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<v Speaker 1>Second date Update. Today's second date update might actually be

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<v Speaker 1>illegal for us to do in some states. I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>really sure. But Elana, who's on the phone for a

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<v Speaker 1>second day update, said she met the dude she wants

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<v Speaker 1>to call at their family reunion. Alana, So, Elana, you've

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<v Speaker 1>got to explain that before we get into anything. Sure, well,

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<v Speaker 1>it was at my family reunion, but it wasn't a

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<v Speaker 1>family member. It was a catered event. You know, My

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<v Speaker 1>family's all fancy like that. So she was on the

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<v Speaker 1>catering staff. Okay, good, good, good. Usually when you say,

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<v Speaker 1>like I met this great dude at a family reunion

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<v Speaker 1>and we're going on a date, it's not a good thing. Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>not as creepy as it sounds. Probably. Okay, So he

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<v Speaker 1>was a catering guy. What's his name? His name is Jeremy.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, were you getting ridiculed by your family

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<v Speaker 1>for I don't know what you were doing with the

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<v Speaker 1>catering guy, but obviously talking to him a lot. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I wasn't talking to him, but I was talking about

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<v Speaker 1>him because I thought he was super attractive. Like right

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<v Speaker 1>when we got there, I was like, oh my gosh,

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<v Speaker 1>that guy is so cute. And I told my mom

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<v Speaker 1>that he was super attractive, and your mom was looking

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<v Speaker 1>at your cousin. She's like, yeah, he is the cater

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<v Speaker 1>not my cousin, looking to the nut straight. Wait, so

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<v Speaker 1>did your mom encourage you to pursue hot catering guy. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>to the point where she actually went up to him

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<v Speaker 1>because I was too embarrassed and pulled him to ask

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<v Speaker 1>me out. No, were you okay with that? Or were

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<v Speaker 1>you mortified? I was mortified obviously. I thought it was

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<v Speaker 1>so embarrassing, and you know, of course I had that

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<v Speaker 1>mother daughter moment of being like, Mom, are you kidding me? Now?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm so mad at her. But then actually, at the

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<v Speaker 1>end of the night, he came up to me and

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<v Speaker 1>he asked me out. So, yeah, yeah, and your mom

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't holding a gun at his back, right, I hope not.

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<v Speaker 1>So what did you guys do when you actually did

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<v Speaker 1>go out? Well, we went to dinner, but it was

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<v Speaker 1>so weird because when he came over to pick me up.

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<v Speaker 1>He actually came in and he said hi to my mom,

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<v Speaker 1>So that was kind of embarrassing. But he was super

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<v Speaker 1>out of it when he picked me up, so I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, Okay, I was excited because he's so cute,

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<v Speaker 1>and then he's acting really weird. Um, what do you mean?

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<v Speaker 1>He was like he was like drunk or high or something.

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<v Speaker 1>Well that's what I saw, maybe he was. But then

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<v Speaker 1>I talked to him about it, and he just said

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<v Speaker 1>he was tired from all these catering gigs he'd been

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<v Speaker 1>doing back to back. Yeah. I hope they didn't let

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<v Speaker 1>him drive you to the restaurant. Yeah. Well, in hindsight,

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<v Speaker 1>I shouldn't have let him, because, like, we went to

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<v Speaker 1>the restaurant, it was fine. You know, he's still out

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<v Speaker 1>of it, but we had a good conversation and stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>But then on the way home he um ran out

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<v Speaker 1>of gas. Yeah, and he just said that he had

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<v Speaker 1>been really tired and like wasn't looking at the gauge

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<v Speaker 1>for god. Okay, So that's an awkward ending to your date. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and what's even worse is I had to actually call

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<v Speaker 1>my mom to come get me. Oh my gosh, So

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<v Speaker 1>what you liked this guy? Still after all this, Yeah

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<v Speaker 1>I do. I mean I thought maybe he just had

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<v Speaker 1>an off night, And honestly, I just kind of feel

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<v Speaker 1>bad that my mom's been so involved. So I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know if that's what's going on. But like, he won't

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<v Speaker 1>call me back. So did you tell him that you

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<v Speaker 1>lived with your parents? No, he didn't know until he

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<v Speaker 1>came over. Okay, yeah that could be. That could be

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<v Speaker 1>a deal breaker for some people. Yeah, maybe I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>but I don't know. We had fun and he's the

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<v Speaker 1>one who didn't get gassed. What was his attitude towards

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<v Speaker 1>your mom? He liked her? Okay, did it seem like

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<v Speaker 1>he liked you? To me? It did, But you know,

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<v Speaker 1>sometimes we aren't good at gauging these things, right, And

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<v Speaker 1>I guess if he was tired from work and stuff,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe it was even harder to tell exactly. I wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>really sure what was him being tired. And so when

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<v Speaker 1>when your mom came to pick you up because he

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<v Speaker 1>ran out of gas, did you guys end with a

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<v Speaker 1>hug or maybe like a little kiss or something, or

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<v Speaker 1>did you just get in your mom's car and bounce?

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<v Speaker 1>To be honest, I was mortified. So I just like

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<v Speaker 1>stood by and got in my car. So wait, hold on,

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<v Speaker 1>you guys left him stranded with no gas on the

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<v Speaker 1>side of the road like your mom, and you didn't

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<v Speaker 1>go get him gas. Well, he had already called Triple

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<v Speaker 1>A and they were there, so oh okay. I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>really want to wait with him because he seemed like

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<v Speaker 1>really embarrassed and it just was awkward. Yeah. I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna bounce, all right. How many times have you

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<v Speaker 1>tried to get a hold of him since then? Probably

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<v Speaker 1>dick to eight times. Dang, it's been like the week,

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<v Speaker 1>like a week, and have you gotten any response from

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<v Speaker 1>him at all? No. I just think he was really

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<v Speaker 1>embarrassed by like how the night played out, and you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I just want to give him another shot. It didn't

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<v Speaker 1>look good on him, but I feel like he might

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<v Speaker 1>not know that it wasn't a big deal to me. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So you pretty much want to try to get another

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<v Speaker 1>day with him so he can have a redo, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>both of us, you know. Okay, Well we'll play a

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<v Speaker 1>song and then come back and call him and get

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<v Speaker 1>your second day update. Okay, Okay, thank you, yea, hang

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<v Speaker 1>on brooking Jubil in the morning. You know, you've had

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<v Speaker 1>a bad date when your mom has to come pick

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<v Speaker 1>you up, Brook and Jubel in the morning. And today's

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<v Speaker 1>second day update, Alana is on the phone. She met

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<v Speaker 1>a dude named Jeremy at her family reunion Relax. Wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>a cousin, he was a caterer, and they ended up

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<v Speaker 1>going out to dinner and on their date, she said,

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<v Speaker 1>everything went fine, but at the end of the day

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<v Speaker 1>when they're driving home, he actually ran out of gas

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<v Speaker 1>and while he was waiting for Triple A to fill

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<v Speaker 1>up his car or whatever, her mom actually came and

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<v Speaker 1>picked her up and took her home. And now she

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<v Speaker 1>hasn't heard from him. So we're about get him on

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<v Speaker 1>the phone and see if we can find out what Well,

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<v Speaker 1>we know what went wrong, but what else went wrong

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<v Speaker 1>on their date? Maybe? All right, Elana, are you ready

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<v Speaker 1>to call Jeremy? Yeah? I am. I just feel like

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<v Speaker 1>he may be scared by your mom, Like your mom

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<v Speaker 1>pressured him into asking you out. Your mom was there

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<v Speaker 1>when he picked you up, Your mom came and picked

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<v Speaker 1>you up from the date, Like are you always that

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<v Speaker 1>attached to your mother? I mean, I don't really think

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<v Speaker 1>that that's it. I think he just is embarrassed, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>I bet he's just home, like freaking out about it

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<v Speaker 1>and just feeling like the date went really bad. And

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<v Speaker 1>I just want him to know that I'm going to

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<v Speaker 1>give him another shot. Nice. Yeah, if I failed that

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<v Speaker 1>badly on a date, I'd be thinking about it, like damn,

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<v Speaker 1>I was so tired and then I ran out of gas.

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<v Speaker 1>I can never call her again. But you've called him

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<v Speaker 1>six to eight times, like I think that that would

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<v Speaker 1>be signed enough that you don't care like is done.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. I think it's worth another shot. I

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<v Speaker 1>really do. All right, Well, I'm gonna dial his phone

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<v Speaker 1>right now and see if we can get him on

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<v Speaker 1>the phone. Here we go, Hello, him asking to Jeremy please. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>hey Jeremy, how are you man? This is Jewbil from

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<v Speaker 1>the radio show Brook and Jewel in the Morning. I'm sorry,

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<v Speaker 1>Jebil from Brook and Jewel in the Morning. That's a

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<v Speaker 1>radio show. What's it all about? Well, I'm calling you

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<v Speaker 1>because we do a segment on our show called the

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<v Speaker 1>second Date up Date. Have you ever heard of anything

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<v Speaker 1>like that? No? No, I don't think so. Okay, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>it's where if you go out on a date with

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<v Speaker 1>somebody and then end up not calling them back after

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<v Speaker 1>they can email us to get you on the phone

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<v Speaker 1>and ask what happened? And you went out with a

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<v Speaker 1>girl named Alana the other day, Oh my god, and

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<v Speaker 1>like you remember her? That's what this is about. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>about that date. Yeah, she emailed us. She told us

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<v Speaker 1>about how you met. She told us about your date,

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<v Speaker 1>and she also told us that she's tried to get

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<v Speaker 1>a hold of you a bunch, but you're not returning

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<v Speaker 1>any of her calls or text messages. This is crazy. Yeah, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So what happens though, Well, we're trying to figure out

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<v Speaker 1>why you won't call her back. So do you have

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<v Speaker 1>an answer for that? Oh yeah, I can definitely tell

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<v Speaker 1>you all about that date, but I want to know

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<v Speaker 1>what she told you. Well, she told us that you

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<v Speaker 1>met her at a family reunion. I guess you were

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<v Speaker 1>a caterer there. Yeah. Yeah, And she's said you guys

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<v Speaker 1>went out to dinner and when you picked her up,

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<v Speaker 1>you seemed a little tired. Said that you had been

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<v Speaker 1>working a bunch and then you ran out of gas

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<v Speaker 1>at the end of the day and that's where things ended. Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's like the short version. Well. She also added that

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<v Speaker 1>like her mom pressured you into asking her out, and yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean that was I thought it was kind of

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<v Speaker 1>cute actually, like her mom came up to the bar

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<v Speaker 1>and was like, hey, my daughter is interested. Will you

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<v Speaker 1>ask her out? I saw her daughter. I'm like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>my daughter is cute. Why not? I like, can't hurt anything.

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<v Speaker 1>So you said, I got the short version, what's the

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<v Speaker 1>long version? Then I keep your mind. We're are on

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<v Speaker 1>the radio, so it don't be like twenty minutes. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>just like, what's the meat that we're missing? So I

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<v Speaker 1>go and pick her up at her mom's place. That

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<v Speaker 1>was kind of a red flag number one, right, like

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<v Speaker 1>I kind of expected her to have her own place

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<v Speaker 1>or like some roommates. But right away, as we're like

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<v Speaker 1>driving to the restaurant, I find out girl is nineteen

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<v Speaker 1>years old. Oh okay, she didn't legal? Well yeah, legal,

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<v Speaker 1>But also like, how old are you? I'm twenty eight. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you don't sound like a nineteen year old to me.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean even if you were twenty three, maybe that's

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<v Speaker 1>on the edge because four years. But you know, I've

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<v Speaker 1>been out of college for five years and she'd been

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<v Speaker 1>out of high school for like one. Yeah, Okay, already

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<v Speaker 1>she's a little young. You're feeling like, yeah, she's cute

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<v Speaker 1>and everything, but like that might be why I was

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<v Speaker 1>out of it. Like I was a little shocked and

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<v Speaker 1>like like what if I got myself into right, So

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<v Speaker 1>like yeah, I mean, and then the whole running out

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<v Speaker 1>of gas thing. I was borrowing my roommate's car, dude, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>I like, I didn't have a car at the time,

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<v Speaker 1>so I borrowed my friend's car. I didn't think to

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<v Speaker 1>look at the gas gage and he like hands me

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<v Speaker 1>the cards like yeah, sure, go ahead, not telling me

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<v Speaker 1>it was on empty. By the time I saw it

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<v Speaker 1>was too late running out of gas. Like it's already awkward.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just like canvas thing and already, um this is

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<v Speaker 1>the kicker. This is what really gets me. When mom

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<v Speaker 1>comes to pick her up. As she's like going back

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<v Speaker 1>around the car, she pulls me aside and says, by

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<v Speaker 1>the way, I have a son who's into you two,

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<v Speaker 1>would you want to go out with him? For everybody?

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<v Speaker 1>And also kind of low blow to her daughter, like

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<v Speaker 1>the whole thing was so strange, man, Like, don't get

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<v Speaker 1>me wrong, I think it's really flattering that that this

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<v Speaker 1>woman wants her son and daughter to date me. But

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<v Speaker 1>it's just I don't really first of all, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>really go that way, and secondly, like it's just the

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<v Speaker 1>whole thing kind of creep me out a little bit. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>her mom. I think her mom wants to date you,

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<v Speaker 1>and she's just like one of my kids is I've

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<v Speaker 1>got to see you around the house, is what I want.

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<v Speaker 1>I bet her mom is closer in my age. Would

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<v Speaker 1>you would you ever consider dating a nineteen year old

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<v Speaker 1>would you ever consider dating a twenty two year old guy?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know how older brother as I'm just guessing

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<v Speaker 1>his age there. Yeah, I have no idea either. Well, Jeremy,

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<v Speaker 1>I do have to let you know that Alana is

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<v Speaker 1>actually on the phone and wants to talk to you.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, No, yeah, I think it's just her.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think her brother's there. But Alana, are you

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<v Speaker 1>still there? Oh my god? I feel sorry. I feel

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<v Speaker 1>bad now. I just don't know why my mom would

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<v Speaker 1>say that to you, Like, did you really say that?

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<v Speaker 1>I do not think you would say believe me, Why

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<v Speaker 1>would I make that up? Like, I don't know, I'd

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<v Speaker 1>like you never had anything like that happened to me before, So, I, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>your mom did say that to me. She did ask

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<v Speaker 1>me if I wanted to go out with your brother. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>well she doesn't make sense. I mean, yeah, my brother

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<v Speaker 1>is gay, But like, it doesn't make sense that she

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<v Speaker 1>would say that after we went on a date. Did you,

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<v Speaker 1>like tell her that you're gay or something? Why would No? No,

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<v Speaker 1>I did not tell her I'm gay. When did you

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<v Speaker 1>have an opportunity to even do that? Yeah, a little

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<v Speaker 1>roadside confessional while you're out of gas with her Momay,

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<v Speaker 1>none of that. I don't know. Maybe at the party

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<v Speaker 1>you told her that or something. I don't know. It

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<v Speaker 1>just doesn't make sense to me why she'd say that that.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe she just thinks that, like young people nowadays, do anything,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, go anywhere with her spectual. I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>Like I didn't. I definitely did not tell her I

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<v Speaker 1>was gay, that is for sure. Did you think it

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<v Speaker 1>was a joke you just took too literally? No, I

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<v Speaker 1>really thought it might have been a joke. But the

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<v Speaker 1>way she asked me and the way she looked at me,

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<v Speaker 1>and she was serious. She was honestly asking me if

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<v Speaker 1>I would go out with her son after I just

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<v Speaker 1>had a bad day with her daughter. Okay, well I

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<v Speaker 1>also want to say that I know I'm nineteen, but

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like really mature from my age, Like I have

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<v Speaker 1>no issue, you know, being outgoing talking to adult, Like

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<v Speaker 1>even though I lived with my mom, you know, I

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<v Speaker 1>have my friend order, like I'm saving up for grad

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<v Speaker 1>school and you know, I'm really responsible, Like my room

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<v Speaker 1>is really clean, I'm really organized. Like I'm sure you

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<v Speaker 1>guys stopped laughing I'm really mature. I'm a lot more

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<v Speaker 1>mature than any of my friends. It's not funny. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>serious who you are. We just don't have that much

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<v Speaker 1>in common, Like even when we were talking, it's like

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<v Speaker 1>we grew up at different times. Like we don't have

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<v Speaker 1>the same kind of connections on things like you can't

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<v Speaker 1>even have as a wine at dinner, you know what

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<v Speaker 1>I mean. Like it's it's just too far removed from

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<v Speaker 1>where I am in my life. Well, in two years,

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<v Speaker 1>I'll be able to drink with you. Just wait two years, yeah, anniversary,

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<v Speaker 1>you guys, could you know, throw down a few glasses

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<v Speaker 1>of wine? Jeremy, I mean, what if she's right, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>what if you just wait a little bit. My sister

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<v Speaker 1>got married when she was twenty and they've been married

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<v Speaker 1>for like fifteen years and they're totally happily in love. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>but check the thing. It's this much work and energy

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<v Speaker 1>before we even get to the second date. It's looking

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<v Speaker 1>like a lot of drama. If you start out a

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<v Speaker 1>relationship like this, it's probably not great. Maybe we got

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<v Speaker 1>all the drama done up front. That's usually not the

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<v Speaker 1>way it works. I don't think the drama will be finished. Like,

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<v Speaker 1>your mother is very invested in you and your brother's vibes,

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<v Speaker 1>and your mom asked if I wanted to go out

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<v Speaker 1>with your brother after we went out, Like you, I

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<v Speaker 1>think there's a lot of drama there inherently in your

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<v Speaker 1>in your family, and like I'll tell my mom to

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<v Speaker 1>cool off, you know, like I'm not my mom, Like

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<v Speaker 1>I'll be, but it's just too much, Like the whole

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<v Speaker 1>thing is. I just think we deserve another shot, like

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<v Speaker 1>one more date, just one more date, and maybe, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>without all that drama, you'll see who I really am. Man.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel bad, but I don't hang out Jeremy. Let

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<v Speaker 1>me let me ask you officially, would you like to

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<v Speaker 1>go out on a second date with Alana? We will

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<v Speaker 1>pay for it. I don't think so. I think that

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<v Speaker 1>she's a lovely girl, and I wish her all the

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<v Speaker 1>best and her I wish her mother and her brother

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<v Speaker 1>all the best. But I don't think I have a

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<v Speaker 1>whole lot of time in my life for that kind

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<v Speaker 1>of stuff. So sorry, I'm not interested. Okay, are you okay, Alanna? No,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm I'm fine. I just I don't know. I think

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<v Speaker 1>I think you're making the biggest mistake of your life,

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<v Speaker 1>and you're gonna look back one day and really regret this.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, it's fine. I don't care. Hey, I

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<v Speaker 1>know it feels like this now, like this is a

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<v Speaker 1>really big deal. But with like young people like your generation,

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<v Speaker 1>it's so easy to find people. You have a lot

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<v Speaker 1>easier than I did at that age. You're great. How

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<v Speaker 1>I want to find someone, though, Well, if you want

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<v Speaker 1>to find someone by your mom asking them to ask

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<v Speaker 1>you out, I feel like you're really missing out on something.

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<v Speaker 1>But and I don't know what you say to that. Okay, Jeremy,

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<v Speaker 1>would you like to do on a second date with

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<v Speaker 1>Alana's brother? We'll pay for it or first day that. Yeah, man,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm good. I'm good. On Matt in the morning, just

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of thirsty people sending in text right now

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<v Speaker 1>at seven eight five nine two. Either people want to

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<v Speaker 1>go on a date with Alana or they want to

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<v Speaker 1>go on a date with Jeremy. We're talking about today's

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<v Speaker 1>second date update if you missed it. Alana met this

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<v Speaker 1>dude named Jeremy at her family reunion. He was actually

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<v Speaker 1>one of the caterers there, and then they went out

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<v Speaker 1>on a date and Jeremy actually ran out of gas

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<v Speaker 1>while driving them home, so she had to call her

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<v Speaker 1>mom to pick her up. When we called Jeremy, he

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<v Speaker 1>said that he was turned off for two reasons. One

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<v Speaker 1>he discovered that she was only nineteen and two when

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<v Speaker 1>Alana's mom, Tam came to her, she also whispered to

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<v Speaker 1>Jeremy that he could also date her brother if he's interested.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, you like a family that gives. Mom was

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<v Speaker 1>just trying to get either one of them a date

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<v Speaker 1>with Jeremy. A lot of thought that Jeremy must have

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<v Speaker 1>given some sort of signal that he's into guys or

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<v Speaker 1>something like that, otherwise the mom wouldn't have done that,

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<v Speaker 1>and she insisted that she's really mature for her age.

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<v Speaker 1>But in the end, Jeremy thought it was all too

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<v Speaker 1>much and decided not to go out with her again.

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<v Speaker 1>But everybody else on the textboard wants to go out

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<v Speaker 1>with either one of them, so I'm sure they'll find

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<v Speaker 1>a date somehow. They'll be all right. Yeah, Or if

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<v Speaker 1>you want to do a second ate up date, all

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<v Speaker 1>you have to do his email the show and we

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<v Speaker 1>will call the person who didn't call you back.