1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:13,760 Speaker 1: The nikast Nicky. Hey here, I am day two of 2 00:00:14,120 --> 00:00:17,520 Speaker 1: whatever week this is of the show. It's Tuesday, Day 3 00:00:17,520 --> 00:00:20,880 Speaker 1: two of Tuloom. Dave. Yeah three, I don't know. We 4 00:00:20,920 --> 00:00:24,079 Speaker 1: got here on Sunday. It's Tuesday. If you heard the 5 00:00:24,079 --> 00:00:27,760 Speaker 1: podcast yesterday. Um, by the way, hello besties. Um that's 6 00:00:27,760 --> 00:00:29,280 Speaker 1: what I call people who listen to the show. If 7 00:00:29,280 --> 00:00:30,800 Speaker 1: you didn't know, because I talked to you, like my 8 00:00:30,840 --> 00:00:34,800 Speaker 1: best friends and uh yeah, So I'm into Loom Mexico 9 00:00:35,440 --> 00:00:38,920 Speaker 1: with um a bunch of girls from my um my 10 00:00:39,040 --> 00:00:43,600 Speaker 1: best all the women from my best and um, the 11 00:00:43,640 --> 00:00:46,279 Speaker 1: resort was not what I thought it was gonna be. 12 00:00:46,600 --> 00:00:48,280 Speaker 1: Um I said it was going to lean into it. 13 00:00:48,280 --> 00:00:53,360 Speaker 1: It's more spiritual, it's more rustic, um it. Uh yeah, 14 00:00:53,400 --> 00:00:55,760 Speaker 1: it's and I did today. I woke up in bed 15 00:00:55,840 --> 00:00:59,960 Speaker 1: and I go, all right, well, there's certain things about 16 00:01:00,000 --> 00:01:02,160 Speaker 1: out like I woke up kind of like you're in it, 17 00:01:02,240 --> 00:01:06,480 Speaker 1: like you don't fight this anymore. I imagine. I hate 18 00:01:06,480 --> 00:01:09,200 Speaker 1: to make this comparison, but and I'm not going to, 19 00:01:09,319 --> 00:01:11,240 Speaker 1: but maybe some of you can go there before I 20 00:01:11,280 --> 00:01:13,399 Speaker 1: went there, that at some point you just stopped fighting 21 00:01:13,440 --> 00:01:17,600 Speaker 1: and you just take it. Uh. And no, I don't 22 00:01:17,600 --> 00:01:19,600 Speaker 1: want to convert it to that horrible thing. But what 23 00:01:19,680 --> 00:01:23,520 Speaker 1: I will say is that I, um, yeah, I just 24 00:01:24,200 --> 00:01:27,080 Speaker 1: I resist at first for anything. I get scared, I 25 00:01:27,120 --> 00:01:30,520 Speaker 1: get mad, I get like before I left for this trip, 26 00:01:30,600 --> 00:01:33,120 Speaker 1: I was like in a weird zone with money of 27 00:01:33,200 --> 00:01:35,560 Speaker 1: being like I've been spending too much, not enough coming 28 00:01:35,640 --> 00:01:39,240 Speaker 1: in suddenly like in my mind I'm poor and like 29 00:01:39,760 --> 00:01:41,880 Speaker 1: just all these things that are based on no information 30 00:01:41,920 --> 00:01:44,760 Speaker 1: because I don't look at my money. I don't I 31 00:01:44,800 --> 00:01:47,360 Speaker 1: didn't google this place, like I like to keep myself 32 00:01:47,800 --> 00:01:51,840 Speaker 1: ignorant because if I think I have a problem, I 33 00:01:51,880 --> 00:01:55,120 Speaker 1: have a real problem looking at the future. Last night, 34 00:01:55,160 --> 00:01:56,840 Speaker 1: we were going to a place for dinner and Kirsten 35 00:01:56,920 --> 00:01:58,440 Speaker 1: wanted to look at the menu before and I was like, 36 00:01:58,480 --> 00:02:01,440 Speaker 1: don't tell me, because I don't if I don't like it, 37 00:02:01,480 --> 00:02:04,040 Speaker 1: I don't want to start not liking it now or 38 00:02:04,080 --> 00:02:06,840 Speaker 1: I don't want I just don't want to know the 39 00:02:06,880 --> 00:02:11,000 Speaker 1: future ever, and I'd rather just wing it and then 40 00:02:11,040 --> 00:02:13,359 Speaker 1: be able to be upset because I didn't know, as 41 00:02:13,360 --> 00:02:16,400 Speaker 1: opposed to I did know. And this happened to me 42 00:02:16,480 --> 00:02:19,200 Speaker 1: there must be something there of like I can't handle 43 00:02:19,560 --> 00:02:22,000 Speaker 1: being upset when I signed on for something so I'd 44 00:02:22,080 --> 00:02:24,480 Speaker 1: rather not sign on for it and be ignorant so 45 00:02:24,520 --> 00:02:25,840 Speaker 1: that when I get upset, I can be like, it's 46 00:02:25,840 --> 00:02:28,880 Speaker 1: because I was stupid. It's because I didn't look. You know. 47 00:02:28,960 --> 00:02:31,040 Speaker 1: It's like the thing of like, don't study for the 48 00:02:31,080 --> 00:02:35,000 Speaker 1: test and then you get a bad grade, and then 49 00:02:35,040 --> 00:02:36,760 Speaker 1: you go, oh, it's because I didn't study, as opposed 50 00:02:36,760 --> 00:02:39,080 Speaker 1: to studying and then getting a bad grade and being like, oh, 51 00:02:39,120 --> 00:02:43,960 Speaker 1: I'm just dumb. I guess you know, um, But I 52 00:02:44,000 --> 00:02:46,959 Speaker 1: feel good. I am learning a lot about myself. I 53 00:02:47,000 --> 00:02:52,799 Speaker 1: am confronting, um, a lot of character defects that are 54 00:02:53,200 --> 00:02:55,120 Speaker 1: just a part of who I am. It's not because 55 00:02:55,120 --> 00:02:59,080 Speaker 1: I'm a bad person, but I am reverting back to 56 00:03:00,360 --> 00:03:03,320 Speaker 1: I can be a bully, as you guys know sometimes 57 00:03:03,440 --> 00:03:07,440 Speaker 1: and like think I'm right and I want to predict. 58 00:03:07,480 --> 00:03:08,960 Speaker 1: It's funny. I don't want to know the future. But 59 00:03:09,080 --> 00:03:14,480 Speaker 1: I constantly a mitigating for uh, other other people's experience, 60 00:03:14,480 --> 00:03:16,680 Speaker 1: worrying about like, oh, she needs to order Wait did 61 00:03:16,680 --> 00:03:19,000 Speaker 1: you get your coffee? Wait a second, do you understand 62 00:03:19,000 --> 00:03:21,280 Speaker 1: this story? Because you do? You know what? Like you know, 63 00:03:21,320 --> 00:03:25,880 Speaker 1: for instance, my friend Kirsten will U be talking about 64 00:03:26,000 --> 00:03:27,800 Speaker 1: we all know she's a trainer. But she'll talk about 65 00:03:27,840 --> 00:03:29,920 Speaker 1: something and she's like the other day at Woodside, I 66 00:03:29,960 --> 00:03:31,720 Speaker 1: did this thing, and like it'll be a thing that's 67 00:03:31,720 --> 00:03:33,200 Speaker 1: not related to work. She'll be like, I heard this 68 00:03:33,200 --> 00:03:35,400 Speaker 1: guy talking about I'm like, and I know that no 69 00:03:35,440 --> 00:03:37,280 Speaker 1: one knows what Woodside is because they don't live in 70 00:03:37,360 --> 00:03:40,080 Speaker 1: Kansas City and go to her, and like aren't personal 71 00:03:40,080 --> 00:03:42,520 Speaker 1: friends with her as close as I am. So I'll 72 00:03:42,520 --> 00:03:44,920 Speaker 1: just go guys Woodside is where she works, are like 73 00:03:44,960 --> 00:03:47,040 Speaker 1: fill little details in so that everyone's on board with 74 00:03:47,080 --> 00:03:49,000 Speaker 1: the story. And last night I was talking to know 75 00:03:49,040 --> 00:03:53,440 Speaker 1: about this and because we had an incident yesterday and 76 00:03:53,480 --> 00:03:55,200 Speaker 1: not an incident, but I was a bad friend to 77 00:03:55,320 --> 00:03:58,280 Speaker 1: my friend Carlile, who doesn't only knows Noah out of 78 00:03:58,320 --> 00:04:00,800 Speaker 1: this group really and Kursten a little bit. But Carlyle 79 00:04:01,040 --> 00:04:06,240 Speaker 1: is like new to Girls Trips, and uh, I want 80 00:04:06,240 --> 00:04:08,240 Speaker 1: to have around the show. She's so freaking funny, Carlyle 81 00:04:08,320 --> 00:04:12,080 Speaker 1: Forrester and it's just you know she yesterday I snapped 82 00:04:12,080 --> 00:04:14,320 Speaker 1: at her about something and it's about the same thing, 83 00:04:14,400 --> 00:04:17,520 Speaker 1: Like I really get irritated and this, and I told 84 00:04:17,520 --> 00:04:20,320 Speaker 1: her I was irritated because that's a thing that irritates 85 00:04:20,320 --> 00:04:22,280 Speaker 1: me and I'm going to be kinder when that bubbles up, 86 00:04:22,279 --> 00:04:23,840 Speaker 1: because that's something we're trying to figure out where it 87 00:04:23,920 --> 00:04:26,320 Speaker 1: came from, but we couldn't really get there. So Noah, 88 00:04:26,320 --> 00:04:27,960 Speaker 1: me and Carlyle had like a heart to heart last 89 00:04:28,040 --> 00:04:30,479 Speaker 1: night after all the other girls decided to go to 90 00:04:30,520 --> 00:04:34,760 Speaker 1: bed um. And it was so necessary because I had 91 00:04:34,760 --> 00:04:37,760 Speaker 1: noticed Carlyle was like quiet yesterday and sometimes, and she's 92 00:04:37,760 --> 00:04:39,719 Speaker 1: just not someone who's quiet. She has such funny things 93 00:04:39,760 --> 00:04:43,240 Speaker 1: to say. She's like, so I just and and I 94 00:04:43,279 --> 00:04:46,480 Speaker 1: know everyone's personal like darkest, deepest stories because they're all 95 00:04:46,480 --> 00:04:49,080 Speaker 1: my best friends, but I don't know if they want 96 00:04:49,120 --> 00:04:51,200 Speaker 1: to tell everyone else. But I know that these stories 97 00:04:51,240 --> 00:04:53,200 Speaker 1: will bring us all closer together and make each other 98 00:04:53,279 --> 00:04:55,520 Speaker 1: understand each other so that we're all a unit. But 99 00:04:55,600 --> 00:04:57,159 Speaker 1: I don't want to set someone up to tell a 100 00:04:57,200 --> 00:04:59,600 Speaker 1: story that they might not want to tell other people. 101 00:04:59,640 --> 00:05:02,560 Speaker 1: So it's very tricky. Um. So I was thinking, you 102 00:05:02,560 --> 00:05:04,560 Speaker 1: know what, carl is just being quiet because she's just 103 00:05:04,640 --> 00:05:06,480 Speaker 1: that's how she is in round groups. I guess I'm 104 00:05:06,480 --> 00:05:09,479 Speaker 1: not around her with new people. And then we got 105 00:05:09,520 --> 00:05:12,240 Speaker 1: back and got alone with me, Noah and Carlisle and 106 00:05:12,279 --> 00:05:16,080 Speaker 1: we were talking and like just sharing and late night 107 00:05:16,120 --> 00:05:21,120 Speaker 1: talks in our rustic hotel Carlo's Hotel room, and she 108 00:05:21,240 --> 00:05:22,800 Speaker 1: was saying, I mean, I should have her into the 109 00:05:22,800 --> 00:05:26,160 Speaker 1: podcast to say this, but she yesterday at the pool 110 00:05:26,200 --> 00:05:28,520 Speaker 1: we went to school and she was talking about a 111 00:05:28,520 --> 00:05:32,359 Speaker 1: comedian um and just referencing like, oh, this story I 112 00:05:32,360 --> 00:05:35,200 Speaker 1: heard about this comedian and to me, it's someone I 113 00:05:35,279 --> 00:05:39,440 Speaker 1: know because I'm in the comedy world. It's someone Carlile. I, oh, 114 00:05:39,640 --> 00:05:43,120 Speaker 1: I know what it is. Now, Carlyle, I don't like 115 00:05:43,200 --> 00:05:46,360 Speaker 1: carl I will put people on pedestals and think that 116 00:05:46,400 --> 00:05:50,920 Speaker 1: they're like when because because I do it. So it's 117 00:05:50,920 --> 00:05:53,360 Speaker 1: all going to that, Okay, So she references comedian who 118 00:05:53,560 --> 00:05:56,240 Speaker 1: is not a person that my friends would know. My 119 00:05:56,320 --> 00:05:59,200 Speaker 1: friends are savvy entertainment people, but like, this isn't a comedian. 120 00:05:59,240 --> 00:06:00,520 Speaker 1: If you're in the comedy world, of course you know 121 00:06:00,560 --> 00:06:06,000 Speaker 1: this person and maybe yeah, but they would never know him. 122 00:06:06,080 --> 00:06:08,440 Speaker 1: And Carlile said this person's name and then she goes, 123 00:06:08,480 --> 00:06:10,600 Speaker 1: you know the comedian blah blah blah, and I go, 124 00:06:11,279 --> 00:06:13,400 Speaker 1: no one would ever know who he is. It's just 125 00:06:13,440 --> 00:06:16,440 Speaker 1: like it made me mad because I'm like, why do 126 00:06:16,480 --> 00:06:18,640 Speaker 1: you think that person is famous enough to know, like 127 00:06:18,839 --> 00:06:21,640 Speaker 1: it made me mad because I think that she when 128 00:06:21,680 --> 00:06:25,000 Speaker 1: she idolizes me, I think if you're idolizing this person, 129 00:06:25,760 --> 00:06:28,719 Speaker 1: then your idolization of me, or you thinking I'm great 130 00:06:29,080 --> 00:06:32,760 Speaker 1: or like impressive means nothing. So it's selfish. It's like, 131 00:06:33,040 --> 00:06:35,880 Speaker 1: I want you to know that that person is not famous. 132 00:06:35,880 --> 00:06:38,480 Speaker 1: It's just a petty thing. And it also is an 133 00:06:38,480 --> 00:06:41,760 Speaker 1: extension of like I've had. You know, in my family, 134 00:06:41,880 --> 00:06:44,359 Speaker 1: we often make fun of people. It's been like a 135 00:06:44,400 --> 00:06:46,559 Speaker 1: thing that brings me and my parents and my sister 136 00:06:46,680 --> 00:06:50,120 Speaker 1: close together is making fun of people who do that. 137 00:06:50,240 --> 00:06:52,560 Speaker 1: You know, this person who obnoxiously does it because they 138 00:06:53,080 --> 00:06:55,640 Speaker 1: want to alienate people. Carlsle wasn't doing that. She literally 139 00:06:55,640 --> 00:06:59,800 Speaker 1: thought people knew this people. But when they go, um, 140 00:07:00,000 --> 00:07:02,479 Speaker 1: oh my gosh, you know, and she's taking the i 141 00:07:02,560 --> 00:07:05,279 Speaker 1: TV next week and we're really worried about the whether 142 00:07:05,320 --> 00:07:10,360 Speaker 1: she's going to pass the the uh you know, certificate program, 143 00:07:10,400 --> 00:07:13,720 Speaker 1: and it's just like, and you know, ZZ told her 144 00:07:13,760 --> 00:07:16,240 Speaker 1: that she's one of the best, and we're like, no 145 00:07:16,280 --> 00:07:19,000 Speaker 1: one knows what the i f C Like, your little 146 00:07:19,400 --> 00:07:22,480 Speaker 1: world is not everyone's world. How could you ever? It 147 00:07:22,600 --> 00:07:25,320 Speaker 1: just shows to me such a lack of empathy of 148 00:07:25,320 --> 00:07:29,480 Speaker 1: someone else's experience that you think they know. And comedians 149 00:07:29,520 --> 00:07:30,680 Speaker 1: do it all the time too. They do it to 150 00:07:30,720 --> 00:07:33,120 Speaker 1: a fault. My other pet peeve of comedians is like 151 00:07:34,040 --> 00:07:35,520 Speaker 1: a guy, I'll be on stage. You guys have all 152 00:07:35,520 --> 00:07:37,360 Speaker 1: seen this in stand up and you need to start 153 00:07:37,360 --> 00:07:39,680 Speaker 1: paying attention to it and rolling your eyes and going 154 00:07:39,680 --> 00:07:41,800 Speaker 1: to the bathroom. When it starts to happen, someone will 155 00:07:41,800 --> 00:07:44,520 Speaker 1: be like, performing this one doesn't happens much. I'm trying 156 00:07:44,520 --> 00:07:47,680 Speaker 1: to think of what um and a good example, but 157 00:07:47,680 --> 00:07:49,720 Speaker 1: it used to happen in the early days of Tinder. 158 00:07:50,000 --> 00:07:51,800 Speaker 1: They'd be like, they have a bit about Tinder and 159 00:07:51,800 --> 00:07:54,040 Speaker 1: they go, so, I'm on Tinder. You guys know what 160 00:07:54,080 --> 00:07:56,160 Speaker 1: Tinder is, right, it's this app where you go on. 161 00:07:56,240 --> 00:07:58,080 Speaker 1: It's like they tell everyone with the app is and 162 00:07:58,080 --> 00:08:01,080 Speaker 1: you go, this is not everyone knows and if they 163 00:08:01,120 --> 00:08:03,800 Speaker 1: don't know, they need to know. They need to feel 164 00:08:03,880 --> 00:08:05,800 Speaker 1: stupid right now that they don't know this. You don't 165 00:08:05,800 --> 00:08:09,520 Speaker 1: need to describe this. Really, it's just you're filling time 166 00:08:09,560 --> 00:08:11,280 Speaker 1: in your act because you don't have funny things to say, 167 00:08:11,320 --> 00:08:13,560 Speaker 1: so you're talking. Or Comedians also do the thing where 168 00:08:13,560 --> 00:08:17,040 Speaker 1: they go um, so they'll they'll end a story, they'll go, 169 00:08:17,320 --> 00:08:20,480 Speaker 1: and then we got there and the sign said dead end, 170 00:08:20,760 --> 00:08:23,080 Speaker 1: and everyone laughs, and they go, I'm gonna say that again. 171 00:08:23,600 --> 00:08:27,120 Speaker 1: The sign said a dead end, And it's just like 172 00:08:27,320 --> 00:08:29,760 Speaker 1: it's just a device to get more laughs out of 173 00:08:29,800 --> 00:08:33,320 Speaker 1: nothing new. And sometimes a repeated joke like that can 174 00:08:33,400 --> 00:08:37,840 Speaker 1: muster like hilarious nous. But generally that is a tool 175 00:08:37,880 --> 00:08:40,320 Speaker 1: that I hate people use. Or on the flip side, 176 00:08:40,880 --> 00:08:43,199 Speaker 1: I just don't like when people assume. I would love 177 00:08:43,200 --> 00:08:45,960 Speaker 1: you guys to send in examples of when people assume 178 00:08:46,000 --> 00:08:48,080 Speaker 1: you know what they're talking about with some bullshit that 179 00:08:48,200 --> 00:08:51,840 Speaker 1: is like only their life. Um. Sometimes comics do this. 180 00:08:52,400 --> 00:08:54,840 Speaker 1: You know, we'll be talking and I'm always aware of 181 00:08:54,840 --> 00:08:57,280 Speaker 1: everyone's experience because I don't want anyone to feel left out. 182 00:08:57,320 --> 00:08:59,839 Speaker 1: So like I'll always go like, um, a tag is 183 00:08:59,840 --> 00:09:01,360 Speaker 1: a part of a joke that you add on the 184 00:09:01,480 --> 00:09:04,679 Speaker 1: end after the punchline. So like when someone said they 185 00:09:04,679 --> 00:09:07,400 Speaker 1: wrote a tag. Um uh. The other day when when 186 00:09:07,440 --> 00:09:09,440 Speaker 1: Carlile said she was at the store that's the comedy store, 187 00:09:09,480 --> 00:09:12,520 Speaker 1: that's not Walgreens. That like, you know, like this jargon 188 00:09:12,600 --> 00:09:14,800 Speaker 1: we have and that's it's not that like a lack 189 00:09:14,840 --> 00:09:18,600 Speaker 1: of empathy and Carlo's part, I that was I was triggered. 190 00:09:18,720 --> 00:09:20,480 Speaker 1: Now I know. I was triggered because she thought this 191 00:09:20,480 --> 00:09:23,320 Speaker 1: person was famous enough for my friend Kursten to know. 192 00:09:23,800 --> 00:09:26,200 Speaker 1: And she also was talking to you. I thought she 193 00:09:26,240 --> 00:09:28,120 Speaker 1: was talking to Kursten and you do know this person 194 00:09:28,120 --> 00:09:31,280 Speaker 1: because you're in comedy. No, So that was another issue 195 00:09:31,320 --> 00:09:35,760 Speaker 1: of it was that I yeah, I got mad at 196 00:09:35,800 --> 00:09:38,400 Speaker 1: her not knowing the situation, and then she did not 197 00:09:38,600 --> 00:09:41,600 Speaker 1: stand up for herself, which she is all like, obviously 198 00:09:41,679 --> 00:09:43,719 Speaker 1: that makes sense. I'm paying for this trip for her. 199 00:09:43,960 --> 00:09:46,960 Speaker 1: She feels like she doesn't like she's maybe intimidated by 200 00:09:47,000 --> 00:09:50,520 Speaker 1: me sometimes because I like, there's a power dynamic in 201 00:09:50,559 --> 00:09:54,559 Speaker 1: our relationship that I am aware of and I can't 202 00:09:54,559 --> 00:09:56,679 Speaker 1: abuse that because I know this girl is not gonna 203 00:09:56,720 --> 00:09:58,960 Speaker 1: like I can bully her because she's not gonna yell 204 00:09:59,040 --> 00:10:00,840 Speaker 1: at me. But then last night she had like a 205 00:10:00,880 --> 00:10:04,480 Speaker 1: list of things that I had done, not a list, 206 00:10:04,480 --> 00:10:06,280 Speaker 1: but like three things. I didn't get to the third, 207 00:10:06,320 --> 00:10:08,599 Speaker 1: but um that and she shut down the rest of 208 00:10:08,640 --> 00:10:09,800 Speaker 1: the day. She was quite the rest of the day. 209 00:10:09,880 --> 00:10:11,480 Speaker 1: And the thing is when that happened, when I go, 210 00:10:11,679 --> 00:10:13,640 Speaker 1: no one knows who that is. Carlt like I did 211 00:10:13,640 --> 00:10:16,520 Speaker 1: that harsh voice is such a bitchy move because I 212 00:10:16,559 --> 00:10:19,440 Speaker 1: was probably hungry or worried about something else going on. 213 00:10:19,440 --> 00:10:21,560 Speaker 1: I was stressed out and I just lashed out of Carlisle. 214 00:10:21,960 --> 00:10:24,679 Speaker 1: She shut down, and I knew that it upset her, 215 00:10:24,800 --> 00:10:28,200 Speaker 1: like I was not I she thought that I didn't know. 216 00:10:28,360 --> 00:10:31,240 Speaker 1: I didn't know, but I didn't know. Her upset lasted 217 00:10:31,280 --> 00:10:33,440 Speaker 1: longer than thirty seconds, but it did. She had to 218 00:10:33,440 --> 00:10:35,160 Speaker 1: go back to her room after we'd done to the pool. 219 00:10:35,360 --> 00:10:36,920 Speaker 1: We walked back like an hour later. She had to 220 00:10:36,920 --> 00:10:39,199 Speaker 1: go back to her room and do like a meditation 221 00:10:39,280 --> 00:10:41,640 Speaker 1: to be like, it's not about me. Nikki was probably distressed, 222 00:10:41,640 --> 00:10:43,920 Speaker 1: and it's like I hate that I made someone have 223 00:10:44,040 --> 00:10:47,400 Speaker 1: to like go talk to themselves about it. And it 224 00:10:47,480 --> 00:10:51,280 Speaker 1: was really nice because I told her. And you know, 225 00:10:51,360 --> 00:10:54,640 Speaker 1: you can't tell people how to feel or how to 226 00:10:54,640 --> 00:10:56,720 Speaker 1: act in the future. But I and I've given Andrew 227 00:10:56,760 --> 00:10:59,679 Speaker 1: this too, because I Carly and Andrew very similar in 228 00:10:59,720 --> 00:11:05,160 Speaker 1: the sense that like I've given them job opportunities, I've 229 00:11:05,200 --> 00:11:08,440 Speaker 1: given them career opportunities just because I believe in them 230 00:11:08,440 --> 00:11:11,640 Speaker 1: and they're talented, not because I want to have power 231 00:11:11,720 --> 00:11:15,760 Speaker 1: over them. But with those opportunities comes a sense of 232 00:11:15,840 --> 00:11:18,120 Speaker 1: power that I have to admit that I do feel 233 00:11:18,160 --> 00:11:21,080 Speaker 1: like they can't fight, they can't treat me like I 234 00:11:21,120 --> 00:11:24,199 Speaker 1: treat them, And I don't intend to treat these people 235 00:11:24,200 --> 00:11:26,440 Speaker 1: this way. It's just subconsciously happening, and I have to 236 00:11:26,480 --> 00:11:29,920 Speaker 1: stay on on it. And I told Carlisle there's never 237 00:11:29,960 --> 00:11:33,480 Speaker 1: been one time she she has a fear that people 238 00:11:33,520 --> 00:11:36,160 Speaker 1: make fun of her behind her back, because listen, we 239 00:11:36,280 --> 00:11:38,079 Speaker 1: all do, and she hears ME make fun of people 240 00:11:38,080 --> 00:11:44,200 Speaker 1: behind they're back to her about people. And I was 241 00:11:44,280 --> 00:11:46,880 Speaker 1: able to tell her last night and like be and 242 00:11:46,960 --> 00:11:48,600 Speaker 1: really like I before I said it, I was like, 243 00:11:48,840 --> 00:11:51,319 Speaker 1: is this true? Do you not judge? She goes, I'm 244 00:11:51,320 --> 00:11:52,920 Speaker 1: scared my friends judge me, and I was like, listen, 245 00:11:52,960 --> 00:11:55,760 Speaker 1: I do judge you, because judging can be good or bad. No. 246 00:11:55,920 --> 00:11:58,000 Speaker 1: I told you last night, you're like the hottest person 247 00:11:58,000 --> 00:11:59,560 Speaker 1: I've ever seen in my life. And I was well 248 00:11:59,640 --> 00:12:01,360 Speaker 1: called Carlo, I was like crying about her feelings. I 249 00:12:01,400 --> 00:12:02,800 Speaker 1: was kind of staring at your ass the whole time, 250 00:12:02,840 --> 00:12:04,880 Speaker 1: being like I need I need to get my lips 251 00:12:05,080 --> 00:12:07,360 Speaker 1: because I want mine to look as luscious as Noah's. 252 00:12:07,400 --> 00:12:08,960 Speaker 1: And like I was thinking all these things as I 253 00:12:09,000 --> 00:12:10,640 Speaker 1: was like, Carlo, I love you, and I was like 254 00:12:10,679 --> 00:12:14,800 Speaker 1: staring at your sucking perfect but and um, but yeah, 255 00:12:14,800 --> 00:12:16,679 Speaker 1: I was judging you. But it was good judge, you know, 256 00:12:16,720 --> 00:12:19,120 Speaker 1: like judging has a negative connotation. So I go, Carlo, 257 00:12:19,200 --> 00:12:20,800 Speaker 1: I do judge you. And by the way, you annoy 258 00:12:20,880 --> 00:12:22,800 Speaker 1: the funk out of me sometime, and I guess what, 259 00:12:22,840 --> 00:12:24,439 Speaker 1: I bet I annoy the funk out of you. This 260 00:12:24,480 --> 00:12:26,840 Speaker 1: is not a perfect relationship. And I know you don't 261 00:12:26,840 --> 00:12:28,520 Speaker 1: feel like you can tell me when I annoy the 262 00:12:28,520 --> 00:12:30,880 Speaker 1: funk out of you as much. And I realized that 263 00:12:31,240 --> 00:12:34,840 Speaker 1: I'm maybe I'm scary to confront. I hope you will. 264 00:12:35,040 --> 00:12:37,720 Speaker 1: I hope you understand that like when you have, I've 265 00:12:37,720 --> 00:12:39,760 Speaker 1: always been able to see my side of it and 266 00:12:39,800 --> 00:12:42,959 Speaker 1: apologize in a way that I think makes you feel okay. 267 00:12:43,640 --> 00:12:45,800 Speaker 1: And as much as I don't like criticism and I 268 00:12:45,880 --> 00:12:48,720 Speaker 1: might get offensive at first, I've given this talk to Andrew. 269 00:12:49,360 --> 00:12:53,400 Speaker 1: Please don't harbor these things if you can, although I 270 00:12:53,440 --> 00:12:55,480 Speaker 1: know that that's not up to me and you can 271 00:12:55,480 --> 00:12:58,160 Speaker 1: do whatever you want. But just know that I don't 272 00:12:58,920 --> 00:13:02,120 Speaker 1: talk about you anything. Anything I would say behind your 273 00:13:02,120 --> 00:13:05,000 Speaker 1: back is because I'm like worried about you or something, 274 00:13:05,040 --> 00:13:08,120 Speaker 1: but it's not like a judgment and if it and 275 00:13:08,400 --> 00:13:11,040 Speaker 1: she could even hate that, oh I hate. That's my 276 00:13:11,040 --> 00:13:13,600 Speaker 1: biggest pet peeve or like fear, is that people when 277 00:13:13,640 --> 00:13:15,440 Speaker 1: I was antarectic, people would talk about me behind my back, 278 00:13:15,440 --> 00:13:17,480 Speaker 1: about how they were worried about me. You would never 279 00:13:17,559 --> 00:13:19,000 Speaker 1: say it to my face, and it's like, well, that 280 00:13:19,160 --> 00:13:22,080 Speaker 1: doesn't help anything. You should talk to me about being 281 00:13:22,240 --> 00:13:25,120 Speaker 1: worried about me, and um, and it felt awful to 282 00:13:25,160 --> 00:13:29,120 Speaker 1: have anyone be concerned about me. I was very impressed, 283 00:13:29,160 --> 00:13:32,560 Speaker 1: I have to say, with how the subject was brought 284 00:13:32,640 --> 00:13:35,760 Speaker 1: up and how you responded to it, because there was 285 00:13:35,800 --> 00:13:38,080 Speaker 1: no semblance of an argument or a fight. It was, 286 00:13:38,720 --> 00:13:41,760 Speaker 1: you know, just so well received. And when Carlisle brought 287 00:13:41,760 --> 00:13:43,840 Speaker 1: it up, there was no like drama behind it or 288 00:13:43,880 --> 00:13:46,560 Speaker 1: anything like that. I was like so impressed by that 289 00:13:46,600 --> 00:13:48,640 Speaker 1: because I don't come from a home like I just 290 00:13:48,640 --> 00:13:50,520 Speaker 1: come from a home where we just yell and fight 291 00:13:50,880 --> 00:13:55,560 Speaker 1: and disperse and defend and defend, defend, and like, like 292 00:13:55,600 --> 00:13:57,640 Speaker 1: I could have been like, hello, why would you get 293 00:13:57,720 --> 00:13:59,840 Speaker 1: upset about that? But I like was and that would 294 00:13:59,880 --> 00:14:03,679 Speaker 1: be what I would do two years ago, you know, 295 00:14:03,760 --> 00:14:06,160 Speaker 1: because it's like and there's a part of me that 296 00:14:06,200 --> 00:14:07,800 Speaker 1: wants to say that, Like I I kind of kept 297 00:14:07,840 --> 00:14:10,199 Speaker 1: doubling down of like I kept going, you know, I 298 00:14:10,240 --> 00:14:12,720 Speaker 1: did that because you shouldn't think anyone knows who that 299 00:14:12,760 --> 00:14:14,880 Speaker 1: person is, Carlile, why like if we would laugh about it, 300 00:14:14,960 --> 00:14:17,120 Speaker 1: I was like, and I don't know. I couldn't figure 301 00:14:17,120 --> 00:14:18,720 Speaker 1: out where it was coming from, Like why did I 302 00:14:18,760 --> 00:14:21,160 Speaker 1: care for her to know if Kirsten would think that 303 00:14:21,160 --> 00:14:23,360 Speaker 1: person is famous? But it's because carl loves me so 304 00:14:23,440 --> 00:14:26,320 Speaker 1: much and believes in me, like as a like she 305 00:14:26,400 --> 00:14:28,680 Speaker 1: looks at me like that's some one of the reasons 306 00:14:28,720 --> 00:14:31,280 Speaker 1: I love Carla. I like people around me who believe 307 00:14:31,520 --> 00:14:34,280 Speaker 1: that I'm a good person and like lift me up 308 00:14:34,280 --> 00:14:36,360 Speaker 1: and see things in me that sometimes I don't see myself. 309 00:14:36,640 --> 00:14:38,200 Speaker 1: And so when carl Le believes in me, I'm like, 310 00:14:38,440 --> 00:14:41,160 Speaker 1: you believe in that guy too, You shouldn't he's terrible 311 00:14:41,320 --> 00:14:43,520 Speaker 1: or whatever. So I think that's it. It's just it 312 00:14:43,600 --> 00:14:45,800 Speaker 1: all comes back to me and I just finally found 313 00:14:45,800 --> 00:14:47,960 Speaker 1: it talking about it here. But thank you for saying 314 00:14:48,000 --> 00:14:49,880 Speaker 1: that it was. It was hard for me to take 315 00:14:49,880 --> 00:14:54,200 Speaker 1: that criticism because I because you know what it is, 316 00:14:54,400 --> 00:15:00,440 Speaker 1: I hate for I hate being something. I'm scared of 317 00:15:00,440 --> 00:15:02,560 Speaker 1: people talking about me behind my back, Like I'm scared 318 00:15:02,600 --> 00:15:06,040 Speaker 1: that I'm everyone knows that about me. Nikki always yells 319 00:15:06,040 --> 00:15:08,640 Speaker 1: at people, incorrects them. It's just the thing that we 320 00:15:08,640 --> 00:15:10,240 Speaker 1: put up with. And there she goes again, and we're 321 00:15:10,240 --> 00:15:11,960 Speaker 1: going to talk about it when she leaves. And I 322 00:15:12,000 --> 00:15:14,640 Speaker 1: can't control that, and it's fine. But I told Carlile 323 00:15:14,720 --> 00:15:16,440 Speaker 1: yesterday and I was so happy that I could say it, 324 00:15:16,440 --> 00:15:17,920 Speaker 1: because that's the person I want to be. Is like, 325 00:15:18,120 --> 00:15:19,760 Speaker 1: I don't talk to it about the people I love, 326 00:15:20,720 --> 00:15:22,240 Speaker 1: and I try not to talk to it about the 327 00:15:22,240 --> 00:15:24,400 Speaker 1: people I hate so that I could and if I do, 328 00:15:24,440 --> 00:15:26,400 Speaker 1: I like yesterday on the Plant two days ago in 329 00:15:26,440 --> 00:15:28,480 Speaker 1: the Plan, Kurston was talking about some comedian that I 330 00:15:28,560 --> 00:15:31,760 Speaker 1: do not care for, and uh, I don't like the 331 00:15:31,800 --> 00:15:35,160 Speaker 1: way the person treats people. Don't really like their acts, 332 00:15:35,280 --> 00:15:38,480 Speaker 1: respect them for all they've done in terms of like 333 00:15:38,520 --> 00:15:41,480 Speaker 1: their successes, but like I think they're bad for the 334 00:15:41,520 --> 00:15:44,560 Speaker 1: world in terms of their messaging and think they're no 335 00:15:45,200 --> 00:15:49,560 Speaker 1: from anecdotal Uh, you know stories over the years that 336 00:15:50,120 --> 00:15:52,560 Speaker 1: this person is not nice, it makes people feel bad 337 00:15:52,600 --> 00:15:55,720 Speaker 1: and is bad for the world based on all the 338 00:15:55,720 --> 00:15:57,840 Speaker 1: pain that they've accrued in their life. This person is 339 00:15:57,880 --> 00:15:59,520 Speaker 1: only that way because they must have had a really 340 00:15:59,520 --> 00:16:02,360 Speaker 1: hard child hood, or their brain is a way that 341 00:16:02,400 --> 00:16:04,520 Speaker 1: they can't help it. So I I understand where it 342 00:16:04,520 --> 00:16:06,080 Speaker 1: comes from. But I realized on the plane the other 343 00:16:06,120 --> 00:16:08,240 Speaker 1: day someone could have heard me, and I was like, 344 00:16:08,440 --> 00:16:09,880 Speaker 1: and it would get back to this person, and I 345 00:16:09,920 --> 00:16:12,280 Speaker 1: was like, I'm ready. I'm ready for that person to 346 00:16:12,360 --> 00:16:14,440 Speaker 1: know how I feel. And I don't want to launch 347 00:16:14,440 --> 00:16:16,320 Speaker 1: a campaign or anything because I need to gather more 348 00:16:16,360 --> 00:16:19,320 Speaker 1: evidence and I need a personal account that with this person. 349 00:16:19,320 --> 00:16:21,960 Speaker 1: I don't want it to all be anecdotal because the 350 00:16:21,960 --> 00:16:23,600 Speaker 1: people that have told me things probably wouldn't want to 351 00:16:23,600 --> 00:16:27,240 Speaker 1: be named in the like my statement, and there's not 352 00:16:27,320 --> 00:16:30,000 Speaker 1: it's not the abuse isn't egregious enough that it's like 353 00:16:30,080 --> 00:16:32,360 Speaker 1: canceled time. And I don't want people to be canceled 354 00:16:32,400 --> 00:16:35,160 Speaker 1: by the way. But I want to talk ship in 355 00:16:35,160 --> 00:16:36,840 Speaker 1: a way that I would talk to people's face, and 356 00:16:36,840 --> 00:16:39,840 Speaker 1: you guys know that. So yesterday I told Carlile, like, yeah, 357 00:16:39,880 --> 00:16:42,920 Speaker 1: you're annoying to me sometimes that one time when I 358 00:16:42,960 --> 00:16:45,040 Speaker 1: told you I had to go and I didn't want 359 00:16:45,040 --> 00:16:46,760 Speaker 1: to hear your story even though you were crying about 360 00:16:46,760 --> 00:16:49,480 Speaker 1: like a really serious situation. She's like yeah, you like 361 00:16:50,680 --> 00:16:53,960 Speaker 1: said like Carlyle, you I can't deal with this right now. 362 00:16:54,000 --> 00:16:56,080 Speaker 1: And I was like, Carlyle, that was at three in 363 00:16:56,120 --> 00:16:58,720 Speaker 1: the morning. I had to be up at seven for 364 00:16:58,800 --> 00:17:02,080 Speaker 1: a all of our day. I was just realizing how 365 00:17:02,160 --> 00:17:03,680 Speaker 1: late it was. I was stressed out. We were in 366 00:17:03,680 --> 00:17:05,920 Speaker 1: an uber that had two trips were dropping you off. 367 00:17:06,080 --> 00:17:08,479 Speaker 1: You started the conversation as the uber was like waiting 368 00:17:08,720 --> 00:17:11,240 Speaker 1: for you to get out of the car, and I 369 00:17:11,280 --> 00:17:13,159 Speaker 1: just was stressed for him, for me, and I like 370 00:17:13,359 --> 00:17:17,320 Speaker 1: was like, can we do this later? And you like weren't. 371 00:17:17,400 --> 00:17:18,919 Speaker 1: You had had a couple of drinks, so you probably 372 00:17:18,920 --> 00:17:21,480 Speaker 1: weren't understanding the situation and that's why you got hurt. 373 00:17:21,560 --> 00:17:23,680 Speaker 1: And also I could have done it a better way. 374 00:17:23,760 --> 00:17:26,960 Speaker 1: I could have handled it a better way, and I didn't. Um, 375 00:17:27,000 --> 00:17:29,040 Speaker 1: but I didn't. I did write her after that happened. 376 00:17:29,119 --> 00:17:30,960 Speaker 1: We had a really awkward interaction she she got in 377 00:17:30,960 --> 00:17:32,399 Speaker 1: the car. She was just like, fine, you know what, 378 00:17:32,720 --> 00:17:34,359 Speaker 1: I always try to talk to you, and there's never 379 00:17:34,400 --> 00:17:35,720 Speaker 1: a chance to get you alone to talk to you 380 00:17:35,720 --> 00:17:37,800 Speaker 1: about like what I'm dealing with, and like it's just 381 00:17:37,840 --> 00:17:39,920 Speaker 1: like that's fine, cool, fine, and she like got out 382 00:17:39,920 --> 00:17:42,080 Speaker 1: and slammed the door, and I was just like, I 383 00:17:42,119 --> 00:17:44,680 Speaker 1: just wrote her immediately, like I know because I knew 384 00:17:44,680 --> 00:17:47,119 Speaker 1: that she was got stood up to me because she 385 00:17:47,119 --> 00:17:49,199 Speaker 1: was a little drunk, and she's scared of doing that 386 00:17:49,240 --> 00:17:51,040 Speaker 1: because I might go, don't talk to me like that. 387 00:17:51,160 --> 00:17:53,200 Speaker 1: I'm not friends with you anymore. Like that's I guess 388 00:17:53,240 --> 00:17:55,200 Speaker 1: my fear I'm projecting, but I think she had that fear. 389 00:17:55,320 --> 00:17:57,320 Speaker 1: So immediately I was like, I wrote her text igo, 390 00:17:57,720 --> 00:18:00,680 Speaker 1: we're fine. That was so justified it. I was struck, 391 00:18:00,800 --> 00:18:03,440 Speaker 1: I was high. It was late, i'd wake up earlier. 392 00:18:03,480 --> 00:18:06,080 Speaker 1: I was just realized, it was just the worst tornado 393 00:18:06,160 --> 00:18:07,840 Speaker 1: in my head that you were trying to tell me 394 00:18:07,880 --> 00:18:10,200 Speaker 1: a personal story, and I go, we're fine. I love 395 00:18:10,240 --> 00:18:13,040 Speaker 1: you so much. And last night I just told her, like, listen, 396 00:18:13,760 --> 00:18:18,120 Speaker 1: I don't know if like I can't see a future 397 00:18:18,520 --> 00:18:21,160 Speaker 1: where you do something to me, knowing the person you are, 398 00:18:21,240 --> 00:18:22,760 Speaker 1: and I won't want to be friends with you. I 399 00:18:22,800 --> 00:18:25,199 Speaker 1: literally think I could put up with anything that you 400 00:18:25,200 --> 00:18:28,560 Speaker 1: would do to me. That was is you know, not 401 00:18:28,600 --> 00:18:31,800 Speaker 1: like I can't promise forever. We could always get divorced, 402 00:18:31,800 --> 00:18:33,840 Speaker 1: like you promised when you get married. This is forever, 403 00:18:33,920 --> 00:18:37,080 Speaker 1: and there's always like takebacks. But I was just like, 404 00:18:37,400 --> 00:18:41,200 Speaker 1: please just walk around with the life vest knowing that 405 00:18:41,400 --> 00:18:44,720 Speaker 1: I know I'm fucking tough to be friends with. I'm 406 00:18:44,760 --> 00:18:47,120 Speaker 1: gonna slip up. I'm gonna be mean to you sometimes 407 00:18:47,119 --> 00:18:50,800 Speaker 1: against my better judgment, and I love you and I 408 00:18:50,840 --> 00:18:53,080 Speaker 1: am ready to be accountable for when I'm like that, 409 00:18:53,400 --> 00:18:55,480 Speaker 1: and please confront me if you can, and if you can't, 410 00:18:56,359 --> 00:18:58,480 Speaker 1: I I go, you know what, next time I say 411 00:18:58,480 --> 00:19:00,399 Speaker 1: a snappy thing, because I always know I do it, 412 00:19:00,400 --> 00:19:02,639 Speaker 1: It's not like I'm like blind to it, which thank god, 413 00:19:03,240 --> 00:19:05,040 Speaker 1: I snap and then I'm still in it, and I'm like, 414 00:19:05,080 --> 00:19:07,160 Speaker 1: I'm justified, and I feel her shut down, I feel 415 00:19:07,160 --> 00:19:09,640 Speaker 1: her sad. All I have to do is like when 416 00:19:09,640 --> 00:19:12,560 Speaker 1: I cool down is like take her aside, just put 417 00:19:12,600 --> 00:19:14,640 Speaker 1: my hand on her arm and go, hey, I'm really 418 00:19:14,640 --> 00:19:17,239 Speaker 1: sorry about that, and like that make that will make 419 00:19:17,280 --> 00:19:19,159 Speaker 1: it so that maybe she won't recover right away, but 420 00:19:19,200 --> 00:19:20,960 Speaker 1: at least she won't go back to her room and 421 00:19:21,040 --> 00:19:25,800 Speaker 1: have to do like, you know, meditative exercises to process 422 00:19:26,119 --> 00:19:29,119 Speaker 1: my anger for her. So maybe that's a lesson for 423 00:19:29,160 --> 00:19:31,800 Speaker 1: you and how to deal with your friendships. Um, and 424 00:19:32,040 --> 00:19:35,360 Speaker 1: admit that you're wrong. It's really freeing that you're not perfect, 425 00:19:35,480 --> 00:19:37,800 Speaker 1: and that we all have character defects that we get 426 00:19:37,840 --> 00:19:39,960 Speaker 1: from our childhood and the brains that we were born 427 00:19:40,000 --> 00:19:42,000 Speaker 1: with that we didn't choose, and they're not your fault. 428 00:19:42,480 --> 00:19:44,639 Speaker 1: What is What is something that you can control, even 429 00:19:44,680 --> 00:19:46,320 Speaker 1: though there's no free will and there's really no control. 430 00:19:46,760 --> 00:19:50,520 Speaker 1: Is is coping to those and and forgiving yourself for them, 431 00:19:50,560 --> 00:19:53,119 Speaker 1: and allowing others to forgive you for them by being accountable. 432 00:19:53,240 --> 00:20:00,639 Speaker 1: Let's get in here, all right. I was just looking 433 00:20:00,680 --> 00:20:03,720 Speaker 1: at hey, Andrew, how did you sleep at night? I 434 00:20:03,720 --> 00:20:06,040 Speaker 1: slept good. We Uh. I went to Ikey and I 435 00:20:06,080 --> 00:20:10,639 Speaker 1: bought um a similar pad that I have in my place, 436 00:20:10,640 --> 00:20:12,160 Speaker 1: So it felt like I was sleeping in my own 437 00:20:12,160 --> 00:20:15,280 Speaker 1: shitty bed. Oh that's nice. Did you throw a bunch 438 00:20:15,320 --> 00:20:17,960 Speaker 1: of trash on the floor and yeah? Put some Lacroix 439 00:20:18,080 --> 00:20:20,679 Speaker 1: cans and Celsius cans on the bedside table, and you know, 440 00:20:20,760 --> 00:20:23,320 Speaker 1: I like a good ambiance, piles of ship in corner. 441 00:20:25,000 --> 00:20:27,239 Speaker 1: Uh No, that's great. So you went to Akia? Did 442 00:20:27,240 --> 00:20:30,159 Speaker 1: you go alone? Um? Yeah, I went alone. It was 443 00:20:30,200 --> 00:20:32,919 Speaker 1: about fifty minutes. I went and picked up some stuff 444 00:20:32,960 --> 00:20:35,919 Speaker 1: for Branna, you went to Ikea for your girlfriend by yourself. 445 00:20:35,920 --> 00:20:37,640 Speaker 1: What was she doing? She was at work, she did 446 00:20:37,640 --> 00:20:40,119 Speaker 1: her first day of work, and um I had a 447 00:20:40,160 --> 00:20:45,040 Speaker 1: store down there in downtown Chicago. Um I U Kia 448 00:20:45,119 --> 00:20:47,480 Speaker 1: is hilarious because like, in order to pay, you have 449 00:20:47,560 --> 00:20:51,280 Speaker 1: to go through the whole fucking building, like amazing. So 450 00:20:51,480 --> 00:20:53,199 Speaker 1: I just went to the first I go, I just 451 00:20:53,359 --> 00:20:55,280 Speaker 1: I know what I want. Get me out of here, 452 00:20:55,520 --> 00:20:58,800 Speaker 1: get me to get me. You just close your eyes 453 00:20:58,800 --> 00:21:00,480 Speaker 1: and asked the one to lead you through, so you 454 00:21:00,480 --> 00:21:02,840 Speaker 1: wouldn't buy anything like a mouse like looking for cheese 455 00:21:02,840 --> 00:21:06,440 Speaker 1: and amaze so hard not to like check out all 456 00:21:06,480 --> 00:21:08,199 Speaker 1: the stuff. I didn't even look. I didn't even give 457 00:21:08,200 --> 00:21:11,280 Speaker 1: a ship. Good for you. I just ran. I literally 458 00:21:11,320 --> 00:21:13,960 Speaker 1: like ran through the maze. My biggest pet peeve when 459 00:21:13,960 --> 00:21:15,560 Speaker 1: I used to go shopping with my mom as a kid, 460 00:21:15,680 --> 00:21:17,480 Speaker 1: Like she would pay at the register and then walking 461 00:21:17,520 --> 00:21:19,919 Speaker 1: out of TJ Max or Value City or wherever we went, 462 00:21:20,040 --> 00:21:23,119 Speaker 1: bargain Story we're at, she would stop and shop again. 463 00:21:23,280 --> 00:21:25,800 Speaker 1: And it was like you, we mom, close your eyes 464 00:21:25,840 --> 00:21:27,639 Speaker 1: after you pay, and we'll lead you out. It was 465 00:21:27,680 --> 00:21:30,080 Speaker 1: like it was really a problem. It's just like but 466 00:21:30,119 --> 00:21:32,480 Speaker 1: they know what they're doing. You know, even old Navy 467 00:21:32,520 --> 00:21:35,280 Speaker 1: now has created this like little mouse trap you have 468 00:21:35,320 --> 00:21:37,359 Speaker 1: to go through with all these little things that you 469 00:21:37,400 --> 00:21:39,560 Speaker 1: can just pick up t J Max. You go, do 470 00:21:39,600 --> 00:21:42,440 Speaker 1: you need a bag of nuts? Oh? Some low fat chips? 471 00:21:42,480 --> 00:21:46,400 Speaker 1: Why am I buying chips and popcorn at TJ Caramel? 472 00:21:46,680 --> 00:21:49,440 Speaker 1: You're like my need on eyemask, a sleep mask, a 473 00:21:49,520 --> 00:21:52,119 Speaker 1: new I seer um, a shirt I'll never wear that 474 00:21:52,160 --> 00:21:54,040 Speaker 1: says hot baby on it. And I didn't know that 475 00:21:54,119 --> 00:21:56,840 Speaker 1: until like like got it home and turned it around. 476 00:21:56,880 --> 00:21:58,800 Speaker 1: It's besazzled with hot baby. It's like, why did you 477 00:21:58,880 --> 00:22:02,080 Speaker 1: ruin the shirt with this of that shirt? And I 478 00:22:02,119 --> 00:22:06,400 Speaker 1: thank you? I am a hot baby. Yeah, I Keia 479 00:22:06,480 --> 00:22:09,240 Speaker 1: will get you. When you're done with all your shopping, 480 00:22:09,240 --> 00:22:12,159 Speaker 1: they try to sell you meatballs because it's sweetish. And 481 00:22:12,200 --> 00:22:13,960 Speaker 1: then when you get out of there, there's a food 482 00:22:14,000 --> 00:22:16,960 Speaker 1: court that sells your sweetish food just to get you 483 00:22:16,960 --> 00:22:19,159 Speaker 1: a little bit, just a little bit more for you, 484 00:22:19,200 --> 00:22:21,320 Speaker 1: a little bit more. But you got in, You got it. 485 00:22:21,640 --> 00:22:24,360 Speaker 1: Did you have you played golf? Oh? Yeah, I played twice. 486 00:22:24,520 --> 00:22:26,359 Speaker 1: And not only did I played golf, I drove fifteen 487 00:22:26,359 --> 00:22:28,320 Speaker 1: minutes and I looked up a golf range out there 488 00:22:28,320 --> 00:22:32,359 Speaker 1: and I hit balls out by the ikea. I just 489 00:22:32,400 --> 00:22:34,600 Speaker 1: found a random I didn't even know what this golf 490 00:22:34,600 --> 00:22:36,840 Speaker 1: course was. No one, I didn't. I've never been to it. 491 00:22:36,920 --> 00:22:40,199 Speaker 1: I just drove down a weird wooded road and it 492 00:22:40,240 --> 00:22:42,080 Speaker 1: was a beautiful course and I hit some balls. I 493 00:22:42,080 --> 00:22:44,360 Speaker 1: felt great, and my mental health was good. I came 494 00:22:44,400 --> 00:22:46,920 Speaker 1: back and I had a nice dinner. Your mental health 495 00:22:47,040 --> 00:22:48,760 Speaker 1: was good, oh, because you had a good swing, and 496 00:22:48,760 --> 00:22:51,800 Speaker 1: so you weren't like sad your fate is bad. You know, 497 00:22:51,840 --> 00:22:53,600 Speaker 1: if I swing the golf club good, I don't swing 498 00:22:53,640 --> 00:22:58,760 Speaker 1: on my girlfriend. So that's yeah, well, well good, Well 499 00:22:58,800 --> 00:23:04,960 Speaker 1: who cares? Um, I'm great. Well you know what you 500 00:23:05,000 --> 00:23:06,720 Speaker 1: asked me as soon as we went on the zoom, 501 00:23:06,760 --> 00:23:09,160 Speaker 1: because I go, damn, and I'm just looking at I'm 502 00:23:09,160 --> 00:23:12,240 Speaker 1: opening up an US Weekly. Carlisle bought an US Weekly 503 00:23:12,480 --> 00:23:16,000 Speaker 1: when she was coming here at the airport, and um, 504 00:23:16,560 --> 00:23:18,320 Speaker 1: I'm in it. She didn't even know it, and she's 505 00:23:18,320 --> 00:23:20,080 Speaker 1: slipping around and I'm in it. But I was just 506 00:23:20,119 --> 00:23:21,919 Speaker 1: like looking at it as I was sitting here, and 507 00:23:21,960 --> 00:23:26,120 Speaker 1: there's just like red carpet looks like it's it's from 508 00:23:26,160 --> 00:23:29,120 Speaker 1: the can Film festilant He says, can do. And it's 509 00:23:29,160 --> 00:23:31,760 Speaker 1: just like all these women in these gorgeous gowns and 510 00:23:32,280 --> 00:23:35,000 Speaker 1: they just look look great and I and um, I 511 00:23:35,040 --> 00:23:38,040 Speaker 1: just was like, wow, I just was impressed by women's beauty. 512 00:23:38,080 --> 00:23:39,560 Speaker 1: I don't know what I was looking at, but US 513 00:23:39,560 --> 00:23:42,280 Speaker 1: Weekly I just go, who's buying this stuff? Anymore? Everything 514 00:23:42,320 --> 00:23:44,840 Speaker 1: you can see in here is online, I would think, 515 00:23:45,280 --> 00:23:47,840 Speaker 1: But now I'm realizing, how else are you going to 516 00:23:47,960 --> 00:23:51,320 Speaker 1: know that Nicki Bella wore something better than Eliza's Slessenger 517 00:23:51,440 --> 00:23:55,560 Speaker 1: by two percent? I know it's always comparing women, by 518 00:23:55,600 --> 00:23:58,040 Speaker 1: the way, I don't even know. Yeah, and why did 519 00:23:58,040 --> 00:24:00,440 Speaker 1: Eliza not where it is good for us? Of all 520 00:24:00,440 --> 00:24:03,200 Speaker 1: fifty one and forty nine, I would gladly take those. 521 00:24:03,240 --> 00:24:05,760 Speaker 1: I would take the forty nine. Eliza looks amazing, Nikki 522 00:24:05,800 --> 00:24:14,000 Speaker 1: looks amazingly. This is literally this is on. I used 523 00:24:14,040 --> 00:24:15,879 Speaker 1: to I used to participate in the polls on the 524 00:24:15,960 --> 00:24:18,000 Speaker 1: US Weekly app, but I no longer have the U 525 00:24:18,000 --> 00:24:21,680 Speaker 1: s Weekly app, so it's just yeah. I would show 526 00:24:21,760 --> 00:24:23,000 Speaker 1: up and it would go, hey, you want to vote, 527 00:24:23,000 --> 00:24:24,600 Speaker 1: and I'd go, yeah, just a click of a button, 528 00:24:24,640 --> 00:24:28,440 Speaker 1: it's so fun to vote. One I am in here. 529 00:24:28,480 --> 00:24:29,960 Speaker 1: Hold on, let me get to it. I just want 530 00:24:29,960 --> 00:24:32,399 Speaker 1: to find it. Oh my god. US Weekly actually is great. 531 00:24:32,880 --> 00:24:35,000 Speaker 1: So Carlole bought this because there's the Britney story on 532 00:24:35,040 --> 00:24:39,639 Speaker 1: the cover, Brittany's Revenge, and um, I go everything is online. 533 00:24:40,320 --> 00:24:42,280 Speaker 1: Well she's been showing them a lot, like you know, 534 00:24:42,400 --> 00:24:47,000 Speaker 1: she just like takes pictures. Okay, so I am, um, yeah, 535 00:24:47,119 --> 00:24:50,280 Speaker 1: I'm on this like you know, uh, TVs, it's called 536 00:24:50,400 --> 00:24:54,560 Speaker 1: us us must us musts that's a terrible name. TVs, 537 00:24:54,600 --> 00:24:56,439 Speaker 1: movies and more. And this is all just like you know, 538 00:24:56,520 --> 00:24:59,960 Speaker 1: promotional stuff. There's a full page thing for paging doct 539 00:25:00,040 --> 00:25:03,600 Speaker 1: her Death, which is starting Joshua Jackson as Doctor Death, 540 00:25:03,880 --> 00:25:06,280 Speaker 1: which is a podcast that's now a movie. And then 541 00:25:06,320 --> 00:25:09,080 Speaker 1: there's on the television part, it says falling for f Boy, 542 00:25:09,480 --> 00:25:12,439 Speaker 1: what happens when a former Bachelor producer launches a new 543 00:25:12,520 --> 00:25:15,679 Speaker 1: dating show. You get f Boy Island, HBO Max's reality 544 00:25:15,680 --> 00:25:18,240 Speaker 1: series July twenty nine. That's Thursday. You guys will follow 545 00:25:18,240 --> 00:25:21,639 Speaker 1: three women's journeys. Blah blah blady. Give it a um. 546 00:25:21,760 --> 00:25:24,320 Speaker 1: The difference. The difference between this and other dating shows 547 00:25:24,359 --> 00:25:26,560 Speaker 1: is that this is a comedy. Host Niki Laser tells us, 548 00:25:26,600 --> 00:25:28,320 Speaker 1: adding that while they're all able to make fun of 549 00:25:28,359 --> 00:25:30,639 Speaker 1: the process. That doesn't mean the love stories aren't real 550 00:25:30,720 --> 00:25:34,159 Speaker 1: and emotional. Behind the curtain is the headline. When Glazer 551 00:25:34,200 --> 00:25:35,920 Speaker 1: got the call to join the series, she jumped to 552 00:25:35,920 --> 00:25:38,520 Speaker 1: the opportunity, even though she initially wanted to be on it. 553 00:25:38,920 --> 00:25:40,639 Speaker 1: I still got to go through all the feelings that 554 00:25:40,680 --> 00:25:44,320 Speaker 1: the girls were, she says, But it wasn't happening to me. Um, 555 00:25:44,320 --> 00:25:45,560 Speaker 1: that's true. I did think that I was going to 556 00:25:45,600 --> 00:25:47,359 Speaker 1: be one of the girls. It's a great little right up. 557 00:25:47,480 --> 00:25:51,240 Speaker 1: Can I just tell you last night Andrew the Girls 558 00:25:51,240 --> 00:25:53,960 Speaker 1: and I I've got screeners for fun Boy or for 559 00:25:54,400 --> 00:25:58,600 Speaker 1: Island because I have I have all the episodes, because 560 00:25:59,480 --> 00:26:04,000 Speaker 1: you know, I'm a producer on the show. When I 561 00:26:04,080 --> 00:26:07,320 Speaker 1: read host and producer, I give I smile for you. 562 00:26:07,520 --> 00:26:13,080 Speaker 1: The credits go like f Boy, Island say she's an 563 00:26:13,119 --> 00:26:17,879 Speaker 1: executive lest straight, it goes it goes created by like 564 00:26:17,920 --> 00:26:20,320 Speaker 1: it's like the credits, and it goes created by It's 565 00:26:20,359 --> 00:26:24,320 Speaker 1: important and created by uh. And then it goes executive 566 00:26:24,359 --> 00:26:28,080 Speaker 1: producers and it lists the three um, three people's names 567 00:26:28,080 --> 00:26:30,199 Speaker 1: that aren't me, and then it's the next slide as 568 00:26:30,320 --> 00:26:32,959 Speaker 1: executive preserve, I get my own cards as executive producer 569 00:26:33,080 --> 00:26:35,359 Speaker 1: Nicki Glazer, then another thing, and then it goes host 570 00:26:35,440 --> 00:26:38,480 Speaker 1: Nicki Glazer. It's just like, yes, bitch. And let me 571 00:26:38,600 --> 00:26:41,440 Speaker 1: just say, as a host, I'm very proud of the show. 572 00:26:41,840 --> 00:26:44,480 Speaker 1: I will say that my funny moments have been cut 573 00:26:44,520 --> 00:26:47,920 Speaker 1: down by like, based on the first episode, I saw 574 00:26:49,000 --> 00:26:51,960 Speaker 1: nine seven percent of the funny things I said, do 575 00:26:52,000 --> 00:26:55,119 Speaker 1: not make it. I wouldn't even because that's just what 576 00:26:55,200 --> 00:26:58,359 Speaker 1: happens in TV. You lose your darlings. And it's the 577 00:26:58,359 --> 00:27:00,200 Speaker 1: great news is I can take those scripts and those 578 00:27:00,240 --> 00:27:02,359 Speaker 1: jokes we wrote and talk about the show on stage 579 00:27:02,359 --> 00:27:04,280 Speaker 1: and injected into my stand up and so it'll be 580 00:27:05,119 --> 00:27:07,720 Speaker 1: always the silver lining. Just one. But let me tell 581 00:27:09,760 --> 00:27:13,600 Speaker 1: a producer as a producer I am as a host, 582 00:27:13,640 --> 00:27:15,439 Speaker 1: I was a little bit like, Okay, we need to 583 00:27:15,440 --> 00:27:17,800 Speaker 1: fix this. You need to do this different. Okay, Dada 584 00:27:18,400 --> 00:27:23,479 Speaker 1: As a producer watching a seven girls who have never 585 00:27:23,520 --> 00:27:27,400 Speaker 1: seen this show, who are um not, I mean, they're 586 00:27:27,440 --> 00:27:30,080 Speaker 1: obviously like invested in because they know him an EP 587 00:27:30,240 --> 00:27:32,200 Speaker 1: and they know him a host, so they're gonna be nice. 588 00:27:32,520 --> 00:27:36,359 Speaker 1: But watching girls forget I'm even. Then I was in 589 00:27:36,359 --> 00:27:38,440 Speaker 1: the back of the room with Robin who also worked 590 00:27:38,440 --> 00:27:40,080 Speaker 1: on the show, because she knows everything that happens. So 591 00:27:40,119 --> 00:27:41,879 Speaker 1: every time they would make a comment about someone that 592 00:27:41,920 --> 00:27:44,240 Speaker 1: we knew better, we would look at each other and go, 593 00:27:44,400 --> 00:27:47,160 Speaker 1: m so. But they forgot we were in the room. 594 00:27:47,480 --> 00:27:51,160 Speaker 1: They were so invested. I took of uh I um, 595 00:27:51,280 --> 00:27:53,359 Speaker 1: I I recorded something for one of the other EPs, 596 00:27:53,359 --> 00:27:55,639 Speaker 1: and I go, I am literally sitting with a focus 597 00:27:55,720 --> 00:27:59,280 Speaker 1: group of our ideal audience. Of this mix of girls, granted, 598 00:27:59,320 --> 00:28:03,840 Speaker 1: like more of them are white. One is uh, she 599 00:28:03,880 --> 00:28:06,840 Speaker 1: doesn't even know what she is. Um. Apparently her mom 600 00:28:06,880 --> 00:28:10,399 Speaker 1: was left on a doorstep instead of like actually, like 601 00:28:10,600 --> 00:28:13,199 Speaker 1: she doesn't. I think she's polynesia. I don't know what 602 00:28:13,560 --> 00:28:18,560 Speaker 1: that sucks. Yes, um, yeah, I'm really proud of such 603 00:28:18,560 --> 00:28:20,719 Speaker 1: a diverse friend that I don't even know what her 604 00:28:20,720 --> 00:28:24,000 Speaker 1: diversity is. Um. That being said, I felt like this 605 00:28:24,040 --> 00:28:27,000 Speaker 1: was like a focus group of girls that are smart, cool. 606 00:28:27,560 --> 00:28:29,320 Speaker 1: Some of them love these kinds of shows. Some of them, 607 00:28:29,400 --> 00:28:31,520 Speaker 1: like Noah, have never watched one of these kinds of shows. 608 00:28:31,520 --> 00:28:35,200 Speaker 1: Avoid them. We they they forgot we were in the room. 609 00:28:35,240 --> 00:28:39,080 Speaker 1: They became obsessed with everyone, like they have their favorites. 610 00:28:39,320 --> 00:28:41,720 Speaker 1: They were laughing the entire time, not even the stuff 611 00:28:41,760 --> 00:28:43,920 Speaker 1: I said, like, I didn't even get the best laughs. 612 00:28:43,920 --> 00:28:47,200 Speaker 1: Every everything else got the best. Last they I watched, 613 00:28:48,320 --> 00:28:50,920 Speaker 1: and I've watched friends watched the first episode The Bachelor. 614 00:28:50,960 --> 00:28:52,880 Speaker 1: I've been a friend that watched the first episode the Bachelor. 615 00:28:53,200 --> 00:28:55,360 Speaker 1: This was different. And let me tell you what. Its 616 00:28:55,480 --> 00:28:58,320 Speaker 1: nothing to do with me because they kind of forgot 617 00:28:58,320 --> 00:29:00,520 Speaker 1: to even like congratulate. I mean, everyone hugged me afterwards, 618 00:29:00,520 --> 00:29:02,560 Speaker 1: but they were like more wanting to just talk about 619 00:29:02,600 --> 00:29:04,800 Speaker 1: it and like talk about who they liked and with, 620 00:29:04,920 --> 00:29:06,360 Speaker 1: And I go, I have all the answers if you 621 00:29:06,360 --> 00:29:07,840 Speaker 1: want to know, like if you guys are like good 622 00:29:07,840 --> 00:29:09,840 Speaker 1: with secrets, like but I'm not gonna tell you, but like, 623 00:29:09,840 --> 00:29:11,400 Speaker 1: aren't you interested that I know? And they're like, we 624 00:29:11,440 --> 00:29:13,360 Speaker 1: don't even want to like what we got, like we 625 00:29:13,400 --> 00:29:15,080 Speaker 1: just want to process. And it was so funny to 626 00:29:15,120 --> 00:29:19,160 Speaker 1: watch um. And one more thing I'll say, the true 627 00:29:19,280 --> 00:29:21,200 Speaker 1: sign that this show is a hit is we are 628 00:29:21,200 --> 00:29:24,000 Speaker 1: in Tuloom, Mexico, the most beautiful, blaze spiritual place on earth, 629 00:29:24,640 --> 00:29:30,280 Speaker 1: uh rustic ocean side, like gorgeous rainforest. And I go, 630 00:29:30,680 --> 00:29:32,720 Speaker 1: they didn't know. They thought I had three episodes. I go, 631 00:29:32,800 --> 00:29:34,280 Speaker 1: by the way, I have the whole season and we 632 00:29:34,320 --> 00:29:36,600 Speaker 1: could watch it like if we want at night or something, 633 00:29:36,760 --> 00:29:39,320 Speaker 1: and they go, no, um, you know what, wait, let's 634 00:29:39,360 --> 00:29:41,720 Speaker 1: check the weather. I think it's supposed to rain on Wednesday. 635 00:29:41,800 --> 00:29:45,000 Speaker 1: And we checked the weather and it said sixty six 636 00:29:45,040 --> 00:29:48,200 Speaker 1: percent chance of rain, and they go, that's well, I 637 00:29:48,240 --> 00:29:51,200 Speaker 1: hope it is like we are hoping for rain Intoloom 638 00:29:51,280 --> 00:29:53,320 Speaker 1: so that they can watch f Boy Island and we 639 00:29:53,400 --> 00:29:56,400 Speaker 1: are only one We have Wednesdays, our last day here, 640 00:29:56,440 --> 00:29:58,200 Speaker 1: and we are they were all home and I go, 641 00:29:58,480 --> 00:30:00,479 Speaker 1: I said to my friend Bildics, and I go, my 642 00:30:00,600 --> 00:30:04,920 Speaker 1: friends are fingers crossed, like looking at the weather into Loom, 643 00:30:05,040 --> 00:30:07,240 Speaker 1: hoping for rain so that they can binge the rest 644 00:30:07,240 --> 00:30:09,480 Speaker 1: of the show. And by the way, I can't wait 645 00:30:09,480 --> 00:30:12,360 Speaker 1: to see the show is beautiful. It's funny. I'm not 646 00:30:12,400 --> 00:30:14,320 Speaker 1: doing this to promote it. I just really want to 647 00:30:14,360 --> 00:30:16,960 Speaker 1: hear what you guys think. And I gotta say all 648 00:30:17,000 --> 00:30:21,240 Speaker 1: the reviews are. I am so proud as a producer 649 00:30:21,280 --> 00:30:24,520 Speaker 1: because this is great television. And it's not just because 650 00:30:24,520 --> 00:30:26,960 Speaker 1: of my hosting. It is because of the what went 651 00:30:27,040 --> 00:30:30,960 Speaker 1: on both pre production, during production, post production, post which 652 00:30:31,000 --> 00:30:32,360 Speaker 1: I had nothing to do with. Pre had nothing to 653 00:30:32,360 --> 00:30:34,520 Speaker 1: do with during I had a lot to do with UM, 654 00:30:34,560 --> 00:30:37,600 Speaker 1: just in terms of, like, you know, I mean, I 655 00:30:37,600 --> 00:30:39,720 Speaker 1: don't want to go into details, but like I had something. 656 00:30:40,080 --> 00:30:42,880 Speaker 1: I made, something that should win awards for how fucking 657 00:30:42,880 --> 00:30:46,280 Speaker 1: good and compelling it will be. And the reviews, everyone 658 00:30:46,360 --> 00:30:48,800 Speaker 1: that sees the show all these like you know, kind 659 00:30:48,800 --> 00:30:56,360 Speaker 1: of like UM review Like journalists that reviews reluctantly reviewed. Yeah. 660 00:30:56,360 --> 00:31:00,760 Speaker 1: Time Magazine said it's a masterpiece. And and by the 661 00:31:00,800 --> 00:31:04,440 Speaker 1: way it is, it's it's so well done and based. 662 00:31:04,800 --> 00:31:08,680 Speaker 1: I just I you know what I said. Every Reality 663 00:31:08,800 --> 00:31:12,920 Speaker 1: TV character UM is a color. Is a It's like 664 00:31:13,080 --> 00:31:16,880 Speaker 1: a painting, right. Every Reality TV person and character on 665 00:31:16,880 --> 00:31:20,920 Speaker 1: the show is a color. And they have to go 666 00:31:21,040 --> 00:31:23,200 Speaker 1: and look at all this footage where they have so 667 00:31:23,360 --> 00:31:25,320 Speaker 1: many hours of footage. This isn't like a scripted show 668 00:31:25,320 --> 00:31:27,080 Speaker 1: where it's like we got the scene. They don't even 669 00:31:27,120 --> 00:31:29,600 Speaker 1: know what they're gonna make and they decide that in 670 00:31:29,760 --> 00:31:32,760 Speaker 1: every person they choose a shade of their color, we're 671 00:31:32,760 --> 00:31:36,560 Speaker 1: gonna make them the shade. Like they show different shades 672 00:31:36,600 --> 00:31:39,040 Speaker 1: and we're gonna and we're gonna make that shade match 673 00:31:39,160 --> 00:31:42,480 Speaker 1: this shape. Like it is a and everyone's well represented 674 00:31:42,480 --> 00:31:44,960 Speaker 1: on the show, like truly what I saw from people 675 00:31:45,040 --> 00:31:47,320 Speaker 1: is what I saw on the show. Nothing is manipulated 676 00:31:47,320 --> 00:31:49,760 Speaker 1: where I'm like, that looks different, but they have to 677 00:31:50,200 --> 00:31:52,920 Speaker 1: they have to make a painting, and it's that I 678 00:31:52,920 --> 00:31:55,080 Speaker 1: don't want anything to do with that process because it 679 00:31:55,120 --> 00:32:02,400 Speaker 1: looked so if you're listening Bill Elan, Ben, Sam Vanessa, 680 00:32:03,080 --> 00:32:09,920 Speaker 1: uh Michael's all th post production and people that I 681 00:32:09,920 --> 00:32:13,160 Speaker 1: don't even know from post you fucking nailed it. And 682 00:32:13,360 --> 00:32:16,280 Speaker 1: I'm a reality TV connoisseur, and if I wasn't on 683 00:32:16,320 --> 00:32:18,880 Speaker 1: the show, I would feel like I want to work 684 00:32:18,880 --> 00:32:21,120 Speaker 1: with those people that made that show. It's and just 685 00:32:21,120 --> 00:32:24,080 Speaker 1: seeing my friends love it Andrew it's like it. I 686 00:32:24,200 --> 00:32:27,720 Speaker 1: was like, it's like seeing your baby at a dance 687 00:32:27,760 --> 00:32:31,040 Speaker 1: recital and everyone's like, that's the best girl that's doing 688 00:32:31,040 --> 00:32:34,000 Speaker 1: the bellerie. Like it made me, didn't I say? Last night? 689 00:32:34,000 --> 00:32:36,280 Speaker 1: It made me? Oh? I know we were talking about 690 00:32:36,320 --> 00:32:39,120 Speaker 1: having kids the first day we were kid here. None 691 00:32:39,160 --> 00:32:42,320 Speaker 1: of these girls here have children, and some of them 692 00:32:42,320 --> 00:32:44,360 Speaker 1: want children, are sure of it, some of them are 693 00:32:44,400 --> 00:32:46,600 Speaker 1: trying for him, some of her on the fence. I'm 694 00:32:46,640 --> 00:32:50,000 Speaker 1: like more of a I will see. And I realized 695 00:32:50,040 --> 00:32:52,840 Speaker 1: that I don't have whatever it is that you know 696 00:32:53,160 --> 00:32:55,200 Speaker 1: someone like Noah, can I say that you would like 697 00:32:55,280 --> 00:32:57,680 Speaker 1: children someday? Yeah, you would like children someday. I was 698 00:32:57,680 --> 00:33:00,840 Speaker 1: asking Noah really like in a similar way of this hotel, 699 00:33:00,880 --> 00:33:02,560 Speaker 1: I go, why would someone pay this much to stay 700 00:33:02,560 --> 00:33:04,640 Speaker 1: in a rusty place? I just want to understand that brain, 701 00:33:04,800 --> 00:33:08,000 Speaker 1: like why, what's the why? Because it makes me mad 702 00:33:08,040 --> 00:33:10,040 Speaker 1: that I don't understand it. And with kids too, I'm like, 703 00:33:10,240 --> 00:33:12,040 Speaker 1: if you don't have kids, and you've babysat before and 704 00:33:12,040 --> 00:33:14,160 Speaker 1: you've been around kids, and you see how like what 705 00:33:14,520 --> 00:33:16,880 Speaker 1: why do you want them? Like why? And one of 706 00:33:16,880 --> 00:33:19,920 Speaker 1: the reasons was seeing the world through your child's eyes, 707 00:33:19,960 --> 00:33:22,480 Speaker 1: like like being able to experience new things. Kirsten said 708 00:33:22,520 --> 00:33:24,080 Speaker 1: that she was like, I don't know. When I go 709 00:33:24,120 --> 00:33:27,760 Speaker 1: to Costco, I always take the the grocery cart and 710 00:33:27,800 --> 00:33:30,480 Speaker 1: I write it from the door to my car, even 711 00:33:30,520 --> 00:33:32,320 Speaker 1: by myself. It's what I've done. And when I was 712 00:33:32,320 --> 00:33:33,800 Speaker 1: doing that the other day, I just was thinking how 713 00:33:33,840 --> 00:33:36,360 Speaker 1: fun it would have be to have my baby or 714 00:33:36,400 --> 00:33:38,600 Speaker 1: toddler or whatever and show them how fun this is 715 00:33:38,680 --> 00:33:40,080 Speaker 1: and like introduce them to this. And I was like, 716 00:33:40,440 --> 00:33:42,640 Speaker 1: that's beautiful. I get that. I actually don't get that, 717 00:33:42,720 --> 00:33:44,560 Speaker 1: but that that makes sense to me that someone would 718 00:33:44,640 --> 00:33:47,240 Speaker 1: enjoy that. And then I was watching Fboy Island through 719 00:33:47,280 --> 00:33:49,400 Speaker 1: the eyes a thing that I'm jaded about. Let's say 720 00:33:49,400 --> 00:33:53,280 Speaker 1: that f Why Island is life if if we're doing 721 00:33:53,320 --> 00:33:55,760 Speaker 1: the baby analogy, like the hardships of life, like what 722 00:33:55,960 --> 00:33:58,000 Speaker 1: life is like, or like the behind the scenes is 723 00:33:58,040 --> 00:34:03,360 Speaker 1: what life is. F Boy Island is the the um. 724 00:34:03,840 --> 00:34:07,040 Speaker 1: Like I got to watch my friends live this thing 725 00:34:07,040 --> 00:34:09,799 Speaker 1: that I already lived through their eyes and it made 726 00:34:09,840 --> 00:34:14,600 Speaker 1: it so much more beautiful and fun. And I was like, 727 00:34:14,680 --> 00:34:16,360 Speaker 1: and then at dinner, I go, guys, I know I 728 00:34:16,440 --> 00:34:18,319 Speaker 1: just said this yesterday that I didn't understand that, but 729 00:34:18,360 --> 00:34:21,319 Speaker 1: like that felt so good seeing a thing that I thought, 730 00:34:21,360 --> 00:34:23,480 Speaker 1: I know, I know everything about that I'm a little 731 00:34:23,520 --> 00:34:26,440 Speaker 1: jaded about, to be honest, because it's like it happened whatever. 732 00:34:26,920 --> 00:34:29,560 Speaker 1: And now I'm like psyched again in a way that 733 00:34:29,840 --> 00:34:32,120 Speaker 1: I see parents at the zoo being like, look at 734 00:34:32,200 --> 00:34:35,759 Speaker 1: that frog, and you're like, oh, why are they They're 735 00:34:35,760 --> 00:34:38,560 Speaker 1: not faking that They're able to be as excited because 736 00:34:38,600 --> 00:34:42,000 Speaker 1: they're they're seeing that. So everyone watched up Why Island 737 00:34:42,080 --> 00:34:44,360 Speaker 1: and be my child and let me see the enthusiasm 738 00:34:44,360 --> 00:34:47,319 Speaker 1: through your eyes. It would be great. Um, let's get 739 00:34:47,320 --> 00:34:52,839 Speaker 1: to the news. What's apparently you always you always say 740 00:34:52,840 --> 00:34:55,680 Speaker 1: that with the news because it kind of isn't the 741 00:34:55,719 --> 00:35:00,840 Speaker 1: same because it's kind of the same voice apply the news. 742 00:35:01,080 --> 00:35:08,759 Speaker 1: Apparently the news. Okay, yes it checks out. Oh boy, 743 00:35:08,800 --> 00:35:10,560 Speaker 1: I hope you're having a great time out there. Can't 744 00:35:10,600 --> 00:35:12,440 Speaker 1: wait for you guys to watch Foy Island and be 745 00:35:12,520 --> 00:35:16,080 Speaker 1: all of Nikki's kids and have all the swells. Also, 746 00:35:16,520 --> 00:35:18,839 Speaker 1: Cooking with Paris also announced I got to make an 747 00:35:18,840 --> 00:35:21,400 Speaker 1: announcement August four. I am on an episode of Cooking 748 00:35:21,440 --> 00:35:24,320 Speaker 1: with Paris where I make food with Paras Hilton alone 749 00:35:24,360 --> 00:35:26,000 Speaker 1: with her in her house, and that we serve it 750 00:35:26,040 --> 00:35:30,000 Speaker 1: to our friends, uh later that night. And Carlisle also 751 00:35:30,080 --> 00:35:32,640 Speaker 1: might be on that episode. Tune in all right on 752 00:35:32,800 --> 00:35:35,719 Speaker 1: eighteen year old on vacation had to fight off a 753 00:35:35,800 --> 00:35:39,840 Speaker 1: twelve ft crocodile and was dragged under twice during a 754 00:35:40,000 --> 00:35:44,680 Speaker 1: night swim at a hotel beach front in Mexico. Uh oh, 755 00:35:44,840 --> 00:35:52,239 Speaker 1: in Mexico. Way, So it was outside your window last night. 756 00:35:52,440 --> 00:35:54,279 Speaker 1: You didn't see a girl getting And that's why I 757 00:35:54,320 --> 00:35:57,520 Speaker 1: want to watch Foy am like this crocs out there? Um, 758 00:35:57,600 --> 00:35:59,440 Speaker 1: we gotta tell all the girls the story, so they 759 00:35:59,560 --> 00:36:01,320 Speaker 1: want to stay to watch off Boy instead of crocod 760 00:36:01,560 --> 00:36:04,399 Speaker 1: He was taking a night swim. Crocodile came after. There 761 00:36:04,520 --> 00:36:06,600 Speaker 1: was Can we say where in Mexico this was? Is 762 00:36:06,640 --> 00:36:08,759 Speaker 1: it near us or the crocodiles into believe it was 763 00:36:08,800 --> 00:36:13,680 Speaker 1: a kind of combo area. Okay, it was at a Marriott, 764 00:36:13,760 --> 00:36:16,720 Speaker 1: so not here at the nest, but like a place 765 00:36:16,760 --> 00:36:19,880 Speaker 1: that people go. She wasn't off the beaten trail like 766 00:36:19,960 --> 00:36:22,799 Speaker 1: she was at the beach front at the Marriott. Yes, 767 00:36:23,400 --> 00:36:28,360 Speaker 1: like the ocean, the crocodiles in the crocodiles, Yes, that's right. Okay, okay, 768 00:36:28,360 --> 00:36:31,760 Speaker 1: but but I've never seen a crocodile like in the ocean, 769 00:36:31,840 --> 00:36:36,680 Speaker 1: like saying in Costa Rica. That's what's scary. When you're surfing, 770 00:36:37,320 --> 00:36:40,799 Speaker 1: You're like, there's fourteen of the biggest crocodile. These things 771 00:36:40,800 --> 00:36:44,560 Speaker 1: are not what They're not from this earth. They are gigantic. 772 00:36:44,640 --> 00:36:46,719 Speaker 1: They're so scary. Do the death roll? They get you 773 00:36:46,800 --> 00:36:48,720 Speaker 1: and then the death roll. I saw a little on Reddit. 774 00:36:48,760 --> 00:36:51,040 Speaker 1: I saw a little baby crocodile practicing the death roll. 775 00:36:51,160 --> 00:36:53,680 Speaker 1: It was very cute with like a leaf and um, 776 00:36:54,080 --> 00:36:55,640 Speaker 1: it was so cute as I like spitting, but that's 777 00:36:55,640 --> 00:36:58,960 Speaker 1: how they drowned later, So the girl survived. The girl 778 00:36:59,000 --> 00:37:03,399 Speaker 1: survives somehow. I have no idea how she she her 779 00:37:03,440 --> 00:37:07,120 Speaker 1: friend was watching the attack. Um. But here's the thing, 780 00:37:07,719 --> 00:37:10,520 Speaker 1: and this is what I find interesting. So they they're 781 00:37:10,520 --> 00:37:13,080 Speaker 1: mad at the hotel because the hotel they had a 782 00:37:13,160 --> 00:37:16,160 Speaker 1: sign that said there are crocodile you gotta watch out. 783 00:37:16,160 --> 00:37:18,640 Speaker 1: But there it's a small sign and it's not lit 784 00:37:18,719 --> 00:37:21,440 Speaker 1: up at night. Now, granted they're not expecting so many 785 00:37:21,480 --> 00:37:27,640 Speaker 1: people to do night swimming, especially with oh she's in Um, 786 00:37:27,960 --> 00:37:31,760 Speaker 1: do you think the hotel should have a bigger sign, 787 00:37:31,960 --> 00:37:35,239 Speaker 1: especially the next day? Should they have a big thing 788 00:37:35,400 --> 00:37:39,400 Speaker 1: saying crocodile attack? Because obviously it's bad for the hotel. 789 00:37:39,640 --> 00:37:42,200 Speaker 1: If someone gets attacked by a crocodile, that's not good 790 00:37:42,200 --> 00:37:47,319 Speaker 1: in marketing. How much should the hotel be accountable for 791 00:37:47,400 --> 00:37:54,680 Speaker 1: something like this? Um? I mean you just with climate change, 792 00:37:54,719 --> 00:37:57,279 Speaker 1: animals are going into places that are new now, and 793 00:37:57,320 --> 00:38:01,480 Speaker 1: like I know, even you know, and like what if 794 00:38:01,480 --> 00:38:03,799 Speaker 1: the sign wasn't in Chinese and there's a Chinese person 795 00:38:03,840 --> 00:38:06,440 Speaker 1: swimming and they is it their responsibility to get out 796 00:38:06,480 --> 00:38:08,279 Speaker 1: their thing? And or maybe it was a picture of 797 00:38:08,280 --> 00:38:11,839 Speaker 1: a crocodile. So maybe, but maybe the crocodile, the Chinese 798 00:38:11,840 --> 00:38:15,080 Speaker 1: symbol for crocodile is not that the crocodile symbol in 799 00:38:15,480 --> 00:38:19,239 Speaker 1: Chinese is like go swimming freely, everything is safe. I 800 00:38:19,239 --> 00:38:23,160 Speaker 1: don't know, Um, you know every This is again going 801 00:38:23,200 --> 00:38:26,080 Speaker 1: back to what I said in the opening about just 802 00:38:26,080 --> 00:38:29,720 Speaker 1: not being accountable and also wanting to blame someone else 803 00:38:29,840 --> 00:38:33,200 Speaker 1: for the your things that you did. Like when Marian 804 00:38:33,239 --> 00:38:36,440 Speaker 1: got attacked by that dog, I did not. Everyone's like, 805 00:38:36,640 --> 00:38:39,160 Speaker 1: what dog, What's happened with that dog that attacked her? 806 00:38:39,280 --> 00:38:41,080 Speaker 1: What's going on? And I just go, I don't know 807 00:38:41,239 --> 00:38:45,160 Speaker 1: or care because it doesn't change the fact of what happened. Um, 808 00:38:45,200 --> 00:38:47,799 Speaker 1: how could have they should have done this differently? Yes, 809 00:38:47,800 --> 00:38:50,600 Speaker 1: I understand like being accountable if negligence lead to it, 810 00:38:50,680 --> 00:38:53,880 Speaker 1: but it still happened, and that doesn't change what happened. 811 00:38:53,960 --> 00:38:58,279 Speaker 1: Marian's could die and being mad at this dog or 812 00:38:58,480 --> 00:39:03,560 Speaker 1: blaming and the truth is maybe you had a part 813 00:39:03,600 --> 00:39:05,960 Speaker 1: to play and a dog attacking your dog, even if 814 00:39:06,000 --> 00:39:08,799 Speaker 1: the dog was a rabbit dog that got off leash. 815 00:39:09,000 --> 00:39:14,400 Speaker 1: Maybe I don't know. You should be aware that a 816 00:39:14,440 --> 00:39:18,359 Speaker 1: dog next door is could get off this big crocodile, 817 00:39:19,160 --> 00:39:22,040 Speaker 1: Like how much of it is like maybe you shouldn't 818 00:39:22,080 --> 00:39:25,520 Speaker 1: swim in the ocean that could bite you, Like how 819 00:39:25,600 --> 00:39:27,839 Speaker 1: much of that is on you? You can drown at 820 00:39:27,880 --> 00:39:29,880 Speaker 1: the ocean, Like is it their fault if someone goes in, 821 00:39:29,920 --> 00:39:31,560 Speaker 1: Like you should be this good of a swimmer to swim. 822 00:39:31,600 --> 00:39:32,799 Speaker 1: Are you gonna have a sign up for that if 823 00:39:32,840 --> 00:39:35,680 Speaker 1: someone drowns because they're a bad swimmer. You know, with 824 00:39:35,760 --> 00:39:38,399 Speaker 1: the vaccine, when people don't have the vaccine and they die, 825 00:39:38,800 --> 00:39:40,640 Speaker 1: if people have chosen not to get the vacine, talking 826 00:39:40,640 --> 00:39:42,719 Speaker 1: about people have chosen not to get the vaccine and 827 00:39:42,719 --> 00:39:45,480 Speaker 1: they die from COVID. I just go like, and they 828 00:39:45,560 --> 00:39:47,400 Speaker 1: choose they not get it because they just don't want it. 829 00:39:47,800 --> 00:39:49,960 Speaker 1: I go, Okay, you took the risk. You weren't wearing 830 00:39:50,000 --> 00:39:52,600 Speaker 1: a seatbelt. That's like I'm not gonna be like we're 831 00:39:52,600 --> 00:39:56,280 Speaker 1: an idiot because that was their choice. But it doesn't 832 00:39:56,600 --> 00:40:00,200 Speaker 1: I don't mean they don't your swim at your own us. 833 00:40:01,640 --> 00:40:04,000 Speaker 1: Swimming your own risks. Everyone should put up that sign. 834 00:40:04,040 --> 00:40:06,319 Speaker 1: And then do you know, do you remember the first 835 00:40:06,440 --> 00:40:09,040 Speaker 1: night we were here, Um, we saw that like huge 836 00:40:09,360 --> 00:40:12,160 Speaker 1: um like turtle in the water. Animals are going to 837 00:40:12,280 --> 00:40:15,680 Speaker 1: exist in water, especially at nighttime you can't see it. 838 00:40:15,680 --> 00:40:18,640 Speaker 1: It was her risk to take. I think the hotel 839 00:40:18,719 --> 00:40:20,560 Speaker 1: how to sign. I mean, I guess they wanted a 840 00:40:20,560 --> 00:40:23,360 Speaker 1: specific sign that said no swimming at night, but you 841 00:40:23,400 --> 00:40:27,319 Speaker 1: can't expect to like not share the ocean with other creatures. Um, 842 00:40:27,360 --> 00:40:28,960 Speaker 1: they should have a sign in the bathroom that says, 843 00:40:29,080 --> 00:40:31,640 Speaker 1: don't slice open your wrists with the razor blade that 844 00:40:31,640 --> 00:40:37,279 Speaker 1: you brought jump off the balcony exactly exactly common sense. 845 00:40:37,320 --> 00:40:39,960 Speaker 1: And by the way, even if they do know, like 846 00:40:41,000 --> 00:40:43,640 Speaker 1: and maybe like I'm I'm talking not knowing all the details, 847 00:40:43,680 --> 00:40:45,719 Speaker 1: so maybe they were actually didn't put up a sign 848 00:40:45,719 --> 00:40:48,160 Speaker 1: because they it doesn't really happen that much, and like 849 00:40:48,200 --> 00:40:50,600 Speaker 1: sometimes they cover up these things. And then yes, they 850 00:40:50,600 --> 00:40:52,360 Speaker 1: need to be accountable if they know the risk and 851 00:40:52,360 --> 00:40:56,959 Speaker 1: they choose not to warn people, but freak accidents happen. 852 00:40:57,040 --> 00:40:59,760 Speaker 1: And I really am annoyed when people get litigious after 853 00:40:59,840 --> 00:41:02,200 Speaker 1: this kind of stuff like this Marriott did not want 854 00:41:02,239 --> 00:41:05,600 Speaker 1: this girl to die. Yeah, if the building collapse because 855 00:41:05,640 --> 00:41:08,520 Speaker 1: of they, you know, if the elevator of that place 856 00:41:08,520 --> 00:41:12,200 Speaker 1: that I was staying plummeted because they hadn't getting expected, 857 00:41:12,280 --> 00:41:13,880 Speaker 1: I'm gonna be mad at them, But if it had 858 00:41:13,920 --> 00:41:17,160 Speaker 1: been inspected, and what if the crocodile bites the win 859 00:41:17,320 --> 00:41:20,120 Speaker 1: it was just a freak. Yeah, crocodile bit the wires. 860 00:41:20,120 --> 00:41:23,040 Speaker 1: I'm not going to blame the hotel for that or like. 861 00:41:24,160 --> 00:41:27,240 Speaker 1: But also I'm not broke, so maybe if I was broke, 862 00:41:27,560 --> 00:41:30,160 Speaker 1: that seems like a cash fall. And I want I 863 00:41:30,200 --> 00:41:32,399 Speaker 1: just think that a lot of times people want to 864 00:41:32,440 --> 00:41:36,760 Speaker 1: blame people for things that are just no one's faults, 865 00:41:36,800 --> 00:41:40,239 Speaker 1: no one's faults, and you want but because when it's 866 00:41:40,239 --> 00:41:43,279 Speaker 1: no one's fault, you take on the blame yourself. And 867 00:41:43,520 --> 00:41:47,319 Speaker 1: that's too shape. Like the girl got bit the next day, 868 00:41:47,640 --> 00:41:51,480 Speaker 1: and the hotel again didn't really make an effort to 869 00:41:51,520 --> 00:41:54,719 Speaker 1: tell everyone that they're the crocketile in the water. Then 870 00:41:54,760 --> 00:41:57,200 Speaker 1: it's on the hotel. But the first girl there was 871 00:41:57,680 --> 00:42:00,080 Speaker 1: the trip advisor reviews, I think they might mention and 872 00:42:00,280 --> 00:42:03,480 Speaker 1: croc attack. That might be the first one. Okay, let's 873 00:42:03,480 --> 00:42:07,400 Speaker 1: get to the next story. Uh. Seattle woman says she 874 00:42:07,520 --> 00:42:11,560 Speaker 1: was eating a salad she bought from Evergreen Salad when 875 00:42:11,560 --> 00:42:16,520 Speaker 1: she discovered a dead lizard halfway through eating. Okay, well, 876 00:42:16,560 --> 00:42:19,120 Speaker 1: this is definitely gonna happen with climate change. New animals 877 00:42:19,200 --> 00:42:24,200 Speaker 1: are in our going into different regions. Uh, definitely, Pesser. 878 00:42:24,480 --> 00:42:27,360 Speaker 1: We eat so many bugs and different animals that you 879 00:42:27,400 --> 00:42:29,279 Speaker 1: don't even freaking know about it. First of all, we 880 00:42:29,320 --> 00:42:33,080 Speaker 1: eat animals. News flash to everyone. If you found a 881 00:42:33,160 --> 00:42:36,560 Speaker 1: chicken in your salad, would you be like what? That's 882 00:42:36,560 --> 00:42:38,200 Speaker 1: so funny to me when people are eating fried chicken, 883 00:42:38,200 --> 00:42:40,879 Speaker 1: they're like, there's a chicken foot. It's like, yeah, there's 884 00:42:40,880 --> 00:42:46,760 Speaker 1: also chicken leg, and must like there's a beak in here. Um, 885 00:42:46,800 --> 00:42:49,000 Speaker 1: the rest of the chickens there too, so you should 886 00:42:49,040 --> 00:42:53,880 Speaker 1: be alarmed that a chicken beak is in a chicken sandwich. Um, 887 00:42:55,200 --> 00:42:59,520 Speaker 1: is not ideal. Thanks, that's like a literally one of 888 00:42:59,560 --> 00:43:02,200 Speaker 1: the most vegan points about things is like, whenever I'm 889 00:43:02,239 --> 00:43:04,600 Speaker 1: on SUBD Vegan, there's always like some report of like 890 00:43:04,880 --> 00:43:07,880 Speaker 1: a woman found a beak in her fried chicken and 891 00:43:07,920 --> 00:43:10,839 Speaker 1: she's just like what the hell, And it's like, you're 892 00:43:10,880 --> 00:43:14,160 Speaker 1: eating animals, So I would I would think I was 893 00:43:14,280 --> 00:43:16,920 Speaker 1: lucky if I found a lizard in my salad, and Andrew, 894 00:43:17,000 --> 00:43:18,680 Speaker 1: you're scared of lizards. We know that was it a 895 00:43:18,719 --> 00:43:22,240 Speaker 1: dead list? Um? I would just hate if my fork 896 00:43:22,320 --> 00:43:24,760 Speaker 1: went through it, and like pierced its little lizard belly. 897 00:43:24,800 --> 00:43:29,680 Speaker 1: I'd feel so sad. The restaurant was like, uh, they 898 00:43:29,719 --> 00:43:32,160 Speaker 1: took It's so funny when a restaurant takes blame for 899 00:43:32,239 --> 00:43:34,480 Speaker 1: something like this, and then they add the word alleged, 900 00:43:35,280 --> 00:43:38,719 Speaker 1: you know what I mean, They go alleged, like we're 901 00:43:38,800 --> 00:43:42,080 Speaker 1: very sorry for the lizard being in allegedly in the 902 00:43:42,120 --> 00:43:47,600 Speaker 1: sound like it's passive apology. And Kathy Griffin named one 903 00:43:47,640 --> 00:43:50,520 Speaker 1: of her specials allegedly because she tells celebrity stories and 904 00:43:50,520 --> 00:43:52,320 Speaker 1: it's just she has to say that for every single 905 00:43:52,360 --> 00:43:55,000 Speaker 1: one to protect herself, and it's just such a like 906 00:43:55,080 --> 00:43:59,000 Speaker 1: fuck you, you're right, like, um, well, based on his account, 907 00:43:59,440 --> 00:44:04,399 Speaker 1: this is just you could trust me, bitch. Um Yeah, well, 908 00:44:04,440 --> 00:44:08,399 Speaker 1: I mean people do put lizards and things and and try. 909 00:44:08,560 --> 00:44:11,279 Speaker 1: You guys found disgusting things and have I I told 910 00:44:11,320 --> 00:44:13,799 Speaker 1: you yesterday how I found there was some kind of 911 00:44:14,880 --> 00:44:17,400 Speaker 1: there was a maggot of some sort in my taco 912 00:44:17,480 --> 00:44:19,960 Speaker 1: bell and I just took it out of my teeth, 913 00:44:20,480 --> 00:44:22,279 Speaker 1: threw it on the thing, and I just kept eating 914 00:44:22,320 --> 00:44:25,040 Speaker 1: because I've yeah, like you're you know, and it was delicious. 915 00:44:25,040 --> 00:44:26,919 Speaker 1: People are getting gross out right now and I want 916 00:44:26,920 --> 00:44:29,360 Speaker 1: to just say, you're right, that is disgusting, and that 917 00:44:29,520 --> 00:44:32,640 Speaker 1: is like I would judge that a hair, I would 918 00:44:32,680 --> 00:44:34,839 Speaker 1: just take it out a maggot. That means that there's 919 00:44:34,880 --> 00:44:38,680 Speaker 1: more maggots. Maggot. There's never a maggot that's like on 920 00:44:38,719 --> 00:44:41,879 Speaker 1: a spiritual journey, like by itself, like I'm just gonna 921 00:44:41,920 --> 00:44:44,799 Speaker 1: go out and be on my own. Although I will 922 00:44:44,920 --> 00:44:49,160 Speaker 1: say that we watched that turtle on the shore. We 923 00:44:49,640 --> 00:44:51,719 Speaker 1: were all watching this turtle in the dark because we 924 00:44:51,840 --> 00:44:53,799 Speaker 1: learned that you're not supposed to if you By the way, 925 00:44:53,840 --> 00:44:55,439 Speaker 1: I just want to say this, if you ever see 926 00:44:55,440 --> 00:44:57,560 Speaker 1: a sea turtle at night coming up to the shore, 927 00:44:57,800 --> 00:45:00,400 Speaker 1: don't shine lights on it because it will scared them 928 00:45:00,400 --> 00:45:02,399 Speaker 1: back into the sea and then they won't they won't 929 00:45:02,400 --> 00:45:04,239 Speaker 1: feel safe and they might die or like get eating 930 00:45:04,280 --> 00:45:06,359 Speaker 1: my shark because they are scared to go on land 931 00:45:06,360 --> 00:45:08,920 Speaker 1: because of your dumb light. We didn't know that some pastors, 932 00:45:08,960 --> 00:45:10,239 Speaker 1: but I told us. We were like cool. We sat 933 00:45:10,280 --> 00:45:12,960 Speaker 1: in the dark. Eventually the turtle came back up and 934 00:45:12,960 --> 00:45:15,279 Speaker 1: and came on. It was so beautiful and we were 935 00:45:15,280 --> 00:45:18,560 Speaker 1: all like quiet watching this like gigantic turtle come up. 936 00:45:18,640 --> 00:45:20,480 Speaker 1: We could see it's silhouette. We were like, you know, 937 00:45:20,480 --> 00:45:24,120 Speaker 1: probably twenty ft away from it, probably more and um, 938 00:45:24,160 --> 00:45:27,000 Speaker 1: and I just was thinking, like, oh my god, isn't 939 00:45:27,040 --> 00:45:30,640 Speaker 1: it interesting that there's some animals that are completely loners. 940 00:45:30,760 --> 00:45:33,040 Speaker 1: You know, they don't they're not in a pod or 941 00:45:33,080 --> 00:45:34,839 Speaker 1: they're not in they don't have the they don't even 942 00:45:34,880 --> 00:45:37,520 Speaker 1: have a name for a group because they don't have there. 943 00:45:37,520 --> 00:45:39,200 Speaker 1: It's not like a murder. There's a murder of crows, 944 00:45:39,239 --> 00:45:41,480 Speaker 1: but there's like a nothing of turtles because they're just 945 00:45:41,520 --> 00:45:45,799 Speaker 1: like they don't hang out together. And trying to understand 946 00:45:46,000 --> 00:45:47,879 Speaker 1: what is the point of life as a turtle then 947 00:45:48,000 --> 00:45:51,200 Speaker 1: if it's not for like because as a human, so 948 00:45:51,320 --> 00:45:54,239 Speaker 1: much of our happiness and the point of living is 949 00:45:54,520 --> 00:45:58,959 Speaker 1: being based on socializing. And it was just like, wow, 950 00:45:59,000 --> 00:46:00,839 Speaker 1: why would you like to have whole life? All you 951 00:46:00,920 --> 00:46:02,960 Speaker 1: do is just you're by yourself. I was like lonely 952 00:46:02,960 --> 00:46:05,720 Speaker 1: for the turtle, But that turtle doesn't know that it's lonely. 953 00:46:05,800 --> 00:46:08,480 Speaker 1: It's like that's the way the turtle is. And I 954 00:46:08,520 --> 00:46:11,560 Speaker 1: also it reminds me of when I was watching some 955 00:46:11,640 --> 00:46:15,000 Speaker 1: documentary about SeaWorld or like not black Fish, but it 956 00:46:15,040 --> 00:46:17,280 Speaker 1: was some other thing about dolphins that are in captivity 957 00:46:17,360 --> 00:46:21,600 Speaker 1: or whales and um. They said on this thing, it 958 00:46:21,640 --> 00:46:23,560 Speaker 1: makes me like cry even thinking about it. That a 959 00:46:23,680 --> 00:46:26,960 Speaker 1: dolphin and captivity by itself, even with like one other dolphin. 960 00:46:27,160 --> 00:46:30,120 Speaker 1: You know it's dolphins don't just get along because here's 961 00:46:30,120 --> 00:46:32,319 Speaker 1: another dolphin. It's like putting two people together like they 962 00:46:32,360 --> 00:46:35,359 Speaker 1: might hate each other. Um, but a dolphin alone, this 963 00:46:35,400 --> 00:46:40,720 Speaker 1: woman said, this dolphin, everything that makes this dolphins life 964 00:46:41,120 --> 00:46:45,600 Speaker 1: happy is taken from it. It's like it needs socialization, 965 00:46:45,800 --> 00:46:50,000 Speaker 1: it needs uh space, it needs to hunt its food 966 00:46:50,080 --> 00:46:53,200 Speaker 1: like anything that it would live for. This this is 967 00:46:53,400 --> 00:46:56,400 Speaker 1: definitely a depressed animal and like wants to kill itself, 968 00:46:56,440 --> 00:47:00,280 Speaker 1: like when you see an animal in captivity, zoos stuff 969 00:47:00,280 --> 00:47:01,919 Speaker 1: like that. I know there are good people doing these things, 970 00:47:01,920 --> 00:47:04,800 Speaker 1: and some of these animals are like rehabilitated, but generally 971 00:47:04,800 --> 00:47:07,800 Speaker 1: you're taking everything that makes that animal's life worth living 972 00:47:08,080 --> 00:47:10,080 Speaker 1: from it. But we look at Cajun we go always 973 00:47:10,080 --> 00:47:13,400 Speaker 1: got a tire. I would like that tire, always got friends. 974 00:47:13,440 --> 00:47:15,239 Speaker 1: I would like those friends. This is a nice life, 975 00:47:15,239 --> 00:47:17,960 Speaker 1: it's like, but you're not. You don't know what makes 976 00:47:18,000 --> 00:47:20,560 Speaker 1: this kind of animal happy. Think about not from a 977 00:47:20,680 --> 00:47:26,520 Speaker 1: human perspective, but from its Like, really, you put me 978 00:47:26,560 --> 00:47:29,719 Speaker 1: by four other motherfucker's. I want to be by myself 979 00:47:29,760 --> 00:47:33,120 Speaker 1: in an ocean without anyone around, so I could do 980 00:47:33,160 --> 00:47:37,120 Speaker 1: whatever fun I want. I'm a turtle. It's working on 981 00:47:37,160 --> 00:47:44,160 Speaker 1: its memoir. It wants to be alone. Yeah yeah, next 982 00:47:45,280 --> 00:47:51,600 Speaker 1: same time, that's friends. Yeah, apparently here we go. Uh 983 00:47:51,680 --> 00:47:54,920 Speaker 1: there's about oh sorry, sorry sorry, yes, yes, there's about 984 00:47:54,960 --> 00:47:58,239 Speaker 1: fifteen billion in gift cards, vouchers and store credits that 985 00:47:58,320 --> 00:48:01,080 Speaker 1: have not been used. More and have of adults have 986 00:48:01,280 --> 00:48:04,759 Speaker 1: unused gift cards. Oh, this is a great headline. Thank 987 00:48:04,800 --> 00:48:07,200 Speaker 1: you for this one. My dad always says that, He's like, 988 00:48:07,200 --> 00:48:09,520 Speaker 1: it's the biggest waste of money. It's you're just these 989 00:48:09,840 --> 00:48:12,120 Speaker 1: people are making hand over fist. I don't even know 990 00:48:12,160 --> 00:48:14,240 Speaker 1: what that means, Like they're making so much money. It's true, 991 00:48:14,280 --> 00:48:16,960 Speaker 1: I mean, how many how much money do you do? 992 00:48:17,000 --> 00:48:18,520 Speaker 1: You have a gift card right now that's burned a 993 00:48:18,560 --> 00:48:20,440 Speaker 1: hole in your wallet and that place might even go 994 00:48:20,480 --> 00:48:23,879 Speaker 1: out of business. Uh. I don't, but I definitely can 995 00:48:23,880 --> 00:48:26,080 Speaker 1: see how this can happen. I do think now with 996 00:48:26,160 --> 00:48:28,839 Speaker 1: online shopping, it would probably be less. I think the 997 00:48:28,880 --> 00:48:31,160 Speaker 1: idea of having to go to the store is probably 998 00:48:31,200 --> 00:48:34,760 Speaker 1: the most annoying part for people Also, it just doesn't 999 00:48:34,760 --> 00:48:37,400 Speaker 1: seem like real money. It seems like you know, phony money, Like, 1000 00:48:37,440 --> 00:48:40,359 Speaker 1: oh this really works at the at the store, right. 1001 00:48:40,480 --> 00:48:42,600 Speaker 1: I always was a big component. Just give me cash 1002 00:48:42,760 --> 00:48:45,400 Speaker 1: and then I'll figure it out. Um but yeah cash, 1003 00:48:47,120 --> 00:48:51,480 Speaker 1: but yeah, um but yeah, I agree. Like I think 1004 00:48:51,640 --> 00:48:54,000 Speaker 1: that I have a ray Band gift sort of gift 1005 00:48:54,000 --> 00:48:56,200 Speaker 1: card that's been in my wallet forever, and every time 1006 00:48:56,239 --> 00:48:58,239 Speaker 1: I think I lose my wallet, I don't think about 1007 00:48:58,280 --> 00:49:00,600 Speaker 1: the cash or my I was listen as they go, 1008 00:49:00,600 --> 00:49:02,640 Speaker 1: why didn't I spend like goddamn rate but where a 1009 00:49:03,640 --> 00:49:06,919 Speaker 1: type of the code online? Probably liked Bucks something enough 1010 00:49:06,920 --> 00:49:10,040 Speaker 1: first good one, and I've just never used it. And 1011 00:49:10,680 --> 00:49:12,520 Speaker 1: my Starbucks cards like every time I get a new 1012 00:49:12,560 --> 00:49:15,000 Speaker 1: gift card, it opens on my app as a new account, 1013 00:49:15,080 --> 00:49:17,080 Speaker 1: and I can't merge them all. So literally, I have 1014 00:49:17,360 --> 00:49:21,080 Speaker 1: probably a hundred dollars spread out over like cents on 1015 00:49:21,200 --> 00:49:25,480 Speaker 1: a hundred different you know, four hundred different cards. Uh, 1016 00:49:25,520 --> 00:49:27,239 Speaker 1: and they're never gonna get used, Like I don't know, 1017 00:49:27,320 --> 00:49:29,120 Speaker 1: there's no way to consolidate the unless I go to 1018 00:49:29,160 --> 00:49:31,399 Speaker 1: the store and go, can you add this? So they're 1019 00:49:31,440 --> 00:49:34,880 Speaker 1: just making all that cards for Starbucks. It's like a 1020 00:49:34,960 --> 00:49:38,520 Speaker 1: mutual fund, but like like you can invest in a 1021 00:49:38,680 --> 00:49:41,280 Speaker 1: mutual fund of Starbucks where it would all be merged 1022 00:49:41,320 --> 00:49:44,319 Speaker 1: for you, like you're your own individual investor, and you 1023 00:49:44,400 --> 00:49:47,560 Speaker 1: can't eat like a nice group of of gift cards. 1024 00:49:48,200 --> 00:49:51,160 Speaker 1: All yes, I mean star Wars gift cards are my favorite, 1025 00:49:51,320 --> 00:49:56,080 Speaker 1: uh president, And because I want to know that came 1026 00:49:56,120 --> 00:49:57,880 Speaker 1: in a gift, that came in a gift back or 1027 00:49:57,920 --> 00:50:00,640 Speaker 1: something some like event I went to. They re sponsored 1028 00:50:00,640 --> 00:50:02,879 Speaker 1: by Raymond and they gave every celebrity like a gift card. 1029 00:50:03,400 --> 00:50:05,239 Speaker 1: You could just probably go online and use it. And 1030 00:50:05,239 --> 00:50:06,920 Speaker 1: the other thing is I'm gonna do it. This is 1031 00:50:06,920 --> 00:50:08,200 Speaker 1: we're gonna get me to do it. And I think 1032 00:50:08,200 --> 00:50:11,080 Speaker 1: everyone listening if you have a gift guard, burn a 1033 00:50:11,080 --> 00:50:13,560 Speaker 1: hole in your wallet, just go online and type that 1034 00:50:13,600 --> 00:50:15,640 Speaker 1: little code in and and see what happens. I guess 1035 00:50:15,640 --> 00:50:17,719 Speaker 1: my fear is expired, and then I'm gonna be mad 1036 00:50:17,760 --> 00:50:21,760 Speaker 1: at myself. So I'd rather just not find these websites. 1037 00:50:21,800 --> 00:50:24,439 Speaker 1: And obviously this wasn't just to promote these but card 1038 00:50:24,480 --> 00:50:27,000 Speaker 1: cash dot com or raised dot com and you could 1039 00:50:27,000 --> 00:50:30,480 Speaker 1: get cashative value. So if you don't want anything from 1040 00:50:30,520 --> 00:50:35,360 Speaker 1: the store, you're like just or whatever. Listen, to that. Okay, guys, 1041 00:50:35,400 --> 00:50:37,680 Speaker 1: there's a place to get rid of your cards if 1042 00:50:37,719 --> 00:50:39,799 Speaker 1: you like, get a I've always wanted to buy someone 1043 00:50:39,840 --> 00:50:42,160 Speaker 1: like you know what the best gift certificate is or 1044 00:50:42,200 --> 00:50:44,759 Speaker 1: a gift card is to a place a store is 1045 00:50:44,840 --> 00:50:48,480 Speaker 1: just buy something from that store. It's a tangible thing 1046 00:50:48,480 --> 00:50:50,480 Speaker 1: that they have to then return to go to the store, 1047 00:50:50,560 --> 00:50:53,680 Speaker 1: and then they have to stop there. But it's like, uh, 1048 00:50:53,719 --> 00:50:55,480 Speaker 1: whenever I bought my mom is sweater for Christmas, I go, 1049 00:50:55,520 --> 00:50:57,200 Speaker 1: that's just a gift card to that place is just 1050 00:50:57,360 --> 00:50:59,400 Speaker 1: turn it in and if you like it, great, But 1051 00:50:59,640 --> 00:51:01,560 Speaker 1: if you don't, just use the money there and then 1052 00:51:01,560 --> 00:51:03,399 Speaker 1: you have to spend it there. And I know people 1053 00:51:03,400 --> 00:51:05,160 Speaker 1: are like, just give me cash, like it, spend it anywhere. 1054 00:51:05,400 --> 00:51:08,600 Speaker 1: It's nice to the paralysis of choice sometimes leads me 1055 00:51:08,640 --> 00:51:10,480 Speaker 1: to go, Okay, this hundred dollars cash, I should save 1056 00:51:10,480 --> 00:51:13,600 Speaker 1: it for food and twilet people. It's kind of nice 1057 00:51:13,640 --> 00:51:15,320 Speaker 1: to go. You have to spend this at the Apple 1058 00:51:15,400 --> 00:51:19,719 Speaker 1: Music store. You have to spend this at Cole's. Gift 1059 00:51:19,719 --> 00:51:23,640 Speaker 1: card is the new coal And you're talking okay, but um, 1060 00:51:23,680 --> 00:51:25,880 Speaker 1: I want to not be the person. And I know 1061 00:51:26,000 --> 00:51:27,400 Speaker 1: this person is out there, and I think I have 1062 00:51:27,480 --> 00:51:28,960 Speaker 1: a little bit of this is if I gave you 1063 00:51:29,000 --> 00:51:32,240 Speaker 1: a gift card to let's say, you know, um wherever, 1064 00:51:32,520 --> 00:51:35,080 Speaker 1: two coals whatever. I a week later I would check 1065 00:51:35,080 --> 00:51:37,080 Speaker 1: in and be like, hey, what did you get from Coals? 1066 00:51:37,400 --> 00:51:39,799 Speaker 1: You know? And then another week later like hey what 1067 00:51:39,920 --> 00:51:42,239 Speaker 1: it being like yeah, like being like it's kind of 1068 00:51:42,239 --> 00:51:44,440 Speaker 1: a pad on my own back of buying the thing 1069 00:51:44,480 --> 00:51:46,720 Speaker 1: for you. You think when you got me a birthday president. 1070 00:51:46,800 --> 00:51:49,120 Speaker 1: You came home the day before my birthday and we're like, 1071 00:51:49,239 --> 00:51:51,200 Speaker 1: can I give it to you? You're swinging the bag 1072 00:51:51,239 --> 00:51:55,960 Speaker 1: in my face and I'm I'm I'm saying I am, 1073 00:51:56,000 --> 00:51:58,040 Speaker 1: and now you're yelling at me. Want to know how 1074 00:51:58,120 --> 00:52:01,120 Speaker 1: much credit you wanted from bren for going to the Ika? 1075 00:52:01,200 --> 00:52:03,160 Speaker 1: Did she give you enough credit for it? Did you 1076 00:52:03,160 --> 00:52:05,080 Speaker 1: go I Wasn't I a good boyfriend? Did you that 1077 00:52:05,160 --> 00:52:07,319 Speaker 1: I was? I was very I I want to get 1078 00:52:07,320 --> 00:52:11,040 Speaker 1: Brett on the on the podcast. Actually I just had 1079 00:52:11,080 --> 00:52:16,680 Speaker 1: her on the episode of my podcasts Puddles. She might 1080 00:52:16,719 --> 00:52:23,680 Speaker 1: have left. Oh damn, well she's gone. Oh I hope forever? 1081 00:52:24,000 --> 00:52:28,520 Speaker 1: How dare you she? You move her? There? The Chief. 1082 00:52:29,320 --> 00:52:32,600 Speaker 1: I got her a free gym membership for life here 1083 00:52:33,160 --> 00:52:35,480 Speaker 1: because I know someone that owns a gym here in Chicago, 1084 00:52:36,120 --> 00:52:39,239 Speaker 1: like a bunch of the post Instagram for the rest 1085 00:52:39,239 --> 00:52:43,640 Speaker 1: of her life. Membership for until you really want this 1086 00:52:43,680 --> 00:52:45,480 Speaker 1: girl to stay here and stay there in a way 1087 00:52:45,520 --> 00:52:47,799 Speaker 1: from he wrote me, because if she dumps you, I'll 1088 00:52:47,840 --> 00:52:50,520 Speaker 1: cancel the membership. I go, she dumps me, there'll be 1089 00:52:50,520 --> 00:52:53,759 Speaker 1: a new girl on the elliptical by yeah. But I 1090 00:52:54,840 --> 00:52:57,920 Speaker 1: was like, but I was just like, I don't. I've 1091 00:52:57,960 --> 00:52:59,960 Speaker 1: brought up the gym like four times since I gave 1092 00:53:00,040 --> 00:53:02,600 Speaker 1: for the gift, and I just I gotta stop. I 1093 00:53:02,640 --> 00:53:04,160 Speaker 1: just want to stop. I don't want to do. What 1094 00:53:04,200 --> 00:53:05,640 Speaker 1: do you want? Can we talk about what? I don't 1095 00:53:05,680 --> 00:53:07,480 Speaker 1: want to want anything. It's just like, I don't know 1096 00:53:07,520 --> 00:53:09,920 Speaker 1: what it is. I'm just saying, yes you do. It's 1097 00:53:09,920 --> 00:53:13,520 Speaker 1: okay to want something. You want someone to go thank 1098 00:53:13,560 --> 00:53:15,560 Speaker 1: you so much. I can't believe you did that. It 1099 00:53:15,600 --> 00:53:18,719 Speaker 1: means so much. Mean you want credit. I want like mom, look, 1100 00:53:18,760 --> 00:53:21,279 Speaker 1: I gotta I got an a like we all want that. 1101 00:53:21,280 --> 00:53:22,719 Speaker 1: That makes sense when I give a gift in the 1102 00:53:22,760 --> 00:53:26,080 Speaker 1: person like Robin is bad at saying thank you, my friend, Robin. 1103 00:53:26,600 --> 00:53:29,120 Speaker 1: She she admits it like to us. Even Andrew from 1104 00:53:29,239 --> 00:53:32,000 Speaker 1: in Cayman Islands, Robin. She Uh, She's like, I just 1105 00:53:32,040 --> 00:53:34,440 Speaker 1: don't like I'm I'm bad at saying thank you. And 1106 00:53:34,480 --> 00:53:36,680 Speaker 1: it's not because I'm not grateful. It's because I hate 1107 00:53:36,680 --> 00:53:38,520 Speaker 1: when I feel like they want it so bad, I 1108 00:53:38,560 --> 00:53:39,839 Speaker 1: just don't want to give it to them. I want 1109 00:53:39,840 --> 00:53:42,040 Speaker 1: to say thank you. And I'm the same way when 1110 00:53:42,360 --> 00:53:44,520 Speaker 1: I see Andrew empty the diswasher and he's kind of like, 1111 00:53:44,840 --> 00:53:49,120 Speaker 1: I know he's hating some acknowledge. I well, I project 1112 00:53:49,160 --> 00:53:53,960 Speaker 1: that you project even though I would life savings that 1113 00:53:54,080 --> 00:54:01,279 Speaker 1: you say something, I'll kill um. So I get it. Yeah, 1114 00:54:01,320 --> 00:54:02,960 Speaker 1: you just want credit. You want to know, like I'm 1115 00:54:03,000 --> 00:54:05,600 Speaker 1: a good boy. I did know what it is. It is. 1116 00:54:05,640 --> 00:54:07,160 Speaker 1: I go, hey, I can get you a a gym membership 1117 00:54:07,160 --> 00:54:09,120 Speaker 1: and she's like, yeah, okay, Like I don't know if 1118 00:54:09,160 --> 00:54:11,759 Speaker 1: it was like completely believed that I can get this 1119 00:54:11,840 --> 00:54:13,839 Speaker 1: for her, and I was and I got it done. 1120 00:54:14,120 --> 00:54:15,759 Speaker 1: And then when she did what she said, well, I 1121 00:54:15,760 --> 00:54:19,160 Speaker 1: mean she's so thankful. Why bring it up. I don't know, 1122 00:54:19,480 --> 00:54:20,919 Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. I don't want to be more. 1123 00:54:21,120 --> 00:54:22,799 Speaker 1: I just don't want to. I'm not going to be 1124 00:54:22,800 --> 00:54:25,440 Speaker 1: that person anymore. And you don't know you are that person. 1125 00:54:25,480 --> 00:54:28,880 Speaker 1: That's okay, it's you just need to actually mean you are. 1126 00:54:29,840 --> 00:54:31,839 Speaker 1: Sometimes you'll be like, who got that for you? Who 1127 00:54:31,880 --> 00:54:36,120 Speaker 1: did that for you? I go, why why do you 1128 00:54:36,120 --> 00:54:39,040 Speaker 1: think you? Guys had anals? Was because I talked about it? 1129 00:54:39,040 --> 00:54:42,000 Speaker 1: And how great was Brenna? Why did you get there? 1130 00:54:42,040 --> 00:54:43,600 Speaker 1: Why did you get on? Why did you quit drinking? 1131 00:54:43,840 --> 00:54:46,239 Speaker 1: It's me? I want credit? Tell me why do we 1132 00:54:46,280 --> 00:54:49,560 Speaker 1: want it? Why do we want it? Because because it's 1133 00:54:49,600 --> 00:54:52,920 Speaker 1: it's our ego and it means that we are important, 1134 00:54:53,040 --> 00:54:56,040 Speaker 1: and um, we that you depend on us, and you 1135 00:54:56,080 --> 00:54:58,160 Speaker 1: won't leave me because look at how I teach your life, 1136 00:54:58,160 --> 00:54:59,960 Speaker 1: like keep me around. I'm gonna keep doing that. Don't 1137 00:55:00,040 --> 00:55:03,560 Speaker 1: abandoned me. Um. And so the second I stopped looking 1138 00:55:03,560 --> 00:55:05,320 Speaker 1: for a price from you, you'll know that it's time 1139 00:55:05,400 --> 00:55:12,239 Speaker 1: to go. Why do I care? Better? Edge friends? Now 1140 00:55:12,920 --> 00:55:18,560 Speaker 1: you're you need to move on? Why do I care? Well? 1141 00:55:18,760 --> 00:55:22,480 Speaker 1: Keep asking? All right? All right? Um. In response to 1142 00:55:22,560 --> 00:55:26,040 Speaker 1: the rap tweeting about ten actors who were way too 1143 00:55:26,040 --> 00:55:30,000 Speaker 1: old to play teens, Trevor Donovan responds, agent, just a number, 1144 00:55:30,040 --> 00:55:32,000 Speaker 1: get over and some people look younger and age lower 1145 00:55:32,080 --> 00:55:34,960 Speaker 1: than others. Stop promoting ages. M okay, I'm gonna I'm 1146 00:55:34,960 --> 00:55:36,560 Speaker 1: about to do the thing that I just talked about 1147 00:55:36,600 --> 00:55:38,800 Speaker 1: at the top of the show, where someone says something 1148 00:55:38,880 --> 00:55:40,880 Speaker 1: and you assume everyone knows what you're talking about. You 1149 00:55:40,920 --> 00:55:43,759 Speaker 1: read the word the rap. I'm guessing w R a P. 1150 00:55:44,000 --> 00:55:47,759 Speaker 1: And the rap is a publication or magazine. I know 1151 00:55:47,840 --> 00:55:50,120 Speaker 1: that because I'm savvy. I've go online. I know that 1152 00:55:50,160 --> 00:55:53,960 Speaker 1: the rap is something I've seen before. No one that 1153 00:55:54,280 --> 00:55:57,600 Speaker 1: like doesn't know entertainment news. Some people might get to 1154 00:55:57,640 --> 00:55:59,000 Speaker 1: the place where they're like, oh, yeah, he must be 1155 00:55:59,000 --> 00:56:01,640 Speaker 1: talking about a thing. You need to edit that and 1156 00:56:01,680 --> 00:56:05,040 Speaker 1: go the rap w R a P. It's a publication 1157 00:56:05,719 --> 00:56:13,319 Speaker 1: reports that. Yeah, I need to be able to Can 1158 00:56:13,360 --> 00:56:18,680 Speaker 1: I talk together with Noah? I do not know what 1159 00:56:18,760 --> 00:56:21,280 Speaker 1: You didn't even read the full article yesterday about dopamine, 1160 00:56:21,320 --> 00:56:25,080 Speaker 1: and so we know that you're not, Yeah, what what 1161 00:56:26,000 --> 00:56:29,359 Speaker 1: he just He just didn't report it. I didn't report 1162 00:56:29,360 --> 00:56:32,400 Speaker 1: it because we started talking about something else. That was 1163 00:56:32,440 --> 00:56:36,560 Speaker 1: my fault away that list. We didn't talk. We didn't 1164 00:56:36,600 --> 00:56:39,279 Speaker 1: talk about you, like you fucked up. I was just like, 1165 00:56:40,040 --> 00:56:41,560 Speaker 1: no no even said the other side. She goes, I 1166 00:56:41,560 --> 00:56:43,040 Speaker 1: don't know if Andrew read the whole thing, but I 1167 00:56:43,320 --> 00:56:45,440 Speaker 1: wanted to tell you this one thing, and she wasn't 1168 00:56:45,440 --> 00:56:46,960 Speaker 1: like mad at you. She said, I don't know if 1169 00:56:47,000 --> 00:56:50,239 Speaker 1: he read it. I left to that you did it, 1170 00:56:50,360 --> 00:56:53,200 Speaker 1: so I said, I wish, I wish that Andrew would 1171 00:56:53,200 --> 00:56:54,960 Speaker 1: have gotten to the story, but you guys went off 1172 00:56:55,000 --> 00:56:57,600 Speaker 1: on a different story because there was the part about 1173 00:56:57,600 --> 00:57:01,759 Speaker 1: the setting mini goals that trigger dopamine throughout the day. 1174 00:57:02,160 --> 00:57:04,200 Speaker 1: That's that's that I really wanted you to make that. 1175 00:57:04,280 --> 00:57:07,240 Speaker 1: I'm sorry that was me being mean to you, Andrew. 1176 00:57:07,400 --> 00:57:09,279 Speaker 1: And I want to just say that this is my 1177 00:57:09,360 --> 00:57:12,040 Speaker 1: character defect as I get mad when people assume other 1178 00:57:12,040 --> 00:57:14,040 Speaker 1: people will know what they're talking about, like the rap 1179 00:57:14,160 --> 00:57:16,000 Speaker 1: I wanted because at first I go the rap, and 1180 00:57:16,000 --> 00:57:17,400 Speaker 1: I'm like, I was thinking he was gonna say that 1181 00:57:17,520 --> 00:57:20,400 Speaker 1: he must to say the rapper, like the rapper jay 1182 00:57:20,480 --> 00:57:23,560 Speaker 1: Z or the rap artist blah blah. And then I 1183 00:57:23,560 --> 00:57:25,160 Speaker 1: got confused and then I didn't even know what you're 1184 00:57:25,160 --> 00:57:29,920 Speaker 1: saying mentioned the rap at all. Not even that's a 1185 00:57:29,920 --> 00:57:33,960 Speaker 1: good idea. Let's let's try it again, okay, all right, um, 1186 00:57:34,920 --> 00:57:36,520 Speaker 1: and feel free to suck it up. This is a 1187 00:57:36,600 --> 00:57:43,080 Speaker 1: learning experience. Trevor Donovan uh Perfect responded to with uh 1188 00:57:43,120 --> 00:57:45,680 Speaker 1: An article that said way too old to people to 1189 00:57:45,680 --> 00:57:48,520 Speaker 1: play teens. That's not He says, age is just a number. 1190 00:57:48,560 --> 00:57:51,600 Speaker 1: Get over at some people. I'm gonna stop you get 1191 00:57:53,400 --> 00:57:55,960 Speaker 1: up until he responded to an article that was about 1192 00:57:56,520 --> 00:57:59,040 Speaker 1: people who actors who are way too old to have 1193 00:57:59,080 --> 00:58:02,720 Speaker 1: played the teenagers that they were cast as, and he responded, 1194 00:58:02,920 --> 00:58:05,160 Speaker 1: this guy, that is how old is he? Is it relevant? 1195 00:58:05,200 --> 00:58:12,080 Speaker 1: Ho old? He's fourteen? He's forty now, but god so 1196 00:58:12,160 --> 00:58:14,640 Speaker 1: he's he's being defensive because he's twenty nine and got 1197 00:58:14,640 --> 00:58:16,560 Speaker 1: the scene role. I mean this is the same thing 1198 00:58:16,600 --> 00:58:18,960 Speaker 1: of like, um, you know when Scarlett Johanson is playing 1199 00:58:18,960 --> 00:58:22,880 Speaker 1: an Asian person or Mickey Rooney is like it's almost 1200 00:58:22,880 --> 00:58:28,440 Speaker 1: like a it's probably to get actors to funk on 1201 00:58:28,520 --> 00:58:31,800 Speaker 1: camera when they're twenty eight and seventeen because there's probably 1202 00:58:31,840 --> 00:58:36,760 Speaker 1: like loopholes or there's probably remember how read his response though, 1203 00:58:36,800 --> 00:58:40,520 Speaker 1: because I think that's important is about dopamine. Well, he goes, 1204 00:58:40,600 --> 00:58:43,320 Speaker 1: age is just a number. Over it. Some people look 1205 00:58:43,360 --> 00:58:46,080 Speaker 1: younger and age lower than others. Stop promoting agism. He 1206 00:58:46,080 --> 00:58:50,240 Speaker 1: thinks it's agism. Okay, Um, I agree with this, and 1207 00:58:50,280 --> 00:58:54,440 Speaker 1: I agree that also sometimes adult actors are more capable 1208 00:58:54,640 --> 00:58:58,560 Speaker 1: of uh doing a better job than child act just 1209 00:58:58,600 --> 00:59:00,640 Speaker 1: because they have more experience, right, and that they're going 1210 00:59:00,680 --> 00:59:02,080 Speaker 1: to be more professional and set. You don't have to 1211 00:59:02,160 --> 00:59:05,200 Speaker 1: hire tutors, you don't have to deal with parents. And 1212 00:59:05,440 --> 00:59:09,280 Speaker 1: that might be a reason to get upset, is because like, oh, 1213 00:59:09,320 --> 00:59:11,160 Speaker 1: because I need a tutor and all this extra money, 1214 00:59:11,160 --> 00:59:12,720 Speaker 1: you're not gonna hire me. That could be a whole thing. 1215 00:59:12,760 --> 00:59:17,720 Speaker 1: But I mean if but yeah, But you know, I've 1216 00:59:17,720 --> 00:59:20,520 Speaker 1: heard a lot from gay actors that they hate when 1217 00:59:20,560 --> 00:59:22,840 Speaker 1: straight people are cast as a gay character, like give 1218 00:59:22,880 --> 00:59:26,120 Speaker 1: that to us, And part of me goes, yeah, you 1219 00:59:26,160 --> 00:59:30,080 Speaker 1: should like uh, and then but that should straight actors 1220 00:59:30,080 --> 00:59:32,200 Speaker 1: not be played by gay actors. But I do believe that, 1221 00:59:32,240 --> 00:59:36,600 Speaker 1: like I I would prefer gay people play gay people 1222 00:59:36,760 --> 00:59:39,040 Speaker 1: on screen, so it doesn't take me out of it. 1223 00:59:39,080 --> 00:59:43,960 Speaker 1: And also some of the gay romance movies the UM 1224 00:59:44,000 --> 00:59:47,320 Speaker 1: you know, obviously the Brokeback Mountain and then the UM 1225 00:59:47,360 --> 00:59:49,880 Speaker 1: the one with Armie Hammer and Timothy chellmate what's it called? 1226 00:59:49,920 --> 00:59:54,680 Speaker 1: I was fret Yeah, fuck the Apercot that movie. I 1227 00:59:54,720 --> 00:59:57,280 Speaker 1: was so moved by the gay love story that it 1228 00:59:57,400 --> 01:00:02,560 Speaker 1: and it you know, it's hard sometimes to understand as 1229 01:00:02,600 --> 01:00:05,920 Speaker 1: a hetero person. You you understand that gay love is 1230 01:00:05,960 --> 01:00:09,160 Speaker 1: the same, but you don't you go, you know. I 1231 01:00:09,200 --> 01:00:11,520 Speaker 1: remember watching Broke by Mountain and thinking, I'm not gonna 1232 01:00:11,560 --> 01:00:13,600 Speaker 1: love this like I would love a straight story because 1233 01:00:13,600 --> 01:00:15,680 Speaker 1: I can't relate to it right. Like there was a 1234 01:00:15,680 --> 01:00:17,120 Speaker 1: part of me that was not that I was like 1235 01:00:17,200 --> 01:00:19,320 Speaker 1: this is gross or something. It was just like, it's 1236 01:00:19,320 --> 01:00:21,160 Speaker 1: just I don't want to see too. I don't watch 1237 01:00:21,240 --> 01:00:22,840 Speaker 1: porn of gay guys. That it's like not going to 1238 01:00:22,920 --> 01:00:24,360 Speaker 1: do it for me, not that this is porn at all. 1239 01:00:24,360 --> 01:00:26,240 Speaker 1: So I had all these preconceived notions and then I 1240 01:00:26,240 --> 01:00:29,000 Speaker 1: watched it and I'm like, this is better than you've 1241 01:00:29,000 --> 01:00:31,160 Speaker 1: got male in terms of love story, I do not 1242 01:00:31,320 --> 01:00:37,000 Speaker 1: think about guys being guys. Yeah, oh my god, you 1243 01:00:37,040 --> 01:00:39,880 Speaker 1: know what, Andrew, I can't quit you. And so I 1244 01:00:39,920 --> 01:00:42,320 Speaker 1: was and I felt the same way about the Apricot 1245 01:00:42,520 --> 01:00:45,920 Speaker 1: com Apricot. I was like, that movie did not it 1246 01:00:45,920 --> 01:00:49,040 Speaker 1: didn't matter that, but I would have maybe preferred those 1247 01:00:49,440 --> 01:00:53,400 Speaker 1: actors to portray that even more accurately, as if they 1248 01:00:53,440 --> 01:01:00,040 Speaker 1: were actually, here's two straight men playing like there's a 1249 01:01:00,080 --> 01:01:03,920 Speaker 1: beauty behind straight men being so comfortable with themselves that 1250 01:01:03,960 --> 01:01:07,400 Speaker 1: they can play gay actors that in somehow shows as 1251 01:01:07,400 --> 01:01:11,080 Speaker 1: a straight man that it's okay, Like it makes me 1252 01:01:11,200 --> 01:01:18,400 Speaker 1: almost paid BA millions of dollars. Well, yeah, it makes 1253 01:01:18,440 --> 01:01:20,840 Speaker 1: you go like, listen, you can indulge in you can, 1254 01:01:21,600 --> 01:01:23,800 Speaker 1: you can, that's okay. You can still be a hot 1255 01:01:23,840 --> 01:01:27,760 Speaker 1: guy who has literally had gay sex on simulated gay 1256 01:01:27,800 --> 01:01:29,720 Speaker 1: sex on camera and everyone saw even though you're playing 1257 01:01:29,720 --> 01:01:33,760 Speaker 1: a character, it's fine. Um, yeah, I agree. I will 1258 01:01:33,800 --> 01:01:36,560 Speaker 1: say though that, Um, it reminds me of this one 1259 01:01:36,560 --> 01:01:38,840 Speaker 1: time I took an acting class and I was really young. 1260 01:01:39,200 --> 01:01:44,200 Speaker 1: It's just uh twenty two. I was just had a 1261 01:01:44,240 --> 01:01:49,880 Speaker 1: college move to l a play. I was playing a 1262 01:01:49,920 --> 01:01:52,600 Speaker 1: hot baby because that's what my shirt said. And I 1263 01:01:52,640 --> 01:01:55,520 Speaker 1: went to this class and there was a like a 1264 01:01:55,560 --> 01:01:57,960 Speaker 1: probably a forty something year old guy in the class 1265 01:01:57,960 --> 01:01:59,560 Speaker 1: and I'm twenty two and all the girls in the 1266 01:01:59,560 --> 01:02:02,720 Speaker 1: class room just super hot cute girls. Not myself. I 1267 01:02:02,760 --> 01:02:04,760 Speaker 1: like felt out of place and they're all like gorgeous 1268 01:02:04,800 --> 01:02:08,120 Speaker 1: model league girls. And uh, this guy was in the class, 1269 01:02:08,120 --> 01:02:09,520 Speaker 1: and there were some cute guys in the class too, 1270 01:02:09,560 --> 01:02:10,800 Speaker 1: But there was a scene that we all have to 1271 01:02:10,800 --> 01:02:13,520 Speaker 1: practice where you have to kiss, not make out, just 1272 01:02:13,920 --> 01:02:15,840 Speaker 1: like a kiss, and I just did not want to 1273 01:02:15,880 --> 01:02:18,080 Speaker 1: kiss this old man like I didn't want to, and 1274 01:02:18,080 --> 01:02:22,160 Speaker 1: I like and I and we would practice separately before 1275 01:02:22,240 --> 01:02:24,560 Speaker 1: the class in his fourties, but he was just like, 1276 01:02:24,640 --> 01:02:26,440 Speaker 1: not a guy I would want to kiss, whether he 1277 01:02:26,480 --> 01:02:29,640 Speaker 1: was old or not. But we would all practice together 1278 01:02:29,960 --> 01:02:32,200 Speaker 1: as groups, and then we would go to the class 1279 01:02:32,200 --> 01:02:35,120 Speaker 1: and then combine with the other people to make the scene, 1280 01:02:35,240 --> 01:02:38,680 Speaker 1: and as groups it would all be us girls practicing. 1281 01:02:38,680 --> 01:02:41,720 Speaker 1: And I remember being like, guys class on Sunday, I 1282 01:02:41,760 --> 01:02:43,200 Speaker 1: am not going to kiss this guy. I refused to 1283 01:02:43,240 --> 01:02:44,400 Speaker 1: do it, and they were like, we don't want to either, 1284 01:02:44,400 --> 01:02:45,919 Speaker 1: and I go, I'll stand up for us, like I'm 1285 01:02:45,920 --> 01:02:48,240 Speaker 1: gonna say we don't want to do kissing. And so 1286 01:02:48,320 --> 01:02:50,080 Speaker 1: I stood up in class and was like, before we 1287 01:02:50,080 --> 01:02:51,240 Speaker 1: start of the scene, I just want to say like 1288 01:02:51,280 --> 01:02:53,280 Speaker 1: I don't want to kiss anyone, like I just not 1289 01:02:53,360 --> 01:02:57,080 Speaker 1: comfortable kissing anyone. And the person was like, well, what 1290 01:02:57,160 --> 01:02:59,200 Speaker 1: if you get a partner a movie where you have 1291 01:02:59,240 --> 01:03:02,240 Speaker 1: to kiss uh mark here? And I go, then I'll 1292 01:03:02,240 --> 01:03:04,040 Speaker 1: do it, but I'm not I'm paying for this and 1293 01:03:04,040 --> 01:03:05,560 Speaker 1: I don't want to kis him. They're like, well, that's 1294 01:03:05,560 --> 01:03:07,880 Speaker 1: not professional. You're learning how to audition. This is part 1295 01:03:07,920 --> 01:03:10,160 Speaker 1: of the audition. I go, no, I don't want to, 1296 01:03:10,240 --> 01:03:11,840 Speaker 1: and they're not going to either, and then all the 1297 01:03:11,840 --> 01:03:13,400 Speaker 1: girls were like, we'll do it, and I was like 1298 01:03:13,800 --> 01:03:16,040 Speaker 1: where what happened to my old like rally? And so 1299 01:03:16,120 --> 01:03:18,840 Speaker 1: I was the only one that said I would like 1300 01:03:18,960 --> 01:03:22,000 Speaker 1: cut from that? What do you mean? Oh yeah, I 1301 01:03:22,040 --> 01:03:24,200 Speaker 1: was a little turtle. I didn't want to kiss anyone 1302 01:03:25,040 --> 01:03:28,840 Speaker 1: the beach at him. Um, I was like, uh, he 1303 01:03:28,880 --> 01:03:31,280 Speaker 1: didn't like me that. That teacher really hated me after 1304 01:03:31,320 --> 01:03:34,600 Speaker 1: that and said I'm not professional, And the truth is 1305 01:03:34,640 --> 01:03:36,520 Speaker 1: I'm not. I didn't want to be an actress and 1306 01:03:37,000 --> 01:03:39,280 Speaker 1: I didn't want to kiss him. And if I got 1307 01:03:39,280 --> 01:03:40,760 Speaker 1: cast in something where I had to kiss someone that 1308 01:03:40,840 --> 01:03:43,800 Speaker 1: was gross, UM, I would just deal with it. But 1309 01:03:44,480 --> 01:03:47,280 Speaker 1: I know that that that that can be very uncomfortable, 1310 01:03:47,280 --> 01:03:49,240 Speaker 1: even for very professional actresses sometimes where they have to 1311 01:03:49,280 --> 01:03:51,360 Speaker 1: kiss someone that they're repulsed by that has been like 1312 01:03:51,480 --> 01:03:53,240 Speaker 1: is a me too person? Or you know, like or 1313 01:03:53,360 --> 01:03:55,200 Speaker 1: is getting horny during it? Like I've heard of that 1314 01:03:55,240 --> 01:03:58,360 Speaker 1: before and vice versa. Event. Let's get to Reddit Dump. 1315 01:03:58,680 --> 01:04:01,680 Speaker 1: This is the weekly segment where I go through my 1316 01:04:01,720 --> 01:04:05,040 Speaker 1: Reddit account and I share with you the same I'm 1317 01:04:05,080 --> 01:04:09,240 Speaker 1: just pitturing you taking a natty balcony reading ready, you 1318 01:04:09,360 --> 01:04:11,440 Speaker 1: know that I take the shortest ship ever, so it 1319 01:04:11,440 --> 01:04:14,479 Speaker 1: would be like a TikTok dump is what I would 1320 01:04:14,520 --> 01:04:18,200 Speaker 1: be doing this. I'm pulling it up. Okay, so I saved. 1321 01:04:18,400 --> 01:04:21,600 Speaker 1: Let me share it with you. What we got going today? Oh, 1322 01:04:21,680 --> 01:04:24,160 Speaker 1: there was a video of Tom Brady's accuracy. But then 1323 01:04:24,160 --> 01:04:27,160 Speaker 1: I realized it was a doctored video by reading the comments. 1324 01:04:27,200 --> 01:04:28,360 Speaker 1: I was going to share it with you. I saved 1325 01:04:28,360 --> 01:04:32,080 Speaker 1: it until I read the comments. Um okay, Oh I 1326 01:04:32,120 --> 01:04:36,160 Speaker 1: liked this one. Uh consensus on tongue inside vagina during 1327 01:04:36,320 --> 01:04:39,480 Speaker 1: oral sex. This was in sets. People wanted to know 1328 01:04:39,640 --> 01:04:41,680 Speaker 1: just what the title says. I've thought about actually putting 1329 01:04:41,680 --> 01:04:44,280 Speaker 1: my tongue inside my partner's vagina during oral not just 1330 01:04:44,400 --> 01:04:47,640 Speaker 1: licking around her volva and clit, but have been made 1331 01:04:47,640 --> 01:04:49,400 Speaker 1: wary of this because I saw someone on a different 1332 01:04:49,400 --> 01:04:51,280 Speaker 1: subreddit say they hated it. How do you all feel? 1333 01:04:51,320 --> 01:04:54,280 Speaker 1: Any tips tricks of the trade. If you do enjoy it, 1334 01:04:54,320 --> 01:04:57,520 Speaker 1: please save the just ask her, Please save any just 1335 01:04:57,720 --> 01:05:01,280 Speaker 1: ask her? I will. Um, So what do we think 1336 01:05:01,280 --> 01:05:04,440 Speaker 1: about it? No? Uh, I think it's hot. I definitely 1337 01:05:04,440 --> 01:05:06,600 Speaker 1: like tongue better than fingers. I'll be honest about you, 1338 01:05:06,680 --> 01:05:12,040 Speaker 1: like tongues inside your vagina inside when they're going down 1339 01:05:12,040 --> 01:05:16,880 Speaker 1: on you, or just like fingers at all. Ever both 1340 01:05:19,160 --> 01:05:22,680 Speaker 1: who I'm not a finger you're not a fingering gal. 1341 01:05:23,920 --> 01:05:26,720 Speaker 1: I I don't mind it, but I get too preoccupied 1342 01:05:26,720 --> 01:05:28,600 Speaker 1: with how much dirt is under the nails and what's 1343 01:05:28,640 --> 01:05:33,440 Speaker 1: going in there. Got it that makes sense? Totally checks out? Um. 1344 01:05:33,480 --> 01:05:36,120 Speaker 1: I will say that the tongue inside it doesn't feel 1345 01:05:37,120 --> 01:05:39,760 Speaker 1: like good or it's like not enough pressure to be 1346 01:05:39,920 --> 01:05:41,840 Speaker 1: something for me at least that's good or bad. It's 1347 01:05:41,880 --> 01:05:46,480 Speaker 1: just I like it because they It's just means they 1348 01:05:46,680 --> 01:05:50,080 Speaker 1: really like it. And my biggest fear about getting my 1349 01:05:50,080 --> 01:05:53,120 Speaker 1: pussy eaten is left over from just all the stuff 1350 01:05:53,160 --> 01:05:54,880 Speaker 1: you heard about in my bang and Special about men 1351 01:05:54,920 --> 01:05:58,040 Speaker 1: talking bad about vaginas there grows, they smell roast beef. 1352 01:05:58,440 --> 01:06:00,400 Speaker 1: So for a guy to like want to stick it 1353 01:06:00,920 --> 01:06:03,520 Speaker 1: my vagina, I'm like, he must love this so much, 1354 01:06:03,560 --> 01:06:05,520 Speaker 1: and then it makes me love it. It's not really 1355 01:06:05,520 --> 01:06:10,160 Speaker 1: the physical feeling as much as the psychological feeling really 1356 01:06:10,160 --> 01:06:12,400 Speaker 1: turns me on. That they're just like, wow, you're filthy. 1357 01:06:12,400 --> 01:06:14,960 Speaker 1: You want to like mujor tongue as a tampon. I 1358 01:06:14,960 --> 01:06:16,440 Speaker 1: don't know why I picture it, not as a dick. 1359 01:06:16,480 --> 01:06:18,520 Speaker 1: I took a picture it like just like you're going 1360 01:06:18,600 --> 01:06:24,360 Speaker 1: up licking the canal. It's weird, like lasagna, and there 1361 01:06:24,440 --> 01:06:27,120 Speaker 1: was left over sauce on the plate, so I licked, 1362 01:06:27,200 --> 01:06:29,160 Speaker 1: you know, I licked the plate and like that's what 1363 01:06:29,640 --> 01:06:31,760 Speaker 1: you really must have liked it, putting my tongue in 1364 01:06:31,760 --> 01:06:34,959 Speaker 1: a pussy like I'm just really into the lasagna. Yeah, yeah, 1365 01:06:35,120 --> 01:06:37,520 Speaker 1: trying to get back in Okay, So that's that's one 1366 01:06:37,720 --> 01:06:41,000 Speaker 1: that's interesting. Problem doesn't reach the G spot. It's like 1367 01:06:41,040 --> 01:06:43,320 Speaker 1: not long, it's just short enough where it doesn't really 1368 01:06:43,400 --> 01:06:47,440 Speaker 1: hit anything, and it's not hard enough, right, So it's 1369 01:06:47,480 --> 01:06:49,800 Speaker 1: just like a security like a security blanket, like one 1370 01:06:49,800 --> 01:06:53,800 Speaker 1: of those like warm blankets that make you feel comfortable. Yeah, 1371 01:06:53,800 --> 01:06:56,680 Speaker 1: it's a move that like I just think it's so 1372 01:06:57,200 --> 01:06:59,800 Speaker 1: unnecessary that this guy must be doing it for himself. 1373 01:06:59,800 --> 01:07:02,080 Speaker 1: And and I like that because he just he's down 1374 01:07:02,120 --> 01:07:04,439 Speaker 1: there because he likes it, not because sometimes I don't 1375 01:07:04,440 --> 01:07:06,560 Speaker 1: really like getting my puss eed and there's not enough pressure. 1376 01:07:06,600 --> 01:07:08,760 Speaker 1: It's just like I want you up here talking to me, 1377 01:07:08,880 --> 01:07:11,560 Speaker 1: like communicating with me, holding my face kissing me, and 1378 01:07:11,560 --> 01:07:12,840 Speaker 1: so I kind of just miss you. But if a 1379 01:07:12,840 --> 01:07:16,440 Speaker 1: guy's like just so into it that he just suddenly 1380 01:07:16,560 --> 01:07:19,440 Speaker 1: is like trying to like lick my ovary and like 1381 01:07:19,480 --> 01:07:21,600 Speaker 1: sticking his tongue up, it's just something hot about that. 1382 01:07:22,120 --> 01:07:24,760 Speaker 1: Um okay. This one is from shitty Life pro Tips, 1383 01:07:24,760 --> 01:07:28,000 Speaker 1: the subreddit shitty life pro Tips. This is how to 1384 01:07:28,040 --> 01:07:30,440 Speaker 1: steal a Netflix account. And this is a tweet that 1385 01:07:30,480 --> 01:07:33,120 Speaker 1: someone stole. He said, my brother's ax had been stealing 1386 01:07:33,120 --> 01:07:35,760 Speaker 1: our Netflix for the past two months now by disguising 1387 01:07:35,760 --> 01:07:38,520 Speaker 1: her account as settings. And honestly, I ain't even mad. 1388 01:07:38,760 --> 01:07:41,120 Speaker 1: I'm just really disappointed myself for actually believing that an 1389 01:07:41,160 --> 01:07:45,080 Speaker 1: account names settings would legitimately be Netflix Settings. So you know, 1390 01:07:45,240 --> 01:07:48,000 Speaker 1: on on on you it goes like Nikki Andrew and 1391 01:07:48,040 --> 01:07:50,520 Speaker 1: there's a little box you press up. Who she did 1392 01:07:50,600 --> 01:07:53,560 Speaker 1: a She did a thing that looked like almost like 1393 01:07:53,600 --> 01:07:55,600 Speaker 1: a thing loading, you know when something's loading, It in 1394 01:07:55,680 --> 01:07:58,560 Speaker 1: a circle, goes around and around. This is the settings 1395 01:07:58,560 --> 01:08:01,200 Speaker 1: thing she made. I love that so smart and it 1396 01:08:01,320 --> 01:08:04,080 Speaker 1: called its settings, and so no one thought anything of it, 1397 01:08:04,240 --> 01:08:09,360 Speaker 1: but that basic that's a good life pro tip. Shitty 1398 01:08:09,360 --> 01:08:12,760 Speaker 1: life pro tip. Oh this is interesting today, I learned. 1399 01:08:13,640 --> 01:08:16,759 Speaker 1: This isn't today. I learned today. I learned that rats 1400 01:08:16,960 --> 01:08:19,960 Speaker 1: left unaided in water will drown in a few minutes 1401 01:08:20,000 --> 01:08:23,160 Speaker 1: because they feel hopeless. But if they know there is 1402 01:08:23,240 --> 01:08:27,880 Speaker 1: hope of being rescued, they will last for days. Whoa 1403 01:08:28,040 --> 01:08:29,960 Speaker 1: and then someone to comment today I learned that you 1404 01:08:29,960 --> 01:08:33,760 Speaker 1: can measure the hope of a drowning rats. And by 1405 01:08:33,760 --> 01:08:36,080 Speaker 1: the way, this is just scientists in another room watching 1406 01:08:36,160 --> 01:08:38,760 Speaker 1: rats drown like this is like why what does a 1407 01:08:38,880 --> 01:08:41,360 Speaker 1: rat will be like a mini coastguard boat? Like how 1408 01:08:41,360 --> 01:08:43,439 Speaker 1: did the rat? You know what I mean? Like what 1409 01:08:43,560 --> 01:08:47,480 Speaker 1: is there a helicopter, a person standing there or um 1410 01:08:47,520 --> 01:08:51,519 Speaker 1: like something. Rats are so smart you know, Um, there's one. 1411 01:08:51,560 --> 01:08:53,559 Speaker 1: Then ask women that said when you had a strong 1412 01:08:53,680 --> 01:08:58,439 Speaker 1: when you had a strong intuition about someone, when they 1413 01:08:58,439 --> 01:09:01,000 Speaker 1: said this wrong, this is written by Andrew's brain. When 1414 01:09:01,040 --> 01:09:03,240 Speaker 1: you had a sting intuition about someone that turned out 1415 01:09:03,240 --> 01:09:04,840 Speaker 1: to be true? What was it? Okay, here we go, 1416 01:09:05,240 --> 01:09:09,799 Speaker 1: and um, that's interesting. When did your intuition like payoff? 1417 01:09:09,840 --> 01:09:11,360 Speaker 1: Where you go? I don't like that person that gives 1418 01:09:11,400 --> 01:09:16,479 Speaker 1: me the creeps. Dude. I had something absurd happened today 1419 01:09:16,640 --> 01:09:20,519 Speaker 1: which was honestly all intuition, you know, when like we 1420 01:09:20,520 --> 01:09:22,280 Speaker 1: were talking about this kind of yesterday. It wasn't through 1421 01:09:22,320 --> 01:09:24,479 Speaker 1: my phone, but a crazy person was walking towards me 1422 01:09:24,520 --> 01:09:27,080 Speaker 1: and Brenna without his shirt on, and he was yelling 1423 01:09:27,360 --> 01:09:28,880 Speaker 1: and we didn't know what he was yelling, but he 1424 01:09:28,960 --> 01:09:32,479 Speaker 1: seemed very like, very scary like. And but for some 1425 01:09:32,520 --> 01:09:34,439 Speaker 1: reason we could walk to the other side of the street. 1426 01:09:34,479 --> 01:09:36,599 Speaker 1: But then you don't want to whatever, but you don't 1427 01:09:36,600 --> 01:09:38,160 Speaker 1: want to make him think that you're running away from 1428 01:09:38,200 --> 01:09:41,280 Speaker 1: him because he's which is normal. So I had Brenna 1429 01:09:41,360 --> 01:09:43,400 Speaker 1: get on my left side, so I was in between 1430 01:09:43,479 --> 01:09:47,240 Speaker 1: him and her and the closer we guy he got 1431 01:09:47,320 --> 01:09:49,200 Speaker 1: right biased and I was like, I was, I was 1432 01:09:49,240 --> 01:09:52,479 Speaker 1: seriously was ready for him to attack, and he just 1433 01:09:52,520 --> 01:09:55,639 Speaker 1: started saying the most racist things ever. And I look 1434 01:09:55,680 --> 01:10:01,679 Speaker 1: at Brenda, We're okay. Uh. Like I felt really bad 1435 01:10:01,720 --> 01:10:06,200 Speaker 1: for being relieved that this guy wasn't towards me. I mean, 1436 01:10:06,200 --> 01:10:10,679 Speaker 1: Brenna is not in a way where this guy would 1437 01:10:10,680 --> 01:10:13,160 Speaker 1: have been, but it was just I felt very bad. 1438 01:10:13,280 --> 01:10:17,839 Speaker 1: And so my intuition was right when you saw screaming 1439 01:10:17,920 --> 01:10:21,599 Speaker 1: crazy man that looked almost this person responded to said, 1440 01:10:21,640 --> 01:10:23,680 Speaker 1: my intuition is almost never wrong, but I was too 1441 01:10:23,760 --> 01:10:25,839 Speaker 1: nice of a person and gave people chances. For instance, 1442 01:10:25,840 --> 01:10:27,839 Speaker 1: when I first met my ex, I didn't feel comfortable 1443 01:10:27,840 --> 01:10:30,479 Speaker 1: at all, and my spighty senses were on highlert. In fact, 1444 01:10:30,560 --> 01:10:33,040 Speaker 1: I was even physically attracted to him. I wasn't even 1445 01:10:33,080 --> 01:10:34,760 Speaker 1: physically attracted to him. I was talking to another guy 1446 01:10:34,800 --> 01:10:36,320 Speaker 1: before he showed up, but I kept thinking, just give 1447 01:10:36,400 --> 01:10:38,240 Speaker 1: him a chance. He hasn't done anything to you. That 1448 01:10:38,360 --> 01:10:40,320 Speaker 1: was a huge That was a huge mistake, and he 1449 01:10:40,400 --> 01:10:43,160 Speaker 1: ended up being a manipulative, abusive piece of ship. Never again. 1450 01:10:43,240 --> 01:10:45,639 Speaker 1: So now whenever I get that uncomfortable feeling, I leave 1451 01:10:45,720 --> 01:10:49,920 Speaker 1: and I don't look back. Final thought the book Gift 1452 01:10:49,960 --> 01:10:54,599 Speaker 1: of Fear by Gavin or other. Uh No, yeah, I 1453 01:10:54,640 --> 01:10:56,719 Speaker 1: don't want to be on the side of the street 1454 01:10:56,800 --> 01:11:03,400 Speaker 1: as that man. I'm going to change lanes. Um. Yeah, 1455 01:11:03,439 --> 01:11:06,519 Speaker 1: it's just about like when you have that sense, just 1456 01:11:06,680 --> 01:11:09,400 Speaker 1: act on like just do. But the thing is, and 1457 01:11:09,439 --> 01:11:12,120 Speaker 1: I've talked about this before, there are so many women 1458 01:11:12,240 --> 01:11:14,479 Speaker 1: that have probably been raped and murdered because they were 1459 01:11:14,520 --> 01:11:17,960 Speaker 1: They didn't want to cause a scene, they didn't want 1460 01:11:18,120 --> 01:11:22,080 Speaker 1: to across the street and make this person feel bad. 1461 01:11:22,640 --> 01:11:24,880 Speaker 1: And and everyone I was said talking this the other day, 1462 01:11:24,880 --> 01:11:26,800 Speaker 1: and they go, you think so many rapes have happened 1463 01:11:26,800 --> 01:11:29,200 Speaker 1: in murders because of that. I go, yeah, I do, 1464 01:11:29,600 --> 01:11:33,120 Speaker 1: because there is something. And it's not because the woman's dumb. 1465 01:11:33,160 --> 01:11:36,040 Speaker 1: It's because we are conditioned to be polite and forgiving, 1466 01:11:36,080 --> 01:11:37,720 Speaker 1: and we don't want offend anyone, and we don't want 1467 01:11:37,720 --> 01:11:43,559 Speaker 1: to stand up ourselves because we might be wrong. I mean, yeah, 1468 01:11:43,600 --> 01:11:46,559 Speaker 1: go ahead say but I never told this on this podcast. 1469 01:11:46,560 --> 01:11:47,920 Speaker 1: But I went to go see a house, all right. 1470 01:11:47,880 --> 01:11:49,080 Speaker 1: I went to go see an apartment in New York 1471 01:11:49,080 --> 01:11:50,760 Speaker 1: when I was looking for a place to live in 1472 01:11:50,800 --> 01:11:53,920 Speaker 1: My agent, usually my real estate agent, we usually go 1473 01:11:53,960 --> 01:11:55,439 Speaker 1: to these with me. He couldn't go to this one. 1474 01:11:55,479 --> 01:11:57,360 Speaker 1: He said, just go there, show up. There's gonna be 1475 01:11:57,360 --> 01:11:58,920 Speaker 1: a guy they're waiting for you. His name is Jason. 1476 01:11:59,240 --> 01:12:01,040 Speaker 1: I go to the building. The doorman lets me in 1477 01:12:01,120 --> 01:12:02,800 Speaker 1: the elevator. You have to like do a special key 1478 01:12:02,840 --> 01:12:05,280 Speaker 1: thing get in the elevator. The doorman turns his back 1479 01:12:05,280 --> 01:12:07,040 Speaker 1: and like goes to get a package or something do 1480 01:12:07,200 --> 01:12:09,479 Speaker 1: is work. And while he's turning back, the elevator doors 1481 01:12:09,479 --> 01:12:11,519 Speaker 1: are shutting, and a guy comes in and just slips 1482 01:12:11,560 --> 01:12:14,240 Speaker 1: in the doors doesn't doesn't seem by the doorman. I 1483 01:12:14,280 --> 01:12:17,040 Speaker 1: can't alert the doorman in time. It almost feels like 1484 01:12:17,160 --> 01:12:19,760 Speaker 1: I don't even want to because that would be weird. 1485 01:12:19,760 --> 01:12:21,439 Speaker 1: What if this guy just lives here, Like sometimes I 1486 01:12:21,479 --> 01:12:23,080 Speaker 1: sneak in places and I'm just like, you know, I 1487 01:12:23,120 --> 01:12:25,200 Speaker 1: live here, right, you know? And so I let him in. 1488 01:12:25,240 --> 01:12:27,759 Speaker 1: We're going up in the elevator. I go what floor 1489 01:12:27,800 --> 01:12:29,280 Speaker 1: and he goes, oh, I'm going where you're going? And 1490 01:12:29,280 --> 01:12:31,320 Speaker 1: I was like, oh, all right, and I go, I'm 1491 01:12:31,320 --> 01:12:32,960 Speaker 1: looking at an apartment. What are you doing? He was 1492 01:12:33,000 --> 01:12:35,160 Speaker 1: like me too, and I go oh, and he was like, 1493 01:12:35,360 --> 01:12:36,920 Speaker 1: I go, you're here to see Jason. He was like, 1494 01:12:37,120 --> 01:12:39,320 Speaker 1: I don't, I know. I think it's like a different guy, 1495 01:12:39,360 --> 01:12:42,360 Speaker 1: but um yeah. And I was just like, I go 1496 01:12:42,439 --> 01:12:44,880 Speaker 1: as soon as the elevator opens, I am not going 1497 01:12:44,920 --> 01:12:47,280 Speaker 1: to go where. I'm just gonna stay in the hallway 1498 01:12:47,360 --> 01:12:50,320 Speaker 1: until this guy goes into a different building or different door, 1499 01:12:50,400 --> 01:12:53,439 Speaker 1: and then I can go into the apartment. The elevator 1500 01:12:53,560 --> 01:12:56,080 Speaker 1: opens up onto the apartment. There is no hallway. The 1501 01:12:56,120 --> 01:12:58,200 Speaker 1: elevator is the door to the apartment. So I walk 1502 01:12:58,240 --> 01:13:00,400 Speaker 1: in me and both this guy who is behind me 1503 01:13:00,400 --> 01:13:03,160 Speaker 1: and elevator giving me the creeps. The real estate agent 1504 01:13:03,320 --> 01:13:05,280 Speaker 1: is in the apartment and I go, Hi, Hi, are 1505 01:13:05,320 --> 01:13:07,800 Speaker 1: you Jason, And I'm like, I'm nicky, I don't know 1506 01:13:07,840 --> 01:13:10,000 Speaker 1: who this is. And I'm mouthing to him like I 1507 01:13:10,080 --> 01:13:11,760 Speaker 1: don't know like who this is? And I go, who 1508 01:13:11,760 --> 01:13:13,640 Speaker 1: are you looking for? Said to the elevator guy. I go, 1509 01:13:13,680 --> 01:13:15,760 Speaker 1: who are you looking more? And he goes but he's 1510 01:13:15,800 --> 01:13:18,400 Speaker 1: kind of and I go I I go, well, that's 1511 01:13:18,400 --> 01:13:20,120 Speaker 1: not him, so I think you need to go, and 1512 01:13:20,160 --> 01:13:21,960 Speaker 1: he goes, okay, okay, well this is a nice place, 1513 01:13:22,040 --> 01:13:24,800 Speaker 1: kind of looking around being weird. He presses the button 1514 01:13:24,840 --> 01:13:27,040 Speaker 1: for the down button. The elevator comes up and goes ding. 1515 01:13:27,160 --> 01:13:30,559 Speaker 1: It opens, and then I see him go by guys, 1516 01:13:30,680 --> 01:13:32,559 Speaker 1: and I see him turn to leave. That time then 1517 01:13:32,640 --> 01:13:34,519 Speaker 1: I I let my guard down and I turned back 1518 01:13:34,520 --> 01:13:36,040 Speaker 1: around to the real estate agent to go like that 1519 01:13:36,040 --> 01:13:39,040 Speaker 1: guy's freaking weird. And then I hear I see him 1520 01:13:39,040 --> 01:13:41,320 Speaker 1: walking towards the elevator to get back on to say goodbye. 1521 01:13:41,360 --> 01:13:43,000 Speaker 1: He said goodbye to us. I turned my back because 1522 01:13:43,000 --> 01:13:44,760 Speaker 1: I'm like, okay, I guess I was alarmed for no reason. 1523 01:13:44,800 --> 01:13:47,840 Speaker 1: He's leaving. Then I hear a door open and shut, Well, 1524 01:13:47,880 --> 01:13:49,920 Speaker 1: why is there a door opening and shutting right behind 1525 01:13:49,960 --> 01:13:52,200 Speaker 1: me next to the elevator when this guy's getting on 1526 01:13:52,200 --> 01:13:54,720 Speaker 1: the elevator. I turned back around. There is a door 1527 01:13:54,800 --> 01:13:57,120 Speaker 1: right next to the elevator that looks like a closet 1528 01:13:57,160 --> 01:13:59,439 Speaker 1: to me, and I go, oh, my god, in my mind, 1529 01:13:59,479 --> 01:14:01,839 Speaker 1: this guy And then I go, he's not an elevator. 1530 01:14:01,840 --> 01:14:04,360 Speaker 1: I see the elevator doors are closing still and there's 1531 01:14:04,400 --> 01:14:06,840 Speaker 1: no one in there. That guy's in the closet. He's 1532 01:14:06,920 --> 01:14:09,400 Speaker 1: hiding in the closet because we were both looking, and 1533 01:14:09,439 --> 01:14:11,720 Speaker 1: he's gonna murder us because he now thinks that we 1534 01:14:11,760 --> 01:14:15,559 Speaker 1: think he's gone. And so I go to the elevator 1535 01:14:15,560 --> 01:14:17,040 Speaker 1: to see if he's in there. I realize he's not 1536 01:14:17,040 --> 01:14:19,479 Speaker 1: an elevator. I'm confirmed he's in the closet. I jumped 1537 01:14:19,520 --> 01:14:22,600 Speaker 1: into the elevator right before closes, literally right before, and 1538 01:14:22,640 --> 01:14:24,959 Speaker 1: I yelled to the real estate agent, who is weirdly 1539 01:14:25,080 --> 01:14:27,800 Speaker 1: weird and out that I'm now running into an elevator 1540 01:14:27,800 --> 01:14:30,040 Speaker 1: when I just got there, and he had no idea 1541 01:14:30,120 --> 01:14:31,599 Speaker 1: this guy was a creep. He just thought this guy 1542 01:14:31,640 --> 01:14:34,240 Speaker 1: had the wrong pedis and I go, I'm sorry, I 1543 01:14:34,280 --> 01:14:36,680 Speaker 1: think I think it's I go I'm sorry. I'm just 1544 01:14:36,680 --> 01:14:38,439 Speaker 1: really scared. I don't want to be murdered. I'm sorry, 1545 01:14:38,520 --> 01:14:43,120 Speaker 1: and it shuts I have acted crazy because I think 1546 01:14:43,120 --> 01:14:45,680 Speaker 1: I'm about to be murdered, and everything in me is like, 1547 01:14:46,120 --> 01:14:48,160 Speaker 1: even if this isn't what I think it is, I 1548 01:14:48,360 --> 01:14:50,040 Speaker 1: still stand by this because I am not going to 1549 01:14:50,120 --> 01:14:51,519 Speaker 1: be one of these women who goes I don't want 1550 01:14:51,520 --> 01:14:53,040 Speaker 1: to be an alarmist. I don't want to cause a 1551 01:14:53,080 --> 01:14:55,760 Speaker 1: scene because I don't want to get murdered because I 1552 01:14:55,800 --> 01:14:58,479 Speaker 1: was scared to cause a scene or be loud, or 1553 01:14:58,520 --> 01:15:01,400 Speaker 1: be stupid or be foolish. And boy was I ever. 1554 01:15:01,400 --> 01:15:03,559 Speaker 1: Because the elevator went down to the lobby. I walked 1555 01:15:03,600 --> 01:15:05,360 Speaker 1: out of the building to call my realtor, to call 1556 01:15:05,439 --> 01:15:07,400 Speaker 1: that other guy and tell him what just happened, to 1557 01:15:07,439 --> 01:15:10,439 Speaker 1: save him. And then I see the guy from the 1558 01:15:10,439 --> 01:15:13,799 Speaker 1: elevator walk onto the street. He went out a an exit. 1559 01:15:13,960 --> 01:15:15,519 Speaker 1: He didn't want to take the elevator, I guess, and 1560 01:15:15,520 --> 01:15:18,320 Speaker 1: he went in the door next elevator that was a 1561 01:15:18,439 --> 01:15:20,160 Speaker 1: exit to the street, and he went down the street. 1562 01:15:20,320 --> 01:15:23,360 Speaker 1: And now he sees me seconds later after he left 1563 01:15:23,400 --> 01:15:24,960 Speaker 1: me in the building that I wanted to see, and 1564 01:15:24,960 --> 01:15:26,320 Speaker 1: he goes, why are you down here? And I was 1565 01:15:26,360 --> 01:15:30,040 Speaker 1: just like yeah, and I just ran back in went 1566 01:15:30,120 --> 01:15:32,240 Speaker 1: up in the elevator. The door opened to the real 1567 01:15:32,320 --> 01:15:35,400 Speaker 1: estate agent, who was red faced and like looked at 1568 01:15:35,400 --> 01:15:37,840 Speaker 1: me like what was that? And I go, dude, I'm 1569 01:15:37,840 --> 01:15:39,519 Speaker 1: so sorry. I thought I was gonna be murdered. He goes, 1570 01:15:39,800 --> 01:15:41,760 Speaker 1: you left him here with me? And I go, I 1571 01:15:41,760 --> 01:15:43,640 Speaker 1: didn't know. I heard the door, saying I looked at 1572 01:15:43,640 --> 01:15:45,000 Speaker 1: the door. I thought it was a closet. He goes, 1573 01:15:45,160 --> 01:15:47,519 Speaker 1: that's a means of egress. And I go what he 1574 01:15:47,680 --> 01:15:49,920 Speaker 1: was that's a means of agress and I go, I 1575 01:15:49,960 --> 01:15:52,400 Speaker 1: don't know what that means. He goes, it's a means 1576 01:15:52,479 --> 01:15:55,320 Speaker 1: of egress. I go, I understand what you're saying. It 1577 01:15:55,320 --> 01:15:57,439 Speaker 1: doesn't make any sense. We're yelling at each other, and 1578 01:15:57,439 --> 01:15:59,840 Speaker 1: he goes it means an exit and I go, no one. 1579 01:16:01,000 --> 01:16:02,559 Speaker 1: He goes, yes, they do, and I go, you know 1580 01:16:02,680 --> 01:16:04,479 Speaker 1: that because you're a real state agent. But I don't 1581 01:16:04,520 --> 01:16:07,559 Speaker 1: speak your jargon. Don't don't like make me feel So 1582 01:16:07,560 --> 01:16:09,200 Speaker 1: that we started fighting about that because I was mad 1583 01:16:09,240 --> 01:16:11,320 Speaker 1: that he assumed I knew what means was. And then 1584 01:16:11,320 --> 01:16:13,439 Speaker 1: he kept showing the other means of mess and I 1585 01:16:13,479 --> 01:16:15,000 Speaker 1: was walking around, and I go, dude, I know you're 1586 01:16:15,000 --> 01:16:17,120 Speaker 1: gonna tell all your friends about this. I'm such an idiot. 1587 01:16:17,160 --> 01:16:18,799 Speaker 1: He knew who I was. I was like, tell everyone, 1588 01:16:18,800 --> 01:16:20,400 Speaker 1: because I'm going to Like I thought I was gonna 1589 01:16:20,400 --> 01:16:22,599 Speaker 1: be murdered. I just watched Jeffrey Dahmer. I saw how 1590 01:16:22,640 --> 01:16:24,880 Speaker 1: he would get his victims to like they would be scared, 1591 01:16:24,920 --> 01:16:26,400 Speaker 1: and then they would kind of give in because they're like, 1592 01:16:26,439 --> 01:16:28,080 Speaker 1: I just want to be nice to this guy. I 1593 01:16:28,160 --> 01:16:30,000 Speaker 1: know this is weird, but like he actually needs his help. 1594 01:16:30,080 --> 01:16:32,040 Speaker 1: He's probably not a murder, and then they get murdered. 1595 01:16:32,040 --> 01:16:34,840 Speaker 1: So I was like, I go, I'm not even apologizing 1596 01:16:34,880 --> 01:16:36,280 Speaker 1: for my behavior. I thought I was gonna be murdered. 1597 01:16:36,320 --> 01:16:38,920 Speaker 1: I'm and I really thought that he would murder you 1598 01:16:39,000 --> 01:16:42,400 Speaker 1: because I think he wanted Oh, like, I feel like 1599 01:16:42,439 --> 01:16:43,720 Speaker 1: it was going to be a rape murder and you 1600 01:16:43,720 --> 01:16:45,760 Speaker 1: would have been a casualty. But alone, he probably would 1601 01:16:45,800 --> 01:16:47,160 Speaker 1: have done anything to you like you would have been. 1602 01:16:51,040 --> 01:16:54,280 Speaker 1: He snuck in when the doorman, like doorman turned around 1603 01:16:54,280 --> 01:16:55,559 Speaker 1: to go get a package in the other room, and 1604 01:16:55,560 --> 01:16:58,040 Speaker 1: this guy slid in before the doors had shut and 1605 01:16:58,080 --> 01:17:00,320 Speaker 1: slid in just before and goes going where you're going, 1606 01:17:00,760 --> 01:17:03,760 Speaker 1: and so I definitely thought he was a murderer. And 1607 01:17:03,800 --> 01:17:06,639 Speaker 1: then we're seeing the apartment department is great, good price, 1608 01:17:06,760 --> 01:17:09,280 Speaker 1: great neighborhood, and I go, I can't live here because 1609 01:17:09,360 --> 01:17:11,479 Speaker 1: I genuinely thought it was going to be murdered and 1610 01:17:11,520 --> 01:17:14,200 Speaker 1: I can't I have the b D. And then we 1611 01:17:14,400 --> 01:17:16,840 Speaker 1: um yeah, and then I left in and that was 1612 01:17:16,960 --> 01:17:20,120 Speaker 1: but that you honestly like, yeah, you could be called 1613 01:17:20,120 --> 01:17:23,519 Speaker 1: a crazy but you're alive, crazy person like, And there 1614 01:17:23,520 --> 01:17:26,320 Speaker 1: are women that have so many women we will never 1615 01:17:26,360 --> 01:17:28,000 Speaker 1: know the true story because they get murdered and we 1616 01:17:28,840 --> 01:17:31,439 Speaker 1: you're the truth. But they just they probably didn't feel 1617 01:17:31,439 --> 01:17:33,200 Speaker 1: safe and they were scared to make a scene, and 1618 01:17:33,240 --> 01:17:35,800 Speaker 1: that's not their fault. Society conditions us to be that way. 1619 01:17:35,840 --> 01:17:39,240 Speaker 1: But please, when you feel fear across the street, don't think, oh, 1620 01:17:39,320 --> 01:17:43,800 Speaker 1: they're gonna think I'm racist. If you feel even black 1621 01:17:43,840 --> 01:17:45,519 Speaker 1: people aren't the only people that they're gonna hurt you, 1622 01:17:45,560 --> 01:17:48,400 Speaker 1: it is profiling away. But if you see a black 1623 01:17:48,400 --> 01:17:51,000 Speaker 1: guy that is like scaring you because of the way 1624 01:17:51,000 --> 01:17:54,120 Speaker 1: he's screaming or walking or shirts off and his hair's white, 1625 01:17:54,240 --> 01:17:57,240 Speaker 1: you know, like erratic and cussing, you can cross the street. 1626 01:17:57,360 --> 01:18:00,639 Speaker 1: That's not a racist decision. You are just feeling whatever 1627 01:18:00,640 --> 01:18:04,240 Speaker 1: it is. And I know, yeah, and it's whether white 1628 01:18:04,320 --> 01:18:05,880 Speaker 1: or black. Black guy, you would cross the street because 1629 01:18:05,880 --> 01:18:07,519 Speaker 1: he's black. You're gonna stand the same side because you 1630 01:18:07,520 --> 01:18:09,080 Speaker 1: don't want him to think you're racist. I mean, that's 1631 01:18:13,680 --> 01:18:15,640 Speaker 1: oh my god. She wrote down the Yeah, so no 1632 01:18:15,720 --> 01:18:17,599 Speaker 1: one's writing down wrap and I don't know what that is. 1633 01:18:17,680 --> 01:18:19,360 Speaker 1: It's I guess a publication she wants to guest to 1634 01:18:19,360 --> 01:18:23,880 Speaker 1: get um. Feel free to write me and tell me 1635 01:18:23,920 --> 01:18:26,080 Speaker 1: I'm wrong about the racial profiling thing. But I don't know. 1636 01:18:26,120 --> 01:18:27,360 Speaker 1: I don't I don't know what I'm talking about. By 1637 01:18:27,400 --> 01:18:28,880 Speaker 1: the way, I'm not an expert at any of this. 1638 01:18:28,920 --> 01:18:30,840 Speaker 1: I'm just trying to be a good person and protect people. 1639 01:18:30,920 --> 01:18:33,760 Speaker 1: And uh, I love you all. Thank you for listening. 1640 01:18:33,760 --> 01:18:36,720 Speaker 1: We'll see tomorrow on the podcast We gotta go, uh 1641 01:18:36,880 --> 01:18:39,719 Speaker 1: by Andrew, Uh Noah's here. I'm not gonna say goodbye 1642 01:18:39,720 --> 01:18:43,679 Speaker 1: to her. Thank you for listening tomorrow, and uh, don't 1643 01:18:43,720 --> 01:18:44,160 Speaker 1: be good