1 00:00:00,040 --> 00:00:01,920 Speaker 1: As a child, if you had an inkling about a 2 00:00:01,960 --> 00:00:04,320 Speaker 1: family secret and you asked the elders about it, they 3 00:00:04,400 --> 00:00:07,240 Speaker 1: lie right to your face. Who's that man living in 4 00:00:07,240 --> 00:00:11,240 Speaker 1: the garage? What man? There's a man out here's been 5 00:00:11,520 --> 00:00:14,040 Speaker 1: for quite some time. There's no man out there, Yes, 6 00:00:14,080 --> 00:00:17,680 Speaker 1: there is. Shut up. What a great time to be 7 00:00:17,720 --> 00:00:20,000 Speaker 1: a parent, By the way, could you imagine there was 8 00:00:20,000 --> 00:00:21,920 Speaker 1: a time if you just tell your kids to shut up, 9 00:00:22,079 --> 00:00:29,520 Speaker 1: right to their face, No long conversations, no explanations, just 10 00:00:29,720 --> 00:00:35,240 Speaker 1: shut up. How much easier would that have been? Why 11 00:00:35,360 --> 00:00:37,920 Speaker 1: is the sun hot? I don't know. Why don't you 12 00:00:38,040 --> 00:00:42,599 Speaker 1: shut up? Even easier to be a father back then, 13 00:00:42,840 --> 00:00:47,879 Speaker 1: you aren't even considered one of the parents. You just 14 00:00:47,920 --> 00:00:50,000 Speaker 1: had to show up and hit everyone. Once in a while. 15 00:00:51,200 --> 00:00:54,120 Speaker 1: My mother would act like we were strangers who just 16 00:00:54,160 --> 00:00:57,720 Speaker 1: broke into the TV room. Where the hell did these 17 00:00:57,800 --> 00:01:01,720 Speaker 1: kids come from here? My mother would come and leave 18 00:01:01,760 --> 00:01:05,520 Speaker 1: your father alone. He works hard, you were just playing. Well, 19 00:01:05,520 --> 00:01:06,720 Speaker 1: now you're just shutting up. 20 00:01:08,280 --> 00:01:11,200 Speaker 2: It's the Jewbile show, and parenting is hard. If you 21 00:01:11,200 --> 00:01:13,160 Speaker 2: need any proof of that, just observe any parent when 22 00:01:13,200 --> 00:01:15,360 Speaker 2: their kids are on summer break and home from school 23 00:01:15,360 --> 00:01:17,320 Speaker 2: and they're trying to balance a busy work schedule and 24 00:01:17,360 --> 00:01:18,880 Speaker 2: try to figure out how to keep the spawn of 25 00:01:18,920 --> 00:01:24,000 Speaker 2: their loins occupied. Yeah, they look like a grizzled war vet. 26 00:01:24,240 --> 00:01:28,559 Speaker 2: I think that's what leads to them smoking. And there's 27 00:01:28,600 --> 00:01:31,040 Speaker 2: proof that it's hard because there's a lot of parenting 28 00:01:31,040 --> 00:01:33,039 Speaker 2: tips out there and experts are warning people not to 29 00:01:33,120 --> 00:01:36,240 Speaker 2: do One parenting tip that has gone viral on TikTok, 30 00:01:36,280 --> 00:01:40,240 Speaker 2: and it's also spawned people sharing their unpopular parenting opinions. 31 00:01:40,280 --> 00:01:41,680 Speaker 2: We'll go over both those things and you'll hear the 32 00:01:41,760 --> 00:01:44,399 Speaker 2: audio of that trend right now. One mom has gone 33 00:01:44,440 --> 00:01:46,800 Speaker 2: viral on TikTok with a video of how to get 34 00:01:46,840 --> 00:01:49,560 Speaker 2: your kid to sleep at night? Your baby to sleep 35 00:01:49,560 --> 00:01:52,560 Speaker 2: at night, and experts are saying, do not do this. 36 00:01:52,720 --> 00:01:53,680 Speaker 2: Here's the audio. 37 00:01:54,000 --> 00:01:57,560 Speaker 3: Way you're trying the better before bead to say if 38 00:01:57,560 --> 00:01:58,919 Speaker 3: the house is sleep longer. 39 00:02:00,160 --> 00:02:05,160 Speaker 2: Con TikTok, moms have been telling parents to feed their 40 00:02:05,440 --> 00:02:09,720 Speaker 2: kid a spoonful of butter, a spoonful of butter and 41 00:02:10,240 --> 00:02:10,840 Speaker 2: them sleep. 42 00:02:10,960 --> 00:02:14,720 Speaker 4: Interesting, well, isn't that better than when they were used to? Like, 43 00:02:14,760 --> 00:02:16,440 Speaker 4: I don't know, they're giving them alcohol to make them 44 00:02:16,440 --> 00:02:16,799 Speaker 4: go sleep. 45 00:02:16,800 --> 00:02:17,760 Speaker 3: Oh, my dad to do it to me. 46 00:02:18,080 --> 00:02:21,120 Speaker 2: Butter would be worse. Fine, honestly, the butter's probably worse. 47 00:02:21,520 --> 00:02:24,440 Speaker 2: Experts are saying, do not do that. It's not harmless. 48 00:02:24,800 --> 00:02:27,800 Speaker 2: Too much saturated fat also a choking hazard, and people 49 00:02:27,840 --> 00:02:29,840 Speaker 2: who have tried it said that it doesn't even work 50 00:02:29,880 --> 00:02:30,160 Speaker 2: at all. 51 00:02:30,240 --> 00:02:30,519 Speaker 3: The bait. 52 00:02:30,600 --> 00:02:32,120 Speaker 2: It's just you're feeding your baby butter. 53 00:02:32,320 --> 00:02:34,119 Speaker 3: What is that like if I slow your heart down, 54 00:02:34,120 --> 00:02:37,880 Speaker 3: you'll sleep. Yeah, I guess that's the theory behind that. 55 00:02:38,680 --> 00:02:41,519 Speaker 2: And because of this video going viral, people are sharing 56 00:02:41,520 --> 00:02:45,240 Speaker 2: their unpopular parenting opinions on TikTok as well, So we'll 57 00:02:45,240 --> 00:02:47,320 Speaker 2: go over those see if you can agree or disagree 58 00:02:47,320 --> 00:02:50,639 Speaker 2: with these. Here are some of the top unpopular parenting 59 00:02:50,639 --> 00:02:54,640 Speaker 2: opinions from TikTok. Don't praise your kids for small. 60 00:02:54,400 --> 00:02:56,120 Speaker 3: Tasks out why not? 61 00:02:56,960 --> 00:02:57,600 Speaker 4: Yeah? Why not? 62 00:02:58,280 --> 00:03:01,240 Speaker 3: Well, because then they'll think all tasks sorry enough? 63 00:03:03,040 --> 00:03:05,200 Speaker 4: I mean, okay, also praise them for big tasks. But 64 00:03:05,240 --> 00:03:08,359 Speaker 4: there's nothing wrong with giving constant like feedback produce a 65 00:03:08,400 --> 00:03:11,080 Speaker 4: Brad's the only parent in here, right right? Do you 66 00:03:11,120 --> 00:03:12,520 Speaker 4: think this is a good thing or a bad thing. 67 00:03:12,880 --> 00:03:14,919 Speaker 3: I think this is a good thing. Do not praise 68 00:03:14,960 --> 00:03:17,880 Speaker 3: your kid for small tasks. What's considered a small task? 69 00:03:18,080 --> 00:03:19,760 Speaker 4: I don't know, you kept your room clean or something 70 00:03:19,919 --> 00:03:20,880 Speaker 4: that was a. 71 00:03:20,919 --> 00:03:21,880 Speaker 3: Huge task as a kid. 72 00:03:22,080 --> 00:03:23,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, I see, that's what you got to think how 73 00:03:23,880 --> 00:03:25,160 Speaker 2: they think like that's a big deal. 74 00:03:25,200 --> 00:03:27,080 Speaker 3: I would think. I think a lot of times people 75 00:03:27,160 --> 00:03:30,079 Speaker 3: give praise for things that they're just supposed to do, right, 76 00:03:30,200 --> 00:03:32,399 Speaker 3: and you don't. You're not gonna get praise your whole 77 00:03:32,440 --> 00:03:34,520 Speaker 3: life for things you're supposed to do. Pay your taxes, 78 00:03:34,560 --> 00:03:37,080 Speaker 3: you don't get. You don't get an ataboy right. So 79 00:03:37,280 --> 00:03:39,320 Speaker 3: for this, what I like to do with my daughter 80 00:03:39,480 --> 00:03:43,560 Speaker 3: is I try to say, are you proud of yourself? Why? 81 00:03:43,840 --> 00:03:46,840 Speaker 3: Fand that it's not backcandid. I want her to come 82 00:03:46,920 --> 00:03:49,160 Speaker 3: up with her own praise for herself so she doesn't 83 00:03:49,160 --> 00:03:51,120 Speaker 3: have to rely on people later in life to give 84 00:03:51,160 --> 00:03:51,640 Speaker 3: her praise. 85 00:03:51,800 --> 00:03:54,720 Speaker 2: That is actually I think that's solid advice, teaching your 86 00:03:54,760 --> 00:03:56,880 Speaker 2: kid to be proud of themselves, because a lot of 87 00:03:56,920 --> 00:03:59,320 Speaker 2: people don't know that they're proud of themselves until someone 88 00:03:59,320 --> 00:04:02,000 Speaker 2: else says it, and then that's seeking outside validation, which 89 00:04:02,000 --> 00:04:02,839 Speaker 2: you don't always get. 90 00:04:02,960 --> 00:04:04,600 Speaker 3: And a lot of parents are so selfish they think 91 00:04:04,600 --> 00:04:06,960 Speaker 3: their pride's more, they're worth more than their kids pride. 92 00:04:07,320 --> 00:04:09,800 Speaker 4: Right. I don't love that, But at what point do 93 00:04:09,880 --> 00:04:12,920 Speaker 4: you teach them though, like that that's the right thing 94 00:04:13,000 --> 00:04:15,640 Speaker 4: to do. Isn't little praise supposed to help them understand 95 00:04:15,640 --> 00:04:17,560 Speaker 4: that that was the right thing to do, Like, good job, 96 00:04:17,600 --> 00:04:20,000 Speaker 4: you cleaned your room. Like then continue with you should 97 00:04:20,000 --> 00:04:22,320 Speaker 4: feel proud of yourself. But you don't want to tell 98 00:04:22,360 --> 00:04:23,440 Speaker 4: them how they should feel either. 99 00:04:23,600 --> 00:04:26,080 Speaker 3: Like so like if I if I say okay to 100 00:04:26,120 --> 00:04:28,320 Speaker 3: my daughter, hey clean your room, and then she cleans 101 00:04:28,320 --> 00:04:30,479 Speaker 3: her room, she goes, I cleaned my room, Like thanks. 102 00:04:31,560 --> 00:04:34,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, yeah, you're technically the boss. 103 00:04:34,520 --> 00:04:36,400 Speaker 3: Your boss isn't gonna go. 104 00:04:39,760 --> 00:04:41,320 Speaker 4: There and gifts. 105 00:04:41,600 --> 00:04:45,839 Speaker 2: Unpopular parenting opinion that's being shared on TikTok parents should 106 00:04:45,880 --> 00:04:49,840 Speaker 2: not be their children's friends percent until they're until they're 107 00:04:49,880 --> 00:04:51,960 Speaker 2: old enough to be your friend, like until they're air eighteen. 108 00:04:52,040 --> 00:04:53,680 Speaker 2: Like I think that's a good time to be well, 109 00:04:53,800 --> 00:04:55,400 Speaker 2: Like I think it's always dope when I see parents 110 00:04:55,440 --> 00:04:57,880 Speaker 2: who are you know, old, and their kids are in 111 00:04:57,920 --> 00:05:00,200 Speaker 2: their twenties or whatever and they're actually they actually hang 112 00:05:00,240 --> 00:05:01,920 Speaker 2: out in their friends, I think that's awesome. But when 113 00:05:01,920 --> 00:05:04,000 Speaker 2: they're kids, like, you do have to have a there 114 00:05:04,040 --> 00:05:05,680 Speaker 2: is a power dynamic there. They should be there. 115 00:05:05,800 --> 00:05:08,599 Speaker 4: Yeah, it's like it's very trippy, like very sticky. But 116 00:05:08,680 --> 00:05:10,640 Speaker 4: you hear a lot of people, again, I'm not a mother, 117 00:05:10,680 --> 00:05:12,320 Speaker 4: so don't come at me. But you hear a lot 118 00:05:12,360 --> 00:05:15,279 Speaker 4: of people referring to their little children as they're best friends, 119 00:05:15,320 --> 00:05:17,279 Speaker 4: my little estee, my little you know. 120 00:05:17,240 --> 00:05:19,280 Speaker 3: Those are lonely empty people. I don't know. 121 00:05:19,560 --> 00:05:21,520 Speaker 4: I don't know about that. I mean even when they're 122 00:05:21,520 --> 00:05:23,720 Speaker 4: so little, like you're giving that mother something that they 123 00:05:23,760 --> 00:05:26,040 Speaker 4: didn't have before, and maybe they're too young to realize 124 00:05:26,080 --> 00:05:28,360 Speaker 4: that you've always thaw that pressure them. 125 00:05:28,440 --> 00:05:30,080 Speaker 2: This is the little minime? Are they so cute? They 126 00:05:30,080 --> 00:05:33,520 Speaker 2: look just like me? It's a bunch of kid though, 127 00:05:33,600 --> 00:05:36,320 Speaker 2: it is right though, Like they look like them right right, right, 128 00:05:36,360 --> 00:05:38,919 Speaker 2: it's so cute because they look like you exactly. 129 00:05:38,960 --> 00:05:40,920 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's weird and selfish. 130 00:05:41,080 --> 00:05:42,080 Speaker 2: It's kind of strange. 131 00:05:42,080 --> 00:05:45,919 Speaker 3: Instagram and parents are the worst people in my opinion, 132 00:05:46,080 --> 00:05:51,000 Speaker 3: really why their whole thing is about them being a parent. Yeah, 133 00:05:51,040 --> 00:05:53,560 Speaker 3: and they're putting their child at risk by putting their face. 134 00:05:53,279 --> 00:05:56,680 Speaker 4: Out everywhere, their experiences at their No, they don't. 135 00:05:56,440 --> 00:05:58,679 Speaker 2: They want like if you want to make it about 136 00:05:58,680 --> 00:06:00,560 Speaker 2: the kid teaching the tap dance young and make money 137 00:06:00,560 --> 00:06:07,760 Speaker 2: off of it, but make their account you know exactly. 138 00:06:08,240 --> 00:06:09,120 Speaker 4: It's a new stage mom. 139 00:06:09,320 --> 00:06:13,000 Speaker 2: The top unpopular parenting opinions that people are sharing on TikTok. 140 00:06:13,400 --> 00:06:16,840 Speaker 2: Time does not always go too fast. The newborn stage 141 00:06:16,920 --> 00:06:19,360 Speaker 2: doesn't go by fast enough. Don't kid yourself. We are 142 00:06:19,400 --> 00:06:21,880 Speaker 2: all miserable during this stage. 143 00:06:23,040 --> 00:06:26,359 Speaker 3: You miss it though, Yeah, you miss it. 144 00:06:26,400 --> 00:06:27,240 Speaker 2: What do you miss about it? 145 00:06:27,240 --> 00:06:29,080 Speaker 3: It's like it's like anything when you go through something 146 00:06:29,320 --> 00:06:33,080 Speaker 3: very difficult. In the moment, it sucks, but when you 147 00:06:33,080 --> 00:06:35,400 Speaker 3: look back on it, you just go. You know, you 148 00:06:35,440 --> 00:06:38,000 Speaker 3: just have a different it's like perspective, different perspective. If 149 00:06:38,040 --> 00:06:40,120 Speaker 3: that wasn't true, nobody would ever have a second kid. 150 00:06:40,680 --> 00:06:44,279 Speaker 2: You're like, at this point, I can do anything because 151 00:06:44,279 --> 00:06:46,720 Speaker 2: I've had so much feces on me. Yeah, and I 152 00:06:46,760 --> 00:06:49,520 Speaker 2: feel gets yeah, like it doesn't matter. I don't have 153 00:06:49,560 --> 00:06:54,520 Speaker 2: a shower for weeks and fine. 154 00:06:53,040 --> 00:06:54,920 Speaker 3: You can actually put your hand in poop. Been there? 155 00:06:55,080 --> 00:06:57,839 Speaker 4: Whatever about dating a single dad is they don't care 156 00:06:57,880 --> 00:07:02,080 Speaker 4: about anything gross. It's like whatever, you can't face them. 157 00:07:02,960 --> 00:07:07,320 Speaker 2: Another popular unpopular parenting tip that people are sharing on TikTok, 158 00:07:07,320 --> 00:07:09,160 Speaker 2: It's okay to negotiate with your kids. 159 00:07:09,400 --> 00:07:12,200 Speaker 4: Oh, I feel like I feel like you do negotiate. 160 00:07:12,240 --> 00:07:15,600 Speaker 3: I encourage I encourage my daughter to negotiate with me. 161 00:07:16,480 --> 00:07:19,640 Speaker 3: What so I'll say A, B and C and she 162 00:07:19,920 --> 00:07:23,880 Speaker 3: and she now knows what about D? And I still 163 00:07:23,880 --> 00:07:26,240 Speaker 3: have the power to say no. But I can appreciate 164 00:07:26,280 --> 00:07:27,080 Speaker 3: the skill. 165 00:07:26,840 --> 00:07:28,600 Speaker 2: To say, hey, I used to do that too when 166 00:07:28,600 --> 00:07:31,200 Speaker 2: I was a stepdady. Sorry, but there was a butter 167 00:07:31,240 --> 00:07:33,520 Speaker 2: lady coming back. I used to do that too when 168 00:07:33,520 --> 00:07:34,120 Speaker 2: I was a stepdad. 169 00:07:34,160 --> 00:07:34,320 Speaker 4: Though. 170 00:07:34,400 --> 00:07:36,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'll be like, this is the deal, and I'm like, 171 00:07:36,440 --> 00:07:38,160 Speaker 2: unless you could talk me out of it for it, 172 00:07:38,360 --> 00:07:40,320 Speaker 2: you know, And every once in a while, yeah, I'm like, 173 00:07:40,480 --> 00:07:42,120 Speaker 2: you got to learn to negotiate in life. You need 174 00:07:42,160 --> 00:07:42,960 Speaker 2: to negotiate, right. 175 00:07:42,960 --> 00:07:43,960 Speaker 4: That's pretty impressive, you know. 176 00:07:44,000 --> 00:07:46,080 Speaker 2: But also you need to learn to accept no. So 177 00:07:46,120 --> 00:07:47,680 Speaker 2: if you didn't come to me with a good negotiation, 178 00:07:47,920 --> 00:07:49,200 Speaker 2: sorry buddy, you're still grounded. 179 00:07:49,240 --> 00:07:51,240 Speaker 4: But why would it be a bad thing then to 180 00:07:51,280 --> 00:07:52,520 Speaker 4: teach them how to negotiate. 181 00:07:52,840 --> 00:07:55,320 Speaker 3: No, I'm saying this is wrong. This this unpopular opinion. 182 00:07:55,320 --> 00:07:58,560 Speaker 3: It should say good an opinion. Yeah, these numbers are 183 00:07:58,600 --> 00:07:59,440 Speaker 3: just scared of being wrong. 184 00:07:59,600 --> 00:08:03,400 Speaker 2: One most unpopular opinion that people sharing on TikTok, kids 185 00:08:03,400 --> 00:08:05,960 Speaker 2: not yet in high school don't need to have smartphones. 186 00:08:06,560 --> 00:08:07,320 Speaker 3: I disagree. 187 00:08:07,680 --> 00:08:08,360 Speaker 1: Oh you think they do. 188 00:08:08,800 --> 00:08:11,920 Speaker 2: How else are you gonna get them to shut up? Yeah? Exactly, 189 00:08:13,200 --> 00:08:15,680 Speaker 2: I mean the yapping, yapping. How are you going to 190 00:08:15,760 --> 00:08:17,960 Speaker 2: ever be able to sit at a restaurant in peace? 191 00:08:18,560 --> 00:08:21,440 Speaker 2: That part very unpopular.