WEBVTT - Awkward Thursday UPDATE: He Saw What He Saw 0:00:00.120 --> 0:00:01.600 Today is like super special. 0:00:01.720 --> 0:00:03.680 Welcome to the podcast is Borg and Jeffrey and your 0:00:03.720 --> 0:00:08.280 second day podcast because we have an awkward Thursday phone call. Yes, 0:00:08.480 --> 0:00:11.160 but we're getting the couple back on and I cannot 0:00:11.600 --> 0:00:12.960 leave these two were back on. 0:00:13.400 --> 0:00:16.759 No, seriously, when you when you hear part one, you'll understand. Yes, yeah, 0:00:16.880 --> 0:00:18.360 so you need to listen to the whole thing. 0:00:18.400 --> 0:00:20.920 We're gonna have the original play and then part three 0:00:21.360 --> 0:00:22.480 will be when they're back on. 0:00:22.560 --> 0:00:25.279 Do not miss it. Yes, but first comments because we 0:00:25.400 --> 0:00:25.759 love them. 0:00:25.840 --> 0:00:29.240 Yes, Calvin said, I'm listening from Ghana and while getting 0:00:29.240 --> 0:00:30.240 over a broken heart. 0:00:30.680 --> 0:00:32.120 Oh yeah, Kelvin. 0:00:32.360 --> 0:00:34.239 It's all right, Calvin, I'll get there. This will make 0:00:34.280 --> 0:00:36.840 you feel better. Will when you hear what's gonna happen next? 0:00:36.920 --> 0:00:39.279 Because it could be this bad Ye? All right, it's 0:00:39.320 --> 0:00:40.320 all starting right now. 0:00:41.360 --> 0:00:44.880 One of the most memorable awkward Tuesdays of the year 0:00:45.640 --> 0:00:48.120 where one of our listeners caught his girlfriend out at 0:00:48.120 --> 0:00:52.120 a bar wearing an engagement ring and it wasn't his. 0:00:53.760 --> 0:00:55.920 The truth shocked us all. 0:00:56.320 --> 0:00:59.640 But maybe even crazier is we get them back on 0:00:59.760 --> 0:01:00.560 to get give us an. 0:01:00.600 --> 0:01:03.880 Update like them, both of them good or bad. 0:01:04.000 --> 0:01:07.880 You'll find out it's a special awkward Thursday phone call. 0:01:08.240 --> 0:01:08.880 Right after this. 0:01:09.160 --> 0:01:11.840 Everyone's been asking for this. It's an update from an 0:01:11.840 --> 0:01:14.319 awkward Tuesday phone call. Right after it's done, we're gonna 0:01:14.319 --> 0:01:15.959 have them back on the phone to find out where 0:01:15.959 --> 0:01:16.479 they are now. 0:01:18.040 --> 0:01:22.399 It's awkward. It's Thursday. It's awkward Thursday. 0:01:24.440 --> 0:01:27.840 Is there any circumstance where you're out somewhere and you 0:01:27.880 --> 0:01:31.880 see a friend's significant other doing something that they shouldn't 0:01:31.920 --> 0:01:36.760 be doing and you decide to keep your mouth shut? Oh, 0:01:36.920 --> 0:01:39.360 because I mean, you can rationalize it in your head, like, 0:01:39.400 --> 0:01:42.280 you know what, it's not really any of my business. 0:01:42.400 --> 0:01:45.200 I don't want to jump to conclusions and stir up 0:01:45.319 --> 0:01:48.080 drama if that's not really what's going on. My eyesight 0:01:48.120 --> 0:01:49.920 really isn't that good anyway? That could have just been 0:01:49.960 --> 0:01:51.400 a mannequin And I'm totally seeing. 0:01:51.400 --> 0:01:53.600 You're not saying it's just like you gotta meet an 0:01:53.640 --> 0:01:55.120 ice cream on a non cheat day. 0:01:55.240 --> 0:01:58.320 Yeah, Is there any chance you do that? Or do 0:01:58.360 --> 0:02:01.240 you go tell your friend immediately what you saw? 0:02:01.440 --> 0:02:03.640 It depends depends on the relationship. 0:02:03.800 --> 0:02:07.200 With summer grocery shopping with somebody I don't know, are 0:02:07.200 --> 0:02:08.320 they literally making out? 0:02:08.480 --> 0:02:08.639 Min? 0:02:08.639 --> 0:02:11.519 Did you guys, see something. No, why why aren't you 0:02:11.560 --> 0:02:12.520 telling you? 0:02:13.320 --> 0:02:14.560 I don't think I would tell you. 0:02:18.919 --> 0:02:19.240 Show you. 0:02:19.600 --> 0:02:20.400 This is how they kissed. 0:02:20.480 --> 0:02:20.720 See. 0:02:20.760 --> 0:02:23.560 This is exactly what happened to our listener, Jacob, who 0:02:23.639 --> 0:02:26.920 is left dealing with a very bizarre situation now and 0:02:26.960 --> 0:02:28.600 he does not know how to proceed. 0:02:29.240 --> 0:02:31.480 Jacob, Hey, man, are you holding up? 0:02:31.520 --> 0:02:34.919 Okay? Honestly, you guys not really? 0:02:35.120 --> 0:02:39.520 Oh no, oh my god, I'm dying. Who went where 0:02:39.560 --> 0:02:40.079 all of it? 0:02:40.840 --> 0:02:41.280 Okay? 0:02:41.400 --> 0:02:44.800 So I've been seeing this woman, her name is Shannon 0:02:45.400 --> 0:02:48.520 for about a half a year now. We don't live 0:02:48.520 --> 0:02:52.240 together or anything, but I'd say it's been going pretty 0:02:52.280 --> 0:02:53.600 good for the most part. 0:02:53.760 --> 0:02:55.600 I thought this was going to be about someone you 0:02:55.680 --> 0:02:57.639 saw that we had to call the friend this is 0:02:57.680 --> 0:02:58.240 about you. 0:02:59.080 --> 0:03:04.720 Yeah, yeah, this one's about me. One night she was 0:03:04.760 --> 0:03:09.160 out with their friends whatever. I got a weird call 0:03:09.400 --> 0:03:13.120 around like eleven from a friend of mine, my friend Omar. 0:03:13.480 --> 0:03:16.440 And Omar was like, hey, are you home because I 0:03:16.480 --> 0:03:18.320 gotta come over and tell you something. And he was 0:03:18.360 --> 0:03:21.360 like like really kind of on edge about. 0:03:21.080 --> 0:03:23.840 It is exactly what I was going to say. 0:03:23.919 --> 0:03:25.440 But friend says, I need to tell you something to 0:03:25.440 --> 0:03:29.560 your face. I'll be like friendship's over, dude, Sorry, I 0:03:29.560 --> 0:03:30.360 don't like anything. 0:03:30.919 --> 0:03:33.520 That must be pretty serious if he's like demanding to 0:03:33.560 --> 0:03:34.080 go see you. 0:03:34.840 --> 0:03:37.080 Yeah, no, I knew it was important, so I was like, 0:03:37.120 --> 0:03:40.320 all right, come over whatever. He tells me that he 0:03:40.520 --> 0:03:44.600 saw Shannon out at this place called Crystal Lounge. 0:03:45.440 --> 0:03:46.680 Sounds like a shady place. 0:03:48.160 --> 0:03:51.920 She was with a guy, and she was wearing an 0:03:51.960 --> 0:03:55.760 engagement ring. 0:03:56.040 --> 0:03:58.200 Are you sure that this guy's good at left and right? 0:03:58.920 --> 0:04:01.080 I have made that mistake before friends. 0:04:01.120 --> 0:04:02.440 I don't even know what that finger is. 0:04:02.920 --> 0:04:05.960 And he was pretty adamant, and that's why you had 0:04:05.960 --> 0:04:06.960 to tell me face to face. 0:04:07.800 --> 0:04:10.480 Well, did he did he mention anything like specific, like 0:04:10.480 --> 0:04:13.040 if they were kissing or holding hands or. 0:04:13.040 --> 0:04:16.000 Doing wearing an engagement ring? Job you never put a 0:04:16.040 --> 0:04:16.240 ring on? 0:04:16.400 --> 0:04:18.440 Well maybe it was just like her friend's engagement ring 0:04:18.480 --> 0:04:21.679 that she was trying on for fun. Girls were always 0:04:21.680 --> 0:04:24.240 swapping jewelry clothes always. 0:04:24.000 --> 0:04:24.360 At the bar. 0:04:24.560 --> 0:04:27.599 Just reminds you, broke, I'll take your wedding ring off 0:04:27.640 --> 0:04:28.239 right now, thanks. 0:04:30.320 --> 0:04:33.440 To the sec So, like, did he mention anything specific 0:04:33.560 --> 0:04:33.880 like that? 0:04:34.200 --> 0:04:34.279 So? 0:04:34.360 --> 0:04:37.719 Walmart said they were like physically close, but he didn't 0:04:37.839 --> 0:04:41.520 see any overly romantic gestures happened. So I'm like, all right, 0:04:41.600 --> 0:04:46.080 it's probably just a friend. And so I fear the 0:04:46.120 --> 0:04:49.320 next day and I bring it up, thinking it's gonna 0:04:49.360 --> 0:04:51.000 be you know, like thirty second conversation. 0:04:51.120 --> 0:04:52.840 She's gonna laugh, she's gonna you. 0:04:52.800 --> 0:04:58.280 Know, but she got upset and she stormed out. 0:04:59.680 --> 0:05:00.800 She got mad at you. 0:05:01.040 --> 0:05:05.320 Yeah, because you know, lie, it's upset. That's how it works. 0:05:05.400 --> 0:05:07.920 It's like anybody who's accused of cheating will be like, no, 0:05:08.040 --> 0:05:08.760 you were cheating. 0:05:09.000 --> 0:05:10.120 Oh you're spying on me. 0:05:10.320 --> 0:05:11.760 But that's the thing I thought. I wanted to give 0:05:11.760 --> 0:05:13.400 her like the medicine of the doubt, and I wasn't 0:05:13.440 --> 0:05:16.719 trying to be aggressive about it or like like accusing 0:05:16.800 --> 0:05:21.280 her right And now she's not answering my calls, and 0:05:21.600 --> 0:05:24.360 so I need advice. I need advice on how to 0:05:24.400 --> 0:05:24.760 handle it. 0:05:24.839 --> 0:05:27.960 Cause I ask you, are you still hoping that she's 0:05:28.040 --> 0:05:31.600 not cheating? Like there's still a possible that she is cheating. 0:05:33.160 --> 0:05:35.760 In my mind, there's no possibility that she's not cheating. 0:05:35.800 --> 0:05:38.599 Okay, Well, I see what you're saying. Everybody in this 0:05:38.720 --> 0:05:41.279 room is kind of in agreement. It looks really bad 0:05:41.320 --> 0:05:43.479 for her right now, and it's very very likely that 0:05:43.760 --> 0:05:45.279 something is happening behind your back. 0:05:45.560 --> 0:05:47.320 I feel like we have not just out of the 0:05:47.320 --> 0:05:51.039 fact she could be a jewelry heist person as lots 0:05:51.040 --> 0:05:53.800 of jewelry and she's scared because we just caught her. 0:05:53.880 --> 0:05:55.720 That is a pretty frequent thing that we get on 0:05:55.760 --> 0:05:56.200 the show. 0:05:56.800 --> 0:05:58.560 Like you want to what you want to get the 0:05:58.680 --> 0:05:59.520 truth out of her? 0:06:00.120 --> 0:06:02.520 Well, yeah, I really am still holding out hope for 0:06:02.600 --> 0:06:06.400 it to just be something that she's like embarrassed about, 0:06:06.400 --> 0:06:07.400 doesn't know how to bring it up. 0:06:07.560 --> 0:06:09.960 Yeah, I mean it's embarrassed that I was with my fiance. 0:06:10.200 --> 0:06:14.800 Yeah, I think that's a highly likely possibility. 0:06:14.839 --> 0:06:17.880 When we call her here, Yeah. 0:06:17.480 --> 0:06:20.039 Well they probably haven't gotten married yet. 0:06:20.160 --> 0:06:22.760 Yeah, him away. 0:06:23.520 --> 0:06:25.120 Now you didn't see a wedding band. 0:06:26.040 --> 0:06:27.720 It's totally different now, Jake. 0:06:28.000 --> 0:06:30.240 I'm sorry that you're going through this, but we're going 0:06:30.320 --> 0:06:32.360 to try and give you a little bit of advice 0:06:32.400 --> 0:06:36.520 here before we call your girlfriend Shannon and let you 0:06:36.720 --> 0:06:39.960 ask her the question, what was going on when my 0:06:40.000 --> 0:06:42.799 friends saw you out the other night at a lounge 0:06:42.839 --> 0:06:44.960 wearing an engagement ring with another guy. 0:06:45.240 --> 0:06:47.600 No matter what happens, like you're the winner out of this, 0:06:47.760 --> 0:06:48.920 she's the sucky one. 0:06:49.160 --> 0:06:50.920 You don't have to hit on him now he's still 0:06:50.920 --> 0:06:53.880 with somebody. We get to that in a second. Your 0:06:53.920 --> 0:06:56.599 awkward Tuesday phone call is coming up right after this. 0:06:56.839 --> 0:06:58.840 Hey, we're in the middle of an awkward Thursday phone 0:06:58.839 --> 0:07:01.440 call up dates, which means you don't want to miss 0:07:01.440 --> 0:07:03.280 the part three where we get the couple back on 0:07:03.320 --> 0:07:05.080 the phone to find out what's happened. 0:07:05.120 --> 0:07:07.640 Since it's awkward. 0:07:07.680 --> 0:07:11.200 It's Thursday's Thursday. 0:07:13.240 --> 0:07:15.560 If you're just joining us for the awkward phone call, 0:07:16.160 --> 0:07:19.400 this is what we know. Our listener, Jacob has a 0:07:19.440 --> 0:07:23.240 girlfriend of about half a year. She was spotted out 0:07:23.240 --> 0:07:26.880 recently at a lounge with a different guy wearing an 0:07:26.920 --> 0:07:28.240 engagement brank like I need. 0:07:28.240 --> 0:07:31.880 To be taking notes, Jeff, so right there. Yep, that's weird, 0:07:32.080 --> 0:07:32.520 not good. 0:07:32.800 --> 0:07:35.400 When Jacob brought it up to her in a fun way, 0:07:36.000 --> 0:07:38.480 he expected her to laugh and explain, Oh, it's. 0:07:38.320 --> 0:07:40.680 Just this stupid situation. I had to wear it. It was 0:07:40.720 --> 0:07:41.240 a big joke. 0:07:41.480 --> 0:07:45.000 But no, she got upset and left and has not 0:07:45.200 --> 0:07:48.920 spoken to him since. That's why he needs our advice 0:07:49.000 --> 0:07:51.440 today on what to say to get his girlfriend to 0:07:51.680 --> 0:07:55.160 just tell him the truth of what is really going on. 0:07:55.880 --> 0:07:58.800 It's the least that he deserves. Right, what's your advice 0:07:58.840 --> 0:07:59.360 to Jacob. 0:07:59.520 --> 0:08:03.000 You were gonna take control of this situation, okay, right, 0:08:03.040 --> 0:08:04.080 and you were gonna tell her. 0:08:04.160 --> 0:08:06.040 You need to tell me the truth now. You need 0:08:06.080 --> 0:08:07.720 to rip it off like a bandage. 0:08:08.040 --> 0:08:09.760 Rip it off like a band aid, because if she 0:08:09.800 --> 0:08:11.880 waits any longer, it's only gonna get worse. 0:08:11.960 --> 0:08:13.280 Like you deserve the truth. 0:08:13.320 --> 0:08:15.880 And if she has ever respected you ever in the 0:08:15.880 --> 0:08:18.160 time that she's known you, now is the time to 0:08:18.200 --> 0:08:19.600 show that there it is all right? 0:08:19.720 --> 0:08:22.640 Yeah, yeah, there was actually a little bit of advice 0:08:22.680 --> 0:08:25.800 in their good job. Every week I give great advice. 0:08:26.520 --> 0:08:29.160 Jose What about you? What do you think? Remember you 0:08:29.200 --> 0:08:30.520 need to make her feel comfortable. 0:08:30.520 --> 0:08:32.400 Remind her, honey, I want you to know first I 0:08:32.480 --> 0:08:36.959 love you, okay, And whatever you say in this conversation, I. 0:08:37.080 --> 0:08:41.880 Promise not to judge what. We listen and we don't judge. 0:08:41.920 --> 0:08:43.400 That's a TikTok trans. 0:08:45.720 --> 0:08:46.320 TikTok. 0:08:46.520 --> 0:08:50.200 You know what you do, you judge it, then maybe. 0:08:49.800 --> 0:08:52.000 She will be comfortable to I think actually all of 0:08:52.080 --> 0:08:54.480 us could take that advice in this room. We should 0:08:54.520 --> 0:08:58.040 listen and not judge her yet, because there could be 0:08:58.120 --> 0:09:00.719 a logical explanation for this, We're all going to look 0:09:00.720 --> 0:09:02.920 really stupid. If we're being as hateful as Brook is 0:09:02.960 --> 0:09:04.520 towards her, she would have. 0:09:04.520 --> 0:09:07.320 Just said the logical thing, if it was logical, Jeff, 0:09:07.400 --> 0:09:14.280 I don't want to look stupid, so listen, and then. 0:09:13.720 --> 0:09:16.680 If this doesn't go my way, I am fully welcome 0:09:16.720 --> 0:09:17.200 to judge. 0:09:17.559 --> 0:09:21.400 Yes exactly, that's actually what we do best on the show. 0:09:21.480 --> 0:09:22.319 But let's call her. 0:09:22.400 --> 0:09:24.520 We'll see if Shannon picks up, and then we'll step 0:09:24.520 --> 0:09:26.600 away and let you make your awkward call and we'll 0:09:26.640 --> 0:09:27.880 be here if you feel like you need a little 0:09:27.880 --> 0:09:28.960 bit of help, okay, with good luck. 0:09:37.080 --> 0:09:43.360 Hello, Hey it's me. I said, I don't feel like 0:09:43.440 --> 0:09:44.439 talking right now. 0:09:45.160 --> 0:09:47.679 No, we need to talk right now. What do you mean, 0:09:47.840 --> 0:09:50.800 not feel like talking right now? That's not fair. 0:09:51.480 --> 0:09:55.679 Because you just seem really upset about something that honestly 0:09:55.840 --> 0:09:58.120 I do not feel like talking about. 0:09:58.640 --> 0:10:01.600 Well, I don't think I should feel about it. Like what, 0:10:02.240 --> 0:10:03.680 I want to get this I want to get this 0:10:03.720 --> 0:10:04.920 over with. I want to hash this out. 0:10:04.960 --> 0:10:08.040 Okay, Okay, then just you know what, just move on 0:10:08.679 --> 0:10:10.120 what we have to hatch out. 0:10:10.120 --> 0:10:12.480 We don't have to hash out anymore. Okay, Sorry, am 0:10:12.520 --> 0:10:14.680 I not supposed to be upset when my buddy comes 0:10:14.720 --> 0:10:17.400 to me saying that you have an engagement ring on 0:10:17.600 --> 0:10:19.280 and you're hanging with some other guy. 0:10:19.559 --> 0:10:26.880 Like, what is that, Jacob? I don't want to hurt you. 0:10:27.360 --> 0:10:31.240 It's yeah, it's a little late for that. You just 0:10:31.960 --> 0:10:35.720 need to tell me whatever the truth is. Okay, I 0:10:35.720 --> 0:10:38.040 can handle it. 0:10:38.040 --> 0:10:39.280 It's hard to explain. 0:10:41.760 --> 0:10:46.240 Well, can you try, can you try for me here, please, Shannon. 0:10:47.920 --> 0:10:54.120 Well, you know my friends Sierra, right, Yeah, I know Sierra. Okay, 0:10:54.160 --> 0:10:57.640 So a couple of months ago, she set up this 0:10:57.800 --> 0:11:01.240 like hangout with some old friends. She was saying, we 0:11:01.280 --> 0:11:02.480 hadn't seen him in a while. 0:11:03.200 --> 0:11:05.120 What does this have to do with us? 0:11:05.480 --> 0:11:09.840 So one of the guys who was there to hang like, well, 0:11:09.880 --> 0:11:11.760 he was my ex So. 0:11:12.880 --> 0:11:14.440 What what does that even mean? 0:11:16.120 --> 0:11:21.440 So we hooked up and I didn't know what to 0:11:21.480 --> 0:11:25.760 say to you because you're so sweet to me. Oh 0:11:25.800 --> 0:11:30.400 my god. And I started dating him again, and I 0:11:31.360 --> 0:11:34.880 know it's messed up, I know, but I've always just 0:11:34.960 --> 0:11:38.040 wanted to have a forever relationship, be married, and so 0:11:38.240 --> 0:11:40.640 I had it in my head that I was just 0:11:40.679 --> 0:11:45.480 going to say yes to whoever proposed first. Oh, and 0:11:46.480 --> 0:11:49.520 he proposed a few nights ago. 0:11:49.240 --> 0:11:56.199 So so wait, sorry, you're actually you're really engaged. I 0:11:56.760 --> 0:11:59.920 thought I really thought there'd be some other reason to it. 0:12:00.760 --> 0:12:06.240 No, no, I am I'm engaged to someone else. I'm 0:12:06.280 --> 0:12:08.880 really sorry. I'm sorry. 0:12:10.960 --> 0:12:12.600 Oh my god. 0:12:12.559 --> 0:12:13.120 What is that? 0:12:13.160 --> 0:12:13.920 What's going on? 0:12:14.160 --> 0:12:15.480 Okay? 0:12:15.720 --> 0:12:20.120 Oh my god, Shannon, Shannon, we've been listening to this culture. 0:12:20.559 --> 0:12:22.320 You're on the radio right now with a show called 0:12:22.320 --> 0:12:24.280 Brook and Jeffrey. In the morning, we're doing something called 0:12:24.280 --> 0:12:25.520 awkward Tuesday phone call. 0:12:26.320 --> 0:12:32.400 Oh what look? Yeah, you weren't answering my calls and 0:12:32.480 --> 0:12:34.839 I didn't know how to address this with you. I've 0:12:34.840 --> 0:12:37.520 been trying, and so I called radio station to help 0:12:37.559 --> 0:12:38.360 me get ahold of you. 0:12:38.480 --> 0:12:41.720 Yeah, and no, god, I believe you did this on 0:12:41.760 --> 0:12:42.360 the radio. 0:12:42.840 --> 0:12:44.240 Maybe you shouldn't have been cheating. 0:12:45.000 --> 0:12:45.640 Yeah. 0:12:45.760 --> 0:12:48.240 We do a lot of these phone calls, I'll tell you, Shannon, 0:12:48.400 --> 0:12:52.400 And we don't normally get a lot that end like this. 0:12:52.559 --> 0:12:57.000 Usually it's somebody playing a joke, there's some hilarious misunderstanding. 0:12:58.800 --> 0:13:02.559 Turns out, Shannon, you're just a two timing cheater, Like Helen, 0:13:02.600 --> 0:13:03.120 are you dating? 0:13:03.200 --> 0:13:05.040 For your engaged to this guy? 0:13:05.840 --> 0:13:06.560 Who are you? 0:13:06.760 --> 0:13:08.560 Why do I have to answer questions to you? I 0:13:08.559 --> 0:13:10.880 don't even know who I'm talking to at this point. 0:13:11.760 --> 0:13:13.800 You think I'm just going to answer some questions for 0:13:13.960 --> 0:13:15.680 some people I've never talked to you before. 0:13:16.000 --> 0:13:18.120 Well, it's pretty valid to the situation. 0:13:19.040 --> 0:13:22.439 Jacob's friend and we're defending your good jacome friend. He 0:13:22.559 --> 0:13:26.000 called the radio station. Now he's your friend, Yes he is. 0:13:27.679 --> 0:13:29.040 We're really cling. You don't know us. 0:13:29.240 --> 0:13:31.600 Jacob is my friend. Like, I still want him to 0:13:31.640 --> 0:13:32.760 be part of my life. 0:13:33.520 --> 0:13:36.720 Sorry, after all of this, you think Jacob would still 0:13:36.760 --> 0:13:38.439 want to be around you? 0:13:38.559 --> 0:13:38.959 Yeah? 0:13:39.800 --> 0:13:40.559 Him your friend? 0:13:41.080 --> 0:13:45.680 Couldn't we stay friends? Like? I even asked my fiance 0:13:45.840 --> 0:13:47.840 to have our wedding like a year so you could 0:13:47.840 --> 0:13:50.120 have some time to heal. Because you are a good friend. 0:13:50.120 --> 0:13:54.680 And why are you there? I want you in my life. 0:13:54.600 --> 0:13:58.400 Wedding a year so that your current boyfriend get over you, 0:13:59.080 --> 0:14:00.079 that he can go. 0:14:02.240 --> 0:14:04.760 Jacob, I mean, are you insane? It's got to be 0:14:04.760 --> 0:14:05.720 a joke. 0:14:05.800 --> 0:14:08.040 Well, what does your schedule look like next next time? 0:14:08.240 --> 0:14:11.120 I wouldn't joke. You're a special guy. 0:14:11.520 --> 0:14:12.840 Yeah, okay, I was joking. 0:14:14.160 --> 0:14:16.840 My schedule next year is figuring out when she's on 0:14:16.840 --> 0:14:19.040 her honeymoon and burning up her apartment. 0:14:20.360 --> 0:14:21.040 Let's bring it. 0:14:21.120 --> 0:14:22.040 Back a couple of nights. 0:14:22.680 --> 0:14:25.040 Jacob. We're on tape here, so this can be used 0:14:25.080 --> 0:14:25.680 in the court of room. 0:14:25.760 --> 0:14:32.240 I can help you to move on. Okay, yeah, okay, yeah. 0:14:32.800 --> 0:14:35.280 You guys, you don't know me. But I'm not a 0:14:35.320 --> 0:14:37.880 bad person. Yes, maybe I made a mistake. Maybe I 0:14:37.880 --> 0:14:40.120 should have broken up with Jacob earlier, but I'm not 0:14:40.160 --> 0:14:41.040 a bad person. 0:14:42.120 --> 0:14:44.760 Maybe, Jacob, are you willing to call this strike one 0:14:45.000 --> 0:14:46.120 and give it two more friends? 0:14:47.560 --> 0:14:49.240 You know, for in the name of friendship? 0:14:49.480 --> 0:14:55.000 Yeah, I think all nine innings are over sports analogy. 0:14:55.520 --> 0:14:57.760 Okay. I wish Jacob well, I hope he has a 0:14:57.760 --> 0:15:00.720 great life else. 0:15:00.880 --> 0:15:02.760 I don't know what to say to you, Shannon, honestly, 0:15:02.800 --> 0:15:05.920 But Jacob, jeff sure. 0:15:06.320 --> 0:15:08.280 Knowing Jeffy's going to send you a wedding pressent. 0:15:08.440 --> 0:15:11.360 Yeah, guilty, I do. I do perform at weddings, so 0:15:11.440 --> 0:15:12.080 you can hire me. 0:15:12.160 --> 0:15:14.920 But Jacob, the good news is that you got the 0:15:15.000 --> 0:15:17.560 truth right, That's what you were after here. 0:15:17.600 --> 0:15:18.160 The whole time. 0:15:18.240 --> 0:15:20.600 We wasted six months on this relationship. But I mean 0:15:20.640 --> 0:15:21.640 that's another positive. 0:15:21.800 --> 0:15:22.359 Yeah. 0:15:22.360 --> 0:15:25.520 Well, hey, you know, since we're friends, legitimately, let's go 0:15:25.640 --> 0:15:26.360 out spend. 0:15:26.120 --> 0:15:27.840 The rest of the week drinking I'm up for it. 0:15:28.360 --> 0:15:30.680 What are you mean us right? 0:15:31.440 --> 0:15:34.680 Yeah? 0:15:34.800 --> 0:15:39.080 Drinks on Jacob cool brooking Jeffrey in the morning. 0:15:39.240 --> 0:15:41.120 You know, out of all the calls we've done over 0:15:41.160 --> 0:15:44.280 the past year, I never thought this would be the 0:15:44.360 --> 0:15:46.440 couple that we'd be getting an update from. 0:15:46.480 --> 0:15:48.280 Wait, both of them. I thought we'd just be talking 0:15:48.280 --> 0:15:50.080 to him. I know there are a couples anymore. 0:15:50.440 --> 0:15:54.600 Jacob and Shannon are both back on So wait are 0:15:54.600 --> 0:15:55.720 they actually friends? 0:15:55.880 --> 0:15:57.280 I don't know what's going. 0:15:57.040 --> 0:15:57.520 On with you? 0:15:57.640 --> 0:15:58.080 Tipple? 0:15:58.920 --> 0:16:00.480 Hi, how are you guys? 0:16:00.840 --> 0:16:01.120 Shot? 0:16:01.280 --> 0:16:07.119 Yea the same, Yeah, you're both there. What's the situation? 0:16:08.040 --> 0:16:14.400 Well, funny story, Jacob and I are engaged? Now what 0:16:17.120 --> 0:16:18.400 We're so happy? 0:16:18.640 --> 0:16:21.760 Okay, stop talking for him for just one second, Jacob, 0:16:22.360 --> 0:16:23.240 how do you feel? 0:16:23.880 --> 0:16:24.920 I'm happy, Terry. 0:16:24.920 --> 0:16:27.360 Don't get me wrong. It's been a crazy couple of months, 0:16:27.360 --> 0:16:27.880 that's for sure. 0:16:28.120 --> 0:16:30.240 Wait wait, wait, how did the first engagement with the 0:16:30.400 --> 0:16:32.760 ex boyfriend break off? 0:16:32.800 --> 0:16:33.960 Maybe she's double engaged? 0:16:35.720 --> 0:16:38.040 No, no, no, no, I'm not so. I guess you 0:16:38.040 --> 0:16:41.120 guys know how popular your show is. And my now 0:16:41.240 --> 0:16:44.640 ex fiance actually heard and found. 0:16:44.480 --> 0:16:47.520 Out you had a boyfriend when he proposed right, and. 0:16:47.800 --> 0:16:52.920 He said he was confused and decided that we needed 0:16:52.920 --> 0:16:53.640 to take a break. 0:16:53.760 --> 0:16:58.040 Yeah, okay, okay, so Jacob, where what why? 0:16:58.400 --> 0:16:58.760 Yeah? 0:16:58.880 --> 0:17:03.000 Yeah, I don't you need congratulations, Brooke. I think you 0:17:03.080 --> 0:17:05.520 need to say congratulations to the happy couple. 0:17:05.680 --> 0:17:07.960 I mean, yeah, if that's how it. 0:17:08.400 --> 0:17:11.760 Goes, Yes, congratulations Jacob. Good for you. 0:17:12.280 --> 0:17:15.800 Yeah, thank you. I know, I'm very excited. You know, basically, 0:17:15.920 --> 0:17:19.199 you know, after that whole debacle with I mean, with 0:17:19.280 --> 0:17:21.560 the engagement ring and everything, I'm going to refer to 0:17:21.560 --> 0:17:24.760 it as a debacle. Okay, Shannon came to me and 0:17:25.400 --> 0:17:27.879 I mean she needed kind of guidance, she needed a friend, 0:17:28.000 --> 0:17:30.840 So yeah, I was there for Uh. We talked and 0:17:30.880 --> 0:17:33.160 I mean here we are, and we're engaged. I mean, 0:17:33.280 --> 0:17:34.679 one thing led to another and then. 0:17:34.560 --> 0:17:37.760 Some Oh it's a sweet story, Brooklyn series. 0:17:39.080 --> 0:17:39.680 There you go. 0:17:40.200 --> 0:17:41.080 I giving it a year. 0:17:41.200 --> 0:17:43.760 So now your other ex fiance can heal and come 0:17:43.800 --> 0:17:44.320 to your wedding? 0:17:44.400 --> 0:17:46.199 Yeah, yeah, it'd be smart. 0:17:47.440 --> 0:17:49.919 You know what We're just what I realized through this 0:17:49.960 --> 0:17:53.080 whole thing is that this is a relationship I should 0:17:53.080 --> 0:17:56.040 have been in the whole time. Jacob is so understanding 0:17:56.160 --> 0:17:59.080 and I know I'm not a picnic, but he really 0:17:59.400 --> 0:18:02.480 gets who I am and I think we make each 0:18:02.520 --> 0:18:03.399 other really happy. 0:18:03.680 --> 0:18:07.040 Okay, you know it took the long path to get there, 0:18:07.080 --> 0:18:08.600 but you arrived at the destination. 0:18:08.920 --> 0:18:10.000 That's what's important. 0:18:10.040 --> 0:18:12.600 Yeah, Shannon is definitely my better half. I'm looking forward 0:18:12.600 --> 0:18:14.720