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Speaker 1: I saw my boyfriend had a snapchat girl with a

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Speaker 1: heart next door name. But then I found out the truth.

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Speaker 2: What's the truth? Baby, It's always saucy. It's always saucy

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Speaker 2: and and uh. And also if he's out here having

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Speaker 2: having hearts next to the girl's names, he not the one.

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Speaker 3: Cut yeah, cut it.

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Speaker 2: Although although there was this one time I was with Ariana.

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Speaker 2: I don't know if you've ever gotten those, but I've

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Speaker 2: I got like a text that so it was like, Yo, yes,

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Speaker 2: are you did you come back from the bar last night?

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Speaker 2: And I was like what the fuck? And she's like

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Speaker 2: who's that? And I'm like, I swear I don't know

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Speaker 2: and I look at it and she's like, I'm gonna

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Speaker 2: send you some pictures right now. I hope, I hope

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Speaker 2: she's not around. And then like it was like it

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Speaker 2: ended up being like one of those porn bots, but bro,

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Speaker 2: like they're they're messing up relationship is crazy.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I got one the other day.

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Speaker 1: I was like, what is it?

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Speaker 3: What is this?

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Speaker 1: I hate those, but really I want to get I

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Speaker 1: wanted to give a shout out to Ari, who was

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Speaker 1: one of our.

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Speaker 3: Fans on the show.

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Speaker 1: She reached out on Instagram showed some love, said she's

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Speaker 1: been listening to the show for over a year.

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Speaker 3: Over a year. Come on, that's pretty great. Yeah, so

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Speaker 3: you know, shout out to our our year. That's right.

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Speaker 2: Five.

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Speaker 1: Yeah baby, if you're if you're watching it for year,

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Speaker 1: definitely comment below throw a shout out for you. But

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Speaker 1: on Twitter story, Hi, Also recently, my boyfriend and I

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Speaker 1: have been having some issues. A few weeks ago, my

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Speaker 1: trust was broken with him after he lied to me

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Speaker 1: about where he was. Ever since then, I can't escape

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Speaker 1: this nagging feeling that he's hiding something from me. But

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Speaker 1: it's been working really hard to choose to trust him

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Speaker 1: and fight off that insecurity that he is hiding something.

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Speaker 3: Once, oh yeah, this is this is a tough yikes.

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Speaker 1: But then something happened the other night that is really

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Speaker 1: bothering me and I would like some objective opinions.

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Speaker 3: Okay, here we are.

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Speaker 1: We were sitting on the couch and he showed me

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Speaker 1: something on his phone and I saw a notification of

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Speaker 1: what looked like a woman's snapchat with a heart beside it.

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Speaker 1: So I acknowledged what I saw and said, I'm not

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Speaker 1: making any assumptions or accusations, but it looked like I

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Speaker 1: saw a woman's name with a heart beside it in

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Speaker 1: your notifications. I mean, here quickly, if the scenarios flips,

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Speaker 1: how would you feel?

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Speaker 3: I mean yeah, how would you feel? How would you

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Speaker 3: for sure ask about it? Yeah? For sure? Like, yo,

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Speaker 3: who are you texting? Yeah? Like what for sure? Yeah?

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Speaker 3: I hate those texts so much. So he said it

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Speaker 3: was probably.

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Speaker 1: A corn bot corn bot from snapchat, but refused to

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Speaker 1: show it to me after I asked to see it,

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Speaker 1: see that's us, because because like, if it's.

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Speaker 2: I was in that situation, I would want to do

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Speaker 2: everything possible, like like literally see how spamy alone when

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Speaker 2: arian like like when I got a text from like

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Speaker 2: a cornbot, I was like, Ariana was with me, and

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Speaker 2: I'm like, dude, babe, look at this.

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Speaker 3: You could you could? You could text her back? You know,

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Speaker 3: like I promise it's it's fake. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I was like doing everything in my power to show

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Speaker 2: that was not legit.

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Speaker 3: It angers me.

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Speaker 1: I explained that I didn't think it was an unreasonable

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Speaker 1: request as his girlfriend to just see the notification, and

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Speaker 1: he basically said he would rather me break up with

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Speaker 1: him then show me the notification because I should trust

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Speaker 1: his word.

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Speaker 2: That's some fucking gas lighting right there.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, I am, I'm I'm hazy off of

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Speaker 1: those gaslight fumeals right there, my sucking man monoxide boys

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Speaker 1: hot box in that garage. But I explained that it

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Speaker 1: reaction was causing me to doubt his word. Oh you

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Speaker 1: don't say. It seemed off and shady to me. But

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Speaker 1: I'm also seeing his side of it, and you can

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Speaker 1: understand why that's an invasion of privacy. Stop seeing a

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Speaker 1: sad girl, don't don't see it? Could anyone offer some insight?

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Speaker 1: I mean, real quick, samly.

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Speaker 3: What.

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Speaker 2: One thousand percent hiding something from you? I remember like

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Speaker 2: like my my first girlfriend cheated on me, and I

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Speaker 2: remember just like like like all like the suspicious text

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Speaker 2: back a little bit too quickly. Like all this stuff

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Speaker 2: is like red flags in retrospect. Yeah, and then we've

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Speaker 2: ever talked about this. But the hickeys that she said

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Speaker 2: were spider bites, classic spiders. Classic spider was always freaking

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Speaker 2: trying to hook up with your girlfriend.

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Speaker 3: I know. It's why they call him Daddy longlegs. Oh, good.

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Speaker 3: But yeah, I mean I would. I would.

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Speaker 2: That's like some some hell suspicious like activity for.

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Speaker 1: Super super just show it. It's easy that they're like,

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Speaker 1: especially the ones on social media, they're so obvious.

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Speaker 3: Yea, like look at this. Yeah, yeah, this is crazy.

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Speaker 1: So for more added context, we spent about three to

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Speaker 1: four nights a week at my place, and I usually

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Speaker 1: am at least one night at his place every week.

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Speaker 1: He lives with his brother and his brother's fiance, who

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Speaker 1: have grown close with.

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Speaker 3: This is like a serious relationship. Yeah, this is serious.

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Speaker 1: He had his own closet at my apartment and I

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Speaker 1: had drawers of clothes in his. He had the keys

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Speaker 1: to my apartment. He's met my entire family. I've met

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Speaker 1: his family, We've met all of our friends. We've done

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Speaker 1: a seven day cruise of the Bahamas planned in November

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Speaker 1: for this year for the entire family.

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Speaker 3: So this is like, this is serious. They're in deep.

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Speaker 3: They're in deep. But Sam, there's one final update.

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Speaker 2: Oh man, I'm hoping that like he was just being weird.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, he came came through, came through, explained everything. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 3: I broke up with him. Oh nope, oh no, yeah,

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Speaker 3: why why why? Why why I.

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Speaker 1: Broke up with him after again he refused to show

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Speaker 1: me and I just found out he's been cheating on

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Speaker 1: me the whole time. Bro, I would be so, I

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Speaker 1: would ring, I would ring that mother effort out, Oh

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Speaker 1: my god, like the gaslighting, and then I find out

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Speaker 1: and then.

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Speaker 3: It's actually true.

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Speaker 1: Yes, I told her and showed her proof. I seriously

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Speaker 1: dodged an effing bullet.

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Speaker 2: Yeah you did, wait, showed the other girl, Yes, the

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Speaker 2: girl he was cheating with.

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Speaker 3: Yep.

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Speaker 1: Honestly, I will admit I am impressed with how he

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Speaker 1: was able to pull off two relationships for as long

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Speaker 1: as he did. The amount of planning, manipulation, rehearsing, and

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Speaker 1: lying to avoid this mission for me or her is

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Speaker 1: absolutely terrifying, insane, I would agree.

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Speaker 3: Uh, please let us know.

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Speaker 1: I'm sure some of you have like had stories like

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Speaker 1: this or like seen friends and stuff, So share your

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Speaker 1: perspective below. If if if the guy was the a hole,

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Speaker 1: if you've seen similar stories, we would love to you know,

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Speaker 1: see your your stories in the comments.

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Speaker 3: Sam, what's what's the boyfriend? Is the a hole? For sure?

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Speaker 3: God's letting her and cheating like insane? Girl.

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Speaker 2: Good on you for for breaking up with him. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: you are are the Angel if there is one. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: baby h But I think that's a wrap for this

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Speaker 2: mega episode. It is, We'll see you soon, that's right,