1 00:00:00,720 --> 00:00:03,840 Speaker 1: It is time now for today's Strawberry Letter, and if 2 00:00:03,880 --> 00:00:07,200 Speaker 1: you need advice on relationships, work, sex, parenting, and more, 3 00:00:07,600 --> 00:00:11,080 Speaker 1: please submit your Strawberry Letter to STEVEVARVIFM dot com and 4 00:00:11,119 --> 00:00:14,280 Speaker 1: click submit Strawberry Letter. We could be reading your letter 5 00:00:15,200 --> 00:00:17,520 Speaker 1: live on the air, just like we're going to read 6 00:00:17,560 --> 00:00:19,680 Speaker 1: this one right here, right now, and you never know, 7 00:00:19,880 --> 00:00:20,720 Speaker 1: it could be yours. 8 00:00:21,400 --> 00:00:23,400 Speaker 2: It could be yours. Buckle up and hold on time. 9 00:00:23,440 --> 00:00:25,840 Speaker 2: We got it for you. Here it is Strawberry Letter. 10 00:00:26,200 --> 00:00:29,680 Speaker 1: Thank you for you subject. The kids saw the whole video. 11 00:00:30,160 --> 00:00:33,159 Speaker 1: Dear Stephen Shirley, I am a mother of three boys, 12 00:00:33,320 --> 00:00:36,000 Speaker 1: and I just got remarried less than two years ago. 13 00:00:36,440 --> 00:00:38,479 Speaker 1: I have a thirteen year old son and an eight 14 00:00:38,600 --> 00:00:41,560 Speaker 1: year old son from my first marriage. My new husband 15 00:00:41,560 --> 00:00:44,199 Speaker 1: and I have a seven month old son, and I 16 00:00:44,240 --> 00:00:47,599 Speaker 1: had some complications after the baby, and I really I 17 00:00:47,640 --> 00:00:50,279 Speaker 1: haven't really been able to give my husband what he's 18 00:00:50,400 --> 00:00:52,440 Speaker 1: used to in the bedroom, so I take care of 19 00:00:52,479 --> 00:00:56,840 Speaker 1: his needs other ways. He and I always have had 20 00:00:56,920 --> 00:00:59,520 Speaker 1: great chemistry in the bedroom and we do all of 21 00:00:59,560 --> 00:01:02,080 Speaker 1: the things that are necessary to keep the sparks flying 22 00:01:02,120 --> 00:01:05,000 Speaker 1: between the sheets. Before we got married, one of my 23 00:01:05,120 --> 00:01:09,200 Speaker 1: old friends joined us at a hotel for an amazing experience. 24 00:01:09,560 --> 00:01:11,679 Speaker 1: My husband said he had to film it since I 25 00:01:11,800 --> 00:01:15,360 Speaker 1: told him it was a once in a lifetime experience. 26 00:01:15,680 --> 00:01:17,840 Speaker 1: I had no idea that he still had the video 27 00:01:18,080 --> 00:01:20,800 Speaker 1: until my thirteen year old son asked me about it. 28 00:01:21,160 --> 00:01:23,880 Speaker 1: I had a follow up appointment with my doctor and 29 00:01:23,920 --> 00:01:25,720 Speaker 1: I had to take my eight year old with me. 30 00:01:26,080 --> 00:01:28,560 Speaker 1: It was a long wait time, so I let him 31 00:01:28,600 --> 00:01:31,520 Speaker 1: watch videos on my phone. I went to the back 32 00:01:31,560 --> 00:01:34,240 Speaker 1: to be seen by the doctor, then my son and 33 00:01:34,319 --> 00:01:37,840 Speaker 1: I left. I wasn't even thinking about my phone because 34 00:01:37,880 --> 00:01:39,760 Speaker 1: I was ready to pick up my baby from my 35 00:01:39,840 --> 00:01:43,120 Speaker 1: sister's house and go home. When I got home, my 36 00:01:43,240 --> 00:01:46,280 Speaker 1: thirteen year old said there was a sad video with me, 37 00:01:46,840 --> 00:01:50,360 Speaker 1: his stepdad and a woman on it. I could feel 38 00:01:50,440 --> 00:01:53,080 Speaker 1: my heart racing as I asked him to show me 39 00:01:53,200 --> 00:01:57,360 Speaker 1: the video. It was the threesome video, and he said 40 00:01:57,400 --> 00:01:59,520 Speaker 1: his brother sent it to him while I was at 41 00:01:59,520 --> 00:02:03,200 Speaker 1: the doctor office. My husband's silly behind and had texted 42 00:02:03,240 --> 00:02:05,840 Speaker 1: it to me as a joke, so he can't wait, 43 00:02:06,760 --> 00:02:09,120 Speaker 1: saying he can't wait to make me holler like that again. 44 00:02:09,440 --> 00:02:12,640 Speaker 1: He didn't know my son had my phone. I was 45 00:02:12,760 --> 00:02:16,239 Speaker 1: so ashamed. What do I tell my sons. Should I 46 00:02:16,400 --> 00:02:20,840 Speaker 1: be honest or act like it's nothing. Oh my gosh, 47 00:02:21,120 --> 00:02:24,400 Speaker 1: I just can't begin to imagine how you must feel 48 00:02:24,480 --> 00:02:27,000 Speaker 1: right now. I mean, adults do what adults do. In 49 00:02:27,040 --> 00:02:31,080 Speaker 1: your case, threesomes no judgment here. But when you do 50 00:02:31,160 --> 00:02:33,280 Speaker 1: what you do, or in your case, when you did 51 00:02:33,320 --> 00:02:35,320 Speaker 1: what you did, it ends up in the hands of 52 00:02:35,360 --> 00:02:38,239 Speaker 1: your kids, that's got to be a whole new level, 53 00:02:38,520 --> 00:02:42,519 Speaker 1: new level of embarrassment and shame, especially when you're thinking 54 00:02:42,560 --> 00:02:44,680 Speaker 1: it's just the three of you. And I know your 55 00:02:44,720 --> 00:02:47,239 Speaker 1: older son said his little brother send him the video, 56 00:02:47,360 --> 00:02:50,120 Speaker 1: but he probably didn't know what else to do but 57 00:02:50,320 --> 00:02:52,840 Speaker 1: send it to his big brother. I'm sure they were 58 00:02:52,880 --> 00:02:56,280 Speaker 1: both traumatized after seeing mommy and daddy in the act. 59 00:02:56,840 --> 00:03:00,640 Speaker 1: No one, and I do mean no one wants to see, 60 00:03:00,680 --> 00:03:03,399 Speaker 1: wants to hear, wants to think about their parents doing 61 00:03:03,440 --> 00:03:06,960 Speaker 1: it at no time ever in life. I think both 62 00:03:07,000 --> 00:03:10,120 Speaker 1: you and your husband should talk to the boys together, 63 00:03:10,639 --> 00:03:14,040 Speaker 1: and honestly, I don't know exactly what you should tell them, 64 00:03:14,360 --> 00:03:17,720 Speaker 1: I really don't. What you can't do, though, is try 65 00:03:17,760 --> 00:03:20,000 Speaker 1: to lie your way out of this. When you gotta 66 00:03:20,600 --> 00:03:23,320 Speaker 1: you gotta tell some kind of truth. You gotta get 67 00:03:23,360 --> 00:03:26,280 Speaker 1: them some kind of understanding here, because I mean they're 68 00:03:26,400 --> 00:03:30,280 Speaker 1: young boys, because they've seen the video. They've seen the video, 69 00:03:30,360 --> 00:03:33,480 Speaker 1: and they know their parents when they see their parents. 70 00:03:33,800 --> 00:03:39,920 Speaker 2: Steve, well, well, well, well Sherley. 71 00:03:40,560 --> 00:03:44,280 Speaker 3: Yes, Steve, you like me, have nothing you can say 72 00:03:44,320 --> 00:03:48,800 Speaker 3: to these damn people. No nice try you say it nothing, 73 00:03:49,800 --> 00:03:51,400 Speaker 3: It's nothing we can say. 74 00:03:52,480 --> 00:03:54,080 Speaker 2: What do you want us to do? I don't even 75 00:03:54,080 --> 00:03:55,160 Speaker 2: got to go through this letter. 76 00:03:55,600 --> 00:03:59,040 Speaker 3: You and your husband, it's just this simple made a 77 00:03:59,120 --> 00:04:04,200 Speaker 3: sex tape with another woman. Y'all always trying to do 78 00:04:04,240 --> 00:04:08,440 Speaker 3: something to keep everything sparks flying between the sheets. And 79 00:04:08,480 --> 00:04:12,200 Speaker 3: then your dumb ass husband said, since it's a once 80 00:04:12,240 --> 00:04:14,640 Speaker 3: in a lifetime thing, he got to. 81 00:04:14,640 --> 00:04:18,719 Speaker 2: Record it, with his stupid ass. 82 00:04:20,640 --> 00:04:23,760 Speaker 3: This right here, he had to record it, since it 83 00:04:23,920 --> 00:04:26,880 Speaker 3: was a once in a lifetime and y'all set up 84 00:04:26,880 --> 00:04:30,919 Speaker 3: there and let him. 85 00:04:29,520 --> 00:04:32,560 Speaker 2: This what you get. I don't know what to tell you. 86 00:04:32,839 --> 00:04:34,360 Speaker 2: This what you get. 87 00:04:36,040 --> 00:04:38,760 Speaker 3: We ain't got nothing for you. We can end this 88 00:04:38,760 --> 00:04:42,360 Speaker 3: strawberry letter right now. We don't know what to tell you. 89 00:04:43,520 --> 00:04:45,440 Speaker 3: We don't know what you're supposed to say to these boys. 90 00:04:46,040 --> 00:04:47,839 Speaker 3: But I do know when you went back there to 91 00:04:47,880 --> 00:04:54,120 Speaker 3: see your doctor, and your dumb ass husband texted to 92 00:04:54,200 --> 00:04:57,159 Speaker 3: you and said, I can't wait to hear you holler 93 00:04:57,320 --> 00:05:00,520 Speaker 3: like that again. That eight year old got it. When 94 00:05:00,520 --> 00:05:03,800 Speaker 3: the eight year old got it, he got mad. I 95 00:05:03,839 --> 00:05:06,680 Speaker 3: got to bring my brother into this because I don't 96 00:05:06,680 --> 00:05:10,680 Speaker 3: have the band within my mind to process none of this. 97 00:05:11,160 --> 00:05:15,400 Speaker 3: Maybe my big brother can help me. Hey, bro, look 98 00:05:15,440 --> 00:05:19,880 Speaker 3: at him. I just saw this. I have no idea 99 00:05:20,040 --> 00:05:21,320 Speaker 3: even what they doing. 100 00:05:21,600 --> 00:05:24,120 Speaker 2: I'm a I'm eight. 101 00:05:25,839 --> 00:05:25,960 Speaker 1: Now. 102 00:05:26,000 --> 00:05:28,239 Speaker 3: I heard you talking the other day about this girl 103 00:05:28,279 --> 00:05:29,680 Speaker 3: you was liking up at the school. 104 00:05:30,080 --> 00:05:33,599 Speaker 2: Have y'all ever done this? Wow? 105 00:05:35,120 --> 00:05:41,640 Speaker 3: It's this our mama? Where is our real daddy? At 106 00:05:41,720 --> 00:05:45,920 Speaker 3: end this damn video? We didn't have this problem when 107 00:05:45,960 --> 00:05:47,760 Speaker 3: she was married to our father. 108 00:05:48,640 --> 00:05:52,320 Speaker 2: Now this other man in him, I told you I 109 00:05:52,320 --> 00:05:53,160 Speaker 2: ain't like him. 110 00:05:53,560 --> 00:05:56,320 Speaker 3: Why he got mama like her? Put this other woman 111 00:05:56,400 --> 00:06:02,000 Speaker 3: in him. And they don't look the same either. Now 112 00:06:02,120 --> 00:06:03,960 Speaker 3: this boy had seen everybody naked. 113 00:06:05,320 --> 00:06:11,839 Speaker 2: God, though, who you see your father in law naked? Stepdad? 114 00:06:12,960 --> 00:06:15,560 Speaker 2: But in the ready set gold position. 115 00:06:15,839 --> 00:06:20,120 Speaker 3: God, Now you in here looking down, you're looking at 116 00:06:20,160 --> 00:06:22,520 Speaker 3: yourself trying to figure out, Man, am I ever gonna 117 00:06:22,520 --> 00:06:24,000 Speaker 3: be this? 118 00:06:24,560 --> 00:06:25,640 Speaker 2: What is he in here doing? 119 00:06:25,720 --> 00:06:28,200 Speaker 3: This little boy, this little eight year old boy, When 120 00:06:28,240 --> 00:06:30,680 Speaker 3: he got there at the doctor's office. He sent it 121 00:06:30,720 --> 00:06:36,160 Speaker 3: to his brother right away because he needed some questions answers. 122 00:06:36,160 --> 00:06:38,840 Speaker 1: Hang on, Steve, and we'll have part two of yours 123 00:06:39,880 --> 00:06:44,240 Speaker 1: to today's strawberry Letters. Come up twenty three minutes after 124 00:06:44,320 --> 00:06:48,280 Speaker 1: the hour. Today's subject the kids, saw the whole video. 125 00:06:48,440 --> 00:06:51,520 Speaker 1: We'll get back into it right after this. You're listening 126 00:06:51,800 --> 00:06:55,479 Speaker 1: Steve Hard Morning Show. All right, come on, Steve, let's 127 00:06:55,520 --> 00:06:58,479 Speaker 1: recap today's strawberry letter. This one's a crazy one. The 128 00:06:58,520 --> 00:07:01,360 Speaker 1: subject the kids, the whole video. 129 00:07:02,320 --> 00:07:06,000 Speaker 2: This lady's remarried. She has two sons from a previous marriage. 130 00:07:06,000 --> 00:07:08,880 Speaker 3: Her new husband, they got a seven month old son, 131 00:07:09,080 --> 00:07:12,640 Speaker 3: you know, and she had some complications after the baby 132 00:07:12,680 --> 00:07:15,520 Speaker 3: and ain't really been able to give her husband what 133 00:07:15,560 --> 00:07:17,120 Speaker 3: he's used to in the bedroom. 134 00:07:17,240 --> 00:07:19,920 Speaker 2: So I take care of his knees otherways. 135 00:07:20,080 --> 00:07:22,640 Speaker 3: I don't know what that mean, but he and I've 136 00:07:22,680 --> 00:07:25,440 Speaker 3: always had great chemistry in the bedroom, and we do 137 00:07:25,520 --> 00:07:26,280 Speaker 3: all the things. 138 00:07:26,080 --> 00:07:28,520 Speaker 2: That necessary to keep the sparks flying. 139 00:07:28,600 --> 00:07:31,920 Speaker 3: And before we got married, one of my before we 140 00:07:32,000 --> 00:07:35,120 Speaker 3: got married, now, one of my old friends, this was 141 00:07:35,280 --> 00:07:37,000 Speaker 3: before the last. 142 00:07:36,760 --> 00:07:39,320 Speaker 2: Baby, before the complications. 143 00:07:40,040 --> 00:07:42,760 Speaker 3: One of my old friends joined us at a hotel 144 00:07:42,840 --> 00:07:46,040 Speaker 3: for an amazing experience. My husband said he had to 145 00:07:46,160 --> 00:07:49,080 Speaker 3: film it since I told him it was a once 146 00:07:49,160 --> 00:07:53,080 Speaker 3: in a lifetime experience. His dumb ass had to film it, 147 00:07:54,040 --> 00:07:57,640 Speaker 3: and YO, dumb behind leddy, Yeah, I had no idea 148 00:07:57,680 --> 00:07:59,720 Speaker 3: that he still had the video on two. My thirteen 149 00:07:59,800 --> 00:08:03,360 Speaker 3: year old son asked me about it. So she had 150 00:08:03,360 --> 00:08:05,520 Speaker 3: a follow up appointment with a doctor and the long wait. 151 00:08:05,600 --> 00:08:07,640 Speaker 3: So she had the eight year old with us, so 152 00:08:07,680 --> 00:08:09,800 Speaker 3: she left the eight year old with her son, left 153 00:08:09,800 --> 00:08:12,400 Speaker 3: her phone with the eight year old. You don't ever 154 00:08:12,480 --> 00:08:18,160 Speaker 3: do that. You don't ever give your phone to some kids. 155 00:08:18,240 --> 00:08:22,040 Speaker 3: And you ain't right there. You went back in to 156 00:08:22,080 --> 00:08:26,160 Speaker 3: see the doctor, then your son, you the eight year old, 157 00:08:26,200 --> 00:08:29,440 Speaker 3: y'all left. You wasn't even I wasn't even thinking about 158 00:08:29,480 --> 00:08:31,160 Speaker 3: my phone because I was going to pick up the 159 00:08:31,160 --> 00:08:33,400 Speaker 3: baby from my sister's house when. 160 00:08:33,200 --> 00:08:33,839 Speaker 2: I got home. 161 00:08:33,960 --> 00:08:37,200 Speaker 3: Now, the thirteen year old said, that was a sad 162 00:08:37,440 --> 00:08:42,360 Speaker 3: video with me, his stepdad and a woman on it. 163 00:08:43,080 --> 00:08:47,120 Speaker 3: I could feel my heart racing as I asked him 164 00:08:47,200 --> 00:08:51,840 Speaker 3: to show me the video. It was I be damn 165 00:08:52,440 --> 00:08:56,920 Speaker 3: the threesome video. He said his brother sent it to 166 00:08:57,040 --> 00:09:00,360 Speaker 3: him while I was in the doctor's office. God dog 167 00:09:00,400 --> 00:09:04,440 Speaker 3: the baby to see it. God dog. The eight year 168 00:09:04,480 --> 00:09:10,440 Speaker 3: older seene yea god dog, and he said his brother 169 00:09:10,559 --> 00:09:12,679 Speaker 3: send it to him while I was at the doctor's office. 170 00:09:12,800 --> 00:09:14,480 Speaker 3: You know why the brother sent it to it because 171 00:09:14,520 --> 00:09:18,320 Speaker 3: he ate I can't process what I'm looking at, big brother. 172 00:09:18,480 --> 00:09:20,200 Speaker 3: I'm gonna send this to you because I know you, 173 00:09:20,280 --> 00:09:21,720 Speaker 3: my big brother. You know a lot. 174 00:09:22,120 --> 00:09:24,400 Speaker 2: So tell me what the hell going on in here? 175 00:09:24,720 --> 00:09:27,240 Speaker 3: Who is all these people? What is this man doing 176 00:09:27,280 --> 00:09:29,320 Speaker 3: to my mama? What is my mama doing to this 177 00:09:29,400 --> 00:09:31,680 Speaker 3: other woman? Why is this other woman in here doing 178 00:09:31,720 --> 00:09:34,040 Speaker 3: this to my mama? Why is my mama acting. 179 00:09:33,840 --> 00:09:35,480 Speaker 2: Like she like it now? 180 00:09:35,559 --> 00:09:39,480 Speaker 3: The thirty year old say, it's a sad video. Yeah, 181 00:09:39,520 --> 00:09:43,040 Speaker 3: my husband silly behind texted to me as a joke 182 00:09:44,000 --> 00:09:47,160 Speaker 3: why she was at the doctor office, saying, I can't wait. 183 00:09:46,960 --> 00:09:49,240 Speaker 2: To make me holler like that again. 184 00:09:50,000 --> 00:09:54,880 Speaker 3: He didn't know my son had my fuck godd. I 185 00:09:55,080 --> 00:09:58,960 Speaker 3: was so ashamed. What do I tell my sons? Should 186 00:09:58,960 --> 00:10:01,240 Speaker 3: I be honest? Act like it's nothing? 187 00:10:01,760 --> 00:10:05,920 Speaker 2: Be honest? This ain't the time for honesty. 188 00:10:06,160 --> 00:10:13,280 Speaker 3: What what did you honestly fit to say? I don't 189 00:10:13,280 --> 00:10:17,320 Speaker 3: really see you? Now? Do I act like it's nothing? Well, 190 00:10:17,320 --> 00:10:19,560 Speaker 3: I don't know if you could do that, But honest, 191 00:10:19,600 --> 00:10:22,720 Speaker 3: what did you honestly fit to say? Listen, it's a 192 00:10:22,840 --> 00:10:25,440 Speaker 3: time doing my life. What are you finna tell these 193 00:10:25,480 --> 00:10:30,200 Speaker 3: two boys? That's your sons. Listen, Mama was going through 194 00:10:30,240 --> 00:10:33,880 Speaker 3: some things. And me and your new daddy stop calling 195 00:10:33,960 --> 00:10:38,600 Speaker 3: him my daddy. Mama and me and your new daddy, 196 00:10:38,720 --> 00:10:39,959 Speaker 3: we want our old daddy back. 197 00:10:40,000 --> 00:10:45,319 Speaker 2: We didn't have none of this with our old daddy. 198 00:10:46,440 --> 00:10:51,000 Speaker 3: We don't like our new daddy no more. What do 199 00:10:51,040 --> 00:10:54,040 Speaker 3: I tell my son, Shirley? I was waiting on Shirley's 200 00:10:54,080 --> 00:10:56,160 Speaker 3: response because I could not imagine what. 201 00:10:56,200 --> 00:10:57,280 Speaker 2: Shirley could say. 202 00:10:57,559 --> 00:11:02,240 Speaker 3: But you know what, I can't imagine what I'm gonna say. 203 00:11:02,920 --> 00:11:04,560 Speaker 3: I don't know what the hell to tell you. See, 204 00:11:04,600 --> 00:11:07,080 Speaker 3: I'm gonna lie now. I don't know what you're gonna do. 205 00:11:07,320 --> 00:11:10,240 Speaker 2: I don't know. Listen, that is not me, That is 206 00:11:10,320 --> 00:11:11,000 Speaker 2: not your daddy. 207 00:11:11,040 --> 00:11:15,439 Speaker 3: You know, they got this stuff out here now called AIY, 208 00:11:15,440 --> 00:11:17,560 Speaker 3: and they don't put some people together. You know what, 209 00:11:17,679 --> 00:11:19,960 Speaker 3: Me and your daddy is suing this woman that's in 210 00:11:19,960 --> 00:11:21,079 Speaker 3: this video right now. 211 00:11:23,240 --> 00:11:24,360 Speaker 2: That's because you. 212 00:11:24,320 --> 00:11:27,400 Speaker 3: Know the woman that's in this video, that's Kim Kardashian, 213 00:11:27,720 --> 00:11:29,920 Speaker 3: and she put a lot of makeup on and made 214 00:11:29,920 --> 00:11:31,400 Speaker 3: herself look darker. 215 00:11:31,679 --> 00:11:36,240 Speaker 2: The whole body. Yeah, come on, we got we got 216 00:11:36,360 --> 00:11:37,880 Speaker 2: to do some type of line. I don't know. 217 00:11:38,080 --> 00:11:40,560 Speaker 3: Look listen, I don't even have a good one for you. 218 00:11:41,000 --> 00:11:43,760 Speaker 3: But lying is essential at this point. 219 00:11:43,920 --> 00:11:44,559 Speaker 2: But what you. 220 00:11:44,760 --> 00:11:49,320 Speaker 3: Must do is immediately get into the now that that 221 00:11:49,360 --> 00:11:49,680 Speaker 3: ain't you. 222 00:11:49,840 --> 00:11:53,520 Speaker 2: Now. They not gonna believe you because they saw it. Yeah, 223 00:11:53,559 --> 00:11:57,320 Speaker 2: and one thing about kids, they believe what they see. Now. 224 00:11:57,520 --> 00:11:59,360 Speaker 3: What you really need to do is get these boys 225 00:11:59,400 --> 00:12:03,640 Speaker 3: in some type a damn therapy because these boys is 226 00:12:03,679 --> 00:12:07,520 Speaker 3: traumatized because your they mama been in here just wildly. 227 00:12:07,600 --> 00:12:09,360 Speaker 3: And I don't know how hard you was hollering in 228 00:12:09,440 --> 00:12:14,160 Speaker 3: that damn video, but your husband had, your new husband 229 00:12:14,200 --> 00:12:17,920 Speaker 3: made a special note of that. And a boy's feelings 230 00:12:17,920 --> 00:12:21,400 Speaker 3: for his mother, it's different than any other woman you are. 231 00:12:21,640 --> 00:12:25,920 Speaker 3: A boy's first love is their mama. That's why boys 232 00:12:25,920 --> 00:12:27,960 Speaker 3: will kill you about their mama because that was their 233 00:12:28,000 --> 00:12:31,320 Speaker 3: first love as a woman. And now you've scarred that 234 00:12:31,480 --> 00:12:34,960 Speaker 3: love because you've you've damaged it all right. See all 235 00:12:35,040 --> 00:12:38,120 Speaker 3: I know about mama and me and your new daddy, 236 00:12:38,200 --> 00:12:39,439 Speaker 3: we want our old daddy back. 237 00:12:39,480 --> 00:12:40,600 Speaker 2: We didn't have none of this with. 238 00:12:40,720 --> 00:12:44,800 Speaker 1: Our old daddy. 239 00:12:45,920 --> 00:12:50,480 Speaker 3: We don't like our knew daddy no more. What do 240 00:12:50,559 --> 00:12:53,559 Speaker 3: I tell my son, Shirley? I was waiting on Shirley's 241 00:12:53,600 --> 00:12:56,760 Speaker 3: response because I could not imagine what Shirley could say. 242 00:12:57,040 --> 00:12:59,200 Speaker 2: But you know what, I can't imagine what I'm gonna 243 00:12:59,200 --> 00:13:00,120 Speaker 2: say either, because. 244 00:13:02,400 --> 00:13:04,040 Speaker 3: I don't know what the hell to tell you. See, 245 00:13:04,080 --> 00:13:06,600 Speaker 3: I'm gonna lie now. I don't know what you're gonna do. 246 00:13:06,800 --> 00:13:07,160 Speaker 2: I don't know. 247 00:13:07,559 --> 00:13:10,480 Speaker 3: Listen, that is not me, that is not your daddy. 248 00:13:10,520 --> 00:13:12,320 Speaker 3: You know, they got this stuff out here now called 249 00:13:12,360 --> 00:13:16,480 Speaker 3: AIY and they don't win and put some people together. 250 00:13:16,600 --> 00:13:18,720 Speaker 3: You know what, me and your daddy is suing this 251 00:13:18,760 --> 00:13:20,640 Speaker 3: woman that's in this video right now. 252 00:13:22,760 --> 00:13:23,839 Speaker 2: That's because you. 253 00:13:23,800 --> 00:13:26,880 Speaker 3: Know the woman that's in this video, that's Kim Kardashian, 254 00:13:27,200 --> 00:13:29,400 Speaker 3: and she put a lot of makeup on and made 255 00:13:29,400 --> 00:13:31,000 Speaker 3: herself look darker. 256 00:13:31,160 --> 00:13:35,280 Speaker 2: The whole body. Yeah, come on, and we got we 257 00:13:35,559 --> 00:13:37,360 Speaker 2: got to do some type of life. I don't know. 258 00:13:37,559 --> 00:13:40,040 Speaker 3: Look, listen, I don't even have a good one for you. 259 00:13:40,480 --> 00:13:43,240 Speaker 3: But lying is essential at this point. 260 00:13:43,440 --> 00:13:44,040 Speaker 2: But what you. 261 00:13:44,240 --> 00:13:48,800 Speaker 3: Must do is immediately get into the now that that 262 00:13:48,840 --> 00:13:51,760 Speaker 3: ain't you. Now, they not gonna believe you because they 263 00:13:51,800 --> 00:13:54,920 Speaker 3: saw it. Yeah, And one thing about kids, they believe 264 00:13:55,040 --> 00:13:58,040 Speaker 3: what they see. Now, what you really need to do 265 00:13:58,080 --> 00:14:00,360 Speaker 3: is get these boys is some type of damn therapy 266 00:14:00,520 --> 00:14:05,880 Speaker 3: therapy because these boys is traumatized. They mama been in 267 00:14:05,920 --> 00:14:08,160 Speaker 3: here just wildly. And I don't know how hard you 268 00:14:08,280 --> 00:14:12,439 Speaker 3: was hollering in that damn video, but your husband had. 269 00:14:12,760 --> 00:14:16,160 Speaker 3: Your new husband made a special note of that. And 270 00:14:16,280 --> 00:14:20,240 Speaker 3: a boy's feelings for his mother's different than any other woman. 271 00:14:20,560 --> 00:14:20,880 Speaker 2: You are. 272 00:14:21,120 --> 00:14:25,400 Speaker 3: A boy's first love is their mama. That's why boys 273 00:14:25,400 --> 00:14:27,440 Speaker 3: will kill you about their mama because that was their 274 00:14:27,480 --> 00:14:30,800 Speaker 3: first love as a woman. And now you've scarred that 275 00:14:31,000 --> 00:14:33,360 Speaker 3: love because you've you've damaged. 276 00:14:32,840 --> 00:14:33,680 Speaker 2: It all right. 277 00:14:33,960 --> 00:14:36,360 Speaker 3: See all I know about my mama, you loves Vir 278 00:14:36,400 --> 00:14:38,160 Speaker 3: Harvey scriptures and going to church. 279 00:14:39,960 --> 00:14:40,080 Speaker 1: Now. 280 00:14:40,080 --> 00:14:42,240 Speaker 3: I know she had five kids, but I have no 281 00:14:42,320 --> 00:14:45,600 Speaker 3: idea how they got it because I know her my 282 00:14:45,720 --> 00:14:47,560 Speaker 3: daddy not have had sex. 283 00:14:47,760 --> 00:14:50,960 Speaker 1: It's Strawberry Letter on Instagram at Steve Harvey FM, and 284 00:14:51,040 --> 00:14:55,080 Speaker 1: check out the Strawberry Header podcast on the free iHeartRadio 285 00:14:55,160 --> 00:14:57,960 Speaker 1: app coming up next to his Junior and Sports Talk 286 00:14:58,160 --> 00:15:05,040 Speaker 1: right after this. 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