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Speaker 1: First date of follow up powered by the Advocates Injury

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Speaker 1: Attorneys online at Advocateslaw dot com.

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Speaker 2: Sam is on the phone today for our first day

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Speaker 2: follow up, and he's getting ghosted by a woman named Lilah.

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Speaker 2: So in a few minutes we'll call her and see

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Speaker 2: if she can tell us why she's ghosting him, and

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Speaker 2: also maybe get him a second date if he still

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Speaker 2: wants one. But before we do that, Sam, how long

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Speaker 2: has it been since you last talked to Lilah.

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Speaker 3: Oh, it's been about a couple of weeks.

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Speaker 4: I guess a couple of weeks. Okay, that's that's a while. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 4: why do you want to get a hold of O

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Speaker 4: a few weeks? Like any efficiency?

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Speaker 5: I think for me it's it's just getting some sort

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Speaker 5: of answer. You feel like you're kind of lessed with

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Speaker 5: no closure. And maybe I'm one of those people, but

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Speaker 5: I don't know. I always feel like I need some

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Speaker 5: sort of and need to make sense, you know.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, total, I get that, especially when you think something

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Speaker 6: went really well. So why don't you tell us about

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Speaker 6: the date?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, So I met Lilah on bumble, you know, just swiping,

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Speaker 5: and uh, it's great. I really liked her based on

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Speaker 5: her pro while she seemed really grounded, out doorsy, and

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Speaker 5: she had a dog, which I did do, so I thought,

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Speaker 5: great connection. I thought about the dog situation being such

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Speaker 5: an organic way to kind of connect. So I said,

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Speaker 5: let's go to the dog park. And we went to

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Speaker 5: this beautiful park and the dogs kind of ran around,

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Speaker 5: had a good time. They seemed like they really got along.

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Speaker 5: It was a nice day date, very PG safe. Everybody's happy,

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Speaker 5: doesn't feel like any sort of like, you know, no

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Speaker 3: Just meeting the dogs. We went on in the park

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Speaker 5: And then yeah, and as I felt was doing really well,

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Speaker 5: I said, you know, there's a little brewery in a

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Speaker 5: everybody's chilling out and we started playing a little corn

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Speaker 5: hole and you know, just there's a.

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Speaker 3: Pool table as well inside and we just.

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Speaker 5: We did all yeah, and the dogs were a dog's

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Speaker 5: friendly place, so like they brought up little dog water

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Speaker 5: bowls and so I asked her basically what her family

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Speaker 5: does and what and she wanted to know what mine did.

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Speaker 5: And I decided, you know, it's kind of a funky

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Speaker 5: I said, why don't you guess? So we started playing

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Speaker 5: this kind of cute guessing game, and I told her

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Speaker 5: I inherited the family business.

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Speaker 3: So that's where I left her, but I kept it

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Speaker 3: really cryptic with some clues.

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Speaker 5: I was like, yeah, there's always a continuing business. It's

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Speaker 5: always kind of built in. You'll never run out of it.

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Speaker 5: These were my clues, and I kind of got to

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Speaker 5: a place where we were sort of getting it, and

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Speaker 5: long story short, I just kind of got to a

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Speaker 5: next time about the dogs. And the time of the

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Speaker 5: date went on and we left in good terms.

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Speaker 6: Maybe maybe it's something about the game.

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Speaker 3: I don't know.

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Speaker 4: Oh well, we'll see if we can figure it out

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Speaker 4: for you.

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Speaker 2: We'll play a song come back, and then call her

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Speaker 2: and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting you

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Speaker 2: and maybe get you a second date if you still

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Speaker 2: want one.

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Speaker 3: Okay, sound good?

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Speaker 4: All right, Okay, we'll get your first day follow up next.

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Speaker 1: It's the Jubile Show first Date of follow Out powered

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Speaker 1: by the Advocates Injury Attorneys online at advocates law dot com.

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Speaker 2: Right in the middle of your first day follow up

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Speaker 2: if you're just joining us, Sam is on the phone

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Speaker 2: and Sam's getting ghosted by a woman named Lilah. So

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Speaker 2: we're about to call her and see if she'll tell

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Speaker 2: us why she's ghosting him and maybe get him a

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Speaker 2: second date. But before we do that, Sam, why don't

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Speaker 2: you break down your situation again real quick?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, we met on the dating app.

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Speaker 5: She was really cute. I loved her dog. My dog

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Speaker 5: really loved her dog. We went on a great little

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Speaker 5: dog park date, took it to a brewery, and basically

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Speaker 5: the end of the date, we were playing a bit

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Speaker 5: of a guessing game as to what my family business was,

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Speaker 5: and left on a pretty good no, I thought, And

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Speaker 5: here we are. I just haven't heard from her in

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Speaker 5: like two weeks.

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Speaker 4: Now, all right? You ready for us to call her?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Please?

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Speaker 2: Okay, here we go. Hello, Hi, may speak to Lililah.

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Speaker 2: Please speaking, Hey Lilah, how are you. This is a

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Speaker 2: radio show. It's called the Jubil Show.

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Speaker 4: Hi, Lilah Anina. Hi, I'm Victoria and my name is Jubell.

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Speaker 4: What's going on Hi. Hi, have you ever heard the

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Speaker 4: show before?

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Speaker 7: Pop up on my TikTok sometimes?

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Speaker 4: Oh cool? Oh nice, that's cool. So you you have

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Speaker 4: heard of the show.

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Speaker 3: But you're calling me so that's yeah.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, well we're calling you because we do a segment

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Speaker 2: on the show called the First Date follow Up. That's

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Speaker 2: where if you go out on a date with somebody

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Speaker 2: and you would up ghosting them, they can email us

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Speaker 2: to get you on the phone and ask why you're

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Speaker 2: ghosting them.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 7: Oh so we're like on right now.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, okay, and Sam Sam emailed us. Uh huh.

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Speaker 2: Sam told us a little bit about your date and uh,

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Speaker 2: I was wondering, why are you ghosting them?

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Speaker 4: Would you mind telling us?

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Speaker 7: Yeah? Sure, I mean truthfully, yeah, it's it's really just

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Speaker 7: about his work. You know, he runs his family business

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Speaker 7: and for him, it's a successful business. But it is

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Speaker 7: a mortuary, and I just I don't do dead people.

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Speaker 7: I don't want to be with somebody who comes home

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Speaker 7: to me after, you know, handling dead people all day.

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Speaker 7: You know, Yeah, that's really it.

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Speaker 2: Well, so I said, he works at a mortuary. You

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Speaker 2: don't want to do a dude that handles dead people?

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Speaker 3: No, I do not do dead people.

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Speaker 7: I don't watch scary movies.

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Speaker 6: Like no, okay, okay, I bet he kind of runs

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Speaker 4: I feel like it would be kind of a weird thing.

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Speaker 4: I mean, that's a family business. He could make good money.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know.

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Speaker 7: I mean maybe I'm crazy, but for me, it's like

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Speaker 7: an energy thing, like if you're around dead people all day,

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Speaker 7: like spirits can attach to you and stuff, and I

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Speaker 7: just like I don't want to risk it. I want

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Speaker 7: to deal with that. Like if if I was in

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Speaker 7: a scary movie, I'd be the girl that like first

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Speaker 7: I would survive.

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Speaker 6: You know, so this is your survival movie right now.

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Speaker 7: Nobody pulled out parrot cards. I'm out, like I'm out,

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Speaker 7: Like they don't mess with this stuff, you know.

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Speaker 5: Sure?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, well, thank you for telling us. I I appreciate it.

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Speaker 2: And just to let you know, Sam is actually on

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Speaker 2: the phone and wants to talk to you.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean right now, I mean you go to

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Speaker 5: me over over that?

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Speaker 4: You over that?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? What you I mean? Really you should have just

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Speaker 3: mentioned that bother unit could explain it to you a

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Speaker 7: I just I don't do dead people, Like I don't

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Speaker 7: have a better way to put that, but like I

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Speaker 7: don't want I don't want to be in a relationship

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Speaker 7: I just like I can't stop, like I couldn't stop

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Speaker 7: picturing it like I have just honestly, I have a

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Speaker 7: of zombies, Like I know they're not real, but I

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Speaker 7: don't think they're impossible to become real, you know, like

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Speaker 7: when there's no room on the earth, you.

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Speaker 8: Know, God, Wow, this is not This is not the

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Speaker 8: Walking Dead, It's not shere the Walking Dead.

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Speaker 3: It's none of those shows. This is listen.

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Speaker 5: It's a respectful about the profession. My family's been in

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Speaker 5: it for a century. And it's about money too, Like

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Speaker 5: let me, let me be honest with you, Like my

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Speaker 5: family's unloaded and it's demand.

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Speaker 3: There's always going to be a returning customers. You know

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Speaker 3: what I mean.

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Speaker 7: That spirits don't care. Spirits don't care about your bank

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Speaker 5: That's crazy, though, you got it. You gotta maybe get

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Speaker 5: some sage or some Pelissonto and just you know, clean

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Speaker 5: your house. I'm just saying, like, you know that says

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Speaker 5: nothing to do with me. Energy doesn't stick on people

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Speaker 7: Listen, No, I'm telling you. I come from our date

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Speaker 7: and it was it was like dramatic in a way

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Speaker 7: that light's going out, just isn't it. Like I'm telling you,

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Speaker 7: this was the universe is telling me not to mess

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Speaker 4: That's a big well right.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, That's what I'm trying to say. Is a coincidence though, coincidence.

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Speaker 5: We had such a great chemistry, and I just want

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Speaker 5: to think, like what if we go back and started again.

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Speaker 5: No dogs, no talk of what my family, businesses or work,

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Speaker 5: just like a normal chill date.

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Speaker 7: Did you after you've been breathing and dead?

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Speaker 2: So?

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Speaker 7: How are the zombie air all?

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Speaker 3: Come on?

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Speaker 7: I can't do it?

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Speaker 4: Well, well, are you sure, Lila? Would you like another

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Speaker 4: date with Sam? Will pay for it?

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Speaker 6: No?

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Speaker 7: I'm sorry, I just like I can't do it. I

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Speaker 7: I there are people that won't care about this, and

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Speaker 7: I cannot get past it.

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Speaker 5: You're really going to say no to a hot, rich,

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Speaker 5: once in a lifetime kind of man because you're stared

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Speaker 5: with some zombies.

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Speaker 7: I mean, don't get.

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Speaker 8: That.

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Speaker 7: Say how much money in your baking now money?

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Speaker 3: Okay, they don't you know.

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Speaker 5: I mean, honestly, all the brains are for me, then

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Speaker 5: I'll eat all the brains.

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Speaker 4: All right, Well you're the brains alone. S I'm sorry.

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