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Speaker 1: Welcome to Decisions Decisions. I don't think you should say

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Speaker 1: decision decisions. It sounded like you was talking to Kirsten.

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Speaker 2: You definitely say to welcome, welcome to the new podcast.

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Speaker 2: You want to say together Decisions Decisions.

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Speaker 3: Hey guys, welcome to another episode of Decisions Decisions. Now, y'all,

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Speaker 3: if you are in the South, this is gonna be

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Speaker 3: a litle Southern episode. But just so you know, let

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Speaker 3: me go ahead and get it started because I have

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Speaker 3: been missed. What's it called geographicize? Okay, giographicize? Okay, it's

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Speaker 3: your girl man d v A ka dat bitch from

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Speaker 3: the Fall seven Chappa City Block.

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Speaker 1: I don't get a book.

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Speaker 4: This is normal intros, really embarrassing, gyuess it is.

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Speaker 2: Anybody's only going one way.

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Speaker 3: Okay, by the way, let me tell you actually I

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Speaker 3: brought up where I was from, but my my real

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Speaker 3: introduction is that it's your girl Mandy b a k

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Speaker 3: A Peg the Stallion aka Pagan Marcle aka Peggy Bundy.

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Speaker 1: Okay that.

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Speaker 2: You hear another voice today. It's gonna be loud, it's

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Speaker 2: gonna be disruptive. Just remember when you're in the comments

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Speaker 2: saying where are supposed to it from him. We have

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Speaker 2: conversational pots. Okay, my name is Weezy, your background decision decisions.

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Speaker 2: And since we do bios, now, holy.

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Speaker 1: Weezy does that bile.

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Speaker 3: So I'm gonna let the way I do a ka's

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Speaker 3: Wheezy gives like these thoughtful bios.

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Speaker 1: So you don't have a thoughtful bio's real quick.

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Speaker 2: So we have Dehontae Kyle, host creator of the Grits

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Speaker 2: and Eggs podcast Not the Restaurant, a platform committed to

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Speaker 2: addressing the mess we like to sweep under the rug

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Speaker 2: in the black community and providing raw without a condom

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Speaker 2: and nuance to our plight and experiences in the country,

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Speaker 2: both socially and politically.

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Speaker 5: AKA Pagan Marc Nigga.

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Speaker 1: Time ship is crazy? Are you a no?

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Speaker 5: Stop using that?

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Speaker 1: Are you a y am?

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Speaker 5: Can you say nigga?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 6: But young niggas wyan Yeah absolutely because because because the

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Speaker 6: ten years, if we just abbreviated, then niggas that can't

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Speaker 6: say nigga will say why that's like you call me

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Speaker 6: a nigga without calling this was like.

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Speaker 1: Don't diminish I'm not gonna lie it.

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Speaker 7: Is it's still don't diminish them because you know, use

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Speaker 7: the y ship like a super PREDI right now.

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Speaker 2: People, I don't like That's why I didn't know that,

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Speaker 2: But I don't know why people like I didn't know why.

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Speaker 5: People like that neither.

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Speaker 7: But I'm telling you on TikTok and like Instagram and

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Speaker 7: like social media, how.

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Speaker 5: They got down.

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Speaker 1: I don't like that in some of the titles of

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Speaker 1: the rappers names no no, like.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, that's that's.

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Speaker 1: Something that's like gangs ship.

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Speaker 7: The whole ship comes from. Like you know, they will

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Speaker 7: take anything down. So like when you we used to

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Speaker 7: use the nin and now when you use that take

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Speaker 7: comment down to start saying no, I.

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Speaker 5: Can't be corrected sammarized in the chat.

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Speaker 7: So like now if some went to start saying why

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Speaker 7: instead of saying young nigga, and then you know, white

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Speaker 7: folk just takes it around.

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Speaker 3: With yes the same way we gotta say great now

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Speaker 3: all from TikTok.

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Speaker 1: You know what I can't say un all that it's

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Speaker 1: not fun. You know what I'm like, I'm gonna kill myself.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonnay alive. I want to have the drum.

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Speaker 5: Ye, the drama got a state.

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Speaker 1: Of well, I ain't gonna hold you. I wish TikTok

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Speaker 1: would stop allowing people.

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Speaker 3: I know that like the resists, the women like get

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Speaker 3: their ship off. They be embarrassing themselves so much like

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Speaker 3: I don't found myself down the rabbit hole of like.

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Speaker 1: Women admitting to the bullshit men that they like along time.

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Speaker 3: It makes the hot girls go down one thousand points.

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Speaker 7: To understand too, like we need people to it's those

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Speaker 7: stupidity so we know what not to do.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So then you're all you're all down for the tapp.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, hell you're no. I don't know nothing about it.

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Speaker 5: I'll be hearing about it.

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Speaker 1: But see what it looks like.

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Speaker 5: Listen, Yeah, wait, can.

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Speaker 1: We see if he's on there?

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Speaker 5: Okay, you don't know that clean?

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Speaker 1: Hold no, look him up. I we we got we

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Speaker 1: got your government name too.

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Speaker 7: You say what I'm we have your name?

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Speaker 1: Wait, we got to start doing this.

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Speaker 2: All the men that come on the pot, we gotta

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Speaker 2: see if they get Oh he fine, bitch, I would

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Speaker 2: want to talk to him.

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Speaker 5: Hold on, wait skip see that? How how women you got? You?

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Speaker 1: Wait? Type his last name? You got his full name?

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Speaker 2: No bit, because the niggas didn't putting the last name.

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Speaker 2: Hold on, but see this is a young girl's game.

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Speaker 1: How old are you?

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Speaker 2: No, you would be on here sixty nine red flags

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Speaker 2: for another deonta lord. I say, as a red flag name,

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Speaker 2: I ain't gonna hold you it is you got the.

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Speaker 1: Shot.

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Speaker 5: It is by me. Man. I'm very honest, so I

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Speaker 5: won't get caught up and ship like that.

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Speaker 1: But you being honest.

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Speaker 3: And I say that all the time, like people have

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Speaker 3: been trying to correct me, like I actually now. I

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Speaker 3: went out with my my good friend the other night

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Speaker 3: and I let him know, like I'm just gonna let

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Speaker 3: niggas know when everyone's in the room, like whether I

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Speaker 3: talk to them or not, and he actually let me know.

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Speaker 3: He was like, oh no, you gotta stop doing that.

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Speaker 3: And I was like, well, why I'm being honest with

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Speaker 3: everyone and he was like.

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Speaker 5: Well, they's timing a place for that ship.

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Speaker 1: So so that's what you got ship. No, No, no, no, wait, wait,

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Speaker 1: let me finish.

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Speaker 2: Let me so I invite them like like when I

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Speaker 2: was in l A, I booked.

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Speaker 5: A combatting man. Niggas you done in the same spot.

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Speaker 1: Because I'm a bottle.

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Speaker 3: If a bottle nigga, y'all want a bottle, y'all want

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Speaker 3: to eat, It's all meant no because all my friends

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Speaker 3: are there, so it's just like to me though, I

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Speaker 3: like hanging out also with my niggas, but my friends

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Speaker 3: are all there, so you're meeting my friends. That's why

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Speaker 3: I don't think meeting friends means anything. So anyways, I

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Speaker 3: had a cabana. Whenever I go to l A, I

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Speaker 3: have to do breakfast, lunch, dinner in between recordings with people.

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Speaker 3: It's too much. So last time I was there, I

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Speaker 3: booked a cabana at Bob. I told everyone, show up,

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Speaker 3: it's on me, food, drinks, whatever, and I ended up

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Speaker 3: inviting three of the niggas.

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Speaker 1: Two of them showed up.

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Speaker 2: Didn't expect I thought only one of the three cause

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Speaker 2: nigga thought really be showing up.

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Speaker 1: Two or the three showed up and then they just

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Speaker 1: played it out.

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Speaker 5: Play it, you know.

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Speaker 1: No.

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Speaker 3: I told my friend that I did this and he

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Speaker 3: actually was like not so what men don't do is

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Speaker 3: express their ego. And he said, if you invite a

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Speaker 3: nigga that really likes you, And this is where I was.

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Speaker 1: Like, maybe I do it real lame niggas because he said, nah,

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Speaker 1: now niggas catch the face and might go pop up

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Speaker 1: like he was making it seem like ship ghetto.

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Speaker 2: It was.

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Speaker 5: Like, I'm not doing that. It's like, but let's have the.

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Speaker 1: Girl up a lifetime.

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Speaker 2: What you were just saying though when she said the

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Speaker 2: first comment about you, were like, don't tell me. Now,

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Speaker 2: let's just say we dated, not like maybe we're not

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Speaker 2: boyfriend girlfriend yet, but we fucking now we.

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Speaker 1: Had the rock point, right, so now we at the

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Speaker 1: wrong point. You get buried. Don't have it roten.

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Speaker 2: I'm just fucking well, you get to a point, not.

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Speaker 1: A god, you're going real. You gotta did you just

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Speaker 1: say condom stop?

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Speaker 5: Yeah? Like ship.

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Speaker 1: You y'all don't think it's fucking for real with a condom.

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Speaker 1: It is fucking I'm talking about fucking with someone like

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Speaker 1: y'all vacation.

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Speaker 7: Okay, So like just some little quick like hitt and

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Speaker 7: quit or like our first links and ship like that.

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Speaker 3: I understand when do you take the condom off when

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Speaker 3: you fucking somebody?

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Speaker 5: When I started considering cutting other holes, that's.

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Speaker 1: A good rule. I'm not mad at that.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, okay, considering like, okay, we're locked in tight ship.

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Speaker 2: So we're at that point the cons off sixty days

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Speaker 2: then maybe I met your mam, maybe you been mind

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Speaker 2: going to face sixty.

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Speaker 1: Me, My mama is crazy. That's crazy.

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Speaker 5: The process you might mean.

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Speaker 1: Changes.

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Speaker 5: Okay, so we get to.

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Speaker 1: A spot I sucked the nigga there.

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Speaker 7: You don't want to know, not, Okay, I'm gonna I'm

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Speaker 7: gonna tell you. I'm gonna tell you how these gotta go.

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Speaker 7: Is you gonna be acting weird while the nigga.

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Speaker 1: In the spot, I'm not talking about acting weird?

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Speaker 5: No, no, no, answer that question.

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Speaker 7: He asking a question if if you're gonna act weird

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Speaker 7: when you're gonna keep it playing, you tell me after,

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Speaker 7: because if you tell me while I'm in there, I'm

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Speaker 7: gonna be I'm gonna be too hyper focused on that.

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Speaker 7: But what if we're cause I'm ana tend that nigga

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Speaker 7: like you might change spik the nigga drink. No, But

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Speaker 7: I'm just saying like, because because you're putting my fuckus

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Speaker 7: on some ship, were supposed to be hanging out having

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Speaker 7: on some wood wood wool, as long as the nigga

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Speaker 7: player and he don't do the most, like try to

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Speaker 7: do the most, cause niggas will try to do the most.

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Speaker 5: When they see you out with another nigga, he'll try

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Speaker 5: to make it like now.

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Speaker 2: What's he at a networking event with the podcast networking event?

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Speaker 1: Boom? I fuck this nigga? You like, hey, you know,

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Speaker 1: oh yeah, I know you brother.

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Speaker 5: I don't care nothing about that.

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Speaker 1: You won't take my body on the show.

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Speaker 2: What like you, I'm saying the nigga head y'all just

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Speaker 2: about to network Like you don't want me to tell you.

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Speaker 7: I don't give a fuck anything like, but follow me

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Speaker 7: really don't fuck it matter. My thing is is if

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Speaker 7: you put it to my attention, that's where my attention

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Speaker 7: gonna be at you feel me, so like, don't fuck

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Speaker 7: up the vibe.

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Speaker 5: Let me know, like, y'all, I fuck that nigga like.

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Speaker 7: Really crazy life just got just know afterwards, so like

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Speaker 7: my attention stay focused on why we there?

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Speaker 5: You did all right? Because then cause because not because

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Speaker 5: like this.

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Speaker 7: Is I ain't too When you make somebody all wear

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Speaker 7: a ship like that, they might over read into ship.

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Speaker 7: So like let me like, let's say we're going to

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Speaker 7: a spot whatever and I tell you like, oh yeah,

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Speaker 7: I hit shot it right. Oh We're like I'm just

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Speaker 7: letting you know because we are here together, and then

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Speaker 5: The niggas that I'm talking look out the floor?

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Speaker 3: Is it just like you got to be you have

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Speaker 1: It's not a costco simpler.

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Speaker 7: Niggas tripping because like why would you even.

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Speaker 5: Yeah that's a real thing.

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Speaker 3: Because I've been seeing the girls, especially with the streamers,

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Speaker 5: Suck your dick, but you get you know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 2: I feel like to get back together because a lot

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Speaker 7: Yeah, now we're walking outside names you feel me so

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Speaker 7: I do be dating, but like, man, that shit be

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Speaker 7: I don't care until they get what they want. Then

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Speaker 7: because I'm gona figure out who the fuck you is

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Speaker 3: that person because he met me when I was twenty

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00:19:31,160 --> 00:19:33,359
Speaker 3: nine thirty. He never met the twenty four year old,

443
00:19:33,400 --> 00:19:34,840
Speaker 3: the twenty five year old, the twenty six year old

444
00:19:34,840 --> 00:19:38,080
Speaker 3: that was out here, Wilin, And at the very end

445
00:19:38,080 --> 00:19:40,800
Speaker 3: of our relationship, he threw something out to me that

446
00:19:40,840 --> 00:19:43,080
Speaker 3: I had just shared with him. Has there ever been

447
00:19:43,520 --> 00:19:46,520
Speaker 3: a moment where a woman has told you she did

448
00:19:46,560 --> 00:19:48,920
Speaker 3: something in the past. Say she let two niggas fuck.

449
00:19:49,160 --> 00:19:51,879
Speaker 1: Say she did a game bang. Say she sold drugs.

450
00:19:51,880 --> 00:19:53,280
Speaker 1: I don't know. Let me take it away from sex.

451
00:19:53,520 --> 00:19:56,239
Speaker 1: Say she did ten abortions, I don't know.

452
00:19:56,400 --> 00:19:59,720
Speaker 3: Whatever that would make you think secondly about the woman,

453
00:19:59,760 --> 00:20:01,679
Speaker 3: as the ever been anything that a woman has shared

454
00:20:02,240 --> 00:20:05,080
Speaker 3: that has kept you from literally being like, this is

455
00:20:05,080 --> 00:20:08,200
Speaker 3: a woman. I'll probably never look serious because I can't

456
00:20:08,200 --> 00:20:09,000
Speaker 3: get that out of my mind.

457
00:20:09,720 --> 00:20:12,159
Speaker 7: Yeah, it's gonna be I mean, of course, but I

458
00:20:12,200 --> 00:20:16,240
Speaker 7: think also too is just I be I'm real observed

459
00:20:16,240 --> 00:20:19,399
Speaker 7: and i'd be paying attention. Like exploring things sexually, I

460
00:20:19,400 --> 00:20:20,679
Speaker 7: ain't a real big deal to me.

461
00:20:20,880 --> 00:20:24,720
Speaker 5: Okay, game ban is crazy, Like that's crazy. You know

462
00:20:24,760 --> 00:20:29,600
Speaker 5: what I'm saying. It's it's not crazy sexually. It's not

463
00:20:29,640 --> 00:20:31,040
Speaker 5: like taboo. It's just like.

464
00:20:32,400 --> 00:20:34,680
Speaker 7: Three two dates in the room. And now I'm just

465
00:20:34,680 --> 00:20:36,080
Speaker 7: supposed to carry you across the fence.

466
00:20:37,680 --> 00:20:40,240
Speaker 1: You can't be like exploring sexually is crazy now.

467
00:20:40,280 --> 00:20:44,760
Speaker 7: But I'm saying, I'm I'm all and I respect it.

468
00:20:44,800 --> 00:20:47,840
Speaker 7: That's see the nigga for you.

469
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Speaker 1: That's what I mean. But really it's actually being a

470
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Speaker 1: bad day.

471
00:20:51,560 --> 00:20:54,200
Speaker 7: The thing is is like I'm gonna be honest about that, like, hey,

472
00:20:54,280 --> 00:20:55,240
Speaker 7: I'm gonna hold you.

473
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Speaker 5: That just shifty things for me. But I'm a still fun.

474
00:21:00,160 --> 00:21:01,880
Speaker 1: But you want her to be honest. It's crazy because

475
00:21:01,880 --> 00:21:02,400
Speaker 1: you said.

476
00:21:02,240 --> 00:21:04,680
Speaker 7: I'm an honest I need honesty to know what type

477
00:21:04,680 --> 00:21:05,960
Speaker 7: of decision I'm gonna make, just like.

478
00:21:06,240 --> 00:21:08,440
Speaker 3: What she would never do it again. She just did

479
00:21:08,480 --> 00:21:09,880
Speaker 3: it in college one time.

480
00:21:12,200 --> 00:21:13,200
Speaker 1: Can you be honest here?

481
00:21:13,200 --> 00:21:13,400
Speaker 5: Though?

482
00:21:14,280 --> 00:21:17,240
Speaker 1: It's it's a problem. We gotta let niggas have that.

483
00:21:17,320 --> 00:21:23,080
Speaker 7: Yeah, like that you gotta because I'm gonna tell you.

484
00:21:21,720 --> 00:21:24,880
Speaker 1: Thinking as a sexually liberated girl, if you don't, don't

485
00:21:24,920 --> 00:21:26,000
Speaker 1: find so here.

486
00:21:26,160 --> 00:21:28,480
Speaker 5: It's things's your, it's things you like.

487
00:21:28,920 --> 00:21:31,520
Speaker 1: We can let we can let quote unquote niggas have it.

488
00:21:31,600 --> 00:21:31,879
Speaker 5: Sure.

489
00:21:32,160 --> 00:21:35,159
Speaker 3: However, take someone one moment if no one sets across

490
00:21:35,160 --> 00:21:37,280
Speaker 3: from me and it's like, I'm an honest nigga, I'm

491
00:21:37,280 --> 00:21:41,320
Speaker 3: gonna accept, and you want an honest woman to me,

492
00:21:41,560 --> 00:21:44,280
Speaker 3: I'm confused with where if this woman is being honest

493
00:21:45,040 --> 00:21:47,600
Speaker 3: of things that she did before she even met you,

494
00:21:47,920 --> 00:21:49,800
Speaker 3: and now that's being to.

495
00:21:48,920 --> 00:21:51,000
Speaker 5: Get honestly, I ain't going for that.

496
00:21:54,040 --> 00:21:55,240
Speaker 1: Everyone don't be holdenough.

497
00:21:58,119 --> 00:21:59,160
Speaker 5: The thing is like.

498
00:22:00,280 --> 00:22:03,440
Speaker 3: It's a weaponizing It may not be like a judgment

499
00:22:03,480 --> 00:22:04,840
Speaker 3: it's not a judgmental thing.

500
00:22:04,960 --> 00:22:06,399
Speaker 7: It's just like, Okay, I'm gonna tell you what it

501
00:22:06,440 --> 00:22:09,040
Speaker 7: really is. And I'm trying to tell you niggas is

502
00:22:09,080 --> 00:22:12,040
Speaker 7: so physical and it's so visual that like niggas done

503
00:22:12,040 --> 00:22:14,520
Speaker 7: seeing porn where niggas is too tag team and a

504
00:22:14,560 --> 00:22:16,800
Speaker 7: girl and it's like, damn, nigga gonna put that girl

505
00:22:16,880 --> 00:22:19,480
Speaker 7: in that situation like that nigga had my girl and

506
00:22:19,560 --> 00:22:20,600
Speaker 7: her been all.

507
00:22:20,480 --> 00:22:22,880
Speaker 2: Side, and you know what it is for me that

508
00:22:22,560 --> 00:22:28,200
Speaker 2: I experience sugirl.

509
00:22:28,720 --> 00:22:30,480
Speaker 1: I'm trying. We had a lot of times but going,

510
00:22:30,520 --> 00:22:31,760
Speaker 1: but I'm trying to ride this.

511
00:22:32,119 --> 00:22:35,600
Speaker 2: I'm one hundred percent okay with men having a choice

512
00:22:35,600 --> 00:22:36,359
Speaker 2: to not fuck with me.

513
00:22:36,880 --> 00:22:38,080
Speaker 1: I'm thirty four years old.

514
00:22:38,240 --> 00:22:40,920
Speaker 2: I finally in my life mess somebody that really doesn't

515
00:22:40,960 --> 00:22:42,879
Speaker 2: give a fuck about all of these things that I

516
00:22:42,880 --> 00:22:45,760
Speaker 2: could have put in there Right now, five years ago,

517
00:22:46,080 --> 00:22:48,359
Speaker 2: I'm crying in the fucking vedroom, like, oh my.

518
00:22:48,240 --> 00:22:50,119
Speaker 1: God, I should have never told that story, did it?

519
00:22:50,119 --> 00:22:50,880
Speaker 1: What do I give a fuck?

520
00:22:50,920 --> 00:22:53,160
Speaker 7: You gotta be honest though, like the thing is too.

521
00:22:53,240 --> 00:22:55,399
Speaker 7: It's actually better for you if I tell you like

522
00:22:55,520 --> 00:22:58,000
Speaker 7: I'm not going, because you could weed me out too

523
00:22:58,200 --> 00:23:00,080
Speaker 7: and then also to it ain't right a nigga do

524
00:23:00,280 --> 00:23:01,840
Speaker 7: not want to fuck or not want to kick it

525
00:23:01,840 --> 00:23:02,240
Speaker 7: a vite?

526
00:23:02,320 --> 00:23:06,400
Speaker 3: No, I'm waiting a nigga out. You not getting this pussy,

527
00:23:06,480 --> 00:23:08,080
Speaker 3: you know, hanging with me if I'm not.

528
00:23:09,480 --> 00:23:11,240
Speaker 5: You can't assume a nigga not read your books.

529
00:23:11,560 --> 00:23:13,359
Speaker 1: You're not even reading my book. First off, I have

530
00:23:13,480 --> 00:23:15,600
Speaker 1: my podcast. It is what it is. I have the book.

531
00:23:15,720 --> 00:23:17,240
Speaker 1: Here's all my stories right here too.

532
00:23:17,560 --> 00:23:20,520
Speaker 3: And for me, I've been very adamant and like betting

533
00:23:20,560 --> 00:23:21,240
Speaker 3: and kind of talking.

534
00:23:22,600 --> 00:23:23,960
Speaker 1: I mean, it's not even that I have to tell them.

535
00:23:23,960 --> 00:23:27,800
Speaker 1: I literally have to be called horrible decisions any woman.

536
00:23:27,600 --> 00:23:29,760
Speaker 3: That first off, you ain't on a mic, sir, so

537
00:23:29,840 --> 00:23:31,800
Speaker 3: you can't just be out here asking questions.

538
00:23:34,000 --> 00:23:35,440
Speaker 1: But I'll be like you, mic up was something we

539
00:23:35,440 --> 00:23:37,000
Speaker 1: would have we would have put the goddamn mic on

540
00:23:37,240 --> 00:23:37,480
Speaker 1: to me.

541
00:23:38,040 --> 00:23:41,920
Speaker 3: To me, though, there's there's an element of self proclamation

542
00:23:42,000 --> 00:23:45,359
Speaker 3: as a whole self proclamation as a free spirit, a

543
00:23:45,400 --> 00:23:49,320
Speaker 3: woman who's open or sexually liberated, who when she goes

544
00:23:49,359 --> 00:23:52,600
Speaker 3: into dating, there's I'm sorry, I don't want a man

545
00:23:52,680 --> 00:23:56,720
Speaker 3: that's going to be judging about any kinks, fetishes or

546
00:23:56,760 --> 00:23:58,560
Speaker 3: things I've done in my past. And to me, it's

547
00:23:58,680 --> 00:24:01,560
Speaker 3: very easy out the gate to pick those type of

548
00:24:01,640 --> 00:24:05,440
Speaker 3: niggas that's or those type of partners. The same way

549
00:24:05,800 --> 00:24:08,280
Speaker 3: my friends will be like, damn, bitch, how you be

550
00:24:08,320 --> 00:24:11,880
Speaker 3: finding all these freaky ass, kiky ass niggas, And I'm like, bro,

551
00:24:12,520 --> 00:24:15,359
Speaker 3: these aren't any different than the men you're meeting. You're

552
00:24:15,400 --> 00:24:17,600
Speaker 3: just not creating a safe space for them to really

553
00:24:17,640 --> 00:24:19,160
Speaker 3: tell you the shit that they really be doing.

554
00:24:19,240 --> 00:24:21,000
Speaker 1: Or the shit they've done in the past.

555
00:24:20,880 --> 00:24:23,960
Speaker 3: Right, And so to me, I'm not opening my legs

556
00:24:24,000 --> 00:24:28,520
Speaker 3: laying with a nigga, fucking anybody, or like like growing

557
00:24:28,600 --> 00:24:30,840
Speaker 3: a relationship with someone that I know either in the

558
00:24:30,840 --> 00:24:34,159
Speaker 3: back of their mind is judging me or has a

559
00:24:34,160 --> 00:24:35,919
Speaker 3: way about how I've lived my life, Like I have

560
00:24:35,960 --> 00:24:38,200
Speaker 3: niggas right now, I wouldn't.

561
00:24:37,920 --> 00:24:39,640
Speaker 7: Do that, And I see this is the thing too,

562
00:24:39,720 --> 00:24:43,000
Speaker 7: I'm still like I still deal with my ego and

563
00:24:43,160 --> 00:24:47,080
Speaker 7: like some sensitivity around like what the bro's gonna think

564
00:24:47,080 --> 00:24:49,000
Speaker 7: and shit too, even though like I don't want to

565
00:24:49,040 --> 00:24:51,280
Speaker 7: think about that and for the most part it's not

566
00:24:51,359 --> 00:24:54,159
Speaker 7: really I don't really give a fuck, but these is

567
00:24:54,200 --> 00:24:56,320
Speaker 7: my niggas, Like if you go away, I'm still gonna

568
00:24:56,359 --> 00:24:57,480
Speaker 7: be friends with these niggas.

569
00:24:57,520 --> 00:24:59,680
Speaker 5: So, like, I think a lot of that play into it.

570
00:24:59,640 --> 00:25:04,120
Speaker 1: It's like the perception all the time. Ask you about

571
00:25:04,160 --> 00:25:04,480
Speaker 1: that too.

572
00:25:04,720 --> 00:25:07,399
Speaker 7: So because the other thing is this too, Like it

573
00:25:07,960 --> 00:25:09,920
Speaker 7: it's a two way street. I was seeing her trying

574
00:25:09,920 --> 00:25:13,360
Speaker 7: to think of an example for like how what's what's

575
00:25:13,359 --> 00:25:16,080
Speaker 7: comparable to that and like imagine, like you know, girls

576
00:25:16,160 --> 00:25:17,200
Speaker 7: are cut off a nigga if they.

577
00:25:17,160 --> 00:25:18,800
Speaker 5: Find out he buy sex or something like.

578
00:25:18,760 --> 00:25:22,800
Speaker 7: That, Yeah, that'd be a thing. Experimids things like that.

579
00:25:22,840 --> 00:25:25,480
Speaker 7: So everybody got their cutofs. It ain't really about judgment.

580
00:25:25,800 --> 00:25:28,399
Speaker 7: It's more so like a self awareness like I just

581
00:25:28,520 --> 00:25:31,040
Speaker 7: know I can't deal with that ship and if me

582
00:25:31,200 --> 00:25:33,120
Speaker 7: personally like what if we vibe and I know about

583
00:25:33,160 --> 00:25:34,879
Speaker 7: your pass and everything like that, but I fucked with

584
00:25:34,920 --> 00:25:36,480
Speaker 7: you and it's like that ship doesn't matter to me,

585
00:25:36,760 --> 00:25:38,960
Speaker 7: but people in your ear do matter, and that ship

586
00:25:39,040 --> 00:25:39,240
Speaker 7: do have.

587
00:25:40,040 --> 00:25:42,359
Speaker 1: I talk about that in the book to Yeah, it

588
00:25:42,359 --> 00:25:42,840
Speaker 1: may not.

589
00:25:42,760 --> 00:25:45,199
Speaker 7: Be even a personal thing, like just like you in

590
00:25:45,240 --> 00:25:47,320
Speaker 7: a relationship and you got like you know, niggas be

591
00:25:47,359 --> 00:25:49,879
Speaker 7: having like moms that be low key a little to

592
00:25:49,960 --> 00:25:52,199
Speaker 7: attest them and ship they be fucking their relationships up

593
00:25:52,240 --> 00:25:54,199
Speaker 7: to so it's a lot of fact that they play in.

594
00:25:54,280 --> 00:25:57,679
Speaker 7: So like of course, initially at the top, what was

595
00:25:57,720 --> 00:25:59,480
Speaker 7: my first reaction like, oh no, keep it real?

596
00:25:59,760 --> 00:26:03,160
Speaker 1: Then sing here like bro, that's what I'm saying, Oh

597
00:26:03,320 --> 00:26:04,560
Speaker 1: you you change your mind.

598
00:26:04,920 --> 00:26:07,600
Speaker 2: That's conversation is important because it's real. I was a

599
00:26:07,600 --> 00:26:09,280
Speaker 2: girl and out a gang bang and you don't fuck

600
00:26:09,320 --> 00:26:09,520
Speaker 2: with it.

601
00:26:09,600 --> 00:26:13,000
Speaker 7: Let me go because I'm also cool cut off though

602
00:26:13,080 --> 00:26:15,440
Speaker 7: that's another thing I don't get attached to that ship,

603
00:26:15,560 --> 00:26:18,959
Speaker 7: like at this point, I didn't been in. When you're

604
00:26:18,960 --> 00:26:21,280
Speaker 7: in a long term relationship, you know everything that you know,

605
00:26:21,359 --> 00:26:23,760
Speaker 7: the ins and outs and everything, like mother figgers, things

606
00:26:23,800 --> 00:26:26,239
Speaker 7: that niggas don't account for, Like you you going to

607
00:26:26,440 --> 00:26:29,119
Speaker 7: like you're dealing with periods, you're dealing with you smelled

608
00:26:29,119 --> 00:26:31,400
Speaker 7: that ship before all type of ship, like we ain't

609
00:26:31,400 --> 00:26:33,560
Speaker 7: even closing the door to use the bathroom, nob type ship.

610
00:26:33,640 --> 00:26:36,159
Speaker 7: So it's like, you get so vulnerable with a person

611
00:26:36,600 --> 00:26:39,440
Speaker 7: at this point, And I'm thirty five, grown, I got motion,

612
00:26:39,560 --> 00:26:41,760
Speaker 7: I got ship going on. I don't give a fuck,

613
00:26:41,840 --> 00:26:44,479
Speaker 7: like it's we gonna work out or not. If we're not,

614
00:26:44,840 --> 00:26:47,320
Speaker 7: Let's go in and go about ourselves place before niggas

615
00:26:47,359 --> 00:26:49,879
Speaker 7: lie theyself into attachment and then they make it more

616
00:26:49,880 --> 00:26:51,520
Speaker 7: difficult to say lie themselves into it.

617
00:26:51,800 --> 00:26:53,800
Speaker 1: Let's that's your social capital.

618
00:27:02,040 --> 00:27:05,440
Speaker 2: So if anybody has watched your clips, for the most part,

619
00:27:05,440 --> 00:27:07,080
Speaker 2: I don't even feel like you talk about dating at all.

620
00:27:07,320 --> 00:27:09,640
Speaker 5: I don't, which is why it's enough people doing that.

621
00:27:09,800 --> 00:27:13,240
Speaker 2: Let's see which would be worse for your social capital,

622
00:27:13,520 --> 00:27:16,000
Speaker 2: dating a white woman or dating candas owners.

623
00:27:16,240 --> 00:27:17,399
Speaker 5: Dating a white woman.

624
00:27:17,280 --> 00:27:18,880
Speaker 1: Will be worse than dating Candas Man.

625
00:27:19,680 --> 00:27:21,600
Speaker 5: Canda owners woke it. Fuck you mean.

626
00:27:23,240 --> 00:27:25,879
Speaker 7: I t up Candas was to be outside with the

627
00:27:26,000 --> 00:27:31,280
Speaker 7: natural next week. You know, hope, now watch.

628
00:27:31,080 --> 00:27:39,119
Speaker 4: This having people find out you don't think so you

629
00:27:39,200 --> 00:27:43,080
Speaker 4: think Candace gives me lame Candas as smart as fun,

630
00:27:43,200 --> 00:27:46,600
Speaker 4: that would be sexy, Like don't let's not get it twisted.

631
00:27:46,680 --> 00:27:49,840
Speaker 7: Her opinions are terrible, but the bitch is smart. I

632
00:27:49,880 --> 00:27:51,120
Speaker 7: think that's the part I was thinking.

633
00:27:51,280 --> 00:27:54,000
Speaker 1: Well read niggas. I don't think she got bodied though,

634
00:27:54,800 --> 00:27:55,240
Speaker 1: I mean.

635
00:27:55,480 --> 00:27:58,240
Speaker 5: Like, get you crazy con.

636
00:27:58,520 --> 00:28:01,679
Speaker 2: You've seen her friends a bitch, a black friend, okay,

637
00:28:01,720 --> 00:28:06,080
Speaker 2: yeah yeah, but then the white girls as being like accurately.

638
00:28:05,600 --> 00:28:08,680
Speaker 5: Good for a white woman.

639
00:28:09,040 --> 00:28:11,160
Speaker 1: You guys want to the tone, but we'll let her.

640
00:28:11,080 --> 00:28:12,400
Speaker 5: Now, don't even try to compete.

641
00:28:12,840 --> 00:28:14,960
Speaker 2: I would, I mean I was okay her for sure,

642
00:28:15,000 --> 00:28:17,160
Speaker 2: that people find out you registered to be a Republican

643
00:28:17,200 --> 00:28:20,639
Speaker 2: when you were eighteenth, or having your recent history be

644
00:28:20,760 --> 00:28:23,320
Speaker 2: leaked and it's all maga content, which would.

645
00:28:23,160 --> 00:28:25,760
Speaker 5: Be worse for you recent history for sure?

646
00:28:26,200 --> 00:28:27,200
Speaker 1: Okay, wait for sure?

647
00:28:27,760 --> 00:28:30,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean I've I would have been like, oh

648
00:28:30,040 --> 00:28:31,080
Speaker 2: I was just looking it up.

649
00:28:31,400 --> 00:28:35,760
Speaker 7: No, no way, worse this lead, I know, like exactly what.

650
00:28:36,080 --> 00:28:39,080
Speaker 3: Right now, you think those thoughts what you registered as

651
00:28:39,080 --> 00:28:43,000
Speaker 3: when you were eighteen, Obama was a person the same

652
00:28:43,200 --> 00:28:43,520
Speaker 3: you did.

653
00:28:44,360 --> 00:28:47,520
Speaker 7: That was my first It was my first boat to say.

654
00:28:47,640 --> 00:28:50,479
Speaker 7: I feel like I was selling. I was selling drugs

655
00:28:50,480 --> 00:28:52,120
Speaker 7: and a type of ship. But I went and voted

656
00:28:52,120 --> 00:28:55,600
Speaker 7: for that. Nigga family.

657
00:28:57,600 --> 00:28:58,640
Speaker 1: Did that together.

658
00:28:58,880 --> 00:28:59,320
Speaker 5: Yeah.

659
00:28:59,360 --> 00:29:01,680
Speaker 1: God, November of two thousand.

660
00:29:01,360 --> 00:29:04,320
Speaker 2: And eight, I have bought me a goddamn turned eighteen

661
00:29:04,400 --> 00:29:05,840
Speaker 2: a month before tens.

662
00:29:05,640 --> 00:29:06,560
Speaker 5: Come on Highway five.

663
00:29:07,520 --> 00:29:09,680
Speaker 7: There was they were seventy big ass got damn a

664
00:29:09,720 --> 00:29:10,680
Speaker 7: whole pictures.

665
00:29:10,720 --> 00:29:12,400
Speaker 5: Of and I brought that ship her.

666
00:29:12,440 --> 00:29:16,320
Speaker 2: Mamma was like, oh my god, I did have a

667
00:29:16,320 --> 00:29:17,040
Speaker 2: cut out of my house.

668
00:29:17,480 --> 00:29:18,680
Speaker 5: Yeah cutout.

669
00:29:18,880 --> 00:29:21,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's the biggest to me. That's gonna be the

670
00:29:21,400 --> 00:29:22,360
Speaker 2: biggest vote of our lives.

671
00:29:22,440 --> 00:29:23,680
Speaker 5: Oh god, yeah that's real.

672
00:29:23,760 --> 00:29:27,840
Speaker 2: Okay, smash your pass. She's a ten, but she videotapes

673
00:29:27,880 --> 00:29:29,880
Speaker 2: all the day, y'all going and the meals for content.

674
00:29:29,920 --> 00:29:33,960
Speaker 2: That's over with, Okay, she's a ten. She got three

675
00:29:34,000 --> 00:29:34,920
Speaker 2: kids at thirty five.

676
00:29:35,040 --> 00:29:37,560
Speaker 7: Niggas don't even know like a ten is overrated. I

677
00:29:37,680 --> 00:29:39,520
Speaker 7: like the cool ass of my eight, Like.

678
00:29:40,040 --> 00:29:42,200
Speaker 1: What's the cool what's a cool six? Sale? Mate?

679
00:29:42,400 --> 00:29:43,720
Speaker 5: I ain't say nothing about six.

680
00:29:43,880 --> 00:29:48,160
Speaker 1: Okay, you said six, you said six, okay, but you.

681
00:29:48,120 --> 00:29:49,520
Speaker 5: Said so cool seven eight?

682
00:29:49,640 --> 00:29:50,680
Speaker 1: What's a cool seven? Eight?

683
00:29:51,520 --> 00:29:52,520
Speaker 5: I mean, which is the ten?

684
00:29:53,240 --> 00:29:54,440
Speaker 1: Wells objected.

685
00:29:54,480 --> 00:29:56,800
Speaker 5: It is saying perfect. It is subjective ten.

686
00:29:56,800 --> 00:29:59,160
Speaker 7: It's perfect. Anybody perfect. But I get what you're saying, right,

687
00:29:59,440 --> 00:29:59,880
Speaker 7: I agree?

688
00:30:00,320 --> 00:30:02,440
Speaker 1: Three kids at thirty five? Can she still be a

689
00:30:02,480 --> 00:30:03,280
Speaker 1: ten for you?

690
00:30:03,360 --> 00:30:03,560
Speaker 5: Yeah?

691
00:30:03,720 --> 00:30:05,880
Speaker 1: For sure she's a ten. But she's a bit of

692
00:30:05,920 --> 00:30:07,480
Speaker 1: a podcast host groupie.

693
00:30:08,800 --> 00:30:09,760
Speaker 5: That's a little strange.

694
00:30:09,800 --> 00:30:13,160
Speaker 7: But we could talk about it, like what do you

695
00:30:13,160 --> 00:30:14,520
Speaker 7: mean you can turn on on your mind?

696
00:30:14,600 --> 00:30:17,240
Speaker 1: Like why why are you so I'm literally dead it?

697
00:30:17,400 --> 00:30:18,160
Speaker 1: Like what you mean?

698
00:30:18,240 --> 00:30:20,320
Speaker 5: Like like like what I'm.

699
00:30:20,160 --> 00:30:20,800
Speaker 1: Going on a date?

700
00:30:20,840 --> 00:30:23,280
Speaker 3: And a nigga has been like, oh my god, so

701
00:30:23,320 --> 00:30:27,840
Speaker 3: like what's Rory really like?

702
00:30:28,560 --> 00:30:31,000
Speaker 7: Now we be knowing some of them to like I

703
00:30:31,000 --> 00:30:33,160
Speaker 7: ain't on husband, like I've been talking to somebody. And

704
00:30:33,160 --> 00:30:35,040
Speaker 7: then they started bringing up ship front of podcast. I

705
00:30:35,080 --> 00:30:38,800
Speaker 7: was like all this, like you know too much about it?

706
00:30:39,200 --> 00:30:42,120
Speaker 2: I ask you this, two situations that I could talk

707
00:30:42,120 --> 00:30:43,840
Speaker 2: about where I'm like, maybe it's because I'm not a weirdo.

708
00:30:43,840 --> 00:30:46,080
Speaker 1: Maybe because they ain't wear those the way.

709
00:30:46,160 --> 00:30:48,200
Speaker 2: The reason I wanted to start a podcast was because

710
00:30:48,200 --> 00:30:50,760
Speaker 2: I love Bodega boys ended up being friends with Jesus

711
00:30:50,800 --> 00:30:52,880
Speaker 2: year later and I'll be talking about ship from the

712
00:30:52,880 --> 00:30:54,960
Speaker 2: podcast and the nigga be like, Bro, that's crazy. I

713
00:30:54,960 --> 00:30:57,480
Speaker 2: don't remember that now one of my clubs friends was

714
00:30:57,520 --> 00:30:59,840
Speaker 2: a fan of Like no, no, no, no, no.

715
00:31:01,040 --> 00:31:03,640
Speaker 1: What I'm saying that could be weird, right.

716
00:31:03,840 --> 00:31:06,800
Speaker 7: Yeah, because because it's almost like you know shit about me.

717
00:31:06,840 --> 00:31:09,040
Speaker 7: I don't even remember by myself. Bro, that's crazy.

718
00:31:09,080 --> 00:31:09,600
Speaker 1: That's crazy.

719
00:31:09,800 --> 00:31:13,120
Speaker 7: But it's not crazy in the sense like I was

720
00:31:13,160 --> 00:31:15,680
Speaker 7: with Marrow and then the other like on some hommy ship.

721
00:31:15,760 --> 00:31:17,560
Speaker 7: Like I'm bringing up Ship from the podcast. He might

722
00:31:17,560 --> 00:31:19,280
Speaker 7: not remember that ship, but it's like I'm a fan,

723
00:31:19,600 --> 00:31:23,360
Speaker 7: but it's like that's cool for the hommy Is it.

724
00:31:23,280 --> 00:31:26,440
Speaker 1: Not cool for But that's what I'm saying, We're not weirdo.

725
00:31:26,760 --> 00:31:29,080
Speaker 7: Well, because the thing is is if we're gonna talk,

726
00:31:29,120 --> 00:31:31,560
Speaker 7: we need like an honest representation of each other, and

727
00:31:31,560 --> 00:31:34,080
Speaker 7: like you have an idea about me, yeah, like and

728
00:31:34,200 --> 00:31:36,400
Speaker 7: you may have pedestal at me too, So it's like

729
00:31:36,760 --> 00:31:37,480
Speaker 7: it's too much.

730
00:31:37,520 --> 00:31:39,200
Speaker 1: So what do we do when you're really famous?

731
00:31:39,440 --> 00:31:41,800
Speaker 2: What do you do when you're the most famous actor

732
00:31:41,920 --> 00:31:42,960
Speaker 2: meeting women?

733
00:31:43,520 --> 00:31:46,760
Speaker 5: Pretend that this when I go to West Africa and

734
00:31:46,880 --> 00:31:47,480
Speaker 5: i'm your wife.

735
00:31:51,280 --> 00:31:55,200
Speaker 1: Well, I you said you're about to turn into a

736
00:31:55,200 --> 00:31:56,520
Speaker 1: passport bro. It's also crazy.

737
00:31:56,520 --> 00:32:00,520
Speaker 7: I never said that your wife. I'm I'm I'm glad

738
00:32:00,640 --> 00:32:02,840
Speaker 7: I'm not going out there. The like six to her

739
00:32:02,880 --> 00:32:03,800
Speaker 7: and said, I.

740
00:32:03,800 --> 00:32:06,800
Speaker 3: Sit, Wait, you think passport bros aren't doing sex tourism.

741
00:32:06,840 --> 00:32:09,400
Speaker 1: They're going out to find wives in other countries. Wait,

742
00:32:09,440 --> 00:32:10,560
Speaker 1: I thought that.

743
00:32:11,040 --> 00:32:14,480
Speaker 3: No, no, of course, no, no, no, no, passport bros are

744
00:32:14,520 --> 00:32:15,640
Speaker 3: going out of the country.

745
00:32:17,000 --> 00:32:19,640
Speaker 1: We just had this saying that's not what a passport

746
00:32:19,640 --> 00:32:20,120
Speaker 1: bro is.

747
00:32:20,840 --> 00:32:24,080
Speaker 5: The colloquial term for passport bros is sex tourism.

748
00:32:23,880 --> 00:32:26,320
Speaker 1: And they're the only ones that can fuck out the country. No,

749
00:32:26,480 --> 00:32:31,120
Speaker 1: it's not you were saying, what is it when they.

750
00:32:31,120 --> 00:32:33,800
Speaker 7: You turn out Mirriam Webster versus the street. I'm not

751
00:32:34,440 --> 00:32:35,200
Speaker 7: passport bros.

752
00:32:35,640 --> 00:32:39,920
Speaker 1: Look more for you. She's a ten. But she's saving

753
00:32:40,000 --> 00:32:41,240
Speaker 1: sucking dick for Mary.

754
00:32:41,440 --> 00:32:45,040
Speaker 5: Oh that ain't happening, you not. But I don't give

755
00:32:45,080 --> 00:32:47,720
Speaker 5: a fucking queen. You're Alian.

756
00:32:47,880 --> 00:32:50,080
Speaker 7: I'm not gonna spend my marriage teaching you how to

757
00:32:50,080 --> 00:32:55,920
Speaker 7: suck practice, because if you.

758
00:32:55,320 --> 00:32:57,320
Speaker 1: Learned a bunch of digs sucking did you take it right?

759
00:32:57,600 --> 00:33:01,000
Speaker 7: What well, I don't know. Why would you just shoot

760
00:33:01,000 --> 00:33:03,120
Speaker 7: the ball the half court? We got two to three

761
00:33:03,120 --> 00:33:04,840
Speaker 7: seconds up on the car. You shot for half court.

762
00:33:04,880 --> 00:33:06,520
Speaker 2: Why you want to talk about that was for a

763
00:33:06,600 --> 00:33:08,480
Speaker 2: dang bak So she can't slept, bitch, You can't suck

764
00:33:08,520 --> 00:33:09,720
Speaker 2: too much dick niggas.

765
00:33:09,720 --> 00:33:11,680
Speaker 3: By the way, body, I want to I want to

766
00:33:11,720 --> 00:33:13,320
Speaker 3: just real quick, because we did just talk about this.

767
00:33:13,440 --> 00:33:16,800
Speaker 3: A passport bro, it's a slang term for a man,

768
00:33:17,200 --> 00:33:20,640
Speaker 3: often from the US, Canada, or Western countries, who travels abroad,

769
00:33:20,720 --> 00:33:24,640
Speaker 3: sometimes permanently, to date or marry women from other countries,

770
00:33:24,960 --> 00:33:30,120
Speaker 3: usually places like Southeast Asia, Latin America, or Eastern Europe. Y'all,

771
00:33:30,160 --> 00:33:32,200
Speaker 3: we're talking about also the niggas that might go for

772
00:33:32,240 --> 00:33:33,920
Speaker 3: a man trip and just want to pay twenty four

773
00:33:33,960 --> 00:33:34,800
Speaker 3: dollars for couch.

774
00:33:36,080 --> 00:33:37,040
Speaker 1: Panama sport.

775
00:33:39,280 --> 00:33:41,680
Speaker 5: When you say passport bro, that's what niggas.

776
00:33:42,520 --> 00:33:46,000
Speaker 1: Those are. The men that are low hanging fruit here.

777
00:33:46,680 --> 00:33:49,240
Speaker 3: Can't get a goddamn bitch here because they make thirty

778
00:33:49,600 --> 00:33:53,040
Speaker 3: thousand and our lame like that. Nobody here wants them,

779
00:33:53,280 --> 00:33:56,120
Speaker 3: so they go to find a submissive woman, a woman

780
00:33:56,160 --> 00:33:59,040
Speaker 3: who sees them as a king from another country and

781
00:33:59,120 --> 00:34:00,280
Speaker 3: that's who they end up being.

782
00:34:00,320 --> 00:34:03,040
Speaker 1: With nothing to do with paying bitches for money. It

783
00:34:03,080 --> 00:34:05,840
Speaker 1: has nothing to do with sex or sex, none of that.

784
00:34:05,960 --> 00:34:07,960
Speaker 5: I never looked at the definition of that. I know

785
00:34:08,160 --> 00:34:10,560
Speaker 5: the streets. I know what the streets.

786
00:34:10,680 --> 00:34:13,040
Speaker 3: What they talk about are these American men, these lame,

787
00:34:13,480 --> 00:34:16,960
Speaker 3: crockass niggas that go overseas and try to end up

788
00:34:17,000 --> 00:34:19,080
Speaker 3: with an Asian woman or someone who's going to make

789
00:34:19,120 --> 00:34:21,560
Speaker 3: them feel like a king because they feel like American

790
00:34:21,600 --> 00:34:23,200
Speaker 3: women want too much here.

791
00:34:23,320 --> 00:34:24,040
Speaker 5: Oh that's crazy.

792
00:34:24,120 --> 00:34:24,279
Speaker 1: Yeah.

793
00:34:24,280 --> 00:34:26,440
Speaker 7: See that's another thing too, Like I can't be considered

794
00:34:26,480 --> 00:34:29,600
Speaker 7: that if I'm first of all attractive, second of all,

795
00:34:29,920 --> 00:34:33,319
Speaker 7: if I'm stupid, stupid, famous, I'm caring Like if I'm

796
00:34:33,440 --> 00:34:36,279
Speaker 7: up monetarily, you can't want No.

797
00:34:36,200 --> 00:34:38,399
Speaker 3: I get that for me. Even saying the passport wrod

798
00:34:38,400 --> 00:34:40,560
Speaker 3: thing was that you were going to go but no,

799
00:34:40,680 --> 00:34:42,560
Speaker 3: but it was just but it was it was a

800
00:34:42,640 --> 00:34:45,759
Speaker 3: jas podca it was it was a joke at the

801
00:34:45,760 --> 00:34:47,880
Speaker 3: time that I was just like, you were going to

802
00:34:48,040 --> 00:34:49,600
Speaker 3: another country to get a.

803
00:34:49,520 --> 00:34:51,120
Speaker 1: Woman, Like, yeah, I was.

804
00:34:51,200 --> 00:34:53,279
Speaker 7: I'm jokingly saying that because she said, what if you

805
00:34:53,280 --> 00:34:55,040
Speaker 7: get too famous? But at the same time, it's like

806
00:34:55,320 --> 00:34:57,440
Speaker 7: I never feel like love is off the table no

807
00:34:57,440 --> 00:35:01,040
Speaker 7: matter how visible you are. It's just about like somebody

808
00:35:01,080 --> 00:35:03,200
Speaker 7: has somebody gonna have to understand what the ship come

809
00:35:03,280 --> 00:35:06,520
Speaker 7: with either way, even even if if with the verse,

810
00:35:06,800 --> 00:35:09,000
Speaker 7: I gotta understand, Like if you was dating another famous woman,

811
00:35:09,000 --> 00:35:11,160
Speaker 7: you gotta understand she'd be busy if fuck soon and

812
00:35:11,200 --> 00:35:12,959
Speaker 7: she's gonna be places shes gonna be city city.

813
00:35:12,960 --> 00:35:13,799
Speaker 5: I might not see each.

814
00:35:13,719 --> 00:35:17,680
Speaker 7: Other all the time, but like I think the strongest

815
00:35:17,680 --> 00:35:19,920
Speaker 7: bond in the relationship is like cracking a safety for

816
00:35:20,040 --> 00:35:22,080
Speaker 7: each other. So like you somewhere that I know I

817
00:35:22,080 --> 00:35:25,400
Speaker 7: can go and express myself and talk to without judgment

818
00:35:25,520 --> 00:35:29,480
Speaker 7: or without like without like yes man shit either like if.

819
00:35:29,320 --> 00:35:31,040
Speaker 5: I'm wrong, let me know I'm wrong type shit.

820
00:35:31,200 --> 00:35:34,479
Speaker 7: So like the connection gonna come from the conversation for sure,

821
00:35:34,800 --> 00:35:38,480
Speaker 7: But I don't think you can you can like like

822
00:35:40,000 --> 00:35:41,800
Speaker 7: move your way out of that. Do the fame and

823
00:35:41,840 --> 00:35:42,279
Speaker 7: shit like that.

824
00:35:42,800 --> 00:35:44,520
Speaker 2: It really matters if you're famous or not. There's so

825
00:35:44,600 --> 00:35:45,759
Speaker 2: much googling we could do.

826
00:35:46,000 --> 00:35:48,160
Speaker 5: Like and it's mad people in the world, Like I'm.

827
00:35:48,000 --> 00:35:50,239
Speaker 1: Gonna figure out who who the other person was.

828
00:35:50,280 --> 00:35:52,040
Speaker 2: There's like some way to look something up, Like we're

829
00:35:52,040 --> 00:35:53,439
Speaker 2: always gonna have a preconceived notion.

830
00:35:53,480 --> 00:35:54,359
Speaker 5: Is that's really true?

831
00:35:54,640 --> 00:35:55,000
Speaker 1: Saw too?

832
00:35:55,040 --> 00:35:57,000
Speaker 5: It's like somebody out here with like ten million followers

833
00:35:57,040 --> 00:35:57,759
Speaker 5: I ain't never heard of.

834
00:35:58,280 --> 00:36:00,560
Speaker 7: Yeah, there's a lot of like like we exist in

835
00:36:00,640 --> 00:36:03,520
Speaker 7: like podcasts anyway we do so like it's always gonna

836
00:36:03,520 --> 00:36:06,000
Speaker 7: be somebody out there that don't know or won't know,

837
00:36:06,160 --> 00:36:07,719
Speaker 7: or it's always gonna be people out there that you

838
00:36:07,719 --> 00:36:09,480
Speaker 7: would at least suspect you might make a connection.

839
00:36:09,520 --> 00:36:10,640
Speaker 1: Would you date another podcaster?

840
00:36:11,760 --> 00:36:12,719
Speaker 5: I don't know. That's a lot of.

841
00:36:14,360 --> 00:36:15,680
Speaker 1: What are your thoughts of podcasts?

842
00:36:15,719 --> 00:36:16,360
Speaker 5: A lot of talking.

843
00:36:17,640 --> 00:36:20,120
Speaker 7: No, I mean, I just depend I don't really I

844
00:36:20,120 --> 00:36:22,680
Speaker 7: can't get down to judging somebody for what they do, period.

845
00:36:22,960 --> 00:36:24,560
Speaker 7: But I just think it's about what our connection.

846
00:36:24,960 --> 00:36:25,040
Speaker 5: You know.

847
00:36:25,120 --> 00:36:26,879
Speaker 1: What walks me up is like I think I get.

848
00:36:27,880 --> 00:36:30,600
Speaker 2: I don't know, maybe because we've been podcasting a long time,

849
00:36:30,600 --> 00:36:32,120
Speaker 2: maybe because I make.

850
00:36:31,960 --> 00:36:33,280
Speaker 1: A lot of podcasts with people.

851
00:36:33,400 --> 00:36:37,399
Speaker 2: But I really didn't want to be and maybe it's

852
00:36:37,480 --> 00:36:40,520
Speaker 2: unbelievable to people watching. My brain wasn't thinking about like

853
00:36:40,640 --> 00:36:41,080
Speaker 2: I'm going to.

854
00:36:41,080 --> 00:36:42,200
Speaker 5: Be famous type shit.

855
00:36:42,520 --> 00:36:43,520
Speaker 1: I just was really.

856
00:36:43,320 --> 00:36:47,360
Speaker 2: Having fun doing this shit. It felt like salacious but funny,

857
00:36:47,520 --> 00:36:48,560
Speaker 2: and like I liked it.

858
00:36:48,480 --> 00:36:50,080
Speaker 1: Back and forth with the community thing.

859
00:36:50,600 --> 00:36:52,720
Speaker 2: But I really do believe because of how much money's

860
00:36:52,719 --> 00:36:54,440
Speaker 2: in podcasting, I really don't want to date somebody that

861
00:36:54,520 --> 00:36:56,960
Speaker 2: want to be famous. I don't enjoy having conversations with

862
00:36:57,000 --> 00:37:00,480
Speaker 2: people that like really want fame from what they do,

863
00:37:00,520 --> 00:37:03,439
Speaker 2: because then there's a difference to there is and that's

864
00:37:03,520 --> 00:37:07,080
Speaker 2: truly what like the new era of podcasting is like people.

865
00:37:06,800 --> 00:37:07,800
Speaker 5: That want to be famous.

866
00:37:07,880 --> 00:37:11,960
Speaker 7: Yeah, yeah, we was really also too, Like I started

867
00:37:11,960 --> 00:37:14,719
Speaker 7: all this shiit off TikTok. I wasn't never thinking about that.

868
00:37:15,160 --> 00:37:17,400
Speaker 7: I knew it was possible because I seen what the

869
00:37:17,400 --> 00:37:20,040
Speaker 7: competition was and that ship wasn't about now, So it

870
00:37:20,120 --> 00:37:24,560
Speaker 7: was like I was like shit, I was like okay,

871
00:37:24,880 --> 00:37:27,040
Speaker 7: and I'm driving trucks at the time too, so I'm like, well,

872
00:37:27,239 --> 00:37:29,680
Speaker 7: people make money off this by just giving their opinions.

873
00:37:29,960 --> 00:37:31,799
Speaker 7: I know, I got better opinions than ninety percent of

874
00:37:31,800 --> 00:37:33,279
Speaker 7: these motherfuckers. Are Like, if I can get a little

875
00:37:33,280 --> 00:37:35,719
Speaker 7: supplemental income help my family, I'm.

876
00:37:35,480 --> 00:37:36,040
Speaker 5: Cool with that.

877
00:37:36,360 --> 00:37:38,959
Speaker 7: But a lot of people was requesting like more long

878
00:37:39,000 --> 00:37:43,239
Speaker 7: form podcasts and ship like that. The twenty twenty, like

879
00:37:43,320 --> 00:37:46,080
Speaker 7: the Covid Bubbalo podcast kind of turned me off from

880
00:37:46,120 --> 00:37:47,400
Speaker 7: the ship, so I didn't really want to.

881
00:37:47,360 --> 00:37:49,680
Speaker 1: Be able to turn your own. That's when it was like.

882
00:37:49,880 --> 00:37:53,120
Speaker 7: I don't be caring about about money though, like that

883
00:37:53,200 --> 00:37:55,560
Speaker 7: the money I'm gonna be, I'm gonna be good either way.

884
00:37:55,560 --> 00:37:56,560
Speaker 1: Why do you do what you're doing?

885
00:37:56,920 --> 00:37:57,680
Speaker 5: Because Ship?

886
00:37:57,960 --> 00:38:02,160
Speaker 7: It said, I said into it like it was something

887
00:38:02,200 --> 00:38:04,479
Speaker 7: that was in demand for me, you know what I'm saying.

888
00:38:04,480 --> 00:38:06,359
Speaker 7: It wasn't like now I'm gonna start the podcast, I'm

889
00:38:06,360 --> 00:38:08,960
Speaker 7: gonna do this. People kept requesting that ship. I feel

890
00:38:08,960 --> 00:38:10,799
Speaker 7: like what I got to say is important, but I

891
00:38:10,840 --> 00:38:12,680
Speaker 7: also know I'm providing a different perspective.

892
00:38:13,000 --> 00:38:16,879
Speaker 2: So money isn't always directly tied to fame either. When

893
00:38:16,880 --> 00:38:18,879
Speaker 2: we started doing our show in the beginning and we're

894
00:38:18,880 --> 00:38:21,080
Speaker 2: making money, that's what kept me.

895
00:38:21,120 --> 00:38:22,160
Speaker 1: Being able to do it.

896
00:38:22,239 --> 00:38:25,759
Speaker 2: There is gratification I get from fans, But now I

897
00:38:25,800 --> 00:38:28,320
Speaker 2: feel like there's a point where, like if I go

898
00:38:28,400 --> 00:38:32,120
Speaker 2: to everyday people, probably when I'm in the bathroom, the

899
00:38:32,120 --> 00:38:32,719
Speaker 2: girls know me.

900
00:38:33,040 --> 00:38:35,640
Speaker 1: Like I can't necessarily be talking shit. I can't really

901
00:38:35,680 --> 00:38:36,320
Speaker 1: do too much.

902
00:38:36,560 --> 00:38:38,560
Speaker 2: Like if I meet a nigga, one of his friends

903
00:38:38,560 --> 00:38:40,680
Speaker 2: knows me if he don't, like, that's not really what

904
00:38:40,719 --> 00:38:41,280
Speaker 2: I wanted.

905
00:38:42,360 --> 00:38:46,600
Speaker 1: That I can't even talk out in public about anything.

906
00:38:46,800 --> 00:38:51,000
Speaker 3: Anybody somebody list Literally, the waiter knows me, the bartender

907
00:38:51,120 --> 00:38:51,400
Speaker 3: know me.

908
00:38:51,520 --> 00:38:54,240
Speaker 1: Somebody knows me. I can't do it out here. Literally.

909
00:38:54,280 --> 00:38:56,360
Speaker 2: I was hopping in the uber to get here on

910
00:38:56,480 --> 00:39:00,359
Speaker 2: my block. Someone's like, you have a podcast.

911
00:39:00,360 --> 00:39:01,840
Speaker 3: Right, I'm getting in the car in front of my

912
00:39:01,880 --> 00:39:06,120
Speaker 3: fucking spot, and I'm like shit, Like, I think that

913
00:39:06,200 --> 00:39:08,319
Speaker 3: part of things like to know, like not to bring

914
00:39:08,360 --> 00:39:10,400
Speaker 3: into Beyonce because we're not on her level. But Beyonce

915
00:39:10,560 --> 00:39:12,799
Speaker 3: said like she wishes sometimes that she could just watch

916
00:39:12,880 --> 00:39:15,759
Speaker 3: walk Central Park. There's certain elements of just life she's

917
00:39:15,760 --> 00:39:18,160
Speaker 3: not able to do. And I think sometimes people say

918
00:39:18,160 --> 00:39:20,040
Speaker 3: they want the fame and this shit shit kind of.

919
00:39:21,320 --> 00:39:23,279
Speaker 7: I think there's a thing of like chasing fame, and

920
00:39:23,320 --> 00:39:26,880
Speaker 7: those people are always like very noticeable. It's not you

921
00:39:26,920 --> 00:39:30,080
Speaker 7: can notice people who chasing fun. I think they're type.

922
00:39:30,600 --> 00:39:35,279
Speaker 7: So I think for me, it's like the idea of

923
00:39:35,320 --> 00:39:38,400
Speaker 7: it turning into something where I'm super visible and famous.

924
00:39:38,800 --> 00:39:41,640
Speaker 7: It lingered because I understand that other people in space

925
00:39:41,840 --> 00:39:44,040
Speaker 7: do have it, but for me it was more important

926
00:39:44,080 --> 00:39:46,360
Speaker 7: like Okay, I get to have a space where I

927
00:39:46,360 --> 00:39:48,360
Speaker 7: can speak and people are receptive to what I'm.

928
00:39:48,239 --> 00:39:51,520
Speaker 5: Saying, and like, I like that. I enjoyed it. I

929
00:39:51,600 --> 00:39:52,280
Speaker 5: enjoy speaking.

930
00:39:52,360 --> 00:39:54,600
Speaker 7: So it's like the attention is a good part of

931
00:39:54,640 --> 00:39:56,880
Speaker 7: it too, because like people paying attention mean that my

932
00:39:56,960 --> 00:39:59,480
Speaker 7: message and what I got to say is impacting and folks.

933
00:40:00,200 --> 00:40:02,560
Speaker 7: At this point now it's like okay, damn, Like my

934
00:40:02,600 --> 00:40:04,880
Speaker 7: neighbor know who I am from the podcast and I

935
00:40:04,880 --> 00:40:07,080
Speaker 7: don't ever talk to my neighbor. But that motherfucker was

936
00:40:07,120 --> 00:40:09,120
Speaker 7: taking the trash out one day. He's like, man, I'm

937
00:40:09,120 --> 00:40:11,640
Speaker 7: fucking with the podcast. Man, I love that ship. What

938
00:40:11,680 --> 00:40:12,040
Speaker 7: the fuck?

939
00:40:13,239 --> 00:40:13,799
Speaker 1: Because you just.

940
00:40:13,800 --> 00:40:15,960
Speaker 2: Don't know who's watching you all the time I was

941
00:40:16,000 --> 00:40:17,480
Speaker 2: eating at this restaurant. I want to shout them out

942
00:40:17,480 --> 00:40:20,120
Speaker 2: to the black on Lele. I'm having a really deep

943
00:40:20,120 --> 00:40:23,520
Speaker 2: conversation with my man about like fertility and like you know,

944
00:40:23,920 --> 00:40:28,040
Speaker 2: family planning. Lady next to me not just do I

945
00:40:28,040 --> 00:40:30,160
Speaker 2: don't know the podcast. She's like, don't want to make

946
00:40:30,160 --> 00:40:31,680
Speaker 2: a wad of getting the check. She was like, I

947
00:40:31,800 --> 00:40:35,799
Speaker 2: just finished the books, like I'm so happy for y'all.

948
00:40:37,080 --> 00:40:38,880
Speaker 2: In the car home, he's like, Nigga, what you were

949
00:40:38,920 --> 00:40:42,680
Speaker 2: talking ship? Because I be talking shit, I got talking

950
00:40:42,680 --> 00:40:43,440
Speaker 2: ship publicly?

951
00:40:43,560 --> 00:40:45,880
Speaker 1: What the Fuck'm talking. You know what, I'm tables in

952
00:40:45,880 --> 00:40:48,799
Speaker 1: New York like this together? Did you want to saying

953
00:40:48,800 --> 00:40:51,000
Speaker 1: nothing that you don't want? I'm to have a baby.

954
00:40:51,120 --> 00:40:53,160
Speaker 7: It's also too it's I think it's what type of

955
00:40:53,160 --> 00:40:55,520
Speaker 7: fame you got to? Like, people don't approach me. I

956
00:40:55,560 --> 00:41:00,920
Speaker 7: think what what my messaging is? No, I wasn't say that, nigga.

957
00:41:02,520 --> 00:41:04,680
Speaker 7: You know, people don't approach me with the like super

958
00:41:04,760 --> 00:41:07,239
Speaker 7: duper famous ship, like they approached me like an every

959
00:41:07,320 --> 00:41:09,879
Speaker 7: day person, because I think my messaging is like every

960
00:41:09,920 --> 00:41:13,120
Speaker 7: day you feel me so like I don't really get

961
00:41:13,160 --> 00:41:15,759
Speaker 7: like people that get fanned out type ship, but it

962
00:41:15,800 --> 00:41:18,880
Speaker 7: has happened a few times and I'm like, relaxed, bro,

963
00:41:19,000 --> 00:41:26,800
Speaker 7: really wedes uh, it'd be niggas.

964
00:41:26,800 --> 00:41:29,520
Speaker 5: Bro would be cool, you know what I'm saying.

965
00:41:29,760 --> 00:41:32,799
Speaker 1: Niggas be groopies out here like.

966
00:41:32,719 --> 00:41:35,440
Speaker 7: A nigga like literally like running from across the street

967
00:41:35,600 --> 00:41:38,160
Speaker 7: like yo, I'm like, what's up?

968
00:41:38,160 --> 00:41:40,960
Speaker 5: I'm thinking it's cool whatever? Like whoa what up? Bro?

969
00:41:41,400 --> 00:41:43,480
Speaker 5: I'm focused ten tons a head this nigga is on

970
00:41:43,520 --> 00:41:46,360
Speaker 5: the sidewalk. I was like, damn, what's up? Really cool?

971
00:41:46,440 --> 00:41:47,960
Speaker 5: Like you ain't have to like.

972
00:41:49,600 --> 00:41:53,719
Speaker 7: You know what I'm saying, we through and it was

973
00:41:53,800 --> 00:41:56,480
Speaker 7: love like I appreciate the love to love be real,

974
00:41:56,520 --> 00:42:01,120
Speaker 7: but it's also like damn, like I'm I'm not famous

975
00:42:01,200 --> 00:42:04,040
Speaker 7: type ship, like I'm not super duper famous for like,

976
00:42:04,160 --> 00:42:05,680
Speaker 7: so then how does this escalate?

977
00:42:05,719 --> 00:42:05,960
Speaker 5: That's the.

978
00:42:07,800 --> 00:42:08,239
Speaker 1: Niggas do?

979
00:42:08,440 --> 00:42:09,279
Speaker 5: Yeah, like what what?

980
00:42:09,480 --> 00:42:09,560
Speaker 1: Like?

981
00:42:09,640 --> 00:42:12,440
Speaker 7: How do they move maneuver and operate because like, I

982
00:42:12,480 --> 00:42:14,520
Speaker 7: think a big part that I enjoy is like going

983
00:42:14,520 --> 00:42:17,400
Speaker 7: out and niggas know me, but I could still parlay

984
00:42:17,400 --> 00:42:18,640
Speaker 7: in one two like but.

985
00:42:18,719 --> 00:42:19,319
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie.

986
00:42:19,320 --> 00:42:22,560
Speaker 3: I feel super famous out They sat me half court

987
00:42:23,120 --> 00:42:25,200
Speaker 3: at Dykeman Basketball and I was like.

988
00:42:25,160 --> 00:42:27,480
Speaker 1: Oh my god, bitch, I have made it.

989
00:42:27,840 --> 00:42:31,120
Speaker 3: I went to nigga they taking their little uh they

990
00:42:31,160 --> 00:42:34,120
Speaker 3: little what is it time out and then on the

991
00:42:34,120 --> 00:42:37,920
Speaker 3: mics like yeah shut up many being about yo yo

992
00:42:37,960 --> 00:42:38,920
Speaker 3: yo that podcast.

993
00:42:39,000 --> 00:42:40,279
Speaker 1: Well, I'm gonna get on the couch. So and I

994
00:42:40,320 --> 00:42:43,080
Speaker 1: was like, are the Dykman Basketball.

995
00:42:42,920 --> 00:42:43,840
Speaker 5: Having moments like that?

996
00:42:45,000 --> 00:42:48,839
Speaker 3: I used to It's like I used to I used

997
00:42:48,840 --> 00:42:50,759
Speaker 3: to go to Dykeman is like and this is back

998
00:42:50,760 --> 00:42:52,480
Speaker 3: when like all the bitches was going.

999
00:42:52,520 --> 00:42:54,120
Speaker 1: You could see all the bitches with the BBL da

1000
00:42:54,200 --> 00:42:55,799
Speaker 1: da da. I was in there seeing all the.

1001
00:42:55,840 --> 00:42:58,080
Speaker 3: Niggas who played overseas, all the celebrities like used to

1002
00:42:58,080 --> 00:42:59,840
Speaker 3: be in Dykeman. So when I first moved to New

1003
00:42:59,920 --> 00:43:02,480
Speaker 3: Yor York, I'm going diakmon basketball?

1004
00:43:02,600 --> 00:43:06,200
Speaker 1: Is it so mind you? I'm it was just in

1005
00:43:06,239 --> 00:43:08,360
Speaker 1: New York. I go during the playoffs. It is a Monday.

1006
00:43:08,360 --> 00:43:09,960
Speaker 1: It's not like a Friday.

1007
00:43:09,920 --> 00:43:12,399
Speaker 3: But it's literally the week digg Yeah, it was all

1008
00:43:12,520 --> 00:43:13,840
Speaker 3: off day, but it don't.

1009
00:43:14,080 --> 00:43:15,080
Speaker 1: It was a Monday.

1010
00:43:17,520 --> 00:43:17,640
Speaker 5: Here.

1011
00:43:17,719 --> 00:43:19,680
Speaker 3: My girl Rosie walk up to the gate and she

1012
00:43:19,840 --> 00:43:21,840
Speaker 3: know one of the coaches from Dominican Power.

1013
00:43:22,160 --> 00:43:25,000
Speaker 1: So she's like, we here a Dominican Power. So we

1014
00:43:25,040 --> 00:43:25,879
Speaker 1: go up to the gate.

1015
00:43:25,880 --> 00:43:28,080
Speaker 3: They're like gates closed and me and her look like

1016
00:43:28,360 --> 00:43:30,439
Speaker 3: now we're supposed to be in here. So we get

1017
00:43:30,440 --> 00:43:34,560
Speaker 3: in and we walk over and say ah, He's like,

1018
00:43:35,239 --> 00:43:36,520
Speaker 3: he looks like I'm looking familiar.

1019
00:43:36,600 --> 00:43:38,160
Speaker 1: He remembers I had curly hair. I used to be

1020
00:43:38,200 --> 00:43:39,760
Speaker 1: all soot. This way I used to back my niggas

1021
00:43:39,760 --> 00:43:40,759
Speaker 1: was dyke Way basketball.

1022
00:43:41,160 --> 00:43:43,719
Speaker 3: So I go to fucking we go there like you

1023
00:43:43,840 --> 00:43:46,920
Speaker 3: need chairs, No, we get seated half court.

1024
00:43:47,040 --> 00:43:48,080
Speaker 1: Nobody move us.

1025
00:43:48,239 --> 00:43:51,200
Speaker 2: We half court by the way, about folding niggas that

1026
00:43:51,280 --> 00:43:53,400
Speaker 2: was playing and it'll slotting in my dms because this

1027
00:43:53,560 --> 00:43:56,440
Speaker 2: is I'm a celebrity here, I'm on Celebrity Road and

1028
00:43:56,520 --> 00:43:57,400
Speaker 2: Dykeman basketball.

1029
00:43:57,600 --> 00:44:02,040
Speaker 1: And I was just like, damn, that's to say what

1030
00:44:02,080 --> 00:44:02,279
Speaker 1: to have?

1031
00:44:02,400 --> 00:44:04,640
Speaker 3: No listen when I girl, when I tell you I

1032
00:44:04,640 --> 00:44:07,560
Speaker 3: don't care about do you know what the court is before?

1033
00:44:07,680 --> 00:44:11,600
Speaker 1: I'm half court side? No, but I'm half court outside. Oh,

1034
00:44:11,960 --> 00:44:13,759
Speaker 1: you're sitting in the middle, baby, in the middle, in

1035
00:44:13,800 --> 00:44:16,520
Speaker 1: the middle. What hold on?

1036
00:44:16,640 --> 00:44:18,799
Speaker 3: When I say best set in the house and I

1037
00:44:18,840 --> 00:44:21,480
Speaker 3: and I was thinking about my little bird ass. This

1038
00:44:21,520 --> 00:44:24,480
Speaker 3: is internally I'm like, but you don't party with all

1039
00:44:24,480 --> 00:44:25,279
Speaker 3: these celebrities.

1040
00:44:25,280 --> 00:44:27,319
Speaker 1: You know, all this ship is. You be on the phone,

1041
00:44:27,360 --> 00:44:29,080
Speaker 1: you be in the clubs. When I tell you, A

1042
00:44:29,120 --> 00:44:32,560
Speaker 1: part of me was like, but you made it half courted, Damon.

1043
00:44:32,440 --> 00:44:32,960
Speaker 5: That's hard.

1044
00:44:36,719 --> 00:44:39,520
Speaker 7: When I was in Chicago, Chicago, I got some love

1045
00:44:39,560 --> 00:44:42,279
Speaker 7: in Chicago, but like we was at there, this be

1046
00:44:42,440 --> 00:44:43,600
Speaker 7: easy and I come out.

1047
00:44:43,480 --> 00:44:48,520
Speaker 5: That bitch, little lit bro walk cars street or smoke.

1048
00:44:49,920 --> 00:44:50,840
Speaker 5: It's just tell you.

1049
00:44:50,920 --> 00:44:53,160
Speaker 7: It's this car full of older women like they are

1050
00:44:53,280 --> 00:44:54,160
Speaker 7: forty five feet.

1051
00:44:54,800 --> 00:44:58,279
Speaker 5: It's like, hey, Deonta. Ho was like, what's yeah?

1052
00:44:58,440 --> 00:45:01,400
Speaker 7: Like because niggas mama's be fucking me tight ship niggas

1053
00:45:01,760 --> 00:45:03,600
Speaker 7: not even that, but like people could.

1054
00:45:03,400 --> 00:45:05,800
Speaker 5: Tell me like, bro, my mama put me on your podcast,

1055
00:45:05,880 --> 00:45:06,480
Speaker 5: like oh wow.

1056
00:45:07,160 --> 00:45:12,439
Speaker 7: So like but these I'm like, you know what I'm saying.

1057
00:45:12,640 --> 00:45:14,319
Speaker 1: We're are the things that actually touch you and make

1058
00:45:14,360 --> 00:45:14,720
Speaker 1: you feeling.

1059
00:45:15,280 --> 00:45:18,200
Speaker 2: Got out of the car, had the weird rolled up

1060
00:45:18,239 --> 00:45:20,640
Speaker 2: to it like let me hit the Oh you made

1061
00:45:20,680 --> 00:45:21,040
Speaker 2: them nice?

1062
00:45:21,080 --> 00:45:23,279
Speaker 7: They had got damn one of the mamas like sign

1063
00:45:23,360 --> 00:45:24,960
Speaker 7: my titty, I had signed their children.

1064
00:45:26,120 --> 00:45:27,520
Speaker 5: I was like, y'all got a sharp.

1065
00:45:32,920 --> 00:45:35,919
Speaker 1: You ma, you made their whole week. Celebrity ever gave

1066
00:45:36,040 --> 00:45:36,640
Speaker 1: me that.

1067
00:45:37,120 --> 00:45:38,440
Speaker 5: But so what I was going to say.

1068
00:45:38,440 --> 00:45:40,319
Speaker 7: We went to Sohold the next night and like I'm

1069
00:45:40,360 --> 00:45:44,120
Speaker 7: big Isaiah Man so like me too. So I'm like

1070
00:45:44,200 --> 00:45:47,800
Speaker 7: I'm hearing Breton, I'm let me get to the stage

1071
00:45:47,840 --> 00:45:51,000
Speaker 7: type ship. And then she had breasting me. I seeing her,

1072
00:45:51,040 --> 00:45:53,239
Speaker 7: he was like, that's do y'all take host of the

1073
00:45:53,280 --> 00:45:54,320
Speaker 7: Good Names podcast?

1074
00:45:54,400 --> 00:45:57,359
Speaker 5: If y'all that nigga podcast, y'all nigga speak shout out.

1075
00:45:59,120 --> 00:46:01,719
Speaker 5: I was in that beat yeeking. Do you hear me?

1076
00:46:02,239 --> 00:46:07,560
Speaker 5: I was like, somebody put.

1077
00:46:07,440 --> 00:46:14,600
Speaker 1: Me on a fucking dumpchy. I love music, let's speak

1078
00:46:14,840 --> 00:46:16,640
Speaker 1: the music. Oh you better get this too.

1079
00:46:17,000 --> 00:46:20,840
Speaker 3: So I've been provoking black cars and g cars and

1080
00:46:21,040 --> 00:46:21,640
Speaker 3: other cards.

1081
00:46:21,680 --> 00:46:23,840
Speaker 1: It's been bad. So this is our ho tree segment.

1082
00:46:25,120 --> 00:46:28,560
Speaker 5: Car Why why Sicilian is crazy?

1083
00:46:30,080 --> 00:46:33,359
Speaker 1: My Sicilian shutin.

1084
00:46:34,080 --> 00:46:38,520
Speaker 7: If you go pinstrip power suit you you you might

1085
00:46:38,560 --> 00:46:40,239
Speaker 7: have a whole family like ready to.

1086
00:46:40,360 --> 00:46:44,440
Speaker 5: Ride for you at any Oh my god, I'm and

1087
00:46:44,480 --> 00:46:46,400
Speaker 5: I'm you know it's crazy.

1088
00:46:46,400 --> 00:46:49,640
Speaker 3: When I was going through, like my backstory of my caucasianist,

1089
00:46:50,120 --> 00:46:52,640
Speaker 3: I wanted my mama to be something cool, like not

1090
00:46:52,800 --> 00:46:56,520
Speaker 3: just British.

1091
00:46:56,760 --> 00:46:58,640
Speaker 1: She's like, there's some Cherokee in there. But it was

1092
00:46:58,680 --> 00:46:59,160
Speaker 1: nothing cool.

1093
00:46:59,200 --> 00:47:07,600
Speaker 2: I said on this way to can't make pasta Okay,

1094
00:47:10,920 --> 00:47:13,440
Speaker 2: this is our segment where we take rap lyrics and

1095
00:47:13,480 --> 00:47:15,879
Speaker 2: we turn them into poetry and you have to guess

1096
00:47:15,880 --> 00:47:17,959
Speaker 2: the song. Put me off when you know the song?

1097
00:47:18,160 --> 00:47:22,719
Speaker 2: All right, now give me my dub back, Go and

1098
00:47:22,760 --> 00:47:27,920
Speaker 2: get your friend. Stupid bitch standing there while I'm drinking

1099
00:47:28,000 --> 00:47:34,000
Speaker 2: my hand steady looking at me, still asking questions. Times up,

1100
00:47:34,840 --> 00:47:39,600
Speaker 2: Nigga passed me another contestant, Ho move to the left.

1101
00:47:39,960 --> 00:47:45,000
Speaker 1: If you ain't about fifty done, talk through three or

1102
00:47:45,040 --> 00:47:48,480
Speaker 1: four songs already. I don't know, No you will.

1103
00:47:49,040 --> 00:47:51,719
Speaker 2: I'm gonna keep going looking at a nigga with your

1104
00:47:51,800 --> 00:47:55,439
Speaker 2: palm out, Bitch, I ain't even seen you dance work

1105
00:47:55,560 --> 00:47:59,920
Speaker 2: some baby work something baby pop and pussy on the poll,

1106
00:48:00,480 --> 00:48:04,040
Speaker 2: do your thing. Slide down that bitch a little bit,

1107
00:48:04,120 --> 00:48:08,280
Speaker 2: then stop, get back on the floor, catch your balance,

1108
00:48:08,360 --> 00:48:09,560
Speaker 2: then drop is.

1109
00:48:09,560 --> 00:48:17,399
Speaker 1: This bring it back up? I just want to see

1110
00:48:17,440 --> 00:48:18,799
Speaker 1: yo ass dirty day.

1111
00:48:22,160 --> 00:48:25,480
Speaker 5: Yeah, them boys performing sea World?

1112
00:48:25,640 --> 00:48:27,400
Speaker 1: Did you see them at SeaWorld? Like them?

1113
00:48:28,320 --> 00:48:28,879
Speaker 5: I would like.

1114
00:48:28,920 --> 00:48:32,960
Speaker 7: Them niggas the least SeaWorld line, bro, like animals. The

1115
00:48:33,040 --> 00:48:35,959
Speaker 7: animals is suffering. Bro y'at are.

1116
00:48:35,840 --> 00:48:38,600
Speaker 3: You serious right now that I wanted to fly to

1117
00:48:38,640 --> 00:48:39,920
Speaker 3: San Diego just to be a part of.

1118
00:48:39,920 --> 00:48:41,000
Speaker 1: Spring blinging SeaWorld?

1119
00:48:41,040 --> 00:48:44,799
Speaker 7: Part of the problem always, would you do the same

1120
00:48:44,840 --> 00:48:47,240
Speaker 7: thing these niggas was performing.

1121
00:48:47,320 --> 00:48:50,280
Speaker 3: Do you not care about black You don't care about

1122
00:48:50,280 --> 00:48:52,640
Speaker 3: black entrepreneurs and artists.

1123
00:48:52,120 --> 00:48:54,080
Speaker 5: Making a bad Do you not care about the workers?

1124
00:48:54,920 --> 00:48:57,200
Speaker 1: They're not swooping, They're not doing anything for the workers.

1125
00:48:57,239 --> 00:48:59,839
Speaker 7: That's why niggas die. This, Why this, why this, why

1126
00:48:59,880 --> 00:49:01,400
Speaker 7: my fuckers be trained niggas.

1127
00:49:01,120 --> 00:49:01,680
Speaker 1: Make some money.

1128
00:49:01,800 --> 00:49:05,600
Speaker 2: What's there was tough and I ain't gonna lie.

1129
00:49:07,880 --> 00:49:11,760
Speaker 3: Come on, when abda the sea World there? It doesn't

1130
00:49:11,840 --> 00:49:15,520
Speaker 3: have doing it, but they don't have the orca here though.

1131
00:49:16,239 --> 00:49:18,960
Speaker 3: Do you see where president is you're doing anything?

1132
00:49:19,040 --> 00:49:23,240
Speaker 2: Sorry, you know what's crazy about.

1133
00:49:23,560 --> 00:49:26,120
Speaker 5: Because like they and they unked out like they age

1134
00:49:26,200 --> 00:49:27,360
Speaker 5: and like the agent.

1135
00:49:28,360 --> 00:49:29,000
Speaker 1: You'n't gonna tell you.

1136
00:49:29,080 --> 00:49:32,840
Speaker 2: I read for a wedding performances ying Yan Twins, Kate Trenada.

1137
00:49:32,920 --> 00:49:33,600
Speaker 1: It did shot it.

1138
00:49:33,840 --> 00:49:36,799
Speaker 2: Maybe I just want to be this is gonna be

1139
00:49:36,800 --> 00:49:38,520
Speaker 2: problematic how they feel if the.

1140
00:49:38,560 --> 00:49:40,719
Speaker 5: Niggas was whispering in your air in two thousand and three,

1141
00:49:41,080 --> 00:49:42,640
Speaker 5: it depends which one you would have followed.

1142
00:49:42,760 --> 00:49:44,359
Speaker 1: No, No, it depends what you are.

1143
00:49:44,440 --> 00:49:46,080
Speaker 3: I was about to say the one with which arm,

1144
00:49:46,200 --> 00:49:47,040
Speaker 3: because I was gonna.

1145
00:49:46,840 --> 00:49:48,400
Speaker 7: Say we could have said the short one at the

1146
00:49:48,400 --> 00:49:50,720
Speaker 7: time and we did not have to start.

1147
00:49:50,480 --> 00:49:54,360
Speaker 3: You gonna say it wasn't even c g I that

1148
00:49:54,560 --> 00:49:56,560
Speaker 3: arm very well, nigga.

1149
00:49:56,680 --> 00:49:59,360
Speaker 2: You couldn't even tell them niggas ain't got he is

1150
00:49:59,400 --> 00:50:00,840
Speaker 2: a whole d that global.

1151
00:50:00,920 --> 00:50:01,840
Speaker 1: That nigga got one.

1152
00:50:01,680 --> 00:50:06,319
Speaker 5: To your Yeah again, which one you with a crack?

1153
00:50:06,760 --> 00:50:06,960
Speaker 1: Wait?

1154
00:50:07,000 --> 00:50:09,200
Speaker 2: At this point, there's three people famous with the army

1155
00:50:09,360 --> 00:50:11,880
Speaker 2: with the arm right, yeah, I with the tall nigga

1156
00:50:11,920 --> 00:50:15,440
Speaker 2: with no with both arms. The tall one has she

1157
00:50:15,480 --> 00:50:16,239
Speaker 2: has both arms.

1158
00:50:16,719 --> 00:50:19,080
Speaker 5: No, no, no, got the missing army.

1159
00:50:19,239 --> 00:50:23,399
Speaker 1: The short one? No, Google, she wants to be right

1160
00:50:23,440 --> 00:50:26,040
Speaker 1: to that. No, because your.

1161
00:50:27,280 --> 00:50:29,520
Speaker 5: Yeah, he got I'm looking.

1162
00:50:29,320 --> 00:50:31,680
Speaker 1: Up little little arm.

1163
00:50:31,800 --> 00:50:36,320
Speaker 2: I think there's a d trait, you know the park bro. Okay,

1164
00:50:36,520 --> 00:50:38,840
Speaker 2: so we got this segment called me waiting and bite.

1165
00:50:38,920 --> 00:50:41,399
Speaker 2: They both got long arms in these pictures. Now seeing

1166
00:50:41,400 --> 00:50:44,319
Speaker 2: the little nigga be hot in his arm. Look, the

1167
00:50:44,360 --> 00:50:46,319
Speaker 2: tall one has both arms very long.

1168
00:50:46,560 --> 00:50:48,560
Speaker 5: Is the tower one? Where's the tower one arm position

1169
00:50:48,640 --> 00:50:49,239
Speaker 5: behind the other?

1170
00:50:49,480 --> 00:50:52,319
Speaker 3: No, no, both of his arms are right here, the

1171
00:50:52,400 --> 00:50:54,200
Speaker 3: little one arm behind.

1172
00:50:54,800 --> 00:50:59,200
Speaker 7: Where are you from? Where are you from? Which one

1173
00:50:59,280 --> 00:51:01,120
Speaker 7: of the twins got the short arm?

1174
00:51:03,080 --> 00:51:05,240
Speaker 5: How thirty?

1175
00:51:07,120 --> 00:51:11,480
Speaker 2: Let's come up with the arm got pyramids? So we

1176
00:51:11,520 --> 00:51:13,360
Speaker 2: gotta we listen and we judge.

1177
00:51:13,719 --> 00:51:16,480
Speaker 5: I should be like an our hour. Okay, I would

1178
00:51:16,520 --> 00:51:17,160
Speaker 5: fuck the time.

1179
00:51:17,200 --> 00:51:17,960
Speaker 1: With the little arm.

1180
00:51:18,239 --> 00:51:24,799
Speaker 6: So oh look at like come on we were talking

1181
00:51:24,800 --> 00:51:27,839
Speaker 6: about so you can you could judge me ugly.

1182
00:51:27,880 --> 00:51:32,560
Speaker 1: Niggas can take if you do a game bat the

1183
00:51:32,640 --> 00:51:34,120
Speaker 1: niggas gonna be a lead game.

1184
00:51:35,040 --> 00:51:35,279
Speaker 5: Ugly.

1185
00:51:35,360 --> 00:51:38,719
Speaker 1: I don't want to save a big because there's a

1186
00:51:38,880 --> 00:51:39,600
Speaker 1: charity at.

1187
00:51:39,440 --> 00:51:44,120
Speaker 5: That pointil likely.

1188
00:51:46,400 --> 00:51:48,919
Speaker 2: Money really takes over all. Okay, were listening, Ea, judge,

1189
00:51:48,960 --> 00:51:51,360
Speaker 2: let's get to this. So it's one of our favorite

1190
00:51:51,360 --> 00:51:54,399
Speaker 2: segments because when you share a piece of gossip your

1191
00:51:54,440 --> 00:51:58,000
Speaker 2: friend group and we're gonna listen and judge. So any

1192
00:51:58,000 --> 00:52:00,319
Speaker 2: of your niggas called you, lady all home girl told

1193
00:52:00,320 --> 00:52:02,360
Speaker 2: you some bullshit and you would like to bring it

1194
00:52:02,360 --> 00:52:03,560
Speaker 2: to the table to judge.

1195
00:52:03,280 --> 00:52:06,560
Speaker 5: Today, No, nigga's not comed with Now if.

1196
00:52:06,400 --> 00:52:08,839
Speaker 1: You don't have any we have three celebrities you could

1197
00:52:08,920 --> 00:52:10,080
Speaker 1: choose to judge today, all.

1198
00:52:10,080 --> 00:52:11,359
Speaker 5: Right, been I'm down for that.

1199
00:52:11,480 --> 00:52:15,319
Speaker 1: She was from off set, Cardi B or Halle Berry.

1200
00:52:15,400 --> 00:52:17,319
Speaker 1: I feel like two of them were part of going

1201
00:52:17,440 --> 00:52:18,000
Speaker 1: Halley Bearry.

1202
00:52:18,760 --> 00:52:22,040
Speaker 2: Okay, you really judging her because she ain't clean clean?

1203
00:52:22,080 --> 00:52:24,879
Speaker 2: What way are we not up to date? You would

1204
00:52:24,880 --> 00:52:25,640
Speaker 2: TikTok niggas.

1205
00:52:25,880 --> 00:52:27,520
Speaker 5: So that's Carston girl.

1206
00:52:27,840 --> 00:52:28,160
Speaker 1: Okay.

1207
00:52:28,200 --> 00:52:31,360
Speaker 2: So halle Berry's ex husband, the MLB player, the one Dustin.

1208
00:52:31,719 --> 00:52:34,080
Speaker 2: This came out like a month and a half, like

1209
00:52:34,120 --> 00:52:34,800
Speaker 2: two months ago.

1210
00:52:35,280 --> 00:52:38,160
Speaker 1: So basically he said that halle Berry wasn't cleaning and cooking.

1211
00:52:38,320 --> 00:52:41,239
Speaker 7: So she halle Berry by the time she was seeing

1212
00:52:41,239 --> 00:52:43,640
Speaker 7: her titties and swartfish niggas she want to have to do ship.

1213
00:52:43,840 --> 00:52:46,720
Speaker 1: I felt the same, right, nigga?

1214
00:52:46,960 --> 00:52:48,280
Speaker 5: You talking about what's allie?

1215
00:52:48,320 --> 00:52:50,479
Speaker 2: So we're judging Halle because she wasn't cleaning the cookie.

1216
00:52:50,520 --> 00:52:52,759
Speaker 2: What you're judging Halle for talking about her pussy on

1217
00:52:52,760 --> 00:52:53,120
Speaker 2: the internet?

1218
00:52:53,440 --> 00:52:56,040
Speaker 5: Probably? Uh running dish Run.

1219
00:52:59,200 --> 00:53:01,960
Speaker 1: Was Kaitlyn Jenner. I'm judging Halley.

1220
00:53:02,200 --> 00:53:07,960
Speaker 7: His three I think Halley Caitlin and I'm judging.

1221
00:53:08,200 --> 00:53:10,120
Speaker 1: I'm judging Halle because.

1222
00:53:09,960 --> 00:53:12,640
Speaker 5: I'm judging Halle for fucking here Billy Bob Thorton.

1223
00:53:13,040 --> 00:53:19,160
Speaker 1: That's crazy. She was okay crazy, really didn't even want orbitch.

1224
00:53:19,800 --> 00:53:23,239
Speaker 1: I would know he's white. Yeah, you better him for

1225
00:53:23,239 --> 00:53:25,799
Speaker 1: one of the white woman candle clothes over white woman.

1226
00:53:25,840 --> 00:53:26,440
Speaker 1: And now you want to.

1227
00:53:27,040 --> 00:53:31,880
Speaker 7: Over imagine you Ryan Billibo and you got kissing in

1228
00:53:31,880 --> 00:53:34,239
Speaker 7: the mouth and the mouth for the deal you talking about?

1229
00:53:34,320 --> 00:53:35,200
Speaker 5: Yeah, you're gonna be married.

1230
00:53:36,520 --> 00:53:38,640
Speaker 2: Whose mouth is worse? So if we're talking about them

1231
00:53:38,640 --> 00:53:40,520
Speaker 2: two niggas, that is a fair.

1232
00:53:40,640 --> 00:53:46,160
Speaker 5: Who Bill the nigga from you?

1233
00:53:46,239 --> 00:53:46,359
Speaker 2: Na?

1234
00:53:46,480 --> 00:53:50,759
Speaker 7: That's both ill mouth right there?

1235
00:53:51,320 --> 00:53:52,400
Speaker 5: Yeah nasty.

1236
00:53:53,360 --> 00:53:56,640
Speaker 3: I am judging Halle Berry for something that was just

1237
00:53:56,640 --> 00:53:58,960
Speaker 3: brought to my attention, and I feel like it is

1238
00:53:59,000 --> 00:54:03,600
Speaker 3: completely wrong. So when first off, I'm judging her for

1239
00:54:03,640 --> 00:54:06,560
Speaker 3: two things. The first thing is she was dating this

1240
00:54:06,560 --> 00:54:09,200
Speaker 3: this nigga who was an MLB player. Five months into

1241
00:54:09,239 --> 00:54:11,759
Speaker 3: the relationship, she told him to propose to her. So

1242
00:54:11,800 --> 00:54:14,920
Speaker 3: I'm judging her for that telling a nigga five months

1243
00:54:14,920 --> 00:54:18,120
Speaker 3: and you gotta marry me and this nigga like a dummy.

1244
00:54:19,719 --> 00:54:21,799
Speaker 1: I'm judging he was worth how much back there?

1245
00:54:22,160 --> 00:54:24,759
Speaker 3: Yeah, he was worth a lot.

1246
00:54:26,680 --> 00:54:26,919
Speaker 1: Judge.

1247
00:54:29,040 --> 00:54:31,720
Speaker 7: If I'm in the mL I'm gonna have my lawyers

1248
00:54:31,760 --> 00:54:33,760
Speaker 7: like make sure we good and I'm married.

1249
00:54:34,120 --> 00:54:34,520
Speaker 5: I think.

1250
00:54:37,360 --> 00:54:38,440
Speaker 1: You're her for saying that.

1251
00:54:38,480 --> 00:54:40,760
Speaker 3: I'm judging her for five months in telling the nigga

1252
00:54:40,800 --> 00:54:43,000
Speaker 3: to marry you because have some fuck Cooper.

1253
00:54:42,800 --> 00:54:43,879
Speaker 5: Didn't you Jo?

1254
00:54:44,200 --> 00:54:46,720
Speaker 1: He did?

1255
00:54:47,280 --> 00:54:48,400
Speaker 5: So they do cancel judgment.

1256
00:54:48,840 --> 00:54:49,759
Speaker 1: Okay, she said.

1257
00:54:51,960 --> 00:54:54,200
Speaker 3: The second thing I'm judging her for is very problematic,

1258
00:54:55,239 --> 00:54:57,560
Speaker 3: and you bitch just gotta get better with this ship.

1259
00:54:57,760 --> 00:55:01,520
Speaker 3: So in the same interview, he let it be known

1260
00:55:01,880 --> 00:55:06,120
Speaker 3: that she went on a press run after they broke up.

1261
00:55:06,239 --> 00:55:10,279
Speaker 3: Mind you, they divorced, they got separated. She went on

1262
00:55:10,320 --> 00:55:14,680
Speaker 3: a whole run talking about being abused in a previous relationship,

1263
00:55:15,400 --> 00:55:17,600
Speaker 3: and she allowed the narrative to be pushed that it

1264
00:55:17,640 --> 00:55:20,200
Speaker 3: was him, when in fact, it was a whole nother Echola,

1265
00:55:23,080 --> 00:55:25,600
Speaker 3: she did not clear it up that it wasn't him

1266
00:55:26,040 --> 00:55:28,600
Speaker 3: that she was talking about, and he's like, did we

1267
00:55:28,640 --> 00:55:32,439
Speaker 3: ever find out that it wasn't him? But he said

1268
00:55:32,480 --> 00:55:34,839
Speaker 3: in this interview, he was like, she had a whole

1269
00:55:34,840 --> 00:55:35,960
Speaker 3: machine behind him.

1270
00:55:36,280 --> 00:55:38,560
Speaker 1: And what sucks about it is what was I supposed

1271
00:55:38,560 --> 00:55:42,120
Speaker 1: to do? Say it ate me? When literally the narrative is.

1272
00:55:42,120 --> 00:55:44,360
Speaker 3: That she was talking about a previous relationship, but this

1273
00:55:44,480 --> 00:55:47,040
Speaker 3: was literally right on the heels of them.

1274
00:55:46,960 --> 00:55:48,680
Speaker 1: Ending their relationship, real ship. How do we know it

1275
00:55:48,719 --> 00:55:49,120
Speaker 1: wasn't him?

1276
00:55:49,239 --> 00:55:51,680
Speaker 3: It wasn't him, like literally it was because he said

1277
00:55:51,680 --> 00:55:53,040
Speaker 3: it was confirmed it was a whole other actor?

1278
00:55:53,280 --> 00:55:55,080
Speaker 1: Was it was another actor?

1279
00:55:55,480 --> 00:55:58,640
Speaker 3: Because she said she considered she considered suicide because of

1280
00:55:58,640 --> 00:55:59,839
Speaker 3: this abusive relationship.

1281
00:56:00,040 --> 00:56:02,560
Speaker 5: Okay, but look a whole person.

1282
00:56:02,640 --> 00:56:04,200
Speaker 7: And I don't know if it's like the right way

1283
00:56:04,239 --> 00:56:07,160
Speaker 7: to approach the conversation. Let's do but like, if you're

1284
00:56:07,200 --> 00:56:09,200
Speaker 7: gonna call somebody off of being abusive, you need to

1285
00:56:09,200 --> 00:56:09,440
Speaker 7: put a.

1286
00:56:09,440 --> 00:56:10,880
Speaker 1: Nice put a name on the bullet.

1287
00:56:10,920 --> 00:56:13,440
Speaker 2: Which is why I'm judging her because she allowed the

1288
00:56:13,520 --> 00:56:14,719
Speaker 2: narrative to carry on.

1289
00:56:14,760 --> 00:56:17,160
Speaker 7: There is this guy the apprehension that come with because

1290
00:56:17,239 --> 00:56:19,799
Speaker 7: I mean, if motherfucker was abusive kind of But if

1291
00:56:19,840 --> 00:56:21,239
Speaker 7: you're going out there, behave you kind of.

1292
00:56:21,200 --> 00:56:22,160
Speaker 5: Out there, I'm not gonna lie.

1293
00:56:22,160 --> 00:56:24,399
Speaker 1: I'll bring it here because it's a couple of years old. Now.

1294
00:56:24,800 --> 00:56:27,759
Speaker 1: I got in trouble quote unquote a little bit.

1295
00:56:28,760 --> 00:56:31,000
Speaker 2: Oh, and I've onably believed the name only because I

1296
00:56:31,000 --> 00:56:33,600
Speaker 2: still be around people and stuff that know her. But

1297
00:56:34,280 --> 00:56:38,680
Speaker 2: when Lato was promoting her seven seven seven album, she

1298
00:56:38,800 --> 00:56:41,719
Speaker 2: went on almost a press front talking about how she

1299
00:56:42,120 --> 00:56:46,080
Speaker 2: didn't almost get a Verse cleared because there was a

1300
00:56:46,080 --> 00:56:48,720
Speaker 2: certain nigga on the album that was trying to advance.

1301
00:56:49,000 --> 00:56:50,719
Speaker 1: When she was saying it was Kodak, she.

1302
00:56:50,719 --> 00:56:55,200
Speaker 3: Didn't say anything. The narrative was that it was Kodak

1303
00:56:56,760 --> 00:56:59,839
Speaker 3: from my back end and my knowledge, I heard through

1304
00:56:59,880 --> 00:57:00,800
Speaker 3: the grape vine.

1305
00:57:00,560 --> 00:57:02,319
Speaker 1: That it was Wayne and Boy.

1306
00:57:02,360 --> 00:57:04,040
Speaker 3: When I said that on my podcast, the one that

1307
00:57:04,040 --> 00:57:07,560
Speaker 3: no longer exists, it was like I got all these

1308
00:57:07,600 --> 00:57:10,359
Speaker 3: messages and so that was my problem. I was like,

1309
00:57:10,480 --> 00:57:13,080
Speaker 3: as much as I support Lotto, I love her, I'm

1310
00:57:13,080 --> 00:57:15,120
Speaker 3: a lot of stand love her music. Thinks she's fucking

1311
00:57:15,120 --> 00:57:17,360
Speaker 3: bad as fuck, love everything she's doing as an artist.

1312
00:57:17,640 --> 00:57:19,720
Speaker 3: I felt like, as a woman, you shouldn't be in

1313
00:57:19,720 --> 00:57:22,080
Speaker 3: a place to allow a narrative to go around about

1314
00:57:22,080 --> 00:57:26,600
Speaker 3: a man that isn't the perpetrator of this crime mine.

1315
00:57:26,800 --> 00:57:29,280
Speaker 3: Then Kodak reposted saying that I was like, I told

1316
00:57:29,360 --> 00:57:31,840
Speaker 3: y'all it wasn't me, And I was just like, as women,

1317
00:57:32,240 --> 00:57:34,960
Speaker 3: we had to be in a place where we understand

1318
00:57:34,960 --> 00:57:38,440
Speaker 3: that niggas's monsters out here and that niggas do bullshit, right,

1319
00:57:38,480 --> 00:57:43,560
Speaker 3: But if we're gonna speak about the bullshit that happens anywhere, that's.

1320
00:57:43,360 --> 00:57:43,880
Speaker 1: A little thing.

1321
00:57:44,040 --> 00:57:46,800
Speaker 2: Even if we're saying that I talk about a brutal

1322
00:57:46,840 --> 00:57:49,440
Speaker 2: and violent crape in the book from an Atlanta rapper,

1323
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Speaker 2: should I put his.

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Speaker 1: Name on it?

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Speaker 3: I mean to me, you had the conversation with Charlemagne

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Speaker 3: where you were like, you were like.

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Speaker 7: Do I say, okay, this is where I can find

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Speaker 7: some middle ground in it. If you don't want to

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Speaker 7: expouse y'all user name out of like fear that, okay,

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Speaker 7: you shouldn't. You know what I'm saying. I think speaking

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Speaker 7: to your experience kind of freeze other people to be

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Speaker 7: able to speak about their experience. I think if a

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Speaker 7: name get attached to it, who it ain't, it's your

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Speaker 7: responsibility to agree with that.

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Speaker 2: I think if yeah, I agree with you, like if

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Speaker 2: you should have the man.

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Speaker 7: Said, I've got to say six crimes is like Scarlett Letter, Yeah,

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Speaker 7: I can't get around it. So, like I would say,

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Speaker 7: if you don't want to expoil the person name, but

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Speaker 7: another name to get attached.

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Speaker 1: To it, who you can't the person? You think that

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Speaker 1: women have to be able to talk about something that happened,

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Speaker 1: but also say not only women ment to period.

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Speaker 3: Really well, I'm only saying that because there's a lot

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Speaker 3: of things being attached right now to Tyler Perry and

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Speaker 3: people are like, but it's not Tyler Perry someone else.

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Speaker 1: Like the same too with men. If there's a sexual

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Speaker 1: assault that's gonna come out and you're.

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Speaker 3: Going to give enough details to where it could be

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Speaker 3: attached to anybody, and public perception connects it to someone

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Speaker 3: that it's not, you have to be able to absolve

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Speaker 3: that person.

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Speaker 1: That is not if you're talking about somebody else.

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Speaker 7: You don't even have to and you don't have to

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Speaker 7: do that. You don't have to like say it wasn't

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Speaker 7: this person, it was that person. You would be like, hey, respectfully,

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Speaker 7: that person.

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Speaker 5: Had nothing to do with me.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, and that's it, Because like I spoke about being

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Speaker 7: molested when I was younger about a woman that was

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Speaker 7: close to my family. And if somebody would have put

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Speaker 7: a name on somebody in my family and it wasn't,

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Speaker 7: then I'd have been.

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Speaker 5: Like, respectfully that person.

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Speaker 7: I don't mean I got to expose to it is

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Speaker 7: because the thing is too like to speak about an experience.

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Speaker 5: It free you up.

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Speaker 7: Too, because that shit just ain't sitting in your head

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Speaker 7: out on my fucking day, or like dictating your actions

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Speaker 7: and emotions, and step one is acknowledging shit so you

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Speaker 7: can get past it.

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Speaker 5: And also with a public player.

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Speaker 1: I can't say like you got to put a name

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Speaker 1: on the only thing.

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Speaker 2: And the reason I wanted to bring up Rappers is

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Speaker 2: because I think it happen when I was nineteen, That's

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Speaker 2: when he was famous. So in my head, I'm like, oh,

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Speaker 2: this is totally connected to like why the person I

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Speaker 2: ran down in the hotel, I'm an ask for help

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Speaker 2: and they didn't do anything. It's all connected to this,

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Speaker 2: same to money to maybe me not saying anything.

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Speaker 1: That power is what we see what the did, and.

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Speaker 7: So like my things like to that point, I don't

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Speaker 7: think you got to put a name on the bullet

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Speaker 7: I just think you can't allow somebody name to be

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Speaker 7: put on that bitch if they ain't happen to do it.

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Speaker 1: I mean, how you doing that? That was her being

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Speaker 1: petty if he didn't, If it wasn't him, you probably

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Speaker 1: would on.

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Speaker 7: Some ship like the nigga played me or whatever the

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Speaker 7: case may be. He got down like I got to

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Speaker 7: get down with halle Berry married like my.

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Speaker 3: We don't have much so but I do want to

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Speaker 3: get a little deep, do you no?

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Speaker 1: We we know we can.

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Speaker 3: I ask you a question, as a man who has

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Speaker 3: had that experience of sexual assault, did you ever tell

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Speaker 3: anyone the woman like did you ever feel like you

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Speaker 3: are out there?

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Speaker 5: I told my dad and then I told my aunt.

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Speaker 1: You know what was the response did she?

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Speaker 7: I mean they was distraught about the ship. But it's

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Speaker 7: like that person, that person the place where I came.

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Speaker 7: So it was like I kind of did some digging

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Speaker 7: and asking around and I found out that shit had.

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Speaker 5: Happened to her previously.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but it happened to r Kelly too, and we

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Speaker 1: don't know.

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Speaker 5: I'm not absolving her.

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Speaker 7: I'm just saying, like I had, I got to a

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Speaker 7: place where I had empathy for the situation.

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Speaker 5: Okay, and it's like we're both kids. You feel me, so, like,

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Speaker 5: how old were you? I was eight? She was twelve

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Speaker 5: or thirteen?

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Speaker 1: And when did you tell your parents shit?

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Speaker 5: When I was grown? Oh yeah, my mama passed. My

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Speaker 5: MoMA ain't never know, but my dad.

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Speaker 7: I told my parts you know what I'm saying, and

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Speaker 7: then I told my auntsie, and then of course I

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Speaker 7: talked about it on the podcast, and that's when my

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Speaker 7: auntie caught me, like, bro, what happened?

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Speaker 5: Type shit?

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Speaker 7: I'm not thinking about it, but I'm freed up because

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Speaker 7: I didn't tell my daddy. So like, that's the person

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Speaker 7: who really mattered the most. It's my family. He know

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Speaker 7: the person. So it's like for me, it's not important

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Speaker 7: to put a name because I also know what that

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01:01:49,160 --> 01:01:51,280
Speaker 7: person life looks like right now they're going through.

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Speaker 1: Do you know? That's what I put at the end

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Speaker 1: of my chappin what I was like.

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Speaker 2: At first, I was feeling bad, ohah blah blah blah,

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Speaker 2: but at the end of the day, only one of

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Speaker 2: us on top.

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01:01:59,000 --> 01:02:01,240
Speaker 1: Right now, it's something about out and I hate that.

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01:02:01,320 --> 01:02:06,040
Speaker 2: I felt vindicated, validated through it, but it's not ingranted

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Speaker 2: even if he wasn't.

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Speaker 5: I don't think their personal Oh no, low.

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01:02:09,160 --> 01:02:12,240
Speaker 1: So they're like, this ain't that man, but he definitely,

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01:02:12,880 --> 01:02:13,960
Speaker 1: you know, he ain't that.

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01:02:14,640 --> 01:02:17,400
Speaker 2: Now what I did feel because I was thinking, if

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01:02:17,400 --> 01:02:19,640
Speaker 2: you had money, would I feel? I actually think it

1442
01:02:19,640 --> 01:02:21,320
Speaker 2: would be harder to tell the story because all I

1443
01:02:21,320 --> 01:02:23,160
Speaker 2: would think is people would think I want money.

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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01:02:23,720 --> 01:02:28,280
Speaker 7: It's about women get in too, because it's like, oh,

1446
01:02:28,320 --> 01:02:30,040
Speaker 7: you're just trying to take down the power for a nigga.

1447
01:02:30,080 --> 01:02:32,080
Speaker 7: Oh you're just trying to get some money or woo.

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01:02:32,360 --> 01:02:35,280
Speaker 7: But then it's like if the nigga done fell off,

1449
01:02:35,600 --> 01:02:37,320
Speaker 7: then it'd become a thing of like why you ain't

1450
01:02:37,320 --> 01:02:37,880
Speaker 7: say nahing.

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01:02:37,760 --> 01:02:39,240
Speaker 5: When it was this and that? Why you ain't said it?

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01:02:39,320 --> 01:02:42,240
Speaker 1: So like you damn don't yeah all the time?

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01:02:42,560 --> 01:02:46,400
Speaker 7: Like I think also too, it's like this victim blaming

1454
01:02:46,480 --> 01:02:49,400
Speaker 7: ship of like we're gonna judge the person that the

1455
01:02:49,440 --> 01:02:53,600
Speaker 7: other person instead of like inquiring about like the person

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01:02:53,680 --> 01:02:56,920
Speaker 7: that's being accused of it, Like, nah, absolve yourself for this, bro,

1457
01:02:57,080 --> 01:02:59,080
Speaker 7: because what you got the.

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01:02:59,000 --> 01:03:02,040
Speaker 2: Way that the internet has, we are never going I'm

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01:03:02,040 --> 01:03:03,920
Speaker 2: telling you, it's so hard for women to say something.

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01:03:03,960 --> 01:03:06,680
Speaker 2: I contemplated so much like people think I'm trying to

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01:03:06,680 --> 01:03:07,840
Speaker 2: sell a book because I talked about this.

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01:03:08,040 --> 01:03:10,400
Speaker 1: Nigga, like, what is it? But in reality, it's.

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Speaker 5: Funish our life and your experience.

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Speaker 6: Bro.

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Speaker 7: It's like, first of all, too like niggas ain't trying

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01:03:15,640 --> 01:03:18,080
Speaker 7: to monetize off that for real. Like, but if we

1467
01:03:18,280 --> 01:03:20,560
Speaker 7: talking and were keeping it real, the name of the book,

1468
01:03:20,640 --> 01:03:22,600
Speaker 7: no hoss bar. So it's like I'm gonna keep it

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01:03:22,640 --> 01:03:24,840
Speaker 7: really about my experience I saw too. It's like with

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01:03:24,920 --> 01:03:28,040
Speaker 7: a platform, there's people out here that need to.

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01:03:28,040 --> 01:03:28,920
Speaker 5: Feel seen in me.

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01:03:29,200 --> 01:03:32,960
Speaker 7: They need voices, they need even if they can't express

1473
01:03:33,000 --> 01:03:35,640
Speaker 7: it outwardly, at least they know they not alone. And

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01:03:35,640 --> 01:03:38,200
Speaker 7: the ship because oftentimes when we go through like real

1475
01:03:38,280 --> 01:03:40,680
Speaker 7: traumatic experiences, we think we're the only person that been

1476
01:03:40,720 --> 01:03:42,680
Speaker 7: through it, even if we don't, even if we know

1477
01:03:42,760 --> 01:03:45,720
Speaker 7: we not, it's still feel because you can't tell nobody

1478
01:03:45,800 --> 01:03:48,160
Speaker 7: around you. And so like when I came out and

1479
01:03:48,240 --> 01:03:50,960
Speaker 7: was vocal about my situation, the amount of men that

1480
01:03:51,120 --> 01:03:53,880
Speaker 7: just came out with their stories and like was expressive

1481
01:03:53,920 --> 01:03:54,240
Speaker 7: about it.

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01:03:54,280 --> 01:03:55,840
Speaker 5: Women, you know what I'm saying. But a lot of

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01:03:55,880 --> 01:03:57,120
Speaker 5: niggas was freed up, so we.

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01:03:57,080 --> 01:04:01,160
Speaker 1: Don't hear about men's stories. Man. That's how you become

1485
01:04:01,200 --> 01:04:05,400
Speaker 1: a man, I supposed to tell you happy. I think.

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01:04:05,480 --> 01:04:07,280
Speaker 7: I think the sentiment that people need to take away

1487
01:04:07,320 --> 01:04:08,560
Speaker 7: is that children aren't safe.

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01:04:09,000 --> 01:04:11,040
Speaker 5: Your children, children children.

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01:04:10,840 --> 01:04:12,800
Speaker 1: Not a man and woman think. It's not a boy girl.

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01:04:12,560 --> 01:04:15,160
Speaker 5: Thing manifest into a man and woman thing when these

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01:04:15,240 --> 01:04:16,080
Speaker 5: children grow up.

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01:04:16,560 --> 01:04:20,040
Speaker 7: So, like I had expressed, like the person, the person

1493
01:04:20,120 --> 01:04:22,880
Speaker 7: who goes to a traumatic experience either traumatized somebody else

1494
01:04:22,960 --> 01:04:26,200
Speaker 7: or they further traumatize themselves. So like, you don't know

1495
01:04:26,200 --> 01:04:29,000
Speaker 7: what's rop that ship gonna take. So by being honest

1496
01:04:29,040 --> 01:04:30,920
Speaker 7: and like advocating for these kids and believe in the

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01:04:31,000 --> 01:04:33,360
Speaker 7: kid when they say something, instead of trying to protect

1498
01:04:33,400 --> 01:04:35,840
Speaker 7: these adults ship, we could in the.

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01:04:35,760 --> 01:04:37,960
Speaker 1: Cycle of that does be very clear. These adults know

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Speaker 1: right from motherfucker.

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01:04:43,200 --> 01:04:45,720
Speaker 7: Nah, for sure, she knew better, she knew better. But

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01:04:45,920 --> 01:04:48,080
Speaker 7: at the same time, it's like ship, that ship fucked

1503
01:04:48,080 --> 01:04:50,400
Speaker 7: my whole brain up, ain't well.

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01:04:50,520 --> 01:04:54,360
Speaker 3: I hate to cut this conversation short, but you're gonna

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01:04:54,400 --> 01:04:57,280
Speaker 3: join us for you got decision boom, and I got

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01:04:57,280 --> 01:04:58,040
Speaker 3: a good one for you too.

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Speaker 1: Excited it's about a CEO fucking with an inmate.

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Speaker 2: We're going y'all if you have it, Yeah, make sure

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Speaker 2: you check out that you got decisions, But y'all.

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Speaker 3: They tell people where they can follow you, support you,

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Speaker 3: If we knew he was coming, we would put you

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Speaker 3: on a mic to at this point, we're gonna have

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Speaker 3: to have a part.

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Speaker 1: We're gonna have to have a part too with you.

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