1 00:00:00,920 --> 00:00:02,120 Speaker 1: Second date up date. 2 00:00:02,400 --> 00:00:03,880 Speaker 2: We've got a guy on the phone for a second 3 00:00:03,960 --> 00:00:07,800 Speaker 2: date update today. His name is Kurt, and Kurt's request 4 00:00:07,880 --> 00:00:11,320 Speaker 2: is kind of weird because normally when people write into 5 00:00:11,320 --> 00:00:15,000 Speaker 2: the show for help, there was an actual date that happened. 6 00:00:15,640 --> 00:00:18,120 Speaker 2: But Kurt hasn't really been out with this woman yet. 7 00:00:18,520 --> 00:00:19,759 Speaker 3: Why are we even talking that? 8 00:00:19,840 --> 00:00:22,680 Speaker 4: It doesn't count so many people that request these I'm sorry, 9 00:00:22,680 --> 00:00:24,640 Speaker 4: why are we wasting time with people that aren't following? 10 00:00:24,680 --> 00:00:26,840 Speaker 2: Well, it's kind of like, you know, middle school rules 11 00:00:26,880 --> 00:00:29,680 Speaker 2: where Kurt wants us to ask her friend to go 12 00:00:29,800 --> 00:00:32,680 Speaker 2: ask her if she likes him, and then she'll tell 13 00:00:32,720 --> 00:00:34,760 Speaker 2: her friend to come back to us, and then we'll 14 00:00:34,760 --> 00:00:36,760 Speaker 2: report it back to Kurt, like do you like I 15 00:00:37,000 --> 00:00:41,200 Speaker 2: like them? Like like like circle yes no? Or maybe 16 00:00:41,240 --> 00:00:42,519 Speaker 2: on this crumpled up piece. 17 00:00:42,280 --> 00:00:44,840 Speaker 3: Of paper an adult these days? 18 00:00:45,000 --> 00:00:48,839 Speaker 2: No, I don't know, Kurt? Can you all right? 19 00:00:48,920 --> 00:00:56,800 Speaker 1: I have been extremely misrepresented already that Jeff I am 20 00:00:56,800 --> 00:01:00,480 Speaker 1: an adult. I've asked her out, We've actually shared and 21 00:01:00,480 --> 00:01:02,560 Speaker 1: finger food, so we kind of happened on a day. 22 00:01:02,680 --> 00:01:05,959 Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, well maybe your email just confused me. Why 23 00:01:05,959 --> 00:01:07,720 Speaker 2: don't you tell us a little bit more about her? 24 00:01:08,040 --> 00:01:09,600 Speaker 1: I'll break it down for you so that you can 25 00:01:09,680 --> 00:01:10,679 Speaker 1: understand a little better. 26 00:01:10,720 --> 00:01:11,720 Speaker 2: Oh, thank you so much. 27 00:01:11,800 --> 00:01:14,520 Speaker 3: Like you obviously listened to the show. You need to 28 00:01:14,560 --> 00:01:15,120 Speaker 3: talk slow. 29 00:01:15,959 --> 00:01:17,240 Speaker 1: I know how to handle you, guys. 30 00:01:17,600 --> 00:01:19,000 Speaker 2: So what's her name? 31 00:01:19,640 --> 00:01:22,600 Speaker 4: Her name is Cassie, Cassie, and how'd you meet her. 32 00:01:23,040 --> 00:01:26,560 Speaker 1: I'm actually a server for a catering company, and so 33 00:01:27,040 --> 00:01:29,399 Speaker 1: I actually get hit on by women a lot of 34 00:01:29,440 --> 00:01:32,480 Speaker 1: these parties, but they're usually much older than me and 35 00:01:32,520 --> 00:01:34,440 Speaker 1: the kind of like cougars who have had fu too 36 00:01:34,480 --> 00:01:35,759 Speaker 1: many champagne flutes. 37 00:01:36,000 --> 00:01:38,680 Speaker 4: I was going to comment on how hot I think 38 00:01:38,760 --> 00:01:40,880 Speaker 4: men with food are, but now I'm not going to 39 00:01:41,160 --> 00:01:42,760 Speaker 4: after you finish that sentence. 40 00:01:44,800 --> 00:01:46,720 Speaker 3: No, I'm very young and hip. 41 00:01:47,040 --> 00:01:50,320 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, so is Cassie one of the cougars. 42 00:01:51,280 --> 00:01:56,200 Speaker 1: No, I finally met a nice, beautiful lady who is 43 00:01:56,320 --> 00:01:57,880 Speaker 1: in my age range. 44 00:01:58,040 --> 00:01:58,840 Speaker 3: That's exciting. 45 00:01:58,880 --> 00:02:01,000 Speaker 4: And I mean, did you did you notice her first 46 00:02:01,120 --> 00:02:02,040 Speaker 4: or did she notice you? 47 00:02:02,560 --> 00:02:04,160 Speaker 1: I mean I definitely noticed her. I don't know when 48 00:02:04,200 --> 00:02:06,640 Speaker 1: she noticed me, but she was with her little group 49 00:02:06,640 --> 00:02:10,000 Speaker 1: of friends, and she was wearing this very sexy little 50 00:02:10,000 --> 00:02:13,240 Speaker 1: black dress. And I'm very observant, and I have to 51 00:02:13,280 --> 00:02:16,840 Speaker 1: be especially observant when I noticed a gorgeous young woman. 52 00:02:18,320 --> 00:02:21,880 Speaker 1: If I noticed that she likes this particular little finger 53 00:02:21,880 --> 00:02:24,120 Speaker 1: food that we were serving at these mashed sweet potato 54 00:02:24,280 --> 00:02:25,360 Speaker 1: avocado bites. 55 00:02:26,120 --> 00:02:31,840 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, women in their avocados, they can't resist, it doesn't. 56 00:02:31,600 --> 00:02:35,560 Speaker 1: Matter what they actually are really good. So I noticed 57 00:02:35,560 --> 00:02:37,760 Speaker 1: that she was like really digging the so a buddy 58 00:02:37,800 --> 00:02:39,440 Speaker 1: of mine, I was like, yo, dude, let me get 59 00:02:39,480 --> 00:02:45,840 Speaker 1: that tray. So I switched the trays and then I 60 00:02:45,880 --> 00:02:48,320 Speaker 1: was like circling back to her little group of friends 61 00:02:48,360 --> 00:02:50,240 Speaker 1: as much as possible, just so I could like interact 62 00:02:50,240 --> 00:02:51,920 Speaker 1: with her and just kind of get a feel for 63 00:02:52,440 --> 00:02:53,520 Speaker 1: you know what she was all about. 64 00:02:53,880 --> 00:02:57,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, like sprinting all the way around the outside of 65 00:02:57,240 --> 00:02:58,600 Speaker 2: the party and coming right back to her. 66 00:02:59,240 --> 00:03:01,360 Speaker 4: And now I'm realizing, see why all the uggos at 67 00:03:01,400 --> 00:03:05,120 Speaker 4: these parties are always carrying the crappy ass because the 68 00:03:05,160 --> 00:03:07,120 Speaker 4: hot guys took the good You got. 69 00:03:06,919 --> 00:03:08,160 Speaker 2: To trade up for the best food. 70 00:03:08,320 --> 00:03:11,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, you guys would be surprised. That's really actually 71 00:03:11,600 --> 00:03:14,760 Speaker 1: very accurate. I know. 72 00:03:14,840 --> 00:03:17,840 Speaker 2: I love getting this insight into the catering world. All right, 73 00:03:17,880 --> 00:03:19,880 Speaker 2: So you were talking with Cassie a lot. How did 74 00:03:19,880 --> 00:03:20,160 Speaker 2: that go? 75 00:03:20,680 --> 00:03:22,799 Speaker 1: It was great? I mean, she was really flirty. She's 76 00:03:22,840 --> 00:03:25,720 Speaker 1: really funny, like she's witty and cool. And then at 77 00:03:25,720 --> 00:03:27,600 Speaker 1: one point, like I was like, whoa, she's into me 78 00:03:27,680 --> 00:03:29,959 Speaker 1: because she said to me, she was like, do you 79 00:03:29,960 --> 00:03:32,640 Speaker 1: have an extra Naprican because sometimes I'm kind of a 80 00:03:32,680 --> 00:03:33,400 Speaker 1: dirty girl. 81 00:03:34,720 --> 00:03:34,920 Speaker 4: Oh. 82 00:03:36,080 --> 00:03:36,920 Speaker 1: I was like, whoa. 83 00:03:37,240 --> 00:03:39,560 Speaker 2: I'd be like, no, I don't because I'm a dirty boy. 84 00:03:39,720 --> 00:03:41,840 Speaker 4: Yeah, She's like no, Actually, it's why I'm wearing a 85 00:03:41,840 --> 00:03:44,680 Speaker 4: black dress. I tend to stay in everything that I own. 86 00:03:45,200 --> 00:03:47,640 Speaker 1: She was definitely just like being funny. It was cute. 87 00:03:47,800 --> 00:03:49,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, well that's a good sign. 88 00:03:49,640 --> 00:03:51,800 Speaker 4: Right, and then you're thinking it's on. I mean, it 89 00:03:51,840 --> 00:03:53,119 Speaker 4: was your turn to make a move. 90 00:03:53,160 --> 00:03:53,640 Speaker 3: What'd you do? 91 00:03:54,280 --> 00:03:56,560 Speaker 1: I fully put my trade down and I just started 92 00:03:56,600 --> 00:03:59,320 Speaker 1: having a full conversation with her. Eventually my boss came 93 00:03:59,320 --> 00:04:00,800 Speaker 1: over and was like, yo, got to get that to work. 94 00:04:00,840 --> 00:04:02,880 Speaker 3: But oh, it's a catering bad boy. 95 00:04:02,920 --> 00:04:03,320 Speaker 4: I see. 96 00:04:04,320 --> 00:04:05,960 Speaker 2: So you told us that you didn't go on an 97 00:04:06,000 --> 00:04:07,880 Speaker 2: official date with her, So how did this end. 98 00:04:08,440 --> 00:04:10,000 Speaker 1: At the end of the night, I was like, we 99 00:04:10,040 --> 00:04:12,240 Speaker 1: should hang out and she was like, yeah, it's really fun, 100 00:04:12,920 --> 00:04:15,640 Speaker 1: and we exchanged numbers and we started texting and after 101 00:04:15,680 --> 00:04:18,440 Speaker 1: what she was doing on Friday, and I got no response. 102 00:04:19,320 --> 00:04:21,159 Speaker 1: I texted her again and I was like, yeah, did 103 00:04:21,200 --> 00:04:23,040 Speaker 1: you get my text? And I never heard anything from her. 104 00:04:23,320 --> 00:04:27,159 Speaker 1: So it's been like almost a week. Like, maybe she 105 00:04:27,200 --> 00:04:30,599 Speaker 1: has a boyfriend. Maybe she was drunk and I didn't 106 00:04:30,640 --> 00:04:32,240 Speaker 1: actually like me. I don't know. 107 00:04:32,400 --> 00:04:35,919 Speaker 2: Maybe maybe you're not as sexy without tray of avocados 108 00:04:35,920 --> 00:04:36,440 Speaker 2: in your hand. 109 00:04:36,720 --> 00:04:38,159 Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know. Maybe she only likes me when 110 00:04:38,200 --> 00:04:40,520 Speaker 1: she can get free little finger foods from part. 111 00:04:40,400 --> 00:04:44,320 Speaker 4: Of your You were the gateway to the sweet potatoes. 112 00:04:44,480 --> 00:04:48,520 Speaker 4: So what what's your instinct? What is your instinct telling you? 113 00:04:49,040 --> 00:04:51,480 Speaker 1: Maybe she's turned off by me being a caterwaiter. I 114 00:04:51,480 --> 00:04:53,000 Speaker 1: don't know. But she gained her number, So. 115 00:04:53,480 --> 00:04:55,680 Speaker 2: It is a good sign, though that she took the 116 00:04:55,720 --> 00:04:58,160 Speaker 2: time to flirt with you and gave you her number. 117 00:04:58,200 --> 00:05:00,120 Speaker 2: I mean those are all signs that she probably he 118 00:05:00,240 --> 00:05:03,960 Speaker 2: is single, or she's a terrible girlfriend. I don't know exactly. 119 00:05:04,240 --> 00:05:06,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, And I mean she was with like what seemed 120 00:05:06,520 --> 00:05:08,200 Speaker 1: like all the best friends. So I feel like if 121 00:05:08,200 --> 00:05:10,160 Speaker 1: she was burried, you were like had a boyfriend, she 122 00:05:10,160 --> 00:05:12,920 Speaker 1: wouldn't be openly flirring with some guy. 123 00:05:14,160 --> 00:05:17,000 Speaker 3: Yeah. 124 00:05:17,040 --> 00:05:19,000 Speaker 4: I think that this sounds hopeful. I think we can 125 00:05:19,040 --> 00:05:19,680 Speaker 4: get you a date. 126 00:05:19,839 --> 00:05:22,800 Speaker 2: So let's play a song. We'll come back and we'll 127 00:05:22,800 --> 00:05:26,680 Speaker 2: call your Sweet Potato Princess and we'll try and get 128 00:05:26,760 --> 00:05:27,760 Speaker 2: you a second date update. 129 00:05:27,800 --> 00:05:29,599 Speaker 1: All right, bro, all right, let's do it. 130 00:05:29,600 --> 00:05:34,680 Speaker 2: All right, hold on, we all know there's certain things 131 00:05:35,000 --> 00:05:39,520 Speaker 2: a woman just can't resist, like a man with a guitar, 132 00:05:40,839 --> 00:05:45,640 Speaker 2: a man in a freshly pressed uniform hello, or a 133 00:05:45,680 --> 00:05:49,600 Speaker 2: man carrying a tray of sweet potato avocado bites. 134 00:05:50,000 --> 00:05:51,440 Speaker 3: Get over here, big boy. 135 00:05:52,320 --> 00:05:55,640 Speaker 2: She'll definitely be whispering I want you in my mouth, 136 00:05:56,760 --> 00:05:59,240 Speaker 2: even if she's only talking to those avocado bites. 137 00:06:00,240 --> 00:06:01,400 Speaker 1: You guys need to be locked up. 138 00:06:02,440 --> 00:06:05,159 Speaker 2: That's one of our listeners, Kurt, who emailed us for 139 00:06:05,160 --> 00:06:06,919 Speaker 2: a second ate update. He was carrying a tray of 140 00:06:06,960 --> 00:06:09,720 Speaker 2: delicious appetizers when he met a woman named Cassie at 141 00:06:09,720 --> 00:06:11,880 Speaker 2: a party because he was working the event as part 142 00:06:11,920 --> 00:06:14,719 Speaker 2: of a catering team and actually traded dishes with another 143 00:06:14,800 --> 00:06:18,039 Speaker 2: server because he noticed Cassie like that particular food so 144 00:06:18,240 --> 00:06:20,480 Speaker 2: much and she seemed to be flirting with him, and 145 00:06:20,520 --> 00:06:21,800 Speaker 2: at the end of the night she even said I'd 146 00:06:21,839 --> 00:06:24,080 Speaker 2: be down to hang out. But she hasn't responded to 147 00:06:24,120 --> 00:06:25,480 Speaker 2: any of his texts since. 148 00:06:25,200 --> 00:06:27,640 Speaker 1: Then that's pretty much the story, Kurt. 149 00:06:27,680 --> 00:06:29,560 Speaker 2: I just really hope it's not one of those situations 150 00:06:29,560 --> 00:06:31,960 Speaker 2: where it's like, oh, I don't want to date the 151 00:06:32,040 --> 00:06:35,880 Speaker 2: hired help. You know, I'll flirt with them, maybe fool 152 00:06:35,920 --> 00:06:39,920 Speaker 2: around in a coat closet really quick, but not date them. Ugh, 153 00:06:39,960 --> 00:06:40,680 Speaker 2: it's below me. 154 00:06:41,600 --> 00:06:43,479 Speaker 1: I mean, hey, that's the truth. I want to know 155 00:06:43,520 --> 00:06:45,200 Speaker 1: it so I can move on. But I don't think 156 00:06:45,200 --> 00:06:45,760 Speaker 1: she's like that. 157 00:06:45,920 --> 00:06:47,760 Speaker 4: I don't think so either, because she wouldn't have given 158 00:06:47,800 --> 00:06:49,760 Speaker 4: you her phone number if she thought that way. 159 00:06:50,040 --> 00:06:52,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's true. Well, let's call Cassie and find out. 160 00:06:52,560 --> 00:06:54,880 Speaker 2: You ready to do this, Kurt, Yep, let's do this. 161 00:06:55,080 --> 00:07:07,080 Speaker 2: Here we go. Hello, Hi, can I speak to Cassie? 162 00:07:07,120 --> 00:07:10,800 Speaker 2: Please speaking? Hi Cassie. My name is Jeffrey from the 163 00:07:10,880 --> 00:07:13,080 Speaker 2: radio show Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning. You have 164 00:07:13,080 --> 00:07:14,040 Speaker 2: a moment to talk with us. 165 00:07:16,160 --> 00:07:16,960 Speaker 5: What is this about? 166 00:07:17,720 --> 00:07:19,920 Speaker 2: This is about a segment we do on our show 167 00:07:19,960 --> 00:07:22,040 Speaker 2: called a second Date Update. Have you ever heard of 168 00:07:22,120 --> 00:07:22,520 Speaker 2: that before? 169 00:07:23,640 --> 00:07:25,960 Speaker 5: I might have, I don't know. 170 00:07:28,040 --> 00:07:29,880 Speaker 2: Well. The way it works is if you go out 171 00:07:29,880 --> 00:07:32,200 Speaker 2: on a date with someone and afterwards they're not calling 172 00:07:32,240 --> 00:07:35,040 Speaker 2: you back, you can email our show and we'll reach 173 00:07:35,080 --> 00:07:36,880 Speaker 2: out to that person for you to figure out the 174 00:07:36,880 --> 00:07:37,520 Speaker 2: reason why. 175 00:07:38,600 --> 00:07:40,280 Speaker 5: Oh okay, yeah. 176 00:07:40,080 --> 00:07:43,360 Speaker 2: And so we got an email about you recently from 177 00:07:43,360 --> 00:07:44,880 Speaker 2: a guy you met named Kurt. 178 00:07:46,240 --> 00:07:50,600 Speaker 5: Oh, technically I never went on a date with him, 179 00:07:50,680 --> 00:07:52,480 Speaker 5: so I don't know if I'm really supposed to be 180 00:07:52,520 --> 00:07:53,400 Speaker 5: like talking about all this. 181 00:07:53,680 --> 00:07:56,400 Speaker 2: Well, okay, let's let's forget the date stuff, whether it 182 00:07:56,440 --> 00:07:59,400 Speaker 2: was a date or not, Like, did you like him? 183 00:07:59,520 --> 00:08:02,000 Speaker 2: Did you feel connection? Because he definitely felt one with you. 184 00:08:02,520 --> 00:08:04,440 Speaker 2: He said that you even told him that you'd be 185 00:08:04,440 --> 00:08:05,720 Speaker 2: down to hang out with him sometime. 186 00:08:06,400 --> 00:08:09,360 Speaker 5: Yeah, and I would just maybe like in a group setting, 187 00:08:09,520 --> 00:08:12,760 Speaker 5: you know, like nothing romantically. And I don't really know 188 00:08:12,760 --> 00:08:13,400 Speaker 5: how to tell him that. 189 00:08:13,600 --> 00:08:14,480 Speaker 3: Are you not single? 190 00:08:15,520 --> 00:08:18,720 Speaker 5: No, I'm not in a relationship. It's just like he's 191 00:08:18,760 --> 00:08:19,600 Speaker 5: off limits. 192 00:08:19,800 --> 00:08:22,640 Speaker 2: I don't understand why is he off limits? If you're 193 00:08:22,720 --> 00:08:25,440 Speaker 2: single and you think he's cute and you like him, 194 00:08:25,560 --> 00:08:28,840 Speaker 2: what's the problem you your parent's not letting you date yet? 195 00:08:32,320 --> 00:08:34,880 Speaker 5: Oh my god, Oh my god. 196 00:08:35,040 --> 00:08:35,199 Speaker 4: No. 197 00:08:35,320 --> 00:08:37,560 Speaker 5: To be one hundred percent honest, one of my friends 198 00:08:37,559 --> 00:08:40,360 Speaker 5: called DIBs on him that night, and I was like, okay, 199 00:08:40,440 --> 00:08:43,520 Speaker 5: so I yeah, but you. 200 00:08:43,440 --> 00:08:46,360 Speaker 4: Can't call DIBs on someone if they're not interested in you, 201 00:08:46,520 --> 00:08:49,839 Speaker 4: Like she could call Dibbs if he gave her his 202 00:08:49,880 --> 00:08:52,400 Speaker 4: phone number. She doesn't get to call Dibbs if he 203 00:08:52,440 --> 00:08:53,720 Speaker 4: gave you his phone number. 204 00:08:54,280 --> 00:08:56,800 Speaker 5: Well, it doesn't really work that way, because, like, I 205 00:08:56,800 --> 00:08:59,120 Speaker 5: have a big group of friends and it was like, 206 00:08:59,400 --> 00:09:02,320 Speaker 5: literally my friend Rebecca's turn to call DIBs on whoever 207 00:09:02,520 --> 00:09:04,600 Speaker 5: she wanted to do that night. And you know, we 208 00:09:04,679 --> 00:09:06,440 Speaker 5: just kind of like respect this kind of thing in 209 00:09:06,480 --> 00:09:08,640 Speaker 5: my group of friends going on. 210 00:09:09,440 --> 00:09:12,480 Speaker 4: But why can't you talk to Rebecca about Dibbs because 211 00:09:12,520 --> 00:09:13,440 Speaker 4: it doesn't make any sense? 212 00:09:13,760 --> 00:09:15,079 Speaker 2: Did you hear her? Respect? 213 00:09:16,360 --> 00:09:18,400 Speaker 5: I did talk to her about it, and honestly, I 214 00:09:18,400 --> 00:09:20,559 Speaker 5: don't want any drama, guys. I just really want to 215 00:09:20,559 --> 00:09:23,320 Speaker 5: avoid that at all costs. And when I spoke to her, 216 00:09:23,440 --> 00:09:26,360 Speaker 5: she was just like, no, like I called Dibbs and 217 00:09:26,480 --> 00:09:29,120 Speaker 5: that means something. So, but how is Rebecca ever. 218 00:09:29,080 --> 00:09:32,080 Speaker 4: Even gonna find Kurt again? Rebecca doesn't have Kurt's phone number, 219 00:09:32,200 --> 00:09:34,040 Speaker 4: or does she? Maybe Kurt gave out his phone number 220 00:09:34,040 --> 00:09:34,720 Speaker 4: to multiple women. 221 00:09:35,200 --> 00:09:37,760 Speaker 5: No, Like, I literally was just gonna like text him 222 00:09:37,800 --> 00:09:40,080 Speaker 5: and see how I kind of like hooked them up together. 223 00:09:40,240 --> 00:09:41,959 Speaker 1: I feel, yeah. 224 00:09:42,360 --> 00:09:44,319 Speaker 3: You were going to be the wing woman there, Dude, 225 00:09:44,440 --> 00:09:45,000 Speaker 3: what can. 226 00:09:46,760 --> 00:09:50,360 Speaker 4: I mean, it's the same, like you you call that dude, 227 00:09:50,400 --> 00:09:52,360 Speaker 4: and like nobody else gets to hit on him that 228 00:09:52,480 --> 00:09:55,760 Speaker 4: night so that there's no drama later. 229 00:09:56,080 --> 00:09:59,600 Speaker 3: Right. Cassie followed me on this one. 230 00:10:00,120 --> 00:10:03,720 Speaker 5: Hundred percent, So basically she saw him first. She said, Hey, 231 00:10:03,760 --> 00:10:05,920 Speaker 5: I called DIBs on him, and everyone else is to 232 00:10:05,960 --> 00:10:08,600 Speaker 5: just kind of fall back and we just respected. It's cold, 233 00:10:09,320 --> 00:10:11,960 Speaker 5: you know, that whole sisters before Mister's kind of thing. 234 00:10:12,200 --> 00:10:19,400 Speaker 2: Huhs makes sense. I just I mean, it kind of 235 00:10:19,480 --> 00:10:22,440 Speaker 2: makes sense. But I wonder if it makes sense to Kurt. 236 00:10:23,040 --> 00:10:25,360 Speaker 2: What I forgot to tell you, Cassie that Kurt's been 237 00:10:25,400 --> 00:10:29,520 Speaker 2: on the other line listening. Oh my god, Yeah, no, 238 00:10:29,880 --> 00:10:30,400 Speaker 2: I'm serious. 239 00:10:30,440 --> 00:10:32,000 Speaker 5: Oh my god, this is so uncomfortable. 240 00:10:32,400 --> 00:10:37,120 Speaker 1: Hey, Cassie, long time your talk. Hi. 241 00:10:39,000 --> 00:10:42,160 Speaker 5: Hi, I'm I'm I'm all right. You know, it's like 242 00:10:42,240 --> 00:10:44,400 Speaker 5: a weird situation and you're definitely my type. I just 243 00:10:44,440 --> 00:10:46,160 Speaker 5: want to put that out there, And I mean, I 244 00:10:46,360 --> 00:10:49,640 Speaker 5: don't know how much you heard, but like basically, Rebecca, 245 00:10:49,800 --> 00:10:51,679 Speaker 5: my blonde friend, the one that was with us, and 246 00:10:51,960 --> 00:10:55,960 Speaker 5: like the distress. Yeah, she called Dibbs and there's really nothing. 247 00:10:55,760 --> 00:10:57,880 Speaker 1: I can do, all right, Why don't you give me 248 00:10:57,960 --> 00:11:01,199 Speaker 1: Rebecca's number. I'll call her up. We can work this out. 249 00:11:01,480 --> 00:11:04,040 Speaker 4: WHOA, So you're going to negotiate, Kurt, or are you 250 00:11:04,120 --> 00:11:04,760 Speaker 4: just gonna date her? 251 00:11:05,040 --> 00:11:06,920 Speaker 1: I'm going to negotiate. I don't have an interest in 252 00:11:07,000 --> 00:11:09,560 Speaker 1: dating her. I'm clearly into Cassie. And if her friend 253 00:11:09,679 --> 00:11:11,679 Speaker 1: is holding her back from like seeing a guy that 254 00:11:11,800 --> 00:11:13,960 Speaker 1: she's into, like that's not being a friend. 255 00:11:15,040 --> 00:11:18,120 Speaker 5: That's a very good point, Kurt, you know what, that's 256 00:11:18,160 --> 00:11:19,880 Speaker 5: so nice of you to say. But I don't want 257 00:11:19,920 --> 00:11:21,920 Speaker 5: that kind of drama. I'll lose a friendship over it. 258 00:11:22,000 --> 00:11:23,480 Speaker 5: And it's really too much, you know what. 259 00:11:23,520 --> 00:11:23,800 Speaker 2: I mean. 260 00:11:24,280 --> 00:11:27,440 Speaker 5: She's a really nice person, but like she gets pissed off. 261 00:11:27,520 --> 00:11:29,200 Speaker 5: She's very vindictive. 262 00:11:31,200 --> 00:11:33,719 Speaker 3: A way, Cassy. I mean, she sounds like a kind 263 00:11:33,720 --> 00:11:34,679 Speaker 3: of terrible friend. 264 00:11:35,320 --> 00:11:37,680 Speaker 2: I'm not a totally sweet girl, but I will effing 265 00:11:37,880 --> 00:11:38,240 Speaker 2: kill you. 266 00:11:38,640 --> 00:11:42,000 Speaker 4: Yeah, Like, if that girl is that much drama, why 267 00:11:42,040 --> 00:11:43,640 Speaker 4: do you even want in your life anyway? 268 00:11:44,320 --> 00:11:45,920 Speaker 5: No, we've just been friends for forever. 269 00:11:46,120 --> 00:11:46,280 Speaker 4: You know. 270 00:11:46,440 --> 00:11:47,839 Speaker 5: It's just the kind of person who kind of like 271 00:11:47,920 --> 00:11:49,920 Speaker 5: has your back and all of that, and it's just 272 00:11:50,000 --> 00:11:52,520 Speaker 5: like always available. But you put her off in one 273 00:11:52,520 --> 00:11:54,559 Speaker 5: of these kind of ways, she'll just like go nuts. Like, 274 00:11:54,720 --> 00:11:56,640 Speaker 5: we have another friend in our group who ended up 275 00:11:56,679 --> 00:11:59,719 Speaker 5: puking up with our brother, and Rebecca's so pissed off 276 00:11:59,760 --> 00:12:00,959 Speaker 5: she had this girl's card stowed. 277 00:12:01,200 --> 00:12:06,280 Speaker 4: Okay, wow, that is very vindictive. I mean, but a 278 00:12:06,360 --> 00:12:09,760 Speaker 4: brother hookup situation is different than this guy doesn't like you, 279 00:12:09,880 --> 00:12:11,280 Speaker 4: Rebecca and he likes me. 280 00:12:11,520 --> 00:12:13,600 Speaker 5: Sorry, right, that seems even worse. 281 00:12:13,960 --> 00:12:16,319 Speaker 3: Okay, I don't know. 282 00:12:16,800 --> 00:12:18,720 Speaker 1: All right, let's let me ask Kathy this. What if 283 00:12:18,760 --> 00:12:22,840 Speaker 1: I go on one fake date with your friend Rebecca. Yeah, 284 00:12:22,880 --> 00:12:26,599 Speaker 1: I'll be like a total pig. I'll like have terrible manners, 285 00:12:26,920 --> 00:12:30,960 Speaker 1: like I won't put on deodorant that night, and then 286 00:12:31,040 --> 00:12:35,080 Speaker 1: afterwards it's like the dib has been given up, undibbed. 287 00:12:35,280 --> 00:12:37,800 Speaker 5: I don't think it works that way. That's really really 288 00:12:37,880 --> 00:12:38,920 Speaker 5: sweet of you to try. 289 00:12:39,080 --> 00:12:41,360 Speaker 1: I mean, so you're afraid of losing a friendship, but 290 00:12:41,360 --> 00:12:46,200 Speaker 1: aren't you afraid of losing true love? Jesse and I. 291 00:12:46,320 --> 00:12:48,680 Speaker 4: Even am true to the dib okay rule. 292 00:12:49,440 --> 00:12:50,120 Speaker 3: Yes, I back. 293 00:12:50,520 --> 00:12:53,120 Speaker 2: My heart is melting right now from every word that 294 00:12:53,240 --> 00:12:54,320 Speaker 2: comes out of Kurt's mouth. 295 00:12:54,920 --> 00:12:57,280 Speaker 1: Give me one date, and if it's horrible and you 296 00:12:57,320 --> 00:12:59,280 Speaker 1: don't want to see me again, then Rebecca or whatever 297 00:12:59,280 --> 00:13:00,719 Speaker 1: her name is doesn't even to know about it. 298 00:13:01,040 --> 00:13:02,439 Speaker 2: Oh my god, what do you say? 299 00:13:03,000 --> 00:13:05,400 Speaker 5: Ridiculous? I feel I so pressured right now. 300 00:13:05,559 --> 00:13:07,839 Speaker 2: No, no, no, don't feel pressured. Just go out with 301 00:13:08,000 --> 00:13:10,959 Speaker 2: him while everybody is listening, and we will offer to 302 00:13:11,080 --> 00:13:12,000 Speaker 2: pay for that date. 303 00:13:12,280 --> 00:13:15,240 Speaker 5: Yeah, question grouping? Would you be open to that? Will 304 00:13:15,320 --> 00:13:16,880 Speaker 5: hang out like in a group. 305 00:13:16,800 --> 00:13:18,400 Speaker 1: And see like with Rebecca. 306 00:13:18,679 --> 00:13:21,040 Speaker 3: No, that is a dumb idea Cassie fight you. 307 00:13:21,240 --> 00:13:22,120 Speaker 2: Bet in front of him. 308 00:13:22,559 --> 00:13:25,000 Speaker 5: Guys, there's just like a girl's code. I just can't 309 00:13:25,040 --> 00:13:25,240 Speaker 5: do it. 310 00:13:25,400 --> 00:13:28,720 Speaker 2: I know girl's code was meant to be broken. 311 00:13:29,000 --> 00:13:32,079 Speaker 4: Come on, if she's a good friend, she'll understand, and 312 00:13:32,360 --> 00:13:34,000 Speaker 4: if not, she'll make me suffer. 313 00:13:35,440 --> 00:13:37,880 Speaker 2: Brooke is signing off as a female that it's okay 314 00:13:38,040 --> 00:13:39,439 Speaker 2: to break girl code on this one. 315 00:13:39,640 --> 00:13:43,079 Speaker 4: Yes, well, because her girl code is entering into ridiculous code. 316 00:13:43,240 --> 00:13:45,600 Speaker 3: Like you know, you can only take it so. 317 00:13:45,760 --> 00:13:49,360 Speaker 4: Far and always your friend's happiness should be at the 318 00:13:49,440 --> 00:13:52,360 Speaker 4: forefront of every decision, and that is not true for Rebecca. 319 00:13:53,240 --> 00:13:56,640 Speaker 5: Guys, I'm really so sorry, but my decision is final. 320 00:13:56,960 --> 00:13:59,960 Speaker 3: Oh my god, dude, you're gonna regret this. 321 00:14:00,240 --> 00:14:02,400 Speaker 1: Okay, listen, I'm gonna get one of my buddies set 322 00:14:02,480 --> 00:14:05,000 Speaker 1: up with Rebecca, someone hotter than me, that she can like, 323 00:14:05,880 --> 00:14:07,840 Speaker 1: she can put off her energies on and not worry 324 00:14:07,840 --> 00:14:08,840 Speaker 1: about what her friend does. 325 00:14:09,360 --> 00:14:09,520 Speaker 4: Oh. 326 00:14:09,600 --> 00:14:12,160 Speaker 1: I like that, Kathy. I'm not giving up on you, 327 00:14:12,280 --> 00:14:13,760 Speaker 1: but I'm just letting you know what's what's going on 328 00:14:13,880 --> 00:14:14,200 Speaker 1: over here. 329 00:14:14,520 --> 00:14:16,160 Speaker 3: Oh, you guys are the cutest. 330 00:14:16,360 --> 00:14:17,480 Speaker 2: That's bro code right there. 331 00:14:17,559 --> 00:14:18,120 Speaker 3: Oh my god. 332 00:14:18,920 --> 00:14:22,040 Speaker 2: I guess no second date for the moment, but yeah, 333 00:14:22,120 --> 00:14:24,080 Speaker 2: I feel like this could possibly change. Will you guys 334 00:14:24,160 --> 00:14:26,200 Speaker 2: keep us updated on what happens between you two. 335 00:14:26,680 --> 00:14:27,520 Speaker 1: I'll let you guys know. 336 00:14:27,760 --> 00:14:30,880 Speaker 4: Oh my god, upgrade Rebecca and go for Kurt. Cassie, 337 00:14:30,880 --> 00:14:34,200 Speaker 4: I'm so excited brooking Jeffrey in the morning. 338 00:14:34,680 --> 00:14:37,200 Speaker 2: We heard that about four months ago, and it was 339 00:14:37,240 --> 00:14:39,680 Speaker 2: one of our most popular second dates ever, I. 340 00:14:39,720 --> 00:14:42,320 Speaker 3: Think because they stand so cute together. 341 00:14:44,160 --> 00:14:46,920 Speaker 1: I know, this was so good. 342 00:14:47,040 --> 00:14:50,240 Speaker 3: I know, and then she says, Okay, continue, I know. 343 00:14:50,440 --> 00:14:52,600 Speaker 2: Everybody, it was a really good one. People have been 344 00:14:52,640 --> 00:14:55,080 Speaker 2: asking on our text board for months and on our 345 00:14:55,120 --> 00:14:58,400 Speaker 2: social media. You did Cassie break girl code? Did they 346 00:14:58,440 --> 00:14:59,080 Speaker 2: go out again? 347 00:14:59,240 --> 00:14:59,440 Speaker 5: Yeah? 348 00:14:59,760 --> 00:15:02,000 Speaker 2: Well we have them on the phone. They're on with 349 00:15:02,160 --> 00:15:04,480 Speaker 2: us once more. Cassie and Kurt welcome back. 350 00:15:04,880 --> 00:15:09,520 Speaker 3: Oh oh they sound happy, happy couple colleagues. 351 00:15:09,680 --> 00:15:11,120 Speaker 4: Are you guys in the same room or you in 352 00:15:11,160 --> 00:15:11,800 Speaker 4: different places? 353 00:15:14,560 --> 00:15:17,560 Speaker 2: Okay, but they spoke at the exact same time. It's 354 00:15:17,640 --> 00:15:21,600 Speaker 2: like they're syncd up. So, Kurt, what happened? Did you 355 00:15:21,800 --> 00:15:24,400 Speaker 2: end up finding a friend to date Cassie's friend? 356 00:15:24,840 --> 00:15:26,960 Speaker 1: Yes, I found a buddy who was down. I showed 357 00:15:27,040 --> 00:15:30,320 Speaker 1: him a few pictures of her friend, and we did 358 00:15:30,360 --> 00:15:31,040 Speaker 1: a double date. 359 00:15:31,280 --> 00:15:32,600 Speaker 3: Shut delegated. 360 00:15:32,760 --> 00:15:36,680 Speaker 5: Oh that's idea, and as wonderful as it was for us, 361 00:15:37,000 --> 00:15:39,880 Speaker 5: it was actually even better for our friends. Really. 362 00:15:40,000 --> 00:15:42,560 Speaker 3: Oh, so your girlfriend wasn't mad at you for dating, 363 00:15:42,760 --> 00:15:43,480 Speaker 3: not at all? 364 00:15:43,880 --> 00:15:46,400 Speaker 5: Like they hit it off. Wow, they hit it off 365 00:15:46,640 --> 00:15:50,080 Speaker 5: so well, guys that they have a wedding next month. 366 00:15:51,480 --> 00:15:54,760 Speaker 2: Wait, you cooked your friend up and now she's getting married. 367 00:15:54,640 --> 00:15:56,200 Speaker 3: Like in a six month period. 368 00:15:56,440 --> 00:15:59,440 Speaker 5: No, it's only been a couple of months. Ye who 369 00:16:00,160 --> 00:16:00,720 Speaker 5: what they wanted? 370 00:16:01,080 --> 00:16:03,400 Speaker 1: She's also pregnant. I should probably mention, or maybe I 371 00:16:03,400 --> 00:16:03,960 Speaker 1: shouldn't mention. 372 00:16:05,360 --> 00:16:10,720 Speaker 3: Are you serious, oh Cassie's friend? Oh my god, I 373 00:16:10,800 --> 00:16:12,160 Speaker 3: thought Cassie was pregnant. 374 00:16:12,280 --> 00:16:14,960 Speaker 5: I got what are you doing? You're not even suppout 375 00:16:14,960 --> 00:16:15,440 Speaker 5: to say that? 376 00:16:15,560 --> 00:16:20,960 Speaker 1: You know that, don't know, but I'm sorry wait, you guys, 377 00:16:21,040 --> 00:16:22,160 Speaker 1: ignore that. It's my bad. 378 00:16:23,440 --> 00:16:23,800 Speaker 2: Forget it. 379 00:16:24,680 --> 00:16:25,160 Speaker 3: It's fine. 380 00:16:25,240 --> 00:16:28,800 Speaker 2: Don't happened. Back to you two again. How are you 381 00:16:28,840 --> 00:16:30,320 Speaker 2: guys doing. Are you still together? 382 00:16:30,960 --> 00:16:33,520 Speaker 5: Yeah, well we are dating. We'll just take it slow, 383 00:16:34,440 --> 00:16:36,920 Speaker 5: but we're really happy and it's a very incredible it's 384 00:16:36,960 --> 00:16:37,760 Speaker 5: all worked out. 385 00:16:38,960 --> 00:16:39,840 Speaker 3: It's so cute. 386 00:16:40,400 --> 00:16:45,440 Speaker 1: The first time we accident helped multiple people and marriage. 387 00:16:46,520 --> 00:16:51,240 Speaker 2: Yeah. Oh yeah, sorry, I mean, no dregnancy. 388 00:16:55,120 --> 00:16:58,600 Speaker 4: Here's the saying, Cassie, if you ever get knocked up, 389 00:16:58,720 --> 00:16:59,960 Speaker 4: don't tell Kurt for a while. 390 00:17:00,160 --> 00:17:03,400 Speaker 5: Yeah, seriously, right, I probably want to broadcast it. 391 00:17:04,160 --> 00:17:06,040 Speaker 2: You keep us updated on your situation. 392 00:17:06,400 --> 00:17:08,320 Speaker 3: That's so cute. Send pictures from the Lendings. 393 00:17:08,440 --> 00:17:08,920 Speaker 4: Oh my god. 394 00:17:09,000 --> 00:17:10,160 Speaker 1: We will tell your friends. 395 00:17:10,200 --> 00:17:11,080 Speaker 2: We say congrats to. 396 00:17:11,119 --> 00:17:11,560 Speaker 1: Them as well. 397 00:17:11,680 --> 00:17:15,119 Speaker 2: Yeah, definitely, oh we will. Y, thanks for being on 398 00:17:15,240 --> 00:17:17,080 Speaker 2: with us. It's Brook and Jeffrey in the morning. 399 00:17:17,359 --> 00:17:20,119 Speaker 4: I love love Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning.