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Speaker 1: This is the Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous podcast

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Speaker 1: with IR Radio. Hey guys, I'm Vanessa Grimaldi. I'm filling

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Speaker 1: in for Ben and Ashley this week. That is your cue.

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Speaker 1: So sorry. Second, so, hey guys, this is Amy and

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Speaker 1: Ben and Ashley are at a secret location that I

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Speaker 1: can't reveal. So so Vanessa, I begged her and begged her.

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Speaker 1: I really did beggar and beggar to guest host this week.

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Speaker 1: And then we grabbed Becca Tilly, who's here has a

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Speaker 1: busy schedule, and so I had to sort of say, okay,

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Speaker 1: how about this day at this time this week worked

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Speaker 1: out for me. I told you, you know, I made

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Speaker 1: it work. So for people that don't know Vanessa, tell

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Speaker 1: everybody a little bit about herself. Oh um, I'm Canadian

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Speaker 1: and I'm no longer engaged. So she was on NIX

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Speaker 1: season season she was the winner. Do you call yourself winners? No,

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I like to say, you know, I

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Speaker 1: fell in love with the lead. I like using the winner, um,

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Speaker 1: because then that would mean I'm a loser. It seems

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Speaker 1: to be twice. No, I mean I lost. We didn't lose,

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Speaker 1: you just didn't end up with Yeah. Yeah, I mean, yeah,

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Speaker 1: what you were on Chris seasons this season and season,

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Speaker 1: but it's like, I think people don't and you can

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Speaker 1: speak way more about this because you've got engaged and

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Speaker 1: now you're single. But the pressure of being in a

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Speaker 1: relationship in public, it's tough. First of all, being in

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Speaker 1: a relationship period is hard. But imagine just like, first

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Speaker 1: of all, you're on as you know, like you're filming

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Speaker 1: for two months or however long you're on at four

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Speaker 1: and you're stripped away from like everything you're social meeting.

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Speaker 1: Is that it's tough. I mean like when I first

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Speaker 1: went on UM, I think I spoke about this on

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Speaker 1: my first date with him. Literally the two weeks before

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Speaker 1: or I went on the show, I found out my

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Speaker 1: um my grandfather had like a heart attack and so

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Speaker 1: he was fine, he was sent home, and then two

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Speaker 1: weeks before we started filming UM, he passed away. And

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Speaker 1: that was really tough because it was my first grandparent

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Speaker 1: all four and we're such a close family. Like when

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Speaker 1: we grew up. My parents were divorced now, but before

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Speaker 1: they got divorced, my entire family lived on the same

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Speaker 1: street and they didn't show this, but I brought Nick

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Speaker 1: on my on my street where we grew up. So

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Speaker 1: we had like a house on one corner because my

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Speaker 1: grandmother's house, the house attached it was her daughter, and

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Speaker 1: then the other house was her her aunt, my other cousin,

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Speaker 1: my first cousin to families from Italy, my other grandmother,

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Speaker 1: my first cousin, and then my house. So it was

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Speaker 1: not going on the show. Yeah, so once, um, you know,

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Speaker 1: I remember I was at the funeral and I was

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Speaker 1: like in a black stretch limo and we all had

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Speaker 1: roses and I was like, oh my god, this feels

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Speaker 1: so weird, Like I don't know if I feel ready

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Speaker 1: to go on the show and leave my family behind.

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Speaker 1: And there was just so much going on. And then

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Speaker 1: my grandmother was placed in a nursing home too, so

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Speaker 1: there was a lot of big change. Um. And then

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Speaker 1: my family is like, you know what, you never do

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Speaker 1: anything for yourself. Why don't you just see go on it?

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Speaker 1: You know, if you're having that much of a hard time,

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Speaker 1: come back home. So at least I knew I had

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Speaker 1: the minute I landed, they came to pick me up

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Speaker 1: they put you up in a hotel. At that point,

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Speaker 1: you don't get to see anyone who any of the

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Speaker 1: girls that are on the show. You get to me

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Speaker 1: like a few producers. So you're up in your hotel

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Speaker 1: room and they alone, and they're like all right. They

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Speaker 1: pull out like this zip block bag and like, well,

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Speaker 1: put all your electronics in here. And I was like,

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Speaker 1: and the goody two shoes that I am. I put

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Speaker 1: put everything. I'm like, I don't want to get in trouble,

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Speaker 1: so I literally put everything inside. And at that point,

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Speaker 1: my sister wasn't feeling well, so there was like there

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Speaker 1: I mean, like every decision I make, I call my sister.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, should I get this black jacket or

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Speaker 1: deal with that? I I mean, it was hard to

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Speaker 1: I kind of loved being like separated from my phone. Yes,

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Speaker 1: in the moment. I remember that was the first time

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Speaker 1: I started journaling. And I was looking over my journal

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Speaker 1: I'm like, this is terrible. Yeah, but the name names.

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Speaker 1: But I have heard about people sneaking phones into The

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Speaker 1: Bachelor that they won't name names, but they bring a

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Speaker 1: dunner phone and then they bury in their luggage another

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Speaker 1: on Vincy. Oh my god, you're badass. But I I

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Speaker 1: so scared, I like my old I was dumb and

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Speaker 1: gave them my phone that had service on it instead

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Speaker 1: of giving them my Oh. I don't know why. I thought.

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Speaker 1: I thought, if I'm gonna be suspicious, I have to

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Speaker 1: give them the newer version smart right, Well, they was

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Speaker 1: gonna bought a phone and given them that surprising. You know,

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Speaker 1: more people don't do they do. Everyone gets caught. I mean,

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Speaker 1: I don't think anyone did on our season, tell you

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Speaker 1: the truth. Um, I was so scared to the point

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Speaker 1: I'm like, oh my god, I want to go knock

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Speaker 1: the ball with Like, yeah, so who are your good friends? Watched? Um,

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Speaker 1: my closest friend is Danielle Melby. We're gonna call her soon. Yes,

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Speaker 1: So Taylor of Taylor and Derek Taylor of Taylor and

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Speaker 1: Death cool. So are you do you like Taylor and Derek?

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Speaker 1: I spend so when I was still with Nick, Taylor

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Speaker 1: and Derek were had just finished filming Paradise. Um, no

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Speaker 1: get excited to see each other. Well, that's a fun thing.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I'm all for long distance. I'm not you

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Speaker 1: know when people were like I never want to do Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I am a huge fan. I think it helps a

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Speaker 1: relationship if you're like where you like it and you

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Speaker 1: for a relationship. For me, it really works because I

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Speaker 1: to see each other. You never really get to argue

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Speaker 1: every phone call, and you like you like that. I know,

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Speaker 1: I like it time I'm torn on it because I

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Speaker 1: kind of like I was saying, I was said in

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Speaker 1: my in my podcast go listening to Scrubbing In with

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Speaker 1: Brooke Burke, and I was saying, I kind of like

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Speaker 1: that that those arguments where even if they're silly, like

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Speaker 1: that would be hard. The time difference. That's a wonky

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Speaker 1: time difference. Yeah. So when you when did you? Are

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Speaker 1: I saw you were at jingle Ball. Oh, I started

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Speaker 1: We raised enough money to help out four schools, which

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Speaker 1: is so funny. Do you hear my accent? Everyone's out

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Speaker 1: so every once in a while, well, can you say

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Speaker 1: s O R R Y s O Oh, sorry you

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Speaker 1: don't say that? What about a bo ut about? I

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Speaker 1: don't say, well, you don't do eve now now it's

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Speaker 1: not it's not that strong. But I had I did

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Speaker 1: an interview and I said we're helping out four schools,

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Speaker 1: I'm helping out four schools. Like I guess the Canadian

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Speaker 1: or the French accent that's coming out, ever, that's what

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Speaker 1: what I hear. It's like French Italian. I don't know,

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Speaker 1: it's just a yeah, I definitely here. I like it, though, Um,

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Speaker 1: have you have you? Are you do? I don't know

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Speaker 1: if you talked about this or have you started dating

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Speaker 1: since you've been single? Or no? I mean, like, who

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Speaker 1: were at a date? Would day of batchelor? Well, let

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Speaker 1: me tell you you guys talk for a second and

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Speaker 1: then I'm going to tell the story because he wanted

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Speaker 1: to go like out with you. Wait, I want to

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Speaker 1: hear this after, But would you date someone from the Bachelor? No,

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Speaker 1: you don't think I don't never like never. You're just like,

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry, never say never. But I think my days

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Speaker 1: on the Bachelor are I have two weird Vanessa stories.

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Speaker 1: Which one okay, because there's also my friend. Oh, that

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Speaker 1: I know it's an insane gift. And Ben loved it too,

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Speaker 1: like they cooked it all. They loved it. Check it

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Speaker 1: out guys Omaha steaks dot com. The code is almost

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Speaker 1: famous in the search bar. Well done, Aim, thank you

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Speaker 1: so much. We got one more spot coming up, so

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Speaker 1: everybody get ready. Thanks for having me. I love being

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Speaker 1: on the Ben in Nashley podcast. Ben Becca, you've been

462
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Speaker 1: been Becca and I pilled my nail polish. Oh my god,

463
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Speaker 1: I'm so excited. Danielle Melp he's on the phone right now.

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Speaker 1: Say hi, d So. D is my closest one of

465
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Speaker 1: my closest friends. From nixt season of The Bachelor, we

466
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Speaker 1: were placed in the same room together top bunk. We

467
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Speaker 1: both had a top bunk. Yeah we both did. Yeah,

468
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Speaker 1: which is so well. I mean like, yeah, yeah, you

469
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Speaker 1: had a top bunk. Yeah, I had the top bunk.

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Speaker 1: Two in our room one, two, three, four, five, six,

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Speaker 1: seven girls in our you know, Yeah, I felt like

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Speaker 1: I never actually I went to them. Yeah, girls in

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Speaker 1: a room for how long? Well was just the first week, um,

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Speaker 1: of the show, right whenever we were in the matchup?

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Speaker 1: Yeah that sounds really Yeah. How many sharing a bathroom?

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Speaker 1: Oh there's only two bathrooms. I don't are really saying

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Speaker 1: this stuff? The one downstairs? Seven? Very good? Yeah. Um,

478
00:24:22,400 --> 00:24:24,359
Speaker 1: eating a pizza right now. I know we're eating pizza

479
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Speaker 1: while we do the show. I'm hungry. And so why

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Speaker 1: did you guys immediately kind of get along and bond?

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Speaker 1: And I mean, who doesn't love d Anyone that meets

482
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Speaker 1: her just wells in love with her. She's the sweetest

483
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Speaker 1: person ever, and she has this side to her that like,

484
00:24:43,080 --> 00:24:46,480
Speaker 1: unfortunately they didn't show on the show. She's so fun

485
00:24:46,880 --> 00:24:50,080
Speaker 1: and lighthearted and like easy to get along with. I

486
00:24:50,119 --> 00:24:52,159
Speaker 1: mean they did show that part, but she's just like

487
00:24:52,359 --> 00:24:56,080
Speaker 1: she's an amazing, all around perfect human being and need

488
00:24:56,240 --> 00:24:59,040
Speaker 1: the perfect man in her life because she deserves nothing

489
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Speaker 1: but the best. So for people listening, Danielle, did you

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Speaker 1: become famous for the kiss with Wells? She already asked

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Speaker 1: about that. Um, I feel like people finally like I

492
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Speaker 1: saw my likes malle A little bit more in there

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Speaker 1: on para days, but like, yeah, I think, um, I

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Speaker 1: think I got like the kiss the Brooks Internet. Don't

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Speaker 1: you have like an amazing job. You're a nurse or

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Speaker 1: a doctor or something a nurse, thank you. Yeah. I

497
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Speaker 1: work on a new and natal intensive care so I

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Speaker 1: work with um all, like the premature infants or the

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Speaker 1: infants that are born with defects um chromosome defects like

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Speaker 1: I haven't come breathing. Like guys, I see it all

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Speaker 1: and have we We have you on with Bennin n

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Speaker 1: Ashley before. Uh no, you didn't. Oh my gosh, we

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Speaker 1: were going to and then we had to change it

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Speaker 1: because you were doing something with wells. Oh. So this

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Speaker 1: is Danielle M's debut on the Almost Famous podcast. It's

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Speaker 1: my debut two alright, so let's dig into Vanessa spears

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Speaker 1: about dating talk open up and talk to us. Oh am,

508
00:26:01,119 --> 00:26:03,840
Speaker 1: I going straight for it. My fears about dating. So

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Speaker 1: I was talking to Amy about this earlier. UM, I mean,

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Speaker 1: do I guess you right? D and I were just

511
00:26:10,680 --> 00:26:13,000
Speaker 1: hanging out this week and we're talking about the concept

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Speaker 1: of being ghosted and we have like this whole thing

513
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Speaker 1: this weekend of like hashtag ghosted. It's so bad. It's terrible.

514
00:26:19,200 --> 00:26:21,080
Speaker 1: It's like if you're not into someone, just let them

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Speaker 1: know instead of just was ghosting. Even it's newer. It's newer,

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00:26:26,920 --> 00:26:29,800
Speaker 1: well because of you know, like your phone. So I

517
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Speaker 1: mean I feel like people would right like years ago,

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Speaker 1: like when I was in college or whatever. Out of college,

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00:26:37,359 --> 00:26:39,600
Speaker 1: there was no such thing as ghosting. I don't think.

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I mean maybe it was like just

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Speaker 1: standing someone up, like you ever had either of you

522
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Speaker 1: ever been stood up? Like up? Tell us tell us,

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Speaker 1: tell us tell us. Um. It was this guy that

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Speaker 1: I was actually is my friend and I were both

525
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Speaker 1: um interested in. But my friend was like kind of

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Speaker 1: seeing somebody at the times. I was like, well, why

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Speaker 1: are you getting mad at me? Like if I want

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Speaker 1: to go out and like you know, have your with

529
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Speaker 1: the sky. Yeah, we were spoke about Maggiano's because that's

530
00:27:12,400 --> 00:27:14,359
Speaker 1: like a cool place to go in like Wisconsin, like

531
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Speaker 1: boy back in today, and um, I hear that and

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00:27:18,560 --> 00:27:21,919
Speaker 1: he never did know. So you're supposed to meet at

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Speaker 1: the restaurant, Yes, did you ever? Number one? Thing? Like

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00:27:26,520 --> 00:27:29,119
Speaker 1: he said, it just like picks me up, you know,

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00:27:29,200 --> 00:27:32,960
Speaker 1: like that's why. Yeah, So how long did you wait?

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00:27:33,400 --> 00:27:36,440
Speaker 1: How does that go down? Um? I would like like

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Speaker 1: twenty minutes. I was like, this sucker is not coming.

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00:27:42,640 --> 00:27:47,040
Speaker 1: Then did you ever speak to him again? No? I

539
00:27:47,119 --> 00:27:51,720
Speaker 1: never talked, just like you like you're a sucking pussy,

540
00:27:52,040 --> 00:27:54,680
Speaker 1: like the way to be a colored whoa. I do

541
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Speaker 1: have a story that is not it's a little bit wonky.

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Speaker 1: I was. I guess you could say I was dating someone.

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Speaker 1: This is when I was nineteen and we had gone

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Speaker 1: on a trip to Tahoe together and I was much

545
00:28:04,880 --> 00:28:08,080
Speaker 1: younger than him. This is just like explains why I

546
00:28:08,160 --> 00:28:11,440
Speaker 1: am how I am and he was much older than me.

547
00:28:11,560 --> 00:28:13,760
Speaker 1: So one of the nights he said, I'll go out

548
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Speaker 1: with my friends. You go out with your friends, and

549
00:28:16,200 --> 00:28:19,480
Speaker 1: we'll meet up at the house later. And at the

550
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Speaker 1: time I was like, that sounds cool, okay, cool, Like fine. Um.

551
00:28:24,680 --> 00:28:32,600
Speaker 1: I never saw him again ever vacation, like I picked

552
00:28:32,680 --> 00:28:35,040
Speaker 1: him up at the airport and he came to my

553
00:28:35,160 --> 00:28:38,320
Speaker 1: house and like I thought I was taking him back

554
00:28:38,360 --> 00:28:41,080
Speaker 1: to the airport. I basically never saw him again. I

555
00:28:41,200 --> 00:28:43,880
Speaker 1: have awkwardly bumped into him. This is twenty years ago

556
00:28:43,960 --> 00:28:46,480
Speaker 1: this went down. I have awkwardly bumped into him a

557
00:28:46,520 --> 00:28:49,880
Speaker 1: few times. I mean that one of my girlfriends is like,

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Speaker 1: he invented ghosting, the O of ghost How that is

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00:28:55,000 --> 00:28:57,800
Speaker 1: the O G of ghosting? Like how G nearly is that?

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Speaker 1: I mean, I've never been stood up like that, Like

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Speaker 1: why why don't you be a man about it? Like,

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00:29:03,680 --> 00:29:06,880
Speaker 1: to be honest, don't. I think he was just done

563
00:29:07,040 --> 00:29:09,000
Speaker 1: and I was too young, and he met some girl

564
00:29:09,160 --> 00:29:11,360
Speaker 1: and I think he married her and I think they

565
00:29:11,440 --> 00:29:14,280
Speaker 1: got divorced. So guess what. Whatever, you know, that's the

566
00:29:14,360 --> 00:29:18,320
Speaker 1: thing about dating that scares me um, which I appreciate

567
00:29:18,400 --> 00:29:20,120
Speaker 1: it about it's gonna be it's gonna sound so weird,

568
00:29:20,200 --> 00:29:22,400
Speaker 1: which I appreciated about The Bachelor because at least you know,

569
00:29:22,600 --> 00:29:25,040
Speaker 1: like when you're first dating someone, you don't know if

570
00:29:25,040 --> 00:29:26,960
Speaker 1: they're dating other women, and you're you're not in the

571
00:29:27,000 --> 00:29:29,120
Speaker 1: position to be asking like, hey, are you seeing other people?

572
00:29:29,200 --> 00:29:30,920
Speaker 1: Like I don't know how to date multiple people at

573
00:29:30,960 --> 00:29:32,920
Speaker 1: the same time, so I know I'm not doing that,

574
00:29:33,000 --> 00:29:34,960
Speaker 1: but you don't know if the guy's doing. But on

575
00:29:35,040 --> 00:29:37,000
Speaker 1: the show, it's like, well it's in front of your face,

576
00:29:37,080 --> 00:29:39,040
Speaker 1: like you know, like he's dating other women, so you're

577
00:29:39,080 --> 00:29:40,880
Speaker 1: like you have to be okay with it and I

578
00:29:40,920 --> 00:29:45,000
Speaker 1: think that's what's scary about dating is um, because I

579
00:29:45,120 --> 00:29:47,680
Speaker 1: don't know how to just casually date someone and I

580
00:29:47,800 --> 00:29:50,680
Speaker 1: want to just my husband, and I want to I

581
00:29:50,800 --> 00:29:53,480
Speaker 1: want that so badly and I want to manifest manifest

582
00:29:53,560 --> 00:29:56,480
Speaker 1: that destiny. But I think that's what's scaring me. So

583
00:29:56,680 --> 00:29:59,040
Speaker 1: I'm I'm open. SOD. We were talking about like if

584
00:29:59,080 --> 00:30:01,360
Speaker 1: I'm open to dating out and and all of that.

585
00:30:01,680 --> 00:30:03,960
Speaker 1: We actually had like we had a pretty big heart

586
00:30:04,000 --> 00:30:08,000
Speaker 1: to heart this week. Uh um, So tell me how

587
00:30:08,000 --> 00:30:12,760
Speaker 1: you're feeling. Yeah, I'm I mean, you know, I was thinking,

588
00:30:12,840 --> 00:30:14,320
Speaker 1: like I started crying the other night, and I was

589
00:30:14,400 --> 00:30:16,360
Speaker 1: just thinking about like everything that I went through this year,

590
00:30:16,480 --> 00:30:19,280
Speaker 1: and how like it's sad that, you know, Nick and

591
00:30:19,360 --> 00:30:22,520
Speaker 1: I didn't work out like we really felt like, at

592
00:30:22,560 --> 00:30:24,920
Speaker 1: least for me. I know, I really fell in love

593
00:30:25,000 --> 00:30:27,719
Speaker 1: with him, and we both tried so hard to make

594
00:30:27,760 --> 00:30:31,240
Speaker 1: our relationship work, and you know, you know, we message

595
00:30:31,280 --> 00:30:33,880
Speaker 1: each other like a couple of days ago, um about

596
00:30:33,960 --> 00:30:36,680
Speaker 1: something just randomly. Actually I message him. I saw him

597
00:30:36,800 --> 00:30:40,239
Speaker 1: on a clip of Speechless, which I was so impressed by.

598
00:30:40,560 --> 00:30:43,240
Speaker 1: I was he did that and he did a good job.

599
00:30:43,400 --> 00:30:46,960
Speaker 1: So I'm listening. I am good friends with Nick also,

600
00:30:47,400 --> 00:30:50,920
Speaker 1: and I just say I like him very much, very

601
00:30:51,080 --> 00:30:54,160
Speaker 1: very much. I love Vanessa too, So I get why

602
00:30:54,200 --> 00:30:56,000
Speaker 1: they're both amazing, and I get why this is hard.

603
00:30:56,440 --> 00:30:59,680
Speaker 1: But keep going. Yeah so um so yeah, I had

604
00:30:59,800 --> 00:31:01,360
Speaker 1: messed at him and like, you know, we just we

605
00:31:02,120 --> 00:31:04,000
Speaker 1: like exchanged a few words and stuff, and it's just

606
00:31:04,160 --> 00:31:07,800
Speaker 1: like it sucks, you know, because like when you I mean,

607
00:31:08,240 --> 00:31:10,680
Speaker 1: I really thought this was it for me. I thought,

608
00:31:10,960 --> 00:31:13,520
Speaker 1: you know, I was envisioning like the wedding and like

609
00:31:13,640 --> 00:31:16,320
Speaker 1: having a family together, and like when it gets shattered,

610
00:31:16,440 --> 00:31:18,720
Speaker 1: it's like, oh my god, Like, how how come this

611
00:31:18,800 --> 00:31:21,280
Speaker 1: couldn't have worked out between us? You know, I'm gonna

612
00:31:21,280 --> 00:31:22,560
Speaker 1: go on a limb And I've told you this, so

613
00:31:22,600 --> 00:31:24,240
Speaker 1: I'm not telling you something I haven't said to your face.

614
00:31:24,360 --> 00:31:27,600
Speaker 1: Of all the Bachelor couples. I have this weird feeling

615
00:31:27,600 --> 00:31:29,640
Speaker 1: you're going to get back together. I've said that to

616
00:31:29,720 --> 00:31:32,600
Speaker 1: you a lot of times. I really do. I don't know.

617
00:31:32,760 --> 00:31:34,320
Speaker 1: You don't have to, I don't know. I mean, see,

618
00:31:34,400 --> 00:31:36,239
Speaker 1: I'm the type of person. D I don't know if

619
00:31:36,280 --> 00:31:38,640
Speaker 1: you can relate to this, but I've never been one

620
00:31:39,000 --> 00:31:41,960
Speaker 1: if if a relationship ends, it ends for a reason.

621
00:31:42,200 --> 00:31:44,920
Speaker 1: And I don't like backtracking and going back to something

622
00:31:45,040 --> 00:31:49,560
Speaker 1: that didn't ultimately end up working out. Um regardless, you know,

623
00:31:49,720 --> 00:31:52,000
Speaker 1: like I'm I think the world of him, Like he's

624
00:31:52,000 --> 00:31:53,880
Speaker 1: still like you know, like if he ever needs anything,

625
00:31:53,960 --> 00:31:58,400
Speaker 1: like I'll be there for him. Um, but romantically right now,

626
00:31:58,520 --> 00:32:00,640
Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't. I don't. I don't see

627
00:32:00,720 --> 00:32:02,840
Speaker 1: that just because there are reasons why, like we're just

628
00:32:02,960 --> 00:32:05,360
Speaker 1: not compatible or just very different. And they do say

629
00:32:05,400 --> 00:32:07,160
Speaker 1: opposites attracted, and you know what's both? I mean you

630
00:32:07,200 --> 00:32:11,040
Speaker 1: can vouch for you know how different we are? Very different?

631
00:32:12,400 --> 00:32:15,239
Speaker 1: Um in interesting ways? Do you know what I mean?

632
00:32:15,320 --> 00:32:20,120
Speaker 1: Like it's not simple differences, They're complex differences that you know,

633
00:32:20,240 --> 00:32:23,680
Speaker 1: It's not like you're one religion, he's another. Some of

634
00:32:23,720 --> 00:32:25,920
Speaker 1: these things that people can get through your Republican he's

635
00:32:25,960 --> 00:32:30,400
Speaker 1: a Democrat. These are complicated at your core differences, right.

636
00:32:31,080 --> 00:32:37,120
Speaker 1: And when people have language different exactly, well said Dan Yell.

637
00:32:37,280 --> 00:32:40,800
Speaker 1: What is your love language? Vanessa? Um? All right, can

638
00:32:40,840 --> 00:32:42,400
Speaker 1: you name me all the love languages and then I

639
00:32:42,440 --> 00:32:47,640
Speaker 1: can point them out. Um, there's like, oh yeah, so

640
00:32:47,720 --> 00:32:51,320
Speaker 1: physical touches like I'm a coala bear. I constantly need

641
00:32:51,720 --> 00:32:54,480
Speaker 1: to be like next to someone and cuddling up next

642
00:32:54,520 --> 00:33:01,680
Speaker 1: to someone. So yeah, yeah, so cysical touch, at to service, UM,

643
00:33:02,880 --> 00:33:07,560
Speaker 1: gifts and like words of affimation Yeah right, yeah yeah,

644
00:33:07,640 --> 00:33:08,920
Speaker 1: I think there might even be one more. We have

645
00:33:09,000 --> 00:33:10,880
Speaker 1: to look it up. I am physical touch. And you

646
00:33:10,920 --> 00:33:14,320
Speaker 1: know what's interesting. I need a lot of connection. It

647
00:33:14,440 --> 00:33:18,200
Speaker 1: doesn't have to be a long amount of connection, but

648
00:33:18,320 --> 00:33:21,280
Speaker 1: I have to be connected to you every day. But

649
00:33:21,400 --> 00:33:23,440
Speaker 1: I can't go a week if I'm dating someone. I

650
00:33:23,520 --> 00:33:27,000
Speaker 1: can't go for a bit without talking or texting. Yeah,

651
00:33:27,600 --> 00:33:30,200
Speaker 1: it really has to be and I think that's some

652
00:33:30,320 --> 00:33:32,600
Speaker 1: people are different than that. I need a lot of connection.

653
00:33:32,840 --> 00:33:37,040
Speaker 1: Yeah so do I what about you? UM? Like I

654
00:33:37,840 --> 00:33:39,680
Speaker 1: feel like I'm kind of like a mesh of all

655
00:33:39,760 --> 00:33:41,960
Speaker 1: of them. Like I need like a little bit of everything.

656
00:33:42,200 --> 00:33:44,320
Speaker 1: But like i'd say, like gifts, like I'm not like

657
00:33:44,400 --> 00:33:46,720
Speaker 1: that big I'm gifts like. I'm more like acts of

658
00:33:46,840 --> 00:33:49,640
Speaker 1: service like oh like you wouldn't like you took my

659
00:33:49,760 --> 00:33:52,560
Speaker 1: car and that's all changed and then like a big

660
00:33:52,600 --> 00:33:56,200
Speaker 1: old hug coming home. You know it's that. Yeah, I

661
00:33:56,560 --> 00:33:59,680
Speaker 1: so interesting when I look back to my past relationships. Um,

662
00:34:00,120 --> 00:34:02,360
Speaker 1: I was in this one relationship back home in Montreal

663
00:34:02,560 --> 00:34:05,160
Speaker 1: and he was like we we dated for a couple

664
00:34:05,160 --> 00:34:07,640
Speaker 1: of years and really great guy. And that's one thing

665
00:34:07,720 --> 00:34:09,239
Speaker 1: I have to say, Like, I'm on good terms with

666
00:34:09,360 --> 00:34:11,399
Speaker 1: all of my exes, not that I have that many,

667
00:34:11,480 --> 00:34:13,520
Speaker 1: but I'm on good terms with my exes, which I

668
00:34:13,560 --> 00:34:17,520
Speaker 1: think is really important for you to realize that it's

669
00:34:17,560 --> 00:34:21,759
Speaker 1: important to be able to move on from that relationship

670
00:34:21,880 --> 00:34:25,319
Speaker 1: and not to hold any resentment. Um. And that's something

671
00:34:25,440 --> 00:34:28,480
Speaker 1: that I think, Um, I'm I'm happy that I was

672
00:34:28,560 --> 00:34:31,480
Speaker 1: able to do with all my past relationships. So he

673
00:34:31,760 --> 00:34:35,680
Speaker 1: actually would like we had what we call him Montreal d'epana,

674
00:34:35,920 --> 00:34:38,560
Speaker 1: which is a seven eleven down the street from our place,

675
00:34:38,719 --> 00:34:40,279
Speaker 1: and every time he's like, oh, I'm going down to

676
00:34:40,320 --> 00:34:43,319
Speaker 1: get like we did. Wow, we'll get into that, but yeah,

677
00:34:43,440 --> 00:34:45,840
Speaker 1: we lived together. Um. And so every time like he

678
00:34:45,880 --> 00:34:47,719
Speaker 1: would go down to get like a magazine or something

679
00:34:47,840 --> 00:34:49,560
Speaker 1: at the depth, he'd come back up and like, Oh,

680
00:34:49,640 --> 00:34:51,239
Speaker 1: I saw this kid cat and I thought about you.

681
00:34:51,560 --> 00:34:54,560
Speaker 1: And for me little acts like that, it's it's not

682
00:34:54,680 --> 00:34:57,040
Speaker 1: even like about the kid cat, it's about he thought

683
00:34:57,080 --> 00:34:59,000
Speaker 1: of me in that moment, and that moment is the

684
00:34:59,080 --> 00:35:02,640
Speaker 1: most romantic thing ever. I agree, I totally get that.

685
00:35:03,080 --> 00:35:05,200
Speaker 1: So I want to dig into this because basically what

686
00:35:05,280 --> 00:35:08,560
Speaker 1: I'm learning is you haven't had many relationships, but the

687
00:35:08,640 --> 00:35:12,640
Speaker 1: ones you've had have been quite serious. Yeah. Um, so

688
00:35:12,800 --> 00:35:18,600
Speaker 1: that relationship was my second, well, my first real strong

689
00:35:19,160 --> 00:35:23,840
Speaker 1: like the love of my life. Um. And we ultimately

690
00:35:23,920 --> 00:35:27,200
Speaker 1: wanted different things in life. So that's interesting. Okay. So

691
00:35:27,600 --> 00:35:30,680
Speaker 1: different from maybe you and Nick where you were different. Right,

692
00:35:30,760 --> 00:35:34,400
Speaker 1: in this situation, what you wanted in life was different, right,

693
00:35:34,520 --> 00:35:39,440
Speaker 1: we were so compatible, so compatible, like the like we

694
00:35:39,560 --> 00:35:44,200
Speaker 1: had insane chemistry for two years. Like it was just

695
00:35:45,120 --> 00:35:47,520
Speaker 1: it was like every girl's well, like if you're anything

696
00:35:47,600 --> 00:35:49,880
Speaker 1: like me, like an your girl's dream of like waking up,

697
00:35:49,920 --> 00:35:51,799
Speaker 1: Like he would wake up ten minutes earlier before going

698
00:35:51,840 --> 00:35:53,960
Speaker 1: to Like he would set his alarm clock ten minutes

699
00:35:54,000 --> 00:35:56,000
Speaker 1: before his actual clock so that he can like cut

700
00:35:56,080 --> 00:35:58,560
Speaker 1: only for ten minutes and like kiss me in to

701
00:35:58,640 --> 00:35:59,840
Speaker 1: the point where I would have to He would like

702
00:36:00,000 --> 00:36:02,680
Speaker 1: afvocate me and then like drive to work and then

703
00:36:02,800 --> 00:36:05,160
Speaker 1: call me fifteen minutes later to wake me up so

704
00:36:05,239 --> 00:36:06,480
Speaker 1: then I can go to work, and then I'd be

705
00:36:06,560 --> 00:36:08,200
Speaker 1: on the phone with him until like I would get

706
00:36:08,280 --> 00:36:10,920
Speaker 1: to work. It was just like he was like and

707
00:36:11,080 --> 00:36:13,360
Speaker 1: we were talking about this on Becca's podcast to like

708
00:36:14,000 --> 00:36:15,799
Speaker 1: he was my best friend. I think Brooke was talking

709
00:36:15,840 --> 00:36:18,239
Speaker 1: about like she still likes her husband and they still

710
00:36:18,280 --> 00:36:20,719
Speaker 1: have that connection, Like we really had that, but we

711
00:36:20,840 --> 00:36:25,960
Speaker 1: just wanted different things. Yeah, kids, Yeah that's what I was.

712
00:36:26,120 --> 00:36:27,680
Speaker 1: I knew it was going to be something you want

713
00:36:27,760 --> 00:36:31,560
Speaker 1: them he doesn't, and that becomes one of those things

714
00:36:31,680 --> 00:36:34,400
Speaker 1: that cannot be. That was my non That's like a

715
00:36:34,440 --> 00:36:36,200
Speaker 1: big non negotiable for me. And did you think he

716
00:36:36,239 --> 00:36:39,799
Speaker 1: would change his mind or now? Um, I just feel

717
00:36:39,880 --> 00:36:42,560
Speaker 1: like it's either you know or you don't know. You know.

718
00:36:42,680 --> 00:36:44,160
Speaker 1: And I was at a point in my life where

719
00:36:44,320 --> 00:36:47,280
Speaker 1: I it was we were dating for like two years,

720
00:36:47,680 --> 00:36:51,160
Speaker 1: and it was really tough because he's like, well what

721
00:36:51,320 --> 00:36:53,799
Speaker 1: if I don't what if I want kids? And then

722
00:36:53,840 --> 00:36:55,640
Speaker 1: like you're not going to be the person then I'm

723
00:36:55,640 --> 00:36:57,319
Speaker 1: going to end up with because like we break up

724
00:36:57,360 --> 00:36:58,959
Speaker 1: and I want you to be the mother of my kids.

725
00:36:59,640 --> 00:37:03,080
Speaker 1: So it was hard because like he we were just

726
00:37:03,200 --> 00:37:04,920
Speaker 1: at I think it was timing too, or at two

727
00:37:04,960 --> 00:37:08,120
Speaker 1: different places in our lives. Um, the kid thing is

728
00:37:08,200 --> 00:37:10,719
Speaker 1: tough because and this is very strange for me to

729
00:37:10,760 --> 00:37:16,080
Speaker 1: say because I'm you know, not passive. But I always

730
00:37:16,160 --> 00:37:19,040
Speaker 1: was like if the guy I'm with wants kids, I'll

731
00:37:19,080 --> 00:37:21,640
Speaker 1: figure out to make that work. Do you want kids?

732
00:37:21,880 --> 00:37:24,600
Speaker 1: Not necessarily okay, So for me to be like, that's

733
00:37:24,640 --> 00:37:26,480
Speaker 1: really up to the guy. And now I'm so much

734
00:37:26,560 --> 00:37:29,400
Speaker 1: older that I have it a lot easier because the

735
00:37:29,520 --> 00:37:32,279
Speaker 1: guy has kids, right, so I don't have to worry

736
00:37:32,280 --> 00:37:35,520
Speaker 1: about it. I don't. I am not comfortable I should

737
00:37:35,560 --> 00:37:37,640
Speaker 1: talk to Daniel about this birth thing kids. That just

738
00:37:37,760 --> 00:37:40,120
Speaker 1: sounds like a hard pass for me. So I always

739
00:37:40,160 --> 00:37:43,280
Speaker 1: felt like we would adopt, or we would have a surrogate.

740
00:37:44,160 --> 00:37:47,080
Speaker 1: It would be his but not biologically mine. And I

741
00:37:47,200 --> 00:37:49,480
Speaker 1: was totally cool with all that if he wanted it.

742
00:37:50,120 --> 00:37:51,759
Speaker 1: And now I don't really have to worry about it

743
00:37:51,800 --> 00:37:54,680
Speaker 1: because I'm old now, so that's something that you always

744
00:37:55,080 --> 00:37:57,680
Speaker 1: But I'm totally fine and happy and great if the

745
00:37:57,960 --> 00:38:01,759
Speaker 1: guy has kids. If I since I'm I love kids,

746
00:38:02,080 --> 00:38:04,440
Speaker 1: it was more the birth thing. And then I have

747
00:38:04,680 --> 00:38:06,520
Speaker 1: this complicated thing and I would love to hear what

748
00:38:06,560 --> 00:38:09,840
Speaker 1: you guys have to say. I want to work. I

749
00:38:09,960 --> 00:38:12,719
Speaker 1: get that. So I have this weird thing where it's like,

750
00:38:12,840 --> 00:38:15,040
Speaker 1: but but I'm so obsessed with my nieces that if

751
00:38:15,040 --> 00:38:16,840
Speaker 1: I had kids, I wouldn't want to leave. So I

752
00:38:16,960 --> 00:38:21,560
Speaker 1: have this whole conundrum of that. I get that. Um,

753
00:38:22,040 --> 00:38:25,880
Speaker 1: I mean it's I see how my sister is doing it,

754
00:38:26,200 --> 00:38:28,520
Speaker 1: and so it's very different. Like back home in Montreal,

755
00:38:28,600 --> 00:38:30,160
Speaker 1: you get like or I don't know if it's all

756
00:38:30,200 --> 00:38:32,399
Speaker 1: over Canada, but you get a year off of matt leave,

757
00:38:32,880 --> 00:38:36,080
Speaker 1: which is great because you get like, I know that

758
00:38:36,200 --> 00:38:40,959
Speaker 1: your medical care is amazing. I know, which I find

759
00:38:41,000 --> 00:38:43,960
Speaker 1: it's so crazy, but I see like she's you know,

760
00:38:44,080 --> 00:38:46,480
Speaker 1: she's really dedicated to her work. She's a teacher as well,

761
00:38:47,000 --> 00:38:48,920
Speaker 1: and she goes in like she was excited to go

762
00:38:49,000 --> 00:38:50,359
Speaker 1: back to work, but it was really hard for her

763
00:38:50,400 --> 00:38:54,320
Speaker 1: to leave her kids. Um, but she does. It's I

764
00:38:54,400 --> 00:38:56,799
Speaker 1: think it's really important to find a partner, a life

765
00:38:56,840 --> 00:39:00,239
Speaker 1: partner where they're gonna be able to encourage you to

766
00:39:00,360 --> 00:39:03,320
Speaker 1: pursue your dreams and still like have that family value.

767
00:39:03,480 --> 00:39:07,640
Speaker 1: And her husband is just gold like my sister has.

768
00:39:07,920 --> 00:39:10,480
Speaker 1: My sister is an amazing woman. They have an amazing relationship,

769
00:39:10,840 --> 00:39:13,239
Speaker 1: they have a healthy kid, and they just like they

770
00:39:13,840 --> 00:39:17,080
Speaker 1: found what works for them. Yeah. Yeah, some of my

771
00:39:17,160 --> 00:39:21,759
Speaker 1: mom friends exactly. Some of my mom friends say it's

772
00:39:21,800 --> 00:39:24,480
Speaker 1: really hard because when they are with their kids, they're

773
00:39:24,520 --> 00:39:27,160
Speaker 1: thinking about work. And when they're at work, they're thinking

774
00:39:27,160 --> 00:39:29,960
Speaker 1: about their kids. So there's just this total conflict all

775
00:39:30,000 --> 00:39:34,880
Speaker 1: the time. These are things that we just can't solve

776
00:39:34,920 --> 00:39:43,839
Speaker 1: in an hour podcast. Ben Higgins solve this. Wow, Um,

777
00:39:44,320 --> 00:39:47,799
Speaker 1: I'm fascinated by your guy that you lived with. Oh

778
00:39:47,880 --> 00:39:51,000
Speaker 1: my god, he was pretty amazing. And then there's this

779
00:39:51,200 --> 00:39:54,399
Speaker 1: big oldt in the room that just couldn't be solved. Yeah,

780
00:39:54,680 --> 00:39:57,640
Speaker 1: it's I mean, I believe it's really cliche, but I

781
00:39:57,719 --> 00:40:00,920
Speaker 1: really believe everything happens for a reason. And after that relationship,

782
00:40:00,960 --> 00:40:03,160
Speaker 1: I thought, I'm never going to find another love like that.

783
00:40:03,760 --> 00:40:06,040
Speaker 1: And I did, and I did. I fell in love

784
00:40:06,080 --> 00:40:07,560
Speaker 1: with Nick and I thought, you know, like that was

785
00:40:07,640 --> 00:40:09,800
Speaker 1: a really great experience. It was really eye opening. I

786
00:40:09,920 --> 00:40:12,840
Speaker 1: learned a lot about myself this year, things that I

787
00:40:13,000 --> 00:40:15,040
Speaker 1: know I need to improve on as an individual and

788
00:40:15,160 --> 00:40:17,800
Speaker 1: in a relationship. Um. So I think right now, like

789
00:40:17,880 --> 00:40:20,920
Speaker 1: I'm taking that time to just focus on me and

790
00:40:21,080 --> 00:40:22,960
Speaker 1: growing as a person so I can become a better

791
00:40:23,040 --> 00:40:26,040
Speaker 1: person when I invite someone else into my life. Um,

792
00:40:26,280 --> 00:40:28,120
Speaker 1: the most important thing. And I feel like I just

793
00:40:28,280 --> 00:40:31,440
Speaker 1: looked over so frequently in relationships and I feel like

794
00:40:31,920 --> 00:40:36,959
Speaker 1: I'm the best. Guys want a divorce rates because people

795
00:40:37,000 --> 00:40:40,759
Speaker 1: don't love them solved enough. Right, better to be in

796
00:40:40,760 --> 00:40:43,880
Speaker 1: a relationship with somebody, right. And I think like the

797
00:40:44,000 --> 00:40:47,400
Speaker 1: concept of like I didn't really understand love yourself. I

798
00:40:47,760 --> 00:40:50,960
Speaker 1: knew what that meant, but until I actually understood and

799
00:40:51,080 --> 00:40:55,440
Speaker 1: I actually took the time with myself and for myself,

800
00:40:55,600 --> 00:40:57,520
Speaker 1: and I actually understood what it meant to just like

801
00:40:57,719 --> 00:40:59,239
Speaker 1: love every part of you. And I remember I did

802
00:40:59,280 --> 00:41:01,839
Speaker 1: this interview with some went back home in Montreal. Um,

803
00:41:02,600 --> 00:41:05,239
Speaker 1: she was diagnosed with breast cancer at twenty two years

804
00:41:05,239 --> 00:41:07,480
Speaker 1: old or something crazy, and then she was diagnosed with

805
00:41:07,600 --> 00:41:10,560
Speaker 1: lung cancer. UM. And we're just talking about the concept

806
00:41:10,600 --> 00:41:13,839
Speaker 1: of like loving yourself and at any stage in your life.

807
00:41:13,920 --> 00:41:16,759
Speaker 1: So if you're five pounds heavier, five pounds lighter, if

808
00:41:16,800 --> 00:41:18,800
Speaker 1: you love, if you're if you're at the job that

809
00:41:18,880 --> 00:41:20,920
Speaker 1: you love or at the job that you absolutely hate,

810
00:41:21,160 --> 00:41:23,719
Speaker 1: if you're going through a divorce, whatever state you're in,

811
00:41:24,520 --> 00:41:27,840
Speaker 1: love yourself, because that's it's truly important to just be

812
00:41:27,960 --> 00:41:30,480
Speaker 1: able to present in it. I think there is something

813
00:41:30,560 --> 00:41:33,840
Speaker 1: to uh, you have to be happy in order to

814
00:41:33,960 --> 00:41:37,320
Speaker 1: be with someone else because you can't bring in your junk,

815
00:41:37,719 --> 00:41:41,480
Speaker 1: because they can't fix your junk and you can't fixers,

816
00:41:42,239 --> 00:41:45,520
Speaker 1: and um, yeah, I think that was hard to realize.

817
00:41:45,560 --> 00:41:47,640
Speaker 1: I also will say, because you guys have Danielle hold

818
00:41:47,680 --> 00:41:51,120
Speaker 1: are you. Oh, you guys are like both in your

819
00:41:52,080 --> 00:41:56,920
Speaker 1: So I literally remember Jennifer like my goddess Jennifer Anis

820
00:41:57,040 --> 00:41:59,600
Speaker 1: and saying this, and she was like the forties she

821
00:41:59,760 --> 00:42:02,360
Speaker 1: really is, Like he's like Oprah and Anniston. I'm like,

822
00:42:02,520 --> 00:42:05,120
Speaker 1: I love them. I kind of love Kate Hudson too,

823
00:42:05,160 --> 00:42:08,320
Speaker 1: but we can talk about that later. So Jennifer Aniston

824
00:42:08,400 --> 00:42:11,080
Speaker 1: said something about the forties being amazing, and I kind

825
00:42:11,080 --> 00:42:13,280
Speaker 1: of remember rolling my eyes because I think I'm probably

826
00:42:13,320 --> 00:42:16,440
Speaker 1: seven years younger than her, and I was like, whatever, Anniston,

827
00:42:17,360 --> 00:42:22,960
Speaker 1: she could not have been more spot on right, like everything, Yeah,

828
00:42:23,320 --> 00:42:26,239
Speaker 1: I feel I mean, I'm loving my just get that

829
00:42:26,440 --> 00:42:28,399
Speaker 1: at the thirties, you're coming out of all that junk

830
00:42:28,480 --> 00:42:30,960
Speaker 1: from the twenties. Yes. And you know, my friend was

831
00:42:31,000 --> 00:42:32,360
Speaker 1: saying this when I was turning thirty. I was like,

832
00:42:32,400 --> 00:42:34,040
Speaker 1: oh my god, I'm turning thirty. I thought, you know,

833
00:42:34,080 --> 00:42:36,279
Speaker 1: when you're younger, you have all these timelines like I

834
00:42:36,320 --> 00:42:39,040
Speaker 1: will be married my first kid by thirty, and I'm like,

835
00:42:39,080 --> 00:42:41,239
Speaker 1: oh my god, I just ended an engagement. I never

836
00:42:41,360 --> 00:42:44,040
Speaker 1: thought that was ever going to happen to me. Um,

837
00:42:44,239 --> 00:42:45,799
Speaker 1: but I remember my friends saying, you know what, look

838
00:42:45,840 --> 00:42:50,000
Speaker 1: at it as you're ending your the twenties, your your decade.

839
00:42:50,040 --> 00:42:52,439
Speaker 1: You're starting a new decade now, so you're starting fresh.

840
00:42:52,520 --> 00:42:54,360
Speaker 1: And I'm like, oh my god, that's so true. You know,

841
00:42:54,480 --> 00:42:59,640
Speaker 1: like I'm starting fresh and goods happy as happy, and

842
00:42:59,680 --> 00:43:02,879
Speaker 1: you don't to be like unicorns and rainbows. If you're

843
00:43:02,920 --> 00:43:06,840
Speaker 1: just sort of at peace happy, all of a sudden

844
00:43:06,920 --> 00:43:10,879
Speaker 1: you just go, oh my god, that happened, because that's

845
00:43:10,920 --> 00:43:13,160
Speaker 1: like things like that happened to me now, and I'm

846
00:43:13,200 --> 00:43:16,160
Speaker 1: just like wow, And you can go to the dark place.

847
00:43:16,239 --> 00:43:19,239
Speaker 1: But I try to be positive and I do think

848
00:43:19,320 --> 00:43:22,719
Speaker 1: like I think positive. We all have that, especially us

849
00:43:22,800 --> 00:43:26,160
Speaker 1: girls have that where we go is he gonna like me?

850
00:43:26,239 --> 00:43:28,839
Speaker 1: Does he like me? Is gonna call me? And if

851
00:43:28,880 --> 00:43:33,080
Speaker 1: you kind of just stay in the yes in the

852
00:43:33,239 --> 00:43:36,719
Speaker 1: light works, it's hard to do that. Yes, you have

853
00:43:36,800 --> 00:43:41,000
Speaker 1: to be determined about it. Yeah yeah, Wait, let's not

854
00:43:41,120 --> 00:43:43,359
Speaker 1: let Danielle off the hook. I was just gonna say,

855
00:43:44,080 --> 00:43:50,960
Speaker 1: d your dating life, I mean, I know about it. Wait,

856
00:43:51,040 --> 00:43:55,200
Speaker 1: tell tell me about it. So it's like I feel

857
00:43:55,239 --> 00:43:58,400
Speaker 1: like National Fold with like a bunch of Peter pants,

858
00:43:58,520 --> 00:44:01,000
Speaker 1: you know, like everyone comes here, like you can't fall

859
00:44:01,120 --> 00:44:04,800
Speaker 1: over with all knocking down, like twelve musicians. So Bashl's

860
00:44:04,840 --> 00:44:07,600
Speaker 1: oversaturated with musicians and like best who like you end

861
00:44:07,680 --> 00:44:10,920
Speaker 1: up dating and it's like they're just it's it's not

862
00:44:11,040 --> 00:44:14,560
Speaker 1: good date musician. Well, you know, here's what I will

863
00:44:14,600 --> 00:44:18,480
Speaker 1: say too, because you're not dating Tim McGraw, who's made it.

864
00:44:18,840 --> 00:44:21,600
Speaker 1: You're dating a musician who's struggling. And I think that

865
00:44:21,960 --> 00:44:27,480
Speaker 1: can be real. M. Yeah, it's hard to date someone

866
00:44:27,600 --> 00:44:30,319
Speaker 1: that isn't comfortable with where they are in their life

867
00:44:30,440 --> 00:44:34,000
Speaker 1: or are struggling to get to that next point. Yes,

868
00:44:34,120 --> 00:44:37,960
Speaker 1: and they're in like going back to like like being happy,

869
00:44:38,040 --> 00:44:40,640
Speaker 1: like with yourselves. It's hard to like if you're happy

870
00:44:40,719 --> 00:44:43,479
Speaker 1: with yourself, it's hard to date someone that isn't happy

871
00:44:43,560 --> 00:44:47,520
Speaker 1: with themselves right, or just working to accomplish a dream.

872
00:44:47,600 --> 00:44:50,400
Speaker 1: And the thing about musicians, you can be an amazing

873
00:44:50,520 --> 00:44:54,120
Speaker 1: musician and never make it because it's so much and

874
00:44:54,160 --> 00:44:58,080
Speaker 1: so you're dealing with that too. Yeah, I feel bad

875
00:44:58,120 --> 00:45:00,320
Speaker 1: like some of my friends and musicians. I'm sorry, Funny

876
00:45:00,320 --> 00:45:03,520
Speaker 1: of the World. No, I mean, musicians are great. But

877
00:45:03,640 --> 00:45:05,480
Speaker 1: they're that stuff and then they're going to be on

878
00:45:05,520 --> 00:45:09,080
Speaker 1: the road all the time. I do I feel like

879
00:45:09,080 --> 00:45:11,000
Speaker 1: you're going to end up with like someone at work.

880
00:45:11,160 --> 00:45:15,799
Speaker 1: There wasn't an I would make my dad so happy

881
00:45:15,840 --> 00:45:20,480
Speaker 1: because that's all he ever said, there's no cute doctors

882
00:45:20,560 --> 00:45:25,040
Speaker 1: at your hospital. We were actually so we went for uh,

883
00:45:25,360 --> 00:45:29,239
Speaker 1: we volunteered for the Ryan Seacrest Foundation in Nashville. UM

884
00:45:29,480 --> 00:45:33,640
Speaker 1: and it was actually at the hospital that Danielle works at. Yeah, yeah,

885
00:45:33,920 --> 00:45:36,680
Speaker 1: so we it was so much fun. And then we

886
00:45:36,840 --> 00:45:40,760
Speaker 1: met this man what was his name, d from Best Buddies,

887
00:45:41,360 --> 00:45:45,520
Speaker 1: Mike Mike, Mike from Best Buddies. Um, he's forty I

888
00:45:45,560 --> 00:45:48,799
Speaker 1: think he's like forty seven. And so we actually got

889
00:45:48,880 --> 00:45:52,319
Speaker 1: invited to their prom um. So we're heading I'm heading

890
00:45:52,320 --> 00:45:54,600
Speaker 1: back to Nashville and in February we're going to be

891
00:45:54,960 --> 00:45:58,240
Speaker 1: um prom dates for the bed. There's not a cute

892
00:45:58,560 --> 00:46:02,560
Speaker 1: doctor anywhere in the hospital. There has to be you

893
00:46:02,600 --> 00:46:05,040
Speaker 1: know what they're probably taking. But there's lots of like yeah,

894
00:46:05,120 --> 00:46:07,720
Speaker 1: that's the thing. Like there's lots of like very handsome,

895
00:46:07,920 --> 00:46:11,000
Speaker 1: like very like kind good side man. Bedside man are

896
00:46:11,080 --> 00:46:13,680
Speaker 1: like duck. But they all got like maped up in

897
00:46:13,760 --> 00:46:20,040
Speaker 1: med school. Yeah, but trust fate it ad. Yeah, everything

898
00:46:20,160 --> 00:46:24,120
Speaker 1: happens for a reason. Oh, I know. I fully believe

899
00:46:24,200 --> 00:46:28,960
Speaker 1: in that every person I've met and like dated or um,

900
00:46:29,320 --> 00:46:31,719
Speaker 1: like every experience has led me to this point of

901
00:46:31,800 --> 00:46:33,640
Speaker 1: where I am in my life. And it's like I

902
00:46:33,840 --> 00:46:36,600
Speaker 1: feel like I personally have finally reached that this point

903
00:46:36,680 --> 00:46:40,919
Speaker 1: of like peaceful like contentment, like I love my life,

904
00:46:41,400 --> 00:46:45,920
Speaker 1: I love everybody in it, and like I don't know,

905
00:46:46,120 --> 00:46:49,160
Speaker 1: I feel I feel like I feel big love coming. Yeah,

906
00:46:49,440 --> 00:46:52,600
Speaker 1: that's it. They just show up. That's why I feel

907
00:46:52,640 --> 00:46:56,279
Speaker 1: bad for y'all with these apps and stuff. You know that.

908
00:46:56,400 --> 00:47:00,359
Speaker 1: I'm like, so, I'm terrified. I'm not on any app.

909
00:47:00,400 --> 00:47:03,680
Speaker 1: I've never been on any app, but I'm terrified like

910
00:47:03,719 --> 00:47:09,560
Speaker 1: because I'm like, well, I'm not meeting anyone. Sorry, but overwhelming, Yeah,

911
00:47:09,920 --> 00:47:12,759
Speaker 1: too much all at once, like in your face. Yeah,

912
00:47:13,880 --> 00:47:15,080
Speaker 1: I don't want to call you out, but are you

913
00:47:15,160 --> 00:47:18,680
Speaker 1: on a dating app? No? No? But before the show,

914
00:47:18,760 --> 00:47:20,680
Speaker 1: like I tried out like a bumble and stuff and

915
00:47:20,760 --> 00:47:22,400
Speaker 1: like that was the extent of it, and I was like, no,

916
00:47:22,560 --> 00:47:25,520
Speaker 1: there's a guard, guys. There's too many conversations. And then

917
00:47:25,560 --> 00:47:31,120
Speaker 1: I thought, like just getting very um, serious, No, not serious,

918
00:47:31,160 --> 00:47:36,600
Speaker 1: but I was like superficial, right right right? You don't

919
00:47:36,600 --> 00:47:41,239
Speaker 1: know you've got a guitar? Oh right right? But I

920
00:47:41,280 --> 00:47:43,880
Speaker 1: mean you hear so many of these like love stories

921
00:47:44,040 --> 00:47:46,239
Speaker 1: of people that met through these dating apps, Like I

922
00:47:46,320 --> 00:47:49,759
Speaker 1: have a friend at work just got married. My friend

923
00:47:49,840 --> 00:47:52,200
Speaker 1: just got married and she has a kid now, and

924
00:47:52,320 --> 00:47:55,840
Speaker 1: she met him on Tinder. Yeah, so she's like you

925
00:47:55,880 --> 00:47:57,720
Speaker 1: should I'm like, I don't know. I mean, like Bahula

926
00:47:57,760 --> 00:47:59,839
Speaker 1: didn't work out for me. I don't know if after

927
00:48:00,040 --> 00:48:02,720
Speaker 1: kind from who you are, I'm not sure for Vanessa

928
00:48:02,800 --> 00:48:09,000
Speaker 1: that it's going to work for you. You're complicated. How

929
00:48:09,040 --> 00:48:11,920
Speaker 1: am I complicated? This is what I think on you.

930
00:48:12,760 --> 00:48:15,800
Speaker 1: There's a lot going on in my head. Yeah, Like

931
00:48:15,960 --> 00:48:19,799
Speaker 1: you're deep and I'll analyze Danielle once I know better,

932
00:48:20,239 --> 00:48:24,040
Speaker 1: But for you, it's like you're not surface, You're deep

933
00:48:24,440 --> 00:48:28,600
Speaker 1: and you and you're driven, and you're you're a ball

934
00:48:28,680 --> 00:48:30,400
Speaker 1: or chick, do you know what I mean? I like

935
00:48:30,520 --> 00:48:33,920
Speaker 1: that terminology. So it's like for you, that's why I

936
00:48:34,000 --> 00:48:36,759
Speaker 1: think it might not work as well, because I don't

937
00:48:36,800 --> 00:48:39,200
Speaker 1: know that you have the patience or the sort of

938
00:48:39,600 --> 00:48:42,520
Speaker 1: I don't know that your dudes out on that right,

939
00:48:42,640 --> 00:48:44,600
Speaker 1: because he's got to be smart, he's gotta be quick,

940
00:48:44,640 --> 00:48:46,759
Speaker 1: he's gotta up, he's kind of this, he's got that

941
00:48:46,920 --> 00:48:50,719
Speaker 1: with you. Yeah, I mean right, weren't you and I

942
00:48:50,719 --> 00:48:55,680
Speaker 1: are not soft girls in the corner? No, which is fine.

943
00:48:55,800 --> 00:48:58,839
Speaker 1: We just have to you know, they show up. Oh yeah,

944
00:48:58,960 --> 00:49:00,839
Speaker 1: I mean you know what I say this, there's someone

945
00:49:00,960 --> 00:49:03,640
Speaker 1: for everyone. And you know, I don't believe in like

946
00:49:03,840 --> 00:49:07,279
Speaker 1: there's only one love out there or there's one person

947
00:49:07,360 --> 00:49:08,640
Speaker 1: that you're meant to be with. I think you're meant

948
00:49:08,640 --> 00:49:11,080
Speaker 1: to be with multiple people, depending on which path you

949
00:49:11,200 --> 00:49:13,640
Speaker 1: end up taking in your life. So I think the

950
00:49:13,760 --> 00:49:15,839
Speaker 1: best sign for you, Vanessa and Danielle, I don't want

951
00:49:15,880 --> 00:49:17,840
Speaker 1: to forget you, but we'll have to do another episode

952
00:49:18,320 --> 00:49:22,560
Speaker 1: is that you've had these very serious relationships. So merit

953
00:49:22,600 --> 00:49:26,040
Speaker 1: to Seacrest Ryan seacrest sister. She gave me some of

954
00:49:26,080 --> 00:49:27,680
Speaker 1: the best advice, and I wish we had her on

955
00:49:27,719 --> 00:49:32,120
Speaker 1: the phone. She was dating her now husband and they

956
00:49:32,160 --> 00:49:34,160
Speaker 1: were like maybe almost about to be engaged, and I

957
00:49:34,320 --> 00:49:36,840
Speaker 1: was like, do you ever just like get insecure or

958
00:49:36,920 --> 00:49:40,200
Speaker 1: worried or this or that? And she was like, he's

959
00:49:40,280 --> 00:49:43,320
Speaker 1: so amazing and I love him so much, and we

960
00:49:43,400 --> 00:49:45,680
Speaker 1: get along so well that if he is not the

961
00:49:45,760 --> 00:49:50,279
Speaker 1: one for me and there is conceivably someone better, that

962
00:49:50,480 --> 00:49:53,560
Speaker 1: blows my mind. So I'm fully confident in it. And

963
00:49:53,640 --> 00:49:56,720
Speaker 1: I was like, oh my god, what she was saying

964
00:49:57,200 --> 00:50:00,360
Speaker 1: made so much sense. And she wasn't just saying it,

965
00:50:00,760 --> 00:50:06,160
Speaker 1: she believed it and that's why she married him. That's amazing.

966
00:50:06,239 --> 00:50:08,719
Speaker 1: That yeah, Actually that I try to say it to

967
00:50:08,800 --> 00:50:12,799
Speaker 1: myself all the time. It gives you that security, it does,

968
00:50:12,840 --> 00:50:15,360
Speaker 1: and then it doesn't make you be in a relationship

969
00:50:15,560 --> 00:50:18,120
Speaker 1: that ultimately you shouldn't be in, because I think it's

970
00:50:18,160 --> 00:50:21,120
Speaker 1: easy sometimes to just be right and just to be

971
00:50:21,280 --> 00:50:24,600
Speaker 1: comfortable and like okay, well, you know, like dating sucks,

972
00:50:25,239 --> 00:50:27,840
Speaker 1: so you know, you don't want to like have to

973
00:50:27,920 --> 00:50:29,920
Speaker 1: go around and see like, oh is this guy like

974
00:50:30,760 --> 00:50:33,560
Speaker 1: and and having to like interview it's kind of like auditioning, right,

975
00:50:33,680 --> 00:50:35,799
Speaker 1: like to see like who you're going to And it's

976
00:50:35,840 --> 00:50:39,359
Speaker 1: a crazy yeah, And it's a crazy concept to think

977
00:50:40,360 --> 00:50:42,839
Speaker 1: you're gonna be with someone for the rest of your life,

978
00:50:42,920 --> 00:50:45,080
Speaker 1: Like you want to make sure that they're not only

979
00:50:45,200 --> 00:50:48,120
Speaker 1: a great husband, but a great father. You know, you

980
00:50:48,200 --> 00:50:50,440
Speaker 1: have a great support system. If I mean, like my

981
00:50:50,600 --> 00:50:53,480
Speaker 1: parents were divorced um. So they got divorced when I

982
00:50:53,560 --> 00:50:55,720
Speaker 1: was eighteen years old, and I did not see it coming.

983
00:50:56,000 --> 00:51:00,040
Speaker 1: That's a very common time for marriages really when the

984
00:51:00,120 --> 00:51:02,399
Speaker 1: kids are going, all right, yeah, and I think it's

985
00:51:02,440 --> 00:51:04,080
Speaker 1: I mean, for me, it was really hard because I

986
00:51:04,200 --> 00:51:07,640
Speaker 1: was when you're younger, like you don't understand what's going on,

987
00:51:07,880 --> 00:51:10,279
Speaker 1: but as when you're older, you're more implicated in in

988
00:51:10,400 --> 00:51:13,239
Speaker 1: the process of things. So I was really affected by it,

989
00:51:13,440 --> 00:51:16,759
Speaker 1: and I remember telling myself like, I don't ever want

990
00:51:16,800 --> 00:51:18,400
Speaker 1: to end up in that position, you know, And I

991
00:51:18,440 --> 00:51:20,600
Speaker 1: think that's why, Like when our engagement ended, it was

992
00:51:20,680 --> 00:51:22,960
Speaker 1: really tough for me because I'm like, I felt like

993
00:51:23,239 --> 00:51:26,840
Speaker 1: I failed, But what about now now you're okay. So

994
00:51:27,040 --> 00:51:28,800
Speaker 1: my thing is for people out there, like if you

995
00:51:28,880 --> 00:51:32,600
Speaker 1: get divorced, yeah, that's okay, it's okay. It's it's definitely okay.

996
00:51:32,840 --> 00:51:35,000
Speaker 1: And I think, like one thing I really appreciated about

997
00:51:35,000 --> 00:51:37,480
Speaker 1: my relationship with Nick is we were not going to

998
00:51:37,640 --> 00:51:40,880
Speaker 1: pretend as if like, oh, it's rainbows and butterflies and

999
00:51:41,040 --> 00:51:45,240
Speaker 1: unicorns and popcorn and all that fun stuff. It was tough.

1000
00:51:45,480 --> 00:51:48,000
Speaker 1: It was hard, and I actually never looked back on

1001
00:51:48,080 --> 00:51:50,400
Speaker 1: our after the final rows where people were like it

1002
00:51:50,480 --> 00:51:51,960
Speaker 1: was so awkward, and I was like, oh was it

1003
00:51:52,080 --> 00:51:53,840
Speaker 1: I don't know, Like I was just we were just

1004
00:51:53,920 --> 00:51:58,520
Speaker 1: being real real, right, yeah, right, bunnies and rainbows, and

1005
00:51:58,600 --> 00:52:01,200
Speaker 1: it was. It was tough, you know. It was especially

1006
00:52:01,280 --> 00:52:04,320
Speaker 1: like having a relationship right outside of coming out of

1007
00:52:04,360 --> 00:52:07,399
Speaker 1: the show. Um, so that's one thing I really appreciate show.

1008
00:52:07,960 --> 00:52:10,480
Speaker 1: That's a little another episode. How much that adds to

1009
00:52:10,560 --> 00:52:15,120
Speaker 1: the challenges the relationship and being in the public eye. Wait, Danielle,

1010
00:52:15,160 --> 00:52:16,319
Speaker 1: we have to go. But when are you gonna come

1011
00:52:16,360 --> 00:52:22,040
Speaker 1: visit us? I mean whenever? I want later soon. Why

1012
00:52:23,520 --> 00:52:26,560
Speaker 1: you gotta come up to Canada. No, you gotta come here,

1013
00:52:26,680 --> 00:52:30,000
Speaker 1: s vanessas days here in January. We all need to

1014
00:52:30,040 --> 00:52:34,600
Speaker 1: do something fun. I'll be back in January. Good fun concert.

1015
00:52:34,640 --> 00:52:38,279
Speaker 1: I'll email you so another one. Okay. I know Amy

1016
00:52:38,280 --> 00:52:40,200
Speaker 1: always sends me like these texts. I'm like so much

1017
00:52:40,200 --> 00:52:43,480
Speaker 1: because it's a good excuse to come out. It's really fun.

1018
00:52:43,520 --> 00:52:49,160
Speaker 1: I'll text you and do you can stay with me? Exactly? Cuddles. Wait, Danielle,

1019
00:52:49,200 --> 00:52:53,480
Speaker 1: you rock, Talk to you soon. Love you. I'll call

1020
00:52:53,520 --> 00:52:57,919
Speaker 1: you later, okay, love you bye, love you by. She's great.

1021
00:52:57,960 --> 00:53:01,239
Speaker 1: So now we're gonna call Kala. Yeah, so this is

1022
00:53:01,280 --> 00:53:06,400
Speaker 1: here's a little baground. Vanessa is from Canada. Yeah, Canadian Bachelor.

1023
00:53:06,480 --> 00:53:08,439
Speaker 1: Is it called that? What's it called? Yeah, it's called

1024
00:53:08,480 --> 00:53:11,880
Speaker 1: Bachelor Canada, Bachelor Canada. And this girl is in the finals.

1025
00:53:12,040 --> 00:53:15,680
Speaker 1: She's in the finals, so yeah, so I think right

1026
00:53:15,719 --> 00:53:18,520
Speaker 1: now they're down to the final two. She's hilarious. I

1027
00:53:18,600 --> 00:53:21,000
Speaker 1: love the last two ladies that are UM, that are

1028
00:53:21,080 --> 00:53:24,640
Speaker 1: on UM and I find it's such a compelling show,

1029
00:53:24,800 --> 00:53:26,960
Speaker 1: Like there's a lot that happens. There's a lot of romance,

1030
00:53:27,000 --> 00:53:29,120
Speaker 1: which I love. Um, I want to find out the

1031
00:53:29,120 --> 00:53:31,120
Speaker 1: differences between we were going to talk about that. I

1032
00:53:31,200 --> 00:53:32,520
Speaker 1: was messaging her, I'm like, what do you guys want?

1033
00:53:32,520 --> 00:53:33,960
Speaker 1: What do you want to talk about? So do you

1034
00:53:34,120 --> 00:53:36,279
Speaker 1: watch it when you're home because we can't, we can't,

1035
00:53:36,360 --> 00:53:39,520
Speaker 1: we can't get it here. Yeah, so I watched. I

1036
00:53:39,640 --> 00:53:43,160
Speaker 1: was on Bachelor Canada after show. Caitlin was on. I

1037
00:53:43,280 --> 00:53:46,160
Speaker 1: was on with Evan and Carly. Um. They're so cute,

1038
00:53:46,200 --> 00:53:49,960
Speaker 1: they really, they are so nice. I was at this

1039
00:53:50,480 --> 00:53:53,440
Speaker 1: very cool there. Yeah. And something that you would need

1040
00:53:53,480 --> 00:53:57,240
Speaker 1: for Bachelor Canada as well as the holidays, bio clarity,

1041
00:53:57,400 --> 00:54:01,800
Speaker 1: because having good skin really is so important, especially around

1042
00:54:01,800 --> 00:54:03,839
Speaker 1: now because you're taking all these photographs and you're gonna

1043
00:54:03,880 --> 00:54:07,080
Speaker 1: go out for New Year's Eve and the dreaded Valentine's

1044
00:54:07,160 --> 00:54:09,960
Speaker 1: Days coming, so you want to look hot. So bio clarity.

1045
00:54:09,960 --> 00:54:11,840
Speaker 1: You've heard Ashley and Ben talk about it and it

1046
00:54:11,920 --> 00:54:13,920
Speaker 1: really does work. You've heard our listeners email in and

1047
00:54:14,040 --> 00:54:17,640
Speaker 1: say they're having so much success with it. It's delivered

1048
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Speaker 1: Amy and I is Ben Higgins and Ashley podcast that

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Speaker 1: Vanessa and I have taken over because they are at

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Speaker 1: a secret location. Oh wait, I love that we're going

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Speaker 1: to learn about Bachelor Canada. Yes, I'm so excited. Now

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Speaker 1: can you watch our Bachelor in Canada? Oh? I watched

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Speaker 1: every season starting with who, starting with which one? Starting

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Speaker 1: with Tristan Right, No, you go back like, oh my god,

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Speaker 1: you know what's legit? You're how old are you? How

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Speaker 1: can you be that old? I'm old? Now you're younger

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Speaker 1: than me. You're kidding. I'm not old than a baby

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Speaker 1: when you start? But were you like ten years old? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: I was just a little little chubby Jean. Wait, okay,

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Speaker 1: so let's get the Canada opinion. Who do you think

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00:56:45,040 --> 00:56:49,040
Speaker 1: was the best Bachelor of all time? The best Bachelor? Like,

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Speaker 1: there's so many different criteria that I could use to choose,

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Speaker 1: but like Chris souls all the way souls see, I

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00:56:55,280 --> 00:57:03,320
Speaker 1: still say Andrew Firestone, Oh he was good, he was problem,

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Speaker 1: so I don't always remember. Wait, so tell us, um,

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Speaker 1: what you find the differences are between the Canadian Bachelor

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00:57:10,760 --> 00:57:14,720
Speaker 1: and our Bachelor. Not the person, but the show in general.

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00:57:15,840 --> 00:57:19,280
Speaker 1: The show in general, well not just not just speak

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Speaker 1: on anything negatory, but I think obviously the budget there's

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Speaker 1: a difference than budgets, So I think, I mean, have

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Speaker 1: you got a bigger budget in the US? Canada a

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Speaker 1: little bit lower budget, So I think that there's a

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Speaker 1: lot more travel that goes on in the US. Which

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Speaker 1: I think is awesome, But I just feel like the

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Speaker 1: Canadian one also is focusing a lot more on the

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00:57:41,480 --> 00:57:45,120
Speaker 1: love story, which I love the drama. I love that really,

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Speaker 1: But MICHAELA, I will say this, although you travel like

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Speaker 1: you know, we traveled to um Feminy and Finland and

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Speaker 1: New Orleans, we didn't get to see that much because

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Speaker 1: we weren't allowed to be out in public, so people

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Speaker 1: couldn't That's true. Yeah, people can't cant John that we're

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00:58:00,680 --> 00:58:03,960
Speaker 1: filming the show, but you can't get it. And like

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Speaker 1: an ocean is an ocean, you know. So I mean

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Speaker 1: we went to beautiful places. I'm happy when we ended

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Speaker 1: up in Finland because like, I would never travel freezing

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00:58:13,880 --> 00:58:17,080
Speaker 1: it was. It was, yes, yes it was. It was snowing.

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00:58:17,120 --> 00:58:18,720
Speaker 1: I was. I had to go on the cold plunge

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00:58:18,960 --> 00:58:22,080
Speaker 1: and the like, uh you went off in some sleigh

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00:58:22,160 --> 00:58:25,360
Speaker 1: and then it just oh guys, so what they what?

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00:58:25,480 --> 00:58:28,760
Speaker 1: They did not show? After Nick and I got engaged,

1118
00:58:29,040 --> 00:58:30,720
Speaker 1: I had my ring on my finger. First of all,

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00:58:30,800 --> 00:58:32,640
Speaker 1: I was like, oh my god, babe, I've always round

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Speaker 1: I've always wanted a Christian cut diamond. And he's like,

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Speaker 1: it's a round cut. I'm like I obviously don't know

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Speaker 1: anything about diamonds. So then the sled takes off and um,

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Speaker 1: I'm so sad they don't have this on camera. Literally,

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00:58:44,080 --> 00:58:47,720
Speaker 1: the sled completely tips over and like we fall on

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Speaker 1: top of each other and the sleds on top of us.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, oh my god, this is just I think

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00:58:51,800 --> 00:58:54,080
Speaker 1: Chris Harrison told me the story that like, off y'all went,

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Speaker 1: and then they were like, where're they go? And we

1129
00:58:58,240 --> 00:59:02,680
Speaker 1: tipped over and fell over? Um, oh that's it. Tell

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Speaker 1: us some more, tell us, some more, ask some more questions. Okay,

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00:59:05,800 --> 00:59:09,080
Speaker 1: so MICHAELA, yes, how many guys? How many girls did

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Speaker 1: you guys start with on christ season? So that's another

1133
00:59:12,400 --> 00:59:15,240
Speaker 1: huge difference. We only started with twenty women, and five

1134
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Speaker 1: women were cut the first night, so when we went

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Speaker 1: to our first location, we were only fifteen girls. You

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00:59:19,640 --> 00:59:21,760
Speaker 1: guys were girls. Why you really get to know a

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Speaker 1: lot of the girls really quickly because it's such a

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Speaker 1: small group. If we started with thirty this year, yeah,

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00:59:27,320 --> 00:59:29,400
Speaker 1: we started with thirty. We started with thirty. We I

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Speaker 1: wanted to ask you, so we stayed in the mansion

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Speaker 1: for like, I can't say how long, but did you guys?

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Speaker 1: It seemed as if you guys went from like night

1143
00:59:36,520 --> 00:59:40,320
Speaker 1: one to directly to your first location. Um, yeah, No,

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Speaker 1: we did one night in Toronto and then the next

1145
00:59:42,480 --> 00:59:44,920
Speaker 1: day we were straight off to Costa Rica. So we

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Speaker 1: only had one night in Canada before we started jet setting,

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00:59:47,320 --> 00:59:49,760
Speaker 1: which was cool. Okay, so give us a little bit

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Speaker 1: of um gossip because you know we can't watch the

1149
00:59:53,600 --> 00:59:55,560
Speaker 1: show out here. So what's been happening on the show?

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Speaker 1: You guys are the final two. It's you and Lindsay. Yeah,

1151
00:59:58,880 --> 01:00:01,040
Speaker 1: so we're down to two. Lindsay and I. I mean,

1152
01:00:01,520 --> 01:00:04,440
Speaker 1: Lindsey's a great girl. I have nothing bad to say

1153
01:00:04,480 --> 01:00:06,680
Speaker 1: about her. But I think what you're going to see

1154
01:00:06,760 --> 01:00:09,480
Speaker 1: in the next couple of weeks is something that you

1155
01:00:09,720 --> 01:00:14,320
Speaker 1: may not expect. Living together with everybody was a real

1156
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Speaker 1: trip because especially Costa Rica, there was fifteen of us

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Speaker 1: living in one big house and that was, you know,

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01:00:21,680 --> 01:00:24,400
Speaker 1: the first time I've ever been in that sorority type

1159
01:00:24,440 --> 01:00:26,440
Speaker 1: of situation. It was a little bit intimidating. And I

1160
01:00:26,560 --> 01:00:28,640
Speaker 1: know that if you did watch the show, you would

1161
01:00:28,640 --> 01:00:31,520
Speaker 1: have been pointed the psychos right away, like Sean Key

1162
01:00:31,600 --> 01:00:35,000
Speaker 1: and Brittany m Um. But that's actually another difference between

1163
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Speaker 1: the two that two shows, American and Canadians. They let

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Speaker 1: the Craziest Girl go week too, and I think that

1165
01:00:39,880 --> 01:00:41,960
Speaker 1: everybody was really shocked by that because she would have

1166
01:00:42,040 --> 01:00:45,840
Speaker 1: made incredible television and she was just So now does

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Speaker 1: the guy propose? Is that a big thing? Like getting

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01:00:48,960 --> 01:00:52,480
Speaker 1: engaged like it is here? Well? I think, I mean,

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Speaker 1: that's that's the premise of the show, right, So you

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Speaker 1: would hope that the bachelor coming into the show would

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01:00:57,160 --> 01:01:00,600
Speaker 1: be ready to get engaged. But I think also coming

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01:01:00,600 --> 01:01:03,160
Speaker 1: into the show, especially if you know you're like Chris

1173
01:01:03,280 --> 01:01:08,600
Speaker 1: and you haven't watched the show ever, I think, yes, story,

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01:01:08,720 --> 01:01:12,320
Speaker 1: yesel and I find like him and Nick kind of

1175
01:01:12,400 --> 01:01:14,280
Speaker 1: resemble each other. I was going to ask that if

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Speaker 1: they're both very handsome, if you could compare him to

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Speaker 1: an American bachelor, who is it physically? Well, I mean

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Speaker 1: not physically, but I can compare Chris to an American bachelor,

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01:01:25,800 --> 01:01:28,880
Speaker 1: would have to be Nick physically. But um, in terms

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Speaker 1: of the personality, Oh man, that's a tough one. I

1181
01:01:34,280 --> 01:01:41,320
Speaker 1: would say, oh, because oh, it's a hard watch. Has

1182
01:01:41,360 --> 01:01:44,280
Speaker 1: different characteristics of different people. But wait, I mean he

1183
01:01:44,320 --> 01:01:46,720
Speaker 1: does have a really gentle heart, but he's also kind

1184
01:01:46,800 --> 01:01:50,760
Speaker 1: of unsure about a lot of things. Um and Higgins.

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01:01:51,520 --> 01:01:54,840
Speaker 1: He's a flip slopper. Oh yeah, I don't know. I

1186
01:01:54,880 --> 01:01:57,160
Speaker 1: don't think Higgins. No, I don't think no, I don't

1187
01:01:57,200 --> 01:02:00,240
Speaker 1: think he's a Ben Higgins. Wait, who was it said?

1188
01:02:00,280 --> 01:02:05,160
Speaker 1: I love you Higgins. That's why, and he's one of

1189
01:02:05,200 --> 01:02:10,280
Speaker 1: America's favorite bachelors. Wait, we have to know to go,

1190
01:02:10,440 --> 01:02:12,360
Speaker 1: but we're gonna come. We will call you next week

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01:02:12,480 --> 01:02:14,320
Speaker 1: with with Ben and Ashley so we can find out

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Speaker 1: what happens. Oh. Absolutely, I look forward to telling you

1193
01:02:17,400 --> 01:02:19,919
Speaker 1: guys the full blown hail after its all and done.

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01:02:20,000 --> 01:02:22,960
Speaker 1: You know, we're a couple of let me tell you

1195
01:02:24,240 --> 01:02:28,040
Speaker 1: we'll stay in touch. Oh, I hope. So bye, thanks

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01:02:28,120 --> 01:02:33,520
Speaker 1: so much by Michael. Have a beautiful day. Okay, bye bye.

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Speaker 1: I'm sad. Oh my god, I'm amazing. Thank you for

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Speaker 1: having me guys. Uh, we love you. I hope you'll

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Speaker 1: come back on with Benn and Ashley because they will

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Speaker 1: be next week already. Yeah, so we'll probably call you

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01:02:44,640 --> 01:02:46,680
Speaker 1: next week. Okay, they will be back from their secret

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Speaker 1: location with lots of and we'll have some fabulous guests.

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Speaker 1: I'm excited to hear all of the filling in for

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Speaker 1: Ben and Ashley, I've been Amy and I'm Vanessa, and

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Speaker 1: you have to say I've been Vanessa, and I've been

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Speaker 1: Vanessa been or Ben, Ben, I don't know why I

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Speaker 1: haven't been invented it where he says, well, can I

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Speaker 1: just say this? On his season, the girls are like

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Speaker 1: beIN and not. His name is Ben not beIN? Yeh Ben? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: All right, and I've been Vanessa. Okay. Followed the Ben

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