WEBVTT - Mon Part 1: Morgan's Etiquette Question + Someone Experienced a Ghost 0:00:00.640 --> 0:00:12.879 There we go transmitting, Hey, welcome to Monday Show Morning studio. 0:00:13.600 --> 0:00:16.720 I have a difference of opinions with Eddie. I don't 0:00:16.760 --> 0:00:20.639 feel like wings are an appetizer. Oh I feel like 0:00:20.640 --> 0:00:22.840 that's too big to be an appetizer. That's his favorite appetizer. 0:00:22.880 --> 0:00:25.160 But they're normally always on the appetizer for menu. 0:00:25.280 --> 0:00:27.479 But I would never order them as well. No, because 0:00:27.480 --> 0:00:29.000 you can just order wings from a place that's not 0:00:29.000 --> 0:00:29.600 an appetizer. 0:00:29.640 --> 0:00:32.280 I know. But if it's not a wings place, it's 0:00:32.320 --> 0:00:34.680 in it. They're serving wings. It's an appetizer. 0:00:35.520 --> 0:00:37.880 Wings is an appetizer. I'm not saying it's not an appetizer. 0:00:37.880 --> 0:00:40.440 I'm saying it's not an appetizer. To me, that's a meal. 0:00:41.240 --> 0:00:43.160 That's Eddie's favorite appetizer. 0:00:43.520 --> 0:00:45.559 When I look at the menu and I see appetizers, 0:00:45.640 --> 0:00:47.200 I want wings every single time. 0:00:47.280 --> 0:00:49.559 Okay, So what is your favorite? What is your go 0:00:49.600 --> 0:00:54.760 to appetizer? Okay, so that's yours, chips and Kso Eddie, 0:00:54.800 --> 0:00:55.880 yours is wings. 0:00:55.640 --> 0:00:58.880 Wings man and I want buffalo medium with ranch dressing. 0:00:58.960 --> 0:01:00.400 And I love it when they bring this celery in 0:01:00.400 --> 0:01:02.000 the side. That makes it feel like I've been a 0:01:02.040 --> 0:01:05.240 little healthier on that because they're adding something. 0:01:06.000 --> 0:01:06.959 They just have to be there. 0:01:06.959 --> 0:01:10.119 You actually, no, no, they always put like a little 0:01:10.200 --> 0:01:12.720 slot rod of celery and carrots. 0:01:13.000 --> 0:01:15.800 Celery is basically water. Right, You're not getting anything really 0:01:15.840 --> 0:01:17.400 by just eating the celery on top of all the 0:01:17.400 --> 0:01:17.840 bad stuff. 0:01:17.840 --> 0:01:18.440 Are you serious? 0:01:18.560 --> 0:01:22.720 It's not just water? Why would you eat celery? Celery 0:01:22.800 --> 0:01:26.560 is basically other than lettuce. Try all these nutrient a 0:01:26.800 --> 0:01:29.560 vegetable period. But he's not. 0:01:29.600 --> 0:01:31.959 He's just he's not substituting it. No, no, no, I'm adding. 0:01:32.000 --> 0:01:33.720 I'm adding it to make it a little more healthier. 0:01:35.400 --> 0:01:36.959 But now you're telling them it's just water. 0:01:37.920 --> 0:01:38.639 What's the problem. 0:01:38.720 --> 0:01:42.240 Yeah, they're fried, their fried lunchbox. What't you go to appetizer? 0:01:42.680 --> 0:01:47.800 Man? I love and chips and salsa, But that's kind 0:01:47.800 --> 0:01:49.920 of not really an advertiser our joke. 0:01:49.960 --> 0:01:53.840 Spinach dip is really good appetising. 0:01:55.360 --> 0:01:57.240 Yeah, that's it, But you can pick whatever you want. 0:01:57.320 --> 0:01:59.560 Chips and salsa because I mean I crushed that. 0:01:59.600 --> 0:02:01.840 I'll eat Oh have you ever seen him eat chips 0:02:01.840 --> 0:02:05.240 and salsa? It's I don't think that I've saved it 0:02:05.240 --> 0:02:08.160 in my memory bank of things that I remember. It's 0:02:08.200 --> 0:02:10.760 like the cookie monster, just destroying cookies. 0:02:11.240 --> 0:02:12.000 That's amazing. 0:02:12.120 --> 0:02:17.160 I can't I can't stop. It's crazy. 0:02:17.280 --> 0:02:19.560 Like they put one sauca down and I'm like, no, no, no, 0:02:19.639 --> 0:02:20.800 Like can you bring one for? 0:02:21.000 --> 0:02:21.760 Like everybody? 0:02:21.760 --> 0:02:23.880 I need an individual And by the time they're back, 0:02:23.880 --> 0:02:24.840 I'm already done with the bowl. 0:02:25.120 --> 0:02:28.320 I like a good soup as an appetizer. I love 0:02:28.360 --> 0:02:32.480 a lobster bisk. You do love a lobster. I'll eat 0:02:32.480 --> 0:02:34.760 a lobster bisk in Oklahoma. That's how much I love it. 0:02:35.440 --> 0:02:37.680 When they ain't a lobster to be found anywhere it's fresh, 0:02:37.840 --> 0:02:41.120 I still love a lobster bisc I also love soup 0:02:41.200 --> 0:02:43.040 so much. I don't like onions at all, but I 0:02:43.080 --> 0:02:44.520 will eat a French onion soup. 0:02:45.400 --> 0:02:47.640 Do you just don't eat the onion. 0:02:47.639 --> 0:02:49.280 I don't eat the onion. I'll eat the little cheese 0:02:49.320 --> 0:02:51.560 on the top, and I'll the soup. I don't think 0:02:51.560 --> 0:02:53.480 I ever had that French onion soup. 0:02:53.800 --> 0:02:54.840 That's one of my least favorite. 0:02:54.880 --> 0:02:56.280 So yeah, it looks weird. 0:02:56.680 --> 0:02:58.640 I wouldn't say it's my top five soups, but if 0:02:58.680 --> 0:03:00.280 it's all they have, I'll have that because I'll love 0:03:00.320 --> 0:03:02.359 a soup as an appetizer because I eat too much 0:03:02.400 --> 0:03:05.400 appetizer and by the time the food gets down full right, 0:03:05.600 --> 0:03:08.440 that's my problem. But Eddie and I have a fundamental difference. 0:03:08.520 --> 0:03:10.560 I don't believe wings are an appetizer. I believe they're 0:03:10.560 --> 0:03:11.920 a meal. If I had to pick one, you're an 0:03:11.960 --> 0:03:15.040 appetizer wing guy, absolutely, Morgan, do you have one? 0:03:15.200 --> 0:03:18.000 Yeah, mozzarella sticks, friede goodness. 0:03:18.000 --> 0:03:19.399 And you know who has the best ones. 0:03:19.240 --> 0:03:21.919 Buffalo Wild wings where you go to get wings for 0:03:21.960 --> 0:03:24.520 a milk boom, which is an appetizer, which is a meal? 0:03:25.040 --> 0:03:27.760 Raymundo, you have a go to appetizer. Yeah, mine's so 0:03:28.080 --> 0:03:29.960 obvious to my friends. They order it before I even 0:03:30.000 --> 0:03:32.240 get to the table. And they only pick restaurants because 0:03:32.280 --> 0:03:34.640 I love ca cd is so much. I'll see that's 0:03:34.639 --> 0:03:38.600 too big. Yeah, that's big. Nobody's the whole thing and 0:03:38.680 --> 0:03:40.720 be full. I'm the biggest case of a guy around. 0:03:40.800 --> 0:03:42.680 I will back you on the French onion soup. It 0:03:42.800 --> 0:03:45.360 is awesome. You'll lead a casity as an appetizer. 0:03:45.520 --> 0:03:47.400 Yeah, so with an appetizer. 0:03:47.400 --> 0:03:49.080 If you're with more people, if you get the CACD, 0:03:49.280 --> 0:03:50.960 everybody kind of gets a sluck. 0:03:52.360 --> 0:03:53.040 A whole thing. 0:03:53.080 --> 0:03:56.520 Though, I'm still too full Ray, you like just cheese 0:03:56.520 --> 0:03:58.240 in the cassody or you like you got a steak 0:03:58.280 --> 0:03:58.960 and get meat? 0:03:59.120 --> 0:03:59.320 Yeah? 0:03:59.320 --> 0:04:01.360 I do the meat, I definitely do. But I like 0:04:01.360 --> 0:04:05.160 the little spice here definitely does. Dely does. All right, 0:04:05.160 --> 0:04:07.160 that's our get to know you this morning. Glad everybody's here. 0:04:08.680 --> 0:04:10.000 Let's open up the mail bag. 0:04:10.360 --> 0:04:13.080 You send the game mail and me reading all the 0:04:13.120 --> 0:04:13.800 air to. 0:04:13.760 --> 0:04:18.120 Get something we call Bobby's mail bag. Yeah, hello, Bobby Bones. 0:04:18.279 --> 0:04:20.240 So when I met my wife, our son was only 0:04:20.279 --> 0:04:24.400 two months old. His biological dad was bad, off on drugs, 0:04:24.600 --> 0:04:27.120 wanted nothing to do with him. I ended up adopting 0:04:27.160 --> 0:04:30.240 my son when he was one. He's now six. My 0:04:30.320 --> 0:04:33.120 wife insists we tell my son he's adopted now that 0:04:33.200 --> 0:04:36.159 he's six. She says she'd rather do it when he's young, 0:04:36.240 --> 0:04:38.640 but also old enough to understand. I want to wait 0:04:38.680 --> 0:04:40.120 till he's way older, like twenty five. 0:04:40.200 --> 0:04:40.880 What should we do? 0:04:41.480 --> 0:04:43.839 Signed adopted dad, Amy, I'm gonna come to you first. 0:04:43.920 --> 0:04:47.039 You have two adopted children. Your thoughts, Yeah, I think. 0:04:46.880 --> 0:04:50.800 It's always case by case. I think there's a compromise 0:04:50.839 --> 0:04:55.400 between six and twenty five. A lot of room there yet, 0:04:55.480 --> 0:04:58.760 So I don't know that it means your. 0:04:58.760 --> 0:05:01.120 Life though six twenty five, which one if you had 0:05:01.120 --> 0:05:02.760 to pick one of the two twenty five they're going 0:05:02.800 --> 0:05:03.279 to find. 0:05:03.080 --> 0:05:04.720 Out though, right, Ye, twenty five's way too late. 0:05:04.760 --> 0:05:06.080 Okay, it's six, way too young. 0:05:06.920 --> 0:05:08.680 I don't know, because every child is so different. 0:05:08.720 --> 0:05:12.000 But to me, like my kids developmentally at six, like 0:05:12.040 --> 0:05:14.080 my son moved here from Haiti when he was seven, 0:05:14.480 --> 0:05:17.240 and he was almost like three years old. 0:05:17.520 --> 0:05:19.280 So yeah, he was some seven year old. 0:05:19.279 --> 0:05:20.720 You might be able to tell him something, but for him, 0:05:20.760 --> 0:05:23.560 he wouldn't be able to comprehend everything that was happening. 0:05:23.640 --> 0:05:25.599 But this child has lived here the whole time is 0:05:25.600 --> 0:05:29.520 probably developmentally average. Sure for the sake of this story. 0:05:29.240 --> 0:05:33.360 Right, but even your children that they both of my kids, 0:05:33.440 --> 0:05:35.360 yes they're adopted. But let's say my sister's got four 0:05:35.400 --> 0:05:37.680 biological children and she's had to parent each of them 0:05:37.680 --> 0:05:39.359 a little bit differently because their personality. 0:05:39.440 --> 0:05:40.000 So I don't know. 0:05:40.040 --> 0:05:42.440 This six year old For me, it seems young, So 0:05:42.680 --> 0:05:46.320 I would wait until they're a little bit older, but 0:05:46.600 --> 0:05:49.320 just not too long, and consult a therapist. 0:05:49.560 --> 0:05:53.560 Eddie, this is exact almost exactly your story too, because 0:05:53.760 --> 0:05:56.160 even younger like you adopted a baby. Yeah, baby, from 0:05:56.200 --> 0:05:58.279 the hospital and what's the deal there. 0:05:59.120 --> 0:06:02.039 We haven't told him yet because all that thing, you know, 0:06:02.120 --> 0:06:04.760 where like he is too young to kind of comprehend. 0:06:04.920 --> 0:06:05.760 Is he younger than six? 0:06:06.000 --> 0:06:06.560 He's five. 0:06:06.680 --> 0:06:10.440 Yeah, and even if he was six, like say next year. 0:06:10.480 --> 0:06:13.360 I don't think that's the time yet because just developmentally 0:06:13.480 --> 0:06:14.080 is just not there. 0:06:14.279 --> 0:06:15.160 But there is a time. 0:06:15.200 --> 0:06:17.400 I think nine ten years old is pretty solid to 0:06:17.440 --> 0:06:20.640 where they understand things, So that could be the age 0:06:20.640 --> 0:06:22.440 we're going to do it. I definitely wouldn't wait till 0:06:22.480 --> 0:06:23.320 twenty five the record. 0:06:23.360 --> 0:06:24.640 I know how old dad's son is. I just need 0:06:24.720 --> 0:06:30.040 him to say it right. Also, did me asking a 0:06:30.160 --> 0:06:34.039 question here? If you bring it up and it's eddie, 0:06:34.040 --> 0:06:35.560 if you're working with your five or six year old, 0:06:35.560 --> 0:06:37.840 you've had sence a baby, Yeah, and it's like a 0:06:37.960 --> 0:06:39.920 natural part of just talking about it and they grow 0:06:39.960 --> 0:06:41.880 up just always knowing it, even not knowing what it means, 0:06:41.920 --> 0:06:43.600 but knowing it. Is that a strategy at all? 0:06:43.800 --> 0:06:46.919 Yeah, Like he's mentioned stuff before like come out of 0:06:46.920 --> 0:06:50.080 mommy's belly stuff, and we've said, oh, he didn't come 0:06:50.120 --> 0:06:52.960 out of mommy's belly, not this mommy. You had another 0:06:53.120 --> 0:06:56.240 mommy that you came out, but he doesn't say okay, cool, okay, 0:06:56.240 --> 0:06:59.400 got it. So that is you're not running hiding from 0:06:59.440 --> 0:07:01.360 that yet, not at all. We don't want to hide 0:07:01.360 --> 0:07:03.000 from it at all. We want to be as transparent 0:07:03.040 --> 0:07:05.520 as possible, but we also don't want to jar them treasure. 0:07:05.600 --> 0:07:07.240 We're like, oh, what do you mean? What's going on? 0:07:07.480 --> 0:07:09.640 So you want to slowly I think yeah, slowly letting 0:07:09.680 --> 0:07:10.760 them know is a big deal. 0:07:10.720 --> 0:07:14.760 Because to your point, Bobby, you're right, like it making something, uh, 0:07:15.160 --> 0:07:16.960 talking about it in that way freely. 0:07:16.800 --> 0:07:18.280 Makes it comfortable and normal. 0:07:18.320 --> 0:07:20.400 What you don't want is for them to feel like, wait, 0:07:20.440 --> 0:07:23.640 what something's wrong with me? And this was some secret 0:07:23.840 --> 0:07:26.280 and why are we hiding it? And what does this mean? 0:07:26.520 --> 0:07:29.760 And then there's other feelings attached to that. So there 0:07:29.800 --> 0:07:32.480 is something to the just having comfortable conversation. 0:07:32.600 --> 0:07:35.840 I think what Eddie's you kids knew they were adopted though, well. 0:07:35.760 --> 0:07:38.440 Yeah, because they came from Haiti to America and I'm white. 0:07:38.520 --> 0:07:40.720 Yeah yeah, my husband's just doesn't. 0:07:41.240 --> 0:07:45.480 Yeah. Yeah, like their dad, excuse me, is also white and. 0:07:45.600 --> 0:07:49.160 Yeah, thank you for the email. It sounds like there 0:07:49.200 --> 0:07:52.000 isn't a right answer. I mean, there's not a wrong answer. 0:07:52.040 --> 0:07:53.600 There's also not an exact right answer. 0:07:53.680 --> 0:07:55.640 Wrong answer is twenty five. That is wrong. 0:07:55.960 --> 0:07:57.520 I feel like it's wrong too, but yeah, by that, 0:07:58.320 --> 0:08:02.960 I don't think there's a right answer. So eight it is. Yeah, 0:08:03.080 --> 0:08:06.160 I'm just declaring eight. So we have a resolution. Take 0:08:06.200 --> 0:08:10.520 a sweet second grade eight. It is thank you, good 0:08:10.600 --> 0:08:13.440 luck with this and that's that's that's some heavy but 0:08:13.560 --> 0:08:16.160 some good stuff. Right they kick it, kick it very 0:08:16.200 --> 0:08:18.000 fortunate the you're in his life, all right, close it up. 0:08:18.120 --> 0:08:20.800 We got your gmail and we laid it on you. 0:08:21.720 --> 0:08:24.000 Now it's five to clothes, Bobby fail. 0:08:23.800 --> 0:08:27.280 That Yeah, lunchbox, what happened? 0:08:27.840 --> 0:08:30.240 I have a dispute with my neighbor and I want 0:08:30.240 --> 0:08:32.520 to know if you guys think he owes me money 0:08:33.120 --> 0:08:34.160 or if it's my fault. 0:08:34.200 --> 0:08:34.920 Okay, go ahead. 0:08:35.120 --> 0:08:38.720 So we were out of town over the weekend and 0:08:39.280 --> 0:08:40.520 I was like, hey. 0:08:41.160 --> 0:08:43.200 Can you go pick up my Hello Fresh box? 0:08:43.240 --> 0:08:44.280 It's on the front porch. 0:08:44.679 --> 0:08:47.000 I thought i'd canceled it, but I got a notification 0:08:47.080 --> 0:08:47.880 it's been delivered. 0:08:47.920 --> 0:08:49.559 Hello Fresh. By the way, it's a food box where 0:08:49.559 --> 0:08:51.800 it comes preportion and you make it's real good, really easy. 0:08:52.160 --> 0:08:54.400 But so if you'd leave it out, it's gonna run 0:08:54.679 --> 0:08:56.680 right right, can't leave it out. He was like, Oh, 0:08:56.800 --> 0:09:00.679 that's what neighbors are for. I'll go grab that. Eight 0:09:01.000 --> 0:09:05.760 hours later he texted me, goes, dude, my bad. Just 0:09:05.840 --> 0:09:08.680 remember went and grab it right now. I'll throw it 0:09:08.679 --> 0:09:10.400 in the fridge. It'll be here when you get home. 0:09:11.160 --> 0:09:14.080 And I'm like, huh, So it sat out there for 0:09:14.080 --> 0:09:18.319 an extra twenty eight hours, Like I had texted him 0:09:18.360 --> 0:09:20.800 on the Saturday morning, and he didn't get it till 0:09:20.880 --> 0:09:23.040 Saturday at like one pm. 0:09:23.679 --> 0:09:25.400 Wait Saturday morning, I mean Sunday morning. 0:09:25.440 --> 0:09:27.240 Got yeah, Yeah, so he went He went over there 0:09:27.240 --> 0:09:29.120 on Sunday afternoon and got it, and he was like, dude, 0:09:29.120 --> 0:09:30.640 I just got busy, totally forgot. 0:09:30.720 --> 0:09:31.680 I'm a terrible neighbor. 0:09:31.760 --> 0:09:33.160 So now you want to know f he owes you money? 0:09:33.240 --> 0:09:35.440 Yeah, because if it's out there an extra twenty eight hours, 0:09:35.480 --> 0:09:36.120 I can't eat it. 0:09:36.760 --> 0:09:39.160 I would agree with that that like it's it's spoiled. 0:09:39.800 --> 0:09:42.040 So it would have been fine if he went right 0:09:42.080 --> 0:09:44.280 when he said, hey, yeah, that's what neighbors are for. 0:09:44.480 --> 0:09:45.360 I'll go grab that. 0:09:45.760 --> 0:09:49.920 He didn't, so now I'd feel like he should reimburse 0:09:49.960 --> 0:09:50.480 me for that. 0:09:50.760 --> 0:09:54.680 Hello, fresh couple things. Sorry for your loss. Thank you 0:09:55.080 --> 0:09:57.960 like the food? Yeah, yeah, you didn't deserve that. I 0:09:58.080 --> 0:10:01.000 also am a hello fresh person, have been in the past, 0:10:01.440 --> 0:10:03.920 and you can actually cancel it if you're like a 0:10:03.920 --> 0:10:05.680 week out and be like, hey, delay this order for 0:10:05.720 --> 0:10:06.080 this week. 0:10:06.120 --> 0:10:07.120 And I thought I did that. 0:10:07.280 --> 0:10:09.079 Oh but but you didn't. 0:10:09.120 --> 0:10:13.040 You forgot lunchbox sounds like my mad you forgot. 0:10:12.760 --> 0:10:14.240 So you can't do that. You weren't. You didn't do that, 0:10:14.240 --> 0:10:15.800 You didn't he but he did agree to help you. 0:10:15.880 --> 0:10:17.960 He did agree. He said, that's what neighbors are for. 0:10:18.080 --> 0:10:18.800 What a quote. 0:10:19.520 --> 0:10:20.839 That's what neighbors are for. 0:10:20.920 --> 0:10:22.200 You're also maybe making that quote up. 0:10:22.520 --> 0:10:23.280 That was the quote. 0:10:23.360 --> 0:10:25.800 So secondly, you could have sent him a reminder that 0:10:25.880 --> 0:10:27.079 morning as well. No. 0:10:27.080 --> 0:10:29.480 No, I literally texted him. I said, hey, it just 0:10:29.480 --> 0:10:31.719 got delivered. Any chance you could grab it? I thought 0:10:31.760 --> 0:10:34.160 I canceled it, and he goes, no problem, that's what 0:10:34.200 --> 0:10:35.000 neighbors are for. 0:10:35.240 --> 0:10:37.839 No chance he owes you money. Maybe an apology. Oh 0:10:37.880 --> 0:10:39.840 sorry about that. He doesn't owe you money because didn't 0:10:39.840 --> 0:10:40.600 take anything. He did. 0:10:40.640 --> 0:10:42.360 He already was like, oh my gosh. 0:10:42.000 --> 0:10:43.600 Yeah that's it, that's it. He's good. 0:10:43.800 --> 0:10:44.440 Yeah, he's good. 0:10:44.480 --> 0:10:46.440 This is maybe keep in your pockets. Scream over once 0:10:46.440 --> 0:10:46.920 you're even. 0:10:46.800 --> 0:10:48.440 But still what you No? 0:10:50.480 --> 0:10:53.560 Seriously, I'm just saying he doesn't owe you anything because 0:10:53.559 --> 0:10:55.480 you were asking a favor of him, he meant to 0:10:55.520 --> 0:10:57.520 do it. You could have canceled it. You could have 0:10:57.520 --> 0:10:59.760 reminded him again, but you didn't. Right, But why would 0:10:59.760 --> 0:11:03.040 I him again? When he says, hey rabbit, I thought, okay, 0:11:03.120 --> 0:11:05.400 he already he's going to get it. Right now, Does 0:11:05.480 --> 0:11:08.080 Lunchbox's neighbor owe him money? And how much? Amy? 0:11:08.200 --> 0:11:08.240 No? 0:11:09.000 --> 0:11:09.280 None? 0:11:09.679 --> 0:11:14.120 No and none? Okay, Eddie, zero dollars. He doesn't owe anything. 0:11:14.200 --> 0:11:16.880 I mean he forgot. Okay, he was doing you a 0:11:16.920 --> 0:11:18.360 favor and he didn't do it. 0:11:18.360 --> 0:11:18.720 He forgot. 0:11:19.559 --> 0:11:21.280 If it's like feeding the dogs and the dog's eye, 0:11:21.640 --> 0:11:24.360 that's different, that's trouble. He knows you a dog, Yeah 0:11:24.640 --> 0:11:25.040 he was. 0:11:25.120 --> 0:11:27.160 Let's say he said sorry, I can't. What was your 0:11:27.160 --> 0:11:28.719 next plan? I mean, because it still would have been. 0:11:28.880 --> 0:11:31.160 I would have had to text someone else. Throw it 0:11:31.160 --> 0:11:34.280 to another neighbor that lives a block away. You know 0:11:34.480 --> 0:11:36.199 this guy lives two houses. 0:11:35.840 --> 0:11:39.400 Down, but he cannot be trusted anymore. True, you learn something, 0:11:39.800 --> 0:11:41.040 so I don't think he owes you anything. 0:11:41.080 --> 0:11:43.240 Let's say you have an Amazon package coming and you 0:11:43.240 --> 0:11:44.800 know you're out of town and you say, hey, will 0:11:44.800 --> 0:11:46.440 you get this? And they say yes, and then it 0:11:46.480 --> 0:11:48.480 gets porch pirated because they never go get it. Not 0:11:48.559 --> 0:11:51.040 their fault, though, dang man, you got what let's say, 0:11:51.040 --> 0:11:52.520 what are your Let's say? 0:11:53.960 --> 0:11:57.079 Can go on forever. It sucks. I'm sorry that happened 0:11:57.120 --> 0:11:59.800 to you, but it's you can't like charge him for it. 0:12:00.160 --> 0:12:02.520 But I had to throw the Hello Fresh away terrible man. 0:12:02.559 --> 0:12:06.840 Yeah, we figured. I'm sure you gotta say the spices, 0:12:06.880 --> 0:12:07.319 did you? 0:12:07.440 --> 0:12:07.720 Yeah? 0:12:07.800 --> 0:12:08.680 Okay, Well there he got some. 0:12:08.720 --> 0:12:09.200 Of the produce. 0:12:09.679 --> 0:12:12.240 No no, no, no, no, it's in there with the meat. 0:12:12.280 --> 0:12:13.800 If then you want to grates the lunchbox, go to 0:12:13.800 --> 0:12:17.320 our Facebook page. It's time for the good News Lunchbox. 0:12:21.559 --> 0:12:26.559 Wesley Swainston is an active duty marine and he likes 0:12:26.600 --> 0:12:29.800 to go for training runs. He run, run, run, but 0:12:29.880 --> 0:12:32.280 he always has a dog with him, and if you notice, 0:12:32.679 --> 0:12:34.880 it's not always the same dog. It's a different dog 0:12:34.960 --> 0:12:37.640 pretty much every day because when he goes for a run, 0:12:37.679 --> 0:12:40.440 he stops by the local shelter, gets a dog that 0:12:40.520 --> 0:12:43.000 needs a forever home, goes running with him. 0:12:43.240 --> 0:12:46.000 Post the runs on social media and that's how a 0:12:46.040 --> 0:12:49.640 lot of the dogs get adopted. I love it. One 0:12:49.679 --> 0:12:51.520 also that he trains the dog because he just doesn't 0:12:51.559 --> 0:12:53.120 grab a dog and go you're going to run a marathon? 0:12:53.400 --> 0:12:54.280 That sucked for the dog. 0:12:54.520 --> 0:12:54.760 Yeah. 0:12:54.800 --> 0:12:56.679 Secondly, is Lunchbox allowed to yell? Who row? 0:12:56.960 --> 0:12:57.000 It? 0:12:57.080 --> 0:12:57.360 Marine? 0:12:57.360 --> 0:12:57.560 Only? 0:12:57.600 --> 0:13:00.280 I'm uncomfortable with it. I feel like you are would 0:13:00.280 --> 0:13:01.319 be a marine. 0:13:00.960 --> 0:13:01.400 To do that? 0:13:02.280 --> 0:13:03.679 I would think so too, but I don't always know 0:13:03.720 --> 0:13:06.800 the rules neither. What about semper fi? Is that that's 0:13:06.880 --> 0:13:07.400 marines right? 0:13:07.559 --> 0:13:08.160 Temper five? 0:13:08.320 --> 0:13:11.360 But like, you don't slut, but lunchbox is a yelling 0:13:11.360 --> 0:13:14.120 seper five right, Like I'm just asking if him yelling 0:13:14.120 --> 0:13:20.240 who raw is lunchboks? Are your thoughts? Ah? 0:13:20.600 --> 0:13:21.720 I think he's uncomfortable too. 0:13:22.000 --> 0:13:23.640 I'm looking, I'm googled Google. 0:13:23.679 --> 0:13:26.360 I'm trying to google it to see if it's okay. 0:13:26.160 --> 0:13:27.360 And he was just in the moment. 0:13:27.559 --> 0:13:31.320 Yeah, yeah, I only got out recently. 0:13:31.600 --> 0:13:34.640 Nothing but love and respect, Right, it's not disrespectful? 0:13:35.960 --> 0:13:36.720 Are you saying that? 0:13:36.800 --> 0:13:38.480 Or is the Internet saying right? And then who on 0:13:38.520 --> 0:13:39.840 the they. 0:13:39.720 --> 0:13:42.640 We're all good red it says it's not disrespectful? 0:13:42.760 --> 0:13:48.160 So who? Well, I would not, No, we don't. We 0:13:48.160 --> 0:13:49.559 don't know the rule. If anybody out there wants to 0:13:49.600 --> 0:13:51.120 let us know the role, please do you can d 0:13:51.280 --> 0:13:53.840 m us or leave us a voicemail. And maybe there 0:13:54.040 --> 0:13:57.880 that's Lunchbox being respectful, like doing their thing. Maybe not though, Yeah, 0:13:58.120 --> 0:13:59.120 inside I don't know. 0:13:59.559 --> 0:14:01.640 I was just to be nice to Wesley because I mean, 0:14:01.679 --> 0:14:04.800 he runs marathons and when he's training, he gets dogs adopted. 0:14:04.840 --> 0:14:05.480 So I was trying to. 0:14:05.440 --> 0:14:07.640 Give him like his you know, we heard the whole 0:14:07.640 --> 0:14:09.800 story trying to give us cookies. Yeah, that's weird for 0:14:09.800 --> 0:14:11.640 you to say too. All right, thank you, that's what 0:14:11.640 --> 0:14:16.319 it's all about. That was telling me something good. We're 0:14:16.320 --> 0:14:18.439 trying to build a house for a hero. 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We built 0:15:14.640 --> 0:15:17.400 seven seven houses the last seven years. Let's go with 0:15:17.440 --> 0:15:20.560 eight again, Bobbybones dot com. Right now, if you want 0:15:20.600 --> 0:15:24.320 to get in and help out, let's talk about etiquette manners, 0:15:24.320 --> 0:15:25.760 that kind of thing. If you go to somebody's house, 0:15:25.800 --> 0:15:29.360 do you still bring something? So Morgan, you're going you 0:15:29.400 --> 0:15:32.480 have a boyfriend, yes, a man in uniform. So now 0:15:32.520 --> 0:15:34.400 you're doing the tour basically orhere you're going to meet 0:15:34.440 --> 0:15:35.000 a lot of his people. 0:15:35.120 --> 0:15:36.960 Yeah, I'm meeting a lot of friends, a lot of family, 0:15:37.000 --> 0:15:40.200 and I'm going to all these different houses and events. 0:15:40.360 --> 0:15:42.040 So when you go to somebody's house, what do you do? 0:15:42.480 --> 0:15:45.240 I always bring something like I've brought a bottle of wine, 0:15:45.360 --> 0:15:48.000 I've brought a plant, I've brought a dessert. 0:15:48.360 --> 0:15:49.960 A plant. Wow, that's nice. 0:15:50.040 --> 0:15:52.120 It all depends on the information he gives me about 0:15:52.160 --> 0:15:54.440 the people, and then I get them something based on that, 0:15:55.280 --> 0:15:57.080 and so that's what I've been doing. But he was like, 0:15:57.080 --> 0:15:59.080 I don't think you need to do that. That's okay, 0:15:59.160 --> 0:16:01.600 you don't bring anything. They're inviting us over. 0:16:03.080 --> 0:16:05.960 I think early on it's it's pretty good. It's like 0:16:06.320 --> 0:16:10.720 being slightly overdressed when you're not quite sure what everybody's wearing, 0:16:11.600 --> 0:16:14.240 versus being slightly underdressed when you're not quite sure what 0:16:14.240 --> 0:16:16.960