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Speaker 1: The Fread's show is on Fred's Biggest Stories.

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Speaker 2: Of the Day.

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Speaker 1: By the way, the texture did mean germophobic Jesus confusing

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Speaker 1: talk to text while driving at a stop flight. Sorry,

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Speaker 1: I was like, wait a minute, now, hold on a minute.

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Speaker 1: I'm a lot of things, but I'm not fat. But

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Speaker 1: then again, nothing on the text surprises me anymore. But

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Speaker 1: then it was it was the last sentence that qualified

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Speaker 1: it for me. Can you imagine the nastiness? No, I

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Speaker 1: think I would have a problem at a place like

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Speaker 1: that because I just think, I, you know, when you

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Speaker 1: know what everyone's doing there, how could you possibly keep

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Speaker 1: that clean? I don't know how could you?

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Speaker 3: But you're okay with a hotel room. You can let

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Speaker 3: go at a hotel room, but not a naked water park.

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Speaker 1: Well, yeah, because I feel like, for whatever reason, I've

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Speaker 1: just programmed myself to just let go in the hotel

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Speaker 1: room because where else are you going to stay? You

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Speaker 1: know what I mean? Like, I don't have to go

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Speaker 1: to a a nasty water park like Kiki. I don't

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Speaker 1: have to do that, but I have to, say, in

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Speaker 1: a hotel and so I just figure, you know, it

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Speaker 1: is what it it is. But yeah, if you don't

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Speaker 1: don't make me think too much about it. I don't

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Speaker 1: want to think too much about them. Top stories at

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Speaker 1: the day. More than fifty five million people across the

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Speaker 1: central and southern US are at risk of severe weather

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Speaker 1: today as a violent storm sweeps across the country. In

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Speaker 1: New Orleans, officials rushed to reschedule Marty Grass events and

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Speaker 1: shortened parade routes to avoid ferocious wins. According to the AP,

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Speaker 1: forecasts show the storm will intensify as it moves east

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Speaker 1: in the hours ahead, threatening the lower Mississippi River Valley

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Speaker 1: with strong tornadoes. That'd be bad if you were at

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Speaker 1: Marty gra and it was too windy. But then again,

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Speaker 1: most people will, you know, take their shirt off anyway,

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Speaker 1: So I just wouldn't want to get slapped in a

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Speaker 1: face with beads or something. Just under eighteen point one

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Speaker 1: million people turned in or tuned in rather to ABC's

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Speaker 1: telecasts of the ninety seventh Academy Awards, a seven percent

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Speaker 1: decreased from decreased rather from last year's broadcast. Guys, I

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Speaker 1: think this is it. The Powerball and Mega Millions jackpots

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Speaker 1: have risen. America's two biggest lottery games are soaring. There

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Speaker 1: was no grand prize winner in last night's Powerball drawing,

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Speaker 1: pushing that jack pop to two hundred and ninety five

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Speaker 1: million dollars ahead of the next drawing tomorrow. Ahead of that,

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Speaker 1: there'll be another chance to strike it rich with mega millions.

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Speaker 1: Tonight's drawing stands at two hundred and fifteen million dollars

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Speaker 1: with a cash option just shine of one hundred and

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Speaker 1: one million bucks. I don't want to be greedy. I

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Speaker 1: can live on that. I can make it work, you know.

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Speaker 1: I mean the billion dollars would have been nicer, But

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Speaker 1: I can figure out the problem is one hundred and one.

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Speaker 1: We've done all the math on this a million times,

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Speaker 1: but one hundred and one million winds up being like

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Speaker 1: forty million after it's all said and done, because they

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Speaker 1: take so much, you know, in tax and then whatever

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Speaker 1: else you get tax. I think twice on him. So

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Speaker 1: but still I think I could make for the rest

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Speaker 1: of my life when I have left, you know, a

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Speaker 1: good probably fifteen twenty years. I could make the forty

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Speaker 1: million work. Oh yes, Oh, you know, I'm only planning.

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Speaker 1: I'm only planning to get to like the mid sixty Yeah. Wait,

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Speaker 1: hold on, what, Yeah, I'm only planning to get to

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Speaker 1: the mid too late, maybe middle sixties, maybe seventy at best.

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Speaker 1: And then if I run out of money, then I

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Speaker 1: guess I don't know what I'll do, but I'll figure

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Speaker 1: something out. But yeah, no, I could live on that

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Speaker 1: forty million bucks invests, you know, invest some of it,

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Speaker 1: you know, put in the stock never mind, I don't

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Speaker 1: know what the hell I'm talking about. You know, put

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Speaker 1: in the stock market, flip it, reverse it, you know.

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Speaker 1: I don't know what I would do, but yeah, I

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Speaker 1: think I can make that work. Tattoos. How many people

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Speaker 1: with tattoos? Kiki has tattoo? A tattoo? Who else in the.

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Speaker 3: Room has tattoosa?

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Speaker 1: Okay, So I'm worried about you guys because using data

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Speaker 1: from they said twin pairs, researchers have found signs that

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Speaker 1: tattoo inc may increase the risk of skin and lymphoma cancers.

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Speaker 1: It's because tattoo ink accumulates in the lymph nodes, which

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Speaker 1: are a crucial part of the immune system, helping to

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Speaker 1: fight infections and filter harmful substances from the body. The

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Speaker 1: researchers are really concerned and the tattoo ink may trigger

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Speaker 1: chronic inflammation in the lymph nodes, which over time could

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Speaker 1: lead to abnormal cell growth and an increased risk of cancer.

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Speaker 1: I'm assuming this is are people who have a lot

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Speaker 1: That's got you know, he's run out of places, so

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Speaker 1: now he's got tattoos on his you know, nether region.

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Speaker 1: But yeah, I would I would have guessed it would

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Speaker 1: require a lot of ink to get caught up in there.

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Speaker 1: But I'm worried about you. I know that came when

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Speaker 1: you were thinking about extending the tattoos like to the

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Speaker 1: neck and face area, and I just I'm worried about

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Speaker 1: you doing that.

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Speaker 3: That's okay.

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Speaker 4: I've peed in a frat bathroom, so I have a

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Speaker 4: great immune system.

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Speaker 3: I'm good.

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Speaker 1: Yeah about you know what. Forget about what I said

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Speaker 1: about living a seventy I lived in a frat house.

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Speaker 3: You're good.

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Speaker 1: Oh, I'm solid, man, I'll probably live to be two hundred.

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Speaker 1: Give me some tattoos, man, let's do it. And I

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Speaker 1: respect people who enjoy tattoos and have them. I just

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Speaker 1: I think there are certain areas where I wonder, like

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Speaker 1: the neck area. I mean, that's gotta hurt, like a

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Speaker 1: tattoo on your throat, like right there. Actually, well, I

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Speaker 1: just I would think that would be extremely painful. But

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Speaker 1: then you're like, ooh, he can like handle that pain.

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Speaker 5: It has to be paid for. I have one right

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Speaker 5: behind my ear and it was the worst. Yeah, it's

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Speaker 5: just bone there.

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Speaker 3: It was terrible. Wow.

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Speaker 1: Oh wow, I see a music note you. I saw it.

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Speaker 1: Dude getting a tattoo one time. My cousin is a

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Speaker 1: tattoo artist. I guess he's He's one of those people

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Speaker 1: that I call a cousin, even though we're not related

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Speaker 1: at all. You have any of those, Oh yeah, my

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Speaker 1: I guess we're related somehow, way way down the line.

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Speaker 1: Except I was adopted, so we're pretending. But this dude's

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Speaker 1: a tattoo artist. And I went there to Brooklyn where

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Speaker 1: he was doing tattoos at the time, and a guy

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Speaker 1: and there were tears streaming down his face as they

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Speaker 1: did parts of his back. Oh, because I guess it

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Speaker 1: worth it right if it hurts that much? But I'm

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Speaker 1: not sure. Chipotlet fans are very upset because apparently now

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Speaker 1: they are weighing the meat in front of you before

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Speaker 1: they put it in your burrito or your bowl. No

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Speaker 1: more of this like scoop and maybe you know a

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Speaker 1: little extra no no, no, now, I guess we're weighing it,

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Speaker 1: which I understand why people don't love that, because it

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Speaker 1: feels like you're being I guess nickeled and dimed in

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Speaker 1: some ways. But a lot of places do this. A

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Speaker 1: lot of places weigh the meat or the protein or

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Speaker 1: whatever it is before they give it to you. I'm

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Speaker 1: trying to think of another example, but it's not uncommon.

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Speaker 1: If you go to like a barbecue restaurant, I think

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Speaker 1: they usually weigh it. If you go to a lot

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Speaker 1: of other places, you know, if you go to Whole

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Speaker 1: they weigh that, and the more it weighs, the more

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Speaker 1: it costs. So I guess I don't really know. It

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Speaker 1: feels kind of cheap. But at the same time, I

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Speaker 1: don't think it's uncommon. A lot of places have preportion

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Speaker 1: but they have an actual scale in this example, and

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Speaker 1: it's on little Chipotle bar and they like put your

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Speaker 1: bowl on the thing and then they pour it in

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Speaker 1: there until it's got the right number and then they

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Speaker 1: move on.

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Speaker 3: Oh that's ridiculous, I mean, but I think a lot

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Speaker 3: of people do it.

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Speaker 1: Why are you mad?

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Speaker 5: I would rather them just preportion it because you not

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Speaker 5: like it Already takes a long time to get through

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Speaker 5: a Chipotle line because you you always got.

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Speaker 3: Somebody who doesn't know what they want.

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Speaker 1: And I have different boats for ten years.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, so can you imagine now every time I want

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Speaker 5: to scoop of this, now you gotta wait.

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Speaker 1: They put it on there, like just pretty pat.

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Speaker 3: One piece out to bring it a graham down or whatever.

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Speaker 3: I don't have time for this.

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Speaker 1: I would like to know who at this point in

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Speaker 1: America doesn't know how to order at Chipotle, Like I

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Speaker 1: feel like you know, it's the same thing. It's not

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Speaker 1: knowing what your order at McDonald's is. I'm like, come on, guys,

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Speaker 1: like this, we've been if you've been living here for

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Speaker 1: a year or two years, you've been. You got to

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Speaker 1: know these things, like this is the kind of stuff.

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Speaker 1: This is survival. You know. It's like, you gotta know.

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Speaker 1: You gotta know what you how to order a Chipotle.

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Speaker 1: You gotta know what your order McDonald's is. I mean,

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Speaker 1: who's going into McDonald's and going, man, I don't know,

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Speaker 1: you know, you standing there staring at the menu.

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Speaker 3: When you're inside.

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Speaker 5: I feel like people judge off of how the meat

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Speaker 5: looks currently, right, So if you see that the steak

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Speaker 5: looks a little bit more fresher than the chicken, and

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Speaker 5: you're like, okay, you know what, I'll just have the

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Speaker 5: steak today. Or if the rice is like, you're not

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Speaker 5: as fresh as the other rice, you want to switch

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Speaker 5: it the beans.

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Speaker 3: I'm like, lady, please, just come on.

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Speaker 1: You know it's a good point. Oh yeah, Like if

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Speaker 1: they just made the steak or the chicken and they're

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Speaker 1: pouring it in there right now, or they're replacing the thing,

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Speaker 1: I might be more likely to get that. That's a

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Speaker 1: good point. But I still we're not standing there scratching

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Speaker 1: our you know, chin going. Man, I don't know veggiees

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Speaker 1: or tofu. Maybe today it's gonna be the carnitas. Man,

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Speaker 1: I don't really know. And then you just take it forever.

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Speaker 1: I don't. That's unacceptable.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Or when they have like five things that they're

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Speaker 2: like ordering five different bowls for five different people, reading

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Speaker 2: out the phonem like there's an app you pre order it.

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Speaker 1: So you're not doing this. We live in a society.

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Speaker 1: We live in a society, and yeah, now's not the time.

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Speaker 1: The other day, I was some place I was at,

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Speaker 1: like a sandwich place, and the person in front of me,

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Speaker 1: right in front of me. Now granted the order was

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Speaker 1: already in progress, so I really couldn't complain, but she

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Speaker 1: was ordering seven sandwiches, so like it was her job

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Speaker 1: to go get the sandwiches for the office or whatever. Now, again,

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Speaker 1: if we had walked in at the same time and

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Speaker 1: that woman had been like, okay, I have seven sandwich order, No,

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Speaker 1: what you do is you say to the guy, hey,

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Speaker 1: It's stay or Go. All right, Haley is here for

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Speaker 1: some relationship advice. Good morning, Haley, welcome, Hey, good morning, Haley.

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Speaker 1: What's going on? Fill us in with everything here? Because

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Speaker 6: Yeah, Okay, Well, I've been married to my husband for

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Speaker 1: Do you okayln sixty six dollars for a bachelor party.

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Speaker 1: Show, because I was going to handle this right now

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Speaker 6: So recently has been Sam brought up the fact that,

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Speaker 6: We normally have regular date nights, and we haven't been

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Speaker 1: Oh no he didn't. Oh wow, Oh no he didn't.

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Speaker 6: So I'm extremely pissed that he didn't talk to me

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Speaker 6: I'm also just hurt that I was also saving. I

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Speaker 7: Right?

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Speaker 6: He peeped me into this. I don't.

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Speaker 1: I don't know what did you What did he say

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Speaker 6: Yeah, so we have a joint account. This was not

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Speaker 6: And I told him this was not okay, obviously, just

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Speaker 6: You guys mentioned numerous times that he would like to

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Speaker 3: Anytime.

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Speaker 6: It was like, yeah, okay, yeah maybe someday, Yeah, maybe

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Speaker 2: Wow, that's crazy though, to say you can't control me

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Speaker 2: It's not about controlling you. It's about literally talking things over.

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Speaker 6: No, I was really surprised. I mean normally he doesn't

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Speaker 1: So what are you gonna do? I mean, I know

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Speaker 1: I got to get to work whatever. Okay, well we'll

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Speaker 6: Guy, I mean honestly, yeah, because it's like I said,

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Speaker 6: And I don't think it's fair to me. So I

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Speaker 1: I don't blame you, Hayley, I don't, but eight five

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Speaker 1: This is kind of like that SNL skit, remember the

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Speaker 1: it's December to remember or whatever, and she's like, we're broke,

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Speaker 1: and he's like, but it was a low apor It's

435
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Speaker 1: like APR like. And then it turns out that you know,

436
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Speaker 1: his wife's messing around with the neighbor and he borrowed

437
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Speaker 1: the money to get it in there. And it's if

438
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Speaker 1: you haven't seen it, I'm sure it's on TikTok or

439
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Speaker 1: YouTube or whatever. But this sounds to me like, but

440
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Speaker 1: at least that car was for her, this car is

441
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Speaker 1: for him. So I guess what prevents him from saying

442
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Speaker 1: you know what? I now? I want a new watch

443
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Speaker 1: or and now I want this or that, because I guess,

444
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Speaker 1: I just I don't know how you correct this behavior.

445
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Speaker 1: I guess is where I'm going.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, and well, I mean it's not like you can

447
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Speaker 6: just go return the truck as soon as he drove

448
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Speaker 6: it off the lot. It's appreciated in value. There's I'm

449
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Speaker 6: just concerned, like I said, that now we're going to

450
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Speaker 6: be in a bad spot financially for literally years.

451
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Speaker 1: Maybe he set you guys back, And it's not like

452
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Speaker 1: you can go buy a new car and say, well, fine,

453
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Speaker 1: you got one, I got one, because then that just

454
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Speaker 1: exacerbates the problem. Now you've just got more debt, so

455
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Speaker 1: you can't even really make it even per se.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, there's really That's that's the stressful thing is there's

457
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Speaker 6: really nothing I can do to fix this. So it's

458
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Speaker 6: just like, this is this the life I want? Do

459
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Speaker 6: I want to have to?

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Speaker 1: You know?

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Speaker 6: Because like I said, we were cutting out basically any

462
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Speaker 6: little luxuries to quote unquote save aka apparently afford this truck.

463
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Speaker 6: So it's just do I want to have to live

464
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Speaker 6: like that until this thing is stayed off?

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Speaker 1: Haley, I'm gonna take some phone calls keep the radio

466
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Speaker 1: or the iHeart app on it. Unlet's see what people say,

467
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Speaker 1: cause I do think there are people that can relate

468
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Speaker 1: to this, and I'd be curious to hear how they

469
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Speaker 1: handle it. But thank you for calling. Good luck.

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Speaker 6: Hey, thanks?

471
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Speaker 1: Yeah. So eight five five one three five Haley's calling

472
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Speaker 1: stare Go because they were consciously they had decided as

473
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Speaker 1: a couple consciously to save money. So they had some

474
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Speaker 1: savings and they had agreed how they were going to

475
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Speaker 1: do that, and they were going to cut back on

476
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Speaker 1: a bunch of stuff they did that, you know, date

477
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Speaker 1: nights and things that probably would make them closer as

478
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Speaker 1: a couple, things that they enjoyed doing together. And then

479
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Speaker 1: this guy goes out and buys a new car, brand

480
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Speaker 1: new car, without consulting here, And it's like, wait a minute,

481
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Speaker 1: I thought we were saving and it's not even like

482
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Speaker 1: we were. We were having to cut back on luxuries

483
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Speaker 1: in order to do this, and then you go do that.

484
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Speaker 1: Micah him Michael, good morning, Good morning, Hia, good morning,

485
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Speaker 1: thanks for calling, Thanks for listening. You've been through this.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, oh what happened?

487
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Speaker 3: Yeah, So.

488
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Speaker 8: My then boyfriend, I mean I got engaged like a

489
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Speaker 8: month and a half ago. But my boyfriend at the

490
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Speaker 8: time we lived together, his car got stolen, so maybe

491
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Speaker 8: a little bit of a different situation. But we he

492
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Speaker 8: went out and got a Mustang, like a nice, like

493
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Speaker 8: very expensive must It was giving like midlife crisis like scenario,

494
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Speaker 8: and it was a payment that like I knew, was

495
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Speaker 8: stretching him and like we hadn't fully combined our finances yet,

496
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Speaker 8: but we're on our way there. And I said to

497
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Speaker 8: him multiple multiple times, like this is not a smart idea.

498
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Speaker 8: You know, this is not a smart idea. He went

499
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Speaker 8: and did it anyway, fast forward, he proposed as Then

500
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Speaker 8: I was like, all right, we got to talk about

501
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Speaker 8: the Mustang. And he actually he he lives, you know,

502
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Speaker 8: because we talked it out, you know, and I was like, look,

503
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Speaker 8: we've got to pay for a wedding coming up, like

504
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Speaker 8: we have other priorities. He traded it in for something

505
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Speaker 8: that was a lower payment.

506
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Speaker 6: That he was still happy in.

507
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Speaker 8: And so my point is like, yes, I've just been

508
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Speaker 8: through this, but like I think, listening to the scenario,

509
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Speaker 8: like it's her reaction to be like should I leave him?

510
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Speaker 8: Sounds like this didn't happen like in a vacuum like

511
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Speaker 8: this this wasn't the first time that she's he's given

512
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Speaker 8: her reason to like question, like first of all, just

513
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Speaker 8: being considerate of.

514
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Speaker 6: Her trust to like all that kind of stuff.

515
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Speaker 8: So I think if there was a really solid foundation

516
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Speaker 8: of trust and communication, this wouldn't be like a stay

517
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Speaker 8: or go question. But it sounds like there may be,

518
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Speaker 8: isn't that And so therefore, like a huge event like this,

519
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Speaker 8: I don't know, I just think it is that to

520
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Speaker 8: be evaluated, like and she.

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Speaker 1: Well, oh well, he cut off your phone now to

522
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Speaker 1: pay for the Mustang? And what happens? Oh Michael, you

523
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Speaker 1: went away? Wait, oh now you're back again. Oh no,

524
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Speaker 1: you you cut out because I think your I think

525
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Speaker 1: your husband's trying to cut off your cell phone, uh,

526
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Speaker 1: to pay for a water ski a jet ski. But

527
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Speaker 1: what so, do you feel like he learned from that?

528
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Speaker 1: And do you feel like you know the behavior has

529
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Speaker 1: been adjusted, like it won't happen again?

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Speaker 8: Oh yeah, oh yeah, Like granted his dog had just died,

531
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Speaker 8: seasonal depression was hitting hard, So I think the Mustang

532
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Speaker 8: was like a product of a lot of other things.

533
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Speaker 3: Okay, but no, we're we've.

534
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Speaker 8: Got like some great communication going. And yes, I think

535
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Speaker 8: he learned his lessons.

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Speaker 1: Well. Good Hey Michah, I'm glad and thank you for calling.

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Speaker 1: Have a good day.

538
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Speaker 8: Thank you.

539
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Speaker 1: I love you guys, thank you for listening to love

540
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Speaker 1: you too. This is why I say all the time

541
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Speaker 1: and again, and the guy who is not in a relationship,

542
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Speaker 1: it never is, gives the relationship advice. But I do

543
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Speaker 1: think it's so important that when people get together that

544
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Speaker 1: they're on the same page about you know, saving or whatever,

545
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Speaker 1: because I think those are habits that are really hard

546
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Speaker 1: to change. You know, people who are just used to

547
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Speaker 1: just buying stuff and worrying about it later, and you know,

548
00:25:04,359 --> 00:25:07,359
Speaker 1: get with somebody who's really financially conscious and saves a lot.

549
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Speaker 1: You know. I feel like this is the kind of

550
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Speaker 1: thing that you could run into. Sarah, Hey, good morning,

551
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Speaker 1: good morning. Hi. What do you think star go?

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Speaker 3: I think she should go?

553
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Speaker 1: Why?

554
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Speaker 4: Because I think when somebody when you sit down and

555
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Speaker 4: have a conversation and you come to an agreement and

556
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Speaker 4: then they go ahead and do completely opposite of what

557
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Speaker 4: you actually sat and talked about, it's going to continue

558
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Speaker 4: to happen.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that was my question to her, is what prevents

560
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Speaker 1: this from happening again? He already did it once and

561
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Speaker 1: that was a big purchase. That's a lot of money.

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Speaker 4: Well, and not only that, it's like, okay, well she

563
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Speaker 4: stayed this time, right, And it doesn't even have to

564
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Speaker 4: be with money. It can be anything in a relationship, right.

565
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Speaker 4: So I just feel like once it's like okay, I

566
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Speaker 4: got that wiggle room in. Yeah, she's mad, but she'll

567
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Speaker 4: get over it. Cool, we can move on. So unless

568
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Speaker 4: they actually go, when they work work on their communication

569
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Speaker 4: with somebody else, I don't think it's going to change.

570
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Speaker 4: I think this could be the start of a much

571
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Speaker 4: bigger issue. And finances in a marriage are huge.

572
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Speaker 1: And communication, Yeah, I would agree with you. Thank you, Sarah.

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Speaker 4: Yes, thanks, have a great day.

574
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Speaker 1: Yeah you too, thank you. Well, here we go this.

575
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Speaker 1: I knew this was coming. Hi Jen, Hi, how are

576
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Speaker 1: you Agan? Good morning? So this woman called us stay

577
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Speaker 1: or go and they were she's married, and they were

578
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Speaker 1: in this relationship and they talked about saving they needed

579
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Speaker 1: money in the bank and they didn't have any, and

580
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Speaker 1: they were cutting back on all kinds of things. And

581
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Speaker 1: then dude goes down and buys a brand new sixty

582
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Speaker 1: thousand dollars car and she's like, wait a minute, I'm

583
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Speaker 1: not going to Starbucks, we're not going on date nights,

584
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Speaker 1: we're not taking trips together. We decided this together. And

585
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Speaker 1: then you go on and spend a bunch of money.

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Speaker 9: What do you think, why, all of a sudden is

587
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Speaker 9: he changing his character. She said that this is totally

588
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Speaker 9: out of the ordinary for him and their marriage, and

589
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Speaker 9: normally it sounds like, you know, they have pretty good communication.

590
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Speaker 9: And then all of a sudden he goes and does

591
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Speaker 9: this behind her back to me is a clearcut sign

592
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Speaker 9: that something else is going on, especially the fingerpointing. You're

593
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Speaker 9: trying to control me. I've been there, done that, I've

594
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Speaker 9: seen it, and I've had.

595
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Speaker 7: Somebody do it to me.

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Speaker 9: As soon as they start pointing the finger and making

597
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Speaker 9: you the enemy like you're trying to do something to

598
00:27:16,760 --> 00:27:19,840
Speaker 9: hold them back, there's something else going on underneath there.

599
00:27:19,920 --> 00:27:22,639
Speaker 9: So might not have gone as far as like actually meeting,

600
00:27:22,720 --> 00:27:26,440
Speaker 9: but talking internet. You know, she needs a chin his phone,

601
00:27:26,480 --> 00:27:28,160
Speaker 9: she needs to do something for sure.

602
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Speaker 1: Check. So he's cheating. You're saying, he's at least emotionally cheating.

603
00:27:33,840 --> 00:27:35,960
Speaker 1: And the new girl's like, I don't like your car.

604
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Speaker 1: You better get a brand new truck or else. And then.

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Speaker 6: The other girl.

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Speaker 9: Yeah, I don't even think it's the other girl telling

607
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Speaker 9: him that. I think it's just his ego of like,

608
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Speaker 9: I can do what I want and this is almost

609
00:27:48,359 --> 00:27:51,639
Speaker 9: a catalyst of Hey, this might kiss her off, but

610
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Speaker 9: who cares. A husband doesn't do that. You know, he

611
00:27:54,680 --> 00:27:57,040
Speaker 9: knows their situation, he knows what he told her. He's

612
00:27:57,040 --> 00:27:59,960
Speaker 9: either trying to start something or he feels in play

613
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Speaker 9: buy something else and now feels the sense of like

614
00:28:03,760 --> 00:28:06,080
Speaker 9: entitlement that he can do this and nobody's going to

615
00:28:06,160 --> 00:28:08,560
Speaker 9: tell him what to do. And as soon as that turn,

616
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Speaker 9: there's something else underneath that's interesting.

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Speaker 1: Thank you so much, Jen, have a good day, no problem.

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Speaker 1: And Zach, you've listening. Pauline, I don't you said it before,

619
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Speaker 1: so I don't. I'm not calling you out, but I

620
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Speaker 1: know that you've mentioned that you and Hobby have pretty

621
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Speaker 1: different financial pass and attitudes about spending. Uh, and you

622
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Speaker 1: guys have kind of gotten it together. But I mean,

623
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Speaker 1: how do you how do you do it? And you've

624
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Speaker 1: been together for a while now, I mean does it

625
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Speaker 1: come up?

626
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Speaker 3: Well, it's more like how does Hobby do it?

627
00:28:33,880 --> 00:28:35,679
Speaker 2: Because I am the one, like you said, that buys

628
00:28:35,680 --> 00:28:36,720
Speaker 2: and then thinks about it later.

629
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Speaker 3: Yeah, yesterday I bought a new vacuum.

630
00:28:39,120 --> 00:28:40,840
Speaker 2: Didn't need it, but in my head, I was like,

631
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Speaker 2: I need I'll figure out later. And him and I

632
00:28:42,880 --> 00:28:45,120
Speaker 2: bump heads a lot because he's trying to be the

633
00:28:45,120 --> 00:28:47,320
Speaker 2: one that saves and is responsible and he wants me

634
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Speaker 2: to get on board with.

635
00:28:48,040 --> 00:28:50,360
Speaker 3: That, and it is hard. It is like we've cut.

636
00:28:50,160 --> 00:28:53,040
Speaker 2: Things out too just because I'm like, I don't wanna,

637
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Speaker 2: I don't know. I want to be more financially stable,

638
00:28:55,560 --> 00:28:57,560
Speaker 2: but also I want to be more financially responsible and

639
00:28:57,640 --> 00:28:58,000
Speaker 2: teach my.

640
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Speaker 3: Daughter the same thing. And I'm I'm on with that.

641
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Speaker 3: But here's the thing. If I came home with a

642
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Speaker 3: brand new drug or he.

643
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Speaker 2: Did without consulting and it's all about talking to each other,

644
00:29:06,520 --> 00:29:08,600
Speaker 2: and he took away my hooters or my muddy.

645
00:29:08,320 --> 00:29:10,800
Speaker 3: School's dates, then I would be they'd be hell to.

646
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Speaker 2: Pay because like, at the end of the day, I

647
00:29:12,680 --> 00:29:14,400
Speaker 2: look at it as like, okay, so priority to you

648
00:29:14,520 --> 00:29:16,040
Speaker 2: was getting this new car. You didn't talk to me

649
00:29:16,040 --> 00:29:18,640
Speaker 2: about it, but you wanted this car. Like I look

650
00:29:18,640 --> 00:29:20,640
Speaker 2: at underneath what's going on, Like, you know, is he

651
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Speaker 2: acting out?

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Speaker 3: Is he trying to show me something?

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Speaker 2: Is he trying to show me I'm the big man

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Speaker 2: in the house, like I don't know, there's something underneath.

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Speaker 1: That it's super inconsiderate to do that. And don't take

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Speaker 1: away her mana East ghost man, not the seafood, not them.

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Speaker 3: I love my date night.

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Speaker 1: Absolutely not Hey Jane, Jane, are you Jane your Jane?

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Speaker 1: Well it says Jane, you mind if I call you

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Speaker 1: Jane anyway? So Jean Jane still be it Bellahamine whatever,

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Speaker 1: God bless her. So she's going fast. What you've been

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Speaker 1: through this sadly and what's your experience.

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Speaker 7: I just had a miscarriage and my vacuum now, thank you.

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Speaker 7: But what had happened was he when he took the

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Speaker 7: money to go by himself a vehicle, not a vehicle

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Speaker 7: but a full wheeler. And then later on down the

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Speaker 7: road he did something similar than once that I didn't

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Speaker 7: know about. And the thing once that got me that

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Speaker 7: she said, the big red, huge red flag was when

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Speaker 7: she said he was like, you can't control me, you know,

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Speaker 7: I'm you know this, I'm going to do what I want.

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Speaker 7: That is manipulation. That is a big time red flag manipulation.

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Speaker 7: And without some type of therapy and him addressing his issues,

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Speaker 7: but what he's doing to her isn't fair. So by

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Speaker 7: trying to gaslighter, that's basically a way of saying, I

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Speaker 7: know what I did was wrong, but now I'm going

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Speaker 7: to put it on you. So this is a grown

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Speaker 7: man that doesn't even want to be accountable. And you know,

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Speaker 7: maybe he's never done anything like this before, but maybe

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Speaker 7: now he's starting to show who he really is, because

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Speaker 7: we're not talking about a vacuum, you know, we're talking

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Speaker 7: about sixty thousand dollars that is going to be able

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Speaker 7: to hurt their ability to have a date night either,

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Speaker 7: just the little stuff and he just didn't care, you know,

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Speaker 7: and that is not the sign of an emotionally mature

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Speaker 7: around a person. And you know, she has to ask herself,

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Speaker 7: do I want to, you know, try and see if

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Speaker 7: he's going to start being accountable. But with what he

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Speaker 7: said to her, I don't think he's anywhere near ready.

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Speaker 1: But I didn't tell you I got Yeah, I got it.

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Speaker 1: And he should be more thoughtful about what you're going

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Speaker 1: through and not adding that extra stress and stead he's

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Speaker 1: he's thinking about himself. Hey, Jeene Jane, thank you, have

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Speaker 1: a good day.

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Speaker 7: Bye.

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Speaker 1: Thank you for calling, Thank you for listening. Geen Jane

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Speaker 1: love you. Yeah, and I think she should divorce him,

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Speaker 1: take take half the money and then go buy yourself

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Speaker 1: like a cyber truck or something.

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Speaker 3: Yes, I like it.

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Speaker 1: You know, just something obnoxious, get it wrapped with pictures

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Speaker 1: of his face on it. There's you know, dollar bills

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Speaker 1: or I'm not sure, you know, just something new, something outrageous.

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Speaker 5: Right, But this is why you always need AEPHR account

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Speaker 5: on the side that he doesn't know about.

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Speaker 3: You're not They're not ready to that conversation. They're not

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Speaker 3: red cree they read.

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Speaker 1: So let me just be clear, like she should extort

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Speaker 1: money from them, and that's better them.

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Speaker 3: You think I'm kidding.

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Speaker 1: It makes perfect sense. Yeah, No, you guys are on it.

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Speaker 1: I don't even know why. We just say that twenty

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Speaker 1: minutes ago and end the segment. Kiki is up next.

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