1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:08,080 Speaker 1: What are we even do? What are we even doing? 2 00:00:08,520 --> 00:00:11,160 Speaker 1: What are we even doing? This is my little podcast 3 00:00:11,200 --> 00:00:16,320 Speaker 1: where I sit down and I talk to wonderful creatives, actors, artist, musicians, 4 00:00:16,360 --> 00:00:21,120 Speaker 1: podcast hosts, men about town and today very special guest. 5 00:00:21,480 --> 00:00:24,120 Speaker 1: It's interesting you have three names. I do Devin ross 6 00:00:24,200 --> 00:00:27,040 Speaker 1: katz is with us, ladies and gentlemen. I am so 7 00:00:27,080 --> 00:00:30,440 Speaker 1: excited you have the the title of the most valuable 8 00:00:30,880 --> 00:00:33,800 Speaker 1: hype man in the history of television. I think Mike White. 9 00:00:34,200 --> 00:00:36,520 Speaker 1: Is he the one who gave you that monitor? Yes, 10 00:00:36,560 --> 00:00:37,440 Speaker 1: that's pretty awesome. 11 00:00:37,560 --> 00:00:40,480 Speaker 2: I don't hate it. What's funny though, was I don't 12 00:00:40,479 --> 00:00:42,880 Speaker 2: think it was intentionally something that he said that would 13 00:00:42,880 --> 00:00:45,839 Speaker 2: be out there. She said it in a This is 14 00:00:45,840 --> 00:00:48,440 Speaker 2: like a It's one of those stories. He recorded a 15 00:00:48,479 --> 00:00:50,920 Speaker 2: video for me that he gave to Katie Kuric because 16 00:00:50,960 --> 00:00:53,120 Speaker 2: Katie kirk was interviewing me. Yes, and she played it 17 00:00:53,159 --> 00:00:55,120 Speaker 2: for me as a surprise. Oh, and he said that 18 00:00:55,160 --> 00:00:57,120 Speaker 2: in the video and the moment I heard that, I 19 00:00:57,200 --> 00:00:58,720 Speaker 2: was like, Yeah, well that's going on the rest of Yeah, 20 00:00:58,720 --> 00:01:00,720 Speaker 2: that's I want to be referred to, Yes, because I 21 00:01:00,720 --> 00:01:03,480 Speaker 2: feel like it encapsulates how I like to see myself, 22 00:01:03,520 --> 00:01:07,520 Speaker 2: which is ultimately like fanboy, like hype man like person 23 00:01:07,560 --> 00:01:09,680 Speaker 2: who gets behind the thing and cheerleads. 24 00:01:09,760 --> 00:01:12,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, well, because it comes from passion. I mean, I 25 00:01:12,360 --> 00:01:14,960 Speaker 1: know that you have Buffy on the sweatshirt, which is 26 00:01:15,200 --> 00:01:18,880 Speaker 1: your my show. Yeah, I mean have you seen Buffy. 27 00:01:19,040 --> 00:01:22,840 Speaker 1: I saw early early episodes when it first aired, and 28 00:01:22,880 --> 00:01:24,959 Speaker 1: I was like, oh, this is interesting because it was 29 00:01:25,640 --> 00:01:27,800 Speaker 1: a different approach, you know, And I was like, oh, 30 00:01:27,840 --> 00:01:29,720 Speaker 1: I loved it. But then I sort of went on 31 00:01:29,760 --> 00:01:32,319 Speaker 1: to other things. But I know you stuck with it 32 00:01:32,400 --> 00:01:36,240 Speaker 1: and like it became a really important part of who 33 00:01:36,360 --> 00:01:37,200 Speaker 1: you are. 34 00:01:37,280 --> 00:01:39,560 Speaker 2: And yeah, I mean I feel like, Okay, Well, first 35 00:01:39,560 --> 00:01:41,720 Speaker 2: of all, I think there are similarities between the fandoms 36 00:01:41,720 --> 00:01:44,120 Speaker 2: of Twin Peaks and Buffy. The vampires so interesting, and 37 00:01:44,160 --> 00:01:46,160 Speaker 2: I think that they're I'm really interested in, like the 38 00:01:46,200 --> 00:01:49,400 Speaker 2: ephemeral quality of certain art, and I feel like, in 39 00:01:49,440 --> 00:01:51,280 Speaker 2: the case of Twin Peaks and then also with Buffy, 40 00:01:51,600 --> 00:01:53,960 Speaker 2: these are these shows that sort of exist in some 41 00:01:54,120 --> 00:01:57,760 Speaker 2: way decades later, and there are so many really popular 42 00:01:57,800 --> 00:02:01,280 Speaker 2: shows of their time that more or less get forgotten, 43 00:02:01,360 --> 00:02:03,440 Speaker 2: and so I feel really lucky in the fact that 44 00:02:03,640 --> 00:02:07,000 Speaker 2: Buffy was the first show that I discovered that really 45 00:02:07,000 --> 00:02:09,880 Speaker 2: connected a lot of dots for me about life and 46 00:02:09,919 --> 00:02:11,600 Speaker 2: the kind of person I wanted to be, and there 47 00:02:11,639 --> 00:02:14,399 Speaker 2: being a world outside of the one that I had 48 00:02:14,440 --> 00:02:17,480 Speaker 2: been born into, and like the place I lived, there 49 00:02:17,560 --> 00:02:20,280 Speaker 2: was a bigger, different, alternative world. Yeah, but also I 50 00:02:20,280 --> 00:02:23,600 Speaker 2: feel glad now years later that Buffy is something that 51 00:02:23,639 --> 00:02:26,600 Speaker 2: I can still connect with people on and that still 52 00:02:26,680 --> 00:02:30,040 Speaker 2: has zeitgeist appeal and it doesn't feel like I'm like 53 00:02:30,280 --> 00:02:32,880 Speaker 2: stuck in the past, despite the fact that it is 54 00:02:32,919 --> 00:02:34,720 Speaker 2: this thing that is very of the past, but somehow 55 00:02:34,760 --> 00:02:37,640 Speaker 2: it has a life today and I'm obsessed with like 56 00:02:37,800 --> 00:02:39,519 Speaker 2: art that gets to live on. 57 00:02:39,840 --> 00:02:41,359 Speaker 1: And yeah, why that is How old were you when 58 00:02:41,360 --> 00:02:42,160 Speaker 1: you discovered Buffy. 59 00:02:42,800 --> 00:02:44,480 Speaker 2: I would have been so this would be nineteen ninety, 60 00:02:44,480 --> 00:02:47,480 Speaker 2: it would have been nine. I was not supposed to 61 00:02:47,560 --> 00:02:51,600 Speaker 2: be watching it, but I remember flipping through the channels. 62 00:02:52,080 --> 00:02:54,160 Speaker 2: It was I think at that time that would have 63 00:02:54,160 --> 00:02:58,079 Speaker 2: been viewed like little yeah, like for the for the Tetans. 64 00:02:58,160 --> 00:03:00,280 Speaker 2: And also at this time there was much more like 65 00:03:00,360 --> 00:03:02,519 Speaker 2: there was a lot more division in terms of what 66 00:03:02,639 --> 00:03:05,360 Speaker 2: content was made for what consumer. So for instance, you 67 00:03:05,480 --> 00:03:08,000 Speaker 2: had like the difference between eight pm, nine pm and 68 00:03:08,000 --> 00:03:10,440 Speaker 2: ten pm, right, and there was a different kind of show, 69 00:03:10,919 --> 00:03:12,560 Speaker 2: so I could still watch TV, but it was sort 70 00:03:12,600 --> 00:03:15,160 Speaker 2: of a it was a show for young adults. I 71 00:03:15,360 --> 00:03:18,040 Speaker 2: was not yet young, not yet a young adult. Found 72 00:03:18,040 --> 00:03:22,240 Speaker 2: it immediately was like, this show is doing something different. 73 00:03:22,520 --> 00:03:25,680 Speaker 2: I didn't know about the world of sci fi or 74 00:03:25,960 --> 00:03:28,400 Speaker 2: paranormal or what have you. And then there was just 75 00:03:28,440 --> 00:03:32,480 Speaker 2: an allure about her. I always felt so spiritually drawn 76 00:03:32,520 --> 00:03:34,800 Speaker 2: to her. There was this magazine when I was a 77 00:03:34,880 --> 00:03:37,240 Speaker 2: kid called BB and Bop, but it was just basically 78 00:03:37,280 --> 00:03:40,440 Speaker 2: like glossy photos of the young celebrities of the moment, 79 00:03:40,760 --> 00:03:42,600 Speaker 2: but there would always be Sarah Michelle Geller. And this 80 00:03:42,680 --> 00:03:44,880 Speaker 2: was before I had discovered Buffy, because she was famous 81 00:03:44,920 --> 00:03:46,680 Speaker 2: from all my children at that point, and I never 82 00:03:46,800 --> 00:03:48,520 Speaker 2: knew who this woman is. And there's this photo that 83 00:03:48,560 --> 00:03:50,760 Speaker 2: still stays in my brain from BB or Bop and 84 00:03:50,800 --> 00:03:53,200 Speaker 2: it was her at the bottom of a staircase, just 85 00:03:53,240 --> 00:03:55,880 Speaker 2: staring seductively at the camera, and I remember being like, 86 00:03:55,880 --> 00:03:58,520 Speaker 2: I knew who all the other celebrities except for her, 87 00:03:58,600 --> 00:04:00,960 Speaker 2: and so that became appealing because she was the other 88 00:04:01,440 --> 00:04:04,440 Speaker 2: And so then when I connected her to Buffy, it 89 00:04:04,520 --> 00:04:07,080 Speaker 2: was a little bit of like the aha moment of like, Okay, 90 00:04:07,280 --> 00:04:10,840 Speaker 2: this is the woman from this and I found her 91 00:04:10,840 --> 00:04:13,600 Speaker 2: here and I'm going to follow her. Here we are. 92 00:04:13,600 --> 00:04:16,520 Speaker 1: Ye got to today and here we are. You mentioned 93 00:04:16,560 --> 00:04:20,239 Speaker 1: earlier about you compared Twin Peaks and Buffy's there's something 94 00:04:20,279 --> 00:04:26,120 Speaker 1: about these shows that remains that people continue to find. 95 00:04:26,480 --> 00:04:29,240 Speaker 1: I think fan bases. I mean my fan base is 96 00:04:30,040 --> 00:04:32,520 Speaker 1: skewing younger and younger because people are finding Twin Peaks 97 00:04:32,520 --> 00:04:34,719 Speaker 1: and they are really responding to it. Do you have 98 00:04:34,760 --> 00:04:37,160 Speaker 1: a thought about what it is about the shows that 99 00:04:37,640 --> 00:04:38,360 Speaker 1: really holds on? 100 00:04:38,440 --> 00:04:40,559 Speaker 2: So yeah, but I want your thoughts on this too, Okay, 101 00:04:40,720 --> 00:04:45,320 Speaker 2: So I think it comes down to creators with really 102 00:04:45,440 --> 00:04:48,240 Speaker 2: established visions of what they want the product to be. 103 00:04:48,320 --> 00:04:50,920 Speaker 2: So obviously David Lynch Jos Weeden are great examples. I 104 00:04:50,960 --> 00:04:53,360 Speaker 2: think it's happening right now with have you seen Pluribus yet? 105 00:04:53,640 --> 00:04:54,000 Speaker 1: Not yet? 106 00:04:54,000 --> 00:04:56,880 Speaker 2: The new Vince Gilligan show, Oh My God, Run Don't Walk. 107 00:04:57,120 --> 00:04:59,840 Speaker 2: But that is another example of I was sold on 108 00:05:00,000 --> 00:05:02,680 Speaker 2: the idea of the show by creator alone. I was like, 109 00:05:02,760 --> 00:05:05,440 Speaker 2: I trust this man based off of past works that 110 00:05:05,440 --> 00:05:07,640 Speaker 2: I'm like, where he leads me, I will go, which 111 00:05:07,640 --> 00:05:08,880 Speaker 2: I think a lot of people feel about to give 112 00:05:08,920 --> 00:05:12,200 Speaker 2: it right, It's like if David makes it. Whatever he's selling, 113 00:05:12,240 --> 00:05:14,919 Speaker 2: I'm buying. Yeah, So I think it's established worlds is 114 00:05:14,920 --> 00:05:17,960 Speaker 2: one thing, and then I think people that really resonate 115 00:05:18,000 --> 00:05:21,000 Speaker 2: with things that aren't derivative, right, that don't come from IP. 116 00:05:21,560 --> 00:05:24,360 Speaker 2: So the idea that people are building worlds, I think 117 00:05:24,440 --> 00:05:26,840 Speaker 2: is just deeply appealing. So that's why you can kind 118 00:05:26,880 --> 00:05:30,400 Speaker 2: of spin off or do derivative versions because the world 119 00:05:30,440 --> 00:05:33,000 Speaker 2: is so established that people just want to immerse themselves 120 00:05:33,360 --> 00:05:34,080 Speaker 2: in that world. 121 00:05:34,160 --> 00:05:35,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, I agree with you about that, and 122 00:05:35,920 --> 00:05:38,480 Speaker 1: I think it's one of the reasons all the cast 123 00:05:38,520 --> 00:05:41,040 Speaker 1: members signed on to do Twin Peaks because at that time, 124 00:05:41,560 --> 00:05:44,600 Speaker 1: you know, David was the first of creative of that 125 00:05:44,760 --> 00:05:47,080 Speaker 1: type to approach television and look at it as a 126 00:05:47,080 --> 00:05:49,320 Speaker 1: place where, hey, I can be creative in this world. 127 00:05:49,360 --> 00:05:50,640 Speaker 1: I can do some things that I want to do 128 00:05:50,680 --> 00:05:53,719 Speaker 1: that haven't necessarily been seen before. And they, you know, 129 00:05:53,839 --> 00:05:55,400 Speaker 1: kind of they gave him the keys of the kingdom, 130 00:05:55,520 --> 00:05:57,640 Speaker 1: opened the door. We at least did the pilot, which 131 00:05:57,680 --> 00:05:59,840 Speaker 1: was pure Lynch with the help of Mark Frost, who 132 00:05:59,880 --> 00:06:02,160 Speaker 1: was co writer on that. So there was some structure there, 133 00:06:02,440 --> 00:06:04,279 Speaker 1: but it really had so many elements of David and 134 00:06:04,320 --> 00:06:07,080 Speaker 1: I think all of us signed on because we felt 135 00:06:07,120 --> 00:06:10,240 Speaker 1: like this is gonna be a one and done. There's 136 00:06:10,279 --> 00:06:13,200 Speaker 1: no way, no way. Television is not ready for whatever 137 00:06:13,279 --> 00:06:16,560 Speaker 1: Lynch is gonna do. And then to our great surprise, 138 00:06:16,600 --> 00:06:18,360 Speaker 1: ABC said, oh, we're going to buy a few more. 139 00:06:18,400 --> 00:06:20,400 Speaker 1: We'll do a mid season replacement. We'll buy seven more 140 00:06:20,400 --> 00:06:22,359 Speaker 1: and we'll put them on the air. And that was 141 00:06:22,440 --> 00:06:25,520 Speaker 1: like a revelation. We were like, this is crazy. So 142 00:06:25,920 --> 00:06:27,400 Speaker 1: but I agree with you. I think it was about 143 00:06:27,440 --> 00:06:29,839 Speaker 1: seeing something on television that had never been seen before 144 00:06:30,320 --> 00:06:34,400 Speaker 1: in many different ways, music, musically, visually, the story was different, 145 00:06:34,640 --> 00:06:37,159 Speaker 1: and it was also a rhythm to it that was 146 00:06:37,160 --> 00:06:39,280 Speaker 1: different than most television. There were a lot of if 147 00:06:39,480 --> 00:06:42,080 Speaker 1: I've gone back recently, and there's a lot of moments 148 00:06:42,080 --> 00:06:44,680 Speaker 1: that are just sort of drawn out and slow, and 149 00:06:44,680 --> 00:06:47,880 Speaker 1: as an audience, you don't really they're not telling you 150 00:06:48,440 --> 00:06:52,840 Speaker 1: how to respond, they're letting you kind of respond, and 151 00:06:53,160 --> 00:06:54,880 Speaker 1: some you think, is it funny, You're gonna laugh. If 152 00:06:54,920 --> 00:06:57,680 Speaker 1: you think it's weird, you're gonna go that's strange. And 153 00:06:57,760 --> 00:06:59,440 Speaker 1: so it lets the audience in on the joke a 154 00:06:59,480 --> 00:06:59,880 Speaker 1: little bit. 155 00:07:00,200 --> 00:07:01,200 Speaker 2: Can I ask a follow up? 156 00:07:02,279 --> 00:07:03,159 Speaker 1: Please? Okay? 157 00:07:03,240 --> 00:07:05,200 Speaker 2: Because so in the case of twin Peaks. It was 158 00:07:05,200 --> 00:07:08,560 Speaker 2: like this immediate hit and it was a water cooler 159 00:07:08,839 --> 00:07:13,400 Speaker 2: moment in television with Sex and the City Season three 160 00:07:13,480 --> 00:07:15,920 Speaker 2: when you came on. It obviously was a big show 161 00:07:15,960 --> 00:07:18,200 Speaker 2: then and it was a hit, but it was much 162 00:07:18,240 --> 00:07:21,000 Speaker 2: more of a an if you know you know. So 163 00:07:21,320 --> 00:07:22,920 Speaker 2: was there a difference for you and sort of how 164 00:07:22,960 --> 00:07:26,520 Speaker 2: you understood these two very successful things in the moment. 165 00:07:26,680 --> 00:07:29,800 Speaker 1: I did understand I had to be brought to Sex 166 00:07:29,840 --> 00:07:33,920 Speaker 1: and the City. Actually, my wife was heavily influenced me 167 00:07:33,920 --> 00:07:35,840 Speaker 1: because they had reached out and I was like, I've 168 00:07:36,200 --> 00:07:38,520 Speaker 1: I have heard of the show, but I wasn't really 169 00:07:38,560 --> 00:07:40,920 Speaker 1: a big consumer, so I was like, Okay, I really 170 00:07:40,960 --> 00:07:43,320 Speaker 1: don't know what's going on there, and she was and 171 00:07:43,360 --> 00:07:45,120 Speaker 1: I was like, I'm not sure, and she was like, 172 00:07:45,360 --> 00:07:47,640 Speaker 1: you're doing it. Just like that. It was like, there's 173 00:07:47,680 --> 00:07:50,080 Speaker 1: no question, whatever it is, you're doing it, because she 174 00:07:50,120 --> 00:07:52,520 Speaker 1: recognized the fact, of course that the show had resonated 175 00:07:52,560 --> 00:07:55,560 Speaker 1: so strongly with audiences. It was such a big cultural phenomena. 176 00:07:55,720 --> 00:07:57,760 Speaker 1: But when I got in it was it's funny because 177 00:07:57,800 --> 00:08:00,760 Speaker 1: it's a very it was a very intimate process, and 178 00:08:01,000 --> 00:08:03,400 Speaker 1: in that I would go to work. We were at 179 00:08:03,400 --> 00:08:06,560 Speaker 1: silver Cup and work with with Kristin Davis. We would 180 00:08:06,560 --> 00:08:09,200 Speaker 1: shoot our stuff, you know, our scenes, and then I 181 00:08:09,200 --> 00:08:10,920 Speaker 1: would go home, you know, and I maybe maybe I 182 00:08:10,960 --> 00:08:13,080 Speaker 1: would see John Corbett or something in a hall heading 183 00:08:13,120 --> 00:08:15,760 Speaker 1: out or David, you know, and I would just be like, 184 00:08:15,840 --> 00:08:18,560 Speaker 1: hey guys, and that was it. You know, there was 185 00:08:18,640 --> 00:08:21,120 Speaker 1: no it wasn't like the vibe of it, which you 186 00:08:21,160 --> 00:08:23,680 Speaker 1: didn't really experience until you saw the show. So I 187 00:08:23,720 --> 00:08:26,080 Speaker 1: was kind of like just going to work doing the thing, 188 00:08:26,120 --> 00:08:29,400 Speaker 1: you know, and and wrestling with this character trying to 189 00:08:29,400 --> 00:08:32,520 Speaker 1: take which was obviously kind of a kind of a 190 00:08:32,600 --> 00:08:35,520 Speaker 1: joke idea, but then say, well, can we deepen it? 191 00:08:35,640 --> 00:08:38,240 Speaker 1: What's really behind? What's going on? How is it affecting 192 00:08:38,240 --> 00:08:40,440 Speaker 1: the people? And I think we were sort of moderately 193 00:08:40,480 --> 00:08:42,760 Speaker 1: successful at that doing that. I don't know if you 194 00:08:42,800 --> 00:08:45,640 Speaker 1: have only moderately I mean, well, you know, creating that 195 00:08:45,679 --> 00:08:47,520 Speaker 1: side of the story, because there was One of the 196 00:08:47,559 --> 00:08:49,280 Speaker 1: things about it that I love the most was the 197 00:08:50,440 --> 00:08:55,520 Speaker 1: some of the visual moments that basically said everything about 198 00:08:55,559 --> 00:09:00,320 Speaker 1: the relationship. Mattress shopping with Bunny, with Francis Ternhagen, three 199 00:09:00,320 --> 00:09:03,439 Speaker 1: of us lying on the mattress just like it doesn't 200 00:09:03,440 --> 00:09:07,040 Speaker 1: get clearer than that, And I said, that's just brilliant writing, 201 00:09:08,120 --> 00:09:11,000 Speaker 1: brilliant visualizing. You know, the scene in the bathtub when 202 00:09:11,040 --> 00:09:13,960 Speaker 1: I'm in there, you know, Francis is sitting on the toilet, 203 00:09:14,000 --> 00:09:17,160 Speaker 1: smoking a cigarette, having a just regular conversation as I'm 204 00:09:17,200 --> 00:09:20,520 Speaker 1: in the tub, you know, in a tub soaking, and 205 00:09:20,600 --> 00:09:23,920 Speaker 1: Kristen comes in and said, you can't explain the reality 206 00:09:23,960 --> 00:09:26,520 Speaker 1: of that relationship any better than just you don't even 207 00:09:26,520 --> 00:09:28,640 Speaker 1: have to say anything. Yeah, it's just a picture of that, 208 00:09:28,720 --> 00:09:28,959 Speaker 1: you know. 209 00:09:29,240 --> 00:09:31,280 Speaker 2: You know. I do sometimes wonder if we were to 210 00:09:31,320 --> 00:09:34,680 Speaker 2: get like Trey's POV on everything, is there a world 211 00:09:34,760 --> 00:09:38,480 Speaker 2: in which it's like, listen, Charlotte, I have to act 212 00:09:38,559 --> 00:09:41,960 Speaker 2: this way and acquiesce to my mother's demands because there 213 00:09:42,040 --> 00:09:45,720 Speaker 2: is a trust, a literal trust, and for us to 214 00:09:45,880 --> 00:09:48,439 Speaker 2: live this Upper east Side life that we both want, 215 00:09:49,160 --> 00:09:51,760 Speaker 2: this is the price that I have to pay. I 216 00:09:51,760 --> 00:09:54,600 Speaker 2: wouldn't say that I have like necessarily sympathy for Trey, 217 00:09:54,800 --> 00:09:56,400 Speaker 2: but I do just wonder if we were ever to 218 00:09:56,440 --> 00:09:59,120 Speaker 2: get like the Trey remix, if there's a version where 219 00:09:59,120 --> 00:10:00,240 Speaker 2: it's like the. 220 00:10:00,200 --> 00:10:03,720 Speaker 1: Best I can your perspective on Trey, which I find 221 00:10:03,880 --> 00:10:08,640 Speaker 1: is an actor's approach and I'm wondering, is that something 222 00:10:09,440 --> 00:10:11,000 Speaker 1: Is that a career? Is that something that you were 223 00:10:11,040 --> 00:10:12,120 Speaker 1: at all interested in? 224 00:10:12,559 --> 00:10:16,320 Speaker 2: Not acting? But I really do because I went to 225 00:10:16,320 --> 00:10:19,800 Speaker 2: school for directing. I think my innate sensibility when I 226 00:10:19,840 --> 00:10:22,160 Speaker 2: watch something is like I'm always trying to think of 227 00:10:22,200 --> 00:10:25,199 Speaker 2: the pov of all people involved, and I think one 228 00:10:25,200 --> 00:10:29,000 Speaker 2: of the reasons why something like a Breaking bad really 229 00:10:29,040 --> 00:10:31,199 Speaker 2: resonated for me at the time, or even I've been 230 00:10:31,200 --> 00:10:34,800 Speaker 2: really invested in, like the reappraisal of Carrie Bradshaw as 231 00:10:34,840 --> 00:10:37,959 Speaker 2: like a bad guy, which I fundamentally reject, but I'm 232 00:10:37,960 --> 00:10:41,280 Speaker 2: really fascinated by that because I like the idea that 233 00:10:41,320 --> 00:10:44,719 Speaker 2: we can all look at certain characters and they might 234 00:10:44,760 --> 00:10:47,720 Speaker 2: be written as quote unquote heroes or quote unquote villains, 235 00:10:48,000 --> 00:10:50,679 Speaker 2: but I'm sort of interested in like what got them there? 236 00:10:50,720 --> 00:10:52,920 Speaker 2: And there are pieces of art that have explored this 237 00:10:53,080 --> 00:10:56,120 Speaker 2: very concept in depth. But in the case of like 238 00:10:56,320 --> 00:11:00,760 Speaker 2: a Trey, who I think is written in service of Charlotte, right, 239 00:11:00,760 --> 00:11:01,400 Speaker 2: like he is a. 240 00:11:02,040 --> 00:11:04,880 Speaker 3: Well, all the men I mean maybe exactly Chris maybe, 241 00:11:04,880 --> 00:11:06,199 Speaker 3: but I mean, for the most. 242 00:11:06,000 --> 00:11:08,200 Speaker 2: Part though, the men are vehicles for the women. As 243 00:11:08,200 --> 00:11:11,120 Speaker 2: someone you know, Television's my medium of choice. I grew 244 00:11:11,200 --> 00:11:12,520 Speaker 2: up with it. It's a huge part of what I 245 00:11:12,559 --> 00:11:15,920 Speaker 2: do now. I think it impacts human behavior and how 246 00:11:15,960 --> 00:11:18,320 Speaker 2: we see the world. So even the way I talk, 247 00:11:18,400 --> 00:11:20,720 Speaker 2: you know, you mentioned Buffy earlier. There's a thing it's 248 00:11:20,760 --> 00:11:23,320 Speaker 2: called Buffy speak, and like I developed a lot of 249 00:11:23,360 --> 00:11:27,840 Speaker 2: like my speech pattern in like middle school, particularly around 250 00:11:27,880 --> 00:11:31,120 Speaker 2: Buffy's speak. Like I changed the way I formed sentences. 251 00:11:31,400 --> 00:11:33,600 Speaker 1: Did people know that you recognize that what you were 252 00:11:33,600 --> 00:11:34,040 Speaker 1: doing or. 253 00:11:34,040 --> 00:11:35,760 Speaker 2: Now No, I think they just knew it. As how 254 00:11:35,840 --> 00:11:39,480 Speaker 2: Evan talks, like you take the idea of the sentence 255 00:11:39,520 --> 00:11:41,480 Speaker 2: of like I'm going to go there, and you kind 256 00:11:41,520 --> 00:11:44,080 Speaker 2: of say, what are other ways that we can arrive 257 00:11:44,160 --> 00:11:47,160 Speaker 2: at this same sentence that aren't just saying the obvious thing? 258 00:11:47,280 --> 00:11:49,040 Speaker 2: But Buffy had like a cleverness about it. And so 259 00:11:49,080 --> 00:11:51,960 Speaker 2: when I used to like write screenplays when I was 260 00:11:52,000 --> 00:11:54,560 Speaker 2: like thirteen fourteen, you know, put them on floppy drives, 261 00:11:54,679 --> 00:11:56,760 Speaker 2: I would often be thinking, like, how can I say 262 00:11:56,800 --> 00:11:59,800 Speaker 2: this sentence or present this idea in a way that's 263 00:11:59,840 --> 00:12:02,679 Speaker 2: not so obvious? Yeah, I'm sure I would go back 264 00:12:02,679 --> 00:12:05,640 Speaker 2: now and be like alarmed at how effortful I was 265 00:12:05,720 --> 00:12:07,319 Speaker 2: in that. And I don't think it would be like 266 00:12:07,360 --> 00:12:10,240 Speaker 2: a good writing, But I think it stretched my idea 267 00:12:10,360 --> 00:12:13,160 Speaker 2: of like how to write in a way that is 268 00:12:13,200 --> 00:12:15,280 Speaker 2: not just from A to B. 269 00:12:15,760 --> 00:12:18,920 Speaker 1: My chief complaints about reading a script, you know, maybe 270 00:12:19,120 --> 00:12:22,080 Speaker 1: an average script is that the voices of the characters 271 00:12:22,160 --> 00:12:25,960 Speaker 1: are interchangeable. Yeah, and I start reading that, I'm just like, 272 00:12:25,960 --> 00:12:27,880 Speaker 1: I don't know who's speaking, and I don't know why there, 273 00:12:27,920 --> 00:12:29,440 Speaker 1: I don't know where they're going. And it's usually the 274 00:12:29,440 --> 00:12:31,480 Speaker 1: mark of not a very good script. Yeah, but I 275 00:12:31,800 --> 00:12:34,400 Speaker 1: love the idea that you were living kind of living 276 00:12:34,400 --> 00:12:37,160 Speaker 1: in the world a little bit. I'm guilty as well. 277 00:12:37,360 --> 00:12:40,440 Speaker 1: From Doune when I was fourteen, that to me was 278 00:12:40,480 --> 00:12:44,000 Speaker 1: I guess my Buffy was like my bible, for lack 279 00:12:44,040 --> 00:12:46,559 Speaker 1: of a better word. I mean, I read it over 280 00:12:46,600 --> 00:12:48,839 Speaker 1: and over and over again. I could quote from the book. 281 00:12:48,880 --> 00:12:50,960 Speaker 1: I knew everything about it, and I fancy myself Paul. 282 00:12:51,000 --> 00:12:53,199 Speaker 1: You know what would Paul do in this situation? 283 00:12:53,280 --> 00:12:55,840 Speaker 3: You know, so I would walk around with kind of 284 00:12:55,920 --> 00:12:58,400 Speaker 3: in a little bit of a fantasy space, you know, 285 00:12:58,520 --> 00:13:00,480 Speaker 3: And I don't know if that was okay? 286 00:13:00,640 --> 00:13:03,079 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah. And it was the power of imagination, yeah, 287 00:13:03,160 --> 00:13:04,480 Speaker 1: and it was so comforting. Yeah. 288 00:13:04,640 --> 00:13:07,760 Speaker 2: Did it go from imagination to somehow kind of seeping 289 00:13:07,800 --> 00:13:09,199 Speaker 2: its way into your being at all. 290 00:13:09,320 --> 00:13:11,559 Speaker 1: I kind of did. I think there was sort of 291 00:13:11,600 --> 00:13:14,480 Speaker 1: a there was a nobility there to him. I certainly 292 00:13:14,520 --> 00:13:17,200 Speaker 1: tried to embody, you know. When I was, you know, 293 00:13:17,280 --> 00:13:19,840 Speaker 1: in the midst of junior high school, it was like 294 00:13:19,920 --> 00:13:23,960 Speaker 1: really just walking the halls making sure that I, you know, survived. 295 00:13:24,400 --> 00:13:27,120 Speaker 1: It was junior high for me was just survival basically. 296 00:13:27,559 --> 00:13:30,000 Speaker 1: So Paul was for me like a lifeline and a 297 00:13:30,040 --> 00:13:32,360 Speaker 1: couple of teachers who allowed me. My English teacher actually 298 00:13:32,400 --> 00:13:35,640 Speaker 1: allowed me to write quotes from the book on her 299 00:13:35,840 --> 00:13:36,559 Speaker 1: on the blackboard. 300 00:13:36,600 --> 00:13:39,600 Speaker 2: And it's funny. All she did was allow you. Right, Yes, 301 00:13:39,640 --> 00:13:43,280 Speaker 2: it's not always necessarily just the lessons. Sometimes it's just 302 00:13:43,480 --> 00:13:47,120 Speaker 2: the allowance to be who you are that is incredibly 303 00:13:47,240 --> 00:13:50,320 Speaker 2: freeing and affects who we are in adulthood. School for 304 00:13:50,400 --> 00:13:53,680 Speaker 2: me was not immensely good or bad. It doesn't hold 305 00:13:53,720 --> 00:13:56,360 Speaker 2: a lot of weight in my memory. But as you 306 00:13:56,440 --> 00:13:59,440 Speaker 2: were talking about it, it makes me think that I 307 00:13:59,480 --> 00:14:02,080 Speaker 2: think that there's there's a connection between being a gay 308 00:14:02,160 --> 00:14:06,040 Speaker 2: person in the specific time in which I grew up. 309 00:14:06,080 --> 00:14:08,680 Speaker 2: So I grew up in a post don't Ask, don't 310 00:14:08,720 --> 00:14:13,760 Speaker 2: Tell universe and we had representation in television on shows 311 00:14:13,800 --> 00:14:16,480 Speaker 2: like Will and Grace or like the Real World. That 312 00:14:16,679 --> 00:14:20,840 Speaker 2: was seismic at the time. But also we didn't grow 313 00:14:20,880 --> 00:14:23,920 Speaker 2: up in the world of today, where I think that 314 00:14:24,000 --> 00:14:29,359 Speaker 2: there's a swath of different versions of LGBTQ plus existence 315 00:14:29,560 --> 00:14:32,560 Speaker 2: in the media. It was much more like singular at 316 00:14:32,600 --> 00:14:35,520 Speaker 2: the time. I grew up being like a gay kid 317 00:14:36,280 --> 00:14:38,800 Speaker 2: kind of knew who he was or had an idea 318 00:14:38,840 --> 00:14:41,160 Speaker 2: of who he was in a place that told me 319 00:14:41,640 --> 00:14:45,720 Speaker 2: you can't be this. But there's something about in adulthood 320 00:14:46,080 --> 00:14:50,560 Speaker 2: hearing that that version is so often repeated to me 321 00:14:50,640 --> 00:14:54,600 Speaker 2: by others that it's changed my idea of it. Because 322 00:14:54,600 --> 00:15:00,280 Speaker 2: what was seemingly very isolating, I now find community in 323 00:15:00,680 --> 00:15:04,240 Speaker 2: people who also felt that isolation. And I found it 324 00:15:04,280 --> 00:15:08,040 Speaker 2: really character building. And so I do feel like when 325 00:15:08,080 --> 00:15:10,480 Speaker 2: I think back upon that time, think about like my 326 00:15:10,560 --> 00:15:13,120 Speaker 2: bullies or like, you know, the torment that I felt 327 00:15:13,160 --> 00:15:15,160 Speaker 2: at the time, I don't look back on it with 328 00:15:15,160 --> 00:15:18,600 Speaker 2: any sense of like, God, I wish i'd had it differently. 329 00:15:18,800 --> 00:15:20,560 Speaker 2: I think this is like what I had to go 330 00:15:20,640 --> 00:15:23,400 Speaker 2: through to get me to where I am today. But 331 00:15:23,440 --> 00:15:24,840 Speaker 2: I don't. I know a lot of people who like 332 00:15:24,880 --> 00:15:28,680 Speaker 2: that time for them really stays with them. I feel 333 00:15:28,720 --> 00:15:31,280 Speaker 2: a little bit of like a not rejection, but like 334 00:15:31,720 --> 00:15:35,600 Speaker 2: maybe suppression, but I don't think it really But you've 335 00:15:36,440 --> 00:15:37,480 Speaker 2: moved food. 336 00:15:37,680 --> 00:15:40,000 Speaker 3: I agree with you, and not everyone can move through 337 00:15:40,040 --> 00:15:42,320 Speaker 3: that or address it as you have and sort of 338 00:15:42,320 --> 00:15:44,600 Speaker 3: say you know what. It kind of kind of strengthened 339 00:15:44,640 --> 00:15:47,640 Speaker 3: me somehow, not tougher necessarily, but made me sort of 340 00:15:47,640 --> 00:15:48,280 Speaker 3: more resilient. 341 00:15:48,720 --> 00:15:51,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, I like I had a tough time. It wasn't 342 00:15:51,480 --> 00:15:54,040 Speaker 2: about being gay. It was about being feminine. That's really 343 00:15:54,080 --> 00:15:57,080 Speaker 2: the thing that I think young boys glob Onto when 344 00:15:57,080 --> 00:16:00,240 Speaker 2: they start builing a gay kid is femininity, right, It's 345 00:16:00,280 --> 00:16:03,480 Speaker 2: just something that they're taught not to be, and so 346 00:16:03,560 --> 00:16:05,720 Speaker 2: many of them are repressing in some way that when 347 00:16:05,760 --> 00:16:08,160 Speaker 2: they see it, it's something to sort of ridicule. Anyway, 348 00:16:08,320 --> 00:16:11,080 Speaker 2: I had such a tough time with a notion that like, 349 00:16:11,120 --> 00:16:13,160 Speaker 2: because I was feminine or gay, that that would like 350 00:16:13,360 --> 00:16:15,320 Speaker 2: be something to bully me about, and it made me. 351 00:16:15,960 --> 00:16:17,680 Speaker 2: I know a lot of people that like causes them 352 00:16:17,720 --> 00:16:19,880 Speaker 2: to go in it. Really, I had such a strong 353 00:16:20,040 --> 00:16:22,720 Speaker 2: reaction to that, and it built a rage in me 354 00:16:23,160 --> 00:16:25,760 Speaker 2: in a way where and I don't say this proudly, 355 00:16:25,920 --> 00:16:27,480 Speaker 2: like I could be a little bit of a bully 356 00:16:27,520 --> 00:16:31,320 Speaker 2: towards my bullies, or I really felt this like sense 357 00:16:31,360 --> 00:16:34,120 Speaker 2: of if you nip at me, I'm gonna bite your 358 00:16:34,160 --> 00:16:36,600 Speaker 2: head off, just because I was just like I didn't 359 00:16:36,680 --> 00:16:40,920 Speaker 2: understand because I am not the prescriptive way in which 360 00:16:41,040 --> 00:16:43,200 Speaker 2: a young boy is supposed to be that that made 361 00:16:43,200 --> 00:16:46,040 Speaker 2: me subject for bullying. I didn't understand. 362 00:16:46,240 --> 00:16:48,360 Speaker 1: Was there any Was there someone or a person or 363 00:16:48,720 --> 00:16:52,240 Speaker 1: a place that you could share you know, any kind of. 364 00:16:52,440 --> 00:16:55,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, there wasn't a place. But I think that this 365 00:16:55,360 --> 00:16:57,840 Speaker 2: goes back to the conversation about the power of media, 366 00:16:57,960 --> 00:17:02,840 Speaker 2: because I think shows like Buffy and discovering pop culture 367 00:17:02,920 --> 00:17:05,439 Speaker 2: in general. So I came up like when I was 368 00:17:05,480 --> 00:17:07,440 Speaker 2: like in my early teens, that would have been like 369 00:17:07,480 --> 00:17:10,639 Speaker 2: the beginning of Facebook and you know aim and the 370 00:17:10,760 --> 00:17:13,119 Speaker 2: huge chat and like there was some access to the 371 00:17:13,160 --> 00:17:15,439 Speaker 2: outside world, but it was still quite limited. Like I 372 00:17:15,440 --> 00:17:17,600 Speaker 2: remember dial up internet, so it was like you could 373 00:17:17,600 --> 00:17:20,280 Speaker 2: go online, but your mom needed to use the phone, 374 00:17:20,359 --> 00:17:23,520 Speaker 2: so it was a negotiation. And then once you were online, 375 00:17:23,920 --> 00:17:27,200 Speaker 2: you felt like the time turner of like the sand 376 00:17:27,240 --> 00:17:29,280 Speaker 2: is running out before mom, so it's like I need 377 00:17:29,280 --> 00:17:31,479 Speaker 2: to get all of my shit done right, like, so, 378 00:17:31,560 --> 00:17:34,320 Speaker 2: I think that was it. It created. The world felt small 379 00:17:34,359 --> 00:17:36,800 Speaker 2: to me, but it was beginning to feel bigger and bigger, 380 00:17:36,960 --> 00:17:38,760 Speaker 2: and so I wouldn't say I had like a person. 381 00:17:39,280 --> 00:17:41,080 Speaker 2: But as my sense of the world being bigger and 382 00:17:41,080 --> 00:17:43,399 Speaker 2: bigger grew, I thought I was the only gay person 383 00:17:43,400 --> 00:17:45,800 Speaker 2: in the world. You don't know that. And then I 384 00:17:45,800 --> 00:17:47,639 Speaker 2: saw will and Grace and I was like, well, that's 385 00:17:47,680 --> 00:17:49,919 Speaker 2: another gay person, but I'm not him. So and all 386 00:17:49,920 --> 00:17:51,119 Speaker 2: of a sudden, I was like, okay, that there are 387 00:17:51,119 --> 00:17:54,040 Speaker 2: two gay people and it's me and him, and I 388 00:17:54,080 --> 00:17:57,439 Speaker 2: don't know about him. So it kept growing and then 389 00:17:57,480 --> 00:17:59,639 Speaker 2: I think, like as I started, as the world got bigger, 390 00:17:59,680 --> 00:18:02,320 Speaker 2: I saw to understand my place within it, and it 391 00:18:02,359 --> 00:18:03,280 Speaker 2: felt less isolated. 392 00:18:03,400 --> 00:18:05,359 Speaker 1: Was New York? Ever, part of the equation was there 393 00:18:05,600 --> 00:18:07,120 Speaker 1: was there a draw or was like, oh, I want 394 00:18:07,119 --> 00:18:07,639 Speaker 1: to get there. 395 00:18:07,760 --> 00:18:09,800 Speaker 2: So like the problem with New York, and I blame 396 00:18:09,880 --> 00:18:13,800 Speaker 2: my parents. I would come here and just do Times 397 00:18:13,800 --> 00:18:18,000 Speaker 2: Square and Broadway shows. Obviously Broadway shows were foundational to 398 00:18:18,040 --> 00:18:22,240 Speaker 2: me and amazing, but I didn't know. I didn't do museums, 399 00:18:22,600 --> 00:18:25,280 Speaker 2: I didn't come to Brooklyn, I didn't do the parks. 400 00:18:25,640 --> 00:18:28,320 Speaker 2: There's a whole New York now that if I didn't 401 00:18:28,359 --> 00:18:31,360 Speaker 2: live here and visited here, that would be like on 402 00:18:31,440 --> 00:18:34,919 Speaker 2: my you know, yeah, exactly. Like So it wasn't until 403 00:18:35,000 --> 00:18:40,240 Speaker 2: I got to NYU and discovered downtown yea and nightlife, 404 00:18:40,320 --> 00:18:42,199 Speaker 2: because that was the other thing I didn't know. I 405 00:18:42,280 --> 00:18:44,600 Speaker 2: read about nightlife. But I think like my young brain 406 00:18:45,160 --> 00:18:48,560 Speaker 2: was like, Okay, there was like the Studio fifty four era, 407 00:18:48,960 --> 00:18:51,679 Speaker 2: and then I knew of like this gay party scene 408 00:18:51,760 --> 00:18:54,240 Speaker 2: of the eighties and everything and sort of like the 409 00:18:54,320 --> 00:18:57,239 Speaker 2: subculture and club kids. I knew about it, but in 410 00:18:57,280 --> 00:18:59,280 Speaker 2: my mind it didn't occur to me that like, oh, 411 00:18:59,400 --> 00:19:02,520 Speaker 2: that's still happens in some form today. I think my 412 00:19:02,560 --> 00:19:05,720 Speaker 2: young brain was just like they partied at Studio fifty four. 413 00:19:06,240 --> 00:19:08,960 Speaker 2: There was this club kid scene, and that's a wrap, right. 414 00:19:10,040 --> 00:19:12,439 Speaker 1: Those are your options. Yeah, well you mentioned sort of 415 00:19:12,840 --> 00:19:15,920 Speaker 1: post stuff, and I know you've done red carpet work. 416 00:19:16,280 --> 00:19:17,959 Speaker 1: You know there's red carpet work, and there's red carpet work. 417 00:19:18,000 --> 00:19:19,760 Speaker 1: It's like, hey, tell me about the show you're like, 418 00:19:20,760 --> 00:19:22,440 Speaker 1: and that's a deer in the headlights for an actor, 419 00:19:22,480 --> 00:19:26,280 Speaker 1: because this is like where do I begin. Yeah, unless 420 00:19:26,280 --> 00:19:27,919 Speaker 1: you do something funny, well, it's all about me, you know, 421 00:19:28,400 --> 00:19:30,040 Speaker 1: but you come at it with a kind of a 422 00:19:30,119 --> 00:19:33,560 Speaker 1: you have interesting questions to people and just say Morning Show, 423 00:19:33,560 --> 00:19:35,200 Speaker 1: you were trying to say if it was a mashup 424 00:19:35,320 --> 00:19:37,920 Speaker 1: kind of or what would you and you gave some examples, 425 00:19:37,920 --> 00:19:40,719 Speaker 1: And I think that's that's great because you give something 426 00:19:40,920 --> 00:19:44,520 Speaker 1: to the person that you're interviewing, like kind of a challenge, 427 00:19:45,000 --> 00:19:47,480 Speaker 1: a short SoundBite, something that they can come up with, 428 00:19:47,560 --> 00:19:50,240 Speaker 1: be clever. Yeah, it's a really a perfect approach. Yeah. 429 00:19:50,240 --> 00:19:54,040 Speaker 2: Think I'm fascinated by interview in general. That's why I 430 00:19:54,080 --> 00:19:57,080 Speaker 2: do it, but also the mediums in which we do it. Right, 431 00:19:57,119 --> 00:19:59,399 Speaker 2: So like for instance, right now, you and I are 432 00:19:59,440 --> 00:20:02,880 Speaker 2: doing a long chat, so we can meander. We can wander, 433 00:20:02,920 --> 00:20:06,720 Speaker 2: We're not confined. Red carbon Interviewing is fascinating for a 434 00:20:06,800 --> 00:20:10,040 Speaker 2: number of reasons. They are there to sell a product, right, 435 00:20:10,080 --> 00:20:13,320 Speaker 2: if there's a product being sold, there is an aspect 436 00:20:13,359 --> 00:20:16,200 Speaker 2: to again the job right that they are doing. They 437 00:20:16,200 --> 00:20:19,760 Speaker 2: are performing a part of the job, and you kind 438 00:20:19,760 --> 00:20:23,359 Speaker 2: of have to balance increasingly in this world where virality 439 00:20:23,440 --> 00:20:26,760 Speaker 2: is the commodity. You have to balance the fact that 440 00:20:26,960 --> 00:20:29,720 Speaker 2: I want to satisfy the actor by asking them a 441 00:20:29,800 --> 00:20:32,720 Speaker 2: question about the work right, because a lot of these 442 00:20:32,760 --> 00:20:35,400 Speaker 2: actors they want to talk about the work because they're 443 00:20:35,440 --> 00:20:38,199 Speaker 2: proud of the work, as in some instances they should be. 444 00:20:39,480 --> 00:20:43,200 Speaker 2: It's but also you want to ask them the fun 445 00:20:43,400 --> 00:20:47,240 Speaker 2: are you a Carrie, Miranda, Charlotte, Samantha because that gets 446 00:20:47,359 --> 00:20:50,320 Speaker 2: the pop grave And so I think it's really a 447 00:20:50,359 --> 00:20:54,120 Speaker 2: balance and you kind of have to know who you're 448 00:20:54,160 --> 00:20:58,040 Speaker 2: talking to. You have to be ultra malleable. And it 449 00:20:58,160 --> 00:21:00,000 Speaker 2: kind of made me think as you asked this question 450 00:21:00,080 --> 00:21:02,439 Speaker 2: about what you were describing with David, which is that 451 00:21:02,520 --> 00:21:05,119 Speaker 2: I think for me it's really about I often have 452 00:21:05,200 --> 00:21:08,000 Speaker 2: sixty seconds with them, and it all happens in that 453 00:21:08,040 --> 00:21:12,080 Speaker 2: first five seconds where I'm introducing myself to them, letting 454 00:21:12,160 --> 00:21:15,080 Speaker 2: them know what outlet I'm from, and in the tone 455 00:21:15,119 --> 00:21:19,440 Speaker 2: of my voice, in my gaze. It's all about establishing 456 00:21:19,920 --> 00:21:24,160 Speaker 2: the framework of this sixty seconds and what I hate 457 00:21:24,200 --> 00:21:29,240 Speaker 2: this word, but the vibe and I love love the 458 00:21:29,400 --> 00:21:33,600 Speaker 2: challenge of establishing a vibe. Interesting in a long form interview, 459 00:21:33,680 --> 00:21:36,960 Speaker 2: it's about gaining trust, right, I think that's long form 460 00:21:36,960 --> 00:21:37,840 Speaker 2: of interviews purpose. 461 00:21:37,880 --> 00:21:38,800 Speaker 1: I agree, but you have. 462 00:21:38,720 --> 00:21:40,560 Speaker 2: Time to amp up to that. I often say, like 463 00:21:40,920 --> 00:21:43,280 Speaker 2: the first ten minutes of a lot of my interviews 464 00:21:43,320 --> 00:21:45,520 Speaker 2: that I do, I end up discarding because a lot 465 00:21:45,520 --> 00:21:47,439 Speaker 2: of the first ten minutes is like us getting on 466 00:21:47,480 --> 00:21:49,840 Speaker 2: the ride, figuring out the ping pong. 467 00:21:50,080 --> 00:21:51,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, well we started earlier, we. 468 00:21:51,600 --> 00:21:53,000 Speaker 2: Started exactly, which is great. 469 00:21:53,160 --> 00:21:53,680 Speaker 1: Yeah. 470 00:21:53,720 --> 00:21:55,399 Speaker 2: Well, it's why on late night shows they do the 471 00:21:55,440 --> 00:21:58,720 Speaker 2: pre interview or the host comes backstage and says hello, 472 00:21:58,840 --> 00:22:01,359 Speaker 2: so that you can kind of say, Okay, is this 473 00:22:01,400 --> 00:22:03,480 Speaker 2: person a little bit more stand offish? And if so, 474 00:22:04,160 --> 00:22:06,399 Speaker 2: how do I get there? I used to love back 475 00:22:06,440 --> 00:22:07,919 Speaker 2: in the day when I would do the red camera 476 00:22:08,000 --> 00:22:09,720 Speaker 2: h so you'd meet the red carpet. I could be 477 00:22:09,720 --> 00:22:12,960 Speaker 2: behind the camera. I love anything where like I'm an 478 00:22:13,040 --> 00:22:16,120 Speaker 2: invisible figure if I had it my way. I understand 479 00:22:16,160 --> 00:22:20,480 Speaker 2: that there's a virtue to visibility, but if I had 480 00:22:20,520 --> 00:22:22,400 Speaker 2: it my way, truly, it's like I would really love 481 00:22:22,480 --> 00:22:24,560 Speaker 2: to be as anonymous as possible. 482 00:22:24,680 --> 00:22:30,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, observer, interpreting what's happening, putting in a larger context 483 00:22:31,080 --> 00:22:32,359 Speaker 1: that I feel is what you. 484 00:22:32,480 --> 00:22:41,159 Speaker 3: I mean, You're unbelievable at it. Top three Dead or 485 00:22:41,200 --> 00:22:43,520 Speaker 3: Alive North Star interview subjects. 486 00:22:44,640 --> 00:22:46,639 Speaker 1: It's okay, dead or alive. 487 00:22:47,119 --> 00:22:49,080 Speaker 2: Okay, I'm going to go alive just because then it's 488 00:22:49,119 --> 00:22:50,680 Speaker 2: like maybe this could be like a way to like 489 00:22:50,720 --> 00:22:55,240 Speaker 2: will it into existence. Okay, I would say Inegarten would 490 00:22:55,240 --> 00:22:55,560 Speaker 2: be one. 491 00:22:55,960 --> 00:22:58,879 Speaker 1: I read her book Are You Are You the Cook? 492 00:22:59,000 --> 00:23:01,240 Speaker 2: No, not at all. I'm really fascinated. 493 00:23:01,240 --> 00:23:02,920 Speaker 1: But so we're going to bond over something. But yeah, 494 00:23:03,000 --> 00:23:05,360 Speaker 1: never mind, sorry, yes, but I love for Hindergarten. 495 00:23:05,440 --> 00:23:08,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, love her. I love the idea that life 496 00:23:08,000 --> 00:23:10,040 Speaker 2: doesn't start at a certain age, and so when I 497 00:23:10,080 --> 00:23:12,440 Speaker 2: read her book, I was really fascinated by the idea 498 00:23:12,480 --> 00:23:15,240 Speaker 2: that like she was on this trajectory of life and 499 00:23:15,280 --> 00:23:19,040 Speaker 2: then in quote unquote middle age, decided to upend the 500 00:23:19,080 --> 00:23:20,679 Speaker 2: life that she thought she was going to lead and 501 00:23:20,760 --> 00:23:23,280 Speaker 2: kind of start something anew. So I think there's so 502 00:23:23,400 --> 00:23:26,320 Speaker 2: much discussion that is like ripe in coming from the 503 00:23:26,440 --> 00:23:29,720 Speaker 2: kind of person who's willing to just go on this 504 00:23:29,800 --> 00:23:30,760 Speaker 2: completely separate course. 505 00:23:31,000 --> 00:23:31,399 Speaker 1: I like that. 506 00:23:31,480 --> 00:23:35,280 Speaker 2: So she comes to mind for me Quentin Tarantino, just 507 00:23:35,359 --> 00:23:38,399 Speaker 2: because I love the work. I love the work, and 508 00:23:38,440 --> 00:23:40,520 Speaker 2: I think in every interview I've read, he is so 509 00:23:41,640 --> 00:23:46,720 Speaker 2: willing to speak truth, not necessarily to power that was 510 00:23:46,720 --> 00:23:48,360 Speaker 2: was in that sentence. I don't think that's what I mean, 511 00:23:48,359 --> 00:23:49,840 Speaker 2: but he is just he is a truth teller in 512 00:23:49,880 --> 00:23:52,199 Speaker 2: a way that I think it is really difficult to 513 00:23:52,240 --> 00:23:57,119 Speaker 2: speak truth today in many senses, in true, in. 514 00:23:57,200 --> 00:24:02,240 Speaker 1: Story or in character creation or in seen, because I 515 00:24:02,560 --> 00:24:04,200 Speaker 1: think he's on all. 516 00:24:04,680 --> 00:24:07,159 Speaker 2: All of these things. But also I'm thinking too, just 517 00:24:07,160 --> 00:24:09,960 Speaker 2: like about truth about like how stories get made and 518 00:24:10,000 --> 00:24:14,160 Speaker 2: why they get made, and this industry and the difficulties. 519 00:24:14,200 --> 00:24:17,520 Speaker 2: And you know, he is someone who seemingly, if you're 520 00:24:17,520 --> 00:24:19,159 Speaker 2: on the outside of it, it's like he could do 521 00:24:19,160 --> 00:24:21,639 Speaker 2: whatever he wants. And I bet you I have to 522 00:24:21,680 --> 00:24:25,040 Speaker 2: interview I bet you there are roadblocks towards having the 523 00:24:25,080 --> 00:24:27,359 Speaker 2: kind of creative freedom that one might think someone of 524 00:24:27,400 --> 00:24:31,320 Speaker 2: his magnitude could have. And then I'm want to interview 525 00:24:31,359 --> 00:24:34,639 Speaker 2: someone that's like totally out of my wheelhouse so that 526 00:24:34,720 --> 00:24:38,879 Speaker 2: I could learn about them. And so again this is 527 00:24:39,000 --> 00:24:42,879 Speaker 2: this is what's coming. I'm just reat Tony Hawk is 528 00:24:43,000 --> 00:24:46,399 Speaker 2: just coming to mind for me. I've never I know 529 00:24:46,600 --> 00:24:49,280 Speaker 2: nothing about him at all. I don't know if it's 530 00:24:49,280 --> 00:24:54,119 Speaker 2: like if he competition. I don't know nothing. So I'm 531 00:24:54,280 --> 00:24:57,439 Speaker 2: prone to interviewing someone that I have to do an 532 00:24:57,480 --> 00:25:00,919 Speaker 2: extensive deep dive on. But who I I know is 533 00:25:01,040 --> 00:25:03,960 Speaker 2: worthy of the time to learn. Those are my things 534 00:25:04,080 --> 00:25:04,320 Speaker 2: to learn. 535 00:25:04,440 --> 00:25:06,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, I think that's that's yeah, that's where. 536 00:25:06,640 --> 00:25:09,800 Speaker 2: It starts in Tony Quentin. 537 00:25:09,920 --> 00:25:10,280 Speaker 1: Yeah. 538 00:25:10,440 --> 00:25:16,960 Speaker 3: I think anything that strengthens strengthens those connections, that shared humanity. 539 00:25:17,160 --> 00:25:18,959 Speaker 1: Yeah. I think it's part of why I'm doing this 540 00:25:19,040 --> 00:25:20,800 Speaker 1: as well, just like I want to talk to people 541 00:25:20,840 --> 00:25:23,480 Speaker 1: and we're going to find common ground. Yeah, I think 542 00:25:23,480 --> 00:25:27,960 Speaker 1: it's so important right now, conversation. Key, it's we're lacking. Yeah, 543 00:25:28,119 --> 00:25:29,280 Speaker 1: I feel a bit, you know. 544 00:25:29,160 --> 00:25:29,479 Speaker 3: What I mean. 545 00:25:29,680 --> 00:25:33,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, we we are breeding a culture of talkers and 546 00:25:34,040 --> 00:25:36,480 Speaker 2: not of in balance with listeners. 547 00:25:36,600 --> 00:25:36,879 Speaker 1: Right. 548 00:25:37,480 --> 00:25:39,920 Speaker 2: And one of the right things about interview is yes, 549 00:25:39,960 --> 00:25:43,240 Speaker 2: it's very much about talking and having questions, but it's 550 00:25:43,240 --> 00:25:46,320 Speaker 2: about listening, right, And so that's one thing I love 551 00:25:46,880 --> 00:25:50,199 Speaker 2: about interviewing and then also reacting to you know, you 552 00:25:50,280 --> 00:25:52,800 Speaker 2: have your questions there, but I imagine that you've deviated 553 00:25:52,800 --> 00:25:56,280 Speaker 2: from them because you're listening. We need to celebrate listening. 554 00:25:56,400 --> 00:25:59,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's nice. Let's celebrate listening. I love that idea. 555 00:25:59,400 --> 00:26:03,000 Speaker 1: Chaos Tin, Yeah, which looks like a lot of fun. 556 00:26:03,040 --> 00:26:03,919 Speaker 2: I'd love you to come to one. 557 00:26:03,960 --> 00:26:05,520 Speaker 1: I would love to come. It would be great. I've 558 00:26:05,520 --> 00:26:08,280 Speaker 1: never have been invited, but that's okay. It looks like 559 00:26:08,400 --> 00:26:11,040 Speaker 1: it's kind of a wonderful way to put people together, 560 00:26:11,320 --> 00:26:14,600 Speaker 1: creative people together and have just a fun conversations. Yeah, 561 00:26:14,800 --> 00:26:16,080 Speaker 1: I mean that's what we're talking about. 562 00:26:16,119 --> 00:26:19,640 Speaker 2: Well, it's interesting because dinners have become I mean, they're 563 00:26:19,680 --> 00:26:21,640 Speaker 2: not new by any measure, but I think a lot 564 00:26:21,640 --> 00:26:26,040 Speaker 2: of brands now put together these dinners where you'll go 565 00:26:26,119 --> 00:26:29,040 Speaker 2: on like fashion websites or you'll go on eat and 566 00:26:29,080 --> 00:26:32,160 Speaker 2: you'll see like this brand hosted this dinner, and you'll 567 00:26:32,200 --> 00:26:36,720 Speaker 2: see these ultra glamorous photos, ultra glamorous people eating ultra 568 00:26:36,760 --> 00:26:39,840 Speaker 2: glamorous food. We love those. But what I wanted to 569 00:26:39,920 --> 00:26:42,320 Speaker 2: try and achieve with the Chaos Dinner was the idea 570 00:26:42,320 --> 00:26:44,760 Speaker 2: of like what if like the ultra glamorous were like 571 00:26:45,160 --> 00:26:48,600 Speaker 2: a third of the population of the dinner, and what 572 00:26:48,640 --> 00:26:52,600 Speaker 2: if we found figures And you know, we're continuously building 573 00:26:52,640 --> 00:26:55,800 Speaker 2: it out, but the idea is just that Hollywood and 574 00:26:55,840 --> 00:26:58,679 Speaker 2: beyond Hollywood is just there are lots of fascinating people 575 00:26:58,960 --> 00:27:00,199 Speaker 2: in this world. I mean, you've had a lot of 576 00:27:00,200 --> 00:27:04,400 Speaker 2: fascinating people on this podcast, for instance, and what happens 577 00:27:04,440 --> 00:27:06,119 Speaker 2: when you put them on a room together? And in 578 00:27:06,119 --> 00:27:08,000 Speaker 2: the beginning, we envisioned it as like you know, just 579 00:27:08,040 --> 00:27:09,840 Speaker 2: a dinner, like a gathering, but then we're like, well, 580 00:27:09,840 --> 00:27:12,200 Speaker 2: what happens if they're the idea of like the last supper, 581 00:27:12,240 --> 00:27:15,160 Speaker 2: that one long table, And so that became really important 582 00:27:15,160 --> 00:27:17,000 Speaker 2: to me. I don't think the Chaos dinner is like 583 00:27:17,040 --> 00:27:19,919 Speaker 2: a wildly original concept by any measure. It's like getting 584 00:27:19,960 --> 00:27:22,359 Speaker 2: people together for a dinner. But what we really have 585 00:27:22,400 --> 00:27:24,480 Speaker 2: a lot of fun with is the guest list and 586 00:27:24,520 --> 00:27:28,560 Speaker 2: then who sits where is really fun, But the idea 587 00:27:28,560 --> 00:27:31,280 Speaker 2: of just like in your head, you're like, wow, what 588 00:27:31,320 --> 00:27:35,760 Speaker 2: would happen if like this really super serious actor sat 589 00:27:35,840 --> 00:27:40,320 Speaker 2: next to this reality TV star known for throwing drinks 590 00:27:40,440 --> 00:27:43,439 Speaker 2: at her co stars? What would that create? And the 591 00:27:43,520 --> 00:27:45,880 Speaker 2: idea and the hope is always you know, we have 592 00:27:46,359 --> 00:27:48,679 Speaker 2: photos at the beginning and all of that, but like 593 00:27:48,760 --> 00:27:52,199 Speaker 2: basically once we get out the way of the like 594 00:27:52,640 --> 00:27:55,520 Speaker 2: taking the photos and that the Hollywood part of it, 595 00:27:55,680 --> 00:27:57,359 Speaker 2: and what happens when we sort of as I like 596 00:27:57,400 --> 00:27:59,480 Speaker 2: to say, like we lowered the lines and we all 597 00:27:59,520 --> 00:28:01,639 Speaker 2: just kick it. That's sort of the fun. Yeah, And 598 00:28:01,680 --> 00:28:04,320 Speaker 2: what I'm really proud of is like they go late. 599 00:28:04,560 --> 00:28:08,800 Speaker 2: People say, people say, people have Yeah, people like. 600 00:28:08,800 --> 00:28:10,760 Speaker 1: To go home nine thirty time. For bed. 601 00:28:10,920 --> 00:28:13,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, so that's sort of my pride. But so yeah, 602 00:28:13,520 --> 00:28:16,560 Speaker 2: we are currently iterating around the fourth one. 603 00:28:16,640 --> 00:28:18,720 Speaker 1: Okay, good, No. I love that idea because the expectation 604 00:28:18,880 --> 00:28:20,720 Speaker 1: is that you're going to be in a situation where 605 00:28:20,760 --> 00:28:24,440 Speaker 1: there are various types of people, right, they do various things. 606 00:28:25,119 --> 00:28:27,879 Speaker 1: As opposed to a dinner that's more like, you know, 607 00:28:28,000 --> 00:28:30,520 Speaker 1: He's like, you sit next to someone, okay, you can, 608 00:28:30,680 --> 00:28:32,680 Speaker 1: and if you're next to someone who you don't know 609 00:28:32,840 --> 00:28:35,320 Speaker 1: or whomever, you know, you can be met with gold shoulder. 610 00:28:35,560 --> 00:28:37,439 Speaker 1: You can, you know, And it's like I would you know, 611 00:28:37,600 --> 00:28:40,040 Speaker 1: but or you don't know or you know. People aren't 612 00:28:40,080 --> 00:28:42,520 Speaker 1: willing to sort of be hey, I'm I'm sorry, I 613 00:28:42,520 --> 00:28:44,720 Speaker 1: don't know, tell me about yourself. Yeah, I mean, and 614 00:28:44,840 --> 00:28:47,200 Speaker 1: starting the even just started the conversation that way that 615 00:28:47,240 --> 00:28:48,680 Speaker 1: people are open to that, And I think that's a 616 00:28:48,720 --> 00:28:49,440 Speaker 1: great idea. 617 00:28:49,480 --> 00:28:51,960 Speaker 2: But to your point, it's like it's a it's bold 618 00:28:52,040 --> 00:28:54,160 Speaker 2: to go to a place because this is the other 619 00:28:54,200 --> 00:28:56,560 Speaker 2: thing about the chast Dinners is we don't allow plus ones. 620 00:28:57,360 --> 00:29:01,680 Speaker 2: And Hollywood types love a plus one, do they ever? 621 00:29:01,960 --> 00:29:04,240 Speaker 2: And so there's a big negotiation that has to happen, 622 00:29:04,320 --> 00:29:06,680 Speaker 2: and it's easier now that we have three case studies, 623 00:29:07,040 --> 00:29:09,400 Speaker 2: but in the beginning, especially that first one to be 624 00:29:09,480 --> 00:29:12,440 Speaker 2: able to say, will you come to this dinner in 625 00:29:12,520 --> 00:29:18,760 Speaker 2: this location, no husband or wife, no publicist, no glam 626 00:29:18,840 --> 00:29:21,160 Speaker 2: just you, And they're like, well what is this? And 627 00:29:21,200 --> 00:29:23,600 Speaker 2: you're like you kind of just have to trust. But 628 00:29:23,960 --> 00:29:27,200 Speaker 2: there's something magnificent that happens. I think because there's a 629 00:29:27,200 --> 00:29:31,440 Speaker 2: certain ilk of famous person who lives life with sort 630 00:29:31,480 --> 00:29:34,680 Speaker 2: of a supporting cast with them at all times, and 631 00:29:34,760 --> 00:29:37,920 Speaker 2: I like the idea of what happens when that's removed. 632 00:29:37,920 --> 00:29:41,360 Speaker 2: And it's not always successful. Sometimes it's like that supporting 633 00:29:41,440 --> 00:29:44,360 Speaker 2: cast helps uplift the star. But in a lot of 634 00:29:44,400 --> 00:29:46,240 Speaker 2: instances it can be really fun when it's just a 635 00:29:46,320 --> 00:29:48,920 Speaker 2: room gathered full of people, all of whom want to 636 00:29:48,920 --> 00:29:51,120 Speaker 2: be there. That's the other really important thing. I used 637 00:29:51,120 --> 00:29:53,400 Speaker 2: to think, Oh, I want this person because they're going 638 00:29:53,480 --> 00:29:56,560 Speaker 2: to make the guest list sound really cool. You need people, 639 00:29:56,560 --> 00:29:57,880 Speaker 2: and this is true of the Chaos Dinner, but I 640 00:29:57,920 --> 00:30:00,800 Speaker 2: think it's true of life too, and especially work. You 641 00:30:00,880 --> 00:30:03,360 Speaker 2: need people that want to be in the room. If 642 00:30:03,400 --> 00:30:05,000 Speaker 2: they don't want to be in the room, if they're 643 00:30:05,000 --> 00:30:08,880 Speaker 2: there for quote unquote added value, I could do without. Yeah, yeah, 644 00:30:09,480 --> 00:30:10,640 Speaker 2: we'll find alternative value. 645 00:30:10,680 --> 00:30:12,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, We're gonna take a moment, and then when we 646 00:30:12,960 --> 00:30:16,520 Speaker 1: come back, we're gonna play a game. Okay, it's called who. 647 00:30:17,120 --> 00:30:20,800 Speaker 1: Evan said that I'm gonna read some famous lines from 648 00:30:20,800 --> 00:30:24,600 Speaker 1: some of your favorite shows, as well as some notable 649 00:30:24,760 --> 00:30:25,800 Speaker 1: pop culture moment. 650 00:30:25,880 --> 00:30:27,400 Speaker 2: Okay, I think I'll be really good at it. 651 00:30:27,480 --> 00:30:31,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, I think see. So it's what are we even doing? 652 00:30:31,400 --> 00:30:35,560 Speaker 1: Who Evan said that our grammar is challenged. Yeah, show 653 00:30:35,920 --> 00:30:38,720 Speaker 1: you're impressing me. Okay, good, So when we come back, 654 00:30:44,360 --> 00:30:47,200 Speaker 1: all right, this is the segment that I designed called 655 00:30:47,240 --> 00:30:50,120 Speaker 1: who Evan said that we're gonna do multiple choice. You 656 00:30:50,200 --> 00:30:52,960 Speaker 1: have to guess what it's from? What show it's from? Forever? 657 00:30:53,040 --> 00:30:56,920 Speaker 3: Answer you get right? You get a metal fantastic wow, real. 658 00:30:57,240 --> 00:30:59,080 Speaker 1: Yes, real, plastic gold. 659 00:31:01,040 --> 00:31:03,560 Speaker 3: It is your time to claim your title as champion 660 00:31:04,200 --> 00:31:05,000 Speaker 3: of pop culture. 661 00:31:05,040 --> 00:31:08,680 Speaker 1: Evan is now put on a boxer's I guess a 662 00:31:08,880 --> 00:31:12,520 Speaker 1: robe that is gold and black, beautiful colors, and you 663 00:31:12,560 --> 00:31:13,880 Speaker 1: have boxing gloves on. 664 00:31:14,640 --> 00:31:15,920 Speaker 2: So I'm giving Sylvester Stone. 665 00:31:15,960 --> 00:31:17,440 Speaker 1: You're giving Sylvester s alone. 666 00:31:17,720 --> 00:31:18,640 Speaker 2: Never had the comparison. 667 00:31:20,600 --> 00:31:25,360 Speaker 3: I have a a referees shirt and whistle, and of 668 00:31:25,400 --> 00:31:28,960 Speaker 3: course the belt which begins to each round and we're 669 00:31:28,960 --> 00:31:32,600 Speaker 3: ready to go. All right, this is television. The quote 670 00:31:32,640 --> 00:31:36,400 Speaker 3: is I like my money where I can see it 671 00:31:36,720 --> 00:31:37,800 Speaker 3: hanging in my closet. 672 00:31:37,840 --> 00:31:39,360 Speaker 2: Okay, do you want to give me the multiple choice? 673 00:31:39,400 --> 00:31:40,840 Speaker 1: I can, yeah? Or do do you feel like? Are 674 00:31:40,840 --> 00:31:41,520 Speaker 1: you feel confident? 675 00:31:41,640 --> 00:31:45,760 Speaker 2: I do? Oh it's from a show that you've that 676 00:31:45,800 --> 00:31:47,080 Speaker 2: would be Kerry Bradshaw one. 677 00:31:47,640 --> 00:31:51,880 Speaker 3: Very good, Oh my god, absolutely correct. I don't know 678 00:31:51,880 --> 00:31:53,320 Speaker 3: if I should blow the whistle or give the medal, 679 00:31:53,360 --> 00:31:54,800 Speaker 3: but here's the medal. I'm gonna set it right here, 680 00:31:55,280 --> 00:31:56,440 Speaker 3: all right. I want to put it right here on 681 00:31:56,480 --> 00:31:59,360 Speaker 3: the on the counter. One medal, you have one, all right? 682 00:31:59,760 --> 00:32:00,920 Speaker 3: This is from pop culture. 683 00:32:01,400 --> 00:32:06,400 Speaker 1: Should a man have a podcast? No culture? Should a 684 00:32:06,400 --> 00:32:07,200 Speaker 1: man have a podcast? 685 00:32:07,240 --> 00:32:09,280 Speaker 2: See Julia Louis Dreyfus. 686 00:32:09,320 --> 00:32:12,240 Speaker 1: I don't even have to give you the multiple choices. 687 00:32:12,280 --> 00:32:14,400 Speaker 1: You are proving yourself as the king of all media. 688 00:32:14,560 --> 00:32:17,680 Speaker 1: That's great. And that is another. We're gonna run out 689 00:32:17,680 --> 00:32:20,200 Speaker 1: of metals, ladies and gentlemen. That one's tied up. 690 00:32:20,720 --> 00:32:22,400 Speaker 2: So it's like, I don't know if it's like a sickness. 691 00:32:22,400 --> 00:32:24,200 Speaker 2: It's like, why does that stay in my head? 692 00:32:24,720 --> 00:32:28,480 Speaker 1: Well, they're memorable, right, I mean they're like, yeah, there 693 00:32:28,480 --> 00:32:32,960 Speaker 1: we go, two medals. Third question from television, Yes, I 694 00:32:33,120 --> 00:32:36,880 Speaker 1: burnt down your house, you sleazy little whore. I can 695 00:32:36,960 --> 00:32:43,040 Speaker 1: give you the three on these three Desperate Housewives eighty Girls, 696 00:32:43,960 --> 00:32:45,320 Speaker 1: three White Lotus. 697 00:32:45,720 --> 00:32:48,920 Speaker 2: Okay, so it's Desperate Housewives. I apologize for not coming 698 00:32:48,960 --> 00:32:51,600 Speaker 2: to it sooner, but it would be very funny if 699 00:32:51,600 --> 00:32:52,400 Speaker 2: that was from girls. 700 00:32:52,640 --> 00:32:57,680 Speaker 3: Ah well said that almost deserves two metals. 701 00:32:57,960 --> 00:32:59,160 Speaker 2: Have you girls? 702 00:32:59,360 --> 00:32:59,960 Speaker 1: I have none. 703 00:33:00,400 --> 00:33:03,120 Speaker 2: I'd be curious for your take on check it out. Yeah, okay, 704 00:33:03,240 --> 00:33:03,840 Speaker 2: it's really good. 705 00:33:04,040 --> 00:33:06,960 Speaker 1: Okay, okay, good, I will check it out. Fourth question 706 00:33:07,040 --> 00:33:10,200 Speaker 1: pop culture To everyone who couldn't stand me this year, 707 00:33:10,640 --> 00:33:13,840 Speaker 1: stay tuned because next year gonna be worse. 708 00:33:14,720 --> 00:33:20,360 Speaker 2: That would be Whoopy Goldberg on Instagram on December thirtieth, 709 00:33:20,520 --> 00:33:22,440 Speaker 2: twenty twenty three. 710 00:33:23,400 --> 00:33:24,400 Speaker 1: Unbelievable. 711 00:33:24,480 --> 00:33:27,200 Speaker 2: If it were in less capable hands, the quote would 712 00:33:27,200 --> 00:33:28,680 Speaker 2: just be like, if you couldn't stand me last year, 713 00:33:28,720 --> 00:33:30,360 Speaker 2: get ready, I'm gonna be back. 714 00:33:30,520 --> 00:33:30,800 Speaker 1: Yeah. 715 00:33:30,840 --> 00:33:33,800 Speaker 2: But Whoopy, in true Whoopy fashion, kicks it up a notch. 716 00:33:34,280 --> 00:33:38,600 Speaker 1: No, no, no, she has her own language, kind of 717 00:33:38,600 --> 00:33:41,280 Speaker 1: as we were talking earlier. Yeah, Buffy speak. Yeah, she's 718 00:33:41,280 --> 00:33:42,920 Speaker 1: got Whoopy speak. Next question TV. 719 00:33:43,720 --> 00:33:46,120 Speaker 3: I think I may be the voice of my generation, 720 00:33:46,800 --> 00:33:49,800 Speaker 3: or at least a voice of a generation. 721 00:33:50,600 --> 00:33:53,960 Speaker 2: That would be Season one, episode one, the final scene 722 00:33:54,240 --> 00:33:55,640 Speaker 2: from Girls. 723 00:33:55,320 --> 00:34:00,200 Speaker 1: Oh My Goodness six For extra credit the person who 724 00:34:00,240 --> 00:34:00,800 Speaker 1: said it. 725 00:34:01,360 --> 00:34:02,680 Speaker 2: That would be Hannah Horvath. 726 00:34:04,480 --> 00:34:08,040 Speaker 1: Very good, first and last name. I just had Hannah. 727 00:34:08,120 --> 00:34:09,879 Speaker 1: Oh my God. All right, that's another medal. 728 00:34:10,000 --> 00:34:12,600 Speaker 2: I should clarify it's the penultimate scene because she then 729 00:34:12,680 --> 00:34:15,279 Speaker 2: wakes up at the hotel of her parents hotel the 730 00:34:15,320 --> 00:34:16,960 Speaker 2: next morning, So the penultimate scene from the. 731 00:34:16,960 --> 00:34:20,200 Speaker 1: Pilot Oh my God. And finally, last question pop culture. 732 00:34:21,160 --> 00:34:23,840 Speaker 1: Nobody told me Sex and the City was this good. 733 00:34:24,200 --> 00:34:25,000 Speaker 1: I'm pissed. 734 00:34:25,560 --> 00:34:29,440 Speaker 2: That would be Meghan the Stallion appearing on the Jimmy 735 00:34:29,880 --> 00:34:31,319 Speaker 2: Fallon Show The Tonight Show. 736 00:34:31,560 --> 00:34:36,600 Speaker 1: Unbelievable, unbelievable, truly a sweep. I feel bad. I think 737 00:34:36,600 --> 00:34:38,480 Speaker 1: I did. I forgot to give you one. I feel 738 00:34:38,520 --> 00:34:40,480 Speaker 1: like I wish I could have. I wish I could 739 00:34:40,480 --> 00:34:43,360 Speaker 1: have read your choices. They were one Meghan the Stallion, 740 00:34:43,400 --> 00:34:47,320 Speaker 1: which you got right? Two Mother Teresa, Uh huh? 741 00:34:47,360 --> 00:34:48,879 Speaker 2: Who I think would have liked Sex in the City. 742 00:34:48,960 --> 00:34:49,839 Speaker 1: I think she would have too. 743 00:34:50,080 --> 00:34:54,799 Speaker 3: Kate Middleton verdicts out on her Yeah, whether she would 744 00:34:54,800 --> 00:34:56,080 Speaker 3: have liked I don't know she would have liked that. 745 00:34:56,200 --> 00:34:59,120 Speaker 2: I think she would have. I think Kate Middleton would 746 00:34:59,120 --> 00:35:02,080 Speaker 2: have liked Bridget my Hands character Natasha. 747 00:35:02,200 --> 00:35:04,680 Speaker 1: Oh, yes, I agree with you. Yeah, I agree with you. 748 00:35:04,800 --> 00:35:06,160 Speaker 2: Oh hey, can I ask you one last question? 749 00:35:06,400 --> 00:35:06,960 Speaker 1: Yes, of course. 750 00:35:07,320 --> 00:35:10,080 Speaker 2: And you might have talked about this before. So did 751 00:35:10,120 --> 00:35:10,719 Speaker 2: you watch in. 752 00:35:10,800 --> 00:35:12,879 Speaker 1: Just like that, just the beginning, just the first few 753 00:35:12,880 --> 00:35:15,359 Speaker 1: episodes actually, and then you just were like I kind 754 00:35:15,360 --> 00:35:19,080 Speaker 1: of was like, ugh, I expected maybe more light hearted. 755 00:35:19,160 --> 00:35:20,799 Speaker 1: I don't know. I think I was feeling like it 756 00:35:20,840 --> 00:35:23,240 Speaker 1: was going to be kind of fun and bouncing. It wasn't. 757 00:35:23,880 --> 00:35:26,719 Speaker 2: Were you ever hoping for a phone call or was 758 00:35:26,760 --> 00:35:28,839 Speaker 2: there ever a phone call about the consideration? 759 00:35:29,760 --> 00:35:33,319 Speaker 1: There was an inquiry, Yes, there was an inquiry. I 760 00:35:33,400 --> 00:35:38,240 Speaker 1: thought that their idea, their suggestion was kind of one note. 761 00:35:38,719 --> 00:35:41,080 Speaker 1: When I first joined the show, it was meant to 762 00:35:41,120 --> 00:35:43,359 Speaker 1: be a pretty short arc for me, and I ended 763 00:35:43,440 --> 00:35:46,080 Speaker 1: up staying for two years, and I felt like Christina 764 00:35:46,080 --> 00:35:48,320 Speaker 1: and I really you know, there was some funny stuff, 765 00:35:48,400 --> 00:35:50,800 Speaker 1: very you know, the jug stuff all that was very funny, 766 00:35:50,880 --> 00:35:52,640 Speaker 1: but there was also some serious stuff that went on. 767 00:35:52,680 --> 00:35:54,680 Speaker 1: And I think the way we ended it when I returned. 768 00:35:54,760 --> 00:35:58,040 Speaker 1: There was a real bittersweet quality to it, really a 769 00:35:58,080 --> 00:36:00,719 Speaker 1: real sense of loss, like if only could have worked out. 770 00:36:01,600 --> 00:36:05,640 Speaker 1: So I was hoping that when that if and when 771 00:36:05,680 --> 00:36:07,600 Speaker 1: it came, and it did come, I said that there 772 00:36:07,600 --> 00:36:11,319 Speaker 1: would be like a little more depth, I think to it. 773 00:36:11,760 --> 00:36:13,759 Speaker 1: So I was coming at it from a place of 774 00:36:14,160 --> 00:36:17,120 Speaker 1: I would love to return, but I would like to 775 00:36:17,160 --> 00:36:19,239 Speaker 1: return in a way that was I don't know that 776 00:36:19,280 --> 00:36:22,040 Speaker 1: it sort of honored what had gone on before as 777 00:36:22,040 --> 00:36:26,560 Speaker 1: opposed to being kind of put back into some of 778 00:36:26,600 --> 00:36:31,040 Speaker 1: the one episode different types of guys that people go through, 779 00:36:31,040 --> 00:36:31,319 Speaker 1: and I was. 780 00:36:31,320 --> 00:36:33,600 Speaker 2: Like, that's race, not that, and then last but not Lea's. 781 00:36:33,920 --> 00:36:37,440 Speaker 2: Did you have any kind of feelings as Kyle watching 782 00:36:37,880 --> 00:36:41,520 Speaker 2: the character of Charlotte move on to Harry. Was it 783 00:36:41,600 --> 00:36:43,279 Speaker 2: difficult for you at all? Just in the way that 784 00:36:43,320 --> 00:36:45,880 Speaker 2: I imagine as an actor, you have a connection to your character. 785 00:36:46,280 --> 00:36:48,880 Speaker 2: You got to be rooting for your character, right and 786 00:36:48,920 --> 00:36:52,080 Speaker 2: you were watching Charlotte go on finding love with her 787 00:36:52,120 --> 00:36:54,640 Speaker 2: divorce lawyer and having that be her endgame. 788 00:36:54,800 --> 00:36:58,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, I think I felt more like she had found 789 00:36:58,520 --> 00:37:00,920 Speaker 1: someone that again sort of in the same way that 790 00:37:00,960 --> 00:37:02,960 Speaker 1: she found me. She thought I was this one thing 791 00:37:03,239 --> 00:37:04,840 Speaker 1: I looked a certain way, but in fact I was 792 00:37:04,920 --> 00:37:08,239 Speaker 1: damaged goods. You know, Harry looks a different way, but 793 00:37:08,239 --> 00:37:11,799 Speaker 1: it's actually very very inside, is just a gem. And 794 00:37:11,840 --> 00:37:13,799 Speaker 1: I was like, oh, she's found what she what she loves. 795 00:37:13,800 --> 00:37:15,880 Speaker 1: So I was detached. I think, yeah, I was happy, 796 00:37:15,960 --> 00:37:17,600 Speaker 1: more happy for her that she found someone that she 797 00:37:17,600 --> 00:37:20,640 Speaker 1: could really that appreciated her, and you know, they got together. 798 00:37:20,719 --> 00:37:23,240 Speaker 2: So and did you finish watching the series? 799 00:37:23,760 --> 00:37:24,160 Speaker 1: I did not. 800 00:37:24,440 --> 00:37:27,000 Speaker 2: Yeah. I find this so often with actors. When they're 801 00:37:27,000 --> 00:37:30,279 Speaker 2: no longer a part of shows, they stop watching them. 802 00:37:30,320 --> 00:37:33,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like, I mean, I didn't. I don't know 803 00:37:33,520 --> 00:37:35,200 Speaker 1: if I watched every episode that I was in either, 804 00:37:35,280 --> 00:37:36,000 Speaker 1: so fair not. 805 00:37:36,480 --> 00:37:38,560 Speaker 2: I understand, you know what. I used to have this 806 00:37:38,640 --> 00:37:42,200 Speaker 2: desire for act again, for actors to be fans of 807 00:37:42,239 --> 00:37:44,040 Speaker 2: the thing that I'm that I love so much, and 808 00:37:44,040 --> 00:37:46,000 Speaker 2: these days I'm sort of like, you moved on. You 809 00:37:46,000 --> 00:37:48,600 Speaker 2: have other things to do. It's our job as the 810 00:37:48,640 --> 00:37:51,080 Speaker 2: fans to love these things. We don't need you to 811 00:37:51,120 --> 00:37:51,560 Speaker 2: love them. 812 00:37:51,640 --> 00:37:54,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, no, nice not saying you didn't know. I did. 813 00:37:54,160 --> 00:37:55,719 Speaker 1: I did, but as well, but I think that and 814 00:37:56,000 --> 00:37:58,400 Speaker 1: for us to understand his actors, hey, this is you know. 815 00:37:58,719 --> 00:38:02,040 Speaker 3: Yeah, but it's also the fan appreciating the fans. There's 816 00:38:02,120 --> 00:38:04,880 Speaker 3: a crazy film that I love, The three most Sketchier's 817 00:38:04,880 --> 00:38:06,920 Speaker 3: foremost Skitziers, the old one, you know, the Michael Yorke 818 00:38:07,080 --> 00:38:09,719 Speaker 3: and Oliver Reid and. 819 00:38:10,520 --> 00:38:12,279 Speaker 1: Got me kind of through college. You know, I'd watch 820 00:38:12,320 --> 00:38:13,440 Speaker 1: them and I was, you know, you go off and 821 00:38:13,760 --> 00:38:16,359 Speaker 1: just forget about work for a while and enjoy these 822 00:38:16,400 --> 00:38:20,200 Speaker 1: kind of swashbuckling movies. And there was a behind the 823 00:38:20,200 --> 00:38:22,279 Speaker 1: scenes they did and I didn't know existed, and I 824 00:38:22,400 --> 00:38:24,239 Speaker 1: came across it, you know, it's been ten years ago, 825 00:38:24,640 --> 00:38:26,640 Speaker 1: and I sat and I was so because I loved 826 00:38:26,640 --> 00:38:29,160 Speaker 1: the movie so much, and I was so charmed by 827 00:38:29,200 --> 00:38:31,839 Speaker 1: just listening to the stories that they would relate. And 828 00:38:32,000 --> 00:38:33,640 Speaker 1: I said, from that point on, I said, you know, 829 00:38:34,400 --> 00:38:36,440 Speaker 1: I'm going to do any of the you know kind 830 00:38:36,440 --> 00:38:38,239 Speaker 1: of the behind the scenes that they do now, the 831 00:38:38,440 --> 00:38:43,080 Speaker 1: extra you know, extra footage whatever, and talk about the show, 832 00:38:43,160 --> 00:38:45,560 Speaker 1: because I know there are people out there that are 833 00:38:45,560 --> 00:38:48,560 Speaker 1: going to respond exactly the way I responded to something 834 00:38:48,560 --> 00:38:50,600 Speaker 1: that I was a fan of. And I said, that's important. 835 00:38:50,680 --> 00:38:52,359 Speaker 2: But it's interesting. It's like you came to it from 836 00:38:52,360 --> 00:38:55,319 Speaker 2: the perspective of being at once on the receiving end 837 00:38:55,360 --> 00:38:56,360 Speaker 2: and then realizing. 838 00:38:55,960 --> 00:38:57,080 Speaker 1: That, yeah, how important it was. 839 00:38:57,160 --> 00:38:58,239 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's kind of cool. 840 00:38:58,280 --> 00:39:01,239 Speaker 1: Yeah it was cool. I said, oh wow, I get it, like. 841 00:39:02,560 --> 00:39:04,759 Speaker 2: You're doing it because you know it's meaningful for a 842 00:39:04,800 --> 00:39:06,000 Speaker 2: certain subset of consumer. 843 00:39:06,160 --> 00:39:09,799 Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, we're important. So what's next for you? What's 844 00:39:09,800 --> 00:39:12,000 Speaker 1: going on? You just mentioned a couple of things about. 845 00:39:12,320 --> 00:39:17,479 Speaker 2: I'm currently developing, in various stages, a reality competition show. 846 00:39:19,000 --> 00:39:22,480 Speaker 2: And so I'm a huge no, no, I don't know. No, 847 00:39:22,800 --> 00:39:25,520 Speaker 2: I'm a huge, huge Survivor fan. I have a Survivor 848 00:39:25,560 --> 00:39:28,759 Speaker 2: podcast and like that deep in and I've just been 849 00:39:28,800 --> 00:39:31,080 Speaker 2: looking at, you know, the popularity of shows like The 850 00:39:31,120 --> 00:39:34,160 Speaker 2: Traders and Squid Game and all that, and it's like, hmmm, 851 00:39:34,920 --> 00:39:37,560 Speaker 2: I'm really fascinated by that world, and I was like, 852 00:39:37,560 --> 00:39:40,400 Speaker 2: what if I could develop something. So I've been working 853 00:39:40,400 --> 00:39:43,200 Speaker 2: with a producer and we've been kind of tinkering at 854 00:39:43,239 --> 00:39:46,760 Speaker 2: the game design because you've got to have strong game design. 855 00:39:46,960 --> 00:39:50,120 Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, I think you're right. That's intriguing, and I 856 00:39:50,160 --> 00:39:52,279 Speaker 1: think you are the perfect person to do this. This 857 00:39:52,360 --> 00:39:54,879 Speaker 1: is yeah, because you understand the psychology. 858 00:39:55,120 --> 00:39:58,040 Speaker 2: I like it. I like that in between in between 859 00:39:58,200 --> 00:40:02,120 Speaker 2: reality and scripted, and I think the traders kind of 860 00:40:02,120 --> 00:40:03,359 Speaker 2: get to this a little bit. But it's like, if 861 00:40:03,360 --> 00:40:08,560 Speaker 2: you put real people in pre orchestrated circumstances, how can 862 00:40:08,560 --> 00:40:12,719 Speaker 2: you sort of drive plot through reality with a little 863 00:40:12,760 --> 00:40:14,759 Speaker 2: bit of like the godlike complex. 864 00:40:15,680 --> 00:40:18,959 Speaker 1: Yeah? Yeah, no, I think you understand the structure. That's great, Okay, 865 00:40:19,040 --> 00:40:22,120 Speaker 1: I'm excited to thanks. Hopefully it comes to fruition. Okay, 866 00:40:22,120 --> 00:40:24,640 Speaker 1: that's all. We have time today on what are we 867 00:40:24,680 --> 00:40:26,320 Speaker 1: even doing? Do we decide? Do we figure out what 868 00:40:26,560 --> 00:40:28,239 Speaker 1: are we even doing? I guess a little bit. Yeah, 869 00:40:28,480 --> 00:40:29,520 Speaker 1: but we still have you know. 870 00:40:29,640 --> 00:40:32,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, inconclusive, but we've we've we're gravitating towards we have 871 00:40:32,719 --> 00:40:35,680 Speaker 2: some concept we have some concepts. Yeah, we'll come around 872 00:40:35,719 --> 00:40:36,160 Speaker 2: to something. 873 00:40:36,320 --> 00:40:38,640 Speaker 1: I agree, Yeah, I agree. It's been a pleasure ever. 874 00:40:38,680 --> 00:40:41,040 Speaker 1: Thank you so much. Thank you. I think you should 875 00:40:41,120 --> 00:40:43,080 Speaker 1: keep this on song. By the way, I was hoping. 876 00:40:42,800 --> 00:40:46,600 Speaker 2: I could thank you. I'll wear the song you please. 877 00:40:46,840 --> 00:40:49,799 Speaker 1: It's cold outside. 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