WEBVTT - Meet my Assistant

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't know if I was looking for an assistant.

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<v Speaker 1>I knew I needed help. I just felt very comfortable

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<v Speaker 1>with her. So Omi became like my day to day

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<v Speaker 1>my personal assistant. Is there something like super crazy that

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<v Speaker 1>comes to mind that you feel that I've made you do,

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<v Speaker 1>or that you've had to do or whatever? When um,

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<v Speaker 1>you really wanted a salad in Corona, so she had

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<v Speaker 1>me put the salad in the uber and the salad

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<v Speaker 1>cost two for the uber and the salad was only

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<v Speaker 1>like twenty bucks. We did have a little bit of

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<v Speaker 1>a break. I think that break was definitely needed for

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<v Speaker 1>us because I think you grew in a way and

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<v Speaker 1>I did too. And I think you learned to appreciate things,

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<v Speaker 1>and so did I. Hello, Hello Totos, Welcome to another

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<v Speaker 1>episode of Chicks and Chill. I'm your hostess with the

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<v Speaker 1>mostess cheeks, and today we're going to be joined by

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<v Speaker 1>a very special guest. She's one of my favorite people.

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<v Speaker 1>She's also my right hand in or should I say woman.

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<v Speaker 1>I'll be introducing you to my assistant and friend in

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<v Speaker 1>just a moment, so stay tuned for this episode of

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<v Speaker 1>cheek Ease and Chill. Oh my gosh, guys, I am

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<v Speaker 1>so excited to introduce you to know Ami Valdivia, better

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<v Speaker 1>known as Ohmi Lovely, my Pepper, or Homie. And I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not gonna get into that later as to why I

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<v Speaker 1>call her homie. She is actually sitting right a few

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<v Speaker 1>feet from me. Hiomi say hello, Hello. She's a little shy. Guys,

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<v Speaker 1>she's a little shy. Are you excited to be on

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<v Speaker 1>the podcast or what? I am excited. It's so she'll

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<v Speaker 1>be on your podcast. Oh thank you. Omi. She hears

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<v Speaker 1>me like every time we're recording, and she always asks me, like,

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<v Speaker 1>what did check up out today? I'm like, no, you

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<v Speaker 1>gotta go listen to it. I always tell her, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>she literally does not let me listen to it. Yeah, no,

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<v Speaker 1>I have to, like she needs to go and give

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<v Speaker 1>me a listen. So anyways, guys, first of all, just

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<v Speaker 1>so you know, Omi and I did not prepare anything

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<v Speaker 1>at all. We didn't talk before nothing. So we're going

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<v Speaker 1>to talk about like how it is, how it's been,

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<v Speaker 1>when we met, how we met. And I wanted to

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<v Speaker 1>do an episode like this because I see on my

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<v Speaker 1>autograph signings at my concerts a lot of people gravitate

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<v Speaker 1>towards Omediate. They love her very much, and I want

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<v Speaker 1>people to know the type of relationship that we have

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<v Speaker 1>because again, a lot of things have been said in

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<v Speaker 1>media that I treat her bad and then all this stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>So she's here to clear it up if she wants.

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<v Speaker 1>And I want you guys to meet her more than anything,

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<v Speaker 1>like to get to know her on a different level. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so Omi, the first question I have, why do we

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<v Speaker 1>call you homie? I don't know that's a good question.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you think you're a home? Sometimes? I'm just kidding.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just kidding, guys. We call her homie. We call

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<v Speaker 1>her like for homie, she's the homie or like homie,

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<v Speaker 1>just to mess around like she's a home. But she

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<v Speaker 1>really isn't a home. She's a good girl. We'd just

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<v Speaker 1>like to mess around. Tell them the truth, what the

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<v Speaker 1>tru and tell your dad to listen to this Facebook.

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<v Speaker 1>My dad's not allowed listen to bookle Oh he's not. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I guess we can start from the beginning. Oh me,

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<v Speaker 1>do you want to tell them how we met? Yeah? Sure,

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<v Speaker 1>so as you guys all know, like you know, I

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<v Speaker 1>started out as a huge fan of her mom, and

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<v Speaker 1>you know, wow, she was Unit four seven guys. I

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<v Speaker 1>was lucky to get into the first one, and we'll

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<v Speaker 1>obviously been a fan of her mom. You know, you

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<v Speaker 1>also love her kids. But I've always gravitated more towards chickens.

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<v Speaker 1>We're saying chickens. I always colored Jenney, but um, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I started admiring the person she was, and I saw

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<v Speaker 1>how much she helped her mom and just the kind

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<v Speaker 1>of person she was. I think even when her mom

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<v Speaker 1>was here, she's always like she was her own person

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<v Speaker 1>and you know, inspired people even through Twitter quotes all

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<v Speaker 1>the time, even um, when her mom passed away. Like

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<v Speaker 1>there's a lot of people, a lot of fans who

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<v Speaker 1>actually chose sides, and me and a couple of other

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<v Speaker 1>friends never chose a side. We kind to stay mutual.

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<v Speaker 1>And because of that, you know, I was able to

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<v Speaker 1>see both sides, and I gravitated more towards her, and

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<v Speaker 1>I wanted to support her because during that time a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of people left her, not only her family, but

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<v Speaker 1>also like friends and fans, and you know, along with

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<v Speaker 1>the you know Torrito, well, we supported her events and

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<v Speaker 1>I think we're the only two fans that were actually

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<v Speaker 1>there on her first autograph side and she had I

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<v Speaker 1>think it was like somewhere incumbent. You were there where

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<v Speaker 1>you're little pony to a low jeans, white shirt. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>never think she would go to water Gray or something

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<v Speaker 1>like that, but she went like that, and we just

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<v Speaker 1>started supporting her anywhere she went. And she noticed that,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, no matter where it was, we were there present,

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<v Speaker 1>taking her gifts. You know, they're as friends but also

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<v Speaker 1>as fans, and you just started bringing us around more,

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<v Speaker 1>little by little, and you know, it just turned into

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<v Speaker 1>like working for you, I guess, and you kindly never

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<v Speaker 1>gave me the option. You just said you're gonna be

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<v Speaker 1>my assistant and that's final. And I was like, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>well wait, okay, okay, we kind of if it did

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<v Speaker 1>happen that way. You guys, when you want something, you

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<v Speaker 1>go for it. So okay, we started. She started following

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<v Speaker 1>me or my career in two thousand nine, no nine nine, right, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>with Chickens and Roxy and she went with Torito. A

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<v Speaker 1>lot of people may know who he is or not.

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<v Speaker 1>He's also a fan of my mom's and he is

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<v Speaker 1>now in my life. Baby just gave me a rose. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So she went to I think it was Yeah, it

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<v Speaker 1>was the autograph signing on me where we first met

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<v Speaker 1>in person, and then we started following each other on

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<v Speaker 1>Twitter and she would always like, like my quotes and

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<v Speaker 1>she would put quotes too. Then she invited me to

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<v Speaker 1>go hiking, which, by the way, guys, it's been that

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<v Speaker 1>many years and we have not gone hiking once. But

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<v Speaker 1>that's how our friendship started. She said, hey, we should

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<v Speaker 1>go on a hike one day because I used to

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<v Speaker 1>like hike a lot more. I haven't hiked in a

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<v Speaker 1>long time, to be honest, and she's like, I'll take

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<v Speaker 1>you to this really nice place we have not gone. Guys,

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<v Speaker 1>always tells me about glamor we have not got on

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<v Speaker 1>our hike, so I owe her that. I owe her

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<v Speaker 1>that I heard high guys. So that's how we kind

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<v Speaker 1>of started. And then she started helping me out with

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<v Speaker 1>was it a fan page on me? A fan page? Yeah? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it was first a plant page. And then you wanted

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<v Speaker 1>me to help you with your closet. Remember with my closet? Okay?

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<v Speaker 1>And then that's when I was like, okay, I like

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<v Speaker 1>you're going to be my assistant. Yeah. It just flowed

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<v Speaker 1>because I was going to school then. I remember I

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<v Speaker 1>was going to school, and even when I would go

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<v Speaker 1>see your mom, I would ditch school college. So I

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<v Speaker 1>never like college. I just went because my dad wanted

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<v Speaker 1>me to go. So then it just came a point

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<v Speaker 1>where I had an excuse to leave college freaking oh me.

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<v Speaker 1>Well yeah, and at the time I was I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>know if I was looking for an assistant. I knew

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<v Speaker 1>I needed help. I just felt very comfortable with her.

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<v Speaker 1>And then Dorito was also my assistant, and then he

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<v Speaker 1>took a little break. That's a whole other story, but

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<v Speaker 1>now he's back in my life. Anyways, so only became

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<v Speaker 1>like my day to day my personal assistant. I taught

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<v Speaker 1>her basically everything, kind of like how I learned because

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<v Speaker 1>I started my career as an assistant, my mom's assistant,

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<v Speaker 1>and I was everything. I would do her hair, I

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<v Speaker 1>would do her personal shopping. I would pack for her,

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<v Speaker 1>I would unpack for her, I would pay the bills,

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<v Speaker 1>I did everything like that was like, I mean, I

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<v Speaker 1>had other little jobs, but that was like my main thing.

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<v Speaker 1>So anyways, Omi walked into it kind of like not knowing,

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<v Speaker 1>but we've learned right on me. Yeah, you showed me

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<v Speaker 1>how to send an email because I don't know how

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<v Speaker 1>to send an email. I don't know how to see

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<v Speaker 1>see people. I always remember that. You're like, did you

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<v Speaker 1>see cee this? I'm like, what does c C mean?

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<v Speaker 1>Because my parents, I mean, my parents never send an

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<v Speaker 1>email back then. Now it's different, you know, but back then,

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<v Speaker 1>like I went to school. Yeah, but like I wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>like all that techie when it comes to like emails

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<v Speaker 1>and all that. And you showed me how to file

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<v Speaker 1>do your bills and all that, and everything had to

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<v Speaker 1>have a receipt and a date on everything. Yes, everything

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<v Speaker 1>is I'm very anal okay about like, I'm very particular.

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<v Speaker 1>I've learned that through the years. Yeah, you know, guys,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm very particular here. I want things in a certain way,

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<v Speaker 1>and when it's not done like that, it bugs me.

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<v Speaker 1>She can tell you right here, only can say whatever

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<v Speaker 1>she wants, like honestly, like the mic is open, and

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<v Speaker 1>if I get on her nerves sometimes I'm sure I do.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, you know, that's just part of it. Like

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<v Speaker 1>my mom would get on my nerves. Sometimes I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>gonna lie like I would be like mom, like it

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<v Speaker 1>was tough. It's not easy, guys, It's not easy being

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<v Speaker 1>an assistant. That's why I'm patient. I've been patient because

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<v Speaker 1>I know what it is to be in that position

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<v Speaker 1>and how stressful it is. And in reality, you don't

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<v Speaker 1>have a schedule. It's something that we've been trying to

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<v Speaker 1>work on, but in real something's always happening. So she's

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<v Speaker 1>she used to get to my other house like at

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<v Speaker 1>seven in the morning because she lives so far. How

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<v Speaker 1>far away I mean, well, what traffic in the morning

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<v Speaker 1>would be like an hour and a half, Like an

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<v Speaker 1>hour and a half. She would leave her house so early,

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<v Speaker 1>wake up at five, And I felt like crap because

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, she wakes up so early, she gets

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<v Speaker 1>here so early. It because she wants to avoid traffic.

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<v Speaker 1>So now we're trying to work on a little bit

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<v Speaker 1>of a schedule. She just moved out. Everyone around about

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<v Speaker 1>asked for om me. She moved out for the first time.

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<v Speaker 1>And she's living ten minutes away from the new house.

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<v Speaker 1>And now I'm happy because she gets to rest, she

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<v Speaker 1>gets to like, she doesn't have to drive so far.

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<v Speaker 1>I would always worry. I would always tell Hermie, it

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<v Speaker 1>stresses me out, like being on the road so much.

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<v Speaker 1>She wasn't getting enough sleep. But she would always say

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<v Speaker 1>I love my job. Do you love her job? On me? Honestly?

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<v Speaker 1>Like I do? Why why do you love your job?

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<v Speaker 1>I think when you love something you do, you don't

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<v Speaker 1>see it as a job. You see it more like

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<v Speaker 1>a hobby, but like you're doing something you like and

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<v Speaker 1>you're getting paid for it. But I think there's many

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<v Speaker 1>many reasons that I like my job. Would I being

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<v Speaker 1>assistant for another person? I don't know. I think being

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<v Speaker 1>assistant you have to really like love and look up

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<v Speaker 1>to the person, you know, admire the person you're working for,

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<v Speaker 1>because if not, then you wouldn't do things the way

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<v Speaker 1>you want to do them, you know, going with like passion,

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<v Speaker 1>but like passion and love. Yeah, if you're passion and love.

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<v Speaker 1>And that's crazy that you say that. Because Julie Julie

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<v Speaker 1>Vasque is a shout out to her. She was my

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<v Speaker 1>mom's assistant, a very very good assistant. Her and I

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<v Speaker 1>had our little differences because I was my mom's very

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<v Speaker 1>first assistant, like her personal assistant, and then Julie came

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<v Speaker 1>and I was kind of like a hello, like I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not needed anymore. But it was something it was a

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<v Speaker 1>part of my growing and I gave her a little

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<v Speaker 1>bit of a hard time. I will be honest. I

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<v Speaker 1>gave her a little bit of hard time. I was.

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<v Speaker 1>I was a little bit sometimes, but it was just

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<v Speaker 1>because I was very territorial with my siblings, of my mom,

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<v Speaker 1>of our household. She was a very good assistant, and

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<v Speaker 1>she said like once my mom passed away, she says,

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<v Speaker 1>I will never be anyone else's assistant like I did

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<v Speaker 1>it for her. I loved her. I was passionate about it,

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<v Speaker 1>and she hasn't. She started doing her own things. I

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<v Speaker 1>think she has like her record label now right that

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<v Speaker 1>she opened like a little studio to like salon. Oh

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<v Speaker 1>she did. Oh my goodness, that's awesome. So now that

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<v Speaker 1>you say that, it reminds me of Julie because I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>like I said it, you have to be passionate about

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<v Speaker 1>the person that you're working with or working for. It

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<v Speaker 1>is a tough job. So now that we're talking about

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<v Speaker 1>it being tough, tell us a little bit about your

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<v Speaker 1>normal day, Like how does it start with time? Does

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<v Speaker 1>it start usually? Well? Right now, since you know I

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<v Speaker 1>live closer, I've been lazy and I wake up late now.

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<v Speaker 1>And the reason I told her, I said, okay, only

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<v Speaker 1>start coming in at nine or ten so that she

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<v Speaker 1>has time to go work out and do her thing.

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<v Speaker 1>She's like, you're honestly, it's it's it's it's making me lazy,

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<v Speaker 1>Like I need to come in earlier. No, but I

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<v Speaker 1>need to get back on my workout stuff. But now

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<v Speaker 1>I wake up like seven seven thirty a, get ready

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<v Speaker 1>showered or on my you know, my be flawless skin

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<v Speaker 1>drive to work. Usually if we have already like a

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<v Speaker 1>set schedule, like what we're gonna do if we have

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<v Speaker 1>to go to an event, like obviously it's prepared for that.

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<v Speaker 1>But like the normal thing is like I get here,

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<v Speaker 1>I always I don't care what people say, but I'm

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<v Speaker 1>always a person that my job title is not just

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<v Speaker 1>being an assistant. Like if I need to pick up

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<v Speaker 1>the dog poop and I see it there, like I'm

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<v Speaker 1>gonna pick it up, you know what I mean. Like

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<v Speaker 1>I don't really care what anybody says. That's just me

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<v Speaker 1>and that's how I was raised. But you know, I

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<v Speaker 1>get here and whatever we have to do first like

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<v Speaker 1>usually always send me like what you want me to

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<v Speaker 1>do before when I get here. If I see anything

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<v Speaker 1>I need to pick up, I pick it up. Do

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<v Speaker 1>office stuff. When I have to pay people out help

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<v Speaker 1>you with your laundry, I help you, but you know

0:12:05.880 --> 0:12:08.800
<v Speaker 1>sometimes she likes to in her laundry on her own. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>what else do I do? You know? Lately hapen having

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<v Speaker 1>everything kind of you know, there's been so many packages

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<v Speaker 1>because of the new house and everything, so it's always

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<v Speaker 1>like opening a bunch of packages. It's pretty much like

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of little things that I like to do.

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<v Speaker 1>Like I wouldn't say like I limit myself to anything,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, but that's what I'm saying that I wouldn't

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<v Speaker 1>do that for another person, but I do it for

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<v Speaker 1>you because you know, I admire you and you are

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<v Speaker 1>a great person. M thank you, my lovely Oh, she

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<v Speaker 1>don't make me cry, guys, because honestly, I don't think

0:12:40.160 --> 0:12:42.360
<v Speaker 1>I can ever think of a time where Omi has

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<v Speaker 1>said no to me when I asked her, Like obviously

0:12:45.080 --> 0:12:46.719
<v Speaker 1>I'm not asking her to do crazy things, but there's

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<v Speaker 1>certain things and she's like, okay, yeah, I'll do it.

0:12:48.480 --> 0:12:51.839
<v Speaker 1>And you know, she even cooks. She helps me with

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<v Speaker 1>social media as far as like reminding me to post

0:12:54.480 --> 0:12:57.280
<v Speaker 1>certain things or whatever. Like I'm very hands on with

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<v Speaker 1>everything that I do. So a lot of people may think, oh,

0:12:59.240 --> 0:13:01.080
<v Speaker 1>she does on my social media for me, and that's

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<v Speaker 1>not true. She just reminds me, hey you got this DM,

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<v Speaker 1>or hey you gotta post this, or hey we gotta

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<v Speaker 1>respond to certain comments. Like she really is on everything,

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<v Speaker 1>and I can't say that there's not one part of

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<v Speaker 1>my life. Like, honestly, even when I've had surgery, she

0:13:18.440 --> 0:13:21.880
<v Speaker 1>has helped me. She has showered me. Um. That's why

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, she's not just my assistant, she is my friend.

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<v Speaker 1>She is I'm like her, her sister, I'm like sometimes

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<v Speaker 1>her mother, Like I have helped raise her. It's crazy

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<v Speaker 1>because when she lost her mom last year, because my

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<v Speaker 1>mom passed in December nine and her mom passed on

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<v Speaker 1>December eight, um, nine years later, right on me. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>nine nine, nine years apart. And I feel like I

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<v Speaker 1>could be there for her and help her through that

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<v Speaker 1>and guide her. And there's days still that she has

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<v Speaker 1>bad days. And it's just a very unique relationship that

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<v Speaker 1>we have and I'm so grateful. I'm so grateful for

0:13:56.160 --> 0:13:58.760
<v Speaker 1>her because honestly, she she does. She does help me

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<v Speaker 1>over and be and I think if I had to,

0:14:02.520 --> 0:14:04.079
<v Speaker 1>I would like do what I gotta do. You know

0:14:04.120 --> 0:14:13.199
<v Speaker 1>what I mean, but she helps me so much. We

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<v Speaker 1>did have a little bit of a break on me, Yeah,

0:14:15.200 --> 0:14:18.960
<v Speaker 1>we did. We had six months or six months six months. Look,

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<v Speaker 1>I think I met you when you were what twenty

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<v Speaker 1>one on me or how old are you? Yeah, and

0:14:27.400 --> 0:14:33.280
<v Speaker 1>she was young and even like me teaching her to

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<v Speaker 1>say thank you and please and stuff like that, like

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<v Speaker 1>those are stuff that I guided her with, right, Yeah,

0:14:38.600 --> 0:14:44.240
<v Speaker 1>I had no manners. I'm not saying that my parents

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<v Speaker 1>never taught me manners, but sometimes like when you're out

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<v Speaker 1>with public people or like other people that have like

0:14:50.320 --> 0:14:52.880
<v Speaker 1>a higher position like around you, like you know, I

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<v Speaker 1>would know, Oh my god, who say please? I don't

0:14:54.560 --> 0:14:56.320
<v Speaker 1>say thank you? And it comes off rude, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>because you know how Mexican fand they're very potos. Like

0:15:00.200 --> 0:15:02.520
<v Speaker 1>it was like they don't really care, like like like

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<v Speaker 1>what do you mean, Like I said, come home, like

0:15:04.640 --> 0:15:08.320
<v Speaker 1>there's certain in a way. Yeah, like I don't think

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<v Speaker 1>every day with my parents or my mom and dad

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<v Speaker 1>I said please or thank you. They recreated things, but

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<v Speaker 1>it wasn't for like a lot of things, you know

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<v Speaker 1>what I mean? Yeah, And I think it's like I

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<v Speaker 1>just feel like I want to be acknowledged like even

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<v Speaker 1>if I send a message, I'm like, okay, well where's

0:15:24.640 --> 0:15:28.560
<v Speaker 1>your response or um here, thank you or please. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>very very like that. I think it was because my

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<v Speaker 1>mom was so tough on me. So I feel like

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<v Speaker 1>everything I've learned and I learned with my mom, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>teaching on me because I kind of went into it

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<v Speaker 1>like that too, Like I was an assistant from one

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<v Speaker 1>day to another, and I was just like, okay, what

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<v Speaker 1>do I do? Like I didn't know how to write

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<v Speaker 1>a check, and my Mom's like, I don't know, figure

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<v Speaker 1>it out, go deposited. Well how do I do that?

0:15:45.840 --> 0:15:47.800
<v Speaker 1>I don't know, figure it out? And that's kind of

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<v Speaker 1>like your favorite work now, Yeah, like it's just like

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<v Speaker 1>figured out, you'll figure it out, you know what I mean.

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<v Speaker 1>And I have been tough. I have been tough on

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<v Speaker 1>on on me. I try my best not to ever

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<v Speaker 1>with anyone, not just with with Omi or the people

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<v Speaker 1>that work for me, even people at restaurants, whether you're

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<v Speaker 1>the janitor or the cleaning lady, the bus boy, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't care. I like to treat people all the same,

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<v Speaker 1>so I never feel like, oh I'm the boss and

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<v Speaker 1>you do as I say. Like I like to lead

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<v Speaker 1>by example. I've said, Naiomi, I'm so sorry I I

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<v Speaker 1>sent her a message and I'm like, I apologize that

0:16:20.480 --> 0:16:24.360
<v Speaker 1>was rude, and I give her that open space to say, hey,

0:16:24.480 --> 0:16:26.440
<v Speaker 1>if something hurts your feelings, feel free to tell me

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<v Speaker 1>to text me. We do a lot of texting, even

0:16:28.320 --> 0:16:30.760
<v Speaker 1>if we're like in in the same house in two

0:16:30.760 --> 0:16:33.120
<v Speaker 1>different rooms, will text each other like, hey, that wasn't cool.

0:16:33.240 --> 0:16:36.200
<v Speaker 1>Or we've learned throughout these years and through that little

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<v Speaker 1>break we had, I think, to respect each other's boundaries,

0:16:40.960 --> 0:16:45.640
<v Speaker 1>to respect each other's wishes, and I think we've learned right. Yeah, No,

0:16:45.800 --> 0:16:48.520
<v Speaker 1>I think that break was definitely needed for us because

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<v Speaker 1>I think you grew in a way and I did too.

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<v Speaker 1>And I think you learned to appreciate things, and so

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<v Speaker 1>did I. Now, like when I started working for you again,

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<v Speaker 1>like things were like a lot different, I think, and

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<v Speaker 1>I learned certain things during that time, and so did you. Yeah,

0:17:01.360 --> 0:17:03.680
<v Speaker 1>but I think it was more like communication. I think now,

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<v Speaker 1>like if something bothers you, you tell me and I

0:17:05.800 --> 0:17:07.879
<v Speaker 1>tell you and and like we fix it, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>instead of kind of like leaving it under the rug, right,

0:17:11.080 --> 0:17:13.120
<v Speaker 1>and not just because it's like, oh I'm her boss.

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<v Speaker 1>She's not going to tell me hey, like I didn't

0:17:15.119 --> 0:17:17.800
<v Speaker 1>like that or whatever. So I think that it's important,

0:17:17.840 --> 0:17:21.000
<v Speaker 1>like you said, communication in every relationship. It doesn't matter

0:17:21.040 --> 0:17:23.800
<v Speaker 1>if it's a professional or a personal relationship. And like

0:17:23.920 --> 0:17:26.600
<v Speaker 1>I said, like, sometimes you hear so much then you

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<v Speaker 1>start believing and you don't ask the person, so then

0:17:29.240 --> 0:17:31.639
<v Speaker 1>you start saying things. You know, but it's like sometimes

0:17:31.680 --> 0:17:33.680
<v Speaker 1>people only do that to see what you say, to

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<v Speaker 1>go say exactly. So that's why now like whenever somebody

0:17:37.640 --> 0:17:39.800
<v Speaker 1>says something, I'm like okay, Like I either say a

0:17:39.920 --> 0:17:41.560
<v Speaker 1>lie to see if it comes back to me or

0:17:41.720 --> 0:17:44.400
<v Speaker 1>you know, like I'm very careful. There's probably I could

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<v Speaker 1>help with one hand of people that I trust. You know, yeah, no, absolutely,

0:17:48.240 --> 0:17:50.480
<v Speaker 1>And that's just part of maturing both for you owe

0:17:50.520 --> 0:17:53.160
<v Speaker 1>me as well as me. That it's just like, okay,

0:17:53.240 --> 0:17:55.800
<v Speaker 1>it taught us a lot, I think. And some people

0:17:55.880 --> 0:17:58.720
<v Speaker 1>may think like how or why did you you know,

0:17:58.840 --> 0:18:00.240
<v Speaker 1>let her back in your life. Well, for so I

0:18:00.320 --> 0:18:02.880
<v Speaker 1>missed her, you know, she was I was really close

0:18:02.960 --> 0:18:06.240
<v Speaker 1>to her. And then she apologize to me. She and

0:18:06.320 --> 0:18:09.640
<v Speaker 1>that's sometimes all we need is just hey, I was wrong.

0:18:09.840 --> 0:18:12.639
<v Speaker 1>I also told her, hey, I apologize. We apologize to

0:18:12.680 --> 0:18:15.920
<v Speaker 1>each other, and we kind of just said, okay, it's

0:18:16.000 --> 0:18:18.800
<v Speaker 1>the past. And it has been a little difficult. It's

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<v Speaker 1>been a work in progress to find that trust, you

0:18:21.960 --> 0:18:24.399
<v Speaker 1>know again. But I've always been very honest with her,

0:18:24.600 --> 0:18:26.440
<v Speaker 1>and I'm like, this is how I feel, and she's like, Okay,

0:18:26.440 --> 0:18:27.880
<v Speaker 1>I just have to prove myself to you, to prove

0:18:27.920 --> 0:18:30.040
<v Speaker 1>that I've changed, I've matured, I've grown up. And I

0:18:30.119 --> 0:18:33.000
<v Speaker 1>believe her because it is very different now, it really is,

0:18:33.240 --> 0:18:35.359
<v Speaker 1>and I think it was necessary in order for us

0:18:35.400 --> 0:18:37.320
<v Speaker 1>to be where we're at now, to have to go

0:18:37.480 --> 0:18:40.879
<v Speaker 1>through that moment of us missing each other and reflecting

0:18:41.040 --> 0:18:44.399
<v Speaker 1>and growing and maturing. But yeah, sometimes I feel like

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<v Speaker 1>I want to get another assistant just to help her

0:18:48.240 --> 0:18:51.720
<v Speaker 1>out because it is a lot, guys. I mean, in reality,

0:18:51.840 --> 0:18:53.200
<v Speaker 1>she does help me a lot. And I try my

0:18:53.280 --> 0:18:55.040
<v Speaker 1>best to be like, okay on me, like try to

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<v Speaker 1>go home and release so that because sometimes she's here

0:18:57.160 --> 0:18:59.200
<v Speaker 1>until ten ten pm. She gets here at nine and

0:18:59.240 --> 0:19:04.560
<v Speaker 1>she's here until ten. But I'm very mindful of her spirit,

0:19:04.720 --> 0:19:06.200
<v Speaker 1>her soul, like I do my best to be like,

0:19:06.240 --> 0:19:09.320
<v Speaker 1>oh me, make sure you pray, and but she has

0:19:09.400 --> 0:19:11.240
<v Speaker 1>I think you you learned to pray with me too, huh,

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<v Speaker 1>And yeah I have. I think that's one of the

0:19:14.000 --> 0:19:16.400
<v Speaker 1>things I learned, like to be more connected even to God.

0:19:16.560 --> 0:19:19.879
<v Speaker 1>Like it's crazy because before, like for us and my

0:19:20.480 --> 0:19:23.960
<v Speaker 1>growing up, going to church was like insanea as Baptism,

0:19:24.480 --> 0:19:27.320
<v Speaker 1>I would never watch church, you know, believe in God

0:19:27.400 --> 0:19:30.000
<v Speaker 1>and everything, you go to rosaries and all that. But

0:19:30.560 --> 0:19:32.399
<v Speaker 1>I think I got with you. I went more to

0:19:32.480 --> 0:19:34.879
<v Speaker 1>the Christian side. I don't consider my self Christian, but

0:19:35.000 --> 0:19:36.800
<v Speaker 1>I understand it better in that way, I guess I

0:19:36.880 --> 0:19:39.560
<v Speaker 1>can say. But you know, I did become more more

0:19:39.640 --> 0:19:42.760
<v Speaker 1>spiritual connected even with God and stuff. So I think

0:19:42.800 --> 0:19:45.040
<v Speaker 1>that's something else you taught me to And ballery to

0:19:45.280 --> 0:19:49.359
<v Speaker 1>battery has a lot to do with that too. Yeah. Yeah,

0:19:51.040 --> 0:19:53.680
<v Speaker 1>So so you feel like you've learned a lot, I

0:19:53.800 --> 0:19:56.320
<v Speaker 1>learned a lot. I think everything I've known I know

0:19:56.520 --> 0:19:59.679
<v Speaker 1>because of you, even the people I know, my knowledge

0:19:59.720 --> 0:20:01.800
<v Speaker 1>and the everything. Even my dad always says it, like

0:20:02.600 --> 0:20:04.680
<v Speaker 1>my dad was always scared when I came to working

0:20:04.720 --> 0:20:07.040
<v Speaker 1>for you, because obviously I left school and he you

0:20:07.119 --> 0:20:10.359
<v Speaker 1>know how grateful he is for you. He saw everything

0:20:10.440 --> 0:20:13.480
<v Speaker 1>I've learned, even even when you were we weren't. Yeah,

0:20:13.480 --> 0:20:15.920
<v Speaker 1>I wasn't working for you. Like he always saw like

0:20:16.520 --> 0:20:20.560
<v Speaker 1>what I learned from it, like mentally, emotionally, he saw everything.

0:20:20.680 --> 0:20:22.560
<v Speaker 1>And so this day, you know how much how much

0:20:22.640 --> 0:20:24.800
<v Speaker 1>my dad is grateful. My mom too, but you know,

0:20:24.960 --> 0:20:28.480
<v Speaker 1>my dad's more like vocal about things. But I really

0:20:28.560 --> 0:20:31.240
<v Speaker 1>learned everything with you and I you know, I'm grateful

0:20:31.400 --> 0:20:36.960
<v Speaker 1>because I got free um schooling. I always say, you're

0:20:36.960 --> 0:20:39.680
<v Speaker 1>my professor. You're my professor. Yeah, I went to the

0:20:39.880 --> 0:20:43.359
<v Speaker 1>University of Genemuring. It's crazy because it's like what I

0:20:43.400 --> 0:20:45.240
<v Speaker 1>say about my mom and she's like, oh my god,

0:20:45.280 --> 0:20:47.120
<v Speaker 1>that's how I feel. That's how I feel. Like you're

0:20:47.160 --> 0:20:50.360
<v Speaker 1>definitely my professor. Like it's not just I teach her everything,

0:20:50.440 --> 0:20:52.720
<v Speaker 1>like I'm like I want her to know and then

0:20:52.760 --> 0:20:54.920
<v Speaker 1>if one day I'm not here, like she she knows

0:20:55.000 --> 0:20:57.600
<v Speaker 1>what to day. I'm just saying, like, if one day

0:20:57.600 --> 0:21:00.760
<v Speaker 1>I'm not here something like people out of town, right exactly,

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<v Speaker 1>like I go out of town, okay, but I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 1>tell you guys, how down on me is if I

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<v Speaker 1>need something at two in the morning and I call

0:21:08.280 --> 0:21:10.760
<v Speaker 1>her and I have before. I think it was one

0:21:10.760 --> 0:21:12.440
<v Speaker 1>time I had to go to hospital. She rushed me

0:21:12.480 --> 0:21:14.520
<v Speaker 1>to the emergency room. I was like, come get me,

0:21:14.600 --> 0:21:16.280
<v Speaker 1>oh my god or whatever, and she took me to

0:21:16.320 --> 0:21:18.719
<v Speaker 1>the emergency room. There's been times where I give her

0:21:18.720 --> 0:21:21.920
<v Speaker 1>the day off, the day off, and I'm like, oh me,

0:21:21.960 --> 0:21:23.280
<v Speaker 1>I need this, and I'm like, I'm so sorry to

0:21:23.320 --> 0:21:24.960
<v Speaker 1>bother you on your day. Actually, don't worry. That's what

0:21:25.000 --> 0:21:27.960
<v Speaker 1>I'm here for. She's like always there. Like I'm like, okay,

0:21:28.040 --> 0:21:30.680
<v Speaker 1>I got a little tipsy, I can't drive. She'll go

0:21:30.760 --> 0:21:32.840
<v Speaker 1>pick me up. It doesn't matter where it's at. Like, dude,

0:21:32.920 --> 0:21:35.200
<v Speaker 1>this girl is down. This girl is down for me,

0:21:35.440 --> 0:21:39.280
<v Speaker 1>and I just need people to know that. Unfortunately, I

0:21:39.359 --> 0:21:41.879
<v Speaker 1>feel like there's not a lot of people like oh

0:21:41.960 --> 0:21:44.960
<v Speaker 1>Me around and I'm just grateful for you. Oh Me,

0:21:45.119 --> 0:21:47.560
<v Speaker 1>I really am thank you. I'm also grateful for you.

0:21:47.720 --> 0:21:49.679
<v Speaker 1>You know a lot of people always say if they

0:21:49.800 --> 0:21:51.720
<v Speaker 1>just play around, you know that they say that you

0:21:51.800 --> 0:21:53.840
<v Speaker 1>treat me wrong. That it's not true. Guys, I'm here

0:21:53.880 --> 0:21:56.639
<v Speaker 1>to clear it up. But she does hit me on

0:21:56.760 --> 0:22:02.280
<v Speaker 1>the weekends. I'm kidding she honestly, you know, she's a

0:22:02.320 --> 0:22:05.600
<v Speaker 1>great person. And I always get messages from fans it's

0:22:05.640 --> 0:22:07.320
<v Speaker 1>funny and they're like Oh my god, You're so lucky

0:22:07.400 --> 0:22:09.879
<v Speaker 1>to be nick like to be near you or whatever

0:22:10.320 --> 0:22:13.000
<v Speaker 1>to work for her, And like, I think those messages

0:22:13.520 --> 0:22:15.840
<v Speaker 1>are good because I think I'm like damn, like sometimes

0:22:15.880 --> 0:22:18.919
<v Speaker 1>I forget who I work for because I always when

0:22:18.960 --> 0:22:21.119
<v Speaker 1>I'm with you, you're always Jenny, not cheekies, you know

0:22:21.160 --> 0:22:22.920
<v Speaker 1>what I mean, you know, and that's the person I

0:22:23.000 --> 0:22:25.800
<v Speaker 1>admired to. And and like I said, like, I wouldn't

0:22:25.840 --> 0:22:27.880
<v Speaker 1>be here still working for you if you didn't treat

0:22:27.920 --> 0:22:30.800
<v Speaker 1>me the way you treat me. And one thing I

0:22:30.920 --> 0:22:32.800
<v Speaker 1>can say, like you always thank me for things. And

0:22:32.880 --> 0:22:35.680
<v Speaker 1>I think it's nice to work for people that thank

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<v Speaker 1>you and appreciate the work you do, because I know

0:22:38.280 --> 0:22:40.200
<v Speaker 1>many people that work for other people or you know,

0:22:40.240 --> 0:22:42.600
<v Speaker 1>a regular job and they never get to thank you

0:22:42.760 --> 0:22:44.359
<v Speaker 1>or you know what I mean. And I think I

0:22:44.480 --> 0:22:47.000
<v Speaker 1>thank you go far uh, you know, far out or

0:22:47.040 --> 0:22:49.280
<v Speaker 1>even like you. I think you gave me two races

0:22:49.359 --> 0:22:52.920
<v Speaker 1>in the past year and that doesn't happen anywhere. And

0:22:53.000 --> 0:22:55.119
<v Speaker 1>the fact that you see my work and you're you

0:22:55.200 --> 0:22:58.840
<v Speaker 1>appreciate what I'm doing, I think that what fulfills me

0:22:58.920 --> 0:23:00.879
<v Speaker 1>and and and you know, it makes me want to

0:23:00.960 --> 0:23:03.000
<v Speaker 1>keep growing and want to do more with you, and

0:23:03.640 --> 0:23:05.840
<v Speaker 1>you know, I see where you're going and you still

0:23:05.880 --> 0:23:08.560
<v Speaker 1>have a long future ahead of you, and sometimes you

0:23:08.600 --> 0:23:10.920
<v Speaker 1>don't believe it because you doubt yourself a lot. And

0:23:11.000 --> 0:23:13.600
<v Speaker 1>I think that I know that I'm here for a reason.

0:23:13.720 --> 0:23:15.320
<v Speaker 1>You know, I'm not just here just to be here.

0:23:15.359 --> 0:23:17.840
<v Speaker 1>I know there's more to work where you're gonna go.

0:23:18.840 --> 0:23:20.879
<v Speaker 1>Thank you lovely, And just to pick you back a

0:23:20.920 --> 0:23:23.280
<v Speaker 1>little bit on what she was saying, I do feel

0:23:23.359 --> 0:23:26.119
<v Speaker 1>like it's important to have an attitude of gratitude. I

0:23:26.119 --> 0:23:28.159
<v Speaker 1>always say that, like it doesn't matter, Like I know

0:23:28.440 --> 0:23:30.600
<v Speaker 1>that without a team, I can't do everything that I do.

0:23:30.880 --> 0:23:35.120
<v Speaker 1>Everything that I all the balls that I juggle sounds weird,

0:23:35.200 --> 0:23:38.679
<v Speaker 1>All the balls that I juggle like, yeah, but all

0:23:38.720 --> 0:23:40.280
<v Speaker 1>the I guess I should say, all the hats that

0:23:40.359 --> 0:23:44.160
<v Speaker 1>I wear you like you like to juggle balls anyways,

0:23:45.800 --> 0:23:48.040
<v Speaker 1>all the hats that I wear, like on a daily basis, Like,

0:23:48.160 --> 0:23:50.960
<v Speaker 1>I am well aware that I cannot do it without

0:23:51.000 --> 0:23:52.720
<v Speaker 1>the team that I have and always a huge part

0:23:52.760 --> 0:23:55.399
<v Speaker 1>of that. So I believe in always being grateful and

0:23:55.440 --> 0:23:58.920
<v Speaker 1>always giving back and sharing the blessings God has given

0:23:58.960 --> 0:24:01.159
<v Speaker 1>me with the people around me. And her being one

0:24:01.200 --> 0:24:09.960
<v Speaker 1>of them. Of course, is there something like super crazy

0:24:10.040 --> 0:24:12.040
<v Speaker 1>that comes to mind that you feel that I've made

0:24:12.080 --> 0:24:18.440
<v Speaker 1>you do, or that you've had to do or whatever. Besides, yeah,

0:24:21.040 --> 0:24:23.359
<v Speaker 1>computer is gonna die. What do I do? Oh? Sho,

0:24:23.560 --> 0:24:27.000
<v Speaker 1>let me the charger. It's five seconds. Hold on, see

0:24:27.040 --> 0:24:31.800
<v Speaker 1>there she goes. Alright, So I think we can both

0:24:31.800 --> 0:24:33.440
<v Speaker 1>agree that the craziest thing you've ever had to do

0:24:33.560 --> 0:24:35.320
<v Speaker 1>is white my butt, right, white my ass when I

0:24:35.359 --> 0:24:40.639
<v Speaker 1>had surgery? Or is there anything else? Yeah, craziest, I

0:24:40.760 --> 0:24:44.440
<v Speaker 1>think so. Yeah. I mean that's probably the crazy in this.

0:24:45.160 --> 0:24:48.680
<v Speaker 1>It's not that crazy when um, you really wanted to

0:24:48.760 --> 0:24:53.760
<v Speaker 1>Saturday Corona and that I worked that day and I

0:24:53.920 --> 0:24:56.199
<v Speaker 1>was at home, which back then I lived in Carson.

0:24:57.080 --> 0:25:00.520
<v Speaker 1>I lived in Carson. That sounds cool to say. I

0:25:00.600 --> 0:25:02.720
<v Speaker 1>had a drive to Corona to get her the salad,

0:25:02.800 --> 0:25:04.080
<v Speaker 1>and she didn't want me to drive all the way

0:25:04.080 --> 0:25:06.240
<v Speaker 1>to her house, so she had me put the salad

0:25:06.280 --> 0:25:10.280
<v Speaker 1>in the uber, and the salad cost two for the uber.

0:25:11.000 --> 0:25:14.879
<v Speaker 1>And the salad was only like yes, because it was

0:25:14.960 --> 0:25:17.240
<v Speaker 1>I was craving the damn salad from like where I

0:25:17.320 --> 0:25:19.760
<v Speaker 1>where I used to work, the place that I used

0:25:19.760 --> 0:25:23.399
<v Speaker 1>to work out in Corona. I freaking want the salad.

0:25:23.400 --> 0:25:26.240
<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, it sounds so good. Oh my goodness. Anyway,

0:25:26.320 --> 0:25:28.480
<v Speaker 1>so I was like, please hold me, I wanted, I wanted.

0:25:28.560 --> 0:25:31.080
<v Speaker 1>She went over there and then also, dude, she's been

0:25:31.119 --> 0:25:35.440
<v Speaker 1>there through a lot of crazy shit. This one time

0:25:35.680 --> 0:25:38.040
<v Speaker 1>something I didn't talk about in my book, but um

0:25:38.160 --> 0:25:43.040
<v Speaker 1>with my ex his you know, I shouldn't say his name. Anyways,

0:25:43.040 --> 0:25:46.280
<v Speaker 1>but we had like a little situation and she was

0:25:46.320 --> 0:25:47.840
<v Speaker 1>in the middle of it, trying to get me away

0:25:47.880 --> 0:25:50.520
<v Speaker 1>from it, and it was crazy. She even I think

0:25:50.560 --> 0:25:54.280
<v Speaker 1>got ruffled up a little bit her in the middle

0:25:54.320 --> 0:25:57.520
<v Speaker 1>of the whole situation. Huh. Yeah, it's been a lot anyways,

0:25:57.560 --> 0:26:00.560
<v Speaker 1>let's just leave that for another day. Okay, me, I

0:26:00.680 --> 0:26:03.159
<v Speaker 1>was going to ask you what you like about me

0:26:03.440 --> 0:26:06.359
<v Speaker 1>and not so much. Okay, Well I'm gonna start. I'm

0:26:06.359 --> 0:26:09.400
<v Speaker 1>gonna start first, Okay. So what I love about Amen

0:26:09.800 --> 0:26:12.719
<v Speaker 1>is that she's always down, that I know that if

0:26:12.760 --> 0:26:14.719
<v Speaker 1>I need her at whatever time, if I need her

0:26:14.760 --> 0:26:16.920
<v Speaker 1>to take a craziest trip to Arizona just to go

0:26:17.040 --> 0:26:19.960
<v Speaker 1>take something and then come back like she would like.

0:26:20.119 --> 0:26:22.639
<v Speaker 1>She's done some things that I'll never forget, like driving Buncho.

0:26:22.800 --> 0:26:24.479
<v Speaker 1>Buncho is my dog. For those of you that may

0:26:24.520 --> 0:26:28.560
<v Speaker 1>not know, Buncho is my baby boy. He is a

0:26:28.640 --> 0:26:31.320
<v Speaker 1>little over a year now. He's an old English sheep dog.

0:26:31.680 --> 0:26:34.000
<v Speaker 1>You guys can follow him on his Instagram. What's his instagram?

0:26:34.040 --> 0:26:39.080
<v Speaker 1>Mommy King Pancho. Yes, King Banto Matin. So one time

0:26:39.400 --> 0:26:41.639
<v Speaker 1>I had to do a photo shoot or something like that,

0:26:42.080 --> 0:26:46.439
<v Speaker 1>and yes, I asked her to drive him to San Jose. Well,

0:26:46.480 --> 0:26:48.320
<v Speaker 1>actually she offered. She's like, well, what do we do.

0:26:48.480 --> 0:26:49.760
<v Speaker 1>She's like, you know what, I'll just drive him. So

0:26:49.840 --> 0:26:52.399
<v Speaker 1>she drove him left in the morning, drove him all

0:26:52.440 --> 0:26:54.159
<v Speaker 1>the way to San Jose because he had to go

0:26:54.240 --> 0:26:56.040
<v Speaker 1>to his good boy camp because he was a bad

0:26:56.119 --> 0:26:58.040
<v Speaker 1>boy for a while. He still is kind of like

0:26:58.080 --> 0:26:59.720
<v Speaker 1>a bad boy, but anyway, so I sent him to

0:26:59.800 --> 0:27:02.320
<v Speaker 1>drain camp and Omi took him, okay into San Jose

0:27:02.480 --> 0:27:05.000
<v Speaker 1>all in one day. She drove him and then she

0:27:05.119 --> 0:27:07.480
<v Speaker 1>came all the way back. Call me, yeah, I drove

0:27:07.600 --> 0:27:09.560
<v Speaker 1>him and then I flew back and then I went

0:27:09.640 --> 0:27:12.159
<v Speaker 1>straight to your shoe. Yep. But she can stayed to

0:27:12.240 --> 0:27:14.280
<v Speaker 1>my shoot, dude. So I'm telling you that's one of

0:27:14.359 --> 0:27:16.880
<v Speaker 1>the main things, or probably one of my favorite things,

0:27:16.920 --> 0:27:18.560
<v Speaker 1>is that I feel like I can count on her

0:27:18.760 --> 0:27:22.280
<v Speaker 1>for anything, to be honest. So and one besides her

0:27:22.359 --> 0:27:25.840
<v Speaker 1>kind heart, she's very giving. She is a very like

0:27:25.960 --> 0:27:27.920
<v Speaker 1>honestly she I could say she's she's a good friend.

0:27:28.480 --> 0:27:31.080
<v Speaker 1>So those are kind of like my favorite things about

0:27:31.080 --> 0:27:33.840
<v Speaker 1>on me. And then one of my least favorite things,

0:27:34.520 --> 0:27:38.159
<v Speaker 1>oh um, maybe that she's forgetful. She kind of forgets.

0:27:39.760 --> 0:27:42.200
<v Speaker 1>She's kind of forgetful, right only? Or no, yeah, I

0:27:42.240 --> 0:27:48.080
<v Speaker 1>know it's true. And yeah, she's getting a lot better.

0:27:48.520 --> 0:27:50.080
<v Speaker 1>And I tell her, only make sure you don't forget.

0:27:50.280 --> 0:27:52.879
<v Speaker 1>Make sure you write it down because I'm not gonna lie. Guys.

0:27:53.080 --> 0:27:54.840
<v Speaker 1>I will send a voice note with like ten different

0:27:54.880 --> 0:27:56.760
<v Speaker 1>things that need to be done and I'm like, okay,

0:27:56.920 --> 0:27:58.960
<v Speaker 1>make sure you write it down. Yeah, twenty things it

0:27:59.000 --> 0:28:00.919
<v Speaker 1>is because that's stuff with me, squirela guys, Like that's

0:28:00.960 --> 0:28:02.399
<v Speaker 1>how I learned. My IM was like, okay, this, this

0:28:02.520 --> 0:28:05.520
<v Speaker 1>isn't that, and it's all about organizing yourself. And she

0:28:05.760 --> 0:28:08.119
<v Speaker 1>has really been good at learning that. Okay, O me,

0:28:08.160 --> 0:28:11.240
<v Speaker 1>it's your turn. What is your favorite thing at least

0:28:11.280 --> 0:28:15.160
<v Speaker 1>everything about working with me or about me? Okay, let's see,

0:28:16.040 --> 0:28:19.359
<v Speaker 1>my favorite thing about working with you is that I

0:28:19.440 --> 0:28:22.000
<v Speaker 1>guess that work doesn't seem like work. Sometimes, you know,

0:28:22.359 --> 0:28:25.720
<v Speaker 1>it's like fun. I feel like it's like, yeah, it's

0:28:25.760 --> 0:28:28.399
<v Speaker 1>like fun. It's something i'd like to do. I like

0:28:28.560 --> 0:28:32.240
<v Speaker 1>the fact that every day or something new either, if

0:28:32.280 --> 0:28:35.320
<v Speaker 1>it's something that I can use towards my life. Nice,

0:28:35.720 --> 0:28:37.760
<v Speaker 1>you know, being around you, Like, I think that's something

0:28:37.880 --> 0:28:41.360
<v Speaker 1>I like. I love that. Okay, And the least favorite thing,

0:28:42.240 --> 0:28:48.080
<v Speaker 1>least favorite thing I'm seeing. Oh, Johnny right, Johnny's right here.

0:28:48.080 --> 0:28:50.760
<v Speaker 1>He's like, it used to be me. Yeah, it used

0:28:50.800 --> 0:28:55.760
<v Speaker 1>to be Johnny. Johnny. Johnny was a nightmare. He was

0:28:56.040 --> 0:28:57.840
<v Speaker 1>he was the only what do you call it, the

0:28:57.920 --> 0:28:59.840
<v Speaker 1>only bumping the road I had to get over and

0:29:00.040 --> 0:29:02.400
<v Speaker 1>finally I got over it. And now she makes them.

0:29:02.440 --> 0:29:06.560
<v Speaker 1>She likes Johnny. Johnny's right here. He's saying he doesn't

0:29:06.560 --> 0:29:08.880
<v Speaker 1>know who got it worse, her or Julie. My Mom's

0:29:08.920 --> 0:29:12.000
<v Speaker 1>assisted with me. He knew not to play with me.

0:29:12.440 --> 0:29:17.520
<v Speaker 1>But oh my god. Yeah, okay, but okay, my least

0:29:17.560 --> 0:29:21.640
<v Speaker 1>favorite thing. And I want to know. That's what I'm

0:29:21.640 --> 0:29:25.440
<v Speaker 1>trying to think about it. Um, let me think besides

0:29:25.440 --> 0:29:27.440
<v Speaker 1>the many tasks that I give you all in one voice, note,

0:29:27.520 --> 0:29:29.760
<v Speaker 1>I think, because no, that's not that's not that's not

0:29:29.880 --> 0:29:33.000
<v Speaker 1>something I don't like about you. Um that I could

0:29:33.000 --> 0:29:37.560
<v Speaker 1>be moody. Yeah, maybe maybe that, but then I don't.

0:29:37.920 --> 0:29:39.680
<v Speaker 1>It's because I don't. I wouldn't say it is my

0:29:39.760 --> 0:29:44.520
<v Speaker 1>least favorite thing because like, yeah, sometimes you do get moody,

0:29:44.560 --> 0:29:46.760
<v Speaker 1>but then like it's not your fault because I know

0:29:46.840 --> 0:29:49.400
<v Speaker 1>there's something going I know why you're moody, you know

0:29:49.440 --> 0:29:51.440
<v Speaker 1>what I mean. I'm not just moody like to be moody.

0:29:51.600 --> 0:29:54.320
<v Speaker 1>There's a reason. Yeah, But then I know, like at

0:29:54.320 --> 0:29:56.280
<v Speaker 1>the end of the day, like I'm always with you,

0:29:56.440 --> 0:29:58.800
<v Speaker 1>so if you're gonna be moody, like I have to

0:29:58.840 --> 0:30:01.760
<v Speaker 1>take it, you know what I mean. And I sometimes

0:30:01.760 --> 0:30:02.960
<v Speaker 1>like I apologie. I'm like, you know what, I'm in

0:30:02.960 --> 0:30:05.160
<v Speaker 1>a bando today. Just everyone know, like there's a lot

0:30:05.200 --> 0:30:07.120
<v Speaker 1>going on, I'm stressed out. I'll kind of let it

0:30:07.200 --> 0:30:09.200
<v Speaker 1>be known. And then sometimes like she'll have them like,

0:30:09.240 --> 0:30:11.560
<v Speaker 1>oh me, what's wrong with you today? And it's funny

0:30:11.560 --> 0:30:13.640
<v Speaker 1>because she always knows something's wrong with me and be like, no,

0:30:13.720 --> 0:30:17.160
<v Speaker 1>nothing's wrong with me. Oh yeah, it's annoying. I know.

0:30:18.120 --> 0:30:20.320
<v Speaker 1>But I guess that's probably the least favorite thing. But

0:30:20.480 --> 0:30:22.760
<v Speaker 1>like I said, it's I can't think of it. I'm

0:30:22.800 --> 0:30:24.800
<v Speaker 1>not to think of it now. Yeah, I think of

0:30:24.880 --> 0:30:27.040
<v Speaker 1>it and then um then let us know, you know

0:30:27.080 --> 0:30:31.400
<v Speaker 1>what I mean, because it's gonna come after. But you

0:30:31.480 --> 0:30:33.400
<v Speaker 1>know what I mean, I really appreciate it because today

0:30:33.440 --> 0:30:36.640
<v Speaker 1>it's it's crazy. Like sometimes I'm like, Okay, She'll be like,

0:30:37.080 --> 0:30:38.160
<v Speaker 1>can I give you a hug? I feel like you

0:30:38.200 --> 0:30:39.440
<v Speaker 1>need a hug today, and she'll give me a hug.

0:30:39.520 --> 0:30:41.720
<v Speaker 1>That's one of my favorite things are hugs. And today

0:30:41.760 --> 0:30:43.400
<v Speaker 1>I was like, oh me, I think you need a hug.

0:30:43.560 --> 0:30:45.160
<v Speaker 1>And I gave her a hug and she's like, you

0:30:45.200 --> 0:30:46.760
<v Speaker 1>know what, I feel like you need one. I was like, well,

0:30:46.840 --> 0:30:50.440
<v Speaker 1>let's just hug. So we hug. Sometimes we hug and

0:30:50.520 --> 0:30:52.560
<v Speaker 1>I tell her don't tap me and just hold me.

0:30:52.720 --> 0:30:54.160
<v Speaker 1>I don't like to be tapped when im being hugged.

0:30:54.160 --> 0:30:55.880
<v Speaker 1>And he's like okay, yea, yeah, you know, you know,

0:30:55.960 --> 0:30:59.040
<v Speaker 1>tapping my my back. But anyways, it's been a beautiful

0:30:59.080 --> 0:31:02.840
<v Speaker 1>journey guys, the good, the bad, and you know, it's

0:31:02.880 --> 0:31:04.840
<v Speaker 1>all part of life. We have learned from each other

0:31:05.320 --> 0:31:07.680
<v Speaker 1>and it's been great. So oh me, I want to

0:31:07.720 --> 0:31:10.400
<v Speaker 1>say thank you so much for being on the podcast.

0:31:11.160 --> 0:31:14.240
<v Speaker 1>I appreciate you and thank you for sharing your story

0:31:14.320 --> 0:31:16.760
<v Speaker 1>with us, you know here on the Cheeks and Chill podcast.

0:31:17.320 --> 0:31:20.040
<v Speaker 1>Thank you for being an amazing assistant. You know sometimes

0:31:20.640 --> 0:31:22.000
<v Speaker 1>you know, I think we want to pull each other's hair,

0:31:22.040 --> 0:31:26.400
<v Speaker 1>but it's normal, right, yeah, yeah, it's normal. And thank

0:31:26.440 --> 0:31:28.280
<v Speaker 1>you for being a great friend. Thank you know, I

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<v Speaker 1>honestly I want it's I think the podcast was great

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<v Speaker 1>because you don't know how many times I get answer

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<v Speaker 1>that question, especially when I do a little questions on Instagram,

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<v Speaker 1>how did you meet Cheeks? Like all the time they

0:31:39.600 --> 0:31:41.960
<v Speaker 1>always asked me. So I think this is perfect because

0:31:42.080 --> 0:31:44.280
<v Speaker 1>everyone always wants to know, like the story of how

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<v Speaker 1>I started working with you and how I met you

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<v Speaker 1>and all that. So I think this is going to

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<v Speaker 1>help you know all the people that always ask. But

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<v Speaker 1>I also want to say thank you to you and

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<v Speaker 1>to everybody behind the podcast that I know you guys

0:31:54.680 --> 0:31:59.360
<v Speaker 1>putting your hard work, like Brianna and Baby, because just

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<v Speaker 1>so know everybody that puts in, you know, their little

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<v Speaker 1>piece to make this podcast happen. That is helping millions

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<v Speaker 1>of people around the world. I know it does because

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<v Speaker 1>I get emails. For example, people don't think that what

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<v Speaker 1>they go through that she might go through, and then

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<v Speaker 1>they hear her podcasts are like, oh wow, like she

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<v Speaker 1>goes through this too. So you know I'm not the

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<v Speaker 1>only one. It's an honor to be part of here

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<v Speaker 1>and be working for you. I always told you, like,

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<v Speaker 1>I wouldn't do it for any other person, even though

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<v Speaker 1>you think if Carol you would ask me. I was senious.

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<v Speaker 1>You know she is obsessed with Carol, you guys. So

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, I see Carol, but it's whatever. I

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<v Speaker 1>want her to be happy regardless. So we're always yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>but no, like honestly, like Janette always told you, like,

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<v Speaker 1>you're a great person. You have a great heart. I've

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<v Speaker 1>seen from the bottom of your career, how it started,

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<v Speaker 1>and everything you've gone through, the many times you doubt

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<v Speaker 1>it yourself, the million times or two billions that you said,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not gonna sing anymore. I'm not gonna do this

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<v Speaker 1>no more. I'm gonna go back to in a salon.

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<v Speaker 1>I think it happens at least once a month all

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<v Speaker 1>the time, and I'm like, oh, her parents around the corner. Yeah, hey, guys,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm a cancer. What can I tell you? I'm emotional,

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<v Speaker 1>but you know what, I think you're here to change

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of people's lives, and you know, I admire you,

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<v Speaker 1>I love you, and I just want to say thank

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<v Speaker 1>you for everything you've done for me, for allowing me

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<v Speaker 1>to be here in your life to help you. You've

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<v Speaker 1>you've helped me so much in this past year that

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<v Speaker 1>my mom passed away. Oh my Omi, of course, what

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<v Speaker 1>do I always tell you? God allowed me to go

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<v Speaker 1>through it first, I can help you through it. Sorry, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>it's okay, you're gonna make me cry, no, but yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm grateful to have you and you know that you

0:33:48.360 --> 0:33:51.960
<v Speaker 1>helped me along that part of my life and still

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<v Speaker 1>to this day, like sorry, I don't even I don't

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<v Speaker 1>want to, I don't know what I'm okay, it's okay,

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<v Speaker 1>like I was saying, till today's still to this day,

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<v Speaker 1>like you've had patience with me and and yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>want to cry no more, but yeah, I just thank you.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you for attill of course, of course if the

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<v Speaker 1>feeling is mutual, and you know I love you and

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<v Speaker 1>cheers too many many more years to come, And thank

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<v Speaker 1>you for being on the podcast for real and inspiring

0:34:19.760 --> 0:34:23.040
<v Speaker 1>other people because I'm sure I've get it a lot

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<v Speaker 1>actually at autograph signings are like, I want to work

0:34:25.120 --> 0:34:27.799
<v Speaker 1>for you chickies, how do I do it? And hey,

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<v Speaker 1>you never know, maybe the next Carol g assistant or

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know is listening to the podcast and they're

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<v Speaker 1>going to get inspired by you. So thank you. And

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<v Speaker 1>with that, we are going to close out today's episode

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<v Speaker 1>with our usual motivational quote, which I want to do

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<v Speaker 1>a little different. I want oh Me to share a

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<v Speaker 1>motivational quote with us. So do you have one? I

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<v Speaker 1>do I have two? Can I read too? Yes? Oh

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<v Speaker 1>my Godeah. Of course. The first one says, a leader

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<v Speaker 1>takes people where they want to go. A great leader

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<v Speaker 1>takes people where they don't necessarily want to go, but

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<v Speaker 1>out to be. Oh I love it nice. You do

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<v Speaker 1>that to a lot of people in their lives. And

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<v Speaker 1>the second one is not many people have the privileged

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<v Speaker 1>work under someone as caring and understanding as you and

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<v Speaker 1>grateful for that. And if I had to pick a

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<v Speaker 1>boss again, I'll definitely pick you. Is that really a

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<v Speaker 1>cool or does it really? Yeah? I think that's cute.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you? Thank you, oh Me? Oh I love you.

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<v Speaker 1>I love you too, And to all of you listening,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you. You're listening you guys every Monday, and I

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<v Speaker 1>hope you guys have an amazing week. Kick ass and yeah,

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