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Speaker 1: Welcome to Dirty Rush The Truth about SERRITI Life with

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Speaker 1: your hosts me Gia Judice.

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Speaker 2: Daisy Kent, and Jennifer Fessler.

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Speaker 3: Hi, guys, welcome back to another episode of Dirty Rush.

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Speaker 3: So today I have a very special guest. Well, she's

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Speaker 3: very special, and she's also very special to me. You

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Speaker 3: guys may actually know her, But I have some guy

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Speaker 3: named Annie Sharp, and you may recognize the name and

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Speaker 3: or the face from a very popular radio show to

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Speaker 3: say the least, called Jeff Lewis Live. By the way,

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Speaker 3: you guys were broadcasting this from Vail, Colorado, where I

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Speaker 3: am spending a week with my family, And yeah it is.

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Speaker 3: It's really beautiful here, really fun. I don't ski, so

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Speaker 3: probably wasn't the vacation for me necessarily. But anyway, we

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Speaker 3: are taking a break from the break because I am

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Speaker 3: so obsessed with my little miss Annie.

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Speaker 1: No, I literally am obsessed. Every time you come on

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Speaker 1: the show and they mention you on like I love

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Speaker 1: that bitch. They always make fun of me. Do we're

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Speaker 1: like kindred spirits?

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Speaker 3: Well, I feel like Andy, like you're kind of me

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Speaker 3: at that, like at your age, I feel like I

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Speaker 3: was a lot like you. And it's so funny because

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Speaker 3: having you on dirty Rush, because I also I was

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Speaker 3: a sorority girl at a southern school, University of Texas.

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Speaker 3: You were at full Miss, right, and I was a

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Speaker 3: Texas I was an Aphi. But I think I was

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Speaker 3: the least sorority girls sorority girl ever at least that's

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Speaker 3: kind of how I felt and how I feel now,

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Speaker 3: even though I'm obsessed with everything you know sorority but

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Speaker 3: like you do not. I don't think you give sorority girl.

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Speaker 3: I don't exactly what I mean by that.

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Speaker 1: I was very defiant of the like sorority things, but

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Speaker 1: I'm like a girly girl. I like to party. I

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Speaker 1: want to put on.

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Speaker 2: Cost early girl right, but like.

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Speaker 1: The sorority girl aspect of it, like where we had

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Speaker 1: down in college. Like the blue lipstick, I couldn't. So, yeah,

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Speaker 1: what does it mean the blue lipstick?

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Speaker 2: I don't know what that is.

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Speaker 1: Oh. I was at Kappa Kapagamma, so everything was our

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Speaker 1: colors were blue on blue, okay, and so everything was blue,

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Speaker 1: so everyone would like spray their hair blue. Do the

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Speaker 1: like it was so ugly.

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Speaker 2: Well, well, you could never be ugly.

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Speaker 3: But I also feel like maybe also conformity is not

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Speaker 3: necessarily your thing. No, right, at least start, I'm getting

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Speaker 3: way ahead of myself. First of all, tell the people

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Speaker 3: where you went to school and what sorority were in,

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Speaker 3: even though we just mentioned it, because Okay, I.

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Speaker 1: Went to the University of Mississippi also known as ole

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Speaker 1: Miss and I was a Kappa, Kapa Gamma, and it's

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Speaker 1: it's a good house there, but there's very like a deep,

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Speaker 1: deep rooted like sororities that are like KD and tried out.

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Speaker 1: They're like all Mississippi girls. And then there's so those

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Speaker 1: I would say are find you, DG and Kappa. And

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Speaker 1: so we're all on one street. Did you have sorority houses? Yeah, okay,

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Speaker 1: doesn't matter. So I was a Kappa and I only got.

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Speaker 1: I did not want to rush. I didn't even want

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Speaker 2: But she went. She went to Ole Miss.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, a year before me.

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Speaker 2: Just a quick a fie.

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Speaker 3: Why did you guys wild miss them? You were living

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Speaker 1: Yeah, So she found it and she loved it, and

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Speaker 2: And my parents were like, no, you did do that then,

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Speaker 1: They were like college first. They always believed in. But

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Speaker 1: So then was my parents were like, you're going I.

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Speaker 2: Got to meet your sister. She sounds like the best.

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Speaker 1: No, she's the best. She's a hardcore bitch, but like

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Speaker 3: Okay, So you go to the quintessential Southern like Greek

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I was. If I was going to ole Miss,

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Speaker 1: I'd like and I was very intern the rush process,

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Speaker 1: like I'd always say, like I've an open mind. I

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Speaker 1: And I met like three five mews and I got

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Speaker 3: But your sister was president of Kapa and you still

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Speaker 3: don't be in Kappa.

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Speaker 1: Well, because I wanted to be different. I was like

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Speaker 1: how your rush experience was, but like you go to

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Speaker 1: I would go into Kappa and everyone would be like

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Speaker 1: I mean like I'm flattered, right, Kapa.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that was always how it was. I mean I

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Speaker 3: remember the swordy I ended up in as well. Well,

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Speaker 3: so do it any like crazy wild rush stories from from

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Speaker 1: Do you remember my rush wasn't was very obvious from

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Speaker 1: I thought I was like, oh, I have an open mind,

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Speaker 1: and then I had like the two loser houses left

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Speaker 2: I can't with you.

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry, I don't mean to, but we all know

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Speaker 1: there's Luther houses.

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Speaker 2: This show is called Dirty Rush. We're all on the

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Speaker 2: same page.

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Speaker 1: Go, okay, good, good, But then what was so sick

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Speaker 1: is my junior year, they were redoing the Kappa House

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Speaker 1: and the worst sorority on our campus got kicked off

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Speaker 2: What is that? What do you mean? Wait, no one

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Speaker 1: So then they're like, oh, we can stay in that house.

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Speaker 2: But then we like, did you like living in there?

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Speaker 2: Living there?

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Speaker 1: In the end, I didn't end up living in the

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Speaker 3: how all miss the greek life and specifically the sorority

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Speaker 1: It's very okay. So there's this thing during rush on

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Speaker 1: We all like vote and like say what we know

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Speaker 1: I know her. I went to high school with her.

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Speaker 1: She's does this, this, and this. I dated her brother

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Speaker 3: Do you think, like, obviously you're conscious in the fact

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Speaker 3: don't know, obviously not everyone at Old Miss is involved

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Speaker 3: it's like these choreographed dances that look like it's you know, profet,

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Speaker 2: Always like that? Was it that intense when you were there?

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Speaker 1: You wouldn't believe the drama like we go to the

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Speaker 1: it's insane. I'll never forget it. Like we had a

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Speaker 1: and I'll never forget. I was like sitting at my

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Speaker 2: Oh, come on, are you kidding me now? I'm not.

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Speaker 1: The girl literally was like if you didn't dress up.

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Speaker 3: And you're like laughing at her, You're like like dudella.

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Speaker 1: No, when I would dress like like one time, our

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Speaker 1: theme I think was like rock and roll and I

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Speaker 1: dressed up was Kesha, but not even just like it's

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Speaker 3: I mean I feel like that's I would want to

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Speaker 2: Yeah exactly. I was one of them.

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Speaker 1: I'm not like I don't really like to be conformed to.

436
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Speaker 1: They had this I don't know, you didn't have social

437
00:21:07,359 --> 00:21:09,760
Speaker 1: media whenever you were in your surporty, but they were

438
00:21:10,680 --> 00:21:14,679
Speaker 1: crazy about what you posted and you weren't allowed to

439
00:21:14,680 --> 00:21:18,040
Speaker 1: be on elevated surfaces, right, I know that nows like

440
00:21:18,119 --> 00:21:21,399
Speaker 1: bad words, and so they had this account and they

441
00:21:21,400 --> 00:21:23,760
Speaker 1: would comment. It was like an anonymous account and they

442
00:21:23,760 --> 00:21:26,280
Speaker 1: would comment like blue hearts, and you would have to

443
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Speaker 1: take it down.

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Speaker 3: No, I've heard about this a lot of We've talked

445
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Speaker 3: to a lot of girls that talk about this, Like

446
00:21:30,720 --> 00:21:33,640
Speaker 3: they would leave a little whatever emoji and that means

447
00:21:33,680 --> 00:21:34,280
Speaker 3: you're in trouble.

448
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Speaker 2: Take it down.

449
00:21:35,920 --> 00:21:37,920
Speaker 1: So one time they called me and they're like, can

450
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Speaker 1: you be in charge of this anonymous account monitoring your

451
00:21:42,000 --> 00:21:44,399
Speaker 1: pledge class on Snapchat? If you ever see anything, just

452
00:21:44,440 --> 00:21:50,280
Speaker 1: respond blue hearts. I was like okay, and I just like, I.

453
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Speaker 2: Don't have to be on a narc They know you

454
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Speaker 2: at all. Why did they never ask you to do that?

455
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Speaker 1: You like, you love social media?

456
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Speaker 2: Really would give ah someone was doing you can go,

457
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Speaker 2: You like go girl.

458
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Speaker 3: Queen Sligh, Literally you're eating You're eating exactly wait, so

459
00:22:10,640 --> 00:22:12,480
Speaker 3: I asked you before. But also like how do you

460
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Speaker 3: explain it? I'm not gonna say like Jeff Lewis, but like,

461
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Speaker 3: I don't know. I'm sure it doesn't come up that

462
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Speaker 3: often on the radio, but in general, like when people

463
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Speaker 3: meet you, is it you try to explain that that

464
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Speaker 3: experience because it does. See it feels so far kind

465
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Speaker 3: of from who you are.

466
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Speaker 1: It does, and I feel like it almost it dumbs

467
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Speaker 1: me down a little bit. People that don't get it, like, oh,

468
00:22:34,320 --> 00:22:36,679
Speaker 1: you went to a southern party school and you're a sorority.

469
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Speaker 1: I mean honestly, John, Like really yeah, they are like,

470
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Speaker 1: oh your degree.

471
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Speaker 2: Doesn't anyone that meets you knows You're not dumb?

472
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Speaker 1: But okay, you'd be surprised though, like people just immediately

473
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Speaker 1: like serrat, Like if I say I went to n

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Speaker 1: y U and I was in a sorority, I feel

475
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Speaker 1: like it's a completely different picture someone would paint of

476
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Speaker 1: me and all myths has that attached to it, that's

477
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Speaker 1: so interesting, Well because it's also Ssissippi, and I don't know,

478
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Speaker 1: it's interesting. Yeah, So I don't really love the like

479
00:23:06,760 --> 00:23:09,760
Speaker 1: stereotype of it, but I'm not. I mean, I don't

480
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Speaker 1: really care. Like that's why I love Paris Hilton so

481
00:23:12,680 --> 00:23:14,960
Speaker 1: much because I think she has such like a stereotype

482
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Speaker 1: of being a dumb bitch.

483
00:23:15,800 --> 00:23:19,200
Speaker 2: And she's not all right, just brilliant and so like I.

484
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Speaker 1: Really respect that and I love that type of lifestyle

485
00:23:22,440 --> 00:23:24,600
Speaker 1: because like then no one takes you too seriously and

486
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Speaker 1: you're always impressing people.

487
00:23:26,359 --> 00:23:28,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, said that about you.

488
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Speaker 3: Like he was talking one morning about your parents, meeting

489
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Speaker 3: your parents, and like he was just saying to them

490
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Speaker 3: like I'm so impressed with her, or like even to me,

491
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Speaker 3: He's like, like I admire Annie.

492
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Speaker 1: That's so sweet.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I means I didn't say it. He did.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Like thanks Jen, true.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, So I mean anything else you want to add

496
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Speaker 3: here about your would you say, would you go to

497
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Speaker 3: Old Michigan.

498
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Speaker 1: I've thought about that a lot, and I think I would.

499
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Speaker 1: I loved it, like I really and I don't feel

500
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Speaker 1: like it held me back from anything, but it was

501
00:24:04,840 --> 00:24:07,639
Speaker 1: a cool experience, like it's a small town and we

502
00:24:07,680 --> 00:24:09,960
Speaker 1: would I'd be wasted on the side of the street,

503
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Speaker 1: like it's a party school. I cannot like emphasize that enough,

504
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Speaker 1: Like I would just be underage wasted on the side

505
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Speaker 1: of the street, like getting myself into trouble and the

506
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Speaker 1: cop would be like, give me your phone, I'm calling

507
00:24:20,280 --> 00:24:22,760
Speaker 1: you an uber, like you're okay, and they would like

508
00:24:23,800 --> 00:24:26,680
Speaker 1: it was like a no fails, Like they would kind

509
00:24:26,680 --> 00:24:28,680
Speaker 1: of give you a billion chances before you got in trouble.

510
00:24:28,680 --> 00:24:30,280
Speaker 1: Like one time I was at a bar and I

511
00:24:30,320 --> 00:24:32,960
Speaker 1: was so upset something happened with some random guy and

512
00:24:33,000 --> 00:24:35,080
Speaker 1: I was so drunk and I just fell all the

513
00:24:35,080 --> 00:24:37,320
Speaker 1: way down the stairs and I'd get to the bottom,

514
00:24:37,560 --> 00:24:39,639
Speaker 1: so humiliating, and a cop called me an uber and

515
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Speaker 1: I get home.

516
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Speaker 2: I cannot.

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Speaker 1: I would go there again because it was just a

518
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Speaker 1: safe place to like grow grow like as a person.

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Speaker 3: And also I could be wrong, but I feel like

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Speaker 3: with you, if you guys ever have the pleasure of

521
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Speaker 3: meeting Annie, it's like it's I don't feel like you

522
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Speaker 3: could anyone could ever really get mad at you, like

523
00:24:58,560 --> 00:25:00,919
Speaker 3: you just pish all. If anyone gets mad, I picture

524
00:25:00,920 --> 00:25:02,439
Speaker 3: you just crying.

525
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Speaker 1: I do not what I'm saying. I can't kill a confrontation.

526
00:25:06,680 --> 00:25:08,520
Speaker 3: Right, so then you just like which reminds me of

527
00:25:08,560 --> 00:25:12,840
Speaker 3: my daughter Rachel, who I mean, she got a driver's license.

528
00:25:13,359 --> 00:25:16,760
Speaker 3: She like the first week she hit someone not a tree.

529
00:25:17,080 --> 00:25:21,720
Speaker 3: Oh my god, person okay, Like, no, she hit a person, okay,

530
00:25:22,080 --> 00:25:25,639
Speaker 3: and she it was some man. He was pissed. He

531
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Speaker 3: got out of his car because it was a crosswalk.

532
00:25:27,920 --> 00:25:31,520
Speaker 3: And she became so hysterical and the cops came that.

533
00:25:31,560 --> 00:25:34,679
Speaker 3: They were all comforting Rachel, like I'm like talking to her.

534
00:25:34,840 --> 00:25:35,680
Speaker 2: She can't breathe.

535
00:25:35,880 --> 00:25:37,600
Speaker 3: She puts me on the phone with the cops. The

536
00:25:37,600 --> 00:25:40,520
Speaker 3: cops are like, she's gonna be okay. I'm like, well, yeah,

537
00:25:40,520 --> 00:25:44,080
Speaker 3: but it's the man that she hitit go to me, okay,

538
00:25:44,400 --> 00:25:46,480
Speaker 3: but you remind me of that, Like you're like, there's

539
00:25:46,640 --> 00:25:49,320
Speaker 3: just it'd be hard to ever really be mad at you.

540
00:25:49,320 --> 00:25:51,119
Speaker 1: No, my parents when I was a kid, they'd be like,

541
00:25:51,640 --> 00:25:54,040
Speaker 1: we're not going to punish you because you punish yourself enough,

542
00:25:54,080 --> 00:25:57,480
Speaker 1: because I would just be like crying. I feel so bad.

543
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Speaker 2: I just well listen.

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Speaker 3: I mean, just last question, But do you feel like

545
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Speaker 3: ole Miss is though the stereotype that people think that

546
00:26:06,640 --> 00:26:09,200
Speaker 3: it is and the soorty life there, Like I mean

547
00:26:09,240 --> 00:26:11,960
Speaker 3: I picture it in such a I went to a

548
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Speaker 3: southern school and I was in a storty but like

549
00:26:14,520 --> 00:26:16,520
Speaker 3: ole Miss is like the ultimate do you think it

550
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Speaker 3: lives up to that?

551
00:26:17,840 --> 00:26:21,040
Speaker 1: I do I mean it's it's so sick and like

552
00:26:21,080 --> 00:26:24,560
Speaker 1: the people you meet and like the Mississippi legacy, I

553
00:26:24,560 --> 00:26:29,080
Speaker 1: mean a Katie and a Tradale, and like the fraternities

554
00:26:29,160 --> 00:26:33,000
Speaker 1: and like parties, like it really is crazy and like

555
00:26:33,040 --> 00:26:36,240
Speaker 1: thinking back on it, I'm so like thankful I got

556
00:26:36,240 --> 00:26:39,879
Speaker 1: to experience it. It was just like being in it, you

557
00:26:39,920 --> 00:26:43,480
Speaker 1: don't realize like what you're in because rush TikTok didn't

558
00:26:43,480 --> 00:26:45,479
Speaker 1: blow up until I think I was like a senior

559
00:26:45,520 --> 00:26:49,959
Speaker 1: in college, and so I didn't realize like what I

560
00:26:50,000 --> 00:26:52,760
Speaker 1: was a part of. And it's just so cool, Like

561
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Speaker 1: I love it. I love all the people I met,

562
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Speaker 1: what I learned, Like all the parties were so fun,

563
00:26:59,200 --> 00:27:03,080
Speaker 1: the fraternity parties, like the bars, and I was sick.

564
00:27:03,200 --> 00:27:06,400
Speaker 1: I would go again in two seconds. The game day

565
00:27:06,440 --> 00:27:10,040
Speaker 1: of it all good good And what's cool about the

566
00:27:10,080 --> 00:27:12,760
Speaker 1: South is like everyone is like sees you as family

567
00:27:13,040 --> 00:27:17,439
Speaker 1: like and so it was very welcoming and like home.

568
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Speaker 3: Immediately you recommend it, like there are to our listeners.

569
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Speaker 3: There are I'm sure there are girls listening that are

570
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Speaker 3: still in high school and you know, thinking about which

571
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Speaker 3: school go to and about Greek life. Would you recommend

572
00:27:30,640 --> 00:27:33,159
Speaker 3: it to let's say girls here on the East Coast.

573
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Speaker 1: I would recommend it to anyone that ask me why

574
00:27:35,160 --> 00:27:38,119
Speaker 1: this should go to college, Like it is so fun, okay,

575
00:27:38,119 --> 00:27:40,720
Speaker 1: and I learned so much And I'm very much mentality

576
00:27:40,720 --> 00:27:44,200
Speaker 1: because I was a broadcast journalism major, and you get

577
00:27:44,240 --> 00:27:46,919
Speaker 1: out what you put in, so like you don't necessarily

578
00:27:46,960 --> 00:27:49,320
Speaker 1: need to get a's, but you need to know, like

579
00:27:49,359 --> 00:27:51,760
Speaker 1: what your in goal at the end of colleges and

580
00:27:51,800 --> 00:27:55,480
Speaker 1: you're going to be successful. So my goal was networking

581
00:27:55,880 --> 00:28:01,000
Speaker 1: and like social media and reality TV and pretty and whatever,

582
00:28:01,320 --> 00:28:03,880
Speaker 1: and so I did internships that could get me there.

583
00:28:04,080 --> 00:28:06,400
Speaker 1: So then I didn't necessarily need to take my classes

584
00:28:06,440 --> 00:28:10,280
Speaker 1: as serious. So I did like the school news station,

585
00:28:10,520 --> 00:28:12,440
Speaker 1: and then my sororities. I was able to have fun

586
00:28:12,440 --> 00:28:14,480
Speaker 1: and like not worry about getting all aas. I didn't

587
00:28:14,520 --> 00:28:16,600
Speaker 1: need all aays. Do you think Jeff Lewis knows my GPA?

588
00:28:17,280 --> 00:28:18,919
Speaker 2: It doesn't matter, don't I don't.

589
00:28:19,160 --> 00:28:21,760
Speaker 3: But to those high school girls listening, get all a's

590
00:28:22,000 --> 00:28:22,320
Speaker 3: if you go.

591
00:28:22,520 --> 00:28:24,320
Speaker 1: You don't have to spend on what you want to do.

592
00:28:24,320 --> 00:28:25,560
Speaker 1: If you want to be an accounting you want to

593
00:28:25,600 --> 00:28:29,239
Speaker 1: be a doctor, yeah you do, yes, well, like I

594
00:28:29,280 --> 00:28:32,080
Speaker 1: think that's we're also a thing like with people that

595
00:28:33,000 --> 00:28:34,919
Speaker 1: because I'm like, oh, I partied a lot in college, Like, well,

596
00:28:35,240 --> 00:28:38,120
Speaker 1: what did you learn? I'm like, I worked my ass off.

597
00:28:39,120 --> 00:28:40,760
Speaker 2: You do learn a lot being a story also.

598
00:28:40,840 --> 00:28:43,400
Speaker 3: I mean, I think it's so much of not all,

599
00:28:43,440 --> 00:28:46,480
Speaker 3: not every career choice, but so many careers are about being.

600
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Speaker 2: Able to connect with people, right.

601
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Speaker 3: And I feel like every job I ever had, and

602
00:28:51,040 --> 00:28:52,520
Speaker 3: I had a lot of them when I was your age,

603
00:28:52,560 --> 00:28:55,240
Speaker 3: I was always switching jobs, but I was very easy

604
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Speaker 3: for me to get jobs because I'm I like that

605
00:29:00,760 --> 00:29:02,920
Speaker 3: process of interviewing, Like it was like rush, Like I

606
00:29:03,040 --> 00:29:06,200
Speaker 3: like having my personality on and like connecting with people.

607
00:29:06,760 --> 00:29:09,440
Speaker 3: And then you know, being in the jobs I was,

608
00:29:09,600 --> 00:29:12,600
Speaker 3: I always had friends whatever job it was, and I

609
00:29:12,640 --> 00:29:15,280
Speaker 3: always was like kind of I don't mean this in

610
00:29:15,280 --> 00:29:17,560
Speaker 3: an obnoxious way, but but but kind of loved and

611
00:29:17,600 --> 00:29:18,880
Speaker 3: I was really never good at my job.

612
00:29:19,040 --> 00:29:20,600
Speaker 1: But you're a personality higher.

613
00:29:21,120 --> 00:29:23,280
Speaker 3: It was a personality higher, and I feel like that's

614
00:29:23,320 --> 00:29:26,960
Speaker 3: something maybe that when you're in a sorority, that's a

615
00:29:27,040 --> 00:29:29,160
Speaker 3: great you know, to be able to learn how to

616
00:29:29,160 --> 00:29:34,040
Speaker 3: get along specifically with you know, other women, And I

617
00:29:34,080 --> 00:29:36,680
Speaker 3: feel like those are those are lessons that you take

618
00:29:36,720 --> 00:29:37,600
Speaker 3: with you.

619
00:29:37,640 --> 00:29:41,560
Speaker 1: Now. I think networking is the secret to success, like.

620
00:29:42,440 --> 00:29:45,360
Speaker 2: Just yeah yeah, but also.

621
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Speaker 1: Nurturing those relationships, like, oh, you're in college and your

622
00:29:48,720 --> 00:29:51,240
Speaker 1: dad knows someone that does what you want to do.

623
00:29:51,280 --> 00:29:53,480
Speaker 1: You email them once and you move on. No, like

624
00:29:53,720 --> 00:29:56,720
Speaker 1: you have to call them, get to know them, let

625
00:29:56,760 --> 00:29:59,320
Speaker 1: them in on your life, and like become their friend,

626
00:29:59,400 --> 00:30:01,400
Speaker 1: have them see you as their own kid. Like, you

627
00:30:01,480 --> 00:30:05,320
Speaker 1: need to really invest in relationships and then people want

628
00:30:05,320 --> 00:30:06,960
Speaker 1: to help you and see you. And it's not just

629
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Speaker 1: using people like you're growing. That's how you enhance your life.

630
00:30:10,240 --> 00:30:12,320
Speaker 1: You learn about people that are successful and they teach

631
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Speaker 1: you things and you teach them and whatever.

632
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Speaker 2: You are very wise, my girl, it's fun. Yeah, I

633
00:30:18,440 --> 00:30:21,080
Speaker 2: love you. I love you for coming on. We're gonna

634
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Speaker 2: have you one again. Please maybe with your sister?

635
00:30:23,520 --> 00:30:26,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, actually she would, she so should.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Oh wait, can I shout out my new YouTube channel?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

639
00:30:30,760 --> 00:30:33,040
Speaker 1: I dropped my first vlog today because I broke up

640
00:30:33,080 --> 00:30:36,400
Speaker 1: with my boyfriend like a week ago and I had

641
00:30:36,400 --> 00:30:39,120
Speaker 1: my first like single girl weekend and so I went

642
00:30:39,120 --> 00:30:41,680
Speaker 1: shopping and parties and just trying to get my bring

643
00:30:41,760 --> 00:30:44,200
Speaker 1: out things. So I was dating him for like four years.

644
00:30:44,240 --> 00:30:48,120
Speaker 1: So it's been pretty dark, but it was so fun.

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Speaker 1: I yeah, I'm trying to stay sober, but then I

646
00:30:52,240 --> 00:30:55,360
Speaker 1: ended up getting drunk because Jeff and Shane were like,

647
00:30:55,800 --> 00:30:59,920
Speaker 1: you should numb it, and I'm like, it didn't numb it.

648
00:31:00,080 --> 00:31:03,320
Speaker 1: I sobbed and so anyways, run a journey and I'm

649
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Speaker 1: trying to vlog about it and make it fun so

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Speaker 1: I can distract myself. So subscribe Annie. My YouTube is

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Speaker 1: Annie Sharp Sleigh, and my instagram and TikTok is just

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