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Speaker 1: Welcome back to Bachelor Happy Hours Golden Hour. Thanks for

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Speaker 2: Absolutely can. So where we get into today's episode, kat

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Speaker 2: What do you think with our very special guests, Katie,

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Speaker 2: We got to talk about last night's episode of the

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Speaker 2: I mean, where.

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Speaker 1: Do we Susan, There's so much, so much.

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Speaker 2: And I just say, and I think you agree. The

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Speaker 2: first night I was so impressed, I think I had

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Speaker 2: tears before the show started when he talked, wait.

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Speaker 1: A minute. Wait, news flash, Susan crying so unexpected, so unexpected.

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Speaker 1: It was really sad growing up without a dad.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, not having dinners as a family. And the first

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Speaker 2: impression Rose went to his grandmom, Like, I loved that.

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Speaker 1: That was sweet. The prepackages were really well done. But

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Speaker 1: then into last night yeah no, wait I got Let

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Speaker 1: me just say, we're going to talk a little bit

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Speaker 1: about the gals. First, I need to give a shout

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Speaker 1: out to Juliana. First of all, I think she's going

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Speaker 1: to go really far in this show. But I'm giving

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Speaker 1: her a shout out because she is from Newton, Massachusetts,

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Speaker 1: and that's where I grew up and I believe her

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Speaker 1: uncle went to high school with my sister. So Juliana,

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Speaker 1: I'm rooting for you, I'm rooting for she is from.

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Speaker 1: It's Newton, it's called the Lake. You're you're from down

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Speaker 1: the lake, So anyway, that's where she was exactly. Way.

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Speaker 2: How about the makeout sessions? Can we jump on top

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Speaker 2: of them? I'm like straddling, But wait, let me say something, Susan.

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Speaker 2: I do not I cannot believe the difference between The

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Speaker 2: Bachelor with the young'uns and and the Goldens with you

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Speaker 2: know Gary and Joan as leads. First of all, you know,

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Speaker 2: Joan didn't have beds. She said, I'm not gonna kiss guys.

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Speaker 2: I'm not gonna, you know, get into bed with guys.

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Speaker 2: These girls from the get go have been talking about

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Speaker 2: he's my husband, Grant's making out with every.

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Speaker 1: One of them. He freaking sends Alicia home last night

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Speaker 1: and he's making out with that.

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Speaker 2: He thought he was into her, I really did.

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Speaker 1: I don't. So the other thing that I'm finding so

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Speaker 1: interesting is, I mean, these are young people, right, they

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Speaker 1: haven't lived a lot of life yet, they haven't learned

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Speaker 1: a lot of life lessons like you know we have.

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Speaker 1: Having said that, he's talking his first love is basketball,

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Speaker 1: and I'm like, I wanted to rewind that and say, wait,

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Speaker 1: do you want to rethink that cramp? And then he

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Speaker 1: says he really wants to be a dad. So we

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Speaker 1: got all these women saying, you know, I want to

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Speaker 1: be your wife. I want you to be my husband,

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Speaker 1: have our kids. Yeah, and when we have our kids,

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Speaker 1: I'm like, you've known this guy exactly thirty seconds, and yes,

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Speaker 1: see how he treats you. Ha been to women demanding

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Speaker 1: the right man to respect her and to treat her well.

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Speaker 1: It's not that he won't, It's not they don't know anything.

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Speaker 1: We know that he played pro basketball, we know he

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Speaker 1: likes music, we know he wants kids, we know he

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Speaker 1: wants to be a dad, and we're all in love

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Speaker 1: with him. I just find the dichotomy between the Golden Bachelor,

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Speaker 1: the difference is blowing me away on this On this season,

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Speaker 1: we're showing our age. I guess, okay, just a couple

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Speaker 1: of we're never showing our age. I I loved just

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Speaker 1: a few things that I want to say. I loved

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Speaker 1: that they changed the format and that the first date,

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Speaker 1: the individual date, went to Alex and the first rose.

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Speaker 1: I think that's wonderful and I loved I mean, can

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Speaker 1: I just say, Susan, you and I have spent a

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Speaker 1: lot of time in the Beverly Center. That's where the

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Speaker 1: first date was. Did you know that the Beverly Center

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Speaker 1: in them all? Let's just be clear. I'm a closed though,

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Speaker 1: and it was closed. But it was cute. I mean

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Speaker 1: they did. She's adorable and they definitely have a connection.

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Speaker 1: And but wait then, can we talk? I have to

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Speaker 1: ask you the basketball shoot your best shot? What did

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Speaker 1: you think about Joey straight out like no time to prepare.

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Speaker 1: I mean I was like watching Zoe going, whoa girl?

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Speaker 1: You know you're stealing them on a group date. This

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Speaker 1: is a recipe for disaster with young women again. Well

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Speaker 1: you saw it start to the little New Jersey girl.

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Speaker 1: Jersey girls.

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Speaker 3: Oh she was fired off.

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Speaker 4: Boy.

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Speaker 1: But I'm just saying like this, you can just see

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Speaker 1: the drama percolating and I'm sitting here thinking, oh, buckle up, baby,

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Speaker 1: because this is gonna be a lot.

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Speaker 2: Always think drama when you think Young Bachelor. That show

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Speaker 2: has always been about drama. And that's what I think

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Speaker 2: people were so surprised from ours, because there was a drama.

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Speaker 2: There was genuinely cared about each other. Not these girls

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Speaker 2: aren't caring. But there's there's gonna be some.

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Speaker 1: Oh there's gonna be some gimmy dan. But the nails

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Speaker 1: coming off of the basketball game. That's just the prelude

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Speaker 1: to what's going to happen.

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Speaker 2: Who do you think is going to be the one

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Speaker 2: that tell him about the you know, oh, dear lord,

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Speaker 2: I don't know all these girls.

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Speaker 1: First, let me say gorgeous long hair flipping like I

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Speaker 1: just want one of their heads of hair, their bodies,

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Speaker 1: their hair, their makeup, their jewelry, their clothes. But you

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Speaker 1: know what I have to say, as somebody who used

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Speaker 1: to weigh two hundred pounds the first night, when Chloe

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Speaker 1: said she was a plus sized model, that she could

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Speaker 1: be a zero, but she wasn't going to do that

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Speaker 1: and not eat. I love, first of all, she is beautiful,

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Speaker 1: and I love that we are representing now. Bachelor Nation

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Speaker 1: is representing women of all colors, all size, so big

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Speaker 1: shout out to bachslor Nation on that one. She's gorgeous.

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Speaker 1: I think she's lovely.

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Speaker 2: I know they were all cute in their own ways.

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Speaker 2: Like I said, I am blown away Grant Elijah, I

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Speaker 2: thought Alicia Alisha, Yeah, I really thought they had a connection.

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Speaker 1: To see next week. Wait, I can tell you who's

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Speaker 1: going to be a pistol. The other one is Ali Joe,

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Speaker 1: the girl from Jersey. I think that what they think.

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Speaker 1: That's her name, the boding trainer, right, yeah, that's Ali.

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Speaker 1: I don't know, you know, like I said, they're all gorgeous.

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Speaker 1: Pick one, but yeah, I'm going to go with Ali Joe.

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Speaker 2: What do you think of the defense attorney, the Chicago girl?

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Speaker 1: I think, you know, I can't. I feel like the

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Speaker 1: vibe I'm getting is total chaos so far, Like what

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Speaker 1: are their stories, where are they going? Why are they upset?

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Speaker 4: You know?

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Speaker 1: It's Toddy.

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Speaker 2: Let me ask you something. Do you remember the night

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Speaker 2: that we had to go perform live and from an audience.

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Speaker 2: That was our first big thing, you know, we had

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Speaker 2: to do a talent thing and they had to do

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Speaker 2: like a dance.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Well, let me just say the girl, Carolina, first

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Speaker 1: of all, shout out to me. I understand, I understand, Yeah, Dina,

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Speaker 1: that's it. Yeah. I Carolina is from Puerto Rico and

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Speaker 1: I understand her Spanish speaking, so I'm like, oh, this

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Speaker 1: is a new thing coming. We're gonna have it all

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Speaker 1: in the Spanish. But she was so uncomfortable in that

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Speaker 1: dance routine, which, honestly, I know you're a big dancer

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Speaker 1: and you love to dance. I love to dance, but

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Speaker 1: that would have been that would have been a lot

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Speaker 1: for me. So I love that, you know, she just

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Speaker 1: comes out with the Spanish and then straveles him for

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Speaker 1: ten minutes.

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Speaker 2: I couldn't the makeout though. I mean I could see

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Speaker 2: given him a kiss, yeah, but this was like a

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Speaker 2: makeout humping session.

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Speaker 1: He was we was he was, I know, really he

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Speaker 1: was loving every minute of it. He was another age difference,

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Speaker 1: another age thing. Mario or I don't even know what

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Speaker 1: the hell his name was. The singer. I'm like, I

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Speaker 1: had no idea who he was, did you Oh god,

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Speaker 1: we're getting old Susan, like you're a a soul, but like,

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Speaker 1: who are you? You know? I just I didn't know

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Speaker 1: the song love Love You. I think it was, you know,

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Speaker 1: great song.

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Speaker 2: They all knew it. Did you see them all singing it?

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Speaker 1: I don't think. And then Bailey doing the splits. I'm like,

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Speaker 1: another purchase split. Could you see us out there just

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Speaker 1: her fick split? I can't. I just I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I think that I think it's It's

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Speaker 1: interesting the second group date, you know, asking Rebecca, so

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Speaker 1: why would he think that it would go well? Why

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Speaker 1: would anyone think it would go well?

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Speaker 2: Did you see Ella's expression? She looked so surprised, so surprised,

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Speaker 2: like Ella's gone. Did you see her expression though, when

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Speaker 2: she didn't get the rose, It was like, really, it's crazy,

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Speaker 2: it's crazy, but it was a great thing.

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Speaker 1: Let me say I think that towards the end, the

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Speaker 1: girls are starting to and they somebody said it, one

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Speaker 1: of the girls said it. They're realizing that this pro

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Speaker 1: this is real, and you know it's hard to deal

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Speaker 1: with dating the same guy. Yes, and there's going to

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Speaker 1: be issues along the way, and.

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Speaker 2: We know all about interruptions, that's part of the game.

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Speaker 1: But the one Zoe.

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Speaker 2: How many times?

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Speaker 1: But here's the thing, you know, I don't know how

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Speaker 1: I feel about it. I like her, I like her,

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Speaker 1: but there's no real rules on Bachelor, right, I mean,

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Speaker 1: you know, interrupting and sort of making your own way,

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Speaker 1: taking advantage of opportunities. I don't know. I'm not not

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Speaker 1: of all liked game, but that was a lot well

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Speaker 1: it wasn't a lot, but you know what somebody needed

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Speaker 1: to Ali Josh that came out her and said, hey,

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Speaker 1: you know, girlfriend, But I don't know how I feel

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Speaker 1: about that. I just think that Grant is showing you.

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Speaker 1: And I've talked about this. We know Jung right, so

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Speaker 1: we knew right off from the get go that Chock

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Speaker 1: was the guy, or we felt strongly about it that

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Speaker 1: Chock was going to be the guy. But in this case,

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Speaker 1: he's making out with everyone, sticking tongues down they're sticking

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Speaker 1: tongues down each other's throat so far, you know, I

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Speaker 1: feel like they're gonna have a digestive disorder. You see

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Speaker 1: Gary doing that no and Joan no no. So I

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Speaker 1: don't know. I know, so I don't know. And then

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Speaker 1: the other thing that I really noticed was, you know,

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Speaker 1: at the Rose ceremony, he was saying, oh, it's just

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Speaker 1: the most important thing is having emotional availability and connection

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Speaker 1: and being vulnerable. And I'm thinking, I don't know, are

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Speaker 1: we Are we grading the girls who make out the best?

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Speaker 1: Are we? You know, I don't know. I think it's

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Speaker 1: going to be I felt the show for me was

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Speaker 1: a little disjointed, like the stories didn't hang. Some of

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Speaker 1: the dates. I was like, wait a minute, what what happened?

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Speaker 1: Things changed?

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Speaker 2: But I was fast for me, like everything happened really quick.

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Speaker 1: But it's definitely not the Golden Bachelor, not.

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Speaker 1: But I'm enjoying the ride. We'll see what happen. It's

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Speaker 5: today's guest.

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Speaker 1: How let's go.

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Speaker 2: So he is from Jim season of The Golden Bachelor

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Speaker 2: and a handsome man. Please welcome Jordan. Jordan, thank you

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Speaker 2: so much for joining us.

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Speaker 1: Hey, Jordan, thank you for having me.

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Speaker 4: I love that handsome that's fantastic. Let's keep Let's do

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Speaker 4: more of that.

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Speaker 1: More of that.

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Speaker 3: Absolutely, How are you?

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Speaker 4: I'm really good. I'm good. Thank you.

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Speaker 1: So how's the new year going for you? Jordan? Tell

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Speaker 4: Uh? I started the new year. I was up in

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Speaker 3: So that was Are you crazy? Was that like the

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Speaker 4: That's the exactly little polar plunge? But it was. I mean,

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Speaker 4: Because you know, my mom, I had old Jewish mother

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Speaker 2: So I do have a little question. Did you go

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Speaker 1: So I want to know because Susan and I we

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Speaker 1: how were you distraught about Joan, Like, tell me where you.

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Speaker 3: We all felt the same way, trust me.

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Speaker 4: And then there's some guys who are just more I

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Speaker 4: will say that I'm not open. I'm open, but some

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Speaker 4: I just was, you know, a little bit behind.

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Speaker 2: Well, I can honestly say from watching and the very beginning,

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Speaker 2: I didn't know if you were ready, That's the feeling

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Speaker 3: It's crazy, right, Did you ever think you would be

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Speaker 1: It was just I will say, did I did not

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Speaker 3: To what to the fireplace with a cocktail.

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Speaker 2: We were talking about everybody.

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Speaker 1: So talking speaking of women and Dayton, I'm really going

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Speaker 1: may we all know this right. The internet is the life. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: Are you dating her? Were you look at your dog?

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Speaker 1: Look at your dog? In a minute? I know is Sam?

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Speaker 1: This is Mickey. It's adorable? Are you? That was your

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Speaker 1: I'm coming at you. Are you dating?

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Speaker 4: Leslie? And I are not dating. We met at the

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Speaker 1: Excuse me, god, I love soccer my daughter.

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Speaker 4: I told all the production staff, and I told all

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Speaker 1: I used to be a soccer ref. I know the game.

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Speaker 1: Really? Where'd she played?

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Speaker 2: I believe this is better for the men than it

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Speaker 1: Oh, we're feeling so sorry for We're feeling so sorry

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Speaker 4: Yeah? I am dating. I am dating. And I want

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Speaker 4: and and we've been kind of dating.

438
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Speaker 1: Oh so you're dating one person? One person?

439
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Speaker 4: Yeah, I would say that right now.

440
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Speaker 2: All right, So how about New Year's intentions or resolutions?

441
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Speaker 3: Did you make any?

442
00:21:53,119 --> 00:21:55,320
Speaker 4: Yeah? I make I make I make them all the time, right,

443
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Speaker 4: So how long have they lasted this year? I really

444
00:21:58,440 --> 00:22:02,439
Speaker 4: want to be more present, you know with my the

445
00:22:02,480 --> 00:22:04,920
Speaker 4: show was really good with you know, we went one

446
00:22:04,960 --> 00:22:08,200
Speaker 4: time when you take away your phone for five weeks,

447
00:22:08,240 --> 00:22:10,760
Speaker 4: right or six weeks whatever, and then we you know,

448
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Speaker 4: I'm out with the producer one day and we were

449
00:22:12,960 --> 00:22:14,520
Speaker 4: have we had a day on our own, and you

450
00:22:14,560 --> 00:22:17,120
Speaker 4: see everybody is on their phone. Me because I don't

451
00:22:17,119 --> 00:22:21,520
Speaker 4: have a phone. We realized how how how terrible that is.

452
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Speaker 4: You know, we're standing in line at the restaurant. Everyone's

453
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Speaker 4: got their head down walking across the street. So terrible.

454
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Speaker 3: Yeah, I agree.

455
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Speaker 4: I think it's the uh, you know, the there's great

456
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Speaker 4: benefits of its humanity, but I think it's not. So

457
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Speaker 4: one of the things is really the less less present,

458
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Speaker 4: and it's kind of a contradiction. I have to be

459
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Speaker 4: on social media but less involved with with the phones.

460
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Speaker 2: Especially when you're out in public. That's one of the things.

461
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Speaker 2: Like I'll go out by myself and put the phone down,

462
00:22:52,920 --> 00:22:56,200
Speaker 2: but it's almost uncomfortable because you're so used to it.

463
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Speaker 4: It is, it's really it's it's a crutch that we

464
00:22:59,000 --> 00:23:01,439
Speaker 4: all have, and yeah, I think we'd all benefit by

465
00:23:01,760 --> 00:23:03,760
Speaker 4: putting it away for good.

466
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Speaker 1: So, Jordan, you were talked about your daughters. I also

467
00:23:07,320 --> 00:23:09,080
Speaker 1: have how many children do you have? Two daughters?

468
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Speaker 4: Have three daughters?

469
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Speaker 1: Three daughters? Okay, so I have two sons and a

470
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Speaker 1: daughter and I'm just gonna give the reader's digest versionnaire.

471
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Speaker 1: My two sons were fabulously excited about me going on

472
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Speaker 1: the show. My daughter not so much. How no, how

473
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Speaker 1: did you How did your daughters feel about you going

474
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Speaker 1: on the show?

475
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Speaker 4: My kids loved it. So my youngest daughter is the

476
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Speaker 4: one that signed me up unbeknownst to me. And then

477
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Speaker 4: well when I first told them, I said, I got

478
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Speaker 4: this call because she did it years ago. She did

479
00:23:37,480 --> 00:23:39,879
Speaker 4: it in twenty twenty, when you know, before when they

480
00:23:39,920 --> 00:23:41,640
Speaker 4: first were talking about the show, and then they found

481
00:23:41,720 --> 00:23:45,040
Speaker 4: me last January, and then the kids were super excited

482
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Speaker 4: about it. They you know, they obviously my girls and

483
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Speaker 4: I are really close and they love my you know,

484
00:23:50,800 --> 00:23:53,879
Speaker 4: banter with them and just like my stick in general.

485
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Speaker 4: So they thought, they're, like, America's gonna love your dad,

486
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Speaker 4: and they did, and they're got there. And they also,

487
00:24:00,080 --> 00:24:02,040
Speaker 4: you know, they wanted me to find the fine love

488
00:24:02,080 --> 00:24:03,880
Speaker 4: as well. You know, they don't. We're all a lot

489
00:24:03,880 --> 00:24:06,399
Speaker 4: of times it's each of them are you know, are

490
00:24:06,440 --> 00:24:08,280
Speaker 4: all partner it off? So it would be the seven

491
00:24:08,320 --> 00:24:09,399
Speaker 4: of us instead of eight of us.

492
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Speaker 1: How long have you been single, Jordan? How long have

493
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Speaker 1: you been single?

494
00:24:13,840 --> 00:24:16,480
Speaker 4: Like four? Like you know, I got the worst eight

495
00:24:16,560 --> 00:24:19,840
Speaker 4: years ago. I had a girlfriend for like half that time,

496
00:24:19,880 --> 00:24:22,320
Speaker 4: so i'd say it by four years. Yeah, and in

497
00:24:22,400 --> 00:24:24,760
Speaker 4: that time I've had little relationships as well.

498
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Speaker 1: So other than other than obviously you're dating this woman

499
00:24:28,520 --> 00:24:32,199
Speaker 1: now and and giving up phones or realizing, you know,

500
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Speaker 1: we need to spend lust I want phones, how is

501
00:24:35,640 --> 00:24:38,560
Speaker 1: your life changed other than those two things from being

502
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Speaker 1: on the show.

503
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Speaker 4: Well, first of all, you guys, like one thing is

504
00:24:42,680 --> 00:24:47,159
Speaker 4: being recognized is really is unique, really fine. I mean

505
00:24:47,200 --> 00:24:49,439
Speaker 4: it's still I mean, you guys are more popular than

506
00:24:49,480 --> 00:24:52,399
Speaker 4: I'm obviously, so so you get recognized more. But the

507
00:24:52,440 --> 00:24:54,800
Speaker 4: amount I get recognized is really fun for me. People

508
00:24:54,840 --> 00:24:57,320
Speaker 4: come up, they're excited to see me, they're like that

509
00:24:57,440 --> 00:25:00,119
Speaker 4: guy from the show. Yeah, it's been really nice. And

510
00:25:00,119 --> 00:25:01,800
Speaker 4: then you know, a lot of doors have opened up

511
00:25:01,920 --> 00:25:07,640
Speaker 4: as far as activity, so invited to games, invited to concerts,

512
00:25:08,240 --> 00:25:11,440
Speaker 4: restaurant openings, those types of things. So that's been really fun.

513
00:25:11,480 --> 00:25:13,240
Speaker 4: And then I've done I don't know if you've seen

514
00:25:13,280 --> 00:25:14,359
Speaker 4: I've done some modeling.

515
00:25:14,520 --> 00:25:16,320
Speaker 1: I was just gonna ask, Yeah.

516
00:25:16,160 --> 00:25:18,680
Speaker 4: I'm some modeling, and I'll look at me young the

517
00:25:19,040 --> 00:25:22,000
Speaker 4: model at age sixty one, you and god, did.

518
00:25:21,920 --> 00:25:24,399
Speaker 3: They have skinny jeans on you or what did they

519
00:25:24,440 --> 00:25:24,720
Speaker 3: have on?

520
00:25:25,480 --> 00:25:28,000
Speaker 4: So yeah, I mean that skinny jeans. You know, I

521
00:25:28,000 --> 00:25:32,720
Speaker 4: got kind of that, But why didn't want to? Producers say, Jordan,

522
00:25:32,840 --> 00:25:35,120
Speaker 4: tuck yourself in a little bit the.

523
00:25:35,160 --> 00:25:39,600
Speaker 2: Day on the water, right by the water, I was like, whoa.

524
00:25:38,840 --> 00:25:40,960
Speaker 4: Plus, you know, listen, I could talk like this with

525
00:25:41,040 --> 00:25:43,000
Speaker 4: you guys, so I know you're you you think like

526
00:25:43,080 --> 00:25:46,840
Speaker 4: I do. Yeah, guys, we've been there for five weeks.

527
00:25:46,840 --> 00:25:49,439
Speaker 4: A question from women other than Joan. You know, someone

528
00:25:49,760 --> 00:25:54,800
Speaker 4: grazes my arm and I'm like, what you know? You

529
00:25:54,880 --> 00:25:57,480
Speaker 4: can't stick me in tight jeans? Someone she said, you know, Jordan,

530
00:25:57,680 --> 00:25:58,960
Speaker 4: take it back a little bit, buddy.

531
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Speaker 3: I hear.

532
00:25:59,640 --> 00:26:01,920
Speaker 4: So some there's some there's some embarrassing pictures out there,

533
00:26:01,920 --> 00:26:03,520
Speaker 4: but hey, I'm a man. What can I say?

534
00:26:03,600 --> 00:26:04,000
Speaker 3: That's right?

535
00:26:04,200 --> 00:26:08,119
Speaker 1: Proud, just alright, all right, before this degenerates any further,

536
00:26:09,040 --> 00:26:11,359
Speaker 1: we're going to get into some fan questions.

537
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Speaker 2: One second, Cat, I know, what advice would you give

538
00:26:14,880 --> 00:26:17,479
Speaker 2: someone else, another man that was going to go on

539
00:26:17,520 --> 00:26:17,880
Speaker 2: the show.

540
00:26:20,040 --> 00:26:21,720
Speaker 4: I would say, you know, you really got to be

541
00:26:21,960 --> 00:26:24,679
Speaker 4: open to the experience, be yourself. What they're looking for.

542
00:26:24,720 --> 00:26:26,360
Speaker 4: I think what the fans are looking for, what everybody's

543
00:26:26,359 --> 00:26:28,480
Speaker 4: looking for is really for you to just be yourself

544
00:26:28,520 --> 00:26:31,560
Speaker 4: and just be open to whatever situation happens there on

545
00:26:31,600 --> 00:26:33,320
Speaker 4: the show. There's a lot of these different things that

546
00:26:33,359 --> 00:26:36,480
Speaker 4: pop up and just be open and vulnerable and express

547
00:26:36,560 --> 00:26:37,160
Speaker 4: those feelings.

548
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Speaker 1: And you know what, Jordan, it's hard. I think what

549
00:26:39,640 --> 00:26:44,160
Speaker 1: you were saying, it's difficult sometimes to be vulnerable when

550
00:26:44,760 --> 00:26:48,320
Speaker 1: it's not really just Joan. It's the world that's going

551
00:26:48,359 --> 00:26:50,040
Speaker 1: to be seeing. It's your family, That's what we were

552
00:26:50,040 --> 00:26:50,760
Speaker 1: talking about earlier.

553
00:26:51,359 --> 00:26:53,960
Speaker 4: There's other people involved. There's other people involved exactly.

554
00:26:54,160 --> 00:26:55,879
Speaker 1: So you have to be vulnerable and you have to

555
00:26:56,080 --> 00:26:59,640
Speaker 1: you have to be who you are. And sometimes that

556
00:26:59,720 --> 00:27:01,440
Speaker 1: gets to the woman.

557
00:27:01,880 --> 00:27:04,919
Speaker 2: I would forget until after the fact and go, oh god,

558
00:27:05,880 --> 00:27:06,440
Speaker 2: my kids.

559
00:27:06,280 --> 00:27:09,040
Speaker 3: Are going to see this. What did I say?

560
00:27:09,440 --> 00:27:12,880
Speaker 4: I listen, But I love people ask me, and more

561
00:27:12,920 --> 00:27:15,000
Speaker 4: women have asked me to be on, like what should

562
00:27:15,040 --> 00:27:16,800
Speaker 4: I go on the show than men have, And I

563
00:27:16,800 --> 00:27:19,160
Speaker 4: always say absolutely, if you can get on the show,

564
00:27:19,400 --> 00:27:24,439
Speaker 4: it's an experience of a lifetime incredible people. You get

565
00:27:24,440 --> 00:27:27,200
Speaker 4: a behind the scenes peak what's going on in television land,

566
00:27:27,240 --> 00:27:29,280
Speaker 4: I think, and it was all it was. It was

567
00:27:29,280 --> 00:27:31,680
Speaker 4: a fantasic, not a perfect experience. As we all know,

568
00:27:31,840 --> 00:27:33,560
Speaker 4: by any, by any, stretchy, but.

569
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Speaker 2: Fantastic, absolutely life changing. Could you say life changing our age?

570
00:27:40,240 --> 00:27:43,719
Speaker 1: Hey, Susan, Susan, you know you know how it's life changing.

571
00:27:44,680 --> 00:27:48,520
Speaker 1: Jordan has a girlfriend. You and I not so life changing.

572
00:27:48,680 --> 00:27:50,920
Speaker 3: We have a friendship that will never.

573
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Speaker 1: I bet you know what. I'm all right enough. We're

574
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Speaker 1: going to get into our fan questions. Here's something we

575
00:27:58,880 --> 00:28:03,480
Speaker 1: we get fans from writing questions. We're gonna read them,

576
00:28:03,760 --> 00:28:05,639
Speaker 1: and then you're going to weigh in, if you if

577
00:28:05,680 --> 00:28:07,359
Speaker 1: you'd be so kind to weigh in and sort of

578
00:28:07,359 --> 00:28:08,400
Speaker 1: give your opinion with.

579
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Speaker 3: Us, we'll give some advice.

580
00:28:10,200 --> 00:28:13,399
Speaker 1: All right, here we go. Tanya writes, Hi, ladies, I

581
00:28:13,480 --> 00:28:18,320
Speaker 1: need your help. My boyfriend is literally addicted to football.

582
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Speaker 1: I don't know what to do. I've been with him

583
00:28:20,840 --> 00:28:23,800
Speaker 1: for like six months, and I feel like he's always

584
00:28:23,880 --> 00:28:26,959
Speaker 1: watching football. I didn't even know football could be on

585
00:28:27,040 --> 00:28:29,760
Speaker 1: for so long. He'll have it pulled up on his phone.

586
00:28:29,800 --> 00:28:32,360
Speaker 1: When we're out with friends, are going to dinner. He's

587
00:28:32,359 --> 00:28:37,119
Speaker 1: always checking his fantasy team everything, and it's driving me nuts.

588
00:28:37,480 --> 00:28:39,800
Speaker 1: I know you guys are really sensitive about that kind

589
00:28:39,880 --> 00:28:42,280
Speaker 1: of thing. So how do you suggest that going about

590
00:28:42,600 --> 00:28:44,960
Speaker 1: talking to him about this. What do you think is

591
00:28:44,960 --> 00:28:48,480
Speaker 1: a fair compromise to ask for thank you? Okay, what's

592
00:28:48,520 --> 00:28:50,080
Speaker 1: what's your answer to Tanya Jordan?

593
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Speaker 4: Well, what I would say is my guess, he's not

594
00:28:52,680 --> 00:28:54,280
Speaker 4: just playing fantasy's probably gambling.

595
00:28:54,640 --> 00:28:55,880
Speaker 3: Put my question.

596
00:28:57,120 --> 00:28:59,240
Speaker 4: Because I used to be a football gambler back in

597
00:28:59,280 --> 00:29:02,160
Speaker 4: the day, and I would be driving before he had

598
00:29:02,200 --> 00:29:05,240
Speaker 4: the internet. I'd pull over a with my with my family,

599
00:29:05,280 --> 00:29:10,640
Speaker 4: pull over to a phone. So he so it's an

600
00:29:10,640 --> 00:29:13,360
Speaker 4: addiction like any other addiction. So she's got she would

601
00:29:13,400 --> 00:29:15,000
Speaker 4: have to deal with it like it's like he's an

602
00:29:15,040 --> 00:29:18,760
Speaker 4: addicted drinker, is addicted you know something else, No question

603
00:29:18,880 --> 00:29:21,600
Speaker 4: that that is an addicted gambler. And that's the way

604
00:29:21,640 --> 00:29:24,800
Speaker 4: they act. That nothing. You block out everything the world.

605
00:29:24,840 --> 00:29:26,480
Speaker 4: He's got to know what's going on with his teams

606
00:29:26,520 --> 00:29:28,680
Speaker 4: and his scores, and well, the good news is that

607
00:29:28,720 --> 00:29:30,680
Speaker 4: he's only but football. It's about to end here in

608
00:29:30,680 --> 00:29:31,440
Speaker 4: a couple of years.

609
00:29:32,000 --> 00:29:34,120
Speaker 2: I would have a conversation with him and ask him

610
00:29:34,640 --> 00:29:37,640
Speaker 2: and if we're winning, then you need to shut f up.

611
00:29:39,200 --> 00:29:42,280
Speaker 4: And listen. Don't worry about it. I gotta you know,

612
00:29:43,720 --> 00:29:45,720
Speaker 4: you want your partner to be present with you and.

613
00:29:45,760 --> 00:29:48,840
Speaker 1: He's going, I'm like, you guys are talking about it

614
00:29:48,840 --> 00:29:51,200
Speaker 1: if you're winning. I'm sitting here getting stuck on the

615
00:29:51,240 --> 00:29:54,040
Speaker 1: line where she says to dinner, he's on the front.

616
00:29:54,320 --> 00:29:57,120
Speaker 1: I wouldn't be dating a guy who was on his No.

617
00:29:57,120 --> 00:29:59,640
Speaker 4: No, that's just the deal breaker. That's one hundred percent

618
00:29:59,680 --> 00:30:01,880
Speaker 4: of deal. He's got to he's got to figure out

619
00:30:01,920 --> 00:30:04,440
Speaker 4: his life. And I think he's that involved in that,

620
00:30:04,600 --> 00:30:07,800
Speaker 4: addicted to his phone and gambling or his football. I mean,

621
00:30:07,840 --> 00:30:09,800
Speaker 4: it's not that interested in the football. It's about it's

622
00:30:09,800 --> 00:30:17,160
Speaker 4: come on, it's about the money for sure. Get him

623
00:30:17,200 --> 00:30:17,880
Speaker 4: to come, get.

624
00:30:17,760 --> 00:30:21,680
Speaker 1: Him eight hundred addiction, you know.

625
00:30:22,240 --> 00:30:24,040
Speaker 3: And we're in the playoffs so well.

626
00:30:24,080 --> 00:30:27,480
Speaker 4: I had heard, like someone said that the gambling for

627
00:30:27,520 --> 00:30:30,240
Speaker 4: the younger guys now is like is like the new porn.

628
00:30:30,280 --> 00:30:32,920
Speaker 3: It's yeah, because it's legal, and you know.

629
00:30:32,920 --> 00:30:35,720
Speaker 4: It's all consuming. You can bet on everything, so and

630
00:30:35,760 --> 00:30:38,000
Speaker 4: it's super easy to do. So I think it becomes

631
00:30:38,080 --> 00:30:40,120
Speaker 4: all consuming to many of these guys.

632
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Speaker 1: You know, it's funny you said that, Jordan. I dated

633
00:30:42,600 --> 00:30:45,240
Speaker 1: a guy for ten minutes. We're still friends, but he

634
00:30:45,440 --> 00:30:48,640
Speaker 1: was telling me, you know, my dad, my husband, they

635
00:30:48,680 --> 00:30:51,560
Speaker 1: gambled on games, you know, you got the line and

636
00:30:51,640 --> 00:30:55,640
Speaker 1: the whole bit. But this guy that I know says

637
00:30:55,680 --> 00:30:58,960
Speaker 1: that you can bet on like you know how long

638
00:30:59,000 --> 00:31:03,760
Speaker 1: it's going to be for the first down house. Yeah,

639
00:31:05,280 --> 00:31:06,800
Speaker 1: you can bet on exactly.

640
00:31:07,080 --> 00:31:09,000
Speaker 4: I mean it's now you can bet on every little

641
00:31:09,040 --> 00:31:10,360
Speaker 4: mini aspect of the game.

642
00:31:10,600 --> 00:31:14,040
Speaker 2: Did you ever welcome to the casino and the betting part.

643
00:31:14,240 --> 00:31:18,760
Speaker 4: It's like sho sports book is crazy. Yes, So it's

644
00:31:19,040 --> 00:31:21,480
Speaker 4: a problem, without a question. If if you're if you're

645
00:31:21,720 --> 00:31:23,280
Speaker 4: one of those people who's involved, and if you have

646
00:31:23,320 --> 00:31:26,080
Speaker 4: addictive personality, you can really get caught into it and

647
00:31:26,120 --> 00:31:27,200
Speaker 4: it's super hard to get out.

648
00:31:27,440 --> 00:31:28,560
Speaker 1: Do you gamble anymore?

649
00:31:29,120 --> 00:31:31,200
Speaker 4: I don't really gamble anymore. I was a trader for

650
00:31:31,240 --> 00:31:34,360
Speaker 4: a long time, a commodity trader, which was like almost

651
00:31:34,360 --> 00:31:42,720
Speaker 4: like gambling the extension of everyone down at the Chicago American,

652
00:31:42,760 --> 00:31:44,800
Speaker 4: the Saints, half the guys there were bookies anyway. So

653
00:31:45,200 --> 00:31:47,840
Speaker 4: you were gambling, and on the weekends you were gambling.

654
00:31:47,480 --> 00:31:50,240
Speaker 4: So when that life ended, I had to, you know,

655
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Speaker 4: I ended.

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Speaker 3: You let go of that. You let go of that.

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Speaker 4: All right.

658
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Speaker 2: Now we're going to do some fun questions if you

659
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Speaker 2: don't mind. It's about getting people to get to know Jordan,

660
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Speaker 2: kat you want to begin with the first one.

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Speaker 1: Oh, it's this is be careful of your answer here.

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Speaker 1: It's all I can say, be careful. They and some

663
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Speaker 1: of your friendships. If you were stranded on a deserted

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Speaker 1: island and you and you could have Susan and me

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Speaker 1: with you, what other one person? No, that is not

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Speaker 1: the question. Okay, if you were stranded on a deserted

667
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Speaker 1: island and could only bring three guys from the mansion,

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Speaker 1: who would you bring me?

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Speaker 4: Only three? So there's like seven of us that I

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Speaker 4: would say, are really close guys?

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Speaker 1: Play by the rules here, Jordan, we're not gambling here. Well,

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Speaker 1: Street answer.

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Speaker 4: The closest guys, you know. I would say, Keith is

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Speaker 4: you know me? He and I were best friends immediately,

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Speaker 4: and I know Chalk answered me. He said, how you

676
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Speaker 4: said he would bring me? So I have to reciprocate

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Speaker 4: and bring Chalk because he's a good guy. And then

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Speaker 4: I'm gonna say Pascal is a great friend. I can't

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Speaker 4: stop at three. I can't.

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Speaker 1: How many of y'all live in Chicago? Wait, how many

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Speaker 1: of y'all live in Chicago?

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Speaker 4: So Pascal and I and then Jack kind of lives

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Speaker 4: South Chicago, so three of us. Michael, I think it

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Speaker 4: also might be moving back to Chicago too. Michael is

685
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Speaker 4: from Chicago. So yeah, I've been out. Michael's been to Chicago,

686
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Speaker 4: We've been out to dinner. Mark is coming. We're gonna

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Speaker 4: go out to dinner with him in a couple of weeks.

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Speaker 2: And I was in Chicago. Hello, I need your number

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Speaker 2: next time?

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Speaker 4: Yes, of course, I mean you know the town. But

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Speaker 4: I'll show you my version of this.

692
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Speaker 1: And to be clear, Jordan, where Susan go with, Kathy.

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Speaker 3: Go with and you can bring your girlfriend. Tell her

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Speaker 3: don't be jealous. We're just friends.

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Speaker 4: I mean we'd be walking down the street. It would

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Speaker 4: be like, it's crazy. Right.

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Speaker 2: Well, I went to see Val from Dancing with the Stars.

698
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Speaker 2: They perform on when they're not on the show, and

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Speaker 2: it was a blast. We all had dinner afterwards.

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Speaker 3: I missed Chicago.

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Speaker 4: I really do.

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Speaker 2: Okay, So what's one piece of advice you wish you

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Speaker 2: could have given your younger self.

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Speaker 4: Well, the simple one is where sunscreen? So you know

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Speaker 4: that was that's easy. But I would say, you know,

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Speaker 4: I spend more time with your with your parents. You

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Speaker 4: know my parents, at least my parents. I was pretty young.

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Speaker 4: We had a great relationship. I spent time with them,

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Speaker 4: But I would say that to other people, you don't

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Speaker 4: I never know how long people have beautiful I am cheering.

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Speaker 1: Up, Jordan. Nobody has ever We asked that question to

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Speaker 1: just read everyone who comes on our podcast. I'm literally

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Speaker 1: sitting here turning up. I've never had liked me a

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Speaker 1: little bit more.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, oh, thank you. I bumps from you.

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00:34:42,320 --> 00:34:44,480
Speaker 1: Yeah me too, me too, So I had.

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Speaker 4: So I'll just tell you a quick story. So on

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Speaker 4: the show, I lost my dad. I was twenty nine.

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Speaker 4: He was sixty three.

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Speaker 3: So was my dad sixty three.

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Speaker 4: So really and at the time it didn't really make sense.

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Speaker 4: My mom was sixty one, the same age as Joan was.

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Speaker 4: And it's some point when we were talking about it,

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Speaker 4: Joan was, you know, talking about the hard you know

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Speaker 4: how hard it is with John, and and then it

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Speaker 4: like topped to my hat. I said, she's the same

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Speaker 4: age as my mother. Like my mother dated my father

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Speaker 4: when they were you know, teenagers, and when my dad

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Speaker 4: passed away, she wouldn't even think of dating anyone else.

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Speaker 4: It was like heresy to talk about it. Well, I

731
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Speaker 4: have three older brothers and we were like mom, like

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Speaker 4: dad wouldn't want you to be alone. You know this,

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Speaker 4: you know she she wouldn't do it. She wouldn't do it,

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Speaker 4: and we begged her, and it just was I and

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Speaker 4: I praised Joan for that. I said, you know, my

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Speaker 4: mom was the same age and she was a young woman,

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Speaker 4: but she was you know she she said, I have

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Speaker 4: my husband and that's that's it. Yeah. I know you

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Speaker 4: guys have both lost your husbands as well, So no, no.

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Speaker 3: She still helps me out sometimes.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, no, you lost your husband.

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Speaker 1: I did. And when you just said that, it's you know,

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Speaker 1: seen it reflected through your eyes of My daughter was

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Speaker 1: thirty thirty one, turning shoes thirty one when her dad died.

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Speaker 1: And you know, I can't even con we talk about it,

746
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Speaker 1: but losing a parent when you're that young.

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Speaker 2: But I think all of you feel, all of us

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Speaker 2: feel the same way when you lose a parent or

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Speaker 2: when you lose your spouse. If they're a given amount

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Speaker 2: of time, life does go on, and why not.

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Speaker 3: Have another love? It won't be the same, or you

752
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Speaker 3: know what I mean, but it can.

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Speaker 4: You don't. You shouldn't be alone, give up a great time.

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Speaker 4: It doesn't it doesn't diminish with your spouse at all.

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Speaker 4: It doesn't better.

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Speaker 1: That's right, all right. I have another question we in

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Speaker 1: your video. Well, I have my cat who's literally you

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Speaker 1: can't see, but I saw it. Yeah, walk there and

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Speaker 1: the tails hanging in there, and I saw your dog, Mickey.

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Speaker 1: So and Mickey, it looks like an adorable You said,

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Speaker 1: he's a rescue after a long day or what is

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Speaker 1: your favorite way to one? And I'm guessing it has

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Speaker 1: something to do with your sweet dog. But tell me

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Speaker 1: how do you like?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: So, Mickey and I have a great routine. I live

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Speaker 4: right across in the lake, and we get up early

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Speaker 4: and we do the lake walk and then in the

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Speaker 4: afternoon come back. We take two long walks and the

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Speaker 4: second one is another you know, run by the lake France,

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Speaker 4: and it's just, you know, it's really cold this morning.

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Speaker 4: That is right there, kind of compervious. So I do

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Speaker 4: it for him and it's a it's therapeutic for me too.

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Speaker 4: So we take good long walks and he's what I'll

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Speaker 4: call a man's dog, like he's rough and tumble. He

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Speaker 4: loves to you know, and I just love it's Mickey.

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Speaker 1: Wait, wait, Mickey, your dad thinks you're rough and double.

778
00:37:40,080 --> 00:37:43,000
Speaker 1: I've seen Mickey or I did snoozed out on the

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00:37:43,040 --> 00:37:46,879
Speaker 1: floor and then on the sofa. That's yeah, I'm going

780
00:37:46,920 --> 00:37:51,359
Speaker 1: with not rough and tumble. Here Jordan yell like a cat.

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Speaker 4: But he uh, he's a great companion, you know. And

782
00:37:55,640 --> 00:37:59,000
Speaker 4: how all my divorced friends, like the guys I always

783
00:37:59,520 --> 00:38:00,920
Speaker 4: get a like they're unhappy.

784
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Speaker 3: Get a dog.

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Speaker 4: My advice to everyone is get a dog because I love.

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Speaker 2: Because the responsibility, because I'm moving around so much, I

787
00:38:10,680 --> 00:38:12,040
Speaker 2: don't think it would be fair.

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Speaker 3: That's one of the people.

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Speaker 4: Say that I and I said, you find a way,

790
00:38:15,920 --> 00:38:18,239
Speaker 4: You find a way. I think the love that you

791
00:38:18,280 --> 00:38:21,160
Speaker 4: get and you receive is amazing.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I have two cats. You said that Mickey's a rescue.

793
00:38:23,680 --> 00:38:26,400
Speaker 1: I have two cats that are now thirteen that I

794
00:38:27,360 --> 00:38:30,479
Speaker 1: have a big heart for animals, and they needed rest,

795
00:38:30,800 --> 00:38:36,240
Speaker 1: they needed fosters, and so I fostered these two kittens.

796
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Speaker 1: When my husband came home, he was like, what, but

797
00:38:39,920 --> 00:38:42,800
Speaker 1: I fostered them. They were five weeks old, their sisters.

798
00:38:43,160 --> 00:38:46,080
Speaker 1: And of course now that I couldn't take them back.

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Speaker 1: I mean when they said, you know you can bring

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Speaker 1: them back. You know we have room now and I

801
00:38:50,120 --> 00:38:54,240
Speaker 1: said I can't, So I have to one last question.

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00:38:55,400 --> 00:38:59,520
Speaker 4: My youngest daughter just fostered or she adopted a cat.

803
00:39:00,239 --> 00:39:03,919
Speaker 4: She's too adopted greyhounds, and she adopted a kitten. And

804
00:39:04,080 --> 00:39:08,879
Speaker 4: it's like a special needs Its back legs don't work

805
00:39:08,920 --> 00:39:11,359
Speaker 4: so great, so it's always just sliding around and all

806
00:39:11,400 --> 00:39:13,960
Speaker 4: the dogs are good to it. I mean, I can

807
00:39:14,040 --> 00:39:16,120
Speaker 4: send you, guys pictures. You won't believe it. She's sleeping

808
00:39:16,120 --> 00:39:17,120
Speaker 4: on the dogs heads.

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00:39:17,200 --> 00:39:19,799
Speaker 1: I mean, is she going to keep the cat?

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00:39:19,840 --> 00:39:22,160
Speaker 4: I think we were cat people until we have this cat.

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Speaker 1: Now, listen, my cats are like dogs. People who don't

812
00:39:25,040 --> 00:39:27,799
Speaker 1: like cats love my cats. They come in. People are

813
00:39:27,840 --> 00:39:30,680
Speaker 1: allergic to cats, literally are not alertal to my cats.

814
00:39:31,760 --> 00:39:32,760
Speaker 4: Perspective on cats.

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Speaker 2: Now, good, last question of the day. We're going to

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Speaker 2: have to wrap. If you were to write an autobiography,

817
00:39:39,719 --> 00:39:40,719
Speaker 2: what would the title be?

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00:39:41,800 --> 00:39:46,080
Speaker 4: The title of my autobiography would be. That's a good

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00:39:46,120 --> 00:39:49,960
Speaker 4: that's a tough question. Let me think might be just

820
00:39:50,160 --> 00:39:54,359
Speaker 4: smiles a lot. It's not very prophetic, but I do

821
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Speaker 4: smile a lot. I have a you know, my outlook

822
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Speaker 4: on life is uh, you know, I I'm usually happy

823
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Speaker 4: all the time. Uh So something along those lines, I

824
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Speaker 4: don't have something just like a mine.

825
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Speaker 1: Mine mine is and I thought about I thought about

826
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Speaker 1: writing it, but then I thought, but mine would be

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Speaker 1: run between the drops, because that's to me. That's well,

828
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Speaker 1: it's what you're saying. You know, it might be raining out,

829
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Speaker 1: but I try to look for the positive no matter

830
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Speaker 1: what's happened in my life. Uh, you know, it could

831
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Speaker 1: be smile between the drops, but run between the drops.

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Speaker 1: You know, enjoy life, grab for like you can. There's

833
00:40:30,360 --> 00:40:34,960
Speaker 1: going to be rain, there's gonna be sunned anyway, Enjoy

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Speaker 1: who you are, just.

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Speaker 4: Me, right, that's those are all great. I mean, so

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Speaker 4: let's all get I think that, you know, I kind

837
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Speaker 4: of always have looked at the positive side. I haven't

838
00:40:44,760 --> 00:40:47,719
Speaker 4: taken the life as too serious. So I got to

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Speaker 4: figure out a good title for a book that that

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Speaker 4: that goes along those lines.

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Speaker 3: I agree, I agree.

842
00:40:52,920 --> 00:40:55,640
Speaker 4: I can't get you might as well, right.

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00:40:56,000 --> 00:41:00,759
Speaker 2: Damn right, absolutely. I still see the cup as almost full.

844
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Speaker 4: I mean, I love your I love both of your

845
00:41:05,160 --> 00:41:07,800
Speaker 4: zest for life. I love the spunk that you guys

846
00:41:07,800 --> 00:41:10,480
Speaker 4: bring to the you know, and I try to do

847
00:41:10,520 --> 00:41:11,640
Speaker 4: the same thing in my life.

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Speaker 1: I just I see that you know, every day. It's

849
00:41:14,440 --> 00:41:18,600
Speaker 1: a choice. It's a choice every day. You can get

850
00:41:18,680 --> 00:41:22,000
Speaker 1: up and be horrible or you can get up and

851
00:41:22,040 --> 00:41:24,880
Speaker 1: be grateful and live, you know, life to the to

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00:41:24,920 --> 00:41:26,920
Speaker 1: the full. It's a choice every day.

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00:41:28,120 --> 00:41:30,279
Speaker 2: We just want to thank you from the bottom of

854
00:41:30,320 --> 00:41:32,440
Speaker 2: our hearts. It was so nice to see you so

855
00:41:32,600 --> 00:41:36,400
Speaker 2: relaxed and that beautiful smile and that handsome face.

856
00:41:37,200 --> 00:41:40,440
Speaker 4: And you know, like I said, I missed out. I'm

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00:41:40,440 --> 00:41:41,240
Speaker 4: meeting you, guys.

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Speaker 1: We will meet.

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Speaker 3: We're not going anywhere, Jordan.

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Speaker 2: We thank you, and that's us going to do it

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Speaker 2: today for this episode of Bachelor Happy Hours Golden Hours.

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Speaker 1: Hold it, hold it, hold it, hold it, hold it right.

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Speaker 1: I want people to know where they can write into

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00:42:01,000 --> 00:42:03,800
Speaker 1: us just in case. Hey, it's a new year, Susan. People,

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Speaker 1: you know, they've lost their minds, they've lost their memories.

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Speaker 1: We love hearing from you, guys. We hope you enjoyed

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Speaker 1: today's episode, but please write in questions comments if you

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Speaker 1: enjoyed our interview today with Jordan. We're going to be

869
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Speaker 1: doing a whole lot more in the new year, so

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Speaker 1: write in your questions or comments to Bachelor nation dot com,

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Speaker 1: slash Golden Hour. Follow us on socials. We love hearing

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Speaker 1: from you.

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Speaker 4: You guys on the on the interweb, and.

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Speaker 1: As long as it's not the dark web.

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Speaker 5: Jordan, you now, I don't know if if you ever

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Speaker 5: come through Chicago, obviously please look me up.

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Speaker 4: We'll we'll have dinner. We would want to.

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Speaker 1: Absolutely, Okay, guys, and next time this is it. Have

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Speaker 1: a great week.

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Speaker 2: The Bachelor, Happy Hours, Golden Hour, and the iHeartRadio app

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Speaker 2: or wherever you listen to your podcast.

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Speaker 4: Thankstastic thanks guys. MHM