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Speaker 2: Tuned in to another episode of Poor Minds where your

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Speaker 2: mind speaks sober thoughtful. You given Greek goddess today, honeyboll

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Speaker 2: it is. It's given like Afrodite, the goddess of love,

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Speaker 2: the goddess of love. Yeah, okay, you.

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Speaker 3: Know I really am real cute too. It's but it's like,

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Speaker 3: I don't know, it's given in summer. Yeah, but I'm

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Speaker 3: trying to think of something cute, so are you, because

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Speaker 3: you called me Ephrodite, But I can't think of anything.

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Speaker 1: I'm trying to think of the goddess of spring, That's all.

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Speaker 1: I was just about to say. I really look the

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Speaker 1: goddess of spring. Yeah it is. They have a goddess

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Speaker 2: They have a goddess of wine, a god of wine.

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Speaker 2: You to look it up, yeah, because honestly, I really

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Speaker 2: It's actually really really really interesting though. I think it's entertaining,

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Speaker 2: but you have to realize there's gods in all types

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I knew it was well, I didn't know, but

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Speaker 2: it's the Russian ones. It's not Russian, Nordic, the Nordic gods.

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Speaker 2: That's where what's his name comes from?

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Speaker 2: Marvel what's the one that Chris Hemsworth plays thor so

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Speaker 2: Like every little region has their gods and their stories.

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Speaker 2: I don't know why Greece is so popular, but baby,

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Speaker 2: it's the tea because you know why Zeus was horny

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Speaker 1: And like it came from like Medusa. And I talked

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Speaker 2: That's hot. See when people make that face, that's how

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Speaker 2: you know they don't know the true story of Medusa.

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Speaker 2: Because Medusa was right. Medusa was a victim, and she

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Speaker 1: So basically Medusa was the essessial. Yes, it's so good.

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Speaker 2: It really does. It's really spicy, like it's really a

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Speaker 2: I am a Christian woman.

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Speaker 1: Yes, I do believe in God. My faith. I say,

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Speaker 1: So when I say Jesus was messy, Jesus was the Lord.

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Speaker 2: You know, because he knew that they thought Mary Magnaline

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Speaker 2: Look, I ain't gonna lie. The Bible, got some tea.

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Speaker 2: I just finished the Book of Genusy. I just started,

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Speaker 1: Not in the beginning, God created.

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Speaker 1: Like Father Abraham. He was the son yoho can get too.

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Speaker 2: But I remember Father Abraham bitch and it was given.

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Speaker 2: But that's what's funny about this.

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Speaker 1: All these stories.

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Speaker 1: Too much technology. Bitch.

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Speaker 2: They had rock, stone, sticks and dirt, so it's but bitch,

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Speaker 2: You niggas can't even pay bitch's phone bills. So no,

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Speaker 2: be for real, Okay, y'all ain't fucking Noah. They not

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Speaker 2: getting no past, Drea. Now you see how you take

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Speaker 1: I'm not taking it too far.

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Speaker 2: So am I and so were you.

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Speaker 1: Well, girl, I told you. I'm only in Genus side.

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Speaker 2: That's fun.

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Speaker 1: But that's okay. I ain't got that far, and that's

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Speaker 2: So that's okay. Don't discredit yourself, babe. You further to me,

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Speaker 3: I'm at the part where joseups, well, I'm I'm a

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Speaker 1: Or Joseph became the king of Egypt. Okay, now we're

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Speaker 2: I want to know what kind of san because if

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Speaker 1: I think every African is black. Okay, Okay, that's a

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Speaker 2: With us, it's in me.

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Speaker 1: It ain't on me. Yeah, I feel you. I like

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Speaker 2: Do you think Eve was the wrong one?

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Speaker 1: Yes, you think he was wrong. God told her not

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Speaker 1: I n what he do?

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Speaker 2: You know what he did?

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Speaker 1: I'm asking you from your person.

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Speaker 2: He left her alone to find for herself, and she

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Speaker 1: Keep me company, Nigga, I'm born.

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Speaker 2: I'm talking to this goddamn snake, and he done convince

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Speaker 2: the next. Hello, read the mother's words.

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Speaker 1: Come on now, come on now.

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Speaker 2: See y'all reading the Bible at surface level, they've been

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Speaker 2: So time, what are we drinking today? Today? We are

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Speaker 2: drinking because what I don't know what just happened. Just now,

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Speaker 1: It's okay, I eat it up.

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Speaker 2: So this would intribute to our guests that we're gonna

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Speaker 2: I'm telling y'all, y'all want to get the viobs going

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Speaker 2: after dinner. Drink You're gonna impress your date, bring them home, tell.

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Speaker 4: Y'all.

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Speaker 1: Put a little alis in my coffee.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, absolutely, Hey, coffee, this is my coffee back. Hell yeah,

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Speaker 2: get y'all some LX cream liquor.

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Speaker 1: Y'all need to have this in y'all house.

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Speaker 2: Y'all need to go to where ever your favorite bar

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Speaker 1: Hey, this is what you need.

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Speaker 2: We want LS, we want LS. So, y'all know, we

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Speaker 2: It was so much fun. So I'm so excited to

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Speaker 2: So y'all give it up, pock out big boss day.

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Speaker 1: Y'all know do you like? I know said I know

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Speaker 2: You like it? I love it? Okay, you see I

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Speaker 1: Thank you girl?

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Speaker 2: Okay, So then please let us know everything, like what

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Speaker 1: My You had just moved here. You had just moved here.

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Speaker 3: I just moved here, and like I did not know nobody.

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Speaker 1: I didn't know what. I was so scared and.

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Speaker 3: Then I'm I'm like I'm just going there and just

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I saying, and I was like, yeah, bitching,

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Speaker 2: like yes, bitch, kill that ship. Yes, because you know

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but splint we had a time.

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Speaker 3: The video went viral. Yes, yes, yes, her doing the

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Speaker 1: On the bus.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we're right work, we're playing attention elbow. You'll be

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Speaker 1: I always got to, So talk about your career.

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Speaker 2: How's it been being in Atlanta and where you are

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Speaker 1: Your first hit? Okay, my career.

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Speaker 3: So my career has like really spiral, you know, like

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so it's like celebrity party is still.

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Speaker 2: Thinking like damn celebrity bitch, Like this is crazy that

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Speaker 2: I love a part of that. Feed me okay, y'all

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Speaker 2: even feed me.

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Speaker 1: To Okay, where time my comor. Y'all got some chicken

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Speaker 1: that we got a drink and a drink.

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Speaker 2: Taste a drink, now take the drink because we got

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Speaker 1: We didn't have a bartender the last time. It's just.

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Speaker 2: It's the upgrades. Love the upgrades.

442
00:21:06,640 --> 00:21:09,880
Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, let me let me, let me see it down.

443
00:21:10,240 --> 00:21:13,800
Speaker 1: Be sitting talking about Adam. That's good.

444
00:21:14,920 --> 00:21:16,480
Speaker 2: I have an EP dropping.

445
00:21:17,080 --> 00:21:20,120
Speaker 3: We got an EP party tomorrow, so y'all better pull

446
00:21:21,200 --> 00:21:25,520
Speaker 3: you know. And yeah, like it's just been like now

447
00:21:25,680 --> 00:21:29,400
Speaker 3: I have really broke into like my my, my elevation

448
00:21:29,520 --> 00:21:33,639
Speaker 3: slash like crossover, you know, and the music that I

449
00:21:33,720 --> 00:21:35,760
Speaker 3: was making when I when I first came on the show,

450
00:21:35,760 --> 00:21:37,560
Speaker 3: you know, like I didn't I didn't realize that it

451
00:21:37,600 --> 00:21:39,439
Speaker 3: was a capitule, you know, like like it's like you

452
00:21:39,480 --> 00:21:41,439
Speaker 3: can only get so far and making their music and

453
00:21:41,480 --> 00:21:44,120
Speaker 3: then it's like they're gonna want more. It's like, all right,

454
00:21:44,160 --> 00:21:46,800
Speaker 3: what's next, what's next? And it's always a what's next?

455
00:21:46,800 --> 00:21:48,960
Speaker 3: So I'm like, damn, what the fuck can I do

456
00:21:49,080 --> 00:21:52,080
Speaker 3: to like elevate who I am? As a artist as

457
00:21:52,080 --> 00:21:54,000
Speaker 3: a grown woman, you know, and I started to cross

458
00:21:54,000 --> 00:21:57,600
Speaker 3: over pretty girls. Walker was my first grossover record.

459
00:21:57,680 --> 00:21:59,880
Speaker 1: I mean still it's still go hard.

460
00:22:00,400 --> 00:22:02,600
Speaker 3: I was so terrified because like when I first like

461
00:22:02,680 --> 00:22:04,600
Speaker 3: dropped that song, like I was controlled for like three months.

462
00:22:04,640 --> 00:22:06,159
Speaker 3: They was like, why would you drop this song? It's

463
00:22:06,200 --> 00:22:09,800
Speaker 3: so it's so it's so tiktokish, and I'm like, yo,

464
00:22:09,880 --> 00:22:12,800
Speaker 3: this is a great record. And now that song has

465
00:22:13,000 --> 00:22:15,760
Speaker 3: surpassed every song in my I mean it's commercial you

466
00:22:15,800 --> 00:22:18,320
Speaker 3: feel when you first Hardy, like despite what people were

467
00:22:18,359 --> 00:22:19,800
Speaker 3: saying about I love it.

468
00:22:20,400 --> 00:22:21,600
Speaker 2: I love it end Uh.

469
00:22:21,640 --> 00:22:23,879
Speaker 3: We actually sat on there for like a year because

470
00:22:23,920 --> 00:22:26,639
Speaker 3: like I made that when I first got sign and

471
00:22:27,480 --> 00:22:29,520
Speaker 3: we straight sat on it for like a whole year.

472
00:22:29,680 --> 00:22:32,800
Speaker 3: And I was terrified when it was time to drop

473
00:22:32,800 --> 00:22:35,359
Speaker 3: it because I was like like mostly dropping hood shit you.

474
00:22:35,359 --> 00:22:36,720
Speaker 2: Know, like ra raunch and shit.

475
00:22:37,200 --> 00:22:39,800
Speaker 3: And I'm like I need to figure out like how

476
00:22:39,840 --> 00:22:42,760
Speaker 3: to promote this, How to you know, like just do

477
00:22:42,840 --> 00:22:45,359
Speaker 3: everything differently because I was so used to working and everything.

478
00:22:45,400 --> 00:22:47,880
Speaker 3: When I'm promote music, I'm like, I want to be different.

479
00:22:47,920 --> 00:22:49,120
Speaker 3: I don't always have to check my ass.

480
00:22:49,119 --> 00:22:50,560
Speaker 1: I gotta do, you know.

481
00:22:51,119 --> 00:22:54,600
Speaker 3: And it's like doing like walking videos and like learn

482
00:22:54,640 --> 00:22:56,120
Speaker 3: how to walk because I walk with your little feet

483
00:22:56,119 --> 00:22:57,600
Speaker 3: like same like she.

484
00:22:57,520 --> 00:22:59,919
Speaker 1: Can walk, she can walk? Hell, she got that.

485
00:23:03,200 --> 00:23:05,480
Speaker 3: And then like I was in training hills at the time,

486
00:23:05,560 --> 00:23:07,680
Speaker 3: so I'm tripping and falling over over my damn feet,

487
00:23:07,680 --> 00:23:09,239
Speaker 3: and I'm like, how do I figure this out? You know,

488
00:23:09,920 --> 00:23:12,760
Speaker 3: so like learning how to just do that and keeping

489
00:23:12,760 --> 00:23:17,280
Speaker 3: my head up because it's like like certain things was

490
00:23:17,320 --> 00:23:19,080
Speaker 3: just like I'm not fucking with this new baby, Like

491
00:23:19,119 --> 00:23:21,399
Speaker 3: I don't know what the this is, this same what

492
00:23:21,520 --> 00:23:22,280
Speaker 3: we are used to it.

493
00:23:22,320 --> 00:23:25,520
Speaker 2: Then other cousins, they was like I can't, cousin.

494
00:23:25,520 --> 00:23:27,040
Speaker 1: I'm like this to you. Good, I got it, you know,

495
00:23:27,040 --> 00:23:27,359
Speaker 1: all right?

496
00:23:27,400 --> 00:23:31,679
Speaker 3: Cool, So it's it's really all about just like staying

497
00:23:31,680 --> 00:23:35,840
Speaker 3: true to yourself, you know. Like also like shit, like

498
00:23:36,160 --> 00:23:37,840
Speaker 3: I know that I make great records. I know I

499
00:23:37,920 --> 00:23:41,000
Speaker 3: make good music, I know you know. Like at this

500
00:23:41,040 --> 00:23:44,360
Speaker 3: point it's like I really only only want to make

501
00:23:46,000 --> 00:23:50,760
Speaker 3: commercial music and with rache shit, and I feel like it,

502
00:23:50,800 --> 00:23:53,199
Speaker 3: you know, because again, like there's a coulter to it,

503
00:23:53,280 --> 00:23:55,399
Speaker 3: like they always looking for more, They're always looking for

504
00:23:55,400 --> 00:23:57,600
Speaker 3: what's next, you know, Like and at this point it's

505
00:23:57,600 --> 00:23:58,840
Speaker 3: like you just got to create your own line.

506
00:23:59,480 --> 00:24:01,800
Speaker 2: So I feel that, So because I do want to

507
00:24:01,840 --> 00:24:04,040
Speaker 2: ask you how you feel about because I do feel

508
00:24:04,040 --> 00:24:06,320
Speaker 2: like a lot of times the conversation is like what

509
00:24:06,359 --> 00:24:08,600
Speaker 2: else can women do? They always rapping about their pussy,

510
00:24:08,600 --> 00:24:09,720
Speaker 2: They always rapping about.

511
00:24:09,480 --> 00:24:10,520
Speaker 1: Their booty, all this and that.

512
00:24:10,600 --> 00:24:13,119
Speaker 2: But I also feel like the conversation is kind of

513
00:24:13,160 --> 00:24:18,280
Speaker 2: fucked up because men have been rapping about women in

514
00:24:18,320 --> 00:24:21,360
Speaker 2: a derogatory way for years, since.

515
00:24:21,119 --> 00:24:22,160
Speaker 1: The beginning of time.

516
00:24:22,680 --> 00:24:24,760
Speaker 2: But now all of a sudden, when women are like

517
00:24:24,920 --> 00:24:27,560
Speaker 2: being on top of their shit and they're owning their sexuality,

518
00:24:27,600 --> 00:24:28,440
Speaker 2: it's a problem.

519
00:24:29,119 --> 00:24:30,920
Speaker 1: So how do you feel about that?

520
00:24:31,000 --> 00:24:34,240
Speaker 2: Like, do you feel like you have to rap commercial

521
00:24:34,320 --> 00:24:36,240
Speaker 2: because you feel the pressure of people being.

522
00:24:36,080 --> 00:24:38,320
Speaker 3: Like, oh, you got to be different, to be honest,

523
00:24:38,320 --> 00:24:40,480
Speaker 3: It's like I've always feel pressure like that in my

524
00:24:40,480 --> 00:24:42,760
Speaker 3: whole life, Like even like growing up, you know, like

525
00:24:42,920 --> 00:24:45,359
Speaker 3: I wasn't the kid that like had like the ladies' shoes,

526
00:24:45,440 --> 00:24:46,600
Speaker 3: the like ladies care and all that.

527
00:24:46,720 --> 00:24:48,959
Speaker 1: So it's like I always felt the pressure.

528
00:24:49,000 --> 00:24:52,760
Speaker 3: So that actually built me up to have tough skins.

529
00:24:52,760 --> 00:24:55,360
Speaker 1: So like the things that people say on this net.

530
00:24:55,160 --> 00:24:57,520
Speaker 3: Like they don't really bother me, Like I don't know,

531
00:24:57,560 --> 00:25:00,800
Speaker 3: like I've and like then like going through all that

532
00:25:01,480 --> 00:25:04,439
Speaker 3: at a young you know age or whatever. So they

533
00:25:04,480 --> 00:25:05,679
Speaker 3: really taught me how to fight and tell me how

534
00:25:05,680 --> 00:25:10,840
Speaker 3: to do things, like I know, that's it always back

535
00:25:10,840 --> 00:25:12,320
Speaker 3: in the day, back in the day.

536
00:25:12,800 --> 00:25:18,879
Speaker 2: Now you be getting out there, it's quite because they

537
00:25:19,680 --> 00:25:22,200
Speaker 2: not on your face though they would get pretty face

538
00:25:22,280 --> 00:25:24,679
Speaker 2: and then be like get bully that whole and and

539
00:25:24,720 --> 00:25:25,560
Speaker 2: then like I.

540
00:25:25,480 --> 00:25:31,119
Speaker 1: Mean, like I minded my time, my shoe, why are

541
00:25:31,160 --> 00:25:31,879
Speaker 1: you bothering me?

542
00:25:32,119 --> 00:25:35,240
Speaker 3: And then whole whole time like I'm so non confrontational,

543
00:25:35,320 --> 00:25:36,600
Speaker 3: tom angry and I'm angry.

544
00:25:36,600 --> 00:25:38,400
Speaker 2: I'll be like, oh, bitch, I'm going to beat yours

545
00:25:38,560 --> 00:25:40,320
Speaker 2: black out. Don't even worry about that, you know.

546
00:25:40,359 --> 00:25:43,000
Speaker 3: But it's like now I'm in a different space, so

547
00:25:43,119 --> 00:25:44,560
Speaker 3: like can nobody bring me outside?

548
00:25:44,600 --> 00:25:46,240
Speaker 2: Like especially on the new I don't give a fun

549
00:25:46,280 --> 00:25:49,160
Speaker 2: about that ship like which I will which I will

550
00:25:49,200 --> 00:25:50,080
Speaker 2: post my ball cap.

551
00:25:50,080 --> 00:25:51,679
Speaker 3: I don't give a funk. I don't care, you know,

552
00:25:51,800 --> 00:25:55,360
Speaker 3: so certain ship don't get to me. So like now

553
00:25:55,480 --> 00:25:59,439
Speaker 3: that that pretty girls walk Hasts outstreamed every fucking raunchy

554
00:25:59,480 --> 00:25:59,920
Speaker 3: ass song.

555
00:26:00,119 --> 00:26:01,360
Speaker 1: Catalog, that's crazy.

556
00:26:01,440 --> 00:26:03,760
Speaker 3: You can't pay me to just wrap raunching no more,

557
00:26:03,800 --> 00:26:07,080
Speaker 3: just like I don't care what nobody say. And to

558
00:26:07,119 --> 00:26:09,879
Speaker 3: be honest, it's like you got to make people a believer,

559
00:26:10,119 --> 00:26:12,000
Speaker 3: like only you see your vision.

560
00:26:12,200 --> 00:26:15,080
Speaker 1: So so I saw you had went to the bees he.

561
00:26:15,160 --> 00:26:22,240
Speaker 2: Or can't say you have a stylence, so you drink Okay,

562
00:26:22,280 --> 00:26:24,399
Speaker 2: because you did that, and then you did the w

563
00:26:24,400 --> 00:26:28,359
Speaker 2: W thing. Yes, I was like, okay, you're everywhere here.

564
00:26:28,440 --> 00:26:29,440
Speaker 1: You stabbed me for that, y'all.

565
00:26:29,440 --> 00:26:31,720
Speaker 3: Okay, listen heard me out, Like I am, I am

566
00:26:31,840 --> 00:26:33,760
Speaker 3: just now getting into fashion. You know, I'm just now

567
00:26:33,800 --> 00:26:36,919
Speaker 3: following fashion pages so I can learn like actually like

568
00:26:37,200 --> 00:26:39,400
Speaker 3: things to work besides always.

569
00:26:39,119 --> 00:26:40,879
Speaker 2: Having the like booty shorts and shirts.

570
00:26:40,600 --> 00:26:49,200
Speaker 3: But her So like I'm I'm trying to like elevate

571
00:26:49,320 --> 00:26:51,520
Speaker 3: in this fashion because you know, I already got the music.

572
00:26:51,560 --> 00:26:54,840
Speaker 3: Now it's like all right, now let's go with the fashion. Yeah,

573
00:26:55,440 --> 00:26:57,640
Speaker 3: so let's be different. Like I don't I don't want

574
00:26:57,640 --> 00:26:59,879
Speaker 3: to look country when I go places because I know

575
00:27:00,000 --> 00:27:00,639
Speaker 3: I'm from a country.

576
00:27:00,640 --> 00:27:01,560
Speaker 1: I see.

577
00:27:01,880 --> 00:27:03,480
Speaker 2: It's like we don't we don't really care though you

578
00:27:03,720 --> 00:27:05,560
Speaker 2: don't put on some booash us, you're gonna put on.

579
00:27:05,560 --> 00:27:07,240
Speaker 1: Some ship and then we're gonna be alright with it. Period.

580
00:27:07,480 --> 00:27:10,560
Speaker 3: But in this industry, it's different, you know, so you know,

581
00:27:10,600 --> 00:27:12,080
Speaker 3: I just got to show them different parts to me.

582
00:27:12,119 --> 00:27:14,480
Speaker 2: Also, this my new hairstyle, y'all. So like when y'all

583
00:27:14,480 --> 00:27:15,400
Speaker 2: always I was.

584
00:27:15,359 --> 00:27:17,560
Speaker 1: Just about to say that your hair is laid, thank

585
00:27:17,600 --> 00:27:20,200
Speaker 1: your makeup. It's very natural.

586
00:27:19,880 --> 00:27:27,159
Speaker 2: Beautiful yet But but don't. Me and Dre had a

587
00:27:27,200 --> 00:27:29,400
Speaker 2: conversation about this the other day, and I don't. I'm

588
00:27:29,440 --> 00:27:32,800
Speaker 2: not trying to offend anybody, but honestly, I am tired

589
00:27:32,840 --> 00:27:35,199
Speaker 2: of kind of like the same look that all the

590
00:27:35,240 --> 00:27:38,879
Speaker 2: girls be giving. Like, honestly, a little light I did

591
00:27:38,920 --> 00:27:40,879
Speaker 2: a little Papa color with my under eye with the

592
00:27:41,080 --> 00:27:43,280
Speaker 2: I love it, but that's it, Like we getting back

593
00:27:43,320 --> 00:27:47,560
Speaker 2: to like the light makeup look natural, Like you look.

594
00:27:47,680 --> 00:27:49,040
Speaker 1: Very soft beautiful.

595
00:27:49,080 --> 00:27:50,720
Speaker 2: I feel like all of us have soft makeup on

596
00:27:51,920 --> 00:27:55,679
Speaker 2: you ship It's very polishing, looks good. So I'm loving

597
00:27:55,760 --> 00:27:58,280
Speaker 2: like the soft the soft look on all of it's

598
00:27:58,280 --> 00:27:59,880
Speaker 2: like you look like you glowing.

599
00:28:00,640 --> 00:28:04,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, I stopping period, But that's all.

600
00:28:04,280 --> 00:28:06,320
Speaker 2: I was about to ask you so about the meve

601
00:28:06,400 --> 00:28:08,679
Speaker 2: He Awards. So was this your first time at an

602
00:28:08,720 --> 00:28:11,080
Speaker 2: awards show? Yes, that was my first time there.

603
00:28:11,960 --> 00:28:15,639
Speaker 3: I was very nervous, you know, because, like still even

604
00:28:16,040 --> 00:28:18,240
Speaker 3: even though that I that I know that I'm supposed

605
00:28:18,240 --> 00:28:20,080
Speaker 3: to be here, you know, like I still get nervous

606
00:28:20,119 --> 00:28:23,919
Speaker 3: on some damn I'm around like everybody like yeah, everybody

607
00:28:24,000 --> 00:28:25,560
Speaker 3: they've been in the game for years, you know, like

608
00:28:25,640 --> 00:28:28,600
Speaker 3: I just got in this mother, you know, but everybody was.

609
00:28:28,560 --> 00:28:30,359
Speaker 2: Cool, like like it was all nice to me. They

610
00:28:30,440 --> 00:28:32,000
Speaker 2: was just telling me that I'm so pretty, you.

611
00:28:32,000 --> 00:28:35,360
Speaker 1: Know, and face card.

612
00:28:37,760 --> 00:28:41,240
Speaker 3: And like it's just like just owning it, you know,

613
00:28:41,440 --> 00:28:46,520
Speaker 3: like and when my style is first first, like sending

614
00:28:46,560 --> 00:28:48,200
Speaker 3: me all these pictures, I'm like, what the fuck is this?

615
00:28:48,520 --> 00:28:52,240
Speaker 3: I'm scared, you know, but it ain't never stop ship

616
00:28:52,320 --> 00:28:54,040
Speaker 3: with me, you know, Like I'll be scared and still

617
00:28:54,040 --> 00:28:55,200
Speaker 3: do it, yeah, because.

618
00:28:55,000 --> 00:28:56,479
Speaker 1: I know you have to.

619
00:28:56,680 --> 00:28:59,080
Speaker 2: You have to because if you don't do it out

620
00:28:59,080 --> 00:29:01,880
Speaker 2: of first, then you already to feel yep, I will

621
00:29:01,960 --> 00:29:06,400
Speaker 2: do it tried in because you're not going nowhere. You

622
00:29:06,480 --> 00:29:09,560
Speaker 2: got time, you ain't going nowhere. Them hills had my

623
00:29:09,600 --> 00:29:10,200
Speaker 2: feet screaming.

624
00:29:10,240 --> 00:29:13,160
Speaker 3: So if you know any spray for your feet that

625
00:29:13,240 --> 00:29:15,920
Speaker 3: you don't feel ship, let me know. Okay, I no spray,

626
00:29:16,240 --> 00:29:19,000
Speaker 3: but it's like insults and stuff that you could put

627
00:29:19,000 --> 00:29:19,400
Speaker 3: in your.

628
00:29:20,120 --> 00:29:23,400
Speaker 1: I and well I'm would tell you the first hour.

629
00:29:23,560 --> 00:29:27,040
Speaker 2: But yo, well, I'll say for me, I literally stopped

630
00:29:27,040 --> 00:29:29,320
Speaker 2: buying heels that I'm just not comfortable in. I stopped

631
00:29:29,320 --> 00:29:31,960
Speaker 2: wearing heels. If I'm not comfortable, change the outfit, change something.

632
00:29:32,000 --> 00:29:33,480
Speaker 2: I need to be comfortable because I want a pretty

633
00:29:33,480 --> 00:29:36,120
Speaker 2: girl walk, bitch, And if I'm not comfortable, I can't walk.

634
00:29:36,760 --> 00:29:39,880
Speaker 2: I do not buy heels anymore that I used toel,

635
00:29:39,880 --> 00:29:43,320
Speaker 2: like when I first started like getting money and like missing.

636
00:29:43,200 --> 00:29:44,760
Speaker 1: Or like dating guys that will buy me things.

637
00:29:44,800 --> 00:29:46,440
Speaker 2: I'd be like, oh, I need the whe your cell,

638
00:29:46,920 --> 00:29:54,880
Speaker 2: I need the baby. I couldn't walk, no hurts. My

639
00:29:54,880 --> 00:29:58,920
Speaker 2: whiteills are literally like a closet decorators still like five

640
00:29:59,000 --> 00:30:02,600
Speaker 2: minutes an hour? Girl, how long y'all got in it.

641
00:30:04,240 --> 00:30:10,240
Speaker 3: Barely those DAYSII heels that like that like God got

642
00:30:10,240 --> 00:30:15,480
Speaker 3: like the little gold chain on it and sits on

643
00:30:15,480 --> 00:30:18,400
Speaker 3: on like your arch, like you don't even sit on it,

644
00:30:18,440 --> 00:30:21,040
Speaker 3: sits on. Ye I writ that ship to a fast show, y'all.

645
00:30:21,080 --> 00:30:21,640
Speaker 1: I doubt.

646
00:30:21,680 --> 00:30:27,160
Speaker 2: I'm just like, yeah, I'm like platform a little comfy heel. Mean,

647
00:30:27,560 --> 00:30:30,080
Speaker 2: if I'm a dude, comfy heill. I just like to

648
00:30:30,120 --> 00:30:33,280
Speaker 2: be comfortable. But you looked amazing so let me ask

649
00:30:33,320 --> 00:30:35,560
Speaker 2: you this. Like she said you at the BT Wars

650
00:30:35,560 --> 00:30:38,200
Speaker 2: your first time, who did you meet and you were like,

651
00:30:38,240 --> 00:30:40,680
Speaker 2: oh my god, like this is real, Like you had

652
00:30:40,760 --> 00:30:43,719
Speaker 2: kind of like a moment ship everyone.

653
00:30:43,800 --> 00:30:46,880
Speaker 3: Honestly, like every everybody that was meeting that that like

654
00:30:47,520 --> 00:30:49,400
Speaker 3: the was so nice to me and they were so welcome,

655
00:30:49,400 --> 00:30:52,720
Speaker 3: and I was just like, you're a celebrity cool, yeah,

656
00:30:52,880 --> 00:30:55,240
Speaker 3: like because you just never know what's what to expect

657
00:30:55,400 --> 00:30:58,920
Speaker 3: out of these celebrities, and that's with Indian everyone, because

658
00:30:58,920 --> 00:31:01,240
Speaker 3: they don't make people like me animal right, Like when

659
00:31:01,240 --> 00:31:04,720
Speaker 3: you some of them like be cool on social media

660
00:31:04,760 --> 00:31:07,560
Speaker 3: that you meet him be like it's the weirdo like

661
00:31:07,640 --> 00:31:11,840
Speaker 3: you know, food food. So yeah, like when I met

662
00:31:11,880 --> 00:31:15,160
Speaker 3: everyone to day, like I didn't meant anyone that was really.

663
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Speaker 1: Who was your favorite?

664
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Speaker 4: Though?

665
00:31:17,000 --> 00:31:17,400
Speaker 1: Favorite?

666
00:31:17,480 --> 00:31:19,360
Speaker 3: And he was like, okay, I believe I met them

667
00:31:19,400 --> 00:31:20,960
Speaker 3: in person finally.

668
00:31:22,960 --> 00:31:25,320
Speaker 2: Jesus, I didn't have a favorite. I don't I don't

669
00:31:25,320 --> 00:31:26,040
Speaker 2: never have favorites.

670
00:31:26,280 --> 00:31:27,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm the same way.

671
00:31:27,440 --> 00:31:29,480
Speaker 2: I feel like I'd be like, damn, everybody was cool

672
00:31:29,480 --> 00:31:32,160
Speaker 2: and I had a good time. I have never been

673
00:31:32,200 --> 00:31:35,360
Speaker 2: that person that like have a favorite with anything will

674
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Speaker 2: be favorite.

675
00:31:37,080 --> 00:31:41,720
Speaker 1: Of course, everybody everybody favorite this, but we all be.

676
00:31:42,800 --> 00:31:44,640
Speaker 2: I'll be ever telling people like, I'm not clearing up

677
00:31:44,640 --> 00:31:47,600
Speaker 2: ship unless Beyonce, ay hello, that's.

678
00:31:47,160 --> 00:31:49,440
Speaker 1: The only person is the only person I feel you.

679
00:31:49,640 --> 00:31:50,120
Speaker 2: Other than that.

680
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Speaker 1: So let me ask you this too.

681
00:31:51,600 --> 00:31:55,240
Speaker 2: So now, like we are in the era of female

682
00:31:55,440 --> 00:31:57,360
Speaker 2: rap and hip hop, like we really are, and I

683
00:31:57,480 --> 00:31:59,120
Speaker 2: feel like the first time we saw you, like a

684
00:31:59,200 --> 00:32:00,880
Speaker 2: year ago, it was in there, but now it's like

685
00:32:00,920 --> 00:32:03,560
Speaker 2: it's deep in there absolutely. Like when you go to

686
00:32:03,600 --> 00:32:06,000
Speaker 2: an award show or anything, it's pretty much females that

687
00:32:06,040 --> 00:32:09,720
Speaker 2: are headlining everything. So do you feel pressure to keep

688
00:32:09,800 --> 00:32:11,760
Speaker 2: up with your peers, to work with them, to be

689
00:32:11,800 --> 00:32:13,560
Speaker 2: cool with them? Because sometimes it might be somebody that

690
00:32:13,600 --> 00:32:17,080
Speaker 2: you don't necessarily y'all vision ain't the same or your

691
00:32:17,120 --> 00:32:19,280
Speaker 2: brand doesn't match their brand. So do you feel pressure

692
00:32:19,320 --> 00:32:21,920
Speaker 2: to like work with these girls, be cool with these girls?

693
00:32:21,960 --> 00:32:23,120
Speaker 1: Like how do you feel about that?

694
00:32:23,440 --> 00:32:25,280
Speaker 3: So being as though that I'm like a nice person,

695
00:32:25,360 --> 00:32:28,360
Speaker 3: Like I'm like, I'm dead ass, genuinely nice. I don't

696
00:32:28,360 --> 00:32:30,040
Speaker 3: want to hurt people, feeling so like at times I'd

697
00:32:30,080 --> 00:32:31,680
Speaker 3: be like I'm just do it. But then again, like

698
00:32:31,720 --> 00:32:34,320
Speaker 3: as I'm sitting down thinking about thinking about it, I

699
00:32:34,440 --> 00:32:36,280
Speaker 3: be thinking like, let's not be passive.

700
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Speaker 1: Let me just say I don't want to do this right.

701
00:32:38,280 --> 00:32:42,760
Speaker 3: No, And at times, once I've done that, or I've

702
00:32:42,800 --> 00:32:44,520
Speaker 3: had my team speak for me because they can put

703
00:32:44,520 --> 00:32:47,680
Speaker 3: into better words than I can, it sometimes don't turn

704
00:32:47,680 --> 00:32:50,240
Speaker 3: out right, you know, because they because they might feel

705
00:32:50,280 --> 00:32:51,600
Speaker 3: like that I don't want to do it because I

706
00:32:51,600 --> 00:32:53,600
Speaker 3: said fuck them. But that's not that, you know, I

707
00:32:53,680 --> 00:32:55,640
Speaker 3: just don't want to align my brand with this. Like

708
00:32:55,720 --> 00:32:57,840
Speaker 3: at one point in time, I was with NI and everything.

709
00:32:57,880 --> 00:33:00,000
Speaker 3: I ain't gonna fuck yeah. But then again, it's like

710
00:33:00,040 --> 00:33:01,760
Speaker 3: any and everything is not going to get you on

711
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Speaker 3: the bt woords. Any and everything is not going to

712
00:33:04,680 --> 00:33:08,120
Speaker 3: have you bringing out a E W Restless or have

713
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Speaker 3: you per forming at.

714
00:33:09,600 --> 00:33:10,360
Speaker 1: The Clippers game.

715
00:33:11,240 --> 00:33:13,560
Speaker 3: It is certain things that I don't want task my

716
00:33:13,600 --> 00:33:15,960
Speaker 3: brand now. And I don't care how fun it is,

717
00:33:16,080 --> 00:33:20,040
Speaker 3: how popping it, I'm not doing it and people don't

718
00:33:20,120 --> 00:33:22,600
Speaker 3: understand that. And in this game, I don't see no

719
00:33:22,640 --> 00:33:23,360
Speaker 3: one in this competition.

720
00:33:23,680 --> 00:33:24,480
Speaker 2: Okay, that's good.

721
00:33:24,560 --> 00:33:26,880
Speaker 3: I'm in my own lane. This is my own race.

722
00:33:26,960 --> 00:33:30,959
Speaker 3: It's a marathion, not a sprint. Every light and again

723
00:33:31,520 --> 00:33:33,480
Speaker 3: being as though that I was first in a raunchy lane,

724
00:33:33,480 --> 00:33:35,600
Speaker 3: and then you know I just switched over, but you

725
00:33:35,600 --> 00:33:37,800
Speaker 3: know I still be out my little hood. Yeah, yeah,

726
00:33:37,840 --> 00:33:42,200
Speaker 3: of course, I just know how Like after a while,

727
00:33:42,280 --> 00:33:44,040
Speaker 3: it's it's a cap. It's like you gotta come on

728
00:33:44,080 --> 00:33:47,520
Speaker 3: someone else. And if you run out a record too long,

729
00:33:47,600 --> 00:33:50,120
Speaker 3: it's like trying to rebuild it.

730
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Speaker 1: Momentum is horrible. It's hard, it's horrible.

731
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Speaker 3: And now it's like I would just rather create a

732
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Speaker 3: household names. Like if I don't work with people, don't

733
00:34:00,160 --> 00:34:02,480
Speaker 3: work with people. I'm not gonna try to force somebody

734
00:34:02,480 --> 00:34:04,400
Speaker 3: to record me. I ain't gonna try to force a friendship.

735
00:34:04,640 --> 00:34:07,120
Speaker 3: I ain't gonna try to force anything. Like if I

736
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Speaker 3: want to do business, I will ask you how much,

737
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Speaker 3: Like I'm not gonna try to just be your friend

738
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Speaker 3: and be like.

739
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Speaker 1: Oh let me get a little one too. Yeah, I

740
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Speaker 1: feel you.

741
00:34:15,320 --> 00:34:16,759
Speaker 3: I'm not gonna do that because I don't want to

742
00:34:16,760 --> 00:34:18,120
Speaker 3: one doing that to me exactly.

743
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Speaker 1: My price is my price.

744
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Speaker 2: Like it's like it's easier to to to turn a

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746
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Speaker 1: So let me ask you this. You got a man,

747
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Speaker 1: now you're single, what's going on?

748
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Speaker 3: I'mun just tell you that I'm I'm I'm taking car.

749
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Speaker 3: You know, I'm just I'm just guess I look.

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Speaker 1: Basically one. Basically I'm like, hey.

751
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Speaker 2: You know, you know, I'm just a bad bitch being

752
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Speaker 2: a bad bitch and I'm taking car. You know.

753
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Speaker 1: Do you want to get into the first topic?

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Speaker 3: Obviously we're all creators, so I want to talk about

782
00:37:05,760 --> 00:37:09,520
Speaker 3: like kind of like being a creator. And then you

783
00:37:09,560 --> 00:37:11,920
Speaker 3: have other people like trying to steal your concils.

784
00:37:12,000 --> 00:37:14,160
Speaker 1: There's just steal your ideas. How do you feel about this?

785
00:37:14,360 --> 00:37:16,000
Speaker 2: At first? I was like, because I know a lot

786
00:37:16,000 --> 00:37:17,960
Speaker 2: of people came out with a pretty girl walk type

787
00:37:18,040 --> 00:37:20,800
Speaker 2: record after that drop and other things that you've done.

788
00:37:22,200 --> 00:37:25,319
Speaker 3: You know what's crazy, Like I never get mad at

789
00:37:25,320 --> 00:37:29,799
Speaker 3: things like that because I've always been like a inspirational person.

790
00:37:29,880 --> 00:37:32,360
Speaker 3: Even if like even when I was broken, I was

791
00:37:32,400 --> 00:37:34,520
Speaker 3: doing stuff and going viral for it. I would like

792
00:37:34,520 --> 00:37:37,799
Speaker 3: see people trying to recreate what idea, you know, and

793
00:37:37,840 --> 00:37:40,000
Speaker 3: it never bothered me because there's only one of me.

794
00:37:40,800 --> 00:37:43,600
Speaker 3: You can't do what I do, right, And then like

795
00:37:43,640 --> 00:37:45,279
Speaker 3: seeing you try to do what I do. You know,

796
00:37:45,520 --> 00:37:48,960
Speaker 3: you you have the people tagging me like, oh, didn't

797
00:37:48,960 --> 00:37:52,960
Speaker 3: be bothering, and I still don't respond because that's like whatever.

798
00:37:52,800 --> 00:37:54,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, let them do it, Let them do that.

799
00:37:54,400 --> 00:37:55,759
Speaker 2: People see what it is.

800
00:37:56,000 --> 00:37:57,719
Speaker 3: I see what it is, and then sometimes I don't

801
00:37:57,719 --> 00:37:59,239
Speaker 3: even see it because things like.

802
00:37:59,239 --> 00:38:00,680
Speaker 1: They really don't eat this in my world.

803
00:38:00,880 --> 00:38:04,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, Like over the past year, I have created this

804
00:38:04,520 --> 00:38:07,759
Speaker 2: world that that everyone likes me and like I like,

805
00:38:07,800 --> 00:38:10,360
Speaker 2: I swear I've never heard anything bad about you, like

806
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Speaker 2: when I you know.

807
00:38:11,680 --> 00:38:17,759
Speaker 3: Like even if I see, yeah, everybody like me because

808
00:38:17,800 --> 00:38:19,919
Speaker 3: you don't give out that bad energy.

809
00:38:20,080 --> 00:38:20,640
Speaker 1: It's not even that.

810
00:38:20,760 --> 00:38:22,520
Speaker 3: I just think it's about what you put in your

811
00:38:22,600 --> 00:38:26,279
Speaker 3: mind can become your reality that right there, Like right now,

812
00:38:26,719 --> 00:38:30,040
Speaker 3: I'm a millionaire with like a song with like Beyonce talk.

813
00:38:29,920 --> 00:38:32,520
Speaker 1: About it, it's gonna happen, like but.

814
00:38:32,520 --> 00:38:34,920
Speaker 2: No, the reason I say that is because I'm not

815
00:38:34,960 --> 00:38:37,440
Speaker 2: gonna lie. I've came across people where it was like

816
00:38:37,480 --> 00:38:39,560
Speaker 2: I was really excited to meet them, and then when

817
00:38:39,600 --> 00:38:42,240
Speaker 2: I met them, I was very disappointed. So I feel

818
00:38:42,239 --> 00:38:44,799
Speaker 2: like sometimes when you just have that energy where you're

819
00:38:44,840 --> 00:38:46,719
Speaker 2: just in a good space and you're happy all the

820
00:38:46,760 --> 00:38:49,239
Speaker 2: time and you know what you have to offer the

821
00:38:49,280 --> 00:38:52,000
Speaker 2: world and you're being true to your authentic self.

822
00:38:52,360 --> 00:38:54,360
Speaker 1: Like you said with the Raunchy music, Yeah you'll do.

823
00:38:54,360 --> 00:38:56,440
Speaker 2: A little one too, but what you want to make

824
00:38:56,520 --> 00:38:57,640
Speaker 2: is what you're gonna do when you go in the

825
00:38:57,640 --> 00:38:59,360
Speaker 2: studio that day. This is what I feel like creating.

826
00:38:59,400 --> 00:39:01,399
Speaker 2: I think it's a same thing for us. Sometimes when

827
00:39:01,400 --> 00:39:02,960
Speaker 2: I sit on this couch, Yes, I want to talk

828
00:39:02,960 --> 00:39:05,080
Speaker 2: about sucking a little dick. Sometimes when I sit on

829
00:39:05,120 --> 00:39:07,440
Speaker 2: the couch, I want to talk about Jesus. And you're

830
00:39:07,480 --> 00:39:10,480
Speaker 2: not gonna stock me or Zeus.

831
00:39:10,280 --> 00:39:13,720
Speaker 1: Whatever mood i'm feeling, but you're about the channel.

832
00:39:13,960 --> 00:39:16,799
Speaker 2: I'm just saying, Okay, so you're not gonna put me

833
00:39:16,840 --> 00:39:19,600
Speaker 2: in a box. But whatever les that you get that day,

834
00:39:19,640 --> 00:39:21,960
Speaker 2: I'm always gonna be pleasant, I'm always gonna be grateful,

835
00:39:22,000 --> 00:39:24,600
Speaker 2: and I'm always gonna be exuding good energy. So that's

836
00:39:24,640 --> 00:39:26,920
Speaker 2: why I really be like, man, I really fucked with

837
00:39:27,440 --> 00:39:29,120
Speaker 2: that because you always give off.

838
00:39:29,120 --> 00:39:30,640
Speaker 1: Good energy energy.

839
00:39:30,800 --> 00:39:32,839
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying, because, like I said, it's

840
00:39:32,840 --> 00:39:34,600
Speaker 2: been instances where I'd be like, oh my god, I

841
00:39:34,680 --> 00:39:36,480
Speaker 2: know she about to be and you mean to be

842
00:39:36,600 --> 00:39:41,759
Speaker 2: like damn man, I don't be upstanding upset when I

843
00:39:41,800 --> 00:39:44,200
Speaker 2: meet people because I feel like everybody is human.

844
00:39:44,520 --> 00:39:46,400
Speaker 1: I feel like you only can get upset when you

845
00:39:46,440 --> 00:39:47,680
Speaker 1: put people on a pedestal.

846
00:39:48,000 --> 00:39:50,640
Speaker 2: That's got you, and you not putting people on a

847
00:39:50,640 --> 00:39:53,600
Speaker 2: pedestal and you giving everybody grace. Because my thing is

848
00:39:54,000 --> 00:39:56,520
Speaker 2: I could meet you today like I could meet you today,

849
00:39:56,680 --> 00:39:59,120
Speaker 2: and it doesn't necessarily mean just because you was rude

850
00:39:59,120 --> 00:40:00,759
Speaker 2: to me, or you was in the mood to take

851
00:40:00,800 --> 00:40:03,120
Speaker 2: a picture or sign an autograph or do whatever, that

852
00:40:03,160 --> 00:40:04,440
Speaker 2: doesn't mean you're a mean person.

853
00:40:04,520 --> 00:40:06,040
Speaker 1: Maybe you've just had a bad.

854
00:40:05,920 --> 00:40:09,480
Speaker 2: Day and I came across you the wrong day, all right.

855
00:40:09,840 --> 00:40:15,400
Speaker 1: Na, see see hear me out, I agree to disagree. Okay.

856
00:40:16,000 --> 00:40:18,279
Speaker 3: It has been times to where like maybe I got

857
00:40:18,360 --> 00:40:20,879
Speaker 3: booked for some and the booking went bad.

858
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Speaker 1: I'm in my mind about it.

859
00:40:23,160 --> 00:40:26,920
Speaker 3: I'm I'm fucked up by it, but I still have

860
00:40:27,000 --> 00:40:28,839
Speaker 3: to put on a brave face, you know, because my

861
00:40:28,880 --> 00:40:29,680
Speaker 3: cousins ain't.

862
00:40:29,440 --> 00:40:31,719
Speaker 1: Doing it to me. This fucking promoted it.

863
00:40:32,160 --> 00:40:34,319
Speaker 2: Let's see that's you, and I feel like we be

864
00:40:34,440 --> 00:40:36,920
Speaker 2: the same way. Like whenever I'm in the mood, whenever

865
00:40:37,000 --> 00:40:39,239
Speaker 2: Lex is in the mood. We don't take that out

866
00:40:39,320 --> 00:40:41,160
Speaker 2: on people that we meet. They don't make them like

867
00:40:41,719 --> 00:40:44,360
Speaker 2: they don't exactly, but I feel like you got people

868
00:40:44,400 --> 00:40:46,440
Speaker 2: that's like that, and so it's like I wouldn't meet

869
00:40:46,440 --> 00:40:49,359
Speaker 2: a person and just necessarily be disappointed by the Well,

870
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Speaker 2: I mean, I get what you're saying, but I feel

871
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Speaker 2: like we signed up for this.

872
00:40:54,080 --> 00:40:55,680
Speaker 1: You want to be entertained that.

873
00:40:56,280 --> 00:40:59,440
Speaker 2: Let me tell you something. I shows up the airport

874
00:41:00,600 --> 00:41:02,320
Speaker 2: bitch because me and my nigga just got into it.

875
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Speaker 2: Somebody walked up to me and said, oh, let's pee,

876
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Speaker 2: I see you in a moment, and I was thinking

877
00:41:06,440 --> 00:41:08,319
Speaker 2: in my head, I want to sock your ass out

878
00:41:08,480 --> 00:41:10,479
Speaker 2: because I'm mad and I'm crumb. I was like, hey,

879
00:41:11,160 --> 00:41:15,240
Speaker 2: it's okay, let's take a picture everybody, and that's cool.

880
00:41:15,480 --> 00:41:18,640
Speaker 2: Go get another job.

881
00:41:18,960 --> 00:41:21,280
Speaker 1: You We signed up for this stuff, we did.

882
00:41:21,440 --> 00:41:25,840
Speaker 2: Especially ain't we signed up for it, but like everybody

883
00:41:25,840 --> 00:41:26,640
Speaker 2: ain't bute for it.

884
00:41:26,800 --> 00:41:27,479
Speaker 1: But hear me out.

885
00:41:27,520 --> 00:41:32,000
Speaker 3: If I go to McDonald's and they are being absolute

886
00:41:32,080 --> 00:41:34,920
Speaker 3: bitch to me because I don't know, because maybe they

887
00:41:35,080 --> 00:41:38,319
Speaker 3: they don't want to work flipping Burger's right, it's been

888
00:41:38,360 --> 00:41:40,120
Speaker 3: a bitch to me. It's like I would literally tell

889
00:41:40,160 --> 00:41:42,120
Speaker 3: them like, hey, I didn't, I didn't. I didn't do

890
00:41:42,160 --> 00:41:45,200
Speaker 3: it to you today and if and if like it's

891
00:41:45,239 --> 00:41:48,239
Speaker 3: there's there's two ways you can take. You can like

892
00:41:48,280 --> 00:41:49,799
Speaker 3: take like the high road and be like, you know what,

893
00:41:49,840 --> 00:41:51,719
Speaker 3: I'm so sorry because I did not mean to come

894
00:41:51,760 --> 00:41:54,640
Speaker 3: up with or you could be like, have a nice day.

895
00:41:55,160 --> 00:41:55,600
Speaker 1: I'm calling.

896
00:41:56,040 --> 00:41:58,280
Speaker 3: Don't even worry about it. Don't worry about the motherfucker

897
00:41:58,400 --> 00:42:00,000
Speaker 3: because I didn't do it to you.

898
00:42:00,200 --> 00:42:00,560
Speaker 4: Caring.

899
00:42:01,000 --> 00:42:02,520
Speaker 1: Come on, kids, I didn't do it.

900
00:42:02,560 --> 00:42:04,320
Speaker 3: No, But if you go out to Chick fil A,

901
00:42:04,400 --> 00:42:07,000
Speaker 3: I have never had a bad experience with no Chick

902
00:42:07,040 --> 00:42:13,840
Speaker 3: fil A record that I could ever right, right, I

903
00:42:14,120 --> 00:42:15,760
Speaker 3: never had no bad experience.

904
00:42:16,719 --> 00:42:17,600
Speaker 1: But you know what's crazy.

905
00:42:17,600 --> 00:42:19,200
Speaker 2: Even when I worked my job, though I used to

906
00:42:19,200 --> 00:42:21,000
Speaker 2: work at European Wax Center, I used to be at

907
00:42:21,000 --> 00:42:24,200
Speaker 2: the front signing people up for wax passes, selling this

908
00:42:24,320 --> 00:42:24,560
Speaker 2: and that.

909
00:42:25,000 --> 00:42:26,560
Speaker 1: I used to literally.

910
00:42:26,200 --> 00:42:28,680
Speaker 2: Cry before I went into work because I hated my job.

911
00:42:29,080 --> 00:42:31,239
Speaker 2: Then once the podcast started taking off, people started coming

912
00:42:31,280 --> 00:42:31,680
Speaker 2: in and they.

913
00:42:31,640 --> 00:42:34,800
Speaker 1: Was they knew who I was, but I was still there,

914
00:42:34,880 --> 00:42:35,560
Speaker 1: and I would.

915
00:42:35,360 --> 00:42:37,800
Speaker 2: Be hating my job, I hated my life, but I

916
00:42:37,840 --> 00:42:40,680
Speaker 2: would sit there because that's what I signed up for.

917
00:42:41,320 --> 00:42:43,760
Speaker 1: So sometimes I feel like, now, if.

918
00:42:43,560 --> 00:42:45,879
Speaker 2: We're like maybe at a kickback or something, you don't

919
00:42:45,880 --> 00:42:47,319
Speaker 2: got to talk to me. But if we're in a

920
00:42:47,320 --> 00:42:50,520
Speaker 2: professional environment and we're supposed to be, you know, hey,

921
00:42:50,560 --> 00:42:53,319
Speaker 2: meeting each other, networking greeting like.

922
00:42:53,280 --> 00:42:54,359
Speaker 1: Why you wout a nasty dance?

923
00:42:54,400 --> 00:42:57,200
Speaker 2: Sam too, bitch, It's free to be nice. It's free

924
00:42:57,239 --> 00:43:00,480
Speaker 2: just to say hello, how you doing. I'm saying, we

925
00:43:00,480 --> 00:43:02,040
Speaker 2: got to talk about our grand We ain't got to

926
00:43:02,040 --> 00:43:04,319
Speaker 2: talk about Adam and even the Bible, bitch, we ain't

927
00:43:04,360 --> 00:43:05,280
Speaker 2: got to get in our history.

928
00:43:05,320 --> 00:43:09,439
Speaker 1: I'm not asking you, you know what I'm saying by hey,

929
00:43:09,480 --> 00:43:10,120
Speaker 1: how you doing?

930
00:43:10,239 --> 00:43:10,600
Speaker 2: My name?

931
00:43:10,719 --> 00:43:13,840
Speaker 1: Hey, how you doing? I'm It's nice to meet you. Easy,

932
00:43:14,120 --> 00:43:14,680
Speaker 1: that's easy.

933
00:43:14,760 --> 00:43:17,319
Speaker 3: And then you always got to remember, like how you

934
00:43:17,360 --> 00:43:20,120
Speaker 3: treat people on your way up is how they gonna.

935
00:43:19,920 --> 00:43:20,600
Speaker 1: Treat you my own.

936
00:43:20,760 --> 00:43:24,240
Speaker 2: I will never forget that, like people will never forget

937
00:43:24,280 --> 00:43:26,600
Speaker 2: how you made them feel long ever in life.

938
00:43:26,680 --> 00:43:29,920
Speaker 3: Then it's like, yeah, it was a bit your whole career,

939
00:43:30,239 --> 00:43:32,239
Speaker 3: but your ship starts to slow down and start to

940
00:43:32,239 --> 00:43:34,560
Speaker 3: fall off. When you want people to do your favorous,

941
00:43:34,600 --> 00:43:36,279
Speaker 3: they're not doing shit for you. They can't wait to

942
00:43:36,360 --> 00:43:39,160
Speaker 3: your asses done. They can't wait to you over with.

943
00:43:39,600 --> 00:43:42,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, and leave it to me because I can't. It's

944
00:43:42,200 --> 00:43:42,840
Speaker 1: a bunch of people.

945
00:43:42,880 --> 00:43:45,160
Speaker 2: I know they're gonna be like, I mean, like I

946
00:43:45,800 --> 00:43:50,000
Speaker 2: because I mean and it's crazy because me, Andre are

947
00:43:50,080 --> 00:43:52,359
Speaker 2: so nice and I.

948
00:43:52,320 --> 00:43:55,239
Speaker 3: Just but I also think outside of I just think

949
00:43:55,520 --> 00:43:58,160
Speaker 3: you just naturally who you are. Yeah, And I think that,

950
00:43:58,360 --> 00:44:00,480
Speaker 3: and I've said these before on the show. I think

951
00:44:00,480 --> 00:44:03,440
Speaker 3: that money, success, fame, all of that stuff just really

952
00:44:03,560 --> 00:44:07,080
Speaker 3: amplifies or you really are at your cord. So if

953
00:44:07,120 --> 00:44:10,879
Speaker 3: you were a nice person already naturally, when you didn't

954
00:44:10,960 --> 00:44:13,520
Speaker 3: have none of that shit, you gonna continue to be

955
00:44:13,560 --> 00:44:16,400
Speaker 3: a nice person as your success, your money, your fame,

956
00:44:16,520 --> 00:44:19,160
Speaker 3: all that shit grow. If you was really a nasty

957
00:44:19,200 --> 00:44:23,040
Speaker 3: person at your cord, money just gonna amplify that because

958
00:44:23,120 --> 00:44:25,439
Speaker 3: now you really feel like, I'm in a position where

959
00:44:25,480 --> 00:44:26,400
Speaker 3: I don't need nobody.

960
00:44:26,440 --> 00:44:28,839
Speaker 1: I got everything I could ever want in the world. Bitch.

961
00:44:28,880 --> 00:44:30,640
Speaker 2: Why I gotta be nice to you? Why I gotta

962
00:44:30,680 --> 00:44:33,320
Speaker 2: fuck with you? Why I gotta give back to people?

963
00:44:33,680 --> 00:44:37,440
Speaker 3: Why I have to interact with nobody's quote unquote in

964
00:44:37,480 --> 00:44:42,440
Speaker 3: my opinion. You know, I just feel like money amplifies success,

965
00:44:42,560 --> 00:44:45,480
Speaker 3: amplifies whoever you are as a person.

966
00:44:45,600 --> 00:44:46,840
Speaker 2: Absolutely. Yeah.

967
00:44:47,120 --> 00:44:49,640
Speaker 1: I also feel like a lot of times I caught myself.

968
00:44:49,719 --> 00:44:50,759
Speaker 1: It's crazy that you said that.

969
00:44:50,840 --> 00:44:53,680
Speaker 2: I caught myself because somebody said something real mean in

970
00:44:53,719 --> 00:44:54,640
Speaker 2: the comments.

971
00:44:54,280 --> 00:44:56,200
Speaker 1: A while back, and I said something like.

972
00:44:56,160 --> 00:44:58,960
Speaker 2: Along the lines of calling them broke, and I was like,

973
00:44:59,000 --> 00:45:00,719
Speaker 2: you know what, I know ever want to be that

974
00:45:00,800 --> 00:45:04,359
Speaker 2: person because, honestly, yeah, because you know what, my life

975
00:45:04,480 --> 00:45:06,400
Speaker 2: is blessed not because of the money. My life is

976
00:45:06,480 --> 00:45:11,799
Speaker 2: blessed because I'm happy, and my happiness is coming from

977
00:45:11,840 --> 00:45:13,960
Speaker 2: the state of mind that I'm in. You know what

978
00:45:14,000 --> 00:45:15,920
Speaker 2: I'm saying, Like, don't get me wrong, Yeah, we all

979
00:45:15,960 --> 00:45:17,480
Speaker 2: want I don't want to be broken again. I'm not

980
00:45:17,520 --> 00:45:20,760
Speaker 2: saying that. But what I'm saying is I'm a good person.

981
00:45:20,920 --> 00:45:23,640
Speaker 2: I'm a blessed person. I'm always but the best things

982
00:45:23,640 --> 00:45:25,719
Speaker 2: about me has nothing to do with the mount that's

983
00:45:25,719 --> 00:45:28,400
Speaker 2: in my bank account. So even when I replied like that,

984
00:45:28,520 --> 00:45:30,440
Speaker 2: I was like, this ain't even you, This ain't even

985
00:45:30,480 --> 00:45:34,000
Speaker 2: who you are. Don't turn into what people already expect

986
00:45:34,080 --> 00:45:36,560
Speaker 2: people to turn you into you know what I'm saying,

987
00:45:38,120 --> 00:45:41,000
Speaker 2: it's hard, but it is hard now. I'm just like

988
00:45:41,280 --> 00:45:47,719
Speaker 2: people be broken, That's what I mean. Yeah, that's truma counse, and.

989
00:45:47,800 --> 00:45:51,239
Speaker 1: You're bad Why because walking.

990
00:45:52,520 --> 00:45:57,520
Speaker 2: Now? You mean back in the day, I'm saying for real.

991
00:45:58,160 --> 00:46:01,240
Speaker 3: Back in the day, I ain't here. Yeah, I didn't

992
00:46:01,239 --> 00:46:05,000
Speaker 3: care about ship like it wasn't. It wasn't ship that

993
00:46:05,080 --> 00:46:06,880
Speaker 3: I would not say back to some my just to

994
00:46:06,920 --> 00:46:10,200
Speaker 3: hurt their core. But that was because I wasn't happy

995
00:46:10,480 --> 00:46:13,520
Speaker 3: within myself. Once I became happy, I don't give what

996
00:46:13,560 --> 00:46:14,160
Speaker 3: they pull up that.

997
00:46:14,200 --> 00:46:16,000
Speaker 1: I did back in my past. That's gonna mean no more.

998
00:46:16,120 --> 00:46:19,759
Speaker 2: Yeah, and you fall trapped to that when they start

999
00:46:19,800 --> 00:46:21,800
Speaker 2: pulling up your old ship and you whooping on holes

1000
00:46:21,880 --> 00:46:24,920
Speaker 2: telling hose fuck you fucking you know they pulled it

1001
00:46:25,160 --> 00:46:28,240
Speaker 2: up like that and and try to make you revert

1002
00:46:28,280 --> 00:46:30,400
Speaker 2: back to that person they wanted to see that that

1003
00:46:30,520 --> 00:46:31,600
Speaker 2: that jacket don't feed me no more.

1004
00:46:31,920 --> 00:46:33,040
Speaker 1: Maybe I don't shd them weight.

1005
00:46:35,160 --> 00:46:39,279
Speaker 2: A tone jacket. Okay, baby, Hello, I'm not in that

1006
00:46:39,400 --> 00:46:46,719
Speaker 2: dots jacket. I stole okay on my own wigs, like

1007
00:46:46,800 --> 00:46:49,319
Speaker 2: I got cod doing my I got cod braiding my

1008
00:46:49,320 --> 00:46:49,719
Speaker 2: hair shot.

1009
00:46:50,560 --> 00:46:53,520
Speaker 1: I got got the real taste show on her.

1010
00:46:53,560 --> 00:46:57,399
Speaker 2: Hold On, Hello, don't don't I mean we can see

1011
00:46:57,400 --> 00:46:59,960
Speaker 2: it now, hold on like y'all like.

1012
00:47:01,600 --> 00:47:03,240
Speaker 1: I love the smile because.

1013
00:47:03,000 --> 00:47:04,120
Speaker 2: It's like, we've gotta say it.

1014
00:47:04,320 --> 00:47:07,759
Speaker 1: See oh yeah, I.

1015
00:47:07,680 --> 00:47:08,520
Speaker 2: Feel like it's obvious.

1016
00:47:08,560 --> 00:47:09,960
Speaker 1: But it's like I don't even have to say that.

1017
00:47:10,000 --> 00:47:10,520
Speaker 1: And you know what.

1018
00:47:10,840 --> 00:47:13,239
Speaker 2: I respond to somebody yesterday and I was like, ooh,

1019
00:47:13,280 --> 00:47:14,680
Speaker 2: I know, I ate them up because I was like,

1020
00:47:14,719 --> 00:47:16,960
Speaker 2: you know what, I said, I'm actually gonna pray for

1021
00:47:17,040 --> 00:47:19,840
Speaker 2: you because you have nothing to give to this world.

1022
00:47:19,920 --> 00:47:22,960
Speaker 2: But getting on my page and being negative, I said,

1023
00:47:22,960 --> 00:47:23,920
Speaker 2: this is what you give to the world.

1024
00:47:23,960 --> 00:47:25,040
Speaker 1: You know what I give to the world.

1025
00:47:25,320 --> 00:47:27,480
Speaker 2: People tune into my show having Friday to feel good.

1026
00:47:27,480 --> 00:47:28,239
Speaker 1: I made people laugh.

1027
00:47:28,640 --> 00:47:30,640
Speaker 2: People show up to see me because I make them

1028
00:47:30,640 --> 00:47:33,280
Speaker 2: feel good. You know. I went through a grieving process

1029
00:47:33,280 --> 00:47:35,319
Speaker 2: with my relationship with my mother and people see me

1030
00:47:35,400 --> 00:47:36,319
Speaker 2: literally sitting on her.

1031
00:47:36,239 --> 00:47:38,439
Speaker 1: Bedroom floor, sleeping on her couch, and.

1032
00:47:38,320 --> 00:47:39,480
Speaker 2: They see me. Now how I'm doing.

1033
00:47:39,560 --> 00:47:41,080
Speaker 1: It was like, I give something to the world.

1034
00:47:41,560 --> 00:47:43,320
Speaker 2: What you give to the world is coming under my

1035
00:47:43,360 --> 00:47:44,880
Speaker 2: pictures and leaving this So I'm gonna pray for you.

1036
00:47:44,920 --> 00:47:46,200
Speaker 2: And I Pray that you get to the spot that

1037
00:47:46,239 --> 00:47:48,480
Speaker 2: I'm at because God, God will bless you because He

1038
00:47:48,520 --> 00:47:51,319
Speaker 2: blessed me. Pray this bitch, she my love if you

1039
00:47:51,320 --> 00:47:53,520
Speaker 2: stop being be mine. But that's why, that's the kind

1040
00:47:53,520 --> 00:47:55,400
Speaker 2: of reason. That's how I want to read people like,

1041
00:47:55,400 --> 00:47:57,480
Speaker 2: I'm gonna pray for you because this.

1042
00:47:56,560 --> 00:47:58,840
Speaker 1: Is this is what you're contributing to the world.

1043
00:47:59,280 --> 00:48:01,280
Speaker 2: It's so much much you could give to the world,

1044
00:48:01,280 --> 00:48:02,799
Speaker 2: and this is what you choose to do.

1045
00:48:03,320 --> 00:48:05,239
Speaker 1: This is what you choose to But a lot of

1046
00:48:05,280 --> 00:48:06,160
Speaker 1: people can't see.

1047
00:48:06,239 --> 00:48:07,920
Speaker 3: I had to learn to realize to a lot of

1048
00:48:07,920 --> 00:48:11,920
Speaker 3: people can't see beyond their current circumstance, and that's why

1049
00:48:11,960 --> 00:48:14,200
Speaker 3: they really be angry too, because they can't see beyond

1050
00:48:14,200 --> 00:48:15,920
Speaker 3: where they are right And I feel like when you're

1051
00:48:15,920 --> 00:48:18,799
Speaker 3: a person who God put it in you to have

1052
00:48:18,840 --> 00:48:20,920
Speaker 3: a bigger picture for your life, to have more of

1053
00:48:20,960 --> 00:48:24,680
Speaker 3: a purpose, even when you in the circumstances you could

1054
00:48:24,680 --> 00:48:27,319
Speaker 3: see past it, not just so you can see your

1055
00:48:27,400 --> 00:48:30,920
Speaker 3: future that like you just not feeling God has something

1056
00:48:30,920 --> 00:48:32,879
Speaker 3: better for you, Like where I'm at right now, it's

1057
00:48:32,920 --> 00:48:35,439
Speaker 3: not my final destination right there.

1058
00:48:36,000 --> 00:48:36,959
Speaker 1: Yeah, I can't.

1059
00:48:37,360 --> 00:48:39,840
Speaker 3: I can't wait till I continuously come back, and y'all

1060
00:48:39,840 --> 00:48:40,960
Speaker 3: just keep bringing me the matches.

1061
00:48:41,360 --> 00:48:42,200
Speaker 1: This is a fucking match.

1062
00:48:42,320 --> 00:48:42,560
Speaker 2: Hello.

1063
00:48:44,120 --> 00:48:45,800
Speaker 1: When I say like, I am.

1064
00:48:45,719 --> 00:48:52,600
Speaker 2: Like last time you come in and we had a time,

1065
00:48:52,800 --> 00:48:56,839
Speaker 2: I had the bottle of a trump we had and

1066
00:48:56,840 --> 00:49:01,359
Speaker 2: now look now we got you a box met herm

1067
00:49:01,400 --> 00:49:01,640
Speaker 2: me out.

1068
00:49:02,280 --> 00:49:03,800
Speaker 1: I ain't gonna say it, but I'm feeling like groovy.

1069
00:49:03,800 --> 00:49:04,520
Speaker 2: It's fun.

1070
00:49:07,400 --> 00:49:12,000
Speaker 1: Just sipping away. No, I go ahead and drinks.

1071
00:49:10,960 --> 00:49:13,719
Speaker 2: That look, cause look, this is a homegirl. This is

1072
00:49:13,719 --> 00:49:15,439
Speaker 2: how this is my friends. So y'all know we're gonna

1073
00:49:15,480 --> 00:49:17,279
Speaker 2: chat for ever. So let's get into the next topic.

1074
00:49:17,320 --> 00:49:19,839
Speaker 2: I talk about the pressures of being sexy too.

1075
00:49:20,440 --> 00:49:23,239
Speaker 1: I feel like when you are a woman who.

1076
00:49:23,200 --> 00:49:25,839
Speaker 2: Looks a certain way, it's pressure for you to dress

1077
00:49:25,880 --> 00:49:28,080
Speaker 2: a certain way, do your hair a certain way, look

1078
00:49:28,120 --> 00:49:30,440
Speaker 2: a certain way. So do you feel that pressure to

1079
00:49:30,520 --> 00:49:35,200
Speaker 2: be sexy and give body and give this and give.

1080
00:49:35,160 --> 00:49:35,560
Speaker 1: X y z?

1081
00:49:36,880 --> 00:49:40,080
Speaker 2: At first I did, and then I just thought about

1082
00:49:40,120 --> 00:49:40,960
Speaker 2: it like I didn't.

1083
00:49:41,200 --> 00:49:44,239
Speaker 3: I didn't make it always being sexy. I didn't make

1084
00:49:44,280 --> 00:49:47,080
Speaker 3: it always being cute. Some of my videos with me

1085
00:49:47,239 --> 00:49:50,799
Speaker 3: going viral, I have fat ass box breaks my head.

1086
00:49:50,960 --> 00:49:53,440
Speaker 3: I was sitting in front of a kitchen light that

1087
00:49:53,560 --> 00:49:55,759
Speaker 3: was the brightest of my house with my phone in

1088
00:49:55,800 --> 00:49:58,840
Speaker 3: my hand, bright pink lips gone big ass slashes, with

1089
00:49:59,040 --> 00:50:00,640
Speaker 3: no makeup at all, looking.

1090
00:50:00,640 --> 00:50:02,000
Speaker 1: Why the fuck is the last show to them?

1091
00:50:02,000 --> 00:50:02,160
Speaker 2: Big?

1092
00:50:02,160 --> 00:50:06,640
Speaker 3: And I gotta make up with and it just gives

1093
00:50:06,680 --> 00:50:10,400
Speaker 3: people love you for you. Yeah, sometimes the content that

1094
00:50:10,480 --> 00:50:13,319
Speaker 3: go viral is not the thought out content, the made

1095
00:50:13,360 --> 00:50:18,839
Speaker 3: up content. So don't don't pressure yourself to always beat

1096
00:50:18,840 --> 00:50:20,800
Speaker 3: it because first things. First thing, she's gonna create stress

1097
00:50:20,800 --> 00:50:23,000
Speaker 3: within yourself. I be stressed the funk out, all right,

1098
00:50:23,560 --> 00:50:25,480
Speaker 3: and then I have to realize, bitch.

1099
00:50:25,800 --> 00:50:30,080
Speaker 1: Take that ship off, but you're You're beautiful. You don't need.

1100
00:50:31,560 --> 00:50:35,439
Speaker 2: And also it's like the whole esthetically pleasing house as well,

1101
00:50:35,560 --> 00:50:38,440
Speaker 2: Like you know people have those like newer cabinets and

1102
00:50:38,480 --> 00:50:41,279
Speaker 2: all this ship hurt me out, Bitch.

1103
00:50:41,280 --> 00:50:43,040
Speaker 1: I'm in a nice, nice size house.

1104
00:50:43,560 --> 00:50:49,040
Speaker 2: My cabinet is brown, my floors little wooden, nice furniture.

1105
00:50:48,760 --> 00:50:50,879
Speaker 3: Bitch, I don't I don't give a cabinet. I don't

1106
00:50:50,880 --> 00:50:55,120
Speaker 3: give a with my kitchen. I'm comfortable, comfortable I'm in.

1107
00:50:55,600 --> 00:51:00,319
Speaker 3: I'm in a house like it's huge, right, myself, right,

1108
00:51:00,680 --> 00:51:04,759
Speaker 3: but a part of you still do want that like

1109
00:51:04,760 --> 00:51:07,040
Speaker 3: like that, Oh my god, you know, the nice little cabinet,

1110
00:51:07,160 --> 00:51:10,480
Speaker 3: the island, the Florida ceiling windows. But then again it's

1111
00:51:10,480 --> 00:51:12,759
Speaker 3: like I'm when I want to get that, then I'm

1112
00:51:12,760 --> 00:51:14,759
Speaker 3: gonna get that, right, I ain't gonna get it because

1113
00:51:14,800 --> 00:51:17,879
Speaker 3: I see the shit like her words like no, no, no, no,

1114
00:51:18,160 --> 00:51:19,759
Speaker 3: get it when you want it, not because you.

1115
00:51:19,800 --> 00:51:20,959
Speaker 1: See people doing it. You see people.

1116
00:51:21,480 --> 00:51:24,040
Speaker 2: And I think for me too, like I felt pressure

1117
00:51:24,120 --> 00:51:28,319
Speaker 2: at one point, like I felt like growing up, I

1118
00:51:28,400 --> 00:51:30,799
Speaker 2: relied so much on my personality because I never really

1119
00:51:30,840 --> 00:51:31,480
Speaker 2: felt beautiful.

1120
00:51:31,520 --> 00:51:35,480
Speaker 1: I never felt attractive. So I mean, I always say this.

1121
00:51:35,520 --> 00:51:37,239
Speaker 2: I went to all white school growing up, so I

1122
00:51:37,280 --> 00:51:40,759
Speaker 2: was always like, oh, being tall, skinny and blonde with.

1123
00:51:40,760 --> 00:51:42,040
Speaker 1: Blue eyes, that's beautiful.

1124
00:51:42,360 --> 00:51:45,319
Speaker 2: I never thought, you know, being tall, thick, you know,

1125
00:51:45,440 --> 00:51:48,120
Speaker 2: with a little kinky hair was beautiful. That wasn't beautiful

1126
00:51:48,120 --> 00:51:50,279
Speaker 2: to me because I didn't know anything else. So when

1127
00:51:50,280 --> 00:51:52,439
Speaker 2: I moved to Houston, I was like around black people

1128
00:51:52,480 --> 00:51:54,320
Speaker 2: all time, and they was like, damn you beautiful. It

1129
00:51:54,360 --> 00:51:57,080
Speaker 2: was like, you know, I got a little little some something.

1130
00:51:57,239 --> 00:51:59,720
Speaker 2: But then it was like I always go extreme within,

1131
00:52:00,080 --> 00:52:02,440
Speaker 2: so I felt like the I started working at the

1132
00:52:02,440 --> 00:52:04,200
Speaker 2: strip club, I was barting at the strip club, so

1133
00:52:04,239 --> 00:52:06,560
Speaker 2: I felt all this pressure to look a certain way,

1134
00:52:06,600 --> 00:52:09,040
Speaker 2: do my hair a certain way, do my makeup a

1135
00:52:09,040 --> 00:52:11,480
Speaker 2: certain way, and it's like I felt like I got lost.

1136
00:52:11,960 --> 00:52:14,600
Speaker 2: So now being in this space, I'm like back to

1137
00:52:14,640 --> 00:52:16,880
Speaker 2: who I am. Like, Bro, no, am I sexy? I

1138
00:52:16,880 --> 00:52:18,600
Speaker 2: don't look at my No, I'm not sexy. I'll be

1139
00:52:18,640 --> 00:52:21,239
Speaker 2: sexy for my man behind closed doors, but that's something

1140
00:52:21,280 --> 00:52:23,080
Speaker 2: for him to enjoy, you know what I'm saying.

1141
00:52:23,120 --> 00:52:25,880
Speaker 1: But I'm not a sexy bitch. I'm not about to

1142
00:52:25,920 --> 00:52:28,640
Speaker 1: sit here and be like, oh, snipping on my martini.

1143
00:52:28,640 --> 00:52:31,479
Speaker 2: I'm like, what a shots at time? Like, let's turn

1144
00:52:31,520 --> 00:52:34,600
Speaker 2: the fuck up. That's my personality. I'm loud. I'm not

1145
00:52:34,800 --> 00:52:37,719
Speaker 2: a quiet like this and that. But this is who

1146
00:52:37,760 --> 00:52:40,200
Speaker 2: I am and I learned to embrace that and people

1147
00:52:40,239 --> 00:52:41,360
Speaker 2: love me for that.

1148
00:52:41,880 --> 00:52:44,319
Speaker 3: People gonna either love you or they not gonna like you.

1149
00:52:44,360 --> 00:52:46,200
Speaker 3: I feel like the best thing that you could do, and.

1150
00:52:46,160 --> 00:52:46,520
Speaker 4: It just.

1151
00:52:48,040 --> 00:52:48,880
Speaker 2: Yes, it's easy.

1152
00:52:49,040 --> 00:52:51,680
Speaker 1: Man. I tried so hard of being in this.

1153
00:52:51,719 --> 00:52:54,920
Speaker 3: Box like you either, you know, you would be surprised.

1154
00:52:54,960 --> 00:52:57,319
Speaker 3: If you really be your authentic self, people will really

1155
00:52:57,360 --> 00:53:00,960
Speaker 3: appreciate it because what you have to the world, nobody

1156
00:53:01,040 --> 00:53:02,000
Speaker 3: else can use.

1157
00:53:02,280 --> 00:53:05,160
Speaker 1: Facts, facts and I think it was.

1158
00:53:05,239 --> 00:53:08,880
Speaker 2: For so long I was like dating guys and I

1159
00:53:08,960 --> 00:53:11,200
Speaker 2: was around certain people who made me feel like, oh

1160
00:53:11,200 --> 00:53:13,919
Speaker 2: my god, Lex, calm down, like please, like you doing

1161
00:53:13,960 --> 00:53:16,680
Speaker 2: a life, you too much? And then I realized I'm

1162
00:53:16,719 --> 00:53:19,160
Speaker 2: not doing too much, you just not enough. Because when

1163
00:53:19,160 --> 00:53:21,440
Speaker 2: I surrounded myself by people, I was like, oh, this

1164
00:53:21,640 --> 00:53:24,239
Speaker 2: bitch leg oh, because when I first met Dr D

1165
00:53:24,480 --> 00:53:27,319
Speaker 2: was like, bitch you funny as fuck, like you lit

1166
00:53:27,520 --> 00:53:28,680
Speaker 2: like she was always like.

1167
00:53:29,239 --> 00:53:33,319
Speaker 1: Me, and you've been. But honestly, you've always been the

1168
00:53:33,440 --> 00:53:37,279
Speaker 1: same person. I am very consistent with. Yeah. So it's

1169
00:53:37,320 --> 00:53:40,279
Speaker 1: like I never think you doing too much. It's just

1170
00:53:40,360 --> 00:53:41,000
Speaker 1: who I am.

1171
00:53:41,000 --> 00:53:43,440
Speaker 2: It's just you and so. But it's crazy because when

1172
00:53:43,440 --> 00:53:45,120
Speaker 2: I would be around certain people, I would try to

1173
00:53:45,120 --> 00:53:48,160
Speaker 2: suppress who I was, even when I got in that relationship.

1174
00:53:47,640 --> 00:53:48,040
Speaker 4: I was there.

1175
00:53:48,080 --> 00:53:50,040
Speaker 2: When I first I would try to suppress who I

1176
00:53:50,120 --> 00:53:51,720
Speaker 2: was because they made me feel like it was wrong

1177
00:53:51,880 --> 00:53:53,799
Speaker 2: or it was like this and like that, or I

1178
00:53:53,840 --> 00:53:55,839
Speaker 2: had to look a certain way and dress a certain way.

1179
00:53:56,280 --> 00:53:58,640
Speaker 2: But it's like once I got being like, you know what,

1180
00:53:58,760 --> 00:54:02,440
Speaker 2: this is who I cannot change who I am. I've tried.

1181
00:54:03,200 --> 00:54:04,200
Speaker 2: It was failures.

1182
00:54:04,239 --> 00:54:06,959
Speaker 1: I wasn't happy and it's like happy as man.

1183
00:54:08,440 --> 00:54:10,279
Speaker 3: Do you ever feel like you've been around people like

1184
00:54:10,320 --> 00:54:12,840
Speaker 3: that who like thank you too much or wanting you

1185
00:54:12,920 --> 00:54:15,400
Speaker 3: to tone down because you have a lot of person that, yeah,

1186
00:54:15,440 --> 00:54:18,480
Speaker 3: absolutely like like being with certain men, you know, they

1187
00:54:18,520 --> 00:54:21,120
Speaker 3: were like they would like tell me that I'm dressing

1188
00:54:21,200 --> 00:54:23,239
Speaker 3: so ranchi, that I want to be seen by too

1189
00:54:23,280 --> 00:54:25,520
Speaker 3: many other men, that I want to be the center

1190
00:54:25,560 --> 00:54:28,240
Speaker 3: of attention, that I'm always loud, that I don't always

1191
00:54:28,239 --> 00:54:29,920
Speaker 3: have to be the center of attention, like all that

1192
00:54:30,000 --> 00:54:31,600
Speaker 3: ship is like, I don't.

1193
00:54:31,680 --> 00:54:32,600
Speaker 1: I don't force.

1194
00:54:32,440 --> 00:54:34,520
Speaker 2: Myself to be the centertention, which I am.

1195
00:54:34,640 --> 00:54:37,480
Speaker 1: I am, I don't.

1196
00:54:38,160 --> 00:54:38,479
Speaker 2: I don't.

1197
00:54:38,520 --> 00:54:41,320
Speaker 3: I don't mean to put on my booty shirts and

1198
00:54:41,360 --> 00:54:43,920
Speaker 3: my half shirts, bitch. That's that's that's what I'm comfortable,

1199
00:54:44,600 --> 00:54:52,880
Speaker 3: you know, And like they become jealousy you. I can't

1200
00:54:54,080 --> 00:54:59,040
Speaker 3: no other like explanation, because it's like if you don't

1201
00:54:59,120 --> 00:55:01,319
Speaker 3: like me so bad and you think I do too much,

1202
00:55:01,360 --> 00:55:03,759
Speaker 3: you think I'm too loud, why are you still around me?

1203
00:55:04,160 --> 00:55:07,880
Speaker 3: You want to watch the door open elevation of me

1204
00:55:08,480 --> 00:55:10,400
Speaker 3: and then drain me at the same time, leave me

1205
00:55:10,440 --> 00:55:13,240
Speaker 3: the fuck alone, go on bat your life. Like if

1206
00:55:13,480 --> 00:55:17,000
Speaker 3: if you don't like WHOAII am, how I carry myself,

1207
00:55:17,000 --> 00:55:19,279
Speaker 3: how I how I walk, how I how I talk,

1208
00:55:19,680 --> 00:55:21,200
Speaker 3: how I put on for my women.

1209
00:55:21,480 --> 00:55:24,279
Speaker 1: Don't be around me please, like just don't like.

1210
00:55:24,560 --> 00:55:29,000
Speaker 3: Friends, family, relationships, all that shit, like no like And

1211
00:55:29,600 --> 00:55:34,520
Speaker 3: I have dimmed myself down so so much within my

1212
00:55:34,640 --> 00:55:38,320
Speaker 3: life there at a like in the beginning of my career,

1213
00:55:38,400 --> 00:55:40,120
Speaker 3: Like it was like slowing me down because I was

1214
00:55:40,120 --> 00:55:41,799
Speaker 3: trying to be somebody that I was not trying to

1215
00:55:41,800 --> 00:55:44,520
Speaker 3: make them, trying to make a motherfucker that I was comfortable.

1216
00:55:44,680 --> 00:55:47,800
Speaker 3: I cannot make you comfortable because that makes me uncomfortable.

1217
00:55:47,960 --> 00:55:49,840
Speaker 3: I don't want to pose, I don't want to be cute,

1218
00:55:50,000 --> 00:55:51,600
Speaker 3: I don't want to do shit. And I'm and I'm

1219
00:55:51,680 --> 00:55:54,360
Speaker 3: draining as fucking I'm always sleeping because you're draining me.

1220
00:55:55,560 --> 00:55:57,279
Speaker 3: You want me to be the next motherfucker that I'm not.

1221
00:55:57,760 --> 00:56:00,000
Speaker 3: I would rather be me, and I would rather you

1222
00:56:00,080 --> 00:56:02,520
Speaker 3: be you, and I'd rather be separate because guess what,

1223
00:56:03,360 --> 00:56:08,240
Speaker 3: you separate yourself, you won't eventually find somebody that's cool

1224
00:56:08,400 --> 00:56:10,120
Speaker 3: with this version of yourself.

1225
00:56:09,800 --> 00:56:12,439
Speaker 1: And gonna love it down. Don't hurt me out.

1226
00:56:12,640 --> 00:56:16,120
Speaker 2: Let's talk about the people that would meet you in

1227
00:56:16,800 --> 00:56:18,719
Speaker 2: Like who you are and then to try to change you,

1228
00:56:18,800 --> 00:56:22,080
Speaker 2: because they'd be like, well, we together, so let's change

1229
00:56:22,120 --> 00:56:22,760
Speaker 2: what you do.

1230
00:56:27,040 --> 00:56:29,160
Speaker 1: Because the same.

1231
00:56:31,280 --> 00:56:34,279
Speaker 2: All right, about to get into that we about to

1232
00:56:34,280 --> 00:56:34,640
Speaker 2: get into.

1233
00:56:36,560 --> 00:56:39,759
Speaker 1: Is it not the same thing that attracted you to me? Now?

1234
00:56:39,920 --> 00:56:43,520
Speaker 3: Is the thing that makes you want to change me?

1235
00:56:44,000 --> 00:56:46,279
Speaker 2: And then they would change you and go out of

1236
00:56:46,320 --> 00:56:47,520
Speaker 2: the bitches that used to be.

1237
00:56:47,920 --> 00:56:51,080
Speaker 1: They'd be under the lights and the comments follows all that.

1238
00:56:51,160 --> 00:56:56,960
Speaker 2: Ship girl, it's a crazy time. We're gonna go too

1239
00:56:56,960 --> 00:56:57,879
Speaker 2: deep because.

1240
00:56:57,640 --> 00:57:03,200
Speaker 3: I mean, but that's been through it especially, I think too.

1241
00:57:03,320 --> 00:57:05,520
Speaker 3: When you could talk, when you're in this space, in

1242
00:57:05,560 --> 00:57:08,880
Speaker 3: this space of like you know, being in social media,

1243
00:57:09,200 --> 00:57:13,480
Speaker 3: getting popular, having she going on, niggas be wanting to

1244
00:57:13,480 --> 00:57:14,719
Speaker 3: fuck with you a lot of the time because they

1245
00:57:14,800 --> 00:57:17,560
Speaker 3: see everything you got going on. Then when you become

1246
00:57:17,600 --> 00:57:22,080
Speaker 3: their girl or you start sucking with them, they be like, actually, calm,

1247
00:57:23,360 --> 00:57:24,760
Speaker 3: I think you should change these.

1248
00:57:24,840 --> 00:57:26,520
Speaker 1: I don't think you should say this. I don't think

1249
00:57:26,520 --> 00:57:27,280
Speaker 1: you should wear these.

1250
00:57:27,640 --> 00:57:29,880
Speaker 3: I don't think you should shake your ass online no more.

1251
00:57:30,040 --> 00:57:31,920
Speaker 3: I don't think you you should shake your But you

1252
00:57:32,200 --> 00:57:33,840
Speaker 3: liked when I was shaking my ass. That's when you

1253
00:57:33,880 --> 00:57:35,920
Speaker 3: sliding my DM.

1254
00:57:35,960 --> 00:57:37,919
Speaker 1: That's why I be so. But that's why.

1255
00:57:38,080 --> 00:57:40,120
Speaker 2: But I'm glad that you said that you gotta find

1256
00:57:40,200 --> 00:57:44,520
Speaker 2: somebody that likes you for you, because honestly, oh my god,

1257
00:57:44,600 --> 00:57:47,600
Speaker 2: I just dealt with that ship so fucking much, and

1258
00:57:47,680 --> 00:57:49,479
Speaker 2: now I just have a person that braces that because

1259
00:57:49,480 --> 00:57:51,320
Speaker 2: he'd be like, you mind, I don't give.

1260
00:57:51,240 --> 00:57:54,120
Speaker 1: A dad, he'd be like heavy, he don't.

1261
00:57:53,960 --> 00:57:55,919
Speaker 2: Be worried about nothing because he know.

1262
00:57:58,400 --> 00:57:58,960
Speaker 1: A line.

1263
00:57:59,640 --> 00:58:01,880
Speaker 2: But you know what it is. Though, I think this

1264
00:58:01,920 --> 00:58:04,920
Speaker 2: is about me. I'm a very loyal person too, Like

1265
00:58:05,000 --> 00:58:06,000
Speaker 2: I am loyal.

1266
00:58:05,720 --> 00:58:09,280
Speaker 1: To a fault. So I feel like there, I.

1267
00:58:09,200 --> 00:58:10,960
Speaker 2: Don't give a fuck what I post online, don't give

1268
00:58:11,000 --> 00:58:12,600
Speaker 2: fuck about what I say on the show. Like people

1269
00:58:12,600 --> 00:58:14,480
Speaker 2: in real life know me and they know my character.

1270
00:58:14,960 --> 00:58:17,200
Speaker 2: So if you're if you're with somebody, and I'm not

1271
00:58:17,200 --> 00:58:19,840
Speaker 2: even talking about relationship, I'm talking about friendship. Wise, I

1272
00:58:19,840 --> 00:58:22,760
Speaker 2: can say anything on this show, maybe just for the

1273
00:58:22,800 --> 00:58:25,120
Speaker 2: sake of conversation. I'm entertaining.

1274
00:58:25,680 --> 00:58:27,040
Speaker 1: Drea know how I feel about her.

1275
00:58:27,240 --> 00:58:30,840
Speaker 2: That's why when y'all getting these comments to be like, oh, Alexandrea, oh,

1276
00:58:30,880 --> 00:58:32,840
Speaker 2: they don't really get along, they can't. I don't give

1277
00:58:32,840 --> 00:58:34,800
Speaker 2: a fuck what y'all think. I know my relationship with

1278
00:58:34,840 --> 00:58:37,080
Speaker 2: my friend in real life, and I know, like, literally,

1279
00:58:37,440 --> 00:58:40,000
Speaker 2: my day don't start. I text Dre every morning. I'll

1280
00:58:40,040 --> 00:58:41,640
Speaker 2: just be texting. I don't even be wont shit. I'll

1281
00:58:41,640 --> 00:58:46,240
Speaker 2: be like, good morning. She'd be like, but but that's

1282
00:58:46,280 --> 00:58:48,360
Speaker 2: our friendship, you know what I'm saying. I don't need

1283
00:58:48,400 --> 00:58:52,000
Speaker 2: approval from anybody. So I feel like, when you're with

1284
00:58:52,080 --> 00:58:55,560
Speaker 2: somebody who really gets you friend wise, relationship wise, you

1285
00:58:55,560 --> 00:58:58,240
Speaker 2: can just be yourself. So I don't feel the pressures of,

1286
00:58:58,360 --> 00:59:00,720
Speaker 2: you know, being sexy anymore. For a while, used to

1287
00:59:00,760 --> 00:59:03,360
Speaker 2: feel even the pressures of being funny. Sometimes I don't

1288
00:59:03,360 --> 00:59:04,880
Speaker 2: want to crack a joke, bitch, I want.

1289
00:59:04,800 --> 00:59:06,000
Speaker 1: To see her. I want to be serious.

1290
00:59:06,000 --> 00:59:07,600
Speaker 2: I don't want to talk about Adam and.

1291
00:59:07,520 --> 00:59:11,200
Speaker 1: Eve and what I know about about low and warming.

1292
00:59:11,360 --> 00:59:14,760
Speaker 2: Hello. I want to talk about just how many moons

1293
00:59:14,800 --> 00:59:18,600
Speaker 2: there are in the solar system ship listen.

1294
00:59:18,680 --> 00:59:21,240
Speaker 1: No, I want to talk about what the fuck is

1295
00:59:21,280 --> 00:59:21,840
Speaker 1: going on.

1296
00:59:21,760 --> 00:59:24,160
Speaker 2: Right now and why they said they steady canceling all

1297
00:59:24,160 --> 00:59:26,560
Speaker 2: these flights on my some weather and it's sunny as fuck?

1298
00:59:26,760 --> 00:59:29,040
Speaker 1: Hello, what's going on?

1299
00:59:31,120 --> 00:59:34,640
Speaker 2: We want to know what's going on. I'm crack jokes on.

1300
00:59:35,000 --> 00:59:36,320
Speaker 3: Just let me know if I need to take my

1301
00:59:36,360 --> 00:59:38,360
Speaker 3: money out this bank right now, because don't take my

1302
00:59:38,360 --> 00:59:39,959
Speaker 3: ship because I'm because I'm coming out of stone.

1303
00:59:40,000 --> 00:59:40,760
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie, y'all.

1304
00:59:40,800 --> 00:59:43,000
Speaker 2: I just open like a little account and I got

1305
00:59:43,000 --> 00:59:44,800
Speaker 2: my money in there. So honestly, if that's something going

1306
00:59:44,840 --> 00:59:46,520
Speaker 2: on with these Mex accounts, and let me know, because

1307
00:59:46,600 --> 00:59:51,440
Speaker 2: all my money in there, please don't take my money.

1308
00:59:51,520 --> 00:59:55,080
Speaker 2: And crablegs, don't take my stuff period trying to be

1309
00:59:55,120 --> 01:00:00,000
Speaker 2: broken into the bed out.

1310
00:59:59,000 --> 01:00:04,040
Speaker 3: Bye about about about okay, So fires you want to

1311
01:00:04,080 --> 01:00:05,880
Speaker 3: take a shot because you ain't took a shot.

1312
01:00:06,040 --> 01:00:09,360
Speaker 1: I think we all should take on shot. Why not?

1313
01:00:09,720 --> 01:00:12,160
Speaker 2: Okay, I'll take a shot. Okay, you gotta go ahead

1314
01:00:12,160 --> 01:00:15,080
Speaker 2: and pour soup. I'm like, why not let me know,

1315
01:00:16,400 --> 01:00:21,760
Speaker 2: take no effort, stop pulling my legs. I got a

1316
01:00:21,800 --> 01:00:26,280
Speaker 2: bottle up patrol, a drug dealers out.

1317
01:00:26,520 --> 01:00:30,520
Speaker 1: She's gonna pull up a bottle patrol and let me

1318
01:00:30,600 --> 01:00:31,440
Speaker 1: a drug dealer.

1319
01:00:31,520 --> 01:00:35,320
Speaker 2: Back in the day they are draining out like the

1320
01:00:35,640 --> 01:00:39,880
Speaker 2: drug deal Now, I can't do that, Like, do not

1321
01:00:39,960 --> 01:00:41,320
Speaker 2: say then that you're coming to pick me up at

1322
01:00:41,320 --> 01:00:43,280
Speaker 2: eight pm and bach you thing's gonna fill up a

1323
01:00:43,320 --> 01:00:44,919
Speaker 2: two no in the morning.

1324
01:00:44,920 --> 01:00:45,880
Speaker 1: But I'm not coming up the house.

1325
01:00:45,920 --> 01:00:49,480
Speaker 2: Fuck you, No, no, I'm not doing that. I think

1326
01:00:49,480 --> 01:00:51,880
Speaker 2: I'm gonna get my nails done. Likes look real good. No,

1327
01:00:51,920 --> 01:00:55,200
Speaker 2: it's crazy. I think I'm gonna get them longer. Okay,

1328
01:00:55,280 --> 01:00:58,080
Speaker 2: see I going show normally a long girl.

1329
01:00:58,640 --> 01:01:01,600
Speaker 1: Girl. I love the listen.

1330
01:01:01,640 --> 01:01:03,720
Speaker 3: Like I am, I am still kind of brainwashed a

1331
01:01:03,720 --> 01:01:07,480
Speaker 3: little bit because I'd be over thinking, like what if

1332
01:01:07,520 --> 01:01:09,400
Speaker 3: my nails long and then the bitch just sneap me

1333
01:01:09,400 --> 01:01:11,680
Speaker 3: from behind that your fingers.

1334
01:01:11,320 --> 01:01:16,560
Speaker 2: Gonna be and I'm like, I need to be security out.

1335
01:01:16,720 --> 01:01:16,919
Speaker 4: Man.

1336
01:01:18,600 --> 01:01:19,960
Speaker 1: He used to be fighting for real.

1337
01:01:20,040 --> 01:01:23,400
Speaker 2: Man, I'm so traumatized all my life.

1338
01:01:22,080 --> 01:01:25,640
Speaker 1: I just can't believe you used to be fighting like.

1339
01:01:25,640 --> 01:01:27,040
Speaker 2: They used think that was gonna bully me.

1340
01:01:27,120 --> 01:01:29,960
Speaker 3: That's the gag, like because I have always been like this,

1341
01:01:29,960 --> 01:01:32,480
Speaker 3: this this cool ass person that would be so like

1342
01:01:32,760 --> 01:01:35,320
Speaker 3: funny and ship and I can jone bitch. So whenever

1343
01:01:35,360 --> 01:01:37,840
Speaker 3: somebody said some ignorant and then I'd be like, bitch,

1344
01:01:37,880 --> 01:01:38,640
Speaker 3: you ever talked about you?

1345
01:01:39,800 --> 01:01:41,520
Speaker 1: But yeah, like like.

1346
01:01:42,680 --> 01:01:46,200
Speaker 3: Bitches used to be trauma fight and be like and

1347
01:01:46,240 --> 01:01:48,320
Speaker 3: I'd be like, damn you want to fight us song

1348
01:01:48,440 --> 01:01:51,760
Speaker 3: like now and then we were literally like you to

1349
01:01:51,800 --> 01:01:54,040
Speaker 3: fight and and then like I'll be like, but I

1350
01:01:54,040 --> 01:01:55,480
Speaker 3: ain't even mad enough to even fight you. And then

1351
01:01:55,560 --> 01:01:57,080
Speaker 3: and then they'd be like because you know, I with

1352
01:01:57,160 --> 01:02:02,400
Speaker 3: your ass but you yeah yeah, and it's and it's

1353
01:02:02,440 --> 01:02:05,280
Speaker 3: and it's so hard to just like, you know, just shake.

1354
01:02:06,400 --> 01:02:09,760
Speaker 3: What was the last time you got about say, two.

1355
01:02:09,600 --> 01:02:14,760
Speaker 2: Weeks ago, the last time that I was in an altercation.

1356
01:02:15,040 --> 01:02:18,720
Speaker 2: Was it before like your music started popping on, like noah,

1357
01:02:18,800 --> 01:02:20,920
Speaker 2: So it was it was it was during the it

1358
01:02:21,000 --> 01:02:22,920
Speaker 2: was during the time that I was blowing up and

1359
01:02:27,400 --> 01:02:28,920
Speaker 2: a bitch thought she was gonna pull up to my

1360
01:02:28,920 --> 01:02:31,320
Speaker 2: sister house and I'm just like, oh my god, Like

1361
01:02:31,560 --> 01:02:32,400
Speaker 2: she pulled up to the house.

1362
01:02:32,400 --> 01:02:33,280
Speaker 1: I'm talking and so.

1363
01:02:38,800 --> 01:02:41,400
Speaker 2: Y'all like like literally pulls up.

1364
01:02:41,480 --> 01:02:43,880
Speaker 3: I'm like yo, like and then somebody nils as long

1365
01:02:43,920 --> 01:02:45,720
Speaker 3: as fuck like yos, this is why I'm scaring now.

1366
01:02:45,960 --> 01:02:48,200
Speaker 3: I'm like, yo, bitch, I'm not gonna be the rass

1367
01:02:48,200 --> 01:02:52,680
Speaker 3: Like I'm biting them wholes off like I'm popping them bitch.

1368
01:02:52,760 --> 01:02:53,640
Speaker 1: No, no, no, no.

1369
01:02:53,520 --> 01:02:55,880
Speaker 3: I literally was like popping them with with with every

1370
01:02:55,880 --> 01:02:58,040
Speaker 3: bike and I like come out of the house like

1371
01:02:58,840 --> 01:03:00,640
Speaker 3: I call you know, I'm just going easy, just like

1372
01:03:00,800 --> 01:03:09,240
Speaker 3: right and listen for for for legal purposes, this is

1373
01:03:09,240 --> 01:03:10,520
Speaker 3: this is this is a total line.

1374
01:03:10,560 --> 01:03:17,800
Speaker 1: Like I'm just making the line hypothetically speaking.

1375
01:03:17,920 --> 01:03:20,439
Speaker 3: It's just like that was the moment that I told

1376
01:03:20,520 --> 01:03:23,640
Speaker 3: my friends, my family, every like everybody, I'm like, I'm

1377
01:03:23,680 --> 01:03:26,040
Speaker 3: not coming outside no more. Do not Like I was

1378
01:03:26,080 --> 01:03:29,040
Speaker 3: that I was the muscle that every time that somebody

1379
01:03:29,080 --> 01:03:31,720
Speaker 3: want to fight, like, bitch, I'm trying to pull up,

1380
01:03:31,720 --> 01:03:33,080
Speaker 3: pull up, pull up, and I'm and I'm and I'm

1381
01:03:33,080 --> 01:03:35,520
Speaker 3: pulling up like like and then like since I was

1382
01:03:35,560 --> 01:03:37,680
Speaker 3: always the smallest bitch out the bunch, you know, it

1383
01:03:37,720 --> 01:03:39,360
Speaker 3: would be the bitch they was like, let's get her,

1384
01:03:39,720 --> 01:03:43,880
Speaker 3: and it's like time you eight, don't even worry about it.

1385
01:03:44,120 --> 01:03:46,280
Speaker 3: I like this, you know, because it was it was

1386
01:03:46,360 --> 01:03:48,040
Speaker 3: always the bigger ones trying to comfort me.

1387
01:03:48,080 --> 01:03:50,120
Speaker 1: But I've always been strong all in my life.

1388
01:03:49,960 --> 01:03:51,439
Speaker 3: Because even though that was getting put out of school,

1389
01:03:51,440 --> 01:03:53,720
Speaker 3: I was always in sports, so like I was always

1390
01:03:54,120 --> 01:03:55,960
Speaker 3: trying on my fucking body to just be this beast,

1391
01:03:56,000 --> 01:03:58,360
Speaker 3: you know. So like they would think that they're just

1392
01:03:58,400 --> 01:03:59,160
Speaker 3: gonna drag.

1393
01:03:59,000 --> 01:04:00,640
Speaker 2: Me around the whole time when it's a fight start,

1394
01:04:00,640 --> 01:04:01,880
Speaker 2: but I'm picking you up off your feet and I'm

1395
01:04:01,920 --> 01:04:04,080
Speaker 2: dragging on the floor and just you know. So it's

1396
01:04:04,120 --> 01:04:08,200
Speaker 2: like I don't want to be that person. But every

1397
01:04:08,240 --> 01:04:10,760
Speaker 2: I think everybody has that friend that they call, Like

1398
01:04:10,880 --> 01:04:12,520
Speaker 2: so you were the friend that everybody was calling.

1399
01:04:12,960 --> 01:04:14,480
Speaker 1: I have a friend I can call and.

1400
01:04:14,800 --> 01:04:17,440
Speaker 2: When it was I would just get jumped if if

1401
01:04:17,520 --> 01:04:19,240
Speaker 2: if if it was like need to be out, I

1402
01:04:19,240 --> 01:04:21,320
Speaker 2: would just get jumped or if not, I'll just do that.

1403
01:04:21,360 --> 01:04:22,480
Speaker 2: But it's like I'm not calling nobody.

1404
01:04:22,720 --> 01:04:24,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, so if you with me, but if you're not,

1405
01:04:24,520 --> 01:04:26,640
Speaker 1: you're not. I just can't believe you used to be

1406
01:04:26,680 --> 01:04:27,240
Speaker 1: fighting like.

1407
01:04:29,080 --> 01:04:31,760
Speaker 3: I am, Like I am sweet, but it's like like

1408
01:04:32,040 --> 01:04:35,040
Speaker 3: us sweet people is the one that they try that

1409
01:04:35,160 --> 01:04:37,320
Speaker 3: the bitches is just nick picnic pic nick pick and

1410
01:04:37,360 --> 01:04:37,960
Speaker 3: then as soon as we.

1411
01:04:37,920 --> 01:04:39,280
Speaker 1: Repine, then we are the problem.

1412
01:04:39,320 --> 01:04:42,720
Speaker 2: Then then we bitch should always want to be out

1413
01:04:42,720 --> 01:04:43,480
Speaker 2: here fighting, you know.

1414
01:04:43,560 --> 01:04:45,800
Speaker 3: So it's so it's very hard to just shake that mindset.

1415
01:04:45,800 --> 01:04:47,200
Speaker 3: But being in so I got shit to lose. Now

1416
01:04:47,360 --> 01:04:49,400
Speaker 3: people gonna sue us, No, that's all I can say.

1417
01:04:49,480 --> 01:04:51,040
Speaker 1: You can't. I'm not gonna lie.

1418
01:04:51,120 --> 01:04:53,160
Speaker 2: I have a friend that I call every time, like

1419
01:04:53,200 --> 01:04:54,600
Speaker 2: if I feel like something going down, I haven't had

1420
01:04:54,640 --> 01:04:56,040
Speaker 2: to call her the long time. I think the last

1421
01:04:56,040 --> 01:04:58,160
Speaker 2: time I called her was when we had lasagna gate

1422
01:04:58,880 --> 01:05:01,120
Speaker 2: at Jerome Houses.

1423
01:05:01,160 --> 01:05:04,240
Speaker 1: I thought, yeah, but I remember who you called. I

1424
01:05:04,320 --> 01:05:06,400
Speaker 1: called Diamond. I definitely called Dimond.

1425
01:05:07,000 --> 01:05:10,320
Speaker 3: Please, bitch, Diamond, you know what Diamond. I already know

1426
01:05:10,360 --> 01:05:11,720
Speaker 3: that you can fight because my name Diamond.

1427
01:05:11,840 --> 01:05:16,240
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, Domon is my Yeah, Domond, don't play baby Diamond.

1428
01:05:16,240 --> 01:05:18,640
Speaker 1: When then I say, she don't play about me? Love

1429
01:05:18,720 --> 01:05:19,320
Speaker 1: that Diamond?

1430
01:05:19,640 --> 01:05:22,280
Speaker 2: I look, I said, Diamond. She said, oh way, you

1431
01:05:22,320 --> 01:05:27,320
Speaker 2: as think I'm on the way you like to say,

1432
01:05:27,360 --> 01:05:28,200
Speaker 2: I know it's yeah.

1433
01:05:28,240 --> 01:05:33,480
Speaker 1: Everybody friend Jason will be a beach. She's always on go.

1434
01:05:35,080 --> 01:05:36,360
Speaker 1: I have these cousins.

1435
01:05:38,000 --> 01:05:42,360
Speaker 3: Their last name is married me, so if Mrmy married me,

1436
01:05:42,720 --> 01:05:47,040
Speaker 3: marry me married mean Merriman. Okay, three sisters and Louis,

1437
01:05:47,440 --> 01:05:52,040
Speaker 3: y'all know are hawks. When I say like, we were

1438
01:05:52,120 --> 01:05:53,960
Speaker 3: literally fun to get junk and I'm just like y'all

1439
01:05:53,960 --> 01:05:55,200
Speaker 3: were funny get I asked, but.

1440
01:05:55,240 --> 01:05:57,320
Speaker 2: Let's go do it.

1441
01:05:57,960 --> 01:06:01,920
Speaker 1: We're watching a video back. My cousin a bitch. She

1442
01:06:01,960 --> 01:06:02,640
Speaker 1: didn't that.

1443
01:06:02,720 --> 01:06:04,800
Speaker 2: Bitch and full out the sky, how did you just

1444
01:06:04,840 --> 01:06:05,200
Speaker 2: flip this?

1445
01:06:05,600 --> 01:06:07,720
Speaker 1: This guy that ship went viral?

1446
01:06:08,600 --> 01:06:14,480
Speaker 2: Marble characters that be the hood bitchest listen and they

1447
01:06:14,560 --> 01:06:15,360
Speaker 2: mama can fight too.

1448
01:06:15,880 --> 01:06:16,120
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1449
01:06:16,360 --> 01:06:19,840
Speaker 3: So it's like all them like yo, me and my

1450
01:06:19,920 --> 01:06:22,040
Speaker 3: cousins against whoever think they can book.

1451
01:06:22,360 --> 01:06:25,200
Speaker 1: Yo, be doing that but not no more not no.

1452
01:06:25,280 --> 01:06:28,680
Speaker 2: That's how my family was in Orange. So my my family,

1453
01:06:28,720 --> 01:06:29,640
Speaker 2: my aunt, my uncle.

1454
01:06:29,680 --> 01:06:31,160
Speaker 1: They was used to be throwing.

1455
01:06:31,680 --> 01:06:33,480
Speaker 2: It wasn't my mama though, it was my honey like

1456
01:06:33,520 --> 01:06:37,160
Speaker 2: you were mimy, like I love somebody like hate like you.

1457
01:06:37,320 --> 01:06:39,440
Speaker 2: But but see she's very see she didn't do bay

1458
01:06:39,560 --> 01:06:44,240
Speaker 2: right now turned up.

1459
01:06:41,960 --> 01:06:47,120
Speaker 1: No, But what I'm saying is like that. But they grew.

1460
01:06:47,200 --> 01:06:48,440
Speaker 1: They used to be fighting growing up.

1461
01:06:48,440 --> 01:06:50,240
Speaker 2: They was in the hood. They was the so y'all

1462
01:06:50,240 --> 01:06:52,200
Speaker 2: know what the Timperdaus and Orange Texas. They didn't play

1463
01:06:52,840 --> 01:06:54,880
Speaker 2: like related talked.

1464
01:06:55,360 --> 01:06:58,760
Speaker 1: I don't know, but by them and Orange didn't play.

1465
01:06:59,040 --> 01:07:01,320
Speaker 1: We say. By the time I got to me, I.

1466
01:07:01,280 --> 01:07:04,960
Speaker 2: Was like this, oh, hey, everybody, let's just ret No.

1467
01:07:05,120 --> 01:07:07,440
Speaker 2: I used to be high school.

1468
01:07:08,280 --> 01:07:10,439
Speaker 1: I was, let's just not take it that far.

1469
01:07:10,560 --> 01:07:13,440
Speaker 2: Until I was amry because because again, like I'm non compensations.

1470
01:07:14,040 --> 01:07:16,360
Speaker 2: I don't want to hurt people like I'm too too nice.

1471
01:07:16,400 --> 01:07:17,360
Speaker 2: I don't I don't want to hurt you.

1472
01:07:17,440 --> 01:07:18,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't find.

1473
01:07:21,360 --> 01:07:23,200
Speaker 2: But the moment that motherfucker be like, I'd be like,

1474
01:07:23,960 --> 01:07:25,760
Speaker 2: call your mama side because IM gonna flip this.

1475
01:07:25,960 --> 01:07:28,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, God, And I think that's with me too, like

1476
01:07:28,520 --> 01:07:32,040
Speaker 1: I don't like to but once I'm there and I'm mad,

1477
01:07:32,520 --> 01:07:33,880
Speaker 1: Like if I'm mad.

1478
01:07:34,280 --> 01:07:36,240
Speaker 2: Like you gotta turn but you really got to turn

1479
01:07:36,240 --> 01:07:38,200
Speaker 2: the switch with me, cause I'm going to give you.

1480
01:07:38,320 --> 01:07:41,000
Speaker 2: I'm gonna be But once that switch is, there's no

1481
01:07:41,080 --> 01:07:41,440
Speaker 2: going back.

1482
01:07:41,480 --> 01:07:44,160
Speaker 1: I don't want to talk no more. That's just you're gonna.

1483
01:07:44,000 --> 01:07:44,439
Speaker 2: Beat my ass.

1484
01:07:44,440 --> 01:07:45,880
Speaker 1: I'm gona beat your ass, but let's just do it.

1485
01:07:45,880 --> 01:07:47,600
Speaker 2: I don't I don't want to argue. What's the world.

1486
01:07:47,640 --> 01:07:50,480
Speaker 2: I don't do that. I be scared to get cook,

1487
01:07:52,400 --> 01:07:55,960
Speaker 2: so I gotta I got at colesing that that happened

1488
01:07:55,960 --> 01:08:00,960
Speaker 2: to like real pretty growing up. Got to fight with

1489
01:08:01,000 --> 01:08:03,800
Speaker 2: this girl when she was like twenty two twenty three

1490
01:08:04,040 --> 01:08:06,400
Speaker 2: because she was sucking with the girl nigga that was

1491
01:08:06,440 --> 01:08:07,040
Speaker 2: at the club.

1492
01:08:07,160 --> 01:08:08,560
Speaker 1: She was dancing on the girl nigga.

1493
01:08:08,560 --> 01:08:12,560
Speaker 3: The girl ran up on her start beating, but my

1494
01:08:12,600 --> 01:08:15,560
Speaker 3: cousin could fight too, so she started fighting me the

1495
01:08:15,600 --> 01:08:20,160
Speaker 3: girl she can the girlfriend start jumping in not a

1496
01:08:20,280 --> 01:08:20,960
Speaker 3: jumping hood.

1497
01:08:21,160 --> 01:08:22,680
Speaker 1: The girl slashed.

1498
01:08:22,200 --> 01:08:26,719
Speaker 2: Her Facebook and and I'm just like, oh, bitches be crazy.

1499
01:08:27,560 --> 01:08:30,200
Speaker 1: I got a cousin. She was the girl with the raser.

1500
01:08:30,280 --> 01:08:32,760
Speaker 1: My cousin is a girl, go bite your face.

1501
01:08:32,960 --> 01:08:34,920
Speaker 3: I like, I was the bitch that was that was

1502
01:08:35,040 --> 01:08:41,200
Speaker 3: that was literally going to bite I was the bitch

1503
01:08:41,240 --> 01:08:43,720
Speaker 3: that was that was going to fuck you up in

1504
01:08:43,920 --> 01:08:47,040
Speaker 3: some way that you were gonna remember for the rest.

1505
01:08:47,160 --> 01:08:48,880
Speaker 1: Like I'm very calculated, That's.

1506
01:08:48,720 --> 01:08:49,559
Speaker 2: What I'm saying.

1507
01:08:49,680 --> 01:08:51,640
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's why I don't want to be like I

1508
01:08:51,640 --> 01:08:53,720
Speaker 3: don't I don't want that side of me coming out.

1509
01:08:53,720 --> 01:08:55,920
Speaker 3: But that bitch is under my surface, you know, like

1510
01:08:56,360 --> 01:08:59,840
Speaker 3: when I see videos of people just pasting it going crazy,

1511
01:08:59,840 --> 01:09:01,800
Speaker 3: but like the world is trying to shun in because

1512
01:09:01,800 --> 01:09:02,599
Speaker 3: of the ship today.

1513
01:09:02,400 --> 01:09:05,320
Speaker 1: Saying what made them say that? What got them?

1514
01:09:06,360 --> 01:09:09,240
Speaker 2: I'm not canceling nobody until I know the full store,

1515
01:09:09,280 --> 01:09:11,720
Speaker 2: but I'm not going to offer what they're what made

1516
01:09:11,760 --> 01:09:14,280
Speaker 2: them say? What did you do?

1517
01:09:14,760 --> 01:09:15,599
Speaker 1: Because bitch, they.

1518
01:09:15,479 --> 01:09:18,679
Speaker 2: Will bully you to you a motherfucking demon saying fuck

1519
01:09:18,760 --> 01:09:24,080
Speaker 2: you and whoever and you want looking girl words year.

1520
01:09:24,160 --> 01:09:28,759
Speaker 1: This episode is called Big Boss Bites by Yo by.

1521
01:09:30,240 --> 01:09:33,200
Speaker 2: Like that we done got in the whole nother top

1522
01:09:33,240 --> 01:09:33,719
Speaker 2: and we were.

1523
01:09:36,479 --> 01:09:36,639
Speaker 4: Big.

1524
01:09:38,080 --> 01:09:42,000
Speaker 2: Let's take our shots because we got one on the

1525
01:09:42,120 --> 01:09:44,559
Speaker 2: topic talking about fighting holes and ship?

1526
01:09:45,400 --> 01:09:47,120
Speaker 1: Are you having a game? All right?

1527
01:09:57,640 --> 01:10:01,080
Speaker 2: Uh? To the girls reuniting and to big Boss band

1528
01:10:01,160 --> 01:10:10,400
Speaker 2: poor minds doing big things. It's y'all, I'm about to

1529
01:10:10,439 --> 01:10:13,679
Speaker 2: be real drownk me so okay, right, So now we're.

1530
01:10:13,600 --> 01:10:18,960
Speaker 1: Gonna get into the bed out the bed bow bou

1531
01:10:19,400 --> 01:10:21,040
Speaker 1: bout about bow about.

1532
01:10:21,560 --> 01:10:23,479
Speaker 2: So I'm wanting to talk about this so well, I

1533
01:10:23,479 --> 01:10:25,680
Speaker 2: think we both did well. You really brought this up

1534
01:10:25,760 --> 01:10:29,920
Speaker 2: because I think this is stupid. I think this is childish.

1535
01:10:30,120 --> 01:10:33,160
Speaker 2: I hate it. I feel like this is giving high school.

1536
01:10:33,200 --> 01:10:35,360
Speaker 2: But some people are like, no, it's adventure ass Like

1537
01:10:35,400 --> 01:10:38,679
Speaker 2: I can't wait till I get home.

1538
01:10:39,560 --> 01:10:42,840
Speaker 1: M se, How do y'all feel about having sex in

1539
01:10:42,880 --> 01:10:45,360
Speaker 1: the car? I don't like eat no more because I

1540
01:10:45,400 --> 01:10:49,679
Speaker 1: went to jail. Okay, we know you wait baby, Okay,

1541
01:10:49,720 --> 01:10:50,000
Speaker 1: so he me?

1542
01:10:50,160 --> 01:10:52,200
Speaker 2: How so I have heard so many stories about you

1543
01:10:52,200 --> 01:10:57,280
Speaker 2: going to jail. You have six cring ship. Yeah, I'm sorry,

1544
01:10:57,400 --> 01:11:02,160
Speaker 2: but do they like really make you like a if

1545
01:11:02,200 --> 01:11:03,839
Speaker 2: you get caught having sex in public?

1546
01:11:03,920 --> 01:11:05,200
Speaker 1: Like what the fuck happens?

1547
01:11:05,400 --> 01:11:09,720
Speaker 3: Normally they do? But luckily I was in college when

1548
01:11:09,720 --> 01:11:12,080
Speaker 3: it's happened to me. So I was like eighteen nineteen.

1549
01:11:12,120 --> 01:11:14,719
Speaker 3: It was my freshman year of college. And so luckily

1550
01:11:14,840 --> 01:11:18,000
Speaker 3: the officer that had arrested us, he was just like, oh,

1551
01:11:18,120 --> 01:11:19,200
Speaker 3: I see you in school.

1552
01:11:19,600 --> 01:11:21,040
Speaker 1: He was like, So, I'm not gonna.

1553
01:11:20,800 --> 01:11:24,160
Speaker 3: Put it as for you to be a sex offender.

1554
01:11:24,200 --> 01:11:27,760
Speaker 3: I'm gonna put it for public intoxication. Should have so

1555
01:11:27,800 --> 01:11:29,679
Speaker 3: he put me when I.

1556
01:11:29,600 --> 01:11:32,080
Speaker 2: Was in your bed that time, so he should have

1557
01:11:32,280 --> 01:11:35,120
Speaker 2: should be so he put public What the fuck?

1558
01:11:35,439 --> 01:11:39,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, gold On, go.

1559
01:11:39,200 --> 01:11:42,920
Speaker 2: Ahead, go ahead with your story. Buddy was like, he

1560
01:11:43,040 --> 01:11:45,000
Speaker 2: was like, I'm gonna put a list offense because I

1561
01:11:45,040 --> 01:11:46,720
Speaker 2: see you in school. I don't want this to like

1562
01:11:46,720 --> 01:11:49,360
Speaker 2: a fix your record. So he put a public intoxication

1563
01:11:49,439 --> 01:11:51,400
Speaker 2: for me, which was like, I think, like a class

1564
01:11:51,760 --> 01:11:53,800
Speaker 2: B misdemeanor or a Class A.

1565
01:11:54,560 --> 01:11:58,720
Speaker 1: And then no, it was a class B or Class C.

1566
01:11:59,320 --> 01:12:02,040
Speaker 3: And then the other, which is a being a sex afender,

1567
01:12:02,160 --> 01:12:04,280
Speaker 3: was like a class A, which is like close to

1568
01:12:04,320 --> 01:12:05,360
Speaker 3: being a feeling.

1569
01:12:05,720 --> 01:12:08,400
Speaker 2: So this is how I feel about car sex. Honestly,

1570
01:12:08,479 --> 01:12:11,400
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna lie, y'all. I maybe it's because I'm older,

1571
01:12:12,160 --> 01:12:15,080
Speaker 2: I'm getting into my auntie air. But again, I'm sorry,

1572
01:12:15,120 --> 01:12:17,680
Speaker 2: if I'm walking in the park, I'm jogging, I'm working out.

1573
01:12:18,160 --> 01:12:20,000
Speaker 2: I don't want to walk to my car in the

1574
01:12:20,040 --> 01:12:22,960
Speaker 2: middle of finishing shopping at Target and see people fucking

1575
01:12:23,000 --> 01:12:26,919
Speaker 2: in the car. Don't get me wrong, I love sex content,

1576
01:12:27,080 --> 01:12:27,759
Speaker 2: sex workers.

1577
01:12:27,800 --> 01:12:29,000
Speaker 1: I watch porn all.

1578
01:12:28,880 --> 01:12:31,559
Speaker 2: The time, but I think porn gets a little weird.

1579
01:12:31,600 --> 01:12:35,640
Speaker 2: I saw a girl fucking a what's it called with

1580
01:12:35,680 --> 01:12:38,960
Speaker 2: the fire the fire hydrant. She was outside knocking a

1581
01:12:39,040 --> 01:12:40,800
Speaker 2: fire hydrant.

1582
01:12:40,520 --> 01:12:44,639
Speaker 1: I I swear to God, like, what the fuck?

1583
01:12:44,840 --> 01:12:48,920
Speaker 2: But I feel like the public sex, the car sex like.

1584
01:12:49,479 --> 01:12:52,080
Speaker 2: I just think it's becoming too much. Everybody's doing things

1585
01:12:52,160 --> 01:12:55,760
Speaker 2: for shock value. I'm sorry. I feel like I am

1586
01:12:55,760 --> 01:12:56,200
Speaker 2: a person.

1587
01:12:56,280 --> 01:12:57,000
Speaker 1: I love sex.

1588
01:12:57,040 --> 01:12:58,759
Speaker 2: I love to talk about sex, sex as normal.

1589
01:12:58,800 --> 01:12:59,920
Speaker 1: We all have sex.

1590
01:13:00,320 --> 01:13:03,920
Speaker 2: But I'm also not going to be in the middle

1591
01:13:04,040 --> 01:13:07,519
Speaker 2: of Target. There have been videos of women in Target

1592
01:13:07,800 --> 01:13:11,640
Speaker 2: or men whoever doing this for only fans, picking up

1593
01:13:11,640 --> 01:13:14,719
Speaker 2: a cucumber and masturbating in the middle of a grocery store.

1594
01:13:15,320 --> 01:13:17,280
Speaker 2: It's just getting It's just becoming too much.

1595
01:13:17,360 --> 01:13:20,320
Speaker 1: I think that's back in the day. Bitches was not

1596
01:13:20,439 --> 01:13:23,320
Speaker 1: fucking in a car for at tention, Bach you was fucking.

1597
01:13:23,040 --> 01:13:26,639
Speaker 2: In a car because that's how you had right, That's

1598
01:13:26,680 --> 01:13:28,680
Speaker 2: what happened to me. That's why I'm not fucking. I

1599
01:13:28,680 --> 01:13:29,519
Speaker 2: don't fucking the car.

1600
01:13:32,000 --> 01:13:32,799
Speaker 1: Missed the officer.

1601
01:13:33,680 --> 01:13:37,120
Speaker 3: Our sex can be good, like when you both drunk

1602
01:13:37,200 --> 01:13:39,720
Speaker 3: and the winners are bitch, Bitch, my ship is ten

1603
01:13:39,800 --> 01:13:42,880
Speaker 3: in five. You can't see hand and my ass Brodie

1604
01:13:42,880 --> 01:13:44,720
Speaker 3: can see out. Bitch, you cannot see my ship, right,

1605
01:13:44,920 --> 01:13:47,800
Speaker 3: So that is when ass going ass go on the dash.

1606
01:13:47,880 --> 01:13:52,200
Speaker 3: But in this car, and if it's not spacious, I'm

1607
01:13:52,200 --> 01:13:53,599
Speaker 3: not I fuck you in this car.

1608
01:13:53,640 --> 01:13:55,960
Speaker 1: I'm not about to be uncomfortable. Honda.

1609
01:13:56,280 --> 01:13:58,120
Speaker 2: I used to have a Honda, but that was.

1610
01:13:58,040 --> 01:14:02,200
Speaker 1: My first same. Same. Now, I'm not gonna lie.

1611
01:14:02,240 --> 01:14:05,000
Speaker 2: If my nigga driving his car, he driving somewhere, I'll give.

1612
01:14:04,920 --> 01:14:06,759
Speaker 1: Him a little head. I you know, I do a little,

1613
01:14:06,760 --> 01:14:07,479
Speaker 1: some little and.

1614
01:14:07,400 --> 01:14:09,599
Speaker 3: That's cool because you don't have to be uncomfortable. It's

1615
01:14:09,680 --> 01:14:11,880
Speaker 3: uncomfortable to have sex in a small ass part.

1616
01:14:12,040 --> 01:14:14,160
Speaker 2: But also I've seen people being in the uber. The

1617
01:14:14,240 --> 01:14:16,479
Speaker 2: uber driving is driving, he's turned around here like, hey,

1618
01:14:16,760 --> 01:14:20,680
Speaker 2: that's stay comfortable. But honestly, that's sexual harassment.

1619
01:14:22,320 --> 01:14:26,320
Speaker 1: That's me, that's real, that's not okay. I don't think

1620
01:14:26,400 --> 01:14:28,480
Speaker 1: when people do click bait ship.

1621
01:14:28,280 --> 01:14:32,160
Speaker 2: That that makes another human feel uncomfortable.

1622
01:14:32,560 --> 01:14:35,439
Speaker 1: It's okay. I don't get this. And I have a.

1623
01:14:35,400 --> 01:14:37,960
Speaker 2: Sister, and my sister does only only fans, but she

1624
01:14:38,080 --> 01:14:40,880
Speaker 2: does not go so hard to just get posted on.

1625
01:14:41,200 --> 01:14:44,800
Speaker 1: Just get no. Please please please don't do that. Stop

1626
01:14:44,840 --> 01:14:45,960
Speaker 1: making things weird.

1627
01:14:46,160 --> 01:14:51,839
Speaker 2: Please, It's okay to be sexual boundary, okay, because guess.

1628
01:14:51,640 --> 01:14:54,200
Speaker 1: What, I think there's a thin line.

1629
01:14:53,920 --> 01:14:57,439
Speaker 2: Because a lot like if a woman goes out and

1630
01:14:57,479 --> 01:15:00,240
Speaker 2: she's like doing something, she sits on some vegetable and

1631
01:15:00,280 --> 01:15:02,479
Speaker 2: she's doing that, It's like, oh my god, imagine if

1632
01:15:02,640 --> 01:15:04,680
Speaker 2: if a man did that and pulled out his deck.

1633
01:15:04,720 --> 01:15:06,439
Speaker 1: I just feel like the same, we need to give

1634
01:15:06,479 --> 01:15:07,280
Speaker 1: the same rules.

1635
01:15:07,280 --> 01:15:09,960
Speaker 3: And I'm saying okay, so like hear me out, like

1636
01:15:10,040 --> 01:15:12,639
Speaker 3: if I how about the car, and I'm twerking and shit,

1637
01:15:12,720 --> 01:15:15,120
Speaker 3: like I make sure I don't see kids.

1638
01:15:15,120 --> 01:15:16,360
Speaker 1: I don't see families.

1639
01:15:16,040 --> 01:15:19,880
Speaker 3: Right because they like all right, Like yeah, so I'm grown,

1640
01:15:19,920 --> 01:15:21,200
Speaker 3: so I can do what I want to do. But

1641
01:15:21,240 --> 01:15:24,120
Speaker 3: it's a respect level of I don't if I'm I

1642
01:15:24,200 --> 01:15:26,400
Speaker 3: walking with my husband with my child, with my dog,

1643
01:15:26,880 --> 01:15:28,799
Speaker 3: I don't want to see no bitch I her shaking

1644
01:15:28,800 --> 01:15:31,080
Speaker 3: her ass chills she's gonna break our mother.

1645
01:15:31,479 --> 01:15:31,680
Speaker 2: I don't.

1646
01:15:31,720 --> 01:15:33,880
Speaker 3: I don't want to see that. So I try to

1647
01:15:33,880 --> 01:15:35,960
Speaker 3: put myself in that situations. So when I'm tworking in

1648
01:15:36,040 --> 01:15:38,040
Speaker 3: public and ship like, I'll make sure like I don't

1649
01:15:38,080 --> 01:15:41,360
Speaker 3: want to be. I try not to make people uncomfortable, right,

1650
01:15:41,520 --> 01:15:43,439
Speaker 3: I don't want that to happen because.

1651
01:15:43,320 --> 01:15:44,919
Speaker 1: I look at it like I have a nephew.

1652
01:15:45,560 --> 01:15:48,840
Speaker 2: I love my nephew like love raised, oh my God,

1653
01:15:48,880 --> 01:15:51,160
Speaker 2: like he is my baby. Both of them are peeny.

1654
01:15:51,479 --> 01:15:53,639
Speaker 2: He a little wild, but my oldest one, that's my baby.

1655
01:15:53,760 --> 01:15:55,679
Speaker 2: The little one he he he wild and crazy.

1656
01:15:55,720 --> 01:15:56,360
Speaker 1: I still love him.

1657
01:15:56,360 --> 01:15:58,960
Speaker 2: No, But either way, I don't wear nothing crazy in

1658
01:15:58,960 --> 01:16:01,320
Speaker 2: front of them. I don't talk crazy in front of them.

1659
01:16:01,320 --> 01:16:03,280
Speaker 2: I don't play that shit, and don't come around my

1660
01:16:03,360 --> 01:16:07,160
Speaker 2: nephews doing no crazy shit. My nephew he knows he

1661
01:16:07,200 --> 01:16:09,360
Speaker 2: all he knows is Auntie has a show. Do he

1662
01:16:09,439 --> 01:16:10,240
Speaker 2: know what I talk about?

1663
01:16:10,520 --> 01:16:10,680
Speaker 1: No?

1664
01:16:11,080 --> 01:16:13,320
Speaker 2: But all he knows is when Auntie come around, she

1665
01:16:13,400 --> 01:16:16,599
Speaker 2: buy him whatever he won't and she dressed concerned.

1666
01:16:16,640 --> 01:16:17,680
Speaker 1: Because that's all he need to know.

1667
01:16:18,040 --> 01:16:19,920
Speaker 2: When he turned a little older age, he need to

1668
01:16:19,960 --> 01:16:20,920
Speaker 2: ask me a little one too.

1669
01:16:20,960 --> 01:16:24,880
Speaker 1: We're gonna have the conversation. He's nine, Okay, you are.

1670
01:16:25,000 --> 01:16:28,400
Speaker 3: You are absolutely right, and you know I totally agree

1671
01:16:28,400 --> 01:16:31,320
Speaker 3: with that. On the second note, you know of my

1672
01:16:31,560 --> 01:16:33,280
Speaker 3: niece and nephews, you know, I just dressed how I

1673
01:16:33,400 --> 01:16:34,160
Speaker 3: dress because.

1674
01:16:34,160 --> 01:16:36,479
Speaker 1: They love t T. They they love t T and

1675
01:16:36,520 --> 01:16:38,479
Speaker 1: who she is, how she is, what she is.

1676
01:16:38,520 --> 01:16:38,760
Speaker 5: You know.

1677
01:16:39,479 --> 01:16:41,920
Speaker 3: Of course I don't do like sexual talk around you know,

1678
01:16:42,000 --> 01:16:44,920
Speaker 3: I don't have I don't I don't go deep around

1679
01:16:44,960 --> 01:16:47,880
Speaker 3: them because they're still kids. I'm still the cool t T.

1680
01:16:48,080 --> 01:16:49,920
Speaker 3: You know, they like they be in the room.

1681
01:16:49,800 --> 01:16:52,200
Speaker 1: Like bitch, I'm a prop. I'm like, I know, watch

1682
01:16:52,320 --> 01:16:52,720
Speaker 1: them out.

1683
01:16:52,840 --> 01:16:56,960
Speaker 2: Don't say that again. I'm a prop, right, skip the

1684
01:16:57,000 --> 01:16:59,760
Speaker 2: cussworst right now. But when they want to, I don't care.

1685
01:16:59,760 --> 01:17:02,640
Speaker 2: You Like, like I am the t T that I

1686
01:17:02,680 --> 01:17:03,320
Speaker 2: wish that I.

1687
01:17:03,240 --> 01:17:07,080
Speaker 3: Had because at certain times, you know, like when I'm

1688
01:17:07,360 --> 01:17:10,200
Speaker 3: expressing myself and I'm and I'm saying how I feel

1689
01:17:10,240 --> 01:17:12,920
Speaker 3: like I needed someone to like listen to me, to

1690
01:17:13,000 --> 01:17:16,840
Speaker 3: like beat here for me, Like like when people used

1691
01:17:16,880 --> 01:17:18,599
Speaker 3: to think that they can bully me and like make

1692
01:17:18,640 --> 01:17:20,479
Speaker 3: me feel bad because I don't how to lay the shoes,

1693
01:17:20,520 --> 01:17:22,439
Speaker 3: Like I wish that I had someone that I can

1694
01:17:22,439 --> 01:17:24,200
Speaker 3: go talk to them, but like they bullieve me buy

1695
01:17:24,240 --> 01:17:26,280
Speaker 3: my shoes.

1696
01:17:27,200 --> 01:17:27,800
Speaker 1: I didn't have that.

1697
01:17:28,000 --> 01:17:30,360
Speaker 3: I just had to have some tough as skin and

1698
01:17:30,600 --> 01:17:32,400
Speaker 3: I have to jone on a mama and they want a.

1699
01:17:32,479 --> 01:17:35,120
Speaker 1: Guess dog, bitch. I have to figure that shit out.

1700
01:17:35,560 --> 01:17:37,920
Speaker 2: And once I figure that shit out, it's like all.

1701
01:17:37,920 --> 01:17:40,880
Speaker 3: Right, you know, but going so sad to me though,

1702
01:17:40,920 --> 01:17:44,120
Speaker 3: it was like, that's really what it is for a

1703
01:17:44,160 --> 01:17:46,519
Speaker 3: lot of people, and it's fucked up because I feel

1704
01:17:46,520 --> 01:17:48,920
Speaker 3: like people put that out into the universe.

1705
01:17:48,760 --> 01:17:52,040
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Speaker 1: Once I find a good thing. But have you started

1728
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Speaker 1: going to therapy? I need to need once.

1729
01:18:57,960 --> 01:19:00,559
Speaker 3: Once I find a good therapy that I could just

1730
01:19:00,600 --> 01:19:03,040
Speaker 3: go to the first session and just fucking cry in

1731
01:19:03,040 --> 01:19:05,720
Speaker 3: my eyes on and they look at me like it's

1732
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Speaker 3: a cut.

1733
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Speaker 1: And I tell you my therapist now.

1734
01:19:08,439 --> 01:19:10,320
Speaker 2: I had a first session with her because I was like, Okay,

1735
01:19:10,360 --> 01:19:12,080
Speaker 2: I need somebody who can teach me how to grieve

1736
01:19:12,160 --> 01:19:13,240
Speaker 2: but also get over this.

1737
01:19:13,360 --> 01:19:15,120
Speaker 1: Nigga, also pour into myself.

1738
01:19:15,160 --> 01:19:18,160
Speaker 2: Hello, also prepare myself because this is before I met

1739
01:19:18,640 --> 01:19:21,240
Speaker 2: my relationship. I'm now also prepare me for this and that.

1740
01:19:21,320 --> 01:19:23,360
Speaker 2: And then also I have an energy got her so

1741
01:19:23,400 --> 01:19:24,679
Speaker 2: I was doing all this shit.

1742
01:19:25,160 --> 01:19:26,960
Speaker 1: So, yeah, people need help. People.

1743
01:19:27,000 --> 01:19:29,280
Speaker 3: It's hard finding a good therapist. I had to fire

1744
01:19:29,360 --> 01:19:32,080
Speaker 3: my therapist a few weeks ago because I felt like

1745
01:19:32,200 --> 01:19:35,200
Speaker 3: she just I'll be I will be talking to her

1746
01:19:35,320 --> 01:19:37,360
Speaker 3: and telling her what I feel like. Is like, because

1747
01:19:37,360 --> 01:19:39,280
Speaker 3: I will talk to her about my relationship that I'm

1748
01:19:39,360 --> 01:19:41,519
Speaker 3: in right now, and I'd be like, oh, you know,

1749
01:19:41,720 --> 01:19:45,519
Speaker 3: my partner says that he feels like I'm not sensitive enough,

1750
01:19:45,720 --> 01:19:48,599
Speaker 3: I'm not compassionate enough, I'm not understanding enough.

1751
01:19:48,840 --> 01:19:51,840
Speaker 1: And then I will tell her what's going on, and then.

1752
01:19:51,720 --> 01:19:54,439
Speaker 3: She would be like yeah, because at the end of

1753
01:19:54,479 --> 01:19:57,160
Speaker 3: the day, like it's not right what he doing and

1754
01:19:57,200 --> 01:19:58,760
Speaker 3: he got you fucked up, and it's like.

1755
01:19:58,960 --> 01:20:01,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, talk to me like a homegirl.

1756
01:20:01,200 --> 01:20:03,840
Speaker 2: And it's like, yeah, that's cool, but but what do

1757
01:20:03,880 --> 01:20:07,240
Speaker 2: I need to do to better communicate with him?

1758
01:20:07,479 --> 01:20:09,479
Speaker 1: Who your good therapist?

1759
01:20:09,560 --> 01:20:09,760
Speaker 2: Then?

1760
01:20:10,600 --> 01:20:11,720
Speaker 1: Who tell you what to do?

1761
01:20:12,360 --> 01:20:15,640
Speaker 5: Come on now, come on now, love Frank can't be

1762
01:20:15,680 --> 01:20:22,599
Speaker 5: a therapist, but I love, No, I can't.

1763
01:20:22,680 --> 01:20:26,680
Speaker 2: But let me tell you, I may not be on

1764
01:20:26,720 --> 01:20:30,960
Speaker 2: your side because you be wrong. But still even if

1765
01:20:31,360 --> 01:20:33,679
Speaker 2: even if you tell her that you're wrong, it ain't

1766
01:20:33,720 --> 01:20:35,200
Speaker 2: really registering to her.

1767
01:20:35,240 --> 01:20:37,080
Speaker 1: How it would somebody that.

1768
01:20:38,640 --> 01:20:41,080
Speaker 2: It needs to register her because I'd be telling us

1769
01:20:41,160 --> 01:20:41,880
Speaker 2: she'd be wrong.

1770
01:20:42,160 --> 01:20:44,400
Speaker 3: And I love that both of you bitches got y'all

1771
01:20:44,479 --> 01:20:46,200
Speaker 3: man's like, I love that for y'all. But let me

1772
01:20:46,240 --> 01:20:48,080
Speaker 3: ask you something because y'all know how I like to

1773
01:20:48,080 --> 01:20:48,880
Speaker 3: add my own topic.

1774
01:20:49,560 --> 01:20:52,879
Speaker 2: Okay, come on, now, how do y'all feel about your

1775
01:20:53,040 --> 01:20:56,800
Speaker 2: relationship as you are upcoming? You know, like if if

1776
01:20:57,080 --> 01:20:59,439
Speaker 2: like in this industry, in this game that we are in,

1777
01:21:00,120 --> 01:21:02,400
Speaker 2: people need to think that they can fluck us.

1778
01:21:02,520 --> 01:21:04,400
Speaker 1: It's just oh yeah, yeah, yeah right.

1779
01:21:04,439 --> 01:21:08,000
Speaker 2: But soon as they hear that you have someone, you

1780
01:21:08,040 --> 01:21:12,719
Speaker 2: have someone, it's like, guess what what I told you earlier?

1781
01:21:13,280 --> 01:21:15,599
Speaker 2: I said, because he knows me, he knows I'm so loyal,

1782
01:21:15,840 --> 01:21:17,559
Speaker 2: he knows it's gonna be a it's gonna have to

1783
01:21:17,560 --> 01:21:19,360
Speaker 2: be a little ass nigga to take me away from

1784
01:21:19,360 --> 01:21:22,240
Speaker 2: my nigga. It's gonna have to be somebody. But and

1785
01:21:22,280 --> 01:21:23,240
Speaker 2: it's not gonna happen.

1786
01:21:23,320 --> 01:21:25,680
Speaker 1: But as far as like, but.

1787
01:21:25,640 --> 01:21:29,840
Speaker 2: If your say, stop saying this show, stop saying that

1788
01:21:29,880 --> 01:21:32,839
Speaker 2: on the show, what what would you do with yourself?

1789
01:21:32,840 --> 01:21:35,760
Speaker 2: But let me tell you a conversation, because I don't

1790
01:21:35,800 --> 01:21:39,519
Speaker 2: want to. I'm really big on I love my nigga,

1791
01:21:39,920 --> 01:21:42,520
Speaker 2: but I don't want to lose myself in a relationship.

1792
01:21:43,400 --> 01:21:45,320
Speaker 2: I don't ever want to lose myself period.

1793
01:21:45,400 --> 01:21:47,719
Speaker 1: We knew what I was doing with a relationship.

1794
01:21:47,240 --> 01:21:49,719
Speaker 3: Being a partner, whether it comes to being a mom,

1795
01:21:50,120 --> 01:21:52,040
Speaker 3: like I want to be the best mom I could be.

1796
01:21:52,120 --> 01:21:53,320
Speaker 1: I want to be the best.

1797
01:21:53,080 --> 01:21:56,960
Speaker 3: Partner I can mean, but I still want to be myself.

1798
01:21:57,479 --> 01:21:59,640
Speaker 3: And I feel like if you met me as my

1799
01:21:59,760 --> 01:22:03,400
Speaker 3: men and I was this person, I should not have

1800
01:22:03,479 --> 01:22:06,720
Speaker 3: to lose myself to be able to keep a relationship

1801
01:22:06,760 --> 01:22:08,720
Speaker 3: with you and be in a healthy relationship with you.

1802
01:22:08,760 --> 01:22:11,040
Speaker 3: We need to be able to come to We need

1803
01:22:11,040 --> 01:22:12,720
Speaker 3: to be able to come to a healthy balance, and

1804
01:22:12,760 --> 01:22:14,919
Speaker 3: if we can't, like you said, walk.

1805
01:22:14,680 --> 01:22:16,280
Speaker 1: A relationships are about growth.

1806
01:22:17,360 --> 01:22:19,960
Speaker 2: Yeah. I realized in my last relationship I had to

1807
01:22:20,040 --> 01:22:22,240
Speaker 2: walk away because I was growing and he wasn't growing

1808
01:22:22,280 --> 01:22:22,680
Speaker 2: with me.

1809
01:22:24,920 --> 01:22:25,959
Speaker 1: I had to put.

1810
01:22:25,760 --> 01:22:30,000
Speaker 2: Myself first and I had to really realize I wasn't happy.

1811
01:22:30,560 --> 01:22:35,080
Speaker 2: I had to really step back and be like, I'm miserable,

1812
01:22:35,280 --> 01:22:37,840
Speaker 2: and I had to really admit how miserable I was.

1813
01:22:37,880 --> 01:22:39,519
Speaker 2: I was miserable. I'm not gonna lie and it's no

1814
01:22:39,560 --> 01:22:41,920
Speaker 2: diss to him, because I feel like, and I'm glad

1815
01:22:42,000 --> 01:22:43,760
Speaker 2: we're talking about this because I feel like a lot

1816
01:22:43,760 --> 01:22:46,200
Speaker 2: of the past episodes that have dropped I was making

1817
01:22:46,240 --> 01:22:47,760
Speaker 2: seem like he was like a terrible I mean, don't

1818
01:22:47,760 --> 01:22:48,640
Speaker 2: get me wrong.

1819
01:22:48,560 --> 01:22:51,040
Speaker 1: We were terrible. He was terrible. I was terrible.

1820
01:22:51,040 --> 01:22:53,880
Speaker 2: We were terrible to each other. He may be a

1821
01:22:54,040 --> 01:22:56,800
Speaker 2: great man. I think he is a good man. He's

1822
01:22:56,800 --> 01:22:59,200
Speaker 2: just not a good man for me, right, So, and

1823
01:22:59,240 --> 01:23:01,360
Speaker 2: that's what I do want to say. He's probably gonna

1824
01:23:01,360 --> 01:23:03,760
Speaker 2: make somebody so happy one day, but it's not me.

1825
01:23:04,040 --> 01:23:05,160
Speaker 1: How long was you with him?

1826
01:23:05,200 --> 01:23:06,360
Speaker 2: Seven years on and off?

1827
01:23:06,400 --> 01:23:08,920
Speaker 3: You didn't think like, bitch, I have put so much

1828
01:23:08,960 --> 01:23:12,040
Speaker 3: into you, but I have like helped you grow into

1829
01:23:12,040 --> 01:23:13,439
Speaker 3: this good ass minute you're gonna be.

1830
01:23:13,560 --> 01:23:14,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's what I did.

1831
01:23:15,200 --> 01:23:19,360
Speaker 3: I was doing, like feeling like you might bitch, I

1832
01:23:19,520 --> 01:23:21,439
Speaker 3: don't want to let you go because yeah, I did

1833
01:23:21,479 --> 01:23:24,400
Speaker 3: that for the yes' Like, bitch, how do I just

1834
01:23:24,479 --> 01:23:26,600
Speaker 3: let you go to That's what I did for the

1835
01:23:26,720 --> 01:23:27,120
Speaker 3: last year.

1836
01:23:27,400 --> 01:23:28,720
Speaker 1: You know what you have to be?

1837
01:23:28,840 --> 01:23:33,439
Speaker 3: Okay, Well, understanding life is about meeting people. Everybody teach

1838
01:23:33,479 --> 01:23:36,840
Speaker 3: you a listen and if you somebody came into your

1839
01:23:36,880 --> 01:23:39,080
Speaker 3: life and ain't taught you a listen, It's fine, Okay,

1840
01:23:39,120 --> 01:23:40,800
Speaker 3: what if he go on and be with the next

1841
01:23:40,800 --> 01:23:43,760
Speaker 3: girl and be a better partner for her, you gonna

1842
01:23:43,800 --> 01:23:46,439
Speaker 3: find you a bitter nigga because that was for you either.

1843
01:23:46,840 --> 01:23:55,320
Speaker 1: And you know where many.

1844
01:23:54,680 --> 01:23:56,920
Speaker 2: You should never look at your partner because I used

1845
01:23:56,960 --> 01:23:57,599
Speaker 2: to look at my eggs.

1846
01:23:57,640 --> 01:23:59,479
Speaker 1: I used to be like, oh my god, I.

1847
01:23:59,439 --> 01:24:01,760
Speaker 2: Cannot have made to him being with somebody else, him

1848
01:24:01,800 --> 01:24:04,280
Speaker 2: sharing that waste of time, and I used to be

1849
01:24:04,360 --> 01:24:06,960
Speaker 2: it used to drive me insane. But now it's like,

1850
01:24:07,240 --> 01:24:09,360
Speaker 2: I want him to move on. I want him to

1851
01:24:09,360 --> 01:24:12,000
Speaker 2: be happy. I want him to find what I found.

1852
01:24:12,000 --> 01:24:13,280
Speaker 1: Because even the god I'm with now, I don't know

1853
01:24:13,280 --> 01:24:14,360
Speaker 1: if we're gonna be together forever.

1854
01:24:14,400 --> 01:24:16,120
Speaker 2: I know right now I'm enjoying it. And he's taught

1855
01:24:16,160 --> 01:24:18,519
Speaker 2: me a lot I talk. I said this the other day.

1856
01:24:18,560 --> 01:24:21,880
Speaker 2: Even the guy I was dating before my boyfriend i'm

1857
01:24:21,880 --> 01:24:25,639
Speaker 2: with now, that's my nigga. I fuck with him. He cool.

1858
01:24:25,680 --> 01:24:27,640
Speaker 2: We never had sex, but we were dating for like

1859
01:24:27,720 --> 01:24:30,680
Speaker 2: six months, and but he taught me like, this is

1860
01:24:30,720 --> 01:24:33,000
Speaker 2: how you're supposed to be treated, this is good, this

1861
01:24:33,040 --> 01:24:36,600
Speaker 2: is fun. So I say all that to say, you

1862
01:24:36,760 --> 01:24:38,760
Speaker 2: have to realize a relationship.

1863
01:24:38,840 --> 01:24:39,920
Speaker 1: I don't care how hard it is.

1864
01:24:39,960 --> 01:24:40,559
Speaker 2: It gonna be hard.

1865
01:24:40,560 --> 01:24:43,200
Speaker 1: It shouldn't be miserable. You get to the next.

1866
01:24:43,000 --> 01:24:45,080
Speaker 3: Level in life when you stop trying to take ownership

1867
01:24:45,120 --> 01:24:45,479
Speaker 3: with people.

1868
01:24:47,080 --> 01:24:49,040
Speaker 2: You said you date him for six months. It ain't

1869
01:24:49,040 --> 01:24:58,479
Speaker 2: fu No, I didn't. I didn't, but I'll tell you

1870
01:24:59,040 --> 01:25:02,439
Speaker 2: because I wasn't there.

1871
01:25:02,720 --> 01:25:05,599
Speaker 1: I don't force it. If I don't like you too much,

1872
01:25:05,680 --> 01:25:06,360
Speaker 1: we're just not.

1873
01:25:06,200 --> 01:25:09,960
Speaker 2: Gonna date like him.

1874
01:25:10,160 --> 01:25:12,240
Speaker 1: I like to like somebody for six months and you

1875
01:25:12,240 --> 01:25:12,599
Speaker 1: don't have.

1876
01:25:12,800 --> 01:25:16,280
Speaker 2: I just I just didn't. I didn't feel you got

1877
01:25:16,320 --> 01:25:20,280
Speaker 2: one time to blink yard. Yeah, I didn't feel it

1878
01:25:20,320 --> 01:25:20,920
Speaker 2: in my coochie.

1879
01:25:20,920 --> 01:25:23,439
Speaker 1: I didn't. And honestly, you didn't really like him? No,

1880
01:25:23,600 --> 01:25:28,120
Speaker 1: I did like him. She's like, I was lying. She's

1881
01:25:28,120 --> 01:25:28,479
Speaker 1: a liar.

1882
01:25:28,680 --> 01:25:29,479
Speaker 2: I did like him.

1883
01:25:29,680 --> 01:25:32,760
Speaker 1: What is going on? I like that everybody? You tell

1884
01:25:32,800 --> 01:25:35,479
Speaker 1: me the truth? She's lying. I liked him, you know

1885
01:25:35,600 --> 01:25:41,240
Speaker 1: you right, and they pissed me off. You like the

1886
01:25:41,280 --> 01:25:45,200
Speaker 1: idea of him, like, yeah, that's what. I can't like that, nigga.

1887
01:25:45,960 --> 01:25:49,599
Speaker 2: I like. I like that what you like? But I

1888
01:25:49,640 --> 01:25:54,120
Speaker 2: like you on paper, on paper that niggas on paper

1889
01:25:54,320 --> 01:25:57,519
Speaker 2: and say baby. Family wise, we have kids.

1890
01:25:57,560 --> 01:26:00,360
Speaker 1: We have on the chemistry. Yeah, you're saying big a

1891
01:26:00,439 --> 01:26:02,439
Speaker 1: mad time for six months and you don't give him

1892
01:26:02,439 --> 01:26:05,479
Speaker 1: no kuci, but I don't. We talked about this on

1893
01:26:05,520 --> 01:26:07,479
Speaker 1: the show. I tried to give us some coochie one time.

1894
01:26:07,479 --> 01:26:08,439
Speaker 1: He couldn't get the dick up.

1895
01:26:09,160 --> 01:26:10,120
Speaker 2: He didn't like you neither.

1896
01:26:11,240 --> 01:26:15,080
Speaker 1: No, I didn't you know, I love you. You know

1897
01:26:16,760 --> 01:26:17,280
Speaker 1: what it was.

1898
01:26:17,439 --> 01:26:19,760
Speaker 2: We talked, But because I'm an open communicator now, it

1899
01:26:19,800 --> 01:26:21,920
Speaker 2: wasn't even that he told me what it was and

1900
01:26:22,000 --> 01:26:24,640
Speaker 2: we talked about it. It wasn't that he didn't like me,

1901
01:26:24,720 --> 01:26:27,040
Speaker 2: because he very much still trying to fuck after that,

1902
01:26:27,080 --> 01:26:27,800
Speaker 2: But after that I.

1903
01:26:27,760 --> 01:26:30,080
Speaker 1: Had checked out. He was on Honey at sixteen, whinny.

1904
01:26:30,240 --> 01:26:36,439
Speaker 1: It was just like young as dick don't work.

1905
01:26:36,280 --> 01:26:38,479
Speaker 2: When you're Yes, he was trying to do too much,

1906
01:26:38,920 --> 01:26:40,720
Speaker 2: trying to follow the trend.

1907
01:26:40,439 --> 01:26:43,280
Speaker 1: Not your He fucked himself up. He got too drunk.

1908
01:26:43,280 --> 01:26:45,000
Speaker 2: He was trying to be too do too much because

1909
01:26:45,000 --> 01:26:47,000
Speaker 2: he was like, oh, I gotta, I gotta. He knew

1910
01:26:47,040 --> 01:26:49,719
Speaker 2: who I was before we started dating, when he saw

1911
01:26:49,760 --> 01:26:51,559
Speaker 2: me where we were and we met at he knew

1912
01:26:51,560 --> 01:26:52,840
Speaker 2: who I was, and he tried to act like he

1913
01:26:52,880 --> 01:26:53,640
Speaker 2: didn't know who I was.

1914
01:26:53,720 --> 01:26:56,360
Speaker 3: Yeah, like people who know ya, no, I hate him,

1915
01:26:56,960 --> 01:27:00,439
Speaker 3: do not know, Like if you don't know me, I'll

1916
01:27:00,520 --> 01:27:01,559
Speaker 3: rock your heumpet that way.

1917
01:27:01,600 --> 01:27:04,599
Speaker 2: I don't like it because now you hold me at

1918
01:27:04,600 --> 01:27:06,800
Speaker 2: a standard. But I cannot exactly. I felt like he

1919
01:27:06,960 --> 01:27:09,840
Speaker 2: was so when we tried to do, like I'll try

1920
01:27:09,840 --> 01:27:11,720
Speaker 2: to fuck him, and he tried to do too much.

1921
01:27:11,760 --> 01:27:13,880
Speaker 1: He was too drunk. I don't know what was going on.

1922
01:27:13,960 --> 01:27:16,439
Speaker 2: He got nervous, he was like, oh my god. And

1923
01:27:16,439 --> 01:27:18,200
Speaker 2: then by the time he tried to try it again,

1924
01:27:18,400 --> 01:27:19,240
Speaker 2: I was just kind of.

1925
01:27:19,200 --> 01:27:20,760
Speaker 1: Like checked out.

1926
01:27:20,920 --> 01:27:21,479
Speaker 2: My nigga.

1927
01:27:21,560 --> 01:27:26,360
Speaker 1: Now we on the third day, Yeah, it was like.

1928
01:27:27,120 --> 01:27:31,240
Speaker 2: Her and her and her and my good sis Jada story,

1929
01:27:31,320 --> 01:27:33,000
Speaker 2: you know, like you know she'd be should be.

1930
01:27:32,920 --> 01:27:34,360
Speaker 1: Talking about even posting, and I'm.

1931
01:27:34,280 --> 01:27:38,479
Speaker 3: Like, like, you're gonna fuck you gonna do it?

1932
01:27:38,560 --> 01:27:40,599
Speaker 1: Who you fu, We're gonna sucking.

1933
01:27:41,000 --> 01:27:43,559
Speaker 2: And if it does not work after we have sexth grade,

1934
01:27:43,680 --> 01:27:45,960
Speaker 2: my my, my coochie is still my coochie.

1935
01:27:46,840 --> 01:27:48,559
Speaker 1: You ben, I tell nobody who had sex. If you do,

1936
01:27:48,680 --> 01:27:49,360
Speaker 1: I might deny.

1937
01:27:49,960 --> 01:27:52,280
Speaker 2: I'm no, and I'm like, but I'm gonna deny it

1938
01:27:52,280 --> 01:27:54,320
Speaker 2: because why the fuck you running your mouth mind your

1939
01:27:54,320 --> 01:27:56,639
Speaker 2: fucking business about who I funk after you, but honestly,

1940
01:27:56,800 --> 01:27:58,880
Speaker 2: but at that point, I will say when I met him,

1941
01:27:58,920 --> 01:28:01,439
Speaker 2: I kind of fresh out of my seven year on

1942
01:28:01,520 --> 01:28:03,439
Speaker 2: and off so I was really trying to take things

1943
01:28:03,479 --> 01:28:05,480
Speaker 2: slow and I was trying to like build a friendship.

1944
01:28:05,840 --> 01:28:08,479
Speaker 2: I was really trying to take things slow because I

1945
01:28:08,560 --> 01:28:13,120
Speaker 2: wanted to. No, we didn't. We never lived together because

1946
01:28:13,120 --> 01:28:15,200
Speaker 2: he was in Houston. I was out here, So it

1947
01:28:15,320 --> 01:28:17,400
Speaker 2: was like and it was a lot of on and off.

1948
01:28:17,479 --> 01:28:19,080
Speaker 2: It was because I dealt with a lot of you know,

1949
01:28:19,160 --> 01:28:20,400
Speaker 2: and he dealt with a lot of people.

1950
01:28:20,439 --> 01:28:22,040
Speaker 1: It was just a mess.

1951
01:28:22,080 --> 01:28:24,920
Speaker 2: And I mean, the love is always gonna be there,

1952
01:28:24,960 --> 01:28:26,400
Speaker 2: Like I still got love for him, he still got

1953
01:28:26,439 --> 01:28:26,800
Speaker 2: love for me.

1954
01:28:26,840 --> 01:28:28,120
Speaker 1: But it's just like like it's like.

1955
01:28:29,520 --> 01:28:33,080
Speaker 2: You, I'd be cool with my exes. I'm not cool

1956
01:28:33,120 --> 01:28:33,519
Speaker 2: with him.

1957
01:28:33,640 --> 01:28:37,479
Speaker 1: I don't fuck I'll be cool with my today and

1958
01:28:37,520 --> 01:28:40,559
Speaker 1: we don't. More's not fucking cool.

1959
01:28:40,600 --> 01:28:42,439
Speaker 2: It's like if I see you out in public at

1960
01:28:42,439 --> 01:28:45,799
Speaker 2: the club, that's not cool.

1961
01:28:48,240 --> 01:28:50,320
Speaker 3: It is so crazy because I'm half for you and

1962
01:28:50,320 --> 01:28:53,080
Speaker 3: I'm half for you and you live inside of me.

1963
01:28:53,320 --> 01:28:56,240
Speaker 3: Like you say, certain ship, I'd be like, jamn bitch

1964
01:28:56,600 --> 01:28:57,840
Speaker 3: that resonate with me.

1965
01:28:58,040 --> 01:29:00,920
Speaker 1: When you say shot like yeah, could you literally be

1966
01:29:01,040 --> 01:29:02,680
Speaker 1: like this the whole episode?

1967
01:29:03,320 --> 01:29:08,000
Speaker 3: I mean yeah, because right is right and wrong it's wrong,

1968
01:29:08,600 --> 01:29:11,439
Speaker 3: and I ever want to tell you you know what

1969
01:29:11,479 --> 01:29:15,200
Speaker 3: it is. No, I feel like with niggas that I

1970
01:29:15,280 --> 01:29:19,160
Speaker 3: used to, I feel like it's unrealistic to believe that

1971
01:29:19,240 --> 01:29:23,679
Speaker 3: you can be friends for real with the nigga friend

1972
01:29:26,479 --> 01:29:29,120
Speaker 3: when you you can't be Let me say this, you

1973
01:29:29,160 --> 01:29:31,400
Speaker 3: can't be friends with a nigga you was in love with.

1974
01:29:31,840 --> 01:29:37,960
Speaker 1: Okay, you can, but you but you claim right.

1975
01:29:40,520 --> 01:29:42,120
Speaker 2: I didn't say it was friends. I said we're cool.

1976
01:29:42,160 --> 01:29:45,200
Speaker 2: I don't talk to that nigga today. Now the seven

1977
01:29:45,280 --> 01:29:45,840
Speaker 2: year nigga.

1978
01:29:46,000 --> 01:29:49,679
Speaker 1: Oh, I can't be friends when we cool? I no beef.

1979
01:29:49,960 --> 01:29:52,160
Speaker 2: I can't be friends when now, mother fucker I talked

1980
01:29:52,200 --> 01:29:54,840
Speaker 2: to No, we don't, I.

1981
01:29:54,800 --> 01:29:56,400
Speaker 1: Said, what's no kidding?

1982
01:29:56,439 --> 01:29:58,960
Speaker 3: But listen, But that's like if we really had some

1983
01:29:59,120 --> 01:30:01,920
Speaker 3: I can I be friends. You let me heal without

1984
01:30:01,960 --> 01:30:04,080
Speaker 3: you hate you a little bit for maybe a.

1985
01:30:04,080 --> 01:30:05,160
Speaker 1: Couple of years, bitch.

1986
01:30:05,160 --> 01:30:06,920
Speaker 3: It might take me ten years to actually get over

1987
01:30:06,920 --> 01:30:07,840
Speaker 3: with what the fuck we had.

1988
01:30:08,200 --> 01:30:10,800
Speaker 2: But after that about you, I don't I can give

1989
01:30:10,840 --> 01:30:13,320
Speaker 2: fuck you fuck. I don't talk about ship because guess what.

1990
01:30:13,400 --> 01:30:16,720
Speaker 2: But I have found myself like it takes thirty one

1991
01:30:16,800 --> 01:30:20,320
Speaker 2: days to create a fucking habit, du thirty one motherfucking days.

1992
01:30:21,080 --> 01:30:23,200
Speaker 3: I don't really, I don't give. I don't give a

1993
01:30:23,280 --> 01:30:25,760
Speaker 3: fuck about you no more. But but I've become so

1994
01:30:25,840 --> 01:30:27,160
Speaker 3: in the habit to like fuck you.

1995
01:30:27,200 --> 01:30:27,880
Speaker 1: Butch is fuck you.

1996
01:30:28,520 --> 01:30:31,120
Speaker 3: I feel like that's some bullshit, though, But thirty one

1997
01:30:31,160 --> 01:30:33,400
Speaker 3: days to create a happy she is some bullshe, I

1998
01:30:33,439 --> 01:30:35,200
Speaker 3: think because I done did it before.

1999
01:30:35,200 --> 01:30:36,240
Speaker 1: Like I done did some ship.

2000
01:30:36,280 --> 01:30:41,360
Speaker 2: But they said it I fund they said, I say

2001
01:30:41,640 --> 01:30:44,200
Speaker 2: it takes. I said, they said it takes, bitch, I

2002
01:30:44,200 --> 01:30:48,519
Speaker 2: ain't saying. I'm saying.

2003
01:30:48,640 --> 01:30:51,720
Speaker 3: I feel like that saying is some bullshit because I

2004
01:30:51,720 --> 01:30:52,600
Speaker 3: do indeed.

2005
01:30:52,280 --> 01:30:53,439
Speaker 1: This she like I don't.

2006
01:30:53,600 --> 01:30:56,000
Speaker 3: I haven't did nothing fully though, I don't like that

2007
01:30:57,000 --> 01:30:58,920
Speaker 3: when I did thirty days yet, But I kind of

2008
01:30:58,920 --> 01:31:00,840
Speaker 3: believe it's like the mind of matter, you know, law

2009
01:31:01,000 --> 01:31:01,679
Speaker 3: law of attraction.

2010
01:31:01,800 --> 01:31:04,200
Speaker 2: If you believe, she, bitch, that's your real Okay, I'm

2011
01:31:04,200 --> 01:31:07,040
Speaker 2: not gone that nigga call you thirty two days, thirty

2012
01:31:07,080 --> 01:31:07,559
Speaker 2: three days?

2013
01:31:07,560 --> 01:31:08,479
Speaker 1: What you're going by that time?

2014
01:31:08,520 --> 01:31:12,000
Speaker 2: He already block hello, Like after after two weeks, I'm

2015
01:31:12,040 --> 01:31:14,639
Speaker 2: already talking to different people. Maybe after the first week,

2016
01:31:14,720 --> 01:31:16,439
Speaker 2: maybe after the first couple of hours. I'm already talking

2017
01:31:16,439 --> 01:31:17,240
Speaker 2: to I'm.

2018
01:31:17,080 --> 01:31:22,920
Speaker 3: Already over you, already using somebody else to get over.

2019
01:31:22,840 --> 01:31:25,320
Speaker 1: The other person, like chemist. She had told us.

2020
01:31:25,520 --> 01:31:30,800
Speaker 2: Hello man, she she didn't because you made have I

2021
01:31:30,840 --> 01:31:32,679
Speaker 2: do not talk to seven year nigga.

2022
01:31:32,840 --> 01:31:33,720
Speaker 1: I don't talk to him.

2023
01:31:33,840 --> 01:31:36,400
Speaker 2: He sung you a songe he called me, and guess

2024
01:31:36,400 --> 01:31:39,840
Speaker 2: what why he's sending you ship? He said it, he

2025
01:31:39,960 --> 01:31:45,839
Speaker 2: sung her sung he called me from his best friend's phone.

2026
01:31:46,080 --> 01:31:50,160
Speaker 1: Okay, And why you listening alone? He had She listened

2027
01:31:50,160 --> 01:31:50,920
Speaker 1: to the whole.

2028
01:31:53,520 --> 01:31:56,400
Speaker 2: But I have never talked about I swear to God

2029
01:31:56,680 --> 01:31:59,000
Speaker 2: on everything. I haven't not talked to that nigga. We

2030
01:31:59,040 --> 01:31:59,599
Speaker 2: don't talk.

2031
01:32:00,040 --> 01:32:02,000
Speaker 1: We do not. I tell you something, when.

2032
01:32:05,600 --> 01:32:07,840
Speaker 2: Somebody else phone, when a mother call you from the

2033
01:32:07,880 --> 01:32:10,000
Speaker 2: phone and then you listen for too long, they know

2034
01:32:10,040 --> 01:32:12,760
Speaker 2: they still got that little something over you. And you

2035
01:32:12,800 --> 01:32:14,840
Speaker 2: know what, and you know what, and that's what I knew.

2036
01:32:14,880 --> 01:32:16,680
Speaker 2: But you know what, I also thought. I was like,

2037
01:32:16,720 --> 01:32:19,280
Speaker 2: you know what, this is not fair because honestly, I'm

2038
01:32:19,280 --> 01:32:20,720
Speaker 2: not gonna lie to you. The guy I'm dealing with

2039
01:32:20,840 --> 01:32:23,080
Speaker 2: right now is a really good guy.

2040
01:32:23,120 --> 01:32:24,920
Speaker 1: So in the past I used to move on.

2041
01:32:25,040 --> 01:32:26,920
Speaker 2: But I used to keep the seven year guy in

2042
01:32:26,920 --> 01:32:30,439
Speaker 2: the background, and I used to It's really honestly, let me,

2043
01:32:30,560 --> 01:32:33,000
Speaker 2: I grew up in this situation because it's not fair

2044
01:32:33,080 --> 01:32:36,720
Speaker 2: to him and he deserves a fair chance. I have

2045
01:32:36,840 --> 01:32:40,879
Speaker 2: honestly blocked him. I don't talk to him on everything.

2046
01:32:41,240 --> 01:32:47,519
Speaker 2: She lying that okay, okay, I did.

2047
01:32:50,479 --> 01:32:53,080
Speaker 1: I mean, okay, let me tell you what happened to me?

2048
01:32:53,760 --> 01:32:58,120
Speaker 2: Blocked him for why? On Instagram? I wanted to see

2049
01:32:58,160 --> 01:32:59,920
Speaker 2: what was going on, what was going on?

2050
01:33:00,240 --> 01:33:00,800
Speaker 1: Didn't die?

2051
01:33:00,920 --> 01:33:03,120
Speaker 2: What's going on? He started liking about it.

2052
01:33:03,120 --> 01:33:06,040
Speaker 1: If he died, let him die, die God.

2053
01:33:05,880 --> 01:33:08,360
Speaker 2: Bitch, And I'm your mom, dn me.

2054
01:33:08,439 --> 01:33:09,160
Speaker 1: But you know what it's.

2055
01:33:09,520 --> 01:33:13,400
Speaker 3: It's not even about I'm nosy, especially if you had

2056
01:33:13,400 --> 01:33:20,439
Speaker 3: one mama. They're like, mamma, no nigga, Mama, dad knew you, y'all.

2057
01:33:20,880 --> 01:33:23,200
Speaker 3: I had this nigga who who Mama knew he was

2058
01:33:23,720 --> 01:33:26,320
Speaker 3: on me, and she say, never let someone choose you back,

2059
01:33:26,560 --> 01:33:27,400
Speaker 3: even if it's my son.

2060
01:33:27,479 --> 01:33:28,960
Speaker 1: But send me cheat now. If I whoop your.

2061
01:33:28,920 --> 01:33:30,599
Speaker 2: Ass, baby, you can get it.

2062
01:33:30,560 --> 01:33:35,719
Speaker 1: To tell me what you right now. I'm being passive.

2063
01:33:35,840 --> 01:33:37,320
Speaker 1: Tell me what I mean.

2064
01:33:37,520 --> 01:33:40,760
Speaker 2: But she knew her son wasn't she. But I'm not

2065
01:33:40,800 --> 01:33:43,320
Speaker 2: gonna lie. I am. I am really over it. I'm

2066
01:33:43,400 --> 01:33:47,120
Speaker 2: just nosy. I stop, I'm not nosy.

2067
01:33:47,320 --> 01:33:49,200
Speaker 1: And then you fall out. Right now, I'm gonna still be.

2068
01:33:49,240 --> 01:33:53,400
Speaker 2: Looking at your page see this thing with us.

2069
01:33:53,960 --> 01:33:56,920
Speaker 1: You're not over it? If you still look, I'm not

2070
01:33:57,160 --> 01:33:58,040
Speaker 1: looking now.

2071
01:33:58,200 --> 01:34:00,519
Speaker 2: I'm just saying I might take a little p' like

2072
01:34:00,520 --> 01:34:01,479
Speaker 2: what I want.

2073
01:34:01,680 --> 01:34:05,840
Speaker 3: You know what's like me? I dead ass do not

2074
01:34:05,920 --> 01:34:07,360
Speaker 3: like you, but I won't check on your page. The

2075
01:34:07,360 --> 01:34:08,680
Speaker 3: only way that I would ever see you is if

2076
01:34:08,680 --> 01:34:09,559
Speaker 3: a block post.

2077
01:34:09,360 --> 01:34:12,320
Speaker 1: You, or you come up on an Explore page or

2078
01:34:12,360 --> 01:34:12,760
Speaker 1: some ship.

2079
01:34:12,800 --> 01:34:14,200
Speaker 2: And if you come up on my Explore page but

2080
01:34:14,280 --> 01:34:16,960
Speaker 2: I'm putting not interested, then then I'm going to go

2081
01:34:17,040 --> 01:34:18,800
Speaker 2: block you bit to fuck you.

2082
01:34:19,120 --> 01:34:20,840
Speaker 1: I don't want to see you, but I'm not gonna lie.

2083
01:34:20,880 --> 01:34:22,880
Speaker 2: I will say like I did on block to look

2084
01:34:23,000 --> 01:34:25,120
Speaker 2: and he did start liking my pictures and I did

2085
01:34:25,240 --> 01:34:29,080
Speaker 2: reblock because, like I said, in my situation, now he

2086
01:34:29,160 --> 01:34:31,840
Speaker 2: deserves a fair chance. I am really happy.

2087
01:34:31,560 --> 01:34:34,519
Speaker 1: And honestly, but no, I talked about that the other

2088
01:34:34,520 --> 01:34:35,880
Speaker 1: week on our last episode.

2089
01:34:36,439 --> 01:34:38,559
Speaker 2: I have never I haven't been in this healthy space

2090
01:34:38,600 --> 01:34:40,840
Speaker 2: in so long, and not even with just my relationship,

2091
01:34:40,960 --> 01:34:43,519
Speaker 2: like just my life in general, Like I've been working out.

2092
01:34:43,760 --> 01:34:47,120
Speaker 1: Eating healthy, and I realized, girl, we got a train

2093
01:34:47,160 --> 01:34:47,679
Speaker 1: and we all.

2094
01:34:47,600 --> 01:34:52,840
Speaker 2: Saw'll listen to my billy was hanging over my pants

2095
01:34:52,840 --> 01:34:56,160
Speaker 2: and dan't know because I had took the girl would

2096
01:34:56,200 --> 01:34:58,679
Speaker 2: have worked me out. I said, I had a took

2097
01:34:58,880 --> 01:35:02,799
Speaker 2: trying to work out fucking bad. They're like, bitch every session,

2098
01:35:02,840 --> 01:35:04,400
Speaker 2: like my fucking wig was off, but it's like he

2099
01:35:04,439 --> 01:35:06,280
Speaker 2: got me to fuck together. Like and then like when

2100
01:35:06,320 --> 01:35:09,080
Speaker 2: I posted like a before pitcher and ate after Twitter,

2101
01:35:09,200 --> 01:35:11,200
Speaker 2: like oh, well, I really liked it.

2102
01:35:11,280 --> 01:35:12,440
Speaker 1: The thickness.

2103
01:35:16,360 --> 01:35:18,599
Speaker 2: They like when you overwegh to be honest, you given

2104
01:35:18,640 --> 01:35:20,479
Speaker 2: hater because you didn't like that ship because I didn't

2105
01:35:20,520 --> 01:35:21,600
Speaker 2: like it. So if I don't like a bitch, you

2106
01:35:21,640 --> 01:35:25,000
Speaker 2: don't like it. They'd be like, oh, they like when

2107
01:35:25,040 --> 01:35:27,160
Speaker 2: I was Like when I was at my biggest, I

2108
01:35:27,200 --> 01:35:30,639
Speaker 2: was like two ten. Right now I weigh like one ninety.

2109
01:35:30,800 --> 01:35:33,840
Speaker 2: I told you I'm five eight. I mean two ten.

2110
01:35:33,880 --> 01:35:35,960
Speaker 1: It's not bad, I am no, but for me for

2111
01:35:36,080 --> 01:35:37,479
Speaker 1: my body type though.

2112
01:35:37,320 --> 01:35:39,840
Speaker 2: Because I'm big, but I'm not big big, like two

2113
01:35:39,880 --> 01:35:41,720
Speaker 2: ten is big for my body.

2114
01:35:41,400 --> 01:35:44,760
Speaker 1: Type because honestly, I'm thick. But I'm not a naturally

2115
01:35:44,880 --> 01:35:46,120
Speaker 1: thick person, you know what I'm saying.

2116
01:35:46,120 --> 01:35:47,519
Speaker 2: Like I've done things to my body. I got a

2117
01:35:47,560 --> 01:35:50,479
Speaker 2: little sergey, a little one too, But I'm not a

2118
01:35:50,479 --> 01:35:53,360
Speaker 2: two teen girl. So me, when I'm at my healthiest

2119
01:35:53,360 --> 01:35:55,040
Speaker 2: and I look the best, I feel like that one

2120
01:35:55,200 --> 01:35:58,439
Speaker 2: eighty one eighty five range. So I'm like people be like,

2121
01:35:58,439 --> 01:36:00,680
Speaker 2: oh yeah. When lex first came on seen she had

2122
01:36:00,720 --> 01:36:03,639
Speaker 2: a doult truck, I was also unhealthy. I was walking

2123
01:36:03,680 --> 01:36:05,360
Speaker 2: up the stairs and I was getting out of breath.

2124
01:36:05,600 --> 01:36:08,640
Speaker 2: I also had low iron. I couldn't breathe. I was

2125
01:36:08,680 --> 01:36:11,400
Speaker 2: in the shower literally getting out of breath, and I couldn't.

2126
01:36:11,080 --> 01:36:14,160
Speaker 1: Figure out why. I had a lot of things health issues.

2127
01:36:13,840 --> 01:36:15,840
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying. So I feel like getting

2128
01:36:15,840 --> 01:36:18,240
Speaker 2: my health right. That was like the first thing. But

2129
01:36:18,280 --> 01:36:20,040
Speaker 2: it was like getting rid of him. I was gaining

2130
01:36:20,040 --> 01:36:23,240
Speaker 2: weight because I was stressed. The nigga had me stressed out.

2131
01:36:23,439 --> 01:36:25,400
Speaker 2: When I tell y'all, I get it. I know I

2132
01:36:25,439 --> 01:36:26,760
Speaker 2: do be lying. I do be lying.

2133
01:36:26,800 --> 01:36:30,280
Speaker 1: But what I will say, I know, but what I

2134
01:36:30,280 --> 01:36:30,880
Speaker 1: did right.

2135
01:36:31,000 --> 01:36:32,000
Speaker 2: But I'm a liar.

2136
01:36:32,680 --> 01:36:38,400
Speaker 1: But let me say this, honestly, he's a liar.

2137
01:36:38,680 --> 01:36:45,000
Speaker 2: I'm a liar, But you, they say, but no, we

2138
01:36:45,080 --> 01:36:48,040
Speaker 2: a lot of protect talking about that.

2139
01:36:48,120 --> 01:36:50,160
Speaker 1: Let's let me finish.

2140
01:36:50,600 --> 01:36:52,720
Speaker 2: We a lot to protect feelings, not not a lot

2141
01:36:52,760 --> 01:36:58,519
Speaker 2: of just lie. But let me say this honestly, I'm

2142
01:36:58,560 --> 01:37:02,840
Speaker 2: not going to lie, and I am being honest. I

2143
01:37:02,880 --> 01:37:05,720
Speaker 2: said that I believe this man is maybe a good

2144
01:37:05,760 --> 01:37:08,080
Speaker 2: man for somebody else, but I'm not gonna lie. I

2145
01:37:08,160 --> 01:37:10,880
Speaker 2: have reached a point in my life I have not

2146
01:37:10,960 --> 01:37:12,880
Speaker 2: been happier, and it's not because of my nigga. It's

2147
01:37:12,920 --> 01:37:16,320
Speaker 2: because my mental state is different. And I realized that

2148
01:37:16,360 --> 01:37:20,560
Speaker 2: when I left him, and I'm not going back. I've

2149
01:37:20,640 --> 01:37:22,800
Speaker 2: always left and going back, but I've never been in

2150
01:37:22,840 --> 01:37:25,120
Speaker 2: this mental state that i'm because I've done the work.

2151
01:37:25,200 --> 01:37:27,920
Speaker 2: I'm going to therapy. I got a new therapist and

2152
01:37:28,000 --> 01:37:31,080
Speaker 2: she's amazing. I'm going through like like I said, the grieving.

2153
01:37:31,120 --> 01:37:33,280
Speaker 2: I've gone through a lot of stages. So I'm just

2154
01:37:33,320 --> 01:37:37,599
Speaker 2: in a different place. So I've absolutely let go. Because

2155
01:37:37,680 --> 01:37:39,640
Speaker 2: this let go feels a lot different than the other.

2156
01:37:39,640 --> 01:37:44,439
Speaker 2: Because Draa knows i'd be like, oh, I'm done, I'm done,

2157
01:37:44,920 --> 01:37:46,840
Speaker 2: Like yeah, yeah, I'm really done.

2158
01:37:46,880 --> 01:37:51,040
Speaker 1: That I was literally said I'm done. No, because lying,

2159
01:37:51,240 --> 01:37:53,559
Speaker 1: I do be literally have I said, if I call

2160
01:37:53,600 --> 01:37:55,000
Speaker 1: you sa, I'm done. I'm lying.

2161
01:37:55,040 --> 01:38:04,800
Speaker 2: No, I know my mama only feelings.

2162
01:38:00,520 --> 01:38:04,400
Speaker 1: Like okay, Pinocchio, But I'm.

2163
01:38:04,240 --> 01:38:06,640
Speaker 2: Done now just because of It's not because of my

2164
01:38:06,760 --> 01:38:09,040
Speaker 2: new nigga. Honestly, like I said, he does deserve a chance,

2165
01:38:09,080 --> 01:38:10,960
Speaker 2: but honestly, I'm just mentally.

2166
01:38:13,720 --> 01:38:15,960
Speaker 1: Okay, y'all, we gotta move on. That's not about to say.

2167
01:38:15,960 --> 01:38:21,360
Speaker 3: Okay, So now everybody on this episode this line except

2168
01:38:21,360 --> 01:38:23,639
Speaker 3: for me, So you got.

2169
01:38:24,080 --> 01:38:30,719
Speaker 2: Okay, I barely lie, lie every once every why I

2170
01:38:30,800 --> 01:38:33,920
Speaker 2: aspire to be your lie because your like like I'm

2171
01:38:33,920 --> 01:38:36,439
Speaker 2: gonna tell you the truth, bitch, And the only time

2172
01:38:36,520 --> 01:38:40,879
Speaker 2: that Doominal lies the truth be telling the truth sometimes

2173
01:38:40,880 --> 01:38:44,160
Speaker 2: and it'd be like you didn't need to know that the.

2174
01:38:44,080 --> 01:38:45,840
Speaker 1: Truth if you don't want to hear it, she don't

2175
01:38:45,920 --> 01:38:47,800
Speaker 1: tell the truth. Ask you.

2176
01:38:48,720 --> 01:38:50,840
Speaker 2: After she tells the truth, she may be like, Okay,

2177
01:38:51,840 --> 01:38:54,679
Speaker 2: maybe I was a little use, little harsh as you lie,

2178
01:38:54,680 --> 01:38:56,720
Speaker 2: because but you're telling the truth like you're what you are,

2179
01:38:56,760 --> 01:38:57,720
Speaker 2: bluntly honest.

2180
01:38:57,520 --> 01:38:59,840
Speaker 1: Because I think that we need no no.

2181
01:39:00,120 --> 01:39:04,080
Speaker 2: The thing about me, but the thing about a Taurus

2182
01:39:04,240 --> 01:39:06,840
Speaker 2: is like you're right, like I'm gonna tell you the truth.

2183
01:39:07,040 --> 01:39:08,960
Speaker 2: But then if I say it too harshly and then

2184
01:39:08,960 --> 01:39:10,840
Speaker 2: you'll be looking like I hurt your feelings, then I

2185
01:39:10,880 --> 01:39:13,519
Speaker 2: feel bad and I'm like okay, then I'm ala yeah,

2186
01:39:13,640 --> 01:39:14,439
Speaker 2: because I'm gonna be.

2187
01:39:14,439 --> 01:39:18,080
Speaker 1: Like, oh, well, I mean, I ain't mean it like that.

2188
01:39:18,760 --> 01:39:20,600
Speaker 2: Then I try to move. One thing I do is

2189
01:39:20,800 --> 01:39:24,880
Speaker 2: like I'll put myself in the equation no, like, if

2190
01:39:24,920 --> 01:39:27,000
Speaker 2: I say something to somebody and I can tell it

2191
01:39:27,080 --> 01:39:29,360
Speaker 2: hurt they feelings, then I'll try to make it seem

2192
01:39:29,439 --> 01:39:31,519
Speaker 2: like it applies to both of us when it really

2193
01:39:31,640 --> 01:39:33,120
Speaker 2: just apply to you.

2194
01:39:33,439 --> 01:39:38,120
Speaker 1: Her me out, her me out and used to let me,

2195
01:39:38,439 --> 01:39:38,800
Speaker 1: let me tell you.

2196
01:39:38,880 --> 01:39:42,559
Speaker 3: Let me say my sister told me like, oh that's passive,

2197
01:39:42,600 --> 01:39:44,840
Speaker 3: and I'm like passive, you know, like give me the

2198
01:39:44,840 --> 01:39:47,200
Speaker 3: true definition of being passive to someone, right, She's like,

2199
01:39:47,840 --> 01:39:51,799
Speaker 3: so imagine it for roommates, right, and dishes is getting

2200
01:39:51,840 --> 01:39:55,240
Speaker 3: fucking wildish ship, And I'd be like, a keyki keep.

2201
01:39:55,080 --> 01:39:56,559
Speaker 1: Bitch, wash them dishes? What are you doing?

2202
01:39:56,600 --> 01:39:59,280
Speaker 3: And then you respond a keyki key bitch, you wash

2203
01:39:59,320 --> 01:40:01,479
Speaker 3: them dishes? And now I'm angry because I feel like

2204
01:40:01,520 --> 01:40:04,439
Speaker 3: that I've already just like washing the dish.

2205
01:40:04,560 --> 01:40:06,280
Speaker 1: It's dirty as fuck? You dirty? At what you're doing.

2206
01:40:06,520 --> 01:40:07,680
Speaker 1: But it's like I didn't say that to you.

2207
01:40:07,760 --> 01:40:10,439
Speaker 2: I didn't say, hey, guys, you know, can you him

2208
01:40:10,439 --> 01:40:11,840
Speaker 2: with the dish? You know it's getting kind of big.

2209
01:40:11,880 --> 01:40:14,240
Speaker 2: I don't like this. Can we can we not let

2210
01:40:14,240 --> 01:40:15,000
Speaker 2: the dishes get like.

2211
01:40:15,840 --> 01:40:17,559
Speaker 3: And when she finally explained like that, I'm like, oh,

2212
01:40:17,560 --> 01:40:21,559
Speaker 3: i bit chumping past my whole life. I'm very all

2213
01:40:21,600 --> 01:40:24,800
Speaker 3: the time, I'm not and I just stopped soon as myself, like, listen,

2214
01:40:24,840 --> 01:40:27,960
Speaker 3: I ain't even benchmo therapist yet and we have yet

2215
01:40:27,960 --> 01:40:30,040
Speaker 3: in caps, bitch because I'm because I'm going yet.

2216
01:40:33,160 --> 01:40:35,240
Speaker 1: Being yes, yes absolutely, because I'm.

2217
01:40:35,640 --> 01:40:38,880
Speaker 2: How you feel trying to sugar color not not no more.

2218
01:40:38,960 --> 01:40:41,840
Speaker 2: Now it's like, okay, I want this from you, so

2219
01:40:41,880 --> 01:40:43,040
Speaker 2: please don't do this to me again.

2220
01:40:43,400 --> 01:40:45,960
Speaker 3: I will always ask please because I feel like that

2221
01:40:46,240 --> 01:40:48,240
Speaker 3: it's nice. So if you take it wrong, you're just

2222
01:40:48,240 --> 01:40:50,200
Speaker 3: trying to bully me at this point because I said please,

2223
01:40:50,720 --> 01:40:52,560
Speaker 3: so it to be like you was being rude, but

2224
01:40:52,720 --> 01:40:56,080
Speaker 3: you're being narcissistic. I said, can you please not do that?

2225
01:40:56,120 --> 01:40:58,799
Speaker 3: I said in the com voice, and I asked you nicely.

2226
01:40:59,080 --> 01:41:02,439
Speaker 3: At this point in time, you're just being like, what

2227
01:41:02,560 --> 01:41:02,760
Speaker 3: is it?

2228
01:41:02,760 --> 01:41:03,080
Speaker 1: What is it?

2229
01:41:03,520 --> 01:41:07,160
Speaker 3: You're you're being reactive because I called you on on

2230
01:41:07,200 --> 01:41:08,800
Speaker 3: something that you're so comfortable.

2231
01:41:08,720 --> 01:41:10,320
Speaker 2: And then they take that moment and be like, well

2232
01:41:10,360 --> 01:41:13,040
Speaker 2: you did this, Oh we're gonna turn. You just want

2233
01:41:13,040 --> 01:41:16,160
Speaker 2: to rebuttal with they. You want to rebuttal, and you're

2234
01:41:16,200 --> 01:41:18,720
Speaker 2: being narcissistic, and you're trying to have a rebuttal to

2235
01:41:19,200 --> 01:41:20,840
Speaker 2: keep up with what I'm asking you, because if you

2236
01:41:20,840 --> 01:41:23,240
Speaker 2: had a problem with what I was doing, it's bring

2237
01:41:23,360 --> 01:41:26,000
Speaker 2: out as soon as I did it, not when I'm

2238
01:41:26,000 --> 01:41:28,559
Speaker 2: calling you out. Do not wait to say.

2239
01:41:28,400 --> 01:41:32,000
Speaker 3: Hey, if if I if me and you go to

2240
01:41:32,040 --> 01:41:35,040
Speaker 3: the store right and I'm buying you'll your fuck right

2241
01:41:35,439 --> 01:41:38,599
Speaker 3: and then you you you bought me twenty twenty dollars

2242
01:41:38,600 --> 01:41:40,679
Speaker 3: working full well, be like, hey, you you never sent

2243
01:41:40,720 --> 01:41:43,040
Speaker 3: me that twenty dollars. I mean that ten And I'm like,

2244
01:41:43,600 --> 01:41:46,160
Speaker 3: they talk about you a thousand dollars worth of clothes.

2245
01:41:46,160 --> 01:41:48,960
Speaker 3: Why are you asking for this? Tan Is that's a rebuttal.

2246
01:41:49,360 --> 01:41:51,960
Speaker 2: But you ain't have no problem spending two thousand dollars

2247
01:41:52,000 --> 01:41:54,320
Speaker 2: on me And then now that I'm asking you for

2248
01:41:54,439 --> 01:41:56,160
Speaker 2: half of this tand back, now you have a problem.

2249
01:41:56,280 --> 01:41:57,680
Speaker 1: If you have a problem said we have a.

2250
01:41:57,680 --> 01:42:00,679
Speaker 2: Problem, you're not waiting to have a problem agree about

2251
01:42:00,720 --> 01:42:03,680
Speaker 2: this narcissistic one on one and they will try to

2252
01:42:03,720 --> 01:42:04,880
Speaker 2: make you feel like that you're crazy.

2253
01:42:04,960 --> 01:42:06,960
Speaker 1: What about, Oh you're not.

2254
01:42:07,160 --> 01:42:10,280
Speaker 2: And I'm telling you because and that's why I said,

2255
01:42:10,280 --> 01:42:13,320
Speaker 2: That's why I know I was done with that last relationship.

2256
01:42:12,760 --> 01:42:15,880
Speaker 1: All right, sonnet into because you.

2257
01:42:21,280 --> 01:42:26,920
Speaker 2: Block his ass why already blocked from my life? But no,

2258
01:42:27,560 --> 01:42:29,679
Speaker 2: I said that because it was a lot of times

2259
01:42:29,720 --> 01:42:32,200
Speaker 2: like I'm not gonna lie. I gave things that that

2260
01:42:32,280 --> 01:42:35,360
Speaker 2: were that were bad and I was toxic too. But honestly,

2261
01:42:35,360 --> 01:42:37,960
Speaker 2: the last year it was like I was really trying.

2262
01:42:38,160 --> 01:42:39,559
Speaker 2: Every time I would be like, hey, I don't like

2263
01:42:39,560 --> 01:42:42,280
Speaker 2: when you do this, but what about in twenty thirteen,

2264
01:42:42,479 --> 01:42:45,040
Speaker 2: I was like, Okay, I'm gonna yeah, So listen, you

2265
01:42:45,040 --> 01:42:48,280
Speaker 2: need to recognize those narcissistic behavior hold on her me out,

2266
01:42:48,320 --> 01:42:52,120
Speaker 2: through her me out. You have something that is unconsciously.

2267
01:42:51,520 --> 01:42:53,000
Speaker 1: Still block that nigga.

2268
01:42:53,560 --> 01:42:56,160
Speaker 3: Plead with you about that situation because you're not letting

2269
01:42:56,160 --> 01:42:58,479
Speaker 3: it go. And when you can't let it go, and

2270
01:42:58,640 --> 01:43:01,920
Speaker 3: and something always lead back to the is something unconsciously

2271
01:43:01,960 --> 01:43:03,639
Speaker 3: that you don't know Tell your therapist because I don't

2272
01:43:03,640 --> 01:43:07,160
Speaker 3: know how to help you with that.

2273
01:43:08,280 --> 01:43:10,599
Speaker 2: Because honestly, I like a lot.

2274
01:43:10,800 --> 01:43:12,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, I project a lot, a lot of things I'll

2275
01:43:12,880 --> 01:43:14,640
Speaker 1: be going through. We went through something in LA.

2276
01:43:14,760 --> 01:43:17,160
Speaker 2: We had talked about it, our projected and we're working

2277
01:43:17,200 --> 01:43:17,599
Speaker 2: through it.

2278
01:43:17,680 --> 01:43:19,040
Speaker 1: But it's unconsciously though.

2279
01:43:19,760 --> 01:43:22,479
Speaker 3: I'm I think the point that she was making is like,

2280
01:43:22,600 --> 01:43:24,679
Speaker 3: you need to talk to your therapist about it, because

2281
01:43:26,520 --> 01:43:31,439
Speaker 3: tell tell hey, hey, something bothering me with this ship

2282
01:43:31,439 --> 01:43:32,040
Speaker 3: and I don't know what.

2283
01:43:33,040 --> 01:43:35,160
Speaker 1: Help me wake that bitch up so I can get

2284
01:43:35,240 --> 01:43:35,639
Speaker 1: rid of her.

2285
01:43:35,800 --> 01:43:37,599
Speaker 2: She needs to move out of my motherfucking mind because

2286
01:43:37,600 --> 01:43:39,479
Speaker 2: I don't know here, but she's here.

2287
01:43:39,800 --> 01:43:42,719
Speaker 1: Amen, Amen, Okay. So now we're.

2288
01:43:42,520 --> 01:43:45,240
Speaker 2: Gonna get into the bib.

2289
01:43:49,439 --> 01:43:51,360
Speaker 1: About Okay, So.

2290
01:43:51,439 --> 01:43:52,719
Speaker 2: We're gonna let you do about.

2291
01:43:54,040 --> 01:43:56,000
Speaker 1: By the time this job, your EP gonna be out.

2292
01:43:56,160 --> 01:44:00,160
Speaker 2: So what can the girls tune into and listen?

2293
01:44:00,920 --> 01:44:01,479
Speaker 1: Be okay?

2294
01:44:01,600 --> 01:44:03,720
Speaker 3: So okay, we're gonna start down the list right We

2295
01:44:03,800 --> 01:44:06,280
Speaker 3: got well, I don't know in order right now because

2296
01:44:06,320 --> 01:44:07,920
Speaker 3: I'm fucked up.

2297
01:44:08,040 --> 01:44:10,840
Speaker 1: Movie got you?

2298
01:44:11,720 --> 01:44:12,040
Speaker 2: Okay.

2299
01:44:12,360 --> 01:44:15,640
Speaker 3: So ghetto love is given like a ghetto we ass relationship.

2300
01:44:15,680 --> 01:44:18,120
Speaker 3: You know it's given, it's given. I love you, but

2301
01:44:18,160 --> 01:44:19,640
Speaker 3: you a hood ass nigga, But I love you. We

2302
01:44:19,640 --> 01:44:21,080
Speaker 3: gotta figure it out. We gotta make it worried, but

2303
01:44:21,080 --> 01:44:23,160
Speaker 3: I still love you. We gotta figure it out. Gettle love,

2304
01:44:23,240 --> 01:44:25,080
Speaker 3: you know. Get it is always going to be the

2305
01:44:25,080 --> 01:44:26,920
Speaker 3: focus because it's it's commercial.

2306
01:44:26,960 --> 01:44:28,840
Speaker 1: It's crossover. It's cross.

2307
01:44:28,880 --> 01:44:33,400
Speaker 2: Like you would hear that fucking family reunions. You would

2308
01:44:33,400 --> 01:44:37,000
Speaker 2: hear that arenas you would you would heard everywhere big

2309
01:44:37,080 --> 01:44:39,000
Speaker 2: and then you would also heard smaller because you know,

2310
01:44:39,320 --> 01:44:41,200
Speaker 2: the smaller people fuck with you when they see the

2311
01:44:41,200 --> 01:44:44,120
Speaker 2: bigger people. Yeah, that's how you know.

2312
01:44:44,960 --> 01:44:47,960
Speaker 3: Flash it flash it is hood, you know, any and

2313
01:44:48,040 --> 01:44:50,840
Speaker 3: it and it gives like the baby type style.

2314
01:44:51,720 --> 01:44:53,240
Speaker 1: You was like really rapping on that house.

2315
01:44:53,240 --> 01:44:55,400
Speaker 3: Absolutely, you know, I wrote that years ago, you know.

2316
01:44:55,479 --> 01:44:57,840
Speaker 3: And also we had a gloss to it. Shout out

2317
01:44:57,880 --> 01:45:03,160
Speaker 3: to gloss up, you know, because she is yes, yes,

2318
01:45:03,200 --> 01:45:04,559
Speaker 3: she she is that girl.

2319
01:45:04,640 --> 01:45:09,800
Speaker 1: Love Yeah, I love We got oh another one another.

2320
01:45:09,560 --> 01:45:12,839
Speaker 2: One is also hood, you know, but it also gives commercial.

2321
01:45:12,840 --> 01:45:13,639
Speaker 1: It could be crossover.

2322
01:45:14,000 --> 01:45:16,280
Speaker 3: No, it's good because they have a look, have a

2323
01:45:16,320 --> 01:45:19,639
Speaker 3: melanic feel throughout the music at one point in time,

2324
01:45:19,720 --> 01:45:22,719
Speaker 3: so it also can be across the America. It's still hood,

2325
01:45:23,040 --> 01:45:25,160
Speaker 3: so you can be in the strip club hearing the

2326
01:45:25,280 --> 01:45:27,639
Speaker 3: song like it gives it's a whole lot of money

2327
01:45:27,680 --> 01:45:31,800
Speaker 3: in the smallfucker Okay, Okay, every like her time that

2328
01:45:31,840 --> 01:45:33,080
Speaker 3: motherfucker song drop Bitch.

2329
01:45:33,080 --> 01:45:36,160
Speaker 1: I spend ten thousand dollars, so I was about to

2330
01:45:36,160 --> 01:45:37,080
Speaker 1: play that whole right now.

2331
01:45:37,640 --> 01:45:41,000
Speaker 2: Beah, you owe me some money making that good ass song. Okay,

2332
01:45:41,040 --> 01:45:42,240
Speaker 2: I'm trying to figure it the fuck out.

2333
01:45:42,240 --> 01:45:45,120
Speaker 1: That's so much money.

2334
01:45:44,439 --> 01:45:47,920
Speaker 2: How well the other song that she had with russ

2335
01:45:47,920 --> 01:45:50,080
Speaker 2: I like the Way You Were. I used to love

2336
01:45:50,160 --> 01:45:50,759
Speaker 2: that song.

2337
01:45:51,040 --> 01:45:54,680
Speaker 1: Love Bea has a good voice. Her song is different.

2338
01:45:54,439 --> 01:45:57,080
Speaker 2: She absolutely does she I don't I feel like like

2339
01:45:57,200 --> 01:45:58,880
Speaker 2: she should be on Like you know what I'm saying.

2340
01:45:59,080 --> 01:45:59,960
Speaker 1: Her voice is different.

2341
01:46:00,280 --> 01:46:04,720
Speaker 2: I only had two tiktoks that it got a lot

2342
01:46:04,720 --> 01:46:08,439
Speaker 2: of you like mad views, and one of them was

2343
01:46:08,479 --> 01:46:11,280
Speaker 2: with your song. I hated like this little charcutery board party,

2344
01:46:11,640 --> 01:46:18,280
Speaker 2: and I put a pretty girl like this shih Sakisha.

2345
01:46:20,000 --> 01:46:21,519
Speaker 1: I did a charcuteri board party.

2346
01:46:21,560 --> 01:46:23,800
Speaker 3: My friend had a party back in like January for

2347
01:46:23,880 --> 01:46:26,920
Speaker 3: her birthday, and everybody had to bring like a different

2348
01:46:26,920 --> 01:46:28,880
Speaker 3: board and I made a TikTok to it and I

2349
01:46:28,960 --> 01:46:31,040
Speaker 3: put your phone in the background, and it got like

2350
01:46:31,280 --> 01:46:35,240
Speaker 3: two hundred thousand views on you know it's crazy, like

2351
01:46:35,560 --> 01:46:38,200
Speaker 3: right now, like with this roll out, with everything that

2352
01:46:38,200 --> 01:46:41,880
Speaker 3: I'm doing, you know, like I know for a fact

2353
01:46:41,880 --> 01:46:44,320
Speaker 3: that I'm a great motherfucker artist, you know, But it's

2354
01:46:44,360 --> 01:46:46,840
Speaker 3: all about finding yourself because once once you have that

2355
01:46:46,920 --> 01:46:50,080
Speaker 3: confidence to go into your label, to like go into

2356
01:46:50,160 --> 01:46:53,200
Speaker 3: your prayers, like go inte, your cousin, your fans, whoever

2357
01:46:53,200 --> 01:46:56,040
Speaker 3: you call them, it's like that is when they really

2358
01:46:56,080 --> 01:46:58,000
Speaker 3: start to pick up on that superstar energy.

2359
01:46:58,240 --> 01:47:00,000
Speaker 1: Once you were that ship and they picked that ship up,

2360
01:47:00,120 --> 01:47:03,400
Speaker 1: you know, so they can't believe, like how can somebody

2361
01:47:03,439 --> 01:47:04,880
Speaker 1: believe in you if you don't believe in yourself?

2362
01:47:04,920 --> 01:47:08,240
Speaker 3: Absolutely, It's this record on my EP called Leak the Cap.

2363
01:47:08,560 --> 01:47:11,439
Speaker 3: I'm pretty sure people gonna be like, I likes sad,

2364
01:47:11,520 --> 01:47:13,320
Speaker 3: but it's the you know, it hurt me out. I'm

2365
01:47:13,320 --> 01:47:14,880
Speaker 3: pretty sure that at first they're gonna be like, what

2366
01:47:14,920 --> 01:47:15,080
Speaker 3: is this?

2367
01:47:15,160 --> 01:47:16,679
Speaker 1: What is this? What is this? Bitch?

2368
01:47:16,800 --> 01:47:21,720
Speaker 2: That's that's that's gonna be a undeniable here, And it's

2369
01:47:21,760 --> 01:47:22,599
Speaker 2: because they're gonna.

2370
01:47:22,360 --> 01:47:23,400
Speaker 1: Hate it so bad for us.

2371
01:47:23,439 --> 01:47:26,200
Speaker 2: They wait to hear it, and that ship is going

2372
01:47:26,280 --> 01:47:28,000
Speaker 2: to be ahead, and the video is going to be

2373
01:47:28,040 --> 01:47:28,240
Speaker 2: a hit.

2374
01:47:28,280 --> 01:47:30,280
Speaker 3: Everything is going to be big. It's gonna be juicy.

2375
01:47:30,280 --> 01:47:32,240
Speaker 3: It's gonna be like this bitch.

2376
01:47:32,040 --> 01:47:36,080
Speaker 2: Is I'm gonna talk about and I occupy lane.

2377
01:47:36,160 --> 01:47:41,600
Speaker 3: The bitch is fear so you know shod you know,

2378
01:47:41,720 --> 01:47:46,400
Speaker 3: my sister. But it's like like that ship is actually real.

2379
01:47:46,600 --> 01:47:49,080
Speaker 3: Like when I do crossover records, you won't see certain

2380
01:47:49,120 --> 01:47:52,799
Speaker 3: artists doing that ship because they for what their fans

2381
01:47:52,880 --> 01:47:54,960
Speaker 3: might say about them, or they for how many likes

2382
01:47:55,000 --> 01:47:56,759
Speaker 3: they might get on the posts, for how many comments

2383
01:47:56,760 --> 01:47:58,479
Speaker 3: they might get on the post. But I don't give

2384
01:47:58,520 --> 01:48:01,240
Speaker 3: a fuck if I get five hundred, like four hundred likes,

2385
01:48:01,320 --> 01:48:04,920
Speaker 3: But you see what I posted, Bitch, I said.

2386
01:48:04,880 --> 01:48:06,519
Speaker 1: I'll be in the comments and the likes.

2387
01:48:06,560 --> 01:48:07,479
Speaker 2: Bitch, you know me.

2388
01:48:08,120 --> 01:48:12,880
Speaker 3: But it's like you know the algorithm of certain platforms

2389
01:48:12,880 --> 01:48:15,320
Speaker 3: because I ain't gonna call out the platforms, but still

2390
01:48:16,560 --> 01:48:21,400
Speaker 3: we certain platforms to give you thirty thousand likes in

2391
01:48:21,439 --> 01:48:23,639
Speaker 3: your picture and give you four hundred likes on a fly.

2392
01:48:25,400 --> 01:48:27,920
Speaker 3: But it's alright though, because it's like I'm not paying

2393
01:48:27,920 --> 01:48:30,760
Speaker 3: you to boost no motherfucking fly beat you. Bitch ain't

2394
01:48:30,800 --> 01:48:32,000
Speaker 3: no wrong, be at right?

2395
01:48:32,680 --> 01:48:33,320
Speaker 1: This they no wrong.

2396
01:48:33,560 --> 01:48:34,880
Speaker 2: It's I don't need to worry about it. I'm not

2397
01:48:34,920 --> 01:48:35,960
Speaker 2: paying you to boost this shit.

2398
01:48:37,240 --> 01:48:40,360
Speaker 3: They know wrong be at bitch before you switched and

2399
01:48:40,439 --> 01:48:43,519
Speaker 3: wanted to be on some other ship that ain't you, bitch,

2400
01:48:43,520 --> 01:48:44,720
Speaker 3: I was getting them likes on this ship.

2401
01:48:44,760 --> 01:48:47,000
Speaker 2: I don't know what going on around here. Well beat

2402
01:48:47,040 --> 01:48:49,360
Speaker 2: you know what I posted? They no wrong be don't

2403
01:48:49,360 --> 01:48:52,600
Speaker 2: even worry about it. No, seriously, Okay. So who is

2404
01:48:52,640 --> 01:48:55,519
Speaker 2: an artist that you haven't worked with that you want

2405
01:48:55,560 --> 01:48:55,920
Speaker 2: to work with?

2406
01:48:55,960 --> 01:48:56,000
Speaker 5: Me?

2407
01:48:58,600 --> 01:48:59,639
Speaker 1: Like your dream?

2408
01:49:00,760 --> 01:49:00,920
Speaker 4: You know?

2409
01:49:01,000 --> 01:49:02,840
Speaker 1: She from Houston, Mam.

2410
01:49:02,800 --> 01:49:07,000
Speaker 3: Lizz like I love, I love how she occupied, how

2411
01:49:07,000 --> 01:49:11,439
Speaker 3: she occupied alame bitches, feel like like she's she's the

2412
01:49:11,520 --> 01:49:12,720
Speaker 3: fucking bomb.

2413
01:49:12,400 --> 01:49:14,600
Speaker 2: Like commercial.

2414
01:49:16,080 --> 01:49:19,040
Speaker 3: Absolutely, you know, like you will see people troll her

2415
01:49:19,160 --> 01:49:20,519
Speaker 3: and just like why would you do that?

2416
01:49:20,560 --> 01:49:23,800
Speaker 1: And arenas be sold out because she's that bitch. That's

2417
01:49:23,880 --> 01:49:25,160
Speaker 1: why my sister did that.

2418
01:49:25,320 --> 01:49:26,880
Speaker 2: You can't you?

2419
01:49:27,240 --> 01:49:30,360
Speaker 3: And then also like you, you can't be afraid to

2420
01:49:30,400 --> 01:49:32,840
Speaker 3: support people that don't know you because you know how

2421
01:49:32,880 --> 01:49:34,800
Speaker 3: like certain people be like, I'm not posting because I

2422
01:49:34,800 --> 01:49:38,000
Speaker 3: know that she won't respond. Listen, I don't I don't

2423
01:49:38,000 --> 01:49:39,400
Speaker 3: care if I write you a ME and thoms and

2424
01:49:39,439 --> 01:49:42,000
Speaker 3: you don't respond. I still love you because I genuinely

2425
01:49:42,040 --> 01:49:43,840
Speaker 3: want you to win. I genuinely love you.

2426
01:49:43,920 --> 01:49:45,360
Speaker 1: I don't care. I don't.

2427
01:49:45,400 --> 01:49:46,920
Speaker 3: I don't love you because I think that if I

2428
01:49:47,000 --> 01:49:48,920
Speaker 3: post you, you're going to respond to me.

2429
01:49:49,000 --> 01:49:51,120
Speaker 1: Then by d m U, then you're going to respond

2430
01:49:51,120 --> 01:49:52,800
Speaker 1: to me. I don't care. I still love you. I

2431
01:49:52,840 --> 01:49:54,640
Speaker 1: don't care love that. I love that.

2432
01:49:55,000 --> 01:49:56,840
Speaker 2: It's crazy because you know, we've had a lot of

2433
01:49:56,840 --> 01:49:58,559
Speaker 2: the rap girls on the show, and we talked to

2434
01:49:58,600 --> 01:50:00,680
Speaker 2: a lot of people just in general, and a lot

2435
01:50:00,680 --> 01:50:02,640
Speaker 2: of times people don't give lives of her flowers. So

2436
01:50:02,680 --> 01:50:04,639
Speaker 2: I'm glad that you shouted her out for real, that's

2437
01:50:04,680 --> 01:50:06,280
Speaker 2: my sister. Well, I think it's because she's in a

2438
01:50:06,280 --> 01:50:09,200
Speaker 2: different lane too. She's not in the lane of she's

2439
01:50:09,240 --> 01:50:09,599
Speaker 2: not in the.

2440
01:50:09,560 --> 01:50:10,520
Speaker 1: Lane of comparison.

2441
01:50:10,880 --> 01:50:14,080
Speaker 2: None of these like like they may think, Hey, she's

2442
01:50:14,120 --> 01:50:14,680
Speaker 2: in her own lane.

2443
01:50:14,680 --> 01:50:16,839
Speaker 1: So I don't see her. I don't see no competition.

2444
01:50:16,920 --> 01:50:17,960
Speaker 1: I don't know who it is.

2445
01:50:18,680 --> 01:50:21,439
Speaker 2: I want everyone on this planet to win, even if

2446
01:50:21,439 --> 01:50:22,000
Speaker 2: they don't like me.

2447
01:50:22,040 --> 01:50:22,479
Speaker 1: I don't give.

2448
01:50:23,320 --> 01:50:24,760
Speaker 2: I don't. I don't live in the worlds where people

2449
01:50:24,760 --> 01:50:26,400
Speaker 2: don't like me. I don't live in the worlds where

2450
01:50:26,439 --> 01:50:28,720
Speaker 2: people don't respond to me. I feel like that even

2451
01:50:28,760 --> 01:50:30,920
Speaker 2: if I even after I send you a media messages,

2452
01:50:31,000 --> 01:50:36,040
Speaker 2: you have respered to me. Well, okay, see, okay, if

2453
01:50:36,040 --> 01:50:37,880
Speaker 2: a beach I don't like me, then I don't want to.

2454
01:50:37,880 --> 01:50:38,400
Speaker 1: Work with you.

2455
01:50:39,760 --> 01:50:41,040
Speaker 2: I never said I was gonna work with them.

2456
01:50:41,360 --> 01:50:43,680
Speaker 1: No. If I know for a fact of bitch I

2457
01:50:43,680 --> 01:50:45,559
Speaker 1: don't like me, I will never work with you. Never.

2458
01:50:45,720 --> 01:50:47,479
Speaker 1: But I don't. I don't give a funk. If you

2459
01:50:47,560 --> 01:50:48,400
Speaker 1: were just status that.

2460
01:50:48,360 --> 01:50:51,439
Speaker 3: I can never in life reach, and that ship makes

2461
01:50:51,439 --> 01:50:52,880
Speaker 3: sense in my career to work with you, I will

2462
01:50:52,920 --> 01:50:58,679
Speaker 3: never work with you. I'm not I'm not I'm human

2463
01:50:59,280 --> 01:51:01,120
Speaker 3: if you try to play with me, but just up

2464
01:51:01,120 --> 01:51:01,519
Speaker 3: in this stuff.

2465
01:51:01,560 --> 01:51:03,280
Speaker 2: But do you think that's us being human or do

2466
01:51:03,320 --> 01:51:06,360
Speaker 2: you think that's us being pity? Because when business is

2467
01:51:06,439 --> 01:51:10,920
Speaker 2: business then and it's strictly financial, then are we being petty?

2468
01:51:10,960 --> 01:51:13,240
Speaker 2: Because it's like, okay, I might I know you might

2469
01:51:13,320 --> 01:51:15,760
Speaker 2: not like me, but like, if it makes sense for us.

2470
01:51:15,640 --> 01:51:18,360
Speaker 1: To work together, collapse together, would you still do it?

2471
01:51:18,479 --> 01:51:19,479
Speaker 1: I feel like when you reach a.

2472
01:51:19,400 --> 01:51:22,080
Speaker 3: Certain le No, no, because do you feel like then

2473
01:51:22,120 --> 01:51:25,080
Speaker 3: your morals are.

2474
01:51:24,160 --> 01:51:25,040
Speaker 1: Being well off?

2475
01:51:25,400 --> 01:51:30,120
Speaker 3: It's like, if you've ever disrespected me publicly, no matter

2476
01:51:30,160 --> 01:51:32,280
Speaker 3: how big you get, no matter how much shine you

2477
01:51:32,320 --> 01:51:33,240
Speaker 3: get from whatever.

2478
01:51:33,000 --> 01:51:35,599
Speaker 1: You get, what about not disrespecting you publicly, but just you.

2479
01:51:35,680 --> 01:51:42,080
Speaker 3: Know, okay, if it never hit the nets, yeah, then

2480
01:51:42,080 --> 01:51:44,479
Speaker 3: we get fixed it. But if you went about it

2481
01:51:44,520 --> 01:51:49,439
Speaker 3: the wrong way, never, never never, if it ever went public,

2482
01:51:49,520 --> 01:51:50,360
Speaker 3: fuck you forever.

2483
01:51:50,640 --> 01:51:51,479
Speaker 1: Yeah I won't.

2484
01:51:51,960 --> 01:51:53,920
Speaker 3: I won't never come out and say fuck you forever.

2485
01:51:53,960 --> 01:51:55,120
Speaker 3: I won't say that shit publicly.

2486
01:51:55,120 --> 01:51:55,200
Speaker 2: Not.

2487
01:51:55,479 --> 01:51:56,320
Speaker 1: But that's how I feel.

2488
01:51:56,360 --> 01:51:57,920
Speaker 2: I'm on that, but I can't.

2489
01:51:58,200 --> 01:52:01,920
Speaker 3: I can't Internet before so one but cause it's like, bitch,

2490
01:52:02,439 --> 01:52:04,280
Speaker 3: I get too angry and now fuck around to pull

2491
01:52:04,320 --> 01:52:06,000
Speaker 3: up on what you want me to pull up on. Bitch,

2492
01:52:06,080 --> 01:52:08,240
Speaker 3: you call your cousin to the whole come my side.

2493
01:52:08,320 --> 01:52:09,280
Speaker 1: But it's like, no, I don't.

2494
01:52:09,400 --> 01:52:09,639
Speaker 2: I don't.

2495
01:52:09,840 --> 01:52:11,519
Speaker 3: I don't want to be like that, you know, but

2496
01:52:11,560 --> 01:52:12,880
Speaker 3: if you're on the neck, I don't give. But if

2497
01:52:12,880 --> 01:52:14,439
Speaker 3: you're a person, I know you won't say this shit

2498
01:52:14,520 --> 01:52:14,760
Speaker 3: to me.

2499
01:52:15,760 --> 01:52:16,280
Speaker 1: I know you want to.

2500
01:52:16,680 --> 01:52:18,879
Speaker 2: But I feel like sometimes it is business, but sometimes

2501
01:52:18,880 --> 01:52:20,280
Speaker 2: like I'm not putting it to the side. I'm not.

2502
01:52:20,320 --> 01:52:21,120
Speaker 1: I'm a little bit of both.

2503
01:52:22,880 --> 01:52:26,600
Speaker 2: My bop of the week it's called What's Up by Mahalia.

2504
01:52:26,680 --> 01:52:29,000
Speaker 2: Y'all know, I really love her. She is just a

2505
01:52:29,040 --> 01:52:32,920
Speaker 2: song stress that always gives us good bops. I feel

2506
01:52:32,920 --> 01:52:36,479
Speaker 2: like one thing about her she gonna sing a tune, yes,

2507
01:52:36,520 --> 01:52:38,479
Speaker 2: And I feel like her voice is just like you know,

2508
01:52:38,720 --> 01:52:40,920
Speaker 2: like I always say this about certain artists. She has

2509
01:52:40,920 --> 01:52:45,280
Speaker 2: that voice that sounds like butter like it's flawless. Like

2510
01:52:45,320 --> 01:52:49,200
Speaker 2: what she sings, it's very it's very smooth. Y'all know,

2511
01:52:49,240 --> 01:52:51,879
Speaker 2: I got my playlist out right now, I'm working, literally

2512
01:52:52,320 --> 01:52:54,599
Speaker 2: working on another playlist because they've been liking the playlist

2513
01:52:54,640 --> 01:52:55,160
Speaker 2: I dropped.

2514
01:52:55,360 --> 01:52:57,479
Speaker 1: I dropped the R and B playlist for y'all. I'm

2515
01:52:57,479 --> 01:52:58,280
Speaker 1: gonna put that.

2516
01:52:58,160 --> 01:53:00,240
Speaker 2: Link in the bio, but I'm working on another one

2517
01:53:00,320 --> 01:53:03,320
Speaker 2: for y'all because people have been dropping a lot of

2518
01:53:03,320 --> 01:53:05,120
Speaker 2: good R and B. I always tell y'all, R and

2519
01:53:05,120 --> 01:53:07,000
Speaker 2: B ain't dead, y'all just not looking for it.

2520
01:53:07,400 --> 01:53:09,720
Speaker 1: So yeah, that's what I've been jamming constantly.

2521
01:53:09,800 --> 01:53:12,559
Speaker 2: What's Up by Mahalia, that's my bop of the week,

2522
01:53:12,840 --> 01:53:15,840
Speaker 2: Dre what You Got. I've been listening to All You

2523
01:53:15,880 --> 01:53:20,080
Speaker 2: Went by Drake and Young Thug, And I know Gunna

2524
01:53:20,360 --> 01:53:22,679
Speaker 2: was like my bop of the week a few weeks ago,

2525
01:53:22,720 --> 01:53:25,320
Speaker 2: But like I told y'all that week when I put Gunna,

2526
01:53:25,360 --> 01:53:26,160
Speaker 2: it's my bop of the week.

2527
01:53:26,200 --> 01:53:27,920
Speaker 1: I'm a civilian. I don't have.

2528
01:53:27,920 --> 01:53:30,320
Speaker 2: Anything to do with it. And I listened to both them.

2529
01:53:30,800 --> 01:53:36,200
Speaker 2: So I like the Young Dug song with dra I.

2530
01:53:35,840 --> 01:53:40,320
Speaker 3: Know that's about to me, it's like probably the best

2531
01:53:40,360 --> 01:53:41,559
Speaker 3: song on the album.

2532
01:53:42,000 --> 01:53:44,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, I listened to the album, did you? Yeah?

2533
01:53:44,960 --> 01:53:48,240
Speaker 2: I did when I was working out. I'm a Young

2534
01:53:48,320 --> 01:53:51,479
Speaker 2: Thug fan, so cool, but he done have so many

2535
01:53:51,479 --> 01:53:54,880
Speaker 2: better right, So that's why I'm like it was it

2536
01:53:54,920 --> 01:53:56,640
Speaker 2: was cool, it was something to I just thought it

2537
01:53:56,680 --> 01:53:57,519
Speaker 2: was something to release.

2538
01:53:58,160 --> 01:53:59,519
Speaker 1: That's how I feel about the album.

2539
01:54:00,160 --> 01:54:03,320
Speaker 2: Young Thug is a genie, not putting anything out. Yeah,

2540
01:54:03,600 --> 01:54:05,960
Speaker 2: Young Thug is a genius. This was something to release,

2541
01:54:06,040 --> 01:54:08,240
Speaker 2: and that's not no shade, no justice to him. He's

2542
01:54:08,280 --> 01:54:12,120
Speaker 2: an amazing artist. He's literally in my top three. I agree, literally,

2543
01:54:12,200 --> 01:54:17,000
Speaker 2: So it's no, it's not no, yes bitch all time.

2544
01:54:17,160 --> 01:54:19,400
Speaker 2: Hell do you remember the album that he released where

2545
01:54:19,400 --> 01:54:23,120
Speaker 2: he dropped people's names. It was like Floyd may Rihannah,

2546
01:54:23,880 --> 01:54:24,479
Speaker 2: why Cliff?

2547
01:54:24,680 --> 01:54:26,480
Speaker 1: That was. He's so creative.

2548
01:54:26,880 --> 01:54:28,680
Speaker 2: So I feel like this was just something, you know,

2549
01:54:28,680 --> 01:54:31,439
Speaker 2: because he's going through something right now, and I get it.

2550
01:54:31,479 --> 01:54:34,400
Speaker 2: But when I think of Young Thug's art and his artwork,

2551
01:54:34,720 --> 01:54:36,800
Speaker 2: this is not what I would say is his art,

2552
01:54:37,160 --> 01:54:39,520
Speaker 2: but I get it because you still have to release

2553
01:54:39,600 --> 01:54:41,320
Speaker 2: something as an artist, and it was.

2554
01:54:41,400 --> 01:54:43,440
Speaker 1: Enjoyable as a fan of his.

2555
01:54:43,560 --> 01:54:46,760
Speaker 3: It's wants you to go into a deep story if

2556
01:54:46,800 --> 01:54:48,600
Speaker 3: you I know, that's why I have to say these.

2557
01:54:48,960 --> 01:54:52,280
Speaker 1: If he tore the two people who.

2558
01:54:52,160 --> 01:54:54,640
Speaker 2: I listen to all the time, I'm ratchet. So let

2559
01:54:54,720 --> 01:54:55,720
Speaker 2: me tell you something I didn't know.

2560
01:54:55,800 --> 01:55:05,040
Speaker 1: Sorry, quick story, no no, no, this story lie somewhere.

2561
01:55:04,200 --> 01:55:08,160
Speaker 1: And I listened to a lot of young thugs. I

2562
01:55:08,200 --> 01:55:11,600
Speaker 1: listened to al Lah, Wayne and I go back and forth.

2563
01:55:11,400 --> 01:55:14,600
Speaker 2: In the Boosy and Webby three.

2564
01:55:14,680 --> 01:55:15,560
Speaker 1: Got it all right? Cool?

2565
01:55:16,120 --> 01:55:18,840
Speaker 2: So but y'all found my workout. So now we're gonna

2566
01:55:18,880 --> 01:55:20,680
Speaker 2: get into our favorite segment of the show.

2567
01:55:20,760 --> 01:55:22,200
Speaker 1: We should know. It's pour your heart out.

2568
01:55:22,240 --> 01:55:24,720
Speaker 3: So if y'all have any questions, y'all want to send

2569
01:55:24,720 --> 01:55:26,600
Speaker 3: the end, send him to ask for minds.

2570
01:55:26,600 --> 01:55:27,640
Speaker 1: That's as k p O.

2571
01:55:27,760 --> 01:55:31,520
Speaker 3: You are in my NDAs at gmail dot com. Send

2572
01:55:31,600 --> 01:55:35,080
Speaker 3: us your questions, send us your testimonials, and yeah, so

2573
01:55:35,320 --> 01:55:37,440
Speaker 3: let's go had into the questions, all right.

2574
01:55:37,680 --> 01:55:40,400
Speaker 1: Question number one, do you give a good advice like

2575
01:55:40,400 --> 01:55:45,200
Speaker 1: a good absolutely? Okay, we're gonna see now. Okay, it says. Okay.

2576
01:55:45,280 --> 01:55:47,600
Speaker 2: So I've been on this guy for eight years now,

2577
01:55:47,640 --> 01:55:49,760
Speaker 2: and we went to high school together and we messed

2578
01:55:49,760 --> 01:55:50,680
Speaker 2: around that summer.

2579
01:55:50,720 --> 01:55:53,200
Speaker 1: When I graduated, he moved to Vegas.

2580
01:55:53,520 --> 01:55:55,920
Speaker 2: Now, I'm very affectionate and want to be my man,

2581
01:55:56,080 --> 01:55:58,520
Speaker 2: my men, and my man type of bitch.

2582
01:55:58,840 --> 01:55:59,320
Speaker 1: So when he.

2583
01:55:59,360 --> 01:56:02,440
Speaker 2: Asked me to be he in twenty eighteen, I said no,

2584
01:56:02,920 --> 01:56:05,120
Speaker 2: I'm very much living my best life while he's in

2585
01:56:05,160 --> 01:56:08,600
Speaker 2: Vegas doing him as well. So just recently we've been

2586
01:56:08,760 --> 01:56:13,360
Speaker 2: exclusive long distance. He's coming to Houston, I'm going to Vegas,

2587
01:56:13,400 --> 01:56:16,160
Speaker 2: and honestly, I think he's the one I've always told

2588
01:56:16,200 --> 01:56:18,160
Speaker 2: him he's gonna be my husband and the father of

2589
01:56:18,200 --> 01:56:21,680
Speaker 2: my children. Now we're nine months strong. We get into

2590
01:56:21,680 --> 01:56:24,440
Speaker 2: petty arguments because I miss him and he's moving back

2591
01:56:24,480 --> 01:56:26,520
Speaker 2: to Texas at the end of the year. So that's

2592
01:56:26,520 --> 01:56:29,000
Speaker 2: what he says. But I always had to look behind

2593
01:56:29,040 --> 01:56:31,960
Speaker 2: my shoulder be my own man, as you can say.

2594
01:56:32,400 --> 01:56:34,960
Speaker 2: So my question is am I overthinking and he's my

2595
01:56:35,080 --> 01:56:37,240
Speaker 2: soulmate and we're meant to be together or is it

2596
01:56:37,240 --> 01:56:39,520
Speaker 2: too good to be true? And how can I let

2597
01:56:39,560 --> 01:56:41,640
Speaker 2: a man be a man? Because I've been my own

2598
01:56:41,680 --> 01:56:44,560
Speaker 2: for six years? Now as an independent woman who pays

2599
01:56:44,600 --> 01:56:47,880
Speaker 2: her own bills. Mind you, I'm tipsy typing this, so

2600
01:56:48,040 --> 01:56:50,320
Speaker 2: sorry if you read it and it kind of confuses you.

2601
01:56:50,640 --> 01:56:54,200
Speaker 2: I read this about ten times already. So basically, she

2602
01:56:54,280 --> 01:56:56,920
Speaker 2: got a man. She trying to figure out what they doing.

2603
01:56:58,040 --> 01:57:00,560
Speaker 2: How can she let herself go and really try to

2604
01:57:00,600 --> 01:57:01,120
Speaker 2: take care.

2605
01:57:01,000 --> 01:57:03,360
Speaker 3: Of her A drunk mind Teleos episode. So if you

2606
01:57:03,480 --> 01:57:05,920
Speaker 3: texting this tipsy, then that men you already know for

2607
01:57:05,960 --> 01:57:07,360
Speaker 3: a facu you can't trust this man. You right to

2608
01:57:07,400 --> 01:57:09,520
Speaker 3: know for a fact, you mean for you, I fuck

2609
01:57:09,560 --> 01:57:11,720
Speaker 3: with you, I love you, Thank you for sending a question,

2610
01:57:12,200 --> 01:57:13,760
Speaker 3: but you know for af fact that this ain't for you.

2611
01:57:13,800 --> 01:57:15,240
Speaker 3: This is just comfort right now. You know this is

2612
01:57:15,280 --> 01:57:17,520
Speaker 3: just something that is being your ego. You got to

2613
01:57:17,520 --> 01:57:19,080
Speaker 3: really find somebody that love you.

2614
01:57:19,000 --> 01:57:21,240
Speaker 1: And don't question it.

2615
01:57:21,560 --> 01:57:23,640
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, because I think a lot of the time

2616
01:57:23,720 --> 01:57:27,840
Speaker 3: people be just wanting you to when they ask questions,

2617
01:57:28,120 --> 01:57:30,560
Speaker 3: people be wanting you to confine what they already know.

2618
01:57:31,080 --> 01:57:34,280
Speaker 3: I read this book, they said, I forgot the name

2619
01:57:34,280 --> 01:57:36,160
Speaker 3: of the book, but I talked about it on another episode.

2620
01:57:36,200 --> 01:57:42,400
Speaker 3: It's called something about like not overthinking and you know,

2621
01:57:42,720 --> 01:57:45,240
Speaker 3: in your goods a lot of the time what you

2622
01:57:45,280 --> 01:57:49,080
Speaker 3: should do. However, though we love to ask people for

2623
01:57:49,160 --> 01:57:52,120
Speaker 3: their opinions, whether it be your friends, whether it be

2624
01:57:52,120 --> 01:57:54,880
Speaker 3: your mama, whether it be your grandma.

2625
01:57:54,600 --> 01:57:56,000
Speaker 1: Whoever, your therapist.

2626
01:57:56,280 --> 01:57:58,400
Speaker 2: But then it's like, you know, deep down in your

2627
01:57:58,440 --> 01:58:00,960
Speaker 2: gut what you want to do, and you should just

2628
01:58:01,040 --> 01:58:03,880
Speaker 2: follow that intuition, because then when you start asking all

2629
01:58:03,920 --> 01:58:07,280
Speaker 2: of these other people for outside perspectives, you end up

2630
01:58:07,400 --> 01:58:09,400
Speaker 2: now you got even most she going on your and

2631
01:58:09,400 --> 01:58:13,000
Speaker 2: then it was already confused, more confused because you have

2632
01:58:13,200 --> 01:58:16,080
Speaker 2: asked five different people and now they telling you they opinions,

2633
01:58:16,280 --> 01:58:18,360
Speaker 2: and now you like, Okay, well this is my opinion,

2634
01:58:18,560 --> 01:58:21,080
Speaker 2: but these five people told me I should do And

2635
01:58:21,080 --> 01:58:22,680
Speaker 2: then when you get another opinion, that's not what you

2636
01:58:22,720 --> 01:58:23,040
Speaker 2: want to hear.

2637
01:58:23,160 --> 01:58:26,480
Speaker 1: Sometimes you might get do what you somebody wants you

2638
01:58:26,560 --> 01:58:26,800
Speaker 1: to do.

2639
01:58:27,200 --> 01:58:28,760
Speaker 3: And I'm not saying it because I want you to

2640
01:58:28,800 --> 01:58:33,080
Speaker 3: steal right questions and ask us y'all questions. However, though,

2641
01:58:33,160 --> 01:58:37,440
Speaker 3: I feel like, sometimes though you know what is right

2642
01:58:37,480 --> 01:58:39,320
Speaker 3: for you and you know what you need to do,

2643
01:58:39,520 --> 01:58:41,520
Speaker 3: as you are typing that question, you are really thinking

2644
01:58:41,520 --> 01:58:43,560
Speaker 3: about your answer. And I know that for sure, because

2645
01:58:44,120 --> 01:58:45,440
Speaker 3: I might be sending the questions too.

2646
01:58:46,400 --> 01:58:48,960
Speaker 2: But but this is always my answer.

2647
01:58:49,080 --> 01:58:51,280
Speaker 1: Tried. If it don't work, it ain't the end of

2648
01:58:51,320 --> 01:58:54,520
Speaker 1: the world. Move back, It ain't the end of the world.

2649
01:58:54,720 --> 01:58:58,160
Speaker 2: You got more life to the word for damn for

2650
01:58:58,200 --> 01:59:01,520
Speaker 2: two weeks and you'll get over it. Try tried out,

2651
01:59:01,640 --> 01:59:05,320
Speaker 2: try it do, but you're gonna get.

2652
01:59:05,200 --> 01:59:06,280
Speaker 1: Through It was too nice.

2653
01:59:08,040 --> 01:59:12,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like you just got a row for nigga

2654
01:59:12,360 --> 01:59:13,560
Speaker 2: like rock like I.

2655
01:59:13,600 --> 01:59:16,440
Speaker 1: Don't play too much. It's a problem.

2656
01:59:16,760 --> 01:59:17,600
Speaker 2: That's the problem.

2657
01:59:17,600 --> 01:59:18,680
Speaker 1: That is my problem.

2658
01:59:18,800 --> 01:59:21,280
Speaker 2: Niggas. No, I ain't playing. I mean I play when

2659
01:59:21,280 --> 01:59:24,080
Speaker 2: I played, but then I'm not play too much. Okay, Dre,

2660
01:59:24,240 --> 01:59:25,240
Speaker 2: what you got Okay?

2661
01:59:25,640 --> 01:59:28,440
Speaker 3: Hey, lex Andrea, you are are the big sisters I

2662
01:59:28,520 --> 01:59:30,240
Speaker 3: never had, so I trust Shaw's advice.

2663
01:59:30,720 --> 01:59:32,160
Speaker 1: I'm twenty period.

2664
01:59:32,800 --> 01:59:35,360
Speaker 2: I'm twenty five years old and currently getting over a

2665
01:59:35,400 --> 01:59:39,080
Speaker 2: friendship breakup. Me and my ex best friends since kindergarten

2666
01:59:39,360 --> 01:59:43,320
Speaker 2: built out due to miscommunication back in twenty nineteen. We

2667
01:59:43,320 --> 01:59:45,600
Speaker 2: were as close as any friends could be. She was

2668
01:59:45,600 --> 01:59:48,520
Speaker 2: my right hand Anyways, we tried to get back cool,

2669
01:59:48,560 --> 01:59:51,240
Speaker 2: but it just felt forced. I text her recently to

2670
01:59:51,360 --> 01:59:53,120
Speaker 2: check on her and to let her know I still

2671
01:59:53,160 --> 01:59:55,920
Speaker 2: have love for her. I got no text bag at

2672
01:59:55,920 --> 01:59:56,400
Speaker 2: this point.

2673
01:59:56,480 --> 01:59:58,200
Speaker 3: I just want to let her go and move on

2674
01:59:58,320 --> 02:00:00,800
Speaker 3: to new friendships, but I feel like I won't find

2675
02:00:00,840 --> 02:00:04,160
Speaker 3: that again. It's true when people say friendship breakups hit

2676
02:00:04,200 --> 02:00:07,120
Speaker 3: heart like relationship breakups, I don't know where to start

2677
02:00:07,160 --> 02:00:09,680
Speaker 3: because I can't stop breaking my own heart thinking we

2678
02:00:09,720 --> 02:00:11,480
Speaker 3: could be the way we were. I need y'all to

2679
02:00:11,480 --> 02:00:17,200
Speaker 3: help let me say some first fuck people, period.

2680
02:00:17,920 --> 02:00:19,920
Speaker 1: I don't never understand what people say.

2681
02:00:20,040 --> 02:00:25,120
Speaker 3: Friendship breakups hurt worse than relationship breakups. My relationship breakups

2682
02:00:25,200 --> 02:00:27,160
Speaker 3: be hurt and worse cause nigga, I was fucking you,

2683
02:00:27,240 --> 02:00:30,680
Speaker 3: like I trusted you with my body, with my soul,

2684
02:00:30,880 --> 02:00:32,480
Speaker 3: with like everything.

2685
02:00:33,080 --> 02:00:34,960
Speaker 1: Friendships, Yeah, that shit hurt.

2686
02:00:35,320 --> 02:00:40,240
Speaker 2: But I also feel like people being blind to the signs,

2687
02:00:40,760 --> 02:00:43,920
Speaker 2: like people like women don't be good friends see you

2688
02:00:43,960 --> 02:00:44,600
Speaker 2: a lot of the time.

2689
02:00:44,640 --> 02:00:45,440
Speaker 1: I mean, but you can be.

2690
02:00:45,440 --> 02:00:47,640
Speaker 2: Blond in either situation. Though you can be blind to

2691
02:00:47,640 --> 02:00:49,400
Speaker 2: a nigga just as much you be blond to us. Yeah,

2692
02:00:49,440 --> 02:00:51,680
Speaker 2: but I think it's different when real, like when it's

2693
02:00:51,920 --> 02:00:54,680
Speaker 2: real feelings involved, Like it's a difference between being in

2694
02:00:54,720 --> 02:00:57,280
Speaker 2: love with somebody and then being friends with somebody. I'm

2695
02:00:57,280 --> 02:01:00,400
Speaker 2: not in love with my friends, but you love your friends.

2696
02:01:00,160 --> 02:01:02,640
Speaker 1: I love you, but I'm not in love with you.

2697
02:01:02,800 --> 02:01:05,080
Speaker 2: It's different. I'm not sharing good space with you. I'm

2698
02:01:05,080 --> 02:01:08,160
Speaker 2: not sharing intimate moments with you. I'm sharing more. I mean,

2699
02:01:08,320 --> 02:01:11,640
Speaker 2: I guess, I mean, I hear what you're saying, but

2700
02:01:11,680 --> 02:01:13,840
Speaker 2: I just feel like friends. That's a different, that's a

2701
02:01:13,920 --> 02:01:16,040
Speaker 2: family love like you, my bitch.

2702
02:01:16,040 --> 02:01:18,600
Speaker 1: I'm telling you things. I'm not telling this, nigga. It's

2703
02:01:18,640 --> 02:01:19,120
Speaker 1: a different.

2704
02:01:19,160 --> 02:01:19,760
Speaker 2: It's a different.

2705
02:01:19,760 --> 02:01:21,440
Speaker 3: But I feel like you gotta know who you could

2706
02:01:21,440 --> 02:01:23,480
Speaker 3: feel like it's family. And I feel like that's when

2707
02:01:23,520 --> 02:01:26,280
Speaker 3: people be making the wrong decisions, Like women be a

2708
02:01:26,280 --> 02:01:26,760
Speaker 3: lot of the time.

2709
02:01:26,800 --> 02:01:28,160
Speaker 1: You and meet a bitch and y'all.

2710
02:01:28,000 --> 02:01:30,240
Speaker 2: Vibe and y'all have a good time altogether, and you're like, oh,

2711
02:01:30,280 --> 02:01:33,120
Speaker 2: that's my best I'm gonna tell her everything, Like, no,

2712
02:01:33,200 --> 02:01:34,839
Speaker 2: bitch has gotta work for that type.

2713
02:01:34,680 --> 02:01:35,240
Speaker 4: Of bond with me.

2714
02:01:35,360 --> 02:01:37,120
Speaker 1: But she said that since kindergarten.

2715
02:01:37,120 --> 02:01:38,480
Speaker 3: But I'm gonna just say how it is now that

2716
02:01:38,600 --> 02:01:42,560
Speaker 3: she is trauma to start that ship is trauma. Both

2717
02:01:42,600 --> 02:01:45,760
Speaker 3: of them are bad, both of them. You know, you

2718
02:01:45,760 --> 02:01:48,560
Speaker 3: have disassociated yourself with a lot of ship and.

2719
02:01:48,800 --> 02:01:55,000
Speaker 1: You said me, yeah, yeah, I didn't.

2720
02:01:55,040 --> 02:01:55,240
Speaker 4: You know.

2721
02:01:55,320 --> 02:01:58,200
Speaker 1: It's just I be reading about you want to educate myself.

2722
02:01:59,560 --> 02:02:03,840
Speaker 1: That's gonna sy me. But listen, it's like like.

2723
02:02:05,360 --> 02:02:07,720
Speaker 3: On a certain standpoint, it's like nothing would ever be

2724
02:02:07,760 --> 02:02:09,640
Speaker 3: the same when you go back, no matter if it's

2725
02:02:09,680 --> 02:02:11,200
Speaker 3: a relationship, no matter if it's a friendship.

2726
02:02:11,440 --> 02:02:13,000
Speaker 1: Every like, everything's.

2727
02:02:12,600 --> 02:02:17,000
Speaker 3: Gonna be different, be different, you know, but never be passive,

2728
02:02:17,040 --> 02:02:19,240
Speaker 3: because now I feel like that the situation is passive.

2729
02:02:19,240 --> 02:02:21,680
Speaker 3: I always tell them exactly how you feel when you

2730
02:02:21,720 --> 02:02:24,160
Speaker 3: feel it, like, don't don't wait till they tell you

2731
02:02:24,200 --> 02:02:27,240
Speaker 3: something how they feel. Do not wait today, ask you somebody, like,

2732
02:02:27,360 --> 02:02:29,240
Speaker 3: tell them how you feel exactly when they do it,

2733
02:02:29,240 --> 02:02:31,000
Speaker 3: because that is the only way that someone can know

2734
02:02:31,360 --> 02:02:32,040
Speaker 3: how you feel.

2735
02:02:32,720 --> 02:02:34,160
Speaker 1: And to be.

2736
02:02:34,120 --> 02:02:38,640
Speaker 3: Honest, it's like, shit, maybe I outgrew the friendship, but

2737
02:02:38,680 --> 02:02:39,080
Speaker 3: y'all did not.

2738
02:02:39,160 --> 02:02:40,240
Speaker 1: I grow the comfort.

2739
02:02:40,440 --> 02:02:43,400
Speaker 3: You didn't outgrow telling her your business, telling her everything

2740
02:02:43,440 --> 02:02:45,640
Speaker 3: that's going on in your life, because you need somebody

2741
02:02:45,640 --> 02:02:47,520
Speaker 3: to being to hold that she didn't make you miserable.

2742
02:02:47,520 --> 02:02:49,520
Speaker 3: They should make you depressed, like this shit fucked up.

2743
02:02:50,360 --> 02:02:52,480
Speaker 3: But you also have to know, like certain like after

2744
02:02:52,520 --> 02:02:54,040
Speaker 3: a while, they don't deserve that she no more so

2745
02:02:54,080 --> 02:02:57,879
Speaker 3: if y'all not friends, and y'all not friends don't force it.

2746
02:02:56,640 --> 02:03:01,200
Speaker 3: But I also think too, just as a person, you

2747
02:03:01,360 --> 02:03:04,280
Speaker 3: have to learn the art of letting go of everybody.

2748
02:03:04,280 --> 02:03:06,360
Speaker 3: Because that's fine. I get what you was I get

2749
02:03:06,400 --> 02:03:08,960
Speaker 3: what you were saying. Just now too, were like, oh,

2750
02:03:09,040 --> 02:03:10,760
Speaker 3: it could be the same with men and women. I'm

2751
02:03:10,800 --> 02:03:15,160
Speaker 3: cool with letting anybody go, especially whether you go, whether

2752
02:03:15,200 --> 02:03:15,760
Speaker 3: you mind.

2753
02:03:17,520 --> 02:03:18,680
Speaker 1: She already let her go.

2754
02:03:18,800 --> 02:03:22,600
Speaker 2: No, but but but she said, I aspired to be

2755
02:03:22,800 --> 02:03:25,960
Speaker 2: I had to get to this point. I'm cool though,

2756
02:03:26,040 --> 02:03:28,800
Speaker 2: we're letting anybody go, whether it's a friend, whether it's

2757
02:03:28,800 --> 02:03:31,200
Speaker 2: a nigga, letting both y'all go. It don't go because

2758
02:03:31,200 --> 02:03:33,080
Speaker 2: I feel like you got some women who they don't

2759
02:03:33,120 --> 02:03:34,520
Speaker 2: forget that nigga fifty times.

2760
02:03:34,800 --> 02:03:39,280
Speaker 1: But home girl live, no, I haven't.

2761
02:03:40,000 --> 02:03:42,520
Speaker 3: Y'all have seen her me out. Now, if you live

2762
02:03:42,560 --> 02:03:46,160
Speaker 3: with a motherfucker, it ain't. It ain't just like I'm

2763
02:03:46,200 --> 02:03:48,560
Speaker 3: gonna just let you go on God like I would

2764
02:03:48,560 --> 02:03:51,280
Speaker 3: straight you, you know like. But then living with a

2765
02:03:51,360 --> 02:03:55,560
Speaker 3: motherfucker is different because you you have to make certain arrangements,

2766
02:03:55,560 --> 02:03:58,600
Speaker 3: certain justness, and letting go is not gonna be there either.

2767
02:03:59,400 --> 02:04:03,320
Speaker 3: Now I can literally say I see why women or

2768
02:04:03,400 --> 02:04:05,720
Speaker 3: men stay in relationships when they have a merriage. When

2769
02:04:05,680 --> 02:04:09,120
Speaker 3: the fam when they build some ship that she ain't

2770
02:04:09,160 --> 02:04:11,280
Speaker 3: the same when you just let this ship go. You

2771
02:04:11,360 --> 02:04:14,920
Speaker 3: don't live like that, and that ship is comfort. Even

2772
02:04:14,960 --> 02:04:17,200
Speaker 3: if you got to rebuild yourself and live a different way,

2773
02:04:17,240 --> 02:04:18,000
Speaker 3: it's still another thing.

2774
02:04:19,080 --> 02:04:21,360
Speaker 1: But in the letters because.

2775
02:04:24,280 --> 02:04:28,120
Speaker 2: A different space like that don't in the letter, she

2776
02:04:28,240 --> 02:04:31,000
Speaker 2: also said. She also says she felt like her friend.

2777
02:04:31,040 --> 02:04:33,280
Speaker 2: If you feel like this person has let you go,

2778
02:04:33,520 --> 02:04:36,320
Speaker 2: let them go. Hold on to somebody that already donna

2779
02:04:36,360 --> 02:04:39,120
Speaker 2: let you go because they don't know how. It's comfort

2780
02:04:39,760 --> 02:04:42,640
Speaker 2: uti comfort. But you gotta find that space of if

2781
02:04:42,680 --> 02:04:45,000
Speaker 2: somebody is okay with letting you go, you gotta be

2782
02:04:45,040 --> 02:04:46,040
Speaker 2: okay with letting them go.

2783
02:04:46,120 --> 02:04:47,360
Speaker 3: Check and I ain't gonna fake it for the for

2784
02:04:47,400 --> 02:04:48,840
Speaker 3: the first two weeks, you're gonna cry. But girl, this

2785
02:04:48,880 --> 02:04:50,160
Speaker 3: is putting your bit. Just her that want to be

2786
02:04:50,200 --> 02:04:55,560
Speaker 3: your friend. Hello, get over the other one. I'm your cousin.

2787
02:04:57,520 --> 02:04:59,160
Speaker 2: Let us know what you got going on, what you

2788
02:04:59,240 --> 02:05:01,400
Speaker 2: got coming up? Everything, Where they can find you at

2789
02:05:01,520 --> 02:05:03,640
Speaker 2: X y Z because we went away all the time.

2790
02:05:03,640 --> 02:05:07,560
Speaker 1: We was just a chatting. We had girl talk talk.

2791
02:05:08,120 --> 02:05:09,760
Speaker 1: Blame it all on top.

2792
02:05:09,920 --> 02:05:10,520
Speaker 2: This is fun.

2793
02:05:10,560 --> 02:05:12,560
Speaker 3: Where we can find you at is ya can y'all

2794
02:05:12,560 --> 02:05:14,320
Speaker 3: can find me on all platforms to add big vos

2795
02:05:14,400 --> 02:05:16,200
Speaker 3: beve b I G B O is is v E

2796
02:05:16,280 --> 02:05:19,720
Speaker 3: T t E. You know, sometimes I'm serious, sometimes I'm funny,

2797
02:05:19,760 --> 02:05:21,840
Speaker 3: and sometimes you know, I'm big boss.

2798
02:05:21,880 --> 02:05:22,080
Speaker 2: Bet.

2799
02:05:22,080 --> 02:05:23,280
Speaker 1: You know, it's just different, you know.

2800
02:05:23,680 --> 02:05:23,920
Speaker 2: Yeah.

2801
02:05:25,280 --> 02:05:26,960
Speaker 3: Also, you know I got a EP dropping on on

2802
02:05:27,080 --> 02:05:31,240
Speaker 3: the twenty. I gotta e police bad about gonna shake ash.

2803
02:05:31,240 --> 02:05:33,600
Speaker 3: You're gonna have fun. Couldn't be skates, can be food,

2804
02:05:33,640 --> 02:05:36,800
Speaker 3: It's gonna be big boss, be everything all around. And yeah,

2805
02:05:36,920 --> 02:05:38,880
Speaker 3: you know, like I'm just one gene when this bitch

2806
02:05:39,040 --> 02:05:40,560
Speaker 3: is gonna win in this game. You know, I'm not

2807
02:05:40,600 --> 02:05:43,000
Speaker 3: fucking with the politics. We're gonna do what we do period.

2808
02:05:43,280 --> 02:05:45,400
Speaker 1: And I love that about you. Thank you so much

2809
02:05:45,440 --> 02:05:45,960
Speaker 1: for pulling.

2810
02:05:47,800 --> 02:05:47,840
Speaker 4: This.

2811
02:05:48,960 --> 02:05:50,800
Speaker 1: No, this was like real girl talk, like we had

2812
02:05:50,880 --> 02:05:52,400
Speaker 1: girl talk therapy.

2813
02:05:52,640 --> 02:05:56,720
Speaker 2: We laid I didn't cry today for the first time.

2814
02:05:57,040 --> 02:06:01,240
Speaker 2: I didn't. I didn't. Okay, have a good CRI session.

2815
02:06:01,680 --> 02:06:04,960
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2820
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Speaker 4: Come on, man, I'm agreed, and this is the family business.

2839
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Speaker 4: I'm playing English. You know what time it is. I'm

2840
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Speaker 4: money bag my feeling. We're doing perks in the VI

2841
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Speaker 4: P Man. You got no, you gotta talking about the

2842
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Speaker 4: show for you don't go. I tell you all first.

2843
02:07:24,720 --> 02:07:27,960
Speaker 4: I told first Family Business Tour. You know what it is.

2844
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Speaker 6: Tickets eighty five South shot down. You get the tickets

2845
02:07:32,480 --> 02:07:33,800
Speaker 6: for the meet and Greek afterwards.

2846
02:07:33,880 --> 02:07:35,840
Speaker 4: And you know it's not gonna be no regular It's

2847
02:07:35,880 --> 02:07:38,000
Speaker 4: gonna be the freaking ship you ever seen in your

2848
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Speaker 4: law popping perk.

2849
02:07:39,720 --> 02:07:42,720
Speaker 6: No, no, no, ladies, ladies, just come to the meet

2850
02:07:42,720 --> 02:07:44,720
Speaker 6: and Greek and it's really gonna be a greeting meet.

2851
02:07:44,800 --> 02:07:49,200
Speaker 4: It ain't just for hu. It's gonna be agreed playing.

2852
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Speaker 6: Now come back there to the VI I P to

2853
02:07:51,200 --> 02:07:54,680
Speaker 6: meet and Greek man family right, we're playing spains in there,

2854
02:07:55,000 --> 02:07:58,520
Speaker 6: don't know, drinking, planning liquors, the Family Business Tour. And

2855
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Speaker 6: what money Bag does is separate. He's more like an

2856
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Speaker 6: independent contract.

2857
02:08:06,160 --> 02:08:09,000
Speaker 4: I'm so we are not and he loves you.

2858
02:08:09,720 --> 02:08:12,160
Speaker 1: He needs to show you up and he loves you.

2859
02:08:12,880 --> 02:08:17,200
Speaker 1: I just feel like, who can't take you from all

2860
02:08:17,320 --> 02:08:18,480
Speaker 1: the things you see?

2861
02:08:20,080 --> 02:08:23,280
Speaker 2: And then if you trusted me, I ain't been there

2862
02:08:23,520 --> 02:08:29,120
Speaker 2: for anything. You need give it out to me, baby,

2863
02:08:29,280 --> 02:08:31,920
Speaker 2: by no sure rhyme from me.

2864
02:08:32,080 --> 02:08:36,040
Speaker 7: You babe bye, I'll give you every little piece of

2865
02:08:36,400 --> 02:08:40,520
Speaker 7: y'all better know the worldly leave leave RESI no, you

2866
02:08:40,640 --> 02:08:43,320
Speaker 7: know you've seen a lot of time for y'all, like,

2867
02:08:44,080 --> 02:08:45,960
Speaker 7: got you feeling like a cave?

2868
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Speaker 1: Be right, I won't hurt you. I'm down for you, baby,

2869
02:08:52,320 --> 02:08:52,640
Speaker 1: I know.

2870
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Speaker 2: You see, I know you've seen a lot of ye

2871
02:08:56,880 --> 02:09:00,400
Speaker 2: like yeah, got you feeling like this cake? Be right.

2872
02:09:01,080 --> 02:09:02,280
Speaker 2: I'm all hurt you.

2873
02:09:03,160 --> 02:09:07,960
Speaker 1: I'm down for your baby, down for you. Well, let

2874
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Speaker 1: me show you alone. Be easy you just leady, be lady, promise,

2875
02:09:16,000 --> 02:09:21,480
Speaker 1: but I believe it. You give me everything, press I'm

2876
02:09:21,560 --> 02:09:26,200
Speaker 1: I give you everything is God. I got down to you,

2877
02:09:26,440 --> 02:09:34,680
Speaker 1: Caddy right right us and love God, love baby. I

2878
02:09:34,920 --> 02:09:44,160
Speaker 1: know a lot of me, but I'm all hurdle. I'm

2879
02:09:44,320 --> 02:09:50,800
Speaker 1: down for your baby. I've seen a lot of your

2880
02:09:52,720 --> 02:09:53,840
Speaker 1: feeling like the hit.

2881
02:09:54,040 --> 02:09:56,680
Speaker 2: Be alright, I won't hurt you.

2882
02:09:57,520 --> 02:09:59,160
Speaker 1: I'm down for your baby.

2883
02:10:00,560 --> 02:10:01,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, for you.

2884
02:10:01,520 --> 02:10:03,640
Speaker 1: You'll know how they have to be. I trust you.

2885
02:10:04,360 --> 02:10:06,920
Speaker 1: I love I want.

2886
02:10:09,000 --> 02:10:13,160
Speaker 8: Baby Iry Halbrey Hollid Lie.

2887
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Speaker 7: You know.

2888
02:10:22,600 --> 02:10:26,480
Speaker 1: Baby Iry Harby who like.

2889
02:10:27,880 --> 02:10:42,440
Speaker 8: The same without you? No, you see that woman.

2890
02:10:44,200 --> 02:10:45,320
Speaker 1: Right, You'll know how to be.

2891
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Speaker 2: Y'all know how to be having the Beavers concerts and

2892
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Speaker 2: everybody be trying to.

2893
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Speaker 1: Down big up who I was about to be.

2894
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Speaker 2: I'm feel good.

2895
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Speaker 7: As a playing and you're like, y'all lie you lie,

2896
02:11:00,680 --> 02:11:06,400
Speaker 7: you'll why baby no, like you're.

2897
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Speaker 2: A way to baby?

2898
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Speaker 4: No?

2899
02:11:11,400 --> 02:11:11,960
Speaker 2: You want?

2900
02:11:12,520 --> 02:11:13,520
Speaker 4: I know I won't.

2901
02:11:15,960 --> 02:11:21,520
Speaker 1: Okay, see hello and your lie your life?

2902
02:11:22,320 --> 02:11:23,120
Speaker 8: I want word?

2903
02:11:23,120 --> 02:11:24,360
Speaker 1: It's a baby?

2904
02:11:24,680 --> 02:11:26,400
Speaker 2: No, ain't you.

2905
02:11:29,680 --> 02:11:31,720
Speaker 1: I know your baby bab?

2906
02:11:33,320 --> 02:11:34,720
Speaker 2: Do you guys say love your baby? No?

2907
02:11:34,920 --> 02:11:36,000
Speaker 4: No, no, no

2908
02:11:41,640 --> 02:11:51,200
Speaker 1: Tail laugh, don't make me drop that guy