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Speaker 1: Second date Update. Today's second date update might actually be

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Speaker 1: illegal for us to do in some states. I'm not

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Speaker 1: really sure. But Elana, who's on the phone for a

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Speaker 1: second day update, said she met the dude she wants

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Speaker 1: to call at their family reunion. Alana, So, Elana, you've

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Speaker 1: got to explain that before we get into anything. Sure, well,

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Speaker 1: it was at my family reunion, but it wasn't a

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Speaker 1: family member. It was a catered event. You know, My

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Speaker 1: catering staff. Okay, good, good, good. Usually when you say,

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Speaker 1: like I met this great dude at a family reunion

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Speaker 1: and we're going on a date, it's not a good thing. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: not as creepy as it sounds. Probably. Okay, So he

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Speaker 1: was a catering guy. What's his name? His name is Jeremy.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, were you getting ridiculed by your family

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Speaker 1: for I don't know what you were doing with the

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Speaker 1: catering guy, but obviously talking to him a lot. Well,

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Speaker 1: I wasn't talking to him, but I was talking about

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Speaker 1: him because I thought he was super attractive. Like right

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Speaker 1: when we got there, I was like, oh my gosh,

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Speaker 1: that guy is so cute. And I told my mom

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Speaker 1: that he was super attractive, and your mom was looking

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Speaker 1: at your cousin. She's like, yeah, he is the cater

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Speaker 1: not my cousin, looking to the nut straight. Wait, so

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Speaker 1: did your mom encourage you to pursue hot catering guy. Yes,

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Speaker 1: to the point where she actually went up to him

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Speaker 1: you mortified? I was mortified obviously. I thought it was

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Speaker 1: mother daughter moment of being like, Mom, are you kidding me? Now?

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Speaker 1: I'm so mad at her. But then actually, at the

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Speaker 1: end of the night, he came up to me and

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Speaker 1: So what did you guys do when you actually did

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Speaker 1: go out? Well, we went to dinner, but it was

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Speaker 1: so weird because when he came over to pick me up.

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Speaker 1: He actually came in and he said hi to my mom,

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Speaker 1: So that was kind of embarrassing. But he was super

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Speaker 1: was like, Okay, I was excited because he's so cute,

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Speaker 1: and then he's acting really weird. Um, what do you mean?

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Speaker 1: He was like he was like drunk or high or something.

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Speaker 1: Well that's what I saw, maybe he was. But then

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Speaker 1: doing back to back. Yeah. I hope they didn't let

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Speaker 1: him drive you to the restaurant. Yeah. Well, in hindsight,

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Speaker 1: I shouldn't have let him, because, like, we went to

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Speaker 1: the restaurant, it was fine. You know, he's still out

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Speaker 1: and what's even worse is I had to actually call

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Speaker 1: what you liked this guy? Still after all this, Yeah

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Speaker 1: one who didn't get gassed. What was his attitude towards

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Speaker 1: To be honest, I was mortified. So I just like

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Speaker 1: tried to get a hold of him since then? Probably

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Speaker 1: dick to eight times. Dang, it's been like the week,

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Speaker 1: I just want to give him another shot. It didn't

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Speaker 1: So you pretty much want to try to get another

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Speaker 1: on brooking Jubil in the morning. You know, you've had

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Speaker 1: a bad date when your mom has to come pick

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Speaker 1: second day update, Alana is on the phone. She met

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Speaker 1: a dude named Jeremy at her family reunion Relax. Wasn't

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Speaker 1: on their date? Maybe? All right, Elana, are you ready

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Speaker 1: I can never call her again. But you've called him

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Speaker 1: six to eight times, like I think that that would

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I think it's worth another shot. I

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Speaker 1: the phone. Here we go, Hello, him asking to Jeremy please. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: hey Jeremy, how are you man? This is Jewbil from

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Speaker 1: the radio show Brook and Jewel in the Morning. I'm sorry,

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Speaker 1: Jebil from Brook and Jewel in the Morning. That's a

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Speaker 1: radio show. What's it all about? Well, I'm calling you

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Speaker 1: because we do a segment on our show called the

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Speaker 1: second Date up Date. Have you ever heard of anything

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Speaker 1: like that? No? No, I don't think so. Okay, Well,

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Speaker 1: and ask what happened? And you went out with a

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Speaker 1: girl named Alana the other day, Oh my god, and

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Speaker 1: like you remember her? That's what this is about. Yes,

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Speaker 1: about that date. Yeah, she emailed us. She told us

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Speaker 1: So what happens though, Well, we're trying to figure out

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