02:19.640 you had money, would I feel? I actually think it 1:02:19.640 --> 1:02:21.320 would be harder to tell the story because all I 1:02:21.320 --> 1:02:23.160 would think is people would think I want money. 1:02:23.440 --> 1:02:23.640 Yeah. 1:02:23.720 --> 1:02:28.280 It's about women get in too, because it's like, oh, 1:02:28.320 --> 1:02:30.040 you're just trying to take down the power for a nigga. 1:02:30.080 --> 1:02:32.080 Oh you're just trying to get some money or woo. 1:02:32.360 --> 1:02:35.280 But then it's like if the nigga done fell off, 1:02:35.600 --> 1:02:37.320 then it'd become a thing of like why you ain't 1:02:37.320 --> 1:02:37.880 say nahing. 1:02:37.760 --> 1:02:39.240 When it was this and that? Why you ain't said it? 1:02:39.320 --> 1:02:42.240 So like you damn don't yeah all the time? 1:02:42.560 --> 1:02:46.400 Like I think also too, it's like this victim blaming 1:02:46.480 --> 1:02:49.400 ship of like we're gonna judge the person that the 1:02:49.440 --> 1:02:53.600 other person instead of like inquiring about like the person 1:02:53.680 --> 1:02:56.920 that's being accused of it, Like, nah, absolve yourself for this, bro, 1:02:57.080 --> 1:02:59.080 because what you got the. 1:02:59.000 --> 1:03:02.040 Way that the internet has, we are never going I'm 1:03:02.040 --> 1:03:03.920 telling you, it's so hard for women to say something. 1:03:03.960 --> 1:03:06.680 I contemplated so much like people think I'm trying to 1:03:06.680 --> 1:03:07.840 sell a book because I talked about this. 1:03:08.040 --> 1:03:10.400 Nigga, like, what is it? But in reality, it's. 1:03:10.680 --> 1:03:12.120 Funish our life and your experience. 1:03:12.160 --> 1:03:12.280 Bro. 1:03:12.360 --> 1:03:15.640 It's like, first of all, too like niggas ain't trying 1:03:15.640 --> 1:03:18.080 to monetize off that for real. Like, but if we 1:03:18.280 --> 1:03:20.560 talking and were keeping it real, the name of the book, 1:03:20.640 --> 1:03:22.600 no hoss bar. So it's like I'm gonna keep it 1:03:22.640 --> 1:03:24.840 really about my experience I saw too. It's like with 1:03:24.920 --> 1:03:28.040 a platform, there's people out here that need to. 1:03:28.040 --> 1:03:28.920 Feel seen in me. 1:03:29.200 --> 1:03:32.960 They need voices, they need even if they can't express 1:03:33.000 --> 1:03:35.640 it outwardly, at least they know they not alone. And 1:03:35.640 --> 1:03:38.200 the ship because oftentimes when we go through like real 1:03:38.280 --> 1:03:40.680 traumatic experiences, we think we're the only person that been 1:03:40.720 --> 1:03:42.680 through it, even if we don't, even if we know 1:03:42.760 --> 1:03:45.720 we not, it's still feel because you can't tell nobody 1:03:45.800 --> 1:03:48.160 around you. And so like when I came out and 1:03:48.240 --> 1:03:50.960 was vocal about my situation, the amount of men that 1:03:51.120 --> 1:03:53.880 just came out with their stories and like was expressive 1:03:53.920 --> 1:03:54.240 about it. 1:03:54.280 --> 1:03:55.840 Women, you know what I'm saying. But a lot of 1:03:55.880 --> 1:03:57.120 niggas was freed up, so we. 1:03:57.080 --> 1:04:01.160 Don't hear about men's stories. Man. That's how you become 1:04:01.200 --> 1:04:05.400 a man, I supposed to tell you happy. I think. 1:04:05.480 --> 1:04:07.280 I think the sentiment that people need to take away 1:04:07.320 --> 1:04:08.560 is that children aren't safe. 1:04:09.000 --> 1:04:11.040 Your children, children children. 1:04:10.840 --> 1:04:12.800 Not a man and woman think. It's not a boy girl. 1:04:12.560 --> 1:04:15.160 Thing manifest into a man and woman thing when these 1:04:15.240 --> 1:04:16.080 children grow up. 1:04:16.560 --> 1:04:20.040 So, like I had expressed, like the person, the person 1:04:20.120 --> 1:04:22.880 who goes to a traumatic experience either traumatized somebody else 1:04:22.960 --> 1:04:26.200 or they further traumatize themselves. So like, you don't know 1:04:26.200 --> 1:04:29.000 what's rop that ship gonna take. So by being honest 1:04:29.040 --> 1:04:30.920 and like advocating for these kids and believe in the 1:04:31.000 --> 1:04:33.360 kid when they say something, instead of trying to protect 1:04:33.400 --> 1:04:35.840 these adults ship, we could in the. 1:04:35.760 --> 1:04:37.960 Cycle of that does be very clear. These adults know 1:04:38.160 --> 1:04:39.000 right from motherfucker. 1:04:43.200 --> 1:04:45.720 Nah, for sure, she knew better, she knew better. But 1:04:45.920 --> 1:04:48.080 at the same time, it's like ship, that ship fucked 1:04:48.080 --> 1:04:50.400 my whole brain up, ain't well. 1:04:50.520 --> 1:04:54.360 I hate to cut this conversation short, but you're gonna 1:04:54.400 --> 1:04:57.280 join us for you got decision boom, and I got 1:04:57.280 --> 1:04:58.040 a good one for you too. 1:04:58.400 --> 1:05:01.200 Excited it's about a CEO fucking with an inmate. 1:05:04.640 --> 1:05:08.000 We're going y'all if you have it, Yeah, make sure 1:05:08.040 --> 1:05:10.240 you check out that you got decisions, But y'all. 1:05:10.040 --> 1:05:12.400 They tell people where they can follow you, support you, 1:05:12.440 --> 1:05:13.800 and listen to more of your takes. 1:05:14.160 --> 1:05:18.240 The Grist Podcast on YouTube and Patreon, Deontay dot Kyle 1:05:18.320 --> 1:05:22.840 on Instagram and TikTok, Big Ice Cup Cat, My Dog curiods. 1:05:24.120 --> 1:05:25.560 If we knew he was coming, we would put you 1:05:25.560 --> 1:05:28.160 on a mic to at this point, we're gonna have 1:05:28.200 --> 1:05:28.640 to have a part. 1:05:30.880 --> 1:05:32.120 We're gonna have to have a part too with you. 1:05:33.080 --> 1:05:35.000 All right, Well, y'all, thank y'all so very much for 1:05:35.040 --> 1:05:37.120 listening to another episode. 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