1 00:00:03,640 --> 00:00:05,480 Speaker 1: I didn't know if I was looking for an assistant. 2 00:00:05,480 --> 00:00:07,840 Speaker 1: I knew I needed help. I just felt very comfortable 3 00:00:07,840 --> 00:00:10,639 Speaker 1: with her. So Omi became like my day to day 4 00:00:10,680 --> 00:00:14,080 Speaker 1: my personal assistant. Is there something like super crazy that 5 00:00:14,120 --> 00:00:16,319 Speaker 1: comes to mind that you feel that I've made you do, 6 00:00:16,640 --> 00:00:19,840 Speaker 1: or that you've had to do or whatever? When um, 7 00:00:19,920 --> 00:00:23,680 Speaker 1: you really wanted a salad in Corona, so she had 8 00:00:23,760 --> 00:00:26,640 Speaker 1: me put the salad in the uber and the salad 9 00:00:26,720 --> 00:00:30,000 Speaker 1: cost two for the uber and the salad was only 10 00:00:30,080 --> 00:00:32,479 Speaker 1: like twenty bucks. We did have a little bit of 11 00:00:32,520 --> 00:00:35,159 Speaker 1: a break. I think that break was definitely needed for 12 00:00:35,240 --> 00:00:37,360 Speaker 1: us because I think you grew in a way and 13 00:00:37,400 --> 00:00:40,120 Speaker 1: I did too. And I think you learned to appreciate things, 14 00:00:40,120 --> 00:00:47,920 Speaker 1: and so did I. Hello, Hello Totos, Welcome to another 15 00:00:47,960 --> 00:00:51,440 Speaker 1: episode of Chicks and Chill. I'm your hostess with the 16 00:00:51,479 --> 00:00:54,760 Speaker 1: mostess cheeks, and today we're going to be joined by 17 00:00:54,800 --> 00:00:58,360 Speaker 1: a very special guest. She's one of my favorite people. 18 00:00:58,920 --> 00:01:01,840 Speaker 1: She's also my right hand in or should I say woman. 19 00:01:02,400 --> 00:01:05,800 Speaker 1: I'll be introducing you to my assistant and friend in 20 00:01:05,840 --> 00:01:08,240 Speaker 1: just a moment, so stay tuned for this episode of 21 00:01:08,440 --> 00:01:18,320 Speaker 1: cheek Ease and Chill. Oh my gosh, guys, I am 22 00:01:18,400 --> 00:01:22,119 Speaker 1: so excited to introduce you to know Ami Valdivia, better 23 00:01:22,160 --> 00:01:26,720 Speaker 1: known as Ohmi Lovely, my Pepper, or Homie. And I'm 24 00:01:26,720 --> 00:01:28,280 Speaker 1: not gonna get into that later as to why I 25 00:01:28,319 --> 00:01:31,920 Speaker 1: call her homie. She is actually sitting right a few 26 00:01:31,959 --> 00:01:36,600 Speaker 1: feet from me. Hiomi say hello, Hello. She's a little shy. Guys, 27 00:01:37,040 --> 00:01:38,720 Speaker 1: she's a little shy. Are you excited to be on 28 00:01:38,760 --> 00:01:42,080 Speaker 1: the podcast or what? I am excited. It's so she'll 29 00:01:42,120 --> 00:01:45,280 Speaker 1: be on your podcast. Oh thank you. Omi. She hears 30 00:01:45,360 --> 00:01:48,560 Speaker 1: me like every time we're recording, and she always asks me, like, 31 00:01:48,600 --> 00:01:49,800 Speaker 1: what did check up out today? I'm like, no, you 32 00:01:49,880 --> 00:01:51,800 Speaker 1: gotta go listen to it. I always tell her, Yeah, 33 00:01:51,880 --> 00:01:54,280 Speaker 1: she literally does not let me listen to it. Yeah, no, 34 00:01:54,360 --> 00:01:56,320 Speaker 1: I have to, like she needs to go and give 35 00:01:56,360 --> 00:01:59,800 Speaker 1: me a listen. So anyways, guys, first of all, just 36 00:02:00,000 --> 00:02:02,080 Speaker 1: so you know, Omi and I did not prepare anything 37 00:02:02,360 --> 00:02:04,600 Speaker 1: at all. We didn't talk before nothing. So we're going 38 00:02:04,680 --> 00:02:07,200 Speaker 1: to talk about like how it is, how it's been, 39 00:02:07,520 --> 00:02:10,959 Speaker 1: when we met, how we met. And I wanted to 40 00:02:11,000 --> 00:02:13,600 Speaker 1: do an episode like this because I see on my 41 00:02:13,639 --> 00:02:16,520 Speaker 1: autograph signings at my concerts a lot of people gravitate 42 00:02:16,520 --> 00:02:19,240 Speaker 1: towards Omediate. They love her very much, and I want 43 00:02:19,280 --> 00:02:21,160 Speaker 1: people to know the type of relationship that we have 44 00:02:21,320 --> 00:02:23,160 Speaker 1: because again, a lot of things have been said in 45 00:02:23,280 --> 00:02:26,040 Speaker 1: media that I treat her bad and then all this stuff. 46 00:02:26,080 --> 00:02:28,280 Speaker 1: So she's here to clear it up if she wants. 47 00:02:28,600 --> 00:02:30,480 Speaker 1: And I want you guys to meet her more than anything, 48 00:02:30,560 --> 00:02:32,400 Speaker 1: like to get to know her on a different level. Okay, 49 00:02:32,639 --> 00:02:35,359 Speaker 1: so Omi, the first question I have, why do we 50 00:02:35,440 --> 00:02:38,600 Speaker 1: call you homie? I don't know that's a good question. 51 00:02:38,919 --> 00:02:43,239 Speaker 1: Do you think you're a home? Sometimes? I'm just kidding. 52 00:02:44,240 --> 00:02:46,360 Speaker 1: I'm just kidding, guys. We call her homie. We call 53 00:02:46,400 --> 00:02:48,639 Speaker 1: her like for homie, she's the homie or like homie, 54 00:02:48,680 --> 00:02:50,160 Speaker 1: just to mess around like she's a home. But she 55 00:02:50,240 --> 00:02:51,639 Speaker 1: really isn't a home. She's a good girl. We'd just 56 00:02:51,680 --> 00:02:54,679 Speaker 1: like to mess around. Tell them the truth, what the 57 00:02:54,800 --> 00:02:58,200 Speaker 1: tru and tell your dad to listen to this Facebook. 58 00:02:58,280 --> 00:03:04,880 Speaker 1: My dad's not allowed listen to bookle Oh he's not. Okay, 59 00:03:05,040 --> 00:03:06,560 Speaker 1: I guess we can start from the beginning. Oh me, 60 00:03:06,639 --> 00:03:09,440 Speaker 1: do you want to tell them how we met? Yeah? Sure, 61 00:03:09,639 --> 00:03:12,919 Speaker 1: so as you guys all know, like you know, I 62 00:03:13,000 --> 00:03:15,600 Speaker 1: started out as a huge fan of her mom, and 63 00:03:16,320 --> 00:03:22,120 Speaker 1: you know, wow, she was Unit four seven guys. I 64 00:03:22,200 --> 00:03:25,799 Speaker 1: was lucky to get into the first one, and we'll 65 00:03:25,960 --> 00:03:27,959 Speaker 1: obviously been a fan of her mom. You know, you 66 00:03:28,080 --> 00:03:31,600 Speaker 1: also love her kids. But I've always gravitated more towards chickens. 67 00:03:32,000 --> 00:03:35,960 Speaker 1: We're saying chickens. I always colored Jenney, but um, you know, 68 00:03:36,040 --> 00:03:38,320 Speaker 1: I started admiring the person she was, and I saw 69 00:03:38,360 --> 00:03:40,920 Speaker 1: how much she helped her mom and just the kind 70 00:03:40,960 --> 00:03:43,320 Speaker 1: of person she was. I think even when her mom 71 00:03:43,440 --> 00:03:45,840 Speaker 1: was here, she's always like she was her own person 72 00:03:46,040 --> 00:03:48,960 Speaker 1: and you know, inspired people even through Twitter quotes all 73 00:03:48,960 --> 00:03:53,400 Speaker 1: the time, even um, when her mom passed away. Like 74 00:03:53,840 --> 00:03:55,520 Speaker 1: there's a lot of people, a lot of fans who 75 00:03:55,560 --> 00:03:58,480 Speaker 1: actually chose sides, and me and a couple of other 76 00:03:58,560 --> 00:04:00,800 Speaker 1: friends never chose a side. We kind to stay mutual. 77 00:04:01,720 --> 00:04:04,360 Speaker 1: And because of that, you know, I was able to 78 00:04:04,600 --> 00:04:07,200 Speaker 1: see both sides, and I gravitated more towards her, and 79 00:04:07,280 --> 00:04:09,200 Speaker 1: I wanted to support her because during that time a 80 00:04:09,280 --> 00:04:11,640 Speaker 1: lot of people left her, not only her family, but 81 00:04:11,760 --> 00:04:15,080 Speaker 1: also like friends and fans, and you know, along with 82 00:04:15,240 --> 00:04:18,760 Speaker 1: the you know Torrito, well, we supported her events and 83 00:04:18,800 --> 00:04:20,720 Speaker 1: I think we're the only two fans that were actually 84 00:04:20,839 --> 00:04:23,520 Speaker 1: there on her first autograph side and she had I 85 00:04:23,600 --> 00:04:27,599 Speaker 1: think it was like somewhere incumbent. You were there where 86 00:04:27,600 --> 00:04:30,120 Speaker 1: you're little pony to a low jeans, white shirt. You know, 87 00:04:30,279 --> 00:04:31,920 Speaker 1: never think she would go to water Gray or something 88 00:04:31,960 --> 00:04:35,120 Speaker 1: like that, but she went like that, and we just 89 00:04:35,160 --> 00:04:38,000 Speaker 1: started supporting her anywhere she went. And she noticed that, 90 00:04:38,120 --> 00:04:40,560 Speaker 1: you know, no matter where it was, we were there present, 91 00:04:40,640 --> 00:04:43,600 Speaker 1: taking her gifts. You know, they're as friends but also 92 00:04:43,680 --> 00:04:46,800 Speaker 1: as fans, and you just started bringing us around more, 93 00:04:46,920 --> 00:04:49,880 Speaker 1: little by little, and you know, it just turned into 94 00:04:50,040 --> 00:04:53,800 Speaker 1: like working for you, I guess, and you kindly never 95 00:04:53,920 --> 00:04:56,080 Speaker 1: gave me the option. You just said you're gonna be 96 00:04:56,200 --> 00:04:59,880 Speaker 1: my assistant and that's final. And I was like, okay, 97 00:05:01,000 --> 00:05:03,919 Speaker 1: well wait, okay, okay, we kind of if it did 98 00:05:03,960 --> 00:05:05,720 Speaker 1: happen that way. You guys, when you want something, you 99 00:05:05,800 --> 00:05:08,719 Speaker 1: go for it. So okay, we started. She started following 100 00:05:09,120 --> 00:05:16,120 Speaker 1: me or my career in two thousand nine, no nine nine, right, yeah, 101 00:05:16,240 --> 00:05:19,560 Speaker 1: with Chickens and Roxy and she went with Torito. A 102 00:05:19,600 --> 00:05:20,880 Speaker 1: lot of people may know who he is or not. 103 00:05:21,000 --> 00:05:23,680 Speaker 1: He's also a fan of my mom's and he is 104 00:05:23,720 --> 00:05:30,359 Speaker 1: now in my life. Baby just gave me a rose. Okay, 105 00:05:30,440 --> 00:05:32,800 Speaker 1: So she went to I think it was Yeah, it 106 00:05:32,880 --> 00:05:35,040 Speaker 1: was the autograph signing on me where we first met 107 00:05:35,080 --> 00:05:37,960 Speaker 1: in person, and then we started following each other on 108 00:05:38,080 --> 00:05:41,080 Speaker 1: Twitter and she would always like, like my quotes and 109 00:05:41,120 --> 00:05:43,720 Speaker 1: she would put quotes too. Then she invited me to 110 00:05:44,000 --> 00:05:46,480 Speaker 1: go hiking, which, by the way, guys, it's been that 111 00:05:46,600 --> 00:05:49,200 Speaker 1: many years and we have not gone hiking once. But 112 00:05:49,360 --> 00:05:52,440 Speaker 1: that's how our friendship started. She said, hey, we should 113 00:05:52,440 --> 00:05:53,680 Speaker 1: go on a hike one day because I used to 114 00:05:53,680 --> 00:05:55,240 Speaker 1: like hike a lot more. I haven't hiked in a 115 00:05:55,279 --> 00:05:57,360 Speaker 1: long time, to be honest, and she's like, I'll take 116 00:05:57,400 --> 00:05:59,480 Speaker 1: you to this really nice place we have not gone. Guys, 117 00:06:00,160 --> 00:06:02,400 Speaker 1: always tells me about glamor we have not got on 118 00:06:02,440 --> 00:06:04,400 Speaker 1: our hike, so I owe her that. I owe her 119 00:06:04,440 --> 00:06:07,200 Speaker 1: that I heard high guys. So that's how we kind 120 00:06:07,200 --> 00:06:10,040 Speaker 1: of started. And then she started helping me out with 121 00:06:10,960 --> 00:06:15,360 Speaker 1: was it a fan page on me? A fan page? Yeah? Yeah, 122 00:06:15,520 --> 00:06:17,159 Speaker 1: it was first a plant page. And then you wanted 123 00:06:17,160 --> 00:06:20,680 Speaker 1: me to help you with your closet. Remember with my closet? Okay? 124 00:06:20,880 --> 00:06:22,760 Speaker 1: And then that's when I was like, okay, I like 125 00:06:22,880 --> 00:06:25,520 Speaker 1: you're going to be my assistant. Yeah. It just flowed 126 00:06:25,560 --> 00:06:27,480 Speaker 1: because I was going to school then. I remember I 127 00:06:27,560 --> 00:06:30,400 Speaker 1: was going to school, and even when I would go 128 00:06:30,480 --> 00:06:33,000 Speaker 1: see your mom, I would ditch school college. So I 129 00:06:33,040 --> 00:06:35,280 Speaker 1: never like college. I just went because my dad wanted 130 00:06:35,279 --> 00:06:37,520 Speaker 1: me to go. So then it just came a point 131 00:06:37,560 --> 00:06:41,680 Speaker 1: where I had an excuse to leave college freaking oh me. 132 00:06:42,080 --> 00:06:44,760 Speaker 1: Well yeah, and at the time I was I didn't 133 00:06:44,800 --> 00:06:46,480 Speaker 1: know if I was looking for an assistant. I knew 134 00:06:46,480 --> 00:06:48,840 Speaker 1: I needed help. I just felt very comfortable with her. 135 00:06:49,360 --> 00:06:52,000 Speaker 1: And then Dorito was also my assistant, and then he 136 00:06:52,120 --> 00:06:54,720 Speaker 1: took a little break. That's a whole other story, but 137 00:06:54,920 --> 00:06:58,000 Speaker 1: now he's back in my life. Anyways, so only became 138 00:06:58,080 --> 00:07:00,880 Speaker 1: like my day to day my personal assistant. I taught 139 00:07:00,920 --> 00:07:04,040 Speaker 1: her basically everything, kind of like how I learned because 140 00:07:04,040 --> 00:07:06,920 Speaker 1: I started my career as an assistant, my mom's assistant, 141 00:07:07,680 --> 00:07:09,760 Speaker 1: and I was everything. I would do her hair, I 142 00:07:09,760 --> 00:07:11,720 Speaker 1: would do her personal shopping. I would pack for her, 143 00:07:11,720 --> 00:07:14,160 Speaker 1: I would unpack for her, I would pay the bills, 144 00:07:14,280 --> 00:07:16,480 Speaker 1: I did everything like that was like, I mean, I 145 00:07:16,560 --> 00:07:19,000 Speaker 1: had other little jobs, but that was like my main thing. 146 00:07:19,560 --> 00:07:24,240 Speaker 1: So anyways, Omi walked into it kind of like not knowing, 147 00:07:24,760 --> 00:07:27,200 Speaker 1: but we've learned right on me. Yeah, you showed me 148 00:07:27,240 --> 00:07:28,680 Speaker 1: how to send an email because I don't know how 149 00:07:28,680 --> 00:07:30,560 Speaker 1: to send an email. I don't know how to see 150 00:07:30,600 --> 00:07:32,600 Speaker 1: see people. I always remember that. You're like, did you 151 00:07:32,640 --> 00:07:34,400 Speaker 1: see cee this? I'm like, what does c C mean? 152 00:07:36,160 --> 00:07:38,320 Speaker 1: Because my parents, I mean, my parents never send an 153 00:07:38,360 --> 00:07:41,160 Speaker 1: email back then. Now it's different, you know, but back then, 154 00:07:41,280 --> 00:07:43,520 Speaker 1: like I went to school. Yeah, but like I wasn't 155 00:07:43,600 --> 00:07:45,920 Speaker 1: like all that techie when it comes to like emails 156 00:07:45,960 --> 00:07:47,920 Speaker 1: and all that. And you showed me how to file 157 00:07:48,120 --> 00:07:50,480 Speaker 1: do your bills and all that, and everything had to 158 00:07:50,520 --> 00:07:53,120 Speaker 1: have a receipt and a date on everything. Yes, everything 159 00:07:53,240 --> 00:07:56,000 Speaker 1: is I'm very anal okay about like, I'm very particular. 160 00:07:56,040 --> 00:07:59,240 Speaker 1: I've learned that through the years. Yeah, you know, guys, 161 00:07:59,280 --> 00:08:01,200 Speaker 1: I'm very particular here. I want things in a certain way, 162 00:08:01,200 --> 00:08:03,480 Speaker 1: and when it's not done like that, it bugs me. 163 00:08:03,600 --> 00:08:05,800 Speaker 1: She can tell you right here, only can say whatever 164 00:08:05,880 --> 00:08:08,560 Speaker 1: she wants, like honestly, like the mic is open, and 165 00:08:08,720 --> 00:08:10,320 Speaker 1: if I get on her nerves sometimes I'm sure I do. 166 00:08:11,000 --> 00:08:13,240 Speaker 1: I mean, you know, that's just part of it. Like 167 00:08:13,320 --> 00:08:14,720 Speaker 1: my mom would get on my nerves. Sometimes I'm not 168 00:08:14,760 --> 00:08:16,840 Speaker 1: gonna lie like I would be like mom, like it 169 00:08:16,960 --> 00:08:18,920 Speaker 1: was tough. It's not easy, guys, It's not easy being 170 00:08:18,920 --> 00:08:22,840 Speaker 1: an assistant. That's why I'm patient. I've been patient because 171 00:08:23,040 --> 00:08:24,800 Speaker 1: I know what it is to be in that position 172 00:08:24,880 --> 00:08:28,680 Speaker 1: and how stressful it is. And in reality, you don't 173 00:08:29,000 --> 00:08:31,240 Speaker 1: have a schedule. It's something that we've been trying to 174 00:08:31,320 --> 00:08:35,280 Speaker 1: work on, but in real something's always happening. So she's 175 00:08:35,640 --> 00:08:38,640 Speaker 1: she used to get to my other house like at 176 00:08:38,720 --> 00:08:41,040 Speaker 1: seven in the morning because she lives so far. How 177 00:08:41,080 --> 00:08:43,360 Speaker 1: far away I mean, well, what traffic in the morning 178 00:08:43,440 --> 00:08:45,360 Speaker 1: would be like an hour and a half, Like an 179 00:08:45,400 --> 00:08:47,320 Speaker 1: hour and a half. She would leave her house so early, 180 00:08:47,400 --> 00:08:49,680 Speaker 1: wake up at five, And I felt like crap because 181 00:08:49,679 --> 00:08:51,240 Speaker 1: I was like, she wakes up so early, she gets 182 00:08:51,280 --> 00:08:55,520 Speaker 1: here so early. It because she wants to avoid traffic. 183 00:08:56,000 --> 00:08:57,360 Speaker 1: So now we're trying to work on a little bit 184 00:08:57,360 --> 00:08:59,959 Speaker 1: of a schedule. She just moved out. Everyone around about 185 00:09:00,000 --> 00:09:02,199 Speaker 1: asked for om me. She moved out for the first time. 186 00:09:02,960 --> 00:09:04,959 Speaker 1: And she's living ten minutes away from the new house. 187 00:09:05,440 --> 00:09:07,400 Speaker 1: And now I'm happy because she gets to rest, she 188 00:09:07,520 --> 00:09:09,200 Speaker 1: gets to like, she doesn't have to drive so far. 189 00:09:09,240 --> 00:09:11,559 Speaker 1: I would always worry. I would always tell Hermie, it 190 00:09:11,559 --> 00:09:13,760 Speaker 1: stresses me out, like being on the road so much. 191 00:09:13,800 --> 00:09:16,120 Speaker 1: She wasn't getting enough sleep. But she would always say 192 00:09:16,120 --> 00:09:18,400 Speaker 1: I love my job. Do you love her job? On me? Honestly? 193 00:09:18,480 --> 00:09:21,360 Speaker 1: Like I do? Why why do you love your job? 194 00:09:21,760 --> 00:09:23,480 Speaker 1: I think when you love something you do, you don't 195 00:09:23,480 --> 00:09:24,959 Speaker 1: see it as a job. You see it more like 196 00:09:25,320 --> 00:09:27,599 Speaker 1: a hobby, but like you're doing something you like and 197 00:09:27,640 --> 00:09:29,720 Speaker 1: you're getting paid for it. But I think there's many 198 00:09:30,240 --> 00:09:32,240 Speaker 1: many reasons that I like my job. Would I being 199 00:09:32,240 --> 00:09:35,760 Speaker 1: assistant for another person? I don't know. I think being 200 00:09:35,760 --> 00:09:38,720 Speaker 1: assistant you have to really like love and look up 201 00:09:38,760 --> 00:09:41,120 Speaker 1: to the person, you know, admire the person you're working for, 202 00:09:41,280 --> 00:09:44,079 Speaker 1: because if not, then you wouldn't do things the way 203 00:09:44,120 --> 00:09:46,880 Speaker 1: you want to do them, you know, going with like passion, 204 00:09:47,200 --> 00:09:49,800 Speaker 1: but like passion and love. Yeah, if you're passion and love. 205 00:09:50,000 --> 00:09:52,520 Speaker 1: And that's crazy that you say that. Because Julie Julie 206 00:09:52,559 --> 00:09:53,839 Speaker 1: Vasque is a shout out to her. She was my 207 00:09:53,880 --> 00:09:56,360 Speaker 1: mom's assistant, a very very good assistant. Her and I 208 00:09:56,440 --> 00:09:59,960 Speaker 1: had our little differences because I was my mom's very 209 00:10:00,080 --> 00:10:03,040 Speaker 1: first assistant, like her personal assistant, and then Julie came 210 00:10:03,440 --> 00:10:06,040 Speaker 1: and I was kind of like a hello, like I'm 211 00:10:06,040 --> 00:10:07,839 Speaker 1: not needed anymore. But it was something it was a 212 00:10:07,920 --> 00:10:10,800 Speaker 1: part of my growing and I gave her a little 213 00:10:10,800 --> 00:10:13,599 Speaker 1: bit of a hard time. I will be honest. I 214 00:10:13,679 --> 00:10:14,959 Speaker 1: gave her a little bit of hard time. I was. 215 00:10:15,080 --> 00:10:17,079 Speaker 1: I was a little bit sometimes, but it was just 216 00:10:17,160 --> 00:10:19,520 Speaker 1: because I was very territorial with my siblings, of my mom, 217 00:10:19,600 --> 00:10:21,800 Speaker 1: of our household. She was a very good assistant, and 218 00:10:21,960 --> 00:10:24,400 Speaker 1: she said like once my mom passed away, she says, 219 00:10:24,440 --> 00:10:26,600 Speaker 1: I will never be anyone else's assistant like I did 220 00:10:26,640 --> 00:10:29,400 Speaker 1: it for her. I loved her. I was passionate about it, 221 00:10:30,080 --> 00:10:32,360 Speaker 1: and she hasn't. She started doing her own things. I 222 00:10:32,400 --> 00:10:34,839 Speaker 1: think she has like her record label now right that 223 00:10:34,920 --> 00:10:38,160 Speaker 1: she opened like a little studio to like salon. Oh 224 00:10:38,280 --> 00:10:40,559 Speaker 1: she did. Oh my goodness, that's awesome. So now that 225 00:10:40,600 --> 00:10:43,199 Speaker 1: you say that, it reminds me of Julie because I mean, 226 00:10:43,240 --> 00:10:46,000 Speaker 1: like I said it, you have to be passionate about 227 00:10:46,480 --> 00:10:50,160 Speaker 1: the person that you're working with or working for. It 228 00:10:50,360 --> 00:10:52,320 Speaker 1: is a tough job. So now that we're talking about 229 00:10:52,360 --> 00:10:55,440 Speaker 1: it being tough, tell us a little bit about your 230 00:10:55,559 --> 00:10:57,600 Speaker 1: normal day, Like how does it start with time? Does 231 00:10:57,640 --> 00:11:01,120 Speaker 1: it start usually? Well? Right now, since you know I 232 00:11:01,240 --> 00:11:03,840 Speaker 1: live closer, I've been lazy and I wake up late now. 233 00:11:04,080 --> 00:11:05,640 Speaker 1: And the reason I told her, I said, okay, only 234 00:11:05,720 --> 00:11:07,520 Speaker 1: start coming in at nine or ten so that she 235 00:11:07,640 --> 00:11:09,719 Speaker 1: has time to go work out and do her thing. 236 00:11:10,080 --> 00:11:12,360 Speaker 1: She's like, you're honestly, it's it's it's it's making me lazy, 237 00:11:12,440 --> 00:11:14,640 Speaker 1: Like I need to come in earlier. No, but I 238 00:11:14,679 --> 00:11:16,640 Speaker 1: need to get back on my workout stuff. But now 239 00:11:16,720 --> 00:11:20,160 Speaker 1: I wake up like seven seven thirty a, get ready 240 00:11:20,360 --> 00:11:23,080 Speaker 1: showered or on my you know, my be flawless skin 241 00:11:24,520 --> 00:11:27,480 Speaker 1: drive to work. Usually if we have already like a 242 00:11:27,520 --> 00:11:29,240 Speaker 1: set schedule, like what we're gonna do if we have 243 00:11:29,320 --> 00:11:31,880 Speaker 1: to go to an event, like obviously it's prepared for that. 244 00:11:32,480 --> 00:11:34,560 Speaker 1: But like the normal thing is like I get here, 245 00:11:34,720 --> 00:11:36,920 Speaker 1: I always I don't care what people say, but I'm 246 00:11:36,920 --> 00:11:39,760 Speaker 1: always a person that my job title is not just 247 00:11:39,840 --> 00:11:42,320 Speaker 1: being an assistant. Like if I need to pick up 248 00:11:42,400 --> 00:11:43,920 Speaker 1: the dog poop and I see it there, like I'm 249 00:11:43,920 --> 00:11:45,400 Speaker 1: gonna pick it up, you know what I mean. Like 250 00:11:45,800 --> 00:11:48,920 Speaker 1: I don't really care what anybody says. That's just me 251 00:11:49,040 --> 00:11:51,400 Speaker 1: and that's how I was raised. But you know, I 252 00:11:51,520 --> 00:11:53,959 Speaker 1: get here and whatever we have to do first like 253 00:11:54,040 --> 00:11:55,640 Speaker 1: usually always send me like what you want me to 254 00:11:55,720 --> 00:11:58,240 Speaker 1: do before when I get here. If I see anything 255 00:11:58,320 --> 00:12:00,160 Speaker 1: I need to pick up, I pick it up. Do 256 00:12:00,360 --> 00:12:03,520 Speaker 1: office stuff. When I have to pay people out help 257 00:12:03,559 --> 00:12:05,760 Speaker 1: you with your laundry, I help you, but you know 258 00:12:05,880 --> 00:12:08,800 Speaker 1: sometimes she likes to in her laundry on her own. Yeah, 259 00:12:10,120 --> 00:12:12,640 Speaker 1: what else do I do? You know? Lately hapen having 260 00:12:13,240 --> 00:12:15,960 Speaker 1: everything kind of you know, there's been so many packages 261 00:12:15,960 --> 00:12:18,000 Speaker 1: because of the new house and everything, so it's always 262 00:12:18,080 --> 00:12:22,040 Speaker 1: like opening a bunch of packages. It's pretty much like 263 00:12:22,200 --> 00:12:23,640 Speaker 1: a lot of little things that I like to do. 264 00:12:23,920 --> 00:12:26,440 Speaker 1: Like I wouldn't say like I limit myself to anything, 265 00:12:26,520 --> 00:12:28,640 Speaker 1: you know, but that's what I'm saying that I wouldn't 266 00:12:28,640 --> 00:12:30,120 Speaker 1: do that for another person, but I do it for 267 00:12:30,200 --> 00:12:33,080 Speaker 1: you because you know, I admire you and you are 268 00:12:33,120 --> 00:12:37,199 Speaker 1: a great person. M thank you, my lovely Oh, she 269 00:12:37,280 --> 00:12:40,079 Speaker 1: don't make me cry, guys, because honestly, I don't think 270 00:12:40,160 --> 00:12:42,360 Speaker 1: I can ever think of a time where Omi has 271 00:12:42,400 --> 00:12:45,040 Speaker 1: said no to me when I asked her, Like obviously 272 00:12:45,080 --> 00:12:46,719 Speaker 1: I'm not asking her to do crazy things, but there's 273 00:12:46,720 --> 00:12:48,280 Speaker 1: certain things and she's like, okay, yeah, I'll do it. 274 00:12:48,480 --> 00:12:51,839 Speaker 1: And you know, she even cooks. She helps me with 275 00:12:51,920 --> 00:12:54,480 Speaker 1: social media as far as like reminding me to post 276 00:12:54,480 --> 00:12:57,280 Speaker 1: certain things or whatever. Like I'm very hands on with 277 00:12:57,360 --> 00:12:59,160 Speaker 1: everything that I do. So a lot of people may think, oh, 278 00:12:59,240 --> 00:13:01,080 Speaker 1: she does on my social media for me, and that's 279 00:13:01,120 --> 00:13:04,600 Speaker 1: not true. She just reminds me, hey you got this DM, 280 00:13:04,920 --> 00:13:07,440 Speaker 1: or hey you gotta post this, or hey we gotta 281 00:13:07,480 --> 00:13:11,400 Speaker 1: respond to certain comments. Like she really is on everything, 282 00:13:11,600 --> 00:13:14,599 Speaker 1: and I can't say that there's not one part of 283 00:13:14,720 --> 00:13:17,880 Speaker 1: my life. Like, honestly, even when I've had surgery, she 284 00:13:18,440 --> 00:13:21,880 Speaker 1: has helped me. She has showered me. Um. That's why 285 00:13:21,920 --> 00:13:24,800 Speaker 1: I'm like, she's not just my assistant, she is my friend. 286 00:13:24,920 --> 00:13:27,640 Speaker 1: She is I'm like her, her sister, I'm like sometimes 287 00:13:27,679 --> 00:13:30,080 Speaker 1: her mother, Like I have helped raise her. It's crazy 288 00:13:30,120 --> 00:13:33,360 Speaker 1: because when she lost her mom last year, because my 289 00:13:33,480 --> 00:13:35,599 Speaker 1: mom passed in December nine and her mom passed on 290 00:13:35,679 --> 00:13:39,720 Speaker 1: December eight, um, nine years later, right on me. Yeah, 291 00:13:39,880 --> 00:13:43,640 Speaker 1: nine nine, nine years apart. And I feel like I 292 00:13:43,800 --> 00:13:46,839 Speaker 1: could be there for her and help her through that 293 00:13:47,559 --> 00:13:49,559 Speaker 1: and guide her. And there's days still that she has 294 00:13:49,600 --> 00:13:53,079 Speaker 1: bad days. And it's just a very unique relationship that 295 00:13:53,240 --> 00:13:56,120 Speaker 1: we have and I'm so grateful. I'm so grateful for 296 00:13:56,160 --> 00:13:58,760 Speaker 1: her because honestly, she she does. She does help me 297 00:13:59,440 --> 00:14:02,280 Speaker 1: over and be and I think if I had to, 298 00:14:02,520 --> 00:14:04,079 Speaker 1: I would like do what I gotta do. You know 299 00:14:04,120 --> 00:14:13,199 Speaker 1: what I mean, but she helps me so much. We 300 00:14:13,280 --> 00:14:15,160 Speaker 1: did have a little bit of a break on me, Yeah, 301 00:14:15,200 --> 00:14:18,960 Speaker 1: we did. We had six months or six months six months. Look, 302 00:14:19,480 --> 00:14:21,680 Speaker 1: I think I met you when you were what twenty 303 00:14:21,720 --> 00:14:26,280 Speaker 1: one on me or how old are you? Yeah, and 304 00:14:27,400 --> 00:14:33,280 Speaker 1: she was young and even like me teaching her to 305 00:14:33,400 --> 00:14:35,480 Speaker 1: say thank you and please and stuff like that, like 306 00:14:35,600 --> 00:14:38,560 Speaker 1: those are stuff that I guided her with, right, Yeah, 307 00:14:38,600 --> 00:14:44,240 Speaker 1: I had no manners. I'm not saying that my parents 308 00:14:44,360 --> 00:14:47,200 Speaker 1: never taught me manners, but sometimes like when you're out 309 00:14:47,320 --> 00:14:50,240 Speaker 1: with public people or like other people that have like 310 00:14:50,320 --> 00:14:52,880 Speaker 1: a higher position like around you, like you know, I 311 00:14:52,880 --> 00:14:54,560 Speaker 1: would know, Oh my god, who say please? I don't 312 00:14:54,560 --> 00:14:56,320 Speaker 1: say thank you? And it comes off rude, you know, 313 00:14:56,840 --> 00:14:59,200 Speaker 1: because you know how Mexican fand they're very potos. Like 314 00:15:00,200 --> 00:15:02,520 Speaker 1: it was like they don't really care, like like like 315 00:15:02,600 --> 00:15:04,280 Speaker 1: what do you mean, Like I said, come home, like 316 00:15:04,640 --> 00:15:08,320 Speaker 1: there's certain in a way. Yeah, like I don't think 317 00:15:08,360 --> 00:15:10,760 Speaker 1: every day with my parents or my mom and dad 318 00:15:10,800 --> 00:15:13,640 Speaker 1: I said please or thank you. They recreated things, but 319 00:15:13,720 --> 00:15:15,520 Speaker 1: it wasn't for like a lot of things, you know 320 00:15:15,560 --> 00:15:20,640 Speaker 1: what I mean? Yeah, And I think it's like I 321 00:15:20,840 --> 00:15:23,040 Speaker 1: just feel like I want to be acknowledged like even 322 00:15:23,040 --> 00:15:24,640 Speaker 1: if I send a message, I'm like, okay, well where's 323 00:15:24,640 --> 00:15:28,560 Speaker 1: your response or um here, thank you or please. I'm 324 00:15:28,720 --> 00:15:30,960 Speaker 1: very very like that. I think it was because my 325 00:15:31,040 --> 00:15:32,600 Speaker 1: mom was so tough on me. So I feel like 326 00:15:32,720 --> 00:15:35,280 Speaker 1: everything I've learned and I learned with my mom, I'm 327 00:15:35,320 --> 00:15:37,080 Speaker 1: teaching on me because I kind of went into it 328 00:15:37,200 --> 00:15:38,760 Speaker 1: like that too, Like I was an assistant from one 329 00:15:38,840 --> 00:15:40,160 Speaker 1: day to another, and I was just like, okay, what 330 00:15:40,200 --> 00:15:41,800 Speaker 1: do I do? Like I didn't know how to write 331 00:15:41,800 --> 00:15:43,480 Speaker 1: a check, and my Mom's like, I don't know, figure 332 00:15:43,480 --> 00:15:45,520 Speaker 1: it out, go deposited. Well how do I do that? 333 00:15:45,840 --> 00:15:47,800 Speaker 1: I don't know, figure it out? And that's kind of 334 00:15:47,840 --> 00:15:50,160 Speaker 1: like your favorite work now, Yeah, like it's just like 335 00:15:50,720 --> 00:15:52,960 Speaker 1: figured out, you'll figure it out, you know what I mean. 336 00:15:53,080 --> 00:15:55,720 Speaker 1: And I have been tough. I have been tough on 337 00:15:55,920 --> 00:15:59,400 Speaker 1: on on me. I try my best not to ever 338 00:16:00,200 --> 00:16:02,560 Speaker 1: with anyone, not just with with Omi or the people 339 00:16:02,600 --> 00:16:04,920 Speaker 1: that work for me, even people at restaurants, whether you're 340 00:16:05,000 --> 00:16:07,640 Speaker 1: the janitor or the cleaning lady, the bus boy, I 341 00:16:07,720 --> 00:16:09,800 Speaker 1: don't care. I like to treat people all the same, 342 00:16:10,120 --> 00:16:11,720 Speaker 1: so I never feel like, oh I'm the boss and 343 00:16:11,760 --> 00:16:13,200 Speaker 1: you do as I say. Like I like to lead 344 00:16:13,200 --> 00:16:17,880 Speaker 1: by example. I've said, Naiomi, I'm so sorry I I 345 00:16:18,000 --> 00:16:20,320 Speaker 1: sent her a message and I'm like, I apologize that 346 00:16:20,480 --> 00:16:24,360 Speaker 1: was rude, and I give her that open space to say, hey, 347 00:16:24,480 --> 00:16:26,440 Speaker 1: if something hurts your feelings, feel free to tell me 348 00:16:26,560 --> 00:16:28,280 Speaker 1: to text me. We do a lot of texting, even 349 00:16:28,320 --> 00:16:30,760 Speaker 1: if we're like in in the same house in two 350 00:16:30,760 --> 00:16:33,120 Speaker 1: different rooms, will text each other like, hey, that wasn't cool. 351 00:16:33,240 --> 00:16:36,200 Speaker 1: Or we've learned throughout these years and through that little 352 00:16:36,800 --> 00:16:40,920 Speaker 1: break we had, I think, to respect each other's boundaries, 353 00:16:40,960 --> 00:16:45,640 Speaker 1: to respect each other's wishes, and I think we've learned right. Yeah, No, 354 00:16:45,800 --> 00:16:48,520 Speaker 1: I think that break was definitely needed for us because 355 00:16:48,600 --> 00:16:50,680 Speaker 1: I think you grew in a way and I did too. 356 00:16:50,760 --> 00:16:53,120 Speaker 1: And I think you learned to appreciate things, and so 357 00:16:53,280 --> 00:16:56,200 Speaker 1: did I. Now, like when I started working for you again, 358 00:16:56,240 --> 00:16:58,160 Speaker 1: like things were like a lot different, I think, and 359 00:16:58,280 --> 00:17:01,240 Speaker 1: I learned certain things during that time, and so did you. Yeah, 360 00:17:01,360 --> 00:17:03,680 Speaker 1: but I think it was more like communication. I think now, 361 00:17:03,800 --> 00:17:05,680 Speaker 1: like if something bothers you, you tell me and I 362 00:17:05,800 --> 00:17:07,879 Speaker 1: tell you and and like we fix it, you know, 363 00:17:08,000 --> 00:17:10,639 Speaker 1: instead of kind of like leaving it under the rug, right, 364 00:17:11,080 --> 00:17:13,120 Speaker 1: and not just because it's like, oh I'm her boss. 365 00:17:13,160 --> 00:17:15,080 Speaker 1: She's not going to tell me hey, like I didn't 366 00:17:15,119 --> 00:17:17,800 Speaker 1: like that or whatever. So I think that it's important, 367 00:17:17,840 --> 00:17:21,000 Speaker 1: like you said, communication in every relationship. It doesn't matter 368 00:17:21,040 --> 00:17:23,800 Speaker 1: if it's a professional or a personal relationship. And like 369 00:17:23,920 --> 00:17:26,600 Speaker 1: I said, like, sometimes you hear so much then you 370 00:17:26,680 --> 00:17:29,240 Speaker 1: start believing and you don't ask the person, so then 371 00:17:29,240 --> 00:17:31,639 Speaker 1: you start saying things. You know, but it's like sometimes 372 00:17:31,680 --> 00:17:33,680 Speaker 1: people only do that to see what you say, to 373 00:17:33,840 --> 00:17:37,600 Speaker 1: go say exactly. So that's why now like whenever somebody 374 00:17:37,640 --> 00:17:39,800 Speaker 1: says something, I'm like okay, Like I either say a 375 00:17:39,920 --> 00:17:41,560 Speaker 1: lie to see if it comes back to me or 376 00:17:41,720 --> 00:17:44,400 Speaker 1: you know, like I'm very careful. There's probably I could 377 00:17:44,440 --> 00:17:48,200 Speaker 1: help with one hand of people that I trust. You know, yeah, no, absolutely, 378 00:17:48,240 --> 00:17:50,480 Speaker 1: And that's just part of maturing both for you owe 379 00:17:50,520 --> 00:17:53,160 Speaker 1: me as well as me. That it's just like, okay, 380 00:17:53,240 --> 00:17:55,800 Speaker 1: it taught us a lot, I think. And some people 381 00:17:55,880 --> 00:17:58,720 Speaker 1: may think like how or why did you you know, 382 00:17:58,840 --> 00:18:00,240 Speaker 1: let her back in your life. Well, for so I 383 00:18:00,320 --> 00:18:02,880 Speaker 1: missed her, you know, she was I was really close 384 00:18:02,960 --> 00:18:06,240 Speaker 1: to her. And then she apologize to me. She and 385 00:18:06,320 --> 00:18:09,640 Speaker 1: that's sometimes all we need is just hey, I was wrong. 386 00:18:09,840 --> 00:18:12,639 Speaker 1: I also told her, hey, I apologize. We apologize to 387 00:18:12,680 --> 00:18:15,920 Speaker 1: each other, and we kind of just said, okay, it's 388 00:18:16,000 --> 00:18:18,800 Speaker 1: the past. And it has been a little difficult. It's 389 00:18:18,840 --> 00:18:21,879 Speaker 1: been a work in progress to find that trust, you 390 00:18:21,960 --> 00:18:24,399 Speaker 1: know again. But I've always been very honest with her, 391 00:18:24,600 --> 00:18:26,440 Speaker 1: and I'm like, this is how I feel, and she's like, Okay, 392 00:18:26,440 --> 00:18:27,880 Speaker 1: I just have to prove myself to you, to prove 393 00:18:27,920 --> 00:18:30,040 Speaker 1: that I've changed, I've matured, I've grown up. And I 394 00:18:30,119 --> 00:18:33,000 Speaker 1: believe her because it is very different now, it really is, 395 00:18:33,240 --> 00:18:35,359 Speaker 1: and I think it was necessary in order for us 396 00:18:35,400 --> 00:18:37,320 Speaker 1: to be where we're at now, to have to go 397 00:18:37,480 --> 00:18:40,879 Speaker 1: through that moment of us missing each other and reflecting 398 00:18:41,040 --> 00:18:44,399 Speaker 1: and growing and maturing. But yeah, sometimes I feel like 399 00:18:44,520 --> 00:18:48,199 Speaker 1: I want to get another assistant just to help her 400 00:18:48,240 --> 00:18:51,720 Speaker 1: out because it is a lot, guys. I mean, in reality, 401 00:18:51,840 --> 00:18:53,200 Speaker 1: she does help me a lot. And I try my 402 00:18:53,280 --> 00:18:55,040 Speaker 1: best to be like, okay on me, like try to 403 00:18:55,080 --> 00:18:57,080 Speaker 1: go home and release so that because sometimes she's here 404 00:18:57,160 --> 00:18:59,200 Speaker 1: until ten ten pm. She gets here at nine and 405 00:18:59,240 --> 00:19:04,560 Speaker 1: she's here until ten. But I'm very mindful of her spirit, 406 00:19:04,720 --> 00:19:06,200 Speaker 1: her soul, like I do my best to be like, 407 00:19:06,240 --> 00:19:09,320 Speaker 1: oh me, make sure you pray, and but she has 408 00:19:09,400 --> 00:19:11,240 Speaker 1: I think you you learned to pray with me too, huh, 409 00:19:11,440 --> 00:19:13,920 Speaker 1: And yeah I have. I think that's one of the 410 00:19:14,000 --> 00:19:16,400 Speaker 1: things I learned, like to be more connected even to God. 411 00:19:16,560 --> 00:19:19,879 Speaker 1: Like it's crazy because before, like for us and my 412 00:19:20,480 --> 00:19:23,960 Speaker 1: growing up, going to church was like insanea as Baptism, 413 00:19:24,480 --> 00:19:27,320 Speaker 1: I would never watch church, you know, believe in God 414 00:19:27,400 --> 00:19:30,000 Speaker 1: and everything, you go to rosaries and all that. But 415 00:19:30,560 --> 00:19:32,399 Speaker 1: I think I got with you. I went more to 416 00:19:32,480 --> 00:19:34,879 Speaker 1: the Christian side. I don't consider my self Christian, but 417 00:19:35,000 --> 00:19:36,800 Speaker 1: I understand it better in that way, I guess I 418 00:19:36,880 --> 00:19:39,560 Speaker 1: can say. But you know, I did become more more 419 00:19:39,640 --> 00:19:42,760 Speaker 1: spiritual connected even with God and stuff. So I think 420 00:19:42,800 --> 00:19:45,040 Speaker 1: that's something else you taught me to And ballery to 421 00:19:45,280 --> 00:19:49,359 Speaker 1: battery has a lot to do with that too. Yeah. Yeah, 422 00:19:51,040 --> 00:19:53,680 Speaker 1: So so you feel like you've learned a lot, I 423 00:19:53,800 --> 00:19:56,320 Speaker 1: learned a lot. I think everything I've known I know 424 00:19:56,520 --> 00:19:59,679 Speaker 1: because of you, even the people I know, my knowledge 425 00:19:59,720 --> 00:20:01,800 Speaker 1: and the everything. Even my dad always says it, like 426 00:20:02,600 --> 00:20:04,680 Speaker 1: my dad was always scared when I came to working 427 00:20:04,720 --> 00:20:07,040 Speaker 1: for you, because obviously I left school and he you 428 00:20:07,119 --> 00:20:10,359 Speaker 1: know how grateful he is for you. He saw everything 429 00:20:10,440 --> 00:20:13,480 Speaker 1: I've learned, even even when you were we weren't. Yeah, 430 00:20:13,480 --> 00:20:15,920 Speaker 1: I wasn't working for you. Like he always saw like 431 00:20:16,520 --> 00:20:20,560 Speaker 1: what I learned from it, like mentally, emotionally, he saw everything. 432 00:20:20,680 --> 00:20:22,560 Speaker 1: And so this day, you know how much how much 433 00:20:22,640 --> 00:20:24,800 Speaker 1: my dad is grateful. My mom too, but you know, 434 00:20:24,960 --> 00:20:28,480 Speaker 1: my dad's more like vocal about things. But I really 435 00:20:28,560 --> 00:20:31,240 Speaker 1: learned everything with you and I you know, I'm grateful 436 00:20:31,400 --> 00:20:36,960 Speaker 1: because I got free um schooling. I always say, you're 437 00:20:36,960 --> 00:20:39,680 Speaker 1: my professor. You're my professor. Yeah, I went to the 438 00:20:39,880 --> 00:20:43,359 Speaker 1: University of Genemuring. It's crazy because it's like what I 439 00:20:43,400 --> 00:20:45,240 Speaker 1: say about my mom and she's like, oh my god, 440 00:20:45,280 --> 00:20:47,120 Speaker 1: that's how I feel. That's how I feel. Like you're 441 00:20:47,160 --> 00:20:50,360 Speaker 1: definitely my professor. Like it's not just I teach her everything, 442 00:20:50,440 --> 00:20:52,720 Speaker 1: like I'm like I want her to know and then 443 00:20:52,760 --> 00:20:54,920 Speaker 1: if one day I'm not here, like she she knows 444 00:20:55,000 --> 00:20:57,600 Speaker 1: what to day. I'm just saying, like, if one day 445 00:20:57,600 --> 00:21:00,760 Speaker 1: I'm not here something like people out of town, right exactly, 446 00:21:00,880 --> 00:21:04,200 Speaker 1: like I go out of town, okay, but I'm gonna 447 00:21:04,200 --> 00:21:06,119 Speaker 1: tell you guys, how down on me is if I 448 00:21:06,200 --> 00:21:08,200 Speaker 1: need something at two in the morning and I call 449 00:21:08,280 --> 00:21:10,760 Speaker 1: her and I have before. I think it was one 450 00:21:10,760 --> 00:21:12,440 Speaker 1: time I had to go to hospital. She rushed me 451 00:21:12,480 --> 00:21:14,520 Speaker 1: to the emergency room. I was like, come get me, 452 00:21:14,600 --> 00:21:16,280 Speaker 1: oh my god or whatever, and she took me to 453 00:21:16,320 --> 00:21:18,719 Speaker 1: the emergency room. There's been times where I give her 454 00:21:18,720 --> 00:21:21,920 Speaker 1: the day off, the day off, and I'm like, oh me, 455 00:21:21,960 --> 00:21:23,280 Speaker 1: I need this, and I'm like, I'm so sorry to 456 00:21:23,320 --> 00:21:24,960 Speaker 1: bother you on your day. Actually, don't worry. That's what 457 00:21:25,000 --> 00:21:27,960 Speaker 1: I'm here for. She's like always there. Like I'm like, okay, 458 00:21:28,040 --> 00:21:30,680 Speaker 1: I got a little tipsy, I can't drive. She'll go 459 00:21:30,760 --> 00:21:32,840 Speaker 1: pick me up. It doesn't matter where it's at. Like, dude, 460 00:21:32,920 --> 00:21:35,200 Speaker 1: this girl is down. This girl is down for me, 461 00:21:35,440 --> 00:21:39,280 Speaker 1: and I just need people to know that. Unfortunately, I 462 00:21:39,359 --> 00:21:41,879 Speaker 1: feel like there's not a lot of people like oh 463 00:21:41,960 --> 00:21:44,960 Speaker 1: Me around and I'm just grateful for you. Oh Me, 464 00:21:45,119 --> 00:21:47,560 Speaker 1: I really am thank you. I'm also grateful for you. 465 00:21:47,720 --> 00:21:49,679 Speaker 1: You know a lot of people always say if they 466 00:21:49,800 --> 00:21:51,720 Speaker 1: just play around, you know that they say that you 467 00:21:51,800 --> 00:21:53,840 Speaker 1: treat me wrong. That it's not true. Guys, I'm here 468 00:21:53,880 --> 00:21:56,639 Speaker 1: to clear it up. But she does hit me on 469 00:21:56,760 --> 00:22:02,280 Speaker 1: the weekends. I'm kidding she honestly, you know, she's a 470 00:22:02,320 --> 00:22:05,600 Speaker 1: great person. And I always get messages from fans it's 471 00:22:05,640 --> 00:22:07,320 Speaker 1: funny and they're like Oh my god, You're so lucky 472 00:22:07,400 --> 00:22:09,879 Speaker 1: to be nick like to be near you or whatever 473 00:22:10,320 --> 00:22:13,000 Speaker 1: to work for her, And like, I think those messages 474 00:22:13,520 --> 00:22:15,840 Speaker 1: are good because I think I'm like damn, like sometimes 475 00:22:15,880 --> 00:22:18,919 Speaker 1: I forget who I work for because I always when 476 00:22:18,960 --> 00:22:21,119 Speaker 1: I'm with you, you're always Jenny, not cheekies, you know 477 00:22:21,160 --> 00:22:22,920 Speaker 1: what I mean, you know, and that's the person I 478 00:22:23,000 --> 00:22:25,800 Speaker 1: admired to. And and like I said, like, I wouldn't 479 00:22:25,840 --> 00:22:27,880 Speaker 1: be here still working for you if you didn't treat 480 00:22:27,920 --> 00:22:30,800 Speaker 1: me the way you treat me. And one thing I 481 00:22:30,920 --> 00:22:32,800 Speaker 1: can say, like you always thank me for things. And 482 00:22:32,880 --> 00:22:35,680 Speaker 1: I think it's nice to work for people that thank 483 00:22:35,760 --> 00:22:38,159 Speaker 1: you and appreciate the work you do, because I know 484 00:22:38,280 --> 00:22:40,200 Speaker 1: many people that work for other people or you know, 485 00:22:40,240 --> 00:22:42,600 Speaker 1: a regular job and they never get to thank you 486 00:22:42,760 --> 00:22:44,359 Speaker 1: or you know what I mean. And I think I 487 00:22:44,480 --> 00:22:47,000 Speaker 1: thank you go far uh, you know, far out or 488 00:22:47,040 --> 00:22:49,280 Speaker 1: even like you. I think you gave me two races 489 00:22:49,359 --> 00:22:52,920 Speaker 1: in the past year and that doesn't happen anywhere. And 490 00:22:53,000 --> 00:22:55,119 Speaker 1: the fact that you see my work and you're you 491 00:22:55,200 --> 00:22:58,840 Speaker 1: appreciate what I'm doing, I think that what fulfills me 492 00:22:58,920 --> 00:23:00,879 Speaker 1: and and and you know, it makes me want to 493 00:23:00,960 --> 00:23:03,000 Speaker 1: keep growing and want to do more with you, and 494 00:23:03,640 --> 00:23:05,840 Speaker 1: you know, I see where you're going and you still 495 00:23:05,880 --> 00:23:08,560 Speaker 1: have a long future ahead of you, and sometimes you 496 00:23:08,600 --> 00:23:10,920 Speaker 1: don't believe it because you doubt yourself a lot. And 497 00:23:11,000 --> 00:23:13,600 Speaker 1: I think that I know that I'm here for a reason. 498 00:23:13,720 --> 00:23:15,320 Speaker 1: You know, I'm not just here just to be here. 499 00:23:15,359 --> 00:23:17,840 Speaker 1: I know there's more to work where you're gonna go. 500 00:23:18,840 --> 00:23:20,879 Speaker 1: Thank you lovely, And just to pick you back a 501 00:23:20,920 --> 00:23:23,280 Speaker 1: little bit on what she was saying, I do feel 502 00:23:23,359 --> 00:23:26,119 Speaker 1: like it's important to have an attitude of gratitude. I 503 00:23:26,119 --> 00:23:28,159 Speaker 1: always say that, like it doesn't matter, Like I know 504 00:23:28,440 --> 00:23:30,600 Speaker 1: that without a team, I can't do everything that I do. 505 00:23:30,880 --> 00:23:35,120 Speaker 1: Everything that I all the balls that I juggle sounds weird, 506 00:23:35,200 --> 00:23:38,679 Speaker 1: All the balls that I juggle like, yeah, but all 507 00:23:38,720 --> 00:23:40,280 Speaker 1: the I guess I should say, all the hats that 508 00:23:40,359 --> 00:23:44,160 Speaker 1: I wear you like you like to juggle balls anyways, 509 00:23:45,800 --> 00:23:48,040 Speaker 1: all the hats that I wear, like on a daily basis, Like, 510 00:23:48,160 --> 00:23:50,960 Speaker 1: I am well aware that I cannot do it without 511 00:23:51,000 --> 00:23:52,720 Speaker 1: the team that I have and always a huge part 512 00:23:52,760 --> 00:23:55,399 Speaker 1: of that. So I believe in always being grateful and 513 00:23:55,440 --> 00:23:58,920 Speaker 1: always giving back and sharing the blessings God has given 514 00:23:58,960 --> 00:24:01,159 Speaker 1: me with the people around me. And her being one 515 00:24:01,200 --> 00:24:09,960 Speaker 1: of them. Of course, is there something like super crazy 516 00:24:10,040 --> 00:24:12,040 Speaker 1: that comes to mind that you feel that I've made 517 00:24:12,080 --> 00:24:18,440 Speaker 1: you do, or that you've had to do or whatever. Besides, yeah, 518 00:24:21,040 --> 00:24:23,359 Speaker 1: computer is gonna die. What do I do? Oh? Sho, 519 00:24:23,560 --> 00:24:27,000 Speaker 1: let me the charger. It's five seconds. Hold on, see 520 00:24:27,040 --> 00:24:31,800 Speaker 1: there she goes. Alright, So I think we can both 521 00:24:31,800 --> 00:24:33,440 Speaker 1: agree that the craziest thing you've ever had to do 522 00:24:33,560 --> 00:24:35,320 Speaker 1: is white my butt, right, white my ass when I 523 00:24:35,359 --> 00:24:40,639 Speaker 1: had surgery? Or is there anything else? Yeah, craziest, I 524 00:24:40,760 --> 00:24:44,440 Speaker 1: think so. Yeah. I mean that's probably the crazy in this. 525 00:24:45,160 --> 00:24:48,680 Speaker 1: It's not that crazy when um, you really wanted to 526 00:24:48,760 --> 00:24:53,760 Speaker 1: Saturday Corona and that I worked that day and I 527 00:24:53,920 --> 00:24:56,199 Speaker 1: was at home, which back then I lived in Carson. 528 00:24:57,080 --> 00:25:00,520 Speaker 1: I lived in Carson. That sounds cool to say. I 529 00:25:00,600 --> 00:25:02,720 Speaker 1: had a drive to Corona to get her the salad, 530 00:25:02,800 --> 00:25:04,080 Speaker 1: and she didn't want me to drive all the way 531 00:25:04,080 --> 00:25:06,240 Speaker 1: to her house, so she had me put the salad 532 00:25:06,280 --> 00:25:10,280 Speaker 1: in the uber, and the salad cost two for the uber. 533 00:25:11,000 --> 00:25:14,879 Speaker 1: And the salad was only like yes, because it was 534 00:25:14,960 --> 00:25:17,240 Speaker 1: I was craving the damn salad from like where I 535 00:25:17,320 --> 00:25:19,760 Speaker 1: where I used to work, the place that I used 536 00:25:19,760 --> 00:25:23,399 Speaker 1: to work out in Corona. I freaking want the salad. 537 00:25:23,400 --> 00:25:26,240 Speaker 1: Oh my god, it sounds so good. Oh my goodness. Anyway, 538 00:25:26,320 --> 00:25:28,480 Speaker 1: so I was like, please hold me, I wanted, I wanted. 539 00:25:28,560 --> 00:25:31,080 Speaker 1: She went over there and then also, dude, she's been 540 00:25:31,119 --> 00:25:35,440 Speaker 1: there through a lot of crazy shit. This one time 541 00:25:35,680 --> 00:25:38,040 Speaker 1: something I didn't talk about in my book, but um 542 00:25:38,160 --> 00:25:43,040 Speaker 1: with my ex his you know, I shouldn't say his name. Anyways, 543 00:25:43,040 --> 00:25:46,280 Speaker 1: but we had like a little situation and she was 544 00:25:46,320 --> 00:25:47,840 Speaker 1: in the middle of it, trying to get me away 545 00:25:47,880 --> 00:25:50,520 Speaker 1: from it, and it was crazy. She even I think 546 00:25:50,560 --> 00:25:54,280 Speaker 1: got ruffled up a little bit her in the middle 547 00:25:54,320 --> 00:25:57,520 Speaker 1: of the whole situation. Huh. Yeah, it's been a lot anyways, 548 00:25:57,560 --> 00:26:00,560 Speaker 1: let's just leave that for another day. Okay, me, I 549 00:26:00,680 --> 00:26:03,159 Speaker 1: was going to ask you what you like about me 550 00:26:03,440 --> 00:26:06,359 Speaker 1: and not so much. Okay, Well I'm gonna start. I'm 551 00:26:06,359 --> 00:26:09,400 Speaker 1: gonna start first, Okay. So what I love about Amen 552 00:26:09,800 --> 00:26:12,719 Speaker 1: is that she's always down, that I know that if 553 00:26:12,760 --> 00:26:14,719 Speaker 1: I need her at whatever time, if I need her 554 00:26:14,760 --> 00:26:16,920 Speaker 1: to take a craziest trip to Arizona just to go 555 00:26:17,040 --> 00:26:19,960 Speaker 1: take something and then come back like she would like. 556 00:26:20,119 --> 00:26:22,639 Speaker 1: She's done some things that I'll never forget, like driving Buncho. 557 00:26:22,800 --> 00:26:24,479 Speaker 1: Buncho is my dog. For those of you that may 558 00:26:24,520 --> 00:26:28,560 Speaker 1: not know, Buncho is my baby boy. He is a 559 00:26:28,640 --> 00:26:31,320 Speaker 1: little over a year now. He's an old English sheep dog. 560 00:26:31,680 --> 00:26:34,000 Speaker 1: You guys can follow him on his Instagram. What's his instagram? 561 00:26:34,040 --> 00:26:39,080 Speaker 1: Mommy King Pancho. Yes, King Banto Matin. So one time 562 00:26:39,400 --> 00:26:41,639 Speaker 1: I had to do a photo shoot or something like that, 563 00:26:42,080 --> 00:26:46,439 Speaker 1: and yes, I asked her to drive him to San Jose. Well, 564 00:26:46,480 --> 00:26:48,320 Speaker 1: actually she offered. She's like, well, what do we do. 565 00:26:48,480 --> 00:26:49,760 Speaker 1: She's like, you know what, I'll just drive him. So 566 00:26:49,840 --> 00:26:52,399 Speaker 1: she drove him left in the morning, drove him all 567 00:26:52,440 --> 00:26:54,159 Speaker 1: the way to San Jose because he had to go 568 00:26:54,240 --> 00:26:56,040 Speaker 1: to his good boy camp because he was a bad 569 00:26:56,119 --> 00:26:58,040 Speaker 1: boy for a while. He still is kind of like 570 00:26:58,080 --> 00:26:59,720 Speaker 1: a bad boy, but anyway, so I sent him to 571 00:26:59,800 --> 00:27:02,320 Speaker 1: drain camp and Omi took him, okay into San Jose 572 00:27:02,480 --> 00:27:05,000 Speaker 1: all in one day. She drove him and then she 573 00:27:05,119 --> 00:27:07,480 Speaker 1: came all the way back. Call me, yeah, I drove 574 00:27:07,600 --> 00:27:09,560 Speaker 1: him and then I flew back and then I went 575 00:27:09,640 --> 00:27:12,159 Speaker 1: straight to your shoe. Yep. But she can stayed to 576 00:27:12,240 --> 00:27:14,280 Speaker 1: my shoot, dude. So I'm telling you that's one of 577 00:27:14,359 --> 00:27:16,880 Speaker 1: the main things, or probably one of my favorite things, 578 00:27:16,920 --> 00:27:18,560 Speaker 1: is that I feel like I can count on her 579 00:27:18,760 --> 00:27:22,280 Speaker 1: for anything, to be honest. So and one besides her 580 00:27:22,359 --> 00:27:25,840 Speaker 1: kind heart, she's very giving. She is a very like 581 00:27:25,960 --> 00:27:27,920 Speaker 1: honestly she I could say she's she's a good friend. 582 00:27:28,480 --> 00:27:31,080 Speaker 1: So those are kind of like my favorite things about 583 00:27:31,080 --> 00:27:33,840 Speaker 1: on me. And then one of my least favorite things, 584 00:27:34,520 --> 00:27:38,159 Speaker 1: oh um, maybe that she's forgetful. She kind of forgets. 585 00:27:39,760 --> 00:27:42,200 Speaker 1: She's kind of forgetful, right only? Or no, yeah, I 586 00:27:42,240 --> 00:27:48,080 Speaker 1: know it's true. And yeah, she's getting a lot better. 587 00:27:48,520 --> 00:27:50,080 Speaker 1: And I tell her, only make sure you don't forget. 588 00:27:50,280 --> 00:27:52,879 Speaker 1: Make sure you write it down because I'm not gonna lie. Guys. 589 00:27:53,080 --> 00:27:54,840 Speaker 1: I will send a voice note with like ten different 590 00:27:54,880 --> 00:27:56,760 Speaker 1: things that need to be done and I'm like, okay, 591 00:27:56,920 --> 00:27:58,960 Speaker 1: make sure you write it down. Yeah, twenty things it 592 00:27:59,000 --> 00:28:00,919 Speaker 1: is because that's stuff with me, squirela guys, Like that's 593 00:28:00,960 --> 00:28:02,399 Speaker 1: how I learned. My IM was like, okay, this, this 594 00:28:02,520 --> 00:28:05,520 Speaker 1: isn't that, and it's all about organizing yourself. And she 595 00:28:05,760 --> 00:28:08,119 Speaker 1: has really been good at learning that. Okay, O me, 596 00:28:08,160 --> 00:28:11,240 Speaker 1: it's your turn. What is your favorite thing at least 597 00:28:11,280 --> 00:28:15,160 Speaker 1: everything about working with me or about me? Okay, let's see, 598 00:28:16,040 --> 00:28:19,359 Speaker 1: my favorite thing about working with you is that I 599 00:28:19,440 --> 00:28:22,000 Speaker 1: guess that work doesn't seem like work. Sometimes, you know, 600 00:28:22,359 --> 00:28:25,720 Speaker 1: it's like fun. I feel like it's like, yeah, it's 601 00:28:25,760 --> 00:28:28,399 Speaker 1: like fun. It's something i'd like to do. I like 602 00:28:28,560 --> 00:28:32,240 Speaker 1: the fact that every day or something new either, if 603 00:28:32,280 --> 00:28:35,320 Speaker 1: it's something that I can use towards my life. Nice, 604 00:28:35,720 --> 00:28:37,760 Speaker 1: you know, being around you, Like, I think that's something 605 00:28:37,880 --> 00:28:41,360 Speaker 1: I like. I love that. Okay, And the least favorite thing, 606 00:28:42,240 --> 00:28:48,080 Speaker 1: least favorite thing I'm seeing. Oh, Johnny right, Johnny's right here. 607 00:28:48,080 --> 00:28:50,760 Speaker 1: He's like, it used to be me. Yeah, it used 608 00:28:50,800 --> 00:28:55,760 Speaker 1: to be Johnny. Johnny. Johnny was a nightmare. He was 609 00:28:56,040 --> 00:28:57,840 Speaker 1: he was the only what do you call it, the 610 00:28:57,920 --> 00:28:59,840 Speaker 1: only bumping the road I had to get over and 611 00:29:00,040 --> 00:29:02,400 Speaker 1: finally I got over it. And now she makes them. 612 00:29:02,440 --> 00:29:06,560 Speaker 1: She likes Johnny. Johnny's right here. He's saying he doesn't 613 00:29:06,560 --> 00:29:08,880 Speaker 1: know who got it worse, her or Julie. My Mom's 614 00:29:08,920 --> 00:29:12,000 Speaker 1: assisted with me. He knew not to play with me. 615 00:29:12,440 --> 00:29:17,520 Speaker 1: But oh my god. Yeah, okay, but okay, my least 616 00:29:17,560 --> 00:29:21,640 Speaker 1: favorite thing. And I want to know. That's what I'm 617 00:29:21,640 --> 00:29:25,440 Speaker 1: trying to think about it. Um, let me think besides 618 00:29:25,440 --> 00:29:27,440 Speaker 1: the many tasks that I give you all in one voice, note, 619 00:29:27,520 --> 00:29:29,760 Speaker 1: I think, because no, that's not that's not that's not 620 00:29:29,880 --> 00:29:33,000 Speaker 1: something I don't like about you. Um that I could 621 00:29:33,000 --> 00:29:37,560 Speaker 1: be moody. Yeah, maybe maybe that, but then I don't. 622 00:29:37,920 --> 00:29:39,680 Speaker 1: It's because I don't. I wouldn't say it is my 623 00:29:39,760 --> 00:29:44,520 Speaker 1: least favorite thing because like, yeah, sometimes you do get moody, 624 00:29:44,560 --> 00:29:46,760 Speaker 1: but then like it's not your fault because I know 625 00:29:46,840 --> 00:29:49,400 Speaker 1: there's something going I know why you're moody, you know 626 00:29:49,440 --> 00:29:51,440 Speaker 1: what I mean. I'm not just moody like to be moody. 627 00:29:51,600 --> 00:29:54,320 Speaker 1: There's a reason. Yeah, But then I know, like at 628 00:29:54,320 --> 00:29:56,280 Speaker 1: the end of the day, like I'm always with you, 629 00:29:56,440 --> 00:29:58,800 Speaker 1: so if you're gonna be moody, like I have to 630 00:29:58,840 --> 00:30:01,760 Speaker 1: take it, you know what I mean. And I sometimes 631 00:30:01,760 --> 00:30:02,960 Speaker 1: like I apologie. I'm like, you know what, I'm in 632 00:30:02,960 --> 00:30:05,160 Speaker 1: a bando today. Just everyone know, like there's a lot 633 00:30:05,200 --> 00:30:07,120 Speaker 1: going on, I'm stressed out. I'll kind of let it 634 00:30:07,200 --> 00:30:09,200 Speaker 1: be known. And then sometimes like she'll have them like, 635 00:30:09,240 --> 00:30:11,560 Speaker 1: oh me, what's wrong with you today? And it's funny 636 00:30:11,560 --> 00:30:13,640 Speaker 1: because she always knows something's wrong with me and be like, no, 637 00:30:13,720 --> 00:30:17,160 Speaker 1: nothing's wrong with me. Oh yeah, it's annoying. I know. 638 00:30:18,120 --> 00:30:20,320 Speaker 1: But I guess that's probably the least favorite thing. But 639 00:30:20,480 --> 00:30:22,760 Speaker 1: like I said, it's I can't think of it. I'm 640 00:30:22,800 --> 00:30:24,800 Speaker 1: not to think of it now. Yeah, I think of 641 00:30:24,880 --> 00:30:27,040 Speaker 1: it and then um then let us know, you know 642 00:30:27,080 --> 00:30:31,400 Speaker 1: what I mean, because it's gonna come after. But you 643 00:30:31,480 --> 00:30:33,400 Speaker 1: know what I mean, I really appreciate it because today 644 00:30:33,440 --> 00:30:36,640 Speaker 1: it's it's crazy. Like sometimes I'm like, Okay, She'll be like, 645 00:30:37,080 --> 00:30:38,160 Speaker 1: can I give you a hug? I feel like you 646 00:30:38,200 --> 00:30:39,440 Speaker 1: need a hug today, and she'll give me a hug. 647 00:30:39,520 --> 00:30:41,720 Speaker 1: That's one of my favorite things are hugs. And today 648 00:30:41,760 --> 00:30:43,400 Speaker 1: I was like, oh me, I think you need a hug. 649 00:30:43,560 --> 00:30:45,160 Speaker 1: And I gave her a hug and she's like, you 650 00:30:45,200 --> 00:30:46,760 Speaker 1: know what, I feel like you need one. I was like, well, 651 00:30:46,840 --> 00:30:50,440 Speaker 1: let's just hug. So we hug. Sometimes we hug and 652 00:30:50,520 --> 00:30:52,560 Speaker 1: I tell her don't tap me and just hold me. 653 00:30:52,720 --> 00:30:54,160 Speaker 1: I don't like to be tapped when im being hugged. 654 00:30:54,160 --> 00:30:55,880 Speaker 1: And he's like okay, yea, yeah, you know, you know, 655 00:30:55,960 --> 00:30:59,040 Speaker 1: tapping my my back. But anyways, it's been a beautiful 656 00:30:59,080 --> 00:31:02,840 Speaker 1: journey guys, the good, the bad, and you know, it's 657 00:31:02,880 --> 00:31:04,840 Speaker 1: all part of life. We have learned from each other 658 00:31:05,320 --> 00:31:07,680 Speaker 1: and it's been great. So oh me, I want to 659 00:31:07,720 --> 00:31:10,400 Speaker 1: say thank you so much for being on the podcast. 660 00:31:11,160 --> 00:31:14,240 Speaker 1: I appreciate you and thank you for sharing your story 661 00:31:14,320 --> 00:31:16,760 Speaker 1: with us, you know here on the Cheeks and Chill podcast. 662 00:31:17,320 --> 00:31:20,040 Speaker 1: Thank you for being an amazing assistant. You know sometimes 663 00:31:20,640 --> 00:31:22,000 Speaker 1: you know, I think we want to pull each other's hair, 664 00:31:22,040 --> 00:31:26,400 Speaker 1: but it's normal, right, yeah, yeah, it's normal. And thank 665 00:31:26,440 --> 00:31:28,280 Speaker 1: you for being a great friend. Thank you know, I 666 00:31:28,440 --> 00:31:31,840 Speaker 1: honestly I want it's I think the podcast was great 667 00:31:31,880 --> 00:31:34,120 Speaker 1: because you don't know how many times I get answer 668 00:31:34,320 --> 00:31:37,080 Speaker 1: that question, especially when I do a little questions on Instagram, 669 00:31:37,280 --> 00:31:39,560 Speaker 1: how did you meet Cheeks? Like all the time they 670 00:31:39,600 --> 00:31:41,960 Speaker 1: always asked me. So I think this is perfect because 671 00:31:42,080 --> 00:31:44,280 Speaker 1: everyone always wants to know, like the story of how 672 00:31:44,360 --> 00:31:45,960 Speaker 1: I started working with you and how I met you 673 00:31:46,000 --> 00:31:48,040 Speaker 1: and all that. So I think this is going to 674 00:31:48,160 --> 00:31:50,440 Speaker 1: help you know all the people that always ask. But 675 00:31:50,640 --> 00:31:52,120 Speaker 1: I also want to say thank you to you and 676 00:31:52,240 --> 00:31:54,640 Speaker 1: to everybody behind the podcast that I know you guys 677 00:31:54,680 --> 00:31:59,360 Speaker 1: putting your hard work, like Brianna and Baby, because just 678 00:31:59,440 --> 00:32:02,160 Speaker 1: so know everybody that puts in, you know, their little 679 00:32:02,240 --> 00:32:06,040 Speaker 1: piece to make this podcast happen. That is helping millions 680 00:32:06,040 --> 00:32:08,360 Speaker 1: of people around the world. I know it does because 681 00:32:08,400 --> 00:32:12,000 Speaker 1: I get emails. For example, people don't think that what 682 00:32:12,160 --> 00:32:13,800 Speaker 1: they go through that she might go through, and then 683 00:32:13,840 --> 00:32:16,000 Speaker 1: they hear her podcasts are like, oh wow, like she 684 00:32:16,160 --> 00:32:18,080 Speaker 1: goes through this too. So you know I'm not the 685 00:32:18,120 --> 00:32:20,720 Speaker 1: only one. It's an honor to be part of here 686 00:32:20,800 --> 00:32:24,040 Speaker 1: and be working for you. I always told you, like, 687 00:32:24,200 --> 00:32:26,000 Speaker 1: I wouldn't do it for any other person, even though 688 00:32:26,040 --> 00:32:28,040 Speaker 1: you think if Carol you would ask me. I was senious. 689 00:32:29,160 --> 00:32:34,960 Speaker 1: You know she is obsessed with Carol, you guys. So 690 00:32:35,040 --> 00:32:38,400 Speaker 1: I was like, I see Carol, but it's whatever. I 691 00:32:38,480 --> 00:32:41,240 Speaker 1: want her to be happy regardless. So we're always yeah, 692 00:32:41,440 --> 00:32:44,600 Speaker 1: but no, like honestly, like Janette always told you, like, 693 00:32:44,760 --> 00:32:47,360 Speaker 1: you're a great person. You have a great heart. I've 694 00:32:47,440 --> 00:32:50,320 Speaker 1: seen from the bottom of your career, how it started, 695 00:32:50,440 --> 00:32:52,680 Speaker 1: and everything you've gone through, the many times you doubt 696 00:32:52,720 --> 00:32:56,400 Speaker 1: it yourself, the million times or two billions that you said, 697 00:32:56,760 --> 00:32:58,560 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna sing anymore. I'm not gonna do this 698 00:32:58,640 --> 00:33:00,680 Speaker 1: no more. I'm gonna go back to in a salon. 699 00:33:01,440 --> 00:33:03,600 Speaker 1: I think it happens at least once a month all 700 00:33:03,640 --> 00:33:09,480 Speaker 1: the time, and I'm like, oh, her parents around the corner. Yeah, hey, guys, 701 00:33:09,520 --> 00:33:11,280 Speaker 1: I'm a cancer. What can I tell you? I'm emotional, 702 00:33:12,000 --> 00:33:14,320 Speaker 1: but you know what, I think you're here to change 703 00:33:14,320 --> 00:33:17,680 Speaker 1: a lot of people's lives, and you know, I admire you, 704 00:33:18,120 --> 00:33:20,560 Speaker 1: I love you, and I just want to say thank 705 00:33:20,600 --> 00:33:23,320 Speaker 1: you for everything you've done for me, for allowing me 706 00:33:23,440 --> 00:33:25,920 Speaker 1: to be here in your life to help you. You've 707 00:33:26,040 --> 00:33:27,920 Speaker 1: you've helped me so much in this past year that 708 00:33:28,000 --> 00:33:35,520 Speaker 1: my mom passed away. Oh my Omi, of course, what 709 00:33:35,600 --> 00:33:37,680 Speaker 1: do I always tell you? God allowed me to go 710 00:33:38,320 --> 00:33:42,000 Speaker 1: through it first, I can help you through it. Sorry, Okay, 711 00:33:42,640 --> 00:33:45,320 Speaker 1: it's okay, you're gonna make me cry, no, but yeah, 712 00:33:45,680 --> 00:33:48,280 Speaker 1: I'm grateful to have you and you know that you 713 00:33:48,360 --> 00:33:51,960 Speaker 1: helped me along that part of my life and still 714 00:33:52,000 --> 00:33:55,440 Speaker 1: to this day, like sorry, I don't even I don't 715 00:33:55,440 --> 00:33:57,480 Speaker 1: want to, I don't know what I'm okay, it's okay, 716 00:33:57,880 --> 00:34:01,160 Speaker 1: like I was saying, till today's still to this day, 717 00:34:01,240 --> 00:34:05,400 Speaker 1: like you've had patience with me and and yeah, I 718 00:34:05,520 --> 00:34:07,960 Speaker 1: want to cry no more, but yeah, I just thank you. 719 00:34:08,120 --> 00:34:10,920 Speaker 1: Thank you for attill of course, of course if the 720 00:34:11,040 --> 00:34:14,480 Speaker 1: feeling is mutual, and you know I love you and 721 00:34:14,760 --> 00:34:17,480 Speaker 1: cheers too many many more years to come, And thank 722 00:34:17,520 --> 00:34:19,719 Speaker 1: you for being on the podcast for real and inspiring 723 00:34:19,760 --> 00:34:23,040 Speaker 1: other people because I'm sure I've get it a lot 724 00:34:23,080 --> 00:34:25,080 Speaker 1: actually at autograph signings are like, I want to work 725 00:34:25,120 --> 00:34:27,799 Speaker 1: for you chickies, how do I do it? And hey, 726 00:34:27,880 --> 00:34:31,560 Speaker 1: you never know, maybe the next Carol g assistant or 727 00:34:32,120 --> 00:34:34,560 Speaker 1: I don't know is listening to the podcast and they're 728 00:34:34,600 --> 00:34:37,360 Speaker 1: going to get inspired by you. So thank you. And 729 00:34:37,719 --> 00:34:40,480 Speaker 1: with that, we are going to close out today's episode 730 00:34:40,680 --> 00:34:43,800 Speaker 1: with our usual motivational quote, which I want to do 731 00:34:43,840 --> 00:34:45,600 Speaker 1: a little different. I want oh Me to share a 732 00:34:45,680 --> 00:34:48,360 Speaker 1: motivational quote with us. So do you have one? I 733 00:34:48,520 --> 00:34:50,759 Speaker 1: do I have two? Can I read too? Yes? Oh 734 00:34:50,800 --> 00:34:53,719 Speaker 1: my Godeah. Of course. The first one says, a leader 735 00:34:53,760 --> 00:34:56,279 Speaker 1: takes people where they want to go. A great leader 736 00:34:56,680 --> 00:34:59,239 Speaker 1: takes people where they don't necessarily want to go, but 737 00:34:59,360 --> 00:35:03,440 Speaker 1: out to be. Oh I love it nice. You do 738 00:35:03,600 --> 00:35:05,800 Speaker 1: that to a lot of people in their lives. And 739 00:35:06,000 --> 00:35:08,600 Speaker 1: the second one is not many people have the privileged 740 00:35:08,719 --> 00:35:11,719 Speaker 1: work under someone as caring and understanding as you and 741 00:35:11,880 --> 00:35:14,360 Speaker 1: grateful for that. And if I had to pick a 742 00:35:14,440 --> 00:35:16,600 Speaker 1: boss again, I'll definitely pick you. Is that really a 743 00:35:16,680 --> 00:35:19,440 Speaker 1: cool or does it really? Yeah? I think that's cute. 744 00:35:19,760 --> 00:35:24,200 Speaker 1: Thank you? Thank you, oh Me? Oh I love you. 745 00:35:24,960 --> 00:35:28,800 Speaker 1: I love you too, And to all of you listening, 746 00:35:28,880 --> 00:35:35,840 Speaker 1: thank you. You're listening you guys every Monday, and I 747 00:35:35,920 --> 00:35:39,520 Speaker 1: hope you guys have an amazing week. Kick ass and yeah, 748 00:35:39,520 --> 00:35:48,440 Speaker 1: I see you here next week. Bye bye not. This 749 00:35:48,640 --> 00:35:52,400 Speaker 1: is a production of My Heart Radio and mil podcast Network. 750 00:35:52,560 --> 00:35:56,560 Speaker 1: Follow us on Instagram at michel Podcasts and follow me 751 00:35:56,800 --> 00:35:59,880 Speaker 1: chick ees That's c h i q u i s. 752 00:36:00,320 --> 00:36:03,920 Speaker 1: For more podcasts from I Heart, visit the I Heart 753 00:36:04,080 --> 00:36:07,040 Speaker 1: Radio app, Apple podcast, or wherever you listen to your 754 00:36:07,040 --> 00:36:14,360 Speaker 1: favorite shows. H