1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:05,200 Speaker 1: Today's show is pre recorded. Y'all know what time. I 2 00:00:05,320 --> 00:00:15,880 Speaker 1: don't know. Y'all have a sun giving them like the 3 00:00:15,960 --> 00:00:20,799 Speaker 1: million bucks things, and it shoves not me through good 4 00:00:24,880 --> 00:01:22,720 Speaker 1: to mother for I don't join me. You gotta turn you, 5 00:01:24,640 --> 00:01:43,759 Speaker 1: you gotta turn to turn them out. Turn you haven't 6 00:01:43,840 --> 00:01:47,560 Speaker 1: got to turn them out. Then turn the water the 7 00:01:47,640 --> 00:02:02,720 Speaker 1: water go. Come come on your baby now, huh, I 8 00:02:02,920 --> 00:02:07,440 Speaker 1: sure will. A good morning everybody, y'all listening to the voice, 9 00:02:08,120 --> 00:02:11,840 Speaker 1: come on dig me now. One and only Steve Harvey 10 00:02:11,880 --> 00:02:15,680 Speaker 1: got a radio show man. God is in a blessing business. 11 00:02:16,120 --> 00:02:20,760 Speaker 1: I'm in the receiving line, man. That's a good feeling. 12 00:02:21,880 --> 00:02:24,200 Speaker 1: I thank God for waking me up in the mornings, 13 00:02:24,720 --> 00:02:28,200 Speaker 1: I really really do. I thank God for the spirit 14 00:02:28,240 --> 00:02:31,520 Speaker 1: that he wakes me up with because I finally, but 15 00:02:31,639 --> 00:02:35,680 Speaker 1: I finally figured it out. Such a blessing that shouldn't 16 00:02:35,720 --> 00:02:37,959 Speaker 1: be taken for granted. The fact that you are up 17 00:02:38,000 --> 00:02:40,680 Speaker 1: to day, the fact that you just got off working, 18 00:02:40,760 --> 00:02:43,240 Speaker 1: you driving home, the fact that you got a job 19 00:02:43,600 --> 00:02:45,720 Speaker 1: to come home from, the fact that you got a 20 00:02:45,840 --> 00:02:49,000 Speaker 1: job to wake up too. Whatever it is the fact 21 00:02:49,080 --> 00:02:55,840 Speaker 1: that you can see, think, here, smell, walk, talk, rhyme, reason, whatever, 22 00:02:55,840 --> 00:02:58,880 Speaker 1: it is. It's a blessing. Man. I was talking to 23 00:02:58,919 --> 00:03:02,720 Speaker 1: a partner mine last night and an analogy came to 24 00:03:02,800 --> 00:03:04,880 Speaker 1: me last night of what my life has been like, 25 00:03:05,919 --> 00:03:08,120 Speaker 1: just going over my story with a friend of mine, 26 00:03:08,120 --> 00:03:10,440 Speaker 1: of all some of the things I had gone through, 27 00:03:10,480 --> 00:03:12,919 Speaker 1: and he never knew it because he said, man, you 28 00:03:13,000 --> 00:03:16,799 Speaker 1: never told me that we were just talking. One of 29 00:03:16,800 --> 00:03:19,880 Speaker 1: the things I remember, and it's kind of equated to 30 00:03:19,960 --> 00:03:25,040 Speaker 1: my life, was when I was a little boy and 31 00:03:25,080 --> 00:03:29,080 Speaker 1: should go to the the store with my mom and she 32 00:03:29,120 --> 00:03:33,119 Speaker 1: would let me buy a jigsaw puzzle. Now, for those 33 00:03:33,160 --> 00:03:36,360 Speaker 1: of you, a jigsaw puzzle comes in a box that 34 00:03:36,480 --> 00:03:41,400 Speaker 1: are no instructions. It just comes in a box and 35 00:03:41,520 --> 00:03:44,600 Speaker 1: it's simple. You're gonna dump the pieces out in a 36 00:03:44,680 --> 00:03:48,560 Speaker 1: pile and you're gonna try to put the pieces together 37 00:03:49,680 --> 00:03:53,200 Speaker 1: until it looks like the picture that's on the cover 38 00:03:53,360 --> 00:03:59,360 Speaker 1: of the box. That's as simple as it is. Here 39 00:03:59,440 --> 00:04:06,800 Speaker 1: is the deal. I would select a jigsaw puzzle based 40 00:04:06,880 --> 00:04:13,040 Speaker 1: on the picture that I liked and if I thought 41 00:04:13,120 --> 00:04:17,440 Speaker 1: I could do it. Now, if the picture looked too crazy, 42 00:04:17,920 --> 00:04:21,240 Speaker 1: if it looked too intricate, I didn't want that puzzle, 43 00:04:22,240 --> 00:04:24,280 Speaker 1: you know. And the thing was back in the day 44 00:04:24,320 --> 00:04:27,000 Speaker 1: you got a jigsaw puzzle. You had a hundred piece puzzles. 45 00:04:27,240 --> 00:04:30,719 Speaker 1: Four hundred piece puzzles, man, then they say a thousand 46 00:04:30,800 --> 00:04:35,279 Speaker 1: piece puzzle. You go, oh. So those were a little 47 00:04:35,320 --> 00:04:38,040 Speaker 1: difficult for me when I was a little boy, so 48 00:04:38,120 --> 00:04:41,440 Speaker 1: I didn't want that. As I got a little bit older, 49 00:04:42,480 --> 00:04:46,719 Speaker 1: I had more challenging puzzles, you know, four fifty five 50 00:04:46,920 --> 00:04:52,279 Speaker 1: hundred piece puzzles. But I always picked a picture of 51 00:04:52,440 --> 00:04:56,039 Speaker 1: something I liked. So it's very simple. You get the 52 00:04:56,080 --> 00:04:58,360 Speaker 1: jigsaw puzzle, you get it home, you open it up, 53 00:04:58,360 --> 00:05:01,719 Speaker 1: you dump it out on the table. You flipped all 54 00:05:01,800 --> 00:05:05,960 Speaker 1: the pieces over so you can see them, and then 55 00:05:06,080 --> 00:05:08,760 Speaker 1: I would try to saw them based on the colors 56 00:05:08,760 --> 00:05:11,839 Speaker 1: on the box. If it was like a black section, 57 00:05:12,200 --> 00:05:14,920 Speaker 1: I'd take all the black pieces and slide them over there. 58 00:05:14,960 --> 00:05:17,200 Speaker 1: If it was some flowers, I'd try to find all 59 00:05:17,200 --> 00:05:20,200 Speaker 1: the pictures with little jig saw pieces with the little 60 00:05:20,200 --> 00:05:23,359 Speaker 1: floor and I separate them. And then I started putting 61 00:05:23,360 --> 00:05:25,440 Speaker 1: it together. And the way I started was I try 62 00:05:25,480 --> 00:05:28,320 Speaker 1: to build the border first, because I knew all the 63 00:05:28,440 --> 00:05:32,040 Speaker 1: straight edges had to be side by side at one point. 64 00:05:32,560 --> 00:05:35,279 Speaker 1: And it was funny, man, because it's related to my life. 65 00:05:36,080 --> 00:05:40,279 Speaker 1: I would start putting the pieces together of the picture 66 00:05:40,520 --> 00:05:45,160 Speaker 1: I saw that I liked, and that would be my picture. 67 00:05:46,240 --> 00:05:50,120 Speaker 1: A lot of people didn't like Jig saw puzzles. As 68 00:05:50,120 --> 00:05:52,200 Speaker 1: a matter of fact, none of the boys on the 69 00:05:52,200 --> 00:05:55,880 Speaker 1: street like Jig Saw puzzles but me, because they just 70 00:05:55,920 --> 00:05:59,440 Speaker 1: didn't want to go through the intricate details of figuring 71 00:05:59,480 --> 00:06:02,160 Speaker 1: that out. Really go outside and run or something like that. 72 00:06:02,960 --> 00:06:07,279 Speaker 1: And so what happened was, as I got older, I 73 00:06:07,400 --> 00:06:11,280 Speaker 1: wanted more difficult than challenging puzzles, but I wouldn't go 74 00:06:11,400 --> 00:06:14,599 Speaker 1: too far. I wanted some nice stuff to happen. I 75 00:06:14,680 --> 00:06:17,240 Speaker 1: had a picture of what I wanted for my life, 76 00:06:17,440 --> 00:06:20,400 Speaker 1: but I didn't want to go too far because it 77 00:06:20,520 --> 00:06:24,760 Speaker 1: was so challenging and difficult. I couldn't see myself at 78 00:06:24,800 --> 00:06:27,600 Speaker 1: all of that, and I didn't have the time, the knowledge, 79 00:06:27,839 --> 00:06:32,240 Speaker 1: the expertise to figuring all the intricate details. And I 80 00:06:32,360 --> 00:06:37,039 Speaker 1: discovered something when I was talking last night. That's what 81 00:06:37,360 --> 00:06:40,880 Speaker 1: happens in life to a lot of people. You get 82 00:06:40,880 --> 00:06:43,559 Speaker 1: bogged down with the details of coming up and trying 83 00:06:43,560 --> 00:06:46,360 Speaker 1: to create the picture that you want for yourself. You 84 00:06:46,400 --> 00:06:48,800 Speaker 1: put it to the side. You said, ah, that puzs 85 00:06:48,800 --> 00:06:51,440 Speaker 1: are crazy. Next thing, you know, you crumble it up 86 00:06:51,480 --> 00:06:53,080 Speaker 1: and put it back in the box. So you go 87 00:06:53,200 --> 00:06:55,599 Speaker 1: halfway and you get stuck, and you get to the 88 00:06:55,680 --> 00:06:57,680 Speaker 1: part where it ain't a lot of different colors. It's 89 00:06:57,720 --> 00:07:00,000 Speaker 1: all the same. And that's a little bit more challenge. 90 00:07:00,320 --> 00:07:02,720 Speaker 1: So that may stop you. But it's somewhere in the 91 00:07:02,880 --> 00:07:07,000 Speaker 1: jigsaw puzzle that it gets very difficult and challenging. The 92 00:07:07,120 --> 00:07:11,160 Speaker 1: bigger the picture you want, but then what a happened 93 00:07:11,600 --> 00:07:14,600 Speaker 1: in your life, It's just like what ha happened in 94 00:07:14,640 --> 00:07:18,880 Speaker 1: the jigsaw. Once you get comfortable and you don't mind 95 00:07:18,920 --> 00:07:24,160 Speaker 1: a challenge, you could get a bigger picture. But here's 96 00:07:24,200 --> 00:07:27,320 Speaker 1: the key to it, though, if you put God in 97 00:07:27,400 --> 00:07:31,600 Speaker 1: your mix, see the picture that I saw for myself 98 00:07:31,680 --> 00:07:35,000 Speaker 1: as a boy is not the picture that has happened 99 00:07:35,000 --> 00:07:38,760 Speaker 1: to me as a man. Because along the way from 100 00:07:38,840 --> 00:07:42,040 Speaker 1: boyhood to manhood, from the time I was ten, you 101 00:07:42,160 --> 00:07:47,440 Speaker 1: understand what happened along the riding now was I started 102 00:07:47,440 --> 00:07:50,640 Speaker 1: putting God in the mix. And so now the picture 103 00:07:51,320 --> 00:07:53,960 Speaker 1: that I have now is not the picture I saw, 104 00:07:54,680 --> 00:07:58,160 Speaker 1: It's the picture that God saw. So what I'm saying 105 00:07:58,320 --> 00:08:03,320 Speaker 1: this analogy is the picture you have may be difficult 106 00:08:03,320 --> 00:08:07,200 Speaker 1: to complete, but if you were to include God in 107 00:08:07,240 --> 00:08:12,040 Speaker 1: your life, put God in your jigsaw puzzle. God will 108 00:08:12,120 --> 00:08:15,360 Speaker 1: not only help you complete the puzzle, and he gonna 109 00:08:15,360 --> 00:08:19,320 Speaker 1: add some pieces, he gonna do some favors, he gonna 110 00:08:19,360 --> 00:08:21,920 Speaker 1: show some mercy, and you're gonna look up and the 111 00:08:21,960 --> 00:08:24,480 Speaker 1: picture that you're able to end up with or be 112 00:08:24,560 --> 00:08:28,840 Speaker 1: totally different and much more complete, much more beautiful or 113 00:08:28,920 --> 00:08:31,960 Speaker 1: bigger picture than the one you had. Because there's no 114 00:08:32,040 --> 00:08:34,120 Speaker 1: way that I could have saw the life that I 115 00:08:34,240 --> 00:08:37,960 Speaker 1: have today back when I was a boy. And it 116 00:08:38,000 --> 00:08:40,520 Speaker 1: amazes me when I hear people say I always saw 117 00:08:40,640 --> 00:08:43,920 Speaker 1: this for myself. I didn't do that. I didn't quite 118 00:08:43,960 --> 00:08:46,319 Speaker 1: see this for myself. I don't know how you can 119 00:08:46,400 --> 00:08:49,559 Speaker 1: have the ability to see what God really has for you. 120 00:08:49,920 --> 00:08:54,120 Speaker 1: But man, he's a masterful jigsaw man. He's an incredible 121 00:08:54,200 --> 00:08:57,640 Speaker 1: puzzle complet So if you got a puzzle that's challenging 122 00:08:57,720 --> 00:09:00,600 Speaker 1: to you, maybe you need to see what's the picture 123 00:09:00,679 --> 00:09:04,080 Speaker 1: that God has for your life. If God were in 124 00:09:04,240 --> 00:09:08,880 Speaker 1: your life, if you completed the puzzle, what would it 125 00:09:08,960 --> 00:09:13,320 Speaker 1: look like. It'll be a far more extensive puzzle and 126 00:09:13,400 --> 00:09:16,120 Speaker 1: it would be a far more beautiful piece of scenery 127 00:09:16,120 --> 00:09:19,400 Speaker 1: than you could have ever imagined tears come in my 128 00:09:19,480 --> 00:09:23,280 Speaker 1: eyes because I can't believe God bought me this far. 129 00:09:23,679 --> 00:09:26,400 Speaker 1: I can't believe that when I opened up and accepted 130 00:09:26,480 --> 00:09:28,920 Speaker 1: him and started talking to him, that he would add 131 00:09:28,960 --> 00:09:32,800 Speaker 1: all these pieceles to my jigsaw puzzle, and my jigsaw 132 00:09:32,880 --> 00:09:35,480 Speaker 1: puzzle would look like this. And I could tell you 133 00:09:35,559 --> 00:09:38,160 Speaker 1: I ain't got a whole lot to do with with 134 00:09:38,160 --> 00:09:41,240 Speaker 1: with what I had and turned into, it's mostly favored 135 00:09:41,240 --> 00:09:43,920 Speaker 1: and blessings and grace and mercy of God. And I 136 00:09:44,000 --> 00:09:46,880 Speaker 1: looked up and I just got a much bigger jigsaw 137 00:09:46,960 --> 00:09:50,559 Speaker 1: puzzle completed. And guess what, He ain't through with me yet. 138 00:09:50,920 --> 00:09:54,640 Speaker 1: That's what's amazing and exciting about a relationship with God. 139 00:09:55,040 --> 00:10:00,199 Speaker 1: God could take your jigsaw puzzle and fix it. Good 140 00:10:00,240 --> 00:10:05,120 Speaker 1: morning show, ladies in general, we are here welcome to 141 00:10:05,160 --> 00:10:08,640 Speaker 1: the ride. On yesterday it was announced that Roscoe Wallace 142 00:10:09,559 --> 00:10:11,520 Speaker 1: was not coming in to do a song, but he 143 00:10:11,640 --> 00:10:14,199 Speaker 1: is here today to bring us in on the latest updates. 144 00:10:14,360 --> 00:10:17,559 Speaker 1: He'll answer questions about the three trillion dollars lawsuit against 145 00:10:17,600 --> 00:10:21,000 Speaker 1: the entire music industry as we close out the new year. 146 00:10:21,679 --> 00:10:25,880 Speaker 1: Roscoe Wallace is here, ladies and gentlemen. The legend the 147 00:10:26,120 --> 00:10:35,760 Speaker 1: Mill the truth, Roscoe Wallace. But everybody on the Lord, 148 00:10:35,840 --> 00:10:44,040 Speaker 1: every truth. We're going away right hey, hey call it, 149 00:10:44,200 --> 00:10:47,520 Speaker 1: call it. We're going on ro Man, just monk, go 150 00:10:47,600 --> 00:10:51,240 Speaker 1: over there, Tommy, We're going over here, top top, Roscoe. 151 00:10:52,040 --> 00:10:54,240 Speaker 1: Everything go hey, hold on, hold on. I don't like 152 00:10:54,320 --> 00:10:57,360 Speaker 1: that little honding through that time time you know coming, 153 00:10:57,480 --> 00:10:59,719 Speaker 1: You like that, you know, little bit more love for you, 154 00:10:59,760 --> 00:11:02,520 Speaker 1: Paul out the home you my man, here you go. 155 00:11:02,679 --> 00:11:04,640 Speaker 1: You know, man, hey, hey, hey, you know you might 156 00:11:04,679 --> 00:11:06,680 Speaker 1: be on top right now, but you know you could 157 00:11:06,720 --> 00:11:13,199 Speaker 1: find yourself in the three trillion dollar lawsuit too. How 158 00:11:13,320 --> 00:11:17,120 Speaker 1: he spoke to you? Yeah, you know. So I'm here 159 00:11:17,160 --> 00:11:19,320 Speaker 1: to answer any question about the lawsuit. I'm there with 160 00:11:19,360 --> 00:11:24,120 Speaker 1: my lawyers yesterday or from the great law Firm or 161 00:11:24,200 --> 00:11:27,679 Speaker 1: Ernston Winston and old people run down. I got two 162 00:11:27,760 --> 00:11:30,079 Speaker 1: law firm. I got Johnny Cochran, the old law firm 163 00:11:31,120 --> 00:11:33,160 Speaker 1: he had. I got Arnson Wins because you know, you 164 00:11:33,240 --> 00:11:35,480 Speaker 1: gotta have white people. You know you're gonna try to 165 00:11:35,480 --> 00:11:39,000 Speaker 1: get till they don't either trying to call crump. If 166 00:11:39,000 --> 00:11:41,000 Speaker 1: you're trying to get a trill. You already know that. 167 00:11:41,960 --> 00:11:45,320 Speaker 1: I got Johnny cockering people. He got old j Off 168 00:11:45,320 --> 00:11:47,199 Speaker 1: I know gonna hear where he can give me some money. 169 00:11:47,440 --> 00:11:49,880 Speaker 1: And here I got Arnson, Wins and White In question, 170 00:11:50,160 --> 00:11:52,040 Speaker 1: I want to ask Rosa. I mean you say three 171 00:11:52,120 --> 00:11:55,520 Speaker 1: tree me, everybody's pump Daddy and the hair. Yeah, pump 172 00:11:55,559 --> 00:11:59,240 Speaker 1: Dad isn't take that? Take that mine? Take mine back 173 00:11:59,240 --> 00:12:07,680 Speaker 1: of one up? What you take that as yours? Take 174 00:12:07,720 --> 00:12:10,880 Speaker 1: that one? Yeah you took that, took that? What you did? 175 00:12:13,360 --> 00:12:19,640 Speaker 1: Kirk Franklin, you never mean mentioned any k smile yeah, 176 00:12:19,640 --> 00:12:26,200 Speaker 1: smile you hatch Kirk ever said he smiled before that song. 177 00:12:28,880 --> 00:12:33,760 Speaker 1: Not quite. He told me everything. Who ell wow, you're 178 00:12:33,760 --> 00:12:39,720 Speaker 1: sawing the gospel artists and the r Marvin South gonna 179 00:12:40,080 --> 00:12:45,400 Speaker 1: law suit the best in me. He saw the best 180 00:12:45,440 --> 00:12:47,680 Speaker 1: in me. Now you finishing the best in me too. 181 00:12:50,240 --> 00:12:55,520 Speaker 1: Everybody ever could have made that well yeah, yeah, he 182 00:12:55,600 --> 00:13:00,840 Speaker 1: had never seen that before. I'm thinking Motown like Smokey Robinson, 183 00:13:01,320 --> 00:13:04,679 Speaker 1: smoke ass gone, you know, smoking old ass gold. What 184 00:13:04,960 --> 00:13:10,880 Speaker 1: I love you? When we cruised into Calvil, Yeah, Rody, 185 00:13:11,360 --> 00:13:16,560 Speaker 1: what about DeAngelo? He remade that degel rode it. I'm 186 00:13:16,600 --> 00:13:21,640 Speaker 1: shooing DeAngelo for all counds of story, taking the clothes 187 00:13:21,760 --> 00:13:26,680 Speaker 1: all black Mama. This he stole Marvin gay sound. I'm 188 00:13:26,679 --> 00:13:30,000 Speaker 1: shooing Marvin he stole Marvin Son. No there, welling on 189 00:13:30,160 --> 00:13:33,760 Speaker 1: me all right, Rosco. I think we're gonna hear from 190 00:13:33,800 --> 00:13:37,200 Speaker 1: you later on the show. Hear from you later in 191 00:13:37,240 --> 00:13:40,320 Speaker 1: the show, coming up at thirty two minutes after the hour. Nephew, 192 00:13:40,320 --> 00:13:45,320 Speaker 1: Timmy's run that prank back right after this. You're listening 193 00:13:45,559 --> 00:13:49,320 Speaker 1: to Steve Harvey Morning Show. Time to start your morning off. 194 00:13:49,320 --> 00:13:51,920 Speaker 1: Now we'd run that prank back. What you got, nephew, 195 00:13:52,720 --> 00:13:57,040 Speaker 1: We're gonna do three minute remarks. Three minute remarks. If 196 00:13:57,080 --> 00:13:59,040 Speaker 1: you've ever gone to a black funeral, you know how 197 00:13:59,080 --> 00:14:02,680 Speaker 1: it goes. Three minute real, nothing more, nothing less. You 198 00:14:02,720 --> 00:14:07,400 Speaker 1: know how it goes. Here it is cat dog. Well, yes, 199 00:14:07,480 --> 00:14:11,480 Speaker 1: I'm trying to reach your brother Keith. Please. Yeah, this 200 00:14:11,640 --> 00:14:14,800 Speaker 1: is Keith, Keith. How are you doing? This is Lawrence 201 00:14:15,320 --> 00:14:20,880 Speaker 1: over at il funeral home. Okay. We are the ones 202 00:14:20,960 --> 00:14:25,560 Speaker 1: that have the U doing the funeral for sister Dolores. 203 00:14:25,960 --> 00:14:32,920 Speaker 1: And that is h your my understanding, right, yeah, okay, 204 00:14:33,040 --> 00:14:38,120 Speaker 1: And as you know, the funeral is uh this coming Thursday. Yes, 205 00:14:38,280 --> 00:14:42,800 Speaker 1: I'll be that Thursday. I'm giving you a call because 206 00:14:43,120 --> 00:14:48,000 Speaker 1: it's been brought to my attention. Uh that you were 207 00:14:48,040 --> 00:14:54,960 Speaker 1: going to be giving remarks for the funeral. Is that correct? Yes? Absolutely, Okay. 208 00:14:55,000 --> 00:14:57,440 Speaker 1: I wanted to call you because we're getting ready to 209 00:14:57,480 --> 00:15:01,320 Speaker 1: print the programs for the few the rule and let 210 00:15:01,400 --> 00:15:06,960 Speaker 1: you know that they have taken you off for the remarks. Uh, 211 00:15:07,440 --> 00:15:11,880 Speaker 1: because they say that you're not going to be what 212 00:15:11,920 --> 00:15:15,240 Speaker 1: do you mean taking me off? Well, what I'm saying 213 00:15:15,240 --> 00:15:18,000 Speaker 1: that they say that you're you're not going to abide 214 00:15:18,080 --> 00:15:22,080 Speaker 1: by the two three minute rule that they have for remarks, 215 00:15:22,080 --> 00:15:27,320 Speaker 1: and they wanted they've they've taken you off. And uh uh? Who? Who? 216 00:15:27,320 --> 00:15:31,160 Speaker 1: Who is they? Who? Who come out? Come off? Who? Who? 217 00:15:31,240 --> 00:15:35,320 Speaker 1: What's your name is? Launch? I'm Launched, I'm the actual 218 00:15:35,360 --> 00:15:39,280 Speaker 1: funeral director lord. And who who told you to take 219 00:15:39,360 --> 00:15:43,480 Speaker 1: me off? One of the one of the family members 220 00:15:43,520 --> 00:15:47,400 Speaker 1: I'm assuming is who who made the adjustment? And an 221 00:15:47,480 --> 00:15:51,480 Speaker 1: adjustice that ain't no adjustment, that's that's changing the whole program? 222 00:15:51,880 --> 00:15:54,760 Speaker 1: Who else is on the list? I mean there's quite 223 00:15:54,800 --> 00:15:59,840 Speaker 1: a few family members doing different things, uh throughout the funeral? Okay, 224 00:16:00,760 --> 00:16:02,360 Speaker 1: So how did you get to my name? Is what 225 00:16:02,400 --> 00:16:05,800 Speaker 1: I'm trying to figure out that they said, let listen 226 00:16:05,800 --> 00:16:08,640 Speaker 1: to me, listen, listen to me Listen to me, brother, 227 00:16:08,720 --> 00:16:10,640 Speaker 1: keep listen to me. What they said it is that 228 00:16:10,760 --> 00:16:15,480 Speaker 1: you weren't going to abide by the time, you weren't 229 00:16:15,520 --> 00:16:21,600 Speaker 1: going to do your remarks in three minutes or less. Listen, Listen, listen, listen. 230 00:16:22,200 --> 00:16:25,600 Speaker 1: Monty raised me. He put me through college. And you 231 00:16:25,680 --> 00:16:28,640 Speaker 1: think I'm been, I've Beenna goes there in her funeral 232 00:16:29,200 --> 00:16:34,720 Speaker 1: and be under two minutes. Well, listen, listen, brother, keep brother, 233 00:16:34,800 --> 00:16:38,080 Speaker 1: keep listen to me. Normally, when we have these funerals, 234 00:16:38,760 --> 00:16:43,960 Speaker 1: people who give remarks, we have them three minutes or less. Okay, 235 00:16:44,280 --> 00:16:46,360 Speaker 1: I'll tell you what. I'll tell you what mister lord 236 00:16:46,960 --> 00:16:52,800 Speaker 1: don't list? Is she loan the list? We have a sealer. Yes, 237 00:16:52,920 --> 00:16:56,800 Speaker 1: there's a ceiler that's singing your name off the list. 238 00:16:57,080 --> 00:16:58,880 Speaker 1: Take her off the list and put me where she 239 00:16:58,920 --> 00:17:02,400 Speaker 1: supposed to be. What I can't and her time is 240 00:17:02,640 --> 00:17:11,359 Speaker 1: Bobby Joao Bobby, Yes, Bobby Junior is given remarks. That's 241 00:17:12,000 --> 00:17:16,520 Speaker 1: that's that's Deloris's, that's mister Lawes's son, right, Yes, every son, 242 00:17:16,640 --> 00:17:19,040 Speaker 1: the one that's been locked up. He just got out 243 00:17:19,040 --> 00:17:21,320 Speaker 1: of till the truth be told. He the one Dawn 244 00:17:21,320 --> 00:17:23,560 Speaker 1: and then put her in the co You needn't take 245 00:17:23,680 --> 00:17:25,760 Speaker 1: him off the list too. Give me all that time, 246 00:17:25,760 --> 00:17:29,200 Speaker 1: because I mean, if I gonna take nothing that Keith, 247 00:17:29,320 --> 00:17:31,199 Speaker 1: let me let me. Let me just say this to you. 248 00:17:31,960 --> 00:17:36,440 Speaker 1: I cannot take Sheila or Bobby Junior off. I can't 249 00:17:36,520 --> 00:17:43,200 Speaker 1: make any alterations to this program unless they say that, Actually, sir, 250 00:17:43,920 --> 00:17:47,400 Speaker 1: you already you already taking you already taking people name off. 251 00:17:47,440 --> 00:17:51,240 Speaker 1: You're taking my name off. But but they they orchestrated 252 00:17:51,280 --> 00:17:55,280 Speaker 1: this though, who is they? Who is they? Theys for 253 00:17:55,440 --> 00:17:57,679 Speaker 1: having my problem? They try to take me off my 254 00:17:58,119 --> 00:18:03,000 Speaker 1: hockey program? Who is state? Sir? I'm not gonna get 255 00:18:03,040 --> 00:18:05,840 Speaker 1: into a family matter. But until they say that, you 256 00:18:05,840 --> 00:18:10,280 Speaker 1: can't matter. Sure, I'm not gonna. I don't want to. 257 00:18:10,400 --> 00:18:13,160 Speaker 1: I don't want to have this turn out to be bad, 258 00:18:13,240 --> 00:18:15,800 Speaker 1: and we want to have a great homegoing for sister 259 00:18:15,880 --> 00:18:19,320 Speaker 1: Deloyd's okay, damn right. And if I don't get to 260 00:18:19,359 --> 00:18:22,639 Speaker 1: say nothing, I guaranteese, I guarantee you it's gonna be 261 00:18:22,640 --> 00:18:24,920 Speaker 1: a truthful one in there. Somebody else is gonna get 262 00:18:25,119 --> 00:18:28,360 Speaker 1: things and a call for tooth. I guarantees that if 263 00:18:28,400 --> 00:18:30,320 Speaker 1: I don't get to say nothing that my monkey funeral, 264 00:18:30,680 --> 00:18:34,160 Speaker 1: monkey didn't pay for the college, I didn't put six 265 00:18:34,200 --> 00:18:37,600 Speaker 1: thousand in the funeral. I bet you I tell you this. 266 00:18:37,760 --> 00:18:40,680 Speaker 1: I'll tell you this, mister lord. I bet you whether 267 00:18:40,720 --> 00:18:43,119 Speaker 1: I don't want the program, I'm not. I bet you 268 00:18:43,200 --> 00:18:45,640 Speaker 1: I say it with the I want to. I'll bet 269 00:18:45,680 --> 00:18:50,520 Speaker 1: you that much. You tell Bay that I didn't. I 270 00:18:50,720 --> 00:18:53,480 Speaker 1: didn't put me through college. I can put money on 271 00:18:53,520 --> 00:18:56,440 Speaker 1: the funeral. I called around a few who ain't putting 272 00:18:56,480 --> 00:18:58,280 Speaker 1: no money on the funeral. Fell in, they can't be 273 00:18:58,440 --> 00:19:05,520 Speaker 1: on the program, man, Keep they when they decide who 274 00:19:05,560 --> 00:19:09,840 Speaker 1: who Who's owning? If they changed the format, then I 275 00:19:09,840 --> 00:19:14,160 Speaker 1: will call you back. Who who the is thegue? That's 276 00:19:14,200 --> 00:19:16,720 Speaker 1: what I'm trying to get. Get you understand who is back? 277 00:19:17,200 --> 00:19:19,400 Speaker 1: Can I can? I tell you something and I don't 278 00:19:19,440 --> 00:19:22,800 Speaker 1: want you to get to I raped okay, go ahead, 279 00:19:22,920 --> 00:19:25,639 Speaker 1: go ahead, go ahead, man, I just want to say this. 280 00:19:26,359 --> 00:19:28,920 Speaker 1: Keep with them. This is Nephew Tommy from the Steve 281 00:19:28,960 --> 00:19:33,199 Speaker 1: Harvey Mornin Show. You just got breakd just gotten breaked 282 00:19:33,200 --> 00:19:43,080 Speaker 1: by your cousin, Bobby Junior. You boom, I'm Bobby Junior up. 283 00:19:45,119 --> 00:19:50,399 Speaker 1: I'm kicking Bobby. I know that my pressure is all up. 284 00:19:50,440 --> 00:19:53,080 Speaker 1: I ain't got time to be playing man taking me 285 00:19:53,119 --> 00:20:03,240 Speaker 1: on damn program. I'm h baby said, y'all grew up 286 00:20:03,280 --> 00:20:06,640 Speaker 1: like brothers man, and you was. You was basically another 287 00:20:06,680 --> 00:20:10,080 Speaker 1: son of mister Lord's. That's right, Yes, yes, I was. Man. 288 00:20:10,320 --> 00:20:14,439 Speaker 1: Oh hey, let me ask you this man, what is 289 00:20:14,480 --> 00:20:17,600 Speaker 1: the baddest and I mean the baddest radio show in 290 00:20:17,640 --> 00:20:23,119 Speaker 1: the land? Steve Harvey morning shout? Have y'all ever done that? 291 00:20:23,160 --> 00:20:25,520 Speaker 1: Have you ever given the three minute remarks at a funeral? 292 00:20:29,040 --> 00:20:32,600 Speaker 1: That's a long three minutes to talk. People don't know, 293 00:20:32,640 --> 00:20:35,680 Speaker 1: because we talked for a living three minutes, right, that's 294 00:20:35,680 --> 00:20:40,840 Speaker 1: a very long time. It's just you talking. Yeah, yeah, 295 00:20:40,960 --> 00:20:43,400 Speaker 1: what you say at three minutes? If you ain't got 296 00:20:43,440 --> 00:20:49,600 Speaker 1: no jokes, it's a few yeah, if you're not a professional, yeah, 297 00:20:49,880 --> 00:20:53,560 Speaker 1: all right, all right, nephew, thank you. Coming up next, 298 00:20:53,600 --> 00:20:56,560 Speaker 1: it is asked the Cello Chief Love Officer, Steve Harvey. 299 00:20:56,640 --> 00:21:01,640 Speaker 1: In the building, you're listening every morning show, all right? 300 00:21:01,680 --> 00:21:03,880 Speaker 1: Coming up at the top of the hour, Miss Anna's 301 00:21:03,920 --> 00:21:07,359 Speaker 1: standing by with our national news and an entertainment news 302 00:21:07,400 --> 00:21:12,320 Speaker 1: still trending, Snoop Dogg and the Golden Globe nominations. When 303 00:21:12,359 --> 00:21:18,160 Speaker 1: he said, ben Afleck blow it up, but he had 304 00:21:18,160 --> 00:21:20,960 Speaker 1: a good, cute little funny comeback every time he did it. 305 00:21:21,280 --> 00:21:23,400 Speaker 1: And we'll talk about that at the top of the hour. 306 00:21:23,480 --> 00:21:26,280 Speaker 1: But right now it is time for Steve's favorite segment. 307 00:21:26,320 --> 00:21:31,240 Speaker 1: It's called Ask the CLO Chief Love Officer Steve Harvey, 308 00:21:31,280 --> 00:21:35,360 Speaker 1: Ready for your love questions? Yeah, this one is from 309 00:21:35,480 --> 00:21:40,040 Speaker 1: Anonymous in Delaware. Anonymous says, I'm a thirty eight year 310 00:21:40,040 --> 00:21:43,280 Speaker 1: old married man, and I have a question about men 311 00:21:43,520 --> 00:21:47,760 Speaker 1: looking at beautiful sexy women's pictures all day on Instagram. 312 00:21:48,400 --> 00:21:50,720 Speaker 1: You did a Strawberry letter about this, and I don't 313 00:21:50,760 --> 00:21:53,120 Speaker 1: see it as a form of cheating. I don't mind 314 00:21:53,119 --> 00:21:56,120 Speaker 1: if my wife looks that oiled up sexy men all day. 315 00:21:56,200 --> 00:21:58,800 Speaker 1: If she's looking at those men, it motivates me to 316 00:21:58,880 --> 00:22:05,560 Speaker 1: keep myself up, and vice versa. Why is this bad cloth? Well, 317 00:22:05,600 --> 00:22:07,639 Speaker 1: I mean, dog, I mean, you could do like you 318 00:22:07,640 --> 00:22:13,040 Speaker 1: want to do, you know, but I just I mean, 319 00:22:13,200 --> 00:22:16,600 Speaker 1: you can't tell me you ain't having thoughts? Why are 320 00:22:16,600 --> 00:22:19,280 Speaker 1: you looking at these pictures? And if you're having thoughts, 321 00:22:19,720 --> 00:22:22,520 Speaker 1: you're building up a reservoir these thoughts in your head, 322 00:22:22,760 --> 00:22:26,040 Speaker 1: and that's leading to temptation and then after while the 323 00:22:26,040 --> 00:22:29,640 Speaker 1: opportunity to act on it could become greater. Hey man, 324 00:22:29,760 --> 00:22:31,399 Speaker 1: I'll tell you what do like you want to do, 325 00:22:33,240 --> 00:22:36,399 Speaker 1: go ahead, but that that an't trying to fake me 326 00:22:36,440 --> 00:22:38,880 Speaker 1: and fool me with it. If my woman is looking 327 00:22:38,920 --> 00:22:41,639 Speaker 1: at all up me and body, that makes me moding. 328 00:22:41,720 --> 00:22:45,000 Speaker 1: That's not true. You can stop that. If she looking 329 00:22:45,000 --> 00:22:47,320 Speaker 1: at all up men's body all day, you know your 330 00:22:47,359 --> 00:22:50,200 Speaker 1: ass don't look like that. Don't shoot. I know, I 331 00:22:50,520 --> 00:22:53,679 Speaker 1: ain't even got no. Oh, I don't even so you 332 00:22:53,720 --> 00:22:57,080 Speaker 1: can say that pardon and trying to trick me with it. 333 00:22:57,240 --> 00:22:59,560 Speaker 1: She looking at I don't mind because you do mind. 334 00:23:00,280 --> 00:23:05,400 Speaker 1: That's not true. That's not true. Ain't no man comfortable 335 00:23:05,400 --> 00:23:07,160 Speaker 1: with a woman look at a whole bunch of all 336 00:23:07,240 --> 00:23:10,280 Speaker 1: of me? And is it not? Gim stop none of 337 00:23:10,359 --> 00:23:14,560 Speaker 1: his faith? And you man because you rode in. Yeah, 338 00:23:14,600 --> 00:23:17,879 Speaker 1: all right. Moving on to Sherry and Brooklyn, Sherry writes, 339 00:23:17,920 --> 00:23:20,600 Speaker 1: I'm going through a divorce right now, and my ex 340 00:23:20,680 --> 00:23:23,560 Speaker 1: has moved on to an old friend that I introduced 341 00:23:23,640 --> 00:23:26,119 Speaker 1: him to. I don't care about what he's doing, but 342 00:23:26,160 --> 00:23:29,200 Speaker 1: I do hold her accountable for her actions. Oh wait, 343 00:23:29,280 --> 00:23:31,960 Speaker 1: she introduced who Shirley? I mean, she introduced her act. 344 00:23:32,040 --> 00:23:35,640 Speaker 1: She's going through a divorce right now and her exes 345 00:23:35,680 --> 00:23:39,159 Speaker 1: moved on to a friend that she his ex wife's 346 00:23:39,200 --> 00:23:43,200 Speaker 1: introduced him to. She says she doesn't care what he's doing, 347 00:23:43,280 --> 00:23:47,040 Speaker 1: but she holds her friend accountable for her actions. She's 348 00:23:47,080 --> 00:23:50,200 Speaker 1: sleeping with him and I'm still married to him. Why 349 00:23:50,240 --> 00:23:52,760 Speaker 1: do women think it's okay to get your sloppy seconds? 350 00:23:52,760 --> 00:23:55,520 Speaker 1: They're all men like this? Or is a certain type 351 00:23:55,560 --> 00:23:58,840 Speaker 1: of lowdown man that would do this? Wait a minute, 352 00:23:59,119 --> 00:24:02,200 Speaker 1: what man are you talking about? This is a woman 353 00:24:03,320 --> 00:24:09,200 Speaker 1: d's sleeping with her girlfriend that shed to her husband 354 00:24:10,320 --> 00:24:16,000 Speaker 1: her You introduced this woman to your husband. Now y'all 355 00:24:16,000 --> 00:24:21,199 Speaker 1: getting a divorce. Your husband is sleeping with her. H he. 356 00:24:21,920 --> 00:24:27,920 Speaker 1: Now you're mad about her because she's doing sloppy seconds? Yeah? 357 00:24:28,480 --> 00:24:32,280 Speaker 1: But for he? Well, I mean you could be mad 358 00:24:32,280 --> 00:24:34,800 Speaker 1: at her if you want to. I understand that. But 359 00:24:36,320 --> 00:24:39,320 Speaker 1: what double back and got the girlfriend and she wants 360 00:24:39,359 --> 00:24:42,879 Speaker 1: the girlfriend to stop sleeping with her ex husband. Well, 361 00:24:42,880 --> 00:24:47,320 Speaker 1: first of all, this ain't your husband, no mo, and 362 00:24:47,600 --> 00:24:51,280 Speaker 1: she not your friend, no mo. So where we at? 363 00:24:53,200 --> 00:24:56,120 Speaker 1: Let it go? If she stopped, you ain't gonna steal, 364 00:24:56,160 --> 00:24:59,960 Speaker 1: ain't gonna like her because every time you see her, 365 00:25:00,440 --> 00:25:03,960 Speaker 1: you're gonna see her sleeping with your husband. So what 366 00:25:03,960 --> 00:25:05,919 Speaker 1: what what do you want with either one of them? 367 00:25:06,080 --> 00:25:08,800 Speaker 1: You want them to stop, but you're not gonna You're 368 00:25:08,800 --> 00:25:10,960 Speaker 1: not gonna deal with either one of them. Girls stop. 369 00:25:11,640 --> 00:25:14,639 Speaker 1: Here's the question. Are all men like this or is 370 00:25:14,680 --> 00:25:17,399 Speaker 1: it a certain type of lowdown man that would do this? 371 00:25:18,320 --> 00:25:24,040 Speaker 1: The man ain't being lowdown. Excuse me. You introduced her 372 00:25:24,160 --> 00:25:27,760 Speaker 1: to him. She your girlfriend? Heyo asks for a reason. 373 00:25:30,800 --> 00:25:33,439 Speaker 1: Now he dating your girlfriend that you introduced him for. 374 00:25:33,680 --> 00:25:36,840 Speaker 1: The trifling one in this bunch is your girlfriend and 375 00:25:39,200 --> 00:25:43,760 Speaker 1: what you're already divorcing him for a reason. Probably got something, dude, 376 00:25:43,840 --> 00:25:47,960 Speaker 1: something like that. Anyway, now he doing what he'd been doing, 377 00:25:48,040 --> 00:25:50,359 Speaker 1: what you mad at him for. Now, all men ain't 378 00:25:50,400 --> 00:25:58,320 Speaker 1: like that? But yeah, this is moving on. Pauline in Southfield, Michigan. 379 00:25:58,400 --> 00:26:01,720 Speaker 1: Pauline says, yesterday was myself Stee's birthday, and I didn't 380 00:26:01,720 --> 00:26:05,000 Speaker 1: get a call from my boyfriend until around six pm. 381 00:26:05,040 --> 00:26:07,120 Speaker 1: He lives over an hour away from me and does 382 00:26:07,160 --> 00:26:10,760 Speaker 1: not drive anymore because he's legally blind. I told him 383 00:26:10,800 --> 00:26:13,119 Speaker 1: I expected to hear from him or get flowers or 384 00:26:13,160 --> 00:26:15,520 Speaker 1: something from him, and he told me that I can't 385 00:26:15,560 --> 00:26:18,199 Speaker 1: tell him how to love me. We've been dating for 386 00:26:18,240 --> 00:26:21,080 Speaker 1: two years and he doesn't make me feel special anymore. 387 00:26:21,600 --> 00:26:24,879 Speaker 1: Is this a sign that he's no longer interested? Well, 388 00:26:24,960 --> 00:26:27,680 Speaker 1: you know, he probably didn't see it on the calendar. 389 00:26:30,760 --> 00:26:33,200 Speaker 1: He did something. You know. It ain't like he could 390 00:26:33,200 --> 00:26:37,520 Speaker 1: look at his phone and then know you did say 391 00:26:37,560 --> 00:26:42,400 Speaker 1: he would legally blind. That whole day could have got 392 00:26:42,440 --> 00:26:46,680 Speaker 1: back without him realizing it was your damn birthday. He 393 00:26:46,880 --> 00:26:49,840 Speaker 1: legally blind. He'd have fell over four chairs going to 394 00:26:49,880 --> 00:26:52,800 Speaker 1: the bathroom, he said, worried about why you ain't heard it. 395 00:26:52,920 --> 00:26:55,600 Speaker 1: Might have been knocked out running up into that day 396 00:26:55,600 --> 00:26:59,679 Speaker 1: and refrigerated yesterday. His ass might have been unconscious on 397 00:26:59,720 --> 00:27:02,080 Speaker 1: the But you being all here considered Tom, he ain't 398 00:27:02,119 --> 00:27:05,680 Speaker 1: called you to sixty till till six p year. He's sixty. 399 00:27:05,800 --> 00:27:08,720 Speaker 1: He can't see and you because he didn't call that. 400 00:27:08,840 --> 00:27:13,359 Speaker 1: You don't tell me how to love you. Everybody don't 401 00:27:13,400 --> 00:27:23,800 Speaker 1: know what dead is. I got an iPhone without the eye. 402 00:27:32,080 --> 00:27:34,520 Speaker 1: Close your eyes and pick up your iPhone and tell 403 00:27:34,520 --> 00:27:39,520 Speaker 1: me how good it is. Pick up your phone, now, 404 00:27:39,560 --> 00:27:43,840 Speaker 1: tell me how good your phone is? All right? Danita 405 00:27:43,920 --> 00:27:47,200 Speaker 1: and Roano says, I've been dating a guy that has 406 00:27:47,280 --> 00:27:50,000 Speaker 1: overweighted and he said we're going to work out together 407 00:27:50,359 --> 00:27:54,000 Speaker 1: for the past two years. I cook healthy food and 408 00:27:54,040 --> 00:27:57,879 Speaker 1: we've tried intimate fasting. But I think he eats bad 409 00:27:58,560 --> 00:28:00,639 Speaker 1: when he's away from me, and it's actually when he's 410 00:28:00,680 --> 00:28:03,399 Speaker 1: stressed at work. If I lose any more weight and 411 00:28:03,480 --> 00:28:06,520 Speaker 1: get any sexier, I can't promise that I will still 412 00:28:06,560 --> 00:28:10,639 Speaker 1: look at him the same way. How can I motivate 413 00:28:10,760 --> 00:28:13,720 Speaker 1: him to stick to a diet and shed some pounds 414 00:28:13,760 --> 00:28:24,240 Speaker 1: from me? Leave? Leaving is all you've got because listen 415 00:28:24,280 --> 00:28:28,560 Speaker 1: to me, there's no consequences. If he doesn't lose weight, 416 00:28:28,920 --> 00:28:31,640 Speaker 1: there's no consequences. Did he stick to the meal plan, 417 00:28:32,160 --> 00:28:36,000 Speaker 1: there's no consequences. If he cheats on intimittent fasting, there's 418 00:28:36,000 --> 00:28:39,600 Speaker 1: no consequences. So now he looking at you getting fine, 419 00:28:40,080 --> 00:28:41,960 Speaker 1: but he gets to stay right where he had and 420 00:28:42,040 --> 00:28:46,320 Speaker 1: get worse with no consequences. I have told you, ladies, 421 00:28:46,480 --> 00:28:53,960 Speaker 1: men respond to three things. Pain, consequence, reward. Once you 422 00:28:54,120 --> 00:28:56,680 Speaker 1: put any of those three things in front of a man, 423 00:28:56,840 --> 00:29:02,680 Speaker 1: you get a response. Pain, we respond, consequence, we respond, reward, 424 00:29:03,000 --> 00:29:05,200 Speaker 1: we respond. Other than that, If you're not gonna do 425 00:29:05,240 --> 00:29:08,400 Speaker 1: none of those three things, we're talking to your man, Okay, 426 00:29:08,600 --> 00:29:11,680 Speaker 1: all right, I thank You're going Anita, thank you Clo 427 00:29:11,880 --> 00:29:14,320 Speaker 1: coming up at the top of the hour, Entertainment and 428 00:29:14,560 --> 00:29:20,280 Speaker 1: National news. Right after this, you're listening to morning show 429 00:29:21,760 --> 00:29:25,160 Speaker 1: still trending. The seventy ninth annual Golden Globe Awards were 430 00:29:25,160 --> 00:29:28,640 Speaker 1: announced in Los Angeles by none other than Snoop Dog. 431 00:29:28,720 --> 00:29:31,080 Speaker 1: The other day, Snoop was rocking a red cap and 432 00:29:31,160 --> 00:29:34,080 Speaker 1: a pair of shades indoors. He read off the names 433 00:29:34,120 --> 00:29:38,640 Speaker 1: with a couple of mispronunciations. Take a listen, being a fleck, 434 00:29:39,800 --> 00:29:48,280 Speaker 1: being an affleck my fault? Sorry about that? Being a 435 00:29:48,360 --> 00:29:54,440 Speaker 1: fleck of fleck, SNOOPID, you know a couple more blunders. 436 00:29:54,440 --> 00:29:59,840 Speaker 1: Who cares? It's Portugal so you can relate to Snoop. 437 00:30:03,520 --> 00:30:07,760 Speaker 1: The Golden Globes have been criticized because of their diversity 438 00:30:07,840 --> 00:30:11,640 Speaker 1: or lack thereof, and ethics concerns. NBC will not air 439 00:30:11,720 --> 00:30:14,280 Speaker 1: the twenty twenty two Golden Globe, but there is a 440 00:30:14,400 --> 00:30:16,959 Speaker 1: date of January ninth set but no word on the 441 00:30:17,000 --> 00:30:20,200 Speaker 1: details of the ceremony. So what do you what do 442 00:30:20,240 --> 00:30:22,960 Speaker 1: you mean they won't er it? Do you remember it 443 00:30:23,040 --> 00:30:25,680 Speaker 1: was a lot of drama with the Golden Globes last year, 444 00:30:25,960 --> 00:30:29,600 Speaker 1: and so NBC said that they weren't going to air 445 00:30:29,640 --> 00:30:33,880 Speaker 1: it next year. But man, whatever, you know what, Man, 446 00:30:34,120 --> 00:30:36,240 Speaker 1: it's try I'll tell you something. It's to me, it 447 00:30:36,280 --> 00:30:41,080 Speaker 1: seems like America's eating itself. That's what it seems like 448 00:30:41,120 --> 00:30:46,000 Speaker 1: to me. We're eating ourself alive into nothing. This political 449 00:30:46,040 --> 00:30:50,719 Speaker 1: correctness is killing us. This if you don't include everybody, 450 00:30:50,760 --> 00:30:54,240 Speaker 1: that's killing us. Then if you don't agree with everybody, 451 00:30:54,640 --> 00:30:58,280 Speaker 1: it's killing us. You know, the politics in this country 452 00:30:58,360 --> 00:31:00,720 Speaker 1: has nothing to do with people any more. It only 453 00:31:00,760 --> 00:31:05,320 Speaker 1: has to do with party position, power and money, has 454 00:31:05,440 --> 00:31:08,040 Speaker 1: nothing to do with what's best for the people. I'm 455 00:31:08,080 --> 00:31:12,720 Speaker 1: sick of all of it. Man, America is eating itself now. 456 00:31:13,000 --> 00:31:16,120 Speaker 1: You can't have the Golden Globe Awards because it's not 457 00:31:16,240 --> 00:31:20,560 Speaker 1: all inclusive, all inclusive of who y'all ain't been stopping 458 00:31:20,640 --> 00:31:23,240 Speaker 1: stuff because we're no black people in it. You've been 459 00:31:23,360 --> 00:31:26,920 Speaker 1: having everything without us in it. Now, all of a sudden, 460 00:31:27,000 --> 00:31:30,320 Speaker 1: everybody else want to get included. All of sud We've 461 00:31:30,360 --> 00:31:35,400 Speaker 1: been feeling this way forever. Welcome to the club. Get 462 00:31:35,480 --> 00:31:40,960 Speaker 1: your own damn network. We had to go get b et. Y'all, 463 00:31:41,040 --> 00:31:43,880 Speaker 1: go get whatever network you want to do and get 464 00:31:43,920 --> 00:31:46,520 Speaker 1: your group set up on it so y'all can see 465 00:31:46,560 --> 00:31:50,440 Speaker 1: how it feels. That's what I suggest you do. If 466 00:31:50,480 --> 00:31:53,600 Speaker 1: you want to have the Red Ribbon group, then everybody 467 00:31:53,640 --> 00:31:56,600 Speaker 1: just little red ribbons. Go get the Red Ribbon network. 468 00:31:57,040 --> 00:31:59,880 Speaker 1: You want to get blond hair, blue eyes only network 469 00:32:00,120 --> 00:32:02,320 Speaker 1: and everybody only got blind hair blue. I go get 470 00:32:02,400 --> 00:32:06,440 Speaker 1: your own damn network and put everybody on it you want. 471 00:32:07,320 --> 00:32:12,240 Speaker 1: That's my suggestion and solution for the whole thing we 472 00:32:12,320 --> 00:32:15,280 Speaker 1: had to get b et. You go get your own 473 00:32:15,400 --> 00:32:20,320 Speaker 1: damn network that blag can be on every day talk 474 00:32:20,400 --> 00:32:25,040 Speaker 1: about everything you want to talk about. Yeah, yeah, well 475 00:32:25,080 --> 00:32:27,320 Speaker 1: I think that's what happened. Golden Globes came under fire 476 00:32:27,360 --> 00:32:32,600 Speaker 1: for not including us US as African Americans. We ain't 477 00:32:32,600 --> 00:32:37,440 Speaker 1: ever been including oscars went by for years, by for years. Yes, 478 00:32:37,600 --> 00:32:44,400 Speaker 1: you're right, see absolute Grammas went by fore. MTV didn't 479 00:32:44,560 --> 00:32:48,040 Speaker 1: even let us on that until Michael Jackson got on that. Man. Stop. 480 00:32:48,560 --> 00:32:53,920 Speaker 1: Just ain't nothing new. This inclusion is nothing new. This 481 00:32:54,040 --> 00:32:58,040 Speaker 1: is America. America been excluding all of us the entire time, 482 00:32:58,080 --> 00:33:05,760 Speaker 1: has been here from day one. Ye care, right, fans, 483 00:33:06,480 --> 00:33:10,000 Speaker 1: we know what it feels like for sure. All right, Steve, 484 00:33:10,800 --> 00:33:14,400 Speaker 1: Let's move on now. Time for today's headlines, Ladies and gentlemen, 485 00:33:14,520 --> 00:33:17,280 Speaker 1: miss Anne trip, thank you, thank you. This is a 486 00:33:17,400 --> 00:33:19,920 Speaker 1: trip with the news. Let's go. President Biden flew to 487 00:33:20,000 --> 00:33:23,200 Speaker 1: Kentucky yesterday to see for himself the damage done by 488 00:33:23,280 --> 00:33:26,800 Speaker 1: last weekend's multi state killer tornadoes. The Commander in chief 489 00:33:26,840 --> 00:33:29,320 Speaker 1: saw what was left of towns of like Dawson Springs 490 00:33:29,320 --> 00:33:31,920 Speaker 1: in Mayfield, where at least seventy four people have died. 491 00:33:32,160 --> 00:33:35,320 Speaker 1: Keep the faith. We're gonna get this done. I promise you. 492 00:33:35,640 --> 00:33:38,120 Speaker 1: The Governor's not walking away. Your kind of judge is 493 00:33:38,160 --> 00:33:41,120 Speaker 1: not walking away, Your Congress is not walking away. No 494 00:33:41,160 --> 00:33:43,560 Speaker 1: one's walking away. We're in this for the long haul. 495 00:33:43,680 --> 00:33:46,840 Speaker 1: Mister Biden says he's promising that the federal government will 496 00:33:46,840 --> 00:33:49,480 Speaker 1: cover one hundred percent of the cost of the first 497 00:33:49,480 --> 00:33:51,920 Speaker 1: thirty days of emergency work, and that FEMA does not 498 00:33:52,000 --> 00:33:54,600 Speaker 1: yet need any additional funding to do that. More than 499 00:33:54,640 --> 00:33:57,880 Speaker 1: thirty twisters thirty landed at various spots in the South 500 00:33:57,920 --> 00:34:00,800 Speaker 1: and the Midwest, and an additional fortune people died in 501 00:34:00,840 --> 00:34:04,440 Speaker 1: four other states. Yesterday, the National Archives released nearly fifteen 502 00:34:04,480 --> 00:34:08,000 Speaker 1: hundred documents concerned the assassination of President John F. Kennedy 503 00:34:08,040 --> 00:34:10,840 Speaker 1: in nineteen sixty three. However, the documents they say not 504 00:34:10,920 --> 00:34:14,080 Speaker 1: expected to contain any new information as to whether Lee 505 00:34:14,120 --> 00:34:18,399 Speaker 1: Harvey Oswald was the lone killer Far Minneapolis killer cop 506 00:34:18,520 --> 00:34:21,880 Speaker 1: Derek Chauvin has played guilty to federal charges of violating 507 00:34:21,920 --> 00:34:25,400 Speaker 1: George Floyd's civil rights. Chauvin's plea means he will not 508 00:34:25,480 --> 00:34:27,319 Speaker 1: have to go on trial next month with three other 509 00:34:27,440 --> 00:34:30,959 Speaker 1: now fired Minneapolis cops who watched him grind his knee 510 00:34:30,960 --> 00:34:33,279 Speaker 1: into mister Floyd's neck for over nine minutes and did 511 00:34:33,320 --> 00:34:36,479 Speaker 1: absolutely nothing to stop it. Derek Chauvin will still most 512 00:34:36,520 --> 00:34:39,520 Speaker 1: likely be given an even lengthy or jail term. A 513 00:34:39,640 --> 00:34:43,080 Speaker 1: judge in Iowa has sentenced a white man named Steve 514 00:34:43,160 --> 00:34:45,880 Speaker 1: Vogel to spend the rest of his life in jail 515 00:34:45,960 --> 00:34:49,680 Speaker 1: without the possibility of parole for horrific murder of an 516 00:34:49,719 --> 00:34:53,319 Speaker 1: innocent black man named Michael Williams, whom authorities say he 517 00:34:53,440 --> 00:34:58,200 Speaker 1: hanged and then displayed before he burned mister Williams's body 518 00:34:58,200 --> 00:35:01,879 Speaker 1: in a ditch. Was angry because his wife. He saw 519 00:35:01,920 --> 00:35:04,640 Speaker 1: his girlfriend just talking to mister Williams, so that's what 520 00:35:04,680 --> 00:35:07,719 Speaker 1: he did to Michael Williams. Perhaps the only positive thing 521 00:35:07,760 --> 00:35:10,160 Speaker 1: about this case is that the jury took less than 522 00:35:10,200 --> 00:35:13,160 Speaker 1: four hours to convict this guy on first degree murder 523 00:35:13,400 --> 00:35:18,200 Speaker 1: and abuse of a corpse. Horrible. San Francisco Mayor London 524 00:35:18,280 --> 00:35:20,799 Speaker 1: Breed is asking her city's new budget to contain more 525 00:35:21,080 --> 00:35:23,239 Speaker 1: than rather less funding for the police due to what's 526 00:35:23,239 --> 00:35:26,760 Speaker 1: perceived as a new crime wave in her city. And finally, 527 00:35:26,880 --> 00:35:30,760 Speaker 1: sad news, influential black feminist writer Bell Hooks has died. 528 00:35:31,040 --> 00:35:33,480 Speaker 1: Her book Ain't I A Woman is considered one of 529 00:35:33,520 --> 00:35:37,120 Speaker 1: the most important studies on the historic and continual marginalization 530 00:35:37,400 --> 00:35:40,560 Speaker 1: of Black women. Just ask Megan Markle. Belle. Hooks was 531 00:35:40,600 --> 00:35:47,239 Speaker 1: sixty nine and also singer Joe Simon has died at 532 00:35:47,280 --> 00:35:51,920 Speaker 1: age eighty five. And one of the members of Tavares, 533 00:35:52,080 --> 00:35:55,399 Speaker 1: Ralph Tavares, has died. He was seventy nine years old. Yes, 534 00:35:55,480 --> 00:35:58,160 Speaker 1: heaven is Missian Angel. Now back to the Steve Harvey 535 00:35:58,200 --> 00:36:03,400 Speaker 1: Morning Show. You're listening she Stry Morning Show. Here's a 536 00:36:03,480 --> 00:36:06,319 Speaker 1: quick question for you, guys. Um, do you have a 537 00:36:06,400 --> 00:36:09,200 Speaker 1: memory or a vivid recollection of the first time you 538 00:36:09,239 --> 00:36:20,960 Speaker 1: met Santa Claus? First time I met Santa Ci No, no, 539 00:36:21,200 --> 00:36:25,520 Speaker 1: they I've seen the picture, but I don't remember the man. 540 00:36:25,280 --> 00:36:30,520 Speaker 1: I Hi met the mall, but he never came to 541 00:36:30,600 --> 00:36:35,800 Speaker 1: my house. I never saw him. My mom would always 542 00:36:35,800 --> 00:36:39,480 Speaker 1: tell me he had been there though the five and 543 00:36:39,560 --> 00:36:45,640 Speaker 1: they sat out and talked for a minute. Oh really, always, Steve, 544 00:36:45,760 --> 00:36:49,000 Speaker 1: You remember meeting Santa Claus when I first met him, Yeah, 545 00:36:49,040 --> 00:36:52,920 Speaker 1: but I already knew who he was. What happened I 546 00:36:52,920 --> 00:36:55,360 Speaker 1: had been told by my brothers and stuff didnt go 547 00:36:55,440 --> 00:37:01,160 Speaker 1: out here's quite man if so when I met him, 548 00:37:01,200 --> 00:37:03,919 Speaker 1: it didn't have a joy that you think you would 549 00:37:03,960 --> 00:37:07,080 Speaker 1: have as a child. But still I liked Santa Claus. 550 00:37:07,120 --> 00:37:11,240 Speaker 1: I always liked him. I thought his intentions were well. Plus, 551 00:37:11,280 --> 00:37:15,239 Speaker 1: I'm a big Christmas guy. So and why is that? 552 00:37:16,000 --> 00:37:18,799 Speaker 1: I just I just think it's the dopest holiday of 553 00:37:18,840 --> 00:37:22,360 Speaker 1: all time. I loved Christmas from day one. The gifts, 554 00:37:22,400 --> 00:37:25,480 Speaker 1: the giving. You know, see my father and mother face man, 555 00:37:25,480 --> 00:37:27,799 Speaker 1: when they opened up this little worthless ass gift out 556 00:37:27,800 --> 00:37:32,200 Speaker 1: of bottom. You know, I knew the gift wasn't worth it, damn. 557 00:37:32,239 --> 00:37:34,080 Speaker 1: But the way they faked it and act like they 558 00:37:34,200 --> 00:37:36,640 Speaker 1: kid it meant a lot to me, you know. And 559 00:37:36,719 --> 00:37:39,440 Speaker 1: so I became a big giver of Christmas gifts. I've 560 00:37:39,480 --> 00:37:43,080 Speaker 1: always kind of liked that, you know, nice gifts and stuff. 561 00:37:43,120 --> 00:37:46,279 Speaker 1: But then as I grew older, realized what Christmas was 562 00:37:46,320 --> 00:37:48,719 Speaker 1: really about. So it wasn't about the gift giving no more, 563 00:37:49,520 --> 00:37:52,720 Speaker 1: and so it just became all I just want to treat. 564 00:37:52,760 --> 00:37:55,759 Speaker 1: That's all I want. It's a treat, you know, I know, 565 00:37:55,840 --> 00:38:01,120 Speaker 1: I know the real meaning of Christmas? Right for getting 566 00:38:01,200 --> 00:38:05,200 Speaker 1: home so I could see my tree. Haven't seen no, 567 00:38:05,320 --> 00:38:09,279 Speaker 1: haven't seen him came from? Again, I'm not sure where 568 00:38:09,280 --> 00:38:11,680 Speaker 1: this one came in from. I haven't. I have a 569 00:38:11,760 --> 00:38:14,480 Speaker 1: disgusted chat with my wife, but this coming in from 570 00:38:14,480 --> 00:38:19,120 Speaker 1: something you didn't get it at wall? Are you mad? 571 00:38:21,640 --> 00:38:32,720 Speaker 1: From the tree? And where your treat came from? Tom nameless? 572 00:38:33,600 --> 00:38:38,719 Speaker 1: You don't name? Excuse what? Excuse me? The market name 573 00:38:39,000 --> 00:38:53,000 Speaker 1: market as in predecorated, Yeah, precorated, Julian Yeah yeah, wow. 574 00:38:53,360 --> 00:38:57,839 Speaker 1: All right, all right, well, uh Mary, Christmas, everybody coming up. 575 00:38:57,840 --> 00:39:00,440 Speaker 1: In thirty four minutes after the hour, we're to check 576 00:39:00,440 --> 00:39:07,760 Speaker 1: Steve's voicemail. Right after this you're listening to show. All right, Steven, 577 00:39:07,800 --> 00:39:10,120 Speaker 1: it's time to check your voicemail. If you want to 578 00:39:10,200 --> 00:39:12,520 Speaker 1: leave Steve a message or just give a holiday greeting 579 00:39:12,520 --> 00:39:14,920 Speaker 1: to your loved one, call us right now at eight 580 00:39:15,040 --> 00:39:18,799 Speaker 1: seven seven twenty nine, Steve and leave a message. Okay, Steve, 581 00:39:18,920 --> 00:39:21,560 Speaker 1: this one is a call from a fan of comedy, 582 00:39:21,800 --> 00:39:23,759 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey. This is Danny. Look, I don't I hope 583 00:39:23,800 --> 00:39:25,840 Speaker 1: I don't come off as racist, and I do apologize 584 00:39:25,880 --> 00:39:27,719 Speaker 1: if I do. But I don't know if you thought 585 00:39:27,760 --> 00:39:29,399 Speaker 1: about this. I'm sure you probably get this all the time. 586 00:39:29,760 --> 00:39:33,520 Speaker 1: If you would consider playing Richard Pryor in a movie 587 00:39:33,520 --> 00:39:37,399 Speaker 1: about Richard Pryor, that would be amazing because you look 588 00:39:37,440 --> 00:39:41,600 Speaker 1: like Richard Pryor. Well, Danny, I look like you've been 589 00:39:41,680 --> 00:39:45,440 Speaker 1: my younger days. I think I did, especially when I 590 00:39:45,520 --> 00:39:48,600 Speaker 1: had Hair's a lot of side by side comparisons dons 591 00:39:48,640 --> 00:39:51,680 Speaker 1: in terms of look. Yeah, but like right now, I'd 592 00:39:51,719 --> 00:39:54,000 Speaker 1: have to play Richard as an older man, you know, 593 00:39:55,440 --> 00:40:01,600 Speaker 1: I could play Richard Pryde oh in the after or 594 00:40:01,800 --> 00:40:05,719 Speaker 1: something like that. You know, I have to play, like, 595 00:40:06,000 --> 00:40:08,800 Speaker 1: play like Richard Prye after he's passed and going to 596 00:40:08,880 --> 00:40:12,000 Speaker 1: heaven and he's sitting around heaven. That's Richard Prye. But 597 00:40:13,080 --> 00:40:16,359 Speaker 1: you know I've heard the comparison to my whole career. Yeah, 598 00:40:16,360 --> 00:40:19,640 Speaker 1: I don't think that's Danni Bill at this point. Richard 599 00:40:19,680 --> 00:40:24,560 Speaker 1: played himself, Yeah, in his own movie, Yeah, and it 600 00:40:24,640 --> 00:40:29,320 Speaker 1: did it, didn't. I didn't take it as racist. Yeah, 601 00:40:29,480 --> 00:40:33,040 Speaker 1: Joejoe Danson was a movie he did, yeo yeah yeah, 602 00:40:35,680 --> 00:40:39,840 Speaker 1: all right, thank you, Danny. Here's a voicemail from a man, Steve, 603 00:40:39,880 --> 00:40:42,240 Speaker 1: who needs your help to talk to his wife about 604 00:40:42,280 --> 00:40:46,640 Speaker 1: her appearance. Good morning, Steve Harvey in the morning crew. 605 00:40:46,880 --> 00:40:50,840 Speaker 1: This is my courageous I'm forty nine year old father 606 00:40:50,960 --> 00:40:53,440 Speaker 1: of a ten year old. We both praised this together. 607 00:40:53,480 --> 00:40:57,120 Speaker 1: Loof y'all to check out our praises own YouTube brother 608 00:40:57,360 --> 00:41:00,880 Speaker 1: x praising Uh Steve, I have a beautiful wife. Were 609 00:41:00,880 --> 00:41:05,040 Speaker 1: about to reach y'all a one year anniversary. She is beautiful. 610 00:41:05,200 --> 00:41:07,960 Speaker 1: But every time we get ready to go, as she 611 00:41:08,080 --> 00:41:10,800 Speaker 1: put this makeup on her face, and I told already 612 00:41:10,960 --> 00:41:15,880 Speaker 1: I hate makeup. She's naturally beautiful. I told she's natural beautiful. 613 00:41:15,960 --> 00:41:18,360 Speaker 1: Every time she put that makeup on, man, it kicks 614 00:41:18,400 --> 00:41:20,919 Speaker 1: me off. What else can I say to my wife 615 00:41:21,000 --> 00:41:23,680 Speaker 1: or hush? And I take that when my wife puts 616 00:41:23,719 --> 00:41:25,640 Speaker 1: on that makeup every time we get ready to go, 617 00:41:25,680 --> 00:41:27,880 Speaker 1: as you want to put on makeup. She's trying to 618 00:41:27,880 --> 00:41:30,120 Speaker 1: improve a little bit, but I was telling her, you 619 00:41:30,200 --> 00:41:34,520 Speaker 1: do not need makeup, sweetie. I love your natural beauty. 620 00:41:34,920 --> 00:41:38,279 Speaker 1: What do I need to do? Steve, y'all keep us laughing, man, 621 00:41:38,320 --> 00:41:41,439 Speaker 1: and y'all keep us entertaining. We love y'all. God bless y'all. 622 00:41:41,560 --> 00:41:45,719 Speaker 1: Y'all have a blessing productive day. Well. I appreciate your dog, 623 00:41:45,800 --> 00:41:50,280 Speaker 1: but you got a problem him. You've only been married 624 00:41:50,400 --> 00:41:55,640 Speaker 1: one year. You fought in nine. You just filed this girl. 625 00:41:56,719 --> 00:42:00,120 Speaker 1: Don't mess it up because your ass talking about you. You 626 00:41:59,920 --> 00:42:02,560 Speaker 1: You hate makeup. That ain't what you said when you 627 00:42:02,600 --> 00:42:05,239 Speaker 1: first got married. Now all of a sudden, this ain't 628 00:42:05,239 --> 00:42:09,040 Speaker 1: the first time she trying makeup, So now you got her, 629 00:42:09,040 --> 00:42:11,640 Speaker 1: you can stop all this. Ain't nobody forty nine trying 630 00:42:11,800 --> 00:42:14,440 Speaker 1: make up for the first time she like makeup. Your 631 00:42:14,440 --> 00:42:17,560 Speaker 1: ass needs to get the starts to like and make up. 632 00:42:18,880 --> 00:42:22,719 Speaker 1: What you needs to do? You needs to get too 633 00:42:22,800 --> 00:42:28,040 Speaker 1: starts to like in makeup and shut your mouth, happy wife, 634 00:42:28,320 --> 00:42:32,040 Speaker 1: happy life. I can't stand that. Now. As far as 635 00:42:32,040 --> 00:42:35,359 Speaker 1: you forty nine years old praise dancing, we're not fitting 636 00:42:35,360 --> 00:42:42,279 Speaker 1: to look at that either. I'm not tuning in for 637 00:42:42,360 --> 00:42:50,440 Speaker 1: no fifty year old praise. Let your boy praise dance, jumping, 638 00:42:50,560 --> 00:42:54,799 Speaker 1: splash water people in turn real fast without falling. You're 639 00:42:54,840 --> 00:42:57,560 Speaker 1: gonna spend one time in your old ass, gonna wipe 640 00:42:57,560 --> 00:43:02,960 Speaker 1: out that whole front row, knocking the podium over the 641 00:43:03,040 --> 00:43:05,799 Speaker 1: Christmas treat and fail you do, knock the cross off 642 00:43:05,840 --> 00:43:09,719 Speaker 1: the wall and broke the back off a p He's 643 00:43:09,760 --> 00:43:12,359 Speaker 1: too old to be praised. Dan, don't even like going 644 00:43:12,400 --> 00:43:15,200 Speaker 1: to churches where they had that. We're now gonna have 645 00:43:15,239 --> 00:43:18,640 Speaker 1: a word from our praise dances. You say a word. 646 00:43:18,680 --> 00:43:21,040 Speaker 1: I love praise, but I don't want to see all 647 00:43:21,080 --> 00:43:25,640 Speaker 1: your hand motions. I love it. I don't take all 648 00:43:25,680 --> 00:43:30,439 Speaker 1: these roads off. Ain't nobody in trees dancing never fit? Yeah? 649 00:43:30,680 --> 00:43:33,000 Speaker 1: And why is your face white? What did you paint 650 00:43:33,120 --> 00:43:38,759 Speaker 1: your mind that? Jesus know that you take that off? 651 00:43:40,120 --> 00:43:52,000 Speaker 1: We know that's you. Come on, man, all right, listen. 652 00:43:52,040 --> 00:43:55,080 Speaker 1: If you want to leave Stephen voicemails call eight seven 653 00:43:55,160 --> 00:43:57,840 Speaker 1: seven twenty nine Sea bring phone call with the nephew 654 00:43:57,920 --> 00:44:01,960 Speaker 1: coming up right after this. You're listen Stave Harvey Morning 655 00:44:02,000 --> 00:44:06,640 Speaker 1: Show coming up at the top of the hour. Write 656 00:44:06,680 --> 00:44:09,359 Speaker 1: about four minutes after. It's my strawberry letter for today, 657 00:44:09,440 --> 00:44:12,359 Speaker 1: the subject she means the world to me. It's brought 658 00:44:12,440 --> 00:44:15,160 Speaker 1: to you by a journal for Jordan's starring Michael b. 659 00:44:15,360 --> 00:44:20,319 Speaker 1: Jordan and directed by Denzel Washington. It's in theaters on 660 00:44:20,480 --> 00:44:23,759 Speaker 1: Christmas Day. But right now the nephew is here with 661 00:44:23,920 --> 00:44:26,120 Speaker 1: today's frank phone call. What you got for us? Now? 662 00:44:26,440 --> 00:44:34,360 Speaker 1: Can you breastfeed my baby? What? Can you breastfeed my baby? 663 00:44:34,760 --> 00:44:40,480 Speaker 1: All a man cat dog? If you would? Hello? Hello? 664 00:44:40,920 --> 00:44:47,799 Speaker 1: Uh yeah this amen, amen, this this this this dog 665 00:44:48,239 --> 00:44:54,800 Speaker 1: and uh uh this who manh yeah, it gave me 666 00:44:54,840 --> 00:44:57,239 Speaker 1: your phone number. I know you don't. No member gave 667 00:44:57,280 --> 00:45:01,560 Speaker 1: me your number. He's talking about on the south side. 668 00:45:01,920 --> 00:45:06,200 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah yeah, on the south side. He uh, 669 00:45:06,440 --> 00:45:08,680 Speaker 1: he gave me your number. Man. I'm going through something. 670 00:45:09,040 --> 00:45:10,960 Speaker 1: I thought you might bear to help me out, man, 671 00:45:11,000 --> 00:45:16,799 Speaker 1: because uh we'll see then my girl and I don't know, man, 672 00:45:16,840 --> 00:45:21,000 Speaker 1: I think just in left, you know. And uh she 673 00:45:21,120 --> 00:45:23,239 Speaker 1: had left me here with the kids, you know, and 674 00:45:23,360 --> 00:45:29,640 Speaker 1: I'm trying to I don't think coming back. My man, 675 00:45:30,320 --> 00:45:32,799 Speaker 1: my man, I feel for you. But but why are 676 00:45:32,800 --> 00:45:34,080 Speaker 1: you why are you? Why are you telling me this? 677 00:45:34,680 --> 00:45:39,480 Speaker 1: See I'm trying to um see man here, I haven't 678 00:45:39,480 --> 00:45:41,759 Speaker 1: got to get kids by myself. You know. My little 679 00:45:41,760 --> 00:45:45,000 Speaker 1: boy he three, but my little girl, man, she just 680 00:45:45,320 --> 00:45:50,600 Speaker 1: she's just two months old. Man, you know, and I 681 00:45:50,800 --> 00:45:52,600 Speaker 1: the reason why I got your number because I think 682 00:45:52,600 --> 00:45:56,000 Speaker 1: you might get to help me, because I I I'm 683 00:45:56,040 --> 00:46:00,399 Speaker 1: just going through this. It's just hard right now. Bro, dog, 684 00:46:01,320 --> 00:46:03,680 Speaker 1: how imm to help you? Dog? I got kids of 685 00:46:03,760 --> 00:46:07,680 Speaker 1: my own dog? Howmmy help you? Let's see that's that's 686 00:46:07,680 --> 00:46:14,239 Speaker 1: what I'm saying. Nah, ain't you ain't you married to? Yes? 687 00:46:14,680 --> 00:46:18,160 Speaker 1: My wife? How you know my wife's dog? And see 688 00:46:18,200 --> 00:46:21,400 Speaker 1: what I'm saying. I mean I kind of know y'all 689 00:46:21,440 --> 00:46:25,080 Speaker 1: through I gotta see y'all fote through him and uh, 690 00:46:25,520 --> 00:46:28,080 Speaker 1: let's see here the deal man. Like Like I said, 691 00:46:28,120 --> 00:46:30,960 Speaker 1: I got my kids, man, My my my little boy three, 692 00:46:31,000 --> 00:46:34,240 Speaker 1: but my little girl ain't but two months. Man, how 693 00:46:34,360 --> 00:46:37,239 Speaker 1: me the kids y'all got? Man? We got three kids, man, 694 00:46:37,320 --> 00:46:40,360 Speaker 1: I got a ten year old, eight year old and 695 00:46:40,440 --> 00:46:43,040 Speaker 1: a six month old. I'm trying to I really don't 696 00:46:43,040 --> 00:46:45,239 Speaker 1: know what you're asking asking me. Man, I got my 697 00:46:45,239 --> 00:46:47,319 Speaker 1: own family. I got to take care of you. Ask 698 00:46:47,440 --> 00:46:51,120 Speaker 1: me for help? I mean, what is it you need? Man? 699 00:46:51,680 --> 00:46:54,160 Speaker 1: And and and what I'm trying to do with this here, 700 00:46:54,719 --> 00:46:57,800 Speaker 1: I'm trying to get my little my little girl taking 701 00:46:57,840 --> 00:47:01,719 Speaker 1: care of man. Like IM said that ran off man 702 00:47:01,719 --> 00:47:07,160 Speaker 1: and then left. But I don't think. I don't I 703 00:47:07,200 --> 00:47:14,520 Speaker 1: don't think coming back. I don't think she's coming back. 704 00:47:17,600 --> 00:47:20,720 Speaker 1: But I need some go I need some help from 705 00:47:20,760 --> 00:47:23,960 Speaker 1: from from your white man. I need her to come 706 00:47:24,000 --> 00:47:28,080 Speaker 1: by the house today. Case do you think? What do 707 00:47:28,160 --> 00:47:32,200 Speaker 1: you need to come at your house? Because the baby, 708 00:47:32,400 --> 00:47:36,600 Speaker 1: the baby, the baby needs some milk. Man, we got 709 00:47:36,719 --> 00:47:38,200 Speaker 1: a couple of cans, and we got a couple of 710 00:47:38,200 --> 00:47:40,480 Speaker 1: cans of some formula some something in here we could 711 00:47:40,560 --> 00:47:43,279 Speaker 1: drop off to you man, but ain't coming to your house. Dog, 712 00:47:45,160 --> 00:47:47,399 Speaker 1: I can't moaning. You want them happy to have these 713 00:47:47,640 --> 00:47:49,719 Speaker 1: You have these cans, but we can't be having my 714 00:47:49,760 --> 00:47:53,839 Speaker 1: wife at your house. Dog got all kids. I understand that, 715 00:47:53,880 --> 00:47:56,680 Speaker 1: but I the baby needs some milk. That's some side 716 00:47:56,760 --> 00:47:59,719 Speaker 1: I need. I need to come by and feed the 717 00:47:59,760 --> 00:48:03,680 Speaker 1: bay dog. I just told you to come by drop 718 00:48:03,719 --> 00:48:05,719 Speaker 1: off a couple of cans and milk. But I mean, 719 00:48:05,719 --> 00:48:07,239 Speaker 1: I don't even know you like that player. I ain't 720 00:48:07,280 --> 00:48:09,399 Speaker 1: about to just have my wife coming to your damn house. 721 00:48:09,800 --> 00:48:13,120 Speaker 1: I don't know you, but I need going to come 722 00:48:13,120 --> 00:48:16,719 Speaker 1: by and see the baby. Man, dog, why the hell 723 00:48:16,760 --> 00:48:23,880 Speaker 1: you can't feed you do baby? Come by and brush 724 00:48:24,480 --> 00:48:27,880 Speaker 1: basy what you want to want to come out of 725 00:48:27,880 --> 00:48:35,719 Speaker 1: your house and do what I want. I told you 726 00:48:35,719 --> 00:48:38,239 Speaker 1: you're a lot of shop mine. I don't know you 727 00:48:38,280 --> 00:48:40,600 Speaker 1: to be talking about my wife coming to your house 728 00:48:40,760 --> 00:48:44,839 Speaker 1: breasting your baby. Matter fact, you give my number? Who 729 00:48:44,840 --> 00:48:48,839 Speaker 1: the hell is anyway? I don't stop thinking about say, dog, 730 00:48:49,000 --> 00:48:52,560 Speaker 1: don't call me with this dog because you're talking about 731 00:48:52,600 --> 00:48:56,640 Speaker 1: breasting your baby. Why would you do this? Now? Why 732 00:48:56,680 --> 00:48:59,560 Speaker 1: would you? Why would you like? Why would you come 733 00:48:59,600 --> 00:49:03,040 Speaker 1: between a baby yourself? What are you doing here? Dog? 734 00:49:03,160 --> 00:49:05,439 Speaker 1: I'll tell you what. Dog, Bring your baby over here, 735 00:49:05,800 --> 00:49:08,319 Speaker 1: you and the baby come over here. Bring your baby 736 00:49:08,400 --> 00:49:10,960 Speaker 1: baby over here. And when and when you get here, 737 00:49:11,440 --> 00:49:13,959 Speaker 1: as soon as she put out it, I'm gonna knock 738 00:49:14,000 --> 00:49:16,839 Speaker 1: your keep down your throat. Now, come on over. We're 739 00:49:16,840 --> 00:49:19,520 Speaker 1: gonna be here. She's gonna be all day. Don't do that. 740 00:49:20,480 --> 00:49:22,640 Speaker 1: Don't do that. Don't let you eat go and stuff, 741 00:49:22,719 --> 00:49:26,799 Speaker 1: come between yourself. I'm just trying to get out. How 742 00:49:26,800 --> 00:49:29,360 Speaker 1: are you gonna call me talking about my wife breastfeed 743 00:49:29,440 --> 00:49:33,920 Speaker 1: your baby? I'm still you know what? Hold on, hold on, 744 00:49:33,960 --> 00:49:39,239 Speaker 1: hold on, hold on, what's hold hold on? Hold on? 745 00:49:43,360 --> 00:49:48,560 Speaker 1: What's up? Baby? You know and our husband? You don't 746 00:49:48,600 --> 00:49:50,799 Speaker 1: know them? My wife don't know you and I don't 747 00:49:50,840 --> 00:49:56,960 Speaker 1: know you. Eating change? Do you know a name? Supposedly 748 00:49:56,960 --> 00:49:59,360 Speaker 1: he lives on the south Side, he knows us, you 749 00:49:59,360 --> 00:50:04,080 Speaker 1: don't know him. Hold on, I don't know you. I 750 00:50:04,080 --> 00:50:09,920 Speaker 1: don't know what this is. On other line talking about 751 00:50:10,560 --> 00:50:14,280 Speaker 1: his wife left him with the two kids. He wants 752 00:50:14,400 --> 00:50:18,200 Speaker 1: you to come to his crib it breast feed his baby. 753 00:50:19,960 --> 00:50:22,040 Speaker 1: Don't baby, don't baby, don't trip. I got this. I'm 754 00:50:22,040 --> 00:50:24,919 Speaker 1: gonna holy let you in a minute. We don't dog, 755 00:50:24,960 --> 00:50:28,600 Speaker 1: we don't dog. We don't know you. Who did you 756 00:50:28,680 --> 00:50:32,719 Speaker 1: call me? Fuck your address? One more thing I want 757 00:50:32,719 --> 00:50:37,560 Speaker 1: to say. You better be saying your address. That's what 758 00:50:37,560 --> 00:50:44,080 Speaker 1: you better be saying. From the Steve Morning Show. You 759 00:50:44,280 --> 00:50:55,480 Speaker 1: just got my and this up? Hain't this bottom? Uh? 760 00:50:55,560 --> 00:51:02,279 Speaker 1: You man? Uh? Couple? Dog that timmy dog? Are you 761 00:51:02,320 --> 00:51:08,520 Speaker 1: about to get your will? Timmy? Whoever? Somebody's getting there? 762 00:51:14,920 --> 00:51:19,800 Speaker 1: All right? You gotta tell me what ill the bladdest 763 00:51:19,920 --> 00:51:23,520 Speaker 1: radio show in the light, Steve Harvey Morning Show. You did? 764 00:51:26,160 --> 00:51:30,360 Speaker 1: H y'all got me? Just need a little help, that's all. 765 00:51:30,400 --> 00:51:35,719 Speaker 1: Just just that's really hey, brother, I feel for you both. 766 00:51:36,440 --> 00:51:40,040 Speaker 1: What I do with me? All right, I'm gonna tell 767 00:51:40,080 --> 00:51:43,000 Speaker 1: it to you. Again, Chicago, Illinois. Here we come the 768 00:51:43,120 --> 00:51:46,720 Speaker 1: United Center, Baby Washington, d C. Here we come Eagle 769 00:51:46,800 --> 00:51:51,799 Speaker 1: Bank Arena and Atlanta, GA. State Farm Arena, Chicago. You 770 00:51:51,840 --> 00:51:54,080 Speaker 1: are on the third, DC, you are on the first. 771 00:51:54,160 --> 00:51:56,879 Speaker 1: Atlanta GA. You are on the second. It's the New 772 00:51:57,000 --> 00:52:01,000 Speaker 1: Year's Comedy Live Fest. Tickets available at all can Master outlets. 773 00:52:01,040 --> 00:52:04,240 Speaker 1: Here is the lineup. Earthquake in the building, Hey Griffin 774 00:52:04,280 --> 00:52:07,760 Speaker 1: in the Building, Centric the Entertainer D. L. Hughley, hosted 775 00:52:07,840 --> 00:52:11,600 Speaker 1: by yours truly nephew Timmy once again Shot Town. It 776 00:52:11,680 --> 00:52:17,120 Speaker 1: is December the thirtieth, watching d C. January first, Atlanta, Georgia, 777 00:52:17,719 --> 00:52:22,280 Speaker 1: January the second, Stay Farm Arena, All ticket Master outlets, 778 00:52:22,400 --> 00:52:24,760 Speaker 1: or you can go to the box office get yourself 779 00:52:24,800 --> 00:52:28,520 Speaker 1: some tickets. It's gonna be a hell of a show 780 00:52:28,719 --> 00:52:34,600 Speaker 1: because don't say right no, yeah. I hope you come 781 00:52:34,640 --> 00:52:36,680 Speaker 1: hang out with your boy in atl Man. I hope 782 00:52:36,719 --> 00:52:40,000 Speaker 1: you back home by then January second. Slide Man got 783 00:52:40,000 --> 00:52:42,840 Speaker 1: a couple of things and Judge Showy jumping off that Tuesday. 784 00:52:42,880 --> 00:52:45,319 Speaker 1: So I gotta figure out why I gotta d I 785 00:52:45,360 --> 00:52:48,000 Speaker 1: gotta promote the show. You come to June what, I 786 00:52:48,040 --> 00:52:49,919 Speaker 1: don't know what it's I don't know what's gonna happen. 787 00:52:50,040 --> 00:52:52,040 Speaker 1: I just want to go home right now, man, so 788 00:52:52,120 --> 00:52:56,759 Speaker 1: I can some eggnog. Man, look at my Christmas tree. 789 00:52:57,480 --> 00:53:01,640 Speaker 1: All right, gotta go from the grand saw bj play basketball? 790 00:53:01,640 --> 00:53:06,879 Speaker 1: He play a basketball now? Yeah? All right, coming up next. 791 00:53:06,920 --> 00:53:09,400 Speaker 1: Strawberry Letter brought to you by A Journal for Jordan, 792 00:53:09,520 --> 00:53:13,360 Speaker 1: starring Michael B. Jordan. The subject is she means the 793 00:53:13,400 --> 00:53:15,480 Speaker 1: world to me. We'll get into it right after this. 794 00:53:16,160 --> 00:53:20,880 Speaker 1: You're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, guys, 795 00:53:20,880 --> 00:53:23,600 Speaker 1: it is time now for Today's Strawberry Letter. And if 796 00:53:23,600 --> 00:53:28,319 Speaker 1: you need advice and relationships, work, sex, parenting, and more, 797 00:53:29,280 --> 00:53:32,400 Speaker 1: please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve HARVEYFM dot com 798 00:53:32,400 --> 00:53:35,080 Speaker 1: and click submit Strawberry Letter. We could be reading your 799 00:53:35,160 --> 00:53:38,160 Speaker 1: letter live on the air, just like we're gonna do 800 00:53:38,239 --> 00:53:40,359 Speaker 1: this one right here, right now, and you never know, 801 00:53:40,400 --> 00:53:44,400 Speaker 1: it could be yours. You never know. Buckle up and 802 00:53:44,480 --> 00:53:46,160 Speaker 1: hold on tight. We got it for you here. It 803 00:53:46,200 --> 00:53:50,000 Speaker 1: is the Strawberry Letter, and today's Strawberry Letter is sponsored 804 00:53:50,040 --> 00:53:54,240 Speaker 1: by a Journal for Jordan. Steve Yeah, and a Journal 805 00:53:54,239 --> 00:53:57,480 Speaker 1: for Jordan. Everybody is a drama director by my Dog 806 00:53:57,600 --> 00:54:02,040 Speaker 1: Denzel Washington and its star Michael B. Jordan young Man, 807 00:54:02,120 --> 00:54:06,600 Speaker 1: I having to like a lot. Uh. It's A Journal 808 00:54:06,640 --> 00:54:09,120 Speaker 1: for Jordan is based on a true story or First 809 00:54:09,160 --> 00:54:13,560 Speaker 1: Sergeant Charles Munroe King, who's played by Michael b. It's 810 00:54:13,600 --> 00:54:16,319 Speaker 1: a soldier deployed to Iraq who begins to keep a 811 00:54:16,440 --> 00:54:21,360 Speaker 1: journal of love and advice for his infant son now 812 00:54:21,600 --> 00:54:26,160 Speaker 1: back at home. Senior New York Times editor Dana Kennedy, 813 00:54:26,760 --> 00:54:30,120 Speaker 1: I think that's the name, who's played by Seante Adams, 814 00:54:30,640 --> 00:54:35,080 Speaker 1: revisits the story of her unlikely, life altering relationship with 815 00:54:35,239 --> 00:54:38,440 Speaker 1: King and his enduring devotion to her and their child. 816 00:54:38,960 --> 00:54:42,400 Speaker 1: So sweeping account of a wance of a lifetime love, 817 00:54:42,560 --> 00:54:45,600 Speaker 1: and the film is a powerful reminder of the importance 818 00:54:46,000 --> 00:54:51,560 Speaker 1: of family. All Right, that's what's having it? All right? 819 00:54:51,760 --> 00:54:55,520 Speaker 1: Thank you, Steve. A Journal for Jordan opens in theaters 820 00:54:55,560 --> 00:55:02,279 Speaker 1: on Christmas Day. All right? Would you say, Steve, I 821 00:55:02,320 --> 00:55:06,120 Speaker 1: was just saying, is I need more? Yes? I Oh, 822 00:55:06,160 --> 00:55:10,680 Speaker 1: I'm glad I didn't hear that. Okay, you're good. That's 823 00:55:13,840 --> 00:55:18,080 Speaker 1: subject she means the world to me. Dear Stephen Shirley, 824 00:55:18,160 --> 00:55:20,680 Speaker 1: I'm a twenty eight year old single man and I'm 825 00:55:20,760 --> 00:55:24,440 Speaker 1: in love with the most beautiful girl. In the world. 826 00:55:24,840 --> 00:55:27,880 Speaker 1: I need your advice on how to love her properly. 827 00:55:28,520 --> 00:55:31,000 Speaker 1: My father has not been active in my life because 828 00:55:31,040 --> 00:55:34,120 Speaker 1: he's incarcerated. I can't go to my mother with the 829 00:55:34,200 --> 00:55:36,080 Speaker 1: kind of questions I have on how to be a 830 00:55:36,120 --> 00:55:38,719 Speaker 1: man and to love a woman. I've never seen a 831 00:55:38,760 --> 00:55:41,600 Speaker 1: positive love relationship, so I don't want to mess it 832 00:55:41,719 --> 00:55:45,080 Speaker 1: up with my girl. When I visited my dad at 833 00:55:45,080 --> 00:55:48,359 Speaker 1: a young age, I knew that I would never end 834 00:55:48,440 --> 00:55:50,839 Speaker 1: up in his situation, so I was teased a lot 835 00:55:50,880 --> 00:55:54,080 Speaker 1: for not running with the boys in my school. Instead, 836 00:55:54,160 --> 00:55:57,560 Speaker 1: I joined the debate club and the tennis team. Those 837 00:55:57,640 --> 00:56:01,960 Speaker 1: were two of the most uncool activities at the school, 838 00:56:02,560 --> 00:56:05,319 Speaker 1: but it was great for me because that's how I 839 00:56:05,400 --> 00:56:08,680 Speaker 1: met this girl. She still has her parents together in 840 00:56:08,760 --> 00:56:11,680 Speaker 1: the home, and her grandmother lives with them. It feels 841 00:56:11,920 --> 00:56:14,360 Speaker 1: good to visit her home and have dinner as a 842 00:56:14,440 --> 00:56:17,640 Speaker 1: family with them. Her father pulled me aside one day 843 00:56:17,880 --> 00:56:20,040 Speaker 1: and offered to get me a sports coat to wear 844 00:56:20,120 --> 00:56:23,640 Speaker 1: when he noticed mine was too small. I was ashamed, 845 00:56:23,920 --> 00:56:26,880 Speaker 1: but grateful that he never mentioned it to his daughter. 846 00:56:27,360 --> 00:56:30,600 Speaker 1: I feel he trusts me with her life, so I 847 00:56:30,640 --> 00:56:32,960 Speaker 1: don't want to mess this up. I look to you 848 00:56:33,000 --> 00:56:35,400 Speaker 1: for guidance, and I need some words from you on 849 00:56:35,440 --> 00:56:38,240 Speaker 1: how to keep my cool. I have a great job 850 00:56:38,320 --> 00:56:43,120 Speaker 1: and my own home that she's helping me decorate. I'm 851 00:56:43,200 --> 00:56:49,040 Speaker 1: appreciative of any advice you and Miss Shirley can offer me. Well. 852 00:56:49,320 --> 00:56:53,479 Speaker 1: I mean, first off, right here, pay close attention, boy, 853 00:56:54,120 --> 00:56:58,560 Speaker 1: Yes that's right. First of all, I have to say, 854 00:56:58,600 --> 00:57:01,399 Speaker 1: this is a beautiful, beautiful letter. I love this letter. 855 00:57:01,440 --> 00:57:04,240 Speaker 1: It makes me proud. It fills me with hope because 856 00:57:04,280 --> 00:57:06,680 Speaker 1: I know that there's still a lot of great guys 857 00:57:06,800 --> 00:57:10,399 Speaker 1: out there, and you sound like one of them. Um, 858 00:57:11,280 --> 00:57:13,879 Speaker 1: we've never had a letter like this, So I just 859 00:57:13,920 --> 00:57:16,920 Speaker 1: appreciate you wanting to do the right thing by your girl, 860 00:57:17,400 --> 00:57:22,280 Speaker 1: and you ask how do you love her properly? Well, 861 00:57:22,520 --> 00:57:25,200 Speaker 1: it sounds like you're off to a good start because 862 00:57:25,240 --> 00:57:27,520 Speaker 1: first you want to do this, this is something you 863 00:57:27,560 --> 00:57:30,120 Speaker 1: want to do. How do you love a woman properly? 864 00:57:30,200 --> 00:57:33,000 Speaker 1: You protect her, You make her feel safe, you make 865 00:57:33,040 --> 00:57:37,120 Speaker 1: her feel secure. You you treat her well, You take 866 00:57:37,160 --> 00:57:40,400 Speaker 1: care of her, You make her happiness a priority. You 867 00:57:40,520 --> 00:57:42,800 Speaker 1: be a gentleman. You treat her like a lady. You 868 00:57:42,920 --> 00:57:46,160 Speaker 1: stay stay close to her dad too, because he seems 869 00:57:46,200 --> 00:57:48,480 Speaker 1: to really like you and he seems to want you 870 00:57:48,560 --> 00:57:52,040 Speaker 1: to win. That's important. He could be your your father 871 00:57:52,240 --> 00:57:56,560 Speaker 1: role model. Um, you know you're motivated, highly motivated, young man. 872 00:57:56,640 --> 00:58:01,280 Speaker 1: I say, stay motivated, don't cheat on her, communicate with her, 873 00:58:01,600 --> 00:58:05,600 Speaker 1: listen to her, keep your word, show her you mean 874 00:58:05,640 --> 00:58:07,640 Speaker 1: what you say. I mean. These are just some of 875 00:58:07,680 --> 00:58:10,200 Speaker 1: the things that you can do to love her property 876 00:58:10,400 --> 00:58:13,480 Speaker 1: properly from a woman's perspective. And here's Steve, and I 877 00:58:13,800 --> 00:58:17,000 Speaker 1: know you have a lot more Steve ahead. Well, it's 878 00:58:17,000 --> 00:58:21,160 Speaker 1: a deal, young man. I appreciate the letter. She means 879 00:58:21,160 --> 00:58:25,840 Speaker 1: the world to me. Well, that's something that's not mentioned 880 00:58:25,960 --> 00:58:29,080 Speaker 1: a lot today. If you look at ig and you 881 00:58:29,120 --> 00:58:31,480 Speaker 1: look at all these stories, you know you don't very 882 00:58:31,560 --> 00:58:34,760 Speaker 1: rarely hear men saying that a woman means the world 883 00:58:34,800 --> 00:58:38,600 Speaker 1: to her. Not often, especially in young people. So it's 884 00:58:38,640 --> 00:58:43,400 Speaker 1: a great thing that you have that aspect going for 885 00:58:43,480 --> 00:58:47,120 Speaker 1: yourself and that type of level of commitment. You only 886 00:58:47,160 --> 00:58:49,960 Speaker 1: twenty eight years old, you're single, You're in love with 887 00:58:50,000 --> 00:58:53,320 Speaker 1: the most beautiful girl in the world, and to love 888 00:58:53,360 --> 00:58:58,720 Speaker 1: her properly, it's very simple. The key word to loving 889 00:58:58,800 --> 00:59:05,800 Speaker 1: somebody properly is respect, young man. It all starts with respect. 890 00:59:07,240 --> 00:59:10,120 Speaker 1: One of the best pieces of his advice I ever 891 00:59:10,160 --> 00:59:13,200 Speaker 1: got was do unto others as you would have them 892 00:59:13,280 --> 00:59:17,800 Speaker 1: do unto you. That's so important. But can I tell 893 00:59:17,800 --> 00:59:22,440 Speaker 1: you something, man, that is so hard to do as 894 00:59:22,440 --> 00:59:28,200 Speaker 1: a man, That is so so hard to do. Do 895 00:59:28,320 --> 00:59:31,200 Speaker 1: unto others as you would have them do unto you. 896 00:59:31,760 --> 00:59:34,400 Speaker 1: And if you start with respect, that's going to cover 897 00:59:34,520 --> 00:59:39,200 Speaker 1: a lot of ground. You know. Would you want her 898 00:59:39,280 --> 00:59:41,800 Speaker 1: to be loyal to you, then you in turn have 899 00:59:41,960 --> 00:59:45,760 Speaker 1: to be loyal to her. And we can't continue to 900 00:59:45,920 --> 00:59:48,240 Speaker 1: use excuse Well, I'm a man, you know, I trip 901 00:59:48,280 --> 00:59:50,479 Speaker 1: every nine and in, but I still love my girl. 902 00:59:50,480 --> 00:59:52,760 Speaker 1: I got all that. But you're gonna lose a dog 903 00:59:52,800 --> 00:59:55,160 Speaker 1: if you do that. So when I come back, I 904 00:59:55,280 --> 00:59:57,120 Speaker 1: go a little bit more in depth with it to 905 00:59:57,240 --> 01:00:01,560 Speaker 1: help you out. All right, Steven, We'll have part two 906 01:00:01,680 --> 01:00:04,280 Speaker 1: of your response coming up at twenty three minutes after 907 01:00:04,360 --> 01:00:07,800 Speaker 1: the hour. Today's Strawberry Letters, subject she means the world 908 01:00:07,840 --> 01:00:10,120 Speaker 1: to Me. We'll get back into it right after this. 909 01:00:10,840 --> 01:00:15,840 Speaker 1: You're listening show, all right, Come on, Steve, let's recap 910 01:00:15,840 --> 01:00:19,360 Speaker 1: today's Strawberry letter. The subject is she means the world 911 01:00:19,400 --> 01:00:21,280 Speaker 1: to me? All right, I got a twenty eight year 912 01:00:21,280 --> 01:00:24,640 Speaker 1: old young man whose father has been incarcerated, not active 913 01:00:24,640 --> 01:00:27,560 Speaker 1: in his life. He can't go to his mother with 914 01:00:27,600 --> 01:00:29,840 Speaker 1: the kinds of questions that he has on how to 915 01:00:29,880 --> 01:00:32,680 Speaker 1: be a man and love a woman. He's never seen 916 01:00:32,720 --> 01:00:34,880 Speaker 1: a positive relationship, and he don't want to mess it 917 01:00:34,960 --> 01:00:37,840 Speaker 1: up with this girl. And when he visited his dad 918 01:00:37,880 --> 01:00:39,520 Speaker 1: at a young age, he knew that he would never 919 01:00:39,600 --> 01:00:42,640 Speaker 1: end up in that situation. So he got teased a 920 01:00:42,680 --> 01:00:45,360 Speaker 1: lot for not running with the boys in the school, 921 01:00:45,480 --> 01:00:49,240 Speaker 1: and Steady joined the debate club and the tennis team, 922 01:00:49,240 --> 01:00:51,560 Speaker 1: and those are the two of the most uncool activities 923 01:00:51,600 --> 01:00:57,080 Speaker 1: at school. True, But it's okay though, because tennis can 924 01:00:57,120 --> 01:00:59,920 Speaker 1: get you a long way, and so will debating skill. 925 01:01:01,480 --> 01:01:04,080 Speaker 1: And but it was great for you because that's how 926 01:01:04,120 --> 01:01:07,240 Speaker 1: I met this girl, either at the tennis school or 927 01:01:07,320 --> 01:01:10,200 Speaker 1: at the debate club. So jack potty worked out for you. 928 01:01:11,200 --> 01:01:13,840 Speaker 1: And her parents are together at home with their grandmother, 929 01:01:13,840 --> 01:01:15,480 Speaker 1: and it feels good to visit at home and have 930 01:01:15,560 --> 01:01:18,480 Speaker 1: a deal as a family with them. Now here's the 931 01:01:18,640 --> 01:01:21,480 Speaker 1: upside to this, because we were talking about how do 932 01:01:21,520 --> 01:01:23,800 Speaker 1: you love a woman properly? And I started at the 933 01:01:23,800 --> 01:01:26,000 Speaker 1: bottom of the letter by explaining to this young man, 934 01:01:26,080 --> 01:01:30,480 Speaker 1: that it all starts with respect. If you respect a 935 01:01:30,560 --> 01:01:36,960 Speaker 1: woman her wishes, respect her needs, You respect her thoughts, 936 01:01:37,880 --> 01:01:44,480 Speaker 1: you respect her feelings, you respect everything about her. That's 937 01:01:44,760 --> 01:01:49,320 Speaker 1: how you keep a woman. Weren't even talking about love yet, 938 01:01:49,600 --> 01:01:52,560 Speaker 1: We're just talking about a basic thing that everybody has 939 01:01:52,600 --> 01:01:57,400 Speaker 1: the capability of doing. Respecting. Now the fact that you 940 01:01:57,520 --> 01:02:00,600 Speaker 1: in love with this girl is added because you now 941 01:02:00,640 --> 01:02:02,680 Speaker 1: you have feelings for her, and like you said at 942 01:02:02,720 --> 01:02:05,120 Speaker 1: the top of the letter, she means the world to me. 943 01:02:05,680 --> 01:02:08,640 Speaker 1: So now that means you in love. So here's an 944 01:02:08,720 --> 01:02:11,880 Speaker 1: upside to this. After respect, when you go by a house, 945 01:02:12,520 --> 01:02:15,560 Speaker 1: you kind of like that. You know they have a family, 946 01:02:16,520 --> 01:02:19,160 Speaker 1: and you all had dinner. You love that her father 947 01:02:19,360 --> 01:02:22,360 Speaker 1: pulled you aside one day and offered to get me 948 01:02:22,400 --> 01:02:25,520 Speaker 1: a sport coach where when he noticed mine was too small. 949 01:02:25,960 --> 01:02:29,040 Speaker 1: I was ashamed, but grateful that he never mentioned it 950 01:02:29,080 --> 01:02:32,160 Speaker 1: to his daughter. I feel that he trusts me with 951 01:02:32,200 --> 01:02:34,800 Speaker 1: her life. Okay, now you're going too far. Now. He 952 01:02:34,920 --> 01:02:38,560 Speaker 1: don't trust you with her life yet. He don't, but 953 01:02:38,640 --> 01:02:42,439 Speaker 1: he watching you, and he likes some things about you. 954 01:02:43,800 --> 01:02:51,160 Speaker 1: Because he likes he likes some things about you. But 955 01:02:51,800 --> 01:02:54,880 Speaker 1: and he's willing to help you. If the father is 956 01:02:54,880 --> 01:03:00,800 Speaker 1: willing to help you, that means that Steve and so 957 01:03:00,880 --> 01:03:03,680 Speaker 1: he'd poured you to the side and got you a 958 01:03:03,760 --> 01:03:06,680 Speaker 1: sport coat to wear when he noticed yours was too small. 959 01:03:07,200 --> 01:03:10,040 Speaker 1: So he liked you. He think that's put potentially me 960 01:03:10,320 --> 01:03:13,880 Speaker 1: and he did it away from his daughter. So you 961 01:03:13,960 --> 01:03:15,920 Speaker 1: don't want to mess this up. So you look to 962 01:03:16,120 --> 01:03:18,880 Speaker 1: me for guidance and some words on how to keep 963 01:03:18,920 --> 01:03:23,440 Speaker 1: my cool. But listen to me. Man, you have somebody 964 01:03:23,480 --> 01:03:26,280 Speaker 1: who likes you, that's an older man, and that's her father. 965 01:03:27,200 --> 01:03:30,200 Speaker 1: Now you gotta be careful here because you're gonna come 966 01:03:30,240 --> 01:03:32,960 Speaker 1: to him for advice. But the advice you're coming for 967 01:03:33,200 --> 01:03:36,040 Speaker 1: you have to remember that this is his daughter. I've 968 01:03:36,080 --> 01:03:40,680 Speaker 1: had this conversation before with young men. It's hard. I 969 01:03:40,720 --> 01:03:42,360 Speaker 1: want to do the right thing. I'm trying to do 970 01:03:42,400 --> 01:03:45,200 Speaker 1: this with your daughter. Blah blahlah. Now I want him 971 01:03:45,200 --> 01:03:48,280 Speaker 1: to understand how to be successful. But at the same time, 972 01:03:49,360 --> 01:03:53,320 Speaker 1: I'm team daughter all the time. I'm team Morgan, team Brandy, 973 01:03:53,360 --> 01:03:58,080 Speaker 1: team Carley, team lawyer. So I'm gonna help you, but 974 01:03:58,200 --> 01:04:00,680 Speaker 1: it's gonna be to her advantage, and you just got 975 01:04:00,800 --> 01:04:03,440 Speaker 1: to understand that part of it. Man, he's going to 976 01:04:03,520 --> 01:04:06,720 Speaker 1: help you, but it will be to her advantage, and 977 01:04:07,200 --> 01:04:10,040 Speaker 1: it might not be a bad thing because you should 978 01:04:10,120 --> 01:04:13,320 Speaker 1: want it to be to her advantage, which is the 979 01:04:13,440 --> 01:04:18,160 Speaker 1: other thing. So it you're in a good position with 980 01:04:18,200 --> 01:04:21,240 Speaker 1: the guy. Now you don't want to mess this up. 981 01:04:21,400 --> 01:04:25,720 Speaker 1: Don't stay respectful. These are my words of guidance to you. 982 01:04:26,600 --> 01:04:28,960 Speaker 1: Respect and love is the key to the whole thing. 983 01:04:29,400 --> 01:04:31,040 Speaker 1: Now here's what you do. Have You say you have 984 01:04:31,080 --> 01:04:33,360 Speaker 1: a great job, you got your own home that she's 985 01:04:33,400 --> 01:04:36,080 Speaker 1: helping you decorate. I'm apprecier of any advice that you 986 01:04:36,120 --> 01:04:38,479 Speaker 1: and Miss Shirley can offer. You got your own home, 987 01:04:38,520 --> 01:04:41,840 Speaker 1: you twenty eight, or you're strong, You've got a good job, 988 01:04:42,120 --> 01:04:46,439 Speaker 1: You're strong. She helping you decorate it because she see 989 01:04:46,520 --> 01:04:52,640 Speaker 1: herself in that house. You win it, you winning dog. 990 01:04:54,200 --> 01:05:02,520 Speaker 1: Stay respectful, don't blow it, don't mess this up. The 991 01:05:02,680 --> 01:05:06,600 Speaker 1: problem with us as men sometimes is once we get 992 01:05:06,840 --> 01:05:11,120 Speaker 1: things together and once we start learning a little bit more, 993 01:05:12,120 --> 01:05:14,640 Speaker 1: we have a tendency to want to show people what 994 01:05:14,640 --> 01:05:17,520 Speaker 1: we got and what we know. And that's when you 995 01:05:17,560 --> 01:05:19,720 Speaker 1: want to show it to somebody else so you can 996 01:05:19,720 --> 01:05:23,120 Speaker 1: get that same cheering that you got initially from your girl. 997 01:05:23,160 --> 01:05:25,600 Speaker 1: When she found out you was at homeowner all this here, 998 01:05:26,080 --> 01:05:28,520 Speaker 1: so now you want to show it off, and then 999 01:05:28,520 --> 01:05:30,640 Speaker 1: that makes you want to invite somebody else over so 1000 01:05:30,720 --> 01:05:33,080 Speaker 1: she can see the house, so forth and so on. 1001 01:05:33,280 --> 01:05:37,520 Speaker 1: YadA YadA, YadA, YadA YadA. You gotta be aware because 1002 01:05:37,560 --> 01:05:41,520 Speaker 1: that's called temptation, and that's coming. Try to avoid the temptation. 1003 01:05:41,600 --> 01:05:44,640 Speaker 1: Remember the Lord's bread. Give us this day our daily bread, 1004 01:05:45,320 --> 01:05:48,560 Speaker 1: and forgive us our temptations. We've forgive us our trust. Pass. 1005 01:05:48,600 --> 01:05:51,840 Speaker 1: We've given those will trust pass against us, and lead 1006 01:05:51,920 --> 01:05:58,280 Speaker 1: us not into temptation, but deliver us from all that 1007 01:05:58,600 --> 01:06:04,680 Speaker 1: is he. Oh try, young man, that's my daily prayer. 1008 01:06:04,760 --> 01:06:07,720 Speaker 1: I just try. I try. Don't get right all the time, 1009 01:06:07,760 --> 01:06:09,720 Speaker 1: and neither will you. And you're gonna make some mistakes 1010 01:06:09,760 --> 01:06:12,080 Speaker 1: and she's gonna get mad at you. I thank you 1011 01:06:12,160 --> 01:06:15,439 Speaker 1: on track. You're gonna be fine. Just remember respect. Thank 1012 01:06:15,440 --> 01:06:18,320 Speaker 1: you very much, all right, Steve, Thank you. Leave your 1013 01:06:18,320 --> 01:06:21,560 Speaker 1: comments on Today's Strawberry Letter on the Instagram and Facebook 1014 01:06:21,560 --> 01:06:24,040 Speaker 1: at Steve Harvey fm dot com, and check out the 1015 01:06:24,040 --> 01:06:27,240 Speaker 1: Strawberry Letter podcast on demand coming up at forty six 1016 01:06:27,280 --> 01:06:31,200 Speaker 1: minutes after the hour. Our girl from the Talk, Sheryl Underwood. 1017 01:06:31,480 --> 01:06:36,240 Speaker 1: Right after this, you're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, 1018 01:06:36,240 --> 01:06:39,560 Speaker 1: come on, Steve introduced our girl from the Talk ladies 1019 01:06:39,600 --> 01:06:44,320 Speaker 1: and gentlemen. Here she is the one the oldest Sheryl Underwood. 1020 01:06:44,800 --> 01:06:47,000 Speaker 1: Thank you, Steve Harvey. And you know, to the Steve 1021 01:06:47,040 --> 01:06:50,040 Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. Family and everybody listens to Steve Harvey 1022 01:06:50,360 --> 01:06:53,520 Speaker 1: Morning Show. You know, we celebrating the holidays, you know 1023 01:06:53,560 --> 01:06:56,400 Speaker 1: what I'm saying. We you know, wish everybody married Christman. 1024 01:06:56,480 --> 01:06:58,720 Speaker 1: You don't have corns. You know, we ain't got there yet, 1025 01:06:58,720 --> 01:07:00,920 Speaker 1: but you know we look out for the you know, 1026 01:07:01,000 --> 01:07:03,880 Speaker 1: happy New Year. But Steve, I want to ask you personally, 1027 01:07:04,320 --> 01:07:07,600 Speaker 1: do you remember when you and I were backstage with 1028 01:07:07,680 --> 01:07:10,560 Speaker 1: the Daytime Emmys and we both looked at each other 1029 01:07:10,920 --> 01:07:14,320 Speaker 1: and you said to me, we did it right. And 1030 01:07:14,400 --> 01:07:18,400 Speaker 1: I don't think people are as grateful as they. I 1031 01:07:18,440 --> 01:07:21,600 Speaker 1: don't know, I shouldn't say should be with everything that's 1032 01:07:21,600 --> 01:07:26,520 Speaker 1: going on, COVID, inclement weather and everything. Just that little 1033 01:07:26,560 --> 01:07:30,560 Speaker 1: thing of you and I having that backstage connection, that's 1034 01:07:30,640 --> 01:07:34,960 Speaker 1: appreciation of a blessing. Do you guys think that people 1035 01:07:35,040 --> 01:07:40,840 Speaker 1: nowadays appreciate the blessing? Absolutely not. I think this world 1036 01:07:40,960 --> 01:07:44,880 Speaker 1: is in such a state of lack of gratitude because 1037 01:07:44,920 --> 01:07:47,560 Speaker 1: we're in too much of an old look at me society. 1038 01:07:48,560 --> 01:07:54,800 Speaker 1: It's Instagram, it's igs, Facebook watch is posted like and dislike, 1039 01:07:54,880 --> 01:07:57,720 Speaker 1: and it's trolling. It's too much of that. It's too 1040 01:07:57,800 --> 01:08:00,160 Speaker 1: much of that. I think it's very missing. That's right. 1041 01:08:00,200 --> 01:08:01,760 Speaker 1: What do you think Schy describe berries? You know, you 1042 01:08:01,800 --> 01:08:04,760 Speaker 1: got that spirituality going. I just don't think people engage 1043 01:08:04,800 --> 01:08:06,720 Speaker 1: each other the way they should. I feel sorry for 1044 01:08:06,760 --> 01:08:09,840 Speaker 1: the kids now they didn't even date. They hook up 1045 01:08:09,920 --> 01:08:13,480 Speaker 1: and what like, and then even a holiday each other. 1046 01:08:14,360 --> 01:08:18,200 Speaker 1: Yeah back then, but back then, even the holidays, it 1047 01:08:18,240 --> 01:08:22,120 Speaker 1: had a spiritual component. But listen, it ain't Christma until 1048 01:08:22,160 --> 01:08:25,160 Speaker 1: I hit Temptations and oj Crisma. Just ain't christ the 1049 01:08:25,200 --> 01:08:27,599 Speaker 1: one you love what you lonely do for Christmas? You know, 1050 01:08:27,840 --> 01:08:31,799 Speaker 1: social describe berries. Back in the day, we appreciate it stuff. 1051 01:08:31,840 --> 01:08:35,200 Speaker 1: Even when you got one gift, you appreciated it. I 1052 01:08:35,240 --> 01:08:40,000 Speaker 1: just don't feel like people appreciate at the blessed times, right. 1053 01:08:40,080 --> 01:08:43,000 Speaker 1: I mean we're raised so differently, you know, and we 1054 01:08:43,000 --> 01:08:45,679 Speaker 1: didn't have you know, Steve mentioned social media. We didn't 1055 01:08:45,720 --> 01:08:48,960 Speaker 1: have social media growing up, so it forced us to 1056 01:08:49,000 --> 01:08:51,679 Speaker 1: talk to each other and be in groups with each 1057 01:08:51,680 --> 01:08:54,760 Speaker 1: other and deal with families and stuff like that. Now 1058 01:08:54,880 --> 01:08:57,320 Speaker 1: we don't have to. We can sit in front of 1059 01:08:57,320 --> 01:09:01,320 Speaker 1: our computer and be nameless and face and you know 1060 01:09:01,640 --> 01:09:05,519 Speaker 1: you hate and definitely not appreciate. People are entitled today. 1061 01:09:05,600 --> 01:09:09,200 Speaker 1: They think you owe them something. You know you mustn't care. 1062 01:09:09,400 --> 01:09:13,559 Speaker 1: Williams face then go on and on. But that's for now. 1063 01:09:15,640 --> 01:09:17,600 Speaker 1: But you know what, I just want to say this 1064 01:09:17,800 --> 01:09:20,360 Speaker 1: to everybody that's listening show. First of all, be be 1065 01:09:20,560 --> 01:09:23,000 Speaker 1: thankful for what you got. Y'all know that song, Thankful 1066 01:09:23,040 --> 01:09:26,760 Speaker 1: what you got, Merry Christmas, the Happy New Year. That's right, 1067 01:09:26,960 --> 01:09:30,880 Speaker 1: and just accepted. Blessing Steve, you're gonna hit it. Go ahead, 1068 01:09:31,080 --> 01:09:35,559 Speaker 1: thankful for what you got. You may not add saga. 1069 01:09:35,680 --> 01:09:39,479 Speaker 1: See coming up at the top of the hour, Roscoe 1070 01:09:39,880 --> 01:09:42,639 Speaker 1: is coming up to sing a few Christmas songs. Right 1071 01:09:42,720 --> 01:09:52,680 Speaker 1: after this to Rosco said, Hi, you're listening all right? 1072 01:09:52,760 --> 01:09:56,439 Speaker 1: So guys, you know we always hear from Roscoe. This 1073 01:09:56,640 --> 01:10:02,439 Speaker 1: is Christmas Holidays, everybody spirit, uh, So we always hear 1074 01:10:02,479 --> 01:10:05,120 Speaker 1: from him at the start of the show. But right now, 1075 01:10:05,640 --> 01:10:09,479 Speaker 1: like we're all in a Christmas spirit, So Ruscoe is back. 1076 01:10:09,960 --> 01:10:11,960 Speaker 1: I need a better here, Joan, who are you? The 1077 01:10:12,080 --> 01:10:14,559 Speaker 1: right way? I got it? You ladies and gentlemen, get 1078 01:10:14,640 --> 01:10:17,320 Speaker 1: yourself together. He is the legend. He's going through a 1079 01:10:17,400 --> 01:10:19,479 Speaker 1: law suit, but he is still the man. But you 1080 01:10:19,760 --> 01:10:24,120 Speaker 1: and together the baddest in the land. So many different music, 1081 01:10:24,600 --> 01:10:31,400 Speaker 1: very different genres. The one and only Ross go as 1082 01:10:31,520 --> 01:10:38,080 Speaker 1: you dro that there, you boy, you gotta do better 1083 01:10:38,080 --> 01:10:41,200 Speaker 1: than anyway we're going on. Now, what's going on? What 1084 01:10:41,400 --> 01:10:44,840 Speaker 1: y'all need from it? Christmas songs? Ros Christmas songs? Man? 1085 01:10:45,280 --> 01:10:48,240 Speaker 1: What about what you want to do? That's what I 1086 01:10:48,360 --> 01:10:52,120 Speaker 1: was trying to tell you, Roscoe Christmas Okay, I know, 1087 01:10:52,360 --> 01:10:54,519 Speaker 1: I know. Where's the whole Crimson? What you what you 1088 01:10:54,560 --> 01:10:56,839 Speaker 1: want me to do? You ain't some of your greatest 1089 01:10:56,920 --> 01:11:00,240 Speaker 1: Christmas hits? Oh some of my greatest Christmas Yeah, wrote 1090 01:11:00,240 --> 01:11:03,600 Speaker 1: to everything knows his greatest hits. I thought he was 1091 01:11:03,640 --> 01:11:13,439 Speaker 1: just singing Christmas songs. Oh, he Bay the snow Man, boss, 1092 01:11:16,520 --> 01:11:18,880 Speaker 1: I wrote, I wrote, I wrote the song Boston Snowman. 1093 01:11:18,960 --> 01:11:22,479 Speaker 1: White people got hold to it. They called it frosty. Hell, 1094 01:11:22,520 --> 01:11:27,000 Speaker 1: I want to write a song called Frosty. It was bossible. 1095 01:11:28,560 --> 01:11:36,519 Speaker 1: I go ro Bay the snow Man. What a bad 1096 01:11:36,680 --> 01:11:40,639 Speaker 1: old dude, was he? That's how I wrote the song 1097 01:11:41,280 --> 01:11:45,880 Speaker 1: white vol Change at the Frosty the snow Man. That 1098 01:11:46,080 --> 01:11:50,320 Speaker 1: part of lawsuit, warter of lawsuit? What else? Oh this Christmas? 1099 01:11:50,840 --> 01:12:02,520 Speaker 1: You gotta sing that one? Do do Dode Hey, old missiletool. 1100 01:12:04,439 --> 01:12:11,519 Speaker 1: I'm gonna get to know your better. The last creem 1101 01:12:13,439 --> 01:12:26,599 Speaker 1: and as we look around your eye out shine the time, 1102 01:12:28,680 --> 01:12:39,040 Speaker 1: what deeds creems, Mill Hills, my fire side, blazing bride, 1103 01:12:40,080 --> 01:12:46,040 Speaker 1: come on and we're blowing these jams, oh through the night, 1104 01:12:47,760 --> 01:12:56,800 Speaker 1: and the crisma will will be a very special crismer 1105 01:12:59,320 --> 01:13:03,960 Speaker 1: from me. Yeah, that's really high wind. You know Donny 1106 01:13:04,080 --> 01:13:05,880 Speaker 1: got hold to it. Didn't wonderful y'all. I want to 1107 01:13:05,920 --> 01:13:08,639 Speaker 1: thank Donny half Away. You're the only bardon that did 1108 01:13:08,680 --> 01:13:12,240 Speaker 1: a soul that I wrote and did it better. Only one, okay, 1109 01:13:14,439 --> 01:13:18,760 Speaker 1: But I gotta get my money though, he said, I'm 1110 01:13:18,840 --> 01:13:24,120 Speaker 1: shore Donna halfaway, Layla halfaway, pathaway. Anybody that's trying to 1111 01:13:24,240 --> 01:13:29,519 Speaker 1: come my way, and it's Jane half away, Jane half away. 1112 01:13:31,680 --> 01:13:35,639 Speaker 1: I'm sure with everybody. What is your favorite Christmas song though, Rosco? 1113 01:13:35,840 --> 01:13:39,559 Speaker 1: Your absolute all time favorite? Oh? This one? I wrote 1114 01:13:39,600 --> 01:13:43,559 Speaker 1: that the change cold as hell, cold ass hell cold 1115 01:13:43,640 --> 01:13:48,760 Speaker 1: outside I'm here. Ain't no fun when you knows on 1116 01:13:48,880 --> 01:13:52,200 Speaker 1: the run. Everybody knows it's cold out here. Hey and 1117 01:13:52,320 --> 01:13:54,360 Speaker 1: I changed out with the cold. Song was about being 1118 01:13:54,439 --> 01:13:58,360 Speaker 1: cold out here. Wife folk like cold, so they named 1119 01:13:58,400 --> 01:14:02,479 Speaker 1: it jingle Bell, jingle Bell, jingle Bell. The song was 1120 01:14:02,960 --> 01:14:09,719 Speaker 1: whole ass hell, whole ast hell, cold as your damn wife, 1121 01:14:10,080 --> 01:14:21,760 Speaker 1: Like all right, we'll get in from the snow. That 1122 01:14:21,920 --> 01:14:26,960 Speaker 1: was another line, thank you hit through the snow out 1123 01:14:30,200 --> 01:14:32,679 Speaker 1: trending stories. More of the Steve Harvey Morning Show coming 1124 01:14:32,720 --> 01:14:35,639 Speaker 1: up in twenty minutes after. Right after this, you're listening 1125 01:14:35,920 --> 01:14:41,599 Speaker 1: to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. In celebrity couple break 1126 01:14:41,720 --> 01:14:45,880 Speaker 1: up news, here's another one. ESPN Personalities Jalen Rose and 1127 01:14:46,000 --> 01:14:49,360 Speaker 1: Molly curum Uh. They're ending their marriage after only three 1128 01:14:49,439 --> 01:14:53,120 Speaker 1: short years. They've been separated for almost a year. Molly 1129 01:14:53,160 --> 01:14:56,040 Speaker 1: and I have officially decided to go our separate way, 1130 01:14:56,200 --> 01:14:59,200 Speaker 1: says Jalen Rose, a former NBA player and he's a 1131 01:14:59,400 --> 01:15:03,559 Speaker 1: current ESPN analyst. That's what he said on his Instagram story. 1132 01:15:03,680 --> 01:15:06,519 Speaker 1: We both agree remaining friends and colleagues is the best 1133 01:15:06,600 --> 01:15:10,599 Speaker 1: course of action for our relationship going forward. Please respect 1134 01:15:10,640 --> 01:15:14,120 Speaker 1: our privacy at this time kurram as a moderator on 1135 01:15:15,240 --> 01:15:19,160 Speaker 1: ESPN show First Take with Stephen A. Smith Borts. Man, 1136 01:15:19,680 --> 01:15:21,360 Speaker 1: I know one thing I don't care well, nobody say 1137 01:15:21,439 --> 01:15:26,080 Speaker 1: Jayalen didn't write that. I talked to Jayden like that. No, 1138 01:15:26,680 --> 01:15:31,360 Speaker 1: we decided. I'm like, I like both of them. Now 1139 01:15:31,400 --> 01:15:33,479 Speaker 1: I'm just saying I like them. I'm saying I know 1140 01:15:33,560 --> 01:15:38,519 Speaker 1: Jeley didn't write there. He didn't write that. I don't know. 1141 01:15:38,600 --> 01:15:41,679 Speaker 1: They worked to me like the celebrity sports power couple. 1142 01:15:41,840 --> 01:15:45,000 Speaker 1: I was rooting for them. I'm I'm sad to hear 1143 01:15:45,040 --> 01:15:49,760 Speaker 1: that they have kids. I know, don't think I don't 1144 01:15:49,800 --> 01:15:52,800 Speaker 1: have to think they have any children. I'm really really sad. 1145 01:15:53,760 --> 01:15:55,880 Speaker 1: But you know both of them, right, Yeah, I know 1146 01:15:55,960 --> 01:15:57,400 Speaker 1: both of them. Man, I was really I think they 1147 01:15:57,520 --> 01:16:04,400 Speaker 1: cool people. So man, that's sad. Oh well, well, hopefully 1148 01:16:04,479 --> 01:16:07,760 Speaker 1: they'll work it out different Christmas phone. It's not gonna 1149 01:16:07,760 --> 01:16:14,040 Speaker 1: happen some kind of way. Hopefully they work Steve Harvey 1150 01:16:14,080 --> 01:16:17,439 Speaker 1: Morning Showing out thirty three minutes after the day of divorce. 1151 01:16:17,520 --> 01:16:26,080 Speaker 1: So you're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show. Here we go. 1152 01:16:26,200 --> 01:16:28,479 Speaker 1: Would you rather let's just write out the gate. Would 1153 01:16:28,479 --> 01:16:31,960 Speaker 1: you rather have sex with your celebrity crush we know yours, 1154 01:16:32,160 --> 01:16:36,479 Speaker 1: halle Berry, Tommy, we know that, or someone that you 1155 01:16:36,600 --> 01:16:40,720 Speaker 1: had a crush on in high school. Celebrity, they don't 1156 01:16:40,760 --> 01:16:44,280 Speaker 1: look like that, No, mo. People in high school been 1157 01:16:44,320 --> 01:16:48,479 Speaker 1: to a couple of reunions, and I went to a reunion. 1158 01:16:48,520 --> 01:16:50,560 Speaker 1: I thought my old girlfriend with my teacher. I was 1159 01:16:50,600 --> 01:17:09,200 Speaker 1: like that Jackson the English teacher. Yeah, all right, here 1160 01:17:09,240 --> 01:17:12,880 Speaker 1: we go. Would you rather reveal your search history? You know, 1161 01:17:13,040 --> 01:17:16,519 Speaker 1: your naughty search history, let's put it like that, or 1162 01:17:16,760 --> 01:17:19,960 Speaker 1: would you rather work as an exotic dancer for one day? 1163 01:17:21,160 --> 01:17:25,120 Speaker 1: Say it again? Would you rather reveal your naughty search history? 1164 01:17:25,600 --> 01:17:28,400 Speaker 1: Or would you rather work as an exotic dancer for 1165 01:17:28,560 --> 01:17:37,080 Speaker 1: one day? You've been looking up looking I can't go 1166 01:17:37,160 --> 01:17:41,720 Speaker 1: in my cookies look holloway away. I misunderstood the question 1167 01:17:42,120 --> 01:17:44,960 Speaker 1: was like going in your search like whatever you've done 1168 01:17:45,000 --> 01:17:47,400 Speaker 1: in your phone, whatever you're going on, whatever you look up, 1169 01:17:47,439 --> 01:17:51,040 Speaker 1: whatever you you looked at up. I can't be no damn. 1170 01:17:51,160 --> 01:17:54,320 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, oh I thought you were saying it. Would 1171 01:17:54,360 --> 01:17:57,960 Speaker 1: I go back and have to reveal what I've done? Yeah? 1172 01:17:58,360 --> 01:18:01,800 Speaker 1: That's that is. Would you rather reveal your naughty search 1173 01:18:01,960 --> 01:18:04,840 Speaker 1: history or work as an exotic dancer for a day. 1174 01:18:04,960 --> 01:18:13,160 Speaker 1: What you've been looking at your device? Yeah? Your answer? Now, 1175 01:18:13,760 --> 01:18:16,400 Speaker 1: I'm coming out with glitter all over me here. You know, 1176 01:18:16,439 --> 01:18:19,320 Speaker 1: I'm gonna have to I'm had to come out as up. 1177 01:18:19,960 --> 01:18:22,479 Speaker 1: I don't know. I'm had to come out as like 1178 01:18:22,640 --> 01:18:25,200 Speaker 1: a matter. I'm gonna have to come out as a 1179 01:18:25,280 --> 01:18:27,840 Speaker 1: matter door. You know. I'm the ladies and gentlemen coming 1180 01:18:27,920 --> 01:18:32,320 Speaker 1: to the stage. Just the Matador Harvey. Ladies and gentleman, 1181 01:18:35,200 --> 01:18:40,920 Speaker 1: come out, jacket that jacket our head on at at 1182 01:18:42,080 --> 01:18:46,360 Speaker 1: miss Universe which to Israel, Yeah, and had Jerusalem on 1183 01:18:46,560 --> 01:18:49,439 Speaker 1: it a lock and Tel aviv Ya. Come out and 1184 01:18:49,520 --> 01:18:54,719 Speaker 1: wear that, Ladies and gentleman and seniorall a senior citizen 1185 01:18:55,320 --> 01:19:09,240 Speaker 1: for just strip real slow right now? Yeah, what about you, 1186 01:19:09,439 --> 01:19:12,720 Speaker 1: junior man, I'm going to be a dumb being, strip 1187 01:19:12,800 --> 01:19:19,400 Speaker 1: of two. What have y'all been looking up? Oh? No, 1188 01:19:21,240 --> 01:19:27,880 Speaker 1: from the south side of Houston, Texas. Ladies clear, junior, welcome, 1189 01:19:28,400 --> 01:19:34,640 Speaker 1: Junior jump off right. I'm coming right after the Matador. 1190 01:19:37,080 --> 01:19:39,840 Speaker 1: Thanks guys. Coming up in forty nine minutes after the hour. 1191 01:19:40,200 --> 01:19:42,599 Speaker 1: It's our last break of the day and some closing 1192 01:19:42,800 --> 01:19:45,400 Speaker 1: from the one and only Steve Harvey, our fearless Leader. 1193 01:19:45,479 --> 01:19:49,439 Speaker 1: Right after this, you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1194 01:19:50,160 --> 01:19:52,040 Speaker 1: All right, guys, here we are our last break of 1195 01:19:52,120 --> 01:19:55,800 Speaker 1: the day on this Thursday. Been a good day. Yeah, 1196 01:19:56,200 --> 01:19:59,120 Speaker 1: it's been a great deal. We're getting ready to wrap 1197 01:19:59,280 --> 01:20:05,800 Speaker 1: up for holiday season. You know, hey, y'all listen, it's 1198 01:20:05,800 --> 01:20:07,880 Speaker 1: been a it's been a great year for us. It's 1199 01:20:07,880 --> 01:20:09,639 Speaker 1: been a great year of radio. It's been a great 1200 01:20:09,720 --> 01:20:13,240 Speaker 1: year of learning. We came out of the shale a 1201 01:20:13,320 --> 01:20:16,519 Speaker 1: little bit from COVID, we started the recovery from COVID. 1202 01:20:17,439 --> 01:20:19,560 Speaker 1: God kept us all safe. I know a lot of 1203 01:20:19,600 --> 01:20:21,720 Speaker 1: people out there lost some people that was dear to 1204 01:20:21,880 --> 01:20:25,599 Speaker 1: them because of this pandemic and for other reasons also. 1205 01:20:26,520 --> 01:20:29,439 Speaker 1: But the fact remains that we're still here. That's a blessing. 1206 01:20:30,120 --> 01:20:34,760 Speaker 1: That's truly, truly a blessing. Um. It's a good thing 1207 01:20:34,840 --> 01:20:37,000 Speaker 1: to be grateful, man, It really really is that I 1208 01:20:37,120 --> 01:20:40,639 Speaker 1: look back on this year and all God does has 1209 01:20:40,720 --> 01:20:43,680 Speaker 1: done for me. I can't help but be grateful. I 1210 01:20:43,840 --> 01:20:46,200 Speaker 1: know it's been some challenges over the past year, the 1211 01:20:46,280 --> 01:20:54,280 Speaker 1: past two years. I know people have lost jobs, positions, homes, careers, businesses. Uh, 1212 01:20:55,520 --> 01:20:59,080 Speaker 1: but everything is a lesson. Every single thing I've discovered 1213 01:20:59,120 --> 01:21:01,719 Speaker 1: in my life is a lesson. Every mistake that gets 1214 01:21:01,840 --> 01:21:07,599 Speaker 1: made is a lesson, every every everything. Man. Just listen, y'all. 1215 01:21:07,720 --> 01:21:11,639 Speaker 1: As we go into this holiday, be grateful, Be thankful 1216 01:21:11,720 --> 01:21:14,360 Speaker 1: that you're here. Man. Spend some time loving on people. 1217 01:21:14,840 --> 01:21:17,439 Speaker 1: Spend some time calling some people that you haven't spoken 1218 01:21:17,479 --> 01:21:19,639 Speaker 1: to in a while. Tell them you love them, given 1219 01:21:19,720 --> 01:21:23,200 Speaker 1: their flowers while they live farm. Keep your friendships alive. 1220 01:21:23,800 --> 01:21:25,880 Speaker 1: Just put in some phone calls. Hey, look, I may 1221 01:21:25,960 --> 01:21:27,720 Speaker 1: not have much this year, but I just wanted to 1222 01:21:27,760 --> 01:21:29,439 Speaker 1: call and tell ya I was thinking about you and 1223 01:21:29,479 --> 01:21:31,840 Speaker 1: I love you this year. I just want you to know, Man, 1224 01:21:31,920 --> 01:21:33,840 Speaker 1: if you ever need me, I'm now. I ain't got 1225 01:21:33,920 --> 01:21:36,400 Speaker 1: a lot, but you got my loyalty, my love, and 1226 01:21:36,479 --> 01:21:39,160 Speaker 1: my friendship. I think that's very valuable. Don't forget that. 1227 01:21:40,160 --> 01:21:44,360 Speaker 1: Try not to be disappointed this year. Don't expect people 1228 01:21:44,439 --> 01:21:46,679 Speaker 1: to do exactly what you want them to do, because 1229 01:21:46,760 --> 01:21:51,439 Speaker 1: people are the humans, and they make mistakes. I'm going 1230 01:21:51,520 --> 01:21:57,120 Speaker 1: into this new year ready more connected to my higher 1231 01:21:57,200 --> 01:22:01,840 Speaker 1: power than ever before. I'll be led more, I follow more, 1232 01:22:02,120 --> 01:22:05,600 Speaker 1: I listen more. I worry a lot less than I 1233 01:22:05,840 --> 01:22:09,400 Speaker 1: used to because I just gave the wheel over. I 1234 01:22:09,520 --> 01:22:13,760 Speaker 1: just told God, you drive, I'm gonna follow wherever you lead. Man, 1235 01:22:13,840 --> 01:22:17,880 Speaker 1: it has taken me places I never thought I would go. Now, listen, 1236 01:22:17,960 --> 01:22:20,240 Speaker 1: your life is not my life, and my life is 1237 01:22:20,280 --> 01:22:22,960 Speaker 1: not your life. But my life ain't Michael Jordan's life. 1238 01:22:23,080 --> 01:22:26,639 Speaker 1: My life ain't Tiger woods life. My life ain't Being 1239 01:22:26,760 --> 01:22:31,360 Speaker 1: Crump's life. My life ain't nobody else's. It's just mine. 1240 01:22:32,040 --> 01:22:34,880 Speaker 1: Stop looking at the path that other people are on 1241 01:22:35,080 --> 01:22:38,960 Speaker 1: and focus on your path, because your path is very 1242 01:22:39,080 --> 01:22:43,160 Speaker 1: uniquely designed for the life God has for you. The 1243 01:22:43,320 --> 01:22:45,680 Speaker 1: problem you have is when you start looking at other 1244 01:22:45,800 --> 01:22:49,120 Speaker 1: paths and you want that path. That path has nothing 1245 01:22:49,200 --> 01:22:52,160 Speaker 1: to do with you. Stop looking at what other people have. 1246 01:22:52,479 --> 01:22:54,720 Speaker 1: You don't know how they got it, You don't know 1247 01:22:54,840 --> 01:22:57,080 Speaker 1: what it cost him, and you don't even know if 1248 01:22:57,160 --> 01:23:01,400 Speaker 1: it's really there. Stop following people. I tell my, look 1249 01:23:01,439 --> 01:23:05,400 Speaker 1: at all they likes. You don't know what's behind them looks. 1250 01:23:06,560 --> 01:23:09,840 Speaker 1: Take them eyelashes off, in that makeup and turn that 1251 01:23:10,000 --> 01:23:12,519 Speaker 1: bag the right way where you can really see everything, 1252 01:23:12,600 --> 01:23:17,880 Speaker 1: and you would be surprised. Get content with your own self, 1253 01:23:18,880 --> 01:23:22,800 Speaker 1: be happy, Learn to be happy with you. Where you are, 1254 01:23:23,200 --> 01:23:27,240 Speaker 1: who you are, what you doing, where you going, what 1255 01:23:27,479 --> 01:23:31,360 Speaker 1: you praying about what you're hoping for, what you're living for. 1256 01:23:32,040 --> 01:23:38,120 Speaker 1: Get excited about you. Stop worrying about other people. Stop 1257 01:23:38,280 --> 01:23:41,320 Speaker 1: looking at what they do. It ain't got nothing to 1258 01:23:41,560 --> 01:23:50,080 Speaker 1: do with you. Listen, listen, focus on yourself. Put your 1259 01:23:50,120 --> 01:23:54,519 Speaker 1: awareness on yourself, God and what He has for you. 1260 01:23:56,040 --> 01:23:59,400 Speaker 1: It serves you no purpose to look over there as 1261 01:23:59,439 --> 01:24:02,840 Speaker 1: somebody else running their race. All it does is slow 1262 01:24:02,920 --> 01:24:07,679 Speaker 1: you down from yours. Keep the pace, keep the faith, 1263 01:24:08,600 --> 01:24:11,920 Speaker 1: and keep your eyes on the prize. That's how you 1264 01:24:11,960 --> 01:24:17,439 Speaker 1: should run this race. Do not get do not get 1265 01:24:17,720 --> 01:24:24,200 Speaker 1: caught up in things that are not for you. I'm 1266 01:24:24,280 --> 01:24:26,360 Speaker 1: telling you, one of the things that helped me most 1267 01:24:26,880 --> 01:24:29,479 Speaker 1: was when I stopped worried about the path somebody else 1268 01:24:29,640 --> 01:24:32,320 Speaker 1: was on, and when I started focusing purely on the 1269 01:24:32,439 --> 01:24:36,639 Speaker 1: path I was on, My life got a lot cleaner. Man. 1270 01:24:36,760 --> 01:24:38,320 Speaker 1: You know what, I don't care who you look at. 1271 01:24:38,400 --> 01:24:41,880 Speaker 1: Somebody gonna always have more than you. Somebody gonna always 1272 01:24:41,880 --> 01:24:45,000 Speaker 1: appear to be doing more than you. Somebody gonna always 1273 01:24:45,040 --> 01:24:48,960 Speaker 1: appear to get more recognized. Listen to me. All of 1274 01:24:49,120 --> 01:24:54,519 Speaker 1: your blessings have your name on it. Do you understand 1275 01:24:54,560 --> 01:24:58,240 Speaker 1: what I'm saying to you? All of your blessings got 1276 01:24:58,360 --> 01:25:03,680 Speaker 1: your name on it. Ain't nobody else's name on none 1277 01:25:03,720 --> 01:25:07,040 Speaker 1: of your blessings. God don't make them kind of mistakes. 1278 01:25:08,280 --> 01:25:12,640 Speaker 1: All of your blessings have your name on it. Everything 1279 01:25:12,840 --> 01:25:18,400 Speaker 1: that's intended for you you will get and receive. Everything 1280 01:25:18,479 --> 01:25:22,200 Speaker 1: that's not yours, you will not get. You didn't get 1281 01:25:22,240 --> 01:25:26,000 Speaker 1: that award that wasn't yours, You didn't get recognized by 1282 01:25:26,040 --> 01:25:31,360 Speaker 1: this group of that group wasn't for you. Stop, it's 1283 01:25:31,400 --> 01:25:35,400 Speaker 1: all good. All I want from God is to make 1284 01:25:35,520 --> 01:25:39,480 Speaker 1: sure that I stay open to receive all the blessings 1285 01:25:39,760 --> 01:25:44,200 Speaker 1: that have my name on it. That will be good 1286 01:25:44,360 --> 01:25:47,760 Speaker 1: enough for me. I don't want nobody else's If I 1287 01:25:47,920 --> 01:25:50,160 Speaker 1: just stay clean and live a good enough life where 1288 01:25:50,160 --> 01:25:52,200 Speaker 1: He give me all the blessings with my name on it, 1289 01:25:52,560 --> 01:25:55,200 Speaker 1: that will be good for me. Remember, all your blessings 1290 01:25:55,280 --> 01:25:57,680 Speaker 1: got your name on it. Quit looking at everybody else 1291 01:25:57,800 --> 01:26:00,599 Speaker 1: boxes that's not your box. Y'all have great wold Man. 1292 01:26:00,600 --> 01:26:07,160 Speaker 1: I want to thank the crew, Shirley Carler, Monica, Tommy Junior, Jay, Anthony, everybody. 1293 01:26:07,520 --> 01:26:11,000 Speaker 1: Y'all have a great holiday. We'll see y'all. God is 1294 01:26:11,040 --> 01:26:13,439 Speaker 1: good man all the time, and all the time. God 1295 01:26:13,600 --> 01:26:24,680 Speaker 1: is good in peace for all. Steve Every contests no 1296 01:26:24,800 --> 01:26:28,240 Speaker 1: purchase necessary, void where prohibited. Participants must be legal US 1297 01:26:28,320 --> 01:26:31,800 Speaker 1: residents at least eighteen years old, unless otherwise stated. For 1298 01:26:31,960 --> 01:26:35,840 Speaker 1: complete contest rules, visit Steve Harvey FM dot com. You're 1299 01:26:35,880 --> 01:26:37,240 Speaker 1: listening to Steve