Speaker 1: Second date update. One of the best parts of dating
Speaker 1: is trying out new things like activities, new activities, new foods, felonies,
Speaker 1: because you never know what unique experiences you might have
Speaker 1: and how you're gonna feel when you're with this new person.
Speaker 1: That's fine. I was jam and that's what happened with
Speaker 1: one of our listeners, Aaron, who says he went out
Speaker 1: with a new woman and she inspired him to try
Speaker 1: doing something for the very first time. Aaron, is this
Speaker 1: your first time being on a radio show?
Speaker 2: Not my first time, but conversations?
Speaker 1: Yet she's inspired you to do at least two new things.
Speaker 1: Look at you. Wow, this woman already sounds like a keeper.
Speaker 1: What's her name?
Speaker 3: Her name is Becca, Becca?
Speaker 2: I am Becca online. It was my first foray.
Speaker 3: No, really, is the first time you ever did online dating?
Speaker 2: Yeah? I was always like my dream was to find
Speaker 2: a person in person and connect. And then I was like,
Speaker 2: you know what, it's been such a struggle. Nobody wants
Speaker 2: to talk anymore in person.
Speaker 1: The internet is where people go to give up on
Speaker 1: their previous so much better. But where did you decide
Speaker 1: to go for your date?
Speaker 2: Okay, so the plan was we were supposed to just
Speaker 2: go me to the bar and have some beers and
Speaker 2: that was actually good. But then I got a little
Speaker 2: out of control.
Speaker 3: What do you mean?
Speaker 2: Yeah, so it sounds weird, but we were drinking at
Speaker 2: the bar and then I noticed at the window there
Speaker 2: was a pond shop across the streets.
Speaker 3: Okay, so you're not in a very nice neighborhood. I
Speaker 3: get it. Yess Hey, listen, I grew up hanging out
Speaker 3: at pawn shops. They are not in the nice neighborhoods.
Speaker 1: That.
Speaker 3: Yeah, so you saw the pawn shop and.
Speaker 2: What And then I was like, I've always wanted to
Speaker 2: go to those, you know, can we check it out?
Speaker 1: I've never been there, So this is the new experience
Speaker 1: that she inspired you to.
Speaker 2: Yah?
Speaker 1: Yeah, wow, oh god, it could be really romantic and
Speaker 1: magical inside.
Speaker 3: Have you ever been to a pawn shop Jeffrey.
Speaker 1: Well no, no.
Speaker 3: They all smell a little weird. They're sad places. You're
Speaker 3: desperate people.
Speaker 1: Go, Aaron, maybe you had a better experience, Aaron, what
Speaker 1: was yours?
Speaker 2: Like? Yeah, so we just walked across the street and
Speaker 2: she was down with it, and so I popped in
Speaker 2: looked around and I was like, I haven't I actually
Speaker 2: have an idea, and so I went put to my car.
Speaker 2: She waited for me, and I came back and I
Speaker 2: was like, I had this whole cookie jar in the
Speaker 2: trunk and my grandma gave me. It kind of looked valuable,
Speaker 2: so I was like, okay, let's see, so here's.
Speaker 1: A good opportunity to get rid of it and maybe
Speaker 1: make some money, just get an a value. Yeah, so
Speaker 1: you brought it in yeah.
Speaker 2: And I was like to the guy behind the counter,
Speaker 2: I was like, hey, how much for this cookie jar?
Speaker 1: And he was like nothing, See, that's they lowball you
Speaker 1: at first. Yeah, you got a there's a Civil War cookie?
Speaker 3: Like is there diamonds or guns inside of that?
Speaker 2: In the family for a bit and I was like
Speaker 2: arguing with the guy, was like, I was just joking.
Speaker 2: I was like, oh, well, what about the necklace that
Speaker 2: she's wearing, you know, and necklace that's a joke? Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, Oh.
Speaker 1: Wait, it's an obvious joke.
Speaker 3: Isn't an obvious joke?
Speaker 1: Though? What did say?
Speaker 2: I mean we're both kind of tipsy, so she kind
Speaker 2: of laughed at it. When she realized I was joking, Okay,
Speaker 2: she was like, well, actually this necklace is from her ex.
Speaker 2: So she was like, I wouldn't mind really getting rid
Speaker 2: of it.
Speaker 1: She was wearing her ex boyfriend's necklace on her first date.
Speaker 3: Choice we could just get a yea pass out. Sometimes
Speaker 3: exes give good jewelry.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm sure, okay.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it was nice enough. But so we started negotiate
Speaker 2: with the guy and then he was like, I'll give
Speaker 2: you eighty dollars for it, and she's like sure, and
Speaker 2: she got rid of it. So I was like, yo,
Speaker 2: drinking money, man?
Speaker 1: Wow, Wait, are you worry? What if it was worth
Speaker 1: a lot more than that.
Speaker 3: They're always worth a lot more than that. If they're
Speaker 3: going to give you eighty bucks.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but to get rid of an ex boyfriend's necklace,
Speaker 1: it kind of feels good to get rid of it emotion.
Speaker 1: So now you have eighty dollars to keep drinking.
Speaker 2: Yeah, we went back to the bar and we spent
Speaker 2: all eighty dollars here you go.
Speaker 3: Was she just mad that she ended up having to
Speaker 3: pay for the date then that?
Speaker 2: No, So she didn't say anything about that, Like, you know,
Speaker 2: we left the bar. We ended the night with the hugs.
Speaker 2: I decided I was like, I can't drive home because
Speaker 2: I'm not. I'm like really wasted at this point, and
Speaker 2: so I slept in the back to my car. But
Speaker 2: we got her in uber.
Speaker 1: Oh you didn't uber.
Speaker 2: Back with her.
Speaker 1: I know, I'm fine here. I'm still scross from the
Speaker 1: It's okay.
Speaker 3: It's responsible, Like I.
Speaker 2: I didn't want to leave my car there in the
Speaker 2: parking lot, and then my grandma's cooking jars in there too.
Speaker 2: You know, it's like with it not the cookie jar
Speaker 2: j like.
Speaker 3: It did your date see you sleeping in the car?
Speaker 2: I don't remember, but I know she got home safe.
Speaker 1: So okay, okay, And I've been able to keep the
Speaker 1: conversation going with her after the date.
Speaker 2: Well that's the thing. It's like, I haven't got any
Speaker 2: responses from her. I mean, she liked one of my texts,
Speaker 2: so I know she saw it.
Speaker 3: Okay, but she didn't send like great time.
Speaker 2: No, no, no.
Speaker 3: I mean maybe she regrets selling the necklace and felt
Speaker 3: like kind of pressured by you and she sobered up.
Speaker 2: Well, I mean I hope not, because I mean we
Speaker 2: had a good time doing something we've totally never done before,
Speaker 2: and I mean same with her, so you.
Speaker 1: Know, I'm like, okay, well we're going to give Becho
Speaker 1: a whole another thing she's never done before. A random
Speaker 1: fun come from a bunch of radio hosts. When we
Speaker 1: come back and do your second date update right after
Speaker 1: this second date update, you're in the middle.
Speaker 3: Of a second date update update, and we're gonna find
Speaker 3: out how the couple is doing right after you here
Speaker 3: Part two.
Speaker 1: What was supposed to be an ordinary date turned into
Speaker 1: a semi drunk episode of pond Stars.
Speaker 3: With this music.
Speaker 1: It was crazy how it happened. Because Aaron saw a
Speaker 1: pawn shop out the window of the bar that they
Speaker 1: were at. They ambled over across the street and he
Speaker 1: sold his date's necklace for beer money. Dude, I mean you.
Speaker 3: Say it in that sentence exactly.
Speaker 1: I'm not even exaggerating. And they went back to the
Speaker 1: bar and drank more with the eighty bucks that they scored,
Speaker 1: until he decided to spend the night in the back
Speaker 1: seat of his own car. God's honest truth. Any of
Speaker 1: that story up.
Speaker 2: When you recapped a date like that, it's a little creepy.
Speaker 3: No, is that creepy. It just sounds like you're from
Speaker 3: my hometown. Like all of that, it's very familiar.
Speaker 1: You're one of those friends in low places. Yeah. I
Speaker 1: mean it's not the date that you envisioned for yourself, clearly,
Speaker 1: but maybe it ended up better than you ever expected.
Speaker 1: And you said you had fun.
Speaker 2: I had great time. I would love to hear her again.
Speaker 1: I can't believe that a girl wouldn't call a guy
Speaker 1: back after he couldn't sell his own grandma's cookies.
Speaker 2: So that's what I'm talking about.
Speaker 1: All right, We're sure George Clooney did that one, and
Speaker 1: look where he is nowonaire. So that's gonna be you soon, Aaron. First,
Speaker 1: we got to get you out on another date with Becca,
Speaker 1: so we're gonna call her right now.
Speaker 2: Okay, here we go.
Speaker 1: Hello, Hey is this Becca?
Speaker 2: This is Becca?
Speaker 1: Hey Becca, what's up? You're on the morning radio show
Speaker 1: called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.
Speaker 3: Hey Becca, Bye, welcome to the show.
Speaker 4: So I'm like, I'm literally on the radio right now.
Speaker 1: Yes, you are so hop on board because it's gonna
Speaker 1: be a little bit of a bumpy ride, okay, because
Speaker 1: well it's actually what could be smooth. It could be
Speaker 1: because we're doing something called the second Date Update, and
Speaker 1: we're trying to hook you back up with a guy
Speaker 1: you went out with recently named Aaron.
Speaker 4: Oh my god, seriously.
Speaker 3: Yeah, it sounds like you guys had a fun night together.
Speaker 4: I mean it was, honestly, it was a great first date,
Speaker 4: but it kind of like led to like a kind
Speaker 4: of a bigger issue.
Speaker 1: So what kind of a thing?
Speaker 4: Well, I mean, did he tell you that we were
Speaker 4: kind of drunk and went to a pawn shop and
Speaker 4: he sold my necklace, like off my neck.
Speaker 1: On a scale of one to ten. How romantic was
Speaker 1: that to you?
Speaker 4: I mean, yeah, I mean it was all It was
Speaker 4: definitely fun. I mean, I guess I intended on calling
Speaker 4: him back, but I took an uber home after our date,
Speaker 4: and I I kind of couldn't help myself because before
Speaker 4: I parted with the necklace, I asked Aaron to take
Speaker 4: a photo of me handing over the necklace of the
Speaker 4: pawnshop guy. Yeah, exactly exactly. And anyway, while I was
Speaker 4: in the Uber, I sent that photo to my ex.
Speaker 1: A revenge photo. Y.
Speaker 3: I mean that that is a good revenge.
Speaker 1: Look look what happened to your sweet precious jewelry.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean we had broken up probably six months
Speaker 4: ago or something, and we hooked up a couple of
Speaker 4: times and then yeah, and so like I had started
Speaker 4: an online dating profile to like help me get over him,
Speaker 4: or you know, just find other options. So I didn't
Speaker 4: keep doing that. But then this, like selling the necklace
Speaker 4: was like supposed to be the nail in the coffin,
Speaker 4: like shutting the door.
Speaker 3: And that's a huge middle finger to get in your text,
Speaker 3: Like what did your ex say?
Speaker 4: Well, he didn't really say much, and I didn't. I
Speaker 4: just honestly I got home and I passed out and
Speaker 4: I didn't really care.
Speaker 3: So, okay, that's good. It does sound like you're over him.
Speaker 1: Done, Now what's the issue? What's wrong?
Speaker 4: But then the next day I woke up to my door,
Speaker 4: knock at my door, and it's my ex holding the necklace?
Speaker 3: What what? Did he go back to the pawnshop?
Speaker 4: He had done some investigative work and figured out which
Speaker 4: pawn shop it was, bought the necklace back for three
Speaker 4: hundred and twenty dollars. Oh this is how much you
Speaker 4: mean to me?
Speaker 3: Oh and he still wanted to do that.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that is really sad. Yeah, that's how men operate.
Speaker 1: We operate on sad.
Speaker 4: So not every man, not every man does that, do so,
Speaker 4: I mean, you.
Speaker 3: Hate him enough to pawn the necklace he gave you
Speaker 3: and then send it in a text like.
Speaker 4: I was drinking. I was drinking, still talking.
Speaker 3: Let's guess what happened next, or you just tell.
Speaker 4: Us we didn't hook up, if that's what you're implying.
Speaker 4: But I did invite him and we talk things over,
Speaker 4: and honestly, I mean it was so unexpected, like it
Speaker 4: was hot, Like it was hot for him to go
Speaker 4: through all that trouble and then take three hundred and
Speaker 4: twenty dollars to get it back.
Speaker 3: At that point too.
Speaker 1: You text an in vote right now seventy five nine
Speaker 1: two hot or not? He didn't spend over three hundred
Speaker 1: dollars on it, that is nice.
Speaker 3: I mean, what was it worth to begin with? Did
Speaker 3: he ever tell you?
Speaker 4: I don't know. He never told me, but it could
Speaker 4: have been more than I was something to say, hello, hello, Aaron.
Speaker 4: Is that Aaron?
Speaker 1: Yeah? That's a.
Speaker 3: I think your ex boyfriends in the back room.
Speaker 1: He's been listening on the other line this entire time,
Speaker 1: wanting to jump in.
Speaker 4: Are you serious, yeah, Aaron?
Speaker 2: Yeah, So wait, hold on, So you got back with
Speaker 2: your exes that you looked up with your exits.
Speaker 4: I did not hook up with my ax. But we
Speaker 4: have decided to I think no, I mean we want
Speaker 4: to try you know, we're trying it again. It's like,
Speaker 4: I mean, we had a fun day, and I mean,
Speaker 4: I think you're a really great guy. I was one
Speaker 4: hundred percent anticipating having a second day with you.
Speaker 2: I'm just being really honest, like this really hurts actually,
Speaker 2: like really you want to try that again instead of
Speaker 2: trying something new, like we did?
Speaker 1: You get very risky. Aaron basically teed up her ex
Speaker 1: to like, yeah, this home.
Speaker 2: Yeah I didn't. I didn't mean to do that. It
Speaker 2: just happened, you know, I mean honestly.
Speaker 3: I know, but you thought that you were ridding her
Speaker 3: of the X instead of you know what I mean,
Speaker 3: Like you're you're getting rid of the necklace. We're washing
Speaker 3: ourselves clean, We're moving forward.
Speaker 1: You were probably just asleep in your car when he
Speaker 1: was across the street.
Speaker 2: You're the good things happened. So that's what I'm saying.
Speaker 4: You're in your car.
Speaker 2: Oh I'm sorry, Oh god, Yeah, I didn't want to
Speaker 2: leave my car. Look, I didn't. He didn't. I didn't
Speaker 2: want to leave the car there and I couldn't drive home.
Speaker 2: You know drunk, I was no.
Speaker 4: I mean, I'm glad you didn't drive home, but I
Speaker 4: definitely didn't think you would sleep in your car.
Speaker 2: Look, I think I think you're great, and it's just
Speaker 2: a gesture of money. We had a great time, he
Speaker 2: just said, with money.
Speaker 1: I think that's important to keep in mind here. And
Speaker 1: also it's important to keep in mind that she hasn't
Speaker 1: hooked up with her ex boyfriend yet. So with that
Speaker 1: being said, I think I'm going to propose the two
Speaker 1: of you go out on another date, you and Aaron,
Speaker 1: and you can use it as a competition now to
Speaker 1: see who do you want to get with.
Speaker 3: More or maybe Aeron will lead you to another Rex
Speaker 3: and then you can.
Speaker 4: Good God, this has already been like kind of a
Speaker 4: shock to the system. But I mean, oh, but I
Speaker 4: think it's I feel I feel like a second date.
Speaker 4: Would that would that be awkward?
Speaker 1: I mean your new boyfriend. Yeah, only if you're wearing
Speaker 1: that necklace again, that might be a little.
Speaker 3: Longer just talking.
Speaker 2: Hey, hey, look after a couple of whiskey sours, whiskey cokes,
Speaker 2: whatever you want, we're gonna sell that thing again.
Speaker 3: Oh let's see how many times your exploit frien will buy.
Speaker 1: It that.
Speaker 2: Time.
Speaker 1: Come on, go on one more time, and we'll pay
Speaker 1: for it. Yes or no?
Speaker 4: All right, if you guys are paying for it, I
Speaker 4: will do a second date.
Speaker 1: It's a sloppy second date, just the way that we
Speaker 1: like it. We'll even throwing a free radio station blanket
Speaker 1: that the two of you can cuddle up underneath in
Speaker 1: the back seat of Aaron's car.
Speaker 4: I was going to ask if you can definitely put
Speaker 4: the uber.
Speaker 3: Built in brooking Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 1: So that call, how been six months ago? And now
Speaker 1: Aaron and Becca are both back on the phone with
Speaker 1: us for an update. Updated.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean does that mean that the X is
Speaker 3: out of the picture?
Speaker 1: I don't know. Are you so? What's going on you guys?
Speaker 1: Are you still together?
Speaker 2: You guys? Yes, we are still together.
Speaker 1: Oh my god?
Speaker 3: What wait? Are you in like a throttle situation? Or
Speaker 3: is it just you two?
Speaker 4: No?
Speaker 2: No, no, no, we're together. We're happy. But we have
Speaker 2: had a couple of challenges because that X has kept trying.
Speaker 2: He kept trying to butt in for a while.
Speaker 1: My god, now that Becca's radio famous. On the second
Speaker 1: date update, he.
Speaker 4: Basically would just show up like every couple of weeks, uh,
Speaker 4: with something that he knew that I wanted from when
Speaker 4: we were together. And yeah, I was definitely affecting Aaron
Speaker 4: and I being able to just relate with each other
Speaker 4: one on one. So I eventually had to just block
Speaker 4: my ex on on all platforms, all.
Speaker 1: Those thoughtful that he was doing.
Speaker 3: It's always the most romantic ones that end up the
Speaker 3: most creepy. I mean, it's true.
Speaker 1: But since then, your guys' relationship is good. You guys
Speaker 1: are going strong.
Speaker 2: Yes, she blocked everything. We've been great.
Speaker 4: Yeah, but what Aaron didn't tell you is that he actually, oh.
Speaker 1: God, what he proposed?
Speaker 3: Did you say proposed?
Speaker 4: Okay, but it was he was really drunk and he
Speaker 4: didn't have a ring and all this kind of stuff.
Speaker 4: I thought it was cute, but I did tell him
Speaker 4: in a more sober state, and he didn't really like
Speaker 4: recollect the whole thing. So see how it goes.
Speaker 3: So you're engaged or you're not engaged, no.
Speaker 2: Count.
Speaker 1: Everybody gets like a rehearsal run though, for that, So
Speaker 1: it's good practice.
Speaker 2: Aaron, all right down the road, it might happen because
Speaker 2: I didn't, she said, I don't remember all of it.
Speaker 2: But she said it wasn't a real ring. It was
Speaker 2: like an onion ring or something like that.
Speaker 1: I was gone, Yeah, make sure to keep us updated.
Speaker 1: Good luck you two. It's Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 4: Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.