Speaker 1: Welcome to Decisions Decisions. I don't think you should say
Speaker 1: decision decisions. It sounded like you was talking to Kirsten.
Speaker 2: You definitely say to welcome, welcome to the new podcast.
Speaker 2: You want to say together Decisions Decisions.
Speaker 3: Hey guys, welcome to another episode of Decisions Decisions. Now, y'all,
Speaker 3: if you are in the South, this is gonna be
Speaker 3: a litle Southern episode. But just so you know, let
Speaker 3: me go ahead and get it started because I have
Speaker 3: been missed. What's it called geographicize? Okay, giographicize? Okay, it's
Speaker 3: your girl man d v A ka dat bitch from
Speaker 3: the Fall seven Chappa City Block.
Speaker 1: I don't get a book.
Speaker 4: This is normal intros, really embarrassing, gyuess it is.
Speaker 2: Anybody's only going one way.
Speaker 3: Okay, by the way, let me tell you actually I
Speaker 3: brought up where I was from, but my my real
Speaker 3: introduction is that it's your girl Mandy b a k
Speaker 3: A Peg the Stallion aka Pagan Marcle aka Peggy Bundy.
Speaker 1: Okay that.
Speaker 2: You hear another voice today. It's gonna be loud, it's
Speaker 2: gonna be disruptive. Just remember when you're in the comments
Speaker 2: saying where are supposed to it from him. We have
Speaker 2: conversational pots. Okay, my name is Weezy, your background decision decisions.
Speaker 2: And since we do bios, now, holy.
Speaker 1: Weezy does that bile.
Speaker 3: So I'm gonna let the way I do a ka's
Speaker 3: Wheezy gives like these thoughtful bios.
Speaker 1: So you don't have a thoughtful bio's real quick.
Speaker 2: So we have Dehontae Kyle, host creator of the Grits
Speaker 2: and Eggs podcast Not the Restaurant, a platform committed to
Speaker 2: addressing the mess we like to sweep under the rug
Speaker 2: in the black community and providing raw without a condom
Speaker 2: and nuance to our plight and experiences in the country,
Speaker 2: both socially and politically.
Speaker 5: AKA Pagan Marc Nigga.
Speaker 1: Time ship is crazy? Are you a no?
Speaker 5: Stop using that?
Speaker 1: Are you a y am?
Speaker 5: Can you say nigga?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 6: But young niggas wyan Yeah absolutely because because because the
Speaker 6: ten years, if we just abbreviated, then niggas that can't
Speaker 6: say nigga will say why that's like you call me
Speaker 6: a nigga without calling this was like.
Speaker 1: Don't diminish I'm not gonna lie it.
Speaker 7: Is it's still don't diminish them because you know, use
Speaker 7: the y ship like a super PREDI right now.
Speaker 2: People, I don't like That's why I didn't know that,
Speaker 2: But I don't know why people like I didn't know why.
Speaker 5: People like that neither.
Speaker 7: But I'm telling you on TikTok and like Instagram and
Speaker 7: like social media, how.
Speaker 5: They got down.
Speaker 1: I don't like that in some of the titles of
Speaker 1: the rappers names no no, like.
Speaker 5: Yeah, that's that's.
Speaker 1: Something that's like gangs ship.
Speaker 7: The whole ship comes from. Like you know, they will
Speaker 7: take anything down. So like when you we used to
Speaker 7: use the nin and now when you use that take
Speaker 7: comment down to start saying no, I.
Speaker 5: Can't be corrected sammarized in the chat.
Speaker 7: So like now if some went to start saying why
Speaker 7: instead of saying young nigga, and then you know, white
Speaker 7: folk just takes it around.
Speaker 3: With yes the same way we gotta say great now
Speaker 3: all from TikTok.
Speaker 1: You know what I can't say un all that it's
Speaker 1: not fun. You know what I'm like, I'm gonna kill myself.
Speaker 1: I'm gonnay alive. I want to have the drum.
Speaker 5: Ye, the drama got a state.
Speaker 1: Of well, I ain't gonna hold you. I wish TikTok
Speaker 1: would stop allowing people.
Speaker 3: I know that like the resists, the women like get
Speaker 3: their ship off. They be embarrassing themselves so much like
Speaker 3: I don't found myself down the rabbit hole of like.
Speaker 1: Women admitting to the bullshit men that they like along time.
Speaker 3: It makes the hot girls go down one thousand points.
Speaker 7: To understand too, like we need people to it's those
Speaker 7: stupidity so we know what not to do.
Speaker 1: Okay, So then you're all you're all down for the tapp.
Speaker 5: Yeah, hell you're no. I don't know nothing about it.
Speaker 5: I'll be hearing about it.
Speaker 1: But see what it looks like.
Speaker 5: Listen, Yeah, wait, can.
Speaker 1: We see if he's on there?
Speaker 5: Okay, you don't know that clean?
Speaker 1: Hold no, look him up. I we we got we
Speaker 1: got your government name too.
Speaker 7: You say what I'm we have your name?
Speaker 1: Wait, we got to start doing this.
Speaker 2: All the men that come on the pot, we gotta
Speaker 2: see if they get Oh he fine, bitch, I would
Speaker 2: want to talk to him.
Speaker 5: Hold on, wait skip see that? How how women you got? You?
Speaker 1: Wait? Type his last name? You got his full name?
Speaker 2: No bit, because the niggas didn't putting the last name.
Speaker 2: Hold on, but see this is a young girl's game.
Speaker 1: How old are you?
Speaker 2: No, you would be on here sixty nine red flags
Speaker 2: for another deonta lord. I say, as a red flag name,
Speaker 2: I ain't gonna hold you it is you got the.
Speaker 1: Shot.
Speaker 5: It is by me. Man. I'm very honest, so I
Speaker 5: won't get caught up and ship like that.
Speaker 1: But you being honest.
Speaker 3: And I say that all the time, like people have
Speaker 3: been trying to correct me, like I actually now. I
Speaker 3: went out with my my good friend the other night
Speaker 3: and I let him know, like I'm just gonna let
Speaker 3: niggas know when everyone's in the room, like whether I
Speaker 3: talk to them or not, and he actually let me know.
Speaker 3: He was like, oh no, you gotta stop doing that.
Speaker 3: And I was like, well, why I'm being honest with
Speaker 3: everyone and he was like.
Speaker 5: Well, they's timing a place for that ship.
Speaker 1: So so that's what you got ship. No, No, no, no, wait, wait,
Speaker 1: let me finish.
Speaker 2: Let me so I invite them like like when I
Speaker 2: was in l A, I booked.
Speaker 5: A combatting man. Niggas you done in the same spot.
Speaker 1: Because I'm a bottle.
Speaker 3: If a bottle nigga, y'all want a bottle, y'all want
Speaker 3: to eat, It's all meant no because all my friends
Speaker 3: are there, so it's just like to me though, I
Speaker 3: like hanging out also with my niggas, but my friends
Speaker 3: are all there, so you're meeting my friends. That's why
Speaker 3: I don't think meeting friends means anything. So anyways, I
Speaker 3: had a cabana. Whenever I go to l A, I
Speaker 3: have to do breakfast, lunch, dinner in between recordings with people.
Speaker 3: It's too much. So last time I was there, I
Speaker 3: booked a cabana at Bob. I told everyone, show up,
Speaker 3: it's on me, food, drinks, whatever, and I ended up
Speaker 3: inviting three of the niggas.
Speaker 1: Two of them showed up.
Speaker 2: Didn't expect I thought only one of the three cause
Speaker 2: nigga thought really be showing up.
Speaker 1: Two or the three showed up and then they just
Speaker 1: played it out.
Speaker 5: Play it, you know.
Speaker 1: No.
Speaker 3: I told my friend that I did this and he
Speaker 3: actually was like not so what men don't do is
Speaker 3: express their ego. And he said, if you invite a
Speaker 3: nigga that really likes you, And this is where I was.
Speaker 1: Like, maybe I do it real lame niggas because he said, nah,
Speaker 1: now niggas catch the face and might go pop up
Speaker 1: like he was making it seem like ship ghetto.
Speaker 2: It was.
Speaker 5: Like, I'm not doing that. It's like, but let's have the.
Speaker 1: Girl up a lifetime.
Speaker 2: What you were just saying though when she said the
Speaker 2: first comment about you, were like, don't tell me. Now,
Speaker 2: let's just say we dated, not like maybe we're not
Speaker 2: boyfriend girlfriend yet, but we fucking now we.
Speaker 1: Had the rock point, right, so now we at the
Speaker 1: wrong point. You get buried. Don't have it roten.
Speaker 2: I'm just fucking well, you get to a point, not.
Speaker 1: A god, you're going real. You gotta did you just
Speaker 1: say condom stop?
Speaker 5: Yeah? Like ship.
Speaker 1: You y'all don't think it's fucking for real with a condom.
Speaker 1: It is fucking I'm talking about fucking with someone like
Speaker 1: y'all vacation.
Speaker 7: Okay, So like just some little quick like hitt and
Speaker 7: quit or like our first links and ship like that.
Speaker 3: I understand when do you take the condom off when
Speaker 3: you fucking somebody?
Speaker 5: When I started considering cutting other holes, that's.
Speaker 1: A good rule. I'm not mad at that.
Speaker 5: Yeah, okay, considering like, okay, we're locked in tight ship.
Speaker 2: So we're at that point the cons off sixty days
Speaker 2: then maybe I met your mam, maybe you been mind
Speaker 2: going to face sixty.
Speaker 1: Me, My mama is crazy. That's crazy.
Speaker 5: The process you might mean.
Speaker 1: Changes.
Speaker 5: Okay, so we get to.
Speaker 1: A spot I sucked the nigga there.
Speaker 7: You don't want to know, not, Okay, I'm gonna I'm
Speaker 7: gonna tell you. I'm gonna tell you how these gotta go.
Speaker 7: Is you gonna be acting weird while the nigga.
Speaker 1: In the spot, I'm not talking about acting weird?
Speaker 5: No, no, no, answer that question.
Speaker 7: He asking a question if if you're gonna act weird
Speaker 7: when you're gonna keep it playing, you tell me after,
Speaker 7: because if you tell me while I'm in there, I'm
Speaker 7: gonna be I'm gonna be too hyper focused on that.
Speaker 7: But what if we're cause I'm ana tend that nigga
Speaker 7: like you might change spik the nigga drink. No, But
Speaker 7: I'm just saying like, because because you're putting my fuckus
Speaker 7: on some ship, were supposed to be hanging out having
Speaker 7: a good night. Even if you interact with the nigga
Speaker 7: on some wood wood wool, as long as the nigga
Speaker 7: player and he don't do the most, like try to
Speaker 7: do the most, cause niggas will try to do the most.
Speaker 5: When they see you out with another nigga, he'll try
Speaker 5: to make it like now.
Speaker 2: What's he at a networking event with the podcast networking event?
Speaker 1: Boom? I fuck this nigga? You like, hey, you know,
Speaker 1: oh yeah, I know you brother.
Speaker 5: I don't care nothing about that.
Speaker 1: You won't take my body on the show.
Speaker 2: What like you, I'm saying the nigga head y'all just
Speaker 2: about to network Like you don't want me to tell you.
Speaker 7: I don't give a fuck anything like, but follow me
Speaker 7: really don't fuck it matter. My thing is is if
Speaker 7: you put it to my attention, that's where my attention
Speaker 7: gonna be at you feel me, so like, don't fuck
Speaker 7: up the vibe.
Speaker 5: Let me know, like, y'all, I fuck that nigga like.
Speaker 7: Really crazy life just got just know afterwards, so like
Speaker 7: my attention stay focused on why we there?
Speaker 5: You did all right? Because then cause because not because
Speaker 5: like this.
Speaker 7: Is I ain't too When you make somebody all wear
Speaker 7: a ship like that, they might over read into ship.
Speaker 7: So like let me like, let's say we're going to
Speaker 7: a spot whatever and I tell you like, oh yeah,
Speaker 7: I hit shot it right. Oh We're like I'm just
Speaker 7: letting you know because we are here together, and then
Speaker 7: you see us like interact with each other. You can
Speaker 7: damn what you gonna take.
Speaker 1: You're gonna take it more than what I ain't gonna read.
Speaker 2: Only because I'm gonna talk to everybody, and I might
Speaker 2: get a little too close talking about saying though what
Speaker 2: I'm saying is I may take it too far to
Speaker 2: now the bitch think I'm being funny. I've been in
Speaker 2: a lot of predicaments where niggas that are fuck the
Speaker 2: bitch and I ain't know you.
Speaker 1: Another bad bach.
Speaker 2: Oh my god, ship come through my gym, come to here,
Speaker 2: and I have no idea. I do need to know
Speaker 2: because I'm a motherfucking billboard. I have a book, I
Speaker 2: got a podcast, I got a gym podcast studio.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you everything, bitch.
Speaker 2: If you cute, if you funny, I'm gonna be in it.
Speaker 2: I'm gonna be passing shots. And now they're holding a
Speaker 2: look at me and be like, go get your bitch.
Speaker 1: Hell no, tell me. I don't give a fuck. I
Speaker 1: got that.
Speaker 5: I don't know. See, there may be some it may
Speaker 5: be it's just a difference.
Speaker 1: I mean, it's also very different.
Speaker 3: We are non monogamous people who are fine with cuffing whole.
Speaker 1: Ass niggas that we know our whole ass niggas.
Speaker 3: So I think when we talk about how we would react,
Speaker 3: it's going to be a little different.
Speaker 1: Like that's just what it.
Speaker 5: Face made up here on your feet, that was on
Speaker 5: purpose a studio.
Speaker 2: We were at a studio everything.
Speaker 1: You know, it's crazy. People would pay for that, Yeah, people,
Speaker 1: people pay for that. The dirty feet.
Speaker 5: Niggas just freaked out out here.
Speaker 2: There's a little dirt we're talking about that were This
Speaker 2: was the this was the third look of a shoot
Speaker 2: and literally just the studio weing, we.
Speaker 1: Were in the warehouse.
Speaker 5: It's a nice picture. Though. I've been doing this for.
Speaker 7: A grip right the part, almost a decade, so yeah,
Speaker 7: that's what I'm doing.
Speaker 5: How has that like affected your relationships stuff?
Speaker 1: You know, this is our podcast, not yours.
Speaker 3: If you want to ask those types of questions, niggas,
Speaker 3: we will go on God damn grits and nes.
Speaker 5: Now, we can't just stame information.
Speaker 1: So I would say in the beginning of it, right,
Speaker 1: question the mockster, I never I can't slip back again.
Speaker 3: You come on my show, Okay, okay, I will say
Speaker 3: the only time I took it as a compliment. I
Speaker 3: ended up meeting Doja Cat and when I tell you,
Speaker 3: oh my god, love her dearly, she was like, oh
Speaker 3: my god, I just have to stop you.
Speaker 1: She was like, I love your hair. It's getting Sharon
Speaker 1: Stone and that's a white woman. And I didn't even
Speaker 1: argue her down. I said, it is Jesu like like
Speaker 1: my hair.
Speaker 5: I look good, Just like, yeah, I ain't see you
Speaker 5: going SPA. When we pushed up, I ain't know that
Speaker 5: how you're gonna call. You might go piks, okay, So I.
Speaker 1: Was actually gonna ask you dating questions to so this
Speaker 1: works out all right, So you want to answer the
Speaker 1: question like are we gonna answer a question?
Speaker 2: Frankly, been going on so many podcasts and doing the
Speaker 2: same thing you just did, it's hard for a podcast
Speaker 2: to see, you know, to see Yeah, no, I would
Speaker 2: say in the first five years, it was rough until
Speaker 2: we was making bread for real. And I actually recently
Speaker 2: said a few days ago, I don't think until our
Speaker 2: podcast became a business outside of the podcast, that's when
Speaker 2: I stopped giving a fuck. When I was, you know,
Speaker 2: first six months and you talk about sucking dick and
Speaker 2: they like, but you still got a job.
Speaker 1: They did it, don't really, you.
Speaker 2: Know, it's not this respectable thing. Once you have accolades
Speaker 2: under your shit, then it feels different. And this is
Speaker 2: why they treat certain porn stars our only fans girls different.
Speaker 2: Lend of the Plug, for example, started an empire. Right
Speaker 2: when she's having conversations with certain people, they're talking about
Speaker 2: giving her a ted X, talking shit like that. It's
Speaker 2: because you really have to surpass a certain level of hope.
Speaker 2: They call her daddy bitch. You know what I'm saying,
Speaker 2: This bitch on Vogue talking about blowjobs.
Speaker 1: In four K.
Speaker 2: But that's the same reason Mandy and I can maybe
Speaker 2: not do a daytime news show. So you really have
Speaker 2: to catapult a certain Yeah sounds good, they keep telling us. Now,
Speaker 2: for me, dating is tricky.
Speaker 3: I just got out of a relationship with a guy,
Speaker 3: so I think I realized I want a regular Joe
Speaker 3: Schmo that nobody knows. But that's lit low key because
Speaker 3: my last relationship impacted how I could do content, Like
Speaker 3: a lot of people were trying to figure out who
Speaker 3: he was because he was an actor, and there's no
Speaker 3: way that I would want to share certain things that
Speaker 3: would impact his career or be attached to him. So
Speaker 3: for me, like even like I got another little slot,
Speaker 3: like he's not going nowhere, he's been on the roster
Speaker 3: for like five years.
Speaker 1: He I really don't really talk about him because that
Speaker 1: nigga I ain't fucking up.
Speaker 2: Y'all won't know no details about him nothing, because I'm like,
Speaker 2: holy shit, I don't want anyone.
Speaker 1: To even guess who this nigga was.
Speaker 3: Because early on in the pod, when I dealt with
Speaker 3: certain people, people like literally made it like fucking finding
Speaker 3: Waldo and was like, Okay, we got this clue, this clue,
Speaker 3: this clue, this clue, this is Waldough. And so for
Speaker 3: me now dating is like I ask for permission before
Speaker 3: I share things on the pod, And so it's just
Speaker 3: making me.
Speaker 1: More accountable to actually care about.
Speaker 5: The niggas that I'm talking look out the floor?
Speaker 3: Is it just like you got to be you have
Speaker 3: to know, Like I've had niggas now that like if
Speaker 3: they know me from the pot, I probably won't funk
Speaker 3: with Like I had this rapper that was just like.
Speaker 2: I want to see if you really like what you
Speaker 2: talk about.
Speaker 1: It's not a costco simpler.
Speaker 7: Niggas tripping because like why would you even.
Speaker 2: Doesn't happen to you, like you have you have the
Speaker 2: pie groupy girls yet like you have groupies.
Speaker 5: Yeah that's a real thing.
Speaker 1: How do they approach you?
Speaker 3: Because I've been seeing the girls, especially with the streamers,
Speaker 3: walking right up like I want to.
Speaker 5: Suck your dick, but you get you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: But they'd be like, let me take you out, poppy.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I don't even be that, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 5: You know. So it's been it's been known that like
Speaker 5: I was in a long time relationship before and like
Speaker 5: we just we've been going through a separation over the
Speaker 5: last like year and a half two years.
Speaker 1: Y'all were married. Yeah yeah, okay, so like yeah them
Speaker 1: separations be taking a long time.
Speaker 7: Yeah, it's a separated in good Again, it's a complicated situation.
Speaker 5: But it's also like, you know, i'd be smooth, like
Speaker 5: my right before we kind of went.
Speaker 7: Into the situation where we decided to kind of go
Speaker 7: separate ways was right before I really started taking the
Speaker 7: podcast seriously, Like when we're going through that instead of
Speaker 7: like just sitting in the crib dealing with feelings about
Speaker 7: the shit. I just like, all right, we're finn lock
Speaker 7: in on this beating and shit. So that's when me
Speaker 7: and bro like linked up. So shit through the process
Speaker 7: of me dealing with that, I'm dealing with the podcast too,
Speaker 7: So that really wasn't even about now.
Speaker 1: That would even make it harder for me.
Speaker 2: I feel like to get back together because a lot
Speaker 2: of my friends that became popular over time and were
Speaker 2: already in long term relationships. Your woman kind of doesn't
Speaker 2: know how to deal with it all the time.
Speaker 7: Yeah, now we're walking outside names you feel me so
Speaker 7: like also too, it's like we haven't been you know,
Speaker 7: it's not like a public thing. I don't really like
Speaker 7: putting my business out there like that because people are
Speaker 7: you're not like us.
Speaker 1: Okay, so you're not actively dating.
Speaker 7: I do be dating, but like, man, that shit be
Speaker 7: annoying a little kid like i'd be busy as fun
Speaker 7: and then too, like coming from committed relationship, you know
Speaker 7: what people want out of commitments and ship So like,
Speaker 7: even if I tell them, mother fucking straight up, like,
Speaker 7: this ain't going nowhere, We're gonna have fun, We're gonna vite,
Speaker 7: We're gonna fuck, Like we might go out eat whatever,
Speaker 7: but it ain't never gonna be no exclusive ship. After
Speaker 7: the first few whatever, it's like they be really trying
Speaker 7: to clamp down, like you ain't comedy that. Yeah, it's
Speaker 7: like I'm gonna have to just gone hand and let
Speaker 7: you be. So I'd be like it'd be dating ship,
Speaker 7: but it'd really be like more so, like I'm more
Speaker 7: so focused on this ship, like what going on?
Speaker 3: What is normally the feedback with that? And I asked
Speaker 3: that because I'm in the place where I feel like
Speaker 3: care until they care, and so how do you? But
Speaker 3: you know they will eventually.
Speaker 7: I don't care until they get what they want. Then
Speaker 7: when they get they want, they can ten how.
Speaker 2: Many women get actually handled just fucking and hanging out?
Speaker 1: Nah, not even like three three hundred ten Okay, the.
Speaker 7: Rest of it be like it'd be like, you know,
Speaker 7: it's fine, like I'm focused on ship, I'm doing my thing,
Speaker 7: and then we start cracking.
Speaker 2: And yeah, don't fuck me too good now.
Speaker 7: Hey hey hey, yeah, we start cracking and then like
Speaker 7: the town changed a little bit, and I like, I
Speaker 7: ain't no ego nigga, like, oh I just got the
Speaker 7: type of dick like it ain't that, but it's just like, yeah, the.
Speaker 5: Ship do be a thing like motherfuckers.
Speaker 3: It's not even but it's not even dick, it's even attention.
Speaker 3: That's why the women they conversation.
Speaker 2: I think that one nigga at a time, right, we
Speaker 2: fucked one nigga into wuld jump to the next one.
Speaker 1: Men like a few girls at the time.
Speaker 2: Maybe they have their favorite, but we generally, I would
Speaker 2: say probably seventy percent of my friends, my friends a
Speaker 2: in general then I mean.
Speaker 6: My friend everybody different when it comes to that, Like, yeah,
Speaker 6: just like staying attached to one guy, maybe one guy
Speaker 6: is the one.
Speaker 7: They think a conversation is really what it's gonna take
Speaker 7: it over the top. Like I don't really think it's
Speaker 7: the six. I think the six might be like the
Speaker 7: iceing Kate tight ship. I think a connection for real,
Speaker 7: because like I'm pretty like I don't be judging. I'm
Speaker 7: pretty like I'm grown man, I ain't got time to
Speaker 7: judging nor give him the fuck Like, for real, whatever
Speaker 7: you're gonna did in your path, let's talk about it,
Speaker 7: because I'm gona figure out who the fuck you is
Speaker 7: for I deal with you. And then also two out
Speaker 7: of that line, that shit that's.
Speaker 1: To ask you, have you ever heard a woman?
Speaker 3: Only because I talk about this in the book, there's
Speaker 3: a chapter why Do I Need You to Need Me?
Speaker 3: And I was in a relationship and the person he
Speaker 3: met was completely not the person that I was dealing
Speaker 3: with in therapy. I was dealing with getting over some
Speaker 3: things I did in my twenties. Right, He never met
Speaker 3: that person because he met me when I was twenty
Speaker 3: nine thirty. He never met the twenty four year old,
Speaker 3: the twenty five year old, the twenty six year old
Speaker 3: that was out here, Wilin, And at the very end
Speaker 3: of our relationship, he threw something out to me that
Speaker 3: I had just shared with him. Has there ever been
Speaker 3: a moment where a woman has told you she did
Speaker 3: something in the past. Say she let two niggas fuck.
Speaker 1: Say she did a game bang. Say she sold drugs.
Speaker 1: I don't know. Let me take it away from sex.
Speaker 1: Say she did ten abortions, I don't know.
Speaker 3: Whatever that would make you think secondly about the woman,
Speaker 3: as the ever been anything that a woman has shared
Speaker 3: that has kept you from literally being like, this is
Speaker 3: a woman. I'll probably never look serious because I can't
Speaker 3: get that out of my mind.
Speaker 7: Yeah, it's gonna be I mean, of course, but I
Speaker 7: think also too is just I be I'm real observed
Speaker 7: and i'd be paying attention. Like exploring things sexually, I
Speaker 7: ain't a real big deal to me.
Speaker 5: Okay, game ban is crazy, Like that's crazy. You know
Speaker 5: what I'm saying. It's it's not crazy sexually. It's not
Speaker 5: like taboo. It's just like.
Speaker 7: Three two dates in the room. And now I'm just
Speaker 7: supposed to carry you across the fence.
Speaker 1: You can't be like exploring sexually is crazy now.
Speaker 7: But I'm saying, I'm I'm all and I respect it.
Speaker 7: That's see the nigga for you.
Speaker 1: That's what I mean. But really it's actually being a
Speaker 1: bad day.
Speaker 7: The thing is is like I'm gonna be honest about that, like, hey,
Speaker 7: I'm gonna hold you.
Speaker 5: That just shifty things for me. But I'm a still fun.
Speaker 1: But you want her to be honest. It's crazy because
Speaker 1: you said.
Speaker 7: I'm an honest I need honesty to know what type
Speaker 7: of decision I'm gonna make, just like.
Speaker 3: What she would never do it again. She just did
Speaker 3: it in college one time.
Speaker 1: Can you be honest here?
Speaker 5: Though?
Speaker 1: It's it's a problem. We gotta let niggas have that.
Speaker 7: Yeah, like that you gotta because I'm gonna tell you.
Speaker 1: Thinking as a sexually liberated girl, if you don't, don't
Speaker 1: find so here.
Speaker 5: It's things's your, it's things you like.
Speaker 1: We can let we can let quote unquote niggas have it.
Speaker 5: Sure.
Speaker 3: However, take someone one moment if no one sets across
Speaker 3: from me and it's like, I'm an honest nigga, I'm
Speaker 3: gonna accept, and you want an honest woman to me,
Speaker 3: I'm confused with where if this woman is being honest
Speaker 3: of things that she did before she even met you,
Speaker 3: and now that's being to.
Speaker 5: Get honestly, I ain't going for that.
Speaker 1: Everyone don't be holdenough.
Speaker 5: The thing is like.
Speaker 3: It's a weaponizing It may not be like a judgment
Speaker 3: it's not a judgmental thing.
Speaker 7: It's just like, Okay, I'm gonna tell you what it
Speaker 7: really is. And I'm trying to tell you niggas is
Speaker 7: so physical and it's so visual that like niggas done
Speaker 7: seeing porn where niggas is too tag team and a
Speaker 7: girl and it's like, damn, nigga gonna put that girl
Speaker 7: in that situation like that nigga had my girl and
Speaker 7: her been all.
Speaker 2: Side, and you know what it is for me that
Speaker 2: I experience sugirl.
Speaker 1: I'm trying. We had a lot of times but going,
Speaker 1: but I'm trying to ride this.
Speaker 2: I'm one hundred percent okay with men having a choice
Speaker 2: to not fuck with me.
Speaker 1: I'm thirty four years old.
Speaker 2: I finally in my life mess somebody that really doesn't
Speaker 2: give a fuck about all of these things that I
Speaker 2: could have put in there Right now, five years ago,
Speaker 2: I'm crying in the fucking vedroom, like, oh my.
Speaker 1: God, I should have never told that story, did it?
Speaker 1: What do I give a fuck?
Speaker 7: You gotta be honest though, like the thing is too.
Speaker 7: It's actually better for you if I tell you like
Speaker 7: I'm not going, because you could weed me out too
Speaker 7: and then also to it ain't right a nigga do
Speaker 7: not want to fuck or not want to kick it
Speaker 7: a vite?
Speaker 3: No, I'm waiting a nigga out. You not getting this pussy,
Speaker 3: you know, hanging with me if I'm not.
Speaker 5: You can't assume a nigga not read your books.
Speaker 1: You're not even reading my book. First off, I have
Speaker 1: my podcast. It is what it is. I have the book.
Speaker 1: Here's all my stories right here too.
Speaker 3: And for me, I've been very adamant and like betting
Speaker 3: and kind of talking.
Speaker 1: I mean, it's not even that I have to tell them.
Speaker 1: I literally have to be called horrible decisions any woman.
Speaker 3: That first off, you ain't on a mic, sir, so
Speaker 3: you can't just be out here asking questions.
Speaker 1: But I'll be like you, mic up was something we
Speaker 1: would have we would have put the goddamn mic on
Speaker 1: to me.
Speaker 3: To me, though, there's there's an element of self proclamation
Speaker 3: as a whole self proclamation as a free spirit, a
Speaker 3: woman who's open or sexually liberated, who when she goes
Speaker 3: into dating, there's I'm sorry, I don't want a man
Speaker 3: that's going to be judging about any kinks, fetishes or
Speaker 3: things I've done in my past. And to me, it's
Speaker 3: very easy out the gate to pick those type of
Speaker 3: niggas that's or those type of partners. The same way
Speaker 3: my friends will be like, damn, bitch, how you be
Speaker 3: finding all these freaky ass, kiky ass niggas, And I'm like, bro,
Speaker 3: these aren't any different than the men you're meeting. You're
Speaker 3: just not creating a safe space for them to really
Speaker 3: tell you the shit that they really be doing.
Speaker 1: Or the shit they've done in the past.
Speaker 3: Right, And so to me, I'm not opening my legs
Speaker 3: laying with a nigga, fucking anybody, or like like growing
Speaker 3: a relationship with someone that I know either in the
Speaker 3: back of their mind is judging me or has a
Speaker 3: way about how I've lived my life, Like I have
Speaker 3: niggas right now, I wouldn't.
Speaker 7: Do that, And I see this is the thing too,
Speaker 7: I'm still like I still deal with my ego and
Speaker 7: like some sensitivity around like what the bro's gonna think
Speaker 7: and shit too, even though like I don't want to
Speaker 7: think about that and for the most part it's not
Speaker 7: really I don't really give a fuck, but these is
Speaker 7: my niggas, Like if you go away, I'm still gonna
Speaker 7: be friends with these niggas.
Speaker 5: So, like, I think a lot of that play into it.
Speaker 1: It's like the perception all the time. Ask you about
Speaker 1: that too.
Speaker 7: So because the other thing is this too, Like it
Speaker 7: it's a two way street. I was seeing her trying
Speaker 7: to think of an example for like how what's what's
Speaker 7: comparable to that and like imagine, like you know, girls
Speaker 7: are cut off a nigga if they.
Speaker 5: Find out he buy sex or something like.
Speaker 7: That, Yeah, that'd be a thing. Experimids things like that.
Speaker 7: So everybody got their cutofs. It ain't really about judgment.
Speaker 7: It's more so like a self awareness like I just
Speaker 7: know I can't deal with that ship and if me
Speaker 7: personally like what if we vibe and I know about
Speaker 7: your pass and everything like that, but I fucked with
Speaker 7: you and it's like that ship doesn't matter to me,
Speaker 7: but people in your ear do matter, and that ship
Speaker 7: do have.
Speaker 1: I talk about that in the book to Yeah, it
Speaker 1: may not.
Speaker 7: Be even a personal thing, like just like you in
Speaker 7: a relationship and you got like you know, niggas be
Speaker 7: having like moms that be low key a little to
Speaker 7: attest them and ship they be fucking their relationships up
Speaker 7: to so it's a lot of fact that they play in.
Speaker 7: So like of course, initially at the top, what was
Speaker 7: my first reaction like, oh no, keep it real?
Speaker 1: Then sing here like bro, that's what I'm saying, Oh
Speaker 1: you you change your mind.
Speaker 2: That's conversation is important because it's real. I was a
Speaker 2: girl and out a gang bang and you don't fuck
Speaker 2: with it.
Speaker 7: Let me go because I'm also cool cut off though
Speaker 7: that's another thing I don't get attached to that ship,
Speaker 7: like at this point, I didn't been in. When you're
Speaker 7: in a long term relationship, you know everything that you know,
Speaker 7: the ins and outs and everything, like mother figgers, things
Speaker 7: that niggas don't account for, Like you you going to
Speaker 7: like you're dealing with periods, you're dealing with you smelled
Speaker 7: that ship before all type of ship, like we ain't
Speaker 7: even closing the door to use the bathroom, nob type ship.
Speaker 7: So it's like, you get so vulnerable with a person
Speaker 7: at this point, And I'm thirty five, grown, I got motion,
Speaker 7: I got ship going on. I don't give a fuck,
Speaker 7: like it's we gonna work out or not. If we're not,
Speaker 7: Let's go in and go about ourselves place before niggas
Speaker 7: lie theyself into attachment and then they make it more
Speaker 7: difficult to say lie themselves into it.
Speaker 1: Let's that's your social capital.
Speaker 2: So if anybody has watched your clips, for the most part,
Speaker 2: I don't even feel like you talk about dating at all.
Speaker 5: I don't, which is why it's enough people doing that.
Speaker 2: Let's see which would be worse for your social capital,
Speaker 2: dating a white woman or dating candas owners.
Speaker 5: Dating a white woman.
Speaker 1: Will be worse than dating Candas Man.
Speaker 5: Canda owners woke it. Fuck you mean.
Speaker 7: I t up Candas was to be outside with the
Speaker 7: natural next week. You know, hope, now watch.
Speaker 4: This having people find out you don't think so you
Speaker 4: think Candace gives me lame Candas as smart as fun,
Speaker 4: that would be sexy, Like don't let's not get it twisted.
Speaker 7: Her opinions are terrible, but the bitch is smart. I
Speaker 7: think that's the part I was thinking.
Speaker 1: Well read niggas. I don't think she got bodied though,
Speaker 1: I mean.
Speaker 5: Like, get you crazy con.
Speaker 2: You've seen her friends a bitch, a black friend, okay,
Speaker 2: yeah yeah, but then the white girls as being like accurately.
Speaker 5: Good for a white woman.
Speaker 1: You guys want to the tone, but we'll let her.
Speaker 5: Now, don't even try to compete.
Speaker 2: I would, I mean I was okay her for sure,
Speaker 2: that people find out you registered to be a Republican
Speaker 2: when you were eighteenth, or having your recent history be
Speaker 2: leaked and it's all maga content, which would.
Speaker 5: Be worse for you recent history for sure?
Speaker 1: Okay, wait for sure?
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean I've I would have been like, oh
Speaker 2: I was just looking it up.
Speaker 7: No, no way, worse this lead, I know, like exactly what.
Speaker 3: Right now, you think those thoughts what you registered as
Speaker 3: when you were eighteen, Obama was a person the same
Speaker 3: you did.
Speaker 7: That was my first It was my first boat to say.
Speaker 7: I feel like I was selling. I was selling drugs
Speaker 7: and a type of ship. But I went and voted
Speaker 7: for that. Nigga family.
Speaker 1: Did that together.
Speaker 5: Yeah.
Speaker 1: God, November of two thousand.
Speaker 2: And eight, I have bought me a goddamn turned eighteen
Speaker 2: a month before tens.
Speaker 5: Come on Highway five.
Speaker 7: There was they were seventy big ass got damn a
Speaker 7: whole pictures.
Speaker 5: Of and I brought that ship her.
Speaker 2: Mamma was like, oh my god, I did have a
Speaker 2: cut out of my house.
Speaker 5: Yeah cutout.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's the biggest to me. That's gonna be the
Speaker 2: biggest vote of our lives.
Speaker 5: Oh god, yeah that's real.
Speaker 2: Okay, smash your pass. She's a ten, but she videotapes
Speaker 2: all the day, y'all going and the meals for content.
Speaker 2: That's over with, Okay, she's a ten. She got three
Speaker 2: kids at thirty five.
Speaker 7: Niggas don't even know like a ten is overrated. I
Speaker 7: like the cool ass of my eight, Like.
Speaker 1: What's the cool what's a cool six? Sale? Mate?
Speaker 5: I ain't say nothing about six.
Speaker 1: Okay, you said six, you said six, okay, but you.
Speaker 5: Said so cool seven eight?
Speaker 1: What's a cool seven? Eight?
Speaker 5: I mean, which is the ten?
Speaker 1: Wells objected.
Speaker 5: It is saying perfect. It is subjective ten.
Speaker 7: It's perfect. Anybody perfect. But I get what you're saying, right,
Speaker 7: I agree?
Speaker 1: Three kids at thirty five? Can she still be a
Speaker 1: ten for you?
Speaker 5: Yeah?
Speaker 1: For sure she's a ten. But she's a bit of
Speaker 1: a podcast host groupie.
Speaker 5: That's a little strange.
Speaker 7: But we could talk about it, like what do you
Speaker 7: mean you can turn on on your mind?
Speaker 1: Like why why are you so I'm literally dead it?
Speaker 1: Like what you mean?
Speaker 5: Like like like what I'm.
Speaker 1: Going on a date?
Speaker 3: And a nigga has been like, oh my god, so
Speaker 3: like what's Rory really like?
Speaker 7: Now we be knowing some of them to like I
Speaker 7: ain't on husband, like I've been talking to somebody. And
Speaker 7: then they started bringing up ship front of podcast. I
Speaker 7: was like all this, like you know too much about it?
Speaker 2: I ask you this, two situations that I could talk
Speaker 2: about where I'm like, maybe it's because I'm not a weirdo.
Speaker 1: Maybe because they ain't wear those the way.
Speaker 2: The reason I wanted to start a podcast was because
Speaker 2: I love Bodega boys ended up being friends with Jesus
Speaker 2: year later and I'll be talking about ship from the
Speaker 2: podcast and the nigga be like, Bro, that's crazy. I
Speaker 2: don't remember that now one of my clubs friends was
Speaker 2: a fan of Like no, no, no, no, no.
Speaker 1: What I'm saying that could be weird, right.
Speaker 7: Yeah, because because it's almost like you know shit about me.
Speaker 7: I don't even remember by myself. Bro, that's crazy.
Speaker 1: That's crazy.
Speaker 7: But it's not crazy in the sense like I was
Speaker 7: with Marrow and then the other like on some hommy ship.
Speaker 7: Like I'm bringing up Ship from the podcast. He might
Speaker 7: not remember that ship, but it's like I'm a fan,
Speaker 7: but it's like that's cool for the hommy Is it.
Speaker 1: Not cool for But that's what I'm saying, We're not weirdo.
Speaker 7: Well, because the thing is is if we're gonna talk,
Speaker 7: we need like an honest representation of each other, and
Speaker 7: like you have an idea about me, yeah, like and
Speaker 7: you may have pedestal at me too, So it's like
Speaker 7: it's too much.
Speaker 1: So what do we do when you're really famous?
Speaker 2: What do you do when you're the most famous actor
Speaker 2: meeting women?
Speaker 5: Pretend that this when I go to West Africa and
Speaker 5: i'm your wife.
Speaker 1: Well, I you said you're about to turn into a
Speaker 1: passport bro. It's also crazy.
Speaker 7: I never said that your wife. I'm I'm I'm glad
Speaker 7: I'm not going out there. The like six to her
Speaker 7: and said, I.
Speaker 3: Sit, Wait, you think passport bros aren't doing sex tourism.
Speaker 1: They're going out to find wives in other countries. Wait,
Speaker 1: I thought that.
Speaker 3: No, no, of course, no, no, no, no, passport bros are
Speaker 3: going out of the country.
Speaker 1: We just had this saying that's not what a passport
Speaker 1: bro is.
Speaker 5: The colloquial term for passport bros is sex tourism.
Speaker 1: And they're the only ones that can fuck out the country. No,
Speaker 1: it's not you were saying, what is it when they.
Speaker 7: You turn out Mirriam Webster versus the street. I'm not
Speaker 7: passport bros.
Speaker 1: Look more for you. She's a ten. But she's saving
Speaker 1: sucking dick for Mary.
Speaker 5: Oh that ain't happening, you not. But I don't give
Speaker 5: a fucking queen. You're Alian.
Speaker 7: I'm not gonna spend my marriage teaching you how to
Speaker 7: suck practice, because if you.
Speaker 1: Learned a bunch of digs sucking did you take it right?
Speaker 7: What well, I don't know. Why would you just shoot
Speaker 7: the ball the half court? We got two to three
Speaker 7: seconds up on the car. You shot for half court.
Speaker 2: Why you want to talk about that was for a
Speaker 2: dang bak So she can't slept, bitch, You can't suck
Speaker 2: too much dick niggas.
Speaker 3: By the way, body, I want to I want to
Speaker 3: just real quick, because we did just talk about this.
Speaker 3: A passport bro, it's a slang term for a man,
Speaker 3: often from the US, Canada, or Western countries, who travels abroad,
Speaker 3: sometimes permanently, to date or marry women from other countries,
Speaker 3: usually places like Southeast Asia, Latin America, or Eastern Europe. Y'all,
Speaker 3: we're talking about also the niggas that might go for
Speaker 3: a man trip and just want to pay twenty four
Speaker 3: dollars for couch.
Speaker 1: Panama sport.
Speaker 5: When you say passport bro, that's what niggas.
Speaker 1: Those are. The men that are low hanging fruit here.
Speaker 3: Can't get a goddamn bitch here because they make thirty
Speaker 3: thousand and our lame like that. Nobody here wants them,
Speaker 3: so they go to find a submissive woman, a woman
Speaker 3: who sees them as a king from another country and
Speaker 3: that's who they end up being.
Speaker 1: With nothing to do with paying bitches for money. It
Speaker 1: has nothing to do with sex or sex, none of that.
Speaker 5: I never looked at the definition of that. I know
Speaker 5: the streets. I know what the streets.
Speaker 3: What they talk about are these American men, these lame,
Speaker 3: crockass niggas that go overseas and try to end up
Speaker 3: with an Asian woman or someone who's going to make
Speaker 3: them feel like a king because they feel like American
Speaker 3: women want too much here.
Speaker 5: Oh that's crazy.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 7: See that's another thing too, Like I can't be considered
Speaker 7: that if I'm first of all attractive, second of all,
Speaker 7: if I'm stupid, stupid, famous, I'm caring Like if I'm
Speaker 7: up monetarily, you can't want No.
Speaker 3: I get that for me. Even saying the passport wrod
Speaker 3: thing was that you were going to go but no,
Speaker 3: but it was just but it was it was a
Speaker 3: jas podca it was it was a joke at the
Speaker 3: time that I was just like, you were going to
Speaker 3: another country to get a.
Speaker 1: Woman, Like, yeah, I was.
Speaker 7: I'm jokingly saying that because she said, what if you
Speaker 7: get too famous? But at the same time, it's like
Speaker 7: I never feel like love is off the table no
Speaker 7: matter how visible you are. It's just about like somebody
Speaker 7: has somebody gonna have to understand what the ship come
Speaker 7: with either way, even even if if with the verse,
Speaker 7: I gotta understand, Like if you was dating another famous woman,
Speaker 7: you gotta understand she'd be busy if fuck soon and
Speaker 7: she's gonna be places shes gonna be city city.
Speaker 5: I might not see each.
Speaker 7: Other all the time, but like I think the strongest
Speaker 7: bond in the relationship is like cracking a safety for
Speaker 7: each other. So like you somewhere that I know I
Speaker 7: can go and express myself and talk to without judgment
Speaker 7: or without like without like yes man shit either like if.
Speaker 5: I'm wrong, let me know I'm wrong type shit.
Speaker 7: So like the connection gonna come from the conversation for sure,
Speaker 7: But I don't think you can you can like like
Speaker 7: move your way out of that. Do the fame and
Speaker 7: shit like that.
Speaker 2: It really matters if you're famous or not. There's so
Speaker 2: much googling we could do.
Speaker 5: Like and it's mad people in the world, Like I'm.
Speaker 1: Gonna figure out who who the other person was.
Speaker 2: There's like some way to look something up, Like we're
Speaker 2: always gonna have a preconceived notion.
Speaker 5: Is that's really true?
Speaker 1: Saw too?
Speaker 5: It's like somebody out here with like ten million followers
Speaker 5: I ain't never heard of.
Speaker 7: Yeah, there's a lot of like like we exist in
Speaker 7: like podcasts anyway we do so like it's always gonna
Speaker 7: be somebody out there that don't know or won't know,
Speaker 7: or it's always gonna be people out there that you
Speaker 7: would at least suspect you might make a connection.
Speaker 1: Would you date another podcaster?
Speaker 5: I don't know. That's a lot of.
Speaker 1: What are your thoughts of podcasts?
Speaker 5: A lot of talking.
Speaker 7: No, I mean, I just depend I don't really I
Speaker 7: can't get down to judging somebody for what they do, period.
Speaker 7: But I just think it's about what our connection.
Speaker 5: You know.
Speaker 1: What walks me up is like I think I get.
Speaker 2: I don't know, maybe because we've been podcasting a long time,
Speaker 2: maybe because I make.
Speaker 1: A lot of podcasts with people.
Speaker 2: But I really didn't want to be and maybe it's
Speaker 2: unbelievable to people watching. My brain wasn't thinking about like
Speaker 2: I'm going to.
Speaker 5: Be famous type shit.
Speaker 1: I just was really.
Speaker 2: Having fun doing this shit. It felt like salacious but funny,
Speaker 2: and like I liked it.
Speaker 1: Back and forth with the community thing.
Speaker 2: But I really do believe because of how much money's
Speaker 2: in podcasting, I really don't want to date somebody that
Speaker 2: want to be famous. I don't enjoy having conversations with
Speaker 2: people that like really want fame from what they do,
Speaker 2: because then there's a difference to there is and that's
Speaker 2: truly what like the new era of podcasting is like people.
Speaker 5: That want to be famous.
Speaker 7: Yeah, yeah, we was really also too, Like I started
Speaker 7: all this shiit off TikTok. I wasn't never thinking about that.
Speaker 7: I knew it was possible because I seen what the
Speaker 7: competition was and that ship wasn't about now, So it
Speaker 7: was like I was like shit, I was like okay,
Speaker 7: and I'm driving trucks at the time too, so I'm like, well,
Speaker 7: people make money off this by just giving their opinions.
Speaker 7: I know, I got better opinions than ninety percent of
Speaker 7: these motherfuckers. Are Like, if I can get a little
Speaker 7: supplemental income help my family, I'm.
Speaker 5: Cool with that.
Speaker 7: But a lot of people was requesting like more long
Speaker 7: form podcasts and ship like that. The twenty twenty, like
Speaker 7: the Covid Bubbalo podcast kind of turned me off from
Speaker 7: the ship, so I didn't really want to.
Speaker 1: Be able to turn your own. That's when it was like.
Speaker 7: I don't be caring about about money though, like that
Speaker 7: the money I'm gonna be, I'm gonna be good either way.
Speaker 1: Why do you do what you're doing?
Speaker 5: Because Ship?
Speaker 7: It said, I said into it like it was something
Speaker 7: that was in demand for me, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 7: It wasn't like now I'm gonna start the podcast, I'm
Speaker 7: gonna do this. People kept requesting that ship. I feel
Speaker 7: like what I got to say is important, but I
Speaker 7: also know I'm providing a different perspective.
Speaker 2: So money isn't always directly tied to fame either. When
Speaker 2: we started doing our show in the beginning and we're
Speaker 2: making money, that's what kept me.
Speaker 1: Being able to do it.
Speaker 2: There is gratification I get from fans, But now I
Speaker 2: feel like there's a point where, like if I go
Speaker 2: to everyday people, probably when I'm in the bathroom, the
Speaker 2: girls know me.
Speaker 1: Like I can't necessarily be talking shit. I can't really
Speaker 1: do too much.
Speaker 2: Like if I meet a nigga, one of his friends
Speaker 2: knows me if he don't, like, that's not really what
Speaker 2: I wanted.
Speaker 1: That I can't even talk out in public about anything.
Speaker 3: Anybody somebody list Literally, the waiter knows me, the bartender
Speaker 3: know me.
Speaker 1: Somebody knows me. I can't do it out here. Literally.
Speaker 2: I was hopping in the uber to get here on
Speaker 2: my block. Someone's like, you have a podcast.
Speaker 3: Right, I'm getting in the car in front of my
Speaker 3: fucking spot, and I'm like shit, Like, I think that
Speaker 3: part of things like to know, like not to bring
Speaker 3: into Beyonce because we're not on her level. But Beyonce
Speaker 3: said like she wishes sometimes that she could just watch
Speaker 3: walk Central Park. There's certain elements of just life she's
Speaker 3: not able to do. And I think sometimes people say
Speaker 3: they want the fame and this shit shit kind of.
Speaker 7: I think there's a thing of like chasing fame, and
Speaker 7: those people are always like very noticeable. It's not you
Speaker 7: can notice people who chasing fun. I think they're type.
Speaker 7: So I think for me, it's like the idea of
Speaker 7: it turning into something where I'm super visible and famous.
Speaker 7: It lingered because I understand that other people in space
Speaker 7: do have it, but for me it was more important
Speaker 7: like Okay, I get to have a space where I
Speaker 7: can speak and people are receptive to what I'm.
Speaker 5: Saying, and like, I like that. I enjoyed it. I
Speaker 5: enjoy speaking.
Speaker 7: So it's like the attention is a good part of
Speaker 7: it too, because like people paying attention mean that my
Speaker 7: message and what I got to say is impacting and folks.
Speaker 7: At this point now it's like okay, damn, Like my
Speaker 7: neighbor know who I am from the podcast and I
Speaker 7: don't ever talk to my neighbor. But that motherfucker was
Speaker 7: taking the trash out one day. He's like, man, I'm
Speaker 7: fucking with the podcast. Man, I love that ship. What
Speaker 7: the fuck?
Speaker 1: Because you just.
Speaker 2: Don't know who's watching you all the time I was
Speaker 2: eating at this restaurant. I want to shout them out
Speaker 2: to the black on Lele. I'm having a really deep
Speaker 2: conversation with my man about like fertility and like you know,
Speaker 2: family planning. Lady next to me not just do I
Speaker 2: don't know the podcast. She's like, don't want to make
Speaker 2: a wad of getting the check. She was like, I
Speaker 2: just finished the books, like I'm so happy for y'all.
Speaker 2: In the car home, he's like, Nigga, what you were
Speaker 2: talking ship? Because I be talking shit, I got talking
Speaker 2: ship publicly?
Speaker 1: What the Fuck'm talking. You know what, I'm tables in
Speaker 1: New York like this together? Did you want to saying
Speaker 1: nothing that you don't want? I'm to have a baby.
Speaker 7: It's also too it's I think it's what type of
Speaker 7: fame you got to? Like, people don't approach me. I
Speaker 7: think what what my messaging is? No, I wasn't say that, nigga.
Speaker 7: You know, people don't approach me with the like super
Speaker 7: duper famous ship, like they approached me like an every
Speaker 7: day person, because I think my messaging is like every
Speaker 7: day you feel me so like I don't really get
Speaker 7: like people that get fanned out type ship, but it
Speaker 7: has happened a few times and I'm like, relaxed, bro,
Speaker 7: really wedes uh, it'd be niggas.
Speaker 5: Bro would be cool, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: Niggas be groopies out here like.
Speaker 7: A nigga like literally like running from across the street
Speaker 7: like yo, I'm like, what's up?
Speaker 5: I'm thinking it's cool whatever? Like whoa what up? Bro?
Speaker 5: I'm focused ten tons a head this nigga is on
Speaker 5: the sidewalk. I was like, damn, what's up? Really cool?
Speaker 5: Like you ain't have to like.
Speaker 7: You know what I'm saying, we through and it was
Speaker 7: love like I appreciate the love to love be real,
Speaker 7: but it's also like damn, like I'm I'm not famous
Speaker 7: type ship, like I'm not super duper famous for like,
Speaker 7: so then how does this escalate?
Speaker 5: That's the.
Speaker 1: Niggas do?
Speaker 5: Yeah, like what what?
Speaker 1: Like?
Speaker 7: How do they move maneuver and operate because like, I
Speaker 7: think a big part that I enjoy is like going
Speaker 7: out and niggas know me, but I could still parlay
Speaker 7: in one two like but.
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie.
Speaker 3: I feel super famous out They sat me half court
Speaker 3: at Dykeman Basketball and I was like.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, bitch, I have made it.
Speaker 3: I went to nigga they taking their little uh they
Speaker 3: little what is it time out and then on the
Speaker 3: mics like yeah shut up many being about yo yo
Speaker 3: yo that podcast.
Speaker 1: Well, I'm gonna get on the couch. So and I
Speaker 1: was like, are the Dykman Basketball.
Speaker 5: Having moments like that?
Speaker 3: I used to It's like I used to I used
Speaker 3: to go to Dykeman is like and this is back
Speaker 3: when like all the bitches was going.
Speaker 1: You could see all the bitches with the BBL da
Speaker 1: da da. I was in there seeing all the.
Speaker 3: Niggas who played overseas, all the celebrities like used to
Speaker 3: be in Dykeman. So when I first moved to New
Speaker 3: Yor York, I'm going diakmon basketball?
Speaker 1: Is it so mind you? I'm it was just in
Speaker 1: New York. I go during the playoffs. It is a Monday.
Speaker 1: It's not like a Friday.
Speaker 3: But it's literally the week digg Yeah, it was all
Speaker 3: off day, but it don't.
Speaker 1: It was a Monday.
Speaker 5: Here.
Speaker 3: My girl Rosie walk up to the gate and she
Speaker 3: know one of the coaches from Dominican Power.
Speaker 1: So she's like, we here a Dominican Power. So we
Speaker 1: go up to the gate.
Speaker 3: They're like gates closed and me and her look like
Speaker 3: now we're supposed to be in here. So we get
Speaker 3: in and we walk over and say ah, He's like,
Speaker 3: he looks like I'm looking familiar.
Speaker 1: He remembers I had curly hair. I used to be
Speaker 1: all soot. This way I used to back my niggas
Speaker 1: was dyke Way basketball.
Speaker 3: So I go to fucking we go there like you
Speaker 3: need chairs, No, we get seated half court.
Speaker 1: Nobody move us.
Speaker 2: We half court by the way, about folding niggas that
Speaker 2: was playing and it'll slotting in my dms because this
Speaker 2: is I'm a celebrity here, I'm on Celebrity Road and
Speaker 2: Dykeman basketball.
Speaker 1: And I was just like, damn, that's to say what
Speaker 1: to have?
Speaker 3: No listen when I girl, when I tell you I
Speaker 3: don't care about do you know what the court is before?
Speaker 1: I'm half court side? No, but I'm half court outside. Oh,
Speaker 1: you're sitting in the middle, baby, in the middle, in
Speaker 1: the middle. What hold on?
Speaker 3: When I say best set in the house and I
Speaker 3: and I was thinking about my little bird ass. This
Speaker 3: is internally I'm like, but you don't party with all
Speaker 3: these celebrities.
Speaker 1: You know, all this ship is. You be on the phone,
Speaker 1: you be in the clubs. When I tell you, A
Speaker 1: part of me was like, but you made it half courted, Damon.
Speaker 5: That's hard.
Speaker 7: When I was in Chicago, Chicago, I got some love
Speaker 7: in Chicago, but like we was at there, this be
Speaker 7: easy and I come out.
Speaker 5: That bitch, little lit bro walk cars street or smoke.
Speaker 5: It's just tell you.
Speaker 7: It's this car full of older women like they are
Speaker 7: forty five feet.
Speaker 5: It's like, hey, Deonta. Ho was like, what's yeah?
Speaker 7: Like because niggas mama's be fucking me tight ship niggas
Speaker 7: not even that, but like people could.
Speaker 5: Tell me like, bro, my mama put me on your podcast,
Speaker 5: like oh wow.
Speaker 7: So like but these I'm like, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: We're are the things that actually touch you and make
Speaker 1: you feeling.
Speaker 2: Got out of the car, had the weird rolled up
Speaker 2: to it like let me hit the Oh you made
Speaker 2: them nice?
Speaker 7: They had got damn one of the mamas like sign
Speaker 7: my titty, I had signed their children.
Speaker 5: I was like, y'all got a sharp.
Speaker 1: You ma, you made their whole week. Celebrity ever gave
Speaker 1: me that.
Speaker 5: But so what I was going to say.
Speaker 7: We went to Sohold the next night and like I'm
Speaker 7: big Isaiah Man so like me too. So I'm like
Speaker 7: I'm hearing Breton, I'm let me get to the stage
Speaker 7: type ship. And then she had breasting me. I seeing her,
Speaker 7: he was like, that's do y'all take host of the
Speaker 7: Good Names podcast?
Speaker 5: If y'all that nigga podcast, y'all nigga speak shout out.
Speaker 5: I was in that beat yeeking. Do you hear me?
Speaker 5: I was like, somebody put.
Speaker 1: Me on a fucking dumpchy. I love music, let's speak
Speaker 1: the music. Oh you better get this too.
Speaker 3: So I've been provoking black cars and g cars and
Speaker 3: other cards.
Speaker 1: It's been bad. So this is our ho tree segment.
Speaker 5: Car Why why Sicilian is crazy?
Speaker 1: My Sicilian shutin.
Speaker 7: If you go pinstrip power suit you you you might
Speaker 7: have a whole family like ready to.
Speaker 5: Ride for you at any Oh my god, I'm and
Speaker 5: I'm you know it's crazy.
Speaker 3: When I was going through, like my backstory of my caucasianist,
Speaker 3: I wanted my mama to be something cool, like not
Speaker 3: just British.
Speaker 1: She's like, there's some Cherokee in there. But it was
Speaker 1: nothing cool.
Speaker 2: I said on this way to can't make pasta Okay,
Speaker 2: this is our segment where we take rap lyrics and
Speaker 2: we turn them into poetry and you have to guess
Speaker 2: the song. Put me off when you know the song?
Speaker 2: All right, now give me my dub back, Go and
Speaker 2: get your friend. Stupid bitch standing there while I'm drinking
Speaker 2: my hand steady looking at me, still asking questions. Times up,
Speaker 2: Nigga passed me another contestant, Ho move to the left.
Speaker 1: If you ain't about fifty done, talk through three or
Speaker 1: four songs already. I don't know, No you will.
Speaker 2: I'm gonna keep going looking at a nigga with your
Speaker 2: palm out, Bitch, I ain't even seen you dance work
Speaker 2: some baby work something baby pop and pussy on the poll,
Speaker 2: do your thing. Slide down that bitch a little bit,
Speaker 2: then stop, get back on the floor, catch your balance,
Speaker 2: then drop is.
Speaker 1: This bring it back up? I just want to see
Speaker 1: yo ass dirty day.
Speaker 5: Yeah, them boys performing sea World?
Speaker 1: Did you see them at SeaWorld? Like them?
Speaker 5: I would like.
Speaker 7: Them niggas the least SeaWorld line, bro, like animals. The
Speaker 7: animals is suffering. Bro y'at are.
Speaker 3: You serious right now that I wanted to fly to
Speaker 3: San Diego just to be a part of.
Speaker 1: Spring blinging SeaWorld?
Speaker 7: Part of the problem always, would you do the same
Speaker 7: thing these niggas was performing.
Speaker 3: Do you not care about black You don't care about
Speaker 3: black entrepreneurs and artists.
Speaker 5: Making a bad Do you not care about the workers?
Speaker 1: They're not swooping, They're not doing anything for the workers.
Speaker 7: That's why niggas die. This, Why this, why this, why
Speaker 7: my fuckers be trained niggas.
Speaker 1: Make some money.
Speaker 2: What's there was tough and I ain't gonna lie.
Speaker 3: Come on, when abda the sea World there? It doesn't
Speaker 3: have doing it, but they don't have the orca here though.
Speaker 3: Do you see where president is you're doing anything?
Speaker 2: Sorry, you know what's crazy about.
Speaker 5: Because like they and they unked out like they age
Speaker 5: and like the agent.
Speaker 1: You'n't gonna tell you.
Speaker 2: I read for a wedding performances ying Yan Twins, Kate Trenada.
Speaker 1: It did shot it.
Speaker 2: Maybe I just want to be this is gonna be
Speaker 2: problematic how they feel if the.
Speaker 5: Niggas was whispering in your air in two thousand and three,
Speaker 5: it depends which one you would have followed.
Speaker 1: No, No, it depends what you are.
Speaker 3: I was about to say the one with which arm,
Speaker 3: because I was gonna.
Speaker 7: Say we could have said the short one at the
Speaker 7: time and we did not have to start.
Speaker 3: You gonna say it wasn't even c g I that
Speaker 3: arm very well, nigga.
Speaker 2: You couldn't even tell them niggas ain't got he is
Speaker 2: a whole d that global.
Speaker 1: That nigga got one.
Speaker 5: To your Yeah again, which one you with a crack?
Speaker 1: Wait?
Speaker 2: At this point, there's three people famous with the army
Speaker 2: with the arm right, yeah, I with the tall nigga
Speaker 2: with no with both arms. The tall one has she
Speaker 2: has both arms.
Speaker 5: No, no, no, got the missing army.
Speaker 1: The short one? No, Google, she wants to be right
Speaker 1: to that. No, because your.
Speaker 5: Yeah, he got I'm looking.
Speaker 1: Up little little arm.
Speaker 2: I think there's a d trait, you know the park bro. Okay,
Speaker 2: so we got this segment called me waiting and bite.
Speaker 2: They both got long arms in these pictures. Now seeing
Speaker 2: the little nigga be hot in his arm. Look, the
Speaker 2: tall one has both arms very long.
Speaker 5: Is the tower one? Where's the tower one arm position
Speaker 5: behind the other?
Speaker 3: No, no, both of his arms are right here, the
Speaker 3: little one arm behind.
Speaker 7: Where are you from? Where are you from? Which one
Speaker 7: of the twins got the short arm?
Speaker 5: How thirty?
Speaker 2: Let's come up with the arm got pyramids? So we
Speaker 2: gotta we listen and we judge.
Speaker 5: I should be like an our hour. Okay, I would
Speaker 5: fuck the time.
Speaker 1: With the little arm.
Speaker 6: So oh look at like come on we were talking
Speaker 6: about so you can you could judge me ugly.
Speaker 1: Niggas can take if you do a game bat the
Speaker 1: niggas gonna be a lead game.
Speaker 5: Ugly.
Speaker 1: I don't want to save a big because there's a
Speaker 1: charity at.
Speaker 5: That pointil likely.
Speaker 2: Money really takes over all. Okay, were listening, Ea, judge,
Speaker 2: let's get to this. So it's one of our favorite
Speaker 2: segments because when you share a piece of gossip your
Speaker 2: friend group and we're gonna listen and judge. So any
Speaker 2: of your niggas called you, lady all home girl told
Speaker 2: you some bullshit and you would like to bring it
Speaker 2: to the table to judge.
Speaker 5: Today, No, nigga's not comed with Now if.
Speaker 1: You don't have any we have three celebrities you could
Speaker 1: choose to judge today, all.
Speaker 5: Right, been I'm down for that.
Speaker 1: She was from off set, Cardi B or Halle Berry.
Speaker 1: I feel like two of them were part of going
Speaker 1: Halley Bearry.
Speaker 2: Okay, you really judging her because she ain't clean clean?
Speaker 2: What way are we not up to date? You would
Speaker 2: TikTok niggas.
Speaker 5: So that's Carston girl.
Speaker 1: Okay.
Speaker 2: So halle Berry's ex husband, the MLB player, the one Dustin.
Speaker 2: This came out like a month and a half, like
Speaker 2: two months ago.
Speaker 1: So basically he said that halle Berry wasn't cleaning and cooking.
Speaker 7: So she halle Berry by the time she was seeing
Speaker 7: her titties and swartfish niggas she want to have to do ship.
Speaker 1: I felt the same, right, nigga?
Speaker 5: You talking about what's allie?
Speaker 2: So we're judging Halle because she wasn't cleaning the cookie.
Speaker 2: What you're judging Halle for talking about her pussy on
Speaker 2: the internet?
Speaker 5: Probably? Uh running dish Run.
Speaker 1: Was Kaitlyn Jenner. I'm judging Halley.
Speaker 7: His three I think Halley Caitlin and I'm judging.
Speaker 1: I'm judging Halle because.
Speaker 5: I'm judging Halle for fucking here Billy Bob Thorton.
Speaker 1: That's crazy. She was okay crazy, really didn't even want orbitch.
Speaker 1: I would know he's white. Yeah, you better him for
Speaker 1: one of the white woman candle clothes over white woman.
Speaker 1: And now you want to.
Speaker 7: Over imagine you Ryan Billibo and you got kissing in
Speaker 7: the mouth and the mouth for the deal you talking about?
Speaker 5: Yeah, you're gonna be married.
Speaker 2: Whose mouth is worse? So if we're talking about them
Speaker 2: two niggas, that is a fair.
Speaker 5: Who Bill the nigga from you?
Speaker 2: Na?
Speaker 7: That's both ill mouth right there?
Speaker 5: Yeah nasty.
Speaker 3: I am judging Halle Berry for something that was just
Speaker 3: brought to my attention, and I feel like it is
Speaker 3: completely wrong. So when first off, I'm judging her for
Speaker 3: two things. The first thing is she was dating this
Speaker 3: this nigga who was an MLB player. Five months into
Speaker 3: the relationship, she told him to propose to her. So
Speaker 3: I'm judging her for that telling a nigga five months
Speaker 3: and you gotta marry me and this nigga like a dummy.
Speaker 1: I'm judging he was worth how much back there?
Speaker 3: Yeah, he was worth a lot.
Speaker 1: Judge.
Speaker 7: If I'm in the mL I'm gonna have my lawyers
Speaker 7: like make sure we good and I'm married.
Speaker 5: I think.
Speaker 1: You're her for saying that.
Speaker 3: I'm judging her for five months in telling the nigga
Speaker 3: to marry you because have some fuck Cooper.
Speaker 5: Didn't you Jo?
Speaker 1: He did?
Speaker 5: So they do cancel judgment.
Speaker 1: Okay, she said.
Speaker 3: The second thing I'm judging her for is very problematic,
Speaker 3: and you bitch just gotta get better with this ship.
Speaker 3: So in the same interview, he let it be known
Speaker 3: that she went on a press run after they broke up.
Speaker 3: Mind you, they divorced, they got separated. She went on
Speaker 3: a whole run talking about being abused in a previous relationship,
Speaker 3: and she allowed the narrative to be pushed that it
Speaker 3: was him, when in fact, it was a whole nother Echola,
Speaker 3: she did not clear it up that it wasn't him
Speaker 3: that she was talking about, and he's like, did we
Speaker 3: ever find out that it wasn't him? But he said
Speaker 3: in this interview, he was like, she had a whole
Speaker 3: machine behind him.
Speaker 1: And what sucks about it is what was I supposed
Speaker 1: to do? Say it ate me? When literally the narrative is.
Speaker 3: That she was talking about a previous relationship, but this
Speaker 3: was literally right on the heels of them.
Speaker 1: Ending their relationship, real ship. How do we know it
Speaker 1: wasn't him?
Speaker 3: It wasn't him, like literally it was because he said
Speaker 3: it was confirmed it was a whole other actor?
Speaker 1: Was it was another actor?
Speaker 3: Because she said she considered she considered suicide because of
Speaker 3: this abusive relationship.
Speaker 5: Okay, but look a whole person.
Speaker 7: And I don't know if it's like the right way
Speaker 7: to approach the conversation. Let's do but like, if you're
Speaker 7: gonna call somebody off of being abusive, you need to
Speaker 7: put a.
Speaker 1: Nice put a name on the bullet.
Speaker 2: Which is why I'm judging her because she allowed the
Speaker 2: narrative to carry on.
Speaker 7: There is this guy the apprehension that come with because
Speaker 7: I mean, if motherfucker was abusive kind of But if
Speaker 7: you're going out there, behave you kind of.
Speaker 5: Out there, I'm not gonna lie.
Speaker 1: I'll bring it here because it's a couple of years old. Now.
Speaker 1: I got in trouble quote unquote a little bit.
Speaker 2: Oh, and I've onably believed the name only because I
Speaker 2: still be around people and stuff that know her. But
Speaker 2: when Lato was promoting her seven seven seven album, she
Speaker 2: went on almost a press front talking about how she
Speaker 2: didn't almost get a Verse cleared because there was a
Speaker 2: certain nigga on the album that was trying to advance.
Speaker 1: When she was saying it was Kodak, she.
Speaker 3: Didn't say anything. The narrative was that it was Kodak
Speaker 3: from my back end and my knowledge, I heard through
Speaker 3: the grape vine.
Speaker 1: That it was Wayne and Boy.
Speaker 3: When I said that on my podcast, the one that
Speaker 3: no longer exists, it was like I got all these
Speaker 3: messages and so that was my problem. I was like,
Speaker 3: as much as I support Lotto, I love her, I'm
Speaker 3: a lot of stand love her music. Thinks she's fucking
Speaker 3: bad as fuck, love everything she's doing as an artist.
Speaker 3: I felt like, as a woman, you shouldn't be in
Speaker 3: a place to allow a narrative to go around about
Speaker 3: a man that isn't the perpetrator of this crime mine.
Speaker 3: Then Kodak reposted saying that I was like, I told
Speaker 3: y'all it wasn't me, And I was just like, as women,
Speaker 3: we had to be in a place where we understand
Speaker 3: that niggas's monsters out here and that niggas do bullshit, right,
Speaker 3: But if we're gonna speak about the bullshit that happens anywhere, that's.
Speaker 1: A little thing.
Speaker 2: Even if we're saying that I talk about a brutal
Speaker 2: and violent crape in the book from an Atlanta rapper,
Speaker 2: should I put his.
Speaker 1: Name on it?
Speaker 3: I mean to me, you had the conversation with Charlemagne
Speaker 3: where you were like, you were like.
Speaker 7: Do I say, okay, this is where I can find
Speaker 7: some middle ground in it. If you don't want to
Speaker 7: expouse y'all user name out of like fear that, okay,
Speaker 7: you shouldn't. You know what I'm saying. I think speaking
Speaker 7: to your experience kind of freeze other people to be
Speaker 7: able to speak about their experience. I think if a
Speaker 7: name get attached to it, who it ain't, it's your
Speaker 7: responsibility to agree with that.
Speaker 2: I think if yeah, I agree with you, like if
Speaker 2: you should have the man.
Speaker 7: Said, I've got to say six crimes is like Scarlett Letter, Yeah,
Speaker 7: I can't get around it. So, like I would say,
Speaker 7: if you don't want to expoil the person name, but
Speaker 7: another name to get attached.
Speaker 1: To it, who you can't the person? You think that
Speaker 1: women have to be able to talk about something that happened,
Speaker 1: but also say not only women ment to period.
Speaker 3: Really well, I'm only saying that because there's a lot
Speaker 3: of things being attached right now to Tyler Perry and
Speaker 3: people are like, but it's not Tyler Perry someone else.
Speaker 1: Like the same too with men. If there's a sexual
Speaker 1: assault that's gonna come out and you're.
Speaker 3: Going to give enough details to where it could be
Speaker 3: attached to anybody, and public perception connects it to someone
Speaker 3: that it's not, you have to be able to absolve
Speaker 3: that person.
Speaker 1: That is not if you're talking about somebody else.
Speaker 7: You don't even have to and you don't have to
Speaker 7: do that. You don't have to like say it wasn't
Speaker 7: this person, it was that person. You would be like, hey, respectfully,
Speaker 7: that person.
Speaker 5: Had nothing to do with me.
Speaker 7: Yeah, and that's it, Because like I spoke about being
Speaker 7: molested when I was younger about a woman that was
Speaker 7: close to my family. And if somebody would have put
Speaker 7: a name on somebody in my family and it wasn't,
Speaker 7: then I'd have been.
Speaker 5: Like, respectfully that person.
Speaker 7: I don't mean I got to expose to it is
Speaker 7: because the thing is too like to speak about an experience.
Speaker 5: It free you up.
Speaker 7: Too, because that shit just ain't sitting in your head
Speaker 7: out on my fucking day, or like dictating your actions
Speaker 7: and emotions, and step one is acknowledging shit so you
Speaker 7: can get past it.
Speaker 5: And also with a public player.
Speaker 1: I can't say like you got to put a name
Speaker 1: on the only thing.
Speaker 2: And the reason I wanted to bring up Rappers is
Speaker 2: because I think it happen when I was nineteen, That's
Speaker 2: when he was famous. So in my head, I'm like, oh,
Speaker 2: this is totally connected to like why the person I
Speaker 2: ran down in the hotel, I'm an ask for help
Speaker 2: and they didn't do anything. It's all connected to this,
Speaker 2: same to money to maybe me not saying anything.
Speaker 1: That power is what we see what the did, and.
Speaker 7: So like my things like to that point, I don't
Speaker 7: think you got to put a name on the bullet
Speaker 7: I just think you can't allow somebody name to be
Speaker 7: put on that bitch if they ain't happen to do it.
Speaker 1: I mean, how you doing that? That was her being
Speaker 1: petty if he didn't, If it wasn't him, you probably
Speaker 1: would on.
Speaker 7: Some ship like the nigga played me or whatever the
Speaker 7: case may be. He got down like I got to
Speaker 7: get down with halle Berry married like my.
Speaker 3: We don't have much so but I do want to
Speaker 3: get a little deep, do you no?
Speaker 1: We we know we can.
Speaker 3: I ask you a question, as a man who has
Speaker 3: had that experience of sexual assault, did you ever tell
Speaker 3: anyone the woman like did you ever feel like you
Speaker 3: are out there?
Speaker 5: I told my dad and then I told my aunt.
Speaker 1: You know what was the response did she?
Speaker 7: I mean they was distraught about the ship. But it's
Speaker 7: like that person, that person the place where I came.
Speaker 7: So it was like I kind of did some digging
Speaker 7: and asking around and I found out that shit had.
Speaker 5: Happened to her previously.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but it happened to r Kelly too, and we
Speaker 1: don't know.
Speaker 5: I'm not absolving her.
Speaker 7: I'm just saying, like I had, I got to a
Speaker 7: place where I had empathy for the situation.
Speaker 5: Okay, and it's like we're both kids. You feel me, so, like,
Speaker 5: how old were you? I was eight? She was twelve
Speaker 5: or thirteen?
Speaker 1: And when did you tell your parents shit?
Speaker 5: When I was grown? Oh yeah, my mama passed. My
Speaker 5: MoMA ain't never know, but my dad.
Speaker 7: I told my parts you know what I'm saying, and
Speaker 7: then I told my auntsie, and then of course I
Speaker 7: talked about it on the podcast, and that's when my
Speaker 7: auntie caught me, like, bro, what happened?
Speaker 5: Type shit?
Speaker 7: I'm not thinking about it, but I'm freed up because
Speaker 7: I didn't tell my daddy. So like, that's the person
Speaker 7: who really mattered the most. It's my family. He know
Speaker 7: the person. So it's like for me, it's not important
Speaker 7: to put a name because I also know what that
Speaker 7: person life looks like right now they're going through.
Speaker 1: Do you know? That's what I put at the end
Speaker 1: of my chappin what I was like.
Speaker 2: At first, I was feeling bad, ohah blah blah blah,
Speaker 2: but at the end of the day, only one of
Speaker 2: us on top.
Speaker 1: Right now, it's something about out and I hate that.
Speaker 2: I felt vindicated, validated through it, but it's not ingranted
Speaker 2: even if he wasn't.
Speaker 5: I don't think their personal Oh no, low.
Speaker 1: So they're like, this ain't that man, but he definitely,
Speaker 1: you know, he ain't that.
Speaker 2: Now what I did feel because I was thinking, if
Speaker 2: you had money, would I feel? I actually think it
Speaker 2: would be harder to tell the story because all I
Speaker 2: would think is people would think I want money.
Speaker 5: Yeah.
Speaker 7: It's about women get in too, because it's like, oh,
Speaker 7: you're just trying to take down the power for a nigga.
Speaker 7: Oh you're just trying to get some money or woo.
Speaker 7: But then it's like if the nigga done fell off,
Speaker 7: then it'd become a thing of like why you ain't
Speaker 7: say nahing.
Speaker 5: When it was this and that? Why you ain't said it?
Speaker 1: So like you damn don't yeah all the time?
Speaker 7: Like I think also too, it's like this victim blaming
Speaker 7: ship of like we're gonna judge the person that the
Speaker 7: other person instead of like inquiring about like the person
Speaker 7: that's being accused of it, Like, nah, absolve yourself for this, bro,
Speaker 7: because what you got the.
Speaker 2: Way that the internet has, we are never going I'm
Speaker 2: telling you, it's so hard for women to say something.
Speaker 2: I contemplated so much like people think I'm trying to
Speaker 2: sell a book because I talked about this.
Speaker 1: Nigga, like, what is it? But in reality, it's.
Speaker 5: Funish our life and your experience.
Speaker 6: Bro.
Speaker 7: It's like, first of all, too like niggas ain't trying
Speaker 7: to monetize off that for real. Like, but if we
Speaker 7: talking and were keeping it real, the name of the book,
Speaker 7: no hoss bar. So it's like I'm gonna keep it
Speaker 7: really about my experience I saw too. It's like with
Speaker 7: a platform, there's people out here that need to.
Speaker 5: Feel seen in me.
Speaker 7: They need voices, they need even if they can't express
Speaker 7: it outwardly, at least they know they not alone. And
Speaker 7: the ship because oftentimes when we go through like real
Speaker 7: traumatic experiences, we think we're the only person that been
Speaker 7: through it, even if we don't, even if we know
Speaker 7: we not, it's still feel because you can't tell nobody
Speaker 7: around you. And so like when I came out and
Speaker 7: was vocal about my situation, the amount of men that
Speaker 7: just came out with their stories and like was expressive
Speaker 7: about it.
Speaker 5: Women, you know what I'm saying. But a lot of
Speaker 5: niggas was freed up, so we.
Speaker 1: Don't hear about men's stories. Man. That's how you become
Speaker 1: a man, I supposed to tell you happy. I think.
Speaker 7: I think the sentiment that people need to take away
Speaker 7: is that children aren't safe.
Speaker 5: Your children, children children.
Speaker 1: Not a man and woman think. It's not a boy girl.
Speaker 5: Thing manifest into a man and woman thing when these
Speaker 5: children grow up.
Speaker 7: So, like I had expressed, like the person, the person
Speaker 7: who goes to a traumatic experience either traumatized somebody else
Speaker 7: or they further traumatize themselves. So like, you don't know
Speaker 7: what's rop that ship gonna take. So by being honest
Speaker 7: and like advocating for these kids and believe in the
Speaker 7: kid when they say something, instead of trying to protect
Speaker 7: these adults ship, we could in the.
Speaker 1: Cycle of that does be very clear. These adults know
Speaker 1: right from motherfucker.
Speaker 7: Nah, for sure, she knew better, she knew better. But
Speaker 7: at the same time, it's like ship, that ship fucked
Speaker 7: my whole brain up, ain't well.
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