WEBVTT - Codie Sanchez: How to Make Money if You Don’t Have Money (4 Step Process to Make Money Today)

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<v Speaker 1>Seventy percent of millionaires are self made. If you want

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<v Speaker 1>to make money, you got to follow the math. People

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<v Speaker 1>that have money have one thing.

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<v Speaker 2>Entrepreneur, Investor. She's got over twenty six businesses. Cody Sanchez.

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<v Speaker 2>I have no money. I don't really know too much

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<v Speaker 2>about money. Where do I start? What do I do?

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<v Speaker 1>Most often we're told things like follow our passion. I

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<v Speaker 1>think that's pretty bad advice. If you don't have ownership,

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<v Speaker 1>you're probably never going to be free financially.

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<v Speaker 2>You're literally opening up a whole new doorway for people.

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<v Speaker 2>The number one health and wellness podcast.

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<v Speaker 1>Jay Seti Jay Sheety only Set.

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<v Speaker 2>Hey, everyone, welcome back to on Purpose, the place you

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<v Speaker 2>come to become a happier, healthier and more healed. I'm

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<v Speaker 2>fascinated by our relationships with things that we grew up with,

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<v Speaker 2>how they've changed, how they've evolved, or how they've stayed

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<v Speaker 2>the same. I believe that our relationship with money is

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<v Speaker 2>probably one of the most underestimated relationships that we have,

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<v Speaker 2>and it's probably one of the relationships that we paid

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<v Speaker 2>the least attention to. We don't treat it like a relationship,

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<v Speaker 2>we don't think of it like a relationship. And therefore

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<v Speaker 2>it falls into the binary category of I'm either good

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<v Speaker 2>at it or I'm bad at it. Today's guest has

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<v Speaker 2>some incredible insights for each and every one of us.

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<v Speaker 2>Wherever you are in your financial journey, this episode is

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<v Speaker 2>for you. Today's guest is Cody Sanchez.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you. I'm blushing. I'm excited to be here.

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<v Speaker 2>I want to start with a question that I know

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<v Speaker 2>you probably get a million times and I get all

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<v Speaker 2>the time. Jay, I have no money. I don't really

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<v Speaker 2>know too much about money. Where do I start? What

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<v Speaker 2>do I do?

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<v Speaker 1>There's two things in life that I wish we were

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<v Speaker 1>told earlier, and one is if you want to make money,

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<v Speaker 1>you got to follow the math. And I think most

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<v Speaker 1>often we're told things like follow our passion, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>do what I did to make money. I made real

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<v Speaker 1>estate money. You should make real estate money. And I

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<v Speaker 1>think that's pretty bad advice. I think instead we should

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<v Speaker 1>look to where are most people rich? What makes most

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<v Speaker 1>people rich? Kind of go to the data. I came

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<v Speaker 1>from really middle class kind of we didn't have money

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<v Speaker 1>all the time. I remember what it was like to

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<v Speaker 1>not have money. I remember what it was like when

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<v Speaker 1>my debit card. You know, I was a little worried

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<v Speaker 1>stuff wouldn't go through at the grocery store, and I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't like that feeling, and so I kind of started

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<v Speaker 1>looking around and I was like, wait a second, where

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<v Speaker 1>do people have money? And after being in finance for

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<v Speaker 1>whatever it is, fifteen years, I'm going to give away

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<v Speaker 1>my age. I realized people that have money have one

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<v Speaker 1>thing ownership. So the data is really clear on this.

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<v Speaker 1>Seventy percent of millionaires are self made, which is interesting.

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<v Speaker 1>I used to think maybe you just inherit it did

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<v Speaker 1>they just get lucky? And then sixty eight percent of

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<v Speaker 1>millionaires have some form of ownership. They have actually bought

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<v Speaker 1>a business, or have equity in a business, or built

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<v Speaker 1>a business. And so when I realized that, I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>the problem is I don't have a brilliant idea, Like

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know how to make money. I don't have

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<v Speaker 1>any money to make money. But at least you have

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<v Speaker 1>step one, which is if you don't have ownership, you're

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<v Speaker 1>probably never going to be free financially. You got to

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<v Speaker 1>get some skin in the game. That doesn't mean that

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<v Speaker 1>you have to become an entrepreneur. It's really hard to

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<v Speaker 1>do that. It sucks many days. You know this very well.

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<v Speaker 1>There's fridays when you're never going to make payroll, and

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<v Speaker 1>that is like a deep, terrible dark hurt. Actually, But

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<v Speaker 1>if you realize ownership is the name of the game,

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<v Speaker 1>then you should probably obsess on one thing more than

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<v Speaker 1>anything else, which is learn the language of money. And

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<v Speaker 1>back when I was young, I was a journalist, originally

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<v Speaker 1>made zero dollars, and I realized that I had no

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<v Speaker 1>idea why I had opportunities and ability to make some money.

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<v Speaker 1>And let's say the women I was covering at the

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<v Speaker 1>time in Warres, who are they call it Laciel de Mote, right,

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<v Speaker 1>the city of death, which is where women are mutilated

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<v Speaker 1>and raped and brutalized and found murdered all over the

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<v Speaker 1>city every single day, thousands of women a year. There

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<v Speaker 1>were many that had the last name Sanches. My last

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<v Speaker 1>name happens to be Sanchez. I was like, what's the

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<v Speaker 1>difference between us? Is it that I'm American? Now, that's

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<v Speaker 1>not it alone. I think it's also that I had

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<v Speaker 1>some financial tools, and like, money is a pushback against

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<v Speaker 1>other people's architecture of your life, and it makes people

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<v Speaker 1>care about you one way or the other, which is sad,

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<v Speaker 1>But the truth of the matter is if you are poor,

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<v Speaker 1>you have no power, and anybody who's been poor before

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<v Speaker 1>knows that is true. You got to go where the

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<v Speaker 1>game is played. So the first thing I tell you is,

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<v Speaker 1>if you don't have any cash, you need to find

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<v Speaker 1>a way to figure out how to speak the language

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<v Speaker 1>of money. And that probably means you maybe go work

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<v Speaker 1>in finance like I did. You get with a company

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<v Speaker 1>that has smart leaders like Jay where you can actually

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<v Speaker 1>go and learn from them, and you obsess on can

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<v Speaker 1>I become fluent in the thing that nobody talks about

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<v Speaker 1>in the US because money is supposed to be the

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<v Speaker 1>root of all evil.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you shared a statistic with me that I thought

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<v Speaker 2>it was mind blowing that sixty two percent of Americans

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<v Speaker 2>don't want to talk about money. Yeah, that is so scary,

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<v Speaker 2>but it's also not surprising because, like you just said,

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<v Speaker 2>we've created this narrative that money is the roof all evil.

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<v Speaker 2>And it was so fascinating because someone actually said this

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<v Speaker 2>to me where if you look up the actual reference,

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<v Speaker 2>it says love of money is the root of all evil.

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<v Speaker 1>I never knew that.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, how did we?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I do wonder sometimes how do we get

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<v Speaker 1>programmed these ways? Because if you think about it's like,

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<v Speaker 1>what are the three things you're not supposed to talk about? Politics, religion?

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<v Speaker 2>Money?

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<v Speaker 1>Now, politics and religion. Maybe I could understand you could

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<v Speaker 1>offend somebody. I believe this religion, you believe this political slant,

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<v Speaker 1>and if we could go aide, that could be bad.

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<v Speaker 1>But when it comes to money, who's like, nah, I

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<v Speaker 1>wish everybody was poor, Like why wouldn't we be able

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<v Speaker 1>to talk about it? Then the only thing that I

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<v Speaker 1>can determine from that is that every time we get

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit more ownership, a little bit more money,

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<v Speaker 1>we become harder to control. And when you're harder to control,

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<v Speaker 1>big institutions and largely are governments, they don't like that.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, you want a controllable populace by and large,

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<v Speaker 1>And I think that is a big reason why people

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<v Speaker 1>don't talk about money, Actually, that we have been programmed

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<v Speaker 1>to be more malleable sheep in many ways, not because

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<v Speaker 1>people are evil at the top, but because once we

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<v Speaker 1>get power, we humans are a little funny. We don't

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<v Speaker 1>like to give it up no matter who we are.

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<v Speaker 1>I would probably be the same, And so that centralization

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<v Speaker 1>of power, we start to think I know better you

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<v Speaker 1>poor person, let me give you some charity. You can't

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<v Speaker 1>figure it out, And instead we should be saying you

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<v Speaker 1>are just as capable as I am, and I would

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<v Speaker 1>probably be you if I lived your life. And so instead,

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<v Speaker 1>why don't I transfer some knowledge because that's where money starts.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, what about people right now who look at the

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<v Speaker 2>situation and just like the economy is in a bad place,

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<v Speaker 2>we're super worried. Paint us a picture of where America

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<v Speaker 2>is right now.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, I mean, well, let's talk. First, We'll talk about

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<v Speaker 1>how it's tough, and I'll be honest, and then we

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<v Speaker 1>can talk about solutions. So I promise I won't leave

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<v Speaker 1>you in a doom scroll. But here's the truth of

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<v Speaker 1>what's happening in the world right now. If you're young.

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<v Speaker 1>Young people today are upset about what's happening in the

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<v Speaker 1>world around them, and I understand why you have wage stagnation.

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<v Speaker 1>So we basically have not made any more money. And

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<v Speaker 1>in fact, this generation Gen Z is the first generation

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<v Speaker 1>where at their same age as their parents, they're making

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<v Speaker 1>less money, not more. Problem is their university degrees or

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<v Speaker 1>three to four x more expensive. Oh, by the way,

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<v Speaker 1>so is housing. Wait a second, inflation is at a

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<v Speaker 1>degree in which my dollar today is worth even substantially

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<v Speaker 1>less than even five years ago. On top of that, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we have all these jobs open. You know, seven million

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<v Speaker 1>working age men supposedly are unemployed at this moment right now,

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<v Speaker 1>even though the jobs report says that there's so many jobs.

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<v Speaker 1>Are the jobs real, well, largely not. They're private sector.

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<v Speaker 1>They're not private sector, their public sector, their government jobs.

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<v Speaker 1>And so young people are like, wait a second, I

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<v Speaker 1>can't live, I can't eat. You know, grocery is more expensive,

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<v Speaker 1>and that's real actually, And so the people that are

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<v Speaker 1>making fun of young people in Tiktoks, you know, when

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<v Speaker 1>they cry about their job being difficult, I don't. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't really vibe with that because the math says it's

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<v Speaker 1>hard right now and not just for young people. But

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's important to talk about them. And the

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<v Speaker 1>truth of the matter is though that in any market,

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<v Speaker 1>we can make money. And so although it's really difficult

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<v Speaker 1>out there, there's like one silver lining that I've kind

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<v Speaker 1>of been screaming from the rooftops for the past three years,

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<v Speaker 1>and people, I think are starting to see it, which

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<v Speaker 1>is that we are, thankfully, I think going to have

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<v Speaker 1>a marriage between baby boomers and young people that would

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<v Speaker 1>be very unexpected. So right now and historically young people

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<v Speaker 1>have said, Okay, Boomer, you messed up our economy. Boomer,

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<v Speaker 1>you're not employing me. Boomer, you don't understand my life.

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<v Speaker 1>You listen to the music that young people like. They

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<v Speaker 1>don't like that generation in a lot of ways. Then

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<v Speaker 1>the baby boomers are like, you guys are quiet, quitting,

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<v Speaker 1>you're not working very hard. Get out of my basement.

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<v Speaker 1>And so these two generations have been at war in

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<v Speaker 1>some ways, like a quiet war. And now I think

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<v Speaker 1>with the transfer of ownership that we're seeing and we

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<v Speaker 1>can talk about the great wealth transfer, I think we

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<v Speaker 1>have an opportunity where the baby boomer generation, the richest

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<v Speaker 1>generation that we have ever seen in the US, which

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<v Speaker 1>has mimicked in all other countries around the world by

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<v Speaker 1>the way that are developed countries. This generation is about

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<v Speaker 1>to sunset, they're getting ready to retire, they're ready to

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<v Speaker 1>move on, but they own sixty eight trillion dollars in

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<v Speaker 1>wealth in just the US. The interesting part is the

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<v Speaker 1>young people think, well, that money must get transferred somehow, right,

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<v Speaker 1>does that mean I get a house. Does that mean

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<v Speaker 1>I get a car? Does that mean I get inheritance?

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<v Speaker 1>The problem is that money is not tied up in

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<v Speaker 1>just assets. It's not tied up in houses and bank accounts.

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<v Speaker 1>It by and large is tied up in small businesses

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<v Speaker 1>because baby boomers owned sixty percent of all small businesses,

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<v Speaker 1>and so I think we got to find a way

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<v Speaker 1>for the young people to take over these baby boomer

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<v Speaker 1>businesses because otherwise then we're in a really bad spot.

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<v Speaker 1>Then we're Japan.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, what are some of the mistakes that you think

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<v Speaker 2>we think about what makes money? What are we thinking

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<v Speaker 2>makes money right now? Where we're being distracted, we're actually

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<v Speaker 2>small businesses is where you're pointing to spotlight? Yeah, but

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<v Speaker 2>what are we distracted by?

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<v Speaker 1>I think a lot of young people today chase the

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<v Speaker 1>shiny object, right and think about this for a second.

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<v Speaker 1>I remember, like many years ago, I had an opportunity

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<v Speaker 1>to invest in robin Hood, and I could kick myself

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<v Speaker 1>financially because I didn't. But at the time why I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't is I was like day trading stocks as amateurs

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<v Speaker 1>and then gamifying it. So we get like a drenal

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<v Speaker 1>response every time a balloon pops because we placed a

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<v Speaker 1>trade might be a bad idea, like I don't think

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<v Speaker 1>we should probably gamify our finances that way. And I

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<v Speaker 1>think that's what's happened to young people. They're being told,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean put in the stock market day trade, They're

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<v Speaker 1>being told NFTs and playing with crypto monkeys. They're being

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<v Speaker 1>told price speculation on crypto or even bitcoin. They're taking

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<v Speaker 1>margin calls out on their stock portfolios. Then with a

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<v Speaker 1>little amount of money that they have, they're trying for

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<v Speaker 1>this get rich scheme speculation. And the shitty part is

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<v Speaker 1>that just never works. You know, the one sure thing

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<v Speaker 1>I know about money is that you're never going to

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<v Speaker 1>make it if your solution is, hey, I'm going to

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<v Speaker 1>win at money, because that guy's going to lose. If

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<v Speaker 1>you think that there is a lose win scenario and

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<v Speaker 1>you are the one that's going to win, I hate

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<v Speaker 1>to tell you you're the one hold in the bag. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>And I wish people told us that more, that actually

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<v Speaker 1>making money doesn't have to be lose win, it could

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<v Speaker 1>be win win. And that is when you know you've

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<v Speaker 1>actually found a good opportunity is when you go, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>why would I make money on this deal, Oh, because

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<v Speaker 1>I am solving a pain point that adds value to

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<v Speaker 1>another human's life, and I've properly valued what my own

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<v Speaker 1>skill set is. The problem is most of us don't

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<v Speaker 1>even know what we're good at or how you'd value

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<v Speaker 1>that skill. And we could play around with some exercises

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<v Speaker 1>so that any human could figure out, Okay, I cody

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<v Speaker 1>know how to market something, how do I figure out

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<v Speaker 1>how much is that is worth? And how could I

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<v Speaker 1>transfer some of that to get a percentage of equity

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<v Speaker 1>in somebody's company just for the skill that I have.

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<v Speaker 1>The last thing I want to say there is like

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<v Speaker 1>more than anything. I think one, we think money's bad,

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<v Speaker 1>and then two money's scary, Like I don't really know why,

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<v Speaker 1>but I think we're scared of it, and we're scared

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<v Speaker 1>that we might not be able to make it, and

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<v Speaker 1>we're scared what if we lose it? And what if

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<v Speaker 1>our self worth is tied.

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<v Speaker 3>Up in it?

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<v Speaker 1>And should we actually ask for it? So we have

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<v Speaker 1>all these fears surrounding money, which is probably why we

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<v Speaker 1>don't talk about it too. And we got to kind

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<v Speaker 1>of work through that because money is just a tool.

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<v Speaker 1>So it's just like if you want to build a house.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you want to use a bunch of tiny little

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<v Speaker 1>nails and your own hammer, or do you want to

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<v Speaker 1>have a screw gun? And like in this instance, I

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<v Speaker 1>want to have the bigger gun.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. I want to look at three scenarios of our

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<v Speaker 2>audience and where they sit, and look at what your

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<v Speaker 2>advice would be for them at that point. So let's

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<v Speaker 2>say we have a listener who just graduated from college.

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<v Speaker 2>What should they be doing first? What should they be

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<v Speaker 2>thinking about right now?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, Well, here's how I think about making money. We

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<v Speaker 1>have a four step process that I think if you

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<v Speaker 1>don't have money, now, here's how you make it consistently

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<v Speaker 1>over time, and you have your money, go out and

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<v Speaker 1>bring back friends with it. The first is you've got

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<v Speaker 1>to learn. We've got to obsess in the beginning about

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<v Speaker 1>one thing. Only it's not what your salary is. It's

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<v Speaker 1>how can I cram as much information as humanly possible

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<v Speaker 1>in my brain in order for me to then do

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<v Speaker 1>the next thing, which is increase my skill stack. After

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<v Speaker 1>I learn, can I increase my skills so that my

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<v Speaker 1>skills are more valuable today than they were yesterday? And

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<v Speaker 1>the third is how can I increase my income, So

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<v Speaker 1>before you go thinking about investing in things overall, how

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<v Speaker 1>can I just make more money currently with what I'm doing?

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<v Speaker 1>And then finally we can get to invest. So after

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<v Speaker 1>we do these three steps, the final one is how

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<v Speaker 1>do I take my money and make my money work

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<v Speaker 1>for me? But in the beginning, you don't have money.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, you don't really have skills, you probably don't

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<v Speaker 1>have a ton of connections, and so what you actually

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<v Speaker 1>want to do is use your sweat, equity and your

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<v Speaker 1>experience and time as a really maybe hungry individual to

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<v Speaker 1>get money to eventually be able to invest the money.

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<v Speaker 1>And I think that's the other thing young people are

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<v Speaker 1>told that's a lie, is that you can go out

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<v Speaker 1>as a young person and you know, you know Fendi, Gucci, Prada, Lamborghini,

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<v Speaker 1>on the internet, make a bunch of fast cash and Airbnb,

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<v Speaker 1>arbitrage or whatever. Man, I wish somebody had told me

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<v Speaker 1>earlier on that's a terrible thing to do.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, And I think what's really interesting though, is when

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<v Speaker 2>you're talking about improving of skills. I think when we

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<v Speaker 2>graduate college, you think that that was the skill, like

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<v Speaker 2>that your degree was the investment in the skill. But

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<v Speaker 2>really what you're talking about our high value skills, talents,

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<v Speaker 2>abilities that actually make an impact in a workplace, and

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<v Speaker 2>those are really different. And so I'd meet a lot

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<v Speaker 2>of young people who sadly have spent so much money

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<v Speaker 2>on their degree, are really smart academically, but then that

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<v Speaker 2>skill doesn't translate into knowing how to make their company

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<v Speaker 2>more money, knowing how to lead people really well, knowing

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<v Speaker 2>how to build function systems, processes. And therefore it's like, well,

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<v Speaker 2>wait a minute, I just studied all these years, but

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<v Speaker 2>it doesn't translate.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I think you're exactly right. I mean, for a

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<v Speaker 1>long time, we employed people from the top universities and

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<v Speaker 1>financial firms. We would go out and we would hand

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<v Speaker 1>select them because that would be an indicator of their grit,

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<v Speaker 1>perseverance and potentially their their intellect, their IQ. Now, by

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<v Speaker 1>and large, you're starting to see a lot of the

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<v Speaker 1>top institutions bypass that. You know, Google doesn't mandate that

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<v Speaker 1>you have a college degree if you're going into an

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<v Speaker 1>engineering degree, actually, and I think that should be really

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<v Speaker 1>liberating for us. It's basically breaking down this barrier, that's

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<v Speaker 1>a six figure barrier that allowed for the few, the

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<v Speaker 1>elites to stare step over everybody else, And now it's

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<v Speaker 1>actually saying how bad you want it, and don't tell

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<v Speaker 1>me what you learned, show me what you can do,

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<v Speaker 1>or even better, show me what you did. And so

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<v Speaker 1>I think the resume of the future is actually if

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<v Speaker 1>somebody came to you, Jay and they were like, I

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<v Speaker 1>just graduated from Wharton. I am very smart. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>I also did my undergraduate degree at Harvard. I now

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<v Speaker 1>want to come work for you. You'd be like, what do

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<v Speaker 1>you know how to do? Do you know how to market?

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<v Speaker 1>Do you know how to grow a beverage company? Do

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<v Speaker 1>you know how to increase our investment return?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh?

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<v Speaker 1>You kind of like theoretically have looked about how to

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<v Speaker 1>do that in a case study. That's probably less interesting

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<v Speaker 1>to you than somebody that goes you know what. I

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<v Speaker 1>was part of the beverage team at Arowon and Whole Foods,

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<v Speaker 1>and I figured out sort of across the country how

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<v Speaker 1>they buy different pieces of inventory. Yeah, attend right exactly.

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<v Speaker 1>And maybe because I want to help you grow this

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<v Speaker 1>individual business, which I know you care about because I

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<v Speaker 1>see it on your socials, I put together this little

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<v Speaker 1>spreadsheet for you. Here's the things they care about. Could

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<v Speaker 1>I come work for you for free for three or

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<v Speaker 1>six months, and if that works out, could we do

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<v Speaker 1>something better and bigger. The problem that people usually have

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<v Speaker 1>on the Internet when I throw out the word work

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<v Speaker 1>for free is young people are like, remember that part

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<v Speaker 1>where you told us that we were broke and we

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<v Speaker 1>don't have any money. So I'm not trying to dismiss

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<v Speaker 1>that at all, but I do think we have to

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<v Speaker 1>be honest about the fact that when we're young, you're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna have to work harder than you think, longer than

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<v Speaker 1>you think, doing stuff you don't like with people you

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<v Speaker 1>probably don't like, until eventually you get the right to

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<v Speaker 1>do something really interesting. But like, you don't die in

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<v Speaker 1>your first job from it being really hard and challenging.

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<v Speaker 1>You die from the apps, monotony and the low level

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<v Speaker 1>tasks you have to do for basically pennies on the dollar.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, definitely, definitely, absolutely, I fully agree. Let's say someone's

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<v Speaker 2>thirty years old. Yeah, they've or thirty to thirty five,

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<v Speaker 2>they worked ten fifteen years after graduating, They've been at

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<v Speaker 2>the same company, maybe they've moved once.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>I was actually talking to someone like this yesterday. She's

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<v Speaker 2>been at this one company for six years. It's a

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<v Speaker 2>great company, great on her resume, but she's like, I

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<v Speaker 2>don't really want to be here. I don't think this

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<v Speaker 2>is where I see my future. But I'm so scared

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<v Speaker 2>of quitting. I don't know how to invest. I probably

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<v Speaker 2>didn't save that much anywhere. Now I feel bad about it.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm probably feeling a bit of shame and guilt that

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't save that much over the last ten years.

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<v Speaker 2>What would I do, Cody?

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<v Speaker 1>Well, one, I would say, these days, you do not

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<v Speaker 1>have to have money to make money, which is incredibly powerful.

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<v Speaker 1>So when I think about it, if I'm thirty and

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<v Speaker 1>I am at a company like that, what would I

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<v Speaker 1>do today? Well, I would actually probably sit down and

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<v Speaker 1>figure out what am I actually skilled at that somebody

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<v Speaker 1>else would pay me for? Once you know what somebody

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<v Speaker 1>else would pay for, which is really just like do

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<v Speaker 1>people ask for your opinion on this? Could you actually

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<v Speaker 1>get jobs in this space if it was me, because

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<v Speaker 1>I'm kind of unemployable, like you don't want me to

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<v Speaker 1>work for you, Like I got my own ideas. I

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<v Speaker 1>want to do things this way. If she's like that,

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<v Speaker 1>then what you want to do is you want to

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<v Speaker 1>try to partner with somebody where you can be the

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<v Speaker 1>solution to their problem. And because you understand what I

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<v Speaker 1>call deal making, which is really the language of money,

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<v Speaker 1>you can negotiate an ability for you to own part

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<v Speaker 1>of a thing in order for you to have one

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<v Speaker 1>of three outcomes. If she can figure out if she

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<v Speaker 1>can help a business grow its revenue, make more money,

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<v Speaker 1>if she can help a business cut its costs, or

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<v Speaker 1>if she can help decrease the pain of a business owner.

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<v Speaker 1>You can negotiate your way into a business and have

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<v Speaker 1>equity in it and upside. And I wish somebody had

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<v Speaker 1>taught me that earlier, because this is what consultants do,

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<v Speaker 1>this is what private equity firms do, this is what

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<v Speaker 1>some of the largest institutions in the world do. I

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<v Speaker 1>call it expertise to equity. But if I was her,

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<v Speaker 1>I'd say, don't go find another job. And if you

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<v Speaker 1>don't have a brilliant idea that you're like, I would

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<v Speaker 1>die for the want of creating this thing in the world.

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<v Speaker 1>If you have that, please go do it. But if

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<v Speaker 1>you're like I don't have that. I just want to

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<v Speaker 1>make money and I want to feel respected, and I

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<v Speaker 1>want to feel like my skills fit somewhere and I'm

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<v Speaker 1>able to have an outsized income. If that's you, then

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<v Speaker 1>I think you should try to value your skill set.

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<v Speaker 1>Then you should try to negotiate for an upside deal

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<v Speaker 1>with somebody, and you should try your hand at this

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<v Speaker 1>game called ownership, which is where you say, hey, small business,

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<v Speaker 1>I know how to market. Can I help you market

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<v Speaker 1>at the side while I'm working on this company? And

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<v Speaker 1>because I help you grow your revenue by fifty percent?

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<v Speaker 1>Could I keep ten percent of the fifty percent I grow?

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<v Speaker 1>Do you think a small business owner would say yes

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<v Speaker 1>to that? Of course they would, because there's no downside.

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<v Speaker 1>And I think more often than not, we think that

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<v Speaker 1>the only risk you can take and making money in

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<v Speaker 1>business is putting your own cash down. That's a risk,

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<v Speaker 1>or starting a business aka dedicating your life to something.

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<v Speaker 1>The last part I'll get a little statistic on us

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<v Speaker 1>is ninety percent of startups fail inside any rolling ten

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<v Speaker 1>year period. We know that statistic. Most startups make zero

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<v Speaker 1>dollars for the first three years. After that, the average

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<v Speaker 1>entrepreneur makes about forty six thousand dollars a year, which

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<v Speaker 1>is great, but not when you've been making zero for

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<v Speaker 1>three years. And then on top of that, we've got

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<v Speaker 1>this nation of people who have all these bills to pay,

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<v Speaker 1>and they're betting on hopes and dreams as opposed to realities.

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<v Speaker 1>And so my commentary is, can you figure out how

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<v Speaker 1>to value your skills so you can negotiate a little

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<v Speaker 1>bit more upside for that day where you can't work anymore.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm so happy to hear such like smart, honest advice

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<v Speaker 2>because I do think you're so right. For so long

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<v Speaker 2>we keep telling everyone like follow your passion, like just

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<v Speaker 2>quit your job, like jump over, and you know it's

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<v Speaker 2>it's hard because like you said that business may not work,

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<v Speaker 2>your skills may be better off here. You might not

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<v Speaker 2>be an entrepreneur, you might be someone who's gonna work

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<v Speaker 2>with an entrepreneur and build. I wanted to address something though.

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<v Speaker 2>I do find a lot of leaders and a lot

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<v Speaker 2>of founders of small businesses or up and coming businesses

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<v Speaker 2>to also be quite resistant to recognizing the value of sharing.

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<v Speaker 2>So I'll give an example of what I mean by this. Like,

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<v Speaker 2>when I was starting out, I remember speaking to people

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<v Speaker 2>who are much more established than I was, and I said, Hey,

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<v Speaker 2>I've got a person i'm going to work with. I'm

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<v Speaker 2>gonna split things seventy five twenty five, and they're going

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<v Speaker 2>to get twenty five percent of profits. I'm going to

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<v Speaker 2>keep seventy five because they have a skill set I

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<v Speaker 2>don't have, and it will be complementary. And I remember

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<v Speaker 2>everyone telling me it was a really bad idea, because

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, Jay, like, no, you you're building a platform.

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<v Speaker 2>You should earn one hundred percent of it. And I

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<v Speaker 2>was like, but no, they're going to manage stress for me.

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<v Speaker 2>They're going to manage teams. I want to see them grow.

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<v Speaker 2>I want them to feel like they've got skin in

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<v Speaker 2>the game. And now you know, eight years later since

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<v Speaker 2>that decision, I'm so much happier and I have a

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<v Speaker 2>great relationship with my one of my business partners. We

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<v Speaker 2>have a great relationship. He's as invested as he is

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<v Speaker 2>as he was then. Things have grown really well, and

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like the people that were trying to hold on

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<v Speaker 2>to that last five to ten percent, yeah, actually haven't grown.

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<v Speaker 2>And so it was really interesting to me though that

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<v Speaker 2>I see that again and again and again, where even

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<v Speaker 2>founders and new leaders are actually scared of parting with something.

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<v Speaker 2>How would you encourage them to think about that differently?

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<v Speaker 3>Well, I actually would say, be scared of partnerships, Oh great,

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<v Speaker 3>because fifty percent of marriage is and divorced, but one

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<v Speaker 3>hundred of business marriages typically, and because no business lasts forever, right,

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<v Speaker 3>and so at some point you're going to have a

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<v Speaker 3>rift with your business partner by and large, and probably

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<v Speaker 3>you'll have a few rifts with them.

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<v Speaker 1>So I would actually say it's cool to be scared

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<v Speaker 1>about that, you should be. The thing that I want

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<v Speaker 1>people to think about is like, I want to make

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<v Speaker 1>risk a non four letter word, because I think the

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<v Speaker 1>key to wealth is actually risk taking some of it

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<v Speaker 1>the question is if you're like me, I'm kind of

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<v Speaker 1>a wuss, Like I stayed in a corporate job for

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<v Speaker 1>twelve years because I was too scared to do things

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<v Speaker 1>by myself. Even though I was like pretty highly skilled,

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<v Speaker 1>I had a decent amount of cash, I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>definitely not going to make it. I don't think I'm

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think I'm capable, like it took me a

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<v Speaker 1>long time to get there. And so what I did is,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm all about risk mitigation, which is like a fancy,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, financy word to say, how can I just

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<v Speaker 1>make the outcome so in my favor that even if

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not as smart as I think I am, it's

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<v Speaker 1>almost like a win win no matter what. And so

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<v Speaker 1>in that instance, I would probably say tell the make

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<v Speaker 1>the founder a deal so good that they would feel

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<v Speaker 1>dumb saying no to it. And so if if I

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<v Speaker 1>was coming to you Jay and Jay was just starting out,

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<v Speaker 1>I wouldn't do this to somebody who has a big platform.

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<v Speaker 1>They have way too much, too many resources. You need

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<v Speaker 1>to go with somebody that's more accessible to you, that

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't have a lot of resources. It's more on your level.

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<v Speaker 1>But when you find that person, you go hey, win

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<v Speaker 1>win deal. Don't give me a cent unless I provide

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<v Speaker 1>X value, like literally nothing. Don't give me a percentage

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<v Speaker 1>of the company right away. I never give a percentage

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<v Speaker 1>of my companies right away anymore. I did once cost

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<v Speaker 1>me a million bucks. I was pissed. I didn't do

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<v Speaker 1>it again. So you can do. It's called an urn

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<v Speaker 1>in or milestone based deliverables, which I know sounds like

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<v Speaker 1>a little maybe boring. If people are listening the.

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<v Speaker 2>Right way to do it, I'm so glad you're giving

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<v Speaker 2>this advice. It's great.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I mean what you want to do is say, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>I love you, you love me, We're going to be

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<v Speaker 1>together forever. In the off chance that you see a

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<v Speaker 1>hot little side piece and you run off with them.

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<v Speaker 1>I want an ability to get the business back right,

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<v Speaker 1>and so in that way, I am going to instead say, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm taking all the risk in business for the most part,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm putting in the capitol. Unless you're going to put

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<v Speaker 1>in money that is equal to me. You only get

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<v Speaker 1>the equity in the business or the upside in the

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<v Speaker 1>business if you it's either duration or it's execution. So

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<v Speaker 1>either you're here for one, two, three years, which is

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<v Speaker 1>called cliff based investing. Or you're here for the first

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<v Speaker 1>million that you helped me get in, and then the second,

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<v Speaker 1>second million, and then the third million, and if you

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<v Speaker 1>help me hit those milestones, you get the equity. If

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<v Speaker 1>you don't, I wish you well, you wish me well.

0:25:29.760 --> 0:25:31.479
<v Speaker 1>But we've already signed a prenup and this is how

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<v Speaker 1>it works. And so I think we need to start

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<v Speaker 1>thinking like that. And it's very non American. We're not

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<v Speaker 1>so used to negotiating. Probably non British too. Actually, Indians

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<v Speaker 1>incredible at negotiation, same with a lot of people in

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<v Speaker 1>the Middle East, but British and American people not so

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<v Speaker 1>good at negotiating. We think that it's like a low

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<v Speaker 1>level signal on average. So like when I was young,

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<v Speaker 1>my mom, we call her the pipule. She's amazing and

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<v Speaker 1>she would always negotiate everything. My dad's an incredible businessman,

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<v Speaker 1>like totally pull himself up by his own bootstraps, but

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<v Speaker 1>my mom would go negotiate. And I don't know if

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<v Speaker 1>you ever felt like this, but I remember sometimes, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>my mom would be like negotiating for a different price.

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<v Speaker 1>I mom, oh all the time, like please stop, you

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<v Speaker 1>just pay it. And she would look at me and

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<v Speaker 1>she would say, like, once it's your money, you pay it,

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<v Speaker 1>but it's my money, so like, get out of here

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<v Speaker 1>if you don't want to deal with this. And I

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<v Speaker 1>used to think it was so embarrassing, and now I realize, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>that's very smart, and it's actually the thing the wealthy

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<v Speaker 1>do more than anything else that the poor do not,

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<v Speaker 1>which is the wealthy negotiate everything and the poor take

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<v Speaker 1>price while the rich set price.

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<v Speaker 2>Wow, I've never thought about it like that. Set price

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<v Speaker 2>best is taking a price. And I love your mindful

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<v Speaker 2>habits on mitigating risk in a business relationship both sides.

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<v Speaker 2>I think it's I'm glad that you laid it out

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<v Speaker 2>that way because I completely agree with you the amount

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<v Speaker 2>of business relationships that have challenges and issues and everything.

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<v Speaker 2>I want to go back a few moments to when

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<v Speaker 2>you were saying you were stuck for twelve years. And

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<v Speaker 2>the reason I want to talk about that is because

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<v Speaker 2>now when I see you, and whether someone sees you

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<v Speaker 2>online or writing your book or you know, you're on

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<v Speaker 2>all these awesome podcasts and you're talking so confidently and

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<v Speaker 2>you're so clear that to hear that you had doubt

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<v Speaker 2>and it took your long time to get over it.

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<v Speaker 2>Walk me through what was going on in your mind

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<v Speaker 2>during that twenty four month period, twelve month period before

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<v Speaker 2>you actually managed to quit. What was going inside Cody's head?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, I think I would have stayed an employee forever.

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<v Speaker 2>Check me too. That's why I'm asking.

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<v Speaker 1>I like, And I also think, if you're listening right

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<v Speaker 1>now and you ever feel less, then for being an employee,

0:27:37.760 --> 0:27:40.600
<v Speaker 1>you tell that person a pound sand because I guarantee

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<v Speaker 1>you Cheryl Sandberg is worth a lot more than many entrepreneurs.

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<v Speaker 1>And she was an entrepreneur. She worked inside of a

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<v Speaker 1>business and amassed massive wealth, prestige, status, and impact from it.

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<v Speaker 1>And so I don't like when people make employees feel less.

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<v Speaker 1>Then you and I couldn't do what we do if

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<v Speaker 1>we didn't have people who also wanted to build a

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<v Speaker 1>vision with a team as opposed to an end of it.

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<v Speaker 1>So one you can make a ton of money, whether

0:28:02.400 --> 0:28:04.679
<v Speaker 1>you're an employee or whether you are the founder of

0:28:04.720 --> 0:28:06.560
<v Speaker 1>the business. You just got to get a little skin

0:28:06.600 --> 0:28:08.679
<v Speaker 1>in the game and upside. And you get skin in

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<v Speaker 1>the game and upside when you have more value. You

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<v Speaker 1>don't just ask for it. You've got to be able

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<v Speaker 1>to earn it. And so when I was thinking those

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<v Speaker 1>last two years in the business, I was running a

0:28:21.520 --> 0:28:24.239
<v Speaker 1>business in Latin America. I had taken the business from

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<v Speaker 1>zero to a billion dollars in assets under management. I

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<v Speaker 1>had done it for in a place that I had

0:28:28.520 --> 0:28:32.359
<v Speaker 1>never lived, in Mexico, Chile, Colombia, Peru. I didn't have

0:28:32.440 --> 0:28:35.399
<v Speaker 1>contacts there. I'd like built something from nothing, and I

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<v Speaker 1>was really proud of that. But I wasn't very good

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<v Speaker 1>at doing deals back then, and maybe that's why I'm

0:28:40.680 --> 0:28:42.800
<v Speaker 1>obsessed with it now, because I did a shitty deal

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<v Speaker 1>with a guy that I respect a lot, but he

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<v Speaker 1>was just better than me, and he ran the company

0:28:48.440 --> 0:28:51.080
<v Speaker 1>and I built up this huge thing. But basically I

0:28:51.120 --> 0:28:54.040
<v Speaker 1>had no way to take the assets of the business

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<v Speaker 1>with me. The only thing that I could do is

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<v Speaker 1>stay at that business and continue to get partnership until

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<v Speaker 1>they eventually sold. I was like, gosh, I don't want

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<v Speaker 1>to be here for thirty years. And at the time,

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<v Speaker 1>again I respected the CEO a lot, but we didn't

0:29:06.440 --> 0:29:09.400
<v Speaker 1>believe in the same world. Like I believe in a

0:29:09.440 --> 0:29:12.400
<v Speaker 1>world in which we can all get rich together. He

0:29:12.480 --> 0:29:14.320
<v Speaker 1>believed in a world in which he told me, we

0:29:14.400 --> 0:29:17.080
<v Speaker 1>get rich quietly, and he believed that if you told

0:29:17.120 --> 0:29:19.600
<v Speaker 1>people that you were rich, they came after you, which

0:29:19.640 --> 0:29:22.600
<v Speaker 1>sometimes they do. And because of that, he wanted to

0:29:22.600 --> 0:29:25.480
<v Speaker 1>protect himself and be quiet. And I said, I don't

0:29:25.480 --> 0:29:27.680
<v Speaker 1>want to live in that world. And so we thought

0:29:27.680 --> 0:29:29.600
<v Speaker 1>about that. I thought we should run the business this way.

0:29:29.600 --> 0:29:31.720
<v Speaker 1>He thought we should run the business that way. And

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<v Speaker 1>so for those last two years, if he hadn't finally

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<v Speaker 1>taken me on a beach for a walk, him and

0:29:36.280 --> 0:29:38.520
<v Speaker 1>I went he runs a multi hundreds, hundreds and hundreds

0:29:38.520 --> 0:29:41.000
<v Speaker 1>billions of dollar company. We're still friends this day. But

0:29:41.640 --> 0:29:44.080
<v Speaker 1>he essentially gave me an ultimatum. He said, listen, I

0:29:44.120 --> 0:29:46.280
<v Speaker 1>want to row left. You want to row right. The

0:29:46.320 --> 0:29:48.520
<v Speaker 1>problem is you need to get your own chips. You

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<v Speaker 1>got to get your own boat. You're on my boat

0:29:50.760 --> 0:29:52.520
<v Speaker 1>and you're trying to row this way and we're going

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<v Speaker 1>this way. So you got to make a decision. And

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<v Speaker 1>at the time I was so mad. I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>I built this from nothing. You guys can't even speak space.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm down here, do it. Like I was mad, I

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<v Speaker 1>was super entitled that I realized, Cody, did you put

0:30:05.520 --> 0:30:07.600
<v Speaker 1>any of the money on the table to build this business. No,

0:30:08.120 --> 0:30:09.840
<v Speaker 1>you know, did you take the risk?

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<v Speaker 2>No?

0:30:10.400 --> 0:30:13.280
<v Speaker 1>Besides coming here like that was his and so he

0:30:13.360 --> 0:30:17.360
<v Speaker 1>was right, and I couldn't take anything with me. I

0:30:17.360 --> 0:30:20.120
<v Speaker 1>did put my old number two in charge of that business,

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<v Speaker 1>which is cool, she still runs it to this day.

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<v Speaker 1>But I was really like mad at myself and sad.

0:30:24.920 --> 0:30:29.160
<v Speaker 1>And so before I left there, I had done a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of little investments. I called him throwing out my chips. So,

0:30:32.200 --> 0:30:33.720
<v Speaker 1>you know, once you start to make a little money,

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's really helpful to start investing in the

0:30:37.520 --> 0:30:40.320
<v Speaker 1>things that you want to eventually earn from. So I

0:30:40.400 --> 0:30:43.160
<v Speaker 1>knew I wanted to get into some venture capital like things.

0:30:43.160 --> 0:30:45.680
<v Speaker 1>So I started investing in some venture capital firms. And

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<v Speaker 1>so when he finally gave me that ultimatum, I jumped

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<v Speaker 1>ship went to another company, and I didn't even have

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<v Speaker 1>the balls to do it by myself. Then I was

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<v Speaker 1>partnered up with a few other people, and man, like

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of terrible things can happen to you when

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<v Speaker 1>you don't believe in yourself. And I think the universe

0:31:01.960 --> 0:31:04.480
<v Speaker 1>like it will tell you kind of what you need

0:31:04.520 --> 0:31:06.680
<v Speaker 1>to do. And then if you don't listen, I'll annoy

0:31:06.760 --> 0:31:08.200
<v Speaker 1>you for a while and then at some point I'll

0:31:08.240 --> 0:31:10.680
<v Speaker 1>just kick you in the face. I'd like, that's my experience.

0:31:10.720 --> 0:31:12.800
<v Speaker 2>You probably have a nicer experience with the universe.

0:31:13.040 --> 0:31:14.600
<v Speaker 1>But he's kind of like, come on, we should do this,

0:31:14.600 --> 0:31:16.400
<v Speaker 1>we should do this, and it just pushes you off

0:31:16.400 --> 0:31:19.120
<v Speaker 1>the cliff. And so with me, I raised a ton

0:31:19.160 --> 0:31:21.680
<v Speaker 1>of money for this company. I had these couple of partners,

0:31:22.160 --> 0:31:24.880
<v Speaker 1>and at the end, like it didn't work out between us,

0:31:25.120 --> 0:31:28.120
<v Speaker 1>and again unemployable. I wanted to go left, they wanted

0:31:28.160 --> 0:31:29.680
<v Speaker 1>to go right, and I didn't really do that good

0:31:29.680 --> 0:31:32.520
<v Speaker 1>of a deal. And so twice this happened, but that

0:31:32.680 --> 0:31:35.080
<v Speaker 1>last time I did a better deal. And so I said,

0:31:35.120 --> 0:31:37.120
<v Speaker 1>you guys have to pay me out for what I did,

0:31:37.560 --> 0:31:40.360
<v Speaker 1>and I'm going to go do this new business and

0:31:40.360 --> 0:31:42.520
<v Speaker 1>I want to take some of our investors. And so

0:31:43.600 --> 0:31:45.760
<v Speaker 1>if somebody hadn't pushed me out of a company, and

0:31:45.840 --> 0:31:49.280
<v Speaker 1>if somebody else hadn't also said no, we don't want

0:31:49.280 --> 0:31:50.800
<v Speaker 1>to do this with you, I never would have done

0:31:50.800 --> 0:31:53.160
<v Speaker 1>it by myself. And so I think it's it's okay

0:31:53.200 --> 0:31:55.000
<v Speaker 1>if somebody is listening and you're stuck in a corporate

0:31:55.040 --> 0:31:57.640
<v Speaker 1>job quote unquote stuck for a long time, that's okay,

0:31:57.840 --> 0:31:59.880
<v Speaker 1>and it's also okay if it takes you a few tries.

0:32:00.240 --> 0:32:02.200
<v Speaker 1>And I don't think that the only way to make

0:32:02.240 --> 0:32:04.520
<v Speaker 1>money is to go be an entrepreneur and founder and

0:32:04.560 --> 0:32:06.760
<v Speaker 1>do it all by yourself and never work in corporate America.

0:32:07.080 --> 0:32:09.040
<v Speaker 1>I'm very grateful for the money that they spent on

0:32:09.120 --> 0:32:09.880
<v Speaker 1>me for decades.

0:32:10.080 --> 0:32:12.880
<v Speaker 2>Yeah. Absolutely, And I think there's plenty of good examples,

0:32:12.920 --> 0:32:15.920
<v Speaker 2>as you said, of entrepreneurs. And I think it's more

0:32:15.920 --> 0:32:19.520
<v Speaker 2>a mindset thing. What I'm hearing from you is it's

0:32:19.520 --> 0:32:23.160
<v Speaker 2>getting skin in the game, it's negotiating well, it's being

0:32:23.160 --> 0:32:25.400
<v Speaker 2>an owner, right like that. That's really what I'm hearing.

0:32:25.440 --> 0:32:27.680
<v Speaker 2>And I think if people take those three things away

0:32:28.000 --> 0:32:30.600
<v Speaker 2>from what we've talked about so far, that's what you

0:32:30.640 --> 0:32:32.760
<v Speaker 2>want to put your attention to, rather than this idea

0:32:32.840 --> 0:32:34.680
<v Speaker 2>of oh, I've got to start a business, I've got

0:32:34.680 --> 0:32:36.560
<v Speaker 2>to become an entrepreneur. I've got to learn how to invest.

0:32:36.600 --> 0:32:38.720
<v Speaker 2>It's like, no, no, no, this is it. This is

0:32:38.720 --> 0:32:39.200
<v Speaker 2>what it is.

0:32:39.320 --> 0:32:41.960
<v Speaker 1>You're right, Yeah, lots of people focus on the tactics.

0:32:42.240 --> 0:32:45.360
<v Speaker 1>They don't focus on the foundation. The foundation is do

0:32:45.400 --> 0:32:48.680
<v Speaker 1>you believe that you have ownership and responsibility for the

0:32:48.720 --> 0:32:51.920
<v Speaker 1>things you spend more time doing than anything besides sleeping,

0:32:52.000 --> 0:32:54.120
<v Speaker 1>which is working. And if you have what we call

0:32:54.160 --> 0:32:56.560
<v Speaker 1>an owner's mindset, so the type of human that's like

0:32:57.040 --> 0:33:00.200
<v Speaker 1>I'm putting like respect and dignity into what I do

0:33:00.280 --> 0:33:02.840
<v Speaker 1>every day to the point that I start to value

0:33:02.880 --> 0:33:06.280
<v Speaker 1>my own worth and I understand why I'm valued, then

0:33:06.280 --> 0:33:09.120
<v Speaker 1>you will finally be able to negotiate for the only

0:33:09.160 --> 0:33:10.840
<v Speaker 1>thing that nobody can take from you. Somebody can take

0:33:10.840 --> 0:33:13.080
<v Speaker 1>a job, somebody can take a salary, nobody can take

0:33:13.160 --> 0:33:15.960
<v Speaker 1>contractual ownership in a business. And I think that's really

0:33:15.960 --> 0:33:19.120
<v Speaker 1>important in today's world because it really allows you. Then

0:33:19.160 --> 0:33:21.360
<v Speaker 1>when somebody that you work for does something you don't like,

0:33:21.440 --> 0:33:23.600
<v Speaker 1>you just go, yeah, I'm not doing that, you know,

0:33:24.120 --> 0:33:26.560
<v Speaker 1>and you become it's what I call my que fund

0:33:26.840 --> 0:33:29.080
<v Speaker 1>and my lady like fashion, which is like, hey, I

0:33:29.080 --> 0:33:31.280
<v Speaker 1>have a certain amount of money, and because I have it,

0:33:31.400 --> 0:33:36.280
<v Speaker 1>I will never compromise on a few things. But the

0:33:36.320 --> 0:33:38.840
<v Speaker 1>owner's mindset is kind of rare, you know. And so

0:33:39.000 --> 0:33:41.480
<v Speaker 1>I think for young people today so often, and I

0:33:41.600 --> 0:33:46.160
<v Speaker 1>was one, it's like my boss's bed, my job sucks,

0:33:46.480 --> 0:33:48.960
<v Speaker 1>you know, I don't have upward mobility, And if I

0:33:48.960 --> 0:33:51.160
<v Speaker 1>could tell young Cody one thing differently, it would be like,

0:33:51.840 --> 0:33:53.720
<v Speaker 1>what would the opposite side of that story say, and

0:33:53.720 --> 0:33:55.280
<v Speaker 1>which one do you think would make you more money?

0:33:55.840 --> 0:33:58.480
<v Speaker 1>And I'd be like, probably the one in which you're like, hey,

0:33:59.080 --> 0:34:01.440
<v Speaker 1>this is all kind of in my and if I

0:34:01.520 --> 0:34:03.520
<v Speaker 1>make some serious changes in my life, I bet I

0:34:03.560 --> 0:34:06.080
<v Speaker 1>could be richer than I am today. And I wish

0:34:06.080 --> 0:34:06.960
<v Speaker 1>more people thought that way.

0:34:07.200 --> 0:34:09.960
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, how do you have that conversation with your boss?

0:34:10.200 --> 0:34:14.600
<v Speaker 1>I remember once I was at an event and I

0:34:14.680 --> 0:34:16.360
<v Speaker 1>was just listening in the crowd and it was actually

0:34:16.400 --> 0:34:19.120
<v Speaker 1>a finance event for women. So it's a bunch of

0:34:19.160 --> 0:34:22.080
<v Speaker 1>like kind of well off ladies and we're in the

0:34:22.120 --> 0:34:24.040
<v Speaker 1>audience and that the person in front asked everybody to

0:34:24.080 --> 0:34:26.120
<v Speaker 1>close their eyes. So we all close their eyes and

0:34:26.160 --> 0:34:28.319
<v Speaker 1>then they said, nobody is looking. I want you to

0:34:28.360 --> 0:34:31.879
<v Speaker 1>have your body have a physical representation of what you

0:34:31.960 --> 0:34:34.040
<v Speaker 1>feel when you think of money. So I was like,

0:34:34.080 --> 0:34:36.160
<v Speaker 1>this is weird, hippiece, Like what are we doing? So

0:34:36.360 --> 0:34:37.759
<v Speaker 1>I was like I don't know, you know, and you

0:34:37.760 --> 0:34:39.759
<v Speaker 1>can't see me, but like I was like throwing out

0:34:39.800 --> 0:34:42.319
<v Speaker 1>my hands, I'm like, okay, money, I like it, Like

0:34:42.400 --> 0:34:44.080
<v Speaker 1>give it to me, keep it going, you know. Those

0:34:44.120 --> 0:34:47.880
<v Speaker 1>are like my internal monologue, right, yeah, like I'll take some.

0:34:48.480 --> 0:34:51.000
<v Speaker 1>And so I'm chilling. I'm like this, like nobody's looking.

0:34:51.239 --> 0:34:53.720
<v Speaker 1>And then they're like, now, don't move, but open your eyes.

0:34:53.840 --> 0:34:56.120
<v Speaker 1>And when I looked out, I was like, whoa. Because

0:34:56.360 --> 0:34:58.439
<v Speaker 1>the rest of the audience, not the rest, but let's

0:34:58.440 --> 0:35:01.840
<v Speaker 1>call it eighty percent were like this. They're like they

0:35:01.880 --> 0:35:04.160
<v Speaker 1>were tight to the chest, they were like kind of

0:35:04.160 --> 0:35:07.680
<v Speaker 1>like maybe small arms to the side. In some instances,

0:35:07.719 --> 0:35:09.080
<v Speaker 1>I was like, it looked like they had been hit,

0:35:09.160 --> 0:35:12.480
<v Speaker 1>they had been harmed, and I thought that was so fascinating.

0:35:12.480 --> 0:35:14.000
<v Speaker 1>And then they let us shake it off, and I

0:35:14.040 --> 0:35:17.440
<v Speaker 1>was like, oh, man, if your representation of money that

0:35:17.480 --> 0:35:21.120
<v Speaker 1>you feel in your body is closed off, you know,

0:35:21.200 --> 0:35:23.640
<v Speaker 1>kind of scared whatever, I don't know, might be hard

0:35:23.680 --> 0:35:26.880
<v Speaker 1>for you to earn it. So I think for some reason,

0:35:27.840 --> 0:35:31.279
<v Speaker 1>being in finance helped me realize. You guys, if you

0:35:31.520 --> 0:35:33.480
<v Speaker 1>met some of the guys who were worth a hundred

0:35:33.480 --> 0:35:35.440
<v Speaker 1>million dollars that I did in finance, you go, I

0:35:35.440 --> 0:35:38.040
<v Speaker 1>could do that too, Like that guy did it really,

0:35:38.360 --> 0:35:40.080
<v Speaker 1>And so I think once you meet a bunch of

0:35:40.120 --> 0:35:44.239
<v Speaker 1>those people, you go, oh, like this isn't this isn't

0:35:44.239 --> 0:35:47.640
<v Speaker 1>as impossible as people say it is. And so I

0:35:47.719 --> 0:35:50.799
<v Speaker 1>learn a lot from not seeing people achieve it and

0:35:50.840 --> 0:35:53.920
<v Speaker 1>going how could they? How could they? It's instead going wow,

0:35:54.000 --> 0:35:55.520
<v Speaker 1>that guy didn't want to think if you could do it,

0:35:55.560 --> 0:35:57.560
<v Speaker 1>I could do it too, And that taught me to

0:35:57.640 --> 0:35:58.880
<v Speaker 1>keep going Okay, he did it.

0:35:58.920 --> 0:35:59.239
<v Speaker 2>He did it.

0:35:59.239 --> 0:36:01.560
<v Speaker 1>And it's like arms, arms would raise, arms would raise.

0:36:01.880 --> 0:36:03.839
<v Speaker 1>And so maybe that's what I would try to tell people.

0:36:03.880 --> 0:36:06.080
<v Speaker 1>It's like every time you see somebody that has a

0:36:06.080 --> 0:36:08.520
<v Speaker 1>lot of money and you see the humanity in them,

0:36:08.960 --> 0:36:11.360
<v Speaker 1>just remember like we're all kind of the same. Yeah,

0:36:11.760 --> 0:36:16.719
<v Speaker 1>And you can, now, don't get me wrong, intelligence levels, network,

0:36:16.920 --> 0:36:20.440
<v Speaker 1>how you're born, where you're born, real things. But if

0:36:20.480 --> 0:36:24.520
<v Speaker 1>you're living in a first world country in today's day

0:36:24.520 --> 0:36:26.040
<v Speaker 1>and age, with the Internet and what we have at

0:36:26.040 --> 0:36:28.600
<v Speaker 1>our fingertips, I think you're in a better position than

0:36:28.640 --> 0:36:30.080
<v Speaker 1>you've ever been in order to make a lot of

0:36:30.160 --> 0:36:33.239
<v Speaker 1>money today. And I promise you only one thing, which

0:36:33.280 --> 0:36:35.000
<v Speaker 1>is you'll make less money if you think you will.

0:36:36.280 --> 0:36:39.320
<v Speaker 2>Yeah. I wanted you to talk about the difference between

0:36:39.960 --> 0:36:42.680
<v Speaker 2>what you just said and how we cultivate that mindset

0:36:43.120 --> 0:36:45.000
<v Speaker 2>because you're so right I know a lot of people,

0:36:45.000 --> 0:36:46.480
<v Speaker 2>a lot of friends as well. They'll look at someone

0:36:46.520 --> 0:36:48.799
<v Speaker 2>who's doing well for themselves and they'll be like, that

0:36:48.880 --> 0:36:50.839
<v Speaker 2>guy's so dumb le I could do that. I could

0:36:50.840 --> 0:36:52.759
<v Speaker 2>do that with my clothes, but it's actually in a

0:36:52.840 --> 0:36:56.120
<v Speaker 2>condescending way to that person, rather than oh that guy

0:36:56.120 --> 0:36:58.560
<v Speaker 2>can do it, Oh great, okay, well I've got this

0:36:58.640 --> 0:37:00.319
<v Speaker 2>sko I went, I can do it, you know. And

0:37:00.360 --> 0:37:03.440
<v Speaker 2>so what is that mindset shift? Because I think we're

0:37:03.480 --> 0:37:06.120
<v Speaker 2>good at looking at other people, but often we eat

0:37:06.200 --> 0:37:10.680
<v Speaker 2>the full prey to being envious instead of studious of them,

0:37:10.680 --> 0:37:13.080
<v Speaker 2>Like instead of envy, instead of studying them, we envy them,

0:37:13.680 --> 0:37:16.719
<v Speaker 2>or we end up being condescending of them of like, oh, well,

0:37:16.800 --> 0:37:18.600
<v Speaker 2>you know, he's not even that small. Well they're not

0:37:18.640 --> 0:37:20.880
<v Speaker 2>even it's not even that great, right, we kind of

0:37:21.040 --> 0:37:23.600
<v Speaker 2>justify that. So how do you shift that? Because I

0:37:23.600 --> 0:37:25.200
<v Speaker 2>think that's at the core of what you're saying.

0:37:25.400 --> 0:37:27.040
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and don't get me wrong, I fall pray to

0:37:27.080 --> 0:37:29.000
<v Speaker 1>all of these things too. I still to this day

0:37:29.320 --> 0:37:32.399
<v Speaker 1>play the game of comparison like they're doing that. Come on, team,

0:37:32.400 --> 0:37:32.960
<v Speaker 1>where are we going?

0:37:33.040 --> 0:37:33.200
<v Speaker 2>You know?

0:37:33.280 --> 0:37:35.960
<v Speaker 1>I do it me too, sure, And I wish I didn't,

0:37:35.960 --> 0:37:39.759
<v Speaker 1>but I still do. But I do think cash loves curiosity.

0:37:40.120 --> 0:37:43.279
<v Speaker 1>If you remember anything else, it's that money is really

0:37:43.320 --> 0:37:46.080
<v Speaker 1>attracted to the type of human that keeps asking questions.

0:37:46.120 --> 0:37:48.080
<v Speaker 1>You don't actually have to know the answers. Often to

0:37:48.080 --> 0:37:49.880
<v Speaker 1>make money, you need to ask the right questions. So

0:37:49.920 --> 0:37:53.400
<v Speaker 1>I kind of trained myself every time I saw somebody

0:37:53.400 --> 0:37:55.480
<v Speaker 1>with money, or I got to know somebody with money,

0:37:55.640 --> 0:37:57.880
<v Speaker 1>I didn't need to know anything else besides, like, can

0:37:57.920 --> 0:38:00.120
<v Speaker 1>I just ask them a lot of questions continuously? And

0:38:00.160 --> 0:38:01.399
<v Speaker 1>it was funny because I was talking to I think

0:38:01.400 --> 0:38:03.520
<v Speaker 1>another mutual friend of ours, Jesse Eisler, the other day,

0:38:03.760 --> 0:38:05.319
<v Speaker 1>and Jesse talks about how he used to go to

0:38:05.600 --> 0:38:09.040
<v Speaker 1>a hotel here and he would just ask questions in

0:38:09.080 --> 0:38:11.680
<v Speaker 1>the lobby or at the lunch table. He was like

0:38:11.800 --> 0:38:13.960
<v Speaker 1>living not in a nice place, he had no cash whatsoever,

0:38:14.080 --> 0:38:15.839
<v Speaker 1>but when he saw people that he thought looked rich

0:38:15.960 --> 0:38:19.160
<v Speaker 1>or interesting, he would just ask them questions. And I

0:38:19.200 --> 0:38:23.560
<v Speaker 1>think with the Internet, sometimes we think that questions don't

0:38:23.560 --> 0:38:26.760
<v Speaker 1>matter anymore, and we go to the internet to get answers,

0:38:26.920 --> 0:38:28.960
<v Speaker 1>and if instead you can make a human connection and

0:38:29.040 --> 0:38:31.640
<v Speaker 1>get curious about them, they'll give things to you. And

0:38:31.719 --> 0:38:33.759
<v Speaker 1>so one of my I played a game when I

0:38:33.800 --> 0:38:36.160
<v Speaker 1>was really young, which is I kind of started collecting

0:38:36.239 --> 0:38:39.520
<v Speaker 1>mentors who never knew they were my mentor. And I

0:38:39.520 --> 0:38:42.200
<v Speaker 1>think this is a really clever thing to do. And

0:38:42.640 --> 0:38:46.520
<v Speaker 1>I remember one in particular, Bob Kendall, and BKA is

0:38:46.560 --> 0:38:48.200
<v Speaker 1>what we call him. He was super high up at

0:38:48.840 --> 0:38:50.080
<v Speaker 1>I don't know if it was gold Men or Credits

0:38:50.080 --> 0:38:52.200
<v Speaker 1>Suite at the time, one of the companies, and he

0:38:52.280 --> 0:38:54.319
<v Speaker 1>was so like out of my range, like you know

0:38:54.360 --> 0:38:55.920
<v Speaker 1>when somebody else is in a company, and I was

0:38:55.960 --> 0:38:58.440
<v Speaker 1>basically the intern and he was the big dog. But

0:38:58.480 --> 0:39:00.319
<v Speaker 1>I got a couple of chances to interact with him,

0:39:00.320 --> 0:39:02.840
<v Speaker 1>and I would just ask him questions, like very simple

0:39:02.880 --> 0:39:05.719
<v Speaker 1>ones like oh, you just took over this area of

0:39:05.760 --> 0:39:08.160
<v Speaker 1>the business, like why what did you see there as

0:39:08.160 --> 0:39:09.799
<v Speaker 1>opposed to this other area where a lot of people

0:39:09.800 --> 0:39:11.719
<v Speaker 1>are going. I would just kind of beque curious. And

0:39:11.760 --> 0:39:13.720
<v Speaker 1>then I would do a thing that I think probably

0:39:13.719 --> 0:39:16.279
<v Speaker 1>helped me make more mentors than anything else, which is

0:39:17.200 --> 0:39:20.200
<v Speaker 1>I would get their contact information. I would never ask

0:39:20.280 --> 0:39:23.560
<v Speaker 1>them for anything. I would largely just say, Hey, that

0:39:23.600 --> 0:39:25.319
<v Speaker 1>piece of advice that you gave me the other day

0:39:25.400 --> 0:39:27.239
<v Speaker 1>that was really useful and I applied it this way,

0:39:27.280 --> 0:39:29.600
<v Speaker 1>thank you for doing that. Or i'd see if his

0:39:29.719 --> 0:39:32.479
<v Speaker 1>name was written somewhere he had done a research paper

0:39:32.560 --> 0:39:33.880
<v Speaker 1>or something. I might send it to him, like with

0:39:33.920 --> 0:39:36.600
<v Speaker 1>a couple highlighted things like these lines were incredible, Thank

0:39:36.600 --> 0:39:38.520
<v Speaker 1>you for doing that. Then after I had done that

0:39:38.560 --> 0:39:41.919
<v Speaker 1>a few times, I might give them one question like, hey,

0:39:42.640 --> 0:39:47.280
<v Speaker 1>you know, I'm thinking about going into marketing or sales,

0:39:47.400 --> 0:39:49.680
<v Speaker 1>and I'm trying to figure out how do you decide

0:39:49.800 --> 0:39:52.600
<v Speaker 1>which career path is more interesting to you? Do you

0:39:52.600 --> 0:39:54.880
<v Speaker 1>have just like a one sentence about it, or do

0:39:54.920 --> 0:39:56.640
<v Speaker 1>you have one book that you'd like to read, like

0:39:56.680 --> 0:39:59.560
<v Speaker 1>really short? And I remember I sat down with BK

0:39:59.680 --> 0:40:01.359
<v Speaker 1>years and he was like, you know the funny thing

0:40:01.360 --> 0:40:03.600
<v Speaker 1>about you? And I was like, oh, what you know?

0:40:03.920 --> 0:40:07.319
<v Speaker 1>And he was like, you like somehow made me your

0:40:07.360 --> 0:40:09.880
<v Speaker 1>mentor but you never asked. And then I started caring

0:40:10.040 --> 0:40:12.080
<v Speaker 1>about what happened to your career but I kind of

0:40:12.080 --> 0:40:14.800
<v Speaker 1>never meant to, which is like a very aspergerzy finance

0:40:14.880 --> 0:40:17.040
<v Speaker 1>thing to do. And he's like, did you do that

0:40:17.080 --> 0:40:18.680
<v Speaker 1>on purpose? And I was like, I get, you know,

0:40:18.719 --> 0:40:20.279
<v Speaker 1>I don't know. I was young then, so I don't know,

0:40:20.400 --> 0:40:26.320
<v Speaker 1>but maybe that tiny transfer of Hey, I have advice

0:40:26.400 --> 0:40:30.360
<v Speaker 1>and somebody actually takes it, uses it, continuously wants nothing

0:40:30.480 --> 0:40:32.840
<v Speaker 1>from me for it, and then gives me a positive

0:40:32.880 --> 0:40:35.839
<v Speaker 1>feedback loop that I'm making change on their life is

0:40:35.960 --> 0:40:38.440
<v Speaker 1>so rare, so right.

0:40:38.360 --> 0:40:41.400
<v Speaker 2>That's genius. That's actually the best mentorship advice I think

0:40:41.440 --> 0:40:44.399
<v Speaker 2>I've ever heard, because I think so many of us

0:40:44.840 --> 0:40:46.640
<v Speaker 2>when we want someone to be a mentor, the fast

0:40:46.680 --> 0:40:48.000
<v Speaker 2>mistake is we asked them to be honest.

0:40:48.000 --> 0:40:49.600
<v Speaker 1>I don't do that. That also makes me die on

0:40:49.640 --> 0:40:51.120
<v Speaker 1>the inside. If somebody asked me that, I'm like, that's

0:40:51.120 --> 0:40:52.160
<v Speaker 1>such a huge responsibility.

0:40:52.200 --> 0:40:54.040
<v Speaker 2>What if I you up exactly? What if I don't

0:40:54.040 --> 0:40:56.680
<v Speaker 2>have time? If I can't respond, like that's that's the

0:40:56.760 --> 0:40:59.920
<v Speaker 2>natural reaction. And same with me. I've always had ment

0:41:00.160 --> 0:41:01.919
<v Speaker 2>was that don't know their my mentors. It's the only way.

0:41:02.080 --> 0:41:04.239
<v Speaker 2>But what I love about your advice, which I've never

0:41:04.280 --> 0:41:06.920
<v Speaker 2>ever heard before, is also how you ask for advice.

0:41:06.960 --> 0:41:09.040
<v Speaker 2>I think this is second mistake. So the first mistake

0:41:09.080 --> 0:41:10.200
<v Speaker 2>we say is can you be my mentor?

0:41:10.280 --> 0:41:10.520
<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

0:41:10.560 --> 0:41:12.759
<v Speaker 2>The second mistake we make is we send a whole

0:41:12.800 --> 0:41:18.279
<v Speaker 2>life story with one like really big profound question. So

0:41:18.320 --> 0:41:20.359
<v Speaker 2>it's like I went from this then I did this,

0:41:20.480 --> 0:41:22.200
<v Speaker 2>then I dropped out, then I did this, then I

0:41:22.239 --> 0:41:25.319
<v Speaker 2>did this. How do I discover my purpose? And it's

0:41:25.440 --> 0:41:27.439
<v Speaker 2>like and it's like the person on the other side

0:41:27.480 --> 0:41:31.760
<v Speaker 2>has no idea how to compute all of that algorithmically

0:41:32.320 --> 0:41:34.319
<v Speaker 2>and give you a really profound answer back that they

0:41:34.400 --> 0:41:37.400
<v Speaker 2>genuinely be will help you, which means they probably won't respond,

0:41:37.640 --> 0:41:39.800
<v Speaker 2>or if they don't respond, it will be extremely short,

0:41:40.320 --> 0:41:43.719
<v Speaker 2>and then you feel disgruntled and upset that they didn't

0:41:43.840 --> 0:41:47.000
<v Speaker 2>value your whole life story, and then now you probably

0:41:47.040 --> 0:41:50.040
<v Speaker 2>lose touch. Whereas your advice was just so perfect because

0:41:50.040 --> 0:41:52.239
<v Speaker 2>the idea that you were sending them their own work

0:41:52.280 --> 0:41:55.640
<v Speaker 2>with a couple of highlights, one sentence question, one piece

0:41:55.640 --> 0:41:58.200
<v Speaker 2>of insight, and then that person, like you said, becomes

0:41:58.280 --> 0:42:01.880
<v Speaker 2>invested in your life. Such great advice, Cody, I've really,

0:42:02.360 --> 0:42:04.799
<v Speaker 2>really mean that. I've never had mentorship advice better than that.

0:42:05.000 --> 0:42:07.239
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I think it worked for me. And I also

0:42:07.239 --> 0:42:08.880
<v Speaker 1>think the other piece of advice that was useful. I

0:42:08.920 --> 0:42:11.480
<v Speaker 1>never went for like the top dog. Yeah, you know,

0:42:11.480 --> 0:42:13.319
<v Speaker 1>I would never go to the president of Goldman Lloyd

0:42:13.320 --> 0:42:15.240
<v Speaker 1>blank Figon back in the day and be like LLRD,

0:42:15.280 --> 0:42:17.400
<v Speaker 1>the thing is, talk to me, can I have your email,

0:42:17.600 --> 0:42:20.319
<v Speaker 1>of course, not I would go to like one or

0:42:20.320 --> 0:42:23.560
<v Speaker 1>two levels past what was comfortable for me. Right, So

0:42:23.600 --> 0:42:25.320
<v Speaker 1>it was like I could still get to the person,

0:42:25.719 --> 0:42:28.440
<v Speaker 1>and then you can use it as like a leap frog.

0:42:28.680 --> 0:42:31.760
<v Speaker 1>And the last thing I'll say is I totally disagree

0:42:31.760 --> 0:42:33.640
<v Speaker 1>with the advice today that a lot of like kind

0:42:33.640 --> 0:42:38.279
<v Speaker 1>of well known people give, which is, once you outgrow people,

0:42:38.360 --> 0:42:39.880
<v Speaker 1>leave them behind you, you know, and a lot of

0:42:39.880 --> 0:42:41.799
<v Speaker 1>people say like, well they were my mentor, but I've

0:42:41.840 --> 0:42:44.960
<v Speaker 1>superseded on my mentors. Oh no, yeah, And I hear

0:42:45.000 --> 0:42:47.640
<v Speaker 1>that often from like the business community. You know. It's

0:42:47.680 --> 0:42:49.360
<v Speaker 1>like you're the average of the five people you surround

0:42:49.400 --> 0:42:51.120
<v Speaker 1>yourself with, so make sure there are awesome and it's

0:42:51.160 --> 0:42:53.200
<v Speaker 1>like yeah, but also don't forget how you got there

0:42:53.560 --> 0:42:56.680
<v Speaker 1>because you never know. Mentorship has like multi layers to it.

0:42:56.880 --> 0:42:59.400
<v Speaker 1>You can get mentored from above but also below, I

0:42:59.400 --> 0:43:01.600
<v Speaker 1>mean your team teaching us beforehand. How do not sound

0:43:01.600 --> 0:43:04.600
<v Speaker 1>like boomers? Right? So, like there's that, you know, you

0:43:04.600 --> 0:43:08.240
<v Speaker 1>can also have somebody that's a higher that like, for instance,

0:43:08.239 --> 0:43:12.600
<v Speaker 1>I think a lot about the idea that like Peter Teal,

0:43:12.640 --> 0:43:15.080
<v Speaker 1>whether you like him or not, really rich guy gives

0:43:15.160 --> 0:43:17.600
<v Speaker 1>money to Mark Zuckerberg, right, whether you like him or not,

0:43:17.920 --> 0:43:20.959
<v Speaker 1>Mark Zuckerberg then goes to become richer than Peter Teel.

0:43:21.920 --> 0:43:25.040
<v Speaker 1>Now is Peter mad because Mark made more money than him?

0:43:25.200 --> 0:43:27.600
<v Speaker 1>I highly doubt it, because Mark made Peter a ton

0:43:27.600 --> 0:43:30.239
<v Speaker 1>of money. And at one point, you know, the imbalance

0:43:30.280 --> 0:43:32.000
<v Speaker 1>was Peter was way up here and Mark was down here,

0:43:32.040 --> 0:43:35.319
<v Speaker 1>and now it's probably flipped. And how cool is that that?

0:43:35.440 --> 0:43:39.239
<v Speaker 1>Like somebody who used to be sort of below you,

0:43:39.239 --> 0:43:42.000
<v Speaker 1>you've helped in some way get above you, and then

0:43:42.000 --> 0:43:44.080
<v Speaker 1>you get to like value transitfer the other way. So

0:43:44.120 --> 0:43:46.399
<v Speaker 1>I will say, like, maybe if I gave one other

0:43:46.440 --> 0:43:50.440
<v Speaker 1>piece of advice on mentorship, it would be collect and

0:43:50.520 --> 0:43:53.920
<v Speaker 1>keep with you the people even after you've superseded them,

0:43:54.760 --> 0:43:57.560
<v Speaker 1>you know, yeah, and try to be their best mentortely

0:43:57.600 --> 0:44:00.719
<v Speaker 1>like I mean mentee, I always try to like them.

0:44:01.000 --> 0:44:03.000
<v Speaker 1>I want them to be able to brag about me. Yeah, Like,

0:44:03.040 --> 0:44:05.239
<v Speaker 1>no matter what you teach me, I want to be

0:44:05.360 --> 0:44:08.120
<v Speaker 1>the best mentee to the point that they're like, hey,

0:44:08.239 --> 0:44:10.560
<v Speaker 1>look how smart I am because of that, And I

0:44:10.560 --> 0:44:11.960
<v Speaker 1>want to give them all the credit on it.

0:44:12.160 --> 0:44:13.000
<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

0:44:13.040 --> 0:44:15.080
<v Speaker 1>And when you do that, then they introduce you to

0:44:15.080 --> 0:44:17.239
<v Speaker 1>their really successful friends too, So it's a two for.

0:44:17.520 --> 0:44:19.160
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, definitely. And I want to add what you were

0:44:19.160 --> 0:44:21.759
<v Speaker 2>saying earlier as well, this idea of you have to

0:44:21.800 --> 0:44:24.279
<v Speaker 2>act on the advice. And I think there's a lot

0:44:24.320 --> 0:44:27.840
<v Speaker 2>of requesting of advice, there's a lot of looking for answers,

0:44:28.480 --> 0:44:31.720
<v Speaker 2>but being a great mentee is taking the advice, putting

0:44:31.719 --> 0:44:35.600
<v Speaker 2>it into action, and then reporting the result and saying, hey,

0:44:35.680 --> 0:44:37.400
<v Speaker 2>I took your advice. This is as you were saying,

0:44:37.680 --> 0:44:40.480
<v Speaker 2>And I think that's so core to what was different

0:44:40.480 --> 0:44:43.560
<v Speaker 2>about mentorship, where like you're saying, now, in this TikTok

0:44:43.600 --> 0:44:46.239
<v Speaker 2>Instagram world, I think there's just so much advice everywhere

0:44:46.880 --> 0:44:49.839
<v Speaker 2>that we're not really getting the opportunity to digest it,

0:44:50.160 --> 0:44:53.120
<v Speaker 2>put it into practice, and then report on it as well.

0:44:53.200 --> 0:44:56.120
<v Speaker 2>And I love your idea of gratitude. I mean, I

0:44:56.160 --> 0:44:59.479
<v Speaker 2>remember when I joined the company as an intern years ago,

0:45:00.040 --> 0:45:02.120
<v Speaker 2>and I was only there for like a summer internship,

0:45:02.719 --> 0:45:04.920
<v Speaker 2>but they put up the pictures of the founders of

0:45:04.960 --> 0:45:07.239
<v Speaker 2>the company and then they were like, yeah, but we

0:45:07.280 --> 0:45:08.960
<v Speaker 2>don't care about them, the old guys anyway, And I

0:45:09.000 --> 0:45:12.200
<v Speaker 2>remember realized, like I was just like, wow, that's really

0:45:12.719 --> 0:45:15.719
<v Speaker 2>ungrateful because none of us would be here right now

0:45:15.719 --> 0:45:18.560
<v Speaker 2>if it wasn't for them. And yes, they're not alive anymore,

0:45:18.560 --> 0:45:21.120
<v Speaker 2>and yes that was a long time ago, but I

0:45:21.160 --> 0:45:23.319
<v Speaker 2>fully agree with you that. And also, you just don't

0:45:23.320 --> 0:45:24.640
<v Speaker 2>know when you're on the way up when you're on

0:45:24.680 --> 0:45:27.799
<v Speaker 2>the way down. Your mentors, generally, if they're older than

0:45:27.800 --> 0:45:30.320
<v Speaker 2>you in the beginning, even if you become more successful

0:45:30.360 --> 0:45:32.960
<v Speaker 2>than them materially, I believe they have so much more

0:45:33.000 --> 0:45:35.640
<v Speaker 2>spiritual wisdom to give you over time. Like I've got

0:45:35.680 --> 0:45:38.920
<v Speaker 2>mentors same way who helped me out when I was

0:45:38.920 --> 0:45:42.880
<v Speaker 2>in my late twenties, and today there's so much more

0:45:42.880 --> 0:45:44.520
<v Speaker 2>helpful when they talk to me about what it feels

0:45:44.520 --> 0:45:46.520
<v Speaker 2>like being a dad, Like I'm not a dad right now,

0:45:46.560 --> 0:45:48.239
<v Speaker 2>but he's been a dad and his kids are in

0:45:48.320 --> 0:45:51.160
<v Speaker 2>their mid twenties and he has a great relationship with them.

0:45:51.160 --> 0:45:53.680
<v Speaker 2>I'm like, I'm not there at that level. So mentorship

0:45:53.719 --> 0:45:59.400
<v Speaker 2>also takes across not just financial, but relationships, you know, emotionally, mentally,

0:45:59.440 --> 0:46:02.560
<v Speaker 2>there's so many other areas. Oh yeah, so leaving someone

0:46:02.560 --> 0:46:04.520
<v Speaker 2>behind his terrible advice.

0:46:04.280 --> 0:46:05.960
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I agree, And you know it's one thing if

0:46:06.000 --> 0:46:11.520
<v Speaker 1>somebody's negative or they're unhelpful, which I still believe very much.

0:46:11.560 --> 0:46:14.680
<v Speaker 1>So like Arthur Brooks, who I just think so highly of.

0:46:14.719 --> 0:46:16.560
<v Speaker 1>And I remember back before I knew him as a

0:46:16.600 --> 0:46:18.759
<v Speaker 1>friend and I was just a fan. Last time I

0:46:18.800 --> 0:46:21.480
<v Speaker 1>was in New York with him, he I was having like,

0:46:21.719 --> 0:46:23.600
<v Speaker 1>you know, what somebody's mean to you online? Does that

0:46:23.600 --> 0:46:26.520
<v Speaker 1>ever happened to you? Probably sometimes, of course. Well there

0:46:26.520 --> 0:46:28.360
<v Speaker 1>was one person that was like really mean and I

0:46:28.360 --> 0:46:30.480
<v Speaker 1>don't know why it got to me. Somehow it bothered me.

0:46:31.080 --> 0:46:33.279
<v Speaker 1>And you know, this was a while ago, and I

0:46:33.320 --> 0:46:36.000
<v Speaker 1>remember telling him for some reason. And often it only

0:46:36.000 --> 0:46:37.560
<v Speaker 1>bothers me if I feel like there's a kernel of

0:46:37.600 --> 0:46:39.759
<v Speaker 1>truth to it. So if they like really nail my

0:46:39.800 --> 0:46:43.560
<v Speaker 1>imposter syndrome, or they really nail like, you know, is

0:46:43.600 --> 0:46:45.319
<v Speaker 1>she as smart as she thinks? She like something that

0:46:45.320 --> 0:46:47.480
<v Speaker 1>I'm like that I worry about too. If they get that,

0:46:47.520 --> 0:46:49.600
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, dang it, I'm paying attention now. That's not good.

0:46:49.960 --> 0:46:51.920
<v Speaker 1>But I remember I said to him, like, you know,

0:46:52.480 --> 0:46:54.279
<v Speaker 1>I'm just bothered and I want to do something about it.

0:46:54.320 --> 0:46:55.719
<v Speaker 1>And he was like, are you going to listen to me?

0:46:55.760 --> 0:46:57.319
<v Speaker 1>And I was like, maybe, what what are you going

0:46:57.400 --> 0:46:59.239
<v Speaker 1>to tell me to do? And he's like, I want

0:46:59.280 --> 0:47:03.880
<v Speaker 1>you too, picture this guy having all the success in

0:47:03.920 --> 0:47:06.360
<v Speaker 1>the world. I want you to wish him so much. Well,

0:47:06.440 --> 0:47:08.880
<v Speaker 1>it becomes like a bit bizarre, and I want you

0:47:08.920 --> 0:47:11.280
<v Speaker 1>to actually feel it. And again I'm not that touchy feeling.

0:47:11.280 --> 0:47:15.080
<v Speaker 1>I'm pretty spreadsheety. So when he told me that, I'm like, fine,

0:47:15.600 --> 0:47:17.080
<v Speaker 1>but like, I don't think there's going to be an

0:47:17.120 --> 0:47:21.319
<v Speaker 1>outcome here like that. And he's a wonky, very smart guy,

0:47:21.400 --> 0:47:25.040
<v Speaker 1>so it's not anyway. So I did it, and I

0:47:25.200 --> 0:47:27.160
<v Speaker 1>like really thought about it. I was like walking in

0:47:27.160 --> 0:47:28.319
<v Speaker 1>New York, and I was like, you know what, I

0:47:28.360 --> 0:47:30.000
<v Speaker 1>do wish this guy well, because I bet it is

0:47:30.080 --> 0:47:32.640
<v Speaker 1>sad if you are, like, if you're in a place

0:47:32.640 --> 0:47:34.759
<v Speaker 1>where all you're doing is hating on somebody online all

0:47:34.760 --> 0:47:36.000
<v Speaker 1>the time, I bet you are kind of sad. So

0:47:36.040 --> 0:47:38.760
<v Speaker 1>I started like empathizing with him and thinking about it. Anyway.

0:47:38.920 --> 0:47:41.840
<v Speaker 1>Not two weeks later, the guy does a public apology

0:47:42.239 --> 0:47:45.719
<v Speaker 1>for like and does this long dm to me. You know,

0:47:45.760 --> 0:47:47.560
<v Speaker 1>my husband has like a long memory, so it's like, not,

0:47:47.840 --> 0:47:49.880
<v Speaker 1>you know, let's get that guy. But I was like,

0:47:49.920 --> 0:47:52.120
<v Speaker 1>I just learned such a lesson and maybe it doesn't

0:47:52.120 --> 0:47:53.880
<v Speaker 1>always work like that, and maybe there's still me in you.

0:47:53.960 --> 0:47:57.680
<v Speaker 1>Later but I really think sometimes you learn just as

0:47:57.719 --> 0:48:00.640
<v Speaker 1>much from your haters as you do from your mentors,

0:48:00.719 --> 0:48:04.000
<v Speaker 1>and so don't underestimate not only the same where we

0:48:04.080 --> 0:48:06.360
<v Speaker 1>kind of get all hot and bothered, like, you know,

0:48:06.400 --> 0:48:08.920
<v Speaker 1>if you don't got hate, you're not doing anything maybe,

0:48:09.160 --> 0:48:12.640
<v Speaker 1>but also, wow, you can learn a lot from the

0:48:12.680 --> 0:48:16.480
<v Speaker 1>type of feelings you get when people doubt you. And

0:48:16.560 --> 0:48:18.640
<v Speaker 1>I think that's just as important. And I wouldn't be

0:48:18.719 --> 0:48:21.280
<v Speaker 1>where I was today if I didn't have some big

0:48:21.360 --> 0:48:23.400
<v Speaker 1>haters that I felt like I needed to prove wrong.

0:48:23.640 --> 0:48:26.000
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, well said, I want to dive into the heart

0:48:26.000 --> 0:48:28.319
<v Speaker 2>of this book because what made it so unique for

0:48:28.360 --> 0:48:31.600
<v Speaker 2>me is I don't think I've ever heard anyone really

0:48:31.640 --> 0:48:36.719
<v Speaker 2>talk about buying ordinary businesses. And that's the crux of

0:48:36.760 --> 0:48:39.000
<v Speaker 2>so much of your work and why it's different and

0:48:39.080 --> 0:48:41.600
<v Speaker 2>how you're getting people to think differently about ownership. You

0:48:41.600 --> 0:48:43.960
<v Speaker 2>had this video that I remember watching that got like

0:48:43.960 --> 0:48:48.200
<v Speaker 2>eleven million views talking about this vending machine business, like,

0:48:48.320 --> 0:48:50.839
<v Speaker 2>what are some of the most unusual businesses you've seen

0:48:50.880 --> 0:48:52.839
<v Speaker 2>people make money from? Because I think it goes back

0:48:52.840 --> 0:48:56.520
<v Speaker 2>to what we were speaking about earlier. We're all after this sexy,

0:48:56.880 --> 0:49:00.480
<v Speaker 2>shiny money and most people are making loads of money

0:49:00.520 --> 0:49:04.000
<v Speaker 2>through really un sexy random things, vending machines being a

0:49:04.040 --> 0:49:07.320
<v Speaker 2>case in point. Walk us through some of us unusual businesses.

0:49:07.360 --> 0:49:08.880
<v Speaker 2>You've discovered people making money.

0:49:08.719 --> 0:49:11.719
<v Speaker 1>Yes, let's do it. And also realized first like most

0:49:11.760 --> 0:49:13.720
<v Speaker 1>of the people who are really shiny on the internet

0:49:14.280 --> 0:49:16.200
<v Speaker 1>don't actually make much money. In fact, a lot of

0:49:16.200 --> 0:49:18.480
<v Speaker 1>celebrities make no money. And you know this all too

0:49:18.520 --> 0:49:20.560
<v Speaker 1>well being here. There's a lot of show and it's

0:49:20.600 --> 0:49:23.080
<v Speaker 1>actually quite hard to make money in the shiny things.

0:49:23.320 --> 0:49:25.960
<v Speaker 1>The richest guy you know probably started a landscaping or

0:49:25.960 --> 0:49:27.920
<v Speaker 1>sprinkler head company. In fact, that was the case for

0:49:28.000 --> 0:49:30.279
<v Speaker 1>my family when I was growing up. I meant I

0:49:30.400 --> 0:49:34.960
<v Speaker 1>interned for a woman who is my brother's friend's mom,

0:49:35.480 --> 0:49:38.000
<v Speaker 1>and they were worth what I thought was a bajillion

0:49:38.080 --> 0:49:41.520
<v Speaker 1>dollars back then, and it was from an equipment rental company,

0:49:41.760 --> 0:49:45.040
<v Speaker 1>so this guy was worth somewhere near fifty million dollars.

0:49:45.080 --> 0:49:49.840
<v Speaker 1>From one idea, I buy some landscaping equipment, some tractors,

0:49:49.880 --> 0:49:53.120
<v Speaker 1>et cetera, and I don't sell them, I don't flip them.

0:49:53.400 --> 0:49:56.080
<v Speaker 1>But I realized that construction companies only want to use

0:49:56.120 --> 0:49:59.200
<v Speaker 1>them part time, so I actually rent them out and

0:49:59.280 --> 0:50:02.200
<v Speaker 1>so this guy would make the cost of a piece

0:50:02.239 --> 0:50:06.400
<v Speaker 1>of equipment back inside of ninety days, and so instead

0:50:06.440 --> 0:50:09.200
<v Speaker 1>of getting whatever difference is between him buying the equipment

0:50:09.200 --> 0:50:10.960
<v Speaker 1>and selling it for a little bit more, he would

0:50:10.960 --> 0:50:15.080
<v Speaker 1>make the entire purchase price over every ninety day cycle.

0:50:15.400 --> 0:50:17.279
<v Speaker 1>And I remember, like thinking back the day when I

0:50:17.280 --> 0:50:20.320
<v Speaker 1>saw that you can make money doing anything, and in fact,

0:50:20.400 --> 0:50:22.160
<v Speaker 1>you probably make it more often in the things that

0:50:22.239 --> 0:50:25.319
<v Speaker 1>nobody thinks about because you have less competition, because it

0:50:25.360 --> 0:50:28.360
<v Speaker 1>also sounds really boring, and you know, the Mark zucker

0:50:28.400 --> 0:50:30.919
<v Speaker 1>brote Bergs and brilliant minds of the world, they don't

0:50:30.920 --> 0:50:33.600
<v Speaker 1>want to mess around with equipment rental. But people like

0:50:33.680 --> 0:50:35.560
<v Speaker 1>me who are maybe like kind of smart but not

0:50:35.719 --> 0:50:38.000
<v Speaker 1>that smart, could make a lot of money doing it.

0:50:38.080 --> 0:50:40.120
<v Speaker 1>And so there are three types of businesses that I

0:50:40.160 --> 0:50:45.000
<v Speaker 1>obsess about. I call them overarchingly mainStreet businesses. So the ideas, basically,

0:50:45.239 --> 0:50:47.600
<v Speaker 1>what if all the money is actually made in community

0:50:47.600 --> 0:50:51.040
<v Speaker 1>businesses that we use every single day. Your roofing company,

0:50:51.239 --> 0:50:54.799
<v Speaker 1>your podcast production company, you send outsourced editing clips too.

0:50:55.239 --> 0:50:59.520
<v Speaker 1>You know the cobbler that actually cleans up shoes on

0:50:59.560 --> 0:51:02.359
<v Speaker 1>the corner store. All of these businesses. When you see

0:51:02.400 --> 0:51:04.279
<v Speaker 1>that they've been in business for thirty years. It's not

0:51:04.280 --> 0:51:06.960
<v Speaker 1>because they were making money or because they were losing money.

0:51:07.080 --> 0:51:09.480
<v Speaker 1>And it's not because they got venture capital, because they didn't.

0:51:09.719 --> 0:51:12.879
<v Speaker 1>So these things actually are profitable, which is kind of rare,

0:51:13.280 --> 0:51:15.919
<v Speaker 1>so main street businesses. And then underneath it, I call

0:51:15.960 --> 0:51:18.520
<v Speaker 1>them three different types. The first one is the gateway

0:51:18.560 --> 0:51:20.960
<v Speaker 1>drug business, which basically I use that as a little

0:51:20.960 --> 0:51:24.000
<v Speaker 1>bit of a joke, but it's like a vending machine. Well,

0:51:24.000 --> 0:51:26.399
<v Speaker 1>everybody understands how a venue machine works, right, You get

0:51:26.400 --> 0:51:28.840
<v Speaker 1>the machine, you take the cash out, you input the things.

0:51:29.200 --> 0:51:31.960
<v Speaker 1>It's a straightforward business. It doesn't need a lot of people,

0:51:32.000 --> 0:51:33.759
<v Speaker 1>and I think it's a great place for like young

0:51:33.800 --> 0:51:36.040
<v Speaker 1>people to start because you learn the game of business.

0:51:36.440 --> 0:51:38.960
<v Speaker 1>A similar one might be what I call a people

0:51:39.080 --> 0:51:42.040
<v Speaker 1>light business, which might be like a laundromat. So a

0:51:42.120 --> 0:51:45.319
<v Speaker 1>laundromat is like, in some ways a slightly bigger venue machine. Right,

0:51:45.320 --> 0:51:47.719
<v Speaker 1>you put clothes in, the clothes get washed, you take

0:51:47.760 --> 0:51:50.319
<v Speaker 1>the clothes out, you put coins in and return, right.

0:51:50.719 --> 0:51:52.799
<v Speaker 1>And that doesn't have a lot of employees, and they're

0:51:52.840 --> 0:51:55.480
<v Speaker 1>not super super expensive on the scale of it, and

0:51:55.520 --> 0:51:58.480
<v Speaker 1>so you go, okay, we got gateway drug businesses. We

0:51:58.560 --> 0:52:01.960
<v Speaker 1>got asked, we've got people light businesses, and then finally

0:52:02.000 --> 0:52:04.800
<v Speaker 1>we get into what I call the trades businesses overall

0:52:04.920 --> 0:52:08.080
<v Speaker 1>or boring businesses. And these are things like we own

0:52:08.120 --> 0:52:11.320
<v Speaker 1>a company called Resi Brands that has a window cleaning

0:52:11.360 --> 0:52:15.560
<v Speaker 1>company called Pinks, a roofing company, a painting company called

0:52:15.560 --> 0:52:19.440
<v Speaker 1>that One Painter. And what's wild is with these businesses.

0:52:19.880 --> 0:52:21.640
<v Speaker 1>If you were to look right now jay At, like

0:52:22.480 --> 0:52:25.160
<v Speaker 1>the Forbes one hundred list of the richest people in

0:52:25.200 --> 0:52:27.640
<v Speaker 1>the world, and you were to see what they made

0:52:27.640 --> 0:52:31.800
<v Speaker 1>their money from. They're not celebrities, they're not singing songs,

0:52:32.280 --> 0:52:35.400
<v Speaker 1>they're not doing YouTube like, we're not even touching the

0:52:35.400 --> 0:52:37.839
<v Speaker 1>amount of wealth they have. What do most of them

0:52:37.840 --> 0:52:42.520
<v Speaker 1>have in common more than anything else, finance and business ownership,

0:52:42.760 --> 0:52:46.600
<v Speaker 1>and the businesses they own are largely boring businesses. Richest

0:52:46.600 --> 0:52:51.400
<v Speaker 1>woman in the World Kim Kardashian no roofing magnet, literally

0:52:51.560 --> 0:52:53.200
<v Speaker 1>the richest woman in the world. This was as of

0:52:53.200 --> 0:52:55.080
<v Speaker 1>twenty twenty two, so we should see if the numbers

0:52:55.080 --> 0:52:58.319
<v Speaker 1>are updated. But is a woman who started a very

0:52:58.400 --> 0:53:02.720
<v Speaker 1>large roofing company. And so, you know, I wish somebody

0:53:02.760 --> 0:53:05.680
<v Speaker 1>told us this when we were younger because instead, you

0:53:05.719 --> 0:53:08.960
<v Speaker 1>know who knows this, the private equity guys. And I

0:53:09.000 --> 0:53:12.120
<v Speaker 1>don't mean to villainize anybody I was in private equity.

0:53:12.120 --> 0:53:14.960
<v Speaker 1>I know plenty of good people in that industry, but again,

0:53:15.120 --> 0:53:18.719
<v Speaker 1>centralization of power. Private equity companies in two thousand owned

0:53:18.800 --> 0:53:21.080
<v Speaker 1>four percent of the companies in the US. Now they

0:53:21.120 --> 0:53:24.279
<v Speaker 1>own twenty percent. It's almost one out of every four

0:53:24.320 --> 0:53:27.120
<v Speaker 1>companies in the US is owned by private equity. You

0:53:27.120 --> 0:53:30.880
<v Speaker 1>know what they're buying, like crazy, the trades, the service businesses,

0:53:30.960 --> 0:53:33.920
<v Speaker 1>the boring businesses, the print money that service our community.

0:53:34.280 --> 0:53:36.319
<v Speaker 1>And I think this is our chance to take those

0:53:36.360 --> 0:53:36.920
<v Speaker 1>things back.

0:53:37.400 --> 0:53:40.840
<v Speaker 2>You're literally opening up a whole new doorway for people,

0:53:41.160 --> 0:53:43.680
<v Speaker 2>like I don't think I've ever even thought about it,

0:53:43.719 --> 0:53:46.920
<v Speaker 2>Like it's so far off from what I think we

0:53:46.920 --> 0:53:52.400
<v Speaker 2>were all trained to believe would make a successful, safe, stable, wealthy.

0:53:52.960 --> 0:53:56.680
<v Speaker 2>You're not thinking about these areas, and therefore, like you said,

0:53:56.719 --> 0:54:00.440
<v Speaker 2>they're not very competitive. There's not a lot of new

0:54:00.560 --> 0:54:03.680
<v Speaker 2>entrants in there. When I hear you say that, the

0:54:03.760 --> 0:54:07.960
<v Speaker 2>thing that comes to my mind is what skills and

0:54:08.000 --> 0:54:10.719
<v Speaker 2>talents to people need to be able to run those businesses.

0:54:10.760 --> 0:54:14.320
<v Speaker 2>How much industry knowledge do they need? What business skills

0:54:14.320 --> 0:54:17.440
<v Speaker 2>are core and important, because I think the mistake is

0:54:17.440 --> 0:54:19.200
<v Speaker 2>again with the kind of world we live in right now,

0:54:19.600 --> 0:54:21.520
<v Speaker 2>someone goes, I love what Cody saying. I get it.

0:54:21.520 --> 0:54:23.440
<v Speaker 2>I'm going to go buy vending machines, and then all

0:54:23.480 --> 0:54:25.279
<v Speaker 2>of a sudden you've got a garage full of like

0:54:25.320 --> 0:54:27.759
<v Speaker 2>twenty vending machines and you don't what to do with

0:54:27.800 --> 0:54:31.960
<v Speaker 2>them because you don't understand business. So what core business

0:54:32.040 --> 0:54:34.719
<v Speaker 2>skills are needed and what should we be developing in

0:54:34.840 --> 0:54:37.800
<v Speaker 2>order to run any of these businesses? How much industry

0:54:37.880 --> 0:54:38.480
<v Speaker 2>knowledge do we need?

0:54:38.560 --> 0:54:40.520
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's a great question. Well, first of all, what

0:54:40.520 --> 0:54:42.840
<v Speaker 1>I would think about is there's two different things we

0:54:42.880 --> 0:54:45.880
<v Speaker 1>need to know in buying businesses or growing businesses. And

0:54:45.920 --> 0:54:48.600
<v Speaker 1>the first thing is you've got to learn how to

0:54:48.640 --> 0:54:51.800
<v Speaker 1>do deal making and how to actually speak the language

0:54:51.840 --> 0:54:53.200
<v Speaker 1>of money, which is what we talk about in the

0:54:53.200 --> 0:54:55.200
<v Speaker 1>book before you buy a business. So please don't just

0:54:55.239 --> 0:54:57.200
<v Speaker 1>hear me and go buy a business. Read the book

0:54:57.320 --> 0:55:00.600
<v Speaker 1>or go to a free newsletter online, spend a decent

0:55:00.640 --> 0:55:03.920
<v Speaker 1>amount of up front time learning. I promise you'll make

0:55:03.960 --> 0:55:05.799
<v Speaker 1>more money that way, you know. I kind of think

0:55:05.800 --> 0:55:08.120
<v Speaker 1>about sometimes people go, well, why don't I use x

0:55:08.120 --> 0:55:11.200
<v Speaker 1>amount of dollars I have instead of learning, just buying

0:55:11.239 --> 0:55:14.040
<v Speaker 1>the business and I go, Does that ever work out well?

0:55:14.080 --> 0:55:15.879
<v Speaker 1>Where we don't know what we're doing, but we plow

0:55:15.960 --> 0:55:17.400
<v Speaker 1>a bunch of money into it because we want to

0:55:17.400 --> 0:55:19.200
<v Speaker 1>just go do the thing, it doesn't work out, So

0:55:19.480 --> 0:55:23.439
<v Speaker 1>spend your time learning how to execute first. Now that said,

0:55:23.480 --> 0:55:27.360
<v Speaker 1>I really think there's just three key skills that we

0:55:27.400 --> 0:55:29.520
<v Speaker 1>need to learn to grow a business. The first one

0:55:29.560 --> 0:55:31.279
<v Speaker 1>is deal making. We got to understand how to do

0:55:31.280 --> 0:55:34.640
<v Speaker 1>a deal. The second one is really a mixture of

0:55:34.920 --> 0:55:39.320
<v Speaker 1>grit and endurance. So it's actually not tactics, it's how

0:55:39.360 --> 0:55:41.640
<v Speaker 1>hard am I willing to work? What am I willing

0:55:41.680 --> 0:55:44.040
<v Speaker 1>to sacrifice for the things that I want? And for

0:55:44.080 --> 0:55:46.560
<v Speaker 1>how long am I willing to do that? And so

0:55:46.719 --> 0:55:50.880
<v Speaker 1>Angela Duckworth famously University of Pennsylvania popularized grit is the

0:55:50.880 --> 0:55:54.920
<v Speaker 1>most important thing to measure success. So it's basically like

0:55:54.960 --> 0:55:57.120
<v Speaker 1>how much pain can you tolerate? And if you can

0:55:57.120 --> 0:55:58.560
<v Speaker 1>tolerate a lot of pain, turns out you have a

0:55:58.640 --> 0:56:01.920
<v Speaker 1>higher likelihood of making money. Business is really just like

0:56:02.239 --> 0:56:05.920
<v Speaker 1>elongated periods of low level pain. Sometimes you have like

0:56:05.920 --> 0:56:08.720
<v Speaker 1>what's called an acute or like a big jump in pain.

0:56:08.920 --> 0:56:10.440
<v Speaker 1>But for the most part you know this. It's like

0:56:10.640 --> 0:56:12.840
<v Speaker 1>what is what is running a business or starting a business.

0:56:12.880 --> 0:56:15.960
<v Speaker 1>It's like, well, you're looking at your statements pretty much.

0:56:16.000 --> 0:56:18.480
<v Speaker 1>Often you're like messing around with marketing. It's kind of

0:56:18.520 --> 0:56:22.520
<v Speaker 1>like low level pain. And so that's the second point.

0:56:22.600 --> 0:56:25.560
<v Speaker 1>And the third point is actually maybe a little rare too,

0:56:25.600 --> 0:56:28.280
<v Speaker 1>which is just a lot of people obsess on how

0:56:28.719 --> 0:56:33.120
<v Speaker 1>so what skills do I have to have? Exactly? How

0:56:33.160 --> 0:56:35.440
<v Speaker 1>do I start a business? How do I tax? Structure,

0:56:35.520 --> 0:56:37.920
<v Speaker 1>structure at the business? How do I get my first customers?

0:56:38.000 --> 0:56:41.040
<v Speaker 1>All important and good questions, But the real pros know

0:56:41.880 --> 0:56:44.960
<v Speaker 1>you don't ask how you ask who? Who can I

0:56:45.000 --> 0:56:46.920
<v Speaker 1>go to who already has ten thousand hours where I

0:56:46.960 --> 0:56:50.080
<v Speaker 1>can steal their homework. So now in business, if I go, hey,

0:56:51.560 --> 0:56:53.040
<v Speaker 1>I don't know how to do our taxes, I go

0:56:53.120 --> 0:56:54.960
<v Speaker 1>find somebody else who has done taxes for us. And

0:56:54.960 --> 0:56:56.319
<v Speaker 1>it doesn't mean you have to pay for them. It

0:56:56.440 --> 0:56:58.280
<v Speaker 1>just means you have to talk to them, and often

0:56:58.280 --> 0:57:01.520
<v Speaker 1>people will help you. And so I am I who second,

0:57:01.719 --> 0:57:04.680
<v Speaker 1>and then the third tier is buy So the really

0:57:04.719 --> 0:57:06.879
<v Speaker 1>really rich when they have a problem, they don't think,

0:57:06.920 --> 0:57:08.719
<v Speaker 1>how do I fix it. They don't think who can

0:57:08.760 --> 0:57:10.520
<v Speaker 1>fix it? They think, how do I buy the solution

0:57:10.600 --> 0:57:14.200
<v Speaker 1>to my problem? Because if I can buy the business,

0:57:14.239 --> 0:57:17.040
<v Speaker 1>if I can buy the solution, then it's almost it's

0:57:17.040 --> 0:57:19.520
<v Speaker 1>a higher guarantee of winning. And so that last one

0:57:19.560 --> 0:57:22.600
<v Speaker 1>is really about your connections. And so I think if

0:57:22.640 --> 0:57:26.200
<v Speaker 1>you understand deal making, you are honest with yourself about

0:57:26.280 --> 0:57:28.600
<v Speaker 1>how much work you're willing to do one where the other,

0:57:29.160 --> 0:57:32.040
<v Speaker 1>and you are willing to ask people for help. I

0:57:32.040 --> 0:57:37.600
<v Speaker 1>think just about anybody can run a business. Now. Can

0:57:37.640 --> 0:57:40.919
<v Speaker 1>anybody run Amazon? No, of course not. Could anybody run

0:57:40.920 --> 0:57:43.120
<v Speaker 1>your businesses which are quite big, No.

0:57:43.080 --> 0:57:43.600
<v Speaker 2>Of course not.

0:57:43.800 --> 0:57:46.000
<v Speaker 1>It's really like the level of skill to the level

0:57:46.040 --> 0:57:49.720
<v Speaker 1>you're at. But we don't say to people, you know, well,

0:57:50.800 --> 0:57:54.720
<v Speaker 1>not anybody could buy an individual apartment apartment and live

0:57:54.760 --> 0:57:58.040
<v Speaker 1>in them. We ask like, what do you want and

0:57:58.560 --> 0:58:00.960
<v Speaker 1>how are you willing to in order to get it?

0:58:01.080 --> 0:58:03.120
<v Speaker 1>So I think the same thing with businesses. It's like, okay,

0:58:03.240 --> 0:58:04.720
<v Speaker 1>we have what's called the deal box, which is a

0:58:04.720 --> 0:58:08.720
<v Speaker 1>little slightly technical, but basically the idea is oracle of

0:58:08.760 --> 0:58:11.760
<v Speaker 1>DELFI says, know thyself, right, most important thing we can do?

0:58:12.280 --> 0:58:15.240
<v Speaker 1>And in business you basically want to have your little

0:58:15.280 --> 0:58:17.800
<v Speaker 1>deal box of what you want. So do you want

0:58:18.320 --> 0:58:20.360
<v Speaker 1>income of x amount? Do you want it to be

0:58:20.440 --> 0:58:22.720
<v Speaker 1>located in la? Do you want it to scratch an

0:58:22.800 --> 0:58:25.680
<v Speaker 1>artistic itch and make you money? And you sort of

0:58:25.680 --> 0:58:28.440
<v Speaker 1>fill out this box you know what you want, and

0:58:28.480 --> 0:58:30.760
<v Speaker 1>then again you know the universe. I think a lot

0:58:30.800 --> 0:58:33.080
<v Speaker 1>of times wants to help us out, but we don't

0:58:33.120 --> 0:58:34.440
<v Speaker 1>know what we want. So how is it going to

0:58:34.520 --> 0:58:36.120
<v Speaker 1>help us? Because we can't tell it one way or

0:58:36.160 --> 0:58:38.080
<v Speaker 1>the other. And I think it's the same with business,

0:58:38.800 --> 0:58:41.040
<v Speaker 1>you know, because we could go fifteen ways from sideways on,

0:58:41.160 --> 0:58:43.600
<v Speaker 1>Like we have something called the nine p's, which are

0:58:43.640 --> 0:58:46.280
<v Speaker 1>like the nine ways you scale a business to nine figures.

0:58:47.360 --> 0:58:50.400
<v Speaker 1>But I don't want to stop people. I want them

0:58:50.440 --> 0:58:54.360
<v Speaker 1>to start small and reasonable and know that the biggest

0:58:54.360 --> 0:58:55.919
<v Speaker 1>thing in between you and the thing that you want

0:58:56.360 --> 0:58:59.200
<v Speaker 1>is the knowledge on learning and the language of money,

0:58:59.200 --> 0:59:02.360
<v Speaker 1>on getting after it kind of intensely, and then on

0:59:02.440 --> 0:59:04.880
<v Speaker 1>asking for help. Like if you have those three things,

0:59:05.000 --> 0:59:07.000
<v Speaker 1>you can at least start. And I don't want people

0:59:07.000 --> 0:59:10.720
<v Speaker 1>to stop because they don't have XYZ leadership skill, Like

0:59:11.000 --> 0:59:12.520
<v Speaker 1>I believe in your ability to figure it out.

0:59:13.160 --> 0:59:15.480
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, and you might make some mistakes along the way.

0:59:15.360 --> 0:59:18.880
<v Speaker 1>You will, yeah, sure, yeah, just don't make mistakes. Like,

0:59:19.040 --> 0:59:21.080
<v Speaker 1>the only rule that I really have is don't do

0:59:21.120 --> 0:59:23.360
<v Speaker 1>a deal so big that it can wipe you out. Ye,

0:59:23.520 --> 0:59:26.520
<v Speaker 1>make sure your first deal is reasonable, or you help

0:59:26.560 --> 0:59:29.080
<v Speaker 1>other people bring on risk to level it out. So like,

0:59:29.560 --> 0:59:31.520
<v Speaker 1>if I'm young and I have no cash, should I

0:59:31.520 --> 0:59:33.800
<v Speaker 1>go buy a million dollar business? Of course not? What

0:59:33.840 --> 0:59:36.000
<v Speaker 1>would I do? I might go and I might partner

0:59:36.080 --> 0:59:37.600
<v Speaker 1>with a couple friends, and I might say, hey, do

0:59:37.600 --> 0:59:39.760
<v Speaker 1>you want to pool our capital together, Let's buy this

0:59:39.800 --> 0:59:42.480
<v Speaker 1>little business together. If it doesn't work out, it's not

0:59:42.520 --> 0:59:45.320
<v Speaker 1>going to murder us. It's gonna hurt, but we're going

0:59:45.400 --> 0:59:47.640
<v Speaker 1>to learn a lot, and we're gonna diversify our risk

0:59:47.720 --> 0:59:50.080
<v Speaker 1>amongst us, and we're going to do it together. Or

0:59:50.120 --> 0:59:51.960
<v Speaker 1>maybe you partner with your dad, or maybe you partner

0:59:51.960 --> 0:59:54.000
<v Speaker 1>with your dad's friends or your mom's friends or whatever.

0:59:54.040 --> 0:59:55.720
<v Speaker 1>And so don't think that you have to do this

0:59:55.800 --> 0:59:59.160
<v Speaker 1>game of entrepreneurship and acquisition by yourself. You don't. The

0:59:59.160 --> 1:00:01.680
<v Speaker 1>big boys in private equity don't. You don't have to either.

1:00:02.320 --> 1:00:05.320
<v Speaker 2>How do you find someone who wants to sell a business,

1:00:05.960 --> 1:00:09.160
<v Speaker 2>because yeah, I feel like that would be My next

1:00:09.240 --> 1:00:11.600
<v Speaker 2>question of like, how do I even know someone? How

1:00:11.600 --> 1:00:13.320
<v Speaker 2>do I find someone? Because it must be going great

1:00:13.320 --> 1:00:15.240
<v Speaker 2>for them, Why would they sell it to me, especially

1:00:15.280 --> 1:00:18.600
<v Speaker 2>when I maybe know nothing about owning a hair salon

1:00:18.960 --> 1:00:21.280
<v Speaker 2>or vending machines or whatever it may be.

1:00:21.400 --> 1:00:23.640
<v Speaker 1>Right, well, you probably already know this. How many people

1:00:23.720 --> 1:00:25.760
<v Speaker 1>offer you businesses or stakes and businesses?

1:00:25.800 --> 1:00:27.320
<v Speaker 2>Now? Yeah, I bet a lot a lot?

1:00:27.760 --> 1:00:30.880
<v Speaker 1>Why Because you have a very high value skill stack.

1:00:31.040 --> 1:00:35.120
<v Speaker 1>That's very evident. People can directly attribute. If I partnered

1:00:35.120 --> 1:00:38.240
<v Speaker 1>with Jay Shetty, then he's probably going to market my stuff.

1:00:38.280 --> 1:00:40.680
<v Speaker 1>He's going to give me brand recognition. There's a high

1:00:40.720 --> 1:00:43.280
<v Speaker 1>level of trust. So there's what's called the trust transference.

1:00:43.440 --> 1:00:46.000
<v Speaker 1>So the higher level of skill you have, the easier

1:00:46.000 --> 1:00:47.800
<v Speaker 1>it is for you to find businesses. In fact, they'll

1:00:47.840 --> 1:00:51.080
<v Speaker 1>often come to you. The thing is, though, when even

1:00:51.080 --> 1:00:53.040
<v Speaker 1>when we have a higher level of skill, we often

1:00:53.120 --> 1:00:55.600
<v Speaker 1>don't really know what to do when it comes to us.

1:00:55.600 --> 1:00:58.640
<v Speaker 1>We don't know how to do zero risk deals to us.

1:00:59.000 --> 1:01:00.800
<v Speaker 1>And so I like learning deal making even if you

1:01:00.800 --> 1:01:02.480
<v Speaker 1>have a ton of skills and a ton of money,

1:01:02.680 --> 1:01:05.600
<v Speaker 1>because you can do a deal that seems unfair, but

1:01:05.680 --> 1:01:09.360
<v Speaker 1>because you recognize your value, the deal is incredibly fair.

1:01:09.480 --> 1:01:13.600
<v Speaker 1>In fact, the richer you are and the more audience

1:01:13.680 --> 1:01:16.840
<v Speaker 1>you have, money you have which I call capital, the

1:01:16.880 --> 1:01:20.760
<v Speaker 1>more coding ability you have aka like tech Jeff Bezos,

1:01:20.920 --> 1:01:25.040
<v Speaker 1>engineering capability or labor you have access to, so employees

1:01:25.080 --> 1:01:27.320
<v Speaker 1>or people that will work with you, the better deals

1:01:27.360 --> 1:01:30.080
<v Speaker 1>you can do. And that's like the two two three

1:01:30.200 --> 1:01:32.840
<v Speaker 1>oh three level. And anybody who's listening who actually has

1:01:32.840 --> 1:01:35.640
<v Speaker 1>access to money and capital, you are crazy if you're

1:01:35.680 --> 1:01:39.000
<v Speaker 1>not thinking about doing deals and learning it because it

1:01:39.080 --> 1:01:43.720
<v Speaker 1>is the ultimate positive form of leverage. So I wish

1:01:43.840 --> 1:01:45.600
<v Speaker 1>that we learned this earlier. This is how so many

1:01:45.600 --> 1:01:48.760
<v Speaker 1>celebrities get screwed by the way, and you know, they

1:01:48.760 --> 1:01:51.680
<v Speaker 1>get screwed because they do a deal, they don't understand

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<v Speaker 1>the terms they signed. Their agent understands the terms they signed,

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<v Speaker 1>Their agent isn't actually insteentive aligned with them long term,

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<v Speaker 1>and so they end up getting screwed. It broke my

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<v Speaker 1>heart when I watch that documentary with Val Kilmer, like,

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<v Speaker 1>oh God, first of all, you would love it. It's beautiful.

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<v Speaker 1>The documentary is beautiful. He wrote it, produced it and

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<v Speaker 1>directed it and started it and it's just a beautiful

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<v Speaker 1>piece of art. But also he lost everything. I mean

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<v Speaker 1>he has basically no money now, no way, uh huh.

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<v Speaker 1>And the reason why is because of a series of

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<v Speaker 1>deals that he did where other people made it and

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<v Speaker 1>he didn't. And so even if you have a ton

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<v Speaker 1>of money, you got to be really careful about how

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<v Speaker 1>you structure things in order to keep it. And the

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<v Speaker 1>bigger that you get, the bigger target you have. And

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<v Speaker 1>so it's important to think about that. And like the

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<v Speaker 1>Russian proverb trust but verify, which is like trust nobody.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry, trust everybody, but verify that they are actually

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<v Speaker 1>on your best terms, which is why I always doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>count unless you've signed on the line that has dotted

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<v Speaker 1>in the words of Alec Baldwin. So if you don't

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<v Speaker 1>have deals coming at you because you don't have massive

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<v Speaker 1>you know, fame or money or whatever like a normal person,

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<v Speaker 1>and then the easiest way is to find deals. It's

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<v Speaker 1>called a nation and private equity. So in private equity,

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<v Speaker 1>if you think about what they do, they go around

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<v Speaker 1>and they cold call small businesses. So they literally will

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<v Speaker 1>cold call a plumbing company up all over the Midwest

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<v Speaker 1>and ask like, hey, you guys want to sell or

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<v Speaker 1>I get them all the time because I own these

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<v Speaker 1>so our small businesses, Hey can we buy your landscaping company?

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<v Speaker 1>So one one way you find deals is called on

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<v Speaker 1>off market deal searching. So you basically turn on what

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<v Speaker 1>I call your reticular activating system, which is basically just

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<v Speaker 1>a system inside of your brain that is trained from

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<v Speaker 1>the African Savannah to say, if I keep repeating this

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<v Speaker 1>thing brain, it means it's important and I might die

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<v Speaker 1>if I don't pay attention to it. And so in

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<v Speaker 1>real life, what happens to you is once you play

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<v Speaker 1>the game of business enough, then once you like deals,

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<v Speaker 1>Like have you ever gone into somebody else's podcast studio?

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<v Speaker 1>And because you probably are obsessed with podcasting, you walk

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<v Speaker 1>in and you're like, hmm, that's an interesting way to

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<v Speaker 1>do that set up. I don't think I would do that.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh I like that they did that. Let's steal that, right.

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<v Speaker 1>Your reticular activating system is so turned onto podcasts that

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<v Speaker 1>you cant help. But notice all around you things you

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<v Speaker 1>would do differently or that you like the same thing

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<v Speaker 1>happens with business and deals. So now when I go

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<v Speaker 1>into like a corner store, or when I go into

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<v Speaker 1>a restaurant, I go or Jim Jim's get me for

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<v Speaker 1>some reason. It's like you have me, you have my

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<v Speaker 1>credit card, you have recurring revenue. I come in here

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<v Speaker 1>every single day, sell me more shit? Why don't you

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<v Speaker 1>sell me more things? You definitely should. And so one

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<v Speaker 1>I will say, as you learn deal making, I can

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<v Speaker 1>promise you only really one thing. When it comes to

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<v Speaker 1>you becoming a better deal maker, your reticular activitying system

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<v Speaker 1>comes on. So what's going to happen in deal finding? Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>you could cold call, just like private equity, but instead

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<v Speaker 1>kind of steep yourself in the type of deal you

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<v Speaker 1>are looking for, steep yourself in what skills you actually have,

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<v Speaker 1>and then you're going to see them all around. You

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<v Speaker 1>won't be able to turn it off. It'll be like

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<v Speaker 1>when you buy a car. All of a sudden, the

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<v Speaker 1>car's all over the place. After you bought it, You're like,

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<v Speaker 1>did everybody was it a sale? No? Your brain starts

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<v Speaker 1>making you notice it. And so the best way to

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<v Speaker 1>find deals is you start just having conversations with guys,

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<v Speaker 1>because again cash Love's curiosity. Every time you go into

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<v Speaker 1>a small business, you just go like, ah, amazing, you go,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, LA is full of them. You walk into

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<v Speaker 1>a cool retail shop. Oh that's cool, man, this's your store.

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<v Speaker 1>It is I mean probably fifty percent of the time

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<v Speaker 1>it's theirs. And then you say to the guy like,

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<v Speaker 1>how long you been doing this? A while? Do you

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<v Speaker 1>want to keep you want to keep doing this?

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<v Speaker 2>Like?

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<v Speaker 1>How's business going? You guys make a lot of money.

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<v Speaker 1>How long you've been around? Is a kid going to

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<v Speaker 1>take over? Are you going to keep going?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh?

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<v Speaker 1>This is so cool. I love this. Maybe I buy

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<v Speaker 1>a little something, and then maybe I decide I want

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<v Speaker 1>to own one of these businesses with them. All of

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<v Speaker 1>a sudden, I get to know the owner and I

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<v Speaker 1>start getting into the curiosity where I get them to

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<v Speaker 1>maybe consider that a young hustler who is really aggressive

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<v Speaker 1>might be good for their business.

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<v Speaker 2>Absolutely, yeah, No. I had a really interesting experience of

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<v Speaker 2>this last maybe a couple of years ago. I was

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<v Speaker 2>in a store that curates beautiful sets of books, and

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<v Speaker 2>that's not what they do professionally. They sell clothes, but

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<v Speaker 2>they also have books in the store. And I walked

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<v Speaker 2>in there and I was I love, really enjoy books,

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<v Speaker 2>and I enjoy collecting, and so I was looking around

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<v Speaker 2>and these were all like new books. They're all newly

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<v Speaker 2>published the Beautiful and I bought a ton and they

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<v Speaker 2>were just like And then one person at that store

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<v Speaker 2>just said to me, oh, by the way, like, do

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<v Speaker 2>you love books. I was like yeah, And I was like,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm really looking for vintage books though, be cool to

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<v Speaker 2>own some like antique books and things like that. And

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<v Speaker 2>she said, well, oh, there's this random store around the

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<v Speaker 2>corner and it's like a printing press, like an old

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<v Speaker 2>school binding book. But I've seen books in there before

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<v Speaker 2>when you go check it out. So I literally go

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<v Speaker 2>walk into this books and basically, actually, first of all,

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<v Speaker 2>I walk outside. It looks like no one operates it.

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<v Speaker 2>It looks completely run down. You wouldn't walk past it

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<v Speaker 2>and think oh cool shop. You'd walk past it and

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<v Speaker 2>not even you'd think no one, no one's inside it.

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<v Speaker 2>So I'm kind of looking around. I'm like knocking on

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<v Speaker 2>the door just to see I do see some books.

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<v Speaker 2>And this lady opens the door and she's got like

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<v Speaker 2>an old school binding press in there, and old school

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<v Speaker 2>you know, all the old school tools that how books

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<v Speaker 2>were bound in the past. And then she's got this

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<v Speaker 2>bookshelf and I said, oh, I heard you might sell books,

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<v Speaker 2>Like could I take a look, and she was like,

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<v Speaker 2>oh no, I just have these books because I got

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<v Speaker 2>divorced a few years back. My husband owned a bookstore.

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<v Speaker 2>He left me with like fifty thousand books or something crazy,

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<v Speaker 2>and she goes most of them at home, but there's

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<v Speaker 2>probably like I don't know, a thousand yere or whatever

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<v Speaker 2>it is. You can take whatever you want. And I

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<v Speaker 2>was like, I'm happy to pay you, but sure. So

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<v Speaker 2>I spent like two three hours and I was like

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<v Speaker 2>getting really you know, I loved it. It was like it

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<v Speaker 2>was literally like being inside of a secret cave of

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<v Speaker 2>books and I was like finding all this stuff. So

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<v Speaker 2>I got a stack of maybe like twenty books and

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, hey, look, i'd love to pay you

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<v Speaker 2>for them, Like you know, I'm good for it, and

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<v Speaker 2>I'm grateful that you've even allowed me in. And I

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<v Speaker 2>forced her a little bit. She finally took some money,

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<v Speaker 2>and then there was one book while she was going

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<v Speaker 2>through and she's like, I've been looking for this book

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<v Speaker 2>for like five years, and she goes, I can't sell

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<v Speaker 2>this one to you, and I was like sure, like

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<v Speaker 2>I'm never gonna, you know, have it. Whatever. Anyway, I

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<v Speaker 2>come home and I started checking all these books out online.

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<v Speaker 2>They were all worth like at least one hundred dollars each.

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<v Speaker 2>I probably paid like five to ten dollars each for them.

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<v Speaker 2>And it was just a really good example to me

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<v Speaker 2>of like this random place that and I wanted the book,

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<v Speaker 2>so I kept them. But it was just this random

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<v Speaker 2>place that was like this treasure trove of all of

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<v Speaker 2>this great material and had someone wanted to go in

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<v Speaker 2>and buy fifty thousand books and sell them online or

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<v Speaker 2>sell them anywhere, there was a real business there and

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<v Speaker 2>it was a smaller It was a very simple example

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<v Speaker 2>of just how easy it was to come across something

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<v Speaker 2>that that I wouldn't even I wasn't even looking for it.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, yeah, and you know, it's a funny thing I

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<v Speaker 1>do sometimes. One it's so lovely. And also how happy

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<v Speaker 1>was she probably at the value you found in it? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>Like did you feel like you were taking advantage of her?

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<v Speaker 1>Or did she feel like, Wow, are you sure? Like

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<v Speaker 1>I'm glad you're spending time with me?

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<v Speaker 2>Absolutely? Absolutely, she was so happy.

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<v Speaker 1>And I think this is something we don't realize because

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<v Speaker 1>our generation is highly transactional. We're a highly transactional generation

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<v Speaker 1>with immediate feedback loops aka social media with a high

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<v Speaker 1>UH status game that we play with a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>attention on us because you get a lot of attention

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<v Speaker 1>when you're young and hungry and moving, but as we

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<v Speaker 1>get older, I mean, women will tell you this all

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<v Speaker 1>the time. They'll warn you that as you get older,

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<v Speaker 1>you become a visible Like a middle aged woman will say, often,

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<v Speaker 1>nobody sees me. And like one of our copywriters, she

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<v Speaker 1>was so lovely, she said a thing to me. I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, oh, she died or her blue And I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, Marcella, looks great. Like she's an older woman,

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<v Speaker 1>probably like mid fifties. And I was like, looks great,

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<v Speaker 1>Like you know, what was the impetus? And she's like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, as you get older, I realized that, like

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<v Speaker 1>nobody would talk to me, and I feel like they

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<v Speaker 1>were looking through me. And she's like, so she's like,

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<v Speaker 1>so I was with my one of my little nieces

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<v Speaker 1>and I we dyed our hair little strips of it

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<v Speaker 1>pink together, and she was like, And I was walking

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<v Speaker 1>across the street and this young man kind of yelled

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<v Speaker 1>over to me and he's like, hey, mama, like the hair.

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<v Speaker 1>And she's like, I can't remember the last time a

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<v Speaker 1>young man talk to me. She's like, so I anytime

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<v Speaker 1>I now feel a little out of it, I die

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<v Speaker 1>my hair blue. And to be fair, like in the past,

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<v Speaker 1>sometimes when I saw people do that, I was like, really,

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<v Speaker 1>what's going on here, Like, what's what's the move? And

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<v Speaker 1>then I realized, oh, like, just because we value something

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<v Speaker 1>one way doesn't mean that everybody else values it the

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<v Speaker 1>other way. And so in order to break your frame

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<v Speaker 1>and to see businesses all around, you don't assume that

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<v Speaker 1>the same things you value other people do. It's like,

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<v Speaker 1>I've never really believed in the Golden rule, which is

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<v Speaker 1>treat others how you want to be treated. It's like

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<v Speaker 1>buy and large, treat them how they want to be

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<v Speaker 1>treated unless that breaks how you want to be treated.

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<v Speaker 1>And I think that's the same with business owners. I

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<v Speaker 1>mean my uncle Eb, which is one of the main

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<v Speaker 1>reasons I started publicly about business talking about businesses online.

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<v Speaker 1>He had a business did a couple million dollars a

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<v Speaker 1>year in revenue and you can it's called eb Holmes Plumbing.

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<v Speaker 1>It was in Phoenix, Arizona, and he got sick with

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<v Speaker 1>cancer and decided he wanted to shut the business down.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, he's in his seventies and was like, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm ready to be done. And what he didn't know

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<v Speaker 1>at the time is that a business that is doing

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<v Speaker 1>a couple of millions of dollars in revenue and a

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<v Speaker 1>couple of millions of dollars in profit is worth millions

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<v Speaker 1>of dollars. And so this man who spent his life

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<v Speaker 1>building up a plumbing company that probably would have thought, honestly,

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<v Speaker 1>like if he was here, he would say, Cody, I

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<v Speaker 1>couldn't have sold that thing like that. That wasn't really

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<v Speaker 1>you know, it was sort of And this is what

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<v Speaker 1>most baby boomer business owners think. They're like, who's going

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<v Speaker 1>to buy this? Because how many times have you had

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<v Speaker 1>a business where you didn't want to be in it before?

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<v Speaker 1>Have you ever had that before?

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<v Speaker 2>Absolutely?

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<v Speaker 1>Of course, like if you're in a room. Sometimes I

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<v Speaker 1>go out to speaking stages and just for shits and giggles,

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<v Speaker 1>cause people will always go if a business was profitable

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<v Speaker 1>and it was going to continue to be profitable, nobody

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<v Speaker 1>would sell it. And I go, okay, let's play a game.

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<v Speaker 1>Business owners. Raise your hand. Everybody raises her hand, that's

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<v Speaker 1>a business owner. I go, cool, keep them up. If

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<v Speaker 1>you would sell your business at the right price and

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<v Speaker 1>the right terms. If it came along, keep your hand up.

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<v Speaker 1>What happens, everybody's up, not one. If you go down

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<v Speaker 1>and I go liars, I laugh because the truth of

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<v Speaker 1>the matter is, you haven't been in the game long

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<v Speaker 1>enough if you put your hand down. But if you've

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<v Speaker 1>been in the game long enough, you go absolutely. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>I wouldn't sell every one of my businesses, but there

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<v Speaker 1>is at some point one business, and if you cove

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<v Speaker 1>he here the right day, maybe I would. So I

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<v Speaker 1>think we have to like change our programming to realize

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<v Speaker 1>all around us, every business has a value. That book

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<v Speaker 1>selling business that shut down. I bet there was a

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<v Speaker 1>value in the lease that they had. It might have

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<v Speaker 1>been in California. Sometimes they have leases that are locked in.

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<v Speaker 1>There could have been value in just the lease contract

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<v Speaker 1>to transfer it. There could have been value in the assets,

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<v Speaker 1>the books. There could have been value in the employees

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<v Speaker 1>because you can do an aqua hire. There could have

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<v Speaker 1>been value in the website listing. What about the Yelp

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<v Speaker 1>and Google reviews? There could have been value in the IP.

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<v Speaker 1>What about the logos and the brand and the name.

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<v Speaker 1>What if they had one of those old school original

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<v Speaker 1>you know, Cody dot com websites before, like we now

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<v Speaker 1>have to have websites that are like four hundred and

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<v Speaker 1>fifty two words, right, And so every single business has

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<v Speaker 1>some value. And if you can find the business where

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<v Speaker 1>the value to the owner is not as much as

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<v Speaker 1>the value is to you, and then you got a

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<v Speaker 1>really good deal.

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<v Speaker 2>So I said, Cody, I'm just like, you know, I'm

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<v Speaker 2>so happy that breaking this down for everyone, because I

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<v Speaker 2>think it's such a It's just not what I'm hearing.

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<v Speaker 2>It's not what people are talking about. It's not the

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<v Speaker 2>it's not the and I'm glad because it's not the

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<v Speaker 2>get rich quick solution either. It's not the Hey you

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<v Speaker 2>can be really rich in twelve months and not worry

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<v Speaker 2>about anything, and that kind of thing. I wish, Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>you wish. And I think I really appreciate you nailing

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<v Speaker 2>it by just saying it's grit, right, that's what's required,

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<v Speaker 2>that's deeply required. What's a skill that you think you

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<v Speaker 2>wish you'd known you had to develop at the beginning

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<v Speaker 2>of the journey, that you learned too late.

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<v Speaker 1>I wish that I didn't have stories to myself about

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<v Speaker 1>me being bad at math and money I think most

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<v Speaker 1>people have a story when they're younger about how bad

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<v Speaker 1>they are at math. I have one that I think

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<v Speaker 1>really messed me up. I was in middle no, no, it

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<v Speaker 1>was high school, was at Arkadia High and I had

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<v Speaker 1>a math teacher, and I wasn't very good at math,

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<v Speaker 1>Like I struggled. I think I might have a little

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<v Speaker 1>bit of dyslexia. I'm not sure, but I just couldn't

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<v Speaker 1>get the numbers to stay in my head correctly, and

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<v Speaker 1>so I was sort of struggling. And I remember one

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<v Speaker 1>day the teacher was getting really frustrated with me, And

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<v Speaker 1>teaching is a hard job, so I get it. But

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<v Speaker 1>he looked at me in front of the class and

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<v Speaker 1>he said, man, I think Helen Keller would have a

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<v Speaker 1>better shot at winning an archery contest than you would

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<v Speaker 1>at winning in finance. And at the time, I was

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<v Speaker 1>like heartbroken about this and like embarrassed, you know, and

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<v Speaker 1>did it in the way teenagers do, just like I

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<v Speaker 1>don't care whatever. But I was like very sad about it.

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<v Speaker 1>And then I love my parents deeply. But my parents

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<v Speaker 1>always used to say to my brother, you're so smart,

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<v Speaker 1>You're so smart. You're so smart, You're so smart. And

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<v Speaker 1>to me, they would always say, you work so hard,

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<v Speaker 1>you work so hard, you work so hard, and at

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<v Speaker 1>the time it was kind of mad, like I'm also smart,

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<v Speaker 1>what about me? And they would always be like, well,

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<v Speaker 1>Cody's not very good at math, in the same way

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<v Speaker 1>that they would say I'm not very good at singing.

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<v Speaker 1>The singing is true, I'm not good at that one.

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<v Speaker 1>But that math thing stuck with me for a long time,

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<v Speaker 1>and so I always thought that it was big and

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<v Speaker 1>hard and scary to be quote unquote good at math.

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<v Speaker 1>And when it comes to making money, the math is

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<v Speaker 1>really simple, guys. And I'm bad at making math, so

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<v Speaker 1>bad that Helen Keller would be better at archerie than

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<v Speaker 1>I am. And so if any part of this skill

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<v Speaker 1>is scaring you, I think it often starts with like,

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<v Speaker 1>oh my god, I look at a spreadsheet and I panic.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, I have to calculate something, and I panic.

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<v Speaker 1>I look at a calculator and I panic. And I

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<v Speaker 1>would say, just like, lean into that slightly, because I

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<v Speaker 1>think in finance we do a very sneaky thing, which is,

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<v Speaker 1>I think we try to make it seem really scary

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<v Speaker 1>and hard for the average person to become rich. Why

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<v Speaker 1>Because if it's scary and hard for you to do it,

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<v Speaker 1>guess what I get to do. I get to charge

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of money for it. And so that's why

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<v Speaker 1>most of us take our money, and like, think about

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<v Speaker 1>it for a second. We take our money and we

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<v Speaker 1>give it to other people to take care of. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>when you give your kids to other people to take

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<v Speaker 1>care of, one hundred percent like their opinions about that,

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<v Speaker 1>people say, no, you got to take care of your kids,

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<v Speaker 1>you got to grow your kids. But with wealth, we

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<v Speaker 1>can just say no, no, I don't understand anything. I just

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<v Speaker 1>give it to this guy or year he figures it out.

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<v Speaker 1>That's really not how we should treat money. And so

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<v Speaker 1>the main skill that I think you should think about

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<v Speaker 1>is one of my mentors said to me, money is

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<v Speaker 1>a cruel mistress. She'll leave you if you don't pay

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<v Speaker 1>attention to her. And I think about that a lot, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>just give the money a little attention, give the math

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<v Speaker 1>a little attention. You're more capable than you think you are.

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<v Speaker 1>And it's really not possible to be bad at this

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<v Speaker 1>type of math. So if your head you think I'm

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<v Speaker 1>bad at math, I'm bad at spreadsheets. It's really not possible.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm bad at calculus, but you can figure this stuff out.

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<v Speaker 2>Cody, you are awesome and I love that advice. And

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<v Speaker 2>I think everyone who's listened in what's this episode now

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<v Speaker 2>has a game plan of how to negotiate something at

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<v Speaker 2>their workplace, figure out how to invest in a company

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<v Speaker 2>or a small business, recognize if you're at that place.

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<v Speaker 2>If I just want to get over the fear that

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<v Speaker 2>I'm bad at math, well that money is bad and

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<v Speaker 2>a calm way for everyone to dive into main street Millionaire.

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<v Speaker 2>This is the book that Cody's got out right now.

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<v Speaker 2>I want you to go grab a copy if you've

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<v Speaker 2>enjoyed today's discussion. This is one of those books that

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<v Speaker 2>I hope you read with your friends, share insights. Maybe

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<v Speaker 2>you'll invest in something together, build something together. It's a

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<v Speaker 2>great book to pass on to a family member or

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<v Speaker 2>a friend who's been struggling with money thinking about it.

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<v Speaker 2>Please do not hesitate with this because it's so easy

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<v Speaker 2>to keep pushing money off and keep having it be

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<v Speaker 2>a source of anxiety in your life. And I think

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<v Speaker 2>Cody's broken it down and make it really simple based

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<v Speaker 2>on how to overcome your fears and go create something brilliant.

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<v Speaker 2>So Cody, thank you for putting your heart and soul

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<v Speaker 2>into this work. And we end every episode of On

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<v Speaker 2>Purpose with a final five. These are a fast five

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<v Speaker 2>where you have to answer each question in one word

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<v Speaker 2>to one sentence maximum. So, Cody Sanchez, these are your

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<v Speaker 2>final five. The first question is what is the best

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<v Speaker 2>financial advice you've ever heard or received.

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<v Speaker 1>That other people's money is actually feasible. People think that

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<v Speaker 1>passive income is a lie, that getting other people's money

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<v Speaker 1>is a lie, but they tell you that because they

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<v Speaker 1>are usually the ones on the other side of the coin.

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<v Speaker 1>So if you want to see about other people's money,

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<v Speaker 1>look to private equity and mimic it.

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<v Speaker 2>Let's go off piece for a second on that, because

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<v Speaker 2>I think we didn't touch on that. If you want

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<v Speaker 2>to raise investment for people who want to gain investment,

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<v Speaker 2>maybe you've got a cool new idea, Maybe you've been

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<v Speaker 2>tinkering something, got a deck. What should you have if

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<v Speaker 2>you're going to go and ask for someone's money.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh that's yeah, that's a really good point. It's really simple.

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<v Speaker 1>A couple tactical things. One something called a tear sheet

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<v Speaker 1>or a one sheet. So this is basically like think

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<v Speaker 1>about it like a baseball card with all the stats

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<v Speaker 1>on the baseball card, but for the deal that you're

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<v Speaker 1>going to put So it's like, here's why I think

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<v Speaker 1>it's good. Here's why I think we'll make money. Here's

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<v Speaker 1>what that's based off of. Here's what a summary it is.

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<v Speaker 1>Here's why I'm good at it too, and you should

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<v Speaker 1>invest in me. And here's why I think you should

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<v Speaker 1>be the one to invest. That's called a one sheet

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<v Speaker 1>or a tear sheet. The second one is a pitch deck.

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<v Speaker 1>From Golden I learned something called a three piece, which

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<v Speaker 1>is people process performance, So I do that in all

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<v Speaker 1>my pitch deck, which basically is like why us, Why

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<v Speaker 1>should you bet on us? Because at the end of

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<v Speaker 1>the day, if you're asking for somebody's money, it's about

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<v Speaker 1>the opportunity for sure, but it's really like, do I

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<v Speaker 1>want to invest in Jay? Do I believe in Jay?

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<v Speaker 1>And then second is process, so like what is the opportunity,

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<v Speaker 1>what is the way we're structuring this, what are we

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<v Speaker 1>investing in? What is the process by which you're going

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<v Speaker 1>to take our money and go bring it back with friends?

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<v Speaker 1>And then lastly is performance. So if I give you this,

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<v Speaker 1>why do you think that I'm going to make money?

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<v Speaker 1>How much money am I going to make? And why

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<v Speaker 1>should I invest in you instead of all these other things.

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<v Speaker 1>So if you have those two things, that is the

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<v Speaker 1>like typical one on one for raising money.

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<v Speaker 2>Great answer. Now, I think it's really important for people

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<v Speaker 2>to know because I think so many times we just

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<v Speaker 2>kind of turn up and hope.

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<v Speaker 1>One hundred percent. And I wish people would have told

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<v Speaker 1>me that. It's like sometimes when you have those little

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<v Speaker 1>easy tactics, you're like, Okay, now I feel good. You

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<v Speaker 1>know there's more to it than that, but at least

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<v Speaker 1>you know, like, hey, if I want to drive a car,

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<v Speaker 1>I need the car and I need some gas. So

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<v Speaker 1>now you guys got that.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. And I think sometimes were so focused on convincing

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<v Speaker 2>someone that we have the best idea and not focused

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<v Speaker 2>on convincing someone we understand how to execute it. And

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<v Speaker 2>I think anyone who's looking to give you money is

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<v Speaker 2>looking to whether they think you can execute it. Because

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<v Speaker 2>I hear good ideas all the time. The best investors

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<v Speaker 2>in the world hear amazing ideas all the time, and

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<v Speaker 2>ideas are just not the thing that works. Like you know,

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<v Speaker 2>you were talking about like Google was like the twenty

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<v Speaker 2>first search engine, Like they weren't the first search engine.

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<v Speaker 2>It wasn't a unique idea. It was just that they

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<v Speaker 2>had a great way of executing and why they've evolved

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<v Speaker 2>into this mega, mega megabusiness now.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, exactly. Best predictor of future behavior's past behavior. So

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<v Speaker 1>if you can show them you have a history of winning, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and even show them some instances where you didn't win,

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<v Speaker 1>why and how, you're never going to replicate that again.

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<v Speaker 1>People are going to bet on the hustler who is

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<v Speaker 1>on a winning streak, you know oftentimes right, You know this,

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<v Speaker 1>if you go to gamble on a game in sports,

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<v Speaker 1>you don't gamble on the person that's have a losing streak.

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<v Speaker 1>Why Because it's actually quite hard to break. And so

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<v Speaker 1>I think also if you can show a history of winning,

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<v Speaker 1>and that's a narrative you can frame, you're more likely

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<v Speaker 1>to get cash to that's great.

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<v Speaker 2>Second question, what is the worst financial advice you've ever

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<v Speaker 2>heard or received?

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<v Speaker 1>That money is scarce and hard to get. If you

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<v Speaker 1>think money is hard and scarce, then you're probably not

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<v Speaker 1>going to get it. And I think people want you

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<v Speaker 1>to think that, and that does not serve you at all.

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<v Speaker 2>Question number three, the best five hundred dollars investment you

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<v Speaker 2>ever made or two.

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<v Speaker 1>Mm. I think this is a little cliche, but health

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<v Speaker 1>and wealth are super tired. And the best money I've

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<v Speaker 1>ever spent are probably two things, a saana and a

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<v Speaker 1>cold plunge. And I know that sounds like super tech

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<v Speaker 1>bro Twitter, but the truth of the matter is is

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<v Speaker 1>that if I can get a little bit more energy

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<v Speaker 1>in the beginning of the day, it seems to carry

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<v Speaker 1>through the rest of my day and make me more money.

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<v Speaker 1>So what your sauna and cold plunges? And I think

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<v Speaker 1>I bought mine on Amazon for literally like a thousand

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<v Speaker 1>bucks each, Then that's money well spent.

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<v Speaker 2>Great question before the biggest waste of money you've ever spent?

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<v Speaker 2>Not the amount, but like something that was all complete waste.

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<v Speaker 1>The biggest mistakes I've ever made are always not things

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<v Speaker 1>I did or bought, but people I chose. It was.

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<v Speaker 1>It's always about the people, the good things, and the

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<v Speaker 1>best things. So be careful those you partner with, spend

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<v Speaker 1>time with, and invest in, and know that those will

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<v Speaker 1>often be the things that give you the most heartache

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<v Speaker 1>or make you the most money.

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<v Speaker 2>Let's side note on that too. How does We talked

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<v Speaker 2>a bit about it before too, But for someone who's

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<v Speaker 2>like thinking about finding the right business partner, knowing whether

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<v Speaker 2>you can trust someone, obviously you never know anything. We

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<v Speaker 2>talked about it, like, how do you set yourself up

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<v Speaker 2>for success? Bey on the negotiation that we discussed.

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<v Speaker 1>I have a couple different rules. One rule is you

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<v Speaker 1>don't get married on the first date. Don't do a

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<v Speaker 1>deal or start a business on the first date, which

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<v Speaker 1>means I have a one year rule. I do not

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<v Speaker 1>get into a long term partnership with anybody that I

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<v Speaker 1>haven't known for at least a year. In business, a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of times there's this, you know, that rosy phase

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<v Speaker 1>you have on your first dating with somebody. You're like,

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<v Speaker 1>the thing is, we're in love and we're meant to be,

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<v Speaker 1>and that about six months later you're like, also, no,

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<v Speaker 1>and so same thing with business partners. Give yourself a

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<v Speaker 1>nice twelve month window. It's hard to hide who you

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<v Speaker 1>are for a year. The second thing when doing business

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<v Speaker 1>deals is when you partner with somebody, you don't actually

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<v Speaker 1>want to partner with somebody that's just like you. It's

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<v Speaker 1>the same with marriage. It's why dating apps are so tough.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I was talking to Sean rad about that,

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<v Speaker 1>the founder to Tender of the other day. I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>the thing is, you don't realize what you did, but

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<v Speaker 1>you allowed people to self select for people that are

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<v Speaker 1>just like them. And it turns out the statistics all

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<v Speaker 1>show that we do not last in marriages as long

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<v Speaker 1>or relationships as long when our person is just like us.

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<v Speaker 1>They actually we actually have to have this like creative

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<v Speaker 1>difference between the two of us. There's a ying to

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<v Speaker 1>the yang in everything in the universe, and so the

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<v Speaker 1>studies tell us you need two different types in order

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<v Speaker 1>to succeed long term. You can some overlap is necessary, obviously,

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<v Speaker 1>but you don't actually want to date yourself. It's the

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<v Speaker 1>same with a partner. Make sure that if you're a

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<v Speaker 1>great salesperson and a parent with another salesperson, you've got

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<v Speaker 1>a great operational person and a great salesperson. Maybe that works.

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<v Speaker 1>And the last thing about great partnerships is everything else

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<v Speaker 1>is figure outable if there is enough drive. And so,

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<v Speaker 1>but my father says, you can lead a horse to water,

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<v Speaker 1>but you can't make them drink, And so I always

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<v Speaker 1>overoptimize on this idea of desire, like why do you

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<v Speaker 1>want to partner with me? And do I believe that

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<v Speaker 1>that why is so big that we can overcome anyhow?

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<v Speaker 1>And if your why is like I kind of want

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<v Speaker 1>to make a couple dollars on the side, but I

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<v Speaker 1>might do this, but I might do this, but I

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<v Speaker 1>might do this, I call you a tow tepper. You're

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<v Speaker 1>actually not all the way in. You're not fully in

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<v Speaker 1>with me. And so at our company, we just had

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<v Speaker 1>one of these people the other day, a young kid's

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<v Speaker 1>a stud but he came to us and he was like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I want to do this job with you, but I

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<v Speaker 1>also have these other things. And you know, once you've

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<v Speaker 1>interviewed I've interviewed thousands and thousands of people by now,

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<v Speaker 1>so you know I can kind of get to the

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<v Speaker 1>heart of it. And I remember Tanner was sitting in

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<v Speaker 1>the interview with me, and Tanner's face was just falling

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<v Speaker 1>as he was listening to it because I was kind

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<v Speaker 1>of faireading out a few things, and the young guy

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<v Speaker 1>was like, well, I have this channel and I want

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<v Speaker 1>to grow this and I want to do that. And

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, why do you want to be here? Then? Like,

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<v Speaker 1>if you want to do all those other things like no, no,

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<v Speaker 1>I want to do this too, and we can do

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<v Speaker 1>it all together. And I said, the thing in life

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<v Speaker 1>that I wish somebody had told me earlier is when

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<v Speaker 1>you're starting out, you can never be excellent at multiple

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<v Speaker 1>things at once. Eventually you can have excellence in multiple

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<v Speaker 1>things because you can attract top talent. But in the beginning,

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<v Speaker 1>you're either all in or you are a barely concealed

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<v Speaker 1>series of distractions. And so a partnership make sure they

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<v Speaker 1>are all in and their why is super super big.

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<v Speaker 1>Otherwise they should go find their why and it's not you.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, well, said fifth and final question. If you could

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<v Speaker 2>create one law that everyone in the world had to follow,

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<v Speaker 2>what would it be.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, God, that's a hard one. Just one one law

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<v Speaker 1>in the world everybody in the world had to follow up.

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<v Speaker 1>How would we We'd have to think legally about some

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<v Speaker 1>of the caveats to this. We want to make sure

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<v Speaker 1>we crafted the language correctly in order to not have

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<v Speaker 1>perverse incentives or second and third order effects. But it

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<v Speaker 1>would be something to the tune of like probably something

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<v Speaker 1>about taxes. It'd be like, don't allow centralization of tax

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<v Speaker 1>power above a certain amount, and the reason why is

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<v Speaker 1>kind of technical, but basically, we want to give as

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<v Speaker 1>much money as possible back to you, the builders. The

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<v Speaker 1>only way that money and thus freedom is created is

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<v Speaker 1>from individual humans who build things. Governments cannot build things.

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<v Speaker 1>Governments can take capital from somewhere else and they can

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<v Speaker 1>allocate it to other things and equalize. And that is

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<v Speaker 1>great and wonderful and necessary. But I would be really

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<v Speaker 1>careful about what I see as core to our society today,

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<v Speaker 1>which is, are we allowing too few of people to

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<v Speaker 1>control two money much of us? And it starts with

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<v Speaker 1>our money. And I know there are lots of other

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<v Speaker 1>things we could care about when it comes to politics,

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<v Speaker 1>and that's very important too. But I was in Argentina

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<v Speaker 1>when they closed my business and made it illegal overnight

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<v Speaker 1>because they nationalized it. And I have seen countries fall

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<v Speaker 1>apart at the floor of tax station and nationalization, and

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<v Speaker 1>so I guess it would be a government is never

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<v Speaker 1>allowed to nationalize, and a government is never allowed to

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<v Speaker 1>overly tax, and every chance we get, let's believe in

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<v Speaker 1>the builder and the individual and not the big huge

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<v Speaker 1>entity like you guys can figure out you don't need

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<v Speaker 1>them all the time.

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<v Speaker 2>I love it. Cody Sanjez the books called Main Street Millionaire.

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<v Speaker 2>Everyone make sure you follow Cody on social media if

1:27:40.960 --> 1:27:44.240
<v Speaker 2>you don't already, subscribe on YouTube, follow on Instagram, TikTok,

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<v Speaker 2>get the book, Cody. I hope you'll come on many,

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<v Speaker 2>many more times. It was amazing talking to you. Honestly,

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<v Speaker 2>You've opened my mind. I'm sure you've blown everyone else's mind.

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<v Speaker 2>And I want to thank you for doing the work

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<v Speaker 2>you do and really appreciate how practical, tactical and access

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<v Speaker 2>that you're making this world of money that's been so

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<v Speaker 2>hidden and kept aside. So thank you so much.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, thank you, And maybe the only thing can I

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<v Speaker 1>add one thing, audience, of course, the only thing I

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<v Speaker 1>would add is, like anybody who is out there building

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<v Speaker 1>right now, I hope you know how important you are.

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<v Speaker 1>You know it is. It is so critical to have

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<v Speaker 1>builders in this world, and it is so hard, and

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<v Speaker 1>you're never alone, and you are so necessary and without you,

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<v Speaker 1>the world literally stops. And so three percent of Americans

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<v Speaker 1>own a business, three percent. We need more of you

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<v Speaker 1>builders out there in the world, and so everything we

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<v Speaker 1>do is to try to create more humans who have

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<v Speaker 1>skin in the game, who are creating things with your

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<v Speaker 1>beautiful brains and your hands, and like, I'm an awe

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<v Speaker 1>of you. So every time I meet like the laundromat owner,

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<v Speaker 1>the car wash owner, the entrepreneur that's building something inside

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<v Speaker 1>of a business, like I just hope you know there's

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<v Speaker 1>so much dignity in the world and it's because of

1:28:54.960 --> 1:28:58.080
<v Speaker 1>the work you do, and without you, you know, it's

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<v Speaker 1>actually not good to go back to the stone. Like

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<v Speaker 1>we have all the things we have today because of

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<v Speaker 1>each of you, and that includes you and building this business.

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<v Speaker 1>So thank you for having me.

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<v Speaker 2>I just want to say that I've appreciated you so

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<v Speaker 2>deeply offline, and your work online of course speaks for itself.

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<v Speaker 2>It's been so successful in congratulations, and so to be

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<v Speaker 2>able to dive into this theme with you that I

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<v Speaker 2>think is so important for the world right now is

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<v Speaker 2>a real blessing.

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<v Speaker 1>So thank you, well, thank you. I think you know,

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<v Speaker 1>you meet a lot of people in real life that

1:29:25.520 --> 1:29:27.719
<v Speaker 1>you kind of know online and so at a certain point,

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<v Speaker 1>I think you can kind of tell when the human

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<v Speaker 1>is going to match the human and that's what I

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<v Speaker 1>felt with you. So it's cool for the people listening too.

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<v Speaker 1>You got a question everything, and sometimes you meet people

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<v Speaker 1>that you look up to, and you're like, dang it,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, not quite what I thought it was going

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<v Speaker 1>to be, and so like real respect to you for that.

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<v Speaker 2>I love it. Thanks Cody. Yeah, that's awesome. Thank you

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<v Speaker 2>right now.

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<v Speaker 1>You set a goal today, you achieve it in six months,

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<v Speaker 1>and then by the time it happens, it's almost a relief.

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<v Speaker 2>There's no sense of meaning and purpose.

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<v Speaker 1>You sort of expected it, and you would have been

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<v Speaker 1>disappointed if it didn't happen.