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Speaker 1: Second date Update. Today's second date update might actually be
Speaker 1: illegal for us to do in some states. I'm not
Speaker 1: really sure. But Elana, who's on the phone for a
Speaker 1: second day update, said she met the dude she wants
Speaker 1: to call at their family reunion. Alana, So, Elana, you've
Speaker 1: got to explain that before we get into anything. Sure, well,
Speaker 1: it was at my family reunion, but it wasn't a
Speaker 1: family member. It was a catered event. You know, My
Speaker 1: family's all fancy like that. So she was on the
Speaker 1: catering staff. Okay, good, good, good. Usually when you say,
Speaker 1: like I met this great dude at a family reunion
Speaker 1: and we're going on a date, it's not a good thing. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: not as creepy as it sounds. Probably. Okay, So he
Speaker 1: was a catering guy. What's his name? His name is Jeremy.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, were you getting ridiculed by your family
Speaker 1: for I don't know what you were doing with the
Speaker 1: catering guy, but obviously talking to him a lot. Well,
Speaker 1: I wasn't talking to him, but I was talking about
Speaker 1: him because I thought he was super attractive. Like right
Speaker 1: when we got there, I was like, oh my gosh,
Speaker 1: that guy is so cute. And I told my mom
Speaker 1: that he was super attractive, and your mom was looking
Speaker 1: at your cousin. She's like, yeah, he is the cater
Speaker 1: not my cousin, looking to the nut straight. Wait, so
Speaker 1: did your mom encourage you to pursue hot catering guy. Yes,
Speaker 1: to the point where she actually went up to him
Speaker 1: because I was too embarrassed and pulled him to ask
Speaker 1: me out. No, were you okay with that? Or were
Speaker 1: you mortified? I was mortified obviously. I thought it was
Speaker 1: so embarrassing, and you know, of course I had that
Speaker 1: mother daughter moment of being like, Mom, are you kidding me? Now?
Speaker 1: I'm so mad at her. But then actually, at the
Speaker 1: end of the night, he came up to me and
Speaker 1: he asked me out. So, yeah, yeah, and your mom
Speaker 1: wasn't holding a gun at his back, right, I hope not.
Speaker 1: So what did you guys do when you actually did
Speaker 1: go out? Well, we went to dinner, but it was
Speaker 1: so weird because when he came over to pick me up.
Speaker 1: He actually came in and he said hi to my mom,
Speaker 1: So that was kind of embarrassing. But he was super
Speaker 1: out of it when he picked me up, so I
Speaker 1: was like, Okay, I was excited because he's so cute,
Speaker 1: and then he's acting really weird. Um, what do you mean?
Speaker 1: He was like he was like drunk or high or something.
Speaker 1: Well that's what I saw, maybe he was. But then
Speaker 1: I talked to him about it, and he just said
Speaker 1: he was tired from all these catering gigs he'd been
Speaker 1: doing back to back. Yeah. I hope they didn't let
Speaker 1: him drive you to the restaurant. Yeah. Well, in hindsight,
Speaker 1: I shouldn't have let him, because, like, we went to
Speaker 1: the restaurant, it was fine. You know, he's still out
Speaker 1: of it, but we had a good conversation and stuff.
Speaker 1: But then on the way home he um ran out
Speaker 1: of gas. Yeah, and he just said that he had
Speaker 1: been really tired and like wasn't looking at the gauge
Speaker 1: for god. Okay, So that's an awkward ending to your date. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and what's even worse is I had to actually call
Speaker 1: my mom to come get me. Oh my gosh, So
Speaker 1: what you liked this guy? Still after all this, Yeah
Speaker 1: I do. I mean I thought maybe he just had
Speaker 1: an off night, And honestly, I just kind of feel
Speaker 1: bad that my mom's been so involved. So I don't
Speaker 1: know if that's what's going on. But like, he won't
Speaker 1: call me back. So did you tell him that you
Speaker 1: lived with your parents? No, he didn't know until he
Speaker 1: came over. Okay, yeah that could be. That could be
Speaker 1: a deal breaker for some people. Yeah, maybe I don't know,
Speaker 1: but I don't know. We had fun and he's the
Speaker 1: one who didn't get gassed. What was his attitude towards
Speaker 1: your mom? He liked her? Okay, did it seem like
Speaker 1: he liked you? To me? It did, But you know,
Speaker 1: sometimes we aren't good at gauging these things, right, And
Speaker 1: I guess if he was tired from work and stuff,
Speaker 1: maybe it was even harder to tell exactly. I wasn't
Speaker 1: really sure what was him being tired. And so when
Speaker 1: when your mom came to pick you up because he
Speaker 1: ran out of gas, did you guys end with a
Speaker 1: hug or maybe like a little kiss or something, or
Speaker 1: did you just get in your mom's car and bounce?
Speaker 1: To be honest, I was mortified. So I just like
Speaker 1: stood by and got in my car. So wait, hold on,
Speaker 1: you guys left him stranded with no gas on the
Speaker 1: side of the road like your mom, and you didn't
Speaker 1: go get him gas. Well, he had already called Triple
Speaker 1: A and they were there, so oh okay. I didn't
Speaker 1: really want to wait with him because he seemed like
Speaker 1: really embarrassed and it just was awkward. Yeah. I was like,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna bounce, all right. How many times have you
Speaker 1: tried to get a hold of him since then? Probably
Speaker 1: dick to eight times. Dang, it's been like the week,
Speaker 1: like a week, and have you gotten any response from
Speaker 1: him at all? No. I just think he was really
Speaker 1: embarrassed by like how the night played out, and you know,
Speaker 1: I just want to give him another shot. It didn't
Speaker 1: look good on him, but I feel like he might
Speaker 1: not know that it wasn't a big deal to me. Okay,
Speaker 1: So you pretty much want to try to get another
Speaker 1: day with him so he can have a redo, yeah,
Speaker 1: both of us, you know. Okay, Well we'll play a
Speaker 1: song and then come back and call him and get
Speaker 1: your second day update. Okay, Okay, thank you, yea, hang
Speaker 1: on brooking Jubil in the morning. You know, you've had
Speaker 1: a bad date when your mom has to come pick
Speaker 1: you up, Brook and Jubel in the morning. And today's
Speaker 1: second day update, Alana is on the phone. She met
Speaker 1: a dude named Jeremy at her family reunion Relax. Wasn't
Speaker 1: a cousin, he was a caterer, and they ended up
Speaker 1: going out to dinner and on their date, she said,
Speaker 1: everything went fine, but at the end of the day
Speaker 1: when they're driving home, he actually ran out of gas
Speaker 1: and while he was waiting for Triple A to fill
Speaker 1: up his car or whatever, her mom actually came and
Speaker 1: picked her up and took her home. And now she
Speaker 1: hasn't heard from him. So we're about get him on
Speaker 1: the phone and see if we can find out what Well,
Speaker 1: we know what went wrong, but what else went wrong
Speaker 1: on their date? Maybe? All right, Elana, are you ready
Speaker 1: to call Jeremy? Yeah? I am. I just feel like
Speaker 1: he may be scared by your mom, Like your mom
Speaker 1: pressured him into asking you out. Your mom was there
Speaker 1: when he picked you up, Your mom came and picked
Speaker 1: you up from the date, Like are you always that
Speaker 1: attached to your mother? I mean, I don't really think
Speaker 1: that that's it. I think he just is embarrassed, Like,
Speaker 1: I bet he's just home, like freaking out about it
Speaker 1: and just feeling like the date went really bad. And
Speaker 1: I just want him to know that I'm going to
Speaker 1: give him another shot. Nice. Yeah, if I failed that
Speaker 1: badly on a date, I'd be thinking about it, like damn,
Speaker 1: I was so tired and then I ran out of gas.
Speaker 1: I can never call her again. But you've called him
Speaker 1: six to eight times, like I think that that would
Speaker 1: be signed enough that you don't care like is done.
Speaker 1: I don't know. I think it's worth another shot. I
Speaker 1: really do. All right, Well, I'm gonna dial his phone
Speaker 1: right now and see if we can get him on
Speaker 1: the phone. Here we go, Hello, him asking to Jeremy please. Yeah,
Speaker 1: hey Jeremy, how are you man? This is Jewbil from
Speaker 1: the radio show Brook and Jewel in the Morning. I'm sorry,
Speaker 1: Jebil from Brook and Jewel in the Morning. That's a
Speaker 1: radio show. What's it all about? Well, I'm calling you
Speaker 1: because we do a segment on our show called the
Speaker 1: second Date up Date. Have you ever heard of anything
Speaker 1: like that? No? No, I don't think so. Okay, Well,
Speaker 1: it's where if you go out on a date with
Speaker 1: somebody and then end up not calling them back after
Speaker 1: they can email us to get you on the phone
Speaker 1: and ask what happened? And you went out with a
Speaker 1: girl named Alana the other day, Oh my god, and
Speaker 1: like you remember her? That's what this is about. Yes,
Speaker 1: about that date. Yeah, she emailed us. She told us
Speaker 1: about how you met. She told us about your date,
Speaker 1: and she also told us that she's tried to get
Speaker 1: a hold of you a bunch, but you're not returning
Speaker 1: any of her calls or text messages. This is crazy. Yeah, okay,
Speaker 1: So what happens though, Well, we're trying to figure out
Speaker 1: why you won't call her back. So do you have
Speaker 1: an answer for that? Oh yeah, I can definitely tell
Speaker 1: you all about that date, but I want to know
Speaker 1: what she told you. Well, she told us that you
Speaker 1: met her at a family reunion. I guess you were
Speaker 1: a caterer there. Yeah. Yeah, And she's said you guys
Speaker 1: went out to dinner and when you picked her up,
Speaker 1: you seemed a little tired. Said that you had been
Speaker 1: working a bunch and then you ran out of gas
Speaker 1: at the end of the day and that's where things ended. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: that's like the short version. Well. She also added that
Speaker 1: like her mom pressured you into asking her out, and yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean that was I thought it was kind of
Speaker 1: cute actually, like her mom came up to the bar
Speaker 1: and was like, hey, my daughter is interested. Will you
Speaker 1: ask her out? I saw her daughter. I'm like, yeah,
Speaker 1: my daughter is cute. Why not? I like, can't hurt anything.
Speaker 1: So you said, I got the short version, what's the
Speaker 1: long version? Then I keep your mind. We're are on
Speaker 1: the radio, so it don't be like twenty minutes. I mean,
Speaker 1: just like, what's the meat that we're missing? So I
Speaker 1: go and pick her up at her mom's place. That
Speaker 1: was kind of a red flag number one, right, like
Speaker 1: I kind of expected her to have her own place
Speaker 1: or like some roommates. But right away, as we're like
Speaker 1: driving to the restaurant, I find out girl is nineteen
Speaker 1: years old. Oh okay, she didn't legal? Well yeah, legal,
Speaker 1: But also like, how old are you? I'm twenty eight. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you don't sound like a nineteen year old to me.
Speaker 1: I mean even if you were twenty three, maybe that's
Speaker 1: on the edge because four years. But you know, I've
Speaker 1: been out of college for five years and she'd been
Speaker 1: out of high school for like one. Yeah, Okay, already
Speaker 1: she's a little young. You're feeling like, yeah, she's cute
Speaker 1: and everything, but like that might be why I was
Speaker 1: out of it. Like I was a little shocked and
Speaker 1: like like what if I got myself into right, So
Speaker 1: like yeah, I mean, and then the whole running out
Speaker 1: of gas thing. I was borrowing my roommate's car, dude, Like,
Speaker 1: I like, I didn't have a car at the time,
Speaker 1: so I borrowed my friend's car. I didn't think to
Speaker 1: look at the gas gage and he like hands me
Speaker 1: the cards like yeah, sure, go ahead, not telling me
Speaker 1: it was on empty. By the time I saw it
Speaker 1: was too late running out of gas. Like it's already awkward.
Speaker 1: I'm just like canvas thing and already, um this is
Speaker 1: the kicker. This is what really gets me. When mom
Speaker 1: comes to pick her up. As she's like going back
Speaker 1: around the car, she pulls me aside and says, by
Speaker 1: the way, I have a son who's into you two,
Speaker 1: would you want to go out with him? For everybody?
Speaker 1: And also kind of low blow to her daughter, like
Speaker 1: the whole thing was so strange, man, Like, don't get
Speaker 1: me wrong, I think it's really flattering that that this
Speaker 1: woman wants her son and daughter to date me. But
Speaker 1: it's just I don't really first of all, I don't
Speaker 1: really go that way, and secondly, like it's just the
Speaker 1: whole thing kind of creep me out a little bit. Yeah,
Speaker 1: her mom. I think her mom wants to date you,
Speaker 1: and she's just like one of my kids is I've
Speaker 1: got to see you around the house, is what I want.
Speaker 1: I bet her mom is closer in my age. Would
Speaker 1: you would you ever consider dating a nineteen year old
Speaker 1: would you ever consider dating a twenty two year old guy?
Speaker 1: I don't know how older brother as I'm just guessing
Speaker 1: his age there. Yeah, I have no idea either. Well, Jeremy,
Speaker 1: I do have to let you know that Alana is
Speaker 1: actually on the phone and wants to talk to you.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, No, yeah, I think it's just her.
Speaker 1: I don't think her brother's there. But Alana, are you
Speaker 1: still there? Oh my god? I feel sorry. I feel
Speaker 1: bad now. I just don't know why my mom would
Speaker 1: say that to you, Like, did you really say that?
Speaker 1: I do not think you would say believe me, Why
Speaker 1: would I make that up? Like, I don't know, I'd
Speaker 1: like you never had anything like that happened to me before, So, I, yes,
Speaker 1: your mom did say that to me. She did ask
Speaker 1: me if I wanted to go out with your brother. Okay,
Speaker 1: well she doesn't make sense. I mean, yeah, my brother
Speaker 1: is gay, But like, it doesn't make sense that she
Speaker 1: would say that after we went on a date. Did you,
Speaker 1: like tell her that you're gay or something? Why would No? No,
Speaker 1: I did not tell her I'm gay. When did you
Speaker 1: have an opportunity to even do that? Yeah, a little
Speaker 1: roadside confessional while you're out of gas with her Momay,
Speaker 1: none of that. I don't know. Maybe at the party
Speaker 1: you told her that or something. I don't know. It
Speaker 1: just doesn't make sense to me why she'd say that that.
Speaker 1: Maybe she just thinks that, like young people nowadays, do anything,
Speaker 1: you know, go anywhere with her spectual. I don't know,
Speaker 1: Like I didn't. I definitely did not tell her I
Speaker 1: was gay, that is for sure. Did you think it
Speaker 1: was a joke you just took too literally? No, I
Speaker 1: really thought it might have been a joke. But the
Speaker 1: way she asked me and the way she looked at me,
Speaker 1: and she was serious. She was honestly asking me if
Speaker 1: I would go out with her son after I just
Speaker 1: had a bad day with her daughter. Okay, well I
Speaker 1: also want to say that I know I'm nineteen, but
Speaker 1: I'm like really mature from my age, Like I have
Speaker 1: no issue, you know, being outgoing talking to adult, Like
Speaker 1: even though I lived with my mom, you know, I
Speaker 1: have my friend order, like I'm saving up for grad
Speaker 1: school and you know, I'm really responsible, Like my room
Speaker 1: is really clean, I'm really organized. Like I'm sure you
Speaker 1: guys stopped laughing I'm really mature. I'm a lot more
Speaker 1: mature than any of my friends. It's not funny. I'm
Speaker 1: serious who you are. We just don't have that much
Speaker 1: in common, Like even when we were talking, it's like
Speaker 1: we grew up at different times. Like we don't have
Speaker 1: the same kind of connections on things like you can't
Speaker 1: even have as a wine at dinner, you know what
Speaker 1: I mean. Like it's it's just too far removed from
Speaker 1: where I am in my life. Well, in two years,
Speaker 1: I'll be able to drink with you. Just wait two years, yeah, anniversary,
Speaker 1: you guys, could you know, throw down a few glasses
Speaker 1: of wine? Jeremy, I mean, what if she's right, Like,
Speaker 1: what if you just wait a little bit. My sister
Speaker 1: got married when she was twenty and they've been married
Speaker 1: for like fifteen years and they're totally happily in love. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but check the thing. It's this much work and energy
Speaker 1: before we even get to the second date. It's looking
Speaker 1: like a lot of drama. If you start out a
Speaker 1: relationship like this, it's probably not great. Maybe we got
Speaker 1: all the drama done up front. That's usually not the
Speaker 1: way it works. I don't think the drama will be finished. Like,
Speaker 1: your mother is very invested in you and your brother's vibes,
Speaker 1: and your mom asked if I wanted to go out
Speaker 1: with your brother after we went out, Like you, I
Speaker 1: think there's a lot of drama there inherently in your
Speaker 1: in your family, and like I'll tell my mom to
Speaker 1: cool off, you know, like I'm not my mom, Like
Speaker 1: I'll be, but it's just too much, Like the whole
Speaker 1: thing is. I just think we deserve another shot, like
Speaker 1: one more date, just one more date, and maybe, you know,
Speaker 1: without all that drama, you'll see who I really am. Man.
Speaker 1: I feel bad, but I don't hang out Jeremy. Let
Speaker 1: me let me ask you officially, would you like to
Speaker 1: go out on a second date with Alana? We will
Speaker 1: pay for it. I don't think so. I think that
Speaker 1: she's a lovely girl, and I wish her all the
Speaker 1: best and her I wish her mother and her brother
Speaker 1: all the best. But I don't think I have a
Speaker 1: whole lot of time in my life for that kind
Speaker 1: of stuff. So sorry, I'm not interested. Okay, are you okay, Alanna? No,
Speaker 1: I'm I'm fine. I just I don't know. I think
Speaker 1: I think you're making the biggest mistake of your life,
Speaker 1: and you're gonna look back one day and really regret this.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, it's fine. I don't care. Hey, I
Speaker 1: know it feels like this now, like this is a
Speaker 1: really big deal. But with like young people like your generation,
Speaker 1: it's so easy to find people. You have a lot
Speaker 1: easier than I did at that age. You're great. How
Speaker 1: I want to find someone, though, Well, if you want
Speaker 1: to find someone by your mom asking them to ask
Speaker 1: you out, I feel like you're really missing out on something.
Speaker 1: But and I don't know what you say to that. Okay, Jeremy,
Speaker 1: would you like to do on a second date with
Speaker 1: Alana's brother? We'll pay for it or first day that. Yeah, man,
Speaker 1: I'm good. I'm good. On Matt in the morning, just
Speaker 1: a lot of thirsty people sending in text right now
Speaker 1: at seven eight five nine two. Either people want to
Speaker 1: go on a date with Alana or they want to
Speaker 1: go on a date with Jeremy. We're talking about today's
Speaker 1: second date update if you missed it. Alana met this
Speaker 1: dude named Jeremy at her family reunion. He was actually
Speaker 1: one of the caterers there, and then they went out
Speaker 1: on a date and Jeremy actually ran out of gas
Speaker 1: while driving them home, so she had to call her
Speaker 1: mom to pick her up. When we called Jeremy, he
Speaker 1: said that he was turned off for two reasons. One
Speaker 1: he discovered that she was only nineteen and two when
Speaker 1: Alana's mom, Tam came to her, she also whispered to
Speaker 1: Jeremy that he could also date her brother if he's interested.
Speaker 1: You know, you like a family that gives. Mom was
Speaker 1: just trying to get either one of them a date
Speaker 1: with Jeremy. A lot of thought that Jeremy must have
Speaker 1: given some sort of signal that he's into guys or
Speaker 1: something like that, otherwise the mom wouldn't have done that,
Speaker 1: and she insisted that she's really mature for her age.
Speaker 1: But in the end, Jeremy thought it was all too
Speaker 1: much and decided not to go out with her again.
Speaker 1: But everybody else on the textboard wants to go out
Speaker 1: with either one of them, so I'm sure they'll find
Speaker 1: a date somehow. They'll be all right. Yeah, Or if
Speaker 1: you want to do a second ate up date, all
Speaker 1: you have to do his email the show and we
Speaker 1: will call the person who didn't call you back.