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<v Speaker 1>yourself flaming row along with my beautiful co host. She

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<v Speaker 1>looks okay today. She ain't no flaming role, but she

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<v Speaker 1>looks okay. What's your name, young lady? Jokes today we

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<v Speaker 1>for company. You know you don't know how to act

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<v Speaker 1>with right and who is our lovely I love the

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<v Speaker 1>guest today Mrs hogan Um well, we have the lovely

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<v Speaker 1>Testlam with us. I just have to say, first and foremost,

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<v Speaker 1>it's an honor to have you on our show. Um

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<v Speaker 1>and officially welcome you to the Black Effect networking family.

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<v Speaker 1>But I'm excited. I feel like we gotta Livia Pope

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<v Speaker 1>in the building, so it's gonna be an interesting episode

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<v Speaker 1>for sure. So thank you, Olivia Dope. That's the hood. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>good Flame Manson, lady, please walk my very special guest,

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<v Speaker 1>Miss Tesla and Figaro. We're gonna have a great conversation.

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<v Speaker 1>She is straight with no chase to Lauren is straight

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<v Speaker 1>with no chase. I'm gonna be the girl today. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>gonna have them to be aggressive. I'm gonna be the girl.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you, Thank you first of all for having me.

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<v Speaker 1>It is so good for those who don't know straight

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<v Speaker 1>shot now. Chaser is also a part of the Black

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<v Speaker 1>Effect Podcast Network. And one of the reasons uh and

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sure like you Flame wanted to was so excited

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<v Speaker 1>about the Black Effect Podcast Network was the ability to

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<v Speaker 1>network with other content curators and Uh, it started in

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<v Speaker 1>covid and you're one of the first ones that came

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<v Speaker 1>on with me. And because of COVID, we haven't had

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<v Speaker 1>an opportunity to meet face to face um and really

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<v Speaker 1>just engage. And so it's taken all of this time,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, for us to connect. And I look forward

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<v Speaker 1>to meet you in person. So this is this is great,

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<v Speaker 1>a great thing that Black Effect is doing by bringing

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<v Speaker 1>these uh diverse voices to the table. Yeah. And if

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<v Speaker 1>if anything we need right now more than anything else,

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<v Speaker 1>test it's unity, good God, because we are divided, separated.

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<v Speaker 1>We were just at a political rally last week, a

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<v Speaker 1>week before last and I, well, I am said, this

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<v Speaker 1>is this is one time in history that he knows

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<v Speaker 1>of that we have been This country is more divided

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<v Speaker 1>than ever before. And it was very true. The words

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<v Speaker 1>were so impactful. So let's dive into it. Girl, what

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<v Speaker 1>we gotta do. We got five days away from the

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<v Speaker 1>next election, you know, uh, you know we our brother

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<v Speaker 1>are comment our brother, I shared brother Charlemagne. Uh God,

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<v Speaker 1>we talked about politics daily, you know, so it changes

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<v Speaker 1>on a daily, daily, daily basis. And for many of us,

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<v Speaker 1>just for clarity, I'm an independent. I'm not a Democrat

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<v Speaker 1>or a Republican. UM. I left the Democrat Party in

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<v Speaker 1>two thousand and ten, although I do lean left on

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of my policies, but I also do not

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<v Speaker 1>ignore a lot of the conservative values that I was

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<v Speaker 1>raised upon, you know, with my grandmother and my both

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<v Speaker 1>grandparents on both sides that came through the depression and

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<v Speaker 1>really raised you know, raised me with a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>you know, conservative values where a lot of people, especially

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<v Speaker 1>black voters, do agree with but not necessarily aligned with

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<v Speaker 1>the Republican Party or where conservative ism has become. So

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<v Speaker 1>I try to always keep a very fair and objective

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<v Speaker 1>analysis when I'm talking about the election, and so early on.

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<v Speaker 1>With that said, early on, so there's a couple of

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<v Speaker 1>things that we look at. One with historical data that

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<v Speaker 1>that we have in front of us that we actually

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<v Speaker 1>can look at to be able to tell us what

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<v Speaker 1>we've seen in the past. At the same time, we

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<v Speaker 1>don't always look at what the weather was last year

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<v Speaker 1>on this day to tell me what it's going to be.

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<v Speaker 1>You know that the reality of what the weather is.

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<v Speaker 1>I say that because you always want to know what

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<v Speaker 1>is the current political environment, and so in my training

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<v Speaker 1>is one of the first things that I talked about

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<v Speaker 1>in my pushing line training is knowing the environment that

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<v Speaker 1>you're in. We can even see through climate change. That

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<v Speaker 1>right now in l A, the temperature was very different

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<v Speaker 1>this year than what it was last year. So you

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<v Speaker 1>always take that into account, but you still want to

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<v Speaker 1>look at the posts, at the data that we've had

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<v Speaker 1>throughout the years. And so data tells us that usually

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<v Speaker 1>whoever is in control usually loses in the midterms. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>that's just a fact. They usually lose the House, the House,

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<v Speaker 1>and the Senate because most Americans are in patient. That

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<v Speaker 1>is the American way, and so when things don't happen

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<v Speaker 1>fast enough, people want to switch and they want to

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<v Speaker 1>try something else. Just like in our relationships, we want

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<v Speaker 1>to switch. Let me go see if the grass is

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<v Speaker 1>green on the other side, let me go see what

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<v Speaker 1>she working with. Let me go see what he's working with.

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<v Speaker 1>That's just the n pai mindset of the American So

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<v Speaker 1>with that said, I was expecting to see Democrats lose

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<v Speaker 1>quite a bit um across the country just based on

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<v Speaker 1>data and also based on the ineffectiveness of the Democrat

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<v Speaker 1>Party and not only their messaging but their ability to

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<v Speaker 1>actually push the policy that we need. And I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>talking about just last year and two years ago. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>talking about what we have been fighting at least aggressively

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<v Speaker 1>since two thousand six, particularly in the state of Florida,

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<v Speaker 1>or I did most of my politics. So when all

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<v Speaker 1>of those things are combined and you look at what

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<v Speaker 1>I call voter depression, which is very different than voter suppression.

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<v Speaker 1>When you mix voter depression along with voter suppression, that

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<v Speaker 1>you see and those two things that are combined, in

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<v Speaker 1>addition to the party in control usually losing in midterms,

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<v Speaker 1>I was expecting a doomsday and on next Tuesday, however,

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<v Speaker 1>because of Row versus Wade, because of all of the

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<v Speaker 1>recent things that we have seen outside of just uh,

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<v Speaker 1>the abortion issue, because it's not everybody's issue, by the way,

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<v Speaker 1>but outside of that, what we have seen, not just polls,

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<v Speaker 1>but what we have seen is we have seen double

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<v Speaker 1>the amount of folks coming to the polls in in

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<v Speaker 1>person voting, not just early voting, but in person voting.

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<v Speaker 1>If we use Georgia for an example, and usually flames

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<v Speaker 1>m those early votes usually lean left. So what we're

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<v Speaker 1>seeing now is possibly a motivated and engaged base in Georgia,

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<v Speaker 1>which is the most important state. I know. We like

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<v Speaker 1>talking about states everywhere, but using the control of power,

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<v Speaker 1>it's really gonna come down to Georgia. And so if

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<v Speaker 1>Georgia continues on on what we see as of yesterday,

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<v Speaker 1>then Democrats might have a chance to retain power, very

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<v Speaker 1>slight chance, but the chance to steal there. But what

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<v Speaker 1>I know about Republicans is they show up on election

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<v Speaker 1>day in droves and can easily switch this. Uh, this

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<v Speaker 1>the results. I hear you test and I agree with

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<v Speaker 1>some instance that you have seen it, and especially with

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<v Speaker 1>the voting thing, because I'm not voting my future. The

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<v Speaker 1>future looks too bleak. I need to vote my present.

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<v Speaker 1>I need to just like you said, like as a comedian,

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<v Speaker 1>you have to read the room. I need to see

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<v Speaker 1>what's happening around in my world right now. What's happened

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<v Speaker 1>in my world right now. It scares the hell out

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<v Speaker 1>of me. But I want to ask you a question.

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<v Speaker 1>As an independent, because independence normally don't win, do you

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<v Speaker 1>think that that is splitting the vote? I mean, even though,

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<v Speaker 1>like you said, you left the Democratic Party to become independent.

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<v Speaker 1>I know some great Republicans. I thought Ryan Paul, not

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<v Speaker 1>that son Rand Paul, but I thought Ryan Paul was

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<v Speaker 1>a great Republican when he was running for office back

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<v Speaker 1>in the day. The Dad because he cared about people.

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<v Speaker 1>That is what I want people to do. I need

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<v Speaker 1>to see people who care about American people. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>care your color, size, stature, whatever, but I think that

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<v Speaker 1>people are not. They're looking like we need to vote

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<v Speaker 1>for the future. What's gonna happen in the future. The

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<v Speaker 1>future is very, very scary, but the times that we

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<v Speaker 1>live in is more scary because we see this. We

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<v Speaker 1>can't see the future. So when you see it about

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<v Speaker 1>the analytics from a year ago into what it is now,

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<v Speaker 1>it's scary to me. Because I got teenagers that drives,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I know, I was so excited about my

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<v Speaker 1>kids get to an age to where they could drive,

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<v Speaker 1>and then on petrofraed that they might be stopped by

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<v Speaker 1>Ira Young, ridiculous over the top angry racist cop and

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<v Speaker 1>just because they're black and they stand up for themselves.

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<v Speaker 1>I trained them to do that that you know, I

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<v Speaker 1>might I might lose my kids. People are not voting

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<v Speaker 1>and coming out and droves to me because I think

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<v Speaker 1>the Independent Party splits the vote. I do. I think

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<v Speaker 1>you guys know you're not gonna win and let me

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<v Speaker 1>just be on. But I understand where you're staying. I

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<v Speaker 1>want to stand with something too. I would love to

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<v Speaker 1>have voted for Bertie Sanders. But if I and I

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<v Speaker 1>thought Bertie Sanders was going to get the nomination, by

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<v Speaker 1>the way, um, but if I don't think we're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>win and we only have two other options, if you

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<v Speaker 1>vote independent and you know that we only have Democrats

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<v Speaker 1>and Republicans, that's in the forefront, don't you think that

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<v Speaker 1>does more harm to the party than good? Well, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>really and and that's a great position that you put

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<v Speaker 1>out there. Me saying that I'm an independent does not

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<v Speaker 1>mean that I am voting. I don't. I don't subscribe

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<v Speaker 1>to voting straight party ticket on anything. Okay, yeah, my

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<v Speaker 1>thing is about it because again I grew up in

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<v Speaker 1>the gang banging era. So if I didn't, I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>have to. I lived in a blood neighborhood. But let

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<v Speaker 1>let me that. You better go ask l A about

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<v Speaker 1>me and crishall mafia whoop. Anyway, the point is, did

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<v Speaker 1>you put that little whoop out there as proof at me?

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<v Speaker 1>But anyway, my point is I lived and I used

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<v Speaker 1>that as a very real example even when I'm talking

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<v Speaker 1>to the homies. I lived in the Paru neighborhood, but

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<v Speaker 1>all my cousins and my boyfriends was scripts. They was

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<v Speaker 1>my best friend at ten years old one, so when

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<v Speaker 1>we talked about age, we're talking about going back thirty years.

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<v Speaker 1>So for me, that reality has always been a real

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<v Speaker 1>thing to me at a fifteen year old Now, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>just as nervous about her driving. I'm I actually more

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<v Speaker 1>concerned about when I was driving and when she was

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<v Speaker 1>driving because I grew up in the height of the

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<v Speaker 1>Game Bang era. So I wasn't just dealing with police

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<v Speaker 1>as an issue. I was dealing with drive bys as

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<v Speaker 1>an issue. I was dealing with inner city violence is issue.

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<v Speaker 1>My neighborhood was the first neighborhood that had a drive

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<v Speaker 1>by in my neighborhood. So a lot of these things

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<v Speaker 1>to me are not new, but social media makes them

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<v Speaker 1>more relevant and makes them more protinent. So with that said,

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<v Speaker 1>connecting to the Gang Bang conversation, to it, I can

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<v Speaker 1>live in a blood neighborhood and still be a cript.

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<v Speaker 1>My best friend and I told this story on the

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<v Speaker 1>Breakfast Club. She was a great street crip. Her her

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<v Speaker 1>brother was a rolling sixty. They were the only two

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<v Speaker 1>crips that lived in my neighborhood. We all got along,

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<v Speaker 1>we all had good relationship because when people don't understand

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<v Speaker 1>his bloods and Crips worked together behind the scenes, just

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<v Speaker 1>like Democrats and Republicans red and blue worked behind the scenes.

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<v Speaker 1>So my affiliation or what they call being a sympathizer,

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't mean that I'm necessarily always gonna ride with one

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<v Speaker 1>or the other. I've always with campaigns, I've always consulted

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<v Speaker 1>Democrat candidates. I've always voted left because that were those

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<v Speaker 1>were the candidates that were coming to my neighborhood, that

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<v Speaker 1>were coming and and pitching themselves giving me access to them.

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<v Speaker 1>So I voted left. I don't think and what I do,

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<v Speaker 1>particularly what black voters, is we have to look at

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<v Speaker 1>policy because the thing about it is if we're just saying,

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<v Speaker 1>let's do the relate, because I know you do the

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<v Speaker 1>night night late like late relationship talk, so I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 1>mix that in there too. If you know that every

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<v Speaker 1>time you're gonna you can come by my house at

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<v Speaker 1>two o'clock in the morning and it don't matter. I

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<v Speaker 1>can say all this ship, can I come here? That

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<v Speaker 1>we do? Is it like, let's get into it? So

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<v Speaker 1>this this is how I look at politics. If you

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<v Speaker 1>know that every Friday night you can come by my

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<v Speaker 1>house and get something, leave me in the west spot,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, flam And it don't matter what I say, girl,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not letting him come by, girl. Please, he already

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<v Speaker 1>know what it is. Heated and this man is only

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<v Speaker 1>gonna look at the action. And if he knows that,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna answer that door and give him something every

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<v Speaker 1>single time and leave me in the wet spot. It

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<v Speaker 1>don't matter who I call after that girl next time,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not gonna be this girl. You know I don't

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<v Speaker 1>play that. People respond by action. So the problem I've

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<v Speaker 1>had with the Democrat Party, or at least how we

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<v Speaker 1>look at politics, we have to be able to look

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<v Speaker 1>at it from a lens to say, what have you

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<v Speaker 1>done for me lately? And although I'm still riding with

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<v Speaker 1>you like big Mama, that is still go bail your

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<v Speaker 1>ass out of jail, but you're gonna cust you out

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<v Speaker 1>all the way home. I told you asked what you

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<v Speaker 1>was supposed to do. I'm still gonna ride with you,

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<v Speaker 1>but there are some consequences behind your actions. So what

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<v Speaker 1>I say independent it is really just with the ideology

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<v Speaker 1>of understanding. You just can't count on me to give

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<v Speaker 1>you some. I still rock with you, and I rock

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<v Speaker 1>with black people because black people vote for the Democrat Party.

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<v Speaker 1>But I do not align myself with one party of

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<v Speaker 1>the other because I need you to court me, I

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<v Speaker 1>need you to date me, I need you to engage

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<v Speaker 1>with me. Let me give you real example, the GOP

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<v Speaker 1>UH put over for coast of forty brick and mortar

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<v Speaker 1>UH Diversity centers UH in rural areas and in the

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<v Speaker 1>inner city in Georgia, almost forty brick and mortar over

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<v Speaker 1>twenty of those UH centers. This had nothing to do

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<v Speaker 1>with trying to get people to vote for a particular

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<v Speaker 1>candidate herschel Walker whoever. It was simply just trying to

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<v Speaker 1>explain people conservative values. They were recruiting people to understand

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<v Speaker 1>conservative values. Over twenty of those centers. Centers were dedicated

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<v Speaker 1>specifically to Latinos to reach Latinos. They know that if

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<v Speaker 1>they just because what people don't understand is although Latinos,

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<v Speaker 1>which to me is the most strategic voters of all

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<v Speaker 1>because in California, Latino's vote left, in Florida, Latino's vote right.

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<v Speaker 1>So they are UH recruited and engaged and courted and

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<v Speaker 1>brought all the gifts and and and and and frank

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<v Speaker 1>insance and all of the jewels and the promises because

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<v Speaker 1>they know they have a possibility of losing that vote.

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<v Speaker 1>Joe Biden himself told our own leaders, Al Sharpton, a CP,

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<v Speaker 1>all of them at the beginning of the year. If

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<v Speaker 1>you go get listen to the lead tapes from the

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<v Speaker 1>meeting with the a CP. He told us, y'all better

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<v Speaker 1>go line up with the Latinos because they are the

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<v Speaker 1>ones that have the power. He said that to us

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<v Speaker 1>after just telling us black people, I owe you. He's

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<v Speaker 1>the only president that said out his mouth black people,

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<v Speaker 1>i owe you. Barack Obama didn't even say that. So

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<v Speaker 1>when somebody is that comfortable, and then they put over

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<v Speaker 1>twenty centers in the Latino community, they know they don't

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<v Speaker 1>have to win all Latinos. They just need one or

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<v Speaker 1>two per cent to flip the whole state. When we

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<v Speaker 1>ask Democrats, why are you not making that same investment

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<v Speaker 1>to have the community centers. Guess what they're doing those centers.

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<v Speaker 1>They're having family night, food night, they're doing citizenship ship training,

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<v Speaker 1>They're doing all the things to galvanize that community. We

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<v Speaker 1>ask Democrats, why didn't you do the same thing where

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<v Speaker 1>we're doing radio and television. That's not enough. Why are

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<v Speaker 1>you not engaging me, taking me out, calling me sometime

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<v Speaker 1>reaching out to It was a guy he said, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>you're gonna be in town. I want to haulier at you.

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<v Speaker 1>I did hear from from three weeks until I got

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<v Speaker 1>in town. When I got in town, he said, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I thought you said you just gonna. Haven't heard from

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<v Speaker 1>you the last three weeks. You gotta at least pretend

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<v Speaker 1>like you know what I said, check in how you good?

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<v Speaker 1>Everything straight? So what I'm what I'm always trying to

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<v Speaker 1>navocate the Democrat Party to do is to recognize the

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<v Speaker 1>yale we ride with you. Yes, we're gonna come bail

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<v Speaker 1>you out jail, but I need you to put something

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<v Speaker 1>on my books. And the disrespect of that, of not

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<v Speaker 1>even feeling like they have to earn our vote is

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<v Speaker 1>why we have continued to be taking advantage of in

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<v Speaker 1>the party. But it don't mean I don't rock with

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<v Speaker 1>with Democrats, because I do. I've gotten candidates elected. I

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<v Speaker 1>just did a training in Atlanta called Push the Line

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<v Speaker 1>nonpartisan free training. Over three people came from all over

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<v Speaker 1>the country to learn how to be a candidate and

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<v Speaker 1>operative or organizer. So not only do I vote for Democrats,

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<v Speaker 1>I teach people how do go run for office if

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<v Speaker 1>they think that their candidates are unacceptable. So that's a

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<v Speaker 1>fine line between being an independent party. No, it's not

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<v Speaker 1>an independent on the ticket and just this, and I'll

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<v Speaker 1>be quiet when I say this. I work for Bernie

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<v Speaker 1>Sanders and I am the only one that literally had

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<v Speaker 1>a legal lawsuit against the Bernie Sanders Movement for anti

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<v Speaker 1>black racism. So I don't give a damn who you are,

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<v Speaker 1>including if you sign my check. If you are not

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<v Speaker 1>for black people, I call you out. So that go

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<v Speaker 1>for Bernard bi Biden, Obama, Trump, whoever it is. We

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<v Speaker 1>have to have voices that say make sure that you're

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<v Speaker 1>talking about black people and you're making the investment in

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<v Speaker 1>black people that we deserve because you can depend on

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<v Speaker 1>our vote TESTA let me jump in here, then, So

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<v Speaker 1>what is the difference that you see being in the

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<v Speaker 1>Independent Party being that you you know, stepped away from

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<v Speaker 1>the Democratic Party for all the reasons that you just said,

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<v Speaker 1>which are all very valid. But have you seen that

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<v Speaker 1>you've been able to give more momentum to folks being

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<v Speaker 1>that you're independent. It's not a party, and that's what

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<v Speaker 1>I'm saying. If you guys are referring to it as

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<v Speaker 1>an independent party, it's not a party. It's an ideology.

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<v Speaker 1>So I try to tell people there's a difference between

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<v Speaker 1>a party and an ideology. So the perfect example is

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<v Speaker 1>conservative is an ideology. It's how you see life. It's

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<v Speaker 1>the lend you see it through. Your party. Who you

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<v Speaker 1>align with is a republican. Liberal is an ideology. It's

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<v Speaker 1>how you see life. It's the lend you see it through.

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<v Speaker 1>But a party is democrat. There is no independent party.

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<v Speaker 1>There's not structure for independent, there's not a platform for independent.

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<v Speaker 1>But in order to be a democrat, let me just

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<v Speaker 1>do a game banging analogy. In order for me to say, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna be a role in sixty, i gotta have

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<v Speaker 1>beef with Hoover. That's a part of the party. That's

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<v Speaker 1>a part of Here are the rules. This is what

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<v Speaker 1>you need to do. If you're gonna be Peru, you

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<v Speaker 1>need to have this. If you're gonna be a crip,

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<v Speaker 1>if you're gonna be neighborhood, you need to have this.

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<v Speaker 1>But I can have the ideology, meaning the be a

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<v Speaker 1>what they call a sympathizer or lean the crips. I

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<v Speaker 1>can go to the functions. I can be around, I

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<v Speaker 1>can wear blue, I can lean towards you know, I

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<v Speaker 1>like crips better for this reason. But it doesn't mean

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<v Speaker 1>I aligne with a party. So the biggest thing to

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<v Speaker 1>understand is there is no independent party. People can run

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<v Speaker 1>as an independent, but there's not a party. It is

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<v Speaker 1>a two party system. Like Flame said, one is gonna

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<v Speaker 1>win over the other. Independence vote, they lean one way

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<v Speaker 1>or the other. It's not like you're going in and

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<v Speaker 1>checking for independent. You are picking between a Democratic Republican

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<v Speaker 1>if you're voting in a Democratic Republican primary or general election.

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<v Speaker 1>But there are positions under that which are the most

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<v Speaker 1>important positions like mayor city council um, like judicial branches,

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<v Speaker 1>which is the most critical thing, that have nothing to

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<v Speaker 1>do with partisanship. So we only make it about Democratic Republicans,

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<v Speaker 1>then pretty much what you're saying is telling people to

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<v Speaker 1>only pay attention to governor and and and US Senate

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<v Speaker 1>in US Congress when the real problems that get addressed

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<v Speaker 1>are at the city level. If you look at what

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<v Speaker 1>California is doing. Since that's where you are flamed. When

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<v Speaker 1>you look at the Reparations task Force that's on the

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<v Speaker 1>city level, that has nothing to do with partisanship. That

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<v Speaker 1>HR forty bill for reparations on the federal they haven't

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<v Speaker 1>even put that on the table. It's actually getting done

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<v Speaker 1>in California on the local level. So when you look

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<v Speaker 1>at that, when you remove partisanship and you're looking for,

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<v Speaker 1>like with Flame said, what affects me right now? You

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<v Speaker 1>want to talk about police getting pulled over, that's your

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<v Speaker 1>city council, that's your chief of police. The sheriff is

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<v Speaker 1>elected most cities. Some of them are different. Some run

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<v Speaker 1>on Democratic Republicans, but for the most part a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of places they're not running on partisanship at all. So

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<v Speaker 1>the Independent Converse station really just wants you to ship

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<v Speaker 1>your mind, or at least what I try to do

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<v Speaker 1>to ship your mind on what affects you in front

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<v Speaker 1>of you. Flamee talked about police. That's what's the school

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<v Speaker 1>board that's in front of you. Most school board positions

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<v Speaker 1>don't run on party affiliation. Now you may know what

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<v Speaker 1>that person is, you know because you can look at

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<v Speaker 1>their policies and see who they are. But a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of the school board positions have nothing to do with party.

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<v Speaker 1>So if we're gonna vote on what's most impactful, that

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<v Speaker 1>means it has nothing to do with Democratic Republican, but

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<v Speaker 1>what best serves you in your community. Two things test

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<v Speaker 1>and first of all, in California, we have the greatest

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<v Speaker 1>governor of all the governors of all the Union. We

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<v Speaker 1>have we have our great governor, and we love our governor.

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<v Speaker 1>Here what's his name, Lauren looks Pelosi's nephews, so you

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<v Speaker 1>know there's always you know, more points. Seems to be

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<v Speaker 1>one of the most fair people I've ever experienced. I've

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<v Speaker 1>never met him personally, but what he has done for

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<v Speaker 1>the state of California, I think it's highly commendable. Secondly,

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<v Speaker 1>when you were talking about voting locally, we have a

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<v Speaker 1>like that girl, Alison Lewis who's down in Lakeland, Florida.

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<v Speaker 1>She ran for city council. That's all she ever pushed

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<v Speaker 1>on our platform was start locally. You got to start low,

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<v Speaker 1>to put the people in and see who they are,

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<v Speaker 1>understand them because they're going to grow now. People do

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<v Speaker 1>change throughout time. It's hard for me to believe that

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<v Speaker 1>Clarence Thomas was never the same Clarence Thomas that he

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<v Speaker 1>is now. But um, she always pushes that how important

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<v Speaker 1>it is to start locally, to vote locally, to man,

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<v Speaker 1>have these people step up to the level that you

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<v Speaker 1>want them to be. So I know the importance of that.

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<v Speaker 1>I just wanted to make sure that because you know,

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<v Speaker 1>when you say independent, I always want to do people

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<v Speaker 1>vote independent all the way down the ticket. But then

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<v Speaker 1>you you you made me very well aware of that.

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<v Speaker 1>So thank you for explaining that to me. I want

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<v Speaker 1>to ask you, test and what do you think because

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<v Speaker 1>you remember when we had the election for Biden a

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<v Speaker 1>couple of years ago, so many rappers and big names

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<v Speaker 1>came out black folks and said, oh, hold your vote

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<v Speaker 1>until we figure out what the black agenda is. What

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<v Speaker 1>do you think the black agenda is? Before you answer,

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<v Speaker 1>let me tell you what I think the black agenda is.

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<v Speaker 1>I think the black agenda personal it is. What is

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<v Speaker 1>the black agenda? To you? Do you do you want

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<v Speaker 1>your children to be I beliegues kids and get jobs

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<v Speaker 1>and the CEO corporation? Do you want your kids to

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<v Speaker 1>work in a factory or do you want what? What

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<v Speaker 1>do you want? I always have thought that that was personal.

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<v Speaker 1>Why they try to say because I never thought one

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<v Speaker 1>person could speak for an entire community. I could never

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<v Speaker 1>speak for the black community totally. I can never speak

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<v Speaker 1>for the gay community totally. I couldn't speak for all fathers.

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<v Speaker 1>I just voiced my opinion. Sometimes people agree with it,

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<v Speaker 1>sometimes they don't. But what do you think the black

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<v Speaker 1>agenda is, Tess? And I'm dying to hear this. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I love I love the way you position, and I'll

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<v Speaker 1>use you as an example. And you do a very

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<v Speaker 1>good job of bringing balance to conversations. So, although you

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<v Speaker 1>do not speak for the entire LGBT community, you have

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<v Speaker 1>been very clear that there are people like you that

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<v Speaker 1>do exist within that community, which means you have the

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<v Speaker 1>ability to also critique and love and also challenge. And

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<v Speaker 1>so when you're seeing people who are saying you, you've

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<v Speaker 1>been very vocal about how you feel that a lot

0:22:59.600 --> 0:23:02.600
<v Speaker 1>of the l GBT policies have been forced on folks. So,

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<v Speaker 1>and people get mad at you. I follow your work,

0:23:04.440 --> 0:23:07.040
<v Speaker 1>so I'm very familiar with you. You can Yeah, when

0:23:07.040 --> 0:23:08.920
<v Speaker 1>people get mad at you and say, well, you can't

0:23:08.960 --> 0:23:10.480
<v Speaker 1>speak for us, and you don't this and that You've

0:23:10.520 --> 0:23:12.080
<v Speaker 1>always been very clear to say, I'm not trying to

0:23:12.080 --> 0:23:14.840
<v Speaker 1>speak for you. I'm showing you another opinion, another view.

0:23:14.920 --> 0:23:18.840
<v Speaker 1>Another lens through your glass is literally a lens. And

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<v Speaker 1>what I love about because I go, I come into

0:23:21.840 --> 0:23:25.720
<v Speaker 1>your I g at night and you and just giving

0:23:25.760 --> 0:23:28.920
<v Speaker 1>our love. Analogies, So when you want people to when

0:23:28.920 --> 0:23:31.159
<v Speaker 1>you want, when people want to get their attention, what

0:23:31.200 --> 0:23:34.680
<v Speaker 1>do they do? They type in caps? You tell people

0:23:34.880 --> 0:23:36.920
<v Speaker 1>I need you to type in caps so I can

0:23:36.960 --> 0:23:40.359
<v Speaker 1>see you. It's not that other people are not typing away,

0:23:40.440 --> 0:23:42.320
<v Speaker 1>because I've been in there typing my ass off, not

0:23:42.440 --> 0:23:45.080
<v Speaker 1>knowing that I needed to type in caps. Somebody to

0:23:45.119 --> 0:23:46.720
<v Speaker 1>tell me you need to type in caps if you

0:23:46.760 --> 0:23:49.280
<v Speaker 1>wanted to see you. Why am I saying that? Analogy?

0:23:49.560 --> 0:23:51.960
<v Speaker 1>When you're hearing people say this is the black agenda,

0:23:52.040 --> 0:23:54.680
<v Speaker 1>it's not that they're not recognizing that there are other

0:23:54.720 --> 0:23:57.560
<v Speaker 1>people in the comments making decisions. They're just saying, I'm

0:23:57.600 --> 0:24:00.760
<v Speaker 1>typing in caps so that you can see their reparations

0:24:00.760 --> 0:24:02.959
<v Speaker 1>are important to black people. I'm typing in caps so

0:24:03.000 --> 0:24:05.880
<v Speaker 1>that you can see. Maybe health reform is important to people.

0:24:05.920 --> 0:24:08.320
<v Speaker 1>I'm typing in caps so you can know that all

0:24:08.480 --> 0:24:11.000
<v Speaker 1>people who are part of the LGBT community are not

0:24:11.119 --> 0:24:14.399
<v Speaker 1>all the same, so it's not one person speaking for another.

0:24:14.680 --> 0:24:17.320
<v Speaker 1>It is just us understanding and having a maturity understand

0:24:17.480 --> 0:24:20.400
<v Speaker 1>that yes, we are diverse, and they're way more voices

0:24:20.440 --> 0:24:22.359
<v Speaker 1>on the other side. Like when you made the comment

0:24:22.359 --> 0:24:24.520
<v Speaker 1>about you know, rappers saying we got an agenda, there

0:24:24.560 --> 0:24:27.760
<v Speaker 1>were way more rappers and entertainers that we're all pushing

0:24:27.800 --> 0:24:31.160
<v Speaker 1>for the Democrat Party than they were ice cubes. It's

0:24:31.200 --> 0:24:33.720
<v Speaker 1>just the fact. So I tell people all the time

0:24:34.040 --> 0:24:36.640
<v Speaker 1>there is no balance in the challenge and the critique.

0:24:36.640 --> 0:24:39.280
<v Speaker 1>It's just not. At the Revolts summit, um, I got

0:24:39.280 --> 0:24:41.720
<v Speaker 1>into a big it went viral because one of the

0:24:41.800 --> 0:24:44.560
<v Speaker 1>entertainers got up and said, it seems like you're mad

0:24:44.600 --> 0:24:47.000
<v Speaker 1>at entertainers because I was talking about how we need

0:24:47.080 --> 0:24:50.399
<v Speaker 1>balance with entertainers, meaning entertainers need to sit down with

0:24:50.520 --> 0:24:52.919
<v Speaker 1>people like me and let's get to understand. I can

0:24:52.960 --> 0:24:56.000
<v Speaker 1>sing and rap, so I've entertained, I've had CDs out,

0:24:56.040 --> 0:24:58.840
<v Speaker 1>I've done that too, but we have to have a

0:24:58.920 --> 0:25:01.639
<v Speaker 1>conversation so that we can understand each other. Because the

0:25:01.800 --> 0:25:06.480
<v Speaker 1>entertainers are very valuable with the having big um platforms

0:25:06.600 --> 0:25:08.520
<v Speaker 1>to say hey, y'all come look at this. They're like

0:25:08.600 --> 0:25:10.760
<v Speaker 1>to me, the people in the caps, But then as

0:25:10.760 --> 0:25:13.280
<v Speaker 1>people in the comments were flame and saying, hey, let

0:25:13.320 --> 0:25:14.879
<v Speaker 1>me open to my platform with you so we can

0:25:14.920 --> 0:25:16.720
<v Speaker 1>have a conversation, so we can get a little bit

0:25:16.760 --> 0:25:19.800
<v Speaker 1>of understanding. And if we remove ego and understanding, we

0:25:19.880 --> 0:25:23.560
<v Speaker 1>both bring value to the table entertainment as well as politics.

0:25:23.560 --> 0:25:25.560
<v Speaker 1>And how do we have this conversation to see that

0:25:25.600 --> 0:25:28.080
<v Speaker 1>there's different opinions. We move forward now to ask your

0:25:28.160 --> 0:25:31.400
<v Speaker 1>question on black agenda. I do agree politics is personal.

0:25:31.600 --> 0:25:34.320
<v Speaker 1>I said this just on my podcast yesterday because I

0:25:34.400 --> 0:25:37.760
<v Speaker 1>work a lot with people that push reparations. A lot

0:25:37.760 --> 0:25:39.520
<v Speaker 1>of the folks in the reparations move and are very

0:25:39.560 --> 0:25:43.040
<v Speaker 1>single issue voters. And that's okay, some people are very

0:25:43.080 --> 0:25:46.800
<v Speaker 1>single issue voters. But I also advocate all the time

0:25:47.160 --> 0:25:50.280
<v Speaker 1>that first of all, your involvement in politics should be

0:25:50.359 --> 0:25:52.879
<v Speaker 1>what's personal to you, because that's what's gonna keep you

0:25:52.960 --> 0:25:55.560
<v Speaker 1>up at night, that's what's gonna keep you motivated. This

0:25:55.600 --> 0:25:58.040
<v Speaker 1>is the hardest calling that I've ever had. It is

0:25:58.040 --> 0:26:00.640
<v Speaker 1>not a career, It is a calling, and the only

0:26:00.640 --> 0:26:03.479
<v Speaker 1>thing is gonna keep you battling the principalities that you

0:26:03.520 --> 0:26:06.359
<v Speaker 1>have to fight is your motivation. So it has to

0:26:06.400 --> 0:26:09.359
<v Speaker 1>be something personal. And I tell my reparation as friends

0:26:09.400 --> 0:26:11.959
<v Speaker 1>who get mad, Oh it's all about reparation. No, it

0:26:12.040 --> 0:26:14.639
<v Speaker 1>has to be. It's enough of us, enough problems in

0:26:14.640 --> 0:26:16.800
<v Speaker 1>the black community for us all to get our hands

0:26:16.840 --> 0:26:19.520
<v Speaker 1>dirty and in something that's number one. We don't have

0:26:19.600 --> 0:26:23.320
<v Speaker 1>to get everybody talking about the same thing. However, was

0:26:23.400 --> 0:26:27.040
<v Speaker 1>personal to me. Mass incarceration. That's too personal to me

0:26:27.240 --> 0:26:30.199
<v Speaker 1>because I watched an entire generation. A lot of my

0:26:30.200 --> 0:26:32.199
<v Speaker 1>friends were about five teen years older than me, but

0:26:32.280 --> 0:26:34.399
<v Speaker 1>I watched them get locked up behind the ninety four

0:26:34.480 --> 0:26:36.480
<v Speaker 1>crime bill, all my homies that came from l A

0:26:36.520 --> 0:26:39.280
<v Speaker 1>and lived in Oklahoma City. I watched first time non

0:26:39.359 --> 0:26:42.560
<v Speaker 1>viting offenders, the same guys that saved my life in

0:26:42.640 --> 0:26:45.000
<v Speaker 1>particularly one. I'll tell the story all the time that

0:26:45.160 --> 0:26:47.480
<v Speaker 1>say my life when a dice game went bad. That's

0:26:47.480 --> 0:26:49.240
<v Speaker 1>why I thought it was so ironic on what happened

0:26:49.240 --> 0:26:52.000
<v Speaker 1>this week, because it made me reflect on how it

0:26:52.080 --> 0:26:54.080
<v Speaker 1>was supposed to be me flame. I was supposed to

0:26:54.080 --> 0:26:57.399
<v Speaker 1>be identified that same night. So I can't forget about

0:26:57.600 --> 0:26:59.840
<v Speaker 1>the people that rock with me and the issues that

0:26:59.880 --> 0:27:02.639
<v Speaker 1>are affected them. I've never been arrested. I've never been

0:27:02.680 --> 0:27:05.680
<v Speaker 1>a prison, but I'm motivated by my friends and mass incarceration.

0:27:05.760 --> 0:27:08.239
<v Speaker 1>I'm motivated by healthcare because both of my parents had

0:27:08.280 --> 0:27:11.399
<v Speaker 1>inadequate health care and died as a result. But reparations

0:27:11.440 --> 0:27:14.320
<v Speaker 1>are still important. So I think people need to understand

0:27:14.320 --> 0:27:16.160
<v Speaker 1>that two things can be done at the same time.

0:27:16.480 --> 0:27:19.040
<v Speaker 1>The black agenda is what's personal to you, But we

0:27:19.080 --> 0:27:21.639
<v Speaker 1>cannot ignore the people in the cats because really what

0:27:21.680 --> 0:27:24.399
<v Speaker 1>they're saying is these issues are not talked about it

0:27:24.400 --> 0:27:27.720
<v Speaker 1>at all broadly, and they're conflated, and so they're just

0:27:27.760 --> 0:27:34.040
<v Speaker 1>trying to bring attendance to it. I got a question, Teslin,

0:27:34.400 --> 0:27:36.360
<v Speaker 1>what do you think why do you think us as

0:27:36.440 --> 0:27:39.800
<v Speaker 1>black people, and that's with the gay, straight or just

0:27:39.880 --> 0:27:42.199
<v Speaker 1>with differences where we see things different, ain't gonnah to

0:27:42.200 --> 0:27:44.520
<v Speaker 1>do with just sexuality. Why do you think we are

0:27:44.600 --> 0:27:48.919
<v Speaker 1>so afraid to come to a table, sit down like adults,

0:27:49.080 --> 0:27:53.600
<v Speaker 1>and have real, open, honest conversation to fix the problems

0:27:53.640 --> 0:27:56.119
<v Speaker 1>more so than just keep adding more cold to the burner.

0:27:56.480 --> 0:27:58.639
<v Speaker 1>Why are we are so afraid of that? What? What?

0:27:58.640 --> 0:28:01.480
<v Speaker 1>What is the fear? And I'm asking a very serious

0:28:01.560 --> 0:28:04.199
<v Speaker 1>question why we can't just sit down at the roundtable,

0:28:04.240 --> 0:28:08.000
<v Speaker 1>all different types from the black community, and hear each

0:28:08.040 --> 0:28:10.879
<v Speaker 1>other and hear each other. Yeah, I think we do.

0:28:11.040 --> 0:28:14.080
<v Speaker 1>We're doing that. Now. We have to be very careful

0:28:14.600 --> 0:28:16.280
<v Speaker 1>and and you know, and I tell people this, and

0:28:16.400 --> 0:28:19.119
<v Speaker 1>I give the again analogies. I love analogies and metaphors.

0:28:19.400 --> 0:28:21.840
<v Speaker 1>You know, my sisters Semika and my son, they talk

0:28:21.880 --> 0:28:25.119
<v Speaker 1>about accomplices. You know, we need accomplices in the game killing.

0:28:25.160 --> 0:28:28.159
<v Speaker 1>Mike talks about allies. I'm a military veteran. I was

0:28:28.200 --> 0:28:31.119
<v Speaker 1>an M sixty gunners, So I talk about soldiers because

0:28:31.119 --> 0:28:34.280
<v Speaker 1>soldiers are very different. And I give the analogy on

0:28:34.359 --> 0:28:36.480
<v Speaker 1>boys in the hood. Everybody have seen boys in the hood,

0:28:36.920 --> 0:28:39.320
<v Speaker 1>and you you had when it was time for trade

0:28:39.560 --> 0:28:41.240
<v Speaker 1>to get in the car and really put in work.

0:28:41.400 --> 0:28:43.440
<v Speaker 1>He did all that screaming and all that holler, and

0:28:43.480 --> 0:28:45.760
<v Speaker 1>he got some ass off of it. Cried, did all

0:28:45.760 --> 0:28:47.800
<v Speaker 1>of that on knee long. But when it was time

0:28:47.840 --> 0:28:49.840
<v Speaker 1>to put in work, when it was time to ask

0:28:49.880 --> 0:28:51.400
<v Speaker 1>you to work, he said, let me out the car.

0:28:51.720 --> 0:28:53.840
<v Speaker 1>His role was to go to more house and become

0:28:53.840 --> 0:28:56.960
<v Speaker 1>a scholar. Excuse rolling that movie. Dough Boy was to

0:28:56.960 --> 0:28:59.160
<v Speaker 1>put in work. And as a result of that lifestyle,

0:28:59.200 --> 0:29:02.440
<v Speaker 1>he eventually died. I believe that people have different roles,

0:29:02.720 --> 0:29:04.160
<v Speaker 1>and I don't think that we're not coming to the

0:29:04.160 --> 0:29:06.560
<v Speaker 1>table and have conversations. Where I think the problem is

0:29:06.800 --> 0:29:09.960
<v Speaker 1>is people are sitting around thinking that everybody needs to

0:29:09.960 --> 0:29:12.560
<v Speaker 1>be at the table. I'm okay with everybody not being

0:29:12.600 --> 0:29:14.560
<v Speaker 1>at the table. I tell people all the time, I'm

0:29:14.560 --> 0:29:16.760
<v Speaker 1>not Harriet Tubman. I'm not coming back to get your ass.

0:29:16.760 --> 0:29:19.360
<v Speaker 1>I'm a hunkle one time, and I'm gonna leave. All

0:29:19.440 --> 0:29:21.400
<v Speaker 1>this is trying to save everybody and try to get

0:29:21.440 --> 0:29:23.440
<v Speaker 1>everybody on board. It's a waste of time. It's a

0:29:23.480 --> 0:29:26.200
<v Speaker 1>waste of time. It's been proven biblically, whether people are

0:29:26.320 --> 0:29:28.960
<v Speaker 1>religion or not. Moses did not go to the Promised

0:29:29.000 --> 0:29:32.240
<v Speaker 1>Land because he talked to slaves who were already free.

0:29:32.480 --> 0:29:36.560
<v Speaker 1>So you're either gonna be about the going over to

0:29:36.600 --> 0:29:39.080
<v Speaker 1>the land of milk and honey, like Joshua, what you're saying.

0:29:39.120 --> 0:29:41.280
<v Speaker 1>I don't need us all. I just need about ten

0:29:41.360 --> 0:29:44.240
<v Speaker 1>or fifteen people. I just need Gideon's army. Just give

0:29:44.320 --> 0:29:46.680
<v Speaker 1>me three hundred, three hundred. That's what I was talking

0:29:46.680 --> 0:29:48.760
<v Speaker 1>to my son about before this show. I said, give

0:29:48.840 --> 0:29:51.040
<v Speaker 1>me a tangible number on what you think can shift

0:29:51.040 --> 0:29:53.800
<v Speaker 1>the culture in hip hop. Don't say we we we

0:29:53.800 --> 0:29:56.320
<v Speaker 1>we Tell me a number. If it was a hundred

0:29:56.440 --> 0:29:58.040
<v Speaker 1>artists that said I want to be able to say

0:29:58.040 --> 0:29:59.920
<v Speaker 1>whatever I want to say in hip hop, find me

0:30:00.040 --> 0:30:02.680
<v Speaker 1>a hundred that say, no, we're gonna shift the culture,

0:30:03.040 --> 0:30:06.200
<v Speaker 1>and that that one hundred can make a difference. Gideon's

0:30:06.240 --> 0:30:08.280
<v Speaker 1>Army started with ten thousand, but it was three hundred

0:30:08.320 --> 0:30:10.920
<v Speaker 1>that made a difference. So I don't I don't think

0:30:10.920 --> 0:30:12.840
<v Speaker 1>we're afraid to do it. We're doing it now. We

0:30:12.960 --> 0:30:14.920
<v Speaker 1>just have to stop thinking everybody got to be at

0:30:14.920 --> 0:30:17.480
<v Speaker 1>the table. Let's just have enough dedicated to you, because

0:30:17.480 --> 0:30:18.960
<v Speaker 1>that's really what it comes down. So it's only gonna

0:30:18.960 --> 0:30:21.120
<v Speaker 1>be just a few that really does the work. And

0:30:21.200 --> 0:30:23.280
<v Speaker 1>I agree and disagree with you, and I agree that

0:30:23.480 --> 0:30:25.160
<v Speaker 1>we don't need everybody to tell But I disagree with

0:30:25.200 --> 0:30:27.360
<v Speaker 1>you when you say you're not Harriet Tebman because you're

0:30:27.360 --> 0:30:30.120
<v Speaker 1>in politics. You have no other choice but to save us.

0:30:30.160 --> 0:30:34.840
<v Speaker 1>That's why that's true. But I'm not here, no, But

0:30:34.880 --> 0:30:37.040
<v Speaker 1>I'll tell you who I am. I'm I'm Deborah from

0:30:37.040 --> 0:30:39.840
<v Speaker 1>the Book of Judges where she said General Barrock that

0:30:39.960 --> 0:30:42.560
<v Speaker 1>was his actual name. She said General Barrock. You're either

0:30:42.560 --> 0:30:44.600
<v Speaker 1>gonna free my people or he's gonna deliver through the

0:30:44.600 --> 0:30:46.720
<v Speaker 1>hands of a woman. I am. I come from the

0:30:46.720 --> 0:30:49.920
<v Speaker 1>Book of Judges, a warrior, and an old testament. I

0:30:50.000 --> 0:30:52.840
<v Speaker 1>use Harriet Tubman as an example because my grandmother was

0:30:52.880 --> 0:30:56.200
<v Speaker 1>a bus driver, and even when she drove the bus,

0:30:56.240 --> 0:30:57.960
<v Speaker 1>she told me, if your ass ain't on this bus,

0:30:57.960 --> 0:31:01.080
<v Speaker 1>stop on time, you're gonna get left. And so I

0:31:01.120 --> 0:31:04.440
<v Speaker 1>think it's important that people move with urgency, not always.

0:31:04.560 --> 0:31:06.720
<v Speaker 1>You know, people love the favorite quote they love sharing

0:31:06.760 --> 0:31:08.920
<v Speaker 1>about Harriet Tubman is you know I could have saved

0:31:08.920 --> 0:31:10.920
<v Speaker 1>the thout. You know, I only say the thousand's whatever.

0:31:11.120 --> 0:31:15.120
<v Speaker 1>What is it that more people knew the pe right?

0:31:15.160 --> 0:31:17.920
<v Speaker 1>And so I try to push flame the mentality that

0:31:18.200 --> 0:31:21.680
<v Speaker 1>you need to understand that everybody ain't gonna wait on you.

0:31:21.680 --> 0:31:23.440
<v Speaker 1>You need to move with it. If I say I'm

0:31:23.480 --> 0:31:25.320
<v Speaker 1>coming to the we're going to the club at seven o'clock,

0:31:25.320 --> 0:31:27.640
<v Speaker 1>you're as better be ready at seven o'clock. We moved

0:31:27.720 --> 0:31:30.960
<v Speaker 1>differently when we understand that ain't nobody coming back. When

0:31:30.960 --> 0:31:33.080
<v Speaker 1>we understand we ain't on colored people time, you don't

0:31:33.080 --> 0:31:35.080
<v Speaker 1>get an extra fifteen minutes. Perfectly. I went to to

0:31:35.120 --> 0:31:41.440
<v Speaker 1>see Joda see um uh, the New Addition Tour and

0:31:41.520 --> 0:31:44.000
<v Speaker 1>the New Addition Tour that just that just finished. They

0:31:44.040 --> 0:31:46.560
<v Speaker 1>started on time. That was the first time I've ever

0:31:46.600 --> 0:31:48.880
<v Speaker 1>been to a black concert. I'm out of getting my

0:31:48.960 --> 0:31:51.280
<v Speaker 1>drink thinking I got an extra fifteen twenty minutes and

0:31:51.320 --> 0:31:53.560
<v Speaker 1>I'm listening to Jodac Oh yeah, in the back. I'm like,

0:31:53.640 --> 0:31:56.480
<v Speaker 1>what do they do? They started on time, So the

0:31:56.520 --> 0:31:58.760
<v Speaker 1>word got around to people that were going to the

0:31:58.760 --> 0:32:00.800
<v Speaker 1>concert and say, y'all better be on time because you're

0:32:00.800 --> 0:32:03.240
<v Speaker 1>gonna miss Jelas, You're gonna miss Casey and Jeans, which

0:32:03.280 --> 0:32:06.120
<v Speaker 1>is really who I came to see. When we understand

0:32:06.160 --> 0:32:09.280
<v Speaker 1>that it's gonna start on time, we moved differently. My

0:32:09.360 --> 0:32:12.600
<v Speaker 1>training that I did in Atlanta started at seven a m.

0:32:12.640 --> 0:32:15.680
<v Speaker 1>And I told people, I'm not Harriet Tubman, bring your

0:32:15.720 --> 0:32:17.120
<v Speaker 1>ass here in late. If you want to, you're gonna

0:32:17.120 --> 0:32:19.560
<v Speaker 1>get locked out. See, they're not used to political trainers

0:32:19.560 --> 0:32:21.400
<v Speaker 1>speaking of it in that way. They used to saying, Oh, everybody,

0:32:21.440 --> 0:32:22.720
<v Speaker 1>come on there and come on here and get a plate,

0:32:22.720 --> 0:32:24.640
<v Speaker 1>come on in. I said, no, no, no, if you're

0:32:24.680 --> 0:32:27.520
<v Speaker 1>not there on time, because you this is bootcap for real.

0:32:27.640 --> 0:32:32.160
<v Speaker 1>The military. The military strategic mindset is to send people away.

0:32:32.400 --> 0:32:35.200
<v Speaker 1>When we do basic training, we don't try to keep people.

0:32:35.240 --> 0:32:37.720
<v Speaker 1>We try to send you away because we only want

0:32:37.760 --> 0:32:40.920
<v Speaker 1>the front line soldiers. So my mindset is not about

0:32:41.160 --> 0:32:43.000
<v Speaker 1>getting people that don't know they're free, because if you

0:32:43.000 --> 0:32:44.240
<v Speaker 1>don't know, you don't want to be free. In tooth

0:32:44.240 --> 0:32:46.840
<v Speaker 1>out twenty two, you're not for me, deflame. Do you

0:32:46.880 --> 0:32:49.160
<v Speaker 1>know all three people that came from all over the

0:32:49.200 --> 0:32:51.520
<v Speaker 1>country beat us to the door. They were there at

0:32:51.520 --> 0:32:55.160
<v Speaker 1>six fifteen in the morning because the expectation was there.

0:32:55.360 --> 0:32:57.800
<v Speaker 1>That ain't nobody waiting on you. So I do think

0:32:57.800 --> 0:32:59.920
<v Speaker 1>it's important that somebody go back and get slaves and

0:33:00.040 --> 0:33:02.240
<v Speaker 1>talk to him and big. That's not my role. My

0:33:02.400 --> 0:33:04.200
<v Speaker 1>role is to tell you when I hunked this damn horn.

0:33:04.240 --> 0:33:06.800
<v Speaker 1>I'm like the rapture. One time, I'm blowing the trumpet.

0:33:06.800 --> 0:33:08.880
<v Speaker 1>One time you are the coming, are you not? And

0:33:08.920 --> 0:33:11.600
<v Speaker 1>I have seen that work in the way I organize.

0:33:12.400 --> 0:33:14.680
<v Speaker 1>COVID made black people be on time because you know,

0:33:14.720 --> 0:33:17.280
<v Speaker 1>we have broke doing COVID, Like you know, we show

0:33:17.360 --> 0:33:21.080
<v Speaker 1>up late for everything, myself included. But COVID said the

0:33:21.160 --> 0:33:23.200
<v Speaker 1>money tight, you better be there on time. COVID made

0:33:23.240 --> 0:33:26.960
<v Speaker 1>black folk show up on time. You really look like

0:33:26.960 --> 0:33:28.920
<v Speaker 1>you're about to say something. What you're about to say, Lauren,

0:33:29.000 --> 0:33:30.800
<v Speaker 1>I was because we kind of talked about it. I

0:33:30.840 --> 0:33:33.040
<v Speaker 1>wanted to shift a little because I'm curious to hear

0:33:33.080 --> 0:33:35.720
<v Speaker 1>your views. Teslin. Um. You know, this week we lost

0:33:35.760 --> 0:33:38.840
<v Speaker 1>another beloved rapper in the community take Off was shot

0:33:38.920 --> 0:33:42.960
<v Speaker 1>unfortunately and was killed. Um. I think he makes number

0:33:42.960 --> 0:33:46.240
<v Speaker 1>twenty two within this year. So I just wanted to

0:33:46.280 --> 0:33:48.920
<v Speaker 1>get your thoughts on what do you think in terms

0:33:48.960 --> 0:33:51.200
<v Speaker 1>of the climate that we're living in where it just

0:33:51.240 --> 0:33:55.000
<v Speaker 1>seems like violence is constantly at the forefront and ultimately,

0:33:55.240 --> 0:33:57.040
<v Speaker 1>you know, we're just losing too many people at the

0:33:57.080 --> 0:34:00.120
<v Speaker 1>end of the day. Yeah, you know, again, going act

0:34:00.160 --> 0:34:02.000
<v Speaker 1>to my analogy, my first funeral I went to was

0:34:02.000 --> 0:34:03.840
<v Speaker 1>a twelve years old. It's always been a part of

0:34:03.840 --> 0:34:07.880
<v Speaker 1>my lifestyle. I think social media and it amplifies things.

0:34:08.160 --> 0:34:10.759
<v Speaker 1>For example, when Rodney King, you know, got beat up

0:34:10.800 --> 0:34:13.200
<v Speaker 1>people was selling We've been saying in l A, this

0:34:13.239 --> 0:34:15.840
<v Speaker 1>is what happens in l A. But it took the camera,

0:34:16.160 --> 0:34:18.000
<v Speaker 1>you know, to be able to show people, hey, this

0:34:18.080 --> 0:34:20.799
<v Speaker 1>is the reality. When I watched the movie, when they

0:34:20.840 --> 0:34:23.160
<v Speaker 1>see us and so many people were just devastated to

0:34:23.200 --> 0:34:26.080
<v Speaker 1>see what happens in solitary confinement. I got so pissed

0:34:26.080 --> 0:34:28.080
<v Speaker 1>because I said that, tell me, you ain't never went

0:34:28.160 --> 0:34:30.160
<v Speaker 1>to go see nobody in jail, You ain't never putting

0:34:30.160 --> 0:34:32.920
<v Speaker 1>no money on nobody's books. You are completely clueless on

0:34:32.920 --> 0:34:36.399
<v Speaker 1>what brothers go through with solitary confinement. So, um, when

0:34:36.440 --> 0:34:39.120
<v Speaker 1>things are hiden in that way, we've lost way more

0:34:39.120 --> 0:34:41.279
<v Speaker 1>than twenty two black people this year, but those are

0:34:41.280 --> 0:34:43.880
<v Speaker 1>the ones that were highlighted. So when things are highlighted

0:34:43.880 --> 0:34:45.799
<v Speaker 1>and in social media over the top and it's back

0:34:45.800 --> 0:34:47.239
<v Speaker 1>to back to back to back to back to back,

0:34:47.480 --> 0:34:50.640
<v Speaker 1>it makes it seem um as if it's something new

0:34:50.680 --> 0:34:52.759
<v Speaker 1>and it's not. And also where we have to be

0:34:52.800 --> 0:34:54.800
<v Speaker 1>careful with, like I said a little while ago about

0:34:54.920 --> 0:34:56.879
<v Speaker 1>we are coming to the table to talk. It's also

0:34:56.920 --> 0:35:01.040
<v Speaker 1>important that there are plenty of non violent intervention communities

0:35:01.080 --> 0:35:03.880
<v Speaker 1>all over the country that never get any light shined

0:35:03.960 --> 0:35:07.319
<v Speaker 1>on them, never talked about, don't have the resources, don't

0:35:07.360 --> 0:35:09.520
<v Speaker 1>have the things that they need to get to go

0:35:09.560 --> 0:35:12.040
<v Speaker 1>into the community. Always talk about Sylvia. None in l

0:35:12.120 --> 0:35:15.520
<v Speaker 1>A that has that's out there doing really trying to

0:35:15.560 --> 0:35:17.879
<v Speaker 1>correct some of even the lifestyle she was a part

0:35:17.920 --> 0:35:20.359
<v Speaker 1>of by being a Paru blood and she's over there

0:35:20.360 --> 0:35:23.319
<v Speaker 1>doing it on on pennies. So nobody talks about that

0:35:23.360 --> 0:35:25.239
<v Speaker 1>in the lives that she has been able to save

0:35:25.360 --> 0:35:27.120
<v Speaker 1>and touch a lot of O G s that really

0:35:27.120 --> 0:35:28.759
<v Speaker 1>have come back and be like, hey, I want to

0:35:28.800 --> 0:35:31.800
<v Speaker 1>be a part of correcting what it is that I started.

0:35:31.840 --> 0:35:33.560
<v Speaker 1>I've been talking to d O C all this week

0:35:33.680 --> 0:35:36.760
<v Speaker 1>Rapper Icon DLC is like, let's put let's let's do something.

0:35:36.840 --> 0:35:39.200
<v Speaker 1>I want to change the culture that I was once

0:35:39.200 --> 0:35:43.320
<v Speaker 1>a part of. Talking to um last week, uh C

0:35:43.520 --> 0:35:46.439
<v Speaker 1>Mac c J Mac and what he's trying to do.

0:35:46.560 --> 0:35:48.640
<v Speaker 1>So it's a lot of Willie D. Scar Face. It's

0:35:48.640 --> 0:35:50.359
<v Speaker 1>a lot of people that's trying to do They ran

0:35:50.400 --> 0:35:52.480
<v Speaker 1>for office with it D and Scarface ran for office.

0:35:52.760 --> 0:35:54.480
<v Speaker 1>So it's a lot of people that are trying to

0:35:54.520 --> 0:35:57.320
<v Speaker 1>go on the opposite, but they don't get the attention

0:35:57.680 --> 0:35:59.640
<v Speaker 1>that it comes, and so we have to be very

0:35:59.680 --> 0:36:03.000
<v Speaker 1>careful of that. Black culture is number one, not talked

0:36:03.000 --> 0:36:05.400
<v Speaker 1>about as if this is the only part of our culture,

0:36:05.440 --> 0:36:08.959
<v Speaker 1>because it's not. There's black excellence in our culture as well.

0:36:09.239 --> 0:36:12.080
<v Speaker 1>There's black academics in our culture as well. There's black

0:36:12.080 --> 0:36:14.759
<v Speaker 1>talent in our culture as well. There are community activists

0:36:14.760 --> 0:36:18.320
<v Speaker 1>in our culture as well. We cannot allow white supremacist

0:36:18.400 --> 0:36:20.879
<v Speaker 1>talking points that sometimes even we pick up in our

0:36:20.920 --> 0:36:24.440
<v Speaker 1>desire to want to change our community, and we subconsciously,

0:36:24.680 --> 0:36:27.520
<v Speaker 1>unconsciously pick up those talking points to say, oh man,

0:36:27.560 --> 0:36:29.560
<v Speaker 1>we just killed everybody, We just dined it. But there's

0:36:29.640 --> 0:36:32.560
<v Speaker 1>crime in every community, white on white crime, Asian on

0:36:32.719 --> 0:36:36.480
<v Speaker 1>Asian crime, Hispanic on Hispanic crime, and that particular loss

0:36:36.800 --> 0:36:38.920
<v Speaker 1>would take off rest in peace had nothing to do

0:36:38.960 --> 0:36:42.279
<v Speaker 1>with wrap. It was a dice game gone bad. And

0:36:42.320 --> 0:36:44.400
<v Speaker 1>I know plenty of people that got killed at night. Again,

0:36:44.560 --> 0:36:47.040
<v Speaker 1>my own personal story being at the wrong place, wrong time,

0:36:47.320 --> 0:36:49.759
<v Speaker 1>was a result of a dice game. So we just

0:36:49.960 --> 0:36:53.800
<v Speaker 1>I'm just very careful and trying to conflate that issue.

0:36:54.120 --> 0:36:58.919
<v Speaker 1>But I do recognize and realize that that music has

0:36:58.960 --> 0:37:01.440
<v Speaker 1>a lot of influence, it's on our culture. But I

0:37:01.520 --> 0:37:03.919
<v Speaker 1>also realized flame, I got a fifteen year old little girl.

0:37:04.640 --> 0:37:07.120
<v Speaker 1>She's going to a K pop commercial concert today. She

0:37:07.160 --> 0:37:09.719
<v Speaker 1>loves K pop. Now me, I listen to ratchet music

0:37:09.760 --> 0:37:12.120
<v Speaker 1>all day long. That's just not what my baby is into,

0:37:12.280 --> 0:37:14.279
<v Speaker 1>you know what I'm saying. So it comes down to

0:37:14.360 --> 0:37:17.520
<v Speaker 1>how do you raise your children? Flame? You talk about

0:37:17.520 --> 0:37:20.239
<v Speaker 1>it all the time, regardless of people have issue to

0:37:20.280 --> 0:37:22.800
<v Speaker 1>take issue with you and how you present to the world.

0:37:23.040 --> 0:37:25.680
<v Speaker 1>You always remind people, but what about my three babies?

0:37:26.160 --> 0:37:28.439
<v Speaker 1>What about my baby is going to college? What about

0:37:28.520 --> 0:37:30.480
<v Speaker 1>the positive things that they're doing. At the end of

0:37:30.480 --> 0:37:33.200
<v Speaker 1>the day, you cannot dispute the receipts, And when it

0:37:33.280 --> 0:37:36.319
<v Speaker 1>comes down to how we're raising our children, that is

0:37:36.360 --> 0:37:40.640
<v Speaker 1>a family conversation. And I don't hold music as responsible

0:37:40.920 --> 0:37:43.440
<v Speaker 1>as raising my baby girl. That really comes down to

0:37:43.520 --> 0:37:46.120
<v Speaker 1>me and the example that I said and the expectations

0:37:46.120 --> 0:37:48.480
<v Speaker 1>that I said. But yes, music does play influence into that.

0:37:49.160 --> 0:37:50.680
<v Speaker 1>So I do I want to do a follow up

0:37:50.680 --> 0:37:52.520
<v Speaker 1>to that. Then, I'm curious to get your thoughts on

0:37:52.680 --> 0:37:56.640
<v Speaker 1>the fact that certain prosecutors are using rappers lyrics actually

0:37:56.680 --> 0:38:00.399
<v Speaker 1>to basically prosecute these cases. Um Young Tug and Gonna

0:38:00.440 --> 0:38:02.520
<v Speaker 1>as an example of that. I know recently, you know

0:38:02.520 --> 0:38:06.160
<v Speaker 1>Gavin Newsom, mark beloved governor. You know that's basically passed

0:38:06.200 --> 0:38:07.719
<v Speaker 1>the law of saying that that was not allowed in

0:38:07.800 --> 0:38:10.080
<v Speaker 1>this state. But it seems like more and more this

0:38:10.200 --> 0:38:12.960
<v Speaker 1>is becoming a practice. So how do you think, Um,

0:38:13.080 --> 0:38:15.080
<v Speaker 1>I'm curious to hit your thoughts on what you think

0:38:15.080 --> 0:38:18.440
<v Speaker 1>about music actually being used against you know, rappers in

0:38:18.480 --> 0:38:21.279
<v Speaker 1>the culture that you know in their lived experiences. Yeah,

0:38:21.520 --> 0:38:23.839
<v Speaker 1>I just did a segment on that and revoke news.

0:38:24.360 --> 0:38:28.080
<v Speaker 1>And I believe in the First Amendment right, particularly when

0:38:28.080 --> 0:38:29.680
<v Speaker 1>it comes to black people, especially when it comes to

0:38:29.719 --> 0:38:32.160
<v Speaker 1>black men, because then it would be a slippery slope

0:38:32.440 --> 0:38:34.480
<v Speaker 1>and it could easily go to Hey, Flame was doing

0:38:34.520 --> 0:38:37.600
<v Speaker 1>a comedy set about killing somebody and how she want

0:38:37.640 --> 0:38:39.560
<v Speaker 1>to kill somebody. Oh, girl, I could just if I

0:38:39.680 --> 0:38:41.239
<v Speaker 1>if it was me, but I just kill knock him

0:38:41.239 --> 0:38:42.839
<v Speaker 1>in the head, and then something happens and then all

0:38:42.880 --> 0:38:44.880
<v Speaker 1>of a sudden, now you were suspecting crime that you

0:38:44.960 --> 0:38:47.560
<v Speaker 1>never committed. So, because this system is not set up

0:38:47.600 --> 0:38:49.480
<v Speaker 1>to give us fair justice based on what we know,

0:38:49.920 --> 0:38:52.960
<v Speaker 1>it is important to make sure that evidence always prevails

0:38:54.040 --> 0:38:56.359
<v Speaker 1>based on somebody's you know, what they may have said

0:38:56.400 --> 0:38:59.080
<v Speaker 1>in art. However, at the same time, I come from

0:38:59.120 --> 0:39:01.440
<v Speaker 1>the generation where people didn't talk on phones about their

0:39:01.600 --> 0:39:04.240
<v Speaker 1>dirty work. They didn't sitting right now that this social

0:39:04.280 --> 0:39:07.040
<v Speaker 1>media era with these gang bangers online and YouTube and

0:39:07.080 --> 0:39:09.800
<v Speaker 1>telling on themselves. Basically, if you tell her on yourself

0:39:10.000 --> 0:39:14.240
<v Speaker 1>and you are putting out literally you know, I killed Jojo,

0:39:14.600 --> 0:39:16.879
<v Speaker 1>and Jojo come up dead and they saw that your

0:39:17.000 --> 0:39:19.280
<v Speaker 1>asked was that Joe Joe's house? On your cell phone

0:39:19.320 --> 0:39:21.160
<v Speaker 1>and on the camera. Because you can track everywhere that

0:39:21.239 --> 0:39:23.560
<v Speaker 1>you are and that is able, you don't have to

0:39:23.680 --> 0:39:26.239
<v Speaker 1>use the rap lyric for evidence. You can use a

0:39:26.280 --> 0:39:28.279
<v Speaker 1>simple fact that you was at Joe Joe's house and

0:39:28.360 --> 0:39:30.320
<v Speaker 1>we see you was on the phone and we so

0:39:30.600 --> 0:39:34.239
<v Speaker 1>to me, it's the evidence over anything else. But the

0:39:34.480 --> 0:39:38.239
<v Speaker 1>the people are conflating the conversation between how should we

0:39:38.360 --> 0:39:41.320
<v Speaker 1>change our music versus what actually works in court. So

0:39:41.400 --> 0:39:45.000
<v Speaker 1>I had attorney um A Marisa y'alla, who's running for

0:39:45.520 --> 0:39:47.960
<v Speaker 1>state attorney in Florida, speak on this and she was

0:39:48.120 --> 0:39:51.080
<v Speaker 1>very clear about we cannot let those things conflate and

0:39:51.200 --> 0:39:53.759
<v Speaker 1>all merge in the one because there's different, you know,

0:39:53.880 --> 0:39:56.680
<v Speaker 1>different conversations the court of law. It should be innocent

0:39:56.760 --> 0:40:00.360
<v Speaker 1>until proven guilty. This justice system has always for black

0:40:00.440 --> 0:40:03.960
<v Speaker 1>people and particularly black men, has always been guilty until

0:40:04.040 --> 0:40:06.600
<v Speaker 1>proven innocent. So we have to be very careful. Now

0:40:06.719 --> 0:40:09.000
<v Speaker 1>we want to have the culture conversation on should we

0:40:09.160 --> 0:40:10.960
<v Speaker 1>produce better music? Should we do that? Out of that

0:40:11.320 --> 0:40:14.960
<v Speaker 1>that's a different conversation, and they don't believe they belong together. Tesla.

0:40:14.960 --> 0:40:17.200
<v Speaker 1>And for the record, if I'm accused of busting somebody

0:40:17.280 --> 0:40:25.239
<v Speaker 1>to the head, I probably did it. But but I

0:40:25.880 --> 0:40:27.680
<v Speaker 1>see and I talked about this on Love Lounge, and

0:40:27.680 --> 0:40:29.400
<v Speaker 1>I talked about this, and when I'm in my stand up,

0:40:29.440 --> 0:40:32.640
<v Speaker 1>I do think that the music set some mood in

0:40:32.760 --> 0:40:36.080
<v Speaker 1>the younger generation on a different, different demographic from my era.

0:40:36.120 --> 0:40:38.280
<v Speaker 1>And let me say that, so I don't offend nobody,

0:40:38.280 --> 0:40:41.600
<v Speaker 1>because well, I really don't give a fuck. Uh. I

0:40:41.719 --> 0:40:44.959
<v Speaker 1>think the music says the mood Ousley Brothers, Frankie Beverly

0:40:45.040 --> 0:40:47.560
<v Speaker 1>and Maze reata Franklin Glady's night. Those put you in

0:40:47.600 --> 0:40:50.320
<v Speaker 1>a mood to where you wanted the whole hands, feel

0:40:50.360 --> 0:40:53.360
<v Speaker 1>good about yourself, make love, make babies, what have you?

0:40:53.800 --> 0:40:56.320
<v Speaker 1>Some of these new music and these kids be whatever

0:40:56.400 --> 0:41:00.600
<v Speaker 1>they drugs they're using now, Uh, this trap music, it's

0:41:00.680 --> 0:41:03.360
<v Speaker 1>it's the same, like it's the same. See, this is

0:41:03.400 --> 0:41:05.360
<v Speaker 1>what I try to say. So so my generation of

0:41:05.480 --> 0:41:08.400
<v Speaker 1>thirty five to the forty five, this ain't this is

0:41:08.440 --> 0:41:10.960
<v Speaker 1>the same music. When when people saying, who are these kids,

0:41:11.520 --> 0:41:14.800
<v Speaker 1>I'd say, we're ain't parents that we brought in gangst

0:41:14.840 --> 0:41:17.880
<v Speaker 1>the rap, So this ain't new music to me. I

0:41:18.040 --> 0:41:22.279
<v Speaker 1>am a alumni of Little Kim. I come from the

0:41:22.600 --> 0:41:26.080
<v Speaker 1>lineage of Little Kim. I am a descendant of n

0:41:26.280 --> 0:41:29.200
<v Speaker 1>w A, so this ain't new music to me. These

0:41:29.239 --> 0:41:32.960
<v Speaker 1>are the parents that had children the average uh in

0:41:33.239 --> 0:41:37.560
<v Speaker 1>the early nineties. Remember when Thanks for My Child came out,

0:41:37.680 --> 0:41:39.759
<v Speaker 1>and you know they put uh Karen was a Karen

0:41:39.800 --> 0:41:41.880
<v Speaker 1>White when she put that song out. There was a

0:41:42.000 --> 0:41:45.600
<v Speaker 1>height and teenage pregnancy in that era. When I was

0:41:45.680 --> 0:41:48.359
<v Speaker 1>sixteen in high school, both of my best friends had

0:41:48.480 --> 0:41:53.319
<v Speaker 1>babies at sixteen, at sixteen, so their children now are

0:41:53.320 --> 0:41:57.040
<v Speaker 1>in their late twenties. That era of the gang banging

0:41:57.200 --> 0:41:58.719
<v Speaker 1>and the rap and all of that, and what I

0:41:58.880 --> 0:42:02.279
<v Speaker 1>came upon. These are the children of the mothers and

0:42:02.400 --> 0:42:05.239
<v Speaker 1>the parents that had them at sixteen and seventeen years old.

0:42:06.080 --> 0:42:10.239
<v Speaker 1>Now does age make a difference, No, because my grandmother.

0:42:10.440 --> 0:42:12.480
<v Speaker 1>If we go back and look at my grandmother, when

0:42:12.560 --> 0:42:16.359
<v Speaker 1>did they start having babies eighteen nineteen twenty some even

0:42:16.400 --> 0:42:19.120
<v Speaker 1>younger than that. My family in Louisiana, because they started

0:42:19.239 --> 0:42:21.759
<v Speaker 1>very early and had ten twenty kids. You know, by

0:42:21.840 --> 0:42:24.480
<v Speaker 1>the time there was twenty five, big, big families, So

0:42:24.640 --> 0:42:27.160
<v Speaker 1>it's not always an age thing. And yes, culture does

0:42:27.239 --> 0:42:29.600
<v Speaker 1>make a difference when I want to get buck with somebody, Yeah,

0:42:29.600 --> 0:42:31.560
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna put any forty, I'm gonna put in some

0:42:31.600 --> 0:42:33.880
<v Speaker 1>gangster rap. I'm gonna putting a little kim. That was

0:42:34.040 --> 0:42:36.480
<v Speaker 1>the zone that I was on. But that, to me

0:42:36.840 --> 0:42:39.360
<v Speaker 1>is not a new thing. That has always been a

0:42:39.440 --> 0:42:42.520
<v Speaker 1>part of our community. But again, at the same time,

0:42:42.960 --> 0:42:45.239
<v Speaker 1>it really comes down to the individual kid and what

0:42:45.320 --> 0:42:49.600
<v Speaker 1>they're into. My baby is a K Pop BT s.

0:42:49.800 --> 0:42:52.239
<v Speaker 1>She go to every BT and we fly all over

0:42:52.280 --> 0:42:54.400
<v Speaker 1>the country to go to these things. I love it.

0:42:54.760 --> 0:42:57.040
<v Speaker 1>She don't listen to me the stallion I do her

0:42:57.120 --> 0:42:59.480
<v Speaker 1>Mamma do. She don't listen to any of that. So

0:42:59.719 --> 0:43:02.960
<v Speaker 1>she she gravitates to what she likes. And so there

0:43:03.160 --> 0:43:06.320
<v Speaker 1>is still some individualism. You know that we that we

0:43:06.400 --> 0:43:09.080
<v Speaker 1>must take accountability for in our in our house. There

0:43:09.120 --> 0:43:11.320
<v Speaker 1>are certain things that I know you would not tolerate

0:43:11.440 --> 0:43:13.520
<v Speaker 1>from your son. How do I know that because I

0:43:13.600 --> 0:43:15.520
<v Speaker 1>would know that he would have never got that scholarship

0:43:15.760 --> 0:43:18.239
<v Speaker 1>if you tolerated everything that he wanted to bring to you.

0:43:18.880 --> 0:43:21.280
<v Speaker 1>Whether you live in l A or not, what everybody

0:43:21.320 --> 0:43:23.160
<v Speaker 1>else doing in l A wasn't what your child was

0:43:23.200 --> 0:43:25.360
<v Speaker 1>doing because the results show so I do think that

0:43:25.440 --> 0:43:29.640
<v Speaker 1>it's a parent thing more so than and my daughter.

0:43:29.760 --> 0:43:34.360
<v Speaker 1>Thank you God, because then help us walk over me.

0:43:34.560 --> 0:43:36.759
<v Speaker 1>I am tougher than I am, the toughest piece of

0:43:36.920 --> 0:43:39.160
<v Speaker 1>lunafoor you ever seen. Until it comes to my daughters.

0:43:39.160 --> 0:43:41.280
<v Speaker 1>I don't know why they just and they take advantage

0:43:41.280 --> 0:43:44.800
<v Speaker 1>of it. That is the Yeah, that's how it's supposed

0:43:44.800 --> 0:43:47.480
<v Speaker 1>to be. So I would ask you, you raising a

0:43:47.560 --> 0:43:50.080
<v Speaker 1>child in this error? How did he get the scholarship?

0:43:50.440 --> 0:43:53.640
<v Speaker 1>You in l A. It's gang banging everywhere? How how

0:43:53.719 --> 0:43:56.760
<v Speaker 1>did that have? Wasn't the music what I mean? How

0:43:56.840 --> 0:43:58.719
<v Speaker 1>did that? That's a that's a good question for you.

0:43:59.040 --> 0:44:03.400
<v Speaker 1>How were you able to keep him from escaping making

0:44:03.440 --> 0:44:05.680
<v Speaker 1>those types of decisions? It wasn't that what he wasn't

0:44:05.719 --> 0:44:08.279
<v Speaker 1>confronted with him. He grew up in the house with

0:44:08.360 --> 0:44:10.800
<v Speaker 1>me and and and let me be very transparent that

0:44:11.040 --> 0:44:14.440
<v Speaker 1>I have always lived in a zip code that was

0:44:14.520 --> 0:44:17.480
<v Speaker 1>above my means. And when I say that, I'm not

0:44:17.680 --> 0:44:19.719
<v Speaker 1>saying that like I felt like I was better than

0:44:19.760 --> 0:44:23.160
<v Speaker 1>anyone else. But I learned once I had children, Because

0:44:23.200 --> 0:44:25.040
<v Speaker 1>before I had children, it didn't matter to me. But

0:44:25.160 --> 0:44:27.560
<v Speaker 1>once I had children, I learned that the better the

0:44:27.640 --> 0:44:30.440
<v Speaker 1>zip code, the better the p t A. The better

0:44:30.520 --> 0:44:33.480
<v Speaker 1>the p t A, the better the school system. See,

0:44:33.520 --> 0:44:35.279
<v Speaker 1>they always want to say as the teachers, p t

0:44:35.440 --> 0:44:38.520
<v Speaker 1>as direct and drive the school system. So when I

0:44:38.719 --> 0:44:40.839
<v Speaker 1>learned that we lived in a better zip code, because

0:44:40.880 --> 0:44:43.200
<v Speaker 1>I didn't have any money, I wanted to work in

0:44:43.239 --> 0:44:46.319
<v Speaker 1>the community that didn't understand me while being a part

0:44:46.400 --> 0:44:48.719
<v Speaker 1>of a community that could not stand me. So I

0:44:48.840 --> 0:44:51.880
<v Speaker 1>could not work, not because I wasn't talented, but the

0:44:51.960 --> 0:44:54.040
<v Speaker 1>gays didn't like that I didn't dance to the beat,

0:44:54.239 --> 0:44:56.480
<v Speaker 1>and the straight people didn't understand me, even though I

0:44:56.600 --> 0:44:59.360
<v Speaker 1>kept showing up and showing up. So that was a

0:44:59.440 --> 0:45:02.040
<v Speaker 1>real hard where is for me? Meanwhile, trying to maintain

0:45:02.200 --> 0:45:04.760
<v Speaker 1>raising three kids, I'm black listening in the game community.

0:45:04.960 --> 0:45:07.200
<v Speaker 1>I couldn't work in the straight community because if a

0:45:07.280 --> 0:45:09.400
<v Speaker 1>male comedian would book me on the show or something,

0:45:09.600 --> 0:45:11.520
<v Speaker 1>he would get ragged on and they would say, oh,

0:45:11.600 --> 0:45:13.960
<v Speaker 1>you attracted to that, why you got flame on the show,

0:45:14.000 --> 0:45:15.920
<v Speaker 1>You must want to sleep with flame. It was never

0:45:16.080 --> 0:45:19.360
<v Speaker 1>any of that but my son to me, which is

0:45:19.360 --> 0:45:21.319
<v Speaker 1>why I never did a reality show. Tesla. I've been

0:45:21.400 --> 0:45:24.520
<v Speaker 1>offered three times the reality show Big Money. Even before

0:45:24.560 --> 0:45:27.359
<v Speaker 1>I got with Lauren as my manager, I didn't want

0:45:27.400 --> 0:45:30.120
<v Speaker 1>to sell my son out. My son and you see me,

0:45:30.239 --> 0:45:32.719
<v Speaker 1>you need you know my presentation, y'all see my dress

0:45:32.760 --> 0:45:35.279
<v Speaker 1>when I'm on Instagram and Facebook, how I showed to

0:45:35.320 --> 0:45:38.560
<v Speaker 1>award shows or what have you. My son still respects

0:45:38.640 --> 0:45:41.160
<v Speaker 1>me as his father. That was something I will not

0:45:41.800 --> 0:45:44.200
<v Speaker 1>relinquish for all the money on this planet. I just

0:45:44.280 --> 0:45:48.240
<v Speaker 1>won't give that up. My daughters go girls, wish you washing? Anyway.

0:45:48.320 --> 0:45:50.200
<v Speaker 1>Let me just say, women, I wish you washing. They

0:45:50.239 --> 0:45:53.600
<v Speaker 1>started as girls, but boys. You know, it was important

0:45:53.640 --> 0:45:56.720
<v Speaker 1>for me, as a black person and in this country,

0:45:57.000 --> 0:45:59.480
<v Speaker 1>for my black son to respect his black father. That

0:45:59.640 --> 0:46:02.840
<v Speaker 1>was he to show him love and understanding and patience.

0:46:03.040 --> 0:46:05.520
<v Speaker 1>And I always provide even when we didn't have money,

0:46:05.560 --> 0:46:08.120
<v Speaker 1>even when I was blacklisted, I knew how to hustle. Oh,

0:46:08.200 --> 0:46:10.520
<v Speaker 1>and there's a hustler in me, that girl in me

0:46:10.640 --> 0:46:13.200
<v Speaker 1>gonna get it and then and me gonna stand for it.

0:46:15.200 --> 0:46:18.080
<v Speaker 1>So you are perfect. So I and this is why,

0:46:18.239 --> 0:46:20.160
<v Speaker 1>because you probably you know, I knew all your story.

0:46:20.440 --> 0:46:22.480
<v Speaker 1>This is why your story is so important. As you're

0:46:22.520 --> 0:46:25.080
<v Speaker 1>having these conversations, you can use because when people relate

0:46:25.120 --> 0:46:28.120
<v Speaker 1>to on politics is real people's story, even the candidate.

0:46:28.480 --> 0:46:31.359
<v Speaker 1>When we teach candidates how to do speeches, it's me, you, us.

0:46:31.880 --> 0:46:33.839
<v Speaker 1>If you actually listen to a candidate speech, they'll start

0:46:33.880 --> 0:46:35.839
<v Speaker 1>at saying, hey, I'm telling figure, Oh, I'm from here,

0:46:35.880 --> 0:46:38.160
<v Speaker 1>I'm this is this. Then they'll say you, you know

0:46:38.280 --> 0:46:40.600
<v Speaker 1>flame you and I relate because we both have teenage

0:46:40.680 --> 0:46:44.440
<v Speaker 1>kids with and then they go to the US, MEU, US, US,

0:46:44.520 --> 0:46:46.320
<v Speaker 1>you and I together we can make a difference. Pimps

0:46:46.360 --> 0:46:48.439
<v Speaker 1>and pastors got the same format. By the way, would

0:46:48.440 --> 0:46:52.480
<v Speaker 1>you like to hear it? I've seen it. I watched it,

0:46:52.560 --> 0:46:54.319
<v Speaker 1>and show you when the pastor got robbed and then

0:46:54.400 --> 0:46:57.000
<v Speaker 1>show this closet with all the Ostrich is right, But

0:46:58.400 --> 0:47:00.680
<v Speaker 1>I'm talking about literally the speech for man. I talked

0:47:00.680 --> 0:47:03.719
<v Speaker 1>about this on Ghetto Boys, Me, you, US, pastor me

0:47:04.160 --> 0:47:06.719
<v Speaker 1>the Lord, send me the Lord. You know I'm I'm

0:47:06.800 --> 0:47:10.320
<v Speaker 1>the I'm the the chosen one. You know, God ordained me.

0:47:10.560 --> 0:47:12.600
<v Speaker 1>Then you you know when you in church and he say,

0:47:12.880 --> 0:47:14.600
<v Speaker 1>I know I'm talking to somebody in here, I know

0:47:14.680 --> 0:47:16.359
<v Speaker 1>I'm touching on somebody here, and you'll be saying there

0:47:16.360 --> 0:47:18.000
<v Speaker 1>and it seems like you're talking to me. That's the

0:47:18.080 --> 0:47:20.200
<v Speaker 1>you part, and then the US. All I need is

0:47:20.239 --> 0:47:21.879
<v Speaker 1>two of us to touch and agree, and let's get

0:47:21.920 --> 0:47:24.400
<v Speaker 1>this building fund and let's get this house. Me you US.

0:47:24.480 --> 0:47:27.239
<v Speaker 1>I'm giving you the literally the speech formath that they use.

0:47:27.480 --> 0:47:29.719
<v Speaker 1>Pimps do the same thing. Me. I'm a pimp. Look

0:47:29.760 --> 0:47:32.399
<v Speaker 1>at me. Look at my clothes. I'm looking good. Don't

0:47:32.440 --> 0:47:34.239
<v Speaker 1>you want to be with somebody like me? Do you

0:47:34.520 --> 0:47:36.920
<v Speaker 1>go to the to the prostitute. You're not doing as

0:47:36.960 --> 0:47:38.840
<v Speaker 1>well as you could be. If you was with me,

0:47:38.920 --> 0:47:40.960
<v Speaker 1>we'd beat out of out the US. ME and you together,

0:47:41.040 --> 0:47:43.279
<v Speaker 1>we can take over the world. The me you US

0:47:43.560 --> 0:47:47.319
<v Speaker 1>speech format works with engagement, and it works the same

0:47:47.360 --> 0:47:50.240
<v Speaker 1>way in politics. So what I like about your story

0:47:50.719 --> 0:47:53.520
<v Speaker 1>is not so much of as of saying what tells

0:47:53.600 --> 0:47:55.800
<v Speaker 1>on the music sound good? I like your story of

0:47:55.880 --> 0:47:58.960
<v Speaker 1>the MEU US Tell me about you? How were you

0:47:59.160 --> 0:48:01.760
<v Speaker 1>able to do it? Because when you tell your story

0:48:01.960 --> 0:48:03.919
<v Speaker 1>that no, I was able to deal with all these

0:48:04.000 --> 0:48:07.759
<v Speaker 1>different levels of obstacles. I made the personal choice and

0:48:07.840 --> 0:48:10.920
<v Speaker 1>the personal decision to live above my means in the

0:48:11.080 --> 0:48:14.160
<v Speaker 1>right neighborhood for the right reasons, to raise my child,

0:48:14.239 --> 0:48:17.000
<v Speaker 1>and I refused to sell my soul. I got that

0:48:17.160 --> 0:48:19.720
<v Speaker 1>same story. We don't have to be of the same gender,

0:48:20.000 --> 0:48:22.000
<v Speaker 1>we don't have to have the same lifestyle. But I

0:48:22.080 --> 0:48:24.480
<v Speaker 1>got the same story. I was divorced. I have my

0:48:24.600 --> 0:48:27.239
<v Speaker 1>child and wedlock. We got divorced, and I made the

0:48:27.320 --> 0:48:30.439
<v Speaker 1>decision to not shake my ass or sell my ass

0:48:30.600 --> 0:48:32.839
<v Speaker 1>or sell my soul, to be able to take care

0:48:32.880 --> 0:48:35.279
<v Speaker 1>of my child, to make the decisions so she can

0:48:35.320 --> 0:48:38.040
<v Speaker 1>be the example that I want her to be, like

0:48:38.239 --> 0:48:41.000
<v Speaker 1>my mama was and my mama mama was. So when

0:48:41.080 --> 0:48:42.799
<v Speaker 1>it comes down to and we really want to talk

0:48:42.840 --> 0:48:45.120
<v Speaker 1>about how to move the needle in politics, it comes

0:48:45.160 --> 0:48:48.040
<v Speaker 1>down to sharing our personal stories because can nobody challenge

0:48:48.080 --> 0:48:50.480
<v Speaker 1>you on that story. People can challenge you on your

0:48:50.520 --> 0:48:53.600
<v Speaker 1>position on Nancy or the governor, or this and this

0:48:53.719 --> 0:48:56.040
<v Speaker 1>and that, but people can't challenge you on how were

0:48:56.160 --> 0:48:59.200
<v Speaker 1>you able to do it? How did you go above

0:48:59.440 --> 0:49:01.759
<v Speaker 1>and beyond? What decisions did you make. I've been on

0:49:01.840 --> 0:49:04.200
<v Speaker 1>Fox News on and off for six years. They've offered

0:49:04.239 --> 0:49:07.839
<v Speaker 1>me to bag multiple times. Before Candice Owns was Candice Owns.

0:49:07.840 --> 0:49:09.520
<v Speaker 1>They offered me the bag. I've never got a dime

0:49:09.600 --> 0:49:13.120
<v Speaker 1>from Fox News. I refused to sell my soul even

0:49:13.200 --> 0:49:15.880
<v Speaker 1>when I needed the money, Nobody put me in the game. Now,

0:49:16.000 --> 0:49:18.160
<v Speaker 1>my mama, my daddy, they're both from the ground. Nobody

0:49:18.239 --> 0:49:21.320
<v Speaker 1>was in politics, nobody's in law, nobody in my family.

0:49:21.360 --> 0:49:23.040
<v Speaker 1>I got this ship out the hustle and the muscle.

0:49:23.400 --> 0:49:25.640
<v Speaker 1>So when I give that story to people, you can't

0:49:25.719 --> 0:49:28.319
<v Speaker 1>challenge it. And that's how we make the change within

0:49:28.400 --> 0:49:30.920
<v Speaker 1>our community. That's how I know your whole story. I

0:49:31.000 --> 0:49:33.960
<v Speaker 1>know your story because I am intrigued by your story

0:49:34.280 --> 0:49:36.280
<v Speaker 1>and people are moved by your story. Maybe you should

0:49:36.320 --> 0:49:38.879
<v Speaker 1>run for office. I'm sending you a girl. I could

0:49:38.880 --> 0:49:40.439
<v Speaker 1>be there and look at I say that. I say,

0:49:40.520 --> 0:49:42.239
<v Speaker 1>whatever state it is money, because that could be the

0:49:42.440 --> 0:49:44.680
<v Speaker 1>I could be the winner and the first lady at

0:49:44.719 --> 0:49:48.640
<v Speaker 1>the same time. I could be I'm gonna do all

0:49:48.719 --> 0:49:51.759
<v Speaker 1>this hechy week. And Lauren always caused me an anomaly

0:49:51.880 --> 0:49:54.800
<v Speaker 1>because Lauren knows the backlash because Long is my manager.

0:49:54.920 --> 0:49:58.320
<v Speaker 1>She knows the cancelations that I get because I speak

0:49:58.440 --> 0:50:01.319
<v Speaker 1>how I feel, and I always say speaking for numb

0:50:01.360 --> 0:50:03.960
<v Speaker 1>one community. I love Dr Marke Luther King and what

0:50:04.080 --> 0:50:06.279
<v Speaker 1>he was as a freedom fighters civil rights leader, but

0:50:06.360 --> 0:50:08.520
<v Speaker 1>I was never with his tactics because if you put

0:50:08.600 --> 0:50:11.520
<v Speaker 1>your hands on me. My natural reaction is to do

0:50:11.600 --> 0:50:13.040
<v Speaker 1>whatever I need to do to get you up oft

0:50:13.080 --> 0:50:15.919
<v Speaker 1>from me, and the damn shall ain't walking away. Oh yeah,

0:50:16.080 --> 0:50:18.120
<v Speaker 1>and that's why I hate when the community boxes me up.

0:50:18.160 --> 0:50:21.400
<v Speaker 1>But thank you tesling for that, because I'm not speaking

0:50:21.440 --> 0:50:23.440
<v Speaker 1>to try to ruffle feathers or I'm not speaking to

0:50:23.480 --> 0:50:27.040
<v Speaker 1>try to get likes or dislikes. This is who I am,

0:50:27.160 --> 0:50:28.960
<v Speaker 1>this is how I feel, and I don't change me.

0:50:29.280 --> 0:50:32.000
<v Speaker 1>I want, I don't change me. This is it. But

0:50:32.239 --> 0:50:34.440
<v Speaker 1>you know, and although you don't speak for one community,

0:50:34.520 --> 0:50:35.920
<v Speaker 1>and I know you have to say that all the

0:50:35.960 --> 0:50:37.360
<v Speaker 1>time because I have to say it too, so I

0:50:37.480 --> 0:50:39.520
<v Speaker 1>understand why you're saying it. At the same time, they

0:50:39.560 --> 0:50:42.520
<v Speaker 1>can't take away with community. You're a part of you

0:50:42.600 --> 0:50:44.880
<v Speaker 1>know what I'm saying. So yeah, no, you ain't speaking

0:50:44.880 --> 0:50:47.040
<v Speaker 1>more community, but you ain't gonna like, you can't erase

0:50:47.120 --> 0:50:49.880
<v Speaker 1>who I am and how I present. So while when

0:50:49.920 --> 0:50:52.160
<v Speaker 1>somebody said, well, you don't speak for the black community, yeah,

0:50:52.160 --> 0:50:53.800
<v Speaker 1>I don't speak for the black community, but god damn it,

0:50:53.800 --> 0:50:56.000
<v Speaker 1>I'm black. Though you ain't gonna make me question like

0:50:56.080 --> 0:50:59.120
<v Speaker 1>who I am. I'm just one part of it. And

0:50:59.280 --> 0:51:01.399
<v Speaker 1>so the story it is unique, and that's why people

0:51:01.440 --> 0:51:03.880
<v Speaker 1>gravitate to you. I didn't have to do research on you.

0:51:04.000 --> 0:51:06.319
<v Speaker 1>I've seen every show that you've done. I've been over

0:51:06.400 --> 0:51:08.080
<v Speaker 1>your lunch and you checked me one time I came

0:51:08.120 --> 0:51:09.920
<v Speaker 1>your Loveland. I'm like, oh, let me shut up in

0:51:09.960 --> 0:51:12.960
<v Speaker 1>flame check my ass. But because I said, you wanna

0:51:12.960 --> 0:51:14.680
<v Speaker 1>know why you checked, I said one day, I said,

0:51:14.760 --> 0:51:17.359
<v Speaker 1>you were talking about Corey hawk them and I said

0:51:17.400 --> 0:51:19.840
<v Speaker 1>he was a mainstream and he was like, he is mainstream.

0:51:19.840 --> 0:51:21.480
<v Speaker 1>I don't care what you say. And I think you

0:51:21.560 --> 0:51:23.760
<v Speaker 1>thought I was saying. I wasn't saying that he wasn't

0:51:23.920 --> 0:51:27.000
<v Speaker 1>um accepted by the mainstream. I was saying that the

0:51:27.120 --> 0:51:32.000
<v Speaker 1>positions he takes are so I'm standing on this regardless

0:51:32.000 --> 0:51:35.680
<v Speaker 1>of what everybody else is saying that that mainstream quote

0:51:35.760 --> 0:51:38.760
<v Speaker 1>unquote you know what they consider mainstream may not accept

0:51:38.960 --> 0:51:40.960
<v Speaker 1>his words. And that following week I was gonna hit

0:51:41.000 --> 0:51:42.239
<v Speaker 1>you up in the inbox, but I let it alone.

0:51:42.480 --> 0:51:46.080
<v Speaker 1>But that following week was when Corey checked um earthquake

0:51:47.000 --> 0:51:50.080
<v Speaker 1>and then he did, yeah did you see it? And

0:51:50.200 --> 0:51:53.040
<v Speaker 1>he and Corey and Corey himself said I ain't like

0:51:53.160 --> 0:51:55.560
<v Speaker 1>the rest of them. I'm not like mainstream. I don't

0:51:55.560 --> 0:51:57.520
<v Speaker 1>do what they do. And that's what I meant, you know,

0:51:57.600 --> 0:52:00.719
<v Speaker 1>when I was saying that the lovely you know, when

0:52:00.719 --> 0:52:04.640
<v Speaker 1>I'm on a lovely okay, but I said, yeah, that's fine.

0:52:04.680 --> 0:52:07.360
<v Speaker 1>But what I say, I respect it though I respect

0:52:07.440 --> 0:52:11.120
<v Speaker 1>people that it's about consistency. With me. We don't all

0:52:11.280 --> 0:52:14.560
<v Speaker 1>have to move the same way, but be consistent. And

0:52:14.719 --> 0:52:17.640
<v Speaker 1>one thing for sure you've been is consistent. And if

0:52:17.719 --> 0:52:19.880
<v Speaker 1>that means, hey, I'm gonna check tessla, hey check you,

0:52:19.880 --> 0:52:22.399
<v Speaker 1>you ain't discriminating the same way. Man, I'm straight shot, no, Chase,

0:52:22.440 --> 0:52:24.960
<v Speaker 1>I don't discriminate on nothing. It is. And you know

0:52:25.080 --> 0:52:28.480
<v Speaker 1>what I admire the most about strong women, especially strong

0:52:28.560 --> 0:52:32.040
<v Speaker 1>Black women or strong African American women, is that I

0:52:32.480 --> 0:52:34.759
<v Speaker 1>see it. You know, I am and I say this

0:52:34.880 --> 0:52:37.680
<v Speaker 1>all the time. I want I emulate black women. I

0:52:37.840 --> 0:52:40.440
<v Speaker 1>emulate a strong black woman when I'm playing my brow

0:52:40.480 --> 0:52:43.440
<v Speaker 1>when I'm on I feel like the most powerful trans

0:52:43.560 --> 0:52:46.640
<v Speaker 1>woman king it ever is because I feel strong and

0:52:46.760 --> 0:52:50.320
<v Speaker 1>I feel encouraged and powerful because look at the examples,

0:52:50.560 --> 0:52:52.360
<v Speaker 1>you know, and I say this, and I've said this before.

0:52:52.800 --> 0:52:56.240
<v Speaker 1>Two things happened or two years ago to say, different people,

0:52:56.280 --> 0:52:59.920
<v Speaker 1>both black people Abraham's longs to Georgia. They cheated her

0:53:00.239 --> 0:53:03.759
<v Speaker 1>and Gilliam lost in Florida. They key to him. The

0:53:03.880 --> 0:53:06.480
<v Speaker 1>difference was the strong black woman went to the battlefield,

0:53:06.600 --> 0:53:08.759
<v Speaker 1>she went right to work, went right toward as a

0:53:08.840 --> 0:53:11.600
<v Speaker 1>general and flip Georgia blue. The other guy went to

0:53:11.680 --> 0:53:14.160
<v Speaker 1>the hotel room and got caught with his pants down. Literally.

0:53:14.719 --> 0:53:18.360
<v Speaker 1>That don't change Andrew Gilliam's politics. I still like his politics.

0:53:18.680 --> 0:53:21.480
<v Speaker 1>I just hate that where he went in his mind emotionally,

0:53:21.560 --> 0:53:24.320
<v Speaker 1>because they love to say women ain't strong. Save Stacy

0:53:24.440 --> 0:53:28.239
<v Speaker 1>Avon showed us a tank and and Gilliam showed us

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<v Speaker 1>a weekly and can I give you some breaking news

0:53:31.160 --> 0:53:32.719
<v Speaker 1>and down This is a shameless plug. I got a

0:53:32.840 --> 0:53:36.239
<v Speaker 1>fiction book online called Katy's Letter on Amazon. I've been

0:53:36.280 --> 0:53:39.239
<v Speaker 1>writing about these politicians. They've been putting their pants down.

0:53:39.480 --> 0:53:41.359
<v Speaker 1>He got caught up. Now, that might be what he'd

0:53:41.400 --> 0:53:44.920
<v Speaker 1>like to say. But in two thousand, Florida's my stomping ground.

0:53:45.000 --> 0:53:48.080
<v Speaker 1>In my book Katy's Litter, it talks about mental illness.

0:53:48.160 --> 0:53:51.200
<v Speaker 1>It's it's a call girl's service where she lobbying. Actually

0:53:51.200 --> 0:53:53.919
<v Speaker 1>a person that was the governor also was having sex

0:53:54.000 --> 0:53:55.880
<v Speaker 1>and buying dope. And all of that. That is a

0:53:56.120 --> 0:53:59.480
<v Speaker 1>very normal thing in politics. And again that Andrew could

0:53:59.480 --> 0:54:01.279
<v Speaker 1>have been experien is when he was experiencing. But I

0:54:01.320 --> 0:54:02.759
<v Speaker 1>just want to put on the record. I put two

0:54:02.760 --> 0:54:04.640
<v Speaker 1>books out about that in two thousand and four. Teams

0:54:04.719 --> 0:54:06.840
<v Speaker 1>before all this happened, they've been doing this ship in

0:54:06.880 --> 0:54:08.879
<v Speaker 1>the in the hotel room. This was just a matter

0:54:08.880 --> 0:54:11.200
<v Speaker 1>of getting caught. And it always, like I said, it

0:54:11.280 --> 0:54:13.480
<v Speaker 1>comes down to people that you know that really just

0:54:13.560 --> 0:54:17.800
<v Speaker 1>do the work. I want to say this, and I

0:54:17.840 --> 0:54:20.239
<v Speaker 1>know I'm sure y'all run out of time. I want

0:54:20.280 --> 0:54:22.480
<v Speaker 1>to piggyback on when you said, you know, sitting at

0:54:22.480 --> 0:54:25.160
<v Speaker 1>the table and having these conversations, and why this conversation

0:54:25.239 --> 0:54:27.480
<v Speaker 1>was so important to me. I don't want to say

0:54:27.480 --> 0:54:29.440
<v Speaker 1>the person's name, but there was somebody that wanted me

0:54:29.520 --> 0:54:33.280
<v Speaker 1>to do an event with with someone from the trans community,

0:54:33.840 --> 0:54:35.239
<v Speaker 1>and but it was a comedy, it was in a

0:54:35.320 --> 0:54:38.840
<v Speaker 1>fun environment, and my schedule wouldn't allow allowed for it.

0:54:39.040 --> 0:54:40.880
<v Speaker 1>And I believed it worked out that way for a

0:54:40.960 --> 0:54:44.480
<v Speaker 1>reason because I want When I got the invite to

0:54:44.560 --> 0:54:46.720
<v Speaker 1>come here, I was like, oh man, this is perfect.

0:54:47.040 --> 0:54:49.239
<v Speaker 1>Because it wasn't that I didn't want to sit down

0:54:49.320 --> 0:54:51.800
<v Speaker 1>with somebody from a different community. I just felt it

0:54:51.920 --> 0:54:55.720
<v Speaker 1>was critically important to sit down and have a conversation

0:54:56.200 --> 0:54:59.480
<v Speaker 1>so people can see how we engage. There's time that

0:54:59.600 --> 0:55:01.319
<v Speaker 1>me and you we do something down the road that's

0:55:01.360 --> 0:55:04.080
<v Speaker 1>funny and ha ha and ki ki. That's fine, but

0:55:04.200 --> 0:55:07.600
<v Speaker 1>I thought it was important that that one it's not

0:55:07.840 --> 0:55:10.400
<v Speaker 1>in a in an environment where it's just all about

0:55:10.440 --> 0:55:12.600
<v Speaker 1>a joke, that it's in an environment that you can

0:55:12.640 --> 0:55:15.240
<v Speaker 1>sit down with somebody from the trans community, LGBT community,

0:55:15.320 --> 0:55:17.719
<v Speaker 1>or somebody like me and actually have a conversation as

0:55:17.800 --> 0:55:19.799
<v Speaker 1>real people. Because one of the things you always say

0:55:19.840 --> 0:55:22.080
<v Speaker 1>that I appreciate what you say when you talk about advertisment,

0:55:22.280 --> 0:55:24.440
<v Speaker 1>like I brushed my teeth, I used to paste, I

0:55:24.560 --> 0:55:28.680
<v Speaker 1>use the oldorant like everybody else. So although those conversations

0:55:28.719 --> 0:55:32.080
<v Speaker 1>are important to be at the table, it is important

0:55:32.360 --> 0:55:35.680
<v Speaker 1>how we engage, and we need more conversations like this.

0:55:35.920 --> 0:55:38.640
<v Speaker 1>I appreciate Charlotte Magine bringing you on, Otherwise I wouldn't

0:55:38.640 --> 0:55:41.360
<v Speaker 1>have never known about you. I love my boss. I

0:55:41.520 --> 0:55:47.120
<v Speaker 1>love you. Yeah, you can be funny and people still

0:55:47.239 --> 0:55:49.000
<v Speaker 1>respect what you bring to the table. I look at

0:55:49.040 --> 0:55:52.400
<v Speaker 1>the comments you get overwhelming response, even from people who

0:55:52.480 --> 0:55:55.520
<v Speaker 1>may not even align with LGBT, they say, but I

0:55:55.640 --> 0:55:58.440
<v Speaker 1>respect you know how you put it down, and so

0:55:58.680 --> 0:56:01.759
<v Speaker 1>that matters too. You can be funny and also be

0:56:01.880 --> 0:56:04.400
<v Speaker 1>taking serious at the same time. Should I think I'm funny,

0:56:04.600 --> 0:56:06.920
<v Speaker 1>but people still take me serious. So I'm glad we

0:56:07.040 --> 0:56:10.840
<v Speaker 1>had this conversation because I didn't want to um. I

0:56:10.920 --> 0:56:13.040
<v Speaker 1>didn't think me doing an event with somebody else, and

0:56:13.120 --> 0:56:15.239
<v Speaker 1>the schedule just didn't allow it. But I didn't think

0:56:15.280 --> 0:56:18.000
<v Speaker 1>that was the best way to show me engaging with

0:56:18.120 --> 0:56:21.200
<v Speaker 1>somebody at that particular time, because it could either dumb

0:56:21.280 --> 0:56:23.879
<v Speaker 1>down what I'm trying to do or make it seem

0:56:23.960 --> 0:56:26.000
<v Speaker 1>like we're making a mockery out of something, rather than

0:56:26.120 --> 0:56:29.000
<v Speaker 1>having this conversation. And I always say that test and

0:56:29.040 --> 0:56:31.120
<v Speaker 1>when they when they want to send one of the

0:56:31.200 --> 0:56:33.880
<v Speaker 1>trans girls to come to the Forefront to speak, they

0:56:33.960 --> 0:56:38.600
<v Speaker 1>always found the angriest, most disgrunted one. But it's never

0:56:38.719 --> 0:56:40.800
<v Speaker 1>me because I don't want. I choose not to be

0:56:40.880 --> 0:56:42.719
<v Speaker 1>the spokes first. I've never signed that for that. I'm

0:56:42.719 --> 0:56:45.319
<v Speaker 1>an entertainer. I want to make people laugh and feel good,

0:56:45.360 --> 0:56:48.120
<v Speaker 1>even though I want to push my politics. And what

0:56:48.239 --> 0:56:50.399
<v Speaker 1>you said is very true. I always think that people

0:56:50.520 --> 0:56:53.279
<v Speaker 1>hear you clear and better if you shove it to

0:56:53.360 --> 0:56:55.200
<v Speaker 1>him and then you close it with a funny because

0:56:55.280 --> 0:56:58.239
<v Speaker 1>it makes the impact not so hard, but you still

0:56:58.320 --> 0:57:01.440
<v Speaker 1>hear the message. And sometimes my impact they just I

0:57:01.520 --> 0:57:03.600
<v Speaker 1>think they just don't like it coming from me. Is

0:57:03.640 --> 0:57:07.839
<v Speaker 1>that what it is? It's interesting that's because I think

0:57:07.880 --> 0:57:09.320
<v Speaker 1>that that's a good point to and I and like

0:57:09.400 --> 0:57:11.400
<v Speaker 1>Flames that I've always called her an anomaly for this

0:57:11.520 --> 0:57:14.279
<v Speaker 1>reason is that when we have conversations and if I

0:57:14.320 --> 0:57:19.240
<v Speaker 1>don't understand something, it's educational, it's not confrontational, it's not hostile.

0:57:19.760 --> 0:57:21.880
<v Speaker 1>And you know, with my other job that I do,

0:57:22.040 --> 0:57:24.160
<v Speaker 1>I do work with the trans community a lot, but

0:57:24.760 --> 0:57:28.520
<v Speaker 1>I often find it that it's almost like they forget

0:57:28.600 --> 0:57:31.200
<v Speaker 1>that they're black first, and they forget that we actually

0:57:31.280 --> 0:57:35.040
<v Speaker 1>have this shared experience. It automatically goes to, oh, I'm

0:57:35.120 --> 0:57:37.760
<v Speaker 1>the victim of you're oppressing me. So I think that's

0:57:38.080 --> 0:57:40.160
<v Speaker 1>caused a lot of issues of where it's like I

0:57:40.280 --> 0:57:43.320
<v Speaker 1>can't have this conversation with you because it's already starting

0:57:43.320 --> 0:57:45.520
<v Speaker 1>off in the negative space. We have to come to

0:57:45.600 --> 0:57:47.560
<v Speaker 1>the table in a capacity where we're actually trying to

0:57:47.680 --> 0:57:50.160
<v Speaker 1>learn one another. And that's also to why I say,

0:57:50.960 --> 0:57:52.840
<v Speaker 1>I think it's really messed up because a lot of

0:57:53.000 --> 0:57:56.440
<v Speaker 1>flames transistors. It's almost like they're negating her experience. You know,

0:57:56.920 --> 0:58:00.040
<v Speaker 1>her vernacular, her ideology, what they talked about when she

0:58:00.160 --> 0:58:02.320
<v Speaker 1>was coming up is very different from now with certain

0:58:02.360 --> 0:58:04.840
<v Speaker 1>words that are being used within this within the space

0:58:04.920 --> 0:58:08.360
<v Speaker 1>and this community. But she's being ridiculed for that, and

0:58:08.440 --> 0:58:11.080
<v Speaker 1>it's not okay because that was her lived experience. Don't

0:58:11.160 --> 0:58:15.160
<v Speaker 1>deny what she lived through to validate what's happening now,

0:58:15.600 --> 0:58:18.840
<v Speaker 1>you know. So it's all of that coming together. So

0:58:19.120 --> 0:58:21.280
<v Speaker 1>that's why I appreciate the space that you know, we

0:58:21.360 --> 0:58:24.120
<v Speaker 1>share with me in Flame because it's always a space

0:58:24.200 --> 0:58:27.200
<v Speaker 1>of learning and camaraderie. It's never a space of oh

0:58:27.280 --> 0:58:29.600
<v Speaker 1>I'm the victim or I feel like you're persecuting. That's

0:58:29.600 --> 0:58:31.400
<v Speaker 1>not what this is. And let me speak line and

0:58:31.480 --> 0:58:33.480
<v Speaker 1>to you. You need to allow that to be enough.

0:58:33.600 --> 0:58:35.200
<v Speaker 1>Like when you say we need to come together, I'm

0:58:35.240 --> 0:58:36.960
<v Speaker 1>gonna say again one of the first trainers that I

0:58:37.080 --> 0:58:38.600
<v Speaker 1>do where I say it's all about we, but it

0:58:38.680 --> 0:58:41.200
<v Speaker 1>falls on me if they don't never come to the table,

0:58:41.760 --> 0:58:45.240
<v Speaker 1>if they don't never get it. Moses had a one

0:58:45.320 --> 0:58:48.480
<v Speaker 1>person to communicator Moses said, I don't know what to say.

0:58:48.560 --> 0:58:50.720
<v Speaker 1>You've been the chosen one to go. It don't matter.

0:58:50.760 --> 0:58:52.080
<v Speaker 1>Flame but said the all day and talk about I

0:58:52.080 --> 0:58:53.680
<v Speaker 1>don't want to speak to nobody. Don't want to speak nobody.

0:58:53.720 --> 0:58:55.480
<v Speaker 1>God has called you to speak, So get over that.

0:58:56.000 --> 0:58:57.280
<v Speaker 1>All this time at what you don't want to do,

0:58:57.320 --> 0:58:58.920
<v Speaker 1>don't have nothing to do with it. You've been in

0:58:59.080 --> 0:59:01.840
<v Speaker 1>position and place for a reason to say what you're saying,

0:59:02.120 --> 0:59:04.560
<v Speaker 1>and you can deny and you can talk around it,

0:59:04.680 --> 0:59:06.720
<v Speaker 1>and you can say whatever. When you've been called to

0:59:06.760 --> 0:59:10.080
<v Speaker 1>speak on certain issues, you've just been called. Period. And

0:59:10.160 --> 0:59:12.920
<v Speaker 1>so when Moses was called the free the slaves and

0:59:13.000 --> 0:59:14.680
<v Speaker 1>he said, I don't know what to say, I'm not

0:59:14.760 --> 0:59:16.640
<v Speaker 1>equipped to say, God said, don't worry about I'm gonna

0:59:16.640 --> 0:59:18.680
<v Speaker 1>seing you a are and I'm gonna seeing you a communicator.

0:59:18.960 --> 0:59:21.840
<v Speaker 1>So Lauren, you are the communicator. That's it would only

0:59:21.960 --> 0:59:24.560
<v Speaker 1>take two. It did nobody go back and say, well,

0:59:24.640 --> 0:59:26.200
<v Speaker 1>what about if we get all them at the table?

0:59:26.240 --> 0:59:28.520
<v Speaker 1>What about? No, all it took was two. I don't

0:59:28.560 --> 0:59:30.440
<v Speaker 1>even have that. I don't have an agent, a booker,

0:59:30.520 --> 0:59:34.560
<v Speaker 1>a manager, of publicist, nothing, So really, all it take

0:59:34.720 --> 0:59:38.200
<v Speaker 1>is one. When something that's been putting you to speak,

0:59:38.440 --> 0:59:41.400
<v Speaker 1>is to speak truth to power. And you can look

0:59:41.440 --> 0:59:44.520
<v Speaker 1>at what people what how they respond to your message.

0:59:45.960 --> 0:59:47.760
<v Speaker 1>If God called me to speak, you better send a

0:59:47.840 --> 0:59:55.479
<v Speaker 1>check over here more than you have. Oh my god,

0:59:56.800 --> 1:00:00.320
<v Speaker 1>you know, I just experience having this converse stations with

1:00:00.400 --> 1:00:02.680
<v Speaker 1>you and just hearing you out and listen to your

1:00:02.760 --> 1:00:06.600
<v Speaker 1>passion about it. And if more of us would get

1:00:06.680 --> 1:00:11.120
<v Speaker 1>these younger, the younger demographic involved in politics, young before

1:00:11.160 --> 1:00:13.440
<v Speaker 1>they get the limitshes on their record, before they get

1:00:13.520 --> 1:00:16.560
<v Speaker 1>the hiccups, because we can't have hiccups and getting they

1:00:16.600 --> 1:00:18.520
<v Speaker 1>can have all the hiccups in the world. We can.

1:00:18.560 --> 1:00:20.680
<v Speaker 1>I can. I tell you that. I guess somebody elected

1:00:20.720 --> 1:00:23.640
<v Speaker 1>that was arrested twenty one times. I got a cocaine

1:00:23.720 --> 1:00:27.160
<v Speaker 1>fell and elected that was arrested twenty one times in Orlando, Florida.

1:00:27.400 --> 1:00:31.520
<v Speaker 1>She ran there, Florida, So we're in Florida. Ain't surprised, baby.

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<v Speaker 1>I say that because I don't want to interrupt you,

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<v Speaker 1>but I say that because the ones who've been through it,

1:00:39.200 --> 1:00:41.400
<v Speaker 1>the ones who have been through the fire, they are

1:00:41.520 --> 1:00:43.440
<v Speaker 1>the ones that bring for a peer gold. We can

1:00:43.920 --> 1:00:46.440
<v Speaker 1>when you look at the compton who the mayor of Compton.

1:00:46.640 --> 1:00:50.240
<v Speaker 1>We're only talking about five people to the polls when

1:00:50.280 --> 1:00:54.360
<v Speaker 1>we talk about lower these lower level positions that are

1:00:54.400 --> 1:00:56.800
<v Speaker 1>the most impactful. I say that because I need the

1:00:56.840 --> 1:00:59.480
<v Speaker 1>homies to wake up. Because guess what if the homies

1:00:59.520 --> 1:01:02.920
<v Speaker 1>wake up, the former gangsters that they wake up and

1:01:03.040 --> 1:01:05.280
<v Speaker 1>they want to do an insurrection on the capitol. They

1:01:05.280 --> 1:01:08.800
<v Speaker 1>ain't hiding, no, no, no, damn uh tables. They're getting witted.

1:01:09.080 --> 1:01:12.320
<v Speaker 1>Those are our soldiers. That is our civil war army,

1:01:12.600 --> 1:01:16.040
<v Speaker 1>that is our lazardus. No, we need to hiccups. Bring me,

1:01:16.280 --> 1:01:21.560
<v Speaker 1>bring me the ones with the heads. I was saying

1:01:21.640 --> 1:01:23.400
<v Speaker 1>that they keep us out if we got the hecups.

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<v Speaker 1>But those are the ones I trust. I've said this publicly.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't trust. They don't keep us houses. That's why

1:01:28.160 --> 1:01:29.960
<v Speaker 1>we need you a part of it. So you just

1:01:30.120 --> 1:01:32.320
<v Speaker 1>told the story how they tried to keep Can I

1:01:32.680 --> 1:01:35.040
<v Speaker 1>can I bless you for a moment. You just told

1:01:35.080 --> 1:01:37.240
<v Speaker 1>the story how they tried to keep how they tried

1:01:37.280 --> 1:01:40.320
<v Speaker 1>to keep you out of it. They couldn't keep you

1:01:40.440 --> 1:01:43.840
<v Speaker 1>out of it. They couldn't stop what was in you.

1:01:44.560 --> 1:01:46.680
<v Speaker 1>So we have to just get the people that's willing

1:01:47.480 --> 1:01:49.600
<v Speaker 1>to believe what's in you out hear what you're saying.

1:01:49.640 --> 1:01:52.520
<v Speaker 1>And I'm not discounting, you know, getting them when they're

1:01:52.600 --> 1:01:54.560
<v Speaker 1>young and all, because it's much better to get somebody

1:01:54.600 --> 1:01:57.080
<v Speaker 1>before they're young, before they're broken. But I'm speaking on

1:01:57.200 --> 1:01:58.840
<v Speaker 1>what God has called in my life. I go, I

1:01:58.960 --> 1:02:01.720
<v Speaker 1>go teach in the prison, I go the It's about

1:02:01.760 --> 1:02:03.600
<v Speaker 1>the least of these for me. I want to get

1:02:03.640 --> 1:02:06.120
<v Speaker 1>the ones where they say you ain't you ain't no good,

1:02:06.400 --> 1:02:09.360
<v Speaker 1>don't nobody won't you like you said, the straight community, don't,

1:02:09.520 --> 1:02:11.800
<v Speaker 1>the gay community, don't this. And I want the ones

1:02:11.880 --> 1:02:14.440
<v Speaker 1>that's willing to crawl, that's willing to get on glass.

1:02:14.720 --> 1:02:17.000
<v Speaker 1>Those are the ones that's going to survive. Those are

1:02:17.040 --> 1:02:19.320
<v Speaker 1>the warriors that we need now. I need the ones

1:02:19.400 --> 1:02:22.520
<v Speaker 1>with the hiccups and we can get them elected. It's

1:02:22.560 --> 1:02:26.040
<v Speaker 1>just simply just not true. Those just don't organize that way.

1:02:26.320 --> 1:02:27.960
<v Speaker 1>Those are the ones that I trust the most. Has

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<v Speaker 1>I said that I want to preach. I don't want

1:02:29.680 --> 1:02:31.320
<v Speaker 1>to preach it that has lived his whole life. Holy

1:02:31.400 --> 1:02:34.280
<v Speaker 1>I want somebody because he been in the world or

1:02:34.360 --> 1:02:36.680
<v Speaker 1>she been in the world. You know, they experienced every

1:02:36.800 --> 1:02:38.600
<v Speaker 1>So when you when I'm telling you my story, I'm

1:02:38.640 --> 1:02:40.959
<v Speaker 1>telling you might live the experience. If you have something

1:02:41.040 --> 1:02:43.200
<v Speaker 1>similar and you went through it, you'll understand exactly why

1:02:43.240 --> 1:02:45.040
<v Speaker 1>I'm at at that moment. So yeah, I get you

1:02:45.160 --> 1:02:47.960
<v Speaker 1>with that. It's just that because we're black and we

1:02:48.040 --> 1:02:50.160
<v Speaker 1>get a blemish, they seem to be able to get

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<v Speaker 1>away with it. And so I'm glad that you expressed

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<v Speaker 1>that that somebody was arrested cocaine and you were okay

1:02:56.000 --> 1:02:59.200
<v Speaker 1>felling one. And not only that she read see this

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<v Speaker 1>they because again, remember I'm talking about local politics. That's

1:03:02.360 --> 1:03:04.280
<v Speaker 1>the most powerful thing. That's where you get I'm not

1:03:04.320 --> 1:03:08.000
<v Speaker 1>talking about where on Congress and Senate, you know, where

1:03:08.000 --> 1:03:10.360
<v Speaker 1>they're running ads and all that type stuff. I'm talking

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<v Speaker 1>about on the local level where it's literally just your

1:03:13.440 --> 1:03:15.760
<v Speaker 1>high school, your church, and a couple of the folks

1:03:15.800 --> 1:03:18.840
<v Speaker 1>that's going to the polls. When she ran, she ran

1:03:18.920 --> 1:03:21.720
<v Speaker 1>against seven people, one of them was former Miss America.

1:03:22.200 --> 1:03:25.960
<v Speaker 1>She got called even online Facebook, drinking, all types of

1:03:26.000 --> 1:03:28.240
<v Speaker 1>ship you name it. But what they could not take

1:03:28.320 --> 1:03:30.640
<v Speaker 1>from Regina Hill go look her up was the work.

1:03:31.000 --> 1:03:34.280
<v Speaker 1>The woman come after trenches. They cannot outwork her, They

1:03:34.360 --> 1:03:36.680
<v Speaker 1>just cannot out hustle her. So again I'm not talking

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<v Speaker 1>about Congress I'm not talking about Senate. I'm not talking

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<v Speaker 1>about those positions. I'm talking about city council, city council,

1:03:43.400 --> 1:03:46.480
<v Speaker 1>in your precinct, in your area, in the community where

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<v Speaker 1>people are. You're talking about literally three or four precincts

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<v Speaker 1>that make a decision. If you just get four or

1:03:52.920 --> 1:03:57.080
<v Speaker 1>five hundred early absentee voting, you can win. Those are

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<v Speaker 1>the ones that decide who gets the grant, what after

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<v Speaker 1>food programs get the money, Where do we how do

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<v Speaker 1>we take care of this redistrict, and how do we

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<v Speaker 1>That's where the power is there. So if we are

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<v Speaker 1>looking at local we can get former convicted folks and

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<v Speaker 1>all kind of blemishes elected because we make the choice.

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<v Speaker 1>Nobody's coming in and spending two million dollars on advertisement

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<v Speaker 1>and all that time. I know what you're saying, like

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<v Speaker 1>if you're trying to you know the war knots and

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<v Speaker 1>the hert and you know the Senate, But that ain't

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<v Speaker 1>where our power is. No damn way. All they're doing

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<v Speaker 1>is going up there will argue with with two some

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<v Speaker 1>people some people. They're not gonna get ship done. Where

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<v Speaker 1>we get something done is on the city council level,

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<v Speaker 1>on the mayor level, on the I tell people you

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<v Speaker 1>go outside, you can get involved in anything you want.

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<v Speaker 1>There's a commissioner for water and salt in Florida. There's

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<v Speaker 1>somebody that's literally over the ship and the water. So

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<v Speaker 1>if you don't like something in your community, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>like the way to stop size is okay cool. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't like the mets sit on the metro plan board.

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<v Speaker 1>If you don't like the way your school these are

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<v Speaker 1>These are positions that we actually control. It is no day,

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<v Speaker 1>it's us. We can get these people done. I'll be

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<v Speaker 1>glad when we can talk about this offline and anytime.

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<v Speaker 1>You don't mind me doing a shameless plug text push

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<v Speaker 1>the line all one word, p U s H D

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<v Speaker 1>line all one word, the six six six six. I

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<v Speaker 1>do free trainings on this. I show you the numbers.

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<v Speaker 1>I show you how four thousand people, two thousand people

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<v Speaker 1>out of a district of two hundred something thousand people,

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<v Speaker 1>only four thousand made the decision. That's not a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of numbers when we look at internal, So we have

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<v Speaker 1>to start looking that way. We need them people. We

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<v Speaker 1>need the people with the blemishes because they know the story.

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<v Speaker 1>We need you. You can only advocate for what you've

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<v Speaker 1>been through and that's why we need people like you.

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<v Speaker 1>And if you believe that they people you will be

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<v Speaker 1>here today. I'm gonna need you to go ahead and

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<v Speaker 1>be my campaign manager day because I think too testms.

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<v Speaker 1>But to your point to everything that you're saying, I

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<v Speaker 1>think it's gonna require a bit of reprogramming because everybody

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't have the ideology nor understand that that their vote

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<v Speaker 1>really matters, you know, especially in today's climate, there's so

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<v Speaker 1>much you know, back in stuff, half nont know how

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<v Speaker 1>you can really suppress your vote, especially among us when

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<v Speaker 1>our vote really really matters. So it's gonna take some

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<v Speaker 1>reprogramming for people to actually understand the impact that they

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<v Speaker 1>can potentially have. And it doesn't matter about the blemishes

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<v Speaker 1>or what you've got in your past. It matters about

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<v Speaker 1>the work that you're willing to do and will continue

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<v Speaker 1>to do. So I think it's gonna take some re programming. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>you said it at the beginning of the show. Well

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<v Speaker 1>when Flame said, I look at what's in front of

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<v Speaker 1>me right now. The police. The police is a city official,

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<v Speaker 1>has nothing to do with Warnock or herschel Walker are.

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<v Speaker 1>So if we if I were to just go on

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<v Speaker 1>the conversation with most people get on conference that they

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<v Speaker 1>want to talk to me about federal politics. I'm always

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<v Speaker 1>redirecting it back to local because that's my job on

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<v Speaker 1>what I do, not not just because you wanta talk

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<v Speaker 1>about I'm gonna directed back and and show you how

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<v Speaker 1>you the next candidate damn one like that's important to

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<v Speaker 1>send its important. Yeah, got got to, got to, got it.

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<v Speaker 1>But that's not the change that impacts you. It's just not.

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<v Speaker 1>And so these are This is where these conversations, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>really matter. And if Flame really believed that they have

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<v Speaker 1>that much power, then Flame wouldn't be standing here today

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<v Speaker 1>because they try to put you out the game too.

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<v Speaker 1>We just need people to know how to move past

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<v Speaker 1>the days and believe in what they've been called and

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<v Speaker 1>don't stop. Can't stop. That's what we need on the

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<v Speaker 1>local list, they can kiss. I tell people all time,

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<v Speaker 1>you go to hell. That's why I don't run a nonprofit.

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<v Speaker 1>That's why I don't run for office. That's why I

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<v Speaker 1>don't take donations. I tell people because I always want

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<v Speaker 1>to be in the position to tell you to go

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<v Speaker 1>to hell. I don't want you thinking you own me

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<v Speaker 1>at any time so I can't actually speak truth to power.

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<v Speaker 1>And and if I can continue to do this and

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<v Speaker 1>give people like you to say ship, you know what,

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<v Speaker 1>tells them might have something here. Maybe I need to

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<v Speaker 1>run the city council. Or if you don't do that,

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<v Speaker 1>work on somebody's campaign. Everybody is not a candidate, work

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<v Speaker 1>on the campaign. If you don't like the way Democrats

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<v Speaker 1>are advertising towards us. I don't like no fucking no vote.

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<v Speaker 1>That was trash. Guess who runs those campaigns, white folks.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not that we can't use entertainment. The director communication

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<v Speaker 1>is on the win. We all vote the white folks

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<v Speaker 1>that got on the LinkedIn profile. I know how to

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<v Speaker 1>reach out to diverse communities who know how to reach

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<v Speaker 1>out better than me, so they get the jobs. So

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<v Speaker 1>we gotta get the jobs. In politics, the operatives we

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<v Speaker 1>need to be, the organizers and the candidates. We really

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<v Speaker 1>have to do this at a local level and stop

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<v Speaker 1>being so centered on federal That's not what affects your

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<v Speaker 1>day to day life. It makes a difference, but it's

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<v Speaker 1>not what's gonna be the quickest impact that's most relative

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<v Speaker 1>to yous. I just felt the tour with you and

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<v Speaker 1>Lauren we're gonna call it three and a half women.

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<v Speaker 1>You know you playing, So you're playing. But can I

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<v Speaker 1>tell you what God really working on? Somebody in Atlanta

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<v Speaker 1>just reached out to me and said they wanted me

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<v Speaker 1>to do a one night at a comedy I think

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<v Speaker 1>it was what's in Atlanta? What's the blackest called comedy?

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<v Speaker 1>The comedy? Uh, comedy act theater? If something else, I'll

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<v Speaker 1>tell you what it is. One comedy acted. It was

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<v Speaker 1>some comedy spot black owned. Oh yeah, it's called the

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<v Speaker 1>h Oh Shoots. I can't think of it. I didn't.

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<v Speaker 1>I gotta look it up. But he had just said

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<v Speaker 1>he said why don't you come? Because he came to

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<v Speaker 1>my training and he said why don't you come? And

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<v Speaker 1>I'm saying this to put this on the record because

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<v Speaker 1>I would love do something with you. He said, I

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<v Speaker 1>talked to the comedy owner and you should come. Do

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<v Speaker 1>you know a night there? And I said that upwn, yes, uptown.

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<v Speaker 1>That's exactly he said. I talked to him about you,

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<v Speaker 1>and I think you should do And I was like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>that'd be interesting. I said that would be cool, like

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<v Speaker 1>a town hall with a twist. You know. In conversation

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<v Speaker 1>we have some spoken words, some drinks, some music and

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<v Speaker 1>really just you know, have a conversation, um and moving

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<v Speaker 1>this forward. So I'm down, says I just want to

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<v Speaker 1>put on the record so you manager you hear it too.

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<v Speaker 1>That's how I meant the testing. I didn't mean that

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<v Speaker 1>we would go there and just do jokes. I mean

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<v Speaker 1>that people really do receive it easier when it's familiar

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<v Speaker 1>to them. So we're sitting around like Auntie Knee's uncle

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<v Speaker 1>cousin and letting him be a part of the conversation.

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<v Speaker 1>It makes them understand us more because even on the road,

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<v Speaker 1>I do this thing called if you ain't scared to

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<v Speaker 1>ask it, I ain't s get the answer it where

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<v Speaker 1>I give you apple opportunity to ask me anything about myself.

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<v Speaker 1>It makes people feel like they're part of this show.

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<v Speaker 1>It also makes them feel important enough to hear exactly

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<v Speaker 1>what you're saying because you're having the conversation publicly with

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<v Speaker 1>them about it. So you, Tamika, Mallory, Lauren and me,

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<v Speaker 1>we could call that three and a half women. Oh yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'll be the host. And how do you you ain't

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<v Speaker 1>heard my straight shot? No chase, after dog Talk, after

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<v Speaker 1>Dark Talk, talk about anything. I don't want to be dispectful,

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<v Speaker 1>but both P words and the politics, I'll mix it

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<v Speaker 1>up like ain't nobody being I'll talk about size and

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<v Speaker 1>all kind of you want to talk about. Somebody that

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<v Speaker 1>can put this politics thing together, baby, I'll break it out.

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<v Speaker 1>I put all the metaphors from the sex, to the relationship,

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<v Speaker 1>to the men, the women, the whole nine to get

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<v Speaker 1>people to really because politics is a relationship. And if

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<v Speaker 1>if you look at how you manage your raggedy ass

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<v Speaker 1>relationship and what you're tolerating your relationship, it makes sense

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<v Speaker 1>in your politics. It really do. And if you start

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<v Speaker 1>having some boundaries in your relationship, you're gonna see boundaries

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<v Speaker 1>in your business, you're gonna see boundaries in your politics.

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<v Speaker 1>You're gonna move through the world differently. So I have

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<v Speaker 1>very candid conversations my little I g live so no

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<v Speaker 1>I would love to do something. It's time and that's

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<v Speaker 1>really how you make the change, one on one interaction.

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<v Speaker 1>And we can't just keep saying what they're gonna do.

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<v Speaker 1>They gonna know we gotta do I said with my training,

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<v Speaker 1>because I trained year round, I run a business. But

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<v Speaker 1>I said, this year I was so frustrated because the

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<v Speaker 1>Democrat Party ain't building a bench, and I got tired

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<v Speaker 1>of saying, when you're gonna build a bench, build a bench.

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<v Speaker 1>So I said, you know what, I'm gonna do it.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't give a damn, don't nobody to show up.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm have no money. I'm gonna do it online. It

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<v Speaker 1>don't take number forty dollars for me to do a zoom.

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<v Speaker 1>I had two hundred some people show up in July.

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<v Speaker 1>I had a hundred and some show up in uh

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<v Speaker 1>touring to something in June, a hundred and something in July,

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<v Speaker 1>and I was in tears when I saw three hundred

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<v Speaker 1>people come from all over the country shout out to

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<v Speaker 1>our Black Party and puff for helping me on the

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<v Speaker 1>financing to make that free. Three hundred people came all

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<v Speaker 1>over the country to the cops in a beautiful center

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<v Speaker 1>to train people. I said, the devil is a lot

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<v Speaker 1>people really do want to learn how to do this.

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<v Speaker 1>They set there for twelve hours straight on a Saturday

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<v Speaker 1>in the rain to get this understanding in a real

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<v Speaker 1>training on how do we move forward? And then I

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<v Speaker 1>just did another one on October twenty two. People online,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm doing another one in December. I gotta get a

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<v Speaker 1>free spot. I can only hold thirty people at a time.

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<v Speaker 1>But I'm gonna be there all day to do thirty

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<v Speaker 1>at a time to get sixty people. Because I said

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<v Speaker 1>flame about two thousand twenty four. I am going to

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<v Speaker 1>train two thousand twenty four people my damn self, not

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<v Speaker 1>the Democrat Party, not the Republican Party. Ain't no more

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<v Speaker 1>waiting and talking on them. Damn that what am I

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<v Speaker 1>going to do? And I'm gonna say this and then

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<v Speaker 1>our clothes at the end of the day. And I

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<v Speaker 1>tell people, you don't have to be a religious person.

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<v Speaker 1>If I'm wrong, then I'm wrong. We ain't got nothing

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<v Speaker 1>where about it. If I just disappear into existence, then

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<v Speaker 1>it is what it is. But what if I'm right.

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<v Speaker 1>All the time we hear people say the goat, the goat,

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<v Speaker 1>the goat, the greatest, all time, to go. We're always

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<v Speaker 1>calling people to go. But at the end of the day,

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<v Speaker 1>when it is all said and done, some people say

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<v Speaker 1>it's gonna divide the from the tear. The New International

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<v Speaker 1>Version talks about the goat and the sheep. There will

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<v Speaker 1>become a time where the goat will be divided from

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<v Speaker 1>the sheep, and the question will be who has been

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<v Speaker 1>about the shepherd's business. The shepherd's business are those for

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<v Speaker 1>the least of these. The shepherd's business are those that

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<v Speaker 1>went to see them in prison, those that were hungry,

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<v Speaker 1>those who had the scuffs, those that had the blemishes,

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<v Speaker 1>those who were told they were no longer good enough.

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<v Speaker 1>Only the shepherd's business. Only those who have been about

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<v Speaker 1>the shepherd's business. Not those that just go along to

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<v Speaker 1>get along like sheep, but those who are the shepherd's business.

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<v Speaker 1>That's why I always redirect that question and say, yell,

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<v Speaker 1>people do need to talk to the people without the blemishes,

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<v Speaker 1>but I want the ones with the blemishes, because when

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<v Speaker 1>it's all said and done, that's the shepherd's business. And

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<v Speaker 1>that is who will be That is who will be exalted,

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<v Speaker 1>that is who will be recognized, those that are about

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<v Speaker 1>the shepherd's business. And it's up to us. And I

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<v Speaker 1>can't say, well, you know, the Democrat partner did nothing.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, I sent an inbox the flames, she never

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<v Speaker 1>followed up. I'm doing it regardless. You do what you're doing,

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<v Speaker 1>you don't, you don't because I have to be accountable

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<v Speaker 1>for what I've been called for, and I'm telling you

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<v Speaker 1>now speaking into your spirit and your soul for everybody

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<v Speaker 1>to hear. You two are accountable for what's been put

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<v Speaker 1>in you. That's how I know your whole background. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't have to look it up research doing it that

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<v Speaker 1>you've touched me, you've touched many other people, and you're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna continue to spread that message whether you like it

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<v Speaker 1>or not. So keep going around the burning bus. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't want to be the spot. It ain't about what

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<v Speaker 1>you don't want to be. I don't want to be

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<v Speaker 1>it either, but it is what it is. This is

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<v Speaker 1>what we've been called to do. So buckle up, dig in,

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<v Speaker 1>get comfortable, ma'am, because it's time. And look. I was

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<v Speaker 1>in Atlanta. I did all I could to avoid the

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<v Speaker 1>burning Bush this past weekend. Sometime too, they drive you

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<v Speaker 1>to a honey, get the burning bus to drink. That's

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<v Speaker 1>what you know. Moses was an alcoholic, so I do

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<v Speaker 1>my pastor, but honey, I'm also honey. I drink it up.

1:14:53.720 --> 1:14:55.439
<v Speaker 1>I do they drive you to drink in this business.

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm nowhere near perfect. I showed my cleavancee I'll

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<v Speaker 1>do all that, but at the same time I over

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<v Speaker 1>that I've been called. They said, maryly Magdalen was a whole.

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<v Speaker 1>But guess what you know who you know who that

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<v Speaker 1>rider was. When all the disciples went to sleep, guess

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<v Speaker 1>who was by the tumb. It was Mary Magdalen. Baby.

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<v Speaker 1>She said, if he can change me, the one with

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<v Speaker 1>the blemishes, the one with discuffs, when it, when it

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<v Speaker 1>got time, when it when ship got heavy, the disciples

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<v Speaker 1>went on home and went to sleep. Mary Magdalen said,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna stay by the tune, even if they killed me,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna stay by the tune. She that was the one.

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<v Speaker 1>They said, Oh you know, she was just a whole

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<v Speaker 1>or whatever she was. She'd been through enough to know

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna go ahead and stay by the tune. Because

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<v Speaker 1>if he can do it for me, he showed enough

1:15:38.120 --> 1:15:40.720
<v Speaker 1>can do it for himself. And has she not has

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<v Speaker 1>she not been always? And has she not been by

1:15:45.920 --> 1:15:49.840
<v Speaker 1>the tumb? Nobody wouldn't have witnessed him rising when he

1:15:50.000 --> 1:15:52.400
<v Speaker 1>rode She went and woke them niggers up. These were

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<v Speaker 1>the same ones that saw all of the miracles. It

1:15:55.439 --> 1:15:58.519
<v Speaker 1>was married and said, get up, because he is now rose.

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<v Speaker 1>So I loved. The images to me are always the

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<v Speaker 1>ones that are called to do a different type of

1:16:04.000 --> 1:16:06.560
<v Speaker 1>work and orchestrate a different type of people. And I

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<v Speaker 1>love the I trained with Jack and Jill students. They're

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<v Speaker 1>they're the elite, and I do Jack and Jill students.

1:16:12.240 --> 1:16:13.760
<v Speaker 1>They love me. I trained with them like two or

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<v Speaker 1>three d them a month, So I deal with those

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<v Speaker 1>types of populations. But I know I've been specifically called

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<v Speaker 1>for those that's been through something because I've been through something,

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<v Speaker 1>and that's how we get this conversation going. And we

1:16:25.680 --> 1:16:28.439
<v Speaker 1>need people that aren't afraid to lose something. I need

1:16:28.520 --> 1:16:30.560
<v Speaker 1>you to lose something before I need you to know

1:16:30.640 --> 1:16:32.960
<v Speaker 1>what I mean not to have nothing. I wasn't nervous

1:16:33.000 --> 1:16:34.720
<v Speaker 1>and COVID because I've been broken. I know what I

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<v Speaker 1>mean to not have six eight months. But y'all needs

1:16:38.560 --> 1:16:40.920
<v Speaker 1>run around and nervous. There was Oh my god, you

1:16:41.040 --> 1:16:42.479
<v Speaker 1>just hit me in my head. Girl, if you don't

1:16:42.560 --> 1:16:43.760
<v Speaker 1>knock it out and get out my head. I was

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<v Speaker 1>just talking to somebody yesterday about the interview I did

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<v Speaker 1>with horrible decisions, and I had something to say, gonna

1:16:49.360 --> 1:16:51.040
<v Speaker 1>come out after you. I say, I know how to

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<v Speaker 1>do broke. That's the difference. I've been broken I never broke.

1:16:54.720 --> 1:16:57.400
<v Speaker 1>I'm a hustler. I will never be broken. I have

1:16:57.520 --> 1:17:02.080
<v Speaker 1>been broken, but I've never been broken. Yeah, baby, that

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<v Speaker 1>don't shake me. I ruined number four for being in flame.

1:17:05.439 --> 1:17:08.719
<v Speaker 1>Mat A n s ain't never scared because I ain't

1:17:08.800 --> 1:17:13.799
<v Speaker 1>never scared. In fact, COVID made me because I started

1:17:13.840 --> 1:17:16.800
<v Speaker 1>losing weight, because I gained like forty pounds over five

1:17:16.920 --> 1:17:19.639
<v Speaker 1>or six years, and COVID, where everybody was gaining weight,

1:17:19.680 --> 1:17:22.760
<v Speaker 1>I was losing because it showed me that I had

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<v Speaker 1>been living. What was scaring everybody else was my normal

1:17:28.360 --> 1:17:30.600
<v Speaker 1>and I it made me say, well, damn, have I

1:17:31.520 --> 1:17:33.920
<v Speaker 1>what's wrong with me? Because I know what it means.

1:17:33.920 --> 1:17:37.080
<v Speaker 1>I've lost over twenty plus family members. Every single I've

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<v Speaker 1>lost at least one or two family members since the

1:17:39.200 --> 1:17:43.360
<v Speaker 1>year two thousand until COVID two thousand twenty. There's times

1:17:43.400 --> 1:17:45.840
<v Speaker 1>where I don't have a check for six, eight, nine months.

1:17:46.080 --> 1:17:48.439
<v Speaker 1>But see, I'm a hustler, baby, I'll uber. I went.

1:17:48.520 --> 1:17:50.840
<v Speaker 1>I had a six figure business a month, three hundred

1:17:50.880 --> 1:17:52.920
<v Speaker 1>employees in Orlando. I lost it all. I had to

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<v Speaker 1>go back and being sub to teacher and fifty dollars

1:17:54.880 --> 1:17:57.080
<v Speaker 1>a day. I'll sell shoes at dealers for twelve lot.

1:17:57.120 --> 1:17:59.759
<v Speaker 1>I'm a hustler for show for show, So when COVID

1:17:59.800 --> 1:18:02.559
<v Speaker 1>had I don't understand what everybody was tripping on because

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<v Speaker 1>this was my normal. You know, it's my normal thing

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<v Speaker 1>to expect to be, to not have for eight, nine,

1:18:07.720 --> 1:18:09.880
<v Speaker 1>ten months, to not have a mom or our daddy

1:18:10.000 --> 1:18:11.479
<v Speaker 1>or somebody you can call and say, hey, can I

1:18:11.560 --> 1:18:13.479
<v Speaker 1>borrow money I've been at I left the house at

1:18:13.560 --> 1:18:16.800
<v Speaker 1>eighteen with the shirt on my back. So COVID to

1:18:16.920 --> 1:18:20.040
<v Speaker 1>me wasn't what everybody else. I've always experienced death. I've

1:18:20.040 --> 1:18:22.360
<v Speaker 1>always had sudden death in my life. In fact, if

1:18:22.439 --> 1:18:25.040
<v Speaker 1>three months happened and something ain't going down, I'm wondering

1:18:25.120 --> 1:18:27.320
<v Speaker 1>what what's going on? Cause I'm used to a cycle

1:18:27.360 --> 1:18:30.479
<v Speaker 1>of three to four months or something tragically happening. So

1:18:30.680 --> 1:18:32.559
<v Speaker 1>those are the ones that that know how to survive.

1:18:32.640 --> 1:18:34.479
<v Speaker 1>I didn't have to get on pills and anxiety and

1:18:34.520 --> 1:18:38.200
<v Speaker 1>then no disrespected people that needed therapy and anxiety and depression.

1:18:38.439 --> 1:18:40.800
<v Speaker 1>But baby, this been This was my normal to me,

1:18:41.200 --> 1:18:43.320
<v Speaker 1>and it made me say, damn, testing, if that's your normal,

1:18:43.400 --> 1:18:45.960
<v Speaker 1>you probably need to change because why is everybody panicing?

1:18:46.280 --> 1:18:48.599
<v Speaker 1>And that's when I started taking better control of my health.

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<v Speaker 1>I love it. I love it, love it. Testing. You

1:18:51.760 --> 1:18:53.400
<v Speaker 1>were such a great guest and so informed with you

1:18:53.439 --> 1:18:55.840
<v Speaker 1>if I appreciate it, and you know all about me, girl,

1:18:55.880 --> 1:19:00.960
<v Speaker 1>you do better in some of these Hollywood producers. That's true. Well,

1:19:01.040 --> 1:19:04.960
<v Speaker 1>I gravitate to your message. So you you you don't

1:19:05.040 --> 1:19:08.200
<v Speaker 1>ever know who's watching you from afar, and you don't

1:19:08.240 --> 1:19:11.560
<v Speaker 1>know you know who you're impacting and and sometimes we

1:19:11.680 --> 1:19:14.759
<v Speaker 1>get caught up, you know, I'll tell people just everybody

1:19:14.840 --> 1:19:17.040
<v Speaker 1>don't have to click like on on everything for you

1:19:17.120 --> 1:19:18.840
<v Speaker 1>to know they're not liking you and digging. You don't

1:19:18.840 --> 1:19:20.720
<v Speaker 1>get caught up on the likes and the responses and

1:19:20.760 --> 1:19:23.920
<v Speaker 1>the comments and all that. You are impacting people in

1:19:24.040 --> 1:19:29.240
<v Speaker 1>ways that are far beyond you know, social media engagement.

1:19:30.080 --> 1:19:32.840
<v Speaker 1>And so that's powerful to me, and it resonates with me,

1:19:32.880 --> 1:19:35.240
<v Speaker 1>and it resonates with other people, and I hope to

1:19:35.280 --> 1:19:38.040
<v Speaker 1>see you continue. Well, let me tell some we're gonna

1:19:38.040 --> 1:19:40.240
<v Speaker 1>be following you to miss testing figure Roller, because girl,

1:19:40.400 --> 1:19:43.800
<v Speaker 1>I'll tell your passion yo. That aggressiveness, I'm telling you.

1:19:44.080 --> 1:19:47.639
<v Speaker 1>And I hate when people affiliate black strong women, especially

1:19:47.680 --> 1:19:50.560
<v Speaker 1>with being the angry black woman, because they they are informed.

1:19:50.760 --> 1:19:53.400
<v Speaker 1>They are tired the bs. They are ready to make

1:19:53.479 --> 1:19:56.519
<v Speaker 1>some changes to Whereas if you ain't ready to get

1:19:56.640 --> 1:19:59.000
<v Speaker 1>on board with these strong black women, you better get

1:19:59.000 --> 1:20:00.439
<v Speaker 1>the hell out of the way because they will steam

1:20:00.560 --> 1:20:02.640
<v Speaker 1>roll you over. The black women will steap row you.

1:20:02.760 --> 1:20:06.120
<v Speaker 1>Overrated women period. Women are truly to break out, including

1:20:06.600 --> 1:20:08.400
<v Speaker 1>the women over and I ran these young girls that

1:20:08.479 --> 1:20:11.479
<v Speaker 1>standing up for themselves. Everybody is taking heed to the

1:20:11.560 --> 1:20:13.680
<v Speaker 1>power of the woman and the ones that are not

1:20:14.040 --> 1:20:15.920
<v Speaker 1>gonna be lost by the way, said why the hell

1:20:16.000 --> 1:20:18.000
<v Speaker 1>you think I want to be a strong black woman? Girl?

1:20:20.400 --> 1:20:23.240
<v Speaker 1>We love too like people get it twisted like I'm

1:20:23.320 --> 1:20:26.080
<v Speaker 1>sweet as candy, but don't cross me though I also

1:20:26.200 --> 1:20:28.679
<v Speaker 1>was an m C S gun in the military, twenty

1:20:28.760 --> 1:20:31.280
<v Speaker 1>three pound weapons. Don't get that's the thug above your head.

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<v Speaker 1>She looked all nice. Absolutely so we bring balance, but

1:20:37.640 --> 1:20:41.080
<v Speaker 1>that's just the black experience period. We have to bring balance.

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<v Speaker 1>We we can't just be one way all the time.

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<v Speaker 1>Some people call it cold switch, and I'm not switching.

1:20:46.320 --> 1:20:48.280
<v Speaker 1>This is who I am. I just have balance, you

1:20:48.360 --> 1:20:50.960
<v Speaker 1>know that that's it. And I and I'm passionate about

1:20:51.000 --> 1:20:53.559
<v Speaker 1>what I believe in. And if you do call me angry,

1:20:53.600 --> 1:20:55.320
<v Speaker 1>I can give you all the reasons I'm angry, and

1:20:55.320 --> 1:20:56.960
<v Speaker 1>I want to know why you ain't angry about some

1:20:57.040 --> 1:20:59.000
<v Speaker 1>of the things that that I'm bothered about. But I

1:20:59.000 --> 1:21:00.840
<v Speaker 1>don't see it as angry. To see this being like

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<v Speaker 1>somebody Grandma Auntie, that give a damn about what's happening

1:21:04.120 --> 1:21:07.320
<v Speaker 1>to my community. That's it. You're You're a change agent,

1:21:07.439 --> 1:21:08.840
<v Speaker 1>that's what that's what you are, and I really have

1:21:08.920 --> 1:21:11.080
<v Speaker 1>to appreciate. I have to say thank you for doing

1:21:11.120 --> 1:21:13.360
<v Speaker 1>what you're doing. You're creating your own lanes, your own

1:21:13.360 --> 1:21:16.000
<v Speaker 1>avenues for people to follow you. Everybody can't do that,

1:21:16.080 --> 1:21:18.400
<v Speaker 1>Everybody's not built to do that. So you are truly

1:21:18.479 --> 1:21:21.240
<v Speaker 1>a change agent. So I'm so grateful that we had

1:21:21.320 --> 1:21:25.680
<v Speaker 1>this conversation today because everybody needs different perspectives. That's the

1:21:25.720 --> 1:21:27.479
<v Speaker 1>whole purpose of lack and learning is that, you know,

1:21:27.640 --> 1:21:30.280
<v Speaker 1>we laugh about things, but ultimately we're learning. So you

1:21:30.400 --> 1:21:33.720
<v Speaker 1>brought different perspectives for our listeners today, and I know

1:21:33.800 --> 1:21:35.559
<v Speaker 1>that they're going to take so much away from this episode,

1:21:35.560 --> 1:21:37.400
<v Speaker 1>So so thank you for all that you do. Thank you,

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<v Speaker 1>and that's where we can follow you. Uh Tesla and

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<v Speaker 1>Farrell spell t e z l y N f I

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<v Speaker 1>G a R always the same way, same name, everywhere.

1:21:47.800 --> 1:21:49.920
<v Speaker 1>I don't change, I will be the same. I always

1:21:49.960 --> 1:21:52.000
<v Speaker 1>say at the end of my show, use it, lose it,

1:21:52.080 --> 1:21:54.160
<v Speaker 1>can't make you choose it. I mean that I'm like

1:21:54.280 --> 1:21:56.840
<v Speaker 1>the FedEx driver and it ain't really me creating no lane.

1:21:56.880 --> 1:21:59.160
<v Speaker 1>I'm just driving in my own space. I'm gonna drop

1:21:59.240 --> 1:22:00.840
<v Speaker 1>this package off. You either pick it up. You pick

1:22:00.880 --> 1:22:02.160
<v Speaker 1>it up, you don't. You don't if you don't like

1:22:02.240 --> 1:22:04.080
<v Speaker 1>it your neighborhood. I'm not gonna beg you to pick

1:22:04.120 --> 1:22:06.080
<v Speaker 1>it up. I'm not gonna ask you to sign for it.

1:22:06.400 --> 1:22:08.160
<v Speaker 1>I gave you this gift. You like it, you like it,

1:22:08.240 --> 1:22:11.120
<v Speaker 1>you don't, you don't. We cannot be distracted behind trying

1:22:11.160 --> 1:22:12.920
<v Speaker 1>to get people to get something that they don't want

1:22:12.960 --> 1:22:15.720
<v Speaker 1>to get. We are in destiney moving time. Who's with

1:22:15.880 --> 1:22:17.600
<v Speaker 1>us is with us, and Wayne's ain't. It's time to

1:22:17.680 --> 1:22:21.839
<v Speaker 1>draw the land of the line in the sand dopeness.

1:22:21.880 --> 1:22:23.960
<v Speaker 1>And you can follow Lauren Hogan at Lauren our Money

1:22:24.520 --> 1:22:27.960
<v Speaker 1>Bagram and Lauren Hogan on Facebook and on YouTube, and

1:22:28.040 --> 1:22:29.640
<v Speaker 1>don't follow me nowhere because let me tell you what

1:22:29.680 --> 1:22:36.880
<v Speaker 1>I'm going I'm going to know where about Lauren like

1:22:37.360 --> 1:22:41.960
<v Speaker 1>a Monroe, Flame on Instagram, Marcus flaymar Parker on Facebook,

1:22:42.080 --> 1:22:45.040
<v Speaker 1>Flame Memer on YouTube, and don't follow Flames Twitter because

1:22:45.040 --> 1:22:48.360
<v Speaker 1>it's full of points. Well, I love pawn on it. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>what can we stay there before we get out of here.

1:22:50.680 --> 1:22:53.080
<v Speaker 1>I'm just loving these I'm just loving how they're just

1:22:53.160 --> 1:22:55.000
<v Speaker 1>putting these dick picks out here. I think it should

1:22:55.040 --> 1:22:58.880
<v Speaker 1>be more. I've really been excited and inspired about how

1:22:58.960 --> 1:23:01.439
<v Speaker 1>these artists been dropping. I've been keeping them in in

1:23:01.680 --> 1:23:05.040
<v Speaker 1>order on who who's leading the pack. Some think y'all

1:23:05.040 --> 1:23:06.640
<v Speaker 1>don't need to show that to nobody, not even a

1:23:06.680 --> 1:23:11.080
<v Speaker 1>woman you're gonna sleep with, because it's right, good guy

1:23:11.960 --> 1:23:13.760
<v Speaker 1>with some of the money, like Big Sean and we

1:23:13.800 --> 1:23:17.439
<v Speaker 1>can talk about that. Ye Williams coming out, gonna take

1:23:17.479 --> 1:23:20.160
<v Speaker 1>me out to the ball game. He really wasn't all that.

1:23:20.320 --> 1:23:24.479
<v Speaker 1>He wasn't better than Big Sean. Ass and just Williams

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<v Speaker 1>place and take me out to the ball game and

1:23:26.040 --> 1:23:31.519
<v Speaker 1>he brought his own back. Okay, okay, you have been

1:23:31.640 --> 1:23:33.760
<v Speaker 1>such a remarkable guests. Thank you for coming on to

1:23:33.880 --> 1:23:35.960
<v Speaker 1>laugh and learn with us. We owe your business and

1:23:36.040 --> 1:23:38.720
<v Speaker 1>we owe this to you and Tamika and Lord, y'all

1:23:38.760 --> 1:23:40.560
<v Speaker 1>need to put this together because I'm the type of

1:23:40.720 --> 1:23:45.160
<v Speaker 1>artists I don't do anything behind the scenes. People terrible

1:23:48.320 --> 1:23:50.120
<v Speaker 1>at least you know, at least you know. At least

1:23:50.160 --> 1:23:53.280
<v Speaker 1>you know, and I appreciate you ship, but showing up

1:23:53.320 --> 1:23:56.000
<v Speaker 1>and being lovely and giving it to y'all. But all

1:23:56.040 --> 1:23:58.320
<v Speaker 1>the technical girl don't ask me to do. I don't

1:23:58.320 --> 1:24:04.400
<v Speaker 1>even know how to push their own switch nothing, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I look forward to it. I think they'd be great,

1:24:07.240 --> 1:24:10.880
<v Speaker 1>and I it's necessary, seriously, like real talk, even if

1:24:10.920 --> 1:24:13.160
<v Speaker 1>we do it once or you know, two thousand twenty

1:24:13.200 --> 1:24:16.040
<v Speaker 1>three is it. You cannot go into two thousand twenty

1:24:16.080 --> 1:24:18.599
<v Speaker 1>four and sit up and talk about we're gonna look

1:24:18.600 --> 1:24:21.519
<v Speaker 1>at what they're doing because the slaughter is coming, so

1:24:21.640 --> 1:24:24.800
<v Speaker 1>either we're gonna be a part of it or not. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I agree. I agree with that whole heartedly. And oh

1:24:28.200 --> 1:24:30.479
<v Speaker 1>I hate that people don't see that. We are so

1:24:30.680 --> 1:24:34.000
<v Speaker 1>doomed either way. If they lose the Senate and the House,

1:24:34.120 --> 1:24:35.800
<v Speaker 1>they're going to war. If they win, they're going to

1:24:35.840 --> 1:24:37.960
<v Speaker 1>be more embolded and brash than they've ever been, and

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<v Speaker 1>they already out of control. So yeah, we still got

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<v Speaker 1>to show up and clown at these poles. Early voting

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<v Speaker 1>is we're pushing that. We've been pushing that on laugh

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<v Speaker 1>and learned it's melody and if you you know, I

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<v Speaker 1>know they're doing voted intimidation in certain places and a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of people want to show because a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>people want to get into this altercation. I don't want

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<v Speaker 1>the altercation because I don't know that we're as a

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<v Speaker 1>black people. I don't even know if we're prepared. These

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<v Speaker 1>people have, They've been collected forty years. You got two

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<v Speaker 1>three guns and were banned labels and not ammo. And

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry to say that, baby yo, Gucci and your

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<v Speaker 1>rear bottom is gonna be shot up. No, you're right

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<v Speaker 1>about that. I believe in the two way. And again

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<v Speaker 1>why I want a lot of the brothers from the

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<v Speaker 1>hood to get in the movement because they are the

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<v Speaker 1>ones that's gonna come like we we can get them

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<v Speaker 1>to put their guns, then stop turning it at each

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<v Speaker 1>other and come help. Let's find some of this white

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<v Speaker 1>supremacy were getting somewhere because these others they're just not

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<v Speaker 1>gonna do it. That's why we need different people in

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<v Speaker 1>the movie. And I and and I appreciate people that

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<v Speaker 1>are pushing voting me. I know that I'm speaking to

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<v Speaker 1>a demographic that's not gonna vote at all. So I

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<v Speaker 1>try to challenge him to say, if you're not voting

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<v Speaker 1>in and who running in next year, who's running two

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<v Speaker 1>thousand twenty four, because you have to do one or

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<v Speaker 1>the other. You're either not gonna vote because you don't

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<v Speaker 1>like the candidates, you say they trash, okay, cool, then

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<v Speaker 1>we're gonna run if nothing else for precic precinct chair

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<v Speaker 1>dog catches something. Let's get some of this power and

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<v Speaker 1>start taking control. Oh my god, thank you a girl.

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<v Speaker 1>This episode should be called we are They? Because you said,

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<v Speaker 1>who is that? We are there? We are ye? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's it my thing. I always say it's all about weed,

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<v Speaker 1>but it starts with me. I trained that in my

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<v Speaker 1>training flame. Because people think it's gonna be this big,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, when you run for office. They think it's

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<v Speaker 1>gonna because they train and all the trainers they tell, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>you're gonna have a treasure a campaign manager of this

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<v Speaker 1>and this and that, and that's not the reality. It's

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<v Speaker 1>really just gonna be you. You if you lucky, if

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<v Speaker 1>you got one person, but really you're gonna be the

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<v Speaker 1>one doing it all and and and when they get

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<v Speaker 1>in it and they see that it's just them, they think, well,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe nobody likes my message, and they get discouraged and

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<v Speaker 1>they stopped. So that's the first session that I do

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<v Speaker 1>to teach people. You're going to be by yourself. You

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<v Speaker 1>need to be comfortable standing by yourself. And that's a

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<v Speaker 1>very hard conversation, you know, for people to have. You

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<v Speaker 1>must understand that. And they say, well I don't want that, okay, cool,

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<v Speaker 1>You have to understand that, so that that is the

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<v Speaker 1>the ending message. You're absolutely right, we are that you

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<v Speaker 1>are a fantastic lady. And I'm telling you, I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 1>listen to you because I'm gonna get when I need

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<v Speaker 1>to get charged up. Inspite I'm coming listen you, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>gonna run and just punch somebody brobably one of my kids.

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<v Speaker 1>Fire and Flame and road literally your name is Flame.

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<v Speaker 1>And then I'm doing my job because that's what I

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<v Speaker 1>try to do. I try to just because I'm preaching

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<v Speaker 1>to myself too. I ain't just talking to you. I

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<v Speaker 1>got to motivate my damnself every day because it ain't

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<v Speaker 1>the day to go by. I said, man, fun this ship,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know why we we're hard to do. We

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<v Speaker 1>don't We're Swales. So I'm ministering to myself, so thank

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<v Speaker 1>you for allowing me the opportunity. Fantastic, Thank you so much.

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<v Speaker 1>Testing and figure out you ladies, and testing figure out

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<v Speaker 1>on all social media platforms. He's also a part of

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<v Speaker 1>the Herd Black Effect Network family. Like myself and like

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<v Speaker 1>ms Lauren, we are Thank you, Charlotte Magne, thank you, Look,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you, will Pete, thank you Connor, that's the big checks.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you, Tiffany Has. We had a great time. This

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<v Speaker 1>was a great conversation and so much needed. And I'm

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<v Speaker 1>telling you you already where you where you located? What state?

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<v Speaker 1>I go between l A and Okay, let's let's get

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<v Speaker 1>this town hall together. To Mika, Malli is soldier, a

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<v Speaker 1>warrior general. You are a soldier, wary general. That thing

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<v Speaker 1>there is damn damn show general because she put all

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<v Speaker 1>the paperwork together and you know, I'm I'm the trans woman.

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<v Speaker 1>King ain't gonna get past me. I mean, I'm zogie No,

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<v Speaker 1>that'd be great. I hope we really follow up. Thank

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<v Speaker 1>you for joining us on laughing learned test and we

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<v Speaker 1>appreciate you. Lauren what's our motto here? Laughing learn. We

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<v Speaker 1>are never trying to get anybody to change your mind.

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<v Speaker 1>We're simply trying to get you to use your mind,

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<v Speaker 1>because my mind is a terrible thing to waste, and

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<v Speaker 1>some of y'all is wasting my hand talking over and

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<v Speaker 1>over and over again. So find yourself, fund your man,

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<v Speaker 1>find your life, find yourself and enjoy it. Thank you, ladies,

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