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Speaker 1: From Hollywood to you on air with a Ryan Seacrest.

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Speaker 2: So I was with my friends, is they're getting married,

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Speaker 2: they're engaged, and I will be the best man. I

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Speaker 2: was so excited to be offered to be the best man,

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Speaker 2: very flattered honor by that. And then as we were

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Speaker 2: sitting there, she his fiance, says to me, Ryan, you

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Speaker 2: would tell me, wouldn't you? Oh, No, tell you what

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Speaker 2: you would tell me if I was ever unfit?

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Speaker 1: Wouldn't you?

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Speaker 2: And he's there, the guys there, and I'm thinking out

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Speaker 2: of nowhere, and I'm thinking, no, I would not tell

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Speaker 2: you that. There's no chance that that question needs to

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Speaker 2: be answered by the third party here.

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Speaker 1: And why would you even say that?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: Why did you want you to say anything there?

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Speaker 2: Because they're trying to get in shape for the wedding,

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Speaker 2: trying to get ready for the wedding.

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Speaker 1: But I said, no, that's not don't put that on.

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Speaker 4: Me people's bodies.

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Speaker 1: I don't call him people. No. No, And that's like

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Speaker 1: you're marrying that guy. Let that guy.

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Speaker 2: You asked that guy. This is stuff that you only

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Speaker 2: asked that guy. Yeah, I'm you could ask.

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Speaker 1: Right, weird? Right?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, what do you say that I never put that

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Speaker 2: pressure on somebody. And she's like, no, it's fine if

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Speaker 2: you do. I'm like no, she had something in her nose,

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Speaker 2: so I was like, you do have a little hanger.

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Speaker 1: But that was it.

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Speaker 2: But people that put you on the spot, don't they

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Speaker 2: do this every once and wile to you.

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Speaker 4: I don't. I don't like that at all. That would

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Speaker 4: made me feel so uncomfortable.

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Speaker 1: Do you remember me? You? No, I don't.

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Speaker 2: Please don't put me on the spot like that. I'm

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Speaker 2: not good on the spot. You don't remember? How could

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Speaker 2: you not remember?

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Speaker 1: I don't remember.

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Speaker 2: I'm just telling you. Don't ask me these things. No,

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Speaker 2: put on spot?

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Speaker 1: Please.

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Speaker 4: The mess you can do is be honest.

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Speaker 1: No, I'm not gonna be honest. You're kidding me. I

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Speaker 1: would I would never answer that question, no matter what it.

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Speaker 4: Meant, like if you remember them or not? You still

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Speaker 4: say you do you don't?

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Speaker 1: Yes, yeah, I played as long as I can. I'm like, oh,

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Speaker 1: that's right. From the where was that? It's been a

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Speaker 1: long time, right? Yeah? Somehow try and get there anyway.

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Speaker 1: Good morning morning, good we got sunshine, partly sunny again,

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Speaker 1: high in the low eighties. Now, cisany Tanya Rosa Lea

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Speaker 1: tickets every hour this morning. It's exciting.

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Speaker 4: Is such a vibe, that's going to be such a

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Speaker 4: good show.

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Speaker 1: So we got those for you. Hooking that up also

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Speaker 1: Lego Land tickets.

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Speaker 2: And if the dating apps are not working for you, Mikayla, Hi,

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Speaker 2: could it be your name?

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Speaker 1: Do we have to change your name from Mikayla to

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Speaker 1: something else? Could be we maybe changing it? Oh, I

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Speaker 1: want to get in so she can get a date.

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Speaker 5: No, no, no, no, no, I understand that, but I want

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Speaker 5: to know why the names could be an issue.

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Speaker 2: I mean, look, I've done this before, but I've gotten

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Speaker 2: into a place in my life where I cannot have

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Speaker 2: chaos in my car, Like things need to be organized,

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Speaker 2: like a water bottle rolling around will really distract me.

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Speaker 2: But there was a time where I would leave food

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Speaker 1: I would just I need something.

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Speaker 2: I'd be driving and wrap it up in the little

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Speaker 2: it there and it would smell and it would not

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Speaker 2: be great. There was a time, and then I got

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Speaker 2: past that time. But do you anybody here leave food?

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Speaker 2: Do you have anybody have food on the floorboard? Of

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Speaker 4: Not in the driver's seat.

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Speaker 5: It's the it's the back row because I got you know,

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Speaker 5: there's pretzel crumbs, there's just you know, if they had

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Speaker 5: pirates booty. Like I'm like, don't leave the bag in

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Speaker 2: You should be comfortable because most people I was reading,

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Speaker 2: most people do have either old food on the floorboard,

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Speaker 5: Yoh yeah, the kids sweaters, Oh my gosh, they're anxiety

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Speaker 1: A slipper, yeah, stuff that just gets It's just and

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Speaker 2: So we do not clean our cars out like we

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Speaker 5: And when I do, gosh, it feels so nice, like

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Speaker 1: You come with me. You can only carry on one item.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, I know that right.

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Speaker 2: It's one item because if you bring on all that

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Speaker 2: other stuff. Then I'm for sure to have that stuff

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Speaker 1: But most people have all that stuff on their floorboard.

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Speaker 1: What what taco? What burger? What fries? Smell? Oh yeah,

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Speaker 1: he's on your It's so right.

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Speaker 5: A French fry can like live for years in your

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Speaker 2: Cereal stains, chips, fruit stains. You are in the norm,

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Speaker 2: all right. So let's go back to Sophia. She is

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Speaker 2: a is somebody sophomore junior? What are you now?

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Speaker 6: I'm a junior junior?

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Speaker 1: Junior? Now at what's that school? You see? He is

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Speaker 4: Yes?

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Speaker 6: You see Riverside?

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Speaker 1: I got it? Well, I got lolled over there? Where

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Speaker 6: Kelsey north Rich?

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Speaker 1: It's a lot to keep up with you too? In

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Speaker 2: So burnout at twenty one, like burnout is something that

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Speaker 2: people talk about when they get their jobs.

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Speaker 1: A lot.

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Speaker 2: You get your job, it's a routine that's mundane. You

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Speaker 2: to be burnt out at twenty one, that's early? So

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Speaker 2: what's burning you out?

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Speaker 6: I think it's just school in general.

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Speaker 7: We're getting to the halfway point of the quarter, and

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Speaker 7: every time we get here, it's just kind of so

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Speaker 6: So I don't know, I'm feeling kind of demotivated.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so you probably don't want to hear from me

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Speaker 2: because I got there and just quit. I had the burnout,

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Speaker 2: So I probably shouldn't give you Guys, are there things

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Speaker 2: that you can do? Like the students talk about things

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Speaker 2: that can break the burnout, like stuff you can do.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, So I've been trying to find like new ways

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Speaker 7: and doing research of what's going to work, and I

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Speaker 7: found that these could help. So finding a new study

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Speaker 7: spot that you've never tried before. So I usually go

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Speaker 7: recently I've been going to a cute coffee shop and

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Speaker 5: So that's that's interesting. It like it resets your mindset

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Speaker 7: Okay, it's like a change of scenery. And then also

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Speaker 7: I've been studying in groups, which usually I just talk

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Speaker 1: You put your headphones and listen to music.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, but like as long as you're with somebody that

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Speaker 4: It's like a support system.

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Speaker 2: My brain will not let me memorize if music is

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Speaker 2: going into my ears.

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Speaker 1: Oh, I really can't do it. Yeah, I tried.

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Speaker 2: I can't read a book with music. I can't listen

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Speaker 2: to I can't. I can't either it's weird.

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Speaker 1: Or the TVs on.

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Speaker 4: I have to pause it, like I need even in.

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Speaker 2: The car, if I need to think of something, I

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Speaker 4: That's so interesting.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I'm the completely opposite.

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Speaker 2: Same if you're being burnt out. Now this is the

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Speaker 2: first of many. Now, like, how old are you?

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Speaker 6: I'm nineteen.

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Speaker 1: Are you burnt out? You cannot be burnt out?

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Speaker 4: School's hard.

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Speaker 1: Are you studying?

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Speaker 6: I'm in communications?

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Speaker 1: Well that's fitting here we are, I know, communicating.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I'm really really.

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Speaker 1: But but is it a big load you're taking?

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Speaker 6: Honestly, No, I'm not.

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Speaker 1: I'm not talking back to you, Sophia, she can't relate.

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Speaker 2: All right, what's what's the number one thing you think

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Speaker 7: I think, just take time to myself and take time

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Speaker 7: hang out with friends, go shopping, get a coffee, just

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's not gonna work. Good luck. It's gonna be

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Speaker 1: good for your mental health. I don't think that's gonna

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Speaker 1: help so much. All right. You see, have you been

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Speaker 2: No, if you're, if you're, we're not burned out because

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Speaker 2: we actually get to do what we love, right, I

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Speaker 2: guess we like it. So you'll get there, Get through

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Speaker 2: this class, get through that decolonizing Film cinema class, and

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Speaker 2: you get there, all right.

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Speaker 1: Coming up next, the most attractive names. MICHAELA.

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Speaker 2: You may have to change your name to get traction

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Speaker 2: on a dating app. Kim So, I got a quote

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Speaker 2: of the day, and if you're on a dating app

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Speaker 2: and it's not going well, it could be your name.

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Speaker 2: They really are pushing this, the most attractive names for

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Speaker 2: men and women. They put these out, and they did,

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Speaker 2: they put these out. These these names get more tractions.

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Speaker 2: So Michayla, see how they sound to you. Alex Daniel, Lucas, Carlos, James.

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Speaker 2: Those are the male names to get the most traction

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Speaker 2: on any of the dating apps.

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Speaker 6: Okay, the way, I don't think.

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Speaker 4: Lucas.

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Speaker 1: I will agree with Tanya.

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Speaker 2: I try to avoid meeting anyone named Lucas because they're

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Speaker 2: always super hot.

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Speaker 4: But like Daniel doesn't do anything for me.

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Speaker 2: Well, here are the women. Carlos the most swipes. These

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Speaker 2: women names get the most swipes. Whatever you do on

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Speaker 2: those things on dating apps. Maria, Laura, Anna, Sarah, and.

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Speaker 4: Sophia, they all ends.

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Speaker 1: Is that true, Sophia, Yeah, it is true. You know what, Tony,

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Speaker 1: I want to I want to be Lucas some days too.

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Speaker 5: I know.

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Speaker 4: Lucas, I could picture him as a Lucas.

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Speaker 2: So people pleasing is exhausting. It takes stuff from you. However,

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Speaker 2: It's a reason I don't have you guys over too much,

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Speaker 4: That's the reason.

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Speaker 8: And I feel like a lot of people are people pleasers.

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Speaker 2: I don't I've battled with this for a long time,

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Speaker 1: This is not a bad one.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, this is a league.

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Speaker 2: But it is exhausting in a way. But it's also

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Speaker 8: Yeah, Like if I think somebody's upset with me, I

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Speaker 1: Yeah, And I don't like that.

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Speaker 2: Well, you can fix that. You have a therapist, I think,

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Speaker 4: It's a hard thing to fix.

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Speaker 2: But of all the things to cause anxiety, this is

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Speaker 1: Okay, perfect a neo kiss that that all right?

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Speaker 2: So we often talk about when you meet someone red

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Speaker 1: I don't know?

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Speaker 2: Maybe so Mikaela Jordan single people, right, let's hit that's all.

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Speaker 2: We got three of us. Well, let's what is poppin'.

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Speaker 4: It's the question.

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Speaker 5: I think it's a red flag, Like, well, you don't

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Speaker 2: Look, if you have an issue, then that's a green flag.

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Speaker 2: I can't date someone that doesn't want to have something

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Speaker 4: No, not initially, but if O come on.

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Speaker 5: But I don't know. I just feel like nowadays everyone's

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Speaker 2: Yeah, maybe it's because I would feel bad about me.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, interesting, next one red flag, green flag? Single people here?

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Speaker 2: They don't know pop culture, never heard of heated rivalry.

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Speaker 2: I don't care. That's I don't care. That is not

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Speaker 10: That's a red flag for me. I feel like my

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Speaker 2: No, yeah, I want to need someone that doesn't know

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Speaker 4: Not talk about what I think that makes you a

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Speaker 1: I'm get tapped in. No, I do it all day

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Speaker 2: I do not need my partner to be talking about

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Speaker 6: Oh my gosh.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, let's watch the clips on TikTok.

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Speaker 4: I did the guy once.

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Speaker 8: I didn't have a television and that was crazy business.

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Speaker 2: See, that would not bother me. And if I'm on TV,

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Speaker 2: I think that's so cool.

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Speaker 4: Oh no, that's a red flag.

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Speaker 10: But like I love watching movies and TV shows, you know.

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Speaker 1: Maybe a peron red, red, red flag, green flag? All right?

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Speaker 4: Turn my mic off.

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Speaker 1: They prefer staying in over going out. Red or green.

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Speaker 10: Oh I feel like that's it's a red flag at first,

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Speaker 1: Hiding? Why do you want to go out with you? No,

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Speaker 1: they want the quality time with you. They don't need

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Speaker 4: Flag, I say red.

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Speaker 5: I've been on that side of the tracks, Like you

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Speaker 4: It's not looking cute.

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Speaker 1: Really, that's all I want is to get too comfortable and.

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Speaker 4: You can't be in your sweatpants like on the first day.

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Speaker 2: I want to be in my so bad. All right,

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Speaker 2: Well that was interesting. We had opposite opinions and that's

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Speaker 4: All right, let it out.

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Speaker 2: No, that was just me being honest. Now coming on

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Speaker 2: the tickets to Lego Land. We have a four packs.

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Speaker 2: That means Jordan, you can go alone and I can

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Speaker 2: go alone. And with Calean we can bring one more

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Speaker 1: Kiss.

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Speaker 2: We're gonna play this game called which city has more

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Speaker 1: And I got Freddy on the line. Hi, Freddy, Hey,

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Speaker 1: how you doing?

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Speaker 11: Ryan?

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Speaker 1: How you doing? I'm good man? She shock talking to you.

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Speaker 12: Man, I always I see you.

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Speaker 11: And I hear you. Man, I never talked to you.

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Speaker 1: And here we are. So what are you up to today?

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Speaker 11: Well, I'm on the road right now.

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Speaker 12: I'm driving, got.

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Speaker 1: Uh semi eighteen eighteen. Yes, sir, you got a cab

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Speaker 2: Okay, I got you here, Okay, I understood. All right,

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Speaker 2: Well focus here. We're gonna play a little game for

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Speaker 2: Lego Land tickets. It's called which city has more?

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Speaker 1: Which city has more?

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna give you a chain of stores and two cities.

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Speaker 2: You tell me which has more. So today's chain is Starbucks.

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Speaker 1: All right, Starbucks, you gotta get three rights before you

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Speaker 2: Which city has more Starbucks? Pasadena or Long Beach Pasadena?

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, that's wrong. Actually no, they're nineteen. Long Beach

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Speaker 2: is twenty one, all right. Whittier or Downy, Which city

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Speaker 1: Tough, Wittier, that is correct. Eleven you got nice? Next

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Speaker 1: Weaverside or Burbank, which has more Starbucks. I gotta go

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Speaker 1: a Burbank, bigger, No, no, a now focused two more,

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Speaker 1: gotta get these.

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Speaker 2: Freddy driving his eighteen wheel a red now through Upland,

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Speaker 2: Pacoima or La Puente, which has more Starbucks? I would

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Speaker 2: say the other one. Oh yeah, that's it, you got it.

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Speaker 2: You got three to five. Okay, Now for the win, Freddy.

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Speaker 2: City in southern California has more Starbucks? Anaheim or Santa Monica.

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Speaker 11: It should be an.

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Speaker 1: Starbucks. Congratulations, you're going to Lego Land, Freddy. Appreciate me. Hey, Sysneya,

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Speaker 1: I love you guys.

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Speaker 11: You guys, have a good day. Appreciate you guys.

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Speaker 2: You anybody, thank you for listening to us. Enjoy Lego

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Speaker 2: Land and drive safely, buddy.

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Speaker 1: The kids will appreciate it, all right. I love those

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Speaker 1: cabs and eighteen wheelers. So they got the beds in

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Speaker 1: the back and stuff.

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Speaker 4: You go in one.

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Speaker 2: Usually I don't go in one, but I want you

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Speaker 2: and wan andvite me into.

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Speaker 4: One, I can get a tour. See what it's like.

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Speaker 1: So sick, right, you used to pull over a crash

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Speaker 1: look like they have other things in there. I don't

446
00:20:12,920 --> 00:20:17,520
Speaker 1: know what else, teruble bunks.

447
00:20:16,240 --> 00:20:24,359
Speaker 9: Anyway, Kilottie folded on air with Ryan Seacrest.

448
00:20:25,040 --> 00:20:26,720
Speaker 1: So let's talk about this, Sophia.

449
00:20:26,760 --> 00:20:29,880
Speaker 2: You have roommates that will borrow your clothes and you're

450
00:20:29,880 --> 00:20:32,320
Speaker 2: fine with that, but they don't give them back timely.

451
00:20:33,400 --> 00:20:33,640
Speaker 11: Yeah.

452
00:20:33,680 --> 00:20:36,439
Speaker 7: Well, one of my friends, every single time we go

453
00:20:36,520 --> 00:20:38,160
Speaker 7: out or we go to an event or something like that,

454
00:20:38,240 --> 00:20:41,159
Speaker 7: she comes over and just immediately starts looking through my

455
00:20:41,160 --> 00:20:44,800
Speaker 7: closet without asking, without asking, She's just like, okay, I'll

456
00:20:44,840 --> 00:20:46,960
Speaker 7: just help myself, and you know, she goes, she finds

457
00:20:46,960 --> 00:20:49,440
Speaker 7: a cute shirt, she finds maybe a skirt, like.

458
00:20:49,480 --> 00:20:50,320
Speaker 6: Head to toe.

459
00:20:50,359 --> 00:20:54,520
Speaker 7: She's in my clothes right and I'm like, okay, Like

460
00:20:55,119 --> 00:20:56,400
Speaker 7: she's my friend, I'm gonna.

461
00:20:56,200 --> 00:20:56,679
Speaker 6: Let her do it.

462
00:20:57,840 --> 00:21:01,520
Speaker 7: If I was to see the close again, but she

463
00:21:01,640 --> 00:21:04,520
Speaker 7: takes them home and I never see them again.

464
00:21:05,160 --> 00:21:08,640
Speaker 2: Okay, so first of all, you need to have boundaries

465
00:21:08,920 --> 00:21:11,159
Speaker 2: with your room and your drawers. They cannot feel so

466
00:21:11,200 --> 00:21:13,440
Speaker 2: comfortable they can just walk in and take your things.

467
00:21:13,800 --> 00:21:15,080
Speaker 1: Now this is common.

468
00:21:15,200 --> 00:21:17,600
Speaker 2: I have a friend maybe I dated her, and she

469
00:21:18,359 --> 00:21:20,960
Speaker 2: had a log because the same.

470
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Speaker 1: Thing would happen to her.

471
00:21:21,840 --> 00:21:25,240
Speaker 2: Her roommates would borrow her clothes and they would not

472
00:21:25,400 --> 00:21:28,920
Speaker 2: come back for a long time. They would actually keep them,

473
00:21:28,960 --> 00:21:30,960
Speaker 2: clean them and reuse them again.

474
00:21:31,240 --> 00:21:33,439
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, oh yeah, different events.

475
00:21:34,240 --> 00:21:36,840
Speaker 2: So she keeps a log and she has a Nest

476
00:21:36,880 --> 00:21:40,440
Speaker 2: camera in her room. Wow, so she catches them if

477
00:21:40,440 --> 00:21:42,439
Speaker 2: they come in and take anything, It's fantastic.

478
00:21:43,000 --> 00:21:45,680
Speaker 1: I will gift you one of these cameras. Then they're

479
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Speaker 1: on camera.

480
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Speaker 2: And you also just have to say, like the expectation,

481
00:21:48,520 --> 00:21:50,560
Speaker 2: you can borrow that, but I need it back by

482
00:21:50,720 --> 00:21:53,400
Speaker 2: Wednesday and it needs to be cleaned, like.

483
00:21:54,640 --> 00:21:57,119
Speaker 8: Yeah, or just ask for it back. Like I borrowed

484
00:21:57,119 --> 00:21:59,320
Speaker 8: a dress from Beecca like a year ago and she

485
00:21:59,440 --> 00:22:01,240
Speaker 8: needed it for some event this week and she's like,

486
00:22:01,280 --> 00:22:02,919
Speaker 8: do you still have my blong black dress? And I

487
00:22:02,920 --> 00:22:05,800
Speaker 8: was like, oh yeah, shoot, sorry, and I gave it

488
00:22:05,840 --> 00:22:06,920
Speaker 8: back to her, but you.

489
00:22:06,920 --> 00:22:08,800
Speaker 2: Really forgot you borrowed her dress and had it in

490
00:22:08,880 --> 00:22:10,280
Speaker 2: your closet because I drank.

491
00:22:10,200 --> 00:22:11,760
Speaker 8: Like I got it cleaned and then I put it

492
00:22:11,800 --> 00:22:14,919
Speaker 8: back in my closet and just just forgot, Like I

493
00:22:14,960 --> 00:22:16,439
Speaker 8: still have a dress that I borrowed from.

494
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Speaker 4: A friend for jingle ball.

495
00:22:17,960 --> 00:22:20,840
Speaker 8: I don't even know what jingle you're this person, I

496
00:22:20,880 --> 00:22:21,639
Speaker 8: am this person.

497
00:22:23,080 --> 00:22:25,879
Speaker 2: Please say, Mark, you and I have never had a

498
00:22:25,880 --> 00:22:28,040
Speaker 2: conversation like this in our lives. I don't think I've

499
00:22:28,040 --> 00:22:31,160
Speaker 2: ever bought anything from you or anybody. I've never said

500
00:22:31,200 --> 00:22:34,120
Speaker 2: to another guy, brow brow that flannel.

501
00:22:34,240 --> 00:22:36,600
Speaker 1: No, really, this is something.

502
00:22:36,440 --> 00:22:37,640
Speaker 4: That girls do, Like I know.

503
00:22:37,960 --> 00:22:39,720
Speaker 5: I know if my friend Taja is going to borrow

504
00:22:39,760 --> 00:22:42,320
Speaker 5: anything from me, it's like goodbye, I'll never see that again.

505
00:22:42,400 --> 00:22:44,200
Speaker 4: It's fine, I've parted ways with it.

506
00:22:44,280 --> 00:22:47,480
Speaker 2: Whatever, keep a log. So if you keep a log,

507
00:22:47,520 --> 00:22:51,000
Speaker 2: I'm telling you all right, Mark. I also I look

508
00:22:51,040 --> 00:22:57,040
Speaker 2: at your clothes and think, no one minute Rose tickets.

509
00:22:57,040 --> 00:23:01,600
Speaker 2: It's good Gray Sky Kiss FM, great silent treatment. So

510
00:23:02,240 --> 00:23:04,160
Speaker 2: usually I'm pretty up on the dating trends.

511
00:23:04,200 --> 00:23:06,840
Speaker 1: MICHAELA. Have you ordered this dating trend called clear coding?

512
00:23:07,040 --> 00:23:07,480
Speaker 3: I have?

513
00:23:09,800 --> 00:23:14,040
Speaker 1: Who else has sing it Jordan. Have you heard of this? Uh?

514
00:23:14,240 --> 00:23:14,919
Speaker 4: No, I have not.

515
00:23:15,320 --> 00:23:18,639
Speaker 1: Okay, we're about to learn about this.

516
00:23:18,720 --> 00:23:22,000
Speaker 2: So it's a dating trend called clear coding, and it

517
00:23:22,040 --> 00:23:24,760
Speaker 2: has to do with just being upfront and transparents.

518
00:23:24,960 --> 00:23:28,200
Speaker 5: Yes, it's about putting your actual intentions out there, whether

519
00:23:28,280 --> 00:23:30,880
Speaker 5: you want a serious relation chip right out the gate,

520
00:23:31,080 --> 00:23:33,600
Speaker 5: or if you want something casual, like you say it

521
00:23:33,640 --> 00:23:35,840
Speaker 5: like you could either put it like some people are

522
00:23:35,880 --> 00:23:37,560
Speaker 5: taking it the step to just putting it in their

523
00:23:37,600 --> 00:23:41,800
Speaker 5: bio on dating apps and being very direct like I'm

524
00:23:41,920 --> 00:23:45,120
Speaker 5: casually dating or I really want a serious relationship. Basically,

525
00:23:45,160 --> 00:23:46,919
Speaker 5: don't come at me if you're not going to be

526
00:23:46,920 --> 00:23:49,679
Speaker 5: one of these, or you just bring it up on

527
00:23:49,880 --> 00:23:52,640
Speaker 5: your first date like you lay down. I won't say

528
00:23:52,640 --> 00:23:54,320
Speaker 5: the rules, but like you kind of lay down your

529
00:23:54,320 --> 00:23:56,960
Speaker 5: intentions on that first date. So there's no wishy washy

530
00:23:57,040 --> 00:23:58,880
Speaker 5: like oh should I wait three hours to text back

531
00:23:59,000 --> 00:23:59,520
Speaker 5: or like this.

532
00:23:59,480 --> 00:24:03,320
Speaker 4: That the gray area for lack of a better word

533
00:24:03,400 --> 00:24:03,760
Speaker 4: or term.

534
00:24:04,720 --> 00:24:06,919
Speaker 2: Got the confidence to do it, and you're in that

535
00:24:06,960 --> 00:24:07,840
Speaker 2: space to do it.

536
00:24:07,840 --> 00:24:10,800
Speaker 1: It is great. It's time saver, traffic. You save time.

537
00:24:11,480 --> 00:24:15,760
Speaker 1: People are very clear, you know, I mean, I've like

538
00:24:16,240 --> 00:24:18,320
Speaker 1: I could say that I could where do I put

539
00:24:18,320 --> 00:24:22,280
Speaker 1: this on my.

540
00:24:21,240 --> 00:24:23,800
Speaker 4: I can make a profile for you on a dating app.

541
00:24:23,840 --> 00:24:25,320
Speaker 4: That would be so good.

542
00:24:25,080 --> 00:24:28,720
Speaker 2: I would like to not date around, like to meet

543
00:24:28,720 --> 00:24:30,320
Speaker 2: somebody that's like going to be the partner.

544
00:24:30,359 --> 00:24:32,520
Speaker 1: You know, you go put it up there.

545
00:24:32,320 --> 00:24:35,160
Speaker 5: There is no up there. You're not on the dating app.

546
00:24:35,400 --> 00:24:39,119
Speaker 1: Well, this is it. I'm telling you out loud.

547
00:24:39,160 --> 00:24:42,280
Speaker 2: I think this is great. Be upfront, be transparent, don't

548
00:24:42,440 --> 00:24:49,960
Speaker 2: waste time. Exactly, fantastic trend of dating track. Ashley Hawthorne,

549
00:24:49,960 --> 00:24:54,960
Speaker 2: Good morning, Good morning. So you are calling your mother

550
00:24:55,040 --> 00:24:59,119
Speaker 2: in law got you insulting socks?

551
00:24:59,200 --> 00:25:00,919
Speaker 1: Is that the issue?

552
00:25:01,280 --> 00:25:08,560
Speaker 11: Yeah? I know, I no, And I know maybe I'm

553
00:25:08,560 --> 00:25:11,760
Speaker 11: being too sensitive or if like maybe maybe I'm being

554
00:25:11,800 --> 00:25:13,880
Speaker 11: too sensitive, maybe this is actually weird. I just need

555
00:25:14,720 --> 00:25:17,760
Speaker 11: your advice. But so, my mother in law got me

556
00:25:17,800 --> 00:25:20,400
Speaker 11: these socks for my birthday and they have all these

557
00:25:20,440 --> 00:25:25,200
Speaker 11: funny sayings on them, but I don't know the sayings,

558
00:25:25,240 --> 00:25:27,040
Speaker 11: just like don't feel very funny to me. And they

559
00:25:27,040 --> 00:25:34,200
Speaker 11: say things like currently overthinking or easily annoyed, or work

560
00:25:34,240 --> 00:25:40,399
Speaker 11: in progress and hide maintenance and yeah yeah, And everyone

561
00:25:40,440 --> 00:25:42,840
Speaker 11: laughed when I opened them, including her, and she said, it's.

562
00:25:42,640 --> 00:25:43,120
Speaker 1: Just a joke.

563
00:25:43,520 --> 00:25:46,280
Speaker 11: Which like if we had a really good relationship, that

564
00:25:46,320 --> 00:25:49,080
Speaker 11: would make sense to me, I guess, but I already

565
00:25:49,080 --> 00:25:51,360
Speaker 11: feel like she doesn't like me. So it just didn't

566
00:25:51,440 --> 00:25:56,080
Speaker 11: feel playful at all. It felt like really pointed and

567
00:25:56,200 --> 00:25:57,880
Speaker 11: like she was like describing me and not just giving

568
00:25:57,880 --> 00:26:01,080
Speaker 11: me socks. And so I'm torn. I'm in this place

569
00:26:01,119 --> 00:26:02,840
Speaker 11: where I'm like, do I just laugh it off? Let

570
00:26:02,880 --> 00:26:03,159
Speaker 11: it go?

571
00:26:03,800 --> 00:26:08,280
Speaker 4: Is this something that, yes, what are you gonna try

572
00:26:08,280 --> 00:26:08,760
Speaker 4: to get into this?

573
00:26:09,560 --> 00:26:09,600
Speaker 11: No?

574
00:26:09,760 --> 00:26:13,120
Speaker 2: I think she's actually showing a sense of humor with

575
00:26:13,160 --> 00:26:16,520
Speaker 2: all of this. I think she's actually making an effort

576
00:26:16,920 --> 00:26:19,240
Speaker 2: with all of this to be to have some levity,

577
00:26:19,320 --> 00:26:21,480
Speaker 2: to have some fun, to be a bit clever. I

578
00:26:21,520 --> 00:26:23,440
Speaker 2: don't think this is you don't push back on this.

579
00:26:23,520 --> 00:26:25,920
Speaker 1: I would not. What good is pushed back on this?

580
00:26:26,560 --> 00:26:27,200
Speaker 1: Zero good?

581
00:26:27,880 --> 00:26:31,600
Speaker 2: Let her think you think they're so adorably cute and

582
00:26:31,680 --> 00:26:33,880
Speaker 2: funny that she likes you more.

583
00:26:34,080 --> 00:26:35,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's so easy.

584
00:26:36,200 --> 00:26:38,600
Speaker 4: It's like where I wish I had a mother in law.

585
00:26:39,880 --> 00:26:43,800
Speaker 1: Oh, I mean in this call or in this call.

586
00:26:45,840 --> 00:26:49,600
Speaker 1: So actually, let it be a breakthrough moment where you

587
00:26:50,119 --> 00:26:54,240
Speaker 1: get closer to her. You see, it's an opportunity.

588
00:26:54,680 --> 00:26:58,000
Speaker 11: It's true versus like having my husband, Like you think

589
00:26:58,040 --> 00:27:00,159
Speaker 11: if I had my husband gently say something to her that,

590
00:27:00,240 --> 00:27:03,440
Speaker 11: like my feelings, it is the wrong direction.

591
00:27:03,560 --> 00:27:06,400
Speaker 1: That's only going to cause more tension in the relationship.

592
00:27:07,040 --> 00:27:12,160
Speaker 1: Bad idea. Don't do that. Accept this and use this

593
00:27:12,359 --> 00:27:14,760
Speaker 1: as a way to charm her a little bit.

594
00:27:14,880 --> 00:27:16,480
Speaker 5: Yes, and the next time you see her where the

595
00:27:16,560 --> 00:27:18,719
Speaker 5: socks show her like at my fucks got them?

596
00:27:19,240 --> 00:27:21,000
Speaker 1: Trust, trust and trust.

597
00:27:23,320 --> 00:27:25,040
Speaker 11: I also like, don't really want to be wearing socks

598
00:27:25,040 --> 00:27:26,840
Speaker 11: that say like overthinking is my cardio.

599
00:27:27,080 --> 00:27:30,560
Speaker 2: You know, I just make it peaceful with your mother

600
00:27:30,640 --> 00:27:37,520
Speaker 2: in law. It's so easy. Good luck, Ashley perfect. She

601
00:27:37,600 --> 00:27:40,200
Speaker 2: did not want to hear that. No, she did not no,

602
00:27:40,320 --> 00:27:42,640
Speaker 2: But that's exactly what you should do. Use it as

603
00:27:42,680 --> 00:27:45,560
Speaker 2: an opportunity to leverage closeness.

604
00:27:45,640 --> 00:27:48,720
Speaker 9: On air with Ryan Seacrest.

605
00:27:51,440 --> 00:27:56,320
Speaker 2: A right concept them secrets here, Rosalie tickets in a second.

606
00:27:56,400 --> 00:27:58,040
Speaker 2: You know this happens to me all the time. I

607
00:27:58,080 --> 00:28:01,119
Speaker 2: test my gas gauge when it tells me I'm out,

608
00:28:01,640 --> 00:28:03,840
Speaker 2: I keep driving because I think it's not telling me

609
00:28:03,880 --> 00:28:04,840
Speaker 2: the actual truth.

610
00:28:05,200 --> 00:28:06,120
Speaker 1: I think there's more there.

611
00:28:06,200 --> 00:28:07,480
Speaker 2: The problem is I don't want to risk it so

612
00:28:07,600 --> 00:28:10,080
Speaker 2: much that I find out how much is left when

613
00:28:10,119 --> 00:28:11,359
Speaker 2: it says there is none left.

614
00:28:11,240 --> 00:28:13,000
Speaker 1: But there is some left. There is something.

615
00:28:14,000 --> 00:28:16,359
Speaker 2: I don't want to always be that person. I should

616
00:28:16,440 --> 00:28:18,640
Speaker 2: fill it up when it gets red. But I kind

617
00:28:18,640 --> 00:28:20,879
Speaker 2: of like this game of like you're gonna tell me

618
00:28:20,920 --> 00:28:21,720
Speaker 2: it's empty, but it's not.

619
00:28:22,640 --> 00:28:24,639
Speaker 1: But how not can it be if I keep driving?

620
00:28:25,000 --> 00:28:27,720
Speaker 2: So two types of people, those who fill it up

621
00:28:27,800 --> 00:28:30,480
Speaker 2: on a regular they're very prudent about it.

622
00:28:31,000 --> 00:28:33,040
Speaker 1: And those of us that play the game Ruby you

623
00:28:33,080 --> 00:28:35,120
Speaker 1: play the game right, a game with your gas.

624
00:28:35,359 --> 00:28:37,040
Speaker 13: You live to play the game. And I'm like, why

625
00:28:37,080 --> 00:28:40,240
Speaker 13: am I like this? Like what made me this kind

626
00:28:40,280 --> 00:28:43,600
Speaker 13: of person? Where I literally like love to play the game.

627
00:28:43,640 --> 00:28:45,800
Speaker 13: It is a literal game to me. I'm like, I

628
00:28:45,840 --> 00:28:48,360
Speaker 13: can do it. I see I have twenty miles, okay, cool,

629
00:28:48,600 --> 00:28:51,560
Speaker 13: ten miles one mile. I did it yesterday on my

630
00:28:51,600 --> 00:28:53,200
Speaker 13: way into work, and I was like, I have five

631
00:28:53,240 --> 00:28:53,920
Speaker 13: miles left.

632
00:28:54,000 --> 00:28:54,840
Speaker 4: I will make it.

633
00:28:54,960 --> 00:28:55,720
Speaker 9: Yeah, I.

634
00:28:57,320 --> 00:29:00,400
Speaker 2: Think I do it in hopes someone will just need

635
00:29:00,480 --> 00:29:03,200
Speaker 2: to use my car and then see that it needs

636
00:29:03,240 --> 00:29:03,640
Speaker 2: build up.

637
00:29:04,680 --> 00:29:05,480
Speaker 4: That's my move.

638
00:29:06,320 --> 00:29:08,840
Speaker 2: I just want to find someone, you know, I'll invite

639
00:29:08,880 --> 00:29:10,000
Speaker 2: people over to stay overnight.

640
00:29:10,000 --> 00:29:11,560
Speaker 1: Oh you don't borrow my card more morning.

641
00:29:13,080 --> 00:29:14,160
Speaker 6: Miller up exactly.

642
00:29:15,640 --> 00:29:18,520
Speaker 2: But then like, my mother is so diligent about it.

643
00:29:18,560 --> 00:29:21,400
Speaker 2: You know, if it gets down to a quarter left,

644
00:29:21,760 --> 00:29:23,080
Speaker 2: she's got to stop, my mom.

645
00:29:23,080 --> 00:29:25,120
Speaker 1: We do not have to stop right now. Yes, Ryan,

646
00:29:25,200 --> 00:29:25,440
Speaker 1: we do.

647
00:29:25,720 --> 00:29:29,840
Speaker 4: That's Michael. That's me too. I let it ride down

648
00:29:29,880 --> 00:29:31,960
Speaker 4: to the one mile and I'm like, okay, windows.

649
00:29:31,600 --> 00:29:35,600
Speaker 5: Down, hasty, just roll, don't gas so hard.

650
00:29:35,680 --> 00:29:36,280
Speaker 6: We're good.

651
00:29:36,320 --> 00:29:37,840
Speaker 4: We're good recruising gas.

652
00:29:38,360 --> 00:29:40,720
Speaker 2: It's a hassle. It's not a fun thing to do it.

653
00:29:41,080 --> 00:29:42,800
Speaker 2: When has it ever been fun? The one that finds

654
00:29:42,840 --> 00:29:43,640
Speaker 2: the store inside.

655
00:29:43,680 --> 00:29:47,560
Speaker 1: It's like a chore, all right, two types of people.

656
00:29:49,240 --> 00:29:51,760
Speaker 2: So you know, the IR radio app has the red

657
00:29:51,800 --> 00:29:54,840
Speaker 2: microphone inside of it. You can send us talkbacks basically

658
00:29:55,200 --> 00:29:58,440
Speaker 2: voice notes. And Sophia, our intern, you were telling us

659
00:29:58,840 --> 00:30:01,400
Speaker 2: about a currig machine right for you and your roommates.

660
00:30:01,640 --> 00:30:03,160
Speaker 6: Yes, I did, with.

661
00:30:03,200 --> 00:30:06,000
Speaker 2: The understanding that they would buy the cups, you'd buy

662
00:30:06,000 --> 00:30:06,600
Speaker 2: the machine.

663
00:30:06,920 --> 00:30:08,400
Speaker 1: Three weeks they bought no cups.

664
00:30:08,480 --> 00:30:11,880
Speaker 2: It's been all you, Kim and Laguna Beach is upset

665
00:30:11,920 --> 00:30:12,680
Speaker 2: with your roommates.

666
00:30:12,800 --> 00:30:17,240
Speaker 3: Hi, this is Kim again here in Laguna and Miguel Tanya.

667
00:30:17,240 --> 00:30:19,040
Speaker 3: I'm not bagging on you this time, and I'm not

668
00:30:19,080 --> 00:30:23,840
Speaker 3: even bagging on Sophia, but suggestion, buy a small box,

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Speaker 3: hide them in your room and make yourself a cup

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Speaker 3: of coffee while they're watching. Oh, do not share your pots.

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Speaker 3: Just my advice.

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Speaker 4: Have a great dates.

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Speaker 2: Speak like that to them is the next level. I'm

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Speaker 2: into it. I think you should.

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Speaker 1: I like it, I think I should do right.

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Speaker 2: I mean, these guys are not playing by the rules.

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Speaker 2: Tired of these roommates, tired of the boyfriend who's not

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Speaker 2: a boyfriend right now. Next, we were talking about how

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Speaker 2: hard adulting can be for all of us.

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Speaker 1: Maria in the six to sixth one here she is.

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Speaker 6: You guys are so right.

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Speaker 12: I get a dent's office, and you be surprised how

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Speaker 12: many parents for people who are like twenty six, are

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Speaker 12: still calling just to make their dentist appointments or you know,

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Speaker 12: order pizza if people get scared to order pizza, which

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Speaker 12: is crazy adulting.

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Speaker 1: It's very difficult. All our friends is gonna wrap it

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Speaker 1: up for us. Thank you for being here.

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Speaker 2: So tomorrow, Sisney Tani, it is a Ryan's roses. She

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Speaker 2: found private photos her husband took of himself, but he

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Speaker 2: never sent them to her. Who what why? Tomorrow? Don't

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Speaker 2: don't do that? Seven point forty Tomorrow morning, Kiss FM.

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Speaker 2: Sisney's got you till eleven o'clock. If you missed anything

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