WEBVTT - (Thurs Early Bird) Sara Evans Gets Vulnerable About Time Her Husband Was Arrested + Amy On First Birthday Not Receiving Message From Ex-Husband + Mailbag: Difficulty Saying I Love You 0:00:03.200 --> 0:00:12.640 Transmitting welcome to Thursday show morning. 0:00:13.480 --> 0:00:15.520 It's Eddy's birthday to da half birthday. Hey, thank you 0:00:15.560 --> 0:00:17.960 man Ed, you have a chance to lose his birthday 0:00:18.000 --> 0:00:20.960 gift by gambling lose it, you could lose your birthday gift. 0:00:21.000 --> 0:00:23.119 Oh boy, yeah, that comes up. But first let's go 0:00:23.200 --> 0:00:25.240 around the room and check in with everybody. He says 0:00:25.320 --> 0:00:28.800 his parenting tips that he has we should apply. But 0:00:28.840 --> 0:00:31.600 he took his son sports cards and made him cry. 0:00:31.760 --> 0:00:35.600 It's pretty suready, everybody, let's go. Not my idea, not 0:00:35.760 --> 0:00:36.320 my idea. 0:00:36.440 --> 0:00:38.519 But my wife wants to try something, and I think 0:00:38.520 --> 0:00:39.199 we're gonna do it. 0:00:40.240 --> 0:00:40.919 No, not like that. 0:00:41.920 --> 0:00:44.400 It's not like that. She wants to get a box 0:00:44.840 --> 0:00:47.320 like almost like a lock box, put it on our 0:00:47.360 --> 0:00:50.880 dinner table, and once or twice a day she wants 0:00:50.920 --> 0:00:52.560 to lock our phones up for like two hours. 0:00:53.120 --> 0:00:55.080 You've talked about stuff like this, right, I think that's great. 0:00:55.120 --> 0:00:55.800 Did you ever do it? 0:00:57.840 --> 0:00:59.480 Never know that I locked it up and talk about it. 0:00:59.680 --> 0:01:00.000 My wife. 0:01:00.120 --> 0:01:02.960 They caught these, they do. They sell them on Amazon. 0:01:03.000 --> 0:01:05.479 It's like a safe, like it looks like a food 0:01:05.520 --> 0:01:07.200 safe because I guess some people will walk up like 0:01:07.280 --> 0:01:08.000 chips and stuff. 0:01:08.040 --> 0:01:11.480 Really, but you can put your cookies candy. Yeah, and 0:01:11.520 --> 0:01:13.280 it would only open if, like you know, the code 0:01:13.720 --> 0:01:17.160 or a timer. It's But the problem is as soon 0:01:17.200 --> 0:01:19.039 as I put it in and it's like only the 0:01:19.040 --> 0:01:20.760 timer lets it go, then I need to take a 0:01:20.760 --> 0:01:24.000 picture or something that is right. But it's for you 0:01:24.040 --> 0:01:25.240 and all the kids. Everyone. 0:01:25.360 --> 0:01:28.560 I like it, per the kids, me, everyone. But I mean, 0:01:28.640 --> 0:01:30.560 I don't have a problem with my phone. So what 0:01:30.600 --> 0:01:32.800 I don't understand is if I don't have a problem, 0:01:32.840 --> 0:01:34.400 why do I have to lock my phone. 0:01:34.280 --> 0:01:36.040 Up just to lead by example? Since you have a problem, 0:01:36.080 --> 0:01:37.680 who cares? But you lead by example? Your kids are 0:01:37.680 --> 0:01:39.920 like dad does it? Because they then they won't go 0:01:39.959 --> 0:01:42.680 with Dad's not doing it. That's true, that's true. I 0:01:42.680 --> 0:01:43.759 hope she does it let us. 0:01:43.640 --> 0:01:45.080 Know, And I guess it should be easy for me 0:01:45.200 --> 0:01:46.759 since I'm not I don't have a problem. 0:01:46.760 --> 0:01:48.760 But you can't do it all right, He's got a 0:01:48.760 --> 0:01:52.640 couple of screws loose and now online he's leaving negative reviews. 0:01:52.680 --> 0:01:56.800 It's leuch phone Amy. Happy blated birthday. By the way. 0:01:56.840 --> 0:01:59.720 I know we celebrated earlier this week, But as I 0:01:59.760 --> 0:02:01.920 was saying around the other day, I had something pop 0:02:01.960 --> 0:02:05.320 in my head and I I mean it's not I'm 0:02:05.320 --> 0:02:08.360 not trying to be unkind kind right, Yeah, but my 0:02:08.560 --> 0:02:12.880 question is on your birthday, does your ex husband text 0:02:12.919 --> 0:02:15.280 you or call you and say happy birthday? That's a 0:02:15.320 --> 0:02:17.600 good question, like you text your friends, you text your 0:02:17.600 --> 0:02:20.600 family members, and I don't know where. 0:02:20.400 --> 0:02:23.799 The line is. Great question, not unkind by the way. 0:02:24.280 --> 0:02:28.160 Yeah, this was the first time in like seventeen years 0:02:28.200 --> 0:02:31.040 I haven't ye gotten a happy birthday from him. 0:02:31.120 --> 0:02:32.320 And did you think about that? 0:02:33.600 --> 0:02:35.880 I mean it crossed my mind because I think on 0:02:35.919 --> 0:02:38.720 his birthday I sent a text. But it's fine, Like 0:02:39.800 --> 0:02:45.600 I understand, like there were in different situations right now, 0:02:46.040 --> 0:02:49.600 So I don't know. I thought it was a little odd. 0:02:49.720 --> 0:02:50.640 There's a lot of pausing here. 0:02:50.680 --> 0:02:53.680 I can feel it because it's just to be honest, 0:02:54.040 --> 0:02:58.200 you know, the divorce happened a while ago, like last summer, 0:02:59.280 --> 0:03:02.680 but you expel operience a lot of firsts throughout, and 0:03:02.800 --> 0:03:05.120 so when you do, it sort of hits you and 0:03:05.160 --> 0:03:07.840 there's a like a moment to grieve that. But it 0:03:07.880 --> 0:03:11.320 doesn't mean that this wasn't the right thing for us 0:03:11.320 --> 0:03:14.720 and we're not both moving forward. It's just sort of like, oh, okay, 0:03:14.760 --> 0:03:18.680 we haven't experienced that part yet pause, let me grieve 0:03:18.720 --> 0:03:21.000 this part and then it'll get easier. 0:03:21.040 --> 0:03:22.360 But I've had several. 0:03:22.000 --> 0:03:24.760 Moments over the last you know whatever nine months where 0:03:24.800 --> 0:03:26.120 I'm like, why does. 0:03:26.000 --> 0:03:28.320 This feel weird? They shouldn't feel weird. We've been to 0:03:28.400 --> 0:03:30.040 force who were planning the divorce. I should know. 0:03:30.480 --> 0:03:32.880 But when you spend a long time with somebody, there's 0:03:32.919 --> 0:03:34.760 just things that you do sort of sting for a 0:03:34.800 --> 0:03:35.920 second and then you move on. 0:03:36.080 --> 0:03:38.200 So it's dung a bit, a little bit. 0:03:38.360 --> 0:03:41.200 But I don't I understand why he didn't want them 0:03:41.200 --> 0:03:45.240 back that. I don't think that means that, Oh. 0:03:44.720 --> 0:03:45.839 I don't at all. I was just kind of making 0:03:45.880 --> 0:03:48.480 a joke. Yeah, well, I mean, I mean I don't 0:03:48.480 --> 0:03:48.720 think it. 0:03:48.720 --> 0:03:51.520 Means that I liked Bucks is curious about this? 0:03:51.640 --> 0:03:54.880 No, No, I literally I don't know why that kind No, 0:03:55.200 --> 0:03:58.080 it is something that I never had thought I would Yeah, why. 0:03:58.000 --> 0:03:58.680 Would he think about it? 0:03:58.760 --> 0:03:59.040 Okay? 0:03:59.080 --> 0:04:01.960 But also here's a is he being kind by or 0:04:02.040 --> 0:04:04.040 is he being kind about by trying to think of 0:04:04.040 --> 0:04:05.640 extra things about people to bring it out to be 0:04:05.640 --> 0:04:06.520 like I was thinking about you. 0:04:06.640 --> 0:04:08.440 Because I think when other people come into the mix 0:04:08.520 --> 0:04:11.240 and there's like dating, like I think that's where it 0:04:11.480 --> 0:04:15.080 just a lot can change. And I will say he 0:04:15.240 --> 0:04:18.360 was My kids were with him for spring break and they, 0:04:18.640 --> 0:04:20.320 you know, if they're not always on it with like 0:04:20.360 --> 0:04:22.480 birthdays and whatnot, but they were like, hey, we got 0:04:22.480 --> 0:04:23.960 you gifts when we were at the beach, which I 0:04:24.000 --> 0:04:26.159 know that was probably him being like, hey kids, let's go, 0:04:26.200 --> 0:04:29.479 oh cool, get your mom something. So I understand. 0:04:29.680 --> 0:04:33.159 And also maybe what you miss is just having a 0:04:33.279 --> 0:04:40.000 consistent someone to rely on more than a romantic missing. 0:04:40.400 --> 0:04:40.799 Yeah. 0:04:40.839 --> 0:04:43.960 And then there's also just it's another reminder that what 0:04:44.000 --> 0:04:47.320 you thought was going to be your life isn't. 0:04:47.760 --> 0:04:49.920 And so I think that's when those moments pop up too. 0:04:50.000 --> 0:04:53.760 You're like, oh wow, this is hitting me because now 0:04:53.839 --> 0:04:57.039 I'm reminded that something I thought was forever is not 0:04:57.400 --> 0:05:00.320 and that that is okay, but let me process for 0:05:00.320 --> 0:05:00.680 a second. 0:05:00.760 --> 0:05:03.640 Welchbok's pretty kind. Do you think about her though on her feelings? Oh? Yeah, 0:05:03.640 --> 0:05:05.360 thank you. Yeah, I didn't know we were going to 0:05:05.400 --> 0:05:08.159 get you think it's the opposite. Yeah, absolutely, I thought 0:05:08.160 --> 0:05:09.719 it was like him being super kind, like thinking about 0:05:09.760 --> 0:05:11.800 how could I I think let Amy know I was 0:05:11.839 --> 0:05:12.400 thinking about her. 0:05:12.440 --> 0:05:14.520 If it's if that was the case, he would say that. 0:05:14.760 --> 0:05:17.799 In this case, he said, I'm curious. Did he say happy? 0:05:18.120 --> 0:05:19.400 Curiosity isn't unkind? 0:05:19.520 --> 0:05:23.960 Was he trying to spark an awkward emotion? Yes, well, 0:05:24.040 --> 0:05:25.680 I'm still going to go with kindness. I literally had 0:05:25.680 --> 0:05:26.080 no idea. 0:05:26.520 --> 0:05:29.119 I'll think lunchbox for the opportunity to share that, because 0:05:29.120 --> 0:05:31.640 I know other people are probably going to experience similar 0:05:31.680 --> 0:05:34.120 things if they're going through a divorce, and I'm just 0:05:34.240 --> 0:05:36.800 able to give a heads up that, like, yeah, throughout 0:05:36.839 --> 0:05:39.000 the year. I feel like, once you get through a 0:05:39.000 --> 0:05:41.080 full calendar year, you kind of experienced a lot of 0:05:41.080 --> 0:05:43.400 different things. But you never know, stuff pops up and 0:05:43.440 --> 0:05:44.400 you just need to be with it. 0:05:44.480 --> 0:05:46.360 So I thank you too for letting her lunchbox share 0:05:46.400 --> 0:05:48.560 that emotion. That's pretty kind of you. Thank you one 0:05:48.600 --> 0:05:52.040 step closer to driving that Lamborghini. Sure her daughter goes 0:05:52.040 --> 0:05:53.600 by a different name in school. We all got to 0:05:53.600 --> 0:05:56.799 admit the new name is pretty cool. It's Amy everybody. 0:05:57.680 --> 0:06:01.360 Okay, So sitting next to an underperformer will decrease your 0:06:01.400 --> 0:06:03.039 productivity by thirty percent? 0:06:03.160 --> 0:06:05.479 So are you thinking a lunchbox in the same way 0:06:05.520 --> 0:06:07.120 for this segment he was thinking of you. I got 0:06:07.120 --> 0:06:12.360 no comment, no what do you sit, Eddie? Well, no, 0:06:12.600 --> 0:06:15.159 you are also by each other, like Amy than Lesbos and. 0:06:15.200 --> 0:06:17.480 Eddie whatever, I'm between you and Mike d I am productive? 0:06:18.160 --> 0:06:21.279 Oh yeah, I mean I'm productive because my neighbor is 0:06:21.320 --> 0:06:22.680 I'm not productive, but. 0:06:24.240 --> 0:06:24.520 I don't. 0:06:24.600 --> 0:06:27.120 I mean Morgan's productive in his own way. 0:06:27.160 --> 0:06:28.480 No, what does he do? He does? Nothing? 0:06:29.279 --> 0:06:32.080 Like nothing, he does crossword puzzles. Is that productive? 0:06:32.320 --> 0:06:34.200 Do you feel like he has the absolute easiest job 0:06:34.240 --> 0:06:37.240 on the show, the easiest job in the world because 0:06:37.520 --> 0:06:39.479 he does he gets paid to do what though, to 0:06:39.640 --> 0:06:42.480 just say whatever he wants to say? That's it? 0:06:42.800 --> 0:06:44.760 Well, technically he can't say whatever he wants to do it. 0:06:44.839 --> 0:06:47.719 Do you think there's this skill he can say whatever 0:06:47.760 --> 0:06:49.400 you want? Is there a skill? Has he had to 0:06:49.440 --> 0:06:52.159 develop a talent to do this? No, it's just him. No, 0:06:52.440 --> 0:06:55.280 he even says it, I'm just being me. How hard 0:06:55.400 --> 0:06:57.919 is that, Eddie? 0:06:58.000 --> 0:07:00.440 Yeah, it's sort of like improv. 0:07:00.520 --> 0:07:02.960 He's shown he can like off the Cuffee's so good. 0:07:02.839 --> 0:07:05.000 You talked about each other. We started rating his timing 0:07:05.040 --> 0:07:07.679 was a little off there. Yeah, yeah, his timing is terrible. 0:07:07.720 --> 0:07:12.480 Ahead what I don't know, it's all about time and Edie. 0:07:13.480 --> 0:07:14.080 Yeah, get it. 0:07:14.720 --> 0:07:16.880 I get it, Lunchbox. He wants anything. 0:07:16.920 --> 0:07:20.280 Man, you're not good at your job at all, you 0:07:20.280 --> 0:07:21.280 want say anything like that. 0:07:21.280 --> 0:07:25.360 That's great if you think that Lunchbox is continuing to 0:07:25.520 --> 0:07:27.640 be kind and also not be unkind Right there, right, 0:07:27.840 --> 0:07:28.560 challenge for two weeks. 0:07:28.600 --> 0:07:30.520 The more positive side of this is try to sit 0:07:30.600 --> 0:07:34.160 next to productive people because that will increase your productivity 0:07:34.160 --> 0:07:35.240 by fifteen percent. 0:07:35.280 --> 0:07:36.920 But you're sitting next to someone who's not. 0:07:37.240 --> 0:07:40.880 Yeah, imagine what if he did fifteen percent more Eddie? 0:07:40.960 --> 0:07:42.720 Like yeah, you feel like he's toxic to you. 0:07:42.800 --> 0:07:45.760 What's crazy is I should be like he should rub 0:07:45.760 --> 0:07:47.840 off on me because Eddie is so busy all the time. 0:07:47.880 --> 0:07:49.440 I mean he only does his work. Now, you could 0:07:49.440 --> 0:07:51.560 sit next to Bobby and one will rob off. Oh 0:07:51.560 --> 0:07:55.000 he's like that's it's nothing like a force field. Not positible. 0:07:55.000 --> 0:07:55.960 I mean you know what I'm saying. 0:07:56.120 --> 0:07:58.360 No, no, no, I'm just saying Eddie does work all the time. 0:07:58.400 --> 0:08:01.880 All he does his work. Rang A Buddy from Mount Pine, Arkansas. 0:08:02.040 --> 0:08:05.280 His comedic timing is the best. He always is better 0:08:05.320 --> 0:08:08.960 than the rest. Bobby Buma. You so a couple things. 0:08:09.000 --> 0:08:10.400 You'll see where it's going. I think you'll find this 0:08:10.480 --> 0:08:13.040 interesting gaming. So we go down to Tampa a couple 0:08:13.080 --> 0:08:15.680 of days ago and we shoot too much access with 0:08:15.760 --> 0:08:18.000 a guy named Logan Ryan. I mentioned it yesterday. He 0:08:18.040 --> 0:08:19.560 won two super Bowls with the Patriots, went to Super 0:08:19.560 --> 0:08:21.720 Bowl the forty nine ers last year, right and so, 0:08:21.840 --> 0:08:23.720 and he has the super Bowl rings that we're wearing them, 0:08:23.880 --> 0:08:27.560 big awesome Patriots super Bowl rings. And I'm looking. I'm like, 0:08:27.600 --> 0:08:30.560 oh man, And there's a documentary about the Patriots where 0:08:30.560 --> 0:08:32.440 this ring that I was wearing, but it's not his, 0:08:32.520 --> 0:08:35.079 it's the owners. The owner goes to Russia and Putin 0:08:35.120 --> 0:08:35.719 stole his ring. 0:08:36.559 --> 0:08:37.400 What do you mean stole it? 0:08:37.400 --> 0:08:39.280 So Putin's like, oh, let me see it, and he 0:08:39.320 --> 0:08:41.120 puts it and then at the end, Putin puts in 0:08:41.160 --> 0:08:43.000 his pocket and walks walking. He never got the owner 0:08:43.000 --> 0:08:45.680 of the Patriots never got his ring back. Putin in 0:08:45.760 --> 0:08:49.320 front of everybody to show like how strong he was. 0:08:49.480 --> 0:08:51.040 He just stole it, put his ring in his pocket, 0:08:51.040 --> 0:08:53.400 and walked off. And it's in the documentary. And it 0:08:53.440 --> 0:08:55.079 got to be so weird and such a big story 0:08:55.120 --> 0:08:58.560 that apparently the White House called the Patriots. Owner was like, 0:08:58.800 --> 0:09:00.560 you just need to say that was a gift and 0:09:00.600 --> 0:09:03.439 he's like, it wasn't for the piece of our relationship. 0:09:03.679 --> 0:09:04.400 He just stole it. 0:09:05.080 --> 0:09:06.080 Oh my gosh, that's wild. 0:09:06.200 --> 0:09:08.640 It's wild because he was just like, look what I 0:09:08.640 --> 0:09:10.400 can do? Oh this looks good, put in his coat 0:09:10.400 --> 0:09:13.760 pocket and walked off. That's crazy. Man. In Russia, what 0:09:13.880 --> 0:09:14.520 would you have done? 0:09:14.520 --> 0:09:15.960 Would you have said, hey, putin. 0:09:15.920 --> 0:09:20.640 I've knock gone to Russia? Yo? First of all, Secondly, 0:09:20.720 --> 0:09:22.280 no one else would be touching my ring. I don't know. 0:09:22.280 --> 0:09:24.480 I've seen like World Series guys like at a bar 0:09:24.640 --> 0:09:26.439 just like passing that ring or not in Russia. 0:09:26.520 --> 0:09:28.800 No, you're right, not in rusted, right in any other country, 0:09:28.840 --> 0:09:30.880 I no one's touching my ring. So but I thought 0:09:30.920 --> 0:09:32.599 that was an interesting thing. We had the ring that 0:09:32.640 --> 0:09:36.240 Putin stole his. Yeah, that same super Bowl wild. All right, 0:09:36.240 --> 0:09:37.679 that's it, thank you guys. Let's get started. 0:09:39.080 --> 0:09:40.800 Let's open up the mailbag. 0:09:40.800 --> 0:09:43.600 Fan game mail and we read it all the air. 0:09:43.920 --> 0:09:46.560 Pick something we call Bobby's mail bag. 0:09:46.920 --> 0:09:49.800 Yeah, hello, Bobby Bones. I'm a guy in my late twenties. 0:09:49.960 --> 0:09:52.959 I'm in an awesome relationship with an amazing woman. We've 0:09:53.000 --> 0:09:55.840 been together for a while now. Things are going well. However, 0:09:55.880 --> 0:09:58.840 there's something that's been weighing heavily on my mind. Despite 0:09:58.880 --> 0:10:00.679 my deep feelings for her, I've never been able to 0:10:00.720 --> 0:10:02.880 say those three little words. You know what they are? 0:10:03.000 --> 0:10:05.120 I love you. It's not that I don't feel it. 0:10:05.160 --> 0:10:07.480 I do very much so, but for some reason, I 0:10:07.559 --> 0:10:09.600 just can't seem to bring myself to say it out loud. 0:10:10.080 --> 0:10:12.400 Feels like a big step. I try to show my 0:10:12.440 --> 0:10:15.280 love through my actions, but saying those three words is 0:10:15.280 --> 0:10:18.480 like lifting a cement truck off my body. The truth is, 0:10:18.480 --> 0:10:20.000 I've never said I love you to anyone before. It's 0:10:20.040 --> 0:10:21.800 not something that was common in my family growing up. 0:10:21.960 --> 0:10:24.200 I've always found it difficult to express my emotions in 0:10:24.240 --> 0:10:26.600 that way. I'm hoping you might have some advice or 0:10:26.600 --> 0:10:29.160 guidance for me. How can I find the courage to 0:10:29.200 --> 0:10:31.120 express my love for her? Is there a way to 0:10:31.120 --> 0:10:34.000 show her how much she means without necessarily saying those 0:10:34.000 --> 0:10:39.520 three words? Signed deeply in more than like, get it 0:10:39.559 --> 0:10:39.880 more than like? 0:10:40.080 --> 0:10:40.360 Yeah? 0:10:40.360 --> 0:10:41.640 I can't say it. Well, it feels like this is 0:10:41.679 --> 0:10:44.960 me from a time machine. Yeah, this is my exact story. 0:10:45.480 --> 0:10:47.440 This is a pretty easy one for me too. In 0:10:47.520 --> 0:10:50.040 that again, same thing. Never said it growing up, never 0:10:50.080 --> 0:10:55.520 said it to anybody until my wife, but I would 0:10:55.600 --> 0:10:59.880 say people not just like people need to hear those words, 0:11:00.120 --> 0:11:02.600 very important words, and you kind of got to get 0:11:02.600 --> 0:11:05.960 over yourself. And it's a tough love because I had 0:11:06.000 --> 0:11:07.199 to do it myself. You kind of got to get 0:11:07.200 --> 0:11:08.960 over yourself because this is all a you think. And 0:11:09.040 --> 0:11:11.680 if you do feel it, yes, it's extremely uncomfortable because 0:11:11.679 --> 0:11:14.200 you've never done it before, but you want to do it. 0:11:14.240 --> 0:11:17.360 You feel it. There's nothing about it that is wrong. Yeah, 0:11:17.440 --> 0:11:20.360 it should feel uncomfortable, but you gotta get over yourself. 0:11:20.920 --> 0:11:23.360 You gotta let the concrete, whatever the analogy you made, 0:11:23.480 --> 0:11:25.800 throw the concrete off your body, because once you do 0:11:25.880 --> 0:11:29.160 it is like ripping that band aid off or whatever 0:11:29.200 --> 0:11:32.400 they then it's just so much easier. I used to 0:11:32.440 --> 0:11:37.000 practice on my dog before I said it to her. 0:11:37.040 --> 0:11:38.360 I would just talk to the dog. But then I 0:11:38.400 --> 0:11:40.840 did love my dog, That's what I'm saying. I loved 0:11:41.040 --> 0:11:46.320 Stanley my dog. I loved Dusty my dog, and I 0:11:46.400 --> 0:11:48.960 knew I'd never said it to anybody, but I did 0:11:49.120 --> 0:11:50.640 love those dogs, so I would say it so it 0:11:50.679 --> 0:11:53.520 didn't feel completely foreign that if one day it ever happened, 0:11:53.640 --> 0:11:55.320 it wouldn't be that I just wasn't saying it. I was. 0:11:55.480 --> 0:11:58.440 I loved those dogs, and so I would be like, 0:11:58.640 --> 0:11:59.800 but yeah, I was weird to say it the first 0:11:59.800 --> 0:12:02.240 time because you're it's so vulnerable. There's a vulnerability issue here. 0:12:02.280 --> 0:12:05.720 I get it. You know. I don't have a dad. 0:12:05.800 --> 0:12:08.560 So it wasn't the masculinity thing that I was like, oh, 0:12:08.600 --> 0:12:10.960 I gotta be a man. No, it was a vulnerability thing. 0:12:11.480 --> 0:12:13.520 And this is extremely vulnerable. You've never said it, but 0:12:13.679 --> 0:12:16.280 you have to get over yourself, and if you mean it, 0:12:16.320 --> 0:12:18.120 you better say it because if you don't, you're gonna 0:12:18.160 --> 0:12:20.800 lose it. How often do you say it? 0:12:20.840 --> 0:12:21.000 Now? 0:12:21.080 --> 0:12:26.320 All the time, all the time. And I still probably 0:12:27.000 --> 0:12:29.360 don't say it enough in my mind as much as 0:12:29.360 --> 0:12:30.480 I feel it, But I say it all the time, 0:12:30.559 --> 0:12:32.720 four or five, six, seven, ten times a day. Who knows. 0:12:32.720 --> 0:12:35.960 Oh wow, iteah, because you saved all those I. 0:12:36.000 --> 0:12:40.800 Can't y'all end every phone call with I love you mostly. 0:12:40.520 --> 0:12:41.319 Unless he's mad at me. 0:12:41.480 --> 0:12:42.560 Yeah, yeah, yeah, I. 0:12:42.440 --> 0:12:45.800 Feelt that okay, and then I'm like, I love you. 0:12:46.559 --> 0:12:49.160 I do some real stupid stuff sometimes, though, guys. Yeah, 0:12:49.200 --> 0:12:52.040 So you get over yourself and just say it. The 0:12:52.040 --> 0:12:53.720 more you build it up to like the perfect moment. 0:12:53.720 --> 0:12:56.800 You need to say it too more. It's not gonna 0:12:56.800 --> 0:12:59.160 go very good and you're gonna keep waiting. Just go 0:12:59.280 --> 0:13:01.600 home today for dinner, lunch, whatever, and be like, hey, 0:13:01.960 --> 0:13:03.559 well that this great. Hey I made this dinner for you, 0:13:03.679 --> 0:13:05.040 or you made the dinner for me, or I love 0:13:05.120 --> 0:13:09.920 going out. Man, this is I love you. That's it. 0:13:09.960 --> 0:13:13.079 Spit it out the end and suck it up, or 0:13:13.080 --> 0:13:14.920 you're gonna end up losing her. And no, you can't 0:13:14.960 --> 0:13:17.440 just do it with actions. You can also do it with actions, 0:13:18.160 --> 0:13:19.840 and you should also do it with actions. She can't 0:13:19.840 --> 0:13:23.600 do what about written I Again, you're looking for ways 0:13:23.600 --> 0:13:25.240 to get around it, and that's gonna feel like to 0:13:25.280 --> 0:13:26.720 her that you're looking for ways to get around it. 0:13:26.720 --> 0:13:32.040 So maybe you don't suck it up, Buttercup, thank you. 0:13:32.600 --> 0:13:34.880 That's tough. Luf. Yeah, I'm the opposite of that. 0:13:35.000 --> 0:13:37.120 Like I say, I love you way too much to everything, 0:13:37.440 --> 0:13:38.439 Pizzai before I eat it. 0:13:38.600 --> 0:13:42.240 I love you so good. I love you Pizza. We 0:13:42.400 --> 0:13:45.959 got your game mail and read on your air Now 0:13:46.240 --> 0:13:50.560 find the clothes Bobby failed. Yeah, so Bobby Bones show 0:13:50.640 --> 0:13:54.600 interview in case you didn't know, which I'm assuming maybe 0:13:54.600 --> 0:13:58.160 you do know because I do know Sarah Evans. So 0:13:58.760 --> 0:14:01.000 what's talking with Sarah? Which, by the way, she just 0:14:01.080 --> 0:14:03.080 got an invitation to become a member of the Grendal Opry. 0:14:03.320 --> 0:14:05.880 Is pretty cool. But before the interview started, because we 0:14:05.920 --> 0:14:11.400 recorded this in my house, it was our fault. I 0:14:11.400 --> 0:14:14.720 don't want to say that for legal reasons. Back up, 0:14:15.559 --> 0:14:19.960 but well it's not. She sat in this chair that 0:14:20.040 --> 0:14:22.840 we have that we sit in and it dumped over. 0:14:23.040 --> 0:14:24.880 The chair is perfectly fine, but if you sit on 0:14:24.880 --> 0:14:27.360 the perfectly fine, but it's old. 0:14:27.400 --> 0:14:29.760 It's an anti chair, but it's an oiler chair. She fell, 0:14:30.040 --> 0:14:33.920 She fell backward and spilled her coffee everywhere, and it 0:14:34.040 --> 0:14:36.280 was just like, oh my gosh, here's that I know. 0:14:37.040 --> 0:14:38.520 Have I met you? Yeah? 0:14:38.600 --> 0:14:42.560 Yeah, No, no, are you okay? 0:14:42.800 --> 0:14:48.320 Oh my god? Oh no, first, are you injured? 0:14:51.160 --> 0:14:52.080 Don't move her for next? 0:14:52.120 --> 0:14:56.000 Broken? Oh no, no, that is, let's let insurance know. 0:14:56.280 --> 0:14:59.680 Don't got your next. She grab her neck. Everybody. Luckily, 0:15:00.720 --> 0:15:07.440 luckily our personalities, that dynamic worked because I didn't go, 0:15:08.040 --> 0:15:10.360 oh my god, are you okay, let's stop the interview. 0:15:10.520 --> 0:15:13.920 I should have. I honestly should have, but I didn't, 0:15:14.200 --> 0:15:16.480 and I made some jokes and then she made some jokes, 0:15:16.480 --> 0:15:18.040 and she kept saying she was gonna assume me like 0:15:18.120 --> 0:15:21.360 it would just so happen. We're both kind of messed up. 0:15:21.960 --> 0:15:24.400 And we did the interview and it's been great. I mean, 0:15:24.480 --> 0:15:26.000 as soon as she comes back up in the chair, 0:15:27.080 --> 0:15:29.680 we had to talk about that fall. Is it? Is 0:15:29.720 --> 0:15:35.080 it that fair? Why not let me have it? 0:15:35.720 --> 0:15:38.840 Amen? And she don't. 0:15:38.920 --> 0:15:40.560 The thing is that she had dumped over. She duped over, 0:15:40.600 --> 0:15:42.040 but she saved her coffee somehow. 0:15:42.160 --> 0:15:44.640 Yeah, And so I handled it all. I mean, you 0:15:44.680 --> 0:15:47.360 should have seen what my muscles were doing. It was 0:15:47.440 --> 0:15:49.840 just they were all working holding the coffee. 0:15:50.000 --> 0:15:52.040 It was she wiped out and the coffee above her 0:15:52.040 --> 0:15:54.480 head still pointed in the direction of up, and it 0:15:54.520 --> 0:15:56.680 was like a whole new respect for Sarah. Like once 0:15:56.680 --> 0:15:57.760 she walked down, I was like, Sarah, good to see. 0:15:57.760 --> 0:15:59.680 I'm already know everything about you because usually I like 0:15:59.720 --> 0:16:01.800 prepared and I did, but as I was looking at 0:16:01.960 --> 0:16:04.080 the prepared notes, I was like, already know all this stuff. 0:16:04.320 --> 0:16:08.320 And then she said, oh, it's good. She fell backward, 0:16:09.280 --> 0:16:10.640 and then I was like, oh God. But then I 0:16:10.640 --> 0:16:12.360 saw her holding the coffee above her head, and I 0:16:12.400 --> 0:16:14.920 was like, I'm so torn on what to feel right now. 0:16:15.400 --> 0:16:20.960 I'm dying of embarrassment, honestly, because my legs were straight 0:16:21.080 --> 0:16:21.680 up in the air. 0:16:21.880 --> 0:16:24.280 You have pants on, thank god, So that does. 0:16:24.200 --> 0:16:27.360 I almost didn't wear pants, like nothing, Wow, I almost 0:16:27.440 --> 0:16:28.480 just wore this shirt the. 0:16:30.240 --> 0:16:32.240 Pooh. You know when someone jumps in the lake and 0:16:32.240 --> 0:16:33.640 they hold their beer over their head. Oh, yeah, that's 0:16:33.640 --> 0:16:35.600 what it reminded me of, like some because of the 0:16:35.680 --> 0:16:38.440 false went out. But again she was holding it up 0:16:38.480 --> 0:16:40.880 until like half the coffee was saved priorities the coffee 0:16:40.920 --> 0:16:41.400 was sick. 0:16:41.400 --> 0:16:42.920 And that I said, what came out of around She 0:16:42.960 --> 0:16:44.600 was like, oh my gosh, I worked so hard on 0:16:44.640 --> 0:16:45.160 this coffee. 0:16:45.200 --> 0:16:46.560 And I was like, I feel that. I feel that. 0:16:47.440 --> 0:16:49.800 Once we got the interview on track, you know, she 0:16:49.880 --> 0:16:51.200 was on Dancing with the Stars. She had to leave 0:16:51.200 --> 0:16:53.240 her like some controversy there, but we talked about our 0:16:53.240 --> 0:16:55.040 time on Dancing with the Stars. I was on I 0:16:55.040 --> 0:16:57.640 think six weeks. That was a long time. I was 0:16:57.640 --> 0:16:58.960 gonna win, you think, So. 0:17:00.360 --> 0:17:05.680 We have inside information that says I was winning and 0:17:05.840 --> 0:17:06.600 it was gonna win. 0:17:06.840 --> 0:17:08.760 Would it be for you? I could give you this gift. 0:17:08.800 --> 0:17:10.880 You can hold my mirror ball and act like you won. 0:17:11.280 --> 0:17:12.040 Wouldn't that be fine? 0:17:12.480 --> 0:17:13.679 I don't even want to see it. 0:17:13.840 --> 0:17:16.919 We opened that curtain right there, Mike, No, noo, my 0:17:17.000 --> 0:17:18.720 chair again, No no, just look just just like she 0:17:18.760 --> 0:17:20.560