1 00:00:01,520 --> 00:00:04,400 Speaker 1: Steve. This is Victoria on Steve Harvey FM. 2 00:00:04,559 --> 00:00:07,280 Speaker 2: She says, I'm in a relationship that feels like it's 3 00:00:07,360 --> 00:00:10,760 Speaker 2: already run its course. I care about my boyfriend, and 4 00:00:10,800 --> 00:00:14,400 Speaker 2: I think he knows deep down that this isn't forever. 5 00:00:14,760 --> 00:00:17,920 Speaker 2: But every time I think about ending it, something happens. 6 00:00:17,960 --> 00:00:21,360 Speaker 2: Family drama, work, stress, health scares, and I don't want 7 00:00:21,400 --> 00:00:25,080 Speaker 2: to pile heartbreak on top of everything else. At this point, 8 00:00:25,239 --> 00:00:28,880 Speaker 2: it feels like we're only together because breaking up hasn't 9 00:00:28,920 --> 00:00:34,160 Speaker 2: been quote convenient. Do I rip off the bandage bandage now, 10 00:00:34,800 --> 00:00:38,360 Speaker 2: bandage now? Or wait for some mythical quote better time 11 00:00:38,479 --> 00:00:39,440 Speaker 2: that may never come. 12 00:00:40,680 --> 00:00:42,560 Speaker 3: Well, so it seems to me like there's a lot 13 00:00:42,640 --> 00:00:43,400 Speaker 3: wrong with him. 14 00:00:43,440 --> 00:00:46,400 Speaker 4: Sometimes you just be with the wrong person, you know, 15 00:00:46,600 --> 00:00:48,600 Speaker 4: bad stuff happening to him all the time. 16 00:00:49,640 --> 00:00:56,840 Speaker 2: So he's sick, he's got layof family drama. 17 00:00:57,200 --> 00:00:59,440 Speaker 4: Mamma and Eam got in a fight at the barbecue 18 00:00:59,480 --> 00:01:03,160 Speaker 4: security can't he had to bail his daddy out. You know, 19 00:01:03,480 --> 00:01:06,759 Speaker 4: you sometimes you could just be in the wrong family. 20 00:01:08,280 --> 00:01:10,600 Speaker 4: And if you know that this run is courted and 21 00:01:10,640 --> 00:01:13,000 Speaker 4: it ain't gonna get no better, get out now. 22 00:01:13,720 --> 00:01:16,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, women always stay longer than they should. 23 00:01:16,319 --> 00:01:21,120 Speaker 4: They stop worrying about breaking his heart. He can handle it. 24 00:01:21,680 --> 00:01:22,040 Speaker 1: He can. 25 00:01:22,200 --> 00:01:28,000 Speaker 4: He ain't working nowhere. Mom and daddy got arrested. 26 00:01:28,840 --> 00:01:31,720 Speaker 1: He doesn't want to add to his stress though. 27 00:01:33,280 --> 00:01:35,520 Speaker 4: So what, you can't go over this house. They took 28 00:01:35,560 --> 00:01:40,800 Speaker 4: the house from him. There's nothing going right, So you say. 29 00:01:40,600 --> 00:01:44,920 Speaker 1: It out now, set out, now, forget, forget anywhere. 30 00:01:45,319 --> 00:01:47,880 Speaker 3: It's some more bad news coming up follows him. 31 00:01:47,880 --> 00:01:51,640 Speaker 4: It's like a rain cloud on him. 32 00:01:52,800 --> 00:01:53,320 Speaker 3: Listen to me. 33 00:01:53,880 --> 00:01:57,280 Speaker 4: Some people have things happening for them because it's payback 34 00:01:57,360 --> 00:01:58,920 Speaker 4: for a lot of stuff. You ain't got to sit 35 00:01:59,000 --> 00:02:03,160 Speaker 4: through day payback. Let him pay his dues by hisself. 36 00:02:03,720 --> 00:02:07,520 Speaker 5: Yeah, he's one of those people where you say, what's wrong? 37 00:02:08,320 --> 00:02:11,800 Speaker 1: Yeah what my mom used to say, what's wrong? 38 00:02:11,919 --> 00:02:12,119 Speaker 4: Now? 39 00:02:12,280 --> 00:02:12,799 Speaker 1: That's right. 40 00:02:13,200 --> 00:02:17,440 Speaker 3: I think y'all should be more sensitive to that man. 41 00:02:17,480 --> 00:02:18,520 Speaker 3: That man going through a lot. 42 00:02:18,760 --> 00:02:25,120 Speaker 1: I've been there before. You really family drama, going through it. 43 00:02:25,200 --> 00:02:27,280 Speaker 5: By the hospital, she just left my bed as soon 44 00:02:27,280 --> 00:02:31,960 Speaker 5: as I went under what as soon as my soon 45 00:02:32,000 --> 00:02:34,359 Speaker 5: as my medication kicked in in the crisis, she broke 46 00:02:34,440 --> 00:02:35,960 Speaker 5: up with me right then while I was up. 47 00:02:39,600 --> 00:02:40,560 Speaker 3: I wasn't even awake. 48 00:02:41,080 --> 00:02:43,280 Speaker 4: That way, you could go on and fully healed under 49 00:02:43,320 --> 00:02:48,440 Speaker 4: the right and then when you come out of your crisis, then. 50 00:02:48,360 --> 00:02:50,040 Speaker 3: You deal with the other crisis. 51 00:02:50,040 --> 00:02:52,720 Speaker 4: What she didn't want to do is have you handling 52 00:02:52,760 --> 00:02:55,080 Speaker 4: two crisis. 53 00:02:55,120 --> 00:02:57,360 Speaker 1: Okay, I know you think you are, but you're not. 54 00:02:58,080 --> 00:03:01,480 Speaker 3: That that was a beautiful thing like that waited till 55 00:03:01,520 --> 00:03:04,640 Speaker 3: the medicine took you out. And she got up and left. 56 00:03:05,480 --> 00:03:07,639 Speaker 3: Why would she leave while you could see her leave? 57 00:03:12,400 --> 00:03:14,720 Speaker 1: You are not helping this man. 58 00:03:16,240 --> 00:03:22,120 Speaker 3: Yeah, man, I thought that was just she gotta face it. 59 00:03:24,240 --> 00:03:25,440 Speaker 1: There's never a good time. 60 00:03:25,600 --> 00:03:28,720 Speaker 2: That that that's that's it's just never a good time. 61 00:03:29,000 --> 00:03:29,240 Speaker 1: Yeah. 62 00:03:31,320 --> 00:03:33,120 Speaker 3: When I was young, man, I was taking. 63 00:03:32,919 --> 00:03:36,360 Speaker 1: This girl change. I couldn't find the number. Change. She 64 00:03:36,520 --> 00:03:38,440 Speaker 1: changed the number, She changed the number. 65 00:03:40,000 --> 00:03:44,760 Speaker 4: But the house was nasty. She had a baby and 66 00:03:44,200 --> 00:03:47,360 Speaker 4: a baby. The baby was dirty and. 67 00:03:49,040 --> 00:03:49,480 Speaker 3: The baby. 68 00:03:49,680 --> 00:03:54,520 Speaker 4: The house was nasty, and they had a dog. That 69 00:03:54,920 --> 00:04:00,520 Speaker 4: dog was nasty smell. It was fool that it with 70 00:04:00,640 --> 00:04:05,120 Speaker 4: plates in the sink. I was looking around like you 71 00:04:05,160 --> 00:04:09,040 Speaker 4: didn't know I was coming. You know, it's something in 72 00:04:09,040 --> 00:04:12,680 Speaker 4: a draw, throw some stuff behind the sofa. It was 73 00:04:13,360 --> 00:04:17,240 Speaker 4: closed all over the couch. And then she went in 74 00:04:17,360 --> 00:04:21,120 Speaker 4: the bedroom. Man, the bedroom was nasty, wasn't no clean 75 00:04:21,320 --> 00:04:22,440 Speaker 4: towels and washing. 76 00:04:24,160 --> 00:04:24,600 Speaker 3: Man. 77 00:04:26,040 --> 00:04:28,400 Speaker 4: If you went in the bathroom to use the bathroom, 78 00:04:28,440 --> 00:04:29,440 Speaker 4: I said, this is it. 79 00:04:30,360 --> 00:04:33,440 Speaker 3: You're out, went and got in my seventy two Chevy. 80 00:04:34,279 --> 00:04:35,400 Speaker 3: Put the dinner in the back. 81 00:04:35,640 --> 00:04:38,159 Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.