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Speaker 1: My boyfriend just proposed to me, but he said it

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Speaker 1: was a prank. Would I be the asshole if I

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Speaker 1: didn't spend my life with him?

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Speaker 2: You know, it's just a prank.

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Speaker 1: Bros.

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Speaker 2: They just keep upping the ante, upping the ante until they.

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Speaker 3: Think they make you think that, oh, I am going

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Speaker 3: to spend the rest of my life with you.

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Speaker 2: I want to get married to you, all love you forever.

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Speaker 2: But then it was just a prank, bro.

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Speaker 1: Just take it all away.

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Speaker 2: Just take it all.

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Speaker 1: Away from you, like I think they have undying, everlasting love,

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Speaker 1: and then take that feeling and just stick it through

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Speaker 1: a cheese grater.

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Speaker 3: Just grinding it, just the shreds. The question is where

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Speaker 3: does it end? Where does it end? If not here,

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Speaker 3: I think it ends when they stop getting views, And

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Speaker 3: they'll never stop getting views because I will watch the

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Speaker 3: shit out of those. Oh yeah, sorry all you ladies

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Speaker 3: said there. Me twenty four female, Me have been dating

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Speaker 1: Long time, long time. Yeah, so I think OP means

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Speaker 1: I I, twenty four female, have been dating my boyfriend

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Speaker 1: Andrew twenty six mail for five years now. We've had

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Speaker 1: a healthy and stable relationship up until today. Andrew has

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Speaker 1: always been a little bit of a rankster and would

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Speaker 1: make jokes with me all the time and I do

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Speaker 1: it to him too, but today he took it too far.

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Speaker 1: Let's see. Let's see what Andrew In the morning, he

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Speaker 1: woke me up at seven am and told me to

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Speaker 1: wake up because he wanted to take me to the Spa.

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Speaker 1: I was pretty surprised because it wasn't a special day

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Speaker 1: or anything, but I was all for it. At the spa,

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Speaker 1: he told me how he wanted to go do a

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Speaker 1: fancy restaurant after we'd done at the spa, and that

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Speaker 1: he was paying. Of course I agreed, as we hadn't

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Speaker 1: been out together in a long time. This has some

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Speaker 1: boyfriend's pulling out all the steps pretty good so far.

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Speaker 1: We then got to the restaurant. We had a beautiful, full,

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Speaker 1: romantic dinner and just a nice time in general. We

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Speaker 1: were talking about a house we were planning to move into,

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Speaker 1: and chit chatted about other stuff too. So they're talking

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Speaker 1: about their futures at this fancy restaurant after having.

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Speaker 2: Been spah big stuff.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. After around forty minutes, Andrew stood up and got

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Speaker 1: on his knees and took a box out of his pocket.

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Speaker 1: My heart stopped beating. I had never predicted this, we

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Speaker 1: had never talked about a proposal before, but I also

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Speaker 1: thought it was a great time now. He did a

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Speaker 1: speech about how he was the most beautiful girl in

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Speaker 1: the world and he wanted to live with me forever.

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Speaker 1: He bought that shit. I'm just I'm you believe that.

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Speaker 2: I think he fucking loves you.

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Speaker 1: He ended with, will you marry me? Princess?

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Speaker 3: Ah, I'm just waiting for the ball to drop.

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Speaker 1: Of course, I said yes, and we've been happily married

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Speaker 1: for ten years. Nope, No, it ain't how it goes pranked.

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Speaker 1: You just got got seconds later, second second, my excitement

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Speaker 1: turned to horror. He opened the small box which I

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Speaker 1: expected to ring in, and in it was a note

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Speaker 1: saying you've been brak. Andrew started laughing hysterically like a

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Speaker 1: fucking idiot. I can't believe you had to think that

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Speaker 1: you were the most beautiful girl in the world. Have

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Speaker 1: you seen Kate Upton? Have you seen making focks bro?

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Speaker 1: Have you seen Zindaia for the fact? Have you seen

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Speaker 1: Tom Holland? Oh, God, hotties? Wow, here you thought and

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Speaker 1: here you were the most beautiful girl in the world.

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Speaker 3: God damn fucking brutal, absolutely brutal.

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Speaker 1: This is the meanest prank I have ever heard of.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, the only one that I heard that I saw

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Speaker 3: that was meaner was this guy. Him and his wife

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Speaker 3: were like very religious, and he pretended to be using

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Speaker 3: you know the point where it's like, all right, it's

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Speaker 3: He literally kept it going, like beyond that point to

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Speaker 3: I'm getting our two children right now, and I'm going

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Speaker 2: It's a break speed run divorce. Yeah, that's how you

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Speaker 2: do it. That's the only one that I found that's

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Speaker 1: Level, My god, are you sure that's real? I think

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Speaker 1: be fake. But is it the one down Comedy Central?

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Speaker 3: No, No, No, it's it's a it's a YouTuber. It's

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Speaker 3: definitely no on Comedy Central or probably not in Comedy Central.

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Speaker 2: They're both Muslim. The girl's wearing a hud job.

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Speaker 1: Anyway, bad prank, bad prank, bad bad prank stir bad boy.

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Speaker 1: He continued with, baby, this was just a prank already

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Speaker 2: Yet that's actually in the story.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, he was leaning in to hug me, but I

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Speaker 1: my face. I just told him we're over, you, fucking scumbag. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I mean, honestly, only perfect response. Damn. I'm now in

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Speaker 1: I haven't responded because I feel so sad, betrayed, and

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Speaker 1: And there is an update?

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, I don't know.

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Speaker 1: What are your What are your thoughts? Should you break

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Speaker 3: She's like totally within her right this If they had

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Speaker 3: five years of and we always say, was there more

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Speaker 3: just didn't notice for the rose colored, rose tinted glasses?

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Speaker 3: But you know, if this was the first thing in

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Speaker 3: you know whatever, Like I could see coming out of it,

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Speaker 3: and maybe he just made like the biggest, dumbest, like

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Speaker 3: terrible thing to do. I think she's well within her

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Speaker 3: right to want to leave after this, especially in the moment.

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Speaker 1: I mean, my other question is like, why are you

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Speaker 1: is he filming this? I don't know because I don't

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Speaker 1: hear any cameras. I don't hear any YouTube thing.

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Speaker 2: Imagine this all right?

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Speaker 3: The parallel ad read he goes to propose, and he's like, ha,

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Speaker 3: I was just kidding. By the way, if you ever

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Speaker 2: Yeah, And then he's like, I never really loved you.

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Speaker 3: If someone says that to you, this is a great

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Speaker 3: Could you imagine great video? It would get a lot

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Speaker 1: But like, why are you doing a prank like this

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Speaker 1: if you're not filming it, like you're like, at least

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Speaker 1: get at least film it, at least get the ad

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Speaker 1: sense right, like, like, why would you ruin your life

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Speaker 2: He wants the shits some giggles, all right?

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Speaker 1: So update? After I made that Reddit post, I fell

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Speaker 1: call my now ex boyfriend. I told him that it

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Speaker 1: and made a big joke about it. He cried and

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Speaker 1: this after everything he has done for me, Babe? Do

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Speaker 1: you know how much time and energy I put into

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Speaker 1: that prank?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: I paid for the spot, YEP, I paid for the dinner, YEP,

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Speaker 1: I paid for the little box.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: To put that note where it said this is a prank,

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Speaker 3: I've been planning this for like one to five years.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. So in particular, yeah.

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Speaker 2: Like wait to mean my work, bab, this is my

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Speaker 1: Yeah, this is my art.

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Speaker 2: I'm now a stand up comedian.

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Speaker 1: He cuss me out so much that I stopped listening

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Speaker 1: which you know, this is probably telling. In the end,

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Speaker 1: So today I've just been scrolling the internet for apartments

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Speaker 1: happy about the breakup, though, He's trying so bad to

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Speaker 1: small mistake I made, But the one that did it

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Speaker 1: for me is don't be so effing petty and drop it.

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Speaker 1: You know we were happy together. You know you still

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Speaker 1: and called him every single name I could come up with,

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Speaker 1: like mean spirited social experiment that's trying to just deprave

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Speaker 3: And what if, like, you know, can you not empathize

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Speaker 3: of a sudden, he just like pranks you like this,

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Speaker 3: Like I would be disgusted with my child if they

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Speaker 1: All right, not funny, horrific, horrific? But would I click

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Speaker 1: click on the video? Would you click on the video? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Come on, we'd all click on the video.

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Speaker 3: It would start auto playing, and I wouldn't. I wouldn't

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Speaker 3: stop it. I wouldn't stop it. That's just being completely

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Speaker 1: So you're down a girlfriend, but you're up some great

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Speaker 1: viral content. All you need to do is another five

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Speaker 1: year relationship that ends in a prank. Perfect, there we go,

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Speaker 1: all right. It ended with her calling me a slut

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Speaker 1: in hanging up the call. After that, I've gotten several

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Speaker 1: messages from his other family members, such as the siblings,

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Speaker 1: his dad, and Eva's aunt. I've tried to just block

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Speaker 1: them all, but every now and then comes a new message.

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Speaker 1: I feel like more will happen, but the next update

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Speaker 1: will probably not be in less than a week or so,

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Speaker 1: as I'm going to try to sell off stuff I

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Speaker 1: don't need, find a new apartment, and fix everything with

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Speaker 1: I just want to get out of here as quickly

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Speaker 1: You are such a self centered salute leaving your boyfriend

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Speaker 1: will thank you all again so so much for the support. Honestly,

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Speaker 1: it has been a lot. It honestly has been helping

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Speaker 2: What kind of friend would not support you after this?

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Speaker 1: A fellow prankster, a prank afficionado, you know Game, recognize Game.

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Speaker 3: As a master of comedy. Wow, that is so so tragic.

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Speaker 1: Really want to quickly see there's got to be fake

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Speaker 1: proposal pranks. You're right? Five point five million views, one

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Speaker 3: I mean home boy could have launched his career, but

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Speaker 1: And is this is Kayla? We've been best friends for

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Speaker 3: The content format date a woman for a month and

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, that's bad. That is very bad.

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Speaker 3: You'll get a banger every week, a very big, successful

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Speaker 1: Proposals. Yo, that's actually a great idea.

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Speaker 2: The idea is so terrible that it's great.

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Speaker 1: It would work, It would work. How many do you

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Speaker 3: And then when someone says yes, then that's a that's

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Speaker 2: And then b uh, you're fucked.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, well then you just say it's a prank and

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I know, all right, Well, what would you do

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Speaker 1: Let us know your answers below, And John, I propose

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Speaker 3: My husband isn't over his dead wife, and I need

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Speaker 2: Am I the a hole?

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Speaker 1: I think you need to do like a whole seance.

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Speaker 1: You got to get the dead wife to come and say, hey,

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Speaker 1: it's okay, move on. I've been hooking up with Abe

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Speaker 1: Lincoln in the afterlife. I don't care about you anymore.

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Speaker 3: I got a fat piece of ghost ass, clapping them cloudy,

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Speaker 2: He freed the slaves and my orgasm ave Lincoln. There

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Speaker 2: you go. You can do it all, apparently, and he

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Speaker 2: was by that. He was something we learned. Something we learned.

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Speaker 1: You know, they're having dirty threesomes and in the afterlife

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Speaker 2: Anything the only thing that tall A uh uh.

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Speaker 1: All right.

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Speaker 3: So my husband, Daniel fake name for privacy, and I

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Speaker 2: He has an eight year old daughter.

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Speaker 3: Jane for Privacy, from his previous marriage, who I love

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Speaker 2: He's always been.

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Speaker 1: To tie the knot. That's sweet. Nice.

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Speaker 3: The wedding ceremony was everything a girl could dream of,

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Speaker 1: Okay, what's the ish bruh dish that ish bish.

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Speaker 3: I went up to meet him at the front desk

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Speaker 3: Never speak her name. She is dead and she's dead

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Speaker 3: We don't talk about Alyssa much unless we're around Jane,

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Speaker 3: I've never heard him call her his wife, especially now

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Speaker 2: She's off this planet now. She needs to be off.

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Speaker 1: Of your mind and brain. Never mention her name, just

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Speaker 3: Call her Voldie. Yeah, she's literally voldemorre get her out

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Speaker 3: of here. Stab those horcruxes. It wasn't until a week

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Speaker 3: all good until one of them asked me questions about baseball.

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Speaker 1: Bro, Stop talking about your dead wife all the time.

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Speaker 1: It left me very confused.

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Speaker 3: After talking to some more guys, I found out that

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Speaker 3: really offended. We had been married for ten months and

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Speaker 1: Ten months are rookie numbers, though, Collin, talk to me

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Speaker 1: when you got ten years? Okay, they got to put

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Speaker 1: some years on that scoreboard. That's right.

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Speaker 2: How long did the op's husband date the dead one?

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Speaker 2: The daughters eight?

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Speaker 3: And they got together like three years ago, so probably

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Speaker 3: it's weird because it's like you want to remember your

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Speaker 2: Yeah, she's not your ex wife.

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Speaker 1: You just call your dead wife. What do you call

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Speaker 1: call her by her name. I think just dead wife.

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Speaker 2: Saying dead wife every time you referring.

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Speaker 1: To her feels like a dead wife.

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Speaker 3: I kind of understand this predicament now that we're like

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Speaker 3: my wife who passed away, Jane.

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Speaker 1: Well, if you really want to like leave nothing up

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Speaker 1: call it your current wife. You're a live wife. There

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Speaker 1: we go, Yeah, living wife and my dead my breathing

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Speaker 2: It's like further, you know, breather and non breather.

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Speaker 1: And non breather. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I like that my breather, my breather breath is important

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Speaker 2: to it gives a wife.

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Speaker 1: Oh you know what people say, no, no, this is

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Speaker 1: And that feels like dead wife just too much.

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Speaker 3: It's a little different in a negative way. But late

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Speaker 3: why isn't she on time? She's tardy.

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Speaker 1: She's tardy all the time. Yeah, late wife.

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Speaker 2: There we go.

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Speaker 3: Nice, nice work, Sam beat chatchybte. When we got home,

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Speaker 3: we fought. He said he didn't even think about it

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Speaker 3: the fact that Alissa is his wife, despite how embarrassing

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Speaker 3: it is to explain to people that I'm not his

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Speaker 3: I told him that if he wasn't ready to move on,

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Speaker 1: Yeah, fucking get over her, dude. She's been dead for

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Speaker 3: Yeah, goodness, gracious, I spent the next night at my

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Speaker 3: things over by not talking about them, the perfect way

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Speaker 1: But under the rug.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but I can tell this is going to be

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Speaker 2: I am desperately trying to save. Is it worth saving?

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Speaker 1: Okay, at the end of the day, like she's not

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Speaker 1: coming to take your place. She's dead, so there's no

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Speaker 1: thing on your side. Op.

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Speaker 1: Second, I don't know, like it's like she died. It's

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Speaker 1: a skydivming accent or something, or like maybe she was

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Speaker 1: mad at But like I see what he's saying. It's

440
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Speaker 1: like it's not his ex wife. Yeah, he wants to

441
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Speaker 1: think of her as his wife, like till death to

442
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Speaker 1: us part. I think it's both of your deaths though,

443
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Speaker 1: maybe or just one death.

444
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Speaker 3: I guess either one, because you can't can't stay married

445
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Speaker 3: to a ghost or can you if the ghost pulls up.

446
00:20:53,440 --> 00:20:55,399
Speaker 1: Yeah, ghost pulls up. I don't know. Like, yeah, I

447
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Speaker 1: think there's a very easy thing just saying late wife

448
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Speaker 1: because that doesn't mean X, and that is distinction.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

450
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Speaker 3: I think that op definitely needs to be very considerate

451
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Speaker 3: because it is like.

452
00:21:06,600 --> 00:21:07,520
Speaker 1: His dead wife.

453
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Speaker 3: That's a really terrible thing to go through. And again,

454
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Speaker 3: like he doesn't want to like he wants to respect,

455
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Speaker 3: he wants to respect. Yes, yeah, And I do think

456
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Speaker 3: it is fair to sit down and be like, hey,

457
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Speaker 3: I want to make sure I'm respecting you in this

458
00:21:20,200 --> 00:21:22,960
Speaker 3: situation that you've been through that I haven't, But could

459
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Speaker 3: we do something that Like I also understand her side

460
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Speaker 3: of like, you know, having to explain like.

461
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Speaker 1: Oh no, it's the thing that's difficult. Is it sounds

462
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Speaker 1: like he talks about his dead wife more than OPI.

463
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Speaker 1: I think this is a situation OPI's settling for a

464
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Speaker 1: live wife. Dead wife is way better. It is possible that, yeah,

465
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Speaker 1: he has I don't that's varsity baseball. She's into sports.

466
00:21:46,880 --> 00:21:50,080
Speaker 1: She's the mother of your kid. If they were both

467
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Speaker 1: alive and he had to run a train over one,

468
00:21:52,920 --> 00:21:55,120
Speaker 1: I think he's running a train over the day life.

469
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Speaker 3: Though, what is it the utilitarian whatever the fuck my

470
00:21:58,680 --> 00:22:03,800
Speaker 3: goodness trolley problem, the Cholley problem. Yeah, this is tough.

471
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Speaker 1: I kind of need you guys' help on this one, because,

472
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Speaker 1: you know what, I'm kind of flip flopping to O

473
00:22:08,960 --> 00:22:12,720
Speaker 1: P side. It feels like the guy isn't quite open.

474
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Speaker 2: He might not have moved on yet.

475
00:22:14,040 --> 00:22:15,440
Speaker 1: I don't think he's moved on. I mean, I don't

476
00:22:15,480 --> 00:22:17,640
Speaker 1: know if you can even ask him to move on necessarily.

477
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Speaker 2: It's hard.

478
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Speaker 1: But like the fact that he's talking about his dead

479
00:22:21,240 --> 00:22:23,879
Speaker 1: wife more than you means either you're not living a

480
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Speaker 1: really interesting life.

481
00:22:24,840 --> 00:22:27,840
Speaker 2: But now think about this. Think about this.

482
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Speaker 3: You marry someone and you're like, I never fell out

483
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Speaker 3: of love with you, but I obviously want to continue

484
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Speaker 3: and build a relationship that I can grow up with

485
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Speaker 3: the old with the old one, like like I committed

486
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Speaker 3: to her for life, and I'm you know, like I

487
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Speaker 3: the love it never ends. I guess if that person

488
00:22:48,600 --> 00:22:51,080
Speaker 3: feels that way. But then also they're like, well, does

489
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Speaker 3: that mean that I am just doomed to be alone

490
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Speaker 3: for the rest of my life just because I am

491
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Speaker 3: committed to her and did And you know that's that's

492
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Speaker 3: such a rock in a hard place to be like talk.

493
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Speaker 1: You know. Well, that's what happens in Sleepless in Seattle, right,

494
00:23:06,680 --> 00:23:08,520
Speaker 1: is his wife dies and he's like, yo, like, I'm

495
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Speaker 1: never gonna find someone as good as her, Right, And

496
00:23:11,080 --> 00:23:13,479
Speaker 1: then he goes in the radio program and then in

497
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Speaker 1: Sleepless in Seattle, I haven't awesome? Did he? Did? He

498
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Speaker 1: find it? He went on the radio. He went on

499
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Speaker 1: the radio and was like, I love my dead wife

500
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Speaker 1: so much, and literally every woman in Seattle's like, god damn,

501
00:23:24,400 --> 00:23:26,679
Speaker 1: that makes me wet as fuck. And then he was

502
00:23:26,680 --> 00:23:29,160
Speaker 1: getting like hundreds of letters and then one girl stalked

503
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Speaker 1: him and then like.

504
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Speaker 3: If you found a girl on the radio, could that

505
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Speaker 3: Does that count as a ten on the radar?

506
00:23:34,520 --> 00:23:37,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's literally a radar. Yeah, like radar going out.

507
00:23:38,000 --> 00:23:40,199
Speaker 1: And if he finds a ten, I forget what? What

508
00:23:40,400 --> 00:23:44,400
Speaker 1: the what? The actresses? But she's cute? Yeah, I feel bad.

509
00:23:44,720 --> 00:23:46,520
Speaker 1: I don't know this is this is so tricky.

510
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Speaker 3: Everyone kind of loses is like, it kind of sucks

511
00:23:50,040 --> 00:23:52,120
Speaker 3: for everyone a little bit. I think there's a little

512
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Speaker 3: bit of a holary on both sides, but they also

513
00:23:55,320 --> 00:23:56,760
Speaker 3: both have very valid you know.

514
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Speaker 1: I think a very okay thing ask is can you reference,

515
00:24:01,680 --> 00:24:03,040
Speaker 1: can you call her your late wife?

516
00:24:03,080 --> 00:24:04,560
Speaker 2: I think I think that's I.

517
00:24:04,520 --> 00:24:07,240
Speaker 1: Think that is And if he says no, yes, then

518
00:24:07,240 --> 00:24:09,320
Speaker 1: that's kind of whack ask ask.

519
00:24:10,080 --> 00:24:11,760
Speaker 3: I think, yeah, if you think if he says no,

520
00:24:11,880 --> 00:24:14,760
Speaker 3: then maybe there's some processing or something he has to

521
00:24:14,800 --> 00:24:18,040
Speaker 3: work through. Yeah, maybe, but he's definitely not over her. Yeah,

522
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Speaker 3: it's kind of looking like that.

523
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Speaker 1: But I don't know if you get like, do you

524
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Speaker 1: get over your dead wife?

525
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Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying.

526
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Speaker 3: It's like, if you truly are committed to someone and

527
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Speaker 3: you're like, the love isn't just gonna.

528
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Speaker 1: You're not gonna have committed low and her.

529
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Speaker 3: With the memory of her, But am I also just

530
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Speaker 3: going to spin the rest of my life alone? When

531
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Speaker 3: they're not a person like I am, a person who

532
00:24:36,920 --> 00:24:39,240
Speaker 3: wants to seek and invest in a relationship in my

533
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Speaker 3: destiny be alone.

534
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Speaker 1: It's a good question. It's a good question.

535
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Speaker 3: I don't know if if anyone has any story, thoughts, whatever,

536
00:24:46,080 --> 00:24:48,680
Speaker 3: split on this one. Yeah, it's it's it's pretty tough.

537
00:24:49,040 --> 00:24:51,399
Speaker 3: Would love to hear what you think Opie should do?

538
00:24:51,560 --> 00:24:52,600
Speaker 1: Yeah? What should like?

539
00:24:52,760 --> 00:24:55,719
Speaker 2: What should Opie ask of the husband?

540
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Speaker 1: Yes? And what do you think the husband should do?

541
00:24:57,760 --> 00:25:00,280
Speaker 1: For op and like, is anyone at fault here? We

542
00:25:00,280 --> 00:25:02,000
Speaker 1: would lift in and we need your help on this one.

543
00:25:02,080 --> 00:25:06,000
Speaker 1: Yea for real, but you know what you could do

544
00:25:06,160 --> 00:25:12,000
Speaker 1: to help me resurrect Story three? Yes, hit it, hit it,